How well I remember all of this from 2003 with my mama...it is a physically, mentally, emotionally exhausting experience..,my brother got off of work to help me visit the various facilities that had rooms. Just as you know, God closes doors at those places with no vacancy, slow communication, etc.
Having long term care $ is also a blessing...May these answers from our Lord strengthen and give you hope for the future that He has planned for Mrs.White