I still can't come to terms with Debbie's passing. She wrote to me just before going to the hospital... she posted a picture of my quilt which she guided me in creating on her blog - and it was her last entry... that's how I found this site... She was going to put some fabrics together for me when she gets better so I can built my stash for making watercolor quilts... and the next thing I knew she was gone... I still have a hard time with this... and I'm a total stranger. My most supportive thoughts for you Russ... I know everybody says it - one day at a time... I just noticed - this comes with my husband's name - I am Irina

Russ, I cannot begin to know how you feel these days. I only know that I can continue to pray for you & Deana for strength & comfort that only God can provide. I do have to say that because of your post this evening you have helped me. I take a lot of things for granted that my husband does & now (while I still have the time) I will pay more attention to what, how & why he does things that I'm not all that familiar with. He is the "talker" in our family & so I have learned a lot from him. He generally always tells me why he does something but now I feel like I should pay more attention & absorb what he is telling me. We are both nearing our 80's so we need to try to be prepared. Your telling us about your changes in life has helped me to try to prepare more. Thank you!

Russ, I am sure it is a lonely road without Debbie. She did appreciate all the small wonders and joys. You and your days are in my prayers for peace, perseverance and hope. I can't imagine what it is like for you.

I'm sure it is a difficult time. Just keep taking it one step at a time. I'm still praying for you, and will continue to do so.

Russ, I can only imagine how difficult it is. Those little things are the ones that can throw you if you let them.
I am glad Debbie imparted some of her cooking knowledge to you. Don't fret about getting it "perfect" for now....just make it good and keep yourself fed and going.
It is okay to cry, scream or just curl up in a ball....but you have to get back up and keep going. Debbie is gone from this earthly plain, but she is always with you and a part of you now.
peace to you.