So sorry to hear all you are going through but sounds like you have done all your homework. We will keep you in our prayers and hope all works out as hoped for.
It concerned me when you were talking about 'biking miles near Chicago' - I wish other communities would make a way for people traveling by bike safer.... even with those 'lanes' take care .. you never know when a vehicle might veer into you! Keep up the good work! Hugs - love - prayers... Janet