Danielle did not waste her cancer, and neither did you, Keith. God bless you for allowing us on this journey with you. That was a choice, and it was brave. God indeed used it for good. He is the Great Redeemer.
Keith, when we heard you speaking about Danielle and your journey together, we never imagined the sense of comfort we would receive from your words. I remember thinking - shouldn’t we be bringing comfort on this day? Instead we we were once again receiving comfort. We are in awe of that, and in awe of how you and Danielle chose how to navigate the most difficult of all paths. We will always hold you both in the highest regard.
Keith, your perspective, humility and heart have helped us all find comfort and meaning throughout this terrible and tragic journey for our friend, you, and your family. Hearing you speak these words - the forethought, the depth and the honesty - was so comforting, and your ability to do so given all you are going through was truly remarkable. I am in awe of your strength and commitment in honor of Danielle 💜
Keith,
This is so eloquently written. Everything you wrote is so beautiful and I believe Danielle felt that way. She was obviously very lucky to have you in her life as were you to have her. As much sense as everything made, I still think I will ask why? every single day. I have asked that question since I found out about Danielle’s cancer because even with everything you wrote about, it still does not make sense to me. I had Latin class with her all four years of high school and got together a few times after college with our children at play dates. Like you said, there was an undeniable friendly impression that Danielle gave off that I always felt lucky to have met her and call her a friend. You and your entire family will continue to always be in my thoughts.
Sending love,
Lisa Balighian Najafi and family.
Martha Schwieters