David’s Story

Site created on November 23, 2020

Hi, this is Tommy McKenna, Daisy's brother, and I have never met a more caring and loving person than my brother; in his 62 years on this earth, I don't believe he has made a single enemy.
 

 

First, I want to thank Tommy Creswell for creating this page for friends and family to post words of love and encouragement during this challenging time.  Tommy has been a member of our family for as long as I can remember.  My dad was transferred with his job when Daisy was a senior in high school, and the Creswell's took him in for the better part of a year until he graduated; no questions asked.

 

For those of you who don't know the story behind the name Daisy, here it is: 

When David and I were young, we hated to go to the barbershop with a passion, so our mother Eloise went out and bought a pair of electric clippers and a medium-sized bowl.  Our hair was straight as an arrow, and Eloise would put the bowl on our head and cut everything hanging out, quick and easy, and everybody was happy.  We didn't have to leave home, and Eloise saved quite a bit of money in the meantime.

Several years later, we outgrew the bowl haircuts and decided to visit a local stylist to upgrade our persona.  When David returned from his first visit to the style shop, his hair was all curled up, and he looked like Shirley Temple.  I don't remember the first person who saw his new look; I think it was Jodie Martin.  Jodie stared at David for a minute and, with an uncontrollable laugh, blurted out "DAISY," and the rest is history.

 


Daisy's Situation:



Daisy noticed a small lump on his neck below his ear in early August and didn't overthink it as these things tend to appear periodically in our lives.  Over the next couple of weeks, the area started getting bigger and causing irritation, so he visited the doctor for an examination.  The doctor performed an evaluation and called for a biopsy, which returned positive for the Parotid Gland Cancer. 

The Parotid glands are two salivary glands that sit in front of the ears on each side of the face.  Salivary glands produce saliva to aid in chewing and digesting food.

Parotid gland - Wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parotid_gland)



Treating Parotid Cancer typically requires removing the tumor and then administering chemotherapy, radiation, or a combination of both, depending on the circumstances.  The surgery to remove the cancer is challenging because the main facial nerve runs through the gland, and the surgery can take as long as fourteen hours with up to four doctors in the room.

Parotid tumors - Overview - Mayo Clinic (https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/parotid-tumor/cdc-20388269)

On Monday, October 12th, Daisy met with Dr. James Netterville with Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville for his evaluation.  Dr. Netterville is known nationally as one of the leading experts in his field, and Daisy is blessed to have him on his side.

James L. Netterville, MD | Vanderbilt Health Nashville, TN (https://search.vanderbilthealth.com/doctors/netterville-james)

Daisy's condition today:

Daisy's evaluation with Dr. Nettervile determined that it would be best to shrink the tumor first before removal because of its size and location.  The action plan includes seven chemotherapy injections, once a week every Monday for seven weeks, and radiation treatment five days a week for seven weeks.  He is in his fourth week of therapy, and as most of you know, this treatment can put a strain on even the healthiest among us.  He has all but lost his appetite and struggles to keep his platelet count high enough to continue on his regime.

Daisy is a fighter, and I have no doubt he will win this battle.  I ask that anyone who visits this site please include Daisy in your prayers and add a note of encouragement.

I love Daisy with all my heart and can't wait for him to kick my butt again  on the golf course as he always does!

Thank you, and God Bless!

Newest Update

Journal entry by Tom McKenna

Hello all,

I'm sorry for not updating this in a while, I have been busy at work and on vacation.  Brittney has added several updates which I have included in this post.  Thanks to everyone for your continued prayers and support for Daisy!

God bless!

Tommy

In case you don't have the link to Brittney's site:

 

David | CaringBridge

  June 10, 2021

Journal entry by Brittney McKenna — 3 hours ago

Hi everyone. I hope you're all doing well.

We finally got a diagnosis for Dad's stomach issues yesterday. Dr. Yates, a gastroenterologist, came by to tell us that Dad has gastroparesis, a condition common in diabetics that causes paralysis in the muscles of the stomach. Without the function of those muscles, the stomach can't push food out for proper digestion, which causes nausea, vomiting and weight loss. They were able to reach this diagnosis via an endoscopy performed on Tuesday.

This morning, Dr. Yates performed a short procedure to re-route Dad's feeding tube (which previously went directly into his stomach) into his small intestine. This way, Dad will still receive nutrition via his tube but it will bypass his stomach and, if all goes according to plan, alleviate his nausea. Already having a feeding tube in place made this a simple, painless procedure and Dad is already back in his room sleeping.

Dr. Yates said that we would discuss next steps once Dad regained some strength and weight, and that we would figure out a plan for him to begin eating normally again. Gastroparesis has no "cure" but can be treated with various medications and/or small surgeries. Right now, we are all just thrilled to know that Dad will finally get relief from his nausea - when he got the news yesterday, he gave the doctor one of the biggest smiles I've seen from him in weeks!

Please accept our sincere thanks again to everyone who sent Dad videos, cards, gifts and well wishes for his birthday. He was able to watch the full video compilation yesterday (he'd felt too sick on his actual birthday to watch it), and feeling the love and support of his friends and family put another big smile on his face (and may have inspired some happy tears, too). We're already looking forward to June 6, 2022, when we can celebrate Dad's 64th birthday outside of a hospital and with all of you!

We still don't have a discharge date for Dad, but once we do I will post here. In the meantime, thank you for your continued love and support.

 
 
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June 4, 2021
Journal Entry by Brittney McKenna — June 4, 2021

Hi everyone. Happy Friday!

A few quick updates on Dad. He is still at Memorial and we do not have a discharge date yet. When he is discharged, he will move to Soddy-Daisy Healthcare Center, where we will focus on getting his bedsore healed and getting him back into good shape for physical therapy. My cousin Nicole is a speech language pathologist there and she has already told the entire staff that Dad is coming, and they're looking forward to having him and caring for him. We're so grateful that she will be there and for all of the help and information she's given us! I'll post here when we find out when Dad is moving.

Dad is still making slow but positive progress at Memorial. His stomach is beginning to settle and he's trying to resume eating regularly again. His UTI is healing and his energy level has improved. His bedsore is healing, too, though his care team has let us know it will be a long time before it fully heals. A wound care doctor came to see Dad earlier this week to work on the wound and also updated orders for dressing and medicating the wound. He believes it will take several months for the wound to heal fully and that will be a major focus of our efforts to get Dad well.

Finally, thank you so much to everyone who has submitted birthday videos for Dad. We would love to get as many as possible, and I will be collecting them through end of day tomorrow (Saturday, 6/5). You can upload your videos here - https://www.tribute.co/david-daisy-mckenna/

If for some reason the web site doesn't work for you, you are also welcome to film a short (15-30 second) video on your phone and text it to me at 423.580.0825 - just let me know your name when sending the video in case I don't have your number saved. Please pass the link along to anyone you think would like to send Dad birthday wishes - the more videos we can get, the better! Dad really needs as much positivity and motivation as he can get right now, and your participation means the world to all of us. And for anyone who would like to mail a birthday card, you can send them to the address at the bottom of this post.

Thank you for reading and for your continued support!

David McKenna

6506 Prestwick Lane
Hixson, TN 37343

    Daisy's birthday!
Journal Entry by Brittney McKenna — June 2, 2021

Hi everyone! I hope all of you are having a good week.

As I mentioned in my last post, Dad's birthday is this Sunday. It's likely that he will still be in the hospital on his birthday, and to make the day more special we are collecting video messages for him via Tribute. All you have to do to participate is click the link below and record a short message using your phone or computer. I will compile all of the individual videos into one big video and give it to him on his birthday.

The deadline to contribute is this Saturday (6/5), which I know is short notice. If any of you would like to pass the link along to friends and loved ones who aren't on CaringBridge, we would appreciate it so much! Let me know in the comments on this post if you have any questions.

Link: https://www.tribute.co/david-daisy-mckenna/

Thank you all very much! Let's make Sunday an extra special day for Daisy!

 

 

 

 

May 31, 2021

Journal Entry by Brittney McKenna — May 31, 2021
Hi everyone, happy Memorial Day.
 
As some of you likely know, Dad was admitted to Memorial Hospital on Wednesday of last week. He is being treated for a UTI, bowel impaction and a bed sore. He is slowly but surely healing and regaining his strength and will likely be here for a few more days. Upon his discharge, he will not be returning to Life Care in East Ridge.
 
That said, those of you who still wish to send him cards can do so to my parents’ home. I put their address at the end of this post.
 
Dad will celebrate his 63rd birthday this Sunday, June 6th. It’s been an especially difficult couple of weeks for him and I know it would mean a lot to him and cheer him up to receive birthday cards or well wishes. We will make sure he gets them.
 
I will post here when we know more about his release from the hospital, and will also provided updated information about his new care facility. 
 
We are sincerely grateful to all of you who have checked in, sent cards and offered well wishes during what’s been another tough stretch for all of us. 
 
David McKenna
6506 Prestwick Lane
Hixson, TN 37343
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