Christian’s Story

Site created on April 7, 2020


Hi Family & Friends - we are using this site to keep you all updated on sweet Christian and the recent diagnosis that was given to Justin & Melissa. They are getting information frequently and we wanted to make sure we could find a way to keep everyone updated without inundating them both or having details get misconstrued during the game of telephone.

On April 6, 2020 Christian went in for his 4-month well child visit and came out with some pretty crushing news, news no parent ever wants to hear about their child. Christian has Retinoblastoma in both of his eyes, this is a rare form of eye cancer primarily in children. 

A little background to the situation, prior to Christian's appointment Justin had sent Melissa a picture of Christian in early March (the picture in the gallery with the gray sleeper with stars) and Melissa immediately noticed that one pupil was white but initially brushed it off. Two weeks after this photo, it came up again in a photo that was used with the flash feature (St. Patrick's Day). From that day, Melissa has been closely watching the situation hoping it was nothing. While the pandemic of COVID-19 is upon us many appointments are getting cancelled or pushed to protect individuals from being exposed but Melissa knew that they needed to keep his well-check appointment to get this situation checked out. It didn't take the doctor more than a few seconds to check out his eyes and immediately get them into a pediatric ophthalmologist who was able to see them later that same day. Mommy instinct is a real thing and Melissa trusted her gut on this one - way to go Mom!

A little history on Retinoblastoma for the Helfrich's - unfortunately, Melissa's biological father had this same cancer when he was young and by the age of one had lost both eyes completely. Melissa has always been aware of this and always been a bit more cautious of eyes knowing she has this in her history; hence the pushing to keep Christian's appointment after she noticed something just wasn't right. Just as of yesterday, Melissa and Justin learned more about what this means for them. Due to the fact that Christian has it in both eyes, not just one, makes the probability of this being hereditary much higher and likely due to the RB1 gene. More than likely, Melissa is a 'carrier' of the RB1 gene and was lucky enough not to have affected. RB1 is not just an eye cancer, but one that is more specific to children - this means that Nicholas may also be at risk of Melissa is truly a 'carrier' of the RB1 gene. They will also be connecting with a genetic counselor to do more testing and determine what that means and what risk this could mean for Nicholas since he's still so young (just turned 2 in February of this year). 

This is a nightmare for any parent, but one that Melissa has always been fearful of.

Some of you may be wondering how they know this is cancer being they haven't yet seen the oncologist and had all the testing that is scheduled for Friday. Due to Melissa's history and the known details of Retinoblastoma in children leads the doctors to know it's cancer|tumors because there is no other reason that these white masses (aka tumors) show up in the eyes at this young of an age. As the doctor said - this is one that if it 'walks like a duck and talks like a duck; it's a duck'.

This is all very new so Melissa and Justin are doing their very best to get up to speed with what this means, they've had numerous conversations already with their pediatrician, pediatric ophthalmologist and finally a pediatric oncologist; the last being a conversation no parent wants to have. They have many, many more conversations ahead of them.

Here is what they currently know - Christian has a larger tumor in his left eye and a smaller one in his right. On Friday of this week, they are headed to Children's Denver to put some of the best doctors and nurses to work to get some more answers. While there, Christian will get a Exam Under Anesthesia (EUA) and hopefully a MRI of his eyes and his brain.

Retinoblastoma is an aggressive form of cancer so, while they don't know yet what his treatment plan is going to be and what it's going to look like - those will be the next conversations that come from his upcoming appointments.  


So far, this hasn't seemed to have phased Christian (thank heavens) and he is still his happy, smiley self -- of course unless he is hungry, has a poopy diaper or just needs some attention from Mom and Dad.

Please lift Christian, Justin, Melissa and Nicholas up in your thoughts and prayers - every ounce is needed at this time. Please pray for healing for sweet Christian, please pray for his Doctors and Nurses so that they might take the best care of Christian, please pray for Melissa & Justin that they can be strong, please pray for Nicholas as his family goes through these difficult times and that he is protected from this horrible disease, please pray for positive test results, and the list goes on.

I will do my very best to keep this as updated as possible on behalf of Justin & Melissa as they navigate these tough waters - you'll likely see updates from them as well.

As Melissa said - new goal for 2020 is to do all they can so Christian can come out of this with 2020 vision.



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Newest Update

Journal entry by Sarah Leathers

Hi Everyone! Hope everyone is doing well and enjoying the beginnings of summer!

This past week we celebrated World Retinoblastoma Week – so a great time for an update on how Christian is doing!

Christian has had some appointments this past Spring and good news is continuing to pop up!

March 2022 – Christian went in for his follow-up EUA and MRI, last update we mentioned he was probably good to start in-office appointments and skip going under for EUA’s however, as he was already due for an MRI in March they figured may as well do the EUA as well and make sure all checked out. Good news all around – everything is clear! This means it’s been about 9 (now 10 ) months of true remission! Huge blessing here!

As Christian has gotten older he is much more aware of what it means when he heads to the hospital and he heads into these procedures. As a parent, having to watch your child go through something like this is heartbreaking. This time however, the transition was a much better experience. Melissa was actually able to go back with Christian as they prepped him and put him under, not just preparing him to go back. Child life services also came in to help ease Christian as well. Getting older also doesn’t mean you are the first patient of the day – this may not seem like a huge deal but…getting put under means you aren’t able to eat until after your procedure. Trying explaining that to a toddler and managing that toddler – a hangry toddler at that!

Strabismus – last update we also mentioned that Christian was going to need a procedure to help fix the strabismus he has in his eyes as a result of his diagnosis. After much scheduling and working out details the surgery has been determined will happen this coming July. This surgery will fix the alignment of his muscles in his left eye. He will have a bit of down time following surgery but for the most part will be back to his normal self in no time! He’ll have a few weeks of no swimming but otherwise, a fairly manageable recovery.

Of course, Melissa being who she is, she researched the surgery and post surgery recovery – safe to say, she found some pretty intense and interesting contraptions that children are required to wear following surgery. Thankfully enough – she won’t have to worry about that as Christian won’t need any of those for his recovery.

Part of the reason for the July scheduling was for swimming lessons to be over BUT a bigger part is that in June Christian will go in for his first in-office RB check with Dr. Oliver. Since Christian already had a chance to do an in-office visit there is no concern he won’t be able to handle this appointment – he rocked the first one back in November! However, should anything seem off or need further attention – it will allow an EUA to be done in July when he’s already under for his Strabismus surgery. Christian has already been put under for surgeries and procedures a decent amount of time, limiting that is definitely something the doctors (and his parents) would like for him.

His next EUA + MRI will now continue to be in 6 months, this coming September 2022.

Christian has continued to love going to school each day and recently moved up to a new classroom! He continues to have Vision Services who have been great at coming into Christians surroundings, such as a new classroom in school, and pointing out trip and tricks to the staff and teachers that will make his everyday learning and play easier. Little things – things that the normal person would not think about. Things such as having Christian sit at the front of his friends (on the left side) for circle time. This allows him to be introduced to new things predominantly on his right side where he has the best vision. Recently Christian has given them signs that he’s sensitive to light | sunlight so also placing his seat assignment in his classroom away from the door | windows to eliminate irritation and irritability from the bright light. Maybe time for some new prescription sunglasses!

Next up – POTTY TRAINING! Wish Mom and Dad luck 😊

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