First of all, thank you all for your prayers for Bob and for our family. It has been quite a roller coaster ride the last two weeks. Bob had his first colonoscopy June 26 and was found to have a large tumor in his rectum. Biopsy showed that the tumor was cancerous. Further tests showed that the tumor was most likely stage one or two, so that if it was removed, chemo, at this point, is not indicated.
Bob goes into surgery at 12:30 tomorrow, July 17th, which is also our youngest son, Tommy's 10th birthday and the 8th anniversary of my mother's death. He will be at Baptist East and Dr. Allen is his surgeon. She is very highly regarded in this field, so we are very hopeful of a good outcome.
One of the reasons this came as such a surprise is that Bob has no risk factors for cancer...colon or otherwise. There is no family history, we eat well, grow many of our own vegetables, eat homecooked meals from locally raised meat. He exercises regularly, is not at all overweight, and is moderate in all ways.
Still, the ways of the Lord are not our ways and his plans are not our plans. We are all very grateful that the cancer was caught in time to hopefully cure through surgery, as painful and uncomfortable it may be.
Please continue to keep us in your prayers. I can feel the grace they have brought us every moment of every day. They lift our spirits and draw us together as family in the Body of Christ.
I have to say a word of absolute gratitude to the children God has blessed us with. From Joe and Elise who have put their moving plans on hold to little Tommy who was unfazed that his birthday celebration would have to wait. The generous actions of Mary who made dinners for the week to Maggie and Theresa filling in the gaps of running kids around and making sure they get where they need to be. All the girls, including Elizabeth, now in Atlanta, stepping up to fulfill my obligations with Little Flowers Camps, is also such a blessing and relief.
Surgery is scheduled at 12:30 tomorrow, July 17 at Baptist East. It is expected to last 5 hours. It will be done in three phases: removal of the tumor and surrounding section, a resection, an a temporary ileostomy until the resection heals. After 6 weeks or so, the ileostomy will be reversed in another surgery.
Thank you again for your prayers! God bless you all.