Debbie’s Story

Site created on November 15, 2018

 In 1995 Deb was diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma in her right check, following which she received radiation.  After several rounds of treatment that year God performed a miracle and she was declared cancer free; the doctors even told her that it was like she never had cancer at all. Ken & Deb were told at the time that she was the first person with that type of cancer to survive it.  For the last 23 years she had remained cancer free.

That changed when on November 13, 2018 Debbie received a diagnosis of squamous cell carcinoma on the right side her mouth. It is a different form of cancer than what she had before and the biopsy shows that it is in the muscle and the bone of her upper jaw.  This cancer is a direct result of the radiation treatments she received in 1995.

She met with an oncologist in Amarillo on November 14th and he referred her to specialists at MD Anderson, one of the country's leading cancer treatment facilities, in Houston, Texas to receive further treatment.  She and Ken will head to Houston for her first appointment on November 21st.  Once there they will begin meeting with her team of doctors who will conduct various tests and imaging scans to determine the location and severity of her cancer and then discuss treatment options.

Currently that is all the information we have, we will know more once Ken & Deb go to Houston. We (Deb's kids) will be updating this site as often as we can to keep everyone informed. 

Please feel free to leave a Well Wish on the tab above. Prayers and well wishes will help a ton during this time.  If you would prefer to send cards or gifts or anything to help lift Debbie's spirits please send an e-mail to alisamarie09@gmail.com and we will provide you with the information on where to send it. Thank you all for following along and for the prayers and encouragement as she faces this fight. 

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Journal entry by Alisa Paul

A Note From Dad

Today is a big day for my precious friend. Preparing for big days can often be daunting. Grocery shopping for large numbers of family and friends, making sure we send out invitations and don’t forget anybody.  Weddings, birthdays, Christmas, graduation and one of my favorites the birth of a child.  Deb and I have had the blessing of all of those big days and look forward to those big days ahead of us.  Today is a big day but not one we have been looking forward to.  
 
Today is Chemo day for Deb, this will be the second round of chemo and she will have had 18 rounds of radiation by the time 2:00 rolls around and 6 hours of cobra venom and drain-o are pumped into her in the hopes that it will kill the remaining cancer cells that have turned her world upside down.  We will begin the day at 7:00 with a delicious hotel breakfast and then we will head to the hospital.  She has a hearing test at 8:30, blood draw at 9:45, radiation at 10:45, meeting with the chemo doctor at 11:30, appointment with the surgeon is at 12:15 and finally chemo at 2:00 - 9:00. I think today will be a good day for us to hold tightly to Gods word and His promises.

Philippians 4:6-7 New King James Version (NKJV)
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Deb is wonderful and amazing, she is stronger than an NFL lineman.  I am humbled every day as I watch her battle. The inside of her mouth is raw from radiation, her throat is covered in sores and her beautiful hair has begun to fall out from the last round of chemo.  Some days she is able to eat small amounts of soft food but only if she works real hard at stretching her mouth with that awful tool 25-30 times a day. Through all of this she is the most charming I have ever seen her.  She is the lady in the waiting room cheering when the bell is rung signaling another patients completion of radiation treatments.  She is the one thanking the nurses and staff for working so hard.  She is the one thanking the staff at the hotel for making our breakfast and cleaning our room.  In my opinion – she is the one.
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