Bill’s Story

Site created on June 12, 2018

On June 12th, my cousin and best friend, Bill, received a shocking and unexpected diagnosis of cancer, at the age of 30.

Bill has spent the last 4 weeks in pain and abdominal discomfort . After many doctors appointments and tests, Bill was diagnosed with Malignant Neoplasm in the groin region, which doctors believe has since spread to his abdominal lymph nodes.

Bill's surgery is scheduled on Thursday, June 14th at Maple Grove Hospital for removal of the cancer-affected areas. In the coming weeks we hope to have a clearer picture of Bill's therapy options and overall prognosis, whether or not it involves additional medical procedures, medications, or chemotherapy.

Obviously this has been difficult news for Bill and our entire family. As his cousin, I am trying to help ease any burden on Bill and his immediate family by setting up a Caring Bridge page to raise funds for his upcoming medical bills. This page will also serve as a hub for his journey through therapy, his prognosis updates, and for friends/family to leave words of encouragement :)

As most of us know, treatment for cancer is not cheap. Bill will need all the support he can get throughout this. I have put a placeholder amount of $20,000 USD to help cover Bill's incoming medical expenses. As of right now, said expenses have not yet begun to accumulate. The amount of $20,000 is a rough estimate.

Any and all donations will be used solely for the purpose of alleviating Bill's financial burden throughout his cancer journey. This includes charges incurred for Bill's hospital stays, any surgeries, procedures, therapies, and follow-ups related to his cancer treatment, as well as funds to assist with Bill's monthly rent and car payments. We are hoping to meet our goal of $20,000 by late summer, depending on his prognosis and treatment plan.

Even if you are unable to donate to his medical relief fund, there are still other ways to make a big difference in Billy's life. Words of encouragement/verbal support, planned visits and outings, small errands, and little gifts or supplies are appreciated.

I will be looking into other means of financial assistance through cancer organizations such as: Lymphoma Foundation of America, American Cancer Society, CancerCare, Cancer Support Community, and Livestrong.

Your love and support means the world to Billy and our family during this time.

With Gratitude,
Leilani

Newest Update

Journal entry by Leilani Wayt

Hi Friends and Family,

 

DeVawn asked me to share this letter update from the Bollinger family:



Blessings of this glorious season to you all!
 Here’s a quick look back at 2018 for our family.


The beginning of the year found our family in good health and looking forward to the joys of a new year. DeVawn was spending her next 6 months working for the school district and Bill was entering his 6th year at Costco. Our son Bill was starting another year with his employer, Clifton Larson Allen in Minneapolis and our daughter April was joyfully taking on the role of step mom to 2 wonderful children back here in Brainerd. As the year progressed to June, DeVawn happily retired from the district where she spent 22 fulfilled years as a special education assistant. The family hosted a wonderful retirement party June 6th,  that many family and friends attended. Herein lays a heartfelt thank you to those of you who came and celebrated this joyous event!

 

Only days afterward we heard news that stopped us in our tracks. Our son Bill, had been diagnosed with testicular cancer. The months to come were filled with many emotions and time spent with him while he underwent surgery and chemo to fight cancer. So many came to our son’s rescue, as well as ours, helping in numerous ways. Special thanks to our niece Leilani for creating the Caring Bridge and GoFundMe page and to all of you who so generously contributed to help with the many expenses he couldn’t have otherwise met. Many also donated locally which went to pay phone and car insurance on his behalf. I know I speak for all of the family when I say how thankful and grateful we are to all of you. Not to mention the wonderful people lifting us all up in prayers and positive thoughts. We know the worst of times brings out the best in loving people as yourselves!

 

Bill rang the bell on September 20th and even though he has many appointments over the next 5 years, we are encouraged by all his medical staff that he is cured!! He has returned to work and is doing well at the time of this letter. His sister April made many trips to the cities to spend time with her brother and helped keep the home fires burning back here when her dad and I couldn’t be here.

 

Now another school year has begun and our grandson has started Kindergarten and our granddaughter has started pre-school. Which means, Grandma Dee gets to enjoy the fun times at school, volunteering. Although I’m also back subbing a little too. Grandpa Bill still works during the school day but enjoys time spent with them out of school.

Now our daughter is preparing to move into a larger home with her family. Staying in the Brainerd area and enjoying family life! The future's looking brighter daily as we come to a close of this year. We wanted to take this time to say a very heartfelt thank you from all of us. Our prayer is that you all have a year filled with God’s grace and mercy in 2019.


May happiness and kindness fill your year to come!

Bill and DeVawn

 
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