Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Not much new with Ben.  Today two of the gratitude journal entries read:  "Grateful for helpful kids moving snow together" and "the kids patiently teaching origami" (that Ben once taught them).  Thank you for checking in.  Please stay well.

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Ben is still in a coma with no neurological changes.  For a few hours today he wore the collar that allows air in but encourages him to breathe out through his nose and mouth with the hope that he might make some sounds.  We are waiting.  Today we are grateful for video chatting with Ben and other friends.  Thank you for checking on Ben.

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Ben is still in a coma at St. Elias with no neurological changes.  It is so hard for his family to be away from him during this stressful and uncertain time.  Please keep them in your thoughts, prayers and hearts.  On the gratitude list today is the beautiful sunshine coming in through his new, big window.

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Ben is still in a coma at St. Elias Hospital with no neurological changes.  He was moved rooms today as he has been improving with breathing on his own and is not needing as high intensity work.  Part of this move is also because the hospital is preparing for COVID-19, so we are happy he is farther away from that area of the ICU.  It looks like therapy will continue for this week which is also positive news.  Ben's family has been recording books read aloud so they can share their voices with him for larger portions of the day.  We pray he hears them.  I know everyone's lives are very difficult right now; thank you for still checking in on Ben; 

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Ben is still in a coma with no neurological changes at St. Elias.  The hospital is closed to visitors so Nicki and the kids are making the best of the situation through video chatting at Ben when he is doing therapies.  There is some talk in this coronavirus climate that therapists might be non-essential health workers at the hospital, but we are hoping that Ben can continue therapies as it is during his sessions that we hope to see changes.  Alaska's businesses are "hunkering down" so Ben's family has been trying to get outdoors everyday and on the gratitude list today is the magnificent sunshine.  We are so grateful we still have this space to meet and share our love for Ben and his family.  Stay well.

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Today marks six weeks from Ben's accident and we were given this date as a time to assess his condition meaningfully.  Ben is still at St. Elias Hospital, in a coma and weaning off the ventilator by practicing daily trials on a trach collar.  While we have brain imaging that can be used as a rough guide, what the scans cannot tell us is how much and what effect the damage will have on Ben. This waiting has been very difficult, particularly when the outcome is so uncertain.  

We were hoping Ben would have emerged from the coma by now and are disappointed and troubled that hasn't happened.  We were also hoping to see more neurological changes than Ben has shown us.  The plan going forward now is to connect with Craig Hospital in Denver, Colorado at the advice of Ben's attending physician in St. Elias.  Craig is a specialty rehabilitation center for people with brain injuries and they see a much larger volume of patients in Ben's situation than St. Elias.  While it was hoped, and still is, that Ben would be able to be transferred down to Craig to recover some level of capability, he is not there.  The doctors at Craig are the experts in cases such as this and can offer recommendations on his future care.  Nicki has been told that such a review is still a few weeks out from happening.  So, we are still here, waiting with Ben and praying for the best.  

There has been an overwhelming abundance of love, for Ben, each other and all of us on the sidelines.  At best this will be a process lasting years and will have many stages, requiring endurance and flexibility throughout.  Ben's family cannot express their gratitude for your love that has overflowed its bounds and engulfed them, but would like to extend it anyways.  Thank you.

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

Ben is still in a coma at St. Elias Hospital with no neurological changes.  The therapists are trying to reteach him to exhale on his own so he can be given the chance to make sounds.  With a tracheotomy, air does not move past his vocal chords so we have not been able to see if he can respond vocally in some fashion.  They are doing this by means of an apparatus that allows him to breathe in through his tracheotomy site but encourages him to exhale through his mouth and/or nose.  Nicki was again able to check in with the nursing team at St. Elias and send Ben virtual love.  She and the kids were again able to be outside today, out at the Nature Center.  On the gratitude lists are spring animal tracks, good friends and loving family.  Thank you for checking on Ben today; we hold you in our hearts.

Journal entry by Wendy Gorski

On February 6, 2020 Ben was in a car accident.  He is in Providence's ICU in critical condition with head trauma and brain swelling.  He luckily has no broken bones but needs a completely calm environment with no stimuli.  We will know more 72 hours after the incident so right now the Schneider's need a lot of prayers.  Everyone is welcome to visit the waiting room but please be respectful of Nicki, Leo and Kaya.  You will not be able to see Ben and probably won't see Nicki.  Your love and support is what is buoying us all up and it means the world to the Schneider's.
Ben’s Story

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Ben's wife Nicki writes "I can't thank all of you sufficiently. But thank you. You are one of Ben's greatest gifts right now to my family, and I appreciate all that you are doing, and will do. I am truly grateful."

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On the morning of Thursday February 6, 2020 Ben was in a car accident.  

He is unconscious at Providence's ICU in critical condition with head trauma.  He luckily has no broken bones, but needs a completely calm environment with no stimuli.  

We will know more when he awakens, so right now the Schneiders need a lot of prayers, positive thoughts and love.