Becca’s Story

Site created on September 7, 2020

8-12-2020.  A day that would have been Mama Jo’s 93 birthday.  A day we all always recognize and to some degree celebrate (#) even though Mama Jo is gone, but she has always been the true epitome of a family matriarch:  loving, generous, silly, kind, gentle, creative, forgiving, devoted.   Somewhat unexpectedly, this milestone date has taken on a whole new meaning for our family for this is the date that mom was at Gateway Hospital having brain surgery to remove a small left temporal tumor.  As I waited with Becca in the hospital lobby, the call came in that made August 12 , 2020 char even deeper into my memory.  It was her doctor calling with the results of her recent breast biopsy:  invasive lobular cancer.  Age 43. Cancer.  Maybe it’s fitting that both of these significant life events happened on Mama Jo’s birthday because both Mom and Becca exude many of Mama Jo’s characteristics...This is where Becca’s journey with breast cancer (#) starts.  Please visit the journal pages to learn of updates and current treatment status. 

Anyone who knows Becca, knows that girl has spunk.  She is a fighter and will go after this cancer fully intending to kick some ass, but prayer warriors are needed.  Nobody can kick cancer’s ass alone.  Please add Becca to your prayers.  Prayers that she has the stamina and strength to fight, and prayers that the Lord would heal her.  Though we may not share our gratitude as often as we should, your support and prayers in this overwhelming time are deeply appreciated.  Meal train info for those who want to help that way:


https://www.mealtrain.com/trains/mnew29

Newest Update

New Year, Same Saga

Journal entry by Becca Manolov —

Eight used to be my lucky number. I am not so sure of that anymore. Today was my 8th surgery tied to my breast cancer journey which started September of 2020. After emergency surgery on Dec. 23 to remove, clean and replace my right implant, I was determined the new year was going to feel different. I was eager to start a new wellness program, shed some pounds, get stronger and participate in Dry January. I was motivated to get back to work full-time, reconnect with friends I haven’t seen in ages and plan a vacation or two. This setback is a reminder that God is in control and I must trust in his plan. Although I feel defeated and sad, I know this too shall pass.

A couple of months ago knowing I was having challenges with my reconstruction surgeries, Mom offered her breasts to me! I just love her giving heart so much. She has been gone two weeks now and I am in the grieving phase where I want to call her frequently, hear her voice and share a laugh. 

My friend, Jen, drove me today while others helped with the kids, sent food and offered prayers. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I do feel strong and resilient, however your love and kindness mean the world to me. Life would be so much harder without my amazing support system. 😘

This weekend I am missing out on my volunteer activities for the Championship Football Game. Roberta, Katie, Chelsea and others from our committee stepped right up to cover my tail and I am grateful. I can’t wait to see Indy shine in the national spotlight yet again. 🏈 

I now have a flattie (and an annoying JP drain) on the right side. They will test the bacteria and determine how long the wound needs to heal. We will decide next steps after that. So, although 2022 is not going how I had hoped, I do find comfort in one of mom’s favorite bible verses. 🙏🏻

Don’t worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. 

Philippians 4:6-7

❤️
Bec

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