Barb’s Story

Site created on April 25, 2019

Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement. Thank you for visiting.  On April 1st Mom went into the Hazen Clinic- she was having left sided weakness, numbness and pain in the back of head/neck and some slight subtle stumbling that she woke up with on Sunday morning.  She was thinking it was a pinched nerve or something. They did a CT scan and found out that she had a Mass of some sort in the spinal cord/brain stem.  She was transferred to Bismarck by ambulance where they did an MRI. Dr. Belanger (neurosurgeon) at Sanford informed us he was unable to do anything with it as the location and such were risky and rare.  He referred us to Mayo- We met with Dr. Ruff (neurologist) and Dr. Krauss (neurosurgeon) on April 8th.  We found out its a Central Nervous System Tumor. Either a astrocytoma or Ependymoma; unfortunately he was also not willing to do surgery as the location was not ideal and she needed someone else more specialized. He referred us to Dr. Fredric Meyer.  With the storm and schedules we met with him Wednesday April 24th and this journey began. Our options were shitty.  The location of the tumor is inside the spinal cord way up high by/in with the brain stem. The opening/cutting of the spinal cord area alone has huge risks for walking and motor function. The front of the tumor is pressed against the area that controls breathing and swallowing. Surgery has huge risks but it at least gives her a chance.  The other option was to not operate and he said the outcome was the same as surgery's worst case scenario and was a guarantee not if but when. She would slowly lose all function until it took her. As a family we decided she is so strong and tough and amazing and we needed to try.  Surgery Thursday April 25. 

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Journal entry by Becky skalsky

       Been a while since we wrote an update and unfortunately today we write with heavy hearts. Mom had her check up this week in Rochester. Her and Kt headed out on Sunday. She had MRI; pet scan and such on Monday. Tuesday she met with Rehab doctor- uneventful and then neurologist Dr. Ruff. Her tumor is BACK; she has regrowth in the same area with some extra extending up to the brain stem and down the spinal cord as far as the scan went which is about at her ribs. Dr. Ruff left us with I'm Sorry and few to no options but he still wanted us to meet with oncology as that was scheduled Wednesday. He said this tumor is growing rapidly and is just plain ugly. He gave us the same awful outlook of losing her sight, speech, breathing as it grows. We put a call in to our trusty Dr. Meyer as a cry to please tell us something different. He got us in on Wednesday. 
        Wednesday she met with Medical Oncology-  He said he had a couple options. This tumor is rare and not much info so he said it was fishing in the dark.  He wants her to start to medications.  
#1- chemo drug- 28 day cycle-  takes for 5 days and then off for 23. Insurance should pay for this and just waiting for auth so we can get and try to stop some growth. 
#2- Trial drug- She would take this daily-  Insurance struggles to pay for this and so he is working with them. Waiting to hear back to we can began this as well. Used for a tumor of the eye that has similar characteristics of moms tumor and has had good results. 
He also wants to do some extra testing on tumor to find mutations to see if any others drugs or options. 
        Dr. Meyer and our trusted Nurse Paul.  Snuck us in today- unfortunately surgery is not an option :( . He said he would consider it if just the one spot but with the extending areas it can't be done. Mom asked him if he thought she had a chance and he said "I gave you 1% chance to come out of your last surgery and you did it so if anyone has a chance its you with your fight and positive attitude. Paul also set up a E consult with a radiation oncologist to see what options they have to help stop any growth. 
        Mom has been having some symptoms in the last 5 days as the tumor has reached the brain stem.  She has had some difficulty swallowing and her eyes are having trouble focusing and double vision. She has to cover one eye to be able to focus.  Please pray we can get these drugs started and they can help shrink this stupid tumor and that insurance approves them fast to stop any further progression of symptoms. Unfortunately they feel that damage that's done is done.
      Mom and Kt are on their way home now. Please pray for her comfort on this long drive and in the next coming days. Her strength is amazing and we are staying positive that we can get a handle on further growth but the last 24 hours have been extremely difficult and not the news we hoped for. Positive note:  the pet scan was negative- no cancer anywhere else.  Her Rehab is going well; she got fitted for a brace and has been working on walking with walker. #Barbstrong
      
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