You and Shanna are absolutely amazing! I cannot for one minute imagine what you have been through or how it feels to lose I child. I admire your strength and positive outlook. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of all of you. And when I think of Audrey I think of her lively spirit, sense of humor and bright smile! Love you!

So honest and so true. I know that “fine” can mean a range of emotions that we tuck deep inside us. When I pray, I include all the things we don’t show to others, but God knows. People try to do anything and everything to make that pain less. That is truly a gift humans share with each other. I’m not going to say I know how you feel, but I think of you often. I’ll forever be reminded of Audrey when I see rainbows, or play bingo, or make slime with my students. I am remembering what being a kid is all about and my acts of kindness have increased because of Audrey. She is in my mind when I teach, she is in my heart when I hug. I didn’t know her, yet this is what she did for me....I just wanted you to know.

Very well written!! I have no words that express how you two have impressed me with how strong you have seemed the past 7 months—I can’t even imagine how hard it’s been. Having lost a 3 month young grand son that spent his whole life except one week in NICU Rochester—I could hardly function with life—but guess faith gets us through the trying times!! May the joy of your good memories keep you smiling!! Thinking of you both!!

You two are an amazing couple. Hands down two of the best people we have ever met. Brent don't ever worry what anyone will say or think. How you deal with this unimaginable lose is your and shanna's choice. Personally I feel you have done a way better job than any parent I have ever met. Just know that the love and support will always be there when you need it! -Nick

You both have touched our lives and we are better people because of your willingness to share Audrey with us - thank you Linda Neppl

Thanks for keeping it real! Thinking of you both and continuing to send positive vibes your way.

I love your honesty. A close friend lost his wife and shares many feelings on caring bridge. It helps all of us. He mentioned how he asked people to ask “where is your hope today?” Instead of how are you? It opens up the conversation. He also mentions the abscence of presence when alone. It gives us all permission to share our thoughts and feelings. May you continue this with your faith and support for each other.

the sharing of your hearts and lives have impacted us all. thank you. you and audrey are thought of often.

It is called Caring Bridge for a reason so feel free to keep updating all of us in the good days, bad days and everything in between. Sending you love and prayers.

You need to do only what you need to do in order to put your feet on the floor, breathe in and breathe out and get thru your days. No one else lives there. No one else but the two of you had the wonderful role of being Audrey's parents. Chosen by God for her special journey. All that matters is what works moving forward as you define your new "normal" for your family. You will figure it out. There is no time frame. Continue to support and love each other every day. Recognize that everyone grieves differently. Know that when you feel alone, there are family and friends you can look to for love and support. Hang in there. Just take it one day at a time.......