Athanasius’s Story

Site created on March 28, 2021

On March 24th, Athanasius Luke Ruf (son of Lisa and Christian Ruf), was found to have a large (softball size) tumor rapidly growing inside him.  From Chippewa Falls, WI, he was sent to the Minneapolis Children's Hospital for further testing and diagnosis.  He was diagnosed as having a rhabdoid tumor in his abdomen, but not in his brain or bone marrow.  Treatment shrank the tumor to the point where surgery looked possible. However, the tumor metastasized in his liver and his condition became untreatable.

After a five month battle, Athanasius passed away on August 23rd. While we wish that we had more time with him, there were many blessings along the way and we know that he is in heaven now.

Three days before he passed, his mother, Lisa, was admitted to a hospital with Covid viral pneumonia. Lisa, Christian, and Athanasius were all together in Lisa‘s hospital room when Athanasius passed on the 23rd. Lisa was then intubated and flown to a higher level hospital. Lisa was about 30 weeks pregnant at the time.


On August 31st, Bellamarie Natalia Ruf was born by c-section at 31 weeks.  We expect her to be in the NICU for 2 months or so. 

We will continue to use this site to provide updates on Lisa’s treatment and recovery and teh status of Bellamarie.

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This is not the site where donations can be made to help with medical expenses.  Any donations made on this website will go to the CaringBridge site itself and not to Lisa and Christian Ruf.  If you wish to donate to Lisa and Christian for Athanasius, then please go to:
https://www.gofundme.com/f/athanasius-medical-expenses


Newest Update

Journal entry by Dan Foos

Today is the one year anniversary of Athanasius being diagnosed with a tumor.  I've been thinking about him a lot this past couple of weeks as pictures of him have been showing up in my Amazon Photos daily memories app from when he and his parents came to visit us during their spring break last year.  This morning when I looked at the app the first pictures of Athanasius in a hospital room appeared.  I am sure that I will never forget the phone call from Lisa and Christian informing me of the situation and letting me know they were driving to Children's Hospital in Minneapolis.  They were soon covered in prayers of support from too many people to count.  Although the end of the journey for Athanasius was not what they had hoped for, they all received many blessings along the way.  Athanasius' life was an incredible gift from God for which we will be eternally grateful.

Just the other day, Lisa and Christian shared with me a picture book they have put together entitled: Big Brother Athanasius.  It's an amazing tribute to Athanasius intended just for Bellamarie and any other future siblings.  It shows just how much Baby A was loved and how much he loved his parents in return.  He will always be present in their lives.

Anyway, the thought occurred to me that today would be good opportunity to to give an update on Bellamarie.  In short, she is doing very well and you wouldn't be able to guess that she arrived almost 10 weeks early and spent months in the hospital.  We were blessed to finally meet her in January when she and Lisa spent two weeks with us in Virginia.  Bellamarie wasn't quite ready to meet all of her adoring fans in public just then, so I am sorry that we couldn't offer everyone here a chance to say hello.  The best I can do for you now is to share a few recent pictures of her as a small thank you for all the support given to Christian, Lisa, and Athanasius last year.

I wish you all a wonderful Lenten season and a blessed Easter!  God Bless.
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