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My name is Thurl. I am a 38 yr old husband, father, son, and brother. I was born in Washington,DC but raised in Maryland until I went away to military school in Alabama. After graduating from military school, I returned home where I begin my career is lost prevention and bail enforcement. I enjoyed what I did until I suddenly fall sick. I've been living with kidney disease for almost 10 yrs. I was first diagnosed with kidney disease in 2011. It was a complete shock! I was immediately place on hemodialysis and have been on it since. Yes! I have beat the odds. Only 40 % of people survive more than 5 years on dialysis. I have been on dialysis for 10 years! It is critical that I get a kidney inorder to live a longer life. I have dreams and hope for my future and my family. I want to be able to see my kids graduate college and pursue their life goals. I want to be able to see my wife flourish in her career. I want to grow old with my wife and travel the world in our RV as planned. There is so much I have planned for my life and I'm no where ready to leave this earth. So I ask....ARE YOU MY DONOR?

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Journal entry by Thurl Freeman

Information provided by Medtsar Georgetown Institute. 

What is living donor transplantation?

Living donor transplantation is when a living person donates an organ or a part of an organ that is transplanted into another person.

The organ most often donated by a living person is a kidney. The other organ most commonly donated by a living person is a portion of the liver.

As a living organ donor, you can shorten the wait for a

transplant patient.

More than 100,000 people are on the waiting list for an organ transplant in the United States. Many transplant candidates wait years for an organ from a deceased donor.

Only about half of the people in the United States sign up to donate their organs when they die. This number is different in every state and region, so the wait can be longer depending on where someone lives.

Every year, thousands of people get removed from the waiting list because they have become too sick to do well with a transplant.

To shorten the wait, family, friends, co-workers, and even strangers offer to be living organ donors.

Living donor transplants can help shorten or eliminate the wait for an organ by:

• Giving transplant candidates more options to plan.

• Helping kidney transplant candidates get an organ transplant before they need to begin dialysis.

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Living organ donors make thousands of

additional transplants possible each year.

When you are a living organ donor, you can improve the chances of transplant success.

Kidneys from living donors generally have high success rates:

• More than 98% of transplanted kidneys from living donors are still working one year after transplant.

• On average, living donor kidney transplants work longer than kidney transplants from deceased donors.

On average, living donor liver transplants also have as good or better outcomes compared to liver transplants from deceased donors.

You are the only person who can decide whether living donation is right for you.

No one can make the decision to donate for you. And no one should pressure you.

Before you make that decision, learn as much as possible about living donation so you know the risks and benefits. This brochure gives basic information about living donation. The best place to learn is at a transplant hospital. Talk to transplant

hospital staff to learn more.

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When you learn about living organ donation at a transplant hospital, bring family or friends with you.
Including your family or friends will:

• Help you remember what the transplant hospital staff teaches you. • Help you think of questions to ask.
• Let your family and friends know the best way to help you.

Can I be a living donor?

To be a living donor, you must:

Be an adult (over age 18) able to make an informed decision

Be in good physical and mental health

Understand the risks and benefits of living donation

Decide for yourself whether living donation is right for you

Both you and the transplant hospital staff have to decide whether living donation is right for you. The transplant hospital staff will need a lot of information about you to make sure you are healthy enough to donate.
To help decide whether donation is right for you, transplant hospital staff will:

• Give you a full physical examination and some medical tests. • Ask about your medical history.
• Ask about your social support.
• Assess your mental health.

• Ask about your financial situation, and your ability to take time off from your commitments.

• Inform you about the risks and benefits of living donation. • Make sure that your decision to donate is yours alone.

  

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Certain health issues may cause the transplant hospital staff to decide you should not donate an organ. This is for your health and safety. Here are some examples of such health issues:

  

Other issues identified by transplant hospital staff

Certain infections

Uncontrolled high blood pressure

Health issues that may keep you from donating

Diabetes

Untreated psychiatric condition

Cancer

   

Do I have to know the person to whom I donate an organ?

When you give an organ to a specific person, this is called directed donationIn directed donation, a donor who is medically compatible may be:

• A blood relative of the transplant recipient, such as a parent, brother, sister, or adult child.

• Someone close to the transplant recipient, such as a spouse, a friend, or a co-worker.

• Someone who the donor has heard about but does not know personally.

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Non-directed donation is when you want to donate but do not know - and may never know - the person to whom you will donate. In non-directed donation, the donor may be:

• Someone wishing to donate to a stranger on the transplant waiting list.

• Someone who begins the process to donate to a friend or family member but later decides to donate to a stranger after the friend or family member gets an organ from someone else.

A transplant hospital can match a non-directed donor to a transplant candidate who is compatible. Sometimes, a match happens through a paired kidney exchange. Kidney paired donation helps more transplants happen. That is explained later.

Some non-directed donors wish to meet their transplant recipient.

Sometimes that happens and sometimes it does not. It is a personal choice. The transplant hospital will help make a meeting happen only if the living organ donor and the transplant recipient both wish to meet.

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What if I want to donate my kidney to a specific

person but we do not match?

Sometimes, someone wants to donate a kidney to a specific person but tests show the two people are medically incompatible. That can happen because of different blood types or other test results that show the kidney has a high risk of rejection. There are still ways you can donate. Here are some of them:

1. Kidney paired donation (KPD) is when a computer matches donors and recipients to create compatible pairs. Think about it as a swap or an exchange. Here’s how it works:

• You want to donate a
kidney to someone, but 
You you are not medically
compatible.

  

• Another person wants to donate a kidney to someone,

but they also do not match.

• A computer matches
you with a compatible recipient, and their donor matches with the person you want to help.

• Swapping donors allows both transplants to happen.

Person who you want to help

INCOMPATIBLE

INCOMPATIBLE

A person who wants to The person’s friend donate to their friend who needs a kidney

       

KPD allows hundreds of people to get a transplant each year. The person you want to help may get a transplant more quickly in an exchange.

2. Medical treatment. This is one way for a transplant hospital to prepare the transplant candidate to receive an organ from a donor who is medically incompatible. This includes giving the transplant recipient treatments before and after the trans- plant to help the body accept the organ. Talk to your transplant hospital staff about options.

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COMPATIBLE

COMPATIBLE

How do I start the process to become a living donor?

The process starts at a transplant hospital.

• If you want to donate to someone you know, such as a family member, friend, or co-worker, ask that person to put you in touch with their transplant hospital.

• If you want to donate to someone you know but want to get tested before telling the transplant candidate, talk to their transplant hospital. Many transplant hospitals will test you without telling the transplant candidate.

• If you want to donate an organ to someone you do not know, call a transplant hospital near you to talk about it.

Find a list of transplant hospitals at: optn.transplant.hrsa.gov (choose Members > Find a Member). You can also call the United Network for Organ
Sharing (UNOS) at 
1-888-894-6361 or email Patient.Services@unos.org.

Will someone at the transplant hospital help me

with the process?

If you and the transplant hospital staff agree that it makes sense for you to be evaluated, the transplant hospital staff will put you in touch with an independent living donor advocate.

An independent living donor advocate’s job is to protect you. Their job is not to think about what the transplant candidate needs or make transplants happen. The independent living donor advocate will:

• Protect you and your best interests.

• Support your rights, such as making sure you have the time and information you need to decide whether donating is right for you.

• Make sure you have information about the risks and benefits of living donation.

• Help you walk away if you decide living donation is not right for you.

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The independent living donor advocate will make sure you have information about:

Consent

When you agree to give medical information and undergo testing

Evaluation

What tests you need to take and why

Medical and psychosocial risks

Possible problems you may have during or anytime after donating

Financial risks

Issues with expenses, work, or insurance

The surgery

What to expect the day of the operation and the risks

Recovery

What to expect after surgery and getting back to normal activities

Medical follow-up

The requirement to have tests after you donate

Independent living donor advocates want you to share anything that is on your mind. If you have fears, concerns, or second thoughts, your living donor advocate wants to know. Sharing your thoughts is the best way to help your living donor advocate support you and help you decide what is right for you.

The advocate will not share your medical or other information with the transplant candidate.

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Step1: Consent to be tested and provide health information

When you call a transplant hospital, a living donor staff member will briefly explain the donation process and ask if you agree to give some information about your health. Your consent begins the evaluation process.
Different transplant hospitals might ask you about your health in different ways:

• Online
• Over the phone • In person

Your answers help the transplant hospital team decide whether to continue to the next step. Some health issues are minor and donation may still be possible.
Transplant hospitals may have different opinions about certain health issues
and their risks. Transplant hospital staff will explain their opinions to you.

Step 2: You and the transplant hospital start a careful evaluation process
If you and the living donor team both decide to continue, you’ll start a wide-ranging evaluation process. The purpose is to protect you and the potential transplant recipient. The evaluation process also helps to make sure a transplant is likely to have a good outcome.

The transplant staff members ask questions about all areas of your life, such as: • Why do you want to donate?

• How do you think donating will affect your life? Your family? • Can you afford the non-medical expenses, like travel?
• Who will help you afterwards?
• Can you afford time away from commitments?

• Do you have any risky habits or behaviors?

Some of the questions are really personal. The purpose is to make sure donation is safe and right for you.

Be sure to ask any questions you have. There is no such thing as a bad question or too many questions. Answering all of your questions is one of the most important jobs of the living donor teams. Bring a family member or friend with you to help you remember everything you need to know.

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What tests will I have during my evaluation?

To make sure you are healthy enough to donate, you will take a lot of tests. The purpose of testing is to protect you.

Some of the tests also give information about the likelihood of a good transplant outcome if you become a living donor. Your medical information and test results are confidential. By law, transplant hospitals cannot share your medical informa- tion with the transplant candidate without your permission.

Here is a list of the kinds of tests living donors have to take. Each test is described below.

Psychosocial evaluation
Blood tests
Heart and lung tests
Tests of the organ to be donated Routine health tests

Psychosocial evaluation

Living donor team members will ask you questions about your life. This helps you and the transplant hospital staff decide whether living donation is right for you. Here are some examples of the questions:

• Why do you want to donate?

• Do you feel pressure from anyone to donate?

• How well do you understand the process, risks, and benefits so that you can make an informed choice?

    

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• Will donating affect your job? Your finances?

• How might donating affect other parts of your life, such as caring for a child or a parent?

• Who will help you during recovery?

• What are your family’s views about your donation?

• Do you have any mental health issues that could be made worse by donating?

• How do you think you will feel after donating?
• How do think you will feel if things do not go as you hope they will?

Blood tests

Some blood tests give the transplant hospital staff information about your health. Other blood tests show the staff whether you are medically compatible with a transplant recipient.

• Blood type compatibility: Blood tests let the transplant hospital know whether you and a transplant recipient have compatible blood types.

Donor blood type O compatible with: A compatible with: B compatible with: AB compatible with:

Recipient blood type O, A, B, and AB
A and AB
B and AB

AB

• Tissue typing: This blood test checks the tissue match between you and a transplant candidate. Transplant hospital staff use this information in caring for the transplant recipient. Even if you and the recipient are not tissue matched, the recipient can still have a successful transplant because of immunosuppression medications.

• Cross-matching: This blood test checks for factors associated with increased risk of organ rejection by the transplant recipient.

• Transmissible diseases: These blood tests look for infections or conditions that a living donor could spread to the transplant recipient. The law requires medical staff to report certain infections confidentially to public health officials.

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Heart and lung tests

• Chest x-ray, an electrocardiogram, and other tests to make sure your heart and lungs are healthy enough for you to be a donor.

Tests of the organ you wish to donate

• CT or MRI scan to let the transplant hospital staff look at the organ you wish to donate.

• Kidney donors have blood and urine tests that give information about their kidney health.

• For liver donors, some transplant hospitals use a small needle to take a tiny piece of the liver to make sure it is healthy enough to donate.

Depending on your age and the tests you have had in the past, routine tests

• A colonoscopy
• Skin cancer screening • Gender-specific exams

Not all transplant hospitals require the same tests. Your transplant hospital staff will explain what tests you need. They will also explain why the tests are important.

Getting through all the tests takes time. If you are donating to someone whose hospital is far away, you may be able to do some of the medical tests closer to your home. Talk with the transplant hospital staff about options.

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Who decides if I may donate?

If you pass the evaluation process, the final decision about whether you will donate is yours.

Your decision must be informed and voluntary.

An informed decision means you understand:
• The donation process.
• The risks and benefits of donation.
• The other options a transplant candidate might have, such as dialysis or

transplant from someone else, living or deceased.

voluntary decision means you:
• Feel no pressure from anyone to donate.
• Know you may decide not to donate at any time.
• Are not motivated by a promise of money or anything of value.

When you think about whether to donate, it is helpful to talk with people.

The decision to donate is not easy. There is a lot to think about. Donation could impact your health, your family, your work. Sometimes people offer to donate an organ before they learn about the risks and benefits. After learning more, some people decide that donating is not right for them. They may worry about letting someone down. Talking through your thoughts can help. Talk with family members, close friends, or anyone you know who is a good listener. You may also want to talk with living donors. Transplant hospital staff can help find living donors who would be happy to share their experience with you.

Other organizations, like the National Kidney Foundation, can put you in touch with a donor. Call the National Kidney Foundation’s PEERS Program at 855-653- 7337 (855-NKF-PEER) or email nkfpeers@kidney.org.

Some living organ donors and transplant recipients share their stories with UNOS. Read their “Stories of Hope” on transplantliving.org/community/stories-of-hope/.

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What matters most?

You.

Do what you feel is right for you.

The most important thing is that you do what you feel is right for you.
People may decide not to donate for many reasons. Your decision for choosing to donate or not, and your reasons for your decision, are yours to make.

If you decide not to donate at any point,

for any reason, talk with your transplant
hospital social worker, donor coordinator, or
your independent living donor advocate. These staff members are there to help you. They want to hear your thoughts, concerns, and feelings. The transplant hos- pital staff will keep your reasons for deciding not to donate private. They can help you think about what to say if people ask questions about why you are not able to donate.

What are some of the risks if I donate?

When someone donates any organ, there are different kinds of medical risks.

Immediate risks

During or right after surgery

Short-term risks

In the year or so after surgery

Lifetime risks

Anytime during your life

The transplant hospital staff will explain the different risks of living donation – immediate, short-term, and lifetime risks.

Your transplant hospital staff will talk with you about:
• How likely the risks are to happen.
• Whether the risks are serious.
• Whether the risks are in the short-term or could happen at any time. • Whether and how the problem would be treated.

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Risks differ person to person.

Every surgery has risks. Here are some examples of the immediate problems that are possible during or right after kidney or liver donation surgery.

Pain

Potential immediate risks from donation surgery

 

Infection

Bleeding

Blood clots

When someone donates a kidney, they live with one kidney for the rest of their life. With one kidney instead of two, living kidney donors have reduced kidney function. Here are some of the possible risks of kidney donation.

Death

Allergic reaction to anesthesia

    

Pneumonia

Injury to tissue or other organs

  

High blood pressure after

pregnancy

New or continuing high blood pressure

Potential risks of living kidney donation

Hernia

Organ

failure (needing treat- ment or possibly transplant)

  

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When someone donates a part of their liver, the part they keep and the part they give to a transplant recipient both grow to almost full size. Here are some of the risks of liver donation.

 

Organ failure (need- ing treatment or possibly transplant)

Intestinal

problems (blockage)

Potential

risks of living

liver donation

Wound infections or hernia

Bile leakage

  

Remember, the best place to learn about risks is from your transplant hospital staff. If you hear about other possible risks, always go back and talk to your transplant hospital staff. When you make your decision, you need facts. Your transplant hos- pital is the best place to get them.

Not every possible lifetime risk is known.

Your transplant hospital staff will be able to give you some information about the lifetime risks of living organ donation. Transplant hospital staff can not tell you every possible long-term risk. Based on the best information known so far, overall risks to health are considered to be low for those determined to be healthy enough to donate.

Donating is a lifetime decision. All living donors should commit to a lifetime of healthy habits and healthcare. Living donors need to have medical follow-up care after donating. Living donors should also go to their local doctor for a health check-up every year after donating. It is possible to manage health risks, by taking good care of yourself and controlling things like your blood pressure and weight. Your doctor can help you.

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How might I feel after living organ donation?

About 90 to 95 out of every 100 donors say they would not change anything about their decision to donate.
They would make the same decision to help someone. They would go through all the screenings, tests, and surgery. They would take time away from their lives, jobs, and other commitments to recover. They would do all of that to help someone.

They feel good about extending the transplant recipient’s life. They feel satisfied about improving the transplant recipient’s quality of life.

Sometimes, however, living donors feel regret or resentment. Some say they feel depressed. This can happen even years after donating. Some examples are when:

• A donated organ does not work well in the recipient after transplant surgery. • The donor or the transplant recipient has medical problems after surgery. • The donor’s scars do not fade as much as the donor expected.

If this happens to you, you may need support from a professional to work through these feelings. Be sure to talk with the transplant hospital staff beforehand about these and other risks. If you donate and have concerns afterward, ask your transplant hospital or independent living donor advocate to help you find support.

How long does it take to get back to normal life after donating?
After surgery, living donors need time and help from family and friends before getting back to all their routine activities. Here are some activities and the average time living donors take to return to each.

Kidney donors Liver donors

Stay in the hospital about 2-3 days about 5 days

Drive a car about 2 weeks about 2-4 weeks

Get back to pre-
donation activities 
about 4-5 weeks about 8 weeks

Lift heavy items about 6-12 weeks about 8-12 weeks

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Every donor is different. Some donors get back to their lives quickly. Others say they feel tired for quite a while after donation. Since you do not know how you will feel, it is important to have family and friends ready to help you for as long as you need. If you take more time than other donors, let your transplant hospital staff know.

Will I need follow-up medical care after I donate?

After you donate an organ, you need to take good care of yourself and have annual medical checkups with your doctor.

All living donors need certain tests six months, twelve months and twenty-four months after surgery. Ask the transplant hospital staff:

• What tests will be done.

• Where the follow-up will happen – at the transplant hospital, a local lab, or at your own doctor’s office.

• Who will pay for follow-up.

Sometimes, even if you feel well, tests may show you need treatment. Follow-up is very important. Transplant hospitals must track and report to the OPTN whether you get the tests you need after you donate.

Check-ups help the transplant hospital staff make sure you are healthy. They give you a chance to talk about how you feel and what you might do to be as healthy as you can be. Your follow-up also gives transplant hospitals information that can help future donors.

Commit to your required follow-ups after donation. And see your family doctor every year.

“Everyone says I gave the gift of life when I donated. Doing my follow- up and seeing my doctor every year to make sure I’m ok is also a gift.

It’s a gift I give to myself

and my family.”
– Ron

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Who pays the costs if I decide to donate?

Before you decide whether to donate, learn about all the possible costs and which, if any, you may have to pay. Transplant hospital staff will talk with you about living donation expenses and how they are usually paid.

A transplant candidate’s insurance generally covers a living organ donor’s medical expenses. These expenses include a donor’s evaluation, tests, and surgery. Talk to your transplant hospital staff if you need help paying for other tests you may need to have done (colonoscopy, or a mammogram for women, or a prostate exam for men).

The transplant candidate’s insurance is not likely to cover other costs, such as:

• Medical care if your evaluation shows that you have a disease that needs to be treated.

• Long-term medical care if the donation causes you problems. • Follow-up care for the rest of your life.

Every insurance policy is different. Be sure to ask questions about what medical costs may not be covered by insurance.

Some transplant patients have Medicare. Sometimes, Medicare may help living donors who have donation-related complications. For more information, contact Medicare at 1-800-MEDICARE or at www.medicare.gov.

Think about your health insurance situation.

Some transplant hospitals require living donors to have health insurance.
Most living donors do not have problems with insurance as a result of donating. After you donate, it is possible that an insurance company may consider you to have a pre-existing condition. If that happens, it is possible that:

• It could be harder to get new health, disability, life, or long-term care insurance.

• It could be harder to increase your life insurance coverage.

• Your insurance premiums might be higher than they would be without a pre-existing condition.

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Federal law may protect living donors from problems with health insurance. Talk with a social worker at the transplant hospital about risks and ways to protect yourself.

Check with your employer about other benefits that may help you.

If you are employed, talk with your employer about other benefits that could be helpful. These include:

• Vacation time • Disability pay
• Sick time • Leave of absence opportunity

Talk with your transplant hospital staff if you need help with non-medical costs, such as travel and lodging.
You may be able to get help with costs for travel, lodging, and meals during testing or surgery. For example, The National Living Donor Assistance Center (NLDAC) helps some donors with these kinds of expenses based on eligibility. Contact the NLDAC toll free at 1-888-870-5002 or go to www.livingdonorassistance.org/ for more information.

A transplant recipient, family members, a transplant hospital, or charities may also be able to help you with certain non-medical expenses.

Ask your transplant hospital social worker to explain what kind of help you can accept. It is illegal to give or take money or anything else of value, such as a gift or a vacation, in exchange for donating an organ.

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Can I get information about living donors?

The OPTN collects data about living donors from transplant hospitals across the country. Looking at data may help as you think about whether or not to donate.

Talk with your transplant hospital staff about the data to find out what it really means for you.

Transplant hospitals give the OPTN information about medical problems living organ donors have in the two years after surgery. Serious problems are rare.

Here are a few examples of living organ donor data:

To find data about living donation at your transplant hospital or elsewhere, go to optn.transplant.hrsa.gov (choose Data > View Data Reports). You can also find more information at the Scientific Registry of Transplant Recipients website: www.srtr.org.

Understanding data is not always easy. Talk with your transplant hospital staff or call the UNOS patient services line at 1-888-894-6361.

Talk with your transplant
hospital 
about living organ donor data

• Number of living organ donor surgeries
• Percent of living donors who had medical problems • Percent of living donors who participated in follow-up • Living organ donor transplant recipient outcomes

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Where can I get more information?

United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS), a non-profit organization serves as the Organ Procurement and Transplantation Network (OPTN) under contract to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Health Resources and Services Administration. You can learn more about UNOS and the OPTN at www.unos.org and optn.transplant.hrsa.gov.

UNOS has a toll-free patient services phone line. Call 1-888-894-6361 (Mon.–Fri., 8:30–4:30) to get more information, ask questions about transplant policies or data, or to talk about concerns. Visit www.transplantliving.org to get more information.

The Department of Health and Human Services required the OPTN to develop living donor guidelines and policies in 2006. Find policies that impact living donors

at optn.transplant.hrsa.gov (Governance > Policies). You can also submit your feedback on current policy proposals at optn.transplant.hrsa.gov (Governance > Public Comment).

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