Pam and Mike, Katie and Emily, Jim and I are heartbroken over Andrew’s death. He is so alive in our memories. We love you. And we are holding you in our prayers. I have no good words. Just that we love you. Nina

Pam and sweet family,
May His Grace surround you 24/7. Take deep breaths and move slowly. Stay close to the Rock and allow Him to hold you....HE will.

Pam and sweet family,
May His Grace surround you 24/7. Take deep breaths and move slowly. Stay close to the Rock and allow Him to hold you....HE will.

I spent summers living next door to Andrew’s grandparents and for a couple precious weeks each summer the Odlum’s would come up & liven up Rose Hill with laughter, games, swimming to hippo rock, trips to Addams penny candy store.

This summer (2019) I ended up moving to Skaneateles for my fiancée (to Rose Hill Road!) & reconnected with Andrew— I was blown away by his huge hug, loving presence, and massive amounts of good energy. He still had that sweet smile he had from the Rose Hill days and childlike pure heart.

Later I spent an evening reconnecting with the whole Odlum crew laughing at memories ... and I was struck at the amazing love between each of the siblings and their parents— what a special family.

If I learned anything from Andrew it’s to cherish each moment — you can make a huge impact on someone with just your warm heart. He certainly did that for me and I’ll often turn to that as a reminder of how to live in a good way when life seems overly complicated... just love!

Thank you Andrew for your hugs & your heart. It was truly an honor to know you.

Sending love to the whole Odlum family.

Dear Odlum’s,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry for your loss. Andrew is one of a kind. He was the best childhood friend growing up. May he Rest In Peace.
-Patrick Nasca

I never had the pleasure of meeting you Andrew, but feel as though I know you through all of the wonderful stories Emily has shared with me. Her face lights up when she talks about you. I would have been honored to meet you, but will greatly enjoy continuing to honor your soul through the memories your loved ones shared with you. Sending so much love, support and prayers to the entire Odlum family and friends who were touched by your life. Sarah, Rob and Beecher Nadeau

My heart is so heavy. I can not find words to help support the grief of your loss. We are with you all in spirit and hope the warmth of love surrounding you will help carry you through these difficult days.
Much love to all of you,
Autumn, Bill and Orsaline Stankay

Heartbroken and so sad to hear the news. Andrew will be missed for his cheerfulness and giant heart. Pam, Mike, Katie and Emily, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending love to Andrew and all of you.

Pam, Mike, Katey and Emily , our hearts are so heavy with grief for your loss. There are no words to express the loss . We will always remember that sweet little blonde haired boy with the raspy voice jumping into the pool .
Only great memories of your wonderful son .
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all .
Much love , the O’Briens and the O’’Meara’s

Dear Andrew: we have a large hole in our aching hearts, yes, but we will always have so many good , happy memories of you from the time you were such a sweet littly guy to a happy, spirited , gentle and always sweet young man. We love you Andrew and hold you forever in our hearts. We are here for you, Pam, Mike, Katie and Emily for whatever you need..love always, Judy and Poms