Andrea’s Story

Site created on January 21, 2021

Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place as we are overwhelmed with day to day life right now. With the outpouring of support and concern from family and friends, we feel that writing one update at time for everyone to read will provide everyone with news while sparing us some sanity .  We will do our best to update this site as often as possible with information as we receive and digest it. Thank you so much for all the kind and supportive words to this point.

Our cancer journey began December 3rd when I discovered a lump in my right breast. I saw my provider the following day and was able to get a diagnostic mammogram and ultrasound the same day! The radiologist recommended to proceed with a biopsy which was scheduled for December 10th.  My surgeon scheduled me for a follow up the next day to go over results. Unfortunately, My biopsy came back positive for high grade DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma in Situ) and Invasive Ductal Carcinoma with a 1.5 cm tumor.  I am incredibly blessed to work with some of the most compassionate and skilled medical staff at work. It brings peace and comfort knowing that they were able to get us to the point that eight days after finding a lump I had a confirmed diagnosis. This reaffirmed that I was not going into this battle alone. This team has been with me, holding me up every step of the way! 

I was swiftly referred to Mayo Clinic for treatment recommendations. After having to battle a surprise COVID diagnosis before Christmas, I was able to be accepted by Mayo's Breast Clinic for consultation in the beginning of January. That first week was a whirlwind of appointments and referrals. Luckily, Nick previously worked at Mayo and was able to lead me to the right floors in the correct buildings while I blindly followed, taking advantage of not having to navigate my way alone.  He has been my rock through this.  I am thankful to be traveling this path together. 

My Breast Clinic physician was amazing, compassionate, and thorough. Upon initial examination, she made the recommendation that I see dermatology for an excessive number of freckles. I had a suspicious mole on my right rib cage, which was biopsied that first day. Of course, with the luck I have been having, it tested positive for malignant melanoma.  At this point, I felt like I had been hit with a Mack truck. There are no words to describe the feeling of being diagnosed with cancer,  only then to be told you have a second unrelated cancer diagnosis.  It’s devastating, and we know we have a long, hard road ahead. 

After several days at Mayo, and multiple appointments with specialists over the course of two and a half weeks, I am relieved to say that  we have a plan in place. I am lucky to have caught this early so I am considered stage one invasive cancer (providing lymph nodes are negative).  According to my Oncotype Dx testing, I will not need Chemotherapy and am hopeful radiation will not be part of my treatment plan. I am scheduled for a double mastectomy and lymph node biopsies on February 10th, with reconstruction spanning over the next several months. If the lymph nodes are negative for cancer, they are optimistic that  I will have to only participate in hormone therapy for the next few years.
 
Please say an extra prayer for my littles. They ask a lot of questions that I answer as honestly as I can, but it is a scary and confusing time for them. They have, unfortunately seen grim results of fighting cancer from my dad and other family members and friends. Its hard for them to see anything optimistic since they were told my news around Christmas.


Thank you for the outpouring of love and support. Even after getting bad news, I have so much  to be thankful for and count my blessings every day♥️

Newest Update

Journal entry by Nicholas Mowes

Hello,

After several sleepless nights, we are finally at a place that we can provide an update! For those that have seen on Facebook, Andrea has been doing much better. And this, obviously, is after so much.  Since the last update on Friday, Andrea has gone down then come back up. Friday was fairly quiet. She slept for much of the morning and afternoon. 

We had a family friend come down for a few hours and provide a break for me. It was much more needed than I thought. I went back to the camper to grab some food and ended up passing out for about 2.5-3 hours. I guess 4 hours of sleep or less for the previous 3 nights wasn't the best. I owe someone a lot for giving me that sleep.  THANK YOU! Also, we  had the BEST nurse ever staying by Andrea's side that afternoon and evening. Deanna was absolutely fantastic. She actually was retiring from Mayo Clinic after 43 years of service as a nurse and we were her last patient on her last shift.  The most amazing part was that you would not have been able to tell from the amount of compassion and hard work she put in to help Andrea smile just a bit. 

Saturday was a bit different of a story. The doctor came in early morning and felt that things were going well. She didn't notice any swelling and was happy with the perfusion of the flap. This ended up not being for long. About 11am, Andrea started feeling very yucky.  She couldn't get comfortable, she was shaky and cold and couldn't really get back to a normal.  Her vitals were out of whack too. BP was as low as 80/30, temps were all over the place, her pulse was as high as 120 and her SpO2 was as low as 88 with 2L of oxygen going.  Something was wrong.  Labs were done and an EKG. Labs showed her Hemoglobin was as low as 6.5  and her calcium was also very low.  She was given two more units of blood (for a total of 5 this hospital stay).

A bit later, the chief resident noticed that her left breast was starting to swell again but didn't feel that it was bad enough to go back to the OR.  We (meaning myself and her nurse) didn't feel the same way.  We spent the next almost 8 hours, with Andrea feeling like crap and drugged up, diligently watching, hoping that it would slow.  He came came several time throughout the afternoon to check in.  Finally, around 7pm, he agreed that it had gotten to the point that yet more surgical intervention was needed.  I found myself upset, worried that he had waited too long to save the flap that her team had already put 20 hours of surgery into. Especially given the phone call that I had with her attending the previous morning about that surgery being the last to save the flap.  Off she went to OR around 7:30 with him assuring us that he would do everything he could to continue to save it.  He was right.  And while I was mad that it had gotten to that point, I was extremely grateful that he did work hard. She was back in the room by 11:00pm, having had a hematoma evacuated and slow bleeders fixed that her heparin drip was the most likely culprit.  And while they were in there, they were able to observe that the flap was very healthy and that the tricky vein graft that was accomplished the day before was doing "extremely well" according to her attending during a phone call with me.

Sunday she was extremely tired from collecting about 23 hours of anesthesia over the past 4 days. The nurses were extremely diligent at trying  to get Andrea out of bed. We were successful at pivoting from the bed to a wheelchair twice and enjoyed the warm weather from the courtyard. Both trips were exhausting but enjoyable.  Today is more progress. Andrea was able to get showered and walked about 25 yards. She was exhausted again and crashed in bed as soon as she could. They continue to check on doppler sounds every hour until tomorrow morning. Her smile has gotten stronger each hour.  We hope that by Wednesday, she will be ready for discharge.

Thank you everyone for your prayers.  Andrea says that she's felt them all and knows that they saved her on Saturday.  More updates to follow soon.

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