Thank you for documenting this long stressful journey. I was the medical director of an eating disorder clinic at Mercy Hospital in Des Moines for 5 years 25 years ago. I am seen a few similar cases over my many years but do not have any wisdom for you except to hang in there, keep praying and advocating for her.
I appreciate all the information you shared with us (even though I don't understand half of it). It helps me to understand how hard this is for Alyssa and your entire family. She is on my prayer list, taped to my office wall, so I am praying for her each and every day...