Alvin’s Story

Site created on June 13, 2021

Welcome to Alvin's CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement. Thank you for visiting!


His surgery schedule tomorrow (Monday 14Jun):
- Aortic valve replacement
- Aortic aneurysm repair
- Projected schedule
  - 5a hospital check in
  - 7a enter surgery
  - 11a out of surgery



Newest Update

Journal entry by Alvin Tong

                             

I am happy to report that:

(1) I have recovered ~ 80% of my pre-surgery ‘normal’ daily life activities with a few exceptions: one of them, such as tennis playing, is still in the very early stage of ‘warming-up’ …

(2) Most exciting is that my appetite is almost totally back to normal. Thanks to Anna’s 24/7 extremely patient ‘plan, design and execution’ of multiple meals a day to my liking, I have re-gained back almost 75% of my weight lost.

(3) My doctor’s orders on (a) the 9-week Physical Therapy was completed first, and then (b) the final 12-week Cardiac Rehab is 90% finished as of today. My ‘graduation’ from the Rehab is 11/29/2021. The comments from my therapists so far have been: “You are doing fine; above average!” Not bad for an almost 83-year old man.

(4) With doctor’s blessing also, Anna and I will take our first  venture out to Houston and Austin, TX from 12/1 to 12/10/2021 to visit our dear family and friends that we have not seen since many moons ago …

Unless some unforeseeable complication occurs, I am making this my final update  on my Recovery.

And finally, I would like to share with you what I have learned:

 

  • Life is precious and fragile, but our body is much tougher than we think.
  • After a major surgery such as an ‘Open Heart’, recovery is a difficult challenge.  We need all the CARING we can get. Care Giving is nothing less than a 24/7 demanding job. My blessing has been that Anna has stayed physically healthy, mentally strong & patient in taking care of me. She has the lion’s share of my appreciation. In addition, I am fortunate to have a team of compassionate & skilled medical team to provide me with timely advice & actions.
  • Recovery is also a Long process. Being patient is a requirement! I have learned to accept the fact that recovery takes longer than we think, and the end results may not be as satisfactory as we expect.
  • Most importantly, I have learned to be thankful for each and everyday that we are alive and well to sharing the love & joy with our family and friends…

 

Your loving/caring/encouraging thoughts & prayers, cards, emails, funny jokes, phone calls, Zoom meetings, etc.… have been my daily uplifting force to keep me going during this most challenging period of my life.  I am sure this feeling of being blessed will stay with me for a long time.

My heartfelt appreciation goes to you all.

Have a GREAT Thanksgiving!

From Virginia with LOVE,

Alvin

 

                

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