Aiden’s Story

Site created on March 19, 2020

Welcome to our CaringBridge website! We will be utilizing this site to share our journey with all of you. A brief introduction to those of you who may not know Aiden well: Aiden is our joyful little boy who is rocking an extra chromosome! He will be 1 years old on April 29, and was just diagnosed with myeloid neoplasm associated with Down Syndrome (a pre-cancerous condition that will eventually progress to acute myeloid leukemia or AML). He will begin chemotherapy on March 25 and will receive 5-6 rounds spanning the next 5-6 months. Thank you all for your prayers & love for our family as we go on this journey together. It's a scary one to be sure, but we know we have an awesome God who loves our little boy even more than we do. We will anchor our hope & trust in Him because He is good & He cares for us.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Haley Fitzpatrick

Brief Summary Update
Hello again Aiden fans! What a round this has been. Aiden finished his last chemo treatment on Sunday, September 6 and every day since then has been a day of watching and waiting. Aiden’s tired little body has not handled this round like the others, and it has been hard to watch. He has had more days of low energy, nausea, and irritability than any other rounds. Unfortunately, his body also decided to push through two new teeth (his top two) during this round, which has only added to his pain & discomfort. Up until 3 nights ago, Aiden’s sleep patterns have been, well, awful. He would wake multiple times throughout the night in distress, though from pain or fear, we never figured out. It made for a long few weeks for Aiden & I, as I’m with him Sunday-Thursday nights at the hospital. 

The Scary Day
On Thursday, September 17, Aiden suddenly produced a fever of 102.3 while my mom was with him. The nurses performed the normal procedure when a fever is discovered of drawing cultures and administering Tylenol. We have Aiden on IV Tylenol, so it gets into his system even quicker than oral Tylenol. Still, whenever he spikes a fever I become concerned, so I headed up to the hospital in the afternoon to be with him. By the time I arrived and my mom walked out the door, it has been about 4 hours since the Tylenol had been administered. Not 10 seconds after my mom left, Aiden began shaking and seemed hot once again. Aiden has never been one to shake during a fever, so this alarmed me immediately. I called the nurse in to get a temp on him and not only had his fever returned, but his heart rate was more elevated than what they would have liked. It was at this point that things started to roll quickly and become more worrying. The doctors decided they wanted a COVID & viral panel test done, and Aiden was hooked up to more fluids, as he had started refusing to eat. We administered Tylenol once again, and a parade of doctors began coming through our door. The hospital manager (someone who oversees every floor), the on duty oncologist, the resident, and an ICU doctors all paid us a visit. As I’m sure you can imagine, it was the presence of the ICU doctor that made me very worried. They were trying to assess whether or not Aiden needed to be moved to the ICU, ultimately deciding he could stay on the 9th floor. 

Andrew & I decided we needed to be together as a family, so my sweet sister Emma volunteered to stay the night with Jax so we could make that happen. Aiden struggled to sleep, and only 2 hours after his second dose of Tylenol, was shaking and in extreme discomfort. Once again we called the nurses, and his fever had now reached a high of 104.5. It was at that point I started to cry. Aiden was in a state of discomfort that I had never witnessed before, and the fear that something was really wrong was growing by the minute in our hearts. Once again, the ICU docs paid us a visit, and we gave yet another early dose of Tylenol. Thankfully, the doctors did not think Aiden needed to be moved, so we stayed put in our familiar room. The virus panels and COVId test had come back negative on all counts, which was certainly of some comfort. Andrew & I passed the night comforting Aiden and trying to get him to sleep. Though we hated to put more medicine in him, we eventually decided he needed Benadryl to help him sleep, which it did. Sometime in the early morning his fever finally broke. I spend Wednesday’s and Friday’s with Aiden this round, so mercifully I was scheduled to be with him the following day anyways. Aiden and I passed a quiet and restful Friday with lots of snuggles and some Little Einstein episodes to cheer him up. Aiden didn’t fully recover from that terrifying episode until Sunday when his appetite and cheerful mood returned. He has not had any fevers since then, praise be to God!

A Big Accomplishment! 
Though this round has presented many challenges, Aiden has continued with his therapies each week, and this round led to a very fun accomplishment: crawling! We have been working on crawling since the beginning of the year, and though Aiden’s core had strengthened in that time, he seemed either unwilling or unable to take to crawling. Some of it was certainly stubbornness, as he found he could get places by a combination of turning on his butt and rolling. On September 21st, Aiden decided he wanted to start crawling - so he did. That very week, PT had told me that we really needed to work on his hip muscles, as they are fairly weak and he was unlikely to master crawling until we strengthened them. Now, Aiden is not yet a crawling fiend by any means, and he does still need to strengthen those muscles, but I swear he heard that and thought “hold my bottle & watch this”! Now obviously we don’t want Aiden crawling around on the hard hospital floor, so we are very excited to see what happens when he’s finally home and has carpet to crawl around on! 

Family Update & Prayer Requests
It’s finally time for the Fitzpatrick family - it’s moving week!! This Friday we will gain possession of our new home and begin moving in! While we have until the 14th to be out of our apartment, we ultimately decided that we need to move everything this coming weekend, as we are getting closer and closer to Aiden coming home (no, we don’t know when he’s coming home, we just hope it’s soon). With that in mind, here are some ways we would ask all of our wonderful prayer warriors to lift us up in the coming days:

-S T R E S S: I won’t lie friends, this round has kicked our butts as a family and Andrew & I are barely hanging in there. Please pray for peace for us as we prepare for this move during an already stressful time, that we can get it ready for ourselves and for Aiden before he comes home. Please also pray for bodily calm & strength, as we are weary but know we have a lot to do this weekend.

- Counts!! Aiden’s counts appear to be holding for the moment with very little downward movement, so we are very hopefully that his numbers will start going up soon! Please keep Aiden’s little body in your prayers as his counts do come up, as this is also a painful process for his bones. Pray, too, that they come in quickly. We are very anxious to get back to a sense of normalcy and to once again all be under the same roof every night. 

Thank you all for all the ways you have blessed us through this journey, whether through prayer, providing meals & clothes for Aiden, or taking care of Jax so we can have family time. Truly, we could not have done it without you. God has been so good to us through every valley, and you all have been His light to us in so many ways. Bless you all, we love you Aiden fans! 
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