If you are a caregiver for someone who is suffering memory loss, it may fall on you to schedule visits with other family members. For those who are not used to the changing behaviors conditions such as Dementia or Alzheimer’s can bring, a visit can feel intimidating and unfamiliar. Here are some caregiving tips to help make each visit more positive and meaningful:
- Visit the person in a setting they are used to – in their own room or their home. Unfamiliar settings may trigger increased anxiety and confusion.
- Do not overwhelm them by bringing them to crowded, noisy gatherings. Visit them in a comfortable spot and invite family members and friends to come in and visit one or two at a time.
- If a birthday or holiday is the reason for your visit, choose gifts that elicit long-term or sensory memories. Suggestions: an old family photo, a treat that they used to make themselves, a familiar perfume, potpourri, a soft scarf or sweater, or a CD of music that you know they love.
- Do not give gifts that require new learning, may break easily, or are irreplaceable. Remove all tags and packaging before giving.
- Be aware that their limit-setting capabilities may be impaired, so give small quantities of treats – not an entire cake or a whole box of candy.
- During your visit, guide the conversation to pleasant memories or family traditions.
- If possible, engage them in an activity such as looking at a photo album or working on a craft together.
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