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My Story with Multiple Myeloma In Summary:
If you go to the first post of this site journal, you will be able to read a more detailed history of my journey. My battle with active, full-blown Multiple Myeloma and treatment began in California on April 10, 2015. As previously planned, we moved to Whidbey Island in the Puget Sound, Washington State less than three months later, meeting my new Seattle oncologist for the first time on July 6, 2015, learning there that the multiple myeloma was diffused throughout my bones and the disease was much more advanced than we’d known. In California, only one disease marker was being monitored; had different tests been ordered, I would most likely have been treated months or even years earlier. In many ways, we feel the move and change of doctors, the expertise and healthcare available in Seattle, Washington both saved and extended my life. We are very grateful.
By November 2015, after multiple forms of treatment had been tried, tests indicated the disease was advancing with even greater speed. None of the treatments I’d had were moving me toward remission, slowing the disease, managing it, or in any way benefitting me. The goal with all these treatments was to stop the advancement of the disease, move as close to remission as possible, manage the disease long enough for my "last best hope"--an autologous stem cell (bone marrow) transplant. We were told this option was becoming less and less likely for me, and it was time for me to begin creating and fulfilling an 18-month bucket list.
Further treatments were tried, a hoped-for May 2016 transplant was cancelled, a cessation of cancer treatment was required as a chemical pneumonia was treated for months, and then things inexplicably turned around, opening a window for transplant in August 2016. My oncologist wondered aloud, "I don't know what happened. This is totally unexpected." We shared that many were praying for me, to which he responded, "Tell them to keep praying." August 2016 I had that transplant, resulting in a successful remission that lasted over four years.
In August 2020, ever-so-slight evidence of disease began to reappear. Over the next six months we saw a small, slow trajectory of movement out of remission into relapse. Barring a supernatural miracle, that was to be expected. Stem cell transplants usually yield 2-4 years of remission before relapse. So far, the resurgence of disease has been very slow. In January 2021 my oncologist described it with the metaphor of what happens after a war ends. There are some fighters who don’t get the message that the war is over, hiding out in caves, forests, and basements. The military and law enforcement are expected to round them up, deal with them in minor skirmishes, take care of the remaining enemy. He likened my treatment and especially the stem cell transplant to the war, adding that remission is akin to the new peace following a war. There are usually some undetectable cancer cells still hiding out and we depend on the body with its engrafted stem cells to deal with them. That’s been the case for 4+ years, for which we are so very grateful, but now there is evidence that my body either hasn’t taken care of the outliers completely, or is beginning to have difficulty keeping them under control. With the trajectory clear, but the timing and type of treatment less so, I told Jerry I was grateful to learn we didn't have to board the “cancer coaster” in January, but felt like I was given my boarding ticket and told to line up in the queue.
Lab results in mid-March 2021 led to the decision to begin chemotherapy treatments again, with monitoring of disease progression and response to treatment every 2-5 weeks. We are focusing on living each day fully and gratefully to the best of our ability. Your prayers are greatly appreciated.