Islam has brought nothing but what will benefit mankind, the living in him and his potentials to create a positive life for himself. The teachings of it to make him a true servant of Allah without following self will. What is better than serving one's lord with sincerity?
The perception one feels about life may be quite the obverse when compared to what Islam, the perfect way, brings to us, because it is a total way of life without a thing left out. The more you get away from sin, the more reduced the distant of you from Allah.
Dear muslimah, the words I offer you are not from me but what my lord has for you, and there is nothing better than that, follow them and you get blessed, not your will or the society. The beauty of Islam is you and its regards may be placed on how you manage it, never sell Islam with your negligence rather propagate it with piousness, khushuu, modesty and glad tidings. May Allah grant you intense comprehension and positive response to the said and to be said advice. Amin