Lalita Aggarwal

Relationship- a connection between the two. 


We all are having so many types of relationship, which we name as Brother, Sister, Mother, Father, Friend, Soul mate, Wife, Husband and lots more. All of us need a nice relationship on which we can rely, confine, lean upon, trust, faith, etc.


But, sometimes it is very difficult to decide about "RELATIONSHIP". What to do in life and how to go ahead?  The people who all are associated with you, are they real or fake? Are they really confined in you or just double standard? Are they promising or not? Do you really matter for them? A great question we all have. 


Any relationship can only be sustained when both of them have the same eager to go ahead with it (taali kabhi bhi ek haath se nahin bajti). Trusting upon each other is quite important and if it gets hurt, crack in a relationship appears. The hurted person cannot pay that devotion for that particular reltionship and situation like "cannot live like this" starts happening.


Have we analyzed ourselves, how justified we are for the sake of the relationship.


First relationship of everybody's life is with his/ her Parents. Is it a perfect relation, without any regrets or complaints? Get an answer in yourself.


Before looking up for any answer, just ask some questions from your soul also. Are you totally confined with no secrets kept in yourself? After becoming an adult, rather I should say a responsible human being, how many times we pay attention towards them. Offo, wahi sab baatein. Inke pass kuch nayi baat hoti hi nahin. Meri apni bhi to koi life hai ya inhein hi dekhun. Inhein to koi kaam hai nahin, to bus apni hi baatein dohraate rehte hain. Such kind of thinking starts juggling in all of us. We need everything from others, that they should support, but are we reversing the same whole-heartedly. Don't you have any corner in your heart, which you really do not want to share with anybody, even with them, who are the only soul for foundation of your life? 


This continues in each and every relationship. We expect a lot from others. "Others"-this word clear the whole story. We can simply change our interests, habits, priorities and shift our relationships to one another.


What sort of life we want-Shifting one or Consistent and Contended. If you choose "a consistent and contended life", how many of us are consistent in our own self. Do you think that you can reveal all your secrets (which are hidden deep into your heart) to each other with whom you are related. Can you trust that he/ she are the real soul to become a soul mate? Again, don't you have a corner in your heart, which is only and only yours. Then, why so much of pain, anger, thirsts for a good relationship?


Is "Soul mate" is really a "Soul mate"- a big question!


“Soul mate” - a small word, intense and meaningful. From the core of our heart, can we say that the relationship is real without any secrets and hidden facts?


Again, 90% people will answer it as "YES", but is it really so?  Be courageous and just check yourself where you stand. 


We all have a set mindset, lifestyle and expectations that related person should do this or that. But we cannot do the same with them? Again, the same question but with the only answer that the others will take advantage of mine if I reveal my inner self to my partner.


Wow! What a dilemma and fear? 


If all of us have the same issue for each and every "Relationship" then why we cannot give some valuable time to think about  it so that at least one Real Relationship we can find, throughout our lifetime!!!

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