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Bella Duff

First post: Jan 16, 2018 Latest post: May 14, 2018
Bella Duff is an active and engaged 10 year old girl who wants to be a vet when she grows up, and dances as much as she walks. Bella has two brothers who suffer with severe medical conditions. (You can see their stories on their sites at https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/bennyduff and https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/samuelduff) She also has a 7 year old sister who has no health complications. She dearly loves her siblings. Playing and being with them is the highlight of her days.


 A year ago Bella started to present with random neurological symptoms (dizziness, ear pain, headaches, neck pain, joint pain and swelling, auditory and visual disturbances) We took her to doctors, had labs and scans done, and began (as I describe it) a "Hansel and Gretel" type hunt for the problem. Every doctor seemed to have a bread crumb, but none got us out of the forest. :-) She was diagnosed with cervical and joint hypermobility in November. She was prescribed physical therapy, and restricted from pretty much being a kid. No running. No jumping.... and - worst of all- no horseback riding. Horses are the true love of her little life. We continued to search, feeling that there was much more to be discovered. Especially having two boys with a brain condition that originates in their occipital lobe, and presented with similar symptoms.  


January 3rd Bella woke up feeling worse than usual. She was extremely fatigued, and having severe dizzy spells (I had taken her to the pediatrician the day before for the dizzy spells). I home school my 4 children, and we were up in the classroom. She couldn't focus and was so very tired, so I made her a bed with a pillow in the classroom, and asked her not to get up without my help. Bella, however, is a stubborn one, and hates to ask for help. The following scene plays out in slow motion in my head everyday now. I turned from my desk, and saw her standing (I was, ironically, on hold with the pediatrician about her dizziness) I saw her standing wrapped in her blanket. I asked her what she was doing. All she said was "Mommy, I'm dizzy." and as I got up to help her she started to fall backwards, her head hit the wall at the very back and snapped her neck forward, and she fell to the ground. She was crying, and I sent one of the children to get ice as I tried to calm her down, but I could not even move her to put ice under her head. She said we looked blurry and then she said "Mommy, I can't feel my arms." A few minutes later "Mommy, I can't feel my legs." I called 911 and she was transported by ambulance to the hospital.... and she has not walked since. She was able to use her arms and hands the next day, and we expected her legs to respond, also- but they haven't. CT scan ruled out traumatic injury, and our daughter was sent home in a wheelchair. 


We took her to UNC  who diagnosed "dysautonomia", a disorder of her central nervous system. They told us that her brain can completely misunderstand sensory input, and when she hit her head on the wall, it shut down feeling to her arms and legs. They said that this disorder can cause all of the symptoms she is experiencing, and they are originating in her brain. Every time it "misfires" -- she suffers. She has good days and bad days, but -so far- no days with feeling in her legs.   On Friday, during a practice with her olympic science team, she lost feeling in her left arm, and an hour later she lost feeling in her right arm, also. That episode lasted about 6 hours before she could move them. We, as parents, believe that "dysautonomia" may just be another bread crumb. A true diagnosis, but there is more to discover.  Our next appointment is with UNC Complex Diagnostics to continue necessary testing, and find out what more there is to Bella's condition.


We believe that any day she could wake up and walk again. We tell her and her brothers and sister that any day she WILL wake up and walk again. Until then, we will continue to talk to doctors, meet with specialists and find the answers we need. We thank you for your support on this new journey.  Every day presents new challenges. One breadcrumb at a time....

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