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Hi Robin,
Not sure if you still read these posts, but I wanted you to know we still think about you and your precious Ashley, especially on this day. Taylor had surgery last year for her Crohn’s disease which was hoped to have given her a longer lasting remission but it sadly has not. She still powers on though, even though she is on the last biologic medication they feel may work for her, she has continued to go to the tech school and will receive her LPN pin next Tuesday (12/14/21). She will then bridge to the RN program. Being a nurse is really all she’s wanted to do since Ashley touched her life…Crohn’s just has slowed her down a bit. Even her sister, Katie, is in nursing school. We pray Ryan continues to do well along with you and the rest of your family. Have a wonderful holiday season and blessed 2022.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton , WI - Wednesday, December 8, 2021 7:01 AM CST
Hello Debes Family,
I’m not sure if you will see this because the page hasn’t been updated in awhile. But I hope you are all doing well. I see from the last post that Ryan is still cancer free, and I hope that is still the case. That makes me so happy. I still think of Ashley often, as I’m sure you all do as well. I was cleaning my room the other day and found my matching BFF necklace with her picture still inside and it made me smile. I began to reminisce on all the time we spent together and wish there was more of it. I have never spent as much time talking on the phone than I did talking with her, and I don’t think that will ever change. I still wear the other necklace she gave me for special occasions because I wish she could be here with me experiencing them. She is my most treasured and best friend and I know she still watches over us. I still have her picture by my bed with the ornament she made me hanging off of it. I can never bring myself to move it. She made such an impact on my life and I will never forget her.
I wish you all well.
Taylor Jeske
Taylor Jeske <jeske_taylor@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI United States - Sunday, June 9, 2019 0:34 AM CDT
9-years already - that just doesn't seem possible Ashley! Taylor has changed majors and colleges this year, but my guess is you know this already as you probably follow all the latest news on your bestie. She could use your help by putting a word in with the "big guy" for a smooth surgery on December 22 as she's having her tonsils removed. She's been plagued by throat issues since October that aren't resolving and the ENT says they need to come out, she just has to make it through finals. Extra prayers are welcome. We can't believe your little brother is so big already...wow a Fresman this year? How did that happen?! You must be doing a great job up there!! We wish your family a very blessed holiday season from all of the Jeskes here in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton , WI - Thursday, December 8, 2016 7:11 AM CST
Happy angel-wings day Ashley. Taylor wore your necklace when she graduated high school in June so she could feel like you did it with her! You were there with her in spirit as you are every day. I'm sure you were laughing wildly when she fell through the chair in her dorm room a few weeks ago...and continued to laugh every time you looked at the tear in the fabric! Please keep her out of trouble will ya? I know you can pull the right strings up there to make that happen! We all miss you and your bright smile but know God must be putting that to good use up there in heaven. Love to your family from the Jeskes in Appleton, Wi
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, December 8, 2015 8:40 AM CST
Hi, I just wanted to say Hello. I often think of you and remember Ashley, I can't believe she would be 18, I don't know where the years have gone.
All my love,
Vikki
Vikki <Viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Wednesday, February 4, 2015 6:40 AM CST
Hi Debes Family: To let you know, we think of you often and can't imagine how much your kids have all grown! As Caitlin has gone through different milestones the past 7 years, always think of Ashley and how she is sharing in all of her friends' experiences as well, just from a different view. You can be assured that Caitlin has her blue lights on at her dorm room in memory of her dear friend Ashley. Always loved Ashley's positive attitude and strength. She inspired us all. <3
The Raether Family
Shawano, WI - Tuesday, December 9, 2014 8:15 PM CST
Been thinking of you as always on this day. Love you guys.
Erica Debes Hartge <Edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville , FL USA - Monday, December 8, 2014 10:12 PM CST
Seven years feels so long yet it seems like yesterday you and Taylor were crazy fourth graders obsessed with Webkinz!❤️
Taylor carries a piece of you in her heart, Ashley. You will never be forgotten and I pray your family finds continued peace with such a beautiful angel watching over them.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Monday, December 8, 2014 9:34 AM CST
Wanted you to know that we still think about Ashley, and we hope Ryan is doing well. Sending hugs to your family.
xoxo
kim
Mom to Andrew
www.caringbridge.org/ca/andrew (although we dont update much)
Kim <kim.sprague@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA USA - Monday, September 1, 2014 9:03 PM CDT
Robin I don't know if you remember me or not. I worked with Dr Ganick for years when Ashley was first diagnosed. She and your entire family has touched my life more than you will ever know. I am so sad to learn of Ashley's passing. I think of her all the time and still laugh when I think of her calling me CC which she told me was for chubby cheeks. I hope you are all doing well and finding peace in her memories.
Kimberly Martens Gunn <Qkimber@gmail.com>
Green Bay, Wi USA - Tuesday, December 10, 2013 10:41 PM CST
Just wanted to visit and say hello as I remember how much Ashley loved Halloween.
Lots of love, Vikki
Vikki <Viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, November 1, 2013 1:27 PM CDT
Every once and a while I think of you and remember your girl. I checked in today just to see if your family is well..I was so glad to see the cancer free update for Ryan. Happy early birthday, Ashley.
Suzanne McDermott (the mistersmommy)- March 2002 PG <suzmcdmcd@gmail.com>
Guilford, CT - Tuesday, September 3, 2013 3:10 PM CDT
I have not visited in a very long time. I was happy to read that Ryan is 11! It doesn't seem like that long ago that Postcard Cindy and I did a fundraiser at Christmastime for your family. My Alison is now 26! She is teaching and just received her master's. Tomorrow we are swimming in Swim Across America to raise funds for Childhood Cancer Research at 2 of our local hospitals.
XXOO, Marey, Ali's mom
Marey
San Carlos, CA USA - Saturday, May 18, 2013 11:13 PM CDT
Hi Robyn and family,
Happy Belated Birthday to Ryan. Can not believe he is 11 already, sounds like he takes after his big sister. She was way beyond her years also. Can not believe it has been five years already. I still think of her often she was such a special young lady. My mother passed away on April 10 th, I hope she will get to meet Ashley in heaven. I hope all of you are doing well. Hugs and warm thoughts.
Grandma Jean RN <jeanpltr@yahoo.com>
Kimberly, WI USA - Thursday, May 16, 2013 10:38 AM CDT
Hi, although I don't come to your page very often I do think of you always. So many things remind me of Ashley (including S'mores and when people talk about gktw I remember her few trips there on her and Ryan's trip (and when she missed a bit of Ryan's so returned). I'm so pleased to see Ryan is doing so well, I can't believe so much time has gone by and how grown up he is and how grown up Ashley should of been.
All my love, Vikki from Post Pals
Vikki <Viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Thursday, January 10, 2013 1:00 PM CST
I still think of all of you so often. Hope you are all doing well. Have a blessed new Year
Kim
Kim Morgan <Ratchett1256@hotmail.com>
Green Bay, WI 54303 - Friday, December 28, 2012 12:30 AM CST
5 years is such a milestone. I think of Ashley and your family often.
Susan Gentry <sogren@rocketmail.com>
Colorado Springs, CO - Colorado United States - Thursday, December 13, 2012 9:16 PM CST
It's been 5 years already.... It feels like just yesterday me and Ashley were one the phone for hours. I miss her a lot and hope you know even today I still haven't forgotten about her, because she was my best friend. I still sometimes pretend I'm having a conversation with her if I'm having a hard time or just need to talk to someone. She still is and will forever be my best friend.
I am thinking of you guys today and hope all is going well with you.
Lots of love,
Taylor Jeske
Taylor Jeske <taytaylynne2015@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Saturday, December 8, 2012 3:17 PM CST
I am so happy Ryan is Cancer Free. I still think of you guys often.
Becky (Hohensee) Lohmiller <beckylohmiller@yahoo.com>
Green Bay, WI - Monday, October 22, 2012 7:57 AM CDT
I was just thinking about all of you today. Wish i had a different way to contact you. Wondering how all of you are doing....
Leah <leahkfinnegan@yahoo.com>
milwaukee, WI USA - Thursday, September 13, 2012 3:42 PM CDT
Just was thinking of you and your family, wondering how you are doing, wondering how Ryan is...Much love to you.
Suzanne McDermott (March 02 Board) <suzmcdmcd@gmail.com>
Guilford, CT - Tuesday, August 14, 2012 3:33 PM CDT
HI Robin, hope ypu get this!!! i do not have your email right now, do not know what happened. did you ever see the pics of Isaac.
i am at work and have a quick break. i was showing a new nurse ashley's photo and told her that she was my absolute sweetheart. i will miss her forever. i think about her very often. she was so sweet and kind and loving and funny!!!
i have her little dragon fly that she gave me on my birthday one year, still on my dresser. also have the frog. i miss all of you lots, hope all is well,
love jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
Green Bay, Wi 54301 - Sunday, July 22, 2012 10:13 AM CDT
Dear Mrs. Debes,
This is Katie Jeske, Taylor Jeske's sister. (I got on the UNLESS Core Committee!) Today was the UNLESS Rally and I wanted to tell you how much we raised this year. We rasied... $24,228.67 for the American Cancer Society!!! I wanted to call you and tell you over the phone, but my mom does not have your new home phone number or new cell phone number. I was balling my eyes out because of how much money we raised and because I was SO proud of all the students. Even people who first started UNLESS are still doing UNLESS and brought it to the High School! I hope you are happy to see that number we raised, I know I am and couldn't wait to tell you how much we all raised.
Sincerely,
Katie Jeske
(P.S. In case you don't know or remember what UNLESS is, it is a group of students that was formed at Woodland School to raise money for cancer. We have now been doing it for 4 years and remember Ashley every time.)
Katie Jeske <kkrae20218@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI United States of America - Friday, June 1, 2012 6:01 PM CDT
Thinking of you Ashley
peggy miller <peggysvette@aol.com>
markham, il united states - Wednesday, February 8, 2012 2:35 PM CST
December 8th. My birthday. Ashley's heavenly birthday. While I may not stop here often to leave a message, I hope you know that I think of you guys often, but especially on that day. I feel truly blessed to have been part of your family's journey and to share a birthday with such an amazing angel. Miss you all.
Evelyn Hansen <SASSY4475@AOL.COM>
Wauwatosa, WI - Wednesday, December 28, 2011 10:19 PM CST
This poem touched my heart as I hope it will yours. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer always.
MJ/marijeighn2010@gmail.com
A letter from Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
"It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly, you are part of my plan.
There is so much that we can do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you.... in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who is in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night...."My day was not in vain.
And now I am contented... that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile."
So if you meet somebody who is sad and low;
Just lend a hand to pick them up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going.... you're coming here with me.
Author Unknown
MJ <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Thursday, December 15, 2011 1:58 PM CST
4 years already? I can't beleive it has been that long... I miss her so much, life just isn't the same.
I hope you all are doing well :) and I'm wishing you all a merry christmas and a happy new year!
Taylor Jeske <taytaylynne2015@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 8, 2011 8:01 PM CST
It's so hard to believe that on this day, 4-years ago, we got the heartwrenching news that Ashley lost her battle with cancer. Ashley's passing has stayed with us, especially Taylor. She lost the best of friends that day and will always have a place in her heart for Ashley. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family on this difficult day.
Mrs. Drum @ Woodland asksed me the other day if I've heard from you recently and told me that she thinks of Ashley and your family often.
So happy to hear that Ryan is doing well after his tonsilectomy. I know so many kids have good results after having them removed. I'm sure he's bouncing back better than ever!
We wish you a Blessed Christmas season.
~The Jeskes in Appleton, WI
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 8, 2011 2:36 PM CST
I'm so glad that Ryan is doing well despite the tonsillectomy. Sending best wishes your way as we enter the Christmas season. I'm sure December is a very difficult month for you. God bless you and your family.
Bonnie Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
Nashotah, WI - Monday, November 28, 2011 10:45 AM CST
A Thanksgiving Poem
Dear Father who art in Heaven...
Please join our family on this Thanksgiving day
And bless each one as we sit down to pray
As we remember those who have joined You above
So dearly missed and deeply loved.
Please provide us strength on this Thanksgiving day
Bless us with memories of those faraway...
Please grant patience to family and friends as we grieve
And help us reach out to others who are bereaved.
We give thanks to You on this Thanksgiving day....
For Your presence in our lives each and everyday.
For Your comfort, guidance, and never ending love...
And for taking care of our loved ones...in Heaven above.
As we light this candle on this Thanksgiving day...
And it glows in memory of those in Heaven today....
May their lights always shine down on us and give us light...
And may we feel their presence along with Yours tonight.
May the peace and tranquility of this Thanksgiving day
Be an everlasting light within each of us along the way...
Lets bow our heads and give our Thanks to God above..
For our blessings, whether on earth or in Heaven above...
Amen
Poem graciously submitted by The Jason Program
MJ
marijeighn2010@gmail.com
MJ <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Monday, November 21, 2011 2:55 PM CST
Lots of love and positive energy from Brasil.
Rose <roselane.gomes@ibama.gov.br>
- Tuesday, November 15, 2011 6:25 AM CST
Thinking of you guys this weekend. I remember how much Ashley loved Halloween. I've never stopped thinking about all of you and I hope some day we can get together. Leah
leah stemberger finnegan <leahkfinnegan@yahoo.com>
milwaukee, wi - Saturday, October 29, 2011 9:36 AM CDT
Just checking in to see how Ryan is doing and to let you know that we think of Ashley. Sorry to hear about the vincristine damage to fine motor skills...Andrew has that too, and it stinks. We pray for your entire family and hope that God blesses you in amazing ways. xoxo Kim
www.caringbridge.org/ca/andrew <kim.sprague@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA USA - Sunday, September 11, 2011 0:18 AM CDT
An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings are holding a Prayer Vigil Thursday, May 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for all families on our Angel Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of children, teens and adults who gained their wings.
We Are Fighting For Our Children One Prayer At A Time....
If you have a specific Prayer Request or know someone who is in need of prayers, please feel free to email us using the links below this message.
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings
Marijeighn2010@gmail.com
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
Lawrence, MA United States - Monday, May 16, 2011 11:08 AM CDT
Good Morning I know how difficult Mother's Day can be when you have a child in Heaven. This poem was shared with me this morning, I hope it comforts you as it did for me. Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
Dear Mr. Hallmark, Sir
I am writing to you from heaven,
And though it must appear
A rather strange idea,
I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit
Your store to find a card -
A card of love for my mom,
As this day for her is hard.
There must be some mistake, I thought,
Every card so filled with worth,
Except I could not find one card
From a child whose not on earth.
She is still my mother, too,
No matter where I reside.
I had to leave, she understands,
But, oh, the tears she's cried.
I thought that as I wrote you,
You would come to know
That though I am no longer there,
I still love my mother so.
I visit with her in her dreams,
And she talks with me all the time,
She wonders if that's really me,
Would you let her know I'm fine?
She's planted many flowers,
Where my living memory grows,
She carries me with her everywhere,
No matter where she goes.
She does so many loving things,
So none will ever forget,
That I once lived and loved on earth,
Now my love she needs to get.
Oh, Mr. Hallmark, sir,
Though I no longer live on earth,
I must find a way to remind her
Of her loving, wondrous worth.
She needs to somehow receive,
My message loud and clear,
The same as other mothers will,
From children who are still there.
Thank you, Mr. Hallmark, sir,
I know you'll do your best.
For you are the one I count upon,
So to you I'll leave the rest.
Please find that way to let her know
No space or time or sea,
Will ever change the loving truth,
That my Mom she'll always be.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
Lawrence, MA United States - Saturday, May 7, 2011 9:41 AM CDT
Good Morning I was sent this poem as a remembrance for my Angel Michael. I thought it was very fitting as Easter approaches. Please know that I am thinking about all of you and keeping you close in prayer always. Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
AND GOD SAID
I said, "God, I hurt."
And God said, "I know."
I said, "God, I cry a lot."
And God said, "That is why I gave you tears."
I said "God, I am so depressed."
And God said, "That is why I gave you Sunshine."
I said, "God, life is so hard."
And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones."
I said, "God, my loved one died."
And God said, "So did mine."
I said, "God, it is such a loss."
And God said, "I saw mine nailed to a cross."
I said, "God, but your loved one lives."
And God said, "So does yours."
I said, "God, where are they now?"
And God said, "Mine is on My right and yours will be in the Light."
I said, "God, it hurts."
And God said, "I know."
marijeighn2010@gmail.com
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
Lawrence, MA USA - Saturday, April 23, 2011 7:53 AM CDT
An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will be
holding a Prayer Vigil on Tuesday April 19
between 8-9 pm EST for all the families on our
Angel_Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of
children,teens and adults who have gained their wings.
We Are Fighting For Our Children One Prayer
At A Time..
If You Have A Specific Prayer Request Or Someone Who Is In Need Of
Prayer Please Feel Free To Email Us At The Email Address Below.
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
marijeighn2010@gmail.com
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
Lawrence, MA USA - Sunday, April 17, 2011 7:16 AM CDT
Thinking of you and stopped by to let you know....Happy Birthday to Ryan!
Many hugs my friend,
Lisa Tignor <lisatignor@gmail.com>
Montclair, VA - Wednesday, April 6, 2011 9:10 PM CDT
An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will be
holding a Prayer Vigil on Saturday, March 19th.
between 8-9 pm EST for all the families on our
Angel_Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of
children,teens and adults who have gained their wings.
We Are Fighting For Our Children One Prayer
At A Time..
If You Have A Specific Prayer Request Or Someone Who Is In Need Of
Prayer Please Feel Free To Email Us At The Email Address Below.
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Thursday, March 17, 2011 12:46 AM CDT
Robin,
Just wanted to say Hi and am glad to hear that Ryan continues to remain healthy and cancer-free. I check Ashley's caringbridge page from time to time when I think about all the kids I worked with at Dr. Brandt's clinic and how grown up so many of them now are -- so hard to believe Ryan is 9 years old! I still think of Ashley often, she definitely holds a special place in many of our hearts and will do so for a long time to come. Hope you, Mark and kids are doing well and continue to heal from your loss. Take Care!
Chad Griepentrog <chadgrip@hotmail.com>
Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin USA - Thursday, March 3, 2011 6:33 AM CST
Robin, Mark & Family --
Happy to hear that your move has gone well and that the kids are adjusting to their new schools, etc. Sorry to hear about Ryan's difficult times with illness. Maybe those tonsils do have to go. A girl I work with's 3rd grader has been in and out of the doctor with strep this year and I think he's going to get them out too in hopes that strep will finally be gone! Darn tonsils!
We think of all of you often and wonder how you are doing. Taylor always enjoys reading about what you're up to. As I write, we're in the midst of a Winter Storm Warning here for 8-12 inches of snow. Yuck! I'd take those 3-inch storms you were talking about!
Take care and big hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Sunday, February 20, 2011 2:38 PM CST
An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will be
holding a Prayer Vigil on Saturday, February 19th.
between 8-9 pm EST for all the families on our
Angel_Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of
children,teens and adults who have gained their wings.
We Are Fighting For Our Children One Prayer
At A Time..
If You Have A Specific Prayer Request Or Someone Who Is In Need Of
Prayer Please Feel Free To Email Us At The Email Address Below.
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Thursday, February 17, 2011 10:41 AM CST
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY
I SAID A PRAYER FOR YOU TODAY
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard.
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind).
I asked Him to send treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day;
To grant your health and blessings
And friends to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small.
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Friday, February 11, 2011 2:26 PM CST
Robin
Your feelings are like mine .. I think in my beloved daughter every day of my life. She was very important to all that knew her: friends, doctors, nurses and all family. I miss her so much in this Christmas' day. May God bless you and all family.
Régiia
Sarah's mom forever
www.caringbridge.org/southamerica/sarah
Régia <regialopes@hotmail.com>
Natal, RN BRAZIL - Thursday, December 30, 2010 8:58 PM CST
Hi Robin and Mark,
I was thinking of Ashley all day on Dec. 8 as I was in Milwaukee at Froedert Hospital for an appointment with Bob. As I passed CHOW, I thought of the blue christmas ribbons I put up that year to honor Ashley and all of the lights your neigbors put on the tree outside. I also thought about not making it to Milwaukee before Ashley passed to heaven that night but I truly believe she wanted Jane and I to remember her differently and this is why she didn't wait for us, I still think of you all so often and just a quick note to let you know that you are still very much a part of my thoughts. Love to you all this Holiday Season and God Bless
Kim
Kim Morgan
Green Bay, WI - Tuesday, December 14, 2010 9:24 PM CST
Robin & Mark, Thinking of all of you and hope that somehow someway you find a little peace and comfort in your heart and soul. Not sure if that is even possible. Take care, Cor & Annie
Correen Lewis <sundance02@frontiernet.net>
- Friday, December 10, 2010 1:07 PM CST
thinking of Ashley today, really miss her but i know she's happy in heaven!!
Lindsey McFarlane
- Wednesday, December 8, 2010 8:39 PM CST
This day and every day, we remember your beautiful daughter. Taylor knew right away what day it was today and wore the necklace Ashley gave to her in remembrance. Seems like just yesterday they were giggling on the phone as they played Webkinz World.
Thinking and praying for you on this difficult day.
Hugs from the Jeskes to Debes family
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, December 8, 2010 9:55 AM CST
Hi Robin,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of Ashley and all of you at this difficult time. I still can't believe that she is gone 3 years. I remember clicking onto her site that day. I had to reread what you wrote 3 times. I just couldn't believe it. I sat there and cried. I have never met any of you, yet you have all touched my life. Please know that I pray for your whole family all the time.
Michelle Petrow
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Tuesday, December 7, 2010 10:40 PM CST
Last week in Language Arts, Taylor had to write a short essay about something that has change her life. She wrote about Ashley, whom she still refers to as her best friend. She wrote about how Ashley helped her to be brave when she got sick with Crohn's disease, how she tried to make sure she was there for Ashley when she relapsed, and how now she wants to be a pediatric cancer doctor and make a difference for other kids with cancer. I know she'll do it because she's had this goal for nearly three years now and it hasn't changed.
I've no doubt Ashley's always with Taylor as her special angel with Twinkie by her side. Happy and laughing at how Taylor's being a goofball one moment, serious the next.
It's so hard to believe it's been nearly three years now since your precious daughter got her wings. We continue to think about your family and hope all the Debes are doing well, especially Ryan, as you move forward into the holiday season.
Hugs to you all from the Jeskes in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Thursday, November 18, 2010 8:43 PM CST
Thinking of you this weekend as I know Ashley loved halloween x
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, October 29, 2010 10:29 AM CDT
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MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Saturday, October 16, 2010 3:17 PM CDT
HI Debes,
i still think of you guys so often. and i will always have a big hole in my heart for ashley... a bunch of us nurses were talking the other day about patients over the years. I, of course talked about ashley and how I loved her so very much... she will always be my precious girl...
I miss all of you and I hope life is kind to you... write me anytime you can.
love jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
Green Bay, WI USA - Friday, October 1, 2010 10:16 PM CDT
How are you guys doing? I think of you all often. Are you still in Wisconsin? We have to get together if you are. It has been way too long......
leah stemberger (used to be finnegan) <leahkfinnegan@yahoo.com>
milwaukee, wi USA - Wednesday, September 22, 2010 10:03 PM CDT
You did everything you possibly could to save her, but more important you did everything you possibly could to love her. I was always in awe of the type of mother you were. Yes, mothers will do anything for their children, but you never, ever complained or thought of yourself at all, through all your posts it was always about your daughter, and never about you or how hard it was for you. Not that it is wrong for parents to say how hard it is, because it isn't. But you so clearly thought only of your children and gave everything you had to them. I am so sorry you had to lose your little girl. She is free and healthy and safe, but that doesn't ease your loss. You mourn because you loved her so. And that Halloween story is one of the sweetest, it is clear your loving and giving ways were passed to your daughter. I know you will see her again and hug her again, next time forever.
Rita
- Thursday, September 16, 2010 10:17 PM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday angel :)
Hope you had an amazing day in Heaven celebrating!
Stacie Dillenburg <dillenb3@uwm.edu>
- Thursday, September 16, 2010 10:13 PM CDT
Sweet ones,
I am holding Ashley and all of you close in my heart and prayers during this very special time--Ashley's Birthday Anniversary and Chilhood Cancer Awareness Month. Ashley's amazing legacy lives forever in my heart.
B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+B+
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- Thursday, September 16, 2010 3:29 PM CDT
Happy birthday Ashley!
Tell Mamie and Jesus I love them.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy
Huntsville, AL - Sunday, September 12, 2010 7:45 PM CDT
Congrats to Ryan on 4 years OT!
Ali was 5 years OT March 28.
It seems just like yesterday that Postcard Cindy and I did the Christmas fundraiser for your family.
XXOO, Marey,
Ali's mom
http://caringbridge.org/ca/ali
Marey R. <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
CA - Wednesday, September 1, 2010 10:30 PM CDT
I wish your family the best and would like to send ryan my prayers.And ryan stay strong you will get through this i am praying for you. xoxo
Letisia <love-meorhateme14@live.com>
- Monday, August 23, 2010 0:00 AM CDT
Just wanted you to know that we've been thinking about all of you and wondering how the Debes family move went. Hope you're getting all settled in :)
The Jeskes <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, July 27, 2010 9:02 AM CDT
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- Monday, June 14, 2010 9:06 AM CDT
UPDATE: Just thought you'd like to know, Woodland's second annual "Shootin for a Cure" fundraiser for the American Cancer Society raised an amazing $7,738!! That's more than double what they raised last year.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, June 1, 2010 10:33 AM CDT
HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!
God bless,love & hugs,Linn,Daniel,Michael & Ariel
The Marrero's <gillinn7@msn.com>
- Sunday, May 30, 2010 6:52 PM CDT
We're so glad to hear Ryan is doing so well (aside from the exema -- nasty stuff! Taylor had a long bout of it when she was 5 although it would improve when winter came to an end).
We think of all of you often, and of course Ashley. She is never far from Taylor's thoughts. I was talking about Ashley at school last week. Woodland is having it's second "Shootin' for a Cure" fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. Ashley helped inspire the cause and if she could see what some of these kids are doing to raise money (wash cars, mow lawns, going door to door) I think she'd be tickled! Several teachers will get their heads shaved on Friday...and there's talk that a few females are letting go of their locks as well.
Hope you don't have a long move ahead of you. I know what a headache moving can be. Take care of yourselves. We always look forward to new updates on Ryan and the entire Debes family. Have a wonderful summer!
Tammy Jeske
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, May 25, 2010 10:23 PM CDT
I know how difficult Mother's day is for those whose child is now in Heaven. This poem has been a comfort to me as I pray it will be for you.
You can shed tears that she is gone,
Or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes & pray that she'll come back,
Or you can open your eyes & see all that she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
Or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow & live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
Or you can cherish her memory & let it live on.
You can cry & close your mind, be empty & turn your back,
Or you can do what she'd want:
Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
‘Author unknown’
Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Thursday, May 6, 2010 12:23 AM CDT
Love all the pictures you posted. What a beautiful family and Ashley is one beautiful angel. Glad Ryan is doing so well. 4 yrs OT is awesome! Your whole family is in our prayers. Moving on does not mean forgetting. Not a day will go by for the rest of your lives that you won't think of Ashley. As you move on, you still take her with you. She will always be your daughter, she will always be with you.
Laura, Ken, Nathan, Isabel, & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Friday, April 23, 2010 7:57 AM CDT
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Heart of North America, ND USA - Saturday, April 17, 2010 9:18 PM CDT
Hi Robin, our family was on vacation in Florida and decided to stop by Give Kids The World.....as soon as we arrived, memories flooded back, and I unexpectedly became so emotional. I remember meeting your family "in person" after years online....Ashley showed us the monitor that checked her blood, as we had ice cream together....I'm so sorry that she isn't here today....but wanted you to know that we were thinking of her. Praying for all of you, thankful Ryan is doing well. Xoxo
Kim Sprague
www.caringbridge.org/ca/andrew
Kim Spragu <Kim.sprague@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, Ca USA - Friday, April 16, 2010 8:16 PM CDT
Dear Debes Family - love the posted pictures, she is never far from thought - you don't know me, but I followed your story for years. She is not forgotten!
Linda Kinderman <linda.kinderman@thedacare.org>
Neenah, WI USA - Monday, April 12, 2010 10:57 AM CDT
Hello Dear Ones,
I hope you are all well and Spring is finding its way to you in WI. I saw a rabbit Easter weekend and thought of you guys. Maybe you smile when you see a rabbit knowing Ashley sent it your way to send you a smile.
Love you lots.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Wednesday, April 7, 2010 9:19 PM CDT
Happy Easter to the Debes family,
i was looking at these pics again today and saw the girls in their dresses and hats. it looked like an Easter morning...
Have a blessed Easter and know that Ashley is rejoicing in the resurrection and that she is so loved and is showering her love down on all of us...
i can picture her running around with all the Easter bunnies, how she loved bunnies...
I still love all of you and wish you the very best........
love jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
Green Bay, Wi USA - Sunday, April 4, 2010 11:00 AM CDT
I pray that you and your family have a blessed and joyous Easter.
THIS DAY'S GREATEST GIFTS
We can't change the past…
But we can gather up
It's lessons and move on,
Stronger and wiser.
We can't control the future…
But we can send our dreams
Ahead of us
To help prepare the way.
We can live each moment…
Heart and soul,
And cherish this day's
Greatest gift…
The gift of now.
May peace with the past
And faith in the future,
Gently guide you through each
Precious moment of Today.
Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Saturday, April 3, 2010 7:44 PM CDT
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- Monday, March 15, 2010 12:54 AM CDT
"Our Promise To You"
We may not hit your site each day
and days can turn to weeks...
But know that you are in our hearts
and of you to God we speak.
For you, Dear ones are on our list
of prayers we say each day
For strength to fill your weary heart
for grace to fill your day.
for light to fill your darkest hour
for peace throughout the night
Please know that we are standing by
through each step of your fight.
And should you need a special prayer
please come to us our friend
for Angel Wings will pray with love
and love will never end..
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Saturday, March 6, 2010 2:25 PM CST
thanks robin for the pictures, ashley is so beautiful!!!!!!!! i still check this site often and think of ashley all of the time. she is the kid that touched my heart and my soul and my life so much. i will miss her forever and ever... thank you for sharing your beautiful ashley with me... she is always in my heart......
love jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
green bay, wi USA - Thursday, February 18, 2010 7:12 AM CST
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Lawrence, Ma - Monday, February 15, 2010 12:47 AM CST
Keeping you close in my prayers.
God bless you
Michelle/ Angel Wings
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@comcast.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Wednesday, February 10, 2010 8:45 PM CST
Thinking of Ash tonight and what a beautiful angel she must be! I still remember how she would run to me and give me hugs! I miss her but know that heaven is sure lucky to have such a sweet little girl :)
Stacie Dillenburg <dillenb3@uwm.edu>
- Wednesday, February 10, 2010 1:58 AM CST
I have followed your daughter's page off and on since 2003. For the first time I could see your "new" pictures and wow, what beautiful pictures of beautful kids. They are all gprgeous pix, but I absolutely love the one of Ashley on the slide.
I know you miss your girl so much. You were always a wonderful mother to her, and I hope that brings you comfort. You can tell she knew how very loved she was (and still is). She will be back in your arms again one day, this time forever. My peace and comfort and beautiful memories surround you until then. God bless you and your family.
Rita B <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Monday, February 1, 2010 0:36 AM CST
Keeping your sweet family close in my prayers!
God bless you!
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@comcast.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Friday, January 29, 2010 10:51 PM CST
I find it hard to believe Ryan is 8, I remember so well you posting to say he had been diagnosed too.
All my love,
Vikki
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, January 23, 2010 6:37 PM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know the pain you feel, as I also lost my daughter to cancer (AML)in 2008 at the age of 16.
I hope your son continues to do well!
Tina
http://paige-haney.memory-of.com/About.aspx
Tina Haney <lilgirlie1012@yahoo.com>
East Liverpool, Oh usa - Friday, January 22, 2010 10:20 PM CST
I am so grateful to hear that Ryan continues to do well off treatment. Morgan's diagnosis came 4 years ago yesterday (1/13) and she also continues to stay in remission. God bless them both!
Vicki Corson www.caringbridge.org/visit/morganelizabeth <nordic23mom@gmail.com>
Northfield, VT 05663 - Thursday, January 14, 2010 8:08 AM CST
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Julie/Angel Wings Friend...... <momtoboywholoveshisgoats@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 12, 2010 11:43 AM CST
I pray that you all had a good Christmas. Please know that I am keeping your family especially Ryan in my prayers.
God bless!
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@comcast.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Sunday, December 27, 2009 3:42 PM CST
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless
Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Sunday, December 27, 2009 9:22 AM CST
A blessed new year to all of you.
Bonnie Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Saturday, December 26, 2009 12:21 AM CST
Love you lots. Wishing you a smile today.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Saturday, December 19, 2009 7:50 PM CST
Thinking of you all
Ruthie Bunkelmann , Seth's mommy <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach , Fl USA - Tuesday, December 15, 2009 8:56 PM CST
I know it's about 5 days late...but Taylor and Kaitlyn want to thank Ashley for giving them a snow day on Wednesday! :)
Glad to hear Ryan's doing so well. Keep up the good work!
Hugs,
Tammy
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Sunday, December 13, 2009 10:12 PM CST
Hi Ryan... glad to hear that you are doing well. Please know that we are all praying for you and your family.
God bless
Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Sunday, December 13, 2009 8:09 AM CST
Hi Robin...
It's Suzanne from the March02 Board.
I think about you guys from time to time and wanted to let you know that I remember Ashley. I cannot believe 2 years have gone by.
Hoping Ryan's allergies clear up soon.
Sincerely, Suzanne
suzanne (march 2002 PG) <suzmcdmcd@gmail.com>
guilford, CT USA - Thursday, December 10, 2009 1:24 PM CST
I can't beleive it has been two years, I still feel Ashley is here with all of us in spirit and I smile evey time I see a white amyrillis flower as this was the flower that bloomed two days after Ashely became an angel. I set out my powder blue angel yesterday and said a prayer for all of you for strength and love to bless you.Love and miss you all
Kim
Kim Morgan <bkmorgan@new.rr.com>
Green bay, WI USA - Wednesday, December 9, 2009 9:10 PM CST
Robin, Mark, and kids: I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of Ashley and all of you today and missing all of you dearly!
Nurse Evelyn <SASSY4475@aol.com>
Wauwatosa, wi - Tuesday, December 8, 2009 9:25 PM CST
i love you ashley my little sweetheart!!!!!!!!!!!
love nurse jane!!!!!!!!
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
greenbay, wi usa - Tuesday, December 8, 2009 4:24 PM CST
I am thinking of beautiful Ashley and all of you. Ashley's legacy of love will live forever in our hearts and minds.
Snow Angels
My little boy his limbs spread wide
Lays in the snow and flaps with pride.
While angel wings and gown he makes
I see an angelic smile upon his face.
My little boy is having fun
Making angels one by one.
For every impression he leaves in the snow
Another angel says a prayer he knows.
My little boy's snow angels
May melt and be gone,
But the memory of making them
In his heart will live on.
by: Inspiration
Angel Hugs and Blessings,
Ms. Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
Ms. Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
The Heart of North America, ND USA - Tuesday, December 8, 2009 11:29 AM CST
Thinking of all of you today.
Taylor misses her, especially.
It's kind of appropriate we have a winter storm for the anniversary, considering Ashley's love of the white stuff :) Bet that's all her doing! Taylor hopes that means she's giving them a snow day tomorrow. Time will tell.
Hope Jennifer is feeling much better after her tonsilectomy! Hugs from the Jeske's in Appleton to all of you.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, December 8, 2009 8:11 AM CST
Thinking and praying for your peace and comfort on this difficult day.
Blessings,
Michelle Petrow
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Tuesday, December 8, 2009 6:52 AM CST
Thinking of your family today on this anniversary of ^Ashley's^ homegoing. God bless you all.
Tracy/Angel_Wings <maverickmom08@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, December 8, 2009 6:00 AM CST
Hi Ashley!
I expect that two years in Heaven have not been enough to scratch the surface of wonderful new things to see and do. We look forward to the day when we can join you and continue the discoveries together where there is no pain, fear, or sadness.
Tell Mamie and Jesus I love them.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy
Huntsville, AL USA - Monday, December 7, 2009 10:07 PM CST
i will be thinking of my sweet girl all day tommorrow. my love is with you all!!!!!!!!
love jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
green bay, wi usa - Monday, December 7, 2009 8:38 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving from all of us at Angel_Wings
Thank You, God, for everything ...
The big things and the small,
For "every good gift comes from God" ...
The Giver of them all.
And all too often we accept
Without any thanks or praise,
The gifts You send as blessings
Each day in many ways.
And so at this Thanksgiving time,
We offer up a prayer;
To thank You, God, for giving us
A lot more than our share.
First, thank You for the little things
That often come our way;
The things we take for granted
And don't mention when we pray.
The unexpected courtesy,
The thoughtful, kindly deed,
A hand reached out to help us ...
In the time of sudden need.
Oh, make us more award, dear God,
Of little daily graces,
That come to us with "sweet surprise,"
From never-dreamed-of places.
Then, thank You for the "miracles"
We are much too blind to see,
And give us new awareness
Of our many gifts from Thee.
And help us to remember
That the "key" to "life" and "living,"
Is to make each prayer a "prayer of thanks,"
And every day THANKSGIVING.
~ Helen Steiner Rice ~
MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner , Ma - Monday, November 23, 2009 12:05 AM CST
From ALL-KIDS. It is wonderful to hear that your son is doing better.
I will continue to pray.
Michelle Riggs
washington, ok us - Saturday, November 21, 2009 8:21 AM CST
I'm so glad Ryan and the rest of you are on the mend!! Sadly, I think this old/flu season is going to be horribly long! Ugghhhh!
Hang in there!
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton :)
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, November 20, 2009 8:57 PM CST
Hi Ryan I am praying that you are doing well young man. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer. Hugs and Blessings MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner , Ma - Thursday, November 19, 2009 8:39 AM CST
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Why Pray? James 5:16 provides a worthwhile answer. “The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and wonderful results.” Why pray? God says it makes quite an impact!
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@comcast.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Monday, November 16, 2009 10:24 PM CST
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Adria (Serenity's mom)
- Thursday, November 12, 2009 9:01 PM CST
I hope the flu has moved on and you are all feeling better. It's a bummer that Ryan had to miss some of the festivities though :(
Mark, I hope your birthday was wonderful...sorry to not write sooner.
We continue to pray for you. Love you all lots. Be well!
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Thursday, November 5, 2009 6:22 AM CST
Hi Ryan I am so thankful that you are finally feeling better and praying that you will be completely recovered soon. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer always. Hugs and Blessings MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Monday, November 2, 2009 10:30 AM CST
Hi everyone!! I think about you all of the time. Unfortunatly we have the H1N1 in our house too. so far my husband and daughter have it. Has not gotten me yet and I must swab 20 kids a day for flu!! I am NOT bragging because sure enough if I do I will get it!! Take care and Jodi and Jean also are thinking of you. Love Kim
Kim Morgan <bkmorgan@new.rr.com>
Green bay, WI 54303 - Tuesday, October 27, 2009 9:14 PM CDT
So glad he is doing better...I was holding my breath on that one...
Ruthie Bunkelmann , Seth's mommy <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach , Fl USA - Sunday, October 25, 2009 7:50 PM CDT
Just checking in on you guys. Know that I think of you and of Ashley often.
Susan Gentry <sogren@rocketmail.com>
Colorado Springs, CO - Thursday, October 22, 2009 10:36 PM CDT
So sorry you guys are all feeling sick. I know H1N1 is making the rounds up here at schools too. In fact, Taylor's specialist cancelled her treatment yesterday because she is running a low grade fever and fighting a cold. Since he's seen a lot of those cold symptoms develop into H1N1...he didn't want to supress her immune system further with a fresh boost of Remicade. So we're watching and waiting...hopefully not too long.
With so many people getting so sick already, this early into the cold/flu season, it really makes you wonder what the next few months are going to be like! A lot of kids have been out around here...but so far no schools have closed in Kimberly.
I hope Ryan is just getting over what he already had (Kaitlyn gets a long term cough after a cold, it takes weeks to resolve) *fingers crossed*
Robin, Mark, Jennifer, Kelsey & Ryan...you All take good care of yourselves, push fluids, rest, etc. It's all we can do.
Hugs from all of us in Appleton
p/s Taylor went to camp at Trees for Tomorrow last week with the JRG 7th grade. She fell in a muddy bog in 25 degree temps up to her waist...I'm sure that didn't help her health either!
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, October 21, 2009 7:01 PM CDT
I don't sign the guestbook often, but do think of your family and pray for you every day. I followed Ashley's journey for a long time and only wish that she could have beaten the disease as did Ryan and my granddaughter Melanie. I hope you all are feeling better soon and that Ryan is able to avoid the bug.
Peggy Hines
Cadillac, MI - Tuesday, October 20, 2009 10:41 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
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are holding a Prayer Vigil on Monday,
October 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
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of children, teens and adults who
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Thank you for joining us!
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MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Thursday, October 15, 2009 8:26 AM CDT
Thinking of you...
{{HUGS}}
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, October 13, 2009 5:12 PM CDT
Hi Ryan I hope all is going well for you and that you are enjoying school. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer. Hugs and Blessings MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Tuesday, October 13, 2009 3:18 PM CDT
I hear ya Robin....it is the first thing that always crosses my mind when Seth's sister or brother is sick....especially when the symptoms are close to what Seth's were. Hope he is all better soon.
Ruthie Bunkelmann , Seth's mommy <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach , Fl USA - Friday, October 2, 2009 5:13 AM CDT
Hi Ryan I hope you are feeling better and are able to go back to school. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you in prayer always. Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Thursday, September 24, 2009 7:50 AM CDT
{{{Robin}}}
I know you miss Ashley so very much, and I can understand the camera thing.
I'm sorry that Ryan had the crud. Seems to be going around though. Kevin was sick yesterday and stayed home - missed a day of school and it's only the 2nd full week! He's now feverish, wheezing and coughing - sounds like what Ryan had....and yes, we'll always freak over every fever, pale face, bruise, etc.
I think of you often. It's good to hear how you're all doing.
xoxo
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Wednesday, September 23, 2009 9:49 PM CDT
I am so sorry about Ashely, that is terrible. RIP Ashley. I am 11 and I have been following little Taylor Warren's story.. and I came across this sad story..
Laura E.
Ashmore, IL USA - Sunday, September 20, 2009 10:08 AM CDT
Thinking of you all this week, especially Ashley. Taylor is enjoying JRG and being a 7th grader this year, but she always thinks about her best bud and how different things would be. Kaitlyn is a 4th grader this year and will be doing the Kettle Moraine field trip in October. It's hard to believe it was just three short years ago I took pictures of Taylor, Ashley and Jaelynn up at the top of the lookout tower there. Good memories, their smiles were so big, the picture sits by Taylor's bed.
Hope school is going well for the girls as well as Ryan. We're so excited that he now gets 6 months between checkups! You go Ryan!!
Hugs to you all from the Jeske's in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, September 16, 2009 7:50 AM CDT
My heart goes out to you.
Bonnie Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
Nashotah, WI - Tuesday, September 15, 2009 11:11 AM CDT
Robin, I know your heart must have broken at Ryan's words....but how great to hear how well he is doing. :o) Big hugs my friend,
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Saturday, September 12, 2009 11:28 PM CDT
Hi Ryan I am so thankful you are doing so well and I wish ^^Ashley^^ was there with you also, but I am sure she is smiling at you and so happy for your results. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Friday, August 28, 2009 10:15 AM CDT
Wonderful news! Congrats to your whole family! It's hard to go that long without a check up isn't it? I am having a hard time adjusting to that as well! Stay strong.
Steph www.caringbridge.org/nd/josh <stephaniejochim@yahoo.com>
Flasher, ND - Wednesday, August 26, 2009 1:39 PM CDT
I am an old timer from ALL-KIDS. I was so glad to read about Ryan's progress. I regularly pray for your family - for continued good health and for the mending of your broken hearts. I know that God has good things for you all and that He loves you. Rachel
rachel
- Monday, August 17, 2009 1:40 PM CDT
Hurray for Ryan! I'm so glad you continue to journal from time to time. I think of all of you often and do check this site for your updates.
Bonnie Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Saturday, August 15, 2009 12:49 AM CDT
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karen ulickey <azalia31@yahoo.com>
plainfield, il usa - Thursday, August 13, 2009 7:48 PM CDT
Robin,
I saw this poem on another caringbridge site and thought of you.
I give you this one thought to keep –
I am with you still – I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone –
I am with you still – in each new dawn.
Always praying for your peace and comfort.
Blessings,
Michelle Petrow
www.caringbridge.org/nj/jaclynpetrow
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Thursday, August 6, 2009 8:46 AM CDT
Haven't checked the website for a while...but did tonight because we're watching a dog show on Animal Planet and saw the Great Pyreness and immediately thought of you with your new dog who, I'm sure, is keeping your life jumping!
How thrilled we were to hear of the great news for Ryan -- three years cancer free is an incredible blessing!!! WTG Ryan!! Good luck to Ryan with his swim classes, I'm sure he'll start to enjoy them once he gets comfortable in the water. Then you'll have the trouble of trying to get him OUT!!
Taylor talks about Ashley all the time...reminiscing about silly things they did. She's always with her in her heart and her mind...and it's nice to see her talk about Ashley so happily now. I can hardly believe Taylor's starting Middle School this fall. Ryan's a big 2nd grader now...Jennifer and Kelsey are both High School girls...where does the time go!?
You take care of yourselves. Hope you all are having a great summer.
Hugs to the Debes from the Jeskes!
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Monday, August 3, 2009 8:36 PM CDT
Robin-
I was thinking about you guys the other day and wondering how you all were doing. Congrats on Ryan reaching the 3 yr. mark! I know that Ashley is smiling down, very happy that Ryan is doing so well. Take care Ryan. :-)
Lorie, mom to Ben (pre-b cell ALL, dx. 8/03, OT 10/06)
ALL-Kids list
Lorie <lghirsh@hotmail.com>
Knoxville, TN - Thursday, July 30, 2009 9:05 AM CDT
Hi Family,
CONGRATULATIONS on 3 years of being Cancer-free.
May all the days add up to two MORE years so we'll be celebrating 5 years before you know it.
Blessings as you travel this journey, all while holding your angel-sis close to your hearts.
Yes, lifting up the family of your friend who lossed yet another child to the dreaded big c. Small letters in hopes of the day when a cure is found and no more families will have to suffer. Of course they're angry at the world. It's going on making the glaring heart-chasm blindingly evident. How kind of you to remember, and cue folks in. May friends stand fast.
We lost our Mom to cancer, mean nasty stuff. But her valiant spirit triumphed thru to the end, just as your precious angel did.
You brightly you each have shined (just wish there weren't such yucky reasons to do so). May every day be a celebration, every breath a treasured gift. May you go on to do great things.
Much love, honor, respect and warm support,
Ms Lu
w/Hugs&Hope
Lucel-Melody Wings
Atlanta, Ga USA - Monday, July 27, 2009 10:41 PM CDT
Ryan,
What can I say except what super news. Congratulations on 3yrs. cancer free. I will continue to have u in my thoughts & prayers. Enjoy the summer.
I'll be back soon for another visit.
(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))
Love Eileen OnesWhoCare,Dabbles&Doodles,PostPals,Hugs&Hope
Eileen <Lobosgirl@aol.com>
NY, NY USA - Monday, July 27, 2009 6:34 PM CDT
Big number three tomorrow. What a wonderful thing!
Our summer is only a few more weeks (back to school Aug 13). I hope your upcoming weeks are relaxing and fun. Sending a hug to each one of you!
Praying for you all...all the time.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, fl USA - Monday, July 27, 2009 7:49 AM CDT
congrats on being 3 years off treatment (minus a day)
Love Viks
www.postpals.co.uk
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Monday, July 27, 2009 6:20 AM CDT
Morning Ryan and Family I too have prayed for Kyle's healing and will continue to pray for his family during the trying times ahead. I pray for Ryan to remain cancer free for the next two years and for his complete healing. I hope you are having a wonderful summer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner , Ma - Friday, July 24, 2009 8:45 AM CDT
Robin,
Once again, I am amazed by your strength, by your kindness, by your compassion. No one knows what it is like for a mother to lose her child unless that person too has lost a child. Your words to Denises' friends are priceless. I hope that you too are surrounded by those that understand the hard life that you now lead without your precious Ashley. I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Prayers, blessings and hugs being sent your way.
Michelle Petrow
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Saturday, July 18, 2009 6:28 PM CDT
Thank you so much for letting us know about Kyle. I just visited and am keeping him in prayer
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Thursday, July 16, 2009 10:09 AM CDT
AN INVITATION
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The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings are holding a Prayer Vigil on Sunday, July 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for all the families on our Angel_Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of children, teens and adults who have gained their angel wings.
If you or a loved one is battling cancer or chronic illness you found a refuge! Here we hope to inspire and encourage! You have friends here who have been on similar journeys and it is our heartfelt desire to offer our support through our prayers to you and your family. You are not alone. We pray for hope and renewed strength for you daily.
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Laurel, MS USA - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 10:32 PM CDT
Morning Ryan hope all is going well for you today and that you are enjoying your summer. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 10:25 AM CDT
Hi Robin,
I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today. Your angel Ashley is never far from my mind. I'm so glad that Ryan is doing well.
Hugs!
Nancy, Matthew's Mom
Nancy Vinson <nancyvinson@verizon.net>
- Friday, July 10, 2009 8:57 AM CDT
You don't know me but I want you to know you are in my prayers - my daughter has ALL, similar age/diagnosis to Ashley, but we are just starting the chemo journey. Please continue to share your story and strength with others. I wish you much peace in your hearts.
Katie Bronec
Canby, OR USA - Tuesday, July 7, 2009 9:30 PM CDT
Thank you for sharing Kyle's site I will go and visit him and keep him in prayer. I am glad your trip to the dentist went well Ryan. Hope you are having lots of fun this summer young man. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Tuesday, June 30, 2009 4:05 PM CDT
Robin,
Thank you for sharing Kyle's web site.I just visited his site and requested our Prayer Angels to pray for him..Our
thoughts and our prayers continue to be with your family..
Trish/Angel_Wings/AngelWingsRemembers <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Mall, TN USA - Thursday, June 25, 2009 5:47 PM CDT
hey i am friends with taylor jeske and am in full suport of u guys!!!!
Taylor Jupp
- Tuesday, June 23, 2009 2:30 PM CDT
Morning Ryan Hope you have a great day today. I will be praying for your dentist appointment to go well and that you will be fine quickly. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you in prayer
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Monday, June 22, 2009 6:35 AM CDT
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The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Friday,
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Gardner, Ma - Friday, June 12, 2009 7:11 PM CDT
Hi Everyone, Polar is just adorable. Can't wait to see pictures of him as he grows. Have alot of fun with him.
Lloyd and Susan
Mukwonago, WI - Sunday, June 7, 2009 8:13 PM CDT
Hi Ryan just popping in to say HI I hope all is going well with you and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Wednesday, June 3, 2009 6:55 AM CDT
Hello All!...And welcome home Polar! Sadi will be on her toes I'm sure. I hope the summer bring you all some wonderful R&R time. We miss you all. Sending love, hugs and prayers your way.
Erica Debes Hartge <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 5:21 AM CDT
Morning Ryan I am so thankful you are doing well, hope your throat is feeling better now. Your new puppy sounds beautiful. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 7:52 AM CDT
I hope every thing is ok at home. I miss ashley too she was like a sister to me. I hope ryan does not relaps. Have a good weekend.
Taylor Jeske
Taylor Jeske <tkjeske@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 15, 2009 10:15 AM CDT
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Trish/Angel_Wings/AWR <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Mall, TN USA - Tuesday, May 12, 2009 6:13 AM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER"S DAY to YOU, Robin
You are truely an amazing mom!!!
"Her Children WILL rise up & call her BLESSED!!!!"
Remeber......They hold Your hands for a short time....but You hold their hearts FOREVER!!!!
Love ot you,
Blake(http://wwww.carinbridge.org/sc/blakester) & Mom
Julie/Angel Wings Friend...... <momtoboywholoveshisgoats@yahoo.com>
Greenwood , South Carolina USA........In GOD We Trust, Forever!!!!!! - Sunday, May 10, 2009 3:55 PM CDT
Wishing you a wonderful Mother's Day, Robin.
You are one of, if not THE, strongest mother I have ever met!
Hugs from our family to yours.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Saturday, May 9, 2009 9:51 PM CDT
Morning Ryan and Family I hope all is going well for you. I am thinking about you and keeping you in prayer always.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Friday, May 8, 2009 7:02 AM CDT
Hey Robin,
My heart aches for you. Your writings are so very real and touch something deep inside. You are living my worst nightmare. I wish there was something, I could do or say to help ease your pain. Know that you and your family are never far from my thoughts and prayers. Take care of you,
Cor
Correen Lewis <sundance02@frontiernet.net>
Keshena, WI - Thursday, April 30, 2009 6:51 PM CDT
Keeping all of you close in my thoughts and prayers.
Steph Jochim www.caringbridge.org/nd/josh <stephaniejochim@yahoo.com>
Flasher, ND - Wednesday, April 29, 2009 1:58 PM CDT
Hey Ryana & Family....
Your South Carolina Prayer Warriors stopping by to Wish you a HAPPY WEEK!!!!
praying for you & thinking about you all often!!!
your Friends in SC
BLAKESTER
& Mom
Julie <momtoboywholoveshisgoats@yahoo.com>
Greenwood, South Carolina USA........In GOD We Trust, Forever!!!!!! - Sunday, April 19, 2009 3:17 PM CDT
Hi Ryan and family!!!
Just checking to see how everyone is doing. Ashley is missed by everyone. We think of her and check back here often.
Cody's Wheels Of Hope (www.cwoh.org)
Cindy Filson <info@cwoh.org>
Erie, PA USA - Friday, April 17, 2009 4:39 PM CDT
Morning Ryan and Family Just wanted to drop by to tell you I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Friday, April 17, 2009 9:38 AM CDT
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- Wednesday, April 15, 2009 7:58 AM CDT
Happy Easter Debes Family!
Just wanted you to know we were thinking of Ashley and the rest of you on this day.
Hugs and God's blessings for continued strength,
The Jeske Family -- Appleton, WI
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Sunday, April 12, 2009 2:57 PM CDT
I hope you have a blessed Easter, knowing that Jesus bought our tickets to be together forever where there is no pain, fear, or sadness.
www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy
Huntsville, AL USA - Friday, April 10, 2009 10:04 PM CDT
Hi Robin,
That saying that you wrote "to the moon and back" and the part that the girls added are beautiful.
I am sorry that I have not been writing in the CaringBridge, but I do think about Ashley, Ryan and all of you all the time. And you are all in my prayers every day.
I will be going to DC in June with CureSearch to ask for funding for pediatric cancer research.
I will make an announcement soon to all those I am in touch with through the cause in case any of you will be there also and would like to meet.
Dan Cohen <danco1968@hotmail.com>
North Miami Beach, FL U.S.A. - Sunday, March 29, 2009 8:33 PM CDT
Dear Ryan,
I am sorry that I am late wishing you a happy birthday.
I hope that you had a great day.
Sending you a hug,
Dan Cohen <danco1968@hotmail.com>
North Miami Beach, FL U.S.A. - Sunday, March 29, 2009 8:26 PM CDT
Hey Girl the lord be with you, we here at Collierville First Pentecostal Church are praying for you. I believe God is right beside you all the way. Hey if you want to hear some church Services go to www.collierville1stpentecostal.com. God Bless you.
Pastor Terry Hunt <Collierville1st@bellsouth.net>
Collierville, TN. USA - Sunday, March 29, 2009 11:22 AM CDT
Hey Robin,
I remember that saying, "To the moon and back". Jennifer and Kelsey used to have me say it to them when I babysat.....After I read 3-5 books because they didn't want to go to sleep. We miss all of you. The family is always in our prayers.
Becky "Hohensee" Lohmiller
Green Bay, WI U.S. - Saturday, March 28, 2009 0:46 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Ryan!!!!!! Wishing you a wonderful
fun-filled day full of surprises. May all your wishes come true. Continuing to surround you with love and prayers. God bless you.
Angel Hugs and Love, Julie---Angel_Wings
Julie Price <angel_collector@ymail.com>
Newark, OH USA - Thursday, March 26, 2009 8:50 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
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Thank you for joining us.
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Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Saturday, March 14, 2009 11:35 AM CDT
Hi Robin and family,
Robin, you write so well. I have been thinking of you and Ashley and what an incredible woman and mother you are. And how unfair life was for Ashley. I know it's natural to look back and wonder "what if," but I think you and Mark did everything you could and made all the decisions you had to. You made Ashley's life bright and full of love.
Thinking of all of you. Love,
Jacquelyn and Graydon (ALL-KIDS; www.caringbridge.org/canada/graydon) <jacquelynwv@yahoo.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Saturday, March 14, 2009 9:40 AM CDT
hi robin and mark and jennifer, kelsey and my sweet ryan,
just checking in to see how all of you are. i miss all of you!!!!!!
not a day goes by that i do not think of sweet ashley. i miss her spirit and no matter how many kids i am with each day no one will ever be able to capture my heart like your sweet ashley!!!!!!!!
i know a day will come when i see her again and she will be waiting for me at the pearly gates and say "wow, you made it nurse Jane"... i will give her the biggest hug!!!!!!!
you are all in my thought and prayers and i only wish the best for all of you,
love jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
greenbay, wi usa - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 11:58 PM CDT
I could not have said it better
Ruthie Bunkelmann , Seth's mommy <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach , Fl USA - Saturday, March 7, 2009 1:38 PM CST
Please know that we are keeping your family close in our prayers. Sending special prayers to Ryan!
Angel hugs,
Michelle C
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@c-gate.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Thursday, February 26, 2009 12:58 AM CST
The words that stick out from your entry are "the pain of cancer". Most people associate that with physical pain but we know all too well, it means so much more such as emotional and financial.
This grief journey is a hard one and I think of you often as I pray for our children who had to leave this earth before us, for a reason we can't comprehend. May you surround yourself with good memories and over time may they overshadow any bad ones.
I think of my Ethan in heaven with strong legs, a bright white smile, a head full of hair, and more energy than he knows what to do with.
Gloria Galaska <gregg.galaska@att.net>
Oak Creek, WI US - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 7:26 PM CST
HI Robin,
Happy Birthday! Didn't know today was your special day, was just checking in on the site. I hope today you can celebrate the wonderful woman you are and all the gifts God has given you, even though one of your most precious gifts is smiling down from above. You have shared your love and your pain with so many and have inspired so many to stay strong in their battles. Prayers continue for you and your family to have peace and feel God's grace in your lives.
Think of you all often.
Lynn
Lynn Herge <enjsfolks@earthlink.net>
Appleton, WI - Friday, February 20, 2009 0:43 AM CST
You have a wonderful gift with words, Robin. I'm so glad to hear that Ryan continues with good health. Today is your birthday. Happy birthday--enjoy it to the fullest.
Bonnie Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
Nashotah, WI - Thursday, February 19, 2009 11:11 AM CST
*AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS*
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Thursday,
February 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
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Thank you for joining us.
Sincerely. . . .Polly
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
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Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Tuesday, February 17, 2009 6:11 PM CST
Thinking of you on Valentine's Day. We think of you often...even more so on a day dedicated to love. Thank you for being you and being a shining example of loving with all you are and all you have in you.
Hugs and love to all...
Gary, Erica, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Sunday, February 15, 2009 3:00 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day !!!! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and close to my heart.
With Love and Angel Hugs, Julie----Angel_Wings
Julie Price <angel_collector@ymail.com>
- Saturday, February 14, 2009 9:04 PM CST
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Kim <miller.k1971@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 14, 2009 9:49 AM CST
Hello dear ones!
Jennifer I hope your birthday was wonderful. I was just looking at a picture of you and Rachel as little, little girls - babies really. Time does fly by.
So sorry to hear about Twinkie.
Hugs to you all. You are always in our prayers.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Monday, February 2, 2009 9:09 PM CST
Happy belated birthday Jenny. didn't get a chance to come on on the 31st. Miss you. The entire family's always in my thoughts.
Liz Buchert <seniortroupes_2005@yahoo.com>
Shawano , Wi - Monday, February 2, 2009 5:13 PM CST
Please know that we are keeping you and your family close in our prayers.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. – Philippians 4:6
God bless you,
Michelle/ Angel Wings
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@c-gate.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Thursday, January 29, 2009 8:09 PM CST
Robin & Family,
Thank you so much for your lovely post. I have printed it for Taylor. We were devastated by Twinkie's loss tonight. We worked hard for two long weeks trying to help her kick whatever was making her feel bad -- and for a while she was doing much better. As you said, we just never know when our time comes. Taylor is comforted knowing Twinkie and Ashley are reunited but still very sad just the same. It was hard for her to call you tonight and tell you the news because she felt so bad. Thank you again for your wonderful words, it will help her more than you can possibly know.
Hugs to all the Debes family from the Jeskes in Appleton
Tammy <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Sunday, January 25, 2009 9:40 PM CST
Thinking of Ashley today and hoping your pain recedes but your memories of Ashley remain vivid. Prayers, as always, for you and your family.
Tammy Nunez <tnunez@tpmail.com>
- Sunday, January 18, 2009 1:11 PM CST
Robin & Family --
Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you all. Taylor turns 12 on Saturday and it just doesn't seem possible. We remember how much fun Ashley was when she came for Taylor's party when she turned 10 -- it seems so long ago, but also just like it was yesterday. We miss her too and have been thinking about her alot because Twinkie has been sick. We've spent a small fortune at the vet trying to get her through it because she was Ashley's bunny and she's Taylor's last physical link to her. So I'm giving her meds at home, and IV fluids daily. We won't give up on her! We can see Asley's spirit in Twinkie as she fights to get over whatever is making her sick! Lots of hugs from the Jeske's in Appleton to all of the Debes family.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, January 14, 2009 9:23 PM CST
Hey Robin,
Just wanted to drop you a line to let you know that I still think of, and pray for you and your family.
Love,
Sarah DeBenedetto
www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexdebenedetto
Sarah DeBenedetto <sarah_dbd@yahoo.com>
Oconto, WI USA - Wednesday, January 14, 2009 10:36 AM CST
Hi Robin and family,
I check Ashely's site everyday to see how you're doing. While training for a marathon in '07 and near hitting the wall, I would think of Ashley for strength and it always worked. Our thoughts are always with you.
Ethan (Megan's dad)
Ethan Avery <ethan_avery@qsm.com>
Rockville, MD - Monday, January 12, 2009 1:30 PM CST
Hi Robyn, wanted to drop by and see how you were all hanging in there. I have been thinking about you and hoping you had made it through the holidays ok. I know it is hard when you are missing one of your girls.
Thinking of you and continuing to pray for you.
Margie, mom to Karissa- dx'd with ALL 1/95 ot 9/97; Anna- dx'd with ITP 2/91 progressed to MDS 3/04 and now in need of a bone marrow transplant; and William dx;d with ITP 12/94; and wife to Kris for almost 24 years <huhnerhaus@comcast.net>
Ft . Lewis, WA USA - Monday, January 12, 2009 1:29 PM CST
ATTENTION PRAYER WARRIORS!!!
PLEASE JOIN OUR PRAYER VIGIL MONDAY, JANUARY 19TH, 2009 BETWEEN THE HOURS OF 8-9 PM. EST. FOR ALL THE FAMILIES ON OUR ANGEL_WINGS PRAYER LIST AND OUR ANGEL FAMILIES OF CHILDREN AND ADULTS WHO HAVE EARNED THEIR WINGS.
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Tammy/Angel_Wings <Angel_Wings@yahoogroups.com>
- Monday, January 12, 2009 0:25 AM CST
Dear Robin and family,
We just wanted to stop by and see how you all are holding up. Just wishing you all some peace in 2009 and continued health for Ryan. The Melkonians
Darlene and Christopher Melkonian http://www.caringbridge.org/md/chrismelko <melkonid@comcast.net>
Gaithersburg, MD - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 9:09 AM CST
Just a quick note to let you know that I keep all of you in my prayers. I can't imagine what it is like to lose a child but I hope it helps to know that you are thought of and prayed for. I wish you smiles and only the best for your future.
Steph www.caringbridge.org/nd/josh <stephaniejochim@yahoo.com>
Flasher, ND - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 9:07 AM CST
Hello Debes Family,
We are hoping the New Year brings you some joy. It IS hard to get through the holidays without our Angels. 5 years ago our grandson, Cody, had the most wonderful Christmas a child could wish for. 6 weeks later he was gone. They will always be in our hearts and minds - and there will always be pain - but I feel they are with us each day to help us deal with that pain. Please know that you are not alone.
Cody's Wheels Of Hope (www.cwoh.org)
Cindy Filson <info@cwoh.org>
Erie, PA USA - Sunday, January 4, 2009 10:29 PM CST
Dear Debes Family, Hello and hugs to each of you. Thinking of you with love. You are always in my heart and thoughts and prayers. Another Christmas with our Angels celebrating with the Birthday Boy Himself - I imagine it is glorious, and Ashley and Katie are surely in the middle of it all, smiling and laughing. My love to you all. Take good care and know I am thinking of you. Keep on hanging in there. Much love, Muffy (and family).
Muffy Culhane <mkculhane@shawanonet.net>
Shawano, WI USA - Saturday, January 3, 2009 2:49 PM CST
Hi Ryan and family,
Time goes by so fast these days. Please know that I am keeping your family close in my prayers. I pray that you are enjoying your Christmas holiday.
Michelle Council/ Angel Wings <mcouncil@c-gate.net>
Laurel, MS USA - Sunday, December 28, 2008 4:46 PM CST
Good morning dear ones. Just wanted to send you warm wishes on a cold day. We love you all. You are always in ou prayers. Wishing you happy moments...smile when you can.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, December 23, 2008 6:14 AM CST
Just a message to say we will be thinking of you this Christmas.
Love From Everyone at Post Pals
www.postpals.co.uk
Post Pals <info@postpals.co.uk>
- Tuesday, December 23, 2008 0:30 AM CST
hey Debes family! I just wanted to say that I really miss Ashley and to let you know I'm praying for you and her in heaven!
Caitlin Raether <lime_green_chickens@yahoo.com>
Shawano, WI USA - Thursday, December 11, 2008 5:15 PM CST
Robin--I toured the Ronald McDonald House for the first time today and thought of you, the family, and Ashely. I pictured you all there, after a long day (and night) at the hospital. I love seeing the pictures on Ashley's page- you and Ashely are in my heart. Wishing you peace, Stacy
Stacy Brett <sbrett@chw.org>
- Wednesday, December 10, 2008 9:40 PM CST
Hello Debes family, Sending prayers, courage & strength to all of you. Hope Ryan knocks that strep bug. Love, Donna
donna seranko
lombard, il - Wednesday, December 10, 2008 5:23 PM CST
Hi Debes,
I'm holding your family close in my heart and prayers.
Sending love and hugs,
Tammy at Angel Wings
- Wednesday, December 10, 2008 9:37 AM CST
Hi Debes,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and holiday season! I still have a picture of Ashley and continue to think of her often! God Bless! :)
Stacie Dillenburg <dillenb3@uwm.edu>
- Wednesday, December 10, 2008 1:23 AM CST
Robin ... thinking of you during these difficult holiday times.
God Bless,
Dawn - forever Elijah's mom-mom
www.carepages.com Carepage: elijahcarlsoncarepage
Dawn Carlson <dawn_carlson@iowatelecom.net>
Janesville, IA - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 4:09 PM CST
Hi Debes Family:
Just wanted to let you know that we've been thinking of you (as we do throughtout the year), and we pray for continued strength for your family. Caitlin wore blue to school yesterday in memory of Ashley. Every time we see blue Christmas lights, we think of her as well.
God bless!
The Raethers
Shawano, WI - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 12:23 AM CST
Thinking of all of you during these difficult days and every day. How appropriate that we've experienced the first major snowstorm of the season on the anniversary of Ashley's passing. Coincidence? I don't think so. Thanks Ashley, the girls are loving the snowday you've brought them. Hugs to all the Debes from the Jeskes in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 11:17 AM CST
Hi Debelings, Just stopping by to let you know you are all in our thoughts and prayers, especially at this time of year. Take care, Annie & Cor
Correen Lewis <sundance02@frontiernet.net>
Keshena, WI - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 10:48 AM CST
Thinking of you and beautiful Ashley today, as I do everyday. Joy for Ashley, because she is so free, free of pain, free of treatment and hospitals, free to run and jump and play and do all the things she couldn't here on Earth. Free of cancer, forever. But sadness for her family, because they miss her so and have to find a way to live without her here on Earth.
She will be back in your arms again one day Robin, and this time forever.
I am glad you could keep your kids home and seek comfort in each other. You have always been such a wonderful mother.
Rita B <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:17 AM CST
hey robin and family, i hope you guys are doing well, i miss seeing ashley at my regular appt. and i sure wish we could have gotten closer, it makes me sad writing this message but when i randomly decided to check ashley and ryans page i saw that it has been a year since ashleys passing, today, i thought i have to leave a message. i thought she must have sending me a message. if u guys ever need anything you call me 920-901-5769
Cora Schmidt
Cora Schmidt <pinkyjr913@hotmail.com>
Manitowoc, WI - Monday, December 8, 2008 9:57 PM CST
"Divine Physician and Healer, we turn to You in this time of illness...O God our Father, we place our concerns in Your hands. Hear the prayers we offer for Ryan and grant him the gift of healing from strep throat. Please bless his family at this time with health that they will not get this infection. We ask in the name of Jesus the Lord. Amen."
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
polly @ angel_wings prayer warriors
- Monday, December 8, 2008 7:34 PM CST
You all are in our thoughts and prayers today.
Lori Smith <lorismith88@sbcglobal.net>
Green Bay, Wi - Monday, December 8, 2008 3:40 PM CST
Remembering your sweet Ashley today and everyday.
Blessings
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Monday, December 8, 2008 1:34 PM CST
You are in our thoughts and prayers, especially today.
Bonnie & Paul Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Monday, December 8, 2008 9:43 AM CST
Dear Debes Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. Just yesterday when we were getting our Christmas tree, Lindsey remembered a time when Ashley and her had a contest to see who could hold their breath the longest. Ashley won because she was secretly breating through her nose! While Ashley has been gone for a year, she is far from forgotten and she continues to bring smiles to those who loved her and whose lives she touched. May God hold you in His arms and wrap you in His love.
Beth & Jeff McFarlane and Erin, Lindsey, and Colleen
Shawano, WI - Monday, December 8, 2008 9:08 AM CST
Ashley was a blessing to so many. Thinking of you today and always.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Monday, December 8, 2008 8:17 AM CST
Praying for your family today on this first anniversary of ^Ashley's^ homegoing. God bless you all.
Tracy/Angel_Wings <maverickmom08@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, December 8, 2008 5:23 AM CST
{{{Robin}}}
Thinking of you tonight and sending hugs and love to get through...
With lots of prayers for peace and strength,
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Sunday, December 7, 2008 9:41 PM CST
Debes Family, I know that this time of year is tough on you all (not that all the days aren't tough...) but I am sending extra prayers to you in the coming days as you remember Ashley. All my love.
Jennifer Smith <lakerdog2@yahoo.com>
Hidden Valley Lake, ca usa - Saturday, December 6, 2008 11:28 PM CST
HI Debes Family,
Sharing thoughts and prayers for all of you to have a peace filled Christmas season. Remebering Ashley's zest for life, her beautiful smile and contagious laughter; thanking God for the gift He gave all of us in Ashley and hoping you will be comforted by memories of your wonderful daughter and sister. A year later the pain is no less, I just hope it is felt less often as time goes by. I think somebody once said something like 'to love deeply is to hurt deeply' sounds wierd, but we wouldn't ache to our souls if we didn't love with all our heart. Thank God for LOVE and may His love and the love of friends and family continue to buoy through the stormy seas of grief.
HUGS to ALL
Lynn aka Songbird
Lynn Herge <enjsfolks@earthlink.net>
Appleton, WI - Friday, December 5, 2008 3:42 AM CST
Hello All!
Thank you for the great addition of the picture show. They are precious. I'm sure they make you both laugh and cry. I know it wasn't easy to put together - certainly a labor of love.
What a gift Ashley was and God found her the most special parents.
Mass will be said for Ashley this weekend and of course we pray for you all...all the time.
God's peace.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Monday, December 1, 2008 12:02 AM CST
Thinking of you during the holidays and as the anniversary of Ashley's passing approaches. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you during these difficult days ahead.
Margie, mom to Karissa- dx'd with ALL 1/95 ot 9/97; Anna- dx'd with ITP 2/91 progressed to MDS 3/04 and now in need of a bone marrow transplant; and William dx;d with ITP 12/94; and wife to Kris for almost 24 years <huhnerhaus@comcast.net>
Ft. Lewis, WA USA - Saturday, November 29, 2008 10:20 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving! Your family will be in our prayers.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/quiltsofhope
www.freewebs.com/quilts-of-hope
Jaime <aquiltofhope@aol.com>
- Wednesday, November 26, 2008 12:36 AM CST
((HUGS)) and prayers as the Holidays and the first anniversary of Ashley passing is upon your family.
Wishing you a gentle & peaceful season & a very Happy & Healthy New Year!
Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Tuesday, November 25, 2008 1:16 PM CST
Robin, your family is always in my prayers. Sending my love to you. Glad Ryan got over his strep. Jackson and I had it too this month. I STILL worry about Jackson and he will be OT 5 yrs in March of 2009. I don't worry as much, it does get better. You have a more complicated worry obviously compounded by losing Ashley, and my heart goes out to you. Always in my prayers.
www.caringbridge.org/ca/jackson
Jennifer Smith
Hidden Valley Lake, CA USA - Friday, November 21, 2008 10:09 PM CST
Hello Family,
I'm glad that the strep has passed and everyone is well. I know school is keeping everyone busy - even if it's yucky homework, Ryan!
I just wanted to send you love and hugs. There's nothing I can do or say that would do justice to your hurt, but please know how much you are all loved.
We pray for "sunny moments" to break through on the "cloudy days."
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Friday, November 21, 2008 1:05 PM CST
Dear Robin,
I haven't signed in a long time, even though I check your web site often for updates. I guess it's also comforting to read along the same path, with so many similar feelings and emotions. I, also, have not been able to watch home movies about Alexia. I've seen "mini-clips" from my web cam and that is hard. (And they only last seconds) I can't imagine watching hours and hours of video footage. I hope maybe one day I can. It still hurts too much, and feels too raw. I hate the feeling of the "one year" date that approaches. I will be thinking of you, and of course, your sweet Ashley.
With love, U.
Ursula (^^Alexia's^^ mom) <ursulacastaneda@hotmail.com>
Buenos Aires, Argentina - Thursday, November 20, 2008 6:10 PM CST
Robin, Mark & Kids,
The passage of time seems lengthy yet short and we too have a difficult time grasping the fact your beautiful little girl has been gone nearly a year. Twinkie is a constant reminder of Ashley's bouncing personality. We've given her a new bunny hutch and a "bun run" and she runs out to greet people like she's a dog. Some days when I feel there's nothing to smile about, I see Twinkie and think of her as Ashley's little spyglass on us to make sure Taylor is doing okay without her. Next Thursday, we will give thanks for knowing Ashley's contageous spirit for life and her remarkably loving, brave and resilliant family.
We send you our heartfelt wishes for a peaceful Thanksgivng and pray Ryan's months off treatment continue to multiply.
Hugs to the entire Debes Family from the Jeskes in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, - Wednesday, November 19, 2008 6:40 PM CST
We continue to pray for you and your family.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, November 18, 2008 2:47 PM CST
((((ROBIN))))
Just wanted to let you know that I think of you OFTEN, but especially at this time of year. I know it's going to be a hard one, but keep your eye on the prize... you and Ash will be together one day again. Sending you many (but very cold) Canadian hugs!!!
Naomi
www.caringbridge.org/canada/joshua
Naomi Fehr
- Sunday, November 16, 2008 2:14 PM CST
Hello Robin, Mark & kiddos, Thinking of you, so often. I miss you & check your beautiful family pics & msgs.. So glad to read Ryan is feeling better & kicked strep. And girls are busy with school stuff. Ashley is often on my mind & in my heart. When Brad found new family of bunnies, I saw Ashley smiling too. I pray for strength for you. God Bless. xo ,Donna
donna seranko
lombard, il - Saturday, November 15, 2008 4:50 PM CST
**AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS**
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Wednesday,
November 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the children, teens and adults on our
prayer lists and our AngelWingsRemembers
families.
Thank you for joining us.
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Monday, November 10, 2008 8:19 PM CST
Praying that everyone is healthy and well.
God Bless you!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Thursday, November 6, 2008 9:37 AM CST
Hello dear ones! I hope the yuck of strep has passed and everyone is well. You're always on on hearts. We continue to pray for happy moments for you.
Hugs to all.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, fl USA - Monday, November 3, 2008 8:45 PM CST
I can't believe how quickly Christmas is coming around. It won't be long now!
Love
Vikki
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, November 2, 2008 9:31 AM CST
Hi Ryan... Plese know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Happy Halloween!
God bless you
Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Friday, October 31, 2008 9:17 AM CDT
Dear Debes Family,
I only know you from the cb site, but I wanted to let you know that you are a very precious family. I am a new wish granter for MAW, and I've been reading lots of stories on CB to get myself aquainted with what families are going through. Ashley is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. I wish I could have met your sweet precious angel, but I know she has inspired so many people. I wish Ryan a long, healthy life. You are so courageous and brave, Ryan. You hang in there and KICK CANCER'S BUTT! I'll be another one of your prayer warriors! GO RYAN!!
Christy Taylor <ctaylor_715@yahoo.com>
Collinsville, IL 62234 - Thursday, October 30, 2008 0:59 AM CDT
I'm still enjoying the slide show too, what a beautiful family!
For the pencil grip...my now 7 yr old son had the worst time with this in Kindergarten, so I am voting normal kid thing. He was given a variety of pencil grips that didn't do squat to help. What finally did help, and helped enormously, was to only let him write with little tiny pencils, the kind you find to fill out lottery slips. You can sharpen a pencil down really small for the same effect. It forces proper grip.
Now, if you could share your secrets on getting the teen girls to get their grades up! I have a 14 yr old daughter that is driving me batshit! Blowing off homework or even worse, doing it and then not turning it in (I forgot it in my locker, I lost it, etc, eyeroll!).
Rita <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 28, 2008 5:19 PM CDT
I am still enjoying the slide show. You have such a beautiful family. Sending lots of love!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Monday, October 27, 2008 3:00 PM CDT
Hi Robin,
I was thinking of Ashley this morning when I was spending time with our bunnies—-our Flopsie looks just like her Twinkie bunny in that lovely photo. I'm so glad to hear Ryan is down to four visits a year. I think about beautiful Ashley all the time, and just wanted you to know I send her and you warm thoughts almost every day.
Love,
Jacquelyn, Graydon, Tessa and Luka (ALL-KIDS) www.caringbridge.org/canada/graydon <jacquelynwv@yahoo.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Monday, October 27, 2008 11:49 AM CDT
Hi Robin
Just wanted to send a note, its been awhile but I wanted you to know that I think about you guys all the time, and pray that your strength will keep up. Beatiful photos, thank you.
Mary Beth Jilek
Mary Beth Jilek <jilek827@verizon.net>
DeKalb, il usa - Saturday, October 25, 2008 3:54 PM CDT
Thankful that the appointment went well and that the labs results were good.
Praying for you as you have good days and bad. You have many people praying for you and your family.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Thursday, October 16, 2008 7:56 AM CDT
ATTENTION PRAYER WARRIORS:
PLEASE JOIN OUR PRAYER VIGIL ON SUNDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2008, BETWEEN THE HOURS OF 8-9 PM EST FOR ALL THE FAMILIES ON OUR ANGEL_WINGS PRAYER LIST AND OUR ANGEL FAMILIES OF CHILDREN AND ADULTS WHO HAVE EARNED THEIR WINGS.
THANK YOU FOR JOINING US.
Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Tuesday, October 14, 2008 9:51 PM CDT
Congrats on Ryan's labs! Thinking and praying for you daily.
Tammy Nunez <tamswim@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 9, 2008 10:45 AM CDT
Hi Debes Family, I just wanted to say Hi and that I think of you so very often. I am glad to read that Ryan's appt. went well. Its so hard to beleive that Lexie is going through this again, I now hear what you were saying "hospital stays are really not that fun" everyone treats you so well but its being away from home that stinks. Its so true that you really do not understand unless you go through it yourself... take care all.... Happy Birthday Ashley.....
Robyn
Robyn Joly <r.joly29@yahoo.com>
Sturgeon Bay, WI USA - Wednesday, October 8, 2008 2:01 PM CDT
So happy to hear that Ryan's appointment went so well. 26-months OT...Way To Go, Ryan! We pray you continue to thrive and pray that each passing day might get a little easier for you all.
Hugs from the Jeske's in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Monday, October 6, 2008 8:15 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today....
Happy Fall!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Monday, October 6, 2008 8:41 AM CDT
Hello Debes Family. We're thinking of you and praying for you always. We sure do miss you.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 5:05 AM CDT
happy happy birthday in heaven sweet baby girl. there is not a day that goes by that i do not think of you... you will always and forever and forever be my very favorite beautiful patient.
i love you ash, love nurse jane
jane wecker <janecline22@hotmail.com>
greenbay, wi usa - Saturday, September 27, 2008 8:52 PM CDT
Praying for you....
I love the new slideshow. What a beautiful girl and a wonderful family.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Friday, September 26, 2008 3:42 PM CDT
Hi Debes-
Just wanted to say hi and let you know I was thinking about you all. This time of year makes me think of Ashley because of all the Halloween decoration and remembering how much she wanted to be Beetlejuice last year. You're always in my thoughts and prayers...happy belated b-day Ash!
love,
Betsy
Betsy Larsen <betsyrn5@yahoo.com>
West Allis, WI - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 4:57 AM CDT
Hi Robin,
This is Megan Avery's dad from the list. We have been thinking about you guys. I always visit Ashley's site to see how you are doing (I hope as well as can be expected). In your August post you referenced your 17th wedding anniverary being on September 14th. That's our anniversary as well, same day, same year! Now, what time were you married - we were 7:00pm. I hope you're family is doing well.
Ethan Avery <ethan_avery@qsm.com>
Rockville, MD - Monday, September 22, 2008 1:28 PM CDT
Sorry... the message should have read:
Dear Debes family...
Dan Cohen <danco1968@hotmail.com>
North Miami Beach, FL U.S.A. - Sunday, September 21, 2008 6:43 PM CDT
Dear Debes,
I may not have written, but your family has been in my thoughts and prayers every day.
Sending hugs,
Dan Cohen
20560 NE 6 Court
North Miami Beach, Florida 33179
Phone: 305-807-8919
e-mail : danco1968@hotmail.com
www.conquerchildhoodcancer.com
www.thepetitionsite.com/1/CureChildhoodCancer
Dan Cohen <danco1968@hotmail.com>
North Miami Beach, FL U.S.A. - Sunday, September 21, 2008 6:42 PM CDT
Haven't forgotten all of you ....Ashley and all of you are still in my thoughts and prayers...may the Lord help you to continue on...
Just wanted to share some words of encouragement…
“If we could, by some wonderful force from heaven, be allowed to slip from this earth in our present state and into the glory of heaven, we would not find one shred of evidence that reveals panic. You would never once hear “oops” from the lips of God, or “I wonder what we’re going to do about that down there?” Nor would we ever observe anxiety across the face of the living God. We would be stunned with amazement at how calm things are around his throne.
From this side of glory we see the tapestry of life from underneath. It is full of knots and twisted threads and frayed ends that lack meaning and beauty. But from God’s perspective, looking at the top of the fabric, it is all under control.”
From Encouragement for life by Charles Swindoll…
May you see that glory of God in your life today….
Angel Hugs & Continued Prayers…
Char
www.ProjectAngelHugs.com
Ministering to our youth touched by cancer and their families…
NEW! on Facebook ~ Char Jensema
Char
- Friday, September 19, 2008 1:04 PM CDT
Praying for you and hoping that the week brings happy memories and good times.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 9:31 AM CDT
Hi Ryan I was thinking about you this morning and wanted to drop in and say HI. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 8:32 AM CDT
Robin, I have been thinking of you all so much lately. I am sorry I didn't get to post this weekend- I just got out of the hospital myself. I pray for you and your family often. I hope you celebrated the weekend with Happy Memories of a beautiful daughter who brought not only love, laughter, and joy to your family, but to everyone else's life she touched through her page and the lists. May God continue to bless you and keep your whole family today and the days ahead.
Margie, mom to Karissa- dx'd with ALL 1/95 ot 9/97; Anna- dx'd with ITP 2/91 progressed to MDS 3/04 and now in need of a bone marrow transplant; and William dx;d with ITP 12/94; and wife to Kris for almost 24 years <huhnerhaus@comcast.net>
Ft. Lewis, WA USA - Monday, September 15, 2008 11:13 PM CDT
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Miami, FL - Monday, September 15, 2008 0:03 AM CDT
**AN INVITATION TO OUR PRAYER VIGIL**
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Friday,
September 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the children, teens and adults on our
prayer lists and our AngelWingsRemembers
families.
Thank you for joining us.
Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Sunday, September 14, 2008 8:18 PM CDT
Hello dear ones. I just wanted to send you a hug. I don't have the right words - just that we love you and you are tremendous.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL - Sunday, September 14, 2008 9:12 AM CDT
Thinking about your family today as you miss your precious Ashley. You are blessed with so many wonderful memories and wonderful pictures of her beautiful smile. Through the tears may you see her in Heaven, happy, free, full of energy, and always smiling!
Gloria Galaska <gregg.galaska@att.net>
Oak Creek, WI US - Sunday, September 14, 2008 8:48 AM CDT
Those pictures were beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing your Ashley. The one constant in all was her beautiful smile. I hope through the tears today you also had some smiles remembering your precious little girl.
I love what someone else posted suggesting we share the gifts Ashley gave. I never had the pleasure of meeting your sweetheart, just knew her though her loving mother's posts. But her most wonderful gift to me was to learn to appreciate the here and now and no matter what, you can find a reason to smile. No matter how hard of a time she was having, it seemed Ashley always tried to make the best out of a bad situation. She was a true fighter.
Happy Birthday in Heaven sweet Ashley. I am sure God throws much better parties up there than we could ever imagine down here.
Rita B <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 13, 2008 11:50 PM CDT
Robin, I was thinking of your family and ^Ashley^ today as it is my birthday also, and wanted to let you know that your family is in my prayers. i am sure Ashley is enjoying her earthly birthday in Heaven.
http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears
http://heatherrain.livejournal.com
Jennifer, a Texas prayer bear <texasprayerbear@yahoo.com>
Bridgeport, Texas - Saturday, September 13, 2008 7:07 PM CDT
Just stopping by to let you know that I am thinking about you today.
Lori Smith <lorismith88@sbcglobal.net>
Green Bay, WI - Saturday, September 13, 2008 9:54 AM CDT
I am thinking of all of you on this special day. I love the pictures you've posted, what a beautiful family.
Bonnie <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
Nashotah, WI - Saturday, September 13, 2008 9:15 AM CDT
Morning Debes Family I am thinking about you all this morning on ^Ashley's^ special day. Please know that you are surrounded with love and prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Saturday, September 13, 2008 6:15 AM CDT
Robin,
Just wanted to let you know that we continue to think of Ashley and your family. She is a gem that will continue to shine in our lives. While there will be no gift to wrap for Ashley on Sat., we will gladly count the many gifts we have recieved for having known your beautiful daughter. Lindsey remembers and treasures the picture she has of a sleep-over when they wore footie pajamas and filled them with stuffed animals. Ashley gave the gift of laughter and silliness. We will be thinking of Ashley and your family this weekend and we hope you find peace as you continue this journey. Jeff & Beth McFarlane and Erin, Lindsey, & Colleen
Beth McFarlane
- Friday, September 12, 2008 2:42 PM CDT
We've been thinking about you all. You're right - what do you do? Follow your heart and please know how much we all love you.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Thursday, September 11, 2008 8:47 PM CDT
{{{Robin}}}
I'm thinking of you, Ashley and your family this weekend. All of her birthdays as well as special holidays are hard I'm sure....an understatement I guess. Just know that we care about you all, just as we cared about Ashley.
By the way, I'm not sure I ever said this but I love the picture of her at the top of the page.
She is missed by so many. Hang in there,
xoxo
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Thursday, September 11, 2008 9:22 AM CDT
She sure was beautiful, hair or not. I just wanted to let you know I remember your sweet girl and think of her often. You were always such a wonderul mother to her. I would love to see some old Ashley pictures if you ever feel like sharing. I remember finding her page for the first time in 2003 and she was only 7 and Ryan was just a little baby. Now he is all grown up! All your kids are beautiful.
Rita <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 11, 2008 0:10 AM CDT
This weekend we'll be thinking about Ashley too. She is never far from our thoughts. How can she be? She's a girl who touched our lives never to be forgotten. Ashley is with Taylor always, making her way into different things like computer passwords or her bike lock combination. My heart aches for you and your family, Robin. I know this will be a difficult weekend for all of you. We'll be remembering her with big smiles (as I rarely ever saw your beautiful daughter without one), thinking about what type of heavenly birthday cake she'll be enjoying, and wondering just how many cans of silly string she'll empty. God bless you and your family as you continue to work through life's daily challenges on the road to healing.
The Jeske's in Appleton
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 4:15 PM CDT
((HUGS))
Jenn Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Wednesday, September 10, 2008 2:16 PM CDT
Thinking of you of this week as Ashley's birthday approaches. Hope you are able to enjoy your anniversary.
Tammy
- Tuesday, September 9, 2008 10:09 AM CDT
Robin, I think about you and your family so much. Take care during this time, my thoughts and prayers are with you.... I wish I knew what to say, just that I will never forget "our time" together with the girls at St. Vincents...
Robyn <r.joly29@yahoo.com>
Sturgeon Bay, WI USA - Thursday, September 4, 2008 4:51 PM CDT
New school years really call attention to the past and the excitment for the future. I'm sure it's bittersweet for you. I know you're proud of how well everyone is doing and how much you long for Ashley. We continue to pray that all your needs are met and that you continue to be blessed with peace. I know this is something that never truly passes but I pray you find blessings in every day.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Thursday, August 28, 2008 8:39 PM CDT
Hi Ryan Just chcking in on your this morning and praying all is well. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Saturday, August 23, 2008 9:58 AM CDT
Hi Everyone, Just wanted you to know we're thinking about you.
Susan and Lloyd Radmer
Mukwonago, WI USA - Friday, August 22, 2008 7:20 PM CDT
Just checking in on you and praying that you had a good week and that you will have a great weekend.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Friday, August 22, 2008 3:29 PM CDT
Hey there--I wanted to let you know that i am still thinking of you guys all of the time. I would love to see you. Give me a call. I bet i can make you smile. Leah
leah <leahkfinnegan@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 19, 2008 8:06 PM CDT
I know you must miss Ashley with every breath you take. I am praying for some peace for you. ... SO glad to hear about Ryan. Good luck at the next appt.
tammy <tnunez@timespicayune.com>
- Sunday, August 17, 2008 5:42 PM CDT
Hi Debes family, I still check on you lots. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Smith
Hidden Valley Lake, ca usa - Sunday, August 17, 2008 5:14 PM CDT
Even though we knew each other for such a short time, I wanted to let you know that I think of you guys often. Our paths crossed at such a critical time that it will be burned into my mind forever. Anyways, just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you. Tonya Naylor
Tonya Naylor <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 16, 2008 11:41 PM CDT
Just checking in on Ryan and all of you! 2 years OT!
XXOO, Cali Ali's Mom
Marey ALL-KIDS <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:30 AM CDT
ATTENTION PRAYER WARRIORS:
PLEASE JOIN OUR PRAYER VIGIL TUESDAY AUGUST 19TH. 2008 BETWEEN THE HOURS OF 8-9 PM. EST. FOR ALL THE FAMILIES ON OUR ANGEL_WINGS PRAYER LIST AND OUR ANGEL FAMILIES OF CHILDREN AND ADULTS WHO HAVE EARNED THEIR WINGS
THANK YOU FOR JOINING US
Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Wednesday, August 13, 2008 9:42 AM CDT
Praying for your family....
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 12:36 AM CDT
Just stopped by to let you know that I am thinking of you and that I continue to pray for all of you. Hugs!
Steph (all kids) www.caringbridge.org/nd/josh <stephaniejochim@yahoo.com>
Flasher, ND - Thursday, August 7, 2008 11:16 AM CDT
Hello Debes family! I am a complete stranger who happened to meet a friend of the family and found out that we both have friends on here (caringbridge.org/visit/hopejohnston). It is awesome to know that Ryan is doing well. May he continue to reach all those wonderful milestones that we parents look for in our children (losing teeth, kicking a ball, climbing the stairs). My family and I will continue to pray for his continued good health.
Frank, Regina, Alexis, Jamie, Timothy and Caleb Henderson
La Grange, NC - Tuesday, August 5, 2008 1:20 AM CDT
Just thinking about you and praying for you..today and everyday...
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Saturday, August 2, 2008 2:57 PM CDT
Hello Debes Family,
Just stopped in to say HI! Hope your summer has delivered sunshine smiles to all of you. Glad to hear Ryan is doing great - Good Job Ryan!!
God Bless,
Bill S. (Cora's Dad)
Bill
Manitowoc, WI - Friday, August 1, 2008 9:49 PM CDT
I am glad that Ryan's appointment went well. Those EOS are always a pain! I have been thinking of you all and especially Ashley.
May God continue to bless you all with smooth days ahead.
Sending lots of hugs and prayers/
Margie, mom to Karissa- dx'd with ALL 1/95 ot 9/97; Anna- dx'd with ITP 2/91 progressed to MDS 3/04 and now in need of a bone marrow transplant; and William dx;d with ITP 12/94; and wife to Kris for almost 24 years <huhnerhaus@comcast.net>
Ft. Lewis, WA - Thursday, July 31, 2008 1:15 AM CDT
Congratulations to Ryan on 2 years off treatment! He sounds like he is thriving and he is fortunate to have your strength leading your family during these long last 7 mos. Your family remains in our thoughts and prayers.
Beth and Will from ALL-KIDS
Austin, TX - Thursday, July 31, 2008 0:17 AM CDT
Checking in and glad to hear that Ryan's appt went well. Kev's EOS are also high -- guess it's the allergies coming back along with his immune system...
I think of Ashley and you lots...
xoxo
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 11:38 AM CDT
2 years! Wow, good for him! I haven't been by in awhile and it was nice to read that you are doing well. I'm sure you are not telling us the whole truth but it seems you are finding a balance and maybe some peace?
Take care and much love, <deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, July 30, 2008 10:46 AM CDT
Thinking about you guys...love to you all
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 0:35 AM CDT
Two years is indeed an enormous milestone. Awesome news. Just checking in..love to you all.
You're so special to us!
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, July 22, 2008 6:39 PM CDT
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iPkjdqHl, VShdTLik oQjfNtefOnkDnaK - Tuesday, July 22, 2008 5:11 PM CDT
We're so happy that Ryan's appointment went so well! What a milestone that will be in August when (and I mean WHEN) he gets the okay to go to three-month appointments. Keep on truckin' little Ryan!!
We are always thinking of Ashley here. Especially so when our dog, Jasmine, passed away over aweek ago. She was 15. Taylor was very upset at first but then comforted in knowing Ashley's up there to take good care of Jasmine in Heaven. Thank you Ashley for being there for her. We miss her but know she's in good hands.
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, July 18, 2008 5:11 PM CDT
I continue to pray for you and your family. My heart just breaks for you in the loss of your daughter. I pray that God will give you peace and comfort as the days go by. As you said, day by day is all that anyone can ask of you and all that you can do. Praying that Ryan continues on his path of healing and continues to get better each day.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 10:19 AM CDT
ATTENTION PRAYER WARRIORS:
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
will be having a Prayer Vigil on Saturday,
July 19th between 8-9 P.M. EST for
all of the children and adults on our
prayer lists and our Angel Families.
Please join us in prayer for these
families.
MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Monday, July 14, 2008 3:53 AM CDT
Just wanted to drop in and say "hi" and let you know how much you all are missed everyday. Leah and I reminisce about our Ashley stories frequently - usually with laughter - but occasionally the tears still come. We hope you are all settling in to a "normal" life, be it a NEW normal. We love and miss you all.
Nurse Evelyn <sassy4475@aol.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Sunday, July 13, 2008 10:54 PM CDT
Sending up special prayers for your family today and every day.
Prayer Warriors
You are invited to join our Prayer Vigil Saturday July 19th. between the hours of 8-9pm EST for all the families on our prayer list at Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers.If you have someone you would like us to pray for please feel free to email us at Angel_Wings.
Trish/Angel_Wings/AngelWingsRemembers <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Mall, TN USA - Sunday, July 13, 2008 2:50 PM CDT
I feel you missing Ashley and I miss Ashley for you....if that can be any help. Great news about Ryan and I just have a picture of him and his big sister being inseparable....take care this summer and I hope that you can find some small moments of joy.
Connie (and Sophie) - from all-kids
Connie Luck <luckycjl@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Thursday, July 10, 2008 11:00 PM CDT
Greeting Debelings, Just stopping in to say hi and to let you know you're not forgotten. Every now and then I light a candle by St. Joseph and say a prayer for all of you. Thank you for the balloon stories, now every time a see a balloon floating up to heaven I'll think of Ashley and how water is made. Take care, Cor & Annie
Correen Lewis <sundance02@frontiernet.net>
Keshena, WI - Thursday, July 10, 2008 6:04 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and sending big hugs...hoping all was well with Ryan yesterday too.
xoxo
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Tuesday, July 8, 2008 10:02 PM CDT
Hello Debes family, Your all in my thoughts SO often.. Praying all went well today with Ryans checkup. I pray for your comfort. R~ been' seeing the cutest lil bunny... Love, donna
donna seranko
lombard , il - Monday, July 7, 2008 8:03 PM CDT
I check Ashley's site everyday. We're sending healing thoughts.
Ethan Avery <ethan_avery@qsm.com>
Rockville, MD - Thursday, July 3, 2008 1:34 PM CDT
God bless you as you continue the road of sadness and grief.
Happy 4th of July and God bless America!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Thursday, July 3, 2008 9:55 AM CDT
I have reread the balloon story. The innocence of a child is just so refreshing and powerful. God grant us that peace and innocence which can be seen through the eyes of a child.
Praying for you and your family.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Wednesday, June 25, 2008 12:40 AM CDT
Robin-
Thinking of you guys and thrilled to hear that Ryan is doing so well! We miss you on the list. Take care.
Lorie, mom to Ben (6, pre-b cell ALL, dx. 8/03, OT 10/06)
ALL-KIDS
Lorie H <lghirsh@hotmail.com>
TN - Sunday, June 22, 2008 8:29 PM CDT
I pray for you all the time, wishing for some peace. I know there probably isn't much ... and seeing a family around here go through this, I think they are in as much pain now as they were when their child died a year ago. It never goes away, I know. But that must be because Ashley will never go away. She won't even if she isn't at the dinner table with you each night. She is, as you put it, forever your little girl. I just pray you get some relief. Cannot imagine your pain...
Tammy <tnunez@timespicayune.com>
- Friday, June 20, 2008 11:49 PM CDT
Thinking about you all.
Taylor liked Ryan's balloon idea so this past Saturday when we were leaving Red Robin -- she asked for a blue balloon. She borrowed the hostess' sharpie and wrote a message on it for Ashley saying she hopes she's okay and she misses her, then signed it. Taylor let it go (her cousins let theirs go as well) but for some reason that blue baloon went higher than the rest because it had someone special to deliver a message to.
Hugs to all of you.
Tammy
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 9:52 PM CDT
Robin, Tried to email you but the email wont go thru , this is my last resort...Hope you get this...
Here is my email
"I know about Ashley and Ryan... I knew about them since last summer... My heart broke reading about them ... Two of your children with cancer !!! How unfair is that?
I adopted them thru angel-wings , emailed you but didnt get an answer . I just gave up... I am so sorry I did...I cant believe i just gave up... I
had bought a blanket for Ashley...
Julian got really sick and I stopped keeping up with your children... Again, I am so sorry I did... I didnt even know that Ashley had passed away...
Can you forgive me?
Hugs to you Robin...Big ones!!!
Mimi "
Mimi Avery <myriamtx74@aim.com>
- Wednesday, June 18, 2008 12:05 AM CDT
**An Invitation to All Prayer Warriors**
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Thursday,
June 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the children, teens and adults on our
prayer lists and our AngelWingsRemembers
families.
An AWR Thought for June:
“. . .In this, the season of steady rebirth,
we awaken to the power so abundant, so holy,
that returns each year through earth and sky.
We will find our hearts again, and our good spirits.
We will love, and believe, and give and wonder,
and feel again the eternal powers. . . .”
Excerpts from: O Spirit of Life and Renewal
Penned by: Jane Rzepka ©
Source: www.gratefulness.org
Polly from AngelWingsRemembers
- Saturday, June 14, 2008 8:02 PM CDT
That first tooth and a great doctor's report - great, great news. I dreamed about you all last night! See, you're always close to our hearts and always in our prayers.
Our love to all,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Friday, June 13, 2008 11:59 AM CDT
Hi Ryan I am so thankful your Drs appointment went so well. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Thursday, June 12, 2008 7:54 AM CDT
I'm so glad Ryan had a good Appt.!!! Thats awesome. I know that your all still grieving. It hasn't been that long really. You don't just accept things and get over it over night. It will take time. I think of your family often. I will continue to pray for all of you. I wish I could just take all the pain away. I am very, very sorry for your loss.
Love,
Sarah
www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexdebenedetto
Sarah DeBenedetto <sarah_dbd@yahoo.com>
Oconto, WI USA - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 11:22 AM CDT
Hi there!
Just stopping by to let you know I'm thinking about yall and keep you close in my heart and my prayers.
Boy, losing the first tooth and asking one of those all time "where does it come from" questions. Busy little minds are so good and keep us on our toes. ;o)
Sending oodles of hugs, praises and prayers. I love you guys and pray for you each day.
Polly from Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
- Tuesday, June 10, 2008 2:44 PM CDT
Hello - thinking about and checking in with your family. Good that Ryan is doing good - aren't they so smart and perceptive. I really feel for the ongoing challenge you have - missing Ashley so much makes total sense and I guess I would just say that whatever you feel whenever you feel it - it is normal - I doubt that helps...but I think about your family a lot. Connie (and Sophie - 3 yrs, 3 months with pre-B ALL)
Connie Luck
Vancouver, BC Canada - Saturday, June 7, 2008 0:03 AM CDT
Glad to hear Ryan is continuing to do so well. Congrats on losing that tooth!! Love the story about the balloon. Ashley is always in our thoughts.
We miss Ashley's special ring tone that went off several times an evening as the girls talked back and forth. Taylor is struggling to make new friends. She feels like she doesn't fit in all the time. She's been teased and some girls have told her she should just forget Ashley -- but they have no idea how unforgettable your daughter is. They have no idea what it's like to have that one person who you could tell everything to, taken from your life. Ashley is in everything Taylor does, from passwords to her bike combination. She will always be with her. Taylor keeps saying she no longer wants to be a vet when she grows up. Instead, she now wants to be a nurse and work with cancer kids. She also wants to have a therapy dog she can take with her when she works. I think she'd be a great at it.
Sorry to make this so long. But we understand how difficult things can be. Maybe not fully -- but our hearts go out to your family. We wish you a summer full of fun, healing and perhaps even some new beginnings.
Hugs from all the Jeskes in Appleton to the entire Debes family.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, June 4, 2008 9:24 AM CDT
I really love the stories! I know that he will be waiting for that balloon.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Monday, June 2, 2008 10:26 AM CDT
I am glad to read that Ryan is doing well. He is so adorable (as is the rest of you guys). Know that you are never far from our thoughts and prayers.
Lori Smith <lorismith88@sbcglobal.net>
Green Bay, WI - Monday, June 2, 2008 6:59 AM CDT
Hi Robin,
I love the tooth fairy and balloon story, that Ryan sounds like a real smart one!! I think of you and sweet Ashley a lot. You are in my prayers Robin...I pray for peace for you.
Love,
Nancy, Matthew's Mom (yes I know you probably know that LOL)
Nancy Vinson <nancyvinson@verizon.net>
- Sunday, June 1, 2008 3:38 PM CDT
Thinking of you, as I do often. Glad to hear that you're enjoying being out and with people, although I know that Ashley is missed terribly.
Love,
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Thursday, May 29, 2008 4:41 PM CDT
Hello and hugs to all the Debes. You all continue to be in my heart, thoughts and prayers. I think of Ashley often and then I smile. What a sweetheart. Glad you are all doing "OK" - she would want that. That hole is difficult, though. I know. Happy Birthday, Kelsey - sweet 13! Hello Jennifer and Ryan. I send you all my love. Thinking of you. Much Love, Muffy
Muffy Culhane <mkculhane@shawanonet.net>
Shawano, WI USA - Thursday, May 29, 2008 3:17 PM CDT
Hi all! Belated birthday wishes to Kelsey! Great news on Ryan's OT and no doubt Jennifer is doing beautifully as well. I know you all miss Ashley and what year it has been. We continue to lift you all up in prayer. Know that you are loved so very much!
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2008 4:02 PM CDT
Praying for you and holding you up to the One who can give us the strength and understanding to face the battles in this life.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2008 3:15 PM CDT
The Golden Thread
Love is a golden thread
That links us one and all.
We heard it our mother’s voice
Whenever she would call.
We felt it in our father’s touch.
His strength made use secure.
We feel it still in daily life;
It helps us to endure.
This never-ending golden thread
Is love personified.
It banishes all doubt and fear
When we are by God’s side.
For it is His love we’re feeling—
His love for you and me,
All woven in and through out life;
A golden tapestry!
© Gorda J. Appoloni,
Make the Moments Count
Polly from AngelWingsRemembers
- Saturday, May 17, 2008 6:49 PM CDT
Attention Prayer Warriors:
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will
be having a Prayer Vigil May 19th. between
the hours of 8-9 pm.EST. for
and all the children and adults on our Prayer
List and our Angel Families.Please join us
in prayer for these families..
Angel_Wings
Etta
Let Me Introduce You To My Lord.....
El-Shaddai
Etta <grandmaettas@aol.com>
- Saturday, May 17, 2008 10:33 AM CDT
Thinking of you and praying for peace and understanding in this difficult journey.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, May 13, 2008 11:09 AM CDT
Thinking of you today. Know you are painfully missing Ashley. Hope you had a wonderful day and found some pieces of joy.
Tammy <tamswim@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 9:02 PM CDT
Thinking of you on this first Mother's day without your angel. May you feel her love surround you, as well as the love of your earthly children.
You were a wonderful mother to your Ashley Robin, one of the most loving and giving mothers I have ever known of. Your baby is free now, but her love for you is here forever.
Gentle (((hugs)))
Rita B <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 2:06 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day, Robin.
Bonnie <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Saturday, May 10, 2008 10:44 AM CDT
Hi Debes family....I come back often to hear of news of your family, and to think about Ashley and all that you have been through. Sounds like you are all moving forward inch by inch....so to speak - and that is good. I can picture Ryan running around playing with the other boys.
Connie Luck
Vancouver, BC Canada - Saturday, May 10, 2008 0:07 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day, Robin.
I have met a lot of people in my life -- mothers in particular -- and I can honestly say I have never met a woman who is a stronger support system for her family than you. This is a difficult holiday to be sure. But I do know one thing: the beautiful person Ashley was inside and out could have only happened because the seeds of love you planted were cultivated to grow so well by you. Ashley too spread those seeds of love and compassion and they now grow in the people she touched every day.
Ashley, Jennifer, Kelsey and Ryan are surely blessed to have you for a mother. Happy Mother's Day to one heck of a great mom!
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, May 9, 2008 9:15 PM CDT
Thinking of you. Glad to hear that Ryan is doing well.
Maria, mom to Trevor (all-kids)
- Friday, May 9, 2008 4:13 PM CDT
stopping by to let you know we are thinking of you....especially this weekend. Happy Mother's Day Robin!
Chris mom to Zayla www.caringbridge.org/visit/zayla
Chris Mitsdarffer <christymits@wildblue.net >
Bonfield, IL - Friday, May 9, 2008 12:26 AM CDT
Robin,
I know this will be a difficult weekend for you and wanted you to know I'm thinking about you.
with love, <deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Friday, May 9, 2008 9:22 AM CDT
Thinking of you always, Robin and never forgetting your sweet baby girl....
Suzanne(March 2002 PG) <suzmcdmcd@gmail.com>
guilford, CT - Wednesday, May 7, 2008 3:21 PM CDT
Continuing to uplift you and your family Robin!! This ck family thinks of you often!! Ashley's beautiful face will be embedded in my brain forever.
Blessings, Naomi
www.caringbridge.org/canada/joshua
Naomi Fehr <jnyf@mts.net>
Winkler, MB Canada - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 1:11 PM CDT
Hi Robin, Mark and Family,
Just wanted to let you know that you guys and Ashley have been in my thoughts. It's Nurses Week and a mom from the HOT unit spoke during the presentations about her teenage daughter, diagnosed with ALL who relapsed and had a BMT. Couldn't help but think of Ashley. Still sending good thoughts and prayers your way... Stacy
Stacy <sbrett@chw.org>
- Tuesday, May 6, 2008 9:49 AM CDT
You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 1:31 PM CDT
Hi Debes family-
I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I'm thinking of you. I heard I missed you the other day on the HOT unit and that you guys are nice and tan! I'm so happy to hear that Ryan's appointment went well. I hope Kelsey had a great 13th b-day! I miss you guys lots!
Always in my thoughts and prayers
Nurse Betsy
Betsy Larsen <betsyrn5@yahoo.com>
West Allis , WI - Tuesday, April 29, 2008 10:44 PM CDT
We think of you & check in often.
Christina -Megan's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/meganavery1
christina avery
- Tuesday, April 29, 2008 5:51 PM CDT
Greetings Debes Family, Just dropping in to say hi and see how all of you are doing. Great news about Ryan's appt! Happy 13th to Kelsey. Maybe someday Annie & I will get to your neck of the woods to bond with you in person. Take care...we think of you often and keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Correen Lewis <sundance02@frontiernet.net>
Keshena, WI - Sunday, April 27, 2008 11:57 AM CDT
Happy Belated 13th Birthday Kelsey!!
Taylor Jeske <tkjeske@yahoo.com>
Appleton, - Friday, April 25, 2008 5:52 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know we are still thinking about you.
Machelle, Mom to Elizabeth <MJmomathome@aol.com>
Theodore, al - Friday, April 25, 2008 11:32 AM CDT
I will be walking for Ashley and Ryan in the Relay for Life on May 9th and 10th in San Antonio TX on the Walgreens West Team. I hope that is ok. Take Care and Keep Smiling!!
Traci Lichtensteiger <tlichtensteiger_@hotmail.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, April 24, 2008 9:02 AM CDT
Praising God for a good visit and a good report.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Monday, April 21, 2008 3:43 PM CDT
Just letting you know that we are still thinking of Ashley and the whole family. Glad to see Ryan is doing so well!!
Cody's Wheels Of Hope (www.cwoh.org)
Cindy Filson <info@cwoh.org>
Erie, PA USA - Saturday, April 19, 2008 5:41 PM CDT
Congrats to Ryan. I will always keep him in my thoughts but for personal reasons won't be checking in any longer.
tricia
- Friday, April 18, 2008 10:35 AM CDT
'Way to go, Ryan!!!
An Invitation to all Prayer Warriors:
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil this Saturday,
April 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for Ashley
and all the children, teens and adults on our
prayer lists and our AngelWingsRemembers
families.
Please join us in prayer this Saturday night.
Angel_Wings
The Spirit of April
By: Mary E Linton ©
I am the Spirit of April.
Did you not hear me come?
Violets nod in the meadow;
See, I have brought you some.
I opened your gate so gently,
Fearing to make you start;
I bring you a note of gladness
Out of the song in my heart.
Polly from AngelWingsRemembers <angel_polly1511@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 16, 2008 2:08 PM CDT
Got the biggest smile on my face when I read that Ryan's check-up went well. 21 months OT on the 28th is AMAZING! WTG Ryan!! Your big sis, Ashley, is most certainly proud as a peacock watching over you and celebrating in your joyous news! We are too. Keep up those awesome check-ups!!
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 10:24 AM CDT
Thinking of you and wanted to check in.
Ellen <epittner@new.rr.com>
Appleton, - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 5:15 PM CDT
Attention Prayer Warriors::
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
will be having a Prayer Vigil Saturday
April 19th. between 8-9 pm EST for
and all the children and adults on our
prayer list and our Angel Families.
Please join us in prayer for these
families..
Angel_Wings
Etta <grandmaettas@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 15, 2008 7:21 AM CDT
thinking of ryan and remembering ash in my prayers today.............god bless
Peg Curtiss <margaret.curtiss@usbank.com>
Oakdale, MN - Monday, April 14, 2008 4:39 PM CDT
Thinking of you.
Aurea, mom to Ale and Dani www.caringbridge.org/mexico/dani <aurea.zepeda@gmail.com>
Mexico, D.F. Mexico - Saturday, April 12, 2008 0:00 AM CDT
Thinking of you all with lots of love and prayers.
Love and hugs, Muffy and family
Muffy Culhane <mkculhane@shawanonet.net>
Shawano, WI USA - Friday, April 11, 2008 4:45 PM CDT
Remembering Ashley today. Praying for peace for you. Cannot imagine your pain and emptiness. Good luck with Monday's tests/appts. I have a blue ribbon I'm going to tie on a tree in our yard in honor of Ashley....
Tammy <tamswim@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 11, 2008 2:53 PM CDT
Robin & family --
Thank you for updating us all on how life is moving on for you. We know this month is a difficult one for you. It seems like yesterday Taylor and Ashley were playing and on the phone together. It just doesn't seem possible so much time has passed.
We pray that Ryan has another outstanding checkup with his doctor on Monday and with it bring some happier memories for April.
Hugs to all of you from the Jeske's.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, April 11, 2008 12:05 AM CDT
Thinking of you and hoping to see a post from you soon.
Bonnie Wilberscheid <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Thursday, April 10, 2008 7:42 AM CDT
just dropping by to let you know you are never far from our thoughts and prayers...
thinking of you...
Chris mom to Zayla www.caringbridge.org/visit/zayla
Chris Mitsdarffer <christymits@wildblue.net>
Bonfield, IL - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 6:15 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today and sending lots of prayers for you.
Steph Jochim www.caringbridge.org/nd/josh <stephaniejochim@yahoo.com>
Flasher, ND - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 1:21 PM CDT
Praying for you and your family and lifting you up today!
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel-Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 8:30 AM CDT
We were cleaning the basement a few days ago and I found a folded piece of paper. I was about to throw it away but thought I should look and see what it was before I did so. I turned out to be a picture of a pig with the saying "Taylor, you smell like cheeseeesseees!" on it. It was from Ashley. Taylor laughed and cried at the same time when she saw it. Then it was added immediately to her Ashley wall collage.
A couple of weeks ago Taylor saved up her points in World Studies class to buy a fortune cookie. The fortune read, "A true friend is always with you, even if invisible at times." She said Ashley made that fortune just for her to remind her she is always there. She is never far from our thoughts.
We hope everyone is doing well as we start to actually feel some spring weather. Hugs to all the Debes family from the Jeskes in Appleton.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Monday, April 7, 2008 9:26 AM CDT
Hello Dear Ones,
I hope all is well and that maybe you're seeing some glimpses of spring. You are always in our prayers.
Love to you all.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Sunday, April 6, 2008 9:41 PM CDT
Thinking of your family today.
XXOO, Cali Ali's Mom
Marey ALL-KIDS <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 3, 2008 11:41 PM CDT
We continue to pray for you and lift you up. It is a such a difficult journey that you have faced and are still facing. Praying that the Lord will continue to provide comfort and peace which passes all understanding.
Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 3:15 PM CDT
Thinking of Ashley, blue ribbons, and your family today. Praying for your peace.
Tammy <tamswim@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 30, 2008 9:50 PM CDT
"Our Promise To You"
We may not hit your site each day
and days can turn to weeks...
But know that you are in our hearts
and of you to God we speak.
For you, Dear ones are on our list
of prayers we say each day
For strength to fill your weary heart
for grace to fill your day.
for light to fill your darkest hour
for peace throughout the night
Please know that we are standing by
through each step of your fight.
And should you need a special prayer
please come to us our friend
for Angel Wings will pray with love
and love will never end..
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Orlando, Fl - Wednesday, March 26, 2008 9:24 AM CDT
Praying for you and wishing you a Happy Easter. Love in Christ,
Brandi/Angel_Wings
Brandi Howell <brandiandlee@hotmail.com>
Cordele, GA USA - Monday, March 24, 2008 10:45 AM CDT
Happy Easter. Thinking of you, your family, and remembering Ashley today.
Tammy <tamswim@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 23, 2008 1:38 PM CDT
Happy Easter to the Debes family!(Twinkie is wishing you all a "hoppy" Easter as well). May every day be easier than the one before.
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Saturday, March 22, 2008 11:21 AM CDT
THIS DAY'S GREATEST GIFTS
We can't change the past…
But we can gather up
It's lessons and move on,
Stronger and wiser.
We can't control the future…
But we can send our dreams
Ahead of us
To help prepare the way.
We can live each moment…
Heart and soul,
And cherish this day's
Greatest gift…
The gift of now.
May peace with the past
And faith in the future,
Gently guide you through each
Precious moment of Today.
I pray you have a Blessed Easter
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Orlando, Fl - Friday, March 21, 2008 12:20 AM CDT
Robin, just wanted to check in on you and see how you all were doing. You have been on my mind. Anna just got out of the hospital again and was sent home on three antibiotics. I am waiting for the last one to finish, so I thought I would send you a hug. Hang in there- we love you and are sending hugs and prayers.
Margie, mom to Karissa- dx'd with ALL 1/95 ot 9/97; Anna- dx'd with ITP 2/91 progressed to MDS 3/04 and now in need of a bone marrow transplant; and William dx;d with ITP 12/94; and wife to Kris for almost 24 years <huhnerhaus@comcast.net>
Ft. Lewis, WA USA - Thursday, March 20, 2008 3:10 AM CDT
wishing you a Happy Easter.Just wondering......I sent a monetary gift to you quite awhile ago to help you attain Ashley's wish. I never received an acknowledgement that it arrived. Clearly I sent it with no strings because Ashley touched my heart but it's still nice to know it was received.
tricia
- Wednesday, March 19, 2008 5:12 PM CDT
Attention Prayer Warriors:
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will
be having a Prayer Vigil March 19th. between
the hours of 8-9 pm.EST. for
and all the children and adults on our Prayer
List and our Angel Families.Please join us
in prayer for these families..
Angel_Wings
Etta/Angel_Wings <grandmaettas@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 15, 2008 12:57 AM CDT
Dear Ashley's Family,
Hi this is Taylor and my class. We all watched this powerful video on the website. We had a great discussion and we are all thinking of some ways to help one another. We are glad that Ryan got over the flu. We wish the best for your family.
Taylor Jeske's class <tkjeske@yahoo.com>
Kimberly, WI USA - Friday, March 14, 2008 8:33 AM CDT
Hugs to you Robin. I am happy Ryan shook that nasty virus. Keep hanging in there-lots of prayers and thoughts coming your way....The Melkonians
Darlene and Christopher Melkonian http://www.caringbridge.org/md/chrismelko <melkonid@comcast.net>
Gaithersburg, MD - Thursday, March 13, 2008 2:18 PM CDT
PRAYER WARRIOR INVITATION:
On Wednesday, March 19, 2008, between 8 p.m. and 9 p.m. EDT, please join Angel Wings Remembers and Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors in prayer for all of the CaringBridge families and families with other personal websites.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Memories Keep Those We Love
Close To Us Forever
Although words seem to say so little,
I hope they help in some small way
to ease the sense of loss
that you’re experiencing today.
Hold fast to your memories
to all of the cherished moments
of the past,
to the blessings and the laughter,
the joys and the celebrations,
the sorrow and the tears.
They all add up to a treasure
of fond yesterdays
that you shared and spent together,
and they keep the one you loved
close to you in spirit and thought.
The special moments
and memories of your life
will never change.
They will always be in your heart
today and forever more.
By: © Linda E Knight
Polly from Angel Wings Remembers <angel_polly1511@yahoo.com>
Rolette, ND USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2008 5:58 PM CDT
Glad to hear Ryan was able to kick the flu all on his own. WTG Ryan!! It's hard to believe it's been three months already. We were talking about Twinkie this morning and then Taylor started giggling. When I asked why, she said she remembered how Ashley told her how she'd given Twinkie some "Fruity Pebbles" once and then Ryan was wondering how all that colored cereal got in her cage! Monday morning smiles, courtesy of Ashley :)
Hugs to all of you from the Jeskes in Appleton
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Monday, March 10, 2008 10:29 AM CDT
thinking of you all....Ashley is never far from my thoughts. I agree with Lisa, she touched so many lives.
Many hugs...
Chris mom to Zayla www.caringbridge.org/visit/zayla
Chris Mitsdarffer <christymits@wildblue.net>
Bonfield, IL - Friday, March 7, 2008 11:15 PM CST
{{{Robin}}}
There really isn't anything I can say...just know that I care, Ashley touched me and I'll remember her forever. I know that lots of other people feel the same.
Love,
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Friday, March 7, 2008 9:47 PM CST
Ryan, I hope you are feeling better soon. And your assessment of Chucky Cheese's fits right in with mine! Yuk!
Bonnie <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Friday, March 7, 2008 9:14 AM CST
The flu is the pits. I hope you're all past it quickly and spring will arrive before too long.
Love to you all,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Thursday, March 6, 2008 3:32 PM CST
Just checking in to say we're always thinking of you. I hope Ryan's flu is long gone by now and no one else got it.
Take care,
Christina & Ethan
www.caringbridge.org/visit/meganavery1
Christina Avery
Rockville, MD - Wednesday, March 5, 2008 3:07 PM CST
I have been following your story since October of last year and I think almost everyday about you and your family. My oldest daughter of 3 girls was diagnosed at age 4 with High Risk Pre B ALL. Taylor was diagnosed September 13, 2007. It has been a constant rollercoaster from day 1 with several road bumps along the way. Every bruise I see, every fever they get, with any coloring they get underneath their eyes I worry that it is either developing in one of my younger 2 or coming back in my oldest. I pray for that Ryan is cured forever.
Thank you for sharing your story. It gives me a little inspiration and help to stay strong to know that other mothers share in some of the same experiences as me.
Hugs and prayers!
www.taylor-warren.com
Lindsay Warren mother of Taylor 5, Alexis, 3 and Peyton 9 months <lindsaycainewarren@gmail.com>
St. Louis, MO USA - Monday, March 3, 2008 10:51 PM CST
Robin, that Chuckie Cheese story is just too darn cute! But seriously Ryan, I'm with you....ewwww gross, think of all the germs in those tunnels! eeek! :-]
xoxo
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Monday, March 3, 2008 8:51 PM CST
Prayers and thoughts coming your way. Even though I wanted life to stop and take notice that Nessa was gone...it never did. Though it was hard for me to go on with life...I knew that was what she would want...
I pray things ease for you. I know it's hard. Prayers continue that you continue on as Ashley would want you to...and that there are more moments...snatches of fun in your life and that they increase for all of you...
Angel Hugs!
Char
www.ProjectAngelHugs.com
Be an Angel...Touch a Heart...
Char <angelhugz2u@verizon.net>
- Monday, March 3, 2008 6:30 PM CST
I think Ryan has Chuckie Cheese down pat! Ha ha. ... Thinking of you and praying for you as always.
Tammy <tnunez@timespicayune.com>
- Monday, March 3, 2008 12:06 AM CST
Hello, I hope everyone whose gone down with the flu feels better soon. you all remain in my thoughts even when i don't sign
take care, viks
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, March 1, 2008 8:05 PM CST
Hi Robin,
I know your fears, but each child is different, even when both have had ALL....I hope that Ryan recovers quickly and that the rest of you don't get the flu.
I think of Ashley all the time, and her long fight. I pray that Ryan has been cured forever.
Hugs,
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Saturday, March 1, 2008 7:56 PM CST
Robin, Thank YOU for continuing to let us into your family's life. It must be incredibly difficult to go on with 3 other children and have to help deal with their pain as well. We thank you for updating about how things are going. God bless sweet family.
With love and prayers for peace <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Saturday, March 1, 2008 6:47 AM CST
Just dropping by to say 'Hi'! You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
Hugs from Florida!
Shanon, mom to Collin
www.caringbridge.org/fl/collinburke
<legomom0701@aol.com>
Eustis, FL USA - Friday, February 29, 2008 2:40 PM CST
Just stopping in to let you know we're thinking of you all the time. Hope you are fairing well with our mega-snowy winter! Happy Leap Day to the Debes family!
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton.
Tammy <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, February 29, 2008 8:05 AM CST
Happy Leap Day!
Just a note to let you know you are always on our hearts and in our prayers.
Love,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, fl USA - Friday, February 29, 2008 0:52 AM CST
Do you hane a page for Ryan? Please post the link if you do. Thinking of you everyday. Lisa D.
lisa and tommy <cookiepye@verizon.net>
salem, ma usa - Tuesday, February 26, 2008 6:27 AM CST
Just stopping by to tell you I am thinking about you and praying for you. I hope you have a nice weekend. Hugs and prayers.
Carolyn Wing/Angel_Wings grandma to Laura Stage IV neuroblastoma carepage Laura VDB <carolyn_wing@yahoo.com>
Carson City, MI - Friday, February 22, 2008 7:50 PM CST
Hi Debes family,
Thinking about all of you and checking in...just hoping that you are having some good moments mixed in with all the challenges. Thinking of all of you and Ashley and her spirit.
Connie (Sophie - 3 years old and in LTM for standard risk ALL)
Connie Luck <luckycjl@hotmail.com>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, February 22, 2008 6:00 PM CST
thinking of all of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 20, 2008 11:17 AM CST
Thinking of you today. Hope you are finding pieces of joy as you make your way on this painful journey without Ashley. Praying for you...
Tammy <tnunez@timespicayune.com>
- Wednesday, February 20, 2008 10:38 AM CST
Happy birthday, Robin!
Bonnie <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
Nashotah, WI - Tuesday, February 19, 2008 12:29 AM CST
Hello Dear Ones,
Great news Ryan! 18 months is a big mark to celebrate. Keep it up!
Praying for you all - that all your needs are met and you find His comfort and peace with you.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Monday, February 18, 2008 11:32 PM CST
Hi Robin-
I was just checking the Sharethelove.org site and saw Ashley's name a few down from Alexandria's and realized that Ashley had become an Angel. I am in shock to say the least and my heart is very heavy for your entire family. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult these first few months and holidays are without your precious daughter. I wish I could take away the pain and the sadness that you, your husband, and your other children are experiencing. It has been a long 5 year journey for us since losing Alexandria, but I can offer you hope that one day your heart will learn to sing again. Please let me know if there is anything we can do for your family.
God's GRACE and PEACE-
Alison Haddock, mom to Angel Alexandria
www.caringbridge.org/page/alexandriasangels
Alison Haddock <alisonhaddock@charter.net>
O Fallon, MO - Monday, February 18, 2008 12:13 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you. I check in every day to see how you all are doing, but I don't sign the guest book most of the time. My heart still aches for you and your family. I know Ashley is in a much better place but that dosn't stop the pain in our hearts.
I am so glad Ryan's check up went great.
Sending big hugs your way,
www.caringbridge.org/al/elizabethhope
Machelle, Mom to Elizabeth (all-kids list) <MJmomathome@aol.com>
Theodore, Al - Sunday, February 17, 2008 11:34 PM CST
Thinking about you guys on this snowy day...I don't sign the guestbook as often as I should, but I do think of you guys every day!
Ellen <epittner@new.rr.com>
Appleton, - Sunday, February 17, 2008 6:09 PM CST
I check in frequently but think of Ashley daily and pray for all of you many times a day. Although, I truly hope and pray to never experience the pain of losing one of the boys, the pain I continue to work through after losing my beloved mother to cancer and then a dear friend, haunts me every day. This makes me pray even harder for you and Mark.
Hugs to all of you,
Anne Sulskis
Keshena, WI - Friday, February 15, 2008 10:20 PM CST
Thinking of you all today-keep up the fight Ryan. The Melkonians
Darlene and Christopher Melkonian http://www.caringbridge.org/md/chrismelko <melkonid@comcast.net>
Gaithersburg, MD - Friday, February 15, 2008 5:11 PM CST
Hi Robin and Mark,
Letting you know that I think of you guys often and remeber Ashely everyday when I look at her picture in my office. My love and prayers for your family's healing continue...
Stacy <Sbrett@chw.org>
Miwaukee , WI - Friday, February 15, 2008 2:50 PM CST
"Love shortens time, charms the hours. Love is invincible. Many waters cannot quench it, nor floods drown it. The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved." ~~ Anonymous.
Source: "Blessings" for Thursday, February 14th.
Polly from Angel Wings Remembers <angel_polly1511@yahoo.com>
Rolette, ND USA - Thursday, February 14, 2008 9:35 PM CST
Thinking of your family...and Ashley this Valentine's Day.
xoxo
Lisa, mom to Brian & Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Thursday, February 14, 2008 7:29 AM CST
Attention Prayer Warriors::
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
will be having a Prayer Vigil Tuesday,
February 19th between 8-9 pm EST for
and all the children and adults on our
prayer list and our Angel Families.
Please join us in prayer for these
families..
Angel_Wings
Etta/Angel_Wings <grandmaettas@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 14, 2008 6:56 AM CST
Valentines...... To Heaven
This Valentine is not of the ordinary kind,
Its still filled with love...and blessings inside;
But mine has to be sent on the wings of love...
You see its destination is the Heavens above.
Its not being sent to my parents so dear,
For they are still with me each day of the year;
Its being sent to my child...who left earth so soon,
Who's now in the Heavens with the stars and the moon.
The message is the same as your valentine,
"I love you...my sweet precious child of mine;
My love is still deeper than the ocean is blue,
And its sent with hugs and kisses...from me to you."
"I know you are with me each and every day,
You listen as I talk to you...and hear what I say;
For that is one thing that disease cannot do...
...you'll always be apart of me...and me a part of you."
"I know God did not give you the awful disease,
Thank Him for His comfort He gives me...would you please?
I dont know what I would do without His undying love...
Sent to bereaved parents from the Heavens above."
"I know you are in the best of care,
But it's so hard for us left on earth to bear;
Could you put in a request from us left behind...
For God to send the knowledge..so a cure we can find."
"So that no other family has to go through this pain,
Our lives without you will never be the same;
When I get lonely I will look to the sky at night...
And see you shining down your big bright light."
Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Wednesday, February 13, 2008 3:22 PM CST
Way to go Ryan... Keep up the good work. Thinking of all of you often.
Love Kim
Kim Morgan <bkmorgan@new.rr.com>
Green bay, WI USA - Tuesday, February 12, 2008 12:18 AM CST
Wishing you all warm thoughts to help you thru the cold weather.
God Bless,
Bill (Cora's Dad)
Bill Schmidt
Manitowoc, WI - Monday, February 11, 2008 4:55 PM CST
Just stopping by to check in on you guys. Glad Ryan's appointment went well. We continue to think of all of you.
Sending many prayers,
Tiffany - mom to Jackson and Faith <jetoneil@yahoo.com>
Rohnert Park, CA - Saturday, February 9, 2008 11:03 PM CST
God bless you all.
Becky
- Friday, February 8, 2008 12:58 AM CST
Sending you warm thoughts and lifting you your family up each and everyday.
Godspeed
Jennifer HInes <creative_jenny@cox.net>
Mesa, az - Friday, February 8, 2008 12:10 AM CST
{{{Robin}}}
I'm so glad to hear that Ryan's check up went well. I know the peace of mind that brings, even if it isn't always long enough to last until the next check up! Ashley is looking out for him I know. Happy birthday to Jennifer, and all the best to Ryan, Kelsey and of course you and Mark.
I think of you so often - please keep in touch.
xoxo
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Thursday, February 7, 2008 7:53 AM CST
Debes Family, I check in as much I did all the years through Ashley's treatment (and Ryans). I am guilty of not signing as often as I should. Please know you are always in my prayers. www.caringbridge.org/ca/jackson
Jennifer Smith
Hidden Valley Lake, CA USA - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 9:13 PM CST
stopping in to say...thinking of you!
Glad to hear that Ryan's checkup went well.
God Bless~ Chris mom to Zayla
Chris Mitsdarffer <christymits@wildblue.net>
Bonfield, IL - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 9:03 PM CST
Sending you lots of prayers and asking GOD to surround you with his love. It is really snowing here in Michigan today. They say we can get 6-12 inches of snow. Hugs and prayers. Carolyn Wing/Angel_Wings grandma to Laura Stage IV neuroblastoma Carepage LauraVDB
Carolyn Wing/Angel_Wings <carolyn_wing@yahoo.com>
Carson City, MI - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 8:10 PM CST
Congrats Ryan!! great news...
praying for peace, you are so brave
Caringbridge.org/visit/catherineantalek <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, February 6, 2008 5:10 PM CST
Just a note to let you know I'm thinking of you and praying for your family every day. I'm so glad Ryan's appointment went well. How you must miss your sweet girl--my heart aches for you all. One day at a time--hang in there.
Peggy (Melanie's Grandma) <phines@chartermi.net>
Cadillac, MI - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 4:27 PM CST
Outstanding check-up Ryan...WTG!!! Keep that OT chuckwagon trucking along kiddo...your sister is very proud of you looking down from heaven!!
Happy belated birthday, Jennifer (just think, next year is the big Sweet 16!!) And good luck with volleyball, Kelsey. Taylor loved her first try at it at Woodland this fall and can't wait to do it again next year in 6th grade!
Big hugs to all of the Debes from the Jeskes in Appleton. We're always thinking of you and praying each day gets just a bit easier.
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 3:15 PM CST
Hello Robin, Mark & family, Thinking of you all daily & in our prayers, blessing to hear Ryan's checking up well :) Love, Donna,Paul&Brad
Donna Seranko
Lombard, Il USA - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 12:00 AM CST
Thinking of all of you.
Bonnie <bjw44@wi.rr.com>
- Tuesday, February 5, 2008 3:48 PM CST
Debes Family~
Thinking of you and holding you close to my heart as always.
Love and Hugs,
Candy (ALL-kids) Jonathan's mom(www.carepages.com name:jonryan78) <sweeneyclan5@comcast.net>
jackson, mi - Tuesday, February 5, 2008 9:18 AM CST
Hi Guys-
Just thinking of you and missing you. I think about Ashley everyday and miss her smile. Hope everything is going ok-or as ok as life can be! Always in my thoughts and prayers-
Betsy
Betsy Larsen <betsyrn5@yahoo.com>
West Allis, - Tuesday, February 5, 2008 0:45 AM CST
Been thinking about you all the time. I read your journal entry and my heart aches for you. So many people think of you, pray for you and I hope that gives you some comfort.
Ellen pittner <epittner@new.rr.com>
Appleton, - Saturday, February 2, 2008 9:09 PM CST
Hi Robin and Family!! I was thinking of you all today and just wanted to stop in and say hello.
Love, hugs and prayers...
Alicia <alicia415@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN - Friday, February 1, 2008 7:48 PM CST
Love to you all,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Friday, February 1, 2008 7:37 PM CST
Debes Family --
You all are always on our minds. The last pictures of Taylor and Ashley together at Blue Harbor are the screen saver on the kids computer. We see them daily -- and they always make me smile. The joy on the girls faces is so plain and clear to see. They were living in the moment and that's something we plan to do as a family more often. If anything, this has made us realize you just never know what the future holds. So why put off til tomorrow what you can do today?! Ashley was a very special girl to teach us all that. I know I've said it before but... Thank you. Thank you for your beautiful daughter. We hold her close to our hearts as we do the rest of your family.
We are praying that Ryan sails through his upcoming appointment next week with flying colors! Take care and keep us posted on how you're all doing.
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, February 1, 2008 2:02 PM CST
You've long been a source of inspiration. You continue to be - it's not easy. Praying and praying that your needs are met and you may find peace and comfort.
All our love,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Wednesday, January 30, 2008 3:15 PM CST
Robin, my heart breaks as I read your latest entry and I know that there is nothing I could say to ease the pain. I just wanted to say that we are all thinking of you today. Hope that Ryan's appt. goes smoothly next week.
Lorie, mom to Ben 6, pre-b cell ALL
ALL-Kids
Lorie H <lghirsh@hotmail.com>
TN - Wednesday, January 30, 2008 12:31 AM CST
Just to let you know we are thinking of you.
Hugs,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Sunday, January 27, 2008 8:17 PM CST
Thinking of you today.
Tammy <tnunez@timespicayune.com>
- Sunday, January 27, 2008 3:02 PM CST
Robin,
I thought of you and Ashley today so I popped over here to be "near by". Your mention of Matthew touched my heart...thank you. We are hanging in here....
I hear the heartache in your words...I am so sorry...
Please know that you are never far from my thoughts.....
Nancy
Nancy Vinson <nancyvinson@verizon.net>
- Saturday, January 26, 2008 8:29 PM CST
Been thinking of you a lot lately. I have no grand words of wisdom. You're absolutely right...I cannot fathom the empty place at the table. My heart aches that your family has to live it.
I just wanted to tell you, Ashley mattered to me.
Alicia - ALL Kids
Alicia Hall - Avalon's mom
Powell, OH - Friday, January 25, 2008 10:45 PM CST
Checking in on you and wanted to share...I belong to a weekly email service called Hope for the Day by Clara Hinton at www.silentgrief.com
She has amazing inspirational stories/thoughts if you ever get a chance stop by there.
Here is a story that I read and after reading your post I thought you may relate.
thinking and praying for you all~
Chris mom to Zayla www.caringbridge.org/visit/zayla
Losing a child places a mother on a road that begins a lonelier journey than ever expected—one that can never really be explained. There was a beginning, but with the death of the child, there is no middle and no end. Everything seems so unfinished. Hopes and dreams were stopped far too soon. Joy was snatched away so suddenly. A mother is left with empty arms and an empty heart. Nothing can ever be complete when a child’s life ends.
When the death of a child occurs, a mother is stopped in her tracks, and she suddenly feels inadequate and incomplete. She wears a new name. She is an “unfinished mother”, never being able to see the rest of the picture. She will never be able to watch her child mature into a young adult. She will never be able to see all the pieces fit together. The picture will always have part of the scenery missing. It is so painful to be an unfinished mother! Child loss makes everything seem so empty and incomplete.
The reality of child loss is devastating to a mother. There are overwhelming feelings of guilt, inadequacy, and most often feelings of failure. These feelings can overwhelm a mother for several months following the death of a child, and it can be quite difficult to build a support system to carry a mother through this roller coaster of emotions. Very few people will understand a mother’s explanation of feeling like she is an unfinished mother.
There will come a critical point in this journey of grief when a mother must reach deep inside her inner resources and make a conscious decision to accept herself just as she is—a mother whose heart has been touched by the pain and grief of child loss. Only then can she start to put together some of the broken pieces and begin to feel like there will be a day when she will feel more like a complete mother than an unfinished mother.
A mother is never an “unfinished mother.” A mother’s love runs far too deep to ever be called unfinished!!!~Clara Hinton
Chris Mitsdarffer <christymits@wildblue.net>
Bonfield, IL - Friday, January 25, 2008 4:16 PM CST
Robin,
So good to hear from you again. Thank you for sharing. I know your cancer support families understand and the rest of us, although we've not experienced the devastation first hand, hurt for you because you are all so dear to us.
We pray for healing for you all as you travel this road together.
Love,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gaineville, FL USA - Thursday, January 24, 2008 3:26 PM CST
Robin,
I CAN'T imagine... not in a million years, what you are all going through. Your family has been dealt SO much these years and I pray now for Ryan and for some peace for your family.
Caringbridge.org/visit/catherineantalek <Deirdre40@frontiernet.net>
- Thursday, January 24, 2008 8:47 AM CST
Robin,
I know you are feeling..I feel the same when I sit down in my table for have a breakfast, lunch and dinner, I look at the place that my Sarah used to sit down..Every night I go to her room and some times I say "good night my little daughter"..
The times goes on but and we are always missing our child but we need continue live for us, our family and friends..
It´s difficult but God give us strength.
Be stronger
Love
Regia
Sarah´s mom forever
www.caringbridge.org/southamerica/sarah
Regia <regialopes@hotmail.com>
Natal, RN BRASIL - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 2:19 PM CST
Robin,
You and your family have been in my thoughts often. I am heartened to hear that you are making it, one day at a time. Your strength and grace are amazing.
Beth (Will's mom from ALL list) <bmyler@yahoo.com>
Austin , TX - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 10:16 PM CST
Robin,
You and your family have been in my thoughts often. I am heartened to hear that you are making it, one day at a time. Your strength and grace are amazing.
Beth (Will's mom from ALL list) <bmyler@yahoo.com>
Austin , TX - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 10:13 PM CST
We think of you daily. We are hoping and praying each day brings more and more "ups".
Christina & Ethan
www.caringbridge.org/visit/meganavery1
Christina Avery <eandchris@comcast.net>
Rockville, MD - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 7:46 PM CST
Robin,
I'm always thinking of your beautiful Ashley. Sending hugs to you.
Love,
Marion
www.caringbridge.org/visit/jamesonrush
Marion <marerush@frontiernet.net>
IL - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 5:31 PM CST
my daughter was sick today and I thought how hard it must be for all those families who have kids who are sick for months at a time. I don't know how you did it, I just pray you are managing and mangaing to have some joy without Ashley. praying for you.
tammy
- Monday, January 21, 2008 11:21 PM CST
Hi guys! A "no school day" day today - yea! I hope you had a chance to do something fun.
Poor Packers :( I hope Uncle Eric is bearing it.
Our love to all,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Monday, January 21, 2008 6:29 PM CST
Debes Family, you are always in my thoughts and prayers. Sending my love.
Jennifer Smith <lakerdog2@yahoo.com>
Hidden Valley Lake, CA USA - Sunday, January 20, 2008 10:25 PM CST
Just wanted to stop in and say hi. I'm still checking in on everyone and praying for you.
love & prayers,
Amy Nasworthy <mnasworthy@tampabay.rr.com>
St.Pete, FL - Saturday, January 19, 2008 7:41 AM CST
Robin & Family,
Taylor celebrated her 11th birthday yesterday. Time flies so quickly. We are always thinking of Ashley especially with Taylor's birthday. Twinkie got extra special attention because of it.
We remember how much fun the girls had at her birthday sleepover last year. Ashley was such a "night owl" and kept Taylor and the other girls up well past 2AM yet still had energy to burn the next day! Unfortunately, Taylor was on sterroids this time last year and had those Jekyl and Hyde emotions which kept me from taking very many pictures of the party. It makes me so sad now that I let those stupid drugs and the moodiness they caused keep me from documenting such a fun time in their lives. Taylor has dedicated wall in her room to an Ashley collage of pictures, etc. which makes her smile every time she enters her room. Every day seems to get a bit easier.
Many people at Woodland School ask me how you and your family are doing and they want you to know they are thinking about you too. We are holding you close to our hearts as well and praying that with each passing day the sadness makes way for something a little brighter.
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI 54915 - Friday, January 18, 2008 10:07 AM CST
Dropping by to send hugs your way.
You may know the song, I hadn't heard it in a while but when it came on today, I thought of you...
All who sail the sea of faith
Find out before too long
How quickly blue skies can grow dark
And gentle winds grow strong
Suddenly fear is like white water
Pounding on the soul
Still we sail on knowing
That our Lord is in control
Sometimes He calms the storm
With a whispered peace be still
He can settle any sea
But it doesn't mean He will
Sometimes He holds us close
And lets the wind and waves go wild
Sometimes He calms the storm
And other times He calms His child
He has a reason for each trial
That we pass through in life
And though we're shaken
We cannot be pulled apart from Christ
No matter how the driving rain beats down
On those who hold to faith
A heart of trust will always
Be a quiet peaceful place
(SCOTT KRIPPAYNE)
Wishing you calm waters today...remember you are always in His hands and close to our hearts.
Love to all,
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Wednesday, January 16, 2008 8:07 PM CST
Hi Robin and Family,
I thought I would sign your guest book and let you know that I stoped by to see how you all are doing. I am so glad Ryan's check up went so well. Sending hugs and Prayers your way.
www.caringbridge.org/al/elizabethhope
Machelle Johnson (ALL-Kids listserv) <MJmomathome@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 16, 2008 9:06 AM CST
Hi Debes family-
Just wanted to say hi and see how everything is going-I'm so glad to hear that Ryan's appointment went well! I miss you guys tons!
Love,
Betsy
Betsy Larsen <betsyrn5@yahoo.com>
West Allis , WI - Wednesday, January 16, 2008 4:09 AM CST
Robin-
Thinking of you all today and glad to hear that Ryan is doing well health-wise. Take Care,
Lorie, mom to Ben (6, pre-b cell ALL, dx. 8/03, OT 10/06)
ALL-KIDS
Lorie H <lghirsh@hotmail.com>
TN - Tuesday, January 15, 2008 7:42 PM CST
Just dropping in to let you know I am thinking of you all....
Chris mom to Zayla www.caringbridge.org/visit/zayla
Chris Mitsdarffer <christymits@wildblue.net>
Bonfield, IL - Tuesday, January 15, 2008 7:13 PM CST
Hi, Robin. I was thinking of Ashley today, and Ryan and you and your whole family. I don't have the right words, but know I remember her, she was so important, and I think of Ryan a lot too and am glad he's doing well. Kyle is too. We went through so much together on ALL KIDS, and I miss you, my friend, though we have never actually met, and you are still often in my prayers. Hugs to you and your whole clan.
Beth and Kyle (www.caringbridge.org/in/kylefacts)
Beth from ALL KIDS <bdehoff@iquest.net>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Monday, January 14, 2008 11:06 PM CST
I am happy to hear that Ryan is doing well and
we will continue to hold each of you very close in our prayers..
Teish/AngelWingsRemembers/Angel_Wings <Boyerangeltrish@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Monday, January 14, 2008 8:51 AM CST
I am glad to hear that Ryan is doing so well.
We miss him here at Woodland but hope he is doing well in Oconomowoc! I bet he is making his classmates smile each day. Also, his brain must be getting HUGE from all of that hard work!
Best Wishes in the New Year! Take Care!
Miss Basler
Woodland Elementary
Jennifer Basler <jbasler@kimberly.k12.wi.us>
Appleton, WI usa - Sunday, January 13, 2008 2:50 PM CST
Attention Prayer Warriors::
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
will be having a Prayer Vigil Saturday
Jan/19th. between 8-9 pm EST for Ryan
and all the children and adults on our
prayer list and our Angel Families.
Please join us in prayer for these
families..
Trish/Angel_Wings <Boyerangeltrish@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Saturday, January 12, 2008 10:05 AM CST
Wishing you "sonshine" today...joys in the small things - a good cup of coffee after a hot shower, a nap or a chance to read a few pages.
You're always in our prayers. Love to all.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Saturday, January 12, 2008 6:45 AM CST
Grandma wants me to look up more photos of Colton. Since it's easier for her than sending them via e-mail and we all think he's a miracle.
Jack L. Livingston <jlsplace@charter.net>
Farwell , Mi. USA - Friday, January 11, 2008 8:58 AM CST
Hi Robin and family ~
Just wanted to stop by and say hello --I was thinking of you this morning. I'm glad to hear that Ryan is doing well. The picture of Ashely and the bunny is just the cutest!!
Pat, Sal, Mishael and Isaiah ~~~Isaiah’s Journey~~~ <pat.bingham@charter.net>
Whitmore Lake, MI - Thursday, January 10, 2008 9:43 AM CST
Awesome news Ryan! I hope that the complaints that moved the appoinment up are soon resolved and you're feeling great soon.
BTW, that photo of the s'mores - the third s'more - will be permanently in my mind. Hope you have s'more fun soon.
Take good care dear ones. Always praying for you all.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, January 8, 2008 9:51 PM CST
Good Afternoon!
It is great to read that Ryan's counts were good. That is a big relief, I'm sure. Thank you, Lord. I am thinking of you today and praying for you.
A Gentle Hug
A gentle hug is wonderful,
It sends a message clear;
That someone truly cares for you
And they are ever near.
No matter how much loneliness
Pervades your inner soul,
A gentle hug is well received;
It carries such a glow.
Your inner heart is warmed again
By the light of another's touch;
A gentle hug reaches out
And means so very much.
Let another's needs be filled
By a gentle hug thus given;
Warm their heart with your love,
Share a bit of heaven.
Gentle hugs filled with care
Are encouraged day by day;
Heal your heart and another's, too,
Give a gentle hug away.
Written by Carolyn Evans Wade
Sending hugs, praises and prayers from Angel_Wings Remembers.
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/groups/Angel_WingsRemembers
Polly from Angel_Wings Remembers <polly1511@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, January 8, 2008 5:05 PM CST
Hello Robin, Mark & kids,
We're so grateful to hear that Ryan is doing well! And we hope that with each passing day, life gets even just a tiny bit easier. I can understand the ups and downs -- I see Taylor go through them too. A day or two of happiness then the next night she can't sleep because she's thinking about Ashley and missing her terribly.
May God watch over all of you and give you peace in this new, New Year.
Hugs from the Jeskes in Appleton
p/s Twinkie sends bunny hugs and nibbles!
Tammy Jeske <valleyjeskes@yahoo.com>
Appleton, WI - Tuesday, January 8, 2008 3:49 PM CST
So relieved to hear of Ryan's "good counts". ... praying for you each day. Hope you have more ups than downs this week
Tammy <tnunez@timespicayune.com>
- Tuesday, January 8, 2008 1:09 PM CST
Hello everyone. Just wanted to let you know that i am thinking of all of you. I'm working today. Yippee!!! Tell eveyrone "hello" for me and i hope to see you guys soon. How's the hamster situation???? Leah
leah finnegan
milwaukee, wi usa - Tuesday, January 8, 2008 10:38 AM CST
Sending many prayers to your family.
Enya
East Dennis, MA - Sunday, January 6, 2008 2:36 AM CST
Hi Robin,
It's Robbin. I have been thinking of you all the time. It's been a weird set of holidays for us. While Dana was at his cousin's funeral, Kelly got sick and still is. She has pneumonia now. Her counts have benn really weird. We are hoping it's due to a virus. They did pinpoint RSV, so that is probably the culpret. I read what you said about people asking about your kids. A close friend of mine says she has three here and one in heaven. She has struggled with the same thing.
I hope the New Year brings about some good things for you all. And soon the cloud will start to lift. I know things feel like they are in slow motion. Your other kids will prove to be the path that pulls you through.
God bless!
Robbin
Robbin Lyons <thomtalent@aol.com>
Pewaukee, WI - Saturday, January 5, 2008 3:40 PM CST
Dear Ones,
We continue to pray that you grow even closer together and that He sustains you during this rocky time. We pray for comfort for your brokern hearts.
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Saturday, January 5, 2008 6:45 AM CST
Thinking of you....
Lisa , mom to Brian and Kevin <ltignor@comcast.net>
Montclair, VA - Friday, January 4, 2008 9:12 PM CST
Another Year for Thee
Another year is dawning!
Dear Master, let it be,
In working or in waiting,
Another year with Thee!
Another year of leaning
Upon Thy loving breast,
Of even deeper trusting,
Of quiet, happy rest.
Another year of mercies,
Of faithfulness and grace;
Another year of gladness,
In the shining of Thy face.
Another year of progress,
Another year of praise;
Another year of proving
Thy presence "all the days."
Another year of service,
Of witness to Thy love;
Another year of training
For holier work above.
Another year is dawning!
Dear Master, let it be,
On earth, or else in heaven,
Another year for Thee!
Polly @ Angel_Wings Remembers <polly1511@gmail.com>
Rolette, ND USA - Friday, January 4, 2008 8:59 PM CST
Robin,
Thinking of you and praying for your family. I know it's hard. Wish I could make it better.
Tammy
- Thursday, January 3, 2008 5:51 PM CST
Dear Robin and Family. We continue to lift you up and pray that the Lord continues to heal your broken hearts. May He hold you all very close during this time.
God Bless you all
Sue, Mike, Tim, Emily, Jamie and Jessica
Sue Boehlein <sboehlein@cox.net>
Gainesville, Fl USA - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 2:08 PM CST
Robin and Family, You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for a wonderful New New Year for you all.
Steph all kids www.caringbridge.org/nd/josh <stephaniejochim@yahoo.com>
Flasher, ND - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 9:04 AM CST
Wishing you peace for the New Year, Robin and Family.
I pray that you can find some joy this year, even when you are not feeling overly joyful. I pray there are moments of happiness and moments of lightheartedness and moments of smiles. Mostly I pray for strength for each and every one of you to get through every day. All our love, The McDermotts.
suzanne (march 2002 PG) <suzmcdmcd@gmail.com>
guilford, CT - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 8:58 AM CST
I thought of you Robin and your family many times over this holiday season, especially when we visited CHOW for chemo and went up to the HOT unit to deliver holiday goodies....surreal to see the murals on the windows in the hall. Praying that 2008 brings only good things to your family, peace and health.
Jean ALL-Kids
Jean Ghantous <jghantous@comcast.net>
Lake Forest, IL - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 10:48 PM CST
You two continue to show such great devotion to your family - a tribute to Ashley and a source of peace and model of love to all. Praying for you...
Erica, Gary, Rachel, Adam and Matthew <edhartge@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 10:29 PM CST
Thinking of your family, and praying that God blessed you all this Christmas, which must have been so painful without Ashley.
In reading your journal, my heart broke, as you truly have spent so much time caring for a cancer child (whether Ashley, Ryan, or both)...and now it all has ended...but your quote after today's entry was poignant, because as a cancer mom, I know how much my healthy kids missed out on when I was caring for Andrew....I pray that your time with them is extra special, there is no easy balance to all that you have had to juggle.
We continue to pray for Ryan, as the fear of relapse (or the many serious life-long side effects of treatment) is always something that keeps us on our toes.
I guess I just want to acknowledge that your family has gone through a tremendous amount of pain and hardship, and I know that there is still a lot on your plate, a lot that others might not see.
We send lots of love and prayers,
The Spragues
Andrew's Page <kim.sprague@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA USA - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 9:29 PM CST
Big hugs to both you and Mark as you begin the "new" year on a different path than you had hoped for. May your find comfort and lots of love in your family in the days and weeks ahead as your are challenged with going on each and every day, learning how to live this "new" life.
Gloria Galaska <ggalaska@wi.rr.com>
Oak Creek, WI US - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 8:39 PM CST
Mark, Robin & Family-We wanted to wish you a Happy New Year and we continue to pray for you!!! We think of you often, especially when we head to the BMT clinic. Ashley was a trooper! Lots of Love!
Love, Suanne, David, Zachary & Timothy
- Tuesday, January 1, 2008 11:16 AM CST
(((Robin))) Of course you will always have 4 children! And, as you note, what a huge adjustment your family is going through after years of treatment being the center of your lives. But I have to say, I am so impressed with how sane and healthy you sound in the midst of your grief. I know that you are crushed, but you are coping admirably for the sake of your family. Kids look to their parents for cues on how to handle life's challenges and your kids are so lucky to have you to guide them! And hooray for Ryan. My little guy is 7 years post treatment today and I can't wait for Ryan to get to the same point: to be healthy and happy and have the worry of his cancer a distant memory.
Beth (Will's mom from ALL list) <bmyler@yahoo.com>
Austin, TX United States - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 10:36 AM CST
I'm saying a prayer for your family now as this New Year begins. For Ashley to know how much her family loved her. Your concern to meet her needs in every way you possibly could all those years had to give her comfort. I pray to have my kids know I love them that much- to be a parent with that type of devotion that you have for Ashley. I pray that Ryan remains free of cancer and that you find it easier to not "wait for the other shoe to fall". God bless you!
Tena
Brule, WI USA - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 2:55 AM CST
Safe and Health, Happy New Year.
Heather <maggiedee10@yahoo.com>
PA USA - Tuesday, January 1, 2008 0:37 AM CST
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