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My Story

We were very excited to find out last November that Suzanne was pregnant again with our second child.  Six weeks after finding out, fearing a miscarriage, Suzanne went to her doctor only to find out that there was still a little heart beating inside!  Dr. Chisdak of Big Sky Women's Specialists in Bozeman, Montana informed her that she had a tear in her placenta and she needed to rest for a couple of weeks just to let it heal.

Two weeks later on New Years Eve, Suzanne had gotten home from doing hair for a wedding and was complaining of abdominal pain.  At 2AM on New Years Day we headed to the ER to get her checked out.  The pain had not subsided and she spent the next 3 days in the hospital just to make sure she was taken care of.  Nothing transpired in the hospital and as soon as her pain was under control she was able to come home.

A few weeks later another scary experience brought us back to the ER.  After getting Suzanne checked out they wanted to check for fetal heart tones just to make sure the baby was OK.  After a very long minute or so (and us fearing the worst)...they were able to find a good heart beat still going strong inside.  The next day after an thorough ultrasound (which also told us of another little girl!) and a appointment with Dr. Augustyn (another great doctor at Big Sky Women's Specialists) she was put on official bedrest at home. The tear in the placenta was not healing and this was the best and only remedy to give it a chance to heal.

Two weeks or so went by without any problems.  At around 19 weeks another significant bleeding episode brought us back to the hospital.  After an exam it seemed to be more of the same...everything was the way it was supposed to be at that gestation.  The next day after another appointment with Dr. Chisdak, everything was great with the baby.  Above average size, all internal organs developing as they should, 10 fingers, 10 toes, etc.  Suzanne was healthy too...just that persistent tear in the placenta was acting up again.

At the end of March, Suzanne's mother Heather came to visit and to help us with Annika (our 18 month old daughter).  We went to Suzanne's weekly check-up and ultrasound for her 22 week milestone.  The tear was still there and not getting any better. Dr. Chisdak, Suzanne and I came to the conclusion that she needed to be closer to a hospital that could handle a premature baby since Bozeman can not take babies under 32 weeks.  After a few phone calls to the insurance company and a couple of doctors referrals, Suzanne was going to be going to Sioux Falls to stay at her parents house as well as having their assistance with Annika.

On April 7th, Heather, Suzanne and Annika flew to Sioux Falls leaving me and Maggie (the lazy Pug) to hold down the fort for a while.

The next day after arriving in Sioux Falls, Suzanne (23 weeks along) had a check up with her new doctor Dr. Palmquist of Avera Maternal-Fetal Medicine.  A new ultrasound showed a significant tears in the placenta which was the cause of the continual bleeding and the passing of blood clots.  They determined that she would be admitted to the hospital on April 15th (24 weeks) to be placed on medical bedrest for the duration of the pregnancy...hopefully a long time.

Another bleeding episode 2 days after her appointment with Dr. Palmquist brought her back to the hospital only to be admitted for observations.  Things were not improving and the bleeding was not the way they wanted it so from this point forward she was on bedrest.

On the morning of April 13th I recieved a call from Suzanne telling me that she was having contractions and she feard that today was the day.  After a long distracting day at work I finally contacted Suzanne at around 2:30 PM and she told me it was getting worse and I needed to get to the hospital.  I left a meeting, headed home to grab a backpack and the dog, and jumped in the car for the drive to Sioux Falls.

At 4:21PM, (23 weeks and 5 days) Shelby Suzanne Ullom was welcomed to the world.  She was quickly baptized and rushed to the NICU for immediate care.  She is stabilized and monitored to ensure her continued care and growth.

We are thankful to have our little miracle in this world and can't wait until we can hold her in our arms.  Suzanne and I will continue to update the progress of our little baby in the weeks and months to come.

Please keep Shelby in your thoughts an prayers, she needs all the strength we can give her to be able to continue her fight.



Suzanne & Dan Ullom posted a new journal entry, "New Life".

We are so excited to say that we are home and Shelby is still without her trach!  The ENT told us that everything looks great and didn't need to laser anything!  YAY  ... Read more

Vicki Daniels signed Shelby Suzanne's Guestbook.

Praise The Lord for this wonderful progress for Shelby! We will be praying for your family as you go through this challenging but happy transition! Read more

Jane Gibson, Wayzata Schools signed Shelby Suzanne's Guestbook.

Suzanne- That is great news! I am so glad to hear it. I haven't seen Shelby in a while and she looks so grown up in this picture. What a big step for all of you and you ... Read more

Deirdre Quinn signed Shelby Suzanne's Guestbook.

Love you guys. Always sending love and light your way and it seems to be working!! Yay!! Hang in there. xxoo miss you suzanne. Read more

eleanor christiansen signed Shelby Suzanne's Guestbook.

WOOOOOOT!  Go Shelby go!  Such amazing news.  Please let us know what we can do to support you this coming month!So exciting….Eleanor Read more

Suzanne & Dan Ullom added a new photo.

Suzanne & Dan Ullom posted a new journal entry, "End is in sight!!!".

As most of you know I haven't updated this in quite a while....For us that is a good thing!  We have been on our Make a Wish, Shelby has been in preschool and taking ... Read more

kim regensburger signed Shelby Suzanne's Guestbook.

Suzanne, I'm do happy to read this post!! I will be praying as always! What an amazing gift!! Receive it and enjoy!! All my love, Kim Read more

Annie Awe signed Shelby Suzanne's Guestbook.

Have so much fun on your trip!!! So cool about the jet! You all deserve the world. Can't wait to see the pictures! Xo Annie Awe Read more

Suzanne & Dan Ullom posted a new journal entry.

Shelby has managed to stay healthy and get back to normal. We are so excited as we are now 9 days away from leaving on our Make-A-Wish trip to Disney World! We will be ... Read more

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