My Story

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Rex was 8 years old on Nov. 22, 2010, having just reached that mark one month and 5 days before he threw up four times and had a migraine-type headache that sent us to our pediatrician.  Dr. Wiley and a local ophthalmologist, Dr. Teague, agreed that Rex had a severe problem and sent us to Hendrick Medical Center here in Abilene.  Later that night, after an MRI, Dr. Wiley told us that Rex had a golf-ball size tumor buried deep in his brain.  The next day we were at Cook Children's Hospital in Fort Worth to discuss treatment options.  The next week, Dr. David Donahue was able to resect the tumor entirely, and it appeared to be benign.  However, eight days after surgery we found out Rex had a very serious malignant tumor.

Through another brain surgery in Dec. 2011, 31 rounds of radiation and another 20 rounds of chemotherapy, Rex kept bouncing back.  He stayed in school, played with friends, and found a way around the few minor physical setbacks he had from his surgery.

After a Make-A-Wish trip in June 2012, we returned home with an apparently healthy son.  But on July 25 -- two days after his 3-month MRI -- we found out that Rex's tumor was back, and so were two new strands of cancer that were growing toward his brain stem.  Surgery was not an option, only an experimental drug that he would take for 3 months and then be re-scanned.

The scan in late October 2012 confirmed the drug had made no progress in stopping the growth of the cancer and we were told to prepare ourselves for the worst: our 10-year-old son would die within the next 3-4 months.  It didn't take that long.  On Nov. 8, Rex suffered a debilitating seizure that left him bed-ridden with slurred speech and almost no control over his extremities.

On the evening of Nov. 25, 2012, while surrounded at home by his parents, siblings and grandparents, Rex slipped away to his eternal home where he saw the face of Jesus.  We know he is forever healed because he asked Jesus to live in his heart at the age of 7 and was baptized as a born-again Christian.

We know we will see our little boy again when our turn to see our Maker comes, and we know this time there will be no separation.  We know that we will live together forever.  Until then, we will live the way Rex taught us: with love, with laughter and with grace.  We love you, Rex, and we'll see you again one day.

Mom, Dad, Ashley and Ryan


Lance Fleming posted a new journal entry, "Great Day at Cook Children's Hospital".

"The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these."     --- Mark 12:31If Rex Fleming taught us anything, it ... Read more

Becky Morris-Rector signed Rex's Guestbook.

I'm just so touched with all I just very special for those precious children battling cancer to receive such generous gifts! How fun to be on the giving end and ... Read more

Janice Tiner signed Rex's Guestbook.

What a blessing to run into you at Taylor last night! We were checking our Katy and Jaden in for 2nd and 1st grade. They had heart surgery, assembly line style, ... Read more

Marilyn Cluck signed Rex's Guestbook.

Rex is smiling!  What a powerful witness you all are in continuing to tell his story and live out his ministry.  Read more

deann perkins signed Rex's Guestbook.

So wonderful to hear of all the good things you are doing in Rex's honor! We continue to remember our little red-headed friend with the mischievous smile- especially every ... Read more

Nan signed Rex's Guestbook.

Will be Praying for all the Little ones at Cook's that have been apart of your lives, also for Ronnie's family & for you guys too!! Again May the Lord Bless ya for ... Read more

mary knowles signed Rex's Guestbook.

8/20/13Dear Flemings,Awesome recent updates!  So inspiring that you are turning your  unspeakable loss into something so good!  Rex and Jesus ... Read more

Diane G signed Rex's Guestbook.

How wonderful! Glad to hear from you all! God bless you! I think of Rex often and remember his courage!! Sweet little man!! Read more

George Schroeder (Christopher's dad) signed Rex's Guestbook.

What a wonderful day, and another wonderful chapter in a testimony of God's goodness and love. So good to hear of the ways He continues to use Rex -- and y'all -- to ... Read more

Susan McKeever signed Rex's Guestbook.

Lance, we appreciate everything you and Jill and your family are doing to help others suffering from cancer.  We admire your kindness and energizing spirit which ... Read more

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