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On Saturday, August 30, 2008 Nicole was found unconscious in the alley behind her apartment building in Harlem (New York City). Her parents, Larry and Susan, were notified by a detective with the NYPD. What happened is a mystery. We know she was locked out of her fifth floor apartment and sent a text message to her roommate that went unanswered. One of her shoes was found on the roof of the building. Perhaps she was trying to figure out a way from the roof to her window. But things just don't add up. NYPD is investigating the whole ordeal as a crime. We don't know how long she laid in the alley unconscious. The super from her building was emptying trash around noon on Sat. and found her. Luckily, Harlem Hospital was just across the street.
Susan and Larry were not able to get a flight out of Jackson on Saturday. On Sunday Susan was on a 7 am flight and Larry's flight left soon after. Susan ran into lots of delays and did not get to the hospital until late Sunday evening. Josh Hailey, Nicole's boyfriend, arrived a couple of days later.
Nicole was transferred to New York Columbia Presbyterian Hospital Sunday night as that hospital was better equipped to handle the level of her injuries. All her ribs on one side of her body were broken, her lung was punctured and collapsed, her back was broken in two places (neck and lumbar spine) and her pelvis was fractured. She also had a bad laceration on her shoulder blade from falling on broken glass and a significant loss of blood. Some good news is that there were no injuries to her brain. The alley where she fell was dirt instead of concrete so that may have been one of the miracles that helped saved her life. At the time she arrived at NY Presbyterian, she could feel her legs, but couldn't move them. She was also unable to use her hands.
Less than 12 hours of arriving at NYP, Nicole had a 10-hour surgery to stablize her neck- first they went in through her throat and removed vertebrae that was crushed and pressing on her spinal column. It was replaced with an artificial device using mesh and lab-grown bone. A metal plate was then inserted to protect that and the incision was closed. In a second surgery, done at the same time, she was flipped over then they went in through the back of her neck and put in a couple of rods and pins. They have gave her medication that made her "medically paralyzed," in order to keep her very still so her neck could heal. The doctors did a second surgery (9 hours) on her lower back on September 11.
While at NYP, Nic was intubated with a ventilator for two and a half weeks. She had a bout of pneumonia and a series of mini-strokes that have caused her left side to be weak.
After over 3 1/2 weeks in the Neuro ICU at NYP, Nic was airlifted to Jackson and spent another 3 1/2 weeks at Select Specialty Hospital. From there, she was transferred to the Methodist Rehabilitation Center on October 20. On January 7, Nicole was discharged and, as she promised, walked out of Methodist Rehab on the arm of Josh. She is home now, and going to outpatient therapy several days a week.
The daily journal is written by Nic's mother, Susan, as a way to chronicle her recovery. Please continue to keep Nicole in your prayers and leave messages for her on this site so she will have something to look forward to. We've felt your prayers, and are so grateful for them all.
To contribute to Nicole's medical fund, log on to www.youcantstopthisdancer.com. The fundraising events are over, but you can still donate on the site. It will appear as "Pay Pal" on your credit card bill. The Marquez family will be notified via email of your donation. ~OR~ you may go to any Trustmark Bank branch and make a deposit to the Nicole Marquez Medical Fund account. Please tell the teller that you'd like the Marquez family to be notified of your donation.
We thank God for sparing our Nicole, and for her miraculous recovery. He is glorified through Nicole, and we pray that she will be an inspiration to all who know her or read her story. We also pray that God blesses all who read this.
this time last year, i was getting a pass written for me from my doctor to be able to spend christmas with my family. this time last year, i was in a hospital. this time last year, i told myself i'd be walking out of methodist. i've exceeded everything i've wanted to accomplish and then some, and i'm still not done yet. it is pointless to keep you guys updated about my progress, when i'm still deep in the process. i'm out of the hospital, i'm breathing, living, and claiming my life.
this is the big finale: as of today, caring bridge is done. your thoughts, prayers, love and advice have gotten me as far as i am right now, and the cycle is still not over. now it's up to me, to finally claim and prove to the world just how strong this little dancer is. i'm still paying medical bills, i'm still in therapy, i'm still getting stronger, but like i've said, it's time for me to close this chapter and turn the page to the next one.
caring bridge was designed to follow friends, family members, loved ones and total strangers in their fight to recover from their horrific accidents, diagnoses, etc., and give them as much hope, help, and prayers as they needed. you guys have done that for me, and still continue to do so. now let me pay back the favor, and get better.
this christmas, i want to give the gift of hope, hope that everybody on this site makes it through whatever they are going through. hope that their family members and friends also make it through whatever they're going through. and hope that i'll be able to finally close this chapter and start anew. it's time.
so this is goodbye. goodbye, and hello. goodbye to the hospital, hello to progress.
i love each and every one of you, and will continue to, always. to all the friends i've made on this website, and to all the family members that we've been able to reach out to: my prayers will never stop. goodbye caring bridge. merry christmas, and happy new year.