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jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
I miss you so much Meag. I wish we could talk like old times at the pool. Things are even harder now than they ever were then. Oh what I would do to have another chat with you. I can't even begin to imagine the advice you would give me now as I've gotten older. I miss you Meag, send me something so I know you're there. Love you lucky--

love, kate
Sue DeLong
Sue DeLong
Hey Meagan, Uncle Timmy and I cried through the Dateline episode about you. I know you'd be proud of your mom's bravery as she told your story, but our hearts ache for her and everyone who loves you. Please let her know that she made and continues to make the right decisions for you and in your honor. I hope those who watched the show understand your family's perspective of the twist of fate. Why couldn't you have been the one that lived? I think it's because God wants the best and He needed you. Even though we all wish that you would have been the one to live-would have given anything to make that happen, and begged God to heal you, He had better plans for you. I wish there was some way to heal the heartache and loneliness as a result of you being in Heaven. Wrap your arms around your mom and be with her, Dad, Victoria, and Sam. Help them find peace. You will always be in the hearts, thoughts, and prayers of all who love you. Aunt Sue
Tim Oakley
Tim Oakley
HI Sweetie;
I just wanted to fill you in on a couple of things. The golf outing is scheduled for June 27( last Friday in June) and the Dateline episode on the stage collapse is set for this Sunday at 7 as long as the golf tournamant doesn't run late. I wish we could have had a golf delay for the concert.
I told your story to another mom suffering with guilt issues. I hope it helps. It seems like we never run out of guilt or pain. It is ironic that we all have or want to work in jobs that deal with the pain and suffering caused by others. It makes it hard to remember that we are still a family, that we still have a family but it is different than what it was. It has to be okay to celebrate the joys and triumphs of everyday life without  the accompanying feelings of shame for the celebration.  We have more joys than most and we have to remember that. You would not have wanted that any other way.
I hope you found somewhere warm to hang out for teh last couple of months.  I did see two butterflies fly across my windshield as I took Haley to the vet for her surgery. Thanks for checking on her. I actually smiled when I saw them. It was December and cold outside buthere they were. You would love the girls. Out of control doesn't do them justice but they are cute when they want to cuddle. They ate a porch light earlier this week. Sweet  
V has turned into alovely young lady. She had her interview for NKU yesterday and we are hoping that she makes it. She has a gift to counsel others and I hope they see that. We went to see Baby Jackson last weekend. He is super ging. You would be a  as muy uncle Alva would say GREAT aunt.  He is getting teeth and needs some Michigan wear. Daneille and Kevin are so cute. It makes my teeth hurt.
Sam is a beast. He is grinding up Otterbein and asking for more. He is now the frat president and as that had a meeting with the dean  to form a new part of student government.  He has really found a home at school.
Mom is having a tough time. She need so talk with you but feels that she can't hear your voice anymore. She needs you to kick her in the rear.
Me, I am just dad.  I miss you but I know you miss us too. Course, I know you are there in every butterfly and in every washer we find in strange places. You are also there in the 5:15am wake up alarm on my clock that hasn't worked in 8 tyears. Cute. It hasn't worked since.  But the one day I could sleep in, the alarm went out at 5:15. I actuaaly got a kick out of it. I needed the laugh.  
I have to go but rememebr I love you whole in this world. Tell everyone I said hello. Dad
 
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
Meagan,
As I'm sure you know my grandpa passed away last week. I don't remember if you ever got to meet him but I have a feeling you did. He always knew how special you were to our family and how special you were to me. I hope you've seen him in Heaven, he will make you smile. There's something comforting knowing that two of my favorite people are together even though I can't be with them. I love you Meag and continue to miss you everyday.

Melissa Oakley
Melissa Oakley

My sweetest Meagan,

We have come to another year’s end without you.  Everyone around us is buzzing with hopes, dreams, and aspirations for the New Year but I find myself instead looking back.  I catch glimpses of joyful times gone by and wonder if there will ever be joy in our lives again without you.  Each passing day grows darker for me as I miss you terribly.  I continue to see you in my dreams as a little girl, a special little girl who entered my life when I needed you most.  A special little girl who grew into a graceful, vibrant young woman destined to make a difference in the world.  As the days have turned into weeks; the weeks into months; the months into years, I have become angry and bitter as I grieve for you always.  I am angry that 2 years and four months after the loss of you we still have no answers. We still do not know what really happened.  We still do not how those you were with made it to safety and survived while you did not. I fear that we never will know. We still have no justice for you.  It is beginning to look as though we never will see those responsible for your death brought to justice.  I only wish that you had never gone to that stupid concert.  I cannot listen to certain songs or genres of music.  I HATE to hear anything about any concerts.  I cannot bear to think of what you must have felt and thought in that instant.  I am your mommy and I am supposed to be able to protect you from anything.  I wasn’t there to protect you.  There are days when everything feels like it is crashing in and I think, if I could only see Meagan or talk to Meagan everything would be okay.  Unfortunately, I cannot see you or talk to you in the ways we did daily. I keep thinking about what your life would be like today if you were here, especially since all of your friends are engaged, getting married, married, and having babies.  I find myself happy and heartbroken at the same time; happy for them but heartbroken for you that you will never have the chance to experience those blessed events and times.  I try to stay positive, especially for Samuel and Victoria but it is very difficult at times to hide the pain.  I hold you in my heart, my thoughts, and my dreams always.  I hope you know how proud and honored I have always been to be your mom.

I love you whole in this world,

Mommy

 

Steve Dailey
Steve Dailey
Not a day goes bye when i do not think about Meagan. Even though you are not here with all of us it brings a smile to my face every time I think about you watching down over us. i often have visions of what i could have done had I been there with you when the stage started to fall, I know in my heart that if I had the chance and the awareness that I would have done whatever it took to save you. I pray that you can shine your blessing upon us all from above and help us continue living our lives in your honor.

Love and miss you.

Steve
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
Meagan,
I miss you so much things are just not the same knowing that I can't see you or talk to you anymore. I know that you were there when I had to have surgery, we even parked on the butterfly level! The nurse waiting for me to wake up was also named Meagan. It's little things like that that remind me you are still with me and are watching out for me. You will forever be my guardian angel Meag. I love you Lucky,

Kate
Melissa Oakley
Melissa Oakley
Meagan, The passage of time only makes your absence greater. People think I should "be over this and move on." No one understands! No one understands how much I miss you and need you. No one understands me like you did. It is a very lonely existence without you in this world. The hole in my heart deepens with each passing day without you. I wish I could turn back time. I wish you had never gone to that damn concert! I continue to ask why YOU were one of the 7? Why did everyone else make it and get a second chance with their lives? Why you,someone with so much to give to so many people, is gone from this world while others remain? I am filled with anger and sadness always. It overwhelms me always. I just want you back! I love you whole in this world, Mommy
Tim Oakley
Tim Oakley
HI Sweetie,
I was just thinking about you and thought it has been a while since I wrote. I think that from now on, I may use the meagan toothman foundation website but you  will know which one.
I spoke with a parent the other day who has guilty feelings from a different experience. I told her we will talk in a couple of weeks. I hope you help me find the right words to say.
Mom is having trouble figuring out some of her class. Maybe Betsy has some ideas.  
we have a young couple now in town whose daughter had to have a liver transplant. She is  seventeen months old. A liver has been found and now begins the process of  keeping it from being rejected. It is a sad but  real juxiposition that one must die for one to live. A baby for a baby.  I am rooting for life as much as I am sadden by death. I hope both families find peace with the process.
We saw Danielle the other day while walking the girls. You would love the girls and they would think you tasted fine.
We have "rock the stands" tonight. I really don,t want to go but I can't leave your mom to fend for herself. Maybe we can get lucky and the bell won't ring much. 
Thanks. I was feeling sad after reading some stories in the paper  but this has helped. Ella was just here and I gave her a cupcake. It is hard to stay sad around Ella and her sister. It is also hard to stay sad after talking about those sweet creatures your mom brought home from the shelter. I will see you later. Love you all in this world  Dad 
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
I miss you so much Meag. I wish we could talk like old times at the pool. Things are even harder now than they ever were then. Oh what I would do to have another chat with you. I can't even begin to imagine the advice you would give me now as I've gotten older. I miss you Meag, send me something so I know you're there. Love you lucky--

love, kate
Sue DeLong
Sue DeLong
Hey Meagan, Uncle Timmy and I cried through the Dateline episode about you. I know you'd be proud of your mom's bravery as she told your story, but our hearts ache for her and everyone who loves you. Please let her know that she made and continues to make the right decisions for you and in your honor. I hope those who watched the show understand your family's perspective of the twist of fate. Why couldn't you have been the one that lived? I think it's because God wants the best and He needed you. Even though we all wish that you would have been the one to live-would have given anything to make that happen, and begged God to heal you, He had better plans for you. I wish there was some way to heal the heartache and loneliness as a result of you being in Heaven. Wrap your arms around your mom and be with her, Dad, Victoria, and Sam. Help them find peace. You will always be in the hearts, thoughts, and prayers of all who love you. Aunt Sue
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
Meagan,
As I'm sure you know my grandpa passed away last week. I don't remember if you ever got to meet him but I have a feeling you did. He always knew how special you were to our family and how special you were to me. I hope you've seen him in Heaven, he will make you smile. There's something comforting knowing that two of my favorite people are together even though I can't be with them. I love you Meag and continue to miss you everyday.

Melissa Oakley
Melissa Oakley

My sweetest Meagan,

We have come to another year’s end without you.  Everyone around us is buzzing with hopes, dreams, and aspirations for the New Year but I find myself instead looking back.  I catch glimpses of joyful times gone by and wonder if there will ever be joy in our lives again without you.  Each passing day grows darker for me as I miss you terribly.  I continue to see you in my dreams as a little girl, a special little girl who entered my life when I needed you most.  A special little girl who grew into a graceful, vibrant young woman destined to make a difference in the world.  As the days have turned into weeks; the weeks into months; the months into years, I have become angry and bitter as I grieve for you always.  I am angry that 2 years and four months after the loss of you we still have no answers. We still do not know what really happened.  We still do not how those you were with made it to safety and survived while you did not. I fear that we never will know. We still have no justice for you.  It is beginning to look as though we never will see those responsible for your death brought to justice.  I only wish that you had never gone to that stupid concert.  I cannot listen to certain songs or genres of music.  I HATE to hear anything about any concerts.  I cannot bear to think of what you must have felt and thought in that instant.  I am your mommy and I am supposed to be able to protect you from anything.  I wasn’t there to protect you.  There are days when everything feels like it is crashing in and I think, if I could only see Meagan or talk to Meagan everything would be okay.  Unfortunately, I cannot see you or talk to you in the ways we did daily. I keep thinking about what your life would be like today if you were here, especially since all of your friends are engaged, getting married, married, and having babies.  I find myself happy and heartbroken at the same time; happy for them but heartbroken for you that you will never have the chance to experience those blessed events and times.  I try to stay positive, especially for Samuel and Victoria but it is very difficult at times to hide the pain.  I hold you in my heart, my thoughts, and my dreams always.  I hope you know how proud and honored I have always been to be your mom.

I love you whole in this world,

Mommy

 

Tim Oakley
Tim Oakley
HI Sweetie;
I just wanted to fill you in on a couple of things. The golf outing is scheduled for June 27( last Friday in June) and the Dateline episode on the stage collapse is set for this Sunday at 7 as long as the golf tournamant doesn't run late. I wish we could have had a golf delay for the concert.
I told your story to another mom suffering with guilt issues. I hope it helps. It seems like we never run out of guilt or pain. It is ironic that we all have or want to work in jobs that deal with the pain and suffering caused by others. It makes it hard to remember that we are still a family, that we still have a family but it is different than what it was. It has to be okay to celebrate the joys and triumphs of everyday life without  the accompanying feelings of shame for the celebration.  We have more joys than most and we have to remember that. You would not have wanted that any other way.
I hope you found somewhere warm to hang out for teh last couple of months.  I did see two butterflies fly across my windshield as I took Haley to the vet for her surgery. Thanks for checking on her. I actually smiled when I saw them. It was December and cold outside buthere they were. You would love the girls. Out of control doesn't do them justice but they are cute when they want to cuddle. They ate a porch light earlier this week. Sweet  
V has turned into alovely young lady. She had her interview for NKU yesterday and we are hoping that she makes it. She has a gift to counsel others and I hope they see that. We went to see Baby Jackson last weekend. He is super ging. You would be a  as muy uncle Alva would say GREAT aunt.  He is getting teeth and needs some Michigan wear. Daneille and Kevin are so cute. It makes my teeth hurt.
Sam is a beast. He is grinding up Otterbein and asking for more. He is now the frat president and as that had a meeting with the dean  to form a new part of student government.  He has really found a home at school.
Mom is having a tough time. She need so talk with you but feels that she can't hear your voice anymore. She needs you to kick her in the rear.
Me, I am just dad.  I miss you but I know you miss us too. Course, I know you are there in every butterfly and in every washer we find in strange places. You are also there in the 5:15am wake up alarm on my clock that hasn't worked in 8 tyears. Cute. It hasn't worked since.  But the one day I could sleep in, the alarm went out at 5:15. I actuaaly got a kick out of it. I needed the laugh.  
I have to go but rememebr I love you whole in this world. Tell everyone I said hello. Dad
 
Steve Dailey
Steve Dailey
Not a day goes bye when i do not think about Meagan. Even though you are not here with all of us it brings a smile to my face every time I think about you watching down over us. i often have visions of what i could have done had I been there with you when the stage started to fall, I know in my heart that if I had the chance and the awareness that I would have done whatever it took to save you. I pray that you can shine your blessing upon us all from above and help us continue living our lives in your honor.

Love and miss you.

Steve
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
Meagan,
I miss you so much things are just not the same knowing that I can't see you or talk to you anymore. I know that you were there when I had to have surgery, we even parked on the butterfly level! The nurse waiting for me to wake up was also named Meagan. It's little things like that that remind me you are still with me and are watching out for me. You will forever be my guardian angel Meag. I love you Lucky,

Kate
Melissa Oakley
Melissa Oakley
Meagan, The passage of time only makes your absence greater. People think I should "be over this and move on." No one understands! No one understands how much I miss you and need you. No one understands me like you did. It is a very lonely existence without you in this world. The hole in my heart deepens with each passing day without you. I wish I could turn back time. I wish you had never gone to that damn concert! I continue to ask why YOU were one of the 7? Why did everyone else make it and get a second chance with their lives? Why you,someone with so much to give to so many people, is gone from this world while others remain? I am filled with anger and sadness always. It overwhelms me always. I just want you back! I love you whole in this world, Mommy
Tim Oakley
Tim Oakley
HI Sweetie,
I was just thinking about you and thought it has been a while since I wrote. I think that from now on, I may use the meagan toothman foundation website but you  will know which one.
I spoke with a parent the other day who has guilty feelings from a different experience. I told her we will talk in a couple of weeks. I hope you help me find the right words to say.
Mom is having trouble figuring out some of her class. Maybe Betsy has some ideas.  
we have a young couple now in town whose daughter had to have a liver transplant. She is  seventeen months old. A liver has been found and now begins the process of  keeping it from being rejected. It is a sad but  real juxiposition that one must die for one to live. A baby for a baby.  I am rooting for life as much as I am sadden by death. I hope both families find peace with the process.
We saw Danielle the other day while walking the girls. You would love the girls and they would think you tasted fine.
We have "rock the stands" tonight. I really don,t want to go but I can't leave your mom to fend for herself. Maybe we can get lucky and the bell won't ring much. 
Thanks. I was feeling sad after reading some stories in the paper  but this has helped. Ella was just here and I gave her a cupcake. It is hard to stay sad around Ella and her sister. It is also hard to stay sad after talking about those sweet creatures your mom brought home from the shelter. I will see you later. Love you all in this world  Dad 
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
I miss you so much Meag. I wish we could talk like old times at the pool. Things are even harder now than they ever were then. Oh what I would do to have another chat with you. I can't even begin to imagine the advice you would give me now as I've gotten older. I miss you Meag, send me something so I know you're there. Love you lucky--

love, kate
Tim Oakley
Tim Oakley
HI Sweetie;
I just wanted to fill you in on a couple of things. The golf outing is scheduled for June 27( last Friday in June) and the Dateline episode on the stage collapse is set for this Sunday at 7 as long as the golf tournamant doesn't run late. I wish we could have had a golf delay for the concert.
I told your story to another mom suffering with guilt issues. I hope it helps. It seems like we never run out of guilt or pain. It is ironic that we all have or want to work in jobs that deal with the pain and suffering caused by others. It makes it hard to remember that we are still a family, that we still have a family but it is different than what it was. It has to be okay to celebrate the joys and triumphs of everyday life without  the accompanying feelings of shame for the celebration.  We have more joys than most and we have to remember that. You would not have wanted that any other way.
I hope you found somewhere warm to hang out for teh last couple of months.  I did see two butterflies fly across my windshield as I took Haley to the vet for her surgery. Thanks for checking on her. I actually smiled when I saw them. It was December and cold outside buthere they were. You would love the girls. Out of control doesn't do them justice but they are cute when they want to cuddle. They ate a porch light earlier this week. Sweet  
V has turned into alovely young lady. She had her interview for NKU yesterday and we are hoping that she makes it. She has a gift to counsel others and I hope they see that. We went to see Baby Jackson last weekend. He is super ging. You would be a  as muy uncle Alva would say GREAT aunt.  He is getting teeth and needs some Michigan wear. Daneille and Kevin are so cute. It makes my teeth hurt.
Sam is a beast. He is grinding up Otterbein and asking for more. He is now the frat president and as that had a meeting with the dean  to form a new part of student government.  He has really found a home at school.
Mom is having a tough time. She need so talk with you but feels that she can't hear your voice anymore. She needs you to kick her in the rear.
Me, I am just dad.  I miss you but I know you miss us too. Course, I know you are there in every butterfly and in every washer we find in strange places. You are also there in the 5:15am wake up alarm on my clock that hasn't worked in 8 tyears. Cute. It hasn't worked since.  But the one day I could sleep in, the alarm went out at 5:15. I actuaaly got a kick out of it. I needed the laugh.  
I have to go but rememebr I love you whole in this world. Tell everyone I said hello. Dad
 
Steve Dailey
Steve Dailey
Not a day goes bye when i do not think about Meagan. Even though you are not here with all of us it brings a smile to my face every time I think about you watching down over us. i often have visions of what i could have done had I been there with you when the stage started to fall, I know in my heart that if I had the chance and the awareness that I would have done whatever it took to save you. I pray that you can shine your blessing upon us all from above and help us continue living our lives in your honor.

Love and miss you.

Steve
Tim Oakley
Tim Oakley
HI Sweetie,
I was just thinking about you and thought it has been a while since I wrote. I think that from now on, I may use the meagan toothman foundation website but you  will know which one.
I spoke with a parent the other day who has guilty feelings from a different experience. I told her we will talk in a couple of weeks. I hope you help me find the right words to say.
Mom is having trouble figuring out some of her class. Maybe Betsy has some ideas.  
we have a young couple now in town whose daughter had to have a liver transplant. She is  seventeen months old. A liver has been found and now begins the process of  keeping it from being rejected. It is a sad but  real juxiposition that one must die for one to live. A baby for a baby.  I am rooting for life as much as I am sadden by death. I hope both families find peace with the process.
We saw Danielle the other day while walking the girls. You would love the girls and they would think you tasted fine.
We have "rock the stands" tonight. I really don,t want to go but I can't leave your mom to fend for herself. Maybe we can get lucky and the bell won't ring much. 
Thanks. I was feeling sad after reading some stories in the paper  but this has helped. Ella was just here and I gave her a cupcake. It is hard to stay sad around Ella and her sister. It is also hard to stay sad after talking about those sweet creatures your mom brought home from the shelter. I will see you later. Love you all in this world  Dad 
jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
Meagan,
As I'm sure you know my grandpa passed away last week. I don't remember if you ever got to meet him but I have a feeling you did. He always knew how special you were to our family and how special you were to me. I hope you've seen him in Heaven, he will make you smile. There's something comforting knowing that two of my favorite people are together even though I can't be with them. I love you Meag and continue to miss you everyday.

Melissa Oakley
Melissa Oakley
Meagan, The passage of time only makes your absence greater. People think I should "be over this and move on." No one understands! No one understands how much I miss you and need you. No one understands me like you did. It is a very lonely existence without you in this world. The hole in my heart deepens with each passing day without you. I wish I could turn back time. I wish you had never gone to that damn concert! I continue to ask why YOU were one of the 7? Why did everyone else make it and get a second chance with their lives? Why you,someone with so much to give to so many people, is gone from this world while others remain? I am filled with anger and sadness always. It overwhelms me always. I just want you back! I love you whole in this world, Mommy
Sue DeLong
Sue DeLong
Hey Meagan, Uncle Timmy and I cried through the Dateline episode about you. I know you'd be proud of your mom's bravery as she told your story, but our hearts ache for her and everyone who loves you. Please let her know that she made and continues to make the right decisions for you and in your honor. I hope those who watched the show understand your family's perspective of the twist of fate. Why couldn't you have been the one that lived? I think it's because God wants the best and He needed you. Even though we all wish that you would have been the one to live-would have given anything to make that happen, and begged God to heal you, He had better plans for you. I wish there was some way to heal the heartache and loneliness as a result of you being in Heaven. Wrap your arms around your mom and be with her, Dad, Victoria, and Sam. Help them find peace. You will always be in the hearts, thoughts, and prayers of all who love you. Aunt Sue
Melissa Oakley
Melissa Oakley

My sweetest Meagan,

We have come to another year’s end without you.  Everyone around us is buzzing with hopes, dreams, and aspirations for the New Year but I find myself instead looking back.  I catch glimpses of joyful times gone by and wonder if there will ever be joy in our lives again without you.  Each passing day grows darker for me as I miss you terribly.  I continue to see you in my dreams as a little girl, a special little girl who entered my life when I needed you most.  A special little girl who grew into a graceful, vibrant young woman destined to make a difference in the world.  As the days have turned into weeks; the weeks into months; the months into years, I have become angry and bitter as I grieve for you always.  I am angry that 2 years and four months after the loss of you we still have no answers. We still do not know what really happened.  We still do not how those you were with made it to safety and survived while you did not. I fear that we never will know. We still have no justice for you.  It is beginning to look as though we never will see those responsible for your death brought to justice.  I only wish that you had never gone to that stupid concert.  I cannot listen to certain songs or genres of music.  I HATE to hear anything about any concerts.  I cannot bear to think of what you must have felt and thought in that instant.  I am your mommy and I am supposed to be able to protect you from anything.  I wasn’t there to protect you.  There are days when everything feels like it is crashing in and I think, if I could only see Meagan or talk to Meagan everything would be okay.  Unfortunately, I cannot see you or talk to you in the ways we did daily. I keep thinking about what your life would be like today if you were here, especially since all of your friends are engaged, getting married, married, and having babies.  I find myself happy and heartbroken at the same time; happy for them but heartbroken for you that you will never have the chance to experience those blessed events and times.  I try to stay positive, especially for Samuel and Victoria but it is very difficult at times to hide the pain.  I hold you in my heart, my thoughts, and my dreams always.  I hope you know how proud and honored I have always been to be your mom.

I love you whole in this world,

Mommy

 

jennifer schlosser
kate schlosser
Meagan,
I miss you so much things are just not the same knowing that I can't see you or talk to you anymore. I know that you were there when I had to have surgery, we even parked on the butterfly level! The nurse waiting for me to wake up was also named Meagan. It's little things like that that remind me you are still with me and are watching out for me. You will forever be my guardian angel Meag. I love you Lucky,

Kate