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Telling the kids

I told the kids last night about my breast cancer. They were amazing. Dahlia wiped her brow and said "phew!" when I said early on in the conversation that I was going to be okay. Ben asked if my hair was going to fall out (won't know about chemo until a few weeks after surgery). When Dahlia asked what surgery is, Ben enacted cutting off her shoulder and then sewing it back on. Then spontaneously, as if on cue, Ben stood up and started singing the 90's pop song, "Everybody Dance Now" as he and Dahlia started shaking it on the living room rug (appropriately called the dance floor in our house). Okay then. We are all going to be okay. Thanks to all of you who are sending out positive juju for me and my family. It's working!
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Jane Healy
By Jane
Deborah - just loved, loved , loved your video. I am an Australian community health nurse living in Vietnam - but am home in Sydney having discovered my own breast cancer. Have had one mastectomy, 5 months of chemo, am halfway through radiation - and will have the other breast and ovaries out in Jan. Like you I have created as much joy, gratitude and humour along the way on this journey and it has made the burden so much easier for me and all who love me. Good luck on your journey and may you find the meaning and beauty in this as I have.
Carol Belt
By Carol
As a double mastectomy patient I laughed and cried as I watched your video. You are such an inspiration! With a spirit like yours you are going to be fine. Thank you so much for posting the video. Sending hugs, prayer and good thoughts your way.
Krista Owens-Rogers
By Krista Rogers. Invasive Ductal Carcinoma Stage IIIB. Triple Negative but I am POSITIVE! Woop!
HI Deborah. Wow. 9 years ago when I told my boys who were then 8, 6 and 3 that I had breast cancer they stared at me until I simply said "But I'm going to be okay" then they relaxed and asked if they could watch Spongebob. As my two oldest walked away I looked at my then 3YO I said "Hey baby, mommy has breast cancer" I said it more for myself then him - I guess I just wanted to hear it out loud. He said "I want chocolate!" "So do I! Let's go get some!" And we did. Rest and heal. You are loved.
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Maggie Simon
By Maggie Simon
Just saw your video, Incredibly inspirational!!! Your beautiful spirit radiates from you and effects everyone around you. You are, and will be a healing strength for many women. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through your journey!
Connie DellaBarba
By Connie
Deb, I just saw your video... you truly are an inspiration to so many. You're truly a hero to me. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you a speedy recovery. Keep dancing. You will have to make another video after your treatment. :)
Michael Fox
By Michael Fox
Deb your joyful spirit will sustain you as it always has the people around you.
much love
Michael fox
Terrence Stallings
By Terrence Stallings
Just saw your video clip on the news, and then I went online to see the entire video. All I can say is Wow!!!! You are indeed an inspiration to a lot of people by not letting the moment consume you and the the others around you, but doing totally the opposite. The energy that I observed from you was amazing. I pray for a speedy recovery for you and your family. Judging by your spirit, you will not be down for long at all. God Bless.
Cyn Alo
By Cynthia Alonzo
Kids have such a great way of seeing the world. Glad you have them
Michele Carr
By Michele Carr
Your amazing attitude and belief in a healing atmosphere is inspiring! Speedy recovery to you...sending healing hugs and vibes your way!!!
Heather Gulledge
By Heather Gulledge
What a true blessing you are.. Give it all to God and the rest will come.. speedy recovery... praying for you and your family..Oh and girl you can dance lol