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Good-bye Salt Lake City

I've driven to one of my favorite spots high on the northern slopes of
the city.  I want to sit & once more take in the panorama before
me.. no camera can capture the grandeur. 
It is a quiet open area where I see the sprawling city stretched out in
the valley before me
as far as the eye can see.  Deep in the snow-covered Wasatch Mountains
to my left is beautiful Park City, 30-40 minutes away. To my far right,
north of the Oquirrh Range, the Great Salt Lake lies still and
serene, with rugged Antelope Island, one of many mountainous islands,
looking like a monstrous alligator basking in the sunny sea.  40
straight ahead south on Hi-way 15 just below the horizon lies
picturesque Provo, also surrounded by mountains, including spectacular
Mt. Tipanogos, and bordering fresh-water Utah Lake. 

In many ways it is hard to  believe we have been here for over a year...
and yet we've seen so much of this beautiful city, from city parks to it's many scenic canyons... that it feels much like a second home.  I
cannot imagine a more fascinating and nurturing locale.  The entire
state is a natural treasure with five National Parks, many National
Forests and Monuments, and unbelievably 45 State Parks.  We never run
out of new places to explore, new wonders to behold.. and we have yet to
scratch the surface.

We've also enjoyed cultural and other diverse offerings in the city from
restaurants, theatres, Natural History Museum, comedy
clubs, weekly professional musicians and soul-nourishment at a Unitarian
Church; soccer, football, baseball, a rodeo at the State Fair,
& even motorcross at the U of U Stadium; as well as personal
enrichment activities such as yoga, exercise, & dance classes, a
friendly Bridge Club and 4 of us who play on our own every week. 
Everywhere we've met wonderful people & made new friends, including
an arty and fun-loving neighbor who has taken me schlepping to antique
and unique spots all around town.

But of course the purpose for our being here and the facility most
unforgettable to us, is the Neuroworx Rehabilitation Clinic founded by
Dr. Dale Hull located 20
minutes south in the suburb of South Jordan - the beautiful surroundings
have been a lick of icing on the
cake.  Its hard to believe that in less than 2 weeks we will finally be
heading back home.  It is a bittersweet realization. We will be leaving
the comfort and normalcy of our warm cocoon, where everyone has embraced
us, encouraged and protected us... where our bodies and souls have been
nourished and healed.  Although the work will continue and there will 
be rough roads ahead, Chris is ready to get back into the real world. 
We will be coming home different people than when we left.  Two years
ago we didn't know what Neuroworx was.. we didn't know how much it would
mean in our lives or how unique and valuable, indeed life-saving, are
it's services to so many people. 

Twenty months ago we were thrown unaware and unprepared into another
world and we had much to learn.  Of course we knew the tragedy of spinal
cord injuries, but until the reality touches you personally, you cannot
fully realize the magnitude and serious additional complications of
such an injury or comprehend the emotional and psychological
ramifications for the patient, as well as the family and loved ones.  We
were basically ignorant of the extraordinary efforts required to regain

function from a body that has been paralyzed, nor could we know the
glacially slow rate of recovery.   And we certainly didn't know the
battles and injustices that one with such an injury must endure in order
to be heard and treated and accepted....

and maybe most hurtful and shocking, we didn't know that investing in
health insurance does NOT insure that you will get the treatment that is
essential for recovery. 

As Christopher Reeve wrote in his poignant and inspirational memoir,
"Nothing is Impossible":

"Moral responsibility does not drive the insurance company."

It is an atrocious side effect that Chris must also battle day-after-day.

We now have a totally new awareness and appreciation of the handicapped & disabled.  Chris has said to me more than once,

"If you saw me as a stranger walking down the street, would you think that I was brain-injured?"

Have we really been so detached from the world of the handicapped - so
ignorant, so uninvolved, so disinterested? - that we ever think of them
as less than "whole".  Yes, we have learned so much from the patients at
Neuroworx, working day after day, putting their body & their lives
back together.. ordinary people exactly like you and me that happened to
be at the wrong place at the wrong time or because of "a gust of the
wind" or "the lay of the land"  find their world instantaneously torn
asunder, their body disconnected from their soul.... in the innocent
unremarkable blink of an eye.

 Luke (not their real names), felt a rush upon rising too quickly and
fell forward, breaking his neck when his head hit a dresser; Roger was
injured by a bullet to the spine when he stopped to ask a stranger for
directions; Sharon fell out of a hammock and broke her neck; Stan
had a freakish aneurysm on his brain stem; most suffer spinal cord
injuries during automobile, bicycling, or diving accidents.  But all of
them are ordinary people who were going about their ordinary daily life like every one of us, and none of them deserve to be labeled or thought
of as anything less than the "whole" and beautiful people that they
always were.

Wiser and stronger, more appreciative and grateful in many ways, we're coming back home!

We can't wait to see all of you wonderful family and friends

... who though far away, in a very real sense have been with us all the way!


P.S.        - - - WALK CHRIS WALK - - -
                 Kentucky Derby Marathon
                     Sat., April 28, 2012
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