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Around 2 a.m. on Friday, April 15 Ben was hit by a car as he was walking on the sidewalk back to a friend's house. Two other girls were also struck by the vehicle, and fortunately they are ok.
Unfortunately, Ben is currently in critical condition at HCMC. He has significant damage to his brain. He also has multiple fractures throughout his body.
As of right now, Ben's outcome is unsure. We are hopeful that the next few days will reveal how severe the damage really is.
Ben needs everyone's thoughts and prayers during this time. We'll continue to update the Journal with new information and Ben's status. Everyone is welcome to come visit Ben at the hospital as well--he's located in the SICU, Red building, Floor 7, Room 373.
We have been checking the mail every day waiting to hear who received Ben's major organs and we finally received the notification today! Here is what we received:
A 52 year old man from Minnesota received the double gift of one of Ben's kidneys and his pancreas. This recipient is single. He suffered from Diabetes Type 1 and had been on the transplant waiting list since 2009. His doctors report that the surgery went well and that their patient is very grateful for the gift he was given.
A 39 year old Minnesota man received the gift of Ben's other kidney. This recipient is married and has 4 children. He is employed as a machinist and enjoys spending time with his family when he is not working. This gentleman suffered from end stage renal disease due to a malignancy in his kidney. He had been on the transplant waiting list for over 6 years. According to his physicians, his surgery went well and he has been discharged and is continuing his recovery at home. He and his family expressed their thanks for this life-saving gift.
A 65 year old woman from Minnesota received the gift of Ben's liver. This recipient is married and has 2 children. She was diagnosed with liver cancer and had been waiting for a transplant for over 2 years. Her surgeons report that her "prognosis is looking good and she will be fine". She is very appreciative for this second chance at a healthy life and sends her thanks.
Additionally, his heart valves may be used for patients who suffer from congenital heart defects. His connective tissue may be used to repair ligaments or facial deformities. His bone will be used to relieve pain and restore mobility. Saphenous veins and femoral vessels, found in the legs, may be used to replace damaged veins and vessels in dialysis patients. Fascia, the membrane surrounding the thigh muscle, may be used for uterine or bladder reconstruction. Ben also donated his eyes but we have not heard yet if they have been able to use them.
The people who have received Ben's kidneys are especially near and dear to out heartd as Ann's mother was a dialysis patient for over 10 years. We know the rigors of being a dialysis patient and are so happy for those who received Ben's kidneys and can possibly now be free of dialysis. It is up to the recipients as to whether they want to contact us first through letters and then maybe to meet in person.
Tomorrow (Sunday, May 15th) will be Ben's graduation day. I believe they will read his name at graduation and we will receive his diploma in the mail. We have decided that attending would be much too difficult but we are extremely proud of Ben for this accomplishment and even more proud of the new lives he has given these organ recipients.
Once again, we thank everyone for all the concern, support, kindness and love they have shown us over the past month. While we miss Ben tremendously we are grateful to have all of you in our lives whether you are family, friends or people we have never met. You are all wonderful!!