Maybe their closeness to The Lord is the exact reason that Adam got "picked" ... Over the years, just like we all have, The Lord was able to get to known him a little better then maybe some others due to the nature of the relationship .... The Lord KNEW/KNOWS what a great person that Adam was and knew that he would make a wonderful tenant in his home.It is so hard not to second guess The Lord and so easy to get upset with him but at the same time, my faith has proven over and over again that He does know what He is doing and I am not here to understand it.
I am 9 months and one week pregnant and my hormones are all over the place, this I know but over the course of the last week, I have been lucky to have two different dreams that Adam has been in. None with any sort of significance or even that they made much sense (on some level there are reason behind them but hard to put into words to explain here) but this makes me believe that all is peaceful. That he is ok and he wants us to know somehow that is ok! Again my hormones are probably taking over a large portion of all my rational BUT I refuse to allow that to be behind this. I am a strong believer in our creator and I know He does some, and allows some pretty fabulous things to come our ways from time to time.
I am so sorry for everyone's loss in this. It REALLY is not fair for the ones left behind to have to morn the loss of someone so great. And his mother, I am soooo sorry. I am a mom too and my son is young, 9 and I due for another any day but I cannot wrap my hard around what she is going thru. I know the pain has got to be enormous and for that, I am so sorry.