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Remembering you today and always
Janet Ball
- Thursday, September 25, 2014 12:59 AM CDT

Jeffrey,

Thinking of you as we celebrate your life that began 15 years ago today.
You are an angel to so many!

With love,
The Turners
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, Virginia United States - Monday, January 6, 2014 6:46 AM CST

I have been thinking about you a lot. Even though I am sad, I smile when a certain memory comes, I smile. I remember racing you on your motorcycle. In Montana, this month, there was a little fawn racing my car alongside the road. I saluted.
Grammy
Oak Hill, VA Fairfax - Wednesday, September 25, 2013 9:58 AM CDT

Jeffrey,

It is so hard to believe it has been 10 years since you were on this earth. You were such a blessing to so very many. Many still think of you and a smile comes to their face. "Though the Mountains May Fall" always brings you to our minds. This time on earth is but a speck in relation to all eternity. Families will be reunited again.

I have found an amazing book that I feel is a blessing for so many. It is called “The Healing of Families” by Fr. Yozefu-B. Ssemakula. His in-depth book is filled with powerful prayers to cleanse and heal the family. It is based on John 10:10 ~ "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it abundantly."

I was at my annual follow up for the skin cancer behind my eye at Hopkins last week. Dr. Miller is baffled that I have held off a glass eye for so long. He said I have received three miracles thus far: 1. I have vision in my eye 2. My vision has improved 3. I have depth perception. It has been 12 years - I am ready for a miracle so others can see and believe in Him! Jesus, we trust in You!

Much love to a wonderful angel,
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, Virginia United States - Tuesday, September 24, 2013 11:29 PM CDT

You are so missed my buddy boo! I pray that you know how much we love you and cherish the memories that we hold in our hearts!
Mommy <tvirostek@verizon.net>
- Tuesday, September 25, 2012 10:29 PM CDT

Oh Jeffrey, it is so hard to believe you left us 9 years ago bound for heaven. You are still missed. A smile comes to our face when we sing "Thou the Mountains May Fall". You completed God's plan for your life. Your family saw the love of those whose life you touched. This time on earth is but a speck when compared to all of eternity. Much love from,
The Turner Family <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Tuesday, September 25, 2012 8:46 AM CDT

Your little brother and little sister have been asking a lot of questions about Heaven and what it must be like to be there. We love you and miss you buddy boo!
Mommy <tvirostek@verizon.net>
- Wednesday, February 22, 2012 8:14 PM CST

Dearest Jeffrey,

Wow, 13 years ago you were born. How happy your sisters were to have a baby brother and your parents to have a son. Such joy you brought to your family. We think of you often - especially on your birthday today!

With love,
The Turner Family
Lisa Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Friday, January 6, 2012 4:51 PM CST

Sweet Jeffrey,

It is hard to believe 8 years have passed since you, our angel, returned to heaven. We know you have made many, any friends and pray for all your family and friends still her on earth.

Much love,
The Turners
Lisa Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Sunday, September 25, 2011 6:03 PM CDT

Thinking of you on the 12th anniversary of your birth, Jeffrey. It seems like yesterday we were at the cherub choir at St. John Neumann with Miss Marylee -- the siblings singing and you and my Jeffrey playing. You were such a very special boy! We always think of you when we hear the song: "Though the mountains may fall and the hills turn to dust, yet the love of the Lord will stand..."

We know you are looking down on your wonderful family and everyone that loved you. The time on earth is but a speck in relation to eternity.

With love,
Lisa, Jeff, Jackson, Christian and Jeffrey <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Thursday, January 6, 2011 1:05 AM CST

Jeffrey thinking of you on the eve of your 12th birthday!
Love the Joubens
Michele Jouben <mljouben@cdrm44.com>
Burke, VA - Wednesday, January 5, 2011 9:03 PM CST

Jeffrey,
We are thinking of you today. It is hard to believe 7 years have gone by. You keep a watchful eye over all those that love you. Your family will be reunited with you again for all eternity.
My maternal grandmother passed away two years ago - you both share the same feast day. ;-)
With much love,
The Turners
Lisa and Jeff Turner and family <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA 20191 - Saturday, September 25, 2010 5:29 PM CDT

Miss you Today.
Grammy <mjball@verizon.net>
Oak Hill, VA - Saturday, September 25, 2010 1:27 PM CDT

Dear Jeffrey,

We are thinking of you today - the day God gave you to your parents 11 years ago - and will wear blue in your honor. You are now born into heaven and we will all be reunited again. Undoubtedly, you have now met my father, Walter, who passed into heaven 10/19/09. You both are here with us in the spiritual realm. Thank you for interceding for our many prayer requests. You are our angel, Jeffrey, and we love you.

The Turner Family <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Wednesday, January 6, 2010 0:11 AM CST

Luke wants to use your Christmas Stocking Holder, as it is the engine from Polar Express. He said he does not think that Santa will get confused because you look alike anyway.
Grammy <mjball@verizon.net>
Oak Hill, VA USA - Saturday, December 19, 2009 12:09 AM CST

We are thinking of Jeffrey and your family especially today. It is hard to believe 6 years have passed. Jeffrey is our special angel in heaven. We will all be reunited one day.

With love always,
The Turner Family
Reston, VA USA - Friday, September 25, 2009 4:04 PM CDT

Catching up on how things are going for u guys.....hope all is well and all feeling well....K.
Keith Kolcuski <greatvacation@yahoo.com>
Celebration, Florida USA - Tuesday, September 1, 2009 2:51 PM CDT

Just as an update from my 1/09 email and to offer hope with others battling cancer:

I began taking Reliv, essential nutrition, in December 2008. Three months later, I had my MRI at 15 months and for the first time heard my eye was "stable" with the very rare skin cancer behind it. Usually, every 12 months from the previous MRI, I hear "it's a bit worse, but remember, this is a slow growing tumor".

In May, Fr. Machado of Rome said: "Lisa, when I prayed over you the first time (10/06), I felt you had something very serious going on with your eye (didn't find out it was eye cancer until 9/08 although I have had problems since 1/02). Now I feel as though your eye is stable and it is reversing. Does that make sense to you?" I explained that Dr. Miller of Hopkins used the word "stable" in 3/09 and no time previous in 7+ years. I attribute it to www.Reliv.com since I began taking it in 12/08. I continue to take Reliv and trust in Him.

There are many cancer testimonies (and many other diseases as well) that I can share with you if you like, just email me. ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD, I WILL NOT SPEAK OF IMPOSSIBILITIES.

Blessings,
Lisa Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Saturday, July 25, 2009 0:41 AM CDT

I have been thinking about you often lately.
Grammy <mjball@verizon.net>
Oak Hill, AV - Friday, March 27, 2009 3:56 PM CDT

Hello!

Thoughts of Jeffrey abound on what would have been his 10th birthday, the Epiphany feast day. I wore my blue today.

In September, I learned - after 7 years - I have a very rare (I am one of 300 in the entire world!) low grade skin cancer tumor behind my eye... so i can relate to your walk with cancer. Since there is nothing the doctors can do, I am now taking RELIV, a nutritional supplement, that I felt is the answer to many prayers. Last week, I heard a testimony of a woman with breast cancer that metasticized behind her eye. In six months on Reliv, her cancer was gone! There are many other testimonies like this. I continue to trust in Him and His will for my life.

With love,
Lisa Turner and family
Lisa Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
RestonVA, VA USA - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 11:32 PM CST

Today is 9/25 (not actually yesterday; I was mistaken). I just received word that my grandmother passed this evening, on Jeffrey's 5th anniversary.

Thanks, Jeffrey, for showing her around!

With love,
Lisa
Lisa Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Thursday, September 25, 2008 10:22 PM CDT

It is hard to believe five years have gone by since our angel, Jeffrey, went to heaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family always.

With love,
The Turner Family
Lisa and Jeff Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 3:02 PM CDT

Tasha~
T told me of this website to give us hope on how we can communicate with others on my father's present battle with cancer. Thank you for the opportunity to experience Jeffrey's journey and to give us insight on how to help others share with us.
Jenny <triboys@roadrunner.com>
Celina, OH USA - Wednesday, May 7, 2008 5:38 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Jeffrey! Thinking of you today. I wore blue to church. Love, Mrs. Coffey
Danna Coffey <dancof@msn.com>
Roswell , Ga USA - Sunday, January 6, 2008 2:15 PM CST

Dear Tasha, Stephen and family,

We are especially thinking of Jeffrey today, his 9th birthday. Jeffrey is in our thoughts when we find a penny, hear Though the Mountains May Fall, wear blue - his favorite color (as well as our Jeffrey's), talk about Angel Jeffrey in heaven, etc. You did a wonderful job as parents and you continue that with your four other children.

Enjoy the memories of Jeffrey as we know he is blowing us angel kisses from heaven today.

With love,
Lisa, Jeff and boys

PS: I thought of you again regarding the website: www.thegiftofmore.com A mother wrote a book regarding her 25 year old son whose life was cut short from colon cancer. I can see a lot in your family's faith journey turning into a book as well. ;-)
Lisa Turner <TurnersinVA@yahoo.com>
RestonVA, VA USA - Sunday, January 6, 2008 0:08 AM CST

We reflect on Jeffrey's life on this the 4th anniversary of his passing. He is indeed our angel in heaven. He continues to live on in his family and us. Such wonderful memories! Jeffrey was so inspirational to all of us.
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 8:47 AM CDT

I found myself going through Jeffrey's Journey today. I was rearranging my favorites & there it was. It reaches out & grabs you, as if to say "Remember?" And remember I certainly do. That darling little boy I met the first time I went to Austin's school. He had on a red fireman's hat. How we all miss him still. My love to your family, Austin's Nana
Suzanne Harris <bucksuz@earthlink.net>
Salado, TX - Friday, September 7, 2007 3:07 PM CDT

Congratulations on your new addition! We are so happy for you all.

With love,
The Turner Family
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Tuesday, September 4, 2007 9:38 AM CDT

Michelle Elizabeth arrived on August 1. She is adorable and is already hearing stories about her big brother, Jeffrey. Grammy
Grammy <mjball@verizon.net>
- Friday, August 17, 2007 4:03 PM CDT

Even though you stopped the updates on this site, it is still visited. I think and pray for your family all the time. I am so excited to meet another one of Jeffrey's siblings...we can't wait for Baby Virostek to join the clan.
Page Imperial <jimperial1@cox.net>
Chantilly, VA US - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 9:13 PM CDT

In light of a close friend loosing a niece, Reema Samaha, from Virginia Tech, I came across this fabulous site. There are many thoughts to review, but this was caught my eye for those that have lost a child.
www.inspiringthots.net/movie/4-all-parents.php
Love,
Lisa
PS: Congratulations!!!!!
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Monday, April 23, 2007 10:19 PM CDT

What a glorious day for the fundraiser at the Old Dominion Speedway today! Winter certainly stuck around for while unfortunately. I wish you much success and send my apologies as we already have another commitment for this evening.

With love from,
The Turners
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Saturday, April 21, 2007 11:26 AM CDT

Dear Tasha and Stephen,
I was noting that you celebrated your anniversary on Valentine's Day (#15?). Congratulations! May you enjoy the coming year.
Love,
Lisa
PS: Janet, the poem you added was so touching. We think of Jeffrey and his fabulous spirit often.
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Friday, February 16, 2007 4:24 PM CST

Tasha and Stephen,

Today I felt the desire to revisit Jeffrey's site and see the beautiful picture of him smiling. I want you to know that for whatever reason--Jeffrey's face still comes to mind everytime I see a penny laying on the ground. It happened again just yesterday when I opened my car door and there was a penny sitting right where I would have to see it on my seat. I'm reminded of him because of the angel penny story you wrote several years ago. I read the recent guestbook entries and saw that his 8th birthday was recently. It hit me that Steven too would have been 8 years old. Time is going by so fast.

Emma and I were having a conversation before bed last night about how this is her last year of elementary school and how I can't believe that she will be in middle school next year. She is nervous about going but excited too. Sometimes I feel time is going by way too fast--I want to keep her little longer!

I hope all is well with your girls' and your beautiful baby boy Luke! I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about Jeffrey today and remembering. God bless your family,

Lisa Trapp
Lisa Trapp <LTrapp@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX - Friday, February 9, 2007 9:16 AM CST

Fly, Little Angel
Your smile touched a million hearts
And when you left it tore them all apart
You held hope through the darkest light of day
Now I'm searching for the words to say
A ray of hope in your heart right to the end
I am proud to say that I call you my friend
So fly, little angel
To a better place where there won't be any pain
Just fly, little angel
Someday we'll see you again

God gave you grace and style
You inspired the world across the miles
You touched every heart and made them see
Just what a hero is supposed to be
And on that fateful day, I heard the bells all ring
That's when I knew a precious darling just got his wings

From a performance at the Candlelighters ceremony by John Taglieri
It touched my heart because I knew it was about you, Jeffrey.
Love, Grammy
Grammy <mjball@verizon.net>
Oak Hill, VA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:35 AM CST

I was thinking of you all on Saturday, Jeffrey's birthday. He'll always be a special little angel to me. Love, Danna Coffey
Danna Coffey <dancof@msn.com>
Centreville, Va - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:14 PM CST

We were thinking of Jeffrey throughout the day today - what would have been his 8th birthday. It is an easy birthday to remember - the Feast of the Epiphany! Jeffrey lives on in all of us. I am moved to tell others of Jeffrey's Journey and this website. Everyone always expresses the love that is seen in these pages. What a wonderful remembrance of your son.

We wish the Virosteks and the Balls a most wonderful new year filled with love, good health, success and the most wonderful of memories. There are many experiences that Luke will provide that will undoubtedly remind you of Jeffrey. I know he is looking down on his family with a sense of love and pride. You will all be reunited again. This life is so short in comparison to eternity.

With love from,
The Turner Family <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 7:26 PM CST

I wanted to say Happy Birthday, Jeffrey. We love you little buddy boo!!
Mom <tvirostek@verizon.net>
- Saturday, January 6, 2007 6:52 PM CST

Stephen and Tasha,
Thank you so much for the beautiful letter you wrote. Jeffrey will always be a part of all of us.
We will be proud to walk along with Jeffrey's parents this Saturday at Light the Night.
See you then!
Aunt Dori and Family
Dori Batavick <dbatavick@comcast.net>
Plainsboro, NJ USA - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 9:07 PM CDT

Tasha & Stephen,
I have been thinking about you and your family and keep you in my prayers. What your friend, Alicia Silva said about thanking you for sharing your lives with us over the years, is exactly what I was thinking as well. You guys are amazing people! It is no wonder that Jeffrey's Journey touched so many lives in so many ways. I pray that your faith and strength will continue. I will truly miss your updates on the site.
God bless you all & please keep in touch!
Love,
Kate & Frank Nagy <kfalj@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, September 27, 2006 7:10 AM CDT

Dear Tasha and Stephen,
We just wanted to let you know that we still think about you and pray for you. This is a difficult time of year for you, and we will pray that God will comfort you and give you peace. God bless you all.
- Scott, Julie, Sarah, and Cole Maurer
Maurer family <maurercrew@cox.net>
Chantilly, VA USA - Tuesday, September 26, 2006 10:32 AM CDT

Thank you Stephen and Tasha, for sharing your precious son with us and being the wonderful parents that you are. Though it was far too short, you gave Jeffrey the best life he could have despite his illness. You taught us what it means to live your faith. I will miss this site but I will never forget the little boy with the beautiful blue eyes and the beautiful spirit. God Bless you all. Love, Danna
Danna Coffey <dancof@msn.com>
Centreville, Va - Tuesday, September 26, 2006 6:47 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know how much Jeffrey and the rest of your precious family has been on my mind today, the anniversary of his Heavenly arrival.
What a gift it was for you two to be recognized again as Jeffrey's proud parents, right there at his gravesite. There are no coincidences, right? Definitely a God-moment if ever I've heard one!
Mary Sawyer <brenpatsa@msn.com>
Chantilly, VA - Monday, September 25, 2006 9:33 PM CDT

As always at the beginning of the school year, I have been thinking so much of Jeffrey and especially today. I am thinking of you all today and always. I am so glad that I had the opportunity to be a part of the life of a very special little boy. God Bless all of you and may He continue to comfort you with the knowledge that you will be with Jeffrey again one day.
Danna Coffey <dancof@msn.com>
Centreville, Va - Monday, September 25, 2006 6:11 AM CDT

Beau loved Jeffrey and loved to cuddle. Sometimes Jeffrey complained that Beau was "scooching" him. Then Beau would let him carry him around by the neck. Beau looked so "big" in Jeffrey's arms, but Jeffrey was just so little, too little to have to go through so much. He never complained. When one asked him how he was, he would always answer "good". I know his spirit is near, in the blue butterfly, the hummingbird at the window, telling Luke to pull his sister's ponytail. We miss you, Jeffrey. With love, Grammy.
Grammy <mjball@verizon.net>
- Sunday, September 24, 2006 6:21 PM CDT

Tasha,

This afternoon (Sunday) I randomly checked in on a few friends sites and when I opened Jeffrey's page--it took my breath away because of the picture. What four beautiful kids you have! I bet Luke does keep you busy. You are very blessed--he sounds like a very sweet little boy. I know that tommorow is the three year anniversary of Jeffrey's passing. I will keep your family in my prayers for a peaceful and memory filled special day.

It was nice to read the comment you wrote about when Jeffrey needed to speak with Beau before he "went home". When I'm having one of those tougher days when I'm missing Steven it really helps to remember when he said "I want to go home" and to read again that Jeffrey said a similar comment...it again confirms to me that we will see them again and that Heaven is our true home.

As I read a few of your friends posts I gathered that you are stopping this website. We've both traveled the very difficult Leukemia journey about the same time and your site is one of the firsts that I bookmarked now probably over 4 years ago. Hard to believe so much time has passed. I will miss checking in on your family and seeing pics of your kids but I hope we can continue to keep in touch periodically via email.

I will be thinking about your family tommorow. God bless you.

Lisa Trapp
Lisa Trapp <LTrapp@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX - Sunday, September 24, 2006 3:19 PM CDT

Hello Tasha and family!

I love your updates this week! I will miss this sight, but can envision so many of the pictures of Jeffrey that were posted on this sight and I will never forget. I came into his illness a little late, but feel I know him because of this sight and will always be grateful. Perhaps because Sam is four or the anniversary of Jeffrey's passing upon us, he is with me every day of this new school year. There is no doubt that Jeffrey passes on much to Luke in every way.

I look forward to seeing your family and all who loved Jeffrey at Light the Night!!
Erin Johnson <epjohnson@cox.net>
- Thursday, September 21, 2006 11:03 PM CDT

Tasha--Thank you so much for sharing your life, your joy, your pain, your good times, your struggles, your wisdom and your true faith in God for all of us to read over these last five years. We have been truly blessed to have you in our lives. I got the "good kind of cancer" talk with my diagnosis as well. There is no such thing-- more treatable, not as aggressive, common maybe-- but never GOOD!
Alicia Silva <aliciats@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA USA - Thursday, September 21, 2006 8:30 PM CDT

Happy first birthday to Luke!! You have the best gift ever -- your remarkable family. Tasha, thank you for all your efforts in sharing your thoughts, feelings, struggles and joys with us. You are our inspiration.

I have referred others to Jeffrey's site, and they all have appreciated reading it. I am assuming you will have a copy of it, perhaps it can be published one day.

Ryan's mom, Anne at SJN, is expecting another child. We are so happy that you both have had the opportunity to experience life again after loss.

We know that Jeffrey is looking down on us all blowing angel kisses. I just found a recipe called "Angel Kisses" that I will mail you...delicious! You will be reunited with Jeffrey again, this time on earth is so short compared to eternity.

With love,
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Thursday, September 21, 2006 3:39 PM CDT

Happy birthday to Luke! I'm sure all of you will have fun today.
We'll miss you when you close your site. You've been so awesome in sharing your life. What a wonderful family you are.
Continue to walk on God's pathway.
Prayers of comfort for all of you.

Bill and Barb Proud <dipp@centurytel.net>
Dayton, MT U.S. - Thursday, September 21, 2006 8:10 AM CDT

Tasha,
I am so glad I could get an entry in before you closed down your site! I just wanted to stop by and thank you so much for the e-mail and for following Jacob's story. I can't thank you enough. Jeffrey is adorable - and I am so sorry for your loss. Thank goodness we have that HOPE of being reunited again. Take care and may God bless you greatly!
Love & FROG,
Heather
Amazing Jacob
Duckworth Family <dhkduck@aol.com>
Lithia, FL - Wednesday, September 20, 2006 11:23 AM CDT

Tasha and family... Just thinking about you as always. Bryce is doing extremely well on his Gleevec. How fortunate we are. It was five years ago (Aug 4, 2001) when we thought we had heard the worst news ever! Everyone, please keep on giving. YOU really can make a difference. Tasha, I will never forget meeting your family. Anyone interested... we do have a Light the Night here in Richmond..right on the JAMES RIVER. Please pass this along to anyone in the area. Fondly, Sandi Onaran, Chesterfield, VA
sandi onaran <sandionaran@comcast.net>
Chesterfield, va usa - Sunday, September 17, 2006 11:08 PM CDT

Hi! I really enjoyed reading your latest journal entry, Tasha. It really leaves everyone something to think about. Our hearts are with you, but especially on 9/25. As we have with each anniverary, we will all wear blue in honor of Jeffrey. We find ourselves talking and singing to Jeffrey, wondering what he is doing and asking for his intercession in our prayers.
With love,
Lisa, Jeff, Jackson, Christian and Jeffrey
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Sunday, September 10, 2006 8:17 PM CDT

I was proud talk about Jeffrey's Journey with the women who spearhead the Light the Night walk in Howard County when I went for Bank Night yesterday. We will be wearing our t-shirts Saturday and will be filled with his spirit! Lots of love to all of you!
Aunt Kristy <virostek5@comcast.net>
Columbia , MD - Thursday, September 7, 2006 9:37 AM CDT

Hey there Tasha, I wanted to wish you a great school year. I love your last entry on this site, it is so true. Our federal program closed this year and they sent us back to the regular classroom so I'm doing first grade this year. I am excited to be working with big kids again. Hope your daughters are doing well. Put some pics of Luke's first b-day up or send me some! My two boys are growing like weeds. Pray that middle school isn't too tough for a mom. You'll have to give me some pointers since you've been thru it before. Write me sometime! God bless you all.
Your old DG neighbor.
Stephanie Campbell Huff <hpy2bfree1@yahoo.com>
Roanoke, VA - Saturday, September 2, 2006 2:18 PM CDT

Thinking of you all. I can't believe Luke is almost one!!! I hope that Meghan and Angela have a wondeful start to their school year. I know your guardian angel is watching over all of you!
Denise Goate
- Thursday, August 31, 2006 9:20 AM CDT

Thanks for the journal update. I still think of Jeffrey daily and often check this website. As Luke approaches his first birthday I know there will be much joy, and we continue to honor your sweet Jeffrey through Light the Night. Love to all of the Virosteks in September!
Erin Johnson and family <epjohnson@cox.net>
centreville, va - Sunday, August 27, 2006 10:58 PM CDT

Tasha, periodically I check Jeffrey's website--I like to read how you and Luke and the rest of your family are doing. It's hard to believe that so much time has passed. I liked what you wrote on your latest update--very poignant and true. I want you to know that even far in San Antonio--I still think of Jeffrey when I see a penny on the ground. I hope your girls' are enjoying the first of the school year! Meredith and Emma are in 7th and 5th and I find myself looking at pictures of them with Steven and I think--boy have they grown in the last couple of years. I'm sure you feel the same.

I just wanted to send a quick email to let you know that I was thinking about Jeffrey today and decided to check your website. It's helpful for me to read about how you are hanging in there as it brings strength to all families walking the same journey.

Blessings,

Lisa Trapp
Lisa Trapp <ltrapp@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX United States - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 8:30 AM CDT

I hope you are all enjoying the summer, the picture of the girls and Jeffrey is adorable, but makes me continue to be sad for you all and your loss. Jeffrey will never be forgotten. I look forward to participating in Fundraising for Leukemia Lymphoma again this year in Jeffrey's honor.

Hugs
Gabi Nichols <gabi_7@hotmail.com>
chantilly, va - Friday, August 11, 2006 8:08 PM CDT

Hi Virostek's. I hope everyone is staying cool. These next couple days are going to be dreadful. My plan is to go from a/c to a/c....
I hope you are enjoying your summer.It is going so fast.
I pray that you are all doing well.
God Bless you all.
Charlene Forges <Hrdressr@aol.com>
Vienna, VA - Monday, July 31, 2006 9:16 PM CDT

I love seeing the summer photo, thanks! Jeffrey enjoyed the summer so much, as I think all children do. It is great to hear details about Angel Kisses. Count down until October 7th and we hope that childhood cancers will be eradicated very soon. You are in our prayers as is Patrick, a five year old St. John Neumann parishioner, with a brain tumor.

With love from,
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 9:55 AM CDT

Thank you for the summer photo! I know that summer will always remind you of Jeffrey frolicking with his sisters and friends, and soaking up all that life has to offer! Time has not lessened the memories of him and his precious life. He watches over all with a smile.... I do pray that you continue to feel his angel kisses.
Erin Johnson
- Tuesday, June 13, 2006 10:39 PM CDT

Hi Tasha, I check Jeffrey's site daily and was happy to see an update. I pray for your family daily and though I can't even begin to imagine how you feel I DO know that many people have been blessed by knowing Jeffrey.
I wish you all the best.
God Bless.

Charlene Forges <Hrdressr@aol.com>
Vienna, VA - Sunday, June 11, 2006 9:33 PM CDT

Happy birthday Tasha!

May the coming year bring you much happiness, good health, love and success. Enjoy Jeffrey's special angel kisses from heaven. You are a wonderful mother to your four children.

With love from,
The Turners <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Monday, June 5, 2006 0:12 AM CDT

Hello!

Mother's Day started of beautifully by remembering little Jeffrey's incredible spirit. Although it was a bit overcast, it never rained (our prayers were answered) ;-) Angela Virostek and friend designed this year's wonderful T-shirts. A 6 year old girl completed the 5K run! Both Jeff and I won great door prizes - thank you sponsors! Luke enjoyed all the activity too. Thanks to all the volunteers that made the 3rd annual Angel Kisses another success!

With love from,
The Turners <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 1:57 PM CDT

We are looking forward to participating in Angel Kisses again where Jeffrey's wonderful spirit will be honored.

With love from,
The Turner Family
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Sunday, May 7, 2006 10:21 PM CDT

Hi Tasha,
Got a good chuckle out of the haircut story. The same happened to me with George! Everyone kept calling him a girl. So, I relented and took him for an early haircut. Since we now actually have a boy I wanted him to look like one! The first few haircuts went so smoothly that I was unprepared for him hollering up a storm the last time I took him. We barely got through it and, if you look carefully, you can see that it is slightly lopsided. Oh well, I won't be forgetting the lollipops next time - sometimes a little bribery goes a long way:) Talk soon, Denise
Denise Bilidas <dbilidas@hotmail.com>
Vienna, VA USA - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 3:09 PM CDT

Great pics - they each have great, full hair! I love Luke's little chin. Wow, my three sons at their first haircuts at 12 months...

Happy spring to you all!

With love,
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, Virginia USA - Monday, April 17, 2006 11:52 PM CDT

A haircut at 6 months??? WOW. I actually don't think I have done one that early on anyone. From the looks of the pic of him rolling over,he needed it :)He is adorable,no matter what ! I hope you all are doing well. I pray for you daily.
I hope you have a very Blessed Easter.
God Bless You.
Charlene Forges <Hrdressr@aol.com>
Vienna, VA - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 7:53 PM CDT

Jeffrey, Luke got his first haircut. I remember when you got your first haircut. We were so glad that people would stop asking if you were a girl you were so handsome, but they didn't. Two people yesterday asked if Luke were a girl after the haircut. Two handsome boys. Angel Kisses is coming up soon, and we all feel you near lately. Your mom thinks you are being a rascal during the middle of the night when you wake up Luke to play, but she savors the giggles. Love, Grammy
Janet Ball <mjball@verizon.net>
- Tuesday, April 11, 2006 2:40 PM CDT

To My Child

Just for this morning, I am going to smile when I see your
face and laugh when I feel like crying.
Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want
to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.
Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry,
and pick you up and take you to the park to play.
Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink,
and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and
keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow
bubbles..
Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not even a
tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by.
Just for this afternoon, I won't worry about what you are
going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.
Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake
cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this afternoon, I will take us to McDonald's and
buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.. !
Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell
you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.
Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and
not get angry.
Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we
sit on the porch and count all the stars.
Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours,
and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening when I run my finger through your
hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the
greatest gift ever given.
I will think about the mothers and fathers who are
searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside that they can't handle it anymore.
And when I kiss you good night I will hold you a little
tighter, a little longer. It is then, that I will thank God for you,
and ask him for nothing, except one more day.

I saw this and was reminded of Jeffrey's and your battle. He is now our angel in heaven and your family will be reunited again. We are so happy Luke is with your family now.

With love,
Lisa
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 8:14 AM CDT

Hi. It has been a long while since I've visited this page. But, I love you, Tasha. You are the best sister in the world, no the universe!! I am so glad to have you in my life and your family as my family.
Allison
Charlottesville, VA - Friday, March 10, 2006 10:56 AM CST

Tasha, Reading about Luke sitting up reminds me of the first time I met you and Angela at that Springfield Mommy and Me. I remember you plopped Angela down in a sitting position and yelled "Ta Da." All of us new moms were quite envious of her sitting talent as our babies lolled around on their blankets. How far we've all grown since those days - huh? Glad that our friendship has kept pace and grown along with our children. We're blessed to have you in our lives and look forward to many more great memories with the two littlest members of the group - Luke and George. With love, Denise & Clan
Denise Bilidas <dbilidas@hotmail.com>
Vienna, VA USA - Monday, March 6, 2006 9:14 PM CST

Tasha and Stephen,

Happy Anniversary! Happy Valentine's Day! Enjoy your special day.

With love,
Lisa and Jeff Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 4:36 PM CST

Tasha,

I agree, perhaps Tuesdays can be turned into another kind of memory for you. Perhaps you could even visit the clinic and offer your support with others in their struggles. You and Jeffrey will be reunited again. He is our angel in heaven!

You and your incredible family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers,

Lisa

PS: We are glad to hear of Luke's progress. You are blessed!
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Sunday, February 12, 2006 11:20 AM CST

Dear Jeffery's family
I just popped in to say I was thinking of you and your Angel
maybe Tuesday's could be a day when you do something special for your self?go for a walk on the beach or go to a park it could be your special alone time with Jeffery's memory...I have a pond I sit at when I need alone time just to be with my thoughts and memory of my Jacob
sending you all positive healing energy and prayers
with love jacob's mum

Jacob's Mum www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob Jacob's Page
Brisbane, Queensland Australia - Saturday, February 11, 2006 11:39 PM CST

Tasha,

We wish you a most wonderful birthday today! May the coming year bring you much happiness.

We are thrilled that baby Luke is now a member of your terrific family. Angela and Meghan are sensational big sisters!

With love,
Lisa, Jeff. Jackson, Christian and Jeffrey
Lisa Turner <turnersinVA@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 2:25 PM CST

Jeffrey sure had great taste! His favorite song was #1 on a recent survey as referenced below. Singing "On Eagle's Wings" always brings thoughts of Jeffrey.

Love,
Lisa
PS: Kim, thanks for the wonderful sentiments. You are a treasure as well.

LITURGICAL-MUSIC Jan-25-2006 (650 words) With graphic. xxxn

'On Eagle's Wings' tops all songs in online liturgical music survey

By Mark Pattison
Catholic News Service

WASHINGTON (CNS) -- "On Eagle's Wings," the musical reworking of the 91st Psalm by Father Michael Joncas, topped all other songs in an online poll asking which liturgical song most fostered and nourished the respondent's life.

Two songs made popular by the St. Louis Jesuits -- "Here I Am, Lord" and "Be Not Afraid" -- came in second and third, followed by "You Are Mine," by David Haas.

The online poll was sponsored by the National Association of Pastoral Musicians. The poll was featured last year in an issue of its membership magazine, Pastoral Music, and announcements about the poll were distributed to diocesan newspapers in an effort to get the input of "rank-and-file Catholics," said J. Michael McMahon, the association's president.

Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Friday, January 27, 2006 9:49 AM CST

Those big sisters sure do seem to love their baby brother :)
What a cutie he is..
I hope everyone is doing well.
I pray for you daily.
God Bless You.
Charlene Forges <Hrdressr@aol.com>
Vienna, VA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 6:39 AM CST

Lisa Turner:
You are a wonderful person. You are THE MOST compassionate, MOST thoughtful, MOST genuine person I've EVER met. Everyone whose life is touched with your kindness is a happier person. Thank you for all you are to me.
Kim Hoover <dane2hoover@yahoo.com>
Great Falls, VA USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 6:50 AM CST

Hi!

I loved "The Brave Little Soul". The Honover family of St. John Neumann parish lost their 18 month son, Ryan, and I forwarded the poem to them.

With love,
Lisa
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 11:34 PM CST

That story is awesome. I never thought of it that way. That was Jaffrey's journey from the day he was born. We just didn't know it. How much wiser God is than we are! Love to all, Suzanne
Suzanne Harris <bucksuz@earthlink.net>
Salado, TX - Sunday, January 22, 2006 5:06 PM CST

What a wonderful story! The writer must surely have known Jeffrey, for every bit of the story sounds just like him. God bless his "little soul". Jeffrey was the embodiment of faith and love, despite his suffering.
Danna Coffey <dancof@msn.com>
Centreville, - Saturday, January 21, 2006 11:44 AM CST

I came across the following little story and thought of little Jeffrey right away!

The Brave Little Soul
By: John Alessi

Not too long ago in Heaven there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. He especially enjoyed the love he saw there and often expressed this joy with God. One day however, the little soul was sad, for on this day he saw suffering in the world. He approached God and sadly asked, "Why do bad things happen, why is there suffering in the world?".

God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see, unlocks the love in peoples hearts". The little soul was confused. "What do you mean", he asked. God replied, "Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences, and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone.

The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued, "The suffering soul unlocks the love in people's hearts much like the sun and rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately most people keep it locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this-it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer-to unlock this love-to create this miracle-for the good of all humanity.

Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain himself. With his wings fluttering, bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave; let me go! I would like to go into this world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people's hearts! I want to create that miracle!

God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for this and so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. Those souls will help you create your miracle; however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you.

God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced. In parting, God said, "Do not forget little soul that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel that you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought, and you will be healed.

Thus at that moment the brave little soul was born into the world, and through his suffering and God's strength he unlocked the goodness and love in people's hearts. For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts. Those that were always too busy found time. Many began new spiritual journeys-some regained lost faith-many came back to God. Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant family reunited, and every family spent more time together. Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives were changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place. The miracle had happened. God was pleased."

Mary Sawyer <brenpatsa@msn.com>
Chantilly, VA - Friday, January 13, 2006 7:06 PM CST

We, too, are thinking of you all on Jeffrey's birthday. I'm sure that this day is filled with memories of all of the joy Jeffrey brought to your family and everyone else he met. I'm sure that Luke has also helped to recall things you might have forgotten about *all* of your children - it's funny how a new baby's actions help you remember exactly what the earlier babies did, by being the same or by simply being different! I hope that today is flooded with joyous memories of Jeffrey and family.
Deirdre Crescioli <Deirdre.Crescioli@fcps.edu>
Chantilly, VA 20151 - Friday, January 6, 2006 6:30 PM CST

You're in our thoughts today - We hope your thoughts take you back to the wonderful memories shared with your special boy!
The Rickard Family <mrickardo5@msn.com>
Chantilly, VA - Friday, January 6, 2006 1:30 PM CST

I will be wearing blue today, too. I'm thinking of you all as you remember your precious angel on his birthday. Jeffrey, you are missed but what a joy it was to know you! Love, Mrs. Coffey
Danna Coffey <dancof@msn.com>
Centreville, - Friday, January 6, 2006 6:03 AM CST

Hello!

I almost forgot: we will all have on our blue (your favorite color) today. As you know, Jeffrey had the most beautiful blue eyes.

Jeffrey lived such a full, rewarding and remarkable life. He has touched, and continues to touch, an incredible number of lives through his journey and his family. He is missed and you will continue to share his wonderful spirit with others. We all thank God for bringing Jeffrey into our lives. His life made a true difference in our lives.
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Friday, January 6, 2006 0:13 AM CST

Hello everyone,

Today, January 6th, marks the 7th anniversary of Jeffrey's birth. We know there are many smiles, as well as tears, as you remember your angel on his special day. Luke will learn all about his big brother through all of you, as well as the many videos, photos and, of course, this wonderful website. We all wish that Jeffrey had more time with us on earth but this time is simply a fraction of spending eternity in Heaven with God. You will all be reunited again. But in the meantime, know that there is a most special angel in Heaven looking down on all of us blowing us angel kisses. Jeffrey can't wait to see you enjoying his delicious birthday cake tonight! ;-)

With much love from,
The Turner Family <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Friday, January 6, 2006 0:03 AM CST

Thinking of you all on Jeffrey's birthday....we celebrate each day that he had with your family and know that he is celebrating where he is and feeling very loved!!
epjohnson@cox.net
centreville, va - Thursday, January 5, 2006 9:14 PM CST

Dropping by with warm and knowing hugs and tears as you celebrate the remembrance of Jeffrey's birth. Praise God we have the comfort of knowing that we cannot even imagine the joy they are experiencing in our Lord's presence. Ah, nevertheless, it is hard in this valley. Praise God, the best is yet to come! May our Lord's peace continue to be yours.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna <galatians5@truevine.net>
Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Thursday, January 5, 2006 11:22 AM CST

Hello!

Happy New Year to you all! May your family be blessed in 2006! We look forward to participating in the third annual Angel Kisses in honor of your angel son, Jeffrey. Indeed 2006 will bring many firsts as you experience life with Luke.

With love from,
The Turners <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Monday, January 2, 2006 7:54 PM CST

G'day Jeffery's family
I would like to thank jeffery's Grammy for her beautiful words on our jacob's web page
I hope you all have a wonderful healthy happy safe 2006
with love jacob's mum

Deanne www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob Our Aussie Angel Jake
Queensland Australia - Monday, January 2, 2006 7:24 PM CST

I hope all of the Virostek's have the Happiest and Healthiest of New Year's.
God Bless You.
Charlene Forges <Hrdressr@aol.com>
Vienna, VA - Sunday, January 1, 2006 7:19 AM CST

Dear Jeffery's family
after our son's pages were linked I wonder if we were ment to meet ;-) I have just read your Jeffery's story he was an amazing little fella..and so full of life a lot like my Jacob..They both had a strong faith jacob was always reasuring me That God had his reasons for him being sick and dieing he conforted all of us and waited I feel until he thought we could let him go..these kids are so special they suffer so much but never give in or ask "Why me?"
I'm sorry you lost your Jeffery.. I know how much your heart aches and no matter how strong your faith is there is anger that they had to be taken from you..
with love jacob's mum

Deanne www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob Our Aussie Angel Jake
Alexandra Hills Brisbane, Queensland Australia - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 0:22 AM CST

With the recent mix up of the guestbook with Jake's family, I saw this poem and reflected on it. Our thoughts are with you all.

Christmas Without You

The lights are blinking merrily
The tinsel’s on the tree
It sits there in the window
For all the world to see.

The house is filled with holly
And pinecone scents the air
The Christmas cards keep coming
Each one is hung with care.

The gifts are tied with ribbons red
And topped with pretty bows
I’m done with all the details
As far as Christmas goes.

The fire is softly glowing
I think about your touch
But Christmas isn’t Christmas
I miss you oh, so much.

If I could have just anything
My Christmas wish would be
To wake up in the morning
And find you here with me.

Staring at your picture
I long to be set free
Tonight the tears are streaming
As I hold it next to me.

Flakes of snow swirl through the air
I’m braced for stormy weather
I wait for brighter days ahead
When we can be together.

So hold a place in heaven
Someday when life is through
I’ll be the Christmas angel
Who shares this day with you.

Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Monday, December 26, 2005 6:54 PM CST

Hello!

We hope you all had a most enjoyable Christmas with baby Luke. I know your hearts still ache for dear Jeffrey, but he indeed is smiling down on you all.

I was on the site www.spiritdaily.com on Christmas and received this message:
..."Imagine that a child is born to you -- actually, it's unimaginable. And he looks into your face and sees everything. And she looks into your heart and expects you to be what God meant you to be -- a good judge, a good sovereign who defends truth and represents good law. Imagine you can be the parent your child needs, not perfect -- none of us can be -- but loving and true, and firm in your devotion. Perfect comes later, after the pain of life. If you choose, one day you will have eternal life, but for now the best you can do is create life here. Make it a good life that you create -- yours and your child's"...

As a parent, you just try to make each day count to the best of your abilities. You gave Jeffrey indeed a wonderful life. Loosing a child is unimaginable. Faith teaches us that your family will be reunited for eternity in Heaven one day. Our time on earth is just a small fraction of eternity. I like this quote: President Lincoln (who lost a child too) said: "In the end, it's not the years in your life that count but rather the life in your years".

During the holidays especially, our hearts ache for those no longer with us. Our thoughts are with you all.

Blessings and love to you,
Lisa Turner and family
Lisa Turner
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Monday, December 26, 2005 6:47 PM CST
I am trying to respond to Jeffrey's Journey site, but I hope these words can help you too. I was on the site www.spiritdaily.com today and received this message:

..."Imagine that a child is born to you -- actually, it's unimaginable. And he looks into your face and sees everything. And she looks into your heart and expects you to be what God meant you to be -- a good judge, a good sovereign who defends truth and represents good law. Imagine you can be the parent your child needs, not perfect -- none of us can be -- but loving and true, and firm in your devotion. Perfect comes later, after the pain of life. If you choose, one day you will have eternal life, but for now the best you can do is create life here. Make it a good life that you create -- yours and your child's"...

Loosing a child is unimaginable, but try to remember your family will be reunited for eternity in Heaven one day. Our time on earth is just a small fraction of eternity. As a parent, you just try to make each day count to the best of your abilities. President Lincoln (who lost a child too) said: "In the end, it's not the years in your life that count but rather the life in your years".

During the holidays especially, our hearts ache for those no longer with us. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Blessings to you and your family,
Lisa Turner and family
Lisa Turner <turnersinva@yahoo.com>
Reston, VA USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 1:01 PM CST

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