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Good Morning Claudia, I read your entry on Michelle's page. I am sorry things are not going well in Texas. I will say an extra prayer for you and keep you in my thoughts. Hope things can work out a little better for you. I am sure this is a difficult season for you. Take care and God Bless you.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:01 AM CST
Well, I just check in every once in a while and it just "feels right" to do it. You may not be reading this for a while and am wrapping big hugs around you. You are so more than precious and I am but only one!!!
blessings dear,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Saturday, October 27, 2007 8:16 PM CDT
Thinking of you....
Sunshine here today.
Hope you have a smile in your heart.
Love, Chelle
www.daveshell.blogspot.com
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Friday, May 18, 2007 4:43 PM CDT
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Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 3:41 PM CST
Hi Claudia, This is your long and sometimes lost friend, Linda N. who thinks of you often. I'm so glad you were able to spend Thanksgiving in V. with all the little ones and big ones. Healing is a strange thing. I still find myself fantisizing that Claude is going to walk through the garage door with his coat thrown over his shoulder. Maybe we're all more like doves in our mateing than we know! Dinah was 21 yesterday, and once again the great gaping hole emerges...that she needed her dad there to wish her a happy launching. Life does go on though and most of the time in an acceptable way. Soul mates are hard to come by and impossible to replace; perhaps because you can't replace your own history. I see now what people mean when they refer to current partners as companions. It implies a comfortable relationship, even interesting...just not historical and not the other half of your being. Must go. I've probably written for all the world to see. Strange. I'm not a very "out there" person, as you know. Call me. I have a very hot job prospect for you next year. It isn't even announced yet...someone's retiring in a college counseling position.
Love you lots!
Linda Nichols <lan_45@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 8:58 AM CST
Claudia
New Years Greetings to you. As you begin this New Year may it be filled with sunshine and happiness always. Prayers from Walla Walla.
Sue <clarkfamily@my180.net/http://sue-thoughts.blogspot.com/>
Walla Walla, WA - Monday, January 1, 2007 1:58 PM CST
Hi Claudia,
I'm sorry for your lost, this is the website
www.quoteland.com, the author is Albert Schweitzer
Gerry :-)
Gerry <code7gerry@yahoo.com>
Corona, Ca - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 1:45 PM CST
will be praying for healing for you and know God has a plan even if it is not the plan we have for ourselves.
Sue <clarkfamily@gohighspeed.com>
Walla Walla, WA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 6:15 PM CST
Hello Ms Real........So very happy to know that you will be leaving all thoughts of school in Waxahacie this week.
Have a wonderful time with family in Virginia. I'm looking forward to talking to you when you return.
Something tells me that Rachel is equally excited about having lunch at school with you on Tuesday.......grandkids
are the BEST!!! I will be thinking, praying and smiling this week as you both give and receive love from your precious family. You amazing people on Caringbridge teach all of us to be grateful for the many blessings we do
have in spite of HUGE loss! I love you dear friend, Dee
PS: FYI Ms Real is the nickname Claudia's students have given her. Quite fitting, as she is indeed REAL.......you just do not fool kids!
DW <hew@charter.net>
WW, WA - Monday, November 20, 2006 10:33 AM CST
Jeepers, I want to meet the WallaWalla friends. I wouldn't know them if they stood on my foot but they are so sensative and can really share "Claudia verbage". Just checking in on you today and sharing again what a great time we had last weekend. Will surely miss you for Thanksgiving but take pics galore and love to all in attendance in VA. Love ya...bjk
Billie Jean King
Dallas, TX - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 12:08 AM CST
Claudia I am with Sue I thought you stopped your web page. Tonight I was going through lots of sites for an update. I am very pleased to see your still here. I am glad you need us I am just sorry I was not here. I will check in on your more often. I hope you enjoy your Thanksgiving. Enjoy those granddaughters.
God Bless You.
Team Meyer also.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Sunday, November 12, 2006 10:27 PM CST
Those little ones,
with their bright smiles and sticky hugs,
ahhh....this is LIFE!!
Dave and I used to call those moments "sneakers"
the ones you aren't quite ready for,
haven't prepared for,
when your heart is unprotected and especially vulnerable.
I'm sorry you had a sneaker day.
Know that I pray for you.
Love, Chelle
www.caringbridge.org/wa/davemeyer
www.daveshell.blogspot.com
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Saturday, November 11, 2006 10:44 AM CST
Claudia
I am a Team Meyer follower from Walla Walla and I stopped checking your site because I thought you had closed it however, I never stopped thinking of you and your loss. It is hard to go on. My father died of cancer on 5/3/05 and for my mother, my brother, my family, and me it seems like yesterday and it doesn't go away. We learn to live on in a different way but there is that deep hole of loss. I am glad your back and sorry it took me so long to realize it. Much love and prayers
Sue <clarkfamily@gohighspeed.com;http://sue-thoughts.blogspot.com/>
Walla Walla, WA - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 5:06 PM CST
Claudia,
Life rolls along, moves forward,
bringing new blessings,
and also new losses.
Kenny would wisely say,
it's the circle of life,
just like in the Lion King.
And it is.
A circle.
Moving forward,
experiencing things again,
but in a new place,
or a new way.
Not always smooth,
not usually easy,
just know you've got us,
here to roll along the path with you,
whatever it brings.
My deepest sympathy,
such great losses.
Love, Michelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Saturday, November 4, 2006 4:58 AM CST
Yikes-didn't know you were writing in CB again! That's great-I know it's very therapeutic for you. The family and I walked (along with the Willises) in the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society Light the Night Walk last Sat. and wore Rob's name and remembered him in our "journey", hoping that someday there wouldn't need to be a Walk because there would be a cure for leukemia and other blood cancers and no other families wouldn't suffer such a loss as we did. (On no, Miss English teacher, that was quite run-on sentence, wasn't it?) Love you lots, Gaynell
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Monday, October 30, 2006 11:26 PM CST
Happy birthday, my dear Claudia...there are still 31 minutes left in your day at my house. Many hugs to you. And although the second time around these milestones without our heroes is not any easier, I hope you are able to find joy in your day, and celebrate the gift of YOU!
Love, Chelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 1:31 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.....HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! Yes, I know it is not until tomorrow, the 23rd. I sent you a card
last week. It probably won't arrive until the day after your birthday.......so one wish a day before and another the day after, well, you get the idea.
Claudia, I am hoping you inform your students that this is YOUR special day and that you chose to spend it with them. Tell them your WWW friend has very high expectations and intends for them to give you the "perfect"
gift. I expect them ALL to be manerly and attentive the entire class time!!!! Have fun with these kids tomorrow!
I keep smiling when I think of Nancy's statement. I agree, she is brilliant! Thank God for good friends! You truly are a gift to one another. Sending love, hugs and prayers, Dee
Dee <hew@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Wa - Sunday, October 22, 2006 3:45 PM CDT
Hallelujiah! Finally, a way to keep track of you, Curls! I'm amazed at the many adventures you've had in such a short time, and I'm hoping to read the stories here. I am so glad to see you again. I have missed hearing you very much. You have an amazing way with the written word, and I hoped dearly that you wouldn't be quiet long. I've pulled up Rob's site on many a night, too tired to even e-mail, but taking comfort from seeing your smile, his arm around you. Many, many hugs across the miles.
Love you, 'Chelle
Dave's Memorial Site
and
Team Meyer Headquarters
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Friday, October 20, 2006 3:05 AM CDT
Claudia, I am glad you are BACK! I do take exception to your comment about not "getting it." You are getting it, but as we have shared.......it just,( as my grandkids would say), SUCKS! Grief is HARD work.....be gentle with yourself! If you NEVER sort through Rob's clothes.....what harm is in that? If you want to discontinue service on his cell phone, surely there is a way to record his message.......if not, I am certain I would keep it until I joined him! Hugs, Dee
Dee <hew@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Wa - Thursday, October 19, 2006 3:57 PM CDT
Dearest Claudia,
I spent my first night back in my house, all "my byself" and did really well. The sweetest, yet saddest tears are now down my cheeks as I read your entry. My grief raises its ugly head really often and not underground for me at all....and I didn't have each day to spend with him although I always have his love and committment he shared so abundantly with me. I keep thinking that those additional nine years will made a difference and it truly does somewhere really deep down and I do laugh often about so many things.....getting ready for bed in Fred with a car driving by late at night and telling him over coffee that traffic was beginning to be an issue and that it was time to move---if only our laughter could lighten my heart. It might in time and who knows when and if that time will come. I love you and all more than words can say and I know you know the unspoken words that my heart holds. Having you close again will be so wonderful and Rob will always know where you are and he will always be with you.....you shared too special a union.
love, hugs and blessings,
bjk
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Friday, September 22, 2006 3:55 PM CDT
Aunt Claudia,
As always, you lead the way. I have peeked onto this site frequently, left messages occasionally, and always felt the presence of Uncle Rob when I saw the link in my "favorites" pull-down. It has been an important part of my grieving process, and I thank you greatly for creating it. But over the past few months, when I've checked, not much new has been posted, by you or others. I've come less frequently, and hardly ever post. Uncle Rob's memory bubbles up for every red sock on my children's feet, every thundering Harley, every family gathered in side-splitting laughter around a master story-teller. I know I've used this site as a crutch, a connection to the past, and although I don't want a future without Uncle Rob, that is what IS.
Good bye to all who have posted, I've enjoyed your memories. Blessings to all who have shared in Uncle Rob's life. And a safe journey to us all; may we all meet somewhere down the road and swap our stories again.
Emma Kim
Sweet Home Chicago, - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 3:02 PM CDT
I don't want you to close this site. I adore seeing you and Rob with his arm over your shoulder and your hands together....that's such a connection for us all!!!! We all know I'm not silent about much of anything and Sunday was such fun -- not enough time with you -- but we will see each other really soon.
MJ said it the best and simply ---- I LOVE YOU!!!
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Wednesday, June 21, 2006 5:29 PM CDT
Well, silence has never been my strong suit...
but you already know that.
Time marches on,
life moves forward.
Sometimes, like Grandy,
I look out the window and I'm surprised,
surprised that the earth keeps spinning,
the seasons continue to change,
while I can only tread water.
You've been faced with many changes,
many losses,
and I am, as always,
amazed and inspired by
your honesty,
your depth of feeling,
your caring for others,
and your willingness to allow the process to happen as it needs to.
So, fare thee well, my friend,
I will say,
but not goodbye.
Love you, Chelle
Dave's Memorial Site
The Meyer Family Space
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla , WA US - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 1:14 AM CDT
I guess I am one of those "Silent Observers." I often visit your site and was delighted to see your update. I decided it was time to write since you are getting ready to end your site. I lost my father on May 4 '06 and each day I experience those same thoughts as you and JD "Dad will never experience this again" "I will never share this again with Dad" My dad who worked and did special things to make our youngest daughter want to learn missed her 8th grade recognition where she got many awards and her 4.0 gpa she attained this year. He would have been so proud. I agree with you Claudia it doesn't get better. People think you should be better but your true friends no differently. I wish you new memories as life continues on and good memories of the past and know there are lots of people out here that continue to pray for you and your family as you continue down this road that life threw at you.
Love and Prayers always
Sue <clarkfamily@gohighspeed.com>
Walla Walla, WA - Sunday, June 18, 2006 10:05 PM CDT
I love you...Toops
Mary Jo Blaine <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
Waxahachie, TX USA - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 2:57 PM CDT
Hi dear one,
Just a bit lonely and wanted to read CaringBridge and love on you today. Robbie's been talking to me....went to Walgreen's and as I got to the pharmacy, there was an R in every word ---- dRive thRough phaRmacy !!!! PLEASE, I don't want this to make you sad but I just noticed and wanted to share with you...but again, I always want to share with you --- part of the gene pool ;)
I love you and miss you,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Sunday, May 21, 2006 6:53 PM CDT
I missed the actual day. I forgot to say on April 17th, "F*@K the IRS" Hope you don't mind me being a little late...
Emma Kim
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, April 25, 2006 11:54 PM CDT
Thinking of you....
that's all.
Just thinking of you.
Chelle <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Tuesday, April 25, 2006 2:11 AM CDT
Sorry i missed you when you were in Chicago. Just thought i would say hell-o. MAG
mark gold
chicago, il usa - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 5:56 PM CDT
Hi Claudia,
Hoping you are going to have a lovely Easter filled with love and sunshine!
Seems like forever ago you were here...it was 80 degrees today!!!
Hoping you are well, take care.
Cathy B. w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04
Chicago, IL - Friday, April 14, 2006 10:23 PM CDT
I am anxious to get together for a sleepover and catch up and hear all about Chicago! Know I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of love! Gaynell
P.S. Blood drive at church yesterday in John's memory got 45 units of whole blood plus 55 people tested and entered into the Bone Marrow Registry!
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Sunday, April 2, 2006 6:13 PM CDT
Just checking in on you. Hoping you're having a good spring. I was at BJ's (a store like Sams Club) the other day and swear I saw Rob. This man looked just like the picture of Rob on the front page of your website. I kept looking at him, he probably thought I was nuts. Still thinking of you and praying for you.
Blessings!
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 5:47 PM CST
Hoping you're having a wonderful time in Chicago. Wish I had known you were going. Dee and I had planned to try to fly there for a weekend! Miss you, friend.
Love, Chelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Sunday, March 26, 2006 10:00 PM CST
Hi there.....Just me again--sending hugs, energy and awaiting your homecoming and getting you out of the cold north country. Make it as quick as you can and lovin' you today and every day!!!
bjk
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX` - Sunday, March 26, 2006 4:35 PM CST
Well, my computer is back up and it is embarrassing that I have not been able to send hugs and good energy and warm, fuzzy thoughts to you that you can glance at repeatedly. We talk frequently but it's just not the same. I feel like the notes are for Dobbie, too and it warms my heart and my tears. Just loving you a little more as time passed and I know you know that.....just take good care of you and we will talk soon.
love & blessings,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Friday, March 17, 2006 6:28 PM CST
Hi Claudia,
Just checking in on you. I hope you find many reasons to smile this month.
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA!! - Thursday, March 2, 2006 6:22 AM CST
Happy Anniversary, Rob! Well, my dear Claudia, February has brought several "firsts" and you wonderful, strong, brave, compassionate woman have made it through them! Rob would be so proud (and I imagine expect nothing less from you). As always, you are in my thoughts and prayers ----and heart! I love you lots, Gaynell
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 11:34 AM CST
Just checking. Love you, Chelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Wa US - Monday, February 27, 2006 9:25 PM CST
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and sending you my love. We're all soooo disappointed you're not coming down for dinner, but TOTALLY understand. I don't think the gloomy rain is helping the mood much either!
Much love always, Gaynell
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Saturday, February 18, 2006 3:45 PM CST
Okay, we're still an hour away from the day, but tomorrow is basketball and skiing all the live-long day, so I'm not sure I'll get to the computer. I will however, have you in my thoughts, in my prayers and in my heart as you work through "your" anniversary, the day you said "I do!" to your prince charming, your hero, your love forever. It's a day to be celebrated. I hope a friend that's close by will take you out to dinner. Order the lobster and the champagne. You might not feel festive, but in your heart, you will still find that glimmer of happiness as you raise your glass to Rob and all the years you had together. While not enough, it was yours and his, and it was special, and it deserves that recognition. Raising my glass....to Rob, to Claudia, to a love that survives.
Love you, Chelle
PROUD wife of Dave
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla , WA US - Saturday, February 18, 2006 1:02 AM CST
Hi Claudia,
I admit... I am one of those that check in on you but don't sign the book much. I suppose I don't sign often because I feel guilty that I am not living what you, Michelle, Cheri, Kari and the others have had to live. I want to talk to you all but then worry about saying something wrong. I often wonder why I am so drawn to these CB sites. I have never met any of you but was asked to pray for Dave Meyer about a year and a half ago and that is how I got here. I am still praying for you, to have a reason to smile on a regular basis. Enjoy your family, Rob gave you a beautiful gift in them. I do not even pretend to imagine how you all make it through but your stories do help me to be thankful for what I have. Thinking of you often.
Blessings!
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA!! - Thursday, February 16, 2006 4:06 PM CST
http://www.GlitterMaker.com/ - Glitter Graphics
Love, Michelle
PROUD wife of Dave Meyer
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 1:02 AM CST
Claudia, I guess I had seen Robs name on Michelle Meyers site but didnt put 2 and 2 together until I got on here and was reading your journey. Im so sorry for your loss and everything you have endured. I will continue to check on here though. Sending many hugs and prayers your way!
Happy Valentines Day to you!
Love, Kevin and Kari Terry
Kevin and Kari Terry www.caringbridge.org/mn/kevinterry <kkterry@netins.net>
Truman, MN USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 10:39 AM CST
Claudia,
Thinking of you,
another date passed,
another memory relived,
another day
without your love,
knowing the ache,
knowing the sorrow,
the anger,
the despair,
wishing there was a way
to mend the rift in our lives.
Still breathing,
still moving forward,
appreciating the new gifts,
even though we'd trade them in,
for one more moment....
hugs, chelle
Dave's site
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Wednesday, February 8, 2006 10:18 AM CST
Good Morning Texas friend!
Something tells me had Rob met my husband, they too would have become friends.
My parents really did have two anniversaries......one civil ceremony and one by a priest. However they weren't
creative enough to even celebrate the latter.
You keep telling those great stories, Claudia. Anyone out there ever heard of a husband and wife with separate wedding anniversaries?...........I didn't think so.
Love and hugs, Dee
Dee <hew@charter.net>
WW, - Monday, February 6, 2006 10:32 AM CST
Two anniversaries! What an incredibly funny story, full of love! Does this mean you were married 80 years total?? This brought a huge smile to my face. I'm hoping your memories of Rob will surround, warm and sustain you, as you work your way through February. One day at a time, my friend. Sending love, Chelle
Dave Meyer’s Website
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Monday, February 6, 2006 9:44 AM CST
Dear Claudia,
Hope you are enjoying the birthday celebrations and being with your family! We leave tomorrow for Disney World. I have my tiara in hand (Amy, Allison and I are wearing tiaras for my birthday dinner Sunday night at Cinderella's Castle) and READY to get on a plane and get out of Dodge! Will call you when I get back. I'm thinking of you everyday and hoping you're enjoying being out of "George" for a few days. Much love, Gaynell
P.S. Tom just sent me a picture of the two of us at John's reception and we actually look pretty cute!
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Friday, February 3, 2006 11:37 AM CST
Thank you so much, Claudia for updating CaringBridge so often so we can know what's happening and what's going on with you and with family and with friends. That is more than special and we are blessed to share news and feeling with you.
love & blessings,
bjk
Billie Jean King
Dallas, TX - Saturday, January 28, 2006 11:28 PM CST
Gaynell, just stopping in to let you know I check on you often. Sorry your not having a good day but glad your getting away tonight sounds like a little bit of fun. Guess from what Michelle wrote if she comes up missing maybe we should look under cartridge boxes. Lets keep sending them her way. God Bless You and have a good night.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Thursday, January 26, 2006 10:58 PM CST
Cancer Sucks Club buttons do exist! I'm sending one to Claudia, will enclose one for you, too, Gaynell. I've been meaning to do it all week, but between Conspiracy of Hope and getting snowed under with cartridges, we've been busy! Hugs, Shelley
PROUD wife of Dave
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Thursday, January 26, 2006 0:29 AM CST
Hey "Curls",
Not a great day-it's four weeks today since I watched John take his last breath. I've read all the journal history of Rob, of Dave, of Fred, and all the children I'm following. So, I'm not the only person crying tonight and wishing I could wipe cancer off the face of the earth. I watched the slide show about 10 times today and listened to the CD of John's service several times;opened numerous bills from people who want money and claim insurance hasn't paid---NOT a good day. SOOO, I'm heading to "George" tomorrow; going to see my Bogey, have a margarita and dinner with you, see the gay cowboy flick and have a sleep-over with you. Did you find out from Michelle Meyer if the "Cancer Sucks Club" buttons really exist and where we can get one! Love, GAY
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 11:21 PM CST
Thanks, hon.
Love, Chelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 9:31 AM CST
It is odd to write in your own guestbook, but Michelle Meyer posted this message and this list on her CB page today and it is worth repeating.
Please join me in praying for the families whose loved ones have lost the battle against brain tumors in 2005. These are from one of the lists to which I belong. The name of the patient is first, and the parenthesis indicate caregivers/family members who were members of the listserv. As you can see, the list is far too big. Please pray for a cure to be found.
2005 Honors:
Laura Adams (mother of Ashley)
Lori Arquilla Andersen (daughter of Linda Magiera)
Glen Baker (cousin of Jacki Fitzmorris' mother)
Ugo Bartole (husband of Debbie)
Doug Bennett (brother of Don)
Bill Bither (husband of Carol)
Bruce Brink (husband of Shaun)
Jack Brownell (father of Jacki Fitzmorris)
Gordon Brunhild (gentle husband of Sunnie)
Leo Burr (husband of Jean)
Tino Carbone (father of Krissy)
Pam Caulfield (wife of John)
Johnnie Cochran
Kevin Collins (husband of Carol, brother of Carol Roberts)
Mary Lois Cook (mother-in-law of LeeAnn Boston)
Damien Cusick (husband of Susan)
Ginger Dorn (wife of Henry)
Dorothy (mother of Stacey)
Lesli Farry (twin sister of Lori Najera)
Lauren Fitzgerald (daughter of Michael)
Donna Fraser's father
Darlene Garth (mother of Kelli Froman)
Melanie Gillmeister's mother
Sophie Goddard's father
Howard Goldberg (husband of Carole)
Rich Gordon (father of Carey)
Raymond Gravlin
Larry Graybill (husband of Sue)
Janel Gubeno (sister of Michele Jenkins)
Betty Hamlin
William Hapgood (husband of Lili)
Dell Hesler (brother of Terri Martin)
Daryn Lyn Holland (son of Fritzie Samford)
Janet Huebner's brother-in-law
John (husband of Kathryn Geyer)
John Jacobs (father of Abra)
Jamie Johnson (husband of Cindy)
Tony Kapulka (husband of Melissa [Plantation Towers])
Andy Keenan (fiance of Erica Brown)
Kevin (husband of Angela Gilliam)
Gwen Kuss (sister of Jessica Smith and Natalie)
Nigel Lee (husband of Diane)
Daniel Richard Levin (son of Barb Ott)
Myrna Lewis (sister of Diane Eickhoff Barnhart, stepmother of Cindy Butler)
Shelly Lewis (husband of Peggy, father of Lynne Siegel)
Spencer Mattson (son of Julie and Rob)
John May (father of Marci Baumann)
O'Dean McKenney (husband of Sabrina)
Ken Melton (husband of Sue)
Edith Meltzer (mother-in-law of Cathy Meltzer)
Michael Metcalf (husband of Donna)
Dave Meyer (husband of Michelle)
Mike (fiancé of Troylene Cooper)
Stephen Miloscia (son of Mary)
Roxanne Morrissey (mother of Christine)
Gill Mustafa (mother-in-law of Ziv Shevket)
Ivan Noble
Brittany Renée Nolan (daughter of Marilynn)
Norman (father of Francesca Cull)
Apostle Babalola OlaOjo (father of Ann McLean)
Will Oliver (husband of Helen Pitt)
Martha Jane Pap (mother of Lynn Krasiewich)
Bud Paulding (father of Trish Thackston)
Irene Philips' aunt
Bob Popowski (father of Maria Carr)
Andy Posa
Leigh Roberts (wife of Stephen)
David Rufo, Sr. (father of David)
William Sansalone (son of Maria)
Sarah (daughter of Ron Holmes)
Linda Sargeant (mother of Scott)
Ian Scott (husband of Marje)
Scott Sellers (husband of Kellie, brother of Heather)
Vince Sgro (husband of Fran)
Bonny Shannon (mother of Patty Simons)
Philip Shattuck (brother of Shari Ouillette)
Russ Shields (husband of Tina)
Hardip Singh (father of Harpreet Kaur)
David Taubenfeld (husband of Felicia)
Robert Tisch
Barbara Tona (mother of Mike Tona and JoAnn Sei)
George K.Y. Tseo, PhD (husband of Hui Fu)
Eugene Vance (father of Wanda Graham)
Patricia VanDragt (mother of Kellie Wiersma)
Chris Wilcome (friend of Lisa Weinstein)
Jeff Wilcox (son of Ken and Kathy)
Dr. Lee Wiltse (father of Emily Woudenberg)
Pat Wolter (son of Connie)
Mike Wowk (father of Julie Watt)
Paul Young
Yuri (father of Marina Mandelzweig)
Richard A. Zanol, Sr. (father of Jennifer Talluto)
And this list does not include Rob, whose first cancer was a brain tumor, or other people whose caregivers or friends were not part of this listserv. My own family lost two members to cancer this year: my husband and my cousin Stuart King of Dallas.
It is too much....
Claudia
- Sunday, January 22, 2006 5:54 AM CST
When I read your entry about Cancer being a Thief it made me think of this one I had read before.
CANCER IS SO LIMITED..........
IT CANNOT CRIPPLE LOVE
IT CANNOT SHATTER HOPE
IT CANNOT CORRODE FAITH
IT CANNOT DESTROY PEACE
IT CANNOT KILL FRIENDSHIP
IT CANNOT SUPPRESS MEMORIES
IT CANNOT SILENCE COURAGE
IT CANNOT INVADE THE SOUL
IT CANNOT STEAL ETERNAL LIFE
IT CANNOT CONQUER THE SPIRIT
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Friday, January 20, 2006 5:17 PM CST
Well, Rob would expect this....in a puddle and one more story new to me and so much like both of you. Once again, thank you for so much you do for me and for so many others. So happy about our weekend together and a great day today!!! The trip home was fast and on to the doctor tomorrow. Talk to you soon...
love in abundance,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, January 16, 2006 10:01 PM CST
Just signing in to say hi and to tell you that I love hearing stories about your life with Rob. I'm glad that you are keeping those memories alive. I am enjoying getting to know Rob through your eyes. I often wonder what he'd say about the stories! Keep writing dear one, I'm listening.
Hugs, Chelle
PROUD wife of Dave
PS. Waving to Dee...hi, friend - I owe you a breve, come collect any time!
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Saturday, January 14, 2006 2:12 AM CST
Claudia: Waiting.........waiting for the "rest of the story" as Paul Harvey would say. I love reading your entries on Rob's site as well as the guestbook of others.
Heartfelt wisdom are the words that come to my mind when I read your messages. I really am looking forward to reading your entry on the event that convinced Rob that he was indeed the center of your life.
Prayers from Walla Walla, Dee
D. Wellington <hew@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Wa - Friday, January 13, 2006 11:10 AM CST
Dearest Claudia and all,
Just sending love your direction and hugs in abundance. Went to Houston for Ar Hansen's service and amazingly in very good voice. Everyone in the church complimented me and it was such a blessing to see Nanci and Terri smiling at me through their tears. "It Is Well With My Soul" kinda does that to ya and my heart was smiling with delightful memories. I'm looking forward to coming to Georgetown and going to John's Celebration and getting the pleasure of meeting the rest of their family.
Love you and see you in a few,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Sunday, January 8, 2006 7:42 PM CST
Your very own picture of Duke for when you feel lonely!
Thinking of you every day.
Love, Chelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Sunday, January 8, 2006 4:41 PM CST
If you can wear out a CD, I'm sure I'll wear out "Goodbye for Now". The words are so fitting, aren't they? I made it through another day without John. Life sucks, doesn't it? Don't know what we'd do without our kids and grandchildren. Hope you sleep well tonight and have a wonderful dream about Rob! Love, GAY
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Saturday, January 7, 2006 11:17 PM CST
Hi, Claudia! We are just back from another trip to Houston. Paul's tumors in the pelvis and spine have not changed, but he now has some nodules in his lungs. They will try a new drug. He is still struggling to adjust to life without use of his left leg. I'm ready to join with you in a fight against this monster Cancer--not only cures but causes. I'm so angry that this monster plagues so many lives and leaves such a path of destruction. Thinking about you and loving you. Sharon
Sharon and Paul Drake <spdrake@tstar.net>
Granite Shoals, TX USA - Thursday, January 5, 2006 4:41 PM CST
Claudia,
Thinking of you today.
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Thursday, January 5, 2006 12:44 AM CST
Or something close, anyway....
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, John, who died on Dave's birthday...you're right, one more is too many.
Sending hugs, Michelle
Dave Meyer's Site
MIchelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Sunday, January 1, 2006 2:35 PM CST
May the joy of the season touch your heart. Merry Christmas!
Love, Chelle
PROUD wife of Dave
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Sunday, December 25, 2005 9:38 PM CST
Hi Claudia,
Just checking in on you and the rest of my internet friends on Caringbridge. I hope you're having a good day - finding reasons to smile. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. Even though I've never met any of the people out here on CB, I think of you all often. It's a strange thing to me sometimes that I want to know how you all are doing, praying for you all, feeling connected to many of you. I don't understand why I am here other than to offer up many more prayers. Remember Jesus loves you and He is with you always.
Blessings!
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA! - Friday, December 23, 2005 9:57 AM CST
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you TODAY and EVERYDAY, and sending you my love! Gay
Gaynell Meyerholtz
Austin, TX - Thursday, December 22, 2005 1:52 PM CST
Claudia, Thinking about you and Rob at Christmas. MAG
mark gold <mag@ehedger.com>
chicago, il usa - Thursday, December 22, 2005 11:49 AM CST
The Velveteen Rabbit is a GREAT book! You inspired me to take it off my bookshelf. I will read it once again to my 5 year old grandson today after school.
Claudia, I stop by this site often(most every morning and evening). I hope it helps you to know that others do care and pray. I hope you will post a picture of your Christmas tree. Candy canes and a crystal star.....hard to visualize! Perhaps Holly will have already eaten all the candy canes. Blessings from "frosty" Walla Walla, Darlene
D Wellington <hew@charter.net>
Walla Walla, Wa - Friday, December 16, 2005 1:03 PM CST
Claudia,
I have been "getting to know the Meyers" for the last year. I have since then read many of your posts and your site as well. I've never written in your book but thought today was a good day to tell you how much I love reading your posts in Michelle's guestbook. You sound SO wise. I'm glad you're spending the holidays with lots of family around. Family is the best medicine, even if they are all like mine... crazy!! I just wanted to say hi and tell you Merry Christmas from Florida! We do the candy cane thing too - but they eat them all eventually!
Blessings!
Michelle Gentges <gentges6@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA!! - Monday, December 12, 2005 7:22 PM CST
OK, candy canes for Holly to hang on the Christmas tree it is. I have been singing "Have a Holly Jolly Christmas" and "Holly Baby" [to the tune of "Santa Baby"] to her since she was born. I am afraid -- or maybe just convinced -- that she will grow up thinking Christmas is just about HER!!
We really got a kick out of JD at the Christmas tree lots. We had to go three places to find one wide and round enough to suit him. Kimberly and I both thought of how particular Rob could be about things, and smiled to one another about how like his dad he is.
Thanks for the advice -- and it is WEIRD to write in your own guestbook...
Claudia
- Sunday, December 11, 2005 6:03 PM CST
I vote with Michelle. Let Holly help decorate the tree. When my youngest grandson was 23 months I purchased candy canes for him to hang on our family room tree. He was so proud of his accomplishment. The candy canes were all clumped together in the same area. The tree didn't fall over and I resisted the urge to rearange them! That is probably the only thing I can remember about that Christmas nearly four years ago. Claudia, I am sooooo glad to hear about your date with Santa and family and that you will have a full house for Christmas. Blessings,Darlene
Darlene Wellington
Walla Walla, Wa Walla Walla - Sunday, December 11, 2005 4:31 PM CST
My vote:
let the little one have all the unbreakable ornaments and she can place and remove to her heart's content.
Hugs, have fun!
Chelle
www.caringbridge.org/wa/davemeyer
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Saturday, December 10, 2005 5:39 PM CST
A Taurus??
LOL Very clever. Thanks for the smile!
Love to you and yours,
Chelle
www.caringbridge.org/wa/davemeyer
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Friday, December 9, 2005 11:26 PM CST
Sending you some virtual cookies!
Your passage about "witness" is very powerful, and affirms the reality for many of us. That sense of someone being there to testify, to affirm, to verify this surreal experience is very powerful.
Many hugs, my friend,
Chelle
Dave Meyer’s Website
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Thursday, December 8, 2005 10:52 PM CST
I think of you every day. Once we get through our current issues and I can get my head back on straight, we'll have to have a long talk. Andre has taken over your bed in the guest room, but we can kick him out if you'll come back and stay with us!!!!!! Love, Gay
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX 78732 - Sunday, December 4, 2005 8:43 PM CST
How are you doing?
Checking in, every day.
Love....lots of love.
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA US - Sunday, December 4, 2005 12:59 AM CST
I've checked the site a number of times without leaving a message -- oh, the guilt, the guilt!!! I'm glad you made it through Thanksgiving. Let us know if you need help dealing with the rest of this month because you are not alone in this -- too many of us have been there and care.
Rosemary Rasmussen <r-rasmussen@northwestern.edu>
- Thursday, December 1, 2005 4:51 PM CST
Just to say hello and we love you. You are always on our minds and in our hearts.
Hugs and kisses,
Shirley and Trish
Shirley Morgan <slmorgan1950@yahoo.com>
Naples, FL USA - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 12:17 AM CST
And I quoted you in my site...said the same darn thing.
It gets harder and harder in some ways.
Everyone else has gone home now, back to their lives.
We get to stay and figure out what our life is now.
No wonder we get tired.
No wonder we want to just stay in that numbness.
No wonder we want to snuggle down in bed.
No wonder we feel resentful, ripped off sometimes.
Lots to be grateful for, but still....
Sigh.
Love you.
Chelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA USA - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 0:38 AM CST
Giving thanks for you, your friendship and your support.
Praying for many blessings to come your way!
Love, Michelle
PROUD wife of Dave
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA 99362 - Thursday, November 24, 2005 2:57 PM CST
Dearest Claudia,
WOW! Sometimes I am so blind. I have been so grateful for our shared connection through the internet. Your words have often beautifully reflected the turmoil I feel inside. Your willingness to share with me, as we both find our way along this new path, learning how to live without our guys, has been a real gift.
Here's the blind part. I somehow completely missed the part of your first note where you listed Robert's site! Since hearing from you that first time, I'd often thought, I wish I could see what they look like (sidebar...we need a picture of you on here!), and tonight reading Kathie's entry in Dave's guestbook, I was floored...she DOES have a site! So I came here, and drank it in.
I was so glad to have a face for Rob...I love the picture of him with the children. You have chronicled your journey so eloquently here. There is comfort in knowing that, although our paths are unique and our feelings individual, there is a commonality, a connectedness with something bigger than just our own journey. There is hope in that. As much as your journal brings me to tears, as I have felt so many of the same things, it also instills hope. We can do this. We can make it through this. We really can.
As I read the entries signed "Claudia and Rob" tears stream down my face. Your birthday. Each milestone brings hurt, loss, misery. Each milestone brings smiles, laughter, hope, and love. It's a double-edged sword, loving so deeply.
Thank you for your willingness to share your heart with us, to share your memories of Rob, a great man, I feel like I missed much, never having known him in life. Thank you for keeping his memory alive so vibrantly, and for walking with me, each of us alone, but together, too.
Here's a song that speaks to me tonight.
Sometimes when I feel empty,
I go outside.
It's crisp.
Cold.
Dark.
My breath makes tiny clouds.
Each breath a little prayer,
sent to the sky.
Each prayer,
each thought
dissapates,
disappears
long before it reaches
God's ear.
But I look at the stars,
bright in the blackness,
I do
feel Someone...
"Stars" by Switchfoot
Maybe I've been the problem,
Maybe I'm the one to blame
But even when I turn it off and blame myself,
The outcome feels the same
I've been thinkin'
Maybe I've been partly cloudy,
Maybe I'm the chance of rain
Maybe I'm overcast, and
Maybe all my luck's washed down the drain
I've been thinking 'bout everyone,
Everyone you look so lonely
But when I look at the stars,
When I look at the stars,
When I look at the stars I see someone else
When I look at the stars,
The stars, I feel like myself
Stars lookin' at our planet
Watching entropy and pain
And maybe start to wonder how
The chaos in our lives could pass as sane
I've been thinking 'bout the meaning of resistance,
Of a hope beyond my own
And suddenly the infinite and penitent
Begin to look like home
I've been thinking 'bout everyone,
Everyone you look so empty
But when I look at the stars,
when I look at the stars,
when I look at the stars I see Someone else
When I look at the stars,
The stars, I feel like myself
Everyone, everyone you feel so lonely
Everyone, yeah everyone you feel so empty
When I look at the stars,
When I look at the stars,
When I look at the stars I feel like myself
When I look at the stars, the stars
I see Someone...
Click photo to visit Dave’s Website
Many hugs to you today, Claudia. Thank you for helping me still be able to see the stars.
Love, Michelle
Michelle Meyer <meyer1986@charter.net>
Walla Walla, WA USA - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 0:06 AM CST
Claudia it was so nice to be reading your latest entry and to see Dave Meyers name. I was linked to Roberts page from Daves a couple of monthes back. I enjoy reading the wonderful words your friends, family and even people you have never met write about you. As you well know Dave was and still is a wonderful man he shared so much with so many here in Walla Walla. Each and every student he met was left with a feeling of being a very special person. Thank you for sharing Dave's site with those who visit Roberts. You are a very special family as is the Meyers family. God Bless You All.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Monday, November 14, 2005 10:30 PM CST
Dearest Claudia,
I have a visual of snowflakes falling and looking through the window with dear friends sipping on coffee. Your note felt "good" and that the visits and closeness with friends of yours and Robs was a good thing. Like Mary Jo, I have Robs picture on my mantel and continuously tell him how much I love and miss him.
We all are so blessed and I can't thank you enough for those 8 1/2 years we all got to share with him. Thank you seems so simple and it means so much more than that when it's about you and Rob. I love you so much and and so proud to be your sister.... we will talk soon!!
hugs comin' attcha,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Thursday, November 10, 2005 9:54 PM CST
Dear Claudia,
It was wonderful to spend time with you recently. I think of you, Sandi and Ronnie out there in the beauty of Colorado with joy.
I know that some moments must be so hard, and I hope that you will never hesitate to dial my number if you want to talk. You will hear from me!
Your words on this site help all of us who mourn loved ones. Thank you.
Wishing you peace and sending love,
Susan
Susan Weller <summernow@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, November 1, 2005 7:34 PM CST
Hey Aunt Claudia,
Hope that things are well. I enjoyed our talk the other day. I know how you felt on your (our) birthday. Uncle Rob always remembered me too. I had the opportunity to spend the weekend in Nashville with King (my birthday present from Shane) and had a great time. I kept thinking about Uncle Rob and how we planned to go to Nashville together to visit King one day. I missed him and wished so much that he could have been there. I am looking forward to spending some time with you in the future. I love you!!
Emily Henson <emilyhenson23@yahoo.com>
Huntsville, TX USA - Monday, October 31, 2005 9:36 PM CST
Hi Claudia, Hope you got home OK. It was nice to see you at lunch. Connie sent me a recording of Pete. Tell her thanks and have her call me when she is in town. Thanks MAG
Mark Gold <mag@ehedger.com>
Chicago, il usa - Monday, October 31, 2005 2:32 PM CST
Dear Claudia,
James and I are friends of Chris and Cody King and learned of Stuart's recent death through them. Chris shared Nell's journal, etc. with us, which I was just reading and saw your note. I am so very sorry over your great loss. It has been so many years since we've seen each other but I have kept up with you through Chris. I knew Rob was not well but was not aware of the severity of his illness. I love what you wrote to Nell and truly believe it myself and hope that it brings you comfort as I imagine it does. When things settle down and you would like some company, I would love to drive up and see you sometime. Please know that James and I both are thinking of you and pray that your strength and courage continue to grow.
Love, Myra
Myra Ware Williamson <williamson4217@sbcglobal.net>
Austin, TX USA - Monday, October 31, 2005 11:26 AM CST
Hi, Claudia. I hope you got home safely. Don't forget you promised to share pictures of the girls in their Halloween costumes.
Rosemary Rasmussen <r-rasmussen@northwestern.edu>
- Monday, October 31, 2005 9:46 AM CST
Here's a BIG hug for you!!!!!!!! Love ya, Sharon
Sharon and Paul Drake <spdrake@tstar.net>
Granite Shoals, TX USA - Friday, October 28, 2005 9:40 AM CDT
Well, I am working on the Halloween party (25th or so year) and thinking how much I am going to miss Robbie there eating all my food!! It was great talking to you on your b'day and there is a surprise coming to you from us!! I have the picture of Rob you gave me on the nightstand by my bed and I talk to him every day...I bet heaven is very interesting with Robbie trying to beat Mammaw at "pitch" and Mom playing the happy mediator between them!! I am getting a visual...and it comforts me!! Know we love you and will see you very soon!!
Toops <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
Waxahachie, TX - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 11:51 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ---- Hope you are having a great time visiting and sharing with dear friends. I will hear from you soon, I'm sure, and you are so blessed on this special day.....I LOVE YOU!!!!
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Sunday, October 23, 2005 7:06 PM CDT
Just want you to know that you are in my thoughts! Hope you're having a much deserved, wonderful, rejuvenating visit with all your old friends. (But, your "new" friends miss you here!) Much love, Gaynell
Gaynell Meyerholtz
Austin, TX - Thursday, October 20, 2005 2:13 PM CDT
Claudia, We went to Missouri this weekend to see my neice,(my brother's oldest daughter) and her family. I found myself wanting to talk about him and my dad, of which both have passed away less than 2 years apart. I still want to go to the nursing home to see my dad and still wait for a phone call from my brother when I hear the trains go by late at night. For some reason, this past weekend, I have missed the 2 of them. Thanks for the perspective that you have given. Michele
Michele Baird <baird@ucom.net>
- Monday, October 17, 2005 5:57 PM CDT
I LOVE YOU CARRIE
Carrie <kbear60@sbcglobal.net>
Kyle, Tx USA - Thursday, October 13, 2005 11:21 PM CDT
Hi Claudia, I found your website from Dave Meyers. The one entry I just read is very interesting. I look forward to reading back through your journals. I am glad you are choosing to keep this site going. I plan to visit often.
Kathie
Walla Walla, Wa. - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 7:36 PM CDT
Hi Claudia, just wanted you to know we are thinking of you. Love, Fred, Michele and Sarah
Michele & Fred Baird <baird@ucom.net>
- Friday, September 30, 2005 3:56 PM CDT
Dearest all,
Just wanting to read notes on CaringBridge and since I'm the last one to sign on, I just thought I'd send love and blessings for all. Kitzi made her fabulous vegetable beef barley soup and I cried all the way over to have dinner with her cause that was one of Rob's "Kitzi favorites"! Anyway, I'll keep looking for love notes and will write more again.
blessings and love to all,
BJK
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Saturday, September 24, 2005 9:49 PM CDT
Dearest Claudia and all,
Just sending warm hugs to wrap you up on this Sunday afternoon. All of you are so in my thoughts and prayers and it is always so good being with you last week and so happy to spend time with the girls, Kim and JD.
I love you all so much and will see you soon again,
BJ
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Sunday, September 11, 2005 1:57 PM CDT
Dear Claudia, Just wanted to leave a note to let you know that we haven't forgotten you and your family. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you, Fred, Michele and Sarah
Fred, Michele and Sarah Baird <baird@ucom.net>
Garden City, KS USA - Friday, September 2, 2005 8:51 PM CDT
i'm so sorry to hear about rob claudia, please know that if u need anything i'm here for u.
heidi elizabeth shinn <yourbestfriendeli@yahoo.com>
arvada, co usa - Friday, September 2, 2005 7:13 PM CDT
Dear Holly and Rachel-I didnt know your grandpa but I know your Aunt BJ and your Aunt Kitzi! If they thought alot of your grandpa I know that he must have been an extrodinary man because life can sometimes give you challenges you were not expecting but how you react is what separates people from those who should be honored and celebrated and obvously your grandpa was someone who's life should be celebrated! Your Aunt BJ is someone who's life I will always celebrate because she's an extrodinary woman and since she loved and respected your grandpa so much he must have been alot like her. Like your Aunt BJ he wasnt someone who needed alot of attention but he's someone who touched peoples lives like your Aunt BJ! They didnt know how much they'd been touched until they werent there but you could still feel their great hugs, kind words, words of encouragment and know that you were a much better person for having known them!
I'm sorry that your grandpa wont be physically in your life like your grandma and mom and dad would like but dont worry I know that he's still around, loving you,watching out for you, probibly not liking all the choices you make but realizing that you need to make some good and not so good choices in your life to define the women that you'll become!
I love your Aunt BJ alot for what she's given me and for what she's allowed me to give her and your Aunt Kitzi is the same! They are Lucy and Ethel and when your older you'll have to watch re-runs of I love Luci! But because they both thought so much of your grandpa I know he was a man of conviction, faith and quality and for that you should always be proud of who you are and where you came from!
Love a dad and friend of your Aunt BJ and Aunt Kitzi's in Southern California
Chris Zeller
Chris Zeller <czeller92831@yahoo.com>
Fullerton, CA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:35 PM CDT
Sometimes it takes a while to dry out and compose oneself a bit after such a devastating loss. It is now 16 days after I learned that Uncle Rob had escaped his pain and the meddling ways of his Harem (always courageously led by Claudia). The empty crater I feel has been filling up with tears, laughter, music, the joy of watching children play, the hope of our next child coming, food, and quiet reflective moments.
To me Uncle Rob was a strong, accepting, unflinching man of character. There were millions of laughs, and bunches of funny situations and stories, but it was in the quiet times that he mattered most to me. Reading the Sunday paper together as a family, working together on a meal or a project, simply sitting and breathing--feeling safe in his arms while I was child or teenager--these are the moments that will last for me.
I think we all needed to smile and laugh for a while, remembering him at the Birthday Party, and telling our stories cross-country on the phone or here on the page. Laughter is supposed to heal, right? But the amazing part is that nearly everyone tells of his integrity, character, honesty, personal strength, and heart. If it were only funny stories and gags, he would be a clown or jokester, only 2 dimensional, and not a person worth knowing deeply. With the core he carried of love for others, he was not only a complete person to almost everyone he met, but to me he was larger than life.
I don't have the skills to evoke emotion through words that others have, so I will blatantly steal the lyrics of 2 songs and post them below. (Also, I don't carry the King gene of pitch and lost my tune-carrying bucket somewhere). The first, "Goodbye My Friend", by Linda Ronstadt, well that’s kinda where I’m at right now. And he really liked her. The second, "Kind & Generous", by Natalie Merchant is the song we danced to at my wedding. Forever I will be grateful to him, and that will last beyond any hollowness I feel now.
I had the wonderful opportunity to let him know how much he meant to me last year at my wedding. For the times I inwardly rail that he was taken too soon, I have memories of him in my life that will shape me for the rest of my life, and in turn affect my children's lives. How can it be "too soon", if his impact will be felt through us all?
"Too soon" would be if I never had the chance to love him, or more importantly, to be loved by him.
Goodbye My Friend
Oh we never know where life will take us
I know it's just a ride on the wheel
And we never know when death will shake us
And we wonder how it will feel
So goodbye my friend
I know I'll never see you again
But the time together through all the years
Will take away these tears
It's okay now
Goodbye my friend
I've seen a lot things that make me crazy
And I guess I held on to you
We could've run away and left well maybe
But it wasn't time and we both knew
So goodbye my friend
I know I'll never see you again
But the love you gave me through all the years
Will take away these tears
I'm okay now
Goodbye my friend
Life's so fragile and love's so pure
We can't hold on but we try
We watch how quickly it disappears
And we never know why
But I'm okay now
Goodbye my friend
You can go now
Goodbye my friend
Kind And Generous
La-La-La-La-La...
You've been so kind and generous, I don't know how you keep on giving
For your kindness I'm in debt to you
For your selflessness, my admiration
For everything you've done, you know I'm bound,
I'm bound to thank you for it....
La-La-La-La-La...
Hey-hey-hey-hey-hey...
You've been so kind and generous, I don't know how you keep on giving
For your kindness I'm in debt to you
And I never could have come this far without you
For everything you've done, you know I'm bound,
I'm bound to thank you for it....
La-La-La-La-La...
Oh,
I want to thank you for so many gifts you gave, with love and tenderness,
I wanna thank you
I want to thank you for your generosity,
the love and the honesty that you gave me
I want to thank you, show my gratitude, my love and my respect for you,
I wanna thank you
Oh I want to thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you,
Thank you...
Emma Kim
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 2:50 PM CDT
Dear Claudia, words cannot express my deep sorrow at learning that your precious Rob has passed away. I know that the pain runs deep but not without hope of being with him again. You are wrapped in the love and support of friends and family and we also offer our support, love and encouragement. I am sorry that I was never able to meet Rob but knowing him through you and the comments that are entered in the guestbook he was a man that looked past his limitations and pain and encouraged others and deeply loved you and his family. Prayer knows no distand nor does the love and comfort of our Heavely Father. My family and I will keep you in prayer for Gods strength to support you through the lonely hours and days of greif we all go through when a loved one passes. Nick, my grandson will keep you close in prayer as he also knows the grief of loosing his sister Tori. My love to you and your family and to the grandaughters that will be the legacy of their Grandfather. Sending you love and prayers. Bernita
Bernita Lorig <springsunshine@charter.net>
White City, Or USA - Friday, August 19, 2005 8:29 PM CDT
My dearest Claudia, King, J.D., Kim, Rachel and Holly,
Not often am I at a loss for words but this is one time. I can't even find the words to share my feelings for Rob and all of you and all of us with him. His picture is in my dictionary defining INTEGRITY!! I feel so close to him that I hardly remember meeting him. Such a vital, energetic and regal man---a hero for me. It didn't mattered what I needed, wanted or thought I deserved....he NEVER let me down!
My mind just can't wrap around not seeing and sharing with him again. What a fun guy he was even when he wasn't feeling well. I was blessed to be in Georgetown sharing with both Rob & Claudia til the end. There is lonely, missing him and waiting for him but it's the hole in my heart that is ever present now.
I talked to him and Honey today, on my way to a job interview and I nailed it!!! Stacia, the office mgr, hugged me as I was ready to leave. Rob aced angel school and has gone right to work. He's with me in spirit and I will be grateful until I'm with him again.
Claudia, you get applause and a standing ovation for being a model caregiver and a hero yourself. You never quit or let up for a minute and everything came before your needs or wants. You knew as much about him as his doctors. No wonder he only wanted you with him and the doctors shared information with you as they would a colleague. That speaks volumes about you, dear one!
I'm so proud of this family and love abounds for all,
Billie Jean
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 9:39 PM CDT
Dear Claudia, King, J.D., Kimberly, Rachel and Holly;
Rob's spirit lives on through you and through all of us whose lives he touched. He was a champion of the overlooked, a giver of strength and courage, a man of rare wit and wisdom with the heart of a lion. I am ashamed that I did not stand up and talk about how he touched my life at his memorial service. Of course, he wasn't there to push me out into the center of everything. I did, however, marvel at the sentiments expressed by those who could talk and I wanted to try to record an example of our relationship so his granddaughters will understand what a remarkable man he was.
Rob and Claudia were two of the first people outside my immediate family to come to my aid when my granddaughter was diagnosed with leukemia in March of this year. Alyssa is my only granddaughter and has, from the day of her birth, been the sunshine of my life. She has my son's dimples, my toes, my mother's eyes and an attitude all her own. I was scared, truly terrified, by the cancer diagnosis. Rob and Claudia were very matter-of-fact regarding information on sub-types, mortality rates, side effects of the chemo and, on one particular visit, Rob sat still as he and Claudia instructed me in the cleaning of his central line. Rob insisted that I was not to be afraid of cancer. Alyssa would be able to sense any hesitation on my part, he told me, and she needed positive reinforcement, gentle answers to her questions and, most of all, touching and loving. Of course, that was all the encouragement a grandma needs. I straightened right up and got busy learning about childhood leukemia, the clinical trial that she is in and what to expect after each round of chemotherapy. I also learned how to piggy back my granddaughter while pushing an IV pole. Alyssa, in typical three-year-old fashion, has learned how to steer a tricycle down the hall so as to avoid colliding with the nurse's station, and we've all learned that our time together is precious.
Rob loved the people I love, especially his Cousin Mack and our daughter, Jessica. Rob could still make Mack giggle, and could have talked him into anything - even stealing more peaches - if given an opportunity. He gave Jessica her first "real" jewelry - and it came in a blue Tiffany's box. He took her riding on his Harley and spoiled her with one of those famed Chicago trips. He was the favorite of his Aunt Helen, Mack's mom, who called him the gentlest of souls, and he was my favorite too. I will miss his humor, his strength, his love of life and the occasional reality-check he gave me.
Claudia, thank you for sharing Rob with us and for taking such good care of him that we were all able to enjoy his company for the "bonus" nine years. Remember that you always have an invitation to visit your country cousins. We love you.
Becky McAngus <scribe@sonoratx.net>
Sonora, TX - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 9:55 AM CDT
MY DEAR CLAUDIA,,I TOO WILL MISS ROBERT,,,ESP..HIS RED
SOCKS...I USUALLY STAYED LATE WORKING IN THE CLINIC..AND I HAD MANY EVENINGS SPENT WITH BOTH OF YOU..AND TIME PASSED SO SMOOTHLY, BECAUSE OF THE HUMOR AND LAUGHS WE SHARED..
I WILL MISS YOU TOO CLAUDIA..STAY IN TOUCH WHEN YOU ARE READY..WE WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU..ALL YOU HAVE TO DO CALL..GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...ROBERT WAS ALWAYS AT PEACE..NOW HE IS RESTING WITHOUT ANY DISCOMFORT OR AGONY...IT IS US WHO WILL GRIEVE...BUT CLAUDIA, MY FRIEND YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN..ROBERT WOULD NOT HAVE MANAGED WITHOUT YOU..ROBERT KNOWS THAT YOU WILL COPE AND HE WILL ALWAYS PROVIDE COMFORT TO YOUR HEART..BECAUSE HE IS THERE AND WILL NEVER LEAVE..CLAUDIA YOU WILL KNOW WHEN ITS TIME TO MAKE CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE..JUST TAKE YOUR TIME. WE LOVE YOU..TALK TO YOU LATER
DREWANN ENCINAS, RN BMT CLINIC <DrewannRN@aol.com>
CONVERSE, TX BEXAR - Monday, August 15, 2005 1:38 PM CDT
Claudia, you know how special Rob was to all of us. I guess
heaven needed a little "trouble" and Sammy wasn't getting the job done by himself and he needed an old pro like Rob. I will never be able to look at the color red again and not think of Rob. He is missed by all of us. Love Charlotte.
Charlotte Stambaugh <rstamb@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 14, 2005 5:52 PM CDT
Dearest Claudia,
My heart and love goes out to you. Sweet, wonderful, crazy Rob! We will all miss him and his infectious zest for life. Rob was one of the few people I've ever known who made me smile involuntarily when I thought of him. He still does.
Love, Linda Nichols
Linda Nichols <lan_45@yahoo.com>
Dallas, Tx USA - Saturday, August 13, 2005 12:01 AM CDT
Claudia:
I am so very sorry to hear of Rob's passing. Your moving tribute to him simply underscores that he will live on in the memories of those who love him.
All of your friends at Northwestern send their heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Tom Cline <t-cline@northwestern.edu>
Evanston, IL USA - Friday, August 12, 2005 10:50 AM CDT
Claudia
I too love the photo of Rob he looks so handsome and content. The short time I knew him I enjoyed his sense of humor and determination, oh his red socks! May he rest peacefully now in Heaven. God bless you Claudia.
cindy willis
Austin, TX - Thursday, August 11, 2005 10:29 PM CDT
I love this picture of Rob. He looks so happy. Your message is so beautiful, Claudia. I can hear your voice saying the words. Wish we could be in Wax to celebrate Rob's life with you, but we'll be in the hospital trying to save John's! We will certainly miss Rob. We only knew him for 10 months, but boy, was he worth knowing, even for such a short time. Love to you, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz
Austin, TX - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:44 PM CDT
Claudia,
I just now managed to get to this link today. Your writing is so powerful. He was a superb fighter. Some things we just don't understand, but some day we will.
Much love,
Mary Wood
Mary Wood
Austin, TX USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 5:24 PM CDT
we will never forget you Rob. And you owe me a dance the next time I see you. We will watch over Claudia for you and take care of her. Thank you for being part of our life this last year we love you. Carrie and Kerry
Carrie and Kerry <kbear60@sbcglobal.net>
Kyle, Tx USA - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 7:56 PM CDT
Oh my.......Claudia, this is such sad news. My heart goes out to you and yours. I have visited this site periodically and have marveled at how strong Rob was throughout the process, perhaps God's need for him became stronger than his body. I am thinking of you.
Maria Esteves <Maria@newinstruction.com>
Roseland, NJ USA - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 1:47 PM CDT
Claudia.....my deepest condolences on the passing of Rob. And yet, I can understand your 'relief' in not seeing him suffer any longer; Lynn, my beloved, was in a coma for 4 1/2 years before she died.
We didn't have any children, and consequently -- no grand children. You have your kids and grandkids to see you through, hon. And you'll find yourself seeing Rob in them -- you'll see. His influence and character will start becoming more and more evident as they grow up.
...and you never really lose someone, hon. His spirit is now free, and he is as close to you as ever -- even more so now that he is not trapped by illness. Love never dies. Our bodies die and turn to dust.......but the love we have never dies. God is love -- and God is forever.
God bless and keep you, hon! Anytime you want to chat, I'm here for you.
John Donlan <johnd@newinstruction.com>
Upper Montclair, NJ USA - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 1:44 PM CDT
Hi, Rob,
I'm sorry to hear that you're having to spend a day in the hospital, but if I know you, you'll be back home quickly! I talked to your wonderful wife today and she invited us to your birthday. Can't come this year, but how about next year or the year after? Remember Claudia's joke (it was probably yours too) about the pony? Well, I'm about ready for you to find the pony in all of this. Take good care, Rob, with love from the Wellers
Susan Weller <summernow@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 29, 2005 7:52 PM CDT
Sorry I haven't called. I've been running "Camp Grandma" and am exhausted and just fall into bed!(When does school start back?) Boy, it sounds like things are going so much better. Of course, anything beats those midnight runs to SA. We were there Monday. I am so sick of making that trip! Seems like we're just getting used to being home and "somewhat normal" and then we have to go back to SA and are thrown into "clinic mode". Ick! Take care, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 10:03 PM CDT
Rob and Claudia....has been way too long since I have written in this guestbook. Am so glad to hear of improvements....hope they have continued. Bob and I do think of you and so wish we could be there to give you both some Big Hugs!!!! Becky
Becky McLennan <BeckMcL@aol.com>
- Monday, July 25, 2005 3:41 PM CDT
So glad you had a good week. Hopefully, all is still going well and you are both getting some well-deserved rest. MDAnderson found a new spot on Paul's pelvis last week and have scheduled an embolization and radio frequency ablation. To put it simply, they plan to "zap" the tumor. Thank goodness Rob and Paul are real fighters! Love ya, Sharon
Sharon and Paul Drake <spdrake@tstar.net>
Granite Shoals, TX u - Saturday, July 23, 2005 5:43 PM CDT
Hi Texans, Just wanted you to know i was thinking about you. I will forward you a good hillbilly joke i think you will like. It came to me from another Texan, so you should like it. MAG
Mark Gold <mag@ehedger.com>
chicago, il usa - Thursday, July 21, 2005 11:49 AM CDT
well, it's been a helluva day!! i lost a contract on a $480,000 medical building and a $450,000 retail store in less than 24 hours!! i told randy i was quitting real estate and going to work for whataburger!! anyway, that was this morning and i think i have the medical building back on track and the retail store is considering another proposal...the life of a realtor!! i talked to sharla peterson from austin and she says she went to school with you here in waxahachie...gave her your cell number...i hope she called!! randy is ready for saturday...hope we see you here!! we are so glad rob is doing better...know we love you both more than anything...hugs, sweeties...
toops
mary jo blaine <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
waxahachie, tx - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 4:13 PM CDT
OK - OK .... how silly of me to think that my wonderful and peaceful visit could have possibly helped the headache and nausea ;-) --- but hey, morphine gets a standing ovation if it can keep the headaches and nausea away and helping Rob so much! YEE HAW!!!!! Can't wait for the celebration ---lots of fun with all and for all....
Love ya both more'n my luggage:-)
abundant blessings,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Sunday, July 17, 2005 3:18 PM CDT
Well, you've finally got something I know about - headaches! I remember my mother being in the hospital with them when I was a kid. My sister's life has been altered by them and has had a pump installed in her body to deliver medication directly to her brain. She couldn't even go to her own daughter's wedding, much less mine, because of this condition. I'm also very good with the nearly deaf. I have to talk so loud at home that when I'm away everyone looks at me like I'm mentally maladjusted for speaking loud enough that I'm heard throughout the building. So, if you need any help just give me a buzz and I'll be there. I have a new procedure for making mashed potatoes that I want to try out. Love and kisses to both of you.
Trophy
Dr. and Mrs. John D. King <jgoing46@aol.com>
Coalgate, OK - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 4:41 AM CDT
We missed you in SA today, but were SO GLAD you didn't have to be there. Hope you're enjoying your days at home. It was a zoo at the clinic today-people stacked on top of each other. It took forever, as Dr. L. was filming in the hall with camera crews from all 3 networks. They were doing a piece on stem cell transplants and they had a lady who had a successful transplant there along with her donor. We waited forever in the "cave" for our TV star doctor. I asked for an autographed pic, but he didn't seem to have any! Hope Rob is headache-free. Maybe we can meet for dinner before you head back to San. Lots of love to you both, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Monday, July 11, 2005 10:23 PM CDT
Claudia and Rob
I saw you both oh so briefly Friday morning at the clinic I thought we would get caught up that day but you flew the coop (clinic) before I could talk with you. Bill is not feeling so well these days as you can well imagine and he does not walk so great either. All from the steriods as you first hand know.
When there is a party put Bill and I on the list we would love to help celebrate Rob's birthday whatever age it will be. God bless and hang in there.
Cindy
Cindy Willis <cindykwil;@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Saturday, July 9, 2005 9:11 PM CDT
I personally think there are squeals and standing ovations about the chance to be with both of you and it wouldn't matter when but why not a birthday---you can count me in, for sure, and I might have to call Stein's and I won't go any further from there. It would be such a blast!!! And probably plasticware and throwaway stuff so dishes are not an option either!!! Makes me smile over here;-) Love you both and will talk soon.
bjk
BIllie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 11:09 AM CDT
We're looking forward to the birthday bash and all the visiting (and cooking and eating) that will ensue. Just tell me where and when and what I can bring and I'll pack up that desperado of mine and point him east. We love you both and wouldn't dream of missing an opportunity to celebrate Rob's birthday with the rest of his "groupies."
Becky & Mack & Jessica
Sonora, TX - Monday, June 27, 2005 8:52 AM CDT
A VIBRATING bed? You kinky kids. So glad you're managing to stay away from SA!!!!! Did you say PARTY???? Okay, we're in for sure and can't imagine anything better than celebrating Rob's 62nd birthday. We'll be at the clinic on Monday, but hope we DON'T see you, as it will mean you're home in George!!!!! Love, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Friday, June 24, 2005 8:07 AM CDT
well, i am on "floor" at coldwell banker (we sometimes call this "opportunity time") and the phone has rung three times since 8:30 am (it's now 10:30)...oh well!! time for me to catch up on what's going on with y'all...and yes, the blaines are up for a party in august...just let us know when and time and we are in!! tell me what you want me to make and i will do that also!! hugs to you both and i will see you soon...(monday, perhaps??)!! mjb
mary jo blaine <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
waxahachie, tx - Saturday, June 18, 2005 10:17 AM CDT
Hey there, Rob & Claudia--nothing newsworthy here to report. But Jerry sure has been keeping us busy! Of course, being the true brain tumor person that I am, can't remember any of it. Jerry had a medical course last weekend and it was on pain. The treatment thereof, etc. He was telling me that the last speaker, a person about his age (Jerry's), gave him such a great slant on suffering. That suffering is not so much about the physical side of pain but there is an emotional part, too. I know you are experiencing this yourselves. Again, we had a most wonderful time visiting with you in Georgetown and as far as I know, we will be with you on Aug. 12 this year to help Rob celebrate his birthday. Much love in Him <>I whatever.....Jodi
Jo Anne Hill <dudahill@sbcglobal.net>
Lubbock, TX USA - Friday, June 17, 2005 6:10 PM CDT
Hello Rob & Claudia!! Boy, there's nothing like being able to be HOME, and sleeping in your own bed!!!! So happy your eyes are better, Rob!!Get some good rest! B.J. & I saw a great movie last night...CINDERELLA MAN.....true story, and so well acted by Renee Z. and Russell Crowe, so I hope ya'all can go SEE it soon!We're going to(movie) Mr.&Mrs. Smith today.Bye for now......Love & Hugs, Kitzi
Pat (Kitzi) Kitzmiller <pkitzi7@aol.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 2:30 PM CDT
Rob and Claudia
What a thrill to go home! I am so happy to read you are in Georgetown! May your stay be long,uneventful and quiet in the true Georgetown spirit! Bill and I will also be in San Antonio Tuesday, so be on the lookout for us. We need to get caught up on the travails of BMT life for us all.
Cindy
Cindy Willis <cindykwil@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Sunday, June 12, 2005 5:54 PM CDT
Well, it's just be and I'm sitting on GO as soon as I know how y'all are doing and where you are. I second Gaynell motion --- Let's hear it for Steroids!!! YeeHaw!!! As for now and forever, I just want wellness and peace of mind and heart for both of you. Lovin' ya from afar and from not quite so far when both of you want company. HUGE hugs from here and lovin' ya more and more.....
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Friday, June 10, 2005 11:32 AM CDT
It was so good to hear YOUR voice yesterday Claudia and hear that 24 hours had made such a difference. Seeing Rob at the clinic on Monday, we were really concerned and hated to see him feeling so bad, but HOORAY for steroids! Now we just need to get you two home for a while. Hope we DON'T see you in SA next week, cause it'll mean you're in George and feeling good! Love, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 2:07 PM CDT
Hi Rob and Claudia!!! We made it all the way back from Georgetown yesterday, all 357 miles! Anyway, did you and Rob have to go to the hospital yesterday? I just hope they could treat his eye problem and his fatigue with something. He was so good to stroke my arm and hold my hand after listening to Jerry plant those seeds. I really do love, love, love my brother. But you know what--I finished reading the "Five people you will meet in Heaven" and loved the part where it said that life may end, but love goes on forever! There were several good comments in the book, but that one is staying in my mind. Thanks Rob, for being such a great host when I know you were'nt up to it. However, the meals with you and Baskin-Robbins, the pictures we took were so great. I appreciate them so much. It's hard to believe that we were there less than 48 hours--sure did go by fast. I love you, too, Claudia. The way you have taken care of my Rob is something to behold, but then you have always been a compassionate, headstrong woman who loves Rob more than anything in this world. If you can, sometimes when he is up, please hug each other for all of us--know that we love you. We were so impressed with J.D. and Kim--the way they parent those precious girls and help around the house. It is obvious that they not only like each other but love each other as well. I do love each of you---<>)) That's supposed to be a Christian fish sign, but it's my first one. Anyway, love to both of you from the Hills.
Jo Anne Hill <dudahill@sbcglobal.net>
Lubbock, TX USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 2:14 PM CDT
Claudia and Rob
You both have been in my prayers and thoughts these past weeks. I have been swept up with end of school year business and have not seen you both. I watched for Claudia this past Tuesday when Bill and I were at the clinic but no sightings of you. Gaynell gave me a brief update on Rob but I had to read the web journal to get the full update. Hang in there Rob and Claudia, we are pulling for you!
Cindy Willis <cindykwil@aol.com>
Asutin, TX - Thursday, June 2, 2005 10:23 AM CDT
Since laughter is the best medicine, and you've been spending a lot of time at the ophthalmologist lately, I deciced to post this from Jokes.com....
A guy goes to his eye doctor for an examination. They start talking as the doctor is examing his eyes. In the middle of their conversation, the doctor casually says, "You need to stop masturbating."
The guy replies, "Why Doc? Am I going blind?"
The doctor says, "No, but you're upsetting the other patients in the waiting room."
Tee, hee. By the way, you need to talk with Dr. Hollsten about patient confidentiality. Tee, hee, hee.
Love you, Uncle Rob
Emma
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 0:33 AM CDT
OK -- Now it's my turn:-) I have the honor of icing Emma and Mary Jo's "cake" and they are both right!! There is more love going around for you that can't even be measured but you and Claudia can just hold on to each other and lap it up!!! AND, I'm fixin' to go out on a HUGE limb when I commit (the operative word here;-) to doing the dishes when we can get together back in Georgetown. I know, I know -- it makes me nervous too but that might give you a hint how we all are pulling and praying for y'all to return home. My cup still runneth over for both of you and look so forward to seeing y'all....
I've missed you and love you SO much!
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Friday, May 27, 2005 4:11 PM CDT
Well, aren't Trish and I the lucky ones getting to see you when you were home in Georgetown! What a beautiful place you have there. We loved being with you both if only for a few hours and of course, the Texas barbecue was excellent. Having driven 1,500 miles in the great State of Texas in about 10 days, we are happy to be home albeit in the not-quite-as-great State of Florida!
Love to you both.
Shirley
Shirley <slmorgan1950@yahoo.com>
Naples, FL - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:53 AM CDT
okay, i guess i can put it just like this...emma's sentiments are mine, too and she put them so eloquently!! i love you too, robbie, and can't wait to get you home and i will do the cooking (we'll leave the dishes for b.j.)!! :-)
hugs to you both...
Toops aka "Ring Tail" <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
Waxahachie, TX ` - Thursday, May 26, 2005 4:46 PM CDT
Ok, seems like the entries are slacking off a bit, so I'll jump in with my 2 cents now that everyone is out of words.
I love you Uncle Rob. You are cantankerous, honest, dependable, rude, jovial, intelligent and despite the gruff exterior, quite the pushover for cute nieces (I know I'm not the only one). I'm looking forward to more crass jokes, wonderful meals and time together whenever you take your road trip or maybe even if I can sneak down there for a quick visit. Keep pluggin' away, 'cause I'm not done loving you yet.
From what I can see here, no one is.
Emma
Chicago, IL USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 3:39 PM CDT
Well Hello to the two of you and so happy you are at home in the piece and quiet -- taking care of one another. The update was great and thanks for all the laymans terms...that guys like me can comprehend ;-) Hope you have a restful Memorial Day this weekend and when you are rested up---I might have to come down and stir something up!!! Of course, NOT involving cooking--TEE HEE cause then I might have to do the dishes and we all know about me and dishes. Love pouring all over y'all,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, May 23, 2005 4:20 PM CDT
Claudia and Rob, It has been too long since I wrote to the two of you. I have kept up with the journey, and admire the two of you for all the knowledge that you have and the caring and the strength the two of you share. You are in my prayers. I wish I knew some good jokes like the others have sent you, but usually I know the opening line, and the punch line, but darned if I know what happens in the middle. Love to the two of you and your family.
Susie
Sue Light <sulite@aol.com>
Corpus Christi, TX USA - Friday, May 20, 2005 9:40 PM CDT
Hey, Robbie and Claudia,
It was great to see you in March in San Antonio! What a treat to have time together.
We've just finished the semester here and are getting ready for a new crop of students to come in 3 weeks. It never ends.
I'm glad to see from the webpage that Robbie is still feeling good. Huseyin and I are pulling for him to be 100%. Love you and think of you often.
Ruth
Ruth Yontz <yontz@uiuc.edu>
Champaign, IL U.S. - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 12:45 AM CDT
The college girl is home and chaos reigns! However, when you decide to jump on I-10 and head west, you can rest assured stimulating conversation, a warm bed and a big pot of beans are waiting here for you. Mack may even have some cold beer and a Dominican cigar. We have been so caught up in our concern over Alyssa (and my need to hold her and see her)that we often don't look up for weeks at a time. Mack and Jessica have been taking care of each other while I make my every other weekend trip to Ft. Worth. We are looking forward to some lake time, (where we will be this weekend), and hope to be able to take you guys catfishing with us before the weather gets too hot. Then again, we could always fish at night. Jessica says she loves Robbie to the moon and stars and back. We do too.
Becky & Mack <scribe@sonoratx.net>
Sonora, TX - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:27 AM CDT
Well, Hello you two!! Heard the meeting went well yesterday and I plan on seeing y'all next week. Got all the stuff done in Houston and at the lake and today I was in a vegetable state ;-)!!! I wanna come to Georgetown soon as I also have some stuff for Rachel, Holly and Kim. Will keep in touch and love for always,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Thursday, May 12, 2005 7:28 PM CDT
Really enjoyed our dinner, "group therapy" and "slumber party" with you last night! Your friendship has certainly made the whole San Antonio experience more bearable! Hopefully, we'll see you in Georgetown this weekend or else back in SA on Tuesday. Love, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 7:21 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day to Claudia! So glad to know you were in Georgetown for the happy day. You are always in my prayers couple times a day and I will pray that the bone marrow results will be good news. We may see you in San Antonio this Tuesday.
Cindy Willis <cindykwil@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:41 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day to all our friends out there who are mothers, grandmothers and great-grandmothers. And a very Happy Birthday to Jerry Goins King from all the King women!!
Hope it is a good day for all today. Love,
Rob and Claudia
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:10 PM CDT
Just let me know if you need a break from each other and I can be there within a day. I know that each time I've had health problems I get rather "testy" with everyone. Now I just issue blanket apologies when I'm admitted and that seems to work rather well.
My only niece is expection a baby boy (her first) in July. I'm thinking about starting negotiations with JD & Kim about an arranged marriage for him and Holly. My niece is also named Holly, so that must be a sign.
Love to you both,
Jerry & Doc King
Mr & Mrs John D. King <jgoins46@aol.com>
Coalgate, OK - Friday, May 6, 2005 11:56 AM CDT
Just letting you know we're checking in. I'm heading to Ft. Worth for the weekend and carrying the Duoderm you sent to discuss with Alyssa's doctors. I also have my list of questions, so we'll have some first-hand knowledge of the science involved in her care. Thank you for being our cheerleaders and resource people. Mack and I love you guys.
Becky McAngus
Sonora, TX - Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:17 AM CDT
well, all i can say is "thank god it's friday"...however, when you're a realtor, days of the week don't much matter!! we are so proud of your improvements and all of us look forward to everybodys postings on the guestbook...
(and the jokes are great)!! hugs to you both...give the other georgetown williams a great big hug from us!!
bob, mj, mike and randy
mary jo blaine <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
waxahachie, tx usa - Friday, April 29, 2005 11:07 AM CDT
Overheard on the playground this morning:
Why are slender people so slow?
Because they don't eat fast food!
Gotta run, my cup runneth over, and that means a lot of clean-up!
Emma (Red)
Chicago, IL USA Baby! - Friday, April 29, 2005 8:27 AM CDT
Hello Claudia and Robert,
Today Bill and I went to San Antonio for a clinic visit, we did not see any of our old buddies. I'll take that as a good sign everyone is well enough to be at home. We cleared out our apartment and turned in our keys. I have this funny sketch to share with you and hope it brings a chuckle.
If Bud Abbott and Lou Costello were alive today, their famous sketch, "Who's on first?" might have turned out something like this:
COSTELLO CALLS TO BUY A COMPUTER FROM ABBOTT
ABBOTT: Super Duper computer store. Can I help you?
COSTELLO: Thanks. I'm setting up an office in my den and I'm thinking about buying a computer.
ABBOTT: Mac?
COSTELLO: No, the name's Lou.
ABBOTT: Your computer?
COSTELLO: I don't own a computer. I want to buy one.
ABBOTT: Mac?
COSTELLO: I told you, my name's Lou.
ABBOTT: What about Windows?
COSTELLO: Why? Will it get stuffy in here?
ABBOTT: Do you want a computer with Windows?
COSTELLO: I don't know. What will! I see when I look at the windows?
ABBOTT: Wallpaper.
COSTELLO: Never mind the windows. I need a computer and software.
ABBOTT: Software for Windows?
COSTELLO: No. On the computer! I need something I can use to write proposals, track expenses and run my business. What do you have?
ABBOTT: Office.
COSTELLO: Yeah, for my office. Can you recommend anything?
ABBOTT: I just did.
COSTELLO: You just did what?
ABBOTT: Recommend something.
COSTELLO: You recommended something?
ABBOTT: Yes.
COSTELLO: For my office?
ABBOTT: Yes.
COSTELLO: OK, what did you recommend for my office?
ABBOTT: Office.
COSTELLO: Yes, for my office!
ABBOTT: I recommend Office with Windows.
COSTELLO: I already have an office with windows! OK, let's just say I'm
sitting at my computer and I want to type a proposal. What do I need?
ABBOTT: Word.
COSTELLO: What word?
ABBOTT: Word in Office.
COSTELLO: The only word in office is office.
ABBOTT: The Word in Office for Windows.
COSTELLO: Which word in office for windows?
ABBOTT: The Word you get when you click the blue "W".
COSTELLO: I'm going to click your blue "w" if you don't start with some
straight answers. OK, forget that. Can I watch movies on the Internet?
ABBOTT: Yes, you want Real One.
COSTELLO: Maybe a real one, maybe a cartoon. What I watch is none of your business. Just tell me what I need!
ABBOTT: Real One.
COSTELLO: If it's a long movie, I also want to watch reels 2, 3 and 4. Can I
watch them?
ABBOTT: Of course.
COSTELLO: Great! With what?
ABBOTT: Real One.
COSTELLO: OK, I'm at my computer and I want to watch a movie. What do I do?
ABBOTT: You click the blue "1".
COSTELLO: I click the blue one what?
ABBOTT: The blue "1".
COSTELLO: Is that different from the blue w?
ABBOTT: The blue "1" is Real One and the blue "W" is
Word.
COSTELLO: What word?
ABBOTT: The Word in Office for Windows.
COSTELLO: But there are three words in "office for windows"!
ABBOTT: No, just one. But it's the most popular Word in the world.
COSTELLO: It is?
ABBOTT: Yes, but to be fair, there aren't many other Words left. It pretty
much wiped out all the other words out there.
COSTELLO: And that word is real one?
ABBOTT: Real One has nothing to do with Word. Real One isn't even part of office.
COSTELLO: STOP! Don't start that again. What about financial bookkeeping? You have anything I can track my money with?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: That's right. What do you have?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: I need money to track my money?
ABBOTT: It comes bundled with your computer.
COSTELLO: What's bundled with my computer?
ABBOTT: Money.
COSTELLO: Money comes with my computer?
ABBOTT: Yes. No extra charge.
COSTELLO: I get a bundle of money with computer? How much?
ABBOTT: One copy.
COSTELLO: Isn't it illegal to copy money?
ABBOTT: Microsoft gave us a license to copy Money.
COSTELLO: They can give you a license to copy money?
ABBOTT: Why not? THEY OWN IT!
(A few days later)
ABBOTT: Super Duper computer store. Can I help you?
COSTELLO: How do I turn my computer off?
ABBOTT: Click on "START"...
Cindy Willis <cindykwil@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 9:29 PM CDT
Got a joke for you and was sent to me as the best short joke of the year ;-) A little boy is sitting in his bathtub and as he was holding his testicles he said, "Mommie, are these my brains?" And she softly answered, "Not yet!!!" tee hee
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:00 AM CDT
Rob, I think you thought up that Vaseline treatment yourself. God knows what else you were thinking of! More seriously, I'm so glad to read that you're improving. I just returned from Chicago (professional meeting)and what more obvious place to spend a lot of time thinking about two of my favorite people. I send lots of love, good wishes and prayers your way.
Linda Nichols
Linda Nichols <lan_45@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 10:07 PM CDT
Hello there Rob & Claudia,
Kitzi here and big hugs and hellos to all. Rob, you were thought of all afternoon. BJ and I treated ourselves to Drew Barrymore's movie, FEVER PITCH!! You know it's about the RedSox (not to be confused with socks) and you & Claudia must go see it --- great story and so comedic. We went shopping after that and then ate some great barbeque. So, adding barbeque to the day and more thoughts of you over those saory ribs...I had to send you both a note and hope your weekend was healing and restful.
Tomorrow, we will be thinking of you, Claudia as we meet with Susan Markantell (sp) and Brian Jones about what all needs to be done to my lakehouse---YIKES$$$$
And on we go;-)
Love,
Kitzi
Pat Kitzmiller <pkitzi7@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Saturday, April 23, 2005 9:25 PM CDT
Rob's sister Margo just sent this by e-mail and it is too funny not to share:
Toward the end of his sermon, the Preacher said pleadingly, "Dear Lord," he began with arms extended and an introspective look on his upturned face, "without you we are but dust..."
He would have continued, but at that moment one very obedient little girl (who was, for a change, listening carefully) leaned over to her mother and asked quite audibly in her shrill little girl voice,
"Mommy, WHAT is butt dust?"
The service was pretty much over at that point...
We are doing better in SA and hope you will all have a wonderful, relaxing weekend.
Love, Rob and Claudia
- Friday, April 22, 2005 8:30 AM CDT
Years ago, a crazy blonde Texan blew into my life! Billie Jean and her beloved partner in crime, Kitzi touched my life and won my heart...instantly..They saved my dignity and my sanity one 'dark' night in San Antonio..and I've loved them for all these many years. I've come to know Rob & his family through 'the girls'. As I read the messages in this guestbook, it's clear that you have the dearest, bestest and lovingist family and friends ever....they're all just a little crazy and thank goodness for that!!
Love to you.........Elizabeth Hardcastle(an ol'Sweet Adeline from Illinois)
Elizabeth Hardcastle
Oakley, Illinois USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 4:14 AM CDT
I think the real gift is that Rob, Jo Ann and I have found a peace between us that I would have not imagined. I also finally feel some sort of acceptance for those "crazy" ideas I have about healing, and dearly love the antiSHRUB (aka Bush) sentiments that abound in this family. The satellite sister is back in Texas, and its all good.
You, however, have never been priviledged to witness the verbal tennis that Rob and I play - definately not for prime time, and Claudia spends most of the time thinking we both need to learn how to behave (not likely).
For all of you who head Rob's way, since he's barefoot (but proudly flashing his new red underwear) rub those toes for luck - I left the massage oil on the table. He managed to keep Claudia in spite of our wicked ways all these years, so he's got to be one of the luckiest men on the planet.
Margo <paintopeace@yahoo.com>
Richmond, TX 77469 - Thursday, April 21, 2005 6:28 PM CDT
SO GLAD to hear Rob's eye is better! That's great news. Hope you enjoy your "break" in George-you deserve it. I'm sure the nurses will spoil Rob like crazy while you're gone! Love, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 5:26 PM CDT
OK, it's me again and at the end of Dr. Phil today they were asking for bone marrow donors for the City of Hope Hospital in LA. There is such a shortage of donors and it truly IS the gift of life and so many people search for a donor and to no avail. Margo, countless of us thank you for your "gift" to Rob and to us and what about your email being "thegiftsis" --- ugly has no part in doing something so beautiful & significant for Rob and for all us that love him and love you for loving him.
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Thursday, April 21, 2005 4:01 PM CDT
Who'd a thunk it -- Saran Wrap and Vaseline!!!! At least that is something I can understand and not the GVSH (or whatever the letters are;-) which are big guns fighting the samyrai warriors -- and no spellcheck on this guestbook!!! Love ya more'n my luggage, Robbie and I hope to see you soon. So happy as we all are that you just keep on keepin' on. My imagination is going wild about various applications of Saran and Vaseline so I think I will close for now....lovin' ya more and more
blessings each day,
bjk
Billie Jean King <kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Thursday, April 21, 2005 3:28 PM CDT
"I can clearly see your nuts," said the doctor to the patient wrapped in Saran Wrap. (Medical humor and Saran Wrap are two of my favorite things. I'm working on the Vaseline angle as I write.)Sorry we didn't have more time to visit the other night. I was in the middle of cleaning a bunch of asparagus, and it takes two hands for that particular job. I could, however, hear Mack chuckling with you out on the patio and I can only imagine what you two were discussing. Or plotting. Thank you for reminding him that it's okay for a big tough guy to have an occasional giggle.
Love and Hugs from both of us,
Becky & Mack
Sonora, TX - Thursday, April 21, 2005 11:30 AM CDT
Okay, we leave San Antonio for a few days and all hell breaks loose! Wish I were there (wll no, not really!) for some moral support-know that even though we "escaped" for a few days, you are definitely in our thoughts. You'll love this Claudia----I went to my primary care physician today (just to make sure I'm going to hold up) and when the nurse asked me to step on the scale, I said, "I'd rather not, as I've got 'caregiver's butt'". Well, apparently, those nurses tell the Dr. everything, and she came in laughing with, "caregiver's butt? I don't think we covered that in medical school!" Hang in there-remember, we sailed thru 141 days after Transplant 1 with "you couldn't be doing any better", and look where that got us!!!!!! It didn't mean piddly squat, so let's look at this as yet one more worrisome problem that you will rise above. We're getting pretty used to life back in Austin, and thinking of maybe just calling Le Maistre and saying, "we're done! John's fine-no more leukemia. Thanks for everything!" Hope everyday finds Rob's eye improving. We'll see you in a few days, and oh, yes, I got my haircut yesterday and I feel so much better!!!!!! Love, Gaynell and John
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 7:59 PM CDT
We understand your joy in the simple things of life. Would love to have you two join us in the swing under the old oak tree for a cup of coffee. Our love and prayers continue. Sharon
Sharon and Paul Drake <spdrake@tstar.net>
Granite Shoals, TX - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 4:56 PM CDT
well, your family in waxahachie thinks you need to take your journal entries and mold them into a book. you write so eloquently and explain things so that even a medical ignoramus (no names, please) could understand what is going on...this book could prove to help so many others in similar situations!! just a thought...(bob thought of this...)!!
we love you both and want to hear from you soon...we love the journal which allows communication without physically communicating...(does any of this make sense...don't answer)!! hugs...mjb
mary jo, bob, randy and mike <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
waxahachie, tx - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:37 AM CDT
Rob and Claudia
I have found a great joke I think you both will enjoy;
A male patient is lying in bed in the hospital, wearing an Oxygen mask over his mouth and nose, still heavily sedated from a difficult,four-hour, surgical procedure. A young, student nurse appears to give him a partial sponge bath.
"Nurse", he mumbles, from behind the mask. "Are my testicles black?" Embarrassed, the young nurse replies, "I don't know, Sir. I'm Only here to wash your upper body and feet." He struggles to ask again, "Nurse, are my testicles black?" Concerned that he may elevate his vital signs from worry about his testicles, she overcomes her embarrassment and sheepishly pulls back the covers.
She raises his gown, holds his penis in one hand and his Testicles in the other. Then, she takes a close look and says,"There's nothing wrong with them, Sir"
The man pulls off his oxygen mask, smiles at her and says very slowly, "Thank you very much. That was wonderful, but, listen very, very closely......
A r e - m y - t e s t - r e s u l t s - b a c k?
Hope this joke brings a laugh to you and I'll see you soon at the clinic
Cindy Willis <cindykwil@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 10:02 PM CDT
Hello there you two --- just here catching up and reading up and sending hugs to both of you as you're more than likely getting ready for a "Holly-bration"!!! How could it have been a year already? The older you get the faster time goes and I just hate it when that happens. Once you can vote and buy a beer -- YOU'RE 40!!! Not goin' any further than that but hope y'all are fab and look forward to hearing from you soon.
biggest blessings,
bjk
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 12:52 AM CDT
Hello to Rob and Claudia,
It seems like forever since I have seen you both. I am so happy to hear that Rob is doing so well. I want you both to know that I keep your family in my prayers. I would also like to thank everyone who has kept our friend Sheila (the one my mother, Shirley spoke of) in your prayers. It is so wonderful to see what God can do when we all come together and pray for one another. God bless and keep you all safe. Love and Prayers, Dana.
Dana Hamilton (Morgan) <dhamilton@ralaw.com>
Naples, FL United States - Monday, April 11, 2005 6:59 AM CDT
i'm with you...i adore king and j.d., too!! your children have always been my children, and with the two men i have added to this menagerie, we could be outnumbered!! but they had best remember that we are "king" women...and had better watch out!! i wished j.d. a happy birthday and have something working for miss holly...will keep you posted!! hugs to you and yours...i love you and robbie with all my heart and will "talk" soon...mjb
mary jo blaine <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
waxahachie, tx usa - Saturday, April 9, 2005 1:11 PM CDT
I thought there wouldn't be room for Claudia's makeup bag in the back of a beemer convertable, but I have no idea how she would fare on an iron butt tour...side cars with cush, maybe? Tow attachments?
The ugly sister <isis@family-net.net>
Richmond, TX - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:32 AM CDT
Rob and Claudia,
I obviously was able to get into the page today. Rob is probably thru with his appointment today. I hope that things are going in the right direction.
I have a friend whose granddaughter has leukemia. I received an email today that she has started to have wbcs. It is so exciting! I hope that Rob has some of the same kind of news soon.
I emailed a Mom today and yesterday several times. We both realized that we are in the "peri" stage of life. It is good to laugh at things.!!!
Please know that I am thinking and praying for you both.
Mary Wood
Mary Wood <mary.wood@mail.utexas.edu>
Austin, TX - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 4:37 PM CDT
I put a link to the Iron Butt Association on Rob's Home Page, so you can follow it and find out what Iron Butt is. Unfortunately, or maybe NOT, it is not a diaper rash cream!!
Love to all,
Claudia
- Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:43 AM CDT
This weekend the bluebonnet festival is in progress somewhere around 29, which intersects Robbie's town. So I say it must be a sign....
The ugly sister <isis@family-net.net>
Richmond, TX - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:19 AM CDT
OK - I've missed out on the explanation about Iron Butt. I was hoping it was some new diaper rash ointment - you know like Happy Hiney or Boudreau's Butt Paste - since Alyssa has had such a tough time with her own little hiney. Anyway - my grannygirl called today to tell me her hair had "fallen off." I was pretty shocked that she wasn't upset but, God love her, she seemed delighted. Evidently it itched. We're now looking at really neat hats/caps and dew rags. I like the idea of a bluebonnet theme. What does Robbie think?
Becky & Mack <scribe@sonoratx.net>
Sonora, TX - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 9:03 PM CDT
I've almost become fluent in the language of the cancer fighter and I know how quickly things can go awry (and just as quickly improve) when you're battling the "Evil C", but for the central line to fail to allow either induction or withdrawal tends to give me pause. I marvel each time I read Claudia's updates at how your shared optimism and pure love of life carries you over the bumps and boulders in the road. Thank you for providing an ear and a shoulder to a fellow soldier. Alyssa's eyes are greatly improved and we were up fingerpainting and blowing bubbles at 5:00 a.m. Saturday. She thinks Grandma's face looks best when it has a blue nose and purple cheeks, especially if she's the person making me colorful. I truly believe a positive attitude makes the difference in any situation. I just want to know one thing - what is the deal with Iron Butt? I don't recall that on any of the proctological humor sent to Mack. I eagerly await a response.
Becky & Mack
Sonora, TX - Sunday, April 3, 2005 10:36 PM CDT
Our friend Shirley, who left a message here about her friend Helen's daughter Sheila earlier this week, called late Friday afternoon to say that Sheila's latest test revealed that the tumor had responded really well to the radiation and was almost not visible on the latest scan. She wanted me to thank all of you for your good thoughts for Helen, Sheila and their families.
We may have to keep this page going after Rob gets better, just to keep us all connected....
Claudia
- Sunday, April 3, 2005 0:20 AM CST
i think the diamond idea is terrific...i actually have some at my house waiting for rachel and holly to get a little bigger!! and making diamonds out of ashes is so cool...(remember mom is still in my hall closet waiting for all of us to go to rockport)!! wouldn't she love it if we made diamonds?? we are all thinking about you and continually keep you in our prayers...we are going to city council on monday...will keep you posted!!
hugs to all...the blaines
bob, mj, randy and mike <maryjoblaine@blainegroup.com>
waxahachie, tx usa - Friday, April 1, 2005 9:25 AM CST
I am delighted to read of Rob's great progress. And, as the grandparent who wrote about Alyssa, I hesitate to add to anyone's burden. However, since the group who writes and reads these journal entries seems to have a direct pipeline to the man upstairs, I must ask that you keep the daughter of my best friend of more than 30 years in your thoughts and prayers. Sheila is 43, has a 16 year old at home and has been battling lymphoma for about 9 years. Just before Thanksgiving, they found a mass in her brain. The doctors were only able to remove 20% and applied radiation directly to her brain. Today is the day she finds out if it did its job. Mother Helen is frantic with worry, so please thank God for Rob's progress and say a prayer for Sheila today.
Love to Rob, Claudia and family
Shirley <slmorgan1950@yahoo.com>
Naples, FL USA - Thursday, March 31, 2005 7:16 AM CST
Iron Butt..perhaps the type of determination that keeps one perched upon a Harley in spite of all its delays for repair...just a guess...
Beautiful butterflies, by the way!
Margo aka uggggly sister.... <isis@family-net.net>
Richmond, TX - Wednesday, March 30, 2005 6:19 PM CST
OK, I've been checking on all the entries and messages and Michelle or Rob, I want the scoop on this Iron Butt Tour ---that in no way has any familiarity to me with the nickname Charpei, so color me interested and give me the low down.....love to all
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Wednesday, March 30, 2005 4:32 PM CST
P.S. I spoke with Uncle Carey this morning and he asked about Rob and doesn't do "the website thing" ;-) He told me to tell you congrats on the good report and to keep them coming.
once again,
bjk
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, March 28, 2005 3:44 PM CST
I keep writing an entry and they are gushy and I can see Rob's face as he reads them knowing the weeping issue with me. You hit it right on the head about everything in your update and Terri's family needs to stop being selfish and to think of HER and not themselves. You both are so selfless and always helping and healing hurts and I think I'm gonna stop right now as my heart overfloweth,
bjk
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, March 28, 2005 3:41 PM CST
Claudia, Thanks for putting a whole new light in regards to Terri Schaivo. I think you hit it on the mark. Happy Easter to you and all of your family.
Michele Baird <baird@ucom.net>
Garden City, KS - Sunday, March 27, 2005 12:18 AM CST
As a friend and relative who has had the privelege of belonging to the Baird/King/Williams clan I celebrate in Rob's continued advancement toward recovery. Rob I am thinking about a Iron Butt tour, want to join me.
Fred , Michele, Sarah Baird <baird@ucom.net>
Garden City, Ks Finney - Saturday, March 26, 2005 9:54 PM CST
Just letting you know know there's real good basketball team playing tonight. Go Illini! MAG
Mark Gold <mag@ehedger.com>
chicago, il usa - Thursday, March 24, 2005 12:45 AM CST
So glad Rob is doing so well and know HOW MUCH you must be enjoying your break from the clinic! I've missed not seeing you, but am so thrilled you've gotten a little vacation-maybe you've even gotten to enjoy seeing some early bluebonnets! We miss you here in San Antonio, but DON'T RUSH BACK!!!!!!! Love, Gaynell
Gaynell Meyerholtz <jmeyerholtz@austin.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 8:26 PM CST
Hello Rob and Claudia, This is your new friend from the hurry and wait (BMT) clinic Cindy Willis. I was delighted to read Rob has the week off from the clinic for travel to visit friends and family. Enjoy the beautiful weather and companionship of loved ones and may the trip be uneventful!
Claudia thanks so much for all the funny airplane/travel jokes on Bill's journal. I laughed so much, what a relief! Wish I had a joke for you but sadly I am poor jokster.
We are excused by our Doc from going to the clinic everyday, so Bill must be improving. We hope to go home to Austin for the Easter weekend. That would be just great!
See you, Rob and red socks in the clinic again!
Cindy Wilis <cindykwil@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 11:08 AM CST
I can solve that driving problem for you in a very short time. Just let me drive Rob for a little while, and he will be begging you to drive him instead...
I once told a friend of mine he would renew his faith after riding with me. At the conclusion of the ride, I asked. He said, "Yes! It's a miracle I'm still alive!
Speaking of which, don't think there's any sort of a limit on miracles in our family tree...I tend to think we are licensed for gobs and uddles of them...
The annoyingly accurate ugly sister... <isis@family-net.net>
Richmond, TX USA - Monday, March 21, 2005 5:49 PM CST
8 days out if fantazmagorical in my book...I made up that word all my byself ;-) Congrats and keep the good news coming. Blessings to Mack and Becky and how bless for both of you to help them with Alyssa at this time in her so very young life. I agree, the port will make it all better for her as well as you two sharing and caring as you do so effortlessly and thoughtfully. They are lucky as are we all having each other in our lives. I have a little surprise for you, Robbie and you're gonna love them. Here I am just lovin' on both of you and will see you in a matter of days. May the blessings continue and love ya bunches...
bjk
Billie Jean King <Kingceleb@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, March 21, 2005 11:05 AM CST
Mack and I have followed this journey and learned so much from your experience. Now I know why. Alyssa, my three-year-old granddaughter, has been diagnosed with acute myelogenous leukemia. She is at Cook Children's Hospital in Ft. Worth and got the first chemo injection (the one they do in the spine) last night. I have been there for most of the week and came home to take care of my job and my life. Heading back Tuesday. Nothing is normal, and yes, I'd take great joy in being able to bring her home for even just a weekend. I hesitated to let you guys know about Alyssa - I don't want to add to your burden. Mack said you can help me and explain some of this to me. The doctors and nurses are wonderful, but she is only three years old. She had reached the point of flat refusing to allow anyone to touch her, she refused to give them any more of her blug (her word for blood) and she hates shots. The port in her chest was finally implanted Thursday, so thankfully we don't have to do the vein search anymore. She knows they aren't going to stick her and they can get all the blug they want without hurting her. It has been so surreal and I felt for a while like it was just a bad dream. Now that I've been home I can't wait to get back to her. Keep her in your prayers.
Becky & Mack <scribe@sonoratx.net>
Sonora, TX usa - Sunday, March 20, 2005 7:56 AM CST
Its just about time for the traveling Rob and Claudia show, but calling it a farewell tour just isn't even close to accurate.
Ordinary days are always a blessing to extraordinary individuals - smiles.
The ugly sister who is uncanny in predictions... <isis@family-net.net>
Richmond, TX - Saturday, March 19, 2005 11:31 AM CST