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Welcome to our family site! This page was started for friends who want to know more of the day to day journey that our family faces. It will include more medical info to help educate our friends and family, as well as, other families we communicate with who have children with the same issues. web-ready-apw

Our son Andrew was born a drug baby and had many delays. He had cardio-vascular surgery when he was 11 months old to correct an artery that was wrapped around his trachea and esophogus. He had lots of therapy, especially speech and was almost all caught up when he started losing skills. Six months later (a few days before his sixth and last birthday) he was diagnosed with Mitochondrial Encephalomyopathy...in Complexes I and IV, I+III and II+III. His brain was heavily involved and he lost his battle 11 months later (07.04.96-05.26.03). If you are a mito family and would like to know more details, email and ask me for my text document about our mito journey. You can also read more about our sweet boy and his disease on his website at www.LifeofLove.org . Throughout it all Andrew loved the way only he could...beyond what he could see!

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Gaige was supposed to be our typical child. However, I can look back now at sensory problems as early as two weeks old. He started having sleeping issues early on, this was just the beginning of a myraid of issues that affect him sensorily, behaviorally, emotionally, socially and physically. We have been through a virtual alphabet soup on the autism spectrum but his official diagnosis right now is PDD-NOS or Pervasive Development Disorder, not otherwise specified, however, he is high functioning and can blend in with others at times. He has a slightly below average IQ and can not process information the way we do in the above areas which makes it difficult to learn socially and academically. When he was 5, the drs noticed a lot of special birthmarks called Cafe-au-lait marks (CALs)and he started being followed by a geneticist, who found several other anomolies, but no one is sure if it means anything or not. In May 2007, he was diagnosed with Mood-Disorder NOS, which could be early bi-polar for children. At School, he is in an inclusion Third Grade, where they have a regular education teacher, a special education teacher and an aide. There are 23 students and 8 of them need special instruction...it seems to be a great set up for him! He also gets OT in their spectacular therapy room and Speech in the classroom focusing on pragmatics and social skills. If you catch him on a good day, he can be very helpful, loving and has a great sense of humor!

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Bliss is often referred to as our miracle. She showed a hearing impairment and visual delay as a newborn but suddenly started passing her tests when she was 6-9 months old. As a result of her traumatic delivery, She had hypertonia/spacicity and had a diagnosis of Neuromotor Disorder as a baby and started baclofen right away. She started all early intervention services (Physical Therapy PT, Occupational Therapy OT and Speech) when she was 3 months old and she has done super well. The PT told me they would TRY to have her sitting by two...she is a walking, talking, sassy miracle today! She has a few residuals, such as high tone in her calves, esotropia and some bowel/bladder issues we are watching. She is in first grade, smart as a whip and by the beginning of November was nearly done with the school-year's reading program! She's a great advocate for autism for Gaige and food allergies for True! She recently found out she has a pineapple allergy and is quite proud of it! She's a real heart-stealer too!

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We are very thankful for our little guy, True. Even though, when we picked him up we only 2 days old, we knew he had some risk factors, we had no idea how unique, special and challenging he would be medically...nor did we know how smiley, funny and infectious he would be! I know God has called us to this "ministry" (I used to get so mad when people called it that) and equipped us just for this work. Initially True's issues were feeding and keeping it down. We now know that he is allergic to lots of stuff. He has gets speech therapy and Occupational Therapy but her main role is both oral motor stimulation to help him feed better and deal with sensory issues and help to attend with his activity level (yeah another live-wire boy). He gets PT, too, to work on his tight muscles and stretching.

Throughout his life, He has been diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy (*quite* Mild Spastic Qaudraplegia), Torticollis (shortened muscle on the right side of his neck), Plagiocephaly (flattened back of the right side of his head),Benign Myoclonus, Benign Startle Seizures, Asthma, Eosinophilic Disease, Severe Gastroparesis and Severe Food allergies (potentially life-threatening to at least eggs, soy, milk, rice, corn, oats, fish, shellfish, peanuts, treenuts). We are always doing food trials because he also has Eosniphilic Disease in which his white blood cells percieve food as bacteria and attack the GI tract. The food trials weed out the food intollerances and other allergens. So far we have tried about 20 foods and he has only been able to keep Potato, Pears, Banans, Carrots, Apples and Green Beans, although he wont eat the GBs. He is still on a formula made out of amino acids (the chemical components of food)to get his nutritional needs met and may have to use it most of his life. So life has been busy.

On May 20, 2005 he had immedate surgery for a dangerous birth defect in his intestines!

He also has a myriad of other anomalies and issues (like seizures and asthma), including dangerous hypoglycemia and/or metabolic crisis after vomitting or fasting. He is not allowed to go longer than 6-7 hours without eating at night. In April, his neurologist gave him a clinical diagnosis of Mitochondrial disease and then in June 2008, his Metabolic specialist, who was also Andrew's doc, came to the same conclusion about True...and no they aren't related, which is the most unbelievable "coincidence"...we still can't wrap our minds around it.

To look at him or his personality, you would never know all he has going on. He truly has one of the most special dispositions and he has a smile that never stops>


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Saturday, December 27, 2008 7:17 AM CST

Hello everyone...

If anyone is still reading since I'm always so behind in updating. Maybe a resolution for the new year?

I have made no bones about being quite happy to see 2008 go out the window and welcome in 2009 with an armful of HOPE!

Lately, True has been doing relatively well considering its winter. I have had to adjust my thinking of "his norm" during the winter, as it seems much different from his summer one. For most of the day in the winter, its like your turned his volume down. Its funny to me that usually our nurse puts that he was 'very hyper or unattentive today' on his notes since she started and now she writes zero- hyper...which is tell-tale sign of how winter affects him.

So far, he's stayed away from sickness! Of course, this time of year, we hunker down and hibernate in many ways, so that increases his exposure to illness.

We got to see our mito doc in December and it was the best appointment we ever had for True. Mainly, because the bulk of the appointment wasn't spent on chasing down that darn diagnosis, but instead, getting about the work of maximizing True's health and minimizing the way his mitochondrial dysfunction (remember, its different for each patient) affects his little system.

So we are starting on another element of the cocktail. For most this would start the day after the appointment but because of True's allergies, its a much longer process. Also, we are trying to get it approved by medicaid which can take a month, so it will be a little longer before we start and know if its helping or not.

Our biggest problems right now seem to be autonomic in nature. This is common for mito folks...its the autonomic nervous system that controls all those things our bodies do without us thinking about it. Those things like temperature, how fast our food moves through our stomach and intestines, our heart rate, blood pressure, swallow and so forth. True is affected where his kidneys don't concentrate his urine (so he needs MORE fluids than other kids his age), his gut doesn't move his food, temp regulation, he doesn't breathe DEEP enough--so he's on oxygen while sleepign and his heart rate is too high, which is another thing that fluids could help.

At the end of January, we will see a cardiologist who specializes in autonomic stuff and sees a lot of mito kids. Because fluid intake continues to be the bain of our existence, they want him to drink about 45 ounces on a normal-for-him day and 67 ounces on sick or stress days, he just can't do it. Out of three months, he met the goal about 8 times. So, once again, the discussion of a gtube is on the table. GI-wise he doesn't need a tube because his weight is good and his caloric intake is more than adequate, but its just about the fluids in general. So this doc will be the one to make the final decision. They may opt for NG tube but I hope not, as its tricky and very hard on him to be put in and take out...and in reality, would only be a test-run til we do a gtube. They did a trial with this when he was inpatient in October so they might be able to skip it. Although I really wish he didn't need a tube, I do think he'd feel better and it would improve his quality of life in two ways. One, if he had more fluids, he'd just feel better...and two, we wouldn't be chasing him around all day begging, threatening and bargaining with him to get him to drink. He could drink as much as he wanted during the day and we'd make it up while he was asleep at night, using a pump.

The only other big change has been from his pulmonologist who feels his asthma has been way under-treated. She feels that we need to be a lot more agressive...of course, concerns I have mentioned for years that I didn't realize were related (like his scratchy voice) she feels could be helped by better management. So we are now doing at least two treatments a day.

We have had a lot of nursing changes and I finally broke down and signed up with an agency. I'd much rather use independants (because then I'm in control of little things that agencies don't like...like minimum hours on a shift) but was waiting for some and thigns just weren't panning out. So the first of the year, we should be starting with better coverage which I will be thankful for.

True has been eating hamburger and doing okay with it! We're pretty excited about it! That would give him six foods and finally...a protien! He's changing formula's soon...we're working with his dietician to transition.

There's a ton coming up in January, including an inpatient GI-motility study...I'm not looking forward to that one. He's also got hearing evals, wheelchair eval (sooo outgrown his current chair), several doc appointments...so we'll be hitting the new year running...always with the hope of maximizing his quality of life. I feel so relieved to be in a place where that is the common goal for these kids...where docs are pro-active instead of retro-active.

Thanks for keeping tabs and feel free to sign the guestbook to let us know you're around...

deb for the gang

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http://www.LifeofLove.org   In Memory of our Andrew
http://www.cincinnatichildrens.org/svc/alpha/e/eosinophilic/   Eosinophilic Disorders info (True may have)
www.mitoaction.org    About Mitochondrial Diseases


 
 

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