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Tyler's Updates!

Welcome to our amazingly strong Child's Web Page. It has been provided to keep people updated about our Child.
Tyler was diagnosed on July 22,2004 with Acute-lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL)t-cell.....
Sadly Tyler relasped almost 18mths into treatment on January 12th,2006....He had a Bone Marrow Transplant April 13th, 2006




We wanted to Thank everyone for all there support...How important it truely is to all of us....Nomatter how big or small it touches all of our hearts....Just signing Tylers guestbook brings smiles, for all who reads and hopefully in many ways will touch your heart and soul as for what is truely important in your life, for we already know what is important in ours!








The Chosen Mothers
by Erma Bombeck


Most women become a mother by accident, some by choice
and a few by habit. Did you ever wonder how mother's of
children with life threatening illnesses are chosen?

Somehow, I visualize God hovering over earth
selecting His instruments for progagation with great care and
deliberation. As He observes, He instructs His angels
to make notes in a giant ledger.......

"Armstrong, Beth, son, patron saint Matthew"
Forrest, Marjorie, daughter, patron saint Cecilia"
Rutledge, Carrie, twins, partron saint Greard."

Finally, He passes a name to an angel and says, "Give
her a child with cancer." The angel is curious. "Why this
one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," smiles God, "Could I give a child with cancer
a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But, does she have patience?" asks the angel,

"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will
drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and
resentment wears off, she will handle it."

"I watched her today," said God. "She has that feeling
of self-independence that is so rare and necessary in a mother.
You see, the child I'm going to give her has it's own world.
She has to make it live in her world and that's not going to be easy."

"But Lord, I don't think she believes in you," said the angel.
"No matter, I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just
enough selfishness."

The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child
occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is the woman I will bless
with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet,
but she is to be envied. She will never take anything her child does for
granted. She will never consider a single step
ordinary. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see....ignorance,
cruelty, prejudice....and allow her to rise above them."

"And what about her patron saint" asks the angel, his pen poised in mid-air.

God smiles and says..."A mirror will suffice."










Little Children, Big Problems


There is a very special place
I have within my heart
It holds the little children
Who know what REAL PROBLEMS are.
I know we all have problems,
We all have a cross to bear,
But I'm talking "bout the little ones
With a GREAT BIG world of care.
A world of pain and treatments,
And a fear of the UNKNOWN
Sometimes these little children
Call their hospital room "home."
They often suffer daily,
But they rarely will complain
About the treatments they endure
Which cause most of the pain.
Sometimes these treatments are much worse
Than the sickness in itself
And can cause some complications
Which could jeopardize their health.
Although these little children suffer
And are often ill from drugs,
They always have a smile to share
And they give the BESTEST HUGS.
So, next time you have a PROBLEM
which you feel you cannot face,
Just think about these LITTLE ONES
And try to have just half their FAITH.
written by Rachel's mom, Susan!

Journal

Friday, April 10, 2009 4:16 PM CDT

Hello...



Here we are another clinic day, amazing how 3mths just goes right on by....although todays appt was pretty big since its Tyler's 3 year post transplant... so its always a big one with lots of test and blood work...to think its been 3 yrs since transplant...just blows my mind..... in some ways it feels like yesterday...especially seeing everyone...but yet in another sense it feels like a life time ago....to look back and to remember what we actually used to do....i still cant wrap my brain around it, knowing how i did it all....with the kids...going atleast 3 days a week there....for 6hrs or more...depending on what the need was...Nicholas puking everywhere on top of Tyler puking too..lol...it really just seems surreal whenever i think about the last 5yrs...although that first day is something i cant ever forget no matter how hard i try....one of the longest days in my life..and yet things moved so quickly in all what they needed to do for Tyler...there are just so many things that are going through my mind as i even type this.......Nicholas has literally grown up in CHOP....he was 6wks old and he is now 4 going on 5.....it all just blows my mind thinking back....

As for today Tyler did well...they did need to draw blood from the arm not from the finger as Tyler would so have loved it to be...he gets so worked up ..... i dont think it hurts him i just think the thinking process does him no good...but he got trough it....with a huge typical Tyler melt down...which in a few with some distraction he was fine.... Dr. Rheingold they checked Tyler over...and he was given a clean slate.....and of course the labs came back and they backed up her with a great CBC.....it was just about the same as when his labs where done 3mths before....I'll take it....then it was on to the next appt having a ekg and a echo...of course Tyler isnt a fan of these...(not suprising) because they go to close to his port scar....he is real funny about anyone still going near that area .....but again he did great and it was over pretty quickly...we had some time until we needed to go for his PFT's so we ate and sat in the atruim while the kids let go of some extra energy....finally we headed up for the last of the test...PFT's...Tyler seem to have done well...he has never really been great with this test ....but seemed like today he actually understood what he needed to do..and he liked that guy who worked with him during it....Tyler was just more excited he got to keep the mouth piece and the nose pincher (which they would typical chuck)....no clue what he will ever do with those but if it makes him happy so be it....that's my Tyler...lol...finally the day came to a end...but over all wasn't so bad....I had my Aunt Merrily there who stayed with the kids for the first part of the day to help out which was great....and we had my niece with us today as well....which also kept there focus on other things...not that there ever bored when we go to CHOP...lol....We were suppose to meet with the Transplant team but we didn't .....and they like to see there kids 1x a year so we go back in 3mths and we will see them at that time....have to make everyone happy i guess....So today I can say with a smile ....things are good....and its always great to see that Tyler is still getting checked on....through his website.....although I dont write quite as much as i used to...since things have been well...so i tend to update just during his check-ups....but am always grateful to you all for your constant support and prayers....and through my extended cancer families who really do understand this whole "cancer world".....many many thanks to you all....

Just to let you know as well...my sister an law...will begin her chemo Monday...so now we need to continue with prayers for her...during this battle she will face....its great to be able to be there for her...to be able to give her insight with my understanding of the 'cancer world' so i feel in all ive learned i can pass it to them and help guide them through there fight...and a fight they WILL win.....she does have a website through caringbridge....marjoriegormleygoodwin... to anyone who would like to read about them....again thank you ...it really couldn't be said enough...

Always grateful,


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Childrens Hospital of Philadelphia
34th St. and Civic Center Boulevard 3 South
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