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And the Beat Goes on!! 
December 14, 2004 at 5:43 in the morning my dad had a Massive Heart Attack. He was rushed to Lake West Hospital and immediately underwent surgery to put a stint in. After complications he was taken to the Cleveland Clinic on the 21st of December where they placed an LVAD in him to help his heart pump blood. The doctors placed him on a heart transplant list and we were told that because his blood type was B+ he had a good chance of getting a new heart quickly. After his 51-day journey he was finally sent home on February 2, 2005 to wait for his new heart to come. Much to our delight we received a call at 1:43 in the morning on February 9th 2005 from the Cleveland Clinic letting us know his new heart was here!!!!
People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air but to walk on the earth. Every day we are engaged in a miracle which we don't even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the black curious eyes of a child -- our own two eyes. All is a miracle.
Thich Nhat Hanh
Please take a minute to say a pray for Kara and her brother Kyle. They are fighting difficult battles against Chiari Malformation and Syringomyelia.
Kara and Kyle - http://www.caringbridge.org/oh/kara
Also please pray that these children can overcome their fight with cancer. Because children should be playing, not fighting cancer.
Joshua- (Sadly, Joshua gained his Angel wings on February 14, 2005 ) http://www3.caringbridge.org/sc/joshua
Julianna-http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/julianna
Please pray that little Fisher can overcome his fight with Neurofibromatosis
Fisher- http://www.caringbridge.org/va/fisherc
Also, I would like to give a big hug and say thank you so much for everything that everyone has done for us. I'd like to thank all of my Dad's work friends for keeping his spirits up, all my Mother's work friends for all of the support you've given my family, all of our family friends, all of our neighbors (yes Andy, you too!), all of my new Aunties and Uncles, my best friend Liz, the person who plowed our driveway those first times (you know who you are! I only wish we did!) Trey's mommy, everyone who made us meals (oh and to the people that made the Chili, the Banana Cream Desert and Beef stew feel free to drop more off at anytime! ;) ) Thank you for all of the rides that people gave us during the time when I blew the car up (oooops!). Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Fulton, Cerny, Collins, Pollice and Novack for taking care of my brother while my mother was away. Anne you make the best cookies! I also want to thank everyone in my family for taking care of us while we were hurting. And for everything else everyone has done. I wish that I could name everyone out personally, but unfortunately there is a limit of 300 pages on this site!!! You all are a blessing from God! Oh, and I'd also like to thank my guardian angel (she knows who she is)
This site is written by me!
WE DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE, WHERE YOU ARE FROM, WHETHER OR NOT WE KNOW YOU, PLEASE SIGN THE GUESTBOOK EVERYTIME YOU DROP BY!!! I'M SURE YOU ALL KNOW HOW BORING A HOSPITAL CAN BE!!! THE GUESTBOOK KEEPS MY DAD VERY ENTERAINED

Hope
Cuz I'm hopeful, yes I am, hopeful for today, Take this music and use it Let it take you away, And be hopeful (hopeful) and he'll make a way I know it ain't easy but that's okay. cause we hopeful
I wish the way I was living could stop, serving rocks, Knowing the cops is hot when I'm on the block, And I Wish my brother woulda made bail, So I won't have to travel 6 hours to see him in jail, And I Wish that my grandmother wasn't sick, Or that we would just come up on some stacks and hit a lick, And I (I wish) Wish my homies wouldn't have to suffer, When the streets get the upper had on us and we lose a brother, And I Wish I could go deep in a zone, And lift the spirits of the world with the words with in this song, And I (I wish) Wish I could teach a could teach a soul to fly, Take away the pain out cha hands and help you hold them high, And I Wish my hommie Butch was still alive And on the day of his death we had never took that ride, And I (I wish) Wish God could protect us from the wrong So that all the solders that were sent over seas come home We will never break, though they devastate, we shall motivate, And we gotta pray, all we got is faith. Instead of thinking about who gonna die to day, The Lord is gonna help you feel better, so you ain't gotta cry today. Sit at the light so long, And then we gotta move straight forward, cuz we fight so strong, So when right go wrong, Just say a little prayer, get ya money man, life go on!!! Let's HOPE!
Cuz I'm hopeful, yes I am, hopeful for today, Take this music and use it Let it take you away, And be hopeful (hopeful) and he'll make a way I know it ain't easy but that's okay. cause we hopeful
I wish that you could show some love, Instead of hatin so much when you see some other people commin up (I wish) I wish I could teach the world to sing, Watch the music and have 'em trippin of the joy I bring, (shiit) I wish that we could hold hands, Listen instead of dissin lessons from a grown man, And I (I wish) Wish the families that lack, but got love, get some stacks Brand new shack and a lack that's on dubs, And I Wish we could keep achieving wonders, See the vision of the world through the eyes of Stevie Wonder, (you feel me) (I wish) And I hope all the kids eat, And don't nobody in my family see six feet, (ya dig) I hope them mothers stain' strong, You can make it whether you wit him or your mans gone, And I (I wish) Wish I could give every celly some commissary, And the po po bring the heat on them priest like they did R. Kelly, And I Wish that DOC could scream again And bullets could reverse so Pac and Biggie breath again, (shit) (I wish) Then one day they could speak again, I wish that we only saw good news every time we look at CNN, I wish that we could never get the blues, Wish I could bring back the people that died, Eddy too I wish that we could walk a path, stay doin the right thing Hustle hard so the kids maintain up in the game, Let's HOPE
Cuz I'm hopeful, yes I am, hopeful for today, Take this music and use it Let it take you away, And be hopeful (hopeful) and he'll make a way I know it ain't easy but that's okay. cause we hopeful
Wish the earth wasn't so apocalyptic, I try to spread my message to the world the best way I can give it, We can make it always so optimistic, If you don't listen gotta live my life the best way I can live it, I pray for justice when we go to court, Wish it was all good so the country never even went to war Why can't we kick it and just get em on, And in the famous words of Mr. King "Why can't we all just get along", Or we can find a better way to shop and please, And I Hope we find a better way to cop a keys, And I Wish everybody would just stop and freeze, And ask way are we fulfillin these downfalls and prophecies, You can be wrong if it's you doubting, With the faith of a mustard seed you can move mountains, And only the heavenly father and ease the hurt, Just let it go and keep prayin on your knees in church!! And let's HOPE
Cuz I'm hopeful, yes I am, hopeful for today, Take this music and use it Let it take you away, And be hopeful (hopeful) and he'll make a way I know it ain't easy but that's okay. cause we hopeful

Transplant Facts The longest a person has survived after heart transplant as of 2002 is 24 years
Heart transplant survival rates are now 84.8% at one year, 77.1% at 3 years, and roughly 50% at 10 years after transplant surgery
The number of people 65 or older who receive heart transplants is increasing faster than any other age group. From 1996 to 1999, heart transplants in the 65-plus age bracket rose 28%
Acute heart rejection is more likely to happen when the heart donor was female regardless of recipient sex
Signs of beginning artery blockages are seen in almost half of patients after one year, using sensitive tests like multi-vessel IVUS imaging
Heart failure is the leading cause of death in most of the developed world. About 730,000 Americans die each year from it
In 1998, only 2,345 heart transplants were done in the USA
As of December, 1999, there were 4,135 people on the national waiting list for heart transplant, almost double the number who actually had a transplant the year before
Average waiting time to transplant is more than 7 months. In some parts of the country, as many as 40% of patients die while waiting
A busy transplant clinic receives over 2,500 lab results each day. About 400 of these results will be outside the normal range. The coordinator in a short period of time must review all these results and decide which ones need immediate attention
Failure to take post-transplant meds properly is the third leading cause of transplant failure!
Pharmaceutical companies tell many of their employees to bring back samples of dirt from any foreign places they visit on vacations. That's because cyclosporine and some other very valuable drugs come from fungus found in dirt from different parts of the world
As of January, 2000, there were 141 heart transplant programs operating in the USA
A donor family's financial responsibility ends when the person is declared dead. After that, the hospital does not bill the family for any charges. The Organ Procurement Organization (OPO) is billed for those charges
CAD is the leading cause of death for heart transplant recipients who have survived at least one year after surgery

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Friday September 8th TWO PHONE CALLS December 14, 2005- it’s odd to remember that day because everything was in such a blur. That morning was honestly the scariest moment of my life. Dad had gotten up for work that morning around four and gone out to shovel the apron of the driveway because the snow trucks had pushed all the snow into it. I remember the phone ringing and then someone running down the steps at great speed. I was half asleep and thought that it was someone calling to tell my mother that she had a snow day (she is a teacher). Then I heard someone running back up the stairs and the next thing I know my light was on and my mum was screaming to call 911 because dad was having a heart attack. He had used his cell phone to call the house and tell my mother what was happening. I just sat there staring at her because I didn’t fully comprehend what she was saying. I’ve never been so scared in my life as when I came down and saw him laying on the couch trembling. It’s hard to see someone that you love who is normally so strong and powerful reduced to something scared and in pain. When they took him to the hospital my brother and I had to stay home because there wasn’t enough room in the ambulance. We just sat there waiting for someone to call and let us know what was going on. Before she left mum said that it might just be reflux, but when she finally called three hours later she said that the doctor wanted us all to come see our dad because he probably wasn’t going to make it. I lost it then, that really hit me hard because then I knew what was happening was real.
December 20, 2005- the doctors told us that dad was VERY healthy aside from his heart. They also told us that the reflux problems that he’d been having over the last few years were actually mini heart attacks and had he gone to the doctors for his so called *reflux* that they could have detected his heart problems before hand. (At this time we didn’t yet know he needed a transplant but the transplant could have been avoided and the problem could have been fixed with a bi pass.)
December 22, 2005- this was the second most terrible experience of my life. Dad had been transferred to The Cleveland Clinic a few days before and had begun to stabilize. At this point the doctors were giving us good reports and we were still planning on just a triple bi-pass. After a week of being at the hospital full time, my mum had finally sent me home for a few days. It was snowing like mad and my grandparents were getting ready to watch a movie with me. The phone rang and it was mum. She was hysterical and she told me dad had taken a turn for the worst and was going in for emergency surgery. My grandmother told me that I wasn’t allowed to go down to the hospital because of the snowstorm and I threw a hysterical fit. I was so afraid that he was going to die and I wasn’t going to be able to say goodbye. I frantically called every adult that I knew and asked them to take me down to the clinic and they all said it was too dangerous. Finally, I called Mrs. Collins and she so bravely agreed to take me down. It took nearly two hours to get there in the heavy snow and we witnessed two cars spin out and do 360s. When we got to the waiting room mum told us that the surgery was going to take from 6 to 8 hours and that no news from the doctors was good news, so when after only 4 hours the doctor came in and asked us to come into the other room we about lost it. I’ll never forget how he looked into our eyes and said, “The surgery was a success. They are getting him situated and you can see him in an hour.” We just started laughing and crying so hard. When we asked what they had done to him the doctor explained that they had put an LVAD in his heart, which would basiclly, pump his blood for him. We asked if this was permanent and the doctor said “No.” We were relieved and went back to hugging each other until he finished…”It will come out after the transplant.” We were like, what??? Transplant? Huh?
Decmeber 25, 2005- Dad went on the list for a new heart! The best Christmas present ever!
Feb 2, 2005- Dad was becoming an old pro with the LVAD he had been up walking around the corridors (he was doing real good until he realized that he had forgot to close the back of his gown) for a few weeks now and the doctors said that he could go home until the new heart came. We were both thrilled and scared at the same time. For any of you who have ever had someone come out of the hospital during a long-term illness you know what I’m talking about. Having him home was terrifying for all of us. He had so many meds to take and they were all at different times and we were so scared that we would forget one or take it at the wrong time. It was like walking on pins and needles. We also had to watch that the machine was working right and that his levels were stable. And on top of all of this we had to make sure that he was eating right and wasn’t getting sick. Boy, I guess this was pay back for all of the times he had to take care of me when I was a baby!
February 9, 2005- 1:43 a.m. the phone rings. I wasn’t fully with it and was wondering, “Who’s calling at this time of night?” Then suddenly it hit me… HEART! I ran downstairs and almost crashed into my mother who was all smiles and yelling. “THEY’VE GOT A HEART, THEY’VE GOT A HEART!!” That morning dad received the gift of life all over again!
So what have I learned from all of this…?
1) Never shovel snow off your driveway yourself! -Being out in the cold air makes the blood vessels in your lungs and heart constrict. This makes it hard for you to get oxygen and hard for the blood carrying the oxygen to get through to the rest of your body. -The weight of the snow on the shovel is very heavy and it causes even more strain on your heart. -Almost 65 percent of people who have had heart attacks have them while shoveling snow!! So don’t try and prove your manliness or save money by shoveling your own driveway! Trust me hospital bills are a lot more expensive than snowplow bills!
2) I don’t care who you are or what your occupation is, if you having a pain somewhere GO GET IT LOOKED AT! - If my dad hadn’t thought that he knew everything because he was a pharmacist then he could have taken care of his problem with a bi pass surgery! - Even if you’re a doctor you don’t know everything! You could overlook something and it could cost you your life! Sometimes the flu isn’t just the flu! 3) Buy a cell phone and keep it on you at ALL times! - Yes, I know this one is a little random… but the fact is that my dad’s cell phone saved his life! If he didn’t have one than he wouldn’t have been able to call my mother and tell her that he was having chest pains. We wouldn’t have found him for another 2 hours.
4) Before walking around the hallways in a hospital always make sure your gown is closed in the back! - Seriously, this will help save you from a lot of humiliation. - It will also help save the people behind you from a full moon. 5) If something ever happens to you or your family be sure to start a Caring Bridge page. - Caring Bridge was one of the best things that happened to our family during dad’s illness. Being able to keep in touch with people daily and view their words of encouragement really helped to pull us through. - Also, you can read and learn about other people with the same problems and they can pull you through even the roughest times. Even people with different problems can help. Trust me you will benefit.
This may sound a little crazy to a lot of you, but in a sense having gone through all this has helped our family a lot. We needed to make some big changes and this really gave us the push we need to do it. Because of my dad we are now all eating right and exercising regularly. We also go for regular check ups at the doctors. I know that a lot of people don’t think it’s important to have a family doctor but it is. (Read number 2 for full details)
Anyways… back to the update.
Things are going so well now that its almost as if it never happened. Sometimes I forget it ever did. Dad is doing so great that it’s hard to believe that the doctors said he probably wouldn’t make it. His color is back and he is finally starting to gain some weight. He goes every other week for biopsies and med checks. Right now he is still in rejection but he’s at 1A, which is the lowest you can be without being out of rejection. He gets pretty cranky sometimes but we’re just happy to have him with us. Last week we went to the monthly Heart Recipient Meeting and Dinner. April was Organ Donor Awareness month and so people who have had other types of transplants were there as well. Each organ recipient got up and told their story and it was just amazing. There were people as old as 87 to kids as young as 2. We all had a really good time and a great dinner.
While I’m here I would like to thank all of the people that took part in helping us over the last couple of months. I have no way of showing you just how much you have helped us, but I hope you all know that we are grateful. Thank you so much. I hope that none of you will ever have to go through something like this but if you do, please know that I will be here for you. Thanks again, Brittany
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Links: http://www.lifebanc.com Learn how to donate life at this site!!! http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/eheart/transplant.html With this site you can perform your own heart transplant! http://www.clevelandclinic.org/heartcenter/ This will tell you about the hospital my dad was at.
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