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Shawn, Just had you on my mind and thougtht that I would leave you a message. Hope you are well. I am looking forward to seeing pics of the new addition when she arrives. Take care of you.....
Stephanie Beck <sbeck@asapnc.com>
Mt Airy, NC - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 12:36 AM CST


Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 2, 2006 9:46 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
He is such a beautiful little boy! God Bless you!

Theresa & Brandon Durrett <durretttheresa@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 1, 2006 10:40 AM CST
Reese, Happy 4th Birthday in Heaven sweetie !You are so sadly missed here, but loved oh so much ! Please watch over your Mommy and Family and send them some angel kisses today.....
Janie Koch <Stampartist@netins.net>
Conrad, Iowa USA - Monday, January 30, 2006 9:22 AM CST




Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Monday, January 30, 2006 8:12 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Angel Reese.

Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Monday, January 30, 2006 4:40 AM CST
Happy fourth birthday sweet Reese. We love and miss you so very much little one.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, January 29, 2006 8:21 AM CST
Shawn,
I was thinking of you and decided that I would check to see if there were any new updates. I know tomorrow will be a difficult day for you and you will be in my thoughts. Hope all is well in Germany and I hope that you are taking good care of yourself and getting ready for the big arrival. I know that you miss Taylor very much. Hopefully it won't be long and you will be back together as a family again. I am sure that he misses his mommy very much.

Stephanie Beck <SMBECK@SURRY.NET>
MT AIRY, NC Q - Saturday, January 28, 2006 2:25 PM CST
Carrying you in my heart and prayers on the eve of Reese's 4th birthday. May you continue to know our Lord's love, comfort, peace, joy and, most of all, blessed, blessed hope.
Yolanda Rogers http://www.galatians5.com <galatians5@truevine.net>
Alt Spgs, FL USA - Saturday, January 28, 2006 11:06 AM CST
Thinking of you today and of course, sweet Reese.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 12:56 AM CST
I was just thinking of Angel Reese and thought I would check up on his family. And what wonderful news. A new baby cousin AND soon a new sister. Congratulations! Have a great weekend.
Kathy H.
T.O., CA - Saturday, January 7, 2006 1:50 AM CST


Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Friday, January 6, 2006 6:26 PM CST
Hi Carrie, I am thrilled about the new baby girl and hope all goes well. I just live a hop, skip and jump from Doug and Taylor but haven't had the fortune of running into them in town anywhere. If I do I will give Taylor a big hug for you. I know he misses you but he will get to see you before you know it and sometimes we have to do things we really hate doing. Please update and let us all in on the goings on in Germany and what you are up to. Also when that little girl is born we want to see pictures posted!! God Bless you and keep you safe and healthy!

KAYE JOYCE <gregjoyce@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 11:31 AM CST
Hey guys, I've been offline for awhile but did want you to know that I was thinking about you over the holidays. I'm sure it was hard to celebrate without Taylor as I know how very hard it is without sweet Reese. Take care & God bless!
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Monday, January 2, 2006 10:02 PM CST
I just wanted to let you know that this morning when I got in my car there was a lady bug on my dash. I thought of Reesie Cup. I was thinking it is too cold or it's not lady bug season. Just because it's supposed to be winter time and lady bugs are spring and summer bugs. How ironic I thought.
Jodie Johnston <jjohnston_80@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:24 AM CST
Merry Christmas
and
Happy New Year


Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Saturday, December 24, 2005 3:54 PM CST
I LOVE her name. It is perfect. I hope that you are well and adjusting to life overseas. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you little ones. Even though Taylor is not exactly a little one anymore. I love you all and thinking of you always.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, Nc USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 3:47 PM CST
Hey Girlie,
Reading your journal makes me cry! Love you girl and hope you are doing well!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, December 12, 2005 8:15 AM CST
Thinking of you,
Courtney and the crew
Pit Crews for Kids
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 9:28 AM CST
Hope that you are settling in nicely in your new home and feeling good. Thinking of you today,
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Saturday, November 26, 2005 6:27 PM CST



Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, November 23, 2005 9:54 PM CST
Hi Shawn--

Congrats on the upcoming baby girl! I was never into Barbie's as a little girl, but there's something about sitting around playing with your own little girl that changes things...you'll probably love them in no time.

I have a little booklet I wanted to send you...can you email me your address?

We wish you the best in Germany!

Sincerely,

Marian, Mike and Mikey
Princess Madi's Family

www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 12:44 AM CST
Hey, Shawn... will you email me your new address in Germany?

Congratulations to you both on the baby girl!

Love from ALABAMA,

Emily Martin <esmy72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 4:30 PM CST
Shawn,
I guess you are in Germany by now. It is the 28th and I think that you were leaving on the 27th. My thoughts and prayers are with you as I can only imagine how hard it was to get on that plane without Taylor. I hope that you and Steve will enjoy this new adventure that you are about to embark on and that this new phase of your life will bring great joy and happy times.
I am so excited about the baby... a girl.. I am like you, I would not know what in the world to do with a girl. They are like foreign material to me... and all those hairbows, ear rings, bracelets.... PLEASE....I am much more comfortable with bugs, frogs and other animals.. but I know that you will be a great mommy to this little girl and you can always hope that she is a tomboy...hahahha

Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Friday, October 28, 2005 8:57 AM CDT
Glad things are going well for you. Congrats on having a baby girl :-) If you think Barbie is bad, wait until you see Polly Pockets!!! Best of luck with your move to Germany. Hugs,
Jill and Alex www.caringbridge.com/ca/alexschwab <jillschwab@adelphia.net>
Manhattan Beach, CA United States - Sunday, October 23, 2005 11:09 PM CDT
It was good to have new of all of you. I am overjoyed by bthe... GIRL.. it IS a totally different adventure, mine ,by the way, hates Barbies...Love and hugs to you all from Italy
Marcella and Sean <pizzagnam@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, October 23, 2005 2:32 PM CDT
Sorry we missed you yesterday. Everyone at the luncheon told me how great you looked. I'm so happy for you and Steve...a little girl! I know you'll miss Taylor, but think of this as God's way of giving you and Steve that much needed "one on one" time as a newly married couple. Have a great adventure Shawn...we love you and wish you all the best! kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4mps@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Sunday, October 16, 2005 3:11 PM CDT
I was so glad to get to see you and your family at the run. You look wonderful. Please let us know how you're doing in Germany. Love ya, ^^Angel Jordan's^^ Papa and Gramma, Mike and Connie Horton
Connie Horton <connie0131@hotmail.com>
Forsyth, Il - Sunday, October 16, 2005 10:29 AM CDT
checking in to see how the weekend went. Thinking of you all.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@berryplastics.com>
Conway, Nc USA - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 11:27 AM CDT
Thinking of you today sweet Reese.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger
Lewisville, NC - Monday, October 10, 2005 9:11 PM CDT
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Love Always BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, September 29, 2005 3:48 PM CDT
I am just stopping by to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with your family. God bless and *warm hugs* ><>†<><
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*Jennifer C* <jenniferc@ilovetocolor.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Saturday, September 24, 2005 5:00 PM CDT
Just checking in to see if there are any updates. How are things going for the Run for Reese? Hope you are well.

Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 11:39 AM CDT
Was thinking of you today - Congratulations on the newest addition to the family! Your sister and her hubby must be thrilled!
Chris Gooch's mom Share the Love
- Tuesday, September 13, 2005 8:32 AM CDT

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viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, September 3, 2005 12:16 AM CDT
Baby Libby is beautiful!! I know that you cant wait to get your hands on her. How are you and baby Sam? How is Taylor? hope school is going well.
take care of you!!

Stephanie Beck <sbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 11:34 AM CDT
I love the new pictures of baby Libby. I know you can't wait to hold her.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, Nc USa - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 10:14 AM CDT
Congratulations! I am crying tears of joy for Toni and Andy. I am so happy for them. I know that Aunt Shawn can't wait to get her hands on some baby cheeks!
We love you guys!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 30, 2005 4:28 PM CDT
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CONGRATS GUYS!!!!!! I almost cried with i saw the picture of you guys holding her. You can see all of the love in your eyes. What two proud parents you are and what a beautiful little girl.

alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Saturday, August 27, 2005 5:12 PM CDT
Hello,

I just wanted to say to Toni and Andy:




Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, August 27, 2005 5:01 PM CDT
Any news on the doctor visits or Toni or Andy's little one?
Jessica <JMcDowdle@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 26, 2005 12:26 AM CDT
Checking to see if there is any news about Aunt Toni's little one, Baby Sam and Taylor.....and of course, you. It was so sad to hear of little Cody Hoffman's passing. I know that you know exactly what that family is going through right now.
hope all is well, see you soon

Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC` - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 10:49 AM CDT
Congratulations to you both! I hope you and Doug can come peacefully to a decision about Taylor, and that baby "sam" is 100% healthy. I continue to pray for you, Steve and Taylor!

Cary Hester <caryh@cityofws.org>
Walkertown, NC USA - Monday, August 22, 2005 3:40 PM CDT
Congradulations on the new baby on the way.
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Hope everything works out okay with you and Taylor.

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, August 22, 2005 2:05 AM CDT
YEAH!!! That is awesome news! I will keep you in my prayers!!!! Don't worry ok.. ?I know it's hard not to.. but you need to stay as calm as possible.. little Reese is watching over you..
Sorry I haven't been by in SO long.. but I have been thinking of you all.. Germany is wonderful... My husband grew up there.. his Dad was stationed there.. but for much longer than the usual situation of about 2 yrs or so.. they were there for a long time.. then when my husband went into the army he got stationed there as well.. he loves the food (which I try and re-create with not much luck!) and he learned so ski over there when he was a little guy..when his family was there, they bought this gorgeous horse.. and a porche.. (these cars are much cheaper in Europe!) and brought them over to the states.. it was pretty neat.. it's a gorgeous place and hopefully you will get to have your son there for at least part of the time. I'm sorry you have to go through so much to settle the situation..
Hope it gets resolved soon
Thinking of you all
Love always~

Jennifer Parenti <parentijennifer@hotmail.com>
Orford, NH USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 9:42 AM CDT
I was out of town yesterday but of course, was thinking about you all and sweet Reese. God bless.
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, August 11, 2005 8:58 PM CDT
OMG, OMG!!!!!!! I am so excited for you. I know the problem with Doug will work out for you. Keep strong. I can't wait for "baby Sam". YEH!YEH!YEH! I think the timing is perfect. Everything happens in its own time. Being close to Reese's angel date I know is scary but ^Reese^ must have a hand in this. Maybe it is a way to get through that Month a little easier and a way to celebrate instead of mourn. I know it will always be there but maybe it will be a little more tolerable. I will pray for everything to work out for you and Steve. Germany!!! That sounds good. A little to far from Conway but you will have to put up a website for the new little one. Do you know if it is a girl or boy? or is Sam short for Samantha? I am so excited about the run this year. Just let me know what to do. I can run a concession stand, take up money, anything....
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 9:20 AM CDT
Shawn,
Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you and Steve. I think it is so cool that your little one will be born on my sister's birthday. Hoping and praying that your situation with Germany works out. I used to live there before the wall came down. Hope you all have a great day. Always in my prayers.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 11:36 AM CDT


Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Monday, August 1, 2005 1:58 PM CDT
Hey girl!

Congratulations! Sounds like everything is happening all at once! Wow, Germany...I bet you never thought you'd live there! I hope the situation with Taylor will work out in your favor. Please send me some pics of you and the kids and I will do the same (I will need your current e-mail address) and keep me informed on your pregnancy!

Miss you and love you, D

Deanna Williams <deanna.williams@wachovia.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Monday, August 1, 2005 1:44 PM CDT
Congratulations to everyone in your update. Sounds like things are going well for you. We miss seeing you at work, but everyone understands that sometimes, life takes you to places you can't even imagine. (Like Germany, how cool is that). Anyway, take care and god bless.
Joyce Tadlock <joyce.tadlock@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, nc - Friday, July 29, 2005 12:19 AM CDT
Maybe a compromise would work, Taylor spend half with you in Germany and half with Doug.

Contrats on a healthy and happy 9 months!

Janet Hill <yaskeme39@yahoo.com>
Winston Salem, nc - Thursday, July 28, 2005 12:38 AM CDT
Congratulations! YAY! The baby news is WONDERFUL! What a blessing. I will be praying for You, Doug and Taylor on the Germany decision and hope all goes smoothly.
Kim Barker <kim.barker@wachovia.com>
- Thursday, July 28, 2005 10:20 AM CDT
I knew it! Everything will work out, God knows you all deserve it. Anyway, if you stop throwing up long enough, give me a call. We have to do some pics before you leave!

Pam Gilbert <nchardcorewife@yahoo.com>
New Bern, NC USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 1:35 PM CDT
Hey Shawn...gosh I havent been to this page in forever...I didnt even know that you had gotten married to Steve. Anyway, congratulations on being pregnant. Everything will work out the way its supposed to with the whole Germany, Taylor and Doug situation. Just wanted to let you know that I do still think of you. God Bless
Leah Wilson <fairy128@aol.com>
NC - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 1:04 PM CDT
Dearest Shawn & Family,
I am so excited for you all. Your Mom keeps me up to date on all that's going on. She calls me daily and has been my rock of love & strength. She always listens to all my heartaches as my husbands (who has a terminal brain tumor)health is getting much worse. Most days he can't talk now and his memory is leaving him. I want you to know I pray everyday for all of you that your new little one is healthy and happy. Also I pray that Doug will not fight you and let Taylor remain with you and Steve and go with you to Germany on this wonderful adventure in your lives.
I keep all of you in my thoughts & prayers. Also I know little Reece is smiling down on you all from heaven. I hope someday to meet you all in person.
May God bless and keep you all happy & healthy,

Janie Koch <truckingreat@netins.net>
Conrad, Iowa U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 12:29 AM CDT
YEAH!!!!!!!!! I know you have to be over the moon! Surely Doug can't let Taylor miss out on the educational opportunities living in Germany would give him. Besides being with his new baby brother or sister. I'll pray it all comes together for you. Will see you at the run, if not sooner. Love, Connie
Connie Horton <connie0131@hotmail.com>
Forsyth, Il - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 7:58 AM CDT
Thanks for the update. I'm so excited for you and Steve. I am praying that Taylor gets to go with you. That is a very big decision of moving to Germany. I really hope that you come back to the United States sooner than 2 to 3 years, but I wish you the best of luck. I can't wait to see you at Run for Reese/Jog for Jordan. I am praying that you find out good news on this baby. Can't wait to see pics of Andy's and Toni's baby. Glad to know your mom is doing some what better, hoping the botox injections will work.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, July 25, 2005 3:14 PM CDT
THAT IS SO EXCITING!!!



Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Monday, July 25, 2005 1:12 PM CDT
OMG! Congratulations you two! I hope you and Doug can come peacefully to a decision about Taylor, and that baby "sam" is 100% healthy.
Carolyn F
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, July 25, 2005 11:47 AM CDT
CONGRATULATIONS! I am so excited for you! I pray everything goes well and you have a happy, healthy baby. Lord knows you and Steve deserve it. I pray that everything works out so that Taylor is able to go with you guys to Germany. I am sure going to miss having you this close, but at least the race will give us a chance to spend time together before you leave. Again, CONGRATULATIONS! I am crying tears of joy for you guys.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, July 25, 2005 11:02 AM CDT
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BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 10:12 PM CDT
Heard what is happening right now thru the grapevine, hope everything turns out ok.
Janet Hill <yaskeme39@yahoo.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 12:25 AM CDT
this is a beautiful site, and I want you to know that you are not alone. God loves us all....someday we will all be with our beloved ones, Reece is waiting for us all....
kimbelry storey <kimberly@kjvmail.com>
Henagar, Al USA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 5:20 PM CDT
Thinking of you today sweet Reese.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, July 10, 2005 9:23 AM CDT
Hello! I'm hoping to come to the Run for Reese/Jog for Jordan this year, my son, Kraig has MPS II. I hope to coordinate our UNC visit around the time of your run. Leslie is a gem! We just love her, I'm so glad she is there to help you organize this event.
Love Ya,
Kris and Kraiggy
Kraig's Journal
Klenke Bowl 2005

Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org ** www.caringbridge.org/il/kraig/ **>
Worden, IL - Monday, July 4, 2005 8:19 PM CDT
I will certainly keep you in my prayers for your needs--God knows what they are. Also, I am more than willing to get a group of Parkland kids together to help with the Run. I mentioned this to Carrie also. But, whatever you guys need me to do, I am willing to do. So, just let me know. I'll keep check on you. I hope the rest of the Summer is as enjoyable as possible. Blessings to you & Happy July 4th!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, July 4, 2005 11:55 AM CDT
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EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, June 27, 2005 9:39 PM CDT
It's so good to hear from you Shawn. I'm thrilled you are settled into your new home and family...God bless you all. Much love sent your way and I do hope things work out for you (whatever's going on). We love you...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 9:25 PM CDT
Dear Shawn & Family,
I met your Mom last weak thru an e-bay sale and how lucky you are to have such a great Mom. Thru our conversation we found we had a lot in common . You are blessed to have such a sweet darling little gaurdian angel ^^Reesecup^^. I too soon will have a special guardian angel. My precious husband was diagnosed with a massive terminal brain tumor and there's nothing to help him short of a miracle. Every day we have now is a blessing from God. May God bless you and your family !!

Janie Koch <truckingreat@netins.net>
Conrad, Iowa U.S.A. - Sunday, June 19, 2005 6:35 PM CDT
Praying that the sky stays up where it belongs.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Saturday, June 18, 2005 4:15 AM CDT
Your story touched me. I'm sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute.
Angela
NC - Friday, June 17, 2005 11:21 PM CDT
Long time, no talk! So sorry it's been so long since I've visited. You know how life goes--quickly!
I read some of your old entries, and I can't believe you've gotten married, moved, and done so much! Wow, congrats!
I also read your entry about Taylor wanting to go to Duke, but worrying about having to turn off a machine. Mady asked me the other day why she doesn't have a sister. We've been considering trying again soon, so I've been asking her lately how she'd like a baby in the house. The first several times she argued with me, saying she likes babies, but she has her dolls and that's just fine. So, when I pressed the subject a little, she said that she didn't think we needed a baby because what if Jesus decided to take it to heaven, too? Well, what do you say to that? She just turned 3, and obviously never met her big brother Ty...she just knows that he went to heaven, and then Jesus sent her to me to make me happy again because I was so sad when Ty left. So, now, in her newly 3 year old mind, she wonders if it will happen again.
These are things we shouldn't have to talk about to our kids, but yet, here we are.
The good news is, we've accepted what we've been given, embraced what we were handed (good and bad) and will get to have then back again, someday. The bad news is, we have to muddle around here and answer such questions until then.
I am so happy for you, and hope you and your newly expanded family are blissfully happy. I am sure that Reese is right there with you!

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 15, 2005 10:50 AM CDT
I am so glad to see the update. It sounds like life is rolling along. Step parenting is a hard job but from experience on the childs point of view, step moms are great. I had one for years and even though Dad and her are divorced I still consider her family my own. In fact, I lived with her for a couple of years much to my dad's dismay ( I was an adult though) I am so excited about the Run for ^^Reese^^ and Jog for ^^Jordan^^ dates. It is the weekend before my birthday. What a way to celebrate. :) I really want to help. Let me know what I can do and I will do it. I would love to be a part of things. Even if you just need volunteers for the day I will be there. I will pray for you and your bumps in the road.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, Nc USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 8:15 AM CDT
I thought I would stop by and say
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It's raining here and I wish for this.
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Plus I had to stop by and let you know that I'm thinking of you always.

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EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, June 13, 2005 1:30 PM CDT
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EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, June 13, 2005 1:18 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
Glad to see the update and it sounds like you are very busy right now. Hope all is well and I am sure that you are enjoying getting settled into the new house and spending lots of time with Steve and his children. I will say special prayers for you and I know that God will see you through whatever is going on right now. I am so excited for Toni and Andy and I am sure that they are going to be wonderful parents. My prayers are that things will go smoothly with the adoption process but I will also pray for this mother that is going to be letting her baby go. It takes alot of courage and alot of love for her to love her baby enough to give the baby to someone who will provide it with a good life and lots of love.
Hope that you and the girls have a fun day on Saturday and that you get alot accomplished with getting the fund raiser going in the right direction. take care!!!

Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Saturday, June 11, 2005 1:42 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today. Can't wait to see you Sunday! :)
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, June 10, 2005 1:26 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
Just dropping by to see if there are any new updates. I am assuming that life is moving right along. I am sure that Taylor is out of school by now and starting to enjoy his summer. I was by the cemetary the other day and of course I had to stop and check on Reese and things looked 'a-okay'. I just read on Jordans site that the date has been set for the Run for Reese/Jog for Jordan. Jeff and I hope to be able to come this year and maybe bring some of the boys down that helped with the supper. Sounds like Cody is having a tough go of it right now... it is so unfair what these kids and their families have to go through. How is the selling of the house going? When are you planning on moving? Hope all is going well. Enjoy your summer.
love ya

Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
MT AIRY, nc - Sunday, June 5, 2005 10:13 AM CDT

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, May 30, 2005 11:03 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and always Reesecup

Shawn this is a poem I found and thought of all of the sweet little angels.........

A Tiny Angel
By Ravelle Whitener

There was a tiny angel
Who visited for a while
His secret sparkled in his eyes
and lighted up his smile.
There was a tiny angel
Who came to us one day
He kept his wings tucked out of sight
'twas time to fly away.
There was a tiny angel
Who blessed us here on Earth
With laughter, love, and tenderness
he charmed us from his birth.
There was a tiny angel
Who heard heaven call him near
So with a sign he bid goodbye
to those he loved so dear.
Now ... there is a tiny angel
Breathing deep of heaven's air
Whose wings soar out behind him
as he dips and swirls with flair.
There is a tiny angel
Who twinkles in a star
Whose breath is in a mountain breeze
that blows in from afar.
There is a tiny angel
Who flutters softly by
On butterfly wings you'll find him
or in clouds across the sky.
There is a tiny angel
Who has now become a part
Of the love you feel inside you
as you keep him in your heart.

Jodie <jjohnston_80@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 23, 2005 1:03 PM CDT
Dear Shawn,
I am so glad to hear all your good news and that everyday is not like your last entry. I know that even for me, that I tend to update on highs and lows and that most days are in between. It sounds like you have a wonderful Summer ahead of you. I am so glad. Love, Anne

Anne Himes <arhimes@msn.com www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, Md USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 11:45 AM CDT
Hello Shawn, I check everyday for an update. I can't wait to hear how many more good things are happening in your life.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 7:42 AM CDT
Good Morning!!! I am so glad that things are still going so well...I have read the posted entry a couple of times but finally decided to sign in...Cody has actually been inpatient so actually taking the time to sign the guestbooks has been a little beyond my brain function for the most part...Anyway, you all remain in our thoughts and prayers...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 6:09 AM CDT
So Happy for you and your family!!!
Tanya Roulette <KTD7374@charter.net>
Maryville, TN - Saturday, May 14, 2005 6:47 PM CDT
Hello Shawn and family. Just wanted to stop by and let you know that you have been on my mind alot lately. Hope that you all are well...i know that you are enjoying your new husband safe at home. Take Care.
Love,
Beth Anne

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <laneybug02@charter.net>
Rogersville, TN - Saturday, May 14, 2005 10:26 AM CDT
hell my name is jammie street and i just wanna say that im very sorry and that god works in mystries ways and that he hasent 4 gottan younand your family so keep god bye by your side thank you and god bless your whole family


Jammie Street <sassydevil_85@ yahoo.com>
Yuma, az us - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:04 AM CDT
hell my name is jammie street and i just wanna say that im very sorry and that god works in mystries ways and that he hasent 4 gottan younand your family so keep god bye by your side thank you and god bless your whole family


Jammie Street <sassydevil_85@ yahoo.com>
Yuma, az us - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:04 AM CDT
Can't wait to hear some more news. Happy Belated Mother's Day.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:51 AM CDT
Hello Shawn. Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you... Hope that you are enjoying your new husband near to home. Take care.
Love,
Beth Anne

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <laneybug02@charter.net>
Rogersville, TN - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:05 AM CDT
Thinking of you all on Reese's heavenly anniversary. God bless.
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:58 PM CDT
Thinking of you yesterday on Mother's Day, your second without your sweet Reese. I hope it was still a good one, with moments of joy included. Love you!
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, May 9, 2005 9:52 AM CDT
Thinking of you with love and Prayers on Mother's Day!
Love,
Missy Morgan (friend of Lindsey Efird)



Missy Morgan <missy@rollinghillsgin.com>
New London, NC USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:55 PM CDT
Wishing you a Happy Mother's Day
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:34 AM CDT
Hoping you are able to enjoy Mothers Day and glad to hear things are finally working in your guys' favor!
Chris & Gooch
- Saturday, May 7, 2005 1:59 PM CDT
I'm hoping to see you at the walk tomorrow. We love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 9:40 AM CDT

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Thursday, May 5, 2005 5:01 PM CDT
I am crying tears of Joy. I am so happy to read such good news about you, your Mom, and Toni & Andy. I am so happy that Toni & Andy are going to adopt! They are going to make great parents. Please continue to update us with all the good news! We love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 3:02 PM CDT
I am so happy to hear all of the good news. You do deserve all of it and so much more. I can just imagine you trying to find Steve at the airport. I know you were so frantic not to miss him. I just wanted to stop by and check on all of you. Are you going to the rainbow walk? I was thinking of it but I don't have a 'team together' and I feel so lost out there. I really want to experience it though.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, Nc USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:23 AM CDT
Oh, Shawn, I couldn't be happier for you. As special as your family is, it's about time things start going your way. Can't wait to meet Steve. He has to be one special person to make you so happy. Hope to see you soon. I'll be with Carrie on May 7 at the "Rainbow Walk".
Love you all, ^^Jordan's^^ Gram, Connie

Connie Horton <connie0131@hotmail.com>
Forsyth, Il - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:08 AM CDT
Thrilled to pieces for you Shawn!!! Your family does deserve happiness because you have paid your dues. Congrats to your Mom and Toni too. God bless y'all. We love you...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 5:48 PM CDT
I am very happy for you. Your life seems to be turning around. You just have to put your trust wholly in God and keep it there. I hope everything works out for your mom and she does get her voice back. As for Toni, I could not be happier for her and I give God the full praise for this adoption. I am sending you a little F.R.O.G. reminder---"Fully Rely On God". Don't forget this so that every time you see a frog for real or even a picture or figurine you will be reminded to fully rely on God. May God continue to shower you with His wonderful blessings.
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 1:53 PM CDT
Praying for you and may God give you the strengh you need and derseve.. I did't knoe Lil Reese found his page today (BY the way I Lv the nickname Reese Cups) soo Cute just like him, I know the pain of look and wanting it back so very bad it huts phycsally and wanting to tell their story and not be able to. if you ever need some one to talk to you can email me Will keep you in our prayers for your family what a sweet face!!
With Gods Love
April and "Angel" Mae MAe and Mimmie and Boys
www.caringbridge.org/tn/mimmie (Page to our other kiddos)

www.geocities.com/angelmomfriends5/kayla1.html (MY LIl Girls PAge) <babymsmom04@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:02 PM CDT
Stopping by to say hello and let you know I was thinking of you and Reese today.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:33 AM CDT
thinking of you and your family.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, April 11, 2005 10:08 AM CDT
Shawn, my heart just breaks for you as I read your latest entry. I have no words...only my support and friendship as you continue to grieve the loss of your sweet Reese while celebrating in the joys of your new marriage and your sweet Taylor. I'm so happy for you that Steve is coming home today. I'm sorry I missed your call, I was out of my office today...I bet he was surprised to see you! Have a wonderful reunion. I love you dearly! :)
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, April 8, 2005 4:14 PM CDT
Today's the day!!!! I am so excited for you. I hope you have the best weekend.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Friday, April 8, 2005 8:12 AM CDT
Thinking of you today. One more day to go!!!!
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:29 AM CDT
Hope you have a wonderful "family reunion" when Steve returns...you deserve it Shawn. I love you and think of you so often! kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 2:51 PM CDT
Just stopping in to say I'm thinking of you.
love and prayers~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 12:32 AM CDT
Dear Shawn,
I am so sorry that you had such a tough day. I don't know your grief but I know the feeling of being trapped somewhere when my feelings go out of control and I can't get away. It is an awful feeling. I bet some of those grandmas have had some loss in their long lives and related to you better than you think. I saw a segment on the movie/play Steel Magnolias and someone was asking one of the actors why it was so poplular all over the world and he said "because we have all lost someone. We haven't all won the lottery or made a game winning shot but we have all lost someone." The longer we live, the more true that is. I am glad you husband will be home soon and that you will lift up your head to fight another day. Love, Anne

Anne Himes <arhimes@msn.com www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, Md USA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 11:24 AM CDT
Shawn-
When does it get better? I do the same thing, and you are right. It is completely uncontrolable. Just know that I am always here for you. I am so glad that Steve is going to be home on Friday. We all have to get together to plan the Run for Reese/Jog for Jordan. Take Care and keep your chin up. I love you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 4, 2005 11:07 PM CDT
Hi Shawn. I thought I would stop by to let you know I have been thinking of you, Taylor and ^Reese^. I am sorry you had to go through all of that this weekend. Just when you think you can manage the grief, it sneaks up on and it trips you up. I wanted you to know I will be speaking of ^Reese^ tommorrow night. I have the program in my circle group tommorrow night. I am basing it on caringbridge and adopting children to send cards and packages to. (for our mission projects) I am telling my story of how I got started in caringbridge and of course you know that started with ^^Reese^^. I am really nervous. I know I can't do ^^Reese^^, ^^Jordan^^ or ^^Jacob^^ justice. Please pray for me to have the words and the strength to pull this off. I just wanted you to know that ^^Reese^^ memory is still going strong. I love ya and hope you have more peaceful days ahead.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 9:57 AM CDT
Sending a hug. Not much in the scheme of things but it is sent with love.

Love Tina,PAdraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Monday, April 4, 2005 3:02 AM CDT
Hello Shawn, Hope you are doing well. Just wanted to tell you that Debbie, Greg and Kyan need prayers really bad. Please read the latest entry at www.caringbridge.com/hi/kyan.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, March 31, 2005 8:32 AM CST

HAPPY EASTER LOVE WWW.POSTPALS.CO.UK

Post Pals <info@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, March 25, 2005 2:01 PM CST
Stopping by to say hello, haven't signed in a while but you are always in my prayers.
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
Nj - Thursday, March 24, 2005 11:02 AM CST
Sending our prayers and wish you a Happy Easter

Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Thursday, March 24, 2005 2:12 AM CST
Hi Shawn,

Grief. It stays with us forever...

I'm always thinking of you and your Angel...

Love, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 9:01 PM CST
Thought I would send a quick hello. Thinking of you. Have a Great Easter.
Maria Tuckett <maria.tuckett@jetblue.com;caringbridge.org/ut/tuckett>
Murray, UT US - Monday, March 21, 2005 2:53 AM CST
Checking in on you Shawn...hope you are okay. I think of you often. Hope your hubby will be home soon...I know you do too! Tell Taylor hello. Love to you - kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 1:41 PM CST
Hey Shawn,
I just wanted to write and let you know that I am thinking of you, especially this past thursday. I will never forget your precious boy and your family. You have touched my life forever.
Take care, love you!

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC USA - Friday, March 11, 2005 11:17 PM CST
Hi Reesie Cup - this is your Aunt Toni. I haven't signed in in a long time, but I know that you know that I think of you all the time. I miss you and love you - sending lots of hugs and kisses.

Love always

Aunt Toni <tonistedman@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, March 11, 2005 2:28 PM CST
Shawn, I want you to know that I think of you and Reese all the time. He had a smile that could melt your heart. I will never forget the love that filled his room on 5200 (or the precious decorations). You always felt good when you walked into his room, and everyone wanted to be reese's nurse. Im thankful that I was able to have that opportunity and to know such a wonderful little boy, his very special Mom, Aunt and Family!
Jennifer Walker, RN <d1walker@bellsouth.net>
Raleigh, NC - Friday, March 11, 2005 8:52 AM CST
You're in our thoughts and prayers and please dont beat yourself up with what ifs, I know its human nature to, but you did the best you could, you have to know that
Chris - Gooch's mom
- Friday, March 11, 2005 7:30 AM CST
You are all in our thoughts and prayers today, Reese's second anniversary in heaven. I never imagined how a little baby could touch my heart in such a special way.
God bless!

Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, March 10, 2005 5:52 PM CST
We just wanted to stop by and let you know that we have been thinking about you today. Take care and God bless.
MORGAN'S PAGE

Allison & Morgan Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, March 10, 2005 3:13 PM CST
Sending our love and prayers.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Thursday, March 10, 2005 1:07 AM CST
You are in our prayers as Reese's homegoing anniversary approaches. We know all too well the renewed intensity of the pain and yearning. But, praise God, we also know the blessing of precious memories and, most of all, of the precious promise we have to see our children again. May our Lord shower you with His comfort and peace.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna <galatians5@truevine.net>
Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 8:56 PM CST
From one ^Angel^mom to another

People mean well when they tell you it gets better. It doesn't. It does get different. Yes, I now have those fun times and laugh and play, but I still always miss my little Will and a part of my soul will always cry for him.

Good luck tomorrow. I will be praying for you. I love how you have made Reese's death not in vein. I hope you continue the walk and help other families not have to face what you have. Keep up the good work and healing process.

Carol Strosnider

Carol mommy of ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com>
Monroe, NC - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 8:22 PM CST
CAn't wait to hear how things are going in your life. Hope all is well. I watched the Webcam for MPS day on Friday 25th. It was cool.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc - Thursday, March 3, 2005 11:12 PM CST
Shawn,
I just wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss. i was linked to your website 2 years ago and visited and signed the guestbook until Reese Pasted away. It became to hard for me, I to, had a son that died (I Hate That Word) and the emotions you wrote I could feel to much. With that said, I will tell you, you have made an impact on my life, I didn't have your website on a favorites list or jotted down somewhere, I visited my son's grave today and thought of you and your life now on the way home, I came home and entered your website still ingraved in my mind. I hope you are holding on and keeping in mind that you will she Reese again someday. I too experience the emotions you do, I've moved on and happy and at times catch myself and feel guilty because our son is not here on earth with us. As hard as it may be, continue to embrace life, live life and continue to Love the way you do. Many Prayers and Peace go your way from me.
REbecca Mother to Justice Garrett Jones 01-11-01

Rebecca
Tx - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 3:05 PM CST
Happy National MPS/ML Day! For those that didn't know, Congress has officially passed a resolution designating February 25th as a National Awareness Day along with the color purple! Another way to raise much needed awareness!
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:10 AM CST
Shawn, I can only imagine the feelings you are having after reading the journal. It sounds like they are 'slowly' figuring things out, but how many children won't make it before they do? I can see where you would question things. You did all you could do at that time. My thoughts and prayers are with you always but especially with the weeks coming up. Just remember ^^Reese^^ loves you and you are a great Mommy. I am glad you have positive things going on in your life to keep you going. Just let me know when the ball gets rolling on this years "Run for Reese". I am sending you lots of love, good thoughts and well wishes.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 11:36 AM CST
Hey Shawn, I absolutely love the tattoo. It is beautiful, and a wonderful way to honor Reesie Cup! Glad to hear that Taylor had a good Christmas, and I wish you both the best. Also, Congratulations on your marriage!!! So many things going on for you right now! My prayers are with you during your new journey!
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Walkertown, NC USA - Monday, February 21, 2005 2:32 PM CST
Shawn, love the tatoo it is beautiful. resse will love it too. I think of you guys often. Sending love and prayers your way.
penny clark <wonkoolmom@ntelos.net>
bassett, va - Saturday, February 19, 2005 9:47 PM CST
I think of you often and can't imagine the pain you still have. Always know that other MPS moms - especially me - hope you have more joy and peace than sadness. I'm proud of Taylor talking with you about Reese. I'm sure it helps him also. Take care and keep us posted of what's going on in your life. We love you...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 2:40 PM CST

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 9:58 AM CST
Just wanted you to know that I continue to lift you up in prayer. Know that I care for you. The work that you do is amazing and is a blessing to so many people. I will check back in on you as I can. Blessings in Christ.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, February 13, 2005 7:55 AM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn!!!!
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, February 10, 2005 8:38 AM CST
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!!! Hope you have a fantaboulous day!!! I know that Reese will be watching over you all day today, so make sure you are smiling!!!! Give Taylor hugs and kisses!!!
Sarah <sarahthomas@financial.wellsfargo.com>
Urbandale, Ia - Thursday, February 10, 2005 7:23 AM CST
Shawn, it's been a long time since I checked your website (since I lost your address) and just wanted to say congratulations on your marriage. I spent a while reading your journals, and I'm glad that you are finding the ability to cope with your incredible loss. God is able, He is willing, and He is awesome!

Your love and concern for others is a blessing, Shawn, and it shows in Taylor. May you be blessed every minute, knowing that Reese's life touched so many, including mine, in a way that will never fade. He was an angel on earth - a messenger of God to tell us of His amazing love.

Carolyn Wyman <sythismom@yahoo.com>
Belding, MI Triumphant Trimper Trio Country! - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 3:44 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REECE!! I am sure you had a wonderful celebration in heaven. Now this is for your mom, I found your site through another, and was curious if you were kin to my brother-in-law who is a COBLE and most of his relatives live in North Carolina. My brother in law is Paul Coble Jr, everyone calls him Eddie, he lives in VA. Just curious if there was a relation. Take care and I will keep your family in my prayers.
Darla Lindenmayer (Angel Matt's mom 7-3-90-4-22-04) <DLinden73@aol.com www.caringbridge.org/in/angelbarneyboo>
Lexington, IN United States - Monday, January 31, 2005 8:00 PM CST
Happy belated Birthday Reese~cup! You know I don't have a computer at home so I had to come see you this morning. I hope you had the best birthday ever. I want to thank you for coming into my life-even as your real journey began. Because of you, my life has changed. You have shown me a world that I didn't know existed. I have met so many true and lasting friends because of you. I have been educated in so many things that you hope never to learn about. I hope to help change some of those things. I know my little bit isn't much but if everyone does a little bit, it will add up. Thank you for teaching me to take each day and live it to the fullest. You never know when it will be the last. I love you and miss you. Keep watching over Mommy and Taylor. Let her know you are there. She is forever watching and listening.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, January 31, 2005 10:40 AM CST
Happy Birthday Reese sweetie. Although the time with you are way too short, I hope some good memories of you help your family get through the especially hard days
Chris - Gooch's mom Share the Love
- Sunday, January 30, 2005 11:48 AM CST
Happy Birthday Reese. I hope you are having a lovely party.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melrosroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Sunday, January 30, 2005 8:54 AM CST
Happy 3rd birthday Reesie Cup! We miss you so much. Give hugs and kisses to Jordan. I know he is helping you eat that birthday cake in heaven.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, January 29, 2005 9:36 PM CST
Happy 3rd birthday sweet Reese! We love you so much! You've brought some really special people into my life! Sending you lots of hugs & kisses today.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, January 29, 2005 7:10 PM CST
I thought of Reese when I saw this so I thought I would share it with you.


Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, January 29, 2005 3:39 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweetness! Nanna is missing you bunches today. Got a cool tattoo to celebrate you and your birthday. It is a sweet little baby angel, not as sweet as you of course, but everytime someone sees it I will tell them about my precious baby angel, Reesie Cup.(Not that I need an excuse or reason to tell anyone about my precious, sweet grandchildren!) I think of you everyday, and miss you so much. Here are my hugs and kisses coming up to heaven. Happy Birthday, Love Nanna Julia XOXOXOXO
Julia Hill <bluecornmoon2@aol.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 3:36 PM CST
Dropping by with knowing hugs and tears on Reese's birthday. May our Lord hold you close and may you know His and Reese's presence in a very special way.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna <galatians5@truevine.net>
Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 2:00 PM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Reese!!
I hope that you and baby Jordan and all of the other little ones are dancing all over Heaven today.
Shawn, we are looking forward to seeing you next week. Take care and enjoy the snow.

Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Saturday, January 29, 2005 10:46 AM CST
Happy Birthday in Heaven, ^Reese^


Shawn, Taylor and Steve,

WOW! It sounds like a lot of wonderful things are happening with you all. Congratulations on your marriage, Taylor, Congratulations on losing your first tooth!!
You are all showing everyone just what it means to move FORWARD!!

We'll definitly be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers!!


Love, hugs, and forever moving FORWARD...

Eva and Rodney <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Saturday, January 29, 2005 5:44 AM CST
My prayers for your wedding I pray that yourself and
new husband Steve and family will put God first and your
marriage will be all that God wants it to be.

Minister Paul W. Hart <PAUL HART@WACHOVIA.COM>
Winston-Salem, NC. Forsyth - Friday, January 28, 2005 3:22 AM CST
Congratulations on your marriage. I am so glad you felt Reese there with you too.. I will keep you in my prayers!
Love~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 7:55 AM CST
Shawn,
Good Morning! Congratulations on your marriage! I am so happy for you and Taylor. God Bless. Have a great day!Always in my prayers. Please let Christy know that I said Congratulations too!! Love, Michelle

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 6:52 AM CST
Congratulations on your marriage. May God Bless You All with many years of happiness. I check your sight everyday just to keep in contact. I've missed your updates. Don't let it be so long before we hear from you and Taylor. May God Bless Steve as he protects our country.

Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Sunday, January 23, 2005 6:24 PM CST
Congratulations on all your great news!!! It sounds like you are going to be very busy. I am glad that Christy is happy and busy too. Your big boy is wise beyond his years but I know you are doing your best to soften all the harshness that has come into his young life. Our children have seen way too much but it might lead to great things for them and the world yet. I am glad you updated. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <arhimes@msn.com www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Sunday, January 23, 2005 6:01 PM CST
Congraulations on your new marraige.Hope things keep looking up for you guys. Thinking of you every day.
penny clark <wonkoolmom@ntelos.net>
bassett, va - Sunday, January 23, 2005 2:14 PM CST
I forgot to thank you for updating on Christy. I hadn't heard anything about her in so long. I am so glad she is doing better and getting her life back (so to speak).
carol burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
- Friday, January 21, 2005 8:29 AM CST
WOW! What an entry. I am so glad you and Steve got married. That's the way to do it. Just go off and do it without all of the frills, etc... I know Reese was with you the whole time. He is such a thoughtful little boy sending you those ladybugs. You always know he is around but when you get that sign it is something even more special. It sounds like a lot of changes are happening. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today and everyday. When you start hammering out details for the Run for Reese let me know so I can help. I emailed the other day at the address on the webpage. I don't know if it is still a good address or not. I hope you got it. Just know your always in my heart and in my prayers. I am sooooooooo happy for you and Steve.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Friday, January 21, 2005 8:26 AM CST
Congradulations on your new marraige. :)

God bless you

Sally Torres <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
Anaheim, ca - Thursday, January 20, 2005 5:59 PM CST
Hey Shawn...it's so nice to hear from you on the webpage. I continue to enjoy looking at your wedding photos you sent through eMail. Mark was so excited when I told him. Me, him and Hannah all looked at your "wedding album" together. I'm very excited for you and Steve. I hope Taylor adjusts very well with the move. I'd love to see Doug's tatoo. Mark has mentioned doing this with Lindsey's picture several times. Take care and God bless y'all...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Thursday, January 20, 2005 11:05 AM CST
Once again, Congradulations on your marriage. Jeff has been hard at work getting things ready for the spaghetti supper and we are looking forward to seeing you on the 6th. I hope that we are able to raise alot of money to help support the "Run for Reece". Every dollar helps and we just pray that the money will help find a cure for this disease so that no other child has to suffer from this horrible monster. take care and just be happy!!!
Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Thursday, January 20, 2005 8:55 AM CST
CONGRATULATIONS! I'm so happy for you, Taylor and Steve. Can't wait to meet him. Mike and I will be staying with Carrie while Patrick is in Texas for his training. Hope we can get to see you and Taylor while we're there. Love, Connie
Connie Horton <connie0131@hotmail.com>
Forsyth, Il - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 12:52 AM CST
Hello Shawn,
I'm glad to see your update. I have been wondering how you and Steve have been doing. I talked to Carrie and she told me you were doing well but just busy. I can tell by the entry that yes you have been really busy. Congratulations on the marriage. I wish everything goes as planned and if God blesses you with another child, (that is if Steve is not Hurler carrier), then I want the best for both of you. I'll miss you when you move to Sanford, NC....but hopefully you will keep you email address.

Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, January 19, 2005 11:53 AM CST

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, January 16, 2005 12:43 AM CST
what a beautiful little boy god bless you all
donna dowding <donzouk@yahoo.co.uk>
uk - Saturday, January 15, 2005 2:30 PM CST
Thinking of you today and always.......
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, January 13, 2005 11:14 AM CST
Just thinking of all of our MPS children. I have 2.
Gabrielle Rivas <gabbi_001@msn.com>
South El Monte, ca USA - Sunday, January 9, 2005 9:54 PM CST
We all know how much you love Reese. I am just so happy that you can find peace and be happy. It gives the rest of us hope, knowing that eventually we will find our way to the place that you are at now. I need to start scheduling vacation for this year and I would love to be at the Run this year. Please let me know when you find out when it will be. Take care and let 2005 be a great year.
Kris Horton <klhorton@hotmail.com>
Forsyth, IL - Sunday, January 9, 2005 2:18 PM CST
I just wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy New Year! I know this will be a great one for you. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and Taylor.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, January 3, 2005 1:31 PM CST
Just stopping by to wish you a happy and healthy New Year. There is nothing wrong with healing. I hope 2005 is a great year for you. God Bless!
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://www2.caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Saturday, January 1, 2005 1:08 PM CST
Dearest Shawn and Taylor,
I pray you both find tons of happiness in the new year. You are an amazing Mom and friend, and if anyone deserves happiness, it's you. We think of you often, and hope you are both doing well. Happy New Year, Love, ^^Jordans^^ Gram, Connie

Connie Horton <connie0131@hotmail.com>
Forsyth, Il - Friday, December 31, 2004 1:09 PM CST

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, December 31, 2004 12:32 AM CST
Hello. I found your website on sharethelove.org. I just learned of this site as we've had a cb page for 2 years. Our Reid was born 12/01 and followed a very similar course to you all (different diagnosis). The reason I found your link, was becasue when I saw the name Reese. We were given another angel here on earth in 1/04 and we named her Reese- I know your Reese was as much a blessing to you as ours has been. I couldn't believe how similar our stories were. I wanted to wish you and your family a Happy New Year. I'm sure like me, you cling on to hope and continue to take it one day at a time! Many blessings, Carol Miller, mother to my forever baby Reid
Carol Miller (www.caringbridge.org/ky/reidmiller) <dmill3@insightbb.com>
bowling green, ky - Friday, December 31, 2004 11:56 AM CST
Hey Shawn...I've been checking on you all month. I hope you're okay. Know that we love you and think of you often. kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4mps@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Tuesday, December 28, 2004 9:33 PM CST
Hey! I wanted to stop by and wish you a happy new year. I know 2005 will be GREAT for you. Just letting you know that your in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Tuesday, December 28, 2004 1:56 PM CST
Dear Shawn and Taylor,

Wishing you a very merry Christmas and a wonderful 2005.

Liz, Raj, Simi, and Asher <woodsedge@pobox.com>
Durham, NC - Friday, December 24, 2004 7:36 PM CST

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, December 24, 2004 1:36 PM CST
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!!

Love and Hugs,

Tami Slawson ( www.caringbridge.com/ca/slawson <tlslawson@aol.com>
- Friday, December 24, 2004 7:50 AM CST
I hope you have a Joyful Christmas and a great 2005.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Thursday, December 23, 2004 9:21 AM CST


Remembering Angel Reese and wishing you a happy holiday.
You are in our prayers.

Smile Quilts Angels and all your friends at Smile Quilts <smilequilts@smilequilts.com>
- Thursday, December 23, 2004 1:24 AM CST
Shawn,
We wish you a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from Wayne, Paige, Morgan & Madison (MPSIIIA) Lewis.
www.caringbridge.org/nc/madisonlewis

Paige Lewis <paigel@purolatorair.com>
Middlesex, NC USA - Wednesday, December 22, 2004 3:45 PM CST
Hi just wanted to say hello! And say that I'm thinking of you.
Merry christmas from Vibeke. (Vibe from MPS-forum)

Vibeke <vibekehovd@hotmail.com>
Skaun, Trondheim, Norway - Sunday, December 19, 2004 10:18 AM CST
Glad to hear that the Lord is putting some joy in your heart in the midst of missing Reese. Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, December 17, 2004 5:03 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
I am so thrilled that you have found your joy again. You have my permission to be just as happy as you possibly can be!!! You couldn't live the life Reese would want you to have if you were constantly drowning in sorrow. I have no doubt that you love Reese every bit as much as the day he left this earth and you always will. I am just glad that you are easier with the grief. Enjoy your holiday! Love, Anne

Anne Himes <arhimes@msn.com www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Thursday, December 16, 2004 6:48 PM CST
Hi Shawn
You don't know me but I have been following yours & Reese's journey for a few years now. I may have signed the guestbook before, but if so it has been a while. I used to live in Winston-Salem but now live in Virginia. But I still check your website regularly and care about how you are doing. I lost a daughter 7 1/2 years ago, and while I can't say I know how exactly you feel, because your journey is different than mine, I do know the pain losing a child, and I can relate to so much of what you are saying. Your latest entry touches me because I have walked a similar path.

My reason for writing today is to let you and your many supporters know about something I just learned of yesterday. You and the many, many friends who clearly love and remember Reese might want to participate.

Sunday, December 12, (today!) is the Worldwide Candle Lighting around the world, in memory of all children who have died. This was created by The Compassionate Friends, a self-help bereavement group which helps families who have lost children get through their journey of grief. Realizing that the holidays are particularly difficult for those of us who have lost a child, they have started a beautiful tradition. The candle lighting began eight years ago and is held the second Sunday in December each year.

At 7 p.m. local time, each person lights a candle in memory of the child they have lost or wish to honor, and lets it burn for one hour. Candles are first lit just west of the International Date line and an hour later in the next time zone, eventually creating a 24-hour wave of light to remember all children who have died, no matter the age or country of origin. Please join this beautiful ceremony by lighting a candle at home or with friends. I know I will be.

God bless you this holiday season!

A friend you haven't met
Virginia - Sunday, December 12, 2004 7:50 AM CST
Hiya Shawn,

I never thought it would be possible. I just gave away 20 of Douglas' toys to the Springs Rescue Mission. I know what you're saying. I never thought it would be possible...

I love you!!! We will see you on our return to Duke.

Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Thursday, December 9, 2004 10:09 PM CST
G'Mornin.....Just wanted you to know altho I don't write to often we're thinking of you. What a wonderful update. Happy Holidays to you all from Maine. love you guys. Xoxoxoxoxoxo
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
- Wednesday, December 8, 2004 6:58 AM CST
keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!
Love~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
- Tuesday, December 7, 2004 9:58 AM CST
OH HOW YOUR ENTRY WARMED MY HEART. YOU ARE NOT FORGETTING REECE, YOU ARE JUST ALLOWING YOURSELF TO RELISH IN THE HAPPY MEMORIES WITHOUT YOUR FOCUS BEING ON THE BAD DAYS. REGARDLESS OF WHAT WE WANT, LIFE DOES GO ON AND IT IS BETTER TO BE A PART OF THE LAND OF THE LIVING THAN IT IS TO MOURN FOREVER. OUR BABIES WOULD NOT WANT US TO ALWAYS BE SAD, REMEMBER HOW HAPPY THAT REECE WAS WHEN HE SAW YOU LAUGH;IT MADE HIM LAUGH ALSO. SO IMAGINE THE LAUGHTER GOING ON IN HEAVEN WHEN HE SEES HIS MOMMY LAUGHING AGAIN. HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR HEART AND NO ONE SHOULD EVER BEGRUDGE YOU FOR BEING HAPPY AGAIN.
I LOVE THE CHRISTMAS TREE THAT YOU HAVE ON HIS GRAVE SITE. WE RODE THRU THERE THE OTHER DAY TO CHECK ON JEFFS GRANDFATHERS GRAVE AND I ALWAYS MAKE JEFF DRIVE DOWN AND CHECK ON REECES' ALSO. YOU KNOW, JUST IN CASE THE FLOWERS ARE KNOCKED OVER AND I NEED TO SET THEM UP AND FEEL LIKE REECE IS KICKING THEM OVER AGAIN AND LAUGHING.
I HOPE THAT YOU, TAYLOR AND YOUR FAMILY HAVE A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS.

STEPHANIE BECK <SMBECK@SURRY.NET>
MT AIRY, NC - Tuesday, December 7, 2004 9:14 AM CST
I love you Shawn...I am so happy for this milestone you are passing. I'm encouraged by your Peace about "moving on, it's time". God help anyone who judges you for thinking that you've "forgotten" your child. Reese would want you to move on and smile when you think of him - not mourn him. I'm so happy for you and I love you...you give me the inspiration I need. Take care & God bless you...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4mps@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Monday, December 6, 2004 6:52 PM CST
Hey there. I am glad to see you are doing so well. You are not wrong in being happy. Reese is looking out for you and trying to make sure you are and will stay that way. He wouldn't want you remember the 'not so happy' times or dwelling on them. He is and will remain a part of your life no matter how many children you have. I hope that Carrie will see the steps you have gone through and see that there will be one day a light at the end of the tunnel. It doesn't make you a bad or forgetful mother when you don't cry everyday. You need to live in the light and not only in the clouds and rain. Remember, ladybugs like sunshine not rain.:) I wish you all of the happiness, laughter, love and good memories that you can stand. You are such a radiant loving person. You can see and feel Reese and his presence oozing out of you. LOL
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, December 6, 2004 2:36 PM CST
I'm getting ready to leave for Houston and am worried that I won't have computer access on the 10th but you know that I will sending extra prayers on Reese's 21 month anniversary in heaven. He & Jordan have etched a special place on my heart and I will never be the same. Take care & God bless!
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, December 5, 2004 8:54 AM CST
Missing you Reese. What a beautiful smile you have !!
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Friday, December 3, 2004 8:02 AM CST
Just wanted to drop by to wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Family <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Thursday, November 25, 2004 10:27 AM CST
I know exactly what you are talking about. I still haven't really gone thru Tommy's things. I just can't bear to part with any of it so I have it all stored away. I know it is going to be hard, but I hope that you have a nice Thanksgiving.


Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Thursday, November 25, 2004 1:00 AM CST
Thinking of you this Thanksgiving.
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Wednesday, November 24, 2004 10:20 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving in Heaven ^i^Resse Cup^i^ & Tator Tots!

Nater Gapa www.caringbridge.org/ny/naters_page <gaphouse@yahoo.com>
Lyndonville!, ny! ***USA*** - Wednesday, November 24, 2004 7:28 PM CST
Hey girl. You just caused me to have a flashback. It is funny how certain things can take you right back to those last minutes, isn't it? Ty also died in the PICU, and I will never forget leaving him there, walking away from his tiny little body in that big old bed. Why did they have to be in such huge beds, anyway? It still seems surreal as I recall it, and it's been over 3 years. It never gets easier to recall those moments, though the rest has gotten remarkably easier with time.
I'm so sorry to hear that you have to go through his things, although there is alot of healing to be done as you do it, too. It's not going to be easy, but no one said you have to give them away. Keep them. You could have a big shadow box made with some of his toys and favorite outfits and stuff. My sister in law had a beautiful one done after losing her son at full term (stillborn). It had his pic, a poem, and some momentos. You could have a huge one done to hang in your hallway or something with clothes and toys and pictures or something. It could be so great for you to go through his stuff, though. You need to set aside a whole day, and do it alone, and just cry and snot all over yourself as you do it. There are no rules when doing something so unthinkable, but it's important that you close that door in your life. Never will you close the door on Reese, but as long as you know his stuff is in that room, you will continue to put off closing that part of your memories. It's a healing thing, even if it seems like torture.
Know that I'm always here to talk if you need something, even though i'm not always good at checking my email.
HAPPY TURKEY DAY, GIRL. I know it's not always easy to do holidays without our boys, but it's not really WITHOUT them anyway, now is it?
XOXOXO

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, November 21, 2004 7:58 PM CST
I am glad you are doing good, Things take time, and you will always have good, and bad days. Have you stayed intouch with cristy, Brittany's mom. I lost there web page address, and just found it, but it hasn't been updated in a long time. I know she was going through some really hard times, and I always wonder how she is doing. Please e-mail me at dmongar@colliers-seeley.com and let me know how she is doing.
Debbie Mongar <dmongar@colliers-seeley.com>
Torrance, CA 90501 - Thursday, November 18, 2004 6:21 PM CST
Thinking of you!
Love and prayers~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Thursday, November 18, 2004 11:23 AM CST
I've tried several times to get on your guestbook, but this computer keeps bumping me out/timing out. Finally...
I hope you're doing well. I enjoy hearing about your visits to Duke, even when they're bittersweet. I'm so glad Run for Reese was so successful. Thanks for the info on Sylvia's grandson from Salisbury. I'd love to meet/hear from them some time. Take care and give Taylor a hug from Lindsey & Hannah. We love you Shawn...kle

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4mps@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Monday, November 15, 2004 9:12 PM CST
Wanted to stop in for a big Hello! While subbing at the local school recently, I met a sweet little guy that I found out later had MPS. Of course, when I learned of it, I immediately thought of you and Reese. I wasn't able to participate in the local MPS run, but I did get to stop by for a donation. OF course, I thought of Reese then, too. Hope you're doing okay. Drop a line sometime!
Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Monday, November 15, 2004 9:37 AM CST
Shawn-
Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. I'm not sure if I have your home phone number, so if you get a chance call me or e-mail it to me. I will try to get in touch with you today so that we can decide where to meet tomorrow to go see Laney & Beth Ann. I love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, November 13, 2004 10:21 AM CST
Thinking of you all on Sweet Reese's 20 month anniversary in heaven. We may not have raised as much monetarily as we would have liked, but awareness is immeasurable. So many people now know about MPS disorders and now love both Reese & Jordan. Thank you again for allowing me to take part.
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 3:30 PM CST
Shawn,
I think you deserve a HUGE pat on the back for even considering such an event. I know it's more than I have ever been willing to bite off. And $3000 is $3000...sounds like a good days (or several days) work to me.
So sorry we missed it. Will you and Taylor make it Disney?
Lots of Love,

Laura Burke <burkenc@charter.net>
Asheville, NC - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 11:20 AM CST
Oh Sweetie,

Do not be sad!!!! You did a great job and you should know all our MPS babies and MPS families are so proud of you! We all thank you for your hard work and dedication to all our MPS babies in Reese's Name! God Bless You!!! Money does not matter as much as spreading the word about MPS and our children! Thank you for working soooooooooooo hard for MPS!

Love and Hugs,

TLSlawson@aol.com ( www.caringbridge.com/ca/slawson ) <TLSlawson@aol.com>
La Verne, CA - Monday, November 8, 2004 10:02 PM CST
Just checking in to let you know I was thinking of you and Taylor. :)
Carol Burgess <carol_ burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, November 8, 2004 12:16 AM CST
thinking of you
Love and prayers~

Jennifer Parenti & family <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Sunday, November 7, 2004 4:40 PM CST
Thanks again for letting me be part of the "old timer" helpers for the Run for Reese/Jog for Jordan. It was so good to get to see Carrie and her family. Hope you and Taylor are doing great. I can't wait for the next Run, I will want to be a part of it again.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc usa - Saturday, November 6, 2004 9:48 PM CST
Hi Shawn,
Regarding getting more people to attend the Run for Reese next year: I live and work in Research Triangle Park, NC. Next year, send me some flyers and I will distribute them to running shops and running clubs throughout the area to help you promote the event.

Cheers,
Elizabeth Ruben
4107 Westfield Drive
Durham, NC 27705

elizabeth
durham, nc usa - Saturday, November 6, 2004 3:43 AM CST
Just checking in on you and read about the run. You shouldn't be disappointed! You raised $3,000 that the MPS society didn't have before! I'm sure it was a bittersweet event for both you and the Hortons, but I'm sure your angels were looking down with pride! Sylvia Brown? THE Sylvia Brown?...the psychic? Wow...what a small world.
Taylor looks very handsome in his pictures! God Bless!

Lisa Post <LMPOST@cox.net>
- Friday, November 5, 2004 10:58 AM CST
I should have been blonde!!! I forgot to donate on Friday before I left work. I went online and did it this morning. There wasn't a spot to put in honor or memory of someone. You know it was for ^^Reese^^ and ^^Jordan^^. I was thinking of you all Saturday. I hope you had a great turnout. I have a little story to tell you. Saturday afternoon Ethan was digging for insects. His newest past time and lots of new pets. They are for the most part worms and rolly pollies. He brought in one little red ladybug. I started to cry. He put him in the top of a drink bottle and put him in his room. Well needless to say I have a ladybug roaming the house.:) I thouht you would like that story. I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today.
Oh! you wouldn't happen to have any shirts left do you?

Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, November 1, 2004 8:27 AM CST
I hope that you and Taylor has a wonderful Halloween...

I also hope that the Run for Reese, Jog for Jordan dedication was a wonderful success...

You all are in our thoughts and prayers...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Family <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Monday, November 1, 2004 6:46 AM CST

Alicia , Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, October 29, 2004 1:46 PM CDT
Padraic and I wanted to wish you best of luck for the walk tomorrow. Although we can not be there we will be thinking of you and praying for good weather and a great turnout. You are truly making a difference.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Friday, October 29, 2004 3:03 AM CDT
Shawn-
I've been thinking about you so much lately. I can't wait to see you on Saturday at the walk. We love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Wednesday, October 27, 2004 10:28 PM CDT
Hey there! I don't know if you remember me, bit I got to know of you through the Duke grapevine and am pretty close with Eleasha & Carrie so I have been lifting you up in prayer thoughout the journey. I'm sorry it's been so long since I signed in but I certainly haven't forgotten you. I am a teacher at Parkland in W-S and gave my kids a project on genetic disorders. They were to choose a disease and investigate consequences, treatments, lifestyle, etc. They were assigned to describe something posthumously after a person (loved one or not) dies. Someone in my class chose this walk for Reese. I have been praying that God would give me an "in" with the students to get them involved in ministry and service in this matter and this was the answer to my prayers. Praise God. Since she is going to particpate in the walk for her project, I am letting others come for extra credit. Sorry this is so long, but my question is can you or someone that you know of come to my class and talk a little about Hurlers and other genetic diseases in the same family? If so, I would love to hear from you by cell 336 250 9175 or email meat work. In the meantime,know that you are loved, cared for and prayed for. I want to get these students involved in advocating and meeting teh needs of families dealing with genetic disorders. I have been told Heather Scott is related to you so maybe she would be interested in heading it up at school. Anyways, I look forward to hearing from you. HUGS!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 10:18 PM CDT
Thinking of you as the run approaches. Thank you for sending the cute e-card. Hope the day is a huge success!!
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Monday, October 25, 2004 9:31 PM CDT
HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!

Trisha Athy caringbridge.org/il/aaronathy <aaronsmom1027@sbcglobal.net>
Belleville, IL - Monday, October 25, 2004 3:34 PM CDT
Hey! I was thinking of you today. I know you are going crazy about now with everything going on for this weekend. I will be getting with you on a donation by Friday. I am praying for sunshine and ladybugs!
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, October 25, 2004 1:38 PM CDT
Hey Shawn. I know you are busy prepping for the run this coming weekend. I pray the weather is good and the turnout is great again. Unfortunately we won't be able to come this year. I hope to be able to attend the Women of Faith Conference in Charlotte with 20,000 other Christian Women...it's the ultimate girl party! This will be my third year - as long as Lindsey is well - and I desperately need it. My best friend Missy hopes to come again. I hope Hannah will come with her. Take care and have a restful and anticipated week! We love you Shawn...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Sunday, October 24, 2004 11:29 AM CDT
Hi Shawn,

I want to wish you a BIG GOOD LUCK on your upcoming run! I know Reese will make sure it is the best!!! I'm praying for good weather and a great turnout....But from the pictures I saw last year I know it will be a great day!! PS don't sweat the little stuff.... and Remember everything is little stuff (after having children with MPS everything IS little stuff!!)... and Remember to have lots of FUN!!!!!!!!!

Hugs

Tami Slawson <TLSlawson@aol.com>
La Verne, CA - Thursday, October 21, 2004 9:40 PM CDT
Shawn~
Thank you for stopping by Caden's site and signing the guestbook. I have read Reese's story. What an amazing little guy! I can not imagine the journey you have been on. My heart aches for your loss. Your strength inspires me. Your dream must have brought you such comfort. I am so glad Reese sent it to you. I am praying for your continued strength and peace. May God bless each of you every day. May you have many more sweet dreams of Reese.

www3.caringbridge.org/tx/cadenlane

Vicki Williams <vicki.williams@netxv.net>
San Angelo, TX - Thursday, October 21, 2004 7:49 PM CDT
What a wonderful dream seeing your blessed baby boy. I hope you have more dreams like that. I, too, have had the discussions about the rapture and when you go to heaven, etc. For what it's worth, I wanted to share my belief. I believe with all my heart that when we take our last breath here on earth our very next breath we are in heaven. Thank God, we don't have to be perfect here on earth -- we will only obtain perfection when we get to heaven. Thank you for sharing your heart. May God bless you!
Love in Christ,
Missy Morgan (Karen Efird's friend)

Missy Morgan <missy@rollinghillsgin.com>
New London, NC USA - Tuesday, October 19, 2004 5:29 PM CDT
Thinking of you today. That was a great dream. They come when you need them the most. After the week before, Reese knew you needed some comforting. Thanks for sharing that with us. Hope you have a good week.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, October 18, 2004 8:37 AM CDT
I'm so glad that Reese sent you a dream.. I am keeping you in my prayers
Love~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Thursday, October 14, 2004 12:49 AM CDT
I LOVE your dream...finally a blessed dream for you about Reese! I'm so glad someone else has all the same questions and feelings I do about being saved, not being a saint though, heaven, our spirit/soul, etc. I think that's what keeps us searching for Godly things, Godly direction. Thanks for updating Shawn. Tell Taylor we said hello too. I love y'all...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Thursday, October 14, 2004 3:12 AM CDT
I'm glad you had a nice dream, I think god gives us those dreams as gifts to let us know our loved ones are ok. My mom died about a month ago from Leukemia AML and I had a dream about a week ago that she came back and looked like she did before cancer and that she came back just to tell me that she is ok and not to be sad.

I've always wondered like yourself where you are after you die and I think no matter if your concoius or asleep state until god comes back he would not let our loves ones feel lost. So where ever Reese and my mom are they are loved by god and feel safe.

God bless you
www.caringbridge.org/ca/nikicamarena

sally torres <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
Anaheim, - Wednesday, October 13, 2004 6:55 PM CDT
Happy 19th month anniversary in heaven sweet Reese. We love & miss you so very much.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, October 10, 2004 1:51 PM CDT
Good Morning Shawn...I just wanted to drop by and let you know that you and your little angel were on my mind this morning...
I wish we could have made plans to join you all for the Run for Reese this year...we will see what we can do to make it happen for next year...In the meantime, I did not see where we can offer up our donations...Please let me know...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Saturday, October 9, 2004 8:19 AM CDT
Good Morning. I thought I would let you know I was thinking of you and Taylor today. I hope you had a good weekend.
Carol Burgess <Carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Monday, October 4, 2004 7:33 AM CDT
Thank you for your entry on Jordan. Along with Reese and Noah, Jordan has taken a huge chunk of my heart. I am at such a loss for words on the emotions that I am feeling. I can talk all day long but when it comes to putting feelings into words I am bad. I can't find a word to describe the ache, hurt,or grief that I am experiencing about Jordan. I have said before and I will say it again, I am so very glad Carrie had you and Eleasha to turn to. Someone who knows first hand all of the emotions that they have been through and the ones yet to be. I don't mean I am glad that either of you had to go through it but I am glad you are there for each other. ( I told you I am not good at words) I was reading some entries that you had posted earlier and I am all for a Jog for Jordan. I wanted to Run for Reese this year but I can't make it that weekend but I will donate before the event. (waiting on the old bank account) I would love to start a team for him to go along with Reese. Maybe after this years event I can get with you and maybe we can coordinate something. I know you know exactly how to do all of this. I haven't a clue but I want to do this more than anything. Are you coming to the Memorial for Jordan on the 6th? I hope so. There are so many people that I check on everyday and I hope to get a chance to meet some of you. I hate that it is at a Memorial but Jordan works in mysterious ways. He always has a way of bringing everyone together for a reason. Your always in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Wednesday, September 29, 2004 11:01 AM CDT
Dear Shawn,
I am crying for Jordan, Carrie and Patrick too today. I knew I would come here and find you thinking about him. It is good to be able to join together to grieve even if we are really miles apart. Love, Anne

Anne Himes <arhimes@ msn.com, www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 3:25 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

Just thought I would drop you a little note. Thank you for the support. Tatiana is doing well. I am glad you are continuing to be strong and positive. I know all to well how hard that is. My first Daughter (Natasha) Passed away as well while going through her tranplant. If you ever want to talk give me a call or e-mail. You are doing great things. Best Wishes

Maria Tuckett <mariaetuckett@aol.com;caringbridge.org/ut/tuckett>
Murray, UT US - Wednesday, September 22, 2004 8:23 PM CDT
Hey Shawn...just letting you know that I continue to check in on you each day and always think of you guys. I hope you're doing well. You are an inspiration to many of us in so many ways...I hope you know that! Take care and know that my love is sent your way, kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle , NC USA - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 9:42 PM CDT
I'm so happy for you. Will keep him in my prayers so he comes home safe and sound.
prayers~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 9:48 AM CDT
Thinking of you sweet Reese on your 18 month anniversary in heaven.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, September 10, 2004 9:36 AM CDT
Just checking in to see how you are doing. Your in my thoughts and prayers always.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 8:40 AM CDT
Just dropping by to let you know that our love and prayers are with you...today...tomorrow...forever.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Monday, September 6, 2004 2:06 AM CDT
Dear Shawn,
My name is Audrey and I think I got Noah Prichards e-mail address from you last time. My computer lost a lot of address and that was one of them. The fact that you need the password makes it difficult for me to e-mail them to get this information. Could you please send me their e-mail address and I can get the rest from them. thanks so much. Hope Taylor is enjoying school and that you are also doing well.
Thanks.... Audrey Hunt

Audrey Hunt <davehunt@mchsi.com>
Charles City, Ia - Sunday, September 5, 2004 10:31 AM CDT
Shawn, it's me again. I told you I visit often. Thank you sooooo very much for the update on Jordan. I have been so upset over this whole thing with him. I have begged and pleaded when I prayed that the doctors would gain knowledge of what is going on with him along with other things. I know he is a long way out of the woods but I feel as if an anvil has been lifted off of my chest. You are such a good friend to them. I am grateful that you are there for each other. I hope that you and Taylor are doing well. Enjoy the holiday weekend and I will be checking back on you next week ( I don't have a computer at home) You and your family are never far from my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Friday, September 3, 2004 3:08 PM CDT
Shawn, I saw your entry about prayers for adoption and I just had to tell you something funny. Adoption is a beautiful and wonderful thing but it is not something my family knows much about so I was surprised when my daughter Hannah said about her future "when I pick my babies out" What? I asked she said she was not going to have babies but she was going to adopt 3 of them. Now this may never come to pass but I was touched and pleased that she had it all planned out. (I did try to explain to her that you don't really get to pick them out but she didn't seem bothered.) I am praying for Jordan. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <arhimes@ msn.com, www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Monday, August 30, 2004 11:50 AM CDT
Hi Shawn. I am glad to see the update. I stop by your site often. But, I seldom sign. I know that is so bad. Sometimes I don't know what to write. I have written to you in the past to let you know how much Reese affected me, how he was the first caringbridge site I ever read and how I will never be the same because of him. I can't even begin to tell you how many sites I visit daily now. Reese opened a whole new world to me. Through Reese, I found Jordan. He is so special to me. (and I have never met him) When I read about Reese I physically felt a blow to my stomach and an ache in my heart-for I never got to know him before he was called away. I read every journal you ever wrote in one afternoon. I cried the whole way home from work. I always feel like he was the one that got away. I think I make it up to myself through Jordan. There is something that just gets to me when I pull up his site and see his precious face. Not only Jordan, but Carrie and Patrick also. They are such a wonderful family unit. Both of you are blessed to have each other. You are both wonderful mothers and friends. You wrote such a touching note in their guestbooks. It made me come back again to sign. Yes, I checked on you already this morning. I will not sneak in for a visit without letting you know I was here. I guess I was a little selfish. I was taking but not giving back. Funny how little things teach us big lessons. I am glad you are having some great times with Taylor. He is such a smart, caring little man. If I can help you with anything on Run for Reese please let me know. I really wanted to participate this year. I have already obligated myself to giving my grandmother a surprise 75th birthday party that weekend. She raised my sister and I and it is something she deserves. I am interested in getting a t-shirt though. Just let me know how. Your never far away from my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Friday, August 27, 2004 2:25 PM CDT
I read your e-mail on the Lee website. God Bless you and your family, we will keep you in our prayers. Heidi, Caitlin and Meredith
heidi <hwood4@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, nc usa - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 4:08 PM CDT
Shawn-
I am so sorry to hear about Toni's invitro being cancelled. I pray that they are able to adopt a child soon. I know Toni and Andy will make terrific parents. I am so glad to hear that you and Taylor had fun at the beach and are able to spend lots of time together. We miss and love you tons.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 8:03 AM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, August 22, 2004 1:01 PM CDT
Hey Shawn...haven't heard from you in awhile on the ReesieSite, but think of you often. Hope you are ok. We love you...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Saturday, August 21, 2004 1:27 PM CDT
Hello! Thank you for signing our guestbook. We loved Reese's page and are sure he is having a grand time watching over us all with his Angel wings. Please call us anytime. We would love to have you visit Caterina. You know where to find us! The number is on the web page. With warmest regards and a hug to you all- Claudina B Marcus
Claudina Bonetti Marcus <claubonetti@aol.com>
Durham, NC - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 6:34 PM CDT
Happy heavenly birthday sweet Reese...17 months today! I agree with your Mommy, you are having a grand time in heaven being the special little Saint God intended you to be!
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 9:35 AM CDT
I don't know if you would be interested in this, but a friend of mine is starting a new group for Hurler moms and here is the website http://groups.msn.com/MomsofchildrenwithHurlerSyndrome/homepage
Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Thursday, August 5, 2004 2:39 PM CDT
Hello friend. I am so glad to hear you're having a great summer, and it sounds like Reese is still helping you out. I am so glad to have met you, glad we seem to see eye to eye on the loss of our boys, the miracles they are, and the lessons they continue to teach us.
Hoping you had a great time at the beach, and so glad to have met you.

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 4, 2004 3:47 PM CDT
Shawn-
I am so glad that you and Steve had a good time in Iowa. I hope you are ready to take a little trip to Raleigh soon! We can't wait to see you. I love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 4, 2004 11:58 AM CDT
I loved reading this update. It truly made a smile come upon my face. I love you Shawn. You are so much stronger than you think. It will never be easy, anything, but you are pressing on and doing fantastic. Take care...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Tuesday, August 3, 2004 0:05 AM CDT
I check on you often, came upon your site through Jordan Horton's. I often sit and tear up reading your journal entries, but I have to say they get more and more uplifting each time. Just by reading them, I can feel that you finally have happiness again and that you are able to talk more and more about Reese with happiness instead of sadness. Your stories are amazing and each one teaches me a lesson. I have two children of my own and I can't imagine ever losing one, but your strength and all of the happy things that have started happening shows that good things do come out of awful things. I hope your road continues to lead uphill!
karen
- Saturday, July 31, 2004 5:23 PM CDT
What adorable pictures of your little angel. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I linked your site to mine at MPS Forum.com on the “Links” page. I hope this was okay!
MPS Angels are never forgotten!
Love to you and yours,
Jessica
(Mom to Kaity~Hurler Syndrome age 13)

Jessica Wellman <jessicalw@earthlink.net>
Crandall, IN USA - Saturday, July 31, 2004 8:51 AM CDT
I always check to see how you are doing. You are in my prayers. It has changed my life getting to know you thru this website. I appreciate everything in my life I have more.
God Bless You!

Melissa Thompson <melissaso4@hotmail.com>
Dobson, NC - Friday, July 30, 2004 3:12 PM CDT
I love you Shawn! Thanks for everything you have done for me and many others. I'm thrilled Taylor is doing so well. I'm thrilled you and your fellar are doing so well also. You deserve to be happy in all aspects of your life. Take care and tell Toni good luck from many of us! kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Friday, July 30, 2004 1:03 AM CDT
Hi Sweetie,

Just a note to tell you how much I admire you. Thanks for letting me be a part of your life. See you soon,

Love You,

Steve

MAJ Steve
Fayetteville, NC USA - Thursday, July 29, 2004 1:00 PM CDT
Hello Shawn...just checking in on you. I know you have to be excited with our little buddy moving closer to you! Give him a big hug for me. Hope you and Taylor are doing well. I'll be sending you some new pics very soon!
Take Care.
Love,
Beth Anne

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <laneybug02@charter.net>
Rogersville, TN - Monday, July 26, 2004 7:52 AM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, July 24, 2004 5:39 PM CDT
JUST A NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW THAT WE ARE STILL CHECKING IN AND HAVE YOU IN OUR PRAYERS. LOOKING FORWARD TO THE 2nd RUN.


JEFF AND STEPHANIE BECK <JBECK@KDHOSIERY.COM>
MT AIRY, NC - Friday, July 23, 2004 1:21 PM CDT


Im sending all my love to you all,

Love

Viks

viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, July 17, 2004 12:56 AM CDT
Always thinking about you, my dear friend!!

The pain will never go away. I'm glad you are having a good summer with Taylor.

Talk to you soon!!

XXOO, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Friday, July 16, 2004 10:14 PM CDT
I was just thinking of you. We miss you and we will be in Raleigh in two weeks. Hopefully we will see you soon. Good luck with you and your "guy" I am so glad that you've found someone who makes you happy. As always, we love and miss you tons.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Friday, July 16, 2004 4:19 PM CDT
Thinking of you all yesterday on Reese's 17 month anniversary in heaven. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, July 11, 2004 4:03 PM CDT
Hello Shawn. I wish I had some answers for you. I am sure oftentimes it feels like the grief is suffocating you. I can only equate it to the fear of losing a child, of which I am sure is no match. Please know we are all thinking of you. And please know that the few days you are able to feel normal, is not betraying your love for Reese.
Chris - Gooch's mom
Share the Love
- Saturday, July 10, 2004 11:57 AM CDT
Hi Shawn. So glad to hear you are doing well. It's good to feel 'normal' That's what Reese wants, you know? I am so glad to hear that Taylor is doing well, getting along with the other kids, and having a great summer. I know it's hard, and somedays are just bad ones, but that's normal, too.
Know that you're in my thoughts often!

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Friday, July 9, 2004 6:37 PM CDT
Hope you and Taylor are doing well. I miss seeing/talking to you. Please take care and know we love you!!! kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net *and* www.caringbridge.org/nc/lindseysmpsjourney>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, July 7, 2004 9:56 PM CDT



Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, July 4, 2004 10:42 AM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Sunday, July 4, 2004 3:22 AM CDT
Just thinking about you and missing you like crazy. We will be in Raleigh in less than a month and can't wait to see you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Friday, July 2, 2004 10:12 PM CDT
Thinking of all of you and sending continued prayers of peace...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, July 1, 2004 2:20 PM CDT
Just stopping by to let you know that I continue to check on you and think of you. Hope all is continuing to go well for you. You are never far from my thoughts!!
Staci Nash (www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash) <slimandstacinash@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, July 1, 2004 11:32 AM CDT
Hey Shawn. I've been pretty bad at leaving any messages latley but I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you. I hope you are doing ok. I would really love to be able to attend the run this year. I have worn my shirt from last year so much that it is getting ragged. We will be heading back to Duke sometime in October for studies but I havn't gotten any dates yet. Hope Taylor is doing well and I've been thinking of Toni. Take Care.
Love,
Beth Anne

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <laneybug02@charter.net>
Rogersville, TN - Tuesday, June 29, 2004 11:33 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
I know it has been a while since we have talked....but I was thinking of Reese this moring and had to take a look at that beautiful face! I hope all is well with you, please tell Toni that I am so sorry but I know the Lord has a special plan for her. It breaks my heart to read about Christopher and I know that your heart hurts so bad for them.
I am ready to help with the Run for Reese so please let me know what you need for me to do this year to make it a bigger success:) Please tell Taylor I said hello and I hope he is having a great summer! Hope to see you soon.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Sunday, June 27, 2004 7:35 AM CDT
HEY SHAWN, JUST CHECKING IN TO SEE HOW THINGS ARE GOING.SENDING OUR LOVE TO YOU AND TAYLOR!!!!!!!!!!!!
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, va - Friday, June 18, 2004 5:24 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, thought I would stop in and see what else had been done to the site. Wow! You have done so much. I am so sorry to here of another little ones passing. But, now Reese has another play mate. God has both in his arms. Take care and God bless. K.L.
K.L. Sheek <kennethsheek@aol.com>
Pfafftown, NC US - Wednesday, June 16, 2004 3:30 PM CDT
I'm so sorry about your friends little one, Christopher. I will be sure to stop in and sign their guest book. What beautiful little boys you both had, I love the pictures.
prayers~

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Monday, June 14, 2004 2:58 PM CDT
We're back from vacation and wanted you to know that we were thinking of sweet Reese, especially on the 10th but I wasn't able to sign the guestbook. Talk to you soon!
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, June 13, 2004 6:55 PM CDT
I just met Shawn on Sunday and learned about Reese. I'm amazed at the courage and strength she has to go through something like this. I can see that it was God's will and to trust in him. I look forward to learning more about Reese and those likee him that are challenged by this disease. Thanks Shawn for sharing and I hope that I can be half the person that your son was.
Love,
Steve

Steve Samuelson <sam43ste@yahoo.com>
Fayetteville, NC USA - Tuesday, June 8, 2004 4:05 PM CDT
I hope the arrangements for this year's Run for Reese go smoothly. Who knows the money raised for Reese could the money that finds the answer to all our prays.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk / www.melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Friday, June 4, 2004 1:06 PM CDT
Just came by to see how you're doing. Hope this year's Run for Reese will be a huge success. If I were a little closer, you know I'd be there!
Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
Festus, MO - Thursday, June 3, 2004 9:52 AM CDT
Reese is our hero!

What Is a Hero?

A hero is someone who is proud and brave,
A hero is someone who is never afraid.
A hero is someone who is never done,
Until the battle is fought and won.
A hero is someone who is kind and smart,
A hero is someone who trusts his heart.
A hero is someone who is always unique,
A hero is someone you'd like to meet.
A hero is someone who will listen to you,
A hero is someone who is loving and true.
A hero can be tall or small,
A hero is not selfish at all.
And if you believe that wishes come true,
Maybe, just maybe, you will find a hero in you



Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, May 31, 2004 4:24 PM CDT
Toni and Andy will be in our prayers. We are hopeful for them!!

I love you!!!

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.,net>
Colorad Springs, CO USA - Monday, May 31, 2004 10:03 AM CDT
Wondering how you're doing...
wondering how you've been.
Wanting to tell you,
that I think of you now and then.

Hoping that you're doing well,
hoping that you're healing.
Hoping that with time,
God can help you with what you're feeling.

It's so hard to miss our boys,
yet so easy to see why
We'd do it all over again,
even if we still had to say Goodbye.

Hoping you always know
that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 30, 2004 7:34 PM CDT
My heart just breaks for Toni and Andy. I pray that God blesses them with a happy, healthy baby. We love and miss you guys.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 30, 2004 5:28 PM CDT
Hello, just dropping by to send a hug to you









Love Viks on behalf of everyone at Post Pals


viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, May 30, 2004 4:39 PM CDT
I am so very sorry that Aunt Toni is not pregnant. I hope that in time she will try again and that it will be successful! I pray too that you will find some peace. You deserve to be happy again. Love and Angel Hugs,
Louise <AngelHaps@aol.com>
Colo. Spgs., CO - Friday, May 28, 2004 2:47 AM CDT
Hey Shawn! I had to come to your site to see what was up with Toni - after what you wrote on Lindsey's CarePage. I'm so sorry the process didn't take. I'm sure it's very frustrating. It's families like us who have the struggles that see "normal" families take it all for granted. I hope Toni is able to conceive soon. I do love my Lindsey Ladybug...thank you. Take care and have a great weekend with Toni! kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Thursday, May 27, 2004 10:24 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, I know I have not put in an entry in a long time, but I check on you all the time. I am so sorry that Toni is not pregnant. I pray that one day she will be. I hope that you are doing okay. I saw you at the walk with you Reese Cup shirt on. Hope you have a great weekend
alyssa (Bennett's best friend) <sabiemc@aol.com>
carrboro, nc usa - Thursday, May 27, 2004 7:58 PM CDT
I am so sorry things did not work this time. I pray that that Toni can try again with more success.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy+Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Thursday, May 27, 2004 2:41 AM CDT
I am sorry to hear your sister's dissapointing news but hopefully she will be able to try again with more positive results. I hope things are otherwise going well for you. I know Reese is looking down on you. With prayers,
Angel Bella's cousin
- Wednesday, May 26, 2004 3:08 PM CDT
Praying for good news soon for Toni.
Love Tina,Padraic,Amy + Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk / www.melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Tuesday, May 25, 2004 1:46 PM CDT
Praying for you Aunt Toni and those beautiful healthy babies!!!!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Friday, May 21, 2004 6:40 PM CDT
Keeping the prayers coming for all of you and Aunt Toni, too. Will be waiting for some good news soon. Love and Angel Hugs,
Louise <AngelHaps@aol.com>
Colo. Spgs., CO - Wednesday, May 19, 2004 11:35 PM CDT
I heard of your angel Reese from my friend Paige Migliozzi so I decided to check out his webpage. I'm so glad to see his pictures - what a darling boy! I know that Paige has really appreciated your kind thoughts and prayers for her son Christopher. I think the Hurler's families are all amazing. Thanks from her friend.
Daisy L. van Opstal <daisy@vanopstal.com>
Centreville, VA 20121 - Wednesday, May 19, 2004 4:46 PM CDT
Shawn,
It was so good to see you on Saturday. And, we cannot wait to see our pictures. Please let Toni know that we are praying for her. She certainly deserves to be a Mommy. She has had an excellent example of how to be a terrific mommy by watching her big sister. Take care and God bless.
MORGAN'S PAGE

Allison & Morgan Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 6:37 PM CDT
Shawn,
Good Morning! How are you doing? I am praying that Toni and Andy will be expecting. That is wonderful news. God Bless. Keep us posted. Hope all is well for you and Taylor. Always in my prayers.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 8:12 AM CDT
Good news so far! We are still praying for twins!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, May 17, 2004 2:35 PM CDT
Cheers and congratulations to Aunt Toni and Uncle Andy! Hope all goes well. We'll think positively and pray hard.
Louise <AngelHaps@aol.com>
Colo. Spgs., CO - Friday, May 14, 2004 4:34 PM CDT
hi my name is kathy
i think i have signed ur guest book before.my daughter who is 2 1/2 and her name is katilynn .we were told last september that she has hurlers syndrome and she is taking the enzmye replacement treatment and so far is doing pretty good with it she has had 10 so far.i love the nickname u have for reese.katilynns favorite thing is reese cups she eats them all the time.but i just wanted to stop in and say hi

kathy and katilynn preston <katilynnsmom@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/ky/katilynnsmom>
tomahawk, ky usa - Friday, May 14, 2004 0:26 AM CDT
WooHOOO... I've got all my fingers and toes crossed for healthy twins!
Carolyn F
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, May 13, 2004 4:58 PM CDT
I'm so glad that the 'egg hunt' went so well. I will be praying for everyone. I hope we have a healthy set of twins. I am glad to see that you have so much to be excited about lately. You deserve good things in your life. I can't wait for May 26th. We will all be on pins and needles.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, May 13, 2004 9:24 AM CDT
Hey Shawn...I know it's been a long time since we've talked. I hope you are doing well. I was glad to read about how well the fundraiser went, and about Toni. I hope she gets twins or triplets!

Thanks also for the info on Niki you sent a week or so ago. I bookmarked their site and have been checking it when I check on alot others. I haven't checked any sites since Saturday, so I was shocked and saddened to read about Niki tonight.

I'm glad you had a decent Mother's Day. I know it must be very hard and bittersweet. I know Taylor is the joy of your life, but you can always miss the other half too! He can't take Reese's place.

You are a wonderful Mom, friend, and lady. Hang in there! Life just ain't fair no matter what hand we're playing, you know?! We think it's bad, then it gets worse, or we meet someone who has it worse.

Life goes on (somehow). I love you and miss you! kle

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net & www.tlcontact.com (CarePage: LindseysMPSjourney)>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, May 12, 2004 10:42 PM CDT
We are on bent knees praying for a little neice or nephew! We are praying that this procedure is not too difficult on Toni either. We love you guys! Just wanted to let you know that Jordan is doing better too. Thanks for all the prayers.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 12, 2004 10:09 PM CDT
Hi Shawn! I love the good news about Toni. We will be praying for her. I was on Jordan's website and saw the picture of everyone. I knew you instantly. The smile was a clue but the shirt was the giveaway. I loved it. I am glad you can get together like that and continue the fight against the ugly beast (disease) With all of my love.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Wednesday, May 12, 2004 8:20 AM CDT
Hey Shawn,
Well you know all I thought about on Mothers Day was you, Debbie and Carrie...you know I wish I could have been at your church to give you the hug you needed at that time!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, May 12, 2004 7:39 AM CDT
Thank you for the encouraging email. It is so hard to read the websites of children that have passed on. It makes me scared that the same thing will happen to my son. I know God has a plan for everyone, and your little boys plan was to be an angel to watch over everyone. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope you will do the same for us.
Angela Summers <angeladawnsummers@yahoo.com>
Sharon, Tn USA - Tuesday, May 11, 2004 1:18 PM CDT
Hi Shawn!
Just thinking of you today and wanting to say hello. It was so good to see you and Taylor at the Walk. You are one brave lady!!! Please tell Toni hello and we pray that the treatment will work for her and Andy.
~~~HUGS~~~

Pat, Sal, Mishael and Isaiah ~~~Isaiah’s Journey~~~ <patricib@umflint.edu>
Swartz Creek, MI - Tuesday, May 11, 2004 8:38 AM CDT
Thinking of you sweet Reese on your 14 month anniversary in heaven.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, May 10, 2004 10:03 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Shawn!
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Sunday, May 9, 2004 9:40 PM CDT
Shawn, thinking of you today on Mother's Day. I'm sure bittersweet doesn't even begin to describe it. Just know that you are such a great Mommy to both Taylor & Reese and you are a special friend to me.
Robin.Boger@rbc.com <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, May 9, 2004 8:19 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day. It was good to see you this morning, we have attended Pinedale for quite a long time now. I hope you enjoy all the things we have experienced at Pinedale. The kids really like going there. Teddy and I are in the Crawlers room on the 1st and 3rd Sundays, if you want to drop by at 9:15, we are in the worship at 10:45 every Sunday. Talk to you soon.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, May 9, 2004 3:51 PM CDT
Mothers Day Prayer

I Pray for you that on this special Mothers day,
God fills your heart in a truley beautiful way.
And may, He in His reach from heaven above,
Flow the wonderful family spirit, of His love.
I pray He grant, truley sweet and Angelic care,
That you may know, He is, always there.
I pray within God's great vast Love for you
In life, daily onward, In all that you may do,
You feel His love, His strength, His peace,
This Mothers Day blesses a spiritual release.

Have a Blessed Mothers Day

Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
- Sunday, May 9, 2004 8:49 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 8, 2004 8:50 PM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, May 8, 2004 7:14 PM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, May 8, 2004 7:14 PM CDT
Have a Very Happy Mother's Day!!!!!!!!!!

Love and Hugs,

Tami ( www.caringbridge.com/ca/slawson <TLSlawson@aol.com>
- Saturday, May 8, 2004 11:57 AM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, May 2, 2004 6:52 PM CDT
Shawn, Taylor, and Nana Julia-
We are so glad we were able to see you guys at the walk today. I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to say goodbye. Jordan was exhausted and ready to go home. Hopefully we will be able to get together soon. Maybe we can do a girl's lunch again when Tracie is in town. I love you so much.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 1, 2004 9:19 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

Love you!!!

XXOO Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Monday, April 26, 2004 9:20 AM CDT
Hey Aunt Toni!!! Wishing you luck on Monday ... I'm sure Reese has prime seats to cheer you on through this!
Carolyn F
Winston-Salem, NC - Saturday, April 24, 2004 10:32 AM CDT
You guys do not know me but I came across your site from another CB site and have signed in here before. I come here every morning to check on you before I go to work. I hope you don't mind.
I teach a 4-year-old class and we pray for Maxie and his family every day at prayer time.
I don't know the intense pain you all are feeling, but I lost both my parents within 10 months of each other and felt like my heart was completely ripped out. My 4 children and my parents were my WORLD. I pray I never have to experience what you guys are going through. I don't think I would handle it as courageously and with such grace as you have. I found this poem on another CB site and instantly thought of Maxie. I hope it brings a smile to your face and somehow comforts you. God Bless you and keep you all in the palm of His hands!


There Is A Special Angel

There is a special Angel in Heaven
that is a part of me.
It is not where I wanted him
but where God wanted him to be.

He was here but just a moment
like a night time shooting star.
And though he is in Heaven
he isn't very far.

He touched the heart of many
like only an Angel can do.
I would've held him every minute
if the end I only knew.

So I send this special message
to the Heaven up above.
Please take care of my Angel
and send him all my love.

Author Unknown


Debbie Schillaci <dss52356@yahoo.com>
Hoover, AL - Tuesday, April 20, 2004 11:43 PM CDT
Just wanted to drop in and say "hi" and let you know I am thinking of you, your family, and your precious Angel Reese.

Kathy H.
TO, CA - Monday, April 19, 2004 11:29 PM CDT
It was so good to see you last weekend. I hope you are able to come visit us again soon. We love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 18, 2004 3:09 PM CDT
Hello This is Jenna. Thankyou so much for signing my guestbook. It really makes my day when I get to read all the encouraging comments in my book.
Thankyou again.
www.caringbridge.org/canada/jenna

Jenna <hockeykid@telus.net>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Friday, April 16, 2004 0:45 AM CDT
we are new to your site. my heart is so
sad for you. the poem is great. Reese
is just beautiful.

lots of love

craig, lauren, and helen

CRAIGGY

craig <trula1@comcast.net>
- Thursday, April 15, 2004 7:15 PM CDT
Shawn,
Oh my Gosh. What a beautiful, touching poem. Thank you for sharing it with all of us. I...I think about you and Tater Tot so very much and I think you are such a special lady. In every entry, every word...through all of your pain and suffering, I think you have taken every step with dignity and grace. Very Sincerely,

Linda C. Johnson <hogbillies@hotmail.com; johnsl31@nationwide.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, April 14, 2004 7:34 PM CDT
Shawn,
What a beautiful poem! You sure have posted a lot of great poems...ones that truly speak to my heart...and some that even uniquely express some of my own thoughts and feelings. Thank you for sharing. I keep you and Taylor on my mind and in my prayers. Continuing to pray for peace, healing and renewal. God bless and keep you,
Aloha,
Debbie

Prichard
Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 3:41 PM CDT
Love the Poem, Love Reese, Love you! Hope you are having a good week! As always, thinking of you and Taylor! Sending constant "hugs and kisses" to you and to Heaven!! =)
Sarah Thomas <sarahthomas@financial.wellsfargo.com>
Urbandale, Ia - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 1:02 PM CDT
Just stopped by to say
Hope you have a Blessed Day!

~ HAPPY EASTER ~



Love Susie, Trey’s granny <sharingthoughts@hot mail.com>
Dry Fork,, VA - Sunday, April 11, 2004 7:51 PM CDT
JUST THINKING OF YOU TODAY. WANTED TO WISH YOU AND TAYLOR A HAPPY EASTER.
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, va - Sunday, April 11, 2004 12:01 AM CDT
To Angel Reese's loving and devoted family,
HAPPY EASTER! Our Shepherd's arms are always open to us..always! Keeping you in my prayers and forever in my heart.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warrior

Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Sunday, April 11, 2004 6:27 AM CDT
WISHING YOU A HAPPY EASTER


Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, April 11, 2004 0:47 AM CDT
Thinking of you today on Reese's 13 month anniversary in heaven.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, April 10, 2004 9:12 PM CDT

Thinking of you this Easter, Love everyone at Post Pals






viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, April 10, 2004 5:07 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, all I can say is wow! I know how little ones can touch a persons heart, but wow. You and Reese, as well as Taylor touch so many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
K.L. Sheek <kennethsheek@aol.com>
Pfafftown, NC USA - Thursday, April 8, 2004 10:18 PM CDT
Just letting you know you're thought of everyday. I check everyday for an update. I've been keeping up with Jordan and Lindsey too. I think Ty's mom is moving, not sure but from other messages from other people, she may be packing up. If everything goes okay Lindsey will be going home Monday.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc - Tuesday, April 6, 2004 8:40 PM CDT
Aunt Shawn-
Jordan wanted me to get on here and send you a hug and kiss. We love and miss you. I hope to see you soon.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Sunday, April 4, 2004 12:43 AM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, April 3, 2004 11:09 PM CST
I agree with Robin, precious...especially with his wild Coble hair! :)
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, March 30, 2004 3:56 PM CST
Hey Shawn,
I love the border on the homepage! How cute is he!!!!! When I pulled up the site and saw the border I just started laughing...precious!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 29, 2004 12:34 AM CST
Shawn,
Hope you are doing well. I just thought it was very thoughful for you to update everyone of on caringbridge. I got started last year when I heard of reese passing. I'm also from Mt. Airy. You have turned me on many children like Jordan, Noah P, Tommy Bennett and many more. You parents are so brave. I wanted to ask you if you don't mind how I could ask Noah Pricard's family for the password to the website. It's terrible what people have said to them. I still contiune to check on your website and everyone daily. They all have made me realize just how lucky you are to be a parent. I have a six and two year old. I'm now trying to get a small fundraiser together for Jordan.

Jennifer Arnder <jenniferarnder@renfro.com and jsarnder@advi.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Saturday, March 27, 2004 1:55 PM CST
Hope you're doing well. Thought I'd check in and see what's going on...I hope Lindsay and Jordan are doing okay. I am so glad we've met, and I hope you are doing okay. Thinking of you, and sending prayers your way...
Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Friday, March 26, 2004 9:43 AM CST
Thank You is not appropriate enough for the thoughtfulness you have given to Lindsey by posting a request for our daughter on Reese's webpage.

You continue to amaze me Shawn with your strength and courage. You paid tribute to your son, by doing something special for my girls...they adore their bears. Now you've honored Reese again by requesting your loved ones to pray for our special daughter.

You are a very special lady and I am touched beyond words. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for loving us so tenderly. We cherish you Shawn!

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <Efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Thursday, March 25, 2004 10:48 PM CST
Thank You is not appropriate enough for the thoughtfulness you have given to Lindsey by posting a request for our daughter on Reese's webpage.

You continue to amaze me Shawn with your strength and courage. You paid tribute to your son, by doing something special for my girls...they adore their bears. Now you've honored Reese again by requesting your loved ones to pray for our special daughter.

You are a very special lady and I am touched beyond words. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for loving us so tenderly. We cherish you Shawn!

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <Efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Thursday, March 25, 2004 10:47 PM CST
Shawn-
Thank you so much for taking the time to ask everyone to say a prayer for Jordan. He is doing better and I know that the prayers are working. I just love you so much and I hope that you can come visit us really soon. Jordan can't wait to give kisses to his Aunt Shawn.
Love,
Carrie, Patirick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 2:12 PM CST
Hi Shawn. I have been reading your journals faithfully ever since I found it last year. In that time frame you have introduced me to so many more children-all going through life changing procedures. It is through you that I found Jordan, Noah and Tommy Bennett. I will say that I have checked on all of you dailey. You are an extension of my family(even though you don't know me) My prayers are with all of you. You all are at different points in your life but at the same time you have all gone through the same things. Thank you for getting the word about Jordan out to people who had never been to his site. You are a true warrior. You never stop giving of yourself and helping those who are where you have been, no matter how hard it is for you to revisit that time and space in your life. My prayers are with you always.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 10:08 AM CST
Hey Shawn. I'm so glad to see you've updated, but so sad to see what the update was for. I will definitely check out "your babies" as I call them, and I will be praying, too.
It's so great that you keep in touch with these families, and that you have not closed the door on your days with Reese and moved on without him. I am so glad we've become friends, and I hope so much that someday, somehow, we will meet.
I'll be keeping in touch and I hope you'll do the same.
thoughts and prayers,

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 22, 2004 3:11 PM CST
Shawn,
When I think of Reese, I think back to the days when you and I carried our sons together. I remember times of swapping pregnancy experiences (ie eating or lack of it, sickness, our boys movements in the womb, lack of sleep, doctor visit updates) and so on. Then to know that we were in the hospital together delivering 2 days apart was simply incredible. For some reason, I've always felt a certain connection because we carried our boys together and the two of them being born 2 days apart.

I the first time you told me of Reese's diagnosis. My heart skip a beat. All I could say to myself was "Why, why!!!" You gave me the website to check out MPS/Hurler Syndrome and I still didn't understand it all. The only thing I could understand was that my heart ached.

Then I remembered when I got the email that Reese had gone to be with the Lord. My breathe was taken and I couldn't speak for several minutes. I didn't know what to say or do. As I stared at the email on my monitor, I was fighting tears and thinking of Reese and my second unborn son Jerry that I was carrying in my 1st trimester. I felt helpless. Not for myself, but for you. I didn't know what I could possibly say to you or even do for you. Only to cry silently.

So when I received your email this morning regarding your prayer request for the kids, I felt compelled to honor your request. Compelled is not the word. Strong conviction is more like it. So after reading the background of those two youngsters, I immediately called my prayer partner at work. I gave her a brief background of our association and had her to logon to the website you sent out. We, along with several other people are praying for those precious angels Shawn and you too. We stand in agreement, according to God's Word (Isa. 53:5 & Isa. 54:17)in Jesus name.

We love you Shawn,
LaVina & prayer partners


LaVina Eddings <lavina.eddings@wachovia.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 22, 2004 11:02 AM CST
I'm glad to know that you have friends also like me that keep you informed of the other children you cared about while at Duke. Thinking of you always.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc - Monday, March 22, 2004 9:38 AM CST
Hi Shawn,

Your poem is unbelievable. I want to copy and paste it to my journal - you've described it perfectly. I love you, and I stil pray for your broken heart.

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Sunday, March 21, 2004 9:44 PM CST
Hi Shawn. I'm hoping you're okay, I tried to email you and it was returned to me. I wanted to send you this, so I guess the guestbook will have to do!
I just thought this may make you smile, I know it did me.
Hugs to you, I hope you're doing okay!

A Butterfly's Struggle


A Butterfly A man found a cocoon for a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared, he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through the little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and could go no farther. Then the man decided to help the butterfly.

He took a pair of scissors and snipped the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. Something was strange. The butterfly had a swollen body and shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time. Neither happened. In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and deformed wings. It was never able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand, was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the smallopening of the cocoon are God`s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon. Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life.

If God allowed us to go throughall our life without any obstacles, that would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. Not only that, we could never fly.


Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
Festus, Mo - Sunday, March 21, 2004 9:34 PM CST
Shawn, I wanted to share a picture of a little boy from our home town. His web sight is www.lancerussell.net. The older boy went to be with Jesus after suffering with cancer. They now have a new son and his parents took the most touching picture at Lance's grave sight. I countinue to check up on you and your family although I don't write much, but I pray that God keeps giving you strength during these difficult days.
Pat Reed <mammawpj@chartertn.net>
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 21, 2004 5:19 AM CST
Hey Shawn

I have been wondering how you have been doing? I hope fine. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know things with out your little guy are hard. BELIEVE ME I KNOW IT IS HARD!!!!! Keep your trust in God and you will be OK!

Carol Strosnider mommy of ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com>
Monroe, NC - Saturday, March 20, 2004 11:14 PM CST
Checking in,sending some hugs, hoping you're doing okay. Can't wait to hear how you're doing, and wondering if Reese has "stopped in" to say hello.
Hugs and prayers...

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, March 20, 2004 7:54 PM CST
Know this to be true! God goes with you always. He goes above you to watch over you, beneath you to uphold you, behind you to prod you along, in front of you to lead the way, but most importantly, God goes beside you to befriend you.
Peace in Christ,
Randy Vogler
Christ Moravian Church
Winston-Salem, NC

Randy Vogler <randy@christmoravianchurch.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, March 19, 2004 11:52 AM CST
wondering if you're doing okay, and thinking of you often!
Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 18, 2004 9:39 AM CST
What a beautiful poem, Shawn. We're thinking of you.
With love,
The Birminghams

Jenny Birmingham
Arlington Heights, IL USA - Monday, March 15, 2004 11:13 PM CST

Happy St. Patricks Day!
CLICK HERE TO VISIT MY WEBPAGE
Love, Eileen

Keeping you close in thought and prayer. That was a beautiful, heartfelt poem. Made me cry. How proud Reese is of you, I am sure! :)

EJ's Caring Place
- Monday, March 15, 2004 9:19 PM CST
Hi Shawn! I have been keeping up with Reese's site for a long while now. I think of you often and hope this finds you okay. Check back soon!
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobedu@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga USA - Monday, March 15, 2004 6:26 PM CST
You are in my prayers. I hope your one year aniversary for Reese wasn't too bad.
I am still praying for you. Starting on the second year with our your little one
isn't much easier than the first one. Keep on going for Reese. Keep up your wonderful work.

Carol Strosnider mommy of ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com>
Monroe, NC - Monday, March 15, 2004 1:52 PM CST
Shawn-
The poem was a beautiful way to remember ^Reese^. Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 15, 2004 11:58 AM CST
Aloha Shawn,
What an absolutely beautiful poem. I am certain that Reese is so very proud of you...you are an amazing mother! Keeping you in our prayers,
God's peace,
Debbie and Greg


Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, March 15, 2004 3:42 AM CST
Shawn
I was soooo happy to get your message!I am looking so forward to going back to Durham, though it will be hard....it will be so nice seeing everyone again!Your poem was so touching!I could truly feel your pain in every word you wrote!I once again want to thank you for attending Mckenzies funeral just days after reese was laid to rest.You are a very strong woman...I know that was hard!!!!I love you and miss you and you are always in my heart!I will see you soon and I can not wait!!!!

christinaschoenleb www.caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay <christinarick@msn.com>
troutman, nc - Sunday, March 14, 2004 10:36 PM CST
Hi Shawn. I wont' be able to check in on you for a few days, I'll be going to Minnesota for my little buddy, Kyler's funeral. I didn't want you to think I'd forgotten you or Reese, though...so I thought I'd check in today.
Thinking of you...

Jeninfer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, March 13, 2004 8:03 AM CST
Hey Shawn,
I was thinking of you and Reesecup yesterday and wanted to say hello. Your poem was beautiful and touching. It's hard to believe its been a year. He is still so vivid in my memory, especially that sweet little grin! Thinking and praying for you always!! Take care
Love
Bethany

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC USA - Thursday, March 11, 2004 8:50 PM CST
WOW that is so beautiful!!! God Bless you and your family..
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Thursday, March 11, 2004 8:24 PM CST
You know, I come here like I actually think you're going to be here or something. I check in all the time, just hoping maybe you've updatd or something, so I'll know you're okay. Isn't that silly?
So, I know you're not here, but I just wanted to tell you I was thinking of you, and praying for you, and that I'm always here for you if you need to vent!

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 11, 2004 12:01 AM CST
What a beautiful poem. What a tribute to such a wonderful little boy. I know Reese is proud that you are his mommy.

I know the grief you feel. On my son's one year anniversary of being a beautiful angel, we just did things that he loved to do. We took our little girls to McDonalds, we fed the ducks at the cemetary. We spent the day as a family and celebrated what he loved in life not his death. I know Reese is having a wonderful time in heaven. He is healthy and happy just like all the other little children angels. Sometimes we wonder why us, but I know God picks special moms to be the mommy of sick children. I am praying extra special prayers for you this whole month.

Carol Mommy of ^Angel Will^ June 1997-October 2002

Carol mommy of ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com>
Monroe, NC - Thursday, March 11, 2004 8:56 AM CST
I think it is a beautiful poem and a wonderful tribute to Reese. God Bless!
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^
Naples, FL - Thursday, March 11, 2004 8:39 AM CST
Shawn...just wanted you to know that you have been in my thoughts and heart today!! I am working night shift right now and the date will show the 11th, but it is really still the 10th to me!! Night shift can be really confusing sometimes...especially here!!!

What a beautiful poem and a wonderful tribute to ^Reese^!!
I am go glad that God has given you such wonderful friends to help you through your life's journey!! Reese touched so many lives during his short time here and mine was one of them, I never got to meet him either, but I knew him through this site and the wonderful job that his "mommy" did keeping all of us updated on what was going on with him and continuing to keep us updated on how life is without Reese. I never see a Reese's Cup without thinking of your precious "reesiecup". I never see a pack of Reeses Pieces, without thinking of Reese. I never see a brilliant orange sunset with thinking of Reese and thinking that he is sending it down from heaven. I never see a red balloon without thinking of Reese and all those balloons that filled the sky a year ago this week. I never see a ladybug with thinking of Reese's precious "mommy" that allowed us glimpses of the incredible journey that the Coble family traveled through, thank you Shawn...for sharing Reese's life with us...you will never know what an inspiration you have been!!!

Hope Taylor is doing well and enjoying school and this "weather" that we have been having!! So good to hear the news about Aunt Toni's test, she will continue to be in my prayers, as well as the rest of the family!!

May God bless you and hold you in the hollow of His hand!!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette /// Surry County 911 Commnuications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Dobson, NC - Thursday, March 11, 2004 1:58 AM CST
Stopping in one more time, just to let you know I was thinking of you today.
Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 10, 2004 11:15 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you and Reese today. We know that Carter and Reese are watching out for each other and all of us.

www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter

Bernie and Kristi <carters_world@rogers.com>
- Wednesday, March 10, 2004 10:04 PM CST
Thinking of you today....
Carolyn F
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 7:06 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you all today. Even though I do you know you well and did not get to know Reese personally I knew him through this website and I remember last year on this day like it was yesterday and how heartbreaking it was. I cannot even imagine how you feel. May God give you His wonderful grace and peace.

Love in Christ,

Christie Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 6:56 PM CST
Hey Shawn. I can't begin to tell you what a remarkable and graciuos Poem that was to Reese. WOW...just beautiful.

I loved talking with you today from Lindsey's hospital room. She is still sleeping well, and hopefully I can "prepare" for the first trach changing in 5-7 days.

I hope you and Taylor had a "peaceful" visit this afternoon to Reese's gravesite. I'm sure it helps Taylor to do these things also.

I can't wait to give Hannah her new Build-A-Bear from you and Bob. I told her that she has a special package here in Lindsey's room when she gets here on Friday. Lindsey's "good luck" Shamrock Bear is still sitting beside her on the bed...where it will continue to be.

I love you Shawn. Thank you for thinking of my girls on your day - I'm sure it was bitter sweet. Please take care of yourself and continue to hold onto hope and faith. We love you!

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 6:54 PM CST
Stopping by to let you know I'm thinking about your precious Angel today. Sending Hugs to you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Carol Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 5:56 PM CST
Thinking of your family today.
Jennifer (Mom to Mackenzie-MPS III) <jclarke@nhgs.tec.va.us>
Poquoson, VA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 5:28 PM CST
Thinking of you today.
The family of Jackson Espeseth
Clear Lake, WI - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 4:38 PM CST
To Angel Reese's loving and devoted family,
It is amazing how a little boy that many of us never met touched our hearts so deeply. Bless you angel for bringing so much joy into the world. Shine on as heaven's brightest star...
Love & prayers,

Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 4:13 PM CST
Thinking of your family today! May God wrap you in His loving arms. Take care and God bless.
Morgan's Page

Allison & Morgan Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 3:19 PM CST
A year ago today, heaven received the most precious Reesiecup and all of our hearts here were broken, as your Mommy so beautifully shared, "into a million Reese's pieces". Today at 2:45, we released a dozen ballons, red of course, in honor of your heavenly birthday. A year ago today, I shed tears over the pain of losing a precious little boy that I never got the opportunity to meet and today, they are still falling.
Shawn, your poem is beautiful as are all of your words when speaking about your precious Reese. I thank God every single day for bringing us together. Not only did Reese touch my heart, I was blessed with a dear friend. Thinking of all of your family today. God bless.

Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 2:11 PM CST
A year ago today, around this very moment my heart was breaking for this family..I had never met them, but became friends after following the last 4 months his short life through this journal! Reese Coble changed my life forever making me realize how precious life is! I did not need to meet Reese to love him .....his beautiful smile was all it took the first time I saw his picture!

To Reese, Shawn, Toni, Nana, Doug, Taylor and family know that I am thinking of you today....

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 10, 2004 1:38 PM CST
THINKING OF YOU, DOUG, AND TAYLOR TODAY. ON A POSITIVE THOUGHT, REESE HAS HAD NO PAIN OR SUFFERING FOR A YEAR NOW. GOD BLESS.


JEFF AND STEPHANIE BECK <JBECK@KDHOSIERY.COM>
- Wednesday, March 10, 2004 1:04 PM CST
Thinking of you today and praying for you. God bless you!!!
Lavonne <lpenn787@earthlink.net>
Mt Airy, nc - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 1:01 PM CST
Thinking of you & sending our love, thoughts & a hug for you & Taylor from Maine
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Shawn & Taylor}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} &
a SPECIAL hug to Heaven for Angel Reesie Cup {{{{{{{{{{{{{Reese Cup}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} We love you & we miss you lots. Never a day goes by that your not thought of here. Love you guys.. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

Dad & Noreen (Grampy & Nana in Maine) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 12:37 AM CST
Thinking of Reese today, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Teri
Nashville, TN - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 12:01 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know that we are with you today, holding you in our thougts and praying for you. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <arhimes@ msn.com, www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 11:39 AM CST
Dear Shawn
As you look up into the sky today, know that it has been made brighter by Reese's crooked smile. When there are no words left to say, and only tears will come...Reese can understand your thoughts, because he can see into your heart. No words are needed at all, for your love for one another is pure---and that is the beauty of endless love. Reese is with you, today and everyday, and I think he wants you to celebrate. Try to have a wonderful day, knowing that Reese loves you, and he knows all you have done for him. He must be so proud of you, having the courage to move on with your life and make such drastic changes. And though they are hard, and though it is not easy--you remain faithful that God will be by your side. That is so great. Know that I am thinking of you, and I had a little talk with Reese last night. I asked him to be with you today, and to send you a sign that he was alright. I hope he listened!
God bless you, Shawn. I am so glad to have met you, and I hope you and Taylor can have a great day today.

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
Festus, MO - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 10:46 AM CST
Shawn ~
I know today will be a hard day - remember that Reese is feeling so much better and is with our Lord and Savior. You and Taylor will be in my thoughts and prayers today. I didn't know Reese, but feel like I did know him. I feel so blessed to have met you and learned of Reese, he sure has touched my life.

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 10:10 AM CST
Thinking of you, Taylor, Doug and your family today.
Dee Dee Edwards
Lewisville, NC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 10:07 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
Just a note to let you know our thoughts are with you today. I know Reese loved your poem -- such a true expression of your love for him. You and Taylor continue to be in our prayers.
Best,
Courtney and the Crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 10:03 AM CST
What a beautiful and touching poem you wrote. My thoughts are with you and your family today and always. Your little angel touched my heart and will never be forgotten. God Bless you.
Megan Moore <mmoore@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 10:01 AM CST
My prayers are with you and your family today and everyday. May God give you Grace and Peace.
Avis Gray <graya@rjrt.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 9:53 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today.
Carol Burgess <CAROL_BURGESS@KERRGROUP.COM>
Conway, Nc USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 8:38 AM CST
Thinking of you today. Sending prayers for peace, comfort, strength and endurance.
Laurie Randel Morgan's Page <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 8:17 AM CST
Thinking of you and your little man today.
Hollie <hollielou@hotmail.com>
Utica, MI - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 8:10 AM CST
Thinking of you and your little man today.
Hollie <hollielou@hotmail.com>
Utica, MI - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 8:10 AM CST
Thinking of you and Taylor on this day. You are in my prayers and Reese will constantly be on my mind today. I pray that he continues to visit you today in his perfect little ways. God Bless you Shawn and may all the love from all the people that care about you surround you and your family.
Sarah <sbnt@qwest.net>
Urbandale, IA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 7:46 AM CST
We lit a candle for Reese today.
Love
Tina,Padraic,Amy + Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London, UK - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 1:25 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of Reese tomorrow (as I do everyday). I can't believe it has been a year- I remember following your story by the hour- hoping that Reese would beat the odds and by doing so give us some hope that Bella could win her battle as well. That is how I looked at it- that our babies would "win" by staying alive. But this year at this time I look at like they did win- they had ultimate healing- free from Hurler, free from transplant and free from an uncertain future!

Reese left behind a legacy of love and hope- his life was purposeful, it touched thousands of people through this website. And it taught the doctors and researchers a little more about transplant and hurler syndrome.

And you showed him tremendous love by transplanting him- he had a terminal disease and you can have peace knowing that you didn't give up on him, you fought for him with all your heart. He was lucky to have you!
Love and prayers, Cathy

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel jacon@shaw.ca>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 9:59 PM CST
JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ALL ARE IN OUR HEARTS AT THIS TIME.
WENDI <WILLIAMBOHLINGER@BELLSOUTH.NET>
WALKERTOWN, NC - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 9:34 PM CST
Shawn that poem is absolutely beautiful
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 8:47 PM CST
On this, the eve of Reese's first Homegoing anniversary, we ask our Lord to hold you tight and to show His love in a very special way. May His and Reese's unseen presence be made known to you and fill your hearts with peace, hope and joy.
Yolanda Rogers, Mom to Anna, http://www.galatians.com - <galatians5@truevine.net>
Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 7:50 PM CST
Just came by to say hello, thinking of you today...
Hope you have a good day tomorrow! I'll be thinking of you, and praying for you.

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 4:34 PM CST
Shawn....I love you...thinking of you and I am here if you need to talk.

To the most beautiful Angel in Heaven....what an impact your little smile has had on my life:) Please let you mommy know you are near!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 3:59 PM CST
What a lovely tribute to your beautiful son. My heart goes out to you and you will be in my thoughts and prayers as his Angel Day arrives.
Karen ^j^ Tia's mom
Redmond, WA USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 1:29 PM CST
It is so hard to believe it has been a year. I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, Taylor and Doug, especially tommorrow. My son and I will be releasing a red balloon tommorrow just we did a year ago. (you can never have to many balloons!) Your poem is so touching and inspirational. You have come a long way in a year. I know the questions might never be answered but you have a sense of healing about you now. I am sure there will always be moments, days even weeks that it won't feel like you have healed at all but with the strength and courage you have shown all of us you will continue along that healing path. I am in awe of you and how you have manage to pick up the pieces and continue on for yourself and Taylor. Taylor has the best mommy in the world. I am proud to say I know of you. I am a mother of two boys also. I hope that I can be half the mother you have been to both of your boys. You are a role model to me and others. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers always but especially this week.
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 1:17 PM CST
Just wanted to know I am thinking about you as you go through the next few days to come.
Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 11:27 AM CST
What a beautiful heartfelt poem for your precious son. Anniverseries are so hard, may God bless you and bring you peace through this one.

http://www.caringbridge.com/wa/arielmarinkovich/

holly
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 11:06 AM CST
~Your poem is a lovely tribute to ^Angel Resse^~ Just sending thoughts and prayers for comfort and strength on the 10th. ~ May God Bless ~
Angel ^^Chaser's^^ Aunt

Lisa Faiello <LRFilo@aol.com>
OH - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 10:53 AM CST
I haven't signed in a very long time, but wanted you to know that Reese is on my mind heavily this week. I know tomorrow will be hard. Can't believe it's been a year. God Bless.
Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 9:43 AM CST
Thinking of you....your poem is beautiful.
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 9:40 AM CST
One more thing... I got this at Grief Share and wanted to share it with everyone.
Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in that easy way you always used. Put no difference in your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was: there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well. ---Rev. Henry Scott Holland

Nanna Julia <bluecornmoon2@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 8:48 AM CST
Peace, so often planted in the shadowed day os sorrow, grows slowly....and then blossoms in the sunshine of tomorrw. B.J.Hoff
I know this is true for you, Shawn, and I hope it will be true for Toni, me, and all of the ones who loved Reese, still love Reese, and miss him so much.
Love, Mom

Nanna Julia <bluecornmoon2@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 8:42 AM CST
I have been thinking about you and doug this pass week. My prayers are with you both. I love you and my little reesecup. I pray god keep you close this week and every week. That was a beautiful poem you wrote. But you have a beautiful inspiration. God bless you and Doug!!!
Lavonne
Mt Airy, nc - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 8:20 AM CST
Reesie Cup has been on my mind a lot these last few days and tomorrow draws closer...I am sure your heart must be aching inside of you...You all remain in our daily thoughts and prayers...we are constantly thinking of you and always praying...
Your poem was beuatiful!

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <ehilliard@verizon.net>
www.forcody.org, - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 8:04 AM CST
Shawn,
Good Morning!! How are you doing? Your poem was so beautiful. You really expressed how you feel. I pray that you and your family will have a good day. God Bless.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 7:13 AM CST
im sure you must get bored of hearing it, and i wish i could find something more orginal to say, but i AM thinking of you,






Love viks from BWC and Post Pals



viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 3:48 AM CST
Oh, Shawn--I'm so proud of you. It is so healing to get those thoughts and words out....and I know Reese is so proud of you, too. I am thinking of you today, wondering how you are doing. I really hope that you are going to be able to spend the day Wednesday away from work...just doing fun things and thinking of Reese.
Please know that I am thinking of you, and will definitely be thinking of you on the 10th. I lost Ty on the 10th, too, August 10th. Odd, isn't it? It's funny how so many dates stick in our minds...forever leaving their marks on our lives. The day they were born, the day they got out of the hospital, the day they did this, the day they did that, and finally, one of the most important--the day they finally were relieved of all their pain. It's not easy to move on without our boys-but we don't really have to. We're so blessed that they are still here with us, and that they let us know they're here. I hope Reese will come to you in your dreams again, because I know he just wants you to be comforted.
Please know that I'm thinking of you, and that I'm always here if you need me.

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 8, 2004 3:47 PM CST
What a beautiful, well written poem. Reese is definately an angel watching over you. May God bless you.
Gretchen Woods <gretchenwoods@charter.net>
MO - Monday, March 8, 2004 1:07 PM CST
The poem is wonderful.

Love
Tina

Tina (Sophie's Mum) <tina@melroseroad.co.ukb>
London, UK - Monday, March 8, 2004 1:02 PM CST
The poem is amazing. Reading with tears in my eyes. Shawn you are a amazing lady. I think and pray for you all daily.
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Monday, March 8, 2004 12:50 AM CST
Your poem is amazing!! It truly shows your love for your baby boy. God bless you sally
Sally Torres <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaehim, ca usa - Monday, March 8, 2004 11:24 AM CST
Shawn, I can only imagine just how difficult this week must be for you. Here's a cyber-hug to help get you through it. {{{{{HUG}}}}}.
Liz
Durham, NC - Sunday, March 7, 2004 10:04 PM CST
hey shawn, sorry i haven't been in touch you are in my thoughts and especially this week comming. I am going to try to plan to go to duke on may 1st for the walk are you? I will try to call you later love christy
christy <christyparty2003@yahoo.com>
aberdeen, - Sunday, March 7, 2004 5:13 PM CST
I am thinking of you all, I know this has been an awful year, and I know this week especially is so hard. I am thankful Aunt Toni doesnt have to worry, but no one should have to deal with this. I hope you feel your Reesie Cup's presence watching over you....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Sunday, March 7, 2004 9:45 AM CST
Shawn...Thinking of you...I know this week is going to be especially hard. Sending prayers of peace and comfort.

Much love...

Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Sunday, March 7, 2004 9:01 AM CST
Checking in on you to send hugs and prayers your way. I was reading "The Purpose Drive Life" today, for Lent, and I came across something that reminded me of you. It says "If you have a relationship with God through Jesus, you don't need to fear death. It is the door to eternity. It will be the last hour of your time on earth, but it won't be the last of you. Rather than being the end of your life, it will be your birthday into eternal life." The Bible says "This world is not our home; we are looking forward to our everlasting home in heaven."
That made me think about our boys, and how this was not their home...they are now at home with God. I can't wait to be with Ty, and I know you look forward to being with Reese, too.
I was thinking of you today, and just wanted you to know that. I'm here for you, and thinking of you, praying for you, too!

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, March 6, 2004 8:31 PM CST
Way to go Kevin Harvick, he won on Saturday in Las Vegas with the Reesecup car. I was happy. Hope you were happy too. Talk to you soon.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC USA - Saturday, March 6, 2004 7:13 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
I am just checking in on you tonight and will be praying for you because I know this week will be esp hard. Love, Anne

Anne Himes <arhimes@ msn.com, www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Friday, March 5, 2004 8:26 PM CST
Hey Shawn, Just wanted to let you know that I am still out here. I think of you and your family daily. I am continuing to pray for you, especially for the next few days. I hope that you remember that it is ok to be sad, but also to celebrate. Reese is a beautiful child and deserves to be honored by a celebration of his life. Also, I am so glad that Toni and Andy got good news. Thanks for keeping us updated!
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, March 5, 2004 12:41 AM CST
Thinking of You
Jodie www.caringbridge.org/tx/brayden <braybraysmommy@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 4, 2004 8:35 PM CST
Shawn, You are an extraordinary woman, Mother, and friend. I admire your dedication and love you so openly share. I wanted you to know that you are never alone in your struggles in this week or in in the future. Their are so many people who appreciate the loving words of encouragement and hope that you write in your entries. The loss you have endured will always be fresh in your memories. I have been living with the loss of my daughter for 11 years and I still feel the pain today. A love for your child never dies, because true love never dies. Such as God's love for us is true. You have a glow about you that is apparent in your words that you write. You also have a glow about you in person. Those are the everlasting gifts that our children have given to us. I often wonder if in Heaven Reese and my daughter Victoria have met. I can hear her say my Daddy knows your Mommy and they are friends. Don't worry with Faith and forgiveness we will see them in Heaven one day. Not yet though, our work is not done here on Earth. It is a pleasure and honor to have you in my life as a great friend. Please know this: God loves you, thousands of people love you, and I love you. Keep the faith and love you have. Hold tight to it forever.
Roger <roger_slate_jr@hotmail.com>
Germanton, NC USA - Thursday, March 4, 2004 1:57 PM CST
Shawn-
I think of you everyday and miss you like crazy. I know the next few weeks are going to be tough ones, so please know that I am here if you need me. ANYTIME! Tell Toni and Andy that I am so happy for them and will be praying that they are blessed with a little one soon. I love you!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 10:21 PM CST
Shawn~ just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Your entrys are always so filled with love for Reese, thank you for continuing to let us know how you are.
Love,
Jennifer

Jennifer Restemayer www.caringbridge.org/nd/allison <jennmarie@bis.midco.net >
Bismarck, ND Usa - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 8:44 PM CST
just to let you know that you and all of reese's family we be in our thoughts and prayers during the coming days. your journal entry was awesome, it made me realize that reese has touch me and others for TNA (then, now, and always). reese, keep up the good work and ask god to continue to shower your mom and the rest of your family with his love and grace.




jeff beck <jbeck@kdhosiery.com>
mt. airy, nc - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 2:17 PM CST
Shawn,

I am thinking of you as you are remembering this most difficult week for you and your whole family. I am another person who never got to meet Reesie Cup, but am forever touched by him.

Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 11:53 AM CST
Hey, You! So glad you finally updated, i was getting worried. You have got it together, girl. I know you have bad days, but your journal entry is right on target. Reese is always with you, and with his cute brother, and with all the family that loved him so much. He will never leave you, and you are SO right, he is doing God's work everyday. he touches more lives everyday, and he always will. He is so blessed to have you, and you are so blessed to have him.
I am thinking of you daily, and want you to remember to celebrate on the 10th...it should be a day to celebrate the jobs he has done! It's okay to be sad, but remember to be happy, too. You had him for a year, and that's reason to celebrate!!
Thinking of you often, praying for you, and hoping to hear from you! You've touched my life and changed it, too. Thanks, and prayers go to you guys!

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 3, 2004 8:45 AM CST
Aunt Toni, what WONDERFUL news!!! I know it has lifted a huge burden from the hearts of your entire family!! Shawn, as always, you have the most eloquent gift of expression -- I continue to admire your strength, and am privileged that you share this experience with us.
Carolyn F
W-S, nc - Tuesday, March 2, 2004 5:04 PM CST
Shawn

I just wanted to stop by and let you know I have been thinking of you. You are in my PRAYERS. I know these next days will be some of your toughest. Keep praying for God to help you, that is the only way you can get through this. God, is the only way me and my husband have made it through the last few years of our lives. Our little Will has been an angel for a little over 15 months. It is still rough each and every day. It gets a little easier each month, but it is not easy by any means. Well, just remember there are people who have been down the path you are on before you and we have survived. You are in our thoughts and our PRAYERS.

Carol mommy of ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com>
Monroe, NC - Tuesday, March 2, 2004 10:30 AM CST
JUST CHECKING TO SEE HOW THINGS ARE GOING. THINK OF YOU OFTEN.
PENNY <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Saturday, February 28, 2004 4:48 PM CST
Stopping in to check on you. Hope all is well, and i hope that you always remember that I'm here if you need to talk. Praying for you, and knowing that Reese is with you.
Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Friday, February 27, 2004 7:24 AM CST
Just wanted to say thanks for stopping by and visiting Evline's web page. I am sooo sorry for your lose. I know your little guy is very proud of his mom for helping others and offering them a kind word in their time of need. I can just see him now saying, "Look, Jesus, that's my mom down there bringing comfort to others when they need it most."
Thank you ever so much for your kind words and your prayers. They mean a great deal to us.

Cheryl www.caringbridge.org/ky/evline <EVLINETHOMAS@YAHOO.COM>
Evarts, KY USA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 8:33 PM CST
just stopping in to let you know I still keep you in my prayers
josie Pynn (www.caringbridge.org/canada/ayden) <josie_pynn@yahoo.com>
Pembroke, ON Canada - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 4:46 PM CST
My Angel In The Sky
My angel in the sky,
who comes to me in dreams at night.
You left me without a single word,
but when I close my eyes,
your voice is heard.
Telling me you'll be alright,
that you're not scared,
you're in the light.

And now whenever I need you near,
I close my eyes and you appear.
He's my angel in the sky,
who comes to me in dreams at night.
To let me know that he's alright,
he's with God,
he's in the light.
(Tanya Kendall)
FLY Angel RESSE CUP FLY!!!!!

Meghan And Nate Gapa ~Our Angel on Earth~ www.caringbridge.org/ny/naters_page <gaphouse@yahoo.com>
Lyndonville, NY usa - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 6:10 PM CST
Hi Shawn,
I have never signed your guestbook before. I have always just read about your little Reesie Cup. You have touched my life in more ways that I could ever explain. You are truly an inspiration to me.
I wanted to let you know that you are never far from my thoughts and I will say an extra prayer for you on the days approaching.

Jodie Johnston www.caringbridge.org/tx/brayden <braybraysmommy@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 24, 2004 12:01 AM CST
Hi, Shawn. I was here again, and thought I had better say Hello! I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, and hope you are doing okay.
As March approaches, and you find yourself a little scared....scared of what that day will bring, and what it will mean when it has passed....scared of what you should do, what is the RIGHT thing to do, and what others will expect of you...
Know one thing--THERE IS NO RIGHT THING. There is no right way to act that day, no proper way to grieve, to rejoice, or to just "be". There is no rulebook, no guidelines, no judge. There is just you, Reese, and your memories, your love, and your eternal bond.
I know you dread that day, then at the same time just want to get it over with. I know how much I dreaded it, and I know how scary it was. I have to tell you, though, that it wasn't that bad. I had made it out to be so terrible in my mind before it ever got here, that when the day ended, I thought..."Okay, I made it through."
it wasn't an easy day, it wasn't my favorite day, but it was another day God had blessed me with, and he helped me through. I tried to just think of the good things that had happened, the good times we had had, and tried to celebrate more than mourn.
That was what got me through. You do what you need to do, and know that I will be right here if you need me.
Thanks again, for everything. Thank you for being a friend. Thank you for just being yourself...a mom, a friend, a real person. By not trying to be any more than that, you became so much more to me.

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, February 24, 2004 10:29 AM CST
Shawn,

Your little Reese sure was a beautiful little guy. I am sure that during his short life, he touched many people. I am sorry for the road you are traveling. It is a very very hard one. That first year is so very hard. Starting the second year is no picnic either. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Carol Strosnider Mother of ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com>
Monroe, NC - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 9:03 AM CST
Shawn,
You continue to amaze me. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.

Kelly Chelf RN <kelly_chelf@hotmail.com>
Durham 5200, NC - Monday, February 23, 2004 11:53 AM CST
Just checking in and what to let you know, you are always in our thoughts.

Love
Tina,Padraic,Amy + Sophie

Tina (Sophie's Mum) <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London , UK - Sunday, February 22, 2004 7:35 AM CST
Hi Shawn!
It's okay to feel sad,
It's okay to mourn...
It's okay to long for
the day he was born.
It's okay to laugh
and it's okay to be sad.
And on those bad days
it's okay to feel mad.
For Reese is still with you
and he'll always be.
And when you need him the most
Right there he will be.
He knows your sorrows,
he knows your pains.
But he also knows the strength
that loving him helped you gain.
So, don't think your crazy
when you have a bad day....
We've all been there
and that makes it okay!

Hey, girl. Just thinking of you today, wondering how you're doing. I hope that you and Taylor are doing okay, and that your dream has brought you strength and hope during these hard times. I know things are hard for you right now, and I know that somedays you feel all alone ---but you're not at all. Your caringbridge family is here for you, and always will be. So many of us understand what you're going through, and it's okay to unload on us when you need to. That's what we're here for. God never gives you more than you can handle, you've heard that one a million times. What you didn't hear was that when you think you can't handle it, your friends are here to help you realize that you can!
God bless you both, and know that we're all here, and so is Reese!

Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
- Friday, February 20, 2004 9:28 AM CST
Shawn-
I don't know which one of you (you or Tracie) makes me cry harder. You have both been through so much this past year and your ability to see the positive side of things amazes me. ^Reese^: Thank you for visiting your mommy. It means the world to her. Shawn- I think about you everyday and I love you so much. I'm always here for you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan
PS: I am thinking of Toni too! I love you girl!

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Thursday, February 19, 2004 2:57 PM CST
You always seem to make me cry. Still thinking of you and praying for you all the time. I was hoping to see the picture of reesecup and taylor together for valentine's day. God bless you both
lavonne <lpenn787@earthlink.net>
mt Airy, nc - Thursday, February 19, 2004 9:55 AM CST
Tears.

I cry a river of them everyday for us.

Love you always...

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, February 18, 2004 12:34 AM CST
Hello Shawn!!!!
I can't tell you how happy I am to hear about your dream! I, too, believe that Reese was letting you know that he was okay. I never fail to be amazed at the way our children come to us. I thank God that He allows them to do so, too. Without it, I don't know if I would've gotten through half as well as I have.
I had a dream about Ty once, too. He never drank from a bottle, but when he was hungry he would suck on his top lip. It was the cutest thing in the world. I would always kiss him when he did that, it felt like he was kissing me back. I loved it. It's the silly things you love the most, isn't it.
So, anyway, not so long after he died, I had a dream that a beautiful red and yellow butterly flew to me and kissed me just like Ty "kissed" me. I felt it, I felt his lips on mine, and when I woke up I had tears running down my face. I could still feel his lips on mine. It was so beautiful. I knew he came to me to tell me he was okay, and I know that's what Reese was doing, too.
You have touched me in a way you cannot imagine. My life has changed so dramatically in the past 2 weeks. I can't explain to you what your email did for me, and I thank you for it. I thank Reese for touching your heart and telling you to write me, too.
May God bless you and Taylor, for you have blessed me. Please keep your chin up, and write me anytime. In fact, I can email you my phone # if you would like, you may need it next month.
I will always be here for you, Shawn. God bless you.


Jennifer Naeger www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
MO - Tuesday, February 17, 2004 3:38 PM CST
Hi Shawn,

What an awesome poem. Thank you for sharing...

I hope you're doing okay these days...

Love, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <tracienicoll@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Monday, February 16, 2004 4:13 PM CST

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, February 14, 2004 8:55 AM CST
Shawn,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I really pray you had a good day and Taylor didn't eat too much party food. If he did, I can just imagine him running circles around you at this late hour.

I have a picture of Reese in my office and his precious face is the first thing I see when I sit at my desk to get the day started. He gets a big tear stained kiss on the 10th of every month. On his birthday, I had some things I had to do at lunch and of course, the most important was to get two red balloons and find a quiet spot to give them to Reese. I managed to do everything I needed to, except find that quiet place. I work in the Stratford Executive Park and the best I could do was to park beside a vehicle that was as big or bigger than my van, stand between them to sing Happy Birthday to Reese and give him my balloons. Thankfully, when I turned to go towards the office, for just a couple of seconds, there were no cars going up or down the street, and I couldn't see a person in site. It was like time stopped for just a moment, which just doesn't happen and lunch time on Executive Park Blvd. It was very sweet and peaceful. I'm not sure if I should have shared this with you on this particular day, but just wanted you to know what a wonderful moment I had with your son and how I hope it makes you smile today, just like it made me smile that Thursday. Very Sincerely,

Linda C. Johnson <johnsl31@nationwide.com, hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 9:23 PM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn!!!!! Thinking of you today....
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc usa - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 5:12 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAWN!!!!!!!!!!!
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 3:10 PM CST
Thinking of you sweet Reesiecup on your 11 month anniversary in heaven.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 10:54 AM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn..... Hope you have a wonderful day... love you..
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 8:01 AM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR "DAUGHTER" HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! LOVE YOU BUNCHES & MISS YOU MORE.......DAD
Chris <chrnor@msn.com>
Newburgh, Me - Tuesday, February 10, 2004 8:00 AM CST
We got our card and of course I just cried. Thank you so much. I miss you and think about you and ^Reese^ everyday. I love you so much. I sent you a little something in your e-mail. I hope you enjoy it.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Sunday, February 8, 2004 9:29 PM CST
Thinking of all of you and keeping you close in prayer.

Much love...

Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Sunday, February 8, 2004 8:56 PM CST
Just stopping by to send some
^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, February 8, 2004 12:22 AM CST
Happy belated birthday Reese. So much of your birth story reminds me of Max's - patch of hair on his bottom, several failed hearing tests, off to the NICU right after he was born ... I am sure Max helped you celebrate your birthday this year.
Margaret Ciacciarelli <mmchick@comcast.net www.Mighty-Max.com>
- Saturday, February 7, 2004 8:34 PM CST
Hi Shawn, it's Jennifer again. I wanted to let you know you inspired me to start a site for Ty. I thought I could post little thoughts there and maybe help someone out if they happen to log on.
So, here goes...www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty.
Please check it out if you get a chance, although I haven't been able to get his picture up yet, I'm working on it!
Thanks again for everything.

Jennifer Naeger <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
MO - Saturday, February 7, 2004 12:46 AM CST
Wow oh Wow what a gorgeous detailing of the love of children and our lives with them! Jennifer should definitely copyright her stuff! I'm so glad you met her Shawn...sometimes God (and Reese) sends us little pick-me-up packages when we need it most, and so there's Jennifer. Take care Shawn, and all my love & hugs to you...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Thursday, February 5, 2004 8:46 PM CST
Hi, it's Jennifer. It's funny, but I feel as though I know you, and yet we have never met. I think your response to my message on Noah's site was probably just what I needed. Just after Ty's funeral, I realized I was pregnant again. I can only explain that as a miracle, since he was apparently only 2 months old, and had only been home for 2 weeks about the time of conception. Let's just say it HAD to be a miracle.
At first I was scared, worried what would happen to this baby. However, just 6 days before her big brother's 1st birthday, Madysen Ty was born perfectly healthy.
Now that she is coming up on her 2nd birthday (and Ty's 3rd), I guess I let myself get consumed by the things that a stay at home mom gets consumed by--playing, disciplining, and trying to shape the life that God has given to me into a good person. I find myself getting worried about a simple runny nose, when just a couple years ago I prayed for something so easy.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that you opened my eyes, and reminded me of how blessed I have been by being chosen to be the mother of my 2 children. It is always hard when people ask how many kids you have, isn't it? I always say 2, but then have to explain. I watch the person's face turn from smiling to sadness, and I hear those same words, "Oh, I am so sorry!" I always know how they will respond, but I cannot just say that I have 1 child. I can't deny him his 3 months on Earth. And, I feel as though I can't just say, "Oh, I have 2 kids." then leave it at that.
It' s just a hard thing, but I wouldn't have it any other way. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is THANK YOU. After reading your message today, and seeing that something I felt has helped you with what you have felt...I realize that I have to get that book finished. I know there are things God has planned for me, I know there is a reason he didn't choose another mother for Ty. I always pray that He helps me to be a good person, to help others, and to fulfill the plan that He has for me. I think your message, and those from a couple other people I received since you posted my poem, is my sign from God to get off my duff and finish that book. I am also going to try to volunteer at St. Louis Children's Hospital, where Ty spent most of his time.
So, thank you, from one mother to another. May God bless you and your family every day, and may you always find joy in the beautiful smile of your beloved Reese.

Jennifer Naeger <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
MO - Thursday, February 5, 2004 2:41 PM CST
The tears are streaming down my face as I read Jennifer's poems. Since Reese's birthday was just last week, the birthday poem was especially meaningful. Thank you again for allowing me the honor of visiting Reese's gravesite with you on his birthday. Sweet Reese, you continue to bring people together and I hope you liked your red "I Love You" balloons that Mommy, Nanna and I released to you because we all love you so very much. You are such a special baby, little one and not only do I thank God for my children but I thank Him for a sweet Reesiecup that unfortunately, I didn't meet during this lifetime but I can't wait to meet him in the next. Shawn, thank you for sharing Jennifer's poems, we love you too!
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, February 5, 2004 12:11 AM CST
Shawn,
Just want you to know that I have been thinking of you and your family.

The poem you attached made my heart hurt for you so bad.. and to the lady who wrote the peom ....thank you for sharing it:)

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, February 5, 2004 9:25 AM CST
Shawn
After receiving your email about my message on Noah's site, I came to check out Reese's site. As I sat with tearfilled eyes, I reflected on the emotions I felt on my son's 2nd birthday this past April. Then I remembered a poem I wrote, and thought I'd share it with you...

I Took My Son Balloons Today

I took my son balloons today
To tell him Happy Birthday!

I told him that I loved him
And longed to hold him close.
Reminded him of all the little things
That make me miss him the most.

I took my son balloons today
Because he has now turned 2.
But bringing him balloons
Is the only thing that I can do.

You see, he is not here
For me to hold, and hug and kiss.
He is celebrating his day in Heaven...
So, please, remember this—

Hug your children, and hold them close.
Spoil them with kisses and love.
Just think of me, when they’re on your last nerve,
And you feel like you’ve just had enough.

You see, I never got to experience that,
The pouting, the fits and the time outs.
He was here just 3 short months,
And now my time with him has run out.

As I place his balloons and teddy bear
On the ground at his grass-covered grave.
I whisper to him, “Happy Birthday, Buddy”
And his one-year old sister just waves.

Oh, his heart was weak,
But his impact was strong.
And all around me,
Life goes on.

So, please grant me a simple wish, for this, my son’s birthday---
Look at your children’s precious face, then up to God and say,
“I thank you for my children, Lord”

-You see, I took my son balloons today.-

May God bless you and your family. Know that Reese is with you, and always will be. He is the air you breath, the birds you hear, and the butterfly that buzzes past your ear in the spring. He is in the sweet smell of the year's first flowers, and in the beauty of the freshly fallen snow. He is with you, and always will be.


Jennifer Naeger <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com>
MO - Wednesday, February 4, 2004 3:44 PM CST
Shawn,
We owe you a dozen thank you cards and at least a few asking forgiveness for our thoughtlessness, especially mine. I did indeed receive the beautiful charm, it is absolutely breathtaking and I am so very grateful beyond words...that was an extremely touching gift. Thank you so very much. I had a box with some items in it (and still do) ready to send, but was waiting to collect a few more goodies to send you all at once. I think of you and Reese often, I remember first learning of Reese from Toni, while we were getting our hair done on 5200. It seems like it was yesterday, and yet so long ago...almost a year now, but how can it be, already? I hope that you are doing well, and Taylor too. I have not signed in, but I have been reading the updates...I am slowly working my way back into 'life' and taking time away from my pity party to check on the kids and families that we became so close to during our journey there at Duke...so I will try to sign in more often. God bless you,
Aloha,
Debbie and Greg, Angel Noah's parents

Prichard <noahprichard@yahoo.com>
Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, February 3, 2004 6:34 PM CST
Me and a friend will be buying Reese's t-shirt soon! We are so excited. I think of you all all the time, and not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts and prayers. Hope that you all are doing well. God Bless.
Leah Wilson <fairy128@aol.com>
NC - Monday, February 2, 2004 7:44 PM CST
Hey Shawn,
I think of you often and sweet Reesecup. I told you that I would let you know about my ultrasound and its saying girl! I plan on naming her after my Nana that passed away about seven years ago, Mary Beth (my mom's mom). I was also thinking of Reese on his birthday and how your journal entry of his birth really touched me, because soon I will know how that feels and I appreciate you sharing that special day. Please tell Toni I said hello and I hope everything is going well with her. I love you both. Take care!!!
Bethany

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC 27244 - Sunday, February 1, 2004 1:00 AM CST
Hey Shawn...just stopping in to let you know that you, Taylor and Reesiecup are still never far from my thoughts!!!
I'm sure Reese and all those other precious caring bridge angels had a smashing birthday bash!!! We could never find anything here on earth that will compare with what we will see when we cross over to the other side!!
I hope that Aunt Toni is doing well...tell her hello. Is Tater enjoying all this snow????? I'm ready for some Reesiecup sunshine myself!!!

Still praying for you daily and especially praying that precious Reese will visit you often!!

With love from Surry County....Sharon

Sharon Burchette /// Surry County 911 Center <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Saturday, January 31, 2004 3:12 AM CST
Good morning Shawn,
Your journal entry about your sweet little ^^Angel Reese's^^ birth is so touching. Reese was very blessed to have such a devoted and loving Mommy, remember that! Thank you so much for continuing to share your journey with us. May God bless you as you bless others.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Friday, January 30, 2004 8:02 AM CST
HAPPY 2ND BIRTHDAY TO THE MOST BEAUTIFUL ANGEL IN HEAVEN!

I have been looking at Reese's picture and his beautiful smile all day!

Hope you are doing ok tonight, and sending hugs your way!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, January 29, 2004 7:15 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Angel Reese! You will never be forgotten.
Carolyn Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Thursday, January 29, 2004 6:50 PM CST

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
Ione, CA USA - Thursday, January 29, 2004 6:33 PM CST

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
Ione, CA USA - Thursday, January 29, 2004 6:33 PM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Reese! I hope you are having the biggest birthday party in Heaven. We are thinking of you and your mommy today. Sending kisses from Laney to Heaven!
Love,
Beth Anne and Laney

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <bigg6550@bellsouth.net>
Rogersville, TN - Thursday, January 29, 2004 5:01 PM CST
Happy birthday Angel ^Reese^. We love and miss you. Shawn, I love you so much. Please know that I am thinking of you today.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Thursday, January 29, 2004 4:13 PM CST
Shawn~ I know this looks like a lot of gibberish, but if you copy/paste this web address you'll see why I sent it to you. http://www.redenvelope.com/re/gifts/product_display/product_information.jsp?nc=45040&BV_SessionID=@@@@0102812731.1075402731@@@@&BV_EngineID=ccccadckiemdhhfcefecefedfgfdfmg.0&refPg=%2fproduct_display%2fgift_results.jsp&bct2=shops&bcp2=1&bcm2=1%24%24-8193&bct4=what%27s+new&bcp4=3&bcm4=1%24%24-8194&bct5=entire+collection&bcp5=4&bcm5=29$$%2Fshops%2Fwhat%27s+new%2Fentire+collection@@30$$-9861@@31$$32&catOid=-9861&oid=8741172

Kari
- Thursday, January 29, 2004 1:08 PM CST
Remembering you Angel Reese on your special day. I'm saying a prayer for all your family who miss you so. Angel Sprite


Smile Quilts Angel Sprite <smilequilts@smilequilts.com>
Eckert, Colorado USA - Thursday, January 29, 2004 1:08 PM CST
Thinking of you and your family on this special day.
Denny & Donna Faw <donnafaw@northstate.net>
Thomasville, NC - Thursday, January 29, 2004 1:04 PM CST
You're always in my thoughts. I feel privledged to know such a strong person.
T. Starling <tstarling@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, January 29, 2004 12:06 AM CST
Shawn, I stopped by but you aren't here today. I'm thinking of you on this special day. What a wonderful gift of writing you have, you brought tears to my eyes.
Hugs!

Carolyn F
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, January 29, 2004 11:50 AM CST
Thank you so much for sharing the wonderful story of Reese's birth. I came to know of you and Reese through Karen Efird. We came to Reese's walk last year. I feel like I kind of know you even though I really don't. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my heart and prayers today. May God strengthen you and fill your heart with the peace that only He can give you. May He carry you through each step of the day today!
Missy Morgan <missy@rollinghillsgin.com>
New London, NC USA - Thursday, January 29, 2004 10:09 AM CST
Happy Birthday Reese! While you are running around and playing, if you run into a couple of boys named Mitch and Alex, let them know that they are missed and loved too. Hope you catch lots of red balloons today!
Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, January 29, 2004 9:31 AM CST
Shawn, I have not signed your book in a while but I have been checking up on you. I just wanted to let you know that we will be thinking of you over these next few days and lifting you to the Lord in prayer. May He grant you strength!
Happy Birthday Angel Reece!
Take care and God bless.
Morgan's Page

Allison & Morgan Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, January 29, 2004 9:27 AM CST
I just wanted to wish Reese a Happy birthday up in heavan. I have been following your site for over a year and have always been at a loss of words. I have a 2yr old daughter and although I don't know how you feel, I can only imagine how you feel. It kills me inside to know that children and there parents are put through such pain. I wish you the very best in life and no more pain..and remember that one day, although not soon enough, you will see your sweet baby again..
Jamie Givens <jlg4uandme@aol.com>
Manchester, NH - Thursday, January 29, 2004 9:21 AM CST
Happy Birthday Reese.
Dee Dee Edwards
Lexington, nc 27023 - Thursday, January 29, 2004 8:20 AM CST
Remembering your sweet little boy's birthday.
Hollie <hollielou@hotmail.com>
Utica, MI - Thursday, January 29, 2004 7:49 AM CST
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday sweet Reese.
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy 2nd. birthday precious little one. We love you so much!

Randy, Robin, Jake and Gracie Boger
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, January 29, 2004 7:33 AM CST
I was in bed last night and looked at the clock it was about 12:00 and I said to myself, its almost Reesecup's birthday. I've had Reece on my mind all this week I never got to meet him but I feel like I've always known him. Happy Birthday Reececup!!! I love you!!!
Lavonne Penn
Mount Airy, usa - Thursday, January 29, 2004 7:29 AM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Reese... Our thoughts & prayers are with you on this special day & everyday. Take care, love you guys.
Grampy (Dad) & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 11:53 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REESECUP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOVE YOUR BUDDY
CLAY

CLAY BOHLINGER <DWBONC@aol.com>
DWBONC - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 10:33 PM CST
Thank you for sharing Reese! May our Lord bless you abundantly with His comfort and peace as you celebrate the precious remembrance of Reese's birth and brief but very special life with you this side of Heaven.
Yolanda Rogers, Mom to Anna, http://www.galatians5.com - <galatians5@truevine.net>
Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 8:33 PM CST
Hey Shawn. Thank you for sharing such an intimate and special story about Reese's arrival. Our babies are the most special gifts on the face of Earth! I can't imagine your pain, your emptines, your heartache. Please know that I love you - as a fellow MPS Mom & parent. I hope you have a wonderful visit to his gravesite. Take care of yourself! kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 2:08 PM CST
happy birhtday reese. our prayer and wish is that you will let your family know that you are with them tomorrow.


Jeff and Stephanie Beck <jbeck@kdhosiery.com>
Mt Airy, NC - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 12:43 AM CST
Hello Shawn,

I know your wonderful friend, Robin Boger. I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you as this is the hardest journey a mother could ever walk.

So...I am thinking of you and praying for you, especially as the birthday approaches. Your beautiful Reese is with Jesus but I know you miss him so very much.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah

M. Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, January 27, 2004 6:38 PM CST
The poem is beautiful!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, January 27, 2004 11:57 AM CST
Hey Shawn, Taylor and Angel Reese:)
I was in my laundry room night before last and while I was folding clothes, I saw a lady bug on the wall. I looked around to see if there were more, but there was only one. When I saw it I instantly thought of Reese and smiled!

I know that the next couple of months are going to be difficult for you, but know that so many people will be celebrating his life with you as well. You know how special Reese is to me and even though I do not write to you everday, there is not one single day that you and your family do not cross my mind. Please, let us know how you plan to celebrate his birthday. Hope to see you soon.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Saturday, January 24, 2004 7:43 AM CST
Hello Shawn. Just wanted to let you know that you, Taylor, and ^^Reese^^ have been on my mind lately. Hope things are ok. I know that you have some very difficult days headed your way but I know the strong part in Shawn will get through them (somehow). You are in my prayers.
Lots of love,
Beth Anne

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <bigg6550@bellsouth.net>
Rogersville, TN - Friday, January 23, 2004 3:40 PM CST
Hey Shawn! I know that Jan 29 will be a very special day no matter what happens. I'm so glad you have Robin with you. There is nothing better than having a best friend to call your own. They can take care of us in the most special ways. I hope you have a happy "anticipation" of next week. God give you strength to endure it and enjoy it! We love you and think of you daily! Take care...kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Friday, January 23, 2004 3:32 PM CST
Shawn,
Good Afternoon!! How are you doing? I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you. My prayers are with you. God Bless.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Friday, January 23, 2004 12:15 AM CST
have not left a message in awhile. just wanted to let you know we do check the page regularly and continue to keep all of you in our prayers.


jeff and stephanie beck <jbeck@kdhosiery.com>
mt airy, nc - Monday, January 19, 2004 1:45 PM CST
I saw a young 'un today with a red balloon. He released it into the sky and I thought of Reese up in heaven, waiting for the red balloon to reach him.

Big hugs

Elizabeth Ruben
Durham, NC - Sunday, January 18, 2004 8:08 PM CST
shawn, thinking of you today and every day.
PENNY <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Saturday, January 17, 2004 12:12 AM CST
Every time I see a red balloon or a lady bug I think of Reesie cup. He and you are never far from my thoughts and prayers. I love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, January 12, 2004 6:59 PM CST
Thinking of you all yesterday on Reese's ten month anniversary in heaven. I had DSL problems and couldn't sign in yesterday but we said an extra prayer for you yesterday. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, January 11, 2004 9:22 PM CST
I'm sorry that your "Reesie Cup" passed away! I'm the big sister of Nikole Sara Raa DeWitt! She to has Hurlers. I love my sister to death and i never want to go through lossing her. At least reesie is in a better place now where he can watch over you. He loves you and your family alot! my thouhgts and prayer are with you!
Brittney DeWitt <Dewitt23_Trumble06@hotmail.com>
St. Anne , IL USA - Friday, January 9, 2004 2:45 PM CST
I love you, Shawn Coble!!!

I'm so glad Reesie Cup gave you a sign on Christmas Eve!! The best present ever!!! I've been waiting and waiting for something from Douglas - I will wait forever! Thank you for everything you've sent us this holiday season. I loved the picture of Taylor!

All my love and hugs, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, ^^Angel Douglas^^ and Cam <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 11:31 AM CST
May you find peace, strength, and happiness in the New Year - and more ladybugs from your sweet little boy angel. God Bless!
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Monday, January 5, 2004 3:28 PM CST
May 2004 bring healing to your hearts and joy back into your souls. Please know you are kept close in thought. God bless, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
- Saturday, January 3, 2004 3:52 AM CST
Shawn and Family,
May God Bless you this year,I read You Little one story and was so touched by his life and his cute personalityand what a BIG smile oh so cute. I do know where you are coming from that 2004 has to be better than 2003 we to lost our baby this year in Aug. and i do haVE TO SAY THAT 2003 WAS A BAD YEAR BUT 2004 I FEEL CANT GET BETT INA AWAY B/C I GOT TO HOLD LOVE KISS AND BE WITH mIKAYLA THEN AND i KNOW I NEVER WILL IN 2004EVEN THOUGH MOST OF OUR DAYS IN 2003 WERE SPENT IN THE HOSPITAL I WAS STILL WITH HER. BUT mAY gOD HELP US ALL HEAL AND SEE A NEW LIGHT.
THIS IS MY LITTLE ANGELS SITE IF YOUD LIKE TO VISIT
www.caringbridge.org/tn/kayla
Warmly

April Harris <sh6Hrr@aol.com>
- Friday, January 2, 2004 2:01 PM CST
Hey Shawn,
Just wanted to stop by and let you know I was thinking about you....I hope that you and Taylor have a great New Year. Please tell Toni and your mom I said "Hello". Also, tell Toni I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
All the best!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, January 2, 2004 7:50 AM CST
I truly hope that 2004 is a much better year for you and your family. Wishing you peace and comfort and hopefully joy in the New Year.
Roberta Kishbaugh (Ryan's Mom)
- Wednesday, December 31, 2003 9:38 PM CST

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net
- Wednesday, December 31, 2003 4:02 PM CST
Hey Shawn!! It's sooo good to finally hear from you. I check in everyday hoping to "hear" from you, and everyday I'm worried about you a little more. I have been praying for you the past few weeks 'cause I knew the holidays would be tough.

I'm so glad to know that you had a good Christmas with Taylor and your family. I love the special gifts you received, and Reese's especially to you (ladybug at Cil's).

The say time heals all wounds, but remember the scars will remain. You'll always grieve I would think, so don't worry so much about those feelings - or the past happenings in your life. Everything happens for a reason...we just have to try and figure out what it was and grow from it.

I think you are doing a superb job as a mother and person trying to move on. You are an inspiration to me and many others. Take care of yourself and continue to look up!

Hope you have a blessed and Happy New Year! kle

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 3:28 PM CST
Wishing you a Happy 2004. XOXOXOX
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Maine - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 5:00 AM CST
Shawn,
I was very glad to read a new update today. Here's to an awesome 2004 filled with God's blessings for you and your family!

Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:39 AM CST
We are sorry to hear about Toni's surgery, but we will pray that the IVF works. Shawn, I have been thinking about you so much over the past several days. I know this Christmas was so hard for you. I pray that God holds you extra close and that Reese visits your dreams soon. I love you so much!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton
PS Thanks for the X-mas card. Taylor is so handsome!

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:29 PM CST
Wanted to stop in and let you know we are praying for you and hope that God's grace will surround you. "Though he brings grief, he also shows compassion accourding to the greatness of his unfailing love." Lam 3:32 Love, THe Ramsey's
Sam and Nancy Ramsey (www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey) <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:27 AM CST
Hello Shawn,

This is the first time I have written in the journal. I guess I should have long before now. I am writing now to let you and Doug both know that I am thinking about you both. My prayers are constantly with you, Doug, Taylor, and your families. I do not have any "words of wisdom" to pass on to you. I can not imagine how you both must feel 24/7. I can only hope and pray that neither of you will ever forget that there is another precious angel still here. But, then again, I know you both love him tremendously. It's just very important that you don't loose sight of what is around you with "what-might-have-beens". Unfortunately, there is a reason for all of this. I will not say that Reese is better off. Yes, he is not in pain or suffering, but that does not mean that he would not have been better off here had he been able to beat this horrible disease. However, God must have had different plans for him, you, and Doug. I can look at this from a mother's view of the bond you both had with Reese. I can also look at the fear and anguish of being faced with your child having a terrible disease, the guilt of always wondering if there was something you could've done to have prevented it, then wondering "am I doing the right thing now". I can empathize with that, however, like I said before, I can not begin to imagine the hurt and shock you both, as well as your families, have been living with. I can sympathize with that, but no words will make it better. I can only say that I am a friend from close to Mt. Airy, and that I am praying for all of you.
My grandfather once told me not to ask God to get rid of the pain of losing a loved one - for if it ever stopped hurting completely - then you would forget them completely. (I know that sounds pretty weird, but if you think about it, it kind of does make sense.) He said to only ask God for the pain to be made bearable.
I will go now. I only wanted you and Doug both to know that there are a bunch of us praying for you. Yes, I know that you two are not together now, but that doesn't mean that the hurt is just half of what it was before.
May God Bless you, Doug, Taylor, and your families.
You will all be in my thoughts and prayers as a new year begins.

A Friend
Surry County, NC - Monday, December 29, 2003 1:32 AM CST
Hey Shawn, Taylor and Angel Reese,
I know this entry is a little late, but there was not one day during this whole week of Christmas that you did not cross my mind:) Shawn, I can not image how hard Christmas must be for you, on one hand you want to be so excited for Taylor and on the other you are so sad thinking of Reese, know that I was and still thinking of you during this Holiday season. But I know that your beautiful Angel Reese was one of those beautiful stars looking down on us during Christmas:)

Reese...beautiful Angel please let you mother know that you are near.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 7:48 AM CST
Thinking of you all today. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, December 25, 2003 8:37 PM CST
Although I know how hard this day is, I hope that you found some peace in your memories of your sweet little Reese.
Love,
Steven’s Mom Forever

Barb (www.caringbridge.org/ny/stevens) <bspittle@stny.rr.com>
Binghamton, NY - Thursday, December 25, 2003 4:56 PM CST
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!
Lavonne
Mount Airy, USA - Thursday, December 25, 2003 12:41 AM CST
Merry Christmas Reesiecup, Thanks for sending the ladybug into Grandma Cil's den to share Christmas Eve breakfast with us! What a special, sweet surprise. We felt your presence all day and love and miss you and know you were watching from heaven. Love from Nana and Pawpaw.
Julia HIll <nannajulia@aol.com>
- Thursday, December 25, 2003 7:52 AM CST
May God comfort you and give you peace this holiday season.

Much love...

Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 10:18 PM CST
Merry Christmas Shawn and Taylor! We wish you much love, peace and happiness. And we hope that 2004 is a better year for you both.

Much love,

Liz, Raj, Simi, and Asher
Durham, NC - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 7:19 PM CST
I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas!
Cathy Peters <jacon@shaw.ca www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 4:14 PM CST
To^^^Angel Reese's^^ loving and devoted family,
May this Christmas season be a special reminder of how much you are loved. Sending lots of hugs your way....
Love & prayers,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 3:31 PM CST
I'm still here thinking and praying for you. I miss talking to you (journal entries and eMail). I know it must be a hard holiday. Hang in there...I'm on the other end encouraging you! Merry Christmas with lots of love - kle
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 3:00 PM CST

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 1:54 PM CST
Praying for you and your family!
Missy Morgan <missy@rollinghillsgin.com>
New London, NC USA - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 7:45 AM CST
As someone who has received so much support from you over the last few months I wish with all my heart I could say something so profound that it would give you some comfort. I know I will never be able to do that. I just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and your family and wish you a peaceful Chistmas and New Year.

Love
Tina,Padraic,Amy and Sophie

Tina <tina@melroseroad.co.uk>
London , UK - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 4:20 PM CST
Hey Shawn...I wanted to wish you and Taylor a very Merry Christmas filled with happy memories - old and new - since I won't be checking in for a few days. I hope 2004 brings you good health, more happiness and peacefulness and continued friendships. Take care and all my love and best to you...
Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 1:00 PM CST
"Fear Not," said the angel, "For I bring you tidings of great joy. For unto you is born this day in Bethlehem - a Saviour who is Christ the Lord."

"And this shall be a sign unto you. You shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger."


MERRY CHRISTMAS!

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <ehilliard@verizon.net>
www.forcody.org, - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 1:11 AM CST
Hi from another brokenhearted mama having a difficult time this Christmas season, feeling like a failure for being angry during a time when you're supposed to be feeling joyous. I'm 3 years out from watching my baby slip away and I can tell you although it doesn't get any easier, you do learn to live with the pain and it does get to a constant ache instead of a breath stopping gut wrenching stab to the heart. I can also tell you that having another baby will fill your empty arms but it won't fill that hole in your heart, no one will ever take the place of that precious one you lost. Wishing you peace this Christmas, and peace to all of us mothers who only want one thing for Christmas, the one thing none of can have.

http://www.caringbridge.com/wa/arielmarinkovich/

holly
- Monday, December 22, 2003 6:42 PM CST
Hello, sorry I have not signed in a while, ever since Tom died I have not visited other sites. Anyway, while I do not have kids, Tom was like my little brother and I can only imagine how hard this must be for you, especially with the holidays coming, as I am having a hard time as well. There are no other words for it other then IT IS NOT FAIR. No mother should have to go through this, no mother should have to bury their child...it makes me so angry. I think about you guys a lot and I hope the holidays are not to horrible. I am sure Reese will be with you on this day as with everyday. Merry Christmas Shawn
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
carrboro, nc usa - Monday, December 22, 2003 5:30 PM CST
Hi Shawn! So glad to hear that Aunt Toni's surgery went ok. I've been thinking about her today. We hope in-vitro goes smoothly and she'll soon have her own little one that I'm sure sweet Reese will have a hand in picking out!
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Friday, December 19, 2003 7:07 PM CST
Hey Shawn. So glad to hear Toni is doing well medically. I'm sure God has a plan for her about motherhood, and I'm sure Reese is in on it!

I've been checking in to see your next journal, so I was glad to hear from you finally. I will be thinking of you all through next week, and hope God gives you strength and peace through the holidays.

I love you Shawn...take care of yourself and tell Taylor hello from us. kle

Karen, Mark, Lindsey (MPS-IIIa) and Hannah Efird <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Friday, December 19, 2003 3:32 PM CST
To "Julia Hill, ^^Angel Reese's^^ loving Nana,
Oh, thank you so much for knowing that we are "friends out there in cyber space loving you and hurting for you and wondering what in the world we can do to make it better." Thank you so much for knowing that we just might know "how you feel as we too have lost someone that was the light of our lives and we too have felt that unbearable sadness and pain, the indescribable weight of sorrow."

As visitors and readers of ^^Angel Reese's^^, and ^^Angel Noah's^^ sites, we are moved, humbled and very saddened by all the pain these sweet babies endured, and we are very sympathetic to their parents, and all of their family members, that hurt beyond measure.
When I first read ^^Angel Noah's^^ mom's posting, I too was taken aback at her anger towards those that offered sympathy in certain ways. Not from not being able to understand her grief, and certainly not from a position of 'judging' her words of grief, but shocked to think that perhaps the best way to be sure of not saying the "wrong" thing, to her, and other grieving parents like her, and was to just not speak of their loss.
Now, after having read yours and ^^Angel Noah's^^ mom's thoughts on this very important, and obviously very emotional subject, I feel a little less afraid of saying the "wrong" thing. I think I will try not to be "afraid of you", so I will speak your lost child's name, with tender sympathy and respect, .....and I will also be sure to pack "my rubber suit". Thank you again for your kind, charitable, and reassuring words.
Sending all of ^^Angel Reese's^^ and ^^Angel Noah's^^ families prayers of comfort in your sorrow,

Patricia
- Friday, December 19, 2003 12:10 AM CST
Hi Shawn,

Thank you for having enough courage to be honest. I am angry, too. It's not fair. It's not right. Our hearts will always be broken, and our lives will never be the same. "Why" will never be answered until we are in heaven with our babies. Until then, we just have to suffer down here with our broken hearts of despair. I love you, girl. Love, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, ^^Angel Douglas^^ and Cam <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Friday, December 19, 2003 8:39 AM CST
You have been lifted in prayer tonight, as I do each night for the caringbridge families. Please know I care. Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
- Friday, December 19, 2003 1:20 AM CST
Hi all, I would like to say that for me it is OK when someone says they are so sorry for our loss or remember something sweet about Reese and talk about him. I do personally hate when someone says "Well, he is better off than we are". I think people generally think that is a comforting sentiment BUT if they REALLY think this is so true why don't we all just pack it in and start our trip today? Of course I know Reese is in Heaven and is well and happy now, but that does not mean I don't wish everyday that he was still here. I would not want him here and suffering, but here and healthy, YES! So, to everyone who wonders what to say? Unfortunatly all the parents, grandparents and siblings, aunt and uncles, all hurt in different ways. I think it is still better to say something instead of being silent (that does make us think you are afraid of us) but just think before you speak. And it is certainly true that many of you, so sadly, do know how we feel as you have lost someone that was the light of your life and you have felt that unbearable sadness and pain, the indescribable weight of sorrow. So, for me it is OK to say, "I know that you are missing him so much, because I still miss (fill in the blank) everyday, and that may never get easier, but, I am here for you to talk to, cry with, or yell at. Whatever you need." Hope this helps anyone who wonders what to say. Again, tho, this is me and it may not be what other people need. Guess it all comes down to each individual. But, again, don't avoid the subject of the person who has passed away, we do need to talk, laugh, cry, yell, question, etc. and our friends are the ones who we need to do it with. Friends that we have met and the friends that are out there in cyber space loving us and hurting for us and wondering what in the world they can do to make it better. Nothing you say will ever change Reese's outcome but knowing that so many people care about HOW we feel is a beautiful thing. And knowing about Reese's disease and journey will someday help another child and another family. I do get a small comfort from knowing that. Thanks for your prayers and concerns. Love to all and Merry Christmas, Nana Julia
Julia Hill <nannajulia@aol.com>
- Thursday, December 18, 2003 11:38 AM CST
As another grieving mother, I understand your every word. You are entitled to your feelings of anger. They must be normal as that is what I feel too. I also have been angry at God for taking my sweet little boy, but have tried hard to keep my belief in God alive (although I do admit it is not always easy). Know that you are not alone in your pain. You and your family (including your sweet little Reese) will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Steven’s Mom Forever

Barb (www.caringbridge.org/ny/stevens) <bspittle@stny.rr.com>
Binghamton, NY - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 9:20 PM CST
I am a woman who wasn't fortunate to have children and I agree wholeheartedly with your thoughts on the subject. I wouldn't even pretend to think the two are the same and I firmly believe someone like me can't even begin to imagine your level of pain. I also agree that you are definetely entitled to feel angry and frustrated. I know when I learn of children who have been abused or killed by their parents I become furious at the injustice of it all. When everyone around me was pregnant (including my sister and my cousin) and I was visiting the specialist constantly it was hard not to feel envious at times although I was happy for them. It seems so simplistic to say "well, life just isn't fair." but what happened to Reese, and too many other children on this site, goes way beyond "not fair." Whew, I vented, didn't I? Please know that you and Reese are in my prayers, and I applaud your ability to express your feelings. Take care, and God Bless You.
ann <akeran@isbe.net>
springfield, il - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 3:46 PM CST
Hi Shawn, I just came by to say that I'm thinking of you. I don't know of any words that will ease your pain, but please know that there are people out here (even people like me who you don't know) that care about you and are here to listen and help you in whatever way we can.
Liz
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 9:33 PM CST
Shawn-
I wish I had the "right" thing to say to you, but sadly I don't. No one does. I can only be a friend and listen to you as you scream out the injustices of losing your precious Reesie Cup. You can scream as loud and as often as you want and I will be hear to listen. You can cry and cry and I will be here with a box of tissues. I love you, and I pray that Reese comes to you in your dreams and offers you comfort. Thank you for coming to visit us last week. I know it is difficult for you to go to Durham, but I was so glad to see you. Please call me if you need anything and let Toni know that she will be in my thoughts and prayers during her surgery.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 8:32 PM CST
This is truly an honest question, NOT a statement or a judgment, for ^Angel Noah's^ mom, Debbie; Please, please tell me what is the proper comforting thing for someone to say to heartbroken parents. Debbie, I just read your posting here on ^Angel Reese's^ site; You are angry with people because they have said to you; "focus on the 'good' times, to continue to live life because that is what Noah would want", or that your child was "brave, strong and special". I am truly hoping you can guide me, and others like me, that would like to say something comforting to you, because we ARE sorry for your pain. As I read your posting I think there just must not be anything you could accept as an intended warm gesture to just say I'm sorry your precious baby is no longer with you. As I have not lost a child, can I not, should I not, express my sympathy? (I wish you could understand that I, as a plain person, mother or not, having lost a child or not, am capable of understanding the pain parents must be going through after their child is taken by this horrible beast. Why can I not say to you that I'm sorry, and try to offer some words of comfort?) I will ask again, should I truly not try??? Should I just pretend that I don't know your child has passed away so I don't say the "wrong" thing??? ...But just when I think that maybe I shouldn't say anything, that no words I can say will be "right", then I remember the countless times that I have read journals of heartbroken parents that say they feel "invisible", that people don't talk to them about their lost child or acknowledge that they are still grieving and will grieve forever. Sooo, I am truly at a loss. Please, please tell me what is the "right" thing to say. I truly want to know, and I trust that as a heartbroken mom, in your quicksand of grief, you would be the one to help me, and others like me, to know how to offer you comfort and condolences. What words of comfort will you accept? What words of comfort will not make you think; "How dare I begin to think I know what you're going through?" But,,, Please, may I say; Please don't be mad at me, or any of those other "well intentioned people" that may clumsily try to offer you words of sympathy and support, we are truly just trying to connect with you, on a compassionate level, to say we're sorry, sorry that you're baby suffered so much on this earth only to be taken Home way too early. Many of us can, and do, understand what it is like to lose someone we love, whether it is due to an illness, an accident or even old-age. When you lose someone you love, it is very hard. (I know that is an understatement.) I have visited your ^Angel Noah's^ site, and I cried when I read that you're beautiful baby boy had become an Angel resting in Jesus' lap. Please, please help me to know what are the "right" words to say to a grieving parent, because if I cannot find a way to understand, then I will not feel I can ever again visit yours, or other sites, of lost children because the LAST thing I ever want to do is cause you even one more ounce of pain.

Someone who is very afraid of saying the "wrong" thing
- Monday, December 15, 2003 2:15 AM CST
I am so sorry for the pain that surrounds you. I'm praying for you today and always.
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Saturday, December 13, 2003 3:11 PM CST
Shawn, I wish so much that I could only say "I don't know what you are feeling...", but I do!!! Everyday, I feel it too, and I too am tired of people telling me that I need to cheer up, focus on the 'good' times, to continue to live life because that is what Noah would want for me...how do they know? Most all of them saying this never even laid eyes upon my son in person or knew him...and most all of them still have their children alive and well, never having gone through this torture. Others tell me that I should be proud of how strong & brave he was and how special he is. Brave? He had no choice, I made the decision for him to undergo the lethal doses of chemo and transplant him. Strong? Yes, but I sat daily and nightly at his side watching him suffer mercilessly from numerous complications and procedures. Special? I don't need to be reminded of how special he was, he was my son...any mother who loves their child would think that their own child was special...I am no different and don't need to be told that. My son, too, took his last breaths and died in my arms...an image of his gasping that I will never forget...it was not peaceful and serene. It was horrifying to watch the "life" leave his body, left only holding a cold, pale corpse. I have no words of hope or comfort to share, for I too live under this black cloud, but I wanted you to know that you are not alone...and I am so very, very sorry that you are having to feel what I am feeling. THank you so much for the package...we are sending something your way soon. Please take care as best you can, and know that you are not alone. Thank you for sharing your true feelings...for I know that I am not alone either.
Peace and Aloha,
Debbie (Angel Noah's heartbroken mommy)

Prichard <noahprichard@yahoo.com>
Honolulu, HI USA - Saturday, December 13, 2003 12:31 AM CST
Dearest Family

I gently wrap warm thoughts of you
in my christmas prayers
For Heaven to smile on you
For Angels to watch over you
and the love of Jesus to fill your heart

God Bless You And Your Family This Holiday


Chris Ullrich - Grand daughter dx with AML M5 <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma >
Hemingford, Ne USA - Saturday, December 13, 2003 10:40 AM CST
Shawn...

I have no words...only love...only prayers...only hope...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <ehilliard@verizon.net>
www.forcody.org, - Saturday, December 13, 2003 4:16 AM CST
Thinking of you... you are in my heart.

Love,
Beth Anne

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <bigg6550@bellsouth.net>
Rogersville, TN - Friday, December 12, 2003 9:02 AM CST
SHAWN,
IN THE WORDS OF JIM VALVANO, "DON'T GIVE UP, DON'T EVER GIVE UP." I AM SURE TO PARENTS THAT HAVE CHILDREN WHO HAVE OR ARE GOING THRU THE SAME JOURNEY AS REESE DID, THAT YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION AND A GREAT HELP. THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT WE KNOW THAT TWO THINGS WILL HAPPEN: (1) THERE WILL BE A TIME WHEN A CHILD WILL NOT HAVE ONE OF THESE DREADED DISEASES. (2) ONE DAY WE WILL ALL BE IN HEAVEN WITH THE ONES WE LOVE FOREVERMORE. THE HARD THING IS WE DON'T KNOW WHEN THESE THINGS WILL HAPPEN, BUT JUST KEEP TRYING DAY BY DAY AND WITH GOD'S HELP. WE WILL KEEP ALL OF YOU IN OUR PRAYERS


JEFF AND STEPHANIE BECK <JBECK@KDHOSIERY.COM>
MT AIRY, NC - Thursday, December 11, 2003 3:37 PM CST
Shawn, you are right, you will never get over losing your son and I do not believe that God willing, if you ever have another child you will replace the one you lost. Your son will always be with you, if not physically then in your heart, your memories and the pictures you do have of him. I know that it is not nearly enough but I hope you can take comfort in knowing you will be with him one day. I do not have a child so can't pretend to know how hard this is for you but I hope that when I do have a child that I can be as devoted to my child as I see you are just by reading your journals. I will pray for you through this haoliday season
.
- Thursday, December 11, 2003 2:47 PM CST
Just keep breathing and praying. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this season.
Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, December 11, 2003 1:02 PM CST
You are entitled to everything you wrote about. We aren't anti-Christians because we're angry or asking why. That's what helps us to be Christians and bring us closer to God. I can't imagine how hard everyday is for you, and all other parents who have lost a child to sickness or unexpected circumstances. No one can prepare for that day. All I can offer is to hold close to your values of God, and hold Taylor close. Help him to see that he is still your baby and he makes you happy. I do pray y'all have a Merry Christmas together! I love you Shawn...hang in there.
Karen, Lindsey's Mom <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC usa - Thursday, December 11, 2003 11:56 AM CST
Hi Shawn, Just wanted you to know I love the poem. I think of reesecup all the time. Hope you are having a good day. I will continue to pray for you all.
Lavonne <lavonne.penn@wachovia.com>
mount airy, - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 1:24 PM CST
Thinking of you and your family and sweet "Angel boy" - may the holiday season bring you love, peace and hope.
Eileen www.caringbridge.org/il/ej - ALL visitors are welcome!
- Tuesday, December 9, 2003 0:26 AM CST
Thinking of you all as we miss your sweet boy on his nine month anniversary in heaven. Hope Taylor wasn't too worn out after yesterday, Jake slept until almost 9! I sure wish I had their energy. God bless!
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, December 8, 2003 8:39 AM CST
Thinking of you as you miss your sweet boy.
Jackson's mom, Michelle <eaglet@cltcomm.net>
- Saturday, December 6, 2003 12:05 AM CST
We can't wait to see Aunt Shawn on Sunday! We won't be into Durham until 4:00 or 4:30pm, but let us know when you want to see us. E-mail me if you get a chance, or call. Jordan told me to tell you that his cheeks aren't as chubby as before, but you can still pinch them.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Friday, December 5, 2003 11:36 PM CST
I am thinking of you today.
Love,
Erika

Erika Summers <erikadsummers@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC - Friday, December 5, 2003 2:17 PM CST
the pictures of reese on his transplant day are beautiful. we are thinking of all of you on this day


jeff and stephanie beck <jbeck@kdhosiery.com>
mt. airy, nc surry - Friday, December 5, 2003 1:57 PM CST
Shawn,
As you face this day full of memories, I will be thinking of you and Taylor. I just looked at the transplant day pictures, and was again struck by how beautiful ^^REESE^^ is. You are in my thoughts and prayers today.

Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Friday, December 5, 2003 7:42 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
Thinking of you on this day. {{{{{BIG HUG}}}}}

Liz
Durham, NC USA - Friday, December 5, 2003 7:37 AM CST
Shawn, the transplant pictures of Reese are precious. Thank you for sharing...I love the one with his tongue rolled, of course, I love them all! I'm sure today will be harder than most for you. Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers. I just know that Reese will love his ladybug balloon. I can't see anything ladybug anymore without thinking about your sweet boy. See you tomorrow night. God bless
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, December 5, 2003 7:20 AM CST
Hey Shawn
My heart just melted today when I saw the pictures of Reese on transplant day - what a babydoll. I wish I had gotten to hold him and play. You are in my thoughts and daily prayers - I don't go a single day without checking up on you. I will continue to remember you all in my prayers.

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
- Thursday, December 4, 2003 3:35 PM CST
Hello Shawn...so good to see an update from you!! You are never far from my thoughts and I visit the site every day to see if you have updated and how you are doing!! I know that the holiday season will be especially hard for you, but it sounds as if you are doing a lot of positive things..Reese would be so proud of you!!! He is up there in Heaven, looking down and saying to all his little friends, "See that lady? She's my mommy and she is so special!!!" I still keep you on my daily prayer list!!
Wishing you a holiday season filled with peace and love.


Sharon Burchette / Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 7:07 AM CST
Shawn, I just wanted to let you know that you have been on my mind alot lately. I know this month is going to be a very difficult time...I wish I were near you so I could visit and we could talk. Please know that I am here if you need to talk or yell or anything. Give little Taylor my love. Love you guys!

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne

Beth Anne Biggs <bigg6550@bellsouth.net>
Rogersville, TN - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 8:22 PM CST
Shawn,
Remembering special little Reese and thinking of you during these difficult times. Please know that I think of you often and keep you in my prayers.
Love,
Kelly

Kelly Chelf <kelly_chelf@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 6:01 PM CST
Hey Shawn ~
I am so glad that you continue to update the journal - I have grown so used to coming to this website and hoping that you have updated it. I will continue to pray for you and Taylor during this difficult time of year that you are facing. You are in my thoughts and prayers all the time.

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC USA - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 10:31 AM CST
Shawn,
I have been thinking of you and your family and your sweet little Angel Reese. May you find comfort in the Lord during these very difficult times.
Keeping you in prayer,

Kathy Haws
1000 Oaks, CA - Saturday, November 29, 2003 2:24 AM CST
SHAWN, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU TODAY AND EVERYDAY. HOPE YOU AND TAYLOR HAVE A WONDERFUL THANKSGIVING.
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Thursday, November 27, 2003 1:08 PM CST
My prayers are with you during this very difficult time of year. I wish I knew how you could cope..I can only imagine what you're going through right now. All I can offer is prayers that God will direct you in the way. God bless you.
http://lightingchildrenslives.org

Melanie Davila- Lighting Children's Lives <positivestories@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 12:27 AM CST
Thinking of you all today on Thanksgiving. I hope Andy & Toni had a safe trip down. One of my Thanksgiving prayers today will be how thankful I am that you and sweet Reese have blessed our lives. I'll talk to you next week. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, November 27, 2003 7:19 AM CST
Shawn, when I talked to you earlier, I hadn't read Max's update. I am so sorry, I know this week wouldn't have been easy for you and the losses of Tommy and Max have just made it that much harder. You and your family continue to be in our prayers. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 9:40 PM CST
Shawn-
I was just thinking of you. I know the past few days have been really rough on you with the loss of Tommy & Max. I know the upcoming months will be very difficult too. Please know that I am always here for you. I love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 4:27 PM CST
I received your website from Tracy (Katia Solomon's Mom). You are so lucky to have such a great son. May God bless him and your family. Your outlook on life (with God) is one that all of us should hold close to our hearts. You are an inspiration for all that have read the story of Reese's life... Thank you....

Some people are put on this life to find the true meaning of life. I feel God takes you when you have accomplished what you were put here for. Guess Reese figured his perfect life out earlier than the rest of us... I will pray for your family and little Reese...

P.S. I really love his name...

In Christ's perfect love,

Reese <stephen.ferguson@macdill.af.mil>
Tampa, FL US of A - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 11:32 AM CST
I just wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. I don't have any great suggestions but I remember hearing someone say "grief is just the other side of love". We grieve the most for those we love the most. Losing a child is the most painful grief of all. It is okay to feel the way you do (I feel the same way) because you love Reese so much it hurts. Just hang on to your faith. I believe Reese is with you and watching over you and when the time is right, you will see him again someday. A family reunion in heaven - what a glorious day that will be. I know I can hardly wait. Please know that we are thinking of you and your precious little boy angel. God Bless!
Laura, Ken, Nathan, & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 10:53 AM CST
Hey Shawn. I've read your journal entry several times since last week. Fortunately, I was thinking of you before you asked for suggestions. I have something very special to send you. I wanted you to have something special this holiday for Reese. I know you will love it and hope it eases your pain through the holiday season and on into March. I can't imagine what you go through each day and each milestone that should have been reached. God bless you on those days!!! Send me your address. I miss you and love y'all.
Karen <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 9:22 AM CST
SHAWN,
I COULD NOT THINK OF ANY GOOD SUGGESTIONS. I CAME ACROSS THIS ON ANGEL JILLIAN'S PAGE. I HOPE IT HELPS. HERE IT IS:

Journal

Monday, November 24, 2003 12:24 AM CST

Happy Thanksgiving (a little early) Everyone!

We know the holidays are going to be rough this year without Jillian. Ken and I have had many discussions on how we want to grow from this experience. We know as wonderful as our old life was with Jillian, we can’t go back to it. We so badly wish we could but we can’t. We also know that we can’t stay where we are because remaining stagnant in grief would be detrimental. So we embark on our new life together. Jillian may not be with us physically but she is very much a part of our lives spiritually. So as Ken, Nathan, and I begin our new life together, the three musketeers with a guardian angel, we want to take the time to express how thankful we are for everything that we have.

Thank you God for

-our wonderful family and friends who have always been there for us. We would not have been able to endure this difficult journey without their love and support.

-allowing us to be the parents of such an amazing little girl. She taught us more about love and life than we thought possible.

-bringing Nathan into our lives. He came to be with us at just the right time. Even during our saddest days, he brings us happiness and joy.

-our loving and caring church family that has always reached out to us. We never even had to ask.

-the doctors and nurses at Duke, and especially here in Florida, for taking such good care of our little girl.

-the transplant families we met along the way. We met so many wonderful people and we are forever bonded because of our similar journeys together.

-the brave children we met on our journey. Some are walking miracles that give us all hope. Others were called home to you, to do bigger and better things.

-the complete strangers who followed our story, left comforting words, and sent thoughtful gifts. It showed us how the world could be a compassionate and caring place.

-for taking our little girl into your arms and keeping her safe, happy, and cancer free.

-for everyone who has prayed for us and continues to pray for us.

-for promising us eternal life so we can all be together again someday.


To our little Jillibear, remember how you used to walk outside on a nice day and say “Thank you God for this beautiful day”. We try to remember to do that too because you taught us so many wonderful things! We love you and miss you Sweetie.


JEFF BECK <JBECK@KDHOSIERY.COM>
MT AIRY , NC - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 1:31 PM CST
Shawn-
We just wanted to stop by to check on you. We would love to see you on the 7th. I'm not sure what time we will be flying in (probably early afternoon), but when I find out for sure I will let you know.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, November 24, 2003 10:13 PM CST
Shawn:

I read your most recent update and as always it touched me in a very special way.

You asked about how to handle sweet Reese's one-year anniversary. I wish I could tell you that it's going to be an easy day. For us, remembering Noelle and Nicholas's one year anniversary was hard. There were many times during the day that I found myself reliving the exact moments that they both took their last breaths. I found myself wondering what I could have done differently, and I also found myself beating myself about things not working out the way that WE wanted them to.

Then it hit me... HOW could we have known what to do differently? We certainly had never had to hand any of our children back over to God before. We had never had a child with an inoperable brain stem tumor or a liver disease. What were we supposed to do differently?

Nicholas's one-year anniversary was very tough for us. So for Noelle's we tried things a little differently. Van and I CHOSE to remember the happy times. For Noelle, we went to one of her favorite places then baked a cake and decorated it how she would have. We knew that her one-year anniversary was not only a sad day for us, but a happy one in heaven... this was her heavenly birthday. So, we decided to celebrate. Now don't get me wrong, the day was hard... but we made a deliberate attempt to celebrate and remember the happy times. We talked about Noelle and read her favorite books. We also made ourselves color pretty pictures. Then, of course, we went to the cemetery and left balloons that morning... then released them that evening attached with a special note we each had written.

Shawn, I wish I could take your pain away. The truth is that no one can ever take our pain away. The Lord is the ONLY One who can help us through this journey we all call grief. I really think that God allows us to hurt in some way forever so we will never forget how much our children really meant to us and to remember our love for them. I also think that those of us who have lost a child have such a greater understanding of the pain that our Creator must have felt when His only Begotten Son knowingly died for US.

Van and I realize that we can choose to live once again or we can choose to "stay put" in our grief. There is no doubt that if we choose to "stay put", society would accept that because we are the ones who lost our precious little ones. But we try to remind ourselves that there is no way that Noelle and Nicholas would want us to be unhappy forever. Of course, there will always be a very special part of us that will always hurt when we remember what they went through, but I really believe that God wants us to go on. He has another purpose in our lives for us. Though we may not know exactly what that purpose is right now, there is no doubt that He will let us know one day.

Remembering all of the wonderful days that you had with your little Reesie Cup will bring back a lot of happy memories. My advice: Make sure you brace yourself and be prepared for Satan's attacks... because he will try to bring you down. Try to show him how much stronger than him you are. With the Lord and Reese on your side whatever you decide to do will be the right thing.

I think of all of you often and still follow your journey. Take care of yourself Shawn, you deserve nothing but the best.

P.S. For the holidays we give gifts to less privileged children who are the exact age that Noelle and Nicholas were when they left us. Believe it or not, I have found this to be very helpful. I just go to the store and indulge on what I know Noelle and Nicholas loved so much... then I share their love... another way to keep their memory alive!

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Him,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Saturday, November 22, 2003 5:26 PM CST
Shawn, I only have very simple advise as to how you make it through the coming holidays and anniversaries, hold on to Jesus with all your might, really sell out to him, he is the only way to make it, stay in the Word and he will comfort you. I know it sounds so lame but there is no other comfort. I pray that your pain grows more dim and that life begins again for you. My heart breaks that there is nothing I can do for you. Please know we are praying for you. God Bless you, Love The Ramsey's
Nancy and Sam (caringingbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramey@msn.com>
Erie, co - Friday, November 21, 2003 3:54 PM CST
Hey Shawn and Taylor,
I hope that you both are doing well, for some reason you have been on my mind all moring so I wanted to let you know I was thinking of you. Maybe it is because when I look outside at work, I have to look over Jaxson's and Reese's pictures to see and that only adds beauty to what I see! I know that the Holiday season coming up is going to be tough on you guys ....know that I care about you so much and will be here if you need to talk.

Angel Reese.....thinking of your sweet smile on this beautiful day!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, November 20, 2003 9:20 AM CST
Hi Shawn,

I could not believe what I found on my doorstep today. Your gift touched me so deeply (as you can imagine). After I cried my eyes out, I hung the ornament on my fireplace mantel.

I wish so much that I could watch Douglas open Christmas presents this year, but I suppose the best gift of all is that he is with Jesus. My heart aches and aches for our loss of our precious boys. I know Reesie Cup and Douglas are up in heaven, free of MPS and transplant, but we're down here on earth suffering with broken hearts. Who knows why? I guess we won't find out until we get there. Until then, it is the cherished friendships like ours that will get us through.

I love you. Thank you for thinking of us. Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas, Cam and Mama Jane <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 8:37 PM CST

Hi Shawn,
I have never signed your Guestbook but I have come back to Reeses' website/journal often in the few months I have read Caringbridge pages. I wanted to let you know that I have you and yours in my prayers as the difficult holidays approaches. I know that it is not much consolation but I know that Reese will be there with you in spirit. God Bless all of you and God is blessing Reese.

Love,
Gloria

Gloria <SimplicityMD@comcast.net>
Owings Mills, MD USA - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 8:01 AM CST

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, November 14, 2003 7:39 PM CST
Shawn - I haven't checked in for awhile, but it sounds like you're doing pretty well. Congrats on raising so much money for the MPS society. I had never heard of MPS before I met you and all of the other MPS families at Duke. You're doing a great job to raise awareness. I think about you often and hope you continue to do well.
Jill Schwab <jillschwab99@hotmail.com www.caringbridge.com/ca/alexschwab>
Manhattab Beach, CA USA - Thursday, November 13, 2003 9:04 PM CST
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Kim Barker <kim.barker@wachovia.com>
- Wednesday, November 12, 2003 3:40 PM CST
I am sorry i haven't kept in touch alot has been going on i will try to call you this week. love christy
christy <christy@tech-plus.com>
- Wednesday, November 12, 2003 11:30 AM CST
Hello my sweet friend, Shawn~

Thank you so much for calling me today. It was so good to talk to you. I feel your pain, and wish so badly that I had some helpful words. I know I didn't. No one does. The only thing that would ever help take our pain away is to have our children back. Today is a hard day for you. Tomorrow will be a hard day for me. The thing I've learned is that EVERYday is a hard day - some blessed with tiny moments of happiness - but mostly just hard.

I love you and miss you!

XXOO, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas, Cam and Mama Jane <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Monday, November 10, 2003 9:01 PM CST
It's hard to believe that it is already the eight month anniversary of sweet Reese going to heaven. In some ways, it seems like yesterday that I learned of your site from Morgan's but so much has happened, getting to meet you and helping with the Run for Reese, it seems like a long time ago. With each day, month that passes, we are that much closer to seeing your sweet baby boy in heaven. Thinking of you all today. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, November 10, 2003 8:29 AM CST
Hey Shawn,
I just wanted to say hello and to let you know that I think of you and Reese Cup often. I read every one of your updates because you will be forever in my heart. I am so sorry I could not attend the Run for Reese, I had to work that weekend, but know that I prayed for the rain to stay away!! I'm sure Taylor is keeping you busy! Take care and I hope to see you in the future. Please tell Toni, Nana, Andy and Grandpa I said hello and I miss you all!
Love You!

Bethany Kistler
Elon, NC USA - Sunday, November 9, 2003 3:00 AM CST
Shawn,
I am getting married next year in chapel hill and am looking for a photographer--do you have any examples of your work? do you travel for it? etc, etc. My mom is organizing all of it and she has looked into a few--but after reading your entry i thought you might be one more we can look at. Let me know--my email address is below.

Victoria DeVeaugh-Geiss <victo73@hotmail.com>
Leigh, Lancashire UK - Friday, November 7, 2003 9:59 AM CST
God bless and give strength to you and your family. My son is Ryan Mask, he's 13 and has Sanfilippo Syndrome.
Dorothy Mask <rjmom@comcast.net>
Sellersville, PA Bucks - Thursday, November 6, 2003 10:11 AM CST
HELLO SHAWN, I HAVE BEEN READING YOUR JOURNALS OFTEN AND I THINK ABOUT YOU AND TAYLOR A LOT. I MISS NOT HAVING YOU LIVE OUT THE ROAD FROM ME. HOPEFULLY I WILL GET TO SEE YOU AGAIN. I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO CATCH UP ON SOME OF THE OTHER DUKE KIDS BECAUSE THE CHUBBYCHICA SITE IS GONE AND WE DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACCESS IT NOW. I AM GLAD I STILL HAD YOUR CARINGBRIDGE ADDRESS TO LOOK YOU UP. DO YOU KNOW WHY CHUBBYCHICA IS GONE? WELL I HOPE YOU AND TAYLOR ARE LOVING YOUR NEW HOME...BUT I STILL MISS YOU HERE IN MT. AIRY. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. LOVE YOU BUNCHES!
KAYE JOYCE <gregjoyce@rjia.net>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Thursday, November 6, 2003 8:14 AM CST
Hi Shawn,
Since your last update Mighty Max has made some wonderful improvements...isn't it awesome?!!!

Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, November 5, 2003 9:34 PM CST
Shawn&Taylor;
I wish you both the best of everything I hope and pray you and Doug will get back together for little Taylor .I lost a baby and i know how bad you hurt .But i sure do belive in God .You have had enough .Love to you both .

Ruby <Ruby Mae Hodges@yahoo.com>
MtAiry, Nc Surry - Sunday, November 2, 2003 7:28 PM CST
SHAWN AND TAYLOR, HAPPY HALLOWEEN FROM VIRGINIA. KIDS ARE GETTING RESSE CUPS HERE TOO. I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY AND YOU ARE A VERY STRONG LADY. YOU DID A GREAT RUN FOR RESSE HE WOULD VERY PROUD OF YOU JUST LIKE ALL OF US ARE. LET YOUR FEELINGS GO WE WILL LISTEN ALWAYS. LOVE YOU IN CHRIST GIVE TAYLOR A BIG HUG FOR ME
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Friday, October 31, 2003 9:43 AM CST

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, October 31, 2003 6:33 AM CST
Oh, I forgot to tell you . . . guess what kids are getting for Halloween at my house? REESIE CUPS!

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, October 28, 2003 6:47 PM CST
Let it out Shawn. There is no reason for you to appologize for the way you feel. We want to hear the truth. If people can't handle it, then they don't have to read the journal. I think it is great that you are able to open up and tell us how you really feel. We love and miss you so much. We will be back in Durham on Dec. 7th and be there until the 10th or 11th. Hopefully, we will be able to get together.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 6:44 PM CST
We can't hide our feelings, my dear friend. It's impossible. Your entry is so truthful and fair. My heart aches and aches for you, and me, and all the other ones who are suffering. I love you and miss you.
Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas and Cam <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Monday, October 27, 2003 10:05 AM CST
Please dont apologize for telling us all your feelings...I would worry if you kept them all botteled up inside. The way that you feel is perfectly normal and it is ok to feel that way.And doesnt it feel so much better to get those feelings out and expressed?? I want for you to know that you are always on my mind. I think of how adorable Reese was and then imagine how handsome he is in Heaven...thats a great thought isnt it?? You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless you.
Leah Wilson
NC - Sunday, October 26, 2003 8:52 PM CST
I'm sure you feel badly about "down" entries but it's far more important to share what you're REALLY feeling without hiding it so that people can pray effectively for you. So thank you for being sincere. And I will definitely continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, October 26, 2003 3:40 PM CST
There She Goes Again

Oh, there she goes again!
Mom is just staring
at my photograph.
While I wish she could
hear my voice;
She wishes she could
hear me laugh.
Her heart goes to a place
too many other
mothers have been.
Somewhere a heart repairs.
Oh, there she goes again.

Another night up until dawn.
She watches the sun rise;
While she longs to feel my touch,
I long for her to know who
dries her teary eyes.
I've heard my Mom say
her world stands still.
But really it's in a spin.
Oh, I know how she feels.
But, there she goes again.

Oh there she goes again.
My Mom holds my photograph.
While she longs to hear my voice ...
I long to hear her laugh.
And though her heart is broken,
her smile is like back when.
My Mom appears to Mothers
as a fighter like no other.
Oh there's nothing like her grin.
There's no one like you, Mom.
Oh, there she goes again.
Oh yes, she holds my photograph
and longs to hear my laughter.
I calm the fear of a heart within ...
And will do so each day hereafter!
Oh but, there she goes again.

~Author~
Kaye Des'Ormeaux
Copyright 2001


Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Sunday, October 26, 2003 1:08 AM CDT
Shawn, you never have to apologize for your writing. Of the MANY qualities I admire about you, I admire your honesty in sharing your innermost thoughts, fears, feelings with everyone that has come to know and love your family through this journal. I hope that it is therapeutic for you to have this outlet for your emotions...and you have every right to feel sad, angry and hurt. I have those feelings too over the loss of Reese and I never had the opportunity to meet him in person. I can't even imagine the severity of those emotions for you, his mother. When I look at my children, I try to put myself in your situation, and hopefully, I say things to comfort you. I don't know if I always succeed but that is my intent. I have been blessed by your story, I have been blessed by Reese and I have been blessed by you. I love you my friend!
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, October 24, 2003 7:57 AM CDT
Shawn,
You keep writing and venting all you want! You need to get all your feelings out and not pent up inside. You have every right to have the feelings you do...never apologize!

Glad to hear Taylor is doing so well.

I ate a reese's cup last night...thought of your special boy :) Hugs to you,

Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Friday, October 24, 2003 5:04 AM CDT
shawn,

hope you never feel like you need to apologize for how you feel. that is all that it is, it is how you honestly feel. we all hope and pray that you have good days, but we all understand that you are human and that some days are not as good as others. like everyone you are entitled to those days. as far as the transplant, we can only make decisions at that time with what we know and how we feel that God is leading us. the thing is we never know how the alternative will turn out. without the transplant, we do not know if God would have let reese stay here on earth as long as he did with the transplant. finally, i know that reese will never physical be there at those special times of the year. but i truly believe that he will be in the arms of Jesus, looking down and watching over you. i hope and pray that at those times when you are missing him just a little more that God will let reese wrap his arms around you and let you feel his spirit there with you. it could be as simple as a whisper in the wind or the sunshine on your face. always remind yourself that each day you are closer to that time that you will be able to embrace your angel in heaven forever.

p.s.---glad to hear that taylor is doing so well




jeff beck <jbeck@kdhosiery.com>
mt. airy, nc - Thursday, October 23, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
You have every right to be angry and every right to write about it! When I look at the pictures of Reese before transplant I see that beautiful smile and then I think of Jaxson and all that he is doing and it makes me very sad for you that you will not see all that with Reese. But your Reese is an inspiration to so many who grew to love him to help find and fight for a cure for these children...and that is a huge gift for such a small boy! To have touched so many lives in such short time! Praying for you ....

Hey Reese cup! Everyone misses you sooo much, I know that you must have been so proud of your Mommy to have everyone remember you in such a great way! Take care of baby Noah:)

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, October 23, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
I've been following your story for awhile now...Don't ever feel like you have to hide your feelings..that is what this is for. I don't have children yet but I cannot even begin to imagine how I would feel. I think the run for Reese was awesome!
Heather Grell <hiyah75@yahoo.com>
Brainerd, - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 10:05 PM CDT
You don't need to apologize for anything. Those are YOUR feelings and you are 110% entitled to them and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.


JoAnn Baker <bakerjo1@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 5:28 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
Sorry I did not get to write until now.. but I have to say that the 1st Run for Reese was a great Success! I appreciate you letting me be apart of something so wonder and so special to my heart! It was a wonderful tribute to a child who touched so many lives. I know that next year the turn out will be bigger and I am already looking forward to it! It was so great to get to talk to Toni and get to know her better, what a wonderful sister you have! Please tell her I wish her all the best....

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, October 20, 2003 12:46 AM CDT
Hey Shawn ~
It was great to finally meet you Saturday at the run. I thought it turned out great! Cole and I had a great time and will definitely be there next year.
I hope you and Taylor are doing well. You are in my thought and prayers

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC - Friday, October 17, 2003 10:09 AM CDT
Hello Shawn. It was so good to talk to you this morning. I told Laney when we hung up that I just talked to Angel Reese's momma, and she said "momma". One day when she understands I'll tell a story about ^^Reese^^. I think about you and sweet little Reese all the time. I am glad that we may have a chance to get together when we come to Durham in November. Take Care and give our love to Taylor.
Love you guys!

caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <bigg6550@bellsouth.net>
Rogersville, TN - Friday, October 17, 2003 8:56 AM CDT
Hi Shawn!!
thinking about you up here in cool Michigan. It appears that your run was very successful and real good get-together. I'm so glad to hear that. Sorry we missed out on this special event. --Looking forward to the pictures. I think of you often as well as that special sister of yours Toni and of course your dear Mom (Nana).
Good for you for keeping busy --I'm sure it's helping you cope. Glad to hear that you got a chance to visit with some other very special ladies --Carrie and Tracy. Miss you very much and of course sweet baby Reese.

Pat Bingham and family <www.caringbridge.org/mi/isaiah>
Swartz Creek, MI - Thursday, October 16, 2003 4:32 PM CDT
Just wanted to say thanks for letting me volunteer for the Run for Reese. I will want to help again next year also. I was amazed at how many turned out to run and walk. I am hoping to walk next year also. I am glad to know the totals are a great start. Yes next will be even better. I think of you everyday even though I don't contact you all the time.
Dee Dee, Teddy, Amber and Kristen Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisvlle, NC - Wednesday, October 15, 2003 1:48 PM CDT
Hey Shawn! Just a quick note to tell you how much we enjoyed attending Run for Reese this past Saturday. What a great location for the event! We loved sharing this day with you, your family and friends. We also enjoyed our visit with you, your parents, and friends Friday night. Hannah had fun with the boys too! The weather was great, my best friend Missy and her kids loved coming, as did Madison and her Mom Paige. Thanks for the extra t-shirt for my mom...she will love it! Y'all did a great job with Run for Reese. You touched my heart AGAIN with your stories and reflections on Reese. Thank you for sharing your feelings. I love you my new friend, and am looking forward to hearing your totals!
Karen Efird, Lindsey's Mom <efirds4MPS@ctc.net>
Albemarle, NC USA - Tuesday, October 14, 2003 7:56 AM CDT
Shawn-
I just wanted to write you and see how the Run for Reese went? I hope you made lots of money! We had a safe flight home and we miss you like crazy.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Sunday, October 12, 2003 2:30 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today on Reese's seven month anniversary in heaven. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger
Lewisville, NC - Friday, October 10, 2003 7:52 AM CDT
Hi Shawn,

We always have a run for our kids, but obviously we can't this year. I told my husband about your run Saturday and he is going to try and get their with Hunter and Ciara. I don't think that I can find anybody to stay with Tommy that early in the morning, otherwise I would be there too.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Thursday, October 9, 2003 10:10 PM CDT
Hey Shawn!
Just saw you on News Channel 12 this morning! Great job. I will be out of town and am so sorry that I will not be able to be there at the Run for Reese. I will think of you all as I do always. Great job this morning and good luck with the run!

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Thursday, October 9, 2003 9:46 AM CDT
I think of you and Reese all the time...I really miss seeing and talking to you!I hope we can get together one day soon!You are forever in my heart!!!!!
christina schoenleb <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
troutman, nc - Wednesday, October 8, 2003 7:41 PM CDT
Hello Shawn!!!
Just checking in on you..sorry I haven't signed in quite sometime, but as you know I have really been under the weather!!! I am on the mend now!! Not a day goes by that I don't think of you!!! I hope you and Taylor are enjoying your new home and Taylor is adjusting well to school. I will be on vacation on the Run For Reese day, but you and everyone will be in my thoughts and prayers!! I love the sand castle story...it make so much sense, but as we know as humans we find it so hard to let things go!! If there were a way to get ^REESE^ and bring him back to you, I would, but we both know that he is better off in Jesus' arms, and playing and running through the streets of heaven. There is one thing that we can take comfort is and that is that we will see him one day and you will be able to be with him forever!!! I pray for you each and every day!! Take care of yourself!!! Give Taylor a big hug!!!
Love ya!!


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC 28683 - Saturday, October 4, 2003 1:01 PM CDT
Thank you for the beautiful story. It really makes one think about life. I still think about you all the time and miss you like crazy.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, October 2, 2003 5:05 PM CDT

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/
- Wednesday, October 1, 2003 11:44 PM CDT
Shawn,
Hey there! How are things going? I want to wish you and all your friends GOOD LUCK. I hope Reese's run turns out to be wonderful. God Bless. Always in my prayers.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Wednesday, October 1, 2003 7:54 AM CDT
Shawn-
It was so good seeing you and as you said in your journal the visit was much needed. We will always be friends and I am a greater person for having you in my life. I love you very much and miss you already. If we are still here, I am coming to the run for Reese. I love you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 28, 2003 10:38 AM CDT
Hi Shawn,
Boy has a lot gone on in your life since I saw you last. Sorry that so many mean entries are in your son's guestbook. I am sorry that I was not in Durham when you were visiting. I would have loved to have seen you. We will be there in late November for Jill's 1 year testing. Maybe we can visit with you. The picture of Reese on the front page is so cute. I hope you, your son, and of course Toni are all doing well. Talk to you soon.
Michelle Fitzpatrick

MICHELLE FITZPATRICK <JILLANDMICHELLE@JUNO.COM>
medina, oh usa - Thursday, September 25, 2003 10:53 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

Tommy and I would love to have you visit. Tommy's having a rough time right now but he will get thru it and be ready for your visit.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Thursday, September 25, 2003 8:30 PM CDT
Good morning to ^Reese's^ loving and devoted Mom,
We have been praying for little Jordan and when I read his journal this morning his Mom wrote about spending time with you and Traci Nicoll. I am so proud of your compasssion and love towards these families when I know you have your own struggles. We continue to pray for your peace and understanding with the loss of your precious child. May God continue to BLESS YOU as you bless others.
Lots of love & extra hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Thursday, September 25, 2003 8:13 AM CDT
Thank you for visiting Max's web page - it means a lot as you know. Sorry for your loss - it must be terrible - take care.
Max's G-Pa J.
Burbank, Il USA - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 3:57 PM CDT
Just stopped by to let you know that you all are not forgotten! GOD BLESS. Missing our ANGELS - sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Monday, September 22, 2003 9:18 PM CDT
Hello

Thank You for your message on Sophie's Guestbook.

Your strengh is an inspiration and helps to keep us strong.

Love
Tina,Padraic,Amy and Sophie

Tina (Sophie's Mum)
- Thursday, September 18, 2003 3:03 AM CDT
It was good to hear that you went and visited Jordan, you did a great job with your expertise of photography. I loved your shirt of Reese cups. Still thinking of you.
Dee Dee Edwards
- Wednesday, September 17, 2003 11:53 AM CDT
Hey! I have not signed in awhile, but still visit your sight. My heart just breaks over again every time I visit. Your pain is a pain I hope I never have to endure. Through Reese's life I have found a new lease on mine. I still stop and remember Reese and then remember how completely blessed I am to have two healthy children, and do my very best to not take one moment for granted. We pray for you and Taylor every night and pray that God's comfort will wrap you up and give you peace even if it is only for a moment. For Him to show you His love and Reese's love. I pray that he gives you memories and dreams of Reese. Pictures of his sweet smiling face. How precious he was. God knows your sorrow. It was a path that He walked. He knows what you need (more than I would ever know) and that is why I ask Him to give you comfort, peace and strength to endure. We love you.
Kim Barker
Winston Salem, NC 27012 - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 7:42 AM CDT
Praying for peace and serenity for you all - sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Monday, September 15, 2003 9:09 PM CDT
Dear Shawn-
Thanks for writing from your heart. As difficult as it is to put those words down and read them when you are through, I believe there is great therapy in doing so. Thanks for sharing with us all, it really does help others to appreciate life and their other children that much more because of it.
-Alison Haddock
mom to Angel Alexandria
www.caringbridge.com/page/alexandriasangels

alison haddock <alisonhaddock@charter.net>
Saint Louis , MO - Monday, September 15, 2003 1:05 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
Your writing is beautiful, you make everyone feel your pain but yet make us feel very close to Reese. Thinking of you today..will see you soon.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, September 15, 2003 12:07 AM CDT
Shawn, many of us do check in, just dont know what to say or how to say it to express our sorrow to you for all your aching and grief. You have been thru so much in your lifetime already, endured more than many decades older, more than anyone should ever have to endure.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Monday, September 15, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
I am so sorry for your suffering. It is unimaginable. We think of you all the time. Thank you for your suppprt as Max struggles so hard. We know Reese is looking down on us and giving us strength.
Margaret Ciacciarelli <www.Mighty-Max.com>
- Sunday, September 14, 2003 11:38 PM CDT
Thank you for coming to see us yesterday. We so enjoyed your visit. Thank you very much for the precious pictures. I cried when I saw them. You have a talent with photography. We love you and miss you already.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 14, 2003 1:40 PM CDT
It is strange that as a complete stranger I still feel so much pain when I read your feelings that come from your heart. I sit here in tears and wish I knew you in person so I could run right to your house and wrap my arms around you and comfort you somehow. The only way I can do that is to tell you how I pray for you and your family and pray for peace that you need to keep through the hard days
Josie Pynn ( www.caringbridge.org/canada/ayden ) <josie_pynn@yahoo.com>
Pembroke, ON Canada - Saturday, September 13, 2003 8:23 PM CDT
Dang it...we missed you...we were at clinic...when we got back, Riley went down for a nap and then I called to see if you were still at the Horton's but you were already gone :( I am really sorry things did not work out for us to have a chance to see you this time...maybe we can make plans for you to come and see us before we go back to Virginia...I hope so...you stay in my constant thoughts...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Saturday, September 13, 2003 4:45 PM CDT
Yes!!! We will be here...we have to go to clinic on Saturday but will be around the apartment after that...our phone number here is 919-309-0350...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Friday, September 12, 2003 6:02 PM CDT
Shawn,
Hey there! I am so sorry that your heart is broken into little pieces. I pray that God will heal your pain in time. You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless, Have a good time visiting baby Jordan and his family.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Friday, September 12, 2003 11:34 AM CDT
May God comfort you in your grief. You do express your self very well in your journal. We thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. We wish we could somehow ease your pain but know that we are keeping you in prayer.
Nancy & Ed Aman
Sanford, NC - Friday, September 12, 2003 8:36 AM CDT
Dear Shawn, I've struggled with what to say to you since I read your entry yesterday. You say that you aren't good with words but you are. You give everyone a glimpse of your pain...and no matter how painful your words are to us, how much we ache for you, I know that we still cannot possibly comprehend the pain you feel. I hope too that every single mother who reads your heartfelt words will realize just what a treasure their children are. I know that I am becoming a better mother from being blessed by you and precious Reese. I wish I could have said these words in person but I hope that on here will do. May the Lord bring you comfort on these difficult days.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, September 11, 2003 7:54 PM CDT
I am so sorry you are hurting. Please know that you and Taylor are in my prayers.
Tanya <Roosmommy7374@aol.com>
Maryville, TN - Thursday, September 11, 2003 6:09 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

If there is anyone who knows your pain, it is me. I cried my eyes out for you after reading your journal. I will never forget his sparkling eyes, and his bright smile. I remember you rocking him in your arms out in the hallway of 5200, he was so content snuggled in your chest. Know matter how rotten he may have felt, he found comfort in you.
There was so much love between the two of you. I know you will always miss him. I pray everyday that God continues to give you the unbelievable strength that you have, and some happy days, too.

We will be in Durham September 21-27. I would love to see you and give you a huge hug.

Love, Tracie

Doug, Tracie, Angel Douglas, Cam and Mama Jane <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Thursday, September 11, 2003 10:02 AM CDT
I just wanted to say that I got to see Reese's stone at Skyline about a week and a half ago. Pictures do not do it justice. I was there for my uncle's funeral, He was buried just across the way. The stone was beautiful. Hard to believe it's been 6 months already. It is a very fitting tribute to Reese. Take Care.
Benji Faw <fyrman142@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC United States - Thursday, September 11, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
Shawn, I can hardly believe it's been 6 months. I am so sorry for your pain and the hole Reesiecup left behind. I can only hope and pray that somehow, someway, your memories will sustain you and that the images in your mind of a giggly, jumping, happy little boy in heaven will eventually give you peace of mind and make you happy to know that Reesie is happier than he ever could have been on earth. With Sept 11th being tomorrow, it's so hard not to have heavy hearts when we think of all the people left behind to grieve and all the shattered dreams. We can only pray to God to help ease the pain for those families and those like yours who have lost their children to any of these MPS diseases or cancer. God Bless.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
Shawn, what a beautiful entry, well written...truly expressing how you feel to help us better understand what you face daily. We miss Reese too, but we didn't have the opportunity to know him when he was "well & healthy", but we did get to meet him before he left this world for Heaven and we are very thankful for that. I think of you often and wish that you were having some better days. We continue to pray that the months ahead will allow for continued healing and renewal, a chance to remember so many happy memories with Reese. We are just a couple doors down from Carrie, and if you have time and would like to, we would sure like to see you again. God bless you and Taylor. We continue to keep you all in our prayers.
Aloha,
Debbie (baby Noah's mommy)

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 9:04 PM CDT
I'M SORRY FOR THE PAIN THAT YOUR HEART HAS BEEN RE-INTRODUCED TO ON THIS DAY. MY HEART ACHES FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. THE SAME GRACE OF GOD THAT HAS BROUGHT YOU THROUGH THE LAST SIX MONTHS WILL CONTINUE TO HELP YOU MAKE IT THROUGH EACH DAY. I KNOW IT DOES NOT SEEM FAIR. FEELS AS IF YOUR WHOLE LIFE HAS BEEN SHATTERED. I CAN'T HELP BUT THINK OF THE SONG, PICK UP THE BROKEN PIECES AND BRING THEM TO THE LORD, PICK UP THE BROKEN PIECES, TRUST IN HIS HOLY WORD. HE WILL PUT THEM BACK TOGETHER, AND MAKE YOUR LIFE COMPLETE, JUST PLACE THE BROKEN PIECES AT THE SAVIORS FEET. I CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU, YOUR FAMILY AND THE PAIN THAT YOU ALL ENDURE. MAY GOD BLESS YOU. "IF HE LEADS US TO IT, HE WILL SEE US THROUGH IT"
LOVE,
BECKY J. WILLARD

BECKY J. WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 8:33 PM CDT
Shawn,
Today is a hurdle you are crossing, just like all of the others that you will cross until you see your baby in Heaven. Know that he is very proud of you, and that many others are in awe of the strength and dignity that you have shown during the last six months. You and Taylor are in my prayers today.

Leigh Ann Edwards <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 1:14 PM CDT
Shawn-
I am so glad I was able to talk to you today, and you can break down anytime and anywhere you want. I am glad I was there for you. Anytime you want to call and just talk and cry or whatever, I am always available for you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about ^Reese^ with us. I know it isn't easy, and I admire your strength in being able to talk to us all. I can't wait to see you on Saturday. Have a safe trip. I love you very much!
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 12:30 AM CDT
Shawn, Thank you for sharing your feelings and struggles in your journal. Your thoughts and words echo Tracie's. That is all I really needed to know. Thank you again, you have been a great help to me as I struggle to know how to comfort Tracie. I hope we can meet some day. Much love and prayer for you and your family.
Audra Pratz <adpratz@jhilderbrand.com>
Colorado Springs, co - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
Hello faithful friends and family,this is Nanna. Hard to believe that it has already been 6 of the longest/shortest months of our lives. The longest because we miss Reesiecup so much every day and the shortest because it hurts as much today as it did 6 months ago when I think about Reese leaving us, and breathing his last sweet little breath. I thought after a couple of months that it was getting easier, easier to remember, easier to be without him, HAH, it has come back full force. The pain and anger, the questions of WHY, WHY, WHY. Why him, why us, why now. I have to hope that for what ever reason, it will be worth it, somewhere down the road. How else can I get thru each day and survive. Only knowing and remembering, that I will hold him again and kiss his soft cheek,and hear his laugh, this is the ony way to get thru each day.
Before Taylor was born each of us wrote something to put in his baby book, something for him to read later so he would know how much we all loved him and our hopes and dreams for him. I never wrote Reese one, but thought about it quite often, thinking, OK, here is what I want to say, but never wrote it down. Instead, I had to write it in his obituary, and in the thoughts I shared at his funeral. But, I had seen this article in a magazine, soon after his birth, and thought I would add it to his baby book, when I got around to writing. I guess I will put it here. Even tho I did not write it myself, it certainly conveys my hopes and wishes, and as you read the words maybe you will see that even in just 13 1/2 months he realized many of these things and passed on to so many the hope to find their own way.

The Sweetest Nights and the Finest of Days:
I wish you, I wish you,
I wish you these wishes:
Cool drinks in your glasses.
Warm food in your dishes.
People to nourish and cherish and love you.
A lamp in the window to light your way home in the haze.
I wish you the sweetest of nights
And the finest of days.

I wish you, I wish you
A talent for living.
Delight in the getting.
Delight in the giving.
A song in your soul, and someone to hear it.
The wisdom to find the right path
when you're lost in a maze.
I wish you the sweetest of nights
And the finest of days.

A snug roof above you.
A strong self inside you.
The courage to go where you know you must go.
A good heart to guide you.
And good friends beside you.
I wish you, I wish you.
A dream worth the doing.
And fortune's face smiling
On all you're pursuing.
And pleasures that far far
Outweigh your small sorrows.
Arms wide to embrace your tomorrows.
A long sunlit sail on the bluest and smoothest of bays.
I wish you the sweetest of nights and the finest of days.
Judith Viorst

I will add here that as I re-read these words I know that the lamp in the window to lead Reese home was Jesus's love shining. He always was a delight, he had many people to love and nourish him, even strangers, he had an incredible courage to go where he had to go and his arms were wide open to embrace every tomorrow. I am so proud that I was one of the people that loved Reese and that I was able to be there for him and was allowed to share in his life. I will be forever blessed.
Love to all who visit here. I hope your journey will turn out differently than Reese's but I hope your destination will be the same.
Love, Nanna

Julia Hill
- Wednesday, September 10, 2003 8:24 AM CDT
Thinking of you all today on Reese's six month anniversary in heaven. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake and Grace Boger
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 8:04 AM CDT
I love the unique marker for Reese. It is beautiful.
Dee Dee Edwards
Lewisville, nc - Monday, September 8, 2003 8:52 PM CDT
Shawn,

That is a very special marker that you put on Reese's grave. It is beautiful and I especially love the little tribute from Taylor. A very touching, sweet way to honor your son. Thank you for sharing it with us.

Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Monday, September 8, 2003 2:52 PM CDT
Dear Shawn, I just looked at the photos of Reese's marker. Tears are streaming down my face because it is so breathtakingly beautiful. Thank you for sharing it and for continuing to share yourself. Thank you for allowing me to help with the Run for Reese. God bless.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Monday, September 8, 2003 2:32 PM CDT
Hello Shawn and Taylor, I just found your precious little Reese's site from Janice's. I would like you to know that I am praying for you and your family so hard. I am sorry that you had to endure this pain in your life, no one should have to experience this kind of pain. I pray that there will be a cure for this thing called cancer. I am a woman who was diagnosed with breast cancer, had 6 rounds of chemo, 6 operations since March, and will be doing 8 weeks of radiation soon. I have a list of children that I praying for and I will definately add your little Reese and your family to my list. Please know that our Lord will never leave you or forsake you. He is our refuge in times of pain. I will be checking up on you again soon. Your new friend, Deirdre
Deirdre Samiotis <www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre>
East Hartford, Ct - Thursday, September 4, 2003 2:18 PM CDT
Our thoughts...our love...and our prayers arewith you every single day...we miss you all a whole bunch and pray that the Run for Reese is an awesome success!
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Tuesday, September 2, 2003 8:57 PM CDT
Shawn,
We miss you and have been praying for you guys. You all remain in our hearts and minds. I am interested in joining you in the walk for Reese, but will need to find out directions, etc. I am still not certain when we will be leaving here, but Greg's TDY is up on 15 Oct., so I will be cutting it close. Anyhow, I will still be making a donation even if I can't make it. This is such a wonderful event! I am honored to be able to participate. God bless you. I will be in touch to get further details.
Aloha,
Debbie (baby Noah's mommy)

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, September 1, 2003 8:10 PM CDT
Shawn,
Just checking in to see how you are doing. We miss and love you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, August 31, 2003 10:07 AM CDT
We think about you all the time as our Max goes through his transplant. Best of luck with the run/walk.
Margaret Ciacciarelli <www.Mighty-Max.com>
- Wednesday, August 27, 2003 11:53 PM CDT
What a wonderful idea and beautiful tribute to ^Reese^. We love you and miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, August 25, 2003 10:53 PM CDT
I can't wait for the run/walk - I have it on my calendar and have had since you posted it on the website. Hopefully I can meet you that day - you are such an inspiration.
Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
- Monday, August 25, 2003 3:25 PM CDT
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I wanted to thank you for bringing awareness of this disease to others. I wish you the best of luck and I will always keep you in my prayers.
Amy Fox <Bunton21@Aol.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, August 25, 2003 2:06 PM CDT
Shawn, I was just checking in after being on vacation for a week. What a sweet story about Taylor talking to Reese, he seems like such a special little boy. I know you are so proud of him. While we were at the beach, I went out by myself and saw the most breathtaking Reesiecup orange sunset and of course, thought of your sweet Reese. I have been so blessed to get to "know" him and I thank God for the opportunity for him to have touched my life. Hope you are getting settled in your new house and Taylor is enjoying school. God bless.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, August 23, 2003 9:49 PM CDT
I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about your
Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, August 22, 2003 11:26 AM CDT
Toni-
Thank you! I love and miss you too!
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 21, 2003 9:57 PM CDT
Shawn-
Your story about Taylor just . . . I don't even know how to describe how it touched my heart, and the story from Heather was beautiful. Thank you for sharing those moments with us. I think about you and ^Reese^ everyday and I love you!
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 21, 2003 9:54 PM CDT
I come to your page every day. I have for months now. I have never written in the journal before today though. I think of you and Reese often and pray for you daily. Yesterday I left work early to pick up my 5 year old from kindergarten. I was early so I sat on a bench in the hall outside his room. A young boy came out of one of the other kindergarten classes and came to sit beside me. He asked my name and who I was waiting on. It struck me very odd that I did not get a good look at his face before he sat down but the top and back of his head immediatly reminded me of your Reese. He talked on for a few minutes and just before he left I asked his name, I could not believe his answer....Reese..... I felt compelled to write to you today because of that little boy who shares your sons name. He was my sign that I should tell you that I am sorry for what you are going through. Just so you know you and Reese are both thought of by more people than you can even imagine. Please take care
Heather
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 8:01 AM CDT
Good morning,
We continue to keep you in our prayers and know God is watching over you. May the peace of knowing our Lord and Savior be a comfort to you today and in the days ahead. Hold on to Jesus...
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 6:45 AM CDT
Shawn and Taylor,


Quilting Angel Cheryl <AnonymousQuilter@aol.com>
- Monday, August 18, 2003 6:15 PM CDT
I wish I didn't know how you feel but I do. Some people don't understand that you never get over the loss of a child, you learn to live with it. We are starting a new life and it is certainly not the life I would choose. Sometimes I like to think we are the lucky ones. When we get to heaven, we will be blessed with the spirit of a child at our sides. I actually look forward to my birthday because it is another year closer to being with Jillian. Reese will never be forgotten because he touched so many people. Reese is safe and happy and will be the first one to hug you in heaven. God Bless!
Laura, Ken, Nathan & Angel Jillian <http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/>
- Monday, August 18, 2003 2:00 PM CDT
Aloha Shawn,
We are thinking of you today and wanted you to know that you are in our prayers. God's blessings of peace to you and your family,
Debbie, Greg and baby Noah

The Prichard family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
honolulu, hi usa - Monday, August 18, 2003 1:27 PM CDT
Shawn,
Thinking of you and Taylor and I hope you are doing well since the move. I hope that Taylor is enjoying his new school which I am sure he will be the smartest in the class!

^Reese^ Beautiful Angel...you are never far from my thoughts...please let you mommy know you are near.

Robin Tucker
- Monday, August 18, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
Dear Shawn and Taylor -

I've been feeling a strong pull to get down to NC and see you guys. I've been missing Reese a lot lately and look forward to finally seeing his grave marker. It seems that more and more lately something will happen, or nothing will happen, and I lose it again. Reliving the pain of that day when we said good-bye forever. Shawn, I know it would help me to be able to talk to you about these things, and so I can only assume maybe it would help you too. I keep thinking of that day when you got soo upset when he was in PICU, and we realized that we were both having the same thoughts but were afraid to voice them. I hope we get the chance to have some "girl time" when I come down at the end of the month. I love you and miss you.

Taylor - I can't wait to see you too!! I hope you had the most fun you ever had your first week of school! I'm excited for you to show me your new house and your new room. I love you and I'll see you soon.

For our former cellmates that still keep up with Reese's site - Please know that not one of you stays far from my thoughts. I only check up on you guys everynow and then, and can never seem to come up with any words to leave in your guestbooks. It is still so hard for me to go in and read the updates, because I am always afraid of what I'll read. If it's bad news, well, I don't know how I will handle it. If it's good news, well, I don't know how to handle that either. Please know though, that I hope only the best for all of you.

I am including special thoughts tonight for Jordan and pray that you and your Mommy and Daddy get to go home soon.

Good Night,
Love,

Aunt Toni
Washington, DC - Sunday, August 17, 2003 11:03 PM CDT
Thinking of Reese and praying for you.
Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, August 17, 2003 5:20 PM CDT
Shawn-
I wish I could do something to ease your pain. My heart just breaks for you. I think of you and ^Reese^ often. I know it's hard, but any time you want to come hug on my chubby baby you can. I love and miss you very much. Call me if you need anything, even if it's just to chat.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, August 16, 2003 9:33 PM CDT
I am sorry to see that you are having such a rough go of things right know. I won't pretend to know how you feel but I do know that Reese will always be with you and will not be forgotten by thise who knew him personally or those that knew him through this website ( like me ). I will keep you in my prayers and hope that things do start to look up for you.
Stephanie Boille ( Isobel's cousin)
- Friday, August 15, 2003 9:36 PM CDT
I just read your new post and my heart aches for you:( I'm so sorry that Reese didn't get to stay with you. But I'm happy that you know you'll see him again in heaaven. I know you'll always have a hole in your heart, I'll pray that god gives you comfert and lets you know Reese is all right. God bless you sally
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Friday, August 15, 2003 3:25 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,
I was glad to see a new posting today... and I wanted to say a quick hi. I am sending an e-mail, too, so as to not take up so much room here discussing all I want to tell you. I am glad to hear you're getting settled in the new house, and your family, as always, is in my prayers daily.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Thursday, August 14, 2003 2:26 PM CDT
Shawn,
I have never lost a child, but I have lost several close family members, and I can tell you this - it does get better. No, the pain won't ever go away, and you will always miss Reese, but it does fade. Just take your time and allow yourself to go through the grief process. It's ok to feel everything that you are feeling, just keep on living and getting through. God sees your pain, and will help you through these times when you feel like you can't take another breath.

You are in my prayers,

Leigh Ann Edwards
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, August 14, 2003 8:11 AM CDT
Hey everyone!
I am glad to hear that everything is going good. I hope that taylor is enjoying school. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Thursday, August 14, 2003 5:40 AM CDT
Shawn, Taylor, & ^Reese^-
Glad to hear that you are getting all settled into the new house. Hopefully we will be able to come visit soon. The word is September for going home. I miss you very much and think about you everyday. You should see Jordan's cheeks now, you thought they were big before . . .
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 13, 2003 10:39 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, Taylor and ^Reese^,
Just wanted to let you all know that I was thinking of you and I hope that the move went smoothly. If you need anything do not hesitate to ask!

Reese, thinking of you often.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, August 13, 2003 9:19 AM CDT
Shawn, Reese's memorial quilt is so precious. I was able to access it for the first time today. What a beautiful tribute to such a special little boy.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, August 13, 2003 8:18 AM CDT
I think the smile quilt site has Reese's quilt not viewable. Please let me know what I'm doing wrong...I went to smile quilt.com and go to Reese C's name and it won't display. You are in my prayers.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc united states - Monday, August 11, 2003 10:16 AM CDT
Shawn,
Hi there! I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you and your family. You all are in my prayers. God Bless.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, August 11, 2003 7:10 AM CDT
Thinking of you all today. God Bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, August 10, 2003 1:48 PM CDT
Thinking of you and praying for you daily...Missing you and loving you too!
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Friday, August 8, 2003 10:58 PM CDT
Shawn, just checking in on you. We are about to leave Duke this weekend and I have been reflecting back over our journey so far, how we met you guys in PICU after we had been following you on the website for so long. You and your family have crossed my mind often as we made our way through this incrediable land of transplant. Sam and I have been praying for you and Doug, praying that God will remain close to you and help you through this rough time. Please know we are on your side (both your sides). We love you. Sam and Nancy
Nancy and Sam (Nolan Ramsey MPS-1-H www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey) <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 3:22 PM CDT
that quilt gave me goose bumps..I loved it, thank you for sharing it..
Love and prayers

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 10:21 AM CDT
Shawn,
That is a nice quilt that Cheryl made for your family. How are things going? Did you have a good weekend? In my thoughts always. God Bless.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 7:42 AM CDT
I love the smile quilt for Reese. I think of your family all the time. I continue to check daily for updates and photos.
Jodie Johnston www.caringbridge.org/tx/brayden <johnstons_01@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 4, 2003 10:41 PM CDT
I love the smile quilt for Reese. I think of your family all the time. I continue to check daily for updates and photos.
Jodie Johnston www.caringbridge.org/tx/brayden <johnstons_01@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 4, 2003 10:41 PM CDT
Shawn, I think about you and Reese ALL the time! Im so glad that you, Taylor and your mom had a fun beach trip. I cant tell you how much Reese touched my life. I am very greatful for the opportunity that I had to get to know such an amazing little boy with such fantastic Mothers. Please let Toni know that I think of her often. You all continue to be in my prayers!
Jennifer Walker RN 5200 <d1walker@bellsouth.net>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, August 4, 2003 10:46 AM CDT
Shawn,
I am so glad that you, Taylor and your mother had a great time on your much needed vacation. I hope that Christy is doing well, I know that she is lucky to have such a great friend like you.

I am so sorry that this week is difficult for you, but you must never regret your decision in what you did for Reese. You are a mother that was doing what she needed to do in order to save her child...dont ever second guess yourself or the love and care you gave to Reese.

Wishing only beautiful thoughts of Reesie cup:)

Robin Tucker
- Monday, August 4, 2003 9:25 AM CDT

Hope the poem I wrote for Reece was able to give you some comfort.
Of course you couldn't know that it would end this way. You just had to try everything possible to cure him.
If you hadn't gone to Dukes, you would always have wondered if he could have been saved.


Angel Sandra for Smile Quilts <luigitumminelli@virgilio.it>
- Sunday, August 3, 2003 2:33 PM CDT
As I sit here and cry after reading your last entry, you took the words out of my mouth. I thought this would save our children. Does Reese and Kyle and all the children that didn't make it know we were just trying to save them.

Hugs to you all,

Angie Cottey, "Angel Kyle's" mom <cottey@gte.net>
Sumner, , WA USA - Sunday, August 3, 2003 2:00 PM CDT
Shawn and family,

I just wanted to stop by and let you know what an honor it was for me to create Reesie Cup's loving memories quilt.



Love and hugs,

Cheryl <AnonymousQuilter@aol.com>
- Sunday, August 3, 2003 10:13 AM CDT
Shawn, I wish I had something profound to say to make you feel better. I know that as a mother we want to "fix" anything that is wrong with our child. It is so unfair that you even had to make the decisions that you did concerning Reese. No matter which decision you made, there were hard consequences. If you didn't go to Duke, Reese would die. If you did go to Duke, there was still that chance and unfortunately for us, he didn't receive his healing here on earth. But you gave him that chance and put your faith in God and went. If you hadn't and Reese slowly deteriorated right before your eyes, you would have second-guessed that decision as well. It's human nature, we can't understand why such beautiful children have to suffer. There is nothing that you could have done differently to change God's will and no way that we can understand it until we receive all our answers when we meet Him. I am so sorry that your family has had to go through this. No one should ever have to experience the loss of their child. I pray for you to find comfort with your decision and know that you did the best possible thing for Reese. You are a great Mommy! I am glad you had a nice trip to the beach and I'm sorry Nanna Julia had a rough time. A broken tooth and a bee sting are both things that one can do without, especially on vacation.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, August 2, 2003 9:41 PM CDT
Shawn, God did take care of Reese by giving him an AWESOME Mommy! We don't deserve to have to make these decisions and our kids don't deserve to suffer the way they do but we have been chosen to face this. I think making the decisions of whether or not to treat or give the quality of life is just an unjust decision to have to make. I don't believe there is any right answer because nothing is ever guaranteed. You chose chemo to prolong Reese's life and in that time of life being prolonged a cure or a new treatment could have been found. God bless you for seeing Reese through this. He had a HIGH quality of life because no matter how young, he knew he was so loved. God must grant these kids wisdom beyond their years for all they have to go through and with that wisdom comes the true understanding of LOVE and how much a parent loves them. Reese is in heaven knowing the love shines through you and reaches him. Your love held him through many hard times but you held him, loved him, and then let him go. None of this because of anything you chose but because of choices you were forced to have to make. I admire you for voicing your feelings because many people live with the "what ifs" in all of the world but YOU came forward and said it. What if Reese wasn't given to be your son? He was and now he is a beautiful angel and you had so much to do with that! You are a hero:) Love, Tracy (Katia's Mommy)
http://caringbridge.org/fl/katia_leukemiapage/>
- Saturday, August 2, 2003 6:12 PM CDT
Shawn,

You're the best mommy that Reese could ever have. You did everything you could and you did the best you could. No parent, child, or family should ever have to go through what you did. I will keep you in my prayers and pray that God comforts you.

With warm ((((((((((hugs))))))))))

Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Saturday, August 2, 2003 3:45 PM CDT
Thinking of you and checking in on Reese's site often.
Karin, Anna's Mom <www.annavansickle.com>
Fenton, MO - Friday, August 1, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
Shawn, Please dont beat yourself up. You only wanted to keep Reesecup here as long as you could. You was only trying to make his life as normal as normal could be. Just know that Reesecup loves you and know you was only doing what you thought was best. God bless you!!
Lavonne
mount airy, nc usa - Friday, August 1, 2003 8:58 AM CDT
Good morning Shawn,
We are praying for your peace in the struggle you are having about the decision you made last year to take Reese to Duke. Your precious son was a gift from GOD and remember GOD was and is in control. Reese impacted so many lives, many of us he never knew. We feel so blessed to be your prayer warriors. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. May God bless you as you continue to bless others.
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Friday, August 1, 2003 8:20 AM CDT
Shawn, please don't second guess yourself for making the decision to take Reese to Duke. You were faced with a heart wrenching decision, and were desperate to do anything it took to save your baby's life. No parent should ever have to make that decision, and you did what was right in your heart. You should have peace in knowing that you did everything possible for that little boy, all while trying to work and raise another child, too. I admire your strength, and I know there are many, many others who check Reese's site that feel the same way. You and Taylor are still in our thoughts.
Jennifer
Coweta, OK - Thursday, July 31, 2003 7:09 PM CDT
Sweet Reese will never be forgotten

Katia's Page(Leukemia AMLM4)


Tracy and Katia
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 4:12 PM CDT
Hi Coble's...
I was checking in for a new update and to let you know that you family is in my prayers, always. I hope things for you have improved and you are finding some peace in your lives. Even though things have been less than perfect lately, God is still with you and watching out for you. I am sure Reese is smiling down from Heaven, too, sending all three of you his love and concern. May God continue to bless you and keep you close, and may you find comfort in His arms.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Thursday, July 31, 2003 10:37 AM CDT
Just stopping in to say hi!
Love-

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Thursday, July 31, 2003 6:55 AM CDT
Hi Shawn and family...

Just checking in. Would love to see that headstone for Reese :-). Please let everyone know how you're doing. We care...

Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Wednesday, July 30, 2003 3:55 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know I've just said a prayer for your family. I hope that knowing there are still many of us here that check in on you through this site who think of you often somehow helps. Another precious little one here at Duke just lost her battle with ALL in the PICU yesterday...only 18 months old. It never stops breaking our hearts to see these innocent children suffer. We are just so grateful that we know we will see them again in heaven!

Please pray for our little Madison as she continues to fight off this nasty leukemia. Her transplant was in April 2003, but she relapsed again earlier this month, so we are still here at Duke and don't really know what's next.

It's amazing the bond that develops between transplant families...even when they don't know each other.

We'll keep checking in on you.

Lovingly,

Princess Madison's Mom

Marian <www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison>
Durham/Lake Elsinore???, NC/CA - Wednesday, July 30, 2003 4:43 AM CDT
Shawn- I am thinking of you today and always. I've noticed that everyone is giving you advice on here and wanted to pass on to you the best advice i ever heard. "Forget what everyone else tells you and do what works for you!" I hope you enjoyed a relaxing vacation. I love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 11:15 AM CDT
Shawn and family,
You all are in our thoughts today, and you remain in our prayers. God's blessings to you all.
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Saturday, July 26, 2003 9:14 PM CDT
Shawn,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope
you and the family are doing well. May God
Bless you today.
A sister in Christ Jesus

Psalm 23

Stephanie Sawyers
Pinnacle, NC - Friday, July 25, 2003 1:53 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today. Shawn, what a beautiful entry. The stone sounds breathtaking...a special tribute to precious Reese. I know that I won't ever look at another ladybug without thinking of him and smiling. Thank you for continuing to share yourself, you mean so much to so many people.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Friday, July 25, 2003 8:06 AM CDT
Dear Friend,

I have been following your site for several months. I am so thankful to you for sharing your life's trials with me and the rest of the world. I have learned much. My faith and testimony have grown. I am pressing forward, striving to be the best mother I can be. Here is a poem I found today at a homeschool website. It speaks the words of my heart and I owe that to you and other caringbridge families. Thank you and may God bless you and yours.


To My Child,

Just for this morning, I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh
when I feel like crying.

Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile
and say how perfect it is.

Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry, and pick you up
and take you to the park to play.

Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach
me how to put that puzzle of yours together.

Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer
off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.

Just for this afternoon, I won't worry about what you are going to be when
you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are
concerned.

Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and won't stand
over you trying to fix them.

Just for this afternoon, I will take us to Mc Donald's and buy us both a
Happy Meal so you can have both toys.

Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about
how you were born and how much I love you.

Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.

Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch
and count all the stars.

Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my
favorite TV shows.

Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I
will simply be grateful that God has given me such a precious gift.

I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their
missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's
graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital
rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside they
can't handle it anymore.

And when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little tighter, a little
longer.... It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for
nothing, except one more day.............



Liz <lizzymama@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, July 23, 2003 6:35 PM CDT
To the Coble Family,

You are always in my thoughts and prayers. May God lift you each and every day. Reese will live in your hearts for ever and ever and he has touched so many hearts. The drawing of Resse in the arms of Jesus is so beautiful - just like your sweet angel. I pray that God brings each of you happiness and make each day more bearable.

LOL,

Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Tuesday, July 22, 2003 9:20 PM CDT
I havent signed your guestbook in a while, but I keep a check on how you all are doing. I just wanted to let you know I am praying for you and your family and I hope everything works out for the best. Someone sent me this poem and God layed it on my heart to send it to you....

Your Cross

Whatever your cross
Whatever your pain
There will always be sunshine
After the rain

Perhaps your may stumble
Perhaps even fall
But God's always there
To help you through it all

Dawn <swinney@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, July 22, 2003 7:54 PM CDT
Dear Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
I have been reading your journal and guestbook entries for several weeks in an attempt to have the "right" words to say before signing. I have been following this site since before Reese died and I have so much in common with you, as my own sweet baby boy also died post-BMT for Hurler Syndrome. Shawn, you have been an inspiration to me as another mother who grieves for her child, and even though all of our "conversations" have been via e-mail, I feel very close to you and I thank you for your friendship and the example you have been for me. Doug, I am also truly sorry for your loss, not only of Reese but of life as you previously knew it. I can certainly relate to the situation you are now in, as my own marraige and my own life mirrors very much what I have learned about yours.

To you both, I just want to say this: God knows your hearts, and I believe that if you trust in Him and live in Him, you will be provided with exactly what you need. What I mean is that by your faith in Him, He will show you the direction your lives should go, and guide you through the decisions you are making. I have no doubt that you both love Taylor and only want the best for him, so please, in the midst of your decisions, stop just long enough to listen to God. Psalms 32:8 says, "I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye." I know God's plan for my son, through his life and death, may not be revealed to me in this life, but he, like Reese, came here with a purpose. I believe God sends these precious little angels to us to teach us, to love us and most of all to change us. Whatever is supposed to happen now, Reese played a part in that - he came to YOU. My prayer for you is to find peace on difficult days and to be guided by the same God that blessed you with your precious Reese.

I am not here to judge you or to take sides, only to love you and support you as another parent who has walked down the road you are now on... please feel free to say anything you want, or to hold back anything, on this site. I am personally of the opinion that you can do whatever you feel is right, and the people who don't like it can simply log-off. The majority of the pople who visit this site do so out of concern for your family as a whole and because they are genuinely supportive and prayerful to you. As for the cruel, ignorant people who "kick you while you're down", I pray that they never have to live through what your family has lived through, since I have been there myself and know what it's like. Until they've walked a mile in your shoes, or in mine, I hope they have enough respect to let your family deal with life in the best way you know how, including here on this site.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Monday, July 21, 2003 1:42 PM CDT
Dear Shawn and Doug, I went back and read the entries on your journal. I am again sorry to both of you for what you are going through. I am praying for your whole family. And I pray that hearts will mend and you will go back to being the happy family you once were. I ask just one thing, and that is you give your hearts time to heal before you do anything else. After healing you may find that your marriage is like the first day you became man and wife. The happiness of each other, finding out what each person is like and their dislikes. Simply just starting over. Dating and flirting with each other like you once did.... Please try... God bless you both. Our prayers are with you.
Blessing,
Susan

Susan Cieslak <mscieslak@fuse.net>
Hamilton , Oh - Monday, July 21, 2003 11:37 AM CDT
Shawn,
The entry is beautiful, I look so forward to the day that I make it back up to Mt. Airy to see the stone. Please post a picture of it if you can. It is wonderful to read that several people have been by to wisit Reese. It is truly remarkable how many people are touched by Reese and your family! I am so glad that the stone has a picture of Reese on it so that from this day and forever people will pass by him and they to will say "What a beautiful Angel".

Thinking of you...

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, July 21, 2003 11:08 AM CDT
Hi Shawn...what a remarkable story. I read your entire journal and feel as though I almost know you. I pray for you and your family each day. I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through. I wish that we lived closer to one another...I have a baby boy, Chase, and I wish that I could share him with you. The other night as I was holding him I thought of you and wished that I could place him into your arms. I know that he...or anyone..could never replace your Reese but maybe for a moment with your eyes closed and the warmth of his little body you could find a peaceful place and bask in your cherished memories. I'm pulling for you, Shawn......remember that you do not have to carry this alone. Give yourself time and space to heal and know that our Lord knows your pain and wants so much to hold you and ease it. Find your quiet place and rest.
In Christ...Rhonda

Rhonda Byars <jbyars@austin.rr.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Monday, July 21, 2003 10:31 AM CDT
i had the opportunity on sunday to stop by and see the headstone. it is a beautiful tribute to a wonderful person, who has touched so many. the picture of reese at the bottom is speechless. may God continue to lead and bless your family
jeff beck
mt airy, nc - Monday, July 21, 2003 8:12 AM CDT
Hi Shawn
Just wanted you to know I stopped by skyline on my way home friday. Like you said his headstone was perfect!!! I wanted to stay longer but it started to rain, I will go back and visit him soon. I will continue to pray for you and your family and everyone else at 5200.

Lavonne
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, July 21, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
Just wanted to say Hi, I stop by daily but do NOT sign often. Shawn PLEASE know we are ALL thinking of u and would LOVE to c Reece's stone IF u want to share it w/ us. Thoughts & prayers remain w/ ALL of you. :-)
Jolene <http://www.caringbridge.org/oh/lilmisssayd>
Fremont, OH - Sunday, July 20, 2003 5:58 PM CDT
The letter from Sharon Burchette made me cry. You must be a special and caring person. The words you wrote must of been from God. Thank-you for such kind words for a precious family who are going through trying times. Love in Christ
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Saturday, July 19, 2003 7:33 PM CDT
I want to see it!
Jennifer
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 2:35 PM CDT
Shawn,
I had to go to Mt Airy yesterday for a doctor's appointment and I went by and visited Reese. The headstone left me speechless...it is absolutely beautiful!! Little Reese's picture engraved on it and the sweet message from Taylor touched my heart, as your family always seem to do!!! I stood there and thought about sweet Reesiecup and all that he went through in his short life here on earth and how many people that his life has touched and hoped to see that little lady bug, but she never appeared!!! However, I did feel the presense of my God there and with tears running down my face, dropped to my knees and prayed for you, Doug, Taylor, Aunt Toni and all the others in the family, but especially for you, Doug and Taylor...praying that God will give you grace and comfort to make it through these tough days. I prayed for hurt feelings to be soothed and for God to take this situation into His hands and guide it as He sees fit. I have told you many times how thankful I am that you shared ^Reese's^ life with us...I am sure that it wasn't easy, especially when you were at Duke and wanted to spend time with Reese, but knew that everyone was waiting for an update. You are a wonderful lady and I will forever be inspired by YOU & DOUG!!! You are ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers!! (Doug...if you are reading this, that goes for you too!!!)
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Saturday, July 19, 2003 12:16 AM CDT
I feel awful posting this, but folks, if she wanted your opinion, she would have asked for it. If you dont know them personally you shouldnt judge the situation, and if you do know them personally, you are about to lose touch with one or the other by bashing them on here. Get off the computer and go spend some time with your own family (your house is a mess) before you go judging a woman who just buried her son. And Shawn, yes all these entries can be deleted. I love all these "God fearing people" passing judgement on others -- complete hypocrites & cowards who wont even leave a name.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 12:03 AM CDT
How beautiful. I wish I could come and see it personally, but of course I can't. I know you'll keep all the memories of him in you forever. Our Hurler kids always seem to touch everyone they meet, how lucky for us. We'll be thinking of you.
Jennifer Awrey <ammawrey@aol.com>
Mesa, AZ - Saturday, July 19, 2003 11:50 AM CDT
You are ALL in my thought and prayers this weekend. I have no idea how you are feeling, just know that you are remembered and that ^Reese^ will never be forgotten. Pray for peace and understanding and for healing for all.
Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC - Friday, July 18, 2003 2:19 PM CDT
Well, I am just going to enter his in. I think "assume" is to make an ass out of you and me. Look at the word "assume" ass+u+me? So I chose to never assume anything. I actually just ran across your site from another and read a LOT of your journal's through Reese's fight through cancer, the loss of Reese and now the marriage seperating. All I can say is that everyone involved never gets their way fully. I am not sure where God stands on all of this but I urge you to pray for HIS guidance. I don't think God wants us to be miserable. Nobody can be FULLY the fault in a marriage that breaks up, some things just happen. Your family has been through a lot of stresses that most people will never understand. I do hope that Taylor will see both of you regularly and that each of your families won't bad mouth the other person. That isn't fair to Taylor. Just try to reach an understanding on fairly dividing things without going for the other's throat. Most importantly pray for guidance before, during and forever after the seperation or divorce is final. God can get each one involved through anything if they just rely on Him. Please keep everything to a level of understanding for the other persons involved. When 2 people decide to get married, the decide to bring 2 families together. When those 2 people seperate/divorce, they divide those 2 families. Of course things are going to get and feel bitter but just try to keep things very civil and agreed upon. Who knows? There could be a chance of reconcile or at least a strong bond of friendships still possible and everyone else jumping in and throwing accusations just makes matters worse. I think in the long run things will smooth out. Always depend on God. Don't make any decisions without consulting Him first. I will pray for you guys to do what is right and to handle things in the right way. I will not judge you. It is not our place to judge others, that is God and no one but God can say what He will judge. With love, Samantha.
Samantha
Orlando, FL - Friday, July 18, 2003 12:58 AM CDT
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers daily. Praying that God will lead your family in the direction that was meant for your lives.
Anna Willis
- Friday, July 18, 2003 12:42 AM CDT
Doug Shawn and Taylor
I'm setting here praying for you today. I know last night and today must be very hard. I sure Reececup's headstone is beautiful. I will keep you in my prayers.God bless you!Love You "reesecup".

Lavonne
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, July 18, 2003 11:00 AM CDT
Thinking of the Coble Family today.
jodie www.caringbridge.org/tx/brayden <johnstons_01!yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 18, 2003 8:59 AM CDT
Thank you Betsy for your call! (I appreciate your kind words to Shawn as well.)After Betsy let me know Reese's stone was in, I took Taylor to Reese's grave and then we went and got some new flowers for the vase.The stone is a beautiful, loving tribute to a sweet angel and Doug and Shawn, you did a great job picking everything out. Again, Reese is touching lives, still moving people and getting them to think about how lucky they are to have healthy children and hold them and kiss them. The stone is beautiful but still the hardest thing to have to look at. It means it is real, Reese is really gone. As long as it was not "Set in stone" it was a little easier to forget he wasn't still at Duke and I would be seeing him "Next week". Now, it is REAL and a new phase of the healing process starts today.
Thanks to everyone for all the support you have given Shawn and Doug. Thanks for the ones who have asked that this site be returned to a healing place. I stand behind Shawn's decision to air personal news here,(and I did not see any bashing of anyone in her words) she knew this would come out and she did not want everyone wondering what was going on, and getting wrong impressions, (altho there are always going to be ones who just make it up as they go along and talk about things they have NO CLUE about) Let's face it, we are all human and obviously all the people who visit this site, whether they sign the guest book or not, are here to get news on the family. They are interested in how everyone is coping, they may have to go thru this one day and this can be a learning place. She thought it was better to go ahead and get it out. Doug and Shawn BOTH have a right to be happy and whether they are together or not, Taylor will still have a loving family. Surviving losing Reese means they can survive ANYTHING.
Thank you to the ones who have written in support of Toni. Anyone who wrote nasty comments has no idea what Toni gave up to be there for Reese and Shawn. She left her job, home, friends, husband, pets, gave up a good salary and asked for NOTHING in return. As the commercial says, her being there: "PRICELESS". No way could Shawn have done it on her own. So, Toni, I will always be so proud of you. And Andy, what a guy!! Thanks for all you did and gave up for Reese. Toni could not have given all she did without your love and support. And you were definitly a special force in Reese's life. I love you and am so proud of you, too.
To everyone, lets start today to pick up the pieces. Please visit often and continue to suppoprt and love Doug, Shawn and Taylor. This site means a lot to thousands of people! Love to you all, Your friend in Christ: Nanna Julia

Nanna Julia
- Friday, July 18, 2003 7:21 AM CDT
Doug and Shawn,
I am so sorry for all that has happened to your family. You lost your child, now all the emotional turmiol from that and seperation and hurtful comments on the web site. I want you both to know that I am praying for all of you. This is not an easy thing to go through I am sure. Your personal life is your business and only yours. Having said that some might think I will be contradicting myself when I say this, but I know that sometimes you have to talk. I am so glad that GOD brought me to your site and that Reese touched my life. Thank you again Doug and Shawn with sharing your precious angel with me and the rest of us. I hope that one day soon I can have a precious angel of my own and I am looking into ways to donate the cord blood for other children. Thank you again for the knowledge to do this and again, praying so hard for all of you. I know that you two will work things out for the best however it may be. God Bless you all and again, all my prayers

Stephanie Conner
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 10:54 PM CDT
love and prayers every single day...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 7:46 PM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
I stopped by Skyline this afternoon to check on my Dad's flowers (he passed away 3 weeks ago and is buried near Reece) and Reece's stone took my breath away. It was so beautiful and unusual. I have never seen a black granite stone with pictures inscribed in it. I know you are so proud of it. I think of you and Doug often and check the website whenever possible.
Take care.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, July 17, 2003 4:53 PM CDT
To the Coble Family and Toni,

You and your family should know better than anyone else that you can't count on tomorrow being here. Why waste so much precious time bickering. How would any one of you feel if Shawn, Doug, Toni or Taylor were gone by tomorrow...dead? No, I have not lost a child. But by following Reese's site and reading the words of all three of you I have cherished my children all the more. Every day I think, what if you are not here with me tommorow. I don't get as angry as I used to. I cherish my husband more as well. And those dreaded in-laws. Even though I don't "love" them, someone does. Why waste time on negative feelings. We are all here for only a short while. We will all meet again one day on the other side. How do you expect to get along in heaven if you can't get along here on the earth? You are all part of Reese's life. You all long for the day to see him again and you will. YOU WILL! EVERY ONE OF YOU WILL SEE REESE AGAIN......AND EACH OTHER! Please don't waste anymore time. You know that "it" can happen to you. And just because "it" has happened once doesn't mean "it" can't happen again. Oh, I know this is none of my business and I've gone on more than I should. But I believe we were all put on this earth to learn to love one another. To love one another and to have charity in our hearts. This is such a hard thing to learn. I think about little Reese often and not one day passes that I don't offer up a thankful heart to my Heavenly Father for giving me such sweet special children to raise and that they are still here with me. Thank you for opening your lives to me and so many others. Thank you for teaching me things I would not have learned otherwise. With love,

A "friend"

Liz <lizzymama@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, July 17, 2003 2:29 PM CDT
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
I know that when you see Reese's name in stone for the first time that it is going to be so difficult. I hope that you two turn to each other for comfort and support because only the mother and father of Reese will truly know the grief you will be feeling. Bless you today.

Shawn, I was siting with Jaxson yesterday on a tractor and looked down and a lady bug was on my arm, instantly I thought of Reese! From this day forth whenever I do see one I will think of him:)

Toni, what a wonderful sister you are. Take care.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 1:50 PM CDT
To the Coble Family,
From now on, whenever I see a ladybug, I will think of your ReeseCup, smile and then say a prayer thanking the Lord for cradling Reese in His loving arms.
Praying very hard for Doug, Shawn and Taylor that the Lord will comfort you as only He can.

Patricia J.
Oceanside, CA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 1:30 PM CDT
To Shawn & Doug,
I'm Praying for you both today and hoping you can draw a small measure of comfort from ^^Reese's^^ marker. Tho I can't even imagine how much it will hurt to actually see your baby's name set in stone, please try to remember, that that stone will be there forever as a honorable tribute of love to a beautiful baby from his parents and his brother.
May the Lord shine His Blessing upon all of you.



Susan L.
Mt Airy, NC - Thursday, July 17, 2003 1:11 PM CDT
To Doug & Shawn, I do know the two of you as wonderful individuals and wonderful parents to your beautiful sons, ^Reese^ and Taylor. That is all I have ever tried to know of you, or of any of my friends. I have never and do not plan to ever seek out "both sides of your story" as others have stated. That implies that once "I have heard both sides of the story" then I will have the right to "weigh in with my opinion, and to make it known in the right place at the right time". No One has that right! Regardless of how much they know of "both sides of the story" or how close they are to either of you. This type of 'helpful' interference is very damaging in it's own way. Please try to avoid anyone who feels they have the right to give you the lucky chance to hear their opinion.
My prayers are with you both.
God Bless ^^Reese^^ , Taylor and their parents.

Someone who (silently) supports you both
Mount Airy, NC - Thursday, July 17, 2003 1:07 PM CDT
HI SHAWN,DOUG AND TONI. I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT BETWEEN YOU ALL. I KNOW YOU ARE ALL GRIEVING OVER REESECUP. YOU MAY SHOW YOUR GRIEF IN DIFFERENT WAYS BUT YOU ALL FEEL THE SAME. I ONLY STARTED VISITING THE WEB SITE AFTER REESECUP GOT HIS WINGS. I FEEL LIKE REESECUP IS A PART OF MY LIFE. I VISIT THE SITE OFTEN JUST TO LOOK AT HIM. HE HAS MADE ME A BETTER MOM. THIS MAY SOUND CRAZY BUT I REALY LOVE YOU ALL. I FEEL SO MUCH PAIN FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY. I CAN'T IMAGINE HOW YOU FEEL BUT I KNOW IS'T 100 TIMES WORST THEN I FEEL. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY. GOD BLESS YOU!!
LAVONNE
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 12:51 AM CDT
I am glad to see cooler heads prevailing here. This is a memorial site for REESE..not a place to put the entries I have been seeing the past few days. To Shawn and Doug, To you both, I am extremely saddened by the news. You are both longtime friends and I hate to see this happen to anyone. I have an opinion, but I intend to make it known in the right place at the right time. But, not until I have heard both sides of the story. None of us should be weighing in on this because we have not heard both sides. (THAT MEANS EVERYONE...you know who you are.) So people, in closing, If you don't know, don't say. REMEMBER: this is a site for Reese, not to see how petty we can all be. Remember Reese...Please?
A Friend to you both and I consider myself a friend to BOTH families......

Benji Faw <fyrman142@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 12:27 AM CDT
Yeh...thank you Shawn for requesting that all of this crap stop! You seem like such a beautiful person and though I was annoyed by Toni's first entry...not anymore! Thanks Toni for your follow-up entry. We're finally onto a new topic. I'm sure that the headstone will be absolutely beautiful...just like little Reese!
Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 12:19 AM CDT
I also would like to encourage all of us to please! please!, post only entries that are about ^^Angel Reese^^. Please, please use only words of comfort, support and prayer for Shawn, Doug and Taylor as they struggle to face each day with such sorrow.
To the Coble family, I will hold all of you up in prayer today as you view ^^Reese's^^ headstone, I'm sure it will be a beautiful tribute to your sweet baby.
God Bless You.

Robin Johnson
USA, One Nation Under God! - Thursday, July 17, 2003 12:13 AM CDT
I was out shopping today with Braden and saw a little ladybug costume. I thought of ReeseCup as soon as I saw it. I know I will always be reminded of him when I see one. My thoughts and prayers are with you all....Doug, Shawn, Taylor, little Reese--God bless him, Phyllis, and the rest of the families. I wish you all comfort and happiness.

Kim (Bond) Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, July 17, 2003 11:53 AM CDT
As I opened ^Reese's^ site this morning, and again looked at his darling little face, it made me smile. Shawn & Doug, you are very blessed to be the parents of that special baby. Again, I want to express my profound sympathy for your loss of this most precious child and to say that I thank the Lord for the gifts He continues to give you every day in your equally special Taylor. Please understand, I don't say this as if you don't already know your blessings, I'm just moved to state the obvious as my way of thanking the Lord for His gifts to all of us; the gift of our precious children.
I am in tears for you today as you look upon ^Reese's^ headstone for the first time. I hope one day, someday, you will find comfort in it. I ask the Lord to give you both strength in your sorrow.
May He make His Face to shine upon you and give you Peace.
Supporting you through prayer,

Ginny
God Bless America! - Thursday, July 17, 2003 11:51 AM CDT
This has become such a fiasco I wouldn't be surprised in Shawn decided to NEVER write on this site again...I have to agree with the other people who say it's time to move on.
Shelby
St. Louis, MO USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 11:51 AM CDT
praying for your family issues at this time. I'm so sorry about all the things that have happend to you all. Know that you're on my mind and in my prayers ok? Take care now-
Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 11:20 AM CDT
This is for Aunt Toni .... I just wanted to say that I admire you for your apology .... this was a special thing to do and I will be remembering your family in prayer ....
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Thursday, July 17, 2003 11:11 AM CDT
I signed the guestbook yesterday & I am so sorry if I offended Toni. That was not my intention. Toni - again, I don't know your family personally, & I pray I am never in the situation your family has been in. I am thankful to God that Shawn had & still has a WONDERFUL sister that she knows she can depend on 100%. I have a very special bond with my sister & I do not blame you one bit for wanting to stand up for your sister and be her backbone. My intention of my entry was just for EVERYONE who signs this guestbook to please be sensitive to everyone's feelings involved, especially Taylor, who we all know has been through so much! I am a mother of four young children. I got divorced when I was pregnant with my fourth child. There are a lot of things that disappoint me, make me angry, & make me sad about my ex-husband, BUT I am very sensitive about people talking about my childrens' father, because I don't want them hearing negative things about their Dad. I don't want anything said about their Dad that will put doubts in their heads, make them mad, make them embarrassed, or sad. I want them to love their Dad. And despite everything that has happened & is going on, I just wanted to remind people to please be sensitive. I will continue to pray for your precious family - ALL OF THEM!
Kristi Walker <kwalker7912@comcast.net>
Knoxville, TN - Thursday, July 17, 2003 10:58 AM CDT
This is Aunt Toni again -
Yes - you are right. Reading back through - I did point fingers, and I did take sides. I apologize to both Shawn and Doug. In my entire life, if Shawn were ever being attacked, I always came back kicking and screaming. If Shawn were your sister, would you not do the same? I had been so angry with the things that are happening and the things that were being said and done, I just HAD to say them. Anyone who knows me understands. There are many things that I have left unsaid because in light of what happened with Reese, they are just not important.
Some of you may think that it is not my place to have anything to say on this website - yet - you sign the guestbook and most of you have never even met Shawn, Doug, Reese, Taylor or myself. Why should I be forced to keep quiet when you feel that you can say anything you want?
As far as being the BEST person to point out a few things - I of course meant other than Shawn and Doug - and I still stick to that.
Yes, I do have issues with things that did and did not happen in Durham, and I hope to get the opportunity to discuss them with the appropriate people when the time comes.
Once again however, people who do not sign their name are continuing to pass judgement on people they do not know and situations I hope they never have the opportunity to understand.
Shawn and Doug - I love you both. Again, I wish more than any of you can imagine that this was not happening in your lives. I have no words to make it all go away, and I know that you both believe me when I say that if I did, I would surely say them without hesitation.

With my heart on my sleeve,

Aunt Toni
Washington, DC - Thursday, July 17, 2003 8:21 AM CDT
love you...sorry this is happening...again and again and again
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Thursday, July 17, 2003 1:50 AM CDT
I am also glad to see Doug's entry back...it had been taken off way too soon. I had not even known it was posted. I also agree with some of the comments about Toni's entry. As I first started reading, when she said she was not takng sides or pointing a finger at anyone, I was expecting to read some hopeful and supportive comments. WOW! I was shocked. I thought her words were pretty harsh! This whole situation is getting out of hand. Let Shawn and Doug do and say what they want on here. It is their site to do as they wish. If you don't like it...don't read it. Many other sites continue after the loss of a child...it is a way to let the parents keep their friends and "internet family" informed of how their lives are changing...for the good or bad. Let them know we still care and are praying for them, but leave the nasty comments out. The guestbook should be a way to offer support.
~
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 10:19 PM CDT
I agree as well; As close as Toni is to her sister she could/should be trying to help heal the situation,
but at the very least, she should NOT stir the pot and cause more damage to Shawn & Doug's marriage.
Toni; you wrote: "If you don’t approve of their lives – keep it quiet."
I don't disapprove of Shawn or Doug---- but I do "disapprove" of your entry.

Praying for God's Grace for ^Reese^ & Taylor.

Sylvia
Mt Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:18 PM CDT
Thinking of you today. That is wonderful about Taylor being baptized on Sunday. What a special little boy!
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:14 PM CDT
Shawn, what happened to your July 15th journal entry?
I thought it was very healing. I hope you re-post it.
Sending you support through prayer,

Ginny
God Bless America! - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:01 PM CDT
What Is Normal?
Written by Clara Hinton | Jan 27, 2003

Following a loss, well-meaning friends & family members have often said, "I wish that he/she would act normal again. It's been so long since we've had any fun together. I can't wait until the old person returns.
Unfortunately, what most people don't understand is that life will never, ever again be the same for the parents who have lost a child.

The fact is that the parents often realize early on, "I forget how to feel normal! I don't even know what normal is anymore!" When a child dies, no matter what the surrounding circumstances, life as was once known, is turned upside down for a while. Nothing makes much sense. The things that kept life so busy before the death of the child don't matter anymore.

Who cares if the laundry is clean? Who worries about keeping the garage neat? Why bother to think about buying groceries? Food has lost its taste, & there is no energy to cook a meal. For a long time following the death of a child, life seems void & meaningless. Friends & family members find this part of grief particularly disturbing. Others are ready to move forward in life, taking on the mundane routines of living once again. For the parent, though, life will never be viewed quite the same again.

Normal takes on a new meaning to parents who have had a child die. Things such a fine china, fancy furniture, & collectible knick-knacks don't mean anything. It is of no interest to discuss the make & model of the car you are driving. What matters is finding some way to help you get through this time of acceptance & healing. There is no set of rules for normal living following the loss of a child. Some people would prefer there to be a book of rules. It would make life a lot easier for everyone to have special grief guidelines to follow. Instead, we must learn to accept as normal whatever anyone chooses as his/her way of working through the particular grief of the day.

We must each remember that grief is individual, & grief will touch every person just a little bit differently. Tears. Anger. Frustration. Excessive talking. No talking. Working longer hours. All are normal ways to work
through the tremendously difficult emotional swings of child loss. A parent will often think that he/she will never again resume normal living. In a sense, that is correct. I will never again be the same because losing a
child changes the way a parent views life. Grief never leaves. It becomes more gentle, but it never completely goes away.

All of this is not to say that life will never be joyful again. Joy will return, but probably in different ways than you experienced joy before the death of your child. Priorities in life will change. Small things will carry great meaning. A flower will take on the look of a miracle. The blue sky will give a feeling of renewed hope & inspiration. Somewhere deep down inside you will know that your new "normal" is a more simplistic, more abundant way of viewing life.

If you are feeling like you have forgotten what normal is since your child died, you are not alone. Every parent who has experienced child loss goes through a time of questioning. Following the questioning, though,is a renewed sense of self & a new perspective of life. Grief never leaves, & you'll never feel like your old normal self again. But, you will feel hope & joy as you continue on in your journey of healing from the deep,life-changing grief of child loss.

Clara Hinton Author - Silent Grief Founder -
http://www.silentgrief.com

someone who cares
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 4:46 PM CDT
Yes, Toni did point the finger at Doug and she did take Shawn's side. I agree.
(:
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 4:28 PM CDT
To ^Reese's^ and Taylor's parents,
Just wanting to express my profound sympathy for all of you as you grieve for the loss of your precious baby. My heart goes out to you as that grief is compounded by your other problems. I'll pray that each of you will find your way through these dark days. Special prayers for Taylor as he bears such a great loss as well.

Ginny
God Bless America! - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 4:06 PM CDT
To "Aunt Toni",
I really can't see how your July 14th posting/tirade is supposed to be helpful. You started out saying you wouldn't "point fingers or take sides" and you actually did both, took Shawn's side and pointed directly at Doug! I do believe you that you must have been an incredible rock for your sister to lean on and that's a true definition of sisterly love, but,,,,you also seem to have waaay crossed the line and given yourself a lot of importance, saying "you are the BEST one to give an opinion", and it was such a bitter & angry version of your "opinion". I agree with the previous entry, can YOU look Taylor in the eye and give him your big, fat opinion of his dad? I hope not!
Geez, could YOU be part of the trouble between Shawn and Doug??

:-o
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 3:54 PM CDT
Doug, Shawn,& Taylor,
I just ache deep inside for you and your families. May God
grant love, peace, grace, hope and understanding in the
midst of pain as things are talked through and worked out
in the days to come.
Blessings

Kirsten Petty
Warsaw, IN - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 3:27 PM CDT
Shawn & Doug-
I believe I have only signed your guestbook once before (if even that)& if I did it was just after precious Reese went to be with Jesus. However, I have kept up with your site. I don't know either of you personally, but I admire you both very much. Shawn , as a mother I would have been like you. I would have stayed by my baby's side every second & I would have fought for my baby's life with every thing I had just as you did. I have a sister that I am very close with just as I suspect you & Toni are. I do not blame her for wanting to stand up for you. But on the other hand, I don't know how fair it is to say such hurtful things to Doug. I can't begin to imagine what it was like to go through all that you went through being away from home, watching your baby be poked, disturbed, hurt continuously and on and on and on. I know how bad I feel for my kids just when they have a cold! But I also don't know why Doug wasn't there. Maybe it was necessary for him to be home in order to make sure finances were stable for when you did return. Maybe he couldn't get away from work due to lack of income if he did. Maybe it was necessary for him to stay home with Taylor, so he could at least have one parent there with him. Or maybe he just couldn't take it. Maybe it was too much for him to be there - to watch his son go through what he was going through. I don't know what it was - and it's not for me to know. I just hope people will remember that many people get on this website to read journal entries and guestbook entries. I try to think of how hurtful it would be if Taylor were to ever get on this site & see such awful things written about his Mommy & Daddy, especially from his own family members. I am not on here to judge anyone - I am in no position to. As I said before, I think your ENTIRE family is amazing! I admire your faith, your willingness to share your lives & Reese's journey with us & I am VERY THANKFUL for that! I hope that you will continue this site as long as you can & tell us stories about precious Reese or Taylor or whatever you feel led to write about. I check on your family everyday through this website & I pray for your whole family every day! May God continue to be with you & comfort you during these most difficult times!

Kristi Walker <kwalker7912@comcast.net>
Knoxville, TN - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 1:11 PM CDT
Hi Shawn...I feeled so compelled to write in your guestbook again. I feel like what I wrote before might have partly prompted you to write your latest journal entry. Unlike what some other people have said I don't think that the fluff is what people want to here. They want to here about you and your life, but I think that there is a fine line that was crossed. Sure you can write whatever you want to write since it is YOUR journal, but some people (including me :-)) will disagree when it comes to things that should probably be left spoken between the two involved parties. I certainly didn't have a problem with you mentioning that you were getting a seperation. I didn't think that the details (i.e. needing laughter, etc. ) were necessary. I even think that Doug went a step further than you in the tact category and my God Toni took it way too far. The things that she wrote should have been said in a phone conversation between her and Doug. Everyone is standing up and supporting you because of all that you've been through. Well God, poor Doug. He must feel awful after reading Toni's guestbook entry. What she said about him not being there for his own son was far worse than what you and Doug wrote.

I think that you're this amazing person I've read about the last few months and don't think any less of you. You're so incredibly strong. I only wish that I can be half the mother you are. But I just don't think that an online journal that everybody can read, including Doug's family is the proper place to go into details. It will only make things worse and create resentment.

Please keep writing about your life, as well as your rememberences of Reese and of all of things that Taylor is up to...

Danielle
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 11:21 AM CDT
I am so sorry for the continued trials that you both must endure. Please know that whatever happens I will still pray for all of you.

It is very sad when a marriage ends but it is also sad when we lose our identity as an individual.

Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.org/mn/deemartinson/ <jennifer.miles@thomson.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:02 AM CDT
Shawn..just checking back in after being on vacation. I just want both Doug and you to know that you continue to be in my daily thoughts and prayers. I love you both. I pray that God will place His hand on both of you and lead and guide you both through these trying days!! Please don't let what some of these people are writing in the guestbook keep you from updating ...there are many mnay people out there that are concerned and want to know how BOTH of you are doing!! Love and prayers, Sharon


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond , NC 28683 - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 5:51 AM CDT
I pray that you all can find some peace and happiness ! I thinke you are such a wonderful mother to share all your feelings, and if it helps to release some stress then let it out
Nicole
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 10:27 PM CDT
Shawn-
Wow, I don't know if I could say anything that would make an impact like the impact that Toni's words had on me. Toni- I totally agree with you and am glad you shared those words (I read every one)! Shawn- You share whatever you need to share. These websites are therapy. The other families are therapy. The guestbook entries (except for a few bad apples) are therapy. I don't think anyone could ask another person to quit therapy! If you need to vent here, you are not shaming Reese. You are celebrating him. Letting others know how you are doing is important to those of us who care about you and those who cared about and loved Reese. As always, I love you and will always be here for you. Please don't quit sharing with us. Toni- keep standing up for Shawn. She doesn't stand up for herself enough, and a sister has to do what a sister has to do. I love you both and miss you like crazy.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 9:34 PM CDT
Wow...what a freaking nightmare...I am so sorry that you all are going through this...I have no ability to judge anyone...I have no room to ever cast my views or judgements...I can only share my heart...my experience, strength and hope...

People come here to read...they want Shawn to tell them stuff to make them happy...they want Shawn to be cheery and perfect...they want her to be 100% all of the time...they want her to be the model citizen...they want to put her up on a pedastool and look at her like she is not HUMAN...they want regualr updates but they don't want to except the fact that this is life...Shawn is human and the journal is and has always has been about her journey...her journey with Reese...her journey with Taylor...with Doug...with Toni and with her family...the journal has shared her hopes, her fears, her dreams, her sadness, her happiness, it has shared the life and death of her son...the journal has shared HER ENTIRE HEART AND SOUL.

So why now do you bash her? Why do act surprised that she is continuing to share herself? You who continue to come here to see how she is doing...but you are offended...do you only want to read the fluff...

Would you have been happy to read that she is having a hard time getting over her son being gone...would it have made you happy to say to yourself oh poor Shawn...would have made you feel better to read anything else?

Would you have signed the guest book with your name...saying something like oh you poor thing...I hope soon you will feel better...well she is never going to feel better...Reese will always be missing from her life...she will always feel the void...she will forever be sad...

Instead...you read what she wrote and trash her, as an anonymous coward, because you did not find what you wanted...well I say "SCREW YOU" If you do not like what you read then don't come here and read...

As her friend, I am here to offer support...support in all phases of development...through every phase of grief...through all of the life changes...whether I agree with them or not...

I will love her here today...tomorrow...and next month...I will love her if she lives on Coble Lane or in Winston...I will stand beside the woman that I came to know, love watch and even envy...I will respect her desire to make a fresh start...I will understand here need to be closer to her mom and dad...I will not judge.

I will offer my sincerest apologies to Doug for now his loss is even greater...

I will not judge...I will not accuse...I will not throw rocks when I live in a glass house.

Is everyone who has come here so far above reproach that they feel the necessity to bash a woman who has spent the last year of her life fighting for the life of her son...fighting for months in a hospital room that was 10x10 in size...with only her sister to offer daily support...all while she watched him fight until he could not fight any longer...

It is easy to cast words and judgement upon someone when you have never had to walk in their shoes...

Get a grip people...when a marriage ends...each person is entitled to regular and reasonable visitation with the child...each person is entitled to half of the assests...and who cares who gets what...

A marriage is ending...it is not ending over money...it is not ending over adultery...it is not ending over assests or lack of assests...

It is ending because of sorrow...loss...because of a lack of something there...a lack of love, a lack of honor, a lack of support...

Shawn, I love you...stay strong...stay in prayer and let God guide you wherever you are supposed to go.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 7:27 PM CDT
Shawn,

I truly believe that people who are gone give us signs that they are doing fine. After my wonderful mother's funeral, I walked out to my garden before even going into the house and checked on my beautiful flowers. Suddenly, a monarch fly by, landed on my dress and fly away. It was the first and last one we saw that summer because of the drought. I viewed it as a sign that my Mom was fine and I would be, too. I read your story about the ladybug and cried and went into the kitchen. There was a tiny ladubug on the screen. Reese was so beautiful and I am so sorry for all that is happenning to you right now, but I hope this story brings you some comfort.


Hugs, Melody
West Chester, Pa. U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 6:43 PM CDT
NEW TOPIC...NEW TOPIC EVERYONE! Give the Cobles a break and move on...
Elena
Nashville, KY USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 6:29 PM CDT
I read this website everyday and have never once update but this whole thing makes me sick. This is a journal for Shawn AND Doug to write about what is going on in their lives, their feelings, their fears...whatever they choose to write. Many people out there read it to stay informed on what is happening with them because we care, whether the news is good or bad, we care. If Shawn or Doug choose to add an entry and people out there choose to get upset, disagree with it or whatever else that is too bad...log off!! It is a simple proceedure really, all you have to do is click on the the little house to take you home!!! Don't get on here and waste Shawn and Doug's time reading your stupid emails. Bravo to all the people that give Shawn and Doug one more thing on their plates to worry about...they really need it...GET A LIFE!!!!!!
Sarah
IA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 5:57 PM CDT
OH MY GOD! This site is out of control. Regardless of what Shawn chooses to write on this site you just don't write what she wrote about Doug. That is tacky...very tacky. There is no password needed to view this site and it has shown up on other sites and can be stumbled upon. IT'S TACKY! I read every guestbook entry in the past few days and I really don't think that what people are saying is necessarily a lack of support for Doug or for Shawn. It's just plain tacky to write what she wrote and franky Doug's response was just as tacky. But I completely understand how he felt compelled to write back. I would have done the same thing. THIS IS INSANE. Everybody move on. What's done is done...now let's just have this amazing woman Shawn write all about her beautiful son, etc. And look below....I'm writing my name everyone...NOT ASHAMED!
Andrea Culliver
Denver, CO USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 2:14 PM CDT
Shawn,
I love you.

Tracy Lilly <tnlilly@triad.rr.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 2:09 PM CDT
Shawn,
I am so sorry for what is happening to you right now! No one will ever know what we (moms) go through during transplant and life on 5200! Thankyou, Toni, for writing what you did and thankyou for being there with Shawn. I was greatful for having my husband and mother by my side and I couldn't have imagined it without them. Shawn, I pray for you to continue your strength and please, if you ever need to talk and release some steam, call me! May the Lord be with you every step. Love You! caringbridge.org/tn/laney

Beth Anne Biggs <bigg6550@bellsouth.net>
Rogersville, TN - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 2:05 PM CDT
Dearest Shawn and Doug, It really is sad for people to say these negative hurtful things about either one of you. Everyone needs to realize that prayerfully you might end up back into your unity of marriage and these words cannot be taken back. Sometimes we forgive which we are commanded to do, but we don't always forget. I feel like we should not do what we want or what anybody else wants, but what our Lord and Saviour wants. When we get married we make a vow an very important vow .... for better or worst .... until death do us part. According to God there are only two reasons for divorce. I don't know the reasons for yours, but I felt led to share these with you. In Matthew 5:31-32 God tells us that divorce is permitted because of sexual immorality (adultery). The other reason is found in 1 Corinthians 7:15. In this scripture God permits divorce only if an unbeliever departs. The bond of marriage is only broken by death, adultrey, or an unbeliever's leaving. I don't know if either of you are Christians or not, but if you are and you choose to separate you should not remarry unless you are Biblically divorcing. In Matthew 5:32 the Holy Word instructs us that to do so is considered adultrey because God does not acknowledge the divorce. When the bond of marriage is broken by adultrey, death, or by an unbelieving spouse leaving a Christian is free to remarry another believer. Only when the bond of marriage is broken biblically are we free to remarry because there is no more "bondage". We also learn in Galatians 5:19-21 that people who practice certain things will not enter the kingdom of God which includes adultrey which God speaks of in remarriage unless your seperation is biblical. Shawn, Doug, and Taylor, I will be remembering you all in my prayers and I hope that I have been able to help you in some way. Love in Christ....
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 8:31 AM CDT
Dearest Shawn -
I'm so sorry for the negative comments that you're having to hear along with what you're going through right now. No one ever said life would be easy, but I do know that life is a choice. You have to make a choice to be happy or you can make the choice to be miserable. I believe that you're doing the right thing for you and Taylor by making the choice to become happy and not bringing Taylor up in an environment where there's arguing day in and day out. God understands and knows about every situation and He knows that you've tried your hardest to make things work for you and Doug. It takes two for a marriage to work; not one. I've made mistakes in my life, who hasn't, but the one thing I don't regret is making my life happier. You are the only person that can make that choice. No one else is living your life and it's so easy for them to judge you, call you names, say that you should work it out with Doug because of Taylor, etc. I tell you one thing, until their in your shoes (like Toni said) they will never know what it's like to endure your pain, to have gone through what you've gone through. True friends and family love you unconditionally and although I haven't been as loyal of a friend as you have been to me; there's never a moment in time that I haven't judged you or loved you less, but instead prayed for you and your family continually. I've known you for about 10 years and you've never failed me, you've always been there for me during the rollercoasters of my life. You've always thought of others before yourself, you've always had compassion and time for others. Friends like you come once in a lifetime. I know that you're going to be happy now and it's going to be great to see that joy back on your face again. Anyway, don't worry about all of this happening to you right now; it's only an attack from Satan himself. We all know and God knows the truth and that's all that matters. Love you and will be praying for you always.

Deanna Ramsey <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
Thinking of you both and hoping that you guys are finding peace in your decision. Your family is so special to so many people and most of us just want both of you guys to be happy. You both have been through so much losing Reese that no one should say anything to you guys about your choices or what you both have decided is best for your family. I wish you both happiness and pray that there may come a day you may find that again in one another, but if not still happiness.

Shawn, what a beautiful entry about the "Lady Bug", I truly believe it was a sign from Reese letting you know he was near.

To all the mothers and fathers out there who have lost your child or are doing all you can to save your child today. You all are inspirations to so many people who read your journals and get to know your lives through a computer. These journals are here for you to write what ever you want whenever you want and those words are not for us to judge. If we dont like what we are reading then we do not have to read. The strength you posess during difficult days, the happinees you show for small things, the faith you show when things are as bad as they can get are WHY I read your journals! Bless you all!

To Aunt Toni,
It was great to see an entry from you, I have been hoping that you are doing ok. Wishing you all the best.

^^Reese^^ You are the reason so many people still check this site. To remember your little life and to see that beautiful smile when we log on:)

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
This is Aunt Toni - if you don't have a few minutes to read through my whole comment – then don't read at all. I personally think that I am in the BEST situation to let everyone in on a few things. I will not take sides, I will not point fingers, but here is the opinion from someone who was there.

Shawn,
This is your website. You have shared everything with everyone from the start. You did not limit this to Reese specifically, you told the story of your life, of Taylors, of Dougs, of mine. WE were there with Reese, pacing at 4am waiting for the lab reports - so we could post it. WE watched Reese 24/7 for any signs, good or bad - so we could post it. WE are the ones who would go hour upon hour of not going to the bathroom because Reese was too sick for us to leave the room - so we could post it. WE were the ones asking ALL the questions, looking for answers - so we could post it. WE were the ones examining every diaper to make sure it was OK – so we could post it. WE were the ones trying everything in our power to get him to eat, to drink, to smile – so we could post it. WE were the ones researching on the internet when Reese stumbled the doctors - so we could post it. WE were the ones decorating Reese’s room, so when he only felt liking lying there looking at the ceiling he would have something to look at – and we posted it. WE were the ones hanging on to all of the other families for just a little bit of hope – so we could post it. I think you get my point – this was OUR life, not just Reese’s. For everyone who has posted Nasty remarks, please make note that when I say WE, I mean Shawn and me, not Shawn and Doug.

Doug,
I love you. I hate that this happening in your life, but I can’t believe that this came as a shock to you. Shawn has never wanted to “take Taylor away from you”. She has always wanted you to be more of a father, so why would she ask you to now be less of one? I have never said this to you – but if you had stepped up to the plate just once on any number of occasions – things maybe would be different. I can not speak of your marriage, I’m not there behind closed doors, but I was in Durham the whole time, for 5 months, and quite honestly – Where were you????? Apparently there have been some things said about people not being thanked. So – who should I send the bill to for my loss of salary? It’s around $17k, not including the 2 months it took me to find a job once I got back. I will leave much more unsaid.

Whoever asked if Shawn would be the one “tossing the pigskin”,
Shawn is the one tossing the pigskin, she is also the one tossing the softball, making sure he is bathed, making sure he says his prayers, making sure he has snacks for his class when he is Student of the Week at pre-school, making sure he has Birthday and Christmas presents, making sure he gets to the Dr appointments – Again – I think you get my point.

As far as living it up in Durham. We bought no clothes, we ate out I think twice (once Christy paid!) I paid for my own gas to get back and forth. Andy paid for his own gas when he came down (which by the way was 4 hours each way if there was no traffic) and he came down OFTEN! We scheduled our “shift change” to pay less for parking, or stayed so late that the attendant was gone anyway. Shawn and I shared the hospital food that came to Reese’s room so we wouldn’t have to pay downstairs at the cafeteria. There was no leisure time – if you haven’t lived on 5200 there is NO WAY you would understand. Anyone interested in learning how much it cost to bury your baby?? Have you ever shopped on a budget for something to wear when your 13 month old is laying in a casket? Have you ever had to decide what to put on the tombstone of a child that touched so many people? Knowing that you can only say so much and that when it is done – it IS SET IN STONE. Ever had to negotiate which plot to put him in, because now you feel like you have to make sure that there is a place for Taylor too, you know, just in case? What about this – ever had to sign a piece of paper to not save your baby if his heart stops? Or sign another one so your child will be taken off of life support? Or yet another one so they can cut him apart for an autopsy – in an attempt to save someone else’s child’s life? Have you ever been faced with just a few of these things and then still had the courage and strength to face something that can not be easy, but you know is the right thing?

I have never seen so much strength in Shawn as I have seen in her with her children. I have always been the one to stand up, to question, to fight. But God has given that to Shawn through her children. I beg that she can find happiness. I can’t imagine that anyone else would ever understand anything that she has gone through. I have been there with her, beside her, in front of her, behind her my whole life. I lost a piece of me with Reese too, I would never be prouder if he ends up being the only child I was ever a Mommy too. He gave me so much more than even I know how to appreciate. When Reese was put in Shawn’s arms for his last breath, I was begging, “just breathe, just breathe Baby”. It hurts me so much, I’m just his Aunt, What in the world did it feel like to the woman who carried him for nine months? I feel like if I can’t know what Shawn has been through, then no one can.

Finally, If you don’t like what you read – go away!!! If you don’t approve of their lives – keep it quiet. If you don’t have a clue as to what their lives have, are, and will be like – don’t assume.

Aunt Toni
Washington, DC - Monday, July 14, 2003 11:14 PM CDT
Shawn,
I just wanted to share some thoughts with you, and I hope that none of this comes across offensive. First, just wanted to know that we are praying for you, Taylor and Doug; and that no one, except God above, knows what you all have endured...no one.
As if you did not already know, one of the things that comes along with starting a caring bridge site and writing journals, is that you end up writing a 'newscast' for not only your family/friends and concerned persons to read updates, but to all of the public. Unfortunately, when the journals are not just a general update, but rather a creative essay full of your emotions, thoughts, personal opinions and feelings...then you leave yourself open for criticism. However, no one can tell you what to think or feel or say, they can only either provoke it or criticize it. I purely believe that everyone has a right to their own thoughts, feelings and opinions, however, there is such things as tact, respect and responsiblity with words, and this is something that is taught, you are not born with it. There is a time and place for everything, and a manner in which one can voice their thoughts without offending.

There was a negative message left on Noah's site not too long ago, so we understand the concept of having our lives laid out like an open book, and having someone cowardly leaving an anonymous message criticizing us. When it comes to reading these entries, it has been our practice not to erase them off of the guest book, but more importantly not to even waste time to address them. Often times 'they' are too cowardice to even leave their real name or email address for contact, because they are too embarrassed by what they wrote to stand behind it. The very least they could do is stand behind their own thoughts and opinions.

More importantly though, is that as you can see by the other guest book entries, you have plenty of supporters out there that will address the 'mystery critics' for you. Try not to take what 'they' say or believe to heart, you have way too much on your plate right now to think about. Just try to remember that you do have many supporters, and that there are many people supporting you...not to say that everyone is supportive of the exact way that things are happening for your family, but that we are not here to judge, but just to pray for your family and show our support and encouragement for you all during this difficult and stressful time. We are so very sorry that you feel as though separation is your only option right now to find happiness. We will pray that you will allow God to lead you in your decisions, and that he will be with you, Taylor and Doug. We will pray that God will be with your extended family members and friends, helping them to remember that support and an outpouring of love is what you really need most right now. God bless you all, and I encourage you to keep journaling, if not here on Reese's page, then on the computer, or in a book...it is extrememly therapeutic emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Please try to hang in there. We are so pleased to hear that Reese sent you a ladybug to remind you that he is there with you, wherever you are, he is watching over you. What a wonderful thought. God bless.
Peace and know that you are loved by God,

Debbie (baby Noah's mommy)



The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 11:11 PM CDT
Shawn,
I have been following your site for some time and I was always struck by you honesty, your compassion and your willingness to let others glimpse into the very depths of your soul. You writings about Reese were so profound and beautiful and the love you have for both of yours sons pours out thru your writing. When I read your update the other day about the separation I thought wow, what courage. People may think your doing it to be selfish but I see it as totally opposite. You see my parents divorced when I was very young and you know what I have no guilt over 2 parents staying together even though they were miserable. Had they stayed together for the kids sake....how much guilt would I be carrying now? I love my parents enough to want them to be happy. Yes vows are sacred but I can tell you when parents fight, or are miserable it's much worse on the kids. I've been there. I'm so glad my parents didn't make us watch that our whole lives. It seems to me it is not some rash decision. In reading your journal I never once got the impression your were bashing Doug, actually just the opposite. Yes Taylor needs his Daddy and I have no doubt you will keep Doug involved. You know what I'm a somewhat well adjusted child of divorce that has been married for 11 years. So children of divorce do get through it. Especially with love from there parents. You don't have to apologize for using Resse's site. NO ONE has been in your shoes.....everyone's lose is different and they have to handle it however they can. Your strength, courage and faith have helped me through my daughters illness. Love and prayers

Lisa <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindsey>
Va beach, Va - Monday, July 14, 2003 11:03 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

I hope that you are all doing OK and don't listen to anything people have to say. You have to do what you feel is right and nobody has a right to judge you. Anyway, just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you. I remember you had once said that there was still one ladybug sticker in your car, is it still there?

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, July 14, 2003 10:06 PM CDT
I just want to say that I'm sorry for the obvious hurt in both of your lives right now. Separation/divorce are never easy and shouldn't be the easy way out. However, there are times it is necessary. Everyone has a right to be happy! I wish you both the best and hope that with time the anger will subside and you can see the best in each other. Remember Taylor and that he needs both his parents. Slamming each other in front of him with do nothing positive for anyone. Keep in mind a saying that we've all heard, if you can't say something nice, do say anything at all, when you are with your son.

Best of luck to all of you!!!

Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 9:36 PM CDT
One of the hardest things about these websites is that they become an "open book" for anyone and everyone to come to. They are open to read about every detail that we parents write, and then they can sit back and analyze our every word, and every move. As if life isn't hard enough to make it through the day without your child. This journal is now for you to write your thoughts and feelings down, and for those who care about your son and your family to come bring support.

I wish you peaceful days.

Jackson's mom, Michelle
- Monday, July 14, 2003 9:20 PM CDT
You all have been through so much....{{{BIG HUGS}}}.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Much love,

Liz
Durham, NC - Monday, July 14, 2003 8:34 PM CDT
What you choose to do with your life is your choice, I know that this was not a spur decision. You are a wonderful mommy adeserve to live you life happy witchever way you choose. I have cmplete faith any choice you make is not just about you buy all of you. May god give you stregnth to move on in you life.
with all my love Nicole e <nicole54660@msn.com>
Tomah, WI - Monday, July 14, 2003 7:44 PM CDT
Shawn, this is YOUR journal. Write as YOU wish.
concerned for you
- Monday, July 14, 2003 3:13 PM CDT
Shawn, I said that I would not read your journal anymore because of the journal becoming an outlet for your relationship with Doug, rather than an outlet for your beautiful son Reese. I meant it, but was a little afraid that I might make things worse on you than they already were. I thought that I would atleast stand by my words and sign my name and I did.

I will return to your site, even though I said I wouldn't. Your strength has amazed me in the past and will continue to do so. I just hope that you do the best for everyone and if divorce is the solutions...so be it. And if therapy hasn't worked in the past, then it probably won't work now.

I do hope that you leave this journal as a way to let us know about your life and life without Reese...but leave certain matters spoken just between you and Doug.

You are an incredible woman Shawn...I read this journal because that strength shows in each of your journal entries. I'm not a religious person per se, but I do think that your loved ones stay with you in some way forever. Reese would and should be proud of you, Doug and Taylor.

I hope that noone in your family was offended by my journal entry. I tried to not be hurtful, but still express my feelings. Sorry if I offended anyone out there.

I've only signed a few guestbooks in the past but today you've compelled me to write in yours a couple of times. I'd better stop now before my job fires me :-)

Danielle <dfdelacruz@excite.com>
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 2:18 PM CDT
Ok..well I'm only 16 years old and I wont be 17 until December but I know how bad it is for parents to live apart from each other my mom and dad seperated/divorced two monthes before I was born so I grew up without a father, Shawn I dont want to be like the bad person who says "Its wrong to do this" or "Its wrong to do that" because God says Judge not lest ye be judged but it seems like you think you're the only one who knows whats good for Taylor, children need their fathers especially since hes a little boy, are you gonna be the one to "throw the ole' pigskin around(football for those who arent familiar with the term)" or the one who goes out on a Sunday afternoon to "pitch a little before Sunday nite service"? I've followed Reese's site since January of this year, I've watched him progress and then go downhill again and I've never been thru somethin like that and I'm truly sorry that you have but you can't say that Doug has no reason to be in Taylors life! He has as much right as you do if not more....It appals me to a great extent to see people (especially WOMEN) write into this guestbook and say "Shawn, you know whats best for Taylor, do what you think you have too" and to the people who have kids and have never been divorced or seperated or to the kids whose parents have never been divorced or seperated you no right to say stuff like Doug doesnt need to be in his life coz you dont know how it is to have children grow up without the other parent or to grow up without the other parent yourself...My grandma says I proly shouldnt put all Im sayin but I think Hey if everyone else can why cant I? I know my entry isnt gonna make any difference but I hope it gives you other people out there who think Doug has no reason to be in Taylors life or hasnt ever really done anything for Shawn, Taylor or ^^Reese^^ think about all the kids out here in the world who havent got a daddy and has had to grow up without them...If Doug could have been there with Reese thru it all he would have been I do know that much, what father wouldnt? But if he would have been down there like Shawn was, who would have kept up the bills and everything up here in Mt Airy? Money doesnt just fall out of the sky! Im closin this entry with this: Stop sayin that its great what Shawn is doin coz its not, and if you're gonna fuss about Doug atleast cut him some slack for bein a great father and writin what he did on the home page Thanks and Im prayin for ya Doug...so is my church {Amazing Grace Baptist Church in Lowgap with Brother Jr Easter}
~*Jenifer Hope 2003*~ <jenniferhope@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 2:04 PM CDT
Shawn, I am completely appauled at what people are saying on your guestbook. How dare people say such remarks when they have never been in your shoes. If they have such a problem with it then DON"T READ IT! I support you in whatever you decide to do and I think you all, you, doug, and taylor are incredible people who have gone through horrible things. You all do what you have to, to be happy and ignore these stupid people who won't even leave their name. Take care
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Monday, July 14, 2003 2:03 PM CDT
Hi I don't know either of you but I feal sad for the situation your going through, I will just say that I will pray for both and that god guide you through the right path, I know it must be especially hard on Taylor.

God bles you

sally
- Monday, July 14, 2003 12:29 AM CDT
Doug & Shawn, I don't know either of you. However, I just wanted to say, you still have a little boy that needs both his mother and father and which you both need to think of in your decision. I lost a nephew to cancer in 1985 at the age of 10-1/2 months old. His parents were also going through some troubled times, due to the care associated with his illness, time spent apart, etc., etc., you are both very well aware of what is involved when your child has cancer. They almost split as well however decided not to as soon as they realized that they hardly communicated during their child's illness -- outside of talking about what the doctors had to say, the course of treatment they would follow, etc., etc. Plus they had other children to think about as well who needed to be in the same home with both of their loving parents. I believe that you both need to take time for yourself -- you both sound like wonderful people and by looking at your family photo, you look like a fine loving couple. Please do not give up hope -- TALK TO ONE ANOTHER. Wishing you all the best in whatever you decide to do.
Kim <ksmith@parealtor.org>
Harrisburg, PA - Monday, July 14, 2003 12:23 AM CDT
I do not want to get involved in your relationship. I know how your lives have been turned upside down- mine was too! I will pray for all of you!

I wanted to say to all of the nasty people out there who are signing this guestbook- Get Lost- Get Your Own Life! If you haven't had to endure what Doug or Shawn have had to then how can you even open your mouths? To judge a person's right to have a life of their own- how dare you?

Let me ask you something- Have you ever sat with your child for days, weeks, months or years while they went through constant vomiting, diarrehea, test after test, poke after poke?
Have you ever held your baby in your arms when they took their last breath? Then held their lifeless body for as long as you could before setting them down for the last time? Have you ever seen your baby all dressed up, looking angelic in their 2ft long coffin? Have you watch that same coffin as it's lowered into the ground?
Have you had to pick up the pieces of your life after ALL of these things have happened to you?
I have, Shawn and Doug have and so have way too many other families. So, I'm thinking unless you've been through something like this- you really have no right to say squat! And that means even if you sat there watching it happen to your friends- you still are not qualified to say any more than- I will pray for you and Support whatever you do.

Shawn and Doug- Be strong and know that people love you and Taylor and Reese! I know that Bella, Reese, Carter, Kassidy and all of their other friends are watching over us and loving us ALL!
Love, Cathy
PS I know that some of you who wrote nasty messages are people who loved Reese- please let him rest in peace without you judging his mom or his dad!
And unlike some of you- I am not afraid to sign my name. And any nasty messages on my daughter's site will not be tolerated and will be removed immediatly- so don't bother!

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Monday, July 14, 2003 11:33 AM CDT
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
Hoping all is well today and that you guys are doing ok.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, July 14, 2003 11:11 AM CDT
Hi, I've been following your journal now for awhile (way before Reese passed on) and am honored that you were so open and candid about everything...everything involving Reese. I do, however, feel as though you are taking it too far. Now Doug and Shawn...you are usually this website to verbally bash one another and that defeates the whole purpose of this site. It is incredibly unfortunate that the two of you are getting a "seperation", but I don't feel that this is the proper place to vent. This website was set up to let your friends and family know about Reese. It's a diary of that time and it's turning really ugly. I think that I'm done checking up on the Cobles. I'd like to keep my memories of Reese and this site as they were.
Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 11:03 AM CDT
Dear Coble family,
I am here to wish each of you the very best for whatever decisions you make in the coming days. I felt compelled to add something positive after reading so much negative feedback from some REAL HIPOCRITES!! Do they not know that when a couple is divorced that the law states you have the right to 50% of everything!! That is the law in NC the last time I checked, and I am sure that you had no problem contributing half of everything you had during your marriage. So to all the COWARDLY NO NAMES out there, you better get down on your knees and pray, because ya'll need Jesus more than anyone on this website!!

a friend in Jesus
- Monday, July 14, 2003 10:26 AM CDT
I'm so sorry that people have to leave such hurtful messages on here. Lean on God at this time..I'm so sorry for all your family has been through. Praying for you..

Jen Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 9:27 AM CDT
I read a lot of pain, division, fear. These are not of God! He is not the author of these things the devil is. He is out to kill, steal and destroy! I rebuke the devil and ask God to shine His light on you all! Seek Him in all you do and make sure what you are hearing is Him!
k
Winston Salem, NC - Monday, July 14, 2003 9:25 AM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
I pray that you can work through this. God Bless. In my prayers always.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, July 14, 2003 7:37 AM CDT
God bless both of you during this difficult time. Marriage is never easy and must be worked on even when everyhing is going well. Under your circumstances with the care and then loss of a child the pressures have been extraordinary I'm sure. Know that most of us who have been privledged to follow the story of Reese through this web site want only happiness for BOTH of you. No one can tell you what to do or not to do. That decision will have to come from the two of you. Know that we are praying for you to come to an understanding and that all three of you will find happiness - whether that be apart or together.
Nancy & Ed Aman <nancyaman@charter.net>
Sanford, NC - Monday, July 14, 2003 5:56 AM CDT
To Angel ^Reese's^ and Taylor's parents,

I am so sorry for your loss, and Taylor's loss, of your darling Reese, such a beautiful baby!
And I am so sorry for the current troubles you both are having now. I just found Reese's site earlier today,
I cried for the loss of your son, felt so bad about your impending separation, and was appalled,
very appalled, upon reading some of the nasty, narrow-minded and just plain evil guestbook entries.
I came back tonight because I wanted to try to find some encouraging words to say to Shawn,
and I found your entry, Doug. If I may say it, I do admire the way you are standing up and being counted,
as a man, a husband and a dad. I have great respect for the way you appropriately defended your wife
and your position. I have great respect for you both. Sadly, this is just what separation/divorce looks like;
two sides that are both hurting, property/assets being divided and a child that must live most of the time
with one parent and visit the other. I do happen to be a profound believer in marriage, I've been happily
married for 25 years, and do hope and pray that this break can somehow be repaired because two parents,
who want to be together, is always best for a child. ....But..... I am also a believer in divorce. After 20 not so
happy, many times grueling, years, my parents NEEDED to be divorced, and believe me, that WAS what
was best for my brother, sister and I. I know that is a contradiction, but having now lived both sides,
first as a child of divorced parents and now as a happily married wife and mom, it just seems to me
to be the painful truth, that sometimes marriages just cannot survive, even when both people
are good people. So, children can be very okay after a divorce, certainly not right away, but over time.
Taylor is still blessed with two wonderful, loving parents, who will know what is right for him,
maybe not every single minute, but over all, and he will grow up strong in the love of both his parents,
even if they can't live under the same roof, or even the same county, anymore.
Please, please, try to ignore the harsh words of a few strangers, (God save you if they are family members)
I believe most strangers are like me, crying for your loss and praying very hard for you both.
God's peace be with you both. Don't be too discouraged, you will find your way through this
unhappy situation to what will be good for you both and for Taylor.
Praying for you all,

~Gail~
- Monday, July 14, 2003 3:29 AM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
I have been keeping track of your journal entries for awhile now. You know what...your last entries (from the both of you) do not come as a shock to me. From a mother (and father) who had a child that went through a bone marrow transplant, which failed, I completely understand that you need to be happy within yourself. When you find happiness within yourself, then you see happiness in other people. Shawn...please find your old self - the person you want to be, and then MAYBE you will love again with Doug. You must love yourself first and foremost. Doug...let time pass by. I understand that you may be mad at the woman you truly love, confused that maybe you didn't see this coming, and it is all justified. You have a right to want to love Shawn and keep her close. Let time heal. I have also had trouble in my own marriage. It's not because of the death of our daughter September 1, 2002 at age 2 years. That was only part of it. Being away from family and friends that know you best. Not being able to show your true emotions - trying to tough it out in front of strangers - you know the story - it's not you going through it, it's your child that is sick. Very true, but when they are so young as our children were, they can't tell you how they feel, so your emotions of the whole thing start to pour out. Please, remain friends if at the very least, for the sake of Taylor. Keep the friends you have. Try to remember the love you once shared for each other, and maybe someday that love will return - or you might see that it is better this way. God has a path for everyone, and if it leads you back to each other, then it was meant to be. I will pray for you both that you come up with the right answers for you both. Hugs to Taylor from someone who cares about all of your feelings. ANGEL KISSES FOR REESE FROM KASSIDY. xoxoxo

Carol <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.caringbridge.org/ca/kassiescourage / www.kassiescourage.com>
bowmanville, - Sunday, July 13, 2003 11:15 PM CDT
Shawn,
I just hate this for you and your family. You have had to endure so much heartache. I am probably one of the few (aside from your family) who knows what you had to go through with Reese. I have learned from you, what the meaning of unconditional love for your children is. I will not give my opinion on your marriage, one because you did not ask me to, and two because it is none of my business. I will say that anyone who wants to challenge your dedication to your children, tell them to come see me! HA! I pray for you daily and miss Reesecup so MUCH!!! To these anonymous writers, if you are truly a christian you will not be judgemental and hypocritical. Shawn, Doug and Taylor, I wish you happiness and I know that you love our heavenly father. He'll show you the way. Toni, I miss you, and hope you and Andy are doing well.
Love you Shawn,
Bethany

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC USA - Sunday, July 13, 2003 10:11 PM CDT
I agree with Angie, Wow! People never cease to amaze me. I usually don't post two messages this close together but I absolutely cannot fathom that people are continuing to post these anonymous messages on this precious child's website. Have you no shame at all? First of all, this is not the place. Second of all, I thought a marriage consisted of three people, the husband, the wife and God. Who are you to judge? Then you cast your stones hiding behind your anonymous words. This is between Shawn, Doug and God. It is really no one else's business and for those of you that posted about airing the dirty laundry, I found out more than I wanted or needed to know by your thoughtless entries. It's none of my business that there is an inheritance. Shame on all of you! You obviously know what you are doing is wrong since you do not have the decency to sign your name and then in the same breath you tell her that you are praying for her? Maybe you should pray for yourselves which is what I'm going to do for you, so that you can have some sympathy and common decency in your heart to not make your judgements period, much less on this precious child's website.

Shawn, I apologize for taking up more space on this. I have just been hurting for you since I first saw those hurtful entries last night. I support you 100% and if you need to talk, you know how to contact me. You may want to check with Caringbridge as well. Those who leave anonymous messages do so by leaving their IP address which is an electronic footprint that lead will Shawn right back to you. Please, I am begging everyone, please stop this childish behavior and stop posting these entries.

Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, July 13, 2003 1:38 PM CDT
Shawn: WOW! People are incredible! We start these sites for our children and after they die we continue on because of the family and the friends we made along the way want to know how we are doing. This Separation is part of your journey and has everything to do with Reese and this is something else us pray warriors can pray about. I could say more, like what I observed at Duke when I did see your husband, but this is not the place. I saw your love and devotion to Reese and also Toni's. I guess I did not see Doug much. Realizing he was home making all the money to support his family and all. How far is your hometown from Duke? A few hours? And to the 35 year Mrs. Married, WOW, I love when people capitalize all the words, so to appear like they are SCREAMING. There are so many things that go on behind closed doors and you choose to not air those out, but yet informed your real FRIENDS the decisions you made. I assume that the entry's are from Doug's family, who seems to be very concerned about his money, not Taylor's well being. I guess they expect you to live in a tent in the City Park and Taylor will be safe there with you. While Doug lives in a house. Oh yeah, didn't you give up your life for several months, while you sat at Reese's bedside taking care of him day and night. Oh and the thing about Hotel Rooms. I would have just enjoyed a walk alone in the park for 20 minutes, how dare someone say something so inappropriate that you were doing something other than taking care of your son 24/7. Shame on all of you! I suppose you all call yourself Christians also. This is not the place to spread your anger towards Shawn, shame on you for doing this on precious Reese's site. Don't be a coward; share your name so that Shawn can defend herself. Maybe you were the problem that the marriage fell apart. Did you love and support this marriage and help it grow or did you cause it to fall apart. If you were at the marriage ceremony you all promised to help this marriage grow, what did you all do to support this marriage?

Shawn, only you know what is best for your son and yourself. Shame on all of them. Good luck to you as you start your new life in your new home. If you ever need a friend that will not judge (I think that is what real friends do), please call me anytime day or night. I did not mean to go on and on, but people that post and do not leave their name really upset me. It is unfair and cruel. Hugs to you and Taylor and Toni also!

Angie Cottey "Angel Kyle's Mom" <cottey@gte.net>
USA - Sunday, July 13, 2003 12:42 AM CDT
I TO WONDER WHY IF YOU NEED A "FRESH START" THEN WHY ARE YOU TAKING EVERYTHING IN THE HOUSE AND PART OF DOUGS INHERITANCE ON TOP OF THAT? I PRAY FOR TAYLOR AND HOPE HE REALIZES HOW MUCH HIS DADDY LOVES HIM AND WILL MISS HIM.
CONCERNED FRIEND
surry - Sunday, July 13, 2003 9:44 AM CDT
Shawn,
I'm another person that you don't know, but have been blessed to have found your website and learn about your struggle and about your precious adorable son. One thing that I always try to remember is no one else can judge your life because it is your own with your own unique experiences. I apologize for the awful people that have said nasty things to you because of your decisions in life and for the plate that you have been given to live with. You, and everyone else, deserves happiness so do what it takes to get there.
Good luck with your new home and I hope you are able to settle quickly.

Victoria
Leigh, UK - Sunday, July 13, 2003 6:51 AM CDT
you make me sick
whoever wherever
- Saturday, July 12, 2003 11:30 PM CDT
Dear Shawn,
I don't personally know you. I feel as though I do because you have so unselfishly shared your life through your journals on precious Reese's website. I don't know your situation and I strongly feel that no one ever really knows what is going on in someone else's home, relationship, etc. Since I don't know the whole situation, unlike some of the unnamed people who have shared their opinion, all I can say is that as a "friend", you are in my prayers as you are going through this difficult time. I will also say a little prayer for the people who had no problem whatsoever in spewing their angry words on your precious son's website and then hid behind their venomous words with no name. An extra special prayer goes to Mrs. Married 35 years. You seem so bitter and I hope that God presses on your heart and you feel remorse for such hurtful accusations. A little hint, if you don't like Shawn sharing her feelings on the website, you sure don't have to visit!

PS. Shawn, you might want to check with Gooch's mom Chris. I think she knows a way to delete such worthless entries.

Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, July 12, 2003 9:46 PM CDT
Shawn,
PLEASE don't take to heart what is being said by all these negative people who supposedly "know" you and your situation. I am from a small town, and when I left my husband, 2 of our best friends turned their backs on me and ran to him, even though they had been encouraging me for years to leave him. It amazes me that the same people who are cutting you down for making a very hard decision, can also say they are praying for you. Anyone that truly cared about you and Taylor would support you, whether they agreed with your decision or not. I wish they had believed in their statements enough to sign their names, so you would know who your true friends are. Most of us are with you completely on your decision, because YOU are the only one who knows what's right for your life. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and wish you all the best.

Jennifer
Coweta, OK USA - Saturday, July 12, 2003 8:30 PM CDT
I love when people are brave enough to run their mouth about people they admit they have never personally met, but aren't even big enough to leave their name!!!
Praying for your family and that God will watch over you all. Also praying for Mrs. Married 35 years that she will one day learn the correct way to handle her anger.

Anna Willis
Bridgeview, IL - Saturday, July 12, 2003 4:18 PM CDT
If you need a "new fresh start", why are you asking for half of everything, including what his father left ?
An observer....
nowhere, CA nowhere - Saturday, July 12, 2003 11:16 AM CDT
Shawn,
Sorry to hear of the news, but you all will certainly continue to be in our prayers. We don't judge you for your decision, and care about you just the same...there is no explanation needed. We simply pray that you will find some much needed happiness in making this change. God bless you.
Peace,
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Friday, July 11, 2003 8:36 PM CDT
Shawn, I hate to see a marriage break up, but you're an adult and if you two arent happy then why pretend, when the real right person may be out there for both of you. I was about to say you guys are just too hurt right now, but you were already all prepared and explained that part away, so obviously it has been coming for a while. I think you both deserve some happiness in this life and if it cant be together, then so be it. Hugs,

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~ * Adopt a Kid's Site *
- Friday, July 11, 2003 7:55 PM CDT
Shawn, you of all people, realize how brief life can be here on this earth. We just can't know what lies ahead but sometimes we realize, hopefully not too late, that we must make a change...for ourselves and the ones we love. Too often we live our lives for others....and that can be good but it can also leave us empty. It took a lot of courage for you to make this decision and it is scary I am sure. But just think of all the possibilities that now lie ahead for you! You must now do what you need to do for Shawn to fill those voids that have been there so long. May God keep you safe and secure and happy and continue to watch over you. Life is short...live it.
Joni Tilley <fotofanatic@triad.rr.com>
Winston Salem, NC Forsyth - Friday, July 11, 2003 11:53 AM CDT
Shawn,
I have not enterd in a while it has been busy my way. I hope that things are going good. The decision to seperate I know could not have been an easy one. Follow your heart and what you feel is right. I pray for you, Taylor and Doug everyday. I hope that everything works out ok and I will continue to pray for you all. Best Wishes and God Bless!!

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Friday, July 11, 2003 9:16 AM CDT
Shawn,

I still following Reese's webpage and think of you all very often. Follow your heart and your feelings. No has the right to judge you for coming to this very hard decision. I know that as a very devout Christian you have prayed long and hard about this and did not come to this conclusion lightly. The Bible is all about interpretation, there is no black and white. I don't think our loving God would want any of us to stay in a situation that isn't healthy for us. Stay strong! What the Lord has planned for all of you, will still happen.

In Love and Prayers

Angie Thomas Johnson <angiejohnson@renfro.com>
Pilot Moutain, NC - Friday, July 11, 2003 8:03 AM CDT
Shawn-

Just wanted to wish you all the best in your new journey. I think about you guys often.

Hugs,

Jill Schwab (Alex's mom)

www.caringbridge.com/ca/alexschwab
Manhattan Beach, CA USA - Thursday, July 10, 2003 5:52 PM CDT
When you married Doug you made a vow to stay with him for better, for worse, in sickness, in health, in good times and bad... work on remembering how important those vows are and how important marriage is in the eye's of the Lord. Praying you and Doug can work this out.
concerned for all of you
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 2:28 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and praying for you to find comfort. May the Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, July 10, 2003 1:22 PM CDT
Shawn, only you know in your heart what you need to do. Best wishes to you as things change. Sounds like it's amicable and that's good for Taylor. You'll be in my prayers!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 1:15 PM CDT
Nobody can know what you two have gone through. We can only imagine what it has been like. Please don't give up on your marriage and family, Shawn. God brought you and Doug together for a reason. Remember back to when you were first together, all the happiness and excitement that comes with being in love. Try counseling again, with hope that it will work this time. If you go into something looking for failure, that is what you will find. Don't make any drastic decisions yet. You and Doug have been through alot. You know Taylor must want his mommy and daddy together, and to stay in the home he has always known. He has already endured so much. I know you must have given this alot of thought, but please, give it some more. Shawn and Doug, open your hearts to one another again. Let some of that hurt and pain give way to finding new strength in one another. May God hold you and keep you. Turn to Him. Trust in Him. Your family is and will continue to be in the prayers of so many.

a friend who cares
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 11:20 AM CDT
Hi Shawn just wanted you to know I'm sad about you decision to leave Doug, but I dont know the whole story. I want you to know that I check the site about everyday just to look at Reesecup I feel like he's a part of my life. How is Taylor taking all of this? I'm not tring to tell you what to do, but could you just wait a little bit before moving. You all have been thru so much. My prayers are with you'll.
Lavonne
mount Airy, nc usa - Thursday, July 10, 2003 8:02 AM CDT
Shawn,
I have never met you, but I want to tell you that I am very proud of you and the steps that you are taking to create the life that YOU want for you and Taylor. Sometimes, it does take a life-changing event for us to see that we need to do that. I'll be remembering you in my thoughts and prayers.

Leigh Ann Pyles <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, July 10, 2003 7:52 AM CDT
Shawn, I have never signed your guestbook because I didn't know what to say, being fortunate enough never to have had a sick child. But, I can empathize with your current situation. What you said about realizing that you thrive on talking and laughter and having no one to share that with, hit home with me. You have faced so much sadness in your life, it is your turn to be happy. Know that there are lots of people out there that support what you are doing 100%, and we know that you did not make this decision lightly. I wish that I shared the belief that God heals all marriages, but I just don't know whether that is realistic. I do believe that any chance we get for true happiness, we should take advantage of. You are such a strong woman, and I wish you and Taylor all the best. Know that Reese is with you as you start your new life.
Jennifer
Coweta, OK USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 10:04 PM CDT
Dear Shawn, My heart is breaking. Marriage is a beautiful thing that God created. No God does not want us to be unhappy, but he also never promised a bed a roses. God can take a marriage with problems a mile high and heal that marraige if both or one of the parties will hand it over to him and really hand it over. I have been in the place where I thought nothing could fix my marriage and had many reasons for leaving, with my face in the ground I cried out to God and layed my burdens at His feet. Tears are running down my face, I want so badly to convey how God can heal anything!!!!! He wants to give you the marriage you need and desire. I can happily say, my marriage is better because of the struggles we have endured and God has healed every inch and we are riding one of the strongest storms right now and yet our marriage remains strong. Please pray more before you make any life changing decisions, I do not want to be sticking my nose in it but God pressed heavily on my heart as I read your entry. I know we do not know each other well,but I feel we have a bond because of our childern. I will be praying daily for you and Doug. Please know I only urge you to reconsider because I know what God can do. I love you. Nancy
Nancy and Sam (Nolan Ramsey MPS-1-H www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey)
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 4:32 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, Doug, Taylor and ^Reese^,
Just wanted you all to know that I am thinking of you...


Robin Tucker
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 3:24 PM CDT
I am sorry about the difficulties that you and your family are going through. Life is not fair and it sure seems to be harder on some people than others. I think you have had your share and now you deserve some happiness. I hope you find it.
God Bless!
MORGAN'S PAGE

Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 2:34 PM CDT
SHAWN,
I HAD MIXED EMOTIONS AS I READ YOUR JOURNAL ENTRY. FIRST AND FOREMOST, I THINK IT IS ALWAYS SAD WHEN ANY MARRIAGE REACHES THE POINT TO WHERE ONE OR BOTH WANTS OR NEEDS OUT. I TRULY BELIEVE THAT GOD DOES WANT EVERYBODY TO BE HAPPY AND NOT UNHAPPY OR MISERABLE. I DO NOT KNOW YOU AND DOUG, SO I WOULDN'T KNOW THE POSITVIES AND NEGATIVES TO THE SITUATION. IF I READ AND UNDERSTAND YOUR JOURNAL ENTRY, I AM GLAD THAT THIS IS SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE THOUGHT AND PRAYED TO GOD ABOUT, AND NOT A RESULT OF REESE'S PASSING OR AN EASY OUT. I HOPE THAT BOTH YOU AND DOUG HAVE PRAYED AND ASKED FOR GOD'S WILL. MY HEART DOES GO OUT TO BOTH TAYLOR AND REESE. TAYLOR HAS BEEN THRU SO MUCH. FOR REESE I ASK GOD TO GIVE HIM UNDERSTANDING OF THIS. I HOPE THAT NONE OF THIS SEEMS NEGATIVE, I DO NOT MEAN FOR IT TO. BECAUSE IF THIS IS WHAT IS BEST AND WILL LEAD BOTH YOU AND DOUG TO HAPPINESS, THAN I AM SAD THAT IT HAPPEN, BUT ALSO HAPPY THAT YOU BOTH WILL GET A CHANCE TO BE HAPPY AND ENJOY YOUR DAILY LIFE. I WILL SAY A PRAYER FOR BOTH OF YOU TONIGHT AND THE BOYS. I WISH BOTH OF YOU THE BEST AND HOPE/PRAY THAT GOD WILL PROVIDE THE GRACE, STRENGHT, DIRECTION AND PEACE THAT YOU WILL NEED IN THE COMING DAYS


JEFF BECK
MT AIRY, NC - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 12:40 AM CDT
I'm happy to hear about the house you are trying to get. I'm praying everyday for you and Taylor. Hope you find the happiness you are looking for. I'm sure you will.
Jennifer

Jennifer Awrey caringbridge.com/me/morgan <ammawrey@aol.com>
Mesa, AZ - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 12:17 AM CDT
Shawn-
I'm sorry to hear about the seperation, but I know you have to do what is best for you (and maybe for you all). I miss you so much and hope to see you again before we take Jordan back to Illinois. I really am going to call you soon, so e-mail (iteach2u@hotmail.com) me and let me know the best way to get in touch with you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 11:03 AM CDT
Shawn,
I admire your courage in this difficult decision. I know firsthand what you are experiencing as I have gone through basically the same situation in my current relationship. It's hard to be an outsider, never feeling like you completely "fit in" with the group. May you and Taylor know only God's peace during this journey and may you continue to be the strong person God intends for you to be. Just remember that when you emerge from this "furnace" you will NOT smell like smoke because God is right there with you and you will emerge victorious. Take care and keep your eyes focused upwards. God bless!!!!

Donna F.
Thomasville, NC - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 6:56 AM CDT
No such thing as normal I guess..I wanted to say hello and let you know you're in my prayers. About your seperation..I'm sorry it didn't work outand you know what you want out of life. And that is a good thing..to know yourself. The best to you and your family! Take care now
Love and prayers-

Jen Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 6:33 AM CDT
Normal is defined differently to all of us so who are any of us to judge...I think you are brave and very strong to seek your normal...especially after losing Reese - you could have just curled up and accepted life as it was handed to you but instead you are moving ahead and finding happiness finding peace- a new pod for you and your little peas - Reese will be with you no matter where you are and knows like Taylor does that his Mommy and Daddy love him always ...I know that you are an inspiration to me...
*
- Tuesday, July 8, 2003 10:52 PM CDT
You are in my prayers. I wish you luck in everything you do.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC 27023 - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 8:24 PM CDT
I just wanted to say that you all are still in my prayers and I hope you all will find happiness in your lives. I too know what it is like to be with someone who is completely different (my first husband) and it takes ALOT of courage to leave and find out who you are again. I wish you the best of luck and Doug too, I know there is someone for everyone out there. I am here for you if you ever need me.

Love in Christ,

Christie Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 8:21 PM CDT
Normal is not real anyway...Society imposes an idea of normal and we are supposed to fall in there somewhere...I love you all so much and I know that you have approached this all in prayer...you are a awesome and beautiful mommy...you will figure out your normal and the rest will evolve from there...Love you!
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Tuesday, July 8, 2003 5:33 PM CDT
I wish you lots of luck on your decision and pray that everything will work out for the best. God bless you

Reese I'm sending you lots of hugs and kisses up to heavon :) Let your mommy feel your prescence so she knows she has her guardian angel watching over her.

sally torres <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 4:41 PM CDT
shawn, just checking in to see how u r doing. praying for you all. i chat with noreen and your dad. ask about you often.
PENNY CLARK <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
BASSETT, VA - Monday, July 7, 2003 10:59 PM CDT
I usually wait to sign in after you update but wanted to take a few minutes to let you know that you all were o my mid today...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <www.forcody.org>
- Monday, July 7, 2003 10:27 PM CDT
Just checking in and letting you know that we are thinking of you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, July 7, 2003 3:31 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today. Hope you've had a nice fourth of July weekend.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, July 6, 2003 4:13 PM CDT
I was reading through the website in search of peace and comfort. Your son's story and pictures were very soothing to me. I teach in a Catholic school in LA and one of my students passed away very suddenly and not long after that, my daughter lost her step-sister. Dealing with grief and loss have become big subjects at home and work. Your picture of Reese and Jesus is beautiful. If it's ok with you, I'd love to print it and hang it in my classroom. The kids love to picture Jesus in familiar and "human" settings. God bless you and yours. You will be in my prayers!
Melanie Pruett <mpruett92@aol.com>
Sulphur, LA USA - Friday, July 4, 2003 9:31 PM CDT
Hi,
I read a lot of caringbridge sites. I work for an organization that helps children with cancer, and I started reading the sites to find out what the families were going throuhg. I very rarely sign guestbooks because I don't know what to say, and I usually don't feel like I could possibly help. But I wanted to be able to tell you this. I just finished reading all of your journal entries, and I cried. Because your little Reese was so beautiful. He was. I guess I want to tell you that I am one more person who will remember him.
May you be blessed, in all things.

a.
NY - Thursday, July 3, 2003 9:06 PM CDT
Hey Shawn ... just checking in on you...hoping things are going ok for you and each day is getting a little easier.
Hope you have a good 4th of July weekend. You are ALWAYS in my prayers!!!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Thursday, July 3, 2003 5:50 PM CDT
Hi Shawn --just stopping by to say hello and let you know that I'm thinking of you. The pictures are just beautiful. I really miss you, Reece and Toni. Keep strong and enjoy every moment with Taylor and your family. May God continue to hold you in His arms and give you strength.
Pat Bingham <www.caringbridge.com/mi/isaiah>
Swartz Creek, MI - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 8:01 AM CDT
Hi! I am McKenzie Schoenleb's Grandma, Nadine DeBerry. My daughter Christina gave me your web address. The picture of Reese and Jesus is beautiful. Take care and God bless you. Nadine
Nadine DeBerry <joenadinedb@zoomintetnet.net>
Rockport, WV US - Tuesday, July 1, 2003 5:56 PM CDT
When reading your question about God----------

we are here to serve Him. He is not here to serve us.

another cancer mom
- Tuesday, July 1, 2003 3:45 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and always.. I check your site everyday.. His sweet little face keeps me coming back for more. Prayers to your family from mine...God Bless
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Tuesday, July 1, 2003 12:46 AM CDT
Hey Reesie cup!
You are still the first site I check every morning...I think of you constantly and smile everytime:)

Hey Shawn,
Please tell Doug and Taylor I said Hello...I hope you guys are doing good and enjoying these hot summer days:)

Robin Tucker
- Tuesday, July 1, 2003 9:07 AM CDT
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
Just wanted you to know that you remain in our thoughts and prayers. We pray that you are doing well, and that you have a safe and wonderful 4th of July holiday weekend. God bless,
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, June 30, 2003 11:20 PM CDT
Shawn,
Thinking of you....have a great week.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, June 30, 2003 9:10 AM CDT
HEY SHAWN, JUST CHECKING THE SITE TO SEE HOW YOU ARE DOING. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT YOU ARE NOT ON MY MIND AND IN MY PRAYERS. I STOPPED BY THE CEMETARY AGAIN TONIGHT AND REESE'S FLOWERS WERE UPRIGHT, GUESS THAT HE HAS NOT BEEN PLAYING SOCCER WITH THE NEW VASE... I HOPE THAT AS THE DAYS PASS YOU ARE COMFORTED BY HAPPY MEMORIES OF THAT CUTE LITTLE SMILING FACE. TAKE CARE

STEPHANIE BECK
- Sunday, June 29, 2003 8:03 PM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
Just checking in. Hope that everything is going well. Have a good weekend and good week. Praying for you all. God Bless!

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Sunday, June 29, 2003 5:25 AM CDT
Shawn
I miss you sooo much and I think of you all the time.I hope we can get together one day real soon.I got your email and I am sorry it took me so long to get back with you.I have sooo many things to talk to you about but I would end up with carple tunnel before I could wrap it up.I guess we are going to have to make a phone date for one day real soon!Please tell your family I said "Hello"
I went out to Mckenzies grave and left her the message from you.Please know you are forever in my heart.Our children are together running around in heaven....Mckenzie loved Reese and I am positive she is enjoying every moment with him.She was a wonderful big sister and I have asked her to always stand beside Reese and keep him close with her.I will be talking to you soon.God bless your family!

PS
The portrait is beautiful...what an awsome gift!

Christina Angel Mckenzies mommy <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
cleveland, nc - Sunday, June 29, 2003 1:13 AM CDT
To Reese's loving and devoted parents,
The portrait of Reese in the arms of Jesus is so precious. We continue to pray that you will have peace in knowing that Reese is truly cuddled up in the arms of our Almighty Lord and Savior. May God bless you as you bless others.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Saturday, June 28, 2003 2:42 PM CDT
Shawn, Words are Few, PRAYERS ARE MANY!!!!!!
LOVE YOU MUCH!!!!

Betsy
- Saturday, June 28, 2003 11:33 AM CDT
I am the mother of 2 children with Hurlers. I followed your journey with Reese.My son Tommy is 6 and had his BMT Jan/99...I have a 3 month old who has Hurlers too.I also have a 8 yr daughter who is a carrier and was a perfect match for her brother.Your words about your faith and God help me alot. I am very weak and angry right now. My daughter, Kaitlyn who is almost 3 months was a heathly baby. I was tested at 11 weeks preganet and the results which were 99.9 % UNAFFECTED with Hurlers.I just want to say that you are helping me with your updates from afar. Thank you...Susan
Susan Ries <www.caringbridge.org/page/tommyries>
Jacksonville, FL - Saturday, June 28, 2003 10:52 AM CDT
I am the mother of 2 children with Hurlers. I followed your journey with Reese.My son Tommy is 6 and had his BMT Jan/99...I have a 3 month old who has Hurlers too.I also have a 8 yr daughter who is a carrier and was a perfect match for her brother.Your words about your faith and God help me alot. I am very weak and angry right now. My daughter, Kaitlyn who is almost 3 months was a heathly baby. I was tested at 11 weeks preganet and the results which were 99.9 % UNAFFECTED with Hurlers.I just want to say that you are helping me with your updates from afar. Thank you...Susan
Susan Ries <www.caringbridge.org/page/tommyries>
Jacksonville, FL - Saturday, June 28, 2003 10:52 AM CDT
I just wanted to say that the story of your boy Reese and the faith he had, and the faith you have, has truly touched my heart. Reese is touching people's lives as I'm writing this, and I pray that you can find some comfort in Christ knowing that this happened so that God's glory could be shown. I'm almost 15 years old and I added Reese & his family to my prayers, he's helping me grow as a christian. Your son has changed the little things about me and the portrait of Jesus and Reese was absolutely precious. In Christ's love, thank you.
Steph Houk <lilstephie007@hotmail.com>
Clovis, CA USA - Friday, June 27, 2003 8:41 PM CDT
The portrait is just beautiful, it brings tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss, Reese is a beautiful child. (My 11 yr. old son is dx. with MPS II) God Bless!
Kris Klenke <kris@mpssociety.org>
Worden, IL - Friday, June 27, 2003 8:34 PM CDT
The portrait of Reese in the arms of Jesus is so beautiful. It must give you great comfort to look at it and give thanks for what He did for all of us. I will pray that as each day passes the pain of not having Reese here with you on earth will lessen. I am so thankful that you are a Christian and know that you will someday see Reese again and spend eternity together.
In Him,

Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Friday, June 27, 2003 10:20 AM CDT
Hey Shawn...Just checking in..hope you are having a good week and are staying cool!!! Just wanted you to know that you are on my mind and in my prayers!!! I will be at C-Comm Friday, Saturday and Sunday from 8am-6pm....if you're out and about and happen to come thru that way, stop and see us!!!! Hope you have a good weekend...and "Toni" if you happen to read this, you are in my thoughts and prayers too!!!
Love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Thursday, June 26, 2003 5:40 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
Stopping by to see if you had a new journal entry. I will check back this weekend. I hope Doug and Taylor are doing great...please tell them I said "Hello". I hope you have a wonderful weekend.

Robin Tucker
- Thursday, June 26, 2003 9:18 AM CDT
I can't help but tell you how it amazes me each and every time I read your entries and the guestbook. You are the one that received such a tragic blow, yet you are the one that seems to lift everyone else's spirits. You are truly a soldier for Christ and through Him, you are reaching out to so many people. People just like myself come to check on you from time to time and each time I come I receive a blessing. If noone has said it in a while, Thank You!! Keep pressing onward sister, a better day awaits you.....love in Christ.

Still Blessed
East Bend, NC USA - Thursday, June 26, 2003 8:26 AM CDT
Remembering Reese

Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)




Tracy and Katia
- Wednesday, June 25, 2003 2:26 PM CDT
I have not signed your book for awhile but I do check in quite often. The picture is just breath taking. I know that all these swwet babies are in Jesus loving arms. I lost a son nearly 10 yers ago too..he was an adult, but still my baby in my heart...... I do think of you and pray for you...where would we all be with out the knowledge of GOD, and all that is in that knowledge.
Sharon <mopgal@hotmail.com>
Dardanelle, ar - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 11:47 AM CDT
Oh Shawn! That portrait is so BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! Thanks for sharing it with us!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Tuesday, June 24, 2003 8:42 PM CDT
Hi,

I signed your guestbook when little Reese passed. I just wanted to let you know that I still check your site everyday. There's is just something about his precious little face that I love to see. You and your family have touched my heart and my spirit and I just want to say thank you for giving of yourself to me - a stranger to you.

Sincerely,


Liz <lizzymama@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 0:06 AM CDT
Hi Shawn,
You don't know me as I have never signed in, but I have used to check in on Angel Reese a little bit when he was still with us and Angel McKenzie's mommy would ask us to check on him. I just wanna say I'm very sorry for your loss, even though it has been a few months since your precious baby went to Heaven, I know you are still hurting. I lost my mom to cancer in September last year and I am still hurting! I just wanted to come by and let you know that I have added Angel Reese to my special angel list on my mom's caringbridge site on request by Leah Wilson. The photos of Reese are soooooooooo adorable!!! He really was such a beautiful baby :) I am keeping your whole family in my prayers...have a wonderful summer..

Girlie's Page
Janice's Page

Love & prayers,
XOXOXOXO

Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, June 23, 2003 8:45 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you, when I see the picture of Reese when I click on the site it put a smile on my face! I will check back later to see if you have updated...
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, June 23, 2003 9:09 AM CDT
That portrait is just beautiful. What a great job that was done. That is just so heartwarming. Thank you for sharing that! Love, Tracy

Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)



Tracy and Katia
- Friday, June 20, 2003 1:37 PM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
We think of you all so very often, and praying that you are doing well. We cannot tell you how grateful we are to you all for the tremendous kindness and support that you have shown to our family. Thank you and God bless you guys. Peace,
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Friday, June 20, 2003 1:14 PM CDT
Shawn, the picture is beautiful... words just can't explain. Thanks for sharing it.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Thursday, June 19, 2003 4:13 PM CDT
Dear Shawn, Thank you so much for sharing that picture of Reese with Jesus. What a comfort looking at that picture must bring you. I know it brought a calm feeling to me just imagining the feeling our children must have experienced when Jesus put his arms around them in heaven. It is still so hard getting through the day but keeping that image in my mind will be a comfort. It is truly a beautiful picture of Reese and what a wonderful gift to give your husband on Father's Day.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Wednesday, June 18, 2003 8:56 PM CDT
I like to think that stars are God's way of giving us a glimpse into heaven. Find the brightest star in the sky - there is Reese.
Elizabeth Bechard
Winston Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 3:30 PM CDT
Shawn,
I know that picture had to give you a sense of peace beyond words! It is so beautiful! What a wonderful way to remember Reese, safe in the arms of Jesus.

Love,

Robin Tucker
- Wednesday, June 18, 2003 12:46 AM CDT
I love the beautiful picture of Reese and Jesus, I am hoping that the same Debbie that wrote on Noah's guestbook doesn't get to your guestbook, she wrote some nasty things on Noah's site at this difficult time and didn't leave her email address. I am still thinking of you in prayers. I check your site everyday to see how you're doing.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC USA - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 7:41 AM CDT
Wow! What a great picture. I am here smiling and crying all at once and thinking of you and your family. The picture will be treasured now and always by your family and what a sweet gift to not be charged! Renews our faith that there are still good caring people in the world.
Shelley Angle <rsangle@sbcglobal.net>
KS - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 11:18 PM CDT
What a beautiful picture..wow!
Heather Grell <hiyah75@lycos.com>
Brainerd, MN - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 10:42 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

What a beautiful picture! At first I wanted to cry when I saw it but all I could do was smile from ear to ear. Please give Taylor a hug and tell him THANK YOU for sharing his dream with us all.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Tuesday, June 17, 2003 9:49 PM CDT
You have brought a beautiful vision seen through Taylor's eyes to life in the painting of Jesus and Reese. It is absolutely beautiful!!! It brings tears, smiles and comfort to all of us who love you and your family. Keep up your spirits and let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I am only a few steps away.....
Robin West <robin.west@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC US - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 9:11 AM CDT
That is the most precious picture that I have ever set my eyes on!! How gorgeous!! I had to wipe tears from my eyes. That is so wonderful. Wow! I hope that you are all well. In my thoughts and prayers always. God Bless and again what a beautiful picture.
Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 5:45 AM CDT
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PICTURE! IT JUST TOOK MY BREATH AND BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES. IT LOOKS SO REAL, AS IF SOMEONE STEPPED INTO HEAVEN AND DID IT IN PERSON. WOW! WHAT A PRIZE POSESSION YOU HAVE TO TREASURE. AND, INDEED, REESE IS SAFE IN THE ARMS OF JESUS. I'M SO GLAD YOU HAVE THE PICTURE, AND THE DAILY REMINDER, THAT HE IS "SAFE IN THE ARMS OF JESUS". TAKE CARE. YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS.
BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Monday, June 16, 2003 6:11 PM CDT
I love the picture of Reese in Jesus' arms! What a great idea that was! You all amaze me with you strength and ofcourse your unwavering faith. I want for you all to know that I always see Reese's precious face and that you all are always on my mind and in my prayers. I love you all.
Leah Wilson
NC - Monday, June 16, 2003 1:24 PM CDT
I can't stop the tears from flowing. I meet your mother-in-law in Lowes food Monday June 9, 2003. She asked if I worked at Wachovia, because I had on my uniform. I work at the data center on silas creek. I've heard about you and the website before but never had the nerve to logon. My heart and prayers go out to you. Hang in there!
Lavonne Penn <lavonne.penn@wachovia.com>
Mount Airy, NC usa - Monday, June 16, 2003 12:37 AM CDT
a picture that is worth more than a thousand words.
jeff beck
mt airy, nc - Monday, June 16, 2003 12:01 AM CDT
Oh Thank you so much for sharing the photo of Reese and Jesus!
It is beautiful..and I especailly love the "crooked grin"..that is so Reese!
Love always...
Kim

~KODYS STORY~
- Monday, June 16, 2003 8:58 AM CDT
What a beautiful picture of Reese with Jesus!!! God bless you!
Katrina Wickens
St. Paul, MN - Monday, June 16, 2003 8:27 AM CDT
I just wanted to thank you, Shawn for sharing that wonderful drawing with us. God bless you for your strength and wisdom as you go through each day. Reese is very proud of all of you!!!
Leigh Ann Pyles <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Monday, June 16, 2003 7:48 AM CDT
Shawn,
That is such a beautiful picture you had made. Please tell Doug that I hope he had a wonderful Father's Day. I hope you have a great day! God Bless. In my prayers always.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, June 16, 2003 7:23 AM CDT
Shawn, the picture is awesome. Happy Father's Day to Doug. He will always be Taylor and Reece's Dad. Take care.
Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, June 16, 2003 6:42 AM CDT
Shawn, The picture of Reese in Jesus arms is so beautiful. I couldn't help but cry thinking about him in Jesus arms. I know what comfort this must give you. Love in Christ, Pat
Pat Reed <mamawpj@chartertn.net>
Maryville, Tn U.S.A. - Monday, June 16, 2003 6:38 AM CDT
Absolutely beautiful! Enjoy it and let it bring peace to your heart.
Nancy & Ed Aman <nancyaman@charter.net>
Sanford, NC - Monday, June 16, 2003 5:34 AM CDT
Words cannot express how beautiful and amazing that picture is. I know as a mother and father you must feel so lucky to have a sort of view of where your little boy is. Now every day it is a reminder when you look at it that reese is safe in the arms of Jesus. Praise God

Josie Pynn www.caringbridge.org/canada/ayden <josie_pynn@yahoo.com>
Pembroke, ON Canada - Sunday, June 15, 2003 10:40 PM CDT
The picture is absolutely beautiful!! What a heartwarming picture for you all to see everyday. Our family thinke of you all often, thank-you for sharing this beautiful picture with us all.
Love, lexi, orion, jon, and nicole
- Sunday, June 15, 2003 10:14 PM CDT
Just stopping in to say "Happy Father's Day Doug"!!! I know that Reese is so proud to call you "daddy"! I can see him running around Heaven hollaring to the other kids, "see that man, the one driving the firetruck and helping people? Yep, that's my Daddy"!!! His little eyes just a twinkling! Doug, I have told you many times how your family has touched my life!! I am so proud of the person that you are and the blessing that you and your family have been to me!
God bless you and Happy Father's Day!! Reese is looking down on you and Taylor is looking up to you!!! Always in my prayers!!!
Little Bobby aka Sharon @ C-comm!!

Shawn...you never cease to amaze me!!! The picture of Reese and Jesus is beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing it with us!!
When you are feeling down, look at that picture and think how lucky we are that God gave His only son that we may be saved from our sins and dwell in His house forever!! Love ya!!



Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Sunday, June 15, 2003 9:45 PM CDT
Happy Father's Day Doug! Today, as everyday, your family is in our prayers. Shawn, I know that has to be one of the most precious pictures that I have ever seen. Thank you for sharing it!
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, June 15, 2003 8:04 PM CDT
Happy Father's Day Doug! What a beautiful way to remember Reese...it is gorgeous! She did a fabulous job. We continue to think and pray for you often. God bless.
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Sunday, June 15, 2003 6:31 PM CDT
Happy Father's Day Doug. Prayers and Love from Maine.
Chris & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
- Sunday, June 15, 2003 2:04 PM CDT
Signing in to let you know I'm thinking about you this Father's Day and lifting you up in prayer to our Lord. Blessings!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, June 15, 2003 1:57 PM CDT
Happy Fathers Day Doug!! As well as Shawn is a wonderful mother, you too are a wonderful father! I hope that you have a good Father's Day and God Bless!

Hope that all is well this weekend. As always praying for you and all of your family.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Sunday, June 15, 2003 6:25 AM CDT
HAPPY FATHER"S DAY DOUG!

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ and www.helpachild.net <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, June 14, 2003 10:53 PM CDT

Random Acts of Kindness

*HUGS*
Australia - Friday, June 13, 2003 9:53 AM CDT
Shawn,
Good morning! I hope that you are well today. Thank you for updating on Christy's site. I was getting worried about her. I hope that you week has been good and I hope that the weekend is better. I am always thinking and praying for you and your family. I hope that Taylor had a good vacation. Again have a great weekend and look forward to more updates. God Bless!

Stephanie Conenr
Cana, Va - Friday, June 13, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
Hi Shawn,
I love the memory box for Reese that you made and the family picture. It sounds like God is guiding and comforting you at the same time. I think of you often and am sending lots of hugs!

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Thursday, June 12, 2003 5:12 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that we are still thinking about you and praying for you each day. God bless you.
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Thursday, June 12, 2003 2:02 PM CDT
Hi, my name is Jamie and Im not exactly sure how I came apon your site, some how through my friend who's son has leukimia, they also have a caringbridge site. I found your site months ago and I check back every week or so. I am completly amazed at the strength your family has. I have a daughter that is 19 months old and I cant even begin to imagine what your family has gone through. I just wanted to write and say hi since I do come to the site often. Its nice to know sometimes, that people do care eventhough you may have never met them. May God Bless your family with much love.
Jamie Givens <jlg4uandme@aol>
NH - Thursday, June 12, 2003 1:32 PM CDT
A note to let you all know that. we are thinking of you.love joey and frankie mandy and mary floyd http://wtv-zone.com/limeylady/pabos/angel.html
Frankie <ARomanov@webtv.net>
Mount airy, nc usa - Thursday, June 12, 2003 11:19 AM CDT
Hello Shawn. Thankyou so much for signing Laney's guestbook. We are so awful for not getting the web page done sooner, but I guess now is better than never. I check on you daily to read your entries. I think about you and that precious little Reese all the time. I wish we had gotten the chance to get to know eachother. I pray for you to have strength to conquer everyday with all of those loving memories. Evertime I look at the picture of Reese my eyes fill up with tears. But you know, that little man is up in Heaven looking after all his other Hurler brothers and sisters. God Bless them all! Continue to be strong and take care of yourself. Sending lots of love your way!
Beth Anne Biggs <biggslaneyb@aol.com>
Rogersville, TN - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 10:36 PM CDT
Well done my friend, God is speaking to many through you.
Love, Nancy

nancy ramsey (nolan ramsey www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 7:30 PM CDT
HELLO SHAWN, I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU AND HOPING YOU ARE DOING BETTER EACH DAY. I KNOW THE HEARTACHE NEVER GOES AWAY BUT DIMS SOME WITH EACH PASSING DAY. I PRAY THAT YOU AND THE FAMILY ARE DOING GOOD AND HOPE TAYLOR IS HAVING A GREAT SUMMER. CALL IF YOU NEED ME FOR ANYTHING! LOVE AND PRAYERS ALWAYS.
KAYE JOYCE <gregjoyce@rjia.net>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 2:20 PM CDT
What a beautiful testimonial! You inspire me. Thank you for your honesty. Thank you for sharing. In God's Love and mine,

Wendy Ruth

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 1:23 PM CDT
What a beautiful testimonial! You inspire me. Thank you for your honesty. Thank you for sharing. In God's Love and mine,

Wendy Ruth

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 1:22 PM CDT
What a beautiful journal entry (June 10). I really needed those words of encouragement today. Thank you.
Kim Rutherford <kimruth1@utk.edu>
Knoxville, TN USA - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 12:29 AM CDT
Thank you for sharing from your heart and thank you for the excerpt from the book. I am facing a trial right now and it was just what I needed to remind me that it's all in God's hands and that all I need to worry about right now is this moment. God will take care of me right now and in the future and I don't need to worry about the future. Fortitude is my new word - thanks. May you be blessed with fortitude also and know that others are praying for you.
Nancy & Ed Aman <nancyaman@charter.net>
Sanford, NC - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 6:02 AM CDT
Hi Shawn,
Great last entry. Very comforting words you have passed on. I am going to share this with a few close friends who could really use it right now. Thinking of you and Reese often and I am so glad you are leaning on God to help you through!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 5:49 AM CDT
Shawn, I got your message, we were on the mountain, too
late to call tonight I will talk to you tomorrow. REESE
also got a red balloon today at 2:45. LOVE YOU MUCH!!!!

Betsy
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 10:47 PM CDT
Yeah! Im so happy that Monday was a good one! Im very proud of you. You may want to pick up "Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul". One of my friends who lost her mom to cancer recently bought it and it seems to be an excellent book! Just know that not a day goes by that I don't think of you and your family and ofcourse your precious little Reese!
Leah Wilson
NC - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 8:10 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, I have not signed your book in a while, but I faithfully check on you guys. You are never far from my thoughts and prayers as you struggle with each day.
Your words are so true. I have met so many good Christian people since Morgan's ordeal began and so many times I wonder why such terrible things are happening to these wonderful families. But truthfully, those who do not have faith would never survive this. God does cover us in his love and gives us the promise that one day we will all be reunited in a place with no cancer, or Hurler's, or bone marrow transplant units. We struggle in life because it gives us a true appreciation of what our final reward will be like.
I am glad that you continue writing in Reese's journey. You have a wonderful testimony and are using this in service of our Lord.
MORGAN'S PAGE

Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 7:33 PM CDT
You are such a wonderful Mom... you entry was beautiful!

Love,

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 4:17 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

You have written beautifully time after time so many of the emotions I have felt myself. I think you are a great instrument for our Lord as a living example of what it's like to walk with Him.

A coworker and friend of mine sent me a message after reading an article about Cameron on Crosswalk.com. She wrote, "I have a quote on my refrigerator that says something like "It is doubtful that God will ever use you greatly until He has allowed you to be hurt deeply". If everything were always smooth sailing, we'd never grow to the extent that we do when we have to fully rely on God. I admire you. You are a living testimony as to how God can get us through the most difficult thing that a parent would ever have to endure. I have no doubt that God has a plan to "use you greatly".

I think I must pass that along to you. You are a blessing to me.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 4:15 PM CDT
That was a beautiful entry - Wishing you God's continued grace and strength
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 3:58 PM CDT
Shawn, you have written yet another beautiful entry. God's grace is something that we all need to hear about. I just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you, especially today. "May the love of God grant you peace and the love of friends bring you comfort".
Robin Boger
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 3:32 PM CDT
I lost my son Jake from Hurlers just a year ago aged 16 months. I too rarely dream of him but last night he came to me and sat on my knee. He said "there's mummy, there's daddy, there's Tom (his brother)" he cuddled me and then was gone. He was deaf just like Reece and I never heard him speak when he was alive. It was as if he was telling me he could now hear and speak and was still watching us and knew we where there and he was ok. It made me feel good and when I woke up I kissed his picture and thanked him for making me feel a little better. I hope this gives you some comfort. Reece will let you know he's ok.
Helen in England
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 2:11 PM CDT
Hello Shawn...
Whew..what a update...I think that we all need to be reminded that "God's grace is sufficient". We all get caught up in our day to day activities and tend to forget that God can carry us anything that we have to face. Like you say, it may not be a situation that we like, but He is there by our side, if we will only turn to Him. I am so blessed to have such wonderful Christian friends and colleagues. This past weekend, I was in school in Wilson, NC and 2 very good friends...one who is a pastor and the other a wonderful Christian woman, on Friday night, we had a devotion time in our motel room. We read some scripture and a devotion...it was only the 3 of us...when the pastor asked if we had any special requests for prayer, you were on my mind so strongly...I beared my soul to them as to all that you and your family has been through and how terribly hard all this is and how not hardly a hour out of the day goes by that I don't think of you and whisper a prayer!!! We had a long prayer that night and prayed that God will help you, Doug, Taylor and all the rest of the family through this.

Shawn, you will never realize how much Reese's life and your family have touched other people, people that have never met you, but God has burdened their heart for you. You have so many people praying for you and God is always right there by your side, carrying you when you don't feel you can make it through!

Well, I have babbled on long enough...just want you to know that I am always here and always checking in on you!!!
Love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 12:14 AM CDT
JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT I VISIT THIS PAGE EVERYDAY. ALOT OF TIMES I DON'T LEAVE AN ENTRY, SIMPLY BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. I STILL PRAY FOR GOD TO TOUCH YOUR LIVES IN THE WAY THAT IS NEEDED. I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WHEN I READ YOUR ENTRY TODAY, IT TOUCHED ME. WHEN YOU TALKED ABOUT THE GRACE OF GOD. HOW HE JUST GIVES YOU ENOUGH FOR THE MOMENT, NOT ENOUGH FOR TODAY AND TOMORROW AT THE SAME TIME, THIS IS SO TRUE. I HAVE EXPERIENCED THE GRACE OF GOD IN MY OWN LIFE WHEN MY FIRST HUSBAND PASSED AWAY AT AGE 24 IN 1998. I WOKE UP EVERY MORNING ASKING HOW I WAS GOING TO MAKE IT THROUGH THE DAY, IT SEEMED LIKE THE HARDEST THING TO DO, BUT SOMEHOW, I MADE IT THROUGH THE DAY. I MADE IT THROUGH EVERYDAY, EVEN THOUGH IT WAS NOT EASY. I TAKE THAT BACK, I DIDN'T MAKE IT THROUGH EVERYDAY, GOD LED ME THROUGH EVERY DAY. I REMEMBER THE PREACHER SAYING AT HIS FUNERAL, "THERE WILL BE GRACE". AT THAT TIME I REALLY DID NOT KNOW WHAT THAT PREACHER MEANT, CAUSE I FELT AS IF I WERE IN A DEEP HOLE THAT I WOULD NEVER COME OUT OF AND SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY. IT HAS BEEN FIVE YEARS AND I THINK EVERYDAY HOW I MADE IT THROUGH. GOD'S GRACE IS ALWAYS THE ANSWER. I REMEMBER SITTING IN MY MAMA'S CHAIR AND GLANCED OVER AT THE CALENDER AND THAT DAY MARKED THE 8TH MONTH THAT HE HAD PASSED AWAY. I ASKED MYSELF "HOW HAVE I MADE IT THIS FAR?" THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN THE POEM FOOTPRINTS POPPED IN MY MIND. THAT WAS WHEN I REALIZED I DIDN'T MAKE IT THROUGH BY MYSELF, CAUSE THERE WAS ONLY ONE SET OF FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND DURING MY HARDEST TIMES, BUT THEY DID NOT BELONG TO ME, THEY BELONGED TO GOD, CAUSE IT WAS THE HARDEST TIMES I WENT THROUGH THAT HE CARRIED ME. GOD IS GOOD. HE WILL MEET YOUR NEEDS. GOD'S GRACE IS ALWAYS SUFFICIENT. BUT MOST OF ALL, YOU CAN'T GO TO WALMART AND BUY GOD'S GRACE, GOD'S GRACE COMES FROM GOD AND THERE IS NO CHARGE FOR IT. I LOVE GOD, HE IS GOOD. HE WILL MEET YOUR NEEDS MS. SHAWN. I KNOW YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A HARD TIME. JUST ALWAYS REMEMBER GOD IS THERE. YOU WILL NEVER GET OVER THE PAIN. BUT, WITH THE DIVINE GRACE OF GOD, IT WILL GET EASIER. PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR BABBLING ON ABOUT MY OWN LIFE, BUT THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR REMINDING ME ABOUT THE GRACE OF GOD. PLEASE TAKE CARE, AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THERE IS ALWAYS PEOPLE OUT THERE PRAYING FOR YOU, AND GOD IS ALWAYS THERE LISTENING!
BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:13 AM CDT
THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BY THAT I DO NOT THINK OF YOU. LAST WEEK MY SON, SPENCER, WAS VERY SICK AND RAN A HIGH FEVER. FOR THE FEW HOURS BEFORE WE KNEW THAT IT WAS STREP I WAS REMINDED OF THE MANY LONG DAYS THAT YOU SPENT WATCHING, HOLDING, AND PRAYING FOR REECE TO GET BETTER. AS A MAMA WE ARE SUPPOSED TO MAKE ALL THINGS BETTER FOR OUR CHILDREN. I HAVE ASKED "WHY" FOR YOU A MILLION TIMES AND A MILLION TIMES I HAVE FELT THAT THERE WAS AN ANSWER BUT I COULD NOT HEAR IT.... ONE DAY WE WILL ALL KNOW WHAT THE ANSWER IS BUT FOR NOW WE HAVE TO HOLD ONTO THE FACT THAT EACH DAY BRINGS US ONE DAY CLOSER TO THE ANSWER.
WE STOPPED BY THE CEMETARY LAST SAT NIGHT AND I TRIED MY HARDEST TO GET THE VASE TO STAND UP BUT IT IS BROKEN OFF AT THE BASE AND WOULD NOT STAND... I PROPPED IT UP AND THEN THE WIND BLEW IT OVER. I PROPPED IT UP AGAIN AND ONCE AGAIN, IT FELL OVER... I STOPPED AND THOUGHT, LITTLE ANGEL REECE IS PROBABLY KNOCKING THAT VASE OVER AND GIGGLING...JUST LIKE ANY OTHER CHILD... YOU PICK UP AND YOU PICK UP AND THEY ALWAYS COME RIGHT BACK AND TURN THE TOYS OVER AGAIN....
I PRAY THAT TODAY HAS BEEN A GOOD DAY... THE SUN SHINING IS LIKE A BABY SMILING DOWN ON US.... BABY REECE IS SMILING FROM HEAVEN......

STEPHANIE BECK
MT AIRY, NC - Monday, June 9, 2003 8:49 PM CDT
Continuing to keep you in my prayers.
Kim Barker
- Monday, June 9, 2003 8:17 AM CDT
I am hoping to soon read another entry telling about the miracle that would be Reese...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Sunday, June 8, 2003 5:56 PM CDT
So glad I found your site again - even if it is hard to read your pain in every line. "Weep with those who weep," the Lord says, and so we do. We ache with you, knowing that losing a child is impossible to bear without help.

Praise the Lord that you know that Reesie Cup is safe and with Christ. Praise the Lord that you have had dreams where you got to hold him once again. Praise the Lord that one day, much sooner than you can appreciate now, you will get to hold him again and never need to let him go.

"We are encompassed about with a great cloud of witnesses." Hebrews 12:1

Carolyn Wyman <sythismom@yahoo.com>
Belding, MI - Sunday, June 8, 2003 4:58 PM CDT
Shawn,
I think your journal entries, although difficult, are therapeutic for you and others who may be going through the same experience. You once again, are an inspiration!! I think of you and sweet Reesecup every day and miss you greatly. Please keep strong and trust in your faith.
Bethany

Bethany Kistler
Elon, NC USA - Saturday, June 7, 2003 11:53 AM CDT
Hi, my name is Jennifer, we have never met, but I saw your child's name and web site address and thought I'd read about your child. I had a daughter named Morgan who died December 13, 2002 from Hurler's also. She was 8 months post transplant. I am sorry about your loss. I know how it feels and it still is taking me lots of time to deal with it. Just keep your hopes up and know that everyday your baby Reese loves you and you need to get out of bed and continue with whatever it is you need to do because someday you will see him again. I know I still go through this, and I'm not sure if you are now, but it may be like this one day and I just want you to know I am praying for you.
Jennifer Awrey

Jennifer Awrey www.caringbridge.org/me/morgan <ammawrey@aol.com>
Mesa, AZ - Friday, June 6, 2003 10:37 PM CDT
Shawn,
You can write all of those entries that you want to. It is good to vent. Holding it all inside is bad. That is what we are here for. I can only imagine what you feel. I cannot imagine it really though. I know that Reese walks with you and holds your hand, even though you might not feel it. He plays when Taylor plays, is there with you and Doug and is excited for you to come and see him again. I don't think there is a person out there by meeting him or reading about him that has not been touched by Reese and his wonderful mother, father and brother. I thank you again for sharing him with me and the rest of us out here. I love you all and pray for you daily. I pray that your hurt, suffering and pain can be eased. I pray that soon you can be with Reese again. I pray that each morning gets a little easier. Shawn you are so, so strong. You do get up in the mornings, hard or better as it may be, that is something that I don't think that I could do. I admire your strength and honesty in such hard times. Keep that head up and anytime you need to vent, go right ahead. That helps take the load off your chest. Take care and as always, I am praying for you and God bless you and your family.

Stephanie Conner <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Friday, June 6, 2003 9:59 PM CDT
Shawn,
You are a wonderful person and a wonderful mother. Neither of your boys could have asked for more from you. It touches my heart so much to read your entries, having been exactly where you are myself not too long ago. Speaking for all us grieving moms out here, you are an example of courage and strength. God will always give you exactly what you need to get through the days, as long as you trust in HIM (and I know you do!!)... so remember that when you are feeling down. Keep on writing, girl, and get it out here. We will keep on reading and praying and crying along with you!
Cameron's Page
Love and prayers from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Friday, June 6, 2003 5:02 PM CDT
Shawn and family,
You and your family are on my mind several times a day.
I dont even know you or your family, however I feel
close to you because you are my sister in Jesus Christ. I
pray that you will find comfort and peace in the days
to come. Jesus can do anything!! Jesus can bring Reese
to you tonight in a dream. Jesus can bring Reese to you
in a song. Jesus can bring Reese to you in a bible scripture. Jesus can bring Reese to you through Taylor.
Jesus can bring Reese to you in a beautiful day. Reese
is all around you and your family. You can't see him but
his sweet,sweet spirit is there. Reese is an angel of God
and how blessed is he. He is with Our Heavenly Father.
Praise God!! You will see Reese again, and again and again.
No more tears, no more sorrow. I cannot wait for that day
to come. Its getting closer each day. Continue to keep
your faith Shawn, I am praying for you.
Love your sister in Christ,
Stephanie

Stephanie Sawyers
Pinnacle, NC - Friday, June 6, 2003 11:28 AM CDT
Hey Shawn...just a note to say hello and as always was touched by your journal entry!!! Reese was such a special baby and he also has a very special family!!! You and your family are a blessing to my heart. If I have a day that I am feeling down and out...I think about you and all that you and the family have been through and all the other families on the caring bridge sites and I feel so ashamed . My problems are so small compared to what you are going through. I continue to pray for you every day and you and the rest of the family are never far from my thoughts and always close to my heart. I will be out of town in school all weekend, but will check in as soon as I get back!!

Dear little ^Reesiecup^...how much you are missed here on Earth, you will never know...your life has touched so many people!!! Please come see your Mommy tonight in her dreams and let her hold you one more time...she really needs you!!
Keep on looking down on us from up above and we can't wait to see you again..this time in a new body...with no pain, no tears!!! All my love, Sharon



Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Friday, June 6, 2003 8:51 AM CDT
God Bless you today as you face the day. He feels every pain, and sheds every tear with you. I have never met you or ^Reese^, but you have both touched my heart in ways that you can't imagine. Just keep breathing, and the sharpness of the pain will lessen. Allow yourself to heal.

Leigh Ann Pyles <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Friday, June 6, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
Yes, it is perfectly "normal" to feel the way you feel. You are dealing with the loss of a child - no one ever thought that would be easy. You are doing exactly what you have to do to heal in the best way for you. Journaling is very helpful and you have graced us with sharing your thoughts with us. You are slowing moving forward and moving through the process of grief. It will never be over but there WILL be more good days ahead and LESS not-so-good days.
Nancy & Ed Aman <nancyaman@charter.net>
Sanford, NC - Friday, June 6, 2003 5:48 AM CDT
Thank you for your entry in Riley's guest book. I visit Reece's page often, but don't always sign the page. I still keep you in my daily prayers. Your entries are great and will help you heal, keep it up. I pray your days get better or even hours. May God Be With You.
xoxoxoxox......Jeanne

Jeanne Joiner <jeannejoiner@hotmail.com caringbridge.org/ok/rileybear>
Del City, OK USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:42 AM CDT
Shawn, I think of you often and pray that you find comfort and peace. I miss hearing from you. I know it must be hard to visit our site, I always found comfort in your words. Nolan is doing so well sometimes I question why, when so many others are not. I know we too can change in a heartbeat and we do not take ANY thing for granted. I pray that Nolan is a success story, not only for our family but for the many families whose child has lost the battle, if Nolan lives a small part of them lives on with him. He is fighting for all the MPS kids. I just wanted to tell you how much we love you miss you. We only knew each other briefly but you and Reese impacted my life forever. Hang in there sweetie.
Love, Nancy and Nolan

Nancy Ramsey (www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:26 PM CDT
Shawn, I just said a little prayer for you. I know it must be so hard some days. And all the set-backs we hear about with the other children you care so much about is very hard to shake. Try to take a break here and there, get out in the sunshine and take a few deep breaths. God is with you and will continue to get you through your sad moments.
I think about Reese alot. Everytime I see a red balloon I think of him.
God Bless!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor , CT - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 12:32 AM CDT
Hey there Shawn...sorry to read you are having a rough go of it...but always try stay steadfast to the hope that is in these children and the fight that they are putting on to change the course of their lives...as we sit here and watch child after child lose their battle it is sometimes hard to find the hope in the process but it dawned on me the other night when talking to a couple here at the Ronald McDonald House awaiting the birth of their new baby boy, Degan Cane Miles, who has been diagnosed in the womb with Krabbes so will undergo a transplant just after birth www.caringgbridge.org/co/deganmiles
Our prognosis is so bleak before transplant that is why go through it...our chance of changing the predicted outcome, our chance of saving our child is the Success stroy...and each story is a success whether the child has returned home with God or remained here with us...Reese is a Success...he fought a hard battle and made notes in the pages of history that will help to save another...Shawn is a Success...she thought us all how to fight for our children and savor every single moment we have with them. she thought us that no matter how rough the road you are on gets, you still have a shoulder to offer to another in pain, you still have room in your heart for the next child and always Hope...Toni is a Success...she showed how unslefish and giving a person could be, always giving of themselves and offering love...Doug is a Success...he has taught us the true value of being a provider and comforter...strong to the end, standing by his wife and family with his face and heart pointed to heaven...Taylor is a Success...he has taught us that even through the pain we survive...we continue to live and we play everyday.
I love you guys...we pray for you daily on good days and bad ones...stay strong and keep your eyes focused on Him.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:09 AM CDT
Shawn,
Sorry to hear that you are not having the best of days, but a prayer is being sent your way for better days to come. I cannot say too much to encourage you...I am not the best one to come to for that right now, but I will say that I think of you and Reese often (and Toni too), and keep you in my prayers. I pray now especially that you will have better days ahead, filled with more joy and less pain. Hang in there. God bless you and your family. Thank you for stopping in on Noah's page to offer encouragement to us, we truly are very grateful. Your family has been so nice and supportive to us...Thanks.
Aloha,
Debbie, Greg, and baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 7:24 PM CDT
Shawn....just wanted to let you know you are always in our prayers. I check the website daily to see how you're doing. Also, I can't look at Carly's "Taggie" without thinking of Reese. You are such a great friend. Thanks for keeping us informed. We love you!!!
Jenifer, Lyle, Eli & Carly Bullington
Pinnacle, NC - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 12:39 AM CDT
I HOPE AND PRAY THAT TODAY IS BETTER THAN YESTERDAY WAS FOR YOU. THERE ARE NO WORDS TO MAKE THE BAD DAYS ANY BETTER. THE ONLY COMFORTING THOUGHT I CAN GIVE YOU IS THE ONE IN YOUR JOURNAL ENTRY ON MARCH 10--REESE IS COMPLETELY HEALED AND NO LONGER IS STRUGGLING. ALSO, WANTED TO MENTIONED WE THOUGHT ABOUT REESE WHEN WE HEARD THE SONG "THREE WOODEN CROSSES" BY RANDY TRAVIS. THE MESSAGE OF THE SONG IS WHEN IT IS YOUR TIME TO GO, IT IS NOT WHAT YOU TAKE WITH YOU, BUT WHAT YOU LEAVE BEHIND. IN REESE'S CASE THAT IS TOUCHING SO MANY PEOPLE THRU HIS LIFE AND STORY. WE WILL CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
JEFF AND STEPHANIE BECK
MT AIRY, NC SURRY - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 12:08 AM CDT
Shawn,
I am sorry to hear you had a rough day. I pray that it will get a little easier for you. I am glad to hear that you and Doug got to spend sometime together. God Bless. You and your family are in my prayers.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 8:00 AM CDT
Shawn - I hope today is better. Sorry I picked a bad day yesterday to ask . I think it's a real tribute to Reese and to your family that there are so many people who still check in on you guys every day. You are loved and prayed for by people from all over the world. We hope that through this we can be one small step that helps you get through this very difficult time! Love you!
Kim Snyder
Winston Salem, - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 6:57 AM CDT
Shawn,
Oh I am so sorry for the rough day that you had. I can only imagine what you are going through. Nothing is ever just easy. I so wish it was. You know what I think? I think that God needed our babies worse than we did because he needed precious angels here on earth to watch over us. I think we would both rather have them here though. I fought to get pregnant, finally did and then miscarried just when I thought it was safe to stop worrying. I was 4 months and it hurt so so bad. It still does sometimes. Though it does not even begin to compare with your pain and loss, I know that you have experienced some of the same things and I draw inspiration from you. You stayed strong through all your trials and tribulations. God never puts more on us than we can handle, but boy it doesn't fell that way sometimes. I want you to know that I pray for you and your family daily. I pray for better and easier days for you Shawn. You are an amazing mother and person. I hope that Taylor is having a good time in DC. Take care and keep that head up. Reese is right beside of you. Praying for you always.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 6:04 AM CDT
Shawn-
I want you to know that I love you and am thinking of you always. I've thought about you and Reese many times over the last few days. I know that Reese is watching over Jordan and that helps me deal with his stay in PICU. Thank you for all your journal entries. Your support means so much to me. I really miss you to. I hope that when Taylor returns you will feel a little more yourself. It's ok to have a bad day every once in a while. You're entitiled; just know that there are many people that love you and are praying for you constantly. I miss you tons.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Monday, June 2, 2003 8:10 PM CDT
Shawn, I just want to tell you how much I love you! I am sorry you are having a bad day, but you know what??? IT'S OK! That is all part of the process and you have earned every right to feel the way you feel. It's not right, it's not fair, it hurts so much, and it's hard to believe that our boys are gone... but they got the better end of the bargain. What a better place to be than with Jesus? You just keep your faith strong... no one said that it would be easy or that you would never have questions or get frustrated. You are special because God gave you Reese. You remember that. My prayer for you is comfort and a profound sense of God's presence with you and your family.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 5:09 PM CDT
Shawn, I am so sorry that things are this way. I pray that you can find some way to get thru the bad days like this one. I can't even begin to imagine how hard it is. I think about losing Jacob and it breaks my heart. I don't know how you do it. I know that you are missing Taylor but I know that Toni is loving every minute she has with him. Sending lots of hugs and keeping you in our prayers daily.
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Collinsville, Va USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 4:35 PM CDT
Hang in there. Jordan is a fighter like Reese was. We are sure he will pull through with an angel like Reese watching him. You are always welcome here anytime. Even if Carrie has to pull out the egg crate mattress and sleeping bag for you.
Patrick Horton
Durham, NC - Monday, June 2, 2003 3:37 PM CDT
May God continue to wrap His arms around you and grant you peace and acceptance and hope for the future. It will never be OK that you lost Reese but time WILL make it more bareable.
Nancy & Ed Aman <nancyaman@charter.net>
Sanford, NC - Monday, June 2, 2003 12:00 AM CDT
I feel your pain. I also lost my son after transplant. He had cancer and the cancer returned 80 days after transplant. We had it done in Mn. I also have lost all faith in transplant. Adam did great through transplant. They kept telling me it was the best solution for him. I dont think they ever told me that the cancer could come back. Almost all of the kids that were there when he was transplanted have also died. I really dont think the stats are what they say they are. I really feel like we were lied to. It amazes me how the Drs. never have contact with you after they die. You think they would want to figure out what went wrong. They really dont care. Yes I am also having a bad day. But you know our children were precious and they just write them off. I also feel the pain of other children not doing well. I follow so many kids web sites and I keep seeing failures. When will it stop. Well thanks for letting me vent.
Ruth Trombino <alandruth@myexcel.com>
Westerly, RI - Monday, June 2, 2003 11:13 AM CDT
I've said a quick prayer for you as always. I want for you to know that what you're feeling is normal. Missing someone gets easier over time, day by day...even though its one day farther from the last time you saw them, its one day closer to the next time that you will.
Leah Wilson
NC - Monday, June 2, 2003 10:00 AM CDT
Hey Shawn, Doug,Taylor, ^Reese^,
Just wanted to let you guys know that I am thinking about you and want you to know not a day goes by that I do not think of you guys at least 1/2 dozen times:) All my love!

Reese,
Everyone misses you so much...please send down some Reesie hugs and kisses for your mommy so she will know that you are near!



Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, June 2, 2003 9:14 AM CDT
Shawn...just want you to know that I check the site daily to see if you have made an entry. You are never far from my thoughts and are always in my prayers!!! As I have said before, I wish there was some way to take your pain away!! I'm sure that it is hard for you to be away from Taylor!!!
I'm glad that you and Doug have had some alone time and I hope that you take some "Shawn time". Pamper yourself, hold the things of Reese's that are the most precious and talk to him and God..they are always there to listen!! Thanks to you and Reese, I am addicted to the caring bridge website!!! I check it daily!! These kids and their families are so precious!!! Hope you have a good week and remember, you are always in my thoughts and prayers!!! Tell Doug hello!!


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Monday, June 2, 2003 8:38 AM CDT
I've been following your story for a while now but have not signed much. I wish I had amazing words of encouragement to help you through this, but I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through and to pretend would be unfair. Please know that me, along with thousands of other people think about you and your family on a daily basis. I live in england now and they don't sell Reese's products here, but last time i came back home to NC i packed a suitcase full of them to bring back and share the reese joy. I hope the days get better for you.

Victoria

Victoria <victo73@hotmail.com>
Leigh, UK - Monday, June 2, 2003 8:37 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today.


Leigh Ann Pyles <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Monday, June 2, 2003 7:51 AM CDT
Dear Shawn,
Our love and prayers continue to be with you.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, June 2, 2003 7:48 AM CDT
I have been going to Noah's site daily, praying for him and his parents. May God heal him and strenthen him and his family. You all have been on my mind alot. I know that you said that you dont feel like you are an inspiration but you are...it gives me chills knowing that you are able to keep up this website and that you are still in touch with the familys that you met at the hospital...so many people would have just shut out the world but you have embraced it and for that you are an inspiration!
Leah Wilson
NC - Friday, May 30, 2003 10:40 AM CDT
Good morning Shawn! I hope that all is well. Just wanted to check in and tell you hello and hope that you have a good weekend and as always I am praying for ya. Have a good weekend..:)
Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Friday, May 30, 2003 9:15 AM CDT
Wow... Reese's website has touched so very many people. I heard about it on the Hugs and Hope website and was led to visit. My heart shares your pain, as I have also lost a child to cancer. She also touched many, and I am sure that together, they are adding that much more beauty to Heaven. Prayers to you and yours, and the time spent here at Reese's website was sweet. God bless all of you....
Sherry C./ Hugs and Hope Club
GA USA - Thursday, May 29, 2003 11:38 PM CDT
your website is beautiful, such a touching tribute to your child. The poetry just brought tears to my eyes. I am also glad to see Noah's family has such a concerned friend, and I know you'll be a great comfort to them.
Cathie Lehocky Texas Chapter Head, Hugs and Hope Club
Houston, TX - Thursday, May 29, 2003 7:40 PM CDT
I have been looking at caringbridge sites whenever I can get in to read them (if someone leaves sites on their page)
You guys are one tough family. I admire you and the love you share for everyone else. I have been waiting to have time here at work to go and look at all the pictures you have on the York site for when I have time, well today (all day!) was the time I had to do it. While I was looking at all of cute little Reese Cups pictures which they are ALL so cute. My favorite one was the last one because that is when Reese life on earth was almost over and going to be with Jesus. The Healer and I know for sure he is the Peace Speaker and you are living proof that that is who he is. His short little time on earth he accomplished SOOOO much. For one actually more than 88,000 people who read you site. Daddy got back into church. The one thing that gets me is even after all that you have been through you are still strong and full of faith. I am so touched by your family. God Bless all of ya'll. Feel free to e-mail anytime.

Jodie Johnston <johnstons_01@yahoo.com>
Haltom City, TX USA - Thursday, May 29, 2003 4:33 PM CDT
Shawn,
Thank so much for mentioning Noah's need for prayer, we are numb and just wait to see "what next?". I know that you understand what we are saying and somewhat how we are feeling. Noah has struggled throughout his entire transplant journey and never caught a break. It almost seems that death would be mercy, but he has such a strong will to beat this, just as sweet little Reese. Thank you for the encouraging words and support. God bless and keep you.
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 3:14 PM CDT
Shawn, just checking in on you. I read all the new entries but do not always post. Reese touched so many people in my family and friends who all still check in.
God Bless you sweet lady!
Love, Nancy

Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey
- Monday, May 26, 2003 5:24 PM CDT
We still read, and we still care, about all of you (yes, that's you too Aunt Toni!)

Hugs and prayers!

Carolyn F
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, May 25, 2003 6:04 PM CDT
Shawn, thank you for remembering the Nicolls, amidst all your own grief....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Sunday, May 25, 2003 11:12 AM CDT
Thanks Shawn for sharing another person who needs prayers, we also need to remember Noah too, he's back in PICU again. He was doing good and then Saturday he got some complications and was put back into PICU. Still thinking of you everyday....I check Reese's site everyday to see if a new entry has been added. Thanks Toni for letting me know how you're doing.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC USA - Sunday, May 25, 2003 9:56 AM CDT
Toni~Thank you for sharing what is going on with you right now. I hope and pray that all goes well with you, you get more energy and are able to find a job that you like. Even though I never met Reese I can fully understand about how Andy treated Reese. See, I've never been around little babies and so I guess I'm a little freaked out by them or something but the first time I came to this website I totally fell in love with Reese. Ive said it before, he is the most adorable baby I have ever and probably will ever see!
Shawn~I hope all is well with you and your family. You are such a stong and graceful woman. You make Reese very proud! I'm sure he is in Heaven right now pointing you out to all his friends saying, "yep thats my mom, isnt she the greatest?!"

Leah Wilson
NC - Saturday, May 24, 2003 10:08 AM CDT
Dear Toni. Thank you for sharing from your heart. We've never met except that I have met you and your wonderful family through this site. We grieve with all of you over the loss of Reece. We hope that, in time, your memories become even more precious but that you are continuing to live life and experience its joys. Life will never be "normal" as Reece is not there with you but it can be bearable again and even enjoyable. Look for some positive or happiness each day - a beautiful blue sky, a flower. Take a walk each day (it's free, healthy, and it gets you out of the house) - maybe even to a new place each day. Drive off base and walk a different neighborhood somewhere. God bless you and your entire family.
Nancy & Ed Aman <nancyaman@charter.net>
Sanford, NC - Saturday, May 24, 2003 6:30 AM CDT
Shawn ~
I continue to check for updates daily. I pray that the Lord will continue to guide you through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing your memories with us - I hope that it will make your struggle less difficult. You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC USA - Friday, May 23, 2003 8:34 AM CDT
Hello Shawn...just a note to say hello and let you know that I still check in daily!!!! I know that the autopsy report had to have been really hard for you to read...I continue to wish that there was a way to take away the pain that you are having to live with. I know that it is hard to remember this, but the Bible says in Ecclesiastes chapter 3 that "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the Heaven." Some day it will all be revealed to us why we had to face pain and suffering here on earth...that doesn't make it any easier now...but God knows what He is doing...even if it doesn't always seem right to us! I think of you every day and pray dilligently that God will be with you and all the family and touch you in a special way and show you that precious little Reesiecup had a wonderful purpose while he was here with us...he and you have touched so many lives!!! Love ya!

Hello Aunt Toni!!!! I was so glad to see an entry from you!!! I am the one that sent you the birthday card while Reese was at Duke that had all the little sayings in it. (I work at the Surry County 911 center). Like I do with Shawn, I think of you daily and keep you in my heart and prayers!!!! You, like Shawn are such a special person and I know that Reesiecup loved you dearly!!! I pray that God will help ease your pain and that soon you and Uncle Andy will have a little one of your own...God still performs miracles!!! It was so sweet of Shawn to send you the Mother's Day card....'cause you were truly Reese's "other Mommy". You and Uncle Andy will always be in my prayers!!! Even thought I have only met you once, you have impacted my life greatly by your unselfishness and giving up your daily life to be with Shawn and Reese when they needed you most!! Love and prayers, Sharon


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Friday, May 23, 2003 7:05 AM CDT
Hi – It’s Aunt Toni. I have been wanting to do my own little update – so I hope you don’t mind – but here it goes.

You know the saying “It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all”? Boy, I struggle with that one. I have been trying to get pregnant since Andy and I married. It will be 8 years on June 10th. There have been more times than I can ever count that I didn’t want to get out of bed because I found out (again) that I wasn’t pregnant. Those times are still hard, and I know will continue to be until we have a child of our own. But – none of those times seem as hard as the days when I miss Reese the most. Sometimes it just hits me out of nowhere. Because I am in DC, and not in NC, it is easier to forget sometimes that he is gone, but when that reality hits – it HITS HARD. I lay in bed and try to picture him – already it is hard to visualize moving pictures, you know, real memories. All I can visualize are pictures of him. At first I’m upset, then I’m thankful for the Shawn the shutterbug for all of those memories.

Of course, we have lots of pictures of Taylor and Reese. But, we have the famous Green peas picture on our refrigerator and I see Uncle Andy touching it when he doesn’t think I’m looking. Any baby that can move Uncle Andy that way – well, just trust me, it is special. Reese is the first baby Andy would ever even come near. He was the first one he held, first one he fed, first diaper he ever changed!! (Except when it was brown!!) Uncle Andy wanted to spend every night at the hospital when he was in Durham with us (which was a lot) and even watched him alone so Shawn and I could get out together. He stayed with Reese so Shawn and I could be with Christy when Brittney passed. Don’t get me wrong, Andy loves Taylor but was a little too afraid of him when he was small.

When I managed to speak at the funeral – it was to make sure that everyone knew how unselfish Shawn had been with Reese. The way she let me be his other Mommy. I used to always think that he would grow up and have a special connection to me that he didn’t quite understand because he wasn’t going to remember any of the horrible things he had to go through. Well, Shawn has made sure that Reese and I still have that connection – I received a Mothers Day card from Angel Reese and the return address was not a PO Box in Heaven, but from Mt. Airy. Thank You Shawn.

I would love to be writing to say that things are going great here in DC. Truth be told, I can’t find a job, Not that we are in dire need of immediate cash flow but I stay busy being “creative” with the money we do have. At least 3 nights a week I get NO sleep which means at least 3 days a week I can’t find the energy to do anything, I hardly ever leave the house and don’t think I’ve even been off base more than twice in the last month (and once was when I went down to NC for Taylor’s birthday). I do manage to eat, generally once a day, but it doesn’t seem to settle well.

Well, I could go on forever talking about myself, and trust me – no one wants that. I love you Shawn, Taylor, Mom, Phyllis, Doug, and of course our little Reese.

Aunt Toni <toni.stedman@verizon.net>
Washington, DC - Thursday, May 22, 2003 10:21 PM CDT
Shawn,
You are so brave and so strong. I admire you so much for all that you have been through. Thank you for sharing Reese's story with us. I feel as though you are talking about my Cameron sometimes, and it makes me smile! I know how difficult it must have been for you to read the autopsy report - but the way I see it is that once we put our sons in the ground, everything else will be easy by comparison... and I mean from now on! God bless you and remember that your family is in my prayers, always.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Thursday, May 22, 2003 4:24 PM CDT
Shawn, Thursday Hello's to you! The autopsy report you put in the journal was amazing in its description of what was going on in Reese's lungs. He went through sooo much; it really showed his strength of spirit that he lived as long as he did--obviously he was a very special child. I know words could never be able to tell how much you all miss him. He was a blessed little boy to be loved so dearly.
Becky Smith <caringbridge.org/nc/sarahsmith>
Mooresville, NC - Thursday, May 22, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
STILL THINKING OF YOU AND PRAYING FOR YOU EACH DAY.
KAYE JOYCE <gregjoyce@rjia.net>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Thursday, May 22, 2003 2:39 PM CDT
To Reese's family,
Stopping by to let you know you are still in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord God Almighty watch over you and give you strength. Thank you so much for sharing your precious memories.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Thursday, May 22, 2003 10:44 AM CDT
Hey Shawna and Doug,
I am been on vacation for the last few days so I did not get to check the site until Tuesday afternoon. When I read the entries from this past weekend the one you wrote of the days leading up to Reese's birth just made me cry! You have been through so much in your life and do not deserve the pain you are dealing with now! Since Mothers day all I can do is think of you everytime I look at Jaxson. I think what do you say! How do you tell her how sorry you are for her without making her upset? Well I dont know what to say most of the time and wish I did...just know that I am here if you ever need to talk or need someone to listen! I can only image how hard it must have been for you and Nana on Saturday, I pray that smiles fill your days soon instead of tears when you think of Reese. All my love...

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, May 22, 2003 8:22 AM CDT
Shawn:

Though I don't always sign your guestboook, I do continue to follow your most difficult journey of grief. I wish that I could say the "right" words to make you feel better. But we both know that there are no "right" words to be said.

I will pray that you can continue to find comfort within the presence of the Lord. I will pray that Reese will come to you in another dream. And I will pray that God will sustain and protect you and your entire family during this most difficult time in all of your lives.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, May 22, 2003 8:17 AM CDT
Shawn, I've been out of town since last Friday and have just been able to catch up on your two latest entries. Thank you for catching "us strangers" up and sharing the beginning of Reese's story and your story of your previous losses as well. I could certainly empathize with your miscarriages as I, too had a missed abortion at 12 weeks with my first pregnancy and had spotting at 10 weeks and subsequently lost my third. I had wondered what had happened when you had mentioned your losses in previous entries. Nanna Julia also wrote a moving entry. Thank you for continuing to share Reese and I pray that you find some comfort in each day.

Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 11:42 PM CDT
Shawn, I think of you and your family everday. You are always in my prayers. Take Care.
Beth Anne Biggs
Rogersville, TN - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 10:11 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I often think of you and keep you in my prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 7:50 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

How wonderful for you to share Reese's story from the beginning... thank you for letting us all be a part of that. When you are overwhelmed with an illness and all the trauma that follows a diagnosis, it is easy to overlook the days and months before that when life seemed to be more "normal"... if there is such a thing!

Lisa Post and I had discussed what happened to the other children you had mentioned before, and it's just a small bit of curiousity being satisfied now to know about it all. What a surprise Reese must have had up in Heaven when he got there... he was having his own little family reunion!

I look forward to reading more soon. Your entries echo my own feelings so often that I anxiously await to see what you will say next. In the meantime, your family will be in my prayers.

Cameron's Page

Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 5:50 PM CDT
In my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Barker
- Tuesday, May 20, 2003 12:24 AM CDT
I don't know how I got to Reese's site, but after reading just a few entries I am feeling the need to sign the guestbook. Our daughter Anna earned her angel wings on March 4, 2003. She was 6 months, 19 days. She had a BMT on Jan. 31, 2003, but died in my arms after an infection put her on a ventilator and dialysis. I relate to so many things you are going through and just felt I needed to sign and say "hi" and and sending you a hug - from one angel mom to another.
Karin, Anna's Mom <www.annavansickle.com>
St.. Louis, MO - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 10:38 AM CDT
God bless you. Thank you for putting Nana's story on your page. I check on you and quite a few other caringbridge families but don't read the guest book entries. I know it must be so very very difficult to go on but that is what all must do who have lost loved ones. You've been through so much pain and it will always be with you but there is joy ahead too and you must reach out for it, embrace it, and know that Reece wants you to be happy and laugh and find joy again.
Nancy & Ed Aman
Sanford, NC - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 7:39 AM CDT
That was a beautiful entry. Always thinking and praying for you. I hope that you all have a good week and God Bless!
Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 5:18 AM CDT
Thinking of you :)
Leah Wilson
NC - Monday, May 19, 2003 8:37 PM CDT
Well, we got thru the yardsale. It rained most of the day. I think God was crying with us as we sold yard toys, baby equipment, bottles and blankets that I will no longer need. Since Happy Days, my daycare, was opened primarily to take care of the grandkids, and Taylor will be going to kindergarten this fall and Reese will not be here for me to take care of, there was really no reason to stay in the baby business. Many of the toys & equipment Reese had played with, sat in, slept in, etc. His memory was everywhere. His toys at his house are lined on the shelves, piled up on the changing table and his clothes are now hung back in his closet or folded neatly in his dresser but there were a few items that he had outgrown before going to Duke that we put in the sale. Even tho it had been maybe a year since he had worn them, it still was especially hard for Shawn as she could see him in this outfit or that one.

I am sad to be closing my day care as my kids are like family. Danielle is 3 and she has been with me since she was 6 weeks old. Erin is one and I started keeping her at 8 weeks. They call us Nanna and Pawpaw and it will be so strange to not have playpens and high chairs, toys, baby videos, baby food and stacks of diapers everywhere. But I am also excited to be starting something new. Hopefully in August I will start a new job as the School Bus Driver Lady! Yep, watch out!!
I am also looking forward to spending the summer with Taylor at our camper. He really loved it last year and I know we will have a good summer.

Taylor and I are going to see Aunt Toni and Uncle Andy in 2 weeks for 5 days. Taylor will also get to meet his 2 new cousins from Russia for the first time. That is very exciting! Sophia is 2 1/2 and Matthew is 1 1/2. So with all the sad changes in our lives this past year we have new things to look forward to and fun to be had. Reese will be with us every moment and we will miss him everyday.

I will be able to watch my "Platinum Best Friend"'s (Linda) grandson, Clay, grow and learn and become a real little person and be able to imagine Reese doing that to. Clay and Reese were born 2 hours apart so he will be my baromater, the gauge I use to judge where Reese would be at that time. When Clay is running and laughing, Reese is running and laughing. When Clay stands at his Grandma's camper screen door and watches the baby birds learning to fly for the first time, Reese is standing right next to him. I am especally glad that Clay and Reese have that connection.Guess I have rambled on long enough. Love, Nanna Julia


Julia Hill
- Monday, May 19, 2003 9:08 AM CDT
Dear Shawn,

I read about your site through Cody Hoffman, and even though you don't know me, I started sending my thoughts and prayers your way while Reese was sick. You're right - there was something about Reese that was really special. I've been checking in now and then to see how you're doing.

Shawn, nobody should ever endure what you've been through. Please know that you have a lot of people who care about you and support you and want the best for you and your family. I live in Durham, NC - not far from you. If there is ever anything I can do for you, please let me know.

Liz, Raj, and Simi <woodsedge@pobox.com>
Durham, NC - Monday, May 19, 2003 2:24 AM CDT
I am flabbergasted at how much you have been through.
I truly am

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 11:47 PM CDT
Shawn,
I have been following in on your journals for awhile now and my heart just drops each time I read them. I can only imagine what it's like to lose Reese, let alone 3 more children. My thoughts and prayers have been with you each and every day since I found this page and they will continue to be.
About me: I am 15 years old and am a cancer survivor. I also have family in North Carolina. I have a caringbridge page if you would like to visit and get to know more. The address to it is posted in the e-mail link at the bottom of this.
Just thought I would finally write and let you know that I am thinking of you all. God bless all of you :)
Best Wishes,
Brittany Ross

Brittany Ross <www.caringbridge.org/mn/brittanyross>
Pine River, MN USA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 10:15 PM CDT
Shanw, thank you SO much for sharing your journey with us. Thinking of you always
alyssa
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 8:33 PM CDT
SHAWN, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR JOURNEY WITH US.YOU ARE A INSPIRATION TO ALOT OF PEOPLE. AND HAVE TOUCHED LOTS OF HEARTS WITH REESES JOURNEY. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK.
PENNY CLARK <WONKOOLMOM@YAHOO,COM>
BASSETT, VA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 7:46 PM CDT
Thank you so much for sharing your incredible journey. I had no idea. Hopefully it brings you comfort to know that Reese has 3 siblings with him in Heaven and that they are having a BLAST! I think that you are just as much an inspiration as your little Reese is! Know that you remian in my thoughts and prayers.
Leah Wilson
NC - Saturday, May 17, 2003 10:11 AM CDT
Shawn,
Thank you for always sharing your Reesecup Cup with us. He is a precious angel and he always will be. I pray conitnously for you all. I am looking forward to more memories and journies through Reese's life that you expierenced. Thank you again Shawn. Keep up the Faith and always thinking of ya.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, VA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 8:39 AM CDT
Shawn...
Thanks do much for sharing the beginning of Reese's life...it is so touching and I am looking forward to hearing more. I still check in here everyday and continually think about you, Doug and Taylor and Toni and Andy and Mama Julia and Mama Phyliss and the rest of the family.Your names are lifted up in prayer all thru the day. I pray that if I ever have to go thru a valley in my life that I will have the strength and the kind of support that your family has. The Coble's are a true blessing to me. Keep on keeping on!!!

Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 8:17 AM CDT
Shawn,
I enjoyed reading about the start of Reese's journey. My heart felt so heavy for you on mother's day. I can't begin to know how difficult it was for you. I still have his picture as the wallpaper on my computer so I can see his big smile anytime I want! I miss him alot to. I think of you often and miss you and Toni greatly! Thank you so much for the email, you are so sweet. My computer has been on the blink so I didn't email you back until several days later, I apologize, I didn't want you to think that I had missed it. Please know that I am always here and praying for you. The Rainbow walk was fun, I saw McKenzie's family and we hung out alot. I raised money in memory of Reese and McKenzie-but I have to admit I got lapped a few times on the track!!Ha Ha! You were missed, but I'm glad Tater Tot had a good birthday. God Bless, Love You

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC USA - Friday, May 16, 2003 9:40 PM CDT
Shawn,
Thanks for filling in the blanks of your journey. You sure have been through alot and it is so evident that your faith in Jesus keeps your head high. In a way, it must be comforting to know that Reese had three siblings already in heaven waiting to greet him. I had wondered about the facts of your other children's passings when you mentioned it when Reese left. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Friday, May 16, 2003 8:44 PM CDT
Thanks Shawn, It was nice to read about your journey at the begining and the moments leading to Reese's birth. Those are special moments that a mother remembers forever, pain and all!!
Love, Nancy

Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Friday, May 16, 2003 7:41 PM CDT
Thanks for sharing some more news about Reece's life. I check out your site everyday. Just to let you know I was thinking of you.
Dee Dee <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, May 16, 2003 3:40 PM CDT
When I read what you write I am struck by the fact that you have SO MUCH LOVE in you. You make me want to strive to be a better person. I truly believe God chooses "special" women to be a Mom to His "special" children. Although I realize it's not something you would have chosen for yourself, you were chosen by God to be Mom to Reese. May God bless you and your family always.
JoAnn Baker <bakerjo1@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx - Friday, May 16, 2003 2:26 PM CDT
Your entry was beautiful as well as those pictures you shared with us. I really thinkg the shadow box is awsome. I continue to keep you and other Hurler/Transplant families in my prayers each day. May God Be With You.
xoxoxoxox.....Jeanne

Jeanne Joiner <jeannejoiner@hotmail.com caringbridge.org/ok/rileybear>
Del City, OK USA - Friday, May 16, 2003 1:29 PM CDT
This is such a great entry thank you for sharing this precious memory with us.
Tanya Roulette <Roosmommy7374@aol.com>
Maryville, TN USA - Friday, May 16, 2003 12:29 AM CDT
Thank you so much for continuing to update. I visit Reese's site every day. And, I continue to pray for you and your sweet family.

God Bless You!

Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Friday, May 16, 2003 12:00 AM CDT
Shawn, What a heartfelt entry today! You and Doug, Phyllis, Taylor, and everyone are still in my prayers. You are an amazing woman, I have so much respect and love for you. Your faith in God is uplifting. If you need anything, please call on me.

Kim <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Friday, May 16, 2003 9:32 AM CDT
What a beautiful saying, and how true it is. We appreciate all of the wonderful prayer and support that you have offered Noah and our family during this rough time. We continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. God bless,
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
honolulu, HI USA - Thursday, May 15, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
I just read your mothers day page. I lost a son too, and although he had grown up and I had him longer,his death was sudden... it was and still is, hard on mothers day, birthday and holidays. you are intitled to feel what you want.. and say what you want ... it is your life.... give that big brother an extra hug today.
Sharon <mopgal@hotmail.com>
Dardanelle, ar - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 10:29 PM CDT
My heart goes out to you along with my prayers that God comforts you and your family.
Margaret Griffin
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 9:11 AM CDT
I know I havent written in awhile...sorry. I pray that Mother's Day went as smoothly as possible for you. I tell others to come to this site because I swear Reese is the most precious little baby I have ever seen a picture of. I adore the before transplant picture..oh so precious. Know that you all have remained in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all.
Leah Wilson
NC - Tuesday, May 13, 2003 8:46 PM CDT
JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WE STILL CHECK THIS SITE ALMOST EVERY DAY. AND EACH TIME IT IS A BLESSING, IT ALWAYS PUTS EVERYTHING INTO PROPER PERSPECTIVE. I DO NOT KNOW THE WORDS TO SAY TO MAKE MOTHER'S DAY OR ANY OTHER DAY EASIER, I WISH I DID. I DO KNOW THAT GOD COMFORTS AND GIVES PEACE. SO MY PRAYER THIS DAY IS THAT GOD GIVES YOU THAT COMFORT AND PEACE. ALSO, IF HE HAS NOT ALREADY VISITED WITH YOU THAT REESE WILL VISIT YOU TONIGHT.
JEFF AND STEPHANIE BECK
MT AIRY, NC SURRY - Tuesday, May 13, 2003 2:09 PM CDT
Hey Shawn,
I just want you to know that you are all I thought about this past weekend and the pain you must be dealing with! Just know that I am hear always if you need anything...I love you and I wish that I could give you the peace you are searching for but we know that is only going to come from one person...

Angel Reese..I pray that you will come to mothers side and wisper in her ear, touch her hand or kiss her face..please let her know you are near...everyone misses you soooo much.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, May 13, 2003 1:51 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

My heart breaks for you as I read your last entry. (I think I'm going to have to send you an e-mail!) For now, though, on here, I will say you are in my prayers constantly. You don't have to apologize for your feelings... you don't have to say you're sorry, because you are entitled to feel the way you feel and no one can tell you it's wrong. You know as well as I do that we will never have the answers we are looking for, at least not here on earth. One day, when we are in Heaven with our kids, we will know the answers, but it won't matter then! Right now, all you can do it work through the feelings you are having until you've are at peace with them. It's a slow and sometimes torturous process, but you can't deny the process. I am still going through it myself and I'm coming up on the second anniversay of Cameron's death. Sometimes I think that no day could ever be as bad as the day he died, and other times I feel like I am living through the worst day all over again. What it all boils down to is this - keep your faith strong and rely on God to get you through. I know you depend on Him to hold you close, and he will! Happy Belated Mother's Day... I know Reese was smiling down on you from Heaven. Bless Taylor too, for helping you fill that void in your heart. You will be in my prayers.

Cameron's Page

Love form Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Tuesday, May 13, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
Shawn,
I could feel your every word...just like I wrote it.I miss you sooo much....Our hearts have been broken and I do not think they will ever heal.I find that everyday gets harder.I miss Mckenzie...I want her back... she has been gone long enough.I do not want to forget her...time will not heal my pain.I do not want it to.I feel I need to go through this pain for the rest of my life because if I didn't, it would mean I have forgotten her somehow.We will make it, I am sure but it is sooo not fair!I love you and I am hear for you, ok!We need to get together soon.Please tell your sister and the rest of your family I said, "Hello"

christina schoenleb <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
cleveland, nc - Monday, May 12, 2003 11:10 PM CDT
Dearest Shawn,

The last poem said it all! This is my first time signing your guest book, but I have follow Reese's cup page for sooooo long. We sent up ballons for him and the wind was wonderful that day. They went up to him! I know he was laughing the whole time! Reese has touched my life so much! Thank you for sharing him with me!

May your days be fill with the love you shared with Reese and the world!

Mother of 2 MPS1

Tami Slawson
- Monday, May 12, 2003 7:38 PM CDT
"My mom is a survivor"

My mom is a survivor,
or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night
when all the others are in bed.

But like the sands on the beach
that never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mom,
who thinks of me each day.

She wears a smile for others...
a smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see
tears flowing from her eyes.

My mom tries to cope with death
to keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows
it is her way to survive.

As I watch over my surviving mom
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels
protect me forevermore.

I know that doesn't help her...
or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
and show her that you care.

For no matter what she says...
no matter what she feels,
My surviving mom has a broken heart
that time won't ever heal.

~ by Kaye Des'Ormeaux
10/15/98
All Rights Reserved

someone who cares
- Monday, May 12, 2003 4:56 PM CDT
Shawn,
I'm so sorry that Mother's Day is so bittersweet. Please know I was thinking about you and wishing things were different. That's awesome about that print. Sounds like Reesie guided your mom to find it.
Cyber hugs from Connecticut.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Monday, May 12, 2003 3:20 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

I know yesterday must have been hard for you and hopefully today will be a tiny bit better. Believe me, clinic is frustrating and things need to change, but even before we came to Duke I have always cherished every minute with my kids. As you know our children, children with MPS, will not be with us long and we have to live every day as if it will be our last day with them. People are always offering to take my kids for a few days, but I never let them, I don't want to miss a single minute of their short lives. It is hard but that is the same reason I have Hunter here with Tommy and I for the past month. In a couple of weeks he will be going back to California and Ciara will be with me for a month. I watch Hunter and Tomm fighting over a toy and part of me wants to stop them, but then the other part of me says, let them be boys that's what brothers do. Anyway, I just wanted to agree with you, nobody should take anything for granted. Take Care!

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, May 12, 2003 11:28 AM CDT
Shawn ~
You continue to be in my prayers.

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC USA - Monday, May 12, 2003 8:34 AM CDT
Shawn,
I just wanted to say Happy Mother's Day and I hope that you have a good week. I wish I could say or do something that would take away all your pain and suffering. I pray for you always and hope that God can bring peace and healing until you and Reese meet again in heaven. God Bless you and all of your family. My thouhgts and prayers always.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Monday, May 12, 2003 6:15 AM CDT
Dear Shawn, I haven't signed the guestbook in awhile. I know nothing I say, will ease the pain your heart is feeling. All I know to say...God be with you always, and may HE take away the pain and lonliness you feel. Take care of yourself, and put your trust in HIM. You're in my thoughts and prayers always.
Barbara Tilley <BarTill2390@aol.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Monday, May 12, 2003 2:50 AM CDT
Shawn, I can't even begin to know the pain you are going through. Please know that our prayers are with you. I pray that Reese comes to visit you in your dreams, and you can hold him all night.
Jennifer Restemayer www.caringbridge.org/nd/allison <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Monday, May 12, 2003 0:06 AM CDT
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.


Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Sunday, May 11, 2003 8:54 PM CDT
Dearest Shawn, I just wanted you to know that you continue to be in my thoughts and that I said an extra prayer for you for Mother's Day. I can't even begin to comprehend your pain and I wish that no mother should ever have to lose her child. I hope you find comfort in all the lives that you and precious Reese have touched and that you have the sweetest dream ever of him tonight.
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, May 11, 2003 8:31 PM CDT
I just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 7:51 PM CDT
Shawn,
Happy Mother's Day! I know that this has not been an easy day for you. Please know that you (and the rest of your family) are in our thoughts and prayers.
MORGAN'S PAGE

Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, May 11, 2003 7:23 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day! :) Love, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 4:56 PM CDT
To Reese & Taylor's loving and devoted Mom,
Thinking of you this Mother's Day. You are in our prayers.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Sunday, May 11, 2003 4:24 PM CDT
Hey Shawn, I Just wanted to wish you a happy mothers day! Hope you took the time to love yourself, you deserve it!
Alyssa
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 3:32 PM CDT
I am glad Taylor had a nice birtday. I hope you are having a nice Mother's day with him too. Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you today. Your family is forever in our prayers.
Laura & Jillian Lamparyk <http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/ >
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 2:59 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Shawn. There was a beautiful orange sunrise in Clemmons this morning. It made me think of you. I know that today will probably be hard for you. I just wanted you to know that I will be saying a few extra prayers for you today. I know that God will give you the strength to make it through. Praying that he will give you an extra special blessing as well.

Love and Prayers

Kim Barker
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 5:44 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Shawn! Our thoughts & prayers are with you every day but, especially today, today will be hard but with your strength and faith, he will see you through it. We love you girl. XOXOX
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Sunday, May 11, 2003 5:14 AM CDT

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, May 10, 2003 11:49 PM CDT
Thinking of you and saying a special prayer for you and your family today.

I know that tomorrow will bring a multitude of emotions but I wanted to wish you a blessed mother's day.

Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Saturday, May 10, 2003 10:37 PM CDT
Hi, this is Trisha Athy. I just wanted to pop by and say Happy Mother's Day. I know that tomorrow will be hard for you but with all of your strength I know you can get through it. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!
Trisha Athy
- Saturday, May 10, 2003 4:41 PM CDT
Shawn,
Thanks so much for the encouraging entry on Noah's page. I am sure that this Mother's Day will be extremely bittersweet and quite difficult for you, and rightly so. Just wanted to send a friendly reminder that we are still praying for you and your family. We think of you all often and pray that you are doing well. God bless and we wish you a Happy Mother's Day.
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Friday, May 9, 2003 11:58 PM CDT
SHAWN
IT WAS SO GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN. I THINK OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY OFTEN. I AM GLAD THAT YOU AND CHRISTY HAVE EACH OTHER.

MICHELLE FITZPATRICK (JILLIAN'S MOM)
- Friday, May 9, 2003 3:47 PM CDT
A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven,
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing you from heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard.

There must be some mistake I thought, every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands, but oh the tears she's cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?

My mother carries me in her heart, her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me, sometimes far into the night.
She plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease their pain as well.

So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth
She needs to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.

Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you'll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I'll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me
Until I can do it myself, when she joins me in eternity.

By Jody Seilheimer

Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Friday, May 9, 2003 8:30 AM CDT
To Reese's loving and devoted family,
Stopping by to let you know you remain in our thoughts and prayers. May you feel the AWESOME presence of God today and in the days ahead.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Thursday, May 8, 2003 7:11 AM CDT
Shawn,
I am glad to hear that you had a good weekend. Please tell Taylor happy belated birthday. I want to wish you a Happy Mother's Day! In my prayers always. God Bless.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 7:16 AM CDT
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,
Good Morning! Hope that all is well. I was glad to see the update. I think that Christy's visit was just what she needed. You are right Shawn you are like pea's and carrots. You all are her family. I did not get to wish Taylor a Happy Birthday I had to quickly post my entries this weekend, so Happy belated Birthday Taylor! I am glad that you had a good one. Shawn that is awesome what Taylor told you. God is guiding him in exactly the right direction. I am sure that Reese is up there grinning like a possum. That is wonderful. I hope that you all have a good week and Happy early Mother's Day. You are an extroadnary mom Shawn. God Bless!

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 4:30 AM CDT
Hey Taylor - Happy Birthday!!! I know that I am a few days late. We have been out of town and away from the computer. Its sound like you had a blessed time with all your friends and extended family. Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you. Were you able to download the pictures that I sent you? We love you guys.
Lynne & Joe <presmonkey@aol.com>
Va Beach, Va - Monday, May 5, 2003 7:30 PM CDT
Iknow how you feel,I lost my son on the 12-12-02 he was six years old and,he told me we he come home from school Mom I have are (A) I was so happy I told him good job litte prince,so my son want to stay with his friend we I had to go to the store about 15min.I come back my son was oncouches,my son was about two and have day"s on the maschine,the german hospital did not are good job at all long story when i am ready I will talk.
I am are german and I am eight years maried to Military solder,my husband is in irag and I am scard I have are little girl,she is four years.
Thank you for listing,and you did are wounderful page for you child.
God be with you.
Love Ann

Ann <unicorn_fairy1996@yahoo.com>
Wheat ridge, Co usa - Sunday, May 4, 2003 4:35 PM CDT
~~~~~~~HAPPY BIRTHDAY TAYLOR~~~~~~~~~~ LOVE GRAMPY & NOREEN IN MAINE. LOVE YOU GUYS! Hi Andy, Toni, Shawn & Doug.
Chris & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Saturday, May 3, 2003 5:33 PM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
Good Morning! Just checking in on ya. I hope that you all have a good weekend. Thinking and praying for you always. I was glad to see the update. I am so glad that things are going well. God Bless you all and again have a good weekend.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Saturday, May 3, 2003 5:55 AM CDT
Oh, Shawn...

What a wonderful wonderful poem and memory box, too. I cried when I saw the picture! My heart broke all over again for Cameron, Reese, Alexis, Carter, Bella, Brittney and all the other angels that were taken from us by the monster called Hurler Syndrome. What mother should have to display her very favorite things for a precious child because that child is no longer here to touch and hold and love? I want to jump on the bandwagon of being tired of kids dying, too. Somethimes I think if I just had some answers that I would somehow feel better, but it wouldn't take the place of having my child here with me. Instead, I have to keep my faith strong to know that God has the answers, and even though we may not know them, He promises to give us a peace that passes all understanding.

I will never again be able to look at the sky not only in the morning but at any time of the day when it is purple and orange without thinking of Reese. I never met him in person but I feel like I have met him in spirit as he shared in that special quailty that all the Hurler babies seem to have. I have never known any other children to be as sweet and loving as they are, it's true! I am positive that they are all angels who are sent here to us, straight from God. I know He will always give us exactly what we need, and we needed these children. They came here to change our lives, and they succeeded.

I will check back again later, as always, and see how things are going. I am so glad Christy will be there for Taylor's party and to join you for church. I know you are helping her and she seems to need that support so much. Your example to her is one of a strong, valiant survivor, and you are able to be that because of Reese. Praise God!

Cameron's Page

Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Friday, May 2, 2003 1:40 PM CDT
Shawn-
Just checking in on you. I'm glad you are going to be with Toni again. Tell her we miss her like crazy and Jordan is sending big hugs and kisses to you both. As always, we are thinking of you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 1, 2003 8:06 PM CDT
SHAWN, JUST CHECKING IN TO SEE HOW YOU ARE DOING. I THINK OF YOU GUYS OFTEN AND ASK NOREEN HOW YOU ARE DOING. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TAYLOR !!!!! HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT BITHDAY PARTY.
I WILL CHECK LATER.

Penny Clark <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, VA - Thursday, May 1, 2003 3:05 PM CDT
Shawn,
Everytime one of these precious children lose the battle I ask the Lord why, with all the mean people in this world, why not them! I just have to trust in him that he has the answers...

I will now always think of Reese when I see that Reesie cup orange in the sunset! What a beautiful way to remember such a beautiful child! Your little sunshine is always near...that is his way of showing you.

I look forward to seeing you all this weekend.

Happy 15 months sweet Reese.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:10 PM CDT
Hey there. I was just checking on you guys. Yep, that was my entry on Travis' website that you mentioned today--the one about kids dying. I'm getting ready to go to the walk on Saturday and just remembering everyone that has gone on over the years. Dr. K's been taking care of me for 15 years. I've seen a lot and there have been a lot to pass on lately. I'm just so tired of it. Anyways, I wanted you to know that I am still thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Blessings to you as you continue to trudge through this valley. I know the Lord is meeting you each day wherever you are. Know that you are prayed about and cared for.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 2:54 PM CDT
Just a note to let you know we are thinking of you all . Frankie & Joey & Mandy & Mary Floyd http://www.buffnet.net/~ambrosia/icq/angel8.htm
Frankie Floyd <Thumpercat@webtv.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 2:24 PM CDT
Taylor,
Happy Birthday on Saturday!
Hope you have a good party.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 1:26 PM CDT
Just checking in to see how you are doing... Happy Birthday to Taylor- sounds like quite a celebration is planned! Every time I see a sunrise, I'm going to think of Reese... what a beautiful image. Hope you are hanging in there.
Much love,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 10:44 AM CDT
Hi, I am also tired if children passing. I know they are in a better place, but is seems so unfair. When I saw you the other day I wanted to give you a hug, but I was afraid I would start cying and you would to. I am glad to see you back at work. Hope Taylor has a great Birthday.
Debbie Deatherage
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 10:41 AM CDT
Still thinking of you!
Love and prayers

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 9:33 AM CDT
Shawn ~
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I have never met you or your family - but Reese has a place in my heart. I'm sure it will be rough sending Taylor off to school - just remember to keep praying - the Lord will see you through anything and everything. Keep your strong faith.

Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 8:55 AM CDT
I love the memory box and I loved the family picture. Shawn I see you in other guestbooks, and want to thank you for being so strong and outgoing to offer support to all the other parents in your own time of grief.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Tuesday, April 29, 2003 9:42 PM CDT
HELLO SHAWN, DOUG AND TAYLOR, JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I AM STILL THINKING OF YOU ALL AND WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I AM STILL HERE (JUST OUT THE ROAD) IF YOU ALL NEED ANYTHING. IF YOU JUST NEED TO TALK I AM REAL GOOD AT THAT! I AM GLAD THAT YOU GOT TO HAVE A VACATION AND I LOVE THE MEMORY BOX AND FAMILY PORTRAIT. I WILL HAVE TO BRING COLBY SOMETIME AND LET YOU MAKE A PICTURE OF HIM SHAWN. HOPE THINGS ARE BETTER FOR YOU AND PLEASE REMEMBER WE LOVE YOU AND HOLD YOU IN OUR HEARTS. GOD BLESS YOU!
KAYE JOYCE <gregjoyce@rjia.net>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 6:44 PM CDT
Shawn & Doug, The memory box is absolutely beautiful and so is the family photo. I am sure that you will continue to hold these items close to your hearts. I wanted to tell you about an experience we had last Friday (April 25th). My daughter Mckenzie brought home a red balloon, and wanted to release it. We thought about Reese and she wanted to release it so that he and the other angels in heaven could play with it. I wanted to share this with you so that you would know that you and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Cary

Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 11:16 AM CDT
Doug and Shawn,
Just checking in today and hoping things are going okay for you. The memory box is BEAUTIFUL!!! I also love the family picture!! You all are so special to so many people and such an inspiration! Hope Taylor is doing well and T Ball is fun for him. I bet he is so cute out there playing ball!! I think of you guys often and hope some day that we can find the time to meet up!! Continuing to keep you in my thoughts and prayers!! Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond , NC USA - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 7:31 AM CDT
That poem is absolutely beautiful, just like Reese! It sent chills. May peace be with you.
Kelly www.caringbridge.org/nv/baileyaustinjohnson <mom2baycam@charter.net (NEW)>
Lake Tahoe, NV USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 8:00 PM CDT
To the Coble Family,

The poem is so touching and beautiful. I know you must miss Reese so much. I love your memory box and the family picture. I know you will treasure this forever. I think of you often, inspired by your courage and strength. It is clear to see exactly where Reese got his strength and courage from. Reese sees you all the time from the heavens above is so proud of his family. You will one day all be reunited with your sweet angel. May God get you through each day.

With Love and Prayers,

Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:37 PM CDT
I have been reading your website and several other's on caringbridge for some time. I have never read a poem that has gave me sooooo much comfort than this poem. I lost my precious 16 year old daughter after a 3 year struggle with this horrible disease on 12-15-01 and my Mom/Best Friend in April of that same year from lung cancer. What a beautiful, comforting picture you placed in my mind when changing a few words around. Thank you.....
Love and Prayers to you...
Deneen
Mom to Tiffanie Salvadia Forever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/tiffanie

Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@aol.com>
Enola, PA USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 1:08 PM CDT
Have been following your story for some time but haven't signed in. We live in Sanford, NC and know Shannon so have been following her closely. Her site has led us to you and to other sites which has led us to other sites etc. We pray daily for Shannon and others at Caringbridge.org. We were so saddened when we read of Reece's passing. Know that we care and pray for God's loving arms to comfort you. The poem is so touching. What a beautiful picture to hold close to your heart - Reece and his PaPa walking hand in hand going to the shore to play.
Nancy & Ed Aman
Sanford, NC - Monday, April 28, 2003 10:49 AM CDT
Hi! Let me just say that the memory box is gorgeous! What a great job! The family photo is great as well. I can see why it is one of your most prized possessions. Thanks for sharing it with us all. I continue to be blessed by Reese. I was looking at the photo album from Duke earlier and again my heart was touched and broken. He is such a precious little boy. He went through so much with such valor. I know you are proud to be his mommy. Your faith simply amazes me. What a delight to know you. May God continue to bless and comfort you.

Continually in my thoughts and prayers,

Kim Barker
- Monday, April 28, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
Dearest Coble's...
Thank you for sharing Reese's poem and those precious photos...they are beautiful, crooked grin and all! :0)
~Kim~

~KODYS STORY~
- Monday, April 28, 2003 9:25 AM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
That poem was beautiful! The shelf is also beautiful. As always you and Doug are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you all have a good week in this beautiful weather.
God Bless you all!!

Stephanie Conner
Cana, VA - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:52 AM CDT
Shawn,
The memory box, poem and pictures are beautiful! I am so glad that you have so many wonderful memories to remind you of Reese's happy days here on earth with you. There are just not enough words to say how special Reese is to me.

Have a great day.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, April 28, 2003 7:47 AM CDT
Shawn,
The pictures are really pretty. The Memory Box and the family picture are really nice. Reese will always be missed. God Bless you and the family. Hope things are going well. Always in my prayers.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:38 AM CDT
What a beautiful and touching poem. We continue to pray for you and your family. God bless and keep you until you while you wait to be in Reese's arms again.
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 0:43 AM CDT
Shawn, I appreciate your entry today. As always, Prayers and Hugs!!
LOVE YOU MUCH!!!!!!!
- Sunday, April 27, 2003 11:24 PM CDT
Shawn,
You did a very beautiful job on the memory box, I love it, the poem was very beautiful as well. Just remember that like the poem says, you will one day be with Reese again and you will have all of eternity to spend it with him!

REBECCA JONES
Tx - Sunday, April 27, 2003 10:30 PM CDT
Hi, I love the family photo! I know what you mean about pictures being a prized possesion! Somedays I feel the need to look at reminders of Isobel all the time, other days it hurts too much to see her.
I, too check your site everyday and think and pray for you guys. It's too bad we had to "meet" under these cicumstances but I'm glad for all my online friends and family!
Love and prayers, Cathy

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Saturday, April 26, 2003 8:18 PM CDT
Hi Shaw, Doug, and Taylor:
Just checking in to say hello and to remind you that we are still here when and if you need us for anything at all. The memory box is so sweet and the family portrait is just beyond words. I know this has a very special meaning for you and is just priceless. I am glad you got to see everyone you wanted to see when you made your trip to Duke. I know your visit meant a lot to everyone and it must have been healing for you and Doug. You all three certainly mean a lot to Bill and me both. I haven't heard anything about Toni for a while. I hope she is doing well. God bless you all and replenish your strength daily.
In God's love, Martha

Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC Surry - Saturday, April 26, 2003 7:21 PM CDT
It was so great to see you on Tuesday...I am really glad I tracke dyou guys down too...Cody sported the badge and the fire helmet for 2 days before he finally decided that the sticker wasn't working too well anymore...I miss you guys a whole bunch and I really have taken to heart some of the words that you have written in this entry and in others about cherrishing the time we have with our children...I find myself taking time to do all of the small things that used to be a hassle with Cody...with Riley and with my other children...I even catch myself telling my husband that some of the things that we discipline for are no big deal...Thanks...I love you and I miss you and I am really glad you came...we will back and forth to Durham for a while post homebound...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Friday, April 25, 2003 5:38 PM CDT
Shawn,

It was GREAT chatting with you today. I am so glad you got to make your visit to Duke, even though it was bittersweet. That is part of what makes it somehow worthwhile (when our little ones leave us) to be able to put yourself out there for other families. They see you as such an example of strength, survival, compassion and the list goes on and on. Don't think for a second that Reese wasn't smiling down from Heaven beaming, "Yes! That's MY Mommy... isn't she great?"

I won't keep rambling on here... I will just save that for an e-mail. Don't forget that God is good, all the time, and He will put a song in your heart even when you least expect it. As each day comes and goes, I know you will give Him the glory, even though Reese isn't with you in body. After all, he is with you in spirit!

Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <www.caringbridge.org/al/cameron>
Anniston, AL USA - Friday, April 25, 2003 4:55 PM CDT
Shawn,
The family photo is wonderful! I'm glad that you included it on the site. May the Lord be watching over your family.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Friday, April 25, 2003 2:13 PM CDT
Shawn you and Doug are definitely two very strong individuals. I'm sure it took allot for you both to go back to Duke. I think it is wonderful that you both did go back and visit and I'm quite sure that you made allot of individuals day. I really admire all the strength and kindness that you all show. Reese is definitely watching over you and got all the other angels in heaven taking the best care of his parents. I'm sure it makes him very proud and happy to have two such loving and caring parents. May God bless all of you and continue to give you strength and courage. Ressie I'm so very proud of your Mommy and Daddy they both are two extremely caring, thoughtful and wonderful individuals.
Angela Trivette <Angela.Trivette@Wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, April 25, 2003 1:31 PM CDT
Good morning Shawn & Doug,
When we read about your visit to Duke it truly touched our hearts. Your compassion and empathy radiates throughout your journal entry. God is using your misery as a ministry to reach out to others in a way many of us can not. May God continue to bless you as you bless others.
Love & prayers,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Friday, April 25, 2003 9:42 AM CDT
Thinking of you today and everyday!I am glad your trip to Durham went well for you both.I feel the need to go back too!I am going for the walk of heroes.I hope I hold up ok.I really miss everyone sooooooo much.I hope to hear from you soon.
christina schoenleb <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
cleveland, nc - Friday, April 25, 2003 1:00 AM CDT
Shawn & Doug,
Again we wanted to say Thank you so much for stopping in to see Noah. It was nice to have some encouragement on such an important day for him, and we too pray that this stem cell boost works. I don't truly understand what you all are going through, but I do understand what you have said in your journal about your feelings of envy to look at other families and their transplanted kids who are now able to go home. We have not completely given up, but our circumstances are not the best. However, in saying that, we do appreciate still having Noah here with us right now at this moment and owe you a big Thank you for reminding us of that. At times we do get so wrapped up in all of the things that are going wrong with him that we forget that we do still have him, even if he is not well. We continue to keep your family in our prayers. Best wishes to you Shawn as you start working full time this next week. God bless and keep you both. May he grant peace in your hearts.
Aloha & Mahalo,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 7:18 PM CDT
I have to say I love Nana's story, that is so sweet....and yes her story is true, I see Teddy's brother come out in Kristen so much, her middle name is after Teddy's brother who past away in 1992 due an accident of a gun shot wound from Teddy's step father....
Dee Dee <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 4:31 PM CDT
I haven't written you in a while, but I had to tell you how wonderful it was for you to go see the children at Duke. God Bless You for everything you do for everyone else.
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Thursday, April 24, 2003 12:31 AM CDT
The spider wove her web between the branches of the old apple tree. The dew on the strands were silver in the sun and waved gently in the breeze.
My first thought was,"Oh, I'll have to show my Reesie Cup this prize!" Then remembered he was gone and it would never be.
A little voice whispered very low,"Oh Nanna, don't you know? The web was sparkling all the way up here and I knew you'd want to see. Like strands of diamonds,waving, dancing, they looked so lovely to me. I led you here, to this old tree, to share this prize with you. So don't be sad, cause I'm right here, and I will always be.
The rain was ending and the thunder had quit, the sun came out to shine. The rainbow glowed all colors, pink, blue, lavender and green. My first thought was,"Oh, I'll have to show my Reesie Cup this prize!" Then I remembered he was gone and it would never be.
The little voice whispered very low, "Oh, Nanna, don't you see. The rainbow is like a kaleidoscope and shines right through to me! I thought it looked so pretty and I knew you'd want to see. I led you out and had you look up so I could share this prize. So don't be sad, cause I'm right here and I will always be."
The blue birds flitted all around the nesting box out back. I looked into the box and saw their little babies soft and still. My first thought was,"Oh, I'll have to show my Reesie Cup this prize!" Then I remembered he was gone and it was not to be.
The little voice whispered very low, "Oh, Nanna don't you know. I heard the bluebird's sweet, sweet song all the way up here. Their lyrics were like the angel's songs and I knew you'd want to see. I led you to the backyard, to share this prize with you. Now take this gift and let it make your heart be glad and don't be sad, cause I'm right here and I will always be.
I'll be the spider weaving her web, like diamonds in the sun. I'll be the rainbow arching across the sky with all the colors you have ever known. I'll be the bluebird's sweet song, and the brillant flash of blue. I'll always be here, right here inside of you."

Nanna Julia
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:29 AM CDT
Shawn and Doug,
What a loving gesture it was that you went back to Duke to visit the other children and their families. It must have been so hard, but I can just picture Reesiecup leading you through those hallways. You are truly special people and you continue in my prayers!

Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:20 AM CDT
I've been to Nolan's site and several of the other kid's sites and they have mentioned you being there to help them. I can't wait to hear about your trip to Duke. You're such a great guardian angel for those families.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:38 AM CDT
Good morning Doug and Shawn,
I have read several other site and they have stated how much they appreciated you guys coming to see them Tuesday at Duke. I can not image how hard it must have been to go back....I know that you miss the place and would do anything to be back with Reese right now. You and Doug are a source of inspiration to a lot of those families and for you to take the time to go back to see them after losing your baby just a short time ago say A LOT about the kind of people you are and why the Lord loves you so much!

I look forward to reading your update on how the trip went and and I hope that it was more healing for you than hurting :)


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 7:31 AM CDT
Shawn & Doug-
It was so great seeing you guys yesterday. I miss you so much, and it was nice catching up. I know it was difficult being in those halls again, but you had an Angel on your shoulder the entire day. Thanks for coming to see us all. Hopefully we will see you another time before we head back to Illinois at the end of May. We love and miss you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:42 PM CDT
Hi Shawn!

I was just checking in to see how things were going with you. I am glad you went to visit Duke yesterday, and I can't wait to hear all the details about your journey. I am sure that your presence there meant a lot to the families who need that support, especially from someone who has "been there and done that".

I was reading about how trying Easter was for you this year, and I can SO relate to that. You see, Easter 2001 was Cameron's last holiday at home with all our family, so it has tended to be the hardest holiday for me, even more so than his birthday or Christmas. It's like you said, though... he (Reese AND Cameron) like Jesus, lives on. What a blessing to know that.

I have started a caringbridge page for Cameron, in addition to the original one I kept up while he was going through transplant. The addresses are: www.caringbridge.org/al/cameron and www.geocities.com/esmw72

I have been compiling a list of all the Hurler kids out there (the ones I know of) with websites with intentions of keeping better track of them all. I have certainly come to know more families over the computer than I ever imagined possible. I just can't sit back and not put myself out there after having lived though it. I know how much it means to have the support, and I want to offer mine to you and anyone else who needs or wants it. I feel like God let me have Cameron for a short time, but intended for the impact of his life and death to continue through me somehow. I hope I am able to do that, and let Cameron's light shine.

Well, I suppose I should get back to work. It's so hard to focus on my job when I would rather be on here checking things out! I will be back in a few days to find out how your trip to Duke went. Love and kisses from Alabama.


Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 1:40 PM CDT
Hey Coble family! I just wanted to let you know that we are continuing to pray for you and we are still here if you ever need us! Hope you had a good trip to Duke, I know it had to be hard to go back there again. Tell Taylor Colby says hey.

Love in Christ

Christie, Jeff and Colby Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 12:30 AM CDT
SHAWN, HOPE YOU HAD A GOOD DAY AT DUKE. SEEING FREINDS THAT REALLY NEED TO SEE YOU. YOU ARE A INSPIRATION TO ME AND ALOT OF OTHER PEOPLE. YOU ALLOWING AND STILL ALLOWING US TO WALK THUR YOUR AND RESSE JOURNEY. AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE NEW FREINDS AND HAVE NEVER MET. BUT LIKE I KNOW YOU AND WISH I DID. I HAVE BECOME FREINDS THUR THE INTERNET WITH NOREEN. SHE GOT ME HOOKED ON DOMINOES. I THANK YOU AND CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU ALL.
Penny Clark <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, VA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
Doug & Shawn,
Our hearts were filled with warmth with seeing you again. You both are so amazingly strong and your family, especially sweet Reese, has touched our hearts. Thank you so much for taking time to stop by to see Noah today. We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers each day. We pray that God will continue to bless you and keep you. Aloha,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:22 PM CDT
I was so glad to read you are in peace... and how wonderful that you went to visit the other transplant families. You are really special people. I am sure GOD reserves lots of wonderful surprises for your future. Special kisses from Brazil.
Rose
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 3:12 PM CDT
Hey! I sent a special prayer for you guys on Easter. I know you had a lot of bittersweet emotions that day.

We will continue to keep you guys as well as Nolan and Noah in our prayers.

May God bless you greatly on your trip to Duke.

Praying for safe travel, peace and comfort,

Kim Barker
Winston Salem, NC - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 2:29 PM CDT
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,
In our thoughts and prayers now and always. We hope you have a safe trip to Duke and back.

Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:55 AM CDT
Shawn,
Just wanted to let you know that you and Doug will be in my thoughts and prayers today as you travel to Duke. I know that this trip will not be easy for you, but I think it will help you and it will definately lift the spirits of those that were cellmates on the 5200 hall. I'm still continuing to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for posting the address for donations to "Reese's Center". I had asked Dennis about it last weekend when we were in a class togehter and he said he would give me a card with he address, but we never got around to it!!
Take care and I will be checking on you soon!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:20 AM CDT
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
Good Morning! Glad to hear that you had a good Easter. I know that all the families will be so glad to see you back at 5200. You are a remarkable woman Shawn. Please know that you really are. Hope that you and Doug have a good safe trip down to Duke. Take care and I'll be checking back in. Thinking of you always and praying for ya. Have a great day and week.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:21 AM CDT
Had to check in to see how your Easter was and to let you know your family is in my thoughts. I'm sure the families you mentioned in your journal will be so happy to see you. And Reese would be proud of you both for reaching out. I'm so glad you have that "family" to share your pain, joys, sorrow. Hope you have a safe trip. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 5:46 AM CDT
how wonderful of you to check on everyone from 5200. i know the visit should mean a lot to everyone. keep strong!
jennifer
chapel hill, nc - Monday, April 21, 2003 11:24 PM CDT
Shawn, I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Doug as you travel to Durham tomorrow. If you need anything let me know. I'm here when you are ready to talk. See you soon.
Kim

Kim Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, April 21, 2003 9:29 PM CDT
HEY SHAWN, YOU ARE A UNBEIVLEALE LADY. WITH ALL THAT YOU HAVE AND STILL GOING THUR. YOU THINK OF OTHERS. I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY. IM GLAD YOU ARE GOING TO DUKE. IT WILL DO YOU AND THEM ALL GOOD. UP DATE WHEN YOU GET BACK.
PENNY
bassett, VA - Monday, April 21, 2003 8:25 PM CDT
Hi Shawn,

I am happy that you are coming here tomorrow, I miss seeing you, Toni and Reese. Of course we will be at clinic all day so we will be waiting for you. HUGS!!

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, April 21, 2003 5:34 PM CDT
Such a pretty baby. I know you miss him more than words can say. I lost my son in Dec 2002. I miss him more and more everyday. You are in my thoughts.
Linda Byrd <byrd@net1inc.net>
Flomaton, AL us - Monday, April 21, 2003 5:09 PM CDT
HELLO,
JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW YOU AND YOUR FAMILY STAY IN MY THOUGHTS, HEART AND PRAYERS. AS WE CELEBRATED THE RESURRECTION OF JESUS YESTERDAY, LET US NOT FORGET THERE IS A SECOND PART TO THAT. "HE'S COMING AGAIN". THAT IS JUST GOD'S PROMISE OF TELLING US THAT HE IS COMING BACK AND HE IS TAKING THOSE WHO ARE HERE AND SAVED WITH HIM. WE ARE ALL GOING HOME ONE DAY. THERE IS GONNA BE A GREAT BIG FAMILY REUNION IN A PLACE OF NO MORE SORROW OR PAIN. I'M GLAD WE HAVE THAT PROMISE. HE SAID HE IS COMING BACK AND HE WILL. HE GAVE YOU LITTLE REECE, IT MAY FEEL HE HAS TAKEN HIM FROM YOU, BUT HE HASN'T, HE IS JUST PROTECTING HIM FROM ALL THE SICKNESS OF THIS WORLD. HE WILL BRING YOU BACK TOGETHER ONE DAY. WHO KNOW'S IT COULD BE TODAY! BUT, IF IT'S NOT JUST WAIT. HE WILL REUNITE YOU WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. IN THE MEANWHILE, JUST REMEMBER, HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU WITH GRACE. TAKE CARE.

BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Monday, April 21, 2003 11:29 AM CDT
I think it is very special that you are going to Duke tomorrow .... I know that going back is going to be very hard for you and I wish you peace. I hope you and Doug have a very special day:)

Please pass along a hug and kiss to baby Noah...this little boy like Reese has touched my heart and I am so sad for his parents. Please tell them that I am thinking of them.

When you see Nolan and if you see Jordan please pass along a kiss to them as well.

I will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow...

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, April 21, 2003 9:46 AM CDT
Dear Coble Family,
I am glad to hear that you are doing well. My prayers
and thoughts go out to your family. I never knew Reese, but
by looking at his pictures, he is surely one of Heavens
angels. I cannot even imagine what you are going through, but only God knows how to comfort you and give you the
gift of seeing Reese again. Reese is always with you in
spirit. I hope that your visit to Duke is good, and that
you can comfort other families that are going through a
trying time. I can tell by reading your journal that you
are a true Christian lady. We all need Jesus, and his
Peace that passeth all understanding. I was glad to see
that your vacation went well. Just take it day by day, month
by month and year by year until our Lord Jesus returns to
take us home and be with our loved ones.
May God Bless you and be with you always.

Stephanie Sawyers <stephanie.sawyers@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Monday, April 21, 2003 9:45 AM CDT
You remain in our thoughts and in our prayers...it is our prayer that today was a day filled with the spirit and the gentle reminder that Jesus has Risen...and it is because of this truth Reese has been healed!
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
I just wanted to know that we were thinking about you, especially today on Easter as we celebrate Christ's resurrection.
Randy, Robin, Jake and Grace Boger
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, April 20, 2003 8:36 PM CDT
Happy Easter..... I can only imagine that today was a difficult day. I have had you on my mind all day.... I am glad that the vacation went well. It sounds as if Taylor had alot of fun. It is hard to still be a mommy when your heart is breaking for another child but Taylor needs you and he will help your heart to heal. Take care and I hope that the coming week will bring some sunshine into your life.....watch the sparkle in Taylors eyes, that could be Reece watching over you....
Stephanie Beck <smbeck@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC - Sunday, April 20, 2003 6:27 PM CDT
Happy Easter to a very special family. We will continue to keep you in our prayers.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Sunday, April 20, 2003 1:10 PM CDT
Hey guys just wanted to wish you a Happy Easter. My thoughts are with you everyday!
alyssa
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 12:35 AM CDT
Doug. Shawn and Taylor,
Happy Easter!! I hope that you are having a good day and hope to hear from you soon. In my thoughts and prayers always.

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Sunday, April 20, 2003 11:16 AM CDT
Shawn and Doug:

I am glad to hear that you were able to create some wonderful memories that you can cherish forever from your trip.

I can say that I know exactly what you are talking about when you say that Taylor has to "borrow" a playmate these days. I think each time I see Nathan having to find someone to play with I have to remember that this must be a part of God's soverign plan for our family. I have no idea what God is trying to teach us through the horrific journey we traveled... but I know that He is trying to teach us something. I remember Noelle telling me that, "the wise man always took the harder, more skinny, road."

I wanted to drop by this Eater morning just to say that it is because of this day that we have hope... a promise... a future. We are sure to be reunited with our children once again. Praise God for His neverending love. Until we are with our precious children once again we must trust.

Our family continues to think about and pray for your family. Even though we never "met" Reese, he sure touched our lives in a very positive way. His contageous little personality sure had a rippling effect... one that will never stop sharing love.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, April 20, 2003 9:32 AM CDT


Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, April 19, 2003 8:38 PM CDT
THAT POEM JUST TEARED ME UP!!! THAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND I PRAY THAT IS TRUE FOR ALL OF US! LOVE, TRACY
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THIS EASTER:)

Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)



TRACY SOLOMON
- Saturday, April 19, 2003 3:51 PM CDT
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,
I just wanted to drop a note and say "hello" and wish you all a happy Easter....

Hope all is well:)


Robin Tucker
- Saturday, April 19, 2003 2:21 PM CDT
I am not sure what to say to you all, as I dont want to pretend to even begin to imagine what you are going through. But I wanted to drop by and extend our condolences and wishes that Reese is pain free and at peace, looking over you all.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Saturday, April 19, 2003 11:34 AM CDT
Shawn, Thanks for checking in on us so often, I know it must be hard reading about each step of our journey, remembering your time here. I pray for you so often. The nurses say how much Nolan reminds them of your Reese. I feel honored. You have been such a blessing to me I can not express how much. I pray your pain will ease someday, somehow. Love,
Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey #5201) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Friday, April 18, 2003 11:26 PM CDT
Shawn,
Glad to hear you got away but I'm sure it was bittersweet. You continue in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Friday, April 18, 2003 9:22 PM CDT
Shawn, I completely understand about the guestbook. I do the same thing! You know, I have been thinking about you all day! I was actually gonna right you a letter tonight. I will still do that. I just want you to know that I miss you and love you. You all are in my prayers every night and day. Love you!
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
- Friday, April 18, 2003 8:14 PM CDT
My prayers are with you and your family always and forever.
Katie <stones_throw_girlie@excite.com>
- Friday, April 18, 2003 12:52 AM CDT
Just wanted to offer you a wish for a Happy Easter. You remain in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

The Prichard Family <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Friday, April 18, 2003 10:50 AM CDT
HAPPY EASTER Shawn, Doug, Taylor, Toni & Andy.... Know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers daily!! Love you guys.... The vacation pictures were GREAT.. Tator tot sure enjoyed those dolphins. Give him a kiss for us.
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, April 18, 2003 9:56 AM CDT
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,
Glad to hear that you had a good vacation. Swimming with the dolphins sounds awesome!!!! Shawn, I know that things are still hard and overwhelming at times and I wish there was a way to take all that pain and sadness away. I continue to pray for you all everyday!! Take care and Happy Easter! Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Friday, April 18, 2003 7:08 AM CDT
Shawn,
Welcome home! I am glad that overall you had a good vacation. I guess the start of it was like out weather here then huh?...lol.....But really, I am glad that you had a good time. Sometimes it takes getting away from it all. I continue to think of you all daily and pray for you daily. I can only imagine that things are still so tough. Keep smiling and I know that someday soon God will reunite you with you precious angel. Until them, he is watching over you I know. I hope that you have a blessed Easter and a wonderful weekend. Praying for you always!

Stephanie Conner
Cana, Va - Friday, April 18, 2003 5:57 AM CDT
Hey Shawn...Just wnated to see how things were going...So glad that your vacation was overall a good one...We still miss you here so much...we have had all of our children here for the past week so it has been difficult to spend much time on the computer...please know I still drop by and check in every single day...you are in our thoughts and prayers...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley & Jeremy & Marina <www.forcody.org>
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 10:55 AM CDT
Dear Shawn,
I had a chance to visit with Robin at our Bible study today. Please remember you are still in our thoughts and prayers. Hold on to Jesus...
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warrior

Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:23 PM CDT
Dear Shawn --just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you this morning and wanted to stop by to say hello. I'm glad you had a nice vacation and can only imagine the feelings of missing sweet Reece and not having him next to you. I hope that Taylor had a great time because I know how much he missed you and his little brother when you were here. As an only child I can tell you that they tend to be very loyal friends and can form deep friendships (I think we have to!!!!). I miss having you and Toni here so much!!! I'm praying that your hearts heal day by day and that it does get easier to bear.
Pat and Isaiah <www.caringbridge.com/mi/isaiah>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 12:20 AM CDT
Welcome home!! We love you! Dad & Noreen
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 1:49 AM CDT
Shawn,
Good to see you had a good time on your vacation. I can only imagine how much you missed and wanted Reese to be their with you, enjoying the sun, something tells me that though he may not have been their in body, he was their in spirit! Reese has touched so many people and so have you. I still pray and think of you daily. I hope for nothing but the best for you!

Rebecca
Tx - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
oh honey,
as always I need a Klenex box to read your journal. I feel like I live every emotion with you. I know it was hard to go and have a good time without your precious angel, but I have no doubt he was watching over you (especially on all those white-knuckle cab rides). I'm glad you got to get away for a few days. I can't wait to see you. Talk to you soon.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 8:30 PM CDT
WOW. Do you ever sum up alot of my feelings also. I lost my 13 year old last Oct after BMT. His cancer returned 80 days after transplant. I also have another son, Austin. I never dreamed that I would have an only child. Never, Never. I see him playing with all the kids in the neighborhood and I think he should be playing with his brother. His brother will never be his best man at his wedding. I would love to have another but I am now 39 and my husband is 40. We kind of took care of that a long time ago. I have talked about adoption but my husband wants nothing to do with it. He still has alot of healing to do. I do too. Everything we do we think of Adam. My motherinlaw said to me the other day "I just think it gets harder instead of easier" I tend to agree. The pain seems to lessen but missing him becomes worse. The thing that gets me through every day is knowing he is now with God and no longer in pain. He suffered for 4 and a half years. Way too long if you ask me. Just to know that he is at peace helps me so much. Thats just what I have to keep thinking about. Take care and God bless you.

Ruth Trombino <alandruth@myexcel.com>
Westerly, RI - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 2:01 PM CDT
Glad that you had a wonderful time on your vacation! laura :)
caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 1:27 PM CDT
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,
We are glad you are home and had a nice time. You all are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Love,

Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 9:48 AM CDT
Shawn,
Welcome home...I am glad that you guys hads such a nice trip:) I know there will never be a vacation, sunset, breeze or rainbow that you want think of Reese, but my wish for you is that the Lord will give you peace in knowing Reese is in a better place.. I am sure that Reese was there watching Taylor play in the sand and holding your hand as you walked on the beach thinking of him...remember he is always near:)

All my love..

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 9:37 AM CDT
Shawn,
I am glad to hear you had a good time in the Bahamas. You are in my prayers throughout the day. God Bless you. If you need someone to talk to I am hear for ya. Hope you, Doug, and Taylor have a good Easter.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 7:46 AM CDT
Shawn,
I'm so glad you, Doug and Taylor had a nice vacation. The weather was much colder here!! I stopped by Skyline and Reeces's Easter flowers are so pretty, with the Easter eggs and pretty colored flowers. I hope that your family has a nice Easter. Thinking of you daily.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 7:08 AM CDT
I am not sure what to say to you all, as I dont want to pretend to even begin to imagine what you are going through. But I wanted to drop by and extend our condolences and wishes that Reese is pain free and at peace, looking over you all.




Angel Chris and all your friends at Smile Quilts
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com <
PS I was there too once, they are psychos in the Bahamas!
>
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 0:18 AM CDT
To Reese's parents,
I am so sorry about the loss of your son. We lost our daughter, Amanda, six months ago after a transplant at Duke. One of the comforting thoughts I have is that my Amanda and your Reese does not know the pain that there parents are in today.
They are happy and healthy in Heaven for eternity. I believe that love last forever. I beleive with all my heart that our children feel our love all the way up to Heaven. You will always be the mother of two children. God bless you.

May you find comfort and peace, Gary and Kathy Massey www.caringbridge.org/nc/amanda
- Monday, April 14, 2003 10:57 PM CDT
Glad you are back, I still pray for you each day and cry for Reese. You are doing great. Love,

Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey #5201) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Monday, April 14, 2003 9:09 PM CDT
Just wanted you all to know that I was thinking of you and hope that you are having a wonder vacation:)


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, April 14, 2003 12:50 AM CDT
Happy Easter in Heaven Sweet Reese!


~KODYS STORY~
- Monday, April 14, 2003 10:07 AM CDT
I am checking in on you to see how things are going. I hope you are having a great time on your much needed vacation. Please know that we continue to keep your family in our prayers daily. Sending hugs your way.
James, Julie, Jay, & Cailyn Arrington <roojul1990@hotmail.com>
Martinsville, Va USA - Sunday, April 13, 2003 10:21 PM CDT
Shawn,
I don't know if you have seen this poem but it was given to me after the loss of our little boy from the nurses at the hospital

IF YOU COULD ONLY SEE

I KNOW YOU'RE FEELING SAD TODAY BECAUSE I HAD TO GO.
I KNOW YOU HAVE SO MANY THINGS
THAT REMIND YOU OF ME SO.
AND THOUGH YOU CRY AS YOU RECALL
THE TIMES YOU SPENT WITH ME.
I KNOW YOUR PAIN WOULD TURN TO JOY IF ONLY
YOU COULD SEE. I'M IN HEAVEN WITH JESUS NOW.
WE LAUGH, WE SING, WE PLAY.
HE HOLDS ME GENTLY IN HIS ARMS.
I KNOW NO PAIN TODAY.
AND THOUGH WE'RE APART A LITTLE WHILE,
JESUS HAS PROMISED ME
HE'LL SOMEDAY BRING YOU HERE WHERE WE'LL LIVE FOR ETERNITY.

THIS POEM HELP ME, I ALWAYS READ IT WHEN I WAS FEELING DOWN, THOUGHT YOU WOULD ENJOY THE POEM!
REBECCA ~JUSTICE~ 01-24-01

REBECCA JONES <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Chandler, Tx - Sunday, April 13, 2003 4:12 PM CDT
I just had to come visit your sweet baby before I went to bed tonight. LOVE the other pic on the site- esp. the angel wings! You take care, laura
Colton and Bronson's mother
- Saturday, April 12, 2003 10:40 PM CDT
Doug, Shawn, & Taylor,
I pray that your vacation time is everything you need to regroup after the last several months. God is in control. Rejoice!
Taylor, did you get to go on an Easter egg hunt this week-end? Kaden and I went to the Zoo today and hunted Easter eggs and then went to Chucky Cheeze's and played games for a couple of hours. It is so wonderful having him for a grandson as I know it is a wonderful blessing for your parents to have you for their loving son.
Thank you all for allowing us to be a part of Reese's life. He was a beautiful little boy and I know you miss him beyond words. May God's loving arms surround you each and every day and give you His peace.
Have a blessed Holy Week.
Remember Jesus' body and blood--they were given for you.
1st Corinthians 11:24 "Do this in remembrance of Me."
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Saturday, April 12, 2003 9:53 PM CDT
YOUR FAMILY HAS BEEN IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DAILY. ALTHOUGH THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I HAVE SIGNED THE GUEST BOOK, I HAVE VISITED THE SITE MANY TIMES. I CAN NOT EVEN BEGIN TO IMAGINE THE PAIN THAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR HEARTS. TAYLOR IS ON MY MIND CONSTANTLY BECAUSE I KNOW THAT FROM MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE IT IS NEVER EASY TO EXPLAIN DEATH TO A CHILD. WE LOST A BABY AND THE HARDEST THING WAS TELLING OUR OTHER LITTLE BOY THAT THE BABY WAS GONE. HE DID NOT UNDERSTAND WHY GOD WOULD LET US HAVE A BABY FOR JUST A LITTLE WHILE AND THEN TAKE HIM AWAY. WE, AS ADULTS DID NOT UNDERSTAND, HOW WERE WE TO EXPLAIN IT TO A CHILD? GOD HAS AN AMAZING WAY OF GIVING US STRENGTH WHEN WE THINK THAT WE CAN NOT GO ON.
YOUR LITTLE REECE WAS A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY. HE HAS TOUCHED THE HEARTS OF SO MANY PEOPLE AND HOPEFULLY HE HAS BEEN A REMINDER TO US PARENTS TO NEVER TAKE A DAY FOR GRANTED WITH OUR CHILDREN. THERE ARE DAYS WHEN I WOULD LOVE TO COME HOME TO PEACE AND QUIET, SLEEP THRU THE NIGHT, HAVE A MEAL WHERE I REMEMBER WHAT I ATE AND THAT THE FOOD WAS HOT, NOT TRIP OVER A TOY AND STUMP MY TOE, A DAY WHERE I COULD BE SELFISH BUT WHEN I THINK THESE THOUGHTS I AM ALWAYS REMINDED THAT YOU WOULD GIVE ANYTHING FOR THESE LITTLE "HAPPENINGS" WITH REECE. THUR YOUR LOSS I HAVE BEEN REMINDED THAT BEING A PARENT IS THE GREATEST JOB THAT GOD ALLOWS US TO HAVE. WE ARE NOT PROMISED TOMORROW WITH OUR CHILDREN AND I THANK GOD DAILY FOR THE BLESSING OF HAVING TWO LITTLE BOYS. I PRAY TO GOD THAT I WILL BE THE BEST MOMMY THAT I CAN BE WHILE I AM HERE ON EARTH AND THAT IF HE CALLS ME HOME THAT MY BOYS WILL REMEMBER THAT I LOVE THEM WITH ALL MY HEART AND THAT NOTHING ELSE IN MY LIFE WAS AS IMPORTANT AS LOVING THEM. I CAN NOT BEGIN TO IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT THEM AND FOR THAT REASON I PRAY DAILY THAT GOD WILL COMFORT YOU.
I HOPE THAT THE TIME AWAY WAS A BEGINNING TO A HEALING PROCESS FOR YOUR FAMILY. I HOPE THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO HAVE SOME FAMILY TIME AS WELL AS SOME "ME" TIME. COMING HOME WILL PROBABLY BE DIFFICULT BECAUSE THE REALITY WILL HIT ONCE AGAIN BUT I PRAY FOR STRENGTH AND COMFORT IN YOUR HEARTS.
LOVE,
STEPHANIE BECK
MT AIRY, NC

STEPHANIE BECK <smbeck@surry.net>
MT AIRY, NC USA - Saturday, April 12, 2003 6:56 PM CDT
Hope you had fun on your vacation. Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Saturday, April 12, 2003 4:49 PM CDT
Dearest Shawn,
You are weighing having on my heart and mind tonight. I think about you all the time. I still cry every day but can hold it together well enough that no one knows (I hope!) I hope you all got some much needed R&R while on vacation. Much love,

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, April 11, 2003 9:48 PM CDT
Im so sorry for your loss. Reese is so beautiful! Im so sorry. I know he is heaven playing with my friend Lianne. Who passed with Bone Cancer. She loved babies and children! God Bless!
Leah Owens <leah2k5@earthlink.net>
Austin, TX USA - Friday, April 11, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
God Bless this world.
justcruzin_thru_100mph
- Friday, April 11, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
Hi I would just like to say again how very sorry I am for your loss. I hope that you get to feeling better soon. My thought and prayers go out to you and ur family. Kisses all around!! With love...
Greg Stratton <dizzy_2k3@hotmail.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Friday, April 11, 2003 12:09 AM CDT
I still check your page everyday. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know little Reese if looking down from heaven smiling and happy that he is now well and can run and play.
God Bless you!

Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Friday, April 11, 2003 9:26 AM CDT
Hi. I have found your site through other caringbridge sites. Reese is one of the most beautiful boys i have ever seen in my life. I hope that your pain of losing will him will begin to subside and will be replaced with peace that he is in a better place. No worries, no one expects that to happen any time soon. I love to read your entries as it brings me back home. I hope you enjoy your vacation, you definitely deserve it.
Love,

Victoria <victo73@hotmail>
Leigh, England - Friday, April 11, 2003 8:34 AM CDT
I am thinking about you all tonight. I pray so hard that today was a little easier than yesterday....and tomorrow will be a little easier than today. I think about you guys all the time. Much love,
Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, April 10, 2003 9:54 PM CDT
Thinking about you today. Hope today was filled with pleasant memories of Reese. I know how hard certain days can be and I hope you made it through today ok. Wishing you peace and wonderful memories of your days with Reese.
Love, Roberta
- Thursday, April 10, 2003 9:16 PM CDT
Whenever I think of angels, I see your baby's smiling face, Laura
Laura Clevelry
Bakersfield , ca - Thursday, April 10, 2003 8:57 PM CDT
Dear family thinking of you today on Reese's 1 month angel day. Angel Reese watch over your family and send them love from above.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Thursday, April 10, 2003 8:17 PM CDT
Hey guys!! Hope that your vcacation is going well. It is messy and rainy here with thunderstorms. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of ya'll and hope you are enjoying yourselves!! Have a good time and a safe trip home :)
Stephanie Conner <cr404@hotmail.com>
Cana, VA - Thursday, April 10, 2003 3:11 PM CDT
Enjoy your vacation as best as you can knowing Reesie is right there with you!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, April 10, 2003 1:20 PM CDT
Shawn,
I hope that you, Doug, and Taylor have a wonderful vacation. Just sit back and have some fun. God Bless you and your family. Your in my prayers.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Thursday, April 10, 2003 12:52 AM CDT
Hoping that your vacation is wonderful and that reese shows that he is there with you and giving you sunshine and rainbows to get through each day.
nw
wi - Thursday, April 10, 2003 9:00 AM CDT
Thinking of you all and missing you...Have a GREAT vacation!!!!
You all remain in our thoughts and prayers daily...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Wednesday, April 9, 2003 1:32 PM CDT
Doug, Shawn and Taylor...
Hope you have a great vacation trip..I am so glad that you all are able to get away for a while..the warm sunny weather will do you good...and Reese will be smiling down on you the whole time!!! Still praying and asking for Reese to meet you in your dreams!!! Tell Doug that "Little Bobby" said hey!!!! Have fun Tater Tot!!!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 11:58 AM CDT
Hey Shawn, I hope you enjoy your vacation. I know just being able to have some "alone" time will help some. When Jacob was first diagnosed and things would become just too much I would go for a drive. Just me, by myself. This gave me time to think and get things into perspective. Have fun with your guys.
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
- Tuesday, April 8, 2003 9:18 PM CDT
HELLO DOUG, SHAWN AND TAYLOR, IT WAS SO GOOD TO SEE YOU ALL THE OTHER NIGHT AND I KNOW COLBY ENJOYED PLAYING WITH TAYLOR. I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A WONDERFUL VACATION AND GET SOME MUCH NEEDED TOGETHER TIME. BE SAFE, STAY HEALTHY AND REMEMBER ALL THE PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU.
KAYE JOYCE <kayej09@yahoo.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 6:43 PM CDT
shawn, just checking in to see how you are doing. hope yall have a good vacation and get some you alone time. thats alsway a good thing. ill be checking back later have fun!!!you deserve it

Penny Clark <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, va - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 5:25 PM CDT
Shawn,
Just wanted to check in and let ya know that I am thinking about you. Not a day goes by that I don't check the site or think and pray for you. I am so sorry that I have not written in the guestbook more often. I hope that you, Doug and Taylor have a safe and wonderful trip. Make the best of it. Think of us all back here in the 40 degree weather....lol.......Just kidding! Have a good trip though and find some You time. It really does help. I want to also say Hi to all of your family and to Toni. Hope all is well your way. I'll be looking forward to the next update. Have a wonderful vacation

Stephanie Conner-Surry 911 Communications <cr404@hotmail.com>
Cana, VA - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 2:53 PM CDT
I don't think I have signed before but just wanted to say what an inspiration you and Reese And your family are to me . I have a son Will (3 yrs) who has HUnters and we are facing the end of his life we think soon. Your little darling is so beautiful and so like my boy and it helps me to see how bravely you are coping with your loss. I wish you all of everything good in the future Best wishes Laura
Laura Brodie <labro@wili.fsnet.co.uk>
Birmingham, e - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 1:32 PM CDT
I really hope that you find the peace that you are looking for. I can clearly see that you are a beautiful mother and person. My prayers go for you. It will get better!, I hope you can dream about your little angel.
Nancy Abello <wisdom3@stis.net>
North Miami Beach, FL USA - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 1:26 PM CDT
Just checking on you all...plus Reese's big, smiley face always makes me smile too. I needed a dose of big smiles today (and it's not even 11 am PDT!) and I knew just where to go to get it!
I'm glad that you and your family will get a chance to get a change of scenery. And, being from the great Pacific Northwest, warm sounds fabulous (even just sun, would be a plus!).
If you are beach bound, maybe you could sneak away for a quiet walk by the water...

Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 1:09 PM CDT
Have a really nice vacation. Love you guys.
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 11:42 AM CDT
I HAVE VISITED YOUR SITE MANY TIMES SINCE I INITIALLY RECEIVED YOUR PRAYER REQUEST FROM A FRIEND. IT WAS BOTH HEARTBREAKING AND INSPIRIRATIONAL. YOUR STRENGTH ASTOUNDS ME!I CAN ONLY IMAGINE YOUR FEELINGS OF LOSING REESE! MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY!IN TODAY'S HECTIC WORLD IT IS SOOOO EASY TO TAKE YOUR CHILDREN FOR GRANTED AND TO NOT CHERISH ALL MOMENTS WITH THEM GOOD AND BAD! CHERISH ALL MOMENTS YOU HAVE WITH YOUR FAMILY! HAVE A GREAT VACATION!
JENNFER WILKINS <WILKINSCAMP@EARTHLINK.NET>
GRIFTON, NC PITT - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 11:36 AM CDT
I hope the little books I sent to you brings you comfort in the days ahead. You are so welcome, I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you now and in the days ahead.

I know that you guys will have a wonderful vacation! And I hope the weather is beautiful and that you are able to spend some of that alone time with yourself.

Be careful and stay safe...and try to smile:)

Reesie cup.... send down some sunbeams to warm your parents and Taylor's face and let them know you are near and that you are there on vacation with them:)


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, April 8, 2003 9:29 AM CDT
Yay! So much exciting stuff in one week. It is great that they are dedicating the center to Reese! He is the perfect guardian angel for all the kids that will be ministered too in that center!
I hope you guys have a WONDERFUL time on your trip. May you each find a piece of "exactly what you need" while you are gone.
Continually keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,

Kim Barker
- Tuesday, April 8, 2003 8:15 AM CDT
I hope you have a great time on your trip.We miss you guys and we are going to have to get together soon.I wish we could go on vacation with you!Keep in touch and have a safe trip.We love you all!!!!!
christina schoenleb
cleveland, nc - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 0:49 AM CDT
I hope you have a great time on your trip.We miss you guys and we are going to have to get together soon.I wish we could go on vacation with you!Keep in touch and have a safe trip.We love you all!!!!!
christina schoenleb
cleveland, nc - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 0:48 AM CDT
Shawn,
Hope you get some much needed "YOU" time on your vacation, I think it's great that your church wants to dedicate the children center to Reese, what a great honor! I know you must be proud. Have a great time on your trip! Still praying and thinking of you daily!
"A STRANGER"
REBECCA JONES

REBECCA JONES <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Chandler, TX - Monday, April 7, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
Aloha,
You remain in our thoughts and prayers. Please enjoy yourselves on your vacation. God bless.
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah

Greg, Debbie & baby Noah Prichard <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, April 7, 2003 9:13 PM CDT
Hello...it's me again...just checking in!!!
I love the new angel picture of Reese!!! It is so adorable..just like him!!! Still thinking of you all and praying for you daily!!! Toni..if you read this..I think of you and pray for you also..hope you and Andy are doing ok!!! There are prayers going up everyday in NC for you!!
Doug, Shawn and Taylor...love you guys!!!!

Sharon

Also, I am praying for Nolan and all the other Caring Bridge kids and families that we have been introduced to through Reese's site.


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Monday, April 7, 2003 7:03 PM CDT
~~~G'Mornin~~~ love you Tator Tot, Shawn, Doug, Toni & Andy. Thinking of you all.
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Maine - Monday, April 7, 2003 9:25 AM CDT
Good morning - Shawn, Doug, Taylor and ^Reese^,

Just wanted you all to know that I am thinking of you this morning and hope all is well....


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, April 7, 2003 9:22 AM CDT
Just wanting to let you know that we are still here, and praying for you
Kim & Halee Coe
- Sunday, April 6, 2003 7:27 PM CDT
I just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking about you. I wish I could find something to ease our pain, and if I ever do I'll be sure to let you know, otherwise just live day by day , hour by hour, or even minute by minute. If you ever need to talk I am here for you. Believing Reese and Carter are together brings me some comfort and happiness.
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Sunday, April 6, 2003 4:10 AM CDT
Shawn,
I haven't signed the guestbook for a while, but have been praying for all of you daily and for you even more times a day. Oh, honey, I wish I could meet you and give you a big hug but not to say "It will get better". You have had so much heartache for a young mother losing 4 children and for just losing ReesieCup March 10. Your journals are written from the depths of your soul and our wonderful God knows exactly how you are feeling as He even knows how many hairs we have on our head. I will pray for you to feel less guilty as truly Reese's illness was Satan at work, not you, Doug, or our God. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and the poems and the beautiful angel picture of Reese.
Thank you for putting Nolan's caringbridge site in your journal today as for some reason, all of my caringbridge sites got erased from my computer with our last power surge and I have been desperately trying to recover each of the kids I was praying for--I am still missing Isobel and a few others.
God Be With You, Shawn, Doug, and Taylor. Play t-ball for Reese and hit the ball high up in the air for him to see honey.
God Bless America.
Love in Christ

Jerri McKinley <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Saturday, April 5, 2003 11:49 PM CST
Love the picture of the sweet, sweet angel. I cannot even imagine what you are feeling but I do know what I felt, and still feel, (but not quite as steady now, 13 years later), when my parents passed away. I had to make decisions as far as treatment for them. I have questioned my decisions so many times asking what if. It is only human to second guess things bu God had a plan for Reesecup and a job for him to do and Reese did it so God blew the end of the workday whistle, It was supper time. These words probably sound silly to you and of no comfort at all, but I sincerely believe God puts each one of us on this earth with a specific plan for our life. We don't know what that plan is so we just have to ask God what He wants us to do and strive to do it. This is a period in your lives when there is only one set of footprints because God IS carrying you. Our prayers are still with you and we are still here for you. Love in Christ, Martha
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC Surry - Saturday, April 5, 2003 6:58 PM CST
Shawn,
Please don't think you have to apologize for your feelings. We feel that our mission as prayer warriors for Caringbridge is to let you and the other parents feel that you can share your feelings so we can lift your request up to Almighty God. We feel your pain and have prayed for your peace and comfort during this difficult time. We have added little Nolan to our prayer list. Sending lots of extra hugs :- )
Love & prayers,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Saturday, April 5, 2003 10:29 AM CST
Amen!!!! I visit your site everyday, but sometimes don't sign the guestbook. You and your family are in my prayers along with Nolan's family, I think about you every day. I love the picture of Reese with angel wings. Please don't blame yourself for anything, you were the perfect MOM.
Dee Dee <unc_fan@bellsouth.com>
Lewisville, nc 27023 - Saturday, April 5, 2003 9:33 AM CST
Shawn,
I love the photo you have of Reese with his angel wings and hallo. He truly is an angel. I'm going to visit the site of the other little boy and send my prayers for this family. Hope you are doing well and my thoughts and prayers still are with you.
"A stranger"
Rebecca Jones

REBECCA JONES <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Chandler , TX - Saturday, April 5, 2003 8:12 AM CST
I echo the hearty AMEN's! When Anna went to be with the Lord, I asked myself all the same questions. It WAS the enemy trying to unravel that which our precious Lord was working in us. And the enemy is still out there, constantly trying to divert our eyes from Jesus to the circumstances. May ALL our circumstances be for God's honor and glory. I am so grateful to a Saviour that brings such comfort and peace amidst our grief.
Yolanda Rogers, Mommy to Anna, http://www.galatians5.com <galatians5@truevine.net>
Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Saturday, April 5, 2003 7:16 AM CST
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Saturday, April 5, 2003 6:20 AM CST
Shawn, Doug & Taylor,
AMEN to your last entry. God is still in control and he will see you and your family through each minute of the day. Shawn, please do not blame yourself. There could never have been a more loving, caring devoted mother as you have been to Reese. He knew how much you loved him. I know these feelings are all normal and I am sure we would all feel the same way, but you can't keep beating yourself up about this. Please try to let go of it and let God feel you with his sweet peace. He can fill the emptiness and void you feel right now. I am so glad that you have kept your faith in God, please do not ever lose sight of that. Satan wants you to be discouraged but God gives us victory through his Son the Lord Jesus Christ. I am still praying for you all and I still request prayer for you at church. Your friends have not forgotten you, and most important God has not forgotten you or forsaken you. HE IS ALWAYS THERE WITH THOSE STRONG LOVING ARMS TO COMFORT US. Know that you and your family are truly loved and are in the prayers of so many people. Take care and enjoy your time together on your trip.

Bonnie Fulk <bonnie.fulk@wachovia.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Friday, April 4, 2003 11:04 PM CST
AMEN!!! I am still with you praying for strength


Josie Pynn <josie_pynn@yahoo.com>
Pembroke, Canada - Friday, April 4, 2003 8:59 PM CST
Hey Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
We've been thinking alot about you and praying that God will comfort you. Its good that you, Doug and Taylor plan to get away. You need time to heal together. Its the little things each day that reminds me of Reese. There is a place in my heart with his name on it. Our house is always open if you need a place to go.
We love you

Lynne & Joe <presmonkey@aol.com>
Va Beach, VA - Friday, April 4, 2003 8:11 PM CST
You're right...God doesn't put kids on Earth to be sick...but I know that he does choose the best. He has a plan! He had an important job for Reese. What a beautiful baby boy he is! I am continuing to pray for your family, for strength during this diffuicult time. Just get through day by day with warm memories to keep you going for your sake and your family. know that your in my prayers!
Love

Jen Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Friday, April 4, 2003 3:54 PM CST
Hello Doug, Shawn and Taylor!!!
Just checking in to let you know that I am thinking of you!!! Hope you have been enjoying these beautiful spring days!!! Praying that God is sending you peace and helping you to take it one minute at a time!!! Shawn...I saw a ladybug the other day and immediately thought of Reese...I even picked it up and let it crawl on my hand and talked to it...I told it about this special little boy named Reesiecup
and it made me think of you constantly for the rest of the day!!! I continue to keep you close in my heart and ever present in my thoughts and prayers!!! I'll be at C-Comm all weekend 6am-6pm...if you are out this way, stop by and see us!!!
Love you all!!
Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC - Friday, April 4, 2003 3:51 PM CST
AMEN!!!!
I hope that you, Doug and Taylor have a nice weekend..keeping you in my thoughts....


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, April 4, 2003 2:19 PM CST
amen, I agree with you 100%. Keep up the Good work, holding on to God's unchanging hand, and he will lead the way. You don't know me but, I heard from you througt Jacob. But I believe in God and know that he will take care of you. And I know that he is going to make it alright for you and your family.(keep the faith, and hold on).
sue
- Friday, April 4, 2003 9:52 AM CST
I stumbled across your page on chubby chica. i give yo my most heart felt condolances. He was a beautiful child. My 2 year old son, Taylor, has neuroblastoma, a rare childhood cnacer. He had stem cell transplant on 4/2. I admit I am very scared, but I know God will bring him through. Your journal was beautiful and honest. God bless you as you cary on. May God send you peace and comfort.
Kim Watts

Kim www.taylorwatts.org
McCalla, AL - Thursday, April 3, 2003 11:10 PM CST
AMEN AMEN AMEN YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS EVERYDAY. TAKE YOU A VACATION AND ENJOY THE TIME YOU HAVE WITH DOUG AND TAYLOR.AND NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF. YOU DID WHAT A GOOD MOM WOULD DO. AND THANKS FOR LETTING US GO THUR YOUR JOURNEY WITH YOU.
PENNY
bassett, va - Thursday, April 3, 2003 10:24 PM CST
Shawn,
I am so glad that you have not lost your faith in God. There is nothing wrong with asking why things happen. I think that God has used you as a messenger. You have endured so pain and suffering yet you still continue to beleive in him whole heartedly. I personally would like to thank you for sharing your journal with us. You have showed so many people why it is so important not to take your children and families for granted. You have also educated many of us because when I read your first entry on August the second I had no idea what Hurler Syndrome was. Through you we also learned about many other diseases. There are 66258 people who have also read your journal you could have saved a life and not even know it. I know that you still have a long road ahead and I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers including "Angel Reese". I hope he enjoyed his red balloons.

Laurie Snow <lauriesnow@surry.net>
Pilot Mountian, NC USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 9:53 PM CST
Shawn,
AMEN!!!!! Keep your faith in God! He is carrying you through this difficult time! My thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Rebecca

REBECCA JONES <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Chandler, TX - Thursday, April 3, 2003 9:18 PM CST
I just visited Reese's website. I remember praying very hard for him and your family back when Mckenzies mom was asking for prayers for him. Your precious little boy was just that, precious. The before picture--he was such an adorable baby. I have never seen such a cute little baby with such a big smile. Looking at the before and after picture and the burial pictures brought tears to my eyes and sadness to my heart. Then I read his journal history--he was such a little fighter. It brings me comfort to know that he is now in Heaven in a new healthy body, still with that big smile :) I was reading on Brittney's website about how God chooses little ones because they are too pure for this world and to save them from evil. Just think about that, and all the things that your little baby experienced here on earth and all of the amazing and wonderful things that he is now experiencing in Heaven and will continue to experience for eternity. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Leah Wilson
NC - Thursday, April 3, 2003 6:53 PM CST
AMEN! I just wanted to thank you for the clothes and toys that you sent to Jordan. It means so much to us, and I know it was difficult for you to send them. I think about you often and pray that God gives you peace. Thank you Reese for watching over Jordan. Shawn, I love and miss you. I will call and talk to you soon.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 5:58 PM CST
That's ONE BIG FAT AMEN for you!!!

You are in our thoughts and prayers always...I tried to give you a call a few minutes ago...with no luck :(

I will praise the Lord all of my life; I will sing praise to my God as long as I live. Psalm 146:2

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 5:57 PM CST
AMEN, Thanks for reminding me about my faith and why God has taken my only child. Your faith is an inspiration to me. We have to remind ourself of that every so often.
Hugs
Deneen
Mom to Tiffanie Salvadia Forever in Heaven

Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@aol.com>
Enola, PA USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 1:50 PM CST
Words of wisdom spoken from a true believer and from a "Mom's" heart!!!! ~~~~~AMEN~~~~~
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Maine - Thursday, April 3, 2003 1:19 PM CST
Shawn, you don´t need to apologize and as you are only a human being you are not perfect, nobody is. You don´t have the power to predict the future and I really think that you did your best in the present for your baby. Please, don´t start planning to reunite with Reese SO SOON. You have a whole life ahead of you and a husband and another child to take care of. They love you and they need you !
In the spiritualist doctrine, everything evolves around reencarnation and missions the spirits have to accomplish on Earth in order to evolute to higher degrees. Reese was already an elevated spirit that is the reason his stay here was so short. I think that you, better than anybody else, can evaluate and list the goods things his presence brought to your family, friends, doctors and all the people that got to know him or his story. I think this is the best answer for those extremely difficult situations we face in this life. Be sure that you are special people and you were not chosen by him to be his family by chance. You all have a long story together in other lifes here and in Heaven and are helping each other to grow spiritually and to become better persons. Kisses from Brazil.

Rose <rosecb@aps.com.br>
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 1:04 PM CST
Please don't feel you have to apologize for anything. I admire the courage you have to share your feelings. I cannot begin to tell you how much Reese has touched my heart, someone you've never met and that would have never happened if you did not have the strength to share your story. As a mother, I can understand your guilt. Mommies fix things, that's what we do and it's so hard to understand why we can't fix everything. Even though, we all know, in our rational mind, that we can't. I hope you find some comfort in all the people that Reese touched ( and continues to) in his short time on earth. Isn't that something that we should all strive for? Touching someone's heart and making a difference. Your family continues to be in our prayers.
Randy, Robin, Jake and Grace Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, April 3, 2003 12:22 AM CST
AMEN SISTER!! I love you and we are still praying for you and I hope you keep looking at things that way!! You have something soooo great to look forward to one day!! Still here if you ever need us!
Christie Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, April 3, 2003 12:00 AM CST
AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!!!!!!!
Jan Winston <JWInston@Carilion.com>
Roanoke, VA USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 11:08 AM CST
I think all of these feelings you are having are normal. I know they would be for me. You all have been through so much! You are exactly right about Reese and all the others they are a lot better off than any of us are here! I hope that you all do take a trip and have a wonderful time and enjoy yourselves. I think it would be good. Take Care and please know we keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 11:08 AM CST
Way to go GIRL....Thats what I like to hear....words of wisdom. I know that it has been hard but on you, but your lookin at it in the right perspective. I agree with you on GOD putting them hear and satan's sneaky ways to attack..I am so glad to hear you are in good thoughts now...AMEN....AMEN.....AMEN....
Jackey Gillsipie <jackeygillispie@hotmail.com>
Stuart, va - Thursday, April 3, 2003 11:07 AM CST
Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Your journal entry was amazing, you have such strength given to you by God.
......Jeanne

Jeanne Joiner <jeannejoiner@hotmail.com caringbridge.org/ok/rileybear>
Del City, OK USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 10:51 AM CST
Preach it sister! AMEN! :0)

It's wonderful to hear that your keeping your faith strong. I pray the blood of Jesus over you and your family.

Continually praying for you, Doug and Taylor,

Kim Barker
Winston Salem, NC 27012 - Thursday, April 3, 2003 10:46 AM CST
Hey Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
You havent updated in a couple of days, I am hoping that you are doing alright and trying to enjoy these beautiful days. I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you today and wishing you the peace.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 9:29 AM CST
Maybe you are correct- you're not that strong... you know what? People say that to me too. But I am not that strong either. I hang in there because I have to. I work full-time, raise these two kids... try to be a mother. I am not strong. I am exhausted. But you know what you are? You are a wonderful mother. You are wonderful because you were a great mother! You loved your son! Nothing was your fault! Why are you blaming yourself about a sippie cup? You are letting Satan take control of your conscious and make you feel bad over something that is not your fault. You need to stop that! I can't possibly know how you feel- I have not lost a child. Yet I can see from your writing just how much you hurt. You need to love yourself- and know that you are a good mother. Yes, you are still a mother because your baby lives on- and you will be reunited with him when it is your time. You need to be "strong" for his sake- he is watching over you, encouraging you to go on. He needs to see you happy- or at least not feeling guilty. For his sake, stop beating yourself up. Nothing was your fault and you were a good mother to him. Your baby had a purpose on this life- to bring joy to others- and to show what love is all about. All you have to do is take one look at his precious face and you are looking at the love of God. You can do it- you can forgive yourself, and go on, knowing that you can carry the title of "mother" forever. Take care and I will stop by again sometime. Love, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:58 AM CST
Oh Shawn I dont know what to say. The downtime is the worst, the staring at the computer at work trying to look busy. Its like the second your brain has a chance to drift it will, and you break down. I cant imagine what you are going through, or the depth of your pain. I wish I could help you and listen to you scream and cry. I wish I had a dime for every mother who thought everything was her fault. I can barely keep my kids from eating boogers, and you are tearing yourself up over a drink from a sippy cup. Please dont do this to yourself. Reese knows you loved him more than life itself.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:31 PM CST
Hello again. Once again I am reading your story wishing in some way I could just reach out and wrap my arms around you and let you cry as hard as you want on my shoulder. I beleive how you feel is completely normal as much as you would like it to go away it is part of the process and I hope that you have many friends close to you that just have a good cry with you. You are in my thoughts daily.

Josie Pynn ( the stranger) <josie_pynn@yahoo.com>
Pembroke, Canada - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 8:18 PM CST
I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prays. I am really sorry for the lost.
Samanha <carolinasweetie@bellsouth.net>
Randlman, NC United States - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 5:19 PM CST
Dear Family,
I am sitting here reading your journal and crying my eyes out, wishing that I could make your pain go away and repair your broken heart. I will pray for you daily and continue to lift you up. May God let your grief get easier and easier everyday. Sending hugs your way.

Julie Arrington <roojul1990@hotmail.com>
Martinsville, Va USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 4:58 PM CST
Doug and Shawn,
Just wanted to say HEY and to tell yall how much I love and think about you. It is OK to cry, it is OK to feel like you are going nuts,IT is OK to have these feelings, but please Shawn, DO NOT blame yourself. You are grieving, which is NORMAL. I still miss my MOM and DAD, I still cry for them, I wish they were here,all these things are normal.
Sometimes I think we try to blame ourselves because we just don't understand how GOD could take that person we loved away from us. It is so hard to accept that that person will not be in our life any longer. LOSING someone you loved so much is HARD!!!Just take one day at a time, don't look back and don't look ahead, just take today and pray that God will help you through it......ONE DAY AT A TIME...

LOVE, Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 3:01 PM CST
To the family of Reesecup,my thoughts and prayers go out to you.I can't even begin express how very sorry I am that this has happened to you and your family! I'm not going to sit here and even pretend that I know what your going through and what your feeling.Don't blame yourself for something that was out of your control.
One day you and reesecup will be back together and y'all will be very happy. Again I can't express how sorry I am for you and your family.I wish you the best in the near future.And know that little reese is in good hands!GOD is taking care of him and one day he will be taking care of you!GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!

Kamesha Thompson
Greensboro , NC U.S.A - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 1:25 PM CST
Shawn I really don't know what to say. I wish I could be saying Welcome back to work and I'm glad Reese Cup is doing wonderful. But unfortunately GOD was ready to call his little ANGEL home to be with him. Reese is in heaven now no more pain, suffering or being stuck with needles. He is healed and pain free and having such a wonderful time at his new precious home. I have been keeping track of you through your journal and I admire you for how strong you have been. I wish that I could take away all the pain and hurt you are feeling in your heart but unfortunately I can't. All I can say is I'm here for you day or night an if there is anything I can do please let me know. You are a wonderful friend and mean allot. I'm so very glad that you are getting couseling because I know for sure that if I lost one of my children I would feel lost and like I couldn't go on but I would know like you that I must go on because Reese Cup doesn't want you to give up and neither does Taylor, your family and friends. You have so many people willing to do whatever it takes to try to help you get through this difficult time. Lots of people I know that have lost a child, say you never get over losing a child that you just bare the pain and know that you must continue on. Your strong belief in GOD will help you make it through this difficult time. Nothing or no one can ever replace Reese Cup. When I was reading your journal and you said, that you didn't know what to do or say anymore. You explained all the feelings that was going through you blaming yourself, wondering if you should ever try to have another child, thinking about adopting a child. You have very strong Faith don't ever think about the WHAT IF, GOD blessed you with Taylor and he was healthy and if you ever decide to have another child he will bless you again. Please don't get dishearted and discouraged.If Reese was still with us and doing great and he begged you to have him a little brother or sister would you let his Hulers make you think twice. I'm sure Reese would liked to have been a BIG brother like Taylor and he still can have that option. He is your guardian angel watching over you now and all he wants is to see his precious Mommy happy again and not sad. He wants to see you just as happy as the day you give birth to him. Don't blame yourself with all the WHAT IF I hadn't let him drink after Taylor. None of us can predict the future. Everyones future is in the hands of GOD and when it is time for us to meet our maker he will call us home. No one is promised tomorrow but we can live each day to the fullest while we are still alive.God doesn't want us to get discouraged or scared but he will test how strong our faith is in him. Keep your faith strong continue to put things into GODs hands and live each day as if there is no tomorrow. IF GOD blesses you and Doug with another baby and Reese and Taylor with a little sister or brother be thankful, excited and happy and put the rest into GOD's hands.You all are still in my prayers every night. May God Bless all of you and keep you close to his loving heart.

Love,

Angie

Angela Trivette
Kernersville, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 1:23 PM CST
I am sorry about Reese. I know you are hurting.I know it is hard to live missing someone you love but one day you will see Reese for eternity and you will get to hold him for as long as you want.When you feel down, just think about when you and Reese meet again in Heaven.

Your friend, Jeffrey


Jeffrey Colvin
High Point, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 1:22 PM CST
I feel bad for your loss of Reesecup and I hope you make it through to better days.I know it must be hard wanting to see him or hold him everyday.I think that Reesecup was a very cute baby and hope you and your family make it through alright.
Krystle Draper <Scooby.knt@aol.com>
Greensboro, Nc Usa - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 1:16 PM CST
To the beloved family of baby Reese. You have been so strong for so long just keep breathing and life will get better. Please don't blame yourself for what happened, even though it might be the easiest thing to do at this time. Just remember that when you die it is because God had a certain job for you that nobody else could take. I just want you to know that I will always think of you and I hope to talk to you again. I can promise you that you will have prayers and my family is praying for you too. Well bye for now talk to you soon. Amen!!!!
Michaela Shirley <shirleymd@hot-shot.com>
High Point, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 1:13 PM CST
Im so sorry from what happend to reesecup, I know your going through a rough time right now. I'm sure he was your pride and joy and you were a wonderful parent to reesecup.I hope you will be OK and wish you good luck in the future.
Samer Isa
greensboro, nc - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 12:59 AM CST
To the family of Reese,My thoughts an prayers are with you!I can't say how sorry I am for your loss.Dont blame yourself on baby Reese's death. God was ready for him. Reese is in a better place where nothing can harm or hurt him. Reese will always be in your heart no matter what happens in your life.Everywhere you turn Reese will be there watching over you.I have read the poem that is in your latest journal entry an its very true. Someday Reese an you will be back together again an you both will be very happy. Once again I will say im so sorry.Just remeber God has a reason why everyone dies an it was Reese's time.He is in good hands now! God Bless you an your family in this difficult time an remember From your hands to the Lord......
WITH LOVE,AMBER

Amber Richards <scoobydoo@triad.rr.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 12:59 AM CST
I am very sorry about what happen to reesecup but you can't keep blaming yourself for reesecups death. But he will always be in your heart know matter what happens. Know matter what happens to you or who ever hurts you reesecup will always be there.God just said it was time to take reese to heaven with him and to charish him and to hold. but after years go by you two will be back together all over again and stay so you can hold and to Charish all over again. cause God will take you when he fills you have stayed long enough. To put you back in the hands of your child. I am praying for you and your family at all times that you can refill your love and stop blaming yourself.God Bless!!!!
Artavia Murray <Taygoalie @aol.com>
Greensboro, NC - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 12:08 AM CST
I am very sorry for what happened to your son. You cant keep blaming yourself for what happened to yuor son because if it was his time to go, then it was his time to go. Think of it as he doesn't have to suffer down here any more because now he is in a better place, where he can be free of all sickness. He is in heaven with GOD now, and I am pretty sure he is looking down on you wanting you to be happy and praying that one day you will be right there with him. GOD bless you and I will keep you in my prayers. Hope you feel better and I am very very sorry for what happened to your little boy. With much love from Brittany.
Brittany Bryant
Greensboro, NC - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 12:07 AM CST
To the family of Reece, My thoughts and prayers goes out to right now.I am very sorry for your family's lost. I can really decribe how very sorry I am.But i want you to know that I am very sorry. Its not your fault that Reece had died.Don't let that thought bring you down.Your family needs you. so....Stay up! I will be praying for you. I am in the eight grade from Allen Jay middle School.My teacher has read some of your articals to you. Once again, I am very sorry for your loss.
Brittany
Greensboro, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 12:02 AM CST
I am very sorry about Reese. It is not your fault about what happened to Reese. If you blame yourself you will never get past this. The good thing is that he is a better place he is in the hands of the lord and safe from any harm. I wish your family the best of luck. I am 13 years old and in the eigth grade.
Jessica Meusel <JJJJKM@AOL.COM>
High Point , NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:51 AM CST
Im very very very very sorry for you & your family's loss. I really can not express my sorrow and sympathy for you in this guestbook but believe me im sorry. I hope that you get to feeling better and get back on your feet really very soon. I wish a happy life and hope that you get to feeling better. With love, Gregory Stratton
Greg Stratton <dizzydude03@hotmail.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:40 AM CST
HEY, THIS GOES TO THE FAMILY OF REESECUP. I AM REALLY SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPEND. I WISH THERE WAS SOMTHING I COULD DO TO HELP YOU IN THIS UNHAPPY SITUATION. BUT ATLEAST HE IS IN THE ARMS OF THE LORD AND THAT IS VERY HAPPY.


JACKIE WILLIAMS
GREENSBORO, N.C U.S.A - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:32 AM CST
I'm very sorry about Reese. I'm 14 years old and I'm realizing how hard it must be for somebody to lose some one so close to you. My sister would be 17 right now but she was dead when she was born (I'm sorry I dont know what thats called) I hope the best for you and your family.
Brittney Lambeth <Lambethbaby@aol.com>
Archdale , NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:32 AM CST
I don't know what to say...I have read all your words in your entry and "sorry" is not enough. Your words have touched my heart and made me cry, as we have kept up with your journey. I wonder, myself, all the time, why God gives babies diseases and problems and pain. Some day we'll know why, I suppose. Until then, please love yourself and know that you are a great mother!
Jennifer Harten - Henry's mom <j.harten@attbi.com>
Colleyville, TX - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:26 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
I'm sorry that I don't have any words to say to make this situation any better. I couldn't read this entry without writing to send our love. I would give anything to ease your suffering.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 10:24 AM CST
Shawn, Just checking in. I can not read your entries without tears. My heart is so heavy for your pain and the pain that I myself may have to endure. I pray that you will see Gods plan and know in your heart that Reese is happy and sitting in Jesus' lap. I love you girl, just keep crying out to our Lord. He does know every tear that falls and why. Nancy
Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey #5201) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 9:40 AM CST
I wanted you to know that you and your family are all in my prayers. I wish I could say so many things to comfort you right now but all I can say is that I'm sorry and that things happen this way..God is in control of everything, even if it doens't seem like he is, he really is. Take comfort in knowing that God is there in your heart right along with Reese..he is in such good hands right now...again, I'm so sorry for your loss..
"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
love and prayers

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 9:18 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
I pray that with some time your heart will realize that no matter what events happened, God was totally in control of Reese's journey. If it was not Reese's time to be called home, he would not have been. You are not responsible in any way, shape or form! This was a decision between God and Reese and if they both wanted him to stay here longer, he would have been healed as God can certainly do. But God and Reese chose that most ultimate healing of all. The healing of heaven. Believe that this is what Reesiecup wanted most of all! How grateful he must be to have such wonderful loving parents who made his short stay here a beautiful experience. The only thing to be guilty of is an over-abundance of love you showered on God's special angel!
You are in my prayers!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, April 2, 2003 7:41 AM CST
Shawn...I just wanted to stop by and let you know that you all have been on mind...I was praying for you last night when I had the overwhelming thought that you needed so much comfort right that second...I prayed that God's arms would wrap around you and keep you safe and strong...that His love would find a way to ease your pain...even if only a little...
I just wish that you were not blaming yourself...I wish I knew what to say...I wish I could be there for you...

The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all of their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:17-18

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Wednesday, April 2, 2003 5:58 AM CST
Okay, Shawn, now I am crying. I wish to God there was someway we could all make this easier for you to deal with. I would give you a million hugs a day if that's what it would take. Thank you for asking Reese to watch over Jacob. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. I love you and I think about you everyday. We will be going home April 11th as long as there are no complications between now and then. This move, however, doesn't have Dr. Kurtzbergs blessings so to speak. I just can't stand being here anymore and neither can Jacob. Our doctor's at home are fully qualified to take care him this far out of transplant so together Scott and I decided this was best. Jacob is having some problems but we keep praying and believing.
Shawn, please take care of yourself the best you can. I pray that the counseling helps. I am so proud of you for going. Some people would not do it. I love you and miss you so much. I am sending hugs to you!

love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 0:03 AM CST
No words are going to make you quit blaming yourself but you have to know deep in your mind and heart that it wasn't you. It was just God's time. Writing what you are feeling in the journals can help a lot because you are getting to say what you are feeling and people are listening but not right in your face. It is good that you realize that you need to see the counselor sooner than later. I am on meds for depression myself, it is important to know when they are not enough.

Please continue to write your thoughts. After reading some of the entries in the guestbook, there are so many people rooting for you. You are much loved.

Reese is with God now, he is whole, he is perfect. He will be there for you when it is your time for God. He smiles on you every day as he sits beside God.

My thoughts are with you and yours. God bless.

Rae <rfbocritter@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 10:06 PM CST
Dear Sweet Shawn,
Do not blame yourself. You have made the ultimate sacrifice. I cannot fathom the pain and loneliness you are feeling. A friend of mine, who lost a child over 30 years ago, described her life just after losing her daughter just exactly as you did. May God hold you in His Loving arms.

Lisa
Pa - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 6:16 PM CST
Shawn-
I just want to run to you, throw my arms around you and promise you everything will be fine. Tears are streaming down my face as I try to find some words of comfort for you. I wish I knew what to say to take away all your pain. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you let go of the guilt over the "sippy cup." I know everyone keeps saying this, but it's not your fault. IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! I love you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 1, 2003 5:21 PM CST
My prayers are still with you..... You are blessed that Reese came to see you in your dreams but I can not imagine what you are feeling with losing your Reese's Cup at such a young age. At least, I had 16 wonderful years with my precious only child. My precious daughter and love of my life passed on in December 2001 from Ovarian Cancer and she has not visited me as of yet.... Please still continue take things one day at a time. The pain will ease but the heartache never EVER goes away.....
Prayer for Strength
Deneen
Mom to Tiffanie Salvadia Forever in Heaven
www.caringbridge.org/page/tiffanie

Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@aol.com>
Enola, PA USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 12:59 AM CST
Hi Shawn,

I was moved so much reading your last entry that I am sending you an e-mail. There was just too much to say to try and fit it all in this little box! Having lost a child myself, I was touched by your words. My prayer for you and your family is that you find peace and comfort through the Lord during these difficult days.


Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 12:26 AM CST
A wonderful CIRCLE OF LOVE is praying for you ! You will get better. It is very important that you are seeking for help -> Go to counseling and try... give them and yourself a chance. You DID your BEST for Reese - the sippy cup could not be more determinant than God´s will, be sure of that. Kisses from Brazil. Keep writing.
Rose
BR - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 11:48 AM CST
Oh you sweet woman,
Please do not blame yourself, you are a wonderful person and mother! There is not one thing that you could have done to change God's will...

I just cried as I read your entry... My heart hurts for you so bad. I miss Reese so much to and I am so glad to have known him the short time that I did.

I know that your pain is great and I hope that your family and friends that have been through this before will bring you comfort. I love you and I will be here if you ever need me to listen. I look forward to the day we meet again and I hope that it is soon.

Reese, the most beautiful Angel in heaven your mother is missing you so much right now and she needs for you to let her know that you are near. Everyone misses you so much sweetie!

All my love...

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, April 1, 2003 11:38 AM CST
Oh Shawn:

How my heart truly aches for you. I CAN say that I know the hurt, pain and anguish from losing children. It is so sad, and just getting up each day seems to be such a challenge at times. Trying to turn such an unfair situation into something good is so difficult. Never-mind trying to be "happy" again. Recently, I've learned to turn each day into "tolerable." I think I can handle "tolerable," but I probably will never ever "happy" again. I know exactly how it feels to sport the "happy" mask.

I met some of our neighbors while Noelle and Nicholas were sick. Recently, the wife told me that she had lost a one-year-old baby. When I asked how long ago it was, she said, "55 years ago... and it hurts the same now as it did when I first lost her." While my neighbor stood there talking to me, her husband just stood there with tears streaming down his face. I thought, "How?", "Why?"... "It just HAS to get easier." From what I hear, the pain doesn't get any easier. We just learn to cope in our own way.

A good friend asked me the other day, "Wendy, would you ever trade the pain you feel now for the wonderful memories that you have of Noelle and Nicholas?" I had to be honest and say, "NO, I wouldn't." I am definately a much better person having known both of them.

Shawn, you were a great mother to Reese. He knew that. Though I had never personally met Reese, anyone could tell how happy and loved he was just by looking at his pictures. You did an amazing job with Reese. Unfortunatley, Satan wants you to think anything but that. Satan is looking for your moment of weakness so he can go in and attack. He wants you to feel guilt. The tough thing about the horrible word "GRIEF" is that it allows Satan countless opportunities to invade our thoughts. He would love to take our thoughts and twist them so we cannot grieve appropriately. If I told you that Satan no attacks me, I would be lieing to you. He does get a hold of my thoughts when I am weak. I am so lucky, because of Noelle and Nicholas' guestbook... my Caringbridge Family, and my dear friends. The words I need to hear always come when I need them most... God is providing and He is there, sometimes finding Him when it hurts so badly seems impossible. But quite the opposite is true... God is always there... and He will NEVER leave your side.

I have to admit that when 9/11 happened, it did not affect me at all. You see, I was having my own 9/11 at that very moment of that very day. My life was turning upside down. My son just came out of surgery and my daughter was acting strangely. Come to find out a couple of days later... my daughter had a tumor that could not be operated on and it was going to take her precious little life. Later, I had to ask for forgiveness... just as I did not ask for the "terrorists" that were invading my children's lives, neither did the many people in the WTC ask for the "terrorists" who invaded their live.

We will never know how long it will take to be able to TOLERATE each minute ~ of each hour ~ of each day; but we can know that if we allow God to help us, He will not let us down.

About reading books and concentrating... Nicholas has been gone for only one year (I can hardly believe that) and Noelle has been gone for just 8 short months. I still have a hard time concentrating, making and keeping appointments, reading, making decisions... you name it and I still struggle with it. I am so lucky that the people in my life understand. And the professionals say, "It's all normal." Wow, you mean that there IS something NORMAL in my life... I would have never dreamed that.

Shawn, please try not to put so much pressure on yourself. I know that it is going to be hard. I have beaten myself up so many times over Nicholas' blatent medical error. The "If only's" have taken over more times than I can count. I have asked myself over and over, "Why didn't you demand for more tests," and "Why didn't you go to another hospital?"

In actual reality, I did what I could with the all of the knowledge I had. I had to teach the doctors in Cincinnati how to take care of my little man. I demanded for what I knew that he needed... why I didn't know more of what to ask for... well, only God will know that. I asked the questions I knew needed to be asked. I learned as much as I could in the little time that I had. I learned so much about Nicholas' care, that I could not put much more in my brain when it came to Noelle's illness. Just now I am finding more out about radiation and what it does to the human body. Just now I am finding out about what massive amounts of Decadron (steriods) can do to the human body... let alone a child's body. This is where I have to ask for protection from the enemy's attack. I know that he is just there, waiting to jump on me when I least expect it.

A way I am trying to allow the Lord to take over is by volunteering. I hope to give as much love as I can and share many smiles that will last a lifetime. I must say that when I am with children, I have no need for my "smile mask,"... I seem to forget about my own pain and I am able to focus on them. I am sure that Satan will get me again, but like I said earlier, I am so thankful for my Caringbridge Family and my close friends... they always seem to be there when I need it most.

Shawn, please give yourself time... as much as you need. Only YOU will know when you are ready to smile again, only YOU will know when you are ready to read again and only YOU will know if and when you are ready to adopt. But for now, let us love on you and encourage you while you let your feelings come out.

Please tell Doug and Taylor that you all are in our thoughts and prayers... you really are.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Forever Yours in Christ,

Wendy <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 9:51 AM CST
Hi Shawn,
I read your entry and it takes me back to all of the feelings I too had when my baby died. I think the hardest thing for me was the fact that I felt like my life had stopped, but everyone elses kept going. I hated it. I hated the fact that no one could make me feel better. I smiled and told everyone I was fine, but I was miserable. But then one day when I went to Ellie's grave, I felt peace. I knew that she was safe from harm. I knew that she would always be safe and that comforted me. The only pictures I had of her were ultrasound videos. She was thriving inside of me. It was hard to accept.
I know that you'll recover, but you're right, your heart will never be healed. It will always ache for Reese. If you didn't love him so much you wouldn't ache for him so badly. Accept your feelings of sorrow and cry. Cry out for him. God is proud of you and your love for your baby.
Please don't feel that you have to be strong for anyone. You were strong for Reese when he needed you. Now it is your turn to be weak. Let all of those that love you be strong for you.
My heart aches for you. You have many friends. Use them.
God Bless

Jody Poolman <jodypoolman@hotmail.com>
Charles City, IA USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 9:49 AM CST
How can I tell you, Shawn that I have felt those same things...............It hit home for me reading your entry today, and I find myself checking this web page to make sure you are surviving. I have written you before, and I know what it's like to ask all those questions. I also know what it's like for everyone to look up to me when I feel my face is on the ground. I hope that you will be lifted up and I want you to know that I care, although I don't know you at all.........I still have everything that my son ever touched packed away..........for what?? I don't know, but I could never part with it and it's been three years for me. I hope you find strength in your heart......I hope you have peace, but I know that the pain will never end. I wish I could tell you that it would. If you ever need a friend that understands these things, you can write me..............I know your pain. I care.
Reese will lift you up...........he has the victory, and he loves you most of all. It's not your fault........I did the same thing to myself. Jesus loves you so much, Shawn. Hold on to that.........He will never let you endure more than He can carry you through.................

Anne Norman <anorman@sitestar.net>
Martinsville, Va USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 9:45 PM CST
Shawn...oh how I wish I could take your pain away!!! You entry today made my heart break with love for you!!! Please, please don't blame yourself...you are the best mommy in the world and you did everything possible to help Reese through his journey and made his time here on earth more bearable!! There are really no words that I can say to ease your pain. I am glad that you are making arrangements for counseling. Please remember that I am here if you ever need anything...if you just want someone to scream at..call me..I will be there. Keep writing in the journal, sometimes it really helps to put our feelings in writing and we all need to know how you are making it. I will be doing all that I know to do for now..and that is praying for you. I love you.
Sharon

Here is a poem that I found that instantly brought you to my mind.


How Long Will The Pain Last?
By Martha White ©1996

How long will the pain last?" a broken hearted mourner asked me.
"All the rest of your Life." I have to answer truthfully.
We never quite forget. No matter how many years pass, we
remember. The loss of a loved one is like a major operation.
Part of us is removed, and we have a scar for the rest of our lives.
As years go by, we manage. There are things to do, people to care for,
tasks that call for full attention. But the pain is still there, not far below
the surface. We see a face that looks familiar, hear a voice that echoes,
see a photograph in someone's album, see a landscape that once we saw
together, and it seems as though a knife were in the wound again. But not
so painfully. And mixed with joy, too. Because remembering a happy
time is not all sorrow, it brings back happiness with it.
How long will the pain last?
All the rest of your life. But the things to remember is that not
only the pain will last, but the blessed memories as well. Tears
are proof of life. The more love, the more tears. If this be true,
then how could we ever ask that the pain cease altogether. For
then the memory of love would go with it.
The pain of grief is the price we pay for love.

Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Ccommunications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 9:25 PM CST
There is nothing I could possibly say that would sound like anything less than a resounding gong...like Charlie Brown's teacher (wha wha wha whant whant whant)
I have no words of wisdom for you...I cannot even rightfully say I know what you are going through...
I can only say without resolve that you are stronger than you think...you are going to get through this...your light has and continues to shine...your child touched millions of lives...and a DAMN SIPPY CUP did not cause him to pass away...IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT...YOU KNOW THAT! NOW BELIEVE IT!
I love you and miss you so much...I sure wish there was somthing else I could do or say...I wish I could be there next to you...I wish I could tell everyone that sometimes saying nothing is OK! I wish you were still here in Durham...I wish that you rocking Reese in your arms and his smile was still the first and last thing I saw in clinic...I wish all of these things for you...I wish them because I do not want you to feel this pain...I wish them because I have no comprehension of what God's plan...even if I knew the plan I bet I would never understand it...
I don't know...I just wanted you to know that I love you...and I am thinking of you...every single day.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Monday, March 31, 2003 9:17 PM CST
Shawn, I know there isnt anything in this world that could sooth your broken heart but one thing that i would like to say is that you and only you were Reese's mother and that you did the best that you could to care for him....I know that this is a very hard thing to cope with even when your trying really hard but remember that every time that you look at taylor that you remember little reese...the most beautiful, loving child that you created...I know that no one else will every fill the hole in your hole but remember that little taylor is there and he knows how much Reese ment to you and he will take care you ....I have been looking at your site ever since Jacob has been there and with every entry you wrote you were so caring and loving....You will always wonder what if's but look deep inside your heart and see all the good you did and not all the bad that you thought you did because the bad it is none there...you were only looking out for reese and trying to make him better....God just seen that it was in his will to take him to heaven.....And the dreams I hope and pray when I lay my head to sleep that you will dream of him...I know that you dont know me but I just feel like I know all of you by reading these entry's .....Please just dont blame yourself and remember this little one forever never hurting or sad.....
Jackey Gillsipie <jackeygillispie@hotmail.com>
stuart, va - Monday, March 31, 2003 9:03 PM CST
Shawn, I have been following Reese since my daughter, Allison, was diagnosed with MPS 1, on Jan. 8th 2003. I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and I am praying for you. I can't imagine the pain, but I know that Reese made a difference in a lot of lives during his short time here. I know that beautiful smile looking back at me from his web page touched my heart. I will keep you in my prayers and I hope you dream of Reese tonight.

Jennifer Restemayer <jennmarie@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 8:31 PM CST
hi...im not sure what to say i know nothin i can say will mend ur broken heart....im only a teenager and i dont know to awful much but i know how special this little boy was....it bothers me how people can treat other people...dont blame it on yourself, you were the best mother ANY little boy can/could/ever will have! i have watched this site since January 12, 2003, ive seen how FAITHFUL, LOVIN and CARIN you are! dont blame yourself when little Reese was born God already had it in mind that he would die so young, his face makes Heaven ALOT more sweeter now that hes there! think of the name REESIE CUP...isnt that sweet enough for ya?!
Love, prayers and LOTS OF THOUGHTS
Jenifer Hope Brindle

Jenifer Hope Brindle <jenniferhope@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 6:57 PM CST
Shawn,
I am so glad you dreamed of Reese! My hope for you is many many more!! I'm thinking about you always, take care and God Bless.

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC 27244 - Monday, March 31, 2003 2:58 PM CST
I am saddened by the loss of your beautiful baby. I have heard his name but had not found his website until today. May God be with you during this time. Love, Tracy (Katia's mommy)

Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)


Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Monday, March 31, 2003 11:48 AM CST
How nice to know you that you smiled ! he will come again eventually, just try to feel lighter and open your heart and your mind. kisses from Brazil.

Rose
BR - Monday, March 31, 2003 11:45 AM CST
Shawn, My mother lost a baby when I was six. And she was so afaid to try to have another one. She did! And I am so blessed to have my younger brother. He is 7 years younger than I, he is 32 years old now with his family of two, a boy (4) and a little girl (9 months), I love him so much and God healed my mother with this little boy! Please don't be afraid to have another child. God will bless you! I am praying for You and your family!
Terri
Winston Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 10:25 AM CST
Hi Shawn,
I am sooooo glad that you dreamed of Reese! I am glad that Lord has answered that request for you. Remember that Reese is always near if you need to talk to him! Thank you for sharing such a special moment...I pray that you see Reese again in your dreams soon..

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers always, I hope that everyone is doing ok. Please tell Toni that I said Hello and I hope she is doing well. Hope to see you soon.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 31, 2003 9:27 AM CST
Shawn,
I am so happy to hear that you dreamed of Reese!!! I know that was a wonderful dream. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that ever night that you lie down and you close your eyes, that you keep dreaming of Reese. God Bless and I'll be checking on ya.

Stephanie Conner <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, VA - Monday, March 31, 2003 6:11 AM CST
Hi Shawn,
I'm glad you had that dream to help keep you going. I have been keeping you and Toni and the rest of your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Monday, March 31, 2003 0:36 AM CST
Hey Shawn! I am so glad that you got your dream. I pray that you have lots more of them.....every night in fact. I was so happy to see were you signed Jacob's guestbook. We miss you guys so much. I have missed talking to you so much. Take care and SWEET DREAMS!!!!!
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Sunday, March 30, 2003 11:48 PM CST
Dear Shawn: I have been reading the guess book and I want you and the family to know that I have been thinking of all of you, and praying for you. I'm like alot of others I do not know what it is like losing a chid. God is taking care of little Reese. I hope your dreams give you comfort and peace. I know there has to be so much emptiness in your life right now. I just pray that God will hold you close and comfort you all. May God be with you is may prayer.
Brenda Tate <brownbus@surry.net>
Mount Airy, N.C. Surry - Sunday, March 30, 2003 11:21 PM CST
Jesus loved the little children so much !!!! May our Lord keep you safe in His arms until He returns.
Gayle <gayhill@webtv.net>
NC USA - Sunday, March 30, 2003 11:12 PM CST
Hello...I recieved an email requesting prayer request for your son. I just want you to know that Reese was in my prayers for a very long time. Shawn u still are. I'm very sorry for the things that have happened. You will see your son again...in Heaven.
*LeeAnne* <bebe_707@hotmail.com>
Anawalt, WV USA - Sunday, March 30, 2003 8:54 PM CST
Shawn, I am so happy for you that your prayer was answered and Reese came to you in your dreams. I have yet to have any dreams of Ryan, but I don't think I have had any dreams at all for months. I keep asking Ryan to come visit me and hopefully someday he will. I just keep telling myself he is just too busy doing whatever it is that God needed him for in Heaven. Maybe when I am finally able to find some peace he will come to me but until then I wait. I hope you are doing a little better each day. I still find that some days are ok and others are absolutely horrible. Thank you for continuing to think of me.
Love, Roberta Kishbaugh
- Sunday, March 30, 2003 5:28 PM CST
I am so thankful that God allowed you to see Reese again, I pray that he blesses you with many more beutiful dreams.love,
Tanya <Roosmommy7374@aol.com>
Maryville, TN USA - Sunday, March 30, 2003 5:01 PM CST
May god bless you with many many more sweet dreams.
nicole
wi - Sunday, March 30, 2003 4:31 PM CST
Shawn
I'm so happy God blessed you with dreams of Reese and hope they will continue! You are still in my thoughts and prayers!
Rebecca Jones

REBECCA JONES <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Chandler, Texas - Sunday, March 30, 2003 4:08 PM CST
I am so happy for you that you were able to have that little visit with Reese in your dreams. Little blessings.
Love, Lisa <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Sunday, March 30, 2003 12:57 AM CST
Shawn...
I am so happy for you that God answered your prayers and gave you a dream filled with Reese!!!!!!!!!!! I downloaded the song that you were talking about in your journal the other day, "One More Day". It gave me cold chills...I had heard it before but never really listened to the words.... I can remember when my dad suddenly passed away...I would give anything for just "one more day"..just talk to talk him and hug him and tell him how much I loved him...but I have slowly come to relaize that even though I would love "just one more day", he wouldn't want to come back to this world...even for me...'cause he knows that one day that I will join him in Heaven and the beauty that he is seeing there is nothing to compare with anything that we have ever seen here on earth!! That doesn't make times like this any easier...but I just wanted to share it with you!!!

TONI..if you are reading this...I am continuing to keep you in my thoughts and prayers...I think of you so often!!!

Doug, Shawn and Tater Tot....and all the other family members...I may not know all of you, but I pray for you daily!!! God bless!!
Love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Sunday, March 30, 2003 12:12 AM CST
I found a penny today
Just laying on the ground,


But it's not just a penny
This little coin I've found

Angels put them there
That's what my Grandpa told me,


He said Angels toss them down.
Oh, how I loved that story.

He said when an Angel misses you
They toss a penny down,


Sometimes just to cheer you up
To make a smile out of your frown

So don't pass by that penny
When you're feeling blue,


It may be a penny from heaven
That an Angel's tossed to you.

SHAWN, THINKING OF ALL OF YOU GUYS.


PENNY
bassett, va - Sunday, March 30, 2003 11:06 AM CST
Dearest Shawn,
Praise God! I'm so happy you were finally able to see Reese and hold him. I can hardly type through the tears. I too, want to know why, WHY??? I have struggled so with that question. LIFE IS NOT FAIR. I am so sorry this happened.

What I do know is that God gave Reese to you, no one else. You were hand picked to be his mommy cause He knew that besides the Lord our God, only you would be able to love and take care of Reese just as good as He could. I'm always thinking about you, Doug, Taylor, Toni & Andy, Grampy & Nana, Nanna & Paw Paw and the rest of your family and I praying for piece & love to come into your hearts.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, March 30, 2003 10:24 AM CST
Shawn,
I am so happy for your dream. I remember praying to God to just "give me a dream" when my younger brother died. You mentioned last Thursday in your journal that you have a "hole in your heart" and you're afraid it is going to get bigger. It reminded me of a saying I once read "If you have a hole in your heart, you fill it not by receiving, but by giving." (Don't get me wrong, I know you have given more than your share already!) It struck me so that I had to write it down for I believe it is true. While I know it is still too early, I feel you'll be there for another family to help them ease through the pain of losing a child (and actually you've already begun being there for McKenzie's family). Or, you'll find other ways to honor Reese by helping others somehow...whatever that way will be. I reached out to help the Bennett family (John being a Gulf War Vet) through a Gulf War Support Group (my younger brother was a Gulf War Vet and I had joined the group within months after his death). The pleasure it has given me personally of helping others helps me to know that my brother lives on through me...as he would want to help others in need. Reese will live on through you, Taylor, his dad and the rest of his family. I pray your dreams continue....

Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Sunday, March 30, 2003 10:09 AM CST
HOORAY!!!! Praise God for answering prayers...I, too, added your Reese dream request to our nightly prayers and I am so thrilled that you finally had your moment!!!
I actually stopped by this morning to just tell you that you have been on mind and that I love and miss you guys so much...
Glad I was able to read about your dreams...What an awesome way to start off a rain filled stormy day here in Durham...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Sunday, March 30, 2003 8:45 AM CST
Shawn,

I just sat down to read the guestbook entries, I don't think I'll ever catch up. But I couldn't believe it when I saw your entry from the other day. Last night, when I laid down, I had a little talk with Reese and asked that he come to me in my dreams. When it comes to Reese, it is so amazing how much you and I think alike. I can barely type through the tears and if it weren't 12:30 at night I'd call you. When I woke up at 8 this morning I knew I hadn't dreamed of him so I went back to sleep and slept till noon. Other than that crazy Triple K dream, he still wasn't there. I miss you guys and I miss Reese like crazy. I still feel like if I keep begging hard enough he won't be gone. It is so hard for me to understand how we were there for so long, and yet it seems like it never happened.

I love you!

Toni
- Saturday, March 29, 2003 11:48 PM CST
May the Lord bless you all and give you the peace that you need. Hang onto the Lord with everything you have for He is the only one that can really help. I said a prayer for you and your family. God Bless You.
Nancy VanDusen <Seth_32111@yahoo.com>
Belleview, FL USA - Saturday, March 29, 2003 9:59 PM CST
Shawn:

Please know that many people continue to pray for all of you. Remember, the great God of the valleys is still the great God of the mountain tops... in Him we can put our trust.

.....still praying

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Saturday, March 29, 2003 9:20 PM CST
Shawn, I pray for you and your family. God has made you a very strong and loving lady....I just don't know what to say and sometimes saying nothing at all is best. You are in our prayers.
God Bless You,
Susan Cieslak (your Mom's Ohio friend)

Susan
- Saturday, March 29, 2003 4:58 PM CST
Just wanted to let you all know that i still drop in from time to time to check on you. You all are still in my prayers. i don't sign the guestbook everytime i visit, cause i just don't know what to say to you. Instead, i just bow my head and pray for you. Hang in there. God is still the same God he was during good times.
BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Saturday, March 29, 2003 4:06 PM CST
Glad to read that you were able to attend McKenzie's funeral, as we were not able to do so having to remain with Noah. She too, just as Reese did, left her mark on our hearts. We will always remember how loving, sweet, strong and brave they are. Just wanted you to know that we continue to think and pray for you often. God bless you,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah Prichard

Greg, Debbie & baby Noah Prichard <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Saturday, March 29, 2003 12:20 AM CST
Praying that your special dream will come...and I am believing that it will. :)
^Jackson's mom^, Michelle <http://www.caringbridge.com/wi/jacksons.journey>
Clear Lake, WI - Saturday, March 29, 2003 7:46 AM CST
G'Mornin Shawn & Toni, if ever anyone did it "RIGHT" it was you two! You showed such strength, courage, love & caring beyond what most of us can even begin to imagine doing. You not only gave 110% during all the time with Reese, but you continued to be there for your whole families & your Hurler's families. Your an inspiration, wonderful, wonderful mom, friend's, sister's, & daughter's, and I know we would all question ourselves in what, why & why, why, why, but as part of your healing process you will see you did EVERYTHING beyond EVERYTHING that you could for Reese here on earth!! From all over the world people have gathered here almost everyday for 4+ months to check on your families & will continue to for as long as they can. Because you showed such love, caring, kindness & TRUE FRIENDSHIP toward others, you have gained a world of friends for the rest of your life. May your faith see each of you through this. Continue to feel those feeling's, cry those tear's, write your feeling's and most of all seek out the friend's that care and talk to them at times of need. We are all there for you 24/7 and know that we cannot take away your pain, your need, your want but we are hoping to just ease it a little by being YOUR FRIEND. I LOVE YOU GIRLS. Reese's Nana in Maine
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Saturday, March 29, 2003 7:14 AM CST
We love you and we miss you so much...We are praying and praying for you...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Friday, March 28, 2003 9:54 PM CST
Shawn, Oh how I wish I could help you. My heart breaks over and over for you. For all the families. Our little hurler babies are so special. No wonder God just wants to hold them too. I have that book I wrote about before, I would like to give it to you. I have finished it and it really blessed my heart. I will try to get it in the mail to you. Hold on to Jesus. Love,Nancy
Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Friday, March 28, 2003 9:05 PM CST
Shawn, I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and praying for you. The dreams will come, just give it time.love you.
lovve, Sharon & Jacob <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Friday, March 28, 2003 9:03 PM CST
Shawn,
You did nothing wrong!!!! I think you have more inspiration and strenght than anyone I have ever seen, there need to be more mothers like you. I know and can tell just how much you love Reese and know how it feels to long to hold your baby. Just remember that one day you will hold your precious Reese in your arms again, in the mean time, turn to God and the sweet memories you have. Still sending lots of prayers your way and will continue to check on you in your journals daily. God Bless
Rebecca Jones

REBECCA JONES
Chandler, TX - Friday, March 28, 2003 8:28 PM CST
Shwan, you did nothing wrong!You absolutely did all you could! Thinking of you today and hoping you are ok. All my love.

Reese, when I was outside a while ago the sun was shining the wind is blowing lightly it made me think of you "The most beautiful Angel" in heaven. Please come to your mom side to day and let her know that you are near.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, March 28, 2003 12:48 AM CST
Shawn,
Your journal entries have really touched our hearts. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers. Hold on to Jesus...
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Friday, March 28, 2003 10:00 AM CST
Shawn...
My hearts breaks for you and I can not even begin to imagine the pain that you are feeling. For some reason God has not allowed my life to be filled with a sweet precious baby. Even though I have never been able to have one of my own...I still long for one to hold and love. I know that you are hurting so bad right now..but like several have said before...God needed Reese more than you right now and He does have a divine plan and someday all these things that we ask "WHY" about will be revealed to us. I wonder why I have not been allowed the experience of being a mother...is it because God thinks I wouldn't be a good mother???...is it because He knows that something might happen to me like it did with you and Reese and that I could be no where near as strong as you have been???...Whatever it is, someday I will know....but like you, for now I just have to keep the faith and take one day at a time!!! I have said this so many times, but it is so true...not hardly a minute goes by that I don't think of you, Doug and the rest of the family....you are so embedded in my mind and heart that I can't stop thnking about you all and sending up little prayers that God will give you peace and that you will see Reese in things like the gentle breeze or the flight of a butterfly. Keep on writing because we all need to know how you are doing!!
Give hugs to Taylor and Doug...and tell them to give you one from me!!!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Friday, March 28, 2003 9:45 AM CST
I continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. I also check in and see how you are doing. We have never met but I wanted to know I am still sending up a lot of prayers for you.
Thoughts and Prayers, Pam Folger & Family

Pam Folger <pam.folger@wachovia.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Friday, March 28, 2003 7:09 AM CST
You did everything right, don't second guess yourself. You did what you felt was in Reese's best interest with the knowledge you had at the time. That is the BEST that any of us can do. Unfortunately, the Why we will never know. God doesn't explain the answer to us. All we can do is believe that He had a reason and maybe someday when we go to heaven it will make sense. I'm sure that Reese is there with you, every minute of every day. He loves you as much as you love him.
Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, March 28, 2003 0:53 AM CST
I love you...You did everything right...You and Reese are an inspiration to so many of us that are continuing to fight his battle...I love you honey...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 7:53 PM CST
Just letting you know i am still on the other end of this computer with a listening ear. I hope writing your feelings knowing we are all here helps somehow.
Still a stranger who cares

Josie
Pembroke, Canada - Thursday, March 27, 2003 7:23 PM CST
Shawn, I have never known the pain of losing a child and I pray I never do. I saw my grandmother break down when my mom died. You just never get over it, when the friends and neighbors go on with their lives, its even emptier and harder for you to be left alone. I wish I knew why this happened, why that beautiful little guy didnt have a better chance, wasnt allowed a long and healthy life, but I dont. Please know we are here for you, which I know isnt saying much, but the CaringBridge family is thinking of you and praying for you.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Thursday, March 27, 2003 7:15 PM CST
Sending you a cyber hug this evening.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 6:49 PM CST
Shawn, You did nothing wrong. In fact, everything you did
was the best you could do. God has a plan. It hurts
sometimes, especially when the why of His plan is hidden
from us. I was told my sons' diagnosis just a month before
my father died of cancer and my grandfather died in a car accident.
I also wondered "why?". I came to realize that
I was chosen for a specific reason to care and love 2 very
special individuals. Just as you were chosen as the very
special person to love and be loved by a very special individual.
That was one of Reese's gifts to you. Love.
The extension of God's love for you. It will hurt, the
physical absence of Reese, but Reese is still with you.
He IS held in his Father's loving arms. Reese has completed
his mission. You now will go on to complete yours, then
you will be reunited in a VERY GOOD place with no
sickness, no pain, and a lot of joy.

Darla Stewart, Illinois
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:58 PM CST
Shawn, You did nothing wrong. In fact, everything you did
was the best you could do. God has a plan. It hurts
sometimes, especially when the why of His plan is hidden
from us. I was told my sons' diagnosis just a month before
my father died of cancer and my grandfather died in a car accident.
I also wondered "why?". I came to realize that
I was chosen for a specific reason to care and love 2 very
special individuals. Just as you were chosen as the very
special person to love and be loved by a very special individual.
That was one of Reese's gifts to you. Love.
The extension of God's love for you. It will hurt, the
physical absence of Reese, but Reese is still with you.
He IS held in his Father's loving arms.

Darla Stewart, Illinois
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:54 PM CST
Shawn, you did not go wrong anywhere! I went through the same feelings after my daughter Leilani, died. And a pastor opened my eyes one day when he asked me if I thought that there was any one mistake that I could make to change God's will? There is nothing that we can do to change it, His will WILL be done. Sometimes His will hurts...but we have to trust that He knows what is best for us and He is working for good for all of us who love Him. Here on this earth, we hurt so much and think that our babies being gone is a bad thing....but if we were able to see where Reese and Leilani are we would see that they ARE in a GOOD place and God did do something good for them. We will one day be there too. That wonderful, joyous day of our reunion with Reese and the Lord. In the meantime we have to keep on working....we are here on a mission trip......we are not yet HOME. Reese is HOME and he awaits you there, in the good hands of Jesus. Once our purpose on this earth has been completed, we will get to go HOME, and then there will be no more separation, no more sickness, no more suffering, no more crying and no more dying!!! We will be together again forever!

I know that there are no words that will take away the pain. That is something only God can do. Whenever I begin to hurt so much that I feel my heart will just burst from sorrow, I call upon God, and remind Him of His promise to never give me more than I can handle. And you know.....He always fills me with peace within minutes. So though there is nothing anyone here on this earth can say or do to make your pain any less.....call upon the Lord! HE WILL CARE FOR YOU!!! That is His promise....100% guaranteed!

I have been and will continue to keep you in my prayers daily. I know the pain you are feeling. I can't say it gets better, because it has been 8 months since Leilani died and I still miss her more than ever....but God, just as He promised, gets us through. He will lift us up when we are down and He will fill us with His peace when we are hurting. And always remember....our separation is temporary....we will reunite again one day!

Again, praying for you and your family, that He will fill you with His peace and heal your aching hearts.

Lots of Love in Christ,
Yvonne Fernandez
http://caringbridge.org/nc/leilani

Yvonne Fernandez <yvonnengzs@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 27, 2003 3:23 PM CST
I don't know where to begin. I was forwarded this page to "check out". When I recieved the email Resse had already lost his fight. I sat here for two hours at work reading all of the journals from the beginning to the end. Many tears later, I went home with a heavy heart. The very next day, my son, Ethan and I let two bright red balloons go from our yard. My son is 3 1/2 and he wanted Resse to have a balloon to hold. I do not know you or your family but I feel as if I have known you all of my life. I find myself checking the site at least once a day to see if you have written. It rips my heart out to read and feel the pain you have gone through and are now enduring. But I do know one thing. You and Resse Cup were given to each other for a reason. You might not feel like it right now, but you are a very strong woman. You have a very loving and extended family. Together you all with get through this somehow. Your faith has tested you through the worst of it, now let it help you the rest of the way. My prayers, thoughts and tears are with you. Keep writing as long as it helps. All my love,
Carol Burgess <carol_burgess@kerrgroup.com>
Conway, NC USA - Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:41 PM CST
Shawn,
Oh how my heart hurts for you so bad!!!! It is not fair for you to hurt the way you are and I wish so bad that we could turn back time and bring Reese back! Your words touch so many people to the core to where we are feeling every ounce of pain with you! Oh, how I miss his little face as well. People say that writing is a way to express and cope with things like this.. I just want to say thank you for sharing with us because you could easily not. I know that I have told you a million times but it is times like this that you need to hear it alot more... Reesie Cup touch so many live and brought them closer to our Lord, and that is a wonderful testimony for such a small child! Although, I know that does not help to ease your pain of missing him. I will continue to ask our Lord daily "why" because I need to be reassured that he has his reasons.

I am sending you all my love and big hug. Hope to see you very soon!


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:17 PM CST
Shawn, what a wonderful circle of love Reese have created around your family ! keep looking ahead with faith, your love for him will always be there but the pain will get better... lots of people are praying for that ! kisses from Brazil.
Rose
Brazil - Thursday, March 27, 2003 12:29 AM CST
Shawn,
You did not go wrong and the hole in your heart will heal, but ever so slowly. Spend as much time with Doug, Taylor and your family as you can. You will survive, just have faith and look forward to every day.

Lynn <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, March 27, 2003 12:01 AM CST
Stiil checking in on you and continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.
God bless
Rebecca Jones

REBECCA JONES <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
TX - Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:36 AM CST
Shawn, Doug & Taylor, I don't know what to say really other than you all need to realize that there are so many hearts that have been touched by your story and by Reese's life. I know that there are several of us out there that check this site daily wanting to make sure that your family is doing ok. Shawn, you are a wonderful writer and I enjoy checking in and seeing a new update. You are probably right that some will stop checking in, but I want you to know that some of us will never stop. We love you and your family more than you probably realize even though we may have only met for a brief moment. Reese and his journey that was shared with so many of us will continue to be in our hearts. I know that he is looking down on you, doug, and taylor and telling all the angels what a wonderful family he was given to, even if it was just for a short while. He is proud of you, all of of you. You are a wonderful mother. Hang in there and know that some of us will continue to be with you daily.
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 27, 2003 8:46 AM CST
Native American Prayer:

I give you this one thought to keep-
I am with you still- I do not sleep-
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone-
I am with you still-in each new dawn.

I thought this was so appropriate since Uncle Andy is part Apache.
Love, Mom

Nanna Julia
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 8:19 AM CST
Just wanted to let you all know I'm still thinking about you and you will continue to be in my prayers.
Kim Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy , NC - Thursday, March 27, 2003 8:14 AM CST
To Reese's loving and devoted family,
We wanted to let you know you are still in our thoughts and prayers. At our Bible study yesterday Robin and I shared about the incredible impact your sweet, precious little boy has made in our lives. It is such a blessing to be prayer warriors! May God continue to keep you in His loving care.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Thursday, March 27, 2003 7:40 AM CST
Shawn,
Just stopped in to let you know that we too are praying for you and have been thinking of you often. Reese comes up often in our conversations as we are still going through our transplant process and nearing our outpatient status. We know that whatever is God's will, will be, but it is scary and hard nonetheless because he touched our hearts so. We continue to pray for you and your family and we ask that you continue to share the thoughts and emotions that you are experiencing. Please take care and tell Toni hello for me. God bless you,

Debbie (baby Noah's mom/ PBMTU)

Debbie Prichard (baby Noah's mommy/ PBMTU) <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:03 AM CST
Hi Shawn and family,
I just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers!

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 11:18 PM CST
Shawn, Just stopping by to say hi. I am glad that you are doing relatively well, whatever that really means. Thankyou for updating the webpage and letting us know what is going on in your life. Thankyou for sharing a little bit of Reese with us.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 5:10 PM CST
Shawn and Family,
I "met" your family via your website a couple weeks before Reese went to be with Jesus. I want you to know that you are all in our prayers. I have two babies up there with Reese that I never got to meet, but I can only imagine it's so much harder when you have the memories. The day of Reese's funeral I was in Mt. Airy and stopped at the 52/601 stoplight. My 2-year old little boy saw the oodles of balloons on the Beamer Bridge on Rockford Street and pointed them out to me. I didn't know what they were for. I figured there was some kind of "celebrity" visiting or the bridge was getting a new name or something. Not until the 16th when I visited your website again did I know what a true celebration they were for. My little boy was sitting on my lap as I looked at the website. He saw Reese's photo at the top and said, "He's sick." He remembered him from before. I replied through tears, "Not anymore, baby. He's with Jesus now and he's all better." Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all as you heal. God Bless You.

Lynette
Ararat, NC - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 5:04 PM CST
Hi Shawn...I know you don't know me but I check up on you guys everyday...visiting Reese's site is like visiting a friend...please don't ever stop writing and we will never stop visiting!
The balloon photos are awesome...I can just inagine Reese, my little grandaughter, Alexes and all the other little angels just jumping around catching them and saying "look here Reese...another one for you!"
You are a WONDERFUL Mommy...and Reese was a blessed little boy to of had you...please don't ever second guess yourself...just keep in your memories that of a giggly, happy, jumpy, wild haired little boy you call "Reese Cup".
Love....Kim

Kim Kruppenbacher KODYS STORY
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 4:40 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss Hopefully our angels are playing happily together in the arms of Jesus
Patti <masbonitauna@aol.com>
Portland, Or USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 4:23 PM CST
Hi, I check on you daily, and was happy to read that you were feeling a little bit better. We hope you keep writing, we loved to check on baby Reese, but we also want to be here for you whenever you need it. I smile everytime I see that picture of Reese in his little hat. What a sweet angel he must be! Hang in there, WE CARE!
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 4:14 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know I have had your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope God can ease the pain you are feeling. May God bless you.
Regina
Westfield, NC - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 3:13 PM CST
I continue to check in on you daily...I miss you guys so much...my heart just continues to ache for you all and for all of our losses here in Durham...I continue to pray that time will bring you peace and healing through the love of Christ Jesus...Your continues strength through the most difficult trials of your life have been a true inspiration...you are my hero
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 2:50 PM CST
Hey guys, just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you today and hoping that you are doing the best you can. Please tell your mother that her entries are wonderful! I look so forward to reading both of your entries to find how you are doing. Wishing you all beautiful days surrounded in peace!

Reesie cup...It is a beautiful day here on earth and I can vision you playing with Brittney right now! We miss you and love you...


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 2:49 PM CST
Dearest Shawn, Doug, & Taylor:

Just wanted to let you know I love and miss you all and I hope to get together with you guys soon. I know Sarah is looking forward to some major playtime with Taylor.

God is always near and he will always be with you, especially during times like these. Remember Footprints in the Sand, when it says, "The LORD replied: "My son, my precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."
That's right! God is carrying you through this and He will see you through it all. He will turn your mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11), give you the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness (Isaiah 61:3).

I know how strong you guys are and because of God's grace and mercy He will get you through. Just keep praying and looking to the Lord for strength and healing and know that whatever question you have in life, you will find the answer in His Word.

Talk to you soon! Love, D.

Dear Jesus, I pray that you would give Shawn's family strength to make it through each day. I know you are a God of love, healing, hope and peace. Place a wave of your presence over them right now and let them know they can cast all of their cares upon you. For it's by your amazing grace we are able to do this. In your mighty name, Amen.

Deanna Ramsey <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 2:04 PM CST
It was so good to read your entry! You all are in our thoughts and prayers! Hope you all are doing good! Take Care!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 1:52 PM CST
Coble family,
Hi, I don't know you and you don't know me. I found Reese's pgae off of someone else's, I checked up on Reese everyday. It just broke my heart when I saw that entry, i'm so sorry. I released a red balloon but it didn't fly. F.R.O.G. ( Fully rely on god)

God Bless,
Brooke Allison

Brooke Allison <baa_84@hotmail.com>
Northwood, IA USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 1:11 PM CST
G'Mornin Shawn, Toni & families..... Just wanted to tell you we love you & we're thinking of you.
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 9:31 AM CST
Hi Shawn,
Thinking about you and Reese and I wanted to check in and let you know that I continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. It must be so incredibly hard to put one foot in front of the other every day but it sounds like you are bravely doing just that. Please keep in touch with us and continue to let us know how you are doing. There are so many of us out here that care!!!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 5:09 AM CST
Hello. I am a pharmacy student, and I did a rotation at the Fairview Pediatric BMT unit. When I was checking some websites of children that were there when I was doing my rotation, I came across a link to your website today. I know we don't know each other, but I wanted to let you know I am praying for your family. I can't imagine the pain of your loss, but I do know the Lord Jesus Christ wants to be your strength. I pray that Jesus is your comfort and peace during this time. May God bless you and your family.
Katie
Minneapolis, MN USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 10:47 PM CST
It was great to hear that you are doing okay. I can't imagine what you are going through right now, but your faith and strength will help. Reece was a very lucky little boy to have such a wonderful family. Know that you are all in my prayers daily.
Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 10:38 PM CST
Shawn-
Just checking in. Don't ask "what if?". We both know what would have happened if you'd done nothing. You are a great Mommy and made all the right decisions concerning Reese. You did everything he needed and loved him more than anyone else possibly could. I know that, and He knows that. Remember that we are always here for you. I'm thinking of and praying for you a thousand times a day. I love and miss you. By the way, any time you want to come "squeeze Jordan" you are always welcome.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 10:13 PM CST
I just wanted to send a quick message and let you know that people are thinking of you just as much today, if not more, as they were each day we were blessed with your dear son's presence here on Earth. I wish I could say I know what you are going through and tell you that it will be better, but I don't. I can, however, assure you that people will be here supporting you and checking in on you as long as you wish to share your most precious story. I work for a Christian Daycare and everyday we pray to Jesus for all that we are thankful for. Today, I thanked him for having the chance to get to know "Reese Cup" and prayed for Him to continue watching over you.
Susie <suze_q80@hotmail.com>
Taylorville, IL - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:34 PM CST
Shawn, you, know, I never stop thinking about you, nor are my family in Italy and my friends , all around the world... for all it can do, may our thoughts of love sustain you in this next period , may our love help heal your pain, may our thoughts accompany you and dry your tears...Love Shawn, really all our love... don't think we forgot. I will never, ever.........
Marcella and Sean
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 8:37 PM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor and Family members,
Just wanted to drop a line and let you all know that you are still in my prayers every day. It was so good to see you Monday at work Shawn, I just wish I could make your pain go away. You and your entire family have been such a blessing and a testimony of the grace of our wonderful God. Even though it is so hard to understand why God chose to take Reese to be with him, his plan is always perfect. Your family has touched the lives of so many people. I just get cold chills when I read all the guestbook entries of all the people literally from all over the world. I guess we never realized there were so many Christians in the world. I know so many lives have been touched and I truly believe there has probably been people that have come to know our Lord through the witness of Reese and your families lives. Just always stay ever so close to Jesus, because he will never leave you nor forsake you. He is making you all a stronger person through this. Just hold onto all your memories and God never said that we shouldn't cry, so cry when you feel like it. God is right there for you to cry on his shoulder and he loves you so very much. Please let me know if I can be of any help or if you just want to talk, I am always here for you. Love you all so much.

Bonnie Fulk <bonnie.fulk@wachovia.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 7:25 PM CST
I just wanted to stop by and let you know that you are in my thoughts. I wish I could give you some advice on how to get through this, but I really do not know how I am getting through this. I guess we just do not have a choice. I wish Carter and Reese were still here with us. I wish that everyday. All I can say is that we were truly blessed to have loved these special little boys and have them love us back. If you need to talk I am here for you always.
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 7:14 PM CST
Just wanted to add Reese's poem I wrote to the guestbook.

By: © Noreen Reed (Reese's Nana in Maine) 3-16-2003
talkntalkn@aol.com
THROUGH MY BEAUTIFUL EYES

The gate of Heaven opened wide
Little Reese Daniel stands inside
Oh wait here Jesus, what’s that I see?
Red balloons addressed to me!

There floating all around the gate
And every one seems to have a date
They say “March 10th, 2003”
Oh my, oh my, they are for me!

Look Brittney, kids & Grampa R.D.
A special remembrance all about me
In all the hearts that I touched
I loved each one so very much

Everyone come and look on down
Look, Oh Look, at my hometown
Look there’s the whole fireman’s crew
Guess they knew I loved them too

Everyone one is gathered round
A lot of them from out of town
I see these strangers all are here
I hold them all so very dear

I think I see my Tator Tot
Right there in the parking lot
He’s right there with my mom & dad
I’m fussing cause he looks so sad

Don’t worry Taylor I’m ok
Run & jump & skip & play
Remember me as your Reese Cup
And when you want to “just look up”

I’ll send you down some big bright stars
You think of me when you play cars
I’ll make some pictures in the sky
Just check the clouds and you’ll see why

Aunt Toni & Uncle Andy are there
The wind is blowing Auntie’s hair
I’m bouncing up and down you see
Cause I made that wind, it’s to her from me

Grampy is there I see his smile
And he sniffled for a little while
He made me laugh & I liked his hair
We really were quite the pair

He with his curls & my head so bald
Mom always would say “Grampy just called
I love you Grampy, thanks for the toy
I brought it with me to really enjoy

Grandma Yountz & Coble too
I never will forget either of you
Grandpa’s J.C. & R.D are here
They hold me & love me & keep me near

There’s my Nanna & Pawpaw too
They look so funny all dressed up new
When Nanna hears a little sound
I want her to turn and look around

I’ll be there with her during the day
Just look & listen you might here “heeyy”
You’ll know I’m there, you’ll feel the air
Right on the back of your neck & hair

My dad was crying I could see
He’s really going to miss me
Remember I am happy & smart
And we will never really part

We really were quite a pair
Just look at our funny Coble hair
So Dad just know that your were loved
And that I send you love from above

We’ll always be close & don’t you fear
I’ll be cute & funny while I’m up here
I’ll see you some day & you will see
That I look like you & you like me

Now Mommy you’re the bestest one
You loved your little baby son
But don’t you worry, fuss or fear
I’m always with you, very near

I’ll be there in a nice long song
Or in the sunshine in the morn
I’ll always be right in your heart
Because I was right from the start

God gave you me & I want to say
I’ll watch over you every day
We’ll meet again in this beautiful land
And we’ll walk forever
HAND IN HAND.


Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 4:31 PM CST
I'll keep checking in on you...your progress is as important to me as the progress of your beautiful baby Reese...I think of you often and miss you dearly...I will continue to keep you and the rest of your family in my prayers...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 4:04 PM CST
Hello Shawn and Doug, I began reading your entries about a week ago. That is also when I and a coworker began praying for you. Our hearts were broken as we have children and could not even begin to imagine the pain. My words seem futile when you have suffered such a loss. I thought of this verse after reading your entry yesterday. It is tucked away in II Kings20:5 it says "...I have heard thy prayer, I have seen they tears, behold, I will heal thee..." I believe in time he will heal your pain and then use you in a mighty way. We will continue to pray for you and the plans God has for you. I know right now words are not much comfort but I am so sorry for your loss.
Kim Lammons <kim.lammons@dhs.state.tx.us>
Round Rock, Tx Williamson - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 4:04 PM CST
SHAWN, I KNOW WE DONT KNOW EACH OTHER BUT I FEEL LIKE I DO KNOW YOU. I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING YOUR WEBSITE FROM THE START. I HAVE 2 CHILDREN SON 16..DAU. 10 .AND I CANT IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE FEELING RIGHT NOW. THE PAIN AND SADNESS. I THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR INCLUDING US IN REESECUP JORNERY. YOU ARE A VERY STRONG LADY. THAT SHOW IN WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO REESE GRANDMA OVER THE NET. I HAVE SENT YOU SOME EMAILS HOPE THEY GIVE YOU PEACE. KEEP UP THE FAITH, AND TRUST IN THE LORD ABOVE. I WILL CHECK BACK LATER.
Penny Clark <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, va - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 3:49 PM CST
Shawn - I know we have never met - but I continue to read your entries. I have no idea of the pain you are in - but I have 2 boys of my own and can not imagine losing one of them. You have been such a wonderful witness - one of great faith - don't lose that now. May God continue to heal you and your family.

Gina Trivette <trivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 2:51 PM CST
PLease give your heart sometime to heal and your mind sometime to think straight again. And then you will know what to do from now, besides living your life and loving your husband and your little star. Your sunshine will surely help you from Heaven decide what is the best option. To simply stay like that or go ahead and have another baby or adopt. I have 2 colleagues at work that suffered the same loss and they both had another child sometime after. I talked to them and they told me that of course nobody is replaceble but it was wonderful to have another child and to start again with diapers, toys, etc... if you decide to adopt, you could even adopt a child a little bit older and skip this phase... I don´t know, it worked for them but it is your life and you have to think this over with your husband. BUT NOT NOW. It is TOO early. You have all the right to suffer, cry, get desperate, mad and all other crazy feelings. I have a friend who have just lost her 6 years old boy to leukemia (10 days ago) and I was reading all I could find in internet to try to help her. Continue to write because it will do you good. People like me are here to listen. lots of kisses from Brazil.
Rose <rosecb@aps.com.br>
Brasilia, - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 2:23 PM CST
I came across this while reading "Our Daily Bread" by RBC Ministries and thought I would share it with everyone. It's called Unanswered Prayer.

II CORINTHIANS 12:8-9
I pleaded with the Lord three times..... And He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you."

The Lord in His wisdom does not grant every prayer. Even Paul did not receive everything he sought at the throne of grace. His "thorn" was not removed; he was just given grace to bear it. Of one thing we can be certain: If our goal is to glorify God, He will give us what we ask, or what we would have asked if we could see as He sees.

Oftentimes I have come to thank the Lord for not granting some request of mine, for in the light of future developments I could see God's wisdom in denying me the thing for which I had so fervently pleaded.

There are other times we may request things that God will not give us because they are completely contrary to his plan for us. Yet we ask anyway, like the little boy who was overheard saying his nightly prayers: "Please God, make Boulder the capital of Colorado." When he had said, "Amen," his mother asked, "Why did you ask that?" "Because," he explained, "that's what I put down on my exam paper today."

We must always remember that God's thoughts are not our thoughts, nor are His ways our ways (Isaiah 55:8). When He says no to us, He has a very good reason for not granting our request. ---Henry Bosch

NOT OURS TO KNOW THE REASON WHY
UNANSWERED IS OUR PRAYER,
BUT OURS TO WAIT FOR GOD'S OWN GRACE
TO LIFT THE CROSS WE BEAR. ---ANON.

Dawn Williams <dwilliams@dldavisco.com>
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 1:21 PM CST
JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE STILL IN MINE AND MY WIFE'S THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO TOUCH YOUR LIFE TODAY AND FOREVER. I HAVE THE E-MAIL THAT I RECEIVED ON 03/11 STILL IN MY INBOX. I READ IT EVERYDAY TO THANK GOD FOR MY TWO CHILDREN AND THE BLESSINGS HE GIVES. REESE HAS TOUCHED MY LIFE, THANK YOU FOR SHARING HIM WITH US.
JEFF BECK <JBECK@KDHOSIERY.COM>
MT AIRY, NC SURRY - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 12:39 AM CST
Shawn and Doug,
Thinking of you today and wanted you to know....I hope your little SUNSHINE kisses your face today and let you know that he is near!

Feeling you sorrow... God Bless


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 12:06 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know that I have not nor will I ever forget Reese and your family. You are all so strong and I admire you for that. Reese was as cute as they come and he fought hard. I will continue to check in on his web site just as often as I have in the past. God Bless.
Trisha Athy <Aaronsmom1027@aol.com>
Belleville , IL USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 11:35 AM CST
I just wanted to say that I have been checking in and I know your family was truly blessed by having Reese but from just reading your entries and your families entries that he was a truly blessed little boy. Remember the Footprints Poem---it's times like these that the Lord will carry you!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
LOVE IN CHRIST!

Elizabeth <elizabeth.wimmer@nautica.com>
Martinsville, VA usa - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 11:01 AM CST
Hello, I've visited this web page I bet a thousand times, but never signed your guestbook. I can't imagine the pain your dealing with everyday. My heart aches for you and I think of that precious baby every single day.. Your strength is amazing and I am honored to have known your son through this website. His sweet smile is lighting up the heavens and I'm sure that he is surrounded by tons of love. Keep comfort in knowing that one day you will be together again. Much love and prayers from Denver.
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 10:55 AM CST
Hello. I surfed in a while before Reese went to be with Jesus and I had to keep reading your updates everyday. He is the cutest boy ever. Although I have never met you I will never stop praying and thinking about you and your family, and I know everyone else won't either! <3
Rosemary <Rosebudkissie@aol.com>
NC - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 10:36 AM CST
Hello to all our friends, family and caring strangers. This entry is not especially for Shawn and Doug because, you know guys, I tell you everyday how much I love you and you know you are in my thoughts every moment. This entry is for everyone else,the hundreds that check in everyday to see how we are all doing and to send their love.
I wanted you all to know how much Pawpaw Wilbur and I appreciate everything.Your prayers, cards, calls, guestbook entries, everything has been so wonderful.
I never thought I could survive losing Reese. But, here we are, getting up everyday, going though our daily routines, working, eating, watching TV, worrying about the war, getting groceries, playing with the kids. Pretty much like any other day, but now, since March 10th, every thing we do has a different tint to it. Something is missing and of course, it is a large piece from our heart. A Reesie Piece that will always be missing until we are together again and I get to hold him and kiss his sweet face.
I get up thinking about Reese and go to bed thinking about Reese. I dream of him and so far God has blessed me to only have good dreams.I will think about going to Durham and have to catch myself, and my heart just aches. I look at his pictures all over the house and want to reach out and touch his cheek and kiss him on the neck, you know that special sweet place that babies reserve for their Nanna.
I found one of his pacies under the shelves next to my computer the other morning and felt like it was a little gift from Reese, that he was letting me know he was thinking about me, too. I try not to think about tomorrow. Or the next day. I just try to get thru this one and hope tomorrow will be better. Saturday was a good day, Sunday was not. Monday was OK and so far today will be Ok (I think.) Actually I am sure it will be because Taylor will spend the night with us and I am missing him so much!
So, thanks again, everyone that is missing Reese and still praying for us all. Thanks for my friends that call me and stop by and give me a hug and let me cry on their shoulder.
Thanks Linda, my very best friend in the whole wide world, I know I could not get thru this without your support and love.
Thanks to Tammy and Ken's for everything, (I can't begin to list everything you have done for us and I know you are all hurting too.)!
Thanks to my Mary Kay sister's for being here for me.
Thanks to Phyllis, for being such a good friend to me and for being another Mom to Shawn and such a great Grandma to Taylor.
Thanks to everyone for the guest book entries, because even though they are directed towards Shawn and Doug, Wilbur and I are both blessed when we read them. We know how much our precious Reesie Cup was loved and is missed and how we all share that loss.
Thanks to my Moms and Dad, Lisa, Jeff and Donna. You have been so great working with us during Reese's whole journey.
Thanks everyone that was able to attend Reese's funeral. I was so glad to be able to share the celebration of Reese's life with so many people.
And a special big thanks to the moms and dads that have also lost their precious children, that come here and give us words of hope and love because you are truly the ones that know how Shawn, Doug, and the rest of us, are feeling. By sharing your words and feelings with us we know that we will get throught this, somehow.
So, THANKS EVERYONE. We appreciate you all more than I can say.
Love Julia and Wilbur, Taylor and Reese's Nanna and Pawpaw.

Julia Hill
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:53 AM CST
Good Morning Shawn!!
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of ya everyday and praying for ya. I was glad to see the update this morning. I will also be praying for you in ref to signing Taylor up for kindergarden. That will be fun......lol....I'll keep check on ya like always. I am sorry that I don't get to enter a message everyday, but I check on ya. Hope that things continue to go good and I am so glad to hear from ya! Keep smiling and keep that head up. I'll be praying for ya!

Stephanie Conner-Surry 911 <cr404@hotmail.com>
Cana, Va - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:53 AM CST
Good Morning, Shawn. I just had to check back in to see if you had posted another entry. I was glad to see that you did. I sense that you are a wonderful mother and that Reese was so blessed to have you. In God's eyes you are special as well because He trusted you with His special angel until it was time to bring him home. I know that you have no idea who I am, but I'll tell you that I am your friend in Christ. Please feel free to e-mail me if I can help in any way and know that I think of you often and will keep you in my prayers. I have added Reese's page to my favorites and will continue to check in to see how you are doing. I pray that God gives you strength to carry on taking it one day at a time.
Dawn Williams <dwilliams@dldavisco.com>
W-S, NC Forsyth - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:29 AM CST
G'Mornin.........Just wanted to give you all a hug {{{{{{{{{SHAWN}}}}}}}}}},{{{{{{{{{{{{Doug}}}}}}}}}}}}}}, {{{{{{{{{{Taylor}}}}}}}}}}}, {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{TONI}}}}}}}}}}, & {{{{{{{{{{Andy}}}}}}}}}}}}. WE LOVE YOU!!
DAD & NOREEN (REESE'S Grampy & Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 5:36 AM CST
Just wanted to check in again and offer you our warmest thoughts. We continue to pray for you during this rough time. You are doing great and are being so strong. Take care and God bless,
Greg, Debbie & baby Noah Prichard/ PBMTU

Greg, Debbie & baby Noah Prichard <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 0:42 AM CST
I just read your entry for today and it breaks my heart the pain you are going thru. As a mother of two,3mnths old and a 3 yr old I just couldnt imagine the pain your are feeling. Ever since I got the first email to pray for Reese my heart aches for you and your family. I was praying so hard everything would go great for Reese but God needed him as a special angel. I know were not suppose to question God's reason for doing things but its impossible not to do that in this case, I guestion him for you. Visiting your website makes me hold my children closer everyday. I wish I knew what I could say to make the pain ease but I dont all I can say is I'm praying for you and your family. I know we dont know each other but if there's anything I could do for you and your family just let me know please. God bless you!!!
Dawn Swinney <swinney@surry.net>
Lowgap, NC - Monday, March 24, 2003 11:08 PM CST
I know Reese Cup will be very safe in Jesus's arms forever and ever. He will on to him oh so very tight! I wished I would have knew about Reese Cup before today becasue I would have prayed so very very hard for him on March 9, 2003. Hope Reese Cup's mother feels glad he is up in heaven than on the earth with all those machines hooked up to him. And seeing him suffer though so much! I miss Reese Cup so much even though I nly visited this web site 5 or 6 times in Janruary and Februray. Hope you feel safe, Abby
Abby Potter <Buggo2010@aol.com>
- Monday, March 24, 2003 8:09 PM CST
Hi....I was glad to see your post. All your going through right now is natural. It is okay to hurt & okay to cry.It is all part of the grieving process. I know it is hard with a child . It is the worse. Keep your faith . I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. God bless you & hold you close .
Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 8:03 PM CST
Dear Angel Reese, I wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts everyday!!!!!!!!! We all miss you so very badly here on earth. And while it is in NO WAY fair, may your family find some comfort knowing that you are in heaven, pain free and happy. We love you Reese and you will NEVER be forgotten.
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Monday, March 24, 2003 4:49 PM CST
I just wanted to tell you that i just read your story and beleive me I don't know how you can go on. I have two daughters that I would die with if anything happened to them. I have been praying for you that only the peace that comes from God will comfort you and that he will send angels to surround you and keep you comforted. Everything happens for a reason although it's hard to understand that after your son's loss. We serve a great and wonderful God. He has all the mercy and grace that we need to go through life. I would encourage you to read the book of Job and see how faithful God is and has remained through time.
Hannah Ndika
Roundrock, tx usa - Monday, March 24, 2003 4:44 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
I only know of you through my husband Jeff. When I first heard about Reese, Jeff took my son Payton to a fund raiser in Reese's honor. I began to pray for you and your entire family not really knowing about Hurler's. I only knew bits and pieces of how Reese was doing through Jeff. I am still praying for you as I know that you need it more than ever now and even as I write this message to you I cannot even begin to imagine the pain that you are experiencing right now. I just know that being a Mommy myself it's got to be the most devastating feeling that a mother could ever endure. Although all children are special, Reese was extra special to God in that He wanted Reese to be with Him. I read Jeff's message and he is so right about Reese now being an Angel. I'm sure he has always been one in your eyes though. Although your pain is so deep and it seems like it will never end keep looking to God for comfort. I receive e-mails with biblical reference on a daily basis and somehow every one of them always apply to my life. I wanted to share with you the one I received today. I know that your pain is still new and sometimes all the comforting words from others like me and your friends and family still don't seem to help ease that pain. God can do that for you, Shawn. Please don't lose your faith in God and although I am on the outside looking in I know that God will ease your pain and the void of Reese. Reese really is so very happy now and oh what a blessing to know that he is with God. I will continue to pray that God comforts you and your family and loved ones. God bless you, Shawn!

I POUR OUT MY COMPLAINT BEFORE HIM." PSALM 142:2 NIV



There are different kinds of Psalms. Some where people express their deepest emotions to God; and it's actually therapeutic. It's what David did: "I am overwhelmed and desperate, and you alone know which way I ought to turn" (Ps 142:3 LB). David acknowledges his pain before
God. He allows himself to feel it in his gut. That takes courage, especially when you just want to bury the pain and put on a brave face.

John Ortberg writes: "I regret the pain of failure so keenly that I backed away from owning it and learning from it. I could not heal and move on. I wanted to bury it so deeply that no one would ever guess it was there ? not
even me. I have needed to learn to pray the Psalms of lament."

The Bible doesn't condemn the grieving process, it just warns us not to get stuck in it. Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be
comforted" (Mt 5:4 NIV).

Dawn Williams <dwilliams@dldavisco.com>
Winston-Salem, NC Forsyth - Monday, March 24, 2003 3:28 PM CST
Dearest Shawn,
I read your entry and I wish I could hug you. You are having the feelings that I had when I lost our baby, Ellie Anne.
It's funny how all of the feelings are the same for us Moms, no matter what the situation was that took that baby.
Our baby was due and ten days before my scheduled c-section, she stopped moving. She had gotten her umbilical cord wrapped around her legs, cutting off the blood and oxygen supply. It was devastating to see this perfect little girl pulled out of me, dead.
I remember telling my husband that we were blessed because we didn't have to watch her suffer through cancer, she died peacefully in my womb. But...I don't have those wonderful, loving memories of her that you have of your sweet Reese. As I write these words to you, I have a sense of happiness for you that you indeed do have wonderful memories. That is what you hang onto, that is what will get you through this. Memories. Go over them and delight in them, go over them and cry in them. But rejoice, because, you have them.
Our babies are together, safe and will never be in danger. Life on earth is not easy, but yet, it's a gift. You gave Reese the love of an entire lifetime while he was with you on this earth. You should just dwell on that. Cry, because crying eases your pain. Each day will carry you through and you will see signs from Reese. Just remember to be aware of them. He is all around you. You will "smell" him, you will hear him and you will feel his presence. And...you will cry for him. It's okay. God loves you so much. He wants to take care of you.

Anyway Shawn, I wish I could help. Now I am watching a child struggle through cancer, but, with each new day I have a new memory. There is happiness and laughter and most of all love. I am blessed.

Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with so many of us. We truly feel your pain and want to help.
God Bless You all.

Jody Poolman caringbridge.com/ia/elijahpoolman <jodypoolman@hotmail.com>
Charles City, IA - Monday, March 24, 2003 3:23 PM CST
Hey there Shawn I just wanted to write you to let you know that I have been praying for you your family. I just want you to know that you are a true inpiration for anyone that has been touched by Reese. You are a strong Christian woman and you are so very special in God's eyes as is Reese. We question alot of God's will for our lives and loved ones, when we arent even supposed to understand, which is so emotionally tough and straining. Shawn your son is the chosen one at this time to do God's work, noone could possibly know what it is and you do not either, however in due time God will reveal to you what that is. He is using Reese right now in heaven as well as you and your family for a purpose down here, just please keep your eyes and focus and God will show you, and I know for sure that God will touch your heart and relieve you and your family of the grief. Stay strong and steadfast and love your Jesus Christ more now than ever and watch what he does in all of your lives and especially watch what he reveals to you. Reese is an angel now and I promise you he is smiling upon you at this moment and if he could he would let you know that "Mommy I am okay, everything is wonderful here, I have a new body and I have so many friends,I cant wait to see you again, but I will be patient for you mommy just please keep that pretty smile on your face and know that I love you for all you have done for me! Shawn just remember that this life is just temporary, Reese is at home right now we will all join him in our due time.
Jeff Williams <jeff.williams@wachovia.com>
Clemmons, NC Forsyth - Monday, March 24, 2003 2:38 PM CST
Shawn,
I cannot begin to understand the pain you feel. I can only imagine how I would feel if my baby was taken from me. It's not something that I wish to ponder, only shortly. My heart aches for you. I wish that I could share your burden to make it lighter.

You are continually in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love,

Kim Barker <kim.barker@wachovia.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 11:53 AM CST
Shawn,
I cannot begin to understand the pain you feel. I can only imagine how I would feel if my baby was taken from me. It's not something that I wish to ponder, only shortly. My heart aches for you. I wish that I could share your burden to make it lighter.

You are continually in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love,

Kim Barker <kim.barker@wachovia.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 11:52 AM CST
I am so sorry that all of your pain isn't going away. I pray that one day your pain will be less, and less. God Bless you and your family.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 11:30 AM CST
I just read your journal entry and I am so sorry for your sadness. You have had such a loss and I think you will feel this sadness for many days to come , but I know because God gave his little one to such strong and special people you will have days ahead in your life which will be "happy ones and you will survive as a family. My thoughts are with you and your tears will help you heal,as will God.
Be kind to yourselves ,
Sincerly Diane(BELLA,s gtandma )

Diane
ST.Albert, AB CANADA - Monday, March 24, 2003 10:56 AM CST
My prayers were with Reese since I recieved the email, when I found out he had passed away I cant imagine the pain his family is feeling, but Jesus has a rocking chair and one day his momma (and family)will be reunited with him, in heaven. I know that does not fix the pain now, my prayers are with the family on coping and healing, Just know God Loves you!
Kerri Cauley <kcauley31@yahoo.com>
Dover, NC USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 10:23 AM CST
I don't know what to say except God Bless you!
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Monday, March 24, 2003 8:21 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
I thank God for the grace you have been given. Sharing your pain is not weakness; it is an act of courage. It keeps so many other mothers from feeling alone and isolated. It allows other people to reach out to you and show the love of Christ. What a tremendous pain you must feel; thank you for sharing your story. "In our weakness He is made great." To feel such pain is an almost unbearable sacrafice. You truly are touching people far and wide, when all you really want right now is Reese. I am so sorry for your sacrafice and at the same time so thankful for it. We are living with MPS and women like you convince me that I will survive. No drug, no doctor, no therapist is as much help to me as you are, a total stranger in pain. When you choose to love despite your pain you are living the life of Jesus. Thank you, thank you. I pray that Divine Providence will carry you; let all of this sympathy be yours. Know that you are loved.

Marie
Lincoln University, PA - Monday, March 24, 2003 6:43 AM CST
Shawn,
You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Monday, March 24, 2003 1:55 AM CST
Shawn,
Oh how my heart aches for you, dear one. I wish for you:
Comfort on difficult days.
Rainbows to follow the clouds.
Laughter to kiss your lips.
Sunsets to warm your heart.
Gentle hugs as your spirits sag.
Friendships to brighten your being.
Beauty for your eyes to see.
Confidence for when in doubt.
Faith so that you can believe.
Courage to know yourself.
Patience to accept the truth.
And love to complete your life.

I asked the Lord to bless you
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way.
His love is always with you.
His promises are true
No matter what the tribulation.
You know He will see us through
So when the road you're traveling on seems difficult at best,
Give your problems to the Lord and God will do the rest.
I will continue to pray daily for you, Doug, and Taylor.
Maybe you feel like resigning--
I am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult. I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities of a 7 year-old again. I want to go to McDonalds and think that it's a four star restaurant. I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud puddle and made a sidewalk with rocks. I want to think M&M's are better than money because you can eat them. I want to lie under a big oak tree and run a lemonade stand with my friends on a hot summers day.
I want to return to a time when life was simple, when all you knew were colors, multiplication tables, and nursery rhymes, but that didn't bother you, because you didn't know what you didn't know and you didn't care. All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of all the things that should make you worried or upset.
I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest and good. I want to believe that anything is possible. I want to be oblivious to the complexities of life and be overly excited by the little things again.
I want to live simple again. I don't want my day to consist of computer crashes, mountains of paperwork, depressing news, how to survive more days in the month than there is money in the bank, doctor bills, gossip, illness, and loss of loved ones.
I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth, justice, peace, dreams, the imagination, mankind, and making angels in the snow. So...here's my checkbook and my car keys, my credit card bills, and my 401K statements. I am officially resigning from adulthood.
And if you want to discuss this further, you'll have to catch me first, cause..."Tag You're it."
Shawn, thank you for sharing ReesieCup with Kaden and I through your caringbridge site.
Remember always that Jesus loves you and so do we.
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 0:24 AM CST
We are friends of Isaiah Bingham. Pat told us of your family. We are so sorry about Reese. May God bless each one of you. You are in our prayers.
Sharon Frost
Swartz Creek, MI USA - Sunday, March 23, 2003 11:14 PM CST
Dear Shawn, Doug, and Taylor,

I just wanted to let you know that I think about you and pray for you often. Everytime I pass by your driveway I say a little prayer for you. I cannot imagine what your pain feels like but I can read your entry and know that you are devistated. I wish that I could take away your pain but I can't but I do know someone who can and I know you know Him too. I still find myself checking on the site everyday to see how you all are doing. Reese was so precious and so loved but so are all of you now. By you being such an open person with your feelings you have touched many people also. We are here if you ever need anything, someone to go to Wal-Mart or the grocery store if you don't feel like it or just to have someone to talk to even though I have never had to go through anything like you have I am a good listener. Just let us know!!

Love in Christ,

Christie, Jeff and Colby Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy , NC - Sunday, March 23, 2003 10:38 PM CST
Dearest Shawn...
We are complete strangers but I have been checking in on you every day just about for a while. I wish I knew what to say that would help in some way...but I just don't have the words...nobody can ever know how Reese's Mommy's heart hurts...all that I have to offer are (((((HUGS)))))...and those I will always have plenty of.

Kim Kruppenbacher KODYS STORY
- Sunday, March 23, 2003 7:41 PM CST
I know I have never met you and your family, but please know that I am praying for you.I pray God gives you comfort.
Tanya <Roosmommy7374@aol.com>
Maryville, TN USA - Sunday, March 23, 2003 4:39 PM CST
Shawn:

Your pain is oh so deep, cutting to the depths of your soul. What was once "normal" is now replaced by so many memories, some happy and others much too painful to have to recall. As long as you have memories your little "Reesie Cup" will live on forever.

I remember asking so many times, "Why weren't my prayers answered?" "Why did God have to take two of my children?" "Why two completely different illnesses?" "How?" "What caused this?" "Was I unworthy?" "Why couldn't we find a doctor who could treat Nicholas?" "Why did Nicholas have to suffer so much?" "Why didn't Nicholas' doctors listen to me?" "Why are some children with brain stem tumors still living?" "Why did my beautiful daughter have to hurt?" "Why couldn't my kids just be kids?" "Why, just why?" I asked those questions from the beginning and I still ask those questions now. I will probably ask those questions until the day I meet my Maker. (And I'm sure when I do meet Jesus Christ, He will ask me, "My dear child, why did you waste so much time on worry, "WHY" didn't "YOU" just have faith, trust and complete obedience?"

Noelle, who was five years old at the time, asked me if kids were supposed to be sick. When I told her, "No, honey" her immediate response was, "Well, God picked us to be sick." Such faith and trust at such a young age. I have to face my questions with the same attitude, God picked us to endure these trials in our lives.

I was reminded that compared to an eternity, we are only here for a blink of an eye. I was reminded that God works according to His timing and not mine. I was reminded that I am to conform to God's plan for my life and not ask Him to conform to MY plan for my life. I was reminded that God chose we parents to raise these special children because we ARE worthy and He felt that He COULD indeed trust us with such responsibility. I was also reminded that although I still have so many questions here on earth about Noelle and Nicholas, these particular chapters of their lives have already been completed up in heaven.

Shawn, thank you for sharing your hearfelt pain. Life for us just after Nicholas and Noelle's homegoing is just a blurr at this point and time... and I imagine it will be just that for a while. No words anyone can say ever will ease any of our pain... but God can and does show mercy and grace and He will NEVER leave or forsake us. And remember Shawn, God PICKED YOU to be Reese's mommy because He knew that you were the only one on the face of this earth worthy of such a task. You were a super mommy to Reese and he knew that. One day you will receive your handsome reward that is awaiting you when you get to heaven.

Please know that we continue to lift all of you up in prayer.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Forever Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, March 23, 2003 2:45 PM CST
I know that I am only a stranger but I hope that knowing there are people out here that are reading your words it is because we care. I have never met you but I feel your pain and I will pray for strength for you. There is nothing that can take away your pain but hopefully my prayers for peace and strenght will help in some small way. I will continue to read your posts and keep you in my heart

Josie
Pembroke, Canada - Sunday, March 23, 2003 12:40 AM CST
Hello,

I'm not sure if we have actually ever met, but I have heard so much about your family. I have a child who received a stem cell transplant on 5200 back in September. My name is Monica Laughinghouse and my sons name is Cameron. I remember the day that I heard Reece had earned his angel wings. My heart broke for you. I just finished reading your latest entry and all the emotions you are feeling made my heart break for you all over again. The pain we go through having a sick child just doesn't seem fair most of the time. I think that you are truly very strong and brave. You are very blessed to have such a wonderful support system to help you with the daily struggles of losing a child. I continue to pray for guidance and strength for you and your family.

With Love,

Monica

Monica Laughinghouse <camlaugh00@yahoo.com>
Newport, nc - Sunday, March 23, 2003 10:52 AM CST
Oh Shawn,
I am so sorry for your pain. I wish I could come and take it from you. I know there are no words to erase all the hurt. Just know that I am always here for you. I miss and love you.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton www.caringbridge.org/il/jordan <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, March 23, 2003 10:46 AM CST
Shawn,
Honey, I read your last entry and my heart cries out for your pain. I have no words that will ease your heart and comfort you right now. BUT...I do know that one day the awesome almost paralizing sorrow will become the most precious memories you have. Never fail to cry out to Jesus in your times of pain, for He is always there and always hears. He will deliver you. Not a day goes by that I don't ask the Lord to watch over you, Doug, Taylor, Toni & Andy and to bring you peace. Remember that we are all still here for you and always will be. Much Much Love, Aunt Cathy and family

Cathy Young <Tocaone@aol.com>
Summerfield, NC US - Sunday, March 23, 2003 7:24 AM CST
Wow did you put it well. My son died Oct 3 of 2002. He had cancer and also had a bone marrow transplant. He died because the cancer came back 80 days after transplant. Why, why, why. He was a 13 year old angel. Not your typical wise guy teenager. He was a great kid. So loving and kind. So why did God take the good one. Why not someone that is a waste to society. I want to know why my son is no longer her for me to kiss and enjoy. I just cant believe he is gone and now I only have one son. My husband doesnt want to have anymore cause he is too afraid. I have followed your site for a long time but felt the need to write tonight. I wonder if I wll ever stop asking why. I do know he is in a much better place now though. God Bless you
Ruth Trombino <alandruth@myexcel.com>
Westerly, RI - Sunday, March 23, 2003 0:20 AM CST
MY HEART WENT OUT TO YOU.HE WAS A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY,NOW HE IS IN GOD GRACE AND HE IS VERY HAPPY HE LOOKS DOWN ON YOU EVERYDAY AND SAYS I AM OK OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU!
LINDA MELTON <LMelton@triad.rr.com>
KENERSVILLE, N.C. FORSYTH - Saturday, March 22, 2003 11:25 PM CST
Shawn,

I dont know what to say that will comfort you in any way and that hurts me so much! And I know that there is nothing anyone can say that will ease your pain more than temporarilly. After reading your entry tonight my eyes filled up to where I was just sitting there, feeling every ounce of pain in every word your wrote. I am so sad for you and just dont know what to do to help!! You are right to ask WHY..it is not fair! All I can do is ask God to answer the "WHY's" and put my faith in him and know that he will give all of us peace that passes all understanding.

I want you to know that there has not been one moment this past couple of weeks that you and Reese have not crossed my mind!

I know that I have told you several times that I am hear if you ever need to talk or vent your fustrations...Please call me if you ever need someone to listen!

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers always!!


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Saturday, March 22, 2003 9:38 PM CST
May God give you peace and contentment. Reese was such a special little boy, and so is Taylor. Try staying strong. God has a purpose.



Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com,>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Saturday, March 22, 2003 9:02 PM CST
Dear Shawn, I am so sorry that you have to experience all the pain that comes when our children die. No words can make it better and the list of whys unfortunately just gets longer. Something today that I read caused me to ponder a bit, it said Don't try to accept Why your child died for you will never be able to accept the Why but just try to accept that they are dead on earth but alive in heaven. So many days we drive ourselves crazy trying to figure out Why our child, what happened and honestly there is never an answer that takes those questions from our mind. It does help some when you can stop dwelling on the why. Also I try to remember that although God only gave me Ryan for a short while (and for every mother that loses a child no matter what age it is a short while) how much more miserable I would be if he had never given me Ryan at all. I doubt if these words will help you right now but thought I would share them with you just in case they did.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Saturday, March 22, 2003 8:54 PM CST
Shawn & Doug...just think of the memories of Reese giving you the biggest hug you ever felt. I totally understand how you are feeling..I've been in the exact same spot you are in only 6 months ago after losing my daughter Kassidy to Hurlers at age 2 yrs. May God Bless you and hold you in his arms until you are strong enough to carry on. It will get better as time goes on. You will have the strength to help others in need..just as I am doing now. No one can EVER take MEMORIES away....HUGS and KISSES to all who loved these HURLER babies - from --- REESE, KASSIDY, and CARTER XOXOXOXOXOXO
Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.kassiescourage.com>
Bowmanville, ONT Canada - Saturday, March 22, 2003 8:33 PM CST
Although I haven't lost a child, my child has sick eyes. There is one thing I have learned- life is NOT fair. You are absolutely right. It seems so wrong and unfair that your child had to pass on, while others are still alive. I wish I had the answer for you... or some words of comfort, but I do not. The only comfort I can give you is to tell you that you will one day be reunited with your beautiful baby one day. Try to go on and be as "happy" as you can- remember that your child is watching over you- the last thing he wants to see is his mommy unhappy.... Take care, Colton's mother
caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Saturday, March 22, 2003 7:07 PM CST
Shawn, Thank you for checking in on us. We would love to see you, anytime. I also believe that God had a plan for us meeting that day in PICU. I think of you daily and pray for your comfort. My heart aches and tears fall everytime I read your entries I wish I had a magic wand to wave and all would be right. I love you my friend.
Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Saturday, March 22, 2003 6:48 PM CST
I JUST CALLED TO SAY I LOVE YOU! PLEASE KNOW I AM HERE FOR YOU ALL THE TIME! HUGS TO DOUG AND TAYLOR, TAYLOR, TAYLOR!
Betsy
- Saturday, March 22, 2003 6:07 PM CST

I cry for you too . The balloons were a wonderful idea . I don't know what to say, just I'm sorry seems so ...blah. None of us can take it all away but I wish I could . Hope you can get some comfort from all the beautiful pictures and memories that you have.
Love,
Danette

Danette Prater www.caringbridge.com/tx/jacobprater <jakesmom@wt.net>
Santa Fe , tx - Saturday, March 22, 2003 5:26 PM CST
Shawn, just read your post today, I've cried and cried. If there was some way to take away your pain & broken heart I'd do it for you. I do not & can not begin to imagine what I would do or how I would handle it. As a Mom to a Mom I feel the pain in your heart, the pain in your words & I just want to MAKE IT STOP, MAKE IT GO AWAY, MAKE IT NOT HAPPEN TO YOU!! And the "PAIN" I feel is only a fraction of the pain you feel, I know...It's good you can write your feelings and esp. share it with others. "They" say it helps to write and express your fear, hurt, pain & anger!! WHO ARE "THEY" YOU SAY? I don't know SHAWN and I don't know how to HELP, I wish I did. I love you like a daughter & I to want for you to have Reese Cup back, and a normal life.... I LOVE YOU & HOPE through GOD you will begin to heal taking it day by day... Words are just that "Words" but know that we are hear for you 24/7 & will pray for you, Doug & Taylor. Sending our LOVE, HUGS, SUPPORT, & many PRAYERS...
Noreen (Reese's Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Saturday, March 22, 2003 4:51 PM CST
Shawn,
I so so wish that I could take your pain away. I do not know what to say to make you feel better other than I think of you daily and pray for you so so hard that the pain will ease. I know that God is watching over you and he will be with you every step of the way, but when you hurt so bad it doesn't fell like anything helps. I wish I could take it away and everything would be back to normal. You will be on my mind forever and I will continue to pray for you each and every day. May God Bless you and your family. You are oh so strong even though it doesn't seem that way. I am praying for you!

Stephanie Conner <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Saturday, March 22, 2003 4:44 PM CST
I'll tell you what you do............I have written you before about the loss of my son. Three years later, and my heart is still broken. I will tell you the only things that work for me. Hold tight to the memories that are good, ignore the bad. Nightmares are the worst, so wake up and cry out to Jesus......he cries every tear with you . Take one day at the time, and remember no matter how bad the pain, God's grace is sufficient. Treat each day as the gift it is, even when it may not feel like one. Remember there are still those who need and love you. Most of all, remember that you are only one breath away from Reese.
Anne Norman <anorman@sitestar.net>
Martinsville, VA USA - Saturday, March 22, 2003 4:01 PM CST
Just checking in!!!! Hope things are going ok for you and God is giving you the strength to face each day. You continue to be in my daily thoughts and prayers!!!
Love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond , NC USA - Saturday, March 22, 2003 8:03 AM CST
I hope that today finds you outside playing in the beautiful sun that Reese and God has given us with Taylor and Doug...I hope that your pain is a little more bearable and that the Lord has wrapped you in His loving arms...I hope that you are at peace with the peace that Reese has found...I hope so many things...I hope you have found...I love you guys and miss you so much...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Saturday, March 22, 2003 7:16 AM CST
I have tried to type an entry in your guestbook sooo many times but felt the words didn't make any sense, so I wouldn't add the entry. I don't quit understand why it is so hard to put an entry here.

I think of ALL of your family many times during the day and pray for piece and smiles in your hearts. I wake up and go to bed thinking of Reese and now, McKenzie. Much love, always!

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, March 22, 2003 7:01 AM CST
To the Coble Family,

What a beautiful poem and tribute to Reese. Reese's nana says the words come from up above. I believe this,but I also believe the poem also comes from her heart, and when you speak from your heart the words will come out. I have been thinking about you everyday and my heart goes out to you. May it comfort you knowing that so many people loved Reese and that so many people care about you. Keep your faith. God and your beautiful angel, Reese, are watching over you. God bless.

Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Friday, March 21, 2003 10:40 PM CST
Dear Coble Family,

I left this in Mckenzie's guestbook today and thought of you. I hope it can speak peace and comfort to your hearts. I also feel I should share this with Brittney's mother so don't be surprised if you see this again.


A wonderful man once taught, "The Lord takes many away, even in infancy, that they may escape the envy of man, and the sorrows and evils of this present world; they were too pure, too lovely, to live on earth; therefore, if rightly considered, instead of mourning we have reason to rejoice as they are delivered from evil, and we shall soon have them again. . . . ALL children are redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ, and the moment that children leave this world, they are taken to the bosom of Abraham. The only difference between the old and young dying is, one lives longer in heaven and eternal light and glory than the other, and is freed a little sooner from the miserable wicked world. Notwithstanding all this glory, we for a moment lose sight of it, and mourn the loss, but we do not mourn as those without hope."

I know that right now this probably doesn't help you because you don't care...you want Reese back...you want him HERE, with you. I pray that one day this WILL help you and that you will be comforted to know that your sweet boy did not have to be tested and tried and that he will receive the wonderful gift of exhaltation. You can all be together again...forever and ever.

With much love, even from a "stranger,"


Liz <lizzymama@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Friday, March 21, 2003 5:30 PM CST
Shawn-
That is the most beautiful poem. I am thinking of you always.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Baby Jordan Horton www.caringbridge.org/il/jordan <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Friday, March 21, 2003 1:39 PM CST
Shawn and Doug,

Just wanted you both to know that you are constantly in my thoughts! I want you to know that our Bible Study said a prayer for you this week...so many people will continue to think about and pray for you during the days to come. Sending all my love..

Reese, it is a beautiful day, just like your smile! Please let you mom and dad know you are near..



Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, March 21, 2003 12:58 AM CST
That is such a beautiful poem. God bless!
Cindy Wright
Sparta, Tennessee - Friday, March 21, 2003 10:48 AM CST
What a beautiful poem and touching tribute for your precious Reesecup. I hope that it brings you comfort in knowing how many lives that he has touched. Your strength and faith are such an example of what a Christian life should be. You and your family continue to be in our prayers.
Robin Boger <Robin.Boger@rbc.com>
Lewisville, NC USA - Friday, March 21, 2003 8:30 AM CST
That was one of the most beautiful poems I've ever read. What a special tribute to Reese! Just "stopped in" to say I care, and my prayers continue to your family.
Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Friday, March 21, 2003 7:46 AM CST
Thanks everyone for the nice compliments on my poem for Reese. I'm not a poet, I have written a couple before but nothing like this one. It had to come from up above. I'm very proud of it. Thanks again!! Everyone please pray for McKenzie & family, she is very sick right now. Pray, pray, pray!!! Send your love, support to them. Thanks! http://caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay/
Noreen (Reese's Nana) <http://caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay/>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, March 21, 2003 6:45 AM CST
Wow! What a beautiful poem! Your family continues to touch our hearts and souls...what a beautiful tribute to Reese Cup and the love your family shares.
I know God is holding you in His hands and your tremendous faith will get you through this. I cannot even imagine...
Reese Cup and your family continue to be an inspiration to thousands of us. You have done a beautiful job on the website and I applaud your courage and faith....Reese Cup has touched my life in a way that I will be forever changed.
God be with you and surround you with His peace and comfort as only he can.
In Christ, Gloria

Gloria Hostak
Renton, WA USA - Friday, March 21, 2003 3:50 AM CST
Just stopping in to let you all know we are thinking of you at Smile Quilts. The poem is wonderful, so full of love. We continue to hold all of Reese's family up in prayer. God be with you all.
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Sprite <sprite@tds.net>
Eckert, Colorado USA - Thursday, March 20, 2003 10:46 PM CST
Shawn, just wanted you to know I am thinking of you.
alyssa (tom bennett's friend) <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Thursday, March 20, 2003 10:04 PM CST
What a very special poem. It shows what a joy Reese brought to his extended family. Praying for you all.
Patti
- Thursday, March 20, 2003 8:58 PM CST
I just wanted to say how your story has touched my life. I never knew Reese personally, but, I cried the day he became a little angel. I admire you strenght and faith thru this and I am praying for you. My 5 year old son released a red ballon that day and said a prayer for Reese. God bless you. I will be thinking of you as the days pass.
Melissa Butcher <melissaso4@hotmail.com>
Dobson, NC US - Thursday, March 20, 2003 6:49 PM CST
Dear Coble Family,
My children, Jess and Matt, found one of your red balloons and the note on our back steps. We hope we are doing ok and will include you in our prayers tonight.

The James Family
Midlothian, VA - Thursday, March 20, 2003 6:42 PM CST
What a beautiful poem..and a beautiful way to remember Reese Cup...Thank you for sharing your sweet baby boy with us.
Kim K. KODYS STORY
- Thursday, March 20, 2003 6:28 PM CST
The poem was so beautiful even those of us that never realy met reese are touched by him. I think we are all beter people for the courage that he and your family showed the world thank-you for letting us be a see what a beautiful and brave boy you have. god bless you and may the lord give you stregnth to get through each day.
nicky
Wi - Thursday, March 20, 2003 3:25 PM CST
The poem is just remarkable! It made me well-up and smile both at the same time. What wonderful imagines it provokes of Reese enjoying his new life while looking down in admiration of the one he left behind. Beautiful job, Nana Noreen.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, March 20, 2003 3:07 PM CST
MAY GOD WATCH OVER YOU AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH. WHAT AN AMAZING POEM AND SUCH A WONDERFUL DEDICATION TO YOUR SWEET LITTLE BOY. GOD BLESS! Karen
Karen (Rowe) Mac Leod <karenmacleod213@hotmail.com>
Glace Bay, Cape Breton, NS Canada - Thursday, March 20, 2003 3:02 PM CST
What a beautiful poem....we are praying for you
The Wimmers <elizabeth.wimmer@nautica.com>
Martinsville, VA USA - Thursday, March 20, 2003 2:00 PM CST
Beautiful poem. we are thinking of you and your family
lexi
WI - Thursday, March 20, 2003 1:08 PM CST
The poem is absolutely beautiful.
Love and Prayers, Lisa
- Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:56 AM CST
What a sweet way to remember Reese. Our family will continue to pray for all of you as you face these difficult days that lie ahead. Your strong faith and trust in God is such an inspiration.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:19 AM CST
What a beautiful poem written by Nana Noreen. God certainly gave her talent!!!
Doug, Shawn and Taylor....you guys continue to be very near and dear to my heart and ever present in my thoughts and prayers!!! It is amazing how one little guy could touch so many hearts!!! Hope Aunt Toni and Uncle Andy are doing ok and Ma Coble and Nana... if you guys had any idea of how many times you cross my mind during the day...you would be suprised...even when you feel all alone and in despair...remember that someone's praying for you!!!
Love to all!!
Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Thursday, March 20, 2003 11:06 AM CST
hey guys, just want you to know that we are still think of you everyday. hope you all are doing okay. hang in there you are a strong family.
PENNY
bassett, va - Thursday, March 20, 2003 8:52 AM CST
We love you and we miss you...it has been strange here without you guys...we keep you all in our prayers daily
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Thursday, March 20, 2003 8:26 AM CST
Shawn, just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and if you need ANYTHING please call me! 392-7478. Please tell Toni that I am hoping she is doing well.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, March 20, 2003 8:07 AM CST
I think about you all everyday. I know that Reesecup is smiling down on McKenzie and taking care of her. Love and miss you guys!
God Bless

Bethany Kistler (Nurse at Duke)
- Wednesday, March 19, 2003 10:22 PM CST
Shawn-
Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking of you often and praying that God will ease your heartache. I miss you.

Love, Carrie, Patrick, & Baby Jordan <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 19, 2003 7:43 PM CST
To Reese's family,
We said a special prayer for you at our Bible study today. When we released our beautiful red balloons last Friday at 3:30 p.m. it was so obvious how much Reese had touched our lives. It was a special time of prayer and a loving tribute to a very special little boy. May God continue to watch over you.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, March 19, 2003 4:12 PM CST
Hello, my name is Loretta I have known Doug ever since we were kids. I have tried to keep up, and I was so sad to hear about Reese!!!! I don't have any children of my own yet,so I don't know exactly how you feel but I send you my deepest sympothy. He was a beautiful little boy. You both seem to have been wonderful parents. I pray that each and every day will get alot better. Once again you all are in my thoughts and prayers.I know the Lord will be with your family. Thinking of you all, Loretta & Jon
Loretta Kirby Tedder <TSASSYSPORT@AOL.COM>
Mt.Airy, NC Surry - Wednesday, March 19, 2003 2:13 PM CST
Just want you, Doug and Taylor to know that I thinking of you every minute and will continue to pray for you!


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 19, 2003 10:56 AM CST
Just wanted to let you all know you are in our thoughts and prayers! I hope you all are doing OK and getting some much needed rest. Take care and please know we are thinking of you all!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 19, 2003 9:36 AM CST
We continue to think of you and pray for you every single day...it is my hope for you that with time you will have less pain and more peace...I lov eyou guys so much...please let us know if we can help you in any way...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Wednesday, March 19, 2003 0:19 AM CST
Dear Shawn and Doug, I just wanted to let you know that I'm still thinking of you and your Reesecup. I, too, have lost babies, and I can tell you from experience that if you put your faith and trust in God, as you seem to be doing, each day will be just a little easier than the day before. Time does heal, it surely does, and the pain you're feeling now will get easier. I'm still praying for you. God Bless!
Love,
Judy

Judy <taejme@aol.com>
FL - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 11:50 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you...
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 10:49 PM CST
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,

Just wanted to let know that I am thinking about you and you will continue to be in my prayers. If you need anything at all, please don't hesitate to let me know.

With much love,

Stefanie Parker <stefanieparker@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 10:16 PM CST
You all are in our prayers.
The Byers Family <byersfam@bellsouth.net>
Tifton, Georgia US - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:19 PM CST
Just thinking about all of you.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Tuesday, March 18, 2003 8:28 PM CST
Shawn, Doug, and Taylor
I am so sadden to hear of your Reese cups passing. I have been praying for you and your family. I know word can not comfort some one but so much. Just remember that GOD loves you and he will never give you more than you can handle. I know that sometimes you wish he did not trust your strength so much. But now Reese is looking down from his heavenly fathers lap and smiling to say it's ok to cry and it ok to remember but it is also ok to live you life. He will always be there when you need him. When you get the feeling that you can not go on just say I love you Reese and I know he will give you the hug from heaven that you need. When you feel the wind on a nice day that will be Reese saying i'm ok and I have such great days of no pain now. I hope that you and your family are doing ok. I will continue to be in prayer for you.

Melissa Holder <davidsmom20022002@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC US - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 7:05 PM CST


I am Deeply saddened by your loss. i prayed and prayed for Reese until i didn't think i would ever speak again. may God Bless you, Doug, Shawn and Taylor. remember that Reese wil be in our hearts forever and he is in a much, much better place. whenever you need inspiration go to the song by Higher Ground called I Have a Future because you do have a future! Bye for now God Bless!

Blake <tickleman27041@yahoo.com>
Pilot mtn., NC USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 6:56 PM CST
Shawn & Doug,
We read something last night that seemed to really speak to our hearts concerning "Why" questions... It said sometimes when we ask God our "Why" questions , instead of giving us answers He gives us himself, the Comforter. We praise God for His love and strength only He can give during times when we say "Why."
Love & prayers,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 6:19 PM CST
Shawn, Doug and family
Your in our thoughts and prayers.

Kathy, Scott and Makaylah Tedder <ktedder@alltel.net>
King, NC - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 3:50 PM CST
Your last entry really touched me, and I was reminded all over again of how great it is when we realize what a blessing we had with these special kids. My son, Cameron Winn, also became a Hurler angel 19 months ago, and so much of what I have seen and heard reminds me of him. One thing that has resounded in my mind is that God really will take care of things if you are willing to put your faith and your trust in him 100%, as you seem to be. In the days that follow, others lives will seem to go back to normal, while you are left with the reality of your little one gone. Those are the moments when you will need God's touch the most, and it will be there as long as you're open to it. Not a day goes by, even months after the fact for me, that I do not wake up and go to bed thinking of my son, but I can tell you from the heart that each day is a little bit easier than the day before. My prayer for you and your family is that you lean on God for the strength and comfort that you need, and that you continue to truly be thankful for the short life Reese had with you and be thankful for that blessing forever.


Emily, Cameron's mother <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 3:05 PM CST
I still think of you daily and am continuing to pray for you.
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 1:04 PM CST
My prayed are with your family & the baby God Bless You


Ann Leonard <ALEONARD8@triad.rr.com>
Mt Airy, NC US - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 10:11 AM CST
Just a reminder to let you know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. I pray that your pain heals. Reese was a blessing and beautiful gift from God.

Many prayers,

Wendy Ruth

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 8:36 AM CST
Doug and Shawn and family....
Just want you to know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers!!!
Love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 8:33 AM CST
Just a quick note to tell you that you are all in my prayers. I can't imagine the pain you are going through right now, but hopefully it helps to know that Reese touched many lives during his short time on this earth.
Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 10:08 PM CST
Keeping you all in my prayers.

DeAnna <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 8:14 PM CST
Shawn- I just wanted to let you know that a balloon was released in memory of your little angel (Reese) from Roanoke Rapids, NC ( Carson's home ) My message to Reese was to take good care of his mom and dad because you will miss him greatly- but we all know you're well now- you are a precious little angel. God will get you through this I admire your constant strong faith- love in Christ-
wendy arthur
Roanoke Rapids, NC US - Monday, March 17, 2003 7:08 PM CST
JUST WANTED YOU ALL TO KNOW I'M STILL PRAYING FOR YOU!
BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 7:07 PM CST
Shawn & Doug,
I am sorry that it as taken me a few days to sign the guestbook, but I have been at a loss for words. I want you to know that I am so glad that I got to meet you both along with your family on Thursday night. Reese did look like a sweet little doll. I was so glad that I was able to kiss his little head and tell him how much he would be missed. And Shawn you made my heart so happy when you told that the "Taggie" blanket that was laying with him was the one I gave to him. The photos of Reese you had placed around were wonderful! Shawn, meeting you for the first time was so moving...I looked so forward to the day but under different circumstances. I want to thank you for comforting me! Please tell Taylor that he is a great brother and that I am glad to know he is a Jeff Gordon fan! In the days to come I am sure Taylor is going to make you smile when you find yourself wanting to cry.

The service for Reese was so beautiful and moving! There was not a dry eye in the church! Your letter to him was so beautiful and I know that Reese was there and listening to every word! I appreciate you giving me the opportunity to say how much Reese means to me and how he changed my life! Reese will be missed beyond words and his little life has touched so many! I know that I am a better person having known Reese Coble!

I am praying that the Lord will bless you and keep you and make his face to shine upon you and grant you Peace during this diffcult time. Thank you so much for sharing Reese's life with us! I hope that we will continue to stay in touch and became great friends.

Reese, beautiful Angel in the heaven, please comfort your mommy and Daddy and let them know you are near! You will be forever remembered, for you have touch so many lives with that beautiful smile!

All my love:)

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 17, 2003 1:23 PM CST
We send our love and prayers to all the family.
Herb and Ann Blankenship <ablank02@triad.rr.com>
Pfafftown, NC Forsyth - Monday, March 17, 2003 1:02 PM CST
Our prayers are with your family. Having children and grandchildren, I can only imagine your suffering. Lean on the Lord in this difficult time and I'm sure he will help heal the broken heart you have today. I don't know you personally, but know the Lord now has a little angel by his side that one day you will see again. Love and Prayers!

Carol Bennett
King, NC USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 11:48 AM CST
Reese's memory will live in our hearts always. We will continue to pray for your family.
Scottie Lindsay <slindsay@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Monday, March 17, 2003 9:58 AM CST
Good Morning Shawn and family. I just checked in to Cody's website and you all were on my mind. Today begins with prayers for your healing - Reese has been healed, now it is time for you and your family...

Grieve as you must, and let laughter light up your home for Taylor, for each of you, as this chapter of your life begins.

Your faith has been an inspiration to Eleasha, me and countless others.

Today we continue to pray for your strength with a gentle reminder to cast your burdens upon the Lord.

Hugs and Love from Cody's Grandma Sherrill

GMom Sherrill <sherrill_kinser@hotmail.com>
Coconut Creek, Fl - Monday, March 17, 2003 8:11 AM CST
Doug and Shawn,
I was so happy to meet you Thursday night. I am sorry it was under those circumstances. I want you to know that you are heavy on my mind everyday. I will continue to pray for you as the next few days, weeks and months are going to be tough. I know that you will approach them with the same amount of love and faith that you have everything else. You are a wonderful strong family and I admire you for all that you have been through and battled. You are so much stronger than I ever could be.

Reese was beautiful! He looked so peaceful. I would love to have been up in the sky to see all the balloons go up in the air. That would have been amazing. They went up from all corners of the USA and probably the world. Reese was a precious little baby and I will always remember him for his hard fought battle, his strength, and smile. He truely touched me as well as so many others. Thank you again for sharing with us your precious Angel.

Thursday night I watched Taylor play on the couch with his cars and he was so adorable. He had a huge smile on his face and he giggled and I could not help but smile. GOD blessed you with such beautiful children and knew that you were exactly the right parents for Taylor and Reese. He could not have picked better.

I hope that Toni and Andy have a safe trip back. I can only imagine how hard that will be also. I want to let Toni know that she has also touched me. She put her life on hold to help Little Reese and Shawn. I know that takes a wonderful person and Toni very well is. I know that she will be missed when she goes home, but will never be far away.

I will continue to pray for all of you. If there is ever anything that I can do, please please let me know. I will help in any why that I know how. God Bless.

Lots of Love,
Stephanie

Stephanie Conner-Surry 911 Communications <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Monday, March 17, 2003 5:55 AM CST
Shawn, Doug and family,
You continue to remain in our thoughts and prayers daily. Just wanted you to know that you are thought of often. God bless you all.
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie & Noah Prichard

Greg, Debbie & noah Prichard <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 1:19 AM CST
Shawn,
I know I keep saying this, but you are truly amazing. Your words describing Reese's funeral were beautiful... It all proves what a special family Reese has, and what a perfect little angel he is in everyone's eyes. I am so glad you are getting so much support at home, and keeping yourself together- your strength is beyond measure. Know that I continue to pray for you and remember sweet little Reese.
Take care,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Sunday, March 16, 2003 9:56 PM CST
I know that you do not know who I am but I just wanted to tell you that you are in my prayers. When my grandparents passed away I was so so sad and wondered how in this world I was going to make it without them in my life. My aunt Donnies told me, "Gina when you are feeling sad and feel like you just have to talk to them just tell Jesus what you want to say to them and He will tell them." I don't know what you are going through but I know Jesus does and that He will not forsake you in this difficult time in your life. When you feel like you just have to talk to Reese just tell it to Jesus and I'm sure Jesus will give him the message. You are and will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Gina Whitaker <haven@rivercto.net>
Dobson, NC U.S.A. - Sunday, March 16, 2003 8:22 PM CST
As many people have written, you have been in my thoughts for the past few months. I cried the day Reese became an angel! I can say that you - Shawn, Reese and your family have displayed so much strength, hope, and faith. There isn't always an answer or immediate reason why something like this happens, but your family and Reese have somehow touched my life - and given me something that I will never forget - the strength and reason to ALWAYS live my life to the fullest. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers!

"The Dance" by Garth Brooks
Looking back on the memory of
The dance we shared 'neath the stars alone
For a moment all the world was right
How could I have known that you'd ever say goodbye

And now I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain
But I'd of had to miss the dance

Holding you I held everything
For a moment wasn't I a king
But if I'd only known how the king would fall
Hey who's to say you know I might have chanced it all

And now I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain
But I'd of had to miss the dance

Yes my life is better left to chance
I could have missed the pain but I'd of had to miss the dance



Amy Fandel (friend of Carrie, Patrick & Jordan Horton)
Springfield, IL - Sunday, March 16, 2003 7:49 PM CST
I'm glad that Reese's service was as beautiful as he was! Thinking of you and praying everyday for your comfort and peace and understanding.
Love, Cathy, Jake and Bella

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, ALBERTA Canada - Sunday, March 16, 2003 6:58 PM CST
Just checking in today to let you know that you all are still in my thoughts and prayers!!!!

HIS MERCIFUL TOUCH

"I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us." Romans 8:18

I wish I could wipe away every trace
Of pain and suffering from your face
But He is great and we are small
We just can't alter His will at all

And none of us would want to try
For more and more, as days go by,
We know His plan for us is best
And He will give us peace and rest

And earthly pain is never too much
If He has bestowed His merciful touch
And if you look to Him and pray
He will help you through every day.

IF THERE WAS NO PAIN OR SORROW, HOW COULD I EVER LEARN TO CALL UPON YOU, FATHER, WITH FAITH IN MY HEART?

Helen Steiner Rice

You are never far from my thoughts!! Love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Sunday, March 16, 2003 2:55 PM CST
Dear Doug & Shawn, You don't know me, however, your child was in our prayers for many months due to a faithful friend of yours at Wachovia, Bonnie Fulk, sharing at our Bible Study and in Church about the needs of your baby. I know what it is to lose a child, as I lost a daughter to cancer at the age of 16. Shawn, each time you walk by that bedroom you will remember, no matter how long it has been and many times, you will go into that bedroom and no doubt sit down and talk to God and ask him to hold your child in His arms for you. What a joy it is to know that our loved ones are with Jesus and we will one day see them again. Every day just look to Jesus and trust him and I know from experience he will bring you through, with grace for each day. God Bless You and Keep you during these days and remember there are many who remember you in their prayers. Love in Christ!
Carolyn Redding <jreddin@bellsouth.net>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Sunday, March 16, 2003 1:27 PM CST
Dear Shawn and family - My heart breaks for you and your family and little Reese are in my prayers. You don't know me, but I know Chris and Noreen. They were with me and my family last month, when my husband, Victor, passed away. Chris and Noreen were telling us about Reese and what a brave little boy he was. I sincerely hope you find comfort and peace, loss of a loved one is never easy. May God Bless You - Gail and family
Gail Fernandez
Hampden, Me USA - Sunday, March 16, 2003 10:07 AM CST
No words can resolve, nor pats on the back, or hugs, or being there. It certainly helps, but our comfort is in the Lord Jesus. He sent those to share, give hugs and cry with us. He said he will NEVER LEAVE US OR FORSAKE US.
Doug Ewing <gparents@bellsouth.net>
Belmont, N C Gaston - Sunday, March 16, 2003 5:52 AM CST
Doug and Shawn:

You guys are just amazing. It is so hard to go through such trying times in our lives... keeping your eyes on the Lord is sure to get you through. I have mentioned you and your family to our friends. Please know that many people continue to lift all of you up in prayer.

Little Reese was just beautiful on Thursday night. He looked so peaceful. Like you said in your update... the only way it could have been more perfect would have been not to have had to do a funeral at all. I'm sure Reese is so proud of his mommy, daddy, brother and many other family members. One could tell by the many pictures you have of Reese what a happy and loved baby he was. And because of the way Reese was loved he could share that love with so many perfect strangers.

May the legacy of Reese Daniel Coble live on forever!

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Saturday, March 15, 2003 10:03 PM CST
Thank you for allowing me to share in the celebration of Reese's life and for being so warmly included. Your family is truly remarkable and I feel honored to have met you. I truly admire your strength and unwavering faith. The service was absolutely beautiful and such a fitting tribute to such a special little boy who touched so many.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Saturday, March 15, 2003 8:36 PM CST
I just wanted to tell you how touched I am by Reese's story and thank you for sharing it with all of us. I didn't get to release a balloon but I stopped for a moment to pray for you and your family and to remember Reese's life.
Scott Heath <spazz1138@attbi.com>
Bedford, TX - Saturday, March 15, 2003 8:05 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss you are in my prayers and so is Reese my candle will be lit for all of you
Anne-Marie <taylorbrook2251@aol.com>
Woonsocket, R.I USA - Saturday, March 15, 2003 7:36 PM CST
Dear Reese: Today in the Hill Country of Texas, three big red balloons were sent heavenward, one for you, one for my daughter Shannon and one for my Tom.

I just know they were waiting for you with open arms, like all the others who had the joy of seeing you enter into your beautiful heavenly home the Lord prepared for you. I can just see you laughing and happy and surrounded by love.

I send my love and prayers to your mommy and family-God bless all of them and keep them in His care.
Love to all of you.

Carolyn Thurmond <cthurmond@ev1.net>
Pipe Creek, TX USA - Saturday, March 15, 2003 4:42 PM CST
At exactly 3:30 pm on Friday my husband and I both released our red balloons up in the beautiful blue sky in Chapel Hill in memory of Reese with a message written on the balloon for a special little boy we have never met. As we watched both balloons fly high in the sky, we said a prayer for Reese and his family. Take care.
Russ and Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Saturday, March 15, 2003 2:39 PM CST
Dear Shawn and family<
I just wanted to know how much this web site has touched my life. I am a student at Catawba Valley Community College in Hickory NC.I am studying to be a respiratory therapist and I found all the pictures of Reese's treatment to be very educational. I found Reese's web page by reading my best friend Karen's update on her son Tyler. As I was reading the guestbook pages I saw Morgan's page. When I clicked on Morgan's page her Mom was asking people to pray for Reese who was having a bad time of it. I clicked on his web page and fell in love with that precious face! I kept up daily with the updates and cried like a baby when I learned of his passing. I just wanted to say thanky you for letting me be a part of his sweet life for a few weeks. I know you have a strong faith in Christ and are at peace as to where Reese is. Just remember that lots of people are praying for you and stay strong together as a family. May God's blessings be poured out upon you and your family as your grieve and heal.
With all my love,
Lynn

Lynn Spencer <pls0818@aol.com>
Conover, NC usa - Saturday, March 15, 2003 12:25 AM CST
WOW! It was all perfect. The service, the music, every word that was spoken. I have never seen so many grown men cry. Again, what a true, honest statement about the life of Reese Daniel Coble. There is so much I want to say but I don't know how to put it into words.

I couldn't eat yesterday, until supper time. I was in such a daze yesterday, well really since Monday. I couldn't go back and retrace my steps yesterday if I had to. I finally got to meet Christy, which I was so excited about, and I don't remember anything but giving her a big hug. There was so much I wanted to say to her and I don't know if I said anything. The next thing I remember is you saying "Don't you cry! Your gonna make me cry." And for a split second, I was able to regain my composure. Reese looked so peaceful, so precious......I just wanted to caress his little cheek and kiss him ever so lightly on his forehead. I could feel his presence there with us. Towards the end of the service, I could just picture him running up and down the isle, smiling from ear to ear, telling us not to be too sad as he threw toy balls and watched them bounce of our heads.

When I opened the limo door to say one more thing to your Mom, Taylor's little head popped up from the back seat and he said "I have a car just like this one!" With those big beautiful blue eyes and that signature smile. That sweet little voice and that expression when he says "really?" He made my heart full again and pieced together some of the broken pieces. I walked to the car just smiling and almost laughing.

I wish I could have gone to the gravesite but I did stop on a hill just past what I believe, was the last intersection on 52 with all the Rescue vehicles and Police cars and I sat there until I could see those red ballons float up to heaven. I love all of you very much!

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, March 15, 2003 9:21 AM CST
Your pain has got to be more excruciating than any other. To give birth to a child, to hold and love that child, and then to have that child taken away from you is so cruel. I can't think of anything worse. I can't stop crying for you. I can't stop seeing Reese Cup's sparkling eyes smiling behind his mask. I couldn't wait until we were off isolation so I could just pick him up and squeeze him. He is so wonderful and special. He touched us in a way that I can't explain. I yearn to hug you, but you are gone. We miss you and love you.
Doug, Tracie Douglas and Cameron and Mama Jane(MPS stem cell transplant friends) <caringbridge.org/co/nicollbrothers>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Saturday, March 15, 2003 9:06 AM CST
Shawn,Doug and Toni,
I can't express the emotion that i have felt today. Even though i never knew little Reese I have seen the love that a child no older than 2 years old can bring a community toghter. Just remember that God made him an angel to watch over you so whenever you feel lonley or down just remember what God has given you, your little angel.

525600 minutes
525600 moments do dear
525600 how do you measure, measure a year?
In daylights--in sunsets
In midnights--in cups of coffee
In inches--in miles
In laughter--in strife
In 525600 minutes, how do you measure a year in life?
How about love?
Season of love.

525600 journeys to plan
How do you measure the life of woman or man?
In truths that she learned
Or time that he cried
The bridges he burned
Or the way that she died

Tho' the story never ends
Let's celebrate
Remember a year of life with friends
Measure you life in love
Seasons of love.

Michael Barber <Scarface8316@aol.com>
Summerfield, NC USA - Saturday, March 15, 2003 1:04 AM CST
What a beautiful baby - with that great big happy smile!! Words can't express the heartfelt sympathy we have for all of you. Remember -- grief is the evidence that you have loved --- and loved well!! It will not last forever --- but memories will!! May the Lord heal your hurting heart, and bless you with comfort and peace now and in the days ahead. You are in our prayers!!!
Floyd & Sara Jean Atkins <rfatkins@alaweb.com>
Greenville, AL USA - Saturday, March 15, 2003 0:38 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know a single red I love you balloon was sent up today at 3:35 in a little park in Clearwater, FL with Reese's poem attached to it. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as always!
Nancy Howry <angelin30s@aol.com>
Oldsmar, FL - Saturday, March 15, 2003 0:07 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, & Taylor,
I bought 2 red balloons today to send forth to heaven for Reese, but I only let one go and I brought the other one in the house to float around the table while I do some writing.
My every prayer is with you in this absolutely, terrible loss. I am sure the service was as beautiful as all of you family friends are. I am happy that you could read the poem, Shawn.
God Bles and Keep You. Let your words and actions lift another soul today.
You have truly lifted me up with pleasure just being penpals for this short time.
Love in Christ

Jerri McKinley <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Saturday, March 15, 2003 0:02 AM CST
Doug and Family,

I am sorry that Reese has lost his battle. You all have inspired us and touched our hearts through all of what you have been through. Your wife is a very strong woman in my eyes. I don't really think I could have been as strong as she has been. I couldn't imagine loosing someone that I brought into this world. I saw the following poem and thought of your wife. I hope it will help all of you. You all are in our thoughts, hearts, and prayers.


When the warmth of the sun touches my face,
I see your smile and feel your embrace.

I hear the whisper of love in the wind
And I know that you are close to me again

The rain speaks of tears and the thunder of pain,
But soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim.

As the days come and go and the world moves on,
I know you're still here, you'll never be gone.

On the night the Angel came and took your hand,
We cried as you left for an unknown land.

But Heaven rejoiced as you came into sight,
For your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!

© Karen McCombs


Christie, William, Colburn, and Sydney

Christie (George) Gwyn & Family <wccsg@earthlink.net>
Mount Airy, NC - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:37 PM CST
THREE RED BALLOONS WERE SENT UP TO REECE TODAY FROM MOCKSVILLE,NC. I WANT YOU ALL TO KNOW THAT I AM TRULY SORRY FOR THE SADDENED TIMES YOU ALL HAD TO GO THROUGH AND WHAT LITTLE REECE WENT THROUGH. BUT, I HAVE TO TELL YOU, I HAVE A SON THAT IS TWO. WHEN I CAME HOME FROM WORK MONDAY NIGHT AND READ YOUR ENTRY FOR THE DAY, IT BROKE MY HEART. I SIT AND CRIED AS I READ IT. I HAD ALREADY TUCKED MY SON IN FOR THE NIGHT. AFTER I GOT OFF OF THE COMPUTER, I WENT TO HIS ROOM SIT ON HIS BED, PICKED HIM UP AND HELD HIM IN MY ARMS,KISSED HIM, HUGGED HIM, AND CRIED AS I TOLD HIM HOW MUCH I LOVED HIM. AFTER SEEING WHAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HAS GONE THROUGH, I LOOK AT LIFE DIFFERENTLY. I COULD NOT HELP BUT THINK "IT COULD HAVE JUST AS WELL BEEN US". I CAN NOT IMAGINE HAVING TO GO THROUGH WHAT YOU ALL HAVE. YOU ARE A VERY STRONG WOMAN. I ASK GOD TO KEEP YOU THAT WAY. YOU ALL WILL STILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE WITH US. YOU HAVE MADE ME LOOK AT MINE DIFFERENTLY NOW. STAY STRONG! AND LOOK TO THE LORD.
BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:37 PM CST
As we saw the sky become scattered with red ballons today, our hearts just swelled. Wanted you to know we were up on the hill watching, crying, and praying for you. I'm sure Reese was smiling and waiting for those balloons to reach him. I know Papa R.D. was busy catching them all for him.
Love you guys!
Kim, Dean, & Braden

Kim Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:22 PM CST
hey shawn, i know today and the days to come are going to be hard. but you hang in there. you had a red ballon go up this evening for reese from bassett va. you have my email and plese keep in touch. love you and you have really touched my heart just reading your guestbook.you are a very strong woman you may not see that right now but you are...
Penny Clark <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, vA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:05 PM CST
Thinking of you and your family, Praying for you as well.
April Markham
Winston Salem, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 9:55 PM CST
Shawn, I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you. You and little Reese have been heavy on my mind this whole entire week. Shawn, I pray that God continues to give you the strength and courage you need. I feel comforted in knowing that Reese is not hurting anymore and that he is watching over Jacob now. You are always in my prayers and thoughts. I am sending lots of hugs too.
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 9:46 PM CST
Our hearts and prayers were there with you today Reese...I wish I could have come and given your mommy and Toni a hug...Cody and I were planning to let go balloons with Tommy and the rest of the gang but we got caught up so we stopped and got you 24 red balloons...Cody said the best prayer for you and yelled that he misses you as we let all of your balloons go...
We love you all...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Friday, March 14, 2003 9:06 PM CST
A single red balloon was lifted high above our store today at 12:30 (pacific) and traveled to the east to meet up with all the other balloons.

I'm glad that today was a "perfect" day for you and your family.

Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake , WA - Friday, March 14, 2003 8:48 PM CST
Doug and Shawn,
What a beautiful day!!! I will never see a red balloon again without thinking of Reesiecup!!!! What a beautiful sight...all those balloons floating up to Heaven!!! I can see Reese up there looking down saying..."wow...all these for me?" I can hear him giggling and see that beautiful Reesiecup smile. Thank you so much again for sharing him and your lives!!! You will never know how many people have been touched by Reese short time on this earth!! For some reason, God needed him in Heaven more that we did on earth and now he is a precious perfect angel looking down on us!!

Shawn... you were so right...Reese looked so sweet and perfect laying there!! I just wanted to pick him up and squeeze him!!! The pictures were great...it was easy to look at them and see how much Reese was loved. Thanks again for sharing him with us!! You will continue to be close in my thoughts and deep in my heart!!! I love you!

Doug...what can I say that I haven't already said??? You are so special to me and will never know the impact that your family has had on me and my life!!! Thank you so much for letting us be a part of this very emotional and heartbreaking time in your life. I know that you and Shawn are exhausted. Get some rest and be strong for Taylor and each other...you will never be far from my thoughts. Love always..."Little Bobby"

Taylor...I watched you today as you released the 2 red balloons for Reese. Like the rest of us, you didn't want to let them go. I can just see Reese up in heaven looking down and grabbing your 2 balloons and reading your note with that big 'ole Reesiecup smile and saying, "hey...these are from my Tater Tot!" Reese will always be in Heaven looking down on you and watching over you!! Be a good boy and I will see you soon!!!

Ma Coble...thank you so much for giving us Doug...we know that he wouldn't be what he is today without a wonderful loving Mama like you!!! He is such a sweetheart and very dear to me!!! I can remember when RD passed away...I didn't know Doug very well then...but I can remember...what a shock!! Can't you just see RD and Reese up in Heaven??? Reese is probably about to run RD's legs off!!! I can imagine them up there today looking down on us and seeing all those red balloons coming up and RD thinking, "wow...so many lives were touched by a family member of mine!" Keep on keeping on and you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers and in my heart!!!

Aunt Toni and Uncle Andy...as you go back to Washington DC...many hearts will be following you!!!! Please keep in touch...because you will be thought of often!!! If God had given me a sister, I would have prayed that she would have been just like you !!! Love you bunches!!

To the entire Coble family, the staff at Surry County 911 Communications hope that as you topped the hill on Rockford Street today approaching Hwy 52, that the sight of the red balloons touched your heart as you and Reese's life has touched ours. As we cut those balloons free and watched them soar toward Heaven, with tears in our eyes, our thoughts and prayers were with you that God would give you strength and grace to carry on. Reese is forever etched in our hearts!!!

Thank you to Jonathan, Josh, Daniel, Chenoa, Sylvia and Stephanie for helping with the balloons. You guys are the greatest!!!!

May you find comfort in the thought
that sorrow, grief, and woe
Are sent into our lives sometimes
to help our souls grow....

For through the depths of sorrow
comes understanding, love,
And peace and truth and comfort
sent from God above.

Father, we are all in need of growing, but sometimes it's difficult to understand the pattern of growth that You have designed for us. Help us to understand.

Helen Steiner Rice

All my love,
Sharon


Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 8:19 PM CST
Hi Reese,

My mommy gave me a balloon today. It had your picture on it so I drew a picture for you and sent it up to you. I hope you liked it!

Tommy Bennett --- Lumberhead@twinwolf.net <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys>
- Friday, March 14, 2003 7:39 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear that sweet baby Reese has left Earth so soon. I wish you never had to join this awful journey of losing your child. Please know that I'm thinking of you and wishing you much peace and gentleness in the coming days. It sounds like Reese will continue to be surounded by so much love. May his precious spirit continue to soar within and around you always. May his smile forever warm your heart as it does mine.

Much Love,
Kacie
mommy to ^Chandler^ 12/18/96

Kacie <http://www.geocities.com/dnk4602/chandler.html >
Glendale, AZ USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 7:10 PM CST
Shawn, The service today was such a sweet and wonderful service. I couldn't help but laugh while standing at the cemetery watching all the balloons as they rose up to the clouds. I could see and hear Sweet Reesie Cup laughing, jumping up and down, and clapping his hands in glee at all the balloons coming at him. What a beautiful sight it was. God Bless you all. Remember I am here. Ma
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 6:56 PM CST
Hello again, I went to see Reece today and I loved all of the pictures you had of him around. He was and is such a loved sweet child, that little smile melted hearts. I cannot wait to meet him one day on the other side. Shawn, you are a remarkable lady and I admire your strength. I wanted to come to meet you last night but I didn't get to. Maybe one day I will get that honor. Please know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers everytime we lift them up. God bless you and Doug and Taylor.
Christie, Jeff and Colby Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Friday, March 14, 2003 5:46 PM CST
He is such a handsome boy. I'm so sorry he had to go through all this. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Melissa Hooker <mphooker@triad.rr.com>
Belews Creek, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 5:31 PM CST
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, God bless.
Ann Compton
Land O Lakes, FLs USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 4:38 PM CST
Just stopping by to let you know that you are in our thoughts and in our prayers. I pray that you had the strength to get through the past few days. We care alot about how you are doing, so I will check back soon. Take care.
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Friday, March 14, 2003 4:37 PM CST
Hi. I wanted to check in on you & see how you are doing. I know you are doing as well as you can but I want you to know that you are in the thoughts & prayers of many people. May God bless you & give you all the strength you need. Your poems on the main page are beautiful.Hang in there & God bless.
Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 4:16 PM CST
Hey guys. I wanted to stop by and let you know that although I could not be with you physically today, you are on my mind and heart. Blessings to you. I will continue to pray for you as you go through this difficult time.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, March 14, 2003 4:03 PM CST
Hello little angel, this is Alyssa. Tommy, Jillian, Jordan I, and there families all sent off a huge bundle of balloons up to you in heaven at 3:30 at the Duke clinic building today. We attached a picture of you on each balloon with message written on them. They seemed to all group together all the way up to you in heaven so I am sure that you got them. We all miss you dearly. Shawn you and your family are in my thoughts and I am glad to hear that you will be still doing the journal. So many people care about you and want to know how you are doing. Take care and please treat yourself with all of the love that you deserve.
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Friday, March 14, 2003 3:35 PM CST
Dearest Little Angel Reesie Cup,
I hope you saw my lonely red balloon I released here in Connecticut at 3:30. It was just beautiful against the clear, baby blue sky we have today. I watched it until it disappeared higher than I've ever seen a balloon rise. I bet it reached it's way right to your heart just as you have reached mine. Sweet goodbye Angel Reese!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor , CT - Friday, March 14, 2003 3:12 PM CST
I was linked to your site through Morgan Barnes. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Grace Boger <rboger@centura.com>
Lewisville, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 3:06 PM CST
To the Family and Friends of Reese,

My heartfelt sympathies are with you, just as all of your memories of Reese will be forever with you. At this point the pain is often overwhelming, yet I know, in time you will get through it. If and when you're able consider allowing yourself as an individual or part of a group of relatives, friends, etc. imagine yourself being able to directly communicate with Reese and he with you.

I just heard someone someone say, "Reese, you gave me so much joy."
Opps! Another person just said, "Reese, Reese, you meant so much to so many people and you meant so much to us."

I think you understand that as you grieve his loss, celebrate his presence, your presence in his life.

Finally, Chris & Noreen, thanks to you joyous E Mails when Reese was born, a little piece of him live within me too. When I think you're ready, I'm going to send you via E Mail, some website addresses that I hope might help your grief. And, if they mean something to you, you can decide if you want to share them with others.

May the Love of God, Goddess, Angels, Cherubs, etc. be with you in this most difficult time. Live,
Julie E. Kallio

Love, peace, joy,
Julie E. Kallio,
Minneapolis/St. Paul Minnesota

Julie Kallio <souljourneykallio@worldnet.att.net>
Spring Lake Park, MN Anoka - Friday, March 14, 2003 2:47 PM CST
PRAYING FOR YOU !
JOEY MARTIN <jmartin@pike.com>
MT AIRY , NC SURRY - Friday, March 14, 2003 2:38 PM CST
dear reese,You do not know me but I am a friend of Jacob.I hope you start to feel better.
Elizabeth Adkins
- Friday, March 14, 2003 2:34 PM CST
It's three eighteen. My heart is with you, my soul, my thoughts, all my being, brave parents, brave family, blessed child of yours. May God accompany you and make your pain a little lighter . I love you and think about you.. Red baloons are going up for Reese from Durham south, up to his playpen in the pink and blue clouds, near the light of God, ...All my love
Marcella

Marcella
- Friday, March 14, 2003 2:30 PM CST
Reeciecup *** We are releasing these ballons for you *** Fly away with freedom and love to spread all of us that have so much love for you and your family. Faith has come to us through you and your Mother. God knows he is getting a little "ANGEL REECIECUP" FOR HE HAS ALL THE SWEETNESS IN THE WORLD.
Lots of Love will be with you today and always.

ps:Moma, Please look after little Reese for us until his Mommy & Daddy come to join him one day.
My Mom is an "Guardian Angel" for me, she will look after all the little children in heaven.

Joyce Mabe <joyce.mabe@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, NC USA-AMERICA - Friday, March 14, 2003 2:30 PM CST
This is so touching. I have a 3 year old and I can't begin to imagine what you and your family are going through. He is and always will be a precious child. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carol Burgess
Conway, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 2:00 PM CST
I forgot to mention I have two big red balloons for my boys to release today at 3:30 p.m. I hope that the sky is full of red balloons. You are in my thoughts.
Amy M. Stevens <amystevens@pineygrove.stokes.k12.nc.us>
Danbury, NC Stokes - Friday, March 14, 2003 1:57 PM CST
I have been keeping up with Reese for the last several weeks. I found out about him through Allison Barnes, Morgan Barnes mother. She has Reese's website as a link on Morgan's website. I am so sorry for you and your family with the loss of Reese. His picture on the website is the most precious picture that I have ever seen. He is absolutely beautiful. Since I have been reading the emails about Reese, I feel as if I know you and your family so well. I have prayed and cried along with you. When Reese passed away, the Lord told me that you lived near by and when you posted your home address I could not believe it. I live in Stokes County. I have two boys myself, one is 5 and one is the same age as Reese. He was born Dec. 19th. You have been such an inspiration in my life since I have started reading about Reese. I am so proud of how strong you are with what all you have been through. You have touched my heart so dearly. When I question my faith I think of you and just how strong you are. You and your family are in my every thought and prayer.
Amy M. Stevens <amystevens@pineygrove.stokes.k12.nc.us>
Danbury, NC Stokes - Friday, March 14, 2003 1:52 PM CST
You don't know me, nor I you, but I wanted you to know, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be releasing a red balloon from the big apple this afternoon. I expect I won't be the only one.
Reese is in my thoughts.

Caryn Midler, Lucas Viscomi's (http://www.caringbridge.org/nj/lucastheshrimpeater/) aunt <carynm@aol.com>
New York, New York - Friday, March 14, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Keeping you in my prayers.

~~**hugs**~~

Lynn Rae <lynnrae@cloh.net>
Ironton, OH - Friday, March 14, 2003 1:30 PM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Family
I just wanted to say Reese looked just adorable as he always did last night.You guys really had him looking so sweet.Shawn you were right he looked just like a baby doll laying there.I will pray for all of you today as it will be a very hard and emotional day. Just remember that Reese is an ANGEL in HEAVEN now awaiting for the day that he will see you again.He is happy, smiling, laughing,having lots fun.There will be no more pain for Reesie Cup because he has been made whole again.You all have been wonderful and as I told Toni last night, she is a wonderful sister and heaven sent, to stay by your side so closely during this time and the grandparents were as well. You all have showed examples to everyone how families should really be.You all have stuck together so tightly and I think that is absolutely wonderful.Your faith in God along with the thousands of lifes Reesie Cup touched is what will get you through the days ahead.Just keep all the precious memories and moments with Reese in your heart and know that he is an Angel watching over all of you. For those of us that couldn't make it today we will be praying for all of you and we will honor sweet little Reesie Cups last flight at 3:30 today by sending a Red balloon off to heaven along with a moment of silence.May Peace,Faith and the Love of the Lord be with all of you.

Your in my Prayers,
Angie Trivette

Angela Trivette <Angela.Trivette@Wachovia.com>
Kernersville, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 12:51 AM CST
Shawn, I was so sorry to hear about Reese. I admire your strength and courage in getting through this difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

connie howard <connie.howard@wachovia.com>
winston-salem, nc usa - Friday, March 14, 2003 12:36 AM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Reese. I lost my son Sept. 2001 and so I know the pain can be hard to bear at times. You are in my prayers for strength and peace. I looked at his pictures and he was adorable. I know our sons are having a great time with Jesus.
Christina Henry <christinahenry@cox.net>
Tulsa, Ok USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 12:31 AM CST
The sky in Charlotte, NC will be red as myself and some friends at work will be sending red balloons with notes to little Reese at 3:30.
S.L.
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 11:56 AM CST
I am so sorry about Reese's passing...I can only pray that you can find the strength to go on without your little boy with you,at least physically,because you know he is always with you,in spirit...
April <IrishMom2Adriana@aol.com>
RI USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 11:29 AM CST
I just wanted to tell you how very sorry I am to hear about Reece. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you throughout and we will continue to pray for you through this time as well. God never said it was easy being a Christian, but He did promise...."I am with you always." My son Cody is on also a transplant patient. We are in Room #5207. My Love to All.....Traci
Traci Sharp <SharpT24@wmconnect.com>
Salisbury, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:57 AM CST
I just wanted to leave you a message on here Shawn to let you know how much it meant to finally get to meet you in person last night. Like you said last night, I wish also that it could have been at a Big Welcome home party but the Lord had other plans for Reese! You are such a special person and full of Faith and I admire you. The entire Coble family are very special too! I know the Lord will give you all the strengh to get through the rough times and Reese will be with his Papa R.D looking over all of us.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:42 AM CST
Thank you God for your loving care and for the banquet table you prepared for your children. Although on this earth, our hearts ache, we rejoice with you and your angels that Reese is eternally with you waiting for our great Reunion day!!!
Karen Purves <kbpurves@earthlink.net>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:42 AM CST
Words just express my sorrow I feel for you. I can't even to begin to say I know how you feel because I haven't been there. But it still makes my heart hurt. I will never forget his little smiling face. But I know he is smiling more than ever now. I know he'll be watching over his Mommy and Taylor and Daddy. Take care.

Debbie Coe Deatherage

Debbie Coe Deatherage <debbie.deatherage@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:38 AM CST
I received this story through a loss group that I am on. I am so very sorry for your loss. It is the hardest thing in life - to lose a child. I hope you do realize that your son is watching you from Heaven. I know you were asking for everyone to release a balloon with a message, but I don't believe in doing that. It endangers animals and I don't believe in remembering a loss while creating another. However, I will be saying a prayer and lighting a candle. Please know that you are not alone.
Jerrica
- Friday, March 14, 2003 10:37 AM CST
I'm so sorry for your loss, but what a joy to be blessed with such a beautiful soul if only for a short time. I lost my daughter shortly before her birth so I know what it means to go on and endure. We do it in their memory and in their honor. I hope you can find peace and joy in having created and known such a miracle. My thoughts are with you.
Clair Baca <cbaca@aplusgroup.net>
Chino, CA USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:35 AM CST
I am yet another stranger who found you through another caringbridge family. My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family on the passing of your darling son, Reese. Thank you for sharing him with us and allowing us to be a part of your most private moments. A red balloon will be sent up to Reese today from Big Sky Country. You will continue to be a part of my prayers.
Arnell Schmidt
Glendive, MT USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 10:27 AM CST
Good morning Reese, It is going to be a beautiful day for you to shine on us from heaven!

Shawn, Doug and Toni,
I am so glad that I got to see you last night at the visitation.
Shawn, I want to thank you for comforting me as I cried looking at that sweet boy! I have taken Reese's passing very hard and to get to see him last night and kiss his forehead gave me a peace that passes all understanding. I also can not tell you how much it meant to me that you put the "Taggie" blanket in with him that I gave to him for his birthday....truly made me feel very close to him! Thank you...see you this afternoon.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, March 14, 2003 9:52 AM CST
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I will be releasing a red balloon today. How blessed are you to have been given such a gift. He made a difference to you and those around you.
Terry Kopec
MILWAUKEE, WI - Friday, March 14, 2003 9:46 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, & Taylor, I am so very sorry for your loss. But you can rest assured that Reese is so happy now. He may have lost the battle but he has won the war. We will all miss him dearly. I remember holding him on Grace Covenant's first Sunday and he sat so still watching every move that his big brother made, laughing and smiling, and the whole time I thought "what a sweet baby!" Our prayers will continue to be with you! Love always, Audra
Audra Gillespie <Audfrog_2002@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Friday, March 14, 2003 9:43 AM CST
I'm so very sorry that your precious boy was taken home so soon,i was praying so hard he would be ok and am so deeply saddened to know his brave fight is over although i am comforted that he feels no more pain.
I share your tears right now and will be releasing a balloon with a message for Reese with my two daughters at 3.30 today.
You remain in my prayers.
Love Theresa Heath (Dallas,Texas)
www.geocities.com/myangeldaniel/index.htm

Theresa Heath <danjotay@attbi.com>
Bedford,Dallas, Tx USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 9:13 AM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor, Toni, Andy, Coble family & Yountz family, My thoughts and prayers are with you today. My family will be releasing red balloons today at 3:30. Please know that I am there in spirit. Love you guys. XOXOX
Noreen (Reese's Maine Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 9:07 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers will be with you today. I know all too well what emotions you will be going through today. Lean on each other for comfort. My family will be releasing a red balloon for Reese today up here in Canada...and inside will be the prayer you have written down. Reese will have some little friends to guide him through Heaven's door....Kassidy age 2 (Sept.1, 2002)..and Carter age 1 1/2 (March 1, 2003). Reese will be very muched loved and cared for....the same love as you, his parents showed him. God Bless you and your family, friends and the strangers who deeply cared for your precious Angel.
Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.kassiescourage.com>
Bowmanville, ontario Canada - Friday, March 14, 2003 8:51 AM CST
Shawn and Doug, My thoughts and prayers are with you today.
Nolan and I will release two red balloons this afternoon at 3:30.
Love, Nancy

Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
erie, Co - Friday, March 14, 2003 8:17 AM CST
Shawn, I prayed before I sent this to you, for it is so hard to put into words what I really want to say. You and your family have been so strong through this and you are such are remarkable person. Your son, Reese, is so proud of you and is looking down on you and smiling so. My prayers, thoughts, sorrow is with you and your family.
Christine Gregory <christine.gregory@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USa - Friday, March 14, 2003 7:21 AM CST
Dear Shawn & Family,
You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I am so sorry that I can't travel to be there today, but I assure you that at 3:30 I will release a red balloon with a note for little Reese. You are a very strong, beautiful and loving person, Shawn. I will be thinking about you all day today.
Love, Pam

Pamela Gilbert <pamela_gilbert@hotmail.com>
New Bern, NC USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 6:22 AM CST
I am praying for your family for god to give you the strength to make it through this horrible time, I do belive that all of us who have never even met reese but have been reading your updates and prayed so hard for you all well to continue to pray for your strength. I feel so blessed to get to know reese even though I never have met you or your family you have truly touched my heart. my children will release the balloons on friday all the way in wisconsin, sadly tomorrow I have to take my 5 year old daughter to a funeral for one of her very close friends who passed away suddenly and it just is not fair that any child in this world has to endure this, but seeing the strength that your family has shown I know that she as well as her family have ben blessed by god to be given the strength to get through this. take one day at a time and know that the whole world has been and will continue to pray for you forever. nay god give you the strength you so willing deserve god bless you all. may you continue to hold onto the good memmories and hold that in your heat. GOD BLESS
nicole <nicole54660@msn.com>
tomah , wi - Friday, March 14, 2003 0:28 AM CST
Shawn & Doug, I know tonight was very hard for you both. You will continue to be in my prayers. The journal entry today was very touching. Shawn, you were right. Reese looked like a precious little baby doll. Grandma Phyllis asked me "Kim, isn't he beautiful?" He was a beautiful child, inside and out. He has touched so many lives. Probably more than you will ever know. Take each day as it comes. Rely on the Lord. He will guide you through this. I hope you will find some comforting words in the book I gave you. Tell Toni I think she is an absolute Godsend. I know she was there with you through all of this. You are so lucky to have such a wonderful sister. Please know you can call if you need anything. I told Taylor Tuesday he can come over anytime this summer and go swimming. Shawn, Doug, Taylor, and Phyllis, We love you!!! Thanks for sharing you life and little ReesieCup with us!
Kim, Dean, & Braden

I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.
John 14:18

Kim (Bond) Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, March 13, 2003 10:24 PM CST
Shawn-
I am so sorry I can't be there for you tonight or tomorrow, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I really miss you. Reese has touched a special place in my heart and so have you and Toni. I will never forget the impact that you have had on my life. Your son was beautiful. I'll always remember the day in clinic when you put that Old Navy hat on Reese and he just laughed and laughed. I'll always remember that smile. I love and miss you. Take care and keep in touch.
Love,
Carrie

The Hortons www.caringbridge.org/il/jordan <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:27 PM CST
To Reese's loving and devoted family,
We were unable to travel to Mt. Airy tonight but we have been in prayer for your peace and comfort. We know that heaven had a SPECIAL DELIVERY when your precious angel arrived! Remember..God loves you and we do, too!
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:23 PM CST
In the short time I have been reading your page I have prayed for you and your family. I will now pray for strength for you to move on with daily life and peace for you to get through your tasks.


Josie ( a stranger who cares)
Canada - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:10 PM CST
Doug and Shawn,
Our thoughts and prayers will still be with you. Thank you for allowing us to be part of your lives, you all do not know what you mean to us. We are glad to know that you will continue with the updates, we want to know how Taylor is doing. Please know that you nor Reese will ever be forgotten.

Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:07 PM CST
Keeping you in my prayers. May God bless you and your family. I have never been so moved by any one child as I have been by your little Reesecup!
S.L.
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 8:27 PM CST
May the blue sky turn bright red tomorrow when all the people that your precious baby touched send their prayers and love to Reese. I am praying for you and your family in this unbearable time of sorrow. May God watch over you and wrap his loving arms you. God Bless. I will send my own balloon tomorrow with love to your Reese.
Janet Reinhardt <blondra1@cablespeed.com>
Severna Park, MD USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 7:42 PM CST
I am very sorry about your precious baby. He sure had a beautiful smile. I pray that God comfort you all now and helps you find some peace. Wish I could give you all a hug.....
Jo <jvon557@aol.com>
- Thursday, March 13, 2003 7:20 PM CST
Shawn, Doug, and Taylor, I visited sweet little Reesie Cup for the first time in person tonight. He is such a sweet baby boy. I just wanted to pick him up and hold him tightly to my chest and just kiss all over him. He will be sorely missed by everyone, especially by you. We love you all. Please just ask for whatever you need or want me to do. I am here for you. God will give you strength to carry on. God bless you. "Ma" Martha
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 7:07 PM CST
Shawn what a beautiful entry. I wish I lived closer to you to go to Reese's viewing. You described him so lovingly and I can just picture how peaceful and beautiful he must look. You really DON'T know how many people Reesie has touched. I'm sure I speak for hundreds of others when I say that he entered our hearts and left a mark even though some of us have never met him (unfortunately). Never again will I unwrap a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup (my favorite candy) and not think of our sweet Reesiecup! A red balloon will be launched from South Windsor, Connecticut tomorrow with Reese's name on it!
Live and play in peace Sweet Angel Reese!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Thursday, March 13, 2003 6:21 PM CST
To the Cobble Family, I pray that God will give you strength and comfort.
Jennifer
Narberth, PA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 5:12 PM CST
TO THE COBLES, YOU ARE SO STONG. IT MAKES MY HEART SOAR TO READ YOUR WORDS AND REALIZE THE FAITH THAT YOU HAVE IN THIS DIFFICULT TIME. THE HARD DAYS AHEAD WILL BE MADE EASIER BY YOUR LOVING FAITH IN GOD. I JUST WISH THAT THERE WAS SOME LITTLE THING I COULD DO FOR YOU TO LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH YOU HAVE MEANT TO ME EVERY DAY WHEN I READ YOUR UPDATES. YOU HAVE TOUCHED MY LIFE AND I HAVE NEVER EVEN MET YOU BUT I LOVE YOUR FAMILY JUST THE SAME. I FEEL YOUR PAIN AND LOSS. YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE IN MY PRAYERS FOR SUCH A DEVOTED FAMILY. I AM JUST SORRY THAT I CANT DO SOMETHING FOR YOU OTHER THAN SAY PRAYERS...BUT THAT IS THE MAIN THING NOW. I WILL KEEP GOING TO REESE'S SITE FOR AS LONG AS YOU KEEP UPDATING....I THINK EVERYONE CARES SO MUCH FOR YOU ALL.
BILLIE HAYMORE <BJHAY@ADVI.NET>
MOUNT AIRY, NC 27030 - Thursday, March 13, 2003 4:41 PM CST
hi. im not sure what to say imma very tenderhearted person and i love kids and ive been checkin out reese's site for the past 4 weeks.......it really pains me to know of the great lose but just think Heaven has just been made a greater place with the sweet little face of your reese....he truly is and always will be the cutest little fella ive ever seen in my life....youre in my thoughts and prayers and if you need ANYTHING (a babysitter someone to go to the store anything at all) call me @ 325-0152!
Love you all
~*Jennifer Hope Brindle*~

Jennifer Hope Brindle <oneofheavensangels2005@yahoo.com>
185 Sherry Dr Mt Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 4:30 PM CST
Shawn, thank you for sharing your story today about precious darling ReesieCup. I will pray for your added strength to read the poem at his service tomorrow. I recently lost my baby brother suddenly on 2-18 and I prayed and received strength from our awesome God to do readings at his prayer service and funeral. It is an incredible feeling to be able to do that as a tribute and I will ask our dear Lord to give you that privilege.
My love and sympathy to all of your family and friends.
I will hug Kaden extra tight each opportunity I have as I know you will be doing for dear, blessed brother, Taylor.
Love in Christ. I'll send the poem on my balloon tomorrow.

Jerri McKinley <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 4:22 PM CST
Shawn you are such an astonishing woman. I admire you so for all of your strength and courage through these trying times. I will continue to remember you and your family in my prayers. You are all a remarkable family. Again I thank you for sharing your Little Boy with the rest of the world. I still check your site everyday and I still pray everyday for you and Reese will always be an inspiration to me. He fought so hard and he did it well with the help of his loving family. I know that nothing I can say can take away your pain, I am sorry for that. But, I want you to know that you all have been an inspiration form your undying devotion and support, to Reese's fighting power, to Toni's life being put on hold to help you and little Reese, to Doug being so far away from all of you and Teylor missing his little brother and being such a champ. I will always be here if you ever need anything. GOD bless you, your family and your precious little angel.
Stephanie Conner-Surry 911 Communications <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Thursday, March 13, 2003 4:11 PM CST
I RECEIVED NEWS OF YOUR SICK BABY REESE VIA E-MAIL AT PIKE ELECTRIC IN MT. AIRY. HE AND YOUR FAMILY HAVE BEEN ON OUR PRAYER REQUEST LIST FOR WEEKS. I MYSELF HAVE A BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER THAT TURNED TWO ON MONDAY. I JUST HAD TO WRITE TO YOU AND LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU HAVE SUCH INCREDIBLE FAITH AND STRENGTH. I KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE MY DAUGHTER AND CAN NEVER IMAGINE LIVING WITHOUT HER. I'M SURE NO WORDS CAN EXPRESS THE LOVE YOU FELT AND STILL FEEL FOR YOUR SON. YOUR FAITH IN GOD SEEMS TO BE IMMENSE AND SOMEHOW, HE WILL GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND THE WILL TO GO ON. MY PRAYERS AND SO MANY PRAYERS OF OTHERS ARE WITH YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
SONYA HAYMORE <shaymore@pike.com>
MT. AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 3:44 PM CST
I thought I was having a bad day until I read my e-mails. My heart goes out to your family and I will indeed be praying for all of you. God will always be with you, just trust in him for guidance and understanding. God loves you and He will never fail you.
Pam Rutherford <prutherford23@hotmail.com>
Cana, Va USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 3:20 PM CST
Doug and Shawn,
I am so sorry I haven't written anything here, but every time I try to, I end up in tears.My heart goes out to you and I want you to know how much I love you all. Jut seems like everything has been so hard since PAPA passed away, and now another loss.
Doug, you were so good to us when Papa passed away, I will never forget that. Even though I never got to see Reesie Cup,I got to know OF him, through your MOM, she loved him so!!But I will see Reese in heaven, that I know.
God bless all of you and Taylor, he is a real cutie!!!
Also, Just want to let you know that tomorrow, me, Lisa and Peggy will be in a park to release our own red balloon for Sweet Reesie Cup.
Thinking of you every minute and praying for all of you too.

Love, Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 2:28 PM CST
Sometimes children are born that are just too beautiful for this world and God needs them to be angels, to watch over us and keep us from harm, so he brings them home to heaven. All children are angels long before they get their wings, some are just chosen to get their's before others. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Erin
BC Canada - Thursday, March 13, 2003 2:10 PM CST
Hello,
I have never met your family, and I was never priviledged to know Reece, but heard about him from another website. What a beautiful and sweet boy Heaven is now blessed with! I lost my best friend in 2000 to a long illness, and I am sure that she gave Reece a full tour and showed him where all of the fun places are to play!! My thoughts and prayers are with all of your family and friends.

Leigh Ann Pyles <APoohFan514321@aol.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, March 13, 2003 2:02 PM CST
I am a friend of the McClungs and heard of Reese's passing. My sincere condolences to your family in this time of loss. Prayers and loving thoughts from the Gardner Family, Apex, NC
Paula Gardner
Apex, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 1:08 PM CST


- Thursday, March 13, 2003 1:07 PM CST
I am always at such a loss of words when a little child goes to heaven. Please know how very sorry I am. My Leslie died on May 11, 2000, after a BMT for leukemia. May God hold you now, and give you strength and peace. God bless Reese. My prayers and love,
kathleen
- Thursday, March 13, 2003 12:38 AM CST
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Such a precious angel he will always be. God bless you and keep you strong in your faith that He has a plan, and it is not for us to know. I share my tears and prayers for Reese.
Kimberly Crisi <gypsy3@thedoghousemail.com>
Aliquippa, PA USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 12:06 AM CST
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Jessica Llewellyn and Jonathan Lawson
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 11:40 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,

I never knew Reece Cup but that doesn't change how much sorrow I feel for you and your family. I can't imagine the pain and sorrow you must be feeling. I have read only a few of the many entries that have been made to the guestbook and am amazed at how many people have been touched by this website. You are very brave to share so much of your personal life and I can only hope that these entries help you deal with this enormous loss. I tried to make this entry yesterday but couldn't because of the tears. I just finished reading the entry from his "Nanna" and can't imagine the courage and strength it took for her to be able to do this. I too can only take comfort in knowing that he is in a much better place and is having a joyous time in Heaven. May God bless each of you in your entire family to be able to find the peace and comfort you need in this time of need.


Judy Martin
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 11:28 AM CST
God Bless you, he was a beautiful boy! He rests peacefully now and will always be there to guide you.
Heather
Atlanta, GA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 10:18 AM CST
I just wanted to wright to you and tell you how much I'm praying for you and your family. I had a Sister that had bone cancer. And she died at the age 4. I never got to meet her she was born before I was born. My Grandmother took care of my other sister that was yunger than my sister that was sick. My Grandmother would talk a taperecorder so my sister's could talk back and forth cause the hospitle would not let my sister go see her. Just rember you will see him again.
Elizabeth Stewart <ESTEWART2162@AOL.COM>
Warrior , Al - Thursday, March 13, 2003 10:15 AM CST
To The Coble Family,
We have only met briefly, but you are good friends with my sister-in-law, Tracy. We signed your guest book many months ago. I have been back here many times to see your little angel. Please know your all in our prayers. And now know he no longer has pain or discomfort and one day you will cradle him once again. Thank you for sharing your life and your precious "reesecup" with us.

Daniel, Stephanie, Mason, and Cassie Nifong <dsmnifong@msn.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 10:09 AM CST
I cry for all the children who
won't be home tonight
For the sad and lonely parents
their heartaches and their plight

Whether they left on their own
or were stolen in the night
I cry for all the children who
won't be home tonight

Sometimes we try our very best
to keep them safe from harm
We nudge them gently back on track
or try and lend a guiding arm

Then other times it just happens
a wrong place and a very wrong time
Swiftly snatched up and out of sight
a parents nightmare, another child to find

Sitting here I agonize, my tears begin to flow
watching these children one by one
as their panic and sorrow grow

Sometimes no matter how hard
we try to keep them out of harm
They slip from underneath our wings
and we must sound out with alarm

Yes it takes a village
to raise a child into a man
Everyone has to do their part
and lend a helping hand

If we hide and close our eyes,
pretend we do not see
Our future is lost, there is nothing left
but much pain and agony

Whether they left on their own
or were stolen in the night
I cry for all the children who
won't be home tonight

Just to let you know that I will continue to think of you and your family & friends as you go through the grieving of Reese. I know all too well what it feels like. I lost my daughter Kassidy to Hurlers Sept. 1, 2002 at the age of 2 years, 2 months at Sick Kids Hosp. in Toronto. I feel your pain and sorrow. But, please know that Reese is in no more pain, no more poking and prodding from the doctors and nurses...and that Reese is now your GOLDEN ANGEL...and will be everywhere you go...with a happy face..looking out for the best for his precious family that took such good care of him. God Bless to you and your family and friends....and to everyone that cared and loved him...from family to strangers alike. ANGEL KISSES from Kassidy

Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.kassiescourage.com>
Bowmanville, ON Canada - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:57 AM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor and Toni,
I know that today is going to be sad beyond words. I have attached a poem that I found today that I wanted to share with you all that reminds me of Reese:

I AM THERE INSIDE YOUR HEART
Right now I'm in a different place,
And thought we seem apart,
I'm closer than I ever was.....
I'm there inside your heart.

I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright,
I'm there to share the sunsets, too....
I'm with you every night.

I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall....
I'll still be there for you.

And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me....
FOREVER IN MY HEART.

I pray that you are finding peace and comfort in Reese's memories today.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:45 AM CST
I'm SO VERY sorry for your loss, know that people you don't even know will be thinking of you and your Reecy Cup tomorrow at 3:30.
God bless.

Deirdre Antalek <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
Livonia (Rochester), NY - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:21 AM CST
We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless
Trampas and Deana Snow
Dobson, NC - Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:10 AM CST
I learned about little Reese through a lady at my chruch (Ellen Felts). I know that it must be hard to loose a little angel like Reese, however he is in a much better place. I send my deepest sympathy to his family. May God always bless and comfort you always.
Love in Christ,
James Eaton

James Eaton <jamiz_20@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC United States - Thursday, March 13, 2003 8:37 AM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Reggie Pryor & Cindy Greco <reggie.pryor@wachovia.com>
Winston Salem, NC Forsyth - Thursday, March 13, 2003 7:08 AM CST
My heart goes out to you...I am keeping you in my prayers. I too have a baby in Heaven. I know the ache
of your heart.

Susan Bradbury <seedsower@uplogon.com>
Iron Mountain , MI USA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 4:09 AM CST
Our hearts break for your entire family during this most difficult time. May you find strength in your faith and the love of your many friends and family. You remain in our prayers. With love, The Whites
Amy White
San Diego, CA - Thursday, March 13, 2003 0:51 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, & Taylor,
Thank you so much for sharing the funeral info. I will be having a late lunch with a friend on Friday and we will send up 2 red balloons at 2:30 p.m. CST.
God Bless you as you try to make sense of Reese's premature death. Taylor, my love goes out to you, too, as you are an only child again. You have very wonderful parents and grandparents to love you to pieces.
In Christ

Jerri McKinley <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 10:25 PM CST
Your family remains in our warmest thoughts and sincerest prayers during your time of sorrow. We ask that God wrap his loving arms around you and bring you some peace. Bless you all for sharing your lives and your story with us. We are so blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know Reese and your family. We say Thank you for the support that you offered to us while enduring your own time of difficulty. God bless you.
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah Prichard <www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah>
Honolulu, HI USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 9:40 PM CST
i am so sorry for our loss i willkeep your family in my thoughts and prays hugs kim missouri chapter of hugs and hope
kim young <lynnyn2@aol.com>
ofallon, mo uas - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 9:27 PM CST
My Grandson Aaron Athy has Hurlers. My daughter ask me before she left for Aaron's transplant if I would be mad at her if something went wrong with Aaron. I told her of course not. It is all in God's hands. I don't know why, however I know Jesus said "suffer not the little children for to them belong the Kingdom of Heaven". Our family sends you our love and prayers.
The Robertson Family <BRobertsonn50@charter.net>
Belleville, IL - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 9:20 PM CST
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. May God hold you close to his heart.

The Perkins Family
Elkin, NC - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:42 PM CST
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. May God hold you close to heart.

The Perkins Family
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:41 PM CST
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers. May God hold you close to heart.

The Perkins Family
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:41 PM CST
I'm so sorry for the loss of Reese, he was a beautiful baby who is now an angel, his story brought tears to my eyes, he was such a brave little baby, now he is an angel looking over all of us! My prayers are with all of you during this extremly difficult time.
Jeannie <jadbemi@hotmail.com, caringbridge.org/tx/nicben>
Eagle Pass , tx - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 5:18 PM CST
THINKING OF YOU DURING YOUR HARD TIMES. YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS!




Mike, Heather and Trevor Marsh
Mt. Airy, nc USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 4:30 PM CST
DOUG, SHAWN, AND TAYLOR,
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT LITTLE REESE. I CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. I HAVE TWO BOYS OF MY OWN AND I COULD NOT EVEN BEGIN TO THINK OF HOW I WOULD FEEL TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH WHAT YOU ALL DID. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. MAY GOD BLESS YOU. I DON'T KNOW IF REESE LIKED TO BE ROCKED OR NOT BUT ME AND MY SON SING A SONG CALLED JESUS' ROCKING CHAIR, SO JUST THINK LITTLE REESE IS BEING ROCKED BY THE LORD TODAY. MAYBE WE CAN GET YOU A COPY OF THIS AND YOU CAN HAVE IT TO LISTEN TO SOMETIME. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU.

SHANNON SECREST TOLBERT <caroinacake@surry.net>
MT. AIRY, NC SURRY - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 4:19 PM CST
I know that you can hear me Reesie Cup..so I wanted you to know that I miss you deeply and think of you constantly!

Shawn,
If you need to talk please do not hesitate to call me! I know that I have never been through anything like what you are going through this past week...but I do love Reese so much and am willing to listen if you need the ear! Thank you so much for being such a sorce of inspiration to me. I will see you on Friday...


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 3:38 PM CST
Shawn may God bless you and your family during your time of bereavement. Know that God knew you loved Reese and He did too. There is no more suffering and He will heal your broken heart and ease your pain. Look up to God and He will help guide you through. You and your family are in my prayers. Keep the faith. God loves you and I know that God will make a way for you. God Bless you.
Ellen Campbell
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 2:17 PM CST
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
I'm not sure what happen with my other entry but any way I realized that to never take a moment forgranted that you have to spend with your child. Shawn you and Toni were two very stong women and I admire you courage. I just know that Reese is looking down and watching you all and telling Jesus how blessed he was to have such a loving and supportive family. He is in no more pain,doesn't have to worry about tubes and needles, and he is happy because Jesus has touched him and made him whole. May God give you the grace and peace and hold you in his loving arms through this difficult time.

Angela Trivette
Kernersville, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 2:13 PM CST
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
I can't imagine what you all are feeling or the hurt and sorrow of losing a child or sibling. All I know is that you all amazed me with all the love and support and how you took the courage to try whatever necessary to give Reese Cup a normal life and loving home. You all plus with the help of your family have showed what the meaning of unconditional love truely is. Reese has touched the lives of so many people and made people like myself realize that children are a gift from GOD and we must love and hold them as much as we can. When I got the news about Reese and I went to pick Caitlin up from daycare and I thought about Amanda when she was in NICU and only 3lbs. I truely realized how much of a blessing I was blessed with, I lost it and broke down in tears not only because of the hurt and sorrow that you all feel but that i realized

Angela Trivette
Kernersville, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 2:02 PM CST
DEAR COBLE FAMILY,
WE WERE SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS,AS AMOTHER AND A GRANDMOTHER I COULD NOT IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU. MY HEART AND MY PRAYER'S ARE WITH YOU ALL.I KNOW THAT HIS PAPA WAS THERE WAITING FOR HIM,NOW HE IS IN GOD'S CARE AND HIS PAPA'S. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ALWAY'S.

BETTY MOSER
MT. AIRY, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 1:52 PM CST
Doug, Shawn and Taylor, We are so sorry to hear about you loss. Reese was a precious gift from God.. He will be missed. Just be reasured that he is not sick anymore and is in the arms of our Holy Father.. We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Terry and Tamra Hudspeth and family <j.p.mud@juno.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 1:44 PM CST
God bless you and your family. As a mother my heart goes out to you. I will be in prayer for you. Peace will find you.
Jennifer Todd
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 11:47 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
We hope you all know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Words cannot describe how sorry we are for the loss of your precious child. We never got the chance to meet Reese personally but we felt as if we had through the website and I am so thankful for it. I came across this poem and I thought it described your little ANGEL REESE.



Could we ever forget your sparkling eyes,
or the way you brightened each day,
or your smile which is etched in our memories,
so you're never far away?

Could we ever forget those priceless moments?
The answer, of course, is never.
For you were part of our lives for a brief time,
but you'll be a part of our hearts forever.

Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 11:36 AM CST
Dear Coble family,
I'm one of the countless many you don't know but whose heart has been broken into Reese pieces.
I came to know you through McKenzie and her mommy, Christina.
The goal of the children there at Duke is to get well and go home.
Reese has done that - he's well and has gone home.
My thoughts and prayers are with you now, and I will be with you in spirit with a balloon on Friday.
Father, God,
Thank you for letting my life be blessed by this family. You know what it feels like to let your son go.
Comfort them now as only you can -
with the peace that passes all understanding.
In Jesus' name.
Amen.

McKenzie's Aunt Darlene
OH - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 11:14 AM CST
Dear Coble family, you don't know me but I found this site through my cousin Bella's webpage. I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing and I know nothing anyone can say will help right know,just know that you are in my prayers.
Stephanie Boille
Wpg, MB Canada - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 11:04 AM CST
Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom and make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
Some people stay in our lives awhile, leave footprints in our hearts and we are never, ever the same.
Reese was one of those people.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 10:38 AM CST
I had the wonderful privledge of being present at Reese's birth. I saw him take his first breath and heard his first cry. I held him and rocked him, changed him, fed him and loved him, and kissed him so many times that it almost wore bare spots! And when he was released from his troubled, broken little body I was privledged to be there when he flew from his mother's arms into Jesus' arms.
Reese, you gave me a wonderful parting gift when I lifted you from Aunt Toni's arms and laid you into Grandma Phyllis' arms your little precious cupid's mouth opened and that last puff of sweet baby breath drifted out to caress my face like a million angel wings. I will carry that feel and smell all my days until I feel your sweet breath on my face again, when we embrace in heaven. You will know me, I'll be the one running to you crying with joy and saying,"Come to your Nanna, my sweet Reesiecup".I know that Grandma Baker is already holding you and as she would say, "Loving you, kissing you and calling you George".
I don't know how we will bear the coming days, but I am sure you will help us. You were the bravest boy I ever knew and I will take comfort in the memories I have of that huge smile and infectious chuckle. "Don't you knock those blocks down, Don't you do it! Oh, no, what did you do? Oh boo hoo how can you laugh at Nanna when you have knocked her blocks down?!!"
Oh precious baby, to hear your laughter one more time would be worth every second I may have left here.I am remembering you in my lap, holding my hand and pullng it up to cover your face to play peek-a-boo. Or throwng that pacie across the room if things were not quite as they should be! Dancing to Baby Einstein videos, your eyes lighting up when Taylor came in the room, so many precious memories, but never enough.
Thank you Reese for everything you gave us. I hope I was able to give you comfort, I know I loved you more than anything. I always said,Who loves you the most? ME! But I know that God loved you the most. And the best. And I can't imagine there ever was or ever will be a baby boy more loved in such a short time, or who will touch as many lives as you have. I am trying to be strong, but Reese maybe I will have to let you be strong enough for us all.
The crashing sound of thousands of hearts breaking last Monday was only drowned out by the shouts of joy from the multitudes in heaven when they welcomed you Home again, into our Father's House. Walk, run, play, laugh, dance, talk, read, draw, play ball, chase lightning bugs, pick dandelions, fish, ride a bike, fly a kite, gather rocks and leaves, grow up strong and healthy and know that you will be missed every day until we are together again.
I can't say goodby, I can only say, I send you Home with all my love and kisses. Til we are together again, in that perfect place. My love, Nanna.

Nanna Julia Hill
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 9:54 AM CST
I am so sorry for you loss! I found this devotional and thought you might get comfort from it. It is taken from Max Lucado's, "When Christ Comes."
~In the Arms of God~
We don't like to say good-bye to those whom we love. Whether it be at a school or a cemetery, separation is tough. It is right for us to weep, but there is no need for us to despair. They had pain here. They have no pain there. They struggled here. They have no struggles there. You and I might wonder why God took them home. But they don't. They understand. They are, at this very moment, at peace in the presence of God. When it is cold on earth, we can take comfort in knowing that our loved ones are in the warm arms of God. And when Christ comes, we will hold them, too.
*I am praying for you daily!!

Rhonda <rrush@vestavia.k12.al.us>
Birmingham, AL USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 9:50 AM CST
Doug, Shawn & Taylor ,
We are so very sorry to hear about Reese. It has been awhile since we have seen you all, but please know you have been and will be continuously in our thoughts and prayers.

Dwight & Cooky Hall <HALLSPAINT@surry.net>
Pilot Mountain, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 9:16 AM CST
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious little boy. His life & his plight touched so many of us who never even met him. And, you have been so inspiring with your faith. Your family continues to be in my prayers.
a friend in Christ
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 8:17 AM CST
con't- to meet your little angel and his loving christian mother- however, I feel like I know you just by talking to Sharon (Jacob's mother) and by reading your journals- no matter what- I know your heart and I know it hurts-Our prayers are with you
wendy arthur
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 8:10 AM CST
Dear Shawn- Reese has definetly touched the hearts of many people- he was an angel on earth and is also one in heaven- I do not look at this as Reese lost his fight- He may have lost his fight on earth- however, he is a winner with a new healthy body that has no sickness or disease and will never feel any pain- WOW!! what an amazing God we have- however, as a mother I can only begin to imagine the pain you must feel- please know my heart, love, and prayers are with you- I want to share this with you- it was written by a mom that lost a child (at Duke)
"What God Taught Me Through Sarah" by Cathy Tellefson
I've learned:
-that you can sometimes be a great witness for the Lord without ever saying a word
-that sometimes laughter really is the best medicine
-that there are a lot worse things than death
-that watching your child suffer is the most difficult thing a parent has to do.
-that the best doctors are usually people you'd want for best friends
-that we have children with the idea that we will teach them about life, when they teach us so much more
-that no matter how much I love my children, God will always love them more
-that the miracle of dying can be as beautiful as the miracle of birth
-that God never promised it would be an easy journey, just that He'd be with us every step of the way
-that we will never be able to answer our most desperate "whys" in this life
-life can deal us the cruelest blows when you least expect it
-grief never ends, it just gets different
-that God does give us more than we can handle, but never more than He can handle for us
-the more we think we understand God, the less we probably do
-suffering can make your faith, love, and hope stronger, if you give it to God
-nothing feels better han holding your child in your arms
-sometimes the smallest in body are the largest in spirit
-when your child is sick, nothing else matters
-that a healthy child is not only a blessing, but a miracle
-sometimes when you think God is the farthest away, He's really the closest
-real friends stick by you, even when the going gets tough
-that most people are extremely generous and want to help
-you can feel joy and sorrow simultaneously
-you can never take too many pictures of your children, sing too many lullabyes, hold them too long, or love them too much
-no matter how terrible a situation, God can bring good from it. God is the good in everything
-anywhere can be "home" if you're there long enough to make good friends
-sometimes your have to stop asking "why" and ask "what"-"What does God want me to do whith this situation?
I've learned that you have to go through Good Friday to ge to Easter.

I thought you would be able to relate to this- We were doing the CMN telethon when she shared this and I made a copy and read it often- it really puts things into perspective for me as I have a son (Carson)- www.caringbridge.org/nc/carson- who has been battling leukemia for four years- we recently had a bone marrow transplant a Duke- we left 5200 right before Reese was admitted- I really feel like I was cheated not being able to

wendy arthur
- Wednesday, March 12, 2003 8:08 AM CST
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I pray that God will take away the pain you are suffering at this time. God Bless Reese in being an angel for you and your family. Have a Blessed Day. I will set a balloon free at 3:30 in memory of your son Reese.
Michelle <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:44 AM CST
Shaun, Doug & Taylor. I am so saddened by the loss of Reese and I can't imagine what it feels like to loose a child, I can only sympathize and pray and hold my children a little tighter. I greatly appreciate the chance to share in your courageous journey with Reese through this website. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers while you go through this most difficult time.
Joyce Tadlock <joyce.tadlock@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC 27101 - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:00 AM CST
Doug... As I sit here, I am at a loss for words to say. I just want you to know that I am here if you need anything. You have so many people thinking about you and praying for you. Even though we don't get to talk every day...you are still an important part of my life... as most people know, those of us in emergency services are a tight knit group and we want to do everything that we can to support our brothers and sisters. I am here for you and all the others here at C-Comm are too. If we could count how many times you and your family's name has been mentioned in this building over the past few months...I think we would all be suprised at the high number that we would have....not to mention how many times the Caring Bridge site has been accessed from these computers!!! Thank you so much for sharing little Reese with us and allowing us to be a part of his journey through life. You and Shawn were hand picked by God to be Reese's parents...and he couldn't have picked anyone better. Reese will live on in our memories and I will never forget him.

Shawn...even thought I have never met you, I know we are true sisters in Christ. You absolutely amaze me with your strength. God knew what he was doing when he chose you to be Reesiecup's mommy. My heart aches for you and you are in my thoughts and prayers almost every moment of the day. I pray that God gives you strength to face the coming days and I pray that God gives you and Doug special grace in helping Taylor throught this time. I know that at a time like this there is nothing that anyone can do or say that will make things better...but know that you are thought of and surrounded by many prayers all the day through.

Little Taylor...we are so sorry for your loss of your little brother Reese...but he will live on in our hearts and you can look at the sweet pictures of him and know that his sweet sweet smile is for you!!! He loves his Tater Tot!!! You now have a very special angel looking down on you from Heaven.

To Aunt Toni and Uncle Andy...We know that your hearts are breaking...and we pray for God to surround you with the peace and comfort that you so desperately need during this time. Thank you for giving so unselfishly of your lives during Reese's time of need. God will have many special stones for your crowns when you get to heaven and little Reese will be right there at the gate to meet you....what a wonderful day that will be!!!! God bless you both!!

To the rest of the family...my heart goes out to you and you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Be strong and rejoice in the fact that we will see little Reese again one day and this time, he will be whole and free of pain and suffering!! Hold on to those memories of him and keep them close in heart for Reese will live on in each and every one of you!

My thoughts and prayers will be with you all for peace and comfort in the upcoming days!! God bless!!

Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911/ Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 5:56 AM CST
I want to let you all know that you are in my thoughts and prayers through these difficult times. Reese touched my lives of those on 5200 and will never be forgotten. He was such a fighter and will always be an inspiration to all.
Lori Burton <Ljb4672@aol.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 1:19 AM CST
We are so saddened to hear of the loss of Reese. Just know that he is better off and free of pain. Your family will continue to be in our prayers.
Beth & Kevin Odom <bo77@bellsouth.net>
TN - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 0:48 AM CST
I am so sorry for your recent loss. I received a prayer request from several friends. Although we have never met, I have carried a prayer for your family in my heart, and I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I have suffered several miscarriages; yet I can only imagine how you must feel. May you find comfort over the coming days and may you be blessed with strength, patience and peace as you navigate through your pain.
Carmel Hall <CARMELH56@aol.com>
King, NC USA - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 0:36 AM CST
Dear Coble family,
I know we have not met, but our family is so sorry for your loss. We lost our not quite 2 year old son to Hurler last April, so we know what you are going through. Just remember that he is now free from this disease and you did all that you could to give him the best chance you could. He will be looking over you always. I pray that God heals your pain and helps you through this. One again, we are so sorry.

The Landon Family <jennh@techline.com>
Hoquiam, WA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:14 PM CST
I sat down last night and typed my entry in this guestbook and as soon as I previewed my entry and clicked ADD, I lost my internet connection. I don't remember anything I said except - - - there have literally been thousands of people log onto this site since I was here Sunday night. In reading through the guestbook entries, only minutes.....sometimes only seconds passed and another entry was logged. WHAT A TRUE TESTIMENT TO THE LIFE OF REESE DANIEL COBLE. - - Shawn & Doug, there just aren't any words to express how sorry I am. Shawn, I remember reading in a previous entry that you felt you were no different from any other Mother who would do what she had to, to take care of and protect her child.

You are not by any means, on the same level with "most" of the other Mother's in this world. You made the ultimate sacrifice for your son, who depended completely, 100% on you to take care of him. And you did it unconditionally. I cannot begin to imagine what that must have been like. You are absolutely the best of the best. That's why God picked YOU to be Reese's Mommy.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:07 PM CST
To All The Coble Family:

My heart reaches out for you and your family at the loss of your precious little angel Reese. You have inspired so many with your stories from your heart about your precious son. You have given so much of yourselves and now we all grieve for your loss and will be praying for you and your family. And Shawn, my heart aches for you, I don't know you personally but I know Phyllis. I know God picked out a very special mommy for little Reese- only the best would do for such a little angel. Being a mom myself, I can't possbily fathom the heartache you are feeling but I am so proud that you have uplifted the Lord and I know that little Reese is saying, thanks mom for always looking out for me and now i'm going to be looking out for you in heaven.. Bless you all, our thoughts and prayers are with you -Phyllis -we love you-take care,
Patty & Tony Hiatt

Patty Hiatt <thiatt@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:47 PM CST
There are no words that can express how I feel. I knew the little angel, and he was very precious. I came to see you both tonight, but really didn't know what to say to you both. Doug, we have known each other for years and you are my brother. Always have been, always will be. Shawn you were adotpted in to the family, and you are the sister I never had. You both have been good to me and my son over the years, and I hope I can be a rock for you if needed. It's amazing how someone so small can make a man my size cry like a child. Taylor is my nephew, and Justin said he would be Taylor's big brother. I know that is a scary thought...but just go with it. Ha Ha! He and the entire family has been and will be a positive influence on my life. Just remember, we all lost when a piece of ourselves when Reese left, Although we could never come close to others. Doug, Shawn, Taylor and Ma Coble and the entire Coble and Yountz Family, From my whole family, We love you, and we are here for you. All you have to do is call. God Bless you all and we love you very much.

Dink Faw, Sylvia Faw, Denny, Donna and Brandon Faw, Benji Faw, Heather Crews, Jordan Martin, Lindsey Hawkins, Justin Faw, and anyone else I couldn't think of at the moment....

Benji Faw <fyrman142@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC United States - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:29 PM CST
I read about your precious baby from my Hugs and hope newsletter. My prayers are with you. Love, Laura
laura C. www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
Bakersfield, ca - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:10 PM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son Reece. I am so sorry that you had to make such a difficult decision. You are your family are in my prayers and will stay there for a long time. He was very precious. I am sure that my angels will take good care of him.
Heidi Ginter <anglsnhvn4@hotmail.com>
WI USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:09 PM CST
LIFE IS A CRICLE. All to short for Reese. We are sharing your greef and sending all of you our love. Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for Reesse, and the ones he loved and the ones who loved him.
Kathy and Arthur Stedman


Arthur and Kathy Stedman <AKstedman@msn.com>
Herlong , CA. - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:08 PM CST
Doug, I just made the announcement on the radio. That is probably the hardest thing I have done in a while. Doug we have been friends for a while now. I am sorry that you have not heard from me before now. However, I have kept in touch through Steve and his sister Suzanne and the website. Please remember that you are surrounded by family, and friends, and also your other family, the firefighters and and emergency personnel that you work with. Doug, there are no words that I can say to comfort you. I hope you will find your comfort in God. I have been praying and will continue to pray for you and yours. Remember, that when you are high on the mountain or in the deepest valley you have ever been in, God is still with you. I want you to know that I am here for you and would do anything in the world for you if possible. Please call on me if you need me. By the looks of this website, you have a circle of freinds too large to count. I do not know your wife as well as I know you, but tell her that she is in my prayers also, as well as Taylor. May God Bless and keep you.

Your friend in service....

Andy Vernon <avernon71@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:18 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you! I am so proud of you and the wonderful mother that you are! I know you know the touch of a child that many can not imagine. You are so strong and have such great faith. You surely held a wonderful gift from the Lord and now He holds this gift in His hands! We love you!
Terrilynn & Jimmy Collins <collinsterrilynn@yahoo.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:14 PM CST
To Reese's Family, Our prayers that God will give you strength and comfort for the days ahead. My 3-year old grandson was diagnosed with T-cell lymphoma last summer. Our eyes have been opened to a whole world out there of children and families who are struggling with disease, treatments that are worse than the disease and all of the heartache that goes with it. I do believe in angels, because I have felt their presence in my own life. Reese will never really leave you. God did not take him. He received him into His glory. Reese's spirit will be with you always into eternity. Prayerfully yours, Brenda and Terry Keyser
Brenda and Terry Keyser <j.t.keyser@att.net>
Ponte Vedra Beach, FL - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:10 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our prayers. The testimony you have given to so many of your belief in Jesus and trusting in Him has been so strong. Jesus will carry you through each day. We love you and will continue to pray for each of you. Right now, Reese is scooting around and having such a wonderful time playing with Jesus. I can hear the laughter now. May God bless you and surround you with peace and love right now.
Betsy and Jonathan Jones
Tifton, GA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:03 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby in 1980. So many years have passed. It gets easier as time goes by, but she is in my heart all the time. I never had anymore children, but I am a daycare provider, so I give all my "other" children all the love I could have given her.
Debbie Parker <ddaycare@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, nc surry - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:21 PM CST
I was heartbroken to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Barbara and Tony Lawson <blawson1@planttel.net>
Chula, Ga - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:21 PM CST
We just recieved this email and it has broke our hearts. Just remember that God must have needed another angel in Heaven and he is finally free now. May God bless
you and your family.

Myrah Mayfield and Family <Myrahfromnc@webtv.net>
Morganton, NC US - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:15 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss of little precious Reese. I'm sure Jesus is cradling him in his arms as we speak and he's free of any pain he was going thru, just trust in that. I am praying for your family and may God bless you
Dawn Swinney <swinney@surry.net>
Lowgap, NC US - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:03 PM CST
A friend of mine just shared thie web site with me. As I read it I just cried at your story
and all the others who have lost sweet little angels! I am a parent of a special child and the thought of ever losing him is more than my heart could bear. You ministered to me with your strength and faith
in our Lord and Savior and your spritual wisdom of his healing and his new home in Glory!!!!
What a testimony the Lord has worked and is working in your life!!! It is such a blessing to
meet you and share in your loss and to shed tears, I hope you are able to let the tears flow and I pray
your heart remains soft and tender and that you will recieve all the Holy Spirit has for you!!!
I trust and pray for your healing as well, I can only imagine how diffecult it must be. But I am so grateful you realize where your strength comes from. You must have such a ministry with the ability to share your pain and faith with others. I think of 1 Cor !st chapter where it talks about the comfort we recieve from our tribulations and how we can share and comfort others who are going through similar situations. God knows exactly what He is doing, although we may suffer much pain during our breaking, He builds us up with such strength and comfort, we may suffer a broken heart but He has the perfect "Counselor"; the Holy Spirit who is always right there to offer us the most amazing hugs and kisses, better and more comforting than any earthly comparison. Again you have touched me deeply and I am honored and priviledged to have read your story. May your faith grow more and more and may you be so wrapped up in the Spirit of God that He keeps your chin up and you have and keep a smile of hope for your future reunion with your baby!!!!
God bless you from the top of your head to the tip of your toes and inside and out.
You are truly one of the most beautiful people I have ever met via cyber-space.


Debra Gray
Seagrove, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:01 PM CST
King David said, concerning the death of his son," I cannot bring him back, but I can go to Him!" Also, Romans 8:28 states: and we know that all things work together for good, to them that love the Lord, to them that are the called, according to His purpose.

Danny R. Leftwich <justus@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, N.C. USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:36 PM CST
My heart is with you. I am so sorry that you have lost your sweet angel. I so wish that it had turned out differently. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <arhimes@yahoo.com, www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:07 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear about your little one I was praying that he would pull through - he is with God now and can never feel pain again. He will meet you by the gates when you're time has come and he will lead you into heaven
Renee Ambrosen
Denver, Co USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:31 PM CST
I'm truly saddened by your loss. Unfortunately I know this pain all too well. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carolyn Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:18 PM CST
A great book for a greiving heart: Holding on to Hope by Nancy Guthrie It is about a mothers lose of a baby with a metabollic disorder and how it led her to the heart of God. Take care my new friend, be kind to yourself. Be sad as long as you need and know if you need an ear I am here.
Love, Nancy (Nolan's Mom)

Nancy Ramsey(Nolan Ramsey) www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 5:22 PM CST
May God be with yous.I truly believe that Reese is now in Gods arms where he is no longer sick.Will be thinking of yous and keep you in my prayers. Hugs Helen
HELEN PARODY <hparody@twcny.rr.com>
OGDENSBURG, N.Y. USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 5:15 PM CST
I know Reese is playing with angels right now and in no pain, but yours is beyond words. My family is praying for you and for God to give you the strength to go on. Please know he touched lives of people you have never met.
Cathie Lehocky, Texas Chapter (Hugs/Hope)
Houston, Tx USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 5:08 PM CST
I just found out about small little Reese yesterday. I looked in the Photo Album and he looked so sweet and loving. It breaks my heart to know he is gone. But we know he is with Jesus and we alwayz got to remember he had a big smile on his face when he entered HEAVEN and saw all the sparkiling angels. I am just so tore up about this. And it was his time to go. And it was God's plan 4 him. May God bless you and your family as God continues to do his plan.
And look up Reese is right there!!! Hey Reese!!!

Lindsey Goins <goinst@ntelos.net>
Ridgeway , VA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 5:02 PM CST
May the Lord wrap his Loving arms around your family and comfort you, May he give you the strength and courage to find peace with every new day.

God Bless your Family

All our Love & Prayers

Kelly & Tom Robinson
& Family

Kelly Robinson <www.caringbridge.org/mn/carcar>
Franklin, Mn - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 4:50 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear about Reese. I went to school with Doug, but just learned about Reese. I will keep your family in my prayers.

God Bless your family.

Tammy Hudson East <teast@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC United States - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:59 PM CST
You all are certainly in our prayers. We will be thinking about you during this difficult time. Lean on the Lord for your strength and peace.

Dianne Levens
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:49 PM CST
I am sorry to hear about your loss hope and pray that you and your family are doing fine. May the Lord bless you each moment of your lives.
Maria <m.reyes32@verizon.net>
Jersey City, NJ USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:43 PM CST
My prayers are with you in this time of sorrow...Reese will be missed greatly. The world is a better place to have held such a precious child like Reese...God speed little man!! With much love....
a stranger who you truely touched!!!!!
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:43 PM CST
I am sorry to hear about Reese. I am sure that he fought the best fight he could. I wish there was something I could do for you to take all of the tears and pain away. I don't know why our children have to endure all of this pain but I hope one day we will all know. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Trisha Athy <caringbridge.org/il/aaronathy>
Belleville , IL USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:36 PM CST
Hi,
I am a friend of Christy's (Brittney's mother)(www.caringbridge.org/nc/brittney). I am very sorry for your loss of your precious little one. I know it must be extremely hard for you to let your little one leave you and go into the arms of the Lord in Heaven. One of the hardest things for me to ever do as a friend was watch Christy let her beautiful baby girl go. I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss of precious little Reese. I hope you find some comfort in knowing that he is in a beautiful place now and feels no pain. The Lord is good to us, and He will take excellent care of your little one. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jodie Hyland
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:16 PM CST
My heart, prayers and thoughts go out to you. I am so sorry for the loss of your child. God Bless You!
Cindy Hicks- Family Service Counselor@Skyline Memory Gardens
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:15 PM CST
i love you reese and you are in my prays
kimberly collins
siloam, nc united states - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:11 PM CST
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry for your loss. I have been following Reece's story, and I felt like I knew him. Please know that you are in your thoughts and prayers.
Michelle Gruber <agruber@columbus.rr.com>
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:03 PM CST
I am so truly sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy. Your family will always be in our prayers and thoughts everyday.



Kim & Karl Kruppenbacher <KODYS STORY>
Leesburg, FL - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 3:00 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Reese! I came across Reese's address when reading Carter's guest book. I came to pray for Reese, and read God has called for another angel.
I wish I had of came earlier to get to know Reese. Reese sure is a cutie!
Thoughts and prayers with you and your family!

Amanda <baychick55@hotmail.com>
AB Canada - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:59 PM CST
May the Good Lord be with you during this difficult time. I will be praying that He comforts you during the days ahead!
We all know where Ressie is at this time and that truly is a comfort indeed!

Anthony Serio <ase1017@wmconnect.com>
Mocksville, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:56 PM CST
May God bless and grant you grace. We will be praying for you
Linnea & Leslie Sullivan <LSullivanJr@Triad.rr.com>
Belews Creek, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:45 PM CST
What amazing strength God must have seen in all of you... to have chosen you to be Reese's family. Reading through your website, I see just how many lives were (and are) touched by your precious little angel. He has certainly touched mine! Thank you so much for sharing him with us all. May God bless you and keep your faith strong. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela <agdduffy@aol.com>
Mobile, AL USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:28 PM CST
Shawn, Doug & Taylor:

I feel such deep sorrow for the loss of Reese for all of you. I actually got to meet Reese one time and the presence that he had will be with me forever along with that golden smile. I think that he was and is now truly an angel. May God give you the grace and peace to overcome this incredible loss and may you know that you have a multitude of friends that will help you along the way.

Love,

Cheryl

Cheryl Smoot
Winston-Salem, NC US - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:25 PM CST
Shawn and family: I pray that God gives all of you the strength that you need during this difficult time. Know that you will continue to be in my prayers. ResseCup is now a beautiful angel of God's. We should never question why,,,,but it's so hard when someone so tiny has suffered so much. He was truly an angel on earth also. Trust in God and he'll help you make the right decisions as he has already done.

If there's anything I can do, please don't hesitate to call me. Everyone in CIS sends their love and condolences and you will be remembered in our Monday prayer meeting at WEC.

Love you,


Lana Yountz <LanaYountz@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:21 PM CST
you and your family are in my thoughts and prays
kim young(missouri chapter head of hugs and hope) <lynnyn2@aol.com>
ofallon, mo usa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:19 PM CST
Thoughts & prayers are with you.
Candice Behm <candice333@netzero.net>
Portland, OR USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:12 PM CST
May you receive comfort in knowing your dear sweet child is in heaven where there is no suffering only joy. May your thoughts of him bring a smile to your face as you think about him in the future. My prayers are with you and your family.
Martha Fulp
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:06 PM CST
My heart really goes out to you and you will be in my thoughts and prayers for a long time to come!
Jennifer N. O'Neal <MommyofNicholas@aol.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:06 PM CST
Dear Coble Family,

While you do not know me, I just wanted to say how so very sorry I am over the loss of your precious baby Reese. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Price
Alabaster, AL - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:01 PM CST
A butterfly lights beside us
like a sunbeam,
And for a brief moment
it's glory and beauty
belong to our world.
But then it flies on again.
And though we wish
it could have stayed,
we feel so lucky
to have seen it.

just another person who is thinking of you today
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:53 PM CST
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,

I am thinking about you and praying that God will comfort you in your hour of grief. Everyone here in Chicago sends their love and prayers. Love you very much, see you soon.

God Bless All of You


Aunt Peggy <jdj28@aol.com>
Hammond, IN USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:51 PM CST
Im so sorry..I have no clue why mine posted so many times..Im not the sharpest pencil in the box ...
Becky
Sunrise, fl broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:48 PM CST
You are in my PRAYERS. God bless you.
Kenny Nichols <nicholk@rjrt.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:47 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:44 PM CST
Bye Bye Buddy...See you someday..Reese you sure have melted my heart with your huge smile..I dont know your mommy but im sure she has someone taking care of her..You go and have a blast,play on those golden streets.Love and hugs !!
Becky and Blessings

Becky Storey
sunrise, FL Broward - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:44 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your precious Reese. Our prayers are with you.
Tracy Murray and Skylar Saranchuk <ourlilsky@aol.com>
Wilkes Barre, Pa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:43 PM CST
I cannot find the words to express my feelings of sorrow for you and your family. So, I will not try. I just wanted you to know that our family will continue to keep everyone in our prayers and rejoice that your Reesecup is watching from high above (in the arms of Jesus). God Bless you! God called another beautiful Angel Home.
Harry, Jr., Pam, Matt and Kendra Folger

Pam Folger <pam.folger@wachovia.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:43 PM CST
I heard about your precious baby boy on Noelle and Nicholas' page...I visit from time to time...i wanted to express how sorry I am for your loss...know your family is in my prayers at this time...lean on God

Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:35 PM CST
I have been keeping up with Reese' progress the last few days. I had cold chills when I got the email today. We serve a mighty God who knows so much more than we do. Your precious child is in His hands, no greater place to be. I pray that you will find comfort in Him during this tough time! Jer. 29:11
Wanda King
Kernersville, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:33 PM CST
You have been and continue to be in my prayers.
Tonya Jackson <Tonya.Jackson@Bowebellhowell.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:27 PM CST
There are no words that I can say to help ease your pain, I know. May God bless you tremendously and help you daily to keep going and know that you will see your precious one again in His time. God bless you always.
Robin B. Hodges <robinhodges@marykay.com>
Lowgap, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:02 PM CST
Hey you guys, All I know to say is I'm sorry, We love you, & you are still in our prayers. Just trust in the LORD, and if there's anything you need just let me know (I mean it!).
Susan , Darrin, & Allison <dyountz@yahoo.com>
King, nc usa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:34 AM CST
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Janice Brown <jsmiley@conwaycorp.net>
Conway, AR - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:33 AM CST
Hello Coble family, you all don't know me but I am a friend of Jacob Deal's family. I have heard so much about little Reese through the things that Sharon has shared in her journal entries. I am so very sorry to hear that little Reese lost his battle. My heart just broke when I heard the news. I have a 10 y/o and a 3 y/o old and I know how precious our little ones are. Please know that you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. You are such an inpiration with your faith and your strength and thank you for sharing your precious Reese with so many who did not actually know him. God bless you all!
Barbara Lovelace <barbaral9300@adelphia.net>
Collinsville, VA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:31 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor, Toni, Uncle Andy, and the rest of the Coble family. My heart goes out to all of you. May God give you the "PEACE" that passeth all understanding.

I have become very attached to your family through your website, and have shed lots of tears today. May God comfort you in the days ahead...

Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:28 AM CST
I am so very sorry about your loss and your pain. I will continue to pray for your family. Your entry was beautiful and sweet as only a loving mother could have written. Please remember that there are many people who love and care for Reese and your family.

Much love and many prayers,

Wendy Ruth

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:23 AM CST
I am a friend of Jody Poolman, Charles City, Iowa. I send you my deepest sympathy--losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to us parents--may the happy memories of your little boy keep you strong; may the love of God keep you strong. "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." Peace.
Mrs. Lori TePaske <tepaske@rconnect.com>
Charles City, IA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:21 AM CST
May God bless Reese, May all the Angels and all the Masters
accompany Reese on his Way, and May all who knew him learn
what he came to this world to teach......
Marcella's family is with you

Simonetta, Livia, Marco, Saverio, Lavinia,Elio and many more
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:20 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Rest peacefully Daniel

Penny Yanaky
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:19 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor, Toni, and family, I wanted to express my deepest sadness, concern, and sympathy to all of you. Reese meant so much to me even though we have not met personally. You and your family are such an inspiration and have touched many lives including mine. I will remember you in my thoughts and prayers. Love in Christ....
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:18 AM CST
Words cannot express how sorry I am that your little baby boy lost his battle. Your family has fought hard and now the battle is over. Your sweet Reese gets to look into God's beautiful face. I will pray for your families strength... but have joy in knowing you will hold your sweet Reese again and he will no longer be in any pain.

Anna Willis <Pcprincess@ameritech.net>
Bridgeview, IL USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:14 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,

I am Nolan Ramsey's aunt. I talked with Nancy last night and was so sorry to hear about little Reese. Even with your strong faith, I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child. As I read through the guestbook this morning I saw so many wonderful words of encouragement and support. Although I've never met Reese, it's obvious that he has truly transformed the lives of many people.

I believe with all my heart that Reese was sent on a mission to strengthen us spiritually and to draw us closer together in the knowledge and love and fellowship of God. It has been said that sorrow never leaves us where it found us. In the short time that our family has been dealing with Nolan's diagnosis, I am becoming grateful to God for the privilege of learning some great lessons of truth through His tiny messengers.

Thank you for sharing his life with us through your journal entries. What a great soul you are! To find the very joy of God in what might otherwise have been an overwhelming tragedy to many other families.

My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Michelle Strayer
(Nolan Ramsey's Aunt 'Chelle')
<http://www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey/>
Dallas, TX USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 12:08 AM CST
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am a member of Bannertown Baptist Church and we have been praying for your family through this and will continue to pray for you all. God has a plan, just keep your faith.
YSIC <><

Breann Journey <breann_volleyball_2001@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:28 AM CST
Just to let you know that you guys are in our thoughts and prayers...
Denny & Donna Faw ( BUBBA )
Thomasville, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:24 AM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby.
Elaine
Maryville, TN USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:13 AM CST
God saw you were getting tired
And a cure was not to be,
So He put His arms around you
And whispered,"Come to Me."
With tearful eyes we watched you
And saw you slip away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working body at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He takes only the best.

In loving memory of:
Reese Daniel Coble

VICKI THORE
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:02 AM CST
Deepest heartfelt sympathy to the family
of Reese Coble. My prayers all with you
all.

Lisa V. Presley <Lisagvmp2002@aol.com>
Palm Bay, FL USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 11:00 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Shawn, your entry on Reese's passing was such a combination of sweetness, sadness and hope. We will continue praying that "the peace of God which passes all understanding" would be yours today.

God Bless you all.

Kelly and Terrell Stephens
Mt Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:58 AM CST
I pray that God will help you & your family thru this very trying time...I can not begin to image the choices you've had to make...I have a 2 year old myself & I'll keep you in my thoughts & prayers..May God Bless & Comfort you all
Stan & Shannon Newman <SNEWMAN@triad.rr.com>
Dobson, nc Surry - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:55 AM CST
You and your family have our most heartfelt sympathy. May the Lord be with you during this difficult time. You are in our prayers.
Mark, Tamara, Clay, & David Lee <mtcd@conninc.com>
Newton, NC US - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:38 AM CST
Doug,Shawn,Taylor & Family, My heart goes out to each one of you. We have been praying for you daily. Reese was a real trooper, he has been such a blessing to everyone. He is your little guardian angel! God will continue to be with you and give you the strength and courage to get through this, I know this is the hardest thing you will ever have to face. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jimmy,Rhonda, & Zachary Ashburn
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:37 AM CST
I AM SO VERY SORRY THAT YOU HAD TO GIVE UP REESE.BUT NOW YOU HAVE YOUR VERY OWN ANGEL UP THERE SMILING DOWN ON YOU.I HOPE THAT YOU ARE COMFORTED KNOWING THAT WHERE HE IS NOW, HE IS NO LONGER SUFFERING,AND HE IS WITH OTHER LITTLE ANGELS AND OUR LORD. ALL OF YOU TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU.
VICKI THORE
PILOT MOUNTAIN, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:29 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
We have never met but I am Nancy Ramsey's good friend from Texas and have been praying for you since she found you. My heart is heavy for your loss but I know God is working and Reese has no more pain and suffering. Thank you for allowing total strangers witness your courage and strength through this whole journey. My prayers will continue for your sweet family as you press on. Thank you for all you have meant to the Ramsey's and if there is anything I can possibly do for you, p1lease let me know. Thank you again for sharing your precious Reese with us. I feel as if I knew him from all you have shared and what Nancy has shared with me.

Holly Strickland <hoddyg@ev1.net>
Katy, Tx - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:24 AM CST
May God comfort you and give you peace. I'm so sorry to hear of your lose. You have my deepest sympathy. I will pray for you and your family
Rebecca Barlow <bbarlow@woodlawnbaptist.org>
Conover, NC Catawba - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:23 AM CST
To the Coble family,
During this sad time, praying you will find comfort in each happy memory and in the assurance of heaven. "Do not let your hearts be troubled, Trust in God..." John 14:1
In Christian love,
Crossroads United Methodist Church
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:22 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
We have never met but I am Nancy Ramsey's good friend from Texas and have been praying for you since she found you. My heart is heavy for your loss but I know God is working and Reese has no more pain and suffering. Thank you for allowing total strangers witness your courage and strength through this whole journey. My prayers will continue for your sweet family as you press on. Thank you for all you have meant to the Ramsey's and if there is anything I can possibly do for you, p1lease let me know. Thank you again for sharing your precious Reese with us. I feel as if I knew him from all you have shared and what Nancy has shared with me.

Holly Strickland <hoddyg>
Katy, Tx - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:14 AM CST
i am so sorry to here about reese, i prayed so hard last night that he would be healed. god has healed reese in his own way, and now to know that, this little angel will never suffer pain again. my thoughts and prayers are with your family.
debbie mongar
torrance, ca - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 10:05 AM CST
Shawn, me and my family are praying for you and your family. Reece was and is a blessing to everyone who had a chance to know him. Thank you for letting me meet him and I will never forget that sweet smile. We all love you and are here for you always.
Crysta Scott and Jordan Scott <cscott20@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC United States - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:59 AM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Angel Reese,

I am a friend of Wendy Baber's. Wendy and I were walking yesterday, and she told me about Reese. I am so sorry to hear that he lost his battle.

There are no words that can help to ease the pain and emptiness that you must be feeling. But, I hope that you know that many people are keeping Reese and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

I pray that God gives you the strength that you need during this difficult time.

Lynn Kanode <lbk3767@alltel.net>
Pfafftown, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:56 AM CST
I have prayed for Reese every morning and evening since I visited your sight about two weeks ago. I can not express to you the depth of sadness that I feel knowing that you lost your precious baby boy. Do you know the song, "Holes in the Floor of Heaven?" Reese is your special guardian angel now, and will always be with you, in spirit if not in body. He touched so many people that he never even knew with that beautiful smile on his website. I will continue to pray for your family as you heal from this terrible loss.
cheryl stinson <cstinson@pineygrove.stokes.k12.nc.us>
King, nc usa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:54 AM CST
Words can not even begin to convey my sympathies to your family. I know you do not know me but I have been following Reese's story through a friend that works for Pilot Mtn. I just want to send my prayers and condolences out to your family and please know that God has a purpose for Reese. I am so glad for the time you got to spend with Reese while he was here. He was BEAUTIFUL! Always remember he is with you at all times and always will be with you. He touched many people's hearts, even this stranger. May God bless and help your family through this heart-wrenching loss. You will remain in my prayers. It enlightens me to know that we now have an angel known by the name Reesie Cup to help look out over us and be that gentile breeze that blows through our hair and across our face which seems to come from nowhere unexpectedly.
Ramona Gammons <Wynnonarock@aol.com>
Walnut Cove, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:41 AM CST
Shawn, Doug and Toni,
I hope that you all are doing the best you can this morning. I am so sad for you guys last night all I did was hold Jaxson as close as I could and cry because I now know how precious his little life is. I prayed so many times that Reese and Jaxson would get to meet and play one day. I will continue to stay in touch with you guys, because you have touch my heart in so many ways. Shawn, I can not image how you are couping ...just know so many people are thinking of you! There is a song I think you would like for you to hear..it is beautiful! Go to www.joshgroban.com at the bottom of the home page click on the number 1 and listen to that song, as I listen to it I think of you and Reese. The title is "Up to where you are" All my love...see you soon.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:32 AM CST
I have come to know a bit about Reese through Hunter's website. I know that he is in Heaven now with all the other angels, but I ask God to give you, those who loved him so much, comfort and strength for the days ahead.
I do not know you and yet I love you.

Mary Ellen Wofford <mary.wofford@mayo.edu>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:21 AM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & family, Think of him as living, in the hearts of those he touched....for nothing loved is ever lost, and he was loved so much........
LOVE YOU GUYS. God bless you all.
A little boy~
A special friend
A little fighter
Right to the end~
*****************
Gone from our lives~
But not from our heart
We'll keep you there always
Like we have from the start~


Noreen (Reese's Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:20 AM CST
Good morning to all of you. Sharon has done a wonderful job keeping us up to date about your little Reese Cup. It saddens me greatly to know that he has left you, but we can rejoice too! He's probably chasing butterflys and angels right now! May God be with you as you go through this. I pray he gives you peace to know that Reese cup is doing Fine. Take care and God bless
Wanda <davidsplainvagirl@yahoo.com>
Manassas, VA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:14 AM CST
It broke my heart when I pulled up the website this morning and read your journal entry for Monday. My heart goes out to the entire family.

Doug, you and Shawn have shown a tremendous amount of love, strength, & support throughout each long day you've encountered with little Reese's short time here on earth. Everyone signing this guestbook is so very fortunate to have had the opportunity you've given of sharing his precious life. He touched so many lives that he never knew.

May God be with you........

Lori W. Hooker <lhooker3@triad.rr.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:11 AM CST
My heart breaks for you during this difficult time. I do not know you - but have followed your entries - and truly admire your faith and strength. You will come through this - with the Lord's help. My thought and prayers are constantly with you and your family. May God Bless you.


Gina Trivette <trivette@energyunited.net>
Statesville, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:04 AM CST
There are no words that can express the sorrow I am feeling for your family at this time. At the same time we can rejoice for Reesiecup for he is in the presence of his Lord where there is no pain and suffering. The sorrow is for those left behind. When my mother died suddenly and without warning five years ago, I did not think I could survive the pain of that loss. Only with God's help did I manage to get up and face each new day and realize as time went on that life is a gift not to be taken for granted. I can tell you that you will not ever "get over" not having Reese with you, but praise God, it will get easier to bear and you will once again find joy. May God bless and keep you and give you peace in the days ahead. We will not forget your precious Reese.
Debra Perry - Nurse Bethany's Mom <dperry@apollochemical.com>
Burlington, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 9:00 AM CST
May you and your family draw on the strength of the Lord at this very difficult time, God bless you all and keep you very close.
Melinda
winston-salem, nc usa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:35 AM CST
So very sorry for the loss of your precious little son. I pray you feel God's arms of love holding you.
Dixie Bly <Dixiebly@aol.com>
Boiling Springs, SC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:34 AM CST
~~~Toni~~~
God gave you your little nephew~
for just a little while
He put a bit of Heaven~
In the sunshine of his smile.

You loved him like a mommy~
You knew his every cry
You watched him become a angel~
You wished he didn't die.

He loved you like a mommy~
He cherished all your love
He watches you Aunt Toni~
He sends "kisses" from above.

So when you see a star so bright~
And feel the warm air of the night
Know "Reesecup" is smiling bright
And sending YOU a special light~
"I LOVE YOU"!!! (Noreen)

Noreen (Reesecup's Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:31 AM CST
my thoughts and prayers are with you
(I work at the Pilot Mtn PD, Sharon has kept me updated)

Amanda Kirkman <mekirkman416@yahoo.com>
King, nc USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:21 AM CST
My prayers go out to you and your family at this most difficult time in your life..... I am positive my daughter Tiffanie is in heaven holding Reese's hand....
Hugs and Prayers.....
Deneen
Mom to Tiffanie Salvadia Forever in Heaven
www.caringbridge.org/pa/us

Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@aol.com>
Enola, PA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:19 AM CST
Doug,Shawn,and Taylor always remember that Reese was such a cute and loveable baby that loved ya'll so much. Now he is one of God's Angels and your Guardian Angel forever. I'm truly sorry for your lost.
jenifer watkins <jenifer.watkins@amsouth.com>
calera, al united states - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:11 AM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor & Family,
I am so sorry about baby Reese, he is truly a little angel of God. I will continue to keep all of you in my prayers. I have truly seen the grace of God magnified in your lives. There is a song that a Southern Gospel group sings called Jesus has a Rocking Chair. I listened to it on the way home yesterday. It talks about how Jesus has a rocking chair and how he is holding your precious baby in his arms. It says in the song that He is the best parent a child could ever have. I know that baby Reese is in Jesus arms now and He will take care of him until you can be with him again. God is faithful and He will see you all through this difficult time.

Bonnie Fulk <bonnie.fulk@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 8:02 AM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor and family,
My heart breaks deeply for you during this time. I'm not pretending to know how you feel. I know that God has burdened me for you. Reese was such a blessing to so many people. There are millions of people who live long lives and don't begin to touch people the way that Reese did in his short life. Your faith in the Almighty God has been a testimony throughout your struggle and has definitely been a testimony to me. I want to thank you for sharing you walk through this valley, because it has awaken parents of healthy children to the fact of how blessed they truly are. I just cannot express to you how much you and Reese have touched and changed my life for the better. I know that Jesus has relieved the pain, suffering and struggling that Reese has gone through, but I also know that you are hurting. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and thoughts. May the Holy Spirit comfort you and the peace of God envelope you during your time of sorrow and may the joy of the Lord find you.
Love in Christ,
Kim Barker

Kim Barker <kim.barker@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:58 AM CST
My heart aches so deeply for your loss. I would faithfully check Reese's site daily to see what improvements he was making and was praying sooooo hard that those improvements would come. You were and are an incredible source of inspiration to me as I watched you face such difficult adversity with your baby. I will hug my children tonight with the love you hugged Reese. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Take Care and God Bless,
Renee Curkendall

www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <RCurk@aol.com>
Liverpool, NY - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:58 AM CST
Dear Doug, Shawn, and Taylor,
Please accept our sympathy during this difficult time. We pray that God's peace will surround you and comfort you.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:56 AM CST
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not to thine own understanding. In all the ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5,6
So very sorry for your loss. Our hearts & prayers are with you all. Barb
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon

Barb
Sanford, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:53 AM CST
Shawn, I am so sorry to hear about Reese. Donna Hanes has kept me up-to-date on him since I left the bank and I read this morning that he has passed away. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.


Anna LeJeune
High Point, NC 27265 - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:50 AM CST
Shawn & family, I check your site everyday, sometimes more than once. You have been SOOO strong through all of this. I am so sorry for your loss, but precious little Reese will not have to suffer anymore. I will continue to pray for you and check your site. Love and prayers.
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:48 AM CST
Shawn, Doug & Taylor, May God rest his hand on you and your family to heal your hearts. Reese was an adorable little boy and all our lives have been bettered by having him in our lives, even if we didn't actually know him, he has touched us all. I am continuing to pray for you and your family.
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:40 AM CST
Although I don't know you or your family, I know Jacob and have been keeping up with Reese on this web page. I do know how you feel because I was faced with those tough decisions myself three years ago when Jesus walked in the room and took my baby home as well. I wish that I could tell you that time will heal, but the hole in your heart will stay. I am writing to tell you that Jesus is so good and faithful. His plan is perfect, although we will never understand on this side of heaven. I want to prepare you for the battle of your life - it begins now. Each day, remember that Reese already won his battle when Jesus took him to heaven. More importantly, remember all the lives that were changed by knowing him. Reese was chosen.........so were YOU!!! Jesus loved you so much that he knew even in the face of death, you would love, trust, and believe in HIM> I encourage you to remain faithful to His love -- He has carried me everyday, and given me the strength to continue to touch others because of my struggles. That's how I know that I must write you now. I share your pain and tell you that your journey will continue as you will experience so many more emotions in the coming days and years.................I am so sorry, and my heart bleeds for you all, and yet, I know that is a weak comment compared to what you have endured. Just know that I don't even know you, and I know what a woman of God you are to have been chosen to be Reese's mom.............You will always be his mom, and hold tight to the promise that when we get there - our sons will come running to meet us..........with smiles and healthy bodies!! I live for that day. If you need anything, or ever want to talk to anyone that would understand - feel free to contact me. God Bless you and your family,
Anne Norman <anorman@sitestar.net>
Martinsville, VA USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:39 AM CST
I can't possibly know your pain, but know that I pain for you. No parent should out live their child. I and my family and my church will pray that you will be comforted. Reese pains no more. He has gone home and awaits you, so that you may wrap your arms around him once more. God Bless.
Jim Williams
Lexington, NC Davidson - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:34 AM CST
I am tremendously overwhelmed right now at the news I received off Cody's page about Reese, however, I must be honest. I could feel your strength in what you had written and you are a much better Christian than I would be. Dear God only knows the pain you're enduring right now, but please be aware that you are not alone. NEVER ALONE. You can call upon any of us at any time!! God bless your little angel to the utmost high and God bless you and the rest of your family.
Lisa Stagner ( Cole's mom ) <Lisa_M_Stagner@yahoo.com>
Verona, VA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:34 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss and I will be praying for you and your family. Reece is a cutie pie and someone will be really lucky to have him as their gaurdian angel.
annette reece <areece@advi.net>
mount airy, nc usa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:33 AM CST
You have all been in my thoughts and prayers ever since I learned about Reece. I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm grateful that you have a wonderful, comforting faith that lets you know that Reece is finally healthy and living forever in Heaven - and that one day you'll all be together again. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers.
Robin Danner (Amy Mabe's sister)
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:32 AM CST
My condolences for your loss. Reese was a fighter and gave it everything he could. He is at peace and no longer sick or in pain. Now he will look upon you and provide such protection as only a loving child can.
Susan Wensel
- Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:30 AM CST
I am praying for you and your family everyday. One day we all will get to see Reece. God bless and take care.
hinson <hinsonfamily@surry.net>
dobson, nc usa - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:25 AM CST
I am very sorry to hear about Reese this morning. I learned about Reese thru a friend at work and having been following him for some time now. I know your heart breaks at this time, but be comforted as you know that sweet little Reece rest in the arms of the angels and is warmed by the glory of God.. My God keep you and yours close to him. We will contiune to pray for your family
Tracie Cadiente <tracie.cadiente@gmacinsurance.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:23 AM CST
You are all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. What a hard decision to make. May God keep his arms around you always and know that Reese will live forever with his King.
Nancy Gross <nancy.gross@gmacinsurance.com>
Burlington, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:16 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss and I want you to know that I am praying for you daily. He is with God now and feels no pain or suffering and he is waiting to see you one day.
Melissa Butcher <melissaso4@hotmail.com>
Dobson, NC US - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:06 AM CST
hey lady..I am so sorry for your loss. You have shown strength and courage I can only dream of....I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Donna Hanes <donna.hanes@wachovia.com>
Clemmon, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:03 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. You did the right thing.I know it is tough to make the right decision.May God bless you & carry you through this trying time.You are in my prayers.

God speed Reese!

Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 7:00 AM CST
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious little ANGEL Reese. God had bigger and better plans for him in heaven where he will have no more sickness no more pain.He is up in heaven with his Papa R.D now looking over all of you. You all are in our thoughts and prayers and if we can do anything for you please let us know. God Bless you all and may he give you all the strength you need to get through this.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:57 AM CST
You were graced with the presence of a little angel " Reese ". We all know that you as parents were chosen for your strength and love to care for Reese. God knows your pain and so do I. My daughter Victoria Lynn Slate died at 3 months and 25 days. It will be very hard for next few months. We know where Reese is, he is with my daughter and our Lord in Heaven. The days ahead will be hard and years will pass but the memories will forever be there. I pray God will comfort your family everyday of your lives. God bless you and keep you safe.
Roger Slate Jr
Germanton, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:55 AM CST
I am sorry to hear about Reese, You and your family are in my prayers. I have been following Reese's story everyday, I know I haven't been signing the guest book, but everyday I checked to see how Reese was doing. I know Reese is up with the angels.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:45 AM CST
Reese is now in heaven, playing with our grandson Michael. They are playing in the sun with the Son. May God give you the strength to get through these times. God bless you all.
When our turn comes to go home they'll be waiting at the gates of heaven for us all.

Larry and Glenda Allen <lafretired@cs.com>
Easley, SC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:40 AM CST
Hello. I'm a friend of Marcia Rogers. I have been following Reece's battle. He was a beautiful child on Earth and I know a beautiful angel in Heaven. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you now, as it has over the months that have passed. It takes strong and wonderful parents to go through this. God bless you.
Birgit Blythe
King, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:37 AM CST
I know you don't know me but I have been keeping up with Reese for awhile now. I have been praying for you daily, sometimes hourly. I don't know what to say.....So many people before seem to have said it all. I just wanted you to know that my heart is so saddened by your loss. Little Reese touched the lives of so many that didn't even know him. As I read your journal entry I could envision you holding your precious baby. The tears just rolled down my cheeks. I wish I could help in some way. I hope the LORD will comfort you and your family in the days that come. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. Tracy Rayner
Tracy Rayner <TRayner@maine.rr.com>
Scarborough, ME - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 5:42 AM CST
Shawn and family,
Words cannot express the overwhelming feeling of sorrow I feel for your family. Reese was truly an angel on earth and now in heaven. He taught me a great deal about compassion and faith. Your family is so special, please keep supporting each other! I knew I would get attached to a patient and it would be hard to let go, I just didn't think it would happen this soon. I will forever treasure the picture of Reese and I together, he with that wide grin and beautiful bald head! I found myself asking why? today. I don't have an answer, but I still know that God is good. I almost didn't wear the pin that Toni gave me to work today that says "Keep believing". (I was to angry) But then I realized that we must keep believing to get through this tough time. We didn't give up on Reese. I will pray for you always and I know I will see you all again!
I loved Reesecup too.
Bethany

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:50 AM CST
You don't know me. I'm just a good friend of Jody Poolman's. She mentioned your family on her site. Reese was a very handsome little man. I'm sure he provided you with many days of great joy.

This probably won't help much, but, I lost my Dad when he was to young to die. He was only 55. Family and especially children were his greatest joy. Everyone in my home town loved my Dad. His funeral had a large turnout. What does this all lead up to? Reese has a wonderful man up in Heaven that is bouncing Reese on his knee right now and telling him the Cubs are gonna win the World Series this year. I know my Dad will help take great care of your little sweetheart.

My prayers are with you.

Randy Pooler

Randy Pooler <swimming@wf.quik.com>
Sheppard AFB, TX U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:46 AM CST
I have been reading your updates daily. I've been praying so hard, but God had other plans for Reese. I know there are no words I can say that will take the pain away for you and your family. One thing we know for sure,is that Baby Reese is smiling in Heaven with all the other angels. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. My Love,Prayers,and sympathy to you and your family.
Marilyn McHone <Merniemm@aol.com>
King, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 2:38 AM CST
I don't know you personally but have been following Reese's story and praying for you all. I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet son and brother--he was a strong and amazing little boy whose life touched so many others. I'll keep on praying for you in the days to come along with all the others who've come to know your little angel.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:54 AM CST
We are so sorry for your loss and know there must be a huge void in your lives, but as you said you are better people for having known Reese and that is why you will heal ,hour by hour . My prayers are with you both and Reese was so fortunate to have had such loving parents. God Bless.
Diane McClure ( Isobel,s grandma)

Diane Mcclure
St.Albert Ab, Ab Canada - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:46 AM CST
What a precious child! And how lucky he was to have you two for parents and all those loving family members and friends there for him each step of his journey. Thank you for sharing your story. Although I don't know the words to make anything better right now, please know that you are still being lifted up in prayer by my family. May God bless you and give you strength as you face the coming days.
With love,

Ann Marie Edmonds & Jason Sheets <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 1:11 AM CST
Coble family, The Quilting Angels at Smile Quilts are so very sorry for your loss. Reese was such a beautiful baby, and I know the Angels in Heaven are preparing a feast to welcome this child. May God's presence be with you and guide you through this troubled time. Prayers for the family. Sprite for Smile Quilts.

Sprite <sprite@tds.net>
Eckert, Colorado USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 0:26 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. What a sweet angel heaven has gained. I pray that the precious memories you have of Reese lend you strenght during this very sad and difficult time. May God be with you,
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 0:24 AM CST
Reese touched so many in such a short time... We wish with all our hearts that there was something we could do to make this easier on you and your family and to somehow take the pain away. Please know that you all are in our prayers... Love ~ Melanie, Steve, Jacob, & Matthew
The Irish's <mairish@hotmail.com>
Marysville, WA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:47 PM CST
My heart grieves for your loss. Only those who have lost loved ones know the term 'broken heart' is literal. I pray God holds Baby Reese's family in his loving arms through these hardest days of your lives. Please know that God used little Reese to bring all of us closer to him. People that don't normally pray daily prayed for that beautiful precious child and now are praying for his dear family. Bless you all.

Donna DiFalco <ddifalco@webtv.net>
Fort Lauderdale, FL USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:35 PM CST
I have no words to convey just how sorry I am that you have to experience this horrible loss. I prayed that you would be spared this grief. I know that Reese is in God's arms healthy and happy. I hope all of you will find comfort and peace in the days to come. If I can be of any help to you please let me know. I was out of town and didn't get Christy's message till I got home. Unfortunately I had decided to stop by to see you all at Duke before coming home Monday night but Reese had already died. I am so sorry that I arrived too late to see him. Again if I can do anything please let me know. My heart truly aches for you.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Monday, March 10, 2003 11:19 PM CST
I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD COMFORT YOU.

http://www.caringbridge.org/al/jackson

Kristal Dickson(HUGSANDHOPE ALABAMA CHAPTER) <kdickson39@aol.com>
Wilmer, Al USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:14 PM CST
Shawn, Doug & Taylor,
I cannot tell you how deeply my heart hurts for you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are
with you.
I wrote a poem when my little Marion went to be with the Lord. It seems appropriate to me for this
to be your's and Reese's poem now.

MY ANGEL
To an Angel I once gave birth,
A child that God called home.
Maybe he was just too good for this earth,
And God wanted him by His throne.

I know He gave him angel wings,
And a gown of glossamer white.
I know his precious baby voice sings,
His praises both day and night.

Someday when my life on earth is done,
And I am by God's throne.
I'll once again hold that tiny one,
My baby that God called home.

Take comfort in the Lord, may He bless you now and always. I am praying that His peace will settle
upon you and that you always feel His presence in your lives.
Much Love,
Aunt Cathy and family

Cathy Young <Tocaone@aol.com>
Summerfield, NC US - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:12 PM CST
God Bless you all. I am deeply sorry for the loss of your sweet little boy. He is now in heaven above and knows how much he is loved. May God give you his grace during this difficult time.
Kim Bottoms is my friend and had asked me to pray for little Reese. She was very upset today when she got the news and even though I don't know you personally I felt the same way.

Love,

Tonya

Tonya Joyce <joyctb@aol.com>
Germanton, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:49 PM CST
So sorry to hear about Reese. He has blessed your life, and you blessed his life. Praying for you all as you go thru difficult times.
Patti
- Monday, March 10, 2003 10:36 PM CST
Today was the first day I visited your site, I thought and prayed for your baby Reese all day. I was so sadden to see he passed away. I'm so sorry for your loss. I sit here with tears, I'm so sorry. May God Bless you and your family.
Rebecca <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Texas - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:35 PM CST
I don't know what I can say that hasn't already been said in the hundreds of entries before mine. Every time I visited your site I would just sit and look at the picture of Reese in the Green Peas hat and it would make me smile to look at his adorable, smiling face and sparkling eyes. He is going to be a beautiful angel. I know this is the hardest day of your life and that nothing will take your deep pain and sorrow away but I was hoping that by adding to the hundreds of entries you already have that the knowledge of all the lives that Reese has touched would help in some way. May God and your family help you through your grief. Reese is at Peace. Leigh

Leigh Greenberg
Scarborough, Me. - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:32 PM CST
You are in my prayers.
Elizabeth Goodwin
Richland, WA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:32 PM CST
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Reese has touched many people's hearts as is evidenced by all the guestbook entries.I will pray that God will guide you during this dificult time.
Sincerely
Grace Caruso

Grace Caruso -Krabbe Family Network <grace.caruso@verizon.net>
Brooklyn , NY - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:25 PM CST
I don't know what to say except I Love You all. Papa RD has his little man with him now. Hang in there guys.
Lewis Cassell <lewiscassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:22 PM CST
Safely Home

I am home in heaven, dear ones;
Oh so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in heaven at last.

Did you wonder how I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh, but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.

And he came himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's will.

There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remains,
You shall rest in Jesus' land.

When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!

Percious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. Psalm 116:15

Michael Davis <michael_r_davis@sbcglobal.net>
Dallas , TX USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:18 PM CST
We just arrived to Durham and had hoped to have met on a more festive occasion
So it is with the heaviest of hearts that we introduce ourselves to you at this time, of what must be the most difficult of times, we pray that the LORD continues to bless you with the courage and perseverance, that HE has been throughout your challenges.


Tayyaba & Zarrar Beg <tayyaba.beg@verizon.net>
Teaneck, NJ USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:12 PM CST
You don't know and I don't know you. I don't know what kind of comfort or what to say to you being 17 and all. All I know is that hundreds of people have been touched by Reese and your family, that your an inspiration to everyone. Reese is in Heaven now, and he'll always be looking down on you. Just remember to look up at him and believe in miracles!
Danielle Rogers <wishonastar86@hotmail.com>
Reading, MN USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:09 PM CST
We are so sorry to hear of Reese's passing. We will pray for your family. We just lost our daughter a few weeks ago....we know your pain.
God Bless-
Alison Haddock mom to Angel Alexandria
www.caringbridge.com/page/alexandriasangels

Alison Haddock <AGHaddock@msn.com>
St. Louis, MO - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:00 PM CST
We are so sorry. May God be with you and offer comfort and strength. You will continue to be in our prayers. Reese was a cutie. He was lucky to have such a wonderful, loving family to share his time with. I only regret that it was so short. I feel blessed to have known him. Let us know if there is anything we can do.
Love, Kim, Dean, and Braden


And it shall come to pass in the day that the LORD shall give thee rest from thy sorrow, and from thy fear, and from the hard bondage wherin thou wast made to serve.
Isaiah 14:3

When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid: yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet.
Proverbs 3:24

Kim (Bond) Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:58 PM CST
Shawn, I hope that the hug helped in some way. I wish there was more that I could do for you all. I totally agree with Laura in saying that heaven got a SPECIAL ANGEL today. Scott and I both feel like our hearts are breaking into. We have both cried for you and your family, while asking WHY? Please know that I am here anytime you need me. Whether it is to talk, cry , or just whatever. We love you all! GOD BLESS YOU!
Love, Sharon & Scott <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:50 PM CST
My heart is so heavy. I just found out about this beautiful child today, & the smile on his face in the photo has taken our breath away. What a sweet beautiful boy. We prayed today for your son. We feel like we know him, its odd. He has touched our lives this day. Our hearts are grieved to hear of your loss. We are so saddend. He has touched us even here. May the Lord use this for good. May He be glorified! We will be praying for you daily, for Gods grace & Strength.

2 Cor. 5:6,8 Knowing that wilest we are at home in the body, we are absent from teh Lord: We are confident that to be absent from the body, is to be present with the Lord.

Rev. 21:4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes, & there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain; for the former things are passed away.

Mat. 5:4 blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.

Rejoicing In Him, Patrizia (a friend of Lynn Worly)

Patrizia <werpostal7@juno.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:49 PM CST
Shawn, your entry this afternoon was beautiful! I still do not know where you get the strength to write in the midst of the most difficult day of your life! The thought of you holding Reese as he passed on into Gods hands just made my heart hurt for you so bad. Reese is a special boy to have such a wonderful family, and I and sure he felt all of you present today. You have been such a source of inspiration to so many! I am still at a loss for words, searching for the word to say is so hard.

To your entire family we are praying for you and wish you peace. God Bless




Robin Tucker
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:49 PM CST
Hi - you don't know me, but I too send my most heartfelt condolences - I have no idea how much this hurts you, as I write this my own tears I cannot hold back. My prayers are with you - your precious little angel is no longer in pain - because of him and the other children there I have decided to become a blood/bone marrow donor. My hope is to be used; and I spread the word to as many as I can. Please know my prayers are with you.
a friend of Cody's
fort lauderdale, FL usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:47 PM CST
DON'T CRY MOMMY...

I know your heart is broken,
from the pain of losing me...
but Mommy, I’m so happy,
if only you could see.

There are angels all around me,
with flowers in their hair...
this place is filled with beauty,
God’s love is everywhere.

He spared me from the sorrow,
that your earth has come to know...
so please don’t worry, Mommy,
'cause Jesus loves me so.

Heaven’s light shines brightly,
on my little angel face...
if only you could see me,
your pain would be erased.

Such happiness is waiting,
and one day you will see...
we'll finally meet in heaven,
forever, you and me.


Alicia & Tommy Bennett -- Lumberhead@twinwolf.net <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:46 PM CST
FAMILY, MAY GOD BE WITH YOU. I WANT YOU TO KNOW I TOO PRAYED FOR LITTLE REECE AND ALL OF YOU. MY HEART IS HEAVY. I DON'T KNOW YOU BUT YOU ALL HAVE LAID HEAVY ON MY HEART SINCE I FIRST VISITED THIS SITE. WE DON'T KNOW WHAT THE REASON IS, BUT WE KNOW WHO IS IN CHARGE, AND HE KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING. WE MAY NOT UNDERSTAND IT, MAY NOT NEVER UNDERSTAND IT. BUT ONE DAY AFTER A WHILE, YOU WILL SEE HIM AGAIN. I CAN'T HELP BUT THINK OF THE VERSE "JESUS WEPT", HE WEPT BECAUSE OF THE PAIN OF LAZARUS' SISTERS WERE ENDURING AFTER THE DEATH OF LAZARUS. I'M SURE HE WEEPS FOR YOU ALSO. BUT REECE IS IN GOD'S CARE NOW. HE WILL NEVER ACHE NO MORE. HIS SUFFERING IS OVER. JUST LOOK TO THE LORD. IF HE LEADS YOU TO IT, HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH IT. MAY GOD BE WITH ALL OF YOU TODAY AND ALL OF THE DAYS TO COME. YOU ARE STILL IN MY PRAYERS.
BECKY WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:45 PM CST
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGHT YOU NEED TO GET THOUGHT THIS.
PENNY
bassett, vA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:35 PM CST
My heart is broken for your loss. Our second son died 2 days after he was born. It has been 30 years and I still miss him. Andrew was God's child and only on loan to us for a short time. Your loving care for Reese was all God ask of you while he was on loan to you from God. You were blessed to have had him. May God be with you and all of those who loved Reese. What a beautiful child. Laura and Neal (friends of Morgan Barnes)
laura grimes <grimes@triad.rr.com>
thomasville, nc - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:32 PM CST
Hello,
I am Jillian Lamparyk's aunt. We have been praying for you and I read that God took your little angel home today. I am so sorry for your loss and wanted you to know that we will keep you and all of his family in our prayers.

Kathy Aloi <dgaloi@aol.com>
Rocky River , OH - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:29 PM CST
I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. I do not know of anything really that I could say that can ease your pain. I do want you to know that all of you have deeply touched me. Reese was a fighter and he gave his all. GOD is with him watching over you and protecting you until you meet again. I am praying for you and your family in this difficult time. If there is ever anything that I can do, please please let me know. I will do all in my power to help. Thank you for sharing with us your sweet baby. He will continue to be an inspiration to me and I am sure others everyday. May GOD bless you.
Stephanie Conner-Surry 911 Communications <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:24 PM CST
As many have said there are no words to ease your pain. Please know that all of us out here will pray for peace for all of you.
Blessings,
Hugs,

Lynn
PSA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:23 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know that Reece is smiling down on us all while Grandpa RD is holding him in his arms. Reece was a very special boy. May God bless you all and give you peace. All the love and prayers in the world.
Stefanie Parker <stefanieparker@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:22 PM CST
There are no words to express the sadness we feel. Our hearts are broken by the news. Please know that you and your family remain in our prayers. May you rest in the arms of Jesus and lean on him for he will carry you through this.

May God bless and keep you all.

Nolan Ramsey's Grammy and Grandpa and Aunt Rhonda

Ron, Edith and Rhonda Heilhecker <ajpest@bitstreet.com>
Abilene, TX USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:21 PM CST
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know nothing that I could say will make you feel any better or make the coming days any easier but do know that I truly believe that Carter now has a new friend in heaven.
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:21 PM CST
We love that little boy, and don't even know him directly. He has touched our hearts in such a way that he was one of our own. We only pray that our child will be half as sweet and precious as baby Reese. We clutch him everyday knowing now he has an angel his size to watch over him. We will never as long as we live forget little Reese.
Joseph Robin and Jonah Bragdon
Elkin, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:20 PM CST
My heart breaks for you. May you find strength in the Lord to get you through this. Hugs and prayers.

Lynn Rae <lynnrae@cloh.net>
Ironton, OH - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:18 PM CST
I am writing this with tears in my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss. Reese was a beautiful boy. He has touched so many people. Heaven got a very special little angel today. I will be praying for you all, may God bless you through this very difficult time.

Laura & Jillian Lamparyk <http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/ >
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:16 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. You have to know he is in a happier place. He will always love you. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I can only hope that you can slowly heal from the loss of your sweet, beautiful baby. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Speed little Reese. Love you!
Becki <myluckystar799@aol.com>
NH USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:14 PM CST
God bless you. I have no words. I just ...... I love you, God bless you both and your beautiful son.Knowing you all has been a priviledge and your strenght has helped me immensely. God bless you
Marcella

Marcella Marone
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:13 PM CST
God surrounds Himself with the pureness and innocence of children and he called Reese to join him. He is so special, God wanted him to come home very early, even though his family didn't want him to go. They will all meet again some day to live in the glory and majesty of God where life is perfect, with no pain, no suffering, no illness and no sorrow.............
Peggy Davis <Peg2911@AOL.com>
Columbus, Ohio USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:07 PM CST
I can't imagine what you're going through now. But know God is there to ease your pain. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!
Malcolm's Mom (Barbara & Paul) <sadanav2006@yahoo.com>
Durham, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:05 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. That little smile in the pictures is what life is all about. What a sweet angel we have watching all of us.
Karen and Chris
Taylorville, IL - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:04 PM CST
IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS I WROTE IN A PRAYER THE OTHER DAY AND IVE BEEN CHECKING YOUR SIGHT EVERYDAY FOR UPDATES....I KNOW THIS WONT HELP BUT PLEASE KNOW JESUS HAS TAKEN HIM AND HE IS NOW FREE OF ALL PAIN TO BE A PRECIOUS ANGLE HE WAS MOST CERTENLY MENT TO BE.....HE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU AND YOU WILL HAVE A MUCH AWAITED REUNION IN TIME TO COME TO GREET YOUR SWEET BABY WHO WILL BE WONDERFULLY NEW....THE WAY HE WAS BEFORE ALL OF THIS.....MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND HOLD YOU ALL IN THIS TERRIBLE TIME IN YOUR LIVES......WITH MUCH LOVE AND CONCERN!!!
A stranger who was touched by your cute little guy
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:03 PM CST
There is so little that can be said in a time like this....
and it's even harder over a computer when we've never met. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you!

Nancy Howry
Oldsmar, FL 34677 - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:02 PM CST
A candle was lit in our house for your little Reese yesterday and prayers were said for a miracle. A different prayer is being said now. Even though the candle will only last seven days, your precious son & family will remain in my heart for the rest of my life.
Thank you so much for allowing me (a perfect stranger) into your world.
May the peace of the Lord be with you always.

Kari
Tacoma, WA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:58 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. A precious angel has been taken home. Tater Tot will have the most special Guardian Angel of all. May God bless you and give you peace. Love and prayers.
Mitzi & James Smith <mitzidanley@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC Surry - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:51 PM CST
"Nearing the Shore"

I see the lights of that city so bright, of my Home Sweet Home

We're nearing the shore
We're nearing the shore
Trouble soon will be over
We'll suffer no more
Toiling all done
Victory won
Tis joy to know
That we're nearing the shore

I see the lighthouse
Jesus divine
Soon He'll say welcome
Dear children of mine
Come in and rest
To this land so fair
Tis joy to know
That we're nearing shore....

Renae Hutchens <nremtp133@yahoo.com>
East Bend, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:48 PM CST
I never seem to have the right words to say during times like these. I came to Reese's site for the first time today, and just adored that smile. Even though I was only here once, I was very sad to hear that he was taken. It's sad because he was so young. It doesn't seem right. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers, as you have been all throughout the day today. I'm sorry from the bottom of my heart.
Katie <standtssfan@go.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:44 PM CST
May God's presence and His peace surround you all! I am sorry for your loss and will continue to pray for you and your family!
Amy-Beth Hougland
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:42 PM CST
Dear Shawn, Doug and Taylor
My heart was so sadden with the loss of Reese. He is with the angels and we can see that smiling face - free of pain and suffering. We know he was met by his grandpa RD when he arrived in heaven. We pray that God will give you the strength that you will need to face the challenges ahead. This is God's plan and we must keep our faith in him.

Lynne <presmonkey@aol.com>
Va Beach, Va - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:39 PM CST
words cannot descibe the pain that we are feeling. you know how much we care about all of you. we will miss little reese very much.i don't know how you are feeling but i'm sure GOD will ease your pain. we love you very much.
steve,heather dakota and the rest of the everetts <rock7829@hotmail.com>
mount airy , nc usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:38 PM CST
Rest now, sweet baby....I am so glad you are not suffering anymore.....mom and dad....I am thinking of you....God is with you. I feel so much pain as I write this....I had been following your baby boy's fight for quite a while....I cannot imagine your pain, but know that I am still praying for you and your family to find everlasting peace in all of this....in time of course. God Bless you all.
lori dietz <nevlor_2000@yahoo.com>
baldwin park, ca usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:37 PM CST
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you.
Sarah Q Tate & Susie Q Watts <oscar01@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:32 PM CST
To Reese's family: I have not written before, but my little girl has Hurlers as well. I was so sorry to hear of Reese's passing. I cannot imagine your grief, but I hope you are taking comfort in the fact that Reese is completely healthy now, pain free and at peace. I truly believe our loved ones stay with us, even after passing, and help us through the difficult times. I'm sure Reese is with you now, helping you, as you have helped him for so long. God Bless
Judy Byrne <byrnet@rogers.com>
Guelph, On Canada - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:30 PM CST
I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOU LOST. REESE HAS TOUCHED ALOT OF PEOPLE, AND THROUGH HIM GOD HAS HEARD A LOT OF PEOPLE PRAYING. WHY DOES IT TAKE SOMETHING LIKE THIS TO GET PEOPLE PRAYING? JUST REMEMBER HE IS SAFE IN THE ARMS OF GOD NOW, AND REMEMBER THE GOD ON THE MOUNTAIN IS STILL GOD IN THE VALLEY. JUST KEEP YOUR FAITH IN GOD. I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU ALL IN THIS TIME OF NEED. YOU KNOW GOD HAS ANOTHER GREAT COBLE WITH HIM. I KNEW HIS GRANDFATHER, HE PULLED MY CARS IN, HE WAS TRULY THE BEST,& A VERY GOOD PERSON, AND I KNOW DOUG FROM THE FOUR WAY VOL. FIRE DEPARTMENT. I REALLY THINK ALOT OF HIM. SHAWN & DOUG YOU HAVE TRULY LOST AN ANGEL BUT LOOK WHAT GOD HAS GAINED. I KNOW YOU TRUELY LOVED HIM & DIDN'T WANT TO LET HIM GO, BUT HE IS SAFE & NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL IS MY PRAYER. GOD BLESS EACH & EVERYONE OF YOU. BRENDA TATE MT. AIRY,N. C. MONDAY MARCH 10, 2003 @ 9:13P.M.
Brenda Tate <brownbus@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, N.C. Surry - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:28 PM CST
I was so saddened to learn of your loss. When we lost our only daughter, I was lost, but the thought of her being renewed and healed, happy and rejoicing in the presence of the Lord, was my comfort. A friend gave me a book of prayers that added new insight into my thought of my child's passage into the waiting Arms of the Lord.
"Lord, if the grave did not hold You and the earth could not contain You, then there is more ahead for me than I can even imagine." Herbert Brokering. Reese is sharing in all the joys of the Lord.
Now, you must take care of yourselves. Let others love and care for you and give yourself some time and healing. There is no timetable, no magic day when it will be better, no certain time when you will be okay, but the Lord will continue to hold you and care for you. I cannot promise that time will ever change the loss of Reese, but time will change how you handle it. And, you will always remember him with much love and thank God for his presence in your lives.
May God bless you with the gift of His Healing Love and His Grace for you. And I ask God to bless you and hold you in His Loving Arms. I would like to share some comforting thoughts I love.
"Those who live in the Lord never see each other for the last time." An Old German proverb.
"Death is not extinguishing the light. It is putting out the lamp because the Dawn has come."
The Dawn has come for Reese and His Joy came to Reese. Joy comes in the morning and what a glorious dawning Reese was able to see. I believe my Shannon was there to greet him. Oh, how she loved babies.
God bless you.

Carolyn Thurmond <cthurmond@ev1.net>
Pipe Creek, TX USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:23 PM CST
I'm so sorry for your loss
Debby Roberts
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:18 PM CST
May God give you peace and comfort.
Mary Lou Allred
Fancy Gap, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:16 PM CST
Doug, Shawn and Taylor,

Words cannot express the pain I feel right now for you. But take comfort in the fact that Reese is now in Jesus' arms and is the most beautiful angel in heaven today. He no longer has to endure all the pain, the pokes and the prods. He is free as a bird - have comfort in this.

Merisue Donovant
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:11 PM CST
There are no words for you loss. May God comfort you and your family.


Tim Wilson <TWilson445@aol.com>
Manassas, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:07 PM CST
There are no words for you loss. May God comfort you and your family.


Tim Wilson <TWilson445@aol.com>
Manassas, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:07 PM CST
Dear Coble family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I know how you feel casue recently i lost my dad and i was 14 years old. My cousin Rick told me about your loss and i am very sad and may God be with you.

Gina Howell <Ginbsb1@att.net>
King, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:07 PM CST
I have been following your website for the last few months and I am so sorry for your loss. I just cannot find words to say how sorry I am. Reese was a wonderful little boy and even though I never knew him other than photos on your webpage, he had the most captivating smile. He is still smiling down upon us and he is healed now. God Bless You!
Amy Cleghon <www.caringbridge.org/va/hunter>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:02 PM CST
Dear Coble Family -
I have followed Reese's journey after seeing his link on Morgan Barnes website. My prayers have certainly been lifted to the Lord for you and will continue. I am so very sorry for your loss. I just pray the Lord give you peace and strength during this time. Reese is a beautiful child and very lucky that the Lord gave him you as his family. Take care and God Bless.

Heather McLeod <hmcleod@bbandt.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:56 PM CST
Reese began working miracles even before he earned his wings. Look at the many, many people he brought together in the name of the Lord to help him fight his battle. Over the past few weeks I have checked on Reese so much I feel like he is a part of my family. I am so sorry for your loss and as a mother I can only imagine what you and your family must be going through. Please know that your family will continue to be lifted in our prayers. I turned to God's Word to help me find comfort and hope it may help you in the days to come. (Questions from children)

"I've heard there are angels. Oh, can it be true? Are angels for real and just what do they do?
You can't always see them, but this you should know: The angels are with you wherever you go. Psalm 91: 11-12

Will I look the same way I do now?
Your body will change so it's perfect and new, And yet you will still be the same very you. Romans 8-23

But here's something different, and this is no trick:
In heaven nobody will ever get sick! Corinthians 15:42,44

Our hurts will be healed, and the deaf will all hear. The blind will see clearly. There's nothing to fear.
Isaiah 29:18

Heaven is full of such beautiful things: The music of millions of angles who sing. Revelation 5:11"

I feel at peace knowing what a special angel I have watching over my family - our very own Reesecup Angel!!!

The Nichols' <powella@schoollink.net>
Ahoskie, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:52 PM CST
There are no words that I can write that could possibly bring you comfort at this moment. But, I did want to stop by and say that I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:52 PM CST
Shawn you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God grant you strengh and peace.
Sheila , Jordan Horton's Grandma
Taylorvillei, Il usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:50 PM CST
My heart weighs heavy with feelings of complete saddness for your loss! HE IS A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY!!!! It is so odd how one person can shed tears for someone you do not know. I am so, SO SORRY!!! There are no wors that I can say to help you through this, but know that there is a COMPLETE stranger out there that is holding your WHOLE family in their heart! God Belss you all! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:50 PM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor and family, I can not even begin to tell you how sorry that I am about Reese. I will forever treasure every memory that I have of his little loving face and smile. He touched everyone's heart in a very special way and I feel very blessed to have been a small part in his life. If I can do anything for any of you, please let me know. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love you!
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:48 PM CST
There are no words that I can find. I sit here staring at my cursor blinking and just can not imagine...the rest of the world moves on at their frantic pace, traffic lights continue to change from green to yellow to red, people drive along changing the radio station, checking out at grocery stores and cursing the weather...and not one of them knows that today, your lives have been forever changed. They have no idea of the magnitude today. It's all very surreal and in slow motion.

Though your sweet pea has passed on, not away, I will continue to pray for him and for your family. Your sweet pea has passed on to be with God and to do great work as an angel. Today, Reese has lived all the days of his life.

Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:48 PM CST
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Hang in there.
Jason, April, Corey & Kylie Helsabeck (Darrin & Susan's niece) <lirpah@alltel.net>
King, NC US - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:46 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of Reese. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you and give you strength. You and your family are in my toughts and prayers. Heaven has a special angel "Reese"! You are a wonderful person and what you have done with the journal you have touched so may lives I just wanted to let you know. I'm so sorry. God bless you and comfort you.
Dianne <djohnson@starett.com>
Mt. Airy, nc 27030 - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:44 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of Reese's passing, but I rejoice that he is in the loving arms of his Father in heaven. May God grant you peace knowing that he is free of all pain and medical care, he is free to fly with the angels forever. I will pray that you will be surrounded with His people to comfort you and provide you support in the days ahead. Lean on the Lord for He will give you strength to endure this devastating loss.
In Him,

Debbie Nagy
Manchester, MO - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:43 PM CST
God's Garden


God looked around His garden
And found an empty place
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face

He put His arms around you
And lifted you to rest
God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best

He knew that you were suffering
He knew you were in pain,
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.

He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb
So He closed your weary eyelids,
And whispered "Peace Be Thine."

It breaks our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.

I am sorry for your loss. May God give you and your family the strength you need at this time.

Tracy
Collinsville, VA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:37 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Meg Fox (Jillian Lamparyk's aunt)

Meg Fox <MegMFox@aol.com>
Olmsted Falls , Ohio USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:37 PM CST
I have no idea what to say... my heart breaks for you. Being in very close to the same position as you are, I can feel your pain. Jake and I both prayed so hard for your little angel and we are so sorry for your loss.
I have said to Jake many times that if Isobel is going to leave us i want her to go in my arms and thank God you had that opportunity.
As you know there are many special Hurler Angels hugging Reese right now and they are all now free to fly aroung together in Heaven!
If we can do anything....?
Love and Prayers, Cathy, Jake and Bella

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:36 PM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor & family
Thank you for sharing Reese with everyone. I know words don't mean much right now but our hearts and prayers go out to you right now. Reese was such a beautiful little boy who reached more peoples hearts in such a short time than most people reach in their lifetime. He will always be remembered for that adorable smile and the fight he had in him. God Bless you all and will continue to pray for your family.

Kathy
Whitehall, OH - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:31 PM CST
Hi, I have been checking Reese's page for only a short while when I surfed in one day. I have been praying for him and your family. I know you made one of the most difficult choices in your life, but Reese is in no more pain and talking to Jesus now. I will keep praying that you all get through this knowing that Reese is in a better place. With love-
Rosemary <Rosebudkissie@aol.com>
A little place in the woods, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:30 PM CST
We are so incredibly sorry for your loss. Words just cannot describe...
Liz, Raj, and Simi
Durham, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:27 PM CST
Doug, Shawn, and Taylor,
In the rising of the sun and in the going down we will remember Reese.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter we will remember Reese.
In the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring we will remember Reese.
In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer we will remember Reese.
In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn we will remember Reese.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends we will remember Reese.
When we are weary and in need of strength we will remember Reese.
When we are lost and sick at heart we will remember Reese.
When we have joys we yearn to share we will remember Reese.
So long as we live, he shall live, for he is now a part of us as we remember ReesieCup.
God be with you in this devestating time. Let His loving arms surround you with His love and give you peace.
Love in Christ,
Penpals Jerri & Kaden

Jerri McKinley and Kaden Mellema <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, s USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:16 PM CST
I have been reading the journel and guestbook entries since Dennis and Beverly Barnette sent us an e-mail asking prayer for this precious angel. May you be comforted by the fact that friends you haven't met are praying for you during this tremendous time of loss.
Wilda Gibson <wgibson@strato.net>
Meridian, MS USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:09 PM CST
I'm so saddened to see the news today about hes passing. He is such a cute little guy. He is now in the arms of god and free of suffering. Follow gods path and you will be with your little one again, to love and cherish in eternal life with no desease just lots of love and comfert. I will pray that god give you strength in the following days, and comfert knowing he is taking care of little Reese, and who better to take care of Reese than our heavenly father.God bless
Sincerly

sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:05 PM CST
Doug and Shawn...
My heart goes out to you during this most difficult time. You can take some comfort in knowing that precious little Reese is no longer suffering! I can just see him running and jumping in to Grandpa Coble's arms and see him smiling that beautiful smile and charming everybody!!! That smile could melt anyone's heart!! There sure is a lot of happy people in Heaven today...getting to see and meet little Reesiecup. I know your hearts are breaking and it is hard to look forward from here...I pray that God will place His loving arms around you and shower you with His peace. A special prayer will be said tonight for little Taylor. Thank you for letting your family and Reese become such an important part of my life over the last few months!! Your story and Reese's precious life has touched so many! My prayers are with you and I will see you soon. If there is anything that I can do, please call me!!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond , NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:04 PM CST
I cannot say I'm sorry enough to heal your heart. I feel like I knew you, your family, and Reese even though I've never met you. Mother Teresa once said, "Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless." I hope you find comfort in knowing Reese is now an angel of the Lord and free to run and play forever. God be with you, MJ
MJ <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 7:01 PM CST
Dear Coble Family,
I know this is a long entry but I read this story in an article and couldn't help but think of you and what your family has gone through. I hope that it will bring you if but a moment of peace and comfort. I cannot know your pain but my prayers are with you - Liz


"I offer this as profound conviction born in the fiery crucible of life’s experience. Our second son, Adam, entered our lives when I was far away in the jungles and rice paddies of Vietnam. I still have the joyful telegram announcing his birth. Adam was a blue-eyed, blond-haired little fellow with an impish personality. As he turned five years old, Adam eagerly looked forward to starting school. Then a common childhood illness blanketed our southern California community, and Adam contracted the disease. Aside from concern for his comfort, we were not worried. He even seemed to have a light case. Suddenly one morning he did not arise from his bed; he was in a deep coma. We rushed him to the hospital, where he was placed in intensive care. A constant cadre of devoted doctors and nurses attended him. His mother and I maintained a ceaseless vigil in the waiting room nearby.

I telephoned our dear stake president, a childhood friend and now a beloved colleague in the Seventy, Elder Douglas L. Callister, and asked if he would come to the hospital and join me in giving Adam a priesthood blessing. Within minutes he was there. As we entered the small, cramped space where Adam’s lifeless little body lay, his bed surrounded by a bewildering maze of monitoring devices and other medical paraphernalia, the kind doctors and nurses reverently stepped back and folded their arms. As the familiar and comforting words of a priesthood blessing were spoken in faith and earnest pleading, I was overcome by a profound sense that Someone else was present. I was overwhelmed by the thought that if I should open my eyes I would see the Savior standing there! I was not the only one in that room who felt that Spirit."

"But notwithstanding, Adam made no improvement. He lingered between this life and the next for several more days as we pleaded with the Lord to return him to us. Finally, one morning after a fitful night, I walked alone down a deserted hospital corridor. I spoke to the Lord and told Him that we wanted our little boy to return so very much, but nevertheless what we wanted most was for His will to be done and that we—Pat and I—would accept that. Adam crossed the threshold into the eternities a short time later.

Frankly, we still grieve for our little boy, although the tender ministering of the Spirit and the passage of the years have softened our sadness. His small picture graces the mantel of our living room beside a more current family portrait of children and grandchildren. But Pat and I know that his path through mortality was intended by a kind Heavenly Father to be shorter and easier than ours and that he has now hurried on ahead to be a welcoming presence when we likewise eventually cross that same fateful threshold.

When through the deep waters I call thee to go,
The rivers of sorrow shall not thee o’erflow,
For I will be with thee, thy troubles to bless, …
And sanctify to thee thy deepest distress.

When through fiery trials thy pathway shall lie,
My grace, all sufficient, shall be thy supply.
The flame shall not hurt thee; I only design …
Thy dross to consume and thy gold to refine. …

The soul that on Jesus hath leaned for repose
I will not, I cannot, desert to his foes;
That soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake, …
I’ll never, no never, no never forsake!
(“How Firm a Foundation,” Hymns, no. 85)

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen."


Liz <lizzymama@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 6:56 PM CST
Words seem so inadequate at a time like this. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayer during this very difficult time. Heaven gained a beautiful angel today. God Bless.
Lisa
Seattle, Wa USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:53 PM CST
We are so sorry to hear about Reese's passing. We never met Reese, but after an appeal to pray for him from our friends the Ramseys, he has been in our thoughts and prayers daily. From your journal entries, it is clear that Reese was blessed with a wonderful family. Although his time on earth was short, it was filled with love. May that give you some comfort during this difficult time.

Bill and Katie
Erie, CO - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:52 PM CST
I wanted to say I am sorry and my heart goes out for you, but I know no matter how many times you hear it, it won't help the pain you feel. My prays are with you, with all my love......
karen
- Monday, March 10, 2003 6:47 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. There is nothing anyone can say to ease your pain, but know that there are many people praying for you. Reese is now free from pain and able to shine down on each of you and guide you in the difficult days ahead.
Susie <suze_q80@hotmail.com>
Taylorville, IL - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:41 PM CST
What can I say? No words can help with the loss and pain that you are going through. As the sun rose this morning, heaven must have needed another angel and now Heaven has gained that angel and I am sure that he is already having more fun than we will ever know here on earth. Reese was one of the most beautiful kids that i have ever seen and I can't begin to imagine how beautiful he is tonight with his new earned "wings". Shawn, Doug, Taylor and the entire Coble family. I can't begin to understand your sorrow, but please know that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care and Stay Strong. God will help get you through this.
Wendy Cline
Rural Hall, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:41 PM CST
Words hardly seem adequate at times like these. If I could send a hug via the internet I would. I pray that God comforts you in this sad time. Be assured you are not alone for there are a lot of us that are with you in spirit. Remember that Reese is no longer encumbered by a human body anymore...he is with the Lord and is watching over you,
Tom Mulkerin
- Monday, March 10, 2003 6:38 PM CST
God Bless You. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dee Mullins <deemullins@adelphia.net>
Mt Sterling, KY - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:36 PM CST
Shawn and Doug,
God is with you. Reese is safe forever. That fact alone will bring you peace in your hearts. You are wonderful parents and Reese knows how much you love him. He was blessed with parents like you.
I will pray for all of you.

Jody Poolman
- Monday, March 10, 2003 6:31 PM CST
Shawn please know I'm praying for you, Doug and, Taylor.
I wish I had some great piece of wisdom to impart in this trying time, I don't.
But I do know God loves you, regardless of how it feels right now.

Bless you all,

John F. Smith, Jr. (little john)
Lambsburg, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:30 PM CST
I am so sad and so happy at the same time. I know it doesn't make it any easier but just think of the rejoicing in Heaven now. It is so hard to accept why things like this happen, but remember all things work together to good for them that love the Lord and I know you and your family love God. We will see Reese one day as he never was on this Earth and it will be worth it all. I love ya'll and you are in my prayers. I know you will take comfort knowing that he is not suffering anymore and never will again!!
Christie, Jeff and Colby Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:28 PM CST
I was stunned to hear of Reece's passing from our neighbors,the Ramseys. I cannot imagine your pain, but I hope it brings you some comfort in knowing that others are thinking of and praying for you all!
Andrea Bell <andi_bell@hotmail.com>
Erie, CO - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:27 PM CST
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Family,

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Know that your family and Reese have touched many, many people. You will be in my prayers; ask if you need ANYTHING.

Carolyn Fodel <cfodel@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:24 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. It just doesn't seem fair. You all gave all that you had to give...including Reese. My sympathy to your family.
Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:16 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Reese touched many, many people.


http://www.caringbridge.com/ca/adamcurry

Melanie Curry <mnmcurry@yahoo.com>
Hanford , CA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:08 PM CST
To Reese's loving and devoted family,
We love you, and our hearts are aching for you in your loss. We pray God blesses each memory and brings tender mercies each morning to comfort and lift you up. You will remain in our hearts and in our prayers. Remember..the arms that welcomed precious little Reese into heaven are the same arms that hold your hearts now and in the days ahead. "Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" Matthew 11:28.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:04 PM CST
Thank you for sharing your beautiful child with us. I am sad and so sorry to hear the news. Now we pray for you and your family.

Love, Lisa
Newport Beach, CA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:04 PM CST
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,

My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. Reese will live in your hearts forever. I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain. I will pray for you during this very difficult and sad time. Again, I am so sorry.

Diane
San Francisco, CA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:03 PM CST
Dear Shawn, Doug, Toni, Taylor and Family,
Words cannot express my grief for you at this time. MY heart is aching beyond measure, so I cannot imagine how you must feel. I am so glad you held Reese in your arms before he went to be with God... he must've felt so much comfort and love before he went on to be a sweet little angel. You are all in my prayers- God bless you for being so incredibly courageous throughout Reese's life. With much love,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 6:02 PM CST
Cobles, we are very sorry for your loss. Reese endured so much, and was a brave and beautiful little boy who will be remembered and loved by many. Our condolences on your loss,




Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
- Monday, March 10, 2003 5:59 PM CST
I know words seem of little comfort right now. I am so VERY sorry for your loss! Reese was always an ANGEL and now he will have his wings! He is standing with God! If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. I along with my family send much love to you and your entire family!
Robin West <robin.west@wachovia.com>
Belews Creek, NC US - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:56 PM CST
I am so sorry. I was sickened by the entry, although things werent looking good, we all still held out hope. I am truly sorry for you guys' loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Monday, March 10, 2003 5:56 PM CST
We are in prayer for your family. May God give you all strength and peace in this difficult time. We Love you.
Joan, Scott and Dallas Phillips <js.phillips@earthlink.net>
Mount Airy, NC Surry - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:54 PM CST
I know that the arms of God are around you all in your time of pain and sorrow. I will continue to pray for you and especially for Taylor as this is difficult for a big brother to understand. Please let us at Ford, Simpson, Lively and Rice know if you need anything.
Karen Cannon, M.D. <kmnjcannon@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:50 PM CST
I signed your guestbook earlier today, before you updated. I am so sorry for your loss of little Reese. Our prayers will be with you in the days and weeks to come. You and your family are great people I can tell. There are alot of us who haven't ever met you, yet we really do care. Prayers for you and your family!!!
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 5:49 PM CST
Shawn..I'm so sorry for your loss but you know that heaven has a brand new angel now. Just know that Reese is happy and no longer in pain. We love you all very much and let God carry you though this. He will heal the wounds and the heart ache. My heart is breaking for you now, we will say an extra special prayer for you tonight. I love you very much. Melissa
Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 5:48 PM CST
Shawn and family. I am at a loss of words. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know you know this, but Reese was one amazing, beautiful, and strong boy. Everytime I see someone talk about Reese their eyes light up. It is just not fair. Please, please know that we are all crying with you and you and reese are in our hearts always and forever. Take care...
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:47 PM CST
We are so sorry for your loss. My daughter, Halee is having a hard time understanding, I told her that his Papa is playing with him now and God loves all little ones, Reese will have no more pain or suffering and you will all be re-united one day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:42 PM CST
DOUG,SHAWN,TAYLOR AND FAMILY
MY DEEPEST HEART FELT SORROW FOR THE LOSS OF REESE. HE FOUGHT LIKE A LITTLE TROOPER FOR SO LONG. I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS BECAUSE I KNOW YOU HAVE A LONG JOURNEY AHEAD.

Laurie Snow <lauriesnow@surry.net>
Pilot Mountian, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:41 PM CST
I just heard of the news. I'm so sorry for your loss. We love you all and look forward in seeing you and giving you all a huge hug. I know that lil Reese is looking down on us all with that beautiful smile and laughing because he is so much better now, better than us. I still don't know the pain you all have suffered, but I do offer you my thoughts and prayers. We love you. Be careful coming home. If you need anything please call us, we'll be there for you.
Mickey and Michele Boyles <mgboyles@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:38 PM CST
Doug, Shawn, Taylor, and your whole family,

We are so sorry for your loss! At times like this, there are no words to express how sad we are for you. We will keep all of you in our prayers to get through these difficult times. Reese is now an Angel with God. He is finally healed. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

David, Angie and Melanie Johnson

David and Angie Johnson <althomas27@yahoo.com>
Pilot Mtn., NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:29 PM CST
Doug and Shawn, My heart is broken for you. I have spent the day in prayer for your whole family. Rest in Jesus and let him carry you through.
Love, Sam, Nancy and Nolan

Nancy Ramsey
erie, co - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:29 PM CST
I am praying for your family. I will pray for God's will to be done in your lives.
Sherry Crews <crewspscc@aol.com>
King, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:23 PM CST
My heart goes out to your whole family today as you bear the pain of losing precious little Reesecup. I hope that you find peace in knowing that each of you have a special angel with you. Praying for you often today.
Diane Wolfe
Mt Airy , NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:20 PM CST
DOUG,SHAWN,TAYLOR,
GOD HAS A PERFECT ANGEL BY HIS SIDE NOW,YOU ALL ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

DARRELL,MARY,HUNTER <FIREDAWG331@FIREFIGHTING.NET>
MT.AIRY, - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:18 PM CST
I just wish there was something I could say or do for you to ease your pain...I wish I could bear the burden for you...I wish that I could have made your miracle happen here on earth...here TODAY! I am so very sorry for your loss...Reese is perfect and healed...he will never have any pain again ever...
I found this poem on Alexandria's site and thought I would pass it on...I hope you find some comfort in the words...

Safely Home

I am now at home in heaven;
All's so happy, all so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief are over,
Every restless tossing past;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in heaven at last.

Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the Vally of the Shade?
Oh! but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.

And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's will.

There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idle stand;
Do your work while life remaineth
You shall rest in Jesus' land.

When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you home;
Oh, the rapture of the meeting!
Oh, the joy to see you come!

Author Unknown

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 5:17 PM CST
Doug, Shawn and Taylor, I know there is nothing I can say to ease your pain. I am so sorry to hear about Reese today. If there is ever anything I can do for you, please let me know. I will always be here. Reese was a tough little guy who fought through a lot. Your strength and courage through this rough time has been unforgetable. Be there for each other. Try to be strong. Your faith will guide you.
Bob Goldstein <bob.goldstein@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:17 PM CST
To the Entire Coble Family:

You have all fought so hard for little Reese. God could not have chosen a better family to allow Reese to be a part of. Just looking at his picturs on the main page shows how happy a boy he was. Now that he is with Jesus he is completely free of all pain and suffering. God chose Reese to battle an enemy head on. And Reese did not lose the war at all. Reese used his strength to stop the enemy from ever hurting him again. Reese's bravery and couage was such an inspiration to many people.

GOD’S GARDEN

God looked down around His garden
And found an empty place
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face

He put His arms around you
And lifted you to rest
God’s garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best

He knew that you were suffering
He knew that you were in pain
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again

He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb
So He closed your weary eyelids,
And whispered, “Peace Be Thine”

It breaks our hearts to lose you
But you didn’t go alone
For part of us went with you
The day God took you Home

~ Author Unknown

We will continue to pray for all of you during this most difficult time.

2 Timothy 4:7-8 "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day-and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing."

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas>
Winston Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:12 PM CST
Our prayers are for you and your precious son. Our family is offering our days and nights up for you. God bless you!
Molly Hyde <mhyde6@hotmail.com>
Frontenac, Mo. USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:12 PM CST
Shawn, Doug and Taylor,
My thoughts have been with your family daily for several months. My heart breaks with you. Be strong and remember that God will see you through these bad times. Reese is a perfect little angel in heaven now with my little cousins Noelle and Nicholas Baber.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:11 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during these difficult times.
Haley Hastings <haleyhastings@yahoo.com>
Athens, GA - Monday, March 10, 2003 5:02 PM CST
Shawn and Doug,
My heart breaks with yours. I was so hoping a miracle would happen. But for Reese, this is HIS miracle. For instantly he is perfect. More radiant and happy than he could ever be here on earth. I am so sorry. We've had too many new angels lately. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 4:49 PM CST
Shawn-
I can't even imagine how you feel right now because I know how terrible I feel. We have all been cheated by the loss of your precious baby. I know that Reese is now at peace, but it is so unfair. I am thinking about you and praying that God gives you the strength to bear this. I love you. If you need anything at all, please call me or e-mail me.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:45 PM CST
It looks like Reese has gone on to be with Jesus. I know you hearts are broken. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you face the difficult days ahead. Blessings to you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:43 PM CST
DOUG, SHAWN, TAYLOR AND ALL OF REESES FAMILY, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. I KNOW YOUR HEARTS ARE BREAKING AS IS MINE NOW. GOD HAS A SPECIAL LITTLE ANGEL WITH HIM AND NOW HE CAN REST. PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF I CAN HELP IN ANY WAY. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. LOVE
KAYE JOYCE <kayej09@yahoo.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:41 PM CST
Shawn, Doug and Taylor...Our thought and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We love you all very much!
Lyle, Jenifer, Eli & Carly Bullington
Pinnacle, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:34 PM CST
Your family is in my prayers. May God bless you and keep you during these difficult days.


Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:33 PM CST
I am sooooo very sorry!I love you guys and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
christinaschoenleb <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
durham, nc - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:19 PM CST
I have been following your web site for awhile now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family now during this very difficult time. God Bless all of you.
Pam Genaro (friend of Angie Cottey) <pamela.a.genaro@boeing.com>
Auburn, WA - Monday, March 10, 2003 4:17 PM CST
Reese, I want you to know how much you have changed my life through your fight and strength. You have put up a brave fight and you deserve to rest. This is a very sad day for me but I know that you are now in a better place free from tubes and machines. I dont think I will ever be able to understand why the Lord has taken such a sweet little boy but I have to have faith that he has his reasons. You are going to make the most beautiful angel ever! I am going to keep your picture up at work so that I can look at that beautiful smile and know that you are smiling again like that now! I am so sorry we never got to meet, but I am so glad that you were part of my life for short time. I am glad that I got to see you turn one and be part of that if even in the smallest way. I love you!

Shawn and Doug, as parents I can not image what you have gone through today but please know that I wish I could have been there to help comfort you! I can not find the words to say..because I am so upset by this so I will talk to you later. May the Lord make his face to shine upon you and give you Peace during this difficult time! All my love!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 3:55 PM CST
Reese and all those who love you, please know that you are in my prayers. What a beautiful little darlin' you are even with the steroids having made you swell. That happened with my hubby too. I am part of Hugs and Hope and I know we are ALL praying for you. God does work miracles and I hope you are one of them. God bless, PattiG/Naccer in Yorktown, Va
PattiG <FellowMeWhereIGo@netscape.net>
Yorktown, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:50 PM CST
Hi cute little Reese! My name is Lindsey and I am in the 6th grade. You are the cutest, looks like sweetest, precious, little boy I have ever seen!:) I heard about you by Jacob Deal. He's cute too! He lives near me in Martinsville, VA. But I don't know him. Both of you are to cute and sweet to be soooooo sick. I just want to burst out in tears looking at you. I wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers 4 ever. I know Jesus is going to lay his hands on your little body and heal you from everything. Not even knowing you I love you. May God bless you and your family 4 ever. I want to say a small prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
Touch this little boy. I cry right now in Jesus' name Heal him! Heal him! But I know you will when it is your time. You know what Reese is going through and you are with him every moment of his life. All I ask is to heal him. I know you will. In Jesus' name,
Amen
As you have heard in my prayer. Jesus will heal Reese in his own time. Ya just gotta have ALOT of faith. I know it is hard. But you still have too. May God bless you alwayz!!!




Lindsey Goins <goinst@ntelos.net>
Ridgeway (right near Martinsville), VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:48 PM CST
am joining in with others for the miracle for Reece that is so desperately wanted.

Carla
Cleveland, TN - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:48 PM CST
My prayers are with you all. Please keep having some hope in there. I know it isn't easy to do is keeping the hope. Know that you all are in my prayers.
kateena
mommy to two handsome boys,
daniel lee 6months old
hlhs
january31,2002 handsome angel july31,2002
www.babydaniel.net or www.danielbrooks.net
handsome young boy/big brother,
mitchell 6years old
healthy heart
doing alright

Kateena brooks <kbrooks46@hotmail.com>
el paso, tx usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:47 PM CST
I know God put Reese on this earth for a reason. I believe it was to bring people to know God more. Reese may you be in peace now and may your name live on on this earth and may God give your family the glory for having you to be a part of it..
Susan
Mt Airy, NC US - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:38 PM CST
Continuing throughout the day to pray for Reese.
Debbie Nagy
- Monday, March 10, 2003 3:29 PM CST
All of you are in my prayers. Miracles are God's. From the very moment and even before Reese was conceived, he was and is God's miracle and gift to you. After salvation and the giving of His only son,the greatest gift is children from God. God's marvelous grace and love be with all of you!
Karen Purves <kbpurves@earthlink.net>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:15 PM CST
As a mother who has gone thu what you are going thru with her beautiful Hurler son I know nothing I can say will make you feel better, please be brave and never give up hope. I wish you all peace.
Helen Corcoran <helen.corcoran@ntlworld .com>
england - Monday, March 10, 2003 3:07 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your little Reese. I check on your little guy everyday, and was so sad to read your entry today. I hope all the prayers bring about a miracle for Reese. Please know there are alot of us out here that care for you, take care, I will check back soon.
Tonya LLoyd <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 3:05 PM CST
I will be praying for Reese and all the rest of you guys too. If you wanna e-mail me sometime, you are much more than welcome to.
Katie <standtssfan@go.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 2:45 PM CST
Hang in there Reesecup baby dear, hang in there... Shawn, Doug, I am thinking and praying with you all the way.
May all the love of the world surround you and protect you and heal your boy.
All my love
Marcella

Marcella
- Monday, March 10, 2003 2:43 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear that Reese is not getting stronger, but I am not giving up hope on you or Bella! I know you two can fight this and I will pray every minute for your healing!
Mom and Dad- hang in there!
Love, Cathy, Jake and Isobel

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:37 PM CST
Shawn, I am praying with every ounce that is in me that Reese will pull through this and find the strength to overcome. I know that we are all sitting axiously waiting to hear an update and praying hard that it is a good one. We love you and Reesecup as if you were our family, as we are all part of the Lord's family and he will take care of us. Stay strong Shawn, and God will lead the way. God Bless you and your family.
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:32 PM CST
Dear Family,
I pray everyday for you and little Reese. My whole church and everyone I talk to I ask to pray for your family and to give you strength. I know that mircles can happen and I pray God grace on you and he will let this miracle will happen.

Michael Hargrove <lcdraper@telpage.net>
Weldon, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:31 PM CST
Dear Coble Family,
I know that I don't know you guys all that well, but I do know that God has given me such a burden to pray for you all. Your faith in God is so refreshing. My thoughts and prayers are with you Reese! Hang in there big guy. I love you all so much and I hope I get the chance to get to know you all better. May God bless you as he holds you so lovingly close to his chest. Love and Prayers, Kim

Kim Barker <kim.barker@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:24 PM CST
Just checking in to see if there was any news...I have been praying and praying for you all...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 2:17 PM CST
Don't give up hope! God hears and answers our prayers. It is wonderful to know that there are so many people praying for Reese. I am praying for God to keep his loving arms around Reese and his precious family. Healing Reese and giving him the strength he needs to continue his fight. Love, Donese


Donese Stultz <donese.stultz@wachovia.com>
Walnut Cove, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:16 PM CST
I am praying hard!!! May God give you all strength.
Jennifer Harten (Henry's mom) <j.harten@attbi.com>
Colleyville, TX - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:07 PM CST
Reese - From the morning I saw you in hospital nursery as a big healthy boy, silky skin and fine brown hair, I knew you had already changed the lives of your family. Your mommy still had a glow about her. She prayed so hard for your birth and even though she was still sore, she couldn't stay away from your side. I'm still in awe at the courage you have shown. You smile when your little body aches and you touch people who've never had the pleasure of feeling the warmth of your smiling eyes. God isn't fair, sweet little boy. But He loves you more then any of us can comprehend. You are a light to the world. I could only hope to be so used. All my love, little man.
Jamie
- Monday, March 10, 2003 2:06 PM CST
Shawn and Doug-Our prayers are with you. God give you strength. Much love. Martha
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:00 PM CST
Shawn,Doug, Reesecup & Taylor,
I can't imagine what you all are feeling at this time with the not so good news. All I can say is little Reesecup is a fighter. He is already a miracle because he took his transplant so well and made it through all that.Don't give up hope because the Lord hasn't, he helped him through the transplant. I pray that the Lord will touch him with his healing hands and bless you all with a miracle. Reese has touched so many of our lifes and he is being prayed for every where. I will pray for you, Doug and Taylor as well because I know this hard on each of you. Your strong faith, in the Lord will help all of you through this journey. Reese is a little angel in all of our eyes. The Lord give you both this special child to love and care for so keep the faith and keep believing that miracles do happen everyday of our life. I truely hope and pray that Reese cup will be our little miracle and you can look back as if all this was a dream in days to come.If there is anything I can do for you all please let me know.
Love and Prayers,
Angie

Angela Trivette
Kernersville, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:59 PM CST
Dear Reese and Family
Hang in there. We have been watching little Bella fight the same battle and many miracles have come our way.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.

Karey McClure - Aunt of Isobel Peters
- Monday, March 10, 2003 1:58 PM CST
I have been reading your journal daily but it has been a while since I signed the guestbook. I hope Reece is doing much better today. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You All.
Deana Snow
Dobson, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:51 PM CST
I am thinking of you and your whole family. I pray that Reese improves.
Debbie Coe Deatherage
winston-salem, nc usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:49 PM CST
We are sending prayers your way!!!! What a cute little guy you have.
Mary,Tony, Madison, Kimberley G. (Hugs and Hope club) <geislermom@yahoo.com>
Manassas, VA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:28 PM CST
Praying so hard for you all Laura Brodie and family
Laura Brodie <labro@wilil.fsnet.co.uk>
Bir, England - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:23 PM CST
My prayers are with Reese and the family, friends and loved ones.
Denise McCuiston <dmccuiston@highlandsupply.com>
Madison, NC Rockingham - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:22 PM CST
I am praying for all of you and for the miracle Reese needs now. I love you all.
Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:20 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Reese during this time. We sometime question what and why God does things, but it is not for us to know because God does not make any mistakes. Remember whatever God takes you through He will be right there to help you out of whatever the situation may be. I know it's hard right now but just hold on to Gods unchanging hand.
Pam Vernon <pvernon@highlandsupply.com>
Asheboro, NC Randolph - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:20 PM CST
May God be with You All. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you. Please let us know if there is anything that we may be able to do to help.
All of the Crews from Cana Rescue Squad
Cana, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:18 PM CST
Praying
Phil Long <phil.long@wachovia.com>
Germanton, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:17 PM CST
You all have been and continue to be constantly in my prayers. I pray for God's loving, healing arms to be wrapped around Reese and his family. I pray for His strength for each of you; and for His wisdom and guidance for the doctors and nurses. God Bless you all.
Cammie Wright <cwright1@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:17 PM CST
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you. May Reese have a speedy Recovery.
John, Dale, Kenneth, Tim, Gerald of Ra-Tech Services <Ratech@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:16 PM CST
Shawn we are waiting to hear from you on this Monday. Hopes and many prayers are with Reese, you and your family. Our hopes are high keep your family at Wachovia in mind because Reese is in all of our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all. Sandra Nichols @Wachovia.
Sandra Nichols <Sandra.Nichols@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:13 PM CST
I know this is hard for you. I want you to know that I care, and am praying for all of you. Hugs and Blessings
Joycee <dajovup@aol.com>
OH - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:47 AM CST
Hey guys, it's Cody's Grandma Sherrill. I just left his site where my daughter Eleasha continues to update us on your journey with Reesecup. I can't deny my heart is heavy, no words could describe the anguish each of you must be experiencing. As onlookers, we can only hope that our thoughts, prayers and words of comfort can help in some small way...
May you be blessed with peace,courage and wisdom in the coming days.

GMom Sherrill <sherrill_kinser@hotmail.com>
Coconut Creek, Fl - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:44 AM CST
Hang in there Reesecup! We are praying so hard for you right now. God will heal you! Shawn and Doug...I have no words to tell you other than, I love you all very much. We keep a check on Reese everyday. Hailey told our Pastor about him getting worse on Sunday morning and she wanted him to pray for Reese too. We all are praying very hard!
Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
W-S, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:39 AM CST
I have been thinking about you and Reese all weekend. Your journal was dated for Sunday and it is now Monday. I am praying that you have not had to make such a hard decision and are holding Reese on his journey home.

Keeping your Sweet Pea in my prayers for peace and healing.

Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:37 AM CST
Hello, I'm a member of Hugs and Hope and someone posted a message about your dear son on the chat group. We are all thinking of you and praying that Reese will respond to the steroids and other treatment. Please know you're not alone, you have alot of strangers out there who care and are thinking of you right now.
Cathie L (Texas Chapter Head, Hugs and Hope) <haldago@earthlink.net>
Houston, TX USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:37 AM CST
Hey,
This is the first time visting your site - I was sent a prayer request by a co-worker. I too have been through a severe health crisis and fortunately through prayers and a miracle I came through it. I am praying for your little boy. Miracles do happen - believe and pray

Cristy Caudle <Cristy.Caudle@GMACInsurance.com >
Boonville, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:18 AM CST
Hello, this is my first time to visit your site, I was sent a prayer request by a friend. I'm really praying that your sweet baby Reese will pull through this and God will grant you this miracle for your sweet precious baby. My thoughts and prayers do and will continue to go out for Reese and your family. God Bless
Rebecca <jonesclanj@peoplepc.com>
Tx - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:06 AM CST
Hi I have been keeping an eye on your website. I cant imagine the difficult situation right now. I only know that my heart goes out to you. My prayers are going up for little Reese cup right now. I have also emailed our church in Manassas and asked each of them to visit your website and to pray for this precious child God has blessed you with. Please take care and keep praying. Feel my hug! ()
Wanda Craig <manassasprincess@yahoo.com>
Manassas, VA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 12:05 AM CST
Hello. I found your site thru Cody's and I just wanted to stop by and offer my support. I will keep Reese and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless all of you.
Hugs,
Candy B. from Hugs and Hope (www.hugsandhope.com)

Candy from Hugs and Hope <zacheric02@msn.com>
Livonia, MI - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:58 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
I can't find the words to tell you exactly how much your family is loved and how devotedly we are praying for you. May God's peace be in your heart.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:52 AM CST
Hello Resse and Family, My name is Angel Moo and I am in a group called "Quilts of Love" We made online quilts for children...I was just passing through and wanted to leave you with this. We would be more than welcome and honored to make you a quilt...
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Love ya,



Angel Moo <moomoo@citlink.net>
WV - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:31 AM CST
GOD knows what is best for us all. He works in mysterious ways and I know he will do what is best for Reese. My prayers are with Reese and his entire family. Even though I've never met Reese or his family, there is a special place in my heart that I will keep for him. May GOD work a miracle today.
Jamie Tedder <secure14@earthlink.net>
Deep Gap, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:24 AM CST
Sweet Reese.... you are an angel! Sending you all my love!
Robin Tucker <rucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 11:22 AM CST
I just wanted you to know that I have been and will continue to pray for your baby. My eyes just filled with tears as I read your last entry because I, too, have said those same words myself. Miracles do happen!!! We have experienced them too and we will continue to walk Reese to Jesus for his healing hand to rest upon him! Many hugs and prayers to you all. God bless you!!!!( I sent the email prayer out to my friends and family on my list, I will also send it to our pastor for prayer. )
Lisa Stagner ( Cole's mom ) <Lisa_M_Stagner@yahoo.com>
Verona, VA - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:11 AM CST
SHAWNA, DOUG AND FAMILY,
I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THE LATEST UPDATE. I WILL PRAY THAT SOME MIRACLE WILL HAPPEN TODAY AND THAT YOUR LITTLE REESECUP WILL COME OUT AGAINST ALL ODDS. PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU.

VICKI THORE <KNOBBYPILOT@YAHOO.COM>
PILOT MOUNTAIN, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:56 AM CST
Hi Shawn and Toni, I am praying for little Reese to get better soon. You all are in my prayers. God knows what is best for Reese, and he is already an ANGEL in God's world. He is a brave little boy with a huge heart to love. Bless you little Reese we love you.

Joyce Mabe <JOYCE.MABE@WACHOVIA.COM>
Kernersville, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:54 AM CST
May God be with you during this difficult time....I will pray for that miracle----like you said, they do happen. Come on ReeseCup----FIGHT!! Be strong....the Lord is with you.
lori dietz <nevlor_2000@yahoo.com>
baldwin park, ca usa - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:36 AM CST
I will be praying fervorently for Reece and your family.
Shelley Moser <slmoser@wfubmc.edu>
Winston-Salem, NC 27104 - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:26 AM CST
My heart is breaking at the news of Reese not doing as well as we had all hoped he would be doing. I have checked the website this morning numerous times in hope of a good reprot. I am praying that no news means good news. I cant imagine what you are going through as a family right now. I have sent an email to my address book asking for prayers on Reese's behalf. I am praying that when an update is posted that it will great news. Take Care of yourselves!!!
Wendy Cline
Rural Hall, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:18 AM CST
Reese and family,
Upon waking this morning I said a prayer for all of you...
Lord, I pray for comfort on these difficult days,rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss Reese's lips, sunsets to warm the hearts, gentle hugs when spirits sag,friendships to brighten our beings, beauty for our eyes to see, confidence for when we doubt, faith so that we can believe, courage to know ourselves, patience to accept the truth, love to complete our lives.
God Bless Reese's family and friends.
I asked the Lord to bless you. To guide you and protect you as you try to get through each day. His love is always with you. His promises are true. NO MATTER WHAT THE TRIBULATION you know He will see us through. So now as the road you're traveling on seems difficult at best. Give your problems to the Lord and God will do the rest.
I will pray all day for you, Reese, darling!!
God has His eye on all the world today. Isn't that awesome?
Hebrews 4:13 "Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight."
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:17 AM CST
PRAYERS ARE THERE
TERESA MYERS
WINSTON-SALEM, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:09 AM CST
Dear reese and family,
I just read in one of your guestbook enteries that you were making baby step in the right direction. I am praying that this is the truth! I know you can do it little guy! Keep strong. I am praying for comfort for you family.......GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Tracy Rayner

Tracy Rayner <TRayner@maine.rr.com>
Scarborough, ME - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:05 AM CST
To Reese,Taylor and Family,
My heart goes out to each and everyone of you as you face each new day ahead ( I am praying that each one of those days will be one of healing for Reese!) I have been hearing about your family at Northside Baptist Church and we have kept you and your family in our prayers. I pray to God that he will bless you and place his healing spirit upon you. Keep fighting and know that God is with you always. Finding your website has really touched me. We take so many things for granite these days. I will especially give my children a special hug and kiss tonight, ( just in Reese's Honor) and I send you my prayers and love. Miracles can happen!!! My family will continue to keep Reese and family in our prayers. Remember that God makes no mistakes, everything happens for a reason and I pray that Reese will be healed by God's grace.
God Bless You All !!!

Tabatha Cox <sigmatrue3@AOL.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 10:04 AM CST
Hello to Reese & Family
Our Prayers are with your whole Family at this very difficult time. We Pray with you to Jesus, to give your little precious baby a miracle. May you feel the Lords comfort, and Love carry you through.

Love & Prayers

Kelly & Tom Robinson
& Carl

Kelly Robinson <www.caringbridge.org/mn/carcar>
Franklin, Mn - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:53 AM CST
Dear Reese and family,
I am saddened to read the last journal entry. I am praying for a complete healing on this earth for baby Reese. We know that a complete healing is assured in heaven, but we pray that God would allow him to remain here on earth with his mommy and daddy to care and love for him. He is a precious child of God and in God we put all of our trust for Reese's life. Praying for comfort, peace and strength for the whole family.
In Him,

Debbie Nagy
Manchester, MO - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:50 AM CST
You are in my thoughts and prayers constantly. Many times during the night I woke with thoughts of Reese and all of you. I prayed again as I tried to get back to sleep. May peace be with you.
Sara Lou Cardwell <saralou@OAISAS.net>
Rockville, MD - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:49 AM CST
Hi Reese and family:
Our prayers are with you at this time. We are praying for a miracle for you all. God has a plan and lets hope it is one that we can live with. Hugs and kisses and prayers are still coming your way. Love, MJ

MJ - www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:47 AM CST
You are all in our prayers!!
Sheri Fields
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:42 AM CST
Dear Reese and Family:
May God reach down and touch this precious one and also his family. My prayers are with you. I pray that not only would God heal this child, but that he would give this family added strength. I will continue to pray for you. God's will be done.

YVONNE H. NICHOLS <admin@mtairyncchamber.org>
Mount Airy, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:42 AM CST
Dear Reese and Family,
Please know that my family and I are praying for you as we know the hurt and helplessness of having a sick child. I work for NC Baptist Hospital and see miracles all the time.
Your faith is a constant reminder of what a wonder and loving God we have. May God Bless you all. Jenkins Family

Donna Jenkins <djenkins@wfubmc.edu>
Belews Creek, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:37 AM CST
I am praying for Reese. I believe the Lord can give you a miracle. It has happend to me. But I also know it doesnt have to be what we want. The Lord knows. He knows. He is a good God, He will take care of Reese no matter how this all turns out. The Lord will carry you & your family, He will be your stregnth. He alone is worthy to be praised. Your boy is beautiful. I cried when I saw his picture. I wish I could hold him & make it all better. We are so simple that way. What a sweet, sweet boy you have. He is just a beautiful baby. Heb. says, "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee."
Mat. 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour & are heavy laden, & I will give you rest.

The Lord Jesus Christ is in control. How grateful I am for that. Please know that your preciouse sweet boy will be on our hearts daily & in prayer. We pray as a family each morning & evening. Be assured he will be prayed for. We serve a mighty God. May all glory & honor go to Him! We are praying for you Reese.

Rejoicing In Him, Patrizia

Patrizia <werpsotal7@juno.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:35 AM CST
I found your page through the chubbychica site, and my prayers have been with you guys ever since. I will continue to keep praying for that miracle.
Michelle
CA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:29 AM CST
Shawn & Doug, YOUR faith & testimony ARE making an impact on MANY! Thanks for being STRONG in the Lord!
Phil Heyne <heyne@yadtel.net>
Mocksville, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:29 AM CST
To Reese and the family,
My name is Jason Popour, and I am friends of Cody's family. I am praying for Reese, and offer my prayers for your family as well. No matter what happens, it is in God's plan, I just pray that God's plan allows Reese to pull through this, and get better. God bless you through this difficult time, and know that you have another person in your corner praying for Reese and the family. God bless.

Prayers and peace,
Jason Popour <><

Jason Popour <PopourJ@nctamslant.navy.mil>
Norfolk, VA US - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:22 AM CST
Praying for Reese and your family! God Bless!
Kris Klenke
Edwardsville, IL USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:21 AM CST
Your family is in my prayers. I hope that your son will show improvement soon. The Lord performs miracles each day and I pray that he will perform one for your son.
Tamara Lee <mtcd@conninc.com>
Newton, NC U.S. - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:18 AM CST
OUR MOST PRECIOUS HEAVENLY FATHER, PLEASE SEND YOUR LOVING ARMS INTO REESES' ROOM. ENFOLD HIS PARENTS AND FAMILY. ONLY YOU KNOW THE BEST FOR REESE. PLEASE GIVE US ALL THE STRENGTH TO ACCEPT YOUR LOVE AND CARE.
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:17 AM CST
We are praying for a miracle for little Reese. You are all in our prayers.

God bless you all.
Nolan's Grammy and Grandpa

Ron and Edith Heilhecker <ajpest@bitstreet.com>
Abilene, TX USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:13 AM CST
I'll help pray with you every day. I just can't imagine what you are going through. Maybe through prayer we can
create a miracle for Reese.

Sallie Foy <fulofclass2001@yahoo.com>
Mojnt Airy, NC United States - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:04 AM CST
Our God is a God of healing. He is a mender, a fixer of broken things. And we need such a God, because we tend to break and spoil much of what we touch. When we allow Him to come intor our fretful hearts, He works quietly and gently; and with the skill of a tender craftsman, He begins the work of restoring what is lost.
A praying friend+
- Monday, March 10, 2003 9:01 AM CST
Dearest Reese and family,
I found the link to your website from McKenzie's website. I am so sorry to hear that baby Reese is so sick. He is such a beautiful, gorgeous baby, with a smile that just melts my heart. I just want you to know that I will be PRAYING HARD for a miracle to happen...and YES, miracles do happen!!! Reese has been so extremely strong and he is fighting so hard. I don't even know him and yet I am so proud of this little guy. He is such an inspiration. I will be praying extra hard until a miracle happens! Do keep strong and hang in there. I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for all of you. But just keep your faith in God, remember that God is truly great and that miracles happen everyday!

May God bless you all..
Lots of hugs and kisses all the way from across the world...

Janice Liew XOXOXO <wine_chic@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:50 AM CST
I am a friend of Cody's and I check on you guys everyday! We will continue to pray for the miracle that Reese needs. God bless you!!
Amy Cleghon <www.caringbridge.org/va/hunter>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:43 AM CST
I don't know you, yet I feel heartbroken over what you are experiencing. I have been following your web site for some time, and I will continue to pray for the miracle that Reese needs! You are always in my thoughts and prayers!
Amy Fandel
Springfield, IL - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:31 AM CST
Thinking and praying for you and your family.


Cathy Stroud
Mocksville, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:26 AM CST
May god touch this family with his healing hands,love & his glory. You are in my prayers.
Hope L.
WV USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:17 AM CST
Dear Shawn and Doug,
I want you to know that Reese is in our thoughts and prayers daily. I pray that God will give the both of you the strength and courage to walk the path that He has planned. I find strengh in your faith through all of this. Shawn, you have been an inspiration to all of us Christian moms. You have touched my life tremendously by sharing your story and family with me. Reese is a beautiful little boy and a fighter. Psalm 56: 4
In God I will praise his word, in God I have put my trust; I will not fear what flesh can do unto me. Just know that God is walking this journey with you all.
Love In Christ

Tina Patterson <buildit@cneserv.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:12 AM CST
What a beautiful baby boy...a smile that steals your heart. My heart is so very heavy for you and your family. My prayer is God will reveal his love, comfort and peacefulness to Baby Reese, his family, the nurses and doctors who have fallen in love with him. I pray for a miracle and God's plan to be revealed through Baby Reese's life and the unfortunate sickness he has. May the Lord shine his face upon you and give you grace and peace.
Michelle Kennerly
Landis, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 8:00 AM CST
Good morning sweet boy... I hope that you are still taking those baby steps towards healing that your mom told me about last night. Shawn, remember so many are praying for your family! Reese, please keep fighting...sending hugs your way.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:00 AM CST
My heart and soul is with you on this...... My family is praying for you....
Karen <alicecat79@hotmail.com>
durham, - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:47 AM CST
So sorry to hear that Reese is not getting better. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers and if there is anything we can do for any of you please let us know. Remember MIRACLES still happen!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 7:11 AM CST
You are all in my prayers
Tressa
- Monday, March 10, 2003 7:01 AM CST
Today like every other day...my heart and my spirit are there with you...this morning is so beautiful outside baby Reese...this would be a day where you could just run around and play, play, play...it remains my pray that you will be healed soon...out from under this terrible burden...finding joy and peace...it is my prayer that the Lord would hear our cries and make you whole again here...with us...on earth...you are a fighter...strong and knoble through and through...may God's will work a miracle and may His plan be revealed to us all today!

Let the morning bring word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go, for I lift up my soul to You. Rescue me from my enemies, O Lord, for I hide myself in You.
Psalm 143:8-9

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Monday, March 10, 2003 6:55 AM CST
I know at this time in your life, it must be hard to try to keep the faith. Michele and I can't imagine what your having to deal with. All I can offer you this morning is to remember, Luke 7: 12-16. Now when he came near to the gate city, behold there was a lifeless boy, the only son of his mother, and she was a alone: and many of the people was with her. And when the lord saw her, he had compassion on her, and said "WEEP NOT" An he came and touched the bed: and said "YOUNG MAN I SAY UNTO THEE, ARISE."
And he that was lifeless sat up, and began to speak. And he delivered him to his mother.

Mickey And Michele Boyles <mgboyles@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:53 AM CST
May G-D watch over Reese and your family in these hard times. Our prayers are with you.
Joan Cohen and family <mpssoc@aol.com>
Island Park, NY USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:32 AM CST
Praying for Reese and Your Family....
Anne Marie <Jas123!@charter.net>
Helena, Al - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:29 AM CST
Dear Doug, Shawn, Taylor, Reese, and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 6:20 AM CST
LORD JESUS HOLD THIS CHILD IN YOUR LOVING ARMS KEEP HIM AND HIS FAMILY FROM SUFFERING. YOU KNOW BEST.
CHERYL HARVEY <JETSBRAT@HOTMAIL..COM>
WEISER, ID USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 2:02 AM CST
Reese, child of God,
I have been praying constantly today, this evening, and into the morning hours for your little body to start getting better. I know that Jesus is holding you and that in His time you will be healed. My hurting soul is hungry to hear a word of love today Lord--speak up. Reese's family needs your constant love and reassurance that things will be all right with him. Father God, our Great Physician lay your hands on the body of Reese and give him the great gift of life.
Lord, let us all cherish the relationships we have with those who DO love us. I thank you for Reese and his family even though I have not met them in real life yet. Be with all of them now as they probably are not even getting the rest they need because they are at Reese's bedside.
Man's way leads to a hopeless end--God's way leads to an endless hope. He who kneels before God can stand before anyone.
Compassion is difficult to give away because it keeps coming back. You all have my compassion from the bottom of my heart.
Remember always that Jesus loves you Reese and so do we.
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, s USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 1:45 AM CST
Again we are sending our most caring thoughts and wishes for the best of outcomes. Always rember that there is always light when you think it can't get any darker. with all of our love.
Arthur and Kathy Stedman <akstedman@msn.com>
Herlong, CA Lassen - Monday, March 10, 2003 0:21 AM CST
Sweet Precious Baby Reese,
What a beautiful child you are. You have stolen my heart. I am praying so hard for you, honey. I believe miracles happen every day.
Mom & Dad,
Please know that so many people are thinking of you and praying for you right now. My heart can't bear what you are going through. God Bless you.

Debbie Little <www.caringbridge.org/tn/littlecaleb>
Dickson, TN - Monday, March 10, 2003 0:13 AM CST
Doug & Shawn, I put in a special request for Reese, at Friendly Chapel this morning. He's on many prayer list, and God still answers prayers. Stay strong, and keep believing. My heart goes out to you, and all of your family...
Barbara <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:50 PM CST
I am praying for you.
Grace Caruso(Krabbe Family) <grace.caruso@verizon.net>
Brooklyn NYC, ny - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:50 PM CST
Our prayers continue... Miracles do happen! Love, The Irish's
Melanie, Steve, Jake, & Matt <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish>
Marysville, WA USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:48 PM CST
Dear Reese and Family,

I have been following your updates but have never signed your guestbook because I am a stranger to you and I didn't think anything I could say would help. But I see how so many people who don't know you either take the time to give you words of hope and encouragement in the only way they know how. Maybe it just helps you to know that so many people are offering prayers to Heaven on behalf of your sweet boy. Please know that it is my prayer that our loving Heavenly Father will shower you and your family with comfort and peace. It is easy for me to say that this time here on earth is just a blink of an eye compared to the eternities. But I know that God does live and He knows each and every one of us. I know that He still sends miracles and angels to his children here on earth. I believe his angels are with Reese right now, administering to him. No one knows what God's will is for Reese but He will not let little Reese suffer beyond what his little body can stand. His angels are with him. I pray that God will not call your precious boy home and that the miracle you deserately pray for will happen...and soon.

Liz <lizzymama@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:27 PM CST
Sweet precious Reese & family,
Our hearts were so heavy as we read your journal entry tonight. We got "connected" to your website via Hendrick Motorsports prayer chain but we know God was the one who lead us to you!! Our lives have been touched in ways we never expected. Each day when we read your daily journal it is so AWESOME to see how your faith and love for God has sustained you day by day. We are giving God all the praise and glory and we know He is in control, even during this difficult time. As always, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Remember...God is near...
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:09 PM CST
Hi Reese and Family,
I was surfing tonite and found this little saying. I was thinking about what you are all going through today and thought I would send this to you.
My prayers and love are with you during this time.

When God puts a tear in your eye,

it's because He wants to put a

rainbow in your heart.

Reese is your rainbow.


Cindy <sixjays@shaw.ca>
Selkirk, Manitoba Canada - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:04 PM CST
Reese and family. Please know the thoughts and prayers of the Smile Quilts family are with you at this terribly trying time. We pray for your total healing Reese, and that God's will be done. Sending hugs to all.

Sprite <sprite@tds.net>
Eckert, Colorado USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:37 PM CST
I found out about Reese from Alicia Bennett. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. I know how hard this is for you and your family my nephew has MPS II.I know that the angels are looking over your precious Reese.
Barbara Pryor <bpryor1@columbus.rr.com>
columbus, oh USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:20 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your heartbreaking experience. Carrie and Patrick have led us to your site. Through them we have heard of so many miracles up there in the hospital. I sure hope that Reese is one of them. Our prayers are with you at this time. May God grant you the strength to get through this.
Karen
Taylorville, IL - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:20 PM CST
Father,God,
Touch Reese right now. WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.
IN GOD WE TRUST. In Jesus' name we ask believing that we shall receive. Thank you, Lord.
Amen.

McKenzie's Aunt Darlene
OH - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:05 PM CST
I heard about your sweet brave boy from a dear friend of mine Lynn Worley and wanted you to know that i will be praying for Reese and will be thinking of you all and sending lots of love to you.
Theresa Heath <danjotay@attbi.com>
Bedford, Tx USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 8:16 PM CST
Alicia Bennett told me about Reese and said he needs prayers. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers for a turn around in Reeses's condition. Take care,
Sheila George <sheila@houston.rr.com>
Spring, TX USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:56 PM CST
Shawn, I am so glad that we finally got to talk tonight, I cant tell you how much it meant to me! You are such a strong person..I felt as thougth you were comforting me. I really did not know what to say other than to let you know so many people are praying for Reese and your family. I look forward to the day we get to meet because I want to tell you in person how much Reese has made me a stronger person!

Dear Lord, I ask you to make your face to shine upon Reese during this time and let him know that you are near give him the strength to overcome and pull through so that so many people he has touched during this time can meet him.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers constantly!

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:50 PM CST
My heart & prayers are with you Reese & your family right now. I know that God is holding you in His loving arms as you struggle to hang on.

Dear Lord please listen to our cries & show us a miracle if it is your will.

lulla (from Smile Quilts) <Email lulla">Email lulla>
Vancouver Island, BC Canada - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:50 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
I pray to God that he hears all of our prayers for Reese. We are all praying so hard for him. Now more than ever.

Love, Sharon & Scott <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:41 PM CST
I try so hard to hold back my tears as I read about little Reese. I checked on him this morning via the web-site and something told me to come back again tonight. Reese's journey sounds SO MUCH like what our little Nicholas went through. I will continue to pray for all of you. Please do not give up. The power of prayer is amazing. Hold that little man as best you can and love on him. Let him hear your voices. He knows that you are there.

I will pray that God will hold all of you tightly in the palm of His hand tonight and put a special hedge of protection around little Reese. I will pray that God will give you all exactly what you need to get through every minute of every day.

... still praying for the big miracle...


www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:40 PM CST
Dear Shawn, Doug, and family,
I do not know you but I've kept up with Reese on this web sight. My heart is breaking for you right now! Do not give up! GOD IS IN CONTROL, HE WILL NOT PUT ANY MORE ON YOU THAN YOU CAN BEAR! I am praying for God's will to be done concerning Reese. God sees the whole picture and we can only see what is happening now. I know that see your child this sick has got to be the hardest thing for any parent to deal with. I pray that God will give you peace and understaning at this time in your life. If it is God's will to take Reese home now, I pray that you will have the strength to hold up and go on. You will have the peace of knowing that your baby will be in the arms of Christ. May God Bless you and your family at this time.

Lynn Spencer <pls0818@aol.com>
Conover, nc usa - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:31 PM CST
Shawn and Doug, I am so sorry about Reese. It broke my heart today to see him in the PICU. I hope that you liked the guardian angel bear that I made for Reese today. Your baby is so strong and who knows what will happen maybe he will beat this. You all are in my heart now and always. If you need ANYTHING you know how to reach me.
alyssa
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:19 PM CST
Dar Family,
You are in my thoughts and Prayers. I have been Praying for little Reece. May God hold you all in his arms and give us all a Miracle....Yes they do happen.
Lots of Love From Maine.
Julie Ritchie

Julie Ritchie <theritchies@xpressamerica.net>
Smyrna Mills, Me USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:18 PM CST
DOUG AND SHAWN, I HAVE CRIED ALL WEEK OVER REESE BEING SO SICK. IT IS SO HARD TO DEAL WITH. MY DAD DIED LAST YEAR FROM CANCER AND I SPENT MANY MANY LONG DAYS AND NIGHTS IN THE HOSPITAL WITH HIM AND THE TIME COMES WHEN YOU SAY OK GOD WE HAVE DONE WHAT WE CAN IT IS ALL UP TO YOU NOW. HIS LOVE WILL GET YOU THROUGH. JUST LEAN ON YOUR FAITH AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND KNOW HE HAS HIS ARMS AROUND YOU. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND KNOW I AM HERE IF YOU NEED ME AND MY PRAYERS ARE SINCERE AND OFTEN.
KAYE JOYCE
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:12 PM CST
Doug, Shawn & Taylor,

You are in my thoughts tonite, if I can do anything don't hesitate to ask. I'll be praying for Reese to improve.

Carolyn Fodel <cfodel@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:02 PM CST
I am very sorry and wish that I had something to say that would help. I will pray for this child and for strength for you and for those who are helping and ministering to you. I hope and pray that for every burden that is too much for you to bear that a "Simon" is found alongside the path you walk. (Christ Himself did not carry His own cross. Simon did.) Again I am sorry and I will be praying.
Ed Russell
Friendsville, Tn. - Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:52 PM CST
I have been checking Reeses webpage often now to see how he is doing. I got his web address from Jacob Deal's site. Reese is a doll and I know he has been fighting just as hard as he can. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers. The Lord works in mysterious ways, a miracle could be right around the corner.
Kelly <kluther@radford.edu>
Fieldale, VA USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:45 PM CST
Shawn I am so sorry to see the latest update. Poor little guy has been through so much.
But please dont give up, we can get a miracle, we have to all believe that.
Know that countless people have Reese and your family in their thoughts and prayers, including everyone at Smile Quilts.



Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:44 PM CST
We heard about you through Jillian's website. May God Bless you and your family. All thoughts and prayers are with you.


Stupka Family
Middleburg Hts., OH USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:29 PM CST
I am right there with you. yes miracles happen, we will be prying very hard for all of you and Reese. please hang in there and have faith. God bless you
Marcella and Sean

Marcella and Sean
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:23 PM CST
We are praying for Reese. Miracles do happen - just have faith! Stay strong and if there is anything we can do for you all right now, please let us know.
Dan, Sue and Tucker Hall <dansuetuck@cognisurf.com>
Havelock, NC USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:04 PM CST
Doug and Shawn,

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers constantly. I have been keeping up with the updates and check in almost everyday but, haven't signed the guestbook. If there is anything that my family or I can do, please don't hesitate to let us know.

Stefanie Parker <stefanieparker@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, NC US - Sunday, March 9, 2003 5:23 PM CST
We will be praying for Reese and you all. I know what you are all going through and feeling. I lost my daughter last year to a cancerous brain tumor. Never stop trusting in the Lord. We know that nothing is impossible for Him and miracles do happen. And through it all He is with us, doing what is best for us and working out His perfect plan. I pray, not only for Reese's healing, but for strength for the family....I know how tired you all are...praying, worrying, hoping, stress..... May the Lord fill you all with His peace and give you strength.
Love in Christ, The Fernandez Family

Yvonne Fernandez <yvonnengzs@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC US - Sunday, March 9, 2003 5:22 PM CST
"Hear my cry, O God; listen to my prayer. From the ends of
the earth I call to you,...lead me to the rock that is
higher than I. For you have been my refuge, a strong tower
against the foe." (Psalm 61:1-3)
Your pain in this crisis is deep. I will pray for the
healing you need; and for the strength you will need in
the coming times.

Darla Stewart (mother of 2 with dx of MPS6) <D6318_@hotmail.com>
Waverly, Illinois United States - Sunday, March 9, 2003 5:07 PM CST
All I can say is we are praying SO hard, and we love you SO much. Love,
Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:36 PM CST
Reese and family,
Lord, come in Your power
Come in Your comfort
Come in Your wisdom
Come with the balm of Gilead
To touch and heal Reese's hurts.
Thank you that Jesus bore sufferings on the cross for him.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God."
Jesus loves all of you and so do we.
Isaiah 61:1-3
Lord, I thank you for sending Jesus to bind up the brokenhearted; to comfort those who mourn and grieve, to give them beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. Help my children to lean into the Lord when they are hurting, and exchange their heaviness for joy."
Love in Christ

Jerri McKinley and Kaden Mellema <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:34 PM CST
My heartfelt prayers are with you
Jill Cable
Maryville, TN - Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:21 PM CST
HI...I found your website through Carter's website. I am praying for Reese's recovery. I know all too well the pain and frustration you and your family are going through right now. My daughter Kassidy had Hurlers as well. She had her transplant in Toronto October 2001 and received her ANGEL WINGS Sept. 1, 2002. Please take care of each other ... MIRACLES do happen!!
Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com / www.kassiescourage.com>
Bowmanville, ON Canada - Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:13 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ann Thompson <ann_T200@yahoo.com>
UK - Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:09 PM CST
We are praying hard for Reese and your family.
Shelley Angle <rsangle@sbcglobal.net>
Parsons, KS - Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:09 PM CST
We are all praying for you and praying for Reese to be healed.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Sunday, March 9, 2003 4:02 PM CST
May God give you strength and lay his healing hands upon Reece.
Cheryl Easter
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:59 PM CST
I am holding you in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to. I have no idea how difficult this much be; I do know how to pray, though, and that's what I'll be doing. Blessings to you.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:56 PM CST
DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER WE WOULD LIKE TO BRING REESE BEFORE YOU NOW AND ASK THAT YOU MAY RAIN SPECIAL BLESSINGS DOWN ON HIM AND HIS FAMILY AS THEY NEED YOUR LOVE COMFORT SUPPORT AND HEELING HANDS TO BE WITH THEM RIGHT NOW MORE THAN EVER BEFORE....PLEASE BLESS THIS SAMLL SWEET CHILD AS HES BEEN THROUGH THE FIGHT OF HIS LIFE.....WE KNOW WHAT WONDERFUL THINGS YOU CAN DO....PLEASE HOLD REESE..THANK YOU AND IN PRECIOUS SWEET JESUS NAME WE DO PRAY AMEN Everyone repeat this prayer and pray with all your hearts for this sweet baby boy no child should have to endure such a thing.
A stranger who was very touched by your sweetie pie
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:53 PM CST
We're praying with you. Hang in there big guy. God is with you.
Jim McClelland <jkm@crystalisland.com>
Benton, LA USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:39 PM CST
Shawn and Doug,
I know it is so hard to try to hang on to any glimmer of hope and at the same time try to prepare yourself for the worst. I pray for you to be at peace with whatever God choose's for Reese's journey. We are all out here praying as hard as we can for your precious little boy. We just have to put him in God's hands now and hope God's will is for a miracle. Hugs and love from Connecticut.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:24 PM CST
I've cried so hard I can't breath through my nose any longer! I AM SO SORRY TO READ THE LATEST NEWS. I have witnessed many miracles on these Caringbridge sites and I just know I'm going to witness more. Dear Lord, please, please lay your healing hand on our precious Reese. He needs your help to get rid of the excess fluid. Lord, I pray with all that I have, please make Reese better. He has been through so much, along with the rest of his family. He has a big brother who loves him so much. Please make him better so he can go home soon and be with all of his family, under one roof. I ask all these things in your heavenly name, Amen. May God bless you all.
Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:22 PM CST
Believing in the power of prayer and the healing power of Jesus Christ, I have asked my friends and family to pray, pray, pray for you and your little one!!! We will continue to lift you all up!!! One of my favorite hymns is "On Eagle's Wings." I think that the words are fitting for your family right now as you are all being lifted up in prayer so many times each day...

"And God will lift you up, on eagle's wings, bear you on the breath of dawn, make you to shine like the sun... and hold you in the palm of God's hand."

To Doug, Shawn, Taylor, Reese, Toni and all of your family and friends,
May God hold each of you in the palm of His hand today and everyday.

Still praying,

Ann Marie Edmonds & Jason Sheets <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:14 PM CST
Hello Shawn, and family. I am a Mary Kay friend of Julia's. As I read these heartfelt words from a hurting family, I hurt so too. It is very difficult to trust God with all things. And, I can only begin to imagine how almost impossible it is to understand God's will in the life of a child that is failing in health. I am so so so sorry for the pain that your family is going through right now and the helplessness that you also feel. I hope that your family is feeling some peace and comfort through the prayers that are being prayed for you all right now. I just said another one myself. Hold on to the promises in the Bible of God never leaving your side. Continue trusting in him even when you don't know how you can anymore. He will never ever leave your side. I remember a couple of years ago when my family was going through a
very horrible, tragic time with many horrible issues happening all at the same time. I remember one evening at choir practice,one of the associate pastor's wife came up to me and put her arm on me, and asked me how I was doing.
I told her I didn't know, and that there are some days that I can not pray to God. I told her I just had lost the words to say. I will never forget her remarks to me and the love in her eyes. She looked at me and said, "Don't you know, that is when others are praying for you." So that is what I will say to you. May God Bless your family at this time of crisis.


Teresa Johnson <Dtcbjohnson@aol.com>
Winston-Salem , NC United States - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:12 PM CST
Coble family, My heart breaks for you and what you must be going through. I am lifting your son and your families name up to the Lord. I have also brought your name up to others that can get ahold of the Lord. I love you and am praying to hear a better up date soon.
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 9, 2003 2:45 PM CST
Shawn & Doug, I sit holding Nolan crying out to the Lord for Reese. My heart is there with you today, my tears are for you sweet family. The Lord knows each tear that falls and he is holding you now. I pray for a peace that only
God can give. If I can help in any way please call I am 5 minuets away. 303-859-0179
Love Nancy

Nancy Ramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Sunday, March 9, 2003 1:50 PM CST
Praying for you, your family, and most of all for the miracle needed for Reese. I will continue to pray for a miracle and a baby step in the right direction.
With love,

The Nash family <www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash>
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 1:37 PM CST
Hi Doug and Shawn,

As I type this, David and I are crying and praying for you and your whole family. God, Please be with Reese and his wonderful family! We think of all of you daily. We also, have been praying for all of you daily as well. If you guys need anything, please let us know. God will help you through this.

David, Angie, Melanie Johnson

David and Angie Johnson <althomas27@yahoo.com>
Pilot Mtn., NC Surrry - Sunday, March 9, 2003 12:54 AM CST
My prayers are with you and your little boy. My name is Barbara Birch and I was Jillian's preschool teacher. I have been checking in on your website every so often. My heart goes out to you!! I will pray very hard for Reese's recovery. I have two children of my own and I can't imagine what you must be going through. Stay strong Reese!!

Love,

Barbara
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 12:24 AM CST
I just wanted you all to know we love you and are praying for you. I'm sending out another prayer request to everyone we know. I check on Reese every morning and every night. I have been keeping up with your updates since they began. You guys are included in my prayers daily. I hope God will hear and answer our prayers. It just seems like yesterday that I was taking care of Taylor in the hospital when he was born. So much has happened to our families in the last few years. Please, please God, hear us and touch Reese with your healing hands. Guys, you are on my mind constantly. We are praying extra hard for you all.
Kim, Dean, and Braden Bottoms

For I the LORD thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto the, fear not; I will help thee.
Isaiah 41:13

Kim (Bond) Bottoms <dinodoodlebug@aol.com>
Mt. Airy, NC Surry - Sunday, March 9, 2003 12:20 AM CST
Praying for Reese very hard. Praying for his family also.
Kathy
Whitehall, OH - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:57 AM CST
DOUG,SHAWN
WE THINK OF YOU ALL EVERYDAY AND WE KNOW GOD IS TO.PRAYERS ARE MEANT TO BE ANSWERED,AND WE KNOW THAT GOD ALMIGHTY HEARS ALL PRAYERS.WE LOVE YOU REESE!

DARRELL,MARY,HUNTER,TARAN <FIREDAWG331@FIREFIGHTING.NET>
MT.AIRY, NC USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:45 AM CST
Shawn my heart is breaking for you and your family...my hope and my prayer is for baby reese to be healed here on earth...I have put out another prayer request for your beautiful baby and I have been keeping him in my own prayers around the clock...he has been my first thought every morning and my last thought every night...I just love him and you all so much...I know you have a lot of support here right now but please let us know if we can help in any way with anything at all...I am pretty good cook if you are sick of the cafeteria food it would bring joy to my heart if you would let me bring you guys some real food...call me 403-0131
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha (Cody's Mom) <www.forcody.org>
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:39 AM CST
Reese and family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all. I believe in Miracles!!
Dee Mullins <deemullins@adelphia.net>
Mt Sterling, KY - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:28 AM CST
Doug and Shawn...
With tears in my eyes...I read your update today. I am praying so hard for Reese and praying that God will perform a miracle today. You all are so dear and close to my heart.
Dear God, we pray for precious Reese and this wonderful family. Heal Reese's body if it be your will and touch Doug and Shawn in a special way to let them know whatever happens that You are there for them. Fill their mind and bodies with Your peace and love. Please be with Taylor and help him understand all that is going on. Amen
Love you guys and I will keep on praying!!!

Sharon Burchette // Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:18 AM CST
For to me. to live is Christ and to die is gain. If I am to go on living in the body this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ which is better by far but it is necessary for you that I remain in the body. Convinced of this, I know I will continue with all of you for your progress joy and faith, so that through my being with you again your joy in Christ Jesus will over flow on account of me. WHATEVER happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ...
Philippians 1:21-27a
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:11 AM CST
I only found Reese's site two days ago...I read the entire journal history the first day and have been praying for your sweet boy and your family since.
Sending love, prayers and healing enery always.

Theresa <treebob@dragonrun.com>
Hull, PQ Canada - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:01 AM CST
shawn and all the family,
i pray that the miracle that is needed for Reese does happen, i have been saying a prayer for that little boy, since i have known about him through Lynne. I also pray for the family to put their faith in God's hand and let him comfort you all through this.

cindy peppler <cpeppler@cox.net>
va beach, , va - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:50 AM CST
I was talking to my friend Doug (poet) this morning in Michigan, I've kept him up to date on Reese. He's praying hard for you and & he wrote a poem today for you Reesecup & family.
OUR CHILD OF LOVE

Why would a child born of love
be denied a life of peace
Why may future be denied
for a little boy called Reese

Hasn't had a chance for life
to love his Family and Friends
Waits for prayers and miracles
and hoping his problem ends

These are things we can't explain
no rhyme or reason to share
But Reese must feel the presence
of a million hearts that care Mr. Doug
BE STRONG LITTLE ONE, KNOW WE ARE SENDING PRAYERS EVERY SECOND TO GOD, HE HEARS US AND WILL HEAL YOU BABY..

Noreen (Reese's Maine Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:39 AM CST
Doug and Shawn,
We are all praying really hard for Reese and your family.

Booker, Denise, Alicia, Tiffany, Josh
Mt. Airy, NC Surry - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:34 AM CST
Everyone I am praying for you and if you need me I am here for all of you please let me know if I can do anything.
Christy
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:30 AM CST
Shawn, Toni and family --our hearts are breaking with your last post but we will be praying for you today and asking for God's miracle and intervention and strength for all of you.
The Binghams <www.caringbridge.com/mi/isaiah>
Durham, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 10:21 AM CST
Oh Shawn,Toni, Taylor, Doug and family, How my heart goes out to you this morning.. I am praying for a miracle, we have seen it happen. Don't give up hope..... It was good to hear your voice Shawn and as a mom my heart just cant hold enough love for you as I know the heart ache you are going through right now. PRAYER CAN TURN THIS AROUND!! GOD WILL HELP REESECUP HEAL.. PLEASE GOD THIS LITTLE BOY HAS BEEN SO STRONG, HE'S FOUGHT SO HARD, HE'S SO LOVED, HAS DONE SO WELL OVER THE PAST 2-3 MONTHS, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SHOW US A SIGN IN THE NEXT 24 HOURS THAT HE IS MAKING SOME PROGRESS. EVERYONE PRAY THE HARDEST THEY HAVE EVER PRAYED THAT REESECUP WILL SHOW SIGNS OF IMPROVMENT~~~~ SENDING MANY MANY PRAYERS, LOTS OF LOVE, STRENGTH AND FRIENDSHIP FROM ONE MOM TO ANOTHER!!
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:19 AM CST
I will be saying alot of extra prayers for Reese today and will ask everyone I know to do so also. Please know that you family is always in my thoughts and prayers. I know we've never met but, through this site I fell as if I know you all. I want you to know I Love you all and am praying for a healing of little Reese. Be strong and Keep the Faith.
God Bless you!
Susie, Trey's granny

Susie Morris <jlm@gamewood.net>
Dry Fork, Va. - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:19 AM CST
Shwan and Doug,
I am so sorry to read the update this morning. I am so sorry. I will pray harder than I have before. I believe that miracles do happen and I pray that God will deliver one today to Reese. I will also continue to pray for you and the rest of your family that he will keep you strong through all of this. Continue to be strong and I pray that the next 24 hrs. the steps will be going in the right direction. I know that there has to be a miracle for Reese, I pray that it comes today.

Stephanie Conner-Surry 911 Communications <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:11 AM CST
Dear Reese and family,
My family is praying very hard for you. I pray the lord will give you the strength to get through this difficult time. I think about you many, many times during the day. I can't imagine what you are going through. I pray that GOD will give you comfort. I wish I could do more. I will continue to pray as often as possible. May peace be with you.
Love,
The Rayner Family

Tracy Rayner <TRayner@maine.rr.com>
Scarborough, ME - Sunday, March 9, 2003 8:45 AM CST
Please know that I think of all of you EVERY minute.
I am praying hard for Reese, and for all of you.
And remember that even though I am many miles away,
All of you are right here in my heart!!

Love, Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:47 AM CST
Shawn and Doug,
There's always that flicker of hope in every situation, and our Lord never wants us to forget that. Don't give up on that glimmer that the Divine Physician can do what the doctors here cannot. Hang on to that hope knowing that God will be in control and our prayers do not go unanswered. Sometimes we are not sure we are praying for the right things but God will decide what the "right" thing is and I believe our profound persistence for His mercy does help in His decisions.
May Reese take a baby step for the better today and show you that flicker of hope.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Sunday, March 9, 2003 7:29 AM CST
Good morning Reece & family,
We are praying for you daily and sending hugs across the miles.
Love,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Sunday, March 9, 2003 6:43 AM CST
I think of Reese everyday and I am keeping him in my prayers! God Bless,
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Sunday, March 9, 2003 3:26 AM CST
You remain in our Hearts And Prayers constantly.
GOD BLESS YOU All.
Ann, Joanie and Rusty
(From Codys Florida Crew)

Ann M. Mannarino <reeree49@bellsouth.net>
Coconut Creek, FL United States - Sunday, March 9, 2003 2:09 AM CST
You were my first thought this morning and now you are my last thought tonight...I have been praying for you and your whole family all day...as I do every day...Cody said a very special prayer for you tonight...I wanted to share it:

Dear God and Jesus,
Reese is a little baby that I met here and he is very sick. My mom is sad and I am too. I would like it if Jesus would come and make him better so that he can be happy again and wear his sweet pea hat. Reese is very cute and I think he should make it like I am.
Amen

Of course, I am going from memory but I think I remembered everything he said...you have touched so many people with your strength and your smile...
We love you little Reese.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 11:45 PM CST
Reese,
My heart breaks for you darling as you are struggling so hard to get well. You are such a beautiful child of God and I know He is holding you in the palm of His hand and that by His grace you will improve daily until your body is healed.
I pray for you several times a day and really do love the picture of you with your little sweet peas cap on.
Shawn and Doug--keep your faith even though the days are so very, very hard for you. Feeling weak? Remember, God strengthens.
Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."
To your whole family Jesus loves you and so do Kaden James and I.
Love in Christ,

Jerri McKinley and Kaden Mellema <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:40 PM CST
Hi again from Jillian and Laura's friend, Leigh. Just a quick note to let you know that I am praying hard for Reese and you to be strong. I have never met you but I think about you several times throughout my day and stop to send a prayer whenever I do. May God be with you by your side through these difficult days, Leigh
Leigh Greenberg <lambie@maine.rr.com>
Scarborough, Me - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:28 PM CST
Praying very hard for Reese to get better. Reese you and your family are always in my mind. I check you website all the time hoping and praying for better news. God Bless.
Kathy
Whitehall, OH - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:21 PM CST
WE'RE PRAYING Shawn, Doug. God is in control, and he know's the need. Reese is a little fighter, and with the prayer warriers that you have, God hears. I know it's hard, but try to be strong.

Love ya, Barb

Barbara <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:02 PM CST
Please know that we are praying so hard for your little Reese. I can't imagine how you are handling everything. There are alot of us that want you to know how much we care, and hope things make a change for the better!! I am glad you have a wonderful family, who can be there for you guys, aren't familys great?! Take care, we will check in tomorrow.
Tonya Lloyd <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 9:56 PM CST
Reese and Family,
You continue to be in my prayers.
Meg Fox (Jillian Lamparyk's aunt)

Meg Fox
Olmsted Falls, Ohio USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 9:48 PM CST
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU..YOUR FAITH AND COURAGE THRU THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME IS EVER INSPIRING.
CONTINUE TO EXPECT THE VERY BEST FOR LITTLE REECE AND WE ALL WILL DO THE SAME--SO MANY PRAYERS ARE COMING YOUR WAY

KAREN ALLEN <KALLEN@IWON.COM>
MOUNT AIRY, NC SURRY - Saturday, March 8, 2003 9:47 PM CST
JUST A NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS!
KIRK AND SYLVIA BOYLES

KIRK & SYLVIA BOYLES <THIS911S4U@YAHOO.COM>
MT AIRY, NC - Saturday, March 8, 2003 9:24 PM CST
Hi guys. I have been reading your entries from the beginning but have never signed the guest book. I just want you to know that I have been praying for little Reese and your whole family during all this time. I could not imagine the things you all are having to face. Shawn, your are a great woman of God and I think that your are an amazing mother. You are all in my prayers and I wish for peace upon you. Hang in there, God will see you through anything! Lots of love and prayers!
Mitzi Danley Smith <mitzidanley@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC 27030 - Saturday, March 8, 2003 9:11 PM CST
Hey everyone... I know that this is a very sad time for you all...but remember that GOD is there always to hold your hand.. I know that if you need someone that will be there it will be Jacob's mom Sharon..I know that you have plenty of people there but know that she is just a phone call away..or a few steps away.Remember that I will keep praying and everyone else that has been continuing to pray that prayer...PS...I think that little Reese will love the song for him...and that I think that it fits him well
Jackey Gillispie <jackeygillispie@hotmail.com>
Stuart, Va - Saturday, March 8, 2003 8:55 PM CST
shawn i am praying for a over night improvement you mean the world to me I wish I could make everything better. But know I am a shoulder to cry on and a friend to listen you and toni. please call me if things get worse I don;t think they will but i want to be there for you.
Christy Ratana-Aparoj
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 8:40 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I came from Jillian's site. My Meghan was in PICU on an oscillating vent. I know how scary this all is for you. You're in our prayers.
Carolyn Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 7:27 PM CST
Our God is bigger than critical condition.....never forget that. I pray he holds little Reese tightly and heals his itty-bitty lungs and everything else that has gone wrong. I also pray for courage and strength for you - his parents and family.
Jo <jvon557@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 5:42 PM CST
Keep faith that Reese will recieve the help that he needs. Amanda appreciates you checking in on her site. I don't know how so many parents in so many places handle all that our kids must go through. Stay strong and we'll be thinking about you. http://www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda/
Jon <jonwlloyd@hotmail.com>
S. Jordan, Ut USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 5:35 PM CST
My heart brakes for you as I read the recent posting. I still feel in my heart that he will pull through. Tomorrow, I set it up with Build-a-bear to have the kids from the transplant unit make bears. I am going to make a special one for Reese and bring it to you. Stay strong Reese. Stay strong mom and dad. I know you know this but you have an amazing little boy.
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Saturday, March 8, 2003 3:08 PM CST
What a precious song, for such a precious boy. He IS the best little boy, and we are praying so hard for you, Reese! We know God is watching over you and your family. Hang in there, with love,
Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 2:56 PM CST
Hi everyone,
I am so sad right now, my heart is breaking.
Please Lord, don't let anything happen to Reesie Cup, I have never even seen him. Please lay your hands on his body, so that he might be healed!!I ask this in your Precious name. AMEN

Love to you all.......Sherry
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 2:33 PM CST
We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. It is nice that Taylor is there for the weekend. I know that means a lot. Reese you are such a strong boy and we want you to know that we are keeping you in our prayers . We pray for a quick recovery.
Annette Golding
Mount Airy, NC United States - Saturday, March 8, 2003 2:29 PM CST
Shawn & Doug-
My heart is just breaking for you right now. We keep praying that God will heal Reese. I want so much for him to be better. I love his song. We are thinking of doing one for Jordan. Thanks for sharing it with all of us. We love you so much. Take care.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Saturday, March 8, 2003 1:51 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know Shawn that we are keeping Reese in our prayers. Much love to you, Doug and Taylor and to the whole family unit there. We have him on our prayer chain at church. Take care..
Brenda Edmonds and Lucille Floyd <bjduke@naxs.net>
Mount Airy,, NC USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 1:20 PM CST
Shawn and Toni, I am so sorry about what the doctors told you but I believe that Reese is a fighter and that he is going to pull this! My Grandfather was on a breathing machine a year ago Christmas, had a trak and was in ICU. The outcome did not look good for him at all! Well he pulled through with lots of prayers from so many people. So I know Reese is going to do the same! To many people are praying for him for a mircle not to happen:) All my love to your family during this difficult time. Reese..sweetie dont you give up you keep fighting with all you!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 1:16 PM CST
We have all been praying for all of you. Reese has been in a prayer chain at our church, and I update the congregation almost every week. Also, at school, Aaron asks for prayers each day when school is finished. We are blessed that he can ask these prayers at his school-where everyone listens and is compassionate. We hope you feel our faith with you all.
Lisa,Greg,and Aaron
Calumet City, il usa - Saturday, March 8, 2003 1:06 PM CST
We have never met but i pray for your family every day> it amazes me the strength that your little one has he is a beautiful boy an inspiration to us all. I will continue to pray for your family and for god to give your beautiful son the strength to keep fighting. god bless you all
nicole <nicole54660@msn.com>
lacross, wi - Saturday, March 8, 2003 1:05 PM CST
I am so sorry to see the update today. I am praying so hard for little Reese. He is a strong little boy and God works in mysterious ways sometimes. I have faith that he can get better and I hope that he will. I will be praying so so hard for Reese and for you Shawn,Doug and Taylor as well as the rest of your family. I so hope that the next update will show good news. Please let me know if there is anyting at all that I can do to help. You can reach me at Surry C-Comm.
Stephanie Conner- Surry 911 Communications <stephiec24317@yahoo.com>
Cana, Va - Saturday, March 8, 2003 12:46 AM CST
Doug and Shawn...
Just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...remember that the doctors are not always right and God is the real "Physican"!!! I know times are hard right now and the going is rough...but no matter what happens there are so many people that love you guys and are praying so hard for you!!!! I will continue to keep you all in my prayers and praying for little Reese and Taylor too!!! Sometimes we just have to pray that God's will be done and put our trust in Him. He knows what's best and holds the "master plan". I will be checking back often. Please if we can do anything, please call. Love you all!!!

Sharon Burchette // Surry Co 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 12:45 AM CST
I am so sorry to hear what they told you, but please please keep the faith. Statistics and odds and doctors arent in charge here, please dont lose faith.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Saturday, March 8, 2003 12:29 AM CST
To Reese and Family,
Our prayers are with you all daily. We can not imagine what you all have been through but we can and will pray for you. Wishing you the best and there is one thing to always remember...Keep the faith and keep God close. He is the only one that knows what is best for all of us. He will never go wrong!

Clyde, Jill and Justin Johnson <no1student2002@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy , NC United States - Saturday, March 8, 2003 12:16 AM CST
To Reese parents,
You don't know us, but we came across your website and we are praying too for your son. The picture of him in the hat just reaches out and grabs you. What a precious little face. We have been in intensive care there at Duke also with our daughter. Keep your faith and I really beleive that your son is able to hear you and feel your love even though they have him sedated.

Our prayers are with you, Love Gary and kathy Massey
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:21 AM CST
G'Mornin little one!!! I pray all during the day for you to get well.. Even wake in the night thinking of you and pray. Continue to fight baby boy. We have so many prayers being sent for you and your family. Shawn, Doug, & Toni I pray for strength in body, mind, soul and spirit. Much love sent from Maine.
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:17 AM CST
Reese and you, his family, are in my prayers daily.
Sara Lou Cardwell <saralou@OAISAS.net>
Rockville, MD - Saturday, March 8, 2003 8:29 AM CST
Shawn and Toni, YOu two are always on my mind. I miss you guys dearly. I pray that Reese will soon show a big improvement. I am happy that you can spend time with Taylor this weekend. Know that I am thinking of you and praying for Reese. Love you
Chirsty
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 6:48 AM CST
Dear Baby Reese...
You were the first thing on my mind when I woke up this morning...I said a prayer for you before I even crawled out of bed...
You are so beautiful...precious in the sight of Jesus...take heart little warrior for the Lord shall reveal His awesome power to you and you will healed...

"Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and i will give you rest..." Matthew 11:18

Find your rest now little Reesecup for your life is bound to be full of many wonderful tasks that shall glorify our God in heaven...the enemy will always do what he can to bring you down and keep you away from the plan of God...but you are His and He has promised that healing is yours through Him...

being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you shall carry it on to completion until the day of CHrist Jesus. Philippians 1:6

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <www.forcody.org>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 5:58 AM CST
My love and prayers to you, Reese , Taylor and Doug. We are praying for Reese's improvement and on to getting well. I dont't know what words to say except that we will keep praying for our help comes from "Him."
Brenda Edmonds <bjduke@naxs.net>
Mount Airy,, n>c> USA - Saturday, March 8, 2003 0:48 AM CST
Hey Reese:
I hope that vent and your medicines help you start to feel better soon. We are all praying for you. Love, MJ

MJ www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 0:07 AM CST
I will keep your family in my prayers ,you must keep believing the words of the old children son "Yes Jesus Loves Me " , especially the words "lil ones to him belong for they are weak but he is strong " . MY GOD BLESS YOU .
Brad Brindle <brad@southlandtransportation.com>
363 Collins Rd , NC Surry - Friday, March 7, 2003 11:40 PM CST
Dear Reese and Family,
Praying all day long. I check the website daily and can't wait to hear that you are doing better! Prayers are with you and your family.

Kathy
Whitehall, OH - Friday, March 7, 2003 10:20 PM CST
HEY I AM PENNY FREINDS OF JACOB DEAL I WILL CONTUINE TO PRAY FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU ALL STRENGH. DONT LOSE FAITH. CHECK BACK LATER.

Penny Clark
bassett, va - Friday, March 7, 2003 8:32 PM CST
Reese, I am counting on you and Bella to get off these vents and out of ICU! You are both strong kids and you need to show us just how tough you can be!!!!!
I will pray every hour, every minute, every second until you two are back with us where you belong!
Love, Cathy and Jake

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Friday, March 7, 2003 7:53 PM CST
Shawn, I just wanted you to know that we are praying really hard for little Reese and for all of you. I am sending lots of prayers, love, and hugs to you all!
love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 6:41 PM CST
Reese,
We are friends of Nolan and his family in Colorado. We wanted to let you know that we prayed for you the other night and continue to everyday. We hope you are feeling better soon!

Bill and Katie
Erie, CO - Friday, March 7, 2003 6:11 PM CST
Just checkking in to let you know that we continue to lift all of you up in prayer, especially little Reese. Your description of what Reese is going through brings back so many vivid memories of what my little Nicholas went through. Thank you for continuing to place all of your faith and trust in God. The power of prayer really works.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, March 7, 2003 6:02 PM CST
Reese,
I pray that by this time today your new medicine is already taking the excess fluid from your tissues and sending it out through your kidneys.
I just came back from a World Day of Prayer service at a neighboring church and we prayed for all people who are sick and in need of cures etc. You are at the top of the list with all other young children that are sooo ill today.
Remember always to PUSH!! Pray Until Something Happens.
God loves you--now that's good news!
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 4:30 PM CST
We are still praying for little Reese... God's hand will be on him during this critical time. Lean on Him for peace and God will surround your family with exactly what you need.


Emily <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 3:54 PM CST
Shawn and Reese... not a minute goes by that I do not think about you...Reese you keep fighting! God answers prayers and to many people have been praying for you to not get results! Shawn please blow Reese a kiss or if you can get close enough to him please give him one from me:) I will check back later.


Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, March 7, 2003 3:52 PM CST
Our prayers are with you.
Vicky & Brian
Charles City, IA - Friday, March 7, 2003 3:08 PM CST
Shawn, keep up the good work. Our prayers are always with you and your family. I have a good feeling about the days to come. Keep smiling and keep updating us as much as you can. Love Sandra Nichols at Wachovia WEC
Sandra Nichols <Sandra.Nichols@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 2:26 PM CST
Hi Reese,
Sure hope today is a better day. You are in my prayers. God bless,

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Friday, March 7, 2003 2:24 PM CST
We are from Raleigh, NC. Heard about Reese from Cousin
Sandra, Wachovia Bank in WS, NC
We all prayed for you'll on this past Wednesday night.
You are in our daily prayers.

Brenda Bridges
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 1:48 PM CST
P.S. Isobel's site address is: http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel.

Thanks. God Bless

Karey McClure
St. Albert, AB Canada - Friday, March 7, 2003 1:44 PM CST
Dear Reese and family:
My Name is Karey. I am the Aunt of Isobel Peters - another child with Hurler's Syndrome, who, by all accounts appears to be in an identical situation to Reese. Reese's Grandmother visited Bella's site the other day and informed us of your situation.

Bella too is on the oscilator (sp?) and is a very frail little girl. We know your pain and struggles right now and I wanted to let you know that we will add Reese to our prayers. God will help these two beautiful babies...we just need to keep the faith.

Sending Prayers Karey McClure <kareymcclure@shaw.ca>
St. Albert, AB Canada - Friday, March 7, 2003 1:43 PM CST
Hi Reese and family- I am thinking about you all today and hoping everyone is feeling much better. Shawn - take care of yourself and know that we are praying for you to have strength just like we are for little Reese. My little boy Ross is just a couple of days younger than Reese and every time I kiss him I do 2 kisses and send one of those kisses to cutie pie Reese. I worked with Wendy, Carson's mom (www.caringbridge.org/nc/carson) and I talked to her today and told her when you come out of PICU to give you a hug for me. Like she said, Reese and Carson and Jacob are the celebrities at the school where I teach and you have a BIG fan club here praying for each of you! Take care!!!
JoJo Nichols <nicholsj.mann@rrgsd.org>
Ahoskie , NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 1:09 PM CST
Reese and your entire family will remain in our prayers. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us.
Trisha Baudendistel <bondos4@bellsouth.net>
Orange Park, FL 32003 - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:54 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you and I will have your family added to our prayer request at my church. Keep the faith and remember God can do ANYTHING!
Sandra Anderson <sandra.anderson@wachovia.com>
Cana, VA Carroll - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:32 AM CST
Doug, Shawn and family.....
You are never far from my thoughts and always in my prayers..every day...every hour...every minute!!!
Reesiecup..there are so many praying for you...rest and let those little lungs heal...can't wait to see your smile again!!! Love to you all...even "Hop-A-Long" Doug!!!

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:30 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
I learned about your website after visiting my cousin's son's website (Carson Arthur). I just wanted to let you know we are lifting Reese up in prayer along with Carson and the other children on unit 5200. I was glad to check your update today and find that Reese had improved a little. We added Reese to our prayer list at church and asked everyone to say a special prayer for him! I cannot tell you how much of an inspiration you have been to us. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Remember that God is the Great Physician and try to keep up the faith. Remember that "I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me" Philippians 4:13. This verse has become our motto while Carson has been going through his bone marrow transplant. It has helped our family and I hope that your family will find some comfort in it also!! We will continue to lift Reese and your family up in prayer!

Debbie Hargrove <hargroved.mann@rrgsd.org>
Weldon, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:24 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
I learned about your website after visiting my cousin's son's website (Carson Arthur). I just wanted to let you know we are lifting Reese up in prayer along with Carson and the other children on unit 5200. I was glad to check your update today and find that Reese had improved a little. We added Reese to our prayer list at church and asked everyone to say a special prayer for him! I cannot tell you how much of an inspiration you have been to us. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Remember that God is the Great Physician and try to keep up the faith. Remember that "I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me" Philippians 4:13. This verse has become our motto while Carson has been going through his bone marrow transplant. It has helped our family and I hope that your family will find some comfort in it also!! We will continue to lift Reese and your family up in prayer!

Debbie Hargrove <hargroved.mann@rrgsd.org>
Weldon, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:23 AM CST
Hi everyone,
Just want you to know we are praying constantly for Reese, he is in our thoughts always. We love all of you. Please take care and we hope and pray that this new medicine will help our Little Reesie Cup. Keep the Faith!!!!
Love, Sherry & Peggy

Sherry and Peg
Merrillville & Hammond, IN USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:14 AM CST
Hello Reese,
Hello little one. I know that you are a fighter and that you are going to pull thru this. Show your mom and dad the big boy that you are. I'll check in later.
Jackey

Jackey Gillispie <jackeygillispie@hotmail.com>
stuart, va - Friday, March 7, 2003 12:04 AM CST
Shawn, I've been reading your updates for months now without ever signing the guestbook. I would have stayed "invisible" but you need to know that so many people are right now praying for you, Reese, and all the family, friends, and medical people we have come to know and care about through your entries.
sandra k. <sandra.koziara@wachovia.com>
greensboro, nc guilford - Friday, March 7, 2003 11:44 AM CST
You are in my prayers. My mother-in-law had a liver transplant in Pittsburg in June, 1998. She remained at the hosptial there for many months. My husband and his family stayed in the Family House (close to the hospital) in Pittsburg to take care of their mom. I stayed home and took care of my son (I was also pregnant w/my second child). I did travel on weekends to visit. Then she came back to Baptist for a while and then came home (yellow ribbons on the tree and all). She is doing good. She lives alone and everyone looks forward to going to nanas on Sunday. We feel very blessed that God has carried her and us through it all. She is a true miracle from God. I wanted to tell you this because I hope it gives you strength and hope and to let you know I understand completely how hard this is for everyone. My family and I will continue to keep Reese and your family in our prayers and hearts. God Bless you Reese!
With Love, Hope and Prayers-Pam, Harry Folger, Jr., Matt & Kendra

Pam Folger <pam.folger@wachovia.com>
Mt. Airy, NC United States - Friday, March 7, 2003 11:40 AM CST
Shawn and Reese- Hi I'm Carson's mom (Wendy) I have not yet meet you but I have been keeping up with you- I have told all my friends to pray for little Reese- please know he has his own little fan club at Manning School in Roanoke Rapids, NC- They all check his journal daily- We also have a mutual friend (Sharon) Jacob's mom- Jacob was on 5200 while Carson was there- My son, Carson, had a bone marrow transplant after fighting leukemia for four years- he is doing well thank God- Since being on the transplant unit I have met many sick children who go through way more than they ever should have to - please know my love, prayers, and conern go to you and your family- Also, the Mark Shultz song you talked about has been my favorite for quite a few years- it has always put things in perspective for me- Much Love- Carson's family
Wendy Arthur
Roanoke Rapids, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 11:14 AM CST
I read an e-mail about Reese forwarded to me by a friend. I am praying for him.
Beth Whyle <bethwhyle@yahoo.com>
Norfolk, VA USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 10:26 AM CST
I am just checking in and am glad he is holding his own and doing better with the fluid retention. You'll never know how many people are praying because the count goes up daily, hourly even....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Friday, March 7, 2003 8:55 AM CST
Reese, I thank God that you are "wonderfully and fearfully made" according to the bible. I believe that!! I know that what God has purposed for your life is good and that it will come to pass in Jesus name. I enjoyed the time we had together Sunday and Monday and I miss you so much.
Pastor Dennis

Dennis and Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 8:48 AM CST
You are in my prayers.
Pixie Freeman
Oil Trough, AR - Friday, March 7, 2003 8:42 AM CST
Reece & family,
We are praising God for placing us in your path and know the spirit of God is with you during these difficult days. There is such POWER when God's people pray...HOLD ON TO JESUS...
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Friday, March 7, 2003 8:12 AM CST
we are praying for you
Ronald and Maegene Reeves
- Friday, March 7, 2003 7:51 AM CST
I have been praying for Reese and your family. I am deeply sorry for what you have to endure each day. You are amazing and I pray that your strength continues. May God bless Reese. Please know that he will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love in God's name,

Wendy Ruth

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Friday, March 7, 2003 7:30 AM CST
Shawn many {{{{{HUGZ}}}}}} to you. In Jesus name I pray that every pray that is lifted up before our Lord will be answered concerning Reese. What a precious baby! Reese Happy late birthday! My prayers are with you and all of your family. Shawn I pray for strength in body, mind, soul and spirit. I ask the Lord to refresh you today, to give you more things to smile about and to give you peace and joy that is not from this world. I stand in prayer for complete healing for Reese and knowing that our father hears all the prayers going up for this precious baby. God bless you and your famiy. With love and prayers for all.


Donna <birdsong40@earthlink.net>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 6:58 AM CST
G'Mornin "Beautiful baby boy"!! Our prayers are frozen in an "ice block" and sent out this morning. (It's -12 YES again thats a MINUS) You & your family never leave our minds Reesecup. God will see you through this & we pray those little lungs are healing. One day at a time. LOVE YOU GUYS. GOOD MORNING TAYLOR!!
Noreen (Reese's Nana) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, March 7, 2003 5:52 AM CST
My son Jake had his transplant almost a year ago now. I know exactly what you are going thru. Keep letting him know how much you love him. It's so hard not being able to pick them up and hug them when you know how much you both need it. Be strong, you've both come so far. He's in God's hands and I will be praying for you all. I have sent you a little prayer that helped me.

Lord, help me to remember that nothing is going to happen to me today that you and I can't handle together.

Helen Corcoran <helen.corcoran@ntlworld.com>
Huddersfield, England - Friday, March 7, 2003 5:09 AM CST
Father in heaven,
Touch little Reese and his family right now. Your gentle touch can do so much. YOU ARE IN CONTROL, and we are so thankful -- thankful for what you are doing right now and will do in the future.
In the name of our healer, Jesus. Amen.

McKenzie's Aunt Darlene
OH - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:36 PM CST
You can add my name to the list of folks out here praying. I might not catch you at 7:00, but I pray a lot during the day and even when I wake up at night and right now you better believe Reese is at the top of my list. I also had a pretty good cry yesterday too but I pulled together and I'm back (about 5 times a day) looking for some good news. You know I am always ready for another Hurler baby to love on so I have already added Nolan to my favorits and will check in on him later. Know that you are not alone. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <arhimes@yahoo.com, www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:15 PM CST
Just want you to know that we check on Reese every day, and there were several folks around this computer last night praying with the rest of the country for your precious boy. Please keep the faith. You are an inspiration to so many. Love and prayers, Connie Horton, Jordans Gram
Connie Horton
Forsyth, Il - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:09 PM CST
Hello guys
You met a family from our church that is very special to us. Sam and nancy Ramsey and sweet little Nolan. I am so glad that God has put you together for strength. I am their pastor and they sent word that your little boy needs our prayer. We commit to pray. We also will pray for his mommy and daddy. God must love you and trust you so very much to place that sweet little boy in your life. Remember God never makes mistakes.

Pastor Dwayne and Beverley <drbartley@msn.com>
Lafayette, CO Boulder - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:33 PM CST
To the Coble Family,

Reese and your family are on my prayer list. Reese us such a very beautiful boy. I cannot imagine what you are going through and I will pray for continued strength and faith. You have so many people who care and who are praying for Reese. I'll check back.

Diane
San Francisco, CA USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:30 PM CST
You are in our prayers every night & we check on you every morning. Stay strong and God Loves You!

Lisa & Steven
Newport Beach, CA USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 6:26 PM CST
My heart and my prayers are with you. Be in God's care.
Rita Dobbins
Boonville, NC - Thursday, March 6, 2003 6:09 PM CST
Hey this is Jackey Gillispie. I am Sharon Deals cousin. I wrote to you a couple of days ago and just wanted you all to know that I continue to pray for all of you everyday. I have children of my own, but I can only imagine what your going thru. Please know that I will pray for Reese daily. When I get up, during the day and when I lay my head to rest. Know that GOD is in control and he will see you thru. I dont have much to offer but I can lend an ear or im just an email away. Thanks for letting me be a part in praying for your precious little one.
Love,
Jackey Gillispie

Jackey Gillispie <jackeygillispie@hotmail.com>
stuart, va - Thursday, March 6, 2003 6:08 PM CST
We're friends of the Ramsey family and wanted to let you know that we've been praying for your dear Reese each day as we lift up Nolan. God is so good!
Philippe & Vicki Nave <QtyNave@aol.com>
Broomfield, CO 80020 - Thursday, March 6, 2003 6:02 PM CST
Please know that here is yet another person praying for your son and your family. I can only imagine what you are having to cope with. My sister-in-law, Linda, is your Mom's friend and through Linda I have learned about Reesecup. There are a lot of people out here praying for you. May God give you the strength you need to help Reese and may He watch over your family. My thoughts are with your entire family. God bless.
Joni Tilley <jtilley86@triad.rr.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 5:36 PM CST
Hi, The song is also on a Krabbes kids webpage it is www.krabbes.com/tevorstrouble.
~Someone who cares~
- Thursday, March 6, 2003 4:54 PM CST
You are in my prayers, keeping your faith will get you through.
God bless you all

Carolyn Whitehead <ncw@ipa.net>
Augusta, AR United States - Thursday, March 6, 2003 4:28 PM CST
HEY ALL, JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WE CONTINUE TO THINK OF YOU, MICHELE AND I CONTINUE TO REMEMBER YOU IN OUR PRAYERS. I HOPE THAT YOU CONTINUE TO BE STRONG AND IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO HERE BACK HOME TO LET US KNOW.
MICKEY AND MICHELE BOYLES <SASQUATCH_925@YAHOO.COM>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 3:50 PM CST
Well I am feeling much better today after reading the entry. I know that after all the praying people did last night and continue to do is going provide a miracle! Reese has become very special to so many people, and even though not all are leaving a message many are keeping up with his progress. Please tell Reese not to give up that bighter days are ahead. Shawn, I know I have told you so many times but I want to tell you again..you are not superman, you are a mother watching her baby fight for his life and your strength amazes so many people! Sending love your way
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, March 6, 2003 3:29 PM CST
Hello sweet boy. I am thinking of you and checking on you several times a day. You strong and will get through this. The world needs you here. Hang in there buddy we are ALL pulling for you. Tell your mom it is okay to cry, she does not have to be so strong, it is okay to let others in. Be kind to yourself shawn, I am thinking of you and pray for Reese and your family!
alyssa (tom's bud) <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Thursday, March 6, 2003 3:23 PM CST
We are all still praying and lifting your family up... I am amazed at how touched people are by these kids. How their little lights shine.

Emily, Cameron's mother <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 3:05 PM CST
I just wanted to let you know, I was out with a friend last night and at 7:00, we both said your prayer. It won't be last time, I will continue to do so. Lot's of love and prayers from the Coe's.
The Coe's <caringbridge.org/va/trevorco>
- Thursday, March 6, 2003 2:59 PM CST
Hi, Shawn and Reese-
Sounds like things may be looking a little better... slowly but surely. I'm praying so hard that Reese recovers completely from this paraflu. And even though you are being put through the ringer, you have enough heart to mention the others who are starting this journey. Thank you, for the website on Nolan. We'll link up with them soon. Know you are in our every prayer. Stay strong- Love,

Jenny Birmingham <www.missmollyb.com>
- Thursday, March 6, 2003 2:56 PM CST
I heard about Reese through Robin Tucker at Hendrick Motorsports. Remember GOD answers all prayers. It might not be what we want it to be but HE knows best and won't let you down. My prayers are with you.
Margaret Stutts <mstutts@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC Mecklenburg - Thursday, March 6, 2003 2:49 PM CST
I will pray for Reese. God Bless all of you.
Dee A Mullins <deemullins@adelphia.net>
Mt Sterling, KY - Thursday, March 6, 2003 2:40 PM CST
Reese,
God Bless You as you continue to get well. Hour by hour is more appropriate for you now than to expect too much too soon isn't it?
We will continue to say your prayer from last evening daily and more often as I hear God calling out to me to do it.
You have a wonderful family and medical family all rallying around you now so you rest and have nothing but sweet dreams.
Ties of love build supportive communities. You are in a great place, Reese.
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD United States - Thursday, March 6, 2003 2:03 PM CST
Reece -

I heard about your website from Nolan's parents. They are our next door neighbors. I took NOlan's brother and sister to eat last night and when we got back, I looked at your website for the first time. Interestingly, it was 7:00 p.m. No coincidences in God's world! I said a prayer right away, and glad to see this morning that things are stabilizing. God Bless you and your folks!

ANdrea Bell

Andrea Bell <andi_bell@hotmail.com>
Erie, Co - Thursday, March 6, 2003 1:54 PM CST
Shawn, I bet if you actually knew the number of people there were praying for Reese last night at 7pm you would be totally amazed! We all continue our prayers for him to stay strong and fight through this battle. God Bless.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, March 6, 2003 1:40 PM CST
I learned about Reese from Nolan's Grammy, Edee Heilhecker. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May tomorrow be a better day.

Anna Lee Dillard
Abilene, Tx - Thursday, March 6, 2003 1:21 PM CST
We're thinking of you and praying for Reese. Glad to hear that its only pariflu. As if "only" is ever good for these children. We love you and are thinking of you always.
Love,
Carrie

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, March 6, 2003 1:12 PM CST
Shawn, I felt a very strong urge to pray for Reese and you all day yesterday. I checked in early and there was no update and I was told to pray. Then when I finally did get the update I understood why I was told to pray. I printed your update, carried it to church with me last night and gave it to my pastor. At 7:00 p.m. we all prayed the prayer you had suggested. This is not the only time we have prayed for Reese and the whole family. You have the support of the whole church with constant prayer. We have Reese's picture on the bulletin board at our church so everyone can see the sweet baby we are praying for. Just remember, when you see only one set of footprints Jesus is carrying you through your trials. Love and prayers. Martha
Martha <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:56 AM CST
Praying for Reese and you all - I have son Will who has Hunters so know what you are all going through !Love Laura
Laura Brodie <labro@wilil.fsnet.co.uk>
Birmingham, England - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:50 AM CST
I learned about Reese through a church member. This church member has a nephew(Carson) who is at Duke. The church member brought Reese before the church last night for prayer and gave us his web site. We all continue to pray for your family. Be strong and know that people everywhere are praying for Reese and your family.
Kim Bennett <bennettk.bel@rrgsd.org>
Roanoke Rapids, NC US - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:28 AM CST
We give God all the praise for every small step! I was so relieved to read that Reese is no worse and to also read all the messages from those that answered the call to pray. Even in this time of adversity and affliction, God has already used this small life to reach so many people and draw them together in prayer. I know that God has heard and will answer in his own time. I am stilling praying for all of you daily for strength and peace. God Bless you.
Debra Perry - Nurse Bethany's Mom
Burlington, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:21 AM CST
Make sure you get all the much needed rest you can so you can continue to be strong. I know it's not easy but with all our prayers for Baby Reese, the road to recovery has to get shorter and shorter. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers!! Please know that I am here for you if you need anything. Love, Lana

Lana Yountz <lanayountz@yahoo.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 12:18 AM CST
Hey Shawn and beautiful baby boy Reesecup!! Just wanted to let you know we're still out here and keep praying for Reese (and the entire amazing Coble family every day). Hang in there - Reese will be back to normal happy smiling baby boy self real soon, I just know it!!
David, Merisue, Briana and Meagan <merisuec@aol.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 11:48 AM CST
Oh I am so glad to read the new update! Sure hope you all get some much needed rest. I know it is easier said than done. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 11:25 AM CST
I am glad to hear that things are better. You will continue to be in my prayers.
Gina Trivette
Statesville, NC - Thursday, March 6, 2003 10:59 AM CST
Shawn,
Your family is so strong and you amaze me everyday! Reese is a little fighter with so many people praying for him and thinking of him. Let us know if you need anything.

Kelly Chelf <kelly_chelf@hotmail.com>
5200 PBMTU, NC - Thursday, March 6, 2003 10:30 AM CST
Hoping today is a better one
Please God let this little boy be okay

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Thursday, March 6, 2003 10:18 AM CST
I will pray for your beautiful son.
Jill Cable
Maryville, TN - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:59 AM CST
Sure hope you are getting better Reese. You are so strong and everyone is praying for you and your family. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers each day.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:58 AM CST
Reese and your entire family are in our prayers and we are asking others to pray for him. We pray for God to heal Reese. The power of prayer is very great. We are Nolan Ramsey's Grammy and Grandpa. We will continue to pray for Reese and check on him.

God Bless you.

Ron and Edith Heilhecker <ajpest@bitstreet.com>
Abilene, TX USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:49 AM CST
Reese you do not know me or my family but I have a cousin named Carson Arthur that has just had a bone marrow transplant. Last night at 7:00 pm our church had prayer for you and Carson. You and your family are in our prayers and pray for God to lay his healing hands on you. We also pray for your parents that they will have the strength to endure this. I know that through God all things are possible.
Michael D. Hargrove <lcdraper@telpage.net>
Weldon, N.C. United States - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:47 AM CST
Shawn, Sorry I did not get this message until this morning from a friend at Wachovia. I immediately did bow in prayer for Reese. God is able and I know this is much for you to endure. May your faith be strengthened at this time. We do not understand, but our faith is in trusting Him. Hold onto the song that you included on the web page as there is much truth in it. God be with you, Reese, doctors and your family.
Karen Purves
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:31 AM CST
My prayers have been for Reece and each of you since I first heard. Dawn, as you know God is able.. He will carry you through. May His love and blessings be your strength and guidance.
Karen Purves <kbpurves@earthlink.net>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:26 AM CST
We are very sadden about the news on Reese. Our prayers are with him and everyone. We said the prayer last nite at 7:00.
Bonnie Gulotta <bonnie_gulotta@hotmail.com>
Ellicott City, md Howard - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:03 AM CST
Remembering you in prayer!

God's Blessings

Deborah Dezern <dezernd@co.surry.nc.us>
Dobson, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 8:01 AM CST
Hello. I am a friend of Cody's. We said our prayers last night at 7:00 and we hope with all of our hearts that Reese is better soon. My son, Hunter, is four and has Lymphoma, so I know that heartache that it is for us mothers and fathers too. Just keep praying and we will too! You are doing a great job and you have a beautiful son.
Amy, John, Shane, Willie and Hunter Cleghon <www.caringbridge.org/va/hunter>
Suffolk, VA USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:50 AM CST
Good Morning Reese! I hope that the entry today is going to show that you have made some improvment. We have to keep the faith that the power of prayer works! I know a lot of people were praying with and for you last night. You have touched the hearts of so many people! You are such a special little boy:) You guys are always on my mind and in my prayers. I will check back later:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:32 AM CST
Shawn, having had a baby in May last year, I can just imagine what you must be going through. All of you, especially Reese, is in my prayers
Luana Hubbart <luana.hubbart@wachovia.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:20 AM CST
hello Reese and Family- I was sent your web site from a dear on -line friend. I and others in my church will pray for Reese and strength for all of you. May God put his healing touch upon your son.
Lori Armstrong <clairelori@aol.com>
houston, Tx USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:11 AM CST
We all are praying for you and Reese. If I can help in any way here in Mt. Airy just let me know. And may God contine to encourage your heart.

La'Teah Santucci
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:10 AM CST
G'Mornin Reesecup, Mum , Dad, Taylor, Aunt Toni, Grampy & everyone....... We sent out your prayer request around the country for last night! We prayed here in Maine for you beautiful baby boy & continue to pray every day. Stay strong little one! Love you all.
Noreen (Nana in Maine) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 6:54 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
I heard that Reese was not doing so good now,and I wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. You will believe that I will be praying for your little miracle (Reese)tonight at 7pm. I am thinking of you all always. I really hope that he feels better real soon. God Bless!!!

Nina Bost- US Coast Guard <nbost@cgcgallatin.uscg.mil>
Charleston, SC USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 5:48 AM CST
My heart goes out to you. I've been following Reese's journal since probably January (once I found his site after someone else mentioned his name in their journal so I could find Reese's website). How could I forget his name?? My daughters and I met you very briefly back in December when we brought in a Gingerbread House for the children to help decorate and you asked if it would be ok to put a reese's cup on it for the chimney. It was the perfect touch! I've thought about Reese ever since and was glad when one of his other cellmates mentioned Reese in their journal. I may be a stranger, but I hope it helps to know that I am praying for Reese, and for you. I can't even begin to know your pain....
Kelly Seibert <RSeib44725@aol.com>
Hillsborough, NC - Thursday, March 6, 2003 4:59 AM CST
i CHECK ON YOU EVERY DAY AND KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS. I PRAY FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS AND MAKE YOU BEAUTIFUL CHILD WELL. FOREVER IN MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS.
NICOLE <nicole54660@msn.com>
TOMAH, WI USA - Thursday, March 6, 2003 0:38 AM CST
I did say the prayer and I will continue to pray that the Lord watches over little Reese.
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 11:37 PM CST
We are thinking of you all. Sending ONLY POSITIVE thoughts.
Kathy and Arthur Stedman <AKStedman@msn.com>
Herlong, CA Lassen - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 11:33 PM CST
Hi Reese:
I'm sorry you are having a hard time and in PICU. It is no fun! I uses a vent everyday, so I know how hard it is. I used to use a BiPAP. I hope you start feeling better and all those prayers sent up are helping. Take care. Love, your new buddy, MJ

www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
Rye Brook,, ny - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 11:30 PM CST
Lots of people are thinking of you sweetie.
I hope the next update is to tell us you took a big turn for the better.
Hugs & prayers,


Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 11:28 PM CST
Hey Reese,
This is Nolan Ramsey's uncle, you and I share the same birthday my friend and I am praying for you and Ilook forward to getting to meet you one day soon when I am there to visit my nephew.

Michael Davis <michael_r_davis@sbcglobal.net>
Dallas, TX USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 11:04 PM CST
Shawn,
You are an incredible person... it takes amazing strength and faith to see Reese endure all he has, and I know you want him off those machines. Reese is such a fighter- he is showing everyone how determined he is, and God is watching over you all. I'm relieved you allowed yourself to vent- and I'm so glad you have family there to support you through every day. Hang in there. I prayed for Reese today, and will continue to keep you all in my prayers. Love you!

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:59 PM CST
I check Reese nightly, I was so sad to hear your update. I can't imagine how hard it would be to see him day after day like that. Tonight I checked in after 7 pm, but please know I said a prayer for your little boy tonight, and will continue to pray for him, and say a prayer for you as well. Take care, I will check back soon.
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
SLC, UT - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:23 PM CST
I found your site off of McKenzie's site. Even though I was not able to pray corporately with everyone else, please know that I said your prayer after seeing it on your site. I will also continue to pray for Reese daily during this difficult time. He is absolutely precious, no child should have to endure this, but I pray that God's presence is felt all around him.
In Him,

Debbie Nagy
Manchester, MO - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:48 PM CST
I joined you and the thousands this evening to pray for your son. I am honored to have been part of your request. As a Mom of a little boy 4 months older than Reese, I wish there was something more that I could do for you and especially to help Reese. But, prayer is a great healer and I will continue to be vigilant to Reese in prayer.

I hope that knowing we were all praying for you is able to give you some peace. You are not alone and those of us out here who have never met you and your family carry you with us in our hearts and thoughts daily. Reese has touched many and I will continue to hold him up in prayer.

Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:28 PM CST
Dear Reese: You and your family are being held in prayer in San Antonio, Texas. I am Nolan Ramsey's great aunt and send you my love and prayers. God bless all of you.
Carolyn Thurmond <cthurmond@ev1.net>
Pipe Creek, TX USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:09 PM CST
Hang in there, reese. You and Bella will fight this together!!!!!!!
Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:07 PM CST
I have just now had a chance to sit down and check your site. I said the prayer and I just know that all our voices were heard. Even through the tears, I felt peace and love in my heart and I know that the Lord is right there with him, holding his hand, taking very good care of our Reesecup. I wish I could be there, I wish there was something I could do to take some of the pain away. Much love,
Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:48 PM CST
I cant possibly imagine what your going through. My heart goes out to you and your family as well as my prayers. I believe everyone at my church has your precious baby in their prayers. Hold on to that faith and in the midst of all the chaos remember the verse BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM WITH YOU. Sometimes when it seems as though my world is spinning out of control that verse brings me peace may it help in doing the same for you.dYou and your family will be in my prayers. God Bless
Karen
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:40 PM CST
Doug, Shawn, and little Reece
You are in my thoughts and prayers. God is with you always.

Trent and Stephanie Hutchens <trentnsteph@surry.net>
Dobson, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:29 PM CST
Hello Reese,
This is the first time I have visited your webpage. I found out that you were sick after reading my great-nephew's webpage. His name is Trey Roberts.I looked at your pictures and you are so handsome. You sure are a brave little man to be going through all of this. I know you have so many people that love you and pray for you daily, but most of all we know that God loves you and he is taking care of you every minute of the day. Reese tell your mom to hang in there and we'll pray for her strength and your healing.Mom,I read the lines of the song, He's My Son and that is my song too, because 2 years this month my son who was 17 at the time was at Duke due to a car wreck. His doctors said his odds to survive were slim to none,but by the Grace of God, my son pulled through with some brain injury. God works miracles,and i pray that your precious son will be healed. Remember, God is so good. He will never let you dowm. Please give Reese a kiss and a hug from our family.
God Bless you all,

Debbie Fox

Debbie Fox <ganmafox@adelphia.net>
Danville, VA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:53 PM CST
I read about Reese on another web page tonight. It was after 7:00 but I am praying for him and your family. I know that this is a hard time for you, but be strong and remember that God doesn't give us more than we can handle. Our lives are in his plan and he will not fail us in any thing he does. Love and Prayers Donna Michels
Donna Michels
Friendsville, TN usa - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:32 PM CST
I read about Reese on another web page tonight. It was after 7:00 but I am praying for him and your family. I know that this is a hard time for you, but be strong and remember that God doesn't give us more than we can handle. Our lives are in his plan and he will not fail us in any thing he does. Love and Prayers Donna Michels
Donna Michels
Friendsville, TN usa - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:31 PM CST
Hello Reese-I did not check my email until after 7:00 so my prayer was a little late but I know it was heard. Hang in there little buddy. I have your picture on my refrigerator door so I can talk to you often. May God Bless Your Hold Family
Joyce Stewart <jste859656@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:21 PM CST
I'm praying for little Reece and the rest of the family.
Susie Morris, Trey's granny
Dry Frok, Va. - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:18 PM CST
Shawn, Carol Spencer forwarded the link to Reece's page, and I have just spent the last 2 1/2 hours reading the journal from the first entry to today's heart-breaking, gut-renching situation. What a tremendous rollercoaster of emotions you present with your amazing detailed journal entries, you should take these journal entries and write a book. I noticed that the entries when you, Reece and Toni were staying in the apartment allowed you guys to focus on things on the outside like sheets, furniture and the weather. I hope and pray with all of my heart that Reece improves to the point where you and all of your family can again worry about things like traffic, bad drivers, and the weather instead of things like vents, oscillators, IVs, SATS and O2 levels. And my all of animal-loving prayers also go out to your dog as she fights to get well along with your amazing determined son, the mighty fighter of all fights!! I pray with all of my heart and soul, and strong, positive energy that Reece fights his way back out of that cold, sterile and scary PICU, back into the loving sanctuary of the 5200 floor, then back out to the crappy but outside apartment, and eventually back to the beautiful world of Mount Airy. Peace and comfort be with you, and all of your family.
Michelle McClymonds <michelle.mcclymonds@wachovia.com>
Winston, NC US - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:39 PM CST
As I began to pray for little Reese tonight I could not even begin to hold back my tears. You see, God uses even the most difficult of circumstances to bring His children to His side. I feel it such an honor and privilege to have had the chance to pray for and with someone I do not know personally. God knew the many people who would be called together to lift up little Reese tonight. God used Reese to cross many barriers... age, religion and I'm sure there are others. He may have even called non-Christians to drop to their knees to pray for Reese. We do serve an awsome God and I know that He hears each and every one of us tonight as we cry out to Him for help. Please find time to rest in the Lord. May He continue to sustain each one of you and give you exaclty what you need to get through each and every moment of every day. I will continue to pray for all of you.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:25 PM CST
Reese's family I wanted so much to walk down to be with you tonight to pray, but we are in room 5622 now and I couldn't leave Nolan alone. Nolan and I are praying at this very moment in agreement with you that Reese will be healed. Reese, Nolan needs you to be his buddy to show him the ropes you fight with all your might, Jesus is holding you and protecting you now. We love you and adore your family thank you for sharing them with us. Thanks so much for making us feel so welcome like family last night.
Nancy Ramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:19 PM CST
Your prayer request went out to everyone on my prayer request list and the people who were in my office. I know that Jesus heard us. I am going to church tonight for Ash Wednesday services. I will say a special prayer for you.

You are such a cute good-looking kid. It's a joy to see your smile.

Jim, Kim, Patrick, Patricia and Loren McClelland <jkm@crystalisland.com>
Benton, LA USA` - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:18 PM CST
I READ YOUR PAGE ON MARCH 5 AND BY THE TIME I GOT TO THE PRAYER IT WAS EXACTLY 7:00. I KNOW IT WAS NO ACCIDENT THAT THIS HAPPENED SINCE THAT WAS THE TIME YOU REQUESTED PRAYER. I GOT CHILLS AS I SAID THE PRAYER AND FELT THE SPIRIT MOVING DURING IT. MAY GOD'S HEALING GRACE AND POWER SURROUND THIS BEAUTIFUL CHILD AND GRANT HIM COMPLETE HEALING AND A LONG, HEALTHY LIFE.
LINDA <lwilmer@adelphia.net>
BOYCE, VA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:12 PM CST
Prayers coming from Pennsylvania for Reese. We will continue to pray for him daily. Barb
Barb Tomlinson - Joey's mom <btomlinson3@comcast.net>
Telford, PA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:09 PM CST
I said your prayer for Reese and added one of my own. I e-mailed everyone I could think of to pray for him and I know they did. His will be done. God Bless you all.
Judy

Judy <taejme@aol.com>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:09 PM CST
We are saying your prayer! Reese, you have to hear us and get better. Shawn, hang in there. You are amazingly strong and I love you.
Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:08 PM CST
What a wonderful Idea about the Prayer. Iam most definatly Praying it in just a few minuites.
My heart goes out to you all. Our Prayers will surely be heard in heaven tonight.
FIGHT LITTLE REESE FIGHT.. WE are all here with you.
God Bless.
Julie

Julie Ritchie
Smyrna Mills, Me USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 6:03 PM CST
My friend forwarded the message of the prayer for your little Reese. My family and I will pray for him at 7:00 tonight. I am so sorry to hear about your families struggles right now. The Lord can heal. Prayer is what I believe allowed my little girl to stay so healthy with her Wilm's diagnosis. Even her Pediatrician thought that her tumour being a stage 1 was a miracle. Keep strong.
Anna Willis <Pcprincess@ameritech.net>
Bridgeview, IL USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 5:46 PM CST
I don't know what else to say except that my whole family will be praying at 7 pm tonight when we are at our church's Ash Wednesday service. Love and prayers are going out across the miles. Even though we don't know each other personally, I care about you and your family and your beautiful baby boy
Mari Beth Ross <maribeth.ross@nrgenergy.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 5:15 PM CST
I don't know what else to say except that my whole family will be praying at 7 pm tonight when we are at our church's Ash Wednesday service. Love and prayers are going out across the miles. Even though we don't know each other personally, I care about you and your family and your beautiful baby boy
Mari Beth Ross <maribeth.ross@nrgenergy.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 5:15 PM CST
Dear Shawn, my prayers are with you and your family. I am a friend of Cameron Winn's mother, Emily and I received an email from her about your prayer request. I will pray for Reese and your family tonight and keep you in my prayers. Keep looking up because HE is the answer. God Bless you!!
Wendy Taylor
Oxford, AL - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 4:58 PM CST
I will be praying tonight, and every night. May God bless little Reese and your family.
Emily <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 4:50 PM CST
Dear shaun, I can only imagine the pain and anguish you are going through while watching your little boy struggle with this. I will say your prayer tonite and every nite in hopes that it is heard and answered very soon.
Cindy Peppler <cpeppler@cox.net>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 4:47 PM CST
I learned about Reese's site from chubbychica.com. When I looked at the pictures of Reese with the BY-PAP on, it brought back so many memories of my little Nicholas. Nicholas' doctors tried to use the BY-PAP on him several times, but it just wouldn't work.

I often hear the song by Mark Schultz and think about my little man too. When listening to that song, holding back the tears is just impossible.

You can be assured that you will have an extra prayer warrior for Reese tonight. I will continue to check your site for updates.

www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas

Yours in Christ,

Wendy Baber <vbaber@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 4:44 PM CST
My husband and I are honored to say this prayer alongside many many others at 7:00 tonight. Love and peace.
Scottie Lindsay <slindsay@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 4:28 PM CST
Shawn and Family,
My prayers are with you. My God's Blessing be on Reese. Take care.

Myra Wyrick <mwyrick1968@yahoo.com>
Cana, VA US - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:55 PM CST
Dear Shawn, Please stay strong. Reese is in God's loving hands. Our family will be in prayer for Reese and the rest of your loving family at 7:00 tonight. God Bless all of you.
Susan
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:46 PM CST
I am one of Julia's MaryKay sisters. I will have my Bible study group pray for Reese tonight at 7pm.
Gina Cass <gcass@wfubmc.edu>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:44 PM CST
Shawn,
Do not give up hope. Our prayers CAN get him through this. I've seen it happen before. I will be at church tonight at 7pm for our Ash Wednesday service and I will take your prayer with me. Hugs from Connecticut.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:41 PM CST
Shawn, Reese and family, your extended family here at Wachovia are praying with you tonight at 7:00pm as well as other times. We are all hoping and praying for you to be strong and stay healthy for both of your son's. Reese is such a beautiful little boy and we are in high hopes that he will recover successfully. God know's all and all we can do is pray as you said in your update today. Please stay strong and we all here are with you in thought and love. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you and your family. Love to you all and give Reese a big kiss for us all. God Bless you and stay strong and well.
Sandra Nichols <Sandra.Nichols@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:36 PM CST
Shawn, I am taking your prayer request to church tonight and our church will be praying this prayer at 7:00 as you asked. Hang in there and please know that our entire church (Rosebud Christian Church, Walnut Cove, NC) will be praying for Reese and your family.
Scott Tedder (Kathy's husband)
King, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:35 PM CST
Hi,
We are friends of Jillian L. We go to the same church in Naples Florida. My daughter had her transplant at Duke 5 years ago, but had spent time hooked up to a ventilator before transplant due to serious lung infections. I, like many other moms, understand what your family is going through. When we go to church tonight, we will lift up Reece and ask for prayers. 7:00 is right at the time that we pray during the service.

Kim Sweat <KSweat9588@ail.com>
Naples, Fl 34109 - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:34 PM CST
Grant, Carol, Grant Jr and Jordan Holzworth will be saying a prayer for you Reese...tonight at 7 PM.

Shawn, DO NOT GIVE UP! You have more support than you can imagine.

Grant Holzworth <gholzworth@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:22 PM CST
Please know Reese and ALL of you are in our prayers. We are praying for Reese's healing as well as for strength, energy and peace for all of you. Julia, your Mary Kay sisters are also lifting you all up in prayer. God bless you.
Cathie Greve <mk4me@aol.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 3:11 PM CST
Dear Shawn and family, I will be praying tonight along with the rest for Reese to be healed. My heart breaks for you Shawn. I do know how frightening it is to watch your child go through the ups and downs of life in the PICU and on the Oscillator. Try not to focus so on the numbers on the machines and rather just focus your eyes on Reese. Enjoy every moment with him. Try to find the inner strength that I know you possess to focus on Reese and let the doctors and nurses worry about the numbers and the machines. I made the mistake of constantly watching the numbers and it can drive you mad. It creates a certain roller coaster of emotions all its own. The slightest change in numbers will cause your emotions to skyrocket or plummet. Keep you eyes on the future, know that Reese is and has always been in God's hands. He is getting the best medical care he can get so just try to enjoy being there with him. It is just a small part of his overall life experience. Focus on the good times in your future together when he is well.
Roberta Kishbaugh
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 2:52 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
Give all of your energy to Reese.
I will be praying at 7:00 tonight. God will hear us and he will ease your burden.

No one is beyond the scope of My touch. I delight in rescuing the needy who cry out. I'm here to deliver those who have no one else to help. For the sake of My great name I won't reject you, because I was so pleased to make you My own.

Your Great Physician
from Matthew 19:26; Psalm 72:12; Samuel 12:22

God Bless You+

Jody Poolman
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 2:25 PM CST
Shawn, so many people share your tears and joys daily! Know that many people are praying for little Reesecup especially today and everyday! Be strong and remember that God is right beside you and your family.
Diane Wolfe <princessdia@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, nc - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 2:25 PM CST
Shawn, I cried tears of compassion for you and your family. I know you don't know me, but I am going to say a prayer for Reese tonight at 7:00. I am also going to tell others I know. I can't even began to imagine what you are going through, but I do know God is in control. I will remember you in thoughts and prayers. Love you all.
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 2:10 PM CST
Shawn & family, I have sent your prayer to all my praying friends. Please know that I will continue to pray for you. God Bless You1
Diane
Catawba, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 2:03 PM CST
I will be praying for you and Reese. I have been through some tough times myself lately and one day I passed a billboard at a church and it said "if he brought you to it, he'll bring you through it". I hope that may help. God Bless you and your family and I'll be praying for you tonight.
Susan P
Winston Salem, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:59 PM CST
Our prayers will be with you tonight!!
Marisa DiCarlo & Matt McClung
Columbus, Ohio - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:58 PM CST
Hi Shawn,
Just wanted to let you know that I will be praying with you guys at 7. I have also added your prayer request to my nephew Treys website so that all the people praying for him will join us in this prayer this evening. I will contine praying for your strength as well as healing for Reese. Love, Treys Aunt Kathy (www.caringbridge.org/va/trey)

Kathy <kathyphilw@hotmail.com>
NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:57 PM CST
But he knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold. Job 23:10
Afflictions come that we cannot understand, and Satan seems so busy in the matter that is is hard to trace the hand of the Lord in it at all. His hand is in it nevertheless, and he overrules everything. No trial comes except by his permission and for some wise and loving purpose which perhaps only eternity will disclose. I am praying now and will be saying your prayer at 7:00 p.m.

Debra Perry - Nurse Bethany's Mom
Bur, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:57 PM CST
Dearest Shawn,
We join you and the others in our committment to praying for Reece tonight. The Bible tell us in Psalm 62:8; Trust in him at all times; O people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge. God sees your situation..Remember...He is near...
Love & prayers,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Reese and family,
We will pray for you throughout the day and at 7:00 p.m. I will be at an Ash Wednesday service beginning at that time and will have our pastor pray the prayer with all of us.
Lord, we know that at this desperate hour Reese and his family need thee. They need your strength, your guidance, and wisdom. Reese has problems greater than any wisdom of man can solve, but Father God, nothing is too great for you to conquer. Give them honesty and courage. Only You can lead them beyond human suffering. Remind them that a "mighty fortress is our God" and You will march beside them into battle over Reese's illness and recovery from this nasty pneumonia.
The words of the hymn "I need thee every hour" may comfort you now.
I need Thee ev'ry hour,
Most gracious Lord;
No tender voice like Thine
Can peace afford.
I need Thee, oh! I need Thee,
Ev'ry hour I need Thee;
O bless me now, my Savior
I come to Thee.
Much love in Christ. God Bless you and God Bless America.

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD United States - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:44 PM CST
Always Keeps Faith & Know that God Never Makes Mistakes. Reese seems to be a very special little boy which has captured a lot of peoples hearts. I will keep him in my prayers & thoughts. Stay Strong we're here with you
Tonya Senter <TSenter@wcsr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:43 PM CST
I just had to drop you a note to say that I will say a prayer at 7:00 tonight for Reese. I also wanted to let you know that you and your family have an amazing strength and I'm not sure I could handle what you have been forced to deal with. You are truly my inspiration. Please don't feel bad about breaking down. If anyone deserves to fall apart, you do.
Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:30 PM CST
I know how you are feeling, I have been there. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yes we will pray.
Robin Olson <rolson@hmsracing.com>
Concord, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:22 PM CST
Reese, my prayers are with you and God has you in his hands. The power of prayer is truly the grace of God. I hope God's healing power will be done. I pray for you to be healed in the power of God. You are in my thoughts.
Chris Newsome <cnewsome@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:18 PM CST
We'll be praying with you at 7:00 and many.many more times. Stay strong and don't lose your faith. God is listening..always.
Michelle Emser
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:16 PM CST
We will all pray that special prayer tonight at 7:00 for Reese! He is such a fighter and I know he will be better before long. You all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:16 PM CST
Believe in the power of prayer, and remember to pray that the Lord's will be done. I will say this prayer now, and tonight at 7:00.
Jim McKenzie
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:13 PM CST
It's my weekly hello to everyone! So, hello everyone! What a fighter you are Reese! God has definitely given you the strength! You're starting to remind me of David when he fought Goliath! You're so small overcoming this giant, but I know you will be the champion at the end...just like David! Always remember that God is your strength and when you call on His name, He will be there. I know for a fact that He is there right now holding your little hand and that your room is surrounded with His angels. Keep up the fight and I love you all very much! Talk to you soon! Love, D.
Deanna Ramsey <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:11 PM CST
"Again I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will bedone for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them."
Matthew 18:19-20

I think your prayer request is awesome...I am posting it on my site...My heart and my prayers are totally with you...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <www.forcody.org>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:06 PM CST
Reese, I am so sad by the news but I know that you are a fighter and that you are going to be fine! Shawn, I completely understand your fustrations...you do not have to be strong for anyone but Reese. So many people are praying for you and Reese and I have to believe that it will make a difference! I will pass the word to everyone I can get to before 7:00pm tonight and ask them to join in on the prayer chain. If you need anything please call me at 392-7478.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:47 AM CST
God is able!
Angie Dulin
winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:36 AM CST
Hi! I have been reading your updates everyday since I heard about Reese a couple weeks ago through a friend of a friend. I've wanted to e-mail you each time but haven't been able to come up with "just the right words". Someone e-mailed the best that could sum it up - that every mother of a child can only imagine what you and your family are going through. After reading your messages each day I am a little ashamed of myself for worrying over the little things that worry me about my little boy, Ross, who is just a couple days younger than Reese. The first thing I do in the morning is check on him and pray for you and your family, and then again before I go to bed I check on him to see if our prayers have touched him. I am so sorry for all your pain and suffering! I pray that it will soon all be better and will join in on the 7:00 prayer tonight. Please know that sooooooo many people are praying for you and for a quick recovery for Reese.
JoJo Nichols <powella@schoollink.net>
Ahoskie, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:33 AM CST
Come on little Reese you can beat this, you are a strong little boy. Don't give up hope, mom keep praying to the LORD and I will pray for your little one tonite. Stay sweet Reese.
jenifer watkins <jenifer.watkins@amsouth.com>
calera, al united states - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:28 AM CST
Dear Family,
My name is Pastor Trent Lyons of New Hope Baptist Church. I am the Pastor of Eric McCann and he shared with me the need of prayer for Reese and family. I want to assure the family, especially mom that our church will be praying. We will also participate in the special prayer tonight at 7:00. I feel impressed in my spirit to share a verse of Scripture the Lord gave me years ago when I was having a most difficult time. De. 33:25 "Thy shoes shall be iron and brass, and as thy days, so shall thy strength be." The Lord used that verse to bless me day by day. It was a great comfort for me to KNOW that as my days are, there would be enough strength to meet EVERY challenge. May the Lord bless each of you and spread His healing grace upon Reese!

Trent Lyons <tlyons1@triad.rr.com>
Mt. Airy, NC US - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:18 AM CST
Shawn - I know that we don't know each other - but we are bonded by our love for our children and the Lord's love for us. I will be praying for you and Reese tonight at 7:00. Hang in there.
Gina Trivette
Statesville, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:17 AM CST
Hey Shawn!! It broke my heart to read your update. I can't imagine what you are going through. I know that you will be blessed with the needed strength. You have been such an inspiration for everyone. I hope that as time passes that Reese will improve and things will get easier for you. I will be praying tonight and will send an email to all my friends and family to pray as well. Take care and here is hoping that brighter days are on the horizon.
Wendy Cline
Rural Hall, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 12:07 AM CST
I have a 6 month old and can't even begin to imagine what you are dealing with. I pray God will work through Reese and he will be able to use this to bring others to Christ. I wish you and your family all the best.


Angie Boswell <boswell@goldsboro.net>
Goldsboro, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 11:00 AM CST
Hey Reesecup! Big Prayers are being said for you everywhere. Stay strong Mom.

Lisa & Steven
Newport Beach, - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:59 AM CST
You are truely precious! You have brought people together for a common goal, to pray for your family, and with faith we ask the one, true God from whom all blessings flow to guide your family and bless each one with strength and comfort. May God continue to strengthen your family. May you enjoy good health in order to be the most you can be and to do God's work here on earth.
Debbie Vernon-Smith <debbie_vernon_smith@hotmail.com>
Dobson, NC Surry - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:51 AM CST
I learned of your little boys condition through a prayer chain via e-mail. I am praying for him and the entire family. My children both spent some time in the NICU when they were born. They never went through anything this serious but I can still feel the pain of seeing your child laying there and you feeling helpless. But, God is BIG and answers prayer in His time. Proverbs 3:5-8 were helpul verses to us. I pray they are for you as well. Thanks.
Krystal Toney <krystaltoney@charter.net>
Inman, SC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:48 AM CST
My prayers are with all of you.
Jennifer Lineberry <jlineberry@alandale.net>
Troy, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 10:13 AM CST
Dear Reese...
Cody wanted me to tell you that you are very cute...he loves the picture of you in your seet pea hat...everynight at bed time he says a special prayer for you...his little buddy...
We are hopeful that all is well...our thoughts and our prayers are with you now and always...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:46 AM CST
Checking in and continuing my prayers.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:28 AM CST
We are all praying he continues to improve. That little guy has been through enough and now its time for him to be a normal little boy running around enjoying life.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:20 AM CST
WE ARE EACH OF US ANGELS WITH ONLY ONE WING, AND WE CAN FLY ONLY BY EMBRACING EACH OTHER. PRAYING FOR REESECUP EVERY HOUR....GOD IS GOOD!
KAYE JOYCE <kayej09@yahoo.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:58 AM CST
Hey Reese~ Just wanted you to know that I said a little prayer for you this morning. Hope this finds you a little better. Thinking of you! Andrea
Andrea Lorusso <alorusso@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:31 AM CST
I am hoping things are getting better this morning... Reese, sweetie I hope your little lungs are healing up so that you can get out of PICU. Sending love your way:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:06 AM CST
I'll keep praying. Please call or email me if I can do anything for you. Blessings and I'll check back soon.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 8:02 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know that someone in North Carolina is praying for your baby boy and your family.
Joy
Wilson, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:57 AM CST
YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BABY BOY. OUR PRAYERS WILL BE WITH HIM AND YOUR FAMILY
CRAIG AND SANDRA HOLYFIELD
DOBSON, NC - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:18 AM CST
Good Morin' Reesecup & family.....Reese, hope you had a restful night. Your such a strong little boy I know god will see us through this. Prayers and Love to all of you.
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 5:40 AM CST
Dear Shawn, I sit next to you and hold your hand as we watch over Reese. Every woman who has a child sits with you and holds your hand and prays with you. Always. All my love.
Valeria, Sean's aunt. <pittaluga@teleline.es>
valencia, spain - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 4:37 AM CST
Reese~
You are such a strong and brave little boy. Your courage and resiliency is so very inspiring. You are a hero in every sense of the word!! Continue to be strong sweetheart, you are doing so great considering all that you have had to go through! You are in our warmest thoughts and prayers and we hope to see you back on the PBMTU/5200 soon! God bless you champ!
Peace,
Greg, Debbie and baby Noah Prichard/room 5205
www.caringbridge.org/hi/noah

Greg, Debbie and baby Noah Prichard <noahprichard@yahoo.com>
Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 11:29 PM CST
Hey I was talking with doug earlier and got cut off. I hope he doesn't think that I hung up on him. I am still planning to leave at 12:30 I can't wait to see you. I love you so very much Let me know if I can bring anything with me tomorrow.
Christy <Christy@tech-plus.com>
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 11:12 PM CST
Thoughts and prayers are with you, Reese, and those who love you and those caring for you. I pray for strength for all of you. Special thoughts for Taylor who must miss you and Mommy so much. Hugs, Sara Lou Cardwell

Sara Lou Cardwell <saralou@OAISAS.net>
Rockvil, MD - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 10:37 PM CST
Reese and family----You guys do not know me, but I am a friend of Sharon, Scott, Jacob, and Jonathan. Sharon has asked for prayers for Reese, and I have started to check his website daily along with Jacob's. Just wanted to let you know that 1 more prayer warrior has joined your battle, and that I will be praying daily. I am glad that Reese seems stable right now. I have some experience with oscillators, as I am a former NICU nurse. I have only taken care of tiny infants on them, but I have seen them do wonders. Keep your chins up and keep fighting the battle one hour at a time. Reese sure has a lot of fight in him for such a little guy! I will be keeping track of his progress! Love and prayers to you all---------
Jan Winston <JWinston@Carilion.com>
Roanoke, VA USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 10:18 PM CST
Hey Reese. This is Alyssa, tom's friend. I was glad to hear from your mom today that you were stabilizing. That is great news! You are such a strong little boy. Keep fighting and see you soon.
ps- if your mom needs ANYTHING she better call me
906-5840

alyssa
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 9:21 PM CST
Always sending love, hugs, and lots or prayers for little Reese and his family.
Laura & Jillian Lamparyk <http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/ >
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 8:20 PM CST
PRAYING HARDER THAN EVER!!! KEEP THE FAITH. WE LOVE YOU ALL. WISHING YOU A PEACEFUL NITE!
BILLIE JEAN HAYMORE <bjhay@advi.net>
MT AIRY, NC - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 7:52 PM CST
Dear Reese and Family,
I came across you website on Jacob Deals' page. I know that I am a stranger but I check you site daily for updates. I just wanted to let you know that I am praying for your family and hoping that with God's strength you will beat this. I am a nurse and I am always amazed how much we can learn from children. They are such fighters.! Hang in there and know that God always has a plan for us! I will be praying everyday for your family!!


Melissa Barlow <nurseuc@adelphia.net>
martinsville, Va - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 7:41 PM CST
Hi Shawn, I pray that everything is going better for Reese. It has been a while so can you expain the difference in the vent and the oscillator. I know what the vent is capable of doing but I don't know anything about the oscillator. We are praying for Reese and all of you.
God Bless You All and hang in there.

Susan
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 7:37 PM CST
Great to hear Reese is fighting, and we sure are all praying. God has plans for Reese, and he has to get better to walk in His path!!! Don't hesitate to call if we can do anything at all. We love you all!!!
Dennis and Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 6:39 PM CST
HI There,
Just wanted you to know that our entire family is praying very hard for Reeses recovery and strength for you as parents.We are following his progress daily. I know how hard it most be to watch your baby suffer and it is so very hard for us all to understand. Try and trust that this is all part of a bigger plan God has for Reeses recovery. Big Huggsss your way, Treys Aunt Kathy, (www.caringbridge.org/va/trey)

Kathy <kathyphilw@hotmail.com>
garner, nc - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 5:32 PM CST
Hi, Reese!
We love you! Hang in there, buddy!
Love,

The Birminghams <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 3:44 PM CST
Dear Shawn, God Bless You and Reese.
Your devotion is so inspiring. My thought and prayers are with you and your sweet little boy.

katherine foster <hiriver@msn.com>
winston-salem, nc - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 3:00 PM CST
HI MOM, DAD, REESE AND TAYLOR,TAYLOR,TAYLOR!
I AM NOW AT PEPPER'S HOUSE. DR HAUSER AND HIS
STAFF MADE ME FEEL MUCH BETTER.
PEPPER WENT UNDER THE BIG BED WHEN I GOT HERE.
DON,T KNOW WHAT HER PROBLEM COULD BE? THAT IS OK, THERE
ARE LOTS OF TOYS, FOOD AND A DOGGIE BED IN EVERY ROOM.
SHE CAN STAY UNDER THE BIG BED!
BITE REESE ON THE COBLE TOE FOR ME AND TELL TAYLOR
I WILL SEE HIM SOON!

LOVE TO ALL OF YOU ! FANCY
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 2:55 PM CST
Reese you get your rest and show all those doctors just how strong you are! I hope you all have a good day. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers everyday!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 1:51 PM CST
Reese, you keep on fighting and putting everyone on their toes. I hope your dog is gets better also. Stay sweet Reese and keep on fighting...
jenifer watkins <jenifer.watkins@amsouth.com>
calera, al united states - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 1:12 PM CST
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!
Susan
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 12:23 AM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,dear baby, and with all who love you and have been touched by you.
Lew and Eva Michaud <pipsnana@aol.com>
Bangor, ME USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 11:05 AM CST
Reese and Shawn, I am thinking of you constantly! I can not get you guys out of my head:) Sending lots of love and prayers your way. Reese keep fighting sweetie!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 11:01 AM CST
Reese is just a precious little boy. I can't begin to imagine what life has been like for him or for you. You are in my prayers. I know that there is nothing I can say that has not already been said to you or thought in your own mind. Life is an unexpected journey and we are so fortunate for the experiences that we go through. No matter what amount of time we spend with one another we are better for having spent that time together at all. We are so often blessed by these Angels that God sends into our lives. Sometimes we don't realize that is what they are, you know our human eyes can't see their wings. But, they touch our hearts and move us with a love that is so deep and that is when we realize that they have wings. They fly us so high and gently set us back down with a deeper understanding of life and most of all love. You have a little Angel in your presence. Cherish him and love him with all your might, for he will always be with you.
Kristan Hartley <khartley@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 9:21 AM CST
Dear Family,
I heard about you through a friend, Kristan Tilley. I also know Morgan Barnes, who was in my sons daycare class here at NC Baptist...I will keep you in my prayers.

April Tilley <atilley@wfubmc.edu>
Winston, NC - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 8:50 AM CST
Dear Reese and Family,
I heard about your website from the Arthurs(Carson's Mom). She asked us to please pray for you and your family. I check your site daily and pray that each day I will find good news. I have two little boys that are 2 years and 6 months and I can't imagine what your family must be going through. Hang in there little buddy and may God heal your lungs. I will be praying for you and your family daily. Love, Amy Van Dam

Amy Van Dam
Roanoke Rapids, NC - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 8:48 AM CST
i will pray for your baby boy every day. Know that there are many whose prayers are heard. God is listening and is always there.
Cheryl Stinson
King, nc usa - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 8:42 AM CST
Grampy Chris is on his way to be there for you Reesecup. He left Maine at 8:55am, be in Raleigh 12.:40... Glad things went well over night. Everyone is pulling for you baby, continue to fight. LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE.
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 8:18 AM CST
We are praying for you, Sweet Little Reesie Cup. Hang in there and feel better soon!! Shawn, Toni, and Doug, please
know that we are praying for you also. KEEP THE FAITH, and remember WE LOVE YOU ALL.
Love, Sherry & Peggy

Sherry D. <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville & Hammond, IN USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 7:57 AM CST
Good morning,
When I read the messages sent to you it warms my heart that so many people are praying for you. It is such a blessing to be used by God to lift up your precious little boy. We know that our Almighty God has His arms around Reece even when you are told not to disturb him. We pray that you will find peace and comfort knowing God is near....
Lots of love & extra hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Wariors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 7:22 AM CST
Doug and Shawn,
We are thinking about yall all the time. We love you and are praying for our sweet little Reese Cup to get well.

Ed and Terrie <Edhead211@Altell.com>
Dahlonega, Ga USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 6:48 AM CST
Praying for you Reesecup,& family. Hope those little lungs heal with the rest from the machine. You fight little one. fight & be strong. WE love you "Beautiful baby boy"!
Grampy Chris & Nana Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Maine USA - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 5:50 AM CST
Dear Reese,
I found your page from another site, and have been stopping by several times a day to see how you're doing. I'll be praying for your lungs to get stronger so you can be off the oscillator and out of PICU.

Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 4:25 AM CST
Thinking of you and praying that little Reese is in the Lord's strong,loving hands.
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 1:11 AM CST
Hi, My name is Lori and I am a friend of Jillian's. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Take Care
Lori Glenn

Lori Glenn <rosesplus@cocast.net>
Bonita, FL USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 10:39 PM CST
DOUG, SHAWN AND FAMILY. IT IS NEARLY 11PM AND I GOT ONLINE TO CHECK FOR NEWS OF REESE AND FOUND IT HASN'T BEEN UPDATED YET SO I AM PRAYING THIS MEANS HE IS RESTING WELL AND YOU GUYS ARE GETTING SOME MUCH NEEDED REST. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL AND I HAVE EVERYONE AT MY CHURCH PRAYING ALSO. GOD IS WITH YOU ALWAYS. YOUR NEIGHBOR AND SISTER IN CHRIST...
KAYE JOYCE <kayej09@yahoo.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Monday, March 3, 2003 10:11 PM CST
Reese, a note from your new friends Jerri and Kaden from South Dakota.
Pumpkin, you have been through soooo much in the last 24 hrs again that I pray you are resting well. When you rest, it sure does help your family to feel better, too, doesn't it?
May God our Great Physician be with all of your caregivers and be an extension of their hands in making you well and whole again.
God is a good friend who stays close, cares, and listens.
Proverbs 18:24 "There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."
All our love and you have a very good night.
God Bless you and your family and God Bless America.
I will put you on the prayer circle at church and at the Prayer Connection at Christian Women's Club tomorrow morning.
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD United States - Monday, March 3, 2003 9:55 PM CST
Hi, I am a childhood friend of Laura, Jillian's mom, and I wanted to let you know that you have been in my prayers every day. You have a beautiful little boy and I hope he keeps getting better. Warmly, Leigh
Leigh Greenberg <lambie@maine.rr.com>
Scarborough, Me - Monday, March 3, 2003 9:54 PM CST
Hello Shawn and family, I have signed here before and I just wanted to let you know that I feel like ya'll are part of my family. I check on Reese two or three times a day and I have grown to love all of you. I commend you on your strength that God has given you and I know He will see you through. We will continue to keep you in our prayers. I just live out the road from you if you ever need anything just call. 336-786-8401
Christie and Jeff Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC - Monday, March 3, 2003 9:39 PM CST
Special, specific prayers for your little sweet pea, Reese.
Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Monday, March 3, 2003 7:43 PM CST
I found your link through Cody's web site. I am praying for Reese and for your entire family.
Elizabeth Goodwin
Richland, WA - Monday, March 3, 2003 7:24 PM CST
We`are right there, with you, near the oscillator.. God is with us all, and yes, he has a plan, and nop, you are right he is not done... keep your strenght up and we will pray along, a lot ... you are not alone...All my love
Marcella

Marcella and Sean
- Monday, March 3, 2003 7:10 PM CST
Father, God,
Reach down and touch Reese right now.
Give him and his family strength and comfort.
Let them know you are there.
I've read about their faith. . give them even more.
Thank you for what you are now doing and are going to do.
In Jesus' name. Amen!

McKenzie's Aunt Darlene
OH - Monday, March 3, 2003 7:04 PM CST
Hello shawn and Toni I am tring to get in touch with you. Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you. I plan to come up Wedensday I will leave here at 12:30 I will sit with reese and let you get rest or take you out what ever you need me to do I am there. Let me know if I can bring you anything.
Chirsty
- Monday, March 3, 2003 7:03 PM CST
Dear Reese,

I'm sending all kinds of prayers your way.
I hope you start to feel better real soon.
Mom and dad i'm praying for you.

Tracy and Lucas www.caringbridge.org/il/lucas <crazyw4k1@attbi.com>
Bridgeview, IL. USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 5:10 PM CST
Shawn and Doug,
Your journal entries are very touching.
We just wanted you to know that we are praying for you guys.

Shawn and Christy Partin <cpartin69@hotmail.com>
mount airy, nc usa - Monday, March 3, 2003 4:59 PM CST
Dear Little Reese and family - I am Cody's Grandma Sherrill. I read on his site your need for prayer so wanted to let you know that you've got mine.

Every time I read Cody's site and see somthing about "Reesecup" it makes me smile cuz that was my mom's favorite candy bar :-)

It has been so difficult to watch the things that these children have had to go through - and to trust in the process of God's plan...

May this day bring you comfort and continued hope of healing and peace.

Hugs to all! GMom Sherrill

GMom Sherrill <sherrill_kinser@hotmail.com>
Coconut Creek, Fl - Monday, March 3, 2003 4:40 PM CST
Just a note to let you know that my heart and prayers go out to you for this beautiful little angel of yours. I can't describe how that sweet little face makes my heart break to know what he and your family are going thru. I found out about Reese thru my daughter, Heather, who knows your family and have been keeping updated on Reese's condition. I will lift his name up to GOD for healing and comfort. Know that there are people who are praying for the touch of GOD on Reese's life. I will also have my church family pray for his healing.
Kathy Ownbey <yoshi@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 4:28 PM CST
Your strength is amazing and so is little Reese. I have been following Reese's progress and have said my share of prayers for him, but now I will step it up a notch. I found you through Cody's web site. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Love, The Coe's <caringbridge.org/va/trevorco>
- Monday, March 3, 2003 4:08 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear how little Reese is doing. I read about you on Cody's page. I wanted to stop by and let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will storm the heavens that little Reese gets better quickly. Take care and God bless you all.

www.caringbridge.org/ky/ryans.hope

Michele, Ryan's mom
Hebron, ky - Monday, March 3, 2003 3:45 PM CST
Hi Reese and family, stopping in to check on Reese. Please know our prayers for him and all of you continue. We know he will be so much stronger when his lungs are healed. Hugs and prayers, Sprite for Smile Quilts

Sprite <sprite@tds.net>
Eckert, Colorado USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 3:19 PM CST
Dear Reese,
You rest those lungs for awhile buddy, and you'll be back to 5200 in no time. You are such a brave little guy, and your mom is unbelievably strong. Sit tight knowing we are praying, praying, praying for you to heal. We love you!

Jenny Birmingham and Family <www.missmollyb.com>
- Monday, March 3, 2003 2:27 PM CST
Reese and his family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Please know that we feel such a bond with other 'Hurler Families' even though we haven't officially met know that you can call on us anytime! Love ~ The Irish's
Melanie, Steve, Jake, & Matt <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish>
Marysville, WA USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 12:43 AM CST
Mckenzie was in the hospital 7 months and there were a few times the Drs. did not give us much hope but know God hears our prayers, never give up and take care of yourselves.I know more than anyone how scared you are, the Drs. gave Mckenzie a 10% of survival and look at her today.I love you guys and I know everything is going to be alright.Call me if you just need to talk or even unload, I am always here for you guys!286-9305 ext.152
christinaschoenleb <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
durham, nc - Monday, March 3, 2003 12:21 AM CST
hope u all the best,may god bless you
BRENDA BILLINGS <mercede321@aol.com>
TRAPHILL, NC WILKES - Monday, March 3, 2003 11:21 AM CST
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless and keep you safe
Val Andrews <layne691@aol.com>
Bel Air, MD US - Monday, March 3, 2003 10:30 AM CST
Dear Shawn,
Please know that I am thinking of you constantly. I pray that Reese relaxes so his body will heal. God is with you, lean on him. You are a wonderful Mom.

Your gentle reassurance when things go wrong, your unfailing confidence in the face of apparent failure, your ability to trust God when life seems to be falling apart-theses responsis give faith structure and meaning. You are the "embodiment" of faith - faith "with skin on."

from Hugs for Mom

God Bless you all,
Jody Poolman
caringbridge.com/ia/elijahpoolman

Jody <jodypoolman@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 3, 2003 10:28 AM CST
Reese, I dont know what to say except to fight with all you've got and you will overcome this! You are such a little fighter and all I can do is keep praying that you will feel better soon. Shawn, it is breaking my heart to read your entries the last couple of days..Please stay strong for Reese and know so many people are praying for you! Reese you get better so that I can come and see you ok..sending lots of love your way sweetie:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, March 3, 2003 9:26 AM CST
Dear Shawn and Family...
I have tried calling the PICU floor but have had very little luck figuring out how to get them to get you...so anyway...I wanted to try to come up and see you all today...as I wanted to yesterday but also wanted to give you all a chance to get settled in with your family before getting bombarded with all of the rest of us...I will stop by later on today...it is a beautiful day outside...God has his arms wrapped around Reese and the rest of your family...I am so glad to read that you have found some peace...we continue to pray.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Monday, March 3, 2003 8:58 AM CST
Wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers every minute of every day.We wish there were something we could do to ease the pain you are experiencing right now in PICU, but with prayers, God will guiding you through this and will help Reese heal.... Fight little man!! PRAYERS, LOVE, PRAYERS, & MORE LOVE.
Dad (Grampy & Noreen) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 8:55 AM CST
Hi Shawn and Doug,

Just wanted to let you guys know that you, Reese, and your whole family are in our prayers. I saw Phyllis last week at Lowe's and I told her we were still praying for you and she told me to make sure I emailed you guys to let you know that also. I check Reese's webpage everyday. He is a strong little fighter. God will help Reese and all of you get through this difficult time.

Love and Prayers,
Angie, David, and Melanie, Johnson

Angie Thomas Johnson <angiejohnson@renfro.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC Surry - Monday, March 3, 2003 8:52 AM CST
Shawn, I has not seen you are Toni since you were little girls. I know you and your mother thru Linda Sapp. You all have been in my prayers constantly. Linda sent me Reesecups webpage today and I have spent hours reading every entry. Shawn, it must be such a blessing for you to know so many people are holding Reese and you all up in prayer. I am sending Reesecups site to some of my friends that I know will add him to their prayer list. May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.
Shenelia Cooper <scooper4@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC US - Monday, March 3, 2003 8:52 AM CST
Dear Shawn, If I can be of any help to you please let me know. I know the roller coaster of emotions that occur when your child is in PICU. I know how looking at the "numbers" can drive you crazy. I am so glad you have family around to give you support and rest. If I can do anything to help you during this time of Reese's recovery please do not hesitate to call me. 910-323-0520.
Roberta (Ryan's Mom)
- Monday, March 3, 2003 8:27 AM CST
Little Reese and family,
I pray you feel God's loving arms are around you...I am constantly in prayer for you!...When I close my eyes and picture Jesus love it feels like a huge, soft teddybear with big arms that hold us close when we need comfort, and love us with His gentleness and warmth.
May God's warmth and love surround you, and fill you with peace and comfort.
I'm praying for you when I fall asleep and all day when I am awake...
Reese...Jesus loves you.....this I know, for the Bible tells me so.... little ones to Him belong, they are weak but He is STRONG!

Philippians 4:6-7 "Do not worry about anything, but pray and ask God
for everything you need, always giving thanks. And God's peace, which is so
great we cannot understand it, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ
Jesus."

Cheryl <JLee597773@aol.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 8:25 AM CST
Shawn, I have been following Reese on the website for a few weeks now. My heart hurts for you, I check almost daily for a report on Reese. I woke early this morning with a feeling that I needed to pray for you. I take comfort that the Lord is seeing you through. I hope to meet you soon. We are here at Duke with my son Nolan who is also a huler child he is much like Reese in that he is only 10 months old. We have tonsils out tommorow and will probably be on the unit in a couple of weeks. I'll keep praying for good reports.
Nancy Ramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Monday, March 3, 2003 7:11 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know our family is praying for your little guy. Keep your head up and believe in Jesus to do the best for your son.


Tony Gardner <mayb1daydad@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 6:10 AM CST
Hey,
I was just checking in on little Reese and am so sorry he's not feeling well. I'll always remember him and your family in my prayers. Remember God is always walking by your side. He'll even carry you when you're too tired..
God Bless you all!
Treys granny Susie
http://caringbridge.org/va/trey/

Susie Morris <jlm@gamewood.net>
Dry Frok, Va. - Monday, March 3, 2003 6:00 AM CST
Dear Shawn, my name is Valeria, I'm Marcella's sister, she mentioned that your young son needs prayers. Rest assured, you are never alone. Enormous numbers of people share with you every instant of your pain. I will pray for little Reese as I do for my young nephew Sean. All my love.
Valeria, Sean's aunt. <pittaluga@teleline.es>
valencia, spain - Monday, March 3, 2003 4:59 AM CST
Shawn, I came to Reese's web site through Cody's web page. I pray you will find strength, refuge, and hope in Him Who can do all. May His hand be upon each member of your family through this difficult time. He loves You and He promises to care for you. Seek Him in and through all. God bless you.
Carla Jones <TurntoHim@cox.net>
Williamsburg, Va USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 4:56 AM CST
Shawn, I've been a little out of touch for the past week. I just got caught up with all of your entries. My heart goes out to little Reese, along with you/Toni, and the rest of your family. Like you said though, God won't put anymore on you, than you can handle. Just keep telling yourself that. We're all praying Reese will improve with each passing moment. May God comfort you, and ease the pain Reese has been having. "Hope your little puppy gets better too". God bless you Shawn, and you just hang in there. God will see you all through this.
Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 2:56 AM CST
Just wanted to write and let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I wish there were something to say to ease the pain you must be experiencing, but my hope is with prayers, God is guiding you through this and will help Reese...... hugs, thoughts and prayers!!!
N. Howry <angelin30s@aol.com>
Oldsmar, FL USA - Monday, March 3, 2003 0:48 AM CST
Hey Big Guy, Hope you feel better soon. You are a real trooper and we all love you and will pray for you


Cindy <sixjays@shaw.ca>
Selkirk, Manitoba Canada - Monday, March 3, 2003 0:25 AM CST
Your needs have been added to our daily prayer list for Reese. I pray that the ventilator will allow Reese to rest and heal, and that he may have a peaceful night.
Staci Nash <www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash>
Bowling Green, KY ~ Minneapolis for now, - Sunday, March 2, 2003 11:58 PM CST
In dealing with severe illness in my own family, I came to realize that I needed to just pray for "God's will" and not my own. It is then that the weight became lighter and the walk became easier. At that point, burdons took on a new look and a new feel. Give the thoughts and feelings to God so he can help you with the strength that you need for this trying time. Just lay it at his feet. Let go and let God. Many are praying for your family. God has heard those prayers and will answer in HIS time and in HIS way. I will pray for You also. I wish for you the best in your time of troubles. Your name has been added to many a prayer list.
Brenda McMillian,RN <mcmi@surry.net>
MT. AIRY, NC US - Sunday, March 2, 2003 11:02 PM CST
Hey Everyone,
Reese needs lots of rest to heal and he is going to get that now. He will be off that vent. in no time and he will feel so much better. He just needs to get quality sleep Shawn, and I bet you will see that beautiful smile in no time. I hope that you are also able to get some rest, Shawn and Toni, as I'm sure you also need it badly at this point. I think of you guys many, many more times than I have signed in to let you know...I pray often that Reese gets all better soon and that his Mommy and his Aunt are able to take care of themselves and do the things their body needs to stay strong. Very Sincerely,

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 10:53 PM CST
Sending lots and lots of prayers your way!
MORGAN'S PAGE


Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:50 PM CST
Please know that you guys are always in our thoughts and prayers. Let us know if there is anything you need that we can do. Hang in there and remember that He is always in control even when we aren't. We love you.
Denny and Donna Faw <donnafaw@northstate.net>
Thomasville, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:26 PM CST
Shawn,
Just wanted to let you know that we visit your site frequently to check up on Reese. Reese and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ed and Debbie Fisher
Clemmons, NC USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:20 PM CST
Hi this is Jackey Gillispie. I am Sharon's cousin. I just wanted you to know that you all are in my prayers. I know that this must be the most horrible thing, but remember that GOD is always there. And when one in praying GOD is working. You will pull thru this. I know that by reading this journal that you have a strong will and a strong family to see you thru. Feel free to write if you like .Praying in Patrick County, va
Jackey Gillispie

Jackey Gillispie <jackeygillispie@hotmail.com>
stuart, va - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:19 PM CST
Hi. You don't know me, but I found Reese's website through another caringbridge site. I wanted to let you know that your son is in my thoughts and prayers. He is such a beautiful baby. May God give you comfort and strength.
With love,

Haley Hastings <haleyhastings@yahoo.com>
Athens, GA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:16 PM CST
I just stopped and said a special prayer on all your behalf. You are a brave family and I know Jesus is right there by your side. I can only imagine how tough this must be, but be comforted in that there are so many people out there who care and are praying. Hugs and prayers, Erica.
Erica Armstrong <love2icedance@hotmail.com>
Waterloo, Canada - Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:40 PM CST
Doug and Shawn,
Just wanted to leave a note to let you know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers!!! May God wrap his gentle hands around Reese and hold him in His loving care. I am praying for you both and Aunt Toni and Uncle Andy and especially for Taylor and Nana and every family member that you have that is touched by Reese's precious life. Remember you have so many people lifting your names up in prayer and God is always with you!!!
Little Reesie...rest well sweet one and fight, fight ,fight!!!! I know you are a trooper and I am just praying for the time that your mama can post another picture of you smiling that precious smile for all of us!!! Don't be scared...Mommy and Daddy are right there with you..just rest and heal!!! If there is anything that I can do either here in Surry County or in Durham..please call!!!
Love, Sharon

Sharon Burchette Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:34 PM CST
My heart is breaking..I cant imagine..I will certainly pray.
Im asking my kids to pray as well..He sure is a cutie !!!!

Becky <Sonrise999@aol.com>
Sunrise, Fl. Broward - Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:26 PM CST
Reese and family,
You are in my prayers.
Meg Fox (Jillian Lamparyk's aunt)

Meg Fox <MegMFox@aol.com>
Olmsted Falls, Ohio USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 7:53 PM CST
Baby Reese and family,
I'm a writing buddy of Eleasha, Greg, Cody and Riley. My son Cole was on 5200 at Duke as well. I went to leave a message on Cody's page and saw that your baby was in need of some much needed prayers and I just wanted you all to know that we will pray for him with all we have in our hearts and pass the word to our other friends through our caring bridge to do the same. God bless each of you and may God rest his warm, loving and healing hands upon Reese and bring him into his safe, full recovery. Keep your faith and continue to walk him to Jesus......God bless you all dearly!

Lisa and Cole Stagner <Lisa_M_Stagner@yahoo.com (www.caringbridge.org/co/cole)>
Verona, VA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 7:40 PM CST
Reese and Family, We are praying for you. Love, Jillian's Grandpa and Grandma
Mary Lamparyk
Cleveland, Ohio Cuyahoga - Sunday, March 2, 2003 7:30 PM CST
I just want you all to know that we are praying really hard for littlle Reese. Shawn, I am praying real hard for you all to have the strength to get thru this. I am so glad that your husband will soon be here with you. I pray that Reese will get the rest that he needs and that his body will become stronger so it can kick some pneumonia butt. He is such a strong little boy and is ADORABLE! Just always know that we are sending lots of prayers and lots of love to you all. GOD BLESS YOU REESE.
Love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 7:22 PM CST
Yes you're right--I'll definitely be praying for you. Blessings.
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 6:59 PM CST
Shawn, Doug, Reese, Toni & Andy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray God will give Reese strength to heal quickly and that being on the vent. will help him rest more easily & heal. I know how worried and scared you must be at this time. May god continue to give you strength and help you through this bump in the road. WE LOVE YOU GUYS..IF you need anything don't hesitate to call us.

Dad & Noreen (Reese's Grampy) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 5:20 PM CST
My heart is heavy as you can imagine. I pray that Reese will continue to be the tropper he is and go over to PICU and rest and come back to 5200 ready to snuggle with you again. Please know that lots of children come back from PICU and are doing great. Please do not look at the past children you have seen the last few months as a track record for the PICU. I personally have seen some of these children and I have learned that everyone takes a different course. Hang in there, Reese has already shown incredible strength! We are all praying for you here in Washington State! If you ever need to talk, you can call me anytime. Toni was there for me and I would love to be here for you all! 253-863-2166
The Cottey's <cottey@gte.net>
Sumner, WA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 4:22 PM CST
Shawn I can't handle this. I am praying that reese is not going to be in there that long. He is strong and a fighter. I will come up there right now if you and Toni need me. As hard as it would be I feel like that is where I need to be. My heart is breaking right now. Please call me if you need me 9103156539.
Christy <Christy@tech-plus.com>
- Sunday, March 2, 2003 4:15 PM CST
Reese, Shawn and family,
Oh, honey, I will be praying diligently for your little body to get the rest you need to get well. Being on a ventilator will be helpful for you, but stressful for your Mommy and Daddy who want to hold you and give you big kisses. Our God is such a loving God and above all He loves the little children.
God asks us to spread His love through our actions. Reese, I do love you very much. I am an old critical care nurse who took care of kids in the ICU at our hospital when we had both adults and kids together before the PICU opened. Now we have a wonderful unit just for kids. My heart breaks for you as your body is trying so hard to get well. Praise God for the platelets you have already and we ask Him to bless you with many more new ones each day. We ask God's blessings on all of your caregivers and that He will use His power and love through them to make everyday one of less pneumonia and stress on your lungs.
John 15:12 "My command is this:Love each other as I have loved you."
God Bless you this day as hopefully it is the worst of any to come. Bless all of your family members who are traveling to be with you and to your Grandma as she cares for your sibling.
Love

Jerri McKinley <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD u - Sunday, March 2, 2003 4:13 PM CST
Shawn
My prayers are with you for strength and stamina and the ability to hold together thru this stressful and scary time. I have good feelings about this, and I'm rarely wrong, so lets let that little guy rest and get better. HUGS

Mary Lee (www.caringbridge.com/mn/davis.leukemia)
- Sunday, March 2, 2003 4:03 PM CST
Oh Shawn,
I am praying very hard for Reese to spend a minimal amount of time on the vent. I know the PICU is one place everyone wants to avoid, but if it's what his little body needs to rest and heal it is the right place for him. I wish there were more I could do but I know my prayers are the best thing right now. Keep your chins up! Reese will get through this!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Sunday, March 2, 2003 3:38 PM CST
Shawn, I am there, i am praying for all you asked for, hang in there, just a little more, Saint Pio, he said pray, keep up hope, don't worry, because worry won't help, God is merciful and WILL LISTEN TO your prayers. Reeesie boy, come on baby, come on sweetie , you can do it, we are all there,you rest, rest and let the lungs heal. God bless you, I am praying with all my heart, Shawn, I am at you side reaching out to hold you hand. it's going to be ok!
Marcella and Sean

Marcella and Sean <matcijan@entelchile.net>
Durham, nc - Sunday, March 2, 2003 2:46 PM CST
We are praying for Reese and your family. Remember, the Lord is embracing you and will carry you though this hard time. I know the PICU doctors there and they will do everything for Reese.
Karen Cannon, M.D. <kmnjcannon@triad.rr.com>
Clemmons, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 2:39 PM CST
hang in there,god will take care of you and your little boy.i don't have children of my own but i know they are a gift from god.pray for healing,but if that is not god's will,then pray for peace and an easy journey for him.god loves the little children of the world.
ann cook
state road, nc us - Sunday, March 2, 2003 2:31 PM CST
Hey everyone..
I am praying for all of you. I know you are worried and afraid. Please Dear Lord,take Shawn, Reese, and Doug into your arms and hold them tight, please ease their minds,so that they can rest. Give them strength in their time of need. I ask this in Jesus name, Amen.

Love, Sherry
Merrillville, IN - Sunday, March 2, 2003 12:25 AM CST
I just wanted you to know that Reese is in our prayers. We are praying that he will be able to come off the ventilator real soon and that his lungs will heal and the pneumonia will be no more. I am also praying for God to give you strenght, peace, and understanding to carry you through this time in your life.
Lynn Spencer <pls0818>
Conover, NV USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 12:20 AM CST
Shawn-
Honey, I wish I were there to give you a big hug. I know you are driving yourself crazy with worry. Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for Reese to get better. We love you. If you and Toni need anything at all, please feel free to call or e-mail me.

Carrie Horton www.caringbridge.org/il/jordan <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 11:24 AM CST
just to let you know we are thinking about yall and have said many prayers. hope things get better very soon.
michelle,samantha, and renae griffith (michelle from ems) <boo9462001@yahoo.com>
mount airy, nc us - Sunday, March 2, 2003 11:15 AM CST
Oh Shawn sweetie, your heart must be breaking. We are all praying for his little body to heal as quickly as possible. Try to be strong, I know its got to be impossible but try. Let us do the praying and worrying.

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Sunday, March 2, 2003 10:47 AM CST
To you and your family I am a complete stranger who by the grace of God received an email concerning your precious child. Since that time you all have been in my heart and prayers daily. I am amazed at the strength you show as a mother and pray that God will continue to strengthen you and your child. I pray that the ventilator will do its job efficiently and he will be removed soon. May God richly bless you and your family.
Renae Hutchens, Paramedic, Yadkin County EMS
(I work with some folks who know your husband)

Renae Hutchens <nremtp133@yahoo.com>
East Bend, NC USA - Sunday, March 2, 2003 10:11 AM CST
Hang in there Shawn. My niece Hanna spent 5 weeks on a ventilator, it IS possible! Reese is going to continue to be a trooper, I just know it. Hopefully him getting some rest on the ventilator will help him heal! Please ask if you need anything, so many of us at work are thinking of you and your family! You are not alone!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:42 AM CST
Dear Shawn.
Our hearts and souls are with you all the time, but especially now. We will keep praying for all of you,
and put the word out to get South Florida praying for
your precious baby Reese.
With Love and Prayer,
(Codys Crew) Ann, Rusty, Joanie

Ann M. Mannarino <reeree49@bellsouth.net>
Coconut Creek, FL United States - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:35 AM CST
Shawn, I am very sorry to hear that reese is still not doing well. I think of him everyday and pray that he will get better. Hopefully this will get him back to clinic soon! We miss him there. Take care
alyssa (tommy and alicia bennett's friend) <sabiemc@aol.com>
durham, nc usa - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:10 AM CST
Oh My Dear Shawn...
I am praying for you...for your strength and courage as you walk through the most difficult trials...I am sadden by the news that Reese must go on the Vent but I know that he will find some much needed relief there...the next few days will be the most difficult for you all and you will be our first prayer in the morning and our last prayer at night...we will check in often and late today...I will make my way over to PICU to see you all...PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF YOU NEED ANYTHING...ANYTHING AT ALL!

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha (Cody's Mom) <ehilliard@cox.net>
- Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:18 AM CST
Dear Reese and family,
I don't know you but my family is praying for you. Keep strong little reese. I found out about you from Jillians website. I will pray that your little body stays strong and for your mommy and daddy to keep the faith and have the strength to get through this!
Tracy

Tracy Rayner <TRayner@maine.rr.com>
Scarborough, ME - Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:15 AM CST
Shawn, Doug & Reese
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We pray God will give Reese strength to heal quickly and return to the smiling Reese that we have seen. We pray that God will give you the physical and mental strength. God has a plan for each of us - we just have to trust in him.
We love you

Lynne & Joe <presmonkey@aol.com>
Va Beach, Va - Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:13 AM CST
HEY GUYS, WE ARE PRAYING FOR REESE AND ALL OF YOU. KEEP YOUR FAITH IN GOD. STAY STRONG. MIRACLES CAN HAPPEN. TRY TO REST WHEN HE DOES. I WILL BE BACK TO CHECK IN.
Penny Clark
bassett, va - Sunday, March 2, 2003 7:30 AM CST
Good morning Reece,
Stopping by to let you know we are thinking of you and many prayers are headed your way...What a blessing to be part of the Caringbridge and lift Reece up for prayer. During these difficult times remember the Bible tell us in Matthew 11:28, "Come unto me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Sunday, March 2, 2003 7:10 AM CST
Im so sorry to hear Reese had a bad day,Poor baby .Just wanted you to know Im checking and praying for recovery for him everyday. Huggggsss,
Treys Aunt Kathy (www.caringbridge.org/va/trey)

Kathy <kathyphilw@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, March 2, 2003 6:09 AM CST
Dear Shawn, Toni, Reese, I continue to check and pray for you all. That bipap machine can get so annoying. My heart breaks for all of you right now. It is so hard to watch your child struggling to breathe and it is scary to have them placed on the ventilator but sometimes it may be the best. Just because it can be scary doesn't mean it can't be a good thing though. Sometimes they just need to rest a while and not have to work so hard. But hopefully dearest Reese can continue on the bipap and move forward to room air and not need the ventilator. I guess what I am trying to say is even if Reese needs the vent for a short time don't lose your faith or belief in his healing. He will get through this.
Roberta (Ryan's Mom)
- Sunday, March 2, 2003 0:23 AM CST
Hi to the Coble's!. We are the Setliff's in Collinsville, Virginia. We want you to know that the entire Setliff family is thinking of you and that we just adore the picture of 'Sweet Peas' Reese. We have a son, Jonathan, who was diagnosed with leukemia in August of 1999. Jonathan is now about ready to finish his second year of college and is doing great. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and Reese every day and you can count on it! Please take care and do remember you are thought of every day. Even thru illness such as this, wonderful things can happen, such as bringing people together because of the love for a little child. We don't know Reece, but believe you me, all we had to do was see this beautiful picture of Reece and we were in love with another child of GOD. Please take care, get some rest, and let the ALMIGHTY FATHER do HIS good works. ALMIGHTY GOD, BE WITH THIS BEAUTIFUL CHILD AND HIS FAMILY. AMEN

Ben, Pam, Jonathan, and Lauren Setliff <bsetliff@sitestar.net>
Collinsville, Va 24078 - Sunday, March 2, 2003 0:20 AM CST
TONI & Shawn,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TONI! I think it's Sunday a.m. now, but wanted you to know that I am thinking about you.

That precious little Reese is a fighter and he will make it over this hurdle just fine. I got so mad reading your previous entry which involved the experience with the FT, FN? I am very, very, very proud of both of you for holding your tongue. I have NO idea what I would've done or said. I'm afraid that my mouth may have taken over. Anyhow, I think about that Reesecup many times a day and will pray real hard tonight that he gets plenty of peaceful rest so he can get better. Very Sincerely,

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, March 1, 2003 11:58 PM CST
That's funny Shawn because Riley was almost a Reese :)

You know why, right?
BECAUSE...Great Minds Think Alike :)

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Saturday, March 1, 2003 11:30 PM CST
Oh Reese, I am sorry to hear of this setback buddy, but you will be over this hurdle and fine! Praying for you!!!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Saturday, March 1, 2003 11:08 PM CST
I am praying for you guys...I read on someone else's site that Reese was in PICU...wasn't actually really worried for a minute or two...didn't know if we had missed something...we have been praying and checking in quite frequently...we hope that Toni had an awesome birthday and was able to get in some much deserved quality time with her hubby!
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Saturday, March 1, 2003 8:37 PM CST
Shawn, been there and done that with the gall bladder. My heart hurts for Reese. It is bad enough when an adult is faced with gall bladder problems, let alone a small child. I can truly understand Reese's pain. There is no comfort zone. Hopefully, the medication will soon kick in and do it's job. At least he has had a pretty good day today. With love and prayer, everyday will continue to improve as well. Love you.
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Saturday, March 1, 2003 6:08 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TONI!
We hope Reese gets better soon. We love and miss you guys! Shawn, I am so glad I got to see you on Tuesday. Hang in there. You'll be out in no time.

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Saturday, March 1, 2003 5:55 PM CST
I am so happy to hear that Reese is off of the machine. I hope that he is feeling better today. Let me know if there is something we can do to help. Happy birthday Toni!

Alicia & Tommy Bennett -- Lumberhead@twinwolf.net <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys>
- Saturday, March 1, 2003 4:34 PM CST
Happy Birthday to Aunt Toni. What a BIG Blessing she is!!! Glad to know Reese is getting better. We'll continue to life you before the Great Physician. Everybody at church says hello!! We sure do love you all.
Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Saturday, March 1, 2003 4:08 PM CST
What a HUGE move, Reese! Way to go, buddy! You are working so hard to get better, and we are all praying that you'll do just that... Your mom (and all of us) want you out of the hospital and back at your "home" (away from home). Such good news to read you are improving. Hope the pain meds start to kick in so you are comfortable. Love you lots,
Molly Birmingham and Family <www.missmollyb.com>
- Saturday, March 1, 2003 3:39 PM CST
I'M JUST A STRANGER TO YOU WHO RECEIVED AN EMAIL REQUESTING PRAYER FOR YOU ALL. JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT LITTLE REECE AND YOU, THE WHOLE FAMILY, ARE IN MY PRAYERS. JUST REMEMBER, "WHAT GOD LEADS US TO, HE WILL INDEED SEE US THRU". STAY STRONG AND LOOK TO THE LORD FOR YOUR EVERY NEED, HE IS THERE 24-7. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND SUPPLY ALL OF YOU WITH SUFFICIENT GRACE TO HELP YOU THROUGH EACH AND EVERY DAY. TAKE CARE, AND GOD BLESS!
BECKY J. WILLARD <BECKYJEAN6080@AOL.COM>
MOCKSVILLE, NC USA - Saturday, March 1, 2003 2:46 PM CST
Dear Reese and family,

You don't know us; we're friends of Cody, Eleasha, Greg, and Riley. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Liz, Raj, and Simi
Durham, NC - Saturday, March 1, 2003 12:51 AM CST
Keeping your sweet pea in my prayers...
Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Saturday, March 1, 2003 12:44 AM CST
HAPPY DAY THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN YOUR BIRTHDAY TONI!
Cody colored you a picture buyt we weren't sure where to deliver it :)
Hope you are having a great birthday...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Saturday, March 1, 2003 12:08 AM CST
Hey Ya'll, How is everybody? So glad to here Reese came off the Bipap. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TONI!! We Love You! & are praying for you.
Darrin, Susan, & Allison <dyountz@yahoo.com>
KING, nc usa - Saturday, March 1, 2003 11:31 AM CST
Hey Shawnee. I wanted to let you know I think of you and Reese EVERYDAY. I also wanted to tell Toni:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR TOOOONNNNNIIIIIII! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! (it always sounds better this way coming from me--HA!HA!) You are an incredible sister/aunt/person. I think it's great you & Shawnee have each other. Not to mention it has to help Reese knowing there is so much love around him. Please take care and remember I love you girls. Luv ya Shawnee. :0)

Tee Cee <tcrews1@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC US - Saturday, March 1, 2003 10:35 AM CST
Reesecup?helloooo? Off beepop?? Sounds good. We are there , just beside you and mom and dad. keep it up champ, let's get out of there soon, OK?? All our love
Sean and Marcella praying and sending energy

M ans S <marcijan@entelchile.net>
- Saturday, March 1, 2003 9:52 AM CST
Hi to all,just wanted you to know I am here and praying for Reese,And for all the children there. Shawn,Doug,Taylor,Reese and Toni, Please keep the faith.
Love to all.....Sherry

Sherry Delya
Merrillville, IN USA - Saturday, March 1, 2003 9:19 AM CST
Just checking in for my daily dose of 'Reese Cup'. I am so glad to hear that the bipap is gone! That is a remarkable step!! I will continue to pray for you and check in on you. Have fun at Wal-Mart ~ isn't it amazing what you learn to appreciate through these experiences?! Hope today is even better than yesterday,
Staci Nash <www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash>
- Saturday, March 1, 2003 9:06 AM CST
Hurray!!!Go Reese. We are so happy to hear that you are off that yukie BiPap mask. Things sound like they are getting a better. We will pray for the xray to be good news and his oxygen sats to stay up. Happy birthday Toni...

Susan
- Saturday, March 1, 2003 8:34 AM CST
Good morning Reese..well it sounds like things are getting a little better! I hope you had a good night free of pain. Shawn pleas tell Toni we said 'HAPPY BIRTHDAY". Hope all have a great day:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Saturday, March 1, 2003 7:52 AM CST
hey guys, i was checking in on jacob and reese. praying for you all. hang in there. hope he does better today. check back later.
Penny Clark
bassett, va - Saturday, March 1, 2003 7:21 AM CST
Hi Shawn, Sure hope that Reese had a better night and you too. I know one thing, from reading your comments, you should go into medicine or nursing. You may even be a nurse, but you sound so knowledgeable about all that is going on. I feel like God will soon turn things around for the better for all of you. This rollercoaster of life will start going back up and climb to the highest heights soon I pray. Keep the Faith as I know you will. The world is praying for you and your sweetest joy. May God continue to bless you and keep you.
Billie Jean Haymore <bjhay@advi.net>
Mount Airy, NC - Saturday, March 1, 2003 5:47 AM CST
Glad to hear he is off the bipap, and praying things continue to move in the right direction. Lots of us are thinking of you Reese!!!!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Friday, February 28, 2003 11:18 PM CST
Shawn, I hope that Reese no longer needs the BiPap machine either. It is great to know that he is eating. Just know that we are praying for Reese and for you all. I can't wait for Reese and Jacob to feel better. Jacob is going to love that child. Jacob and Jonathan are both crazy about babies. They will have lots of fun with Reese!
Happy Birthday, Toni!

love, Sharon <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 11:13 PM CST
Happy Birthday Toni...and many more. Shawn we continue to pray for Reese to improve and hope that you and Reese can come home to Mt Airy soon. I can't wait till we can all be at HomePlace together. Didn't know I could miss a little place like that so much. Seems like when we are all up there times are so good and simple. Love you all very much

Linda Sapp
- Friday, February 28, 2003 11:09 PM CST
HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TONI!!!!!
OUR LOVE AND BEST WISHES!!!!!!!

JIM AND BETSY
- Friday, February 28, 2003 9:56 PM CST
Hang in there trooper, we're praying for you!
GOD BLESS!!!

Rhonda and Scott Cribbs <rp09_2000@yahoo.com>
Mooresville, nc usa - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:32 PM CST
Hang in there trooper, we're praying for you!
GOD BLESS!!!

Rhonda and Scott Cribbs <rp09_2000@yahoo.com>
Mooresville, nc usa - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:32 PM CST
Shawn and Family,
A friend of mine sent me your web page and I will continue to check on Reece and pray for him and your whole family. Never stop believing that God is in charge and things will get better. You will be in my prayers daily.

Pat Wells <patrica.wells2@worlnet.att.net>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:31 PM CST
Reese, sending love and prayers your way. Shawn remember God's strong arms cradle each of us in love and Reese is cradle in the hand of God. Love and miss you ,Reese, and Toni. Love,Tammy
Tammy Baker <TammyBaker @ Triad.rr.com>
- Friday, February 28, 2003 7:58 PM CST
You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. You are such a little Champ --- keep it up Reese! Love ~ The Irish's
Melanie, Steve, Jake, & Matt <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish>
Marysville, WA USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 7:08 PM CST
Letting you know my prayers are with you. I went to school with Doug(Kristi Davis). I am praying for a recovery....stay strong
Kristi KImble
Mt Airy, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 4:36 PM CST
I am so sorry you all had to endure that NP. You are right -- some people just don't need to work with children. We will continue to pray for you and Reese. Stay strong. Much love and prayers,

Wendy Ruth Paxton

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Friday, February 28, 2003 3:52 PM CST
Reece's family,
You certainly are a testimony to God's uplifting power as you face so many trials....and lately you've had your share. A special Happy Birthday to Aunt Toni, how wonderful to hear how you're all lovingly caring for little Reece. May God continue to keep His hand upon you.
Love & prayers,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 2:04 PM CST
Hello--I am glad they finally found the cause of Reese's discomfort. This NP must be young and right out of school. She seems to know more than the caregivers that have been with Reese all time and know his normal behavior. I had a doctor tell me one time that the most valuable lesson he ever learned was listening to the moms of his pediatris patients. Perhaps this NP needs to learn this also. Shawn, our prayers are with you all constantly. God is the source of all your strength. About your power--if Lewis could I am sure he would make a special trip to get you on first. LOL God bless you. Martha C.
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 12:56 AM CST
Happy Birthday Aunt Toni!!! I hope that you have a great day! I have thought all along how wonderful that it is of you to leave your job and your husband to come to NC and help your sis out like you have! I have a little sister and I know just how special sisters are, but I also know that when she hurts, I hurt. I am sure that the last few months have been tough on you as well as Shawn and her family. But, sweetie, there are going to be stars in your crown one day!!! :) God bless!

Still praying for all of you,

Ann Marie Edmonds <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 11:00 AM CST
Hi to Reese, Shawn, and Doug. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dale & Renee Ring <rring@yadtel.net>
Boonville, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 10:08 AM CST
Thank goodness that despite your insensitive, know-it-all NP, someone had the good sense to go ahead with an ultrasound! Poor little Reese! At least you can start getting relief for him now. He is in my thoughts and prayers everyday and I hope he turns in the right direction this weekend!!! I know that'll be the best HAPPY BIRTHDAY present for Aunt Toni!!!!! Best wishes for a good birthday Toni! You are a great gift to Reese and his parents!
(P.S.)...I think I know of a certain NP that will NOT be invited to share cake with you!!!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Friday, February 28, 2003 9:49 AM CST
You don't know me but I am praying for you and your family! Our God is a God of miracles! My whole church is praying for a miracle! Peace and Love!
Amy-Beth Hougland
Foster Falls, VA USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 9:39 AM CST
I'm always praying for you Reese and hoping you get better. Just overlook the NP they think they know everything and they are wrong b/c parents know best and especially if their baby is pain. Reese you are a sweet handsome little boy and your going to get better.
jenifer watkins <jenifer.watkins@amsouth.com>
calera, al united states - Friday, February 28, 2003 9:38 AM CST
WE'RE ALL PRAYING FOR YOUR SON. IF THERE'S ANYTHING YOU NEED US TO DO, JUST CALL!
LINDA HUNTER OHS AT NHSC
MT AIRY, NC SURRY - Friday, February 28, 2003 9:30 AM CST
Such a struggle you are all going through. I pray that God will ease Reese's pain and get you guys back on the road to full recovery. I will be praying for you as always.
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:50 AM CST
Happy Birthday Toni!! I pray that everyone there has a good day and that there is improvement on the way. I know you want to hear good news on your birthday. May reese start feeling better soon! God Bless you all!
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:46 AM CST
Dear Reese,
Hello precious one. I'm sorry that your days have been filled with struggles lately. You have a lot of friends at Hendrick Motorsports that are praying for you every day. Please tell mommy, daddy, and Taylor that we are praying for them too.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:27 AM CST
May God be with you all. I read this touching story and began to cry. All of you will be in my prayers from this day out. Children are truely God's gifts. I pray that each of you find strength, hope, and faith. Just remeber to give it all to God. Reese is a very special child! My prayers are with you!!!!
Shannon Delp <ShannonD@mrcsb.state.va.us>
Marion, VA USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 8:25 AM CST
Reese..baby I am so sorry that you dont feel good..but I am glad the doctors have found out what the problem is so hopefully now you are on your way to happy days:) Shawn, I hope that you never have to see that NP again, the last thing you need to be worry about is dealing with people like that! TONI HAPPY BIRTHDAY! From what I can tell you are a great sister and you deserve a wonderful day:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, February 28, 2003 7:53 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Toni !!! :-) May you, Shawn and Reese have a good day.
Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Friday, February 28, 2003 7:48 AM CST
Happy Birthday Aunt Toni! Hope you have a great birthday! Sure hope you all got more rest last night. I also hope that you do not have that same lady again that was so sure of herself and had no reason to be after all. Reese is such a precious boy and we keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Take care and get your rest! HAPPY BIRTHDAY AGAIN AUNT TONI!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 7:36 AM CST
May the Lord of Lords be with all of you at this time. When two or more are gathered in his name it will be done according to his will.
Love and Prayers are with you.
God Bless all.

Jeanette Kilen
Lowgap, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 7:09 AM CST
My prayers are with you. Children are a very special gift from God.
Dorthy Hill <dothill@renfro.com>
Cana, VA - Friday, February 28, 2003 6:52 AM CST
Dear Shawn, Toni, Reese, Hope today is a better breathing day for you. I am glad they found what was causing Reese's pain. Hopefully that will make a big difference in how he is feeling. Happy Birthday Toni.
Roberta (Ryan's Mom)
- Friday, February 28, 2003 6:30 AM CST
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY" Toni!! Hey little one glad they found the problem and have you comfortable now. Praying the meds will clear that sludge and you will be off that pap machine real SOON! Love you guys. XOXOXOXO
Dad (Grampy) & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 4:49 AM CST
Shawn,Toni and Reese,
LOVE YOU MUCH!!! WORDS ARE FEW...PRAYERS ARE MANY!!!!

Betsy
- Thursday, February 27, 2003 11:53 PM CST
Hi Reese,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Thursday, February 27, 2003 10:18 PM CST
God bless you. He is watching over you and precious Reese.
Kelly Davis <kellydesigns@aol.com>
Fredericksburg, VA US - Thursday, February 27, 2003 7:52 PM CST
Hi,
I just want to let you know that we will be praying for your son, you and your family. I do know what it's like to be burdened with hospital bills. The Lord is able! You will be in
our thoughts and prayers.

Cheryl & Todd White <cherww@surry.net>
Dobson, NC USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 6:57 PM CST
Hi!
I hope little Reese is feeling better today. He is a strong little man. Sending LOTS of LOVE & PRAYERS from Virginia.
Susie
(Treys granny) http://caringbridge.org/va/trey/

Susie Morris <jlm@gamewood.net>
Dry Fork, Va. United States - Thursday, February 27, 2003 5:57 PM CST
Praying for good news. You fight little one... Hoping the tests find the problem and you are soon on the mend. Love you guys.
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Maine - Thursday, February 27, 2003 3:10 PM CST
Dear Shawn & Baby Reese,
Just know our thought and prayers are with you.Have three grand daugters and I know how precious every minute is with them.Be strong and know the folks in Pilot Mountain will be praying for you'll.God bless you both

mary meijboom <rockdock@hotmail.com>
pilot mtn., n.c. surry - Thursday, February 27, 2003 2:51 PM CST
HELLO SHAWN AND REESE. I JUST RECIEVED THIS EMAIL THAT HAD THE WEBSITE ON IT AND WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU. I WENT TO SCHOOL WITH DOUG AND ALSO HE IS BEST FRIENDS WITH MY HUSBANDS COUSIN THOMAS KINGSBURY. SHAWN ALWAYS REMEMBER WHEN YOU THINK THAT NO ONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH YOU HAVE FRIENDS ALL OVER THE WORLD PRAYING AND PRAYER CAN CHANGE THINGS. KEEP LOOKING UP AND KEEP YOUR FAITH IN THE LORD HE HEARS AND ANSWERS PRAYER.
SHANNON SECREST TOLBERT <carolinacake@surry.net>
MT. AIRY, NC SURRY - Thursday, February 27, 2003 2:39 PM CST
Still keeping your sweet Reese in my prayers (and you all, too!)
Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 1:12 PM CST
Reese and family,
I got to your guestbook through Morgan and her mom Allison.
I am penpals with Carl Robinson who is a NB patient at Mem. Sloan Kettering in NYC. He is waiting for a stem cell transplant. Morgan is on day +7 of her SCT.
My every prayer is yours for Reese to be feeling much better today after the OG tube placement and removal. I hope his bilirubin and liver enzymes are normal and so is his gall bladder. What a beautiful little angel with his Green Peas hat on.
God's love is way beyond limits!!
Psalm 36:5 "Your love, O Lord, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies."
Keep your faith. God Bless you Reese, and God Bless America.
I have a healthy 6 year old grandson, Kaden, and someday soon, Reese you will be healthy, too. Let God's loving arms surround you and give you His peace today and in the days ahead.
Love in Christ

Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 12:57 AM CST
HEY REESE AND FAMILY, I AM FREINDS WITH JACOB DEAL AND FAMILY. HOPE YOU HAD A BETTER NIGHT. YOU GUYS ARE IN OUR PRAYER. BE BACK LATER TO CHECK ON REESE. REMEMBER PRAYERS WORK. THINKING OF YALL.
Penny Clark <wonkoolmom@yahoo.com>
bassett, va - Thursday, February 27, 2003 12:37 AM CST
Sure hope things went much better for you all last night. I hope that Reese is feeling much better and getting more rest. I know it is hard on all of you. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 10:33 AM CST
Just wanted to let you all know that I will be prayin for ya and your whole family.....seein and hearin about this whole thing really breaks my heart to know that this little boy is so sick and everyone else takes their life for granted....i sat and looked at the pictures and read the journal and just cryed hes so brave and i wish you all the best of luck....Amazing Grace Baptist Church will also be prayin for ya and it would be GREAT if i could get your address so i could get my Sunday School class to make cards for little Reese. i also wanted to take a moment to tell Shawn how WONDERFUL of a mother she is to stay in Durham and endure all that she is goin thru....you are truly brave. Thank you
~*Jennifer Hope Brindle*~

Jennifer Hope Brindle <jenniferhope@surry.net>
Mt Airy, NC USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 10:09 AM CST
Praying for each of you.
Pastor, Hardin Baptist Church

Austin Rammell <arammell@aol.com>
Dallas, NC USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 10:08 AM CST
I've been checking your website all week through Morgan's website and I want to tell you that I pray and hope that your cute adorable son gets better soon. I hate the fact that Reese didn't sleep good last night maybe he will later on today, just give him some extra extra LOVE and COMFORT.
jenifer watkins <jenifer.watkins@amsouth.com>
calera, al United States - Thursday, February 27, 2003 9:47 AM CST
Good Morning to Resse and to his parents! I just found your web site and want you to know that I am praying for you and I know God will here all our prayers.Keep the faith and we'll all keep beliving that this to will past.GOB BLESS YOU Little Man!!!
Anita Hodgin <happy2bsavedn1990@yahoo.com>
Mt.Airy, NC Surry - Thursday, February 27, 2003 9:28 AM CST
This makes my problems seem so small. I will pray for you and your family. God bless.
Dana Odom <dodom@firstpointresources.com>
Liberty, NC - Thursday, February 27, 2003 8:38 AM CST
Good morning Reese and Shawn, I was hoping the entry last night was going to say that he felt better, I am so sorry that Reese is unhappy. I can only imagin how exhuasted you are trying to comfort him while he is not feeling good. I hope that taking the air off his belly is making him feel better today. Just give him time..knowing the chest xrays have not gotten worse is a great sign! Shawn try to get the rest you need to be as strong and healthy for Reese as you can..if you need anything please let me know. Sending love your way Reese!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, February 27, 2003 8:26 AM CST
You are in my prayers today as everyday,that Reesecup will feel better and be able to rest. Please take strength from all of us who are lifting you up when you feel too tired to hold yourself up. Many Many prayers.
Debra Perry - Nurse Bethany's Mom <dperry@apollochemical.com>
Burlington, NC USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 8:14 AM CST
Praying that you are much better today! I got your web site from my great niece Morgan Barnes web page. She is also a transplant patient at Duke.
My husband is pastor at First Church of the Brethren in Mt. Airy and our church will lift you up in prayer. May the love of Jesus Christ surround you and give you peace.
Marty Cole

marty cole <wmcole@bellsouth.net>
clemmons, nc - Thursday, February 27, 2003 7:20 AM CST
Hi Reese, Praying you are resting tonight. Also prayers that the gall bladder and liver tests are all good reports. Hugs and prayers

Sprite <sprite@tds.net>
Eckert, Colorado USA - Thursday, February 27, 2003 3:23 AM CST
Hi Reese,
Sure hope you have a good night and can get some sleep. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Thursday, February 27, 2003 1:33 AM CST
Praying Reese has a more comfortable night and that everything will be ok with his liver and gall bladder. Praying for continued healing of his lungs.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 11:32 PM CST
Hi Toni and Shawn and little buddy Reese,
I miss you guys so much and can't wait until Reese is back to his ole self! We check up on you and pray for you all the time. Isaiah and I will stop by really soon. Thanks for keeping us updated --you do such a nice job of describing things Shawn. Keep strong both of you.

Pat and Isaiah Bingham www.caringbridge.com/mi/isaiah <patricib@umflint.edu>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 11:17 PM CST
We are praying really hard for Reese and for the rest of your family...you all are such an inspiration to us.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 9:55 PM CST
We are praying for Reese and everyone.

DeAnna and family <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 9:30 PM CST
Shawn, I wanted to say thanks for being there yesterday and giving me a shoulder to cry on. I'm not glad that Reese is here but i am glad that you were here yesterday. I needed the hug so bad. Thank you so much. I am so thankful that we met you guys too. I am so glad that Reese ate today. I will be so glad when he is all better and out of here. I love you guys! Thanks again.
Sharon Deal <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:25 PM CST
As a mother of a 2 year old I can only imagine what you feel. I wish, pray, and hope everything goes well with your little Reese. You keep your head up and know that the Lord hears your every prayer. Take care of yourself and your little bundle of joy.
Ronda Stark <stark125@cox.net>
Norfolk, VA USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:02 PM CST
Hi Shawn. I know you dont know me, but Im a friend of Jennifer Brindle's. She sent me an email about Reese. I am praying for your son and your family. You are strong people to be dealing with this, and God will be with you through everything. You and your family are in my prayers.
Cagney Hunter <queen_54_05@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 7:45 PM CST
Your little angel is in Gods hands and in my prayers. I got an email from a friend in Mt Airy NC requesting prayer. God bless the whole family.
Yvonne Blansett <vagal629@hotmail.com>
Norfolk, va - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 7:23 PM CST
Good evening. I pray things are better with Reese today---we're waiting on Doug's call tonight. We're still praying, too. We think of you all daily and sure will be glad when all this is over for you and you're back home with us. We love you all! Tell Toni hello!
Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 7:11 PM CST
Hi. I'm a friend of Christy Ratana-Aparoj. Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and Reese, and keeping you all in my prayers. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Wayne Mims <wayne@tech-plus.com>
Aberdeen, NC - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 6:57 PM CST
Shawn, I read your updates almost daily and think of you, Doug, Taylor and Reese so much!I am in awe of your strength and thankful for your ability to share it all with us. It truly makes one put the 'little things' in perspective. We miss you at work and think of you often. My prayers are with you and your family. I hope Reese is able to rest in the coming days so his body can heal.
Marie Dickerson <mdickerson2@triad.rr.com>
High Point, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 6:40 PM CST
Hi ReesieCup sweetie....... Hope tonight finds you feeling better. We are praying for those little lungs to heal and for you to soon be back in the apartment with Mommy & Auntie Toni all snuggled up and comfy. A big HI to Taylor glad you are all over the flu and feeling better. Love you guys.
Grampy Chris & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 5:12 PM CST
Hey Reesecup, Shawn and Toni:
I am reading the updates everyday and praying really hard!! I just know he is going to pull through this. I am glad the BiPap is helping him rest, he needs his energy to fight this nasty Paraflu! Please know that alot of people are thinking of you and praying for you, you guys are not alone. I look forward to seeing Reesecup on Saturday and rubbing his sweet little feet!

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC 27244 - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 4:39 PM CST
I hope things are ok today... I have got a lot of people praying for you so I know only good things will come from that! I will check back later to see if there is a new update..Reese sending kisses your way sweetie! Dear Lord please place your hands and comfort him....Shawn I hope you are doing ok as well..please let me know if you need anything:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 3:45 PM CST
HI YOU SWEET LITTLE ANGLE. MY SWEET DAUGHTER-IN-LAW SENT ME A PRAYER REQUEST FOR YOU TODAY AND I WENT TO YOUR SITE. I HAVE SPENT THE LAST HOUR READING ALL THE UPDATES AND EMAILS. I FELT COMPELLED TO WRITE TO YOU AND OFFER YET ANOTHER PRAYER FOR YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY, MOM, DAD, LITTLE TAYLOR YOUR GRANDPARENTS, AUNTS AND UNCLES, ALL THAT KNOW AND CARE FOR YOU. YOU HAVE SUCH A LARGE FOLLOWING AND I WANT TO JOIN IN WITH MY PRAYERS FOR YOU ALL. IF THIS EMAIL HELPS YOU AT ALL TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE SO MANY CARING PEOPLE PRAYING TO OUR DEAR LORD FOR YOUR HEALTH AND ALL THE BLESSINGS WHICH YOU SHOULD HAVE AND DESERVE, THEN MY TIME HAS NOT BEEN WASTED. MOUNT AIRY PEOPLE STICK TOGETHER AND WISH YOU HAPPY AND HEALTHY TIMES IN THE DAYS AHEAD. MAY THE LORD COMFORT YOU ALL.
BILLIE JEAN HAYMORE <bjhay@advi.net>
MOUNT AIRY, NC 27030 - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 3:03 PM CST
SHAWN, I HOPE THAT REESE IS DOING BETTER TODAY. I CHECK THIS SITE SEVERAL TIMES A DAY FOR UPDATES BECAUSE I FEEL AS IF I AM GOING THROUGH THIS WITH YOU. MY DAUGHTER AND I HAVE KEPT UP WITH REESE EVERY DAY. WE ARE YOUR NEIGHBORS HERE IN MT. AIRY AND IF YOU NEED US TO DO ANYTHING FOR YOU PLEASE LET US KNOW. I HAVE REESE AND YOU AND TONI IN MY PRAYERS EVERY DAY AND I HAVE FAITH THAT GOD WILL ANSWER OUR PRAYERS.
KAYE JOYCE <gregjoyce@rjia.net>
MOUNT AIRY, NC - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 2:40 PM CST
Hello Shawn, Toni and little Reese. Oh yeah! Tell Toni HAPPY BIRTHDAY and give her a BIG HUG and tell her she is a wonderful sister to stand by your side. I keep up to date with Reese each day, he has become so close to everyones heart. I'm sorry to hear about all that is going on with his little lungs but he is our tuff little man and he will beat this thing. I will keep praying that GOD will put his healing hands upon Reese and make him all better again. He is such a fighter but that also comes with all the wonderful support that he has with him. I pray for Taylor and Doug as well because it is just as hard on them as it is with you. You keep hanging in there and keep your chin-up evrything will be fine. God has been watching over Reese and he will continue. If there is anything I can do please let me know.
Angela Trivette <angela.trivette@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 1:12 PM CST
Hi to Reese, Shawn, and Doug. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We miss you and hope to see you soon!!
Mickey @ Michele Boyles <sasquatch_925@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 12:45 AM CST
Praying that God will place his healing hand on Reese and that his little body will be strong. Shawn, I'm praying for you and your family to continue to be strong and to keep focus on God. He is your source of strength during these times and always. Love you, D.
Deanna <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 12:14 AM CST
Reese and Family,
Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I understand you are a very strong little boy. I pray that you will continue to fight hard and know that God will bless you. Always remember you are never alone, God is always there.

Ronna Privette <tumcclt@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 10:56 AM CST
My heart goes out to you all. I know this is is a difficult time for all of you and I am so sorry that there has been a set back for little Reese! We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. He is such a fighter!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 10:14 AM CST
Hello Little Reese,
Robin Tucker told me about you, What a strong LITTLE ONE
you are - YOU KEEP FIGHTING - AND WE WILL KEEP PRAYING.
God Bless you Mom and Dad
Doris Wilson - Mecklenburg County Sheriff's Office

Doris A. Wilson <wilsod@co.mecklenburg.nc.us>
Charlotte, , NC Mecklenburg - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 9:39 AM CST
Just checking in to see how everything is going with our little buddy...I am grateful for the machine that has started helping him...Shawn you and Toni are so awesome and I just know that God has His hadns all over you and Reese...I pray for Taylor and Doug that they can find peace even though they have to be seperated from their family...and I pray that you and Toni can have the strength to defeat the giants...and the faith to move mountains.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 9:32 AM CST
Dear Sweet Reesiecup, So sorry that Taylor, Nanna, and Pawpaw can't be there right now. We miss you and mommy and Aunt Toni soooo much! We call every day, 2 or 3 times to check on you. We pray all day that you will get better soon and God will heal your lungs so you can go home. Just know that Taylor, Nana and Pawpaw love you and miss you and can't wait to hold you and squeeze you and call you George! Soon!! Keep fighting sweetie, don't give up. We need you to stay strong. Sending you hugs and kisses and prayers, Taylor and Nana and Pawpaw.
Julia Hill
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:59 AM CST
You and your entire family will be in my prayers. I have also forwarded a prayer request to my circle friends at church. Prayer is so powerful, just know that God is holding Reece right in the palm of H
is hand. May God heal Reece and grant you peace.

Libby Christian <Mom2boysnagirl@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:49 AM CST
Reese little buddy, you are in SO many people's prayers. We just know your lungs will heal soon.
Mom, try to stay strong and keep the faith.




Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
chrisrusso_@hotmail.com
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:42 AM CST
Reese, Taylor, Shawn and Toni, you're in my prayers, Reese you're a trooper just like your mom said, and Taylor I hope you get to feeling better too. Shawn, I know you are a great mom holding up thru tough times, I'm proud of you. But lets hope in the end you'll have your Reese and Taylor back together again. Go REESE fight for your mom, dad and Taylor.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:18 AM CST
Praying for Reese's lungs to heal and for the paraflu to be on it's way out. He is a strong little boy and I know our prayers will get him through.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:15 AM CST
Dear Little Reece; You are such a brave little boy and our prayers are with you and your family thru all of this. It just dosen't seem fair to put such a precious little angel thru so much but we have to remember the Lord has a purpose for all of us and though we may never know why we will know he is there beside you and holding you in his arms and giving you all of his love. I had the priviledge to get to visit Mt Airy last year for a vacation because I am an Andy Griffith fan and I found it to be the nicest town I had ever visited and now knowing you and your family are from there makes it all the more special because it is people like you and your family that makes the town. God Bless you little one and your family too and know that there a dozens of prayers for you coming from Kentucky. Love Perry and Barbara Pitcock
Barbara Pitcock <barb_nov55@msn.com>
Bowling Green, Ky US - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 8:03 AM CST
Dear Reese,
Hello little one! Your friends at Hendrick Motorsports are praying for you to feel better soon. One day, you and Taylor will be able to visit us and see all the stuff that goes on in a real race shop. We're all looking forward to that day!
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 7:38 AM CST
Hi Reese,
Hang in there, buddy! You are one tough guy. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 2:32 AM CST
Reese-
Oh my goodness, you are such a fighter... you will get over this bump because so many people love you and are praying for you. Your mom and aunt are doing an awesome job there with you, too! Hang in there and know you are in our thoughts. We love you, cutie!

Molly Birmingham and family
- Wednesday, February 26, 2003 0:39 AM CST
We will be praying for you all. May God soon heal your baby boy so you all can get home to the rest of your family.
Teresa
Independence, VA USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 9:56 PM CST
May the Lord be with you on your journey. He knows of your hardships and triumphs. And wants to be there for them all.
Your family and Your son will be in my prayers.

Teresa Eller
Carthage, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 8:55 PM CST
hi guys, its chip, lori and hunter your trasplant buddies from ohio. just a short note to let you guys know whe are all praying you get out of the picu soon. when you get done reading this go give that boy a hug and a GREAT BIG SMILE from his buddies in ohio.
chip, lori and hunter <chcombs@peoplepc.com or www.hunterjourneywithtaysachs.com>
moscow , oh - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 8:38 PM CST
Hi little Reesecup. My Nana and I pray for you every night. Nana tells me what the update say and shows me your picture. She says "GET WELL LITTLE REESE". I hope so soon. We love you. LOTS OF KISSES AND HUGS~~
Anthony & Nana <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 7:16 PM CST
Hey, Hope you got the balloons I figured you and Toni needed a little something to make you smile today. I am so so sorry that I can't be there with you. It is tearing me up inside. As soon as I get over this flu I promise I will be there.If you or Toni needs someone to talk to no matter what time call me. Promise me you will. Take care.
christy
aberdeen, nc - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 7:04 PM CST
Hi Shawn...just checking on you, Taylor, and Reese...you are ALL in our prayers as well as Doug and Toni. I don't know if you know it or not but there is one BIG prayer chain going as you read this....Take care and hang in there.

Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 6:51 PM CST
praying for you Doug, and your family
Kenneth Hawks <khawks@rjia.net>
Mt Airy, nc usa - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 6:51 PM CST
Shawn, I do not know you or your family but a friend of mine sent me your web page and I have been praying for Reece, you and your family. This really breaks my heart and something good has got to come out of all you are going through. You must be a very strong person and God knows that you will make it through this. I can't help thinking of your son at home and what he must be going through also. I check for your updates every day to see how Reece is doing. Just know that we are all pulling for him to turn the corner for the better!! Tell him how many fans he has out here in this big world!!! We all Love him
Kim Moore <KarolinaK@triad.rr.com>
Kernersville, NC - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 6:16 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joyce Stewart
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 5:58 PM CST
Just want to let you all know that we're thinking of and praying for little Reese every day! We know just how difficult all of this is... Please take care! Love ~ The Irish's
Melanie, Steve, Jake, & Matt <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish>
Marysville, WA USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 5:29 PM CST
Praying for little reesecup today! I hope he has a very restful night!
Diane Wolfe <princessdia@hotmail.com>
Mt Airy , NC - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 4:28 PM CST
We will be praying for your little boy, and that God will give you strength to hold up..
Diann
ghgfg, VA USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 4:24 PM CST
Shawn - I got your website from Robin Tucker. I wanted you to know that you and Reese and the rest of your family are in my family's prayers. I will put him on our prayer list at church on Sunday also. Remember that the Lord has blessed you with a wonderful little boy and that He has a plan for all of this - even though at this time it makes you wonder. Keep your strong faith and the Lord will see you through. I will continue to check your website.
Gina Trivette <gtrivette@i-america.net>
Statesville, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 4:14 PM CST
Hi Shawn,Toni,Reese,
My name is Tim, and I have a daughter Kala who is in her last round of Chemo at St. Marys Hospital in Rochester. She was diagnosed with AML in October 2002. She is doing great! The power of prayer is unbelievable, and we will add Reese to our prayers! This is a webpage you may find interesting: www.ourladyofchandra.com.

Tim <mck@wiktel.com>
Roseau, MN USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 4:10 PM CST
Dear little Reece. My name is Traci and my son Cody is also here at Duke on the Transplant Unit, Room #7. I justed wanted to let you know we will be praying for you and your family daily. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Traci Sharp <SharpT24@wmconnect, com>
Salisbury, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 3:57 PM CST
Reese, if you are as tough as you are cute, I have no doubt you'll get better! I have seen a lot of handsome boys and you've just gone to the top of my list!
We will pray for you and Isobel daily, that God touches your bodies and gives you both healing, strength and love!
Love, Cathy, Jake and Isobel

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 3:56 PM CST
My prayers are with little Reese and family. Prayer is a special thing, and he will receive plenty of prayers. God Loves All Of Us.

God Bless!

Chris Newsome
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 3:19 PM CST
Hey Reesecup! I am glad that things have not gotten worse..that could be a good sign things are getting better. Reese you keep fighting sweetie, I am sending lots of hugs and kisses your way:) Shawn, I received a card in the mail today from you and I was so moved! For you to find time to pick out a card and mail it to me during this difficult time just floored me! You should not have worried about it because I know without words that you appreciate everything people do for you and your family:) I look so forward to meeting your whole family soon. We have to stay positive and know Reese is on the way to feeling better...
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 3:06 PM CST
Robin Tucker has added Reese to our prayer list at Trinity UMC in Charlotte. We will be praying for your little angel and for your strength as well. May God's presence surround you in the midst of the storm. We are believing God for a better day. In the name of Our Lord Jesus Christ, Rick Auten and the good people of Trinity United Methodist.
Rev. Rick Auten <tumcpstr@ Bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 3:04 PM CST
We have heard a lot about Reese. People at Hendrick Motorsports individually and collectively are praying for his lungs to heal and for peace for the whole family. God Bless.
Scottie Lindsay <slindsay@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 2:32 PM CST
Hey little one,
Even though we have never met you we have a very special place in our hearts for you. When we pray for you each day it's like we are holding you as we pray. We know that God is watching over you and your family and remember...God loves you and we do, too. Sending along extra hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 2:26 PM CST
Hey precious little Reece. I just wanted you to know that I will be praying hard for you tonight. I am an intern at Hendrick Motorsports and I heard that a little angel needed some prayers. Can you feel Jesus's arms wraped around you holding you close?
Scottie Lyn Strong <strongscottie@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 2:14 PM CST
Hi Reese! You are SO adorable! This is the first time I've been on your page & your beautiful smile made me smile! I work at Hendrick Motorsports & there are so many people here that are praying for you buddy. My prayers go out to your parents too. Be strong!!! You're the cutest wollie mammoth I've ever seen!!
Julie Roberts/Hendrick Motorsports <jroberts@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC U*S*A - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 2:01 PM CST
So sorry to read that Reese is sick! He is a strong little Angel! We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Maybe the rest will help out and he will be better real soon.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 1:59 PM CST
Thanks to the good folks at the Mount Airy Rescue Squad, we received an e-mail regarding Reese. Please know that your family will be in our thoughts and prayers daily.

Believe in miracles....

The Hennis Family
North Port , FL USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 1:59 PM CST
Toni and Shawn,
I am keeping you, your family and your sweet little Reese in my prayers.

Nancy Dumas <homeessentials2@earthlink.net>
Bonney Lake, WA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 1:57 PM CST
JUst wanted to let you know Reece and your family are in my prayers.My sister Robin talks of you all the time.Take care and God bless.
Joanna Bost <cocomojo@mail.com>
Cornelius, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 11:30 AM CST
Hang in there little dude; You have alot of people praying for you here at Hendrick Motorsports.
Jim McKenzie
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 11:20 AM CST
We are praying hard for Reese and for both of you. Stay strong as he needs your strength especially now. Robin has continued to update us on Reese's condition in Bible Study and we will continue to pray extra hard for your liitle man. God Bless you all.
Michelle Emser/Henrick Motorsports
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 11:19 AM CST
Hi, Im so sorry to hear Reese is still so sick. My heart just goes out to you. I will be praying extra hard for you guys today. I will be at Duke each afternoon this week with my nephew Trey. Please email me if you need anything. Lots and Lots of Hugs, Kathy (aunt to Trey NB IV www.caringbridge.org/va/trey)
Kathy Whitt <kathyphilw@hotmail.com>
Garner, NC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 10:54 AM CST
Shawn, I have just read your update for today. I am so sorry that Reese is still sick. You have been in my thoughts and prayers daily. I check for updates daily and I trust before too many more days go by that Reese will be feeling "all better".
Wendy Cline
Rural Hall, NC - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 10:49 AM CST
Shawn, I am so glad that God does trust you so much. You are a very special young lady. And you are right our lives can change in a second. I will pray for Taylor and Reese to be together with their Mom and Dad as a family. And Shawn,I will pray that God gives you strength. You and your family are an inspiration to all of us. God Bless You,
Susan
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 10:28 AM CST
PRAYING FOR YOU !!!
A FREIND
MT AIRY , NC SURRY - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 9:23 AM CST
HEY GUYS JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WE ARE
THINKING ABOUT YOU AND PRAYING EVERYDAY
KEEP UP YOUR SPIRITS
LOVE YA SUSIE Q. WATTS

Susie Quesinberry Watts
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 9:18 AM CST
Shawn, I hope that everything is ok..Reese I hope that you are feeling ok today! I hope that when you update the Journal that it is going to say Reese is feeling much better:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, February 25, 2003 7:39 AM CST
Is everything Ok I am worried since you haven't updated. I will call you around luch time to check on Reese.
christy
aberdeen, nc - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 7:25 AM CST
Shawn...I feel as though I have been checking in on Reese every 5 minutes...I have praying and praying very hard for Reese and his healing from this latest ailment...I continue to pray for the rest of your family...Toni, Taylor, Doug and you...for the strength and peace that can only be found in the Lord...we are leaving soon for the clinic...I will come over to the unit to check on you today while we are there...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 6:28 AM CST
Dear Coble Family,
I am Nina Bost, my aunt is Robin Tucker. She told me about your son and his condition. I just want you to know that I will be praying for you and your sons health. He is the cutest little thing I have ever seen. God Bless All Of You...and remember that you are in my prayers.

Nina Bost- US Coast Guard <nbost@cgcgallatin.uscg.mil>
Charleston, SC USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 6:24 AM CST
I continue to check on you and pray for you and your entire family. I hope you are having a better day today. Please know that there are many prayers and cyber hugs coming your way!
Staci Nash <www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash>
- Monday, February 24, 2003 11:31 PM CST
May today there be peace within you. May you trust
God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
Just wanted to say Hey and that you are all in my thoughts and prayers....Love you......Sherry

Sherry
- Monday, February 24, 2003 10:27 PM CST
It must be so difficult to see your baby so uncomfortable. I am praying for him and for his brother Taylor too. And of course for mom and dad to continue to be strong and faithful. Please know that there are so many of us out here prayer for Reesecup's recovery and I hope you can feel all of our cyber hugs to you all.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Monday, February 24, 2003 6:01 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
I just viewed your web page for the first time. I have to say that I am sooo humbled. My son Elijah had leukemia with the Philadelphia Chromosome, very high risk. He underwent a bone marrow transplant with his brother Isaac's bone marrow. He is doing very well. Please visit our web page, caringbridge.com/ia/elijahpoolman
I feel a strong connection with you. I too feel that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, and my reply to our good and loving God is, "You've way over-estimated me!"
But, God is good and he gets us through! He carries us and our burdens. I gave Elijah back to God and trust in him to take care of him, whether that be here with us on earth or in his heavenly home.
My heart is with you and my prayers will be also. You are an amazing Mom. God blessed your little ones with a wonderful Mother.
Take care of you.
God Bless.

Jody Poolman <jodypoolman@hotmail.com>
Charles City, IA USA - Monday, February 24, 2003 4:35 PM CST
Praying for rest and peace.Hoping Reese will go home to see and play with Big brother soon.
Jean Foster <rfoster@rcscom.com>
Kernersville, - Monday, February 24, 2003 4:27 PM CST
Hi Shawn, just viewed your newest pictures. He is so adorable. Just want to let you know that we are all praying for the little one as well as for his brother and you and Toni. Please let us know if we can do anything for you. Candy is going pretty good. Mary gets it from me about every week or so. We wish you God's speed and love to you all. Give Reese a big hug for all of us here at work.
Sandra Nichols <Sandra.Nichols@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, February 24, 2003 3:28 PM CST
I'm so sorry for what you're going through, but faith in God makes all things possible. We went through the same thing with my grandson Caleb, and I know it's hard. But God blessed us and he is showing us what a miracle he is every single day. Never give up your faith.
Sandra Dixon <brneyedgrl617@aol.com>
Memphis, Tn USA - Monday, February 24, 2003 1:45 PM CST
I just found your webpage through the MPS Society. Your journal brings back all that we have been through in the last year. Our little boy Caleb just had his stem cell transplant in June. Just keep praying and let your faith hold you up. And lean on all of your family and friends. That's the only thing that kept us going. Reese is beautiful!
Kelly Waddell <http://www.geocities.com/calebwaddell>
Southaven, MS 38671 - Monday, February 24, 2003 10:54 AM CST
I was up with Jaxson tonight he has a cold and running a little fever...while I was up I read your entry from today and I found myself wishing for you - that was all that was wrong with Reese tonight. I have read back on over some the entries from your family and friends today and they all say what I want to say to you. Again I wish that I could be there to try to help comfort you and your family in anyway possible...Shawn..remember if God brings you to it he will bring you through it! I will check back in tomorrow and hope the night goes well for Reese. Your in my thoughts and prayers constantly:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, February 24, 2003 2:25 AM CST
Still praying...we are here if you all need anything...I wish I could offer so much more but will just continue to pray and offer whatever support you will allow us to give...we are so totally here for you and Toni and Reese...please let us be there for you...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg(www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Monday, February 24, 2003 1:31 AM CST
Although I did not get to know you real well, your sister was there for us during our worst times at Duke and I know that her strength will help you get through this "Bump in the Road" along with your own strength and faith. Don't give up and don't think that the PICU is the end of the road. I know in your time at Duke, it did not appear anything good happened once a child went there, however I have seen good things come out of there also. Vent as much as you want, this is your journal! We are all praying for Reese and for your whole family.
Angie Cottey "Angel Kyle's Mom" <cottey@gte.net>
Sumner, WA USA - Monday, February 24, 2003 0:33 AM CST
Don't be afraid, for I am with you.
Do not be dismayed, for I am your GOD.I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.Isaiah 41:10.
All my love to all of you, My whole church is praying for Reese, and so am I. Keep the Faith !!!
Sherry

Sherry Delya
Merrillville, In USA - Sunday, February 23, 2003 9:56 PM CST
Shawn, I wish there was something I could say to make you feel some better. Just know that we are all praying for Reese and for all of you. There are a lot of extra special prayers being said for little Reese. Gob Bless You All.
Love, Sharon, Scott, Jacob & Jonathan <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Sunday, February 23, 2003 9:41 PM CST
I Said A Prayer For You Today

I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard -
I felt the answer in my heart -
Although He spoke no word!
I didn’t ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn’t mind) -
I asked Him to send treasure
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He’d be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And friends to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small -
But it was for His loving Care
I prayed most of all!

We are saying prayers for Baby Reese's quick recovery and return to the clinic.

Laura Lamparyk - Jillian's Mom <http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/ >
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 8:50 PM CST
dear shawn & doug,
we are so sorry about your son. our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. Reece is a beautiful boy and i know God is with him every step of the way. we will pray for yall and keep updated on his condition. we will help in any way we can. love and prayers. gary and judy martin

gary and judy martin <gmartin10@traid.rr.com>
129 seabrook rd. mt. airy, nc usa - Sunday, February 23, 2003 7:51 PM CST
That Picture of Reese is so sweet. I love it.
I feel so bad that you all have to go through this.
Believe me as a Transplant grandmother I know all too well about these hurdles, and the emotions. Reese is tugging at my heart strings and Iam Praying for him. I will be checking his site often. Give that sweet baby hugs and Love from Maine and also turn around and give your self a big pat on the shoulder you deserve it!
Julie

Julie Ritchie <theritchies@xpressamerica.net>
Smyrna Mills , Me USA - Sunday, February 23, 2003 7:30 PM CST
Shawn, I am so sorry you are having to go through this. It is not fair. Nothing is fair anymore. I wish I could be there but I am sick again with a cold. You are in my prayers. Remember that Brittney is watching over Reese and she is going to take are of him. She has too. I don't think I will ever get my life back. I tell you I have given up on my life being happy and anything else. As soon as I get better I am going to come stay a weekend with you so I can you and Toni all the support I can. I love you and Toni and you will be in my prayers tonight.
And always.

Christy <christy@tech-plus.com>
aberdeen, nc usa - Sunday, February 23, 2003 6:58 PM CST
Shawn, please remember God will only put on you what you can handle. He knows you and He is with you always. Reese, we are praying for you and we pray you have a better week and start smiling more for your Mom, she needs to see those smiles again. You keep getting better sunshine. Always in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Susan Cieslak and Family

Susan
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 6:44 PM CST
Shawn...just a note to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers..along with Reesiecup and Toni and Doug and Taylor and the rest of the family!!! Reading your updates have become a part of my daily life and so often I wish I was close by, so I could offer to help in some way! I am sure that you feel so overwhelmed by everything that is happening and I am sure that it is ripping your heart out to see Reese this way and you have a right to feel scared...just remember you have so many people praying for you and reading your daily updates...very few minutes during the day pass without you all crossing my mind and I always utter a little prayer... no one can expect you to be SUPERMOM...it is not realistic to think that all of this will be easy with no downs...you are human!! I would like to share a prayer with you that I pray will touch your heart and help you along the way!!

Prayer Of Hope

Dear Master, take me by the hand,
And guide me through this day;
The path ahead is rough, oh Lord,
And painful is the way...

Dear Master, take me by the hand,
And fill me with Thy peace;
Uplift my heart and spirit,oh Lord,
That I may find release...

Dear Master, take me by the hand,
And give me strength to cope;
Protect me from the cares of life,
And bless me with new hope...

Dear Master,take me by the hand,
And keep me close to Thee;
Release me from all doubt and fear,
And set my spirit free!!!

Amen

God bless you Shawn!!
In God's eternal love, Sharon


Sharon Burchette Surry County 911 Communications <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Sunday, February 23, 2003 6:34 PM CST
Just checking in to see how things were going today...we are praying for Reese around the clock
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 6:07 PM CST
To Reese's parents,
It is impossible for us to know what you are going through with your precious little boy but we do know that ONLY God can give the peace and strength you need right now. Please know that we are praying for you and Reese.
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Sunday, February 23, 2003 3:42 PM CST
Hi Reesecup ...I just read that your big brother TAYLOR is feeling much better. YIPPPPPPPPPIE.. Glad to hear that. How are you doing Reese, Mom & Toni? Sending hugs, love, prayers and SUNSHINE your way. Take care. XOXOXOXOXOX PS GO RICKY CRAVEN #32 TIDE CAR.
Grampy & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Sunday, February 23, 2003 12:58 AM CST
Hello Reesecup how are you doing? This is your big brother Taylor. You are so sweet and have the cutest smile. I am felling better now since I have been sick. I think of you all the time. Today is the race at Rockingham and I think number 24 (Jeff Gordon) is going to win, although Daddy says 48 (Jimmie Johnson) will win! I hope you get better real soon so I can come and see you at the apartment. I really miss You, Mommy, and Toni. Tonight Grandma, Daddy, and me are going to Nana’s church to watch her and Paw-Paw renew their marriage vows. We will take pictures and send them to you and mommy. I miss you and mommy and will see you soon.

Love
Taylor

P.S. PEEK-A-BOO!

Taylor
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 11:16 AM CST
Shawn, You are exactly right when you say no one can know the torment you are experiencing until plunged into it. It is an experience that no parent or child should have to face but for some reason we do. You will be given the strength to see Reese through this. No matter how bad it gets you will be held up so that you can be with him every step of the way. Do not be afraid. And Shawn try to remember that going to PICU is not always the end of the line. Every child is different and every child's prognosis is different. As difficult as it is right now try to enjoy even these moments with Reese. Make sure you take care of yourself as well. Find something to do each day that helps you relax. This is only a setback and kids are so resilient, Reese will get better.
Roberta (Ryan's Mom)
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 10:11 AM CST
Shawn, I am wishing that today you feel better and have got the rest you needed. You are such a strong person and handle thing so well. It is a beautiful day today so we will keep praying that that beauiful baby starts to feel better, It always help when the sun is shining! Reese..you stay strong and keep fighting like you always do! Sending sunny smiles your way:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 9:45 AM CST
Shawn...Hang in there...I just know everything is going to work out...it is unfortunate (or at least it seems that way at the time) for us that we have to do all things in God's timing...of course...His plan is so perfect that all we can do is just praise Him when we find out that He knew what we needed all along...You are awesome...I just love you, Toni and our buddy Reese...Cody picked out the picture of him with the pea hat on for our new website...We are praying...praying...praying...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Sunday, February 23, 2003 2:47 AM CST
I have been following your journey for quite some time now, but don't often sign the guestbook. Please know that while you are on the BMT roller coaster, you are allowed "down" times, days, and weeks! We have to have those times so that we can pick ourselves up and do what we have to do for our children. I wish you the best of luck, and will continue to check in on you!
Sending you a cyber hug even though we have never met!

Staci Nash <www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash>
- Saturday, February 22, 2003 11:56 PM CST
Hi Shawn, Toni and Reese-

We hadn't seen you in clinc, and we are there almost every day, so thought we would stop by to see what's up. Sorry you are stuck inpatient again. I hope Reese tolerates his treatments well and you can go home soon! Hang in there.

Jill and Alex

Alex <WWW.CARINGBRIDGE.COM/CA/ALEXSCHWAB>
Durham, Nc usa - Saturday, February 22, 2003 9:20 PM CST
Shawn,
Hope Reese is better soon. I have been checking daily and reading your guestbook, as many people across this country that are praying for Reese then, if it is His will, it will be. Shawn, Reese is a STRONG boy, we will be praying for him.

Kim & Halee Coe <kcoe_1999@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Saturday, February 22, 2003 9:09 PM CST
Hey guys! I sure hope that Reese is feeling better today. I wish I could come by and see you but we have been so busy going to radiation and clinic. I am praying that it won't be long before you all are back at clinic. I can't wait for us to be able to do something together with the boys. I think it will be fun for us all :-) We are sending lots of love and prayers your way. God Bless You!
Sharon Deal <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Saturday, February 22, 2003 8:49 PM CST
Toni, Shawn & Reese, I am praying for little Reese to recover quickly. I am always checking your site since finding it through Carter McPhee's site. I had a daughter named Kassidy with Hurlers, who was 2 years and 2 months when she became a GOLDEN ANGEL after putting up a brave tough fight. I love all these Hurler children...and the parents are so courageous. Keep fighting this battle and you will win!! Give Reese kisses for me...as I'm sure Kassie is sending some down to him as well. If you would like...check out Kassie's site when you have some time...which I know and completely understand that's not much free time. www.kassiescourage.com
Carol Pendleton <dcpendleton@rogers.com>
Bowmanville, ONT Canada - Saturday, February 22, 2003 7:33 PM CST
Reese, Shawn and Doug,
Thinking about your family daily and checking the website. Hang in there!

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Saturday, February 22, 2003 5:11 PM CST
Shawn, I dont know what to say other than so many people are praying for you ... Please fight hard like you always do. I hope the journal update today is a better one saying you feeling a little better:) If you guys need anything please let me know... I will be glad to do whatever I can. Reese- Sending lots of hugs and kiss.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Saturday, February 22, 2003 2:58 PM CST
I am praying for you so hard! I cannot even imagine what you are going through. I hope that soon he gets better.He is a strong little boy and he has been through so much. I check your web page everyday and I am so inspired by how hard that he works to get better and I honestly think that all of the love and support from his mommy really shows. I also admire you. You are a very strong woman. I know that it can't be easy, and I hope that I have not offended you by anything that I have said, but you really are doing such a good job. I will continue to pray and I hope that good news is right around the corner. Lord bless you and little Reece.
Stephanie Conner- Surry 911 Communications <cr404@hotmail.com>
Cana, Va - Saturday, February 22, 2003 12:36 AM CST
Keeping the prayers going in Connecticut for Reesecup!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Saturday, February 22, 2003 12:23 AM CST
I got your link from Cody's site. My prayers are with you. You've got a beautiful boy! Love, hugs and prayers, Erica.
Erica Armstrong <love2icedance@hotmail.com>
Waterloo (school) and Timmins (home), Ontario Canada - Saturday, February 22, 2003 10:11 AM CST
Hi
I found your site while visiting Codys site. I have a nephew (Trey) who is also being treated at Duke. He has Neuroblastoma. I just wanted to say first of all that am I so sorry that reese is so sick and to tell you that I will add him to my prayer list and ask God to completely heal him and to give you the strength that you need. HUGGGGSS, Kathy (Aunt to Trey NbIV www.caringbride.org/va/trey)

Kathy Whitt <kathyphilw@hotmail.com>
Garner, NC USA - Saturday, February 22, 2003 9:15 AM CST
Dear Shawn, Toni & Reese,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Ann, Joan & Rusty
(Codys Florida Crew)

Ann M. Mannarino <reeree49@bellsouth.net>
Coconut Creek, FL United States - Saturday, February 22, 2003 9:11 AM CST
Oh Shawn,
I had no idea little Reese was so ill. My husband is in town this weekend, so if you need anything at all please call. If you need someone to visit, or talk to please call. We will be thinking of you often.

MICHELLE FITZPATRICK (JILLIAN'S MOM) <JILLANDMICHELLE@JUNO.COM>
- Saturday, February 22, 2003 9:05 AM CST
I have you, Toni and Reese in my prayers. Wishing for a great recovery. Come on Reese, make your mom proud of you and fight this virus, I know you're being a trooper.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
- Saturday, February 22, 2003 3:04 AM CST
Sending our prayers across the country. Stay strong!

Amy White <www.caringbridge.org/page/susannah>
San Diego, CA - Saturday, February 22, 2003 0:58 AM CST
Shawn, Toni, and Reesecup,
I am so sorry to hear that your little Reese is so sick. It breaks my heart. I know everyone says not to ask why but how can we not ask why? It isn't fair. We are praying hard for you guys. I hope that Reese never has to go to PICU. Dr. Martin is a GREAT doctor and I know that he will do everything that is humanly possible. Reesecup has a lot of people praying for him just like Jacob and our sweet sweet boys are going to fine. Love you all.

Sharon Deal (Jacob's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Friday, February 21, 2003 11:16 PM CST
Shawn, Toni, and Reese, Thinking about all of you and praying Reese's lungs recover quickly.
Roberta
- Friday, February 21, 2003 8:53 PM CST
Shawn, Happy Belated Birthday! Sorry we missed it. And sorry that Reese is so sick now, but everybody at Grace Covenant is praying and believing God for his complete healing. I know it's tough watching him feel so bad, bless his heart. Tell Toni hello for us and may God bless her abundantly for the BIG blessing she is! We love you all!!
Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, nc - Friday, February 21, 2003 8:15 PM CST
Shawn, Reese and Toni - I continue to read your updates on a daily basis. I also continue to have you all in my prayers each and every night. Shawn, Reese is a very strong little boy and I think we all can see where he gets it from. I send much love from myself and my family. Hang in there!
Robin West <robin.west@wachovia.com>
Belews Creek, NC US - Friday, February 21, 2003 7:02 PM CST
Sorry you have to stay in the hospital little Reesecup, we hope they have now found the problem and with the meds and treatments you will soom be showing everyone your BIG ADORABLE SMILES!!!! Stay strong precious baby boy!! We love you. Our prayers & love to you all.
Grampy & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Friday, February 21, 2003 6:12 PM CST
Hey Reese, hang in there buddy. I am thinking of you and you are in my heart as well as your family. Sorry that you have to be back on 5200, but hopefully you will get out of there soon. Take care little man
alyssa (tom's buddy) <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc usa - Friday, February 21, 2003 5:56 PM CST
I am so glad that you do not have to go through another surgery...yet I am sad that you have to stay in the hospital...I know that Reese will ge the best care possible...I think God has given Dr. Martin and the rest of the staff on 5200 some really great talents...they will use them to benefit Reese...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Friday, February 21, 2003 5:43 PM CST
Hey Shawn, Reese and Toni,
Sorry to hear about little Reese Cup.
All of these ups and downs, you guys must feel like you are on a roller coaster!!!!I would be like "Hey, Let Me Off This Thing!!!" But you do what you have to do and just ask GOD to watch over Reese. I am asking GOD to watch over ALL of you. I think its wonderful that you have Toni with you.
Sisters are GREAT, and I am thankful for ALL of mine.
Well yall take care, and I will ask everyone at my church to pray for Reese.
Love, Sherry

Sherry Delya
Merrillville, IN USA - Friday, February 21, 2003 5:25 PM CST
Reese, we are praying for you. You are a precious little guy. We are all very sorry you are going through all of this. God Bless all of you and stay strong...You are all in our thoughts and prayers..
Susan Cieslak

Susan Cieslak <mscieslak@fuse.net>
Hamilton , OH usa - Friday, February 21, 2003 5:00 PM CST
God Bless you sweet little one!! I am thinking and PRAYING for you and mom and dad.....stay strong.....you will be in my prayers tonight and always!!
lori dietz <nevlor_2000@yahoo.com>
baldwin park, ca usa - Friday, February 21, 2003 4:53 PM CST
I will be praying for all of you. God will help you through all this, I know. You are such a strong person.
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Friday, February 21, 2003 1:55 PM CST
Reese ... you sweet boy I am so sorry that you are going through all of this! You are such a strong baby and so I have no doubt you are going to handle the tent and anything needed to make you well! Shawn, if you need anything please let me know or if you just need to talk please call.
Dear Lord I ask you to come to Reese and lay your healing hand upon him and make him whole, It is in your name we ask,Amen.
Shawn, please give Reese a hug for me if you can.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, February 21, 2003 8:01 AM CST
Just checking in on you guys...I was really hoping that things would be moving along a lot faster for you but I guess things are, as they always are...in God's perfect timing...Reese stays constant in our prayers and we know that soon you will be done with the unit...we so wish we could come up there to visit youguys and so many others but with Cody still on isolation we can't take the chance :(
We are visitin gin spirit though :)

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Friday, February 21, 2003 4:42 AM CST
Still praying for you and yours! God bless you and keep you and hold you in the palm of his hand.

Ann Marie Edmonds & Jason Sheets <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Friday, February 21, 2003 1:22 AM CST
HEY GUYS
KEEP YOUR CHINS UP. YOU WILL BE WITH US OVER AT THE CLINIC SOON. ENJOY THOSE GREAT NURSES WHILE YOU HAVE THEM. TELL THEM ALL HOW MUCH I MISS THEM. REESE WILL BE HIMSELF ONCE AGAIN.

MICHELLE FITZPATRICK (JILLIAN'S MOM) <JILLANDMICHELLE@JUNO.COM>
- Thursday, February 20, 2003 11:06 PM CST
Shawn, I'm so sorry to hear that Reese is having a bad patch. We are all thinking of you -- hang in there and let us know if we can do anything!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, February 20, 2003 10:10 PM CST
Reese's family,
These are days of great trials...but God is near...call upon His name and He will give you strength and peace. We will continue to pray for God to heal your precious little boy. Remember...God loves you and we do, too!
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Thursday, February 20, 2003 7:23 PM CST
We want you guys to be home soon too, but we want that little boy to be all better. Don't worry Shawn, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. "This too shall pass" We may be on the unit tomorrow to see Jaxon off; I'll try to stop by & say hello. We hope Reese is better soon! Kiss that beautiful boy for me.
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, February 20, 2003 6:36 PM CST
Let's hope with all the tests & finding the flu in little Reesecups lungs that the treatments will get this cleared up and he will be feeling much better soon. Fight little man....Praying for you all. XOXOXOXOXOXOX
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Thursday, February 20, 2003 5:39 PM CST
You sweet baby boy.... I hope you are feeling better soon. I will check in on you tomorrow. Sending you hugs!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, February 20, 2003 3:52 PM CST
Things will be better before you know it and little Reese will have that beautiful smile back and I cannot wait to see the pictures of it either. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, February 20, 2003 2:55 PM CST
Dear Shawn,
I have had to great pleasure of corresponding with you Mom. We met by me buying makeup off of Ebay. Funny how God puts people in our lives. We have been praying for all of you and the news from yesterday is great. Praise God! We will be praying for a miracle of healing for Reese and he has been put on our prayer list and I sent out several emails asking everyone to pray for him. I will include Tucker in that request as well. Give Reese a Big Hug and Kiss from all of us in Ohio. God Bless, Susan Cieslak

Susan Cieslak <mscieslak@fuse.net>
Hamilton, OH USA - Thursday, February 20, 2003 12:50 AM CST
PSALM 121: I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved, he that keepeth thee will not slumber nor sleep. The Lord is thy keeper, the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil, he shall preserve thy soul. The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
That's one of my favorite chapters in the Bible. It has helped me everytime I needed to know that Jesus was always there. I just needed to look up! Hope this brings you comfort as much as it's brought me. As always, you and your family are in my thoughts prayers. Love you, D.
In the name of Jesus, I pray right now that You would touch Reese's body. Heal him from the top of his little head to the bottom of his feet. I know that You are the Great Physician and it's by Your stripes that we are healed. I also pray for my friend Shawn, that You would bring comfort to her and give her the peace of mind that only You can bring. I pray for her family that they would continue to be there for her during these times. I ask all of this in Your Wonderful, Precious Name, Amen.

Deanna <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Thursday, February 20, 2003 11:43 AM CST
Hi Shawn, Toni and Reese. Hope today brings good news for you. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Linda Sapp
- Thursday, February 20, 2003 10:51 AM CST
I am praying that things are better this morning with Reese..I told everyone in our Bible study class at work yesterday that Reese needed alot of prayers right now. Reese I hope you can feel all of the love that everyone is sending through prayers. Shawn I am hanging on every word you write in hopes that the next thing you say is that you are headed back to the apartment. Sending losts of hugs Reesecup! Stay strong and keep fighting this Reese!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, February 20, 2003 8:16 AM CST
Reese's family,
I met your very special friend Robin Tucker today. She told us all about you and now we have you on our prayer list. The CaringBridge guestbook is a wonderful opportunity for us to let you know we are praying for you. We look forward to your updates. The Bible tells us in Psalm 55:22 to cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you. Keep your eyes on Jesus.....
Love & hugs,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warriors

John and Bonnie Curran <bjcurran80@hotmail.com>
Concord, NC - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 9:13 PM CST
Shawn,
Thanks for the update. I'm praying Reese does well through the night and his breathing improves on it's own. I hope the tests reveal nothing too serious and he will be back at the apartment soon. God Bless!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 19, 2003 8:41 PM CST
I will keep Reese in my prayers and that it's not necessary that you all get hunkered down for the long hall. Remember, if you wash your car it'll rain. If you get comfy and post Reese's picture, you get to go home! Keeping that part in my prayers also!


Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 7:00 PM CST
Just wanted to check in on you, Toni and Reesecup...we are praying for good results and a speedy recovery...we pray that Reese is well soon and you all are out of there...we wish so badly that we could stop by the ward to see you but Cody remains on isolation...plesae know we are there with you in spirit :)
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 19, 2003 4:30 PM CST
Shawn, hang in there girl. You and Resee are in my thoughts and prayer. Love ya!
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt., NC USA - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 12:53 AM CST
Reese I am so sorry that you are not feeling well, but now that the doctors know what the problem is it want be long until you are back to your old self! Shawn,I hope that you are also feeling a little relief today....if you need anything do not hesitate to ask! Reese.. sending lots of hugs your ways sweetie:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, February 19, 2003 9:19 AM CST
Reese I am so sorry that you are not feeling well, but now that the doctors know what the problem is it want be long until you are back to your old self! Shawn,I hope that you are also feeling a little relief today....if you need anything do not hesitate to ask! Reese.. sending lots of hugs your ways sweetie:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, February 19, 2003 9:19 AM CST
I am sorry to hear of this setback
But that is all it is, a setback
and Reese will be back on track very soon!

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Wednesday, February 19, 2003 8:29 AM CST
McKenzie's family has placed you guys on their prayer list. Please know that God is with you all and we will pray for you all daily. Much love and in God's Love,

Wendy Ruth Paxton

Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 8:16 AM CST
Dear Reese,
Hello sweet boy. We're sorry that you're feeling so puny. Mom says that the doctors have figured out what's making you so sick and they're working on making it better. Hang in there sweetheart.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 7:52 AM CST
Reese-
We sure hope that PCP test is negative. We want you to get better really soon. We sure do miss seeing you in clinic. We love you guys! Take care!

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 7:45 AM CST
Hi guys, checking in to see how everyone is doing. Get well "handsome little man"..... How are you feeling Taylor? Better I hope. Shawn & Toni love you guys. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Grampy & Nana in Maine <talkntalkn@aol.com>
- Wednesday, February 19, 2003 6:52 AM CST
Reese,
I am Praying for you little one. Hoping you get over this hurdle soon. Your nana e mailed me and I wanted you to know your thought about back here in Maine and Hoping you feel better real soon.
Julie Ritchie

Julie Ritchie <theritchies@xpressamerica.net>
Smyrna Mills, Me USA - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 6:27 AM CST
Hi,
This is my first visit to your site. Reese sure is an adorable boy! Sorry to hear he's not feeling well but hopefully he'll be feeling better real soon. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 0:24 AM CST
Sorry to hear you're having such a rough time but glad that at least they seem to be on the right track in figuring out how to help your little one. I'll keep you guys in thought and prayer. Hopefully, next time I have to come, I'll see you in CLINIC! I'll introduce myself. We haven't met, but I follow your site. Blessings to you!
Khalita www.caringbridge.com/nc/khalita Duke Peds BMT aplastic anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, February 18, 2003 10:57 PM CST
Hi! I got your site from McKenzie's page. I just wanted to let your family know that I am thinking about and praying for you. Reese is such a cutie pie!! May God bless you.
Peace,

Haley Hastings <haleyhastings@yahoo.com>
Athens, GA - Tuesday, February 18, 2003 10:30 PM CST
I was checking in on Mckenzie and they had petitioned for us to say a prayer for your little Reese. I will keep Reese in my prayers. Your faith is strong.
Nancy Dumas
Bonney Lake, WA - Tuesday, February 18, 2003 8:45 PM CST
This is just a temporary down in the constant ups and downs associated with BMT's. He will get through this with the strength and courage he has shown since the beginning of all this. I will be thinking of all of you.
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Tuesday, February 18, 2003 5:34 PM CST
Contiuning to keep Reese and your whole family in our prayers...Hoping Reese is better and you are able to go home to the apartment and then home to home soon...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Tuesday, February 18, 2003 5:03 PM CST
Hi guys!! We're hoping Reesie starts to feel better really soon!! Glad YOUR felling better! Our little friend Jacob is there for his 9 month check up, he's another little Hurler boy who is absoloutly adorable! Hopefully you will get a chance to see him, he looks so great! Hope all goes well with the Bronch!!!
Love~Jen

Jen, Joe, Rileigh, and Taylor <www.caringbridge.com/mn/taylor>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Tuesday, February 18, 2003 4:59 PM CST
Thanks for the update .... please keep us up on whats going on if you can, we are the least of your worries right now.
Robin Tucker
- Tuesday, February 18, 2003 2:49 PM CST
Wishing you all the best of luck! We too are going through transplant and got your site from a friend's site. We hope you will find the answers and solutions you are looking for soon!
Staci, Slim, and Presley Nash <www.caringbridge.org/ky/presleynash>
- Tuesday, February 18, 2003 1:09 PM CST
I hope as I am writing this note that Reese is feeling better today and if not they have found what is making him feel so lousy. Shawn I thought about you and Reese all night last night, after your entry yesterday .... Reese you keep fighting .. Please do not give up sunnier days are ahead! Shawn the prayer at the bottom of the journal was beautiful.. I will keep praying that the Lord will lay his hand upon Reese and make him well. I will ask others to do the same. Please give Reese a hug for me.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, February 18, 2003 9:23 AM CST
Shawn, I hope that Reese gets to feeling better real soon. I hope that your stay in 5210 is just for tonight too. We will say an extra prayer for little Reesecup tonight. I enjoyed talking to you at clinic today. Some days are a lot harder than others and being able to talk to someone who totally understands makes a HUGE difference.Good luck!
Sharon Deal (Jacob's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Monday, February 17, 2003 10:24 PM CST
Shawn, Thinking about you and Reese and praying that this current breathing problem is resolved quickly.
Roberta (Ryan's Mom)
- Monday, February 17, 2003 10:04 PM CST
Hello, this is Tom's buddy Alyssa. I am sorry to hear that Reese is not feeling well. Please know that I think of him everyday and hope that he gets better soon. take care
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
- Monday, February 17, 2003 9:43 PM CST
Just to let you know that we are praying and thinking about yall every day. Shawn, don't feel guilty about the way you are feeling. My goodness your only human. Every mother in one way or another has felt that way. You are a wonderful person and a great mom. We love you and hope to see you soon.
The Biernacki's <EDHead211@altell.net>
Dahlonega, GA Lumpkin - Monday, February 17, 2003 7:24 PM CST
Just wanted to say hello and hang in there. I think about you and Reese everyday. I know life is tough at times, but remember that it is at those times that there is only one set of footprints in the sand. He is and will carry you though this rough time. I am keeping you all in my prayers.
Karen Cannon, M.D.
Clemmons, NC USA - Monday, February 17, 2003 4:48 PM CST
Sorry to hear that Reesie Cup is feeling so bad. As a mother I know that no matter how much we love our children, we are still only human and feel all the sadness and frustration that anyone would feel when our children are sick and we can't seem to help. It is a very helpless feeling, but remember in those times all the people that care and are keeping you lifted up in prayer. Sending many prayers your way.
Debra Perry - Nurse Bethany's Mom <dperry@apollochemical.com>
Burlington, NC USA - Monday, February 17, 2003 12:03 AM CST
Shawn, it is ok to let your feelings and frustrations out..the people that come to Reese's site are people that care about you and your family so you say whatever you feel. You have been through so much with Reese's illness it is only right that by now you would be so ready to scream. You are watching your precious child day in and day out trying to fight with all he's got and it is just go to be so frustrating that you can not make it better right now! Like I told you before there is no way image how you handle it because if Jaxson wasn't smiling it would devistate me! You have been so strong through all of this and are such a inspiration to many.. but you are going to have to let yourself be upset in order to cope. Everyone is praying for family... I will continue to pray that the Lord give you the strength! Just remember that if "If the Lord brings you to it, he will bring you through it" Your entry just broke my heart today and just made me cry....if you want to talk please email me and I will give you my number. Please give Reese lots of kiss from us sounds like he needs it! Things will get better..The pictures are great
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, February 17, 2003 11:36 AM CST
Hi Shawn,
No, I am not a transplant mom, but having been there with my close friend, I definitely know the weariness of seeing your special little boy so worn by the transplant process. Please know that with time, you WILL have your little boy back to doing all the things he was doing before. Transplant really sets these kids back but with time and therapy you will be amazed at his comeback and accomplishments!!! Next year at this time this will be all but a distant memory and you will be amazed at how far he will come! Love all the new pictures you posted!!!
You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Monday, February 17, 2003 10:47 AM CST
SHAWN
I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET JILLY BACK TOO. I THINK ABOUT ALL THE THINGS THAT SHE COULD DO AND HOW SWEET AND FUNNY SHE WAS. IT JUST MAKES ME WONDER WHERE THEY WENT. IF YOU WANT TO CRY WITH SOMEONE CALL ME. I CRY ALL THE TIME FOR HER TO COME BACK TO ME.

MICHELLE FITZPATRICK (JILLIAN'S MOM) <JILLANDMICHELLE@JUNO.COM>
- Monday, February 17, 2003 8:48 AM CST
I hope Reese gets to feeling better. Hang in there things will turn around before you know it...I hope Taylor gets to feeling better. Go Reese go fight that virus and make your mom happy. Keep writing to get all the stress off of you, that helps believe me I just write and write to get things off my mind.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC 27023 - Monday, February 17, 2003 7:51 AM CST
Times are difficult for you right now. Many of us care about you and are sending our energy to help Reese (and you)get better.
Susan Wensel
- Monday, February 17, 2003 7:48 AM CST
Dear Shawn, I am so sorry that things are so hard right now. I don't think anyone can know exactly what you are feeling and although Reese is with you in a way he's not the way you would like him to be with you. It must seem like these days are never going to end but just hang on and believe that there is light at the end of this transplant tunnel. Reese will get better and before you know you will be able to look back on all this as a bad bad dream. Being able to write down your feelings is a great coping strategy and helps to relieve a lot of stress. Keep writing.
Roberta (Ryan's Mom)
- Sunday, February 16, 2003 9:47 PM CST
I know it is so hard to see your child sick. It has been such a long journey already and you would think that by now everything would be getting back to normal (I know that is what I thought) but we just have to be thankful for what we have and we just have to believe that our children will pull through this and be back to their normal self before we know it.
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Sunday, February 16, 2003 6:25 PM CST
I know that rips your heart out when Reese feels so bad---that is just the pits!! We continue to pray God's rest, peace and wisdom for you, Doug, Toni and the other family members. And you are blessed to have Toni with you---she is one BIG BLESSING! We love you all!!
Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC - Sunday, February 16, 2003 5:24 PM CST
Hi guys... Hope today finds everyone feeling better. Tator Tot fight that flu you have and enjoy your week at school being the "STAR STUDENT THIS WEEK"... You go!! Reesiecup fight that virus and get eating & feeling better real soooooooon. Love you guys.XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Dad & Noreen , Grampy & Nana (JUST US GUYS FROM MAINE) <talkntalkn@aol.com>
- Sunday, February 16, 2003 12:41 AM CST
great new pics...i am glad yo uall are home...and i hope taylor starts to feel better soon.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Sunday, February 16, 2003 0:10 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day! We are so glad that Reese is doing better and out of the hospital! We will pray that everything keeps getting better for him - for all of you!
Hope the birthday party is lots of fun:-) Have fun guys!

Sharon & Jacob Deal <www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob>
Durham, NC USA - Friday, February 14, 2003 10:36 PM CST
GREAT NEWS!!! Way to go Reese you just keep fighting! I guess you could not ask for anything better than your two children laughing at each other! I hope the birthday party goes great I wish we could be there to help celebrate so bad! I am sorry that I did not get the correct size tee for Taylor..please tell him that I have not forgotten and will make sure to mail it next week. Reese have a great birthday tomorrow - YOU DESERVE IT!!!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, February 14, 2003 10:16 PM CST
Yeah!!! Congrats on discharge and Happy Valentine's Day!
Enjoy your much awaited birthday bash tomorrow!!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Friday, February 14, 2003 8:39 PM CST
We hope you guys are soon being discharged from 5200 and we miss you in clinic...
Hope you have an awesome Valentine's Day that is filled with lots of love.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Friday, February 14, 2003 2:22 PM CST
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY REESECUP! I hope that Reese is feeling better today...hopefully you guys are back at the apartment...
Reese I am sending lots of hugs and kisses! Shawn I am hoping today is a better day for you as well.

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, February 14, 2003 9:35 AM CST
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY REESE! HOPE THAT YOU ARE FEELING BETTER REAL SOON! TAKE CARE AND WE KEEP YOU ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Friday, February 14, 2003 9:18 AM CST
I check on you often and just felt like writing in today to let you know we continue to keep Reese in our prayers.
Angie Cottey "Angel" Kyle's mom <cottey@gte.net>
Sumner, WA USA - Friday, February 14, 2003 8:56 AM CST
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY SHAWN,DOUG,TAYLOR,REESE, TONI & ANDY!! OUR VALENTINE'S ARE FROZEN HERE IN MAINE, IT'S 21 BELOW ZERO RIGHT NOW, LITTLE BIT CHILLY HUH? WE LOVE YOU GUYS! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Dad & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, February 14, 2003 6:54 AM CST

Tommy Bennett www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Thursday, February 13, 2003 11:37 PM CST
Shawn --thanks for letting us know the latest. What a relief to know that he Reece doesn't need surgery. See you all soon. BTW --Isaiah admitted that he is "tired" of pizza (for the moment).
The Binghams <patricib@umflint.edu>
Durham, NC - Thursday, February 13, 2003 10:58 PM CST
I am sorry to hear you are having another set back, but you know Reese: he always pulls through! I pray that all the tests are negative and you can get back to the clinic soon!

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, February 13, 2003 8:56 PM CST
ALWAYS praying and thinking of Reese and family! Hope all goes well tomorrow.
Diane Wolfe
Mt. airy , nc - Thursday, February 13, 2003 2:35 PM CST
Hi Shawn, Toni and Reese,
I hope everything has gone well for Reese on these tests. You all are in my prayers, always remember "Jesus loves the little children."
Thinking of you all,
Love,Joyce Mabe

Joyce Mabe <joyce.mabe@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, nc usa - Thursday, February 13, 2003 2:18 PM CST
This news breaks my heart!!! Reese... baby you stay strong and get better ok! There are alot of people pulling for you. Shawn I hope that you are doing ok..I could just cry for you! If you guys need anything please let us know! Reesecup you get better ok., sending you lots of hugs and kisses! Keeping you family in my prayers:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, February 13, 2003 9:47 AM CST
Our prayers are with you all there at the hospital while Reese is being checked out. Love, hugs, kisses and prayers from Dad & Noreen.
Grampy & Nana <talkntalkn@aol.com>
COLD COUNTRY (WAY BELOW ZERO), Maine USA - Thursday, February 13, 2003 9:11 AM CST
Hey Shawn and Reese,
Sorry to hear you are back in the hospital.My heart is breaking right now. I know I am supposed to be upbeat for all of you, but right now, I just want to cry.Sorry...
Reese has been through alot, and I am sure he will be fine,
I am just alittle over emotional right now.
I am praying for Reese, for you and your Sister Toni.
Take care and I love you very much.
IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT....HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH IT...

Aunt Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA - Thursday, February 13, 2003 9:04 AM CST
You are in my thoughts and prayers. You are such a strong and positive person. I know that must be what gets you through all this. Please know that I will continue to check on you everyday and look forward to God's Good News for Reese. Love & Prayers
Diane Hubbard <diane_hubbard@catawba.k12.nc.us>
Catawba, NC - Thursday, February 13, 2003 7:51 AM CST
Best wishes for today's spinal tap to check on the pressure. The shunts are pretty common but I know you'd like to avoid it as long as you can. Reese is in my prayers! Hope your day goes better!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, February 13, 2003 5:39 AM CST
Reese continues to be in our thoughts and prayers! We'll keep our fingers crossed that he does not have hydrocephalus and there is no need for surgical intervention. Jacob showed signs of hydrocephalus pre-transplant and had a shunt placed at that time. He doesn't pay it any mind and it does not hinder him in any way.

Take care, Melanie, Steve, Jake, & Matt

The Irish's <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish -or- mairish@hotmail.com>
Marysville, WA USA - Thursday, February 13, 2003 1:17 AM CST
I will say an extra prayer tonight for Reese. Try to get some rest and hopefully only good news tomorrow.
Roberta Kishbaugh (Ryan's Mom former 5200 cellmate)
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 11:12 PM CST



SPECIAL PRAYERS FOR REECE, SHAWN AND TONI AS YOU GO THRU
THE NIGHT. MAY GOD HOLD YOU IN HIS ARMS! IN HIS ARMS WE ARE NOT AFRAID!






Betsy
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 11:08 PM CST


HAVE A GREAT VALENTINE'S DAY!
SEE YOU SOON

MICHELLE FITZPATRICK (JILLIAN'S MOM) <JILLANDMICHELLE@JUNO.COM>
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 8:23 PM CST
It was really great to see you guys at clinic tonight...thanks for listening to me ramble on and on and on...anyway, I am so Reese had to go to the floor tonight...but I will pray extra hard for whatever the good stuff is so he can go home tomorrow...He is too cute...I just love him...and I love the new pics with hair :)
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 8:14 PM CST
Reese I hope that you get over this little bug that is making you sick real soon.. Shawn I know the doctors there no best but I had a pediatrician tell me once when Jaxson had bad BM's to give him yogurt, said that would help. I was thinking it would also help in calories. Please pass along a hug and kiss for Reese for me.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, - Wednesday, February 12, 2003 1:09 PM CST
HAPPY BELATED ANNIVERSARY AND BIRTHDAY!!!!! I'm so thankful you were born and so blessed to have a friend like you. Congratulations on your anniversary, I'm so proud of you and Doug and what you guys have accomplished through the years. My prayers will continue for you and your family. Love you! D.
Deanna <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Wednesday, February 12, 2003 12:20 AM CST
It is so wonderful to read that Reese is doing well and I know that the Lord will give you the strength to see this through. I will be praying that all his future tests turn out well and that his eating and drinking improves so that you can go home soon! God Bless.
Debra Perry - Nurse Bethany's Mom
Burlington, NC USA - Wednesday, February 12, 2003 8:30 AM CST
Reese, we hope you know how many people are thinking of you, Valentines Day and every day!



Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 8:23 AM CST
Hi Reese,

It was great seeing you on Monday and hopefully we can get together soon. Take Care!

Alicia and Tommy Bennett www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 0:07 AM CST
Hey guys --sure enjoyed seeing you guys in the clinic Monday. Glad we had the opportunity to catch up on things. We miss you guys! Shawn --hope you had a nice birthday. Wish I had more for you than just a birthday hug! Now, re: your update --you're not talking about pizza and games with the Binghams --are you? Well, we can't wait until you're not in isolation anymore. We hope that Reese decides he likes "real" food and not the liquid stuff. Is baby food "real food"? Of course it is, I was just kidding! See you soon.
Pat and Isaiah www.caringbridge.com/mi/isaiah <patricib@umflint.edu>
Durham, NC - Tueday, February 11, 2003 11:37 PM CST
HAPPY HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! I TRIED TO GET TO YOU ON MONDAY AT CLINIC, BUT YOU LEFT WHILE I WAS SEEING THE DOCS. I HOPE YOUR DAY WAS SPENT WITH YOU SPECIAL LITTLE BOY. WE WILL SEE YOU SOON I AM SURE. LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU CAN SEE THE OTHER BALD HEADS AND WE WILL GET TOGETHER WITH THE BENNETTS AND HAVE A PIZZA PARTY. SEE YOU SOON
MICHELLE FITZPATRICK (JILLIAN'S MOM) <JILLANDMICHELLE@JUNO.COM>
- Tueday, February 11, 2003 10:23 PM CST
Just wanted to drop by and leave you some Valentine’s thoughts & wishes.
Hoping things are going good for you today.
I hope you’re aware of your listing on our Adopt A Kid site, and getting new guestbook messages because of it!
Amie & I are trying to get as many people thinking and praying as possible!





Chris - Gooch's mom
Gooch's Site
Adopt A Kid's site - just click on Caringbridge on the left
- Tueday, February 11, 2003 9:54 PM CST
Happy Belated Birthday, Shawn. I miss hearing your pick-me-up smile. It's greatly needed around here. You have come along way this year and you've proven that you are exceptional in so many ways. Keep up the fight. Keep up the smiles and by all means, remember that we hold you up in prayer, daily.
Jamie Deal
- Tueday, February 11, 2003 3:42 PM CST
I have only sent you one other message, but I check on you and Reese everyday. I am praying for you and hope you get home REAL soon!
Diane Hubbard
Catawba, NC - Tueday, February 11, 2003 10:56 AM CST
Birthday's are milestones of our lives. I'm so happy you and Reese have reach these with so many blessing along the way. In prayer,
Regina Foster (Jean) <rfoster@rcscom.com>
Kernersville, NC USA - Tueday, February 11, 2003 10:34 AM CST
thanks for "green peas" !!!!

LOVE YOU MUCH !!!!!
- Monday, February 10, 2003 11:49 PM CST
We are glad you liked your special birthday stuff...Cody made and wrapped everything himself...oh well I colored the sun and moon that was "my" job...he also made the picture on the front of the present on the computer in paint...pretty good, eh?
Anyway...we saw you all breeze in and breeze out of clinic...must be nice :)
Hope your birthday was awesome...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Monday, February 10, 2003 10:23 PM CST
Happy Birthday to a VERY special lady...Hope your birthday is filled with sunshine and laughter.
God Bless You Shawn.
Love, Sherry

Sherry Delya
Merrillville, IN USA - Monday, February 10, 2003 7:47 PM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn!!!
Reese wants his mommy to know he loves her very much and wants her to have a great day and know he will be fine.

PS - You did it! I love the picture of cutie on the front!

Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Monday, February 10, 2003 5:26 PM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn!!! I hope that you have a great day!!!
Ann Marie Edmonds <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC - Monday, February 10, 2003 5:03 PM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn!! Looks like you guys will have alot of partying coming up! I am praying for you always and tell Toni hello. Please give Reesecup a cuddle for me, take care.
Bethany Kistler
Elon, - Monday, February 10, 2003 2:05 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAWN!! Hope you have a wonderful day! Can't wait for the next update! My prayers are with you!
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, February 10, 2003 1:23 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAWN....I hope you have a great day because you DESERVE it! Are you still wondering how we found out? I believe it was your mother who emailed us and I am glad she did. I hope that Reese is doing well today...
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, February 10, 2003 1:09 PM CST
Dear Shawn,Happy Birthday: 34 years and about 7 hours ago I was looking at the most beautiful baby that had ever been brought into the world. I fought the Dr. tooth and claw to not put me to sleep as I did not want to miss one second of your arrival. I finally broke a strap holding my hands down, ripped the mask off my face and was allowed, when they saw how determined I was, to be awake and see you as soon as you were born. Alot of things have changed on the maternity wards these days but one thing will never change: It is the place where miracles happen every day and parents fall in love with their little angels! Thanks for being such a wonderful daughter and friend. I cherish the special bond that we share as Mother and Daughter, a bond that can never be broken or imitated. I will always be here for you and will always love you. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to be such a big part of Taylor and Reese's lives. Even when Taylor is driving me crazy, I thank God for every moment we share. When he takes my hand and kisses it, and says,"I wuv you, Nanna" it makes all the aggrivation worth it! And, when he wakes me up and asks to get in bed with us, and I ask why, he says,"Just because I wike to be wiff you," I know that God has been very good to me and Wilbur, to let us be in the position to help you. And, I miss Reese so much, and can't wait til you are all back home so we can be together again. You know, for about the last 5 years we saw each other almost every day and I really miss that. Love to you again, Sweetie, I miss you and can't wait til Friday so we can celebrate your special day and Reese's, too. Toni, I miss you too Honey, and we will have to make plans for your Birthday coming up! Let's see, how old will you be? 7? And, oops, forgot, there is no Feb. 29th this year, oh well, sorry 'bout that! And as much as I want Reese home I know that when that time comes it means Toni, you will be going home, too, to D.C. and I will miss this time we have had. Thanks so much for being there for Shawn and helping her. You are the best sister anyone could ever have and an extra special daughter. Love to you all, and kiss my sweet Reesiecup and give him an extra cuddle from his Nanna. Love, Mom
Juli Hill
- Monday, February 10, 2003 11:30 AM CST
Happy, happy birthday,Shawn. We wish you a very blessed day. Love and prayers. Martha and Bill
Martha Cassell
White Plains , NC USA - Monday, February 10, 2003 9:18 AM CST
Hi Shawn, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! How did everyone know about your birthday?????? Hmmmmmmmmmmmm I have no idea!
Love & Chuckles from Maine...... Love ya!

Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Monday, February 10, 2003 8:45 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Shawn!!! Hope you have a good one!!
Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, February 10, 2003 8:43 AM CST
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAUGHTER!!!!! LOVE AND MISS YOU BUNCHES..A BIIIG HUG AND KISS FOR YOU AND ONE FOR REESIECUP TOO. HAVE AN AWESOME DAY.
DAD <chrnor@msn.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Monday, February 10, 2003 8:43 AM CST
HAPPY, HAPPY, BIRTHDAY SHAWN!!!!!! OUR LOVE AND BEST WISHES!
JIM AND BETSY
- Monday, February 10, 2003 8:31 AM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn!!! We miss having you at work, but are so glad to hear that Reese continues to improve. Hang in there... you'll be back at home soon!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, February 10, 2003 7:44 AM CST
Happy Birthday Shawn! Hope you have a great day! Sounds like Reese is doing good and that is wonderful. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, February 10, 2003 7:16 AM CST
Happy Birthday and Happy Anniversary Shawn. It was seven years yesterday that we met and seven years tonight that we went on our first date. My how time has flown by. I haven’t been away from you and Reese for 24 hours yet and I already miss you both bad. You have a happy day and maybe they want hold you in clinic all day. Get you some rest because you are not as young as you use to be…..lol!

Doug
- Sunday, February 9, 2003 11:23 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR SHAWN...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! CHA CHA CHA
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Sunday, February 9, 2003 10:49 PM CST
I'm glad things are going good there & I am really glad you mentioned Douglas, I had no idea and pray that 1% takes over for him so he doenst have to go thru transplant all over again. You guys have been thru so much in your little lives, its so unfair.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site


- Sunday, February 9, 2003 10:28 PM CST
Shawn,
Wishing you a happy birthday from Lewisville. They are telling me that Morgan will be coming in for transplant any day now so look for us to be there in the very near future (at least I hope so). We are thrilled to hear that Reese is doing so well and we still pray for him each and every night.
MORGAN'S PAGE

Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, February 9, 2003 6:54 PM CST
Shawn, wishing you a Happy Birthday for tomorrow! Enjoy all your company. Glad to read Reese continues to do well and he continues in my prayers!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Sunday, February 9, 2003 11:14 AM CST
Baby Reese -
Did I hear you were throwing a Pizza Party on Monday! Wow, Monday is Pizza Night in Durham too. Glad to hear that you and your mom are getting some rest. Isaiah and his mom are resting too. We might need a transfusion on Sunday, if not, we are looking for an excuse to order some pizza. Oh, one thing better than pizza, and that is birthday cake!

Isaiah's Dad, Sal www.caringbridge.org/mi/isaiah
Durham, NC - Saturday, February 8, 2003 3:44 PM CST
Enough cards can make a mom smile too...Hope your birthday is full of suprises :)
One of Your Birthday Fairies <HappyBDay2Shawn@ReeseRocks.com>
- Saturday, February 8, 2003 0:08 AM CST
Shawn-
Well, happy birthday to you on the 10th! I'm glad to hear that you are enjoying your time with Doug. I know you will miss him when he goes home. Tell Reese to keep up the good work. See you soon.

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Friday, February 7, 2003 10:54 PM CST
Hey Guys!
Very glad to see all is well with this update. I always pray that no news is good news! I always scroll down the site slowly and when I see that new date, I say a little extra prayer, hoping for good news. Shawn, I love the prayer you put on Brittney's web page. Christy is lucky to have your love and support. I hope that everyone who reads this guestbook will take an extra moment to stop by Brittney's page, caringbridge.org/nc/brittney and let Christy know that an extra special prayer is being said for her. She is in so much pain. Give that Reesie Cup an extra cuddle for me. Very Sincerely,

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, February 7, 2003 10:02 PM CST
Hi There,
Reese you are a such a cutie!!!! I love those cheeks. Looks like you had a nice party and enjoyed your cake:)
I met your nana Noreen today. We also live in Maine and my grandaughter had a transplant at Duke last January. I will be checking in on you often and keeping you in my Prayers.
God Bless You little man.

Julie Ritchie <theritchies@xpressamerica.net>
Smyrna Mills, Me USA - Friday, February 7, 2003 7:44 PM CST
You know Tuesday was along time ago...

:)

Hope all is well :) :) :) :)

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Friday, February 7, 2003 6:38 PM CST
You and Reese are in my thoughts so often as are Doug and Taylor. The strength of all of you is so admired. Know that my prayers are with you all. The photographs are wonderful - I can see the 'Coble' in Reese!! What a reassuring smile he has in spite of all he is enduring.
Sara Lou Cardwell (Jim Phillips' sister) <saralou@OAISAS.net>
Rockville, MD US - Friday, February 7, 2003 10:45 AM CST
I am sorry to hear that the party has to be postponed... but I am sure that Reese will not mind waiting until his big brother is better. Shawn I wanted to let you know that you are suppose to receive a package from me today, but the people I had to send it left something out of the box...so when you read the letter you will know what I am talking about...but it should be there tomorrow. I hope that you guys have a great weekend anyway. Please give Reese a hug and kiss for me, one day I want to be able to give him a hug and kiss myself:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, February 7, 2003 9:30 AM CST
Good Morning Reese, Shawn and Doug. I am very pleased to hear that Reese is doing so well. Where Wendi works they cannot get on the site anymore. All of her coworkers fell in love with Reese and they would gather around and read his daily reports, they also loved it when you put in new pictures. They think he is TOO CUTE. So now I have to send them his updates. You are all in my prayers and theirs. Hope to see you at HOME before too long.


Linda Sapp
- Friday, February 7, 2003 8:39 AM CST
Just wanted to check in and say-"good morning"-and to let you know you are still in our prayers. God smile down on you today. Martha
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Friday, February 7, 2003 7:51 AM CST
Wow, Day +63 ... you're more than half way there! It's wonderful to hear that your little Reese is doing so well, what a little trooper! Although, we haven't signed in for a very long time, we do check on him often and keep him in our prayers. Sending our best, The Whites
Amy White <www.caringbridge.org/page/susannah>
San Diego, CA - Thursday, February 6, 2003 4:38 PM CST
HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY "SMILES" FROM MAINE..... Continue to get well Reesiecup, work hard and get strong... We love you BUNCHES. Prayers, Hugs, & Kisses to you, mom, dad & Taylor.XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Grampy Chris & Nana Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Thursday, February 6, 2003 3:26 PM CST
Hi ALL,
Just wanted to say HEY, and hope Reese feels better soon.
His pics are soooo CUTE. Love to all of you.

Aunt Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA - Thursday, February 6, 2003 10:54 AM CST
Good morning Reese and Shawn, You havent updated you site in a few days I hope that everyone is doing ok and getting ready for a party this weekend! Thinking of you and your family daily and praying the Lord Bless you! Hugs and Kiss Reese!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, February 6, 2003 9:25 AM CST
Hi All! Just checking in on you! Hope that Reese gets to feeling better soon! You all still remain in our thoughts and prayers! Hope this weekend's festivities are a blast!!!God bless!
Ann Marie Edmonds & Jason Sheets <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC USA - Thursday, February 6, 2003 8:46 AM CST
Hi guys, I am a friend of Taylor McClung. I read your site and it looks great. I'll check back now and then. Take good care and hang in.
Paula Gardner
Apex, NC USA - Thursday, February 6, 2003 8:26 AM CST
Hey...I just wanted to drop by and say hi...I am still praying for you guys and I can't wait to see you all in clinic.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (www.forcody.org) <codman@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 5, 2003 9:17 PM CST
Shawn, I want you to know that I read your journals everyday. The entries are so wonderful and I appreciate you keeping us informed. I am so glad that I was able to meet you through Melissa (Jones). I know that we have only met once, but through the journals, I feel as though I have known you always. I pray for you,Reese, your family and all the lives you have touched through this journey. May God Bless you and your family! "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified...for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, February 5, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Oh, Reesecup I hope you are feeling better soon! I continue to pray for you and all your little friends. Especially Douglas and Cam and Mckenzie.
God Bless!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, February 5, 2003 7:35 AM CST
Shawn- Just to let you know I read your journal everyday, I look forward to seeing how you and Reese are doing. I hope Reese feels better Saturday for his birthday party. Hope you get better soon. I love the new pics, they are so CUTE!!!
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC 27023 - Wednesday, February 5, 2003 6:47 AM CST
Oh don't you ever think for one minute that so many of us don't check daily for those updates (and look forward to them). I only know of you through my mother(Lynn Bryant), but over the last several months feel like I have always know you and your lovely family. I hope that Reese perks up soon as so many are thinking and praying for your family. Prayers for each of you to have an energized day tomorrow! :)
Diane Wolfe <princessdia@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, February 5, 2003 0:02 AM CST
Hey Shawn...just checking in...sorry to hear that Reese is still not wanting to eat very much. Maybe he will make a huge turn around soon and eat you outta house and home!! I hope you are not taking the stomach bug that is going around big time here in Surry...I hope it is just from nerves...I know being homesick is a terrible feeling..but keep your chin up...we all can't wait until you and Reese get back to Surry County!!! Take care!!!
Still in our prayers at Surry County 911!

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond , NC USA - Tueday, February 4, 2003 11:39 PM CST
Dear Shawn, Thank you for taking the time to update your journal. I still try to follow the progress of all the children I met while on 5200 and hope and pray for good news when I click on. I am sure the clinic visits get extremely tiring and stressful. Going each day not knowing what you are going to find out must seem overwhelming at times. I hope that Reese has a wonderful birthday celebration and that the clinic visits will become less frequent for both of you.
Roberta Kishbaugh (Ryan's Mom former 5200 cellmate)
- Tueday, February 4, 2003 4:31 PM CST
Reesecup... you better get well quick if you dont want to miss your party! I wish that I could be there in person to help celebrate..Me, Jaxson and Jason are sending hugs your way! Shawn, I hope that you are feeling better soon as well. You family is always in my prayers!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tueday, February 4, 2003 3:44 PM CST
Shawn, sorry it has been several days since I last signed in. However, it has not been several days since I've checked on you guys. That is a daily practice. I'm glad that things are going fairly well. We all loved the pictures of Reese and his birthday cake. He is so cute. Just wanted to let you know that you guys are still in our thoughts and prayers. Love ya.
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Tueday, February 4, 2003 3:29 PM CST
Hope all is well after the visit yesterday. Hey little man WHAT ADORABLE BIRTHDAY PICTURES... YOUR SOOOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE!!!!!!!! Hi TAYLOR!! We love you guys~~~~~~
Grampy & Nana <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tueday, February 4, 2003 6:08 AM CST
What a cutie!! I love Reese's pics!! I have a daughter who is 15 mnths old and has just about completed her second BMT!! We're on day +44! Check us out!! I hope Reese starts to feel a little better soon, it can be SO frusterating when they don't eat!! Lotsa Luck!!
The McClung's <www.caringbridge.com/mn/taylor>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Monday, February 3, 2003 11:55 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know you are on our hearts and in our prayers...today and everyday...I always love reading your journal enteries...and I try to sign the guestbook often because I am addicted to mine :) Anyway, Maybe we will start seeing you in clinic soon...they keep on threatening to let us out of here...I told them until we have discharge papers and are walking out the door we won't get our hopes again :)
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (cellmates 5214) <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Monday, February 3, 2003 11:52 PM CST
I hope that Reese is feeling better today...Maybe he just has a little cold or something. I was glad to read that Taylor liked the car I sent, I will make sure to send him some more of them. Please give Reesecup a kiss for me!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, February 3, 2003 1:05 PM CST
Hi, Reese-
I hope you are feeling better, buddy! Hugs to all,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Monday, February 3, 2003 12:57 AM CST
Reese & Family, Sure hope you are feeling better today! The weekend with Taylor being there sounded good. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, February 3, 2003 11:57 AM CST
We are praying for you...don't come back here...we will have to treat you like that annoying salesperson that comes to the door, when you knock we will have to yell from the other side GO AWAY WE DON'T WANT ANY!
But seriously...you all are in our prayers...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (cellmates 5214) <codman@cox.net>
- Sunday, February 2, 2003 7:34 PM CST
Happy day to all of you. Glad to know Reese is still progressing. Sounds like you've had a great time with Taylor! Hug them both for us. God bless you all! We love you!
Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Sunday, February 2, 2003 2:51 PM CST
I am glad that you all got to get out and see a movie, it sounds like you had a great time. Hopefully we will see you in clinic in about a week! Take care of the little man.
Alicia and Tommy Bennett www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, February 2, 2003 10:01 AM CST
Happy Birthday Reese Cup!! I Love you and think about you all the time. My Love and Prayers are always with all of you.
Aunt Pibby (Peggy :-) ) <jdj28@sbcglobal.net>
Hammond, IN USA - Sunday, February 2, 2003 0:28 AM CST
I wonder if headaches are contagious...it would seem that anyone who has had any time on 5200 has this issue as a normal part of their day :)
Anyway...I was just checking in to see how your day was and see how Reese did at the clinic...
I am so siked that you all got to take Taylor to the movie...I hope it was funny...I know I could use a laugh almost as much as you can...
Things are going really well and we hope to be off the ward for good sometime in the early part of the week...
Thanks for your encouraging words in the guestbook...God always knows what I need when I need it most...Glad He chose you to deliver the message this time :)

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (cellmates 5214) <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Sunday, February 2, 2003 0:26 AM CST
Hi Reese, So glad to hear that you had a great day. Hope tomorrow is even better for you. Keep up the great work.
Big Hugs from me to you and your family.


Cindy Newman <sixjays@shaw.ca>
Selkirk, Manitoba Canada - Sunday, February 2, 2003 0:01 AM CST
Shawn - those are the absolute cutest pictures I have ever seen in my life!! It's so good to hear that Reese is doing well. And tell him Happy belated First Birthday for me - with lots of kisses too.
Jenn King <pogosmom@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, February 1, 2003 11:16 PM CST
I love reading the journal and getting the update on Reece.
He and the family are in my daily prayers. Hope the weekend
is good for all of you.

Maud Randolph (formerly Coble) Bill was a cousin, Gray is my son.
Mt Airy, NC USA - Saturday, February 1, 2003 11:10 AM CST
Hi Baby Reese,
If you need tubing just let me know, I ran out just once, and now if the infusion company is low, -they call me! Yep, they sure do. Oh yeah, if you need boxes by chance, (the kind of small kind), or bubble wrap or ice packs - - - - I can help you out too!! I love those pictures! They really brighten my day!

Sal, Isaiah's Dad @ www.caringbridge.org/mi/isaiah
Durham, NC - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 09:31 PM (CST)
Doug and Shawn...Just wanted to drop a line and let you know that you are still in my daily thoughts and prayers!!! I think I am becoming addicted to the website..I check it constantly for updates...it the 1st thing that I go to when I sit down at my computer!! Shawn...I am glad that you and Reese are getting to spend some time with Doug!! Doug..everything is fine here in Surry County and yes...we are surviving without you!!!!(no major incidents!!) I will be glad when all of you are back home!! Take care and enjoy your weekend together with Taylor and Nana. Reesiecup..you hang in there fella..you are so adorable!! Hurry back to Surry County, so I can meet you and give you a big hug!!!
Doug and Shawn...my prayers are with you and your family...anything I can do..please let me know!!
Love, Sharon Burchette (Surry County 911)

Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 09:08 PM (CST)
I am glad to hear that Reese is well and continuing to thrive. He is in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 06:08 PM (CST)
Reese I am glad you are still feeling good...I cant help but to keep looking at your pictures you are so precious...Keep Smiling:) Have a great weekend!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, January 31, 2003 at 01:53 PM (CST)
Happy Belated Birthday Reese!! I am glad to see that cute smile again in your pictures.
Erika <erikadsummers@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 11:46 AM (CST)
Hi Reese & Family, I just love the new pictures one the site they are adorable. You look so happy and healthy! You are such a special little angel. We keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers each day! That is wonderful that Taylor is coming too! I bet you all will have lots of fun! Hope you have a GREAT weekend.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 11:36 AM (CST)


We are all thinking of you and praying for you Reese!
Hope your birthday is the first of many but the last one spent in a hospital!


Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 09:13 PM (CST)
This is my first time signing in, my sister Robin Tucker sent me Reeses' site and I am so glad she did! Happy Birthday Reese!!! Great pictures you are to cute!!

Rhonda Cribbs <RP09_2000@yahoo.com>
mooresville, nc Iredell - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 06:11 PM (CST)
Hi, my name is Kristi and I am the woman that "adopted" your son off the adopt a child on gooch's website. I also have a son, Carter with Hurler's and he is +76 days post transplant and still in The Hospital for Sick Children because of lingering complications. I have just recently read all of the past journal entries and saw Reese's pictures and I have to tell you that he is one adorable little boy. I am so glad to hear that he has done so well so far and I pray that he continues to do so. I will continue to check in on Reese daily. Take Care
Kristi www.caringbridge.org/canada/carter <carters_world@rogers.com>
toronto, on canada - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 05:20 PM (CST)
What great pictures! I knew Reese was cute, but those pictures are just precious! Hope you enjoyed your time away from clinic.
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 04:43 PM (CST)
Dear Reese,
You are too cute for words. Happy first birthday sweetheart.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 04:24 PM (CST)
I just want to say Happy Birthday Reese!!!(a little late) I am so proud of you. I know that mom, dad, and Taylor are too. I want you to know that you continue to stay in my prayers as does your entire family; immediate and 5200. May God Bless You and all those that you have touched.
Cary Griffin <caryg@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 03:22 PM (CST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY at day late Reese!!!! The birthday pictures are so adorable!!!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 02:28 PM (CST)
Hi Reese!
We love your new pictures that your mommy took. You look so handsome! That cake looks pretty good too! Well happy first birthday and we're wishing you many more happy wonderful birthdays!

Pat and Isaiah Bingham <patricib@umflint.edu>
Durham, NC - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 01:00 PM (CST)
Happy Birthday Little Man!
Pictures are Great!
We will add you to our growing prayer list....
May God's Blessings fall all over you!

Lynn
www.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage, PA - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 12:59 PM (CST)
The Pictures are GREAT! Reese looks so good! Thanks so much for sharing them. I am so glad that he was feeling well enough for you to get some pictures of him on his 1st birthday. The t shirt is so cute on him. Reese you just keep up the good work...sending hugs and kisses your way!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 12:07 PM (CST)
Happy Birthday Reese and may you have many, many, many more!! :-) Get well and get home soon!
Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 11:53 AM (CST)
Sorry I mispelled is name again! REESE I will do it right from now on. Hope you all have a great day!
Annette Leftwich Golding
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 11:04 AM (CST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Reesecup! Love the pictures; you keep becoming more precious every time I see them. Keep smiling sweetheart! You're always in my thoughts and prayers and I love and miss you so much!
Deanna Ramsey <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 10:59 AM (CST)
Happy Happy Belated Birthday Sweet Reesecup, and many many more! I love reading the happy updates. You guys will be home in no time! Stay strong and God Bless!
Bethany Kistler
- Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 10:30 AM (CST)
Happy Birthday Reese! Your pictures are so cute. Remembering you in thoughts and prayers! God is so good. Love ya!!!!
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. Blount - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 07:48 AM (CST)
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY REECE! I am so sorry I did not get my entry in on the site until now but my computer has been acting up here at work! I hope you had a great birthday and from the looks of the new pictures you enjoyed playing in the cake! We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers! Reece you are a little angel! Take Care!
Annette Leftwich Golding
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 07:26 AM (CST)
Happy Birthday, Reese!!

(and congratulations!)

Susan Wensel
- Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 07:14 AM (CST)
Hi Reese. I just found your site and how lucky am I to find it on your FIRST birthday. So I want to wish you a very happy birthday. I hope you have a wonderful year.
Lori <www. caringbridge.org/il/jackryan>
Aurora, IL - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 10:26 PM (CST)
Happy Birthday Reese Cup, love always, Uncle Lou
Lewis Cassell <lewiscassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 10:03 PM (CST)
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY REESE!!!!!
OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS!!!

UNCLE JIM AND AUNT BETSY
- Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 08:51 PM (CST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REESECUP!!! The picture is precious you look so happy and healthly. Thank God for that, He has been very good to us all. I love you and your Mommy,Daddy and Taylor very much, Just had to let you know that I was thinking of you tday and wish you a healthly future. My prayers will continue for you and your family,

Much Love
Greatgrandma Yountz

Norma Yountz <NYountz@aol.com>
Winston-Salem, NC Forsyth - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 05:26 PM (CST)
Hi to all! I just had to email you on this special day for Reese. I have followed your journal entries with all of the ups and downs and have sent many prayers your way. I wanted to tell Reese HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! We have his picture up on the board at the practice and keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you or anything you need. Take care, God Bless You, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY again Reese!!
Dr. Karen Cannon
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 04:58 PM (CST)
Happy, Happy, Happy Birthday Reese! I am praying for you and wishing you well.
Andrea Lorusso <alorusso@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 03:03 PM (CST)
HAPPY BRITHDAY REESE FORM ALL YOUR FREINDS AT DANLEY SALES
DARRELL KEEPS US UPDATED,AND WE KEEP PRAYING FOR YOU

BILL,SUSIE,DARRELL,JASON,BUBBA,BRAD
MT.AIY, NC SURRY - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:57 PM (CST)
HAPPY BRITHDAY REESE!!!! WE THANK OF YOU ALL EVERYDAY.AND WE ARE GOING TO KEEP PRAYING FOR ANOTHER GREAT YEAR.KEEP THE FAITH AND LOVE YOUR KIDS(DOUG TO)
DARRELL,MARY,HUNTER <firedawg331@firefighting.net>
MT.AIRY, NC SURRY - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:54 PM (CST)
Happy Birthday Reese!! Sprite here from Smile Quilts to wish you a very Happy FIRST Birthday!!! We have a surprise for you and want to share your special day with you. My e-mail is down so I can't e-mail you right now but if you will go to http://smilequilt.com/sqbirthdays/reese/ you will find it. Have a Wonderful Day! Love from the Smile Quilts Angels.

Smile Quilts Angels <sprite@tds.net>
- Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:53 PM (CST)
Happy birthday Reese. We love you and are praying for you!!!
Angie Mitkish,Joyce Mabe,JT Martin and Kathy Tedder <angie.mitkish@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:49 PM (CST)
Happy 1st Birthday Reese. I am glad that you are doing well. The pictures are so CUTE. I can't wait until I get to meet you. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong little fellow. May God keep you in his sight.
Megan Moore <mmoore@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:23 PM (CST)
Happy Birthday young lady! Hope you get to feeling better, and we will all be praying for you, from the Bible Study group at Hendrick Motorsports.
Jim McKenzie
Concord, North Carolina - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:18 PM (CST)
HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY REESECUP! We will see you soon!
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 01:05 PM (CST)
Happy, Happy Birthday,Baby. Well, aren't we proud of you. Happy "birth" day to you Shawn. Hope everyone is feeling better today. It's alright if Reeseiecup clings to daddy. He knows he is loved very much by each of you. We are looking forward to celebrating birthday #2 in White Plains. God's continuing grace be upon you. Love in Christ. Bill, Martha, and Lewis
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 12:59 PM (CST)
well happy birthday a day late but, you know me i'd forget my head if it wasn't attached. hope everything is well. we miss you all and hope to see you soon. we love you.
steve,heather and dakota
- Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 12:37 PM (CST)
Happy Birthday to you Reese Cup !! 1 year old today..yepeeee
With many more to come.Hugs and Kisses to the BIRTHDAY BOY!!

Aunt Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 10:24 AM (CST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, Happy Birthday to Reese, Happy Birthday to you! Sweetie I hope that you are feeling better today and able to celebrate! To be only one you have been through so much...you are such a strong baby! Wish we could be there to help you celebrate! Shawn please give Reese a hug from us...we want him to know how much is is loved and thought of especially today..HAVE A HAPPY DAY!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 09:16 AM (CST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REESECUP!!!!
I'm glad to hear that things are going well. And yes, Reese will have some testimony to tell when he gets older. God is good and He has His hands upon you every day. We love and miss you all.
XOXOXOXOX,
Melissa, Jerry, Heather and Hailey

Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 07:39 AM (CST)
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPPPPPPPPPPPY 1ST BIRTHDAYYYYYYYYY REESECUP........ WE LOVE YOU!
GRAMPY & NANNA <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 04:48 AM (CST)
Happy Birthday to you...Happy Birthday to you...

Hey you guys must have been so quite while you were here the other night beause we didn't even hear you (usually we know when someone is in the treatment room...

Anyway...they nixed our discharge palns for yesterday...maybe today...but I am skeptical at best...

You all are in our thoughts and prayers...

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (cellmates 5214) <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 03:14 AM (CST)
Happy 1ST Birthday, Reese!!! You've never met me but we share a birthday (of course I'm 29 years older than you!) so I thought it only right that I wish you a happy day. We check your website all the time and are so happy to hear that you are doing pretty well. Take care, Melanie, Steve, Jacob (www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish), and Matthew
The Irish's <mairish@hotmail.com>
Marysville, WA USA - Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 11:57 PM (CST)
The new pictures of Reese are GREAT! He has a beautiful smile! Thanks so much for sharing them with us. I can not tell you how glad I am to know that McKenzie is doing so much better and with Reese doing good it is a great day. Tomorrow is the big day right?! Reese will be ONE! I hope that you guys have a great time. I put something in the mail for Reese and Taylor they should get it tomorrow. Please give Reese a hug for us!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 09:31 AM (CST)
It is so great to read how good Reece is doing. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!
Annette Leftwich Golding
- Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 09:27 AM (CST)
Hi Reese-
I am glad I understand how to do the blood draws now! I was drawing my own blood instead of Isaiah's, no wonder the counts were wacky for us! Wow you sure are cute with that hat. That should win a prize in a photo contest for sure. Glad I got to see you over the weekend. I have to go and get pizza and bring it to the clinic now. Monday is pizza night at Domino's where 1 large CHEESE pizza is $5.99. It is top on Isaiah's list. He has had a long day so I don't want him to be hungry. PS - I always park on the lowest level in the garage, there always seems to be spots there and they are a quick in and out too.

Isaiah's Dad, Sal <www.caringbridge.org/mi/isaiah>
Durham, NC - Monday, January 27, 2003 at 04:24 PM (CST)
No you are not crazy...Brad drives like that all of the time...and I was always worried that he might be sick...one time he picked us from the dentist before our transplant and we had just found out that Cody was going to have to have a bunch of teeth pulled so Brad goes into thsi terrible story about when he was a kid and...I was looking at him like...HELLLLOOOOOO, we haven't had the proceudre yet...scare Cody after it not before it, please ...he seems nice enough but always rushing...just wanted you to know it wasn't your imagination...I have been on several rides with him...I was glad when my husband got here with my truck :)
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (cellmates 5214) <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Sunday, January 26, 2003 at 05:33 PM (CST)
Reese's newest picture - (square hat with peas)...is now my screensaver. It makes ME smile when I see it. Thanks for that smile REESE. You are too cute.
Barbara <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Sunday, January 26, 2003 at 02:29 AM (CST)
Shawn, You are a mess girl. Thank God for a sense of humor. I am obsessed with your website. Tears automatically form, when reading about Reese, OR the other children on 5200. I was reading your last update earlier tonight....then a little later I went back...and you had updated things again. You also added two new pictures of Reese - BTW - they were the cutest. I wanted to just pinch his cheeks :-) The one with the square hat...LOL. I can't tell you how many times I think about what you, Reese, and your family are going through. The entire country is praying for yall. Look at the hits you've had on this site alone. I also enjoyed the prayer at the end of your last update. God bless you guys. Keep on smiling Reese. You're going to be ONE next week. "happy birthday" to you. I will continue praying for McKenzie also. God bless you all...Keep your heads up. Love ya.
Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Sunday, January 26, 2003 at 02:20 AM (CST)
Shawn-
You and Toni always have some adventure to tell me about to make me laugh! I guess you had one of those "nana something" days. I can't remember what you told me. You'll have to tell me again. I love you guys. I miss Toni too; I hope she comes back soon. Reese, you take care and be good for your mommy!

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 11:20 PM (CST)
I'll be so happy for you once Reese isn't in isolation anymore. That's a beautiful little prayer you added to the end of your update.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 02:02 PM (CST)
So sorry to hear about the nosebleeds Reese.
I hope today is a better day for you.
I hear someone special is having a birthday soon?
Wow, one year old!!!???
Please know your friends at Smile Quilts are thinking of you.



Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Friday, January 24, 2003 at 08:45 PM (CST)
Hey Reese... I am glad to know that you are feeling better! I can not wait until the day I get to meet you and give a hug! Shawn.. you are so right it is not fair that all these little babies are sick. I would feel the same way if it was my son. But all we can do is pray that the Lord will give us the peace that passes all understanding! Have a great weekend... Reese you stay strong sweetie your birthday is almost here:)
Robin Tucker <rucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, January 24, 2003 at 12:29 PM (CST)
Hope everything is okay..no update since Monday..Hope to hear something soon...
Love, Sherry

Sherry
Merrillville, IN USA` - Friday, January 24, 2003 at 12:11 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn and Reese,
Glad everything is going okay. I think about both of you all the time. You are all in my prayers. I love you.

Sherry <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Wednesday, January 22, 2003 at 10:56 PM (CST)
Dear Shawn, I am so happy to hear that Reese is doing so well. I worried when he went back into the hospital but glad to see that all went smoothly.
Roberta Kishbaugh (Ryan's Mom former 5200 cellmate)
- Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 05:58 PM (CST)
Shawn and Reese, I am so glad that everything is going so well! You can't image how that makes my day knowing that Reese is ok...I am also glad to hear he is smiling just because I know what that does to a mama! I hope that you guys have a nice peaceful day of rest. I am looking forward to seeing new pictures, It has been awhile since we have seen pictures of him smiling.. Please pass a hug on to Reese from Me and Jaxson:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 08:24 AM (CST)
Shawn, so glad to hear that everything is going well. You guys are doing GREAT!!!! Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers. Love ya.
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Monday, January 20, 2003 at 06:11 PM (CST)
Thanks for the good news on Reese!!! Glad Christy spent some time with you. She continues in my prayers. I am saddened by Mitch and his family is also in my prayers.

It is so easy to over-eat at Cracker Barrel isn't it??!!!!
I love that place!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Monday, January 20, 2003 at 03:39 PM (CST)
That is such good news to read about Reece. We hope everything continues to improve. I know it has been rough but it looks like it was well worth every bit. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, January 20, 2003 at 02:58 PM (CST)
YEAH REESE!!!! Way to go Reese... I am so glad to hear good news this Monday morning! Shawn thanks for the updates .. I am so glad that you were able to get out for a little R&R much needed I am sure. Please give Reese a hug for us...God is good all the time.. All the time God is good.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, January 20, 2003 at 09:37 AM (CST)
Hey reese, I am so glad that you are doing better and out of 5200! Keep on kicking butt!!!!!!!!!!!! take care
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
chapel hill, nc - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 10:56 PM (CST)
Hey Shawn, Toni, and Reese...Congratulations on getting to go back to the apartment. I'm thankful Reese is doing well. God is SOOOOOOOO GOOOOOOOOD.....Thanks for the website, for the updates, for mentioning the other children that are at Duke. It's truly a blessing to be able to meet, and pray for all of the families going through the same thing you are...some better, some worse. Prayers are still with you, and your family. Love you all...
Barbara S. Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com,>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 06:56 PM (CST)
Praise God that Reese is back at the apartment and continues to manifest his healing! I know you all will enjoy having Doug down there for a while, too. Talk to you soon. We sure love you all!!!

Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 04:38 PM (CST)
Hey Shawn & Toni, I am so glad Reesecup is doing better. I hated that you all had to come back onto 5200 briefly, but I sure did enjoy seeing that smile again that I've missed! It's good to hear you guys taking some time out for yourself too, that's important. Besides, you have the perfect babysitter, Andy! Take Care! Talk to you soon!
Bethany Kistler
- Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 03:27 PM (CST)
Hi All,

I am so happy that you all got to come home again. We are heading back to 5200 tomorrow, but we will continue to follow Reese thru your journal. Take Care!

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 12:11 PM (CST)
Hi Shawn, Toni and Reesecup. I am so glad that you got to go home. I know that is such a relief for you. Girls, what are we going to to with your mom. We have got to get her off that B12. Now she wants to take Kick Boxing. Watch out is all I have to say. Wish I had that much energy. Love you all and can't wait to see you all.
Linda Sapp
- Saturday, January 18, 2003 at 11:30 PM (CST)
Hi Reese Cup, you cute thing, you!!

We were very glad to see you leave 5200. No offense, but we would prefer to see you in clinic - which should be next week!! We love you and hope to follow in your successful footsteps!!

Hugs and Kisses!! The Nicolls

Doug, Tracie, Douglas and Cameron - MPS Pals! <trc871@aol.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Saturday, January 18, 2003 at 03:42 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn, Toni & Reese!
I am so glad that Reesecup is better. I haven't signed in for awhile but I don't miss a beat on his condition. Shawn, you have not lost your sense of humor! You are such an inspiration. I am also very thankful that you have Toni there with you. Toni, you are also an incredible example of what unconditional love and family are all about. God couldn't have hand picked a better Aunt for Reese and Taylor. All of our prayers are being answered. God is good. Give Reesecup a long snuggle and kiss for me.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, January 17, 2003 at 10:08 PM (CST)
So glad that everything is going well. I pray for all of you. Wish I could see Reese, someday I will,I am sure of that. God is good !!He is watching out for Reese!!
Take care and remember that I love you all.

Sherry <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, In good ole USA!!! - Friday, January 17, 2003 at 09:57 PM (CST)
Yahoo -- Reece is coming home soon! And NO TPN!!! We've missed you guys in the clinic and am glad to see that he is doing well! See you soon!


Pat and Isaiah Bingham <patricib@umflint.edu>
Durham, NC - Friday, January 17, 2003 at 07:27 PM (CST)
Doing well is just what we want to see!!! Just wanted to drop by to see how you are doing and remind you that everyone at Smile Quilts has you in their thoughts & prayers.



Angel Chris from Smile Quilts

- Friday, January 17, 2003 at 11:05 AM (CST)
Doug, Shawn, Reese and Taylor,

We are thrilled to hear of the progress that little Reese is having. We continue to pray for God's blessings, strength and HEALING to flow to Reese and to you all. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. May God's Peace continue to surround you. Philippians 4: 4-7.

Terrell & Kelly Stephens <kellystephens@earthlink.net>
Mt Airy, NC USA - Friday, January 17, 2003 at 09:30 AM (CST)
That a boy Reese... way to stay strong and beat that bug. Shawn thanks for the update I know that you guys must be so tired! Please give Reese a hug for us!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, January 17, 2003 at 09:19 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn, I just wanted to check in for an update before I went to bed. I hope that Reese is feeling much better tonight.
Wendy Cline
- Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 10:33 PM (CST)
Shawn, Toni, & Reese-
I'm so sorry that you are having a setback, but that is all it is. Reese is strong, and I have all the faith in the world that he is going to be just fine. You guys stay strong for that wonderful boy. Reese- don't let this flu bug get you down. You're a fighter; keep fighting!
Take care. If you need anything call me 489-1627

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 03:57 PM (CST)
SHAWN, I HAVE BEEN CHECKING THE WEBSITE TODAY FOR UPDATES. I HOPE THAT REESE IS FEELING MUCH BETTER. JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I WAS THINKING ABOUT ALL OF YOU. BEST WISHES FOR THE FASTEST OF SPEEDY RECOVERIES.
WENDY CLINE
RURAL HALL, NC - Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 01:49 PM (CST)
Shawn, I hope that Reese is doing ok... let us know as soon as he is feeling better:) Reese stay strong sweetie!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 09:06 AM (CST)
Praying for a speedy recovery!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 04:46 PM (CST)
Our prayers are with you all. If you need anything please let us know. God bless you.
Hinson <hinsonfamily@surry.net>
Dobson, NC 27017 - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 03:56 PM (CST)
Oh Reese, you are only supposed to visit 5200, not stay. I know the care is good but... I hope they fix you right up and send you back out where you belong. We will be keeping an eye on you. Be good. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 02:01 PM (CST)
My prayer circle has a special prayer time for you and Reese last night.
Regina Foster
- Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 09:56 AM (CST)
Reese you stay strong and fight this little bug ok. We are sending you lots of hugs to help you feel better soon. Shawn I hope that you are doing ok.. please keep us informed on how he is doing. God Bless your family!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 09:30 AM (CST)
I just found out about this since I've been out of work since July. All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Just trust in the Lord and He'll see you through. No one can say anything to help right now, I know, but just know you have many who care and are praying for you. Love you.
Carolyn W. Smith
Winston-Salem, NC Davie - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 08:03 AM (CST)
Sorry to read that Reece is not feeling to well right now. It is great that you caught it in time before it got to his lung's! We pray that he will make a quick recovery. We keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 07:31 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn - I kept checking the website last night for your update. I have just read the update this morning. I am so sorry that Reese has been re-admitted. I am glad that you have caught it early though. I hope Reese is feeling better soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Wendy Cline <wendyg1989@msn.com>
Rural Hall, NC - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 07:26 AM (CST)
Hi Reese! I just came across your website today and thought I would say Hi to you and your family! My daughter Isobel had a transplant for Hurler's in October and she is now 100% engrafted!
I am glad to read of your "female" cells!!and I hope that you feel better and tests come back negative!
Love, Cathy, Jake and Isobel

Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 09:26 PM (CST)
Shawn, Toni, & Reese-
Sorry to hear that Reese is feeling so terrible. I hope he feels better soon. I missed you guys at clinic today. We hope to see you tomorrow.

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 09:20 PM (CST)
Hi just stopped by to say hi & to say I had fun doing your quilt. Pray it wraps you in love Reese. hugs Carol



Angel Craving Wings
Winnipeg, M b Canada - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 03:30 PM (CST)
Oh, boy, what a night for you all! I remember all too well those trips to 5200 with a fever... Hope the results show something minor, that will be taken care of with a few days of antibiotics. Mr. Reese, you are such a strong little man! I'm so sorry you had to throw up like that- just when food was starting to taste good again! Hang in there. I'll stay posted for the results. Try to get some sleep!
Love,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 01:59 PM (CST)
It is so good to read that thing's are going so good for little Reece. We keep you all in our thought's and prayer's.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 11:34 AM (CST)
I am so glad to here the good news. I think about Reese and your family a lot. We will keep on praying, it works.
Debbie Deatherage (Coe)
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 10:14 AM (CST)
Shawn, Doug and Reese:
Best wishes to Reese and your family in that Reese is doing so well! Shawn, you do a beautiful job of updating the daily happenings with Reese. May God Bless and continue to do miracles with Reese and the other children at Duke.

Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@earthlink.net>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 07:43 AM (CST)
Dear Reese,
Congratulations on the wonderful news. Your friends at Hendrick Motorsports are sending love and hugs.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 07:43 AM (CST)
Yea Reese!!! I am so happy for you and your family. What a wonderful birthday present indeed!!! Hopefully you will be feeling better soon and be able to enjoy those new cells. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 07:35 PM (CST)
We were so happy to hear the great news about Reese. We never doubted that he would be well. How could he not with a stubborn family like ours. Ha-Ha. Our love and prayers are with yall everyday. We love you, and hope to see you soon. :)

Love,

The Biernacki Family

The Biernacki Family <Edhead211@altell.com>
Dahlonega, ga USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 02:01 PM (CST)
What wonderful news! Reese is surely getting the enzyme he so badly needs! What a happy day!!!!!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Monday, January 13, 2003 at 01:01 PM (CST)
HOORAY FOR GIRL CELLS!!!
I'm so glad that things are going well for you all. This update was truly a blessing to read today, I love good news. Keep it up ReeseCup!
Love, mj

Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 12:04 PM (CST)
Hello,Shawn,Reese and Toni. I'm so glad that everything is going so well. We have all been praying so hard and looks like all the prayers are being answered. Isn't God Great!!!I'm very glad Shawn that you have Toni there with you. It's wonderul to have a sister that has taken so much from her life to give to her wonderful sister and nephew. God has blessed you with a wonderful and loving sister. I have being reading your updates and boy some of them have been heart breaking. I don't think my nerves could take watching all these little angels passing away. All I can say is I'm so very thankful that God blessed me with two healthy girls.I have still been watching Mckenzies updates and I pray that this transplant will work for her. It sounds like her parents have been through so much but they are not giving up and that is wonderful. Well guess I had better run and get to work. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you all. I will keep praying for all of you.
Love,
Angie

Angela Trivette <angela.trivette@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, NC - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 11:52 AM (CST)
WAY TO GO REESE! I am so excited that you and your family are so Happy!! This is the news I have been looking forward to hearing.. God truly does answer prayers! I would love to send Reese a card or something for his 1st Birthday... could you please put your address up on the site? My son turned one in October and I have a few things left over I would like to send him.... Keeping you and Reese in my prayers.
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, January 13, 2003 at 09:50 AM (CST)
OOOOPPPPSSSS!!! How did I get three entries in the guest book? Oh well, it just goes to show that I am triple excited. LOL
Regina Shaw
- Monday, January 13, 2003 at 07:50 AM (CST)
IT WORKED! It is hard to believe that two simple words could mean so much!! I had chills when I read those words. I am over joyed for you guys!!! Yes, God is still performing miracles. We believed that he would all along. I just wanted to drop a line and say "congratulations". Talk with you later. Love ya,
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 07:49 AM (CST)
IT WORKED! It is hard to believe that two simple words could mean so much!! I had chills when I read those words. I am over joyed for you guys!!! Yes, God is still performing miracles. We believed that he would all along. I just wanted to drop a line and say "congratulations". Talk with you later. Love ya,
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 07:49 AM (CST)
IT WORKED! It is hard to believe that two simple words could mean so much!! I had chills when I read those words. I am over joyed for you guys!!! Yes, God is still performing miracles. We believed that he would all along. I just wanted to drop a line and say "congratulations". Talk with you later. Love ya,
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 07:49 AM (CST)
It is such an inspiration to hear that Reese is doing so well! It is always great to see such miracles. Keep updating us!
Diane Wolfe
Mt airy, NC - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 03:20 AM (CST)
Congratulations!!! Yippeee for girl cells! We're so happy to hear that Reese is getting the enzyme he so dearly needs and is doing so well. Love ~ Melanie, Steve, Jake, & Matt
The Irish's <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish>
Marysville, WA USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 12:04 AM (CST)
YIPPEE!!!!!!!! I've been reading every day waiting for the fish test to come back. That is SUCH wonderful news! Hug him tight for us Shawn, I am so excited for you!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 09:24 PM (CST)
PRAISE GOD! Once again, I'm so happy, I could just do my "happy dance." But the boys are in bed, so I don't want to wake them. I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS!!!!! I just knew they would be donor cells, I just knew it! I am so thankful. CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 08:59 PM (CST)
YEAH FOR FEMALE CELLS! I couldn't be happier for you guys. Reese- There is something to be said for being in touch with your feminine side. Ha, Ha. Congratulations! We will see you in clinic!
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 08:25 PM (CST)
Hi Guys! It's so good to hear that Reese continues to do so well. Give Christy hugs for us when you see her. You are all in our prayers. I can't wait to see Reese's superstar smile again, but it sounds like you guys are breezing through clinic. I'll try to sneak over soon if you are there long enough! Shawn and Toni, Reese is so lucky to have you taking such good care of him, but you guys have to remember to take care of yourselves too! See you soon.
Jenn King <pogosmom@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 12:52 PM (CST)
I hope that Reese is doing well these past couple of days. I just wanted to say "HI" and that I hope you guys have a great weekend!
God Bless - Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, January 10, 2003 at 09:22 AM (CST)
I hope that Reese is doing well these past couple of days. I just wanted to say "HI" and that I hope you guys have a great weekend!
God Bless - Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, January 10, 2003 at 09:22 AM (CST)
Hey ya'll! I just loved looking at all the new pictures, especially with Reese smiling. I'm so glad that things are going well right now. Keep up the good work and the prayers.
Love and miss you, mj

Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 08:35 AM (CST)
Hello guys! Good to hear that things are going well! I've been catching up on the journal since I've been out of the office since 12/18 and just returned 1/8. So sorry to hear about Brittney and Keshon. Their parents are in my thoughts and prayers and as always you guys are too! Love and Miss You, D.
Deanna Ramsey <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC 27021 - Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 03:10 PM (CST)
Shawn, it seems so glad to see those precious little smiles again. I just loved the latest pictures. Reese looks so good. Glad that everything is going well. Love ya, Regina
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 01:29 PM (CST)
Reese we hope you had a good day today we are continuing to pray for you and the other children and also continuing to pray for your mommy, daddy, brother and your other family and friends.
j riggs
mount airy, nc usa - Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 08:38 PM (CST)
Reese we hope you had a good day today we are continuing to pray for you and the other children and also continuing to pray for your mommy, daddy, brother and your other family and friends.
j riggs
mount airy, nc usa - Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 08:32 PM (CST)
Hey there Reese, just stopping by to see how you are doing and to remind you that everyone at Smile Quilts is thinking of you and wishing you well. I am going to go check our your taggie right now!


Angel Chris from Smile Quilts
<chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 06:47 PM (CST)
Hi Shawn, Tony & Reesecup, I love you, just thinking of you all and wanted to let you know. I hope you keep that smilie face on today. Shawn, try to get some rest yourself, if I can do anything for you please let me know.
love, Joyce

Joyce Mabe <JOYCE.MABE@WACHOVIA.COM>
Kernersville, NC USA - Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 12:36 PM (CST)
I am so glad to hear Reese is playing and doing better. I think about him all the time and pray constantly that the Lord heal him. I have a 14 month old son and I had never heard of a "Taggie" until I was out shopping for a baby shower gift and saw one. I am glad to know that Reese finds comfort in it! Please give him a hug from me!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 11:27 AM (CST)
I am so happy things are going good for little Reece. I hope with each day that passes he gets stronger and stronger. You all have been through a lot and it has been worth every bit. I wanted to thank you for telling about the taggie. I have a 4 year old girl who has to have some kind of tag to go to sleep. It has to be a certain kind or she will tell me no mommy not that one get another one. I had never heard of the taggie.com until you mentioned it in your update. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless all of you!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 08:17 AM (CST)
Hey ya'll we are so happy to hear that things are going so well...some good news is awesome, especially right now...it is with great relief that I read that Christy seems to be doing a little bit better...Although we didn't have the chance to get to know them too well, their tragedy has been difficult...Cody is T+8 today and we are experiencing all of the fevers and that stuff...his activity level went from 75 to 5 in 5 seconds or less...we just keep praying...you are in our thoughts and prayers...every night
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody (cellmates 5214) <codman@cox.net>
www.forcody.org, - Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 05:05 AM (CST)
Hey guys! I have been reading the updates and I am so happy for you! It's so great to hear good news. I think about Reesecup everyday and look forward to seeing you all someday soon. Reese, keep eating and grow those cells! Love you!
Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@earthlink.net>
Elon, NC USA - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 01:08 PM (CST)
WAY TO GO REESE!!! I'm so glad to hear that things are getting better. God is in control and He is healing Reesecup. Shawn, you are a great mother! Toni, you are a wonderful aunt and sister. For you to change your life for them just shows how families should be. I wish I could be there to help...I miss you all so much! You are in my daily prayers.
Love, mj

Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 07:42 AM (CST)
It was so good to read that Reece is doing good. I know it has not been easy for any of you. I hope that Reece continues to improve more and more each day. May God Bless all of you!
Annette Leftwich Golding
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, January 06, 2003 at 11:13 AM (CST)
I am so glad to hear that Reese is doing well, he is such a strong little boy, way to go Reese! Please give him a hug for me... I look forward to meeting him one day! You are so right.. God is good all the time and all the time God is good! Take care..
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, January 06, 2003 at 09:29 AM (CST)
Shawn and Doug,
Glad to hear that Reese is doing well. Shawn, thanks for updating us about Reese and thanks for sharing information about the other sick children at Duke. We pray for Reese's recovery and for the other children also.

Lynn Bryant
Mt. Airy, NC - Monday, January 06, 2003 at 08:33 AM (CST)
Shawn, Toni, & Reese-
Thanks for boosting the morale up here. It is hard to remember that there are huge sucess stories when so many are doing so poorly, but our kids are proof that God is Good! I'm so glad that Reese is doing awesome, and we can't wait to see you guys in clinic!

Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan (cellmates 5206) <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Monday, January 06, 2003 at 03:58 AM (CST)
Praise God for Reese's progress. I can hardly type this for the tears---God is so faithful. We fiercely miss you all and can hardly wait until you're back in Mt. Airy and life is normal (whatever that is with two boys, huh??!!) We are continuing to pray for you all. And tell Toni that we love her---she is truly a blessing for sharing her life with you all!

We sure do love you all!!!

Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Sunday, January 05, 2003 at 05:37 PM (CST)
Yippe yahooo, Reese! We're so pleased you got discharged! What an amazing feat for you and your parents to accomplish-everyday will get easier from here on out. Keep up the good work (and the eating, too!)
With love,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Saturday, January 04, 2003 at 09:23 PM (CST)
shawn,
The Rainbow day room doesn't have a rainbow and the "fish tank room" didn't have a fish tank last time I was there. Hummm. Sounds like everything else is just about right. Way to go and congratulations. Anne

Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Saturday, January 04, 2003 at 12:12 PM (CST)
Just sitting here reading about Reese, and trying to imagine him spitting out his paci for food!!!Makes me smile.
Glad everything is going well.Taylor is a trip!!He is the CUTEST thing. Finally got to see him under the worst circumstances, but Shawn, he is a doll !!It was so cool to see him and my grandchildren playing. I was like WOW, they are cousins and they loved each other. To Jacob and Caitlin,
Taylors house was THE place to be..all those toys, oh boy!!
Take care and someday I will see Reese too!!!!
Love you all....Sherry

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Saturday, January 04, 2003 at 08:07 AM (CST)
Hello Gang!
I am so excited to read your update!!! But hey, would you mind repeating that for me? I don't remember if you push or pull....I can see that sweet little fellow spittin' out that paci and looking like a little baby bird, you coming at him with those syringes! He is just sooooo cute. And his 11 month picture, "Homey Cow!" as Hunter used to say. Reese is trully a gift from God. Please email me and let me know what you need. GROW CELLS GROW! Reesecup, you are the man! I'm always, always thinking about you guys. I think about Tator Tot just as much and Taylor, you are the BOMB. If you don't recognize this expression, you will! Always,

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, January 03, 2003 at 11:56 PM (CST)
Hi. I am nurse Bethany Kistler's mom and just wanted to let you know she has been telling me all about Reese Cup. We are keeping him in our prayers and are so glad to hear he is doing so well. God Bless you.
Debra B. Perry <dperry@apollochemical.com>
Burlington, NC USA - Friday, January 03, 2003 at 04:08 PM (CST)
Hello. You don't know me, but I am Mitch Callaway's cousin. He told me about Reece and that you are in Durham. I live in Hillsborough. I just wanted to offer any help I can because Mitch spoke so highly of you! My sister, BJ Wright also lives in the area. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Sheila Woods <forsheilawoods@mindspring.com>
- Friday, January 03, 2003 at 02:35 PM (CST)
Dear Shawn,
Hooray for being discharged to your Durham "home." The picture of Reese with Rudolph is priceless; thanks for sharing. We will continue to pray for Reese's recovery.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, January 03, 2003 at 07:27 AM (CST)
Came back and saw that you were gone! Yay for you guys! I hope cute Reese is doing well. Bring him back soon so we can see that gorgeous smile again. Miss you!

Jen B <jbigger@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Friday, January 03, 2003 at 05:35 AM (CST)
I am so happy for you, I want to thank you for the journal entries, I read them everyday to see how you, Reese, Taylor and Doug are doing, I'm glad for Reese getting released. I wish you're family the best of luck and hope that ya'll can be together as a family real soon. Thanks for the pictures, he still looks cute.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 10:41 PM (CST)
Shawn,
Congrats on the release!!! It must be so hard around there these days, but you are doing a great job. I'm sure you were a true blessing for Christy. Thanks for posting pictures of her and her sweet girls. It's so hard to rationalize that Brittney was taken from her so swiftly. Her last entry broke my heart. If you talk with her, please let her know how much all of our hearts are breaking for her and how we are praying for her strength to get through this horrible tragedy.
Reese, you keep doing what you are doing! 2003 has got to be a better year!!!!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 03:45 PM (CST)
Shawn, It sounds like your time is going by slowly but good, just hand in there. We are all "praying for you both" and I hope soon that your home will be "really home". Give Reesecup a big hug and kiss for me.
Thinking of you everyday,
Joyce

Joyce Mabe <Joyce.Mabe@Wachovia.com>
Kernersville, NC USA - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 02:16 PM (CST)
Shawn and Doug,
I have read the page and you do a great job keeping us updated.I am sending this to 2 of my cousins that live in the chaple hill area and would be glad to help if you need them. I just want to let you know that the B- shift bunch at Surry EMS. have you in our thoughts.

Mitchell Callaway <biggdogg_1700@ yahoo>
State Road, nc usa - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 10:41 AM (CST)
I am so Happy that Reece is being discharged that is wonderful! We continue to pray for all of you and the rest of the children and their families on 5200!
Annette Leftwich Golding
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 10:35 AM (CST)
CONGRATULATIONS ON BEING DISCHARGED! I love the picture of Reese... Happy 11 months! I wish your family the best of luck and I will keep you in my prayer!
Robin Tucker / Hendrick Motorsports / 25 Team <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 09:21 AM (CST)
Shawn, thanks for sharing the picture of Reese. He may not be smiling, but he looks healthy, and at least spirited enough to complain! Congratulations on the milestone of being discharged! Happy New Year to you and yours!
Carolyn Fodel
- Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 08:36 AM (CST)
Hello Shawn...just a note to let you know that you are in my daily thoughts and prayers. You amaze me in the strength that I see and hear in your updates!! Taylor and Reese sure do have a very special "mommy"...you were handpicked by God!!! If you ever ask yourself the question "why??".... just remember the lives that you have touched. God put you there to help Christy through the end with Brittney and to encourage all the others on 5200. My prayers are also daily with Doug and Taylor...'cause I know that they miss you and Reese in their everyday lives...sooner than you think, you will all be together again!!!! You will do just fine with Reese's care when you get to the apt!!! Just remember that the prayers of the people at Surry 911 Communications are with you!!!
Sharon Burchette <iam9114u@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC 28683 - Thursday, January 02, 2003 at 08:17 AM (CST)
YEAH!!! You finally get parolled today! We are looking forward to seeing you again in clinic.
Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 11:58 PM (CST)
Boy are we going to miss you guys! I will miss stopping by on Jordan's little walks, but I am so glad that Reese is doing so well. We will continue to pray for you! We will see you in clinic!
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton (Cellmates 5206) <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 06:16 PM (CST)
(This may be a 2nd entry today--the first wouldn't show) Shawnee, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers daily. You are a great mom. Reese and Taylor are so lucky to have you. I wish I could be there by your side thru all of this. Always know I love you and I'm so proud of you. Of course I always knew you'd be a great mom--you're the BESTEST friend a person could ever have. The boys ask constantly how Reese is doing and is he better. Take care & give Reese a big hug for me. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
Love ya, Tee Cee :)

Tee Cee <tcrews1@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC US - Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 06:13 PM (CST)
Shawn, what a beautiful baby boy! Crying or not crying, Reese is still a cutie. I just love the pictures. Glad to hear that you all are heading home. A change of scenery will do you all some good. Hang in there and keep up the good work. Love you!
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 04:25 PM (CST)
Happy New Year Shawn, Doug, Taylor, and Reese. God has truly been good to all of you this past year. You have had the support of a lot of brothers and sisters in Christ that don't know you except through updates on this website. We all are very grateful to you for keeping us aware of the many blessings, and the stumbles, along the way. I was very saddened by the news of Brittney, but God was ready for her to be home with Him. Please express our love to Christy. Everyone on 5200 has the prayers from our church. God bless you all.
Martha Cassell, White Plains, NC
- Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 10:53 AM (CST)
Happy New Year Reese Cup! I'll see you tomorrow.
Tina Blanton <blant004@mc.duke.edu>
- Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 05:24 PM (CST)
Dear Shawn,
Thank you for sharing the news about Brittney- what a shock. I know all too well how you are feeling right now... having your own child going through so much, and fearing for his future, while someone so close to you has lost their battle. You are an amazing friend, and I am so glad that God brought you and Christy together. The bond shared on 5200 is one that lasts forever. My heart is so full right now, I feel for all of you. Hang in there and know we are praying for you and Reese as well as Christy and her family. With much love,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 02:32 PM (CST)
My dear Shawn, You are so WONDERFUL! Everyone around you knows that too. You are going thru a very difficult time in your life but yet, you are there for those that need someone. Reese is very lucky to have you as a mom...that's why God gave you to him. I wish I could be there to hold your hand and help with whatever needs to be done. Never forget that I am there in spirit and I love you very much. I pray for you every day and I miss you so.
Melissa Jones <melissaj@cityofws.org>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 09:39 AM (CST)
Shawn,
Thank you for informing us about Brittney. It's getting harder and harder to log into these websites every day, but what keeps me coming back is all the love and hope and the wonderful success stories that also happen. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone there. My heart aches.

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor , CT - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 09:29 AM (CST)
I was so sorry to hear about Brittney! All of you on 5200 are so close and it is like a whole new extended family. Even for me not knowing any of them I feel attached thanks to the web site for Reece and me and my family being able to keep up with all of you. If there is anything we could ever do please let us know. We keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of you!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 09:26 AM (CST)
We will also offer a prayer up for you. I know you are feeling like the "lucky" one but 5200 is tough on both the families who don't make it and the ones that do. You did a wonderful thing for Christy and Britteny today and she will not forget it. It is so hard to watch your friends loose what is so dear to them and to feel so helpless. Make sure you lean on your support system too. It is a tough road without it. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 09:03 AM (CST)
Shawn, My name is Wendy. I am friends with Melissa Jones and my husband works with Tim Hill. I have been keeping up with the updates on Reese for quite a while. I just wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I have so much repsect for you and the other parents on 5200. I read your update this morning on Brittney. I feel that through the updates I know these "kids". Thanks for doing the updates on Reese. My prayers are with you and your family for a happy and safe New Year and most of all for the improvements that Reese continues to make.
Wendy Cline

Wendy Cline <wendyg1989@msn.com>
Rural Hall, NC USA - Tuesday, December 31, 2002 at 08:26 AM (CST)
Shawn,
You CAN do this... You've gotten Reese this far, and have given him such wonderful care- you will be a champion nurse outside of the hospital! Don't doubt yourself. We've all been there, and felt the same way... nervous, doubtful, anxious, scared, excited, and thrilled to have gotten this far in the journey... Give yourself time to learn this new "way of life", and call on those home health nurses for help! You'll be great. Hugs to Reese for being SUCH a champ.
Happy 2003- what blessings we all have to celebrate! Love,

Jenny Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Monday, December 30, 2002 at 09:45 PM (CST)
I am soooo glad that Reese is doing better and getting to go home soon! I am praying for Reese and keeping up with his progress daily. I hope that Reese is laughing and smiling all the time real soon! My son uses a paci so I know what the smile looks like from behind on of them.... precious! I hope once you are home that you still keep us up to date on Resse's progress. I am so glad that he is enjoying the movies, bus and I hope it will not be long before he is up and playing with the farm set.... I hope that this coming New Year is a great year for your family!
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, December 30, 2002 at 02:07 PM (CST)
I WAS SO GLAD TO READ THE GOOD NEWS ABOUT REECE AND HOW WELL HE IS DOING. REECE YOU ARE SO STRONG! WE KEEP YOU ALL IN OUR PRAYERS! MAY YOU ALL HAVE A VERY BLESSED NEW YEAR!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, December 30, 2002 at 11:33 AM (CST)
Hello to Reese and Family,

We are just checking in for the first time but we have been hearing about Reese for awhile now. We're so glad to hear his discharge is in the near future. It's true there is A LOT to do but you'll get it all figured out in a day or two and it WILL be a piece of cake. I swear by those plastic drawers you can buy at WalMart or Costco --- they kept me organized. Anyhow, just wanted to let you know that we're keeping darling Reese in our thoughts.

Love ~ Melanie, Steve, Jacob (Hurler Syndrome - transplanted 5/22/02), & Matthew

The Irish's <www.caringbridge.org/wa/jacobirish>
Marysville, WA USA - Monday, December 30, 2002 at 12:02 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn, Toni & Reesecup!
I can see Reese now, smiling from behind that paci. Hunter had his paci until he was 3 and he would smile and babble and didn't miss a beat, all while sucking away! I think Reese is adorable with that paci. I just know that in a very short amount of time, you will be able to handle the meds and pumps with your eyes closed. I am just soooo thankful that precious baby boy of yours continues to do well. I'm coming down with your Mom for the day this coming Saturday and I can't wait to see you guys!!!!! I'm always thinking of you. Much love,

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 09:59 PM (CST)
Hello All,

I was just checking in to see what Reese was up to. I know the pumps sound scary and all of the responsibility as well, but it is a piece of cake. Michelle was nervous until she came over and saw our pumps and how easy it was so when Jillian came home she already knew what to expect. All you have to do is find a routine that works for you and Reese and you will all be just fine. We can't wait to see you again in clinic.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 08:46 PM (CST)
Shawn,
It used to be the running joke on 5200 that I wasn't leaving until day 100 and then I was just going to take Andrew and go Home Home. I told them they were goin to have to take a crow bar to get me out of my room I was so overwhelmed about my duties to come. Dr. Martin offered to set me up with a tent out in the hall! Everyone kept telling me that it was learnable and that it would be fine and sure enough in two days it was like old hat and I was a pro. You will be too. I still shake my head at all of these parents that just can't wait to get off of 5200. I guess I just like to stay where I feel safe. Anne

Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 04:41 PM (CST)
I am so glad to hear that things are going so well for you and discharge is in the very near future. It looks like you will be busting out before we make it down there, which is great for you, but I was looking forward to meeting you. Morgan is scheduled to make an appearance sometime around the first of February. I will certainly keep praying for your family.
www.caringbridge.com/nc/morganbarnes

Jerry, Allison, Morgan, & Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC USA - Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 02:43 PM (CST)
Well I have been the silent one in the entries and just wanted to give my wife, sister (Toni), and other mom (Nana) something to laugh about.

I just hope that Reese gets rid of that pacifier before he goes off to college!

This statement was a running joke when Taylor was born. Shawn’s Grandma Baker was not too big on the idea of the pacifier. Toni, Shawn, Nana and myself would joke that he would be the only one in college that was still sucking on a pacifier.

Shawn and Toni I knew that you two were strong. Together you two can do anything. You both have the strength and smarts to get Reese through all the pumps and clinic visits. I want you to know that I pray every single night that you three keep the strength and get home soon so we can all be a family again.

Reese I want you to know that Tater Tot and Daddy miss you and Mommy. You have a very special Mommy that loves you very much. You smile at her and Toni every chance you get so they can keep their smile going.

Love you
Daddy

PS-- Peek A Boo! :)

Doug <cobleswrec@aol.com>
Mt Airy, NC - Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 12:18 PM (CST)
Shawn, you can do it. You can do anything that you set your mind to. You have come too far to have any doubts. You are a wonderful mother, and God knows that. Between you and Toni, Reese is in the best of hands. Good luck. Love ya.
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Sunday, December 29, 2002 at 12:09 PM (CST)
Hey guys,
I am just checking in to see how things are going. Do not worry you will be ready for discharge when Thursday comes around. See you Monday.
Take care.
Love,

Erika
Mocksville, NC - Saturday, December 28, 2002 at 06:05 PM (CST)
Shawn, I'm so glad that things are going so well. Going home sounds wonderful. I have to pick on you for just a minute. I loved the update about Reese and his pacifier. A permanent fixture, that's cute. Now you know how some kids can really get attached to them, like Noah. When you and Taylor would come over, Taylor would not have his pacifier long, but not Noah. He kept his as long as possible. I think at the time you never understood why I let Noah have his so long. However, you learn to do whatever needs to be done in order to sooth them. I'm so excited that Reese has given you a few smiles lately. I'm sure that was worth a million bucks. Talk to you later. Love ya.
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Saturday, December 28, 2002 at 02:38 PM (CST)
Hey Guys!
Shawn, when you are talking about Reese and everything you all have been through, you couldn't make it boring if you tried. I'm so glad you had a Merry Christmas. I think of you & Reese as well as the other children on 5200 often -even though I've never seen or read a word about most of them. There was a time in my life when I wouldn't have been able to take even the smallest glance into the world of children who are so sick but to know a precious little boy like Reese brings WAY more joy and warm fuzzies than any other emotion. I can't wait to see that big beautiful smile again.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Friday, December 27, 2002 at 05:20 PM (CST)
Hi guys,
Just checking in to see how things are going -I miss the kids already! And you adults too! I can't get the picture out of my mind of sweet Reece sitting in the lounge (yesterday) so calm and almost grown up looking my way. He must have been participating in the conversation (silently). Good luck with the TPN -we managed 3 kernals of popcorn last night an 8 pieces of Captain Crunch this morning! But hey --it's more than the last 2-3 weeks put together! Isaiah's trying!
I'll keep on checking in and hope to see you in clinic soon!

The Binghams <patricib@umflint.edu>
Durham, NC - Friday, December 27, 2002 at 01:02 PM (CST)
Shawn, glad to hear that you all had a good Christmas. You guys were constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you. Love ya, Regina
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Thursday, December 26, 2002 at 07:11 PM (CST)
Merry Christmas! Glad to hear things are going better and that each of you had a wonderful Christmas! I check in daily for updates...thanks for letting us all know what is happening.
Diane Wolfe <princessdia@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy , NC - Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 11:28 PM (CST)
Watch out, that survior guilt will creep up and bite you when you least expect it. It, like a lot of other crazy things on 5200, is perfectly "normal". We are all heart broken over Kyle. I hope next Christmas will be a whole lot more normal and wonderful for you. You are in my thoughts. Please come visit our page when you get a chance. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 07:07 PM (CST)
Merry Christmas to you and your family. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Love in Christ!
Pat Reed
Maryville, Tn. United States - Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 01:00 PM (CST)
Hey Guys! Glad to hear Reese is doing better. I check in daily to get updates....thanks for keeping all of us informed! I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and let you know that Reese is in my prayers each day. Love ya!
Jenifer Bullington <jenifer_bullington@rmic.com>
- Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 10:46 AM (CST)
Merry Christmas guys!
Shawn, by the time this ordeal is over, you'll practically qualify for a new profession! LPN. You will have a routine with Reese down in no time and soon, you will be able to do everything you need to do for him in your sleep. That's why God handpicked you to be his Mommy. When times get hard and your load is too heavy, just hand it over to God and he will carry it for you. Give Taylor and Reese a big bear hug and a big wet kiss for me.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 10:26 AM (CST)
Wow! Talk of discharge already! That's incredible! How great! Have a Merry Christmas!!!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 08:11 AM (CST)
MERRY CHRISTMAS & A HAPPY NEW YEAR. GREAT BIG HUGS & KISSES FROM MAINE. SEE YOU SOON. HOPE SANTA IS GOOD TO YOU ALL. LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU!
Noreen (Nana) & Grampie Chris <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 07:07 AM (CST)
Hey Guys, We are so thankful to hear the great news about Reese. Our prayers have been with you from the beginning. If things work out as we hope, we will be in Chapel Hill on the 28th of December and would like to stop by and see you at the hospital on our way back home that afternoon. We hope you have a great Christmas and to see you soon.
Love Lynne & Joe

Lynne <presmonkey@aol.com>
Virginia Beach, Va - Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 05:30 AM (CST)
Well, this is it. Tell Taylor he better be good so Santa Claus will come see him tonight. (I know I didn't need to remind him because he is such a good boy all the time). I pray you and your family have a great week. I know your mom will be cooking something good. Give Reese a big hug and kiss for me.
Linda Sapp
- Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 04:46 AM (CST)
Hi Shawn,
Just checking in on you guys. I'm very thankful the news continues to be good. I'm always thinking about you.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 08:48 PM (CST)
DOUG AND SHAWN WE ARE PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU EACH DAY. GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF REESECUP! WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT OF THIS OURSELVES THIS YEAR SO WE CAN RELATE TO ALL THE HOSPITAL ROUTINES. WE JUST LIVE OUT THE ROAD FROM YOU SO IF YOU NEED US TO DO ANYTHING AT YOUR HOUSE PLEASE DON'T HESITATE TO ASK! GOD BLESS YOU!
GREG AND KAYE JOYCE <kayej09@yahoo.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 07:29 AM (CST)
Glad to hear the good news!!! We're still praying for you every day.
Laura Hughes <lthughes@alltel.net>
Tobaccoville, NC - Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 09:42 PM (CST)
To :ReeseCup
We sure look forward to seeing you in person and will continue to pray that everything goes well.
Lots of love,hugs and kisses.

Frank and Geneva Jones <fang73@core.com>
Lockport, IL USA - Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 05:22 PM (CST)
Hey Shawn, Toni & Reesecup!
Grow cells Grow! I think of you three very often and hope this note finds you all doing great. Reese, we all miss that beautiful smile. I know you will be feeling better real soon and you'll be flashing everyone with those beautiful gums. Toni, I think you are one heck of a lady to be there taking care of Shawn and Reese. They are lucky to have you. Shawn, you will have your sweet, precious baby boy back in no time now. What a great Christmas gift that would be. I can't wait to get down there are see you guys on 1/4/03. Merry Christmas!!

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 04:22 PM (CST)
Hey Shawn, It's me again. I've been keeping up with all of your updates. It just amazes me, at all the knowledge his doctors & nurses have. They have to be very caring people. Hang in there girl. Is there anything I can do for you here, while you're there? I'm already praying. :-)
Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pilot Mtn, NC USA - Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 12:08 AM (CST)
Hey Reesiecup, Nanna Julia and Bubub Taylor will be there in a few days to try to make you smle again!You just keep resting and let your body grow those cells and get ready for Santa. We miss you and love you. Have Mommy and Aunt Toni give you the biggest hug and kiss you ever had and know they are from Nanna and Taylor. We will see you soon. All our love, Nanna and Taylor
Julia HIll <nannajulia@aol.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Saturday, December 21, 2002 at 07:47 AM (CST)
Sending wishes that Reese's ANC stays above 500 for three days so he can venture out of the room! That will be a nice Christmas present!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Friday, December 20, 2002 at 06:16 PM (CST)
Good news! Good news! I just love good news, especially when it is about little Reese. I am so excited for you guys. It seems so wonderful to read some excouraging news. Keep up the good work guys. Grow cells grow! Love you!
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Friday, December 20, 2002 at 01:39 PM (CST)
Good news! Good news! I just love good news, especially when it is about little Reese. I am so excited for you guys. It seems so wonderful to read some excouraging news. Keep up the good work guys. Grow cells grow! Love you!
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Friday, December 20, 2002 at 01:39 PM (CST)
Hey "TAYLOR" I made a POEM / SONG for you like I did for REESE. Hope you like it. Just a little silly song you can sing to the tune of "Frosty the Snowman" We LOVE YOU!
Taylor the "hot wheels" boy
Gives a big & joyful hug
With a brother "Reese" & a mama "Shawn"
And a fireman daddy "Doug"

Taylor the "hot wheels" boy
Is a "tater tot" they say
He is made with love
And the family does
Know they miss him more each day

There must have been some magic
In that precious baby boy
For when they placed him in her arms
He began to smile with joy

Taylor the "hot wheels" boy
Will be happy as can be
When his mama says he can come to stay
When our "Reesiecup" can play

Taylor the "hot wheels" boy
Knows he loved more every day
So he says "let's run
And have some fun
While Reese & mom's away

Down to the hospital
With a big gift in his hand
running here & there all around the room
Saying "Grow those cells "little man"

He sang the song all over town
Right to the doctors too
I know my brother "Reesiecup"
Will soon get well for you

Taylor the "hot wheels" boy
Has to hurry off to school
But he waves "Goodbye"
Saying "don't you "D rule"
I'll be back again real soon

Thumpety Thump Thump
Thumpety Thump Thump
Look at those cells Grow
Thumpety Thump Thump
Thumpety Thump Thump
Over the hills of snow

Noreen & Grampie Chris <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Friday, December 20, 2002 at 10:58 AM (CST)
Shawn: I guess you probaly want know me or remeber me., but I am Aunt Frances-daughter Teresa. Uncle JC was my mother brother. I am so sorry about Reese condition. I did not know. I will pray for you & Reese & your family. I hope that he improve every day. May God bless you & be with you each & every day.You hang in there. I know that it is hard. My husband had cancer 11 years ago & he is still with us. Talk at you later.
Teresa Coppley <ltcoppley@lexcominc.net >
Welcome , N.C. United States - Friday, December 20, 2002 at 10:37 AM (CST)
I am so glad that Reese is doing better... I am thinking about and praying for him everyday! I hope that he is smiling soon because I know what it does to a mother when they look at you and smile it lights up your world. From my family to yours "Happy Holidays"

Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Friday, December 20, 2002 at 09:58 AM (CST)
My family and I wanted to wish all of you a Very Merry Christmas! Grow Cells Grow! Reece...we hope you get well real soon! God Bless You All on 5200 and your families too!
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, December 20, 2002 at 08:24 AM (CST)
Hey, Reese!
You're doing awesome! Your little body is working so hard to grow all those good cells! Molly was on O2 for quite awhile as well, and lost her smile, too. Don't worry, both will turn around before you know it! You are all doing an amazing job! Stay strong and Happy Holidays,

Jenny and Molly Birmingham <brmnghmj@aol.com>
- Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 10:09 PM (CST)
Yeah! Great WBC's. Reese, keep 'em coming!!!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 09:07 PM (CST)
I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WE ARE ALL THINKING ABOUT REECE AND THE REST OF THE CHILDREN ON 5200! YOU ALL ARE VERY SPECIAL AND MAY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU AND GET YOU WELL REAL SOON!

Annette Leftwich Golding
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 03:51 PM (CST)
Dear Shawn and Reese,
We're sending hugs from the folks at Hendrick Motorsports. I'm sorry we didn't get the chance to give Reese real hugs while we were there. What good news that he is now off of the oxygen. Yeah! Grow cells grow!
Merry Christmas!
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 07:43 AM (CST)
Way to to Reese!!! Grow those cells!! I am glad to hear you are feeling better. Now just sit back and enjoy all the attention of all those wonderful nurses. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 07:34 AM (CST)
Hello Reese and family! I just wanted to let you all know that many are thinking and praying for you daily! I check the website daily for updates as well as for the other kids on 5200. Thank you for letting so many be a part of your lives. May the many miracles of this holiday season remember each of you this year! Grow Cells Grow!
Diane Wolfe and family (Lynn Bryant's daughter) <Princessdia@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 02:53 AM (CST)
Shawn,
In his own way, Taylor knows you have to be there with Reese and he knows that makes you the best Mommy in the world. You hang in there Shawn! Great times are just around the corner. Kiss that precious Reesecup on his beautiful bald head for me!

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 10:32 PM (CST)
A POEM FOR REESE BY NOREEN IN MAINE (a little something you can sing to him).
Hey Shawn, Toni & Reese, Heres a little song I made up & sing here to my grand son. Hes the same age as Reese and I tell him every day how Reese is doing. The day the CELLS started growing we danced and sang and laughed, singing GROW CELLS GROW. So I thought I'd make one for you to sing and make REESE smile. LOL I'm NOT a POET so bare with me!!!
Oh the weather outside is frightful,
And "REESE" is so delightful,
But since he has no place to go,
Let em grow, let em grow, let em grow.

New "CELLS" show good signs of growing,
and outside it could be snowing,
Now Santa says "ho, ho, ho",
let em grow, let em grow, let em grow.

When mommy finally kissed me good night,
How I hate giving up that new toy,
But if she really holds me tight,
I'll smile and be a sweet boy.

The old cells are finally dying,
And my dears, we've said our "Goodbying",
But as long as you all love me so,
I know they will....GROW...GROW...GROW

Noreen (Nana) & Grampie Chris <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 07:37 AM (CST)
Hey, Reese... You keep workin' hard on growing those cells, buddy. Glad to hear you are out of significant danger after your trip to the PICU. We love you and keeping you in our prayers,

The Birmingham Family <www.missmollyb.com>
- Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 09:07 PM (CST)
Shawn - I sent Norma an e-mail today and just heard about Reese. Being the mother of two boys, I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. Reese is a beautiful boy and I know the Lord is going to heal him. You will be remembered daily in our prayers. God bless and tell Reese two boys named Cole and Mitchell are praying for him.

Cindy S. Hensley

Cindy Sapp Yountz Hensley <chensley@balinet.com>
East Bend, NC USA - Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 12:52 PM (CST)
So happy to read Reese is doing better and yippee on his counts! Grow Cells Grow!!!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 06:23 AM (CST)
YEEEEHAW! WHOOPEEEEEEEE! GROW CELLS GROW! If the boys weren't in bed, I'd do my happy dance just for Reese, but it's quite a site and I get kinda loud. PRAISE GOD!
Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 08:18 PM (CST)
I am sorry that I was not able to come and meet Reese and Taylor in person this past weekend with the Hendrick Marrow Program. I so wanted to meet him and give him a hug...but I was told by one of the girl that came that she left one with you to give to him when he is feeling better. I am praying that Reese is feeling better soon.. he is a beautiful baby! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers:)
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, December 16, 2002 at 03:51 PM (CST)
I pray that Reesie gets out of PICU real soon, I am thinking of you everyday.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, NC 27023 - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 02:26 PM (CST)
It was good to see Reese being brought back to his room from PICU. I hope he had a good night. It was a fun day yesterday playing with the children. Many prayers are being sent your way.
Judy Shriver <jshirver@hmsracing.com>
Concord, NC USA - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 08:22 AM (CST)
I'm so sorry Reese is having a rough time, I just hope it means he's growing new cells and this has a purpose. Sounds like he has a great medical team watching over him. Hang in there and keep us posted, and don't hestitate to ask if you need something!
Carolyn Fodel <cfodel@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 07:35 AM (CST)
SHAWN, I WISH SO MUCH THAT I COULD TAKE AWAY THE PAIN REESE IS HAVING TO GO THROUGH AND MAKE EVERYTHING BETTER. BUT I KNOW THAT IS NOT POSSIBLE. I PRAY DAILY FOR HIM. I REQUEST PRAYER FOR HIM AND TAYLOR FROM EVERYONE I KNOW. I LOVE YOU AND YOUR MOM SO MUCH.
Linda Sapp
- Monday, December 16, 2002 at 05:41 AM (CST)
SHAWN, SORRY TO HEAR WHAT A BAD DAY YOU AND REESE HAVE HAD, I'VE BEEN TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH YOU THRU SHARON HERE AT C-COM, BUT TONIGHT I FELT THE NEED TO TELL YOU I'M PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. HANG IN THERE AND GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL! SYLVIA 911 COMMUNICATIONS SURRY COUNTY
SYLVIA BOYLES <THIS911S4U@YAHOO.COM>
MT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, December 16, 2002 at 02:09 AM (CST)
Praying for Reese to do well enough to leave the PICU.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 07:25 PM (CST)
Sorry I got the names wrong...opps
Susan Imbraguglio <susieq56@bellsouth.net>
Donaldsonville, La usa - Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 01:20 PM (CST)
Hey Shawn, I know you through your grandmother and my cyber Mom Norma. I spoke with Norma and she told me that you are doing much better. I hope and pray that you continue on that path of healing. And remember Jesus Loves the Little Children, all the children of the world. I will also be praying for the mom and dad. To have the strength to go on. Hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Susan Imbraguglio <susieq56@bellsouth.net>
Donaldsonville, La usa - Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 01:18 PM (CST)
Shawn,
When you need a little extra support and prayers, all you have to do is ask. While Chip was at the mall, the boys and I got in a little circle and held hands. I said a prayer especially for you and Reese while Hunter repeated what I said. Reese's little body is fighting so hard and I just know he is going to be okay. If you need to cry, or scream and yell then you do it and get it out of your system. You are entitled to have these moments and it's okay. You have to be able to release this engery. You are such an incredible lady and even in your weakest moment, I am still in awe of you because I know how couragous you are. God has chosen you and you are trully special! I hope by the time you read this, Reese is back in his room.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 11:47 AM (CST)
Dear Shawn,
I am glad for your early report. I will be praying for you and Reese all day. I know these are tough days but it sounds like things are under control and I know you are in good hands. We never had to go to the PICU but I had one really scarry night when Andrew SATs strated dropping. I was a wreck! It is such hard work growing thoses cells. It takes so much out of them. Reese is just doing that hard work. I hope you will be back up on 5200 in no time. Anne

Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 07:32 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn!!!! Thanks for the updates, I read them everyday. You and Reesie are in my prayers and all the kids that are on the same floor. Talk to you soon.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc 27023 - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 11:19 PM (CST)
Shawn, I just recently learned about Reese and what you all are going through. I wanted to let you know that I think of you daily and hope that all goes smoothly. I work with sick adults and kids every day, but it's very different when someone you know is the one being affected.
Praying for you daily,
Laura Hughes(Patrick & Audrey's mom-Nanna Julia used to keep them)

Laura Hughes <lthughes@alltel.net>
Tobaccoville, NC usa - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 11:07 PM (CST)
Just wanted to let you know you and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. I check your entries daily. God knew whose hands to put baby Reese in, because you and your family are so close and loving. God's right there beside you all the time to see you through all the hard times.
Love to All.


Marilyn McHone
King, NC USA - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 04:32 AM (CST)
Glad to finally meet you last week. Your tough times will soon be over and a beautiful future is to come. When we were in there, it was often said that you did not want to have an "easy" time through your post-transplant (+20) days. I guess that means everything is going the best it can possibly progress.
All the best from our family.

The Hartens <v.harten@attbi.com>
Colleyville, TX - Friday, December 13, 2002 at 09:05 PM (CST)
Shawn - I saw your journal today and Reese's pictures - what a cutey! Hang in there and I am glad that things seem to be working out. God is definately watching over him!
Renata Schoner <renata.schoner@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, December 13, 2002 at 02:55 PM (CST)
We continue to pray for all of you each day. At night when I put my 2 little girls to bed we make sure to say a prayer for you all on 5200! I check the website everyday to keep up with how things are going. God really does answer our prayers.
Annette Leftwich Golding <agolding@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, December 13, 2002 at 02:21 PM (CST)
Shawn, I am so glad that I can keep up with Reese's progress on this web site and with the york photo site. Your mom tells me a lot also. But, I know she has enough on her hands and mind without answering the phone 100 times a day. Thank God for the internet. Please give Reese and Taylor a big hug for me. Love and Admire you
so very much.

Linda Sapp
- Friday, December 13, 2002 at 12:57 PM (CST)
Your right, this tough stuff stuff is hard to take. I just kept thinking about what they told us. "Day 7-15 or 18 are the worst." Before you know it it will be over. It is almost a relief to get started so it will be over all that much sooner. I hope Reese just flies through. All of us that have been there are cheering for you and know exactly how you are feeling. It won't be long now. Love, Anne
Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Friday, December 13, 2002 at 09:15 AM (CST)
Hi, Reese!
Just checkin' in to see how you are doing. Sounds like you are being a trouper- even without hair! (It'll grow back, don't worry.)We are sending you all our love, strength and prayers for those cells to grow, grow, grow!
Love,

Jenny (and Molly) Birmingham <www.missmollyb.com>
- Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 09:26 PM (CST)
Hey Shawn and Reese Cup,
If I don't do anything else at night, I ALWAYS come to check your updates. Shawn, you are an amazing woman, and Taylor and Reese are so lucky to have you for a Mom.Sisters are great, aren't they? I don't know what I would do without mine. I love all of you. Take care and I will be back tomorrow night.....
Love, Sherry

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, In USA - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 07:00 PM (CST)
Shawn, I am so proud of you!! You and Toni are making the best of what has been sent your way. When I sit and look at Reese's pictures, the only thing that I see is a little boy who is filled with LOVE. He always seems so happy. It is so hard to believe that he is sick. Checking on you guys has become part of my daily routine. I love reading the updates and viewing the pictures. (He is just so darn cute!!) Hang in there and remember that you and your family are blessed to have each other and the love that you share. Reese is in my daily prayers. Regina
Regina Shaw <bshaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 06:32 PM (CST)
You are right he does have an "aura" about him. I too smile when I look at him. See you next weekend!!!
Andy
- Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 05:28 PM (CST)
Shawn!
He's even cuter bald!! I didn't think that was possible. Rub that little head for me and give him a big kiss and tell him Hunter's mommy loves him. When you see Taylor, rub his head too, only a little rougher, give him a big kiss and tell him that Hunter and his mommy love him and Hunter will come see him at Nanna Julia's very soon!

Linda Johnson <hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 01:02 PM (CST)
Shawn, I read your updates everyday and Thank God that things are going well. Reese looks so happy in your new pictures. His smile can light up people's hearts. I know he has mine. I can just imagine him sitting there dancing. How cute!!! Even though we do not know each other very well, I know that you are a very special person and the perfect mommy for Reese and Taylor. I will continue to keep Reese, you, your family and the 5200 unit in my prayers.
Robin West <robin.west@wachovia.com>
Belews Creek, NC US - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 07:01 AM (CST)
Dear Shawn,
Just letting you know that I check in on Reese everyday even though I don't sign the guestbook. It's a good thing that Caringbrige doesn't limit our reading time to 45 minutes because I'd never be able to check in on all these special sweet kids every morning! Reese looks adorable with his new shaved head! I've never seen a kid smile like that while an electric shaver was on him! He is a crack-up!
Many blessings...my prayers continue for a successful transplant!!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 06:39 AM (CST)
Hello Shawn,
Just wanted you to know that I am checking your entries everyday! I keep you all in my prayers daily. Not only you and Reese, but also Doug and Taylor. I can't imagine how hard it is for them to be so far away from you and Reesiecup!! I have the pleasure of knowing Doug (I work at Surry 911 Communications) and hope that someday I can meet you, Taylor and Reese! You talk about how Reese is such a trooper...I can't help but think how he must have gotten that from you...you are amazing!!!! Thanks you so much for sharing this time with everyone! I spent 33 days at Baptist hospital with my sister-in-law when she had a bone marrow transplant, due to breast cancer. In 1996, the doctors gave her less than a year to live, I am happy to report that she is alive and well...and cancer free!!!! That proves what a wonderful God we have!!
Take care of youself and I know you hear this often, but if there is anything that I can do, please let me know!!!

Sharon Burchette <msbuemts@charter.net>
Thurmond , NC USA - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 05:10 AM (CST)
Shawn, I can't get over how well Reese is handling this. And you! I agree, bald IS beautiful, especially with that smile! Hang in there -- you are doing great!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 01:09 AM (CST)
Just wanted you to know that you guys are in my thoughts and prayers and that I love and miss you all so much! If you have time, please get me those directions; I would love to come and visit!
Deanna <deanna.ramsey@wachovia.com>
King, NC USA - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 01:08 PM (CST)
Shawn, your family is in my prayers. I know sometimes that can be sort of a pat response, but take comfort in the fact that others are praying for you. I know that sometimes you just get too exhausted to pray yourself and it is encouraging that the chain is not broken when you take a little break. God knows and understands.
Sometimes we wonder what good comes out of things like this. Well let me tell you that because of your steadfast faith and your love for Reese, many have been touched, strengthened, challenged and more aware of their own blessings.
" And we know that God causes everything to work together[1] for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them". Rom 8:28.

You and Reese have been called to His purpose. God has a plan and you are a part of it. That is very encouraging to me because God has chosen well.

The rest of your family is in our prayers as well. I know this is hard on them too and there are things they don't understand.

Yours in Christ

Steve

Steve Allen <steve.allen@wachovia.com>
Tobaccoville, NC USA - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CST)
Hey! We miss you!! We check your entries every day to see how things are going. We're praying for you and everyone on that ward. Though those children have only been here a short time, God is working through them (and you) to bring us all closer to Him.

It's obvious that His hand is on Reese, blessing him and keeping that gorgeous smile on his face. Who would not smile, seeing God's angels on all sides? :)

If you need anything at all, let us know.

Indica <a.indica@wachovia.com>
Winston Salem, NC - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 07:43 AM (CST)
Dear Shawn, Toni and Reese,
My name is Anne Himes and my son Andrew has Hurlers and is 16 months out from his BMT at Duke. I got your address through the Harten's and I have spent about the last 2 hrs reading through your journal. I am glad things are going so well for you and I will pray that Reese will fly through the rest of his adventure. I will be checking in on you often and feel free to write or check in on us any time you want. Love, Anne

Anne Himes <www.caringbridge.org/page/andrewh>
Boonsboro, md USA - Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 04:29 PM (CST)
Shawn, Thank you so much for the updates. It means so much to all of us that are concerned for and that are praying for Reece and all your family. I can't begin to tell you what a blessing you and Reece are to me. Keep the faith and thanks again for keeping us all so well informed.
Ellen Felts <efelts@surry.net>
Dobson, NC Surry - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 11:58 AM (CST)
Shawn, Just wanted you and your family to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Mark Steinbring from WEC is also at Duke from his bone marrow transplant. You may be able to spend some time with his wife and children. It may be nice to see a familiar face.
Martha McKenna
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 10:28 AM (CST)
Shawn, Toni, and Reesie Cup: Just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your updates. I check in about everyday to see the latest blessings. Your requests for prayer for the whole unit have been added to our prayer list at Mt. Carmel Church along with Reese and both of you. Of course we are not forgetting Taylor and Doug. I know it is very hard for them being away from you and Reese. May God continue to shower you with these wonderful blessings. God bless you all.
Martha Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 07:21 AM (CST)
Hey Shawn,
Your Mom stopped by our house this morning to pick up a little donation for McKenzie and she looks so good. I just love to hear all the details about Reese so I already knew everything you said in your update today. I still have to check this site daily though and knowing that all the prayers for Reese are working just makes my heart light up. I have to thank you again for sharing this experience with all of us. It makes me feel much closer to Reese. He is without a doubt, the cutest little boy I have ever laid my eyes on! (the only exception would be my 2 boys and Taylor) I just had to chuckle at the pictures of Reese on transplant day. He is so cute I could just eat him! I am always thinking about you, Toni and Reese. Tell Toni I said hey. You guys hang in there. You are always in my prayers....and now McKenzie too. Let her parents know that please.

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 02:21 PM (CST)
Hello Reesecup,
We miss you. Glad to hear that you are being a good patient for Mommy and the nurses. I like you Reesecup. Tell Taylor hello and I hope he is enjoying his dolphin and ask him did he name his dolphin Briana? Hope to have you home again really soon! We'll go eat pizza again.


Briana Crumley and Meagan Donovant
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 01:42 PM (CST)
Hello Shawn and Reese,
We are praying for you. You are in our thoughts every minute.I have never even seen Reese, but he sure is a CUTIE !I told Phyllis that I will see him someday and I am sure God will answer my prayers.You have such beautiful
children.(must come from the Stanley side HUH? LOL just kidding!!) Even if I can't see the kids, that doesnt mean that I don't think about them or love them, because I do.
Hang in there, keep the faith, and we will all be praying.
Love all of you....
Aunt Sherry

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN good ole USA!!!! - Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 09:20 AM (CST)
Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. I am following the updates and are there with you in spirit and support. I am Jim Phillips' sister.
Sara Lou Cardwell
Rockville, MD - Friday, December 06, 2002 at 06:30 PM (CST)
Dear Reese,
We haven't met yet, but we will soon. I've been checking on your website to see how you're feeling. It sounds like you had a winter wonderland outside your hospital room yesterday. Stay warm!
Courtney
Hendrick Marrow Program

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, December 06, 2002 at 07:18 AM (CST)
Doug, Shawn, Taylor & Reese,
I just checked the website and I'm soooo thankful all of you have made it to and through this day!!! That Reesiecup can light up a room. Thank you again, Shawn, for taking the time to share this with all of us. Reese, YOU ARE DUH MAN!!!

Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 08:45 PM (CST)
Shawn, just wanted to let you know that you and Reese are always in my thoughts and prayers. I really miss you! It seems like you are sooo far away. Glad that everything went well today. I always look forward to reading your daily updates and love seeing the new pictures. Reese makes such a beautiful picture. Talk to you later.
Regina Shaw <shaw2@triad.rr.com>
Pilot Mt, NC USA - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 06:09 PM (CST)
Dear Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Reese,
Grandma Pearl, Aunt Mabel and I want to send our love to all of you. We pray for you each day and know from your daily updates you are in good hands at Dukes. The Lords looking over you and all his littles ones every where.

Lots of Love Aunt Lea

Lelia Files <bfiles@cox.net>
Andover, KS USA - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 05:05 PM (CST)
Just wanted to send my LOVE & PRAYERS from MAINE... SO HAPPY that today is the TRANSPLANT DAY... God bless and keep you all.
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me USA - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 04:50 PM (CST)
Hello down there. Just a note to say I am very thankful Reese has already had his transplant. Now, we can look forward to a much brighter and healthier future for him. I can't wait. Before too long he will be in the floor crawling and climbing all over Taylor, and both of them giggling. So many good things to for in the near future.

God Bless you and see ya

Linda Sapp
- Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 02:21 PM (CST)
Reese will be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow for the big day! May God Bless him with a successful engraftment!
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 07:52 PM (CST)
Just wanted to let Gene know that he and his grandson and family are in our thoughts and prayers here in Maine.
Rhonda
- Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 06:05 AM (CST)
Good morning to you all. Especially Julia. I know you couldn't wait to get your hands on Reesie Cup. Enjoy your weekend with him and the girls. See ya next week. My love and prayers to everyone. Tell Andy to be careful going back home. Love you all very much..
Linda Sapp <airlinda@triad.rr.com>
WINSTON-SALEM, NC usa - Friday, November 29, 2002 at 07:59 AM (CST)
Happy Thanksgiving to you all! I am very thankful to hear that Reese is doing so well. I think of you, Doug, the boys and Nanna Julia many times a day and I'm glad things are going well. Thank you for keeping all of us up-to-date on the daily events. All of you are in my prayers! Linda Johnson (Hunter's Mom)
Linda Johnson <Hogbillies@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 10:10 PM (CST)
Shawn/Reese, there is not a day that goes by that you and your family are not in my prayers! I wanted to also wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving!!!
Robin West <robin.west@wachovia.com>
Belews Creek, NC US - Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 10:40 AM (CST)
Hi, My name is Robin Tucker and I work at Hendrick Motorsports. I got to your guest book by the Hendrick Marrow Foundation. The Marrow Foundation sent an email out looking to people to adopt a child for Christmas. Me and five of the other girls here got Reese. I wanted to know as much as I could about Reese in doing so I got to his guestbook. I saw the pictures of Reese in the photo gallery and he is soooooo precious!

We hope that Reese is feeling well and hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving! I would love to keep in touch please email me at rtucker@hmsracing.com

Robin Tucker
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 02:56 PM (CST)
I am praying about you, Doug, Taylor and Reese, I'm glad to hear things went well on Monday. Thanks again for the website.
Dee Dee Edwards <unc_fan@bellsouth.net>
Lewisville, nc 27023 - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 10:33 PM (CST)
You all remain in my thoughts and prayers daily! I am glad that all is going well at Duke. There are some very special angels there that will take care of you and yours.

May God hold you in the palm of his hand. May He bless you with continued sucess in Reese's treatments and surgeries and may He bless you all with strength, wisdom and understanding as your family continues to go through these trying times. God bless you all with abundant love and comfort!

Ann Marie Edmonds <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC USA - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 11:43 AM (CST)
Glad to hear all went well yesterday. And now you start the journey to Reese's new lease on life! I know it is scary and exciting all at the same time...and yes, you will all do wonderfully with the faith and hope in God that all will be well.
Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 08:57 AM (CST)
It's good to hear Reese got throught the procedures yesteday without too much stress. Take care of you, and always know, you, Reese and your entire family are in my prayers.

Mary Mahoney <mary_b.mahoney@wachovia.com>
WinstonSalem, NC Forsyth - Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 05:55 AM (CST)
So glad to hear the countdown has begun! You and Reese are amazing Shawn, hang in there! I can't wait to see you back at work again... hopefully the next 109 days will FLY!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Monday, November 25, 2002 at 10:29 PM (CST)
We all wanted you to know that we are all thinking and praying for you and Reese. Though we can't be with you,
you are in our thoughts EVERY minute.Grandma sends her love,
as we ALL do. Love from all of us here in Cumming GA.


sherry delya
merrillville, IN Good ole USA - Monday, November 25, 2002 at 09:02 PM (CST)
I have visited your site numerous times and I am so touched
by Resse and what a strong family you are. I know this is the hardest time of your lives but you are going through it as a family and not individuals.
I will keep your family in my prayers and I think of Resse
often and your other son who is having to be
away from his little brother and parents so much.
Keep the Faith that you have and your support group of unknown people will continue to grow I'm sure.

Love,
Madge, Bill, and Will Angel

Madge Angel <mangel@iliant.com>
Kernersville , NC USA - Monday, November 25, 2002 at 03:58 PM (CST)
My prayers will be with you during these trying next few weeks. I'll pray for God to give you the strength and courage you'll need to face whatever comes your way. Blessings to all your family.
Jill Miller
McAllen, TX USA - Sunday, November 24, 2002 at 11:20 AM (CST)
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Reese,
I haven't signed Reese's guestbook though I visit it often, because I just didn't know what to say. I still don't but want you to know that I pray for each of you every day. I pray for Reese's healing and for strength, courage and unyielding faith for each of you.
Reese is one of God's special children and He knew Reese needed special parents, what a blessing that you were picked. Reese will definitely be in my prayers each morning as the treatment process begins. Hang in there, you are loved by so many people, draw strength from that and from Our Lord.
Much Love,
Cathy, Tom, Jim, Jr., Brian & Michael

Cathy Young <Tocaone@aol.com>
Summerfield, NC USA - Sunday, November 24, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CST)
We learned of your darling Reese via our friends, The Birminghams and just wanted to drop you a line to wish you well as you begin the transplant process. Our little girl, Susannah, also has Hurler Syndrome and is now two years post transplant. Like Reese, Susannah has an older sibling (Madeline, age 5) ... I know it's impossible, but try not to worry, you will be pleasantly surprised at how well your Taylor adjusts and very quickly becomes Reese's greatest advocate! I found both of my children to have amazing strength throughout the topsy turvy transplant time and in fact, their strength resonated to everyone around them. Your entire family will be in our prayers.

All our best, The Whites (Amy, Klane, Madeline and Susannah)

http://www.caringbridge.org/page/susannah

Amy White <kkwhite@ucsd.edu>
San Diego, CA - Saturday, November 23, 2002 at 09:13 PM (CST)
Without a doubt, I will be thinking of Reese and saying a little prayer on Monday for his safe surgery.
God Bless!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
- Saturday, November 23, 2002 at 10:22 AM (CST)
I pray for you every night. I hope that everything goes well with the bone marrow transplant. You have two precious little boys. You are truely blessed. If there is ever anything that I can do or anything that you need, please call. I will be more than glad to help in anyway possible. Keep the faith and continue being strong.
Stephanie Conner - Surry 911 <cr404@hotmail.com>
Cana, VA - Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 07:25 AM (CST)
TO THE COBLE FAMILY,

ON BEHALF OF THE SKULL CAMP FIRE DEPT. WE WOULD LIKE TO SEND OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS YOUR WAY. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO JUST LET US KNOW.

BRANDON RAMEY <scvfd7219@yahoo.com>
LOWGAP, NC US - Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 06:44 AM (CST)
Shawn, I think of you and your family everyday and want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you every day. I will miss getting to see Reese at Julia's, but I will enjoy Taylor there. You have two special boys and they have special parents. Your faith, and all these prayers are very powerful.
Ruth Cook (Katie Cook's mom from the Dance Team) <JRJKCook@aol.com>
Lewisville, NC USA - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 02:34 PM (CST)
Keep up the faith!! We at the Surry EMS are all thinking of you and keeping you in our Prayers!
Robert Hinson
State Road, NC USA - Monday, November 18, 2002 at 11:51 AM (CST)
I just saw the message you left on Morgan's site. We saw some flyers for your benfit and started praying for Reese on that very day. Then I saw the message from you. It is amazing how our Lord works isn't it? We will continue to pray for your family and have faith that the Lord will take care of us all.
Jerry, Allison, Morgan and Holden Barnes <allisonbarnes@triad.rr.com>
Lewisville, NC - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 09:35 PM (CST)
We will be praying for your little one.
Liz Mills <remills@marktwain. net>
Brashear , Mo usa - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 07:56 PM (CST)
Shawn and family, just want to let you know I'm thinking and praying for you all. God is in control.
Joy Doolittle
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 12:26 PM (CST)
Dear Family of Reese,
Please know that I will be praying for your little one's successful transplant. You do not know me, but I have, in a way, "internetly adopted" so many sweet MPS children to pray for. I have a very special Hurler child in my life and I truly enjoy getting to know other Hurler children and their families via the internet. I will be praying for Reese and checking in on him regularly. God Bless!

Love, Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor , CT - Saturday, November 16, 2002 at 10:17 AM (CST)
Hello, all-
I haven't had a chance to read your entire history yet, but I got to Aug. 8, and am sitting at my computer in tears. I cannot tell you how glad I am that you are at Duke, and that my daughter Molly's story in Woman's Day touched your life. These kids are so very special, and I am sure Reese will do very well with his transplant. Duke is an amazing place. What a loving family he has to get him through this, and what an awesome "extended Hurler family" you have yet to know. I'm pleased that you are keeping a journal, as I will stay abreast of Reese's journey. Please know you can contact us with any questions, etc. Best of luck and big, big hugs to Mr. Reese! Stay strong, little guy!
Love,

Jenny Birmingham <www.caringbridge.org/page/mollyb>
Arlington Heights, IL USA - Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 01:47 PM (CST)
I said a prayer for you Taylor, HUGS AND BIG SLOPPY KISSES
from Aunt Sherry. Hope to see you soon.....

Sherry <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 01:02 AM (CST)
Hello everyone,
Glad everything is going well.I think about all of you, and what you are going through, and I can't believe how STRONG
you all are. I pray for all of you every day. Give Reese and Taylor a kiss from their Aunt Sherry, hope to see yall soon.

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 12:49 AM (CST)
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and let you know that I love all of you very much. Hope to see you soon.
Aunt Barbara <mehard347@charter.net>
Duluth, GA gwinnett - Saturday, November 09, 2002 at 09:22 PM (CST)
The Church body sends its love, encouragement and prayers!
Fountain of Life <www.thefountainonline.org>
Mt Airy, NC - Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 06:57 PM (CST)
Shawn and Doug,
We are praying for you at the Fountain. Reese has been a brave little boy. We are here if you need our help. Will you be needing any suppers? We miss Taylor! You are not alone in this difficult time, so call on us.

La'Teah Santucci <Bartsan@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, November 04, 2002 at 08:44 AM (CST)
Hello guys. I don't know where to start except to say you are my brother, my sister, and my tator tot and ressie-cup and I Love You all dearly. Doug, we have been through it all together and we will go through it all forever "together". You see, my friend, we are not only bothers because we have grown up together, but because we have been saved by the grace of God together. I believe in prayer. I know it works. I have proof. So you just hang in there and keep praying. Shawn, I Love you sweetie. You are a woderful mommie and Tator tot and Ressie-cup are two lucky little boys to have you as there mommie. You are strong (you put up with Doug so that makes you even stronger). You keep that faith going and everything will be OK. Six or seven years isn't that long to get to know someone but I know you and your love for the boys and Doug and for the Lord will help you through this. There is a reason for everything that happens and God knew you guys could handle this. Keep praying. Taylor, you're the big brother so it is your job to show Reece the ropes. Hang in there little buddy. Reesie-cup, Your beautiful smile brings joy to my heart every time I see it. Hold on sweetie, God has his hand upon you. Guys, I just wanted you to know, you are not alone. Prayer is engulfing you. Friends, famliy, and strangers are here for you at anytime. We love you all dearly and hold you close to our hearts. Keep praying. Remember I am just a beep beep away (nextel that is, modern technology, gotta love it)
Lewis Cassell <lcassell7806@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC USA - Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 10:13 PM (CST)
Hi Mom & Dad,Reececup, You look so cute with eating and Mom you are looking good too. Hope everything is going good it sure sounds like it. Our blessings and prayers are with you all daily. I look forward to reading your daily updates it give us much encouragement for you. I hope you can feel all the love from all of us here. Keep the faith, GOD has Reececup as an ANGEL that he is keeping here for all of us to realize PRAYER AND FAITH can help you get through the toughest times of your life.
Remember GOD loves you and so do I.

Joyce

Joyce Mabe <joyce.mabe@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, nc forsyth - Friday, November 01, 2002 at 09:42 AM (CST)
You are a strong woman my dear friend. My prayers are with you and your family
Donna Hanes
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, November 01, 2002 at 09:23 AM (CST)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the coming weeks and always. We have also added little Reese to our church prayer list. May the grace of God be with you.
Lyle, Jenifer & Eli Bullington
Pinnacle, NC USA - Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 10:13 AM (CST)
I am praying for Reese as well as your entire family.
Jennifer Crouse <jenniferc0328@triad.rr.com>
Dobson, NC USA - Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 10:20 AM (CST)
Doug and Shawn, It is hard to believe that you all are already at Duke. How time flies. Maybe this will be behind you before you realize it. Just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you guys.
Regina Shaw
- Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 06:52 AM (CST)
Best of luck with your transplant. We will continue to read your website & keep Reese in our prayers. The Duke team will take excellent care of your baby. It is a remarkable facility and Dr. K loves what she does!
The Harten Family (Henry)
Arlington, TX USA - Monday, October 28, 2002 at 04:08 PM (CST)
Reese,
There is a song about believing "there are angels among us, sent down to us, from somewhere up above" You are a little angel, you are in my prayers every morning and night. Good luck on your journey, though it will be rough, I have faith that you will come out on the other side. You are a precious little boy, and you have lots of people out there that love you!

Katie Cook <Lilpeaches8@aol.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 05:46 PM (CST)
Dear Reese and Family,
You are added to our prayers every day. Miracles do happen! God has blessed us with a son six years ago after trying for nine years and one failed pregnancy. He was born 3 weeks early.He was diagnosed with Hypothyroidism, Cerebral palsy,no enamel on baby or permanent teeth, flat feet, very near sighted. Today, he is an active 6 year old who attends regular Kindergarten. He first walked on his own at age three and hasn't stopped yet. We had so many people praying for him and our family from the begining. Don't give up!! Much love to you !!!

The Waltons
Hazel Green, Al. U.S.A. - Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 01:46 PM (CST)
My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you the best of luck with Reese. Keep the faith and know that people are praying for Reese's well being. I'll be sure to say a pray for him and for you as well.
Bertha Flewelling <bmflewelling69@hotmail.com>
Fort Edward, NY USA - Saturday, October 26, 2002 at 05:56 PM (CDT)
Hey, hope everything goes great for all of you. Hang in there, my prayers are with ya. May all of you wishes come true.
Kelly Matthews <SendToKelly@triad.rr.com>
Mt.Airy, NC USA - Saturday, October 26, 2002 at 12:20 PM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family everyday. I know that God will be there holding yours and Reese's hearts and hands,keeping you both safe.
Robin West <robin.west@wachovia.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Thursday, October 24, 2002 at 12:27 PM (CDT)
Hey guys!
Hope things are good with yall. Love you and think about you all the time.

Ed and Terrie
- Thursday, October 24, 2002 at 08:39 AM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have 8-year old boy/girl twins and a 5 month old baby boy. I can't imaginge what you are going through but I know that God can give you the strength you need. Keep your faith strong.
Debbie Hicks <ahicks@advi.net>
Lowgap, NC - Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 08:09 PM (CDT)
You are in my thoughts and prayers. God has truly given you a blessing and a fighter in Reese. Remember that God is in control of this situation and I know that He will bring you out of this. Reese is a beautiful child and with no doubt, beautiful parents. I can sense your strength and your faith which has been granted by God. Keep the faith! And may God continue to bless you and keep you all.
Debbie Perkins
Thomasville, NC Davidson - Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 03:32 PM (CDT)
Dear Shawn, Doug, Taylor and Reese my thoughts and prayers are with you. When Shawn first told us of this at work, I was heart broken for all of you but through God all things are possible. God blessed you with a beautiful family and he will stand by your side. Reese is your Angel that God sent to your family to help you grow stronger and God will help to heal Reese. You may have been blessed with Reese to help doctors find a cure for this disease or a cure to help slow the progression of the disease, but he is a very special Angel. My father was diagnosised with a rare heart disease at age 58, the only cure was a heart transplant for him. He was criticle at Frosyth Hospital in ICU and due to a previous condition, a bleeding ulcer Charlotte would not except him and Baptist no longer had a transplant team. His cardiologist suggest MCV (Medical College of Va.) and like any family you want to try to keep your loved ones with you as long as you can. Dr. Albert Guarety accepted my Dad when everyone else said he was to high risk. My father was air lifted by a medical jet from Birmingham Alabama. My mother of course had to get a certified check to get this jet to Smith Reynolds airport in order to fly my father to Richmond Virginia. This was a very stressful and costly time for the family but the Lord stood by us. I stayed with my mother in Richmond and the night we got the call that they had found a matching heart was the most frightening time of my life and I'm sure it was for my mother too. She had been married and with this man since she was seventeen years old and bared four children with him. We all knew that if they took our fathers heart out and replaced it with this new one, there was a good chance that the new might not start but the good Lord made it a rejoyful time for our family. My father woke up the next morning in ICU from the surgery sitting up talking and by that afternoon he was eating pop corn. Through all the worry, stress and upsetting time GOD not once let our family down. He give us strength, hope and a joyful five extra very well blessed years with our father. He went to be with our wonderful Lord on February 17, 1996. God will provide many blessed years to come with Reese and you all too. I realize now that it is GOD that blessed the doctors with the knowledge and ability to do all these wonderful procedures and the abilities to find cures for all these terrible diseases. We all must keep our faith pray and live each day to its fullest and enjoy every moment that we have with our loved ones. You all will be in my prayers each and every day. If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to ask. I have been in much the same situation just not with my children and I can imagine the hurt you must of felt when you found out Reese's test results. You all are handling this very well and I wish you all the best. My love and prayers are with you!

Love,

Angie Trivette

Angela Trivette
Winston-Salem, NC US - Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 02:34 PM (CDT)
Hi, I tried my hardest to make it to the benefit but I judt couldn't make it. I hope everything went well. We love yall an you're in our thoughts and prayers.
Megan Mckeithan <tiggermcm@yahoo.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 12:20 PM (CDT)
Doug and Family,
I was looking at a website and happened to come across an article about your son. I am so sorry that I haven't heard about your child sooner. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that we can do let us know. We will do anything we can to help. Keep the faith. May God bless you all.

Christie (George) Gwyn & Family <wccsg@earthlink.net>
Mount Airy , NC - Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 12:06 AM (CDT)
reece may god bless and keep you safe on this long journey you must face.love and prayers melissa coleman and family.
melissa coleman <possum03@dvdol.com>
wv usa - Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 03:27 PM (CDT)
hey, glad the surgery went well and hope to see you at the benifit, I will be there. God bless your family
Blake Tickle <btickle@gaggle.net>
Pilot mtn., NC USA - Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 09:13 AM (CDT)
Have fun at the benefit!! Wish we could be there.

Love and kisses -

Karen, Mike and Katie Coble

Karen Coble
Arlington, VA USA - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 02:20 PM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lots of luck
Jill Raines <raines96@bellsouth.net>
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 10:34 AM (CDT)
Shawn, so glad to hear the PDA is behind you! And I'm very excited to hear you have a bone marrow match!!! Hang in there lady, you are doing great. Will his adenoid surgery be moved due to the 10/28 appt at Duke, especially if he gets a bed?

Hug those boys for us, and keep us posted!

Carolyn Fodel
W-S, NC - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 09:36 AM (CDT)
So glad that Reese is okay and everything went well.
Doug, Shawn, Taylor and little Reese, I love you and GOD bless you all!!

Love, Aunt Sherry

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN Good Old USA!!!! - Friday, October 18, 2002 at 01:43 AM (CDT)
Hey it's Megan again. I just wanted to say that I'd LOVE to volunteer for the dunking booth at the benefit. It would be great.
Megan Mckeithan <tiggermcm@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 08:10 PM (CDT)
My family is praying for you every day.
Megan Mckeithan
- Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 07:57 PM (CDT)
I had your family put on our prayer list, at work and at our church.May you all have the strength to handle all you are facing.
Pam Tilley <info@tilleysphoto.com>
Dobson, NC USA - Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 10:00 AM (CDT)
We will all pray for Reese and your family!
Clark, Amy, Abby and Elly Bledsoe <abledsoe@burkerobertsonassoc.com>
Mount Airy, NC Surry - Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 08:23 AM (CDT)
Doug,Shawn, and boys,
I wanted to let you know that there has been a prayer chain started at my church. Greg,Aaron, and I talk alot about Reese. Aaron assures me that God will take care of you all. We love you all so much!

Lisa Clark
Calumet City, IL usa - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 11:04 AM (CDT)
I enjoyed meeting you today at WXII. Please let me know if there is anything at all we can do to help! I would love to coordinate a fundraiser! I do them all of the time. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Mike and Dottie and kids

Mike, Dottie, Aspen & Holt Jackson <MikeJ@Surry.NET>
Elkin, NC 28621 - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 10:45 AM (CDT)
I graduated with Doug. I was so sorry to hear about little Reese. It's news like this that renews my dedication to my job at the March of Dimes, which will hopefully find a prevention one day for Reese's syndrome and so many others. You are definitely in our thoughts & prayers.
Kristi Johnson Marion <jivetalk@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 10:41 AM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers goes out to you and your family.
Cotillia Williams
East Bend , NC US - Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 07:57 AM (CDT)
Philippians 4:4- 7 says...

"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Our prayer is that this Peace of God which transcends all understanding will be yours. We join with you in petitioning our Wonderful God on behalf of Reese. God bless your whole family!

Kelly & Terrell Stephens <terrellstephens@earthlink>
Mt Airy, NC - Monday, October 14, 2002 at 10:46 AM (CDT)
Shawn, You don't know me, but I work at Surry 911 and Doug knows me as "Little Bobby"!!! I can't even begin to imagine what you and Doug are going through!!! One of my favorite verses in the Bible is Ecclesiastes 3:1, "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." Like Doug, my Dad passed away with no time to say goodbye..he was here one minute and gone the next...this verse and the 1st part of Chapter 3 of Ecclesiastes has been a comfort to me...also if you have ever heard the song "Farther Along", it is a comfort to me also. It says that farther along, we will know all about it...we will know the reason that "bad things happen to good people".
You,Doug and the whole family are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
You are doing a great job with the web site!!! Anything that I can do, Doug knows how to reach me! God bless!!
Sharon

Sharon Burchette <msbuemts@charter.net>
Thurmond, NC USA - Saturday, October 12, 2002 at 04:37 PM (CDT)
I am parying for the baby. God help me and he can help you. I can not stop crying about the baby. love ,suzanna Santucci
Suzanna Santucci <Sunshine19912000@yahoo.com>
1238 flippin rd. Mt. Airy , n.c usa - Saturday, October 12, 2002 at 08:32 AM (CDT)
TO THE COBLE FAMILY- MY FAMILY HAS BEEN FRIENDS WITH THE COBLE FAMILY FOR MANY YEARS. WE PRAY FOR THE BEST FOR THE ENTIRE FAMILY ESPECIALLY LITTLE REECE! WE WILL CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. LOOKING FORWARD TO THE BENEFIT THIS MONTH TOO!
ANNETTE LEFTWICH GOLDING <agolding@triad.rr.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Friday, October 11, 2002 at 02:18 PM (CDT)
I am so sorry to hear about your little one Doug, I will do all I can to help. This e-mail and wed site has been passed around to anybody with a PC at Renfro, the ones that don't have one are hearing about it word of mouth. I sent it to several of my friends who work in other places and ask them to also pass it around. I wish you all the best of Luck and my Love. I hope God will bless you all.
Carol Cockerham <carolcockerham@renfro.com>
Lowgap, nc Surry - Friday, October 11, 2002 at 05:56 AM (CDT)
Shawn, please know that they are many prayers being sent your way. With two very small children of my own, my heart pours out to you and your family. May the Lord bless you, Reese and your family through these tough times, but know that your strength lies in believing that He will do just that. You're in my prayers!
Michael Beshears <sbeshears@triad.rr.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 03:52 PM (CDT)
My prayers are with you and your family.
Sharon Gautier <sharong_1969@hotmail.com>
Pinnacle, nc usa - Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 09:36 AM (CDT)
I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers daily. I love you Shawnee.
Tee Cee Crews <tcrews1@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC US - Monday, October 07, 2002 at 06:55 PM (CDT)
We will pray for Reese and we hope everything goes well.
Tammy Shelton <tammys@bowenfurniture.com>
Walnut Cove, NC USA - Monday, October 07, 2002 at 03:41 PM (CDT)
God bless you and your baby! I will be praying that God will touch her little heart and make her well .
Jeannie Montgomery <jeanniemontgomery@renfro.com>
Mt. Airy, NC Surry - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 11:26 PM (CDT)
Your child is so beautiful. He is already a miracle sent from Heaven. I will pray for you all. Please look to God to find your strength and peace. He never fails us.

Angie Flippin <4flips@naxs.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 09:10 PM (CDT)
Doug, Shawn & Taylor and Reese,
You are each in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all during this trying time and always!

Ann Marie Edmonds <ann_marie_edmonds@hotmail.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC USA - Thursday, October 03, 2002 at 05:03 PM (CDT)
I met you at your church when my husband and I visited there with Angei and Darin Moser. My husband and I had the great opprotunity to pray for Reese that day. How refreshing to see such great faith! I knit my faith with yours and rejoice that it's God's will for Reese to live a long healthy life. I praise God for the miracle He is preforming in Reese's life, and I thank Him for the testimonies to come!
Annette Troxler <annette.troxler@ah.novartis.com>
High Point, NC Guilford - Thursday, October 03, 2002 at 10:53 AM (CDT)
We just found out today and wanted to tell you that we will be praying for you and your family. We will be glad to help you in any way that we can. God will be with you each and every step of the way. We love you with all of our hearts!
Mickey & Marcia Rogers <Marcia.Rogers@GMACInsurance.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, October 03, 2002 at 10:29 AM (CDT)
Doug and Shawn, God bless you and I will be praying for Reese and for ya'll. I'm staying with my elderly mom now a lot but I will try to make it on the 19th. Thank you for sharing your love with us.
Wayne Cooke
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, October 03, 2002 at 07:29 AM (CDT)
Hi! I am your neighbor and I used to ride to school with Doug sometimes. I am Christie Joyce Edwards. I just wanted to let you know that we are praying for your beautiful son and for your family. I know it must be hard on all of you and I want you to let us know if we can EVER do anything to help you let us know!
Christie, Jeff and Colby Edwards <cmedwards8401@rjia.net>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 09:59 PM (CDT)
What a miracle God has already done, I am overwhelmed by the amount of love and support by friends and the community for little Reese. I will join in this great multitude of prayer and praise for what God is doing through this young life. May God continue to give you strength and hope as He promises in His word. "Because the Lord God helps me I will not be dismayed" Isaiah 50:7

Karin <KMurphMT>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 08:03 PM (CDT)
Dear Coble Family:
I used to work with Doug while at the City. What a wonderful man and Father. Shawn, it's truly hard for me to hold back the tears. Thank you for sharing your beautiful Son with us all. He is an angel, no doubt. God truly blessed you with him and blessed him with you! Miracles do happen and happen with prayer. There is nothing anyone here can do without God, but with God's guidance, the possibilities are endless! May God bless you in your days ahead, now and always.

Lisa B. Jones <asiljones@yahoo.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 02:51 PM (CDT)
May God be with you and your little one during such a trying time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela Scott <tennysonsgirl@hotmail.com>
Cana, VA USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 02:24 PM (CDT)
Our hopes and prayers are with you. I told Doug last night at MAFD to keep us in mind for emergency needs. We will be at Veterians Park on the 19th.
Roger and Janet Shore <rshore2@triad.rr.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 01:52 PM (CDT)
I didnot use the correct e-mail. I'm sorry.
Michelle Davis <mdavis1@lifespanservices.org>
Mt Airy, NC US - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
Norma's brother.
Mickey Hartman <hartmanm@aol.com>
W-Salem, NC - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 11:25 AM (CDT)
May God Bless each and everyone of you and shine his light
ever so brightly. Each of you will be in my prayers and I
will let my church family know (Family Fellowship Chapel)
of the prayers that are needed for little Reese.
Love and God Bless

Michelle Davis <mdavis@lifespanservices.org>
Mt Airy, NC US - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 11:12 AM (CDT)
You are in our thoughts and prayers!!
Deana and Trampas Snow <deanafsn@yahoo.com>
Dobson, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 10:36 AM (CDT)
Just know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers!! I know that God can make a miracle happen, he did for us.

Sheri, Mickey, and Hallie Fields <membership@mtairyncchamber.org>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 08:15 AM (CDT)
God Bless You Little One!
Vicki Fields <vicki_fields@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 08:12 AM (CDT)
Doug,Shawn,Taylor&Reese,My family and I would like you to know that you are in our prayers daily. We have known the Coble Family for years and love you all. If there is anything you need please do not hesitate to call us.
Billy & Joyce Gammons, Joy Leftwich <rudyjoy@tcia.net>
Cana, Va Carroll - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 08:01 AM (CDT)
My prayers are with you & your Family....
Sharon <SHARONFROMCA@WEBTV.NET>
Anderson, Ca. U.S.A - Wednesday, October 02, 2002 at 12:40 AM (CDT)
I just wanted to let you know that your families are in our prayers. Children are angels from God that we should always cherish and value. Good luck and best wishes to all of you. God Bless.
Penny, Bobby & Samantha Willard <pennywill77@yahoo.com>
Pilot Mountain , NC United States - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 09:22 PM (CDT)
I received an email today that told of the upcoming benefit for both Reese and Peyton. The stories of these two beautiful babies and the wonderful families they have touch my heart. I have a 22 month old daughter and can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. My thoughts will be with you daily.
Leslie Leonard <g_lleonard@valink.com>
Cana, VA USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 08:56 PM (CDT)
Shawn & Family,
You are in my prayers... Reese has two GREAT parents and a wonderful brother.
Be strong and always be there for each other..

Maria Francis & family
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 04:35 PM (CDT)
I will be praying for you and your family. God is still in the miracle business.
Diane Hubbard <diane_hubbard@catawba.k12.nc.us>
Catawba, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 01:36 PM (CDT)
My family would like for you to know that we will be praying for your family and our church will be praying too.
I am a grandmother of 4 and am so blessed. So to you I pray for all your needs to be met and for many years of blessings for your family. The pictures are beautiful.
Thanks for sharing this with me. I have been blessed today.

Judy Knight Farris <bjfarris@triad.rr.com>
Stoneville, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 11:25 AM (CDT)
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa Hooker
Mount Airy, NC - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 10:54 AM (CDT)
Reese and your family are in my prayers. God Bless!!!!!!

Pam Folger
Wachovia Insurance Svcs

Pam Folger <pkf829@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 10:46 AM (CDT)
Shawn and Doug,
You two must be the most woundeful partents ever! Please know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you. I know you have a lot ahead of you and I would love to be able to help out in any way I can. I will get my telephone # to you and I want you to call me when you are at Duke and just want some company. It takes me less than a half hour to get there. Take care.

(Wes Greene's friend)

Angela Fulcher <angelafulcher@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 10:11 AM (CDT)
God bless you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Jenny Baker <havtacamp@cs.com>
High Point, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 08:27 AM (CDT)
EVERYONE HERE AT THE PILOT MTN FARM BUREAU ARE SENDING UP OUR PRAYERS FOR LITTLE REECE AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY. KEEP YOUR FAITH IN THE LORD AND JUST ASK FOR HIS WILL TO BE DONE. REMEMBER THAT THE LORD SOMETIMES ALLOWS THINGS TO HAPPEN IN OUR LIVES AND YOU MAY NOT KNOW WHAT THAT REASON IS TODAY, BUT ONE DAY, THE ANSWER WILL COME TO YOU.
GOD WILL REWARD YOU FOR YOUR FAITHFULLNESS AND LOVE THAT YOU HAVE PLACED IN HIM.






JOY BOND, CHARLES FREEMAN, JEFF EDMONDS, GREG PERKINS, AND TERRY HAWKS <jobon123@hotmail.com>
PILOT MTN, NC US - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 08:16 AM (CDT)
You are in my thoughts and prayers. God always provides what we need. Keep the faith!
Angela Horton <ahorton@wfubmc.edu>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 07:41 AM (CDT)
Doug & Shawn,
I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. I have forwarded your information to the Winston Salem Journal. Maybe they can help to put the word out about the fundraisers and the fund at Wachovia. Reece is a beautiful child and very lucky to have parents like you. I have two sons and I know what a gift they are to me.
Through God ALL things are possible.
Love in Christ,
Dana Jordan

Dana Jordan <djordan3@triad.rr.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Tuesday, October 01, 2002 at 07:36 AM (CDT)
Doug & Shawn,

Just wanted to let you guys know that your family is in our prayers. It is hard to describe the feeling when you have a child that is ill. We went through a spell with Cole, when he was first born, he ended up having to have surgery at 6 weeks old. He is doing fine now. I know that doesn't compare to Reese's situation, but none the less I have an idea of what you are going through. Shawn, I haven't seen you in a long time, take care and be strong. Doug, I will see you around the fire station.

All of us at the MAPD are keeping you in our prayers.

We looked at your family album online. Looks like two very fine young men - they got that from Shawn no doubt!!

If we can be of any help, please give us a call.

Todd, Shannon, Cole, & Caleb Osborne <tosborne6@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 08:48 PM (CDT)
I really hope that God will look down on your family and help reese to grow strong and conquer his illness.
Ayisha Sekander <Ayisha44@aol.com>
Winston-Salem , NC Forsyth - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 04:51 PM (CDT)
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Melissa Miller
Bassett, VA US - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 04:27 PM (CDT)
What a beautiful little boy! I can only imagine what you guys are going through. As the mother of a 4 month old little boy, I don't know that I could do it. But you are right - God doesn't put more on you then you can bear. You will all be in my prayers. Please keep me updated on the fundraisers. Hopefully, my husband, son and I can attend them all! God Bless You All!
Mary Clinard <clinard33@aol.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 01:59 PM (CDT)
You are in my thoughts and in my prayers
Bonnie Taylor <btaylor@cmc-nc.com>
Lexington, NC USA - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 01:51 PM (CDT)
God Bless Baby Reese and your family. Earlier this month my 9 month old daughter was taken to the Emergency Room twice for having Febrile Seizures and that just about took my breath away. I know the scare that I had by no means compares to what you and your family are going through. I will keep all of you in my prayers. And for those parents that have a healthy child(ren), please pray to God (or your other Higher Being) to continue to keep that child healthy and safe from all harm. You never know, one day you could be going through the same thing the Coble Family is going through. God Bless Reese and keep him safe and with his loving family!
Sonja Epps <sepps@cmc-nc.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 01:47 PM (CDT)
I could not imagine what you are going through. Just be strong for that beautiful baby and God will be strong for you. God is a powerful man, I know from experience. My dad was blind for 8 years. He went blind 3 years before I was born. He got to see my two older brothers before he went blind, but never got to see me. I was 5 years old the first time he ever seen me. He fell down our basement stairs and hit his head on the wall and received his eye-sight back. Now, he has got to see me, and my two brothers grow up and see all three of us get married and have kids. Don't give up, God will always be there for you, all you have to do is ask. God bless you and your beautiful family.
Tammy Sardler Thorn <Tragsdale@cmc-nc.com>
Pinnacle, NC Surry - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 10:30 AM (CDT)
You are a beautiful family. We will keep you in our prayers! May God Bless You!
Janet & Steve Fulk
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 08:09 PM (CDT)
We heard about your situation at church this morning and want you to know that your family is in our prayers. The Lord is our hope and strength, and through Him all things are possible. It is unimaginable how you must feel, but it is obvious that God has chosen three wonderful people to care for this special child.

The road will be long and rough, but we have assurance that He is with us. You are in our thoughts and prayers and if we can help in any way please don't hesitate to call on us.

He will hold you up, give you strength, and help you endure to the finish.
Isaiah 40:31


Kirk, Lynn, Kelsey, & Michaela Killon
Mt. Airy, NC - Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 05:20 PM (CDT)
I was forwarded your e-mail through Hope Parenting Partners, an e-mail group for woman who have lost a child. Your story touched me. I would like your address to help some.
Rhonda Steiner <rhondajsteiner@hotmail.com>
Summerdal, AL USA - Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 04:28 PM (CDT)
Mr. and Mrs. Coble, my prayers are with you and your family. You were right in saying the Lord gave him to you and he has a plan for your family. I can't imagine what you two are going through but the Lord will provide you mentally and financially. May God be with you and lead and guide you through each day.

Forrest Connell
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Sunday, September 29, 2002 at 03:15 PM (CDT)
Dear Coble Family,
We love you and are praying for your whole family. Daily confess Jeremiah 29:11--For I know the plans I have for you,declares the Lord,plans to prosper you and not to harm you,plans to give you hope and a future. Is it not wonderful to know that God already has your future planned and in his hands! God is so good. Love you--
Doug&Tammy Cosby

Doug and Tammy Cosby <thecos@surry.net>
Siloam, NC USA - Saturday, September 28, 2002 at 10:06 PM (CDT)
Hey Doug, Shawn, Taylor and little Reese,
Just wanted all of you to know how much I love and think about you. Wish I could see all of you, but with everything going on with PAPA, it will be awhile before I get down there..but I love you all just the same. You may be miles away in distance but you are right here in my heart.
Hugs for everyone...Sherry

Sherry Delya
Merrillville, IN USA - Saturday, September 28, 2002 at 10:06 PM (CDT)
to all of the cole family may god bless you ever day
look to god for all things you need in life god will
be there for all you have to do is ask him to help you
and he will i know some time we think god dont hear us
but he do's hear our prayers may god bless you all
james ritha jesse & annie jones cana va

james jones <iptwog@cox.net>
cana , va carroll - Saturday, September 28, 2002 at 08:19 PM (CDT)
Just a note to let your family know that we are praying for you and your situation. We know that God allows things like this to happen for a purpose. Many hard times may come your way, but we urge you to not lose sight of God and continually seek HIS guidance and have strong faith. The Lord will provide for you in your time of need. God Bless!

Levi and Marsha Hill
Jonesville, NC USA - Saturday, September 28, 2002 at 01:21 PM (CDT)
To the Coble Family,
Just a little note to let your family know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Reese is a beautiful (or should I say Very Handsome) young man. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me, it has touched my heart in a way that no other has. God Bless.

Charlene Hale <mtntopfam@yahoo.com>
Martinsville, VA USA - Saturday, September 28, 2002 at 10:54 AM (CDT)
Mr.& Mrs. Coble,
I am not able to help financially, but I know the Lord personally and I will remember Reese and you in prayer. I lost a son to suicide, God reminded me that He loaned me my son for seventeen years, but He gave His ONLY Son to die for me. And I have the promise that I will see both Gods Son and mine one day.....sooner than we think.
May God's peace be with you,now and in the future. May you always feel His arms wrapped around you.

Mary
Bassett, Va USA - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 06:55 PM (CDT)
You have a beautiful son. God has blessed you. I will pray for your family and attend the Mount Airy Benefit.
Thank you for shareing your son with my family.
God Bless.

Tena Blackburn
Ararat, VA USA - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 06:22 PM (CDT)
My prayers are with you and your child. May God be with you and your child throughout this difficult time and help you get through it.
Teresa Taylor <ttaylor@offitbank.com>
New York, NY - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
I WILL MAKE SURE I KEEP YOU ALL IN MY PRAYERS.I AM A CHRISTIAN AND I KNOW OUR GOD WILL PERFORM A MIRACLE.
TERESA COLLINS <TSTILL5335@AOL.COM>
WALKERTOWN, NC UNITED STATES - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 08:32 AM (CDT)
I had to change the email address...I couldn't receive incoming mail...
Hand to Hold <hand4reece@yahoo.com>
VA USA - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 01:02 AM (CDT)
To Little Reece's Mother...

Hey Shawn...You don't know me and I don't even know if you will ever get this message...But if you...Shew...I just don't know what to say...I can't give you the hope, I can't give you the strength, I can't give you the power to take this all away...I can only offer you my hand to hold when you are scared and think that you just can't go on another moment...When you're scared please hold my hand...Because I am scared as well...I am a mother who lost my baby girl...I have lived and dealt with so much pain...I know what you are going through...I don't have any money...I don't know any words that can ease this pain...all I have is my hand...My hand for you to hold...So, hold my hand...mother to mother...lets get down on our knees...and pray for your baby son Reece...

-A Mother Who Knows


Hand to Hold <handtohold@yahoo.com>
Va USA - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 12:23 AM (CDT)
The Cobles:
Ive read and viewed your entire site and its touching to see the strength of a couple, Ive known doug and R.D. for most of my life and still see doug from time to time at work or on his fire duty, (trey leonard is my best friend) I know everything happens for a reason but in this case you want to ask god "why does the bad stuff happen?" but its his way I guess. Im not a saint nor a devil but this is truely touching and will be to most who read.

My wifes father passed away suddenly just like dougs dad, no warning, no goodbyes, not a notice at all, and still to this day she asks why and still cries.

Stay strong you guys, Miracles happen, modern technology and drugs have come along way and little reese was sent to you from the heavens for a reason, I always say " the lord wouldnt lay it in your hands if you couldnt handle it" and I am a firm believer of that. My familes prayers are with you and yours, although a long road awaits, you are blessed and will overcome.

Good luck
Chris, Flannery, Sydney and Kaelyn Heath
Dobson, N.C.

Chris Heath <fheath1@triad.rr.com>
Dobson, N.C. U.S. - Friday, September 27, 2002 at 12:21 AM (CDT)
Mrs. Coble,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that everything goes okay for Reese. He looks like a precious little boy! We plan to attend the benefit at Veteran's Park. You should be commended for this website. This was a wonderful idea to spread the word. This just proves that a mother's love is one of the strongest in the world. I will tell my friends and family to attend this benefit and I hope that you raise a great deal of money to help your little boy.

Tina Litteral
Ararat, NC USA - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 11:00 PM (CDT)
i want you to know you are being prayed for and that with God miracles do happen.I have two children of my own and could not imagine going through the ordeal you are going through. But with God with you things will be okay.
Jonna Hendricks <jonnahendricks@hotmail.com>
Mockeville, NC USA - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 05:47 PM (CDT)
Reese and family,
I wanted to let you know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. It breaks my heart when a child is sick, and I know that you will do anything that can be done for him. One of my good friends is from Mt. Airy, and we will be visiting there the first of October. I have sent all of my E-Mail friends a note about your situation, and I like Jennifer have sent them everywhere including Germany. We love your family even though we do'nt know you, and we hope things look up for you real soon! Love ya!!!!

Pat Reed <mamawpj@chartertn.net>
Maryville, Tn. 37803 - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 02:21 PM (CDT)
Our prayers are with Reese and your family.


Lazard Family <lazard@offitbank.com>
New York, NY USA - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 01:11 PM (CDT)
Doug and Shawn,

I just received the email about Reese. I forwarded it to everyone in my address book including our church. I hope it helps!

You and your whole family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do!

Angie, David, and Melanie Johnson


Angie Thomas Johnson <angiejohnson@renfro.com>
Pilot Mountain, NC United States - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 01:06 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Reese, We have sent the request we recieved to everyone on our lists(probably over 200 ppl) -it is even on its way to Canada, Columbia, New Zealand, Africa, England, Australia & India now!!!! Many prayers will be coming your way from all corners of the globe & we asked folks to keep it going & send it to all they know. We have 3 children, one died shortly after birth & I know that we would have done whatever it would have taken to keep her here with us. We admire you & your strength & love for this little guy. We'll keep in you prayer & thought daily!
God Bless,
The Shaffers
Bill, Jen, Cassidy & Corey

Jen Shaffer <TheShaffer5@juno.com>
Maryville, TN USA - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 12:06 PM (CDT)
I recently received information on Reece through my email. He is such a cute and adorable child. Being a mother myself, I cannot imagine what your family is going through. My thoughts and prayers are w/ you.
Laura, Rick, and Chase Brintle
Mount Airy, NC - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 08:11 AM (CDT)
Our prayers are with you and your family
Ltjg Ryan and Carmen Smith <rdocksmith@tds.net>
Kingsland, GA USA - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 07:27 AM (CDT)
I also believe a miracle will happen. Just looking into his little eyes you can see that he will be OK. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I have a girl 8 and a boy 16 months old. I think you are an amazing mother. You and your family are in my prayers.
Gina Allen <ginaallen@renfro.com>
Mt.Airy, NC USA - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 07:23 AM (CDT)
I hope all the best for you and your family. I have a 2year old boy and 8 year old girl
we will pray for you and yours.
Denise Connolly

Denise Connolly
Lowgap, NC USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 09:05 PM (CDT)
May God bless you and your family, you will all be in my prayers.
Bridget Busick <bbusick@triad.rr.com>
Cana, VA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 06:52 PM (CDT)
Additional prayers and thoughts of Reese and his wonderful family are coming from Clemmons. He is adorable! God will never give you more than you can handle. Sending big hugs to you with love!
Debbie Angel
Clemmons, NC USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 05:16 PM (CDT)
I can only hope that knowing that others are loving you and praying for your entire family will lift you up as we lift you up to our God. I know He will give you the strength you need. Just be open to His love.
Janie Dockery Sloop
Laurel Fork, VA USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 03:17 PM (CDT)
Shawn , we recieved a copy of your email from a friend, being a new mother myself I just can't imagine what your going through. You have a beautiful baby boy and he is blessed to have a strong mother and father . Just wanted you to know that you are continuously in our prayers.
Tim & Jennifer Arnder <Jennifera@naxs>
Mt. Airy, NC - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 03:08 PM (CDT)
God bless you and your family. You're in our thoughts and prayers!
Alton & Ellie

Ellie Wall <misselliew@hotmail.com>
Mt. Airy, NC US - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 02:40 PM (CDT)
May God bless you little Reece & your family. You are in our prayers.
Bobby & Donna Edwards
Mt. Airy , N.C. Surry - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 02:22 PM (CDT)
Your family is in my prayers and concerns.

Cary Griffin
Kernersville, NC USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 12:44 PM (CDT)
My prayers are with you and your family!!!
Chrisie King <cking@mountairy.org>
Elkin, NC - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 12:06 PM (CDT)
My best wishes and prayers are with you. I grew up and still live just down the road and wish your family love and support.
Shannon Branch <shannonbranch@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy, NC - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 11:07 AM (CDT)
I just wanted to let you and your lovely family know that there are a few more people thinking and praying for your family!
Diane Wolfe <wolfe4@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC US - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 10:51 AM (CDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless!!

Marlene, Ricky, Katelyn and Madison Jessup <godeacs2002@yahoo.com>
Pinnacle, NC Surry - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 10:06 AM (CDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time in your lives. To Reese, and each of you as his family, we will be praying for you and listening as your prayers are answered. As you and I both know, God is always with us and will do for us what we are not capable of. God Bless each and every one of you.
Lynn, Scott and Alex Rigney <LFRigney@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC Surry - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 09:53 AM (CDT)
I WAS SO TOUCHED AFTER SEEING HIS PICTURES HE IS SO ADORABLE
I KNOW IT MUST BE HARD FOR YOU BUT HOLD ON I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD. MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!

JANICE LEACH <DIAMONDGIRL282@YAHOO.COM>
CHARLOTTE, NC MECKLANBURG - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 07:08 AM (CDT)
God Bless you and your family.... you all are in my prayers!
Lisa Tilley <tilleylisa@yahoo.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 06:27 AM (CDT)
Reese is a lucky child to have wonderful parents like you... He is also a cuttie.. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you thru this trying time.
Terrry ,Tammy, Samantha, Bobbie Jo, Faith Hudspeth (cousins) <j.p.mudd@juno.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 12:52 AM (CDT)
Reese is a lucky child to have wonderful parents like you... He is also a cuttie.. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you thru this trying time.
Terrry ,Tammy, Samantha, Bobbie Jo, Faith Hudspeth <j.p.mudd@juno.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Wednesday, September 25, 2002 at 12:51 AM (CDT)
Reese is so cute. I'm so sorry what yall are going throught. I will put yall at the top of my prayer list.Good luck, and God Bless. Beverly
Beverly Gibson <Bevbears113@AOL.com>
King, NC USA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 09:03 PM (CDT)
Doug & Shawn, I think about you all the time and Mike & I know what you are going through. I know it is hard, but just keep the faith. I love you all very much. Give Reese & Taylor a big kiss for me.
Aunt Barbara <mehardin347@charter.net>
Duluth, GA US - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 08:58 PM (CDT)
Reese is so adorable! I'm very sorry about his condition. I will pray that every thing goes good and I will keep in touch. Shawn, Please give him a big hug for me. Love, Crystal
Crystal Marie Williams <reidn@wilkes.net>
Elkin, NC USA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 05:06 PM (CDT)
Shawn and Doug, Our prayers are with you as Reece prepares for his treatments. We will be thinking of you every day.
Carter and Lynn Bryant <lynnbryant1@email.msn.com>
Mt. Airy, NC - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 04:04 PM (CDT)
Good luck!
You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hang in there!

Doug Jones <jonesd@co.surry.nc.us>
Mt Airy, NC Surry - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 03:01 PM (CDT)
My prayers are with you, Can't imagin what you are going through. God Bless You and your family.
Dorthy Hill
Cana, VA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 02:07 PM (CDT)
You'll be in my thoughts as you're going through this very hard time with your son.He's lucky to have you as his Mom as you sound wonderful. I'm sure this surgery will work for him. Keep your chin up and remember there are many who have you in their prayers. The pictures are so cute.


Deb Berning <berningdebj@aol.com>
Jenera, OH USA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 10:49 AM (CDT)
Our prayers will be with your always. When times get tough remember that God is with you always.
Landon, Ginger, Josh, Kasie, and Ashley
Wintson-Salem, NC USA - Tuesday, September 24, 2002 at 08:22 AM (CDT)
Doug and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Chris,Lana,Lauren,and Mason.

Lana Carpenter Chaney <cchaney@surry.net>
Mt. Airy, NC US - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 07:54 PM (CDT)
I wish you and your family the best. You will be in my prayers.
Daphne Martin <daphne_martin2001@yahoo.com>
Dugspur, VA USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 07:39 PM (CDT)
Shawn,
Thank you for sharing your son's and your family's journey. If you don't mind I am going to forward your email to some friends, as well, to get more people out to the benefit in October. You and your family will be in my prayer's *every* day until Reese is all better. Please don't hesitate to ask, if you ever need anything (I'm a good dog-sitter, if you ever need one). Take care....

Julie Mwaniki <jlmwnk@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 03:51 PM (CDT)
SHAWN AND DOUG AND BOYS. WE LIVE OUT THE ROAD FROM YOU AND WE HAVE KNOWN PHYLLIS, RD, MIKE AND DOUG FOR YEARS. WE HAVE A ONE YEAR GRANDSON AND I CAN'T IMAGINE HAVING TO GO THROUGH THIS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DAILY AND IF YOU NEED ANYTHING AT ALL PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CALL US. JUST REMEMBER THAT GOD DOESN'T GIVE US MORE THAN HE KNOWS WE CAN HANDLE. BE STRONG IN YOUR FAITH. OUR LOVE IS WITH YOU ALL.
GREG AND KAYE JOYCE <kayej09@yahoo.com>
MOUNT AIRY, NC USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 12:30 PM (CDT)
Shawn,
We've never met but I was friends with Doug in high school - (we use to call him "Dougy"). I am so saddened and shocked to hear that your child has developed this incurable disease. Not only do we think "it won't happen to us" we also tend to think that it won't happen to anyone we know either, which makes this so shocking for me.
It is wonderful that you are such a strong and optimistic mother and that your families are so close and supportive. I just wanted to let you know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. I plan to attend the benefit being held at Veterans Park and I will pass the word on so that many others may help by attending/donating also. Lynn Puckett is a great lady and her contribution to this benefit is wonderful. Keep your strong faith in God and may he bless your family.

Lori (Woodruff) Hooker (tar-baby) <lwhooker@yahoo.com>
Lowgap, NC USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 09:41 AM (CDT)
You are in our prayers.
Daniel, Stephanie, Mason, and Cassie Nifong <dsmnifong@msn.com>
Winston Salem , NC USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 09:17 AM (CDT)
What a beautiful baby boy! A friend of mine sent me an e-mail that you sent out. I will definitely be praying for your precious family. If God is before me, who can be against me.
Melanie <catemakes3@hotmail.com>
High Point, NC US - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 08:54 AM (CDT)
Shawn,Doug,Taylor,& Reese,
Our thought & prayers are with you. If we can ever do anything, you know we're just a phone call away. Please don't hesitate to ask!!! We love you!
Frankie, Sarah, Reid, Garrett, & Jessica

Frankie & Sarah Vernon <rfvernon@rjia.net , SKVernon@PIKE.Com>
Mt. Airy, NC Surry - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 08:47 AM (CDT)
Shawn,

May God bless you all and keep you safe in this time of need. There are reasons for things being the way they are--we're just not allowed to know why. All we can do is pray to a God of our understanding and ask for guidance and support. I will keep you all in my prayers going forward. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask..

Raymond Grogan <rgrogan@northstate.net>
High Point, NC Guilford - Sunday, September 22, 2002 at 11:34 AM (CDT)
I was saddened to learn of the difficult situation you and your family are going through. Keep faith because God is walking with you at all times. I will not be able to attend any of the fund raising events but will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and your family.
Daniel Boyles <dvboyles@yahoo.com>
Okinawa, Japan - Saturday, September 21, 2002 at 10:52 PM (CDT)
Shawn & Family,
We serve a truly awesome God who knows what you are going through. I can't say I know how you feel but our God knows and he will be with each of you through this. Reese is a blessing from God and he gave him two special parents and brother to love him. I will be praying for you all and I will share this with my church, ladies Bible study and friends. You have alot of people praying for you and PRAYER DOES CHANGE THINGS, GOD IS IN CONTROL. Just lean on him and he will lead you all the way.

Bonnie Fulk <beaniebud@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA - Friday, September 20, 2002 at 02:46 PM (CDT)
You constantly amaze me Shawn; Reese is so blessed to have you to watch over him. Hang in there, it will work out!
Carolyn Fodel
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 07:54 AM (CDT)
We are praying that the God of all comfort will comfort all of you--2 Corinthians 1: 3-4. We love you all!!!
Dennis & Beverly Barnette <dbarnette@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 03:14 PM (CDT)
I will try to keep up to date on Reese's medical treatments and progress. Then pass the news on.

Love, Aunt Lea

Lelia Files <bfiles@cox.net>
Andover, KS US - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 01:07 PM (CDT)
We are praying that everything is going well, and you are in our prayers everyday! Reggie, Bobbie, Kim + David, and Shaun.
Bobbie D. Davis <botdavis@hotmail.com>
Dobson, NC USA - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 02:40 PM (CDT)
FATHER I THANK YOU FOR THE BLOOD OF JESUS THAT COVERS DOUG, SHAWN, TAYLOR AND "REECE". BY HIS STRIPS REECE IS HEALED IN JESUS NAME.
BOBBY & JANICE HAUSER <bjhauser@surry.net>
MT AIRY, NC SURRY - Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 09:55 AM (CDT)
Reece will be in our thoughts and prayers. Also, please know that you and Doug are also in our thoughts and prayers through this trying time. Please let us know if we can do ANYTHING to help. Love yall Sarah and Susie Q
Sarah Quesinberry Tate <state@psk1.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Monday, September 09, 2002 at 12:24 PM (CDT)
God said "We can do all things though Christ who helps us" So dont lose hope,God has things under control.
Hannah H.
NC - Friday, September 06, 2002 at 08:42 PM (CDT)
SHAWN AND DOUG -
YOU ARE ALL IN OUR PRAYERS.

JIM AND LILNETTE AND FAMILY
- Saturday, August 31, 2002 at 10:18 AM (CDT)
Sorry to hear about the setback, but like you said,better than menigitis.I love all of you and say a prayer everyday.
Stay strong, we are here for you if you need us.
Love, Sherry

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 09:45 PM (CDT)
Shawn,you are in my daily prayers.I will have my church praying for your entire family. Love & prayers ,Dianne Messick
Dianne Messick
Winston-Ssalem,, NC USA - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 06:07 PM (CDT)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Denise, Booker, Alicia, Tiffany, and Joshua <denisebooker@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 09:46 AM (CDT)
Our prayers are with you!!!

Paul, Bonnie, Chris and Jackie

Bonnie Gulotta
Ellicott City, MD Howard - Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 08:08 AM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Phyllis, Taylor and our precious reese.
Our thoughts are always with you, as you know, we had a close call with Ian, we kown the feeling of being helpless. You can only keep faith, that with God, things will work out.

Ed Biernacki <andrew10@flash.net>
- Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 06:30 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Phyllis, Taylor and our precious reese.
Our thoughts are always with you, as you know, we had a close call with Ian, we kown the feeling of being helpless. You can only keep faith, that with God, things will work out.

Ed Biernacki <andrew10@flash.net>
- Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 06:29 PM (CDT)
Hi Shawn. I hope you all are hanging in there. I remember so well when Jack had to be tested as a potential donor for Edie. He was only 3 and had to have blood drawn twice. I was in a wierd way (for several reasons) happy to hear that he was not a match.
I was looking through some of your other entries and noticed a Mckeithan. My maiden name is McKeithen (with an e) and as I mentioned my mother's father was from Mt Airy. Many odd connections we have!
For those reading this, my daughter too has Hurlers. She is the light of our lives and has been my spiritual guide and a teacher of life's most important lessons over the last 3 years. Get to know this child, Reese. He is sure to capture your heart and ultimately make your life richer.
God bless all those who are with you and your family.

Laura Burke <tljee@aol>
Asheville, NC - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 01:51 PM (CDT)
Shawn and Family,

I received a note the other day from my friend Toni(your sister) whom I used to work with, and I must say it certainly did touch me. Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our family's prayers. Remember God blesses Little People with Amazing Gifts.

Lynn Simms <landjsimms@aol.com>
Baltimore, MD USA - Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 12:08 PM (CDT)
Hi Shawn, I am writing to you to offer my love and prayers to you and your family. I know that God has a plan for Reese and will use him in a mighty powerful way. Keep strong as it says in Phil 4:13. Praise God for Reese.
Love Sabrina McKeithan.

Sabrina McKeithan <sabrinamckeithan@hotmail.com>
Stuart, VA USA - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 04:07 PM (CDT)
SHAWN HEY THIS IS WENDI JUST WANTED TO SAY HELLO AND THAT OUR PRAYS ARE WITH YOU . TELL REESECUP CLAY SAID HEY . SEE YA SOON. THE BOHLINGERS....
WENDI BOHLINGER
WALKERTOWN, NC - Monday, August 26, 2002 at 09:41 AM (CDT)
Your son is precious. He is an angel sent to show us all how to truly Love. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is normal to laugh, it is normal to cry, to be angry, to be scared, but the most healing of all....is simpy to Love.
Danielle Matrow <dmatrow@yahoo.com>
Wethersfield, CT USA - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 11:00 AM (CDT)
While everyone is in my thoughts, this is especially for my sister, Shawn. Just as I cannot imagine what you are going through right now, you cannot imagine the love, respect, and pride I have for you. From the minute you had Taylor, I was instantly amazed at how great a mother you are. I still remember that first night after he was born when we realized that you had just changed both of our lives forever!! I will try my best to do ANYTHING you need from me right now so please don't hesitate to ask, even if you think it's too much, I need you to ask. I can only assume what you need from me, but only you know. Not a lot of people know this, but with the trouble Andy and I have had in conceiving a child of our own, you offered to carry our child for us. How can you ever repay someone who is willing to do that for you? Amzed me again! And now, to be faced with the physical, financial, and emotional challenges that lay ahead, I know that you will amaze me once again. I love you! Your Sissy

Toni Stedman <toni.stedman@verizon.net>
Washington, DC - Saturday, August 24, 2002 at 03:23 AM (CDT)
I can't even begin to imagine what your family feels at this moment. As someone who God instantly healed from severe allergies after 19 years of pills and shots couldn't do it and someone who has had to walk out my healing of rheumatoid arthritis for the last five years, I do know what it feels like to be in a battle. Why some healings take place instantly and others require a journey, I don't know. One thing that I am sure of is the Love of our God, His promises and His will for our lives. The toughest test we will ever take, is the test of faith. To believe and stand on the promises of God and not to be moved by our situations is the choice that we must make. Candy and I pray for your entire family daily and we expect nothing less than the manifested healing power of our Lord !
Psalm 91:2 "He is my refuge and my fortress, My God, in Him I will trust."
Phil. 4:6 - 7 "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God, and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."
Matt 11: 28 "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, I will give you rest"
Isaiah 53:5 "And by His stripes we are healed"
Mark 11:24 "Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them"
II Cor. 5:7 "For we walk by faith, not by sight."

As you continue to grow in faith and the peace of God gives you rest, know that "The Fountain" loves you.

Kevin & Candy Cruise <kcruise@triad.rr.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 11:40 PM (CDT)
Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Glad everything went well today with the surgery. It's only going to get better.
Ava sends her love.

katherine foster <hiriver@msn.com>
winston-salem, nc usa - Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 02:58 PM (CDT)
hi, I go to the fountain and my deepest thoughts and prayers are with your family just remember there are alot of people that love you. I do, the fountain, and most imporatantly God almighty.
Blake Tickle <btickle@gaggle.net>
pilot mtn., NC United states of America - Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 02:46 PM (CDT)
God bless you and your family. I will remember your family in my prayers.
Frances Campbell
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 07:46 AM (CDT)
Doug, Shawn, Tator Tot, and Reesecup, Hey you guys just wanted to let you know you have all of the prayers for the Stevens home. If you need anything you know how to reach me. Be careful and God Bless
Luke

Luke Stevens <bvfd7510@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC 27030 - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 04:00 PM (CDT)
Hey Shawn, Thought I'd check on you guys again. God is in control. You and your husband (and family) just try to keep the faith. Children are God's angels. Call me if you need ANYTHING - ANYTIME. My number @ home is 325-2601. Take care, and kiss Reese for me.
Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 05:40 AM (CDT)
Hey Shawn, Thought I'd check on you guys again. God is in control. You and your husband (and family) just try to keep the faith. Children are God's angels. Call me if you need ANYTHING - ANYTIME. My number @ home is 325-2601. Take care, and kiss Reese for me.
Barbara Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 05:37 AM (CDT)
Shawn & Doug,

You and your children are such a blessing to us all at the Fountain. We are so touched by your testimony and love. We are all in this battle together.

Your fight for Reese's healing is our fight. And, it is bringing our church together in such a tender way. The enemy has intended this battle to destroy you wonderful folks, but God is using this fight to demonstrate His power over the enemy and his schemes. Furthermore, God is stretching the faith of us all and allowing us to mature in genuine love in the midst of this battle.

Reese is such an easy child to love. So is Taylor.

God Bless Your Family,

Terrell & Kelly Stephens <terrellstephens@earthlink.net>
Mt Airy, NC USA - Sunday, August 18, 2002 at 06:04 PM (CDT)
Hay Reese Cup and family,
We have been praying for you and your family. And don't forget that in God We Trust. See you all at church.

Cindy, Cam, and Cyle Jessup <c4christ4e@yahoo.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Sunday, August 18, 2002 at 12:29 PM (CDT)
Hey Doug,Shawn,Tater Tot,and of course,Reese Cup,
Just wanted you all to know that I think and pray for you every day. If you ever need anything, please let me know.
I love all of you and hope to see you soon.
I love your website, and check it ALOT for updates!!
Take care everyone and God be with you all.
Love, Sherry

Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Sunday, August 18, 2002 at 11:53 AM (CDT)
Thinking about the Cobles tonight and just wanted to let you know that our prayers are with you. In Jeremiah 29:11 the last part of the verse tells us that God has a future and a hope for each of us. Bless you!

Dennis & Beverly

Dennis Barnette
Mount Airy, NC USA - Saturday, August 17, 2002 at 08:51 PM (CDT)
hey reese and taylor,
we have been praying and thinking God that u both are doing well. we hope that everything gos awsome in the future and may GOD bless u both so so much luv u bunches,
see u at church Amelia and Hannah

Amelia Sawyers and Hannah Santucci <ailema_monkey2005@yahoo.com>
M.t Airy, N.C USA - Saturday, August 17, 2002 at 08:31 PM (CDT)
Taylor,
I am praying for you and your brother. I missed being in Children's Church Sunday. I took Adam to college. I will be so happy to see you tomorrow. Remember: Ms. Teah loves you and so does Jesus. He is so good.
Love, Ms. Teah

La'Teah Santucci <Bartsan@surry.net>
1238 Flippin Road, Mt. Airy,, NC USA - Saturday, August 17, 2002 at 02:56 PM (CDT)
Doug, Shawn, Taylor, and Reese,
Our prayers are with you. Your family is in our thoughts constantly. If you need anything at all please let us know. God Bless!

Jimmy, Rhonda, & Zachary Ashburn <jashburn@mountairy.org>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Friday, August 16, 2002 at 01:33 PM (CDT)
Dear Shawn, Doug, Taylor and Reese,

I took the time today to look up the name Reese and what it means. Reese has a Welsh origin and the inherent meaning of his name is ENTHUSIASTIC the Spiritual connotation is DEDICATED. I was blessed to be there at the dedication of this precious child and witness how so many lives were touched by the testimony of faith that accompanied his birth. Each opportunity I have to hold Reese and pray for him excites me. Faced with the difficulty infertility I understand the awesome miracle associated with giving birth to such a precious child. I am enthusiastic in my praying for Reese and his family making mention of him often in my prayers. I encourage each person that reads these words to do the same and continue to pray the prayer of faith for the supernatural healing for this child. To God be all the Golry forever.

Isiah 58:8-9 "Then your light shall break forth like the morning, Your healing shall spring forth speedily, And your righteousness shall go before you; The glory of the Lord shall be your rear guard. Than you shall call, and the Lord will answer; You shall cry and He will say, "Here I am.""

We love you all and continue to pray.
Darin, Angie and Jonathan Moser

The Moser Family <alm@triad.rr.com>
Mt. Airy, NC USA - Friday, August 16, 2002 at 10:34 AM (CDT)
Doug, Shawn, Taylor and Reese Cup,
We think about you constantly. I pray for you every day. Keep your mind focused on God. We all are His children and He takes care of us. May the peace of God be with all of you. We love you.

Michael, Tracy and Hannah <tnlilly@triad.rr.com>
Winston Salem, NC USA - Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 08:25 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & precious Reese,

Perfect presents do not always come in perfect packages. Hunter would love to have Taylor come his house any time. They could play and play. He has a big double bed they could sleep in. I would be happy to help any way I can. I think of you often and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Linda C. Johnson (Hunter's mommy) <hogbillies@hotmail.com>
Lewisville, NC - Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 08:15 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Taylor and especially Resse
It's all in God's hands. Keep believing in Him, stay strong ... as mircles do happen.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

A Spiritual Thought coming from Ephesians 4:20 ... Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us.

Prayer changes things.

Claressa <cressie2@hotmail.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 03:10 PM (CDT)
May God bless Reece, yourself, and your entire family during these difficult times. My prayers will be with you.
Renee Goin <Renee.Goin@Wachovia.com>
Westfield, NC Stokes - Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 01:52 PM (CDT)
Hey Shawn, Doug, Taylor, and Reece

Our prayers are with you. God takes care of HIS own. Good luck...in everything.

Barbara S. Tilley <Barbara.Tilley@wachovia.com>
Pinnacle, NC USA - Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 01:30 AM (CDT)
Prayers are with you.
Kathy Wells <nittanyskins@yahoo.com>
Glen Burnie, MD USA - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 06:12 PM (CDT)
Doug, we were not fully aware of the severity of the illness with your son. We were told recently, and your family has been in our thoughts constantly. We would like to offer our thoughts and prayers to Reese and the rest of your family. We hope and pray that the Lord will extend his healing hand upon reese. If you need anything at all, please do not hesitate to ask.


Love and prayers,
Jimmy, Laura, and Brooke Meadows

Jimmy L. Meadows <JimmyMeadows@msn.com>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 03:11 PM (CDT)
Reese Jesus loves you this I know, How I know for the Bible tells me so, little one who's here below, they are weak but he is strong, Yes Jesus love you , Yes Jesus love...for the bible tells me so!!! My payers are with you and your Family.
Debra Jones
Clinton, MD Prince Georges - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 01:50 PM (CDT)
Shawn and family, I feel privledged to be part of your family's life.Through your email updates that you have sent out since Reese was just the size of a pea in your womb to this wonderful website, you have opened up your heart and home to us. You, Doug & the boys are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Joyce Tadlock <jtad4@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC 27284 - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 11:26 AM (CDT)
Doug and Shawn,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.


Chris and Alicia Fallaw <cfallaw@mountairy.org>
Mt. Airy , N.C. - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 10:07 AM (CDT)
Doug and Shawn (Me)
We appreciate this opportunity to be able to keep up with your family. I am one that does not like to keep asking how things are going because I know it can be very tiring to keep answering the same questions. I think this is a wonderful idea. I would like to say something that helps me through tough times. God has promised each of us that he would never allow us to have more placed on us than we are able to bear. I know he will be watching over everyone involved in this process and he has also promised us that there is good in every situation. If there is anything Sandra and I can ever do please let us know. I know God will truly bless you through Reese.

Benny and Sandra Brannock <bbrannock@mountairy.org>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 08:29 AM (CDT)
DOUG,SHAWN,TAYLOR AND MASTER REESE
GOD SHOWS HIS LOVE IN MANY WAYS KEEP UP THE PRAYERS AND LOVE,AS WE WILL DO THE SAME HERE WE LOVE YOU ALL.

DARRELL,MARY,TARAN AND HUNTER DANLEY <firedawg331@firefighting.net>
MT.AIRY, NC USA - Monday, August 12, 2002 at 08:14 PM (CDT)
God Bless You.. Hope and I will be praying for you.
Danny and Hope Lineberry <dlmedic@surry.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Monday, August 12, 2002 at 07:12 PM (CDT)
Great web site Shawn and Doug. We will check it often for updates. You are constantly in our thoughts.

Lisa Shu <unishipper@earthlink.net>
Clemmons, NC Forsyth - Monday, August 12, 2002 at 09:55 AM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Taylor & Reese, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. God, our family and your friends are beside you all the way. I wish we lived closer so we could be with you. Call us anytime and we will be there for you. The website was a wonderful idea. Take care and we love you.
Lynne & Joe <presmonkey@aol.com>
Virginia Beach, Va - Monday, August 12, 2002 at 04:55 AM (CDT)
WE LOVE ALL OF YOU, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALWAYS......LOVE, BOBBY,SHERRY AND JEFFREY
Sherry Delya <imsher1011@aol.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 10:32 AM (CDT)
My prayers are with each of you. God can see you through it all.

Love Grandma Yountz

Norma Yountz <NYounz@aol.com>
Winston-Salen, NC USA - Saturday, August 10, 2002 at 06:46 PM (CDT)
Opps! I entered the wrong name before, the grandmother's name instead of Reese's. This is a repeat message for Reese and I'm making a slight change. Although, I know it's rough on Reese and the whole family, keep praying and asking God for help. When I came into the world 62 years ago I was told I was "a touch and go" baby. However, with the prayers of my family, their friends and even strangers I made it through. However, 1 year later I was told I developed pneumonia (maybe misspelled) before the days when penicillin was in the research stage and open market. Due to all of my sisters, brothers, other family and friends keeping a constant vigil on me, and their prayers, I eventually pulled through during the days when sulfur drugs were the treatment.

And as you know, modern medicine helps and the prayers, well wishes of people many people also plays a major role in healiing. Mine are added and my guess you'll receive many more.

Julie E. Kallio <Eviekal@att.net>
Spring Lake Park, MN Anoka - Saturday, August 10, 2002 at 05:08 PM (CDT)
We are praying for you baby grandson!!! Here is a poem a friend of ours wrote just for you!! We love you & big brother Taylor!! We know he's really taking good care of you along with Mommy & Daddy. God bless you and your family.. God could not have put you in a better family to love and care for you.

Our littlest Angel

God sends a little angel
to give our hearts a smile
sparkling eyes and upturned lips
and coos every once in awhile

But sometimes little angels
need extra special care
Apparently God is testing
to see what we can bear

But we will share what'ere will be
Our angel will have the best
And listen closely as we say
We'll truly pass your test
By: Mr.Doug (mrdougfred@msn.com)

Grampie Chris & Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com >
Newburgh, Maine U.S.A. - Saturday, August 10, 2002 at 03:17 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Taylor, and baby Reesiecup--Our prayers are with you all. God will be your pillar af strength so just lean on Him. If ever there is anything at all [great or small] either of us can do, do not hesitate to ask. We love you all. Ma Jeanne, Pa Bill and uncle Louie
Martha, Bill, and Lewis Cassell <marthacassell@hotmail.com>
White Plains, NC 27031 - Saturday, August 10, 2002 at 01:55 PM (CDT)
Hi Resse,

I'm prayiing that one day when you're old enough to read you won't have to depend upon your parents, Grandparents, etc. to read this to you. Instead you'll read it yourself. Tomorrow at the church I attend we always have a time for people to say whom we'd like prayers for during the week. I, will ask for prayers for you, Reese.

May God move you into speedy healing!

Julie Kallio in Minnesota

Julie Kallio
Spring Lake Park, MN Anoka - Saturday, August 10, 2002 at 11:48 AM (CDT)
May God give you the courage and strengh to overcome this disease, to give Reese the best care available so he can have a wonderful aand long life with his family. God Bless each and every person in Reese's life.
Peggy Davis <Peg2911@AOL.com>
Coumbus, Oh - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 08:59 PM (CDT)
Hello, God bless your little one. He is in our prayers each day. Your website is so thoughtful and wonderful. Other's who may need to relate can view this and know what you are going through. Ones who love and care can check your website for additional information without feeling like they are bothering you again with another phone call. However, you seem to be ones who probably don't mind the phone ringing from all those who care. Angels come in all shapes and sizes. I am sure you will be seeing many more angels and mysterious things while you go through all of this. God Bless - Eloise
Lady of America Fitness Center
www.cardiomoves.com

Eloise Nayder <ladyofamerica@cardiomoves.com>
Frankfort, Il USA - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 07:52 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug, Reese, and Taylor. You will be in my thoughts and prayers always. If there is anything me or my family could be able to do for you, do not hesitate to call. Love you all.
Benji Faw <bsfawffemt@hotmail.com>
Mount Airy , NC USA - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 04:40 PM (CDT)
Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. And remember miracles happen every day.
Liz Bechard
Winston Salem, NC USA - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 01:10 PM (CDT)
Shawn,

You are indeed a very special woman to be able to find so much good in what some people would consider an unfortunate situation. Your view of God's gift is inspirational to me, and undoubtedly, countless others who have the opportunity to share in Reese's story.
Thank you for the words you shared.

Jeff Johnson <jjohns20@lanier.com>
Greensboro, N.C. Guilford - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 01:09 PM (CDT)
Shawn, Doug and Taylor, My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God keep you in his loving care and give you strength during your time of need.
Love,

Phyllis Moses <pmoses1@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC Davidson - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 11:20 AM (CDT)
SHAWN,
I COMMEND YOU ON CREATING THIS INCOURAGING AND WONDERFUL WEB PAGE FOR YOUR SON. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY EVERYDAY.

LOVE CHRISTINA AND FAMILY!!

CCovington <ccovington@hanley-wood.com>
WASHINGTON, DC 20020 - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 08:27 AM (CDT)
Thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If there is any way I can be of help please do not hesitate to call.
Teresa Myers <mye@bellsouth.net >
Winston-Salem, NC - Friday, August 09, 2002 at 07:59 AM (CDT)
Shawn,

Please know that I am praying for you and your family. I am sure miracles do happen and there is a special one waiting for Reese.

Renee Humphrey
- Friday, August 09, 2002 at 07:58 AM (CDT)
I would like to extend my well wishes to my youngest nephew and his family.
Andy Stedman <andrew.stedman@verizon.net>
Washington, DC USA - Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 11:05 AM (CDT)
Hey , Yes! Jesus loves you The Bible tells you so.
God Bless You,
Uncle Ken

Ken Baker <ken_bak@msn.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 10:33 PM (CDT)
our hopes and prayers are with you. we love you.
steve everett <rock7829@hotmail.com>
mount airy, nc united states - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 02:51 PM (CDT)
You know I can sympathize with you since we lost our precious 22 month old granddaughter to liver cancer- it's hard going through all of the medical things, particularly in a situation that is so rare, as it was with Kelly. Just remember-no matter what you or your family go through, God is right there with you and will provide you strength, particularly through the prayers of those who love you. Reese is a very blessed child to have such a loving family.
Claire Cook <claire.cook@wachovia.com>
- Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 10:02 AM (CDT)
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Nothing can hurt like the illness of a child, but nothing can bring more people together in prayer and loving kindnesses than the illness of a child. My God Bless YOU and all those who partake of the richness in helping others.
Lois Miller
- Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 08:24 AM (CDT)
I pray for Reese everyday.
Angela Mitkish <angie.mitkish@wachovia.com>
Kernersville, NC - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 08:08 AM (CDT)
Each day my thoughts and prayers are with you. We will continue to believe that God is a healing God and that He will provide the best in life for Reese and that He is our comforter in this our time of need.
Stefan Williams <Stefan.Williams@Wachovia.com>
- Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 07:57 AM (CDT)
We love you and have you in our prayers!!!
Michael and Donese Stultz <mnsnc01@hotmail.com>
Walnut Cove, NC Stokes - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 07:34 AM (CDT)
Reese and his family are a testament to unconditional love. May God continue to bless.
Jamie Deal
Lexington, NC USA - Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 07:34 AM (CDT)
DEAR SHAWN AND DOUG...THIS IS SUCH A WONDERFUL SITE TO BE ABLE TO VISIT AND KEEP UP WITH REESE'S PROGRESS AND CARE...I WILL VISIT IF OFTEN... MY PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU...LOVE LINDA SAPP
LINDA SAPP <AIRLINDA@TRIAD.RR.COM>
WINSTON-SALEM, NC USA - Tuesday, August 06, 2002 at 11:12 PM (CDT)
Hello to all, I am Julia Hill, Reese and Taylor's Nana. (Shawn's mom) I want to thank in advance all our friends and family for all the support and love you have shared from day one. We all love our little Reesiecup so much and it is a heart wrenching thing to look into his beautiful, big brown eyes and know that he is in for such a long, hard, at times, painful journey. But knowing that you are all here for him, praying for him and us, does make this journey more bearable. We have to focus on the journey, not the prognosis. Everyday we will work, read, listen, learn all we can to do whatever we can to make Reese happy and to help him have as normal as possible baby's life. We will work through the hardships, together, and triumph over any adversaties. We will believe in miracles and expect nothing less for our precious angel.
Taylor is being a real Tropper and I hope we all remember to include him in our prayers because as hard as this is for us who can at least partially understand the medical jargon it has to be a tremendous burden on that little "Big Brother". He loves his Reesiecup and I know will try to be a big help but, after all he is only 4 and as hard as he trys to be a "big boy", and "I can do it myself" kindof kid, he is still a little kid with little kid ideas and little kid mischief to get into! Say a prayer for him and tonight when you look in on your babies sleeping in their beds, safe and healthy, thank God, twice and then ask God to keep our sweet Reese in His gentle hands while he faces these tough days ahead.

Julia K. Hill <nannajulia@aol.com>
Clemmons, NC USA - Tuesday, August 06, 2002 at 05:11 PM (CDT)

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