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For some reason I just had Brandon on my mind today. I hope you enjoyed the graduation. He is and always will be a part of our Porter Ridge family....Just think.....you are ONE day closer today than you were yesterday!
Love to all of you ! Love seeing Brooke's smiling face in the halls! Hope your summer is full of good things!
Shirley Bennett <nanabenntofive@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, June 28, 2009 6:01 PM CDT

Hello!! Thinking about you!! We hope the run at Mill Grove was terrific. That is a wonderful, loving church - please send my love.

Always in my thoughts - tons of love!! xxxxxxx
Chantelle Buchanan
Faringdon, UK - Monday, June 22, 2009 3:16 PM CDT

Always thinking of you......
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Monday, June 15, 2009 9:59 AM CDT

Anita,
I have been wanting to talk to you, but I have the wrong number for you programed into my phone. Please email me. I always think of Brandon and his sweet smile. It's hard to believe all of the time that has passed, but I'm sure for you, as for me it seems like this just happened yesterday.
We were blessed to have such beautiful children, if only for a short while. I will never understand this purpose or this plan. I've quit trying. Now I am trying to accept life without my only daughter as you are without your only son, not that if there were more of them that it would make the pain any less. I always think about your family and I pray for strength, not only for myself and for my family, but for all of those wonderful families that I have met and the ones that I have not met who have lost such a special gift.

Always Thinking of Brandon,

KIm

kalensweetmiracles.org

caringbridge.org/visit/kalenfrizzell
Kim Frizzell <kimfrizzell@mac.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, June 8, 2009 8:42 AM CDT

I am checking your site every day to see how Richard is doing I am elizabeth kleinert and play bridge with her.
elizabeth Kleinert <ekleinert@roadrunner.com>
Trevett, ME USA - Saturday, May 30, 2009 11:05 AM CDT

hello sweetpeas~just thinking of our boys tonight and missing them BOTH so bad!! With Dakota's Day on the lake coming up I have tons to be happy about however that has seemed to be dimed by the fact of what our boys should now be doing...grauation. I love you all very much and your in my thoughts as much as I think about my own life or lack of it for now :(
Anita you & I both SUCK st updates...my "goal" is 2010 tee hee!!! LOVE YA GAL!!
love lannette~The FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota :)
lannette conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.org/sc/dakota, - Thursday, May 28, 2009 4:45 AM CDT

Hi!! Just a quick note from the other side of the pond. I am thinking about you all and hope there are lots of smiles on your faces. I love you!! Brooke, Freshman year is almost over - great job!! Tell Jordan and the Hometown Heroes hello from me . Miss you and love you!!

He he!!!!!! I get to sign with a different name this time!!!!!! :-)
Chantelle Buchanan <chantelleart@aol.com>
Faringdon, OX UK - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 3:48 PM CDT

Whoops make a mistake, just a short note to let you all know I was thinking about you and missing you. Haven't seen you in awhile so I'm sending you some hugs and kisses. Go Brooke run girl,run!!! You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
I love reading your letters to Brandon, he smiles that beautiful smile and watches us all from above.
Love you all so much.
Leslie Bost <lesbost@windstream.net>
Waxhaw, NC USA - Monday, May 18, 2009 4:47 PM CDT

Loving you all:)
Leslie Bost <lesbost@windstream.net>
Waxhaw, nc usa - Monday, May 18, 2009 4:40 PM CDT

Hi Elam Family!

Sorry it has been so long since I have written, but I want you guys to know I think about you and Brandon all the time. I continue to pray for your peace. I thought of you all on Brandon's birthday this year. I pray that 2009 will bring you some joy!

Leslie Southerland <lessouth@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, May 12, 2009 11:38 AM CDT

Had a couple of dreams last night with Brandon in them. He seemed so close and so real. We continue to miss him here at the Ridge!
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Thursday, May 7, 2009 12:49 AM CDT

TO JOHN HICKS AND FAMILY, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU NOW AND IN THE DAYS AHEAD AS YOU RECOVER. WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.
NITA MC GARRY JORDAN FRANKLIN COUNTY HOSPITAL <nita@fcmh.net>
MEADVILLE, MS USA - Wednesday, May 6, 2009 3:16 PM CDT

Just checking in. Very glad to hear you are making slow progress......baby steps. But a few days of progress in a row is significant. Wow, you really get a lot of cards and letters through Caring Bridge, I sure can't figure out why..... It took me a while but I did get thru via the CBridge route. I guess I'm not stupid, just a little slow.
Rain, rain, rain, I can't even cut the grass, isn't that a shame. As they say May showers bring June flowers!!! Do I have that right? With all this precip maybe our creek will begin flowing again. It has been as dry as a bone for some time now.
Last week my wifey and I set up at the Centre Park Flea Market in Reading and did well, it only sprinkled on us a couple of times. This week we are off to Governor Mifflin for the first of five engagements with them. The weatherman is calling for showers but maybe we'll get lucky.
We are really glad to hear you are progressing. Didn't know you were taking visitors yet. And what is it with this new hair style?? Franny and I may have to drop in and see for ourselves. Chin up, keep getting stronger and all that, and say hello to your devoted wife.
Love, Franny & Vince
vince cronan <mantini@enter.net>
laureldale, pa usa - Tuesday, May 5, 2009 12:03 AM CDT

Good Morning Chris, just checking in to see how your progress is going. It's going to be a hot one today and I have to tackle the grass. I've been putting it off so I can get on a Tuesday schedule. We'll start going to the shore monthly and we return on Tuesdays in time for the grass cutting thing. I'm sure Barbara is still close by your side, residing in Fox Chase..... Any more procedures lately or is just now recuperation and therapy time?? Watched the Phillies pull one out last night, didn't think they had a chance as things were going. OK, we'll see if this one gets through??? In the meantime, keep plugging and we look forward to getting together when you are up to it. Vince and Franny
vince cronan
laureldale, pa usa - Tuesday, April 28, 2009 6:50 AM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke,

Just thinking of you guys. Now that I work for mom and dad I'm just down the road from Brandon, somedays I just go and sit on his bench and have lunch with him :). I miss you all so much, don't be suprised if I just pop in the neighborhood one of these days.
You all are always in my prayers

Jennifer Tisdell Gaddy <JTisdell23@aol.com>
Monroe, NC - Monday, April 27, 2009 9:41 AM CDT

Hi Elams, Keeping you in our prayers!!
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, - Saturday, April 25, 2009 3:58 AM CDT

i love u
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 15, 2009 7:18 PM CDT

happy easter =] i love u
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 12, 2009 8:35 AM CDT

Hey Anita--
Thought about you all and Brandon this afternoon. We were not too far from Porter Ridge for Morgan's soccer game today. Looking forward to seeing you on Tuesday!
Love,
Tricia
^Jenna's^ mom www.caringbridge.org/sc/jennawit
Tricia Witherspoon
Fort Mill, SC - Sunday, April 5, 2009 6:46 PM CDT

Elam Family;
You seize to amaze me in the strength you have. I love al of you very very much!!! And no matter what I know Brandon will always be here with us telling us to "Keep on keeping on." (:

Brandon;
Wow!!!! its been 18 months babyy, a full 18. I can't lie to you, the party we had for your birthday was great (: I miss you more and more everyday! I love you so so sooo very much babe! I coach U-5 soccer, as you know, I bet you were there last week when that fly ball came and hit me from the "Coach-Pitch" field. I bet that was your fault! haha. Trying to break my nose again??? d: Your my life baby, and even though its raining I will be there to see you todayy!! I love you more and more every second of every minute of every hour of every day babyboyyy... (well MAN! your 18!!!)

I love you all <3
Kendall Love <Kendall.love14@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC US - Thursday, April 2, 2009 9:55 AM CDT

I know what it feels like to lose a child to cancer. My daughter Leah Lee was 17years old. I know in my heart that Leah and Brandon are finally free of a horrible disease. I also know that one day both our familys will be reunitied with our loved ones. God Bless you and your family.
Wendy McCullough <St.JudeLover@yahoo.com>
Gaffney, SC USA - Sunday, March 22, 2009 7:37 PM CDT

Hello Elams, I know I am a few days late for Brandons Birthday, but I have been thinking about you guys.

Scott and Anita, I wanted to let you know that it has been a pleasure having Brooke in class this semester. She is always smiling, laughing, and doing something goofy!!!! Watching her always makes me laugh! Especially when she was the only one standing and dancing to "Ain't no Mountain High Enough" at one of the basketball games! LOL!

Brandon, happy b-day, we miss you!
Love, Catie Helms =)
Catie Helms <catie.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Monroe, NC - Friday, March 20, 2009 9:49 AM CDT

Happy Birthday, Brandon!!! It's approaching one of your favorite times of the year, the beginning of baseball season!!! You would be so proud of your Mom, Dad and Brooke because they are sponsoring a T-Ball team in your honor. Every time those little guys take the field, I quietly ask you to whisper a few pointers to them. You make a perfect role model for them. You are greatly missed but never forgotten.
Dan and Mary Ann <maryasne@aol.com>
Mint Hill, NC USA - Thursday, March 19, 2009 3:30 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!!! Porter Ridge misses you so much!!
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Thursday, March 19, 2009 6:32 AM CDT

Hello friends~ you all have so very much been in my heart ALL day long!! ***18***WOW!! I am so sorry but my heart aches because we are suppose to spend these "special" birthday's with our babies and 18 is so very special!! Anita like you said in your update, 18 is the age when life for our children is filled with wonderful changes...girlfriends, senior year & the end of "childhood",breaking all the rules we should be giving them, quick precious moments in between getting out of school and running off with their friends and just maybe a swift kiss on the cheek for us moms...the list is so very long for what our hearts ache for. However I do believe that Brandon is having birthday like we here could never know. I feel him and my sweet Dakota are now living new dreams, all which only end in happiness, but like you said that does not stop the pain we feel. I love you all so very much and as I have always said one blessing in all this mess is meeting your beautiful family, getting to know your wonderful! WONDERFUL!!!son Brandon and knowing that for all my life I have a true friend whom I can share all the truths of our hidden sorrows yet still have appreciation for the small things that see us through.
Happy Birthday Sweet Brandon, thank you for letting me be a part of your life. I will be forever changed by all that you and Dakota have taught me. I love you sweet boy with the beautiful smile!!
With SO much Love through caring~
Love Lannette~the FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota :)
Lannette Conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.org/sc/dakota, - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 11:10 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!

We miss you so much! While we celebrate with you today, I want to take the time to tell you Thank You! When my mom died a few weeks ago, we knew you were with us thru those final moments. I felt your presence with me. Not to mention, the little bird that landed on her window ledge and stayed for most of the day. We send love to both of you tonight. Remember it wasn't good-bye because we will see you again.

Anita, Scott & Brooke,

We love you guys very much and thank you for your friendship. Brooke, thank you for looking after Tanner.

Love, Lisa, Joe, Tanner & Alyssa Fort
Lisa Fort <lisafort@windstream.net >
Indian Trail, NC USA - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 10:15 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!!! We miss you.
Scott, Anita and Brooke, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you..

Kim, Joe, Alley,Cody,and Carley
Kimberly Rick <kcrick@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC United States - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 6:10 PM CDT

Happy 18th Birthday Brandon!!
Brittney Householder <householderbm@gmail.com>
Boone, NC USA - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 5:44 PM CDT

Thinking about you today and always!
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 4:25 PM CDT

Dear family,
I look at Brandon's picture often, his letter still hangs onthe wall near my desk. He was sweet boy,I miss him dearly!
Tammy Sherrod <tammy.sherrod@carolinashealthcare.org>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 3:54 PM CDT

I just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you today and always! Happy Birthday Brandon!
Sharon Green
- Wednesday, March 18, 2009 3:19 PM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET BRANDON!
I think of him often and miss him deeply. Just know that we are thinking of you and your family.
Christy Byrum <christy.byrum@carolinashealthcare.org>
Monroe, NC 28110 - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 3:06 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!!!
Lauren M. Williams <puddingvolcano@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 18, 2009 3:00 PM CDT

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Brandon!
Scott, Anita, and Brooke....my heart aches for you, my prayers are always with you.....and Brandon's spirit will FOREVER be here at Porter Ridge High School.
Shirley B <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 2:11 PM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Jessie
- Wednesday, March 18, 2009 2:07 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!! I know there is a celebration going on in Heaven, but you get to celebrate everyday in Heaven. I miss you
Jan Haver
Monroe, NC - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 2:06 PM CDT

Happy 18th Birthday Brandon!
We miss him so much and think of him so often. It's hard to believe it's been 2 years since his surprise party. I still remember the look on his face when he figured out it was his party. I'm sure there is a big celebration in heaven today.
Know that we are all thinking of you today and sending our love.
Take care,
Kathy
Kathy Lamm <Kathy.lamm@carolinashealthcare.org>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 1:57 PM CDT

Happy 18th birthday! I remember your 16th birthday like it was yesterday. We miss you soo much and think of you and Dakota all the time. I will be celebrating with you today. Scott,Anita,Brooke you are always in my thoughts and prayers. We love you. Love,Kristen
Kristen Brandwood <Nurspeds@aol.com>
charlotte, nc - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 1:03 PM CDT

Just thinking about you today. I remembered it was Brandon's 18th birthday today. Take care.
Janice <jrappleyea@fergusonbox.com>
Matthews, NC 28104 - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 12:05 AM CDT

I miss and love you all. The last couple days I have cried for various reasons, but I am a happy girl. I remembered it was Brandon's birthday while sitting writing thank you notes. I think Brandon (and you guys) would love where I was sitting. Behind our flat is a formal garden with a water fountain and it is simply beautiful. I felt like Brandon knew it was a good time to make me feel good.

You are a wonderful, inspiring and kind family. I love and miss you lots!!

Happy Birthday Brandon!!

Brooke - you better be doing well in school - he he!! :-) Love you girl!!

Chantelle Swanger
Faringdon, OX England - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 10:51 AM CDT

Anita, Scott, Brooke, and ^Always Brandon^,
Our prayers are with you always and especially today on Brandon's 18th Birthday. May God Bless You richly today with sweet memories of the awesome sound of Brandon's sweet voice and his wonderfully contagious laughter. May the memories be so real that you feel the warmth of his hand in yours as you walk through wonderful years of times spent together. May God also Bless You with a Peaceful Heart and knowledge that Brandon is waiting patiently for you. May you know without a shadow of doubt that you will be together again and when you see each other it will be as if time stood still and no separation took place. We don't have answers in our earthly life and could never begin to understand any of the pain and heartache. We can however, justify Brandon's Life and how he lived each moment to the fullest without regret and without bitterness. Your precious Brandon exemplified God's Grace and changed each of us for the better. He gave a piece of his heart when he looked at us with his sparkling eyes and when he burst into laughter our hearts soared! Brandon's love for people was so genuine and his concern for others was remarkable. Words cannot describe how much we love you and how we are blessed to have you in our lives. So today, dear friends, on Brandon's 18th Birthday we are a basket overflowing with emotion.
We love you!
Kim, Ron, and Brent

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 10:01 AM CDT

Happy birthday Brandon! Anita, Scott and Brooke--you are all in my special thoughts and prayers today. I promise you that Brandon remains a very special part of the lives of so many--you all do.
sherri johnston
- Wednesday, March 18, 2009 9:23 AM CDT

Happy Birthday to Brandon! I'm sure they're having a big party for him up in heaven. It's hard to believe that 2 years ago we were all celebrating together. I'm thinking of you and your family and praying that God gives you strength to celebrate this special day.
Melissa Spegal <Melissa.Spegal@gmail.com>
Charleston, SC USA - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 6:59 AM CDT

Hi Elams, I am so glad you are feeling better Scott. You were in a lot of pain last time I saw you... We cannot imagine what you are going through and will continue to keep you, Anita and Brooke in our prayers.
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 4:37 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke and ^Brandon^
Happy 18th birthday to Brandon. I am sure there is a big celebration in Heaven tomorrow. My prayers are that you all have a good day and can have a smile on your face remembering all the good that Brandon did for everyone. He is our Angel in Heaven. He will always be remembered and never forgotten.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carolaveritte@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 12:18 AM CDT

Thank you for the update. I'm sure they are very difficult. I hope you know how much we all think about all of you.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, February 24, 2009 1:09 PM CST

Hey Elam Family, I'm glad to see the update. I am so sorry I haven't written to ya'll in awhile. I am glad that Scott is doing better after those weeks of sickness; I will still keep him in my prayers. I also will pray for the pain you all are still going through. I know God will give you peace in time. Stay strong and hold in there the Lord is watching over ya'll with Brandon right there by his side and I know they both are smiling. It's gonna be hard in a few months when we have to graduate. I just can't believe I am already a senior. I remember when me and Brandon used to get in trouble in middle school for talking! Wow, how time flys past us when we're not looking. But, I do believe that on the day of graduation Brandon will be there on the stage with us in spirit. I hope to see you all real soon. I miss you all and of course Brandon.

Love ya'll,
Brittany
Brittany Poppa <jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Tuesday, February 24, 2009 7:47 AM CST

Anita, glad to see an update. Your family has consistently remained in my thoughts and prayers. I am so happy for you that you found a job. Keep trusting in God and he will carry you through this. God Bless
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Monday, February 23, 2009 9:52 PM CST

I can't believe its almost been 16 months since the last time i saw Brandon. I was looking through some of my old baseball pictures from Mint Hill the other day and saw Brandon and it made me miss him. I think about him and you guys all the time. I wish we could all have him back, but I know that he is better off now. I would be more than happy to help you guys out with anything you need at all, and hope you guys are doing great. If you ever need help with anything at all I'm still just around the corner from Stevens Mill in Midland so just give me a call, 7049420940. I know it must be tough even after all this time, but God will get you through it. You guys take care and God Bless you. Remember what they say, only the good die young.
Josh Hill <hollisterbro24@aim.com>
Mint Hill, NC USA - Monday, February 16, 2009 7:47 PM CST

Hoping that you are all having lots more good days than bad ones as spring is in the air...think of you all and Brandon often!
Pat & Susan Skinner ~Rainey's Gramma & Grampa <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, Ga USA - Thursday, February 12, 2009 11:59 AM CST

My wife's aunt and leader of the family Crystal Barker passed away after an almost 10 year battle with cancer. Yesterday as she was laid to rest, I had to smile when I saw she was buried very close to Brandon Elam. We had done the 24 hours of booty many years. I remember seeing him sitting on the side of the road waving as we went by. I yelled his name everytime i passed. he had no idea who i was, but that wasn't the point. i remember sitting in the bleachers with him at the criterium. i remember going to elevation church one morning and seeing kids cars w/"rest in peace brandon elam" written on their windshields. Even though they are both in heaven, it was still a pleasant surprise that she was laid to rest so close to Brandon. love you guys. it sure is hard...
Chad & Carissa Goddard
Matthews, NC US - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 7:59 PM CST

Thanks for sharing. It touched my heart.
Bill
William Alexander <wfatn2@gmail.com>
Chapmansboro, TN United States - Saturday, February 7, 2009 7:29 AM CST

We were talking about Brandon in Freshman Focus this week. He will never be forgotten here at Porter Ridge. I continue to pray for each of you.
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Friday, February 6, 2009 10:37 AM CST

Anita and Scott, I was just thinking about you guys and hoping ya'll are doing okay. I am praying for you each and everyday!
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc 28227 - Wednesday, February 4, 2009 7:23 PM CST

Just wanted you know we still think about Brandon and pray for his family to have peace like a river.
Kelly powell
Lake Gaston, n.c.
kelly powell <waynekellypowell@yahoo.com>
lake gaston, nc usa - Tuesday, February 3, 2009 10:33 AM CST

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
Just wanted ya'll to know that we think about Brandon all the time. I am always running into people and we all talk about how many lives that Brandon touched. He will always be in our hearts and ya'll will be too. Take care
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carolaveritte@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Friday, January 30, 2009 3:44 PM CST

Anita and Family,
I think of you often. I was in Wal-mart the other night and walked by the kid's section..they had the skully hats that I suggested you get for Brandon when he first began to lose his hair (during one of our radiology appts). It stopped me in my tracks because it made me think of him. I will continue to think of you and pray for your family.
Angelia Springfield Johnson
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 1:37 PM CST

Hello.
I read through Brandon's story and it touched my heart. I am so sorry for your family. My son was diagnosed with a brain tumor also, so I know exactly what you all went through. I hope that you find peace in the thought that Brandon is out of pain, and waiting for the time that you will all be together again. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Drew Nelson <anelson@kaparel.com>
Cambridge, ON Canada, ON Canada - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 7:52 AM CST

Anita,
Thinking of you. I'm so sorry that you are hurting. Remembering your family...
Christy Conley Smith (East Meck Class of '87)
Mint Hill, NC - Monday, January 26, 2009 3:19 PM CST

Hi all. I'm sorry I missed you recently. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
sherri johnston
- Wednesday, January 21, 2009 7:48 AM CST

To the Elam Family,
My name is Olivia Chapman, and i am a sophmore at Piedmont High. I just wanted to say that Brandon was such an inspriation to me. I never meet him, but wish i did. And i know that it would have been a blessing to meet him.
My cousin is Spencer Griffin, and Im not going to say I know exactly how it feels to lose a loved one to cancer, but i know how hard it is to see them going through so much.
I continue to remember Brandon, and your family everyday.

love in christ
-Olivia Chapman
Olivia Chapman <audio_a_lover@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC - Saturday, January 17, 2009 8:37 AM CST

I DO NOT KNOW YOU BUT PRAY YOU ARE HEALING WITH YOUR SWEET SON WATCHING OVER YOU
ELIZABETH ANN DON-TRAINOR <ELIZA67@AOL.COM>
BRICKTOWN, NJ USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 11:53 AM CST

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- Friday, January 2, 2009 3:21 AM CST

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text, text - Friday, January 2, 2009 3:18 AM CST

Taking the ^Brandon^ angel ornament from my tree got me to thinking about all of you. I know every day is a struggle. But as the New Year comes.....maybe you can think that each new year....each new day, new moment....gets you closer to seeing that precious child again. In a brand new place...with no more sickness and no more pain. What a reunion that will be!
Love to each of you...
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, January 1, 2009 4:05 PM CST

merry christmas scott, anita, brooke, and ^brandon^
i hope you all have a wonderful christmas!
it was nice seeing you guys last night.
i love you so much.
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 25, 2008 9:11 AM CST

Just wanted to tell you guys that I am thinking about you. I hope that you all have a very Merry Christmas. Give each other a big hug from me!!

Love,
Kristen
Child Life
kristen brown <kdb864@aol.com>
san francisco, ca - Tuesday, December 23, 2008 11:56 AM CST

angel they have closed the cities close to your home because you aren't here to play in this mess of snow . we hear you are making progress keep it up everyone you have ever met loves you & we are all praying for you and yours. keep up the fight girl we need you so much to make our lives brighter the way you do. xoxo erika &co.
erika <erikaervin@hotmail.com>
spokane, wa us - Monday, December 22, 2008 2:42 PM CST

Just thinking about you all and Brandon. God Bless.....
Tessa Smith / SellEthics Marketing Group <smithfamss@aol.com>
Birmingham, AL 35210 - Tuesday, December 16, 2008 7:53 PM CST

Hi. Just checking in to let you know that you are loved by many, many, many.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, December 16, 2008 3:05 PM CST

Just wishing the entire Elam family a Merry Christmas! I hope with each year you find the wonderful memories of Brandon taking away the sadness you feel. Love you all!
Janice <jrappleyea@fergusonbox.com>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, December 16, 2008 2:23 PM CST

Brandon's Christmas decoration is still at the top of our tree this year. We have him, my mama, Tom's mama, all at the top. They all three are our Christmas angels.
Love to all of you.....and you are in my thoughts and prayers as always.....
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC USA - Saturday, December 13, 2008 4:20 PM CST

Ya'll are always in our thoughts and prayers. Just wanted to know that we will be thinking of each of you this holiday season.
Love,
Dale,Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carolaveritte@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Saturday, December 6, 2008 2:02 PM CST

Anita, Scott and Brooke,
We are praying for you guys. May God hold you close during this holiday season.
Lori and Josh Presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, December 5, 2008 2:31 PM CST

hey guys.
just wanted to tell you your still in my prayers every single day. i miss and love you guys alot. i know its still hard. it will always be. but i pray you find the comfort you need to get through this. :) i love you so much! <3
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 1, 2008 9:06 PM CST

Not a day goes by without thoughts of Brandon. You guys are always in our thoughts and prayers!

We love you all.
Kim, Joe Alley, Cody and Carley
Kim Rick <kcrick@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, November 24, 2008 9:43 PM CST

Scott, Anita, Brooke and Brandon
Always in our prayers and I know I would still be angry adn lost as a mom Anita. Continue to be strong!!! Love, Melissa Hempel... Kevin and Audri too!!
melissa hempel <melisone4@aol.com>
charlotte, nc usa - Sunday, November 23, 2008 7:07 PM CST

Praying for your strength and for the ability to find the joy in life that Brandon found~ he would want that for you all.
_Raineys Grandparents
Pat & Susan Skinner <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Elliijay, Ga USA - Thursday, November 20, 2008 2:47 PM CST

brandon,

i was just listening to the song home by daughtry and it made me think of you and of how strong you stayed no matter what the consequents. You are always in our prayers and thoughts.
chad bass <tghtend85@aol.com>
matthews, nc - Friday, November 14, 2008 10:06 PM CST

You never need to apologize. Ever. We love you all.
sherri johnston
- Friday, November 14, 2008 4:26 PM CST

hey its alyssa i was just checking on you i hpoe you doing good all my wishes go out to you i love you
alyssa fort
charlotte, nc north carolina - Friday, November 14, 2008 1:44 PM CST

I was thinking of your family when I read this peom on another site.

Just For Today

Just For Today

Just for today, I will try to live through the next 24 hrs
and not expect to get over my child's death, but instead,
learn to live with it just one day at a time.

Just for today, I will remember my child's life, not his death,
and bask in the comfort of all those treasured days
and moments we shared.

Just for today, I will forgive all the family and friends
who didn't help or comfort me in the way I needed
them to. They truly did not know how.

Just for today, I will smile, no matter how much I hurt
on the inside, for maybe if I smile a little, my heart will
soften and I will begin to heal.

Just for today, I will reach out to comfort a relative
or friend of my child. For they are hurting too, and perhaps
we can comfort each other.

Just for today, I will free myself from my self-inflicted
burden of guilt, for deep in my heart I know, if there was
anything in this world I could have done to save my child
from death, I would have done it.

Just for today, I will honor my child's memory by doing
something with another child because I know that would
have made my own child proud.

Just for today, I will offer my hand in friendship to another
bereaved parent, for I do know how they feel.

Just for today, when my heart feels like breaking, I will
stop and remember that grief is the price we pay for loving
and the only reason I hurt is because I had the privilege of
loving so much.

Just for today, I will not compare myself to others. I am
fortunate to be who I am and to have had the most amazing son in my life. Just for today, I will allow myself to be happy, for I know
that I am not deserting him by living on.

Just for today, I will accept that I did not die when my child
did, my life did go on, and I am the only one who can make
that life worthwhile once more.

Debbie Brookover
Cary, NC USA - Wednesday, November 12, 2008 7:44 AM CST

i hope you fell better elan
talia
rockville, mD united States - Saturday, November 8, 2008 7:47 AM CST

Just checking in on you guys. We are thinking about you and hoping you are doing okay. Keeping you in our prayers, Lori
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc 28227 - Thursday, October 30, 2008 3:36 PM CDT

i love you all.
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 28, 2008 2:29 PM CDT

im sorry i havent posted anything in a while. sometimes i just cant gather the right things to say. i still miss him more than anything. i will never be able to put in words how much i miss him. knowing he is in heaven makes it better because i know he is happy but free of pain and suffering but i dont know. i feel like i dont have any connection to him at all. scott and anita you both are amazing. i dont know how to wake up every morning and get through the day. i love you both! <3
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 21, 2008 2:56 PM CDT

Hey Elams - I know it has been a long time since I have wriiten, sorry I will try to do better! Just wanted to tell you how pretty Brooke looked Friday night. I was so excited when we finished counting votes and saw that she had won. I know that was really special for your family and such good timing! It's amazing the little things that happen to help get us through! Love Coach Helms(C Helms:-))
Catie Helms <catie.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Monroe, NC USA - Friday, October 17, 2008 9:10 AM CDT

Thinking of all of you.
i love you guys <3
Laura Medlin <xoprettyangel24X@aol.com>
monroe, nc - Wednesday, October 8, 2008 12:18 AM CDT

Hey Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I just wanted to let you know you all are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Chrissy Poppa
Indian Trail, NC - Friday, October 3, 2008 12:14 AM CDT

Anita, Scott, Brooke, and ^Always Brandon^,
We love you.
Kim, Ron, and Brent

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 10:44 PM CDT

I don't know how to feel about today. Im happy he is in heaven but at the same time we all want him back with us. I prayed last night that i wouldnt get upset while we watched the video today because i hate crying in front of people, but you just can't stop some things. They were happy tears because now he is happier than ever and from the book im reading ( 90 minutes in heaven ) Brandon is doing more than perfect up there. These years without him are going to be hard, but just knowing he is better than okay, makes me happy. I love you Scott,Anita,Brooke & my other big brother brandon. Your in my prayers every night.
Mia Meadows
indian trail, nc us - Thursday, October 2, 2008 9:02 PM CDT

Thinking about you all today!
Love, Andrea
Child Life
Andrea Westmoreland
- Thursday, October 2, 2008 6:11 PM CDT

I love BRANDON AND I MISS HIM SO MUCH!
Watching the vidoe i cried.

Kassi LeClair <kay_leclair@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, nc usa - Thursday, October 2, 2008 5:59 PM CDT

Thinking of you today.
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, October 2, 2008 3:59 PM CDT

Anita, Scott, and Brooke,
Thinking of you today and always, and sending love and prayers your way. Everybody in the clinic wore their Brandon badges today and told stories about your sweet boy.
I'll think of you tonight when we're at the ElamN8 field.
Love you,
Kathy
Kathy Lamm
- Thursday, October 2, 2008 3:48 PM CDT

Scott, Anita, Brooke,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always, especially today. We love you guys.
Linda & Robert <Linda.kincaid@piedmontng.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 3:41 PM CDT

Thinking of you today and always.
Sharon Green - Child Life
- Thursday, October 2, 2008 3:07 PM CDT

Anita, Scott & Brooke,
You've been close in my thoughts and prayers all day. Wish there was something I could say or do to help you through the day....but unfortunately there's really nothing that can make this any better. Hope it helps to know that there are lots of people out here thinking of sweet Brandon and keeping your family close in thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Tricia
^Jenna's^ mom
Tricia Witherspoon
Fort Mill, SC - Thursday, October 2, 2008 2:55 PM CDT

Our thoughts and prayers are w/you all today.
Kelli Furgurson <kefdb582@email.cpcc.edu>
Matthews, nc - Thursday, October 2, 2008 1:56 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
Our hearts go out to all of you today. We think of Brandon all the time and wish he were still with us. May God wrap his arms around each of you and give you strength to get through this tough time. Brandon is always in our hearts and will never be forgotten. We love the Elam family.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carolaveritte@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, October 2, 2008 1:47 PM CDT

Dear Brandon:
I can't believe that you have been gone a year today! It seems like yesterday that you were being brought into this crazy world. Well bran-man there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and i know you are in heaven watching over your mom, dad, brooke and all the rest of your family and friends. You are missed so so much!!!
Luv always to you and Anita, Scott, Brooke!
Lisa
Lisa Selberg <lselberght2005@yahoo.com>
Matthews, NC US - Thursday, October 2, 2008 1:28 PM CDT

Anita, Scott and Brooke, We are thinking of you today. I hope you know what an impact Brandon has had on so many. We will continue to keep you in our prayers. Love, Lori, Josh, Catelyn and Alli
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc usa - Thursday, October 2, 2008 12:35 AM CDT

i know i wrote last night and i am writing again to let you know that i am still thinking of you and holding your family so dear to my heart. when i opened my eyes this morning i lay in bed praying and sending peaceful thoughts your way. as i drink my coffee, myheart aches for you...as i go off today and do "normal" things that must be done, i will be thinking of you. it seems so strange, unfair, and just down right wrong that world still keeps spinning and moving forward while families like us are filled with so much pain and heartache and while yes i too have "normal" things to get done today, please know that inside my heart i am crying with you guys and we continue to think of you all the day long.
love lannette~the FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota
lannette conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.org/sc/dakota, - Thursday, October 2, 2008 11:52 AM CDT

Your family is in my thoughts...
Mika Tyler
monroe, nc - Thursday, October 2, 2008 11:09 AM CDT

Hello and to let you know we are thinking of you today. Everyday is hard to face without Brandon but today is a special day I know. God Bless You All and I will be wearing my bracelet today also. Remember God Walks The Dark Hills and Highways. God is with us.
Ernest Croxton <ecroxton@comporium.net>
Lancaster, S.C. USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 10:56 AM CDT

Missing our boo boo man...

Brandon is always in our thoughts and carried in our hearts!!

Love, Nicole and Kira
Nicole Berkhout <ndberkhout@yahoo.com>
Davidson, NC - Thursday, October 2, 2008 10:40 AM CDT

I can't believe it has been a year since we lost Brandon. I still hear his name spoken so often here at Porter Ridge. He still has such a positive influence on his friends at the "Ridge". We miss him just as much today as a year ago. Scott, Anita and Brooke you are in my prayers, especially on this day. God Bless!!
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Thursday, October 2, 2008 10:34 AM CDT

Just letting you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday and especially today. I see Brandon's picture everyday that sits in our den that he had made with Steve at the ballfield on opening day a few years ago.
Laurie,Steve,Kyle and Cameron Baucom <lauriebaucom@carolina.rr.com>
Mint HIll, NC USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 10:30 AM CDT

Thinking about you today. Take peace in knowing Brandon will never be forgotten.
Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, October 2, 2008 9:14 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers always, but especially today!!! Brandon will never be forgotten!!!
Rhonda Lisk <teamlisk@aol.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 7:53 AM CDT

My thoughts are with you on this day. Your tribute to Brandon in today's paper was lovely.
sherri johnston
- Thursday, October 2, 2008 7:41 AM CDT

Anita, Scott and Brooke
We want you to know you are in our thoughts today. Brandon has not been forgotten and smiles everyday in our hearts.

Janice Rappleyea <jrappleyea@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 7:11 AM CDT

oh my dear sweet friends~
my heart is SOOOO very much breaking for you. how can it be a year?!? i love all of you so much and i know i dont have to say the words on how your beautiful boy touched my heart and how WONDERFUL is was, because you both know what he meant to me....but i do want to say that there are NO words to fully say just how much so many loved him and how very much he made a difference in so many lives. my love and prayers are wrapped so tight around you today even if we dont talk know that i am sending you XXXXX prayers of peace.

anita~i will not try to call today only because i want to respect your moments of peace, however if you want to talk at ANY time i am here for you. i love you girl!!
with love through caring~
love lannette~the FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota.....

lannette conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.org/sc/dakota, - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 11:14 PM CDT

Hello Elam family. As the one year anniversery if Brandon's passing arrives I can not find many words to say other than yall are constantly in my prayers. I know this has been a long year for yall and I think about yall often. Brandon was such a hero to all of us and still is today a year after he passed. I know this day is going to be very hard, but know that everyone is here behind you.

Love, Courtney and the rest of the Averitte family
Courtney Averitte <cba3617@uncw.edu>
Wilmington, NC USA - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 10:33 PM CDT

Elam Family,
Brandon was and continues to be such an inspiration to me! As a PR and an Interact Alum I feel blessed to have worked so closely with him and the rest of your family! His hope and love for life is something I will remember forever! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, especially with his one year anniversary tomorrow. Brandon was truly one of a kind and he will always be remembered!
Brittney Householder
Brittney Householder <householderbm@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 9:43 PM CDT

Hey Guys!

Just wanted you to know that you are always in our prayers and thoughts. Even more so tomorrow. It is so hard to beleive that it has been one year already. There is not a day that goes by that we don't feel Brandon around us. We love you guys very much. You have and always will be our extended family.

Love, Joe, Lisa, Tanner & Alyssa Fort
Lisa Fort <lisafort@windstream.net>
Indian Trail, NC - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 9:07 PM CDT

Elam family,
You are always in my prayers.
Brandon was such an inspiration
and I am so proud to wear my
Elam-N8-Cancer bracelet everyday :)
Lauren Rice <lrice434@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 6:41 PM CDT

Dear Elam family, Please know you are in my thoughts always but especially tomorrow as I know it will be a difficult day. but we know there is nothing too difficul for our God. I pray he will surround you with love and peace as you go through tomorrow. Brandon was a great kid and made a huge difference in alot of lives, including mine. He will never be forgotten. Much love to your family! God Bless
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 6:40 PM CDT

Please know that you are in my prayers every day but especially tomorrow. I know it's going to be an extra hard day for you. I think of you often.

Terry Call
Waxhaw, NC - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 1:27 PM CDT

Be the change that you want to see in the world.
-Mohandas Gandhi

Brandon was just that. He was the sweetest kid I've ever met. From the time we were six and seven years old Brandon was always the highlight of my day. I'd go to Mint Hill ball fields just to see him at games and practices. I remember everything from our childhood. From baseball, to the visit to the hospital with a broken nose, even to jumping on the bed singing songs and playing in our front yard. Brandon is a great kid. He is still with us everyday and I know its hard on all of ya'll, just remember that his spirt lives on and he lives through us (:

I love you guys!
if you need ANYTHING let me knoww
kendall love <kendall.love14@yahoo.com>
monroe, nc - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 7:58 AM CDT

You're in all of my thoughts and prayers. Know that Brandon's spirit lives on. Let me know if you need anything at all.
Melissa Spegal
Charleston, SC - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 7:13 AM CDT

Our thought are with you. I know the anniversary of his death will be hard for you. Know that God is with you.
Delia Saunders
Indian Trail, NC usa - Saturday, September 27, 2008 12:26 AM CDT

Anita,Scott & Brooke I know the 2nd of Oct. is coming up and that will be a very hard day for you all .Oct 20th is a hard day for me thats when dad passed away and I set ther holding his hand and telling him to go on as my heart broke and after they came and got his body my niece's daughter walked in the room and ask where pap-paw went and I told her he's gone to heaven and she said he can walk now.The past year I heard a song by the inspirations called If you only knew and it has helped me so much I don't know if you've heard the song if you haven't get a copy every little bit helps. I still pray for you all and all the familys that lost a child God be with you all.
Shelia Smith <sdonepooh@aol.com>
Soddy-Daisy, TN USA - Saturday, September 27, 2008 6:13 AM CDT

I am always thinking of you all.
Terri McConnell <tlyn04@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Friday, September 26, 2008 5:57 PM CDT

Dear Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

My thoughts and prayers will be with you all on the anniversary of Brandon's passing.

I had another good friend pass this month. I asked Brandon to show him through the ropes, which I know he did.

I continue to support the cure for children's cancer in honor of Brnadon.

Much love to you all

ANOTHER YEAR
by Brenda Penepent

Another year has come,
And you, so far away from me now;
But in my heart still.
Forever, I will hold you close.
Each smile, laugh and tear I�ve cried
A testament to your presence.
I will always love you,
No matter what happens.
Your death can not separate us.
I�m right here, loving you as always.
My heart is true and strong.
I will never forget your spirit.
I am no longer afraid.
To live or die is the same for me.
You are with me on this journey.
I raise your light to the heavens, and smile.

Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Friday, September 26, 2008 9:48 AM CDT

Howdy Elams: Brandon I went over and visited your beautiful grave site recently. It was a beautiful day on Earth...I am sure your days in heaven are fantastic. Well our beloved Coach Toxey is up there in heaven with you and another little Hemby Bridge child, Alex Langley is in your heavenly chorus. Brandon she was so precious and is full of God's love. You and Coach Toxey will be playing B-Ball and Tag Football all day and all night. Please take a little time to blow some kisses to us on Earth. We miss you all and are having a hard time with our tears... cause we miss you all so much...
I love the Fall when God changes the colors of our earthly home. Hemby Bridge has a new look, NO TRAILERS..... It is wonderful ...We sent a lot of your neighbors to the new Stallings school. Just too cool. I will be praying for your family during the weeks ahead . I am sure you are having the greatest time inside those golden gates. Brandon guess who I had dinner with last night before the PTO meeting. Your favorite 5th grade teacher : GRACE STANLEY. We ate at EAST 74. WOW! We talked about you Brandon and IT WAS ALL GOOD.
God Bless You and Love Ya: Mrs. T
stebie thompson <mrst5151@aol.com>
matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 8:20 AM CDT

OCTOBER 11, 2008
BRANDON'S ELAM-N8 CANCER INAUGURAL GOLF TOURNAMENT

There are many ways for you to help us with this golf tournament. Please honor Brandon�s memory and celebrate his life by helping us continue his fight and support his Hometown Heroes.

Personal Message Sign
You may support the tournament by placing a personal message sign at the location of your choice for a $50.00 donation. All you need to do is email KPearson5@aol.com with your message and where you wish your message placed.
Please mail your donation to:
ELAM-N8 CANCER
PO Box 2242
Matthews, NC 28106

Sponsor Please visit www.Elam-N8Cancer.com
You may support the tournament by sponsoring a hole for $100. Your name and company logo will be displayed on the hole you sponsor, and your company will be acknowledged during the prize awards at the end of the tournament.

Anyone donating more than $250 will receive an Elam N8 Cancer / Hometown Hero Logo shirt in addition to the sign and any company donating $1000 or more can enter a foursome free of charge.

Donate Prizes - Please visit www.ELAM-N8CANCER.com
Another way to support our tournament is to donate an item to be auctioned off, as individual prizes or used for door prizes. Remember, all donations are tax deductible. Your receipt will include our TAX ID number for your records. No item is too small � everything is welcomed and much appreciated.

Golf - Please visit www.ELAM-N8CANCER.com
We also welcome your participation in the tournament itself. To register, just complete the attached form and return to ELAM-N8 CANCER at the address on the bottom of the registration form by September 30th. Remember tournament is limited to the first 144 paid golfers.

On-Line Donation in memory of Brandon Elam can be made directly to Hometown Heroes by visiting http://www.hometownheroesonline.org/heroes/donations.cfm

Thank you for your continued support. We look forward to spending time with you on October 11th.

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 7:01 AM CDT

"O Lord my God.I take refuge in you; save and deliver me from all who pursue me."God is good and we can strust in him in our hearts love and hope and be holy and peace and joy will enter in us with light and blessing and the Lord can use us to his purpose that save and heal the sinners life ,thanks and bless and hope and pray,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Saturday, September 20, 2008 2:45 AM CDT

i love you all.
i miss you.
your amazing.
and i can't wait to see you.
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, September 17, 2008 8:44 PM CDT

Hey guys : ] It was good to see you at the Hometown Heros event. Scott, yours and Anita's car was amazing haha. I hope everything is going well, and I just wanted to let you know you guys mean A LOT to me. You're my inspiration for everything. When ever I have a problem I always ask myself "what would the Elams do?" I know the second is coming up soon, and I think Kasey and I were planning on coming to see you if that was okay with you guys. Well, hope to hear from you soon. Love you guys, Sammi.
Samantha Lederer <samanthalederer@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC United Statess - Wednesday, September 17, 2008 11:25 AM CDT

Scott, Anita, Brooke.... Just to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you daily. I think of Brandon everyday, especially when I see a golf cart with a teenager driving it in Shannamara. It doesn't seem possible that it's almost been a year. Cooper remembers you guys in his prayers "every-night". Know that we love you guys and our prayers are with you...
Linda & Robert <Linda.kincaid@piedmontng.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 3:22 PM CDT

Hi Elams,

I think about you guys a lot and hope you are doing well. I miss Brandon. He was a great young man and such an inspiration. Take care.

Ralph Shore <RDShore@NationalGypsum.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, September 15, 2008 3:15 PM CDT

Hey guys. Still thinking of you all. We miss Brandon. Hope you can find comfort. We love you guys.
Chris, Michelle, Wally , Kendall and Brittany
Monroe, NC - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 11:09 AM CDT

Thinking about you all today.
Susan Wayne
Stanley, nc usa - Tuesday, September 9, 2008 12:53 AM CDT

Hey Brandon, Coach Helms was telling us all about you in Freshman Focus today, and even though I never personally knew you, I know Brooke and she's pretty amazing. Anyways, just stopping by to say hello and the Elam family will be in my prayers.
Karli Hatch
Stallings, NC - Saturday, September 6, 2008 0:20 AM CDT

Awh Coach Helms thanks for showing me this website!
Kassi LeClair <kay_leclair@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC 28079 - Friday, September 5, 2008 10:03 PM CDT

Elam Family, It's been long over due for me to leave ya'll a message. I keep your family in my prayers all the time. I know you still need that comfort and peace within your hearts. I really miss you Scott and Anita; I need to come by and visit. I had a dream about Brandon awhile back and it really had me thinking. In my dream Brandon and I were talking and our conversation really touched my soul. I miss him just like a lot of other people but then I realize I will see him another place and time. Continue to keep your faith. God is always here with you even if you feel alone. And Brandon is with you all as well, he could be the butterfly landing on you or the breeze through your hair. He is your son and forever will be! You are truly blessed to have such an amazing, strong son. Hope to see ya'll real soon. Love and God bless!
Brittany Poppa <Jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Friday, September 5, 2008 6:06 PM CDT

Hey um i didn't ever really know Brandon that well but when i heard about his amazing struggle i had to visit this website.
Anthony Pancamo
Matthews, NC - Friday, September 5, 2008 5:23 PM CDT

Anita and Elam family,

I haven't checked in on you guys in a while, and I was wondering how you were doing. Anita, my heart has been breaking for you since I first met you. I know I have said this before, but I cannot imagine what you are going through. I just know what it's like to be the mom of a little boy. I pray that you can find peace in knowing that Brandon is no longer in pain, but I know that's easier said than done.

Maybe a job will help, and I hope you can find something soon. I will ask around for my part and let you know if I hear of anything.

Please let me know if there is ever anything I can do. I am sure people tell you that all the time, but I would truly love to help. Brandon gave so much to everyone, including me, that I would love to do anything I could to help his family. He became such a beautiful young man because of you guys--he was blessed to have you just as you were blessed to have him.

I'm probably writing too much to make up for not checking in sooner. I promise it won't be so long next time.

Praying for you as always,
Leslie Southerland <lessouth@yahoo.com>
Mint Hill, NC USA - Wednesday, September 3, 2008 9:33 PM CDT

Brandon's Family
As a Christian family that goes to church we can understand your hurt b/c we lost our daughter to a bone disease years ago and it seems like yesterday. We asked why so many times but God knows all the answers to lifes problems. Our faith lets us believe the answer could be why not. Our daughter's grave is about a half mile from our house and everytime we go by which is everyday for the last 30 years because of the location from our home we look out the car window as we pass by and wonder why. Why us? I believe there is a reason for all things and we know through the years that the plan of God is working in all our lives if we let Him. I think one day we will all know the plan that God has for us all. God bless your family and our prayers are with you. Again Thank God that He gave us children to Love. We will always remember your family b/c of Brandon. He touched many lives.

The Croxton's <ecroxton@comporium.net>
Lancaster, SC USA - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 9:50 PM CDT

Anita, Scott, Brooke, and ^Always Brandon^,
Our human minds cannot comprehend how 11 months seem like yesterday when our human hearts feel like it's been an eternity.
We love you,
Kim, Ron, and Brent

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 5:33 PM CDT

i love you.
11 months<3
i cant believe it.
i pray you guys find the comfort you need to get through this.
see you soon.
love you so much.

kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 2, 2008 5:07 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
I have been thinking of ya'll so much lately. I just read your update and my heart aches for all of you. Brandon will never be forgotten and he will always be in our hearts. His life made a difference in so many lives, people that you will never meet. Your family taught everyone what "unconditional love" is all about.
We love ya'll so much. Thanks for being a part of our lives.
Love,
Dale, Carol , Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 10:02 AM CDT

Hey Elam family,
Here it is another 'second of the month'...11 months for you and 19 months for us. Such a heavy day. Anita, I related very much to your entry...the "should have beens" & the significance of so many dates. The contrast of before and after is startling. I wish I could make it better but all I have for you is tears and prayers. Perhaps I'll get to see you at The HomeTown Heroes send off. It seems we could both use a good hug.
Peace,
Charlotte (Sam's mom)
www.caringbridge.org/visit/samkeziah
Charlotte Keziah <ckeziah@earthlink.net>
- Tuesday, September 2, 2008 8:23 AM CDT

We continue to pray for you guys everyday,
lori and josh presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc - Sunday, August 31, 2008 7:49 AM CDT

Hi Elams,
Just checking in and thinking of you.
Love,
Robin (Rainey's Mom)
Robin Skinner <rskinner@wfubmc.edu>
- Friday, August 29, 2008 8:39 PM CDT

Thinking about you always.
Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, August 29, 2008 5:13 PM CDT

I what to see my little cousin own and brando baptism pictures
Talia Maria McLean <TaliaMcLean@msn.com>
Houston , TX Harris - Friday, August 29, 2008 8:32 AM CDT

Anita,
Just read your update--funny thing is I just updated Jenna's this morning and we wrote a lot of the same type things....great minds think alike I guess :-) Or it could just be us grieving moms think alike. Anyway--thinking about you and looking forward to our next gathering with the girls.
Love ya,
Tricia
^Jenna's^ mom
www.caringbridge.org/sc/jennawit

Tricia Witherspoon
Fort Mill, SC - Thursday, August 28, 2008 5:01 PM CDT

Hi Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

I just received an e-mail from CureSearch, the Childhood Cancer Advocacy Network. It was my reminder that I hadn't checked in with you this month.

My summer has been a bit difficult in that I haven't been able to get any consulting work. As you know, the economy is really bad and companies are holding on tight to their dollars.

I'm sure that your summer was much more difficult than mine, without Brandon. I pray everyday that you are comforted and consoled and that you are able to find new meaning, purpose, and peace.

All my love,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Tuesday, August 26, 2008 1:06 PM CDT

Brandon, two people in my family jusy passed away last night, and i hope you greet them :)

can't wait to be there with you.

Mia Meadows
indian trail, nc us - Sunday, August 17, 2008 1:55 PM CDT

Anita,
Just wanted to tell you I'm thinking of you today. Love.
Donna (angel Asa's mama), www.caringbridge.org/sc/asa <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 6:57 AM CDT

Hi Elams! Thinking about you and Brandon everyday and hoping your summer has been good. Brooke - I imagine you are getting excited about high school - WOW - as you know Brandon will be right there with you every step of the way. We love you guys.
Marshall, Rhonda, Stephanie, & Tyler <rkkirk@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC 28104 - Saturday, August 9, 2008 8:14 AM CDT

gah i miss brandon soo much!
i think about him everyday..

i hope you are doing well buddy
and i want you to know i love you and miss you
brooke pressley <brookebrooke249@aol.com>
- Friday, August 8, 2008 9:16 PM CDT

Being at the big criterium in Charlotte last weekend was not the same without Brandon there. I went back and looked at the photos from last year and had to smile at the strength that young man had and the joy he gave others just by being himself. Brandon gave me resolve like nobody else. I miss him!
Spencer <spencer@24hoursofbooty.org>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, August 4, 2008 3:54 PM CDT

Anita,Scott and Brooke,
You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. Brandon will always be remembered.
We love ya"ll!!!!
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Monday, August 4, 2008 11:20 AM CDT

I can't belive it's already been 10 months since brandon passed. I can remember the day he left to go to heaven like it was yesterday, and finding out he didn't have long was so intence. i remember Brooke told me in the bathroom at school that he didn't have much time and i just cried and hugged her cause i didnt know what else to do at that moment. Those days will always be in my mind, especially the good ones we all had. I miss brandon so much, but at least he doesnt have to worry anymore. I wish i could bring him back a day just so you guys could see him and talk to him again. God is the only one who knows when he is taking us to heaven, but when that day comes, will all get to feel what Brandon felt. Happiness,no worrys, no struggles! will just get to walk with all our loved ones on the glorious roads of heaven for eterinity. That's the only thing we have in our life that's guarenteed.

He is watchin us,
don't worry.
love ya'll.

Mia Meadows <misezlaffytaffy@rr.com>
Indian trail, nc us - Sunday, August 3, 2008 10:36 PM CDT

Anita, Scott, Brooke, and ^Always Brandon^
You are in our prayers and your footprints are on our hearts forever.
We love you,
Kim, Ron, and Brent

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 7:00 AM CDT

Hi Elam family. I was thinking of you all and wanted to stop by and let you know. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you are finding peace!
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Friday, August 1, 2008 6:17 AM CDT

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veyxfbqe, veyxfbqe gwgshjug - Friday, August 1, 2008 1:37 AM CDT

Hi Guys,

We never seem to have the chance to see each other anymore so I thought I would post to let you know that you are forever in my thoughts and prayers.

Aunt Lisa
Lisa Miele <lisarede2live@hotmail.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 4:21 PM CDT

Hi Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

Yesterday I turned to my Yahoo home page and saw a big photo of Lance Armstrong in an ad. I've come to interpret seeing Lance Armstrong as a sign to get in touch with y'all.

Brandon continues to inspire me to serve. I recently collected books for the students of the Yumbuni Secondary School in Nzeeka, Kenya as well as for the immediate villagers. The Peace Corps volunteers had built the school a library, but there was no funding for books nor were there any books within 50 miles. The good new was that I was able to collect 268 quality, used books. The bad news was that I needed to adhere a bookplate to each book, make up all of the shipping boxes, write out the address labels and customs forms for each box, box up the books, and take the boxes to the post office. I could see this was going to be a big job (the books took over my entire living room), so I called my godson, Jordan, (12) and his sister, Dominique, (10) to solicit their help. Thank goodness they agreed.

Before the kids came to the house I e-mailed them information on illiteracy in Africa, the Yumbuni School and students, and the Peace Corps and asked them to read it in preparation for our project. Before we started work on our project we had a really nice discussion about what we were doing and why. We worked for five hours (with only one quick hotdog, fries, and watermelon break) and I didn�t hear one complaint or see one bored look from either of them. I could tell they felt really good about what they were doing. As a reward and thank you, I let each of the kids take home two books in which they expressed interest. After all�charity does start at home!

May it warm your heart to know that Brandon�s influence knows no end!Wishing you well.
Love,
Reggie

Regina Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Monday, July 28, 2008 1:50 PM CDT

i love you guys alot and miss you.
i hope to see you soon.
<3

kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 28, 2008 1:19 AM CDT

Hi you guys. Just want you to know that I'm thinking about you.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, July 22, 2008 11:17 AM CDT

I don't know what to say to all of you except I hurt for you....and pray for some 'heavenly' comfort to reach you real soon. You are a family that could teach a course on how to love each other unconditionally.
Brooke, we look forward to seeing your smiling face in the halls of PRHS! We are your extending family...always.

Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Saturday, July 19, 2008 4:02 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
Just checking in to say hello. Like everyone else, Brandon is in our thoughts every day along with ya'll. I hope that your trip was great to NY and that you can have an enjoyable summer. I can't believe that Brooke is starting high school. I remember the summer Colby and Brandon played AAU Ball, that was one of the best summers. We love you and cherrish your friendship,
Love,
Carol, Dale Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
indian Trail, NC - Thursday, July 17, 2008 2:26 PM CDT

ANITA, SCOTT, AND BROOKE,

WE DO NOT KNOW YOU PERSONALLY BUT OUR SON TYLER BRITT WENT TO SCHOOL AT PIEDMONT MIDDLE WITH BRANDON. TYLER HAS HAD NOTHING BUT GOOD THINGS TO SAY ABOUT BRANDON. WE THINK OF HIM QUIET OFTEN. WE LOST OUR OLDEST SON IN A CAR ACCIDENT (OCT. 31, 2001) HE WAS ONLY 16 YEARS OLD. SOME DAYS ARE HARDER THAN OTHERS. SOME PEOPLE TELL US IT GETS BETTER WITH TIME, WE THINK IT GETS HARDER. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR MINDS ALL THE TIME.
IF THERE IS ANY THING THAT WE CAN SAY, DO OR IF YOU NEED A
SHOULDER TO CRY ON PLEASE CALL.

TAMARA, TIM, AND TYLER BRITT <TAMARA@WDSMITHGRADING.COM>
MONROE,, NC USA - Thursday, July 17, 2008 10:36 AM CDT

I pray you are finding the comfort you need!

Love ya'll and God bless
Brittany Poppa <jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Wednesday, July 16, 2008 8:11 AM CDT

Hey buddy...its been a long trip without you man..its hard at time but i know your loking down on us with that smile.your doing better now and one day ill be up there to see you to.Miss you lil man...Keep watch after me =]...love kaela
kaela baucom <softball_gamer16@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, north carolina - Monday, July 14, 2008 2:54 PM CDT

We continue to keep you in our prayers. Know that Brandon is always with you!!
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, July 13, 2008 9:55 PM CDT

:) Take a look at Julia's website ... great picture of the two of you ..... made me smile and cry at the same time. XOXOXOXOX
Kathy www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt
Kathy Nesbitt <kathyknesbitt@gmail.com>
Wesley chapel, nc - Thursday, July 3, 2008 6:07 PM CDT

Anita, I just wanted you to know I still think of Brandon and pray for you and your family all the time. I hope we see you soon and I especially hope that some day things get a little bit easier for you.
Love,
Kathy and Julia www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt
Kathy Nesbitt <kathyknesbitt@gmail.com>
Wesley Chapel, NC - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 2:07 PM CDT

Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

Anita, I'm sure that tomorrow will not be an easy day for you. It took nine months for Brandon to be brought into this world and now it's been nine months since he's been physically gone.

When you were carrying Brandon you knew he was there even though you couldn't see him, and the same is true today. When you were carrying Brandon you could physically feel his presence, and the same is true today. Brandon�s spiritual presence is extremely strong and I feel him with me quite often, as I know you all do.

I let him know every day that he's missed and how much I appreciate his watching over me, his family, friends, and others. He�s been really doing a good job (you raised him right!). Brandon has been born into a new world now...and what a wonderful world it is. I know he's happy and I'm happy for him. I hope you are beginning to know happiness again.

Much love,
Reggie

Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 1:31 PM CDT

Just wanted to check in with you guys and let you know that I am thinking of you all often. I will continue to pray for you all and the strength you need to keep moving forward.
Love, Terri McConnell
Terri McConnell <tlyn04@aol.com>
Matthews, NC Union - Sunday, June 29, 2008 6:21 PM CDT

Hi Anita, Scott and Brooke,

I just read your entry today, and just want you to know that we're all still praying for you. We can't imagine what you're going through, but we know that God is always with us, and His Will is perfect, even when we don't understand it--just trust in Him. We feel so blessed that we had the privilege of knowing Brandon and your family. Lucas really enjoyed playing baseball with him, and we enjoyed watching them. Please know that if there's ever anything we can do for you, you can call on us.
Sonya Gaddy <swgaddy@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Tuesday, June 24, 2008 3:47 PM CDT

I can't belive it's been this long since brandon has left us and went to heaven. Last summer was so fun when me and brooke were together 24/7. I miss that a lot, and i also miss seeing brandon. I litteraly think about him every single day. When im alone I think about the past and he usually get's stuck in my head and i start to tear, or when im with my friends, i just kinda glance at the sky and smile cause I know he's up there and i dont have to get in a car just to go say hey to him, i just simply smile and go on with my day. Life is full of questions and concerns but i know for a fact that God let's everything happen for a reason and the reason why I think God took Brandon so soon was to show us that there is a God and there are angels and there is such thing as a heaven and we all have a chance to go there, we just can't give up becuase of the struggles he throws at us in life. Brandon never did, God was just so proud of him being so strong that he wanted to give him a break and spend the rest of his life on the glorious roads of heaven.
Mia Meadows
Indian Trail, NC US - Monday, June 23, 2008 10:33 PM CDT

Hi all. Just checking in.
sherri johnston
- Monday, June 23, 2008 8:06 AM CDT

Hey Scott..
It was so nice to meet you today. I told my dad that you said hello and were going to come see him someday. He got very excited and said that he would love it if you came over to see him and talked to him for a while! I just wanted to tell you that brandon's grave looks amazing. I went to visit him today with one of my best friends Kasey Haigler. I just wanted to say that your family has always been in my thoughts and prayers. I really enjoyed talking to you today. Hopefully I can come over again with kasey or my Dad and just talk to you.. Thanks again..
<3 ashley
Ashley Widener <soccerblondie186@aol.com>
- Saturday, June 21, 2008 8:16 PM CDT

Hey Anita, Scott, and Brooke...

I've been in your neighborhood pretty much everyday all summer at Heather Weirich's house. And I feel horrible for not stopping by or anything. But Heather and I both just recently got our licenses within the past two weeks and we were driving home to her house one afternoon and we past yalls house.. And I realized I had my "Rest in Peace" cd in. With all the songs that reminds me of Brandon E, Brandon W, and Alex. What's funny is as soon as we passed your house "Amazing Because it is" came on. There hasn't been a day since October 2, 2007 that Brandon hasn't been on my mind. I think about him all the time and just wish for 5 more minutes with him. You know, I thought as time went on things would get easier but I hate to say they get harder. Not having him here anymore is just hard to believe. It seems like just yesterday that Scott and Brandon were coming to my house to come get me so Bran and I could go to a movie. Man.. It's so hard to believe. Since schools been out I've already went to visit Brandon 4 times. And I'm going in the morning when I wake up. I enjoy the ride up there alone just listening to his songs and just thinking. As I stand over his grave I feel as if I can just stand there forever and talk to him about anything and he'll listen. He won't say anything back but I know he's there. I've had a few signs from him and I know he's watching. Taking care of all of us. I still don't believe the whole saying "everything happens for a reason" and I don't think I ever will. When I start thinking to hard I start questioning myself. And the questions I do have, well..theres no answer or atleast I don't know them yet. The day I get to see Brandon again will probably be the best day of my life. I can't wait to just see that smile..and that voice...I miss it. That last visit with Brandon was incredible. What I would give up right this very second to be able to do that again. I have picture of us from middle school on up to high and nothing will ever be able to replace that. I have two of his "elam-n8 cancer" braclets. I wear one all the time and NEVER take it off and the other I have hanging in my car. I have a picture of Brandon in my car on my cd holder and I also have Brandons pin with his picture on it hanging up as well. I also have the silver heart necklace that Brandon gave me in 8th grade, that I wear everyday. I don't take that off ever. Brandon is always with me and I love it. But I could go on and on about this amazing kid but I guess I should put a end to it. But I love you guys to death and I admire you alot. The Elam family is truely a incredible family. Your strength and faith amazes me and I can def see where Brandon gets it from. I hope you guys continue to hang in there and I'll see you soon. I love you!! <3

Love Always,
Kasey.
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 20, 2008 10:21 PM CDT

Hi Anita, Scott, and Brooke! How was the NY trip? So exciting - hard to believe Brooke is in high school ... We think about you all the time and pray for comfort. We love you guys .... see you soon!
Rhonda, Marshall, Stephanie and Tyler <rkkirk@carolina.rr.com>
- Thursday, June 19, 2008 6:38 PM CDT

Dear Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

I saw Lance Armstrong on The View yesterday and I immediately thought of you and Brandon. I remember reading how thrilled Brandon was to meet Lance. As I�m sure you already know, Lance is continuing his war on cancer and I know that Brandon is by his side battling along with him.

I�m sure there are things that you see or hear every day that remind you of Brandon. I believe that these memories are signs from Brandon saying, �I�m fine, I�m watching over you, and I�m praying that you work through your pain quickly.� I know that Brandon wants nothing more than to see you all happy again.

Much love,
Reggie

Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 9:02 AM CDT

hey Elam family,
This is Heather Welch. (I was on Brook's school softball team.) I just want to say that you all are great for staying strong! I bet it is really hard!!!!! Keep hanging in there. We all love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Heather Welch~
Heather Welch <urmyfriend10@aim.com>
Matthews, NC - Monday, June 16, 2008 9:13 AM CDT

hey Elam family,
This is Heather Welch. (I was on Brook's school softball team.) I just want to say that you all are great for stayinge strong! I bet it is really hard!!!!! Keep hanging in there. We all love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Heather Welch~
Heather Welch <urmyfriend10@aim.com>
Matthews, NC - Monday, June 16, 2008 9:12 AM CDT

Hey guys. It was so great to see you at Rainbow of Hope the other night. I love the times we can get together and talk about what a great kid Brandon was. I was just thinking about you and wanted to leave a little note. Please know you are always in my prayers.
Love always,
Kristen
Child Life
Kristen Brown <kdb864@aol.com>
- Friday, June 13, 2008 10:55 PM CDT

Man I miss him..
kasey haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 13, 2008 9:53 PM CDT

Have a wonderful trip to New York. I've always wanted to go there. I'll be thinking about you!
Janice Rappleyea <jrappleyea@fergusonbox.com>
Matthews, NC - Friday, June 13, 2008 7:44 AM CDT

Anita, I hope your trip to NYC is going good. My thoughts are with you. Hope to see you soon.
Donna (Angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 10:01 AM CDT

Hi Anita,
I was so blessed by you telling me Brandon's story on Friday night. I have thought about him a million times since I met you. Although I never met Brandon personally, please know that his life is inspiring me now. I look forward to riding in his honor at 24 HOB. Thank you for sharing him with me.
Beth Sanders <bethsanders@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC - Sunday, June 8, 2008 3:33 PM CDT

It was so great seeing you guys tonight, although I'm sure very tough on you to be there. I said a special prayer for Brandon during the service. Have a wonderful time in NY. You deserve it.
Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, June 5, 2008 9:06 PM CDT

Dear Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

In April I wrote to you about the sparrow couple who was building a nest in the birdhouse located outside my home office window. I mentioned that I had dedicated the building of this nest to Brandon. Every day I watched these sparrows diligently bringing in assorted building materials, protecting their nest from any potential predators, and tirelessly bring food to their ever- hungry babies. Brandon's nest helped to protect and nurture these new lives. The sparrow family is gone now and I miss them. I can�t see them anymore, but I know they are out there flying around and beginning a new life�just like Brandon�and that makes me happy.

Blessings,
Reggie

Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Thursday, June 5, 2008 3:52 PM CDT

Anita,
I just read your journal entry and I'm in tears. I miss Brandon so much. More than ever. Anita, your the strongest person I've ever met. I admire you alot. You have held up so well through this. When I got that phone call at 3:32 A.M saying Bran was gone my life changed completely. I still cry most days and I wish him back everyday. It's not the same. And like you said, sometimes I feel like he's not here because I see no sign, but he really is. He's watching over your amazing family and everyone else. Brandon's the best guardian angel I could ever ask for. I went to visit him yesterday and sometimes knowing he's there looking out for me is the only thing that gets me through.<33

Brandon Scott;;
Hey you, Yesterday was 8 months. Time has gone by so fast. It seems like just yesterday you were here. I miss those days. I wish this was all a nightmare and I could just wake up and you still be here. You have always been my best friend since the day we met in 7th grade and on October 2 you became my guardian angel. That day I got a call at 3:32A.M telling me you had passed away, I lost it. My life completely changed. That hit me pretty hard Bran. I still say your here somewhere. I don't want to except the fact that you have been called up. I'd much rather just think your on a very long vacation. It's not the same without you here. I mean I still talk to you every night in my prayers and I come visit you every holiday and every 2nd of the month. I always bring you a blue gatorade and write you a little something on it and sometimes even a letter. But it's just not the same. Going out to your grave is really not how I'd like to visit you. I want to come back to your house again and sit in the panthers room with you and just talk. Knowing I can't do that anymore breaks my heart. Babe I still cry for you and I know you don't want me to, you would rather see a smile on my face but it's so hard to cover up the pain inside. All I want is to see you one more time. All I want is one more hug. All I want is to hear you say you love me just one more time. All I ask is 5 more minutes with you. Just 5 minutes for me to tell you how much I love you. Your my inspiration, my hero, my everything! You've showed me more than you know. Everytime I walk out to your grave to visit I try to say a few words but Bran it's so hard to tell you I love you as I'm standing over your grave, when I no I'll never hear your voice again. People always say everything happens for a reason but I don't understand that saying. Why did God want to take you so soon? Why couldn't he just let you stay for a little bit longer? And for Alex Kahle and Brandon Withers, why did God take them so soon when they were perfectly happy here? I have many unanswered questions. Everyone says your home is where your heart is...well, 8 months ago my heart went to Heaven. I would of given you anything to make you happy and you can bet I'd give anything for you to come back. There's no doubt if I could take your place in Heaven I would die for you. Some people touch our lives and leave such a strong influence that we carry everywhere we go. You are one of those. Everywhere I go I know your with me. But please do me a favor and watch over your family. Your mom and dad are incredible people Bran and they miss you alot. And Brooke, I don't know how she handles it so well. Brandon Scott, I love you more than anything and I miss you terribly. And when you have a chance could you send me some signs to let me know your still there. I hope your having fun in Heaven and be safe. I'll see you soon babyboy. I love you Elam.<3

Kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, June 3, 2008 9:58 PM CDT

Brandon lives on in all the peoople who knew him, loved him and respected him. Maybe that's how he is reaching out to you. I can't imagine your sadness.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, June 3, 2008 7:40 AM CDT

I check Brandon's site at least 3 times a day to see if you have posted a message. I cannot even begin to imagine your pain. I always look forward to reading your entries. I guess it lets all of us know that you are still there. I haven't seen an entry since April 2nd. I just wanted to let you know that your family and Brandon are being thought of by many people and we miss reading your entries. I hope to hear from you soon on the website. Love and prayers to all of you.
Kim Lambert <kim.lambert@asmnet.com>
Kannapolis, NC 28083 - Monday, June 2, 2008 7:56 PM CDT

Anita, Scott and Brooke,
We think of ya'll all the time and we are always thinking of Brandon. He will always be remembered and not forgotten. You have an amazing family and you all are very special to us. Just remember that we love you.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Monday, June 2, 2008 3:18 PM CDT

I hope you know how much your love and support has meant to us as we held our breath through this last struggle with Julia's damn cancer! I hate this disease more than I can say ... but I love the people it has brought into our lives. Thinking of you so much and praying for peace until you see your baby again.
Love,
Kathy ... Julia's Mommy www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt

Kathy Nesbitt <kathyknesbitt@gmail.com>
Wesley chapel, NC - Saturday, May 31, 2008 10:47 PM CDT

Hello all. One of my co-workers was in my office this week and he was commenting on the tribute to Brandon that you gave me. I told him that I was blessed to know all of you.
sherri johnston
- Friday, May 30, 2008 12:06 AM CDT

Hey. I just wanted to stop by and let my other family know i love them and miss them. Lately i have had a dream with Brandon in it at least 2 times a week. He was talking to me and we had good times and then i wake up and it is all a dream. I think it's a sign saying he loves us and knows we miss him but everything is gonna be alright. I get discouraged when i wake up and it's all fake but at the same time im happy cause i got to see him atleast in my dreams. I just want ya'll to know i miss you guys and can't wait to see ya'll. Love you always.
3lam-n8-cancer
mia meadows
indian trail, nc us - Thursday, May 29, 2008 6:37 AM CDT

Another school year is winding down. Hard to believe how quickly it went by. Just thinking about how much Brandon meant and means to this high school. He will forever be linked with us all. May God bless you as you continue to look for strength.
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Wednesday, May 28, 2008 12:34 AM CDT

Brandon Scott I want you back baby!

<3
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 27, 2008 8:41 PM CDT

Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

Yesterday was Memorial Day and I attended our town's Memorial Day parade. As I watched the high school bands march by and the cars filled with disabled vets, I said a silent prayer to all of our fallen heros. This made me think about Brandon as he had been in battle too. He may have fought a different type of war, but he too is one of our fallen heros. Brandon, like our many service members who paid the ultimate price, are gone but will never be forgotten.

Thinking of you,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 10:58 AM CDT

Thinking of all of you - hoping you are enjoying the gift of spring -
Rainey's Grandpa & Grandma
Susan & Pat Skinner <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, Ga 30540 - Monday, May 19, 2008 11:58 AM CDT

Thinking about you all today..
Susie
susie wayne <abrswayne@bellsouth.net>
Stanley, N.C - Saturday, May 17, 2008 3:21 PM CDT

Dear Elam: I visited Brandon's beautiful grave Monday afternoon and you guys have made it so beautiful and the wind was just making all the chimes ring. Or maybe Brandon was having music class welcoming his new Hemby Bridge friends.

Brandon: please take care of our newest precious angels, first grader Alyssa and 4th grader Ryan Sherland. Please show them around heaven with your big smile. Alyssa and Ryan Sherland were very sports minded like you. Alyssa could out run all the little first grade boys. Ryan was a 4th grade soccer dude and loved football just like you. I am sure Alyssa first grade teacher, Jenny Elder, who died March 1st, was there to take their hands and go over to find Jesus . Jesus is having a big gathering of Hemby Bridge darlings. Many Hemby Bridge friends were at the funeral to honor the Sherland family . Our 5th grade honors chorus sang at the service.I was so proud of them. They sang a song about Giving us courage and Granting us Peace. The minister talked about Jesus WEPT in the Bible and how He cried because he didn't want Lazareth to leave Heaven, but GOD KNOWS ALL. Well , Brandon I am sure you too are having too much fun and do not want to leave HEAVEn and we miss you but you need to stay there where you are pain free and having a ball. It was a very very hard week for our staff , faculty , parents and students and knowing you and Miss Elder are in heaven to SAVE THE DAY really has helped us through this very hard time. I hope you get together with them and tell them we are all so very sad but we know Jesus is holding their hands.
I got to see your mother and Miss Kim during the Pizza Party Days for the "Pennies from Heaven" contest. It was great to see your mom. We received a beautiful card from your family recently. Your family is so so special to HB.

SPECIAL REQUEST: to all reading this please keep the Conrad Sherland Family in your prayer. Their mother Amanda must have been at the very lowest point in life. We really will never know but we must pray for her mother and father and sister in Florida. They are so very very sad. Mr. Sherland needs our prayers also and his large family members will be there for him and help him through this tragic event. The event came out of the blue and it is so hard when all problems are solved in 60 minutes on TV. So please pray for both families and Brandon and Jenny will take care of the STUFF IN HEAVEN. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND THANK YOU LORD FOR FRIDAYS....
Stebie Thompson, Music Teacher Hemby Bridge

Stebie Thompson <mrst5151@aol.com>
Stebie Thompson, NC USA - Friday, May 16, 2008 9:49 PM CDT

Hi Elams. My husband asked about you today...I took that as a sign to check in with you. You are never far from my thoughts.
sherri johnston
- Friday, May 16, 2008 2:33 PM CDT

Lots of things get easier with time. It becomes easier to remember the happy times as gifts that we were blessed to share with our children, rather than something that was taken away from us. It gets easier to smile, and finally laugh when we relive those memories in our minds rather than to cry about things that will never be again.

It will always hurt, and there will always be times when we cry - until we rejoin our children where there is no pain or sorrow. And that will be forever.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Thursday, May 15, 2008 9:43 PM CDT

Scott and Anita;
You guys amaze me of how stong you are. I admire you alot. I wish I could have your faith. You always try and make the best out of any bad situation. How you do it, I don't know. I do look up to you. I miss you guys alot and I hope to see you soon. I love you and b.e strong. <3

Brandon Baby;
WOW. !

Oh baby I lost it last night. I was laying in bed talking to Wes and I just started thinking...and thinking about everything thats been going on lately. And I completely lost it. I haven't cried that hard in a pretty long time. I feel as if everythings just building up inside and I had to let it out. Bran I've been talking to you alot lately and I need your help. I'm more confused than ever. I'm about ready to give up and say forget it. I feel like nothing is going the way it should and I don't do well with stress at all. You always told me everythings going to be okay and to not have you here to hear you say that kills me inside. I need you so badly. You always made me feel better. Bran I look up to you. You went through alot of stuff and I have no idea how you handled everything so well and not freak out. You were always calm about things and you always listened to everyone elses problems and gave the best advice. I still have no idea how on earth you managed to do that. I would die to have your stength and faith. Baby your amazingggg. Today I got a little torn up when a teacher mentioned you. He happened to see my phone and saw my wallpaper. It's a picture of me and you and my banner says "rip my angel". I lost my train of thought when he started talking. I didn't want to lose it right then. I knew I had to be strong because that's what you would have wanted. But yet tears came to my eyes. Just like they are now. Baby I guess what I'm trying to say is I NEED you more than ever. Just to have one sign from you would be amazing. Just please let me know your still there by my side holding me together. That's all I ask. Babe I'm gonna come visit you soon I promise. But in the meanwhile please just one sign. <3 I love you and miss you terribly. You'll always be my babyboy Brandon. Always. Buttt be good in Heaven and hit me a homerun.
See you soon sweetie <3
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 15, 2008 6:46 PM CDT

Scott and Anita,
We want you to know we still have you in our prayers.I especially thought of you Anita on Mother's Day. Keep remembering how special Brandon was to bring a smile on your face each day.
Love,
Janice Rappleyea
Janice Rappleyea <jrappleyea@fergusonbox.com>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, May 14, 2008 7:21 AM CDT

Anita - thinking of you today.....
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, May 11, 2008 8:52 PM CDT

Anita,
Thinking of you today. You are and have always been a wonderful mom. Brandon and Brooke are two blessed kids. I pray that you found some peace and comfort today in that knowledge.
Love, Brigette
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 5:25 PM CDT

Hello,
I know you do not know me, I'm Haley Taylor from Rock Hill Sc. I was looking at alittle boys site in our neighbor, he has Kidney Cancer and the Dr's say he is not going to make it much longer (Alex.)
I stumbled upon Bradons site from Hometown Hereos.
I can't even imagine what you guys have gone through.
I just want you to know that I'm am praying for you and your family. That God's peace would surround you and you would feel His comforting arms wrapped tight around you.
I'm praying for a Mother's Day full of love and peace!
We will all see Brandon one day soon!

Love in Christ,
Haley Taylor
Haley Taylor <haleybtaylor@gmail.com>
Rock Hill, sc York - Friday, May 9, 2008 6:49 PM CDT

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LIANE DAVIES <CERBC2008@YAHOO.COM>
TREDEGAR, SW UNITED KINGDOM - Friday, May 9, 2008 5:24 AM CDT

Hi Elams, We are keeping you in our prayers!!
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 8, 2008 8:57 AM CDT

Thinking of you ALWAYS!

Love,
Rob, Sheila, Steven & Tyler
The Chaffee Family <sheilachaffee@charter.net>
Greenville, SC USA - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 5:39 PM CDT

Dear Anita,
You may be feeling particularly sad this Mother�s Day since Brandon was the one who first made you a mother 17 years ago. I encourage you to think not just of how much you've lost, but also of what you still have that Brandon has given to you, to Scott, to Brooke, to other members of your family, and to everyone else whose lives Brandon touched in one way or another.
How would Brandon want to be remembered by you? What is the legacy that he has left to you? What has Brandon given to you that will sustain you now, as you learn other ways of keeping him here with you, now that you are no longer separated by time and space and distance? Death may have ended Brandon�s life, but it has not canceled it. He will always be your son, and you will always be his mother. He will always be a part of who you are, and the relationship you have with him will go on forever.
If you�re feeling sad on Mother�s Day, try imagining Brandon saying the words in the poem below to you. It may bring you some comfort.

Now that I am gone
Remember me with smiles and laughter.
And if you need to cry,
Cry with Dad and Brooke
Who walk in grief beside you.
And when you need me,
Put your arms around anyone
And give to them what you need to give to me.
There are so many who need so much.
I want to leave you something --
Something much better than words or sounds.
Look for me in the people I�ve known
Or helped in some special way.
Let me live in your heart
As well as your mind.
You can love me most
By letting your love reach out to our loved ones,
By embracing them and living in their love.
Love does not die, people do.
So, when all that�s left of me is love,
Give me away as best you can.

-Author Unknown

Wishing you love, comfort, and peace,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Monday, May 5, 2008 10:29 AM CDT

hey other family.
It's been a while. I miss ya'll. I just want ya'll to know that your in my prayers literally every night. Time is going by so fast that I can't even catch up. Life is changing everyday but we will always remember who is a big part of our lives and trust me I always will remember brandon no matter what im going threw. I love you guys.

Mia M.
Indian Trail, NC US - Sunday, May 4, 2008 6:31 PM CDT

hey scott, anita & brooke ;)
i hope you guys have been holding up okay and staying strong. i feel like i havent talked to you in a while. my interents been broke so i havent been able to get on in a few weeks. but i think about yall daily. my boyfriend and i went to visit brandon on the 2nd. it looks absolutely beautiful out there. brandon would be so proud! i know he loves it. im hoping to come see yall soon. i sure do miss you alot! LOVE YOUU!<3

hey bran :)
i miss you so much baby. i need you soooo bad right now! for real i cant handle anything on my own at the moment. you know what im talking about too. baby come back. when i say your the only guy i need in my life to make me happy its the truth. i miss you so much and i wanna see you so bad right now. i want to sit beside you agian and hear you tell me its going to be okay. i just wanna hear that voice of yours again. i wanna be able to hug you and hear you say i love you just one more time. you have no idea what i would give up right this very second to hear that! i know your probably mad at me for crying friday but baby i couldnt help it. i thought about you and i realized how bad i need you back. i really do. baby i cant wait to see you again. im gonna come visit you again soon but in the meanwhile send some signs to remind me your still by my side. <3 i love you i miss you i need you. see you soon brandon scott elam!
kasey haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 4, 2008 4:37 PM CDT

i may not have known brandon but i'm very sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to all of you
alonte williams <alonte_williams@yahoo.com>
Trotwood, OH United States - Sunday, May 4, 2008 3:45 PM CDT

Hey Elam Family :]

Its been 7months and yall have stayed strong. Everything will work fine for all of you. It was nice to see all of yall at brandons brithday bash. It was amazingg and i know brandon loved it.

Stay Strong :]

Rebecca Wright <Msem4u@aol.com>
Indian Trail, Nc - Sunday, May 4, 2008 2:56 PM CDT

Hi you guys. I've been thinking about all of you.
sherri johnston
- Friday, May 2, 2008 12:54 AM CDT

Elams- I havent been on here too often recently, and im sorry for that. i was just checking up to see how yall were doing, i know it must be hard but i hope its getting better everyday. i was wondering if you guys got the flowers that i put on your doorstep =]]]
i hope you guys are doing okay and i LOVE ALL OF YALL !
ps call me !:] <3

Laura Medlin
Monroe , - Friday, May 2, 2008 9:36 AM CDT

Dear Elam family,

I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you today and I think of you everyday as well. Hope you are all doing as well as can be expected.

God Bless,

Kathy Jaramillo
Kathy Jaramillo
La Porte, TX USA - Friday, May 2, 2008 8:17 AM CDT

Anita & family--
Just thinking about you this morning and wanted to let you know.

Take care.
Love,
Tricia Witherspoon ^Jenna's^ mom <triciawit@hotmail.com>
Fort Mill, SC - Friday, May 2, 2008 6:01 AM CDT

Just saying...hello, to my favorite people.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc union - Thursday, May 1, 2008 9:18 PM CDT

Just wanted to stop in and let you all know that we are thinking if you.
susan <abrswayne@bellsouth.net>
stanley, nc - Thursday, May 1, 2008 4:10 PM CDT

Hi Elams!

I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you. I realized it had been a while since I checked on you.

My son, Bennett, is playing T-Ball this year for the first time. He was out at opening day when the field was dedicated to Brandon. It amazes me to think that he is playing on the same fields Brandon once played on. Anita, I am with you when you say it's not fair.

Like you guys, I find reminders of Brandon a lot. Like the field dedication. I didn't know that was happening that day--but there was Brandon touching my family once again!

I am praying for you guys as always. I think of you often when we are at the games. You should be at games for Brandon, too. I'm so sad for you guys, but so glad you shared your sweet boy with so many. I'll check on you again soon!
Leslie <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, April 26, 2008 2:39 PM CDT

Everything went well at our Relay but they didn't play taps as I thought but did play Amazing Grace as people walked the track to remember loved ones and friends. All in all it was a great night. We talked about different ones and Brandon's name was mentioned as we walked around the track. Brandon is still remembered here in Lancaster. Our prayers are still with you all and remember me also.
The Croxton's <ecroxton@comporium.net>
Lancaster, S.C. USA - Friday, April 25, 2008 10:33 PM CDT

Will be at the Lancaster Relay for Life tonight April 25,2008. I will proudly be wearing Brandon's picture and bracelet as I make my lap as a survivor of cancer. At 10:pm they will play taps as the lumanaries are lighted up and the taps will be for everyone who has lost their battle with cancer. This is real nice for the families but very sad. Anyway I will be thinking of you tonight at Lancaster Stadium. May God continue to hold you in His arms.
The Croxton's

The Croxton's <ecroxton@comporium.net>
Lancaster, S.C. USA - Friday, April 25, 2008 2:09 PM CDT

You remain in my thoughts and prayers. May God continue to bless you and give you peace.
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Tuesday, April 22, 2008 7:09 AM CDT

We think about you all - and Brandon - so often -
sending warm wishes from Ellijay, Ga...from Raineys Gramma & Grampa
Pat & Susan Skinner <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, Ga USA - Saturday, April 19, 2008 9:11 PM CDT

Dear Scott, Anita, & Brook,

This week a pair of birds began building a nest in the bird house that I can see directly from my office window. I got out my binoculars and bird book and identified them as house sparrows. This couple, unlike others we have had, really seem to know what they are doing. The female perches in front of the hole until the male comes with nesting material. She moves aside to let him in and then promptly returns to her post in front of the hole. When the male is finished she lets him out and then returns to guard the entrance. Sometimes the male flies to the house with materials but doesn't proceed to put them in; he just flies off. I wonder if that's because the female has somehow rejected his choice of materials??? I know that I'm pretty picky about what goes in and out of my house, so, maybe she is too.

Anyway, all of this animal activity made me think of Brandon. I used to enjoy sharing with him what was going on in my backyard. In my mind, these special sparrows will be building their nest in memory of Brandon this year.

My love and blessings to you all,
Reggie

Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Friday, April 18, 2008 9:21 AM CDT

Miss you guys!! Brandon - I am still hoping to see Brooke play softball sometime this Spring. I'm hoping starting tomorrow it's flip-flop weather. You and your family are in my thoughts. :-)
Chantelle Swanger <chantelle.swanger@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, April 17, 2008 9:10 PM CDT

hey guys...
i havent been on in a while but i figured id stop by and say i love you. and miss you alot. and your still in my prayers everyday.
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 16, 2008 8:10 PM CDT

I wanted to let you know that I am praying for your family.
Ashley Storey <ams0127@aol.com>
Indian Trail, NC 28079 - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 4:45 PM CDT

Just stopping in to send a hug your way. You are always in our prayers and we continue to remember Brandon when we are at clinic with so many who love him. Thank you for sharing.....
Love,
Kathy ~ Julia's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt
Kathy Nesbitt <Lvr3kids@aol.com>
Wesley chapel, NC USA - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 10:03 AM CDT

Just thinking of you, Anita. Hope to see you soon.
Donna (angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Monday, April 14, 2008 3:16 PM CDT

i just want to let you know that I keep up with your family through Joe. He goes to the same church that I go to . We are in the same Sunday school class. We prayed for Brandon while he was still living and Joe kept us all up to date on everything that went on. I know you miss him very much. You are in my prayers.Take care and God bless you!
Carolyn Brafford <Cjbsongbird@AOL.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 5:11 PM CDT

i just want to let you know that I keep up with your family through Joe. He goes to the same church that I go to . We are in the same Sunday school class. We prayed for Brandon while he was still livine and Joe kept us all up to date on everything that went on. I know you miss him very much. You are in my prayers.Take care and God bless you!
Carolyn Brafford <Cjbsongbird@AOL.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 5:09 PM CDT

Just to let you know we still think about you all and pray for all the cancer patients all over the world. Cancer takes many things from us but in the end God always gives back memories and even better He gives us the opportunity to share eternal life with our loved one. That is GREAT. I will be wearing the bracelet that you sent me in Lancaster's Relay for Life at the end of April. We will continue to pray for you and the family.
The Croxton's <ecroxton@comporium.net>
Lancaster, SC USA - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 10:54 PM CDT

hey brandon and other family.
i just stopping by to let you know i
think about yall everyday and night in my prayers.
Yall are so strong just like brandon.
It's going to be nice to all meet up in heaven again
and live with no tears and pain.
Love you guys always.

Mia Meadows
indian trail, nc us - Monday, April 7, 2008 8:53 PM CDT

I continue to pray for your family. It is encouraging to see how Brandon is still touching lives with his generous heart and gallant spirit. I hope that your days are sprinkled with pennies :-)
Christy Conley Smith (East Meck '87)
Mint Hill, NC - Monday, April 7, 2008 5:51 PM CDT

I continue to remember your family in prayer. I'm encouraged to see that Brandon is still touching lives with his generous heart and gallant spirit! May you be sprinkled with pennies every day :-)
Christy Conley Smith (East Meck '87)
Mint Hill, NC - Monday, April 7, 2008 3:44 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke, Just wanted to let you guys know that we are thinking about you. We will continue to keep you in our prayers. Hope to see you on the ballfield soon.
lori, josh, catelyn and alli <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc - Saturday, April 5, 2008 3:08 PM CDT

Hi Scott, Anita, and Brooke,

Tonight I will be thinking about Brandon as the Kansas Jayhawks (my alma mater)prepare to battle the Tar Heels of North Caroina at the NCAA Final Four. I will send a loving kiss to him in heaven at the tip-off. I know he'll be watching the game too. May the best team win!!

Love to you all and continued strength and courage,
Reggie

Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Saturday, April 5, 2008 2:18 PM CDT

You are such a strong lady! With all the sadness your family has been through this past year. You still try to bring happiness to others. What a special person you are. You and your family will always be in my prayers.
Angie Donaldson <a.donaldson@callcpc.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 3, 2008 7:27 AM CDT

hello friends~
just thought i would drop in to say that you are all in my thoughts each day and anita i miss talking with you. not one day passes in which i dont think about our boys....and like you, my heart is still trying to make sense of it all while also trying very hard to find all my thanksgivings in this mess. i love you all very much.
with love through caring & friendship~
love lannette~the FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota
lannette conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge,org/sc/dakota, - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 3:07 PM CDT

Hello Scott, Anita, & Brooke..
Hope you all are well. Think about you all often. I'm sorry I couldn't be there for Brandon's B-Day bash but it's been a little crazy. We just found out that my mom has lung cancer. Quite a blow to say the least. But if anything we are hanging tough. Something that we learned how to do just by knowing Brandon. I believe he was brought into our lives for a reason...This very reason. That this will be a tought time, but we will get through it with prayers, laughter and above all love. I so hope that each day will ease your pain. I know you all are waiting on a sign that Brandon is with you. Don't lose that hope. It will come..I think when you least expect it.
Take care of yourselves. God Bless. Chrissy
Chrissy Poppa <argm20@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 10:26 AM CDT

Hello my sweet boy. What did you think of the field ELAM-N8? Pretty awesome huh! I know you and Papa were there, I could feel both of you smiling at all that was happening. As I watched the teams coming out on the field, I remembered you in each stage from tee ball, coach pitch, all the way to little league. My heart was proud and heavy at the same time. You are still touching so many lives with the wonderful way you lived yours. As I watched from the top of the hill I could just see you playing on the field and Papa standing by the fence. I know the two of you are now enjoying baseball and football in God's heaven. Just know you are loved and will never be forgotten. You are my inspiration everyday to live life as you did, to have courage to face whatever comes my way. We all love and miss you everyday. Please come to Mom & Dad & Brooke, let them know you are with them everyday. Til we are together again, you live in my heart. All my love, your MamaLou
Esther Miele <mamawuu@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 8:01 AM CDT

hey guys[[:
its been a while since ive seen yall. i miss you guys alot. but hey my nephew is in the hospital and ive been up at CMC/levine childrens hospital alot the past few days. a few days ago i think it was i wore brandons birthday bash tshirt and a nurse came up to me and started talking about bran and how she knew of him. . she started talking about how they have a floor with cancer patients that are children. . i started telling her how i would LOVE to work with them when i get older because of the impact bran put on my life and how he inspired me alot. and she told me i should go visit and see how i like it. she said its pretty rough up there.. i met alot of amazing people due to brandon. like kendall love. shes very sweet!. but since kendall and i share the same interest. . i think we are going to get together sometime and maybe take the nurse up on that.. brandon made a major impact on us and we both would do anything in this world to help someone out [[: we are both doing this for him and we look to him everyday for the strengh and faith he put into everything he did. and that all somes back to the amazing parents/family he had to back him up that he set his mind to. i love you guys so much and i know hes still there watching over me you and everyone else. i love knowing the fact hes by my side everyday getting me through [[: the elam family truely does amaze me in every way possible. <33 see you guys soon [[:
kasey haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 31, 2008 2:59 PM CDT

Scott Anita and Brooke,
Saturday was a wonderfull day for us all at MHAA. It was an honor to celebrate Brandon's life and we were humbled to dedicate field #8 in his name. Thanks for sharing Brandon with us.
One story from Saturday that I wanted to pass on. I had a coach pitch coach tell me Saturday night that his players were really touched by the ceremony. He said before their game they wanted to talk about this kid "Brandon" that they had just heard so much about. The coach did the best he could to answer all of the questions then a player (keep in mind these are 7 or 8 year old kids)asked if between innings when they broke the huddle if they could yell...BRANDON.... instead of the usual baseball stuff. The coach was touched immensly by what his group of 7-8 year old players took from that day. So if it helps any at all please know that your son is still making a difference in other peoples lives in a way no one else could.
I can only imagine how proud you all must be of your son and his legacy.
Chuck Jones <admin@mhaa.us>
Mint Hill, NC USA - Monday, March 31, 2008 1:08 PM CDT

Hey brandon and other family.
I miss you brandon so much. I wish he could still be with us on earth but God thought it was best he be in heaven with him. He is watching over us all the time. When i feel like life is getting hard, or im having issues in life, i just think of brandon and think, be strong like him. Show no fear of what can happen in the future. I love him so much and it's weird that life goes by so fast and he is already 17 yrs old. Spring break was weird cause i didn't see brooke and my other family. I was so busy with seeing people i hadn't seen in a while. I am defffinantly coming home soon :)
well i love you guys so much.
3LAM-N8-CANCER
Mia Meadows
indian trail, nc us - Sunday, March 30, 2008 7:39 PM CDT

The dedication ceremony at the Mint Hill fields was so impressive. It was like one giant family gathered together to celebrate the life of Brandon and his love for baseball. I am certain that Brandon was there on Saturday. You could just feel his presence in the crowd. And as Scott said, we all learned from Brandon that you can't take life for granted. Hope each day that your load is lighter, as memories of an incredible young man remain in your hearts.
Kim Williams <kbwjcw@infionline.net>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, March 30, 2008 4:17 PM CDT

Brandon has touched so many lives in so many ways, and continues to do so today. It was such an Honor to be able to be apart of something so wonderful, it makes you stop and appreciate all the wonderful people in the world and those that still come together when we need each other the most. This will be one of my most memorable moments in my life to see so many people come together for such a great Tribute. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of this.
Terry Bowers <tbpantherfan@aol.com>
Monroe, NC United States - Sunday, March 30, 2008 2:58 PM CDT

I just saw the piece on the news about the park named after Brandon. I know Brandon was smiling down on you all. I also know he is smiling big right now about Carolina!!

I still think of you all often and pray for you as well. May God continue to give you peace that passes all understanding. God Bless
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Saturday, March 29, 2008 10:42 PM CDT

hi!
I went to Brandon's 17th Birthday Bash.
Just wanted to stop by and say hi.
Hope your family is doing good!
Lindz <boppergirl58@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 29, 2008 6:51 PM CDT

WE LOST OUR GRANDAUGHTER ON SEPT.16,2007 FROM THE SAME NASTY MONSTER AS YOUR DEAR SON. OUR LITTLE EMILY HAD JUST TURNED THREE ON AUGUST 13TH AND WE HAD A HUGE PARTY FOR HER ALSO. THE PAIN IS STILL SO GREAT BUT OUR CHILDREN DON'T HAVE TO FIGHT IT ANYMORE. I'M SURE THEY ARE PLAYING AND LAUGHING AND WAITING TILL WE CAN JOIN THEM AGAIN. GOD BLESS YOU GUYS AND LIKE US,WE HOPE TIME WILL HEAL.
RICHARD A. LINAWEAVER <STANGD@FRONTIERNET.NET>
WARDNESVILLE, WV HARDY - Saturday, March 29, 2008 12:29 AM CDT

Brandon,
Your baseball field is so special! ELAM-N8 FIELD will always be yours! I know you and your Papa were watching and you are so proud of your Mom, Dad, & Brooke, your Hometown Heroes, Coach Stu and your teammates, and all your Mint Hill Athletic Family. How about that pitch that your beautiful sister threw? She is AWESOME!

There will be thousands of games played on your baseball field and you will always be remembered! Your Papa Bill said that you are a book that will always have a new chapter. These words speak volumes about you Brandon. Your Papa is so right! You will always have a new chapter, because of how you impacted the lives of so many people with your faith, courage, strength, positive winning attitude, and gentle caring nature.

Until we see you again, dear friend, we will be loving and missing you.
Kim, Ron, and Brent

KBellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Saturday, March 29, 2008 11:30 AM CDT

Heyy guys.

Okay so Easter was a little different. Instead of My boyfriend and I or Macy and I going out to the grave..My mom and I went. The only thing my mom could say was how beautiful it was out there and how peaceful it is. She mentioned that my grandparents are out there as well. Something I didn't know. But the bench was speechless. Whoever did it, did a AMAZING job and I bet you guys are happy (: But I'm fixing to go out. But I just want to stop by and tell you guy I've been thinking about you alot lately and I love you. I mentioned to Brooke that I'd like to come visit real soon so I'm sure you'll be getting a phone call before long. I love you ! B.E. Strong!
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 26, 2008 5:20 PM CDT

Brandon and your family: My family took time to go and visit your grave today. It is just 1/2 mile from our house. I loved all the balloons and your new bench. We put up the Panther blue wind chime with love and pride. Your family and loving friends are faithful to your courage and strength. You are still teaching us all about life, Brandon even though we miss you a lot ; you are making us all do kind and thoughtful things for others. I know the Heavens are having many wonderful Easter happening celebrating Jesus' death for our sins. Through your courage you have taught so many that JESUS LOVES US....
Anita , Scott, Brooke I hope God will help you during this Easter Holiday Season. God Bless you all, Stebie
Stebie Thompson <mrst5151@aol.com>
Matthews , NC USA - Friday, March 21, 2008 4:29 PM CDT

Hello Elam family! We thought about you all day Saturday and were praying for a wonderful celebration! Tyler had a blast. As Marshall and I were flying home yesterday on Brandon's 17th Birthday - I was looking at the white fluffy & soft clouds and feeling a sense of comfort and peace knowing although we miss seeing Brandon - he is and always will be a part of everything around us - he continues to remind us of the purity and hope in every day - his special love of life lives on ...
The Kirks <rkkirk@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 5:49 PM CDT

Anita & family--
Thought about you a lot yesterday--and today too. I know Brandon had a wonderful celebration in heaven and I think he would like everything you did in his honor yesterday and over the weekend. Hope you have a good rest of the week. Take care.
Love,
Tricia Witherspoon ^Jenna's^ mom
Fort Mill, SC - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 9:14 AM CDT

Brandon, Happy Birthday, Sweet Boy!! I have thought about you all day long. I know you had a great birthday in Heaven, but I, like so many others, wish we could all have been able to celebrate here with you. There is a song I love by Lifehouse called "Storm". I heard it today and as always it makes me think of you as you walked into heaven for the first time and met Jesus as he wrapped you in his healing embrace. I bet you are beaming with pride as you watch your mom, dad and Brooke celebrate your life and memory in such grand style. You have one amazing family my friend.
Each night, Katie picks her outfit and jewelry for the next day out, but no matter what color or style she is wearing, your bracelet is always there. She says that it is her favorite jewelry and because it reminds her of you it goes with everything. I know she misses you, but she is lucky enough to feel and see your presence in her life as one of her colorful guardian angels (you are panther blue of course). Keep watching over my baby. I know you had a hand in those last scans being so clearly cancer free.
I read MamaLou's entry and I just have to ask, "How much fun is it driving that new Hummer around Heaven?"
Anita, Scott and Brooke, as always, especially today, I pray for peace and healing for you all. You are an amazing family and I am so proud to call you my friends. I miss seeing you all.
Sending love and hugs to all of you and one giant hug straight up to heaven.
Love, Brigette
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 18, 2008 9:49 PM CDT

Brandon Scott Elam<3

Happy Birthday BabyBoy!!

Wow, you're 17!! Getting old. Haha. Last night Heather, Yates, Amanda, Wes, and I PLUS your family:) went to go paint the rock at the school for you.:D I'm sure you liked it. I went to your grave tonight and I'm not gonna lie, it was really hard. Brandon your grave looks beautiful! I hope you liked the 17 balloons I let go in the sky<3 And your big balloon and blue gatorade I left at your grave. On that note, Bran I miss you so much. As selfish as it sounds, I WANT YOU BACK! I want you to be spending your 17th birthday here with us. I want to hear your voice, I want to look into those deep beautiful brown eyes, and I want to see that amazing smile again. I want to be able to pick up the phone and call you whenever I please. This morning when I woke up I was like "HEY IT'S BRAN'S BIRTHDAY!" I reached for my phone..I was going to call you baby but then I realized your in heaven..I busted out in tears Brandon. Please come see me in my dreams. I miss you and Love you ALOT!!! See you soon!<3

Anita, Scott, and Brooke..
You guys amaze me. You handle whatever is thrown at you very well. I love you guys so much. I'll see you soon!<3
Kasey Haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 18, 2008 9:04 PM CDT

Sending special thoughts your way today....
Lisa, John, Erik and Alek Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 7:44 PM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRANDON. I hope your having a great birthday in heaven. We are all thinking of you and can't wait to see you. I know today is hard on your parents but i know there being strong just like you. Someday were all going to be able to celebrate our birthdays together again and I can hardley wait. i love you so much brandon. Your on my mind more than once every single day.

much love to my other family..
& ESPECIALLY YOU :)

3LAM-N8-CANCER
Mia Meadows
Indian trail, NC US - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 6:46 PM CDT

Just a little note to say...Happy Birthday Brandon. Scott,Anita, and Brooke your in my thoughts, especially today.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 6:09 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
Hope you guys are Doing fine!
it brandons first birthday in heaven!! and i miss him every much! its so hard to believe that just last year he turn 16 and everything to me it feels like yesterday!!
well love you guys a lot and your in my thoughts everyday!
Love you brandon and i miss you very much!!
Love,
Courtney
Courtney Craig <Bigsiss247@yahoo.com>
monroe, nc united states - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 4:17 PM CDT

Thinking of all of you today.
kris <mhanes1@carolina.rr.com>
- Tuesday, March 18, 2008 3:02 PM CDT

Thinking about your family and and praying for you all on your Brandon's 1st Birthday in Heaven. You all are in my heart.
Dawn W. Hastings ~ ^i^Brandon^i^, Jordan, & Seth's Mom ~ www.caringbridge.org/de/brandonhastings <et8503@yahoo.com>
Milford, DE - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 2:45 PM CDT

Happy Birthday my sweet Brandon. I know you are having a wonderful day in Heaven with Jesus and Papa. Did Papa get you the Hummer, I told him you probably wanted one. I miss you more than I could ever put in words, you were the light of my life. I couldn't have asked for a more wonderful Grandson, you taught me so many things, one especially to always remember to tell your loved ones how much you care for them. You taught me to "fight strong", I can only hope to be half as courageous as you were. You were our Angel here on earth, and now you are God's Angel in Heaven. I will always remember your wonderful smile, and your beautiful sparkling eyes, and especially your kind, gentle nature. HAPPY 17th Branman. Until I am with you in Heaven I will keep you alive in my heart. Love to you and Papa. Your MamaLou
Esther Miele <mamawuu@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 2:24 PM CDT

Happy 17th birthday sweet Brandon. We miss you soo much, but we are celebrating and thinking of you on this special day. Anita I know this is a hard day for you, I am praying and thinking of you always.Ilove ya, Kristen
Kristen Brandwood <Nurspeds@aol.com>
charlotte, nc 28278 - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 2:05 PM CDT

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
What a wonderful Birthday Bash for Brandon on Saturday. I enjoyed every minute and can't wait until next year. I am praying for you to have peace today. I hope that Brandon's bench was installed. We love you all so much and think over you every day. I don''t know how you keep the smiles on your faces. You are a very special family.

Brandon,
We hope you are having a celebration with your PaPa, Bobby Abernathy and your friend Dakota in heaven. We all miss you so much and we will always remember you , you will not be forgotten.

Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 2:03 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!! Have fun celebrating in heaven! We all love and miss you so much!
Brittney Householder <householderbm@appstate.edu>
Boone, NC USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 12:37 AM CDT

HAPPY B-Day! BRAN-MAN

Today 17 years ago I was at the hospital with your mom and dad waiting for you to arrive. It was such a pleasure being there with your entire family. We all were so excited to see you when you did finally arrive. All of your entire life you were such a wonderful baby, child, and then you grew into such a wonderful young man. I never thought in a million years that you would not be here with us on this day! I never thought in a million years that you would be taken away from your family and friends at such a young age. You did so much for so many people during the time you were here with us. I have to say that not a day goes by that thoughts of you don't cross my mind. Wanted to send a GREAT BIG H-BIRTHDAY to YOU in HEAVEN!!
Love to you Always!!
Lisa Selberg
Lisa Selberg <lselberg@harristeeter.com>
Matthews, NC US - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 12:05 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Brandon!!! We love you and miss you soooo much!
Michelle,Chris, Wally, Kendall and Brittany
- Tuesday, March 18, 2008 8:57 AM CDT

Anita, Scott, and Brooke,
We wish you peace for today with more signs from Brandon. We wish you sweet memories that flood you with smiles as you think about how much joy he gave you.

Brandon,
We wish you "endless birthday hugs" that reach all the way to heaven from your family and friends.

Until we see you again, dear friend, we will be loving and missing you!
Love,
Kim, Ron, and Brent
kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 8:31 AM CDT

Elam Family,

I just wanted to let you know not a day goes by that I don't think of yall. Everytime I go to the gym in Weddington I stop by to say hello to Brandon. Wow I can't believe Brandon is 17 today I'm sure he is having the time of his life up in heaven! I thought the tribute in the paper was just beautiful. You guys stay strong and just know I love you all!
Jennifer Gaddy <JTisdell23@aol.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 7:50 AM CDT

Please know that I am thinking of you on this special day. I saw your lovely tribute to Brandon in the paper this morning--it was nice to see his smiling face.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, March 18, 2008 6:43 AM CDT

BRANDON: YOU ARE THE BEST. YOUR ELEMENTARY SCHOOL HAS BEEN VERY EXCITED ABOUT THEIR "PENNIES FROM HEAVEN" DRIVE. MR.THOMPSON AND I COUNTED AND COUNTED AND THE TOTAL IS JUST SO GREAT. HEMBY BRIDGE WILL DONATE $645.51 TO THE BRANDON ELAM N8 CANCER FOUNDATION .
WE ARE SO GRATEFUL THAT THE LITTLE STUDENTS DONATED PENNIES TO HELP FIGHT CANCER. THE STUDENTS ENJOYED THE BIRTHDAY BASH AND THEY ARE WEARING THE BUTTONS AND BRACELETS TO HONOR BRANDON'S COURAGE.
ANITA ,SCOTT AND BROOKE THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR TIME AND ENERGY TO HELP MAKE A DIFFERENT IN THIS WORLD. YOUR ACTIONS AND DREAMS FOR THE FOUNDATION WILL WORK THROUGH THE COMMUNITY GIVING BACK IN HONOR OF BRANDON.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND REMEMBER HEMBY BRIDGE LOVES EACH OF YOU AND BRANDON'S SMILE IS WITH US ALWAYS.
LOVE TO ALL, STEBIE THOMPSON ,MUSIC TEACHER
STEBIE THOMPSON <MRST5151@AOL.COM>
MATTHEWS, NC USA - Monday, March 17, 2008 9:18 PM CDT

Brandon, thank you for putting in a good word for us so that the bad weather held off long enough to continue the work you started here on earth! We think of you often..pray for your parents and sister daily.....and remember and love you every moment of the day.
Mrs. B and your friends that love you from Porter Ridge! <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Indian Trail, NC - Monday, March 17, 2008 6:18 PM CDT

Tommorow is your BIG day brandon. I know the lord has a big party for you tommorow. Saturday was your birthday bash. I couldnt make it cause i was out of town but i wish i did so bad. I heard you told the lord to hold the rain until it was over. It's crazy that it's been a whole year since your 16th bday. I'll never forget that day.. EVER! Well i promise i won't cry tommorow, i'll smile just like you always do. i love you so much big bro.

much love to You,Anits,Scott,Brooke.
my other family.
x0xo.
3lam-n8-cancer
Mia Meadows
Inidan trail, NC US - Monday, March 17, 2008 3:52 PM CDT

hey guys~
i know this week is a tough one so i did not want to bother you with a phone call, instead i came here to send you tons of love and peaceful thoughts for tomorrow. from what everyone has wrote here, it sounds like the "Brandon birthday BASH" was wonderful!!! sorry i was not there, i had to be at work that day @1:00 (yuck!)however i cant wait to hear all the details. i hope the bench was delivered for you guys today. well i just wanted to say how very much i love you guys and you are always in my heart....anita call me when you are up to it.
love lannette~the FOREVER PROUD momma to Dakota

Brandon sweetie~happy birthday in Heaven!! i can only imagine the beauty that surrounds you and how special birthdays must be in Heaven. as your momma said once on Dakota's site "i know it's not cool for boys to give a kiss to one another"...however could you please give a kiss to my boo-boo for me...thank you. i love you very much and miss your sweet smile.
love lannette
lannette conder <nutchale@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.org/sc/dakota, - Monday, March 17, 2008 3:10 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Week... Brandon,
Seems like just a few months ago we celebrated your 16th Birthday.It's hard to believe it's been a year. Know that all those that knew you will be thinking of you tomorrow and saying a prayer for the entire "Elam Family". We love you and want you to know, "You'll never be forgotten, you'll remain in our hearts, forever"..
Linda & Robert Kincaid <Lindakincaid@aol.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, March 17, 2008 10:32 AM CDT

Brandon, Yesterday was amazing - thank you so much!! You and your family are such an inspiration. We love you all. :-)
Chantelle Swanger <chantelle.swanger@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, March 16, 2008 4:12 PM CDT

The birthday bash was a huge success. It was an honor and a privilege to be a part of it. Brandon was in my thoughts throuhout the day. It was if he was right there. I know he enjoyed seeing all the fun being had. I'm sure he had something to do with the weather turning out better than predicted too. My children Cassidy 14 and Tanner 4 came along today and had a blast. Especially Tanner, he had been looking forward to Brandon Elam day for weeks. He wanted to be in the bike race and brought his racing bike. So I created a 4 yr. old division of the bike race. Of course he was the only entrant, but he won!!! What a great time in remembrance of a great kid!!!
Mike Helms <michael.helms@ucps.k12.nc.us>
- Sunday, March 16, 2008 6:37 AM CDT

Brandon, you birthday bash turned out great today. I know you were there because you held the storm off just like your mom asked you to do. :):) Everyone misses you and wishes they could see you for your 17th birthday. I hope you and your PaPa have a �Big Birthday Bash�. Cooper and I will stop by to see you on Tuesday. Happy Birthday Brandon!!

Steve, Kim, Colton and Cooper <skgustina@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Saturday, March 15, 2008 10:30 PM CDT

Scott, Anita, and Brooke (:
Today was beyond AMAZINGGGG. I don't think he would have asked for a better party. As you stood on the trailer..you guys brought tears to my eyes with what you had to say. It was so good talking to you guys. I miss you alot..After we left his party we went to visit Brandon out at his grave. On the way there we stopped and got a "cool blue" gatorade (: We put them out there with all the other stuff. Scott, I also told him you said hey!(: I plan on going back on the 18th for his birthday..I will be taking blue, black, and white balloons out there and letting them go up in the sky for him..But I hope to see you guys real soon. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!<3

BRANDONNNNN BABYYY!!
Your party was so amazing today. I know you were there watching over all of us. I came and visited you today. It was nice talking to you. Bran I miss you so much.. Alot of people were there for you today. We all miss you terribly. Thanks for holding me together today.. I'm surpised I didn't break down but I know it's cause you were there and you wouldn't want me too <3 But baby I'll come in 3 days for your 17th birthday (: I'm bringing you balloons. I hope you like them. I'll see you soon baby boy<3 Love you and miss you so much Bran<3
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 15, 2008 8:14 PM CDT

hello elam family.
well brando will be 17 soon and i cant bealive how long it has been since he has been gone. i think about him every day and how he changed my life. i miss him sooo munch and let me tell u brooke is one of the sweetest people she is so grow up and acts older than she is. well i am planning on goin to see brandon this weekend and i am bring some flowers and a brithday card and i got a gift just for him. i know brandon is going to have a great 17th birthday in heaven and here. it is going to be great! well i miss him so munch an di dont know how many times i can say that. i love brandon and miss him. i just watched the slideshow and tears started to come down my face and it brings back thoughts about him i still reamber that morning that i found out he was gone i felt tears coming down my face as i heard the words brandon is gone. well i cant wait brandon's brithday bash is goin be so munch fun and i just cant wait!!
i love you elam family!
lindley boger <boger.karen@yahoo.com>
monore, nc america - Friday, March 14, 2008 8:32 PM CDT

Dear Elam family,

My relationship with Brandon caused me to become an advocate for fighting cancer. Today I got word that the Specter-Harkin Amendment was adopted (see below). I know Brandon would be pleased to hear this news. It's interesting that this news came on the heals of his 17th birthday. I can't help but think he had a hand in its passing. I will be thinking of him and you on March 18.

You all are still in my daily prayers.

Love & blessings,
Reggie

SPECTER-HARKIN AMENDMENT ADOPTED
Your voice was heard!!

Cancer advocates from across the country took action this week to contact their Senators to seek their support for an amendment to the Budget Resolution offered by Senator Arlen Specter (R-PA), the Ranking Republican member of the Labor/HHS/Education appropriations subcommittee, and Senator Tom Harkin (D-IA), Chairman of the subcommittee. The amendment calls for an increase in funding for the National Institutes of Health of $2.1 billion in Fiscal Year 2009. Passage of this amendment is a significant first step in the budget process to reverse the trend of declining funding for NIH and NCI.

Today the Senate adopted the Specter-Harkin amendment by a vote of 95-4.

Thank you for your help.
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Friday, March 14, 2008 7:03 AM CDT

Never forgetting you Brandon!!! I'll be playing b-ball for you on Saturday!
Ashley
Indian Trail, NC US - Thursday, March 13, 2008 7:46 AM CDT

BRANDON I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU
YOU ARE AN AMZONG PERSON EVEN IF YOUR IN HEAVEN NEVER FOR GET THAT WE WERE THERE FOR YOU AND STILL ARE FOR YOUR FAMILY HAVE FUN ON THE STREETS OF GOLD IN ARE HEARTS YOU ARE STILL HERE AND ALWAYS WILL BE BRANDON I SPEAK FOR EVERY ONE WHEN I SAY THIE I LOVE YOU AND WILL NEVER FOR GET YOU
Deana Wilson <sdeana180@gmail.com>
Indain trail, NC USA - Tuesday, March 11, 2008 4:57 PM CDT

I'm looking so forward in helping with the party on Saturday. I hope that alot of people come out in rememberance for what YOU believed in and stood for. Whoever reads this, come to Porter Ridge High School this Saturday!
G Stanley <grace.stanley@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Indain Trail, NC USA - Monday, March 10, 2008 7:34 PM CDT

i love you with all my heart<3 your in my prayers each and everyday. i miss you guys alot! i'll see you soon :)
kasey haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 9, 2008 12:10 AM CDT

We continue to keep you in our prayers. May the memories you have, carry you through, til you meet Brandon again.
Love, Lori, Josh, Catelyn and Alli
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 8, 2008 7:49 PM CST

Your pain is palpable and my heart breaks for all of you. I cant help but think that Brandon would be bummed to know of your hurting. His always ready smile...his indomitable spirit...all the good memories...may they help lift you up and begin anew this spring...Brandon would want that I bet!
We are thinking about you and praying for healing days ahead~
Raineys Gramma & Grampa
Susan & Pat Skinner <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, Ga USA - Wednesday, March 5, 2008 6:23 PM CST

I recently placed my ELAM-N8 Cancer bracelet on the corner of my treasured tribute to Brandon that you gave me. It hangs on the wall as you exit my office door. You cannot imagine how many people know Brandon and comment on the impact he and all of you have had on us.
sherri johnston
- Wednesday, March 5, 2008 12:02 AM CST

I think about your family often and you were heavy on my mind on the 2nd. I know this month will bring a flood of mixed emotions. The "events" are so hard...everyday is so hard. I'm sorry so many of us have to go on living without our kids. I'm proud of all you do. It is difficult, but you are doing it. Brandon is very proud.
Take care of yourselves,
Charlotte (Sam's mom)
www.caringbridge.org/visit/samkeziah
Charlotte Keziah <ckeziah@earthlink.net>
- Tuesday, March 4, 2008 7:46 PM CST

Hey Brandon. In 7th grade, Pre Algebra, I was a friend of Brookes'. I never knew you, but I am so sorry of what happened, and the grief. R.I.P.
Christina Jones
- Tuesday, March 4, 2008 6:17 PM CST

Wow I can't belive it's been five months. Its almost your 17th bday .It seems like yesterday we were on the way to your 16th bday.. in the limo and you had no clue that we were not going to Nicato's ahah. My 16th will never be that good. but im ten times happier you got you got such a great birthday! I know the Lord has a big birthday party planned for you in heaven in a few days. Everyday is speacial up there but I know your 17th birthday is gonna be a blast. This weekend me and brooke and korey and jordan are going to a hockey game with some home town heros, wish you could be there brandon. oh yeh.. Brooke plays softball for school and I know your proud of her, cause you told me in october that you wanted her to play really bad. well you got your wish and I know your watching it front row. well i love you so so so muchh brandon. Can't wait to be with you in heaven.

Much love to my other family.
3LAM-N8-CANCER.
:)
Mia Meadows <misezlaffytaffy@rr.com>
Indian trial, nc us - Tuesday, March 4, 2008 6:06 PM CST

I just wanted you all to know I think of you each and every day. I had lunch today at Marino's in Waxhaw and I couldn't help but remember Brandon telling me they had "real" pizza there. Brandon, my friends and I had some for you.
Anita, I will call soon. I have been overwhelmed with the volume of info one must have to end a marriage. Life does suck some times, huh?

I love you all.
Brigette
brigette deville <brigedev@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 4, 2008 4:19 PM CST

Hello Elams. Anita, you are in my prayers always. I know this is impossibly hard and I have no words to make it easier. I do hope your heart is healing soon and that you can someday find comfort knowing how loved Brandon and your entire family are....... Peace to you.
Kathy ~ www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt

Kathy Nesbitt <Lvr3kids@aol.com>
Wesley Chapel, NC - Monday, March 3, 2008 9:47 PM CST

Dear Brandon,
5 months seems like years...Until we meet again, dear friend, we love you and miss you.
Kim, Ron, and Brent

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Sunday, March 2, 2008 10:50 PM CST

GO BRANDON
JARED YOUNG
FORT WAYNE, IN USA - Sunday, March 2, 2008 5:55 PM CST

Thinking of you today, on the 2nd.

God bless,

Kathy J.
Kathy Jaramillo
La Porte, TX USA - Sunday, March 2, 2008 5:29 PM CST

Hi Elams!

I can't believe it has been almost a year since Brandon's 16th birthday party. I can't imagine how much you guys miss him. I am really looking forward to the big event--thanks for letting me help out. It means a lot to me to do something for Brandon.

You are always in my prayers. I hope your days get brighter soon.
Leslie Southerland <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:43 PM CST

hey brandon. i thought i would stop by and say hello and tell you that i miss you. there is not a day that goes by that i think of you and wonder how you are. i know that you are in a better place and much happier. i know that you are watching over your family,friends, and those that were there for you and supported you. you fought hard and changed everyones lives. you showed us what real strength and real bravery is. because of you i live my life like there may not be a tomorrow and to not take anything for granted. i want to thankyou for that. i miss you and love you. see you one day!!
clara norris
clara norris <norrisclara@yahoo.com>
monroe, nc 28110 - Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:38 PM CST

I love the new slideshows. It's really hard to look at them but my memories of Brandon come right back. You made sure he was able to participate in so many special events. Brandon was as lucky to have you as a family as you were to have him as a son.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, February 26, 2008 9:08 AM CST

Oh my sweet Brandon, where do I start. I miss you so much everyday as all of us do. I know you are in heaven with Papa, and I know you are so happy and are whole again. I like Mom am selfish, I would give my life to have you back with us again. It is very hard to go to your house and not have you there. Brooke and I went to the library and had some chinese food on Saturday, we talked about you and how we missed you. We had a couple laughs too thinking of some of the funny things you would say and do. Please come and visit Mommy, she so wants to have a sign from you. Maybe you and Papa could send down some angel pennies. I haven't found a single one since you left us. I hope you can see how we are all trying to go on with life, and that no one has forgotten you and never will. You were such a wonderful Grandson, and such a friend to so many. ELAM-N8-CANCER will go on forever just as the memory of your wonderful smile and beautiful eyes will. I love you my darling Brandon, and tell everyone when they see me wearing your button that I am a proud Grandmother to the "perfect Grandson". Take care of your Papa til I get there to be with both of you. Your MamaLou, or as you used to like to say Esther.
Esther Miele <mamwuu@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC Union - Monday, February 25, 2008 11:22 AM CST

hey guys : ]

I hope you are all doing okay. I know Brandon's birthday is coming up and Kase and I were planning on stoping by to see you guys. I haven't been to your house since like 8th grade so i wouldn't be surprised if you don't remember me. Kasey and I talk about Brandon all the time. We keep each other going and make sure we get through the days with a smile on our face. I can't wait to come see you guys. I see Brooke every once in a while, she goes to school with my little sister; I don't think she knows me though. Well i hope to talk to you guys soon : ] keep smiling.

Love you guys.
Sammi
Samantha Lederer <blueyedblondisll@aim.com>
Indian Trail, NC US - Friday, February 22, 2008 10:38 AM CST

Hey Brandon. I know this women who has a husband that was diagnosed with cancer and she told me yesterday. right when she said that i thought of you and how much i missed you and i knew that God would look after him just like he looked after you. Well anyways, i can't belive it's almost your birthday! i remember when we were in the limo and you had no idea that we were going to take you too a big party and when we took you there you asked your mom if we were still going to Nikatos haha. this year isn't going to feel the same but i know the lord is going to throw you a party :) i love youuu.
3LAM-N8-CANCER.

Mia M. <Misezlaffytaffy@rr.com>
Indian Trail, nc us - Thursday, February 21, 2008 9:01 PM CST

Hi you guys. I think of you every single day. Please know that.
sherri johnston
- Thursday, February 21, 2008 11:37 AM CST

Keeping you guys in our prayers!!
lori, josh, catelyn and alli <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
charlotte, nc - Wednesday, February 20, 2008 6:31 PM CST

Happy Valentines day Brandon and family
Everytime i read those journals i cant help but cry cause it breaks my heart. I didnt know Brandon that well but it still does cause of the way he faught all those years. I will keep praying for Your family in hopes of things getting better. Take care!
Shannon F. <porteridgepirates@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC United States - Saturday, February 16, 2008 2:13 PM CST

happy valentines day brandon.
when i think of you and what you went through i cry. i lost one of my closest adult friends to cancer and she wasnt as strong as you. but when i saw you and how you fought for your life at one of the football games it really touched me and like we all had to figure out that you are in a better place and that is what matters the most we miss you and i never talked to you but i love you and i kno that all is well with you. RIP BE!!
tiara taylor <numbah1cutie@yahoo.com>
indian trail, nc united states - Friday, February 15, 2008 11:08 AM CST

Happy Valentines day Brandon. You know, Valentines day is about the people you love and care about, but they always say .. who is that one certain valentine you have. well i didn't have one but you know .. your my valentine cause i love you brandon for all the things you have brought to my attention! you are the strongest person i have EVER met. I know your parents wish you could be here still but the Lord needed you in heaven & that's fine cause we know were going to see eachtoher again and it's going to be the best. No worries! No tears! Just plain happiness. I always wonder how brooke never tears over anything, but she was with you so much that your strength rubbed off onto her. Well Brandon I always talk to you in my prayers but i can't hear your responce, but it's fine cause i can feel it in my heart. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY BRANDON!
& happy valentines day other family :)
( Brooke, Anita, scott, Tiki, and coaco.
i love you all.

x0xox0xox0xox0xox0xox0xox0xox0xox0xox0xox0ox0xox0xox0xo0
Mia M. <Misezlaffytaffy@rr.com>
Indian Trail, NC 28079 - Thursday, February 14, 2008 7:24 PM CST

hey brandon
omg i miss you so much.i've been thinking of you each day.your mom is the best i hope she can get throught this.but i can't believe you are gone.i going to come to your birthday bash.but by the waycourtney really misses you i mean everyone misses you so much i will keep you in my prays and my thoughts peace love and hope.
brittany lodge <lodge_brittany@yahoo.com>
monroe, nc - Thursday, February 14, 2008 11:34 AM CST

Thank you for the continued updates, Anita. I can only say that I hope it gets better in time, and you guys are never far from my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Wendy <wendys6@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 13, 2008 9:33 AM CST

Congratulations Brooke - you are terrific and your brother must be so proud. We miss you and the girls hanging out at the high school with us. Hope to see some games!! Brandon is so dear to my heart, as is your entire family. Thank you for all you do for all of us.
Chantelle Swanger <chantelle.swanger@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 12, 2008 11:42 PM CST

I know that you did not get the miracle you (and everyone else) prayed for. But Brandon himself was a miracle to all of us who knew him.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, February 12, 2008 8:05 AM CST

Hey guys: ]
Scott it was really good talking to you at the game Friday. Haha you always have a little joke to say back to me. : ] But I just remember the softball team I played on...haha it was the Union County Slammers. I thought I'd let you know because it was really bothering me. But hey, Tuesday night is our last basketball game...it's at Piedmont! I would love for you guys to come! <3 Love youu and miss youu!
Kasey Haigler <Kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 10, 2008 1:05 PM CST

Hi Elam family. Just stopping in to say hello and let you know I still think of you often. Brooke, congrats on making the softball team. I know Brandon would be so proud of you. May God continue to give you peace.
In Christ, Paula
Paula Hamman <phamman27@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC - Friday, February 8, 2008 12:51 AM CST

I THINK ITS REALLY GREAT WHAT ALL OF U TRIED 2 DO 4 BRANDON AND SOME PEOPLE SAY THAT HE DID NOT GET HIS MARICLE BUT HE DID!!! IT WAS HAVING SUCH A LOVING FAMILY THAT LOVED AND CARED 4 HIM LIKE U ALL DID!!! NOT MANY PEOPLE HAVE FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT LOVE THEM!!! IN THE 16 YEARS BRANDON WAS HERE HE GAVE AND RECEIVED MORE LOVE THAN MOST PEOPLE IN AND ENTIRE LIFETIME!!!

ELAM-N8 CANCER
LAUREN HANEY
CHARLOTTE, NC - Thursday, February 7, 2008 5:07 PM CST

I THINK ITS REALLY GREAT WHAT ALL OF U TRIED 2 DO 4 BRANDON AND SOME PEOPLE SAY THAT HE DID NOT GET HIS MARICLE BUT HE DID!!! IT WAS HAVING SUCH A LOVING FAMILY THAT LOVED AND CARED 4 HIM LIKE U ALL DID!!! NOT MANY PEOPLE HAVE FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT LOVE THEM!!! IN THE 16 YEARS BRANDON WAS HERE HE GAVE AND RECEIVED MORE LOVE THAN MOST PEOPLE IN AND ENTIRE LIFETIME!!!
LAUREN HANEY
CHARLOTTE, NC - Thursday, February 7, 2008 5:05 PM CST

Anita, Scott, and Brooke,

We can visiualize Brandon celebrating his little sister's latest achievement of making the Porter Ridge Middle School Softball Team! Yeah! Brooke! You Go Girl!

Our prayers are with you as days are quickly approaching Brandon's 17th Birthday...we hope you know how much we love you!

Thank you for allowing us to be part of your family.
We love you,
Kim, Ron, and Brent
Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 10:05 PM CST

Thinking of you all...all the time! With all of our love and prayers...
The Chaffee Family (Rob, Sheila, Steven & Tyler) <sheilachaffee@charter.net>
Greenville, SC USA - Wednesday, February 6, 2008 1:10 PM CST

Just checking in...please know that I think of you often.
sherri johnston
- Wednesday, February 6, 2008 7:47 AM CST

We think of Brandon so often - and of you and his MANY friends - he continues to inspire us to live life to the fullest - one day at a time.
Hugs to you all~
Miss Raineys Grandpa & Grandma <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, Ga USA - Monday, February 4, 2008 4:03 PM CST

Hi Elams, I am praying for you each and everyday. Everytime I walk into CMC, I know the money Elam-N8-Cancer is planning to raise, is going to help a family who is now where you have been. I pray God will continue to hold you in his hands.
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
char, nc 28227 - Sunday, February 3, 2008 1:58 AM CST

hey scott, anita and brooke:)
i cant believe its been four months today. it seems like its been forever. we are all wishing him back but we dont always get what we want. i talk to brandon everyday..hes finally happy and isnt that what we all wanted for him? well atleast thats what i want. i would of given up anything for him to be happy and content. no body will ever no what id do to see him one more time or to get another hug. me and macy are goin to go see him today at his grave. but i love you guys. your clearly my definion of amazing. i hope to see you soon:)

rip baby boy<3
i love and miss you bran
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 2, 2008 11:32 AM CST

Dear Anita;
I am so sorry to hear that Brandon has been called home. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Uncle Ron
Ronald Doerseln <ron1044@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, FL USA - Saturday, February 2, 2008 0:10 AM CST

Anita and Scott, [ and Brooke ]

heyy guys! I've had a lot going on lately so I haven't been able to write. I know Saturday is going to be a rough day for all of us. I am planing to go see Brandon that day, and would love to stop by and see you guys. And Kasey and I were talking about maybe doing something on his birthday with everyone, if you want to. To celebrate him, and his wonderful life and new found home.

I miss him more than anything. and I know it's hard but remember he is always with us and telling us to keep our heads up. Today I have to present a project on my life journey including physical, spiritual, and emotional. Brandon was a big part of my emotional. I shared today with everyone what I've been going through without him and now everyone in class wishes they had met him too. :] He was an amazing boy, I could tell the first time I met him, even though I was only like six. :D

Stay strong Elam family.
I love ya'll and will always be here.

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.
-Buddha-

I swear Brandon knew Budda. haha. Thats how he always lived, for the moment. for the good of things in life.
always remember, no matter what happens, think back on his beautiful smile and laugh. one laugh everyday is enough. Brandon just wants us happy. :D [thats what keeps me going <3 ]
Kendall Love <love2singg@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC US - Thursday, January 31, 2008 5:23 PM CST

Hi guys...I've been thinking of you.
sherri johnston
- Thursday, January 31, 2008 8:11 AM CST

MARCH 15, 2008 MARK YOUR CALENDAR NOW! BRING A FRIEND!

Save the Date!

PLEASE HONOR BRANDON BY PARTICIPATING IN The 2nd Annual Birthday Bike Ride to ELAM-N8 CANCER! Brandon's Birthday is March 18th and plans are in place to honor his memory each year. Brandon brought Porter Ridge High School, Hometown Heroes, & 24-Hours of Booty together AND together they will continue his courageous fight to ELAM-N8 CANCER!

Please Ride, Walk, or Run in memory of Brandon Elam in support of his courageous battle to ELAM-N8 CANCER

Spend the day...bring the kids...You WILL LOVE the professional cycling teams!

Plan to stay for all the fun!

Location: Porter Ridge High School, Indian Trail, NC

details will be posted by February 4th, 2008
www.ELAM-N8CANCER.COM

Kim Bellinghausen <kbellinghausen@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC 28106 - Wednesday, January 30, 2008 11:31 PM CST

wow, i miss brandon more than anything. basketball has been the worst its ever been. i want him back!! i look up to him so much. he lived everyday like it was his last. he never complained. always had a smile on his face. i dont have a clue how he did it. im lookin to him for strenght more than anything right now. i love him with everything ive got. no body will ever no what id give up to see him one more time.

brandon,
i miss you so much baby boy. and i love you more than that. as selfish as it sounds i want you back. i want you right beside me! im coming to see you soon! in the meanwhile come see me in my dreams!? i love you sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!<3333
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 30, 2008 6:48 PM CST

hey.
i miss brandon so much. hes always on my mind and i think about him all the time. me and brittany were talking today about all the good times we had in 7th grade, haha brandon was quite the character(: haha, but i sent you a email a few days ago to your regular email address..i dont know if you recieved it yet or not but if you havent i would like you to read it when you get the chance. i just want you guys to no i love you all so very much and you are always in my prayers...brandon will always have a place in my heart. i love him with everything ive got.
kasey haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 28, 2008 9:27 PM CST

Anita, Scott and Brooke,

It has been far too long since I heve sent a message to you. I just wanted to say hi and that I still think of Brandon and your wonderful family all the time. Although I started out as the teacher, I feel like I learned more than I taught. When I met you, I wasn't yet a mother. Since then I have been blessed with two beautiful children. (Owen, just turned two and Kendal is almost 6 months old). You have taught me to appreciate and soak up evey single moment with them. I try not to take a single moment for granted. Again, I just wanted to let you know that I think of you often and that you continue to inspire me with your love and devotion to your family.

Courtenaye Johnson <courtenayej@hotmail.com>
Indianapolis , Indiana usa - Monday, January 28, 2008 8:00 PM CST

Just thinking of each of you and still praying hard for that dream to come to you, Anita. I know someone who lost a child and she prayed the same prayer. God answered that prayer and she saw her little girl running, laughing, playing...And she was truly comforted. It will come.......that comfort...in God's time. We don't understand His timing at all. I know I sure don't. But it will happen. I believe that with all of my heart.
Prayfully....Shirley B
Shirley <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, January 27, 2008 7:44 PM CST

Hi Elam family. All of you are in my prayers every night. I wear the Elam-N8 Cancer bracelet every day, every time I look at it I think about him.Your website for him is so wonderful.The song you have on his website that is called "He's My Son" makes me cry every time I hear it . I go to Mill Grove United Methodist Church . I see Mr. Elam sometimes. I hope you will be able to attend church more often ! We love having you there!
Hannah Hill <hill.hannah101@gmail.com>
Monroe, NC United States - Saturday, January 26, 2008 9:19 PM CST

Hi Elam Family. This is a really amazing website made for a really amazing kid. You guys are constantly in my prayers. I love you guys and all the hope and care and kindness you showed to Brandon.
Maggie Hamilton <girlygirlmaggie@gmail.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Saturday, January 26, 2008 8:47 PM CST

Dear Elam Family:
I have been away from this web site too too long. I am sorry that I have not told you lately that I love you all. I bought a wind chime for Brandon and the Abernathy Family and I will take it over on my next visit to the special place where they are placed in honor on this Earth. Our Holiday Program in honor of Brandon touched many many friends and students at Hemby Bridge. The children just loved their buttons and they give me little Brandon Hugs all the time. We miss Brandon and I am sure you continue to try and put on your strong smiling faces to meet the world each day. God will give you strength to get through the rocky roads ahead. I want to thank the Fort Family and the Wogan Family for all their help in our Chorus Salute to Brandon. The next day, after the Chorus Program we went on our Community Tour and we performed for the Seniors Hot Meal Club that is housed at Philadelphia Presbyterian Church in Mint Hill. The 112 4th and 5th graders had their Brandon Buttons on and sang theirholiday songs with pride. The 5th grade boys were visiting with the Club Members and they wanted to know about Brandon. Well....(I know I will start crying) but you all have to know that one of the men came up to me as we were leaving to return to Hemby Bridge and told me.. Your students are so amazing.. they are so caring about each other and they told us all about Brandon's courage and that he had lots of bad days but he continued to smile and so they wanted to sing so he could hear them in heaven. They were so impressed with the students that the group quickly took up a collection of dollar bills for the foundation. What a great day it was for the kids at Hemby Bridge , the people we sang for ,and for the love from Brandon in Heaven Our thoughts are with the Abernathy Family and their wonderful children. Brooke ,Thanks for coming to program and laughing at Mr. B & Santa. Anita and Scott your words were so special. Please remember We love you all,Mrs. Thompson
stebie thompson <mrst5151@aol.com>
- Friday, January 25, 2008 5:49 AM CST

Hello to my favorite family. Just letting you know I'm thinking about you. Have a great day.
chris mills <cpstrucking@carolina.rr.com>
monroe, nc usa - Thursday, January 24, 2008 5:56 PM CST

Dear Anita,Scott, and Brooke,

I think of you and Brandon every single day, and pray that things get a bit easier for you with each passing day.

I miss writing to Brandon. Bill just returned home from a trip to Japan. I would have loved to have told Brandon all about his adventures.

Anita, I hope that Brandon is visiting you in your dreams as you wished.

Love and peace be with you,
Reggie
Reggie Musolf <reggiem@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Thursday, January 24, 2008 4:06 PM CST

Anita,Scott and Brooke,
I keep chekcing the site because you are always on our minds and in our hearts. We have been hit hard with cancer all around us this past year and we just thank you for sharing your family's journey. You taught us to open up and share our feelings. I pray every day for peace and strength for ya'll. Brandon is alive in our hearts.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, January 24, 2008 2:49 PM CST

wow! I can't belive it's 2008. Im really going to miss 2007 because it had a lot of things happen in it.
and ill never forget them. It was weird not spending new years with you and your family. im usually with brooke all the time. But they went on vacation so we couldn't. these days me and brooke haven't hung out as much as we use to. last year we use to be with eachtoher like everyday. i remember walkin into your house and your dad screaming MIA MIA SUPPAPEA HA. and then you layin on the couch with cocoa with that panther blanket with a smile on your face :) i wish i still could walk into your house and see that. I wish the lord didn't take you away so soon but im atleast thankful that he put you here for me too see and for thousands to be inspired by you. i love you brandon & your family soooo much. I know that when i go to your house i may not see you but i will one day and will have a great time and you will be in my mind all the time until then. much love MIA

3lam-n8-cancer

Mia M.
indian trail, nc us - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 8:34 PM CST

Hi Elam Family,
You guys will always be in my heart. Your strength is so amazing. I think of Brandon every day, and I can't wait til we all get to see him again.

Elam-N8 Cancer!
Nicole Belcher <magirl224@yahoo.com>
Stallings, NC - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 5:54 PM CST

Thinking of Brandon everyday and being inspired by him everyday as well. Praying for your family for some peace.
Kristie
Wesley Chapel, nc - Wednesday, January 23, 2008 7:56 AM CST

I still think about all of you often, especially Brandon. Thank you for continuing to share your story.
Attie Vogler
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 8:20 PM CST

Thinking of you all - and of course Brandon...he will always inspire us to be better.
Raineys Gramma & Grampa <yourtrvlag@aol.com>
Ellijay, GA USA - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 3:25 PM CST

Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you guys. Take care, as we will continue to keep you in our prayers.
lori and josh <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
char, nc - Tuesday, January 22, 2008 8:00 AM CST

Hi you guys. I wonder how you are doing. Please know that I think of you often.
sherri johnston
- Tuesday, January 22, 2008 7:58 AM CST

Hi Elam!

I just want you guys to know that I still pray for you and think of you all the time. I cannot imagine how hard these holidays were for you, and I can only pray that your pain will ease soon. Please let me know if there is ever anything I can do for any of you. I wish there was something I could do to make it better. It's so hard to understand why this happened.

Anita, I thank you for continuing to update this site, even though it has to be so hard for you. We all want to know how you guys are doing, and it is so selfless of you to continue to let us know in this way. I will check in on you guys again soon!
Leslie <leslie.southerland@cms.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, January 18, 2008 8:03 PM CST

not a day goes by that i dont thinka bout brandon. your in my thoughts and prayers.
ariel prevatte <hollisterx333@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 18, 2008 5:21 PM CST

heyy second familyy!
disney was so fun!
thank you so so much for taking me.
i miss staying up there with you guys.
seeing you guys everydayy.
you guys are the strongest family i have ever met.
im soo happy you guy considered me apart of it.
(:
scott,
i hope you had fun with that bathroom.
& that too many freakin' people!
hahaa.
i love you all.

ELAM-N8 CANCER.
Jordan Sullivan <x0JordanNicole@aim.com>
Matthews, nc - Thursday, January 17, 2008 8:49 PM CST

Not a day goes by where you do not cross my mind.....
Lisa Schoenberger <laschoenberger@windstream.net>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, January 15, 2008 5:33 PM CST

Heyy family!
So I was thinking we play Porter Ridge next Friday, the 25th I believe. I would love to see you guys there. It's been a while since I've sen ya'll.
I know it life will never be the same, but I hope it's easier and I hope it gets easier.

I went running Sunday afternoon with a good friend of mine, and i started to ball, I have had a lot of stress on my plate and normally I'd talk to Brandon about it, and the fact that I cant just killed me. And my friend took me, sat me down and told me to look up. He said that no matter where I am what I'm going through Brandon would always be there, and reminded me how much fun Brandon was having and how happy he was. And I thank God everyday for letting Wally and him play baseball together and for him breaking my nose. You son was an amazing person! I loved him more than I think anyone knows to be true. And the fact of knowing he's here with me and he's happy is enough to keep my head up.

:]

I hope to see you soon! I love you guys!!
your and amazing family! <3
Kendall Love <love2singg@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC US - Tuesday, January 15, 2008 9:25 AM CST

Hi everyone. I came in this morning and my eye caught the postcard that you sent out for Brandon's 16th b-day party--it's hanging on my bulltin board. Brandon had great hair from the very beginning...
sherri johnston
- Monday, January 14, 2008 7:44 AM CST

Brandon's never far from my mind. I continue to keep him & you guys in my prayers every night.
Kelli Furgurson <kefdb582@email.cpcc.edu>
Matthews, NC - Sunday, January 13, 2008 11:34 AM CST

never far from my thoughts and prayers...

stay strong, B.E. strong!

Lindsay Young <Youngin_1089@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, January 12, 2008 9:06 PM CST

You are never far from my thoughts, but I wanted to take a moment to thank you for the way you handled Julia on Christmas Eve. You are so loving and honest and I am grateful beyond measure for what you put up with during her breakdown. Your actions not only effected us, but they, I believe, helped Julia understand what has happened. She still talks about Brandon, but in a different way now. She knows she will see you again Anita, and that is huge for her. :) I do know it wasn't easy and certainly not what you wanted to be doing on Christmas Eve, but once again, you have proved your grace and friendship. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and I am truly sorry if she upset you further. You are an amazing family and a great inspiration. You were blessed to have Brandon, but never forget he was blessed to have you too.
Kathy and Julia www.caringbridge.org/visit/julianesbitt

kathy nesbitt <lvR3kids@aol.com>
wesley chapel, nc - Friday, January 11, 2008 8:42 PM CST

Anita - I have been keeping up with your journal updates and I know that your wish is to have a dream about heaven to see Brandon. I can't help you with that, but I have something that may answer a few questions. I just finished a book called 90 minutes in Heaven. It is about a paster who dies in a car accident, goes to and experiences heaven, and then comes back to life. While he is there he has such a wonderful experience that when he wakes up on earth he wants to go back to heaven. I am not sure if you have heard of the book or not, but it is very interesting! I know it isn't exactly what you are looking for, but it may help. Coach Helms' father passed away just a few weeks ago and someone gave his family that book. It makes you see things from a different perspective. Just a thought!?!? Hang in there, you and your family are still in my prayers!
Love,
Coach Brown
Catie Brown <catherine.brown@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Monroe , NC USA - Thursday, January 10, 2008 1:25 PM CST

Elam family,
Sorry I haven't left anything in a while. I tried to visit the site and write a little something as often as I can but I've been soo busy lately with basketball. I wanted to let you guys no, I was at the Interact meeting/party not to long ago. I couldn't stay for all because I had basketball practice but I stayed for as much as I could. I heard your speech was amazing. I'm sure it was, there's no doubt in my mind. Over the break I had a basketball tournament at Wingate but I did in fact make plans to go visit Brandon on Christmas day and New years Day. Macy and I both went out to his grave. We plan on going every holiday. I feel shes the only one I can go with. I don't know why..probably just because shes my BEST friend and we been through all this together. I miss him so much. It's so hard to walk out there. It always brings me to tears. I know Brandon doesn't want us to cry over him because he better now but I can't help it. I need him here. I just finished reading your entry Anita and I'm not going to lie I'm crying like a baby. I can't wait to see him again. But I hope things get better for you and I love you. This coming Friday we are playing Piedmont at home. I hope to see you there. I miss you guys. Stay strong and I'll see you soon. <3

RIP baby boy<3
Kasey Haigler <kaseface31@yahoo.com>
indian trail, nc - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 7:28 PM CST

While I was leaving Lanette a message, I thought I would leave the precious Elam family one as well.
You are cared for and prayed for daily! And now my biggest prayer is for you to see the 'Brandon of heaven' in your dreams!
Shirley Bennett <shirley.bennett@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 10:41 AM CST

I woke up thinking about you all this morning and wanted to let you know that your family continues to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Ms. Stanley <gstanley@carolina.rr.com>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Wednesday, January 9, 2008 4:53 AM CST

Hey There Elam Family,
I was just checking in on how you all were doing. I pray this new year things get easier. It breaks my heart to hear how difficult everything has been on your family. I haven't been to Brandon's grave just yet. I'm not sure how I'm going to take it. From looking at pictures it looks so calm and peaceful. I hope to see you all so very soon.

God Bless
Love you
Brittany Poppa <jrmslvr@aol.com>
- Tuesday, January 8, 2008 12:26 AM CST

You guys are ever so often in my thoughts. It is a new year, and I wish you all a good one. Hope to see you soon. :-)
Chantelle Swanger <chantelle.swanger@ucps.k12.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, January 6, 2008 6:43 AM CST

Anita, Scott and Brooke, We just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you. I was going through some photos the other day and ran across some of Catelyn and Brooke's old softball pics. There was one of Brandon in the background putting bunny ears on some of the girls. He must have been 12 or so. It just made me laugh. Know that you continue to be in our prayers and the prayers of many others.
lori presley <loriapresley@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 6, 2008 5:31 AM CST

Anita & family-
Just wanted you to know I've been thinking about you and keeping you in my prayers. Hope you've been able to have some good days (or good moments) with happy memories of sweet Brandon.
Love,
Tricia
Tricia Witherspoon ^Jenna's^ mom www.caringbridge.org/sc/jennawit
Fort Mill, SC - Saturday, January 5, 2008 6:08 PM CST

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Stay strong.
Trevor
Concord, NC US - Friday, January 4, 2008 4:55 PM CST

Anita & Scott,
You are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Please continue to call on God for strength and peace each day.
Love,
Terri McConnell
Terri McConnell <tlyn04@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Friday, January 4, 2008 4:36 PM CST

Scott, Anita and Brooke,
You were always on our minds during the holidays and especially yesterday. Reading Anita's updates are hearbreaking and make us all realize how precious life is. Brandon touched so many lives (some you will never know) but he will always be remembered and loved. He is a special young man with a special family. We love ya'll.
Love,
Dale, Carol, Courtney and Colby
Carol Averitte <Carol@hhrnc.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, January 3, 2008 2:08 PM CST

I just read what your friend Reggie sent you about "why". It made me cry. Since knowing all of you and Brandon I've had many revelations about what is meaningful in life. I know I can't be the only one. Brandon gave so many of us a chance to do better and be better. It was kind of you to share him with us. We are all so blessed.
sherri johnston
- Thursday, January 3, 2008 12:03 AM CST

Thinking of you guys as always!
Michelle And Chris Horne ~ Wally, Kendall & Brittany
Monroe, NC - Thursday, January 3, 2008 11:08 AM CST

Dear Elam family,

I think of you all a lot, but especially I think of you on the second of each month. I hope the future weeks and months bring some peace for all of you.

God bless you all,

Kathy Jaramillo
Kathy Jaramillo <txphinfan@yahoo.com>
La Porte, TX USA - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 6:49 PM CST

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