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Hello Toni and Graham, Just wanted to check in with you and let you know that you both are always in our thoughts. We hope that you're enjoying the new fresh snow and getting a lot of turns in on the mountain Graham!! :) We miss you both and need to put a date on the calendar to get together!!
Love you and sending warm hugs your way ...
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin
Billings, MT - Friday, March 6, 2009 9:00 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham,
Last time we wrote Spring had arrived and now we're watching a picture book snow covered landscape get another dusting of snow... Back in the land of my birth it's 49 degrees C / 120 F and the bush is incinerating.. Paco told me once about wanting to see the colours of Australia.... these I think he would have passed on.... TREMENDOUS TO HEAR YOU ARE BOTH SO BUSY AND ALIVE !!
Loadzaluv from us both
Lindsay and Connie <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Döhlen/Gde. Großenkneten, Niedersachsen Germany - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 11:23 AM CST
Thinking of all three of you over these winter months Toni!! I'm glad that Graham is keeping you both going every which direction ... I can relate with you ... it's a GOOD busy though as you say! :)
I'm going to get ahold of you to put a date on the calendar to get together for lunch the next time I head over.
Missing you all ... you are always in our thoughts Toni!!
With love, Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <Lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Friday, February 6, 2009 9:09 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham :)
What an absolute treat to see that picture of you two!! You both look wonderful - it did my heart good. So glad to hear that life is just rolling along for you - as always you are in our hearts. Happy New Year!
Judy and Rocky Hafdahl
Judy and Rocky <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Wednesday, January 14, 2009 5:27 PM CST
Hi Toni. Just wanted to drop you a line to say I'm glad you're doing better and that, like you, I still think of Paco often. Life goes on but the impact of some people stay forever. Not sure if you know, but i've been in kidney failure for 15 months and am on dialysis while i wait for a kidney transplant. It's pretty tough but more or less a curable disease. I just went on disability, after working 13 months full time as a reporter photographer, so it's a little weird having free time. I've taken up surf fishing again and I'm back to pickin banjo more. I have my own caringbridge site under georgewhite if you would want to take a look. You're the one that turned me on to the site and it's helped a lot. All the best to you and yours, George White.
George White <banjogw@aol.com>
Melbourne, FL USA - Monday, December 15, 2008 4:07 PM CST
Bob and I think about you often and talk about our good fortune to have met you and Paco (years ago at the Danbury Mall) and have some of your art, as well as Paco's. Our grandson Graham graduated from high school in June and is now busy talking college courses. Our youngest daughter surprised us last February by adopting a darling baby girl. Such fun having a little one around. Take care of yourself and know that there are many of us who share some of your memories. Happy Thanksgiving.
Lynne Barber
Rockledge, FL USA - Saturday, November 22, 2008 3:34 AM CST
Hi, Toni. I'm glad you've kept this site. I do think of you often. I'm glad to hear the two of you are doing well. My husband passed away the end of March, so I can relate to some of what you've been through. Bill was older than Paco, of course, and I don't have to worry about raising a young son, but we're never ready to say good bye. I'm still working and spend a lot of time with my 3 1/2 year old grandson. He sure is a pick-me-up. So sorry to hear about your dad's challenges. I wish him the best. Take care of yourselves. Hugs, Ellen
Ellen Collard <collard@comcast.net>
Sarasota, FL - Thursday, November 13, 2008 1:35 PM CST
Hi Toni & Graham, So please to see the update and can't believe Graham is 8th grade. So very sorry to hear about your Dad we will put him on our prayer list. Bob & I think of you often. Have a great fall.
Much Love.
Faye Messer <faye@beverly-hank.som>
Hendersonville, NC Henderson - Saturday, October 4, 2008 3:00 PM CDT
Can't believe that Graham is in 8th grade?!! Still think of you all often. We have many of Paco's prints in our house and I often pass by one and just smile and stare. Thank you for the update. So sorry to hear about your dad, Toni. Hope you guys have a great fall. Any hunting trips planned? Mallory is going to have a brother in Feb. so we are excited about that. Lots of loving thoughts sent your way!
Elaine Mencas <elainemencas@yahoo.com>
Medford, OR - Saturday, October 4, 2008 0:36 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham -
I was so happy to see your latest posting and to find that you both are again engaged in life and enjoying each other and the pleasure that interaction and activity can bring. Toni, your love for and delight in Graham just shines from the words you write! :) Sorry, though, to hear of your dad's illness - life just keeps coming at us, doesn't it? We are thinking of you both as always, and keep you in our hearts.
Best Love,
Judy and Rocky
The Hafdahls <jcubed3@cox.net>
san Juan Capistrano, CA United States - Monday, September 29, 2008 11:56 AM CDT
"hi" to two people i love so much and don't ever seem to connect w/ these days. i love that you still post on here, toni...it's a good way to keep up w/ you. thanks for sharing about your recent jackson trip...what an emotional journey. i'm so sorry to hear about your father. let's be in touch...maybe get together soon? i will give you a call. love to you both - xoxoxoxox - jessi
jessi irvin <jessiirvin@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 25, 2008 8:59 AM CDT
Hi guys. Well July is here and is it ever hot. We have had 1 1/2" of rain since mid May so needless to say it is also dry. My new position as principal is keepin gme busy as is my son who is 4 going on 24! I relish my time to paint, and still I think of Paco every time I wield one of those big brushes he was so fond of. Lots of love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Tuesday, July 8, 2008 2:02 PM CDT
Gidday Toni and Graham, spring has sprung in Germany too - we had 80+ degrees yesterday and Frau Hough and I took the bike out and rode to Emden a port on the North Sea coast - temperature there was 10 degrees cooler in you money. Not unlike you we had late snow - one only in March would you believe ? The UK had the same snow day and it gridlocked the motorways - we're just not used to it like y'all in Montana.... As always, we think of you often and are so pleased to hear you feel like you are finding some peace. Graham - give that dirtbike all it's got and then some mate. When yer ready, I've some mates in Queensland who simply go bush for days on end on their bikes :-) Loadzaluv to you both and all yer pals....
Lindsay & Connie Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Doehlen, Niedersachsen Germany - Sunday, June 1, 2008 3:45 AM CDT
It's been a very long time since I've written, but I do keep up with you through your entries. It has been so good to watch how you have progressed through the grief and learned to find happiness again on this life journey. All the while, it seems, you have not missed a beat in the motherhood department. You and Graham are blessed to have each other. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You are a very strong, very brave lady and I'm proud of you!
Sincerely,
Rena
P.S. I still think of you every time I hear anything about Elton John or his music! Can you believe that was 35 years ago??
Rena Byington
Franklin, TN USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 6:32 PM CDT
Toni - so good to receive an update on you both. I agree with you ... I'm glad Spring has finally arrived in Montana. Colin's already been planning his dirtbiking adventures with Graham for this summer. Look forward to seeing you both soon. Love and hugs to you both,
Lisa, Kevin, Jessica, and Colin
Lisa and Kevin Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Friday, May 16, 2008 9:56 AM CDT
Hello Toni & Graham
It's been quite a while since we've written. Charity has been really busy with her new job. Bill has been busy with several operations (nothing serious) and his various consulting positions. Will stays busy with school and soccer. Even though we haven't written we do think about you guys and hope one of these years in the near future we get back out your way for a visit. If by any chance you every travel down this way we hope you will stop by to see us.
Will, Charity & Bill <kirbywv@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, May 2, 2008 10:54 AM CDT
Thinking of you guys- Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO United States - Monday, April 28, 2008 10:25 PM CDT
Hi Graham and Toni!
Think about you ALL the time. Come see us!!!
Hugs,
Gil and Tracye
AKA
Peachtree City, GA - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 4:38 PM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham!
I think of you often...glad the business is going well, and Graham is doing well....
All the best to you...
Angla
Angela Sauro <angelasauro@gmail.com>
Sarasota, FL 34241 - Sunday, March 30, 2008 11:17 PM CDT
Of course I will always check in with you! You both changed my life forever- nothing really will ever be the same but then again I wouldn't have missed for anything. What a ride-my local art store owes Paco a tidy fortune. His motto- "lots of paint and big brushes" is more than artistic wisdom it is a way of life.
Love always
JR Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO United States - Monday, March 10, 2008 10:42 AM CDT
Toni - so good to hear from you and read your update. I can not imagine how difficult it's been for you and Graham without Paco in your lives. I can only tell you that many of us think about you all the time, and try to live life to the fullest partly because of Paco.
We miss you and love you,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa and Kevin Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Thursday, February 28, 2008 6:02 PM CST
Hey All
Thinking about you both. Working for the Elk Foundation nowdays, grouse didn't need me anymore. Hope everything is going as well as can be!
Bill
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, PA USA - Wednesday, February 27, 2008 6:52 PM CST
Hi Toni and Graham,
Just to say hello.I found the Old Faithful web cam yesterday! looks great with snow and spurt. Across the pond here on this sinking island, it is constantly raining, keeps us Brits happy, you know how we love to moan about the weather!!
Thinking of you both and sending love
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
St Briavels, GL15 England - Friday, February 8, 2008 3:01 AM CST
Hello Toni and Graham - we've been thinking about you and hope that you had a wonderful holiday season with your family. Wishing you a "Happy New Year". My New Year resolution is to get together soon!!
Missing you both,
Love,
Lisa and Kevin
Lisa and Kevin Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Tuesday, January 8, 2008 8:01 AM CST
Wow I still remember meeting you guys for the first time- either in 95 or 96. Wishing you the best in this new year. Love you guys
JR Rowen Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO United States - Friday, December 28, 2007 11:25 AM CST
Toni and Graham,
You were in the thoughts and hearts of many on Paco's 2nd Annivesary this weekend. Wishing you happiness and comfort over the holiday season.
Love, Lisa, Kevin, Jessica, and Colin
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, December 3, 2007 7:25 AM CST
Yep - opened the diary and there it was today again. All our best hugs and kisses across the miles Toni and Graham. You may be miles away but that's just on a chart.... note in our hearts... Loadzaluv
Linds & Connie HOUGH <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Döhlen, Deutschland - Saturday, December 1, 2007 1:04 PM CST
Toni,
I think about you and Paco every October when I drive the roads we hunted near Grand Rapids. Glad to read things are going well for you and Graham. Congrats to him on his buck.
Ron Burkert <RonB@ruffedgrousesociety.org>
Oakmont, PA USA - Thursday, November 29, 2007 9:44 AM CST
Sending you both hugs and love from a rocking ship just off Egypt! great to hear you are doing so well, Graham a teenager... Congratulations young man. Happy coming Thanksgiving,the festive season and into a happy 2008.
Thinking of you as always....
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, dk - Monday, November 26, 2007 8:44 AM CST
Toni - so nice to get an update and congratulations to Graham on his buck. Colin has been asking if I knew how his hunting has been going this fall and now I can update him. I'm so glad to hear things are going well with you both and you're keeping so busy. We miss you guys like crazy and are wishing you a wonderful holiday season also!!
Love you,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin, and Jess
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, November 12, 2007 7:33 AM CST
Hi guys- I have not been here in awhile because I am doing the principal job for now-puttin gin 75-90 hour weeks. Hope Fall lingers on a bit, but we need the moisture too! Love always
JR Rowen Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO United States - Sunday, November 11, 2007 9:50 AM CST
Hi Toni Graham,
Just thinking of you both and hoping you are doing well. Love to you both!
Elaine Mencas <elainemencas@yahoo.com>
Medford, OR - Friday, November 9, 2007 2:46 PM CST
Hello Toni & Graham,
We just wanted to wish you a "Happy Birthday" Graham and know that we are thinking about you and your mom. It's been a beautifull fall in Billings and hope to get over to visit with you both one of these days. I hope everything is going well with school and hunting season.
Hugs and Kisses to you both,
Love, Lisa & Kevin
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 9:06 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham -
Just a note to say that you have been on my mind today - I hope all is well with you both and that this note finds you enjoying the autumn days. Rocky and I think of you so often and with great affection.
Love,
Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 7:12 PM CDT
Hi Family Young ! Herbst (aka Fall/Autumn) has arrived in Germany and the colours are beautiful. I had last weekend in England and it begins there as well :-) We never stop thinking about you two and hope one day you can come and visit with us here :-) Loadzaluv from Lindz und Connie
Linds and Connie Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Döhhlen, Germany - Saturday, October 20, 2007 6:00 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham,
I guess the best fall colour has been and gone in glorious Montana....
It hasnt even started over here yet! its piddling down though..
I wanted to say Hi.. hope you are both well trained by your pupdog by now ! ha. Think of you lots.
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Monday, October 8, 2007 11:27 AM CDT
Hey Toni
Just checking in and saying Hey!!! Sounds like you are a busy woman!! I had a funny visual of you with a hard hat on and a sledge hammer removing a wall!!!
Love
Linda
Linda Schaner <lschaner@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Thursday, September 6, 2007 3:32 PM CDT
Greetings from Florida. You're on my mind often, Toni, and I just wanted to say "hi." Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 10:42 AM CDT
Gidday you two and Pooch :-)Best of luck at school this year Graham, sounds like you're looking forward to it ? Toni, the framing biz sounds like a real successful and growing stalwart for you as well. Real pleased to hear the two of you continue to move forward with courage. Loadzaluv Lindz & Connie
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Döhlen, Germany - Saturday, September 1, 2007 3:06 AM CDT
Tell Graham to have fun and enjoy Junior High School! Colin had his orientation this morning at his new Junior High School and is now very excited about getting back to school to see all his friends. Colin's heading over to Bozeman tomorrow for the rest of the week so hopefully he and Graham can get together again ... he truly enjoys the time he spends with you both.
Sure do miss you lady and am glad that you're doing so well.
Love you both,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 10:56 PM CDT
Hey What what great upbeat news.... we are delighted for you Toni... keep the good stuff coming!
Well, I didnt find the Danish 'Mountain'.. given up on that one, so we are moving to England ... at least it is bumpy... a step in the right direction !
We talk of you often, you are an inspiration.
Love and hugs
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Monday, August 13, 2007 12:44 AM CDT
Wow ... lots of wonderful news Toni!! Congratulations on your new position - you will be a true asset to their business!!
I'm glad that you and Graham have been enjoying the summer as you should. As usual it gets away from us way too quickly.
Have a great August and best wishes to Graham in Junior High ... he's going to love the change.
Love you,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, August 6, 2007 10:37 AM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham,
Just wanted to check in on you both and say "Hello"!! Colin and I were talking about you both this weekend and how much fun he had with Graham. We sure miss you both and trying to plan a visit soon.
Take care of yourselves and know that you are in our thoughts often.
Love, Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, July 30, 2007 11:32 PM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham,
Just wanted you to know that Colin and I have been thinking about you both a lot lately and hoping (wishing) that life would slow down a bit so we could get together over the summer. Colin would really like to have Graham come over and visit for a couple of days. I will give you a call to discuss further.
Hope that your summer is going well with all your adventures and gardening projects.
Love you always,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica :)
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@proagdesigns.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, July 2, 2007 5:47 PM CDT
Hello Toni,
I just wanted to let you know that when I was searching for a nature print of black bears for my first grandchilds nursery I was drawn to Paco's THE ADVENTURERS BLACK BEAR CUBS as the perfect print. I was reading your journal tonight because I wanted to put a little extra biograghy info into the pocket when I pick up the print tomorrow from the framers and I was astonished to read that Paco's birthday is January 28th, this is my new grandson's birthday also :o)
Hugs,
Rose
Rose Walker <rose@homehomeonthe.net>
Canton, OH - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 10:39 PM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham -
Just checking in to let you know you are on our minds. It is such a pleasure to know that your lives are becoming normal and joyful again. We think of you so often and keep you in our hearts :)
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 10:29 AM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday! Just dropping in to say hi from ND. Wishing you and Graham the best! Have a nice summer!
Jeffrey Hoff
Jamestown, ND USA - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 4:32 PM CDT
Toni ... HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY wishes to you!! It sounds like you had a wonderful evening with friends. I'm glad that you and Graham are getting out camping so much. Colin has been talking about having Graham come over to do a camping / dirtbiking trip with us. We'll talk soon to discuss further. :)
Life is so busy with everyone with all our activities, summer plans, work, and family, and I miss you and Graham.
Take care of yourself ... love you both,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin, and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Monday, June 11, 2007 8:11 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Toni and Gidday Graham ! Sounds like yer diggin the summer breezes :-) Very cute pooch you've got there team. 93 Degrees here yesterday - couldn't get the bike out quick enough. Loadzaluv to you all
Lindz & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Döhlen, Germany - Sunday, June 10, 2007 2:34 AM CDT
Belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes Toni,
Many congratulations......
Have been out looking for the infamous Danish mountain.... havent found it though they claim they have one somewhere....... guess they havent been to Montana !
Sending you our love
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 5:52 AM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday Wishing you good things for your future.
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Thursday, May 31, 2007 11:28 AM CDT
Happy birthday, Toni!
Gosh time fly's!!!
It doesn't seem that long ago that we were commenting on black balloons for 40th birthday victims!
I hope that you and Graham have a fabulous summer...
It's great to read the enthusiasm in your words again. (:
Cindy Adams- Phal <Cynthia_Kathleen@msn.com>
Oak Harbor,, Wa. - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 7:03 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, Toni!
Gosh, time flies!!!
It wasn't that long ago that we were commenting on black balloons for 40th birthday victims!
I hope you and Graham have a fabulous summer. It's great to read enthusiasm in your words again. (:
Cindy Adams-Phal <Cynthia_Kathleen@msn.com>
Oak Harbor,, Wa. - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 6:56 PM CDT
To the Surfer and Dog Handeler..........
O.J. Simpson called and wanted Jan and I to help him find the real killer and said he thought the real killer would be hiding on a tennis court or golf course. I of course wanted to help in any way that I could so we headed for Hawaii (Kauai) for three weeks and then on to Palm Springs
and La Quinta for three weeks. Also looked in Hilton Head and Amelia Island but to no avail.
Called O.J. and related the sad news that he would have to continue his search of the worlds greatest golf courses by himself.
Graham....while in Hawaii , I caught a few 60 footers and hit the trough backwards to make it more exciting.
If that pup grows into her ears and feet , it will end up 6 feet tall and weigh 300 pounds.
We also have been having snow off and on. I am anxiously awaiting the global warming I keep hearing about.
Hope to see you soon. I can't remember who's turn it is to buy ? Jan just slapped the back of my head. Seems she remembers.
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Thursday, May 10, 2007 3:57 PM CDT
Toni,
Still getting snow? Good night, Minnesota isn't even that bad!:)
What a great lookin' pup. Should be fun to watch her grow into her ears. Wishing you and Graham all he best. Think of you often.
Nate Hager <n_hager@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 8, 2007 2:07 PM CDT
Oh my god Toni ... did you look at those feet on that pup?? You and Graham will have a ball with her! :)
Missing you both as usual - glad that summer is on it's way as well. All the blossoms brighten up the days and soon we'll all be busy with our summer projects and fun activities.
Love you both - give Graham a bug hug for us.
Lisa, Kevin, Colin, and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 12:45 AM CDT
Hello- hope the trip still has the smiles on your faces! It is Spring around here, lots of winter moisture sure has greened things up. Only a couple of weeks of school left- hurray.
Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO United States - Thursday, May 3, 2007 9:37 PM CDT
Dang Toni,
I thought you were going to put me in your suitcase - remember??? Glad you had such a great time. Graham is sooo handsome and now that he is a surfer dude - you are going to have a hard time keeping the girls away.
Love ya
Linda
Linda <lschaner@millpond.com>
Venice, FL USA - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 7:41 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham! What an exciting trip! Sounds like you had a great time, love the pics too, you both look great! The wool venture sounds exciting. You keep plugging away with that entrepenurial spirit! :)
Love ya, talk to you soon!
Angela
Angela Sauro <asauro@comcast.net>
Sarasota, fl usa - Monday, April 30, 2007 10:47 PM CDT
What a fabulous trip! That's probably exactly what you both needed. Your wool adventure sounds so interesting. We don't use much here in Florida, but I'll keep it in mind if I think of any connections for you. I think of you so often, Toni. Take care. Hugs, Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 12:45 AM CDT
Hey Toni and Graham,
It,s been a while as we have been out and about too..... but now to see your faces and hear about the NZ trip just lift the spirits.... Your project sounds exciting and maybe you want to spread to a few store in UK! If I can help just let me know...
Sending you hugs
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:34 PM CDT
What a wonderful treat to click on this site and see the wonderful pictures and exciting note about your trip to NZ. I'm so happy you could go and have so much fun. You definitely deserve it. I hope we can get together soon so I can hear all about your trip and see even more pictures. Good luck with your "wool endeavor" - how exciting!! Much love to you both! I hope you have a very Happy Easter! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Friday, April 6, 2007 10:28 PM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham- What a special treat it was to read your new journal pages and to see the joy for life in your smiles again. Your trip sounds like heaven and just exactly what you both needed :) That wool must be fabulous - I don't work with it but know people who do and I will spread the word.
Our best love to both of you - Happy Easter!
Judy and Rocky
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, cA united States - Friday, April 6, 2007 12:50 AM CDT
Wow! What a trip - the photos are great!!! Thanks for posting, it was nice seeing the joy in your faces. I have been waiting to hear how the trip went, it sounds divine!
Keep me in mind when you get the wool in, I would be most interested and I have several friends who would be as well.
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, MO - Thursday, April 5, 2007 10:11 PM CDT
Hi Toni & Graham, Sounds like you had a great trip and thanks for the photos it was wonderful to see that beautiful smile of yours.The wool sounds great as an old weaver I would love to get my hands in it. My love to both of you.
Faye Messer <faye@beverly-hanks.com>
Hendersonville, NC USA - Thursday, April 5, 2007 1:14 PM CDT
Hi Toni,
So glad to read about your and Graham's trip and that you are finding so many interesting things to do, like your weaving. Hope that I will become a frame customer within the year since it sounds like you are doing the most awesome ones around!
I think of you whenever I read anything about Montana or Bozeman.
All the very, very best!!!
Susan Fox <sfox@foxstudio.biz>
McKinleyville, CA USA - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 10:01 PM CDT
Now that sounded like a trip to beat all trips- I am envious! Toni you should check into the shops in Boulder Colorado as well as some in a mountain town called Manitou Springs here in Colorado- they all have many specialty weaving shops which would probably be very interested in the product you described. Painted the garage today and enjoyed the break the cows gave me. We are preparing for Jaxson's 3rd birthday party - April 6th. Love always JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co United States - Sunday, April 1, 2007 4:54 PM CDT
Your work is extremely enjoyable to me. I lived for a short time in Montana when I was 21 years old....and you have captured the beauty of that wonderful state.
Irene Shepard <irenes713@aol.com>
Milford, NH United States - Sunday, April 1, 2007 3:13 PM CDT
WOW ... what a spectacular adventure, and the photos show that smile of yours once again!! Toni - this sounds like such a wonderful trip and experience for you both. Thank you for the update and the new photos. Graham is such a young man ... you both look great!!
Love you both,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Sunday, April 1, 2007 8:20 AM CDT
Hey All
Hope your still all hanging in there. Doesn't seem like spring will ever get here to western PA. (STUPID GROUNDHOG!!) Am always thinking of you and hope things will get a little easier for both of you. Hope to see ya both again someday soon.
Bill
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, PA USA - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:54 AM CDT
Gidday Toni & Graham, We hope the trip is a real blast for you both (and a good break from school for you both too) - Great to hear about the weaving Toni - I remember you telling me about it years ago. We've arrived and I'm the only recorded foreigner in our village for 1200 years !!!! (Well apart from some Canadians who passed througn in April 45 :-)But they're all just great and very friendly - will send some pikeez soon for yaz.... Loadzaluv to you both.
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Döhlen/Großenkneten, Niedersachsen Deutschland - Saturday, March 10, 2007 8:57 AM CST
Toni - Spring has sprung here in Oklahoma. Daffodils were bobbing their golden heads to the soft drops of rain this morning as I drove the 30 minutes to the junior high where I teach. I was glad that the weather was gentle and not inclined to tornados. After school, I was cleaning several brushes for the end of the week and suddenly the colors came to me from paintings at Beartooth. I decided to check your website again and yep, you still have the journal going. Spring break I am cleaning that room of mine out and digging up the paints. I suppose if I am to clean brushes, I should be doing some of my own.
Deborah Kindrick <wolftrek@aol.com>
Norman, OK - Friday, March 9, 2007 6:32 PM CST
Toni- 23 calves born since my last message. A snow storm kept us from tagging them so today we did all of them. They were 90-115lbs of pure energy and power and man am I sore! Best of luck on your trip. Love from the Monks' JR Rowen and Jaxson.
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO USA - Sunday, March 4, 2007 9:23 PM CST
Your are the best....
Get well.
scott pitre <scott@targil.com>
opelousas, la usa - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 4:55 PM CST
Toni and Graham
Busy busy here. 7 calves just today! I cant help as much as I would like, Dad keeps it going. Coyotes are coming in every night looking for after birth. Jaxson has the flu, but Spring is coming. Hope the winter is beginning to subside for you all. Ive been contacted by a few regarding getting together on a paint-out in honor of Paco. Love JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, CO United States - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:49 PM CST
Toni & Graham, haven't written in a while but we've been keeping up with your journal. Charity, Will, and I went to Charleston this past weekend for the Expo...it just isn't the same without you & Paco. This was the 25th year of the Expo and the program contained a date line of the past 25 years with pictures and events. There was a great picture of you and Paco the year he was the featured artist. Wished we lived closer so we could visit with you and Graham but you are never far from out thoughts and prayers.
Love
Will Charity & Bill
Bill Perkins <kirbywv@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 8:21 AM CST
Toni and Graham, just a quick note to say HI and thinking of you both. Keep building those beautiful frames. As always you are both in my prayers.
Nancy Gregory
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC - Monday, February 19, 2007 2:56 PM CST
Hi Toni, Just thinking about you and Graham. I'm glad your framing business is going so well,I know the frames are beautiful the mats you use to cut were very creative. Stay busy its the best therapy there is.
Faye Messer <faye@beverly-hanks.com>
Hendersonville, NC USA - Monday, February 12, 2007 3:00 PM CST
Toni-
I bet the frames are beautiful, and Graham must be busy with school. I was thinking of trying to organize a painting event in honor of Paco, and maybe in benefit for you all. Maybe plein air or quick draw or both invite the whole gang join up talk and enjoy each others company. anyone up for it?
Best wishes
JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Saturday, February 3, 2007 5:19 PM CST
Toni - Happy New Year! I'm sorry Paco's birthday anniversary hit you hard. Like you said, we never know until it comes along how it may affect us. Glad to hear your framing business is going so well. Things here are good - really happy to see 2007 roll in. It's going to be a great one. I miss talking to you and think about you often. Love Julie
Julie Podewitz <julieredcarpet@aol.com>
Venice, FL USA - Friday, February 2, 2007 10:16 AM CST
HELLO
JANELE <janeleshorsedrew2005@yahoo.com>
bradenton , FL manatee - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 4:50 PM CST
Hello Toni,
Kevin and I are thinking about you and Graham as you venture forward each day with it's rollercoaster of emotions and memories. You are in our positive thoughts Toni ... keep that beautiful smile of yours going!!
Love you both,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin, Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 8:02 AM CST
GO TEAM !!! Great to hear you so UP Toni :-) We're moving to Germany at the end of February - jealous of your outdoor life, it's back to the farm for us. Wir wünschen euch eine frohes neues jahr auch !!
Lindsay & Connie HOUGH <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Windsor, Berkshire United Kingdom - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 11:19 AM CST
Toni,
It's been a while since I have writen to you but I do look forward to your updates. I just received my copy of American Hunter and read an article about a young man shooting his first deer. When I looked at the picture of him, I was surprised that I thought I knew him. But that would have been impossible! Then I looked at the picture of his mother and realized that it was you and Graham. The RGS National Hunt vest was the confirmation that I needed. Take care, have a great New year and keep the hunting tradition alive.
Mickey
Mickey Hutchko <chutchko@nalco.com>
Sewickley, Pa USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 7:15 AM CST
Glad to hear snow days exist outside of Colorado- we have been buried lately. Airports closed, roads closed, 12 foot drifts you name it. A real winter fianlly! We have been so dry, maybe this will bring a wet Spring. We will calve out the cows at home because we cant get into their usual pastures. Jaxson informed me today that he will ask Santa for a horse. I hope Santa's email is full! Frame away Toni frame away!
Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 3:48 PM CST
Hello from your Louisiana Buddies I just got back from Dallas Safari Club Show where Don Edwards and I talked with John Banovich and Kobus Mohler(don't know if thats spelled right. John had sold all originals except his largist piece, he also sold several Giclee's. Someone stole Kobus's brand new trailer and several of his pieces he intended for this and other shows, but he told us they made a prayer circle and forgave the culprit! Now that's faith for you! And that's positive thinking just like your doing. We love you and Graham and hope you get some snow we counted 12 flakes in our sleet just now and boy are we excited!
Ron Kidwell <rowanekidwell@aol.com>
Stonewall, La. - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 1:07 PM CST
Good Morning Toni and Graham,
I like your outlook on the coming year and thinking positively. You are right that you need to surround yourself with people of the same caliber as yourself Toni ... and as we all know ... you are one of the most positive people in this world. Your smile alone lights up any room you enter and your warmth is contagious!!
With all my love and respect,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 11:03 AM CST
Hi Toni,
You've been on my mind a lot over the past few weeks. I hope that you and Graham had a peaceful holiday together. We miss you more than you'll ever know ...
Lisa, Kevin and Colin
Lisa Gaskin <Lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:25 PM CST
Toni, I just wanted to let you know I think of you with fondness and gratitude for those wonderful Beartooth experiences. I wish you and Graham all the pleasures of the New Year. Take care, Gloria Chadwick
Gloria Chadwick <chadvette@earthlink.net>
El Cajon, California - Friday, January 5, 2007 10:03 PM CST
Toni & Graham,
My thoughts are with you both as this new year arrives. My mother bought for me "Shoreline Flurries" for Christmas and looking at Paco's signature brought back so many happy memories of seeing you two back in Maryland many years ago. The large print also reminds me of our honeymoon in Haines, AK in 1995 - so fitting that Paco's work touches lives on multiple levels. It will be added to the many other prints from Paco that I am blessed to have on the walls in our home. Our love to you both and the hopes of peace in both of your hearts this new year.
Tom, Jane, Kelsey & Matthew Albert <talbert@areteconsultingllc.com>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 7:03 AM CST
Good Morning, Toni and Graham and Happy New Year :)
You were so on my mind today that I thought I would write a quick note to let you know. Rocky and I are so glad to see that you are keeping busy and accomplishing goals that you have set for yourselves. It is our wish for you both that the new year will bring lightened spirits and new hope for the future. We haven't seen you in years, but are alway with you in spirit.
With Love,
Judy and Rocky
The Hafdahls <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 10:58 AM CST
Here's hoping 2007 will bring you both much happiness! I love you both and hope to see you soon! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 7:41 PM CST
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Toni and Graham - wishing you happiness and a wonderful 2007. Love,
The Sampson Family
Cumming, GA USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 3:28 PM CST
Merry Christmas and a big hug for Graham and Toni
David and Judy Simpson <david@germantongallery.com>
Germanton, NC - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 9:37 AM CST
Heres hoping this holiday season brings you both nothing but the best, as that is what you deserve. Hugs from Colorado. Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 4:05 PM CST
Hello Toni and Graham,
You are always in our thoughts and we're wishing you both a "Merry Christmas".
Missing you very much,
Lisa, Kevin, Jessica, and Colin
Lisa Gaskin <lgaskin@K2ent.net>
Billings, MT - Monday, December 18, 2006 7:56 AM CST
Merry Christmas all.
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 6:24 AM CST
Toni and Graham, Way to go on the deer!!!! I envy the wonderful outdoor experiences you all have in the beautiful place you live. I think of you guys every day and hope each day gets somewhat closer to normal. The days get more meaningful with any loss of individuals in my world. Lots of hugs!!!
Janeice Linden <jlindenart@hotmail.com>
Ponca City, OK - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:09 PM CST
Hey you two !
Congratulations on your first deer Graham - sounded like a great day's hunting. Thanksgiving passed here with y'all in our thoughts.... It sounds as if you are finding things to be thankful for again. Great that your family could be there Toni. Some o'that gumbo hit the table I'll bet? It appears I'll have to sell my guns (again) before moving to Germany in March. Might take up the longbow and re-discover the crossbow - no strict license needed for them there.... Always thinking of you both.... Loadzaluv from across the pond.
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
WINDSOR, Berkshire United Kingdom - Sunday, December 10, 2006 5:39 AM CST
Hi, Toni... Just checking in to say "hi." You're in my thoughts so often. Hugs, Ellen
Ellen Collard <collard@comcast.net>
Sarasota, FL - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:33 AM CST
So glad to hear the weather is balmy in Montana.HA HA
Very Proud to hear of the great hunting experience. Wishing you both love during this Holiday season. Keep going forward, that is what Paco would want.
Love
Nancy Gregory
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:58 AM CST
Hello Toni and Graham,
I hope the thought that there are many, many people around the world holding space with you today brings you a tiny bit of comfort...
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, MO - Friday, December 1, 2006 5:57 PM CST
Toni and Graham- great to here about the deer, sound like Thanksgiving was a success. Our lab grows bigger, Jaxson wants Thomas the Train for Xmas and Rowen is demanding an addition to the already added onto house. Im in the studio trying not to step on Thomas the Train and friends, and thinking about a way to not build more house. I miss you guys. Even though I only new you all 5 or 6 years I can never forget, must be the Southern hospitality.
Love always JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo 80828 - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 9:56 PM CST
Toni & Graham - I've had you in my thoughts so much this week and want you to know I love you both and hope you will be comforted by all the loving times you shared with Paco. Graham, I will always remember how proud you made both of your parents. I'm sure your dad is looking down on you and still beaming with pride. Many hugs to you both! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 9:08 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
Kevin and I have been thinking about you all week knowing that Friday was Paco's anniversary and how difficult it must be for you and Graham. You both have been so strong getting through this first year without him. Know that Kevin and I are sending hugs to you ... especially on Friday.
Missing you ... with much love and respect,
Lisa, Kevin, Jessica, and Colin
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 10:19 AM CST
Gidday T & G,
God bless the neighbour, whoever they are Toni. You deserve some relief. Great to hear Graham is taking to shooting, something we all have in common. It seems that next year Frau Hough and I will be relocating to the farmhouse in Germany. Once we're settled we'd love to see yaz - not as pretty as your beloved Montana - but we could drive to the alps if ya git homesick :-) Loadzaluv Lindz und Connie
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
WINDSOR, Berkshire United Kingdom - Tuesday, November 28, 2006 8:34 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham,
Its been a while, we have been away again so I just want to say, you are constantly in our thoughts...at this time of year as Montana blooms, I can almost hear those elk bugling! ....
Sending you uplifting thought-waves, and Love,
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 8:10 AM CST
Toni and Graham, just to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving and good hunting. Wishing you well and thinking of you both everyday. With much love
Nancy Gregory
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Sunday, November 19, 2006 7:00 PM CST
Toni and the great white hunter..........
Just got the bill from the local hospital for 36 hour stay and it totaled $42,500.00 and I got the co pay bill from Blue Cross and it was for $73,000.00 and the bill from Missoula should top $200,000.00 plus $125.00 per week for the drugs I am forced to take for life.
I was wondering if you and Graham could shoot me up a five dollar bill per week to help offset this little set back.
The bright side is that I feel great and they say it might never occur again.....at least until the bill is paid for.
I have always been dead set against anything related to socialism but I am having second thoughts. Socialized medicine is looking better each day. (Not really).
Hope you guys were successful in your hunt.
Jan said for you to ignore this note and that she is tired of my sniveling. Medicare and Blue Cross paid for the entire bill.
Big hugs for you both...........
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Monday, November 13, 2006 4:46 PM CST
Hi guys
Thought I would drop a note. I have been doing alot of research since Paco's passing and I am finding some disturbing coincidences. Many, many painters are suffering ill effects from being around benzyne. Some of them have not been exposed for very long 5-10 years. it seems some are more prone to developing Leukemia than others. An illustration instructor at the Academy of Art is suffering right now- go to the Academyofartuniversity.org web site to read more. Keith Parkinson a fantsy artist is another, too many to mention. I am thinking of wtiting an article for Art of the West regarding this. I have been working with Holbein aqua duo paint exclusively since Paco was diagnosed. I recomend all others make similar changes.
JR Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Saturday, November 11, 2006 6:27 PM CST
Toni & Graham-
Good luck with your hunting - hasn't it been a wonderful autumn? Just right for skeet shooting - by the way, how do you cook those critters? My boys always did skeet shooting, too, but I made them give them away. Ha!! Seriously, I'm so happy that things are going well. Graham, I hope your 12th birthday is a great one - it seems like only yesterday that you were in my class!! Love you both! Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Sunday, October 29, 2006 10:38 PM CST
Toni,
So good to hear from you, and hear about your plans with Graham to go hunting. This will be a wonderful outing for you both. Enjoy the Fall colors and your walk together. We think about you three all the time, and send hugs to you and Graham.
Love you both,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Sunday, October 29, 2006 5:28 PM CST
Hi Toni and Graham-
We have been thinking about you a lot the past week or so and just wanted you to know that we keep you in our hearts. Let me know when those frames are available, Toni! :)
Love to you both-
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Thursday, October 26, 2006 2:50 PM CDT
Hi guys
Spent some time in Rocky Mountain National Park, Colorado skipped Fall and went to Winter pretty fast. Cold and snow the last many days. My nephews are one game closer to winning their 4th straight Colorado State Championship football game! Hope your Fall hangs around a long time.
Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Sunday, October 22, 2006 9:08 AM CDT
Hi Toni, I was going through photos and came across the ones we took at the workshop "Young Guns" I am so glad I was able to attend and come home with a plein air piece of Pacos. That painting always makes me smile, I remember how much he loved that kind of spontaneous work. I think we all have some mighty big questions about the why and why me issues in this life. I pray you can find a place of rest in your future. Paco will always be my hero.
Linda Thompson <sbellemr@verizon.net>
Sarasota, FL USA - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 11:30 PM CDT
Just wanted to say "hi," Toni. I think of you so often. It's Fall in Florida too -- high was only 84 yesterday! Enjoy those fall colors for me. Hugs, Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 11:51 AM CDT
Toni and Graham,
Just a note to say HI and let you know you are still in our thoughts. Fall is so beautiful and saw yesterday where you guys got snow! It is still summer here in Charleston and the cool snow was certainly nice to see on the live cams. Keep working on life. Our prayers are always with you every day.
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Tuesday, October 10, 2006 9:55 AM CDT
Toni and Graham...........
Jan said she wanted to get a couple of Kayaks.
I told her there is no way in hell that I am going to get sucked into kayaking......no way !
Hers is blue and mine is yellow and she says we really love them.
Have been putting off coming to see you as it is my turn to pay so it might be awhile yet.
Remember.......it is never too late to become what you might have been.
Love for you both from the "Happy Kayakers".
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 6:58 PM CDT
From very tough incidents in my life, I have found one thing to be true. You don't get over it, you get through it. Those are two very different things that few come to understand. You all have inspired so many. I only wish that could lift you up.
Deborah Kindrick <deborahkindrick@mooreschools.com & wolftrek@aol.com>
Norman, OK USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 5:20 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know I think and pray for you daily! Love you! Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
- Tuesday, October 3, 2006 8:52 PM CDT
Hello again, Toni.
I worked beside you painting ducks. I'm taking college courses in multimedia design now and someday hope to make them dance on a screen. (:
It's been awhile but I thought I would check in on you before starting my assignments this morning. I'm sorry that things are not getting any easier for you. It's understandable... you have lost so much. My heart still aches for you.
I only remember the happy and lively Toni who glowed when talking about her family and her life. Every day it seemed that you had something exciting to tell our table. Simple things like picking berries and baking a pie seemed even more special when you talked about it. You were always willing to share a recipe and it seemed you had many wonderful and different kinds. I have always wanted to try gumbo since knowing you and crawfish doesn't even look appetizing!
Do you remember the story you told us once of buying a lobster and letting Graham (who was only about 2 then) play with it on the kitchen floor before finally putting it in the pot? You said Paco had to eventually break it in half because it was too big!
We rooted for you when Paco was in the duck stamp finals. You kept running for the phone on breaks to hear for word and finally come back with a smile because he was in the top three. We all cheered with you.
I recieved an email last night that made me think about Paco and the kind of person that he was (and still is to so many who knew him) I couldn't start my day without sharing it with you and those who read this. The email was titled 'Reality Clock' and I've placed the url to it below. Paco knew the reality clock. Infact, I think the man should have his name inscribed on the face of it.
Toni, I hope the mediator will help bring some peace into your life. I don't know you any other way than the way that I knew you. It's apparent that Paco was the life inside of you because from your words, that life seems to be gone now too. One day life might not seem so cruel. You have so many who care for you, check in on you and pray for you often. I am one of them.
You loved the movie 'Steel Magnolias' when it came out and the quoted passage that said "That which doesn't kill us, makes us stronger"
Well, I read an excerpt once that I quote now...
"We are here for you. Come sit by the shore with us, dear one."
A friend,
Cindy~
Reality Clock:
http://susie1114.com/LiveALife.html
Cindy Adams- Phal <Cynthia_Kathleen@msn.com>
Oak Harbor, Wa - Friday, September 29, 2006 11:29 AM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham,
I am an artist living in Memphis, but not famous like Paco
I myself am still single at age 62 and live with my 3 dogs in a very modest little home on a very modest income where I do my art work and teach oil, watercolor, and acrylic classes part-time at an arts and craft store. Pretty lane, huh? I can't believe I never ran into Paco when he was living in Memphis while attending Memphis College of Art. I was born and raised here and attended art school there in the early 70's. I wish I knew Paco, because we have so much in common. I used to be a drummer in a rock and roll band and I think Stevie Ray Vaughn was the "man" and nobody could compare to him playing the blues. I listen mostly to jazz nowdays and would like to get another drum set if I can ever get out of debt
I too have an incurable disease called AS ( Ankylosing Spondylitis) severe spinal arthritis, and has deformed my back with a bent-over posture. My firm belieif in God and trying to maintain a positive attitude has helped me thru this journey. Also the realization that there really is a Heaven after we pass from this life. I had a near-death experience in 1966 ( a car accident ) in which I died for a brief moment and God allowed me to see what "Heaven" was like. If you want to read about it here's a link to it from my web site: www.johnhelmsgallery.com/mynde.htm
I have received many emails from people all over the nation that My "NDE" has helped them thru difficult times in their lives and may help you in your journey also.
How blessed you are to live in Montana near Jackson Hole! it's a beautiful place and I would love to live there someday -or at least visit it and paint Jackson Hole. Seems like all the great artists like Paco have painted it at some point. Paco leaves a wonderful legacy to the art world and his work will live on for many, many years to come and he will surely be know as one of the greatest artist that America has ever produced. From this day on I will promise to keep you and Graham in my thoughts and prayers and will visit this web site often to see how ya'll are doing.
God Bless You Both,
John Helms
John Helms <john@johnhelmsgallery.com>
Memphis, TN USA - Sunday, September 24, 2006 11:52 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham -- Just wanted to send our love and prayers your way and tell you about an interesting visit I had today.
A nice lady stopped by the store and as we talked, we discovered several things we had in common. The most important one? Loving Toni, Graham and Paco. The ladie's name is Sonia Reid and she has taken two of your workshops. She currently lives here in Georgia, but her family is moving to Breckenridge, Colorado next May.
You know what they say...six degrees of separation and you know everyone in the world...which means lots and lots of love out there for the Young family.
Our prayers and love are with both of you always,
Ruthie, Dave, Clint and Andrea Sampson <dracsampson@aol.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Friday, September 15, 2006 2:18 PM CDT
Hi Toni,
Greetings from Mississippi. Summer here may finally be coming to a close. The 95 degree days with the miserable humidity are finally giving in to some cooler nights allowing a sit on the back porch a restful experience. But as you remember, nothing here substitutes for the beauty that surrounds you in Montana. Last year at this time, we were still under the turmoil of the evacuees from New Orleans so at least we haven't had to go through that again. Life will never be back to normal down there. Keep your sights high and stay in touch.
Darden and Sherri <DardenBrady@yahoo.com>
Liberty, MS USA - Thursday, September 14, 2006 10:26 AM CDT
Hi Toni - Fall in Montana has to be gorgeous. We are still in the midst of summer here in Florida but it fall activities are in full swing. Ava loves "school" and started her gymnastics class. I think of you often and pray for you and Graham. How cute is he? xx00
Julie Podewitz <julieredcarpet@aol.com>
Venice, FL USA - Thursday, September 14, 2006 4:35 AM CDT
Toni and Graham,
I haven't written since Paco left us but I check the site regularly to hear about you. My prayers and thoughts are with you both. I want you to know there are many of us that care about you and hope it gives you strength. Les
Les LeFevre <;;efevre@fuse.net>
Cincinnati, OH - Monday, September 11, 2006 8:31 PM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham,
Kevin and I just returned from a business trip to Jackson Hole and thought about you and Paco many times knowing that Jackson was a special place for you both. I'm glad to hear that school is going well for Graham and that he's getting excited about fall hunting. The first time I met Paco and Graham was at the BB Gun Safety class that Graham and Colin took together. From there on ... friends forever! Colin starts his hunter safety class tonight and is also looking forward to his first hunting trip this fall. We miss you all ... Lisa and Kevin
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, September 11, 2006 9:01 AM CDT
Fall is magic pure and simple. Glad to hear school is going well for Graham. Lost my Grandpa yesterday to a long battle with a brain tumor. Still hanging in school and work, little time to do fun painting but I still continue to learn. I am envious of the hunting trips you guys have planned.
Love JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Saturday, September 9, 2006 2:40 PM CDT
A lovely dress and she paid!!! Not a surprise- Toni has always been so generous. School has begun another year of Englsih educachion ( is that mispelled????) Rumor has it the art teacher is leaving- finally back to my world.
Love JR Rowen Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 1:03 PM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham,
Just wanted to send you a hug on this cool summer evening. Kevin and I were out on the back deck thinking about you both ... and missing you both.
Love you,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Monday, August 28, 2006 10:05 PM CDT
Dear Toni,
I wish these words could take away your pain. After reading your journal I was truely amazed at your strength and courage. My husband died suddenly when I was thirty-eight and my three year old daughter gave me a reason for living. I know many prayers are said for your continued strength to raise your precious son in the way you and Paco would have raised him. Reading about your hunting experience with Graham reminds of so many experiences that I have had similar to that. Now over ten years later, I think my daughter appreciates that I was careful to make sure that she had as many experiences I could make possible even as a single mom. When nights get long, remember your love for Paco will never die and one day you will be together again. That has been such a comfort to me. One more thing, I could not believe that you and your husband went to the Memphis College of Art. Being from Memphis, I hope that you have fond memories of your time here. My daughter and I were just there this past summer. We like to paint, too. Please, email me if you ever plan to come to Memphis.
God bless you and your son. Watching him grow will give you strength.
JB
Memphis, Tn - Sunday, August 27, 2006 8:54 PM CDT
Hey Guys
Just thinking about you all.
Bill
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Saturday, August 26, 2006 8:16 AM CDT
She and Graham were there.
She was radiant and beautiful.
She wore a lovely dress.
She paid for dinner !
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 8:15 PM CDT
Toni and Graham, Sounds pretty good not starting school until the 30th. We have been in since the first week of August. Bateman is at the Yellowstone Institute doing a workshop in Oct, but i dont think I will go- I need to paint for awhile and not travel but a Oct trip to the park would be nice????
Hope the Fall is pleasant and Graham's year goes well.
Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Thursday, August 17, 2006 10:44 PM CDT
Toni and "The G Man" ,
It is with a sad heart that I have this bad news to pass along to you so please sit down and take a deep breath.......are you seated ? Jan and I plan to drive to Bozeman and take you and Graham to dinner at the Outback so you have a few days to come up with a good excuse why you can't attend. It has to be a GOOD excuse as I have heard all the transparent reasons why you won't be home.
If you find yourself out of ligitimate excuses and find you have to bite the bullet.........we will see you both at the Outback at 7 P.M. this friday. And please leave your wallet at home so you don't embarass yourself rumaging through it pretending to find some money. Jan does it all the time and it is getting old.
Please wear something nice.........
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt. USA - Wednesday, August 16, 2006 1:36 PM CDT
Dearest Toni and Graham,
We again send you an open ended invitation if you want a trip anytime, come to Denmark...sorry its quite so far, but the view of a little harbour and medieval castle are worth it. Meanwhile, dont exptect so much of yourself, your loss is still so raw... there are no rules or timelimits, you cope your own way Toni,it is a way Paco would be so proud of.
Your support team are all here...(the Gang are with you every step)....
Thinking of you both,
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Sunday, August 13, 2006 11:19 AM CDT
Toni,
Just a quick note to say I think of you often, and check on the site. My new lovely bride and I are honeymooning in the area this week, and we stopped at the Old Faithful Inn to see Paco's painting. I was so proud.
I know times are tough.
Just know that there are a whole lot of people out here, that still think of you and care about you, and that will never forget your kindness.
praying for you.
Nate
Nate Hager <n_hager@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn Center, MN - Thursday, August 10, 2006 11:50 AM CDT
Dear Toni,
I've been trying to figure out the past month what i can possibly say that could matter at a time like this. Unfortunately i know in my heart that there is very little that will ever be said that will stop the immense pain you are forced to endure with Paco's passing. That you were blessed to have known, shared, and comforted him, held such a special place in his heart seems to not fully encompass the life you two shared. Each and every day I look at the last painting i did at your workshop...A simple horsehead that Paco worked on with me...And i see his brushstrokes and remember his laugh. I was blessed to spend two years at workshops with all of you, and the memories have always been with me of not so much the lessons learned, but the quiet time shared at night around the campfire at the old camp. I remember his teasing me about being a "Michigander" and what was that anyway?...And lots of questions about being in radio, something he thought he would have really had fun with. Paco always had a wonderful way of taking attention off himself, and asking others about their life, what they do...He took a real interest, and the following year when i returned and we picked up like no time had passed, i knew i'd made a friend. What an incredible blessing to have had the chance to get to know a man, an artist i had admired for so long. I had so hoped to make it back this coming summer and renew old friendships...Now the though of not seeing the two of you together there saddens me, and i cannot imagine the pain and loss you are trying to deal with. Toni, you were blessed to have shared so much in such a short amount of time with Paco, and while the pain of losing him will probably always be with you, i pray every day that the memories, the laughter shared, the moments treasured will someday replace your tears. I think of you every day, and pray that God will give you strength and let you find peace. Thank you for sharing Paco with us. All my love & prayers, Pam
Pam Zuwerink Hopkins <pamroberts@clearchannel.com>
Ravenna, MI US - Wednesday, August 9, 2006 9:35 AM CDT
Gidday T&G,
Sorry it's been a while. I visit and "look in on you" sometimes, and don't always leave a message. RIght now you sound cranky with yourself Toni - as if you shouldn't feel robbed.... I can only imagine it's a pretty natural reaction, and toughening of some parts also sounds fairly predictable when wounded and trying to heal.... I'd also lay money there's parts of you that are impatient to "get on" and that creates turmoil too.... I have every faith you two will come through this you have already shown your individual strengths and courage - they will win out. I'm absolutely sure of it. I just can't promise when darlin. But I believe in you both as we believed in him. Keep takin care Toni, you too Graham. Loadza hugs and squeezes from across the pond.
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Windsor, Berkshire United Kingdom - Sunday, August 6, 2006 6:11 AM CDT
I think of you so often, Toni, and decided today is the day to tell you how much you're in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I had a magical clue of how to cope with your loss. You sound like you're doing the best you can -- can't ask for more. Hugs, Ellen
Ellen Collard <collard@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, August 2, 2006 2:29 PM CDT
Hi guys. dad's surgery went as good as it could tumors removed now he tries to recover. Very tough road it gives me a small glimpse of the hell you all went through- truly sorry I am, but hopeful that you can all once again find happiness. Hot as hot can be here, I have a new acronym for MFA it stands for money flying away!
Love always JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Sunday, July 30, 2006 9:14 PM CDT
Hi Tony and Graham,
You have no idea how many times I have thought about you since the discovery of Paco's illness, or how many times I have said prayers since his passing and sent them on the wind. I read your journal on a regular basis and I hear your pain with each note you write, but I'm also glad to read that you are trying very hard to move ahead with the things that you enjoy. Graham seems to be adjusting quite well and is now creating the path that you both must follow. Take his hand and walk together, side by side.
Love and kisses, Linda
Linda Rossin <LRStudio@optonline.net>
Lake Hopatcong,, NJ USA - Thursday, July 27, 2006 4:51 PM CDT
Hi, dear friends-
I've been thinking about you both and hoping that your summer is going well. It was so good to see you at the RMR. You are so special to me. As you know, we've spent the summer getting ready for the big wedding and it took place yesterday - it was so perfect- Nick came home from Iraq for it, so we are all enjoying the time with him. Now it's time to do non-wedding stuff until school starts. Let's have that include coffee, drinks, dinner, lunch, or all of the above!!! Have a great week! Love ya both! Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Sunday, July 23, 2006 9:43 PM CDT
Hey Toni~
I was just thinking about Paco for no particular reason today, and thought I'd look back for the sake of memories. What a guy, it was truely a blessing to have known him. I would love to stop by and see you sometime during your busy summer!
Love,
Willow
Willow Tinklenberg
- Friday, July 21, 2006 12:57 AM CDT
Toni, If I could sit beside you and give you all the answers, it would still not be enough. You have a hole in your heart that will be empty for now. Try to fill it with all the memories of Paco at his best. I think of you often and look at Paco's painting everytime I walk down the hall. I'm sending a hug for now, prayers always.
Linda Thompson <sbellemr@verizon.net>
Sarasota, FL - Thursday, July 20, 2006 6:33 PM CDT
Toni - My heart continues to go out to you and Graham. We miss you both and wish we could do more for you.
Love, Lisa & Kevin
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Wednesday, July 19, 2006 6:21 PM CDT
Just wanted to drop a note and let you know that I am thinking about you both. I so admire your strength and Graham's courage. Also, I must say that you, ED, are a card!!! Toni is blessed to have you and Jan as friends. Take care of them for us that are too far away!!
Linda Schaner <lschaner@millpond.com>
Venice, FL USA - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 9:54 AM CDT
Hi Toni - Just checking in to say HI. Glad you went on a trip south. How did Graham enjoy his week at camp? School will start again soon for him! Ava just turned three. Busy with parties, etc. Love to you. Julie
Julie Podewitz <julieredcarpet@aol.com>
Venice, FL USA - Monday, July 10, 2006 7:11 AM CDT
Hey guys- great to hear you made it back home without incident. MFa classes are tough, grading tougher but at least it is realism. It finally rained here so it isn't quite as severe as last year. Dad's surgery is the 10th an dwe are anxious to here results. We miss you guys and the rest of the gang. The new lab is growing at a rate that is alarming to say the least. Love always JR Rowen and Jax
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo 80828 - Friday, July 7, 2006 11:20 PM CDT
Toni and Graham........
Just returned from North Carolina as one of my granddaughters got married to a complete dingaling with the mentality of a mature cucumber. No job and said he was "Looking". I kept my mouth shut and gritted my teeth.
Jan is thinking of a part time job as a travel agent and I think she will be specializing in "Guilt Trips". I think I will end up with a couple of million frequent flier miles.
I have been giving some thought on writing a book on my golf game. Here are a few titles I have been kicking around so please give me your opinion .
How to line up your 5th putt.
How to hit a Nike from the rough when you hit a Titleist
from the tee.
How to avoid the water when you lie 8 in the bunker.
How to get maximum distance off your shank.
How to relax and look nonchalant when your taking your 5th stroke off the tee.
Crying and how to handle it.
How to rationalize an 8 hour round.
Take your pick and get back to me. So far I haven't found a publisher.
Hope this finds you and the "G Man" in great health and high spirits and the "Golden Bird of Paradise" will fill your plate with everything you need.
Ed and Jan Sanders
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Thursday, July 6, 2006 5:23 PM CDT
Happy 4th of July to both of you. I remember camp and what wonderful memories they hold. I know time without Graham will be hard but he will be home before you know it. Keeping you in our thoughts as always.
Love
Nancy Gregory
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, Sc USA - Monday, July 3, 2006 8:01 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham,
We have been away at sea, It is good to see your updates again,..your writings to us inspire....that you have the will to keep us all informed of your continued battle is truely remarkable Toni, Thankyou. Graham up in Boulder country brings back such great memories, I can almost smell that mountain air....I know you will get through his time up there, as you have through it all....with courage.
Sending you supportive hugs,
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Thursday, June 29, 2006 9:37 AM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham ... so good to hear from you Toni and that you're back home. I know that Graham is going to have a great time at camp ... Colin enjoyed it when he went. We would love you both to come for a visit - I'll give you a call and we'll work something out or I'll pop in and sit in the flower garden with you to catch up on life. We sure miss your beautiful smile and can't wait to see you over the summer.
Love you lots,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 3:47 PM CDT
Just thought I'd say hello. Think about you all the time and hope things are going as well as they can. Remember if you need anything just give a call.
Bill Klein
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa Good Ol USA - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 11:05 AM CDT
Toni and Graham- working on MFA classes and trying to stay focused. We plan on being up in Yellowstone contry in July. Hope you have more moisture there than we do! We have a new dog a black lab named Jenny- Jaxson loves her! Love always
JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Sunday, June 18, 2006 11:13 PM CDT
Toni and Graham,
Happy Belated Birthday. Just to let you know that we are always thinking of you both. Hang in there and cherish your memories of Paco and your time with your wonderful son, Graham.
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Friday, June 16, 2006 10:40 AM CDT
Hi Toni,
Best birthday wishes to you! I do check in on your journal a few times a month to see how you are getting along. As well as could be expected, I guess. It's good that you have the frames and Graham (though not in that order, probably) to help you get through this most difficult time of "firsts" without your first love with you. You are in my thoughts. All the best,
Susan
Susan Fox <sfox@foxstudio.biz>
Mc Kinleyville, CA USA - Tuesday, June 6, 2006 4:46 PM CDT
It was so great to see you last week. You continue to be in my daily thoughts and prayers. You and Graham are such remarkable people and I thank God that you are in my life. Keep the positive attitude - I'm so proud of you both!!
Love,
Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Saturday, June 3, 2006 12:19 AM CDT
Toni,
So glad to see an update...I check regularly hoping to hear news of you and Graham. I'm thankful you had good friends to spend your birthday with. Friends are angels without wings. I know you still have difficult emotional times ahead but you have incredible strength...more than I think you realize. And you have Graham, another strong and loving soul. Take one day at a time and enjoy the little things. Please keep us updated. You remain in our hearts and prayers.
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA - Friday, June 2, 2006 10:18 AM CDT
Toni - thank you for the update, and I'm sending you a belated "Happy Birthday" hug. I can not imagine how difficult your days are but continue to know that you are in my thoughts every day.
I wish that I was able to help you more. Thinking of you and Paco on this beautiful morning.
Love to you and Graham,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Friday, June 2, 2006 7:35 AM CDT
Toni- sounds like you guys have some good plans. If your travels bring you through Colorado I would sure love to see you! Maybe meet Jaxson. He still wears the Yellowstone sweater you guys bought him! I received some potentially bad news - my Dad has not been feeling well and so had many tests run. A doctor found a large tumor in his stomach cavity and fro the initial look believes it to be cancer. Surgery is imminent and for now I am left without knowledge of the future. Luckily since your advice over a year ago I have spent every moment possible with my family so I have no regrets. All our love to you guys- stay in touch.
Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Tuesday, May 23, 2006 10:14 PM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham-
Toni, it was so good to see a note from you again. I'm glad to know you are continuing to work on your frames and that Graham is exploring his many and varied interests. Springtime and the coming warm weather of summer will give your spirits a lift. We think of you and Graham, and Paco too, every day. Know that you all remain in our hearts.
Best Love,
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Friday, May 19, 2006 10:13 PM CDT
Toni ... it was my father's birthday today also ... I will make a toast to three wonderful people that have touch my life in such a special way.
With love,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Friday, May 19, 2006 7:59 PM CDT
Just a quick note to let you know that a day doesn't go by that I don't think about you!!! Many hugs are coming your way! Love,
Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 1:41 PM CDT
Good Morning Toni and Graham,
Wow ... it's been a busy Spring for all it sounds. Colin was asking about you both last night and I just wanted you to know that you two are always close in conversation and in our thoughts ... even though we lapse on touching base as often as we should.
We hope to make a trip over to Bozeman in the next couple of weeks which we will let you know so we can get together.
Missing you and sending our love and hugs to you on this beautiful Spring day.
Lisa, Kevin, Colin and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 10:21 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham,
Here in Denmark the land is just coming to life for spring, I have been out plein-airing, but something is missing in this landscape, something drastic, ah yes.... mountains!!!........light, the right trees, the right greens..blues, purples, yellows .... You, Paco and the gang........ but we have castles, sea and flat fields..... somehow it just doesnt work.
What would Paco say...'just paint like you drive and quit whining!'......
So I will, with thoughts of Montana.
Thinking of you.....
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Sunday, May 14, 2006 4:20 PM CDT
Jan and I went to Bozeman to help Toni get her 2nd act together and help her get started producing her world class frames. She said she would take us to dinner along with Dan and Liz Smith. Dan of course is a world class artist of which most of you are well aware. The minute Liz heard I was coming she developed a migrane headache and couldn't come ( I heard she had a miraculous recovery after Dan arrived home ) and we had a great dinner at the Outback as Graham picked the restaurant due to the fact that they served great onions. After a great meal Toni started groping in her purse for her wallet and after fumbling around for 10 minutes I got embarrased and said we would take care of the bill. Went over the next day and found Toni digging away in the front yard trying to line up gigantic creasoted railroad ties for her flower bed and covered from head to toe with dirt and creasote. Went into the shop where she had many frames in various stages of completion and they were excellent craftsmanship at it's very best. Gold , Silver and Distressed with many various styes and shapes. We had several hours of discussions on framing and when she glanced out at the creasoted logs I looked at my watch and said WOW , where does the time go !
Jan just stopped by and told me to put an adendum to this and say not all of the above is the total truth...the framing part is 100 % accurate. Liz I might add had a 100 % recovery and is also gardening.
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Sunday, May 7, 2006 7:38 PM CDT
Toni, I put the letter of rec. that Paco wrote for me to ggod use and decided to apply for a MFA program. I have been teaching now for 7 years and it such a wonderful mix between my own art and teaching others that I will make a career of it. The decision to paint full time or teach at university was a long and difficult trial, but it was my time spent with you guys that helped me to decide. One way to honor Paco is to share his ideas and stories with others so that is the plan. My MFA program is one of the few programs that insists on traditional representational skills and I will be the first student to focus on field painting as my thesis project. I cant say enough what an impact you and Paco have had on my life, but maybe a lifetime of teaching to paint with a big brush and a lot of paint will be enough. Thanks JR Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 11:48 AM CDT
It's so good to hear from you again - I hope you find spring to be a refreshing and healing time. You remain in my thoughts and prayers!! Love,
Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Tuesday, April 25, 2006 2:30 PM CDT
Hello Toni and Graham - I continue to check your web site and I always admire your ability to go on, despite what has to be terrible lonliness and grief. You are both very brave and strong. Toni, somewhere in my memory I saw a note about your framing business. Are you actively framing? If so, do you have a catalog or a web page? Tony is currently reevaluating his framing needs and he wanted me to contact you, and I apologize, but I've misplaced your personal e-mail address. However, I know you check this site very often, so I guess it doesn't matter how I make contact! Tony is holding his own, and actually doing very well, despite the unbelievable illnesses and traumas of the past several months. We return to Houston on May 24 for testing - his last tests were in early March. Only you can understand the fear that strikes in my heart. Enough said - I send love to you both and let me hear regarding frames. Brenda
Tony Eubanks <tonyeubanks@htcomp.net>
Clifton, TX USA - Monday, April 24, 2006 3:28 PM CDT
Toni, This message is from Carol and Kevin Wharton from Springfield, Pa. Hope you remember us. Kevin still cuts hair at the mall and that is where he oringinally met you guys many years ago. We just heard of Paco passing and wanted to tell you how saddened we are. Kevin was talking to another artist today and he mentioned Paco's name and he was told. We always loved seeing you guys and we will never forget Paco. Our basement walls are covered by alot of his prints. We have a large bald eagle print you gave us as a wedding gift 13 yrs ago. Wow. All of the pictures on your site are so nice. Graham is so cute. Although we have lost touch over the years, some people you just never forget. Paco's spirit will always live on in his beautiful art work. Take care, Carol and Kevin
Carol Wharton <cawerie@comcast.net>
Springfield, PA usa - Monday, April 24, 2006 1:25 PM CDT
Dear Toni and Graham,
Our deepest sympathy to you both. We just became aware that Paco passed away and regret having not been in touch sooner. The benefit web site gives such a wonderful, worthy homage to him...it was helpful being able to read through it. Thinking of you and wishing you continued strength day by day. With love, Charley and Valerie
Charley and Valerie Gressett <vrgressett@comcast.net>
Decatur, GA USA - Saturday, April 22, 2006 10:58 AM CDT
Hey guys I was working in the studio and came across a video I made of Paco painting a Grizzly bear ( I think Tom bought the painting?) and Paco painting a small cabin. We bought a Lab pup a week ago for Jaxson ( and myself ). All of the little things keep coming back but I would not have traded the time I spent with you all for anything. Keep on keeping on. Love JR Rowen and Jaxson Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 5:48 PM CDT
Toni and The G Man.........
We just returned from another trip to Europe. Landed in Madrid and rented a new Mercedes 650 SXL with all the bells and whistles and toured the continent for 35 days and stayed in Castles and 5 star hotels. Had silk sheets every night and ate steak and lobster every time we had the chance. Gambled in Monaco and won a huge sum of money which more than paid for the trip with a tidy sum left over.
Jan said she was exhausted and wants to take a month off to recuperate. What a fabulous time we had !!!!
Of course the above is a crock but we did go down to Polson ( 30 miles ) and had a hot dog and diet coke and came back along the other side of the lake. Just wanted to take your mind off of grieving for awhile.
Love from the would be travelers..........
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 12:48 AM CDT
Toni...I just received my "Light Dance" print and can't take my eyes off of it. I think of you guys everytime I look at it..What a talent that continues to bring joy.Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Lisa Landers <alanders@msn.com>
Flower Mound, tx - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 8:56 AM CDT
((((((((((((Toni))))))))))))
(((((((((((Graham)))))))))))
Diana Roth <animalspirits@talstar.com>
Tallahassee, FL USA - Friday, April 7, 2006 12:05 AM CDT
Thinking about you all
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 8:31 AM CDT
Hi Toni and Graham,
Congratulations Graham with your hunter safety score! I always knew you were one smart cookie back in the Montana Kid's days. I still think about you two a lot and wish you better and brighter days. Thank you Ed too for your up-date on your visit. Lots of LOVE
Elaine Mencas (harris0 <elaineharrislmt@yahoo.com>
Medford, OR - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 1:14 AM CDT
Toni - Hunter safety sounded like a great success a 98! Reading the postings on this site has become a ritual for me and I am so very movd by the number of people you guys have touched over the years and at the same time maintaining such a strong family. I am so very inspired to try and live a good life, and leave behind a legacy of warmth and friendship like Paco did. Your friend JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 10:12 PM CDT
Jan and I saw Toni and Graham last week and Graham bragged about scoring a 98 on his hunter safety exam and I reminded him that Dick Cheney also scored 98. I was wondering what he missed on the 2 per cent ? Both exhibited hospitality beyond belief and Toni prepared a dish of rice and a Jumbalaya base of shrimp and a bunch of other goodies.
A few tears were shed but recovery is slow but positive.
Toni is like a "Pit Bull" anchored on the leg of opportunity and she is a blur around the house. It was a visit Jan and I will never forget. What a gal !!
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Monday, April 3, 2006 2:08 PM CDT
To Toni, Graham & all those who loved Paco,
Last night upon opening my Ruffed Grouse Society magazine my heart broke in two upon learning Paco had passed.
I first met Paco & Toni when they were getting started on the Master Artist Tour back in the 80’s. I was working my way through college in a mall tobacco store and Paco & Toni’s display area was right outside the shop. At that time Paco smoked a pipe and our paths crossed. Paco & Toni’s warm and friendly character was infectious and I eagerly looked forward to seeing them when the tour came through Maryland. I fell in love with Paco’s work from the first time I laid eyes on it, being an outdoors nut myself and began accumulating as much of his work as possible. His prints adorn most of the walls in our home today. My first print from Paco was a Rainbow trout, one of his first and despite my objections; he refused money and just plain gave it to me at the end of their week when we first met. It hangs above our fireplace to this day. The following year I graduated to fly-fishing and Paco & Toni invited me for the weekend to their post show “secret campground” near the Shenandoah River. On an overcast Saturday Paco taught me the proper casting, mending, fly selection, strategy, how to read the water, and we caught and released countless numbers of Smallmouth Bass. That evening he taught me how to tie some basic flies and a special knot used for tying a loop at the end of a leader (I still tie the same loop, taught my fly fishing wife and will teach my son “Paco’s Loop”). It was for me a magical weekend that launched me from a love of the sport to a student of angling artistry that I have enjoy to this day with my wife.
Casting my fly rod over rising trout or fishing a quiet run will have a richer meaning for me now. Days in the Grouse and Woodcock fall woods will now be hallowed. My heart is heavy and my eyes brimming for Toni, Graham and all of us who loved one of the Lord’s greatest gifts to us. While on this earth I will never understand the Lord’s reasoning for bringing him Home, other than the Lord needed him more than we did. My solace now will be that during that perfect cast on stream, tying that perfect fly with my son, or holding the perfect shooting form upon a Grouse flush, Paco will be standing just beside me patting my shoulder and saying, “Nice job Tom.”
My family's prayers always.
Tom Albert <talbert@areteconsultingllc.com>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Sunday, April 2, 2006 10:44 AM CDT
Dearest Toni - I'll bet all this year's paychecks that Graham sees you as many things....... but as a substitute in none. You are his family and his rock and he will never forget your strength and love and humanity through these years on the good and the bad days. You inspire us from 8,000 miles away - only God and Graham know how much you must inspire him. We too will be keen to see your framing work darlin. All our love Toni and hi to Graham of course too.
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
WINDSOR, Berkshire United Kingdom - Thursday, March 30, 2006 7:45 AM CST
Hi Toni,
I'm glad to hear that Graham is doing ok and that you are finding some satisfaction with your framing. I think of you often and wish you well always. And I'll be keeping a look out for your website as I hope to need some great new frames for my paintings this year.
Susan Fox <sfox@foxstudio.biz>
McKinleyville, CA USA - Monday, March 27, 2006 5:22 PM CST
Toni,
I only wish we could bear some of you burden, take some of your pain. Excited to hear about the framing, can't wait to see your work. You and Graham are always in my prayers.
Nate
Nate Hager <n_hager@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 27, 2006 9:14 AM CST
Toni - Thanks for the update. What fun the two of you will have with the Hunter Safety course - boy does that bring back memories x3! What a lucky boy Graham is to have you by his side!!! Enjoy the time and keep creating those beautiful frames!! I hope to see you soon! Love,
Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@bresnan.net>
Belgrade, MT USA - Sunday, March 26, 2006 3:11 PM CST
Good Morning Toni,
Thanks for your update ... just so you know ... you are not a substitute --- you are the next BEST THING when it comes to these times in yours and Grahams life when Paco had his specialty.
Graham is so lucky to have such a wonderful talented mother to carry on the things that would of meant so much to Paco. You are doing a fantastic job Toni and before you know it ... both you and Graham will be the top marksman in his class!!
We love you as usual and miss all three of you greatly.
Lisa, Kevin, Colin, and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Friday, March 24, 2006 7:02 AM CST
Toni and Graham-
Pretty serious snow storm the last couple of days here in Limon. I took a day off to help my dad with the cows- we are still calving hopefully we will be done in a couple more weeks. We are preparing for Jaxson's 2nd birthday on the 6th of April. We begin our Spring Break Friday. Sounds like you guys are keeping busy- as usual and this is good to hear! Love always JR Rowen and Jaxson Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 9:14 PM CST
Hi Toni & Graham, Congratulations to Graham for his successes on the boards (Snow and School). Seems he's found focus and strength in his grief too. Toni, I'm sure the fact that you want to feel better is the very best sign of all - 14 weeks isn't so long after what you two and three have shared (although it probably feels like decades). We send all our love and best wishes to you two and all your other devoted friends across the pond and across the world.
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Windsor, Berkshire United Kingdom - Sunday, March 19, 2006 3:57 AM CST
Hello Toni and Graham,
Just wanted to drop a note to let you know that we are thinking about you both and hoping that your "Spring Break" together has been wonderful for both of you! :)
Enjoy the rest of your vacation and we'll talk again soon.
Love you,
Lisa, Kevin, Colin, and Jessica
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Thursday, March 16, 2006 4:39 PM CST
Toni- I had a moment between administering the state exam to my students and thought I would drop a note. Thinking of you all as usual I could sure use an art pep talk like the ones you always were so good at giving me. Dont think I am going to let all that knowledge in your pretty little head go to waste! Thanks for being such a good friend when i needed one here's hoping I can return the favor.
JR Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 2:21 PM CST
Toni and Graham-
So wonderful to hear Grham's grades are straight A's! A little sad to hear he is a snowboarder ( Rowen likes the idea but I am a skier) Perhaps sometime we could all go skiing together- maybe here in Colorado. I am eager to talk to you but I know I too would not be able to make a good conversation yet. Here's hoping for a wonderful Spring full of friendship and success.
Love JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 9:18 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
Glad to see an update...I still check the site every few days hoping to hear that you two are well. Way to go Graham...great grades and possibly a future olympic snowboarder???!!! Toni, you are a constant inspiration and don't ever feel you need to apologize for your tears...no one will hold them against you. I hope framing is progressing well and am looking forward to seeing those frames made available to your adoring public (like me)! Easy does it...one day at a time. You're always in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA 17103 - Thursday, March 9, 2006 3:44 PM CST
Hey Guys
Hope your hanging in there, Thinking about you all. Its getting a little warmer here in Good Ol Roscoe Pa. and hopefully spring is just around the corner, Yikes the Grass is actually growing here, thought I killed all of it last year. Our local grouse banquet is this week and I have a special print to auction off by one of the greatest artists I've ever met. Am sure gonna miss Pacos generosity when it came to my events. When your ready the invitation to Nemicolon still stands for you and Graham. I will try and keep the guys from corrupting him a little, but you know that ain't gonna happen.
Keep the faith, better days are coming.
Bill
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 12:58 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham -
Just a note to remind you........we are thinking of you.......we love you..........we hope every day brings you a little less pain and a little more comfort.
Best love,
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 11:15 AM CST
Toni & Graham - I saw my first robin this morning and thought about how wonderful spring can be with all its "newness". I hope spring will come into your hearts and brighten your spirits. You have been so remarkable and I want happiness for you both! Lots of hugs! Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Monday, March 6, 2006 2:51 PM CST
(((Toni)))
Last night I watched a new DVD release called 'The Perfect Stranger' and couldn't help but think of you and Graham. It's about Jesus having dinner with a woman who is still bitter and hurting from her fathers death at the age of 12.
He lovingly answers alot of her questions. Some even concerning life in Heaven. It's actually a wonderful movie that would hopefully have an impact on Graham and be of some great comfort to you.
Gods Blessings on you both.
Cindy Phal <Cynthia_Kathleen@msn.com>
Oak Harbor, Wa - Sunday, March 5, 2006 7:18 PM CST
Toni and Graham-
Our cows started calving a week ago and it has been non stop since!! I had a moment and thought I would drop a note and say hi. Jaxson celebrates his 2nd birthday April 6th. Spring break is coming soon and I plan on painting. Hope to hear from ya soon. Love JR Rowen and Jaxson Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Saturday, March 4, 2006 3:44 PM CST
Dearest Toni and Graham,
We are still sending you our Love and thoughts, continued strength to you both........
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 8:12 AM CST
Hi Toni & Graham
Just want you to know I've been thinking of you both and am keeping you in my prayers
Jeffrey Hoff
Jamestown, ND USA - Monday, February 27, 2006 4:19 PM CST
Toni,
No words come to me as I read your painfully update. All I can say is we think of you often and hoping and praying that it will all somehow get better for you and Graham. As always you are in our thoughts and prayers. I spoke with Suzie during the SEWE and we had wonderful momorys we shared of your beloved Paco and you. We will never let his sprirt die.
Love
Nancy Gregory
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Monday, February 27, 2006 1:37 PM CST
Just a note to let you know I think and pray for you both daily and wish with all my heart I could figure out a way to heal your hearts. I hope these cyber-hugs will find their way to you!!! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Friday, February 24, 2006 11:54 PM CST
Hi Toni and Graham - We just wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday, and we all wish for the pain to lessen and the sadness to abate. Miss you and love you both.
Ruthie, Dave, Clint and Andrea Sampson <dracsampson@aol.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Friday, February 24, 2006 3:55 PM CST
Hey Toni
Thanks for continuing to share your heart and thoughts with us. You will always be an inspiration to people even in the way you forge on in the midst of your loss. Keep on being strong; you matter to so many.
Ramona Swift <ramona@swiftfox.ca>
Winfield, BC Canada - Friday, February 24, 2006 1:55 PM CST
Dearest Toni,
Three months is a very short period of time. I know that the pain is intense and almost unbearable but you are doing everything you can for yourself and Graham. Next month, on the 13th, will be 5 years since we lost Austin and even though she remains a part of my thought process each and every day, the pain is much less than it was that first year. The grieving process is just what it is and their are no short cuts or cures for that from which we suffer, "the horrible pain of losing one's soul mate" It always helped me to feel and believe that she was right their with me through all of that, but I just wasn't able to see into that other realm of existence, a place where we are not able to be at this moment, but a place that we all will be allowed to go at some time in the future. Toni, your unbelievable strength, your devotion and love for Paco all these many years never forgetting what that last 12 months were like and your unsurpassed love for Graham will bring you through these times of pain, I know it, all your many friends and family know it. Your strong and your a survivor and life will get better, I promise. Superwoman you may not be in your own mind, but your the closest thing I ever met to it......
All my love and prayers to you and Graham,
Alex
Alex Burkhart <alexburkhart@bellsouth.net>
Knoxville, TN - Thursday, February 23, 2006 12:58 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham!
I spoke with Paul Calle today and he asked about you two. I updated him with your message from the site. He wanted me to pass a message along that he thinks of you often, and sends his best wishes.
I continue to keep you in my prayers.
Love
Angela
Angela Sauro <asauro@comcast.net>
Sarasota, FL 34241 - Thursday, February 23, 2006 12:06 AM CST
Hi again Toni and Graham -
Just a note to let you know that we think of you and speak of you so often. I know this must feel so surreal to you at times, Toni. It is good news that you are keeping busy and enjoying your framing work. I have no doubt that Paco is quietly by your side, making comments and suggestions :) Stay strong and know that you are well loved.
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 4:42 PM CST
You both remain in my daily prayers and I want you to know I'm so happy for the strength you continue to show. Also, I am so very proud of Graham's report card!! I'm sure he owes it all to his third grade teacher - ha!! Hugs to you both and I hope we can get together soon! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Monday, February 20, 2006 8:28 PM CST
Toni, our hearts continue to be with you during this unbelievable journey. Wrapping you in a hug...
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, MO - Thursday, February 16, 2006 8:45 PM CST
Toni and Graham- Valantines was great Jaxson especially liked the candy and taking apart roses a petal at a time. Thought of you both and thought I would drop a line. Cant wait to meet up with you both- maybe a trip to Colorado is in order. I told Rowen about Graham's grades- as teachers he makes us both smile!
Love always
JR Rowen and Jaxson
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 8:16 PM CST
Hello Toni & Graham
We have continued to check in on the web site to see how you guys are doing. You are very much in our thoughts this weekend because it is the anniversary of our first meeting Paco when he was the featured artist at the Wildlife show in Charleston. We will always remember those wonderful times we spent together at the Expo. We continue to journey down to the Expo each year but it just isn't the same without you! You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We look forward to the day when we have the opportunity to introduce Will to Graham.
Much Love
Will Charity & Bill
Bill Perkins <kirbywv@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 10:33 AM CST
Hello Toni & Graham
We have continued to check in on the web site to see how you guys are doing. You are very much in our thoughts this weekend because it is the anniversary of our first meeting Paco when he was the featured artist at the Wildlife show in Charleston. We will always remember those wonderful times we spent together at the Expo. We continue to journey down to the Expo each year but it just isn't the same without you! You remain in our thoughts and prayers. We look forward to the day when we have the opportunity to introduce Will to Graham.
Much Love
Will Charity & Bill
Bill Perkins <kirbywv@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, February 16, 2006 8:26 AM CST
Toni..........
Sitting here having my daily vanilla milk shake and Jan said if I don't drop you a line she is going to crimp my straw. I heard by the grapevine ( Pony Express ) that the " G Man " got straight "A"s" again so I want you to ask him if that's the best he can do ?
I invision you with all the machines running and you are covered with sawdust from head to foot and making those beautiful frames and perfecting all the new techniques you mastered at the Frame Show. Jan said if I enroll in one more class , she will cut me back to one shake per month.
My education came to an abrupt halt.
Paco's smiling , the " G Man " is getting straight "A"s" and you are back to work again..........how good can it get ?
Bear hugs from us both....
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Monday, February 13, 2006 1:11 PM CST
Gidday Toni and Graham, Just wanted you two to know we're thinking of yaz constantly. It heartens us to read of your thoughts and feelings Toni, pain and slow process of grief combined with encouraging healing, it shows how full of life you both are.... All our love
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
WINDSOR, Berkshire United Kingdom - Friday, February 10, 2006 7:54 AM CST
Dearest Toni and Graham. At Beartooth School of Art, June 2000, trip to Animals of Montana, Paco received a fedex delivery of his 2000 DU Artist of the Year Print proof. I took several pictures and have uploaded them to the website. I didn't know if anyone else had sent any, but I wanted you to have them for yourself and for Graham. I am so glad to hear that you are taking steps down the long road to the future. The Lord is there beside you both, to guide you on your way. My love to both of you.
Marti Millington <marti@martimillington.com>
East Peoria, IL USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 10:11 PM CST
Hi Toni and Graham-
Just a note to say that we are thinking of you a lot and wish we could be nearer. It sounds as though you are doing as well as you possibly can at this time. Don't forget that thousands of people in this country and many others hold you in their hearts and wish you well.
Best love,
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA United States - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 1:16 PM CST
Toni.....While searching the web I came across a frame machine that claims you shovel saw dust in one end and a completed 22 carat gold hand carved frame pops out the other end ready to ship. I have ordered one and if you are interested , I will send you the info on it.
I just like helping out when I can.
Give the "G Man" a hug.
Ed Sanders
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 10:16 AM CST
Toni and Graham,
I just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts.
Diana Roth <animalspirits@talstar.com>
Tallahassee, FL USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 7:04 AM CST
Toni and Graham- I am sure you have noticed this, but I only recently discovered how I remember small events and times spent with Paco- that at the time seemed insignificant- but now are so very poignant. I guess that is normal. I am still amazed how a family that I met in 96 has had such an impact on my life. I try hard to live a good life so that when my time comes I might have made so many friends. All of this has made me really believe the saying it is not how long you last but how you live that matters. Nothing seems fair about it yet but I am learning to enjoy my family more and to not focus so much on the details. Pacos comment "lots of paint and a big brush" seems to apply to more than painting. On a more light hearted note: Paco once said that once they made a magazine about it it was all but over- well they have a plein air magazine? Love JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Monday, February 6, 2006 10:02 PM CST
Hi Toni. As my own time to turn another digit approaches (2 more than medical experts "expected) I can only say that I wish you both the best. Time heals. Memories sustain.
Tom Cross <tcross9@comcast.net>
- Monday, February 6, 2006 11:43 AM CST
Toni you are in my thoughts and will remain in my prayers as you and Graham learn to live life again. It just takes time.
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Monday, February 6, 2006 11:23 AM CST
Toni,
One day at a time. You are doing very well, you recognize the stages of grief and are being patient enough to see them through on your own schedule. And it is very good that you are keeping yourself occupied with the frame-making. Doing something creative that you love is healing...I know this for a fact. God's hand is guiding yours as you create each wonderful frame and He is beside you in your time of need. Graham will come to realize what a truly strong and remarkable person you are and will grow to be a strong and loving man. Paco has entrusted you with a gift beyond measure--your son--and Paco will always be a part of both of you. And when you are again able to listen to that quiet voice within, Paco will be there helping you along the journey. You will never be alone. Wishing you comfort, solace and peace.
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA - Sunday, February 5, 2006 10:47 PM CST
Hi Toni - I know I mentioned we were expecting a baby in the Christmas card I sent. I wanted to let you know that we lost our precious baby at 14 weeks. I had a D and C last week. It is so true when you said grief is a solo process but it is so comforting to know others care and are there for us in our time of sorrow and deep sadness.
Julie Podewitz
Venice, FL USA - Thursday, February 2, 2006 7:01 AM CST
Toni - I think of you every day and am proud of you for going on day by day and growing stronger and stronger. I was thrilled to hear you taking that course in Las Vegas. You are tremendously strong and have a wonderful support group of friends and family who love you and Graham very much. It is through life's toughest struggles we realize this more and more. I also admire your ability to express your sorrow through words to let others know how you are feeling. Love Julie
Julie Podewitz <julieredcarpet@aol.com>
Venice, FL USA - Thursday, February 2, 2006 6:49 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Paco! Although this dear man isn't with us in flesh, he will always be in our hearts. Toni & Graham, I'm sure you celebrated Paco's birthday with the realization that he is looking down thankful that he created such a loving family and will always be with you. I love you both and hope to see you soon! Love,
Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 10:24 PM CST
Happy Birthday Paco. Toni the quote from Van Gogh is so very true and I know from coversation with Paco that he was proud of Graham, counted himself lucky to be married to you and happy with his work. Although the world was short changed from seeing his most mature work that would have come we who knew him witnessed his masterpiece- A loving family a long list of friends a few dedicated deciples of his honest approach to art and life full of bravado and energy. I said it to him , I have told you but again he was the inspiration for me and always will be. A portion of what I do in this life I do in his honor and with his presence always in my art and life.
Love JR Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Colo USA - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 1:03 PM CST
Hi Toni and Graham,
Thinking of you as always...keep on building, it wont get better, but it will get easier....
Love you
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
MV Adonia, Pacific - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 1:56 AM CST
Dear Toni. You and Graham continue to be in my thoughts regularly, and I wish there was something I could say or do to make things even a tad easier. Just know that there are a lot of people who care about you. Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Sunday, January 29, 2006 11:09 PM CST
Oh Toni, I am sure that Paco's birthday must have been hard for you. He will not be forgotten, his work and spirit will see to that.
Al and I add our enthusiastic thumbs up to your artistry in framing. Every time we put one of your frames on one of Al's paintings, all we could do was step back and say "WOW!"
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, MO - Sunday, January 29, 2006 9:51 PM CST
Well folks , the highlight of the frame show was watching Toni come away from the Bellagios desert bar with a gigantic tray full of French Cream Puffs , Chocolate Cake , Pie ala mode , cookies , pastries with cream filled centers and a host of other goodies. Took two chefs from the kitchen to help her get her stuff over to the table. A look of guilt was apparent but Jan and I bit our tongues and pretended to ignore her gluttony. After 30 minutes of oooing and ahhhhing we made sure she wiped the evidence from the corners of her mouth and we detected a slight smile. We all waddled back to the car and headed for the next class and I promised on my life that I would keep her little secret ( Yeah right !)
Toni took notes on all the material and will be producing the finest frames on the market. She has been doing this for Paco for some time and will now be doing it professionally for artists who want to inhance their work with the finest frames available.
I told Toni that before I leave this fabulous world that I want to meet everyone on the Caringbridge List and give them all a big Montana Bear Hug.
Ed and Jan Sanders
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Sunday, January 29, 2006 7:47 PM CST
Toni-I was thrilled to read your latest entry and to see you are traveling and trying to occupy your days with positive events. What a great role model you are for Graham (and the rest of us!)!!! You remain in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you and Graham! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Friday, January 27, 2006 1:55 PM CST
Dear Toni,
So glad to hear that things are looking up for you, at least a little bit. I want to second the query about where to get your frames.
Susan Fox <sfox@foxstudio.biz>
McKinleyville, CA 95519 - Friday, January 27, 2006 1:24 PM CST
Dear Toni,
It lifts my heart to hear your optimism returning. And I'm so glad Ed and Jan were there for you. I feel I know them, and so many others, through this web site. I hope to have the honor to someday meet these wonderful people. Keep the faith, through good days and bad, and time will heal. Keep on being good to yourself and Graham.
P.S. Where can I find these wonderful custom frames???
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA 17103 - Thursday, January 26, 2006 9:34 PM CST
Toni - So glad to hear that you had a nice trip ... break ... to relax and enjoy time with good friends, and to get back into something that you really enjoy and are so skillful at.
Colin is missing Graham - he sent off a card for him this morning.
Hope to see you soon. Missing you both ... Love, Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Thursday, January 26, 2006 8:35 PM CST
Gram & Toni, (Dan too)
Hoping the many memories of Paco that make you smile,
outnumber the ones that make you sad
as quickly as possible.
Truly All the Best
Linda Sutton
Linda Sutton
Martinez, CA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 8:44 AM CST
Toni, we have read your journal daily this past year even though we may not have responded at the time. Our hopes and prayers every day are with you and Graham. George always remembers Paco's hat and jokes in Charleston. In our hearts, Paco is not gone.We have shared your journal with others here going through this nightmare. It seems easier for them to see what may happen and how hard the journey, good or bad, through you and your journal. Please don't forget your own talents. Your frames are fantastic! We hope to see you again down the road. Though no one can comprehend your pain, we think of you and Graham daily.
George & Joyce Willhoit <gwillhoit@kc.rr.com>
Kansas City, MO - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 9:09 PM CST
Hi Toni and Graham-
Just wanted to remind you that you are both in our hearts every day. We were so glad to read that you are even a tiny bit better. Time will be your friend - healing your pain and leaving you with strong and sweet memories of Paco. We send you both our love-
Rocky and Judy
The Hafdahls <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA United States - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 11:25 AM CST
Rowen and I thought of jumping in the car ( with Jaxson ) and heading out to see you- but weather and your time held us back. I dont know how much longer we can stay away though. Jaxson is eager to meet you and Graham! Love JR and Rowen
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Monday, January 23, 2006 8:43 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
I think of you two every single day and hope each passing minute brings a tiny bit more peace. As you say, it is impossible to really know the depths of your grief, but I'm so glad to hear you are making some small progress in the steep climb back. I'm praying for your continued strength, and send warmth and love to both of you.
Peggy
Peggy Hanford <mjh@neteze.com>
Bozeman, MT - Sunday, January 22, 2006 8:29 PM CST
Hi Toni -
You and Graham are continually in my prayers. What a tremendous loss; Paco was so full of life! I truly admired how close the three of you were at the two workshops I attended. I deeply admire you and am closer than you think. Through my financial services career which includes life insurance, I hear similar stories on a regular basis. I don't know the reason for your tremedous test of faith, but sharing your story with others will undoubtedly help many along the way. Please add my niece, Krista, to your prayers. She just turned one, and is struggling with liver cancer. Paco lives on - he left very large footprints, and spread his joy around.
Amy J. Graff <amy.graff@nmfn.com>
Abrams, WI USA - Sunday, January 22, 2006 5:38 PM CST
Thinking of you, Toni and Graham. So glad to hear your feeling better (even if its only slightly), and reading about this "process" of grieving. I can imagine what a great help that must be. You'll get through this. Thinking of you always...
Angela Sauro <asauro@comcast.net>
Sarasota, FL USA - Friday, January 20, 2006 10:17 PM CST
Toni-
Just wanted to join in on the good thoughts headed your way parade. We recently had a "shed a little light for a loved one" event as part of the Chronic Survival Tour Lung Cancer campaign. Teal lights were lit and names scribed on translucent bags in honor of all those touched by cancer. Paco - and the Young Family in total - had a really big bag that shed a whole lotta light. We'll keep it lit. You do the same.
Tom Cross <tcross9@comcast.net>
FL - Thursday, January 19, 2006 5:52 PM CST
Thinking about you guys.
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 10:06 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham: You must surely think I'm not keeping up, but I am. I know you understand. We have only been home one night since New Year's. We returned from Houston last week, only to rush to an ER in Waco hospital the very next day with a blood infection and a bladder infection. I've come home today to check on things, but will return this evening. I don't think very many people would know what I'm going through - other than you. I've thought of you a million times in the last several weeks, and I know you are so aware of the hill we're trying to climb. Tony is probably holding his own in many ways, although we can't take the final chemo due to its severity. We will know in a week or two what is next on the agenda. Please know that I've grieved for you both - and continue to do so. I will try to keep in touch. With much love and sympathy, Brenda
Brenda Eubanks <tonyeubanks@htcomp.net>
Clifton, TX USA - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 4:49 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
Know that you are both in our thoughts and we all are praying for you both. You are never alone.
Love
Nancy Gregory
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 1:41 PM CST
Toni and Graham - we just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you, praying for you and loving you every day.
Love, Ruthie, Dave, Clint and Andrea <dracsampson@aol.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 11:28 AM CST
Toni & Graham, please know that you occupy our thoughts and prayers constantly. Your strength has been an inspiration and at the same time we feel terrible that we can't lighten your load some. Loads of love from Lindz & Connie
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Windsor, Berkshire United Kingdom - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 10:32 AM CST
Toni, thanks for keeping us updated. We are all here pulling for you and Graham...
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, MO US - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 10:00 AM CST
Hello Toni and Graham,
It's good to hear that you're getting back into your framing ... you create such beautiful pieces to compliment the wonderful artists in the world.
I'm missing you both and looking forward to our next visit.
Love you,
Lisa
Lisa Gaskin <lnobil@hotmail.com>
Billings, MT - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 11:01 PM CST
Toni & Graham- I'm happy to hear about your progress and continue to pray for you to have strength for each new day. You are both very amazing people and I want you to know I think of you often!! Take care and please stay in touch! Love, Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 1:52 PM CST
Toni and Graham I haven't visited the sight for some time and am saddened to find the news. Paco was an inspiration! Not just as a painter but a trooper in his battle with cancer. No longer than I knew each of you I developed a respect and love that I will cherish forever. Time will heal the wounds and good memories will be your friend. I hope you will remain in the artworld and perhaps Graham will carry on Paco's dream. Whatever the future holds my prayer for you both will be to dream again and prosper in that dream. Paco would want it that way!!
Ron and Mary Kidwell <rowanekidwell@aol.com>
Stonewall, La. USA - Monday, January 16, 2006 4:40 PM CST
Dear Toni,
It is wonderful to hear from you..we're all concerned that you are getting through this time as best you can. I can only inagine the depth of the pain you are feeling but as you've already noticed, grief has many stages and you are surely moving forward, though some days it probably doesn't feel like it. One step at a time, one day at a time. God is there with you and Graham and will give you strength and hope. Keep busy, it's good to give your mind something else to focus on but don't wear yourself out. Take gentle care of yourself and Graham. You both are in our prayers and I look forward to more updates. We haven't forgotten you...you and Paco have inspired us all.
Sandra and Brent Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA - Monday, January 16, 2006 2:23 PM CST
You most certainly are still in my thoughts and prayers. May your healing pass quickly, but your happy memories last forever.
Linda Kelso <pak510@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Saturday, January 14, 2006 7:11 AM CST
Dearest Toni...
You have shown nothing but strength and strong will since Pacos diagnosis...It is those characteristics and your love for both Graham and Paco that will pull you through this time.... We hope that 2006 brings you peace and allows time to make your grief bearable.
We send our continued Love and support to you both.
Awaiting your next update in hope that you have taken a small step up the edge of the pit.
Love Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
MV Artemis, South Pacific - Thursday, January 12, 2006 8:59 PM CST
I don't know about the rest of you , I myself am getting bored with looking at January 4th. Will someone in Bozeman go over and kick her door down and ask her to update on how much better she is doing as we are all out here waiting for
the uplifting update. We all miss Paco and his presence
will be missed and remembered for a lifetime.
A hot fudge banana split to the one who gets Toni off of January 4th !
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Thursday, January 12, 2006 2:52 PM CST
Happy, strong, spirited, motivated and sweet. These were the words that first came to mind when I met you Toni. You have that special something that some just dont have. I think it was this something that led Paco to you, the students of Beartooth to you and it is what makes you such a wonderful mom,friend, wife and person. As always I think of you and Graham daily- I worry and wait. Love JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 12:49 AM CST
Dear Toni--I read the sad news on your website only yesterday. You may not remember me but I used to show with MTA back in the 80's, and remember you and Paco well. (I was the lady with the dog and wildlife paintings--MTA gave me a way to make a living while my Dad--and our family--fought his battle with non-Hodgkins lymphoma.) I married soon afterward and headed with my missionary pastor husband to the Interior of Alaska. We used to see Paco's rising work on the 'net (many homes didn't have running water but we had DSL) and in magazines as he followed his dream. I know my few words of condolence don't mean much in your profound sorrow, but know that Jesus loves you in spite of all your pain. Please turn to Him. These are not just nice religious words--He is real. It works. God is as real as the Montana mountains and rushing streams that Paco loved so much. We have all lost a great artist, but you have lost infinitely more. When you feel ready, please email me. You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Alice Taylor (Sharrock)
Alice Taylor Sharrock <atsharrock@hotmail.com>
Rupert, ID - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 12:10 AM CST
I think of you and Graham often and hope that this year will bring goodness and peace your way. Those good memories are ever so important to youngsters as they grow up. My Dad is now in hospice with T-cell leukemia and the hardest is for my Alzheimers Mom who can't understand, or remember, why he's ill. Life is always a challenge and curious the way things seem to be intertwined with other lifes or circumstances. Take care. Fondly, Gloria Chadwick
Gloria Chadwick
El Cajon, Calif - Monday, January 9, 2006 3:50 PM CST
Dear Toni. You've been in my thoughts so much these last few weeks. I just wanted to say "hi" and let you I've been thinking about you. Hugs, Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Sunday, January 8, 2006 1:04 AM CST
Toni & Graham- You've both been in my thoughts and prayers and I just wish there was a way to take away the hurt, but just know I'm here for you ANY TIME and would love to get together with you when you are ready. I'll look forward to your call. Hugs! KAY
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Saturday, January 7, 2006 7:22 PM CST
Toni,
My best to you and little Graham now and in the future, in all you do. I'll miss knowing Paco is here in this world. Thank you for sharing your deepest hurt with all of us, and your courage for doing so. It gives me cause to appreciate each day anew, and take nothing or no one for granted.
Thank you and may God bless,
Helen Nash
Helen Nash <hlnash@hotmail.com>
Goodlettsville, Tn. USA - Friday, January 6, 2006 12:08 AM CST
Toni & Graham
We thought about both of you a lot over the holidays. We can't begin to image the grief and pain you both were feeling. Please know that you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. May the New Year bring some relief to your pain.
Love
Will, Charity & Bill
Bill Perkins <kirbywv@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, January 6, 2006 9:51 AM CST
Hi Toni and Graham
Know that you are loved, thought of and prayed for every day. May you find peace in the new year. Lots of LOVE...
Elaine Mencas <elaineharrislmt@yahoo.com>
Medford, OR - Thursday, January 5, 2006 7:07 PM CST
Toni & Graham,
There isn't a day that goes by that don't I think about you. I can't even imagine the overwhelming emotions of sadness and loss you must feel. Hugs to you both!!!
Janeice Linden <jlindenart@hotmail.com>
Ponca City, OK - Thursday, January 5, 2006 7:02 PM CST
Toni,
I understand.
Love to you and Graham. May God take you both by the hand as you walk into the future - one step at a time.
Marti Millington <martisiq@insightbb.com>
East Peoria, IL USA - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 10:00 PM CST
DEAR TONI AND GRAHAM,
WE JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW WE ARE THINKING OF YOU AND HOPE THAT 2006 WILL BRING YOU SOME PEACE.
Kay Williams and Ron Holyfield <lstinwoods@juno.com>
- Tuesday, January 3, 2006 4:02 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
We have been thinking about you and hope that you were with family and friends during this Holiday Season. I know that is was not an easy one and all I know is time will help. I just want to wish for you a new year of hope, love and prosperity. We love you and miss Paco very much.
Love, Michael, Amy and Jake Paderewski
Michael, Amy and Jake Paderewski <michael@sportsmansgallery.com>
Beaver Creek, CO - Monday, January 2, 2006 5:09 PM CST
I am reminded of the story of the two Tibetan Monks who were walking down a path when they came to a river and saw a woman standing there afraid to cross. One Monk walked up to her and gently picked her up and crossed the river and put her down on the other side. After continueing their journey for several more miles , the other Monk said it is against our religeon to carry a woman and the other Monk replied " I carried her but across the river and you have carried her ever since ".
I have put this to good use many times when I tend to carry guilt and remorse for things I have done or thought about doing. Maybe this is where the " Let go and let God " originated.
2006 is going to bring all of us peace and prosperity and a renewed enthusiasm for everything we are about to do.
Hang in there Toni and Graham !
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Monday, January 2, 2006 4:14 PM CST
Out painting today-saw a cow moose- thought of Paco and smiled. I bet Paco is smiling because I was freezing my____! off. Quite a change from that day at the geyeser pools! Toni and Graham hope Rowen and my love reach you guys.
JR
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 9:32 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
We have been thinking of you often the past few days and hope you are finding solace with family and friends. You are in our prayers and we wish you peace this Christmas season.
Sandra and Brent Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA - Monday, December 26, 2005 12:50 AM CST
Toni and Graham,
You are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Hugs to both of you...
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, MO - Saturday, December 24, 2005 1:10 PM CST
Toni............Jan is throwing her yearly Xmas party and it is a pot luck and she wants you and Graham to come. Said she had everything covered except the " Steak and Lobster" so if you could bring the steak and lobster for about 40 people it would be appreciated. I'm bringing the napkins.
Yes of course we are thinking of you both and it's a good thing we live so far away as if we were close we would be pestering you daily.
My tip for today...........I have spent my whole life trying to attain the things I didn't have and finally found out how to appreciate the things that I already have. I know you would never make the same mistake I did.
Love from both of us........
Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 5:29 PM CST
From the first telephone calls we shared sorting out the details of Wildlife: The Artist's View I could tell Toni, you and Paco, were an incredible couple. Your unbounding support and his talent were a perfect combination. Meeting you for the first time in 1990 only reinforced my intuition that you were a dynamic force. Hopefully your memories and those shared by your friends will help you through this terrible time.
The Woodson Art Museum is proud to have the artwork of Paco Young in the collection.
Jane Weinke <jweinke@lywam.org>
Wausau, WI USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 1:14 PM CST
Toni and Graham time will help that is all I know. Remember God never gives us more than we can stand. He will test our limits but know you are always close to everyones heart during this time. My heart goes out to both of you but remember Paco would want you to still live life to the fullest.
With much love
Nancy
Nancy Gregory <nancywgregory@aol.com>
Summerville, SC USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 8:36 AM CST
Toni & Graham - Words aren't sufficient, but I just want you to know you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers and I look forward to the time we can all get together for happier times!! I love you both!!!! Kay
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Monday, December 19, 2005 8:15 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
I pray to God to lay his hand upon your heart and to ease your pain and grief. Toni, be kind to yourself, love Graham and know that this will become better with time. However much time it takes, have faith. Paco is gone in body, but never in spirit. Your love is eternal.
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA - Sunday, December 18, 2005 10:17 PM CST
Darling Toni-
Of course you must take the time you need to come to terms with the devestation you are feeling. You have been so strong and faithful keeping us all up to date for so long. Go to ground and experience the pain, spend time with Graham, and do what you need to so that your heart can begin to heal. Your friends will all be here with open arms when you feel able to communicate again. Please know that every one of us would do anything at all to bring you a moment of comfort during this time. You and Graham are well loved.........and Paco will be with all of us always in so many ways.
Judith Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA United States - Sunday, December 18, 2005 8:50 PM CST
We were sitting a few feet from each other; I behind my easel, Paco behind his. With brush in hand and polished wood pipe braced between his teeth, we began to paint. I remember the intensity in his eyes as they flashed up and down, back and forth from me, to the canvas and quickly back again. Although that day was almost thirty years ago, Paco is still there---in my mind, in my heart. That's just the kind of man he was: He left more than an impression.
I still have that painting; the portrait he painted of me. I expect someday my grandchild will live with it---and the artist who painted it. Forever, dear Paco . . .Forever.
James <kingneon@KingneonBooks.com >
Oologah Lake, OK USA - Saturday, December 17, 2005 6:06 PM CST
I think the finality Of Paco leaving us for his journey into "Above and beyond" has finally sunken into this old head but instinctivly I keep refering to the site for more news. Paco's brief stay with us has had its great and abundant rewards , such as creating great art for all of us to view and appreciate forever. Creating a great son such as Graham ( Toni helped a bit here ) and continuing the family name. Taking a hank of hair and a rib and creating Toni to be his mate was quite an accomplishment as we have all seen the result of his work in this endeavor. If a man is to be judged by the memory he leaves behind then Paco has set an example for us all to follow. If each town had a Paco , Toni and Graham......what a great place this would be.
Goodbye Paco for now..........
Ed and Jan Sanders
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Saturday, December 17, 2005 1:58 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham
I'm very sad to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy to you both.
I feel very privileged to have met Paco. He was a wonderful man, and a very inspiring artist. I will always remember him, having spent a long day demonstrating in intense heat, still painting with great energy and enthusiasm in the bar that evening.
Sarah Ledger <ledger_sarah@hotmail.com>
Staplehurst, Kent UK - Saturday, December 17, 2005 4:13 AM CST
Toni & Graham,
There are no words that can express my sorrow for you both with the passing of Paco. He was a great man that possessed such positive energy. I cherish the good times that I had with Paco and will always admire the fact that he lived life to the fullest, each and every day. The man has passed from this earth, but some of Paco’s spirit lives on within all of those that were lucky enough to have known him.
Best Regards,
Paul Drake
Paul Drake <rfpdrake@hotmail.com>
Nokomis, FL USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 3:00 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
You are in our thoughts and hearts, and will continue to be......
With Love
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Friday, December 16, 2005 2:09 PM CST
I was very, very sorry to hear about Paco. Whether someone has known Paco for a brief period of time or for many years, he seemed to always leave everyone with a special "something" that stays with them. He sure did that for me. I hope you and Graham are holding up ok. My thoughts are with you and I trust that you will manage to get through it with the same grace and inspiration that you have demonstrated all along.
Nancy Tome <nancy@tome.net>
Naples, FL - Thursday, December 15, 2005 1:20 PM CST
Toni,
I’m so sorry to hear about Paco...he put up such a courageous and unyielding fight. In keeping up with his progress over the months I’ve been particularly touched by your strength and courage. I know that God has been with you every step of this journey and that He will continue to bless you with His grace.
Free from his physical pain, Paco is in heaven creating beautiful master pieces. He will be with you always....his spirit will be unmistakable.
I will always be thankful for Paco’s influence on my artistic endeavors and know he will be greatly missed. I will keep you and Graham in my prayers.
God Bless,
Gabrielle Matlock
Gabrielle Matlock <soulimag@tstar.net>
- Wednesday, December 14, 2005 10:27 PM CST
Dear Toni,
I'm in shock and so very, very sad for you and Graham. Because of computer glitches, I've not seen an update since Sept...until today. Just as many have said before me, your strength and dedication are incredible and such a tribute to you and your relationship with Paco. I pray that same strength will help you as you grieve. I will be thinking about you and praying for you and Graham. Please tell your parents hello.
Love,
Rena
Rena Byington <RSByington@comcast.net>
Franklin, TN USA - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 10:16 PM CST
For a grouchy guy like myself friends are hard to find and harder to keep. Paco you were one of my best I will never forget you. Toni Graham whatever you need whenever you need it.
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
Limon, Co USA - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 12:58 AM CST
Toni and Graham, I am saddened by your profound loss. My thoughts raced to a little quote which I have done in calligraphy for many people over the years. I thought of your time spent with your wonderful Paco:
How many people in a lifetime are there
For whom we deeply care?
Not so very many.
We don't choose them--
They simple arrive in our love--
And perhaps depart.
Yet they bring with them, however briefly,
All we know of happiness.
My love to you both,
Betty Westmoreland
Betty Westmoreland <bwestmoreland9@msn.com>
Collierville, TN USA - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 0:19 AM CST
Toni and Graham,
I am so sorry to hear of Paco's passing. As a friend it is hard to write what I feel. It is hard to imagine your pain. May God's love enfold you as you go thru this Christmas season. I've heard that God only gives us as much as we can handle to refine us. Life's experiences seem to bear that out. Since he brought you to this point he will bring you thru it.
Graham, I never met you but from what I have read here it sounds like your mom and dad raised you right and I hope you will continue in the Lord's presence and help your mom get thru this.
God bless you both.
Ron Burkert <RonB@ruffedgrousesociety.org>
Coraopolis, PA USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 9:48 AM CST
Toni and Graham:
My heart goes out to you in the loss of Paco. I will tell Hannah tomorrow. You were one of the greatest blessings to us while we were at MD Anderson. We will never forget you! Hannah is well and we hope that the Lord will allow her to live out her days-please keep her in your prayers.
Love you so much.....Teresa Johnson Atlanta, Georgia
Teresa Johnson <TeresaJohnson@century21.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Sunday, December 11, 2005 7:39 PM CST
Dear Toni, We are so sorry to read about Paco's passing. We pray for both you and Graham. You are a wonderful, strong woman who loves life ~ We pray that both you and Graham will live your lives with Paco at your side.
~ Birten, Staci, Travis & Jerrad Todd.
Staci Todd <toddreels@hotmail.com>
Harrison, Mt 59735 - Saturday, December 10, 2005 10:49 PM CST
TONI AND GRAHAM,
We just found out about Paco's passing. We're saddened for your loss. We know the ordeal that you have been through. We've missed seeing ya,ll around the rv park. My sister has been keeping us up to date on the status of Paco; she's on the internet all the time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and Graham. If you are ever back in houston or galveston we would love to see ya.ll. Send us an e-mail whenever you have time.
Anthony and Sandra Bernard (lot#65 South Main RV Park) <pamps02@yahoo.com>
League City (Houston), TX Galveston - Friday, December 9, 2005 7:12 PM CST
Hi Toni & Graham:
I'm so sorry I couldn't make it there today for the memorial this afternoon. I just want to let you know I'm thinking of you guys today and wish I could be there. Sending a big hug and lots of love from ND to you
Jeffrey Hoff <crosswinds@csicable.net>
Jamestown, ND USA - Friday, December 9, 2005 11:43 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham.
Although frustratingly it was impossible to get to Montana for today's memorial our hearts are with you and Paco......
Love to you.
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Friday, December 9, 2005 11:16 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
We are traveling and learned of the celebration of Paco's life this Friday afternoon at Gallatin Gateway. While we are not able to be present we will join you spiritually in remembrance of Paco. May wonderful memories comfort you.
With our love, Kern, Drea, Kellan & Kolter
Kern, Drea, Kellan and Kolter <kemosabe@theglobal.net>
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 10:02 PM CST
Toni...Graham....I do not have the words to express the pain and sorrow I feel for your family. But, also know that I have a lot of joy for knowing each of you. The three of you are in my thoughts and heart.
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
This is the first paragraph of "Invictus" by Willam Ernest Henley. I send it to the two of you, but as I type it I can easily hear Paco speaking these words.
Be well.
Scott Peretz <speretz@verizon.net>
Englewood, Fl - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:16 AM CST
Toni/Graham
I am so sorry to hear about Paco, It has taken me a few days to send you this e-mail and I really didn't think I would. What else can anyone say to help soothe your sorrow. But! While cleaning and decorating the gun club last night we were replacing the prints on the wall with wreaths and came across pacos grouse print that he had written a note on the back of when he was there a couple of years ago. Not many of us really knew Paco personally but the few times he was with our group he made us feel like we were all his very best friends. I'm sure that wherever he is now the same thing is happening. We will all miss him terribly but I'm sure his new (best friends) appreciate him being there. If there is ever anything you guys need, please just let us know.
Bill
By the way, The print is still hanging.
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 8:05 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
Tom and I have just returned home to the sad news. There are no words to say that have not already been said by others but know that we love you and think of you both. You will be in my thoughts and prayers in the coming days and especially during the difficult Holiday Season. I will write to you later, sorry that we are so far away and cannot be at the service. I think of Paco often when I see the wonderful painting that Tom and I both have. We are here for you if you ever get the chance to come to Virginia.
God bless, keep well and safe
Love
Ethel
Ethel Potter <mimivabeach@yahoo.com>
Virginia Beach, VA - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 11:17 PM CST
We know that nothing we can say will ease your sorrow. Just know that you are not alone and that we are all grieving with you. Bill and I send all our love and deepest sympathy to you both. The world has lost an amazing soul---a man who loved his family deeply and a remarkable, unique, courageous, and wonderful human being. He will never be forgotten. Though so far away, please know that we are with you, Zee Zee and Bill
Zee Zee and Bill Mott <zenaida@zenaidamott.com>
Ross, CA USA - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 4:52 PM CST
Paco many in this world that you have left behind will miss your smiles and insight. We may have some lasting solace in the visions you left behind with the brush strokes from your soul that will remain as a testament to your vision for centuries to come.
May you walk with God.
Monty Kelley <emkeli@onewest.net>
Jackson, WY USA - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 10:48 AM CST
My sincere sympathy to you for the passing of Paco. He will be missed by many, and his art will continue to be an inspiration to artists and all who view it for generations to come.
Joe Garcia <info@joegarcia.com>
Julian, CA United States - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 10:11 AM CST
Hello, My deepest sympathy to all in Paco's family. I only met a few of you breifly while dropping my mother off at Beartooth. You all have been an awesome inspiration to her, a very strong woman who has too been battling cancer for many years now. I think that the world is that much more colorful for having had Paco in it,his legacy of the lovely work and the brotherhood he brought to the art world I would only pray continues to grow. Thank you all to the feeling of belonging and the continued support my mother has received from her friends at Beartooth, I hope that somehow you can continue that legacy so that anyone with the talent and perseverance can have the opportunity that my mother was blessed enough to get.
Shannon Marshall <Bellamary@aol.com>
Glen Rock, PA USA - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 9:58 AM CST
The wheels go round and round. Paco's ride was just too good to not pass our way again.
Peace.
Tom Cross <tcross9@comcast.net>
Osprey, FL - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 9:39 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
May the Lord walk you through this and be your Comforter as He alone can. Graham, I don't know if you remember me, but you let me paint you a couple of years ago at Ed Sander's house during the NWR campout. My kids have good memories of skipping rocks with you. You and your Mom are in our thoughts and prayers.
David and Bonnie Slonim
David Slonim <dbslonim@juno.com>
Anderson, IN USA - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 7:26 PM CST
I just read of paco's passing. I am so sorry to hear about it. the world has lost a wonderful artist. my thoughts are with you an graham at this sad time.
carolyn fagnani <Cafagnani@aol.com>
nokesville , va usa - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 4:23 PM CST
Toni… We are incredibly saddened to hear of Paco’s passing. We extend our deepest sympathy to you, Graham, and the family.
Robert and Kimberly Schlenker <schlenker01@msn.com>
Bozeman , MT USA - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 9:02 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham -
You have been so strong through this journey and we all have learned a great deal -- especially how precious our lives are. We heard a song on the way home from work today and we thought of Paco. The name of the song is "I'm Already There," and the lyrics we liked best are...
....I’m already there. Take a look around. I’m the sunshine in your hair. I’m the shadow on the ground. I’m the whisper in the wind. I’m your imaginary friend. And I know I’m in your prayers. I’m the beat in your heart. I’m the moonlight shining down. I’m the whisper in the wind. Can you feel the love that we share, Oh I’m already there.
And I’ll be with you wherever you are, I’m already there.
Paco will always be there – he lives on in our hearts. Please know we are thinking of you your family.
Charity, Bill and Will Perkins <cperkins@fftc.org>
Charlotte , NC - Monday, December 5, 2005 9:58 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
There aren't any words of comfort that anyone can convey to you now, nor will there be 40 years from now. The only peace and comfort that will eventually come is knowing in your heart and soul that you loved this man, and he loved you both in ways that many of us will never know and only dream about. In that, you have been so richly blessed even though there is so much pain in your hearts now, because our Lord took him so much sooner than you or any of us could ever have imagined. Always know that there are those of us who will keep you in our prayers, and with the gift of time, and your faith in God, your sorrow will lessen to a bearable ache. I am so deeply saddened by your loss of Paco. He was truly a remarkable man and artist, and he has left his legacy through you and Graham. Always remember that the life we live on this Earth is nothing but a blink of an eye from what we have to look forward to, until we are once again joined with our loved ones who have passed before us. I'll pray for strength and courage for you both always. Your friend, Julie Cox
Julie Cox <jcox@imt.net>
Bozeman, MT USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 9:29 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Paco's death. There is so much I would like to say but, at this time, I am unable to express my thoughts in words. Know that you both are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kay Williams and Ron Holyfield <lstinwoods@juno.com>
Dayton, TN USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 8:18 PM CST
Dear Toni and Grahm,
Very sorry to hear of Paco's passing. His teaching brought great inspiration to me and my art work. He will always be remembered as a great mentor and artist to me.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
James Johnson <jim@paintedbyjj.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 6:30 PM CST
Dear Toni,
We are so sorry to hear that Paco Passed Away. We only recently heard about his illness. We only hope that you can
weather this crisis and hope that your son will realize what a great father & artist that he was.
Very Fondly, Ken & Gi Fuller
Ken & Gi Fuller <fkenart@aol.com>
Leesburg, FL USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 5:30 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
Words cannot express the deep sorrow that we feel for you at this time. May you both find strength and comfort in the memories that you shared with this extrodinary person who you called husband, friend and dad.
In love and deepest sympathy,
Linda and Arno Rossin-Paessler
Linda Rossin <LRStudio@optonline.net>
Lake Hopatcong,, NJ USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 4:57 PM CST
Toni & Graham:
We were so sorry when we heard about Paco, our prayers and friendship go out to you. May your very treasured memories get you through the days ahead. Remember memories are the one thing that can't be taken away.
J. C., Ginny & Robbin Dye
J. C. & Ginny Dye <jcdyeart@aol.com>
Stanford, Mt. USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 4:16 PM CST
Toni,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Graham. I was privledged to know Paco and I was always touched by his love for you and his son. May God be with you and your family to comfort you through this difficult time.
Scott Riley
Jacksonville, Florida
Scott Riley <sales@stellersgallery.com>
Jacksonville, Fl Duval - Monday, December 5, 2005 2:51 PM CST
Sometimes…
Love gives life
And with life’s sweet breath
Comes a joy so full
The heart can not contain it.
Sometimes…
Life gives love
And with love’s gentle truth
Comes a happiness so full
Death can not extinguish it.
~1992 Lisa Albright Ratnavira~
“Death is not extinguishing the light, it is turning out the lamp because dawn has come…Anon.”
Toni and Graham
Please know we are holding you close in our prayers, Paco was such a fine man, beautiful painter and the love your family radiates will touch all of us for many lifetimes.
Love
Lisa and Gamini Ratnavira
Lisa and Gamini Ratnavira <lisa@tfb.com>
Fallbrook, CA USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 12:02 AM CST
Dear Toni & Graham -- I'm so sorry to hear of Paco's passing. God Bless you both.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Tracy Greene <tracyg@ruffedgrousesociety.org>
Coraopolis, PA USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 8:45 AM CST
Toni,
We just returned home to the news.
You have shown your strength and courage at every step of this journey. You were, as you always were, a perfect best friend to Paco. We will so miss having Paco in this world, but we know the love you and Graham gave him filled him with such peace. I wish I could be there to hug you. We are so sorry, and we love you. Madeleine will be in touch with Graham later today. Take care of yourself Toni.
Love, Sarah and Randy
Sarah ans Randy Woods <sarahwoodsart@yahoo.com>
Westcliffe, CO - Monday, December 5, 2005 8:42 AM CST
Toni and Graham
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God will give you the strength you need, now and always.
Jim and Ruth Morgan <JLMartist@aol.com>
Mendon, UT USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 6:47 PM CST
We are saddened by such a loss to you and the art world. We will have you in our thoughts and prayers.
George and Kay Northup <northupart@aol.com>
Jackson, WY USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 6:29 PM CST
toni & graham - the world has lost a beautiful person. love to you both.
jessi and cole <jessiirvin@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 4, 2005 5:05 PM CST
Toni, I am so sorry to hear about Paco! It will be a difficult time for you and Graham for a long while, and our hearts and prayers go out to you both. However, know that his spirit lives and he will be with you both for as long as you live! Only his body has ceased to function! You and he came together for a reason, and to accomplish some goals, then he left, leaving a wonderful legacy. You still have some goals to accomplish in this life, and then you will eventually join him and be together again! I have learned much since my husband passed over, and our lives here are only the tip of the iceberg. God's plans for us are far greater than we can know at any given time! Love and peace, Kitty
Kitty Whitehouse <kfwhitehouse@msn.com>
Madbury, NH - Sunday, December 4, 2005 3:54 PM CST
Toni & Graham,
We can all follow Paco's motto...Wow What a Ride.
Live life to it's fullest do your best at whatever task no matter how small. Leave this world with no regrets and plenty of friends! Love you Paco and Will miss you Big Time..Thanks for your friendship it was an honor.
Susan Bankey Yoder <susanyoder@kennett.net>
Atglen, PA USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 2:43 PM CST
Paco was and is a reflection of the light surrounding him.
His family , his wife , his son and the artistic community he loved with all his heart.
How could he not be the person we all love.
I see him in his chariot at the gates of heaven.
Ed and Jan Sanders
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 1:36 PM CST
Toni,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this dark, dark hour.
George & Carolita Strickland <gcstrickland@aol.com>
Tucson, AZ US - Sunday, December 4, 2005 10:26 AM CST
We are saddened to the center of our souls. Disbelief.
We send our LOVE to you, Graham, Ray, Charlotte, Randy, Rachael and the rest.
Jeff and Cyndi Adams <jeffadams911@hotmail.com>
palmyra, va - Sunday, December 4, 2005 9:17 AM CST
Toni and Graham - May our heartfelt love and prayers be a balm to your weary souls. In these moments hold each other close and be ever so aware of the gift you have - the blessing of sharing Paco's life. The world is a bit colder today for his passing yet we all are so deeply blessed by having known such an amazing soul. May God ease your suffering and may your love for one another lift your spirits and may you know that heaven is much the richer place for Paco's presence there. Much love to you Toni and Graham.
Shawn Shea <Daneboy72@bresnan.net>
Canon City, CO USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 1:56 AM CST
Dear Toni, You probably don't remember us, but in l988, while living in Connecticut, we purchased one of Paco's paintings of two Canadian Geese (something we dealy treasure), and a Batik of yours when you were showing your paintings at the Danbury Mall. We talked for ages while you framed some of Paco's pictures. These were big purchases for us -- we had just paid the last college tuition bill for the youngest of our five children and, after walking the mall for an hour, decided we had to have those paintings. We went back again in 1989 and 1991 to buy another of you Batiks and three of Paco's bird prints. We have thought and talked about you often, wishing we could have seen you again. We have a son who is going through the same thing Paco went through and we also have a grandson named Graham. You are very much in our prayers and we are so pleased that we had the chance to meet you both.
Lynne and Bob Barber <BobLynne3@aol.com>
Rockledge, FL USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 8:03 PM CST
To Toni and Graham,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened I was to hear of Paco's passing. I guess I had hoped for some sort of miracle and that Paco's resolve would pull him through. He has had a positive impact on my life and that's something that will stay with me forever.
Rodger Scott <rodgerandjo@bigpond.com>
Melbourne, Victoria Australia - Saturday, December 3, 2005 7:17 PM CST
Toni & Graham,
I am so saddened to have heard the news of Paco's death. He is one of those people in my life that I will never forget!
My family and I continue to pray for you. I love you guys.
Pat Pauley <pauley@radiks.net>
Honey Creek, IA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 6:07 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Paco's passing , I can only say that I am very proud to have known him . The few days we got to visit at Beartooth every once in a while made a huge impression on me and I will always remember him as a truly stand up guy, he made it very easy to like him. I am positive he is going on to a place that will suit him just fine. Take good care of yourself and Graham ,I'm sure our paths will cross again sometime .
Terry and Marti
Terry Bridge <bridge6643@shaw.ca>
- Saturday, December 3, 2005 5:32 PM CST
Dear Toni & Graham, We are so sorry to hear of Paco's passing and send you our love, sympathy and prayers. If the value of a person's life may be measured by the amount of love felt by those left behind, then Paco was a very rich man. We will always treasure the memories of conversation and art shows we shared. May God bless you and your families during this difficult time. Love,
Pam & Lee Cable <ravensable@aol.com>
Lake George, CO - Saturday, December 3, 2005 1:36 PM CST
Darling Toni and Graham-
As I sit here in tears at your sad news, I was cheered by a thought from out of the blue. I read years ago that Winston Churchill, who loved to paint, once said that when he gets to heaven, that red would be the dullest color on his pallette - boy, can Paco teach him a thing or two!! :)
Toni, please know that our hearts and spirits are with you, surrounding you both with warmth and love.
Best love,
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA United States - Saturday, December 3, 2005 12:49 AM CST
Toni, my deepest sympathy. Paco truly impacted my life much more than just artistically. In a world full of wannabes, he was the real deal. He'll always be a part of every brushstroke I put down.
Nate
Nate Hager <n_hager@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn Center, MN - Saturday, December 3, 2005 10:55 AM CST
Dearest Toni... I wish there was even one word I could say to ease your pain. You and Graham are in my thoughts and prayers. And we know that Paco is in good and peaceful place. Love, Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Saturday, December 3, 2005 10:15 AM CST
Toni and Graham,
What can I add except that I am sad and so truly sorry.
If Christmas is as wonderful here, in this cold dark painful world, then just imagine how glorious it must be at this very moment in Heaven...full of celebration and joyful jubilation over Christ birth. If Paco had to leave you to go to be with our Lord, he couldn't have picked a more exciting time to be with Jesus. I guess this year, when God sent out invitations, he just knew the party wasn't going to be a real party without Paco. (:
Toni, your beloved isn't suffering anymore and he wouldn't want you or your Graham to either.
His love will linger as long as his beautiful art will and that will be always.
Many are lifting you both up in prayer to see you through this difficult time,
sending angels to administer, strengthen and comfort you...
I'll bet Paco is standing right there, among them.
God bless you and Graham always.
Cindy Adams-Phal <Cynthia_Kathleen@msn.com>
Oak Harbor , Wa USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 4:19 AM CST
Toni and Grahm.....I would like to send this poem to you at this time.It is one that holds a special place in my heart.
SAFELY HOME
I am home in Heaven dear ones;
Oh , so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over.
Every restless tossing past;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Tread the valley of the shade?
Oh! But Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.
And he came himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still:
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust of Father's will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth-
You should rest in Jesus'land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!
Patsy and Dan Marx <PEvans@aol.com>
Belgrade, Mt usa - Saturday, December 3, 2005 0:32 AM CST
Paco was such a good man. He made the world a better place.
Sue Dickinson <sue@suedickinson.co.za>
Nelspruit, -- South Africa - Friday, December 2, 2005 11:35 PM CST
Toni & Graham
My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Paco was an amazing person.When I first met you and Paco, you looked at me as a friend, and not just another student taking a workshop. You both made me feel welcome on your lives, not to mention your generosity and kindness.I will always remember that. I wish I could have spent more time with you both, but I charish the time that I had.
Tom Krause
Tom Krause <Tkrause5@comcast.net>
Nokomis, FL USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:28 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
I was so saddened to hear of PAco's passing. He was an amazing artist ( I truly have never seen anything like it- so real, I at first wondered if some of his work was a picture you took of old faithful etc and just made it big- I am so in awe by what he did. IT seems to me that he packed so much in in a short time- maybe we all could be that good and learn something- to make so much of each day, to make it fulfilling in all ways.
I have thought about you guys all the time, ever since you left us at Anderson and many of the nurses really loved getting to know you guys. I have never forgotten you guys and it is people like you and Paco that make me better, more grounded , less afraid to show emotion- and for that I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I love you guys and I pray that God will wrap you up and surround you with much love and may your warmth be as radiant as you and Paco were to me.
MAy God comfort and keep you,
Love
Vicki Gayle, RN
G11 MD ANDERSON
Vicki Gayle- G11 MD Anderson <vgayle@houston.rr.com>
Richmond, tx - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:28 PM CST
On a card was the phrase:The Soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears.
Paco gave us rainbows. Know in our hearts we love you
Karryl, sculptor <karryl@karryl.com>
North Huntingdon, PA - Friday, December 2, 2005 8:19 PM CST
Dear Toni:
I am on the road and heard the news about Paco today. I was stunned and just incredibly saddened. Sue and I extend our deepest sympathies to you, Graham and all of Paco's family.
Rod Lawrence <lawrence@ispwest.com>
Kalkaska, MI - Friday, December 2, 2005 8:17 PM CST
Toni, My deepest sympathy to you and yours. You and Paco touched my life at the Beartooth School of Art. You are in my prayers.
Psalm 23
Susie Gordon <tristan@raex.com>
Lisbon, OH 44432 - Friday, December 2, 2005 7:59 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
GOD BLESS you both and alway's be with you.
My deepest sympathy to you both,
Dave Prescott.
David L. Prescott <davidlprescottwildlifeart@yahoo.co.uk>
Liverpool, Lancashire England - Friday, December 2, 2005 7:47 PM CST
With our deepest sympathy, Toni and Graham.
George & Joyce Willhoit <gwillhoit@kc.rr.com>
Kansas City, MO - Friday, December 2, 2005 5:16 PM CST
Toni and Graham,
I am so sorry, just so sorry. Tears are flowing.
Diana Roth <dianaroth40@comcast.net>
Tallahasse, FL 32310 - Friday, December 2, 2005 5:00 PM CST
Toni and Graham
We are so sadden by your loss. He will be forever remembered through our thoughts and our prayers.
Art & Bonnie LaMay <BIRDS4U@aol.com>
Palm Coast, FL USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 4:50 PM CST
Paco,
You have given us
special moments and memories…
That will live in our hearts forever…
My deepest sympathy to you, Toni & Graham
and to all whose lives he touched...
Joni <jwitter@millpond.com>
Sarasota, FL - Friday, December 2, 2005 4:02 PM CST
Toni and Graham
With sincere sympathy and all our love...... David and Judy
Judy and David Simpson <david@germantongallery.com>
Germanton, NC - Friday, December 2, 2005 4:01 PM CST
Dear Toni,
Right now in Heaven - Paco has started an art class - can you imagine the plein air pieces that he will produce? I know now that when I look at the sky - I will be seeing a "Paco Young" original. My heart goes out to you and Graham - you are an amazing woman and Graham you are a very special young man. I will miss Paco. Hugs
Linda
Linda Schaner <lschaner@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Friday, December 2, 2005 3:57 PM CST
Toni & Graham:
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news of Paco's passing. I'm lost for words at the moment but please know my thoughts and prayers continue to be you. Paco was such a good friend and he will be deeply missed. Lots of love to from ND.
Jeffrey Hoff <crosswinds@csicable.net>
Jamestown, ND USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 3:54 PM CST
Dear Toni,
Jim and I will remember Paco and your family in our daily prayers. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. His legacy will live on through you, his family and his wonderful art.
Jim and Karen Killen <sportsmansart@ll.net>
Owatonna, MN usa - Friday, December 2, 2005 3:37 PM CST
Our deepest sympathies Toni & Graham. Paco was an inspiration for us all with his courage, love of life and the beautiful legacy he leaves behind in his art. When we gaze our eyes on a beautiful sunset I like to think Paco will have had a hand..er brush in it. May we all experience a love as deep as you have with Paco. Our prayers are with you. Brent & Jennifer Cotton
Brent Cotton <brent@cotton.myrf.net>
Stevensville, MT USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 3:23 PM CST
Toni & Graham,
I am so sorry to hear that Paco is gone. You will be surrounded by his love in a different way now. My love and prayers are with you. He will always be my hero.
Linda Thompson <sbellemr@verizon.net>
Sarasota, FL USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 3:19 PM CST
Dearest Toni and Graham,
Although Paco has taken with him part of your hearts....dont forget he has left part of his forever with you both.
Love, courage and prayers to you.
Julie and Hans
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Friday, December 2, 2005 2:23 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham, I exhibited next to Paco at my first national show, the Southern Maryland show in '92. I was impressed with him and his work immediately and liked and admired him more and more as the weekend progressed.
Last year Paco accepted my invitation to join a wilderness canoe art expedition and I was very much looking forward to having him on the crew; a better painter and wilderness compadre I couldn't ask for. We had a good time imagining the wild northern rivers we were going to run. While this is a loss for us all, I know I can't even start to imagine what it is like for the two of you. You both have my sincerest thoughts and sympathy.
Rob Mullen <rob@robmullen.com>
Forest Falls, CA USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 2:23 PM CST
Toni - I am so sorry to hear about Paco's passing. He is so loved and admired and cherished by so many, myself included. I am thinking of you and Graham and sending my love and prayers. Paco was a very blessed and lucky man to have had the love of his life as a constant supporter, companion, and true partner in life.
Julie Podewitz <julieredcarpet@aol.com>
Venice, FL USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 2:11 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
When ever I was around you, (Toni) and Paco I was always struck by what an incredible sense of deep love and respect you had for each other, so I can only begin to imagine the depth of the pain and loss you must be going through. My heart goes out to you. As to you, Graham, I am sorry I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, as you are a son to be so proud of, you have been a pillar of strength. May you wrap each other in warmth, love and memories through the hardest time of your lives. Paco was a very special man and his memory will live on.
I shall be thinking about you both,
Big hugs and much love,
Lindsey Foggett
Lindsey Foggett <lindsey@lindseyfoggett.com>
Forest Falls, Ca USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 1:52 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I had no idea. Paco embraced me as a friend from the very first time that we met, as did you. I remember the chats that we had, and Pacos many thoughts and ideals about painting, similar to my own. Paco has been an inspiration to me and many others, and to many painters yet to come. I feel very lucky that I was able to have met Paco and know him a little.
Paul Apps <paul@paulapps.com>
Hythe , Kent UK - Friday, December 2, 2005 1:46 PM CST
Dear Toni,
We have never met, and I only knew Paco through his art, though as fellow wildlife artist, I feel a kinship. I had read of his fight with leukemia, but only stumbled on this site today. I'm crying with you. It must be difficult for you to even function today, yet you took the time to post the sad news of Paco's passing. I admire your strength and thoughtfulness. My prayers are with you and Graham.
Ann Self <ann@annself.com>
Hutchinson, KS USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 1:33 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
What can anyone hope for other than to live a fullfilled life and then to be with the ones they love at their passing. Paco has gained immortality because he will live forever in the hearts of those who knew and loved him - as well as through his wonderful art.
Jan Martin McGuire <foxxhollow@aol.com>
Bartlesville, ok - Friday, December 2, 2005 1:27 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
I can't even begin to express my sadness. How amazing for Paco to have passed from your arms into God's. You are loved around the world.
Stacey Peretz <banovich@qwest.net>
Englewood, Fl - Friday, December 2, 2005 1:04 PM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
My deepest sympathy to you both and to all who knew and loved Paco. No matter how short the time spent with him, we each came away with something special--we all felt the warmth of the fire that was Paco's driving force, his spirit and soul. He touched everyone who met him and his inspiration to fledgling and experienced artists alike was incredible. He will live on in all of our hearts and minds. Toni, now is the time for you and Graham to help each other grieve and heal...and it takes time. Do not rush the process. May God grant you peace and sweet memories of a wonderful life together.
P.S. I can't wait to someday see Paco's "new" studio in heaven. Can you even imagine??!!!
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 12:41 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham: I hold my breath each time I click on this link wondering if today will be the dreaded news. Words cannot express my sympathy to the two of you in the loss of an amazing husband, father and painter. You two are strong, wonderful people and may God heap blessings on you. We all share in your grief. Sending you both heartfelt hugs.
Priscilla Westesen from Bozeman MIA <pwest@imt.net>
- Friday, December 2, 2005 12:32 AM CST
Toni and Graham,
We are all deeply saddened to know of Paco's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. You are very brave and know that we are here for you.
With our warmest affections-
All of us here at Hadley House Company <borcd@hadleyco.com>
Shakopee, MN 55379 - Friday, December 2, 2005 12:23 AM CST
Dear Toni & Graham, Please accept our shared sorrow with you over the world's loss and heaven's gain. Know that there are countless artists and friends out there thinking and praying for you both. We'll all cherish the inspiration and legacy that Paco left us.
Wes & Rachelle Siegrist <siegrist@artofwildlife.com>
Townsend, TN USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 11:09 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
I am so sad to hear of Paco's passing, but glad that you were with him. My love and thoughts are with you both. He will live on through his beautiful paintings and all of us who were fortunate to know him and learn from him.
Susan Fox <sfox@foxstudio.biz>
McKinleyville, CA USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 11:00 AM CST
My heart is broken today. What an inspiration Paco has been and will be forever through the paintings he has left with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Victoria Wilson-Schultz <foxrunstudio@aol.com>
Elk River, MN - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:52 AM CST
Dear Toni & Graham, I was saddened to hear the news about Paco. What an extraordinary soul this world has lost. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Melanie Fain <mel@melaniefain.com>
Boerne, TX USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:44 AM CST
Toni & Graham, Paco fought the good fight. He was such an inspiration to me in his art and his courage. My thought and prayers are with you.
Carol Van Delinder <vandymont@aol.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:40 AM CST
Tony and Graham,
There are no words in the human language that can convey the sense of loss and sorrow that we all feel with the passing of Paco.
He was a wonderful husband and soul mate to you, a loving and devoted father to Graham and he possessed more talent than any person I have ever known. The "Art World" has lost a master artist as well as one of it's best teachers and the "Environment" has lost a champion and protector.
Tony, you have experienced the best and the worse that life here has to offer, but you have remained strong throughout this "journey of pain" and it is now time to surround yourself with all those people who love and care about you and Graham.
Take the time that you and Graham so desperately need, grieving is a selfish process. It has to be that way, in that most people never have to experience what you are going through until late in one's life.
The "Process of Grieving", simply put, is shock, awareness, anger, acceptance and recovery...........it is a long journey, but it is a journey that your unbelievable strength, will carry you through over these painful months to come.
Paco has left our world, but he will always remain here, within the hearts and the memories of all of us that had the good fortune to have called him a friend. He might not be coming back to us, but we will hopefully be going back to join him at some distant time in the future.
I will continue to pray that God wraps his arms around you and Graham and walks with you both, as you travel through this very devastating and difficult process.
When Austin passed almost five years ago, a stranger handed me a poem, within a day or two of her death, that I have carried and read countless times since that tragedy. It gave me strength and hope when I was without either and I felt I was not capable of making it another day through the intense pain that lived and existed within my soul.
If my days were untroubled and my heart always light
Would I seek that fair land where there is no night?
If I never grew weary with the weight of my load
Would I search for God’s peace at the end of the road?
If I never knew sickness and never felt pain
Would I reach for a hand to help and sustain?
If I walked without sorrow and lived without loss
Would my soul seek sweet solace at the foot of the cross?
If all I desired was mine day by day
Would I kneel before God and earnestly pray?
If God sent no "Winter" to freeze me with fear
Would I yearn for the warmth of "Spring" every year?
I ask myself this and the answer is plain-
If my life were all pleasure and I never knew pain
I’d seek God less often and need Him much less,
For God’s sought more often in times of distress,
And no one knows God or sees Him as plain
As those who have met Him on the "Pathway of Pain"
This pulled me through some of those darkest months when I felt absolutely empty inside, I hope that it can do the same for you and Graham.
My deepest sympathies to both of you,
Alex
Alex Burkhart <alexburkhart@bellsouth.net>
Knoxville, TN - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:40 AM CST
Toni, The Lord now has a great painter in His studio. Bless you both, Phillip Crowe
Phillip Crowe <phillipcrowe@mindspring.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:30 AM CST
Dear Toni and Graham,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you. I have such wonderful memories of Paco and will always cherish the times spent with you guys.
Kim Neis <kneis@adelphia.net>
South Riding, VA - Friday, December 2, 2005 10:20 AM CST
The SEWE family grieves for the loss of one of its most beloved members, as do all of those whose lives were touched by Paco.
Even in the midst of our mourning, we celebrate the life of a man well loved, and a life well lived. We are so grateful to have known him.
Susan Frampton <srframpton@sewe.com>
Charleston, SC USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:37 AM CST
Words cannot convey how sad we are about Paco. He was such a talented, wonderful Angel. Heaven will be even more beautiful with him there. Our love and prayers go out to you and Graham.
Ruthie, Dave, Clint and Andrea Sampson <dracsampson@aol.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:35 AM CST
MY NAME IS KIM SKAGGS, AUSTIN BURKHART'S MOM AND I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW SAD WHITNEY AND I WERE WHEN WE HEARD THE NEWS. I STILL HAVE THE PICTURE PACO DID FOR AUSTIN, SHE LOVED HIM, AND NOW SHE HAS A PLAYMATE IN HEAVEN. WORDS WILL NOT COMFORT YOU NOW, BUT MY HOPE IS THAT YOU WILL JUST MAKE IT TODAY. BECAUSE THATS THE ONLY WAY I'M ABLE TO DEAL W/AUSTIN'S AUTOMOBILE ACCIDENT,ONE DAY AT A TIME. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO PLEASE LET ME KNOW. WITH LOVE-KIM & WHITNEY
Kim Skaggs <kskaggs13@hotmail.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:01 AM CST
THERE IS NOT MUCH ONE CAN SAY AT THIS TIME. WE ARE BOTH SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND THE GREAT LOSS TO ALL OF US. YOU HAVE BEEN A ROCK THROUGH THE ENTIRE ORDEAL...AND NOW YOU HAVE TO STAY STRONG TO CARRY ON AS PACO WOULD WANT YOU TO.
GOODBYE MY FRIEND.
JEFF & DORRIE
JEFF ORNSTEIN <jefforns@bellsouth.net>
Palm Beach Gardens, Fl USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:00 AM CST
Dear Paco you will be missed by everyone you ever met, but especially from your art family from the years at MPP and Hadley. You were a joy to know and I will forever remember your smile that reflected in your eyes above that wonderful mustach.
Arleta Pech <Arleta@arletapech.com>
Arvada, Co USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 8:54 AM CST
Hello, I am colleague of Robin in NC. I am extremely sorry to hear the sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless you all strength and peace.
Arvind Kappula <arvindkappula@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 8:27 AM CST
Hello, I am a friend of Robin's in NC. I want to express my sympathy to your family. I lost my father to cancer at a young age (12), my heart goes out to your family. When my father died my aunt told me a story of what she believes happen when people go to heaven. The story goes that the person builds a home on a fluffy cloud, the home has gardens,running streams and is beautiful. The person sits in or out of the home and watches over all their loved ones. The house being on a cloud floats so they are always there seeing what we do and protecting us. Hearing my aunts story gave me great comfort many years ago and is a thought that I keep deep in my heart.
My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your family.
Annette Haas <annette@haas.net>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 7:03 AM CST
We are very sorry to hear the sad news.
Craig and Jill Magill
Craig Magill <cmagill@craigmagill.com>
- Friday, December 2, 2005 6:19 AM CST
Dearest Toni and Graham,
Bob and I cannot even begin to tell you how much our hearts hurt at your loss. Please know that you will be continually in our thoughts and prayers and Paco will be in our hearts forever. We love you both so very much.
Darcy and Bob
Darcy Elizabeth Cocozza <dcoco28@yahoo.com>
Sarasota, FL United States - Friday, December 2, 2005 4:41 AM CST
Toni Paco Graham, One of your most amazing gifts is the gift to connect people and make them happy. Even in these hours Paco you continue to influence. I regail my students daily of your humor, talent and passion. They ask about your condition every day. You see even though you have not met you influence through your spirit generosity and heart. A big thanks from me, Rowen, Jaxson and all 154 students that I teach per day.
Love always JR Monks
JR Monks <longbranchstudio@earthlink.net>
LIMON, CO USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 9:20 PM CST
Dear Toni, Paco and Graham,
I received your thank you card in the mail yesterday and took a moment to appreciate Paco's lovely painting of the sparrows on the front cover. Paco, I still remember the demo that you did at the Terry Issac Workshop. I have always loved your style; I only wish I could have spent more time watching you paint.
Toni, I read the beautiful note inside and was touched not only by the open courage of your words but that you used some of your precious time to thank us all. Words fail us at times like this, but know that you are all in my heart and prayers. Via Con Dios.
Melissa Bartlett <mabartlett@mindspring.com>
Los Alamos, NM USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 9:01 PM CST
Dear Toni, Paco and Graham,
I know that you are on a very rough road, but God will watch over you and give you comfort even in the worst of times. His strength will be your strength. I know it is hard to believe right now, but this year has been a wonderful gift...you have had time to share with Paco--quality, meaningful, loving time--that so many people will never experience in their entire life. And you have given such a great gift to all of us who wait with held breath and many prayers for your next update. You have shown us the true face of love and Paco has touched each and every one of us with his ability to capture on canvas the world in all its glory. We have learned many things but mostly to appreciate every moment of every day and to revel in our loved ones and the beauty that surrounds us. May you find peace, strength, comfort and solace in your time of need.
Sandra Blair <sblairart@verizon.net>
Harrisburg, PA USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 2:59 PM CST
Toni-
This last year has been a long and painful one, and your increadable strength has carried you this far. I pray for your friends, family, for Graham, and for you Toni, in what will be the most difficult part of this journey; may the love surrounding you carry you from this point forward. Find comfort knowing Paco's life has found a place to rest - in the hearts of so many.
All my love,
Debbie Barnett <homedlb@aol.com>
Bozeman, MT USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 2:29 PM CST
Dear Toni, Paco, and Graham-
Thanks again for your Wednesday note, Toni - we wait every week along with your many, many friends - it is such a generous thing for you to do in this difficult time, and we so appreciate being kept up to date.
Our hearts are with you all......
Best love,
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA United States - Thursday, December 1, 2005 1:49 PM CST
Toni,
Our love and prayers are with you, Paco, and Graham. We are so sorry for the walk you are facing, but know this the Lord is closest when we are weak. He is there with you all.
Please tell Jackie and Boo hello for us. We are praying for your extended family also.
Agnes Boudoin
Tomball, Tx USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 1:09 PM CST
Hi Paco, Toni and Graham..Hope that you all had a great Thanksgiving. We are praying daily that God will heal Paco. I am Hannah Johnson's Grandfather and for eight years
saw the pain and agony of her suffering with Leukemia. As you know, Hannah's second transplant was the day before Paco's and Thank God she is well. We love you and will continue to Pray for healing for Paco and blessings for you and the family. I know that God answers Prayer. Love Jim Cunningham
Jim Cunningham <jimdorisc@yahoo.com>
Dawsonville, GA USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 11:49 AM CST
Hey All
Just came back in from a rainey, cold, miserable hunt for the elusive Pa whitetail, at least it was until I read
Toni's update. I got to hunt with my son yesterday and today and didn't appreciate just being able to do something that simple. You guys have changed so much about the way I look at each day now. Hang tough, there is definatly a special place and time when you all will be together, safe and well again.
Bill
bill klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, November 29, 2005 12:18 AM CST
We are at such a loss for words but feel so compelled to say something. Mike has been forever touched by the time he spent with you at Paco's workshop at Old Faithful. Paco's passion for art and both of your passions' for life affected him deeply and will inspire him for the rest of his life. Your love for each other will inspire us as well.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God give you all strength and peace.
Love and hugs,
Cathy and Mike Wise
Cathy & Mike Wise <cathy.wise@cingular.com>
Snohomish, WA - Monday, November 28, 2005 1:46 PM CST
Dear Paco, Toni & Graham -- Just want to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers -- I think of you all daily. Toni-thank you so much for the continuous updates. The Strength, Love and Courage you all have shown is amazing. You are a beautiful family and have touched so many people. I was so happy to read that Graham and Paco got to go hunting together. Hey--nice picture with BB King Graham! Wishing you a Blessed Holiday Season together.
Tracy Greene <tracyg@ruffedgrousesociety.org>
Coraopolis, PA USA - Monday, November 28, 2005 11:04 AM CST
Happy happy Thanksgiving - I'm sure you felt all the love and prayers of thanks we've ALL been sending your way...Thankful we all -each in our own way have been able to cross paths in this life with folks as wonderful as you three are. We hold you dear in our hearts and thoughts and prayers. Thanks to you Toni for keeping us all current with the updates. May you all know peace and grace and undying love and gratitude. Much love-
Shawn.
Shawn Shea <Daneboy72@bresnan.net>
Canon City, CO USA - Sunday, November 27, 2005 2:41 PM CST
I'm sure your situation has made many people count their own blessings this holiday and not take time and people for granted. And I'm sure you're not taking anything for granted and cherishing every minute. Thank you for sharing your time with us. Love, Ellen
Ellen Collard <ellen@millpond.com>
Venice, FL - Sunday, November 27, 2005 12:36 AM CST
Happy looooog-weekend-after-turkey day!I'm going out painting this morning and will be using that time to thank God for Paco and that Beartooth workshop where I watched him paint the mountain and the little creek behind the cabins. He gives me daily inspiration to keep at it.Toni, hugs to both of you.
Linda Thompson <sbellemr@verizon.net>
Sarasota, FL USA - Saturday, November 26, 2005 6:02 AM CST
Dear Toni,
Many of us remain silent, but read your journal faithfully as we continue to send out prayers daily asking for a miracle. With each journal entry you confirm that three hearts have surely become one. To take the time out of these precious days to keep us informed is unbelievable. I dont know where or how you find the strength to do this, but I know that we appreicate and admire you for it. Thank you Toni for sharing your gift of love with the rest of the world.
Hey Paco,
You married one hell of a woman there! She definately is a keeper!
With lots of love, Linda Rossin
Linda Rossin <LRStudio@optonline.net>
Lake Hopatcong,, NJ USA - Saturday, November 26, 2005 0:23 AM CST
What a thrill it must have been to go to the B.B.King concert and get the opportunity to go backstage afterward. That is a precious photo of Graham with B.B. Glad Paco had the opportunity to go hunting with Graham for the first time. I still remember my first hunt with my dad and that's been over 50 years ago. That will be a great memory for him.Thanks for the updates and know we're all pulling for you.
Ponderosa Art Gallery-Wally & Judy Grewe <wbgrewe@aol.com>
Hamilton, MT - Friday, November 25, 2005 11:29 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving to you all. Paco was definitely on people's minds at the San Bernadino County Museum Wildlife Art Festival this past weekend. Thanks to your journal, Toni, I could pass on accurate information to folks who care about you and Paco very, very much. If you feel an extra little vib, it's from people like Joe Garcia, Adele Earnshaw and Lee Kromschroeder. Wishing you love and peace,
Susan
Susan Fox <sfox@foxstudio.biz>
Mc Kinleyville, CA USA - Friday, November 25, 2005 10:50 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving Paco, Toni, Graham and to all your friends as well. Toni & Graham - especially for your courage and strength, which is an inspiration to us all, We give thanks.
Lindsay & Frau Hough <herrhough@yahoo.co.uk>
Windsor, Berkshire United Kingdom - Friday, November 25, 2005 8:14 AM CST
Just a note to let you know when I counted my blessings today, I counted you three first! I'm very thankful to have you as friends and pray for all three of you daily. Keep making memories and please accept this big HUG from me! Love ya all!
Kay Dighans <kdighans@littleappletech.com>
Belgrade, MT USA - Thursday, November 24, 2005 11:49 PM CST
I'm thankful to know the 3 of you, and so sorry you are going through this. You're in my prayers! Ainsley
Ainsley McNeely <amartist@hotmail.com>
Mobile, Al USA - Thursday, November 24, 2005 10:27 PM CST
Paco............Have been hand feeding a wild turkey for the past year getting ready for Thanksgiving and when I went out to catch the critter he gave Jan and I the slip for at least 2 hours so we figure he must have a calander of his own. Anyway , we gave up and ordered a pizza. I guess he figured he was out of danger as Jan and I were laying back "Burping" when he appeared in the window motioning toward the bird feeder that he was running low on seed. Must think he's safe till Xmas is our guess.
You and Graham and Toni have a great day and make sure there are no hugs left when today is over.
Love from Ed and Jan
Ed Sanders <esanders33@centurytel.net>
Kalispell, Mt USA - Thursday, November 24, 2005 3:48 PM CST
Paco, Toni & Graham:
Another Thanksgiving holiday is upon us, and we are reminded of the importance of our family and friends like you. A gift for which we are truly thankful.
We hope your Thanksgiving holiday is full of peace, joy and laughter.
Wishing you the very best !!
Kern,Drea, Kellan and Kolter
Kern, Drea, Kellan & Kolter Stevenson <kemosabe@theglobal.net>
Manhattan, MT - Thursday, November 24, 2005 2:24 PM CST
Hope your day brings smiles and laughter and that Paco can down some excellent cookings of Toni. Hang in there guys and keep taking it day by day! Happy Thanksgiving!
Kyle Sims <sims_fineart@yahoo.com>
Laurel, MT - Thursday, November 24, 2005 9:50 AM CST
Just want to wish the three of you a Happy Thanksgiving!!!!
Mickey
Mickey Hutchko <chutchko@nalco.com>
Sewickley, Pa - Thursday, November 24, 2005 9:03 AM CST
Happy Day to you Toni, Paco and Graham. I will be saying a special prayer of thanks tomorrow to Him for allowing me to stumble into your life a few years back in Charleston. What a great two trips I was able to make to Montana and see a different side of it. The artist side of it. And I don't think a better person/couple could have shown me any better. Especially considering my view up until then was through that of a hunter. Up at 4am back by 8am. And all over again the next day hoping to see something or get something. Wow! So much more to Montana than that! THANK YOU!THANK YOU! THANK YOU! I love you dearly and will keep praying for each of you. Hugs and Kisses.
Pam LaHay-Orr <pamlahay@aol.com>
Clinton, SC - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 9:36 PM CST
Paco, Toni & Graham:
Just writing to wish you guys a Happy Thanksgiving. Continuing to keep you in our thoughts and prayers everyday
Jeffrey Hoff <crosswinds@csicable.net>
Jamestown, ND USA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 6:51 PM CST
Dear Paco, Toni and Graham-
We want to send you our sincere gratitude on this Thanksgiving Day - you have made literally thousands of people more aware, more loving, more thankful for what we all hold dear. At our table tomorrow we will be most thankful for having you in our lives as an example of what strength, love and courage truly is.
Best love to each of you,
Rocky and Judy
Rocky and Judy Hafdahl <jcubed3@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 6:31 PM CST
Warmest thoughts for a most special Thanksgiving to the Young family. You have reminded us over and over this past year of what it means to be grateful and thankful of the loved ones in our lives...
Al & Mary Agnew <mail@alagnew.com>
Ste Genevieve, m - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 4:53 PM CST
Hello Paco, Toni and Graham,
I want to wish you all a very Happy Thanksgiving, and a belated happy Birthday to Graham-hope that you had a great one! You are all still in my daily prayers.
Lori Lemanski <ah0357@wayne.edu>
Hamtramck, MI USA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 10:36 AM CST
Toni Paco and Graham,
Wishing you a special happy Thanksgiving, and also to all the good people visiting this site.....
Love Julie and Hans.
Julie Askew <julieaskewart@yahoo.co.uk>
Copenhagen, Denmark - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 8:04 AM CST
Hey everyone
Happy belated birhtday Graham. I'm sure it was a very special one this year.
Was looking in the mirror this morning and have solved the puzzle of where Pacos lost weight has gone. 327 lynn st, Roscoe, PA. I could probably double him up if we could figure a way to send him one of my extra chins or luv handles.
Am sure he is gonna gain back a few pounds tomorrow.
Am cooking the yardbird (if it ever thaws in time) myself this year and I'm not sure who is gonna eat most of this monster. Thought I could treat it like a big chicken but I don't think thats gonna work, should've got up all those thanksgiving mornings and paid attention to how things were done. Thank goodness for Mom and the food channel.
Don't forget, this is the most magical time of the year to be with your family, enjoy every minute of it and hope for one of the seasons miracles to come your way.
Thinking of you all every day.
Bill
Bill Klein <billklein_rgs@yahoo.com>
Roscoe, Pa USA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Hi Guys,
Just wanted to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. I know what my wishbone wish will be this year. Love ya
Linda
Linda Schaner <lschaner@millpond.com>
Venice, FL 34293 - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 7:27 AM CST
Hi Paco, Toni & Graham,
May you have a blessed Thanksgiving. If anything can whet the appetite it is the smell of Turkey cooking in the oven. You are an inspiration to us all and our thoughts and prayers are with you. I saw Paco's "Light Dance" at the Leigh Yawkey. It is a wonderful little painting catching a moment of light and beauty as seen through Paco's eyes. Paco, you are a true master.
Sally Berner & Bob <K9Art@new.rr.com>
Green Bay, WI USA - Tuesday, November 22, 2005 11:47 PM CST
Hi Paco, Toni, and Graham
Happy Birthday Graham!!
Just wanted you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We gaze out our window towards your home and think of you all! Thank you for providing this site to keep us updated.
Nancy & Brian Francis <nancy_nic@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, November 22, 2005 5:23 PM CST
Dear Paco, Toni and Graham,
I wanted to wish you a very happy and healthy Thanksgiving. I often check in to see how you are all doing, and I am always touched and inspired by your strength and positive nature. My hopes and prayers are with you. I wanted to let you know that I gave "Light Dance" to one of my son's teachers as a gift. She was moved to tears by it's beauty.
Warm regards,
Jennifer DiRubbio
Jennifer DiRubbio <jenniferdirubbio@hotmail.com>
Merrick, NY USA - Tuesday, November 22, 2005 1:26 PM CST
Hi, Paco,Toni and Graham. Donnie and I want you to know how much your friendship means and we think of you often. You are an inspiration and a true artist in every sense of the word. Your art says it all. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
The Hughes Twins (Ronnie & Donnie) <HughesTwins@nuvox.net>
Anderson, SC USA - Monday, November 21, 2005 6:28 PM CST
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