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... These things describe you perfectly! So, may yourself be in peace

You believe in rainbows.

I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I STILL THINK OF MAX OFTEN AND THAT "I LOVE YOU" SIGN. LOVE,
Tracy and Katia

Sending lots of prayers your way. +++++++++++++++++++++++++
Love LaKota and her mom,Debbie
God be with you!!!!!!!!!!
~*~ LaKota~*~

Stopping by to let you to know that we are thinking you, and sending lots of prayers your way.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Love LaKota , Debbie & Steve
God be with you!!!!!!!!

~*~ LaKota~*~
DOG (DEPEND ON GOD)

Hi everyone!

Just stopping by to let you know that every single one of you is ALWAYS on my mind. I hope all is going well for all of you.

Sending lots and lots of BIG hugs and MUCH love your way!!!

Samantha Therese

Stopping by let you know that you are in our prayer's and thought's.
God be with you my friend's.
Love LaKota and her mom, Debbie
~*~LaKota~*~

Happy St. Patricks Day!
CLICK HERE TO VISIT MY WEBPAGE
Love, Eileen

Hello,
Stopping by to let you know that you are in
prayer's and thought's.
God be with you.
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~

Just want you to know that we are thinking and praying for you.
God be with you on your journey.
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie

~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, MN - Monday, January 19, 2004 2:54 PM CST

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Greetings from very COLD country!! Doggone it's been cold! The kids start Jr. Nordic skiing tomorrow night and we are hoping for warmer weather or we'll have some very upset children. 20 BELOW ZERO! What's up with that?! =(

I've said before if we were closer I'd give you a hug. It sounds like you need my computer geek of a husband to live closer and give you some 'puter help?! Hope you are all fixed up soon.

We love you and think of you often!
((((((HUGS))))))
Kim, Steve, Austin, Morgan <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Monday, January 19, 2004 1:41 PM CST

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Just coming by to check on you. I wish I was close enough to bring you a hot meal & some chocolate. We're thinking and praying for you all.
Laurie Randel, Morgan's mommy (www.caringbridge.org/tx/morgan) <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Monday, January 19, 2004 11:57 AM CST

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Hello(incoming transmission) this is Genral Pancake head saying that Baliey is needed in the army for dancing since no one does nothing but eat pancakes here so get your little tush dowwn here and start dancin for us cindrella P.s. must read or house will be detonated with blueberry pancakes goodbye! (end stuipidest transmission in the world)
Genral Pancake head a.k.a poopiehead <genralp@poopieheadpancakeblueyberries.com>
Pancakeville, pancakeota Pancakeed plates of strawberryieas - Monday, January 19, 2004 10:51 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Samantha,Parker and Bailey,
Our family continues to think of you. Each day a loving reminder of Max and your courage is presented. May love,
comfort and strength surround you more and more.

Margaret Lyons
Margaret Lyons <lyons808@byelectric.com>
Yankton, SD USA - Monday, January 19, 2004 8:28 AM CST

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Please know that you are strongly in our thought's and prayer's.
God be with you.
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, MN - Sunday, January 18, 2004 8:46 PM CST

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Paul and Trish,

As I sat at my dad's bedside last night in ICU, wondering if he was even going to make it through the night, I thought of the two of you and how much you've had to endure for so long. Thinking of you guys and how strong and brave you've been gives me strength to deal with my dad's illness. I can't imagine what it's been like for you...the fear, the hope, the joy at the ups and the grief at the downs. We've gotten a reprieve with Dad for now, out of ICU and back on a regular floor. I'm relieved, but at the same time, a part of me feels that it should have been Max who got better, as my dad has lived such a long life. It's just not fair. Please know that we love you, and that having you in our lives gives us the strength and inspiration to keep going. You are true role models for me, and I wanted to thank you for that.

You're in our thoughts and in our hearts.

Jennifer
Jennifer Adam <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Sunday, January 18, 2004 5:17 PM CST

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Hello!
Just letting you know that we are thinking about you.
You are in our prayer's.
God be with you.
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, MN - Sunday, January 18, 2004 3:56 PM CST

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Hi guys,
Just a quick hey to let you know you are on our minds! Continued courage and faith... Love ya, Warren, Missy, Kasey, and Travis
Hermans <wmherman@btinet.net>
Beulah, ND - Sunday, January 18, 2004 10:06 AM CST

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Dear Trish, Paul, Samantha, Parker and Bailey
with prayers and love for you,


Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com.>
Crystal, MN - Sunday, January 18, 2004 7:42 AM CST

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Just letting you know that we are thinking about you.
You are in our prayers and thought's.
God be with you.
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, MN - Saturday, January 17, 2004 11:50 PM CST

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Sending thoughts and love and prayers to you all-


Nikki & Jason <ander635@umn.edu>
Apple Valley, MN - Saturday, January 17, 2004 11:29 PM CST

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Hi from Christie's Aunt Jana-----
I really admire how you express yourself. I can so relate to the line about life happening without your permission.
We have had huge trials over the past 4 years---such as my
then 3 year old girl having reconstructive surgery to correct a urinary reflux, then my husband was hospitalized 9 times /6 required surgery. I have really been inspired by your incredible strength and the guts to be open and so real about your struggles. I just wanted you to know that I
continue to check in on you and appreciate your taking the time to write. I always seem more tuned in to my kids after I have read your thoughts/ideas. They are getting more hugs!!
Lots of love, Jana

Jana Allfree <kjid86@msn.com>
Mesa, AZ - Saturday, January 17, 2004 9:38 PM CST

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Hi Adams Family, You are always in our thoughts and prayers. I know it has to be so very hard to try to go on with your life withour Max. But just remember that Max would want you to do that. He is always with you in spirit and in your heart. You have went through so very much for so very long and it will be very hard to get back to the way things should be but the rest of your family needs you to do this to help them to also be able to move on. We love you and send a big HUG. You have reached so many lives with your webpage and maybe brought others to know the Lord. God Bless and keep you all in His care. Love, Darlene & Loren
Loren & Darlene Bauman <dlbauman@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, ND USA - Friday, January 16, 2004 12:02 AM CST

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Dear The Adams Family,
They say time heals all wounds, unfortanatly, that rule does not apply here. Everytime I see a spiderman I can't help but to think of Max...then the tears come...then I look up into the sky and pray for strength for your family.

were thinking of you,
Greg and Jenny Kappes <kappes@lakedalelink.net>
South Haven, mn - Friday, January 16, 2004 12:00 AM CST

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Sending you lots & lots of hugs and caring thoughts from YHS staff, where I'm teaching today. Hope your hard drive gets back to working soon. Much love,
Nana <ddgrosz@iw.net>
- Friday, January 16, 2004 10:52 AM CST

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your family's journey with us. I wish I could put a bandaid on your hearts.
Teresa Lamo-Nelson <late0203@stcloudstate.edu>
Roseville, MN - Friday, January 16, 2004 10:17 AM CST

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Thinking about you, praying for you, sending cyberhugs and support. Know you are on our minds and in our hearts... Love Warren, Missy, Kasey, and Travis
Hermans <wmherman@btinet.net>
Beulah, ND - Friday, January 16, 2004 8:40 AM CST

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Thinking of you always.
Sara
Visit Sams Page
sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Friday, January 16, 2004 8:17 AM CST

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Just wanted to stop by and say hello. Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Friday, January 16, 2004 7:48 AM CST

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I do a lot of reading and there are so many wise sayings and if I may I will share another one.
THEY SAY LIFE IS NOT MEASURED BY THE NUMBER OF BREATHS WE TAKE BUT BY THE MOMENTS THAT TAKE OUR BREATH AWAY. Max certainly did that for you. God help you these days. Luv. Arlene and Dean
Dean and Arlene Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden valley, N.D. USA - Thursday, January 15, 2004 11:18 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family..Just a note to let you know that we are heading for Ariz for 6 weeks so won't be in touch. We will be in touch by prayers and caring thoughts though. We had a nice soup supper for Grandpa Dick's birthday last night and will keep in close touch with them. Our Love.....Don and Peggy
Peggy Schiedel <dpschiedel@iw.net>
Yankton, S.D. USA - Thursday, January 15, 2004 7:30 PM CST

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I'm a friend of the Browns. I'm very sorry for your lose and know alittle bite about it. Time does heal most of the pain but not all. I will keep you in my thought and hope that pease will come to you and your family soon.
Missi Namen <missi@snowballs.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Thursday, January 15, 2004 7:19 PM CST

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Hi to all
Happy Very Late Birhtday to SAM. Also, GREAT flying spiderman. My computer has been in the shop getting de bugged for the last 6 days. Everyone is always in our prayers today and everyday forward. Read that Christie had a birthday the same day that Sam did she doesn't know who we are but heard and saw her on the news a while ago also read on MAX's website that she was very ill prayers to her and her family. Has anyone heard how Christie is doing?? Max we love you toght guy.
Patti from Kids Time <mistyfloat@juno.com>
- Thursday, January 15, 2004 2:44 PM CST

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Hi to all
Happy Very Late Birhtday to SAM. Also, GREAT flying spiderman. My computer has been in the shop getting de bugged for the last 6 days. Everyone is always in our prayers today and everyday forward. Read that Christie had a birthday the same day that Sam did she doesn't know who we are but heard and saw her on the news a while ago also read on MAX's website that she was very ill prayers to her and her family. Has anyone heard how Christie is doing?? Max we love you toght guy.
Patti from Kids Time <mistyfloat@juno.com�>
- Thursday, January 15, 2004 2:44 PM CST

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We are praying for you.
God be with you and your family.

~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~


http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, MN - Thursday, January 15, 2004 11:20 AM CST

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I heard about your story through the Jacobs. So very very sorry to hear about your loss but hope you find comfort daily in knowing Max is painfree and at complete peace. Just thinking of you and praying for you daily.
Mary Ruegge <ruegge5@qwest.net>
Gilbert, AZ USA - Thursday, January 15, 2004 8:07 AM CST

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Keeping of all of you in my daily thoughts and prayers.

Much love,
Sue Ski
Sue Szulczewski <ski10458@msn.com>
Plymouth, MN U.S.A - Thursday, January 15, 2004 6:15 AM CST

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Happy late birthday Samantha! Hope you had a great day, you deserve happiness.
Hi Trish, Paul, & Bailey,
We think of you guys often, hope every thing is going well.

Lori & the wolfpack <wolfpack@myclearwave.net>
Madison Lake, MN - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 7:28 PM CST

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As always, we have you all in our thoughts and prayers.

I can tell the sunset is beautiful tonight (it's behind our building), because the reflection off of the mountains in front of me is spectacular. This makes me think of Max's rainbow...are you able to find some rainbows in your day? I hope so.

We love you!
Kim, Steve, Austin, and Morgan <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 7:01 PM CST

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Just want you to know that we are thinking and praying for you.
God be with you and your family.
Love, LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~


http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 4:44 PM CST

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You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please call or email if you need someone to talk to I am always here for you day or night. Deanna
Deanna Hanson <hansvik12@yahoo.com>
Int'l Falls , Mn Kooch - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 9:51 AM CST

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You are in our thoughts and prayers....
Love,
Kristin Ryan <krishildy@yahoo.com>
Roseville, MN - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 9:20 AM CST

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I keep checking in on you Trish, Paul & family. God be near you & may you feel all the love being sent your way from friends & family. We are leaving on a trip for a couple wks. So unless I get to a PC somewhere I'll check when I get back, but I will continue to hold you up in prayer. Judy Dearduff
Judy Strom Dearduff <hdearduff@siouxvalley.net>
Dell Rapids, SD USA - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 0:02 AM CST

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I saw a star so bright last nite and named it Max. I'd like to think that the stars are our loved ones shining down on us. Continue to pray and we will gently send loving arms to hold you. God be merciful to Max's family and friends. Luv. Arlene
Dean and Arlene Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden valley, N.D. USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 5:12 PM CST

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I just wanted you to know that your family has been in my thoughts and prayers for many months. My daughter is friends with Christie Blackwood and we have been following your journey through her. We know that you have been through a tough ordeal, and no words can minimize your grief. We do know that in time, all of the wonderful memories you have of Max will fill you with tremendous joy. Please know that his brave fight inspired us in a way that you will never know. With warm regards,
Judy Berkowitz
Judy Berkowitz <jakosberk@aol.com>
Edina, MN USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 2:29 PM CST

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You are in are prayer's and thought's.
God be with you!!!!!
Love, LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~


http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 11:47 AM CST

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Adams Family-
One day at a time...We are still here thinking about you and praying that you are feeling some comfort and peace in each day and taking the time you need to grieve in ways that are meaningful and helpful to you. We are checking on you daily. Thanks for the updates. Happy belated birthday Samantha. Kasey will be 17 on Monday. You girls are growing up way to fast! TPSPB-Take care of each other and much love from Warren, Missy, Kasey, and Travis
Herman's <wmherman@btinet.net>
Beulah, ND - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 10:18 AM CST

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May today's sunshine brighten your day. Thinking of you with love and care.
Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 8:49 AM CST

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Just letting you know I came by to see how you all are.
Thinking of you always
Sara
Visit Sams Page
sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 7:35 AM CST

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Prayers continue to flow from Kansas for all of you ! Love , hugs and lots of prayers. Ryan's Gump and Grammie
kathijacobs@kc.rr.com <kathijacobs@kc.rr.com>
Overland Park, KS - Monday, January 12, 2004 10:34 PM CST

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Julie <glaserjk@hotmail.com>
Plymouth, MN - Monday, January 12, 2004 7:36 PM CST

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Missing you and thinking of each of you, we've had so many beautiful cards & memorials plus many phone calls. ((BIG HUG))& all our love.
Nana and Papa <ddgrosz@iw.net>
- Monday, January 12, 2004 5:06 PM CST

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Thinking about you all...

Love,
Nikki & Jason <ander635@umn.edu>
- Monday, January 12, 2004 4:42 PM CST

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thinking of you all today, and every day.
Carol G <carolg@fisherind.com>
Dickinson, ND - Monday, January 12, 2004 1:18 PM CST

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You are in our thought's and prayers.
God be with you.
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ LAKOTA'S PAGE ~*~


http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Monday, January 12, 2004 9:08 AM CST

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Thinking of you all.
Laurie Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Monday, January 12, 2004 8:48 AM CST

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It was comforting to click into Max's caringbridge site and find a new update. Sadness is heavy. It is also invisible at times. When you are out and about and the people on the street, at the grocery store, at the gas pump, etc., have no idea how your heart is breaking, remember there are many who do know and their prayers continue. Over 110,000 responses to this website. Max touches us today and always. Charlie
Charlie Zylstra <rrzylstra@msn.com>
Yankton, SD 57078 - Monday, January 12, 2004 6:37 AM CST

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Our hearts and prayers go out to you all! Trish I seen you and Max at Jakes appt. in December, I found out shortly after about his current struggles. Please know our thoughts are with you and your family and i'm here if you need anything, if it only be an extra shoulder. Hugs.
beth kalsbeck, Jakes mom,www.caringbridge.org/wi/bionicjakester <bionicjakester@yahoo.com>
Menomonie, wi us - Sunday, January 11, 2004 11:36 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family.......Thoughts, prayers and hugs are with you as you share your sorrowful journey with us.
Peggy Schiedel <dpschiedel@iw.net>
Yankton, s.d. usa - Sunday, January 11, 2004 10:10 PM CST

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Adams Family,

I just wanted you all to know that ALL of you are ALWAYS in my prayers!
(((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))
Brooke Sickler <sickler_753@hotmail.com>
Dickinson, ND USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 8:28 PM CST

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trish and family- i just found out today. i was at the tree of hope ceremony and when max's name came up as "in memory of" i lost it. i don't know what i can say or do to make you fell better. i guess nothing can really help. i am grateful to have known you and max, i hope we can still keep in touch and i'm really sorry for not checking in with you sooner.

always thinking of you,
stephanie

www.caringbridge.org/mn/brown_eyed_shorty
stephanie <stephanie12352@msn.com>
saint cloud, MN USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 3:12 PM CST

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I am so sorry for your loss. But you know he isnt really gone because you will hold him in your hearts forever and when it is time you will join him in heaven for all eternity. You are all in our prayers.
Patty, Chance and Angel
http://www.cagedkids.com/index1.htm

Patty <harleyga@bellsouth.net>
Ga USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 1:18 PM CST

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You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marilyn & Brian Blanchard (Lisa Peterson's Aunt & Uncle) <mjtblanchard@yahoo.com>
Maple Grove, MN - Sunday, January 11, 2004 1:14 PM CST

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My family and I continue to hold you and your family close in our hearts. We also continue to lift you up in prayer. My little guy and I send Max our love and smiles when we stop to look up in the sky. I can only pray that time will mend your broken hearts and lonely days. I still cannot imagine how you must feel, even though you describe it so well. Like the words in the song...Godspeed.....
Jill (Hendricks) Moore <jmoore22203@yahoo.com>
Sartell, MN USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 12:35 AM CST

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TPSPB,

Just dropping by to send our love.

Aunt Sandi, Uncle Carl, and Jen
The Adam Family <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Sunday, January 11, 2004 11:45 AM CST

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Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers & remembering Max everyday.
Take care
Sara
Visit Sams Page
Sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Sunday, January 11, 2004 10:34 AM CST

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Remembering you with love and prayers for peace and healing of your hearts.
Love in Jesus,
Lynn

A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement
Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Saturday, January 10, 2004 11:04 PM CST

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You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that in the months to come your memories will give you comfort.
Shannon Dean <SDean34002@prodigy.net>
Tampa, FL - Saturday, January 10, 2004 8:57 PM CST

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Thinking of you all of the time. Why don't you email me your phone number so I can give you a call. Would love to chat with you.
Jodi Hansen http://www.caringbridge/mn/rachelhansen <FlyingCook@aol.com>
Lakeville, MN - Saturday, January 10, 2004 8:49 PM CST

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You are in our thought's and prayers.
Love, LaKota and her mom,Debbie
~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Saturday, January 10, 2004 8:34 PM CST

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Hey Sam, Happy 14th Birthday! Christie reminded me (this morning at 4:30am on the way to the hospital), that you share the same day and year of birth. So, sorry we are a day late, but we hope you had a fun day. We think of your family every day.
Karla and Christie Blackwood <blackwood02@msn.com>
Edina, MN - Saturday, January 10, 2004 8:20 PM CST

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY SAM, AND I LOVE THE HAIRCUT. HOPE YOUR DAY WAS A GOOD 14TH BIRTHDAY. ARLENE AND DEAN
DEAN AND ARLENE HELLING <RAFTERHRANCH@WESTRIV.COM>
GOLDENVALLEY, N.D. USA - Saturday, January 10, 2004 6:19 PM CST

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Dear Adam's family....

Just want you to know that each of you are in our thoughts and prayers in the days, weeks and months ahead. I was keeping up with your web site for nearly a year. Brenda Tucker (Dove) is a member of our church. She shared your story with us as we too experienced a bone marrow transplant in our family in 2001.

I read about your wonderful Disney family vacation...the holiday came upon us and I did not look at the web page until January 1st. I was so sadden for your entire family as I read the updates I had missed from mid November to January 1st. I too,..felt a sense of void as Max and your entire family has captured my heart. I even had Max's picture set to my wallpaper background during the transplant time and recuperation.

I have shared the "Adams Story" with so many around us here in Keller Texas and my family back east. We never know the reasons for the way things turn out in our lives..why God allows events to unfold in the way that they do. But you must know that God has used Max, your family to minister to others in an awesome way. Only God can take an illness or sadness and turn it into something so much more for us,..to be better people,..to love as He loves us..to be compassionate...to understand...be merciful,....just as He is to each of us. We all have learned so much from the trial your family has experienced. Never think that it was for nothing...God used your family to reveal to us Him in it all.
Max is a "God appointed Angel” and truly an inspiration to us all.
We love you all and will continue to keep your family in our prayers in Keller Texas!

Chet, Diane, Kimberly, Megan and Cory Sell <sells5lonestars@aol.com>
Keller, TX - Saturday, January 10, 2004 4:19 PM CST

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Dear Trish and family -
I found your website from another child's website. I am very sorry for your loss. I looked at your online photo album. It looks like your family was able to capture some happy times. That is so great. You will always be able to remember your precious child when he was happy and smiling. All you need to do is look at your pictures. I hope you and your family are able to find peace and strength to get you through this time of loss. As soon as I sign off I am going to go hug my 4-year-old little boy and hold him for a few extra seconds. =)

Take care.
Tara Hibbeler <thibbeler@aol.com>
Salem, OR USA - Saturday, January 10, 2004 1:13 AM CST

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Dear Trish, Paul, Sam, Parker and Bailey,
I remember the first day Max joined Bailey and Jake in music class. He was dancin and jigglin and having a ball. I will always keep that moment with me in my heart. Your moving words and willingness to share your journey with others has tought me many life lessons. Through your eyes I look at each new day as a Gift from God. I will be sharing all your new years suggestions with my parents at the studio. I watched the slide show and I know you did every single one of them. The love, joy and happiness of your family reflects in every picture. God has given you the greatest blessing of all, you will see Max again and enjoy eternity with your beautiful son.
My love and prayers are with you all,
Becky Johnson, Growing With Music
Becky Johnson <sonatawaldow@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, MN - Friday, January 9, 2004 11:10 PM CST

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Just want you to know that we are praying for you and thinking about you.

Happy Birthday Sammie!!!!

Love LaKota and her mom,Debbie

~*~ Lakota's Page ~*~



http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Friday, January 9, 2004 9:43 PM CST

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Sammy: HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
We love you and hope you had a great day!!
Auntie Linda, Ryan, Danny and Uncle Larry
PS Danny thinks January is the best month of all!
linda adams <traveloptions@comcast.net>
- Friday, January 9, 2004 9:27 PM CST

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OK...what can I say! Here I thought it was the 10th today. When I read all your birthday wishes dated the 9th, I thought they were from yesterday. OK Trish, you can stop laughing now...On second thought, if I brought a smile to your face, it was worth the humiliation! Love you all!
Diane Sickler <dianesickler@ndsupernet.com>
Dickinson, ND - Friday, January 9, 2004 7:47 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Sammy! I keep thinking your birthday is on the 10th...sorry I am late! You are growing into such a beautiful person...on the inside and out! Hope your day was great!
Diane Sickler <dianesickler@ndsupernet.com>
Dickinson, ND - Friday, January 9, 2004 7:44 PM CST

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY SAMMY!!!!

Hope you are having a beautiful day as you deserve it. You are such a bright & beautiful young lady!!

Love you!! ((((((HUGS))))))


Kim, Steve, Austin & Morgan <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Friday, January 9, 2004 5:48 PM CST

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Hi Sam,
I just came in to see how you're all doing & found it's your birthday, 'HAPPY BIRTHDAY'
Thinking of you all everyday
Sara
Visit Sams Page

sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Friday, January 9, 2004 5:14 PM CST

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Dear Samantha,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday Dear Samantha,
Happy Birthday to you!!!!
The Ryan Clan (Kristin, Mike, Alex, Rachel, Sarah, and Sam) <krishildy@yahoo.com>
Roseville, MN - Friday, January 9, 2004 4:09 PM CST

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Dear Sammy,

Happy Birthday! We hope you enjoy your special day. You're such an incredible young woman who is wise beyond her years. We are very proud of you; you never cease to impress and amaze us!

Happy Birthday!
Love,
Aunt Sandi, Uncle Carl, and Jennifer
The Adam Family <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Friday, January 9, 2004 3:42 PM CST

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Wishing you Birthday Blessings Sammy!
Also want to thank you for "singing/signing" at Max's service. It was so beautiful. Like a dance.
I pray that today will be special for you because you are a special young lady.
Nancy Aikens <naikens@mnlife.com>
- Friday, January 9, 2004 3:03 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Sam;
Your Grandma Dee told me it was your birthday today & I also remember from last year all the birthday wishes that appeared on the CaringBridge entries. Hope you are haveing a party with some really special friends this weekend.
Trish I'm sure it's hard to have enough energy to even get a party planned. Just know we continue to pray for your during this hard time. Judy Dearduff







Judy Strom Dearduff <hdearduff@siouxvalley.net>
Dell Rapids, SD USA - Friday, January 9, 2004 2:49 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Sam!!!!!
WOW, 14! You don't know me but I met you a long time ago. You were only 4. Your mom brought you into Fridays with her one day and I thought you were the cutest little girl!! Now, you have grown into this most amazing and beautiful young woman! Happy Birthday Sweetie!

Love,
Jenny
Greg and Jenny Kappes <kappes@lakedalelink.net>
South Haven, mn - Friday, January 9, 2004 2:37 PM CST

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I wanted to take this opportunity to take your advice and reach out to someone who is going through a difficult time. I started visiting Max's website a couple of months ago. In a round-about way, we got to Max's site through a little guy named Parker. I started praying for Max and your family immediately and continue to do so. I lost my father to cancer about 10 years ago and remember how much it meant to have people reach out and tell me they care. Even though I don't know your family, I want you to know that I do care and will continue to pray for Max and the rest of you. God Bless all of you! Your strength as a family is really an inspiration to all.
Heather <hlheideloff@riversidepaper.com>
Greenville, WI 54942 - Friday, January 9, 2004 12:40 AM CST

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Happy Birthday, Samantha!
Lots of love, licks, and wags,

Butkus <butkus@paws.com>
New Hope, MN - Friday, January 9, 2004 10:38 AM CST

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Rev.21:3-4 says "now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more mourning nor crying nor pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
I read the entries this morning and Christophers dad's entry touched me. I hope there are more times he can gain comfort from Biblical passages as these. Our prayers for all of you and HAPPY BIRTHDAY SAMANTHA. YOU ARE SPECIAL. ARLENE AND DEAN
Arlene Hellingand Dean Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.D. USA - Friday, January 9, 2004 10:32 AM CST

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We want to wish a Happy 14th Birthday to Samantha...and to our friend,Christie, both born same day/year. These teens are such beautiful examples of the strength & courage of our youth today. THEY ARE THE BEST !!
Nana and Papa <ddgrosz@iw.net>
- Friday, January 9, 2004 8:39 AM CST

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You are on our minds and in our hearts. We pray for comfort and strength and support for the whole family.
Laurie Randel, Morgan's mommy (www.caringbridge.org/tx/morgan) <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Friday, January 9, 2004 0:29 AM CST

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Trish, We have been praying & thinking about your family since we heard of Max's illness. Your strength, hope, faith & love has touched me deeply. Words can not express how sad I am for you & your family to loose Max. What an amazingly beautiful child & his light shined in every picture we ever saw of him. God has blessed all of us with your gracious opportunity to be a small part of this difficult part of your life. I appreciate your thoughts on taking that extra time each day. Your words have definitely made an impression on me. We will keep praying for you all. Blessings, The Allens
Stacey Allen <ssallen@gci.net>
Anchorage, AK - Friday, January 9, 2004 0:15 AM CST

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I come by your site and I still just can't believe Max is not there with you. My heart aches for you. I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling with no appointments to go to and just the absence of the added noise in the house. I can say you are living our worst nightmare and I am so very sorry you are there. I wish so much Max could have just been healthy always and still there with you the way he should be. I agree with what you say about hugs and photos!! Man, do I believe that. I think our older daughters see that now too. I am sorry they have to learn that lesson in such a difficult manner. I have never seen so many camera flashes going on in my life and even their hugs are longer and tighter. I don't come by as often but I pray for you. I don't always know what to pray for but I just pray that God is there with you and you can feel His love and feel Max's presence there with you. Love, Tracy and Katia
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL United States - Thursday, January 8, 2004 9:51 PM CST

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Dearest family of Max,
I'm ashamed of the fact that I haven't communicated with you for so very long. Our family has (and will continue to)kept you in our daily thoughts and prayers. We were deeply saddened by the news of you losing your beautiful little boy. I just felt my words would be so inadequate that I've refrained from speaking with you.
May you all continue to feel the love and support that you are receiving and take some comfort in that. Know that you can call on any of us to do things for you. I can't even imagine all that you have/are going through. Your resolve and strength are so very evident and as a family you will survive because of these wonderful traits.
God's blessings to each and every one of you. We will continue to stay connected with your family.

Becky, Lauren, Christian and Marc Thoen (caringbridge.com/mn/laurenthoen)
Becky Thoen <beckyt@dwby.k12.mn.us>
Dawson, MN USA - Thursday, January 8, 2004 4:25 PM CST

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Hello, I found out about you and Max through Noah's site. I have been praying for you, just thought I would let you know.
Karin Schumacher <the-edge@cloudnet.com>
St. Cloud, MN USA - Thursday, January 8, 2004 2:22 PM CST

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Words cannot express the way I feel for you. We have lost many caring bridge children recently, including my own son, and I hate to see another go.

I can only pray that we learn to live, and learn to cope with what has happened to all of us recently as we will never "get over it." Trust me, I share your emptiness. I used to come back from work and play with my son all night. Now, all I have is my cat to keep me company. I pray for all of us now. May Max, Christopher, and all other lost children rest in peace as we all know they are playing right now and looking over us.

Prior to my sons passing, I was never a religous man. However, I have found comfort in one passage that I found fitting. I will share it.

Now they were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them; and when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them. But Jesus called them to him, saying, "Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them; for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it."

Luke 18:15-17

Mike Peters; father of Christopher Peters (www.caringbridge.org/mn/christopherpeters) <christopherp1210@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 8, 2004 11:39 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Samantha and Bailey,
Thank you for your journal entry. Perhaps, in sharing your sorrow, it will allow others to help you carry it. We care so very much about you. Love,
Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Thursday, January 8, 2004 8:33 AM CST

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We are thinking and praying for you.
Love, LaKota and her mom,Debbie

~*~ LAKOTA'S PAGE ~*~



http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St. Cloud, mn - Thursday, January 8, 2004 5:21 AM CST

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keeping you all in our thoughts & prayers
Sara
Visit Sams Page
Sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Thursday, January 8, 2004 5:06 AM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
I just finished watching Max's slide show. It was simply the most moving experience I've had since the premature birth of my son ten weeks ago. I am praying for your family and cannot begin to fathom your loss. Max was absolutely beautiful on both the inside and outside. May God bless you with some comfort and hold you close at your most difficult hour.
Kelly Keeney <skpgapro@suscom.net>
York, PA USA - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 11:54 PM CST

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Trish, I have been thinking so much about you that I have had a hard time sleeping. I was thinking about most of the things you just posted, especially the enormous amount of energy and time it is to take the road you have over the past year. Clinic appointments alone, hours of waiting, hours of wondering, hours of juggling the needs of everyone to fit that schedule. I was afraid for you to be alone knowing the magnitude of everything you have done over the past year. I remember talking with Karla about being afraid to sign on, afraid to say the wrong thing, or a sad thing-but I want you to know that I am praying for you and your family and wish there was something I could do.
Your journals have always been so eloquent and moving. I am praying you keep journaling and reach out to everyone you can to carry you during this time. The slide show was so beautiful and so telling of the love in your family.
Carol Klein and Family <ltkfamily@comcast.net>
Lino Lakes, MN - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 11:12 PM CST

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Just letting you know that I am thinking about you and your family and pray that you find comfort. I watched the slide show too and it was so beautiful, but very sad. I didnt even know him :( I can not fathom how you feel, but I will always pray for you. In His Strong Love,
Cassandra <cmraven@msn.com>
Albuquerque, NM - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 10:55 PM CST

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No words can express the sadness we feel for the loss of Max. We have looked at the slide show for the third time and it is so beautiful and profound.

We are so sorry that we were unable to be at the visitation and service for Max but we were out of the country this past week. You were in our thoughts and prayers every day.

Trish, thank you for sharing so much with those of us who have been following your journey. You are all amazing people and we have learned so much from you along the way. Now you have your angel in heaven, safely home.

Rest in peace, Max.


Brenda Wyley
Brenda Wyley <sbwyley@comcast.net>
Plymouth, - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 10:16 PM CST

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Dear TPPSB, Nana and Papa,
Our most devout prayers for all of you each day.
God Bless you and Keep you. Love, the Jacobs'
Ryan's grandparents in Kansas
kathijacobs <kathijacobs@kc.rr.com>
overland park, ks - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 9:26 PM CST

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Trish, I have come to realize over the last year that this web page is a release for you, Paul and Sammy to post your feelings and thoughts. It has to be theraputic to a certain degree--like any journal is. I'm glad you share with us so freely your ups and downs as I know I have learned from you more than I can say.

Do you remember me telling you that one of the ladies in my crazy group of friends had a son with ALL? I didn't know her then. It will be 10 years ago in May that they lost their Timothy to leukemia. She also has 3 other healthy children; one was 2 1/2 at the time and she was 8 months pregnant with another son when they buried Timothy. Oh, and she and her husband were the ones who sponsored the Run For Children last summer that Morgan and I ran in! Anyway, they celebrate Timothy's birthday and the day he died each year with their 3 sons. On his birthday she bakes his favorite cake and puts the number of candles on it to represent how old he would be--he'd be 14 next month. Then on the anniversary of his death they get a big balloon bouquet have a little prayer time and celebration and at the end of the day let the balloons float to heaven. You know what was really a little strange? On the morning that Max passed away Lisa called me....we don't call each other just e-mail. She called to see how you and Max were doing. I told her that must mean Max met Timothy and he guided her to call.

I just wanted you to know I'm still thinking about you all. I must pull up this page a dozen times a day and look at his beautiful, little, happy face. I have to smile back at him. Brad's slide show is just so precious.

Love you all! ((((((HUGS))))))
Kim <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 1:33 PM CST

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Dear Trish,

We really are caught between two worlds: our children are experiencing the greatest joy and we who love them are experiencing unspeakable sorrow.

You may not be interested but I wanted to tell you that we are beginning a new mother's grief group here in the Twin Cities. "We" are simply mothers who have lost a child. While we will open and close our meetings with Bible verses, we do not yet have any specific plans. Our first meeting will be on Saturday, January 24th, at someone's home in Burnsville.

I just want to extend an invitation. We would love to meet you.

I also wanted to let you know that this Friday I am donating blood and joining the National Bone Marrow registry.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah * * * Gabbie’s Site * * *
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 1:32 PM CST

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Dear Trish & Family;
Thank you for your update. When you share it helps us all. It still gives me comfort after 61/2 years to read other entries from parents who have lost their wonderful children to death here on earth.
There is no road map or directions for how to travel this journey, but somehow you will. We have no choice, there are times when I have asked God to just let me die & be with my Cole. Of course this doesn't happen but if pain were an indication I would have died.
We continue to love & support you each day,hour & minuite. Judy
Judy Strom Dearduff <hdearduff@siouxvalley.net>
Dell Rapids, SD USA - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 11:18 AM CST

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Trish,
It is the most difficult and painful time in your life and yet you are reaching out and teaching all of us. You are a truly amazing person! I wish I could be in your home at this moment to give you a big hug and just sit and grieve with you. If I emailed you as often as I've been thinking of you these past months and especially these last 10 days, it would take a considerable amount of time to write and to read. Since I first started logging on to Max's site this summer, I pray more and I have more patience with my kids (most of the time.) That's because of you,and I thank you for that. I'm so sorry for what you're going through and I'm praying for you every day.
Peggy Vidal <pvidal@rchr.org>
Rapid City, SD - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 11:10 AM CST

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Trish,
You have such a gift for expressing yourself. Your messages have touched so many lives. At this most difficult time, you are helping others by sharing your wisdom.
My son Ryan would be nine years old this May, I only had him for four months. I still treasure the memory of holding him in my arms and playing pat-a-cake with him the night before he died. I still ache to hold him in my arms -- that feeling never goes away. But life itself will get better - the physical pain will go away. We continue to pray for each and everyone of you!
Lisa Schwindt <LSchwindt@ValleySystems.com>
Phoenix, AZ - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 9:56 AM CST

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Your entry last night made me wish so desperately that I could come up with some words of comfort that would ease this tremendous pain. If I signed in every time I check your website, your guest book would be dedicated to me! What a journey you have been on… It makes me tired to just think about what Max and your family went thru in the last 18 months. I know wanting that physical touch of your son has to be the hardest. We all still think about everyone in your family and of course Super Max, and we continue to pray for all of you everyday. We all cannot even begin to comprehend what you are going through. Many of us have suffered losses in our life and you know each one is different. We all grieve in different ways, we never know what might set us off with our emotions and what might not. You had some very good lessons in your entry for all of us to benefit from. I really hope people will stop and take the time to tell their children just how special they are and give them an extra hug. I will try my best to do all the things you asked, for Max and for all of you. Thank you for touching our lives, TPSPBM. Our love and support for you is beyond words. Be assured you are close to our hearts and our prayers are with you continuously. You guys have brought out the prayer warrior in me that I never knew existed. One big hug coming right back at you!

P.S. That slideshow at the service was AWESOME!! I am so grateful that they were able to get the computer to work. Looking back, I wonder if it was Max pulling a fast one on us for a few minutes when they couldn’t get the computer to work. I do not think there was a dry eye in the sanctuary after the show! Kudos to whoever put it together…

Kristin Ryan <krishildy@yahoo.com>
Roseville, MN - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 8:17 AM CST

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Dear Trish,
I know I am just a stranger to you, but I truly feel for what you are experiencing. There is NO OTHER pain like the pain of losing Max. Life will never be the same. Just getting through the day can seem impossible. I remember so vividly those first months without Paige. I went from constantly administering medicines and attending clinic visits to....NOTHING. My older daughter was in school all day. My husband stayed home with me for a month before going back to work because I was petrified of being alone.

There were days when I thought I would never stop crying. The pain is so intense. I used to tell people that someone could stab me repeatedly in the heart with a butcher knife and I wouldn't feel as much pain as I do from Paige's absence. I could (and still can 2 years later) physically feel a hole in my heart. That is the piece of me that Paige took to heaven.

It was hard for me to be a mom to my surviving daughter Kate because I was so devastated. How could I take care of her when I couldn't take care of myself? Nights were excruciating. It is so bizarre to go to bed with a child missing. The empty room, the quietness - I was amazed at how quiet my house became without Paige. How I missed the silly arguing about bedtime, snacks, etc.

The hardest thing for me to deal with since Paige died is that my life is so different from everyone else's. I live in a different world. I live in a world where I truly recognize the lack of control that I ultimately have over my destiny. Not being able to protect Paige and keep her with me has been agonizing. People try to relate - but they can't. They still have their children. I don't.

It does get better though. I never used to believe that when other moms of deceased children would tell me that. Your life will never resemble anything that it used to but the pain will dull. It never goes away. But the intense physical pain that your body feels subsides. Thank God. But not a minute goes by that I don't think of Paige. She is constantly on my mind. I still cry everyday - but usually only for a few minutes when I go to bed without her.

I hope Max sends you signs. Paige took a long time before she sent me a sign that she was ok - but oh my gosh was that comforting.

I will continue to pray for your family.

Karen White
Karen White <kswvwhite@aol.com>
Naperville, IL - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 7:47 AM CST

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Thinking of you all.
Sara
Visit Sams Page
sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 6:28 AM CST

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Just want you to know that you are in our prayers and thoughts. We think of you daily.
God be with you.
Love, LaKota and her mom,Debbie

~*~ LAKOTA'S PAGE ~*~

http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St. Cloud, mn - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 0:48 AM CST

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Just know that we are praying for comfort for you and think about all of you a lot! It is so hard to loose a precious child. We miss Noah every minute of our day. It is great to know that they are with Jesus in Heaven and really living now! So sorry that we couldn't make it to the funeral. We were thinking about you a lot. You will continue to be in our prayers!

Love, Heidi and Jason
Jason Schafbuch <onlocation02@juno.com>
- Tuesday, January 6, 2004 9:48 PM CST

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Dearest Paul, Trish, Sam,Parker and Bailey,

Not one day goes by that all of you aren't in our thoughts and prayers.
I don't need to ask how you are doing, know it is such a very difficult time right now. I am sure your emotions are constantly on a roller coaster.

I did send an e-mail to your regular e-mail address, hope you got it. I sent our phone # for your Mom and Dad for when they travel out to Az.

Pretty much summed up how we were moved by the beautiful funeral for Max, what a glorious send off he had to heaven, and we can only imagine that his entry into heaven was more glorious than we could ever imagine.

I have talked about Max and shared his story with so many friends out here in Az. and you have a lot more people praying for you.....a few more never hurts.

Please let me know if you got the e-mail on your other sight, if not, I will get the information to you once again.

Take care dear ones, walk slowly through your grief, savor every memory of Max and talk and cry about him...........

Our love and prayers are with you,

Mickey and Bob
bob and mickey <bmpajor@aol.com>
wayzata, Mn hENN - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 6:15 PM CST

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The music video was absolutely beautiful. God give you strength to survive and the courage to live. Taken from a message from a very dear friend. Thanks D.G. Arlene
Dean and Arlene Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.D. Usa - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 2:00 PM CST

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You are in our prayers and thoughts.
God bless you!!!!
Love,LaKota and her mom,Debbie

~*~ LAKOTA'S PAGE ~*~



http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St. Cloud, mn - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 12:32 AM CST

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Thinking of you all
Sara
Visit Sams Page
Sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 4:40 AM CST

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TPSPBM, We're thinking of you tonight and praying for the strength you need to face tomorrow. We love you guys and are here for you anytime.
I am looking right now at the lion we chose from Max's service. It has appropriately been named Max and is sitting next to Ryan's Barney. Thank you for this special reminder.
Cari Holt <cari_holt@hotmail.com>
Buffalo, MN - Monday, January 5, 2004 11:38 PM CST

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You are in our prayers and thoughts.
God be with you.

~*~ LAKOTA'S PAGE ~*~

LaKota and her mom,Debbie <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Monday, January 5, 2004 9:58 PM CST

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Dear Adams,

You don't know me. I am Morgan's (another AML patient) grandmother.

My prayers have been with you for the time that I have been aware of Max's illness. They will continue to be with you as you face the days ahead. I just praise God that the real end of the story is always victory.

Our love and prayers.




Gloria Bradshaw <bradshawg@acu.edu>
Abilene, TX United States - Monday, January 5, 2004 8:57 PM CST

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To All,
Just want you all to know that we are still thinking of you all I was reading the guestbook last night and got tears in the eyes. All the teachers at kids time was asking if mom had anything new on the web site, so when i bring the update in they will be happy to read it.
You are still in our prayers today and everyday.
Max we miss you

Patti Kids Time aide and my family <mistyfloat@juno.com>
- Monday, January 5, 2004 6:48 PM CST

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Guys we are so sorry for your pain. You are so right there is no going back to normal, I wish there were words to make this temporary separation just a little bit more bearable but I don't any. We love you guys. We are sorry we could not make Max's services. Heidi was up in northern MN and I had to take a bunch of students up to Lutsen. If they were just a glimps into Max's life here on earth, I know they were beautiful.
Jason and Heidi Schafbuch <onlocation02@juno.com>
- Monday, January 5, 2004 1:57 PM CST

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Hi! I am a friend of Karen and Jeff's. I just want you to know that I will pray for your family to get through the tears and the sadness. I can only imagine how you feel. Keep focusing on Max; happy, healthy, smiling, and running into Jesus' arms!
Bev Bannister
Naperville, IL USA - Monday, January 5, 2004 11:51 AM CST

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Just watched the slideshow and the tears are flowing. Godspeed, little man.
Laurie Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, Tx - Monday, January 5, 2004 11:24 AM CST

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The tears and sadness for your loss and for the terrible disease Max had to endure remain even though we never met Max. I can't imagine what you must feel. Our heartfelt prayers continue to be with your entire family as you walk through this valley.
Laurie Randel, Morgan's mommy (www.caringbridge.org/tx/morgan) <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Monday, January 5, 2004 11:12 AM CST

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Dearest TPSPB,
A few days ago, I sat down at my computer with a cup of coffee and started to log on...Greg asked what I was doing and I turned to him and said I'm checking on Max...mid sentence I stopped. He looked at me and I at him and of course I started balling. Max has become a part of my daily life, I truly can't comprehend what your going through.
I will be forever grateful for having a chance to have met the little guy and I truly loved him. All I can do is KNOW he is up there in that wonderful place they call HEAVEN! Running around, pain free with his grandpa and grandma. And most importantly watching down on you guys!

With Great Love and Support,
Jenny Kappes

Greg and Jenny Kappes <kappes@lakedalelink.net>
South Haven, mn - Monday, January 5, 2004 10:05 AM CST

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You have a beautiful son. I came across your web page and started reading it. So sorry for your loss. I hope the new year gives you and your family the strength, health and happiness.
adela <adoads@comcast.net>
lilburn, ga usa - Monday, January 5, 2004 7:36 AM CST

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I just watched the slideshow, it is beautiful. Sam was jumping on my bed singing & dancing. We are missing you Max.
sara
Visit Sams Page
sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Monday, January 5, 2004 6:53 AM CST

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Sending you ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
Jamie <thecarmans@annapolis.com>
MD - Monday, January 5, 2004 6:36 AM CST

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Hi,
I'm hoping as I write this Maxs slideshow is loading. I have looked at the pictures of him in the album so many times but I wanted to see the slideshow after reading a prevoius message in the guestbook. Even though I didn't 'know' Max for long his strength & the memories he has left me with have blown me away. I cannot even begin to know how you are all feeling, I hope knowing there are so many of us thinking of you & remembering Max is some help to you. There are so many things I want to say to you but I cannot find the right words today. Thinking of you all & praying god gives you the strength to get through another day.
Sara
Visit Sams Page
sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Monday, January 5, 2004 6:31 AM CST

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Just want you to know that you are in our prayers and thoughts.
Love,Steve,Debbie and LaKota
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St. Cloud, mn - Monday, January 5, 2004 5:16 AM CST

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Hi Adams Family;
I just watched the slide show of pictures of your family with Max. Making that slide show with all those pictures & the music is a help in your journey of grief. No you will never get over having lost your sweet little Max. Your life will never be just the same as before & what is normal? But you don't want to ever forget or really get over it. You don't have to get over it. The worst thing in my mind would be to just get over my son & never speak his name or hear people talk about him. You have just begun your walk & you will be supprised how much energy this walk takes & how nothing happens but that you are thinking & missing Max. Just take your time & don't rush yourselves, crying & talking about Max over & over is normal & actually feels good. Be with those who let you do this.
Ask God to give you a sign from him, or maybe it's that rainbow that Max pointed out to you earlier.
I continue to pray for you during these days
Judy Strom Dearduff <hdearduff@siouxvalley.net>
Dell Rapids, SD USA - Monday, January 5, 2004 0:32 AM CST

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TPSPB
You all are in our thoughts and prayers, may your faith and Gods love hold you up right now. We love you guys!
The Ruhlands <sjruhland@aol.com>
Maple Grove, Mn Henn - Sunday, January 4, 2004 11:02 PM CST

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The service at my church this morning included a candle-lighting in remembrance of people in our lives who passed away in 2003. Sadly, I lit two candles - both for 4-year-old boys. One was for a child that I was very close to who died one year ago tomorrow. The other candle I lit was for Max; he and the battle he fought have impacted so many of us who never met him.
You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Sally San Soucie <sallysan@earthling.net>
Richmond, VA - Sunday, January 4, 2004 9:18 PM CST

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Not a day goes by that I don't think of Max, and each time it brings tears to my eyes. But then peace comes over me, because I know he is watching us, smiling down on us from heaven. My prayers and thoughts are still with you, and will continue to be for always especially now as you go on trying to go back to that 'normal' life you mentioned. Know each day that Max and all of us are still thinking of you, forever in our hearts.
Love always, Katielynn
Katielynn <peanutrose11@hotmail.com>
Plymouth, MN - Sunday, January 4, 2004 9:08 PM CST

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Just wanted you to know that we love you all.


Nikki & Jason <ander635@umn.edu>
- Sunday, January 4, 2004 7:52 PM CST

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I'm so very sorry about your loss. I just finished watching the slideshow. What a beautiful presentation of Max, his family, and his wonderful short life. I'm a friend of Karen Adams. She kept me informed of Max throughout his illness. All of you are in my thoughts. Most fondly, Kathy Brown
Kathy Brown <thebrowns3647@wowway.com>
Naperville, IL USA - Sunday, January 4, 2004 7:39 PM CST

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Trish,Paul and family-Thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you can give yourselves time to rest and heal.
Peggy Schiedel <dpschiedel@iw.net>
Yankton, sd usa - Sunday, January 4, 2004 5:32 PM CST

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Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker, and Bailey,

Just wanted to stop in and say we love you and we're thinking of you. We can't fathom what you're going through right now, but if there's anything at all we can do, please don't hesitate to ask...

Lots of love and hugs,
Aunt Sandi, Uncle Carl, and Jennifer
The Adam Family <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Sunday, January 4, 2004 3:50 PM CST

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Your right, life will never be the same but can be good again.In time, and you will get tired of hearing it, the "Max" memories will feel better. Now they hurt. Let yourself feel the emotions you need to in order to grieve. God Bless your family and protect you both and give you strength. Arlene and Dean
Dean and Arlene Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.D. USA - Sunday, January 4, 2004 2:50 PM CST

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You are in our prayer's and thought's.
No words that I can say possiblly comfort you as you travel through this heart breaking journey, But I want to say to you as a friend and of a mom of losing two children,
Remember you did not loose Max, He might not be here on Earth with you in flesh at this time,but his spirit and memories will always be in your heart, And maybe one day Max will be able to show you a sign to let his family know how happy he is. He can never be lost for he is in heaven. One day you will be greeted by Max with wide open arms, and then the wound that you carry in your heart will be mended.
I just want you to know that we are thinking of Max and his family.
God be with you everyone.
Love,LaKota's mom,Debbie
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Sunday, January 4, 2004 1:03 PM CST

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Dear Adams,
Thinking of all of you, and you continue to be in my daily thoughts and prayers.

Much love,
Sue ski
Sue Szulczewski <ski10458@msn.com>
Plymouth, MN U.S.A - Sunday, January 4, 2004 12:47 AM CST

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You and your family continue to be in our prayers. I hope you will find the strength to live each day without Max and this year will bring you healing as you look at what would be if Max were still alive.

I also hope you will find the time and energy to keep updating your web site. It means a lot to us to know what you need and if we can help in any way.

May God give you courage to face each day.

Sincerely,
Connie F-G
The Frisby-Griffin Family <cdlfg@sprynet.com>
Wichita Falls, TX - Sunday, January 4, 2004 10:01 AM CST

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Take care little man....now you are truly free to be Spiderman. Trish, Paul and family...thank you for sharing Max's "journey" with my family and I. When we look to the evening skies, he will surely be the brightest star. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Beth and Bill Chepolis <cheps@msn.com>
Weston, CT - Sunday, January 4, 2004 9:22 AM CST

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We continue to think about you and pray for you. Rachel carries around Max's picture and talks about him quite frequently. She has certainly come up with some profound questions about Max and Jesus lately.

We continue to keep your family close to our hearts and constantly in our prayers. May God give you peace that only He can.

Blessings,
Jodi & Rachel Hansen http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/rachelhansen <FlyingCook@aol.com>
Lakeville, MN - Sunday, January 4, 2004 7:52 AM CST

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With caring thoughts and prayers . . . . Much love, Glorian
Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Saturday, January 3, 2004 9:42 PM CST

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I pray for your peace and strength, Trish and Paul.These are very hard times and I won't try to cushion feelings that I know nothing about. I see some people that send you messages have gone thro this not just once but twice. Lean on their knowledge and support. Luv Arlene
Arlene and Dean Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.,D. USA - Saturday, January 3, 2004 6:02 PM CST

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You are in our prayers and thoughts.
God be with you as you travel this heart-breaking journey.
We love you!

Love,LaKota,Debbie,Steve
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Saturday, January 3, 2004 12:58 AM CST

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just a quck hello for the new year to let you know that we are thinking of you and praying each day...

***SAMANTHAS SITE***
karen and sammi
- Saturday, January 3, 2004 12:56 AM CST

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Cheri Shippy <cheri@sphost.com>
Surprise, AZ USA - Saturday, January 3, 2004 3:14 AM CST

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I am so sorry. My heart aches for you. Max will be on my heart forever. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Wendy <wkfrazier@msn.com>
Savage, mn - Friday, January 2, 2004 11:26 PM CST

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Just signing in and wanting you all to know we have been thinking of all of you. We continue to pray for each and every one of the Adams and Grosz family.
Love,
Kristin Ryan <krishildy@yahoo.com>
Roseville, MN - Friday, January 2, 2004 9:32 PM CST

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Dear Adams family,
I received this poem from my friend Eileen. Her husband Stephen, just lost his sister suddenly from a brain clot. They send prayers and sympathy. They were sent this prayer and I thought I would pass it along.
Native American Prayer
I give you this one thought to keep-
I am with you still- I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am a diamond glints on snow,
I am sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
I am swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circle flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone-
I am with you still- in each new dawn.

I hope as time goes by, that you will allow your hearts to heal and remember how wonderful life can be. You will be in our prayers.
Carol , Joe, Parker, Weston, and Gabrielle Lombard <lombardsjc@aol.com>
Stillwater, MN Washington - Friday, January 2, 2004 4:10 PM CST

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May the blessings of love be upon you,
May it's peace abide with you,
May it's essence illuminate your heart,
Now and forever more.

They that love beyond the world cannot be separated by it.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God's blessings be with you and your family.


Ellen Schreder, Elizabeth and Matthew <ellyesq@yahoo.com>
St. Michael, MN - Friday, January 2, 2004 3:18 PM CST

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I have no words that could even possibly comfort you in this time of need, I only have tears. With losing two of my own children, I don't think of them as that they died, even though I can't see them, I know that they are living in heaven and that one day I will be with them (like one of my other family member's that live in a different state that I don't get to see.) And when that day comes that I will get to see my two children in heaven my heart will be mended it will not carry the wounds of not seeing my children here on earth. I don't know the answer to why any children have to go through this awfu disease..I wish I did. Since you know that we are going through cancer twice with our children.

God be with everyone.
We are praying for you.
Love LaKota's mom,Debbie
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St. Cloud, mn - Friday, January 2, 2004 11:06 AM CST

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Morgan saw Max's home page picture on our computer and thought Max was doing the "Hook 'em Horns" sign. It made me giggle. Praying for peace and blessings to your family. Your smiles have touched the hearts of many.
Team Randel (www.caringbridge.org/tx/morgan) <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, Tx - Friday, January 2, 2004 10:29 AM CST

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Trish, Paul and Kids,
Hope you are all getting some much needed rest and rebounding from the whirlwind of activity you had this week. Know that we are still here praying for you and sending strength, comfort, and support for the days ahead. Hugs and Much Love- Warren, Missy,Kasey and Travis
Hermans <wmherman@btinet.net>
Beulah, ND - Friday, January 2, 2004 7:52 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Sam, Parker & Bailey,
You all remain in my thoughts and prayers this new year... my heart is with each and everyone of you...Max will never be forgotten...I miss him already.

~~*Happy New Year in Heaven, sweet Angel Max...you are so missed, little man!*~~

~*~*Girlie's Page*~*~

Love,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice <janiceliew1981@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, January 1, 2004 10:48 PM CST

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I still think about Max' smile everyday. He touched my life so deeply just reading about him and seeing his pictures. This has to be so hard to understand for you other children since we as adults don't understand the why's. I continue to pray for peace & grace for your family during this time of unbearable loss. I know that Max smiles upon you now and watches over you as you watched over him.

Take Care & Stay Strong,


Laura Hinkle <lhinkle@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, NC USA - Thursday, January 1, 2004 10:11 PM CST

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Thinking of you with love and in prayer.

Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Thursday, January 1, 2004 9:17 PM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Samantha, Parker, and Bailey,

I'm a johnney-come-lately as far as coming to your website is concerned. I just logged on for the first time today. I read many entries including the time you spent in Orlando. Thank you so very much for sharing your thoughts with all of us. I loved that Max had dreams of Jesus. Max was a teacher for all of us.

Sincerely,

Marian (Nancy's aunt) Wolters
Marian Wolters <mewolters@prodigy.net>
St. Paul, MN USA - Thursday, January 1, 2004 4:55 PM CST

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I saw a rainbow on the floor today and thought of you all. Thank you Max for your brightness!
Laurie Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Thursday, January 1, 2004 1:18 PM CST

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Thinking of you all
Sara
Visit Sams Page
Sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Thursday, January 1, 2004 2:51 AM CST

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Hello,
my name is Bryanne Weaver. I got to your page from Kody's page. I'm sorry for the loss of Max. I pray that he is in Heaven now without fear and pain. I also pray that you guys have peace and joy during this holiday season. And as always, Happy New Year.
Bryanne Weaver <weaverbj@nsuok.edu>
Tahlequah, OK USA - Thursday, January 1, 2004 2:07 AM CST

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I just want you to know that we are thinking about you and that you are in our prayers.....
God be with you and your family as you travel this journey.
Love,LaKota and her Father and mom,Steve and Debbie
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <sdl@astound.net>
St. Cloud, mn - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 7:04 PM CST

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Hello Adams Family,

I'm so... sorry about your loss of Max. I wish I would have been at the funeral. Sam, I heard that you did a great job being the song leader. Good Job! Max, Rest In Peace. I love you all. Buh Bye.
Brooke Sickler <sickler_753@hotmail.com or brookesickler@ndsupernet.com>
Dickinson, ND USA - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 5:08 PM CST

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I am so stunned at the precious lives lost so close to Christmas. However, in a past journal entry you asked for a miracle to help Max make it through another Christmas. I am so pleased that this miracle was granted. May God now grant you peace and serenity.
In my thoughts and prayers,
Renee
www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.com>
liverpool, ny - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 4:57 PM CST

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Feel our arms around you holding on so tight and God giving you the peace that you will need to survive this sad ,sad time in your lives. Luv. Arlene and Dean
Dean and Arlene Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.D. USA - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 4:41 PM CST

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Hi guys,
the service was beautiful. I bet Max was so proud of his party. Just wanted to say Hi and tell you we love you and we are here for you still.
May the new year bring you many blessings!
Love & God bless
the Wolfpack <wolfpack@myclearwave.net>
Madison Lake, MN - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 4:25 PM CST

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I am so sorry for your loss. I have heard so much about Max and his charm through Karla and Christie. Please know that there are many people out here that are sending you love and peace in this hard time. The words are so hard to find.
Sheri Blackwood <sblackwood@bozeman.k12.mt.us>
Bozeman, MT USA - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 4:15 PM CST

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Hey Max's family~
I'm a friend of Christie's and Maddie's and I just want to say I was crushed to here about your sweet little boy's passing. I will prayer you all---Love and peace on New year's!

Dannie <paskyloohoo@yahoo.com>
mpls, mn usa - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 3:08 PM CST

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Paul, Trish and family, I am very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son and brother, Max.

I found your site through another Caringbridge site a few months ago and have been silently following your journey. Oh how I wished it had gone differently. Your faith and love will see you through. Your lives will go on, different than you had imagined, but you will get through this. With that, I leave you with a favorite Bible verse of mine:

Lamentations 3:20-22 (NIV)
I well remember them, and my soul is downcast. . . . Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.

I am thinking and praying for you all at this time.

Mari Beth Ross <maribeth.ross@nrgenergy.com>
Hugo, MN - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 1:29 PM CST

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I came across your website a few months ago while checking another caring bridge site. I read Maxs' story and his darling face instantly won a place in my heart. I was so sorry to read he had passed away. There can be no greater pain for parents. I know there are a LOT of people who are in communion with you and praying for your family that you are not even aware of. People like myself who have been and will continue to be silently praying for your family.
Sheila <s_brisbin@hotmail.com>
Coon Rapids, MN - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 11:53 AM CST

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Trish & Family,

I'm at a loss for words - but I want you to know that my prayers are with you and your family during this tough time.
Karen Schaan <Karen_Schaan@adp.com>
Camas, WA USA - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 11:23 AM CST

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Dear Trish and Paul and family,
I too add my sympathies and prayers for you and your family at this time. I am the secretary at St. Benedict Church in Yankton and sing with Dick and Dee in our choir, so they have kept us informed on Max. I cannot imagine losing a child or knowing what you are going through, but I pray God gives you strength to get through this most difficult time.
Love and prayers,

Janice Pokorney <jpokorney@iw.net>
Yankton, SD Yankton - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 9:18 AM CST

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Paul, Trish and family,
We hope all went smoothly yesterday. We wished we could have been there with you all to offer extra arms for hugs and extra words of comfort. Our thoughts were with you all the entire day yesterday and still are today. We continue to send you strength, support, and much Love...Warren, Missy, Kasey, and Travis
Herman's <wmherman@btinet.net>
Beulah, ND - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 9:14 AM CST

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Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker and Bailey:
As many others have expressed, words aren't adequate to express my sorrow for your loss. I'm keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers and giving thanks for the gifts that Max brought to your family in his short time with you all. Love, Becky
Becky Copeland <bcopeland@crww.com>
Providence, RI - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 9:14 AM CST

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I am so sorry all of this has happened. I wish you never had to feel this pain. Your family will be in my prayers.
Love,
Detra
Matt 19:26
Detra Dowling <dcdow2@aol.com>
Boiling Springs, SC USA - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:58 PM CST

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Trish and Family

My heart breaks for all of you, please take care of each other as the Lord and Max will be watching over you.

Death is nothing at all *~*~*
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Whatever we were to each other,
that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
speak to me in the easy way which you
always used.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little
jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be the household word that
it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind because
I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is past, nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be
as it was before -- only better,
infinitely happier and for ever --
We will be all one together with
Christ.
Becky Laak <laaks@msn.com>
Apple Valley, MN USA - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 8:52 PM CST

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Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you today and truly wish we could be there.

Love you all
((((((HUGS))))))
Kim, Steve, Austin, Morgan <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 5:13 PM CST

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I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious and beautiful Max. My heart breaks for you as I have already walked this path.

My name is Judy and I live in TN. I lost my 16 year old daughter to AML leukemia. How I hate this horrid monster that brings so much suffering and robs us of our precious children. I pray God will hold you close and give you the strength to face the days ahead. Please know if I can help in any way I am just a click away.

You will be in my heart and fervent prayers.
Love and hugs
Judy
http://www.catchanangel.com/index.html
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 30, 2003 5:06 PM CST

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Dear Adams family and Grosz families,
I just now checked my computer and read that your precious Max had passed away. Our deepest sympathies to all of you. Losing a child is not the way it should be, children should always outlive their parents but sometimes that is not God's plan. It is so hard to understand what His plan is sometimes but know that it is the right plan. The pain of losing a loved one is unbearable at times but know that all of us will continue to pray for all of you and our love is with you always. We hope you find comfort in the fact that Max is no longer suffering and that brave little boy is now in heaven spreading his joy and sharing his bright smile with everyone there. May God Bless you and Keep all of you in his arms in the days ahead. We know there will be difficult ones ahead but know that The Father will take care of you. Love, Marj and Gary
Marj Murray <mamurray@westriv.com>
- Tuesday, December 30, 2003 4:40 PM CST

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My heart aches for you. You are in my prayers.

Rachel's grandma
Ellen Eide <ejeide@aol.com>
Webster, MN usa - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 4:12 PM CST

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PRAYERS FOR YOU ALL TODAY ARLENE AND DEAN
DEAN AND ARLENE HELLING <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
GOLDEN VALLEY, N.D. USA - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 2:26 PM CST

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I am truly sorry for your loss and grateful for an important lesson I have learned today....about the presciousness of life (I thank you Max) I will keep you all in my prayers.
Kendra Edwin <chevygirl_24@excite.com>
Hollis Center, ME USA - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 2:19 PM CST

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I came to your page through Katia's only recently. I am so sorry for your loss.

Anonymous
Lutz, FL - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 2:03 PM CST

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I came to your page through Katia's only recently. I am so sorry for your loss.

Anonymous
Lutz, FL - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 2:02 PM CST

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Thinking of you on this rough day. ((((((HUGS))))))))
Jamie Carman & family <thecarmans@annapolis.com>
MD - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 1:21 PM CST

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Thinking of you today. Peace and comfort to your family.
Laurie Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 12:02 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish and family,
You have been in my prayers since Max was first diagnosed. I have admired your family's courage and strength. Thank you for letting us share in Max's journey- it has profoundly changed my life. The love you have for each other and for Max is evident in every journal entry and every photograph. Terry and I are so sorry for your loss. The worst day in a parent's life is the day of their child's funeral. I am hoping the love and prayers of family and friends bring you peace today and in the days ahead. May God bless you and Max always.
Keeping you in my thoughts, Adrienne O'Deens
Adrienne O'Deens
Canal Winchester, OH - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:33 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Samantha, Parker & Bailey
Thinking of you all, especially today. Praying that you find the strength to get through the days ahead of you, remebering your beautiful angel boy.
Take care
Sara
Visit Sams Page

Max,
I will remember you always for the courage, strength & determination you always showed, for the smile on your face even when things got tough, & the beautiful moments you have shared with us all.

sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 10:58 AM CST

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Trish and Paul,

It was so good to see you last night. The memory boards, photos and cards of Max were beautiful. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Trish - I'm gathering up the scrapbooking materials and will be down to see you in the next few weeks. I'll give you a call so we can plan a date.

Take care - we love you!
Chuck and Kay
The Richters <CRic280280@aol.com>
Cold Spring, MN - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 10:52 AM CST

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It's 10:00, and the funeral must have just started. I can't believe I'm not there for you. Christie was admitted at about 4:00 this morning, and she is too sick for me to leave her. Bruce and the kids are there, but I just want you to know I'm thinking of you right now.
Karla Blackwood <blackwood02@msn.com>
Edina, MN - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 10:01 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Samantha, Parker, and Bailey,
I am so sorry for your loss of Max. He looked so peaceful at his wake last night, and all of you looked like you were doing incredibly well making it through the day. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and Max.
Mary Mertz <mary4824@yahoo.com>
Roseville, MN US - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:28 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Samantha, Parker, and Bailey,

I am so sorry that I couldn't be with you today, but please know that you are always in my thoughts. Trish, I keep thinking back to a day when you and I were walking with Max up at Black Bear. I was telling you what a beautiful little boy you had, and you told me you thought he looked like Yoda. I have to laugh when I think about your sense of humor, and at the same time, I want to cry when I think about the fact that cancer forced him to battle like Luke Skywalker instead. I am so grateful to have had an opportunity to know him and to love him; his strength, his courage, and his neverending supply of hugs on Thanksgiving have truly made me a better person. You have all inspired me so much, and I hope it can be of some comfort to know that Max has made so many of us strive to be better.

I love you, and I continue to pray that God give you the strength and comfort you need now and in the hard times to come.

Jennifer
Jennifer Adam <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:22 AM CST

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Dear Trish, Paul and Family,
We have no words to ease your sorrow. Just know that we are so sorry to hear of Max's passing. He was and is such a brave, wonderful little boy. And I thank you for sharing him so eloquently with us. We are lifting you all up in prayer. Trish, I wish I could be there in person today. You'll be in my thoughts today, as your family has been every day for the last year. God bless you all.
Gregg & Carol Grinsteinner & family <carolg@fisherind.com>
Dickinson, ND - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:13 AM CST

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I know there are no words that can make this any easier. Please know that I am praying for your family every day and hope that God's peace will be enough to get you through this very difficult time.
Heidi <heids1578@aol.com>
Fridley, MN - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 8:13 AM CST

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I am deeply saddened by the loss of your little boy. I just lost mine too, on December 21st. There are no words! Please know that you are in my prayers. Love in Christ,
Holly Kindell www.caringbridge.com/oh/adamkindell
Holly Kindell <dkindell@kenton.com>
Kenton, Oh USA - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 6:36 AM CST

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We are friends of Christies and we wanted to send our deepest sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss. Max was a very brave boy and faught all the way to the end.

May peace and tranquility find its way into your hearts this New Year.

Prayers and thoughts being sent your way,
Maddie and Charley www.caringbridge.org/mn/maddie <madelinepaguyo@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 30, 2003 0:07 AM CST

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May God send his army of angels, with wide open wings, to wrap you in warmth and peace, and sustain you during this most difficult moment in your lives. You are always in our prayers.
Bill and Steve <sjrwam@aol.com>
Grand Rapids, MI USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:02 PM CST

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I am so sorry for your physical loss of your son, Max. Please know he will always be around you in spirit.
We lost our granddaughter to AML as well. I got here through Kody's site.
May the Lord bless and keep you and may the many wonderful memories you have of Max give you comfort.

Many hugs from Karen
Karen LaMountain <AngelGrammaL@netscape.net>
Selkirk, NY USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 8:27 PM CST

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Dear Adams family~
We have been holding you all up in prayer and will continue. We are so very sorry for your loss and send prayers of peace to help you through each moment of the days ahead without Max. Hold onto each other and know that God has His arms wrapped around you all as you journey into this next chapter. Max has become a part of all of us from your sharing his journey so eloquently, openly and honestly. He has been such a gift to us all, and has touched so many peoples lives. We continue our prayers for you all during this difficult time.
Love, hugs, and peace,

Pam and Lou Mertz & family <mertznes@ix.netcom.com>
St. Michael, MN - Monday, December 29, 2003 8:26 PM CST

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words cannot say how we feel for your loss...
karen and sammi www.caringbridge.org/ny/sammip <mpbowler1@aol.com>
- Monday, December 29, 2003 7:11 PM CST

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Thinking of you all and praying for peace and strength for your family.
Donna <ldvolz@msn.com>
Earlham, IA - Monday, December 29, 2003 7:09 PM CST

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Hi to All, I can't even imagine how hard the last couple of days have been for you all with making all the plans. Just know we have you in our Prayers and thoughts. God will be with you and help you get through this very hard time. You have such faith and that will be your comfort now. God Bless you All. We are sending a BIG HUG, just close your eyes and feel it. Love, Darlene & Loren
Loren & Darlene Bauman <dlbauman@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, ND USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 7:03 PM CST

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hi from Christie's Aunt Jana---
wanted to let you know that i have been
thinking about you all very often the past
two days.....
this club stinks.....
with love........

jana allfree <kjid86@msn.com>
mesa, az - Monday, December 29, 2003 6:25 PM CST

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Dear Adams family, I found your website through Ryan Holt's (Cari is my cousin). I have been following Max's progress and just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss! You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Renee Sjoblom
Plymouth, Mn - Monday, December 29, 2003 6:12 PM CST

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I am so sorry about your loss... I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I found Max's page a few months ago thru Katia's page and have been checking on him every day. What an adorable little boy!! He lived his life to the fullest and I can see that by how happy he looks in the pictures you have posted... My thoughts are with your family.
Dana
Tampa, FL - Monday, December 29, 2003 5:55 PM CST

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I am so sorry. I, like many others cannot find the words to express my sadness, except to say that I am so sorry. You have been incredibly strong for so long. I only pray for God to continue to administer his strength to hold you up in the days ahead. My family and I will continue to lift you up in prayer and keep you close in our hearts as you begin a new journey. God Bless all of you...
All our love...
Jill (Hendricks), George & Baby George Moore <jmoore22203@yahoo.com>
Sartell, MN US - Monday, December 29, 2003 4:42 PM CST

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I am sorry to hear about Max...I will miss him a lot. I hope your family will be ok. I remember when he was only a baby. He was so cute! Tell Bailey and Sam hi for me and tell them I am thinking about him everyday. I am very sorry. I hope you will be fine and same to everyone in your family. See ya later!
Shannon Boelter <Bjboelter@comcast.net>
Eagan, MN USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 4:02 PM CST

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Trish, Paul & Family,

I am so very sorry to hear of Max's passing. I'm sure you will miss him very much. Having read through Max's journey of the last year and last few months, I am also so glad to hear that Max is safe with Jesus - happy and free of pain where he will be watching over you and your family.

Please accept our sincerest condolences.

Beth & Tom Irsfeld & family <tirsfeld@cableone.net>
Fargo, ND USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 4:00 PM CST

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To the Adams families we pray for your time in the next few days and know we are with you in thought and wish we could be there in person. God give you strength.
Arlene and Dean Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.D. USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 3:13 PM CST

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Samantha, I think you put your heart into your words and maybe you would like to journal your 4 years with a precious bother, Max. You can put all your sad and happy thoughts on paper and it will be so special. Your Great. Arlene
Arlene and Dean Helling <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, N.D. USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 3:11 PM CST

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Today, tomorrow and the
days ahead that will begin your
new journey as a family, know
that you are being held close in prayer
and constantly in our thoughts.

Feeling at a loss of what to
say or do, we decided to drive to
the mountains tonight to be a little
closer to the heavens as we pray for you
when Max's visitation begins.

Sending love and prayers from Colorado!
Cathy and Tom <catherine_coulter@entegris.com>
Colorado Springs, CO - Monday, December 29, 2003 2:58 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
We were introduced to Max through Ryan Jacob's website early last year. Although we have never left a note, we have quietly followed and prayed along through Max's journey. Our hearts are broken for your loss and we will hold you all in prayer from a distance. Please accept our deepest sympathies and condolences. Your love for each other will be the place from where the strength will come.
God bless you all and God bless Max. In His love,
Rob and Wendy Thomson <yonfa@aol.com>
Orlando, FL - Monday, December 29, 2003 2:10 PM CST

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Trish, Paul, Sam, Parker, Bailey
You are in my heart. I am so sorry.

If I don't impact the world in ways as profoundly as your beautiful Maxwell did in four short years, then shame on me.

In my prayers to my angel - Mac - I have asked for an agreement: If Max came his direction, he would be there with love and support for Max and I will be here with love and support for you in any way that I can. Please just know that.

Be kind and gentle to yourselves and each other.

Sincerely,
Kim Lovrich
Kim Lovrich <kim@sparekey.org>
White Bear Lake, MN USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 1:57 PM CST

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Paul & Trish, Michelle and I were very saddened by the news of your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Scott & Michelle Alcon
Scott Alcon <scott@ammortgage.org>
Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, December 29, 2003 12:47 AM CST

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We are so sorry to hear that Max is gone. He was a true inspiration to Sean at the hospital. Everytime Sean would whine about having to take his laps around the 8th floor, or would complain about swallowing more pills, we would always remind Sean that if a 3 year old can do it all with a smile so could he! We were blessed to have known him if only for such a short time. We take comfort in believing he is now a guardian angel keeping watch over Sean on his long road to recovery. May God grant you peace and strength during these next few days. We regret that we will be unable to attend his memorial as we are leaving this afternoon for Sean's hockey tournament in Duluth. We will be with you in spirit, and wishing there was more we could do. All our love and prayers.
Mark, Beth and Sean
Mark and Beth Ollhoff and Sean Bevans <mollhoff@msn.com>
Woodbury, mn - Monday, December 29, 2003 12:03 AM CST

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Trish & Family,

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Mom has kept me informed of all of the goings on over the past couple years and you've been in our prayers and hearts. You will continue to be in our prayers.
Kathy & Katlynn Wolf <lonewolf196898@aol.com>
Piedmont, SD 57769 - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:43 AM CST

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Just returned from Mankato and learned of Max's death. I am so very sorry and know how heart broken you all are. My thoughts and prayers are for you this day. With much love,
Barbara Mach <jmach@iw.net>
Yankton, SD USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:41 AM CST

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May the Lord hold each of you so closely that His comfort fills you to the depths of your soul, and His love overwhelms you. I am a friend of the Jacobs from Kansas City, holding you in my prayers.

Pam Read
Kansas City, MO USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:33 AM CST

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I am praying for your strength. I pray for your comfort in knowing the priceless gifts you gave your son during his time with you. I have so many great memories of you and Max at Children's. I know my Kyle was there to embrace him. Love to all of you.
Heidi www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylemyle <heidijo329@yahoo.com>
New Prague, MN - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:28 AM CST

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The Adams Family
My heart is breaking for you all during this extremely difficult time. The only comfort is knowing that your precious Max is with Jesus and that all the pain has passed. Thank you for sharing Max with all of us. We've all laughed, cheered and prayed right along with you. Now we share your tears too for such a sweet, special, beautiful and courageous little boy. I will continue to pray for you all and words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Know I will be there with you tomorrow in spirit. May God bless you.
Peggy Vidal <pvidal@rcrh.org>
Rapid City, SD - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:13 AM CST

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Sam

You are such a bright and beautiful young lady. Your positive strength and faith in God's words are felt by us all. Reading your posts always puts a smile on my face as I'm sure they do the same for many others.
Love you
Kim <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:12 AM CST

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Just wanted you to know that we are grieving and crying with you today. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Team Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Monday, December 29, 2003 11:08 AM CST

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Trish, Paul & Kids,
For months now I have tried to figure out how to put in words what my heart and head were both thinking and feeling. I'm sure I won't do justice to it now, but I will try.

To try and explain just how sorry we are is impossible. When the doctors told us that Ryan had a 50% chance of survival we accepted the odds and moved forward praying and knowing that he would be in the better half of the percent. When we found out he wasn't, we eagerly searched for the childeren that would be and we just knew one of them would be Max. The peace that came with knowing that Max would make it gave us the strength we needed to climb out of the hole we felt we were in. As painful and sad as it was to lose Ryan, we needed to believe that the doctors were right and that some kids would survive. That was our hope, our dream, our prayer, our sanity, our everything. We have kept in contact with you and your family through caringbridge every day and celebrated in heart with the success of his transplant, and his release from the University. Then when we read about his relapse, we were again, drowning in despair.

Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of a wonderful son, brother and friend. What is our loss...is definitely heavens gain.
Brenda (Ryan Holts Aunt)
Champlin, MN - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:36 AM CST

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Our hearts are aching for you but we know that God will send you comfort and lift you up. We lost our 26-year old son in a car accident five years ago (in January) and know it never feels right to bury your child. We prayed for you and are still doing so. Please accept our deepest sypathy for your loss.
Drew Richter's grandparents, Karen and Bob Wallgren <karenbob02@hotmail.com>
Wadena, Mn. USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 9:55 AM CST

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Dick & Dee
We are so sorry for the loss of your Grandson. I know that He is a better place and that he is not suffering anymore and I know that you know that too. May God be with all of you at this time of loss.
Would you please send me your E-Mail address again as everytime I have used it I get the sent article back. Im sorry!
Gordon & Sharon
Gordon & Sharon <gbsaaas@midstatetel.com>
Stanley, ND USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 9:33 AM CST

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I am so sorry for your loss and all the pain that you ALL had to endure--not just Max. I know that there is comfort knowing that he is no longer in pain and in the arms of Jesus. I also know that there is pain in the fact that you can no longer hold him in your arms. Please know that you will remain in my thoughts and prayers in the difficult times ahead.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Monday, December 29, 2003 9:24 AM CST

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My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this most dificult time. May god be with you all.
melissa <melissataylor@accesswave.ca>
haliax, ns Canada - Monday, December 29, 2003 9:23 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Sammy, Parker, and Bailey:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. As painful as it is today, all the beautiful memories last a lifetime. Knowing that MAX is your personal angel up above -- painfree and so very happy!
Lisa, Dean, Alex and Katie Schwindt and our "Angel Ryan" <LSchwindt@ValleySystems.com>
Phoenix, AZ - Monday, December 29, 2003 8:37 AM CST

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We found out about Max through Gabbie's website. We are so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Randy, Robin, Jake & Gracie Boger
Lewisville, NC - Monday, December 29, 2003 7:23 AM CST

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We are saddened and sorry beyond words by the news of the loss of your precious Max. I can just tell by his sparkling eyes and beautiful smile how much joy he brought to your lives and how much he will now be missed! He was blessed to be a part of such a wonderful family that loved him so very much. You are in our thoughts and prayers, now and always.

Kim and Andrew Marceau <amarceau@msn.com>
Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, December 29, 2003 6:45 AM CST

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No words can take the pain away but take comfort in that Max is with Jesus. I know your pain I have lost 2 boys. Lean on family and friends they will get you through this difficult time. God bless you

Carla <nelson2711@bwig.net>
buffalo, MN US - Monday, December 29, 2003 6:35 AM CST

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Adams Family,
I am so sorry to hear that Max lost his battle. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless.

Michelle <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 6:25 AM CST

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Hello. I read about Max on another childs site and stopped by to tell you that I am sorry for your Loss.I will pray that you are comforted in your loss by knowing that your sweet child is safe at home with our Heavenly Father.Lorraine
Lorraine <Lorrainecott@aol.com>
Pgh, PA USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 3:03 AM CST

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We want you to know that we are deeply saddened by your loss, but we do know that Max is in a much better place. He gets to be smiling with Jesus. WE do not personally know you or your family, but your guest book touched our lives. We are praying for all of you. God is with you and we hope you can find a little comfort in that.
Psalm 18:2

You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
The Walk Family <smbt99@aol.com>
Woodbury, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 11:23 PM CST

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My heart aches for you tonight, your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Max is now free....free of cancer and is now smiling down on you from Heaven. May God be with all of you.
Brenda Hulst <BHulst654@AOL.com>
StCloud, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:44 PM CST

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Paul, Trish, Sammy, Parker, Baily, and Family,
Words cannot express how sad we feel that Max has died. It's comforting to know that his suffering is over and he is at peace. Max was one of a kind, so gentle and loving. He was a great kid to babysit (all your kids are). I loved reading books and doing puzzles with him, and was amazed that he loved to let others win when playing games. We hope that your happy memories of Max will carry you through the days ahead. We love you all,
Joanna and Sue Maki <jojo6_94@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:43 PM CST

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The loss of a child is one of the most difficult things a parent can face. Max was a very special and well-loved little boy who touched the lives of everyone around him.

Peace be with you during this trial.
Susan Wensel
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:28 PM CST

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Dearest Adams Family,
Words cannot express my deepest sorrow and sympathy in the death of Max. I so enjoyed my time spent with him in the hospital and meeting your family. Max, I am assured is being held in the arms of and has kissed the face of God. May you be comforted in that knowledge and blessed by His peace. Barb Cant, massage therapist at Children's hosp.
Barb Cant <wcant@comcast.net>
Shoreview, MN USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:13 PM CST

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I am praying for your family. I found this poem on another caringbridge site and pray that it will bring some comfort.

Just Because

Just because I no longer
stand in front of your eyes
doesn't mean you can't see me.
Close them,
I am there.

Just because I no longer
answer when you call my name
doesn't mean you can't hear me.
Speak softly, listen carefully,
there is my voice.

Just because I can no longer
touch your hands
doesn't mean you can't feel me.
Hold on to another,
my arms are there.

Just because I am no longer there
to show you that I love you
doesn't mean my love is gone.
Place your hand on your heart,
feel its beat.
I am there.

Know that I am with God.

Know that God is with you.

And in that we are still with each other.

Just because.....

Kim Waggoner <W8k@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 9:14 PM CST

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Your family is in our thoughts and prayers as you face the days ahead. Our deepest sympathies go out to you.
Marna Frick <marnafrick@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/nd/reesefrick>
Watford City, ND - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:41 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family, When I see the picture of Max on his website, laughing and happy, with his eyes sparkling, I think this must be what he's like now in heaven.....pain free, and enjoying trying out his new wings. God bless.
Linda Barrett <Read1999@aol.com>
Overland Park, KS - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:09 PM CST

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Paul, Trish and family,
We heard about this horrible news while vacationing in DisneyWorld. While we were there, we spoke often about Max while recalling the photos and journal entries about his visit. These are the memories I hope come to mind when you think about your precious son. At this moment, we remember Max's grandparents whom he never had the chance to know. Now Don and Noreen will be able to be with their precious grandson and their love will welcome him into heaven. All our love.

Aunt Irene and Cousin Jim
Irene Del Giudice and Jim Del Giudice <jimdel10@hotmail.com>
Schiller Park, IL - Sunday, December 28, 2003 6:40 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
Last year our class heard about Max and his illness through the Heine family (Alex was in my class). We prayed for him every morning during our morning prayer. Even though Alex moved on to 4th grade, Max's name was well known in our school. My class this year still prayed for Max and I know will be very sadden when we go back to school and we tell them the news. I can promise you that we will still pray for Max and your family.
michelle moser (Sacred Heart School) <mmoser_67@yahoo.com>
yankton, sd usa - Sunday, December 28, 2003 5:45 PM CST

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Samantha, The love in your heart seems to flow through your fingers to the printed page--that is so uplifting for all of us. We are grateful that you share so freely, while some of us wonder what to say. You are a blessing to so many!
Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 5:43 PM CST

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Sammy:
We loved reading your entry. You are very sweet! Max will watch over you and the rest of your family each and every day from heaven - you can be sure of that! He was lucky to have his big sister there for him!! : )
The Ruhlands <sjruhland@aol.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 5:15 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family
Our heart breaks for all of you. When I shared the news with Ian and Duncan today, Ian said, "not Max!". He had a special fondness for Max when he found out that they shared a love for Spiderman. Trish, you have been such an inspiration to me, I hope that I can do something to help you through the coming days, weeks, months and years.
Laura
Masica Family (www.caringbridge.org/mn/duncanmasica) <lmasica@msn.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 5:09 PM CST

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Dearest Trish, Paul, Sam, Parker & Bailey,
I don't know what to say...I am so saddened and so shocked to hear of Max's passing...I have no words that would or could ease your pain, so I just wanted to come by and let you all know that my heart is with each and everyone of you and that you all remain in my prayers...Max was a gorgeous little boy whom I truly feel honoured to have "met" and "known"...he was the biggest Spiderman fan I have ever come across and will always be. And he will NEVER be forgotten...I am thankful and grateful for his incredibly journey and especially thankful for having had the chance to be a part of it. And I am thankful that he had one last Christmas with his family. You each now have your very own special guardian angel...thinking of you and praying for you...

~*~*Girlie's Page*~*~

All my love,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice <janiceliew1981@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, December 28, 2003 4:59 PM CST

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All the time, something there is a feelings which people couldn't resist go to Heaven as walk to the light. As when Max's soul whooshed away from his body and he feel lots of loves from us more and felt warmth inside as he walk to the lights of God and Heaven. He couldn't resist to stopped walk. He is now in God and Jesus's arms. He was an angel before he died. He's angel in Heaven. He is angel for all forever.
Sometimes, I feel like I can see him or feel him. He's in my heart. I am glad that Max is no longer suffering and no longer have terrible cancer. He is free, which he could fly, laughing, running, and everything even crawl up the wall just like his favorite superhero... Spiderman.
Max, You are my hero. Go to Heaven and be with God which he will watch you for your Mommy and me. I love you so much as stars which I couldn't keep up countings, but now You can... maybe you feel like there is limited stars, but I love you so unlimited! Be with God, please do that for me!
Sammy <Lulangela32@aol.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 4:39 PM CST

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Our hearts are breaking for you all at the loss of your "Miracle Max"

God Bless,
Tracy and Brian
Tracy Hilfrank <TCHILFRANK@comcast.net>
Norfolk, Ma USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 4:33 PM CST

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I am so sorry to hear that your precious son max passed away. Im praying for you during this tragic time.
Kim Dale Kyle Andrew Ryan <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 4:01 PM CST

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I am heartbroken to see another adorable boy taken away from a loving family. My heart goes out to you all. Max is now cancer free and laughing and smiling with everyone in Heaven.
Ashley Cohn <amcohn@iastate.edu>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 3:40 PM CST

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My heart is broken again, with another loss to Leukemia. I know there are no words to comfort you at this time, but Max is finally cancer-free and frolicking up in Heaven. My deepest heartfelt thoughts are with your family. Praying for comfort and strength for you all. It is not something you will ever get over....but surround yourselves with the lifetime memories of Max.

My deepest condolences,
Vicki Hoffman - Anaheim, CA <vhoffman@yahoo.com>
Mike Hunter’s Memorial Website , - Sunday, December 28, 2003 3:01 PM CST

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May God be with you Max.
Claire Dolce
Middletown, CT USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 2:39 PM CST

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Paul, Trish, Sammy, Parker and Bailey...
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you. Max will always be an inspiration of strength. So will all of you. Love you very much..
Jane, Chris and Kalani
Jane Lewis <jkl_99@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 2:09 PM CST

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I am sorry to read about the loss of your dear Max. We lost our 3 1/2 year old son last year to a brain tumor and I know the pain you feel is unbearable. Until we see our angels again I will keep you in my prayers.
Laura <kw63958@alltel.net>
NE - Sunday, December 28, 2003 1:07 PM CST

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"If tears could build a stairway
and memories a lane, I'd walk right
up to Heaven and bring you home again."


Shannon <humphity319@aol.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 12:14 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker and Bailey,
I haven't written in your guestbook as I am just at such a loss for words. But I did want you all to know that we're also thinking of you, like so many others. Max has had quite an impact on so many -- strangers like us, too. What a special guy!! Please know that you will continue to be in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers.
P.S. My husband and I (and our son, Ashton) live in VA but are originally from SD (and are currently visiting in Aberdeen right now).
Sheri & Ashton (www.wherethereishope.com) <snschaffer@cox.net>
Vienna, VA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 11:38 AM CST

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I am so sorry, early on we were so excited that Max made it through this hell on earthand was on his way to recovery and to return to normal childhood as much as possible. We were broken when we heard that he had relapsed. Max is a fighter and you as parents did very well in this journey. Max, Kyle and Noah are running together full of life and smiles on their sweet faces enjoying the grace and love of God. The pain for us is unbearable but we don't have to run this race and watch our children suffer. We will pray for yu guys in the weeks ahead and pray for God's peace upon your home. I am so sorry you have to bear this. We love you guys.

Jason and Heidi Schafbuch www.caringbridge.org/mn/noahjay <onlocation02@juno.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 11:21 AM CST

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My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. I cannot imagine the heart pain you are going through. May you take peace and comfort in knowing that Max is now an angel flying free and without pain. God Bless you all.

Sandi Marquis <cxelady@yahoo.com>
Cantonment, FL - Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:28 AM CST

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I wish I had some words to say that would make everything better, but I know I do not. I am so sorry for for your loss. At least he is no longer in pain and can do all the things a child should. May God give you strength.
Cathy Rusyniak <Garbmike@optonline.net>
Rockaway, nj - Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:07 AM CST

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To the Adams family:
I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face and I do not know what to say. I have seen too many kids and adults lost to cancer in the past few years and I want to scream. I am trying to think of encouraging loving words to say to you but at the moment I am feeling so much sadness and anger that nothing is coming. As you know, it is very difficult to be in this community of cancer kids but I am so glad to have met families like yours. You have been and continue to be a great example of faith, strength and grace to others. Thank you for that. I also want to say that I truly believe Max is in heaven which is a much more wonderful place that this world we know and treasure. I am so glad to have that faith in times like this. We will continue to pray for your family and will never forget your precious Max. God be with you,
Christine and Barry Hay , Camryn, Jackson, Lydia and baby 4 <barryhay@comcast.net>
Corcoran, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 10:01 AM CST

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Hello, I came across your site through another site. I just read about Max's passing,I'm soo extremely sorry for you and your family. I really didn't expect to see those words today. My heart goes out to you - he is such a cute little boy, and from what a read he has a strong fighting spirit. I'm praying for you guys and wish you the best healing.
Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net>
Bensalem, PA USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 9:13 AM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, and Family,

The night Grandpa Ed left us, there was a huge storm. The rain was blowing horizontally, there was thunder and lightning...it was one of the most intense storms I have ever seen. I have always believed that it was Grandpa's way of telling us that he had arrived at his final destination.

Last night, the clouds covered all but a few bright, stubborn stars that refused to be extinguished. The winds tore at the trees and rattled our windowpanes. And this morning, I found that it had been raining during the night. As I write this now, the winds have diminished to a gentle breeze and the sun is struggling to burst out from behind the clouds. I truly believe that last night's storm was Max letting us know that he has arrived in Heaven and is safe in the arms of those who have gone before him and waiting to see those he left behind again.

My thoughts are constantly with you all,
Jennifer
Jennifer Adam <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:49 AM CST

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Dear Adams Family,

I know of you through Jodi and Rachel, both at Childrens and at their praise service. My heart aches for you at this time and I wish there were words of comfort adequate for this task. I will continue to pray for Max and for healing and peace for your family. God bless.
Jahna Lindquist <jahna23@yahoo.com>
St. Paul, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:47 AM CST

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Your family is in our prayers as we remember the impact your son has made in our lives. God bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Michon Hemenway <michonhemenway@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:35 AM CST

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Trish and Family:
My heart breaks for all of you. Thank you for allowing us all to get to know Max through your words. His amazing strength and smile will remain with me. Tyler is with Max helping him - know that I am here for you. Anytime.
Claudia <markacohn@aol.com>
Deephave, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:35 AM CST

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Adams Family

We are very sorry for your loss. May God continue to Bless and Keep You in His Care. Max is not in anymore pain and is with His Heavenly Father. God be with you in the days that lie ahead.

Gordon & Sharon Aas
Gordon & Sharon Aas <gbsaaas@midstatetel.com>
Stanley, ND USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 8:01 AM CST

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we love you dont know what else to say love love
rosie/daddy <love@juno.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 6:38 AM CST

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To the Adams family
We are very sad and sorry to hear/read about Max on Dec. 27
we don't know what to say at this time, you are all in our prayers today and everyday. We will miss Max.
Patti Kids Time aide and my family <mistyfloat@juno.com>
- Sunday, December 28, 2003 2:52 AM CST

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We are so very, very sorry for your loss. We will pray for your peace and comfort. God Bless,
Tracey, Steve, Quinn and Callum Ager xoxoxo BWC <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, - Sunday, December 28, 2003 2:47 AM CST

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Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker and Bailey,
I have a story to tell you that I hope will comfort you all. I wept when I heard the news and struggled for hours, what could I say to comfort you. I prayed and asked God to give me the words. I spent time reading entries to try to find the words, instead I found more tears. The words to comfort you did not come. I went upstairs to dry my eyes and compose myself and just like Max I had a moment of wonder. I looked out the window and there in the maple tree sat a dove. I can't explain the feeling that came over me but I knew it was a sign sent from above. I sat and pondered the meaning of this and my initial thought was peace, Max is now at peace. Later, I put Mackenzie to bed and laying next to her I picked up her children's bible and looked up dove. It read, "At Jesus' baptism, the Holy Spirit took the form of a dove, and this bird has remained a symbol of the Holy Spirit. The dove also symbolizes peace, love, gentleness, and forgiveness." These are all things Max has taught us. I then went to my bible and read Psalm 55:6, "And I said, Oh that I had wings like a dove! for then would I fly away, and be at rest." Max is at rest now with Jesus, may you find his peace, love, gentleness and forgiveness.

My love to you all,
Kelly Wallace
Kelly Wallace <WallaceKel@aol.com>
Champaign, Il USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 0:03 AM CST

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Dear Trish, Paul, Samantha, Parker, Bailey, Dee, Dick, and all others who have loved Max. I've thought all day of what to say to you. We cannot know what you feel, but we know that Max is at peace; that he is not sick anymore; that he is free to be his little superhero self. You've shared Max unselfishly with us through the many months of joys and disappointments. Though we can't be there to share your sorrow with you now, we know that your faith, family and friends will help to comfort you. May fond memories of happy times help you to smile and laugh again. With deepest sympathy and love,
Joyce & Leon Maggied <maggied34@mchsi.com>
Yankton, S.D. USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:14 PM CST

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I am in tears as I write this. I'm so sad that your precious son is no longer with you. I have 4 angels, so I understand some of your pain, but I sure wish I could make it feel better. RachelJoy and I are surrounding your family with long distance hugs and prayers. May God provide you with the grace you need for these very, very days - and nights. RachelJoy

Stephanie <sstrom@quik.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:08 PM CST

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I came here from another CaringBridge site. Your son is so handsome! I am so, so sorry Max lost his battle to cancer. I lost my 2 year old son to cancer in October this year, and I know Justin was waiting for Max with his arms open wide. This disease is truly a beast.
Again, my deepest, heartfelt sympathies. I'm crying with you!
Much love and peace,
Susan Armenio <barmenio@optonline.net>
New City, NY - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:58 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family, I know of Max and your family through the Jacob's family. Please accept my sympathy for your precious angle of God. My prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Kitty Colwell, a friend of Ryan Jacob's grandparents.
Katherine Colwell <kcolwell@kc.rr.com>
Overland Park, Ks. - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:47 PM CST

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Dear Paul Trish Sam Parker and Bailey, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that our prayers are with you in this time of sadness. Please find comfort in each other during this time. GOD BLESS each of you!!!
Shelly and Dave Strebel <s88bullit@msn.com>
Plymouth, MN USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:46 PM CST

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We love you guys so very much. Our hearts our breaking for the loss of sweet Max, but so very, very grateful he is free of everything that comes with this terrible cancer.

It's time to remember... you can be sure our memories of Max will always include that shy little smile we could always get out of him when he and Ryan were together. And, a great baseball hat on his head! He was the coolest kid we knew -What other kid could know so much about Spiderman at 3?

We are walking this with you and there is no talking us out of it. We pray that peace comes, and surrounds all of you as you get through this very tough week.

Much love,
Liz Jacobs <wearejacobs6@aol.com>
Shakopee, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:28 PM CST

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Many prayers of comfort for you and your family. Rejoicing that Max is no loner in pain and playing with Jesus in heaven.
Melissa <mehartley7@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:26 PM CST

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I have to share with you what Rachel said tonight as I tucked her into bed. She looked at me with that three-year-old innocence and said, "Mommy, is Max driving Jesus' car?" I chuckled and answered, "Jesus doesn't have a car." "Does he have a truck?" The visual I got of that made me bust out laughing. I can just see Max, with his superhero cape flapping out the open windows, driving Jesus' black 4x4 at full bore down the golden streets of heaven. Oh, I hope you, too, can smile about that one.

In continued prayer,
Jodi & Rachel Hansen http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/rachelhansen <FlyingCook@aol.com>
Lakeville, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:05 PM CST

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Dearest Family
Although word's cannot begin to ease the sorrow of your loss, please know that you are in the Prayers of so many who care.
God's Grace be with you.
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:43 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
May God's love surround you as you experience the loss of Max. May he have everlasting happiness! Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. Your sorrow of today makes us more aware of the value and beauty of life everywhere. Strength and peace to all of you.
Love, Jack and Margaret Lyons
Margaret Lyons <lyons808@byelectric.com>
Yankton, SD USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:37 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
May God's love surround you as you experience the loss of Max. May he have everlasting happiness! Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. Your sorrow of today makes us more aware of the value and beauty of life everywhere. Strength and peace to all of you.
Love, Jack and Margaret Lyons
Margaret Lyons <lyons808@byelectric.com>
Yankton, SD USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:36 PM CST

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I just learned of Max's site from Cheyenne's. I will certainly keep your family in my prayers in the upcoming days, weeks, and months. I am SO sorry for your loss. May God's peace surround your family in unexplainable ways.
Kendra Simpson <kbusyboys@wmconnect.com>
Asheville, NC - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:35 PM CST

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I'm so sorry to hear of your precious Max departing today. I know that he must be happy as ever to be free of pain and to be carried in the loving arms of Jesus. But... we are still here, and that hurts. My words are inadequate, even being a grieving mother, myself. However this song brings me comfort sometimes... I can only HOPE that it will do the same for each of you. My prayers are with you and your family in this painful time of loss.

Steven Curtis Chapman-- With Hope

This is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you've gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you, but ...

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
(There's a place by God's grace)
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again

And never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
And never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father's smile and say well done
And I imagine you
Where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home
And now you're free, and ...

We have this hope as an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything
God promised us is true, so ...

We wait with hope
And we ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope
Loretta Bjorvik (Kendall's Mom) http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Kendall <careermome@yahoo.com>
Warrenville, (suburb of Chicago), IL USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:34 PM CST

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Dear Trish, Paul and Family,

I am so deeply sorry and saddened to hear of your sweet Max's passing. I will give my children a hug for dear Max tonight. I wish for you the strength to rediscover some family peace.

Bless,
Terry Josephson <tjosephson@shaw.ca www.caringbridge.org/canada/julianna>
Winnipeg, Canada - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:20 PM CST

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Trish and Paul,
We wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Michell, David, and Patrick Caldwell
Michelle Caldwell <mhcbball@earthlink.net>
Minnetonka, MN US - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:20 PM CST

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. I pray you will find comfort and strenght in each other through this hard time.

Marcella <mrivers@gowebco.com>
Hernando, Fl - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:52 PM CST

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I sit here with such sadness and tears
running down my face, yet I cannot
begin to comprehend what you are going
through and the unbelievable loss!
Please know because of your giving of
yourselves and sharing Max with all of us
for so long, you are not alone!
You are all loved so very much.
May God give you the strength -
All of my prayers and love are with
you.
Cathy <catherine_coulter@entegris.com>
Colorado Springs, CO - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:45 PM CST

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Dear Trish and Paul,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are by the loss of Max. We wanted so much for you to be spared the pain that we feel. In our hearts Ryan and Max were an extension of one another. I prayed so many times asking that if Ryan had to be leave us, couldn't Max surely be saved? I will never understand but know that God's plan must be very important for Max to have to leave you so suddenly. We pray for your strength but please know that we are here for you to lean on as well.
Sending lots of love to you and your family,
Cari and Jeff Holt <cari_holt@hotmail.com caringbridge.org/mn/ryanholt>
Buffalo, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:45 PM CST

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Dear Trish, Paul, Sammy, Parker and Bailey,

The day we all hoped and prayed would never come....has. I am truly sorry from the bottom of my soul.
Max was born 2 months after Amy died of AML. I would like to think that she has been with him all along coaching him on. I'd like to share with you a memorial that we chose for Amy. It was perfect for her and I feel it fits for Little Max.
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I'd like the memory of me to
be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow
of smiles when day is done.
I'd like to leave an echo
whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing
times and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who
grieve, to dry before the sun,
Of happy memories that I leave
behind when day is done.

With deep sympathy, Linda Johannessen (Judy Dearduff's friend) <leli21@aol.com>
Fairhaven, MA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:25 PM CST

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We are so so sorry. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We pray for God to give you all strength and comfort until you are with Max again!
Rene, Chuck, Lindsay and Alyssa Bagne <rmbagne@cox.net>
Chesapeake, VA USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:08 PM CST

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There are no words to express the sorrow for your tremendous loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Team Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:02 PM CST

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There are no words to express the depth of our sorrow. Please know that your family is in our hearts and our prayers.
Mary Jean, Alex and Nick Jacobson <txgalnmn@aol.com>
Eagan, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:33 PM CST

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Dear Bailey,
I feel bad that you are crying but I am going to tell you something. Max can be anywhere when he is an angel. OK, Bailey. Now you can stop crying. I hope I will see you soon.
Love,
Sydney
Sydney Hall <mgeier@mn.rr.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:06 PM CST

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I am so sorry for your loss. Max is in he arms of the angels now. I will pray for you all.
Judy Clark
Jacksonville, Fl - Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:05 PM CST

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To Max's most wonderful Mom and Dad...
I am so truly sorry and heartbroken. May God give you the strength to continue in your journery until that beautiful day when you are together again.
With love...
Kim Kruppenbacher
~KODYS STORY~ <kodysmom1995@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:54 PM CST

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Dear Family of Angel Max~
I am so sorry for your loss, please accept my heartfelt sympathy. May God be with you all.
Aunt of Angel ^^Chaser^^

Lisa Faiello <LRFilo@aol.com>
OH - Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:53 PM CST

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Dear Max,

Bethlehem's Rose blooms for you. It's time to run and play and laugh as you piggy back around heaven on Jesus' shoulders. Have fun little MAN. We'll miss you for a while; we'll see you soon!

Dear Paul, Trish, Sammy, Parker and Bailey,

At Christmas Eve service, Pastor Tom Stoebig removed one white rose from a huge bouquet and laid it across the advent wreath. He talked to us and explained how Bethlehem's Rose (Jesus) blooms for us. Jesus' love stand more sure than anything and he blooms through each of us. I wonder how many of us grew closer to Jesus with Max as our teacher. That night, the congragation joined together in prayer for Max and you. I know Jesus heard. Jordan, Alexandr and I continue our prayers. God bless you.
JoEllen Maxymek <jodi_maxymek@rdale.k12.mn.us>
Crystal, MN USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:46 PM CST

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I knew Max only through some friends, but it is so obvious to see the lives he has touched. I wish I could have met him, but he will always be alive in my mind through the memories shared by others. I can only trust that God needed one more angel to help him with teaching us how precious life is.

My prayers and the prayers of my large extended family are with you and your family throughout this time.

Thank you, Max, for helping me to appreciate life and face it bravely.

Thank you to the Adams family for sharing Max with us and allowing us to celebrate his life with you.
Michael, Connor & Emily <mehr@twmi.rr.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:43 PM CST

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How odd to have been awakened by a dream at 600am. I was dreaming of our Christmas celebration a week ago. I was taking a picture of Max opening his present and he looked up at me with that big grin-smiling ear to ear about that new power ranger. Thank you Max for a image I can hold forever. Sleep in peace my little man and we will be home soon to be with your family.We love all of you and only wish that we could be with you right now.
love Auntie Linda
Linda Adams <traveloptions@comcast.net>
Plymouth, - Saturday, December 27, 2003 5:51 PM CST

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Hi Max,
I know you can't read this like you used to but I'm sure you'll find a way of checking your page out from wherever you are seeing who dropped in to say hello. I've been thinking about you a lot today, hoping your in heaven somewhere having fun with all the other angels. Hoping you send us a rainbow soon. Sending my love to all your family.
Sara
Visit Sams Page
sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Saturday, December 27, 2003 5:41 PM CST

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Trish, Paul, Sammy, Parker, and Bailey,

Our hearts are filled with sorrow and pain for you all as this journey has ended in the way we all had hoped and prayed that it would not. We are so sad and know that the pain in our hearts cannot even touch the pain and sorrow that you and your family feel today. Take comfort in knowing that Max is now in the arms of our loving Father in heaven; forever free from pain and illness, surrounded now by only greatness and love. There are no tears or pain or needles in heaven and Max is very happy where he is now, watching over his family as a perfect little angel! (Something we all want our children to be!)

You and your family will be in our prayers, for the strength to get through this very tough time; that the empty feeling your hearts might hold will slowly diminish and that you are comforted by the loving hands of our Father who knows the pain and sadness that you feel.

Our love to you and your extended family,

Teri and Dave Stefonowicz and Brittney, Chris and Ben

Stefonowicz <stefon@msn.com>
Lakeville, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 5:36 PM CST

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Trish, Paul, Samantha, Parker & Bailey

This is my fourth attempt to try and say, I'm sorry; I'm sorry you have had to endure so much heartbreak; the pain may never go away but, hopefully someday it softens; we can't be there to hug you and tell you how much you all mean to us; we don't have the answers to the questions we all ask--Why? Why not...?; I'm just so, so sorry. On the day we meet Him and the streets of gold meet the shining face of His glory we'll understand the Whys and Why nots....but until then we'll remember. We'll remember what a special little boy--how much joy he spread to everyone and how much he lifted so many hearts. We'll remember he showed us so much love and strength, he reminded us how precious love and family really are. He was special and will always be that special "little man" in our hearts. For now, he is with Grandma, Jeanie, John and all of his friends that were received by God before him.

We hold you all close to heart and in prayer. Austin and Morgan are very worried about Sam, Parker and Bailey--as we all are. They have asked me to tell you that they are praying for you and not to be so sad...
Kim, Steve, Austin, Morgan <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 5:35 PM CST

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We are truly sorry for your loss. If you need additional room for family or friends from out of state or town, please let us know. We have a pull-out couch in our basement as our bedrooms are currently under remodeling. We'll be by later to bring some meals for you. Let us know if there's anything you might need.

The Christensons
Steve, Jacki, Paige, Cole and Erica
jacki christenson <jackiesteve22@att.net.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 5:27 PM CST

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Auntie Trish and Uncle Paul and family:
I am so SAd today and so sorry you could not find us. I will miss Max but I know that he will have a good time in heaven with Grandma and Grandpa and now they get to hold him.
Love Danny
Danny Adams <traveloptions@comcast.net>
Plymouth, - Saturday, December 27, 2003 5:24 PM CST

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Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
I am the gentle autumn's rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds
In circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there; I did not die.

Dear Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker & Bailey,
May you find comfort in each other and with God. I am so, so sorry.

Love,
Sue Ski
Sue Szulczewski <ski10458@msn.com>
Plymouth, MN U.S.A - Saturday, December 27, 2003 4:11 PM CST

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He will always be Miracle Max. He taught us all to Live, Love & Laugh every day. What a miracle his life was.
Peace to all of you.
Love,
Molly, John, Sydney & Joey Hall
Molly Hall <mgeier@mn.rr.com>
St. Louis Park, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 3:46 PM CST

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We are with you in thought and prayer.

Love,
The Gibson Family
michelle gibson <msgibs64@wideopenwest.com>
naperville, il - Saturday, December 27, 2003 3:38 PM CST

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My heart and prayers go out to you. The road ahead is long and painfull and you need all the extra prayers you can get.
my name is marta i have a child born with a termanel illness called trisomy 18 kayden is 2 and his web page can be found at www.caringbridge.org/mn/kayden we have spent many of days in childrens hospital with our little one, he goes again this month for surgery, as i have walked in your shoes i know your daily pain,today i do not wish to even imagain how painfull this must be for you, you have a cute and wonderfull liitle boy who now will be watching over you every step of the way till you meet again in heaven. i pray that god holds you close, and never lets go.
marta
marta <martamcclanahan@msn.com>
Avon, MN usa - Saturday, December 27, 2003 3:27 PM CST

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Dearest Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker, and Bailey,
I'm so, so sorry.
With much Love and support,
The Kappes Family
Greg and Jenny Kappes <kappes@lakedalelink.net>
South Haven, mn - Saturday, December 27, 2003 3:25 PM CST

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Dear Paul, Trish, Sam, Parker and Bailey, It is with a heavy heart that I read your message. Max trully knew how much he was loved. We embrace you tenderly with our thoughts and prayers. Max is a little Angel in Heaven and is so very well taken care of. We just pray that God will give you strength and comfort. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Loren & Darlene
Loren & Darlene Bauman <dlbauman@westriv.com>
Golden Valley, ND USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:56 PM CST

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I have been checking on Max daily and praying that God would send him a miracle. I am so sorry for your loss and I can't even imagine your pain. I shed tears for you and for the life Max will not live but I know that he is without tears now and is watching over you like you watched over him. Please know that so many people care about you and your family.

Streets of Heaven

Hello God, it's me again. 2:00 a.m., Room 304.
Visiting hours are over, time for our bedside tug of war.
This sleeping child between us may not make it through the night.
I'm fighting back the tears as he fights for his life.

Well, it must be kind of crowded,
On the streets of Heaven.
So tell me: what do you need him for?
Don't you know one day he'll be your little boy forever.
But right now I need him so much more.
He's much too young to be on his own:
Barely just turned seven.
So who will hold his hand when he crosses the streets of Heaven?

Tell me God, do you remember the wishes that he made,
As he blew out the candles on his last birthday cake?
He wants to ride a pony when he's big enough.
He wants to marry his Mommy when he's all grown up.

Lord, don't you know he's my angel
You got plenty of your own
And I know you hold a place for him
But he's already got a home
Well I don't know if you're listenin'
But praying is all that's left to do
So I ask you Lord have mercy, you lost a son once too

And it must be kind of crowded,
On the streets of Heaven.
So tell me: what do you need him for?
Don't you know one day he'll be your little boy forever.
But right now I need him so much more.
Lord, I know once you've made up your mind,
There's no use in beggin'.
So if you take him with you today, will you make sure he looks both ways,
And would you hold his hand when he crosses the streets of Heaven.

~Sherrie Austin~

Take Care & Stay Strong,

Laura, Don, Shaun, Tiffany, Angela, Christopher, Sarah & Ashley

The Hinkle Family <lhinkle@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, NC USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:35 PM CST

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Praying for all of you. So sad to hear the news this morning, but also rejoicing that Max is painfree and with Jesus, standing watching over you now.

Vickie Whicker
nc - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:33 PM CST

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My heart broke this morning when I received the call about little Max.I have tried to write this letter for an hour and can not come up with the right words.Just know that all of the Lombard families feel you terrible pain. May the tears you shed now be replaced with joyful memories of a little life sweetly celebrated. God bless you all. Carol lombard
Carol , Joe, Weston and Gabrielle Lombard <lombardsjc@aol.com>
Stillwater, MN Washington - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:30 PM CST

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Word alone can not express our feelings. Just know that we are praying for the whole family to get through this until such time you will be reunited with Max. God Bless you all.

Cheyenne's dad
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5
Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
san angelo, tx - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:17 PM CST

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I am so sorry to hear of Max's passing. He has been in my prayers and so has your family. I will continue to pray for you to get through this sad time. I didn't know you or Max but the minute I saw the cute picture of him on your site I was hooked. What an adorable little boy. Take care and God Bless.
Jami <jamstein@aol.com>
Billings, MT - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:58 PM CST

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May love surround you
May faith sustain you
May hope encourage you
Day by day

Amy, Mom to Angel Delaney, 4/9/96 - 1/7/2002, dx. AML Leukemia 2/6/01, fought courageously for 11 months, and Kevin, 11, with ADD, loves tennis and roller coasters.
Delaney's website: www.caringbridge.com/ca/delaney
Amy, Mom of Angel Delaney and Kevin, age 11 <Wright_Amy@hotmail.com>
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:41 PM CST

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OUR LOVE, OUR HUGS, OUR STRENGTH,OUR PRAYERS FOR PAUL,TRISH,SAMMY,PARKER AND BAILEY AND OF COURSE ALL YOUR EXTENDED FAMILIES AND FRIENDS WHO CRY TEARS WITH YOU. LUV. ARLENE AND DEAN
ARLENE AND DEAN HELLING <rafterhranch@westriv.com>
GOLDEN VALLEY, N.D. USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:40 PM CST

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Adams', I can not begin to imagine the depth of your sorrow and emptiness and pain. And I know I'd have to throw anger in there too. It makes no sense, its unfair, and I will never understand it. I cant begin to think of words enough to express how badly I feel for your unthinkable loss, so will just express my deepest condolences....
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:38 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the death of your sweet Max. We can only imagine the emotions you are dealing with right now. We hope that you will find peace in your faith and in knowing that Max is now flying ABOVE "Where Eagles Fly."

Our continued prayers to you, your family and all the friends who love Max.

God bless you,
The Frisby-Griffin Family
Connie, Danny and LaRae F-G <cdlfg@sprynet.com>
Wichita Falls, TX - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:32 PM CST

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Love does not end with death, & your wonderful memories with Little Max can not be distroied by death. Trish & Paul my sympathy for you,& and may the prayers for strength, comfort & the loving arms of Jesus wrap you in Gods love. Now Max joins the heavenly celebration of Christmas & praise to God. I believe that there was a group of loving souls of which my Cole was one welcoming Max with open arms to the heaavenly city to sign praises. I also believe Max continues to love his family & I'll send you a little booklet that shows us in scripture where that is true. It was such a comfort to me to know that Cole continues to love me from where he is at his heavenly home. Gods blessing during these days ahead. Judy

Judy Strom Dearduff <hdearduff@siouxvalley.net>
Dell Rapids, SD USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:28 PM CST

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Dear Adams' family: Although we have never met your family we have been inspired by your courage and faith. Your family has been in our daily prayers for the past 15 months. We feel that we know you well. Our hearts go out to you at this time. Know that Max is in a better place--free of pain, needle sticks, and medication. That does not make your pain go away or any less but you have all fought that good fight. There has never been a family who has done more than you have--may your suffering lessen as you remember the good times and with the knowledge that you were there fighting right along with him all the way. He is in heaven with Jesus now, and smiling!!! God be with all of you. Deacon Leon and Judy Cantin, Yankton
Judy Cantin <lcantinh@iw.net>
Yankton, SD USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:02 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
It was with great saddness that I heard the news about Max today. I cannot think of the right words to say. Our hearts break for you. Even though we have never met, I feel like we know you all and we consider you our friends. We will continue to pray for Max and all of you.

You are a wonderful family. Your dignity and courage and grace serve as a model for all who visted Max' site. You are an inspiration to many.

Max' earthly suffering is over and his soul is receptive of our prayers. God bless and watch over all of you during this very sad time. You have our deepest most heartfelt sympathy. Love, The Albrechts
Lisa Albrecht
Jefferson Hills, PA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:00 PM CST

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I want to let you know that you are in our prayer's and thoughts.Just a little poem.


Just Because:

Just because I no longer
stand in front of your eyes
doesn't mean you can't see me.
Close them,
I am there.
Just because I no longer
answer when you call my name
doesn't mean you can't hear me.
Speak softly, listen carefully,
there is my voice.

Just because I can no longer
touch your hands
doesn't mean you can't feel me.
Hold on to another,
my arms are there.

Just because I am no longer there
to show you I love you
doesn't mean my love is gone.
Place your hand on your heart,
feel its beat.
I am there.

Know that I am with God.

Know that God is with you.

And in that we are still with each other.

Just because...



God be with you!!!!
Love,Steve,Debbie and LaKota
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St.Cloud, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:57 AM CST

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Even though I did not know Max personlly he was always in my prayers from the day I found out about him through my sister Lakota's mom. I know words will not help any parent that has gone through the loss of a child. My youngest son went to go be with the Good Lord four years ago on Easter at the age of nine. Know that God and other family members are with him now and one day you will also be with them. In his own way he will let you know that he is doing good and trust in that. We have no answers as of why this has to happen, only God knows. You are in my prayers that you will have peace in due time and know that Max is very happy also. God Bless you all.
Susie <JJTURTLE9@aol.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:54 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Sam, Parker, and Bailey,
You are all role models, every one of you. You made Max's life so full of love and happiness (and each other's lives). His short time here was filled with so much pleasure, joy, and unconditional love, that many who live long lives never experience. What a lucky little boy to have been given the gift that is your family. We are so proud of you. We wish we could ease your pain, we wish we were there to hug you and comfort you. Please feel us with you, please feel our prays for strength, peace, and comfort, please know we love you. In His love...Warren, Missy, Kasey, and Travis
" and now I'm glad I didn't know the way it all would end the way it all would go, and life is better left to chance, I could have missed the pain but then I would have missed the dance..."~Garth Brooks
Herman's <wmherman@btinet.net>
Beulah, ND - Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:51 AM CST

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Our daily prayers continue for your family as you go through this time of loss. God bless each of you.
L.Resinger/Resinger Motorsports <racing@i1.net>
Farmington, MO USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:42 AM CST

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I have started to write about a million times already today... and i am still not sure what to say... except how deeply saddned i am and how grateful i am too...
Sad becuase a beautiful child, a witty child, an intelligent child, and a couragious child has been taken home to Jesus today... Grateful because I got to know this amazing child, this loving child, this strong child and had the joy of spending time with him... Max you have taught me lots of things, most of all to believe in hope! whenever i hear that word i will think of you little buddy!
many many many hugs to you all! please know my prayers are with you and that i am asking the Lord to bring you peace.
Lindsi Lilledahl <lillin20@msn.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:35 AM CST

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I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Max. I do not know you or your family, but I have been reading the updates by way of the Ryans family. You are blessed that you had one more Christmas with your precious son, and he is with the Angels now. God Bless.
Andrea <andreabeard@sherbtel.net>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:34 AM CST

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I am so very sorry. Words cannot say how sorry I am. I wish I could just make all the pain go away, but I cannot. May you find the strength you need at this most difficult time. God bless you. Eileen
"Fly Max - run free sweetheart - keep an eye on your loving family and let them know you are happy, ok?"
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:18 AM CST

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I do not know your family personally but I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes as I type this. Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of your sweet son.
May happy memories comfort you as you go through this difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sabine Schaller <candeloop@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:05 AM CST

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So sorry. God be with you.
Cathy and Angel Joe <trossini@comcast.net>
IGH, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:40 AM CST

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My heart goes out to your entire family at the time of your terrible loss. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shelly Nicklay (www.caringbridge.org/mn/toridanielson) <rnicklay@comcast.net>
Eagan, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:39 AM CST

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When the warmth of the sun touches my face,
I see your smile and feel your embrace.

I hear the whisper of love in the wind
And I know that you are close to me again

The rain speaks of tears and the thunder of pain,
But soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim.

As the days come and go and the world moves on,
I know you're still here, you'll never be gone.

On the night the Angel came and took your hand,
We cried as you left for an unknown land.

But Heaven rejoiced as you came into sight,
For your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!

***I have a candle lit and I'm wearing my *Angel* pin. All in honor of you, Sweet Max. Fly on little buddy. Fly and be free.***


Shannon <humphity319@aol.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:36 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Sammy, Parker, and Bailey,

We are so sorry. Your family has been an inspiration to all. Max was truly a special gift. I'm sure he is chasing rainbows and playing with Jesus. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love,
Karen, Rob, Meghan, Connor and Danny
The Laughlin's <Irishkrgl@aol.com>
Edina, MN US - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:33 AM CST

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I wondered if this morning's rain was tears from heaven. Your update confirms this. I know God feels this pain and is crying along with you for your terrible loss. I also know that Max is bathed in light, and peace and joy and an understanding of the purest of love. May you find many moments of peace and beautiful memories as you move forward in your grief.

Love,
Josh's Mom
Therese Tennessen Weil <ttennessen@Hotmail.com>
Minneapolis, mn - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:13 AM CST

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Max has found peace at the end of his journey. As in the prayer of his baptism, he has at last arrived with his candle brightly burning. As each of you continue to travel on may Max's candle light your paths & may you too arrive at a place that will bring you peace. My prayers for your continued strength during this part of your journey. God bless you all. God bless Max for the blessing he was to us all.
Love, Carol
Carol Johnson <stpauliegirl33@hotmail.com>
Jax, FL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:10 AM CST

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My thoughts and prayers are with you more than ever today. May god's peace and comfort be with you...
Shelane <shelaneh@cableone.net>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:07 AM CST

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We shake our heads in amazement at the grace and dignity of Max, Trish, Paul, Sam, Baily and Parker Adams.
We wish for the power to have done something more.
We stare at our favorite picture of a curly blonde haired boy and share your sorrow.
We weep for little Max, he will forever hold a special place in our hearts
Todd, Jennifer and Sarah Lefor
Fargo, ND - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:04 AM CST

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To the Adams family:
We are never prepared for the loss of a loved one, but God is always prepared to help us through that loss. May His presence begin the healing in your heart and soul, and may His love surround you with the comfort only He can give.
Heaven is celebrating their newest angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Judy VanDerhule <jvanderhule@usa.net>
Yankton, SD - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:03 AM CST

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Paul, Trish, and family,
We are so very sorry. Words cannot describe how badly we feel for all of you. We hope you are able to find some comfort and strength in the coming days. We are praying for you. Max is at peace now and will remain forever in all of our hearts.
We love you,
Keith and Lynette Posdal <lkposdal@aol.com>
Saint Charles, IL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:55 AM CST

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"Now may the Lord of peace, himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you."
2 Thessalonians 3:16
Nancy Gibby <negibby@excite.com>
Gainesville, FL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:44 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, and family
Dick, Diane, and all,
We are so sorry to hear about Max's death, but rejoice to think how happy he must be in God's hands and takes with him the love you all shared endlessly. How blessed you are to have such a happy little angel watching over you. This time however, is most difficult.(Just to let go).
May GOD give you all the necessary graces and courage to face each moment of the day. We are upholding you in prayer. God Bless, Marleen
Marleen Schnaidt and family <www.marleen@goesp.com>
Dickinson, ND USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:39 AM CST

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When I read the journal entry this morning, my heart broke... My thoughts are with your family.
Lisa Ewan
Eagan, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:32 AM CST

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Packing up the dreams God planted
In the fertile soil of you,
Can't believe the hopes he's granted
Means a chapter in your life is through.
But we'll keep you close as always.
It won't even seem you've gone.
'Cause our hearts in big and small ways
Will keep the love that keeps us strong.

And friends are friends forever
If the Lord's the Lord of them,
And a friend will not say "never"
'Cause the welcome will not end.
Though it's hard to let you go,
In the Father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long to live as friends.

With the faith and love God's given
Springing from the hope we know,
We will pray the joy you'll live in
Is the strength that now you show.

But we'll keep you close as always.
It won't even seem you've gone.
'Cause our hearts in big and small ways
Will keep the love that keeps us strong.
And friends are friends forever
If the Lord's the Lord of them,
And a friend will not say "never"
'Cause the welcome will not end.
Though it's hard to let you go,
In the Father's hands we know
That a lifetime's not too long to live as friends.

Words and music written by Michael W. Smith

I couldn't help but think of Max as I sung this song this morning. I have nothing to say but that I'm praying for you and that I hate this damned disease. I guess God needed another superhero.

May God uphold you through this difficult time.

All my love and prayers,
Jodi Hansen http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/rachelhansen <FlyingCook@aol.com>
Lakeville, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:27 AM CST

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Dear Trish and Paul,

I am so very, very sorry that Max has died. There is no greater pain then the death of a child. In fact, it simply cannot be described by any words known to our language. Max was AND is a beautiful boy.

I know your family has faith, that incredible gift from God. Max is with Jesus at this very moment. Max's soul is filled with such joy that we who are still here in this journey in a strange land would faint if we felt such joy.

Yet still this is such a painful trial and is not matched by any other.

Our family will pray for you. We will pray that God pours His strength and mercy into your home.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabrielle, and Noah Gabriel
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@worldnet.att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:24 AM CST

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I am so sorry to hear this, he will shine as brightly in heaven as he did here on earth. I will pray for you all.
Janna <jannaw@centurytel.net www.caringbridge.org/mt/joeywynn>
Whitefish, MT - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:21 AM CST

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Max, we love you too. You will be very missed! Love, Tracy and Katia
PS I will update Katia's page
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:10 AM CST

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I can't even put into words how my heart breaks for your family. Max will forever be with you. I love this poem, it gives me so much hope for another day.
Ascension
and if I go,
While you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
-behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
-both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest.
Ans when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
...I will be there,
Colleen Corah Hitchcock

Your family is in my prayers.
Krystal <ck.gore@sasktel.net>
North Battleford, Sk Canada - Saturday, December 27, 2003 10:05 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Parker, Sammi and Bailey:
My heart bleeds for you. The first thought I had after reading your sad news is that no one packed more life and experiences into this amount of time than Max. He was blessed to have such a family as you were blessed to have him.

The Boelter's <bjboelter@comcast.net>
Eagan, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:51 AM CST

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All our thoughts are with you... God's blessing during this time... We love you all very much.
Jason & Nikki <gros0148@umn.edu>
Apple Valley, MN United States - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:44 AM CST

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Dear Paul,Trish,Sammy,Parker and Baily
Our hearts are broken this morning as we read the news of Max's passing. Your strength and courage through all of this has been imeasurable. We honor Max's life with wonderful memories and we celebrate his eternal life with God in heaven. Max only feels joy,comfort,happiness and the loving arms of Jesus around him. We love you all.
The Ruhland Family <sjruhland@aol.com>
Maple Grove, Mn Henn - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:44 AM CST

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Uncle Paul, Aunt Trish, Sammy, Parker, and Bailey:
We're sorry that Max died. He was a really good kid. We miss him very much. We wrote this poem for you:

M-arvelous
A-mazing
X-uberent

That was Max. Love all of you lots.
Katie and Liz
Liz and Katie Posdal <surgica@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:43 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Samantha, Parker and Bailey, We are so very sorry to hear the news this morning. Please know that your sorrow is being felt by many and the strength of faith will help your family endure. We will continue to keep your family in our prayers. Sending our love...
Kristina, Clint and Alexis Parker <ckaparker@msn.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:42 AM CST

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Paul and Trish,
Please know that lots of love is pouring your way from every corner of your world. Turn to your faith for support, but also to each other. Only you two can tuly know the joy that was Max from beginning to end. I'm so sorry that his light has been taken from our world.
Yours with all love,
Patti
Patti Posdal <surgica@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:33 AM CST

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To all, Peace at last for Max, may that peace find a home in your hearts also.We are so sad by the news. We are here for you.
Love
Donna,Rhianna,Sammi Ruhland
Donna Ruhland <donnaruhland129@msn.com>
Robbinsdale, Mn Henn - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:30 AM CST

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Words cannot express my extreme saddness for you,
Max's wonderful caring loving family.
Words cannot express...................................

Vicki
www.caringbridge.org/mn/gabesjourney
Vicki <vlj322@mn.rr.com>
Mpls, - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:20 AM CST

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We grieve with you and pray that you continue to receive strength and comfort. Much love,

Ron and Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:12 AM CST

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God Bless you as you begin your journey of grief. I am sorry about Max and will hold you all close in prayer.
Tracy Reamy www.caringbridge.org/nd/tuckersjourney <thereamys@earthlink.net>
Grand Forks, ND - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:03 AM CST

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We are so very sorry.

Aunt Sandi, Uncle Carl, and Jennifer
The Adam Family <jena7722@aol.com>
Roselle, IL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:01 AM CST

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I am so sorry to hear about Max. There are no words that will ease your pain, I can only encourage you to hold on tight to each other as you progress (or stand still) through this extremely black time.

Karen White, Mom to Angel Paige (3/1/96-9/22/01)
Karen White <kswvwhite@aol.com>
Naperville, IL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:59 AM CST

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Audrie Ouellette just called and told me your sad news. Your little boy and his courageous fight have touched so many people. I am sorry that I never got to meet Max, although I am grateful that I got to "know" him through your postings. I mourn with you over the loss of your son.
I am sure feeling the strength of your love and faith made his journey more bearable - what a wonderful family Max had. You will all remain in my prayers.
Sally San Soucie <sallysan@earthling.net>
Richmond, VA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:59 AM CST

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We are so sad and sorry for Max and your entire family. It is just so hard to absorb. We love you all so much.

Karla, Bruce, Christie, Ben, and Jackie
The Blackwoods <blackwood02@msn.com>
Edina, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:58 AM CST

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I am so sorry for your loss. May god grant you the strength to get through this.
Brian Zipter <bp.zip@verizon.net>
Tampa, Al - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:54 AM CST

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Trish, Paul, Parker, Sam and Bailey,

We are so very sorry. We hope and pray that God grants you strength and peace. Max truly is a miracle boy and his sweet smile will be so missed.

Love,
The Richters
Chuck and Kay <CRic280280@aol.com>
Cold Spring, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:49 AM CST

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Dear Ones .. Our deepest sympathy to your entire family. May Our Lord hold you all in the palm of his hand. May good memories help ease the pain. Our love and prayers.
Don and Peggy Schiedel <dpschiedel@iw.net>
yankton, s.d. usa - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:49 AM CST

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I am so sorry to hear of Max's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers always. God Bless you all. Again, we are so sorry.

The Carter's <tlc2866@sbcglobal.net>
Manchester, Ct - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:44 AM CST

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Words are inadequate to express the sorrow we feel.

Rose F. Kennedy once said "We cannot always understand the ways of Almighty God -- the crosses which He sends us, the sacrifices that He demands of us".

May you find solace and compassion among loved ones to enable you to cope with the loss of your precious son and brother.
dorothy valvo <dvvalvo@libcom.com>
pittsburgh, pa - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:43 AM CST

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We are deeply saddened by the news of Max's passing. Your angel Max will always be with you, watching over each of you forever. Our deepest sympathy to your entire family. You have all been so brave. Max was blessed to have you as his parents, to have Bailey, to have Samatha and Parker as well as , Nana and Papa. We pray for all of you. Love from the heart, Ryan's grandparents, Corky and Kathi
kathijacobs <kathijacobs@kc.rr.com>
overland park, ks - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:33 AM CST

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there are no words to give you comfort, only my thoughts and prayers. Max the warrior will live on in all the hearts that he has touched. Herve and I have been blessed to have Max enter into our lives.
God's speed.
Audrie and Herve <audrievouellette@aol.com>
Mesa, AZ USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:31 AM CST

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there are no words to give you comfort, only my thoughts and prayers. Max the warrior will live on in all the hearts that he has touched. Herve and I have been blessed to have Max enter into our lives.
God's speed.
Audrie and Herve <audrievouellette@aol.com>
Mesa, AZ USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:31 AM CST

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my 2 years old son on Thanksgiving day 7 years ago to CF. My heart and prayers go out to you and the family.
SArah Copeland <copeland@datalinkc.com>
Hertford, NC USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:23 AM CST

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I am so sorry for your loss. I vistited Max's page often and prayed for him. You will all continue to be in my prayers and thoughts. (((((((HUGS))))))))

Jamie Carman and family <thecarmans@annapolis.com>
Annapolis, MD - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:16 AM CST

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This is one of those times when I really wish I had the ability to come up with the right words... But, I guess there really are no "right" words -- It still hurts no matter what. I have been following your journey since March and here I sit, so shocked, so saddened, so devastated, in disbelief -- I know in my head it's "real," but my heart doesn't want to believe that Max is no longer here on Earth with us. That little bundle of energy has given so many people so much hope, brought so many people so much closer together. I'll never get to see him do the "ILY" sign again or blow bubbles or get silly putty stuck on his hickman. I did not expect to experience such a wide range of emotions all literally at the same time, from both sides of the spectrum -- Anger that cancer claimed his life, and grateful for the good memories he left me. All of you, Max's parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, everyone -- All of you will be in my prayers! God will be putting in a lot of extra hours now...
Kristin Ryan <krishildy@yahoo.com>
Roseville, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:13 AM CST

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The colors of the rainbow and the rising balloons were not lost amid your terribly sad words. "Surely the presence of the Lord is in this place. I can feel his mighty power and his grace. I can feel the rush of the angels wings. I see glory on each face. Surely the presence of the Lord is in this place". Max has crossed the bridge. You held him tightly until it was time to pass him off to Jesus. Now he has been ushered in on the wings of angels. Prayers continue for all of you. Charlie
Charlie Zylstra <rrzylstra@msn.com>
Yankton, SD USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:10 AM CST

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We are so very sorry to hear of Max's passing. May you find comfort and peace in happy memories of your incredible little boy. An wonderful angel was born today.... Please know that we are praying for all of you.
The Stancliffe family...Ryan Jacobs' aunt, uncle and cousins
Jaime, Bryan, Kylie and Abby Stancliffe <Stancliffe@sunflower.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 8:03 AM CST

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TOGETHERNESS

Death is nothing at all -- I have only
slipped away into the next room.
Whatever we were to each other,
that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
speak to me in the easy way which you
always used.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little
jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be the household word that
it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind because
I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is past, nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be
as it was before -- only better,
infinitely happier and for ever --
We will be all one together with
Christ.

***I can't express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Thank you for sharing Max's story. His courage and strength inspired me. Please know your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers and that Max will NEVER be forgotten.***

Sending lots and lots of BIG hugs and MUCH love your way!!!

***Samantha's Page***


Shannon <humphity319@aol.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:52 AM CST

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I so very very sorry to read about Max's passing. He is now a precious angel, I hope he can comfort you. He was so sweet. Your holiday pictures are wonderful, they can help you cherish his smile.
Ronnie Wood <ronniewood@comcast.net>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:51 AM CST

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I am so sorry to read of your loss...our thoughts and prayers are with you...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <ehilliard@verizon.net>
www.forcody.org, - Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:38 AM CST

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I am so sorry to hear of Maxs passing, he was such a strong, courageous boy who will be so sadly missed. Thinking of you all at this sad time.
Sara
Visit Sams Page
Sara joy <m.joy@tesco.net >
uk - Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:37 AM CST

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God be with you and comfort you. You are in our prayers. With our love.
Marilyn & Brian Blanchard (Lisa Peterson's Aunt & Uncle) <mjtblanchard@yahoo.com>
Maple Grove, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 7:33 AM CST

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I am saddened beyond words to hear of Max's passing. I pray for you and your family that you find peace. I wish there was more I could say but there are no word other than to let you know that I am thinking of you.

Deb Duffy & Bob the Builder <canyoufixit2003@yahoo.com>
Cumberland , Me - Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:59 AM CST

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Trish Paul and Family-We are just shocked to open your page and read this. I was praying that I would hear about your holiday and our hearts are breaking for you. Trish, I am so grateful I ran in to you and Max at clinic. We are praying for your strength and peace in the days to come. We are so sorry.
Carol Lance Isabel and family <ltkfamily@comcast.net>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:41 AM CST

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I'm SO sorry to hear that beautiful Max has earned his angel wings. I hate AML!!! I lost my grandson to AML 6 1/2 months ago. Please accept my sincerest condolences. May God give you strength during this difficult time.

Please know that you're all in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 6:37 AM CST

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Dear Adams Family,

You are walking a path that few of us ever have or will have to. Your grace of sharing your joys and sorrows with us is remarkable. We have prayed and continue to pray for not only Max but your entire family. We brought Max a small stone while he was at Fairview University, the inscription on the stone was "Hope". Max, Your family, and all of us in your corner have held out hope that things would turn out the way we want. We still hold out Hope that things turn out our way but also realize now that HOPE may be an acronym for Heavens Open, Please Enter as Jesus is calling your beloved Max into his arms, just like Max had dreamed. We haven't been in your shoes so cannot begin to imagine what you are going through but please know that we hold you in our prayers daily.

Love,
The Stefonowicz Family

Teri & Dave Stefonowicz <Stefon@MSN.COM>
Lakeville, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:42 AM CST

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Dear Trish and family,
I found out about your precious Max through Rachel's page, and am moved to tears over the way that AML has treated your special boy. I'm saying prayers tonight to Jesus for you all to experience His tender and gentle peace. You are loved as is Max. My world is brighter for having read of his strength and inner fire. May he sense your presence and love every single moment.
Gail <sunergos@ev1.net>
CA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:02 AM CST

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HI,
I found this site via Katias--and it has broken my heart..
I will be praying that Max is comfortable and has an easy passing; that little boy has suffered enough. God Bless you little Max..you are brave and an inspiration to me..
I pray also for the family, may God bless and keep you in the coming days..

sabrina <miss_sabby@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:16 AM CST

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Oh you precious family,
Mark Twain said, "Courage is resistance to fear, not the absence of it." I sit here late night lamenting the lack of words I have for your pain. I twist and turn imagining your fierce prayers. I weep for these days to come. I smile for the faith warrior that is our Samantha. I laugh at the Devil who tried to divide this family. I shout for God is with you. I'll not compare this time or explain it, but I will share it. We are here. We love you.
Always in God,
Linda and Pete
Linda Siedschlag <jedsiedschlag@comcast.net>
White Bear Lake, MN USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 0:39 AM CST

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Into the night we pray for Max. We pray for his comfort. We pray for your endurance. We pray. Charlie
Charlie Zylstra <rrzylstra@msn.com>
Yankton, SD USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 0:33 AM CST

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We are so, so sorry. Godspeed to you, little Max, little warrior.
Team Randel <tony.randel@randelfamiliy.com>
Austin, TX - Saturday, December 27, 2003 0:16 AM CST

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I just came to Max's website through Katia's. I have recently been visiting his page. I am so sorry to hear he is not doing well. What a nice picture of him on Tuesday. He looks like he loved his new PJ's! I wanted to let you know I will be thinking and praying for you in the days ahead.
Beth L. <beanieb@neo.rr.com>
Mansfield, OH USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 0:09 AM CST

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Trish, You have "only" asked for a few kind words..I have thought all night as to what kind words I can offer you. I can't with any words help make any of your nightmare be gone...I wish I could "wake" you up and say no thats not happening. I can and will ask our Lord and Saviour to bless and keep you, and may His face shine upon you and give you all peace. Take hold of HIS hand, look to HIS face and let HIM comfort you through this journey. Also I dont know if you knew of Noah Jay, he went "home" to be with the Lord alittle over a month ago. His mom continues to write in the journal and although completely brokenhearted, she is letting the Lord carry her. If you have time visit her web site..look over some past journals..she can give you great words of encouragement. My prayers to you all. :0)
http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/noahjay/index.htm
Tonya Cotton <Avery091@aol.com>
Clearwater, FL - Saturday, December 27, 2003 0:00 AM CST

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May God be with you and hold you in his loving arms.
Linda R
Tn - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:52 PM CST

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Dear Friends,
We are in awe of your strength, your faith, and your love. You were given a gift in Max; he has brought you great joy. And he was blessed with an adoring family. We all prayed for a miracle, and the miracle was Max. Now, we pray for peace for him, and comfort for all of you. We wish that we could do more. You're in our thoughts, prayers and hearts. God bless you. With love to you all.
Joyce & Leon Maggied <maggied34@mchsi.com>
Yankton, SD USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:44 PM CST

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After reading your recent entry, I can imagine what the family is going through especially with my experience in the past. Hang in there and rely on each other for laughter and memories as that is often helpful. If you need anything - just email or page me. :)

Lisa Ewan <Lmewan22@comcast.net>
Eagan, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:35 PM CST

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We continue to pray for your entire family during this difficult part of your journey. We will hold visions of peace and serenity close in our heart for you.

Trish, your journey has been amazing, I only wish the result could be different. You were one of the first parents that I met when Duncan was diagnosed. Your strength and wisdom have been an inspiration for me as we have traveled our journey. Meeting you and learning from you made this road easier for us. Thank you so much.

We will hold your whole family in our prayers. I wish we could do more.
Laura Masica (www.caringbridge.org/mn/duncanmasica) <lmasica@msn.com>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 11:34 PM CST

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I want to let you know that we are thinking and praying for Max and everyone in his family.
I believe in my heart as a parent that has two children that had and have cancer and even though we had some similarities. I'm never going to tell you I know how you feel cause I don't know how you feel, We might feel the same in some ways but everyone has a different way that they feel,That would not be right for me to say that. I believe no two person's are the same that is why God made every one different and special. (I hope you understand what I mean.)
But I will be there if you ever need a shoulder to rest your head on, or an ear to listen to, or arms to hug you with, or a hand to reach down to pull you up when you feel like you are falling, that I can do for you.
God be with you.
Love LaKota's mom,Debbie
http://www.carinbridge.org/mn/laplafcan
St.Cloud, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:29 PM CST

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Dearest Max and Family
May God's Love, and Peace give you Strength through this difficult time, and forever hold you in his arms.
Please know our Prayers are with you.
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 11:28 PM CST

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There just aren't words we can think of to help. We think of you constantly, pray for all of you and never want to give up. If we can help we are here for you.
Linda and Duane <dlgrosz@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN usa - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:18 PM CST

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Dear Adams Family,
We are so sorry for what you are all going through. I don't know what else to say except God bless you all.
With all our prayers,
Barb and Tim Piersa
Barb Piersa
Wyoming, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:06 PM CST

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Max,

it's hard to believe that this is getting the better of you. You have taught us all so much. How to be thankful for each moment.

I still think of you that night at the Choo Choo Bar when we saw the Christmas train and I have some great photos of you and your family that night. I would love to send them to you so you could see them but would need to have an email address other than this. Maybe I can send them on through Linda and Larry when they get back on Sunday. I have a cool photo of you on your dad's shoulders.

Your whole family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Shay, Brenda, Sean, Oisin, Michelle and Ronan Wyley


Brenda Wyley <sbwyley@comcast.net>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 11:01 PM CST

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I wish there was something I could say that would take away your pain, but there isn't. I wish there was something I could say that would help to cure Max, but there isn't. I guess all I can do is let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know that God will be with you to help you face the days ahead. I will continue to pray for Max's healing here on earth, but if that is not to be, I will pray for peace and comfort for your family.
Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:46 PM CST

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To all of you -
I am at a loss for words. I am praying that comfort surround not only Max but also your entire family. May peace be with all of you at this difficult time - I am reminded of the entry you made a few weeks ago about Max and Jesus laughing - may that bring you comfort in the days ahead. Love and pryaers to you all.
Your New Hope Neighbor, Kari
Kari Staples <k.staples@comcast.net>
New Hope, mn - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:45 PM CST

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Sometimes God answers prayer in ways we cannot understand. I pray that you continue to find strength and comfort in Him. Love,
Glorian Anderson <RGAndersn@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:44 PM CST

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All you ask for is a few kind words, but I wish there was more I could do for you. Max and your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers each day and especially tonight. My two daughters and I were sitting in front of you on the plane down to Florida and we spoke briefly. We thought of you during that whole trip and have kept Max in our prayers. I hope you find comfort in knowing that there are "strangers" out there who care.
Peace, Michelle Williams
Michelle Williams
Victoria, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:40 PM CST

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Paul and Trish,
Liz and I have talked a lot about a saying she heard once, "be careful what is deep inside of, because when you are squeezed, it will come out." You guys are being squeezed more than anyone ever should. It is just not fair! But what amazes all of us, is what is coming out! You guys have demonstrated a confidence, and a faith, to allow God to be God, in the midst of a journey that will never make sense on this earth. The beauty of your faith coming out while getting squeezed is inspiring! I believe it is sweet praise to God's ears.

I think His heart breaks with yours. I know He is in your midst in your house, holding tightly to precious Max, and each of you.

We still believe in the possibility of a miraculous turn around. But we will not limit God, and believe that that is the only possible outcome. If it is God's will to bring Max home, there are preparations underway for a parade down the golden streets of heaven where Jesus and Max will ride painFREE!

You know we love you. Most importantly, know that God loves you more than we can even comprehend. Which means He knows what to do for you when we don't!

God bless you!
Keep the faith.


John and Liz at www.caringbridge.org/mn/ryan <wearejacobs6@aol.com >
- Friday, December 26, 2003 10:36 PM CST

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To our dear friends,
Gordon and I and Josh's spirit are thinking of you, praying for you and holding you close to our hearts tonight. We're sending out to you the lullaby that brought us and Josh much comfort.

Maybe it is raining where our train will ride,
But all the little travelers are safe and warm inside.
Somewhere there is sunshine, somewhere there is day,
Somewhere there is morning town, many miles away.

Good night, peaceful dreams....

Much love,
Therese, Gordon and Josh
Therese Tennessen Weil <ttennessen@hotmail.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:22 PM CST

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Words cannot convey my sorrow after reading your message. I will continue to pray for Max and your entire family.
Sally San Soucie <sallysan@earthling.net>
Richmond, VA - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:16 PM CST

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I found your site via Katia's site and I wanted to write and tell you that you are all in my prayers. I pray that God's angels will surround Max and bring him comfort. My mom is currently in hospice care for terminal liver cancer so I know how helpless you are feeling right now, although I cannot imagine the difficulty of watching your own child suffer. I will never understand (or even try to) why innocent children are stricken by the horrible disease. It's just not right. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs and prayers,
Candy
Candy B. from Hugs and Hope <zacheric02@msn.com>
Livonia, MI - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:13 PM CST

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Trish & Paul--

As the tears stream down my face, I find I have nothing to say. I'm offering you the biggest hugs that I can muster, strong shoulders for you to cry on, and all the hopeful prayers that I can pray. There is much to say about the wonders of God and the glories of heaven, yet it doesn't take away the hurt for all who love Max here on earth. For although we all know that our children aren't "really" ours and that they belong to God, when we bore these children we thought that God borrowed them to us for at least the length of our lives. It seems to go against the grain of nature for it not to be that way. I have nothing to say that will take away your pain, nothing that will change Max's condition, and nothing that can promise you anything more than what I can humanly do. Believe me, I wish I could offer you more .... so much more. And so in God's plan I trust and I continue to pray for Max and for your entire family during this very difficult time.

All my love and prayers,
Jodi Hansen http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/rachelhansen <FlyingCook@aol.com>
Lakeville, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:12 PM CST

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Dear Trish and Paul,

I have no words of wisdom, nothing to provide comfort, nothing profound to share. You and I do, however, have something in common, just like so many of those who have signed your guest book: we are parents. We know the all-consuming, aching, wonderful love that we have for our children. We know what it's like to hurt when our children hurt, and to feel utterly helpless when we cannot protect them from what they must endure.

Please remember that as much as we love our children, our heavenly Father loves us even more, and He is there beside you, with tears in His loving eyes, trying to comfort you and Max during this difficult journey.

May you feel the presence of His peace during this time.

Love and prayers,
Michelle Gibson
michelle gibson <msgibs64@wideopenwest.com>
naperville, il - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:05 PM CST

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Dear Max's Family,
I have never signed your guestbook, but found Max's page by way of Katia's. My heart is breaking for your family. Max is an incredible little boy, with one of the cutest smiles I have ever seen. I am praying extra hard for your family and Max during these difficult times. May God give you strength and comfort.
with love,
Haley Hastings <haleyhastings@yahoo.com>
Athens, ga - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:57 PM CST

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It was not too long ago that my family was experiencing what you are now with your darling Max. Our three year old daughter, Cameryn, passed away on November 18th after a courageous battle with a brain tumor. I remember too well how difficult it is to go through those final hours - the tough decisions you have to make regarding sedation and pain medications. Please know that you are giving Max a huge gift by being with him and helping him make his transition. It is a difficult but brave choice, and they can and do find peace in the end - as will you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
shayleen <shayleen_harris@hotmail.com>
Campbell River, BC Canada - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:48 PM CST

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I have been following Max's story for a while now and it saddens me so much to see all of you facing this. Katia includes Max in her prayers and I keep everyone updated on Max that visits Katia's page. So many people have been touched by his life. Love, Tracy
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 9:44 PM CST

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I check on & pray for Max everyday and I will continue to pray that God sends him a miracle. His sweet smile has stolen my family's hearts. I also pray that God will give you the grace and peace you need at this unbearable time in your lives. Know that Max has touched so many lives.

It is the smallest feet that leave the largest imprints in our hearts.

Take Care & Stay Strong,


Laura Hinkle <lhinkle@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, NC USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:40 PM CST

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My heart goes out to Max and your family as I have been down the path you are currently experiencing. My son Cody has been in the loving arms of jesus for 1 year and 4 months. I have been following Max's journey for sometime now and have kept him in my prayers. I just want you to know I am praying for comfort and strength for all of you. May you feel God's loving arms around you and may Max feel cradled in jesus's arms. God Bless your family.
Brenda Hulst <Bhulst654@AOL.com>
StCloud, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:33 PM CST

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We pray for Max and for God's comfort for both Max and his family during this time. No parent or family should have to deal with this. My heart is breaking for you and will be praying for you.
vickie whicker
nc - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:28 PM CST

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I come here everyday hoping for a miracle for Max. I have followed your journey for sometime now. I am so sorry to hear this news. I don't know what to say. Just know I am thinking of you all and praying - and yes, STILL hoping for Max's miracle. God bless, Eileen
www.caringbridge.org/il/ej
- Friday, December 26, 2003 9:09 PM CST

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We were driving home from church last Sunday and I was very sad. My daughter Samantha signed to me, "Why are you so sad?" I signed back to her about Max's turn for the worse and I hoped he would be with us for Christmas. She then signed to me "When Max goes to heaven he will be with God, right?" Of course I signed back. "Then why are you sad if Max will be with God?" I guess it takes a young persons perspective to help us understand that God is with us always and we can't imagine the joy and love Max will receive in heaven. We can't begin to imagine what you are going through right now, but understand this: WE LOVE YOU, WE SUPPORT YOU, WE WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR MAX AND YOUR FAMILY, GOD WILL BE WITH YOU.
The Ruhlands <sjruhland@aol.com>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 9:04 PM CST

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Thoughts of Max and his family are at the back of my mind always. I am impressed with the awareness and maturity you have expressed through sharing your journey through the past 16 months -- you have taught me much.

I pray for continued strength and guidance for your entire family throughout the coming days. You are truly surrounded with prayer warriors - keep that in mind and let it buoy you up when it seems you no more can go.
Ann Walker <amwalker@bektel.com>
Ashley, ND - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:04 PM CST

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Oh, this confirms our fears of the day. Trish, my "mother's heart" is breaking for you and I cannot begin to fully understand what you are going through. May God give you the love and guidance to get through this with your family. We will pray for all of you and that Max's pain subsides.

As always, we love you and hold you all close at heart.
((((((HUGS))))))

Kim, Steve, Austin, Morgan <kim@moosenugget.net>
Anchorage, AK USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 8:41 PM CST

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My prayers and thoughts are with you at such a difficult time. I feel helpless that I can only add these words and nothing else. I feel honored to have known Max even if only through this site. May God be with your family.
Sally Pettinelli <sally@primeworld.com>
Bridgeport, CT USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 8:38 PM CST

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Peace and comfort to the entire Adams family. We continue to pray for a miraculous healing understanding that Max may have a bigger job to do that he cannot accomplish while constrained in a body. You are continuously in our thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Randel <laurie.randel@randelfamily.com>
Austin, TX - Friday, December 26, 2003 8:38 PM CST

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May you feel the strength of God's arms around you. I hope you can feel our arms around you also in comfort and love. Our thoughts and prayers are so with