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Jen - I am glad that everything went smoothly this week and that so many people were there in support of you and the kids. Once again I am so impressed with how you are handling everything. I hope that your New Years Eve spent with your kids and friends is a pleasant one. I'm sure that you'll never be alone, Chad will always be nearby making sure that you're alright. Love to all of you.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 9:24 PM CST
Thanks for those wonderful words of insight in the 12/31 journal entry, Jen! The Lord's continued blessings to you and your children. Prayers will be offered often for your family.
Carol Rogers <gmacarol@charter.net>
Bemidji, MN Beltrami - Wednesday, December 31, 2003 6:51 PM CST
Hi Jen and Family!
Wanda and I wanted to say how impressed we were with the Funeral. There is no doubt Chad was smiling in heaven. God Bless you and your family.
Chad & Wanda Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, MN - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 11:31 AM CST
Dear Jen and Family. My family returned last nite to the news of Chad's passing. Ira and I cannot express how sorry we are. Jen, I decided a very long time ago to become an oncology nurse. You see, I lost my older sister to cancer as a child. Leslie also died on Christmas Day, as did your husband Chad. Every year on the anniversary of her death, I light a Yahrtzeit candle, to burn in her memory for 24 hours. I wanted to let you know, that from this year on, there will be 2 candles burning in this house. One will be for the beloved sister I barely remember, the other for a man I never knew. Both loved, nontheless. Beth Orgel
Beth <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 9:52 AM CST
Jen:
I had planned to attend the Bemidji services yesterday, as you know. I was unexpectedly called to court for an emergency case with a child pulled from their home at 1:30. I was still in the courtroom at 3:45 so was not able to get there. You probably didn't even notice but I wanted to let you know why I wasn't there. I'm glad I was able to come to the visitation on Sunday evening.
I will be in touch in the coming weeks and want to take you to lunch one day before you get your daycare going again.
Praying for you every time you come to mind (which is often).
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 8:46 AM CST
We've never met, but Chad has been in my prayers since hearing of him from Greg Orgel's family. I've checked the website regularly and was so terribly sorry to hear of Chad's passing. You are a remarkable family and your faith will help you in the difficult days to come. Chad will be with you always. He's certainly in the faces of your beautiful children. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alta Richter <amtt@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 9:13 PM CST
JEN AND FAMILY - SORRY TO HEAR OF CHAD'S PASSING HE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON. I ENJOYED WORKING WITH HIM. HE TAUGHT ME ALOT AND HELPED ME THROUGH THE TOUGH TIMES OF CAR SALES.
- MY BEST WISHES - GOD BLESS -
TODD LAU <tlrooster@hotmail.com>
NORTH MANKATO, MN US - Monday, December 29, 2003 1:17 PM CST
Jennifer: I am sorry that we cannot be there in person with you during this time but know that we are there in spirit. What you have done so far is miraculous and I know that your strength comes from your wide area of support. Take care of yourself and hold your babies close. We sent flowers to Fergus...hope they are delivered OK. Love to all. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, December 29, 2003 9:06 AM CST
Dear Jen and family
I am so sorry. Wishing you the peace of God now more than ever.
Cousin Bill Demmer
William Demmer <wodemme@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, Mn USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 5:28 AM CST
Jen and Family:
Our family sends our love, cares and prayers your way. We admire you and Chad for being so strong and faithful...
always. We are sorry for your loss. Chad was a good man. Love, Todd, Gina, Kyle and Madison Williams
Todd and Gina Williams <tgwilliams@unitelc.com>
Nevis, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 6:14 PM CST
Good morning, Jen.
Just wanted to say "hi" and I plan to come to the visitation today if my daughter-in-law picks up my 17 month old granddaughter in time. (I had her last night because my son going to Iraq had been given a couple of days to come home before leaving and they needed a "couple" night before she had to drive him to Wisconsin early this morning).
If I don't make it today I will be at the funeral for sure tomorrow.
I pray that you are holding up and that the kids are doing well.
Another very good friend of ours lost their life to cancer on Christmas this year(she was 37). It is so difficult to comprehend and accept these early, early passings.
The obit for Chad was very nice, and I'm glad you had a picture too.
Looking forward to giving you a hug....
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Sunday, December 28, 2003 9:49 AM CST
Hi Jen I've been thinking of you constantly. Just remember foot prints,Gods there for us carring us when we need to carried.He holds us in his loving, secure, faithful arms. He can give us the peace we need. Remember all the wonderful memories you have and the 2 beautiful children that you and chad had together.I put together for Ernie's 2 sisters and him,(still working on his) memory albums of his mom and his brother who both are past on now and pictures of the rest of our families, both living and past on. It gave me such a wonderful peace and to remember all the times we had together. God sure knows how to work. With Ernie's mom pasting it brought us back to the Lord. we prayed every night and just felt god so present in our lives. I felt as if mom's spirit had come in to me. But then as the summer went on God slip away. But since I've heard of Chad's passing and reading in your journal I know that I want God back in my life with and my family. I've got some praying to do. I would love to come and see you somtime. Take Care and God Bless, love Nancy Cartwright.
Nancy Cartwright <www.ecnandan@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, Mn. Beltrami - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:40 PM CST
Dear Jen, I am so sorry to hear about Chad's passing. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Linda Spindler, ACCP member <slbspin@paulbunyan.net>
- Saturday, December 27, 2003 2:13 PM CST
Jen - Mom and I wish very much that we could afford to fly back to be with you and the rest of the family at the funeral services. Please know that you are in our hearts and in our thoughts, you and the kids. Feel our love flying over the miles to wrap around you during this time. We love you all very much.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:12 PM CST
Jen & Family: Please know our thoughts and prayers are with at this time! I know all to well the pain you are going through! I have been there myself with the same loss. Keep your faith, family & friends close by and know God's arms are around you! If Rich and I can help in anyway, please don't hestitate to give us a call.
With Love & Peace to you! Connie & Rich Helfenstein (BCC)
Rich & Connie Helfenstein <helfensteinc@gvtel.com>
Leonard, MN USA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 12:26 AM CST
Jen - I found the funeral website last night and wrote a little poem. I didn't know until the website took it that it wouldn't space out the words the way I had written them so that it appeared to be a poem! It looks like I ran all these words together. I guess you can figure it out but it looks so silly the way it came out.
Small matter.
Glad you're relaxing to Enya and having a little quiet time.
When people say you're "strong", I think that some people just are able to function when their world is collapsing and some cannot. It doesn't mean that you hurt less, or are devastated less....just that you have the inner resources to do what must be done. People either have it, I've found, or don't. You keep the "machinery" going....and then when you have time you can quietly let down. It's a good way to cope. You are necessary to others and they depend on you.
That's why I suggested that "later" you allow yourself the time to get all the icky things out of your "inside self" with a trusted person. Or even by yourself, if that is how you process.
Personally, I know that when I grieve the most is sometimes a year or two down the road. I almost have to give myself permission to feel the pain that's there.
However you do it, Jen, I know you will complete the process and be whole in time. You are a realist with sentimental tendencies. You look things square in the face and deal with them as they are. You are "good people".
Remember that I and many, many others, will continually pray for you and your family; now and in the times to come.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:44 AM CST
Good morning, Jen. I pray that you were able to rest last night.
I wish I could absorb some of your gut-wrenching pain. I'm sure so many would if they could as well.
Your babies have you....and the safety you provide. I know you will be strong for Tate and Kiah. You have been strong throughout this ordeal, and you will stay focused and, with God's help, get through each day in the best way that you can.
When all the commotion has subsided, I hope you will turn to your best friend, or someone who you trust, and let it all out.
I pray that you are able to navigate the coming days peacefully.
With love and anguish,
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, December 27, 2003 9:00 AM CST
Jen,
I am so sorry to hear of Chad's passing. May God give you and your children peace and strength in the times ahead.
Nancy <sushi@astound.net>
Sauk Rapids, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 10:14 PM CST
Jen & Family - We are truly sorry about the passing of Chad. Even though we never met Chad, we know he was a wonderful person, husband and father. His fight has been a true inspiration for us. We will continue to keep you in our prayers during these next several hard days.
Valerie & Keith <kozlowskikvkk@comcast.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 8:19 PM CST
Jen, Tate, Kiah, Lon & Sue,
Just heard the news from Jo and Roger. So many prayers and so much love has been shared. I pray you feel the touch and comfort of a loving God and loving friends. Share in the comfort of a God who loves us enough to take on human flesh and human suffering! Our prayers continue for you.
Pastor Steve Dahl <dahlfam@wcta.net>
New York Mills, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 6:57 PM CST
Jen,
My prayers are with you at this time. I truly cherish the time I was able to spend with you and Chad on Monday.
Stacey <dsjuhnke@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 6:55 PM CST
Jen - Thank you for your recent posting about the services that are being planned. You've accomplished a lot today. You must be so exhausted. I pray that Tate and Kiah are doing all right with all your family surrounding them.
It is so special that Chad waited for his dad! What a gift and how he must have been that "warrior" that his name implied.
I was told when hospice was in my life for one of my loved ones that frequently the person distances him or herself from the world in order to make that disconnection, and then right before they go the get more alert and involved and need to make those final "goodbyes" - even if they are not verbal goodbyes.
It sounds as though he wanted to be sure that each person that was important in his life was ready to let him go before he could do so.
I hope you are able to sleep tonight, Jen. If you get overwhelmed ask God to lull you to sleep for your babies' sake. You need your strength and rest is important to face the days ahead.
God bless you and yours in a most special way.....
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 6:14 PM CST
We have you in our prayers. Sandy, gave me the site and have been using it to keep up with you. We are deeply sorry for the loss to you and the children. Only saw him a few times but he will always be remembered as a very friendly and nice person. Even all he went thru he still kept that beautiful smile!
Jerry & Vonnie Swenson <vfs1210@prtel.com>
Underwood, Mn. U.S. - Friday, December 26, 2003 6:03 PM CST
Jen, Tate & Kiah, Lon & Sue,
We express our deepest sympathy to you! Jen, you have been an inspiration to us all - Chad is at peace, and know that his spirit will live on and he will be with you always! God be with you all!
Love & Prayers,
Gerry & Linda and family
Linda &Gerry Imdieke <limdnym@uslink.net>
New York Mills, MN USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 3:34 PM CST
Jen, Tate & Kiah - Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. We will all cherish the memories of Chad.
Jon & Kristi Anderson <andersonjk@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN Clearwater - Friday, December 26, 2003 3:32 PM CST
Jen and family our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always
fuzzy trish&steph
mark&trish barthorpe <fuzzie@paulbunyan.net>
solway, mn us - Friday, December 26, 2003 11:37 AM CST
Jen, Tate, Kiah. Lon and Sue You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The Lord seems to take only the best.
Maynard and Sylvia Falk <snowman@lakesplus.com>
New York Mills, Mn. USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:14 AM CST
JEN AND FAMILY,
WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. CHAD MADE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE. WE FEEL HONORED TO HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR THE TIME THAT WE DID.
JIM & COLLETTE COLE <jimboc2629@hotmail.com>
BEMIDJI, - Friday, December 26, 2003 9:11 AM CST
Jen, Tate, and Kiah, You are in our thoughts and prayers and are so sorry for your loss. Chad's wonderful spirit will live forever in each of you. Jen, you are an amazing woman and we thank you for the inspiration, strength, and faith that you have taught each one of us. God bless each of you. Love, Wanda, Chad, and Noah
wanda <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
osage, mn - Friday, December 26, 2003 8:16 AM CST
God bless the beautiful memory of your Chad.
In Christian friendship,
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Friday, December 26, 2003 8:01 AM CST
Jen,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this time of loss.
Caryn Johnson <catt@webcreations4you.com>
Brandon, SD USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 7:17 AM CST
Jen, Tate, Kiah, Sue and Lon, Jamie and family and Kevin - You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The Lord seems to want the good ones by his side and we don't know why he does this. But we do know that Chad is at peace and out of pain and standing in the Glory of the Lord. You all have our sympathys , today and in the time to come. Isn't it great that you have so many wonderful memories, to cherish forever. You have touched so many hearts throughout Chad's illness - we commend you for your strength and belief in the Lord. May he guide you forever. Love Jo, Roger and all of our family.
Jo and Roger
- Friday, December 26, 2003 7:15 AM CST
Jen,
I'm crying for you and the family, but cheering for Chad who is in the presence of the Lord. I know you are familiar with this verse, but it is my favorite one and want you to remember this.
Isaiah 40:31 But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint
Bonnie Larson <tobylars@paulbunyan.net>
- Friday, December 26, 2003 1:47 AM CST
Jen - Mom called a while ago to let me know that Chad had passed. I was not in the least surprised that he held out until he had everyone there that was most important to him. I'm sure it provided extra comfort to him to be able to say a final goodbye to all of you even if you couldn't hear the words. Even now he's watching over you and feels no pain, only peace. He is in the presence of greatness that we cannot even begin to comprehend. We love you all and continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Friday, December 26, 2003 1:35 AM CST
Jenn and Family: Kevin called Jackie and left her a message right after Chad passed on to his new life with Jesus Christ. She called me in tears. I read her the Christmas letter, written by Chad, that I received Christmas Eve Day. It is one of the most beautiful, faith-filled Christmas letters I've ever received. We will make every possible effort to be with you for the services. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joanne Wright <jwright242@aol.com>
St. Paul, MN Ramsey - Friday, December 26, 2003 1:25 AM CST
Jennifer: Judy called me a short while ago with the news of Chad's passing. You, Tate, and Kiah, and all of Chad's family, have our condolences. I know you are feeling a hole in your life right now and there is no way anyone or anyone's words will fill it. Only time will make it less empty. Take comfort in your friends and family and in the belief that Chad is now cancer-free and pain-free. Celebrate his life and what he accomplished. Love and hugs for everyone. Aunt Debbie & Uncle Mike
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Friday, December 26, 2003 1:13 AM CST
Jen -
In my heart of hearts I know that no matter what, no matter when, Chad will continue to watch over you, Tate & Kiah. The three of you were his reason for being and brought much to his life, as he has to each of yours. I look back and remember the Chad and Jen that I knew way back when the two of you had only known each other for a year or so. And then, I look at the two of you as I know you are now and can't imagine that either of you could have gotten here without the other. I'm sure that it is beyond scary, beyond words even, to imagine continuing on, one without the other. However, I know there is a strength in you, and a love for your children, that will carry you further than you ever might have imagined it could. And, when you need to release the pain, by crying or yelling or talking or whatever means you need to use, know that your family and friends will understand and will be there to support you in whatever way they/we can. In so many ways I feel that these words are "cheap" because they can't actually heal your pain or make Chad miraculously feel better. But, I truly wish that they could. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Friday, December 26, 2003 0:04 AM CST
Jen, Chad, Tate, Kiah, Lon & Sue,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you! Words cannot express to you how much love and concern we have for you all. Just want you to know we are here and that we love you lots! God be with you all!
Love,
Gerry & Linda
Linda & Gerry Imdieke <limdnym@uslink.net>
New York Mills, MN USA - Thursday, December 25, 2003 10:57 PM CST
Mom H, you are a total inspiration to me. You are strong, yet tender. I appreciate you so much.
God bless you, Jen, as you surrender to God's calling at this most difficult stage of the fight.
Stand strong in the Lord...He is hovering over you with His gentle, strong arms..ready to take your loved one and to bathe you in His peace. Remember that Jesus loves Chad more than you or anyone else can. He is at the shore waiting to take Chad's hand and lead him to the other side.
Our hands are here to be Jesus "with skin on". You can count on your loved ones to help shelter you from the raging storm within you....to reach out to your babies....to keep you in prayer.
Jen, you have fought bravely and well. Let go and let God ease your pain as only He can.
Chad as you slip from this life and into heaven's gate, we send you our love and prayers, and say "well done, good and faithful servant".
Oh how your loved ones mourn your earthly presence....and wish you could stay.
Go in peace, and surrounded by love.....earthly and heavenly.
Tears surround you, love holds you. Enjoy the streets of gold and the mansion prepared for you. We will see you when God calls us home.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, December 25, 2003 10:56 PM CST
Jenn: You have all been in my thoughts all day as we celebrated Christmas and shared the day with friends. You will continue to be in our thoughts. Love and hugs to each of you. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Thursday, December 25, 2003 8:59 PM CST
Chad, Jen, Tate, Kiah, Lon and Sue and family - You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May the lord give Chad and all of you rest and peace. Love Jo and Roger, Janice and Chuck and family, Michele and Tom and family, Nic and Teresa and family and Matt
Jo and Roger Pederson <pederson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, December 25, 2003 7:19 PM CST
For those of you checking today: Jenn reported Chad was part of the family for last evening. In his recliner he watched the gift exchange. He even sat up to the supper table. He tasted baked potato w/much sour cream...of course, later it did not stay with him. He seems less responsive today but when aroused says "huh". His sleep seems deeper/as Jenn expected. Soon he will not awake & will peacefully sleep away. His mother, Pat, spent the PM by his bedside and will tonight. Thru family we will see that Jenn & kids do not face the upcoming days alone. God is Great, he is still answering prayers. Bless you all. mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, December 25, 2003 11:56 AM CST
chad jen and kids just wanted you to know that we're thinking about you today
gordy and amy and kids <gabeigh@paulbunyan.net>
bemidji, - Thursday, December 25, 2003 10:58 AM CST
Chad, Jen, and Kids;
Pam and I are very happy we got up to see you guys yesterday. Our prayers our constant that you can enjoy the holidays as much as possible. All our love...
John & Pam Magnuson <jpmagnuson@charter.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Thursday, December 25, 2003 10:06 AM CST
I hope you have the best Christmas you can. Remember the Christ Child that came for us.He is the reason.Our hearts are heavy for you this season but know that our love goes out to you all and also our prayers.God Bless.Chuck and Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Thursday, December 25, 2003 8:34 AM CST
Dear Chad, Jenifer, and children: Please know that you are in our prayers. We miss you guys, and we hope that we can see you when we are home for Christmas. Love, Tony & Darla Barber and Kristin
Tony Barber <tonybarber88@hotmail.com>
griffin, ga usa - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 11:03 PM CST
Jenn & Chad we hope you were able to enjoy the evening by sharing in the reason for the season. As you watch Tate & Kiah, remember they are an example of the love you've shared and God's blessings. Kiss each other and hug the kids for us. Love you lots and pray for comfort & peace for both of you. Soon, God will welcome you into his kingdom Chad. But as I believe, you will still watch over your family...there is a window that remains open. I know your love will remain in our memories. Love, mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 10:05 PM CST
Jennifer, Chad, Tate and Kiah---
We wish you a Merry Christmas and pray that it is comfortable and peaceful for Chad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you continually that God will give you comfort in this difficult time. We love you both so very much.
Bets and Chad , Hannah and Sam <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 9:11 PM CST
Jenn - You, Chad, and the kids are in our thoughts daily and we hope things go more smoothly for you now that Hospice is coming in. Mike & I are truly saddened by this quick turn Chad's health has taken and encourage you to try to maintain your positive outlook. You have two beautiful children in whom Chad will live on. Take care of yourself for them. Our love and hugs to all of you. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 11:13 AM CST
We're thinking of you and wishing you a peaceful Christmas together.
With Love and Prayers,
Jeri and Jerry Nesland
Jeri Nesland <jerinesl@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, December 24, 2003 10:15 AM CST
Thank You for the Christmas Letter. You are an inspiration to us. We love you guy's. God Bless!
Chad & Wanda Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, MN - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 8:43 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know that you are all an inspiration to others!! Life often doesnt go the way you want it to... it is how you handle it that counts. Have been quietly reading about Chad's battle and wanted to post and wish you a calm and happy holiday season!!
Judi (Greg Orgel's Aunt)
Allentown, PA - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 8:31 AM CST
Jen & Chad - We wish you and your family a very merry Christmas and more bright days ahead. May God answer all the prayers.
Valerie & Keith <kozlowskikvkk@comcast.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 7:35 AM CST
You must be exhausted too, Jen. I do pray that your hospice helpers are just the right mix for your family. They usually are such caring and knowledgeable people. Things sound like they are changing fast for Chad.
Breathe deeply, look heavenward, love up your babies, comfort Chad. Don't forget to take a little break now and then. I pray that God will guard your heart and mind, and give respite for Chad.
Thinking of you all and praying for you this day before Christmas....
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 7:28 AM CST
Thank you for the Christmas letter, sure is no doubt who those kids are. I received an email from my nephew Tom this morning who is in Iraq and he wanted me to tell you that your family is in their prayers everyday. Hang in there, Vicki & I pray for strength comfort for your family.
Jason Tang <Jtang@istate.com>
Moorhead, MN - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 5:59 AM CST
Jen - I am so sorry to hear that Chad has taken a turn for the worse. I was truly hoping that the miracle we've all been praying for was comin' after how well Chad did yesterday. I'm checking the site often to see how Chad is faring, as well as you, Tate & Kiah. I can only imagine how confusing this must be for the kids. Having loving, supportive friends and family will help though, and you have that without a doubt. Love you all and thinking of you often.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 0:15 AM CST
Jen & Chad,
Just want you to know you are on our minds and in our prayers every day. May God give you the strength you need for each new day!
Dennis & Carol Page (Twyla's mom & dad) <dcpage@blackduck.net>
Hines, MN - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 11:37 PM CST
Jenn & Chad: you are never off our minds. Apparently Carol S. who writes so often thinks of you as much. I wish I could've been with you today. So much happening & decisions...let God work thru hospice for you. See you tomorrow/rest peacefully tonight. Love, mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, December 23, 2003 9:50 PM CST
Oh, Jen. Not a good report. How disheartening! Hang in there.......be of good courage.
I'm glad Hospice is in place for you and Chad. I'm so sorry that he's not doing well today; especially after rallying yesterday.
You know that we are praying for you; agonizing for you all.
Lift God higher - let Him take it from here.
We lift you and Chad and the kids today before God.
In friendship and love,
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 9:34 PM CST
Thank you for the beautiful Christmas letter. You are an inspiration to all. Yes, angels are watching over you and you never know how many. Also God is holding you in his gentle hands. We think of you all the time and pray for you constantly. I hope you have a very blessed Christmas. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@ webtv.net>
Fergus Fallls, MN USA - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 6:36 PM CST
Chad, Jen, and Kids...
A BIG thanks to all those angels that are helping you guys out. It's also great news that Chad is feeling better, that should help all of you enjoy the Christmas holiday a little better. Pam and I join the large circle of folks that are sending prayers. You guys are great and I look forward to seeing you all soon. Take care.
John and Pam Magnuson <jpmagnuson@charter.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 11:38 AM CST
I am so happy to hear that Chad is eating more and feeling better. I'm hoping and praying that this continues. You have some amazing friends up there in Bemidji, I am so glad that they are there for you. Merry Christmas to all of you!
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 10:19 AM CST
Jen - Reading your journal this morning made me cry. How truly special and loving that your friends came to clean your house, and that others have been "Santa Claus" in their own way. I'm sure that touched you deeply. Isn't it amazing how so many blessings get packed in with the hard times?
How great that Chad is eating better and feeling better now! That will make Christmas so wonderful for you all.
Have a beautiful Christmas with your family and friends. More prayers are winging their way to heaven on your behalf from many of us. My husband just said "are you writing to Jen?" when I replied yes he said "give her my best and tell her I am praying for her and the family too".
Have a good day!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 7:38 AM CST
Jenn & Chad: I've just finally caught up on all the messages you've received. They are wonderful. I pray you both can draw the strength that is intended from every one. We had a good visit in Bemidji-you know me, just getting you kids together is my biggest blessing. Those "angels" that visited you...do they hire out?!?(ha). I wish to say thank you to them too. I know you were concerned about getting caught up @ home & this would be just what the Dr. ordered. Love you all. Hugs..see you tomorrow. mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Monday, December 22, 2003 10:50 PM CST
Good morning. How wonderful that the family is surrounding you and Chad and Tate and Kiah for holiday gatherings.
It is hard to imagine Chad building up so much fluid so quickly. I'm glad that they can drain it off in Bemidji so you don't have to travel to Fargo or beyond to get that relief.
I hope you are all getting enough rest.
Have a beautiful day with family and friends today and tonight. Hugs to you all.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, December 22, 2003 8:10 AM CST
Prayers to you. I have been in close contact with Pat. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I am praying for you and your family. My computer is down, so will try to get on it again soon. Keep the Faith that the Lord is with you at all times!!! Hug and kiss those little angels twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Monday, December 22, 2003 5:39 AM CST
Jen - I am glad that you guys were able to have a Christmas today and that Chad was able to enjoy it with everyone. Please know that I am praying for all of you each and every day and checking the website to see how you are doing. Mom and I both want to be able to offer more help than we are able to do at this distance. We love you all and think of you often. Keep doin' what you're doin' - focusing on the positives, the smiles, the laughs, the knowledge of the love you two share. Love to all of you, Steph
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Monday, December 22, 2003 0:03 AM CST
Jennifer & Chad: I got an email from Gramma B in Texas today and told her that I would pass on to you that she is thinking of you both and praying for you. Someone at the park goes out to this site and prints off your journal entries and some of the guestbook entries for her. She's been crying alot...you know how easily Gramma cries...and she's also been thinking of Uncle Murl and Great Gramma so she will probably singlehandedly prevent any drought in Texas this year. Of course, that means that they will have to deal with salty water!!
I'm glad you had Christmas this weekend and that Chad was able to be part of it. Tate and Kiah must have been pretty excited. Wouldn't it be great to view life again through the eyes of a child? Everything would be new and exciting.
Stay strong. I love you. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, December 22, 2003 0:03 AM CST
Jen -
Chad knows Jesus as his own personal Saviour. Knowing that Chad belongs to Jesus is so comforting, because you know you will all see each other again. Parting is agonizing and so scary. I'm sure Chad has worries about his family with him not around for some of those growing up years, and of course, his sadness at not being there for them.
It's so frustrating not being able to DO anything! Everyone wants things to be good and "fix" what's not right. We are all reduced to nothing when we try to figure these things out. We DON'T understand and we DON'T want to face horrible gut-wrenching, life-changing situations.
Oh how we need God when we are the weakest and the most powerless!
Again and again and again...........we lift you before our Living God and exhort Him to fill you with His peace and His grace and His mercy. May He grant Chad total surrender to meet his God with joy. May Chad know that his wife and his children will carry his legacy throughout their own earthly lifetimes, and know that they will have what they need.
Jen, may God surround you with His perfect peace and ready you for the hardest battle you have ever experienced. May those that love you and your family be present for you now and in the days/weeks/months/years to come.
How we all wish we could absorb your pain and grief. We bow our hearts together in love for you and yours.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Sunday, December 21, 2003 7:12 PM CST
Jen and Chad, I just wanted to say thank you for the wonderful time we got to spend with you and the kids this weekend. We had a great time. I e-mailed you some pic's of the kids at the hotel and at the house. We love you and pry for you daily. I'm just a phone call away when you need me. Lots of love. Jamie
Jamie, Travis, Brenden <pandorra@prtel.com>
- Sunday, December 21, 2003 4:32 PM CST
Jen and Chad, we want you to know that we are thinking of you so often and are praying for you. You are beautiful people and have wonderful children. The two of you have taught Chad and I so much in witnessing your strength, courage, and faith. We love you so much and pray that god comforts you during this time. Love, Chad and Wanda
wanda <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
- Sunday, December 21, 2003 10:28 AM CST
Jen and Chad, We want you to know how much you all are in our thoughts and prayers - more than ever - at this hard time in your lives. I know from experience that the cherished memories you and the kids , and Chad, have, will sustain you in the time to come. God has a reason for all of your turmoil - but we have not seen it yet. We may never see it- but never forget He loves you so much and does care about all of you. I know one of the reasons he took my first husband was so I could meet you and be able to write these words - however helpful they may be. We love you and you and all of your families are in our thoughts and especially, prayers for a peaceful end.
Jo and Roger
- Saturday, December 20, 2003 7:20 PM CST
Jenn & Chad:
I check the website every day, but do not write nearly as often. I am thinking and praying for you every day. My wish for you is that you have a wonderful christmas that you will always remember. I'm sure things have not been easy, but Jenn you have been so strong for your family through all of this. Tate and Kiah are very lucky to have you for a mom. Take care, merry christmas, and I will continue to keep praying for you. Love, stacy
Stacy Bourassa <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Saturday, December 20, 2003 6:27 PM CST
Jen
you know me of so little words and I check your website often enough to know what is going on with you, Chad and the kids. You are in my thoughts all of the time. Hang in there baby!!
Jackie Wynkoop <jwynkoop@paulbunyan.net>
bemidji, mn beltrami - Saturday, December 20, 2003 6:04 PM CST
Jennifer & Chad: I am unsure what to say that hasn't already been said or would be a cliché. It isn't fair that you have to go through this but then life isn't fair. I'm glad that you two have had 13 years to share and enjoy. I wish you had 13 more years or 26 more years. Since that isn't to be, make your new memories beautiful happy ones. Hospice can be of great help to both of you. My father-in-law used Hospice when he was dying and it helped his caregivers (my husband and his sister). They were able to spend more time with him without worrying about the necessities. Take care and know that we love you. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Saturday, December 20, 2003 5:34 PM CST
I read your site often to see how chad and the rest of the family are doing, I pray for you always and only wish you all the best, I hope you can all sit back and have a nice Christmas and enjoy the time you have with your familys and each other. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Carissa Mosbo <cmosbo@hotmail.com>
Annandale, MN - Saturday, December 20, 2003 12:21 AM CST
Jen -
It just breaks my heart to know that you guys are going through such pain, emotional as well as physical for Chad. I don't know who said that death is a beautiful thing, as I can't say as I have ever viewed it as such. I think, perhaps, knowing that a loved one is no longer suffering through pain and discomfort and can now enjoy peace is a beautiful thing, but witnessing the process can never be described as such.
I know it is small comfort, but please know that you are not alone in this process, your family and friends are behind you 100% and will do whatever we can to ease the pain. We all love you, Chad, Tate & Kiah more than can be expressed in a guestbook. I know, now, all the good that Chad has brought into your life and on one hand am glad that you were so blessed, but on the other hand am so sorry that he won't be there to continue it himself.
I am glad that hospice will be helping you out as I'm sure you can use the assistance. You are all in my prayers. Love to all of you - Steph
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Saturday, December 20, 2003 10:36 AM CST
Oh Jenn & Chad...my tears flow so easy for you. Jenn, this site will remain a memory for you. For all those, known & unknown, who send comfort, my God be ever present in your lives, thank you all for speaking his words. Words that Jenn & Chad need to hear. Yes, Jenn I think this is something that you will have to read, reflect to truely understand the depth of God's love. See you later today. Love you very much...mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Saturday, December 20, 2003 8:33 AM CST
Dear Chad and Jen; I wanted to send tou an email, but it's not working this AM. I am relieved to hear that your family will be getting some help from Hospice. May G-d hold you both close in the coming days. Love, Beth
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Saturday, December 20, 2003 4:55 AM CST
Chad and Jen:
You are both wonderful people with two wonderful kids that I love. Jennifer, no matter what happens you will always see Chad in Tate and Kiah and they will always be a symbol of your love. Chad is a wonderful father and it shows in the kids. I wish God's strength for you all and hope that you never forget God's love for you. You're always in my prayers.
heather
Heather Sand <m_hsand@hotmail.com>
Bemidji, MN - Friday, December 19, 2003 11:17 PM CST
Chad, Jen, Tate and Kiah, So many times during the day as I am baking, shopping and driving I say a prayer that God will hold you so close that there is no opening in His arms of love. Love you, Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN - Friday, December 19, 2003 6:21 PM CST
Hi Jen and Chad, You do not know me but I want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jen, you know me as Soobee on the PCI network.
Sue Rinker <Soobee@hotmail.com>
Stillwater, MN Washington - Friday, December 19, 2003 5:08 PM CST
Hi Jen and Chad, You don't know me but I am a daycare provider who is on the PCI website. Jen you would know me as Maddiesmommy. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God watch over you and bless you in your time of need. My best wishes...Heather Lampton
Heather Lampton <heather_lampton@hotmail.com>
Hibbing, MN USA - Friday, December 19, 2003 4:57 PM CST
Jen and Chad,
You don't know me, but I am Greg Orgel's aunt. I have been following your CaringBridge website for some time, and have kept all of you in my thoughts. Stay strong and remember there are lots of people who are staying strong along with you. Warmest regards,
Sara Orgel <Taffy2103@aol.com>
Orefield, PA - Friday, December 19, 2003 3:57 AM CST
Jen - I am so sorry to hear that Chad is doing so poorly now. I was really hoping you guys would get some good news this week when you went to the doctor. Big hugs to all 4 of you. I am praying for some comfort, in whatever form that may take, for each of you. XOXO - Steph
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Thursday, December 18, 2003 5:12 PM CST
Jen: I just called my daughter and she said there were openings at KinderKids. The number there is 218-243-2057. The licensed teacher that would answer is named "Angie".
Hope Chad can get comfy tonight and sleep well.
You keep your heart surrounded by love and faith. We will keep ours in constant prayer.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, December 18, 2003 3:47 PM CST
Hi, Jen. Can you get help from someone for household things etc. while you are trying to nurse Chad? Hospice or the county? It seems that it might be good for you to have someone who is medically competent be around part of the time. Sometimes just being able to get out of the house and go somewhere else and "let down" is necessary for the one who is the caregiver.
If you have 3-6 year olds in your daycare, you could check with my daughter, Alisa, who has Kinder Kids if there are any openings there. Her phone number (not Kinder Kids) is 218-243-3312. She is in Northern Township.
Giving you and Chad a heart-felt "there there"...., a hug, and many, many prayers.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, December 18, 2003 3:21 PM CST
Hey you guys,
Just wanted to let you know that we're here for you. I miss talking online. Let me know how you're doing next time you see me online.
Carolin
Carolin and Travis <carolin_spencer@hotmail.com>
Columbus, Ga - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 5:11 PM CST
Dear Jen and Chad,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family. "Everyday starts anew"
Linda Spindler, ACCP member <slbspin@paulbunyan.net>
- Wednesday, December 17, 2003 1:41 PM CST
Hearts aligned, message heard
The invasion has returned
Loving eyes, seeing more
of sadness that you learned
A host of love, filters through
but you must stand alone
to face life's most wrenching pain
that man has ever known
Look above and reach for Him
who knows your every thought
that He may comfort at this time
the battle that you've fought
with tears and hope,
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Wednesday, December 17, 2003 8:27 AM CST
Jenn & Chad: You two do what you must, nobody can decide for you. I do know, Chad, I saw a look in your eyes on Sunday that said what you don't speak. We are so thankful you have been in Jenn's life. You have given her a foundation to work from for the rest of her life...thank you. If you want to continue to fight, we support you. When you decide you've climbed enough hills & need rest, we will still be "in your corner". We love you. mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 7:53 PM CST
Jen and Chad I am so sorry that things are going for the worst but whatever you do don't give up. We all know that God has a plan for all of us but what you can do now is keep living in the moment and pray that things will work out in the end. I love you all and God bless.
Amy Bourassa <DIVR03@juno.com>
- Tuesday, December 16, 2003 12:04 AM CST
Jennifer: I just read your latest journal entry and I feel so sad that you both have to go through this. As a little girl, you were always tough and independent. I see the little girl in the woman. As a little girl, you refused to quit and you refused to be beaten. I've been seeing that little girl in the woman, too. I walked in your shoes for only a month last year...the longest month of my life. I don't know that I would have had the strength of character and will to continue as long as you have. DON'T quit. Always be prepared for the worst while hoping for the best. But don't quit. That little girl I knew never quit. I love you and would shield you with my life if it would help. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 0:19 AM CST
Dear Jen and Chad, I wish there were something I could do or say to make things better for you, especially now when your emotions are running rampantly. I want you to know that my thoughts,tears, and lots of prayers are with you daily. I love you all... HUGS, Elaine
(if this should appear twice..it is because I "hit" the wrong key the first time !!) love again...E.
Elaine Olson <bobolson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls,, Mn. - Monday, December 15, 2003 10:53 PM CST
Dear Jen and Chad.... I wish there were something I could say or do to make you feel better, especially now when your emotions are running rampantly... just know that you are in my thoughts, tears and lots of prayers daily. I love you all.... HUGS, Elaine
Elaine Olson <bobolson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, , Mn. - Monday, December 15, 2003 10:39 PM CST
Jen & Chad - I cannot even begin to imagine the emotions that the two of you must be experiencing as you go through this experience. I know there are no words that can make it better, although I sure wish there were. I keep wishing and praying for another miracle, for more time for the two of you. But, I hate to think about Chad being in pain and discomfort all the time. I know that makes it tough for him to be able to enjoy the time when he is awake and with the family. My heart just breaks thinking about Tate and Kiah and what they are having to deal with at such a young age. I feel kinda helpless so far away, can't do anything to help all of you. I am hoping and praying that your doctor's appointment tomorrow will bring only good news for Chad. Love to all of you.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Monday, December 15, 2003 11:11 AM CST
Hi, Martinson family....
Today I feel sadness having said "goodbye" to my son who is going to Iraq with the National Guards for a year and a half. I'm hoping that with Saddam's capture that somehow the situation over there will resolve sooner and our men can get out of there. You never know. It might get worse before it gets better.
Baby grandson baptized yesterday and we also celebrated his brother's second birthday. We combined parties to have birthday, baptism, and war send-off. Kind of emotional day.
Tomorrow is the doctor day for you guys. I certainly hope and pray that there is an encouraging note there.
Praying and sending warmth to your family.....
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, December 15, 2003 9:43 AM CST
I can't tell you how hard it is to hear this journal entry. Wanda and I hurt for you guy's. You are such wonderful people know that if you need anything please call. We will continue to pray for you and pray for the least amount of pain possible. God bless you guy's!
Lot's of love!
Wanda, Chad & Noah
Chad Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, MN - Monday, December 15, 2003 8:14 AM CST
Dear Jen; Our whole family is praying for you all. May the Lord grant you some measure of peace. Take comfort in the fact that others share your burden, and pain. Please call, if you need us.
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
- Sunday, December 14, 2003 7:39 PM CST
You kids just hold tight to your faith and love. We will see you tomorrow. You know anytime, anywhere you can turn to God, family & many friends. Blessings come in many forms and as I read so many entries full of love, I know God is answering prayers in ways never thought of...and through people never known before. God bless all of them and God Bless you and Chad. We love you, so does God.mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Saturday, December 13, 2003 9:50 PM CST
Chad and Jen....All I can say is that my heart and prayers are all for the two of you and your family!! I hope and wish that Tuesday will bring good news, and a light at the end of this tunnel!! You are all in my prayers!!!
Shannon <bailey4evr2002@yahoo.com>
Pennington, mn usa - Saturday, December 13, 2003 6:33 PM CST
Oh, Jen, I hear the profound sadness in your last journal entry. You are squaring off, seeing the situation in it's coldest light. No one who has not been in your shoes can really appreciate the bleakness, the frustration, the sadness, and the anger.
What those of us can do is to remain steadfast in prayer and supplication that our Heavenly Father wrap His tender arms around your whole family as it changes daily. I know there are prayer warriors beseeching God on your behalf.
When Chad meets Jesus face to face, the bible promises there are no tears in heaven. The tears will flow on earth. Is there comfort in knowing that our bodies all eventually die, but that the spirit (the core of who we are) lives forever?
I could just cry trying to think of something, anything, that could possibly ease the suffering you all are going through. If hearts could wash away pain, I think that the people that love you would carry you into puffy peaceful clouds of peace.
We stand together in love and prayers for you.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, December 13, 2003 10:25 AM CST
Chad, Jen, and Kids...
Just wanted to drop a little line to let you know that as always you are in our thoughts and prayers, Now more then ever. I tried to call yesterday forgetting where you guys were until a strange lady answered the phone. It is kind of a cute story. I will give you guys a call later in the weekend. All of our love plus a bit more...
John and Pam <jpmagnuson@charter.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Saturday, December 13, 2003 8:09 AM CST
Our hearts are breaking for you and your family. so sorry to read all you are going thru. I know you are strong and have alot of faith. Remember no matter what our Lord is holding you close and the more you lean on him the closer he will be. We love you alot and read daily what your write. Pray for you alot. Chuck and Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice @webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Friday, December 12, 2003 10:41 PM CST
Jen: I haven't visited this site in quite a long time and I'm sorry for that. I just read your most recent entry and it touched me deeply. I've always known you were strong but the strength and faith you expressed are incredible. I'm so impressed with the way you've taken this horrible situation and managed to find the positives. You and your entire family are in my prayers. Love to you all,
Joanne Wright <jwright242@aol.com>
St. Paul, MN Ramsey - Thursday, December 11, 2003 1:24 AM CST
Just to let you know we continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers daily. Take care!
Jeri and Jerry Nesland <jerinesl@lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, December 9, 2003 2:30 PM CST
Jen - all I can say is BRAVO! You are lightyears ahead of the rest of us on the learning curve. Enjoy what time you have together and make the most of this magical time of year. We are celebrating the birth of our Lord, and I am sure that he is seeing the strength and the love that you and Chad share and is glad of the example that you are setting. Love to all of you.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 10:59 AM CST
Good morning Jen,Chad Tate and Kiah, You are all so amazing but I know you trust God in the future, for the future, you know we all love you very much and feel for you so much. take care Grandma and Grandpa
LeVonne Hanson <arlev@prtel.com>
Dalton, MN USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 8:26 AM CST
Jen,
You and I have been on the same path these last many months. You were kind to me when my husband Brad was going through his own chemo, even though we have never met and know each other strictly though the internet. When Brad died in May, I was so strengthened by my friends, it helped knowing people cared.
You are finding your feet, searching out your strength and giving it back to Chad. What a wonderful gift that is, to love someone all their life. My thoughts are with you and your children. Please feel free to call on me if there is anything I can do.
"Sometimes what seems like surrender isn't surrender at all. It's about what's going on in your own hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater." Nicholas Evans
Brads website: http://www.caringBridge.com/ga/bradmoss
Kat Gasque <kgasque@mindspring.com>
Atlanta, GA - Monday, December 8, 2003 11:13 PM CST
Jen you constantly amaze me. Your latest journal entry was such a candid and refreshing piece. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me". To go through your life situation and to pull out what you can to help you live your life better, and to be of courage and help to others is a wonderful gift that you have.
It's wonderful that you can see the positive as well as the negative effects of the cancer and how it made you realize what is important and lasting. To realize that there are many levels of "life", and this earthly one is just a spit in the ocean compared to eternity is a big chunk to digest. But an important one too.
I'm so glad that you are able to see as clearly as possible what is true and valuable, and to take it on as it comes. You are not running away, but standing against the wind. God seems to be working with you in helping you to come to grips with reality without giving up on His miracles.
There are others of us who are standing with you....either physically or through our prayers. I'm thankful that you feel the surrounding arms of those who care about you and your family.
In this Season of Love, may you find warmth and peace every day.
"Hugs" to you and yours.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, December 8, 2003 9:31 PM CST
Just want you to know we're praying for his comfort, have been for some time now. You both have drawn strength from all the love out here, please continue to look to it for more. We love you much and & Steph said, we would gladly take "our turn" if could be so. Love to all of you. Hugs and more hugs. Love mom H
mom H <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Monday, December 8, 2003 6:29 PM CST
Jen - although you are probably right about Chad having to continue to "deal" with these various problems, your strength, and the strength of all who love the two of you, will help in that process of "dealing." I know if any of us could take some of the pain and discomfort on to ourselves to make it a little better, we would. Your inner strength continues to amaze me and I have to say that I am proud to be related to you! I hope that if I ever have to face anything this tough that I can have 1/2 your strength. Please know that we are all here for you, no matter where we might be located geographically, and if there is ANYTHING that we can do to help, no matter how small or how big, you only have to say the word. Love to all of you! XOXO
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Monday, December 8, 2003 2:05 PM CST
Glad to hear that your "buggies" are gone and Chad's feeling a little better. I really hope this medication works well for him. It's unfortunate he has to go to Fargo for treatment...too bad it couldn't be done there in Bemidji.
We finally finished our Thanksgiving turkey and tomorrow I'm cooking a turkey for a holiday dinner for homeless vets. We've done this for the past few years. Next weekend I'm cooking a turkey for my Women Marines Association Christmas dinner. Guess what we are NOT having for our Christmas dinner??? I'm making a roast!!!
I've been telling myself that I need to get the Christmas decorations down and get the house done and I need to get started on my Christmas cards, too. Hasn't happened yet. Wish I had your gumption.
Take care and give everyone a hug. Love, Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Saturday, December 6, 2003 8:24 PM CST
Oh KIds, how I wish I do something for you. If Chad can get more sleep that is good...But I have to guess he hates to feel soooo tired. Anyway, the best thing is that John & Pam are coming to visit. I know it will give Chad a spurt of high spirits. Did you take kids to Cat in the Hat yet? Maybe something for the weekend? You all take care, kiss the kids for me and share hugs. Love you...mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Saturday, December 6, 2003 0:10 AM CST
Well how things do change.....I certainly hope that the Lasix does it's job and gets some of that nasty fluid to makd Chad more comfy.
It's great that the kids and Chad didn't get your strep, Jen. As others have noted, that would have been the straw that broke the camel's back.
Hopefully Chad can sleep better after the fluid is taken down (until it is, I suppose he will be making frequent bathroom trips)and not be so bloated.
Hope the rest of the week settles down for you all and some quality quiet time can take the place of all the hectic trips Chad has been taking.
Prayers, love, hope, support are yours.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Friday, December 5, 2003 8:55 AM CST
I am a first time guestbook signer (is there such a word?) Laurice recently gave me the address and I finally have few moments to myself to browse through your guest book. Wow, is all I can say, what a wonderful way to keep in touch and reach so many peoples lives. Your family picture is very fun, you all look great. As I was reading your journal, I definitely can feel the strength and energy you all have, keep it up-unless you get strep and the flu. You are all amazing and in my prayers. If you are in Fargo and need place to stay or want a free meal give us a call at 218-287-7255 or my cell 701-371-1930 I think we can set you up! Take care and enjoy this wonderful time of the year! Shannon
Shannon Swenson <swensons95@earthlink.com>
Moorhead, MN USA - Thursday, December 4, 2003 11:00 PM CST
I surely hope Chad CAN sleep...he needs it. He's not a driver, and to be doing all this tripping to Fargo has got have worn him out. It plays both of your emotional states, I know. Will keep in touch and you hug each other for me & dad. Love you lots. Let us know we can help. Love mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, December 4, 2003 10:43 PM CST
Greetings! Hope the new med works on you, Chad. We are finally getting some snow although it is little. No snowmobiling here!!! But then it is less to shovel - and I don't do that very well. Take care and stay well. Thinking of all of you with Love!!!!!!!!!!
Jo and Roger <pederson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, December 4, 2003 8:20 PM CST
Jen & Chad - sorry to hear that Chad's still not feeling well. Sure hope he can get past this latest problem, seems to be the last thing he should have to deal with. We're all thinking good thoughts for all of you. Stay strong and know that we're all wishing only the best for you. This IS the season of miracles, and with as many people as there are praying and thinking positively, miracles will continue coming to you. Love to all of you.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 10:56 AM CST
Am hoping Chad can find resolve to problem...if only he liked prunes:) You have a good day Jenn. Remember both of you/when you alone w/your fears and tears, you are not alone. God feels all you feel. He loves you and so do we.
mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, December 3, 2003 7:04 AM CST
Dear Jen and Chad.... Just a note to let you know that I am thinking about you daily and praying for you at this challenging time. It is good to know that the strep attack is just a memory, Jen, and that the children avoided it...with all the trauma you all are going through, you don't need another issue to deal with. I hope this new treatment will be the miracle we are all praying for Chad..and that you won't feel too horrible from it. I remember only too well the nasty reactions!! God's blessings of hope and healing this day. My love to all of you.... HUGS... Elaine O.
Elaine Olson <bobolson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, Mn - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 9:32 PM CST
Good morning....it's Tuesday morning and the sun isn't quite up yet. I woke up at 5:00 A.M. and couldn't get back to sleep.
Of course I have to check your site to see how things are going for your family....
My best friend from California is leaving today. She is a wonderful and loving Christian woman. I showed her your site and she is going to bring Chad and the family to her church and friends for additional prayer support. She wanted me to tell you that she has seen miracles and it will be her prayer to the Lord to ask for one for Chad. She also asked me to extend her personal greeting of a shared faith and blessing from God. Her name is Josie.
We shared our first "out loud" prayer together in the 70's.
I pray that this day brings peace, a sense of beauty and love for your whole family.
Carol J. Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 7:00 AM CST
Sounds like you guys have been gallivanting all over the countryside. Finally heard from your mom. This whole thing has been so hard on all of you. I am amazed each time I check this site at how strong and courageous you are. Makes me proud to be related to you.
Jenn, miracles happen every day. With everyone you have in your corner pulling for Chad, we could witness one up close. He has gotten further than the doctors originally believed was possible -- therefore, he's already achieved the impossible.
Love to all. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, December 1, 2003 11:25 PM CST
Sending hugs your way. Travel safely tomorrow, Chad. Am praying "bugs" didn't resurface with anyone else. Just you, Jenn, got to be the buggy one:) Quite afew folks have asked about you Jenn & hope you are better. You are all well remembered even though names may not be in book. God loves you...so do I. Love, mom h
mom h
- Monday, December 1, 2003 7:58 PM CST
Hello all. I hope today finds you both in good physical shape; Jen with her flu remnants and Chad with the chemo after-effects.
The wedding on Thanksgiving was perfect, and the reception last night went extremely well. I'm feeling a lot of relief that the festivities are behind me. I still have houseguests but the major "worrying" part is over.
Now we concentrate on the National Guard son that is going to Iraq - leaving on the 7th of December. I can't believe they are going to keep him for a year and a half. His daughter (who is now 19 months old) will be over 3 before he sees her again.
I hope you guys are getting enough sleep and "down" time. You have so many things going on, it seems, how do you get ready for the next thing?
I continue to pray that the new treatment will benefit Chad greatly. God bless you all.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, December 1, 2003 8:00 AM CST
Supposing you are home & crashed by now. Thank you for the extra effort to spend some time here w/all of us. Chad, I could see how you struggled thru the day (&PM)...God bless you with continued patience & growing faith. I wish we could've been at the church, I know Chad spoke from his heart. Our prayers continue & I'm hoping the pain will become more controlable for you Chad. Love you all. mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Saturday, November 29, 2003 6:16 PM CST
Oh, Jen....what a nuisance to get the FLU right now! "There there!".
Happy Thanksgiving to you two "turkeys" (and the little gobblers).
The rehearsal was last night at 6:00...I was hoping to get out of there in time to slip to the church to hear you guys...but we didn't get done until 9:00! (I guess we're slow...)
I hope it went well! You'll have to post how it went.
Glad Chad is feeling pretty well.....hope Friday's chemo is easy on him.
Have a beautiful Thanksgiving.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bemidji, MN - Thursday, November 27, 2003 8:17 AM CST
Good morning! The sun is peeking out and the day is calm. I'm thinking today of the many blessings in my own life and those of my loved ones. Last night we decorated my daughter's home for the Thanksgiving wedding tomorrow...today will be a day of cooking and preparing for the festivities. I'm a little tired but content.
I was thinking about your testimony at church tonight, Jen and Chad...and wishing I could hear you. What church and what time? That will be so powerful for others to hear of your faith amidst the trials you have experienced. God's grace is sufficient.
My prayer for you is that a miracle will occur, and the cancer will vanish. Above all I pray for your peace and your faith to be strong and true.
When we gather tomorrow, our whole family will unite in prayer for you and yours.
Have a blessed day!
shegdude@gvtel.com <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 8:06 AM CST
Good morning! I'm starting my day w/a prayer & smile for you all. Thanksgiving is tomorrow & we have so much to be thankful for. A personal thank-you goes out to all who read and comment on this CB site. I'm told by the kids often, how many "hits" come to the site...everytime you open the page, the count goes up. It brings them much support to know so many care and the words (even if just a "hi") bring comfort and warmth to them. May God bless everyone of you and your families. Love, mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, November 26, 2003 6:40 AM CST
Every day you gain a strength you never thought you had. I attributed mine to the love and prayers of family, friends and all the other patients and medical staff. Take each day as a seperate battle and celebrate the smallest victory. I know with all the support you have you will have continued success. Our prayers are with you.
Anthony Spithakis & Justine Gaertner <rxheaven@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, AB Canada - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 10:48 PM CST
What a handsome husband you have, Jen! The family photos are darling, too. I wish Greg would let me post pictures, but he's too shy...... Hope Chad is feeling better in time to stuff himself on Turkey Day. I'll be thinking about you all in church Wed. nite. Have a peaceful holiday.
Beth O <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 12:25 AM CST
Hope Chad is feeling a bit better today. Am praying that this treatment is doing only good for him. Love to all of you.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Tuesday, November 25, 2003 9:13 AM CST
I forgot to tell you Your pictures are wonderful. Priceless. Every family should do it.I wanted to say also WE LOVE YOU ALOT AND SO DOES GOD. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Fallls, MN USA - Sunday, November 23, 2003 5:46 PM CST
Hi there! How are things going. Hope better!Did you get alot of snow. I think it quit here. IT is a pretty white. It hasn't been a nice day-sort of blustery. Oh well, I guess it it time for this stuff. Just letting you know we are thinking of you and praying for you each day and night. Chuck is out blowing snow--he blew snow before church and now as does't want to go out. He works 12 tonite. I've been baking --it is a good day for that. and if kids are coming will have to do it sooner or later. Love you guys alot. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@Webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Sunday, November 23, 2003 5:27 PM CST
Was good to spend time with you all. This am I listened to TV church broadcast that spoke of Thanksgiving. Very thought-provoking. Without adversity we don't realize what everyday things to be thankful for: daily sun, friends, rain for crops, etc. I thank the Lord for everyday he gives me, but especially for those that allow your family life. The pastor linked thankful and Christian together. I think this is true...he brought Ann & Allan into your lives for a reason. So many places in the bible it says to give thanks. In the beauty of little things is the beauty of life. I love you much and know God does too. Love, mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Sunday, November 23, 2003 1:38 PM CST
Good day! It sounds like you'll have a house full! A bathroom? Now THERE'S an idea!! Well chad, sounds like you need to do a little wheedling, huh? {;^)
Hang in there guy! We'll be thinking about ya!
Brad & Judy D. <bjs@prtel.com>
MN - Sunday, November 23, 2003 8:10 AM CST
So glad to hear that Chad's not suffering through much in the way of side effects. I can't believe you guys set up so many Christmas trees! I'm sure it's beautiful though. Love and hugs to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of each other.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR - Saturday, November 22, 2003 5:53 PM CST
WOO HOO!! Great news of treatment and little side effects. I'm so happy that there's been a little good news here for you guys! Jen you make me tired thinking about decorating for Christmas already.....sigh....
We just celebrated my youngest son's 18th birthday. Can't believe all 9 are adults now! From 36 down to 18. I remember thinking when my "baby" was born how "old" I'd be when he was 18. I don't feel as old as I thought I would. Still some kick to me and just this senior year to finish and I can sit back and just enjoy the grandbabies (there are 12 now).
Have a great weekend with your family. Prayers, as usual, sailing to the heavens for you and yours.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, November 22, 2003 11:50 AM CST
That is great news! Hang in there and we are thinking of you!. The kids are getting so big.
Stacey <dsjuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, - Friday, November 21, 2003 8:50 PM CST
Wonderful pictures! Your kids are adorable. You are true Vikings fans!! Great news for you on the treatment. I pray it helps Chad. Every day start anew!
Linda Spindler <slbspin@paulbunyan.net>
- Friday, November 21, 2003 10:21 AM CST
Alright!! We are all thinking only good thoughts that this medication is the one that will turn the tide. Stay positive and strong. Love to all. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Friday, November 21, 2003 9:51 AM CST
Hi kids. My spirit is lifted knowing yours is. There have been soooo many prayers for you all & the prayer chain @ church is remembering you, too. You will feel their strength and love thru the peace of God. I love you much and will see you on Sunday. mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Friday, November 21, 2003 9:07 AM CST
Good morning Chad, Jenn & kids. Wonderful pictures on your site. Thanks for sharing the pictures and your amazing story. Love the family picture. Geez, are you ALL Viking fans? Really, I am not at all surprised to see purple & gold on your site! Keep your strong unshakable faith within your heart, cuz it helps the rest of us. Talked to John & Pam last weekend about you and your health. He will be so happy about the treatments. Stay strong and positive. You both are amazing! Your kids are darling! Love, Pat
Pat Frederick <cpfrederick@arvig.net>
Henning, MN USA - Friday, November 21, 2003 7:35 AM CST
Jen & Chad,
As Mom just posted, we only just found out that Chad's been having problems with the cancer again. I also assumed that no news was good news. I guess I shouldn't have assumed that. I am constantly amazed at the strength and courage the two of you have displayed and the positive attitude that you manage to maintain somehow. I only wish I was as strong in my everyday life as the two of you have been during this time of great difficulty. As mom said, if there is ANYTHING that we can do, all you have to do is say the word. I know we are far away, but we'll do whatever we can. Please give each other a big hug from me. I will continue to check the page regularly again to follow Chad's progress and will keep you all in my prayers. Love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@comcast.net>
Springfield, OR USA - Thursday, November 20, 2003 11:51 AM CST
Chad & Jennifer: I just received an email from Gramma telling me that the cancer has not abated. I am so sorry to hear that. I guess I believed that since Susan hadn't sent anything otherwise, all was going great. Jenn, don't try to shoulder everything and do everything yourself. Take time to recharge. Chad needs your strength and so do the kids. Share the burdens with others and let them do what they can. I don't know what, if anything, I can do from this distance but if there is anything at all that I can do that will help you, please let me know and I will do it. Your family will be in our thoughts. Love, Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Thursday, November 20, 2003 11:20 AM CST
I'm praying for you daily. If you ever need me to watch the kids or take them for awhile let me know and i'll be there. I love you guys.
Heather Sand <m_hsand@hotmail.com>
Bemidji, MN Beltrami - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 11:47 PM CST
You two know I'm never without you in my thoughts & heart. I just want to hug the hurt away. As long as you have faith and "fight" there is hope. Kiah & Tate & you, Jenn, are the evidence of Chad's strength...sustained with God's love. A love that goes on and on. I pray that God will comfort you all-his heart is big enough for all the sorrow we share. Only he can put peace into our lives where the fears and sorrows lay. Keep talking to him and asking for that peace...I do, daily. Love you so much. mom h
mom h <lkhanson@ lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, November 18, 2003 6:50 PM CST
Jen and Chad.....more challenges for your already stretched selves. I'm sure I speak for all of us who visit the site often when I say it's frustrating to know how much you are going through and we can't alleviate any of it. If all of your family and friends could take a portion of your pain/fear we would. What you are experiencing is so challenging. Your courage in the face of this is truly amazing. I know that God is the One who is lifting you up to meet each day's new circumstance. I am so glad that you are trusting Him with your lives. He is giving you "peace that passes all understanding". Your faith has opened up the spiritual place that acknowledges that we are more spirit than flesh. Our spirits live for eternity; our bodies for a season.
In the meantime I'm sure you know that every prayer that wings it's way up to God on your behalf is heard by our Heavenly Father. I believe even that your situation is bringing others closer to Him.
God bless you in ways that will astound you.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 7:52 AM CST
Chad and Jen---We are thinking about you and praying for you daily. We just wanted to let you know if you ever need anything, we are here for you. Chad and Bets
Elizabeth Nelson <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, - Monday, November 17, 2003 10:45 PM CST
I try to read the entries everyday, Chad and Jen. Sorry to hear about the setbacks. With the power of prayer, you certainly will have a wonderful Christmas. I sat by your mom in church on Sunday. She had to explain the joke the minister said because children were crying and I didn't hear the punch line. You'll have to ask your mom about that. Your kids sit so nice when we see them in church. You should be very proud. Not much new. We are waiting for a new grandchild to come. Nic and Teresa are now a week overdue. Hopefully the little person will decide to come soon. Will keep you posted. Well, take care and remember you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love you.
Jo and Roger <pederson@lakesplus.com>
- Monday, November 17, 2003 6:21 PM CST
Hi Chad & Jen,
I hate to see such horrible news but I am glad your faith is strong. If you need anything please give us a call or email me. We'd love to help you in any way we can. We will continue to pray for you. God Bless you guy's!
chad & Wanda Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
osage, MN USA - Monday, November 17, 2003 3:16 PM CST
Jen and Chad, I check your journal often. I want you to know that I am praying daily for you and your family. Every day starts anew. Live each one to the fullest, not like it's the last, but like it's a new one.
Linda Spindler <slbspin@paulbunyan.net>
- Monday, November 17, 2003 2:40 PM CST
Chad and Jen; Please let me know if I can offer any assistance with Chad's pain problems. Don't let it get out of control. I'm here when you need me. Greg's mom
Beth Orgel, RN <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Sunday, November 16, 2003 9:49 AM CST
Haven't read this since Wed. My heart aches for you all. I'm praying for Chad's pain to be controlable. He's not one to complain, so this concerns me much. I love you much & know God does too. Please keep in touch with him..Love mom H
mom h
- Saturday, November 15, 2003 10:50 PM CST
Hi Chad & Jen & kids,
We are so sorry to hear chad is in more pain. We will continue to pray for you and hope for the best.
God Bless you!
Chad & Wanda Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, MN USA - Friday, November 14, 2003 7:53 AM CST
"I can bring home the bacon.......fry it up in a pan......" (singing a'la the old commercial). You go, Jen!
My 17 year old got his deer the opening day. It makes me shudder, personally. Lol. I'm a bit of a city girl I think. They never hunted in San Francisco where I was raised so it's still (after 21 years here) a foreign concept.
I'm going crazy with things to do before my daughter's wedding......plus my custody cases still are humming there to do and write court reports. Before the wedding I also have my son's 18th birthday and another daughter's birthday (34)to make fusses over.
This weekend my husband and I and two of his brothers and their wives and some others are going to Grand Forks to see "Alabama". We are staying overnight Saturday night. I really shouldn't even go but I am going to anyway. I'm not really a country-western fan but it should be a good concert anyway. And it will be fun to be with family.
I wish that Chad's tumor(s) wouldn't press against his tummy and make it difficult to eat adequate portions. He must be so angry sometimes that his body is campaigning against him. After all these years it's so surprising to me that more cures/treatments haven't been developed. So many people have so many kinds of cancer. So we need to pray, pray, pray!
Hope your week is pleasant and that Chad has little discomfort. Enjoy your venison!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 8:15 AM CST
Hello all! Sounds like you are the "Mighty Hunter", Jen. Congratulations. And to have a "Crafty" husband. Wow!!!!!!!
We are anxiously waiting for the arrival of Nic and Teresa's baby. Due today. Take care of yourselves.
Love Jo and Roger
JoClaire and Roger
- Monday, November 10, 2003 8:03 PM CST
Chad and Jen: We are so glad you we able to join us for the vikings game. It was a sad game, but the company was great. You have wonderful children and it was great to see all of you. Take care. Lots of Love! Chad and Wanda
wanda <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
- Monday, November 10, 2003 2:24 PM CST
Great to hear Chad is feeling better, I hope you guys had a good weekend and were able to tag your deer.
Jason Tang <Jtang@istate.com>
Moorhead, MN USA - Monday, November 10, 2003 9:46 AM CST
That's great news, Jen! I'm so happy Chad is looking and feeling better! How wonderful. Here's crossing our fingers for a deer or two. Good luck to you both! Stop whining, Jen, you know you love being in the "boonies". LOL.
Happy venison hunting! My youngest son shot his first deer yesterday while we were in the Cities'. It's not very big but he was happy anyway.
Our Christian school is having a chili feed fund-raiser today at the Bagley American Legion from 11-2....my hubby is cooking away this morning prior to our shift. Then I have my book club at 1:00....and at 5 we are going to a benefit for a friend of ours who has cancer.
Hope your Sunday is wonderful!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Sunday, November 9, 2003 9:18 AM CST
Wow....what a disappointment that Chad went to Fargo and then was unable to have the hope for treatment. Don't the doctors/medical providers communicate? It seems to me they should have known he would need "permission" to take the drug before he went there. Why waste up precious energy to make unecessary trips? There....I've had my "grrrrr" for the morning!
Does Chad hunt? Will do a little scoping in the woods to find a deer? I'm hoping lots of hunters have great luck because deer are so thick and constantly throwing themselves in front of cars! We personally have hit three of them so I can imagine that it's pretty pervasive everywhere. We do live in the country so it's worse here, probably.
At least the snow will make it easier for hunters to track their deer.
Hope and pray that things progress a little better for you guys, Jen.
Blessings to all.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 8:29 AM CST
Hi kids. Checking to see if Chad got to Fargo...I know the infusion has helped before & with God's watchful eye, it will "do it again". We love you so much...for all that both of you are going thru. Tate & Kiah are an extension of both of you, and they do so well because of your strength, faith & love. Thank you for doing your very best with them. Love you & see you soon. mom h
mom h
- Monday, November 3, 2003 10:13 PM CST
Prayers to you during this time of trial. Faith that He is there with you!! Your mom told me about the latest updates. I hope you are feeling a little better. You both are so strong to fight so hard. Let Him carry you wherever you need to go. I pray that comfort is yours and feeling better will soon be. Hug and kiss your gifts twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Sunday, November 2, 2003 8:49 PM CST
Hi! I'm Willa, Greg Orgel's cousin. I'm glad Chad is feeling at least a bit better each day. Sleeping is always nice...all the best!!
From,
Greg's Cousin, Willa <skwannej@hotmail.com>
Phila., PA - Sunday, November 2, 2003 3:07 PM CST
Hi kids: looking for update. Will send you e-mail, probably call tomorrow. Thought of you alot today, sending much love & hugs. Love mom H
mom h
- Saturday, November 1, 2003 11:21 PM CST
BOO!!! Happy Halloween all. Personally I don't care for Halloween but it seems polite to mention it in case someone else does!
I am praying that the new treatment will be a good mix for Chad and that some results will make the achey feelings worthwhile in the long run. It's wonderful that you are positively pursuing treatments and trying to stay ahead of the cancer. If I were to draw cancer it would be a very ugly picture indeed.
The deer which are flinging themselves on unsuspecting drivers will be hiding in the woods come the orange brigades seeking them out! They must be taught in early "deer-dom" that orange means HIDE. I hope the hunts are successful because they need to be thinned down. We have have one car totaled by a deer and two others damaged this year!
It looks dreary outside my window....the lake and sky are both kind of gray. Even the pine trees look somehow insignificant and not sharply green and proud.
Hope your weekend is wonderful and that Chad feels well enough to enjoy it.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Friday, October 31, 2003 9:10 AM CST
Glad to hear Chad is feeling better...I know that makes all of you feel better. I'm looking forward to seeing you all again next Friday...will see if we can help with the transportation situtation. :) Love you all. mom h
mom h
- Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:02 PM CST
Jenn: I just read something Carol sent. In part it said: God really must love you. Every spring he sends you flowers and everyday brings you a sunrise. Makes me think...he shows his love in many ways that are just part of our everyday days. We love you much...Love, mom h
mom h
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:06 PM CST
Jen and Chad, It is wonderful to see the strong faith you have. You are an inspiration to us all. May God keep blessing you. You are always in our prayers. Love, Rod and Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 1:18 PM CST
Jen...it was so nice to see you tonight. Like you said, so many of us want to call, but don't know what to say. You, Chad and the little ones are in my prayers. Feel free to call me if you two need to go and have time together, time is precious! I hope and pray this new chemo is going to be the key!!! Many prayers and thoughts!!
Shannon <bailey4evr2002@yahoo.com>
Pennington, MN USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 10:49 PM CST
If whatever they are giving Chad is as powerful as it is difficult to pronounce, no wonder he feels tough. Chad, your love and faith is going to carry you thru this. God's good works are coming to you thru everyone's care and prayers. We love you. mom h
mom h
- Tuesday, October 28, 2003 10:18 PM CST
Hello Jen and Chad! We are so happy to hear that you felt that you were at home again when you went to the Cancer Center, even better yet, we are so happy that Dr. Kobrinsky has found a new drug. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lots of Love. Chad, Wanda, and Noah
wanda <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
- Sunday, October 26, 2003 2:53 PM CST
Hello, little family! I just got back from a training is St. Paul and had to rush to your site to "check in". Nothing new posted so that probably is GOOD. I thought I detected a hint of SNOW coming home but it disappeared fast so I pretended that I didn't see it. Tsk tsk.....snow in October will never do!
I bought my "Mother of the Bride" outfit while I was in the Cities.....even some jewelry to go along with it. That's a nice thing to have out of the way.
I will bring you guys up in our church tomorrow for prayer again. We have some wonderful prayer warriors who will be diligent in praying for Chad, the doctors, the kids, and you, Jen.
Hope you're having a relaxing weekend.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Saturday, October 25, 2003 8:48 PM CDT
You all have received such wonderful messages since I last wrote, I had to dry tears before I write. I know all these paths have been lead by God. Even PH. They certainly gave some positive help when you really needed it. Now it's the return to Dr. K that will bring the next step. Every night I pray for the knowledge the Dr's are able to bring you/and God's added wisdom for choices you two must make. Your shoes are dusty and worn, but your faith stays strong, and God will carry you when needed. Sooo good to visit these last few days/love to hear those little words "hi gamma", too:) I love you all very much. mom h
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Friday, October 24, 2003 8:14 AM CDT
How wonderful - some good news. You are all in our thoughts and of course, prayers. This communication is the most wonderful thing! Take care.
Love Jo and Roger
Jo <pederson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, October 23, 2003 12:59 AM CDT
That's great, Jen, about the doctor and the new idea for a different chemo treatment! A light of hope is so wonderful! We (I'm sure all your friends/family) will be praying for this new direction and that it will help Chad. Woo hoo, God!
You're in God's hands....they will guide you. He is trustworthy. He is the potter, you are the clay. May He grant you perfect peace.
Have a great day!
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, October 23, 2003 7:47 AM CDT
Marty & Jen,
just wanted to let you know we are always thinking of you and praying for you! You both are such an inspiration. Your love and Faith is wonderful! Marty, 6-0...gotta love it buddy!
Chris Johnston & Family
Laporte, MN - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 3:30 PM CDT
Jen, just wanted you to know that you have been in our thoughts and prayers. I, along with many other people keep updated through your mom. God's peace, Dyann Tigges
Dyann Tigges
- Tuesday, October 21, 2003 2:44 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know that your family in Texas is praying for you daily.
Karen Fischner <kfischner@firstedcu.org>
Porter, TX - Monday, October 20, 2003 4:57 PM CDT
Hi Martinsons!
Your last entry is such an inspiration to Wanda and I. Faith in Jesus Christ is such a wonderful thing! We pray that chad's fight with Cancer is not filled with prolonged pain and suffering. God bless you Martinson's!
Chad & Wanda Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, MN USA - Monday, October 20, 2003 11:43 AM CDT
Dear Chad and Jen; May you always have the support and faith in your Lord to sustain you. Our prayers are always with you. The Orgel Family
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Sunday, October 19, 2003 10:41 AM CDT
What a beautiful journal entry today, Jen. It made tears spring to my eyes and my heart just ache. I'm so glad you received a little "gift" in the mail that met your need at that moment. Sometimes things strike us in our lives, and sometimes they just are a continuing situation. And all we can do is respond in the best possible way. You are learning so much and giving your heart a chance to let God bathe you in His love. Someone told me once that God has a tapestry that He is creating. We only see the underside, with all the threads and apparent confusion. But He sees the upper side and knows how it will all piece together. We don't have as much control over this life as we would like. And maybe that's for the best.
I just wanted you to know that your entry blessed me.
And I pray: "God....give this family every good thing it needs to live each day for You and in You, and to have complete and absolute trust in Your wisdom and mercy". Amen.
Carol
- Saturday, October 18, 2003 11:30 PM CDT
Good Morning guys! Jen, All I have to say is the I admire your faith In God. You have put your full trust in him and let him do what he needs to in your life. Just remember that God didn't promise a hurt free life, but he did promise the strength to get through them. Stay Strong! Our prayers are with you!!
Hansons
Ashby, MN USA - Saturday, October 18, 2003 9:52 AM CDT
Good morning, Martinson family. As usual I check the website to see how things are going. It's always so inspiring to read what Mom H. has to say. What love shines out from her! I just want Mom H. to know that as well as praying for Chad and Jen, I pray for her, too. How wonderful to have the support of your closest family in everything. Not everyone has that. It's a true and wonderful blessing.
Have a good weekend, you guys. Prayers still are going upwards for you, as you know. Hold on to each other and cherish every little positive experience you get.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Friday, October 17, 2003 10:03 AM CDT
Hi! I hate to say I'm glad Chad is achey, but I am glad a positive sign may be on the horizon. Am glad Roy will spend some time w/you. I know the family room will be "a rock'in" with shouts and hollers! Said a special prayer today for your strength, too, Jenn. I know God is with you & he will listen even when I cannot. May his peace fill your days & nights. Loveyou much... mom h
mom h
- Thursday, October 16, 2003 10:13 PM CDT
Thinking of you and sending hugs & love. This is very good picture of Chad & kids...makes me smile. I love you...so does God. Love mom h
mom h
- Wednesday, October 15, 2003 10:04 PM CDT
No, I didn't leave you. Just a little crash of the computer, but all is well now. Have been sending prayers to you and hoping for the best. See your mom and get updates from her. We had lunch the other day and it was great. Tate looks happy on the first day of school and Kiah is getting so big. Continued prayers to you and that all is well. I pray that you have comfort. Keep faith and trust in He who is there for us all. Hug and kiss your gifts twice.
Paula
- Tuesday, October 14, 2003 9:14 AM CDT
Hi Chad,
I hope you are feeling fine, I'm praying for you and I know alot of people are all praying for you. When I went to buy a vehicle and there you sat, I know you had some kind of cancer but I didn't ask, because it was too personal. My baby brother died of cancer, he was two when they found the tumors, but he lived until he was 6 yrs old. He was a smart, happy, loving brother, never complainted and we are so glad he was in our lives for as long as he was. He is still in our lives and watching over us. You just reminded me of him and you fixed me up with my new van. I just pray you get well, you have a precious family and you just have to have faith.
Jennie <mctjlr@paulbunyan.net>
- Monday, October 13, 2003 12:23 AM CDT
Happy to see you back in the book. The pictures are great! Thank you. Dad & I keep praying and fill our hearts with thanks for what has "been" so far. Your strength & determination are also answers to prayers of many. Love you all. God is watching over all of you. Love mom H
mom h
- Monday, October 13, 2003 6:45 AM CDT
Good morning! After a rainy Saturday today looks bright and shiny. I can just picture you, Jen....zooming along in a 4-wheeler! Glad I was in a different area and stayed safe!
I'm sorry to hear that the platlets are not cooperating and things are at a standstill. I will pray for the doctor to have wisdom and creativity as he thinks about what to do next.
Hope you have a good week as a family.
Love and hugs
Carol
Bagley, MN - Sunday, October 12, 2003 9:21 AM CDT
Hello, Jen and Chad and kids. Hope you had a nice weekend. Sounded like you were relaxing and enjoying the time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Take care.
Love
Jo and Roger
Jo and Roger Pederson
- Saturday, October 11, 2003 12:28 AM CDT
Hello Jen and Chad. We just read your latest update and wanted to let you know that we are praying for you on a daily basis. We are praying that your counts will start to climb and they can think of something they can do. Our thoughts are with you and keep that smile on your face and at the same time, let out all the frustration you may have. Take care. Love, Chad, Wanda, and Noah!
wanda <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
- Saturday, October 11, 2003 10:21 AM CDT
Cking in on you all:) Was good to see you today, Chad. I hope you all can have a fun weekend & just relax in the beauty of the fall season. Kisses and big bear hugs to all of you. Love, mom H
mom h
- Thursday, October 9, 2003 10:05 PM CDT
Wanda and I are thinking and praying for you guy's everyday. I hope everything is good!
Wanda & Chad Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, MN USA - Thursday, October 9, 2003 4:33 PM CDT
Hello, Martinson clan. You sound a bit "down", Jen. I'm sure the uncertainty of the tests and how Chad is feeling is hard to deal with. I hope that you are able to feel the love that surrounds you all and that there is some small joy there.
Waiting and waiting and waiting. It's so numbing to the mind and soul. Remember to read your bible and take some sustenance from there.
A pipe burst in my daughter's home and caused severe damage to the house. Her new carpets and wood floors, some walls, etc. are ruined. (This is the home she has on the market for sale....)
I am trying to do the wedding invitations today for another daughter. Jen, you didn't respond earlier about Pampered Chef bridal shower. I'd rather have you do it than someone else, but we need to get it scheduled. If you're too busy and pressured that's fine. But just let me know one way or the other so we can proceed.
The weather is beautiful this week...and the changing leaves are breath-taking. Hope you have a better week, Jen and crew.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, October 7, 2003 7:43 AM CDT
Guess your days have been hectic...no updates. Sending hugs to all. Hope all is well. Love, MOM
mom h
- Friday, October 3, 2003 6:49 PM CDT
WE LOVE YOU...mom H
mom h
- Tuesday, September 30, 2003 10:53 PM CDT
Hi Jennifer and Chad:
I looked at my favorites list today and realized I had not checked up on Chad for awhile. Hang in there you two. Just know that I do think of you even though I don't e-mail. Take care -- Chad must be very happy with the 4 -0 start of the Vikes -- i myself like the Twins win over the Yanks. Take care and God Bless!!
Sandy Aldrich <dodger@wcta.net>
Park Rapids, MN - Tuesday, September 30, 2003 9:00 PM CDT
Hi...checking in on all of you...yes, ALL of you:) Hope the day was a good one & that Chad's tests went well. Have you in my thoughts & prayers throughout the day. Was good to talk yesterday, Jenn. Will visit book tomorrow. Til then, we love you and so does God. Love, MOM
mom h
- Monday, September 29, 2003 8:34 PM CDT
Sending love, and more love. Was good to visit w/you today. Hope you have a good weekend (Vikings play, right?). We'll all be thinking of you tomorrow while @ Jamie's. I'm sure Chad's counts will be up and the steps to progress can begin again next week. Have a safe trip, Chad. Hug each other for me. Love you lots...God does too. Love, MOM H
mom H
- Saturday, September 27, 2003 10:22 PM CDT
My 21 year old (207 lbs.)son has just been diagnosed with desmoplastic small round cancer tumor. He had a carcinoid tumor removed 2 years ago. I can't find much encouraging sites beisdes this one. I am so scared. He is getting scared about the chemo. We see a specialist on Monday. Pray for Aaron. Sincerely, Mary Ann Tucker
Mary Ann Tucker <whiteoak7028@cs.com>
McEwen, TN USA - Thursday, September 25, 2003 5:32 PM CDT
Hey Jen and Chad. I am so sorry to hear all that you have been going through. I hadn't checked the site since back in May/June when the lung thing was cleared up. Very glad to hear that things may hopefully be looking up. If you ever need anything, don't hesitate to call. If you are in Fargo and need a place to stay, we will always make room for you.
Stacy & Amy Bourassa <stacy7946@juno.com>
moorhead, mn - Thursday, September 25, 2003 1:50 PM CDT
Hi, Chad and Jen.
The fall leaves are beautiful right now! The wind is a bit much, but certainly is shaking the leaves of fall.
Sorry to hear that the counts were low...what a disappointment. You get set up so much and then BAM things go worse. As your mom said, you were busy over the weekend and taxed yourself so maybe it's a temporary thing. Prayers are still going forth and God is in control. Keep the faith!
Have a good rest of the week...
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, September 24, 2003 7:52 PM CDT
Hi! On air again! Something not right yet, have to go out & come back in access guestbook. I was disappointed & the counts (Jamie told me). But, with all our prayers and God's help, I know Chad will rally again. He had a terrifically busy couple days & it probably took its toll this way. You know, those pumpkins were very heavy and the late hours didn't help. But, keep your trust in the Lord and remember: God loves you and so do we. Love Mom & Dad
MOM H
- Tuesday, September 23, 2003 10:38 PM CDT
Hi, guys! It's late and I was just checking your site to see how things were going. Glad it looks okay at this point!
My daughter (that gave birth on 9-10) was taken to hospital in middle of night with high fever and severe chills, aches, dizzyness, etc. She still has fever of 103.2, after being on antibiotics and fever pain reducers. They let her bring her newborn with her since she's nursing. They think a part of the afterbirth did not expel and she has bad infection. I'm a little worried, and with all the wonderful prayer warriors checking out this site I thought they could throw an extra prayer for my daughter.
Jen, are you still doing Pampered Chef? Another daughter is engaged and we were thinking of doing a Bridal Shower with Pampered Chef and I'd love you to do it if you're still involved. Email me separately if you are interested.
Jen, the street you live on (I know which one it is) are you close to downtown or way in the other direction?
Hope you have a mellow Sunday!
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Friday, September 19, 2003 11:11 PM CDT
Jen and Chad: I'm so glad to have a chance to follow your progress. Please remember that you are always welcome to come and stay at my house any time you are in the Twin Cities. I received a nice, long letter from Sue today. It was great to hear from her. Take care. You are in our prayers.
Joanne Wright <jwright242@aol.com>
St. Paul, MN Ramsey - Friday, September 19, 2003 1:39 AM CDT
Chad and Jen, Nice to read that you are feeling pretty good. Hope the counts are good on Tue. You are always in our prayers. Missed seeing you on Sunday at the lake. Our love, Rod and Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom
Fergus Falls, MN - Monday, September 15, 2003 9:38 PM CDT
Chad & Jen - I have been checking your entries regularly to see how things are going. I am so glad to read Chad is doing well. We are in the potty training days too. It has gone good for 2 weeks. We are still waiting to hear about some tests results that Keith had last week and if things are o.k. we are headed to stem cell transplant. Take care.
Valerie Kozlowski <vrkoz@yahoo.com>
Baltimore, MD - Monday, September 15, 2003 3:30 PM CDT
Hi, Chad and Jen! I like the leaves on your website signifying the fall is here. Good news that Chad feels okay after chemo. Will pray that the counts are where you want them.
I remember the potty-training days....glad they're behind me!
It looks gorgeous outside....the sun is reflecting the trees on our little lake..it's so calm out there today.
Have a good week with the little ones.
Carol
- Monday, September 15, 2003 8:55 AM CDT
Hi, Chad and Jen!
Well I finally got my grandbaby! My daughter had a boy on 9-10 AT 9:10AM (will be easy to remember!). Both are healthy and baby weighed in at 8#lloz.
Hoping to hear that the chemo went well for Chad...
It's beginning to smell/look like fall! Cooler temperatures and some leaves changing.
Have a great week!
Carol
- Sunday, September 14, 2003 10:14 AM CDT
Hey Guys,
hope chemo went well. Marty, Vikes looked good against Green Bay, hope the don't get over confident for this next game...don't need the let down. May God Bless all of you...talk to you later.
Chris Johnston and Family
Laporte, MN - Thursday, September 11, 2003 1:56 PM CDT
Hello you guys. I like your new format (sunshine smiles!). Glad Tate liked school....Kiah will have to get over being left behind...poor dear.
Thinking/praying for you often!
Have a good week!
Carol
Bagley, - Monday, September 8, 2003 3:45 PM CDT
Hi-How are things going there. Didn't see you at Dalton. Missed you. Kids enjoyed the parade and grounds. Hope Chad is doing ok. and you also--give the kids big hugs from us. Lots of love and prayers. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice @webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Saturday, September 6, 2003 8:38 PM CDT
Jen: Glad you posted today. Was happy to hear that the liver tumor is shrinking, and also that you were able to take some control over the shots. Good for you that you spoke up! (Of course I have never noticed that speaking up was a problem for you....heh heh)
I've lived in MN now for 21 years and have never gone to the State fair! How idiotic is that? Too bad Chad got wiped out. Who was the perfomring headliner this year?
I've also always wanted to go to Renaissance Fair (spelling?) ....used to go to great one when I lived in CA.
Jen, my daughter hasn't had her baby and is trying to finish up the Kinder Kids center that they're building....Grand Opening tomorrow evening and we were putting down the FLOORING last night at 10PM.! Contractor kept forgetting to order things and wiring done wrong and who knows what else going wrong. I am going to her house tomorrow and watch her three little ones while she and her other teacher try and get things done. She made curtains yesterday. Sometime you will have to go over and peek at it!
School starts tomorrow....only one child left to get through school, and he's a senior.
Hope you are all relaxing at home preparing for tomorrow's new day.
God bless you all...
Carol Shegrud
- Monday, September 1, 2003 3:05 PM CDT
Hi, guys!
It's Saturday....looks beautiful outside. I have two of my granddaughters for the weekend (5 and 8) and we are planning on going to World of Christmas in Park Rapids to do some bumper boat rides and train rides.
You haven't posted for awhile, Jen. Either you are so busy (the game Thursday and then camping for the weekend) or you are frustrated with all the medical deals.
Whichever, I am praying for you guys. I know that sounds "tired" to say all the time but it is so good to talk to God about things as they occur.
We don't always get the answers we want and we are short on understanding God's plan.....all I can say is that as we trust Him with our lives, He will bless us and give us that peace.
Have a great weekend...
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, MN - Saturday, August 30, 2003 9:58 AM CDT
Hi Chad & Jen,
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking and praying for you on a daily basis!
God Bless the Martinson's!
Chad & Wanda Hagen
Osage, MN - Friday, August 29, 2003 4:57 PM CDT
Hi guys. Hope you had fun in the cities with Travis and Carolin. Keep in touch.
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, - Friday, August 29, 2003 2:08 PM CDT
I hope you enjoyed yourselves at the Vikings game. What great seats you had. I am anxious to hear what the test results are. Sounds as if you are a bit frustrated. Have you asked why he isn't getting those shots like before? It maybe be a bit helpful if they know you are so frustrated with the fact that things are so different this time. You have always been so well informed. Keep on the fight. God will help you. He is your rock. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your "gifts" twice. Keeping on with the prayers
Paula
- Friday, August 29, 2003 10:45 AM CDT
Hello, Chad and Jen. How nice that you can go to the Viking game together...and such good seats, at that!
Today I guess you will hear about the tests. I'm hoping/praying for good news.
Have a wonderful time.....looking forward to your next journal entry.
God's best blessings on you both and the kids.
Carol Shegrud
- Thursday, August 28, 2003 10:52 AM CDT
Dear Chad and Jen. I know how anxiously you are awaiting the results of Chad's scans. We are thinking about you here in Ohio, and hoping for the best. I also spoke with Beth and Jay D. from N.J. this AM. Beth sends her prayers along with ours. Greg just started 9th grade this week. he's a bit tired still, but feeling well. His next scan is at the end of Sept. Wish him well. Take care.
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, August 28, 2003 9:50 AM CDT
Hi Jen and Chad. Just checking on you. Travis or I would have been happy to take chad down on monday. All you had to do was call. Let me know if he ever needs a driver. We love you and pray that thing will get better for you. It's ok to be mad Jen. We all have gotten mad over this. We just need to remember that god is watching over all of us and we need to believe that god is moving those Dr.'s in the right direction. Which driction is the right one? I don't know. Only god knows that. Just remember that we all love you very much and we are all here for you, now and later. Never give up on prayer and we all will keep praying for god to give you strenght. He has already given you so much strengh and love, you are a strong women. We love you all so much and call on us when you need us. Love Jamie
Jamie, Travis and Brenden
- Wednesday, August 27, 2003 1:46 PM CDT
MARTY,
IT WAS GOOD TO SEE YOU WHEN YOU STOPPED INTO WORK THE OTHER DAY.WE ARE ALL PRAYING THAT YOU GET GOOD NEWS ON THURSDAY AND THAT THE CHEMO IS WORKING. I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE FUN AT THE VIKINGS GAME, HOPEFULLY THEY WILL WIN! TAKE CARE AND LET US KNOW IF YOU NEED ANYTHING. LOVE AND PRAYERS.
TIFFANY FANKHANEL
BEMIDJI, MN BELTRAMI - Tuesday, August 26, 2003 10:00 AM CDT
How are things today? I hope all is better. I hope you are feeling a bit better. I will be anxious for the results of your scan. Enjoy what is left of summer. It has been a nice summer, except for the 90plus we had last week-end. I had to sleep those days as I was working nights. We have no air so one had to think cool. Keep the faith Hug and kiss those precious ones twice. Praying for blessings to come your way.
Paula
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 10:23 AM CDT
Hey Chad, Keep fighting. We are all praying for you.
Sad to hear that you are in trouble again..............
We always enjoy the birthday cards you send and my van is still doing great.......I love it. Lorna Sat. August23
Denny and Lorna Brown <farmerbr@uslink.net>
Grand Rapids, MN itasca - Saturday, August 23, 2003 7:12 PM CDT
HI sure nice you have the lake to go to. We put our camper down at Rose Lake and It is really nice to get away. Been thinking of you. Hope scan went good for you. Be praying for you and hoping all goes well. Give kids hugs. also each of you. take care. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus FAlls, MN USA - Friday, August 22, 2003 9:45 PM CDT
I hope you have a fantastic weekend at the lake, you guys! How wonderful that you can enjoy that activity together!
Blessings on you all.
Carol Shegrud
- Friday, August 22, 2003 5:58 PM CDT
Take care God loves you and so do we grandma and grandpa
LeVonne Hanson
Dalton , Mn USA - Friday, August 22, 2003 8:26 AM CDT
Hello you guys....having a rough time right now, I see. Extra prayers are winging their way toward you and yours. It must be discouraging to keep feeling badly and have your body a victim of the drugs and treatments. How lax we all are to take our healthy bodies for granted! We complain about random aches and pains and have no clue. I'm sure many of your family and friends wish that they could absorb some of the misery you are going through, Chad.
The weather is cooling down, some, which is a good thing. I have air conditioning otherwise I would be quite crabby!
We are still waiting for my daughter's baby....she is due in 17 days but has always been 3 weeks early with her other three. Their house and Kinder Kids building (attached to the new construction) is coming along nicely but there is some concern that it won't be finished before the two-week grand opening. And of course she is going to have that little one in that time frame too.
They had a buyer for their home that they're in now, but she was hospitalized with cancer and is not going through with the purchase now. So extra prayers for a sale, a safe delivery, and a successful opening would be appreciated.
Hope your day improves....God bless you guys.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, August 21, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
Hey Chad just checking in to see how things are going. I stopped in to look at a differant car and I was sad that I may have to deal with someone other than you. Jason and I hope you are doing good and look forward to seeing you again at the chrystler center. Take care
Shawna Slogar <kain1@charter.net>
Bemidji, MN USA - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 7:48 PM CDT
Just to let you know we are thinking of you, still. Hope Thursday and Friday's check-ups go good. Noticed by the tv that you should be geting rain up there today. Send us some!! Please. Take care. Love
Jo and Roger
- Wednesday, August 20, 2003 6:00 PM CDT
Just checking in on you. I do check daily but I don't always leave a message. Just thought you would like to know we are still checking in on you guys. Love Jamie
Jamie, Travis and Brenden
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 12:27 AM CDT
Glad to hear you did so well at golf!! A few haircuts to make others feel better, too. You guys are great. Took our kids to the fair in Grand Rapids. They rode for five hours and still had energy to help get the sauna ready. All had a bath in the sauna and to bed we went. We real Finlanders bathe in our saunas', you know. I hope all is going well. Will keep checking for updates. Keep the faith, Hug and Kiss those precious children twice. He is always with you along with the hundreds and thousands of prayers going up everyday for the two of you. He will help you be strong. Blessings to you!!
Paula
- Thursday, August 14, 2003 10:20 PM CDT
Since we are at the lake I thought I would check up on you to see how the golf game went the other day. Glad to hear it was a good time. I hope CJ enjoyed her haircut as well.
Heard your message on the phone that our camp out with the troops(Kiah,Siri,Adam,Tate,Brandon,Ally,and Jake) will be postponed until Wednesday night. The kids are looking forward to it. I guarantee tired kids when you return. Talk to you when we get home.
Ann and Al
Bemidji, MN - Thursday, August 14, 2003 7:22 PM CDT
Hi, guys. Glad you had such a nice weekend at the lake and that the weather is cooperating and that Chad's feeling pretty good.
Keep those scissors sharpened! LOL Jen I was just remembering how you used to "torture" me when I came into the salon. You loved to spritz icy water "accidentally" on me....harumph.
I miss going to get haircuts and harrassment at the same time!
Next time you go to the Union Station have some of their creme brule for dessert. It's good!
Have a great week!
Carol
- Monday, August 11, 2003 11:49 AM CDT
Chad, Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your wonderful family. I think of you often and was very glad to get the letter from Bemidji Chrysler leading me to this website. Just hope you can get some help. My son-in-law and daughter-in-law both went thru cancer surgery and treatment last fall and are both doing well now. Julie has become very active in a support group in Lindstrom, MN and went to the clinic mentioned on the website. She has changed her eating habits and might be a help to you. I will give her this website address.
Mary E. Parker <meparker@blackduck.net>
Blackduck, mn USA - Sunday, August 10, 2003 6:27 PM CDT
Praying for sunshine and good days ahead. I hope all is well with you. Enjoy yourselves at the lake. I know your mom enjoyed spending time with you this last week. Three weeks and school starts. Only one home this year. And no more diapers!! Should be happy about that, but that means no more babies. Love 'em you know. They just grow too fast. I took some awesome pictures of them the other day. They turned out great. I will keep in touch and hope all goes well and you all can get together when Travis is home. Keep the faith. Hug and Kiss your kids twice. Take some time for Chad and Jen and remember it is He who is always there with you. Trust in Him. Prayers to you. God Bless You.
Paula
- Friday, August 8, 2003 9:45 PM CDT
good morning, another beautiful day, thank you for keeping us informed on whats going on . we love you all and pray the treatments are doing theyre thing. love grandma and grandpa H
LeVonne Hanson
Dalton, Mn usa - Friday, August 8, 2003 8:39 AM CDT
Jen and Chad...awww you really know how to make a person cry reading all the sweet things that people are saying/doing! How wonderful that the day care providers rallied and did such a caring, thoughtful thing for your family! Don't you just realize that even though everyone is sooo busy with their regular lives...when the need is there people respond. All these people are God "with skin on". He uses others to wrap His arms of love around His hurting children.
I know He's holding you tight, and I hope you are fully trusting in Him to keep you through this journey.
Warmth, prayers, and hugs from our house to yours....
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, August 7, 2003 6:41 PM CDT
Your entry on Tuesday shows me - as I already knew - that you are surrounded by a wonderful, remarkable, circle of friends. You are, too, remarkable. Prayers are with you and HE is looking out for you. With love
Jo and Roger
- Wednesday, August 6, 2003 5:48 PM CDT
Wow! That is so great Jen. You have some really great friends up there. I wish we were closer so I could help out more. If there is anyhting I can do please let me know. We love you all so much and think about you daily. A BIG THANK YOU for all of those who donated all that food for Jen and Chad. It realy makes us family members feel a little better to know there are such carring people surrounding Jen, Chad and the kids. Again Thank you. Jennifers sister. Jamie
Jamie, Travis and Brenden
- Wednesday, August 6, 2003 3:44 PM CDT
Our prayers are with you,Chad
Earl and Roberta Wallace <chiick@paulbunyan.net>
LBemidji, mn - Wednesday, August 6, 2003 11:42 AM CDT
Chad and Jen- I don't know you, but, received your letter from BCC as I work for a former customer of yours. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you and your family lots of love.
Warmly,
Andrea Johnson-JC Custom Welding
Bemidji, MN USA - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 3:51 PM CDT
Chad, We just got the letter from Chrysler center. We think of you so often. We have driven all over the United States in the car you sold us.You are the nicest salesman we ever bought a car from. We will keep you in our prayers. Keep the faith.
Dale and Rayleene Emmeck
Akeley, MN Hubbard - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 3:06 PM CDT
Chad, I am so sorry to hear that your cancer has come back. Dar and I will keep you in our prayers. You have been great to work with in my many car deals and I look forward to working with you again. God bless and keep you safe.
Curt and Darlene Hiltbrunner
Isle , MN USA - Monday, August 4, 2003 6:22 PM CDT
Hi, Chad and Jen. Glad the weekend went well for your family.
Don't forget that I have a daughter with day care in Bemidji, Jen, if you need some respite for Chad's medical interventions. I also have two other daughters there that could pitch in (have been screened for social services already and can "legally" watch day care children). One of my daughters just started a weekend job in Bemidji and as of now has week-day free time. So be sure and call if something comes up and we can see if anything would be workable.
It's probably just as well that you don't have a "full" crew of day care kids right now, Jen. You have so much to do as it is. But I'm sure finacially it would be better.
Hope to hear good news from the cities' regarding Chad.
Have a good week! God bless you guys!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Monday, August 4, 2003 8:44 AM CDT
Keep fighting, Chad. We're all pulling for you. I enjoy getting that birthday card and stick of gum from you and hope to buy that next car from you as well. Keep your chin up!
Mitch Snyder <gm_snyder@hotmail.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Sunday, August 3, 2003 11:57 AM CDT
Keep up the good fight, you two! Best wishes and prayers from Greg's family in Ohio
Beth Orgel
Toledo, OH - Saturday, August 2, 2003 9:52 AM CDT
I check your site almost daily to see how everyone is doing. I wish you all well and hope Chad can beat this.
Carissa Mosbo <cmosbo@yahoo.com>
Annandale, MN - Thursday, July 31, 2003 2:20 PM CDT
MARTY,
First let me say sorry I didn't make it to Jim's. We have had company (family from out of state) and they arrived that night. I am glad to hear you are feeling better. Sounds like the Vikes are a physical bunch this year. We are thinking of you and praying for you.
Chris Johnston and Family
Laporte, MN - Thursday, July 31, 2003 11:24 AM CDT
Good to hear you are taking some time together. Being at the lake can be so relaxing. I spent about almost 10 hours at my friends' cabin on West Battle the other day. It was a great day. Scrapbooked all day. The kids swam almost the entire time. I keep sending the prayers up and hope they are doing good. Keep the faith--Enjoy time with your kids--Hug and Kiss them twice--and remember most of all----He is always there by your sides. God Bless you today and always
Paula
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 10:35 AM CDT
Chad and Jen: I join with the others in saying "woo hoo!" that Chad is feeling pretty good and able to eat more than he was before. That will help his strength a lot. Have fun at the fair! The kids will love it, I'm sure. They're at the perfect ages for getting excited about the animals and the rides.
The weather seems to be cooling down a bit, which will be nice for the fair.
Continuing to pray for Chad's recovery....
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, MN - Thursday, July 31, 2003 10:01 AM CDT
Chad and Jen...I am keeping you in my prayers and thoughts everyday. I am so glad to hear that Chad's getting more energy and feeling better. Prayers are a strong thing!
Shannon <bailey4evr2002@yahoo.com>
Pennington, MN USA - Thursday, July 31, 2003 7:57 AM CDT
Hello Chad, Jen and family,
You don't know me, but I've been reading your website for several weeks since it was linked to my nephew's (Greg Orgel)Caringbridge website. I'm glad to see that you have the loving support of so many friends and family, just as Greg, his parents and brother do. I will keep all of you in my thoughts through this trying time.
Sara Orgel <Taffy2103@aol.com>
Orefield, PA - Wednesday, July 30, 2003 6:04 PM CDT
Thats great Chad is feeling better! I hope he continues on the up and up. WHen is his next scan? Do they think there is any improvement? I'm very excited that chad is feeling better and can eat a little more now! We are praying for you, even brenden and I say a special prayer at night for chad. We love you and keep those spirits up.
Jamie, Travis and Brenden
F. F., mn - Wednesday, July 30, 2003 4:29 PM CDT
Hey Guys!!! Sooooo Glad to hear that Chad is better! It's really awesome how the good Lord works!! our Prayers are still with you! Lots of Love!
Daniel, Tracy, and kids
Ashby, MN USA - Wednesday, July 30, 2003 1:10 PM CDT
Praying for you both! God Bless!
Toni Gaylord-Kopke
Toledo, OH United States - Tuesday, July 29, 2003 11:33 AM CDT
Just checking in on you guys. GREAT job Jen! Cool! I'm happy you made it all that way across the lake. Glad chads pain has subsided a little. Remember if you need anything even a driver for chad we would be more then happy to help you out. God bless you all and hang in there. We love you and kiss my niece and nephew for me.
Travis, Jamie and Brenden
F.F., MN - Monday, July 28, 2003 10:36 AM CDT
Hi, Jen and Chad. Nothing new on the journal since Thursday. Hopefully it's because you are spending time together and not because things are going poorly.
Chad will be in my prayers on Monday. Hopefully he can continue his check ups in Bemidji to make things easier on you guys.
Keep chins up!
Carol
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 10:50 PM CDT
Chad & Jen - I hope things get better for you guys. It has been a hard week for us. Keith has been in the hospital since last Monday (started with a fever and WBC are coming back very slowly). I just look at it as a tough moment and we will get through it. I think about you guys alot and hope for remission. Take care.
Valerie K. <vrkoz@earthlink.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Sunday, July 27, 2003 9:16 PM CDT
Praying for you that all goes well in the cities. I wish you comfort, but praying the pain is the fight of good over bad. I just wanted to get in touch quick. Have been busy all day, trying to get caught up so I don't feel bad tomorrow enjoying the day in Frazee. Stopped at Velmas' for a little while last night. She looks good. Rachel and Pat were there. Your mom was at Ricks' class reunion, so didn't get to see them. I seen Stacey at Wal-mart with her mom. Can't wait to see Travis. Are you guys planning on coming down at all? Well, better go--take care, hug and kiss those beautiful gifts twice, Keep the Faith for He is there-always.
Paula
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 10:53 PM CDT
Good morning, Chad and Jen. It's a beautiful sunny day today. Yesterday I went to Spirit Fest Midwest but came home last night late cuz I'm too old to camp, lol. Today I'm going back to hear some more good singing and messages. It's such a nice atmosphere there....all these Christians with their families. Everyone is polite and smiley. A huge crowd of people but so mellow....
I will be keeping Chad in prayers as he heads to Roseville for checkup.
My 17 and 19 year olds are on their way back from Colorado by car. They left at midnight last night and take turns driving and sleeping. They are somewhere in Nebraska right now, and this mother hen will feel MUCH better when they drive into the yard safe and sound!
The great news is that my daughter, 19, re-dedicated her life to God on Thursday night, and she is so excited! She has struggled in the last year with bad choices and we are so thankful that she had a turn-around. God is faithful when we pray.
Hope you have a good day today.
Carol
- Saturday, July 26, 2003 10:07 AM CDT
Got your call...glad Chad will stay PM here, no problem. This time he won't have to stay "up" til 1am working on computer! Tears @ my heart to hear Chad is going through "sickness" again, and having such pain. Am praying the pain is the "fight" between the chemo & bad cells. God is watching over him, as he is with all 4 of you. I know he is touching all of us. My love to you Jenn, Chad, Tate, & Kiah. Love, mom H
mom h
- Friday, July 25, 2003 11:21 PM CDT
hey chad just wanted to say hi
sorry I didnt make it to your party at jim's cabin I couldnt find a sitter well I'll talk to ya latter
fuzzy&trish <fuzzie@paulbunyan.net>
solway, mn us - Friday, July 25, 2003 4:08 PM CDT
Hello Chad and Jen! We are thinking about you, and we are sorry to hear that you are feeling sick Chad. We are so proud of the both of you and so happy to witness the strong faith you have for God and one another. God bless you and your are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Wanda and Chad
Wanda Hagen <wandahagen@merticare.com>
Osage, MN USA - Friday, July 25, 2003 12:17 AM CDT
Good thing to be back to some "normalcy"--day care kids, etc. I hope this finds things well for you and your family. I think of you often. Am going to take in some of the Turkey Day celebrations this week-end. We always go to "Grandma" Velmas' for dinner on Sunday and then the parade. Enjoy each day and cherish all that you have. Take some time, hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith for He is always there.
Paula
- Thursday, July 24, 2003 8:26 AM CDT
Good to read daily news. It was a beautiful day & I'm sure Chad enjoyed the beautiful quietness of the campground. We extended our "move" by a week...thankfully it works for everyone. Hugs & kisses to all of you. May you feel God's peace in your hearts. Love you all, mom H
mom h
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 7:02 PM CDT
Mom H's message made tears well up. How precious to have family that is there for you!
Glad the little munchkins are being little angels for you, Jen. That is great.
Also, Jen, be sure and let me know if you ever need a driver! We have 3 in my household and summer's a good time to tap into the extra drivers around here. My son is 17 and a great driver....and he works part time at a store and sometimes with dad. Very flexible.
I do appreciate the ones that I love, and thank you for reminding all of us to not take anything for granted with the ones we love. We are all so easily soothed into thinking nothing can ever happen to us. But we know that isn't so.
Have a great week.....
It goes without saying that we are seeking God's intervention on your behalf, dear Martinson family.
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, - Wednesday, July 23, 2003 1:55 PM CDT
Want you to know I do read this, even though we talk alot on phone. Wish I could've shared your taco supper...you know how often I get them here! Thinking of you often and praying even more. Every time you write on the page here, God is listening, too. He loves you, we love you. Love, mom h
mom h
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 10:09 PM CDT
Hey guys. Glad to hear that you had a great time at the Twins game Chad. I am glad that you had a nice time Saturday night. We definately all have to get together when Travis is home. It is always nice when the four of us kids get together with our families and all hang out at "The Parents Place". I am sure all of the kids have change tons since we were all together last. Austin has been bouncing off the walls all day. Found some candy in his sisters room. Jen...I don't know how you handle so many kids. I am stressed with the two older ones, but getting use to it and am enjoying it....but can't wait for school to start. Take care you guys and we love ya!
Dave, Stacey, Kelsey and Austin
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, - Monday, July 21, 2003 11:20 PM CDT
Chad, Jen, Tate, and Kiah; I love this caringbridge. It is so nice to see how things are going with you guys. Sorry to hear the cancer is back. I am praying for you and your family. Take Care and I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you.
Daynelle Blake (7 Main Meritcare) <DaynelleBlake@Meritcare.com>
Fargo, - Monday, July 21, 2003 9:18 PM CDT
Dear Chad, Jen and Kids,
We have been checking on you via Caringbridge and want you to know you are in our prayers each day. We admire your strength and attitude. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeri and Jerry Nesland
- Monday, July 21, 2003 4:15 PM CDT
Hi there Jen, Chad and kids,
Just wanted to let you guys know that we're thinking of you and we'll be in DL on Aug 13. I'm sure we'll manage to see you then, as we will be staying for almost 3 weeks. Travis finally got his orders and has to report to Columbus at the latest around the end of Oct. I'm so happy and excited!!!
Hope to see you soon...
Carolin and Travis
Wuerzburg, Germany - Monday, July 21, 2003 9:34 AM CDT
Hi, Chad & Jen!
It's a beautiful Monday morning and the sky is blue with fluffy white clouds. Thinking of you guys and your family this morning, and praying for your situation.
I can't wait to hear about Saturday night's party with the Chrysler gang....hope it was a blast and Chad was able to fully enjoy it.
How nice of the family you are selling your camper to to let you keep it for the remainder of the summer. What a lovely gesture!
This week our last child at home (Noah) went to Estes Park, Colorado, for Christian camp. We drove him to Shakopee on Saturday night to go with a group from there. He's riding home with his sister afterwards, who is already in Colorado. On the way down there we got in the middle of some ferocious storms with the radio constantly telling us of tornado warnings, etc. I was so glad my hubby was along...I don't do well in storms. We decided to go 71 instead of 10....and then we heard that we had missed golf ball sized hail and felled trees! The eye of the storm would have been exactly where we were if we had gone our usual way!
This week will be strange without our 17 year old. The house will stay neat, the food won't disappear in a second, and we will be very lonesome! After 36 years of straight mothering, it's strange to have an empty house, if only for a week. It will be a taste of what's to come, methinks.
Hope your week is good....and all medical interventions go smoothly.
A prayer of protection is being sent your way.
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, MN USA - Monday, July 21, 2003 8:50 AM CDT
I don't know either of you, just saw about your situation on the Orgel page. Chad is in my prayers as well as the rest of your family. Remember, the Lord is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above that we can think or ask!
Toni Gaylord-Kopke <tkopke@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH United States - Sunday, July 20, 2003 9:48 PM CDT
Hello Chad & Jen!
We are continuing to pray for you and your family, Chad. Your "Unshakeable Faith" is a strength for you and those who know and love you.
Always, Chuck & Pat
Pat Frederick <cpfrederick@arvig.net>
Henning, MN 56551 - Sunday, July 20, 2003 2:46 PM CDT
Enjoy the Twins game with your dad--what a great time. When he is at the game and appointment, remember to have some "Jen" time. We enjoyed some time at the lake today, too. My friend had a surprise party for her husband. They have a great place on West Battle Lake. It was a great evening. I, of course, had to sleep today. Keep the Faith, Remember the two of you, for you are each others rock, keeping in mind the big rock you both are held together with--God, himself. Hug and Kiss your kids twice. I have to go kiss mine goodnight, so that I can go to work. Keeping up the Prayer Circle here!!
Paula
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 10:24 PM CDT
HOpe your evening was wonderful & full of smiles & support. I thought of you alot today & hoped you were at the lake. Hugs & kisses to all of you, wish I could do it personally. I think you have good idea w/camper & future ideas. My thanks to the family who will enjoy it as much as you have...letting you enjoy the rest of the summer w/it. Love you all. Mom H.
mom h
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 9:55 PM CDT
Chad, Jen, and Kids,
Great to hear you are getting out and going to the Twins Game, Chad. Have fun!! Jen, Hang in there. You are so strong it just amazes us. Just thought I'd let you know we are all thinking about you guys down here in the Ashby/Dalton region of the world and that you guys are in our prayers. Chalsey and Brett are going to bible camp in Colorado at Estes Park this coming week, they are going to make it a main priority to pray for Chad! Just remember that no matter what happens. All of us are here for you guys. You have wonderful friends and family behind you. And you don't have to do this alone! With ALL our LOVE!
The Hanson's
Dalton/ Ashby, MN - Saturday, July 19, 2003 5:56 PM CDT
Jen: I figured out (duh) how to send information about the Caring Bridge site to my cousin so I don't need you to tell me.
This is Saturday...hope all is well at your house today. Tonight is the night that you will be surrounded by Chad's work friends....have a wonderful time.
We pray continued mercy, grace and peace to you and yours today.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Saturday, July 19, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
Chad,Jennifer & Families:
We are sending our thoughts & PRAYERS to all of you. If
there is strength in prayer, then all the prayers I have
read will be heard. We pray that the treatment right now
will go easy and have a positive effect. I(Sandy) work with
your Mom, Pat at the hospital and she is very proud when
she talks about you. Take care and God Bless all of you.
talks about you. Take Care and God bless all of you.
Dan & Sandy Benscoter
Dan & Sandy Benscoter <Sandan @ arvig.net>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Saturday, July 19, 2003 4:19 AM CDT
Well, Jen.........you left us hanging with you mowing the lawn, getting your hair cut (just ONE hair??) and stories of thawing groceries....Did you get the food put away in time? Does your haircut look cute (like on a "Makeover Story"? Tell us more!
I have a wonderful cousin who's hubby just landed in hospital with serious things going on. How can I instruct her about getting to caringbridge? Just have her go to the website? What happens next?
Hoping to hear good things next journal, I remain...
your friend praying in Bagley
Carol
Bagley, MN - Saturday, July 19, 2003 0:21 AM CDT
Jen, Chad & kids
I'm so glad we found out about this site. We have been keeping up with your news for about a week now.
You are such a strong family, and your love comes through so clearly. Know that we have had you in our prayers for a long time now, and will continue to be.
Take care and take God with you,
Cliff, Shelley, Jenny, Katie and Karl <jerinesl@lakesplus.com>
New York Mills, MN USA - Friday, July 18, 2003 2:44 PM CDT
I'm hoping you'll enjoy Sat. night, you deserve it. I gave Tate the thumbs up @ swim lessons & he responded quickly with his thumb...I see from picture it has a special meaning in his life. We'll try to "keep it alive". Our prayers are often throughout the day for you all. Chad you have incredible fortitude to go thru chemo again, and we respect you for it. We will do all we can in any way...you just have to let us know. GOd loves you all, & so do we. Love, MOM H
mom h
- Friday, July 18, 2003 11:37 AM CDT
Chad & Jen
Just a hello on Friday from your Bagley friend. God bless you today and I pray Chad's nausea goes away. It's wonderful that you have that support from Chad's co-workers! That will help you guys a lot to know how much you're loved.
Carol
Bagley, - Friday, July 18, 2003 10:17 AM CDT
Faith, Love, Trust and Comfort to you. I am glad you are home. I hope this nausea goes away. Will keep checking to see how things are. Keep the faith, Remember Chad and Jen, Hug and Kiss your kids twice. Prayers to you.
Paula
- Friday, July 18, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
Chad and Jen:
Welcome home - it is wonderful having you back in the neighborhood. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. In Faith
Brenda Sand
Bemidji, MN USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 7:53 PM CDT
Hi Chad and Jen--- Just checking in to see how you are holding up. Stay strong, we are all thinking and praying for you daily. Even Hannah says a nightly prayer for you, Chad. Love you both lots. Bets
Elizabeth
Fergus Falls, - Thursday, July 17, 2003 7:19 PM CDT
Chad, Jen & Kids,
Just wanted to drop you a quick note to say Hi, and let you guys know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you everyday. We all miss seeing your cheery face, and hearing you call down here to harass us on occaision. We will keep praying for you everday and hope that last "batch" of chemo works well for you. We can't wait to see you again. Like Tiff mentioned in her message, we are more than just a family. Take Care of yourselves.
Love your Friends at Park Rapids Chrysler Center
Park Rapids Chrysler Center <toddj@unitelc.com>
Park Rapids, MN USA - Thursday, July 17, 2003 4:32 PM CDT
Hey Jen, Chad, And Kids
Just thought i would check in and see how everyone is doing. I'm keeping everyone at Penneys updated on everything. keep being strong and hang in there. Jackie
Jackie Wynkoop <jwynkoop@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, mn USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 10:18 PM CDT
HI jen and chad, I pray this chemo doesn't make chad to sick. I'm glad they have some ideas for you and I hope something will work. Jen please keep strong and if you ever need to vent I'm just a phone call away. I would love to take a day off and take chad for treatment. Just give me a call and I'll be right there. You need a break once in a awile too. We love you and pray for you. Stay strong and keep god at your side. Much love,
Travis, Jamie and Brenden
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:48 PM CDT
Hi! Just a quick note to tell you both (and the kids) that we love you and want to thank you for the 2 days we spent at the lake. It meant a lot that you asked us to join you. I have more pictures to show you! Hope we can see you again really soon!
Pam <jpmagnuson@charter.net>
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
I just learned of your web page a week ago. I have been checking it often and praying for all of you much more often. Your Bethel family keeps you in prayer, too. Sending love and encouragement your way....
Carol Rogers <carolr2001@hotmail.com>
Bemidji, MN USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:23 PM CDT
I just learned of your web page a week ago. I have been checking it often and praying for all of you much more often. Your Bethel family keeps you in prayer, too. Sending love and encouragment your way....
Carol Rogers <carolr2001@hotmail.com>
Bemidji, MN Beltrami - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:21 PM CDT
You guys are in our daily prayers! We are always thinking about you. Your strength through all this is truely admirable. Stay strong. God will get you through this. PUSH- Pray Until Something Happens!!!
Dan, Tracy, and the kids <your_friend2001@hotmail.com>
Ashby, MN US - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:47 PM CDT
You guys are in our daily prayers! We are always thinking about you. Your strength through all this is truely admirable. Stay strong. God will get you through this. PUSH- Pray Until Something Happens!!!
Dan, Tracy, and the kids <your_friend2001@hotmail.com>
Ashby, MN US - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:35 PM CDT
Chad,Jen and kids,we just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers daily
Gordy and Amy Beighley
Blackduck, MN USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 8:24 PM CDT
Wow! What awesome friends and family you guys have! I agree that Caring Bridge is a wonderful way to communicate with everyone at once (which is less exhausting than to tell everyone everything and not being able to remember what you told who!) and allow you to "rant" (called expressing yourself) and know that you're not shouting to walls. A burden shared is so much better. I know that sometimes it's difficult when you're the healthy one (Jen) to feel that you can protest and feel all the many things you do because YOU don't have the cancer. It's okay to let it out. I'm sure you both protect each other from so many things. But as you join together in this supreme test of your love, you are an example of how God can work through even the worst of circumstances. Keep your arms linked with God and when you stumble and feel weak, lean on Him.
God bless you with total peace and love.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 3:36 PM CDT
JEN & CHAD
THANKS FOR KEEPING US UPDATED ON YOUR PROGRESS,THOUGHTS,AND
YOUR STRONG FAITH AND LOVE OF EACH OTHER AND THE LORD.
CHAD WE MISS HEARING FROM YOU IN THE SERVICE DEPT.
QUOTE "YOUR THE BEST". THE GANG IN DETAIL SAY HI!!!
TAKE CARE AND WE ALL WILL BE LOOKING FORWARD SEEING YOU
AND YOUR FAMILY. WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR PARYERS!
LOVE RICK & JULIE
RICK SWENSON <RICK@BEMIDJICHRYSLER.COM>
BEMIDJI, MN BELTRAMI - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 2:59 PM CDT
Jen & Chad...
Stay strong and remember that we are all praying for you guys. All the love Pam and I have is with you both right now.
John and Pam
Fergus Falls, MN - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 12:59 AM CDT
Keep ranting and raving to us, Jen. It is one of the best ways to let frustration out. Believe me I know. Sometimes it is one of the greatest releaser. Your attitude is so strong and I believe the way you have handled the situation is outstanding. You are quite the lady!!!! Greet Chad for us, too.Hang in there.
You are in our thoughts and prayers all the time.
Love
Jo and Roger
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 12:39 AM CDT
Dear Jen and Chad-
I follow your progress with great concern and love. After having been by my husbands side during his battle with cancer last year, I well understand what you are going through. Stay strong and postive and do not let a day go by without telling each other how much you love each other! CaringBridge has been so wonderful, such a lifesaver for us with Brad's site too- http://www.caringBridge.com/ga/bradmoss/
Katherine Gasque <kgasque@mindspring.com>
Atlanta, Gasque USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 11:35 AM CDT
Hi Guys. Just checking in to say hi and to let you know that we love you and that we have you in our prayers. Kelsey makes sure that she says you in her prayers every night at least once. Keep strong. --- Stacey, Dave and Kids
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 10:47 AM CDT
MARTY,
WE ALL WANT TO WRITE TO YOU, BUT WE ARE ALL AT A LOSS FOR WORDS. YOU ARE MUCH MORE THAN A CO-WORKER TO EACH OF US, WE ARE LIKE A BIG FAMILY AND WE ALL LOVE YOU. MANY OF YOUR CUSTOMERS HAVE BEEN IN AND WANT YOU TO KNOW THEY ARE PRAYING FOR YOU. YOU, JEN, AND THE KIDS ARE IN ALL OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS THROUGHOUT EVERY DAY. THINGS DON'T ALWAYS MAKE SENSE OR SEEM FAIR, BUT ITS THEN THAT WE HAVE TO HAVE AN EVEN STRONGER FAITH AND KNOW THAT GOD HAS AN ULTIMATE PLAN FOR EACH OF US. WE CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU.
LOVE TIFFANY AND EVERYONE AT BEMIDJI CHRYLSER CENTER
TIFFANY FANKHANEL
BEMIDJI, MN - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 10:32 AM CDT
Prayers to you. You are always on my mind and in my prayers. I visited with Pat on the phone last night. I pray this chemo doesn't give you ill effects. Faith, Trust, and Comfort are yours in the hands of the Lord. Save some Chad and Jen time, Hug and Kiss your kids twice, and most of all, Keep the Faith.
Paula
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:30 AM CDT
Jen and Chad and kids -Had two grandchildren last week and the other two this week. Wanted to get out and help your mom in the new house. Hopefully- soon. Please remember you are in our prayers now, and especially, in the upcoming time. This is such a hard road for the four of you to travel. By the looks of the guestbook, you have many friends that are also thinking of you and prayers going out to you. We hope this helps. We are thinking of you. Love you
Jo and Roger
- Tuesday, July 15, 2003 5:29 PM CDT
Dear Jen and Chad,
I have read your updates on Chad. I am sorry to hear things are getting worse instead of better. Remember the POWER of PRAYER can do wonders. I will pray for Chad and your whole family that everything can turn out well for you. Jen, please remember to take care of yourself as well.
Linda Spindler, ACCP member
Bemidji, MN - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 10:40 AM CDT
Chad & Jen - We continue to check your updates. Hope the treatment works. We know the feeling of not knowing what is to come. Keith continues his treatment (on no. 5). He has a CAT scan in a couple of weeks; praying it comes back clear. God bless you and your children during this tough time.
Valerie & Keith <vrkoz@earthlink.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 8:39 AM CDT
Our family is praying for your family. I received an email yesterday from my Nephew Tom who is serving in Iraq, and he said let Chad and his family know that he is praying for them and that he has prayers across the world for him.
Jason Tang <Jtang@istate.com>
Moorhead, MN - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 7:46 AM CDT
Hey guys, been forever since I signed the guestbook. Just letting you know that not only do I check but I also call Amy up in Blackduck to keep her posted. Our prayers are with you for compassion in this time of need! Good news is Amy and Gordy will be moving back down as early as next week so we can have some game time and get the 5 kids together for a big play date. Huge hugs and kisses.
Deb, Ed, and Emily Risberg
Bemidji, - Monday, July 14, 2003 10:07 PM CDT
Hello and God's blessings, Chad and Jen. How brave and strong you are to be able to face your situation with such love and commitment! I am in awe of the way you are allowing God to be such an integral part of your lives. Because your lives are more than just here on earth. Earth time is the short time....... May Jesus hold you in His arms each day and keep you centered. Chad you have a beautiful family. Weeping with you all, and holding you up to our Lord.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, July 14, 2003 7:15 PM CDT
We are praying for you Chad & Jen down here in Texas.
Love,
Karen Fischner(Claunch)
Karen Fischner
Porter, Tx - Monday, July 14, 2003 11:49 AM CDT
Dear Chad and Jen; Just wanted you to know that since you and Richard Spencer linked our sites to one another, that distant members of the Orgel Family are praying for you, too. Please check out our caringbridge, when you get a chance... Caringbridge, indeed! Beth
Beth Orgel
Toledo, OH - Sunday, July 13, 2003 7:30 PM CDT
Hey Jen,
Just thought I would check in and see how everyone was doing. Hope you are holding up OK. I'm going to see darla in Ga. at the end of the month maybe I'll see you when I get back. Jackie
Jackie Wynkoop <jwynkoop@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, Mn USA - Saturday, July 12, 2003 4:17 PM CDT
Prayers to you today and everyday. Kids take things very matter-of-fact. It is good to explain to him the things that are going on. You are doing the right thing. They just are very to the point with their answers to things and how they view things. Trust in God that he will be there for you through all of this--and truly through the toughest times that is when there will only be one set of footprints in the sand for He will carry you through. Faith, Love, and Comfort are yours. Always on my mind and in my heart--Remember time for Chad and Jen--Hug and kiss your kids twice--Keep the Faith. Paula
Paula Olson
Frazee, MN - Saturday, July 12, 2003 6:59 AM CDT
Chad and Jen: We just want you to know that we are thinking of you and praying for you. God is with you at all times so please keep your faith. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Lots of love. Chad and Wanda
Wanda Hagen <whagen@merticare.com>
Osage, MN USA - Friday, July 11, 2003 1:40 PM CDT
Been thinking of you all. Our hearts and prayers are for you all. Hope you have a good week-end and that Mon. things will go good and remember God will be right there for you. Keep him close and we will be praying for you. God Bless you. Chuck and Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Thursday, July 10, 2003 8:57 PM CDT
Hi jen and Chad, just checking up on you. Hope you have a great time at the lake. Maybe we'll stop down and see you. Much Love,
Travis Jamie and Brenden
F.F., MN - Thursday, July 10, 2003 4:23 PM CDT
Greetings to all of you. Wanted to let you know we are thinking about you and you are indeed, in our prayers. With all this rain we hope you haven't floated away. Went to see Mom and Dad's new house. Sure is nice. They must like the mud, huh????? With love - Jo and Roger
Roger and Jo Pederson
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 10:52 AM CDT
Chad and Jen, Good Luck with the biopsy tomorrow! We are all thinking of you. If you need anything just call. Love you all.
Melissa, Joff and Kids
Bemidji, - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 8:31 PM CDT
Dear Chad and Jen; I was distressed to find that Chad has had a recurrence of his disease. Please know that all the members of the Orgel Family have you in their prayers. Have Faith and be strong!
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Saturday, July 5, 2003 6:25 PM CDT
Well, I'm back. Pat has been letting me know what has been going on. All the things this spring and all that cleared. I was saddened when we got back from vacation to learn that this was going on. I have been sending more prayers than ever. I will be checking this site more regularly. Keep the faith--the Lord works in mysterious ways. Hug and kiss your kids twice. And remember, Chad and Jen, even if it is a little moment here and there through the day. You are each others rock and God is there with you. I will keep in touch with your mom and get updates from her, too. I am sending out a prayer circle to all I can at St. Marys'.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Friday, July 4, 2003 5:36 PM CDT
Hello Chad and Jen - I have been thinking about you since I got the call on Sunday morning. I hope things are going well and that you are getting rest, as much as possible anyway. I will keep you in my prayers and even though we have only meet the one time I know that you will get through this because of your strong support of each other. I will keep checking in with the journal entries to find out what is happening. Take care!
Michelle Dudley <michelle14044@hotmail.com>
Bemidji, MN USA - Thursday, July 3, 2003 4:18 PM CDT
Chad & Jen: I don't know what made me pull up your website (haven't in such a long time) but I was thinking of you so strongly that I did. And what I read made me so sad. What a roller-coaster ride you guys have been on. All I can say is that, yes, prayer works, and yes, I will pray and pray and pray. I will let those believers that I know put you before our Living God to intercede on your behalf.
God loves you even though the days are rough.
God bless you through this next challenge.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, July 3, 2003 12:11 AM CDT
Chad & Jen -
Just got on your web page and read the news. So sorry to hear the cancer is back. We know Chad is a fighter and we will prayer for both of you. I can't image what you are feeling now but know we are thinking of you both. Keep the faith.
Valerie & Keith <vrkoz@earthlink.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 7:10 PM CDT
Just checking in on you. I hope you have gotten some sleep jen. We love you both and think of you all the time. Stay strong and god be with you. Love you, Travis, Jamie and Brenden
Travis, Jamie and Brenden
Fergus Falls, - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 4:29 PM CDT
Hi Chad and Jen, I am sorry to hear about the return of Chad's cancer. My son Jacob just passed away June 5th from DSRCT after a three year battle. You will be in my prayers, I pray that they find something to hold his at bay. I hope you don't have to walk the path that Jacob did, but if you do, hold on to your faith as it is the only thing that helps. God Bless you all!
Jennifer Williams <honeyckcjw@yahoo.com>
, IA USA - Wednesday, July 2, 2003 10:23 AM CDT
Just read up, many others have told me of your updates...& send prayers. You two do whatever and wherever you have to without worrying about kids. They are doing well & we all are fine! Our prayers are of you both all day long. God be with you and may he strengthen with his love and saving grace. We love you very much...mom H
mom H
- Tuesday, July 1, 2003 6:58 PM CDT
Just letting you know that we are thinking of you often. Hang in there.
Dave, Stacey and Kids <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, ND - Tuesday, July 1, 2003 2:55 PM CDT
Hi Chad and Jen--
You are in our prayers daily and we love you both lots.
Bets
Fergus Falls, - Monday, June 30, 2003 8:01 PM CDT
Hi jen and chad,
I hope they find out something soon for you. We love you and your in our prayers. Don't worry about the kids they are in great hands with mom and dad and if they need a break we would love to have them. Take care of yourself too jen. Chad needs you to be strong and healthy. Get some sleep even though it's hard to. If it looks like you'll be there for awhile maybe I'll come and visit. Love you both lots. Jamie, Travis and Brenden
Jamie, Travis and Brenden <jadams@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, mn ottertail - Monday, June 30, 2003 3:15 PM CDT
I'm sorry to hear the news this morning! We are keeping chad in
are prayer's.
Chad & Wanda Hagen <chagen@wfc.des.state.mn.us>
Osage, mn USA - Monday, June 30, 2003 1:47 PM CDT
Read the update. I'm sure you will do good job w/newsletter. You & Chad stay too busy! We know you enjoy camping, and wish you many great days @ the campground. We love you & so does God. Remember to remember him every day. Love, MOM
mom H
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 6:36 PM CDT
Congrats Chad! We know you've worked hard for this next step & are really proud you made it. Sunday was a great day. Have a fun summer. Talk to you after I come back from Yakima. Love, MOM H
mom h
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 10:10 PM CDT
I have enjoyed getting some positive outlooks on the treatment of this cancer because my daughter 7 is having the treatments now. I would like to receive some more information from some one who knows someone that is a female that has the same cancer. Thank you
Debbie McGee <debbie6191@yahoo.com>
Fort Worth, Texas - Sunday, May 25, 2003 12:45 AM CDT
I have enjoyed getting some positive outlooks on the treatment of this cancer because my daughter 7 is having the treatments now. I would like to receive some more information from some one who knows someone that is a female that has the same cancer. Thank you
Debbie McGee <debbie6191@yahoo.com>
Fort Worth, Texas - Sunday, May 25, 2003 12:43 AM CDT
I have enjoyed getting some positive outlooks on the treatment of this cancer because my daughter 7 is having the treatments now.
Debbie McGee <debbie6191@yahoo.com>
Fort Worth, Texas - Sunday, May 25, 2003 12:39 AM CDT
Chad & Jen - Glad things are going well for you both. Keith just finished his stem cell harvesting this past week. Now he has a week off and then back to chemo. We are thinking positive and keep you guys in our prayers.
Valerie Kozlowski <vrkoz@earthlink.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Friday, May 23, 2003 8:59 PM CDT
Hi kids. Good to read the update, am glad "family life" feels normal again. It's heartbreaking to read of other families fighting for daily "good news" w/this dread cancer. Our prayers are with them. I pray regularly that what Chad has gone thru will bring answers & hopes for many others. We love you & know God does too. Love, MOM H
mom H
- Tuesday, May 20, 2003 7:13 PM CDT
PRAISE THE LORD!!!!!!!
We are so happy for you. been thinking alot about you. Love to all. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Thursday, May 8, 2003 9:27 PM CDT
HI JEN,
HOPE ALL IS WELL. JAY HAD MORE SURGERY AND IT CAME BACK POSITIVE FOR DSRCT. THE 2 SPOTS REMOVED WERE HALF DEAD CELLS AND SOME LIVE CELLS. WE HAVE BEEN IN CONTACT WITH DR. FINE ABOUT THE POSSIBILY OF THE ANDROGEN RECEPTOR AND JAY'S CAME BACK POSITIVE. WE WILL HEAR FROM HIM THIS WEEK TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT. HOW IS CHAD? KEEP ME INFORMED. REMEMBER INFORMED PATIENTS AND FAMILIES ARE THAT MUCH MORE LIKLY TO BEAT THIS DISEASE.
THANKS AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
BETH DAUNORAS
BETH DAUNORAS <HOOKANDTHECOOK@AOL>
SHAMONG, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 9:29 AM CDT
Thanks be to God love you all much grandma and grandpa H
LeVonne Hanson
Dalton, - Monday, May 5, 2003 6:52 AM CDT
Good morning Jen and Chad, so good to hear theyi dont think its the cancer. God does answer prayers. we just have to keep on asking and know that he will take care of his children. have a safe trip home. love you much.grandma H
LeVonne Hanson
Dalton, Mn usa - Friday, May 2, 2003 8:06 AM CDT
Just a quick note to let you all know that we are thinking about you. Wil misses Tate. Hope to see you back in Bemidji soon.
Terri and Wil <tschultz@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN 56601 - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 8:36 PM CDT
Good luck to you all. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Sure hope all goes well for you. All is well here. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net.>
Fergus Falls , MN 56537 - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 6:29 PM CDT
HI! Cking the update-great picture! You & Chad have many, many prayers from many people here in town. Keep talking to God & you'll feel him by yourside. He loves and so do dad & I. Love MOM H
mom h
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:53 PM CDT
Happy 30th Birthday, Jen! Glad to hear that Chad continues to feel well. What a surprise to see Greg's website as a link to your own! A much appreciated gesture of support, thank you...
Beth Orgel
Toledo, OH - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 4:30 PM CDT
We are praying the spots on Chad's lungs will vanish. We are so glad to hear you will be having fun this summer camping with your new camper. God Bless you every min. of the day. Love, Sandy
Sandy
Fergus Falls, MN - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 2:19 PM CDT
Love & hugs from NYM! Everything is arranged for daycare & we're looking forward to having kids visit. You all stay strong in faith. God loves you and so do we. Love mom & dad H
mom H
- Monday, April 7, 2003 10:03 PM CDT
HI JEN AND CHAD
SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THOSE 2 SPOTS.JAY IS RIGHT NOW IN SURGERY GETTING HIS 2 AREAS OF CONCERN REMOVED. I AM AT THE U OF PENN WAITING FOR THE DOCTOR TO COME OUT. MY NERVES ARE SHOT. KEEP ME INFORMED ON ANY NEWS AND INFORMATION TO SHARE.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
STAY STRONG AND KEEP IN TOUCH
BETH DAUNORAS
BETH DAUNORAS <HOOKANDTHECOOK@AOL.COM>
SHAMONG, NJ USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 7:39 AM CST
Hoping that the inconclusive spots turn out to be nothing to worry about. G-d bless, Beth and Greg
The Orgel Family
Toledo, OH - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 12:32 AM CST
Just heard about those nasty spots/ I hope they can be properly destroyed for good. WE will be thinking and praying for you. I was hoping you'd be done with this and get back to normal living. Happy Birthday kids. alls well here. Chad got transfered--Minot, ND started maybe 2 weeks ago and looking for a place to live. hope he likes it. its nice to have him closer to home.--has to go back and get his stuff sometime and prepare it to move. Eric and Patty had a little boy yesterday. Danniel Wm. Erlandson almost 9 lbs. can't think of any other news. talk again and hope all goes well for you. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus FAlls, MN USA - Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:02 PM CST
Just heard about those nasty spots/ I hope they can be properly destroyed for good. WE will be thinking and praying for you. I was hoping you'd be done with this and get back to normal living. Happy Birthday kids. alls well here. Chad got transfered--Minot, ND started maybe 2 weeks ago and looking for a place to live. hope he likes it. its nice to have him closer to home.--has to go back and get his stuff sometime and prepare it to move. Eric and Patty had a little boy yesterday. Danniel Wm. Erlandson almost 9 lbs. can't think of any other news. talk again and hope all goes well for you. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus FAlls, MN USA - Thursday, March 27, 2003 9:55 PM CST
Hi Guys! Just read your latest update and we wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep thinking about those nice warm summer days that are ahead, sitting by your new camper soaking up the warm summer sun and let God take all your worries away. Lots of Love.
Wanda and Chad
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 10:32 AM CST
Hi guys. Just wanted to let you know that we think of you everyday and that you are in our prayers everynight along with Travis. Stay strong.
Stacey, Dave and Kids.
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, ND - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:46 PM CST
Hi from NYM. Wanted you to know you're in our thoughts & prayers. Look forward to seeing you on Sunday. Hug each other from me. Love, MOM H
mom h
- Friday, March 21, 2003 10:09 AM CST
glad to read weekend was so nice. Will be praying for "good" things with daycare & Chad's upcoming tests.Hug each other for us. Love you...Mom H.
mom H
- Monday, March 10, 2003 5:53 PM CST
hope you had great weekend...did not attempt to come down as travel/snow reports were up this am. See you on 23rd. Love you...so does God. Love mom H
mom h
- Saturday, March 8, 2003 3:46 PM CST
Hello Chad and Jen. Glad to see that all of you are doing well. I just sent you an e-mail with an update on Greg, but decided to make my visit "official". Take care, I'll pray for you, that Chad's scans are fine on the 17th.
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Tuesday, March 4, 2003 8:40 AM CST
It is great to hear how well you guys are doing, Keep it up.
I read through some of the other guestbook entries and it sounds like you both are a huge support for others going through the same thing, and thats excellant. I read about your camper,Vicki & I have a camper, we should get together this summer and go camping.
Great to hear everything is going so well.
Jason & Vicki
Jason Tang <jtang@istate.com>
Moorhead, MN - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 8:37 AM CST
I forgot to sign in on the Val. Day message, so have to be sure & do it now! HOpe your colds still little and don't stay long!. God loves all of you, and so do we. Love MOM H
mom H
- Monday, February 24, 2003 6:47 PM CST
I'm staying updated. We're hopeful for good news from tests & send love & hugs. MOM H
MOM H
- Monday, February 10, 2003 9:02 PM CST
So great to hear Chad is doing well. My brother has survived DSRCT going on 5 1/2 years. He did the treatment with Dr. Kushner through stem cell and radiation (which was particularly tough on him). Um, did I tell you he's still around and kicking? This is important. He's been through the ringer with so many treatments and he's happy and we are happier that he is still with us and smiling. He is now 36. We stay hopeful - ever hopeful.
Best to you and your family. Keep up the good fight.
missy <missywilson@rcn.com>
new york, new york USA - Tueday, February 4, 2003 8:30 PM CST
HI. I've been checking in! Think of you all often. Sending love & hugs...God loves you, and so do we. Love MOM
mom H
- Tueday, February 4, 2003 2:56 PM CST
LOVE the pics! Gave us both a big chuckle. Hope everyone is well. Love, MOM H
mom H
- Monday, January 27, 2003 at 07:02 PM (CST)
Just read the update. It must be tricky for Chad not to eat the things he loves: hot & spicey! Guess it's really a minor thing compared to what he's already adjusted to. Love you all...Hugs Love, MOM H
mom h
- Friday, January 24, 2003 at 06:31 PM (CST)
saying HI. Has been awhile since we could get into this. We have a virus (I think)... Was great to have had kids...dad just wishes Kiah didn't share so much!?!? Love you all. MOM H
mom H
- Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 06:43 PM (CST)
DEAR JEN AND CHAD,
MY HUSBAND JAY HAS THE SAME CANCER. WE SPOKE BEFORE. WE JUST FINISHED STEM CELL TRANSPLANT AND ARE LOOKING FOR THE NEXT COURSE OF TREATMENT. WAS CHAD'S TUMOR'S ALL OVER OR WERE THEY SMALL AND IN ONE PLACE? I AM SO HAPPY HE IS DOING SO WELL BECAUSE I USE HIM AS MY GUIDELINE. I WAS READING SOME OF THE ENTRIES IN YOUR JOURNAL AND IT WAS SO FUNNY HOW YOU WROTE ABOUT WAITING. I WROTE THE SAME THING TO JAY'S SURGEON AND SAID I FELT BETTER WHEN HE WAS GOING THROUGH CHEMO BECAUSE I WAS DOING SOMETHING. NOW IT IS JUST FINDING THE NEXT STEP. WHAT ABOUT RADIATION? SHOULD HE RADIATE THE HOLE ABDOMEN SINCE HIS CANCER WAS EVERYWHERE?
PLEASE TELL ME THE DRS. WHO DID THE CHEMO, AND RATIATION AND WHERE I CAN REACH THEM. THERE IS SUCH CONTROVERSY HERE BECAUSE SOME SAY DO RADIATION AND SOME SAY THERE IS TOO MUCH DAMAGE DONE. I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS PLEASE WRITE BACK. I WROTE BEFORE BUT MY E-MAIL KEPT COMING BACK. I WANT YOU TO KNOW YOUR STRENGTH AND YOUR KEEP THE FAITH ATTITUDE IS SO GREAT. I ADMIRE YOU GREATLY.
I HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT CHAD'S CHILDHOOD. IT SEEMS A LOT OF CASES OF DSRCT HAVE COME OUT IN THIS AREA. THREE JUST IN JAY'S 5 MILE RADIUS OF WHERE HE GREW UP. AND 3 WHERE WE ARE LIVING NOW. ANY LANDFILLS IN QUESTION BY CHAD'S CHILDHOOD HOUSE?
WELL KEEP IN TOUCH. AND BY THE WAY A GREAT HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOUR FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
KEEP THE STREGTH AND THE FAITH.
BETH DAUNORAS
BETH DAUNORAS <HOOKANDTHECOOK>
INDIAN MILLS , NJ USA - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 09:29 PM (CST)
Glad to hear you are doing well, Chad. What a testament to faith and determination!!
Randy Tang <spaman@peoplepc.com>
West Fargo, ND - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 11:01 AM (CST)
Jenifer, It has been a long time since I have heard from you. Sounds like things are going well, I still keep you and Chad in my prayers. The kids are getting big. Take care and God Bless Dana
Dana Webskowski <dana.webskowski@chartermi.net>
Marshall, MN usa - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 10:33 AM (CST)
Jenifer, It has been a long time since I have heard from you. Sounds like things are going well, I still keep you and Chad in my prayers. The kids are getting big. Take care and God Bless Dana
Dana Webskowski <dana.webskowski@chartermi.net>
Marshall, MN usa - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 10:32 AM (CST)
Am hoping chad is feeling better...got rid of flu? Hope you enjoy the special training, does sound like good opportunity. Hugs & prayers for all. Love, Mom H
MOM H
- Monday, January 06, 2003 at 08:14 PM (CST)
Happy New Year! Want to send much love and many hugs to all of you. Am really glad you still update. You know I don't always sign on, but will do better in the new yr:) Our "angel" draws many great comments and questions! Thank you, again. Always Love, MOM H
MOM H
- Wednesday, January 01, 2003 at 09:15 AM (CST)
Last year we too were in that stage of fear, my husband having surgery for colon cancer. You told me about this site and it has been a Godsend of support, and we thank you. Brad, my husband, is still fighting, like Chad. We know the fight is far from over, but we have so much to be thankful for this holiday, and to be together is a blessing. Have a wonderful Christmas and a New Year full of good news and bright tomorrows!
Brads progress on our website: http://www.caringBridge.com/ga/bradmoss
Katherine (Kat ) Gasque <kgasque@mindspring.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 07:23 PM (CST)
Glad to hear everthing is going well with your family. We continue to pray for you guys when Kayla and Alyssa say their prayers before bedtime every night.
Have a Merry Christmas and be safe with all of your travel plans over the Holiday Season.
God Bless
Jason & Vicki
Jason Tang
Moorhead, MN - Monday, December 23, 2002 at 11:57 AM (CST)
Jen I am glad that everything is going so well and I can't wait to see you all on Christmas. God Bless.
Amy Bourassa <DIVR03@juno.com>
- Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 11:09 PM (CST)
Jen; I am impressed with what you can do with your web site! I'm not nearly as talented. Just wanted you to know that there are lots of people out here, praying for your family, and wishing you well! I am sure that friends and family visit, but just don't always post messages. Sort of like the folks who don't leave messages on answering machines? Anyway, have a happy holiday season! Frm our house to yours.... The Orgel Family- Ira, Beth, Matthew, and Gregory.
Beth Orgel
Toledo, OH - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 10:58 AM (CST)
Glad to hear Chad is doing so well and life is normal again. Hope you have a Merry Christmas and a blessed new year.
Carissa Mosbo <cmosbo@hotmail.com>
Annandale, MN USA - Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 10:33 AM (CST)
Hi Martinsons! Sorry I havent written in a long time. Seems like we talk on the phone more than communicate via the pc. Hope all is well in Bemidji - glad to read everything in ok. Looking forward to getting together with you guys again - is it your turn or ours? :)
Pam <jrmags@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 04:57 PM (CST)
Jennifer - I'm happy to hear that Chad's treatment has gone so well. I know that both of you had some real rough times but you weathered them wonderfully and now you can look back in awe at what you both accomplished. Your upbeat attitude, more than anything else, helped your family survive this challenge. I love your response and will use it while facing my own upcoming trial (layoff). Merry Christmas to all. Hugs and kisses to all. Aunt Debbie
Debbie Barker <TopBranch@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 09:40 AM (CST)
Hi==Sorry IT has been busy here and haven't played on this much. alls well here. no snow yet and really nice weather.Good to hear Chad's tests were ok. He has done so good--it will have to stay that way. got this week end off and Chuck starts new hrs. so is off till early Wed so will have to make the best of it. Have a great week. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice @webtv.net>
Fergus Falls , MN 56537 - Friday, December 13, 2002 at 05:59 PM (CST)
Jen,
Glad to see things are going great for you and your family. Hope this holiday season is good for all. I'll remember to keep the little things close to my heart and alway try to wear a smile.
Take Care
Susan Schroer <susanschroer@juno.com>
Brainerd, MN - Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 03:00 PM (CST)
Wishing all of you a wonderful holiday. We lost Craig to DESMO last year. Saw your site and had to say hey from Tennessee.
Edward Brock <sbrock4220@aol.com>
Cowan, Tn USA - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 10:57 AM (CST)
Good Morning love your writings love you grandma
LeVonne Hanson
Dalton, - Monday, December 09, 2002 at 09:10 AM (CST)
Hey guys Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!! We are keeping you in our prayers everyday. Say Jen I left you an email on your marty jazz hotmail could you check that and get back to me. Thanks. Give the kids a kiss from me and we'll see you at Christmas.
Myrna <van@prtel.com>
- Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 04:05 PM (CST)
Happy Holidays to you all. I am glad to hear you are doing great. The little kiddos sure are getting big. I miss seeing them. Hope you have a great holiday season and take care
Daynelle (from 7 main) <DaynelleBlake@meritcare.com>
Fargo, ND - Friday, December 06, 2002 at 08:47 AM (CST)
So glad that things are going better for you and that all of your prayers seem to have been answered..wishing you and all your family all the best and the happiest of holidays...Take Care Sweety...Your Friend, Johnny
Johnny <puhkahn@yahoo.com>
Picard, LA USA - Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 09:36 PM (CST)
Dear Chad and Jen: I was delighted to see that everything is going so well for you. Jen, it sounds like you really have your hands full! My best wishes to you both... Greg had to take a few weeks off from school because of the effects of his radiation, but he is back now. We are also starting the waiting game.. Prayers to you and yours.
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Friday, November 01, 2002 at 07:32 PM (CST)
Thank you for the news on Chad. We will continue to pray for his recovery.
Brad & Judy D.
- Thursday, October 24, 2002 at 12:08 PM (CDT)
Glad to see you updated. Good to hear Chad has rebounded enough for continued radiation. You're all in my daily prayers, & I'm certain God is walking w/you thru all this. Enjoy everyday, say "I love you" at least 3x a day, and don't forget to stay in touch w/God. Smiles & hugs to you all. Love MOM H
mom h
- Tuesday, October 22, 2002 at 10:02 PM (CDT)
How are you? I hope Chad is feeling better. I keep praying that things will lighten. Just to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Snow........can you believe it? The boys got so excited when it snowed today. I think they thought there would be enough to go sliding. To have such a different outlook on it than we...
Just to let you know that you are in my prayers and thoughts that all is going well for you. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula
Frazee, - Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 04:37 AM (CDT)
i personally would like to see the site stay open even if you only update it weekly or monthly. i like to look back at all the past entries. theres my vote.
Pam & John Magnuson (and Max the Wonderdog!)
- Saturday, October 12, 2002 at 06:13 PM (CDT)
Hi, Chad and Jen. When I woke up to SNOW falling softly yesterday I was shocked! But it melted while we were in church. I did get one of those fall colds. I was in training for mediation in the Cities' for a week at the end of September. When I came home my mother-in-law suffered a massive heart attack and was on life support for 5 days. She died on Sept. 26th and we had her funeral on Oct. 1st. I had to leave again right after the funeral for more training in Red Lake, MN and managed to catch a nasty cold/sore throat.
I'm back now and the court work is crushing.....this morning I was dreaming that I kept trying to get to Court but had all these problems, and the judge called me and bawled me out because I wasn't there. I was glad to wake up.
It's troubling that Chad is experiencing some stuff again....I will pray for this latest snafu. With hope and prayers I know he can surmount this trial too.
I will check in soon to see how Chad is coming along. Jen, I'm glad things are "quiet" at your house!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, Mn - Monday, October 07, 2002 at 07:37 AM (CDT)
Dear Chad and Jen; Today is the first time that Greg has called and asked me to pick him up early from school. His discomfort is similar to Chad's. He had a headache and was tired. I guess that's normal. His counts are dropping, too, but not yet enough to have to put treatment on hold. Hope you and your family have a "normal" weekend. We crave that in our house, just like you do. I continue to add your family to my thoughts and prayers. Greg's Mom
Beth Orgel
Toledo, OH - Friday, October 04, 2002 at 05:23 PM (CDT)
Hi kids. Want you to know that dad & I ck the site, though we may not always leave message (shame on us). It's touches the heart to know that others are reading & sharing your story...getting encouragement & comfort. Our prayers are full of hope & love for all of you. Love, mom H
mom H
- Monday, September 30, 2002 at 08:05 PM (CDT)
Congratulations on the weight loss. Yahoo!!!! I hope things continue well for you. I hope that Chad feels better. Keep us posted--a few extra prayers now and again just may help. I am glad day care is doing good. Fall is upon us. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Love to access the site and get an update. Take care. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Remember Chad and Jen.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, MN - Monday, September 30, 2002 at 03:04 AM (CDT)
Jen you should be GLAD you're not getting a lot of response right now to your web site....it means things are going WELL for Chad!
Hip, hip, hooray!
Glad all going great with daycare and your weight loss. 40 pounds! Wow! Good for you!
Talk to you soon! You're still in our prayers....
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, September 26, 2002 at 06:15 AM (CDT)
Hi Jennifer. I just wanted to let you know that I think about you and your family often. You are in my prayers. my son Jody and I are doing well down here in Texas. We had a wonderful summer, and now it's cooling off for fall (it's averages in the 70s, but hits the 90s during the day yet!). My job at the youth ranch is going wonderfully. Jody is in kindergarten and rides the bus to my work with the kids who live on ranch. You can tell Tate that Jody goes to school, all day, everyday. That was a big change from last year! Anyway, I'm thankful that things are going well for you. (Please keep the website up:) God's blessings to all of you! Love, Nikki
Nicole Hayden <haynikki@hotmail.com>
Bandera, TX USA - Monday, September 23, 2002 at 04:39 PM (CDT)
Dear Jen and Chad: You don't know me, but I know better than most others, what you are going through. My son, Greg, is 14yo, and is going through what Chad is right now. He just started Rads Rx,too. We are hoping as you are, that this means the road to recovery. We know how aggressive this tumor can be... I would encourage you to keep your web site open a little while longer. Greg has one too, and every time we talk about shutting it down, we hear protests from distant friends and family who wish him well, but don't want to bother us with frequent phone calls. I will pray for you and your family tonite, Greg's Mom. (www.caringbridge.com/page/gregorgel)
Beth Orgel <bkorgel@buckeye-express.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 08:43 PM (CDT)
I keep checking this site. So glad to hear that things are going okay for you. I think of you and hope that radiation is doing what it is suppose to. Maybe a "double dose" is the route. Will be anxious to see what they have to say on Tuesday. We are battling high temps and headaches at our house. Two out of four so far have had it. One day of school missed. Will have to see what the next few days bring. Nothing worse than a sick child. They come crawling in in the afternoon (my night time). I like to snuggle, but when they are sick..... Hope this doesn't go through all of them. I don't want it either. I am glad that daycare is going so well for you. It is nice when you can get a bunch of good kids, too. We are potty training at our house. We will have to see how the big girl pants go. They grow much too fast. I check the site all the time, so....I understand your reasons not to keep it up. I think this is wonderful. I tell all that I know what a great thing this site is. I think it is more widespread now. I think it is great for all involved. Information can be shared without making a hundred phone calls to tell the same story a hundred times. Remember to take Chad and Jen time. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss the kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 04:52 AM (CDT)
Hi, Chad & Jen. It's nice that the journaling is only every now and then.....that shows that things are semi-normal at your house! I, too, am glad that the radiation is not so hard on Chad. Glad the daycare is going well, Jen.
My husband and I and our youngest son and his girlfriend went to see the Nitty Gritty Dirt Band on Wednesday 9/11. They were so fantastic! I saw the fireman who rescued my daughter from her car accident and was the one who made sure her broken neck didn't get jarred when they moved her. It brought tears to my eyes just seeing him.
Have a great weekend. I am going to Mediation training in the Cities next week.
Talk to you soon! Prayers as always.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Friday, September 13, 2002 at 07:27 AM (CDT)
hi kids. You've been on our minds alot lately...guess the summer has flown by & it's hard to comprehend all the miracles that have happened already this year of '02. My heart was touched by message you recently got. Know we love you & pray that you will take time to smell the roses! When the day gets a little "longgg", remember the many prayers for you & family. Our prayers for the gift of life were asked as a chance to hug, love, & thank God. He listens...always. We love you very much. Love, MOM H
mom H
- Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 10:33 PM (CDT)
Hi Happy
Birthday--I thought of it the day of but didn't get down to basement to send this/ Hope you had a great day, Chad.Jen You are going to need track shoes to keep up with those kids. not shoes for a sprain/ take care and hope all goes welll. Love to all. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
fergus falls, MN - Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 10:18 PM (CDT)
It is so wonderful to read about others who are beating this dreadful evil cancer! When my husband was diagnosed in 1998, there wasn't much information anywhere and certainly very few success stories. Sadly, I lost my wonderful husband after 3 long years of fighting DSRCT in Feb. 0f 2001. Our daughter and I miss him daily!!! Hopefully, by the time she is old enough to understand more about her Daddy's cancer, there will be many, many survivors of DSRCT. We will pray for you to have continued healing and strength!
Christi Lackey <lack397@aol.com>
Baytown, Tx USA - Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 01:19 AM (CDT)
Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. Will try and call you later this weekend. We're thinking and praying that your radiation goes all right. Hughes and Kisses t all . Love Mom W
Mom and Rick <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, MN - Friday, August 30, 2002 at 04:05 PM (CDT)
Hi! want you to know I've finally gotten to read your updates. Pleased to hear of you progress, Jenn...but not as pleased as you, I bet! Our thoughts are w/Chad & pray everything goes as smooothly as expected. Remember God loves you...and so do we. Love MOM H
mom h
- Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 09:28 PM (CDT)
Glad to hear Chad is doing so well. I am glad you are doing so well with your weight loss. It is so much fun to start feeling like you have energy again. The pictures of the kids are so cute. They sure are getting big. Our prayers are with you Chad, as you go through radiation treatments. Love, Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom
Fergus Falls, MN - Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 08:35 AM (CDT)
The pictures of the kids are DARLING!!! Such perfect little ones,you have! Poor Chad's pics relegated to the back drawer now......(just kidding......)
That's wonderful that the radiation will be easy to handle and hopefully the last of the intervention going on.
Congrats on the weight loss too, Jen! Awesome.
Things here going well, too. Many cases, many families going through chaos. I'm still loving what I do, even though it can be heart-breaking at times.
Have a great week you guys!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Monday, August 19, 2002 at 07:36 AM (CDT)
Will keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you have the scan and then start radiation. Will keep looking for the updates. Congratulations on the weight loss! Yahoo!!! Keep up the good work. Your day care will be a good place for little ones to go. I think you will like it. I have thought about doing something like that, but my place right now is being a nurse. I will pray that things will go well for you and all will be good. Keep the faith and Hug and Kiss those beautiful kids twice.
Paula
- Monday, August 19, 2002 at 03:40 AM (CDT)
Great to hear that you took some time for you. It is so important to maintain that togetherness. You two have been through a lot. I heard a rumor that the Vikings won tonight. I will keep checking the sight. You still remain in my prayers and thoughts. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep up the Chad and Jen time and most of all keep the faith.
Paula
Frazee, - Saturday, August 17, 2002 at 02:54 AM (CDT)
Way to go, you two! How nice that you have some time together before the school and daycare stuff gets started!
Good for you both. Hopefully this WILL be the last you will see of Rochester!
Thinking and praying for you as always....
Carol Shegrud
- Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 09:40 PM (CDT)
No, I didn't fall off the earth. My computer at home has been messed up and work has been busy, so I haven't had the chance to look you up for a while.
I am so happy things are going so good. AWESOME about the check up in Rochester. The power of prayer!!! I hope all continues as is.
I am jealous about your day care adventure. How great to be able to stay home and be with your children and take care of others, too. I think you will enjoy it. Especially when you find the "right" families--things will go smoothly. I know my day care provider is great. She watched Tyler when he was a baby and now he is 8!! Only a few more years of daycare and then he can watch the others at home or at least stay home by himself.
It must be nice to have Missy so close. How great that the kids can be together. I know my kids love playing with their cousins, but they live 2 1/2 hours away. Our stay is calculated by "how many nights".
Bless you and your family. Take some Chad and Jen time. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula
Frazee, MN - Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 01:20 AM (CDT)
Great to hear your results were clear and that every thing is going good, You all are in our prayers.
Good luck in your new adventure Jenn!!
Talk to you guys soon.
Jason & Vicki
Jason Tang <jtang@istate.com>
Moorhead, MN - Monday, August 05, 2002 at 09:28 AM (CDT)
Jen: I'm glad your site is cooperating today. Could not get on yesterday, and then when I DID get on, couldn't write in the guestbook.
Sounds like everything going so well for you!! Congrats on all counts (especially CHAD'S counts - or lack of....)
Hope your daycare goes well too!
Talk to you soon!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 09:08 AM (CDT)
JUst wanted to say Hi, And tell how glad we are about the CT. chech your other wed site. Love to all Mom W.
Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, MN - Friday, August 02, 2002 at 05:39 PM (CDT)
Jen and Chad,
Congrats on the clear scan!! Keeping you all in heart and prayer.
CJ's groomer
- Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 07:31 AM (CDT)
Hurray! glad that everything is clear! Grandma B, Brenden and I brought that tape up to Myrtle we watched it with her and she was in tears the whole time. Expecialy when all the kids sat on the couch and said Hi NANA! She realy enjoyed it. Grandma B. Says Hi and GREAT NEWS that it was clear.
I had some trouble getting on the site tonight. And getting to the pages.
Brenden had a temp of 102 today. Boy was he crabby. I was about to send him to grandma and grandpas LOL
Well talk to ya later and again I'm so HAPPY that everything is looking clear.
Travis, Brenden and Jamie
- Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 12:20 AM (CDT)
hi! we are home...everyone but me took a nap this afternoon! I think one more day at the lake & Tate would be just a puddle! Anxious to wisit w/you about Dr. visit...see yu later tonight. Our love....mom h
mom h
- Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 03:50 PM (CDT)
Jen & Chad.....hope all is well when you go to Rochester! Have a great show, Jen, this afternoon.
It's raining right now......what a mess around here with all the road construction. Mud mud, and more mud.
Am doing custody work today from home....parenting plans etc. Making appts.
Finally got the "men" out of the house so I could work without interruptions. It's so difficult to get private time. Working from home is great but trying to put together complicated parenting plans when hubby and/or son constantly yapping makes concentrating difficult!
They are gone for a couple of hours so that should help.
I look forward to your next postings, Jen.
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, MN - Saturday, July 27, 2002 at 12:07 PM (CDT)
Goodness! So much going on! Here too. Lots of cases for me; husband's septic system business is really busy (I typically prepare his evening meal after 10 PM!) We're having a party here next Wednesday evening after my granddaughter's baptism. Grilling, many salads, volleyball, lawn darts, etc. Hope the weather cooperates!
Have to get ready for court now...."talk" to you soon!
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, MN - Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 08:33 AM (CDT)
The police found my car tonight. So you all can stop looking. But thank you for your help.
Glad Myrtle is doing well. I think she will like it at Fergus. They remodeled everthing and it is very nice. But they will work her hard. (as much as she can handle) Have a good trip and take care.
Jamie, Travis and Brenden
- Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 11:40 PM (CDT)
Hi--haven't checked this for awhile. Glad Myrtle is doing better. It is such a worry. Will have to get a card off. We are on vac. haven't done to much alot of chasing. Tomorrow aft. get Thomas and William. Both Mike & Shannon have meeting. Thomas is taking swimming lessons so Chuck will take him and I'll watch Wm. Will be thinking and praying that everything goes good at Chads apt. He seem to be doing good so hope it stays that way. Take care. Laurice
Laurice Swenson
Fergus falls, MN - Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 08:57 PM (CDT)
To all readers. This entry is regarding Jenn's sister who had her car stolen last pm from Fergus Falls. It is a '91 Chevy Lumina, light blu, 4-door, bug deflector on front & red NE Huskers stickers in rear window. plate AKE 644. If you see this vehicle, please contact local police. thank you for any assistance.
mom H
- Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 12:48 PM (CDT)
glad to hear about Myrtle...will send a card to FF hospital for her. I'm guessing your anxiety level is up a couple points waiting for Mayo visit, & then waiting more for results...I know it's in my thoughts many times a day. If you want to stay @ lake Sat. night, we can get kids from there-or come here...whatever works best. Love you all. MOM
mom h
- Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 10:02 PM (CDT)
Glad myrtel is doing better. Hope she gets well soon. Talk to ya later.
Jamie, Travis and Brenden
Fergus Falls, - Sunday, July 21, 2002 at 11:05 PM (CDT)
HI!!! Talked with Pat tonight. Am sure sending prayers for Myrtle. It is a pretty big surgery for her. She made my oldest a quilt for a baby gift. And the beautiful quilts that she has made for Pat. Have a good time at baptism today. Will talk with Pat tonight at work to find out how it went. Glad to hear that we have hair!!!! A friend of mine who went through treatment for breast cancer had the finest hair when hers grew back, too. I keep saying prayers that you all are fine and things are well. A special place in my heart for you. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Remember to make time for Chad and Jen. Keep up the good work on the weight loss!
Paula
Frazee, - Sunday, July 21, 2002 at 03:58 AM (CDT)
So sorry to hear Chad's grandma is having some setbacks. Prayers are headed heavenward for her and also for your friend Kim. Some people have so much do deal with, it seems. Our family will be lifting them (and your family too) up in prayer.
Hugs.
Carol
Bagley, MN - Thursday, July 18, 2002 at 07:52 PM (CDT)
Hi, Jen. Glad Chad's grandma is doing well and you had a chance to visit with her and others in Fargo.
It's good that you are searching for things to put in the journal....glad that there is not a lot of medical jargon that would mean that Chad is doing poorly! Yea, God! I really believe God has answered your prayers and those of the others that have prayed, believing, that God would put His hand on Chad.
I had the privilege of having my daughter and her three children (7, almost 6, and 7 mos.) at my home for a couple of days. Today my littlest grandson learned how to wave "bye bye" to me. It was so sweet!
What a sweet sensation when the almost 6 year old woke up and crawled into my arms to be held and cuddled! I practically wept.
The baby let me rock him to sleep three times and he just molded into me and made me realize the great honor and delight of being "grandma".
I am practically "purring" just thinking about it.
Hugs and best wishes and prayers from us to you!
Carol Shegrud
Bagley, Mn USA - Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 09:41 PM (CDT)
good to read journal. Yes, Myrtle is in our prayers...am sure she will have great uplifted spirits w/the new health...and just knowing "what" was going on. Waiting to hear about her. Love you all...am sending e-mail. Love mom
mom h
lkhanson@lakesplus.com, - Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 12:37 PM (CDT)
Just checking in on you guys. Everything is going good here. I went threw the 24mo. cloths and still no pj's. What did Tate sleep naked from 12mo. threw 24mo. lol Talk to ya later
Travis, Jamie and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 02:03 PM (CDT)
Jen -
Glad to hear that all is going well for you, Chad and the kids. Best wishes for continued good health.
For this painting that you're doing, are you doing any special techniques like you did in your living room? If so I'd love to see the pictures. I've still got three rooms left to do and can use all the inspiration that I can get.
Have fun at the lake! Hug Chad and the kids and have Chad give you a hug from me.
Love to all,
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Friday, July 12, 2002 at 09:28 AM (CDT)
"That's a good girl, yes it is!!"
See, nagging DOES produce results. Thanks for the update, however begrudging it was, Jen.
The mosquitoes ARE really bad this year. All the rain is helping hatch.
Have you tried "Skin So Soft" by Avon for the kids?
We have an industrial spray going in our house. It sprays every 15 minutes and keeps flies and mosquitoes DEAD. If someone leaves the door open we get a few meandering until the spray gets them, but it's great. It's from Eco-Lab. The can sits in a box that has a battery and it presses down automatically (as long as battery is good!).
With the bug spray and my air-conditioning, I hardly venture out! I'm too spoiled!
Have a great time at the lake.....don't get sunburned!
So glad to hear that Chad is doing great!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Friday, July 12, 2002 at 07:49 AM (CDT)
Jen, Jen, Jen. No journal since SUNDAY. Tsk tsk.....
This is your conscience speaking (picture Jiminy Cricket on your shoulder): "time to update the journal".
I'm sure that it's GOOD that your life has been busy without thinking of your adoring fans/family/public......but I'm tapping my fingers waiting for news of your painting or SOMETHING.
Heh heh.
Hope you're having a great Thursday!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, July 11, 2002 at 09:29 AM (CDT)
Hey congratulations on the weight loss! What an awesome accomplishment. Good to see all are well at your house. Will look for the updates on your doctors appointments. Ainas' foot and lower leg are casted. We are a week shy of getting it off. The biggest challenge is keeping the hard shoe on over her cast. It is so wonderful to hear that all is going as it should at your house. Glad to hear the bites are clearing up. I continue to think of you and hope and pray that all is well. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith!!!!
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Thursday, July 11, 2002 at 03:29 AM (CDT)
HI! checking on your journal. I didn't know about the 8th. do I need to arrange sitter? It's a Thurs. you know! Glad Kiah is doing so much better...she really did look tough on 4th! Love you all. MOM H
mom H <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, July 09, 2002 at 09:13 PM (CDT)
Congrats on your 20lb. loss, Jen. And I'm glad you guys had a great 4th of July. How relaxing to be with family and not at the hospital!!
I think you would be a good candidate for "Trading Spaces", Jen. I can just see you devilishly cooking up something for somebody else with that gleam in your eye.....
Today in church my daughter in law and the new (5 days) baby came. She had her in little pink headband and darling little outfit. All was well until they played "Amazing Grace" and my daughter in law had to get up and go downstairs for kleenex. They had played that at her other daughter's funeral last June, and it hit her hard. Hit me hard too.
Little Echo only lost 5 oz. at the hospital, coming home at a respectable 10 Lb. 3 oz.
Sometimes when I look at her tears just well up because I am so grateful that she does not have heart problems too. I was so worried.
I couldn't wait to get home to my air conditioned house! The church was so steamy my son had to make a fan of the program so I could get a little relief. Central air conditioning is the best thing that has ever come my way...wish we had done it years before now. The last three years have made me a happy woman in the summertime. I can bake and everything and there's no problem.
Have fun with your paint brush, etc., Jen. Try not to paint Chad.....
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 12:13 PM (CDT)
When your journals are DAYS apart that means you are living a "real" life......that is wonderful!!!
I am thrilled that you have better things to do than update your site.....
Prayers/hugs/best wishes
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, mn USA - Friday, July 05, 2002 at 08:32 PM (CDT)
Hey Jen. I'm happy to hear that things are going very well for you all. Hope you all have a great 4th of July. Looks like I won't be moving to California, we couldn't strike a deal on salary. Just as well, I like living here in Oregon. Take care and love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 10:57 AM (CDT)
Hi! Glad all going well at your house! Hope you all have a great 4th of July holiday.
We finally got our baby yesterday! Echo LeAnn came into the world a "healthy" 10 lb. 8 oz. Mom had some trouble there at the end and did have to have lots of repair, but mom and baby are great! NO HEART PROBLEMS FOR LITTLE ECHO!! We are really excited. After her sister was born with heart defects last year and died at 10 days we were all holding our breath.
Talk to you soon!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 06:41 AM (CDT)
Hi Jen and Chad,
Wanted to wish you both a wonderful 4th of July. And best wishes for the next year ahead. I wish for you both a happy, healthy future. Keeping you always in heart and prayer.
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Tuesday, July 02, 2002 at 07:08 AM (CDT)
Hi kids: great to hear you lost confidence in your scale! I know you'll succeed. Lori M. said if Tate had problems sleeping, blame it on med. She's on same for her asthma & it gets her up every night. She'll have kids home over 4th, & hopes we can stop by if we leave lake early enough on 4th. Still doing car search:( Love mom
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.co.>
- Sunday, June 30, 2002 at 03:08 PM (CDT)
Just checking in on you guys. Are you coming down to the lake for the 4th? Hope we see you there, if not we understand. Love you
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Sunday, June 30, 2002 at 12:27 AM (CDT)
Well, Jen, I've been gone all week in Brainerd taking some additional training for my custody evaluation work. On Sunday I was at the hospital with my son and daughter-in-law who was having contractions. No baby. They kept her for 24 hours and said that the baby (while BIG) had not dropped and that giving her medicine to help her contractions would be potentially harmful....so Sunday night they sent her home! She was SOOOO devastated!
Her regular doctor is out of town until the 30th of this month (her actual due date is July 2nd) so who knows what will happen. She was so droopy over it that I was really worried. However, when I got home tonight I called again and she is not stuck in a black mood.
I am so excited that it's been ONE YEAR for Chad and that he is doing well! God is soooo good!
That is a darling story about the bunnies! Hope you can keep them afloat.
Congrats on your new nephew! (There was a baby born during th night when we were there with daughter-in-law, and I talked to the dad.......was the baby about 7 lbs??)
Talk to you soon!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Friday, June 28, 2002 at 09:07 PM (CDT)
It has been quite a year!! Sorry that I haven't checked in for a while. It was good to hear that you sold Pat and Rick a truck. I was glad that you are back at work. Is life feeling a little more "normal"? We are just having a great time at our house. Aina broke a bone in her foot on Tuesday at day care. She was twirling in her dress and must have turned her foot just right. We go to see the Orthopaedic doctor at 1:30 today. I am not sure if we will get a cast on or.... She has been doing quite well with the splint considering she is 2 1/2 years old. Enough of me, Remember to take some Chad and Jen time. You deserve it. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Great sucess on the weight loss. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 03:44 AM (CDT)
It's been a long time since I got to the site...was good to read all the steps leading up to the good news. Am grateful, as you are, that radiation can be at "home". Sent you a pkg today...have vacation wk of 29th, so kids can fill my beds again! Love you all...hope chimney is staying dry. Love, momh
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 09:11 PM (CDT)
Hi there. How are the babies. They sure are cute til they eat everything in sight like garden, flowers you paid good money for.It is always fun to watch.
stopped at work Fri. and you weren't working. sorry, to miss you. alls well here. Arlo and LeVonne just left here. had supper with us which was nice. Jamie was out walking with the baby and stopped. was nice to visit her otherwise no news here.
so glad things are going good for you, all those prayers really helped. Hope this next year will be healthy for all of you. talk to you again. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 10:18 PM (CDT)
Yikes! Congrats on your new nephew! I got a call this morning from my son Paul that he and his wife were in the hospital......she may or may not be in actual labor. She really hopes so because the ultrasound on Thursday measured and said the baby is already in the 9 1/2 pound range! She's due on July 2nd.
Our basement is flooded and we have no water (the pump in the well is covered with water) and our phone system is wacky. I can be connected to internet but we have no dial tone. So I don't know if my son will be able to call me if they do stay to have that baby. Also, two parts of 92 south of Bagley were reported to be under water so I'm not sure if I can travel to Bemidji or not!
I'm chewing my fingernails. This is the couple that lost their daughter last June 1st at 10 days old of heart complications. I won't relax until she is born.
Prayers needed please!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 09:20 AM (CDT)
Chad & Jen:
That's great that tests are coming back in "normal" range.!!!
Glad to hear that.
You guys are so awesome...I'm so happy that you are together, strong, and fighting the battle together for your family. No matter how difficult it can get, it's wonderful to be unified as much as possible.
Hold on to each other, and to the family that you share, and you can get through anything! (and you HAVE).
Working with dysfunctional families all the time, I just want you to know that you have EVERYTHING when you love each other and your children (and, most important, God!). All else pales into insignificance.
Hang tight, keep praying, and know that others are praying for you too.
Have a great weekend!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 11:39 PM (CDT)
Happy to hear the doctor's appointment went well. Sure am glad that if Chad does need the antibodies that you have good insurance to cover it. I'm hopeful that I might be able to come back to MN this summer when Mom and Mike do, but not sure yet. It will depend on whatever job I get (looks like I might be moving back to SoCal, but no official offer yet). Keep your fingers crossed for me, it would be a great job for me. :-) Hope things continue to go well back there - take care of each other.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 10:42 AM (CDT)
Hi, guys. Glad you're getting back into the swing of life again, Jen. How did the doctor visit go? Everything still going well for Chad?
I can just see you (a' la Julia Childs) flinging ingredients around at a Pampered Chef party, Jen.
The rain yesterday really scared me. I was coming from Bemidji to Bagley and when I was in between Shevlin and Bagley the rain was coming so hard I could not see a thing...including the highway. When I got to Bagley I could not see the buildings either. I crawled slowly to my son and daughter-in-law's house and waited out the onslaught. What a nightmare.
My work keeps me on the run......I love it, though. I have more training tonight, tomorrow and Saturday. And then still more training Mon-Fri in Brainerd. I will miss being at home but am looking forward to learning better ways to be custody evaluator.
The prayers are still coming your way, Chad and Jen. Have a great week!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 07:30 AM (CDT)
Hi kids: Am checking site for 1st time in awhile. You know we're thinking of you & praying everyday that life continues on upward spiral. Was great to see you & girls in Fargo, Jenn...am hoping they were "cranked" enough to keep you awake on drive home...no doubt!! XOXOXO from us.
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 06:44 PM (CDT)
Boy, Jen, I go to training classes for a few days and you do a double-take on me!! Good for Chad, having good reports, good for grandma and grandpa for retrieving your children, good for you, Jen, to initiate something new in your life for yourself. I am sure you are going to do so well!!
Hope your Fergus Falls trip is fun and relaxing.
Happy Father's Day, Chad!!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 04:54 PM (CDT)
Greetings to all - it sounds like it is going better and that's great to hear. You are still in our thoughts and prayers. Hope you have a wonderful summer and future good check-ups.
Love Jo and Roger
JoP <pederson@lakesplus.com>
New York Mills, - Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 07:45 AM (CDT)
Jen - just consider it an adventure! :-) Sounds like you have your hands full with all those kids. I'm sure 2 is sounding just about perfect now. LOL Hope all continues to go well for you guys. I guess I'll be seeing Grandma and Grandpa next weekend. They're visiting Great-Grandma and will drive down so they can see the progress on Mom and Mike's new log house and they've never seen my house either. So, I'll be cleaning and working in the yard all week. Fun, fun, fun. It'll be good to see them though. Love to all back there!
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, June 10, 2002 at 09:56 AM (CDT)
Good morning---hope all is well there. It is going to be another hot one. Hope that baby is here soon. Fun to have the kids even if its hectic. In a few years it will be hectic in a different way. Life has a way of keeping things interesting as the kids grow up. Take care you guys. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
fergus falls, mn - Monday, June 10, 2002 at 08:39 AM (CDT)
Jen: For your information I did not make hair appt. like I said because I had emergency case to take care of so couldn't get away. When do you work next?
Regarding "Carol I don't know how you did it"...it's different when they are YOUR children and when they are your siblings children (or other guests of your children) because you can't be as firm/crabby/consistent. You have the need to remain "favorite Auntie" but when they're your own you can let it rip! LOL.
Sorry that your sis-in-law is having hard time having that baby....I'm sure she has had him/her by now.
God bless you guys!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, June 10, 2002 at 08:13 AM (CDT)
Hi! checking to see if any baby news! Did "everyone" get some sleep last night?! Am glad things have taken an upward spiral with spirits. Love you all. Am thanking God everyday for his "gift of time." Love you all. Will be fun to have kids here for a few days again! Love, MOM H
mom H <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 12:25 PM (CDT)
Jen: Did Chad's sister have her baby last night then?? Fill us in!
We were up last night with the storm. It was terrible out here where we live......big hail (shook house). Rain, thunder and lightning! Flash flood warnings out for us.
Glad you're having good days here.
Talk to you soon!
Love and hugs....
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 11:10 AM (CDT)
Good morning sogood to hear Chsd isfeeling a little better check with you every day, grandmaLeVonmnL
LeVonne Hanson <arlev@prtel.com>
Dalton, Mn - Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 07:34 AM (CDT)
Good morning, Jen and Chad. Thanks for responding to my query in the journal! Heh heh.
It looks lovely out today~can't wait to breathe in some of that summer air.
Have a great couple of days, you four, and enjoy the weather and each other.
Jen, try to stay out of trouble (I know how you are)....don't do anything dangerous like re-roofing or anything like that!
God bless you!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 07:33 AM (CDT)
Great news that chads is finaly free of all the tubes! I'm sure he will enjoy the summer much more now. Brenden has a tooth!! THe first one came in yesterday. He's a little monster getting into everything. ANd he loves to be outside. As long as he is in the stroller he's happy. But as soon as you take him out he starts screeming. Travis is at Shoremaster working nights now. It's going good. Well I hope everything keeps on the up and up. See you later. WE love you all.
Travis, Jamie and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 02:09 PM (CDT)
Great news! Glad to hear that Chad is finally "tube-free" - that's gotta feel great. Hope this brings everything back to an even keel for you all. Best wishes and enjoy all the new discoveries with the kids. Love to all
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 09:46 AM (CDT)
Hi, guys. GOOD NEWS finally! Woo hoo! Glad to hear that Chad is "tube-free". Now for the million dollar question: Did the last guestbook entry mention "when the baby comes" refer to a baby for YOU guys?? Hmmmmmmm. Better clear it up right now because I'm probably not the only one who might read into it that you're pregnant, Jen.
I'll be waiting for an admit/deny in next journal entry!
It's going to be a lovely day today. Hope you guys and the kids enjoy it.
God's blessing showered your way!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 07:41 AM (CDT)
I,M GLAD TO HEAR THAT CHAD IS FELLING BETTER. JUST HANG IN THEIR , IT WILL GET A LITTLE BETTER EACH DAY. iT WAS FUN TO SEE YOU LAST WEEKEND. WILL SEE YOU WHEN BABY COMES. REMEMBER WE'RE THINKING AND PRAYING FOR YOU EVERY DAY. LOVE TO ALL. MOM W.
PAT AND RICK <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 02:44 AM (CDT)
Great news...couldn't go to bed tonight until I checked! I'll sleep good tonight! You do the same & kiss those grandbabies for us! God listens...& his answer this time is one you can physically feel. Some day you'll laugh at those crazy things Tate does-really! Love you. MOM H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, June 04, 2002 at 11:07 PM (CDT)
Hello Chad and Jen. We are sorry to find that Chad is sick. You have come so far in this journey already, keep holding on and keep strong. You will get through this. It is so frustrating to come so far and then have this set back. Just know that we and everyone else is thinking about you and praying for you. We love you lots.
Love, Wanda and Chad <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
- Tuesday, June 04, 2002 at 10:25 AM (CDT)
Hi, Chad and Jen. My heart aches for you two going through yet another difficult stretch of the healing process.
I'm sure that Chad is chomping at the bit to get rolling and his body is letting him down.
And since there is nothing YOU can do, Jen, to help, and have a lot of things to take care of (besides your worry), there is a lot of stress on you both.
Sometimes when one partner is going through horrendous medical problems, the other partner has to be strong all the time and it is very hard to be the tower all the time.
Let Chad know that you need him, and don't be afraid to say that you need to be able to "let down" now and again and let HIM comfort YOU.
You're in this together. And God is with you. I know my prayers will keep coming....and those of your enormous support group too.
Don't get down (unless it's on your knees). Lots of love is poured your way.
God bless!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, June 03, 2002 at 11:04 PM (CDT)
want you both to know that you're thought of every minute of every day. I'm guessing the spirits might be in low gear w/Chad's new condition...but remember how far you've come. Don't be disappointed when life isn't "normal" yet-what is normal?! Every day will bring joys & challenges...but know God's love is always there. We love you...hugs & kisses to all. mom h
mom hanson <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Monday, June 03, 2002 at 06:11 PM (CDT)
Sorry to hear Chad isn't feeling well - if anyone deserves to be feeling better, it's him. I hope the meds help. Keep your spirits up, remember that we're all behind you. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Sunday, June 02, 2002 at 10:56 PM (CDT)
Hi Jen just checkin in on you guys. Brenden is walking along everything now. And getting into everything.LOL Glad your feeling better.
Travis, Jamie and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Friday, May 31, 2002 at 11:32 PM (CDT)
Hi: I see you were "on" very early this am. glad to hear you're feeling better, Jenn. Had feeling that something like that was going on w/Chad last weekend...but hoped something simple like yogurt would fix. Poor guy... Hope you have great day. glad they got this site fixed. Love MOM
mom H <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Friday, May 31, 2002 at 07:58 AM (CDT)
Jen and Chad: So glad things are somewhat "normal" at your house. That is the best news! Hoping/praying that Chad's bug is nothing to be concerned about.
What color did you paint the kitchen?
This weather has really been something, hasn't it? First beautiful spring sunshine and then nasty rainstorms with flash floods!
I was so excited about it being my last day at law office that I woke up and 4:30 AM and can't go back to sleep. Actually I'm more excited about having the freedom to plan my days for the guardian work than I am about leaving old job. It's been a struggle to always work around office hours, even if they were part time.
My "baby" (16) has a job working as a mechanic in a service station for the summer...56 hours a week. So I don't even have any kids to think about this summer. This is a first. This will be the first summer in 35 years that I didn't have any child responsibilities. I don't know how that's going to feel. I might be heading for "empty nest syndrome" but since I've been a mother for 35 years perhaps I will just adjust beautifully.
I do have 8 grandchildren, plus one due in July, so it's not as if there's a shortage of little ones to fuss over when I need to!
Have a great day. It looks beautiful out today.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, May 30, 2002 at 06:27 AM (CDT)
Okay, Jen. Sunday to Wednesday is long enough! Get those fingers typing and give us an update! (a short one will be fine).
Tomorrow is my last day at the law office. Then full-time guardian ad litem work for me. I'm pretty excited!
Talk to you soon!
Hugs and prayers as always...
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 29, 2002 at 07:46 PM (CDT)
Glad to hear that things are "slowing down". I am sure it is nice to have Missy and family there in town. It is nice to have "friends" close. My sister-in-law says it is better to be "friends" than "family". Either way, it would be nice. The kids probably have a blast together. Too much energy going on there!!! Remember to take some Chad and Jen time. It is a well deserved "quiet". Take some time for yourselves. Whether it is a few stolen moments here and there. Be well and I will continue to check in. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Wednesday, May 29, 2002 at 03:06 AM (CDT)
I'm guessing that the slow-down on the journaling corresponds with the slow-down of crisis at your home. If so this is GREAT and I'm delighted!
Hope the kids are enjoying the great outdoors and that Jen isn't running around with paintbrushes slapping new color in her home!
Hugs and prayers.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 08:58 PM (CDT)
What great news, you guys. Having a "normal" life at last. I'm so happy things are calming down and your focus can change to maintaining
You really made my day with your latest journal entry!
God is good.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, May 27, 2002 at 08:32 AM (CDT)
Jen, you're slipping! It's Saturday and no journaling since last Wednesday. I'm assuming you're too busy in "real life" but it would be good to hear that everything's okay!
Graduation weekend is here....lots of parties to go to and things happening. Hope the weather holds up for those who are entertaining outside!
Have a great weekend. You're in my prayers as always.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, May 25, 2002 at 08:14 AM (CDT)
I'm so happy to hear that everything is finally coming together for you guys. I hope the wait won't be too bad for Chad. I'm also glad to hear that you're starting to feel more yourself Jen - can't imagine how disorienting it must have been for you (as if you didn't have enough to deal with). Love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 09:50 AM (CDT)
Glad to hear that things are returning to "normal" for you. The newness of spring creates newness in all of us. What a wonder this life is and all that is in it. Blessed are we all. Sounds like it was a good anniversary. Will keep checking the site and looking for those updates. Hope all continues to go well. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 02:46 AM (CDT)
Hi, Chad and Jen.
Always it seems the waiting game for you poor guys!! However, since the news is good it's a little easier to wait for the catheter to be removed.
Hope you're enjoying the semi-nice weather and the little munchkins are still happy to play outside. So Kiah is starting to yak like her mom...........sigh..........you'd better start saving up for another phone line! I know how girls are!
How is the remodeling coming? Anything new to report?
Today is kind of a sad day for me. My granddaughter, Lexie, would have been one year old today. She only lived 10 days but she sure made an impact on our family. I would love the prayers of all those who are such good prayer partners to pray for the anticipated new baby that is due July 2nd. We are all on pins and needles.
So far everything looks good.......but then nothing looked bad with Lexie either. They know this is another girl......they are going to name her Echo LeAnn.
Hope everyone has wonderful Memorial Day weekend! Keep the faith! God bless everyone!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 11:33 PM (CDT)
Hi Jen and Chad,
So glad to hear counts are continuing to rise. You are two incredible people with great strength and we continue to keep you all in heart and prayer. Thanks Jen for the updates every day, it always reminds me to send an extra prayer or two your way. Sending Healing Angels and Cookie Hugs.
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 03:26 PM (CDT)
You know me...just back to ck journal today. It was good to spend supper w/you two. Am very glad Chad's counts continue "up". Hopefully you will be back to self as body adjusts to not having "adjuster". You know, these wonderful things called "horrormones" God gave women, go wacko, too. It could take good month-hang in there. Love you all. Kiss those dirty grandbabies for me! Your last update brought tears to my eyes...ever since this journey began, I've knelt in prayer at night. After giving thanks for the day, I've asked for the "gift of time" for Chad & you. I will continue. Not because I have to, but because it feels good & right to do so. God is good. Love mom
susan hanson <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 12:33 PM (CDT)
Jen...thanks for updating the journal! Glad all is good!
You are so right. We take things for granted. Then when our world is shaken we long for the times when we just ambled through life with not much direction.
God wants us to be aware all the time what is what and how important it is for us to: 1) Have a relationship with Him, 2)Have good relationships with our families, 3) be true to ourselves; 4)always hope.
Some times it takes adversity to make us aware of our many blessings.
Thumbs up to two very special people, and the children they have been blessed with!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, May 20, 2002 at 09:52 PM (CDT)
Hope all continues to go good for you. you sure do deserve it. Chad said had a nice visit with you. Glad he stopped.Seemed to get alot of visiting done when he was home/He went back Sat. and had to be to work Tue. Ya. we missed you the last few days. were wondering what happened to you. Like those updates. Hope you get back to normal soon.will talk to you again.Love to all. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Monday, May 20, 2002 at 09:48 PM (CDT)
Jen......no journaling from you since last Thursday. It's making me nervous! Hope and pray all is okay and you're just busy.
All of us out here in cyberspace are closely keeping track of things and like to know what's happening with you guys.
God bless you all!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, May 20, 2002 at 05:24 PM (CDT)
Happy (Belated) wishes for your anniversary. I hope you guys went out and did something fun - you've both earned it. Good thoughts are being sent your way. Love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Monday, May 20, 2002 at 10:36 AM (CDT)
Happy Anniversary to the two of you. This is the day that you reflect back on and remember those wedding vows. The love you two shared when you got married has grown since that day. Today is for you and let it be for you. Take some Chad and Jen time!!!! Keep the faith and Hug and Kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 02:14 PM (CDT)
Happy Anniversary to the two of you. This is the day that you reflect back on and remember those wedding vows. The love you two shared when you got married has grown since that day. Today is for you and let it be for you. Take some Chad and Jen time!!!! Keep the faith and Hug and Kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 02:13 PM (CDT)
Happy, Happy Anniversary to you! See you later today. Love mom H.
susan hanson <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 01:31 PM (CDT)
Good Morning and Happy Anniversary boy this grandma is getting old forgot a card but you know we think of you every day have a nice day and love you always grandma and grandpa
Levonne Hanson <arlev@prtel.com>
Dalton, Mn - Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 07:09 AM (CDT)
Your anniversary is tomorrow, May 18th?? That is my hubby's birthday! I am taking him to the Holiday Inn for overnight and dinner etc. As many of our kids as can make it are coming to swim in the late afternoon.
Glad things are beginning to be "normal" for you two!
Have a wonderful anniversary!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Friday, May 17, 2002 at 09:36 PM (CDT)
HAPPY ANN. TO YOU. Have a great day. celebrate hard.and enjoy. and Many More. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Friday, May 17, 2002 at 07:18 AM (CDT)
How are things? New floors are awesome, but what a reason. Yuk. I bet it looks nice. I am glad to hear that Chad is feeling better. Now, if only the weather would clear up. I just got back from a seminar in the Cities. It was so warm there today. I bet the kids are glad that Mom and Dad are home. Anything special planned for your anniversary? May you have many more to spend together. I will keep checking in. Keep up the good work, Chad and Jen. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 01:43 AM (CDT)
Jen! Get that mold out of floors! My hubby had fungus in his lung and had major life threatening surgery! It was awful. So get rid of it! Glad the weather's nice so you can be outside. Good that Chad's everything is good. Happy anniversary in advance!!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 08:16 PM (CDT)
Hi kids: checking to see any news on daily ck w/Dr. for Chad. Am glad that floor project is over...think we all are! Anyway, no more concern for the mold & mildew=:) Pretty quiet around here tonight (good & bad)!! Suppose you are looking ahead to Friday night...(for those who
don't know, it's their 6th anniversary-share your good wishes). We hope it's a great day filled w/wonderful memories and wishes/thoughts of even more. Love you all. MOM H.
mom H <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Monday, May 13, 2002 at 08:53 PM (CDT)
So glad you are all home and that you got to enjoy Mother's Day with the family. I heard from Grandma that you were doing more work on the house (pulling up floors and such), hope that went well. I don't know where you find the energy, but sure wish you could share it with the rest of us. Best of luck and love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 01:43 PM (CDT)
Happy belated mother's day, Jen! Glad you're home and all going nicely.
It's pretty late but I wanted to say hi!
God's blessings as usual to you guys!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, May 13, 2002 at 12:13 AM (CDT)
How wonderful to hear you are home. Pat said you were home. How great it must feel to sleep in your own bed. There is nothing like your own bed. I am sure the kids are glad to be back in their own places, too. My kids are little fishes, too. It is great. Their "no fear" attitude is scarey, though. Will keep up the prayers. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice, or more to make up for "lost" time. Thinking of you, Paula
P.S. Happy Mothers' Day, Jen
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 02:46 AM (CDT)
Happy Homecoming! I am so excited for you all! Hopefully Chad is able to eat what he likes and has an appetite. Glad the kids are settling back in to home. How much more comfy to be at your own place. I am picturing your parents sagging back into a recliner looking exhausted! LOL. How wonderful that you had them to take over the parenting duties while you were in Rochester.
Talk to you soon! God bless!!
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Saturday, May 11, 2002 at 11:49 PM (CDT)
We are all so happy for you that you are HOME!!! God's hand was helping you all and he will always hold you close. I hope evrything is going well, look forward to seeing you! HUGS!!! Congtarulations on coming this far and welcome home!
Shannon <waynorth@paulbunyan.net>
Pennington, MN - Saturday, May 11, 2002 at 08:04 AM (CDT)
What a wonderful day for you. How encouraging you have been to us also, that my husband will be as strong as you have been and come out with such good news! Go home and take the phone off the hook and just "be", you deserve it!
Brads progress on our website: http://www.caringBridge.com/ga/bradmoss
Katherine (Kat) Gasque <kgasque@mindspring.com >
Atlanta, GA USA - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 05:03 PM (CDT)
Welcome home guys! I am very happy you are finally able to come home. Can't wait to join you in Bemidji! Talk to you later. Love you all!
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Friday, May 10, 2002 at 07:25 AM (CDT)
Jen and Chad I am so glad that you guys are finally getting to go home. I hope all is well and Chad gets better soon.
Lots of Love
Amy Bourassa <DIVR03@juno.com>
Moorheaed, MN USA - Thursday, May 09, 2002 at 12:07 PM (CDT)
Hi I just wrote but don't see it. so will try again so excuse if goes twice. CONGRATULATIONS--WE ARE SO HAPPY FOR YOU. IT WILL BE SO GOOD TO BE BACK HOME AND SLEEP IN YOUR OWN BED-AND HAVE YOUR FAMILY WITH YOU. Hope the weather shapes up and you can be outside to soak up some of those rays. It will be good to have your family home again too. We hope all continues to go good for you. God Bless. Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 10:03 PM (CDT)
Congratulations--we are so happy for you. it has been a long trip but looks so good when you can go home and sleep in your own bed and your family with you. Hope all continues to go good for you. We know God has been with you along the way. and thank goodness for that. Hopefully the weather will shape up so you can soak up a few rays when you are recuping/ Love to all. Laurice and Chuck
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 09:55 PM (CDT)
Thats Great! If you need any help when you get back just let me know. We are moving this weekend for sure if not tomorrow or friday. htu78435hi3y78fggyu34t78 yr8 v7r t788grw Thats brenden he's happy for you too. LOL He is crawling ALL OVER. Talk to ya later.
Travis, Jamie, and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 09:20 PM (CDT)
Woo hoo! Way to go, Chad!!! I'm sooooooooooo happy that you guys get to go home! What great news! Chad is just doing so excellently, isn't he??
All I can say is: "Thank you, God, for keeping Chad and Jen in your loving arms and helping him fight this battle".
I'm so happy for you two!
Wheeeeeeeeeeee!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 07:02 PM (CDT)
Congratulations!!! That is such great news. I'm sure it will be nice to finally be home in your own bed. And with kiah and the "little fish". Keep up all the good work. We are cheering for you.
stacy <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 06:15 PM (CDT)
Jen - great news! I'm happy to hear that all of Chad's counts have gone up and that you all may get to go home very soon. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. You guys have been amazing through all of this. Keep us updated on the latest and greatest. Love to all!
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 01:52 PM (CDT)
I'm glad TATE has patience to put together puzzle (3-D at that!)......I know I can't do them. Jen would have to give me a time-out for frustration. LOL.
Glad he's calm and being good for you. He's something else to focus on besides the two of you!
Keep up the great journaling, Jen.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Tuesday, May 07, 2002 at 01:43 PM (CDT)
Hey there down in Sourthern MN!! I have been lazy - checking the site but not signing in. Sounds like things are very positive ( GREAT!!!) And having Tate around must be fun. I hear that southern MN has been a "Little" nicer than northern MN. (OK my parents still say it's bad down there ....) sounds like you are making it through. I do know what sitting in Roch in the hospital is like. Just keep up the positive thinking. and smiling. It makes the time go faster and makes everyone feel better. You guys take care - and I like reading all the good news in the journal.
Sandy A <dodger@wcta.net>
Park Rapids, MN - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 08:25 PM (CDT)
Woo hoo! Sounds like things are really going great! I'm sure Chad is enjoying Tate's presence. Nothing like a child to remind you of living in the present! How wonderful that medically Chad's doing so well. Hurray for God!
Can Chad use the pool too or is it too germ-infested?
Hope Tuesday's even better than Monday!
Prayers, hugs, etc.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, May 06, 2002 at 07:58 PM (CDT)
Hey, you are hanging in there. I haven't checked in for a few days. Sorry. We had a busy week-end. I celebrated my birthday with a friend, who shares the same day. I also share my birthday with Mikes' niece. Kind of cool I think. I am thrilled that the counts are going up. And even more that you have been able to spend time with Tate. That is really neat. I have been trying to get a few extra things done before I go back to work on Wednesday. I have a hard enough time getting the basics done with four little people and this big house. I wouldn't miss any of it for the world though. I am sure the prayers are helping things go well for you. I hope that Chad will soon be feeling himself and you can "relax", too. Take care and will check in again in a few days. KEEP THE FAITH. Hug and kiss your kids twice!
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 07:03 PM (CDT)
Great news with Chad. Keep it up! Glad the weekend was fun for Tate and Kiah. They must have been so psyched to see mom and dad. Hang in there.
stacy <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Monday, May 06, 2002 at 06:03 PM (CDT)
Great news that Chad's counts are going up. It'll be great for you guys if you can be home by Mother's Day. I'll be wishing and praying for that. I bet Tate is the happiest little boy right now since he gets to stay with you guys. Sure hope Kiah isn't lonely without him. Although, I'm sure Grandma & Grandpa will keep her occupied, or is it the other way around? LOL All good thoughts are being sent your way. Love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 10:36 AM (CDT)
What a great journal report! Finally things are looking REALLY positive. How nice that Tate stayed. I'm sure his little ray of sunshine will perk Chad (and you) up! How did the nurses like your babies? I bet they clucked like hens.
This is going to be a good week for you guys. Hugs and prayers to you and yours.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, May 06, 2002 at 06:30 AM (CDT)
Glad you had a good time with the kids. Tate will realy enjoy staying with you and chad. Great news that Chads counts are coming up! Went golfing yesterday. It was a nice day to go. Travis and Kenny golfed and Becky and I walked pushing the strollers. ALL 18 HOLES. Thats some good exercise. We think of you often hope all keeps on the up and up. See you when you get back.
Travis, Jamie, and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Monday, May 06, 2002 at 12:46 AM (CDT)
Hi wrote the other day but don't see it but thats ok--Still wishing you good health and feeling better. Keep the faith and it will work out. maybe not today but later you. God is with you always not just in the bad times. Hope you continue to feel better and will be home in no time. Nice the kids are coming--something to look forward to. they are so precious.Have a great day.Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
FergusFalls, MN - Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 09:25 AM (CDT)
Chad will probably never want to eat chicken wings again! He will probably always associate it with a yukky feeling. Glad things are picking up healthwise and feeling-wise for Chad. I'm sure you had great visit with the kids. That should perk Chad and you up.
Still praying for everything in your lives to go forward beautifully. What stories you will have for your grandchildren!!
Have a great day.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 08:38 AM (CDT)
Glad that Chad is feeling a little better. Have a good time with the kids this weekend but be careful of those nasty germs. The kids had a good time at moms today. Tate wanted to help with Brenden and played well with him. We love you and pray for the best. Take care and hope you get to come home soon.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Friday, May 03, 2002 at 10:30 PM (CDT)
Chad & Jen
I'm so glad that the kids will be there for a visit this wk/end. That should bring a little sunshine down to Rochester for you!! I hope and pray that you start to feel better soon.
Joe, Amy, & kids <jaboffer@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Friday, May 03, 2002 at 07:26 PM (CDT)
Hi to you both from Granny B. Visited with yhour mom and kids. Kiah has really grown and gets around very well. Tate is such a good brother and keeps her supplied with toys. I am enjoying my visit and Jamie and Brenden are enjoying the day up here too.The three little ones are playing together good and they are keeping the three of us entertained. My prayers are with you always. L0ve to you both.Grandpa & me
Audrey& Warren <grannyb56537@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 03, 2002 at 01:50 PM (CDT)
It's great that you guys might get to head home in a week or so. I'll keep my fingers crossed and the prayers going. Things here have just gotten interesting. Found out yesterday that my company will be sold and that jobs with the new owner(s) is unlikely, so I'll be starting a job search now. What fun, huh? I hope things continue on an upward swing for you guys - you certainly deserve it and have earned it. Keep the faith and this too shall pass. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Friday, May 03, 2002 at 01:06 PM (CDT)
keeping tab on you...my heart aches for your aches. We got the pics you sent-3 of them, each on a diff. e-mail. Will talk to you later tonight. Kids had good day @ daycare, even though too windy to go outside. Tonight Tate asked sincerely when mom & dad are going to get home. I explained daddy's med made him very tired and now his body has to get strong again first. He understood that. Sending love from all of us. Love mom
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 06:50 PM (CDT)
Jen it was nice chatting with you via MSN Messenger this morning. I was sorry to hear about the fever etc. plaguing Chad, but glad to hear that the doctors say it's "normal" so even though it's miserable it's not unusual and worrisome; just very unwelcome.
It will be nice to see the kids this weekend for you both. The kids will sure be extra bonded with grandma and grandpa, that's for sure!
Hope you get some good rest tonight. Talk to you soon.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 05:42 PM (CDT)
Hang in there Chad & Jenn you can make it throught this. Keep asking God to help you through this, I know we are asking him to help you both and your family through this, and he does listen.
Talk to later and see you soon
Jason & Vicki
Jason Tang <jtang@istate.com>
Fargo, ND USA - Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 07:49 AM (CDT)
Dear Chad & Jen:
You need a HUGE "there there" and lots of strength right now. You're wearing down and Chad's feeling poorly.
You WILL get over this hump that is so difficult. Tell God how you feel and ask Him to give you peace throughout this process that is so hard to deal with.
Do the medical professionals tell you how long this stage will last? Sometimes having a time line helps you see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I agree with the others leaving messages that it's important and good that the docs say that Chad is progressing MEDICALLY very well even though feeling terrible.
Wish the rest of us could absorb some of the misery for you two.
Take a deep breath and pray lots! I know the rest of us are.
Hope to hear some good things from you soon.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, May 02, 2002 at 06:50 AM (CDT)
You are both in our prayers. HANG in there!! We are thinking of you and check Chad's progress daily. Take CARE.
Chad, Elizabeth, Hannah, & Samuel <cnelson@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 09:36 PM (CDT)
Hang in there I know this is hard I see it all the time. But all you can do jen is be there and support him. Believe me that is a lot of hard work. But you can do it and Chad will get better. We think of you often and pray for you as well. May God give you both strength to get threw this. We love you. Let me know if there is anything I can do I'm just a phone call away.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 08:07 PM (CDT)
Hang in there you two. It will get better and I hope soon for your sakes.You are so strong emotionally and spiritually so hope physically you will be strong also.Soon. We are all praying that you'll have better days soon and that the Lord will hold you in his gentle hands and guide your every moment. OUr love goes to all of you. Love Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 06:40 PM (CDT)
Sorry to hear that things seem to be getting rougher for Chad. I know it's tough to go through, but you guys have already been through so much and you'll make it through this time as well. It's a positive sign that the doctor's say this is normal and that Chad is doing well. Although none of us can imagine how hard this has been for you guys, we do know how proud we are of you both and wish that we could have just a small portion of your strength and faith. Keep hanging in there and it WILL get better. As always you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 03:41 PM (CDT)
Jen and Chad....You both are in my prayers! I'm sorry that things have to get so bad and difficult before they get better. Love from family and friends and with the Lord's hand you will have the strength for this. Thank you for keeping us all posted. Miss you, love and prayer always!
Shannon <waynorth@paulbunyan.net>
Pennington, Mn usa - Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 03:24 PM (CDT)
Chad and Jen, I'm sorry that Chad is not felling well. But remereber that when it seems to do the most good. You should be on the up hill swing soon, and this will all seem like a dream. Everybody is praying for you. Your always in our thoughts. Love Mom
Mom W. <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 01:24 AM (CDT)
Howdy, guys. Had a busy day in court and with some people I had to visit today. One case settled before court and I was so happy!
So many family problems out there. Really icky ones.
I'm glad the docs are optimistic about Chad's progress. It's hard to see when in the middle of it, I'm sure, but they've seen it before and you haven't. I guess the only thing you can do is to trust that the doctors are in God's hands and try to leave everything with Him.
He loves Chad and he loves you, Jen. I know you know that. But every once in awhile (or maybe very often!) I'm sure those crazy doubts fly in.
Keep your faith and know that others are holding you up in prayer.
Hope the night goes well. Talk to you tomorrow.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 05:35 PM (CDT)
Jen & Chad - sorry to hear that things are somewhat difficult right now although it sounds like the Doctor's think you're doing great (and they should know). So, keep up the positive thoughts and attitudes. As always you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 01:02 PM (CDT)
Jen I appreciate your setting out the whole scenario on the journal yesterday. I copied it and printed it out.
It's so tough for poor Chad to be stuck with popsicles and the like. But it is very encouraging that the doctors think Chad is doing great!
Hope and pray your day is good! The weather looks fantastic out this morning.
God bless you guys.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 07:44 AM (CDT)
Keep up the work, Chad. Hang in there, Jen. Things are on the positive now. That just intrigues me about the corn smell. I never knew that. I hope that things continue to progress. The prayer requests are astounding. I am sure you are missing the kids. It won't be long now. Pat said they did great at their house. Suppose to be warmer weather next week. That must mean everything is getting better. Keep up the good work both of you. Keep the faith. Prayers to you!!
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 03:34 AM (CDT)
Hi Chad & Jen
I just wanted to leave you a message to let you know that we are thinking about you ALL the time. We are sending our petitions Heavenward for you daily! Hang in there!!!! Thanks for the updates...its a great connection. Love and prayers...
Amy & Joe Bofferding <jaboffer@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Monday, April 29, 2002 at 01:54 PM (CDT)
Hello Chad & Jen: We are sorry to hear that things are getting rough for Chad. Chad, hang in there, you're doing a great job. We sure admire you. Jen, you are a wonderful person and you are such an excellent support person to Chad. Hang in there as well. Love and prayers!
Wanda and Chad <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
- Monday, April 29, 2002 at 12:25 PM (CDT)
Jenn & Chad: Sorry the kids were so tired & unsociable tonight! HOpefully tomorrow PM will be better. Kiah is already sleeping, & Tate is on "last leg" w/Arthur video! I checked, & there is no confirmation #...just to let you know. How is your crossstitch project progressing? You are both in our prayers, God bless & keep you in his arms. Love mom H
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Sunday, April 28, 2002 at 07:53 PM (CDT)
Note to Deb who left previous message today about her 8-yr old son..........I'm so sorry about your loss. What an agony to lose your precious son. I will include you in my prayers as you go through the grief. God bless you!
Jen and Chad - Sorry Chad's having such a rough day. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. Hugs to you both.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Sunday, April 28, 2002 at 06:33 PM (CDT)
could you plese tell me about chad. i just lost my son mario to this terrible disease he was 8 yrs old
debbie allen <davedebiallen@aol.com>
san jose, ca usa - Sunday, April 28, 2002 at 06:15 PM (CDT)
Good morning, Chad and Jen. We had rain/snow yesterday but this morning looks sunny and calm. The gravel roads have gotten mushy because of the rain.
I got my pies all made for the pie and ice cream social this afternoon to benefit the Christian school. Hope that goes well so we have enough to operate for the coming school year. We are having so much interest in other kids coming that we might have to find a bigger place!
Our youngest son, Noah (16) is on a boy scout camping weekend. (I think this was probably the worst weekend for that considering the weather!)
I've been working many many hours on the Guardian Ad Litem business. Families call me at all hours of the day or night. The research on what some of these families go through is so sad. Some of them need an EMOTIONAL stem cell transplant to erase the sickness of abuse and trauma that have marked their lives.
I am pursuing doing additional training to become a mediator in family court.
Well I'm off to get ready for church. Hope you have good Sunday and everything goes well for Chad today.
"Talk" to you soon!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Sunday, April 28, 2002 at 09:07 AM (CDT)
Hiya Chad & Jen, thought it was time we posted you a message, we have been checking your site regularly to see how you both are doing. I'm sure Chad has smelt better than he does at the moment Richard was exactly the same when he got his stem cells back but don't worry it doesn't put you off sweetcorn for life just makes you grin everytime you eat it! We're really pleased to hear you are both doing well, we found the stem cell transplant the hardest time just because of the long stay in hospital so keep your chins up and you will get through it and remember this does seem the best course of treatment to beat dsrct. It's a small price to pay for the rest of your lives back. Your positive attitudes are your strongest tool we are convinced of that. We will keep checking the site to see how you both are doing. Lots of Love, Sarah & Richard
Richard & Sarah Spencer <sarah@dsrct.demon.co.uk>
http://www.dsrct.demon.co.uk, England - Saturday, April 27, 2002 at 03:59 PM (CDT)
Good morning! It was fun chatting with you briefly on MSN last night, Jen. After your corn comments I'm wondering if you will ever want to eat sweet corn again!
I don't know how the world looks in Rochester right now, but when I woke up this morning we had another blanket of white decorating the yard and trees - and snow is still falling!
I'm getting all confused....it's almost May!
We are having a pie and ice cream social to raise money for our little Christian school tomorrow..so I will be flinging flour and things around the kitchen this morning. I'm making chocolate cream, pumpkin, and cherry pies. There's also going to be a bake sale. So I will be trying to make some things for that.
Have a great day today, you two! I will check in later.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, April 27, 2002 at 07:37 AM (CDT)
have sent e-mail letter about tomorrow...please ck it. Hope you both had restful night. Love mom
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Friday, April 26, 2002 at 11:35 PM (CDT)
So glad things are going good for you.You have been strong--hang in there. Just came home got some goceries and it is sprinkling--Uck. Saw Sue O. at the groc. store which reminds me got to get the reservation called in tonite before I wash clothes and loose the tel. #.. Have a good evening andLots of Love and Prayers. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
fergus Falls, MN - Friday, April 26, 2002 at 08:32 PM (CDT)
HI, this is mom! Sent you an e-mail, too. It's been a good day...necessary naps and enjoyed nice outdoors. Grandpa just headed to the store to get bubbles for Tate...he doesn't have much ambition left for any other kind of activity. Kiah plays peek-a-boo w/me in the mornings by sitting in corner and leaning around to look thru bars...she's so smiley! What a list of drugs...am sure Chad is getting the best of care, not just from Dr's, but you, too, Jenn. Take care. Love you both
mom H <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Friday, April 26, 2002 at 05:18 PM (CDT)
Chad and Jen, glad to hear things are going ok. I would like to thank you for doing such a good job of keeping the information up-to-date on here. I check this every day to see how you're doing and report your progress to others whom I've asked to keep you in their prayers. You are setting an excellent example for your kids and an inspiration to all those around you with your energy and positive attitude.
Shelly Tang <shelbert@peoplepc.com or shelly.tang@supervalu.com>
Fargo, ND USA - Friday, April 26, 2002 at 05:14 PM (CDT)
Jen I never in a million years would have suspected you of being a drug pusher! My goodness! I can see the glint in your eye, "Nurse Ratchet". Give Chad my sincere condolences on having you in charge of his meds. Remembering how you used to squirt me with the water bottle in my eye, and pulling my hair while pretending to style it makes me SO worried for Chad!! LOL!
Anywho, glad that things are going so well overall. The weather should get more like spring again today and this weekend. Have a good weekend together!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Friday, April 26, 2002 at 08:48 AM (CDT)
Glad things are going good. Brenden has a touch of the flu. He has vomited 4 times tonight. I have him on pedialyte but he vomits that too. He just went to sleep a little bit ago so I better get to bed too. I gotta be up at 5 for work. Hope things keep in the positive direction for you guys. Love you both.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra76@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 10:14 PM (CDT)
Just checking the site before I go to bed. I thought they were going to keep some cells frozen just in case he needs them at a later date? What will happen then? Hope all went well today. We love you.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 11:18 PM (CDT)
Hope you are feeling well. thinking of you guys and hoping things go smoothly.You are also in our prayers. Keep your faith. I think you are so strong. Hope you have a good evening. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls., MN - Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 09:30 PM (CDT)
I guess you will be wearing a mask yourself, Jen, if Chad's going to smell like a cross between an Italian deli and a row of sweet corn for awhile! Too bad you don't have "smell-o-rama" hooked up to your cam! I'm so glad things are progressing on or before "schedule". Each thing gets you guys closer to coming home and trying to be a normal family again!
Hip-hip-hooray for your parents tending the little ones. What a labor of love. As a grandma I know that it's harder to take care of little ones for a long period of time after you've raised your own, (you get tuckered out so much faster!) So I appreciate their willingness to be such wonderful surrogate parents while you guys are doing the medical "dance" at Mayo.
Thoughts, prayers and great hopes and dreams for your future from us on the sidelines.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 05:48 PM (CDT)
Jen & Chad - hope things go smoothly today when they put the cells back in Chad. I'll be thinking of you guys today. Love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 09:48 AM (CDT)
Glad things are going well. We continue to hope and pray for you.
stacy <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 08:54 AM (CDT)
Hi Hope all goes well today (and of course every day)/will be thinking of you and praying this is the beginning of goodthings. Raining here hope it doesn't get to cold. cleaned the pond and filled it so if get warmer the fish can have some clean water outside. Love to all-hug the kid and Chad for us. praying for you and hoping you feel the Lords presence. Love Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 07:26 AM (CDT)
Glad to hear Chad is out. It sounds like things are going well. We are thinking about you. Take care, we will talk to you later.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Wednesday, April 24, 2002 at 06:44 AM (CDT)
Sorry to hear chads getting sick but glad that the mouth sores are minimal. Was at mom and dads yesterday. Watched the kids for a little bit and eat supper with them. Brenden is getting better at scooting across the floor. I'm sure he'll be crawling in no time. Probably heard this before but...Be sure to keep everything clean and make sure chad wears his mask. Don't want him to catch anything even the simplest cold can be the worst to him. We love you very much and keep hanging in there.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 09:48 PM (CDT)
Good to read you're "out"! You take care...Jenn, make sure you monitor that housecleaning bunch! How much of the cleaning could you do yourself? Take care of each other, talk to you soon. As you know Kiah's day yesterday was not the best...but from the minute she woke today, I told Lon "someone gave us back Kiah during the night!" She's been her old perky self & smiles! Think her throat must be better, too...although we haven't tried any more mashed potatoes w/salty ham gravy! Love you both..Love, mom h
mom hanson <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 08:08 PM (CDT)
Thank you for keeping us all informed on Chad. Glad to hear the treatment is going as should. Our love and prayers are with you. Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN - Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 07:29 PM (CDT)
WOW what great news that Chad was released!!. Hope all goes well with the addition of his cells tomorrow. Things are going well here. Are they predicting how long you will be staying in Rochester yet?
Ann <abard@paulbunyan.net>
- Tuesday, April 23, 2002 at 03:56 PM (CDT)
Well, well, you two. Glad (SO glad) to hear that the mouth sores will be minimal this time around. All the prayers are helping! As I look out my window I note that the lake is very low this year....the lowest I've ever seen it in 20 years. The ice just came off a couple of days ago.
It should be fun for Tate to spend some time with mom and dad.
I NEED A HAIRCUT, Jen, and it's all your fault! Hmph. I look like a rag.
Going to get going on some guardian ad litem work now. Hugs to all!
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, April 22, 2002 at 07:48 PM (CDT)
Hi Jen & Chad, sounds like things are moving along. Glad to hear that some of the side effects that doctor's expected (e.g. mouth sores) aren't showing up. Chad has enough to deal with already I'm sure. I am constantly amazed at how well you are both dealing with all of this and so proud of the strength and faith you are both showing. Hold tight to that and it will all turn out okay, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to all.
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 10:29 AM (CDT)
Hi there, you two! I can't believe the ground is WHITE again! This is a weird spring. Is it snowing in Rochester too??
Last night we saw three huge bucks at the side of the road. They looked surprised at the snow too. :)
Hope your Monday goes well for Chad. Praying as usual for your difficult situation.
Off to work this morning.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, April 22, 2002 at 07:03 AM (CDT)
Hi Chad and Jen, just checking in. Sounds like things are going ok. We had a good time camping with Tate. I think he had fun, I hope he wasn't too worn out for Sue last night. He seemed pretty tired. Hang in there, we will talk to you later.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 06:30 AM (CDT)
Hey there Chad and Jen. It´s Anna, I´m enjoying my study abroad in Spain right now. I just saw the picture of Tate and Kiah and can´t believe how much older they look, especially Kiah! Can´t wait to see you all again in good ol´ MN this summer! With love, Anna
Anna Finkelson <speedobunny@hotmail.com>
Lincoln, NE USA - Monday, April 22, 2002 at 06:17 AM (CDT)
Keep up the "good" work Chad. Keep your faith, Jen. Hope this finds things moving along as they should. The days are counting "up". Soon, you will be on the plus side. I just got up and it is snowing!!!! I can't believe it. Just another "sign" of the changing times. I am sure you are missing the kids. Just know that they are ok staying with family--it is only for a while. Soon, they will be back with you. Keep the faith. Trust in He who cares for all.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 04:34 PM (CDT)
Hi Jenn I guess I had no idea about everything that has ben happening with you lately. I called to get a haircut (they only time I get to visit with you about all of this) and found out that you were on personal leave. I went directly to the web site to see what was going on. I think you are handling all of this very well. Better then I handled Brandon's medical junk :) I hope things turn out well. Sorry that I have been so out of touch with everything. Hope to visit with you soon !!
Jill Yost <jilybean@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN - Sunday, April 21, 2002 at 01:09 PM (CDT)
Am sorry to hear Chad is feeling this chemo so much stronger...but if that's a sign things are working (as in past), have to look at it as blessing. Our hearts ache for what you are going thru, Chad. There's still so much road ahead. From your favorite mother-in-law, "Thank you for being so strong, and loving your family enough to go thru this." Keep your faith & love strong. We love you. MOM H
susan hanson <lkhanson@lakeplus.com>
- Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 07:38 PM (CDT)
Oh yuk! Poor Chad! Not a fun thing to go through. We're all still praying for him (and for rest of family too!).
It's a good thing YOU mentioned the horse thing, Jen, or I would have had to say something funny about it....lol.
Hope all is okay and your new "digs" are great!!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 04:19 PM (CDT)
Cking in on you two...hope transfusion helped/wish we were close enough to have made it a "family thing"...most all us donate, you know! Kids disappeared w/Pat without much fuss, am sure they're having a ball w/cousins! We will p/u on way back from Fargo on Sunday. G&G B. are home...will miss not seeing kids, but there's always next week. You two stay strong for each other...& remember you're not alone. Many daily prayers come your way. God is always there to listen whether you pray or talk...WE LOVE YOU. mom
mom hanson <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Friday, April 19, 2002 at 07:07 PM (CDT)
Hi Hope all is going well for you. Hang in there. Jen--don't you know you hang on when a horse decides to unload you. brings back memories. We are praying for you both. Good kids are with Grandpa and Grandma. Here all is well--Waiting for spring/Thanks for keeping us updated. It is good to know how you are without bugging you. Take good care of each other when you are away from everyone that loves you. Love to all. Laurice
laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Friday, April 19, 2002 at 06:25 PM (CDT)
Hi Jen and Chad,
Wanted to let you know you are all in our prayers. Thinking of you and checking in on the website every day. I bet you are looking forward to getting to come home. Sending Healing Angels and Cookie Hugs,
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Friday, April 19, 2002 at 03:52 PM (CDT)
Hi just checking in. Glad it is going well so far. We are thinking of you. Talk to you later.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 08:16 AM (CDT)
Chad, it was nice chatting on MSN with you the other night; Jen it was good to talk with you last night on MSN too. I hope you're not too sore from your incident with the horse that pitched you, Jen! Too bad your webcam wasn't focused on THAT!!!
I won't be checking in again until Saturday since I will be gone for training but my thoughts and prayers are with guys!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, - Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 07:40 AM (CDT)
We are praying that everything goes well for you guys. Jason sent flowers for you and I hope you got to at least see them. Lol and prayers.
vic
Vicki <jnvtang@worldnet.att.net>
Moorhead, MN USA - Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 03:38 PM (CDT)
Happy Belated Birthday, Jen. Hope this finds things well in your life. Will try to keep checking everyday to see how things are going. That is a great idea on how you are numbering the days. It may make things seem like they are going quicker. Will pray that he doesn't get sick. By the middle of next week, should be able to add the cells again. Right? Keep the faith. Spring is in the air--just like a new beginning. Maybe not such a bad comparison!! Take care and will keep in touch. Love the paint job. It looks nice. The flowers are really cute in Kiahs' room.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 04:57 AM (CDT)
Hi Jen and Chad. Hope chads chemo goes well and he doesn't get sick from it. Let me know if you need anything I will do my best to do it for you. We love you both and think of you all the time. I see Vicki at work and inform her about chad whenever I can. Take care and just take one day at a time.
Travis, Jamie and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 11:26 PM (CDT)
Thanks, Jen. I was gone from 1:30 until 7:15 today so I wasn't on probably when you looked for me. I added you but now (7:17 PM Tuesday April 16th) you aren't on. I work all day tomorrow and then I'm off to St. Paul for Guardian Ad Litem continuing education so you won't see me for a bit. I won't forget you guys though!!!
Prayers, hugs, and best of everything to you guys.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 07:15 PM (CDT)
Hi Jen,
Happy B-day a day late. I promise a celebration when you get back home. Maybe a girls night of shopping--Sam's club here we come!!(Chad won't mind)LOL. CJ is growing accustom to her new/old stomping grounds--she has become my shadow unless Adam is around to chase. Adam is walking her nightly. She also recieves a doggie treat both morning and night. Siri and Adam are fighting over who gets to give it to her. Our prayers are with you.
Ann <abard@paulbunyan..net>
Bemidji, - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 03:30 PM (CDT)
Jen: on MSN, my nick is Carol (Mommers).
Maybe you can find ME. Carol Shegrud is name you can search. I am unable to find a Jennifer Martinson on MSN. Wahhhhhhh.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 11:05 AM (CDT)
Happy belated birthday, Jen!! Probably not WHERE you wanted to spend your birthday but you won't ever forget it!
I tried to find you on MSN but my search didn't find you. What is your nick on MSN? I will try and "find" you if you give me the info!!
Have a great day!
Carol Shegrdu <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 10:47 AM (CDT)
Hi Chad & Jen
I'm so thankful for this site to keep connected with Chads progress. These next few weeks are sure to be the most difficult...it sounds that way anyhow. We're keeping up the prayers and keeping "positive" that this will be the cure. I also pray that you feel upheld by the love of your wonderfully supportive family and far reaching friends. I like to think that in the "darkness" of this illness, there is LIGHT all around. When you feel so rotten, I'm sure it may be hard to see this LIGHT. Be assured, the LIGHT is there for you! God bless you today and tomorrow and more.
Amy & Joe Bofferding <jaboffer@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 09:22 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JENNIFER!!!!! Hope that everything goes well and Chad stays well. I know your days are going to be long but hang in there. Praying for you daily. Bets
Elizabeth Nelson <cnelson@prtel.com>
- Monday, April 15, 2002 at 09:32 PM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE. Hope your day goes smoothly. Lovingly Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
fergus Falls, MN - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 09:04 PM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE. Hope your day goes smoothly. Lovingly Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
fergus Falls, MN - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 09:02 PM (CDT)
Hi Hope all is going well with you. We are praying that all will go smoothly. Pictures are good. what a fun room. Cute pictures of kids. Love to all. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 08:55 PM (CDT)
Greetings - hope all is going well. We sure do enjoy the pics - that Easter one is so nice. It was 82 degrees today - do you think spring is around the corner?!! Well, hugs and kisses and love are sent to you. Prayers are with you, also.
We will check back in later. Love Jo and Roger
Roger and Jo <pederson@lakesplus.com>
- Monday, April 15, 2002 at 08:27 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Jen! Hope things are going well and you're getting settled in! Take care! Lisa K
Lisa Kampmeier <Lakamper@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN USA - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 04:25 PM (CDT)
Happy Birthday Jen! Hope you have many many more. I check this daily to see how things are going. Praying that things go well. Will keep checking your MSN and hope to talk to you soon.
Myrna <van@prtel.com>
- Monday, April 15, 2002 at 01:16 PM (CDT)
Jen - the rooms that you painted look great - want to come do mine? LOL I love the Easter pic of Tate & Kiah - printed it out and hung it on my wall along with an Easter pic of my best friend's kids. I'm surrounded by pictures of adorablel children. :-) There are worse things. I hope everything goes well down at Mayo. Chad, you are in our thoughts and prayers and our faith and strength will be with you. Love to all, keep the updates coming so we know how you are doing.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 11:37 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,HAPPY BIRTHDAY
DEAR JENN. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...... Love you very much
hope you have many more...Kids are doing fine. Tate and I
went for a bike ride yesterday. Praying everything is going OK. Talk to you later Love Dad... PS Kiah is telling the dogs to sit and stay. See can say it..
Dad <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
NY Mills, Mn USA - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 09:26 AM (CDT)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,HAPPY BIRTHDAY
DEAR JENN. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...... Love you very much
hope you have many more...Kids are doing fine. Tate and I
went for a bike ride yesterday. Praying everything is going OK. Talk to you later Love Dad...
Dad <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
NY Mills, Mn USA - Monday, April 15, 2002 at 09:22 AM (CDT)
How long do you think you guys will be down there, Jen? Are the kids with your parents again?
It is beautiful out right now.....true spring. The grass is trying to peek up from the frosty winter left-overs and turn green.
We will continue to pray during this new challenge of yours. Keep sending the news.
Keep the faith, and trust that all will be well.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, April 15, 2002 at 07:04 AM (CDT)
I LOVE the rooms! The effect of the living room is really rich and cozy. Did you paint the flowers on the wall, Jen? The pictures of the kids are adorable too!
At church today I will bring up Chad for prayer again for the new Mayo happening.
Have a good week you guys.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Sunday, April 14, 2002 at 07:58 AM (CDT)
Hi looks like you have been busy Im sure the living room looks a lot different pretty on the picture. Do you like it? Hope all goes well. Drive careful and will check with you each day Love you all grandma and grandpa
LeVonne Hanson <arlev@prtel.com>
Dalton, Mna - Saturday, April 13, 2002 at 04:22 PM (CDT)
So glad to hear that you are home. Glad things are going well for you. Will keep up the prayers that all will continue so smoothly. With spring definitely in the air now, it is as if things are looking up. Good things will come your way. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Don't forget about yourselves!! It is okay to be "selfish". Some R & R for Chad and Jen is well deserved, even if it is a little here and there.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Saturday, April 13, 2002 at 04:24 AM (CDT)
I can't believe that Chad went to work after all he's been through! What a trooper he is! That is so amazing.
Okay, Jen, we are all poised to see the PINK room and the living room that you attacked....pics, please??
The bright sun and the calm air is a good sign of spring finally coming...and with it, we pray that Chad's health "springtime" is near too.
Have a great week!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Friday, April 12, 2002 at 08:56 AM (CDT)
Chad- I am looking for a new car cuz mine is about to bite the dust. I have my heart set on a 97/98 saturn around 6000-7000 dollars. If you have anything that you think would be good for me please let me know asap. I would also be trading in my 96 Metro. Thanks a lot.
stacy <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 02:26 PM (CDT)
just read up for last few days...thought I got it "all" over the phone, but was pleasantly informed more fully what they're doing to Chad! This was a good thing you did, Jenn! You're in our prayers & thoughts, all of you. See you tomorrow night. Love MOM H.
susan hanson <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 07:29 PM (CDT)
Jen & Chad - I'm glad you are back home. Chad, we'll all have you in our thoughts and prayers over the next few weeks/months as the chemo and stem cell transplant is in process. I know you have the strength and faith to get through the next steps. Jen, you've been absolutely amazing in your support of Chad and still keeping the family going as normally as possible. My one wish is that this will soon be behind you and you can both focus 100% on your family, your home, your love and your lives and not have to constantly worry about health. Hugs and love to all. Hope to see you all soon (I may travel back with Mom and Mike this summer).
Stephanie Wilcox <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 10:14 AM (CDT)
Jen I have another question for you. Do you have Kevin's address? I need ot send him an invite too. And also your mom's email address if you could please. Thanks. Have a great and healthy day!
Stacy <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 08:21 AM (CDT)
I'm glad someone else was puzzled. I had a vague idea of what was going on but you helped make it understandable, Jen. My goodness what a long ordeal for both of you! Every step gets you closer to good health for Chad, and I'm sure that's what you're focusing on.
Thumbs up and God's blessings on your family!
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, April 10, 2002 at 07:19 AM (CDT)
I was trying to explain to my dad what a stem cell transplant was and didn't do a very good job. What is next? Does Chad just have more chemo or surgeries. I don't expect a huge explaination. I should also let you know that Matt is being confirmed on the 21st so you should be receiveing and invite soon. Hope you can make it. Grnadpa and grandma should be back just in time and will hopfully be there too. It would be nice to get together with everyone again. Especially get all the babies together. I don't mean to be nosy, but what is going on next month if you don't mind my asking? Best wishes!
stacy <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 07:15 PM (CDT)
Woo hoo! What great news that your procedures are over and it's time to come home! Jen, what is a "merhercer"?? I'm not very medically knowledgeable here! Drive carefully and get lots of hugs from your babies and your parents! Looking forward to the next installment of your progress.
Love and blessings.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, April 08, 2002 at 07:13 PM (CDT)
Yeah--that was a fast harvest!! Call when you get caught up and settled back home.
Ann and Alan <abard@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 07:08 PM (CDT)
Hi Chad & Jen
Sounds like the "procedure" is going very well. I'm so thankful! We're still praying for great things to happen!!!! Blessings to you and your family.
Amy & Joe Bofferding <jaboffer@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 02:02 PM (CDT)
Hi=I HOPE TODAY GOES WELL. Prayers and thought of you constantly.I didn't think you would be on this so wrote the e way/sorry/Hope you were able to get some rest. Sounds so misserable.But knowing you guys- you'll figure a way. You are so so strong thank goodness someone (up there) is watching and taking care of you.also. LOve to all Laurice.
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net >
Fergus Falls, MN - Monday, April 08, 2002 at 09:05 AM (CDT)
Hi Jen and Chad,
Wanted to again let you know that you are all in our prayers. Hope today is another good day for you both. Being the patient is hard, and being the one who has to wait in the waiting room is just as hard. We're thinking of you both. Sending healing angels and cookie hugs.
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Monday, April 08, 2002 at 08:14 AM (CDT)
Good Monday morning! Hope today is a good day for you and Chad. Thinking of you as usual....praying too, of course. We went to see "Air Supply" in concert Saturday night. They were awesome. I know they are 70's-80's band but they have such energy and were so much fun. They signed autographs and came into the audience too. We really enjoyed it. (The audience was NOT people in their 50's like me, either! lol) One girl practically fainted when one of the singers came up to her and gave her a hug. She was shaking. It was cute - she was about 20. Talk to you later!
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Monday, April 08, 2002 at 07:55 AM (CDT)
Wow, you guys! What an awesome thing that medical science can provide such intricate medical intervention! Isn't it great that you live in a time where this kind of care is possible??? I am excited for you guys.
Hopefully Kiah's ears will resolve their problem. It is best if she is not around smoke because sometimes certain kids will develop an allergy to smoke and it manifests itself in ear infections.
I'm sure you miss your little munchkins! Hats off to grandma and grandpa for taking care of your little ones. What a blessing to have a family that is "hands on". Extra prayers for energy and strength for Tate and Kiah's special care-givers during this time! (Bowing to grandparents here.....)
Love always and prayers always........
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Sunday, April 07, 2002 at 11:07 PM (CDT)
Glad things are going well. Ihope Kiah gets better. Alexis got close to needing tubes too, but so far we have lucked out. Take care.
stacy bourassa <stacy7946@juno.com>
- Sunday, April 07, 2002 at 01:57 PM (CDT)
Prayers and thoughts are sent your way. Hope all is well. Remember when this is over to take some time for yourselves-just the two of you. If not just to say--Together we will be. You have such strong support and prayers from everyone. That is a comfort, but I am sure there are times....that is OK. Hope all is well. Continue to look forward to checking in on you. Hug and Kiss you kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 06:53 PM (CST)
Chad and Jen:
You're in my family's thoughts and prayers. God is strong and will help you through this. Take care of yourselves and of each other.
{IrishBull}, JT from IRC <southcitydude@hotmail.com>
st louis, mo USA - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 09:28 AM (CST)
Hi, Chad and Jen. Thanks for the updates, Jen. You are so faithful to keep everyone informed. I'm sure seeing Chad so helpless with the tubes and so forth is pretty difficult for you. I hope they were able to give Chad something for the discomfort. Our prayers are still (always) in force. Try and get some rest in between the assaults, Jen. You are needed to be healthy and well to hold down the fort. Tell Chad that when he's all recovered and his body is behaving you are going to flop into a chaise lounge and have him peel you some grapes and fan you with a palm branch. (It wouldn't hurt for this scenario to be in the Bahamas either!) Bedside vigils are difficult. Being a PATIENT is difficult. I guess maybe I should peel grapes for both of you..........lol. Hugs to all.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 07:54 AM (CST)
Jen,
Hope all is well with you. Hang in there. Glad to hear the surgery went well. We will try calling again sometime.
Ann <abard@paulbunyan.net>
- Friday, April 05, 2002 at 10:42 PM (CST)
Hi, glad surgery went well. Good Luck sleeping tonight. Thinking about you. Talk to you soon.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 08:41 PM (CST)
Hi guys,
Hope surgery went well today and that harvest in underway--a little different definition of harvest than we are used to. You are in our prayers. Can't wait for you to get home again.
Ann and Alan <abard@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 03:33 PM (CST)
Hi Jen & Chad
Our family is remembering you in our prayers every single day. Please feel our love and His love, too! We are amazed at the pace that you both maintain. Certainly our God is helping with His Grace. We continue to check the site often and are always thankful to hear your late-breaking good news. God Bless you!!!!
Amy & Joe Bofferding <jaboffer@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 10:35 AM (CST)
I'll be on my knees at 7:00 AM. God loves you, He wants the best for you..............depend on Him. It's good that things are progressing even if scary. Action is good. Jen, focus on complete recovery for Chad. It's okay to be scared; acknowledge this and relax as much as you can, knowing that our Heavenly Father has all things in His hands. Other hands are ready to help, too. Keep the faith; be your usual "no one's gonna get the best of me" self! Give Chad an extra hug or two from all of us that are concerned about ALL of you. God bless you!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Friday, April 05, 2002 at 12:34 AM (CST)
Glad you got down to Mayo ok. If you need some company or someone to talk to just let me know and I can be down there anytime, night or day. You know my number. We love you both and hope things go well.
P.S. Was no problem going to moms. It's not like I was doing anything else. lol
Travis, Jamie and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 09:17 PM (CST)
Hi Jen and Chad,
So glad to hear that things are going ahead of schedule for you. Wanted to let you know that you are in our prayers. We can get CJ in for a grooming whenever you get back and have time. Sending Healing Angels and Warm Cookie Hugs,
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 03:32 PM (CST)
Jen & Chad - very sorry to hear that you have had such a scare with that fever. I hope that it's a sign that Chad's body is ready for the next step. Best of luck down at Mayo and please keep us all posted. As always you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 09:53 AM (CST)
Hi Hope things go well with you. You are in our prayers. Hang in there Chad. I realize its hard at times. Glad you had a nice Easter.
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 07:42 AM (CST)
Wow what a scare for you guys with that high of a fever! I can't even comprehend the kind of nightmare you two have been going through. So many twists and turns. I am glad you are going to the Mayo Clinic now. They are so competent and knowledgeable that you can hopefully put Chad into their capable hands and watch and pray. It's great that your parents are willing/able to love those kids for you and keep them safe and happy while you have this doctoring business to attend to. Hats off to grandma and grandpa!!! It sounds like your support group is standing in the wings waiting to assist. It's nice to know, isn't it, that others are eager to take some of the burden from you? What do you do about your dog when you go? God bless you on your latest journey of recovery, Jen and Chad. Send word if there's something I can do.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday, April 04, 2002 at 06:42 AM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Just a quick note to again let you know that you are all always in our prayers. Hope today finds Chad feeling a little better. Sending Healing Angels and Warm Chocolate Chip Cookie Hugs.
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 10:54 AM (CST)
Jen & Chad - I hope the fever has come back down and that you're doing okay. I can't even imagine how hard it must be to feel this bad, even knowing that it will allow you to get better. Just remember that we're all thinking of you and keeping you all in our prayers. Keep taking care of each other and take it one day at a time. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 09:15 AM (CST)
Hi just read mail hope all is better today. Love you and pray many times a day that all will go well grandma
LeVonne Hanson <arlev@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 08:10 AM (CST)
Just read your update...much concern for Chad and the challenge you both face "waiting & no answers". We are here if you need some homecare help...call! God loves you & so do we. mom H. (am trying to send, but now name & e-mail "required"...why the change?)
mom h <lkhanson@lakesplus.com>
- Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 06:51 AM (CST)
Sorry to hear that you aren't feeling well. I hope you start to feel better. Those temps are not fun when you are feeling so bad. Try to keep your chins up. I am sure it is hard. Remember to take and keep time just for YOU!!!!! Sending prayers your way. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 04:27 AM (CST)
Hard to root for Chad's cells being "bad" in order to go to Mayo! But if that's what it takes to get this show on the road then that's what I will root for!
Thanks for the updates, Jen. It must be difficult sometimes to "report" all the time. You do a great job of it. I always check in every day. Praying for a miracle and in a HURRY!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
- Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 08:22 PM (CST)
Glad you guys had a good Easter! Sounds like Tate is getting into the "swing" of things with his Easter egg hunt! How cute.
Lots of "there there"s to Chad for his misery in these latest treatments. Wish we could all take some of his discomfort and spread it around and absorb some of it for him.
Have a good week, Jen and Chad and kids. Still (always) praying for the best for you all.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Monday, April 01, 2002 at 06:37 AM (CST)
Hi, Chad and Jen and kids. I am looking out my window and see snow fighting with sun and the sky is trying to stay overcast but the sun won't let it. Even the snow can't make up it's mind which way to fall...goes this way and that. Kind of like life right now for the Martinsons. Good days, bad days, sunny moments, scary thoughts, so much going on. The sun breaking through is the focus. I believe God is working in your lives and if you can stay focused on Him and trust Him for everything then you will see more sun and less overcast. As much as your family and friends love you all, God loves you much, much more. In this Easter season of resurrection and power my prayer is that you will cling to His promises and have that certain knowledge that God is with you, will guide you, and will take care of everything that you could ever need. Have a great Easter! (and will you forgive my pun if I say you are all "good eggs"??) Keep up the journaling, Jen, it's so good that you are doing this.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Saturday, March 30, 2002 at 08:01 AM (CST)
Hello Jen and Chad! We are sorry that we haven't put an entry in the guestbook lately. Chad, we admire you for feeling so sick, but all the while feeling like this, you continue to go to work and participate in other activites. Jen, we admire you for being there for the chemo, shots, keeping the house free of germs, etc. You both are wonderful people and have two wonderful children. We are as well sorry to hear that people are questioning what you are purchasing and how you are purchasing it. I wonder if the people that are questioning this have ever gone through such a medical ordeal as what you and Chad are going through. The sad part is, the worst is yet to come as far as finances with Chad's future stay at Mayo and your expenses while you go back and fourth and find someone to take the kids. You and Chad should never have to explain to anyone what you have purchased or how you have purchased it. We are proud of you for bringing this to everyones attention. Hopefully you will not have to deal with this again as you currently have enough to deal with. Happy Easter to all of you. Love and prayers.
Chad and Wanda <wanda hagen@meritcare.com>
- Friday, March 29, 2002 at 09:31 AM (CST)
Hi--haven't emailed for a while. I bet all that painting is looking nice. It makes one feel good when you get all done--especially when it looks so nice. Hope you are feeling okay, Chad. Will keep checking the site for updates. May you find strength in that of friends and loved ones when you need it, but most of all in that of God. He will provide. Keep the faith and the hope that Easter brings to all of us. Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Friday, March 29, 2002 at 02:42 AM (CST)
Hey guys. Hope things are going well. Hope Tate has a happy birthday. All these March birthday's it is hard to keep track. Sorry we missed Kiah's. We celebrated Kelsey's 5th that day. They grow up so fast. Keep in touch and I hope all goes well in Mayo.
Stacey, Dave and Kids.
Stacey <DSJuhnnke@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 10:25 PM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Just a quick note to again let you know you are all in our prayers. We think of you often and enjoy your journal. Hope you have a blessed Easter and that Tate has a great birthday. Sending you warm Chocolate Chip Cookie Hugs and Healing Angels.
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 03:47 PM (CST)
Hi Jen and company. Finally am caught up enough to check the website out. Let me know what time works for our little celebration on Fri. The kids are excited and Scooby-Doo is the theme.
Ann <abard@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 03:38 PM (CST)
Just thought I wold say Hi and Hope things are going well.
We pray for you ever night when the girls are saying prayers.
LOL
Vic
Vicki <jnvtang@worldnet.att.net>
Moorhead, MN usa - Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 03:24 PM (CST)
Good morning, Jen and Chad. It looks so beautiful outside when I see the tall pine trees not even swaying at all, and the lake looking icy and serene. The sun is flooding the room and it looks like a good day. Jen, I wouldn't worry about the little comments that come your way about money matters - unfortunately people have critical natures and like to grumble. In my mind, a gift is a gift and should only be given with an open heart and lots of love. The recipient should not be required to "report" on how the gift is used (or saved pending need). You did not extract donations by force. Catastrophic health problems do require lots of unforeseen expenses; travel, babysitting costs, food, loss of work time, in addition to the medical itself. Concentrate on doing what you need to do efficiently and well to do the best for Chad to get better. This is no time to stress out over people being petty and judgmental. I'm glad you had the guts to bring the issue up in your journal. I hope you have a blessed Easter and that Tate's birthday is wonderful. Celebrate every moment that you can! Chad, I admire your willingness to work even though you feel awful. That is a great strength of character. May God bless both of you abundantly!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, March 26, 2002 at 08:44 AM (CST)
Hi--hang in there Chad it soon will be your due day. And we are praying and hoping it all will be good news for you guys. Not much happening here. sort of trying to get my act together for Easter. Waiting for Chad to call and let us know what his plans are but as you know he takes his good old time and let us know in his good time. I think he is coming home at least that is what his plans were a couple weeks ago. Mike and Shannon and kids will be here and Laureen and her family so not to many but we will be together.Will spend timne at the Pioneer home with Mom. Hope you have a good week. Love to all Laurice and Chuck Have a good Easter!!!!
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Monday, March 25, 2002 at 09:11 PM (CST)
As a woman who's husband is also undergoing chemo for advanced colon cancer, I can say that you both are very strong people. Live in the moment and don't forget sometimes to just "breath". Don't live your lives defined by cancer, but by each and every normal day you can have with your beautiful children (great pics by the way!).
We Cheflist woman have to stick together!
Katherine (Kat) Gasque <kgasque@mindspring.com>
Atlanta, GA - Sunday, March 24, 2002 at 01:13 PM (CST)
Good morning all good to hear your home hope all goes well and will see you at Easter if you can make it if not we understand very well. so take care grandma
LeVonne <arlev@prtel.com>
DaltonMnusa, - Saturday, March 23, 2002 at 07:09 AM (CST)
So glad to hear everything is going well. Our prayers are with you. Love, Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 12:43 PM (CST)
Hi, Chad and Jen. Glad the tests are over and nothing stopping the plan! It's 3 degrees right now (Friday morning). We bought a little house near the college for an investment...that closes escrow today. My college daughter, Holly, is pretty excited cuz she gets to live there. We are going to find a couple of more girls to share it with her. The Guardian Ad Litem work keeping me very busy but I do love it. We are still "discussing" things with the insurance people on our fire. Sometimes it gets discouraging but we are not letting it get to us. I bet you miss your babies!! Can't believe Kiah is ONE already! Wow. Keep the faith and know that your family/friends are holding you up in prayer. God bless you guys!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Friday, March 22, 2002 at 07:31 AM (CST)
Hope everything is going good. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Hope it is warmer where you are. Really cold today - 10 - and blowing. Take care. Love Jo and Roger
Jo and Roger <pederson@lakesplus.com>
- Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 07:05 PM (CST)
Glad to see that things are going good. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Elizabeth Nelson <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, - Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 01:22 PM (CST)
Glad things are going ok. Remember we all love you and pray for the best.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 09:04 PM (CST)
Good luck with the stem cell. Our prayers are with you always. Keeping our fingers crossed!
stacy bourassa <stacy7946@juno.com>
moorhead, mn - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 05:24 PM (CST)
Hi Chad and Jen, Pam & John have been keeping me updated on how things are going. Sounds like things are going well, the pictures of the kids are so cute. Take care of yourselves, your both in my thoughts and prayers.
Carissa Mosbo <cmosbo@hotmail.com>
Annandale, MN - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 03:00 PM (CST)
Jen & Chad - hope things continue to go well this week. Keep the updates coming and know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 11:48 AM (CST)
God Bless. hope all is going well even if the time gets long and boring. We are thinking of you and praying that it all goes well. Have a good tomorrow . Laurice
laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net.>
Fergus Falls , MN - Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 11:16 PM (CST)
Just wanted to let you know we're thinking about you and love you. Hope your butt is feeling better soon chad. LOL See you when you get back.
Travis, Jamie and Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
- Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 09:16 PM (CST)
Good luck down at Mayo this week guys. You know Pam and I will be thinking about you all week.
John & Pam Magnuson <jrmags@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Monday, March 18, 2002 at 10:22 AM (CST)
Hi==Have a great weekend. and we'll be praying and thinking of you this next week.Hope all goes well. Laurice
laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN - Saturday, March 16, 2002 at 08:01 PM (CST)
Prayers to you today and especially next week when you go to Mayo. Hope that all goes well. I got a really cool e-mail from someone about strength-when you think you have none, God will give you strength. It goes on about several other "things". It is really neat. I will try to send it to you. Your painting expiditions sound really neat. I bet her room looks really cool. I always had plain white walls and now the house we have now, is pretty much wallpaper or paint (color). It is a nice change. I hope your kids stay well. Will send prayers to Rochester. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
- Saturday, March 16, 2002 at 04:01 AM (CST)
Jen - you need to snap a pic of Kiah's room and post it so we can all see how it turned out. Hope everyone is feeling okay - take care. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 06:26 PM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Wanted to let you that I'm thinkin bout ya guys. Sounds like you've been busy decorating up a storm. Kiah's room sounds really cute. Keeping you all in our prayers. Sending you warm Chocolate Chip Cookie hugs!
CJ's groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Thursday, March 14, 2002 at 04:47 PM (CST)
You're a mad woman, Jen....."pretty in pink"?
You sure have more energy than you should! But I suppose that is good for you to do something for your home to keep your mind and body occupied.
I will still be praying for the Rochester trip!
I got the really bad flu bad and have a fever, chills, and the aches that go with it. Yuk. Now my 3 month old grandson has it too (we were all together on Sunday). Sigh.....
Jen, send me a Pampered Chef book (Route 3 Box 309) if you would....think there's something I need. You can include it with your next order.
Happy painting!
Carol
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Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 06:39 PM (CST)
Sure hope everyone feels better soon. I've been in the color mode also Jen - my whole house was white inside - the walls, the cupboards, even the fireplace! So, I've started painting bit by bit throughout the house adding color - borders are great for this also. Hope you have fun - sounds like you've been very ambitious about it all. Take care. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday, March 13, 2002 at 06:00 PM (CST)
Hi everyone! Hope this finds the kids colds gone and Chad feeling better, too. Jen, did Mom tell you she sang karoke the other night??? Dad, too!!! They really were good. The pictures are really nice but Jen, where are you? Shy?? Take care. Prayers are with you all. Love Jo and Roger
Jo and Roger <pederson@lakesplus.com>
New York Mills, MN - Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 07:41 PM (CST)
Hi Jennifer,
(My former summer babysitter)
This is my first time visiting the site, what a great way to stay in touch with everyone. I see your parents from time to time and ask for updates on you, Chad, Tate, and Kiah and last week your dad said why don't you check out the website and leave them a message. So here I am... just wanted to you & your family to know you're in my thoughts and prayers. Hope the kids are feeling better.
April Frost (Vaughn) <mnfrostygirl@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, March 12, 2002 at 06:34 PM (CST)
Hi, guys. Jen you seem a little "down" in your journaling. I'm sure the colds, Chad's aches, and your day to day stuff is getting tiring. Hope you know how many people are praying for you and want to "lift you up" a bit. Those ministering "angels" are needed at your house in great numbers right now. Stop and behold all that you have and enjoy your precious family. God bless you guys.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Sunday, March 10, 2002 at 08:30 PM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Sending prayers and great healing thoughts for the next steps in your journey. Wanted to let you know that we always keep you all in heart and prayer and sending a little extra to help you thru the Mayo. Sending Healing Angels, Whispers of a great love, Warm toasty hugs and Soul Soothing breezes to blow in your dreams.
You know who.
- Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 04:45 PM (CST)
Hi Jen and Chad, Just to let you know that we're thinking about you and praying all goes well in Mayo. Hugs and Kisses to all. Love Mom
Mom and Rick <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday, March 06, 2002 at 12:22 AM (CST)
HI Jen and Chad. Just got a look at the new pic's in the photo album. They turned out nice. Even the one I took of Tate. So everybody check out the new pic's!!!!!
Love you and praying for those angles to come and help you.
Dad....
- Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 09:25 PM (CST)
Jen I would think you would just collapse when you have time at home after all you and Chad have been through!! I admire your "spring cleaning" energy. It must be scary thinking of all Chad has yet to go through, but on the other hand, when you have a "plan" it feels good to be doing something and having a mission. I pray for you all whenever I think of you and ask God to bless each stage of this path you're on. It's wonderful that you have a great support group. Parents and friends etc are wonderful in a pinch, aren't they? God bless everyone in your extended circle for their part in Chad's recovery. Look out, Mayo! Jen and crew are on their way!!!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 02:19 PM (CST)
Sounds like you are busy with all the cleaning. It feels so good when it is all nice and clean. Pray all goes well with Chad when he goes to Mayo. It is so wonderful what they can do to make you well. Love from the Wenstroms
Sandy <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, - Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 11:09 AM (CST)
Good morning Jen We got home of Sunday afternoon roads were good all the way we lucked out. Hope and pray Chad is doing ok. Hi to the kids Grandma
- Tuesday, March 05, 2002 at 08:54 AM (CST)
I haven't written for a while. We have been busy, busy at our house. One kid is sick for a day, then a few good days, then another is lousy and this continues. Wishing it would end. I hope your kids are feeling better, too. Sick kids aren't any fun. I hope that Chad is feeling better. I hope that his lab work straightens out. My prayers to you. I will send a few extra for good health for the whole family. Hopefully those teeth will come through and things will get better. Sometimes it is so miserable for them. Keep the faith!! Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula
Frazee, - Saturday, March 02, 2002 at 04:11 AM (CST)
Hi: Hope this finds all of you feeling better and staying that way Hope Chad is doing better. All seems well here--cold. think healing thoughts and we are praying for you and that you know there is alot of love here for all of you. Keep God close--Laurice
- Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 07:18 PM (CST)
Checking in on you kids...hope today went OK. Jenn, I sent e-mail yesterday...did you get? Kiss the kids for us...love you all. MOM H
- Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 05:41 PM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Hope Chad is feeling ok today. It was good to see him and Tate yesterday! Tate remembered the Tootsie rolls! :) We are keeping you all in our prayers. Sending Chocolate Chip Cookie Hugs to all.
CJ's groomer
- Thursday, February 28, 2002 at 04:17 PM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Hope Chad is resting and gathering strength. Glad to hear Kiah is feeling better and hope you don't get too much of her bug. Sending Healing Angels, Campfire S'more's Hugs and a basketful of wishes for you all. Keeping you in Heart and Prayer.
angel sender
- Tuesday, February 26, 2002 at 10:57 AM (CST)
Hi, Jen and Chad. Thanks for getting back to me, Chad, about my daughter's van search. How did your Pampered Chef party go on Sat., Jen? Hope it was a good one. I suppose you guys are starting to think about a birthday party for Kiah.....the big ONE year old! I am doing lots of the Guardian Ad Litem work......keeps me hopping. Just wanted you to know I was thinking about you guys!
Keep up the positive spirits, guys!
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Monday, February 25, 2002 at 08:24 PM (CST)
Checking in on you all...Hope everyone is as good as can be!Hope you had good day at work, Jenn...& that chad got needed rest. Love, MOM & DAD H
- Monday, February 25, 2002 at 07:19 PM (CST)
Hi all! Jen, glad you got to enjoy some peace and quiet - I'm sure it was a sanity saver for you. Chad, sure hope you start feeling better soon. Love to all of you - hug the kids for all of us. Take care.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Monday, February 25, 2002 at 06:49 PM (CST)
We are glad Chad is back home again...until next time. I know things get overwhelming at times, but take time to talk to God...good to vent or cry, or say thank you. Will say special prayer tonight that Kiah is better & her bug doesn't find Chad or you, Jenn. XOXOX to all. MOM H
- Sunday, February 24, 2002 at 02:52 PM (CST)
We are glad Chad is back home again...until next time. I know things get overwhelming at times, but take time to talk to God...good to vent or cry, or say thank you. Will say special prayer tonight that Kiah is better & her bug doesn't find Chad or you, Jenn. XOXOX to all. MOM H
- Sunday, February 24, 2002 at 02:52 PM (CST)
We are glad Chad is back home again...until next time. I know things get overwhelming at times, but take time to talk to God...good to vent or cry, or say thank you. Will say special prayer tonight that Kiah is better & her bug doesn't find Chad or you, Jenn. XOXOX to all. MOM H
- Sunday, February 24, 2002 at 02:52 PM (CST)
Hi, Jen. Got a kick out of your latest journal entry describing Kiah's "throwing up" and then inviting us all to check out the web cam! Sounds like your unique brand of humor, all right. (I DID tune in but nobody was up-chucking so I got bored....lol). You always like to torture. (heh heh) That bear or whatever it is in your living room is HUGE!! I sent an email to Chad at the Chrysler email address on your site telling him to keep his eyes peeled for a van for my daughter but didn't get anything in reply. Ask him if he got it, okay? With three foster kids she needs a little more room and as long as she's in the market to buy she might as well try to go through Chad. Hope your Pampered Chef party went well. Give Kiah many get-well kisses. The pictures are DARLING. Have a good rest of the weekend.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Friday February 22, 2002 4:34 PM CST
Hi Jen,
We managed our trip to Rochester and back just fine. I would like to cook dinner for you guys sometime when Chad returns or even before if you guys can come over. I will deliver meals in a van to you also if it helps. Just let me know when. We miss you guys. Give me a call.
Ann <abard@paulbunyan.net>
- Friday February 22, 2002 11:24 AM CST
glad to hear Chad did better this time. We are headed off to Fergus tomorrow to help Gram. We will probably come to Bemidji next weekend to look at houses, will let you know. Take care, see you soon.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, - Friday February 22, 2002 6:31 AM CST
Just read last few enteries. HOpe you're having quiet evening w/kids. Am glad Chad was able to travel to Fargo-suppose he's staying w/Roy? Good chance to visit some for them. Sorry to hear of your friends fire-that was alot of equip, etc. to lose. Thankfully though, no injuries... I will include them in my prayers tonight. Kiss the kids for us...Sat. was fun day. We love you...and so does God. Mom & Dad H.
- Monday February 18, 2002 9:47 PM CST
Pictures are great - Jen, Kiah looks just like you did as a kid in that recliner pic :-) Sure hope everything continues to go well for Chad - best of luck and best wishes for the upcoming treatment. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Monday February 18, 2002 7:04 PM CST
Good Luck with everything coming up this week. We are keeping you all in heart and prayer. Sending Treatment Healing Angels, Warm Springtime Hugs and Strength Gathering Love.
angel sender
- Monday February 18, 2002 3:22 PM CST
HI I just wrote but didn't see it have a good week. Pictures are really nice.sure enjoy them. Hope Chad has a good week and we will be praying and thinking of you all. Love Laurice
Laurice
- Monday February 18, 2002 3:21 PM CST
Hi---cute pictures. it is sure nice of you to share them with us. they are growing fast. even Tate looks older/ Hope all goes well with Chad tomorrow and rest of the week. We will be with you in thoughts and prayers. Shannon called today and asked if we wanted to go to Tommys gymnastic thing. so going there tonite. She said it really is more of a play time but can invite guests. He was in the Emergency Room yesterday--guess he thought he was peter pan or something and was jumping from davenport to davenport and fell. Must of gave them a good scare. cant remember details but he is ok. and Wm was also at the clinic not sure if er or not but has upper resp.virus so has been feeling lousy. she said it has been a lost weekend. Guess that goes with kids. right.everything else seems ok around here .It is so nice out. better let you go. Have a good week. Laurice Lots of Love===
- Monday February 18, 2002 3:16 PM CST
Hi, Jen and Chad. We had "fun" weekend....our pole barn caught on fire and all of my hubby's equipment was destroyed. We lost the building, the backhoe, the grader, the loader, our daughter's Motor home that we were storing and many many other things. We thought my husband, Mitch, was IN the motor home and we were unable to get to it because of the engulfing flames and the explosions of the gas. It was HORRIBLE but he was not in there! So we are sad in a tiny way but REJOICING that Mitch got out of there. Living 18 miles from nearest town didn't help get fire department out on time to save anything but at least the wind was going the other way so the shop/garage/house didn't go up in smoke too.
Hope you guys have a wonderful week........I check in all the time.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Monday February 18, 2002 0:01 AM CST
Hello! We're sorry to hear about all the "bumps in the road" that are happening. Things always seem to get worse before they get better so hang in there and keep your faith. We love you lots! Love, Wanda and Chad!
- Friday February 15, 2002 4:42 PM CST
Hi guys. I can see things are busy at your house. We are going down to Austin, MN for the weekend and will return on Monday while you are back in Fargo. Let us know if there is anything we can do. Should be home late Sun night.
Happy belated V-day.
Ann and Alan
- Friday February 15, 2002 4:27 PM CST
Kids: just got caught up on your updates. We're so sorry to hear of Chad's problem w/shots. Isn't this weird how differently he reacts now after surgery? Am glad Dr wants him at clinic for shots...don't suppose he is, though! Hugs & more hugs from us...we love you lots...& so does God Happy Valentines Day to all of you. Love Mom & Dad H
- Thursday February 14, 2002 9:32 PM CST
Happy Valentines day you guys. Hope things go betther and the new med work with out allergies. Hope you have a nice Valentine day. got to go Chuck wants to get on the road. Love to all.Laurice
- Thursday February 14, 2002 5:28 PM CST
I can hear the worry in your "voice", Jen. I know it's getting harder all the time to keep up the fight and be positive. Take a breather and let your guard down a bit.....you are entitled (both of you) to feel a little overwhelmed. It's a lot to go through at such a young age. I admire your energy and everything - but I think right now you need to let go and "let God". It's okay to look at each other and just sigh. You guys have love and determination and that's so great. I'm sure you both are trying to be strong for each other. Cry together too. You have a lot on your plate. I'm praying for you all.
Carol <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN - Thursday February 14, 2002 0:08 AM CST
We are glad that Tate's hand is doing fine. How does his eye look? We are also glad to hear that Kiah is starting to walk. Now you'll have your hands full!
We are sory to hear that Chad is hurting. Brad says; " Would a little "weed" help"? Not that I can help with that or even know where to go to get some, but I have heard that it can help.
Brad & Judy D. <bjdewald@prtel.com>
Pelican Rapids, MN - Tuesday February 12, 2002 10:46 PM CST
Checking to see how you are doing. Think of you often. We have been gone for 9 days. Rod had a Soil and Water Convention at Reno. Sat. Anne returned from Scotland. She had a great time. I shut my fingers in a car door once so I know how that must of felt. Alot of throbing. It felt best when I held my hand in the air. Chad, you get plenty of rest, you need that. God be with you every day. Sandy
Sandy
Fergus Falls, MN - Monday February 11, 2002 10:43 AM CST
Greetings! Hope Chad is feeling better. Saw Mom in church today and she told of the happenings. Looked at the pics again - they sure are cute - dog included. Stay well - all of you. School has had quite a few out with the flu - adults included. We are moving Nic next weekend. He bought a house in Castleton ND and will move in on the 16th. Teresa will also move in. I think that way -he can take care of her. Heard from Matthew - would you believe he is going to London -England, that is!!! He has 2 friends over there and one of his friends here wants to go over spring break. So Matt took vacation. The round trip was $329. Guess England wants tourists. (I'd go if I didn't have to go over water -fat chance). Well, take care of yourselves - all of you!! Talk soon. Love Jo and Roger
- Sunday February 10, 2002 6:16 PM CST
- Sunday February 10, 2002 3:13 PM CST
HI stay healthy there. We didn't get any snow either. every time I looked out the window and no snow. almost felt bad as was expecting to be snowed in for a day or two. I have off Sat-Sun and Mon. anyway I imagine it will hit before winter is over. All is well here. Waiting to hear Kiah is walking all over. Then the fun begins and there in no holding her back and the real sister /brother stuff starts. "mom, get her out of here!!!!!" Hope you have a good week there. We are hoping and praying that all goes well for you. Love Laurice
Laurice
- Sunday February 10, 2002 3:12 PM CST
Hi, Jen and family! The snow didn't catch anybody because it passed us by......maybe today will see a little white stuff but as I look out my window the sun is out and what little snow is on the ground is sparkling. I pray that you and yours will soon be "sparkling" too. Tell Chad to keep his eyes open for a minivan for one of my daughters.....she is a foster mom and needs a little more passenger space! If he has anything on the lot send me an email, k? Have a great Sunday. Love and prayers.
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Sunday February 10, 2002 8:23 AM CST
we love you & so does God. Love MOM H
- Friday February 8, 2002 8:57 AM CST
Hi Chad and Jen glad to hear that Tates hand is doing ok, I've never had my hand shut in the car door but I did shut sister Deb's in there ONCE, I felt as bad as you do I'm sure, but things happen that are out of our control. Is Chad feeling better? We hope so. I didn't know that you were going in for the eye surgery, hope that it turns out good for you. I would like to do it also, Take care all 4 of you and you are in my prayers for healing and getting well. Love to all Judy
Judy <bjdewald@prtel.com>
Pelican Rapids, MN USA - Thursday February 7, 2002 9:36 PM CST
Hello Chad & Jen!! Sorry to hear about Tate's hand and sorry about Chad being more sick this time around. We have you in our hearts and prayers!!! Love, Chad and Wanda.
- Thursday February 7, 2002 1:04 PM CST
Hey guys. Just wanted to touch base. I sure hope Chad starts feeling better soon. And, hope Tate's hand starts feeling better - I used to get fingers shut in car/truck doors all the time when I was a kid, so I know how he feels - it HURTS!!!!! But, it's a good thing that nothing was broken. Lots of love to all, keep taking care of each other and soon all the bad feelings will be a memory.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Wednesday February 6, 2002 5:41 PM CST
Hi Jennifer,
Glad Tate's fingers are ok. I hope you don't feel too bad either. Hope Chad had a good day without feeling so nauseated. We are keeping you all in our prayers every day. I like your angel sender's messages. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do. I would like to send you Healing Angels and Cozy Comfort Hugs too!
CJ's Groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
- Wednesday February 6, 2002 3:47 PM CST
Hi Hope you have a good day(all of you) It looks like another beautiful day.WE are thinking and praying that Chad will be feeling better and the rest of you stay healthy.alls good here. love to all Laurice
- Wednesday February 6, 2002 7:40 AM CST
Hi Jen,
Glad to hear Tate's hand is better. Hope Chad has a nausea free, strength gathering day. Thinking of you guys every day and keeping you in heart and prayer. Sending you Joyful Angels, Hot Fudge Sundae Hugs and Quiet Restful Dreams.
angel sender.
- Wednesday February 6, 2002 7:16 AM CST
Hi guys. Hope Chad get's feeling better. I'm sure his boby is still recovering. Keep the faith. Glad Tate's hand is better, Things happen so don't feel bad. Lots of Hugs and Kisses. Love Mom W.
Mopm and Rick <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday February 6, 2002 2:55 AM CST
Hi You guy's glad to hear Tates Fingers are OK.
Tell chad to hang in there, chin up we love you guy's.
Dad.....
- Tuesday February 5, 2002 9:30 PM CST
HI JEN AND FAMILY,
JUST A QUICK HELLO FROM N.Y. MILLS. SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE HAND. SO GLAD IT WASN'T BROKEN. HE MUST BE ONE TOUGH ONE LITTLE GUY. HOPE CHAD IS FEELING BETTER. YOU HAVE ALL MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS. YOUR A WONDERFUL - TOGETHER FAMILY. TAKE CARE - JOY LAPOS
JOY LAPOS <LAYLAP@LAKESPLUS.COM>
N.Y. MILLS, MN OTTERTAIL - Tuesday February 5, 2002 7:11 PM CST
just got caught up on your updates. I suppose chad is somewhat on the weak system side. It really hasn't been that long since his surgery, & you all are trying your darnest to live normally! Just go little slower... Take care of each other...love you. MOM H
- Tuesday February 5, 2002 6:15 PM CST
Hi Jen,
I hope Tate's hand is feeling better and that you don't feel too bad either. Some days being a Mommy is way harder than it should be. Keep smiling. Hope Chad's nausea gets better too. Sending you all Healing Angels, Campfire Toasty Marshmellow Hugs and Bunches of Sunshine.
angel sender.
- Tuesday February 5, 2002 7:18 AM CST
Hi Jen,
Hope Chad is feeling better today. Keeping you all in heart and prayer. Sending Strength Gathering Angels, Soft Cashmere Sweater Hugs and Sandy beach dreams.
angel sender.
- Monday February 4, 2002 7:25 AM CST
Hey there Jen, I hope Chad made it home alright. I just sent you the new photos we had taken of Emily. I can't believe how fast these kids grow! Be patient because when kiah takes off there will be no stopping her and you'll wonder why you wanted her "running". Take care you guys!
Deb <risberg@paulbunyan.net>
- Saturday February 2, 2002 4:55 PM CST
Hi Jen,
I hope Chad made it home ok, and that he is feeling ok. You are all in our prayers. Sending Healing Angels, Gentle Seabreeze Hugs and the Sweetest Dreams.
Angel sender.
- Saturday February 2, 2002 8:03 AM CST
hi...this is mom! Hope you all enjoying a nice quiet evening-storing up energy for Sunday's game! You've all been on my mind today-especially since this same chemo has hit Chad so much harder than before. God loves you and so do dad & I. Your in our prayers. Love, mom
- Friday February 1, 2002 6:58 PM CST
Hi Jen,
Glad Chad is feeling ok. I bet he is looking forward to coming home. Sending Safe travel Angels for him. Sending you Soul Strengthening Angels, Warm Apple Pie Hugs and Warm Sunshine Smiles. Take care.
Your secret angel sender! :)
- Friday February 1, 2002 7:35 AM CST
I checked the webcam the other night and it was very blurry. Not sure if it is my computer, or...., but will try again. Hope all continues to go well with the chemo and you all get well at home. Will check to make sure he made it home. We have the flu bug here, so great fun. Keep the faith--Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula
- Thursday January 31, 2002 10:44 AM CST
Hi Jen, It's me Papa What happened to Kiah saying Papa. She forget about me. I miss those little buggers after haveing them here. Miss you too! Hope your getting over your cold's.
Say have you got any new pictures to put on here the kids have changed so much since X-mas. Here's a great big
chocolate cookie hug from me too!!!!!! Love you so much, you just don't know. DAD
- Wednesday January 30, 2002 8:58 PM CST
I'm glad to hear you and the kids are feeling better! Hope Chad doesn't get sick. We are going to Grandmas this weekend, I will give you a call later in the week and let you know when we will be there with the chair. We are thinking of you. Give the kids hugs and kisses. See you soon.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Wednesday January 30, 2002 8:40 PM CST
Hi Jennifer,
What a great idea. I, too, check the website every day but don't sign here very often because I don't know what to say except that you are always in our prayers as well. So I'll give it a whirl to send you all, Healing Angels and Warm chocolate chip cookie hugs! Hope Chad has a safe trip home and that you and family are getting over your bugs.
CJ's Groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Wednesday January 30, 2002 3:37 PM CST
Hi Jen,
I am a client of yours that wishes to remain unknown, but I have been in a similar situation as you. I was keeping my family and friends posted thru email and wanted to hear from them as well and we started to send eachother messages of angels, love, hugs and dreams and we got creative with that sentiment. It is a gift I hope to give to you, your family and friends. The power of prayer and angels is wonderful and with added, creative, funny sentiments attached, it gave me something to look forward to daily and gave everyone a chance to send something back without feeling like they were saying the same things over and over. I hope it works miracles in your life as it has in mine. I can think of no one deserves a miracle more than you and your family. I admire your strength as a wife, mother and friend that I have gotten to witness thru this website.
- Wednesday January 30, 2002 9:34 AM CST
Hope the rest of the week goes as good. Will be thinking of you and yours and praying that this will be successful and Chad won't get to sick. Good to hear you all at home are doing good. now stay well!!!!!!talk to you again. God bless. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Wednesday January 30, 2002 7:39 AM CST
HI Jen, Chad, Tateand Kiah. I'm glad to hear that you and the kids are on the mend. I hope Chad is feeling better tonight. I had my tooth out and now i"m feeling better. Will try and give Chad a call later on this week. My prayers are with you every day. Hugs and kisses. Love Mom
Mom W. <gramiewirth @ hotmail.com>
D.L., Mn - Wednesday January 30, 2002 5:31 AM CST
I'm signing in! Glad to hear Chad got to Fargo OK. I worried about a white Jeep in white snow! Glad everyone is on the up side, & also that you can work day on Thurs. Keep your faith in God, and remember to turn to him, good or bad. Even God appreciates thank you's...he gets mine. Love, MOM H
- Tuesday January 29, 2002 9:07 PM CST
I wrote a note and then I lost it, so if you get both I am not crazy. Hopefully Chad made it to Fargo alright and his treatment is going good for him. I think you were smart to stay home with the kids and take care of yourselves.
Anne is leaving on Sat. to spend a week with Mary in Scotland. She is so excited about going. Mary is enjoying Edinbourgh and says it is very beautiful there. Classes are going well for her.
Kiah will keep you busy if she is learning to walk. You will have to get your running shoes on.
We pray that God will carry you every day. All our love, Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom <wensstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN U.S.A. - Tuesday January 29, 2002 1:39 PM CST
Hi Jen,
Sending thoughts and prayers for Chad in Fargo. And hope you and little ones are getting better. You are all kept in heart and prayer. Sending you Strep Healing Angels, Hot Coco with Marshmellow Hugs and Strength Gathering Love.
- Tuesday January 29, 2002 9:55 AM CST
Just caught up you all. HOpe Chad allows x-tra time for traveling. Here we only have about inch or so, just enough to make everything pretty white again! It's extremely fluffy stuff, so it will make visibility tough tomorrow-& much worse in Fargo area, as they have more snow. You all are in our prayers. wish you the best in Fargo, Chad. Be sure the Dr. knows you had strep in the household-could make for extremely tough time if you had the "bug" hiding. Love you all, MOM H>
- Monday January 28, 2002 9:45 PM CST
Hi, Jen. You're right......I check in every couple of days but forget to leave a message! So hi and please know you guys are on my mind a lot. Our church and bible study are praying for Chad and the family too. Stay encouraged. Your constant fights with illness are probably stress-related.....always easier to pick up bugs when you're not getting rest and are a little worried. You need to soak in a hot tub!!! (Call me and I will come and jump in too!)
Love, Carol
Carol Shegrud <Shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Monday January 28, 2002 9:28 PM CST
Hi All is well here--yes we are getting snow. Sandy and Rod were here and left at 9and their car was covered with the white stuff. Hope all goes well with Chad and your household gets free of those germs. Had Tommy and Will Sat aft thru Sun Aft. they were healthy which is good as so far I seem to get everything they have. I guess to much loving. Will will lay there and giggle. so fun/ Tommy comes up to Will many times a day and put his head on Wills and/or comes and gives him a kiss and off he goes to play.It was fun to have them. I know you enjoy every moment you can with your kids-don't want to miss those little things they do. or say/ I had today off and tomorrow it is back to work. I Hope you guys have a good week. Love to all. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Monday January 28, 2002 9:24 PM CST
Haven't checked this for a while. Life here has been crazy. I work 9 night shifts in a row and then just the craziness of having four beautiful children. I hope all continues to go toward the positive. Will keep praying. I hope you and the kids are feeling better, Jen. It is no fun to be sick, but worse when your kids don't feel good either. Stairs are so scary when they first learn how to go up and down. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday January 27, 2002 4:37 PM CST
Hi Jen,
Was glad to hear that things went so well at Mayo. Hope your cold gets better soon. Wanted you to know that you are always kept in heart and prayer. Sending Healing Angels, Chammomile dreams and a Spoonful of Stars to wish upon.
- Friday January 25, 2002 3:24 PM CST
HI THERE: Well - NOW you guys know how I feel about driving to Austin. It's such a fun trip - but at least I am about 50 miles closer!!! I told you that you would have no problems in Rochester. It's getting to be a much bigger town but it is still a pretty easy place to get around in.
I talked to my Mom on tuesday and said you guys were down in Rochester for your first visit. I also asked if they would mind being good Christains if Chad needed someone. She laughed and said if they could drive clothes over there for sister... Absolutely no problem. I am also goignt o write my friend Sue - She's been my best friend since high school. She lives in Rochester and at one time was a nurse. ( at Methodist!!) I am sure that she would be able to help. It's nice to know that there are a few numbers to call CLOSE if needed!! I'll give you my parents number later. Glad you made it there and back safely ( and the weather more than cooperated!! Of course, coming home to Kiah's NEXT ear infection is NOT good. Take care, Love, Sandy
Sandy Aldrich <dodger@wcta.net>
Park Rapids, Mn - Thursday January 24, 2002 8:42 PM CST
Dear Chad and Jen, I saw your website listed in the Mills Herald and thought I'd see how you are doing. It sounds like you have gone through a lot but are still in good spirits. You have beautiful children! My Mariah is going to be 6 in March. Let me know if you ever need to make a pit stop in FF. I wish you all the best and I'll keep praying for you guys.
Jennifer Martinson (Swenson) <jen73@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Wednesday January 23, 2002 7:50 PM CST
Glad to read the good report for Chad! Deb sent me the link; she got tired of my asking what she'd heard. Will be praying for continued good news for Chad and strength for you keeping up with it all.
Kathleen Bjerum (Deb Risberg's Mom)
Kathleen Bjerum <kibjerum@msn.com>
SHOREVIEW, MN USA - Tuesday January 22, 2002 7:43 PM CST
I finally got your web site from Amy today when we were in for haircuts - you guys are always in our prayers! I hope all has gone well at Mayo! Love you guys, Deb (Ed and Emily say hi too)
Deb Risberg <risberg@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, - Monday January 21, 2002 7:35 PM CST
Best of luck with the appointment at Mayo - I'm sure it will go well. Love to the kids (and hope for less bruises lol). Take care guys.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR USA - Monday January 21, 2002 9:35 AM CST
HI Hope all goes well with your apt. We will be hoping and praying will go on schedule. Hope Kiah gets better. no fun for them to be sick. Hope to hear how it goes. Love to all .Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus FAlls , MN USA - Sunday January 20, 2002 10:51 PM CST
Hi Chad & Jen,
Pat and I just got hooked up since we moved last year. Our comp. layed down and would'nt work any more. So now we have a new comp. so will try and stay in touch. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Best wishes on your trip to Mayo.
Love Rachel & Pat
RACHEL&PAT <raepat@i29.net>
DILWORTH, MN CLAY - Sunday January 20, 2002 2:34 PM CST
Oh boy, sorry to hear of Kiah's cold. We'll get by, I'll set up the vaporizer if needed @ night. Weird how she keeps getting the "bug" back...doesn't sound like teeth this time. Bless you all-hope church service isn't too crazy! Love you.
- Sunday January 20, 2002 9:05 AM CST
Just checking on you all. You're in our prayers, & we are praying Tues adds to all our hopes. It seems odd to be really connected to someone who is about to experience all that stem cel research has to offer...it's always JUST NEWS-happening to someone unknown. God is working in your lives. Love MOM H.
- Saturday January 19, 2002 2:32 PM CST
Hi: hope today went well-very cold for you Chad to running in & out...hope you keep your head covered!!(ha ha) We found a couple more "Dommer" caps for you when we went to Motorcycle show in Mpls. last Sun. Remember to get them when you stop w/kids. Are you driving to cities on Mon PM? Have you talked w/Joanne? Am all set w/day care for Tues & Wed. You'll have to get them from there on Wed, if you're back before 5PM...& be sure to let me know!! Have a good evening. Love, MOM H
- Friday January 18, 2002 6:30 PM CST
Hi Chad and Jen,
Wanda and I had a wonderful time visiting with you guy's on sunday. We wish you the best in your Mayo Clinic stay, are thoughts and prayers are with you guy's. Remember to stop and visit us after your home and feeling better.
God Bless and Take Care,
Chad & Wanda
Chad & Wanda Hagen <wandahagen@meritcare.com>
Osage, MN Usa - Friday January 18, 2002 11:28 AM CST
Will anxiously await to hear from you after you have been to Mayo. Hope you are feeling stronger. Remember to take time for yourselves and for each other. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Thursday January 17, 2002 3:02 AM CST
glad you all are doing so well. Do not yet have day-care arranged, but will. Dad said Kiah is walking-saw on camera, he was smiling! You take care, and remember to talk to God. I believe he doesn't require a prayer every time-he listens to all words that come from the heart. Love you. mom H.
- Wednesday January 16, 2002 7:17 PM CST
web cam is alot clearer tonight also helped when you turned light on by computer. DAd
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Hi you guy's how is Chad doing with the pain mom said he said he had pain last night. I miss those little buggers
after having them for a hole week. Is sure quiet around here. Hope things go good tomorrow. I love you guy's very much. Kiah said Pa Pa any more? Tate want to go fishing
again? Well better go love ya. Dad or as Kiah say's PA PA
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HI: just want you to know I'm staying up to date on this page. Hope Chad is feeling better. Am anxiously waiting for Wed. when you get to talk to Kobrinsky again...Take care, kiss the kids for us-kiss each other for us!!
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Chad, did not like reading that you are not feeling well today. Hopefully you are feeling better this evening.
You will have to take care of yourself too Jen. Put some music on a soak in the tub tonight. Our prayers are with all of you. God Bless your family. Our love, Rod and Sandy
Sandy Wenstrom <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 04:51 PM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Thanks for giving me this site to keep up with how you all are doing. Glad to hear Chad's surgery went well, and hope you are hanging in there too. Keeping you in heart and prayer.
CJ's Groomer <tailwagg@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN - Sunday, January 13, 2002 at 03:04 PM (CST)
Hi guys, just checking in. Don't push yourself Chad! Take it easy. Talk to you later. Love you
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Saturday, January 12, 2002 at 02:16 PM (CST)
Jen, Chad & kids,
Just got this address from Sue today. Am so glad to see that things are going well. Sounds like Chad is doing remarkably well less than two weeks since surgery. You continue to be in my prayers. Hope to see you sometime soon.
Joanne Wright <jwright242@aol.com>
St. Paul, MN USA - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 11:40 PM (CST)
Jen, Chad and kids :-) Hi, saw the web address in the NYM Herald, so thought I would drop in and say hello and glad to hear things are going good. My family prayed for you all when your mom told us.
Lori Beldo and girls <lori_lsb@yahoo.com>
New York Mills, MN - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 05:59 PM (CST)
Glad to hear that you are doing good. Just don't rush it, even thought you feel good if you do to much you will feel worse, so take it slow. It's beeter in the long run. Rick is hunting in Kansas this week, so maybe I'll get some things done at home this week. Hang in their and will talk to you later. Hugs and Kisses to every body. Love Mom
Mom W <gramiewirth @ hotmail.com>
D.L., mn - Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 03:12 AM (CST)
Chad-don't you dare go to work next week unless you have seen Dr. & gotten OK! You have enough jobs: & that's to heal, get strong, & take the next step Kobinsky & you agree on! Am glad, though, you're feeling so perky!! House is pretty quiet tonight-got some Christmas lights down from outside. Love to all, MOM H.
- Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 09:17 PM (CST)
Chad, I am glad to hear that surgery went well and that you are home recuperating (best place to do it). Take care and try to take it easy and let your body heal some before you rush off to do stuff. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 06:57 PM (CST)
Glad to hear you are at home. It must be nice for you to be a couple for a little while before the kids come home. I hope you continue to feel good. It will take time. Your body will let you know when enough is enough. Take it easy and prayers and thoughts continue your way. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice(or more-ha).
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Monday, January 07, 2002 at 03:06 AM (CST)
Welcome home. Take it easy. If you need anything let us know, even if you are just bored and want some company. Love you. Give the kids a hug. Talk to you soon.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, - Sunday, January 06, 2002 at 10:49 PM (CST)
Was good to talk to you both-Chad sounded really good, but then he was just sitting & holding phone! Your web page address was printed in the church bulletin today , so yu may be getting keep-in-touch messages from homefolks (as you did from Jo & Roger. Not sure who was behind it-it was surprise to us! Will see you tomorrow about 6-6:15. I think we're finally getting into the "groove" around here-seems to be getting easier to anticipate!! Have to admit, it will be good to grab a counter door & have it open...without snapping shut by a heavyduty rubberband! They have been good. Talked w/Tim Johnson @ church @ will talk more. He anticipates Chad will be handle stem-cell procedure OK, as he is young & strong. His own mom has come thru things VERY well. Says it takes about a month from prepping to recovery. Our prayers are said every day. Love you....mom H.
- Sunday, January 06, 2002 at 07:14 PM (CST)
This is so neat to be able to see how you are doing - both of you!!! You are in our prayers and thoughts. Hope you have a good ride home and better days ahead. Gr'Pa and Gr'Ma were in church today along with kids. They sat good!! and so did the kids! Roger and I ushered and I got to hold Kiah. So awesome - as Grandma's will tell you. Take care and we will be in touch. Roger is leaving for Massachusetts tomorrow, so it will be a long week. Must get the laundry done or he will be cold!!! Take care. Thoughts are with you. Love Jo and Roger
JoClaire and Roger Pederson <pederson@lakesplus.com>
New York Mills, MN USA - Sunday, January 06, 2002 at 02:49 PM (CST)
Hello Jen and Chad. Glad to hear that everything seems to be going all right. Hope that you guys have gone through the worst of it and are on the road to recovery. It was good to see you both on the 1st and Chad you looked ok and on the way to raisen cain but not tooooooo much alright ??? Talk to ya later Lots of Love and Good Luck Prayers to both of you. Brad and Judy and Family
Judy DeWald <bjdewald@prtel.com>
Pelican Rapids, MN USA - Sunday, January 06, 2002 at 12:10 AM (CST)
Glad to hear you're going home. Hope you are enjoying the real food. Don't terrorize the nurses with your car on your last night. Take care, if you need anything give us a call. Love you guys, have a safe trip home.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, - Saturday, January 05, 2002 at 10:05 PM (CST)
Hi Chad,
I delivered Rierson today everything went fine they seem very happy. If you want me to do something with a thank you note just contact me. Should we mail your paycheck or leave it here to pick up. Got to go, take care.
Craig <office@bemidjichrysler.com>
- Friday, January 04, 2002 at 06:00 PM (CST)
Thank you for calling last night in the salon Jen! Glad to hear that Chad is up and about and can EAT REAL FOOD!!! You are in my prayers and can't wait to see you when you get back! Keep the chin up and the feet moving forward!
Shannon <waynorth@paulbunyan.net>
Pennington, MN usa - Friday, January 04, 2002 at 03:57 PM (CST)
Checked in with your mom. Glad to hear the surgery is over. The first few days are the roughest. Keep your chin up and one foot in front of the other and all will get better. Do all those things those nurses tell you to do. We are so pushy after surgery, aren't we? It is all for the good. May not feel that way though. Sounds as if things are going good--It is hard to believe that liquids taste so good when you have been without anything. Prayers continue to come your way. We will hope for home soon. Hug and kiss your kids twice--They are such precious angels in your lives. Thoughts and prayers to you, Jen and Chad.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Friday, January 04, 2002 at 02:17 AM (CST)
Hi Jen,
Sorry we missed your call, were in town at Alan's brother's. We have been keeping track of your updates. Glad to here Chad gets jello for super tonight and that the number of tubes are less. Hang in there. Love you guys.
Ann and Alan <abard@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN US - Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 08:46 PM (CST)
HI Jen and Chad: Happy new Year!!
boy- since I don't have this site written down - I had a lot of reading to catch up on ( Like from December 20) Glad you had a great Christmas!! Hope things are looking up tonight. Chad now - you be good - try to keep that fever down - do what the nurses tell you!! ( and the doctors) Jen - you know I am praying for you guys and hoping you can go home soon ( I am SURE Chad wants to get out of the place!!) Be good and take care!!
Sandy Aldrich <dodger@wcta.net>
Park Rapids, MN - Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 07:45 PM (CST)
I wanted to come to visit today but Alyssa and Kayla have strep-throat. I might be able to visit tomorrow. I have been tested and I don't have the strep virus. I hope you guys have a good night.
love ya,
Vicki
Vicki Tang <JNVtang@worldnet.att.net>
Moorhead, MN USA - Thursday, January 03, 2002 at 07:35 PM (CST)
Hallo Jennifer and Chad,
Happy New Year from Sweden. Glad to hear that Chad is feeling better. He is in our thoughts and prayers.
With best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Åsa and Rune + Kids Sandra and Andre´ <rune@ribab.se>
Sweden - Wednesday, January 02, 2002 at 03:22 PM (CST)
We are so happy for you.Yes, prayers have been ans.Hope you continue to do well. We are still praying and hoping that all continues to go well. Take care all of you. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
- Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 08:43 PM (CST)
Hi Jen and Chad- Glad to here that the surgery went well. Hopefully Chad can bounce back and recover quickly. Our prayers are with you daily. All our love, Jim, Myrna and kids
<van@prtel.com>
- Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 05:28 PM (CST)
just read updates-good to hear Chad is perking along. Will be up tomorrow-look for you in new room...did Chad walk, or go by "wheels"? Kids have been good-Lon sat today as I worked 6 hrs to get statements done. Got home at 2:30 and Tate was still in PJ's...Grandpa said, "So, we're not going anywhere!" When I asked what they had for dinner-Tate says, "mac & cheese, that's all we get to eat"! Lon fixed a dbl batch yesterday, so they had left-overs. We laughed til we had tears, Tate was sooo serious! Love you both. Mom H.
- Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 04:22 PM (CST)
Dear Chad and Jen,
Glad to hear things are going well. We think about you throughout each day. We are praying for Chad. You are blessed to have a wonderful family. Happy New Year! Larry and Brenda and Family P.S. We'll feed the fish.
<sand@paulbunyan.net>
- Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 12:45 PM (CST)
Happy New Year!! I am so glad that you get to start the new year on a fresh start. All our prayers have been answered. God can do miracles!! Take care. Bets
Elizabeth <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 10:20 AM (CST)
Looks like you all have gotten your prayers answered!! Its amazing the power of faith and love! We are so happy for you and hope that all keeps going well!!!!!
Shannon <waynorth@paulbunyan.net>
Pennington, MN usa - Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 09:25 AM (CST)
What great news! It's an answer to our prayers that Chad's surgery went so well. We'll keep you all in our prayers now for a complete recovery and a new year filled with God's grace! Peace...
Amy, Joe, James, Aaron, & Sarah Bofferding <joeandamy@bofferding.net>
Bemidji, - Monday, December 31, 2001 at 03:51 PM (CST)
Yeah!!!!! We will be dancing and celebrating tonight. I know there will be a recovery time for you guys, but it is wonderful to think of Chad entering the New Year cancer free. Big virtual hug from us to you!!!
Ann and Alan <abard@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN US - Monday, December 31, 2001 at 01:18 PM (CST)
I think we finally have all of our christmas stuff put away also. Toys, Toys, Toys everywhere. Have a good weekend, we will see you on monday.
melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 09:09 AM (CST)
I was checking this hoping for update on surgery time-did you get a call yesterday? As you say the kids have alot of toys, we chuckled as you left drive-way to go home-we both were flooded with memories of same! I'm thinking savings bond come March...small something to open, though. Hope Chad is feeling better, & nobody else catches. Every night I pray for the knowledge God blesses the MD's with-his work is thru their hands. Love you all, MOM H.
susan hanson
- Friday, December 28, 2001 at 08:54 AM (CST)
It sounds as if your Christmas was an eventful occasion. I had to work Christmas, so we will be going to spend Christmas with our families soon. Will be sending many prayers your way while we are gone and will check the website while we are gone. Hug and Kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith. Gods' blessings to you.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Friday, December 28, 2001 at 02:32 AM (CST)
Merry Christmas. Hope you don't get to worn out. your schedule is very full. Get feeling better. Know those bugs are nasty going around. couple gals at work have really been sick. Shannon got hit and went to the clinic itsnot emergency room,but as out patient and was given fluids in her veins. Cant think what it is called it goes with cant spell and cant remember. she said she got a jump start at getting better. and was feeling ok.Thinking alot about you these days. Hope all is going well. God Bless, Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2001 at 10:17 PM (CST)
Hello Chad, Jen, Tate, and Kiah, we wish you a very Merry Christmas. It is a very busy time of the year, but also a wonderful time. God bless all of you and wish you the best for the new year to come. Love, Wanda and Chad.
- Monday, December 24, 2001 at 09:00 AM (CST)
Just dropping a line. Hope all is well. I hope your Christmas is a blessed one. Will keep checking in. Bless you and your family. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday, December 23, 2001 at 02:17 AM (CST)
Jen, Chad & Kids -
I'm glad the presents got there in one piece. We wanted to do something for the kids and hope they enjoy their new toys. Best wishes for a Merry Christmas from all of us out here in Oregon! :-)
Stephanie <greytigrrr@aol.com>
Springfield, OR - Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 10:49 AM (CST)
Hi, Jen and Chad. Long time since I added my 2 cents worth. Sounds like you have had many ups and downs and ins and outs but are keeping your spirits up. The children are BEAUTIFUL!
By the way, Jen, I HAVE gotten used to the dye job you did on my silvery locks! Holly told me I forgot to email you! Hubby liked the silver better but most people don't even notice the gray is muted. So it was a good job!
I hope Chad doesn't work himself too hard! (I can see you there with your whip in one hand and a syringe in the other!!!)
Talk to you soon~
Love, Carol
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Tuesday, December 18, 2001 at 07:28 PM (CST)
Hi don't worry Jen, it won't be long before you hear those wonderful words "get her out of my room" and "she can't play with my toys" I hear it often! Sounds like everything is going well. Talk to you soon.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Tuesday, December 18, 2001 at 04:56 PM (CST)
just checking on you kids! looking forward to seeing you on Sunday. Jana has room for Tate & Kiah for 2nd&3rd. Am thinking I'll let her have them & sit w/you in Fargo, Jenn on Wed. Then Thurs. I could work-Joani will be in on the 2nd. will depend on weather, talk more later about it. Love mom
mom hanson
- Friday, December 14, 2001 at 10:27 PM (CST)
Love the pictures of the kids! Glad to hear Chad can talk and eat again. Hang in there. Love you all.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 10:10 PM (CST)
Great pics of the kids! They are just too cute and getting so big so fast. Chad, glad to hear that the new meds are helping. Keep the faith and everything will work out. Merry Christmas to all of you. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Eugene, OR - Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 10:20 AM (CST)
Didnt seem to go so will try again pictures real cute. got pin to wear from your mom. with santa see you at Christmas grandma
- Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 07:54 AM (CST)
Your kids' pictures are great. You will have a great Christmas with them. They will be so full of excitement. I love to watch my kids' eyes when it comes to the opening of gifts. Take care. Hope that mouth starts feeling better and the counts go up. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss your kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Thursday, December 13, 2001 at 03:25 AM (CST)
Hey Jen and Chad. Cute pictures of the kids. Just wanted to say hi. Glad to hear that Chad is doing better. Take care.
Steph <steph_hanson@hotmail.com>
Grafton, ND - Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 08:35 PM (CST)
Cute pictures!! Kiah is getting so big. Tate looks so proud to be by his little sister. Take care and we are always thinking and praying for you. Bets
Elizabeth <cnelson@prtel.com>
- Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 01:35 PM (CST)
Hi guys. Chad - hope you start feeling better again soon. Love the Christmas picture of the kids that you guys have added to the site. Best wishes to all of you for a happy, feel-good, Merry Christmas. Love to all.
Stephanie <GreyTigrrr@aol.com>
Eugene, OR - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 09:23 AM (CST)
Hi everybody, I'm sure it does get very discouraging some time. But you need to keep a postive attitude if you can. Just remember that it gettinh smaller all the time. And at the end of the month well get ride of it. We Love you and will keep praying for you. Keep the faith Love Mom
Mom <www.gramiewirth@ hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Tuesday, December 11, 2001 at 01:22 AM (CST)
Hi--Hope all is going well there. we are thinking of you all the time and praying that things will go good for you. I know God is hearing us. Things are busy here (surprise,surprise) Don't know anyone thats not! Today is my day off and have Circle here. noon lunch--potluck. sort of Christmas party. little business gets done. Have a good day. oh, the pictures are adorable. enjoy them. Laurtice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webt.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Monday, December 10, 2001 at 08:01 AM (CST)
Glad to hear things are going well for you. Looking forward to seeing you soon. Take care and God bless
p.s. don't email at rick's address anymore cuz his account is down. Use mine instead.
Stacy Bourassa and Family <stacy7946@juno.com>
Moorhead, - Sunday, December 09, 2001 at 09:54 AM (CST)
Good morning Jen good to hear Chad feels better Have a good day grandma
- Sunday, December 09, 2001 at 08:06 AM (CST)
Enjoy your time alone, Jen. I know how you feel. Hope Chad has a good time at the game tomorrow. See you at Christmas!!
Bets
Elizabeth
Fergus Falls, - Saturday, December 08, 2001 at 09:29 PM (CST)
Hope those counts go up. Have fun at the game. Our kids have been tearing up the hill sliding. Glad to see the ice on the lake, so we can go skating over the New Year. Will keep checking the updates. Keep the faith. Hug and kiss the kids twice.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Saturday, December 08, 2001 at 02:55 AM (CST)
Glad to hear that you are home. Hang in there. Have fun at the Vikings game. Take it easy, both of you. Give the kids hugs and kisses. Talk to you soon.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Friday, December 07, 2001 at 08:52 PM (CST)
glad to read you are home. At least the weather is cooperating for travel-sounds like Chad may be doing alot of it! I know this gets to be a drain for all of you-too bad they can't give you a "boost" shot, Jenn! Just keep sharing your love and thoughts with each other. At times you wonder what good is talk, but without it you cannot share. Love you all, MOM H.
- Friday, December 07, 2001 at 05:21 PM (CST)
Hi guy's just want to say Hi and to say we love you. I hope things are going ok in Fargo. Love Dad H.
PAPA
- Friday, December 07, 2001 at 12:19 AM (CST)
Hi guys!! I check everyday but don't always have something to say. I am almost done Christmas shopping. Sam has his program for preschool tomorrow. He gets to wear his santa hat. He is so excited. Take care and hang in there!! Love, Bets
Elizabeth Nelson <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 09:54 PM (CST)
Boy, I guess all you have to do to get messages is ask. :-) I check in on almost a daily basis (at least during the week when I'm workin'). Always happy to see a good update, which is generally the case. I hope you guys enjoy Christmas. If there is anything we can do besides providing moral support, please let us know. Take care of each other.
Stephanie Wilcox <greytigrrr@aol.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 11:45 AM (CST)
Hi Jen I checked everyday and it is so good to hear from you. Guess I take for granted you are thereand appreciate it very much. Getting some things done for Chriatmas. Thanks Jen grandma
- Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 09:20 AM (CST)
Hi Jen I checked everyday and it is so good to hear from you. Guess I take for granted you are thereand appreciate it very much. Getting some things done for Chriatmas. Thanks Jen grandma
- Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 09:20 AM (CST)
HI: Hope all goes well with those next tests. Been busy--mostly the usual. How are the kids. Hope you guys didn't get the bugl. All is well here have to get ready to go to work shortly. /been busy there. Love ya all. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls , MN USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 07:19 AM (CST)
Chad and Jenn,
Just stopped in to check it out. Kiah is adorable. I hope everything goes well on the 31st. I will try to check in once in awhile to see how you guys are doing. Keep on leaning on God and others to keep you strong.
Love,
Dina
Dina Olsen <dinaolsen@yahoo.com>
NYM, MN USA - Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 06:37 AM (CST)
hope you give yourself "caring" time, Chad. This is the third time your body has been "blasted" w/this chemo, and probably going to go downhill faster, and come back up slower! Keep God's love and family's in your heart. We're here for you...ps, if you're feeling up to it, you can ride snowmobile when down here for holidays...we might even be pursuaded to bring up if you if you are strong enough to "handle a Polaris"!!(ha ha) You & Lon could go for ride! Love you all...MOM HANSON
susan hanson
- Friday, November 30, 2001 at 02:57 PM (CST)
Glad to here you are home. Keep the faith. I hope Tate is enjoying the snow. Our kids are just crazy about it. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Will keep checking the updates.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Friday, November 30, 2001 at 02:39 AM (CST)
Good Morning all we have quite a few drifts around here too got winter all of a sudden Hope Chad can enjoy the Christmas season with out getting too tired. Think of you every day love Grandma
- Thursday, November 29, 2001 at 08:09 AM (CST)
I'm glad to hear the doctors are optomistic about doing surgery. It's not going to be fun but it will be worth it in the long run. Glad you got home ok. Love you all.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Wednesday, November 28, 2001 at 09:08 PM (CST)
We are so glad to hear that the doctors feel that they will be able to get everything. Surgery is always a risk, but they know what they are doing. Dr. Mistry is a wonderful doctor and we are so very lucky to have him in Fargo. You are in our prayers and we love you lots.
Love,
Wanda and Chad
- Wednesday, November 28, 2001 at 12:28 PM (CST)
glad to hear the Dr.'s are so optimistic...good, but still scarey news about the surgery! with your family and God's love, everything will come together with a big "success"! It's a big decision, & I hope you don't hesitate to ck w/other Dr's...still think Edsel in Fergus would be good 2nd opinion. he even had the 50yr old patient, didn't he? Take it easy up there-Jenn told me you were having a pizza celebration today! Hope it was good times! Love, Mom H.
susan hanson
- Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 08:16 PM (CST)
Glad to hear Chad doing well in Fargo. Hope they wait until after Christmas for surgery. Thinking about you all. Talk to you soon. Lots of Love.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, - Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 11:05 AM (CST)
HANG IN THERE....we are thinking of you and hoping and praying that this will be a success.Man we got snow/ Chuck blew snow before he went to work at 7 so hope all the roads are clear to the mall. I leave here before 8:30 so will talk to you/ hope you have a good day. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 07:10 AM (CST)
Praying that things are going well with you. Will keep checking to see how things are going in Fargo and at home. Hug and kiss your kids twice--Keep the faith
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 02:41 AM (CST)
Glad Chad is feeling well enough to go to work. Take it easy and get lost of rest. We love you all.
Travis, Jamie & Brenden <Pandorra@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, mn - Sunday, November 25, 2001 at 12:04 PM (CST)
Good morning , looks like rain rained just a little during the night. So good to hear from you take care and God Bless Love you grandma and grandpa
- Saturday, November 24, 2001 at 08:33 AM (CST)
Happy Thanksgiving!!!! Will be thinking of you. waiting to hear the results.
we are praying that all went well. Pray alot for you and I hope you feel the love that comes down from above. Hugs to all. Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
fergus falls, MN USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2001 at 08:21 PM (CST)
We very anxious to hear about your Dr. visit coming on Wed. Hope you can call that PM. Will miss you for holiday-hug and kiss each other for us. Love, mom
susan hanson
- Monday, November 19, 2001 at 10:14 PM (CST)
I'll be thinking about you tomorrow Good Luck! See you Thursday. Love you
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Sunday, November 18, 2001 at 10:10 PM (CST)
Prayers to you regarding the CT scan. Hope all is well. Enjoy your family over the Holiday. Take Care. Will think of you. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday, November 18, 2001 at 06:21 PM (CST)
Love You Dad
Lon
N. Y. Miils, Mn usa - Friday, November 16, 2001 at 11:15 PM (CST)
Hang in there, the counts are going up, that is wonderful. It takes so much time to bounce back, but keep going. We love all of you, your in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Wanda and Chad
- Friday, November 16, 2001 at 09:37 AM (CST)
I'VE NEVER GONE INTO THIS SECTION BEFORE-IT'S GREAT THAT YOU CAN GET SURE "REMEMBERANCES" FROM EVERYONE, AND SO EASY!
REMEMBER IT WAS THE "CRUDDY" FEELING THAT DID SOME GOOD LAST TIME, GOD LOVES YOU...AND SO DO WE. LOVE, MOM & DAD
MOM&DAD HANSON
- Friday, November 16, 2001 at 09:37 AM (CST)
Hi Chad,hope your feeling better soon. I know its hard but lets hope its working again. Hang in their. We'll see you on Thanksgiving. Love to everybody. Mom
Mom and Rick <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, , Mn - Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 09:46 PM (CST)
Hi guys, glad to hear the kids are feeling better. Hoping that Chad feels better soon too! Cant wait to see you all on thanksgiving. See you next week Love you
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 08:47 PM (CST)
Hi everyone so sorry to hear Chad isnt real good hope it doesnt last too long Have you all in our prayersl all the time. Hope the weather stays nice for Thanksgiving. Love you all grandma
- Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 07:58 AM (CST)
Been thinking of you. Hope you are feeling better. I hope your blood counts go back up. Take care. I hope you are able to get out and enjoy the warm weather this coming weekend. Hug and kiss your kids twice. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Wednesday, November 14, 2001 at 02:29 AM (CST)
error in Rod's email address
<rodneywirth@meritcare.com>
- Tuesday, November 13, 2001 at 09:11 PM (CST)
Hi from Rod and Shirley, Stop by the ER some time when you are up at RMCC and see if we are working! Would love to see you again.
Rod and Shirley Wirth <rodwirth@meritcare.com>
- Tuesday, November 13, 2001 at 09:10 PM (CST)
Hi Jen Chad and kids good to hear from you every day Hope things are going better Love you grandma You know your in our prayers all the time. LeVonne Hanson
Le
- Saturday, November 10, 2001 at 10:24 PM (CST)
Hi Jen Chad and kids good to hear from you every day Hope things are going better Love you grandma You know your in our prayers all the time. LeVonne Hanson
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- Saturday, November 10, 2001 at 10:24 PM (CST)
Hope your platelets are up now. That is great about the washer. What wonderful people there are in this world. I hope all is going well with you. Kiss and hug your kids twice--keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Saturday, November 10, 2001 at 07:57 AM (CST)
Just wanted to say hello and hang in there. We are thinking about you and praying for you.
Wanda and Chad
- Friday, November 09, 2001 at 10:07 AM (CST)
just wanted to say hi. Hang in there it is going to be worth it! Love you all
melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN USA - Friday, November 09, 2001 at 08:22 AM (CST)
Hi, Just to let you know I now have Hotmail. I'm glad you are getting a new washer. That will be nice. Talk to you later.
Mom and Rick <gramiewirth@hotmail.com>
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Thursday, November 08, 2001 at 02:13 AM (CST)
Hi, I'm glad you were able to go hunting, even if you didn't see anything. Rick got a buck on saturday. Just hang in there.You know the tiredness woun't last very long.I was sure surprised about Missy but it will be fun. Thinking of you and everybody,and praying this one does good to. Love you all, talk to you later.
Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday, November 07, 2001 at 01:31 AM (CST)
Hi Jen Chad andTate Kiah wassomuch fun having Kiah See you
Grandma <arlev>
Dalton, Mn Usa - Tuesday, November 06, 2001 at 07:38 AM (CST)
Hi Jen Chad andTate Kiah wassomuch fun having Kiah See you
Grandma <arlev>
Dalton, Mn Usa - Tuesday, November 06, 2001 at 07:38 AM (CST)
We are so happy to hear things are going well. Chad you better watch out with Jen giving you shots, you never know what she is going to do. We are thinking of you and love and prayers.
Wanda and Chad
- Friday, November 02, 2001 at 04:05 PM (CST)
Hi, Jen! So very glad to hear that treatments are making progress in stamping out Chad's tumors. God is really good. Hope you get a big buck with a rack that can hang all your coats and hats on!
I will continue to pray.......you continue to bask in God's love and care. Thinking of and praying for you all......
Carol Shegrud <shegdude@gvtel.com>
Bagley, MN USA - Friday, November 02, 2001 at 02:05 PM (CST)
Couldn't get on line the other night. Glad things are going well. Am glad you are able to go hunting. I know how much Mike looks forward to it. Good luck and shoot straight. Am so happy things are going so good. Keep the faith and all will be good. Prayers and thoughts--kiss and hug your kids twice!!!!
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Friday, November 02, 2001 at 04:41 AM (CST)
Hi====Hope all goes well this week. we are thinking of you and praying for you==Keep the spirit up. Prayers will be answered.will check this to keep up with your reports. sure like to keep up with you and yours. Lots of love. Chuck and Laurice
Laurice Swenson <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 01:04 AM (CST)
Just wanted to say Hi and wish you luck this week. Hang in there this is going to be worth it. Love you all.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN usa - Tuesday, October 30, 2001 at 09:28 AM (CST)
Just wanted to say HI, and let you know that I will be thinking about you next week. I know it's no fun to be sick but it looks like that's what it takes to get you better. so just hang in there,it will get better. love you all. we're all praying for you. Think positive.
Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Monday, October 29, 2001 at 05:14 AM (CST)
Hey there:
I finally had time to read some journals entries and cried when I saw the good news!! Wow!! How fantastic !! It's so wonderful. Wow. That's all I can say!! I haven't been on line much - Hey - It's been busy with the fall play. I think I put in over 75 hours in school this past week alone. Hannah came to the play Saturday night. You'll have to ask her how it went. I need to get up to Bemidji - I know I am working the Girls sections in swimming at Bemidji High school (11/9 and 11/10). Park Rapids is actually hosting the meet - so we have to provide workers. I'm the official scorer - just in case the computers mess up. I'll have to stop by Penney's and give you a hug!! Actually I should call and make an appointment when I find out the work hours.
Sounds like you enjoyed your evening. I hope the treatment keeps up it's good work. Chad hang in there!! It's rough - but it's working. So try to have a good week!!
I'll be thinking about you guys in Fargo!!
Sandy <dodger@wcta.net>
Park Rapids, MN - Sunday, October 28, 2001 at 09:43 PM (CST)
Congratulations on your positive test results! I appreciate getting your updates on Cheflist, and I have been keeping you in my prayers. Your positive attitude is so important. I am really proud of how well you are just going forward and taking things one day at a time. You are reminding us all how important it is to keep your priorities in order. You are all an inspiration.
Judy Hoctor <judy@hoctor.com>
The Woodlands, TX 77382 - Sunday, October 28, 2001 at 03:20 PM (CST)
Hope things go well with you on Tuesday. I will be checking the website and with your mom to find out how things are going. We hope all is well. Keep the faith.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, - Sunday, October 28, 2001 at 02:18 AM (CST)
Hope things are going good, I am always checking up on you and thinking of you guys. I like the new pictures. Have fun deer hunting next weekend. Take care of yourselves and say hi to Tate for me.
Melinda <sandirv@msn.com>
Grand Forks, ND USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 10:35 PM (CDT)
Jen, thank you so much for stopping by my moms and giving us your support. I certainly hope that things go well for Chad and you and your family. We are praying for you.
MaryJo Lindquist <creekview@lakesplus.com>
Wadena, MN USA - Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 10:56 AM (CDT)
We are SO HAPPY to hear the great news! The kids and I have been stuck in Thief River the past couple days. You are in our thoughts and prayers as always. Keep the faith. You are going to beat this! Love you all.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN USA - Friday, October 26, 2001 at 07:04 PM (CDT)
Jen, Chad & Kids - I was so very happy to read the latest on here. You guys have been in my thoughts and prayers regularly. It is so great that good news is finally coming your way. We're all wishing and praying for the best for you guys. Like I've said before, if anyone can beat this, it's you guys, you've got so many people behind you. Take care and keep the updates coming - we all care and want to hear how you guys are doing. Lots of love!
Stephanie Wilcox <swilcox@rosenproducts.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Friday, October 26, 2001 at 12:29 PM (CDT)
What wonderful NEWS!!! We are so happy, 50% is so wonderful. Good luck next week with another week of chemo. We pray that it is easier for you than last time. Love and prayers.
Wanda and Chad <wandahagen@merticare.com>
detroit lakes, mn becker - Friday, October 26, 2001 at 10:13 AM (CDT)
We are so glad that you got good news yesterday. God does answer prayers. Thinking of you always. Bets
Elizabeth Nelson <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 01:30 PM (CDT)
I can't think of any better news than what i just read. Our prayers are being answered. I guess you just had to not feel good for a few days, so that it could do its thing. Next time it would'nt we as bad because you know its helping. We just need to keep praying. Love to everybody.
Love Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, MN - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 04:05 AM (CDT)
Keeping the faith is what I say. Couldn't be any better news than to read that!!!!! I still think of you and will keep praying everyday for you. Praying that things will continue as well. You are in our thoughts!!!!
paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
frazee, - Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 03:51 AM (CDT)
Oh thank god, my mouth dropped and I cried I was so happy. We are so happy to hear that they shrunk and you are always in our prayers, great to see you guys on Sat. Are you suprised we signed the guestbook? Couldn't pass it up with that great news!
Brian & Joni Owen <BNJOWEN@PRTEL.COM>
FERGUS FALLS , MN USA - Wednesday, October 24, 2001 at 10:46 PM (CDT)
Hey guys....glad to hear the great news. Think of you often and wish you well. hugs to the kids.
Stacey
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, ND - Wednesday, October 24, 2001 at 10:41 PM (CDT)
What wonderful news. Today is Richards 28th birthday and also the anniversary of his diagnosis. We haven't given that a second thought today and to hear your tumour has shrunk by 50% is excellent. Richard's initial response to chemo shrunk his tumour by 50%. It can only be a good omen. Our thoughts are with you, enjoy the success we know what a good feeling it is. Lots of Love, Sarah & Richard
Sarah & Richard Spencer <http://www.dsrct.demon.co.uk>
ENGLAND - Wednesday, October 24, 2001 at 02:19 PM (CDT)
Hi Hope everything goes well with you tomorrow--we will be thinking of you and checking here tomorrow nite/ Glad Benefit went well. I think everybody had a good time, too. Pray for you often--hope you feel all the people praying for you.love to all Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 08:18 PM (CDT)
Chad & Jenn just wanted say Hi, It has been a few days since I have checked in to see how you all are doing.
When Vicki & I tuck Kayla & Alyssa into bed they always include your family into their bedtime prayers.
Remember if you need anything at all just call or send a e-mail.
Talk to you later,
Jason
Jason Tang <jtang@istate.com>
Moorhead, MN USA - Tuesday, October 23, 2001 at 09:39 AM (CDT)
Thinking of you always. Looking forward to seeing you in Fergus Saturday. Glad Chad is feeling better. Love, Rod and Sandy
Rod and Sandy <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN - Friday, October 19, 2001 at 10:53 PM (CDT)
Hi guys, Glad to hear both Kiah and Chad are feeling better. Ear infections are no fun! Hang in there. We will see you sat. in Fergus. Love you all
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, mn - Tuesday, October 16, 2001 at 10:11 PM (CDT)
hi just saying hi and hope your feeling good
grandma levonne <arlev@prtel.com>
dalton, mn usa - Tuesday, October 16, 2001 at 11:05 AM (CDT)
HI, it sounds like your felling better,thats good. Hope it went well on Sunday. I had to work and im still getting over my cold. Say Hi to the kids. Will see you Saturday night. Im praying this is the one that does it. Love Mom.
Rick and Mom
Detroit Lakes, - Tuesday, October 16, 2001 at 06:12 AM (CDT)
Love you guys, and miss you!
Matti Mattson <mattigirl77@excite.com>
Wasilla, AK USA - Tuesday, October 16, 2001 at 02:00 AM (CDT)
Hoping this last round worked for you. I keep reading the enteries whenever I can. Hope things continue to be to up. Thoughts and prayers to you through this all. The kids must be a tremendous drive for the good--despite their own "challenges". Been there with four of our own--love them with all our hearts. Keep the faith.
paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
frazee, mn - Friday, October 12, 2001 at 03:10 AM (CDT)
Remember you have friends who are here when you need us.
Ann <abard@paulbunyan.net>
Bemidji, MN USA - Tuesday, October 09, 2001 at 09:17 AM (CDT)
Hi guys, I'm back to part time for awhile, until my wrist is better. If you need anything-give me a call. Hang in there. Love you all.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN USA - Monday, October 08, 2001 at 10:06 PM (CDT)
Jen and Chad
I am glad things are going as good as expected. Please keep your chins up and keep having faith. In time, Chad will be back to work full time and you won't know how to keep him home. Keep us posted and remember god is watching over you all every step of the way. God Bless and take care.
Angie Conrad - PC Consultant <pampchefangie@yahoo.com>
O'Fallon, IL - Monday, October 08, 2001 at 01:08 PM (CDT)
Hi guys..just checking in to see how things are going and to let you know we are thinking about you. Kelsey wants Christmas to be here NOW... she wants to show Tate her toy room...she has already set aside toys that the "Babies" can play with and the ones she and Tate, Ally and Brandon can play with. She can't quite understand why it hasn't snowed yet. Lets how not yet for awhile. Take care and stay strong. Love Stacey, Dave, Kelsey and Austin
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, ND - Sunday, October 07, 2001 at 09:11 PM (CDT)
Renee Anderson (cheflist) <pchefrenee@hotmail.com>
Manchester, TN 37355 - Friday, October 05, 2001 at 05:07 PM (CDT)
We hope that Chad is feeling as well as he can. We know how difficult the treatments can be keep your chins up because you can and will get there. We're here if you need to chat. All the best.
Sarah & Richard Spencer <www.dsrct.demon.co.uk>
ENGLAND - Friday, October 05, 2001 at 03:48 PM (CDT)
jen,
Congrats on being an Aunt. I have been reading yourjournal and thinking about you daily, I often want to stop by but do not since we are unsure what the WBC is for Chad. Both our kids have been sick, you don't need that.
Adam is having kids over for cake(no gifts or real party deal) on Sat. AM you are welcome to join us. The family party is Sunday at 1 pm for dinner(meatballs are on the menu). If you guys are up to it please feel free to come to 1 or both. Call us if you need us.
Ann
- Friday, October 05, 2001 at 02:46 PM (CDT)
Jen, This site is awesome! What a wonderful idea. I think of you and Chad often and hope that each day brings new hope. God's Blessings to you and your sweet family.
Caldwell, PC Consultant <cobsweb@cbt.net>
Springhill, LA USA - Friday, October 05, 2001 at 09:48 AM (CDT)
Hi. I haven't emailed for a while. Couldn't get this to come up. Must have been doing something wrong. Glad the benefit was good in Fargo. I hope you are getting your strength back. Am praying that this one will work for you. Think of you guys everyday. Keeping the faith.
paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, MN - Thursday, October 04, 2001 at 02:24 AM (CDT)
Keep your spirits high, trust in the Lord, never faulter in your faith. God is watching over us all and will be there to protect us no matter what the outcome. Remember your friends are here to give you added strength and support. We keep you in our prayers daily.
MaryJo Lindquist <creekview@lakesplus.com>
Wadena, MN USA - Thursday, October 04, 2001 at 01:42 AM (CDT)
HI--saw the baby and is he sweet. a real keeper. pretty proud parents too. To bad you aren't feeling good.Lets hope this knocks the bug out. we are praying for you. Think positive. We have been off the air---they cut some lines and couple days without the phone. it is pretty quiet without the phone and net. had like 36 messages waiting when turned it on this morn. Hope tomorrow is a better day. get feeling better. Lovingly Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net.>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Wednesday, October 03, 2001 at 08:19 PM (CDT)
Jen, let Chad know that i agree with you. I don't like that he's sick, but maybe that's what it takes. We can only pray.I,m glad the kids are better. Tell them hi. Just keep a POSTIVITE attitude. We all need to. Love ya all. Mom
Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday, October 03, 2001 at 04:09 AM (CDT)
hi guys, just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you. Hang in there. Hope Tate is feeling better. love you
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN USA - Monday, October 01, 2001 at 10:08 PM (CDT)
Hey guys... Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you. Talk to Travis last night and he was asking how you were. I am going to print out the Journal to kind of give him an idea of what is going on. He says hi and that he is hoping to come home around Christmas. Let us know when you are in Fargo again. Love, Stacey, Dave, Kelsey and Austin.
Stacey <DSJuhnke@yahoo.com>
Fargo, - Monday, October 01, 2001 at 08:52 PM (CDT)
hi Chad, Jen, Tate and Kiah, I hope all is going well, see you in Fargo I'm sure
Candy <CandyBourassa@MeritCare.com>
- Monday, October 01, 2001 at 04:11 PM (CDT)
Hope your feeling better. I've been down with a bad sinus cold. Finally went back to work today. We're praying that this is the one that will knock it out. Love ya! keep hanging in their. Mom
Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Saturday, September 29, 2001 at 04:45 PM (CDT)
HI,Just to let you know that we're thinging of you and praying that this is the one to knock it out. Glad that your not feeling to bad. Hang in their. Love Mom.
Mom and Rick
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Wednesday, September 26, 2001 at 02:23 AM (CDT)
Glad to hear Chads feeling ok. Hang in there. Love you
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN USA - Tuesday, September 25, 2001 at 09:13 PM (CDT)
Hi hope things keep going well. Stay strong and positive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Monday, September 24, 2001 at 09:43 PM (CDT)
Hi guys!! We are praying that Chad does well through this chemo. Stay tough and you will beat this Chad. Thinking of you always.
Elizabeth Nelson <cnelson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Monday, September 24, 2001 at 09:32 PM (CDT)
Hello, wishing the best for you and your family. Take care. Chad
Chad Swenson <chadswen@aol.com>
Alton, IL USA - Saturday, September 22, 2001 at 10:58 AM (CDT)
Just checking in on you all. Keep up the upbeat attitude. Will see you in Fgo/Mhd tomorrow night. Love and prayers.
elaine and bob olson <bobolson@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN USA - Friday, September 21, 2001 at 02:49 PM (CDT)
Stay POSITIVE! We are all praying for you. We will see you this weekend. Love you
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Thursday, September 20, 2001 at 10:43 PM (CDT)
I just wanted to let you know that we want you to stay positive and know you are in Gods hands and they are loving hands. You guys are very strong and we know you can beat this.
Lots of love and prayers,
Vicki and Jason
Vicki Tang <jnvtang@worldnet.att.net>
Moorhea, MN usa - Thursday, September 20, 2001 at 10:12 PM (CDT)
Hi hope all goes well today. We are praying for you each day. Nice picturesl. Ya I thought it was a shirt. Chuck was laying in bed earlier this summer. and went into a panic as he was laying in bed with his socks off. and jumped to the conclusion he hurt himself and it was only his white=white feet were his socks had been.. Not pretty. if you are you're going to wear sandles wear them without socks. Right!!!!! It is good you had a good time.Love Laurice
Laurice <cdslaurice@webtv.net>
Fergus Falls, MN MN USA - Thursday, September 20, 2001 at 07:36 AM (CDT)
Great pictures of the trip. It looks as if you did enjoy yourselves. Will pray your doctors' appointment is a good one. Will look for an update. Take care and Be Well.
paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, MN - Wednesday, September 19, 2001 at 05:00 AM (CDT)
I just wanted to let everyone know that the Benefit this weekend is on Sat.the 22nd and we will start serving arounf 5:30 until 7:30 or so. I hope to see lots of you there.
thoughts and prayers,
Vicki
Vicki Tang <jnvtang@worldnet.att.net>
Moorhead, MN usa - Tuesday, September 18, 2001 at 03:42 PM (CDT)
Hope Tate had fun at sunday school. Ally started yesterday also. Thinking of you. Can't wait to see you this weekend.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh, MN - Monday, September 17, 2001 at 06:46 AM (CDT)
Chad, Jen and kids, Think of you often. The last few days have been very sad days for America. It is hard not to sit and watch T.V. all the time. Our country and many people, including Chad,are in need of our prayers. Our Love, Rod and Sandy
Rod and Sandy <wenstrom@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, MN America - Saturday, September 15, 2001 at 11:23 AM (CDT)
Just want'ed to say Hi and let you know that we're thing about you. Talked to Travis and he said to let you know that he's thing about you to. Hope all goes well next week. Will talk to you then. Love mom.
Mon and Rick
Detroit Lakes, Mn - Friday, September 14, 2001 at 07:37 PM (CDT)
Glad to hear that chad is doing well. Who couldn't love the Tater Bug? lol
Travis and Jamie <Pandorra@prtel.com>
Fergus Falls, - Friday, September 14, 2001 at 06:03 PM (CDT)
Glad things are going good. Think of you often and hope things are for the POSITIVE. Love all your comments about the kids. They do say and do the darndest things. Nothing better in this world than to be a parent.
Paula <mpolson@loretel.net>
Frazee, mn - Thursday, September 13, 2001 at 04:56 AM (CDT)
I'm glad to hear Chad is doing well. We'll see you this weekend.
Melissa <allyson@gvtel.com>
McIntosh , MN - Wednesday, September 05, 2001 at 09:25 PM (CDT)