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Descansa en paz pequeño angel
Lourdes Araiza <araiza.lulu@gmail.com>
ciudad de mexico, mexico mexico - Thursday, December 21, 2023 4:18 PM CST
May God continue to bless yall
shane <bro.gray39@gmail.com>
clinton, ms usa - Friday, March 24, 2023 3:28 AM CDT
Love to you my sweet girl
Patti Billings Doughty
ROUND ROCK, TX US - Monday, December 21, 2020 5:47 PM CST
RIP Sweet Child of God. Lots of prayers for this family.
Lyn
FL - Monday, August 24, 2015 8:23 AM CDT
Rest In Heavenly Peace...

Camella Ford <camellaford@yahoo.com>
Houston, TX - Sunday, March 29, 2015 9:22 PM CDT
What a beautiful child God Bless her and her family
liz norris <liznorris@outlook.com>
United kingdom - Tuesday, March 24, 2015 1:51 PM CDT
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little girl. I have tears in my eyes for you and your family on your loss but Heaven's Gain. I too am a believer and you will see her again. She must be very special to the Father and I heard a story from someone who went to heaven and came back that Jesus plays with the little children and he has a special place where they are together. May the Lord Jesus bring his super natural comfort to your aching heart. My heart would ache too. God Bless you all.
Cindy Cotter <clcgrand47@aol.com>
Pottstown, Pa Usa - Friday, March 13, 2015 10:57 PM CDT
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little girl. I have tears in my eyes for you and your family on your loss but Heaven's Gain. I too am a believer and you will see her again. She must be very special to the Father and I heard a story from someone who went to heaven and came back that Jesus plays with the little children and he has a special place where they are together. May the Lord Jesus bring his super natural comfort to your aching heart. My heart would ache too. God Bless you all.
Cindy Cotter <clcgrand47@aol.com>
Pottstown, Pa Usa - Friday, March 13, 2015 10:56 PM CDT
Sending loads of Love and Light your way!!! Stay strong and keep on keeping on...Sadly I can relate to so much of what you're going through.God Bless You, your Precious Family and your Sweet Angel Baby...
Vaughan Honieraye <bronzesrv@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 27, 2014 4:54 AM CST
Your daughter is a BEAUTIFUL ANGEL! Praying for your family <3
Renee
Ohio USA - Saturday, November 22, 2014 7:14 AM CST
Thank you for the update. I am sorry things are so difficult. Still praying for you and the family.
Elaine
PA - Thursday, November 13, 2014 5:42 PM CST
Hi:
I am so sorry to hear of your child's passing at such a young age. We lost a son who would have been 25 years of age the next day to ALL (a form of Leukemia) shortly after he was diagnosed. And yes, you are right, it is especially hard to lose a child no matter what the age. He took a piece of our heart when he passed away. Brian was the first child of ours and the first grandchild in our family. May God Bless You and Your Family in all the days to come and may you find some comfort that we will keep you in our prayers....

Nancy Austin <nancy1016562003@hotmail.com>
Hamlet, NC USA - Sunday, July 13, 2014 11:11 AM CDT
I first read about Marissa on find a grave. I wanted to find out more. What a blessing she was and is to you. She certainly had a sweetness that is evident in all your pictures. You will see her again, as you know and that is a comfort. May God bless you and your family with continued strength and may your receive His comfort daily.
Olivia Close
Laguna Niguel, CA United States of America - Saturday, January 4, 2014 11:49 AM CST
What a beautiful child, and most certainly now, visiting with Jesus at times while playing with many other little angels. I'm also sure that every day she watches over her earthly family with happiness knowing that you all will one day again be together. You will all get those great hugs again -- forever. God Bless your family.
Marlin Newburn <marlinnewburn@centurytel.net>
Kincheloe, MI United States - Thursday, November 21, 2013 11:30 PM CST
I love what you wrote on Facebook. I certainly take those words to heart and have been more understanding and making more time for my kids. I just can't believe she would've been 18! She would've been a fantastic teenager who would stand up for the underdog. I just get that feeling about her. Be strong on Friday day and Friday night you are allowed to fall apart. I have a cousin who's 16 year old daughter was killed in a car crash three years ago...caused by the driver texting. Her anniversary is coming up too....so hard for everyone. I cannot fathom what you are going through, but I'm praying for you.
Deb Harrop
Topeka, ks usa - Monday, September 16, 2013 2:52 PM CDT
thinking of you and your lost of a beautiful child
elizabeth norris <liznorris@outlook.com>
U.K - Tuesday, August 27, 2013 12:31 AM CDT
Our oldest daughter is driving us happily crazy with her crowd of friends and the track team and a Robotics team and not so happily crazy being a typical 14 1/2 year old. Our other little (one inch shorter than me and wears bigger shoes) works hours in the 6th grade on homework...and complains constantly about orchestra. But every time I am blessed with "hey how ya doing? And one of them or both mutter "fine!" Marissa flies in to remind me to enjoy every second with them, and I keep reading this journal hoping that you have been visited by her and are making it through each day.
Lorrie
Columbia, SC USA - Wednesday, February 13, 2013 10:25 PM CST
Just a note to say someone from Iowa is thinking of you, your family, and your sweet angel today.
Sara Morris
- Wednesday, November 14, 2012 11:56 AM CST
I will never forget beautiful Marissa. Trust me. Gods blessings to all of you
Lorrie
Columbia, SC USA - Thursday, November 8, 2012 11:02 PM CST
I saw Marissa's memorial at www.findagrave.com, and I popped over here to find out more about this beautiful little girl. I can't begin to imagine the pain of losing a child. I offer my thoughts and prayers for all of those who knew and loved beautiful Marissa. Thank you for sharing her story with us.
Sabrina
Whitesburg, TN - Friday, October 26, 2012 0:11 AM CDT
I never had the oppurtunity to meet this beautiful girl, but an extremely important person in my life still remembers and mourns her often. Its obvious the positive impact she had on everyone who met her, and even those who didn't. I feel changed after reading her story, blessed. She would be a year younger than me and it is just unimaginable the suffering she went through during her short time here. Research does indeed need to continue for childhood cancers. Marissa is never forgotten that much should be said, I know I will never forget her and neither will my close friend. He misses her extremely.
Aubrey Samuelson <aubreyann14@gmail.com>
Newton, KS - Sunday, June 10, 2012 9:20 PM CDT
Wow, I can't believe Marissa would be in High School now! Time does fly! Marie is a middle schooler, and Ross will be next year, and I'm having trouble with that! I still think about Marissa and what a great girl she was. I will be forever greatful to that little girl for starting me on my adoption journeys. I've been blessed.

Deb Harrop

Deb Harrop <gaolimin620@yahoo.com>
Topeka, ks usa - Wednesday, March 28, 2012 11:23 AM CDT
I just met little Marissa today through find a grave. Thank you for sharing her story with me. Bless you.
Jeannie Lloyd
Portland, Or - Monday, August 22, 2011 7:01 AM CDT
Marissa will never be forgotton. I still think about her!!
Deb Harrop <gaolimin620@yahoo.com>
Topeka, Ks USA - Tuesday, August 9, 2011 2:15 PM CDT
During an internet search for someone else, I came across sweet little Marissa's website (obviously God-lead!) and my soul is touched by her legacy! You may ask "why God why did you have to take her?" I wish we could know... but while we are left here on earth, we can take comfort in knowing that God will use the pure-in-heart, the kind, the giving, etc. to bring others to HIM...and Marissa did that! You both can be VERY proud of your sweet baby. Marissa was special.... and God had a special purpose for her, and He sent her here to be His abassador! I, too am a believer in Jesus Christ and I can't wait to meet your precious gift.... Marissa Faith, when I get to Heaven!! Her spirit lives on in the lives of those who knew her and those who just "met" her!

You were truly BLESSED to have been given the opportunity to have her as your daughter.

I look forward to meeting you two in Heaven as well.

God Bless you always.

Karen <karend1959@gmail.com>
Sublimity, OR usa - Sunday, August 7, 2011 3:57 PM CDT
Aqueles que amam a Deus sobre todas as coisas,com ceteza Deus tem um amor tambem especial reciproco. Ele sabe a hora de chamar para o encontro com Ele. O Senhor sentiu a necessidade de chamá-la mais cedo e nós apenas devemos aceitar e dar glorias ao Senhor.

Um abraço e fiquem em paz!

nildo morais
fortaleza, ceara brasil - Friday, July 22, 2011 1:23 PM CDT
Best Wishes...
Cassie Ryckman <crabbycassie54@aol.com>
Whitttier, Ca Los Angeles - Monday, July 18, 2011 11:46 PM CDT
I m Sorry. Marissa and not melissa but my tears are the same. God bless you
Kamy <kamy.daga@gmail.com>
Genova, It Italy - Wednesday, February 9, 2011 2:56 AM CST
My name is kamy and I m writing from italy. Reading melissa's story I can suffer with you. Now she is an angel with Jesus.
Kamy <kamy.daga@gmail.it>
Genova, It Italy - Wednesday, February 9, 2011 2:41 AM CST
Dear Kim, Steve, and family, I am drawn to your site often. Marissa's beautiful face is etched in my mind, and I wish so much I could have known her - although I feel almost as if I do from your writings and your speaking of her. I'm so glad she had all of you to love her during her short life here - and truly for all eternity! Love, Peg and family
Peg Miller <grandmaapple@embarqmail.com>
Defiance, OH USA - Sunday, February 6, 2011 11:17 AM CST
Your daughter is a beautiful little angel. I too lost a child to cancer , my son mikey past over at the age of 6 yrs. he had nuroblastoma. he was our only son and youngest child. we since have had another son, who is a USM. and the love of my life.
Rosemarie Schrump <Romarie40@aol.com>
Phoenixville, PA USA - Saturday, June 12, 2010 11:56 PM CDT
I came across your website from the wallofcourage.com gallery.
What a beautiful girl Marissa was! I'm sure she was a bundle of sunshine who brightened up everyone's day! She must be the most beutiful angel watching over all of us!
I pray for your family for comfort and peace to be with you. And that your house sells soon!

May your lives be filled with God's blessings!

Shelly Dailey <daileysr@plu.edu>
wa - Sunday, May 16, 2010 5:44 AM CDT
Marissa will never be forgotten! Prayers being sent that your home sells soon.
Elaine
PA - Monday, May 3, 2010 7:24 AM CDT
In memory of Marissa
Name Witheld
xxxxx, xx - Saturday, March 20, 2010 3:12 PM CDT
I will never forget Marissa! She was my inspiration to adopt! I think about her all the time, and how unfair it was that she was taken too soon from this world. I also think about the family and how horrible it must've been to deal with, and still deal with. I lost my dad almost 5 years ago, and still think about him every day. I know it's the same for you. Hang in there though! I will be praying for Linda, Justin, and the whole family!

Deb Harrop <gaolimin620@yahoo.com>
Topeka, KS USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2010 1:02 PM CST
I still think of Rissa Ru, and my heart still aches for you and your family. I will never forget her.
Lorrie
Columbia, SC USA - Sunday, January 17, 2010 9:47 PM CST
Dear Burghart Family,
I came across Marissa's note cards and that prompted me to check in on Marissa's site. I am very sorry to hear of your dad's passing Kim. I am heartbroken to hear cancer has once again found your family. I will keep you all in my prayers for peace and healing.

Colleen Dolan <redthread2000@yahoo.com>
Phoenixville, PA USA - Thursday, December 31, 2009 10:01 AM CST
Happy Birthday Marissa. I know your Grandpa is with you and your Uncle Phil now. Watch over your family little angel. You are so loved and missed.
Aunt Jill <jepaletta@cox.net>
Topeka, KS US - Monday, September 28, 2009 9:52 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Marissa. I never knew you, but I think of you often. I hug my daughter closer than ever, in honor of you. I wish you could still be on Earth with your Family. I know you are watching over them and trying to bring them some peace on this bittersweet day.
Shelley <aldink@ptd.net>
Manheim, PA USA - Saturday, September 19, 2009 7:03 PM CDT
Dearest Kim, Each time I think of Marissa and see her picture, I am thankful for her life, and for the blessing she was to you, and the blessing each of you were to her. The thanks that I, and all my family, have for all you've done for us just cannot be expressed with mere mortals' words. God bless you and Steve and each of your special children!
Peg Miller <grandmaapple@embarqmail.com>
Defiance, OH U.S.A. - Sunday, September 13, 2009 5:30 PM CDT
Kim, Mary and I were just talking about Marissa yesterday. We think of her often and remember her wonderful smile and laughter. We feel like Mary has her own special guardian angel watching over her. Love, Kelly
Kelly Sabatini <sabatmom@yahoo.com>
Fort Worth , TX USA - Thursday, September 10, 2009 2:24 PM CDT
Kim, I have been thinking of you so much this month as I knew it was Marissa's birthday time. I will be thinking of you and wishing I could be there with you in Kansas to walk in her honor. I have just one pack left of Marissa's notecards, and I save them for the most special notes I have to write. I love the words on the back that "through faith and hope....all things are possible." Blessings to you, my friend. And huge hugs to you all for wanting to help those who still wait for a home.
Amy Eldridge
Edmond, OK - Thursday, September 10, 2009 1:02 PM CDT
We have been thinking of Marissa and your family a lot lately. We miss her too. She was an important part of our life.
Mary Ungerer <jmungerer@sbcglobal.net>
Topeka, ks usa - Thursday, September 10, 2009 12:59 AM CDT
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine our life without our 5.5 year-old Bethany - we too adopted her from China when she was less than 8 months old. Thanks for your blog entry. I will give you lots of hugs tonight, with thoughts of your family and Marissa.
Gloria
Cypress, CA - Tuesday, September 8, 2009 2:31 PM CDT
My beloved niece, Mei Margaret (Maggie) Pohly, almost 6, died July 15, 2009, from DIPG. My sister adopted her from China on December 25, 2006, and she came home on January 4, 2007. She was 3 1/2 when she came home.

I am so sorry about your Marissa. I know that you will miss her everyday. Our family is trying to learn to live with her loss, but we are so grateful that we had the chance to know her.

Linda Pohly <lindapohly@iavbbs.com>
Flint, MI USA - Sunday, September 6, 2009 8:47 PM CDT
Still thinking of you guys. Will never forget Rissa Ru, my heart aches as I see my healthy Chinese kids loving life and 3rd & 6th grade and so wish that you could have enjoyed seeing Rissa as a lovely teenager, texting her fingers off, giggling about boys, always needing that special new dress for the dance, starting to think about her future, all the joys of raising kids. Sure hope your house sells soon. Love. Lorrie, Roger, Madeleine Margaret Changsheng and Meredith Grace LiPei
Lorrie
Columbia, SC USA - Sunday, August 30, 2009 11:27 PM CDT
Thank You so much Kim for signing my sweet grandsons guestbook. It means so much to me.
I am trying so very hard to keep my grandsons memory alive.

What a very beautiful angel your daughter is.
Im sure her and my Dae Hon are running around heaven , having a ball. No pain , No sickness.

You take care
Hugs & Love
Cheryl
Dae Hon Gonzales grandma

http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/dae_hon_gonzales


Cheryl Reynolds <sillysugie@gmail.com>
Carlin, NV USA - Saturday, August 22, 2009 5:58 PM CDT
Thank you for doing "something" even after your loss. YOu are an inspiration.
Maria Abercrombie <mabercrombie@chattahoocheetech.edu>
GA - Saturday, August 22, 2009 3:25 PM CDT
Hi Kim and Steve,
As for me, I too wish I could mend broken hearts, and I don't know how, and if I am honest, I don't really know the pain either. I can only put my trust in the one who has promised in the end he will wipe away every tear. It would be ok with me if he would start now. I tell him quite often that I just don't get it.

Know this; what you have done for my family has made a world of difference. May you find peace.

Steven McGlasson
Topeka, - Monday, August 17, 2009 11:29 AM CDT
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Dear ^i^ Marissa's family
I found your link today and just wanted to say how sorry Iam for your loss
May your sweet Marrissa fly high in heaven
Happy healthy and pain free sending love to surround you always
with Love ^i^ Jacob's mum

"leukaemia sux"

Jacob McLeod-Steinmetz Jacob's page
Alexandra hills, Queensland Australia - Sunday, August 16, 2009 2:09 AM CDT
So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, Marissa. I believe that she and my own daughter run and play, healthy, happy and free with all the other angels!
Cindy Fryte <livingtotell.project@yahoo.com>
MA - Thursday, August 13, 2009 6:39 PM CDT
Kim, I still think and pray for your family all the time. My dad passed away from cancer 4 years ago, and there isn't one day that goes by that I don't think about him. Cancer is a terrible beast, and I agree that we need more research to find a cure. I HATE it too. Ok, now I'm in tears again thinking about my dad and the children that die way before their time!


Deb Harrop <gaolimin620@yahoo.com>
Topeka, KS USA - Thursday, July 9, 2009 4:19 PM CDT
Hi Kim, It has been a while since we have been in touch, but I have not forgotten you, your family, or Marissa. Hope things go ok. I read a few of your journal entries to "catch up".
Cyndi Peck <elect@smtel.com>
- Sunday, June 14, 2009 10:36 PM CDT
Hi Kim, Steve, and family. I am sorry for everything you are going through. I hope things work out with your house and the move. I pray Justin is ok. All of you are always in my prayers. Even though we have not seen each other for a very long time, I carry you in my heart. Marissa will NEVER be forgotten! I have one of my favorite pictures of her in my scrapbook room. Blessings, Jill
Jill Paletta <Jepaletta@cox.net>
Topeka, KS USA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 10:22 AM CDT
Hi Kim,
Dan and I were just talking about Marrisa (aftering seeing a St. Jude commercial on TV). I was prompted to find her caring bridge website. Seeing her beautiful face brought back many memories. Please e-mail me with your phone number - would like to talk.
Love,
-Carol

Carol Debacker <dcmariah@swbell.net>
Topeka, Kansas USA - Tuesday, March 31, 2009 3:02 PM CDT
Kim - Marissa is not forgotten. Never doubt that. I am sorry for the struggles your family is still going through. I pray that this is the year that you all find peace and answers.
Elaine
NJ USA - Thursday, February 26, 2009 9:54 PM CST
Kim -- Thank you so much for the note you left in Caleb's guestbook. Thank you for continuing to follow kids with a DIPG and sent love and understanding to other parents, despite the pain you are experiencing. My heart hurts as I read your Valentine's Day entry.

I do not know what your time frame for the move is -- I hope things are going more smoothly now.

You and your family are in my prayers.

Kim Spady
Caleb's Mom
www.carepages.com/carepages/keepingupwithcaleb

Kim Spady <kimspady@hintonet.net>
Hinton, OK - Wednesday, February 25, 2009 9:45 AM CST
I just found your site after reading one of your comments on Lydia's site... So sorry for your loss as well. Time will go by, but the pain doesn't fade, and neither will the memory of your sweet daughter. We came home with our beautiful Chinese princess this summer... these children are such amazing blessings!!!!
Nicole Gower <ngower8875@embarqmail.com>
St Cloud, FL USA - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 5:38 PM CST
I just read your story for the first time and want to let you know that I will pray for you. I wish I lived closer so that I could help with all that is going on. I am a single mother to two daughters who were adopted from China. My youngest has mitochondrial disease and I keep a cb page for her. www.caringbridge.org/visit/peneloperodgers
lorna <lorna_rodgers@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 24, 2009 7:56 AM CST
I just recently found your site via your comments on Lydia's site. I have read through your story and I can't imagine your pain. I do want you to know that Marissa's beatiful face and sweet spirit has touched my heart.
Mary
TX - Monday, February 23, 2009 7:54 PM CST
Dear Kim and the rest of Marissa's family - I just discovered your site after visiting Lydia's. Each year I purchase Marissa's lovely cards from Love Without Boundaries. Marissa is truly beautiful! I can only begin to imagine the pain that you carry in your heart and soul. She will not be forgotten. And I abhor cancer and war as much as you. I hope that you receive some help with your house and children while you are parenting alone. A tough job. And wishing you patience as you wait for your house to sell. If I lived closer, I would be honored to help. Take care of yourself, Janet
Janet Bymers <jjbymers@frontiernet.net>
MN - Tuesday, February 17, 2009 11:22 PM CST
I periodically check to see how your family is doing. I met your family in Battle Creek MI at a mutual friend's house. Her daughter and Marissa were in the same adoption group. I adopted my first daughter shortly after your families adopted your girls. Never think that Marissa is out of people's minds. She is not. I still have the picture of Marissa, Mikayla, and my Meghan sitting on the weight bench in the basement in BC.
Mary <mebutler100@att.net>
- Tuesday, February 17, 2009 10:55 AM CST
I too still think of Marissa. We were in China adopting our first daughter when she died. I remember crying in the bathroom at the White Swan when my mom told me. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Heather
Clemmons, NC USA - Monday, February 16, 2009 8:06 PM CST
We never forgot Marissa, her beauty and her bravery and will always remember her lovely spirit.
Name withheld
Somewhere, CT USA - Saturday, February 14, 2009 7:25 PM CST
I just finished listening to a chinese missionary - who speaks fluent cantonese and mandarin- has been there for over 30 years, Dennis Balcombe. He LOVES the Chinese people and the things that have happened are amazing! Your love for China shows in your beautiful family . I would like to know more. Your little Marissa is so beautiful and our Joel now lives with her and Jesus.
More of His blessings to you in your struggles - where do you live?
Sincerely, Tina Wagner
www.caringbridge.org/visit/joelwagner

Tina Wagner <anitalsr@hotmail.com>
MN USA - Thursday, January 29, 2009 2:53 PM CST
Marissa is in our thoughts and she will always be remembered. She's touched the lives of so many people like us, who never had the honor of meeting her. Sending our prayers to your family and to beautiful Marissa.
Nicole and family w/ two from China
San Diego, CA - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 6:26 PM CST
HI,
Marissa is not forgotten. I just read her story. I want you to know that I stand with you and fight. If you are ever interested in joining a band of parents--visit www.curesearch.org They organize a terrific pedi-cancer grassroots effort and were responsible for getting the Conquer Childhod Cancer Act pssed this past summer. This is not money, however, this is the awareness stage. We must continue to fight for these kids.
May GOD bless you and may you feel Marissa's presnece everyday!
WIth sorrow and hope,
Kelly

kelly parent <ksparent@comcast.net>
ann arbor, mi usa - Tuesday, December 30, 2008 12:50 AM CST
My daugher Lydia has AML and is also adopted from China just like you were. Marissa, we know another angel in Heaven like you. Her name is Hannah, and she too had a brain tumour like yours. She was a very special little girl, and I hope you too can meet up there and watch over all the other little sick children together. No one will ever forget your precious life.

Monica Miyashita <kensingtonlawyer@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 10:26 PM CST
Hello,
We have never met, but we are a family who is also blessed with precious daughters from China. I don't know what brought you to my mind tonight, perhaps it was the Lord. Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I stopped by your site and once again looked at your beautiful Marissa. We prayed for her during her illness and I said a prayer for you tonight, as I know that it must still be so hard. May you feel God's loving arms wrapped around you.
Christi (mom to two from China)
Paige, 9, from Guangxi
Claire, 6, from Jiangxi

Christi Worthington <yuping@ca.rr.com>
Menifee, CA USA - Sunday, November 16, 2008 10:07 PM CST
Hello Kim & Family,
I wanted to let you know just how beautiful I think your daughter and family are. Reading your journal painted a picture of a woman with a beautiful heart open to loving all mankind. I want you to know that I will pray for you and your family to heal and remember all the good times you shared with her, together. Thank your son for fighting for our wonderful country and ensuring that all of us have our freedom. What a hero he is. You must be very proud.

K. DuCharme <arizonamess@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 2, 2008 7:59 PM CDT
Hello Kim,
I ready your post on the Dianbai website today and I wanted you to know that Marissa is not forgotten by me and my daughter Lindsay from Dianbai. Today was the 10th reunion of my Lindsay being placed in my arms for the first time. I cannot imagine a day without her and feel bad that you have to feel that sadness. We use the notes that we bought with Marissa's artwork on them from Love Without Boundaries. It reminds us of her, but also how quickly it can be gone. Know that you are in our prayers.

Walter, Dale and Lindsay Watts <wwatts1952@yahoo.com>
Vassalboro, ME USA - Monday, September 29, 2008 6:54 PM CDT
Remembering Marissa who changed so many lives
A friend <minky@aol.com>
Somewhere, CA USA - Thursday, September 18, 2008 6:17 PM CDT
Hi Kim,

You know that you all are always on our mind, and your sweet Marissa will never be forgotten by our family.... We actually had Cheyenne's Memorial Rally this year on the 13th, and were able to tell a lot of people about childhood cancer. Hug all your kids for us and thank you for what you do.

Roy Fiveash
Cheyenne's Daddy
www.caringbridge.org/tx/cheyenne5

Roy Fiveash <rfiveash@wcc.net>
San Angelo, tx - Monday, September 15, 2008 11:56 AM CDT
All of you are always in our hearts. Marissa's memory will be cherished by all who knew her, and we know that she is a prayer warrior in heaven for us.



The Phillips Family
Wamego, KS USA - Sunday, September 14, 2008 8:47 PM CDT
To Marissa's dear family, I read your message to Nikki Weinberg and looked up your page. I am so partial to Asian children because I have a nephew, age 27, and niece, age 24, who were adopted from Korea. They are so very special to me and I love them so much.

Ten years before I was born, I had a 3 year old sister who was killed in a car accident so I know what it is like to grow up in a home where a child has gone to be with the Lord. Mom hated abortion because she said it is much easier to add a plate at the table than to take one away. My sister died in 1941 and my precious Mom died this June 4th at the age of 97. It helps me deal with the loss of Mom to know that she is once again with her little girl after 67 years. You have that to look forward to some day. God's blessings to all of you.

Norene Wuchte
Rochelle, IL USA - Friday, September 12, 2008 10:43 PM CDT
I found your sight from Coleman Larson's care page. You little girl is beautiful. May God Bless all the families that are in this terrible battle called "cancer". I have signed the petition and am a member of St. Jude's, I receive a picture of a child fighting cancer monthly and it is a monster. You are all in my familys prayers.
Patsy
Lake Worth, FL - Friday, September 12, 2008 1:02 PM CDT
I think so often about Anna and when I do I think about all the other grieving parents I know and lift us all in prayer. We so need our Lord's comfort, peace and encouragement. I pray you are held closely in His arms as Marissa's Homegoing anniversary approaches.

"I send my weary heart to all; Who shed those tears of pain; With caring tears from my own eyes; my message to you will be; my friend, I pray for thee." (from the poem "I Pray for Thee" , in the collection of prose and poems "If I Could. . .", all by Paul McCutcheon, oldguy05@hughes.net

Yolanda, Mom to Anna <weloveanna@embarqmail.com>
Alt Springs, FL USA - Monday, September 1, 2008 7:14 PM CDT
Hi Burghart family. I still come back and check on Marissa's page from time to time. I know I don't comment but I do think of you still, I will never forget! I can't believe how many years have gone by. I'm now married and have a 2nd baby on the way. Kaylyn is well, and my Mother just beat Breast Cancer. Terrible knowing cancer is everywhere. I wish I had the oppertunity to know your beautiful Marissa personally, because if her personality was as beautiful as she looks, than I'm sure she was just amazing! I will pray for you guys, and your son in the military. My husband served in the Army for 7 years and plans on joining once again, it is hard but an honorable thing to do. I'm sure you're very proud of him! Anyway, take care and God Bless!
http://www.beardfam08.wordpress.com/

Erin Beard (Kaylyn Mei Wacker's sister)
MI USA - Sunday, August 24, 2008 11:08 PM CDT
My condolences, what a beautiful child. I know you will always miss her.
Cindy Lassiter <shotpusher@myway.com>
Lucama, NC USA - Thursday, August 21, 2008 2:18 PM CDT
What a beautiful child. Heaven wanted this angel home, but she will always be remembered on Earth as well. May God Bless Marissa and her loving Family.
Sally <sally.chaney@gmail.com>
Fairfield, CA USA - Saturday, August 9, 2008 4:05 PM CDT
Dearest Marissa,

Whenever I need a ray of sunshine, I will come here to your memorial and look at your beautiful smile! Please give a hug to my son Robbie--perhaps he is your playmate.

Love and lots of hugs,
Saralyn (Angel Robbie's Mom)

Saralyn McAfee Smith <saralyn@cox.net>
Dodge City, KS USA - Thursday, July 31, 2008 4:25 PM CDT
Oh, and I have to say, the pictures are gorgeous! You have a GREAT family, and they are all growing up so fast! Marissa's memorial stone is so beautiful, just like that little girl! I love the red thread proverb on the back.
Deb Harrop <gaolimin620@yahoo.com>
Topeka, Ks USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 3:44 PM CDT
I will never forget Marissa! Her smiling face is etched in my mind, and I keep thinking about her every time I look at my own daughter, Marie. Marissa was my inspiration, and I am thankful for that! I check this site often and say prayers for the whole family.
Deb Harrop <gaolimin620@yahoo.com>
Topeka, Ks USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 3:35 PM CDT
MY name is Cherry Schenck,and i have to thank you for the gift of Faith,Trust,Honor and the Glory you give to our Lord Jesus Christ.We have just lost a young man(27) to a horrific motorcycle accident,and his brother(my son) and sisters are not handling this senseless death to well,so your journal brings me great comfort,and i will pass this site to my christian friends and ask all of them to pray for you and your family where ever they are in this world,God Bless you!Also,the pictures of your children are precious!Marissa looks indeed like a contented little cherub!
cherry schenck <cherryschenck@hotmail.com>
Bakersfield, Ca. U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 1:20 AM CDT
Dear Marissa,

I got to meet your wonderful mom at the Kansas University Orientation in Lawrence last week. She wasn't kidding when she spoke of how special you were/are. I love the photos of you! I thought she may just be a proud mom bragging about you, but, not true. Your smile and your eyes say it all. She sure misses you. I loved hearing about you and your sisters and brothers. Maybe your little sister, Ava and my little girl, Audrey will be college roommates one day! I sure feel blessed getting to know you through your mom. I think we may have annoyed the guy sitting in front of us at some boring presentation because we were whispering and talking all about you! He'll get over it, I'm sure! I know you are with God, so you rest peacefully, little angel!

Laura Nolen <lauranolen001@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Sunday, July 13, 2008 8:48 PM CDT
Marissa even though I never met you there is not a chance I could ever forget you. Ever since I first read your story about gardens, ponies and the color purple I could never stop thinking about you. And what a coincidence that I am wearing a purple shirt today, or is it really? I am writing this from work were I have one of your pictures up on the wall with some of my own children's pictures. It is the one of the tree with the squrriel and the fox. I look at it often. It is a special picture and I will always have it on the wall to look at and remind me of you. God bless and even though we may not write as often as we should, we could never forget you. You have made such an eneormous difference in our lives and that will live on forever.
Jim Dolan <jdolan1@voicenet.com>
Phoenixville, PA USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2008 1:44 PM CDT
a beautiful little angel!! god took you by the hand to brighten up the heavenly stars, that lights up our path, to the heavens above! rest in peace little angel baby..
pet <mommydearest4111@aol.com>
reno, nv lion - Thursday, December 20, 2007 4:20 PM CST
We have been thinking of you a lot lately, Marissa, and your family too. What fun we had knowing you while you were on this earth. I know you are having great times in heaven- I'll bet you are playing with animals. We love you always.
The Ungerer Family

Mary Ungerer <jmungerer@sbcglobal.net>
Topeka, KS USA - Thursday, September 20, 2007 7:39 PM CDT
Such a beautiful and much loved little girl....she was a special little girl to have found such a loving and giving family,and you where blessed to have had such a sweet little angel touch your lives forever..God be with the ones that loved her so...
kathy
clinton twp., mi USA - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 9:41 PM CDT
God bless you little angel!! I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family with all my heart! Sending BIG (((HUGS))) to you up in Heaven!! Happy Birthday my sweetest little friend!!
Love you always,
Mrs. Kelly

Lisa Kelly <ellekellyks@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, September 19, 2007 3:14 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Sweet Marissa

Love and Prayer to you Kim and Family

Love Kim and Emily McEllen
www.caringbridge.org/il/emilymcellen

Kim McEllen <pkremcelen@grics.net>
Galesburg, Il USA - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 10:33 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Marissa
I love you and thank you for just being who you were and are.

A Friend <someonesomewherewhocares@gelrock.net>
Somewhere, USA USA - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 8:36 PM CDT
Remembering you as both Marissa's birthday and Homegoing anniversary approach. I am so grateful that, while this heaviest of burdens will always lay upon us weighing even heavier on these days, our Lord has also given His blessed, blessed hope. May this hope and comfort continue to encourage your hearts till we hold our beloved children in Heaven.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna <weloveanna@earthlink.net>
Alt Spgs, FL USA - Saturday, September 15, 2007 7:46 PM CDT
Hi!
I am sorry to hear about your daughter's passing. She would have been 11 years old this year. She is now safe in Jesus' arms. God Bless!!

Paula Anne Brown <hrbpamb7@bellsouth.net>
College Park, GA United States - Sunday, May 27, 2007 6:57 PM CDT
I came to your site via your posting on Find a Grave. I can tell how much your daughter is loved and missed. I hope GOD gives you peace.
Tina (SilentVice - Find a Grave)
Augusta, GA USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 2:08 AM CDT
I came across your site and had to write.
My daughter Melissa was 3 in Jan. 02 when she too was diagnosed with the same type of brain tumor. She passed away on Sept. 14, 2003. We will never recover from such a loss and never understand it. I hope you are doing as well as can be expected.

Diane Kruzshak <kkruzshak@hvc.rr.com>
Milford, OH USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 7:30 PM CST
I came across your site and had to write.
My daughter Melissa was 3 in Jan. 02 when she too was diagnosed with the same type of brain tumor. She passed away on Sept. 14, 2003. We will never recover from such a loss and never understand it. I hope you are doing as well as can be expected.

Diane Kruzshak <kkruzshak@hvc.rr.com>
Milford, OH USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 7:29 PM CST
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Mark <Mark>
Berlin, Berlin USA - Friday, March 2, 2007 11:34 AM CST
I cannot imagine. My wife and I adopted a little girl from China about a year and half ago. Your strength amazes me because I know how quickly your heart is stolen by a little one. If something happened to my daughter...I don't like to think what my reaction would be; probably not with the grace you have shown. I am not a religious person but in my own way I will pray and think of you often.
Steve Sukawaty <ssukawaty@mtsd.k12.wi.us>
Mequon, wi USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 11:05 AM CST

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