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Vicki-Best wishes to you as you start this next round of chemo! I'm praying that the tumors will start shrinking.The picture of Claire is absolutely adorable! She just keeps getting cuter! Stay strong as you continue this battle and keep fighting hard!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL 60194 - Friday, January 6, 2006 7:21 PM CST

I have read your journal since it started and have always had your family in my thoughts and prayers. I continue to pray that you recover quickly and was glad to hear you made it back to NJ safely.
Debbie <jgilbride@comcast.net>
Roslindale, MA - Friday, January 6, 2006 12:19 AM CST

Good luck with your chemo and welcome back to NJ!!!
Lisa (Bond) <mericletwins@aol.com>
CMCH, NJ - Friday, January 6, 2006 7:38 AM CST

Thinking of you today, Vicki as you start your next chemo round. God Bless you. Happy New year.

Lisa Gaskill, rich, richie and graceanne
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Friday, January 6, 2006 6:50 AM CST

Vicki & Iain - I'm glad you're getting settled in NJ and I'm sure it's a great comfort to be near family again. I admire your strength, courage, and gutsy determination so much. You're not just terrific parents, you're terrific people. I'm honored to know you.
Beth --JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Thursday, January 5, 2006 4:45 PM CST

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,

Just checking in to wish you many blessings in 2006. I am glad the relocation to NJ went well. Know that you are always in my prayers.

Love,
Denise

Denise Rodak <dyr113@yahoo.com>
W. Caldwell, NJ - Wednesday, January 4, 2006 8:27 PM CST

I wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking of you. I hope you had a nice Christmas and a happy new year. 2006 is going to be a great year for all of you. ((Hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Wednesday, January 4, 2006 6:49 PM CST

Vicki -
Just got your email, and the news; I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear all you've all had to endure, but I'm so glad you are with your family, and the girls and Iain are well. Keep in touch, and stay strong!
Michele Hart <mghart@verizon.net>
Palmetto, FL USA - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 6:40 PM CST

Just read Vicki's update from December 24 - Men and women really ARE from different planets, aren't they?! Ha ha, just kidding! All the updates are great, whether they be Iain's wicked humor or Vicki's heartfelt message (which made me cry, by the way - thanks a LOT Vicki!) :-) I will be thinking of you and praying for you during this next round of chemo.

All my love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 9:10 AM CST

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,
It was great to get to see you & spend some time together last week. (We thoroughly enjoyed the yummy dinner & between me & you I was very happy that there was no pasta involved!) It was also wonderful to see your Mom, Dad & Sara. Hopefully once our move to Atlanta is complete we will be back in NJ a little more frequently. Good luck with the chemo next week. Stay strong & we know that 2006 will be filled with wonderful things for all of you!
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 8:14 AM CST

Vicki - glad to see that you took my advice and did the
update this time. ;) Something is not right here in
Illinois. I got back from Texas and you were gone.
I miss you and your family so much. In fact, as soon as I
can get someone to buy this house, I am going to get the
heck out of here. ;) Love you dearly!
Margie <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Monday, January 2, 2006 5:26 PM CST

Hey, guys, Michelle and I wish your family all the best for the New Year. This website is such a great thing allowing us to share in your journey. Hope to see you soon.
William and Michelle Skorupinski <willskor@hotmail.com>
Ottawa , ON CANADA - Monday, January 2, 2006 12:21 AM CST

We sincerely will keep you in our prayers as you start Chemo Jan. 6th. Vivian keeps us all up to date (members of St. Michaels Lutheran Church) We think the move to the east coast was best for all of you. There is nothing like family.
Wayne & Barbara Jonassen <jon1139@sbcglobal.net>
LaGrange Park, Il Cook - Monday, January 2, 2006 9:25 AM CST

Vicki, wishing you and Iain - and your beautiful girls - a brilliant New Year. As the year turns, may it bring you health and healing - and may you always be aware how much you are loved.
Janice Maffei <jmaffei@visionfirst.com>
North Caldwell, NJ - Sunday, January 1, 2006 9:13 PM CST

Dear Vicki & family,
Hello, I am a "long lost" childhood friend of Vicki's and just recieved message this holiday season from my mother (Jennifer Douglas) of your family's story. I hold you all in my thoughts & prayers. Vicki, we had some wonderful times as kids together along with our brother's (Jay & Mark). My love and best wishes for a miraculous new year! Love, Dawn
Dawn (Douglas) Fritzsch <U1058863@warwick.net>
Highland Lakes, NJ USA - Sunday, January 1, 2006 11:40 AM CST

Stopping by to wish you a happy, healthy and love filled New Year!!
Tracy (FOA-Fundraising Leader) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Sunday, January 1, 2006 10:38 AM CST

Hi Vicki et al,
So glad you are here in NJ and I hope to be able to visit you all soon. I'm sure you all had a very exciting Christmas. We've been thinking of you and keep you in our prayers. Love to the whole family - and Happy Birthday - belated - to your father! Your mother and I love those Capricorn guys!

Love, Shirlee
Shirlee Faehenr <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ - Saturday, December 31, 2005 12:20 AM CST

Hi Vicki and Iain,

Thanks for the update. I hope you had a lovely NJ Christmas and Happy New Year! I am happy to hear you will be in good hands at MSK. Please e-mail your new address when you have a minute (yeah, right!)As always, you are all in my thoughts.
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Thursday, December 29, 2005 9:26 AM CST

Hey Vicki - I thought of you often over the holiday. Hope you all had a great time celebrating. When you get a second, send me a quick email with your new address. Love you tons! SaraT
Sara Thilges <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Los Angeles, CA - Thursday, December 29, 2005 0:11 AM CST

Vicki,
Hope you had a Merry Christmas with all of your family out East. Wishing you all the best in the New Year. I will continue to pray for you and hope this next round of chemo goes well. We will miss you at bunco. Take care and keep smiling.
Sue Richards <srichard1011@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 9:52 PM CST

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
We hope you had a wonderful Christmas and may the New Year be full of good news!
Can't wait to see you all!!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 6:48 PM CST

Vicki & Family,
Happy Holidays! I'm glad that you'll be 'home' in NJ with family during the next phase. My hopes & prayers are with you now and always. My heart still smiles whenever I think of you.
Kelly Toman <stelly@comcast.net>
Highlands Ranch, CO - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 1:08 PM CST

Dear Vicki, I wish I could see you and give you a hug. I think of you as one of my "kids". I often think of all the times you were at my home in Long Valley, playing with Erin and Laura. I remeber the first day we saw you walking with Barbara down the street. We had just been to the lot and the girls saw you from the back seat of the car. Remember the splinter in your foot (more like a plank)? Your Mom had to come over to take it out! How about Reggie's flying leaps off your front porch. Or his hiding behind the dryer for your Dad's surprise party! Some watch dog he was.

God Bless you, Vicki. We pray this new round of chemo will be a miracle and make you cancer free. Lots of love, Linda
Linda Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head, SC - Tuesday, December 27, 2005 10:11 AM CST

Hi Vicki & Iain- Glad to hear you're in NJ. Hope you had a nice Christmas- the mild weather is welcoming you. I'll be in touch soon. Love ya, Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Monday, December 26, 2005 9:25 PM CST

Sending adjustment pills for your new regime in Montville. Feels so good to know that you are all under one roof--of course that's a bit different than living it, heh. Imagine Dog is making the best of it, always glad to enlarge his pack. We spent the Big Day (25th) w/ Norens--had a Sort of Swedish Buffet. Andrew & Kristen were hydrogen-powered, incredibly busy. Andrew is prodigy--plays Uno like a pro, complete w/ strategy. I was 52 before I knew games had strategy!Scott looked terrific and made us a great egg & veggie pie for breakfast this am. He's going back to school for 2nd MA in Sept so he can teach at college level. He'll be superb. Sending love, prayers and a couple of miracles your way. Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell
chatsworth, ca usa - Monday, December 26, 2005 4:56 PM CST

Laura, Gary, Stephanie, Sam and Ryan wish you a very Merry Christmas! We are thinking of you and praying for all of you. All our love always, Laura
Laura Carey Walker <glwalker@adelphia.net>
Hampden, ME - Monday, December 26, 2005 11:39 AM CST

Dear Vicki and Co.,
Happy Holidays! Your update was much appreciated and the new picture is such a treasure! We hope your Holiday Weekend was filled with joy! We continue to send a special hug and prayer every time we pass by your house! And with as many trips to Walgreens alone...that adds up to a lot of hugs and prayers. What did we do and where did we go before the Walgreens on the corner came into our lives? McKenna enjoyed her Christmas Day and Santa was very good to her! We will be thinking of you as you start your rounds in January. The East Coast is shining brighter with all of you there--you all have such a wonderful spirit!
Love, Debbie and McKenna
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Monday, December 26, 2005 11:39 AM CST

MY CHRISTMAS ANGEL
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Sunday, December 25, 2005 9:41 PM CST

It's Christmas morning and we're thinking of you, Vicki, and your family. Although I don't post often, I keep up with your website and pray for your health always.
Blessings from the Todd family,
Amber, John Mark, McKenzie & Kaylee
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Sunday, December 25, 2005 9:11 AM CST

Vicki and Family,

It's Christmas Eve and I was sitting here thinking of you and decided to check and see if there was an update...and there was! So glad to hear that you are sucessfully moved. Speaking of moving, I recently moved and have not had an internet connection for weeks. I am sorry that I missed wishing you a Happy Birthday and a Happy Thanksgiving. I will miss you! Your family is beautiful and I wish all of you a very Merry Christmas and a MUCH happier 2006! You are always in my prayers. Please continue to keep us all posted!!

Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@comcast.net>
Hawthorn Woods, IL USA - Saturday, December 24, 2005 9:05 PM CST

Dear Iain, Vicki and Girls: I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers throughout the holidays and always! I wish you all the best in New Jersey!

Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Saturday, December 24, 2005 11:26 AM CST

Merry Christmas to a wonderful Family.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj 08690 - Friday, December 23, 2005 9:11 PM CST

Merry Christmas Phillip's Family! I hope you have a great holiday and safe travels. I'm glad to hear that Claire is doing so well and that Vicki is feeling great. Get to work, chemo!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, December 23, 2005 10:24 AM CST

Merry Christmas and happy travels, Phillips family!
We will see you in NJ in no time, I guess Chicago has
prepared you for the harsh cold of this lovely state.
Vicki, the Sparklers think of you always, and I feel so lucky I get to see you soon. Be safe and be happy.
Sophia and I send good wishes!
Stacy <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
Middlesex, nj - Friday, December 23, 2005 9:14 AM CST

Well since we are assuming we have missed you in Chicago
and not sure when you are arriving in NJ - Barry, myself
Bogart, Mutz, Viper, Lester, Swish, Pee Wee and the little
peanut want to wish you all a very MERRY CHRISTMAS AND
HAPPY NEW YEAR. You have the determination to beat this
and we are thinking of you always. Love Alison and Barry
P.S. - I know you are probably inundated with stuff right now but if you get a chance to drop us a line with a phone number where we can reach you we would love to speak to over the holidays.
Alison Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Thursday, December 22, 2005 2:34 PM CST

Iain and Vicki - I wish you a blessed holiday and I hope NJ makes the difference in your fight with cancer. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. We are really rooting for you.
Rose Lim <Duffylim@aol.com>
Wadsworth, Il USA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 12:51 AM CST

Just wanted to wish your family a very Merry Christmas and wishes for a very Good and Healthy New Year.
Marlynne Fox <mfox@ashland.com>
Hackettstown, NJ USA - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 12:36 AM CST

You remain in my thoughts and prayers. All the best to you for the holiday season and the new year. May 2006 bring you great things!
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 8:26 AM CST

Vicki & Iain, it was great seeing you & the girls on Saturday. I can't believe how big Claire is now! I wish you all the best with the move. You can do this! You know the Illinois-ians are sorry to see you all go, but it sounds like the New Jersey-ites (?) are very excited to welcome you to your new home! Happy Holidays and much love, Melanie
Melanie <melkeller75@yahoo.com>
Chicago , IL - Monday, December 19, 2005 1:08 PM CST

I know the scans are disappointing, but We have faith, and truly believe you are going to beat this thing! So hurry up and get here so you can kick some cancer butT!!!
Is a drum set a bad gift idea when you are living with grandparents?!
Can't wait to see you!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, December 18, 2005 6:50 PM CST

Dear Phillips,
It truly speaks volumes about all of you that two states would go to battle to "keep" you, but I know that the love and support of your family and extended NJ family will be a fantastic thing for all of you! You have learned this year the importance of family and they will be lucky to have your spirit and smile on their doorstep! Enjoy the holidays as you kick some cancer "butt." We will keep up the prayers for better scans.
P.S. The horse on a stick is actually an investment as McKenna at the age of 6 still enjoys getting hers out from time to time!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Friday, December 16, 2005 5:05 PM CST

Dear Vicki,
Just got your parent's annual Christmas letter and just wanted to let you know you're in our prayers. We have fond memories of our times together [remember the Waldwick, NJ municipal pool, Calvary Church and a week sharing a house on Long Beach Island?]. Love Iain's comments - he must be a wonderful husband and father. Your daughters sound lovely and fun [Dawn has a daughter [named Sarah, like your sister, who will be 3 in January and Mark has a son who will be three March 31 and a daughter who will be two June 2], so I know how busy you must be. Hope your move goes smoothly, your treatments eradicate the disease and you are fully restored to good health. God bless you and your family.
Love, Jennifer and Curt Douglas [now living on Cape Cod in Massachusetts]
Jenifer Douglas
South Chatham, MA USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 2:48 PM CST

Hello Phillips Family
I am a friend of Vicki's mother from LaGrange, Il, Ann Kaloides (Glendon). Sandi and I played with dolls, played house and had tea parties. We shared many wonderful Saturdays in dress ups and our parents were bridge partners. (This was fun because we got to stay up late.)
My husband Jim and I have two grown girls, Amy and Julie. The youngest one, Julie, was always very small like your Maddy. We celebrated with a dinner out on the day she was in the 1st % on the charts in fifth grade!!! (She had always been in the negetive percentiles until that time.)She weighed 32# in kindergarten and the teacher thought she was kindergartener's sibling in the wrong room! She turned out great! Don't worry about Maddy's size, she doesn't.
Our family in Minnestoa is keeping all your family in our hearts. We know that love is the best gift of all, and you seem to be getting a wonderful helping of it.
Jim and Ann Kaloides <akaloides@mn.rr.com>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Friday, December 16, 2005 9:27 AM CST

Hi Phillips: Call Oprah! You need a staff of dozens to do what you're doing! Mere mortals can't take care of two wee ones, pack a house, and move half way across the country in December. Sorry the housing market is so slow there--All the visitors (Connie & Mindy) have told me what a great house and yard you have. Wishing you all the best on this next adventure. We grandparents need some diversions to keep us from getting too set in our ways...it's a good thing to take the dog and the girls . You might have to remind Sandi & Jack to count their blessings--Bogie the rambuctious, ADHD 2 year old, overgrown golden stays in California. Love & prayers, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
- Thursday, December 15, 2005 1:12 PM CST

So sorry to hear about the scans. I know you will beat this. Good luck on your move.

Debbie <jgilbride@comcast.net>
Roslindale, MA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 12:06 AM CST

Hi Phillips gang,
Sorry about the not so great news but keep the faith. You guys will beat this! We wil be home in NJ from the 23rd to the 1st so if there is ANYTHING at all that you need help with that week (Rides, babaysitting, etc) please let me know. I'd love to use the opportunity to help since we haven't been able to yet. Vick, I'll call you before we head home next Friday to touch base so we can make some plans. I am sure if I need to, my mother in law will be more than happy to baby sit Max. Still haven't sold our house but we may have found one in Acworth, Georgia so we'll be south bound wihtin a few months.
Take care & we'll talk soon,
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Thursday, December 15, 2005 10:32 AM CST

Wow what a gorgeous new shot of Ms. Claire! And bon voyage to NJ. We will miss you here (I know I've been such a FREQUENT visitor ), but my largest client is in High Bridge, NJ (suburban Philly) so I may see you there! At least we have the guestbook, right? Much love and good energy to you all and may 2006 bring a few miracles large & small! take care,
Janet Taylor <janettaylor04@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL - Thursday, December 15, 2005 9:01 AM CST

I love you all very much , and enjoy this magical time of the year with friends and family. Vicki, keep californian dreamin. Here's to a safe trip to NJ and that santa brings everything Maddy and Claire want( and that their parents can put up with, like really noisy toys or dolls that repeat the same thing over and over again.) Vicki, you will Beat this terrible disease, I know it in my heart and I know you know it to. Love to all, LIsa Gaskill PS John, my brother met up with Kerry and gang in Georga last week and they had an awesome dinner together. Laura, my sister in law is looking forward to spending more time with them.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Thursday, December 15, 2005 8:54 AM CST

Vicki -
I just got your mother's Christmas letter! You have our
prayers and wishes for all the best for your move, a new
home, and for the coming new year.
Your daughters sound absolutely adorable!
Joan Corwin <joancorwin@yahoo.com>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 10:15 PM CST

Hope all is well. Can't wait to have you back home.
Love you all!
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, December 11, 2005 7:04 PM CST

I love you Vicki.
Beth Nelson <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN 46614 - Friday, December 9, 2005 10:16 PM CST

Vicki - I was just reading all your entries from friends in NJ who are excited that you will be there soon.
I know that this is the right move for you all and that you will have
a wonderful support system there, but I'm getting tears in my eyes thinking
of how much Peyton and I will miss you guys. Seriously, how am I going to manage
without "my Vicki" here???? All you folks in NJ are just so darn lucky.
I can't believe we only have 10 days left to cram in as much time together
as possible.
I love you dearly!!!! Margie

Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Friday, December 9, 2005 7:40 PM CST

NJ is anxiously awaiting your arrival!Hey, it's a great state - put aside the traffic and the occasional surly attitude - we're a fun bunch of people here and we're delighted you're coming our way. Vicki - I know you will miss your fine friends in Illinois. That said, there's a wonderful bunch of people to welcome you here. You've got yourself two spectacular daughters and one amazing husband. Can't wait to visit with you face to face. Thinking of you all the time. Love, Janice
Janice Maffei <jmaffei@visionfirst.com>
North Caldwell, NJ - Friday, December 9, 2005 3:59 PM CST

Hi, Vicki!
How adorable is that little baby? Oh, and the pictures of Maddy are so cute. I swear, Ian is writing about our lives, too. We should have bought Disney stock before Cinderella came out. WE are all about Cinderella these days - we watch it 2 times a day. Some funny stories from our neck of the woods... As of today, Hope has imaginary friend, no, I'm sorry, it is actually, or they are actually an imaginary monster family. She told me about the first monster throwing something at her. So, we kicked him out the front door. When we closed the door, she said that the baby monster was still here. So I said, "Can you play with the baby monster?" She said "Sure" and sat down and started playing patty cake with it. Then she proceeded to 'wrap' it up in a blanket because 'he has to take a nap'. And then I said, 'give him some tea'. I went to the kitchen to do dishes and I heard the front door open. I said, 'Hope, why is the front door open?' She said, 'He wanted to talk. The baby monster does not want any tea.' So, not only have I gone off the deep end, but my family is following me! Same day, I guess I didn't feed them early enough. Luke climbed up in the kitchen pantry, got down a box of pop tarts and handed them out to everyone. Then proceeded to grab a gallon of milk out of the fridge and brought it to me. Zack didn't do anything too crazy today. And I have to get to bed soon.

I am sorry to hear that you are moving to NJ. Illinois won't be the same. It'll be great to be near your family and east end friends. The girls will LOVE it! I keep thinking about all the fun we had at ComEd. It just seems like ages ago. Keep up the postings, so we can still keep in touch. I want to see those cute little pics! You are in my prayers and thoughts all the time. I wish you only the best, Vicki! Love you guys lots!
Cindy Tschosik <tschosik94@comcast.net>
Downers Grove, IL USA - Friday, December 9, 2005 1:21 AM CST

Vicki-It was so good to catch up with you today and I look forward to seeing you soon! Even though I know moving to NJ is what's best for you and your family right now, I will miss you a lot!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL 60194 - Thursday, December 8, 2005 7:19 PM CST

Hi Gang! I had so much fun seeing you over Thanksgiving. Can't wait until you are home here for good! Love ya. Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:25 AM CST

Hi Vicki and Ian,
It is so wonderful that you are moving back to Long Valley! It is such a great place to raise a young family. Being close to your family Vicki, makes it more special. Wishing you a blessed Christmas and Happy New Year! Your girls are precious! Treasure every minute with them as they grow so fast! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! I hope to stop by to say hello the next time I am visiting up north!

Sylvia and Pat Tylka <sylviatyl@aol.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 9:16 AM CST

Sophia is looking forward to more play-dohs... I mean play dates... with Maddie. Maybe Maddie can give her some pointers on pull ups and potty time. The situation not withstanding, ( is that the correct term?) I am happy you are moving close to us. Do I see a game night in our future? Maybe our 70's style split levels will be in the same neck of the woods. Thinking of you always! BTW you make some seriously awesome pumpkin bread.
Stacy and Sophia <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
Middlesex, NJ - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 8:31 AM CST

I know it's been like forever since I've visited you.
I have just been so busy.
But I think of you always.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 8:20 PM CST

Wow, a move to NJ. I'm sorry you have to move, but being able to be close to family is a great thing. I hope the move goes well and I will have to check in on all of you as Christmas gets closer.
Tracy (FOA-Fundraising Leader) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 7:34 PM CST

Hi Guys,
It was great to see all of you at Thanksgiving. Now I know what I have been missing all these years by not being home for the post Thanksgiving brunch! We booked our flights home for Christmas yesterday & will be in town from the 23rd through the 1st so we will need to make some plans to get together for another visit. As far as moving goes - we are flying to Atlanta this weekend so keep yoru fingers crossed that we find a place to live!
Talk to you soon ! We think of you often!
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 10:57 AM CST

It was so nice finally seeing you guys again over Thanksgiving. I'm looking forward to lots more play dates! Good luck with the packing and the move. Maybe we can meet up over Christmas!
Love,
Rebecca
Rebecca <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 9:03 PM CST

Hi Vicki, Ian, and family. Vicki, Happy VERY Belated Birthday! Better late than never - haha! I hope you and your family are having a very happy, and healthy holiday season. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I am excited for you and your migration east. You need all the love and support you can get. Moving closer to home will help but you will be sorely missed in the mid west. Travel safely. The baby pictures are adorable! Beautiful!!!
Kelly Christopher Moran <kellyachristopher@yahoo.com>
Redondo Beach, CA USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 1:22 PM CST

Hi Vicki,
So great seeing you and the girls before Thxgiving - Ben, Zach, and I had such a fun day visiting you! I am happy that you will be moving near family and getting the absolute best treatment possible - we sure will miss you in IL! Wishing you lots of love and strength in the coming months; I'll check often for updates as they are great. Love, Tracy
Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
chicago, il - Monday, December 5, 2005 11:12 AM CST

I know how much you will all love to be back with family, but we midwesterners will miss you so much! I love you dearly, Phillipses!!!
Beth Nelson <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Monday, December 5, 2005 10:51 AM CST

Hola Phillips' Family,
It was so great to see you all over Thanksgiving and selfishly, we can't wait until you're back here again: )If I see a really neat 70's style split on the market, I'll be sure to send you the MLS: )
Love,
Nic and Tim
Nicole and Tim Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.co>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Monday, December 5, 2005 10:30 AM CST

Dear Phillips,
So glad to hear you had a great time in NJ. We sent a prayer "to the east" everytime we drove by your street over the long weekend. What a busy time with an upcoming move and the holidays, but you are right about watching the "magic" in Maddy's eyes! They are very precious! Please keep up the updates no matter which state is lucky enough to have you at the moment!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Monday, December 5, 2005 10:00 AM CST

Hi guys,
Well glad to hear that you had a great thanksgiving. Of course it is a still a little weird for us to be wishing you happy thanksgiving in November (ha ha). Good luck with the move. I am sure that everyone in NJ is going to be thrilled to have you back and that everyone in Chicago is going to miss you. Let us know when you get settled in as NJ is a doable drive for us and maybe we can get down to see you. Merry Christmas and love and hugs to you all. Love always Alison and Barry
Alison J. Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Monday, December 5, 2005 8:41 AM CST

NJ welcomes you with open arms. Love you and Merry Christmas. Love lisa and the gang.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Sunday, December 4, 2005 4:36 PM CST

Dear Vicki and Iain, I'm looking forward to seeing you over the Christmas holiday if you are in NJ then! I hope the move goes smoothly for you. We love you and keep you in our prayers daily! Give the girls a hug and kiss from me. Love, Laura and Gary
Laura Carey Walker <glwalker@adelphia.net>
Hampden, ME USA - Sunday, December 4, 2005 10:30 AM CST

Dear Vicki and Iain, We are so glad you'll be near Vicki's family. You are always in our prayers. Your girls are sooo beautiful. Have a very Merry Christmas! Lots of love, Linda and Tom

Linda and Tom Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
- Sunday, December 4, 2005 10:26 AM CST

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Chubby Big Head,
It was wonderful to see you all. I can't wait to see you more often. Hope the trip back home was relatively painless.
Much love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 7:03 PM CST

I haven't been here in a while because today is the first time I'm seeing the new picture of Claire. OMG she is so darn adorable. I was looking at the photos in the album, the one with you and her little hand, and its amazing how much she has grown. I hope that Viki is doing ok. My thoughts are with you all. Have a great week!
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Monday, November 28, 2005 1:43 AM CST

Vicki - I'm a little late with both the Birthday AND Thanksgiving wishes, but both are sincere. Just wanted you to know that I think of you often & one of these days, I might just travel beyond the Chicago City Limits and head to the 'burbs for a visit. I saw Snoop's birthday greetings - very impressive (more impressive that Iain actually knows what Snoop is thinking!). :)
Michelle R (ChicagoUncorked) <speedracer@ameritech.net>
Chicago, IL - Saturday, November 26, 2005 5:55 PM CST

Happy(Belated)Birthday!
Wishing you a safe trip to Jersey and a Happy Thanksgiving!

Deanna <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 10:19 AM CST

Happy Belated Birthday Vicki! I love the birthday greetings from Snoop, Maddy and Claire!! I had no idea your children and your dog were so ADVANCED!!! I hope you all have a wonderful, warm, delicious Thanksgiving Holiday!

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 9:57 AM CST

Vickie - Happy belated birthday, and happy thanksgiving to your family. Your children are gorgeous! Hope you are feeling well - the Tylka's all send their best (Mom and Dad tylka too!). Enjoy the holiday weekend! Love always, Shawn
Shawn Tylka <tylka5@aol.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Monday, November 21, 2005 11:52 AM CST

Ok I suck.....Happy Birthday. But there is a loop hole...we are celebrating on Wednesday and that threw me off....I think that the pestisides are affecting my memory! Hope you had a great Birthday! Wish I was there! LOVE YA! JAY (& Kathy too...)
Jay Thoele <jaythoele@yahoo.com>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Friday, November 18, 2005 10:37 PM CST

Happy Birthday Vicki! In my family we do birthday week. That means lots of celebrating and special treatment all week long. Consider yourself queen for the week.
Beth Slaughter
Lake Zurich, IL - Friday, November 18, 2005 0:12 AM CST

Happy Birthday Vicki! Hope you have a great day. I'm glad you're not doing chemo during it. I sent a card on your hotmail account Vicki. Hope you still have that account. Loooooovvvvvvvveeeeeeee the pictures of the girls. They are awesome!! Look forward to seeing you all again soon. Hugs and kisses and lots of love, Laura
Laura Carey Walker <glwalker@adelphia.net>
Hampden, ME USA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 6:21 PM CST

Happy Birthday Vicki!! Have a great day. The girls are getting so big.
Niki Fox <lzfox@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 4:20 PM CST

Happy Birthday, nice lady.
Do I smell squirrel? Are you going to finish that?
Maybe I should get some water.
Man, I really like bacon.
....what am I doing on this website? I can't type!
damn my small brain.
Snoop the Dog <theothersnoopdoggydog@petco.com>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 1:42 PM CST

I loved you first!
Happy Birthday, Mommy!
Eat cake now Mommy? Eat cake?
Working Poopies!!
Maddy <cute_but_challenging@maddy.com>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 1:36 PM CST

I love you Mommy! Happy Birthday!
When do we eat?
Claire <chubby_head@yahoo.com>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 1:33 PM CST

Hi Phillips: Imagine you are on your way to Grandma's. Great new pic of Illinois Fats. Looks like there's plenty of personality... looks like she already gets the big picture, & she's okay to go take on the world. As for the great shot of Maddy with the wand w/ hard hat, that will probably finance your retirement. Love & prayers with plenty of stuffing, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell
- Thursday, November 17, 2005 12:00 AM CST

Happy Birthday, Vicki! Celebrate like you are 21 all over again! Love you tons, SaraT
Sara Thilges <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Studio City, CA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 11:13 AM CST

Vicki, hope you have a wonderful birthday & we can't wait to see you all next week!
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Thursday, November 17, 2005 10:13 AM CST

Happy Birthday Vicki!!!! I hope you enjoy your day! I can't wait to see you soon! Say hi to everyone for me. Love ya
Sarah <Sathoele@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, November 17, 2005 8:33 AM CST

Sending you a big hug and many birthday wishes. Enjoy your day and cant wait to see you in actually only a few days. Hug the Phillips family for me. Miss ya. YOur friend, Lisa G.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj 08690 - Thursday, November 17, 2005 7:31 AM CST

Happy Birthday Vicki!!!!! I hope your day is extra special and full of fun. Give the girls a kiss for me. Enjoy your day. Love, Mindy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 11:01 PM CST

Vicki,
I am jumping the gun by a few hours, but Happy Birthday! I hope your day and celebration is fun for all! The newest pictures of Claire are absolutely gorgeous! Looking back to the preemie pcitures gives an astonishing perspective! Hope we see you at Bunco on Friday! If you come, I will cover your "kitty" fee as a "Happy Birthday" in person!!! Now, go blow out those candles.
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 10:17 PM CST

KEEPING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYER'S ALWAYS AND FOREVER.

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 7:51 PM CST

Dear Vicki,
Hope you have a wonderful birthday tomorrow! We can't wait to see everyone next week. Have a safe trip!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 4:04 PM CST

Wishing you well.
Shay *AOE* & Chayce <eeneedscure@yahoo.com>
Davison, MI - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 7:51 AM CST

Claire is so beautiful! She's getting so big so fast! Iain your stories never cease to crack me up. Keep up the great spirits! ~Nancy & Sean
Nancy Hodgson <nhodgson@sbcglobal.net>
Vernon Hills, IL - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 11:13 AM CST

Claire is so adorable! I cannot believe how big she is getting and how much she is doing right now! That's great that she has such a healthy appetite so unlike Maddy with the baby food! It's such a blessing that she is so big and healthy! Hope you are all doing well and getting ready to enjoy some nice family time in New Jersey soon!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Monday, November 14, 2005 10:59 PM CST

OMG! That is the cutest picture of Claire! I love it! And I too had a skinny minny for my first. My second is now 15 months...and the roll in the middle of her arm is only just starting to blend in with the rest of her arm! Gotta love a chubby babe though! Glad to hear things are well. I check in on your family often...even though we have never met!
Michelle
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada - Monday, November 14, 2005 9:35 PM CST

Hi Phillips Family,
Love getting your updates and pictures. Sorry to hear about the setbacks with Vicki. However, as you said, enjoy the time off and take advantage of the little bit of "normal". The girls look great. I hope I get to see them - and you - when you are here for Thanksgiving - but if not, hope to see you before long. Have a safe trip!
Love, Shirlee Faehner
Shirlee Faehenr <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ - Sunday, November 13, 2005 5:17 PM CST

Hi Phillips family!
Can't wait to see you all at Thanksgiving & Iain, John wanted me to send a special congrats to you for the Senataors being in first place right now & looking so good! I think he is envious!
Love & Miss you guys!
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Wednesday, November 9, 2005 8:47 AM CST

I'm so happy to hear that the girls are doing so well! And I'm blown away by how big Claire has gotten! Now you're got me wondering about my 16 month old 20 pound peanut!
I hope that Vicki is feeling well. Sorry to hear that you didn't get better news from the scans. I'll be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, November 7, 2005 8:45 AM CST

Vicki,
The website was "under repair" last night, but I just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you! Beth said you are going to try and come to Bunco and I just wanted to say...YEA!!! We would all love to see you there and wearing the Bunco Babe hat! Have a great rest of the weekend!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Saturday, November 5, 2005 10:45 PM CST

The girls are soooo cute! I love Cinderella - I can see Maddy has that princess look down! I can't believe how much Clair has grown! Can't wait to see all of you!
Doreen <doreen.ritacco@acs-hro.com>
Tenafly, NJ USA - Friday, November 4, 2005 2:50 PM CST

Hi guys - well tell me as if those two are not just the cutest! Although your little princess did a look a little perturbed - must have been the meeting of the other princess - ha ha. Glad to hear that you guys are trying to have some "normal" time. As always we are thinking of you. Love Alison and Barry
Alison Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Friday, November 4, 2005 8:37 AM CST

Vicki, Iain, and girls - Maddy is the most adorable princess and Claire is the cutest pumpkin! I bet they brought home lots of candy!!! Vicki, I do hope you get a chance over the next month to rest the soul and spirit...have a little peace of mind. Lots of Love coming your way.
Connie Ford <connie.ford@allstream.com>
Ottawa, On Canada - Thursday, November 3, 2005 8:15 AM CST

Vicki, I can't believe how big the girls are getting. The Halloween pictures are great. Kristen was a princess as well and Andrew kept changing his outfit, I'm still not sure what the final costume was. They had a great time and that's what counts. You are in my prayers daily and I hope you are finding the strength you need to get through this difficult time. Even though I'm so far away, please know I am thinking of you all the time and I care so much about you and your family. I am hoping I can come see you again in early 2006. God Bless and lots of love, MIndy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 10:35 PM CST

Vicki,
It was great to see you and the girls today. It made my day! I loved getting to hold Claire. Looking forward to seeing you at Bunco.
Beth
Beth Slaughter
Lake Zurich, IL - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 10:07 PM CST

The girls looked adorable in their Halloween costumes! Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Denise
Denise Yacullo Rodak <dyr113@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 2, 2005 8:33 PM CST

So sorry to hear the scan results were not what you expected. Continuing to pray for you and hoping the next round of results will be much better!
Sue Richards <srichard1011@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 2:23 PM CST

The girls were just ADORABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Praying for you Vicki!!
Love,
Sara *Angels on Earth* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 11:52 AM CST

Dear Vicki, Iain, Princess Maddy, and Chubby Big Head,
The girls were absolutely adorable! I am glad they enjoyed trick-or-treating!
We are sorry the scan results were not as we hoped, but try to stay positive! You are constantly in our prayers and we know in our hearts the end result will be good!
Love you all very much. Can't wait to see you for Thanksgiving!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 9:11 PM CST

Hi Phillips: I just cleared my msg to you instead of sending it! Probably immortal words lost forever--or not. Anyway of all the dozens of trick or treaters, yours are by far the cutest! I asked the kids if they'd like candy or money. If they said money, they dipped into a goldfish bowl full of change, then would run down the street hollering, "They're giving away money.!" I loved it.
We're giving away love and prayers today, and hoping you'll bne in New Jersey for turkey. I know what a great cook Sandi is, & I'd like to be there, too. All the best, Chili Dave and Joanie
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca 91311 - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 12:47 AM CST

The girls are so adorable, I cannot believe how much Claire has changed in her pictures!!! Praying that the next batch of news will be better. Keep the faith! Love Nancy & Sean
Nancy Hodgson <nhodgson@sbcglobal.net>
Vernon Hills, IL - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 11:48 AM CST

Hi guys,
The pictures are awesomes! Glad the girls enjoyed Trick or Treating. I am sorry the scans weren't as positive as you had hoped. We are thinking of you guys every day. Looking forward to post Thanksgiving brunch & seeing you all!
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 9:16 AM CST

Awwwww, I love the pictures. Such cute kids. I'm sorry that the scans didn't give the best results but we are still here rooting Viki on. ((hugs)) to all
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Monday, October 31, 2005 6:52 PM CST

Dear Phillips,
Happy Halloween! Your little goblins are as cute as ever! I love the idea of T-O-Ting at cubicles! McKenna's kindergarten class had 4 Cinderellas today, so it was a good thing Maddy didn't see that! McKenna just finished her trick-or-treating or "trick-or-eating" as she seems to do as a can can dancer. What happens when they stop wearing such cute costumes??? I know the results are not what you were hoping for, but you have been fighters so far and many are wishing you the absolute best. So embrace the warm thoughts and prayers being sent your way! Thanks for another update.
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Monday, October 31, 2005 6:35 PM CST

Happy Halloween!! I love the halloween pictures...it makes it seem like you're not so far away. As far as the new test results...you are in my prayers as always.
Doug, Cathy, Matthew & Baby Ben (due Jan 17th)
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Monday, October 31, 2005 12:38 AM CST

The Halloween pictures are wonderful. You continue in our thoughts & prayers...
Melina Mann <mmann@mteamfinancial.com>
LaGrange, Il. U.S. - Monday, October 31, 2005 12:09 AM CST

Glad to see Vicki, Maddy & Claire last Friday. Even got to hold Claire (and got some smiles from her). Watched Maddy transform into a princess and see her crown and necklace flash. Vicki looked good. Sorry to hear about the news. Will continue to keep you all in our prayers! Take care!!!
Felicia <Felicia_Chua@baxter.com>
- Monday, October 31, 2005 11:43 AM CST

BOO! Hope you have a great time trick-or-treating. The girls look adorable. Hannah was a princess three years in a row, so maybe you can swap costumes with Snow White next year! Can't wait to see you over Thanksgiving. Love you all & think of you every day.

Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Monday, October 31, 2005 9:55 AM CST

Hi Phillips Family!
I'm sorry to hear the results weren't as positive as we would all like. You guys are an amazing family...keep up the fight! The girls are adorable! HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!
Love,
Lori and Family
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Monday, October 31, 2005 9:27 AM CST

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep up the fight. Your children are beautiful. Happy Halloween!!
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Monday, October 31, 2005 8:04 AM CST

Hello to all. What terrific pictures of 2 beautiful little girls! Your sense of humor in wrtiing about your family is such a blessing to all of us, as I am sure it is to Vicki and the girls. God bless you all. You are in our prayers. Love, Linda
Linda and Tom Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head, SC - Monday, October 31, 2005 7:13 AM CST

Your children are so cute. I often stop by to read your updates and catch a quick glimpse of the kids. Im sorry to read that some of the growth has come back in regards to the cancer. You are a very beautiful, strong and determined family. I wish you much happiness.

Brandy Regan
www.colescure.org
Brandy <Brandyregan@yahoo.com>
- Monday, October 31, 2005 1:17 AM CST

Happy Halloween!!! Maddy is the most beautiful little princess! I'm sure she loves her costume. I cannot believe how big Claire is! She certainly has grown up so much. It's hard to believe she is already 6 months old. I'm hoping the next round of Chemo goes smoothly for you Vicki! Hope to see you and the girls soon!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL United States - Sunday, October 30, 2005 10:00 PM CST

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Sunday, October 30, 2005 7:31 PM CST

happy halloween girls! Vicki just sending love as always. Off to Disney Friday, Tell Maddy I will hug Cinderella extra tight for her. Have agreat week and always thinking of you. Love Lisa and Gang.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Sunday, October 30, 2005 6:55 PM CST

Dear Vicki,
Enjoy the time off the chemo. We are praying for good scan results!
Think of you often.
Love,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Saturday, October 29, 2005 6:12 PM CDT

ha ha - I love reading what you write. First of all- we are all suckers for making our kids happy and Disney knows that! I am a little over the whole princess thing too especially when I see them every time I pull up her britches. Oh well, this is only the beginning I suppose.

I was so looking forward to seeing you all this weekend we didn't didn't expect to have as much damage as we did with the storm (not me particularly, but dad). But, again, we will try to reset it.

Also, on the big girl potty - isn't it funny how it looks like at any moment their little hineys are going to slip right in??? Amazing how they keep those fannies up on the porcelin.

Love you guys and hope all is well with all four of you!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, October 26, 2005 8:54 AM CDT

Yay, Claire!!!!!! You are doing GREAT!! So glad you have some time off, Vicki.

And Maddie, what a big girl teaching yourself to go potty. Dad, I feel your pain about the Disney stuff. Drives us parents crazy!!! Have a great week.
Tracy (FOA-Fundraising Leader) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 1:20 PM CDT

Greetings from the Chili-Cook-Off Champ's Family. Well, it wasn't that big of a cook-off (6 pots of chili) and the judge was a friend of Daves, but Dave is now the Chili cook Off Champ of Granada Hills Presbyterian Church. We take our triumphs anyway we can get 'em. Hope you're feeling fit and sassy --know for sure Miss Maddy is. Love and prayers to all. Dave & Joanie
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, - Monday, October 24, 2005 11:42 AM CDT

You know, last week as I was signing the guestbook, I was thinking to myself that I don't have any more "cat negligence" stories to share with you guys. I spoke (or thought) too soon! Saturday morning I was startled awake by my neighbor knocking on my door, Zorro in hand. Apparently another neighbor had found him on the back porch. Now I REALLY don't know how this happened because we just had our decks sealed and I haven't had my back door open AT ALL. This means that he got out my front door, down two flights of stairs, out two more downstairs doors, through the alley and up the back steps! I need to stop drinking.... :-)

I love the chubby Claire update!

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, October 24, 2005 10:40 AM CDT

Hello Gang! Glad to hear things are progressing well with Claire she will be passing Kira(21lbs) shortly! Hope to hear more good news next week. Iain make sure you keep Maddy watching noggin' and away from TV with commercials - oh my how the "I want thats" start then! Can't wait to see you all! Love and kisses to all , Dor, Tad, William and Kira.
Doreen Ritacco <doreen.ritacco@acs-hro.com>
Tenafly, NJ USA - Monday, October 24, 2005 9:19 AM CDT

Hi Phillips family! I check your site several times a week for updates and I'm glad to hear all the good news! And Iain, those Pull-Ups are a scam by the diaper company...make it either diapers or panties. She'll get the idea when she's walking around wet & will want to start using the potty instead. And you save $$$! (I used them w/ Caroline but won't w/ George b/c I just don't think they do a darn thing) The pics in the photo album are great! Looking forward to more updates. I still keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers. :)
Barb (Conn) Alexander
NJ - Sunday, October 23, 2005 1:02 PM CDT

It's so great that everyone is doing well. Fingers crossed for great news next week!
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Sunday, October 23, 2005 4:22 AM CDT

Glad to hear the cuties are doing well and thriving. Ian, ask my husband, the only cure disney has is for when maddy grows up, is to get married. And then HER, husband will seperate his money from the wallet to buy the disney things. if I trip over one more princess item in my house****#$@!. Enjoy the time off from chemo vicki and I cant beleive Claire is on solid food, good for her. Miss you guys an awful lot and not a day goes by when I dont think of you. your friends, Lisa and gang. Of to Disney in 13 days, see Iain it never stops.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Saturday, October 22, 2005 7:55 AM CDT

Hi guys,
Well as if that little cutie looks like a preemie. Glad to hear that Claire is doing so well and that you are going to get a break from the chemo Vicki. Barry enjoyed talking to Iain the other night. We think and talk about you guys all the time - you are always in our thoughts. Take care. Love always Alison, Barry, the peanut and the rest of the 4-footed gang. Make sure to give Snoop a lick from Bogie!
Alison Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, Ontario Canada - Friday, October 21, 2005 8:46 AM CDT

What a great update! I'm SO happy to hear that you have a break from chemo coming up and that the rest of your family is doing well too. You guys deserve a break, for crying out loud! I love hearing about the antics of your girls. Keep the updates coming! All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lots of love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Thursday, October 20, 2005 3:07 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

Been a while so I thought I'd check in and see how you are doing? Glad things are stable. Claire is looking cuter with every updated picture I see.

Still thinking of you.

Kevin Hopkins <hopkinsk@ameritech.net>
Chicago, IL USA - Thursday, October 20, 2005 10:54 AM CDT

Hey Vicki and Fam... Stacy here. Was just checking in, wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you, and can't wait to see you next time you come to Jersey! Glad you had a good time with the Sparks, wish I was there! Love to Maddie from her Sparkler friend, Sophia too. ((HUGS!))
Stacy <metropalus@yahoo.com>
middlesex, nj Istambul - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 9:25 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family,
So glad you are all able to enjoy some "non-chemo" time. The girls sound so cute, as always. You've surely got your hands full! I hope your next round of scans holds some good news...I'll be praying for you!
Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 10:46 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Chubby Big Head,
Glad to hear spirits are up. Can't wait to see everyone for Thanksgiving. Claire is all mine that day, just remember that. It sounds like I found a future wife for Zack. Maddy seems to be perfect for him!
Hope all is well. You are in our thoughts and prayers always!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 8:07 AM CDT

Great update. Enjoy your couple of months off!! All the best. My thoughts and prayers are wtih you.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

Hi Iain and Vicki. Just wanted to let you know that holding your sweet Claire was the highlight of my weekend. What a precious precious girl she is. It was so great to spend some time with you, Vicki. Hope to see you again soon.
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend, IN - Monday, October 17, 2005 11:01 PM CDT

Glad to hear that you have a break coming up. I love hearing your stories about the kids. Too funny. ((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Monday, October 17, 2005 8:07 PM CDT

Hey, Vicki! Wow! A break, how wonderful! So glad to see the update. We think of you often and pray for you always. Lucky with Maddy - wow! Hope is getting potty trained as we speak, too. We are going to get Dora underwear today! Yogurt will never be the same to me. I will always think I'm eating a stuffed cat. And, NO, I will absolutely not eat it in bed! Thanks for the laughs!
Cindy Tschosik <tschosik94@comcast.net>
Downers Grove, IL US - Monday, October 17, 2005 3:39 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and gang,
So glad you get a break from the chemo....Claire is getting so big, she is a doll. And Maddie sounds like round the clock entertainment....I need to get tips from her on toilet training! I'm thinking of you often as you are in my prayers. Stay strong,
Tracy
Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
chicago, Il - Monday, October 17, 2005 3:18 PM CDT

Good to hear you are doing well. you are in our thoughts everyday. God Bless michele
michele 'RED' prescavage <jmprescavage@comcast.net>
hainesport, nj usa - Monday, October 17, 2005 12:21 AM CDT

Just stopping in to check in on all of you!! Good to hear that everyone is doing "good". Especially no new cancers. WHEW!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just know that I am thinking and praying for all of you!! Keep fighting hard Vicki!!
Love,
Sara *Angels on Earth* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Monday, October 17, 2005 10:47 AM CDT

Hi guys,
I totally enjoy ready Iain's updates on the girls as well as Vicki. Vick, I am glad you are getting some down time from treatments & I hope this will rejuvinate you a bit. I hope you are all still planning on being home at Thanksgiving because I am really looking forward to getting to see you. I will try to give you a call this week to catch up - things have finally calmed down for us a bit in terms of travel & we actually got to spend a weekend at home this past week.
Talk to you soon.
Love & miss you,
Kerry
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Monday, October 17, 2005 10:27 AM CDT

Hey Vicki - Glad to hear things are on up! Things in Cali are just fine. We saw Elizabethtown this week...such a let-down. Go to In her Shoes instead...I bawled through the whole thing, it was great! I miss you tons and think of you often.
SaraT <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
LA, CA - Monday, October 17, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

Stopping by to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Angela~ www.caringbridge.org/ma/heathergrace <alisonheathersmama@gmail.com>
- Monday, October 17, 2005 8:35 AM CDT

Hey, when Maddy's done training herself, we could use some help down here with my son! Are you hiring her out just yet? :)

Just wanted you to know someone in FL is keeping tabs on you and keeping your entire family in our thoughts and prayers.

Take care and enjoy the break from chemo!
Pam (Friends of Allie/Angels on Earth) <pamela_keers@hotmail.com>
Tampa, FL - Sunday, October 16, 2005 9:25 PM CDT

Claire is getting so big. I am so happy to hear that the cancer front is looking good right now! Maddy is such a smart little girl. Potty training herself?! That is wonderful news. I am glad all is well and will check back for Claire's update.
Tracy (FOA-Fundraising Leader) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Saturday, October 15, 2005 6:53 PM CDT

Dear Phillips,
Thanks for another update. I love to check in each day in hopes of more news! You are right when you say, "What a year!" You all deserve a break (long, long, long) from dealing with cancer. I hope the chemo-free time is just what Vicki's body needs! We will continue the thoughts and prayers for all of you and your families as well. And, we will continue the chuckles over Maddy placing her head in puddles. That is a new one for me! I will tell you, though, that McKenna turned 6 on Monday and puddles still intrigue her and her feet!
May you enjoy having an appetite without a chemo schedule!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Saturday, October 15, 2005 10:46 AM CDT

Glad to hear good news about Iain and your mom Vicki! Your family definitely deserves some. I am praying that the next round of scans show some good news for you too. Enjoy the time off from chemo. Looking forward to seeing you soon! Claire is absolutely adorable as always! I cannot believe how big she is getting!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL United States - Friday, October 14, 2005 10:53 PM CDT

hi phillips family! just sending a hello -- still thinking of you daily and wishing you all the best!
lora davis (TSC zeta) <loralbi@hotmail.com>
cherry hill, nj - Friday, October 14, 2005 3:54 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you all know you are in my nightly thoughts and prayers!! Keep up the strenght!! Vicki...I cant wait to meet you!!!!!
Brenda Kamis <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN USA - Friday, October 14, 2005 1:05 PM CDT

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, October 13, 2005 10:44 PM CDT

Hello guys, just letting you know that we are always thinking of you, and praying for you. Hopefully we will see you all soon.
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Thursday, October 13, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

Hello to Iain, Vicki, and the girls

Vicki, you are most likely recovering or have recovered from your last round of chemo. I hope all went well and that you are able to enjoy the break. Hopefully, you will be well rested for the Thanksgiving festivities. Will you be travelling? We had our Thanksgiving just last weekend and I really overindulged on the turkey. We had gorgeous weather, but Thanksgiving was definitely the transition to the cooler weather - always a shock! I think of you often and wish you the best.
Connie <connie.ford@allstream.com>
Ottawa, On Canada - Thursday, October 13, 2005 2:50 PM CDT

Iain - how do we donate to the Phillips' Family Fund?
Erin <mike.erin@hotmail.com>
Sparta, NJ - Thursday, October 13, 2005 1:35 PM CDT

WOO HOO! 12 rounds?! You should be a boxer! Enjoy the time off and feeling good every day : ) You have 2 beautiful children the most awesome dog on the planet and a husband that totally ROCKS! 6 more weeks until Thanksgiving, can't wait! Oh - Wendy and Joe had the baby yesterday - 3rd niece - Paige Karen... What a great week!! Love you guys, Nicole and Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
Is it fall in Illinois yet? The temperature in NJ certainly doesn't feel like fall but the leaves are starting to change so...
How is everyone? I just helped move Megan to Princeton so once again I'm in a quiet house. At least she is close this time and I can still nudge her. It is sort of fun to make dates with your daughter and I'm looking forward to trips to Princeton for fun.
Have you started your "break" yet, Vicki? I'm sure you can't wait! And - we want you to feel super. Enough is enough, huh? My thoughts are with you, Vicki.
Hugs to each one of you! Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Sunday, October 9, 2005 7:57 PM CDT

Hi Phillipses!! Claire couldn't be more gorgeous! Vicki, how are you doing after this last chemo treatment? How awesome that you get a break for awhile. I hope to see you soon. Love you!
Beth--JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Saturday, October 8, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

Hi,
I'm sorry that I haven't been by in awhile,I have been so busy around here and haven't been on the computer much at all lately.I am so behind in signing my guestbooks too.I have been trying to catch up on watching all my taped shows and let me tell you there is alot of tape's.I have 120 to watch.Plus I have been crocehting blankets for the kids.Tristan is in beaver's now and Jason is in Scouts so been busy with all that too in the evenings.I haven't forgotten about you though.I think about all of my caringbridge friends and pray for them always.Just been so busy.I plan on getting back on track in signing my books soon.LOL

Love Always BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Friday, October 7, 2005 2:31 PM CDT

Just stopping in to say hello. Hope you have a nice weekend!
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Thursday, October 6, 2005 9:33 PM CDT

Love the Updates!!! Thanks for sharing...Just talking yo your Mom!! I can't wait to see you guys!!! and gives those delicious litlle cheeks of Claire kisses! Maddie sounds like a typical "first girl"!! Challenges aren't they, LOL! Enjoy them , before you know it they will be young ladies
asking for the keys!

Keep up the smiles and good humor, I know it is good medicine for all. Much prayers and love to you all!!!
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, New Jersey United States of America - Thursday, October 6, 2005 7:43 PM CDT

To the amazing Phillips Family - You're an inspiration to us all. You bring humor and compassion to life's awesome challenges. The great American poet Wallace Stevens wrote: "It's not everyday that the world arranges itself in a poem." Your family is that poem - the coming together, the good cheer in a dark time, the loving connections among you. With gratitude for knowing you, and continued prayers for your swift return to health.
Janice Maffei <jmaffei@visionfirst.com>
North Caldwell, NJ - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 11:22 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain and kiddies, Claire is such a happy, healthy looking child. God bless you all. Love you, Linda
Linda Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head, SC - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 11:11 AM CDT

Dear Vickie,
How strange that this evening Garry gave me a Livestrong bracelet to wear, and less than two hours later, I get an email telling me about your ordeal these last six months.

Well, if anyone embodies the essense/meaning of Livestrong, it is you!

You and your amazing family will be in our thoughts and prayers daily.

As always, you truly are an inspiration!
Beth and Garry Feltus <grfelt@aol.com>
Trenton, NJ USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 11:59 PM CDT

Vickie,
I see that gorgeous child and the sunshine in her beautiful face and think of all that is good in the world. Your family is in our prayers. You are the best!
Mike and Cathy Wells <mike_wells@glic.com>
Rockaway, NJ USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 8:53 PM CDT

Hi Phillips: Love & prayers from the land of fruits, nuts, and fire. The skies have cleared, and we're breathing easier. Web-site is still too wide for my screen to accomodate. Since the price is right, I'll not complain. Congratulations on another round of chemo. I think you need to draw a coat of arms for the family--with lots of courageous lions.
all the best to a family I'm incredibly proud to know. Love, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 8:17 PM CDT

What a great photo of Claire! And classic story with Maddy! Sending love and prayers your way.
Heather Bond <heather.bond@harrisbank.com>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 4:34 PM CDT

My daughter sleeps with us every night. I usually don't mind until she starts poking me in the side with her feet or her fist. Now that she is getting bigger, she nearly pushes me out of the bed BUT I wouldn't trade it for the world. It may drive you crazy now but you'll look back on these times later in life and smile when you think of the memories of when your little girl snuggled with you every night and you got to see her cute face first thing in the morning. The things memories are made of. I hope that Vicki is doing ok. You'll all be in my prayers.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Monday, October 3, 2005 9:57 PM CDT

Hey Vicki - It's been a long time since I signed your guestbook. It's hard to think of anything to say on top our nearly daily phone calls and get togethers!! This time I just have to thank you for a great night city last night. I feel so blessed to have found you as a friend. You are truly one of the most thoughtful people I have ever met and I cherish the time I get to spend with you!!
Lots and lots of love! Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Saturday, October 1, 2005 7:42 PM CDT

Yogurts family, Glad to know that you ae having a "normal" family life. HaHa---- know that i will be praying that all continues good.

Love, Karen
Karen S. Perdue
Plano, TX USA - Friday, September 30, 2005 6:55 PM CDT

hope all is well. NOw you know why Kris, Katrina and I were sooooooo amazed at how well Maddy went down for naps and bedtime. let the musical games begin. sometimes I dont even know who's bed IM in when I wake up. My kids kick me out of OUR king size bed. have a great week. LIsa
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj usa - Friday, September 30, 2005 6:09 PM CDT

good update, now you know why Katrina, Kris and I were soooooo amazed at how well Maddy went down for naps and for bed. ONe more round to go hang in there. have an awesome weekend. Love Lisa and Gang.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Friday, September 30, 2005 2:49 PM CDT

Vicki & Family,
The new pic of Claire is ADORABLE! With that sly smile its looks like she has her parents fantastic sense of humor.
Deanna <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ - Friday, September 30, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

Hello, it's Matthew & Cathy dropping in to say hello and let you know that we are thinking about you.
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Thursday, September 29, 2005 3:05 PM CDT

Vicki - wow your new baby is beautiful - my thoughts a prayers are with you always!!!!! Love you - Laura Mann Manchester
Laura Mann Manchester <lauram@callawaygolf.com>
Lederach, PA USa - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 8:06 PM CDT

Iain, you are the most talented, comical writer! Thanks for all the peeks into the crazy days parents of small children endure. The girls are lovely and thriving so well. Glad Vicki is getting some relief. What a wonderful thing that you could go visit Jay! If there is any time for company when you come to NJ in Nov., let us know and maybe we can drive down to hug you all. I am sharing the bed hopping story with Brian's family, since they are just about to move Abby to a bed in anticipation of the new baby in early January. We see them next weekend, when Abby's 2nd birthday will be celebrated by a mere 30 guests! They drive to Cape Cod tonight for a few days with Allison's paternal grandma.
Carol Ray <rayfolks@earthlink.net>
Midland Park, NJ USA - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 4:04 PM CDT

Just stopping in to say HI and that I am am thinking and praying for you all!!!
Love,
Sara *Angels on Earth* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 2:29 PM CDT

Hi Phillips: Reporting to say son-in-law Mike is in New Orleans, security. He was in Houston, but came home for a few hours when Rita went elsewhere. Don't know how long he'll be in NO, but that's the most interesting news from here. Something has happened to this site. Either my monitor has shrunk, or the page has grown wider. I'm wondering if this is related to the super growth pattern of Miss Claire. Do you need a wider format to accomodate her? Is that why there's no new pic this week? Just wondering. Love & prayers, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell
chatsworth, ca - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 2:27 PM CDT

Vicki and Family,
Stopping by again to say hello! Can't get enough of seeing your posted pictures. So...one more chemo for this round, right? What a welcomed break it will be!!! So glad I could see you for a quick hello yesterday and you are just beautiful, as well as those girls! Prayers continue for all of you!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 1:32 PM CDT

Vicki and gang
WOW you would never guess that Claire was a preemie. She is just beautiful. As always, your updates are posted on our church bridge so that everyone stays updated on your doings. Your parents are two of the most amazing people I have ever met. Your mom is just beautiful from the inside out. I know that you must be an incredible woman having been raised by her. We think about you all often and pray for you constantly. All of our love and prayers from 1st church Boonton, Robin
Robin Gershaw <rgershaw@msn.com>
Denville, NJ - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

That new pic of Claire is absolutely precious! She just keeps getting cuter! It is so hard to believe that chunky little girl is a peemie! Vicki, I hope you are feeling okay and are getting ready to enjoy your much needed break from chemo. Enjoy your time with the girls and treasure every moment-even Maddy's terrible twos! Hope to see you soon!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 8:59 PM CDT

I just want to jump right throught my computer and kiss that Claire. Lisa
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 1:28 PM CDT

Claire is just way too cute! Looking forward to (hopefully) seeing all of you over Thanksgiving in NJ.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 8:21 AM CDT

Hello to all from Long Valley..
What a beautiful baby Claire is. Glad to hear that you had a wonderful time in AZ. Right now it is my favorite place to be. We went to a wedding in Tucson and I cried when we left. It is so beautiful there. One of my brothers is moving out to Phoenix this month. I hope we are soon to follow. Maddy seems to be a "normal" 3 year old. Enjoy each phase... they become more and more challenging. Blessings to you all.
Love.
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mcjhorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Sunday, September 25, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

I would never know that Clarie is a preemie if I hadn't been told. She is such a pretty baby. It was really nice of you to bring the clothes the NICU. I'm sure they appreciated it. I hope that Vicki is doing well this week and her much needed two month break hurries up and gets here.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Saturday, September 24, 2005 1:06 PM CDT

Wow! It's been a couple weeks since I've checked in. I'm amazed by the picture of Claire! I had to check to make sure I went to right site!! She's gorgeous - and huge!! I'm glad to hear that she's doing so well.
Vicki, I hope that your treatments go well and don't leave you feeling terrible. So glad to hear that you will have a couple weeks off. Sounds like you'll need it after running around after Maddy! What a handful!
Best of luck to you! I wish you all health and happiness!
I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, September 23, 2005 3:08 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I'm still thinking about you. I check back often to read the updates. I love to see how the babies are growing!
Kathy Martensen <kjswenson@hotmail.com>
Jewell, IA USA - Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:45 AM CDT

What a beautiful new picture of Baby Claire, she's precious. I'd never guess she was preemie!
As always, all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue Richards <srichard1011@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

Hi Gang! Claire is just adorable, looking more and more like Maddy every day! I will be in Disney in November, so I will keep my eyes out for something "princessy" to gget for Maddy when I see you on Thanksgiving! Vicki, glad we got to talk the other night...keeping my fingers crossed on your decision....miss you soooo much!!!! - The other (more gentle) Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 12:30 AM CDT

Hi all! It's only been about two weeks since I caught up with the site, and this week's picture of Claire blew me away! She looks amazing and is a miracle, indeed. My best wishes to Vicki for her chemo break - hoping it renews her body and spirit.
Jeanne (Murray) Cotton <jeanne.cotton@warnerbros.com>
Burbank, CA - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 11:53 AM CDT

Hi everyone,

So glad to hear that the trip to AZ went well. Iain, if you were a really dedicated dad, you would build a water park in your back yard; Lake Zurich is so boring! How in the world did Claire gain 3 pounds in the past month? I'm speechless! Vicki, hang in there for the last 2 rounds, and then a two-month break. Whoo-hoo! Two months of feeling like yourself. Give the girls a hug and Snoop a pat for me. (Rosie won't mind.) Thinking of you!
Jennifer <hesketj@yahoo.com>
Enfield, NH - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 10:32 AM CDT

Hi Vicki. It has been a while since I've signed your guestbook, but I think of you all every day and LOVE the updates. They are usually my best laugh of the week. Good luck with your next round of chemo. I wish I could just stop by and give you a hand with the girls. They sound like so much fun! Looking forward to another NJ barbeque! Take care.
Michele (Falcone) Immordino <mish33@comcast.net>
Pennington, NJ USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:45 PM CDT

Oh my gosh is she the cutest thing ever! Claire is beautiful. Feel free to adopt the Superchunk nickname for her if you like! Max definitely is still in that group too but chubby babies are the best! Glad you guys had a nice visit in Arizona. Good luck with the next round of chemo. Vicki - thinking of yo udaily & hoping you are haning in there! (Any chance you guys will be i NJ for Thanksgiving like normal? Let me know - I think we will be there this year.)
Talk to you soon!
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 10:10 AM CDT

Greetings Phillips Family. WOW! Baby Claire looks AMAZING. Glad to hear that your holiday in AZ was great. I hope you took lots of pictures, I can't wait to see them: ) Can we get an updated Maddy photo on the site too? Maybe with one of her special faces? Enjoy all the tv premieres! I hope Chemo goes well this week: ) Think of you all every day.

Love, Nicole and Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 8:11 AM CDT

What a little (I Mean big) cutie pie that Claire is. Im sure Maddy is getting ready for halloween. I wonder what she is going to be? PRINCESS FROM DISNEY? Think of you daily and Richie has you vicki on his standard prayer list at the end of the day. The kids started pre school and both on the same mornings. To bad you live so far, I would of had time to come over and chat for a few hours. Miss you all and I know the Chemo is working. Glad you had fun at the water parks, the fun never ends. Have a great week and enjoy the family, which I know you do. Shout out to Sara also in California. Remember ONe year cancer free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lisa, PUck" Gaskill.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:38 AM CDT

Look at that red hair! Gee, I wonder where she gets it from?? I could make some crack about the mailman on Richmond Street, but the timing would be off and then the joke wouldn't work. Unless (UNLESS!) the mailman followed the lovely Vicki to Lake Zurich, Illinois? In the words of the comedienne Judy Tenuta, "it could happen!" But seriously - Claire is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!! I can't believe how much she has grown! And that Maddy sounds like a handful. Once again, I must ask, where DOES she get it from??! I always love the updates from you guys. I don't have any recent "neglecting my cat" stories, but just give me time! I'm sure another incident will occur. All my love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
chicago, IL USA - Monday, September 19, 2005 3:57 PM CDT

Hey everyone - special shout out to the Jersey Girls. I saw that Hugh Jackman won an Emmy this evening. Hopefully it didn't create too much a controversy among the Jersey Girls (or one especially...you know who you are!) Vicki, I'm thinking of you often. Glad to see the progress that Claire has made. She's so adorable. I miss you tons!!!
SaraT <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Los Angeles (it's official!!), CA - Monday, September 19, 2005 0:38 AM CDT

Hi! That is NOT the same Claire I held! Holy Cow! Please give the girls a kiss for me!... xoxoxox I miss you guys so much. You continue to be in my prayers. I'll catch up with you later. Love, Erin
Erin
Sparta, NJ - Sunday, September 18, 2005 9:09 PM CDT

Hi Phillips Family! Just stopping by to say Vicki is in my thoughts as she begins the next to last round of chemo before the break. I know you are looking forward to that! Claire iws such a beauty! It's hard to believe she was a preemie when you look at her now. Sounds like Maddy is keeping you busy too!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Sunday, September 18, 2005 8:36 PM CDT

Hi Phillips Family,
Can that big beautiful baby be the preemie we saw pictures of such a short time ago?! She looks wonderful! Iain, I don't know how you find the time to do all these updates. But I do know that I (and a million others) really enjoy reading them. Maddy's antics don't really seem that odd for a 2-year old. Definition of 'Maddiantics': the practice of doing interesting activities to keep parents off balance at all times; Maddiantics has the distinct possibility of continuing for many years.
Vicki, I'm sorry you keep having to endure all these treatments. But I sure hope there is some positive reward to all of this. We'll all just keep adding our prayers to whatever the world of medicine is doing. Hang in there. Love and hugs to all, Shirlee Faehner
Shirlee Faehenr <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Sunday, September 18, 2005 6:42 PM CDT

To the Phillips family,
Claire is so adorable and BIG!!! I appreciate the email postings from you, your family, and friends (so much kindness in those messages). Kent and I had a busy summer of travelling....highschool reunion in California, family reunions in Oregon and Virginia. And now, we are both busy working (me too with new job). Peace, health, and happiness to you all...
Stacey Streseman <sstreseman@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 18, 2005 2:09 PM CDT

Hi Phillips family,
I showed Claire's picture to everyone near me. Co-workers wondered why I was looking at my computer and saying "Oh my goodness". When they looked, they had the same reaction. Claire is beautiful! What a wonderful picture. Vicki, I'm so glad you'll have a bit of a break. You have certainly been through a lot! But, with Maddie switching beds, I'm not sure it will be the most relaxing time! I'll keep my fingers crossed.
My thoughts are with you all. Hugs to both girls.
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
long Valley, NJ USA - Sunday, September 18, 2005 8:32 AM CDT

Claire is starting to look like Maddy, don't you think?! What beauties! How fun to go back to the NICU and blow everyone away - good job, guys! Keep up the good work - and you remain in our prayers! Love, Nancy
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Saturday, September 17, 2005 11:59 PM CDT

Hello, Im so glad you posted. I check here daily to make sure you all are doing well. Claire is beautiful! I love seeing her progress. Thank you so much for keeping us up to date. I continually think about Vicki and your family.

Brandy Regan
www.colescure.org
www.caringbridge.com/ca/coleregan
Brandy < brandyregan@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 17, 2005 5:45 PM CDT

Vicki,
It was so good to see you this week and have the chance to visit for a bit! You look great!!! Iain's update today was wonderful to read as always! The new picture of Claire is truly amazing and I think it is absolutely fantastic that you could donate those preemie clothes back to the hospital. Someone else will surely use them and I hope they have the same great baby stories to tell that you now do! It was nice to see Maddy running around your front yard, but it sounds like she is running around the house during the night--oh no! Why don't kids treasure sleep like adults??? You guys are only missing the music to make the "musical beds" complete. I wish you the best next week as you tackle the next to the last of the chemo treatments. Here's to counting down to the two month reprieve...
Many happy thoughts and prayers to all of you!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Friday, September 16, 2005 9:38 PM CDT

Oh my goodness! Look at that precious baby!!! I cannot believe how big she is! I love the new pic! HOpe Vicki is feeling ok, hope to read an update soon!

Jen
- Friday, September 16, 2005 9:00 PM CDT

Thinking of you today and wishing your family health and happiness.
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Friday, September 16, 2005 1:01 PM CDT

Vicki,
Returning to your site as I get back to my routine, with teaching and life in NJ. Glad the girls are doing so well. Keep your marvelous determination! We pray for you and your family all the time!

Carol and Bob Ray
Midland Park, NJ USA - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 9:03 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Family,
Hope your trip was great! Looking forward to a new update from Iain and I am sure it will contain news, trip memoirs and funny stories as always! I wanted you to know that we are continuing to think about you and pray for good things!
Debbie Toussaint <debbiejo564@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 11:47 AM CDT

I have to be honest that I don't know how I happened upon your site months ago but I love coming here and reading the stories of your kids. With an 18 month old of my own, I can think back to what I just went through not long ago and what I can look forward to in the future. I can really see my daughter sticking her head in a puddle, but I fear she will not have the restraint to not lick it. As it is, she eats her boogies. ewwwwwww I just told that to a stranger. Oh well. lol!! I'm sorry to hear that the tumor didn't shrink that much but at least a little bit is better than nothing I think. It just stinks that Vicki will have to try a new chemo. I hope this one is a little easier on her. You are all in my thoughts. Hugs to everyone!
Michele Support Buddies <mshelez@msn.com>
- Saturday, September 10, 2005 10:24 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, thinking of you. I've arrived at a new stage of parenting, something you can look forward to. Greg is driving and lets us know when - or if! - he can join us for dinner. Things change, we know that, right? I hold you in my thoughts and send the spirit of health and healing in your direction. I'm grateful that your clever husband does such a good job on the posting. You are one fine family unit! Love and blessings, J.
Janice Maffei <jmaffei@visionfirst.com>
North Caldwell, NJ - Saturday, September 10, 2005 9:25 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, I'm so sorry I have been neglectful in writing. School has, once again, blocked my mind from the real world. I hope all is well with the whole Phillips family. I haven't heard any funny Maddy/Claire stories lately, but I bet they are still little cuties who keep their parents running ragged. Please know that you are in my thoughts and I'm looking forward to Iain's next good report chapter!
Lots of love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, nj usa - Thursday, September 8, 2005 8:29 PM CDT

Hi folks,
I hope you all had a wonderful & restful trip to Arizona (and that the "dry" heat wasn't too much for you.) Keep the faith Vicki & know that I am thinking of you often.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO 80130 - Thursday, September 8, 2005 2:57 PM CDT

Just stopping in to let you know that I am thinking and praying for you!
Sara *Angels on Earth* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Thursday, September 8, 2005 10:28 AM CDT

Hey Vicki,

Just a quick note to say hello! I hope your visit to AZ was restful and uneventful. Hopefully, the Hurricane did not impact your trip. I think of the girls often and miss the sandbox!
Connie <connie.ford@allstream.com>
Ottawa, On Canada - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 2:14 PM CDT

Vicki - good luck with this round of chemo! I am thinking of you. I am glad you had a nice trip to AZ.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

Hi Phillips!
We have been wishing you good vacation thoughts as you are gone! Maybe the heat in AZ took care of some shrinkage of the tumors! I was glad to hear there was some reduction and now we will keep up the prayers for more and more...Look at the power of prayer thus far!!! The black and white photo of Claire is absolutely beautiful and I look forward to another update when you're back! By the way, there is Bunco in September!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 10:49 AM CDT

Hello Phillips Clan (or should I say Clan Phillips?). We hope that all is well with you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Iain, they've got me teaching American History this year, needless to say I am not letting students do any sketches (remember my "fat Blier" impression).
Pat & Lara <peaston@istar.ca>
Kanata, On Canada - Monday, September 5, 2005 10:01 AM CDT

Dear Phillips Family,
One day at a time and you will beat this thing...I am sure of it! I hope you have a wonderful vacation. You all deserve the break!
All my love always,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, September 4, 2005 8:51 AM CDT

Hope you guys have a great time in AZ! Im really jealous as im sitting here at work. Miss you tons...can't wait to see everyone. I want to see an updated picture of claire! Say hi to everyone in AZ for me.
Sarah <sathoele@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, September 1, 2005 4:20 PM CDT

Vicki is in my prayers.
Tina & Lance <lancejrmommy@comcast.net>
- Thursday, September 1, 2005 11:02 AM CDT

Hope you have a wonderful holiday in Arizona! Hi to Jay and Cathy and all the kids. We'll wave when we fly over on our way to California to see Tim's brother.
Slow and steady wins the race: )
Bon Voyage and speak with you next week!
Love, Nicole and Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 10:15 AM CDT

Hi Phillips Gang - OH, bummer! I thought after I kept Claire up after her bedtime she'd sleep through the night - or at least one feeding - for you. It will come! I loved staying with the girls, so call me anytime. Say hi to Jay and his family and have a wonderful trip to AZ. You all remain in our prayers.
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 10:06 PM CDT

Hi Philips Family! Glad to hear the tumors are shrinking, even if just a little bit at a time. Every bit helps. You are all in my thoughts and prayers daily as Vicki fights this disease. Vicki, I hope to see you really soon! Claire is absolutely goregeous and she is getting so big. The picture on the home page must have been taken before her "unfortunate stage" began. Have a great, relaxing weekend in Arizona!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:00 PM CDT

Hi Philips Family,
I'm glad to hear the tumors are still shrinking. I continue to pray for you during this fight. Claire is so cute - love the latest picture of her. Vicki, you remain in my thoughts and prayers....stay strong, Tracy
Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 3:48 PM CDT

Hello Phjillips Family: We continue to "enjoy" our heat wave. 107 today--How's that for the first day of school. Happy to report John is not THE shortest boy in the whole school, but almost. Watched the Dodgers beat Houston yesterday in the heat. (I'm still dehydrated.) It was a great game--8 innings w/ no hits, and the good guys won. Sorry your shrinkage wasn't more encouraging--after all the chemo, nausea, freezing, you deserved a world's record. Just another example of how unfair it gets. Don't think you'll need any clothes for AZ--just a swim suit and lots of sunscreen. Enjoy the change of scenery, and give Jay and family our love etc. Love & Prayers, Dave & Joanie
mjmcconnell
chatsworth, ca - Monday, August 29, 2005 11:58 PM CDT

Hooray! We're back from Iceland. What a great trip! Glad to hear that there has been some more shrinkage of tumors. Of course, we keep praying for that miracle drug -- it'll appear any time now. I must comment on Maddy being a princess: certainly she is! Well, her mom's always been "the queen" to us. We're talking about a visit to LZ. I'll give a call so we can chat about that. I still think this Iain character is a figment of the imagination or, at best, a ghost writer. He's definitely on my "must meet" list. Hugs to all of you.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Monday, August 29, 2005 3:46 PM CDT

You are all such an amazing family with a GREAT outlook. Better than any medicine!!! We are all praying and thinking of you!! Glad to see reduction...even if it was small...at least there was some!!! Keep fighting Vicki...we are all behind you praying!!!
Love,
Sara *Angels on Earth* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, Fl - Monday, August 29, 2005 12:09 AM CDT

Hi all. Any reduction in tumor size is a good sign- keep the faith! I hope that your weekend in Arizona is relaxing. The princess phase could be a long one - Hannah still likes all that stuff. Thinking of you always. Thanks for the great updates. Katrina
Katrina Keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
Caldwell, NJ - Monday, August 29, 2005 10:10 AM CDT

You crack me up every time (or I should say the girls do!). Still praying.
Ashley Hast <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Monday, August 29, 2005 10:04 AM CDT

Thinking of you all and praying for Vicki. Hang in there!
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Monday, August 29, 2005 8:16 AM CDT

Hi Phillips family,
The stories about the girls are such fun to read. They add smiles to all of us in the Harvey family. I need those now because summer is almost over and a teacher without a smile certainly won't win any points! It is hard to believe that I have to start school in less than 2 weeks. Just wait until moans and groans start on this end!
Please know that you are in my thoughts, Vicki. Each day I talk with my sister and report on your journal entries. Your strength is admired.
Hugs the girls for me.
Love, Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 8:52 AM CDT

Hello:
We have been on vacation in LBI for the past week. I am so glad to hear that you are getting a vacation as well - if you can call traveling with two children a vacation. I always love the question asked of people when you return: "Did you get to rest???" I have not answered "yes" to that in all the vacations that I have taken in the last 7 years - but I always say "yes" to - "Did you have Fun?" - Enjoy and I have my fingers crossed on the catscan results. Love, Lisa

Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:58 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain,
We hope you were able to enjoy your visit with Jay and his family. We love you! Linda
Linda Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head Island, SC - Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:47 AM CDT

Hello Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,

I was just thinking about you guys and especially Vicki. I haven't said hello in a while, but think of all of you often. We're hoping your most recent scans are encouraging Vicki. Little by little, with strength, love and friendship you'll beat this and look back at this period of your life as a time which made you stronger for the rest of your life. Nicole is planning to come out soon and I hope to see all of you for Thanksgiving if you're back in New Jersey. This year may be the last you can call me Big Pocono because Nicole and I will be moving back to New Jersey shortly. Enjoy your time in Arizona over the holiday. We'll see you all soon.

Have a good day,
Tim "Big Pocono" Neal
Tim Neal <timothy.neal@dsm.com>
East Stroudsburg , PA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:23 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,
I just wanted to say,"Hi." I think about you often. I hope you get good results with your scan. I can't believe how big Claire is getting. The princess stage is fun. Caelie is still in it. We keep you all in our prayers. Take care.
Love,
Niki

Niki Fox <lzfox@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:19 AM CDT

Praying for great scan results. Have a great vacation. Think of you and yours everyday. Love lisa ps are you so happy that you know a cannonball champion.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family! I am always completely cracked up by Iain's stories of the girls' antics! I am praying for good results for you, Vicki. And so glad to hear that you will be going on a nice trip to AZ--I love it there. Can I come? Anyway, always praying for you guys and looking forward to good news...
Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 8:03 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain, May God give you peace as you await the results of Vicki's scans. Of course I should take my own advice because it is 12:30am and I can't stop thinking about you . . . are you awake too? Love you and look forward to getting back out there again soon. Have a wonderful trip to AZ. All our love, Laura, Gary, Stephanie, Samuel and Ryan (Mayu says "hi" to Snoop again. She has a biscuit to share.)
Laura Carey Walker <glwalker@adelphia.net>
Hampden, ME - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 11:27 PM CDT

Hey guys--Vicki, sorry I missed you when I stopped by last week. You were sleeping but your very nice friend greeted me! I hope you enjoy your trip to Arizona, you deserve some fun! Hope to see you soon, Nancy
Nancy Hodgson <nhodgson@sbcglobal.net>
Vernon Hills, - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 5:31 PM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, August 22, 2005 2:21 AM CDT

Greetings!
It is so good see that gorgeous photo of that little piggy! I don't think any of my kids had necks at that age..so I wouldn't worry LOL! I can just see Sandi's face when Maddy went back to Jack and gave him her comment about the pretzel!That was priceless and definately a story to bring out when she is a teenager with all her friends over.
Haven't written for a while but know my prayers and thoughts are with you daily! Love to all!
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, New Jersey - Friday, August 19, 2005 4:31 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, & Claire
Been a while since I got to check the website - I finally had the link emailed to me. Vicki, good luck with the scans - I will be praying for you. Both girls sound like FUN! I have been threatening to visit you at home for sometime now, and may actually carry out that plan! Iain, I will get in touch with you. Good luck everybody.
Teresa Louis <tlouis@gsb.uchicago.edu>
Northbrook, IL - Friday, August 19, 2005 10:25 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire - Every story gets more entertaining, Iain. What an act you give yourself to follow! We are praying for good results on the scans and a wonderful vacation for you to AZ. All of our girls will be home this weekend before heading to the far corners of the world, so we'll try to stop over and pick up our pans before you are forced to hand them out to the next bearer of food! All our love,
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 11:18 PM CDT

OMG, that pretzel story is too funny. My daughter loves her pretzels so if she ever tries that one on me, I'll know its a trick. Thanks for the heads up. I will be keeping everyone in my thoughts, especially Viki, for excellent test results.
Michele Support Buddies <mshelez@msn.com>
- Thursday, August 18, 2005 8:22 PM CDT

Vicki,
Don't worry it's only 105 this time of year in AZ.
We will be camping in the Kaibab National Forest (North Grand Canyon) for the Labor Day holiday - but if you are on an extended holiday I would love to get together while you are here.
Deanna <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Litchfield Park, AZ USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 4:58 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddie, Claire,
It has been awhile since I have dropped a line, but you are all in my prayers every night. Burt is working for the Washington Twp. Bd. of Ed. and seems to really like it. Meghan has a job in NYC working for Transperfect Translation, a company that does all kinds of translating. Meg is not translating, but managing some of the translators and setting up translators for meetings. She has only been on the job since 8-15 so it is hard to say much about how she likes it. I do know that it is 7:49pm at this writing and she just called to say that she was just getting on the Path to go to Hoboken to get the train to Gladstone. We won't see her till 10:30 ish. I don't think this commuting will last long. Emily leaves( we take her) for college on Saturday, 8-20. This will be a real change for me. I am not the first mom to send her youngest to college so I am sure I will survive. Enough of the Horner news. It sounds like things in your home are moving along in a more positive direction. It sounds like Maddie's BD was a huge success. Happy Belated BD to Maddie. Miss Claire seems to be doing a marvelous job of growning. Yeah!!!!!!!!!!! For Mom and Dad, keep the faith and know that you are in Good Hands. God Bless and keep you strong.
Love,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 6:50 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Crew,
Thanks again for the newest update! Iain's entries are always so appreciated so we can keep up with it all! We continue the prayers and good wishes for you everyday...
Enjoy these moments because I have proof that it all goes by so quickly--we just returned from McKenna's bus orientation and a week from today she boards the big yellow school bus for her first day of Kindergarten and I swear I just blinked! Can you actually blink away five plus years?
Glad you had another visit with your parents and we will think of you as you gear up for Arizona.
We will send big prayers for good news on the scans and please keep us posted.
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 2:07 PM CDT

Those little girls of yours sound like characters! I laugh every time I read about them. Still praying!
Ashley Hast <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 9:38 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
Praying for good results on the scans. Glad you are getting a much deserved vacation. Hope you enjoy Arizona. Remember, it doesn't matter that it is 110 degrees, it is a dry heat!
Claire is definitely a future Zeta. Sleeping and eating. No body does it better than us!
What's hockey?!
Much Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 6:01 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,
Glad to hear that Claire is growing by leaps and bounds! Personally I am partial to chubby babies (Couldn't possibly be because mine is a Superchunk weighing in at almost 19 pounds!) I am keeping my fingers & toes crossed for good news on the catscans this week. We are heading off to Sonoma next week for vacation and will be thinking of you guys. Enjoy your trip to Arizona, get some rest & I hope it isn't too hot.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO 80130 - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 2:57 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain and kiddies. Thanks for the updates, Iain. We all want to know how you all are. Give my love to the Thoele's. And a bunch to you and Vicki and the kids.

I just got back from visiting Laura, Gary and kids in Maine. In September, I'll be visitng Erin,Mike and Tommy and Michelle. Love, Linda
Linda Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head Island, SC - Monday, August 15, 2005 8:34 PM CDT

Hi Iain, Vicki, Maddie, Claire and of course Snoop, Iain I think you are being cajoled into doing the updates because your true career should have been as a writer. Anyway glad to hear as always that things are progressing. I absolutely loved the pictures that Barry brought home. Your family is beautiful. Of course having 3 women in your life now makes you one busy man :) I wish I could have been there as well but I hope you know that I think of you guys always. BTW Snoop looks fantastic and as we approach Bogart's 12th BD next week (hard to believe) we will be thinking of his little american buddy. Hugs and kisses Alison and of course the rest of the Graham family.
Alison J. Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Friday, August 12, 2005 2:53 PM CDT

Basement??? I vaguely remember the word--we haven't seen a basement in 40 years. I'm thinking it would be the best place to be spending this heat wave. Yesterday was better--only 96. I can't remember why we use to love the heat. Grandson John broke his arm again yesterday--probably the fourth time--it's the skateboard. Ortho man says skateboards are the only annuities he needs. Anyway, John finished 8th grade w/ a cast, and will start hi school with one. The good news is he seems to heal quickly. Broken bones to him are about on par with my hangnails. He's much more concerned about his short--his fear is that he will be the shortest kid in the school--He's grown a couple of inches over the summer, and is hoping he's taller than Aunt Binkie, but figures the other kids will also be growing. Those were the wonder years. Praying for your comfort, strenth, and sense of humor. Blessing and love, Dave & Joanie
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Friday, August 12, 2005 1:28 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, I have been thinking about you so much lately. I hope things are going well. I can't believe how big
claire is getting. We have been busy, Kristen has started 1st grade and is doing well. Kristen and Andrew both are in swiming twice a week (which Andrew hates) but it's getting better. Work is extremlely busy but that is a good thing. Kiss the girls for me. You are continuously in our prayers. Love, Mindy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Friday, August 12, 2005 11:41 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I had bumped into Karen Blysak at the supermarket. She and Jennifer told me what had happened. You appear to have a beautiful family. I am so very sorry to hear about your illness. Stay strong. You are in so many people's prayers, something good is bound to come of them.
Marlynne Fox (Schmitz) <mfox@ashland.com>
Hackettstown, NJ - Friday, August 12, 2005 10:33 AM CDT

Hi, Vicki and Family! Wow, she sure has grown and she looks just like you, Vicki! Sorry chemo has been so tough this time. I'm waiting for the phone call to help out. Let me look at my calendar for the next few weeks and talk to Steve and see if I can't shoot up there for a night feeding after our kids are in bed, I can come up there and stay until 5 or 6. I can't believe I didn't think of that before. So, Hope said her first swear word today. I said 'damn door.' She looked at me with the sweetest eyes, and said in her sweetest voice, 'damn door?' In the form of a question. Uh oh. The boys are just growing like weeds. They both had surgery Tuesday for their ears - they needed tubes in their ears for draining to prevent ear infections. All turned out fine. Luke is our Mr. Fix-it, and Zack is the dancing nut. Maddy and he would make quite the duo. Hope is into everything, and your stories of Maddy remind me so much of Claire. I can't believe how old they are all getting. Time goes so fast. I hope to make it up there again soon, maybe with the kids during the day. The rest of August is pretty busy, but maybe sometime after Labor Day weekend. I'll be in touch about that night feeding. Take care and call if you need me to pitch in on medical days!
Cindy T. <tschosik94@comcast.net>
Downers Grove, IL US - Thursday, August 11, 2005 4:49 PM CDT

You know how they say that parenthood isn't for everyone? Well, you two sure have taken to it, like fish to water! I, on the other hand, should be FORBIDDEN to have children! Let me explain - Tuesday night I went to see Chris Isaak at the House of Blues (oh my GOD - is that man HOT!!!!) But I digress... Anyhoo, I came home and as far as I know, both of my cats, Zorro and Pistol, were around and about. Being the evil cat-owner that I am, I callously shut them out of my bedroom so that I could get a good night's sleep without being bothered by my oh-so-lovable critters. Anyway, during the night Pistol was HOWLING up a storm - which I summarily ignored. Fast forward to Wednesday morning. I'm getting ready for work and I casually notice that Zorro isn't hanging out in the bathroom and bedroom like he normally does. I give the place a cursory overview, but no sign of Zorro. I go back to my primping. Then, it starts to dawn on me that this is REALLY STRANGE. So now I give the place a thorough once over. NO SIGN OF THE CAT, anywhere! Panic rises. In desperation, I open my kitchen door, although I can't imagine that my indoor cat is outdoors. The poor guy was wedged between the back door and the screen door ALL NIGHT LONG!!! As far as Pistol's howling - I think he was trying to let me know that something was amiss. I am a bad, bad person! You, on the other hand, are good, good people! I wish you guys could make it to my party on Saturday - next year, okay?! Keep strong you guys!!! Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL U - Thursday, August 11, 2005 3:56 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Sorry to hear that chemo hit you so hard this time around. Hang in there and try to stay tough. I truly wish I could be there to help out more often. You are in my thoughts so often.
Just a note to make you smile...we are currently in Vermont on vacation and I made the final round in the cannonball competition. You had to have the biggest splash. Finally my weight and size have proven their worth! True I should not take satisfaction in defeating 5-10 year-olds, but I do!!!
Love to Iain, Maddy, and Claire!
Love ya,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 3:21 PM CDT

What a beauty! I hope Iain explained that those were the only walls to be written on... Anyway, I'm thinking of you often & sending you love & strength.
Michele
Michele
Montreal, QC Canada - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:10 AM CDT

Wow - that baby is beautiful!!!
Vicki - I had a great visit with your mom when she was back in NJ. She is one amazing woman. I can certainly see where you get your strength and courage from. You continue in my prayers and in the prayers of everyone at 1st Church Boonton. We download your web page and post it on the bulletin board at church each week. We love watching your children grow and hearing how you and Iain are doing. May God be with you all, Robin
Robin Gershaw <rgershaw@msn.com>
Denville, NJ USA - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 11:43 PM CDT

Vicki, wow, she is so beautiful. What an awesome picture. You know, you are truly and inspiration to me. I admire your strength and courage. You are such a special person. We are thinking of you daily. I love you! Give the girls a kiss for me.
Katie <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 7:12 AM CDT

Hi vicki, I sent this before, but think there was a problem so will redo. Just wanted to check in and say we think of you often. We appreciate reading the updates from Iain and hope you are able to have fun with the girls. It's alot of work and it's great that you have such a wonderful support system. You are in our thoughts and hopes for the future. Love, Ellie and Bob
ellie rice <earice@optonline.net>
ridgewood, nj usa - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 12:37 AM CDT

Just thinking about you and your family. Hope this chemo round is treating you well. Gracie is upstairs watching beauty and the beast dressed in her belle costume. She has to watch the corresponding movie to what costume she is wearing. Got to love girls!!!!!!!!!You can tell she is my daughter. Have a good weekend and miss you, kiss the girls and hug Iain for me. In my prayers daily.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Friday, August 5, 2005 10:31 AM CDT

I was so happy to see that beautiful picture of Claire. I'm so happy she is growing and doing well. Maddie is also adorable and I hope she has a wonderful 2nd year of her life. I always keep you and your family in my prayers and I hope that soon you'll be able to put this cancer chapter behind you.

Keep the faith.
Emily <emily@networkchics.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 9:26 AM CDT

Hard to believe that she should have only been 1 and 1/2 months old. The picture is amazing, and she is beautiful. I think of you guys so often, and wish that I could be of help. Keep strong, the girls are worth it and need you!!!
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 7:48 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,
Hope this round of chemo goes well & doesn't zap you too much. I spend most of my day at work thinking about you guys & wishing I didn't have to work so I could come and help out. (We'll see what we can work out for a visit soon). A happy belated birthday to Maddy & we are glad to hear that Claire is doing so well! We miss you guys & think of you often.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max (aka "Superchunk") May we should get him together with the mad goat!
Kerry Minervini <kerry_minervini@ml.com>
Littleton, CO - Thursday, August 4, 2005 7:38 AM CDT

Iain, you are tough! The stories about the girls are great and I see that they are really keeping you on the go. Vicki and the girls are certainly lucky to have you.
Dear Vicki, the girls after the chemo must have been a huge challenge. Good for you for being so strong! My sister asks about you regularly so know you are in her thoughts as well as in mine. Please take care and let those girls keep you laughing.
Lots of love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and family,
Vicki, I heard of both your good news and bad news. It's been a really long time since I've seen you, but I want to pass on congratulations for your beautiful children (it's great having two girls so close in age - I have two girls - 4 & 6, who are best friends). Also, you are a strong person, if anyone can beat this, it's you. You've always had a smile on your face and a positive outlook. It seems like you have a great and supportive husband, I've read the journal and he sounds fantastic, as do your many friends and family members who help. You are in my thoughts and I'll keep checking in on your progress. Stay strong!
Tanja Seybold (Riotto)
Cherry Hill, N.J. USA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
Hope Maddy had a wonderful birthday. The new picture of Claire is amazing. I understand she is back to only waking two times a night. I believe she woke every two hours for me because I am both interesting and beautiful, and she could not get enough time with me.
Hope all is well. I am hoping to make a trip out in the fall to help out during a chemo week. I will keep you posted.
You are as always in our thoughts and prayers!
Love ya,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 4:21 PM CDT

Dear Phillips Gang, What wonderful updates and pictures Iain. Your sense of humor is WOOOOOOnderful and I do so enjoy reading what you have written.
Vicki I am so proud of your being able to take care of BOTH kids on your own. Bob's back surgery went wonderfully well and he is healing rapidly. My prayer is that from now on you will have a much easier time- as Bob did - and the hardest times are past. Your pictures are precious of the girls. They seem to be such a blessing to you both, Vicki and Iain. Wish I could hold each of them and give you all hugs. Your strength is such a witness to us all!!
Nancy Blasberg
Orlando, FL - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 2:25 PM CDT

Howdy Folks: ) Hope chemo #8 starts today as scheduled and truly hope that you are not experiencing the same humidity we are back here! I think I told you we had a bear in the backyard on Sunday...Monday night something was on our roof over the loft and we heard it climb down the side of our house!! You should have seen the 2 of us running around the house at 2am turning on all the outside lights and shining our flashlights out in the yard - what a sight we were! Never did find out what it was. Tim thinks it was a racoon or a possum, I think it's wildebeast! Enjoy the rest of your visit with Margot. Iain, please post more of your pictures of your beautiful girls!
Love you all and miss you much. Nicole and Tim

Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 12:01 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
What a beautiful picture of Claire! She sure has grown! Happy belated birthday to Maddy! I'm glad you are finished with another round of chemo and I hope it has done more wonders. You are pretty amazing to be taking care of the 2 little ones all by yourself. Mothers are just amazing - in all kinds of circumstances! Love and hugs to all of you. Keep up the good work!
Love, Shirlee
Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 3:14 PM CDT

Hi, Phillips family! The new picture is stunning! I'm glad to hear that the princess had a good birthday. Thinking of you often, and praying that the chemo is doing its work. I'll be away for a week, but then I'll be back to check in. Love ya!
Katrina
Katrina Keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
Caldwell, NJ - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 11:25 AM CDT

Hello Chicago. Well, the report from the central coast is Sylvester. Now maybe the wine wasn't all that unusual (but it was good), but the barrel tasting, live music, tri-tip sandwiches and cheese trays (all free) have influenced my opinion.Guess I'm not much of a critic--if they passed out chocolate, I'd be influenced. If they passed out wine,...oh. Well,some of us just taste to enjoyit, right. Bought some table wine, but nothing fancy. New pic of Claire is beautiful. Thanks for update. Love & prayers, Dave & Joanie
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Monday, August 1, 2005 4:08 PM CDT

Iain,
Thanks for the new posting! The new picture of Claire is just breath-taking! We all love to read your updates as often as you have time to do them...
Vicki,
Hope you are having fun playing with all of Maddy's new toys. Enjoy every minute! Hope the next round of chemo goes as well as it can. Wonder why they can't make it with caffeine? We missed you at Bunco on Friday, but warm thoughts were sent your way!
Debbie Toussaint <debbiejo564@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 4:57 PM CDT

Hello. I often stop by and read your updates...but have never posted before. I came by your website from the old Raise Awareness board and have been following your story for some time. I just needed to say that I love coming to read your funny stories. You certainly have a great sense of humor through all this and I am sure your family is thankful for your great outlook. I wish you all the best as treatment continues and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Michelle <michelle_cooke1975@hotmail.com>
Ontario, Canada - Sunday, July 31, 2005 10:29 AM CDT

Oh, what a joy to read that the chemo went well this last time and that you, Queen Victoria, managed with the girls by yourself! The Lord does give strength where/when it is needed. I did so want to hop in the car and give you some assistance, but problems with my back (darn that old age) would only have had me sharing a couch with you...and that's no help. After a radio frequency treatment this week that will deaden the nerves and ease the pain, we are off to Iceland with Tara's 9 yr old; ergo, no help from me in August at all. God willing, fall will be better for both of us and I can do more that pray for you --- ah, but that seems to be a HUGE help. With all the voices raised, how can God NOT hear our pleas (or please!)?
A note to Iain: the biggest THANKS of all goes to YOU for the love and patience and support and care that you give to "our" Vicki and the girls and for keeping all of us informed. You are a blessing. How fortunate Vicki is that you share her life.
Love the new picture of baby Claire. I want to hold her!
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Sunday, July 31, 2005 6:22 AM CDT

Vicki,
Just checking in on a late night round of internet cruisin. Always nice to read your updates. Iain has such a way with his words. I am so glad I got to meet you in person in NJ. You are just the niftiest, and always smiling. Big hugs and kisses to you and your GORGEOUS kids- and Sophia and I send a big HELLO!
Stacy <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
middlesex, nj - Sunday, July 31, 2005 0:09 AM CDT

Vicki,
It was great to see you in person last week! You look fantastic inside and out! I hope Maddy's birthday was fit for a princess and it was a magical day/weekend. It was good to know that this last chemo couldn't hit you as hard with time to rest in between the other rounds. Hope you have a wonderful weekend. Love and prayers coming your way.
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 7:00 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Maddy, the angel - I loved the picture! I hope you are feeling well and that you haven't had to suffer from this disgusting heat. Our air conditioner broke and I turned into an absolute witch. (Don't ask Steve how much of a witch I was!!!) When I saw the repair man outside working, I thought he could easily be my best friend. He fixed it and is now my hero.
How was THE birthday party? That could easily wear a mother out. But, the excitement of the birthday girl makes it all worthwhile, doesn't it?
My sister's chemo was cancelled this last week so she was a bit blue. Once again, I told her about your strength and it put a sparkle in her eyes. You and your family are in our discussions regularly and it has given her positive thoughts. Hopefully, when we go back to NYC on Monday, she'll be well enough to start the chemo again.
I am on my way to meet Megan. She finished at Vassar and is now working at the same type of program at Princeton. She wants food because Princeton's dining hall is disgusting so I guess it is a mother and daughter night out.
Vicki, in my mind, I'm giving you and your family giant hugs. I hope they reach you as well.
Lots of love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 2:15 PM CDT

Thinking of you today and hope everything is going well. Many hugs.
hillari
Scotland, - Friday, July 29, 2005 3:59 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Hope all is going well. Happy Belated Birthday Maddy!! I hope you had a birthday party worthy of the princess that you are! Chubby Big Head is better than the Mad Farter!
Miss you all!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 7:30 PM CDT

Hey Vicki!!
Just wanted to let you know I am continuing to pray for you and your family!! Hopefully some time this fall I can make a trip out to finally meet you in person!! Stay stong!
Brenda Kamis <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN USA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 10:53 AM CDT

What a great picture of Princess Maddy! Hope the birthday party was wonderful - and that you stayed cool! Way to go Claire with improved sleep habits. Vicki - how is it going with chemo and two girls all at once? Don't forget to call- I'll be there! Love and prayers to you all!
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 11:56 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! It was good to see you on Saturday. I was just sitting here thinking about you and how great you look--keep up the good work! I hope Maddy enjoyed her party-I can't believe she's 2 already. Remember, after school starts on Aug. 23, I'm free to come sit, cook or drive. Just call or email me. See you soon.
Linda Griffin <l_bgriffin@ameritech.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 4:59 PM CDT

Hi, Vicki-
I'm Nancy McGowan's sister. She told me about this website, which is wonderful! Even though I do not know you, you will be in prayers! God bless you and yours.
Carol Elkins <carolelkins@hotmail.com>
Medina, OH USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 1:01 PM CDT

I want to see pictures of that Chubby Baby! Not to mention pictures from Maddy's 2nd birthday party! Sending lots of love and good thoughts your way!

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, July 25, 2005 3:13 PM CDT

Hey there!!!

How did the Birthday girl enjoy her party?? I hope it was a great day for the family and the effects of chemo didn't get in the way too much!! Love and prayers to you all.....
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, New Jersey United States of America - Sunday, July 24, 2005 7:46 PM CDT

HAPPY SECOND BIRTHDAY TO LITTLE MADDY. WE LOVE YOU. HOPE ALL IS WELL AND ENJOY THE PARTY. yOUR FRIENDS, PUCK, RICH, RICHIE AND GRACIE
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, n united states of america - Saturday, July 23, 2005 4:10 PM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PRINCESS MADDIE!!
Julie <jlpeacock_3@yahoo.com>
MO - Saturday, July 23, 2005 1:17 PM CDT

Happy birthday Maddy! Vicki, hope everything is going well for you this week with the chemo.
Lisa Bond Mericle <mericletwins@aol.com>
Cape May Court House, NJ - Saturday, July 23, 2005 7:16 AM CDT

Howdy Friends!
Vicki, based on the fact you were napping when I called yesterday, I'm thinking Chemo is underway...hope it is and hope you're having an easy time with it this week. Picture of Maddy is ADORABLE - of course! (Definitely must be a photo that Iain took...Iain, when you write your book, you can do your own book jacket...big money!) Something tells me she's been wearing the princess outfit all week...hope tomorrow's birthday is wonderful...see another milestone made: ) CHUBBY BIGHEAD?!?!?! PITA, couldn't you think of something cute, like Sweet Cheeks?! You crack me up! Love you all think of you daily...will try to call you again today...
Love,Nic and Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Friday, July 22, 2005 8:54 AM CDT

I'm hoping that chemo did start as planned this time -- no more trouble with those dumb white cells! I certainly prayed a lot about them...my knees are calloused from assuming a proper position of prayer!!!! Nah, not really. Just wanted to make you smile. How nice to have all four of you at HOME to celebrate Maddy's 2nd birthday as a family. Um, who is making the cake? And can you find the trick candles that keep coming back on when Maddy blows them out? Ya gotta know she'd love 'em. I love kid's birthdays and eating gooey frosting from the cake and playing the games...I wanna be there!!!! Hmmm, I wonder what Quentin has going on this weekend? You might get a call............. Then I'd want to sing to Maddy, hug Vicki for awhile, hold that precious baby, and yup, finally meet the glue that has been holding the family and friends together throughout this long ordeal and deserves special attention, the one, the only MISTER IAIN PHILLIPS. And now for the punch line... I hope you don't feel "icki,Vicki" with this chemo. Hug the quilt and feel the love! And have a family hug and pretend that I'm in there, too. Squeeeeeze!
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Friday, July 22, 2005 2:12 AM CDT

Hello From the Sun Baked San Fernando Valley. Thermometer says 105, but I'm sure that's too low--it's too hot to think or do anything constructive. Tomorrow we'll toddle up the coast to LosOsos (San Luis Obispo territory) for a cool down, visit with old codgers, a bit of classical music and wine tasting. The area has at least a dozen new vineyards, so our old-codger contact has the job of sniffing out the best. Will report any fantastic new finds.Meanwhile, we'll pray for cold fusion, or any other kind of energy source to afflict the grown ups, esp. Saturday. Birthday Party? Hope it's small. Speaking of presents, I have one for Maddy--and one for Clair--the one for Claire is to 12# so maybe I'll wait a little longer til Maddy's is too small, too. Maybe procrastination and sinility are correlated. You think? Love & prayers, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell
chatsworth, ca usa - Thursday, July 21, 2005 6:07 PM CDT

Beautiful picture of a beautiful little girl. Happy Birthday. Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate...!
Johnna (FOA) <thornton2003@juno.com>
Springfield, IL - Thursday, July 21, 2005 0:10 AM CDT

Hello Vicki and family, I just wanted to send my prayers from an old high school friend.
Christian Dvorak <dvack92@comcast.net>
Alexandria, VA USA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 10:35 PM CDT

Wow! 2 Years Old!!! What a young lady Maddy is becoming..tee hee!!! Haapy Birthday..to you Maddy Blue Eyes!!
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, New Jersey - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 6:29 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,Iain and Kids,

Loved the picture of Maddy! She's a real beauty. Glad Vicki had fun in NJ. I wish I lived closer so I could help you out with the kids, Vicki. Love, Linda
Linda Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head Island, SC - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 12:49 AM CDT

Can I help you sometime in the next few weeks? I sent an email to Vicki's hotmail account but I'm not sure if you'll get it. I have time off until August 13 and Beth might be able to drive out with me to visit and help. I missed you when I called.
Margo Novak <margonov@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, July 19, 2005 10:12 PM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, July 18, 2005 10:12 PM CDT

So, my dear Queen Victoria, today you go from being royalty to being the hired help! Gather all the toys for Maddy and enough bottles for Claire and lock yourselves in one room so that Maddy has limits and you don't need to be chasing her. That will be your only hope until help arrives when Daddy gets home! Now this white blood cell thing... I am praying about it, as I'm sure everyone else is. Gotta be able to get that chemo going. I'll be checking on you. In the meantime, big Hugs!
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, - Monday, July 18, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Saturday was great! It's hard to believe some of us had not seen each other in 16 years! All of our friends have beautiful children, and the ones who don't have children are beautiful too . Hope Iain got some good sleep this weekend, hope Kris gets some tonight. Vicki, have an easy week flying solo with your beautiful girls...
Love, Nicole and Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Monday, July 18, 2005 9:34 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain and girls, So great to see the beautiful picture and read your wonderful update, Iain. Vicki, hope you had a wonderful visit with your friends and things go well back at home this week as chemo resumes. So glad there are friends near-by to call on. We don't write often but we do remember you all daily in our thoughts and prayers. Please know how much we love you. Bobbie
Bobbie Streeter <brs@cox.net>
Williamsburg, VA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 7:10 PM CDT

Hi Vicki!

I hope you had a wonderful weekend visiting everyone in NJ! I'm sure a visit back home with your girlfriends was just what you needed right now. My offer to help you out while your mom is back home still stands. Call me anytime!

Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 5:20 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
It was a wonderful weekend. Everyone loved seeing you and the baby. It was good to be around the old crew again. Save up your strength for next year.
To all those who said Claire slept 3 to 4 hours at a time....YOU LIED!!! Claire and I became very close this weekend during our chats (every 2 hours at night). I have discovered that she is adorable at any hour, and I am old.
Hope the flight home is good!
Love to all,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, nj USA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 1:42 PM CDT

Vicki

How great it was to see you and Claire! A great big thank you to Kris for having us all to her house. It was so wonderful to get to see everyone. I'm sorry that I didn't get as much time as I wanted to talk to everyone, but my kids were having some "moments". Can't wait until next year so that we can do it again. Have a great flight home today and good luck with the chemo this week.
Lisa (Bond) Mericle <mericletwins@aol.com>
Cape May Court House, NJ - Sunday, July 17, 2005 7:51 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire - We are closeby and we are able! Let us help you. I love doing laundry and grocery shopping (OK - maybe love is a little strong - but for you it would be a labor of love!)Anything you need - give us a call. You are constantly in our prayers! We love you guys!
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Saturday, July 16, 2005 0:50 AM CDT

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I love to see a new update on how things are going for you. Your little girls are adorable and I admire all of you for your strength. God Bless you. Have a wonderful trip.
Michelle <michellemhorton@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx - Friday, July 15, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

Have a great trip to New Jersey, Vicki and Claire! Iain, good luck, you're spending the weekend with a lean, mean, tooting machine! At least she'll tell you some jokes. See you all very soon. BTW - happy birthday, Iain and many returns.
Jennifer Jacobs
- Friday, July 15, 2005 1:04 PM CDT

Beautiful Photo of your girls Iian..Thanks for sharing it and all the news! Good Luck with your trip Vicki...Have a great time....I am sure you will save energy for your big week, next week with your little ladies....My prayers are with you all...Get rest this weekend...eat well..stay away from germs LOL...just thought you might want some Motherly advice Hahaha!!! God Bless you all
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montvillen, New Jersey - Friday, July 15, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Wow! This is the BIG weekend - Kind of like a fledgling leaving the nest. I know this will be a boost to the morale. I could use a weekend with group of good friends, too. Just remember to save enough energy for the trip back home; you DO have to get back to Lake Zurich and Iain and Maddy! I hope the chemo went well, that adrenalin has you on a high, and that you can really ENJOY yourself the next few days. As always, hugs to all. You're in my prayers.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Friday, July 15, 2005 5:14 AM CDT

Bon Voyage! Once you're out of the airport, imagine you will have a great time enjoying the change of scenery and characters. Hope Miss Clair is a good traveller. Now this is a courageous journey! Love and prayers to all, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspsring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Thursday, July 14, 2005 1:08 PM CDT

Hi Vicki & Iain! Just checking in to say, "hello" and to let you know that you are still in my thoughts & prayers.
Bon Voyage and have a terrific trip to NJ, Vicki. BTW, the new photo is adorable!
Janet <janettaylor04@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL - Thursday, July 14, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

Have a safe flight and Im glad that Kris will have a baby in the house again. What a wonderful friend she is to have. See you Friday. Lisa Gaskill
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 8:12 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Have a wonderful weekend. You will definately have tons of laughs. Maybe you should make a video tape and send it to the "Girls Gone Wild" producer.
Have a safe and germ free flight.
Deanna Graham <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 6:32 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Can't wait to see you Friday. Have a safe flight.
Love ya,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 5:29 PM CDT

Vicki,
I love the latest picture of you and the girls! Are you sporting a new outfit in that picture??? Very cute! Hope you are ready to tackle your next round of chemo. Wanted you to know that we are still thinking of you and including you in our daily prayers. As we drove by your street this week, McKenna was first to say, "Hi Phillips!" this time. They grow up so quickly, so treasure Maddy calling Claire "Clown" because those are the moments!!! Keep up the good work. Remember, I am only a phone call away should you need a manicure or hand/foot massage! I could even come pick you up and perform the services out by our pool. Keep it in mind!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 2:45 PM CDT

Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking of you all. Hope you are having a nice day.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 12:07 AM CDT

Thinking of you and wishing happiness and health. I wish I lived near you, I'd be around to help all the time! You would be sick of me, lol.
Hillari
Scotland - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 11:39 AM CDT

Good morning Phillips family!

I hope you are having a great week. I will be making the trek north to the BBQ this weekend. Linda Gherdovich is so nicely putting us up overnight. She must be crazy since I will be dragging my 3 children with me. :0) I can't wait to see everyone. Have a great flight on Friday!
Lisa (Bond aka Bondage from ZTA days) <mericletwins@aol.com>
Cape May, NJ - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 9:54 AM CDT

I love the picture of Vicki and the girls! How cute! I'm sorry I've been so remiss about signing in. I started to sign in last week and just had one of those moments where I couldn't think of anything to say. I know that's a terrible excuse!!! I am praying for you guys! Vicki, have a great time in New Jersey!

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 9:31 AM CDT

Just stopping by to let you know that someone in Wisconsin is thinking about you. Claire is certainly a cutie.
Kari (Angels On Earth) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 3:31 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and family,
Love the new picture - you all look wonderful. Good luck with your next treatment and stay strong. Have a great trip to NJ, I am sure it will be great for you to see everyone there. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love,
Tracy
Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 3:06 PM CDT

Hi Vick,
Enjoy your time home this weekend. Wish I could be there to see you & everyone else. Have a good time & we'll talk again soon.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@comcast.net>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 1:45 PM CDT

Hi, Just letting you know how much I enjoy your updates and following Vicki and Claire's progress. I've been reading your journal since the beginning and little Claire is just precious. You're doing a great job Vicki! I'll keep praying for you.
Kris Herbst *Angels on Earth* <kris@ercolina-usa.com>
Davenport, IA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 1:04 PM CDT

Stopping in to say HELLO! and to let you know that you are being thought of and prayed for!! Your daughters are precious!!! Especially Clown. Hhahhahahaha! That is hilarious!!!
Sending hugs, thoughts, and prayers your way!
Love,
Sara *Angels on Earth* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 12:34 AM CDT

Stopping by to let you know you are in our thoguhts and prayers.

Angela ~Angels on Earth *- -HEATHER GRACE

<alisonheathersmama@gmail.com>
natick, Ma - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 12:19 AM CDT

Vicki & family-
Can't wait to see you this weekend. The pictures are terrific. Hang in there, we think of you every day! Love ya,
Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 10:36 AM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 0:47 AM CDT

Vicki,

Looking forward to seeing you at Zabel's house this weekend. Kinda funny that after all these years I still get invited to ZTA stuff. Glad to hear that things are going so well. Your daughters are beautiful. Feel better. See you soon.

Barry J. Roy <broy@brtlawfirm.com>
Montclair, NJ - Monday, July 11, 2005 2:59 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! I hope that the NJ trip goes well!
I'm glad to hear that the girls are doing so well. So cute that Maddie tries to comfort little Clown, I mean Claire!

Take care!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, July 11, 2005 1:45 PM CDT

Hello Miss Vick. Heres to a safe and unstressfull flight out Friday. Cant wait to meet little claire and to give you a great big hug. It will be so nice to see you and everyone. I cant beleive that Maddy is going to be two. How is the backyard play fort comming along? Any tea parties up there yet? Before you know it they will both be sitting up there. I hope you are feeling well and you look so beautiful in that picture. I am not sure but it looks like you are wearing capri's in that photo. Have a good day and, My children cant wait to meet baby claire also. Your friends, Lisa Rich richie and Graceanne Gaskill.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Monday, July 11, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

Happy Monday Phillips Family! Hope you all had a beautiful weekend: ) Vicki, so very psyched to see you and Claire this weekend and hoping that the medicine of girlfriends getting together makes this week's chemo seem like a flu shot! I will call you today, although I don't seem to have much luck with the timing of my calls: ( Sounds like Maddy is adapting nicely to the role of big sister, it must be so heartwarming to see!!
Love you guys! Nicole and Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Monday, July 11, 2005 9:36 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,Iain,Maddy and Claire.
I love the new picture of the girls. I want to tell you that I still think of you guys everyday. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.xoxoxoxo

Michelle,William,Johnathon and Brandon <michskor@hotmail.com>
Stittsville, on Canada - Saturday, July 9, 2005 6:50 AM CDT

Hey there - Just went through the yahoo picture book...Maddy as an angel...is this a disguise??? The pictures are awesome. Such precious little girls.

Vicki, I think of you quite often. I know you can beat this!

Hope to see you at the end of July!
Sara
SaraT <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Chicago, IL US - Friday, July 8, 2005 3:25 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

Looking forward to seeing you in August! I can't wait to meet your babies. They are so darling. I'm sorry to hear you had to delay chemo one week. Hang in there. Love reading Iain's stories. He darn well better be that funny during my visit. See you soon.
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Friday, July 8, 2005 1:04 PM CDT

Hey Vicki (and family),

I just realized that I never signed in. I've been following the news on the web site for a while now. Keep going in the right direction.

Your girls are beautiful!

James (& Jenn) Vincent
James Vincent <jjvincent@optonline.net>
Orange, CT USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 12:46 AM CDT

Dear Vicki & Iain and kiddies and Grammy Sandi,

The new picture of you with the kids is great. Maddy has beautiful hair! I hope you can enjoy NJ inspite of having had a chemo session. We are still praying for you all. Thanks for all the updates. Love, Linda and Tom
Linda and Tom Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head Island, SC - Friday, July 8, 2005 12:32 AM CDT

Hi Vicki. Great to see the picture of you and the girls together.

I've been watching Lance in the tour de france lately, and was wondering if you're going to enter the tour once you beat this thing???

Thinking of you!!!
Kevin Hopkins
Chicago, IL USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 12:08 AM CDT

Those girls are beautiful!! I love hearing about Maddy with Claire. That is just how my children are together. It is the best. Vicki, I hope you are about to resume your chemo next week. I think about you often and pray that everything is going well.
Tracy (FOA-Fundraising Leader/Angels on Earth)
NY - Friday, July 8, 2005 10:01 AM CDT

Still checking in on you guys. :)
Ashley Hast (FOA/AOE) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, July 8, 2005 9:37 AM CDT

I love the new picture. The kids look so cute together and Vicki looks really well. I hope you are able to get the help around the house that you need. Have a great weekend!
Michele
New Jersey, USA - Friday, July 8, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Vicki- I know I dont do guestbook enteries very often, but there isnt a day that goes by without me thinking and praying for you and your family. I am continually amazed by your strenght and power. You are looking absolutely wonderful I might add!! Stay strong! I know you will kick this cancer!!
Love and hugs!
Brenda- your sparkler friend
Brenda Kamis <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN - Friday, July 8, 2005 7:52 AM CDT

I follow your story faithfully and God, I would help, but I live in California and have two crazy kids of my own. Their father will drive them nuts if I leave them alone with him...hehe. Vicki looks amazing in the photo on the home page. Sorry about the delay in chemo. That's the worst when you just want to get it over with.
Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Thursday, July 7, 2005 8:29 PM CDT

Hi You All (Southern CA, after all): Tried to send wedding pics to Sandi, but think they are lost in space. Anyway, they aren't nearly as cute as the ones I've seen on your site here. You know the reason these days are so long is because you're living with two angels..or perhaps three. All the best as you gear up for more of the juice. Yuk. Hope the trip to NJ is just what the Dr ordered. Love & prayers to all, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Thursday, July 7, 2005 5:28 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you all know I'm still thinking about you and still sending up the prayers! I'm glad to hear things are going much better.

Kathy Martensen <kjswenson@hotmail.com>
Jewell, IA USA - Thursday, July 7, 2005 4:38 PM CDT

I think of you and your family daily. I pray for you all constatnly. I hope things are well and that "no gu-news is good gu-news" (my sad attempt at really out dated humor lol). How are the numbers showing? Are things working? I pray with all that i have that you are healing. Your fmaily is so cute and lovely. Precious to the last drop!
Keep us posted and God speed.
Kera P <buckweew@aol.com>
Murfeesboro, TN - Thursday, July 7, 2005 10:32 AM CDT

Hey guys,
Just checking in to say hi and hope that today went okay. Your strength and determination are being tested with each round of chemo, but you are amazing. Just keep fighting!
I so wish I could come and stay with you and help out. Please know that you are in my thoughts all the time.
Best to all of you,
Rebecca
Rebecca Hassouna <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 9:39 PM CDT

Ditto what Katie said. We love you Vicki! (and Iain, Maddy and Claire).
Hope today wasn't too rough. Thinking about you.
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 7:05 PM CDT

Vicki- I heard you, Margie, Elizabeth, and the girls had a great time at lunch. The pictures were too cute! I know you are starting another round of chemo today, I really hope the tumors are shrinking more and more everyday and soon be gone. We think about you everytday here in Minnesota and my family asks about you often.

Take Care,
Sarah Rowan
Sarah and Avery Rowan (July Spark) <srowan@elcabop.org>
- Wednesday, July 6, 2005 1:55 PM CDT

Vicki, just thinking of you today. Margie is keeping us posted on your progress. We sure love you!
Katie Murphy <kmurpy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 10:50 AM CDT

Wow - your sister is engaged. All of a sudden I feel very old. The news is so great though. I bet she can't wait to show it off to you. I saw it through e-mail and it looked quite beautiful. Megan wanted her e-mail so I will send it to her when I get it from your mom.
I hope you are feeling better, Vicki, and that the chemo problems were not as strong this time. I'm going to NY for her third round tomorrow so I've got my fingers crossed for both of you. Please take care, hug the girls for me, and tell Iain that I give him a lot of credit. His positive attitude teaches us daily.
Lots of love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, July 4, 2005 6:03 PM CDT

Happy 4th of July! Hope you had a super spectacular weekend. Glad to hear you had a night out on the town - you deserve it! Could the weather have been more perfect? You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Speak to you soon.

Beth
Beth Slaughter <momsandtots@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Monday, July 4, 2005 5:15 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,
Hope you enjoyed your break from the chaos last night and that you got to sleep in this morning! Thinking of you always. Love, Margie

Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, il - Sunday, July 3, 2005 1:54 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iaian, and girls,
It has been so long since I have been able to sit at the computer,as both Meghan and Burt are working at it constantly looking for jobs. We had a great time in Jamaica; really nice weather, beautiful water, and better than average food. We are leaving today for CT to visit my brother and his family for the July 4th weekend. I am sorry to hear about your bout with a cold, but glad that you fought it off. I would so like to come and help you, but distance and getting Emily ready for College, and keeping our boat afloat is a full time job for me right now. However, I am diligently praying for all of you. Iaian, I am so glad to hear that your mom seems to be doing so well. Hopefully, your dad will respond well,also. Hugs and kisses to the girls.
Love,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net.>
Long Valleyl, NJ - Friday, July 1, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

Sorry to hear that you were so knocked out last week. I hope its behind you and you can move ahead. I also hope that you are able to get people to help you out because I'm sure you are going to need every bit of help, especially with a newborn. My thoughts are with you.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Friday, July 1, 2005 11:14 AM CDT

Daycare $$$ !

Donations can be made directly to the Phillips' Family Fund. Here's the info:

Phillips' Family Fund
Baxter Credit Union
400 N Lakeview Parkway
Vernon Hills, IL 60061

Tom Nicholas <<tomnich@gmail.com>>
- Friday, July 1, 2005 8:49 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Mandy & Claire,
I do so wish I could come to help out for awhile as you requested in your most recent update. But,I will have my own caregiving to tend to as Bob will have back surgery (Lumbar Laminectomy) on 7/5. However, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for more dramitic shrinkage of the tumors. God IS good and He IS in control.
Keep smiling even with the "toot toots" and the WAAAAH's through the night.

Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL USA - Thursday, June 30, 2005 1:19 PM CDT

Hope you both enjoy your birthday night out! I wish I was still there - miss the girls terribly! Kira was asking for a blueberry over and over again last night. I was thinking hey she's moved on from applesauce but that was Maddy!
Doreen <doreen.ritacco@acs-hro.com>
Tenafly, NJ USA - Thursday, June 30, 2005 9:56 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy, Claire and Snoop,
Glad to hear your cold is working it's way out of your system. Hope you get some rest on your off week and build up your energy to really enjoy (ahem) your weekend!
17 more days until the BBQ!!!
Love, Nicole and Big Pocono
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Thursday, June 30, 2005 7:42 AM CDT

Hi, Vicki. From what I can gather, Iain had a birthday. Hope it was another great memory made! I don't know about you, but since we've had children it amazes me how small my universe is. I am content with life's simplicity and find joy in places, glances and gestures that I never imagined. I hope your last round was impactful and you're in my thoughts with the remaining treatments. Sorry I haven't posted recently. We're selling our house and I decided to teach a summer class so I've been a bit distracted the past few weeks, but still enjoying the kids and their summer fever! Feel a hug and I can't wait to see you at the BBQ. Stay strong. Love, Linda
Linda Trainor <trainorz@optonline.net>
Manalapan, NJ USA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 9:11 PM CDT

Oh, how I wish I lived closer (and knew you guys! LOL) so I could come over and help. I'm glad to hear Vicki got over her cold without a hospital stay. As always, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginny **FOA** <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 7:47 PM CDT

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY IAIN!!!
Hope today is a good one...
Love,
Rebecca
Rebecca Hassouna <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 6:21 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Iain! I hope you enjoy your day and that you and Vicki have a nice kids-free weekend in Chicago! You deserve it!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 9:43 PM CDT

Hello! Looks like a birthday wish is in order, Iain! Get extra kisses from all your girls. I'm thinking of all of you each day and hope you are feeling all of the love and prayers sent your way.
P.S. How's the applesauce addiction going?
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 5:37 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
We have never met but I am praying for you and your family. I am Margie Stover Lea's Godmother. God Bless You!

Jacqueline Mechoulam <jdranmec@hal-pc.org>
Houston, TX USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:53 AM CDT

Happy Birthday to you. Happy Birthday to you. Happy Birthday dear Iain. Happy Birthday to you! (trust me, you definitely prefer the written version!) Love, Nicole and Big Pocono
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:50 AM CDT

Dear Iain,
Hope you have a wonderful birthday!!! You deserve it.
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:04 AM CDT

Hello to all,
I am sorry I have been neglectful in not writing. You are in my thoughts daily. School is out for me so I am at my sister's helping her through this rough time.
Iain, I am so happy about your parents. Your Mom and laundry though??? Is she a glutten for punishment? You Phillips and Thoeles are certainly "example setting" tough ones!!!!
Hugs to big and little family members. I'll be back soon to hear how the little ones are keeping you hopping and to let you and Vicki know that the Harveys are with you through our thoughts and wishes daily.
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 8:40 AM CDT

Vicki, Just wanted to send a quick note, hope things are going well. We are getting ready to go camping this week near Santa Barbara. We'll be home for the 4th. Our neighbors always have a big thing. Kiss the girls for me. Love, Mindy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 8:29 AM CDT

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, June 27, 2005 8:26 PM CDT

Hello, Vicki and family! I can't believe it's been a month since Cindy and I came to see you. We thought you looked great and were handling things just fine. The girls are adoreable. I'm glad the last chemo is over. Just know I am thinking about you and hoping for great results from all the treatments. Please let me know if you need anything.
Love from Mary R.
Mary Roberti <mmroberti@aol.com>
Elgin, IL USA - Monday, June 27, 2005 3:04 PM CDT

Hello All: It's a relief to hear about you folks, Iain. Now you can concentrate on your harem again. Happy to report we got Pam married --it took just 11 of us, and 3 of those were the kids. We had a beautiful day, and now not only do I have a son-in-law, but two big grandkids 16 & 19, and a niece on Mike's side who has invited us for the 4th of July. The niece's dad is a chili-cookoff winner, so we're expecting some fine victuals
About the Mikes, we now have three, Mike M, the cousin, Mike W, his brother-in law, and now, Mike LaParruque, Pam's husband. Makes for interesting holiday confusion and mixed up pkgs.
Round six, and the defending champion prepares for her next bout. I guess if they give you any kind of break between rounds,the shopping drive kicks in, and that could be very expensive. Shopping deprivation in some cases, is as destructive as sleep deprivation, right?

Our maintenance prayers are getting a little long, so we're going for the miracle stuff: A two year old with social skills and logical needs, a baby that doesn't spit up, and a full night's uninterrupted sleep for all. Blessing to you all. Much love, Dave & joanie
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Monday, June 27, 2005 1:10 PM CDT

Dear vicki and Iain,

Glad to hear your parents are doing OK, Iain. Life has handed you a barrel of melons, or is it lemons? Anyway, your sense of humor is terrific and must be a big help to everyone to get through this difficult time. You are all in our prayers. Love, Linda and Tom Carey
Linda Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head Island, SC - Monday, June 27, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

Dear Iain and Vicki, I just LOVE the updates! I second the emotion that Iain could have had a career as a writer. I am praying for all of you and that the chemo goes well this week. As always, I am truly amazed by your strength and courage! Keep it up - you have a lot of people pulling for you! :-)

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, June 27, 2005 8:53 AM CDT

Hi Vicki- I am thinking of you and your family and are pleased to see you are all doing well. I will continue to wish the best for all of you. Take care and stay strong. Your Sparkler friend, Robin
Robin Jacobson <robinjanej@comcast.net>
Portland, OR - Sunday, June 26, 2005 10:15 PM CDT

Hi Gang-
I will be thinking of you this week as you endure another round of chemo, as I think of you every week. I hope that you are able to tolerate it reasonably well. Can't wait to see you in a couple of weeks. Stay strong. Love ya! Katrina
Katrina Keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Sunday, June 26, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I hope this weeks chemo was not so bad. We are all thinking of you, and can't wait to see you.
Love,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, June 26, 2005 5:27 PM CDT

To the Phillips family,
Greetings from Pittsburgh! It is always so nice to check in here and see that things are still moving onward and upward. Just likes Claire's meals! Vicki, I hope this recent round of chemo is bearable. Your attitude is amazing. "Thank you sir may I have another?"
Juliana definitely has $5 in the piggybank. Iain, you may have to raise the price to keep up with demand. We, too, are working on the backyard circus. It's going to become difficult to mow the lawn.
Thinking of you all as always.
Love,
Rebecca
Rebecca Hassouna <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Saturday, June 25, 2005 7:07 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,

I'm thinking of you as you enter your "chemo weekend" and wanted you to know that I am sending you smiles and prayers right now! Every time we drive down Miller Road, which is quite often, we send an extra wave to your house. Have you felt the wind currents? I hope the girls have had mercy with you in the sleep department this week, but they are beautiful no matter what, right? Stay strong!
P.S. Has Maddy tried the green, pear-flavored applesauce? It is one of McKenna's favorites.
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Saturday, June 25, 2005 6:55 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,
So glad to hear your folks are doing well Iain and that you were able to visit. It was so great to meet your family when I was out. They are such great people and lots of fun!!
It was great to see you Vicki!!! You look as beautiful as ever, even in your pj's! It really did my heart good to see that you haven't changed at all even through all this chemo balogna!! To see you and your family laughing and caring on as normal considering the circumstances is a testament to you and your family's strength, courage, endurance and most importantly love!!!!
Seeing the cancer from a third party point of view, instead of 1st hand, made me appreciate even more what Gary did for me and the kids. Iain, thanks for showing me what Gary did while I slept off the chemo. Thank you both, for sharing your family with me. Your children are beautiful and I fell in love with them. On a "regular" visit I wouldn't have been able to get to know them as well.
Vicki, it is always great to pick up where we left off. Can't wait to have more time with you again!
Gary and I will continue to smother you all in prayers, kisses and hugs!! All our love, Laura, Gary, Stephi, Sam and Ryan
P.S. Mayu says "hi" to Snoop.
Laura Walker <glwalker@adelphia.net>
Hampden, ME USA - Friday, June 24, 2005 10:46 PM CDT

Iain,
I had to compose myself after reading your last post (Rain Man meets Joe Cocker). I am still chuckling as I write this. May this round of chemo be easy on you Vicki. Looking forward to hearing more good news on your next update.

Smiles,
Joy FOA/RA
Joy McCarthy <joymcarthy@aol.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Friday, June 24, 2005 1:50 PM CDT

Hey guys! Sounds like everyone is doing well.

I love reading the updates.

Vicki, best of luck with round #6!

We have $5.00 saved too, can we come and play with the Diva and piggy????
:) Love y'all!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Friday, June 24, 2005 12:42 AM CDT

I haven't signed in for a long time, but I check in daily. It's always encouraging to see the support you have from friends far and wide. And I love the updates from Iain, always so clever. I'm counting down the hours for you until this round of chemo is over. I just know that each round is helping... you are destined to be one of God's miracles! Cuddle up in your quilt when the chemo-cold hits and wear gloves if you need to. Or better yet, have Iain hold your hands! As always, I send love to all the Phillips and to Grandma Sandi. Prayers continue.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Thursday, June 23, 2005 10:29 PM CDT

Well, I'm not sure the point of our new homeland security department if they let shady characters like you back in the country, Iain. Another waste of my tax dollar.

Glad to hear that everyone is doing so well! Vicki, hang in there for chemo round 6. We know that it is doing good, even if it doesn't always feel that way. I see that Maddy has successfully made her way into the terrible 2s. Ah yes, so lovely when children arch their backs and stiffen up and howl like the dickens. Makes me want to go out right now and have a couple myself.

As always, happy to read another update of the Phillips clan. And as always, you're on my mind.

Take care.
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Thursday, June 23, 2005 4:22 PM CDT

Dear Vicki: Hello. It is Erin (Lee) Normile from college. We were in ZETA together. Tina Slickmeyer told me about this website. Congratulations on the birth of your new baby girl. Your entire family is beautiful. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this very difficult time.

Love, Erin (Lee) Normile

Erin Normile <erinnormile@verizon.net>
New Egypt, NJ USA - Thursday, June 23, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

Our prayers continue for each of you(including caretakers),loving thoughts, the Mann's
Melina Mann <mmann@mteamfinancial.com>
LaGrange, Il Cook - Thursday, June 23, 2005 11:03 AM CDT

Vicki,
I hope you are holding your own against this round of chemo. Stay strong...you have so many people who are sending you strength mentally and spiritually! Glad to have Iain's latest update and it was written with such creativity and spark, as always! I shared your story with two girlfriends yesterday and so now you have a Barbara and a Jeri also praying for you and your family!!! Do you think this heat will combat the "chemo cold?" Lots of love to all of you...
P.S. I saw your friend Renee (with the dark hair) at the Paulus Park Campout last weekend. She is such a sweetie!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, June 23, 2005 10:23 AM CDT

I hope this round of chemo treats you well. I had two kids the spit up all the time, I look at their stained rugs and think of those sleepless nights. Shout is a good investment at target to purchase. Enjoy your visit with Doreen. Looking forward to meeting Claire in a few weeks and to see you, if it is not to warm, I hope you can sport Capri's. Kiss the two beauties for me and say hello to Iain. It goes without saying that I think you are awesome!!!!!!! Your friend, Lisa Gaskill
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Thursday, June 23, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Good Luck with this round of Chemo - We are looking forward to seeing you in NJ in a few weeks - stay strong...

Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ - Thursday, June 23, 2005 5:50 AM CDT

Vicki - hope chemo went well today and that you enjoy your visit from Doreen. Peyton and I had a great time with you and Maddy yesterday (as always).
Lots of love...Margie and Peyton
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 4:31 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy Monster and Miss Piggy,
So happy to hear that your parents are doing well. Wish your dad could be seen sooner, it must be agonizing to wait. Praying that this round of chemo will be less nausiating and tiring for Vicki! Wish I could be there with you! Tell Mom I will be sending a plastic poncho to repel the inevitable from Claire! Madalyn, you just keep singing about apple sauce, people have become famous doing stranger things! :) Iain, hope you had a wonderful father's day! Talk to you all soon! Much love and kisses to the babes. Kathy
Kathy Thoele <kathythoele@yahoo.com>
Anthem, AZ USA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 3:59 PM CDT

Hi everyone,
Iain your updates are great - perhaps you should consider a writing career in your spare time (ha ha). Anyway as always we are thrilled to hear of the good progress everyone is making and glad that you made it up to see your parents. Barry is looking forward to seeing you all and I am looking forward to the pictures that he had better bring me home. We thought as an extra special gift for Snoop Barry would bring you a bag of Bogie hair - just kidding. Keep your chins up. Love Alison and Barry
Alison J. Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 3:36 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,
We are glad to hear that everyone seems to be doing well - especially the future Zeta. Iain, it is good to hear that your parents seems to be doing well also. Vicki, good luck with your next round of chemo this week - stay strong & we love & miss you guys,
Kerry, John & Max

Kerry Minervini <bennieco@comcast.net>
Littleton, CO 80130 - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

Hi Vicki: Be praying for you as you head off to the next round of chemo. Glad to hear your girls are doing well... Claire is catching up quickly. Maddy is keeping Dad "amused". Iain's postings are one of the things we look forward to. Iain, never lose your sense of humor! We will keep your parents in our prayers too. Take care, you all!
Felicia <felicia_chua@baxter.com>
- Wednesday, June 22, 2005 12:37 AM CDT

Iain, you rock! I'm sure your sense of humor and upbeat attitude really help Vicki along. I know I enjoy reading your updates!
Vicki, good luck with round #6 today. You're doing so great!!

Beth Nelson -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

Good Luck with round #6 today. You truly amaze me Vicki, you are such a strong woman.

I think Avery has $5 in her piggy bank, can she come over to play? I really hope that we will be able to meet someday.

Sarah and Avery Rowan (July Spark) <srowan@elcabop.org>
- Wednesday, June 22, 2005 11:05 AM CDT

Funny, funny, funny. Glad to hear everyone's doing well. Praying for Vicky's upcoming treatment.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 10:58 AM CDT

I will learn how to correctly use the word "your".
I will learn how to correctly use the word "your".
I will learn how to correctly use the word "your".
I will learn how to correctly use the word "your".
I will learn how to correctly use the word "your".
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 9:05 AM CDT

Iain, you're entry today had me cracking up! When do you sign a book deal? Vicki - the way Maddy eats cheese, you may have 2 future Zetas on your hands! Iain glad you were able to visit with your parents, keeping them in our thoughts and prayers too. Vicki, hope you have an easy treatment this week and get to enjoy your visit with Doreen. Can't wait to see you and Claire at Kris'in a couple weeks! Hope you're working on that wine list: ) Love, Nicole & Tim
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 9:00 AM CDT

Dear Iain, Vicki, Princess Maddy, and future Zeta,
Glad to hear your parents are doing well Iain. Hang in there with the chemo Vicki. Looking forward to your visit. It will be great having a baby in the house again as well, after all, I am the Baby Whisperer!
While Jessica no longer throws tantrums, she sighs, rolls her eyes, and drops a mean crocodile tear! See what you have to look forward to!!
Stay well!!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack

Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 7:51 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family.
Vicki, Paula keeps in touch with Erin Tylka, she passed on your news. I was extremely devastated when she told me, but you look teriffic and seem to be doing well. I am sorry for losing touch these past 2 years but no matter how long it has been since we have actually talked you will always be a dear friend. Your children are beautiful, and it sounds like Iain has it all under control. All of our thoughts and prayers are with you, I have the whole Blysak Clan praying. Love and Best wishes.
Jennifer Blysak Lopata and Family
Jennifer Blysak-Lopata <kjlopata@comcast.net>
Latrobe, PA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 5:13 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Vicki,you look as beautiful as ever! Clair is a beautiful baby. We are so glad to hear about the great results from the treatments. You all are in our prayers and hearts. Give my love to your parents. Love, Linda Carey

Linda and Tom Carey <tlcarey@adelphia.net>
Hilton Head Island, SC USA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 11:09 AM CDT

Vickie,
Glad you sent me the link to the website and I'm especially happy to hear such positive results from your treatments. Thinking of you, Iain, Maddy and Claire.
Martha Allman <martha.allman@hewitt.com>
Atlanta, GA - Monday, June 20, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY IAIN! A well deserve rest I hope! If not I will do my best to make sure you get some during my visit! Lots of love to all - Doreen, Tad, William & Kira!
Doreen <doreen.ritacco@acs-hro.com>
Tenafly, NJ USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 9:28 AM CDT

Dear Iain,
Happy Father's Day!!!
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 8:54 PM CDT

Hello -

Happy Father's Day - Let them wait on you today...

Lisa
Lisa <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
- Sunday, June 19, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day Iain!! I hope you have a wonderful day with your whole family and that you get the special pampering you deserve. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Love,
Ann & Alex

P.S. I hope this posts. I've been having computer troubles and can't access the Sparkler boards.

Ann & Alex
Canada - Sunday, June 19, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY IAIN! Hope your girls treat you well today!
Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Sunday, June 19, 2005 1:25 PM CDT

I just wanted to drop by and let you know I was thinking of you.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 0:18 AM CDT

Hi Philips family! I'm so glad to hear that Vicki is doing so well! That's terrific news! I hope that the side effects don't get any worse.
So sorry to hear about all that your family is facing, but I'm so glad that everyone seems to be doing well! Tumor's shrinking, tumor's being removed, and cancer being caught early!
Glad the girls are doing well. Maddy's still blowing her trumpet?!?
Have a wonderful Father's Day, Iain! Get some rest!
Take care, all of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, June 17, 2005 3:43 PM CDT

Hi there Phillips family! We are thrilled with your news Vicki. Call us (across the street) and let us know when we can come over and see you again. I hate to bug you - the website is great for updates and very funny Iain. I think you should be a writer for a sitcom(sorry Baxter). Happy Father's Day Iain - kiss your three girls for us.
chris estes <christine_estes@yahoo.com>
lake zurich, il - Friday, June 17, 2005 8:55 AM CDT

So glad to hear the good news on the health and development of all the Phillips family. Have a wonderfully blessed Father's Day and know you are all in my prayers. (I'm a friend from First Church, Boonton)
Connie Kelly <kelly51@optonline.net>
Towaco, NJ USA - Friday, June 17, 2005 8:48 AM CDT

Iain, Have a wonderful father's day! We hope you get plenty of uninterrupted sleep and a toot-free weekend. If you're lucky, maybe Maddy will let you play in her tree-house: ) Snoop - fetch daddy's slippers (do you even own any?!) Your parents are in our prayers, please wish them well for us. Love, Nicole and Big Pocono
Nicole and Tim Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Friday, June 17, 2005 8:26 AM CDT

HAPPY FATHERS DAY IAIN. THATS ALL FOR NOW.

LISA AND GANG.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj usa - Friday, June 17, 2005 8:10 AM CDT

Dear Phillips Family,
What tremendous news! I think of you all each and everyday without fail. I am so glad to hear that things are looking positive. Claire is thoroughly radiant! And it was good to know she is bonding with her sister. Just wait 'til they're both teenagers and covering for eachother as they jump out the window and climb down the tree! (at 6 am they'll be coming home!)
Iain, I am so sorry to hear about your parents and hope they have the same strength as all of you to help them overcome as well.
Thank you for your updates!
Happy Father's Day!
Rebecca
Rebecca <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 11:24 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
Hooray for so many great steps! I am thrilled about your latest update. I check your site everyday with great anticipation! Now, we will add Iain's parents to the prayer list, but you will surely agree that prayer has been a powerful thing for your family! It wouldn't be "normal" without those trying children moments, but I know you are treasuring them as a blessing, as well! You will not believe the daily changes in Maddy now because at her age, it seems that every single day brings new words and actions! Among the prayers, I will put in a request for some sleep. And as I have said before...Iain could write professionally. I could see a human perspective column in his future!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 8:55 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
The news on the update was wonderful!! Iain, you should write comedy for a living! We will add your parents to our prayers. Looking forward to the picnic. Can't wait to see you and Claire.
Katrina is right. It is definitely capri weather. In fact just last weekend I was sitting on my front porch, wearing my capris, and writing in my journal.
Love to all,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 8:06 PM CDT

Hi to the Phillips family!
I hope things are better each day. I'm routing for you, Iain. Sounds like the girls are after their dad when it comes to sleeping. And, I am so sorry to hear about your parents. I hope things are looking up for them. This has certainly been a rough time for you and Vicki.
Vicki, I am sure the improvements are happening each day. I want you to feel better so you can come to your parent's home so I can see you and hold those little cuties.
Your mom is there and fluffing your pillow, as well as their pillows - right????
Megan just accepted a job at Vassar teaching programing robots for young people. It is just for 1 month but they might send her on to one of the other universities for a second month. So - without her getting all of her college things unpacked, she's packing up again.
School is almost out for me and I can't wait. I will spend time with my sister so she can relax a bit during this rough time, but I'll be thinking about you, too, Vicki. Please take care.
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 7:12 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,

That is great news on the tumor reduction. Keep fighting. It was so nice to see Maddy and to meet Iain. She is getting so big. Claire is beautiful. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and Iain's parents. See you soon.

Niki Fox
Niki Fox <lzfox@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 5:38 PM CDT

Hi Phillips': Thanks for the encouraging word on tumor size. And prayers for the news abvout your folks' health, Iain. What an overwhelming combination of unwanted challenges you're living through. And the irony. We have some happy news--Pam is being married tomorrow, at the beach--Laguna. Mike LaPerraque is making an nonest women of her after low these many months. We are also praying for good weather--greedy, aren't we. Will attempt to send you a pic or two. Love & prayers, Joanie & Dave
Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
Chatsworth, CA ca usa - Thursday, June 16, 2005 11:28 AM CDT

I havent checked your updates in two weeks and I found I missed them. I am so happy that Vicki is responding so well to the chemo. In 2002 I gave birth to my first child. What was an amazing moment soon turned into my biggest fear... my infant was diagnosed with cancer. It was truly the scariest moment hearing those words. What I realized years later is that this life altering diagnosis actually brought out good things. I cherish what I have now, I cherish my second child, and I cherish the time I did have with my baby, Cole.

I continue to think of you all as you go through each and every round. You are a true inspiration..

Brandy
www.colescure.org
www.caringbridge.com/ca/coleregan <Brandyregan@yahoo.com>
San Francisco, - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 10:44 PM CDT

Hi everyone. I am so glad to hear you are all doing better. We in Minnesota have been watching the rain day after day after day - hey guess what - it didn't rain today.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you guys - we in Minnesota are thinking of you lots.\

Love Ron and Diane
Diane and Ron Johnson <djohnson@kke.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 7:43 PM CDT

Vicki, Iaian, Sarah and littlies, I have not read the postings for a while, but am very glad to see that the tumor is shrinking. The side effects are nasty, but the treatments are worth them, I am sure. Wish we could ship you the HOT weather here in NJ. Schools closed early because of the heat. Have a wonderful Father's Day. Your daughters are gorgeous. Does Maddy like the cheeses that are cut in star and moon shapes? Our granddaughter does. She likes Yobaby, too. There were no such specialty foods when you were young! Always praying for each of you, Carol and Bob Ray
Carol Ray <rayfolks@earthlink.net>
Midland Park, NJ USA - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 6:14 PM CDT

Vicki, That is great news!!!! I will pray for you as you continue chemo. My MIL is fighting right now, so I no have everything increases as it goes. Iain, I will be praying for both of your parents as your mom continues the journey ad your dad begins his. Stay strong Iain!!!
Tracy (FOA/RA/Angels on Earth) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 1:59 PM CDT

Hi all,
I was thrilled but not surprised to hear the good news about the chemo treatment. Knowing that Vicki has been able to put up with Iain for so long, she had to be a fighter (ha ha, just kidding). Keep up the good work. I find that I too need to hear the good news probably like you need to hear the well-wishes.
Lots of love to all the Phillipses...
Michele
Michele Boyer
Montreal, - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 10:27 AM CDT

Hey guys!!!

Vicki what great news! I am so happy when I can come on here and read about how well you and the family are doing. And Iain, you amaze me, with everything going on in your life, you still shine with your personality. Darlin' I sure wish I was closer to help you out on those sleepless nights that Claire has and the plot the girls have cooked up against you. They just want to have daddy all to them selves and figured out that Clarie can have you at night and Maddy can have you during the day - can you blame them? You are the best dad ever!!! (and husband)

With all honesty, your Mum and Dad have been put on our prayer lists and we will be thinking of them along with you and your family of four there in IL. I know that if your dad has just 1% of the energy and positive outlook that you have, he is going to make it as well. I know that you were what has helped Vicki be so strong through all of this and having met you, it is so obvious! What a great guy you are.

I hope that you have a great Father's Day weekend and enjoy your weekend with the girls (all three of them)

Much love to all of you!

Vicki, I know you don't have a lot of energy but, we always look forward to reading your posts!

Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 8:26 AM CDT

Hello there! I'm so glad to hear that the cancer is reacting to the treatments. That's great news. I'll see you next month at Zabels.

ps. Ian, I'll keep your family in my prayers. Is it wrong to say that I'm glad I'm not related to you???? ha ha, just kidding.
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 7:39 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Maddy, Claire & Iain (ZZZZZZZZ),

I am so glad to hear about the reduction in the tumors & Vicki, you sounded amazing when we spoke last week. We are still looking at airfare (it isn't too cheap right now) so we are hoping it goes down so we can all come for a visit soon! Iain, I am sorry to hear about your mother & father. We will keep them in our daily prayers as well.

We hope to see you all in the next month or so & keep up the fight!
Love you all,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@comcast.net (new email)>
Littleton, CO - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 4:42 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Love the good news about your "shrinkage"! I know it seems like a long haul - and it is! - but you are really doing well. Just hang in there and keep doing whatever you are doing. I'm sure it's good to have your mother back. We'll miss her at book club tonight. By the way, does Iain get his halo and wings for Father's Day - or did he already have them?! I love his sense of humor. I don't know how you'd get thru all this stuff without it.
Love to all, Shirlee Faehner
Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ 07045 - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 3:35 PM CDT

Vicki,
So glad the chemo is working; hang in there for the next 5 treatments. You are such a trooper! Your girls are so funny - I believe in the conspiracy theory as I've seen it in action; Iain is right about that one. You and your inlaws are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself and talk to you soon, Love, Tracy
Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

The Phillips family continues to amaze me. I am very glad to hear about Vicki's great response to the chemotherapy. That is very happy news!
I am sorry to hear about your mom's lung tumor, Iain. I will think of her as she recovers. And I'm sorry to hear that your dad has prostate cancer. I'm sure if you never heard the word cancer again for the rest of your life, it would be too soon.
On a lighter note, if Maddy keeps up this amazing tooting, I know a good GI doc she could see....
All my best.
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 1:50 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
It has been a few weeks since I last read the website. I am so happy to catch up on your good news! I'll see you at Zabel's house next month. I am looking forward to seeing you and all the other crazy ZTA girls. Love, Christine
Christine <cmd530@comcast.net>
Delran, NJ USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 12:53 AM CDT

Congratulations on some postive news. Sounds like you needed it. All the best.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 8:02 AM CDT

That is great news on how well the treatments are working-congratulations. Little children definitely know how to gang up on their parents just to wear them down, as a mother of a 5,3&2 yr old I can vouch for that. You have all been in my prayers and will continue to be. God bless you all.

Carol Tognetti <Togs5@msn.com>
Whippany, NJ - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 5:47 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,
Iain, your writing is great. I can picture your stories in my mind and I have to chuckle when I see the girls. And Vicki, things sound like they keep getting better and better for you! My sister always asks how you are doing. I tell her what a "toughy" you are. I want her to know that she can overcome almost anything just the way you are. Keep it up!!!
Give yourself a big hug from me, Vicki. How about one for your Mom, too???
XO - Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 9:10 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain, How wonderful to hear such positive results! You all have been thru so much. So reassuring to know that the doctors seem to be doing the right things. We continue to remember you daily in our prayers with great love. I can just picture the whole family so vividly from Iain's incredible stories. So glad your Mom can be back with you for a while. Lots of love from the Streeters.

Bobbie Streeter <brs@cox.net>
Williamsburg, VA - Monday, June 13, 2005 8:11 PM CDT

Vicki~

What great news about the shrinking tumor!! I wear my LIVESTRONG bracelet everyday (I even have a tan line), everytime I see it I think of you and how strong you are. I hope I get to meet you soon. Lots of love from Minnesota.

Sarah and Avery Rowan (July Spark) <srowan@elcabop.org>
- Monday, June 13, 2005 3:03 PM CDT

I enjoy reading your updates, Lain. I keep up with you all even tho we have no connection other than you were listed on a prayer chain thru my MOPS group here. YOu are doing fantastic Vicki!!! I am in awe of your strength and know God has his mighty hand on all 4 of you! God bless you!
Michelle Horton <michellemhorton@hotmail.com>
Cypress (Houston), Tx USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 2:01 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain:

What wonderful news about Vicki's tumour shrinking so much! I hope the chemo continues to do its work and the side effects don't get too severe. Iain, I am so sorry to hear of your parents' illnesses. I will add them to my prayers, with a special one for strength for you to deal with everything on your plate. You all are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Ann & Alex
Canada - Monday, June 13, 2005 1:44 PM CDT

I am so glad to hear about the tumor shrinkage, you are so positive and I know this next round of treatments will work. Remember one year cancer free and its off to LA. I might insist on a trip to disneyland. Iain your parents are in my prayers, as your family is always. Kiss the beautiful girls and I hope you get some time for yourself, you deserve it. Your friends, Lisa, Rich richie and gracie gaskill.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, n united states of america - Monday, June 13, 2005 12:47 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain, that is WONDERFUL news about the tumors shrinking!!! However, I'm very sorry to hear about Iain's parents health problems. They are in my prayers too!

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 11:16 AM CDT

Your updates make me laugh. What awesome news that the tumors have shrunk so much in size. Hope it continues to.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com ; www.caringbridge.com/tx/essence>
White Oak, TX - Monday, June 13, 2005 11:04 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I had a really nice day with your mom and did a lot of catching up. Hope things go well with the next rounds of chemo. Remember: F.R.O.G.
Love,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchoroner@comcast.net.>
Long Vallely, - Monday, June 13, 2005 9:46 AM CDT

Hello Phillips Family! With all that tooting I hope you've invested in some good air fresheners (plural!) Iain, your updates are cracking us up! Hopefully the chemo effects have subsided over the weekend...all but chemospree that is: ) Sounds like Claire is growing like a weed and Maddy's energy needs to be bottled and sold...If Snoop could, I bet he'd just shake his head: ) Will try to reach you by phone this week...Love Nic
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Monday, June 13, 2005 9:07 AM CDT

Hi Vicki- I just heard about your website from my brother (mark vincent). You and your family are on my prayer list. Your kids are beautiful!
Liz (Vincent) McCarthy <briannlizmcc@comcast.net>
Cranford, nj usa - Monday, June 13, 2005 6:43 AM CDT

I figure Mom's there now so all's well with the world! I know she will take good care of all four of you. Yes, I do believe Iain deserves some pampering, too. My, he has been truly amazing through all of the challenges your family has faced. I look forward to the day when we can meet him - - I expect him to have wings and a halo!!!! And I just know that God is listening to the roar of praying voices from all over the world who still have you, Vicki, in their prayers. Can't you just feel the love??? Hugs to all.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Monday, June 13, 2005 0:13 AM CDT

Hey Vicki!! I just wanted to let you know that there isnt a day that goes by without me thinking and praying for you! You are such an inspiration to me and so many others! You are truely the strongest person I have ever met! Maddy and Claire are both so beatuiful and so lucky to have you as their mom!!
Love and Hugs!!!
Brenda - your sparkler friend <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN USA - Saturday, June 11, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Hi Phillips Gang- Love the updates, Iain! You are a real trooper making us smile during such a trying time. Vicki, you & Claire look gorgeous in the latest picture. Keep up the good fight! By the way, I don't know about Chicago, but it is perfect capri weather here in New Jersey!
Katrina Keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
Caldwell, NJ - Saturday, June 11, 2005 11:57 AM CDT

Hey Vicki - It was so great to have you, Sara, Claire and Maddy over the other day. I've missed us just sitting around the loft and watching the girls destroy it. I hope you are not too wiped out this weekend and can enjoy some of this beautiful weather. Can't wait to see you next week. Thinking of you always. Lots and lots of love! Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Saturday, June 11, 2005 11:36 AM CDT

I talked dto your Mom tonight and she is getting excited about seeing you all!! And more importantly it sounds like you got great news from the doctor today YEH!! ( I would say " YOU GO GIRL" but maybe you are getting tire of that expression from me..but it is sent with love!) LOL

What a great update by Iain...he should go into writing!!...Sounds like Sara has been kept pretty busy but I am sure loving every tiring minute of it!! Claire sounds as though she is doing GRET!! Tooting and burping....who could ask for more!! With all Iain is doing I am so impressed he has taken the time to fix up Maddy's house. He is truly amazing...I just can't imagine a more loving Husband and Father...Does he have any (much) older single brothers ...just kidding George...oops!!!

Anyway, Vicki, you take it easy....feel the love that is coming your way,,,God Bless you all, Sue
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, NJ - Friday, June 10, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Vicki, I think about you all the time. I hope chemo this week went well, be strong. Give Claire and Maddy a kiss for me. I will send you copies of the pictures I took while I was there as soon as I dev. them. We're still praying for you. Love, Mindy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Friday, June 10, 2005 12:45 AM CDT

I knew it was only a matter of time before Maddy learned about the tree house. It took all my might not to show her how to climb up there myself, I personally wanted to play up there. Vicki, Keep up the good work and Claire sleep during the night. Iain, you are just great. Have a good weekend and enjoy each other. Lisa Gaskill.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj usa - Friday, June 10, 2005 7:12 AM CDT

I love the picture on the front page! You two look beautiful. Glad things are going okay and hope everything continues upward!
Hillari <mizshuckiduck@yahoo.co.uk>
Glasgow, Scotland - Friday, June 10, 2005 6:25 AM CDT

Vicki & Iain,

I haven't been on in a few weeks due to crazy AC happenings. Showboat is about to open House of Blues, and Harrah's is merging with Ceasars. The whole summer is going to be a big blurr. Anyway, it is great to hear that Claire is home and taking her place in society (keeping you up at night). Iain, you deserve Father of the Year! If my ex did half of what you do, maybe I wouldn't be divorced! :) Your perseverance and attitude actually pick me up when I am down....thank you! Love you Vicki and take care of yourself.

Tina
Tina Sanders <tsanders@acs.harrahs.com>
Mays Landing , NJ USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 6:15 AM CDT

I'm so glad to hear that it sounds like almost normal there!!! Happy baby noises, dad fixing things... Keep up all the good work Vicki and continuing fighting this!
Love you all.

Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ - Thursday, June 9, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

I love to read the updates! Claire sounds like quite a bundle of joy!
Gretchen
Oakland, CA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 1:35 PM CDT

Your journal entry made me smile. Love to hear how great you're doing. Still thinking of and praying for you.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, June 9, 2005 10:22 AM CDT

You're doing so great and I am so proud of you! Claire is getting more precious each time I see a pic of her. How blessed you are. Kisses to Claire, Maddy, and Iain...and of course you!

p.s. Did you see on the board the pic of my dog Wiley wearing his "Livestrong" collar?
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend, IN - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 8:44 PM CDT

Hi Vicki!
I really love your newest picture with Claire. How precious! You two look great. I can't wait to meet you and your family next month. Thanks, Iain for the wonderful updates.
Love,
Joyce Medina <jbmod@hotmail.com>
Bakersfield, CA USA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 8:31 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I am Debbie Toussaint's mom. The picture of you and Claire is really nice, she is such a cutie. Just want you to know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, Linda
Linda French
Huntley, IL U.S. - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 5:21 PM CDT

Vicki - I love that picture of you and Claire. I hope you are doing good and I hope to see you sometime this summer. You are looking great. I always enjoy reading the stories on here about you and the girls. I plan to do as Maddy does, smell the roses, and when I am done eating them - I will call and complain to Iain that they don't taste good. :)

Love you guys - just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you.

Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 3:56 PM CDT

Vicki,

I continue to pray for you as you are on a journey of the unexpected. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Tracy (FOA/RA/Angels on Earth) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 8:50 AM CDT

Vicki - Tom and I just heard your news. We are so sorry. Your daughter looks beautiful and I'm sure you are enjoying her every day. I know it must be very difficult, but keep up your spirits and the fight!
Mary (Lawless) Molloy
Mary Molloy <melawless@yahoo.com>
Glen Ellyn, IL USA - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 4:35 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I saw Tracy this weekend and she told me your news. I wanted to let you know that you and the girls and Iain have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since then. I bet you're enjoying being home and being surrounded by loved ones. You and the baby look beautiful!
-Lisa Sandquist
Lisa Sandquist <lsandquist@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, June 7, 2005 2:57 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I was so glad to read the update that your tumors are responding to the chemotherapy. That is wonderful news. I love the new picture of you and Claire...two beautiful ladies. I hope this is the end of medical mishaps. Next thing I know, one of your ears will be removed in a bizarre medical miscommunication. My mom wanted you to know that she prays for you every day and she asks about you every time we talk on the phone. Looking forward to another positive update.

Take care.
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 11:41 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Hope all is well. Just heard that your Mom will be there soon. Just remember, like you, it is required that all mothers take a course in pillow fluffing. So-make sure she is following through on her motherhood responsibility with fluffing!
Megan is home from school and waiting to hear from Americorp. I don't know how she fit all her belongings into her room at school. We are tripping on it! She really wants to see Sarah, but the two of them procrastinate about getting together. I think your Mom and I should take bets to see which one does the initial call.
How are those little ones? I love stories about them so tell Iain to keep us informed.
You're in my thoughts, Vicki, and want you to know that I think you are a special person with great strength. With all these messages, remember that I'm not alone in thinking that.
Lots of love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 5:44 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and family,
I was happy to hear that chemo is going well & that Claire is sprouting as she should. You really do look so beautiful with her. I love seeing the pictures, so make sure Iain is taking many. Sending you my best wishes & love - Take care & keep up the fight - you're looking stronger & stronger.
Michele
Michele Boyer
Montreal, QC Canada - Monday, June 6, 2005 3:25 PM CDT

Vicki,
That is great news about your scans - I'm so glad to hear that! The new picture of you and Claire is wonderful. You look great and she's just a doll - so alert! Hope you are feeling better and gaining strength for the next round. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Tracy

Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 1:34 PM CDT

Vicki and Family,

What GREAT news WOW!!!!! We are so happy for you. And we are thanking God for this wonderful news. You are in our prayers as usual for continued shrinkage of the tumors all the way to......nothingness. And Claire's understanding that night is to sleep.

Iain, you are doing such a SUPER job of keeping us informed with the facts along with humor and wisdom. You honor us all with your words. Thank you so much.

God Loves You & So Do We, Bob & Nancy
Bob & Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL U.S.A. - Monday, June 6, 2005 1:21 PM CDT

WOW,You are almost at 20,000 visits to your website. It is amazing the LOVE and PRAYERS that are surrounding you!!.....It is awesome what prayers can do. So glad to hear you are moving forward and you are now getting good news! YOU GO GIRL! .. We all love the updates and photos Iain, Thanks so much for being so good about passing the information on.
Keep your eyes open, a note is in the mail for you....
GOD be with you all!!!
Maddy and Claire are just adorable.
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, New Jersey - Monday, June 6, 2005 12:15 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I still check in every week to see the latest update. I've decided that Ian should be a writer. He missed his calling. Hang in there, I'm praying for you. I'm soooo glad you guys are home.
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 12:01 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! I hope you're feeling better than you were when Iain last posted.
You just have not been having luck with those stinking IVs! That's awful!
I love the new picture of you and Claire! She looks like she's doing great. And Maddy sounds like your typical toddler! I'm so glad that you get to be home with the girls and with Iain. It's nice that you guys are getting help with your little angel who doesn't seem to know what sleep is!
Take care! Always in my thoughts and prayers!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, June 6, 2005 10:03 AM CDT

What a beautiful picture of two gorgeous ladies! Claire is a charmer - hope the magic charm for sleeping will be working soon. Blessings on all of you as you care for each other with such love. We love you and pray for you daily.
Nancy and Bob McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL usa - Monday, June 6, 2005 7:46 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
Hope this note finds you all well...and sleeping!! Especially you Claire!!
Just a little note for fellow ZTA alumni...
The first annual Zeta reunion picnic will be held at my house in Hampton NJ, July 16 at 2pm with a rain date of July 17 2pm.
All Zeta alumni and families welcome. Please contact me at petey2455@yahoo.com or 908-537-2454 by July 9th.
The picnic is in honor of Vicki and promises to include many embarassing stories and pictures.
Love to all,
Kris (Zabel) Peterson

Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, June 5, 2005 9:27 PM CDT

Ah, Madam Queen, I always like reading the good news. Wow...sounds to me like you need a revolving door with all the people coming and going. Isn't it great to be so loved? As always, you're all in our prayers.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Sunday, June 5, 2005 2:19 PM CDT

So glad to hear that the tumors are shrinking - and looking forward to the day that you report that they are GONE!!!

Hard to believe that I am saying this, but try to enjoy those quiet moments with the baby, even if it is at 3:00 a.m. B/C at the ages of 7 and 5 they don't want that nice quiet snuggling time too much any more. Love you all...

Lisa
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Sunday, June 5, 2005 9:29 AM CDT

How awesome! I'm so glad that you guys got good results. I hope everything just goes up from here.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Saturday, June 4, 2005 6:09 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,
Awesome, awesome, awesome news about the tumors & the blood clots!!! Vicki - I want to give you a call the beginning of next week. John & I were talking about a possible trip out if you are up for it & we can find some time when you aren't already filled with visitors!! (and if you think you might be able to handle one more little one around - we'd love to bring Max)
We love you all & are thinking of you every day.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry <bennieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO 80130 - Saturday, June 4, 2005 10:00 AM CDT

Vicki -
Glad to hear about the tumor size - YES!!!
Not glad to hear about the non-sleeping baby - having recently gotten off THAT fun little ride for the second time, all I can say is it passes more quickly than I remembered. That, and you gotta love the 4:00 am "Cheers" reruns with a big ol' bag of Tootsie Pops.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jen MacLean Duggan <jenduggan2@juno.com>
Lambertville, NJ USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 8:30 PM CDT

Vicki, YEAH x 1,000! I am thrilled about the news on the tumor reductions. We will keep up the prayers every step of the way. I am leaving in a few minutes to go to tonight's Relay for Life Cancer Walk in Schaumburg. We have 45 members on our 3 teams and I will think of you! I hope that I am up all night, but that you get some sleep... I hope the aftershock of the last chemo is waning and maybe I could interest you in a manicure next week. You could name the day and time! Enjoy your weekend and as always, thanks to Iain for the updates!!!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 3:08 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and family,
YAH_HOO, Yeah,..... Terrific news about the tumors. God is good. Enjoy your weekend and make every minute count.
Love,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
LV, NJ - Friday, June 3, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

Hello Vicki < Iain, TootToot and Claire. I need entertainment for the boys 4th bday. Do you think I can borrow Toot Toot for the party? OUr thoughts and prayers continue to you and yours . Hope big sister is getting sleep while mom and dad are up partying. Feel a big hug Keep smiling Michele/Red
michele 'RED' prescavage <jmprescavage@comcast.net>
hainesport, nj usa - Friday, June 3, 2005 1:24 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,

Saw the latest pictures and been keeping track on your journal on the caring bridge. Picture of Claire and viciki is beautiful. We were really happy to know that chemo is coming along pretty good. Our prayers are always with you.

Naveed Saman and Minahil
Naveed Rahimullah <naveed_rahim@hotmail.com>
Streamwood, IL USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 11:38 AM CDT

Hope you have a wonderful family weekend!
Amy <xrayminds@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Friday, June 3, 2005 11:33 AM CDT

So happy to hear the good news. Keep up the good work.
Barry J. Roy
Montclair, NJ - Friday, June 3, 2005 11:07 AM CDT

So happy to read the good news! Hope Baby Claire starts sleeping better soon!
Sue Richards <srichard1011@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Friday, June 3, 2005 10:35 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Glad to hear the there is a reduction in tumor size. We will keep the prayers going! You are always in my thoughts...along with Hugh jackman and food!!
Love to all,
Zabel
P.S. You spoke a little too soon on what a great sleeper Claire is!!
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Family,
Christine Durante passed this website information to me recently. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. A Relay for Life Luminary will be shining in support of all of you in Freehold, New Jersey on June 18, 2005.
Zeta love and prayers - from a blast from the past - Donna TSC '88 and ZTA Pres. '88
Donna Barratt <dbarratt3@yahoo.com>
Brick, NJ USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 2:43 PM CDT

What great news Vicki!! I'm so glad to hear you are on the road to recovery! I am glad Claire is doing so well. Sending hugs!
Elizabeth
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Hey Vicki - Just stopping by to say "hello". I'm in Chicago this weekend so I'm going to see if I can make a trip out to see you sometime, most likely Sunday, but I'll call before I arrive. Still thinking and praying for you often. Give everyone hugs for me! Love ya, Sara
SaraT <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Chicago, IL - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:34 AM CDT

Just another stranger popping in, and saying prayers for Vicki. Big hugs from Canada.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:16 AM CDT

You gotta love that Maddy takes the time to smell the roses first before tasting them: ) Tim couldn't stop talking about Claire and Maddy last night. I think his favorite moment was Maddy kissing Clair good night: ) Any reduction at all in the scans is a good thing, remember - slow and steady wins the race! Will give you a call over the weekend! Love Nic
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:16 AM CDT

So great to hear everyone is under one roof and doing well.
Vicki, Keep up the good work.
Sandra Iversen
- Thursday, June 2, 2005 7:02 AM CDT

Vicki, I am so thrilled to hear your good news. I know that hearing it made you feel so much better too. Prayers do work! We will continue them.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 5:41 AM CDT

Phillips Family-I am so happy to hear Vicki's good news! It sounds like great progress is being made and I pray that the next round of chemo is not too rough on Vicki. I am glad to hear Claire is doing well except for keeping you up at night. I remember those all night parties all too well.
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 11:05 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,Iain,Maddy,Claire,
I have been out of touch for a few days, but I am so pleased at the good news. It sounds as if Claire is doing very well at being a newborn and Maddy is perfecting the art of being almost 2 years old. Vicki, we pray every day for a full recovery...when I pray I pray for the whole ball of wax. I can narrow it to the shrinking of the tumors and for strength to get through this with miminimal side effects. Meghan's graduation was very nice, weather co-operated and all was well. She is in the Florida Keys with several of her sorority sisters vacationing, before the real world takes hold of her. WMC prom is tomorrow night and Emily is off on her first real date, he is just a friend, but that is a good thing. Can't help reflect on your prom night when Meg and Sarah were so little. Time surely does fly. Enjoy those little ones, even if it means losing a nights sleep. :) God's peace be with all of you and may He restore you to good health soon.
Love to all.
Marcia

Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 9:45 PM CDT

I'll be praying that the test results show a reduction in the size of the tumor. I have a young child at home myself and can totally sympathize with the late nights but couple that with what Viki is dealing with, you are definitely a strong family.

((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 9:20 PM CDT

Vicki and Family,
Just wanted to let you know that today was an extra strong day of thinking of you! I have so many people that are praying for you! I hope that chemo and missed veins are a thing of the past and that news from scans will brighten up the week! We can't wait to hear the news! Keep doing the great work that you are and smile at the two beautiful girls and all the blessings under your roof! Iain does the most fantastic job of updating and writing. I think he could have a second profession. Each entry is so well written and always a smile and laugh comes through!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

Praying for Vicki tonight.
Tina & Lance <lneonkia@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, June 1, 2005 8:46 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
I hope all is well. Sorry to hear that the chemo kicked your butt. You are still pretty. Lesson learned, no roses or applesauce for Maddy. Claire just needs a visit from the baby whisperer.
Praying for good scan results.
Love ya,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
P.S. I will have to watch Hugh Jackman host the Tony's from my living room like the rest of you. Considering the restraining order and everything!
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
08827, NJ USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 8:22 PM CDT

I've been hearing that people can't get into my guestbook I fixed it now .Thinking of you always.

Image hosted by TinyPic.com

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 8:20 PM CDT

Yes, we still want to help. You just take care of your family.

Donations can be made directly to the Phillips' Family Fund. Here's the info:

Phillips' Family Fund
Baxter Credit Union
400 N Lakeview Parkway
Vernon Hills, IL 60061

Tom Nicholas <tomsnich@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 1, 2005 3:36 PM CDT

Hey Phillips! I'm sorry I have been remiss about signing in. I really have no excuse, so I won't even bother trying to make one up! This last entry made me laugh, about Maddy's fixation with apple sauce - that is too funny! I'm glad to hear that Claire is doing what every normal baby does - depriving her parents of sleep! And I'm so glad to hear about Vicki's appetite - that is great news! I am rooting for you guys everyday!!! Love, Theresa

P.S. I just heard that Hugh Jackman is hosting some awards show - on Sunday I think. I'm sure it won't be missed by you-know-who!
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 2:51 PM CDT

I'm Kitty a friend of Elizabeths in San Antonio..........I just wanted to let you know that I check in from time to time to see how everyone is doing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family every day.
It sounds like things are going pretty well right now. Glad that Vicki is able to eat more and Claire (my middle name) is growing :-) LOL on Maddy.
Take care and God Bles you.
Kitty Lantry <pmsng324@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX 78230 - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 2:04 PM CDT

Vi-cki! Vi-cki! Vi-cki! Yaaaaay, VICKI!!!!
Just felt like giving you a cheer. Love you!
Beth--JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 12:40 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy, Claire and Snoop: Tim is very excited to see you all tonight. Do you think Maddy will be up for a musical performance? Saying a prayer that the scans bring good news. May Claire discover soon that nighttime is for sleeping:) Love Nic.
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudbsurg, PA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 11:16 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I think it is best I refrain entirely from taking part in the toot conversations!
Love,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, nj 08827 - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 7:54 PM CDT

Hi, thought about you today and when I read the journal I started cracking up. It's so wonderful to have a gifted musician in the family. I hope you are having a great day with your beautiful family.
Deanna <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 6:16 PM CDT

Vicki,
We are thinking of you and keeping our fingers crossed that the scans go well this week. Although we have no doubt that you will be sharing great news with us!!
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 31, 2005 4:45 PM CDT

Phillips Family - Iain, your commentary is so funny! What a joy to read. You should write comedy! I'm glad to hear everyone is doing well. We continue to pray for all of you. Best wishes! Friends from First Church Boonton
donna keoppel <dkeoppel@yahoo.com>
montville, nj usa - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

Hi Phillips family! Thanks for the great updates, Iain! I am keeping my fingers crossed for good news from the scans. I hope that you were able you enjoy the long weekend with your family under one roof. I don't know what Franco is talking about with regard to me teaching Maddy how to toot. I never do that for I am too much of a lady. Love & think of you all the time. Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 12:44 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain:

My prayers join those of the other posters that you receive good news from the scan results today. I hope the chemo effects are abating. Give your gorgeous girls a hug from Alex and me.

Love,
Ann & Alex
Canada - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 12:31 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Stay positive, I know the scans are going to reveal good news! Yiu ar e in our thoughts and prayers always.
Love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

All the best today Vicki! I just know you're going to get good news.
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 11:12 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! I'm glad that you're feeling better and are able to eat more real food! I hope that your scans go well and show some good news! That's too bad about your last drip. What a bummer to have to do it over!
I'm so glad that Claire is doing well! Sorry she's decided to tell her stories at night instead of during the day. SHe probably chose that time so she wouldn't have to compete with the sound of Maddy's "trumpet"! :)
Take care Phillips family!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 10:02 AM CDT

Wanted to send you a "hello" from Virginia again. I was delighted to hear the good news! Claire is a beauty - and Maddy sounds like a delight as well. Blessings and prayers as you go through your treatments. I can only imagine the strength it takes to face all that you have in taken on in your life! Please know that many of us are praying for you all...and wishing you God's blessings.

Janice (The Streeter's daughter)
Janice Hagedorn <hagedorn_mj@netzero.com>
Suffolk, VA - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

Good luck this week on your scans. Im glad your eating has been improving. Have you had any more cravings for Chilis? Kiss Maddy for me and that beautiful Claire. Iain, Im sure you are keeping up the good work, and working double overtime now that claire is home. It goes by so quick that new born stage and I actually miss it sometimes. Now I worry about them falling off their bikes instead of Richie knocking Gracie out of the baby swing. I will call you this week, and keep up that great attitude. Love Lisa GAskill, Rich , Richie and GraceAnne.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.com>
hamilton, nj usa - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 8:58 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,
I am so glad you are all home now. Claire is beautiful - all that hair! And Maddie is so adorable; I am sure her adjustment to being a "big sis" is fun to watch. Vicki, you are in my thoughts and prayers daily - you are such a positive person with great strength. Always remember that your many loving relatives and friends are supporting and praying for you during this fight. Keep up the fight - and do your best to get as much rest as Claire and Maddie will allow! Peace and Love, Tracy
Tracy Portnoy <tracy0912@hotmail.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 10:04 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and family,
I'm not sure if you remember me, but I'm a TSC Zeta alumni '92 and '94. Chrissy D'Elia had passed this site on several weeks ago, and although I've been reading the entries, I hadn't signed the guestbook yet. You have shown amazing strength and courage through this difficult time, and you are truly an inspiration. I've been brought to tears - both happy and sad - each time visiting the site.

It appears that you have an amazing support group and a husband that couldn't love you more. His entries are filled with love, compassion, strength, and humor. Your girls are absolutely beautiful, and you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

ZLAM, Jenn

*** Many smiles were brought back from Katrina and Zabel's emails!
Jennifer Kirch <jkirch@mindspring.com>
Ocean City, NJ USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 9:03 AM CDT

I know that this Chemo treatment isn't playing fair with you, but you are so strong and I know that you can make it through this. I just hope that you can start feeling more like yourself real soon. We still have you on the prayer list at church and think about you daily.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Sunday, May 29, 2005 10:41 PM CDT

Hello -

We are thinking of you everyday, and hope that you keep getting stronger. Are you sure it is the applesauce, or did Trina and Zabel teach Maddy how to "toot"???
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Sunday, May 29, 2005 9:22 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,
I'm just writing to let you know my thoughts and prayers have been with you often these past few weeks. The support and thoughtfulness you've been receiving is impressive, but having met you at Malcolm and Kim's wedding, it's not surprising how so many people care. Congratulations on your new baby...seems like both girls are quite adorable.
There are lots of Americans up here this weekend enjoying our 25-30C heat wave, and no, it doesn't always rain in Vancouver. Hope you enjoy the holiday weekend, and get some rest.
I'll continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers,
Malcolm's Aunty Jean!
Jean Matheson <jmatheson@direct.ca>
Richmond, BC Canada - Sunday, May 29, 2005 12:07 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain:

I hope Claire's up-all-night performance wasn't held over for another week! I remember those first couple of months when sleep was a fleeting thing, and hope that Claire settles in to her routine quickly. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a good report on Tuesday. As always, you and your girls are in my prayers.

Love from,

Ann & Alex
Canada - Saturday, May 28, 2005 11:24 PM CDT

Vicki, we Presbyterians in Texas are praying for you! I know that lots of Zeta's are "in the loop" and hoping for the best for all your family. You are precious to us!
Ida Hassler - Chapter Financial Management Chmn.
Richardson, TX - Friday, May 27, 2005 11:37 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
What good stories Iain tells. I love hearing about the girls, but I am sorry about the 1:00-5:00 no-sleeper! Now applesauce - that's one to chuckle about. I hope things are looking better now that this round of chemo is over, Vicki. We want you to feel sensational! I hope this is going to be a happy Memorial Day weekend for all of you. You have earned it!!!
Love, Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 9:48 PM CDT

You don't know me, but your family is so beautiful! My 4-year old is addicted to applesauce and I'm used to the "trumpet" as well...ha ha. I have been following your story for awhile and will continue to do so. Vicki is a strong woman and I hope for the BEST NEWS EVER when you get the scan results. I just finished treatment for early-stage breast cancer and I'm just 32...I truly believe in positive thinking.
Danielle <dfdelacruz@excite.com>
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 11:48 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and family!! Congratulations on your newest addition! The picture of you holding Claire is beautiful! I hope you remember me from TSC. Diane Sawn LaMonica let me know today about your condition and this site. I have been reading through it and I admire your courage, positive attitude and strength! Stay strong because it is so important - you can beat this disease and and I can tell you that things will get better! My husband was diagnosed last May with bone marrow cancer, the same month my second son was born. Although it is tough to see past the treatments and their affects, "this too shall pass". Keep strong and enjoy every moment of your beautiful children and husband. My husband is in remission after a stem cell transplant, and we are thankful to our families and doctors, but most of all to God for seeing him through! I know in my heart that God will be there for you too. You can do this!! I am proud of you!! Love to you and your family - prayers every day as well! The love that surrounds you will keep you strong. Remember - your are a survivor:):):) God Bless.
Tina Slickmeyer-Ruchser <Ruxontheriver@comcast.net>
Mays Landing, NJ USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain and Girls ---

We've been meaning to write, call, etc. for so long, and so here we finally are. Thank you for sharing all your news in this way. We love you and are thinking about you often.
Caitlin & Mitch
Providence, RI - Thursday, May 26, 2005 7:20 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
Hope all is going well. Hang in there with the chemo. We are all thinking of you. Zack says, "May the Force be with you!" Tell Maddy we said No, No, quack quacks!
Love to all,
Kris Bill Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Thursday, May 26, 2005 4:02 PM CDT

Hey Vicki, Iain and Girls. I hope you all have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend. I am so happy that Claire is doing so well and that Maddy is already loving her like her big sister should! I look forward to seeing some pictures of the girls together. Do you still have enough clothes to fit Claire? If not, please be sure to let us know of anything you might need! Love you and miss you!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 3:53 PM CDT

We're home from our NY trip and delighted with the good news. Tina called us last Friday with the end-of-the-week report and we immediately thanked God for some answered prayers. We'll have all 4Ts here for graduation this weekend (Lynne, Tina's oldest)and can hardly wait to share the latest. Guess you're on that darned pump again, huh? I just know it's going to work miracles! Just a reminder that we are planning on seeing you June 7... I'll call soon to see how that fits your schedule. Hugs to all!
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, - Thursday, May 26, 2005 3:10 PM CDT

Good morning! Just wanted to let you and Iain know we're thinking about you...Hope this week's chemo is not too terribly nauseating and that you are able to enjoy some time with your visiting cousin. It looks like Tim will be out your way late next week for his work trip in Elgin, so I expect we'll be talking to you over the weekend...he wants to come see you all: ) Love Nic
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:47 AM CDT

How sweet of Maddy to try and share her pretzels with her little sister! I'm sure Maddy is thrilled to have her baby sister finally home with her and her mommy back with her full time. Vicki, you sounded in such great spirits when we talked the other day and I cannot wait to meet Claire. She is such a little beauty! Keep fighting hard and I know you can beat this!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 10:29 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,
Maddy, Claire, and pretzels? Now that is a good one!!! Sounds like you've now started 24 hour sister watch. That will certainly keep both of you out of trouble. Vicki, I hope you are feeling better. This guestbook proves how much you are loved and supported by friends. So - kiss the "girls" and keep our good thoughts in your heart!
Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:44 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Beautiful family,
The picture of you and Claire made me cry. How beautiful. I pray that the chemo is doing its job and that God is doing the rest. Miracles come to those who believe and I believe that this will take care of the cancer and you will be made well. Those little babies need there most wonderful mom and dad. Mickey J. told me the story of the tube coming out and when I read it I winced thinking that it must have pinched a bit, but at least it is gone. We are all praying for you and keeping good thoughts coming your way.
Love to all,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@coomcast. net>
Long Valley, NJ - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 8:13 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain:

I'm thinking of you today and sending caring thoughts as you start another round of chemo. I hope the side effects are manageable. Give Maddy and Claire a hug from us.

Ann & Alex
Canada - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:52 PM CDT

Hi! I am Jane Hovland's sister, Judy, and have been praying for and sharing this journey with you. I have a granddaughter named Madeline Claire so it is easy to remember your daughters' names. I wish the very best for you and your family, as well as those who are caring for you and your needs. Blessings to you all.
Judy Gilje <pagilje@aol.com>
Burnsville, MN USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 3:53 PM CDT

Greeting Phillips family! So glad that Claire is home and doing well. Good luck with the next round of chemo and pop on the boards when you can. Hugs and kisses!

Chastity and Cooper
Chastity Seliga <cseliga@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, May 25, 2005 12:38 AM CDT

Vickie and Claire,

It's so wonderful to hear that you are both back home where you belong. I visit this page often to keep up on your progress. I'm so happy to know that the prayers are helping you both be strong. You both look amazing. God Bless.
Emily Duncan <eduncan@sidley.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:09 AM CDT

Vicki - Just checking in to let you know we pray for you every day and marvel at your strength and progress. My manager told me she is praying to Pope John Paul because he has to do some miracles to become a saint- Lutherans don't really get how that works,but we agreed that miracles are happening all the time and can keep coming your way!
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 8:48 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,

I have not visited your page for several weeks and was so happy to see the pic of you and Claire. Claire is looking at you with such loving, trusting eyes. It is beautiful. Congratulations that you are both home now. You are in my prayers that the chemo goes smoothly with shrinking of all the lesions - to nothingness. Love you all

This web page is so great that I have recommended it to a friend who is going through a time now with a brain tumor.
Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 8:27 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family!
Vicki, that picture of Claire and you is the absolute cutest! You look great and she looks like an angel. I am so happy that your family is back together at home. I think about you guys all the time...
Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 8:04 AM CDT

Thanks for the post. Glad that it is all good news. Baby Claire is beautiful. Praying for Vicki and her treatment.
Claire <clairehand@conwaycorp.net>
Conway, AR - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 11:24 PM CDT

Thanks Iain for all the updates...I love the photo..and I just have to say, I think that look on Claire's face is simply saying ..."I love you Mommy!"
God Bless you all..you are ALL always in my prayers..Peace,
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, NJ - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 9:14 PM CDT

Vicki, it sounds like Claire is making herself right at home -- just as it should be! What a joy it must be to have everyone home.

It's funny about how siblings interact. You mentioned how Maddy "shared" her pretzel with Claire and it made me chuckle. Aidan will rarely share any toys or books with Luke (who is now 13 months old already), or anything else that we want him to share. However, he somehow knows we don't want him giving his little brother raisins, M&Ms or other choking hazards and yet these are the items he chooses to "share." I'm convinced at almost three years old he has us figured out already! The stolen moments when they giggle together, hug or kiss, like you mentioned, are treasures.

By the time the day is over and it's "Mommy time," it's approaching 10pm. I'm hoping you are catching up on your sleep by then, so I'm not about to call. I do want you to know that you are in my thoughts daily. Jim checks in on your site every day just incase the boys keep me from the computer that day. I feel so blessed to be a part of your life, even just a small part, so I can share in the joy of hearing all about Maddy and Claire. Iain is another gift from God, but I'm sure I don't have to tell you that. My heart is full tonight after seeing the picture of you feeding Claire. Hold her tight and get some sleep at the same time if you can!

Linda Trainor <trainorz@optonline.net>
Manalapan, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 8:09 PM CDT

Vicki -
I just heard what you have been going through, and you are in my thoughts constantly.
What a beautiful baby!!! Sounds like Maddie is going to turn Claire into a tough kid - nothing like getting a pacifier jammed in your eye when you're just trying to relax!!!
Love, Jen
Jen MacLean Duggan <jenduggan2@juno.com>
Lambertville, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 7:55 PM CDT

I can't read Iain's updates without crying. I am so happy that you are all under one roof and that you have each other. The four of you together can do anything.

Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 5:54 PM CDT

Vicki, You don't know me but I am a friend in Christ. Our church and Bible study and many friends and family members have been praying for you and for your new baby girl. I know the Lord has something special in mind for you. I found out about you through a young lady named April Bailey who is a freind of a mutual friend of yours - I believe. You are in our prayers for a full recovery and that the baby continues to grow stronger each day. God bless you, your husband and your other little girl and your new baby too.
Louise Tkach, West Mifflin, PA near Pittsburgh.
Louise Tkach <ltkach@pitt.edu>
West Mifflin, PA USA - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 2:15 PM CDT

Hey Vicki,
I talked to Zabel and Puck about the trip to see you. They said what a good time they had visiting you. I am glad th baby is home and doing well. thinking of you,
Christine Durante <cdurante@riverton.k12.nj.us>
Delran, NJ usa - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 2:09 PM CDT

Claire is such a beautiful little girl. I am so happy to hear that you are all under one roof finally. Vicki, I hope your next round of chemo goes well and that your re-evaluation shows wonderful results. Lain, your family is so blessed that you work with such wonderful people. I think what they did for you also shows what you do for them. You must be an amazing friend and co-worker to all of them. Enjoy your family!
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 8:48 AM CDT

<brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, May 23, 2005 11:25 PM CDT

What a beautiful little baby Clair is and I'm so glad that you are all finally under one roof. It must be such a relief to finally be able to be one family again. I hope that the chemo is doing its trick and the next progress update will be nothing but great news.

((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Monday, May 23, 2005 8:32 PM CDT

Congrats on everyone being home and on the road to recovery!!!
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ - Monday, May 23, 2005 8:16 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Mom and Dad really know how to throw a party!! Sarah's graduation party was great and we met many of their wonderful friends. It was nice to see Jay and Kathy too. Your mom was excited about the new picture and I promised to check it out. It is awesome. What I did notice was, I have a similar picture of DJ from twenty-six years ago...SAME EXACT BLANKET!! Preemie baby bottle too (I still have one of his). We didn't have the crocheted caps...they used the sleeve that is put on under a cast - folded up for a cuff and then tied with a ribbon at the other end. Keep up the good work...You and your family are in our prayers.
Judy Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ U.S.A. - Monday, May 23, 2005 7:42 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
I am so glad to hear everyone is together at home. That is such wonderful news. Vicki, that picture of you and Claire is beautiful. Know that you are in my prayers and that I think of you often.

Love,
Denise
Denise Yacullo Rodak <dyr113@yahoo.com>
W.Caldwell, NJ - Monday, May 23, 2005 6:44 PM CDT

Hi Vicky - You won't recognize my name but I knew you and your family when you attended Calvary Lutheran Church in Allendale. (My last name at that time was Remmers). I have two daughters, Kirsten and Megan. Kirsten is a year or two younger than you. Carol and Bob Ray have been keeping me informed of all that is happening. I just want to tell you that you and your family are an inspiration to me. I love the lastest photo! How thrilling that all four of you are home! You are in my prayers daily. May God continue to hold you in the palm of his hand.

Debbie Alexander <dalexander123@earthlink.net>
Ramsey, NJ USA - Monday, May 23, 2005 4:54 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain:

Happy Victoria Day from Canada! I hope it's a great day in your household as well. I'm so glad to hear that Claire is making the adjustment to home so well. I can't begin to imagine how thrilled you must be to have your family all under one roof again. And please give Maddy a hug from us for being such an enthusiastic big sister! (No wonder they have seatbelts in those infant seats!) You all continue to be in our prayers.

Love,
Ann & Alex
Canada - Monday, May 23, 2005 4:37 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain and family,
I'm thinking about you everyday. So glad to hear that Claire came home last weekend. Beautiful picture!
Michelle Joseph <michellejoseph2000@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, May 23, 2005 3:55 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
We're thrilled to see that you and Claire are both home now. She is just adorable. I'm glad I got to meet her in person and can't wait for both our families to get together soon.
We love you!
Adam, Rachel, and Kyle
Adam Handler <arhandler@comcast.net>
Burlington, NJ USA - Monday, May 23, 2005 3:28 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Hope you had a great weekend. Sounds like the garage sale trip was successful. It is wonderful to read these positive updates!
I think of you all constantly. I will probably call tonight or tomorrow, still trying to organize a trip of some sorts for August.
Talk to you soon.
Love,
Kris

Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Monday, May 23, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

Happy Monday! Vicki you have managed to make garage saling an art! Know what you want - map it - get there early and bring Margie and the pick-up truck! Had a wonderful time visiting this weekend, meeting Margie and your neighbors. I had NO idea that Moms & Tots was so extensive and organized, those women could run the country! Claire is soooo adorable and Maddy is going to be an awesome big sister! Iain I hope you got a good night's sleep: ) Bingy have a safe flight home! Lots of butt scratches for Snoop...Love, Nic PS - Maddy's gift is in the office in a shopping bag on top of the file cabinet: ) PPS - Big Pocono sends his love: )
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Monday, May 23, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

Such awesome news! I'm so happy for all of you! Vicki, I'm so glad that you got your feeding tube out! Although Iain's story makes it sound like it was quite an experience! Yikes!
By the way, you look great in the new picture! And I just love the look on Claire's face! She's getting so big! I bet her big sister can't wait to have her home!
Actually, she should be home now, I think. I hope that it's going well. And I hope that everyone is feeling good. Vicki, I hope that nausea goes away. Take care!
Still in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, May 23, 2005 9:36 AM CDT

Hi Phillips!
So, how was the big weekend???? And I'm not talking about your garage sale finds, although I'm jealous! I can only imagine how exciting it was to bring Claire home from the hospital. I remember when Juliana got the green light to come home, all the other parents in the NICU applauded us, and it was just the most incredible feeling ever. I would think it was even more so for you all. Looking forward to the next update and how everyone is doing on a little less sleep. :-)
Love to you all,
Rebecca
Rebecca Hassouna <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Monday, May 23, 2005 7:07 AM CDT

Hi to all FOUR of you,
That is absolutely wonderful. Now, we want to hear all the stories about Maddy's response to her new baby sister. And, Vicki, the feeding tube news is great. You are eating good things though, right? The picture of you and Claire is so sweet. She doesn't looked scared like Iain mentioned. She looks a bit in awe of her strong mother. Even though you can't see our faces, I bet most of us are giving you the same awe struck look. Keep up your positive thoughts and I'm looking forward to other wonderful Phillips' stories.
Love, Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 11:49 PM CDT

Phillips family,
Hello from your neighbors across the street! I am so glad that Claire is home.Her picture is breathtaking. My girls have included all of you in their prayers at night. Never under estimate the power of a mother! If you need anything, please let us know.
Cathy, Carly and Alison Dust (grandma and grandpa, too)
Cathy Dust <cathdust@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 10:07 PM CDT

Vicki, what great news...to welcome Claire into your home. (Did I mention how much I love her name? It's my mother's name - and she was quite a pistol. Think you'll have the same good luck!) And appreciate Iain's journal. What's great about it is that now I feel almost ready to practice GI medicine. Way to go. Sorry to miss the trivia event - a fun topic and sounds like a great evening. I'm working on getting psychologically prepared for Greg turning 17 on Friday. You've got only 16 years and 11 months to go for Claire!
I think of you everyday and send positive energy towards you, Claire, Maddy and your amazing husband, Iain. Much love, Janice
Janice Maffei <jmaffei@visionfirst.com>
North Caldwell, NJ USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 10:07 PM CDT

Hello, Vicki! I'm so glad Claire is home and all can be together. I just finished a PassPort project at Exelon and was able to tell the gang about your news. Please know all of us have you in our thoughts and prayers. Cindy and I hope to come to see you soon. Enjoy all the hugs! Love, Mary
Mary Roberti <mmroberti@aol.com>
Elgin, IL USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 6:39 PM CDT

Hey, glad to hear things are going well with Claire. Sorry I've been out of touch lately. Been travelling for work. Boston last week, LA this week, and then two weeks of vacation in Seattle and Oregon after LA.

Hope to pay a visit shortly after that.

You're all in my thoughts.
Kevin Hopkins
Chicago, IL - Sunday, May 22, 2005 6:29 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Ian, Maddy, and Claire, What WONDERFUL news that you are all home now, under one roof, no tubes, etc! I check this site every day to read about what is going on with all of you. I'm so happy to hear all the great news. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I will keep checking in here! ZLAMM <--had to do it!
Barb (Conn) Alexander
NJ - Sunday, May 22, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

Well, I consulted with Dan regarding the notorious removal of the feeding tube. He concurred that yes, they are usually just pulled out. Anesthesia is offered where he is, but the IV to start the anesthesia is more painful than the removal of the tube, and obviously the risks are higher. So, I guess, in short, yes, GI is not a subtle specialty. Then again, there is nothing subtle about poop (ha ha).

We are very glad to hear that the feeding tube has been removed. By now, Claire is home where she belongs and the Phillips household is probably a little nutty these days with two munchkins ruling the roost. We hope that Trivia Night was successful.

Here's to a great week!
Jennifer and Dan
Enfield, NH - Sunday, May 22, 2005 11:53 AM CDT

What a sweet picture of you and Claire. I can't believe how big she looks already! I'm so happy you're all home and together where you belong. Hope to see you soon! Love, Nancy & Sean
Nancy Hodgson <nhodgson@sbcglobal.net>
Vernon Hills, IL - Sunday, May 22, 2005 11:19 AM CDT

Iain, Vickie Maddy & Claire

So glad you are all home together. May God be with you as you as you face the days ahead.
Joanne Anderson <joandy@allstream.net>
Kanata, ON Canada - Sunday, May 22, 2005 4:08 AM CDT

Bump:

I hope that Vicki and Iain don't mind me posting this. I won't be able to attend the Trivia Night fundraiser at Baxter, so I contacted Wendy Anderson and found that donations can be made directly to the Phillips' Family Fund. Here's the info:

Phillips' Family Fund
Baxter Credit Union
400 N Lakeview Parkway
Vernon Hills, IL 60061

Tom Nicholas <tomsnich@gmail.com>
- Saturday, May 21, 2005 8:48 PM CDT

Vicki and Iain,
Sarah's graduation party today was wonderful. I met Joe's mom; we have so much in common, both teaching 8th graders. Sat with Shoendorfs, whom we do not see since they left our church. All are well. William graduates from college this year and is going to Union. Thomas graduates from 8th grade. Your mother and sister looked beautiful; their outfits both featured a gorgeous lime green. Your dad gave a fabulous speech. Great to see Jay and Kathy, too. We go to Jenny's next weekend, so will have more updates for you after that visit. Brian is in a new house and I get to see the inside for the first time Friday. What a thrill to see the photo of you and Claire! She is gorgeous (and so are you!). Claire looks like Jen did as an infant. Jen also had trouble staying awake on the bottle, and was actually born without the sucking mechanism, so it was a frustrating first few months. Wonderful news that you have Claire at home with you and your feeding tube is gone! Worth the trauma of having it yanked out! Keep all your positive thoughts and faith. Get as much rest as you can. Two little girls and one wonderful husband will keep you plenty busy. We love you!!!
Carol and Bob Ray <rayfolks@earthlink.net>
Midland Park, NJ USA - Saturday, May 21, 2005 6:56 PM CDT

Hello! I was so happy to hear that you got your feeding tube out and that Claire is coming home. I still can't believe that the doctor just yanked it out -- ouch! That picture of you feeding Claire a bottle is so sweet. Her eyes are so focused on you. I think she can't wait to come home to the both of you and Maddy of course. It will be so great to have her out of the hospital, I'm sure. When my son was in the NICU, it was so noisy with the beeps and other machinery going...how those babies got sleep is beyond me!

I'm 30 weeks and 3 days into my pregnancy and things continue to go pretty smoothly. The scariest part for me -- weeks 20-30 -- is over. My next goal is 34 weeks. I had to get some extra tests but hopefully I'll find out that things are normal when the results come in on Monday or Tuesday.

God's continued blessings to all 4 of you! Can't wait to see more pictures!!
--Rebecca
Rebecca Nickel <rnickel@optonline.net>
Boonton, NJ 07005 - Saturday, May 21, 2005 7:33 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I'm so glad that Claire is home and also that you have that nasty tube out! It's so great to have a picture of you both with no tubes! I just love it. It will be so nice to have the whole family together for the first time. We will have a drink to all of you tomorrow with Sarah. The prayers are still there. Just one day at a time.
Love, Shirlee
Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ 07045 - Friday, May 20, 2005 6:40 PM CDT

Awesome news!!!!! I bet you both can't wait to have claire home! The picture of Vicki and Claire is beautiful!!!You are in our thoughts everyday. Love always
xoxo
Michelle, William, Johnathon and Brandon <michskor@hotmail.com>
Stittsville, on Canada - Friday, May 20, 2005 5:57 PM CDT

YEH!!!!! Feeding Tube out...Claire on her way home ( just talked to your Mom)!!! Yeh!!! Wish the four of you( Bingy, too) could be here tomorrow but one step at a time!!!! And what Giant steps you are taking!! Keep it up!! You go Girls and Daddy TOO! Love to you all!!! Yeh!!!!
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, New Jersey United States of America - Friday, May 20, 2005 4:38 PM CDT

I'm glad Claire will be coming home soon! Vicki, I bet it feels great to have the feeding tube out. I hope you continue to feel better and get stronger each and every day. You and your whole family is in my prayers.
Jonalee (FoA/RA & BBC July '03) <jonalee@adelphia.net>
New Philadelphia, OH - Friday, May 20, 2005 3:41 PM CDT

Hi Vic, Iain, Maddy & Claire, Greetings from the left coast. I suspect Bingy took care of the white zin, since she has been seen drinking white merlot...Well, it's going to be exciting tonight, as you all adjust to Claire's routine. Special hugs for Maddy as she learns the truth about babies. Wishing you all strength, humor, and a few hours of uninterrupted sleep. We plan to attend the one-year cancer free reunion in LA. Can you turn in our reservations? Love & prayers, Dave & Joanie
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Friday, May 20, 2005 1:19 PM CDT

Today is the big day!! I am so thrilled for your family and that Claire can finally be home with mommy and daddy and her big sister!! Vicki, I still pray for you daily! I am so amazed at your strength! You are fighting this battle and winning all the way! Stay strong!
Lots of Love!!
Brenda - your sparkler friend!!
Brenda Kamis <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN - Friday, May 20, 2005 12:52 AM CDT

Vicki- I'm thrilled to hear about your progress and Claire's! She sure is a cutie. Enjoy your time together & take it one day at a time! Love ya! Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj - Friday, May 20, 2005 12:29 AM CDT

What a beautiful picture - Claire is sooooo cute! How can such a small baby have such expressive eyes so soon... Maybe Vicki is actually nauseous from the feeding tube removal - good god, it brings new meaning to "be careful what you ask for". Enjoy your great weekend all together. We are expecting nice weather in Montreal, I hope you have the same.
Love, Michele
Michele Boyer
Montreal, QC Canada - Friday, May 20, 2005 12:13 AM CDT

Great news! Glad that little Claire gets to come home, and congrats on getting that feeding tube out too (although it sounded a bit painful).
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, May 20, 2005 11:25 AM CDT

Hooray! So excited to know while it is pouring in NJ that the sun is out in Chicago for all of the Phillips to be under the same roof . Feel a great big hug from us. WE hope more good times are to come. Remember to get rest Vic Newborns tend to party at night. Red
michele prescavage <jmprescavage@comcast.net>
hainesport, nj usa - Friday, May 20, 2005 10:19 AM CDT

Welcome home Claire!!!! This is fantastic news! I haven't logged on for several days and to read this first thing this AM really makes my day. I can ony imagine how thrilled you all must be. I'll be attending your sister's graduation party tomorrow so we'll lift one to Vicki & Claire (hell, your dad's paying so we'll lift a bunch!). Vicki, just wanted you to know that we have finally located the Blue Tongue here in Jersey. It seems the entire state's allocation was purchased by one store. My wife bought a case and I delivered a sample of the Chardonnay to your father. It fits his requirements for wine --- tastes great and is cheap! I'll report on his party behavior next week. In the meantime, enjoy your freedom from the tubes.
Leo Neyens <lannyathpr@att.net>
Newton, NJ USA - Friday, May 20, 2005 10:14 AM CDT

Morning! VERY excited to get on that plane today to come visit all of you this weekend. I can't wait to meet Bingy and see all those gorgeous Phillips women under one roof! Looking forward to garage saling tomorrow and meeting Margie too. I know that Claire feedings are limited to mom and dad, but I'll be very happy to keep you company...you're going to have to kick me to wake me up though: ) See you in a few hours! Love, Nicole
Nicole Neal <nfrances13@hotmail.com>
East Stroudsburg, PA - Friday, May 20, 2005 9:58 AM CDT

Hi from the Charltons of Boonton (friends of your parents at First Presbyterian Church). My sister had stage 4 ovarian cancer 3 years ago and today she can't even remember the nausea. It will pass. Maybe you should ask that tube-pulling doctor to find a quick solution to the nausea.

Thanks for the photos and updates. It renews our prayers 100-fold.
Terry Charlton <alloydcharlton@optonline.net>
Boonton, NJ - Friday, May 20, 2005 9:01 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain - Today's the BIG day! I am so happy for all of you. I'm sure that little Claire will be glad to be home with her family.
I showed Peyton the picture on the main page and she correctly identified Claire this time. Then she got all agitated - saying, "blankey, blankey". She knows she has one just like the one Claire is wrapped in. I guess she thought Claire stole it! See you tomorrow.
Love, Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, il - Friday, May 20, 2005 8:44 AM CDT

That is wonderful news. We are so happy for you guys. All of the Phillips under one roof - yeah!!!!!! Vicki and Claire look great together in the new picture you posted. Vicki must be so much happier having the tube removed and I had only just finished telling my parents that Claire would be home in 7-10 days, they will be thrilled to hear that she coming home today instead. As always we are thinking of you guys. Love Alison and Barry xoxoxoxo
Alison Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Friday, May 20, 2005 8:15 AM CDT

Glad to hear that Clair can go home and that Vicki had her tube removed. All the best to you all as you continue on your journey.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, May 20, 2005 7:55 AM CDT

Congratulations Phillips Family!! It must be so exciting to have Claire coming home-enjoy every minute. Vicki glad to hear you got rid of the tube. I'm still praying for you all, and trusting God to do more great things.

Carol Tognetti <Togs5@msn.com>
Whippany, NJ - Friday, May 20, 2005 5:31 AM CDT

Dear Vicki & Iain,

Nope, you don't know me! But Sandi does, since I'm a member in good standing of the famous Book Club! Vicki, I live on 19 Rockledge. I want to tell you that the picture of Claire in the knitted hat is so wonderful that I can smell her peachy baby breath. And Iain, as a "member in good standing" of the bookclub, I am in a position to say that you display a very great proclivity for writing, and deserve the "Undiscovered Genius Award for Literary Valor." I will submit your name for consideration at our next meeting. Vicki, I am so very glad to hear that you got rid of that nasty tube, and have created a life where you are cushioned by love and good will. Please give your mother a hug.

Warmest regards,
Eileen McNally
Eileen McNally <eileenkeating@verizon.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Friday, May 20, 2005 0:46 AM CDT

YEA!!!! Another milestone - and the best to date - everybody home without tubes! Signs of God's love and answered prayers. Claire's eyes are so expressive - you'll know what she's thinking - and bet you'll know what Maddy's thinking, too! Have Fun!!!!
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Friday, May 20, 2005 0:11 AM CDT

That is great news about the feeding tube and Claire coming home! I will continue to say prayers for a happy homecoming!
Becky <guymon@consolidated.net>
Mattoon, IL - Thursday, May 19, 2005 10:52 PM CDT

Hi Phillips Family,
Great news that Claire is coming back and you are without a feeding tube Vicki. Hope and pray that everything keeps getting better
Shanti Nair <shantiknair@yahoo.com>
Miami, FL USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 8:18 PM CDT

JUst looking at that picure with little Claire's eyes looking up at you just says it all.
Puck.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj usa - Thursday, May 19, 2005 6:59 PM CDT

Dear Phillips family,
Congrats!! What big news! Claire coming home, feeding tube out..you are going to run out of things to complain about Vicki!
I am so happy for you all. Can't wait to visit again.
I am also eagerly awaiting one year cancer-free celebration in LA. Hugh Jackman's presence had no bearing on my excitement at all. Good luck with the move Sara.
Love to all,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Thursday, May 19, 2005 5:55 PM CDT

wow, phillips family! sounds like things are going well these past few days. vicki, i've been "checking in" on you daily here on this site, and i'm so happy for your progress and for claire's. i can only imagine life will be that much better for you with your whole family under one roof at the end of the week. enjoy!
Lora Davis <loralbi@hotmail.com>
cherry hill, nj - Thursday, May 19, 2005 5:53 PM CDT

I'm so very happy to hear you will all be under one roof again (however, reading that journal entry while eating lunch probably wasn't a good idea). Still, I'm happy for you guys! I'm telling SaraT to give you all big hugs from me next time she sees you!
Kathy Martensen <kjswenson@hotmail.com>
Jewell, IA USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 1:39 PM CDT

Hip Hip Hooray! Coming home is only a day away...Congratulations on yet another milestone! I love the new picture and I think Claire looks perfectly content to be in mom's arms and the eye contact is priceless in that photo! Vicki, I called yesterday to see about a hand massage, but was so happy to hear that you were at the hospital feeding Claire. Way to go with that feeding tube. You were willing to do anything to get that out, weren't you? I hope we can see you soon! Enjoy the homecoming with all your heart and keep up the good work and we'll keep up the good thoughts and prayers!
Debbie Toussaint
L ake Zurich, IL USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

Iain, I did have problems logging on last night but glad to see it up today!

Vicki I just adore that picture of you and Claire. I also love how Margie titled it. I am so happy she is coming home on Friday. I bet Maddy is going to be surprised to have a new partner in crime at the house too. I am so glad you are doing well.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 12:53 AM CDT

Vicki, I still think about you all the time, and I tell you on the boards all the time but I am thrilled to pieces about your improvement. You are truely an inspiration when ever I am down. Continue to get better and I hope to meet you in person soon. Hey there are many uses for a feeding tube you should have recycled it! (lol)
Stacy <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
middlesex, nj - Thursday, May 19, 2005 12:43 AM CDT

Hey guys!
What a fantastic update for the 19th! Vicki - I am so excited that the feeding tube is gone & now Iain will have all of "his girls" home and under one roof! Take advantage of Nicole for midnight feedings this weekend. :) I wish I could be there to help too. Enjoy your weekend and I'll touch base soon.
Love,
Kerry
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO - Thursday, May 19, 2005 12:36 AM CDT

Hey Vicki -

I can't say how thrilled I am to hear that Lil Claire is finally coming home. Yay! She has the most gorgeous brown hair....but as Iain would say, I might be biased!

On a quick side note, I got an offer on my house. Looks like the move date will be around June 30...which doesn't seem far enough away...there's too much to do! I need all your tips on making the cross-country move.

To the New Jersey girls...you all are fantastic. I'm so glad that I got to meet you. Don't forget...the one-yr Vicki Beat Cancer reunion is in LA. Hugh Jackman is invited.

Love ya, Sara
Sara Thilges <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Chicago (not LA yet!), IL - Thursday, May 19, 2005 12:12 AM CDT

Vicki,
I haven't posted in a bit but please know that I still check in daily. The photo that Iain posted today of you and Claire is just precious!!! What great news that Claire will be home this Friday and that you will all be a family again under one comfortable roof. As you have heard time and time again, you are such an incredible source of inspiration. Congrats on the feeding tube coming out!!! You look beautiful!
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 11:54 AM CDT

Way to go Claire!!! Just growing like a weed. You are now the tube-less family.....WONDERFUL news! I'm still praying, still checking on your progress....down here in Fla.
Tricia Mc
Ocala, FL - Thursday, May 19, 2005 11:51 AM CDT

Greetings again from Minnesota! I'm so happy that Claire is going home! And I can't believe the doctor just pulled out the feeding tube! Good news all around! Have a great time on Trivia night, I hope there is a large turnout!
Alayne Swedeen <slayneswe@mywdo.com>
Isanti, MN - Thursday, May 19, 2005 11:38 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Claire,
I hope things are getting easier for all of you. You deserve to be happy and healthy!
I talked about you last night, Vicki. My niece and I were talking and I told her that you are a wine expert that taught others. She is interested in how you did that and asked if it is a specific company or vineyard. So, when you are feeling better, let me know about your expertise.
Please know that you are in my thoughts daily. I am getting ready for Megan's graduation so I will probably skip a day or two writing. Just remember - my thoughts are with all of you! Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
15 So Washington Valley Rd, NJ USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 2:15 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
So glad to hear that Claire is off the tubes. Wish your tube could be gone,too. Iain, you give the best updates, Thank you. Our prayers are constant and a bit forceful at times. I hope that you are feeling better each day. I know there are ups and downs, but I hope the ups are more than the downs. Take care and I am sending lots of hugs and kisses.
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 6:47 PM CDT

Vicki,
I am so happy that you and Claire are doing so well. I miss you both terribly! I am in Rochester and visited St. Mary's where I said a prayer for you and Claire. I can't wait to see you again! Hope you had fun shopping! You, Iain, Claire and Maddy are constantly on my mind and in my prayers! Love you all so very much! Kathy
Kathy Thoele <kathythoele@yahoo.com>
Anthem, AZ USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 5:42 PM CDT

Vicki, Glad to read about your progress. Looking forward to seeing your parents and Sarah this weekend at the graduation party. Think about things you and your family need. Calvary members want to help and need some ideas. Love you!! Carol and Bob Ray

Carol Ray <rayfolks@earthlink.net>
Midland Park, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 4:29 PM CDT

Hey, that's great that Clare's feeding tube was removed. From the other guest book entries, sound like Zabel would like to borrow it.
Thinking about and praying for you guys. Cathy
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 2:21 PM CDT

Vicki,
I know it's been a long time since we've been in touch, but I just heard the news from Margo. I want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you want a laugh, I can scan and send some old pictures from our Lab days, if you let me know where to send them.

Love,
Jen
Jennifer Egeland <jegeland@snet.net>
Shelton, CT USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 2:07 PM CDT

Hi everybody! So glad to hear that all of Claire's tubes and lines are gone! That's great that she's using the bottle!
Vicki - I hope your nausea goes away!
Still keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers! Take care!

Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 12:31 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Just checking in between snacks. If I lived with you full time, nutrition would not be a problem. Maybe you should keep track of your daily food intake in a journal. Wow, a journal. What a unique gift idea. I think I will ship one to you ASAP!
Hope Iain has recovered from our visit. Give Maddy and Claire a kiss for me!
Talk to you soon!
Love ya,
Kris Peterson Jackman
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 11:14 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain and family-
Thanks for a great weekend. I can't remember when I laughed so hard. Between that and keeping up with Zabel's snack consumption, my belly still hurts. It sounds like you need me to replenish the bottle of white zin- have no fear, another case is on the way (although I hear that you prefer it out of the box!) I'm sure that you will enjoy it as I am known for always picking out the perfect gift! Thinking about you often-
Love, the scrabble onliner
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj usa - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

Hi everyone,

Wonderful update - so glad to hear that Claire might be coming home soon I bet you can't wait. I absolutely love the picture that you have on the main page of her. It sounds like you have been very busy with lots of visitors which is nice. Thinking of you every day love Alison and Barry
Alison Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 10:19 AM CDT

Vicki,

So glad to hear that you are home and that Claire will come home soon. I admire your strength and bravery! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Janice (The Streeter's daughter)
Suffolk, VA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 10:06 AM CDT

I'm so happy to hear MORE good news! That's great that the chemo is going well and that Claire might be home very soon. Sounds like you guys had a great weekend with lots of laughs - there's nothing like laughing til your belly hurts (in a good way, of course!) I'm also glad to hear that David Duchovny is mine for the asking - I wonder how his wife is going to feel about that! :-)

All my love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I've met you at some moms and tots events and just wanted to say that you are in our prayers. Your baby girl is absolutely beautiful, I'm glad things are picking up for you and your family. God bless.
Cathy Zaeske <cathyzaeske@hotmail.com>
lake zurich, il usa - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 9:51 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,
I am cracking up reading the entries from Zabel and Katrina. I am sure those 3 girls were very entertaining this weekend. Know that I am thinking about you. And what did Iain mean when he said they finally took that bottle of white zin off your hands. I think I can guess which girl polished that off! Take care of yourself and baby Claire. Love ya,
Christine Durante <cdurante@riverton.k12.nj.us>
Delran, nj usa - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 9:06 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
So did you get your new clothes? I bet you look great. It is so special that Claire might come home soon. Then we can get pictures of Claire and Maddy. Right, Iain? That is going to be the best! Vicki, I want you to get better so you'll have a big smile in the pictures, too. A deal? I'm off to bed but talking to you comes first. ^_^
Love, Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 9:50 PM CDT

What a wonderful time I had this past weekend. I agree that laughter is the best medicine. the girls kicked me out of the travel scrabble game on the plane, and Katrina had her lovely tush in the air looking for a letter "A" that I dropped as she was all the way under an airplane seat to retreive it. Those girls are no match for my scrabble ability. Hey when you are down, think of that great movie, " hot air balloons flying high in the sky." Kiss Maddy for me and I hope the ducks showed up for her. Take care and have a great week. Puck.
Keep sporting those Jeans that look so good on you.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 6:23 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! We are so happy for you and the family that you are home. Claire is beautiful. You sure were right about her coming through with flying colors!! She's probably the biggest baby in the nicu.

Sorry I haven't stopped by - I was sick when you came home and I hate to call your house in case you are sleeping. Keep up the positive thoughts. We are sending them your way every day. Write me or call if you are up to chatting.

XO to the family
Chris
chris estes <christine_estes@yahoo.com>
lake zurich, il - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 4:02 PM CDT

Has everyone figured out by now that my wife is a nut?
Bill Peterson <bill@snakebite.com>
Hampton, NJ USA! - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 3:44 PM CDT

That is great news about Claire. BTW, she looks so cute in the photo with her Mother's Day card. I am also glad to hear that you are able to eat more.
Take Care. I think of you guys everyday.
Kim Turner
Des Plaines, IL USA - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 3:29 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Ian, Claire and Maddy (Snoop too). I just wanted to let you know that Bobbie, Sara and Janice(Hagedorn) are not the only members of the Streeter clan that think of you often and enjoy the pictures of the family. My prayers are with you too. Love to all.
John Streeter <jestreeter@cox.net>
Williamsburg, VA USA - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 3:23 PM CDT

Dear Claire and Vicky, You are both so beautiful! We are lucky that you have shared yourselves with us.
We are friends of Deanna Grahm and we are praying for
you.
Donna Bloomstadt <ddb1219@aol.com>
Litchfield Park, AZ - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 2:42 PM CDT

Congrats on all the milestones! It will be so wonderful to have all the girls home! That is just great to hear! God bless! Hope Trivia night is great!
Alayne Swedeen <slayneswe@mywdo.com>
Isanti, MN - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 1:39 PM CDT

Holy cow! There's great news today. Happy to hear that Claire is off the feeding tube; now to get rid of yours, Vicki! I know how much you hate that elephant tail. We're heading for Tara's in NY for her son's confirmation so won't be messaging until next week, but my thoughts and prayers will be in LZ as usual. Sure wish I were playing Trivia...I'm pretty good, especially if Tina's my teammate. My thanks to Iain for super updates, to Connie for being a caretaker, and to everyone far and wide who helps keep up the morale of the whole family. Hugs galore!
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 10:56 AM CDT

We're praying for all of your family. My daughter in VA and some of the ladies at her church are praying for you also. Your baby is beautiful.
Always trust in Him.
Marcelle Le Gallo <marcellel@oakhillschurchsa.org>
San Antonio, TX 78249 - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

Vicki, just thinking about you and hoping you are doing good. Look forward to some more pictures of Claire.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 7:10 AM CDT

Dear Vicki- I was forwarded your story through several people...I will pray for you and your entire family everyday and continue to read your updates...I pray that you believe this entire situation is in GODS hands..Philipians 4:13 says "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"..Pray for Gods strength every day. I have been touched very personally with cancer, as both of my parents had it. Praying works!!!! Please believe! In my Daily prayers, Nikki & family
Nikki <yahoojc33@msn.com>
Canonsburg, PA - Monday, May 16, 2005 9:11 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,

Nancy and I think of you and Iain and the girls often and have you and your extended family in our prayers every day. This weekend I realized that I probably haven�t seen you in person in 20 years but I certainly have gotten to enjoy touchstones from your life in the last few months. Highlights were having dinner twice with your mom at your home, meeting Iain and your Aunt Connie, and picking up Sarah and Joe at the airport (they sure are quiet). My favorite was the evening I got to spend with Maddy when she thought I was one of her grandpa. What a cutey! You are truly blessed and are a blessing to many, many people.

Bob McGowan <bobamerit@aol.com>
Barrington, IL - Monday, May 16, 2005 7:07 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy, and Bingy,
Thank you for your hospitality this weekend. I hope our visit lifted everyone's spirits. SCRABBLE: Katrina 2 Zabel 4. I know I have not laughed so hard in a long time!
That is right Zabel 4 Katrina 2.
I have no interest in David Duchovny for those interested! Hugh Jackman is the man!
By the way, have I mentioned I rule at Scrabble, and I am not even an onliner!!
I loved seeing all of you, and I hope to be back out before the end of the summer. I will have put the finishing touches on the skit by then and will be ready for dress rehearsals!
Special shout out to Bingy who was a lot of fun!
Love to all,
Kris Peterson Jackman

Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Monday, May 16, 2005 6:30 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Love, love, love the picture of Claire!! I hope you are still doing well with your second round of Chemo. I hope you had a great weekend with NJ girls. Everytime I think of Puck, I think of the story where she used rubber cement to glue her strapless semi dress on, so it wouldn't fall down during the night. I know you probably laughed the whole weekend.
Lisa (Bond) Mericle <mericletwins@aol.com>
CMCH, NJ - Monday, May 16, 2005 4:06 PM CDT

Hi, Vicky and Claire -
I'm a friend of Nancy McGowan's at Atonement Church in Barrington, Illinois. Our church is praying for all of you. I loved looking at your website. It's very uplifting.
Lois Richardson <lrmailbox@earthlink.net>
Barrington, IL USA - Monday, May 16, 2005 2:36 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I talked to my mom the other night. She wanted to tell you that she has a friend who is a minister at a church in New York City. She asked him to add your name and Claire's name to his congregation's prayer circle and he did. They are all praying for you.
I am so glad to hear that you and Claire are doing well. I bet you look fabulous in your new clothes! Here's to a good week.

Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Monday, May 16, 2005 8:01 AM CDT

Hey Vicki - Hope you had a wonderful weekend with the Nj crew. How is Aunt Connie holding up? I am only a short distance away so call me anytime. Wanted you to know that your doctor was very smart to bring all those colon cancer awareness pins to your room for you to distribute - I wear mine every day. You are an inspiration! We love you and keep you in our prayers every day.
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Monday, May 16, 2005 6:11 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I check in to read your updates every day. Moms and Tots has a movie night coming up Tuesday and we're trying to do it every month now-- whenever you feel up to it, let us know and we will ensure a door-to-door escort and a good time! Hugs and prayers from our house to yours-- Kara Parker

Kara Parker <nealkara@ameritech.net>
Kildeer, IL USA - Sunday, May 15, 2005 11:09 PM CDT

:) :) :) Love that picture! And am thrilled to hear the weight gain for Miss Claire! WOOHOO! Hope Vicki continues to feel good (all things considered of course) and enjoys the shopping weekend! Still pulling for you guys. All of you have such a positive, loving vibe... its infectious and admirable. Hugs and prayers still coming your way from a total stranger (intro'd via Lisa Mericle) and her family from TN. :)

Kera Pastusic <buckweez@aol.com>
Murfreesboro, Tn - Sunday, May 15, 2005 9:26 PM CDT

Hi Family: Left Coast checking in. Is it the Three Stooges, the t hree Muskeeteers, or both? Also, I was wondering if that includes candy bars? Is that furry beast Snoop? Is he an Australian Shepherd? Mike & Robby have one--he does his best to herd the rest of the dogs in the family, but does better with people. It's been pretty quiet since he bit off the outdoor faucet--he's exceedingly energetic and masterful...like we have room to talk. Ask Connie about the energetic and masterful Bogey--a handsome dog, alas, but ADHD to the core. Love and prayers, Joanie & Dave PS Connie: I dialed you c-phone--great msg, nice options.
mjmcconnell <mjmconnell@mindspring.com>
Chatsworth, CA USA - Sunday, May 15, 2005 5:55 PM CDT

Hi Vicki. What a beautiful picture of Claire. We've been down with sinus infections and allergies this week but are good to go with anything you may need in your mom's absense. Just let us know and keep up the good work!

Linda Griffin <l_bgriffin@ameritech.net>
Lake Zurich, il 60047 - Sunday, May 15, 2005 12:28 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain:

I hope you're having a great time with your weekend visitors. From the sounds of the group from NJ, there will be lots of laughs and good times. I'm glad to hear that Claire continues to grow stronger every day. Your family will be on the prayer list at church this morning. Have a terrific day!

Love & hugs,
Ann & Alex
Canada - Sunday, May 15, 2005 8:54 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Sorry I missed a few days. I have been hopping back and forth to NYC daily. My sister has been ill so life is a bit busy. Iain's writing sounds better and better for Claire. That is super! And - I love the idea of friends helping you with a new wardrobe. I would like that. (I guess I'll have to meet your Mom at the mall!) Make sure Iain takes pictures so we can all "oooh and aaah."
I'm thinking about all of you and hope things are getting better each day. You deserve that, Vicki.
Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Sunday, May 15, 2005 8:51 AM CDT

Hey Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire! Just wanted to say hello. We are on our way to church and you are on the prayer list. People I don't even know are asking me about you and how you are doing. Even people on my weather boards! As you know you have a whole army behind you!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Sunday, May 15, 2005 7:01 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and Co.,
It was so good to see cars in the driveway when I drove by today! I'm sure you will enjoy your company this weekend. All of you are in every prayer we say! McKenna, Mark and I rotate saying the prayers at mealtimes, but no matter whose turn it is, your family is mentioned! I think about your hand massage every day...I just have to find a time you are not hostessing and that seems quite often right now--good for you! I have put you on many other people's list so that they can think of you, too!
Love, Debbie
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Saturday, May 14, 2005 8:33 PM CDT

Just wanted to pop back in to say that we are still pulling for you Vicki! It is sooo good to hear that you are home and doing better. Lain - you are a hero - truly. Keep up the good work.
Lisa, Rick, and Connor Driscoll
Pembroke Pines, Fl US - Saturday, May 14, 2005 7:12 AM CDT

I am so glad things are going well... You are a family of fighters. I love the pic of the baby keep it up for awhile!

My thouhts and prayers are with you and your family
Ellie <ellie_bellie99@hotmail.com>
Encintas, ca - Friday, May 13, 2005 11:52 PM CDT

Hey Vick,
Somehow I think you are going to get plenty of laughs this weekend! I hope you enjoy your visit with Puck, Katrina & Zabel. I won't be able to make it out next weekend with Nicole (John has to fly to AZ on Friday for a job interview) so there is no one to stay with the baby. But I am hoping to come out in June if that works out with your planned visitors. I'll call you next week to talk about it. Claire looks wonderful & I am envious of your new "slim" self! Can't remember the last time I saw 135 on the scale!!
Thinking of you often!
Love,
Kerry

Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO - Friday, May 13, 2005 9:05 PM CDT

I love reading the good news and it sounds like the sun is shining at the Phillips' residence! I can't imagine where everyone is sleeping, but I know there is food aplenty...ah, and wine. So Sandi has Jack, Iain has Vicki, and that means Connie has...let me guess, Maddy!!!!! Good luck, Connie. I'm looking forward to seeing something new in the way of apparel next time I visit, Queen Vic. A robe and tiara won't be necessary, but the scrubs can go! Have fun this weekend with the Jerseyites. Hugs to all as usual.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Friday, May 13, 2005 3:27 PM CDT

Have a great weekend Vicki! I know you'll have lots of laughs with the company that's on the way.

Deanna <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Friday, May 13, 2005 3:07 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, I met you a few months ago when you hosted bunko at your house. I'm a new member of LMT. Just wanted you to know that you and your family are on my mind, in my thoughts and prayers. I too have everyone I know praying for you. Take care and keep smiling.
Sue Richards
Lake Zurich, IL - Friday, May 13, 2005 2:53 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! Just checking to see if there was an update. Sounds like Clare is doing so much better. Yeah! And it sounds like you are also improving. I'm still praying for you guys daily. One thing though, I'm glad I don't live near you so I don't have to help clean. ha ha (I would love to watch Maddy though).

love, Cathy
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Friday, May 13, 2005 1:01 PM CDT

Hi Iain and Vicki,

I love the picture the nurses took of Claire. Very fitting for Mother's Day. She is quite alert to be so young. She definitely looks like Vicki. I am glad the chemo is going fairly well. Less cords to deal with compared to your stay in the hospital. Have fun buying lots of new clothes.

Rick and I think of you often. Take care!
Connie Ford and Rick Milligan <connie.ford@allstream.com>
Ottawa, On Canada - Friday, May 13, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

Great to hear that Vicki is feeling better Hope Clothes shopping goes well. Claire looks fantastic. Iain soon all your girls will be under one roof. Stay strong and keep smiling Iam sure that Vicki is. She always smiles. Keep with all the happy vibes. NJ, michele RED prescavage
michele Prescavage <jmprescavage@comcast.net>
hainesport, nj usa - Friday, May 13, 2005 11:47 AM CDT

Vicki, would you please tell your VERY SELFISH friend Kris Peterson to STOP HOARDING all the men! You'd think that real hubby Bill would be enough. How about spreading the wealth? What about the sisterhood? John Cusack is MINE!!!! Actually, I'd like to put dibs on David Duchovny (you're not the only one who likes Canadian men!)- that is, if Kris hasn't already taken him too. ARGHHHHH!!!!!!! :-)

So happy to hear your positive update today, skinny minny!

Love,
Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:58 AM CDT

I used to be convinced that your Sparklers HAD to be the wackiest group of friends you have. After reading the entries from your college and NJ friends I see that they have us beat!! :)
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:09 AM CDT

Claire is soooooo cute! What a dollbaby. I know she'll be home with you soon. Iain, thank you so much for keeping us updated about your girls. You are a big part of why our Vicki is going to beat this.
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Friday, May 13, 2005 8:57 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
You don't know me but I have a little boy that will be two next week. I read your story and I just want you to know that I will pray for you and your family. Enjoy your little girls!
Shannon Barker
Zelienople, PA USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:09 PM CDT

Hey Vicki! You never stop amazing me!! I am so blown away by your positive spirit and cheerful messages! And your baby Claire is just as cute as can be! I cant wait for her to be home with you and your family!
You continue to be in my daily thought and prayers!!
Love and Hugs to you!
Brenda - your sparkler friend <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN - Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:24 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Claire is adorable. How lucky she is. I am glad to see that you are making more positive steps. When I awake at night you are the first person that pops into my head and a silent prayer goes up for you and your family. I am sure that all the people praying for you will bring positive results. I saw Carolyn Connely today. She said that you know her daughter and she was asking about you. I tried to remember the web site from memory, but I missed the /il so she will not be able to get you until I see her mom again. Carolyn goes to Fairmount Presb. Church which is where my Nursery School is based. Emily is getting to ready to graduate from West Morris and is really ready to move on. The prom is coming up,June 2, and I think about you getting ready for your prom with Meg and Sarah watching the procedure. It seems like yesterday.. and now Emily is going to the prom and Meg and Sarah are graduating from College....and you are a mommy of two beautiful little girls. How old am I anyway????????????
Well, Vicki, I hope this finds you happy and with more energy. Please know that you are constantly in my thoughts, along with your family and your mom and dad.
Love to all.
Marcia
Marcia Horner
Long Valley, NJ - Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:23 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I just spoke with Dana and she told me you were home. Our prayers are with you and your family at this time. I hope to get back to Jersey to see Bob, Dana and Maddie in September. I have requested our church and my family to have their church's put you and your family on the prayer list. So my dear you have at least 19 churches praying for you. God bless you, your husband and your beautiful children. Louise Taggart (Bob's mother)
Louise Taggart
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:11 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Family,
You don't know me, I think a friend of a friend of a friend etc. brought you and your family into my life. I am the mother of a 5 and 2 year old. I remember how difficult it was to be a new mom let alone having to face cancer on top of it. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong and give that baby girl a big kiss from my kids, they saw her picture and thought she was very cute!!
Melinda Darley <darleyjm@comcast.net>
Vancouver, WA USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:06 PM CDT

Hello -
Good Luck and have fun with the Jersey Girls this weekend - I am sure that they will bring a smile to your face many a times... In reading your website I see that you play Bunko - something that I did not know. We are starting a group tomorrow nite at my house. I will call you for pointers!! Keep eating (never thought that I would have to say that to any of our old college friends!)
Love, Lisa

Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 7:27 PM CDT

Dear Vicki - I am friends with Lisa Leiva and she told me your story recently. My husband and I have both worked in hospitals for a long time and we have experienced our own lengthy hospitalization with the pre-mature birth of our twins. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are witness to the fact that hope and faith carry a great deal of weight when facing the challenges your family is experiencing and that your will is more just as important as conventional medicine. It is evident by your guest book that you have a tremendous support network and are very loved. Your daughter is adorable, I was so glad to see her picture. Use the support of your loved ones to feed your strength! Be well. Tracy and Tom Berges
Tracy Berges <sunshinetk@optonline.net>
Highland Mills , NY 10930 - Thursday, May 12, 2005 5:45 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Just to clarify, I have only been married once to the most wonderful man, Bill Peterson. However, fantasy husbands have included, but are not limited to, John Cusack, Mel Gibson, Ben Affleck, and currently the beautiful Hugh Jackman.
We would love to take you out for a while to shop, have lunch, and possibly treat you to a manicure or pedicure.
Love ya,
Kris Peterson (Jackman)
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Thursday, May 12, 2005 4:34 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and family,
I'm so glad that things are improving for you. You are a very strong woman and have a beautiful family. My heart and thoughts go out to you! I wish I lived closer so I could join Trivia night! My friends surgery went really great and she's home now re-cooping just like you!
Alayne Swedeen <slayneswe@mywdo.com>
Isanti, MN - Thursday, May 12, 2005 2:52 PM CDT

Vicky, Janice Maffei just told me today about the challenges you are facing - so Marika and I will be praying for you because prayers get answered!! Claire looks beautiful !! I know you will spoil her . Email me when you are able - I would love to hear from you
Dave Parsels <david_parsels@glic.com>
Warren , , NJ USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

May God bless you and keep you and your wonderful family in His care and give you strength for each new day!
Velma Ballenger <vballenger@peoplepc.com>
Monroeville, PA USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 1:49 PM CDT

I hope you are up for a lot of laughing this weekend, I am sitting here cracking up out loud, one for Kris's message signature, and for Katrina typing the same thing three times. See you tomorrow. Ps whatever happend to Kris being in love with john cusack, was not she married to him before, in her delusional mind? OR was it Mel Gibson? Have a good day and night and rest up for your crazy friends. I have to put a Zlamm in there for old time sake. Puck
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:30 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Hope all is well. Can't wait to see you tomorrow!
LOve.
Kris Jackman
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:10 AM CDT

Hi Vicki:

I'm so glad to hear that you had a wonderful Mother's Day at home with family and friends. How sweet of the nurses to send you such a special greeting from Claire! I am amazed at how well she is growing. She is just a darling little girl. I hope that chemo is going well and that it is not too hard on you. What great news that eating is going so well for you, although I'm sure it still isn't all that easy. Keep up the fight! You are making great strides.

Love and hugs from
Ann and Alex
Ann & Alex
Canada - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:39 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I am Debbie Toussaint's Mom. I enjoyed seeing the pictures of your lovely family and want you to know that I keep all of you in my prayers. It is so nice to hear that you are home and have the good thoughts and prayers from so many people.

Linda French
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 10:24 AM CDT

Dear Vicki - I'm so grateful that our mutual friend, Nancy McGowan, brought you into my life. I am a cancer survivor and am praying for you and your beautiful family. I also believe in miracles. With much love,
Mary Anderson <rlameander@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:31 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, this is Chris, Katrina's sister's (Jen) boyfriend. Katrina sent me this link and I wanted to leave you a message. I'm so glad to hear you are home relaxing with your family. You and your family are in my prayers. Happy belated Mother's Day!!!
Chris Buser <CrzyDiamond18@optonline.net>
River Edge, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:00 PM CDT

Vicki, just thinking about you and hoping you are doing good today after the chemo treatment. Hang in there. You need to get to feeling better so I can ship Madison up there for a while. I am hoping that your calm, cool and collect nature will rub off on her! Wait till you hear about her Houdini act. Just kidding, I would never put you through her craziness! Joking aside, I just want you to know that I think about you all the time. Not a moment goes by that you aren't in my thoughts or that I am not talking about you to someone. I don't think that I have ever had a "hero" in my life so you are the first. Hurry back to the boards! The Sparklers miss you!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:51 PM CDT

Vicki, so glad to know you're home where you ought to be! What a sweetie Claire is. Love the picture. Hang in there through this next round. There are legions of people rooting for you. Have you had a great foot massage recently? Miss your ten wacky toes. Love, Janice
Janice <jmaffei@visionfirst.com>
North Caldwell, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:43 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Hope all went well with the chemo. Not fun!!! It sounds like you are having some good friends this weekend. Good for you. You deserve lots of fun and hugs. I love seeing the picture of Claire when I come into this site. She is so cute and a real toughy. Good for her. I'm sure Maddy is loving having you home. We want all of you to be healthy and happy.
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:02 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I am not delusional. Katrina is just jealous of Hugh Jackman's love for me!! You saw the Christmas card...the chemistry and heat between us was so obvious.
I am confident in Hugh's feelings for me. I do not need Katrina's support. Needless to say, she will not be invited to the wedding!
I will however, graciously accept the yodels from Iain!!
See you Friday!
Love ya,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

Vicki & Iain,

Just checking in! The pictures are fantastic! Thank you for sharing them. I wish you the best for Wednesday. Have fun with all of the crazy girls from Jersey this weekend. Sounds like a blast! Maybe the Sigmas should coordinate a road trip?! Not sure if my piece of s*** car would make it though. I got the one that my ex-husband crashed on Rt. 80 between Orland Park and the Indiana border four years ago, when we divorced. I refuse to fix it and I do not respect it at all! :)

Take care of yourself and kiss those girls!

Tina
Tina Sanders <tsanders@acs.harrahs.com>
Mays Landing, NJ - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:28 PM CDT

Vicki, Just checking in on you and your precious babies (and sweet hubby too). My prayers are with you as you go thru this next week. I had a preemie 9 months ago and I am consistantly amazed at how fast they progress... esp once out of the hospital. Claire looks beautiful. God bless you.
Michelle Horton <michellemhorton@hotmail.com>
Cypress, Tx - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:16 PM CDT

Vicki- My thoughts are prayers are with you... I can't even imagine what you are going through, but know that there are a lot of people praying for you!!!
Vicki <vpietrick@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:02 PM CDT

sorry about the manic entries....I was in such a frenzy to make you laugh that when my message didn't go through, I panicked and re-entered it. THREE times.
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj usa - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 6:41 PM CDT

Vicki, can't wait to see you this weekend. Oh, and the day I give up a bed for Zabel is the day Hugh Jackman walks her down the aisle. I told her that but she has such a rich fantasy life that in her deluded mind, my statement is FACT and therefore, she assumes I am sleeping on the floor. Can Iain come to the hotel with a Hugh mask on just to get her off my back ? Just tell him to put some sneakers on, he will be able to outrun her all the way back to Jersey & I will get my own bed. She has been eating too many yodels of late to keep up with him. ZLAM, Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj usa - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 6:39 PM CDT

Vicki,
I just found out about you today. I just wanted you to know- and I'm sure I can speak for all of the Chicago Zeta's- that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your baby is just beautiful. I'm sure with your bright smiles and amazing attitude, you will get through this. I work in Northbrook right now, so please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family- whether it be a meal, babysitting, errands or whatever you need.
Keep your head up- you are an inspiration to all of us!
Katie Puch <katiepuch@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 6:35 PM CDT

Vicki- Can't wait to see you this weekend! Oh, and the day I give up a bed for Zabel is the day Hugh Jackman walks her down the aisle. I told her that and she has such a rich fantasy life that in her deluded mind, this is a FACT and, therefore, I am sleeping on the floor. Love ya. ZLAM (can you believe I still use that phrase at age 36?) Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj usa - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 6:32 PM CDT

Vicki- can't wait to see you this weekend! Oh, and the day I give up a bed for Zabel is the day Hugh Jackman walks her down the aisle. I told her that & she has such a rich fantasy life that now in her deluded mind it is a FACT that I will be sleeping on the floor. Love ya, babe. ZLAM (can you believe I am still saying that at age 36?) Katrina
katrina keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
caldwell, nj usa - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 6:27 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I am a grandmother of three, two girls and a little boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of healing.

Connie Clark <conbil@earthlink.net>
Tampa, FL USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 4:37 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,

Your new baby is just beautiful, I'm so glad you got to spend Mothers Day at home. My family sends their thoughts and prayers.

Leslie
Leslie Langley <davidjlangley@sbcglobal.net>
Barrington, Il - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 3:34 PM CDT

Best of luck to you; my prayers are with you. It's amazing what moms can do. I see my daughter and good friend have already signed your book. They are amazing moms too.
Linda
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 3:12 PM CDT

Vicki -- you have a beautiful family. Please know that prayers and good thoughts are being sent to you from near and far. Having just come through a family tragedy ourselves, we know prayers and thoughts are felt.

Karen Wukits <Kwukits@zoominternet.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 3:09 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

Just checking in on you. I am glad to see you were able to spend Mother's Day at home. You are still in our thoughts here in Minnesota.
Duane Dull <Duane.dull@prudential.com>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:49 PM CDT

Hello Vicki...
We don't know each other, but I am also a mother of 2 (2 1/2 yr old girl and 7 week old little boy) and please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong. Happy Belated Mothers Day to an amazing mother.
Amy Clark <jasonamyclark@yahoo.com>
Cranberry Township, PA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:10 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
You don't know me but I am also a mom. My daughter, Rachel, is 5. My son, Matthew, is 19 months old. Your baby is beautiful! My family and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Michele Bobko <meb70wllvr@zoominternet.net>
Cranberry Twp, PA USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:03 PM CDT

Cancer is so limited . . .
It cannot cripple Love.
It cannot shatter Hope.
It cannot corrode Faith.
It cannot destroy Peace.
It cannot kill Friendship.
It cannot suppress Memories.
It cannot silence Courage.
It cannot invade the Soul.
It cannot steal eternal Life.
It cannot conquer the Spirit.

Dear Phillips Family,
as a mom of 2 I wish you the best of luck in your fight with cancer. You have 2 precious children and so many wonderful memories to make with them. Best of luck for your chemo and recovery!
Conny Gallenz <gallenz@zoominternet.net>
Fombell, PA Beaver - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:03 PM CDT

To everyone who reads Vicki's guestbook:
I hope that Vicki and Iain don't mind me posting this. I won't be able to attend the Trivia Night fundraiser at Baxter, so I contacted Wendy Anderson and found that donations can be made directly to the Phillips' Family Fund. Here's the info:
Phillips' Family Fund
Baxter Credit Union
400 N Lakeview Parkway
Vernon Hills, IL 60061

Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, il - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 1:38 PM CDT

Vicki,
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you today as you start another round of chemo. Actually, I think of you every day, but you know that! I hope this round is tough on the cancer and not too tough on you. Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow.
Love, Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, il - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 1:34 PM CDT

Hey Vicki - Hopefully today is another GOOD day for you! I'll be thinking of you as you enter your next round of chemo today. Can't wait to see you (and your full head of hair!) on Sunday. Love ya tons.
SaraT <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Chicago, IL 60657 - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 1:06 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
You don't know me, but I am a mom too; the mother of three (two girls and a boy), four years old and under. Your story has reminded me how important it is to cherish your loved ones and not take anything for granted. May God bless you and your family; we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Deb Walton <dwalton@zoominternet.net>
Cranberry Township, PA USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 12:31 AM CDT

Cant wait to see you on Friday, and I think Kris is in a dream state where she thinks that Katrina will give up a good crash and sleep on the floor. Hang strong with the chemo and we will pamper you any way you want this weekend. I am not the neatest in doing nails but I will do my very best. Cant wait to catch up and just hang out and laugh. Puck.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 12:06 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, You and your family are amazing! The babies are beautiful and your husband sounds like one of a kind! How blessed you are! I am Shawn Tylka's Mom formerly of Long Valley. I remember the smiling young girl with the shiny hair! Just lovely! I am so very happy that you were able to go home to recuperate and receive the chemo rather than being in the hospital. I am sure Claire will join you at home before you know it. She is certainly growing fast! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and continue to check in on you from time to time.
God Bless You And Your Family!
Sylvia Tylka
Alpharetta, GA USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 11:55 AM CDT

Dear Iain and Vicki, I didn't realize that the chemo could be done at home - that's great! The picture of Claire from Mother's Day always makes me laugh, it is so darn cute! You guys are in my thoughts and prayers every day!!! Keep smiling! Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 11:27 AM CDT

Oh,Queen Victoria, I know how you hate to be plugged in to anything, but this chemo stuff is part of God's miracle, so try to grin and bear it for the next two days. How grateful we are that it can be administered at home where you can be pampered by family. Snuggle under your quilt and feel the love and prayers that come your way from all over the world. Hugs and more hugs to the whole gang.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:30 AM CDT

Vicki, you don't know me, but my name is Trixie Hyser and I am a good friend of Nancy McGowan's (we were roommates in college so we are truly OLD friends!) Nancy has told me all about you and kept me updated with the news from your family. I just wanted you to know that you have my prayers and the prayers of my family, too. Keep the Faith! Trixie
Trixie Hyser <TrixieGlas@aol.com>
Westerville, OH USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:17 AM CDT

Vicki - Looks like my entry from aol didn't work - hmm - will try again. Wanted to let you know that I walked in the Race for the Cure in Peoria this weekend and walked in support of YOU! You are amazing and it is a joy to be able to visit you and your Mom! Hope to see you again soon. Love, Nancy
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:04 AM CDT

Vicki, et al....What a treat to see Baby Claire looking SO BIG when I finally logged on to your website! You are all so amazing, and I am blessed to be a part of your journey. It was wonderful to see you AT HOME and always enjoy visiting with you. Your entire family is SOOO special! Love you all!
Nancy McGowan <nancnoodle@aol.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 8:32 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Two days to the arrival of the three stooges from NJ. Can't wait to see you. Maybe we can kidnap you for a drive!
Katrina has graciously volunteered to sleep on the floor so Puck and I can have our own beds! Is she great or what?!
Love ya,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 8:06 AM CDT

Dear Vicki-
Michelle called me tonight and told me about what has happened to you. I am Annie former grand poohbah of Brats in San Diego. I met you at several Chicago events (you throw such great parties) because I am originally from Wilmette and my sister still lives there. In fact she just had my 2nd niece at Evanston Hosp on March 14 and I know what great care they must be taking of Clare! We are rooting for you out here in San Diego and are glad to hear you are back home. The journal is really awe inspiring and I hope all the greetings, shout outs, and prayers are giving you a pick me up. I am putting you on my priest pray list. I have pull with a bunch of benedictine monks and do those guys know how to pray. I had major surgery on April 12 and am home recouperating and they are just doing wonders for me. Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and wish you guys the best in the future.

Always, Anne
Anne Dierickx <anne@legalbeagle.com>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:01 AM CDT

I know this is a few days late but HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! You are definitely a special mother. Its a trying time and I pray that the pain ends QUICKLY and that Claire is home in your arms VERY VERY soon. I am hoping you get + news and results with the upcoming round of treatment. I can't even begin to imagine it nor will I pretend to. You are amazing and brave and I hope & pray that the 4 of you will be victorious over this disease. {{{}}}s and ++++ thoughts too. GROW CLAIRE GROW!!

Kera <buckweez@aol.com>
Murfreesboro, TN USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 11:05 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! My mother is visiting for the Calvary annual Mother-
Daughter Dinner. People who asked about you include Joan Piercy, Betty Stermensky, Louise Huber, June Parisi, Arlene Macke, Marian Aase, etc. Hope you are enjoying being at home. Looking forward to seeing your mother and father and Sarah next weekend. Wish you could be with us. Claire and Maddy are gorgeous, and Iain isn't half bad to look at, either!
Love,
Carol Ray
Carol Ray <rayfolks@earthlink.net>
Midland Park, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain,
Thank you for the pictures. They show how Clare is getting cuter and cuter. Iain, I loved the black and white of both of you. That is a real keeper!
Vicki, I hope things look brighter and you're feeling better. The Mothers' Day picture of Clare was so nice of those nurses to send. I hope it was a super day for you. You certainly deserve it!
Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:03 PM CDT

Hey Vicki! I am so glad Claire is doing well and you are too. Best of luck with the Chemo tomorrow. We all are behind you and hope you feel better soon! Give Maddy a big kiss and hug for us! Tell Iain he rocks and we love him too!
Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 6:40 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, We so love the pictures, especially Claire with her Mother's Day wish. She looks so beautiful! Our thanks to Iain for keeping us all updated; we check in everyday to see how you are doing. Please know you remain in our prayers and in those of so many here in Virginia. Our love to all of you. John and Bobbie
Bobbie Streeter <brs@cox.net>
Williamsburg, VA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 6:23 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
What as beautiful Mother's Day picture of Claire! She'll be home with you soon. Sorry you have to start another round of chemo already but hopefully it is doing what it is supposed to do. All of you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Hang in there!

Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ 07045 - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 3:51 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
You don't know me but I am also a mother of 2 (little boys though). I too had my second little guy, Luke, when I was 36. You have beautiful children and I know you will fight this disease with everything you have. My four year old and I say prayers together every night and we will be sure to include you in them and hope that you recover quickly.
Jennifer Mager <magers@zoominternet.net>
Cranberry Township, PA USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 1:24 PM CDT

Hi Everybody,
The new pictures are great. We had a picture of DJ with his arm strapped to a tongue depresser. The safety pin holding it in place looked like a huge diaper pin. Joe enjoyed his stay with all of you. Thanks for the hospitality. He thought Iain enjoyed the presence of another guy (besides the dog). That way they could yell at the TV together. Good luck on Wednesday. Love to all...and a belated Happy Mother's Day.
Judy Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

May God's blessings shine upon you & your family & may you continue to walk in his faith. My thoughts & prayers are with you. Live Strong!
Michele Meanor <bm251@nauticom.net>
Cranberry Twp.,, PA USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

Dear Vicki:
I don't know you and you don't know me but I received an email from a friend who passed along your information. My prayers are with you and your whole family. God will be with you all through this very difficult time; trust in Him! We are gearing up for Relay for Life here in Ashland County (Ohio) and I am on a team. I don't know if you are familiar but this is a program run nationwide by the American Cancer Society to raise money for cancer research. I hope that somehow, the money we raise will help cure your cancer! I pray that you will be blessed on your journey each day knowing that your life has a magnificent purpose beyond your suffering. God bless you and keep you all in His healing hands. Michelle Vanderzyden
Michelle Vanderzyden <mvanderz@yahoo.com>
Ashland, Ohio USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 9:20 AM CDT

Happy Belated Mother's Day Vicki!
Allie and I have been out of the loop for the past month with the birth of our son Ryan on 4/14. We're sorry we haven't been better neighbors. Please let us know if we can do ANYTHING including yardwork, cook, etc. We're thinking about you, Iain, Maddy and Claire and will be sure and keep you in our prayers.
All Our Best,
The Batts (Matt, Allie and Ryan) <battpr@yahoo.com>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:47 AM CDT

Claire is beautiful! God's blessings to you all as you celebrate mother's day!
Mari Hoashi Franklin <mfranklin@bvmcom.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:43 AM CDT

Hi Vicki!
I wanted to wish you a very Happy Mother's Day...sorry it's late but I've been under the weather this week. As soon as I'm better I'd love to come see you. So glad things are going well. Claire is beautiful! So happy to hear that soon you will ALL be home together! Hope to see you soon.
Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL US - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 7:42 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I was thinking about you on Mother's Day, as Bob, Maddie, and I were able to spend some time together. I was so glad to hear you were home with your husband and your Maddy, too!

Take care of you!
Dana Taggart <tagube@optonline.net>
Succasunna, NJ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 11:15 PM CDT

Happy (a day late) Mother's Day! Claire is so adorable!

We had Relay for Life at the Univ. of Delaware on Saturday, and more than 1500 people came out for it. We raised over $185,000 in total (even more than I had originally thought!)! I lit a luminaria bag in honor of you all.

Keep healing!

Sending lots of sunshine
Love, Sara Streeter
Sara Streeter <streeter@udel.edu>
- Monday, May 9, 2005 10:26 PM CDT

Hey Vicki!
What a great picture of Claire - I can't believe how un-newborn she's already looking! Pretty soon she'll be chasing after Maddy! I'm so glad you were able to spend Mother's Day at home. I hope the meds continue to help and that this next round of chemo goes by fast. I just know that you're getting better and that you'll beat this. I just know it.
I'll be in touch soon, hope you're still taking calls! :)
Love, Rebecca
Rebecca <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Monday, May 9, 2005 10:13 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Claire,
It is so good to see how beautiful you are, Claire. We are glad that you were able to celebrate such a special Mother's Day, Vicki. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
Pam and Gus <pamlc1@yahoo.com>
CA - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:59 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Claire is so adorable in the latest picture I just want to bite her cheeks. I am so happy to hear you spent mother's day at home. I hope you are feeling OK and am glad to hear the girls are coming up again.
Michele Shields <shellfrost@comcast.net>
Holmdel, NJ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:56 PM CDT

Vicki, I'm so happy you were home for Mother's Day. What a blessing. It's wonderful news that you are feeling better with each day. You'll be ready for Claire's arrival home. With eating going well and help around the house, you better take a few more pictures of those supermodel legs before they disappear from all the lounging! Heck, enjoy all of it! Keep getting stronger every day.
Linda Trainor <trainorz@optonline.net>
Manalapan, NJ - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

Hi Vicki - I'm Kerry Minervini's sister-in-law, John's sister, and she informed me of your situation. I want you to know that we are all pulling for you and your family. We were very happy to hear the great news that you were able to spend Mother's Day at home. We hope to keep hearing the great news!! You are all in our prayers!!
Rosanne Fernandez <dfrf2000@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

Vicki, My good friend Lisa Leiva told me all about you and your new adorable little girl. Lisa is a wonderful friend and we are both very lucky to have her! She is always very supportive of me and I know that she would do anything for a friend. I bet you already know this! Congratulations on the birth of your daughter. She is especially beautiful! I hope that you are feeling well and are enjoying your family time. Best Wishes!
Lori Romaglia <LR101946@yahoo.com>
Paramus, NJ - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:17 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,

I have to say that there are not many companies where an event held in the cafeteria would at all be considered nice, but it is true of Baxter. I'm sorry we won't be able to go to the Trivia Night. It sounds like a lot of fun. Looking again at Maddy's picture, I think she reminds me of Iain's older sister, but Claire is definitely your girl, Vicki. Dan and I were amazed by that picture of Claire's hand in Iain's hand, and we decided that actually, it's just a normal hand inside the hand of a giant. We're so glad to hear that you're home, Vicki. We're pulling for you as you enter round 3 of the chemo. Like always, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We're so glad to be able to stay informed of your progress. Thank you for taking the time to write.

Love,
Jen and Dan
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Monday, May 9, 2005 7:25 PM CDT

Hi Phillips: Thanks for phone numbers. It's wonderful to know that I can speak with the real people anytime. My survivor friends tell me this is a huge challenge you're dealing with now, Vicki. Don't imaginefood has any flavor, but hope you're able to snack now & then. Like so many others, thanks for the glam shot of Claire--you've given a smile to untold millions. Which reminds me, you know that theory about six degrees of separation? I'm convinced that you know or are kinown by about 100,000 which cuts that down to no more than two degrees of separation. Like my math? Love, hugs, and prayers to the whole atribe, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth, ca usa - Monday, May 9, 2005 7:02 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day!
Claire is sooooo cute!

Deanna <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 6:57 PM CDT

Vicki! The picture of Claire is just beautiful! Those gorgeous pools for eyes, just beaming back at you, how amazing! It was so great to talk with you and I know you enjoyed your mother's day. We are always thinking of you here in sunny Arizona and can't wait until you are well enough to travel so you can visit. In the meantime, Jay and I will keep up our visits to you, Iain and the girls. I'll be thinking of you on Wednesday, Keep Erasing!!!!!! Talk to you soon! Love you so very much! Kathy
Kathy Thoele <kathythoele@yahoo.com>
Anthem , AZ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 6:41 PM CDT

Hey Vicki! You do not know me, however I am ZTA from Clemson University in Clemson, SC. I am praying that God will bestow His miracles on you and your family. One thing that exemplifies a ZTA is strength; stay strong and know that your sisters all over the world have you in their prayers. May God bless you! Zeta love and Mine, Brantley Williams :)
Brantley Williams <brantleylynne@hotmail.com>
Charleston, SC USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 5:33 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Happy belated Mother's Day. The picture of Claire is beautiful. You in my thoughts and prayers always. I hope Maddie is enjoying her present.

Niki Fox
Niki Fox <lzfox@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Monday, May 9, 2005 4:54 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Happy Belated Mother's Day! The picture was wonderful to see. Your daughters are lucky to have you as a mother, and I am equally as blessed to have you as my friend!!
Can't wait to see you Friday!
Love ya,
Kris Bill Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ 08827 - Monday, May 9, 2005 3:58 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I check out this website a few times a week. Seeing the baby's Mother's Day greeting made me smile. I am sure you were happy to see that photo too. Have a nice visit with the "sisters" this coming weekend. Love, Christine
Christine Durante <cdurante@riverton.k12.nj.us>
Delran, N.J. 08075 - Monday, May 9, 2005 2:40 PM CDT

Happy belated Mother's Day!
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Monday, May 9, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

Vicki,
Today's posting is a nice update on your Mother's Day. I should have checked your website before I left you the phone message this afternoon. Since chemo starts Wednesday, we can do the hand massage at any other time! What a great picture of Claire!!! I'm glad to hear that sleep is getting better because that sure can affect everything else! My offer to help with anything at all still stands and I can be there in three minutes. Hope to see you soon!
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

Happy belated Mother's Day! That was such a cute pic of Claire. Your daughters are adorable. I'm so happy to hear (from the web site and from SaraT) that you are finally home and Claire is doing well. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Martensen <kjswenson@hotmail.com>
Jewell, IA USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 1:26 PM CDT

Hey Vicki! it's been a while since we've talked but wanted to wish you a happy mothers day! you've got two beautiful kids!! I wish you nothing but the best and I'm glad to see that things are going better day by day.
Al Hollander <Runenman@aol.com>
Robbinsville, NJ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 12:07 AM CDT

Wow!I can hardly wait to make a trip to LZ to hold that baby...she's a doll. What a cheerful opening to the website. I imagine that the Thoele ladies caught up on all the gossip over the weekend and shared much laughter and a few tears. Aren't families neat!!! Moms and sisters are the best. Hope Iain and Joe and Connie were included sometimes and not left to just be caregivers, chefs or wine stewards. As always, hugs to the whole gang. And special prayers for the Wed-Fri chemo.
Jane <jane@thehovlands.com>
Downstate, - Monday, May 9, 2005 11:52 AM CDT

Happy Belated Mother's Day. The picture of Clare w/the Mother's day card is beautiful. That was really thoughtful of the nurses.

She's lucky to have such a great mamma! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 11:29 AM CDT

OMG!!! Vicki and Iain, Claire is so beautiful!!! I think she looks like your little clone Vicki! She has your eyes for sure. She is just too pretty. Thanks for posting that picture on here for everyone to see how well she is doing. Love you all!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 11:18 AM CDT

Vicki: Happy Mother's Day! I am so thrilled for you that you were able to spend it at home with Maddie and Iain. I'm sure you're missing Claire, but at least she's continuing to grow and do well. I love the new picture of her - she looks so big already! Hope all continues to go well for both of you.
love,
Carrie
Carrie Willcutt <clwillcutt@comcast.net>
IL USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 10:55 AM CDT

So delighted to hear that Vicki is able to be home.
Sandra Iversen
- Monday, May 9, 2005 10:50 AM CDT

Vicki and Iain-
I work with Kris Peterson and have been keeping up on everyone's progress with daily updates. I have asked my friends and family to keep you and your family in their prayers. I hope you can feel the good energy coming your way. Be well and stay strong!
Lori Krempa <lfkrempa@gmail.com>
Edison, NJ US - Monday, May 9, 2005 10:24 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Vicki (one day late)! That picture of Claire is absolutely ADORABLE! I continue to pray for and be inspired by all of you. This may be a really stupid question, but when you go in for chemo, can you have visitors? If so, please let me know when and where(ENH?) I'd love to see you! Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 10:24 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! Happy belated Mothers Day! I love love love the new picture of Claire! She looks so big and so alert! She's beautiful! I'm so glad she's doing well! And it's wonderful to hear that you're doing well with eating! Keep getting better so we'll be ready for that little angel of yours when she comes home! Take care. (((hugs))) to all four of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, May 9, 2005 9:28 AM CDT

Vicki, I found your site thru a lady in my MOPS group at church. You are in my prayers. I hope you have had a wonderful Mother's Day. You deserve it. Both of your babies are precious and so blessed to have you for their mother!
Michelle Horton <michellemhorton@sbcglobal.net>
Cypress, Tx Usa - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:27 PM CDT

Happy Mothers day to you and to your mom and mother in law, and all the women in your life. Looking forward to the end of the week when I can see you and your little maddy and hopefully little claire. The picture is awesome on the front page. God Bless, Lisa and Family
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Sunday, May 8, 2005 6:55 PM CDT

Enjoy this extra special Mother's Day!!! I love the picture of Claire on the website - She looks so cute and alert, it is hard to believe that she should not even be here for another month. It must mean that she is doing spectacular!!! Love, Lisa
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ - Sunday, May 8, 2005 6:34 PM CDT

Happy Mothers Day Vicki!!! I bet you are so happy to be home with Maddy. Claire will be home before for you know it. We hope your day is special. Keep eating! Love, Mindy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Sunday, May 8, 2005 2:49 PM CDT

A very happy Mother's Day to you, Vicki. I'm glad you're home, and I'm looking forward to seeing you soon. We're keeping you in our prayers and prayed for you in church this morning.

Blessings, Dan Spike
Dan Spike <dspike@pcbarrington.org>
Barrington, IL USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 1:28 PM CDT

Hi all! Happy Mother's Day, Vicki, and Mrs. Thoele! I'm glad to hear that the eating is coming along, just stay away from the 7-11 bean burritos like we used to eat in college! Can't wait to see you on Friday. Love & thinking about you all.
Katrina, Pat & Hannah
Katrina Keeshen <shooter170@aol.com>
Caldwell, NJ USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 10:19 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Just wanted to wish you an extra special Mother's Day. I have so enjoyed sharing mommyhood with you. Hope today is a good one for you.
Love, Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:40 AM CDT

Vicki, Happy Mother's Day! I hope you have an EXTRA special day today - you deserve it.
Beth Slaughter <momsandtots@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:02 AM CDT

Vicki,

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!! This one is quite special! Glad to hear you are hanging in there and making progress. Enjoy your day with your family. Take care!

Love,
Tina
Tina <tsanders@acs.harrahs.com>
Mays Landing, NJ - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:19 AM CDT

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Sunday, May 8, 2005 2:11 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Happy Mothers' Day! You must be having a fun weekend with everyone there. Give your sister a hug for us. It has been too long since we have seen her. I'm off to see her old pal, Megan, tomorrow morning. She has two concerts that I don't want to miss. She told me that the small folk/rock group is opening in the pitch black with a student flame thrower and them singing/playing Foxy Lady. Is that my daughter???
Iain said that perhaps just a few weeks till Clare joins you. That will be so special for all of you. I'm glad you are feeling better and hope you can get that tube out soon. Keep eating!
I'll miss you tomorrow for my trip to Ohio. Just know that my thoughts are with you and I'll keep in touch as soon as I get home. Hugs for everyone. DOES my friend fluff your pillow???
Love, Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 11:30 PM CDT

Vicki-Hope your mother's day is extra special this year! Enjoy the day with Iain and both of your girls! I know you are so happy to be home and in your own bed and wearing your own clothes. I hope you are doing well and look forward to seeing you soon!
Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 11:16 PM CDT

Vicki,
Have a wonderful Mother's Day!
Thinking of you all often.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:24 PM CDT

Vicki, I just wanted to wish you a very happy Mother's Day!!! I know this is going to be a very special day for you and I am so glad you are home to enjoy it with your family!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:08 PM CDT

Phillips family,
You've come into my thoughts and prayers via Bobbie Streeter. I wanted to tell you that the picture of Claire and Vicki is beyond inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story.
Elisabeth Deaton <efdeat@hotmail.com>
Williamsburg, VA USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 8:48 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family,
Just wanted to say hi. So glad you are back home. I visit this site daily and am always so excited to see the positive journal updates and guestbook entries. You keep up the good work and know you have a friend in Arkansas praying and pulling for you.
Kerry Jacobs <kerryj@conwaycorp.net>
Conway, AR USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 6:13 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day! What a wonderful gift for your whole family! Although we have never met, I am sending lots of Zeta love and support to you! Courtney Pursell-Deering
Courtney Pursell-Deering <cdeering@mc.net>
Crystal Lake, IL USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 5:39 PM CDT

Hello Phillips Household. Wanted to take this unusual opportunity to wish the ladies a beautiful Mother's Day (3 for the price of one) and to congratulate Iain on earning his stripes in your over-whelmingly feminine household. Kind of like King of the Haren, huh. It's a very good thing that Jack will soon be there to add some balance. Thanks for the phone call, Connie. Wish I'd taken your number. Next time. All the best, dear ones. Love, Joanie & Dave
mjmcconnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
chatsworth , ca usa - Saturday, May 7, 2005 2:38 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Just want you to know that we are praying everyday and you are soooooo loved. Give everyone hugs and kisses from the Horners. I am sure you had a great visit with Jay and Cathy. Take care and keep on keeping on.
Love,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Vallely, NJ - Saturday, May 7, 2005 11:15 AM CDT

Ms Vicki
Amen, Hallelujah, Praise the Lord, Amen - this is our traditional ending to grace but it sure fits with your homecoming. We are all soooooo excited for you to sleep in your own bed with your guy and daughter close to your side.
God's grace is overflowing - you are sooooo loved and prayed for daily. Make sure you eat your vegies that Mom Sandi prepares - strength is on the agenda - Please give her a hug from me and continue to improve = the prayers will continue too
Love Judi

Judi <SALLYFLUFF@AOL.COM>
Whippany, nj USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Vicki,
I am sorry to hear of certain recent events but am happy for you on the birth of your daughter and the wonderful family you have. I have kept in touch with Margo through the years and have gotten periodic updates about you. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I can't believe how many years ago that it was when we hung out in NJ.
Carol Ehlenberger <cberger@cox.net>
Herndon, VA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:01 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
My neice Christine Miller sent me your website. God Bless you and your family. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
Mayanne Kenny <kellswater@verizon.net>
Whippany, N. J. - Friday, May 6, 2005 8:25 PM CDT

Hi Vicki!
This is Jenny, Katrina's sister. She just sent me your website. You look great, and your baby girl is so beautiful! I was happy to hear that you are home now, too. I'm sure being there must make you feel so much better. I will be thinking about you and your family. Stay strong!!!
Jenny Shukaitis <shukjen@hotmail.com>
Teaneck, NJ USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:43 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, Vicki! I am a friend of Tina Sanders and she mentioned your story to me. You and your daughter are in my prayers. God is watching over you both.
Natasha Carleton
Brigantine, NJ USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:25 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, Vicki! I'm so glad you are home. Tell your mother hello and happy mother's day for me also.
Love and hugs to all.
Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ ISA - Friday, May 6, 2005 4:56 PM CDT

Iain and Vicki - I was so happy to read that Vicki has come home - the news made my week. Your most recent update that Claire will hopefully be home in 2 weeks is wonderful to hear. I can't imagine how you will feel having everyone under the same roof again. It sounds like you have a wonderful support network to help at home which is good because I can just picture Vicki trying to do it all now that she is home. I have kept Paola and Bill updated and they both send their best and were thrilled to hear the good news. Anyway keep us posted we are thinking of you always.
Alison Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, ON Canada - Friday, May 6, 2005 3:22 PM CDT

Welcome home! I can't imagine how happy you must be to be back at home wearing regular CLOTHES! Iain and Vicki, you both are nothing short of amazing. Iain, this situation has been a testimony to your personal strength and character, not to mention your love for your girls and Vicki. I pray daily for you, Vicki and the girls. Even when Emily says her prayers at night, they include "Maddy and Maddy's mommy and daddy!" We enjoyed seeing you last month and hope to see you again soon. Elizabeth & Brian Nowotny
Elizabeth
San Antonio, TX USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 11:01 AM CDT

Hello Queen V... since our visit, I think of you with a chuckle when I am in the shower... you know why!!!! You can think of me with my Reubenesque bod and laugh. I hope the sun shines both outside and inside your house this weekend. Snuggle up in the quilt and feel our love. Hugs to all three generations!
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:37 AM CDT

Hi Vicki - it was so nice to see you yesterday...in your own house...wearing something other than a hospital gown! I continue to think positive thoughts and prayers for you every day. Much love, Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:23 AM CDT

Hey Vicki,

I was so happy to hear your are home. Maddy is as cute as ever and I bet she can't wait till Claire is home so she can be the "Big Sis". By the way, I read something about your "Supermodel Legs", and I really need to see them for myself!! You are always in my thoughts and if there is anyone strong enough to handle this - it's you.

Love ya - Sheri
Sheri Smith <sheri.smith@spcorp.com>
Wyckoff, NJ USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:30 AM CDT

<brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Friday, May 6, 2005 4:32 AM CDT

Vicki, I am hoping that you are doing well. Remember to take it easy! We are thinking of you. I just think it is so wonderful you get to be home on Mother's Day!
Katie & Madison Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:32 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I hope it was a great day and that Maddy's naps coincide with yours. ^_^ Is everyone being sweet to you? With your family, I bet they are. Give everyone a hug from me and I'll check in tomorrow.
Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 8:17 PM CDT

I'm so happy to hear you are finally home. I'm sure it must be a relief. Looking forward to reading when you are all under one roof.

Good luck with your fundraiser. It's a really neat idea. I wish I lived closer. I would love to go.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 8:09 PM CDT

Vicki - I can't tell you how happy I was to hear you were headed home. I am so proud of you and everything you are doing. I can't even imagine how wonderful it was to see Maddy, be home, and sleep in your own bed. I hope I can get up to visit again.
And Iain - thank you for everything you are doing to take care of Vicki and all of your girls. You are an amazing husband and father. I look forward to seeing the first picture of your whole family TOGETHER at home.
Love to you both,
Rebecca
Rebecca & Juliana <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 5:23 PM CDT

Hi Vicki - I am a friend of Beth Johnson - we work together and she told me your story. I am a colon cancer survivor (5 years) and I was a Stage 3. I was only 41 years old with no family history. I wanted you to know that I am here if you have any questions about your treatment. I went through 6 months of intense treatment and I learned alot as I went through it. Please know that I will keep you in my prayers and I am here if you need someone to talk to. Your baby is beautiful - what a gift from God. Good luck and I'm thinking about you. Denise Bessemer
Denise Bessemer <bessemerd@stillwaterschool.net>
Fredon, NJ - Thursday, May 5, 2005 2:14 PM CDT

HEllo Vicki So glad to here you are home. Enjoy !!! Claire is beautiful. Iam sure that Maddie is getting very big as well. I sure you will not be bored with all the visitors that are on the way. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts often. Feel a great big hug. GOD BLESS Michele I 'll try calling again but I 'm sure you will be too busy to talk. Michele

michele 'RED' prescavage <jmprescavage@comcast.net>
hainesport, nj usa - Thursday, May 5, 2005 12:14 AM CDT

WELCOME HOME! What a wonderful Mother's Day Present! I'm so excited for you and your family! Love to all!

- Dor <ritacco.d@mellon.com>
Tenafly, NJ USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 11:40 AM CDT

I received an email regarding prayer for Vikki and Claire from a ZTA Alum...telling Clemson ZTA's about Vikki and her family. I just want all of you to know I am praying for God's will for Vikki and Claire and for all of you to have peace.
Wimberly Tipping <wtipp89783@aol.com>
Clemson, SC - Thursday, May 5, 2005 11:14 AM CDT

Oh, I am just so happy for you guys! Iain and Maddy, it must be great to have Mommy home!
And Vicki, it must be so wonderful to be in your own house and your own bed with no lines and no disruptions! And a freezer full of food :)
I'm so glad that all is going well. Vicki, I know you'll continue to get better and that Claire will just keep growing like a little weed!
I'm looking forward to the day that I read that she has joined you all at home! Take care! (((hugs))) to you all!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, May 5, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

Welcome home, Vicki. My love and prayers go out to you and your wonderful family. Say Hi to your mom and aunt Connie (my cousins)

Love Bev Johnson
Bev Johnson <bevj@agsnet.com>
Wyoming, MN USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:44 AM CDT

Vicki,
I'm so pleased to hear that you are home and hope that all is going well. You all have been an inspiration to everyone who takes the time to read these messages. Know that you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Have a wonderful Mother's Day. Say "hello" to you mom for me. I pray that the darkness is behind you and every day will get brighter. I can only imagine how thrilled your family must be to have you home. Keep up the good fight.

Diane Kearney <dmkjersey@optonline.net>
Parsippany, NJ - Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:27 AM CDT

Ah.... Vicki, I'm elated you are home. Happy Mother's Day! I was planning on coming up to the hospital tomorrow (Friday), but it sounds like you have your weekend fully planned. I will wait until things settle down. I'll call you next week to say hi, and see what I can do to help. Have a BEAUTIFUL Mother's Day. How special is that? I bet you will have tears of joy all day! Love and blessings to you and your beautiful family!
Cindy Tschosik <tschosik94@comcast.net>
Downers Grove, IL - Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:02 AM CDT

My prayers are with you and your family...may God bless you.
Jordan
Louisville, KY USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 8:52 AM CDT

What a treat to sit and chat in your family room yesterday...with you, your mom, Connie, Maddy... all under one roof! Sure, we enjoyed the lunch, but YOU were the spice du jour! Ah, Queen Victoria, how good it felt to just hug you, and there are many more of those to come in days to follow. Next "for sure" date is 7 June, but can be there sooner if needed remember. I'm so glad you are home and on self-care. Kudos to the kitchen crew. Butterfly kisses to Maddy. Special thoughts to Iain and Claire. Of course, love to all.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Thursday, May 5, 2005 6:49 AM CDT

I seen your story on Greekchat & I had to sign your book! Never give up fighting for life because my mom has the same exact cancer & she has been fighting 5 years now! You have a beautiful baby & Im sure she will give you the strength you need to keep fighting!
Brandi Crawford <brandisaia@hotmail.com>
MS - Thursday, May 5, 2005 3:02 AM CDT

Welcome home Vicki! The pictures of Claire are so adorable - thanks for sharing. I am sure that Maddy is so happy to have mom at home. Remeber that you are getting the infamous brisket dinner once you are up to it.
Beth Slaughter <momsandtots@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:53 PM CDT

Hey Vicki. I just wanted to say how nice it was to see you again on the boards. I know that being in your own "space" will help you continue down the road to recovery. I can bet that your family is happy to have you home too. We love you!
Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:48 PM CDT

Welcome home, Vicki. What great news for me to come home to. I bet Maddy is a happy little girl. It certainly sounds like Iain is elated. Good for all of you!!! Tell your Mom that I am giving strict orders for her to fluff your pillow. That is a very important part of motherhood, you know.
Anyway, Vicki, I'll check back tomorrow. Just take very good care of yourself.
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:15 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I'm so thrilled that you are now back at home! I hope the eating part starts to get easier for you soon. Maddy must be so thilled to have you back! Take care of yourself and don't overdo it. Love and hugs to all.

Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 7:41 PM CDT

Yeah!!!! Vicki I am so glad that you are home -- that is excellent news. Happy Mothers Day and know that I think about you and pray for you every day!
Love,
Denise
Denise (Yacullo) Rodak <dyr113@yahoo.com>
W. Caldwell, NJ - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 7:40 PM CDT

I just wanted to add my thoughts & prayers to your family during this time.

Bernice Ramos <girlappropriate@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 4, 2005 7:13 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain,
Welcome home Vicki...this is great news. It looks like you are going to be very busy receiving guests for the next few days. Hope the outfits for Claire are OK...there are three different sizes so that she can grow into them. She has to look good when she gets home!! I hope Maddie enjoys her book as much as Don and I did. We had a great time picking one out. Joe called and said that he and Sarah arrived safely. Give our regards to your mom. Happy Mother's Day to you all.
Iain---you are doing a great job...thanks again.

Judy Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 7:12 PM CDT

I'm a Zeta from Clemson University and just wanted to let you know that you all are in my prayers.
Heather Freeman
Greenville, SC US - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:53 PM CDT

Hi Vicki My husband and I are friends of your mom and dad's. You and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I teach third grade and my class has also been praying for you. We are so happy that you are home! (Please say hello to your mom.) Happy Mother's Day!! Cheryl and Phil Wolford
Cheryl Wolford <CAPW13@optonline.net>
Towaco, NJ Morris - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:50 PM CDT

I was so happy when Kris told me you went home! Hope you continue to make giant leaps in your recovery. Take good care of my wife this coming weekend.

Love,
Bill
Bill Peterson <bill@snakebite.com>
Hampton, NJ USA! - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:48 PM CDT

Vicki,
We are so thrilled to have you back in Lake Zurich! I will be there to give you a new hand massage or foot or leg as soon as you are ready! You might even need new pink nail polish by now! What a great website for us to have access to--thanks, Iain! I'm sure you will enjoy your Mother's Day even more from your own home. Did you know that your own bed could feel sooooo good? We'll keep the prayers coming and you keep doing great!
Love, Debbie
Debbie Toussaint
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:45 PM CDT

dear vicki, i hope that all is well with you, little claire and your family. please know that you all will be in my family's thoughts and prayers. zl, lisa wilson brock-alumna, beta gamma chapter(florida state u)
lisa brock
naples, fl - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:36 PM CDT

Vicki,
What fantastic news! I knew you could do it & sooooo happy that you got home earlier than you expected. Maddy must be thrilled to have mommy around. We are in NJ and went to see my Grammy today - she told me they had a special prayer service at her church on Sunday for you. Just goes to show how much you are loved & we are all pulling for you.
Enjoy being at home & know that I am thinking of you!
Love,
Kerry

Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
LIttleton, CO - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:14 PM CDT

Vicki and Iain -- So happy to hear the news that Vicki is home! I just now got to look at all of the pictures from the link on your webpage and both your children are just beautiful. Claire is filling out nicely! She is so cute in those little hats. May God continue to watch over all of you...I'll keep the prayers coming! Take care...
Rebecca Nickel <rnickel@optonline.net>
Boonton, NJ - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 6:03 PM CDT

Please try the barleymax from www.barleymax.com!
It was a blessing for our daughter when she was on Chemo!
Chemo=inflammation, barelymax=anti inflammation! Plus so many more benefits! It will go down an NG tube without cloggin! Drink it with apple juice or plain!!! I trippled the amount especially during chemo!

It was a God send, I hope that you can try this wonderful food that instantly absorbs into the stomach and into the blood stream!

Be blessed and keep on the good fight!

Sincerely,

Elaine, Angel Trinitys mother
www.trinitysdiary.com
Elaine <angelsmom@shaw.ca>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 3:53 PM CDT

So glad you are home and able to rest and love on big sister Maddy. Stay strong for the journey. Lean on all of us in far flung places that are praying!! Faith and peace to you and your lovely family. Happy Mother's Day!!!!
Tricia Mc
Ocala, FL - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 3:13 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Your Mom mentioned you might come home this week if the feeding went well over the weekend. Wow! You're making great progress, I've never seen so many prayers at work! Now that you're home, I'll be over to visit asap. With a new round of family visiting, sounds like I'll need to make an appointment! Love, Renee
Renee Hutchison <ReneeHutchison@att.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 1:54 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

Happy early Mother's Day! I'm sure this will be the most special one yet! I'm so glad to hear you are home. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. Hope to see you at Bunco soon!

Elizabeth Miller
Elizabeth Miller <gohawks@ameritech.net>
Barrington, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

Dear Iain and Vicki, words can't even BEGIN to describe how happy I am to hear that Vicki is home and sleeping in her own bed! I'm also glad to hear that the freezer is full and the mom's are there. Maddy must be overjoyed to have her mom home. What a fabulous Mother's Day present! Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 12:40 AM CDT

HALLELUJAH! Welcome home, Vicki! Laila is down the street at the Montessori off of Miller... now that you're home, I have one more person to call in a panic because I'm late to pick her up (just kidding)! Be well and be blessed. We'll stop by soon.
Love,
Mari & Lukass
Mari Hoashi Franklin <mfranklin@bvmcom.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 12:00 AM CDT

Vicki, Beth has been keeping me up to date with you and your family. I was so happy to learn that you went home. It must be sooo nice to be in your own home with your husband and daughter. Little Claire is adorable, I loved the picture of the two of you. Hope to see you at Bunco when your feeling better.
Mindy Bailey
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 11:39 AM CDT

Oh wow,
i have been following Vicki and baby Claire's story now for awhile and I am thrilled things are moving forward in a positive way. My sister in law and brother in law live near you in Deerfield. Maybe you know them. Have a great week.
Haley <haleymo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 4, 2005 11:10 AM CDT

What a Mother's Day present to be home! That is such great news! I'm so glad that everything is going well with you and Claire. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Congrats again on being home. Happy Mother's Day!
Alayne Swedeen <slayneswe@mywdo.com>
Isanti, MN - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 11:02 AM CDT

Vicki, I'm sooooo happy you are back home. Before you know it you'll be back at bunko! My families prayers are with you - see you soon. Lou Ann Everhart

Lou Ann Everhart <theeverharts@yahoo.com>
Hawthorn Woods, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 10:34 AM CDT

Hi Vicki. We have two things in common - My first name is Vicki (though I go by Jan) and we're both Zetas. I attended the University of SC and served as an advisor and National Officer from 1984 - 2000. Though our paths have only passed by this email, do know that you and your family are in my prayers. You sound like you are a strong woman so I am confident that you will beat this latest challenge in your life. Keep the faith - I know you're glad to be going home. ZL, v. jan middlebrooks
v. jan middlebrooks <jan_middlebrooks@ml.com>
Columbia, SC USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:54 AM CDT

Hi Vicki- Everyday caring thoughts are with you, bringing hope that each tomorrow is a little brighter. Even though we haven't met, my thoughts and prayers have been with you since I first heard your story. I'm so thankful that your able to come home, there is no place like it. Continue to get strong and fight, you have two beautiful little girls to live for.
Jeanne Cordum <cordumclan@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:51 AM CDT

The answer to our prayers... we are so happy of the small but significant progress...
Melina Mann <mmann@mteamfinancial.com>
LaGrange, Il US - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:18 AM CDT

WELCOME HOME!!!!!!! Now that your body is doing better, I am sure that being home will help greatly in getting 100% mentally healed - because...."There is no place like HOME!!!"
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:22 AM CDT

Hi, Vicki--You don't know me, but I now know you through Katrina. You and your baby look so beautiful!! I am a cancer survivor and a mother, so we have some common bonds. I wish you joy in every day (and you can find it, even in the most awful ones) and much healing and renewal. All the best, Randy
Randy Simon
Montclair, NJ USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 8:06 AM CDT

Hi Vicki...When I first logged into your website and saw the picture of you and Claire - a smile immediately came across my face in recognition of your beautiful smile and the sparkle in your eyes - which I remember from playing tennis with you at West Morris Central. The look of joy while holding your daughter is made even more poignant with the knowledge of the difficult journey you both have had - and which you two will undoubtedly overcome! It has been amazing to read through the guestbook and see how many peoples lives you have touched around the world througout your childhood, high school, college, marriage and motherhood. I'm glad to hear that you are home - and that your legs are back to their usual svelte selves...which makes me think that you might not mind getting back into those horrible white tennis uniforms that we had to wear (the REALLY short ones!).

I wish you and your family all the love, health and happiness in the world. Caitlin...

Caitlin Donahoe <caitlin_donahoe@yahoo.com>
Long Valley/New York City, - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 3:12 AM CDT

Hi Vicki:
As I write this, I hope you are tucked cosily into your own bed, resting peacefully, home at last! What amazing progress you have made! I continue to be in awe of your strength and determination.
Love and hugs from your Canadian Sparkler friends. (Alex wants to send kisses, but he's got a yucky cold, so I don't think you want the germs!)
Ann & Alex
Canada - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 0:13 AM CDT

Hi Vickie, You don't know me, but my daughter Robin is married to your cousin Mike McConnell. We go to the same church as Dave & Joan. Our church family is praying for you as is our small group. So glad you can be at home now getting stronger day by day. What a precious baby! God bless you and your family.
Cheryl Dial <cheryl-lynne@socal.rr.com>
Granada Hills, CA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 11:53 PM CDT

Hi there! Another mom from Moms and Tots checking in with a hearty 'woohoo!' on your coming home! You and your little ones are in our prayers.
Heather Peplinski <heatherpeplinski@myctmh.com>
North Barrington, IL - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 10:59 PM CDT

I am so glad to read that you are at home!!! Very good news indeed. Your website is so encouraging and heart-warming. You, Claire, and family are in my thoughts and prayers...talk to you later
Stacey Streseman <sstreseman@hotmail.com>
Lisle, IL - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 10:15 PM CDT

Hi Vicki from your kin in Minneapolis, MN. Am happy you are going to go home and will be in great hands with Connie and your mom. The baby is gorgeous. We just heard the news and our prayers are with you and your family.
Take care - Ron and Diane Johnson, Ted and Georgia Harlan and Beverly Johnson. We are all thinking and praying for you.

Love ya
Diane and Ron Johnson <dianejoh@msn.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 10:12 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! You don't know me, but I'm a member of Lakeside Moms and Tots and just heard the news you are coming home!! Wow- God is good!! My family and I and our small group from church has had you at the top of our prayer list and I'm just thrilled for you and especially Maddy who I'm sure is so happy to have mommy home! I have 2 daughters, one who is 2 (Emma) and one who is almost 1 (Isabel). We'd love to have a playdate sometime. Lakeside Moms and Tots is ready to help out in anyway you need, we are all excited and anxious to get to work! Get lots of rest and give your family lots of hugs and kisses. Blessings to you!
Emily Hernandez <HernandezE25@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:54 PM CDT

Hi Vicki ~ I am a friend of Bobbie's in Williamsburg. We feel as though we know you...please know you are in our prayers daily. I know this will be a very special Mother's Day. Our best to all of you...Jane Sydney Meloy
Jane Sydney Meloy <Janesydneymeloy@aol.com>
Williamsburg, Va usa - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Oh Vicki, you're going home. That's such wonderful news. Maddy will be so happy to see her mommy back at home. I can't wait for you to post again. We miss you.
Melonie Behrens
Houston, TX - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
What FANTASTIC news! I'm delighted for all of you. Maddy (just like the rest of us) is thrilled I am sure. Please take it slow and steady though. We just want you happy and healthy. Lots of love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 8:55 PM CDT

VICKI IS COMING HOME!!! OMG how exciting! I know you are going to feel so much better sleeping in your own bed and being near Maddy again. Home makes things so much better anyway. I can't wait to see you back on the boards again. It just isn't the same without you!! Hurry back now ya her'?
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 8:43 PM CDT

Hey Vicki,
I am sooooo sorry to catch up with you on this website - next time it best be better terms (like you are a new star on a reality tv show & I can tell all my Florida friends - that is my crazy friend Vicki from college)!!!!!!!! I will never forget that you were the first "sister" that Tina & I ran into when pledging. We stopped to "greet" you (& I was so nervous) - you gave a real serious face & then busted out laughing! You were always so much fun & I always enjoyed your company - you made just about everything in college fun!!!!!!!!
My prayers & thoughts are definitely with you at this time & Baby Claire (such a cutie!!!) - I know you will both come out of this great & have a big story to tell your son in laws & all your grandchildren! I will definitely check back often on this website & look forward to hearing all the great stories to come (by the way - CONGRATULATIONS on coming home!!!!!!!!!). Take care of yourself & know that you are very much loved all around the world!!!!!! Big Hugs!!!!!!!!!
Sharon (Seidelmann) Moorhouse <DaveynKayliesmom@bellsouth.net>
Boynton Beach, FL USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

Vicki, So happy to hear you are going home, and just in time for Mother's Day. I'm sure Maddy can't wait to see you! Good luck and get a good night's sleep in your own bed.
Michele (Falcone) Immordino <mish33@comcast.net>
Pennington, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 8:04 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and family. I am Katrina's sister-in-law. She passed your information and I felt compelled to write. I wish you a full speedy recovery and long life with your beautiful family.
Bridget <bridgetmauro@aol.com>
Mine Hill, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 6:49 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
What wonderful news!!!!!!!! Way to go!!!!!!!!!! We hope that you continue to do well and keep responding positively to the chemo. I am sure that there are days that are not so great, but at least you are home.
Love to all.
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 6:39 PM CDT

Dear Vicki....Hallelujah home again!
This is LuAnne and Christina from Lake Valhalla. We are looking at your web site and celebrating with the other 10,000 hits! Maddy will be there to hug you and thank God that your family is able to be under the same roof.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your loved ones.
Keep eating and may the size of your portions grow! Your Mom will explain who we are...if you are curious. Way to Go! Say Hi to Sandy for us. Love, LuAnne and Christina
Christina Jonas and LuAnne Rothrock <luannerothrock@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 6:33 PM CDT

Vicki! Way to go! I am so excited that you are going home. Enjoy your reunion with Maddy!!!
Lisa (Bond) Mericle <mericletwins@aol.com>
Cape May Court House, NJ - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 5:52 PM CDT

Vicki-
Another Zeta coming out of the woodwork...Deanna(Bonk) Graham. You and your family are in my prayers.
I am so glad to hear that you and Claire are doing so much better, keep it up. Your daughter is beautiful!
Love, Deanna
Deanna Graham <deanna.graham@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 5:44 PM CDT

Hi - I am a friend of Katrina's.... just wanted to say keep fighting.
Dana
Lincoln Park, nj USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 5:29 PM CDT

Hi Vicki.....Elizabeth just told the San Antonio Moms the good news, that you are going home. Wooo hooo!!!!!!! We are all so happy for you and your family. Please remember you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers here in San Antonio. I will be checking in again soon :-)
Michelle Snow <mesnow1962@yahoo.com>
Floresville, TX - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 4:54 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, You may not remember me, but I'm an old friend of Sarah's - Megan Harvey. It is so good to hear that you're doing well and get to go home! I've heard all about things from my mom and have been checking the website and continue to send good thoughts your way. Both of my parent's kicked cancer in the butt and I know you can too!
Megan Harvey <meganparsec@gmail.com>
Gambier, OH USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 4:35 PM CDT

Iain and Vicki,
Glad to hear everyone is doing better and that is great news that you are going home today. You have truly been blessed with two very beautiful daughters and so many wonderful family members, friends, and neighbors who care so much about you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers often. Take care of each other and take one day at a time.

Lyn Orris (formerly with Baxter)
Lyn Orris <orrishome@aol.com>
Grayslake, IL USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 4:01 PM CDT

Vicki,

Your going home girl, whahooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!

I bet Maddy is going to freak out when you get home.

Sarah and Avery Rowan (July Spark) <srowan@elcabop.org>
- Tuesday, May 3, 2005 3:16 PM CDT

Yeah, hi ho , hi ho, its off to home you go. I am so proud of you. Love lisa GAskill.
Lisa GAskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
trenton, nj usa - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 2:54 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Claire is just incredible. What a miracle she is. The photos are great. Happy Mother's Day to you early. This is my last email for the week because today is my last day in the office. Going to Ohio on Thursday for a wedding. Tell your Mom, she can expect a call from me soon because I am going to be over to mow either tomorrow or Thursday morning. Can't wait to have you back in LZ so I can see you more often.
Heather Bond <heather.bond@harrisbank.com>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 2:03 PM CDT

Vicky--
We have a Relay for Life team that is working getting organized from the church. Our Relay is at the High School on June 11- 12... Lukass and I will be celebrating our 17th wedding anniversary on the 12th. I'm hoping that you'll be up for joining us with whomever you have in town... I'm having my girls sleep out... Chip Kyle is lending us his big tent! Let me know if you can come! I'll be sure to burn a candle for you while we are there... and if anyone wants to join us or make a donation to help fight cancer.. . the web site for our church team is at: http://www.acsevents.org/faf/search/searchTeamPart.asp?ievent=91493&lis=0&kntae91493=A3D1C254261D4FD2A9B4FAE5C1B3F345&team=897446

I KNOW it will be a beautiful night out.
Love,
Mari
Mari Hoashi Franklin <mfranklin@bvmcom.com>
Barrington, IL USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 2:00 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family...
Just thinking about you guys today. So glad to hear everything is going well and that you'll be home soon. Maddy will no doubt be thrilled! You're always in my prayers. Iain, thanks so much for keeping everyone posted with news and pictures! Take Care, all of you!
Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 1:56 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Remember me from ZTA Trenton State College? It's Diane Sawn (now Diane LaMonica). Cathy Robbins told me about this website and guestbook and I wanted to say hello and tell you I'm thinking of you. You look great and baby Claire is adorable...I hope you and Claire are home with Dad and big sister soon. I wish you all the best!
Love, Diane LaMonica (Sawn)
Diane Sawn LaMonica <dianelamonica03@yahoo.com>
Egg Harbor Township, NJ 08234 - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

What good news on the solid food front! I'm back from FL and a program with Oncology Nurses (good timing, eh?) -- complete with some inside information from one of my presenters. I'm sending Iain an email with the details. My project for this week is to come up with .mp3's of "relaxation" music to share with you, since you'll be home soon and need to get some rest there! See you later in the week, xox Janet
Janet <janettaylor04@abcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 12:46 AM CDT

Hi Phillips family-
It's so wonderful to see all of the people that love and support you. What a great web site! Vicki, it was nice to hear your voice last night. I'm so thrilled that your return home is imminent. Keep up the great progress!
Love, Katrina, Pat & Hannah
Katrina Keeshen <kkeeshen@chatham-nj.org>
Caldwell, NJ USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 12:35 AM CDT

Your family is in our prayers. Just put your 100% trust in HIM.
Alma Ecarma <alma_ecarma@baxter.com>
Plainfield, IL 60544 - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 12:09 AM CDT

from a distant galaxy... long ago... far away... two rookie parents got roped into youth group advisors... and there we met u... long valley, nj indeed... zion lutheran... that jane hovland is just a piece of work...

vicki -- know that we are following ur progress and are praying for u...

and if jane doesn't give u what i asked her to, kick her in the buttocks...

xxoo

linda & ron weigel
Ron Weigel <ronald.f.weigel@verizon.com>
harrisburg, pa 17050 - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 11:51 AM CDT

Here I sit with my LAF bracelet on, thinking of you as usual. Do you know that your site is my home page? I check on you first thing every morning. So happy to hear about Claire's improvement and that you're managing to hold down some food! Go Vicki!! I'll email your daily dumb joke later today....Bet you can't wait. :)
Beth --JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 10:18 AM CDT

Vicki - So glad to hear that you and Claire are doing so well (aside from the nausea)! I pray that you will both continue to improve and that you will be home soon! I can't imagine having to be in the hospital for that long! Take care. ((hugs)) to all of you, especially that amazing big sister Maddie!
Jenn HUston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:27 AM CDT

Vicki and Family,
You've been on our prayer request list at Williamsburg United Methodist Church in Virginia. Baby Claire is absolutely beautiful and the pictures here are great! I pray that you'll be home soon, and it sounds like you're moving in that direction. In Christ, Karen
Karen <jandkgoins@hotmail.com>
Williamsburg , VA USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 7:41 AM CDT

All the very best to you and yours, from me and mine. Congrats on Clair, Tracy, Erin and Keane all say hi and best wishes....
John and Tracy O'Dea <odeaone@iolfree.ie>
Dublin, Rep of Ireland - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 6:30 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, and family,
Sounds like you guys had a pretty progressive weekend. Pictures are great, especially of Mama Vicki and Papa Iain with Baby Claire. The picture with Uncle Jay says it all. You've got a great cheering section on the website; it's amazing how many hearts you have touched, from coast-to-coast and half-way around the world too!! Take care and love to all.
Judy Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ U.S.A. - Monday, May 2, 2005 10:51 PM CDT

Hi Vick,
I cannot believe how this web site has gotten around. Zetas are coming out of the wood work. I hope it is just reinforcing how much we all love & care about you & your family. I am so happy to see that you ate some food this weekend! You set your goal last week when I visited & looks like you will make it! I hope it wasn't too tough. I am thinking of you daily & can't wait to come visit again - hopefully to see you at home. It is great to hear that Claire is doing so good too!
Lots of love & hugs to you, Iain and the girls.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO - Monday, May 2, 2005 10:38 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
You go girl!! Can't wait to see you again. I hope it is at your home. If not, I promise to be your bunkmate in the hospital again.
Love you and think of you so often.
Love,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ Hunterdon - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:51 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
We haven't ever met but I work with Jack (and Jay for a short time) at Wallwork Group in West Caldwell, NJ and I just wanted to send a line to let you know that my prayers for your full recovery are added to the many petitions that are being made on your behalf. Your progress is inspiring, and a testament to the goodness of God and the power of love and faith. May the Lord continue to be with you and yours.
Gabrielle Brickus <gbrickus3612@yahoo.com>
West Orange, NJ USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:39 PM CDT

You don't know me but I am Jeanne Murray's sister and she sent me an e-mail. I just want to let you know that I am thinking about you. You are in my prayers.
Maureen Terranova <mozar36@hotmail.com>
Dade City, FL United States - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:32 PM CDT

Dear Vicki:I was told of your guestbok by a wonderful young woman(one of your sorority sisters)who has been like a daughter to me.I am encouraged by your progress;delighted
by the pictures of your beautiful and amazing baby,uplifted by your smile & reminded again that Love is the source of Life.All my love to you.Hope is that thing with wings!!!!!!!!!

Arleen Lynne
Nutley, NJ USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 8:02 PM CDT

Hi Ms Vicky (-:
Wonderful, marvelous news of God's mercy - Super model legs, and a beautiful baby girl to go with them. Claire looks so gorgeous as does her big proud sister, Maddy. We are so excited by your mini milestones. Each step is an encouragement to your soul. Keep the faith and with all these wonderful emails filled with prayer warriors, you must be getting blessed daily. Our prayer is for your return home especially for mom's day - God's love is awesome and reaches to the depths and heights of our lives.
love, judi
judi olsen <sallyfluff@aol.com>
whippany, nj usa - Monday, May 2, 2005 7:30 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I really enjoyed the pictures that Iain posted on the Yahoo website. You have such a beautiful glow in the picture where you're holding Claire. From her hair, it looks like she is going to take after you. YOu and Iain will both have your own mini-me's. I am really happy to hear that you may be going home this week. I'm pulling for that. As always, I am thinking of you, Iain and your beautiful daughters.

Jen
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Monday, May 2, 2005 7:23 PM CDT

Happy Monday, Vicki!
Hope things look brighter everyday. I just looked at Iain's new pictures and they are soooo cute. Clare is adorable and I love the fact that Maddy can talk on the phone with you now. I hope you had a wonderful time with Jay and Cathy. In the picture, it looked like Jay was enjoying little Clare. I can understand why. Well, I am off to do my homework. That is the pits on a bad TV night!!!
I'll be thinking about you, Vicki. I'm on your side!
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 6:07 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I don't know if you remember me, but I went to West Morris with you (I graduated in '88). Chris (Douglass) Connelly shared your story with me and I was so touched by it. You are truly an inspiration to all! Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby girl and please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon (Collins) Papadopoulos
Sharon (Collins) Papadopoulos <scollinsportland@yahoo.com>
Portland, OR - Monday, May 2, 2005 5:57 PM CDT

Claire Looks AMAZING! She's got such a cute little angel face! When I heard the news you may be going home very soon I did the happy dance for you. Hope all goes well with further recovery this week and off to home with you lady! Come visit us on the board when you can, we all miss you like crazy.
Stacy <metropalus@yahoo.com>
scary neighbor town, NJ usa - Monday, May 2, 2005 5:27 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, so glad to read the latest update! It sounds really positive and I am sure you're so happy to be eating food again! I am still praying for you and want to come visit again...Sean and I both have colds so we have to get healthy first but hopefully I will see you soon. Keep up your fighting spirit!!!!! Love, Nancy
Nancy Hodgson <nhodgson@sbcglobal.net>
Vernon Hills, IL - Monday, May 2, 2005 4:22 PM CDT

Hey Cousin...long time, no see! Just because I suck at keeping in touch doesn't mean I'm not thinking about you! Pam has been giving me updates and my wife and I have been following your story. We were so glad to hear that things are improving...keep up the good work.
Mike & Robin McConnell <mmcconnell48@earthlink.net>
Woodland Hills, CA USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 4:14 PM CDT

Ah, good news today! I chatted with your mom and she filled me in. Tina and I are making the jaunt to the hospital on Wednesday. Rest up... we'll have lots of years to catch up on. Can hardly wait to see you and baby Claire. Will stop to see Maddy and your mom, too, before heading home. Big hugs.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Monday, May 2, 2005 3:51 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I love hearing the good news on your web page! The eating will be a big hurdle but I know you can do it! You have overcome so much already. Little Claire-bear is growing so nicely. And what a head of silky dark hair she has!
It must be so good to know that there is a 'coming-home' date not too far away. We're keeping our prayers and energy focused on you all. Keep up the good work!

Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, MJ USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 3:17 PM CDT

You go girl! I am thinking about you all of the time. Can't wait for you to return to Lancaster!! We will save you a margarita on Cinco and look for you at Bunco night!!
chris estes <christine_estes@yahoo.com>
lake zurich, il 60047 - Monday, May 2, 2005 2:43 PM CDT

Good Afternoon. I wanted to check in to see how you are doing. I'm thrilled to hear that you are eating alittle and that Clare has gained weight. That's awesome! I'll give you a call this week.
Cathy Robbins <cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersuburg, NJ - Monday, May 2, 2005 2:41 PM CDT

HI VICKI: I WAS AN UPSILION IN ZTA AT TSC. DOREEN WAS MY PLEDGE MISTRESS. :) I REMEMBER YOU VERY WELL. YOU ARE AN AMAZING WOMAN. STAY STRONG AND KEEP FIGHTING. YOU SEEM TO HAVE A WONDERFUL HUSBAND AND TWO INCREDIBLE LITTLE GIRLS WHO ALL CARE A GREAT DEAL ABOUT YOU. ALL OF YOU WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
DONNA DELGUERCIO BLUM <DONNADELGU@AOL.COM>
RESTON, VA USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 2:31 PM CDT

Viki you and Claire both look great. All the best on your continued recovery.
Robin Brunet1 <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 2:23 PM CDT

Vicki- I am so happy to hear that you have started to eat and are finishing up your second round of chemo. I can't wait to see you in only 11 short days! I hope that we can sit outside in your backyard and enjoy some sunshine and good laughs. You are so loved. You are an inspiration to all that know you! Love, your big, Trina
Katrina Keeshen <kkeeshen@chatham-nj.org>
Caldwell, NJ USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 1:23 PM CDT

Good Job on the eating. Again, fingers crossed and tons of prayers that you are home soon. God Bless the peanut Claire, a girl after my own heart, keeps putting on weight. Hope your weekend was great with your brother and sister in law. Hang in there and cant wait to see you on the 13th, hopefully in your beautuful home. Love your friend. Lisa Gaskill. Good job to Maddy on learning the phone techniques, it will never stop.
Lisa GAskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, n united states of america - Monday, May 2, 2005 12:43 AM CDT

Hello my friend. I am amazed each time that I sign on how many people are behind you and supporting you - it is wonderful to be loved by so many... Hey, do they all know your college nickname???

Lisa
Lisa <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ - Monday, May 2, 2005 11:47 AM CDT

Vicki,

I am a friend of Tina Sanders and she sent me your amazing story. I am glad to see that you and Claire are hanging in there and I wish you both the best. You are both strong beautiful women and give hope to the rest of us. Thanks for sharing your story!
Marlene Reyes <mreyes@cox.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 11:08 AM CDT

What a precious little bundle of joy! My friend Tina Sanders sent me your link and asked if I wanted to send a message. I just gave birth to my first child on Feb 11th, a big boy named Christopher. Hang in there, everything you are going through is so worth it when you get to see Claire smile for the first time. She is so lucky to have a mom as apecial as you.
Rebecca Hadrys <reshmecca@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:55 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,

What great news! That you got through last week with minimal discomfort and the last obstacle of being able to eat may be soon to be no obstacle at all. You are in our prayers many times a day. The "peanut" Claire will soon grow out of her name. She is gaining weight like a trooper. She IS SOOOO adorable and cute. What blessings God has given to you!

Love You,
Bob & Nancy
Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:47 AM CDT

Vicki - I've just come back from vacationing in California - we did pretty much the same trip you and I did many years ago - just subsituting the miniature railroad mueseum in SD instead of visiting your Aunt and Uncle. Of course even though the stops were the same we didn't see quite as much since it takes so much longer with two little ones. I thought about you every day and was very often telling Tad - when Vicki and I were here . . . .I love the pictures of Clare - she's a beautiful peanut! My prayers are with you!!! We also send lots of love to Iain and Maddy - Dor, Tad, Kira and Will.
Doreen <ritacco.d@mellon.com>
Tenafly, NJ USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:32 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I'm not sure if you remember me. I'm a friend of Kim Blasbergs and we went to Long Valley Middle School and West Morris Central High School. I'm so touched by your strength and courage. Your story is inspirational! Please keep up your hope and know that so many are praying for you daily! Sarah (Jones) Barrett
Sarah (Jones) Barrett <lsbarrett@seanet.com>
Bainbridge Island (near Seattle), WA USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:21 AM CDT

Good morning Vicki! I hope you had a great weekend. I received an email this morning from one of my former co-workers. She is praying for all of you and she has signed you and your family in the prayer book at her church. I hope you are having a wonderful day and that you are sleeping better too! Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:19 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! I hope your weekend went well and I hope that you were able to eat. I just wanted to let you know that we're thinking of you and your family and saying lots of prayers. Take care!
Jenn and Natalie Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

Hello Vicki. I don't know if you'd remember me; I was a Zeta at TSC and graduated in 93. I have been so touched and inspired reading about the strength and courage of you and your family & friends. You are quite clearly a very special person who is very much needed and loved...I am praying for you and wishing you a speedy recovery so you can be reunited with your little girls! Keep smiling...your humor and amazingly positive attitude will be what gets you through!
Kerri Hecker <khecker@westfieldnjk12.com>
Cranford, NJ - Monday, May 2, 2005 7:53 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I too work with your dad, in fact I work for Leo. I came onto your web page and saw your beautiful family pictures, and read the journal, but I didn't know what to say to you because, I know you don't know who I am; but I just wanted you to know that your in my prayers every night, and when I go to church. So after I said my prayers tonight, I decided to write to you, because you do know me in a way, I'm just one of the many well wishers you have in your corner for victory. I also live in Montville, NJ where your parents live. I don't know if you were raised in Montville, I lived here 18 yrs. and have 2 daughters that were. Well, I better get back to bed, I gotta get up early for work. Just wanted to let you know that your family has touched my heart. Thank you
sharon sylvestro <ssylvestro@msn.con>
montville, nj usa - Sunday, May 1, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, We've never met, but my lovely daughter-in-law, Denise Yacullo Rodak, sent me an email about you. I've read amazing things about you...you have so many people pulling for you, wishing you well, & praying for you. Now I'm added to that list. Keep that positive attitude so that you can enjoy a speedy recovery. Take care & feel better soon...Anna Rodak
Anna Rodak
Perth Amboy, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 9:46 PM CDT

Good Morning Vicki,
I've been trying for 2 weeks now to think of something to write to you and haven't been very successful so have decided to just babble. I work with your dad at Wallwork (hey, we all have our burdens!)and have met you on a few occasions which I'm sure you don't remember. Anyway, I feel I know you pretty well because your dad talks about you frequently (he is very proud of you). My wife and I have tried many of the wine recommendations you send to your dad --- you have excellent taste! I understand Jay is coming to see you this week --- tell him I said Hi and would appreciate a little communication from him! So far, we've had a typical NJ spring --- rain every weekend. Today was beautiful, however, after yesterday's rain. Bet you can hardly wait to get out of the hospital and breath some fresh spring air. Hang in there, 'cos it's gonna happen! Gotta go now, the radio station just started playing Jazz and I have to kick the speakers (sorry Jack). Will write more latter in the week (told you this was just babble).
Peace,
Leo
Leo Neyens <lannyathpr@att.net>
Fredon, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

Vicki,

Remember me? You graduated one year ahead of me. I was part of the Sigma pledge class. I ended up marrying Noel Beal who remembers you from Estate Planning. I also work with Sheri Smith!! Small world.

I still keep in touch with Sheri, Chrissy D'Elia, Kim Heber Stimpfle, Linda Gherdovich Trainor, Gene Regruto, Steve Stibich to name a few. I have been married for over 7 years and have 2 kids, Melanie (5) and Jacob (2 1/2).

Sheri and I both work for Schering-Plough Pharmaceuticals in the Research & Development Department. The docs wanted me to pass along 2 great websites - www.cancer.gov (sponsored by the National Cancer Institute) and www.asco.org. Any other questions you would like me to pass along to them, please let me know. You and your family are in my prayers.
Donna Beal <donna.beal@spcorp.com>
Morganville, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 8:53 PM CDT

Hi its Aunt Connie. I'll be seeing you on Tuesday. I am so happy that I am able to come. Can not wait to give you a big hug.
Aunt Connie <skibbercat@aol.com>
Orange, Ca USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 8:31 PM CDT

Hi Vicki -
I don't know you, but I am a Zeta! I just want you to know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you. I hope things go as well as they can for you! If there is anything that we can do for you, please let us know. I'm sure many of us would try to do whatever we are able to help you. Zeta Love, Diane
Diane Bayes
Buffalo, NY USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 7:03 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,
I hope this has been a happy Sunday for you. I just talked to Megan and she told me that she e-mailed you. Isn't it weird that she and Sarah are graduating? Megan is up in the air about what she is doing after graduation. Her away message read like this: "I'm working on applications to Americorp, NASA, and Stomp. In the near future I will either be doing disaster relief, rocket science, or banging on garbage cans to earn money." As her mother, should I be nervous??? She is a good drummer, but what happened to Physics and Russian? Your Mom is going to have to be my calming factor when she comes home. Especially since we saw Stomp together.
Tomorrow when I write, I hope I don't have to tell you any other occupations that she has thought up!
In the meantime, please take good care of yourselves! I am expecting to hear about eating soon. OK?
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 6:46 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, My sister,Diane Stevens sent me your e-mail. I have no idea what to say.( Since I have never been through what you have) But, I am a mother and wife and a Christian,so we have some things in common. I know God loves you and will always be with you. I will pray for you and pray God will give you peace and strength. You have given me strength reading how brave and positive you are. God Bless.
Rose Collier <lcollier@sssnet.com>
Massillon, Ohio U.S. - Sunday, May 1, 2005 6:36 PM CDT

Hey Vicki. I just wanted to say how happy I am to keep hearing the great news! Margie is making sure we know at any point you hear anything good and I am so excited for you! We love you!
Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 6:14 PM CDT

Vicki, It has been many years since we have been in touch...all the way back to High School Tennis team at West Morris Central! Chris Douglass here, now Chris Connelly. I got the link from Kim Blasberg - we keep in touch a bit through email... I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that things brighten up for you very soon. This web site is great. It must help you pass the time, while you wait to leave the hospital. I am amazed at so many nice entries in the guest book in such a short time. I am now married to a Long Valley (and West Morris) guy, Mark, who happens to be 6'8". It was worth the wait :) We met b/c my sister married one of his friends...We are both avid tennis players and play in our town league in Berkeley Heights. Looking forward to getting out there soon, now that the weather is warming up. Your family is beautiful and you still look as great as you did in high school - you haven't changed a bit! Best wishes!! Get well soon. We'll be thinking of you and your family! Love, Chris
Christine Douglass Connelly <chrisdouglass2000@yahoo.com>
Berkeley Heights, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 4:47 PM CDT

Hi. Greetings from Cedar Grove, NJ. Just letting you know you are now part of our daily prayers and hope you (and family) are doing well. We have met you and your family through an e-mail from one of my dearest (and oldest) friends, Denise Rodak, who is also in my daily prayers. Best of luck. I hope some day our families will meet. Love, Michele, Vinnie, Julia, John and Noelle Nicosia
Michele Nicosia <nicosia5@verizon.net>
Cedar Grove, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 4:44 PM CDT

Vicki, Sorry it took us so long to get in touch with you, although you, Claire, Maddy and Iain have been in our prayers. We were on vacation and didn't get the website info from your dad until we got home. It was inspiring to read all the comments from so many friends of yours and realize how many people are praying for you. I don't know if you knew that my (Bob's) mother was diaganosed with cancer in 1955 and given 6 months to live. She had 45 more years of a most productive life and was always my proof that God answers prayers. We were happy to read of the progress to date for both you and Claire. We hope to have the chance to see you all soon. Love from us and your friends at Calvary Lutheran in Allendale.

Bob and Carol Ray
Midland Park, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 3:23 PM CDT

Vicky, I knew you when you were a little girl at Calvary in Allendale and cannot exactly place where you were in age in relation to my girls Linda and Gail and my nieces, Barbara, Laura and Sandra Parisi. I've asked them all to keep you in prayer. I am in awe at the strength you and your family have shown throughout the past month. You have turned out to be a strong woman of God and I praise God for that. We prayed for you and Claire and your family this morning in church and will continue to do so. I thank God that you are improving and that Claire is gaining and getting stronger. I'm thankful that your mom and dad can be with you through all this and glad to hear the rest of your family is visiting. I'm praying that you will be well enough to really enjoy their presence. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Diane Kearney <dmkjersey@optonline.net>
Parsippany, NJ USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 2:45 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and family,
We have been away but you have been in our thoughts and prayers constantly. So glad Kathy and Jay could be there with you this week-end and that Sarah and Joe are coming. We love the picture of you and Claire and are so grateful to have this way to keep updated on your progress. Claire is adorable! So glad you both have had some improvement this week. We love you all so much! John and Bobbie
Bobbie Streeter <brs@cox.net>
Williamsburg, VA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 1:05 PM CDT

Greetings from Isanti, MN. I e-mailed you earlier in the week. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I'm so glad to hear that you are improving more and more each day. And Claire also. You have been through so much, but yet you keep fighting. Truly an inspiration for everyone. You've touched many people all over the world. There are definetly angels watching over you and your family.
Alayne Swedeen <slayneswe@mywdo.com>
Isanti, MN - Sunday, May 1, 2005 8:19 AM CDT

I'm glad things are going a bit better for your family. I hope you have a good weekend with your family!
Lots of hugs and warm wishes.
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Sunday, May 1, 2005 6:49 AM CDT

Vicki,
This is amazing - you have such incredible support network around you! After all of these years, your smile still lights up the room and makes me think how fortunate I am to have grown up with you. You fill my thoughts and prayers-- Vicki, you are an amazing source of strength-- continuously from those early days of progressive dinners, caroling (and the hilarious 'five golden rings'), tennis to today. It is not surprising that you have such a beautiful family and such supportive friends. Best wishes for a speedy recovery..

"I Wish for You . . .
Comfort on difficult days,
Smiles when sadness intrudes,
Rainbows to follow the clouds,
Laughter to kiss your lips,
Sunsets to warm your heart,
Gentle hugs when spirits sag,
Friendships to brighten your being,
Beauty for your eyes to see,
Confidence for when you doubt,
Faith so that you can believe,
Courage to know yourself,
Patience to accept the truth,
And knowledge that so many love you"..

Am so happy that you and Claire are making such great progress!
Love, Kim
Kim Blasberg <kblasberg@hotmail.com>
London, England - Sunday, May 1, 2005 5:03 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I was a member of the Tau pledge class at TSC and graduated in '93. I read through your journal and have been perusing your guestbook for the past hour; what an amazing outpouring of love and support from people all over the world. Your situation, though heartbreaking, is so inspirational. I am in awe of your strength, courage and good humor. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you a full and speedy recovery so you can enjoy every moment with those beautiful little girls.

Susan (Baka) Rautenberg <rascal12497@yahoo.com>
Phillipsburg, NJ 08865 - Saturday, April 30, 2005 10:13 PM CDT

I work with Tina Sanders and what a great idea to have friends, family and even strangers express their concern and speedy recovery for you. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. The baby is absolutely beautiful. Please keep the faith, as God is there for all of us.
Karen DiSciascio <kedsbella@hotmail.com>
Northfield, NJ - Saturday, April 30, 2005 8:27 PM CDT

Vicki, I am a Clemson ZTA who sends you love and prayers from South Carolina. Your courage, determination, support system, and love for your family are all inspiring things - so many of us are praying for you right now! I look forward to following your story on the road to healing.
Anne Snipes
Columbia, SC ZTA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 7:58 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Saturdays and Sundays in hospitals are the pits so I hope your family is being super sweet to you. Tell them it is an order because we want you happy and healthy!!
I hope you are all having fun. Give everybody hugs and I'll check in with you tomorrow.
Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:58 PM CDT

Wow! So much has happened so fast! A good friend (Lisa Bond Mericle) shared your story (and your + spirit) with us (a group of AOL moms) and I wanted to drop in to say that you have such an amazing famly. :) Your girls are beautiful as are you, and your hubby is cute too. hehehe I will pray that the aggressive treatments they have you on work swiftly and completely and that Claire continues to do well. Your smile and upbeat spirit is contagious! I couldn't help but grin when I saw you holding your precious baby. Again, I will keep all of your family in my thoughts and prayers and know that people all over the US (and the world) are pulling for you. I'll be checking in regularly, hoping to hear good news. :) Hugs!

Kera Pastusic <buckweez@aol.com>
Murfreesboro, TN USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:10 PM CDT

Vicki--
My name is Andrea Donio, and I was a Zeta with you at Trenton State (I pledged Spring 1990). My heart goes out to you for the obstacle you and your beautiful family are facing. I was in tears reading how sad it is that you are going through such hardships, but I also had tears of joy to see your strength and the amazing support system of love you have surrounding you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope for a speedy recovery so that you can enjoy those precious little girls you have.
Andrea Donio <drea1107@yahoo.com>
Bordentown, NJ - Saturday, April 30, 2005 3:53 PM CDT

Hi Vicki-
Sarah's been keeping me updated with your progress, and the picture on your website looks great. You have such a beautiful smile and a beautiful daughter! Hang in there! I hope every day makes you feel better and stronger. You'll be home before you know it!
Andrea Philippoff <ajphil@wm.edu>
Montville, NJ USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 2:29 PM CDT

Vicki - Hello from a Kansas ZTA! Your courage is amazing and your smile is contagious. I am currently pregnant with my second daughter and can only hope that my new baby is as beautiful as yours! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Brenda Tuller Stasiulis
Overland Park, KS - Saturday, April 30, 2005 12:29 AM CDT

Hi Vicki (Big2!) I just want you to know that I am praying for you, and am proud and amazed by your courage and optimism. What an inspiration! You have a beautiful family and a beautiful outlook. Congratulations on your two gorgeous daughters! I will keep checking your page for updates, and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Barb (Conn) Alexander
NJ - Saturday, April 30, 2005 12:23 AM CDT

Vicki - do you realize that there are well over 500 guestbook entries for you?? I started to count them last night, then decided that it was pathetic for me to be spending Friday night counting. I mean, after all, it was FRIDAY night right?? So I went to sleep instead. :) This morning I resumed counting and started to go cross-eyed at around 500 and didn't finish. Anyhoo - it sure is nice to see all this love and support for you. We are all very lucky to have you in our lives. Hope today is good one.
Jeff said to say hello. (You know, he's a man of few words. :)
Love,
Margie, Jeff and Peyton
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Saturday, April 30, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

Vicki: I am Stuart Heath--PP-VIA...from Clemson , SC. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. You have the prayers and well wishes of some mighty powerful sisters. I look forward to checking in and seeing that things are continuing to move in a positive direction. Lots of Zeta Love...and I know in my heart that "all is well." Stuart
Stuart Heath
Clemson, SC USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 9:43 AM CDT

I am an online friend of Lisa Bond (ZTA) from Trenton State College and she sent us your web page. I am sending you many prayers and commend you on your great attitude! Hang in there.. and know even strangers are praying for you and your daughter!
barb simmerman
brookline, nh usa - Saturday, April 30, 2005 9:11 AM CDT

Good Morning Vickie! Lisa Bond shared your story with me and I wanted to tell you how beautiful Claire is. Although she may be just a peanut, she has the cutest face, doesn't she? As I read through your journal it's obvious that you have the courage and strength to fight through any obstacle in your way. Keep up the good work and I will be checking in to see your progress.
Michelle DeVico <sjbaskets@aol.com>
Cape May Court House, NJ USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 9:08 AM CDT

Vicki thought I would share of of my humor with you today.

I came home last night and saw that (the sound was low so, I was going more off of what I was seeing and not hearing) Little Rock had been hit by some bad storms including a tornado that caused damage. So, I immediately got on the phone and called Chas to make sure they were okay. She was unaware of a tornado but knew they had bad storms. But you know that the cartoon networks don't give weather alerts. SO, we chatted for a bit and I let her go. About an hour later on the same channel, they brought it up again and so I was actually listening this time only to find out that the tornados were from SIX years ago and not yesterday. Yeah, I am an idiot. So, as you can tell our precious "Dorothy" Chas is just fine. And I had to tell her the story this morning. I was too embarassed to call last night.

Anyway,...thought you might be missing out on some of the stupid things I might say or do and I wanted to include you in on them.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 7:54 AM CDT

My name is Marni McCann and i am a great friend of Lisa Mericle's. She sent this link to me and
I would like to wish you the best. You sound like a very strong person who is capable of anything! My family sends their prayers for you to stay strong. God Bless!
Marni McCann <themccanngang@aol.com>
CMCH, NJ USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 7:26 AM CDT

Hang in there Vicki. Us Zetas from around the world are praying for you and your family.
Best wishes,
Meredith Ogburn Kirkland <mococks@aol.com>
Lugoff, SC USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 7:12 AM CDT

Hi Vicki
I'm Carol a friend of Judi Olsen's from NJ. I have been praying for you and am very excited about everyones progress. God is willing and able to do great things as long as we ask and I know He will give you strength for each new day. Congratulations on your beautiful new little girl. God bless all of you
Carol Tognetti
Whippany, NJ - Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:41 AM CDT

Hi Vicky,

I wish you and your family luck, strength, and with Claire also patience and of course joy.

In case you don't remember my name: I'm the exchange student that stayed with the Blasbergs during our high school days. I've got a family of 5 now with 3 girls aged 7,5,2. After moving around a bit with 2 years in Texas we are living near my old home town in Germany now. I got the news and this website from Dawn.

Claire looks real sweet, congratulations. I hope she and her sister don't just mean tons of work but also fun and meaning.

I sincerely hope you will overcome the cancer with the help of family, friends and medical team. If it is any consolation: our neighbor had stomach cancer that had spread and the doctors were more than pessimistic. She has a strong will and a supportive family as well and seems to have won the battle now anyhow.
Ingo Forstner
Ahnsbeck, Germany - Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:04 AM CDT

Vicki,
I posted a few minutes ago and, of course, I have AOL and can't see it. So I'm trying again! I am glad that you had a good day yesterday. It is early in the morning and I am praying for you to have another today.
Tina (Tomarchio) Sanders <tsanders@acs.harrahs.com>
Mays Landing, NJ - Saturday, April 30, 2005 3:33 AM CDT

Vicki,
Thanks to Christine D'Elia, I found out about what is going on with you and your beautiful baby girl! I am so happy to read that you had a good day. I wish you many more and a speedy recovery. You are in my heart and my prayers.
Tina (Tomarchio) Sanders <tsanders@acs.harrahs.com>
Mays Landing , NJ - Saturday, April 30, 2005 3:19 AM CDT

Hey Sparkler Girl,
Most of us Sparklers have our "Livestrong" bracelets now and we're all wearing them for YOU! You have a lot of strength and love behind you!
So, it sounds like if you can keep some food down that maybe you'll be going home next week? I KNEW that having to read my dumb jokes every day would be just the threat you needed to get out of there! Seriously, that will be totally awesome if you can be home for Mother's Day!!
Love you....Give my love to the girls and Iain too.
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:34 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Sounds like you are having a good end to the week. Claire is doing beautifully. Our son, DJ, came home at 4 lbs 6 oz and was 5 weeks old!! Joe and Sarah are excited about coming out to see you next week. You keep up the good work and we will keep up the prayers and good thoughts.
Thanks again to Iain for keeping us posted.]

Judy Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ U.S.A. - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:13 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
The day sounded a bit better. Iain said with a few more tubes out you'll be able to move a bit more. Fantastic! And maybe home next week. Maddy is going to be thrilled. Loving grandmothers are wonderful to have, but her own Mom is the best. Enjoy your brother and Cathy this weekend. I'll be back tomorrow to check to see if your following everybody's orders. ^_^ Love, Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:13 PM CDT

Greetings from South Carolina! The ZTA network is going strong and I wanted to let you know you thousands of sisters have you and your family in their thoughts and prayers. I graduated from the College of Charleston in 89 and currently work with the University of South Carolina chapter as an advisor. I pray that you and Claire continue to improve! ZLAM
Elizabeth Render <eljore@aol.com>
Columbia, SC USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:10 PM CDT

Good news..That's Great! Hope things continue to improve so you will be able to go home next weekend...You are a fighter sweetie ..Keep it Up!! As far as the Moms go, I know they wouldn't have it any other way...and I know Sandi cherishes her time there with you , Maddy and Clare! Enjoy Jay and Cathy this weekend and tell them to give you a hug from me( and tell Jay sorry abt Hockey this year!)...God Bless you and the family...and you Go Girl!!
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, The Lake Valhalla crowd is praying for you and your family. It is wonderful to read how well you have responded to all the treatments. We live across the lake from the club. Your parents are most honored friends of ours and your sister Sara is a delight. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. You are a bright light of inspiration for us all. Christina and Patrick Jonas
Christina Jonas <pjonas@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 9:07 PM CDT

Vicki, My name is Holly. I went to TSC and pledged ZTA Spring '90. Just wanted to add an entry to let you know how many people are praying and rooting for you, even those who you might not remember or even know. It sounds like you are surrounded by a lot of amazing people who love you. What a support group! I hope you find strength from their love and that you can go home soon to enjoy your girls. God bless you and your family.
Holly (Grossmann) Troilo <holly@troilo.info>
Mount Laurel, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 8:08 PM CDT

Hi Vicki. It has been sooo long since our ZTA days at TSC but I just wanted to let you know that I will think of you everyday and pray for you and your family. God bless you!
Michele (Falcone) Immordino <mish33@comcast.net>
Pennington, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 7:47 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
If eating is the last hurdle to getting home, just remember you are a Zeta! We have never had any difficulties in that area!
Love Always,
Kris ,Bill Jess, & Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 7:20 PM CDT

HOLY COW!! I come on from a busy day to read such great news! And to think you might be able to go home for MOTHERS DAY! That is so great. And well deserved. Margie tells us how great you are doing and how up you are. I am so happy you both have each other. You were there to help her with her homesickness and she is here to be with you. What a great friendship and I know you both are thankful to have each other. She has been making sure we know the daily updates with you and I am glad she does.

I am also thrilled to hear how big Claire has gotten, goodness gracious. What are they feeding her?? Pretty soon she is going to weight as much as Miss Maddy! I can't wait to see more pictures of her as she grows into a special little girl. I am just so happy she is doing so well and gaining so much weight.

Keep the good news coming and I look forward to hearing the great news of you going home!

Love, Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 7:06 PM CDT

Great news to end the week and start the weekend! So glad that Iain keeps the world updated on the family. We have all of you ... girls, parents, grandparents ... in our daily thoughts and prayers. We are smiling with you today.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Friday, April 29, 2005 6:35 PM CDT

Vicki...Big hugs to you and your beautiful family. I truly admire your courage and grace in the face of adversity. What a beautiful example you are, not only for your precious babies, but for all the rest of us. In college I always admired your unfailing optimism and constant smile. People like you are a pleasure to be around. I will check in daily to see your progress.

Maddy is beautiful and Claire is an adorable little peanut. I had preemie twins and have navigated the wacky world of the NICU. I also spent weeks on end in the hospital and can sympathize. Here's to hoping that you will be out of the hospital very soon and back home enjoying the beautiful spring weather with your family.

A great big thank you to your husband and friends that give frequent and detailed updates! I will pray for you and your family.
Lisa (Bond) Mericle <mericletwins@aol.com>
Cape May Court House, NJ - Friday, April 29, 2005 5:31 PM CDT

Vicki,
You don't know me but Lisa Bond shared your website with our cyber friends that have been together for a long time. Your story touched my heart. You are a brave woman and I will be praying that God will give you the strength to face these obstacles. He is the Great Physician and His touch can make you whole. I will pray for you. You have a beautiful family!
Kellie <Maujun@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 4:55 PM CDT

Hi Vicki!
I can't tell you how moved I was looking through your site. With tears in my eyes, I marvelled at your strength and was touched by the love and support that envelops you during this curveball you've been thrown. I recieved the link to your site from Chrissy D'Elia (I was our chapter president after her, if you are trying to search your memory for who I am!) and I have forwarded the link on to some other Zetas. I hope your road to recovery is smooth; I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully in the next entry in your journal we'll be hearing about your supermodel tummy to go along with those legs! :) Stay strong!
With lots of love and good wishes,
Lora
Lora Davis <loralbi@hotmail.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 4:40 PM CDT

Vicki,
Glad to hear you're getting prayers from Allen, Texas - that's my hometown! I really enjoyed our chat this morning. You sounded great. I'll be checking in with you tomorrow.

Iain - thanks for the update. Hope this week at work is treating you well.

Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Friday, April 29, 2005 4:38 PM CDT

Vicki, you are in my prayers, and those of the Prayer Chain at First Presbyterian Church in Allen, Texas. Be strong for your little daughters, as I know you will. They are so precious! I'll be thinking of you and passing your information along to Zetas in Texas.
Ida Hassler <ihassler@swbell.net>
Richardson, TX USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 4:30 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Good to hear more positive news. I am so touched by all the messages that you are receiving. I know that the good wishes and prayers bring comfort to all of you. News from LV, Emily will be going to Roanoke College in Salem, Va. in the fall. Her academic endeavor will be International Relations and she will get to play Field Hockey. We kid about why she is really going to school. Just saw Meg this morning. She buzzed home to renew her passport for our trip to Jamaica this June. Enough for now. Keep the Faith and we are doing the same.
Love,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Friday, April 29, 2005 4:03 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and family, I heard about your website from Lisa (Bond) Mericle, one of your sorority sisters from college. I've just scrolled through the pages and read the journal notes. It's an unbelievable turn of events. Claire is a beauty and I'm hoping you get to see her more often when all the infections go away! Your smile shows overwhelming peace and beauty and I've no doubt that's what captured your husband! I'll check in daily and see how you progress. I'll pray for comfort and no disease and hope you're out in the fresh air with your daughters soon! Love from, New Jersey
Julie <boysrule@verizon.net>
Cape May Court House, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:39 PM CDT

Vicki - this is Kathleen, a fellow bridesmaid from Kerry Mitchell's wedding. Congratulations on your new baby girl! What a little sweetie pie!! I have been thinking of you often and send you much love and prayers your way. Take care,
Kathleen
Kathleen Buckley <kathleen.buckley@retirementpartner.com>
Denver, CO USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:31 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, you don't know me, but I'm an alumna of Iota Gamma as well, and Chrissy D'Elia passed along the email from Lisa Gaskill. I just wanted to let you know that you and Claire are in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope the days continue to get better and better for you. Take care, and God bless!!!!!
Lauren Seber <LSeber@yahoo.com>
Hamilton, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:08 PM CDT

Vicki, I tried to call but had little luck with the switchboard that day. I'm happy to hear you'll be going home soon and I'll try again.

Claire is just a beauty and a gift. Aren't they all?! She is blessed with such a loving support system. I'm so happy to hear she is doing well and look forward to more pictures.

My first thoughts after hearing from Kerry were of your constant strength, balance in life, and (what I've always admired about you but never fully appreciated the value of until I turned into a "grown-up") your abilility to never take anything (or even yourself) too seriously. You have always radiated a quiet confidence and inner strength that put everyone you know at ease. My thoughts now are that we can offer you that same feeling of strength, comfort and peace. Secretly, as we've stayed in touch, I've looked to you as somewhat of a role model -- evalauting my decisions as we exchanged our updates. I hope I have a portion of the grace and courage that you continue to demonstrate, and are sharing with your loved ones. Jim and the boys will get hugged a little tighter and gazed at a little longer because of your example. When you beat this and your girls learn more about what an extraordinary person their mommy is, wow will they be proud. Love to you and Iain.

To Iain. Since I missed your wedding, I never had the pleasure of meeting you personally although I feel a sense of warmth thinking about you from what Vicki has told me about you. I hope you feel the arms filled with love hugging you from all corners of the country. You are also in our prayers.
Linda Trainor <trainorz@optonline.net>
Manalapan, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 2:56 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, I checked in this morning and was saddened to hear that you hit a little bit of a rough patch, so I added some extra prayers for you! And then I checked back this afternoon and saw yet ANOTHER positive entry - yippee! All of you are amazing, including those wonderful moms of yours! Have a great weekend with your brother and sister-in-law. I'll check in on Monday! Love, Theresa
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 2:53 PM CDT

Glad to hear things are progressing well, and that Vicki and Claire are both doing better. Just another stranger wishing you well and praying for your family. All the best. Hope Vicki gets to go home soon.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 29, 2005 2:53 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! Hurray! I'm so glad to hear that both you and Claire are doing so well! I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that the attempts at eating go well. I'm sure you can't wait to get out of that hospital! And I'm sure Maddie will love to have you home! And I'm sure that Claire will get to join the rest of you at home real soon. I hope that you've been able to see her. I'm sure it was such a thrill for Iain to give her a bottle! Take care and keep feeling better! It sounds like you're doing amazingly well! (((hugs))) to all of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, April 29, 2005 2:28 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! I just learned about your situation from Chrissy D'Elia's e-mail. I was a pledge sister of Chrissy's and graduated the year after you did. I was blown away by your guestbook. You and your family have surrounded yourselves with such an amazing community of supporters. It's such a tribute to you and how you live your lives that even strangers are moved by your story and feel compelled to sign the guestbook. You have such a tidal wave of love and support behind you, I have no doubt that you and Claire will soon be healthy and home with your husband and Maddy, where you belong. My warmest and best wishes to all of you!
Jeanne Cotton (Murray) <jeanne.cotton@warnerbros.com>
Burbank, CA USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

More greetings from New Jersey! It is Denise (Yacullo) Rodak checking in to let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for a speedy and complete recovery. I also want to congratulate you and Iain on your new baby girl. She is beautiful (just like Mom). Vicki, you are an incredible woman and loved by so many people. Stay strong and I cannot wait to see you and those supermodel legs strutting down the runway during NYC Fashion Week.
Hugs and prayers, Denise
Denise Yacullo Rodak <dyr113@yahoo.com>
West Caldwell, NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 1:38 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, it's been so long since I have seen you. It's Chrissy D'Elia from ZTA. Lisa Gaskill sent me your website and I had such mixed emotions reading everything on it. On the one hand, I am so happy to see you smiling with your baby Claire in hand. Your whole family looks so happy. On the other hand, I am sorry for what you are going through and I pray that you get over this fast. You are wonderful and I am so glad that you have such a positive attitude despite what you are going through. I wish you a quick and full recovery, the ability to eat (like a true Zeta) without a tube, and a wonderful time with your lovely family. I will be forwarding this website to my pledge sisters and the newest President of our Chapter at Trenton State College. Just in case you start getting well wishes from random Zetas, you will know where they come from. God bless you, your family, and those supermodel legs. I will be thinking of you and praying for you. Stay strong.

Chrissy D'Elia <cmdelia30@aol.com>
Robbinsville , NJ USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 12:29 AM CDT

You go girls on the eating agenda!!!!!!!!!Vicki, enjoy your brothers visit and I am keeping my fingers crossed that you will be in your own home very shortly. Love ya!!
Lisa GAskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj united states of america - Friday, April 29, 2005 12:15 AM CDT

Glad today was a positive day for everyone. Vicki and Claire are still in my thoughts and prayers.
Jonalee (FoA/RA & BBC July '03) <jonalee@adelphia.net>
New Philadelphia, OH - Friday, April 29, 2005 12:09 AM CDT

Hi, Tried calling yesterday, but no answer. Hope you know that you can call anytime. Of course you know you'll find me home during naptime on Wednesdays and Thursdays! Thinking of you daily. My bible study is keeping you on the prayer list. Sending lots of love and care your way.
Heather Bond <heather.bond@harrisbank.com>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 11:09 AM CDT

Hi Vick,
Spoke with Nicole last night & she said you were having a bit of a rough patch. Hang in there & know that we are thinking of you.
Love,
Kerry, John & Max
Kerry Minervini <benieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:47 AM CDT

Good morning Vicki,
What a dramatic weight loss - you must be so much more comfortable! I don't recommend this as a dieting method, but hey, what ever works for you! Really, I think I'll concentrate my prayers today on those obstinate colon tumors! Nothing too graphic as imagery, just the basics!
On a more beautiful site, you girls are so cute - love the bath tub shot of Maddy, we all must have " blackmail" shots like that for our kids to use if necessary when they are older! ;-) Keep up the good spirits and attention to self care and we'll keep the prayers coming for you and Claire and family.
Sue Underwood <suewholovesbirds@hotmail.com>
Long Valley, NJ Morris - Friday, April 29, 2005 10:36 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain and family - I am so impressed with your family, your strength and courage are an inspiration to everyone that is following your journey. I continue to pray for all of you and was so happy to read that you are able to see your children and hold your beautiful new baby girl. Jesus is your ROCK and will carry you through this. Lean on Him. Please let your mom know that she is also in our prayers and if there is anything we can do for her from here in Boonton,NJ - please have her call me. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all,

Robin Gershaw (1st Church Boonton, NJ) <rgershaw@aol.com>
Denville, NJ USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 11:01 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
So there I lay in a hospital bed, a relatively minor procedure gone bad, seven feet of my intestine having just been removed, tubes in every orifice. In walks one of my very best friends who sees me and starts laughing. Laughing! She said well, well, you finally hit your road bump in life.
I am confident that this is your road bump and that one day you will look back saying, �What a road bump it was.� Stay strong!!
You and your family are in my prayers,
Andrea ( A friend of Lisa Leiva).

Andrea Doyle-Graham <amgwrites@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 10:34 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I know this week is a rough one for you, but try to hang in there. The kids can't wait to visit again. They have mailed pictures, and if I am daring I may make a road trip with them in August for an entire week!
You are always in my thoughts.
Love ya,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and family,
So glad to read about your progress. The photos are great,especially of Maddy. We keep praying and it seems that little positive steps are being made. 4 lbs for Claire is terrific. I hope that the treatments are not wearing you out too much. We are keeping track of your progress every day. Keep the faith and we'll do our part.
Love to all,
Marcia
Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast. net>
Long Vallely, NJ - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:29 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Just wanted to check in and let you know that you and your family are so special to me. I hope today was a good one for all of you. You deserve it!
Love Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:29 PM CDT

Hi! I am a friend of Lisa Leiva's. Thank you so much for doing this website -- for sharing your story and inspiring us all to cherish every day. You are such a wonderful example to be able to share -- with all you are going through -- thinking of others. All my prayers are with you every day -- I pray for you to continue with your love for each other and all of those around you. I pray that you are comforted to know that whatever happens, you are loved by so many people -- and loved by your Heavenly Father! I will check in again soon! Love, Rina Meyer
Rina Meyer <themeyers@optonline.net>
Paramus, NJ USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:11 PM CDT

Hi Vicki and family--The Schoendorfs of New Jersey are praying for you. Be strong, be patient, most of all be positive. Remember illness is a mental state to overcome a physical problem. Think well and stive for a goal. Back to cleaning house or dusting, just kidding. A stroll down the block with the girls would be more enjoyable.Hang in there. Congratulations on another beautiful baby girl.
Diane and Bob Schoendorf <bschoendorf@wandellschool.org>
Wyckoff, NJ USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 5:25 PM CDT

I'm glad that Claire's doing so well. What a little champ! Vicki, I'm so glad that you're still feeling well. I pray that you will be able to eat soon. I'm sure there are several things that you really miss. I also hope that the PT works for you. I'm glad that the swelling has gone down. I hope that you and Claire have gotten to see each other again. I'll keep praying and you keep getting better! Take care! Hugs to all of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, April 28, 2005 3:45 PM CDT

What's that recipe again? I want supermodel legs too! I'm glad that you're feeling better and wish you and your nothing but the best as you go through treatment. Praying for you!
Elena (FOA) <arl_tx_techie2004@yahoo.com>
North Richland Hills, TX USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 3:35 PM CDT

Hi Vicki. I am a friend of Kerry Minervini's. I love the pictures of your family. Your girls are beautiful. You and your family are in my prayers. I am so inspired by you, but obviously you have a lot of inspiration from Maddy and Claire. I wish the very best for you and your family. I look forward to hearing about your progress. God Bless.
Melissa Buerge <mdbuerge@comcast.net>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 2:26 PM CDT

Greetings from the San Fernando Valley Kin. Whoever came up with this caringbridges should run for president. Loved seeing pics of the family and your newest blessing, Clair.
shall we enter you in the Guiness for most dramatic weight loss? Just reminding you that we do believe in miracles,. Love and prayes, and Birthday Blessings to Sandi, Joanie & Dave
MJMcConnell <mjmcconnell@mindspring.com>
Chatsworth, CA USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 1:20 PM CDT

Vicki,
Blessings to you and your family - and prayers as you go through your chemo/radiation. I just saw your Yahoo pictures - what beautiful girls you have! I am passing on your fight to those in my church...so prayers from Suffolk and Chesapeake Virginia! How many states are praying for you so far? You obviously have touched many lives, and given so much to your friends and family...may God's blessings come back to you!

Janice Hagedorn (The Streeter's daughter) <hagedorn_mj@netzero.com>
Suffolk, VA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 1:03 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! This is Kelly, Kerry's friend out in CO. We met a couple of times, I think. I remember when you were visiting with Kerry a few years back, walking through Denver on a snowy night with you guys looking for bars to go to! Ah - the good ole days! Hope you're having a good day today. Your girls are gorgeous and I'm keeping all of you in my prayers. Keep up the fight!
Kelly Curry <kelly_a_curry@ml.com>
Littleton, CO USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 12:34 AM CDT

Vicki,
I was calling on one of my cardiology offices here in Ocala, FL yesterday and the nurses are doing a March of Dimes 6-mile walk this weekend. They are doing it w/o anyone specific in mind. I told them about your family and they now want to do the walk in honor of your little Claire. They will be wearing special wrist bands with Claire's name on them. I'll keep you posted and have them take photos so I can send them to you. I can't believe how big Claire is getting. She's a fighter...just like her Mommy!
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 11:39 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I haven't met you personally, but Kerry Minervini let me know about your situation, and I just want you to know how much I respect your courage, bravery and optimism. It is humbling to see what you are going through with such dignity and resolve. It is incredibly inspiring to witness the manner that you handle your situation and the optimism and courage you show. I want you to know you will be in my prayers and I know the Lord will take care of you and your family. God Bless You.
Nicole Valente <ANicoleBaker@yahoo.com>
Flower Mound, Tx United States of America - Thursday, April 28, 2005 10:20 AM CDT

Hi Vicky. I'm a friend of Kerry, John and Max Minervini's. Kerry has told me your story and I want you to know, you and your beautiful family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa Schmitt <melincolo@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:58 AM CDT

Good Morning Vicki! I had to laugh last night because I had a glass of wine and I thought about my trip to Chicago and when I was delayed for a few extra days because of the hurricane and we shared a few glasses of that delicious wine. You and Iain were such troopers to let us stay those extra days. I hope that when I come up next time we can share another wine together! Have a great day.
Love, Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL 33880 - Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:47 AM CDT

Vikki,
Wow, 70 pounds...glad to hear you are feeling a bit better. Also so glad to hear Claire is making such great progress...definitely gets that fighting spirit from her Mommy. Praying for more milestones to be passed in the coming week and for Mommy and baby to continue there amazing progress. Hugs to you.

Love,
Joy (FOA/RA)
Joy McCarthy <joymcarthy@aol.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 0:33 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
It was great to spend time with you this past weekend. And I am so glad that I finally got to meet Maddy & Claire. They are both beautiful just like their mommy! I just wanted to let you know that your strength and conviction in fighting this battle are an inspiration to me. I consider myself very lucky to have a good friend like you :)
Hopefully I'll be back out in May (maybe with Max) to see you all again.
Love, Kerry
P.S. It was great to stay with you on Sunday night - been a long time since we shared a room :)
Kerry Minervini <bennieco@aol.com>
Littleton, CO USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 10:11 PM CDT

Hi Vicki!

It was great talking with you today and I am so glad you are in good spirits. Claire and Maddy are so lucky to have you as their mommy and I know how hard you are fighting to be able to go home soon. Keep up the positive spirits and keep showing off those legs even if Iain is thinking they are too skinny! I know your positive fighting spirit and your daily bonding sessions with Claire are doing you good. Talk with you soon!

Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

Hello, Hello:

I am so glad that we got to see you this weekend - I had a wonderful time hanging out. I am even happier to see your updated picture on the website as you look great, and I love the Atkins diet plan, glad to see that it is working for you...Keep fighting, best of luck and thinking of you always.

Lisa L
PS, I must really like you to travel that many hours across the country to see you!!!
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:19 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Just checking in today to see how things are doing. So glad to hear about the major water loss! And Claire is growing so nicely! This is good stuff to hear. Iain is a great guy to keep us all updated. It sounds like he is a VERY busy guy. I'm going to call your mother later tonight to wish her happy birthday. But I thought I should wait until the little dynamo was asleep! Hope you continue improving and I sure hope this chemo and radiation do what they are supposed to do. As usual, we are thinking of you all and have you all in our prayers.

Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:26 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I just got home from school and thought I'd check in and read Iain's update. Clare at 4lbs. is wonderful. The picture of Maddy in the tub is so sweet. And - I'm glad about your weight loss. I hope it is making you feel better each day.
Remember - you're right in my heart and I'll check again tomorrow.
Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 6:07 PM CDT

Thinking and praying so much for you...
Barb (Bailey) Fishburn <bfishburn@juno.com>
Macungie, PA USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:46 PM CDT

Oh, I'm so glad I checked back this afternoon! Great update. I've never heard Iain sing, but I'm going to defer to Claire's excellent judgement on this one! :-) I am also really happy to hear how supportive Baxter has been - that must be a tremendous relief. In the words of REO Speedwagon, Keep pushing on! (am I dating myself, or what?!?!)
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL U - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:32 PM CDT

Hey Vicki - Peyton and Maddy had a great time today. I can't wait to see you tomorrow. Your mom is super sweet to watch Peyton for me so that I can go see my favorite supermodel in the hospital.
Lots of Love,
Margie

Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:07 PM CDT

70 pounds, that's almost a whole person! What wonderful news! Thanks for updating the site again, its so nice to share in your milestones. Best wishes with the final treatments this week. I hope you can eat soon so we can start sending you cookies!
And it sounds like Claire is gaining like a champ. Maybe she can teach her mom a thing or two!
Rebecca
Rebecca Hassouna <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 2:35 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, Hope your treatments are going well. I know they can wipe you out. Take one day at a time, I know you will be given the strength you need. Lots of love, Mindy
Mindy Lima <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

Vicki and family,
Your strength is an inspiration! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. If there is anything I can do (here in NJ) please don't hesitate to email me.
P.S. Thank you to whoever takes the time to update us via this website.

Jag Patel <78Jag@optonline.net>
Parsippany, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 1:48 PM CDT

Hi,
I heard about your site from RA. I just wanted to let you know that I admire your family's strength. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you daily.
Teresa
Metro Detroit, MI - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 12:40 AM CDT

I bet you feel a big relief with 70 pounds gone! Yay for you! I'm still thinking of and praying for you and Claire daily. I hope your GI issues improve and you're able to get home soon.
Jonalee (FoA/RA & BBC July '03) <jonalee@adelphia.net>
New Philadelphia, OH - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 12:06 AM CDT

Vicki,
WOW!!! Congrats on the 70 lbs weight loss. I am sure it's a relief to have that fluid gone and be able to see your sexy legs. You are such an inspiration and such a fighter. I know you can overcome these GI issues! THANKS TO IAIN TOO FOR YOUR NEWSY UPDATES!!! We are praying for all of you on a daily basis.
John Mark, Amber & McKenzie Todd
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 11:51 AM CDT

Still praying! :)
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 11:12 AM CDT

Hello from Boonton, NJ! So glad to hear that your legs are returning to supermodel size. I wish you much luck with your busy week of treatments. God is watching over you. We at First Church are still praying hard for all of you and I think about you guys often, hoping that things are going ok. I'm glad to hear that Claire can visit you again and that you can spend that special time together. It is great that Maddy can come to visit you too and that your mom is able to help take care of her. Iain is a busy man as he spreads his time and energy everywhere...he sounds like a very loving and special person. Just so you know a little more about me...I'm 29 yrs old (30 next month...but not rushing it) and my husband Brett and I are expecting a baby at the end of July. I just finished Week 27. Had a rough time during my last pregnancy (severe preeclampsia/HELLP syndrome), so they are watching me very closely...so far so good. Though I'm often anxious, I know God will see me through this just as he is right there beside you through your illness and beside Claire through her time in the NICU, and providing strength and patience for Iain and Maddy. Prayers of friends, family (and even those you don't know) help so much. There are so many people behind you and your family right now. Such a blessing! Take care this week and in the weeks to follow. I'll keep praying!!
Rebecca Nickel <rnickel@optonline.net>
Boonton, NJ 07005 - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 9:20 AM CDT

Just checking in with "the queen" today. So glad to hear mama and baby are spending some time together. You both need the hugs. Tina and I will be in touch about taking a jaunt to Chicago for a quick visit with you. There's so much to catch up on. Hugs and hugs and hugs.
Jane Hovland <jane@thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

Good morning Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,
Glad to hear that the week ended on a positive note. Barry and I have been checking for updates very day and are glad to see how many others are doing the same. Everyone here is rooting for you. A very good friend of mine (of course a doggie friend) got me the Lance Armstrong bracelet. I think of you guys practically every minute of every day. Iain you will be happy to know that Barry followed your advice he sent me 2 dozen roses on Monday (of course saying they are from Swish!!). Love to you all. Alison and Barry xoxoxoxo
Alison J. Graham <agraham@mcfarlanelaw.com>
Kemptville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:44 AM CDT

Good morning! At least I hope it's good. I'm not sure what I'm more impressed by...your super model legs or the amount of people who have sent you messages on this site. I'm glad to see that you have so much support. You guys are definately in my daily thoughts and prayers. Keep positive!

Love, Cathy
Cathy Robbins <Cathyrobbins1@yahoo.com>
Petersburg, NJ - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

Good Morning Vicki! Thought I would take the honor of being the first person to send you a message today! I hope you are doing well and we are still waiting on pictures of your sexy legs! Hope you are doing well. It was great talking to you the other day and you sound so good. I understand that Miss Claire is gaining weight and doing great. That is wonderful! Our love to you!
Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:38 AM CDT

Vicki,

Hello again. I wanted to sign your guestbook and let you know that you and precious Clair are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and never give up. Miracles happen every day!

Love and blessings,

Becky ~www.blessingofachild.com~ <blessingofachild@gmail.com>
Mattoon, IL - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:11 PM CDT

Hello sunshine! I'm really happy to know you....You inspire me! Keep smiling that beautiful smile and know you have friends. Love you!
Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:00 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Another New Jersey connection here. Rebecca sent me.
I just visited the site and saw your beautiful and growing family. Such lovely little people. Good for you.
I'm rooting for you and sending positive energy and all good wishes. Get well and be strong! Kim Lyons
Kim Lyons <kim_lyons@conferencedirect.com>
Morristown, NJ - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I'm just checking in to let you know that we're with you in our hearts. Give the girls and your Mom a kiss for me. I'll be back tomorrow.
Love,
Susan
Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:54 PM CDT

Vicki,
We heard about you from Kim and Rebecca Hassouna. Know that you have the courage and strength to pull through this. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you every day.
The Penrose Family
Fatima Penrose <briarfarm@comcast.net>
Wayland, MA USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:19 PM CDT

Hey Vicki,

I check your website every day to read the update. I was so glad to hear that your swelling has gone down and you have gotten some relief. Ain't it great that pretty skirts are in this summer and you can show off those lovely gams! And I was so glad to hear how well Claire is doing. At nearly 4 pounds, she is a real little chunkster! ;) I will be thinking of you as you go through the next round of chemo and radiation. Stay strong.

Love,
Jen
Jennifer Jacobs
Enfield, NH - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 7:25 PM CDT

Vicki, I have been thinking how great it would be to see the shapley legs Iain talked about that you had on Sunday. Hope they are still as shapley today. I have been praying for you as you have radiation and chemo this week. I am visualizing the tumor/s shrinking and going away completely. I can also see your WONDERFUL smile and feel the positiveness you radiate to everyone. You are in my prayers as you are in the prayers of hundreds - even thousands of others.
Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 6:45 PM CDT

Enjoy the buckwheat pillow -- but don't forget I lied about being able to heat it up -- it's a NO NUKE pillow. As it should be for one so crunchy ;). I'm off to FL to get the latests from the Oncology Nurses. I'll share all the secrets on my next visit!
Janet <janettaylor04@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 6:10 PM CDT

hey Vic,
I can't wait to come and see you. Joe and I will be out in about a week! I am so glad to hear that you are doing better. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. I can't wait to see you, Iain, Maddy, Claire, and those super model legs :).
Love you sis,
Sarah

Sarah <sesdawg24@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 5:19 PM CDT

Hi Vickie...It's been years, (Zion Lutheran Church Days in Long Valley, NJ), but when Nancy Blasberg (my adopted sister...we've adopted each other as sisters long ago) sent me an E-mail regarding your need for prayer, I was overwhelmed with great sadness for you. BUT, reading all your e-mails, I see from others that nothing shatters you and that you have a growing faith. Keep focused on Him, Vickie! My church and I will be praying for you. Would love to see you again and meet your family! Love to all of you, including your folks!
Barbara (Bailey) Fishburn <bfishburn@juno.com>
Macungie, PA USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 4:48 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, I am Rebecca's cousin from NJ. I want you and your family to know that you will be in my thoughts and my prayers. Hold tight. Wish I had those legs!!
Patricia <stumpp3@aol.com>
Bound Brook, NJ USE - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 3:51 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Just checking in. Read any good books lately. Definitely recommend The Secret Life of Bees, or any Jodi Piccoult book. Also have heard good things about Kite Runner. Oh and Nora Ephron's Heartburn is a good read. Okay, enough about books, I probably should get back to work. No news here. Hugs to you!
Heather Bond <heather.bond@harrisbank.com>
Fox River Grove, IL 60021 - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Avery and I are so happy to hear that you and Claire are on the road to a speedy recovery. We pray and think about you everyday here in Minnesota. The board is not the same with out you, we can't wait to have you back.
Sarah and Avery Rowan (July Spark) <srowan@elcabop.org>
Maple Plain, MN - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, So glad to hear about your "supermodel" legs! You'll have to show them on my next visit. I have a slight cold right now and my voice sounds like Brenda Vacarro. (Do you know who that is, or am I showing my age!?) So, I think I'll have to wait a little until I come back. Give yourself a big hug from me, you and your body are doing a great job. Claire too, can't wait to see her! Love, Renee
Renee Hutchison <reneehutchison@att.net>
Lake Zurich, IL - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

Vicki,
Glad to hear the "Supermodel" legs are back! Keep up the positive attitude!!!Glad to hear Claire was able to have some Mommy time. We are praying for your continued strength through the treatments ahead and for a healthy Mommy and baby.

Hugs,
Joy (R/A & FOA)
Joy McCarthy <joymcarthy@aol.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:32 AM CDT

Vicki, I'm still laughing about the supermodel leg quote. I can just picture your bright smile as you show off your beautiful "new" legs! Looking forward to our next visit, keep up your amazing attitude! Love, Nancy
Nancy Hodgson <nhodgson@sbcglobal.net>
Vernon Hills, - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 10:23 AM CDT

So glad I check in today. What a positive post. Prayers and your inner strength are hard at work. So glad the girls are doing well!!!! I will continue to check in. Looking for more positives to come your way. Good luck this week with all of your treatments.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 10:09 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! It has been way too long since we have seen each other. I wish you all the best in the coming weeks and months. You have such a wide network of friends and family to draw strength from. What a blessing! You will be in all our thoughts and prayers.

P.S. When is Maddy's birthday? It must be close to my son Robert's (June 28, 2003).

Dawn (Blasberg) Shedden and family
Dawn Shedden <ww2gb@aol.com>
St. Petersburg, FL USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 9:20 AM CDT

Hi Vickie,
I work with Kris Peterson. I wanted to let you know that even though you don't know me, you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Your daughters are beautiful. Keep strong.
Susan Peck <specknp@yahoo.com>
Union, NJ usa - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 9:04 AM CDT

Hey Babe - Just wanted to write and say that I was thinking about you.

We tried out the new restaurant by my house on Sat night...as much as I wanted to prove the mediocre reviews wrong, they were unfortunatly right...it was only mediocre. I guess the half-full dining room on a Saturday night should have been our first clue!

I�m going to stop up Wednesday night to see you again. Don�t forget a new FRESH episode of GG tonight!
SaraT <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Chicago, IL 60657 - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 9:03 AM CDT

Vickie, Hi from Atlanta - keep that smile on your face - thinking about you - Shawn
Shawn Tylka <tylka5@aol.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:56 AM CDT

Hello Vicki Fans! Just wanted all of you to know that I witnessed the supermodel legs last night and they are SPECTACULAR! It's amazing how much the swelling has gone down since my last visit. Vicki looks fantastic! I love the fact that the New Jersey roadtrippers gave her a manicure and pedicure over the weekend - now not only do her legs look great, but her toes as well! :-) Vicki is (as usual) in great spirits and working hard to get out of the hospital as soon as possible. Keep all the love coming!
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:52 AM CDT

Vicki,

I just saw the picture of you and Claire - MAGNIFICENT. I am delighted to hear your good news! I can only imagine the challenges you face. We are sending prayers your way, and wishing more blessings for you and your family!

With God's Love,
Janice (the Streeter's oldest daughter)
Janice Hagedorn <hagedorn_mj@netzero.com>
Suffolk, VA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

I work with Kris,and feel as though I already know you. You and your family are in my prayers every night. I am so happy to hear that your little one is doing well now. Be strong...
God Bless...
Tuti
Tuti Franov <Tuti7394@yahoo.com>
North Brunswick, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:03 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
It's so good to hear about the improvement - skinny legs and all! And Claire is doing so well! Sounds like quite a schedule for Iain. Tell him we appreciate all the updates he passes on to everyone. You've got a lot of treatments this week and I hope they continue to speed your healing. Love and hugs to all.
Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, nj USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 7:03 AM CDT

Vicki,
I can't believe that after all this time, it takes something like this for me to find how close we have been living! My family and I have added you and your family to our prayers!!
Tina (Hovland) Sherman <btlake.sher@verizon.net>
Clinton, IL - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 1:19 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Just want you to know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers...I check in everyday, whether it's through the website or Sarah... and I'm so excited to hear things are looking up even a little bit! Congrats on your newly minted supermodel legs! Big hugs to you, Iain, Maddy, and Clare...and one especially for you too, Mrs. Thoele! Prayers and love...Meg
Meghan Horner <mhorner@muhlenberg.edu>
Allentown, PA USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 11:42 PM CDT

Glad to hear the good news today - keep it coming! I'm still checking in for news and remembering you in my prayers. Iain, I know it's probably hard for you to go back to work but I pray that God will give you extra strength and energy.
Valere (Sparkler) <valerie.ralph@shaw.ca>
Calgary, AB Canada - Monday, April 25, 2005 11:29 PM CDT

Thank Iain for updating the journal...I check it so often and really look forward to the "news" and what wonderful news it is! Congradulations!!!As I said before "You Go Girl"..Prayers are powerful...and if you don't shoot for the moon you can't ever get there! I printed that wonderful photo of you and Clare and put it on my wall of special pictures..Your Mom can tell you what I am talking about!! You have come so far sweetie....We are all so thrilled for you!! Your stength is amazing, You are one special lady..I know your time with the girls is healing for you...Love and prayers to you and your Family, Give them all a hug from me (Including your Mom)and tell them to give YOU one from me as well.
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 11:24 PM CDT

Vicki:

Just wanted to let you know your in our thoughts and prayers. I have been checking in with Lisa to see how you're doing and was glad she told me about this site. The kids look beautiful and I'm happy to hear you married such a wonderful man. You keep fighting and the wife and I will keep praying.

Wishing you all the best,

John and Laura Haller
John Haller <jhaller794@aol.com>
Marietta, GA USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:45 PM CDT

Hi Phillips Family--
The Streeters are thinking of you all a lot! Claire is G O R G E O U S, and we know you all can get through EVERYTHING. So glad Claire is gaining weight and that Vicki has supermodel legs (woo!).
We have high hopes that there is much more good news to come!
Love and Prayers, Streeters
Streeters <streeter@udel.edu>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 10:28 PM CDT

Vicki -
Wow!!! Supermodel legs! I'm jealous. I loved the picture of you and beautiful, Claire. I have copied it and will take it to church on Sunday share with all those who don't have internet service. Just wanted you to know that I continue to pray for you and your family daily. I hope your mom gave you the prayer shawl from our congregation. We have all prayed over it and I hope that you can feel the prayers and love that it represents and that when you wrap it around you, you know that you are loved.
Your beautiful smile is just a ray of sunshine. Keep your spirits high.
God's Peace and Grace,

Robin Gershaw (First Church Boonton) <rgershaw@aol.com>
Denville, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:04 PM CDT

Vicki - I can't wait to get over there and see you and your gorgeous legs! :) Sounds like you're doing great....I love you and think of you all the time. I'm so proud of you.

Beth -- JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:28 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
The NJ Crew made it home safe and sound, just a little tired. The road trip was filled with movies, good conversations, and a hell of a lot of sarcasm!! It was wonderful to finally see you. I cherish the time we spent together and look forward to seeing you again in 3 weeks. You may have supermodel legs, but I was most impressed with your butt!! Stay positive and strong. You are in my thoughts and prayers constantly.
Love,
Kris
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Vicki - it was so nice to see you and your beautiful legs today! Just wanted to tell you that Peyton and I "wuff ewe Bicki!"
Margie and Peyton
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:14 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I am so sorry that this has been such a wretched time for you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
For years, your Mom and I have talked about our girls. Did you know that I was all set to give you a hug when I first met you because I thought that I had known you forever. I had heard all about you over lunches, drives to Sarah's and Megan's activities, and days roaming the malls. (I'm not sure you, Sarah, or Megan would be thrilled with our motherly conversations though!) Now you have given your Mom and me someone new to talk about and she looks like a little cutie. The picture of you holding Clare is adorable. She is a lucky baby to have been born into such a loving family.
Vicki, please know that I will read this journal daily and keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Lots of love, Susan

Susan Harvey <sbharvey@earthlink.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 7:08 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
When your mother came to work in our office, our children (no matter what age) became part of our "office family". So not a day goes by that we don't think of you and wonder how you are feeling.
Congratulations on your beautiful baby, Clare. We hear from your mother that she is quite a little fighter.
We are sending loads of prayers and positive feelings your way.
Keep strong and take each day as it comes.
With love to all your family,
Phil(Dr Scaduto), Patty(Dr Renz), Pat S, Colleen, Barb M, Barb R, Jolaine and Jenna

Pat Staples <pstaples@att.net>
Rockaway, NJ - Monday, April 25, 2005 6:36 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Hello from Long Valley! It has been so long since i have seen you. If you don't remember me, i am your little sister's best friend's little sister, also known as Emily Horner. Just letting you know that you are in my prayers and i think about you and your family everyday. The picture of you and Claire is the cutest picture i have ever seen! I am glad to hear that you are getting better everyday and that Claire is too! God Bless and love to you all. Hey Vicki, It is so good to hear good news. Even something as simple as seeing your legs again. I had a great conversation with your mom yersterday, but I am sure that she shared that with you. HOw wonderful to have your college friends make a "roadtrip" to see you. You can add friends to laughter and modern medicine comes in a distant, but necessary third. Love you to all. God's Peace be with you all.
Love, Marcia
Emily and Marcia Horner <mjchorner@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 5:07 PM CDT

thought you might enjoy this:
A visiting minister during the offertory prayer:

"Dear Lord," he began with arms extended and a rapturous look on his upturned face, "without you we are but dust..."

He would have continued, but at that moment one very obedient little girl (who was listening carefully for a change!) leaned over to her mother and asked quite audibly in her shrill little girl voice, "Mommy, WHAT is BUTT dust?"

Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 3:31 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Tell Iain thanks so much for updating the journal. I check several times a day to see how you are doing and to read all of the good wishes. You've made my day today with the good news about the edema. Make sure you gets lots of pictures of Claire; she will grow so fast. My mom made a wardrobe using doll clothes' patterns for my son, DJ, who was 11 weeks premature and weighed 2 lbs 14 oz. He will be 26 in June so this was before the manufacturing of "preemie" clothes. Looking back at them and the doll sweater I bought, it's so amazing how he fit into them. We will keep praying and enlisting more family and friends. Joe and Sarah are looking forward to coming out to see you soon.
Love to all.

Judy Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ U.S.A. - Monday, April 25, 2005 3:27 PM CDT

Vicki - What adorable daughters!! We are neighbors and church friends of Sandi and Jack and holding you in our prayers along with everyone else at FPC Boonton. Our best wishes are with you on this journey. You are a wonderfully brave young woman.
Elaine and Dan Quick
Elaine Quick
Montville, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

You don't know me, I work with Iain. I just wanted you to know that there are lots of people here at Baxter praying for all of you and sending positive energy your way. You have a fantastic support system in place and I hope that brings you some peace of mind. Keep on fighting!
Linda McMillan <mcmillan1220@sbcglobal.com>
evanston, il usa - Monday, April 25, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

What great news! Glad to hear you're doing so much better and have supermodel legs! Woohoo!
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Monday, April 25, 2005 1:11 PM CDT

I check this website daily to see if you and Claire are doing better and I'm smiling now when I read that both of you are doing so much better. I'll keep the prayers up and hope that you and little Claire get to go home soon. God Bless you and your family.
Emily Duncan <emily@networkchics.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 1:10 PM CDT

Vicki - I'm thinking of you daily (I heard from the Long Valley high school crew) and all of my wishes and prayers are with you, Iain, Maddy and baby Claire. I can't help but remember Vicki through the years - and always with a smile. Please know that you've brought a lot of happy thoughts to a lot of people and all of us are sending them right back to you now! I wish I could be there to give you a hug, tell you it's going to be alright, and take a look at those beautiful legs of yours.

Kelly Toman <stelly@comcast.net>
Highlands Ranch, CO US - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:57 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Iain,

1/4 of the NJ crew reporting in. Got dropped off at 11:30 last night and the gang still had 45 minutes to Bill and Kris' and then an hour more for Lisa. Our ride back home was quite an adventure, I cannot believe we drove all the way through Indiana and Ohio in a SNOW storm a week away from the beginning of May! It was soooo wonderful seeing you all this weekend...meeting Claire - who is absolutely beautiful (of course!) I can't believe how big Maddy has gotten since Thanksgiving! A supermodel can't hold a candle to you girlfriend! See you in a month and talk to you later today or tomorrow: ) Love, Nic
Nicole Neal
E. Stroudsburg , PA - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:51 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, We have been following your web page since last week. It is wonderful, we get to stay informed and know the information is correct rather than getting it through the grapevine. Our thoughts have gone back to the years of spending Christmas eve with your family, didn't we do a good job of "The Twelve Days Of Christmas". What great memories. There isn't anymore that we can add to the thoughts and prayers that are already being said, you have a wonderful support system. Give our love to your Mom & Dad and we will continue to pray for you and your little family each day. We have also spread the word to Susanne and family and we know they are praying for you too. Love Roger & Barbara Southward
Roger and Barbara Southward <sandspg8@ptdprolog.net>
Bear Creek Township, PA USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:21 AM CDT

Vicki,

Billy and I send our best to you and Claire (what a sweetie she is!). Kathy and Jay give us frequesnt updates and want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I summoned some friends with prayer chains and added you to the top of the list (quite diverse...Mormon, Catholic and Baptist... figured we'd cover all bases! :)). Billy's sister beat an "unbeatable" cancer 18 years ago which further proves we are not in control and are not able to predict the future. I've worked as a critical care nurse for over 20 years leading me to support that theory even more. No human can predict God's will... with that you keep fighting girl! I have seen many critically ill patients deemed "terminal" go home and mow their lawn when experts believed they would never go home at all!!! I see an amazing circle of support and it is obvious many people love you. Sarah, Kaitie and Dave are thinking of Aunt Vicki and brag about how much fun they have with all of you (making Aunt Lori a bit jealous... ha-ha)! The stories from the Outer Banks are hysterical... grass skirts?! I hear Maddy has one speed... "faster". I love that age! You keep up the hard work (I do know how hard it is and much can be said for your positive attidue and beautiful smile!)
Love to your Mom, Hubby and Maddy!

OK: A little joke from a Catholic girl. Mys siter Beth's husband shared this with me. A talk radio station was discussing the soon to be ordained German Pope. One caller made reference to his frequent references to the "flock" and the individual sheep in his flock. "Grant that we may be one flock and one shepherd..." Another caller to the radio sattion asked one question,"Doesn't that make him a German Shepherd?" Of course this comic relief has more laughs for Billy and I who own a German Shepherd :).
Lori and Billy Plate <loriplate@yahoo.com>
Anthem, AZ - Monday, April 25, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

Good Morning Vicki! Supermodel legs...I'm jealous. That's great news! You must be so much more comfortable. I am so happy that Claire is doing so well, she's such a cutie. I'll be thinking of you this week as you go through your radiation and chemo. See you soon!

Love, Lori
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:53 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, We are so sorry you are having to go through all this now but know your are in God's hands. We have added you to our Via de Cristo prayer chain here in Central FL that Nancy heads. There are about 100 of our Christian brothers and sister praying for you all. The picture of you and little Claire is WONDERFUL. Your smile is the greatest. It is the same that we remember from years ago especially every Christmas Eve when we sang The Twelve Days of Christmas!! The smile and positive thoughts are as healing as any radiation or chemo could be. We will be sending your Mom info from someone on the prayer chain who gave me his Mom's E address to pass on to you as she is being called a "miracle" for having beaten her cancer for over a year when she was not expected to live. We love you and you are in our thoughts and prayers - big time. We thank the Southwards for letting us know. We will be sending this info on to Dawn and Kim.
Bob & Nancy Blasberg <bnblasberg@cfl.rr.com>
Orlando, FL USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:48 AM CDT

Vicki,
What an adorable photo of you and Claire! She will be an additional "medicine" for you. I am happy to read her condition is also improving, she is in good care and like you has a strong will to live. Reading all your guest book entries puts a smile on my face, seeing the messages of love, concern and support in prayer from around the world for you. It is very inspiring. Enjoy your visitors, say "hi" to your family for me. Congratulations on the return of your "super model legs"! That annoying task of shaving them seems not so annoying now right?!
I'll continue to keep up with your progress and spread the word on your situation. I agree with Marica Horners' comment, humor is another secret weapon of healing. So maybe your guests can include some funny jokes for you from time to time! take care,
Sue Underwood <suewholovesbirds@hotmail.com>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:01 AM CDT

Vicki, I came to your website through a post by your friend Sarah. I just have to say that you and little Claire are tough as nails. I'll keep checking in on you and your family and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Kris Herbst <kris@ercolina-usa.com>
Davenport, IA - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:57 AM CDT

Hi Vicki!

It was so great to hear the swelling is down! Show off those legs, Girlfriend! We are still thinking of you daily. I told my mommy group about you and Claire. You now have another set of friends praying for you! I hope your radiation treatment goes well this week.

Lots of Sparkler Love,
Joyce, Manny & Zerick <jbmod@hotmail.com>
Bakersfield, CA U.S.A. - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

Vicki and Iain,

I am so happy that Claire is doing well. Her picture is beautiful! Vicki - I am so sorry you have to be going through radiation instead of enjoying your new baby. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will be praying for your health and little Claire's.
Rose Lim <Duffylim@aol.com>
Wadsworth, IL 60083 - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, So glad to hear all the good news that was posted. I can't wait to see these legs that have been given supermodel status. Tell Iain that we've got a rotation in place to take care of the grass. Love to you and the fam. As always, you are in my prayers.
Heather Bond <heather.bond@harrisbank.com>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:06 AM CDT

Good morning, Vicki! I'm so glad that you and Claire are doing so well! It sounds like Claire is just thriving! We had a March of Dimes walk in my area this past weekend and my daughter and I walked in her honor. I hope that you and her will get to see each other soon. I'm sure you miss her terribly and I've gotta believe that she's anxious to see her mommy's supermodel legs! I'm glad that you're feeling better and are able to move a little! I hope that your radiation and chemo go smoothly. I'll pray that they don't leave you feeling awful and that they do the job that they're supposed to do.
You girls keep fighting so that you can both go home together when Claire's big enough! I'm sure that you'll all anxiously awaiting the day that you can go home and have the entire family together! Take care! Hugs to all four of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, April 25, 2005 9:01 AM CDT

Vicki and Family: My daughter Brenna and I walked in the March of Dimes Walk America in Boston yesterday. This year's walk emphasized premature babies.I was so glad to read the update and see that both you and baby are doing so much better. You and baby were very much in our thoughts and prayers as we walked. Our continued love, prayers and best wishes to all of you. Please send my special love to your Mom. I haven't sent her a message personally so please let her know that I'm thinking or her. Keep up the great work. We'll write again.
Denise Nickel <denisenickel@optonline.net>
Rockaway, NJ - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:49 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! Glad to hear you have supermodel legs again! I was pleased to read that you and Claire have been reunited. She is sooo precious! Keep fighting, stay strong, and never give up!
Jonalee (FoA/RA & BBC July '03) <jonalee@adelphia.net>
New Philadelphia, OH - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:48 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I work with your husband Iain. I was thinking about you all weekend. Seeing you reunited with Clare brought a big smile upon my face. I am glad that your swelling went down and you are able to walk. You are doing great. Keep up a positive attitude and never stop fighting.
I will be thinking of you and you family :)

Vita

Vita <victoriya_arsenyuk@baxter.com >
Vernon Hills , IL USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Hey Vicki!!
Glad to hear you are feeling better!! Good luck this week with all your treatments! I am thinking and praying for you often and Kyler prays for "baby Care and Bicky" every night!!
Brenda & Kyler <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:38 AM CDT

Great to hear that your week ended well. You don't know me but I know of you through Amber Todd. I am still pounding on the doors of heaven for you and your family in my prayers. Stay strong! Supermodel legs!!! Enjoy your daughters...I have three girls and they are precious!
Tricia Mc
- Monday, April 25, 2005 8:31 AM CDT

I only met you via your website this morning, but please know that you will remain in my thoughts, heart and prayers for you and your beautiful family.
Betty Chomel <betty_chomel@yahoo.com>
Austin, TX USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 8:08 AM CDT

Vicki, aka supermodel legs... Glad to hear you are feeling better and receiving lots of visitors. Sophia and I are still thinking of you and the girls every day!
Stacy <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
middlesex, NJ USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 7:26 AM CDT

Hi Vicki
Elizabeth's friend again here :-) Just checking in on you and so happy to hear things are looking up there. Stay strong and know that we in San Antonio are thinking of you and your family.
Michelle Snow <mesnow1952@yahoo.com>
Floresville, TX - Monday, April 25, 2005 7:10 AM CDT

Vicki, Glad to hear the swelling is down and you can show off your legs proudly know! I know this week will be a hard one with all of the treatments, but you are a strong woman and will get through this! Just keep thinking of that beautiful new baby of yours and about Maddy and Iain. I am happpy that Claire had gained weight and is back to enjoying bonding time with her mommy! I'll talk with you soon!

Colleen <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL United States - Monday, April 25, 2005 6:45 AM CDT

Hello friend, it's Lisa Gaskill again, Im so glad things are positive. IM glad you had good friends to visit with this weekend. I am so looking forward to our visit on May 13th. Keep up those positive thoughts and looking at the super model legs. Im going to download the applicatioin for the next super model search reality tv series for you, i know you will win(lol) See you soon gotta run, rugrats are calling, that means Richie and Gracie of course. Kiss Claire for me. Love ya and have a great day. Love LIsa
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
hamilton, nj usa - Monday, April 25, 2005 6:25 AM CDT

Hello, Vicki, we are the Charltons of Boonton and know your parents from the First Presbyterian Church. I loved seeing your photos. What a vivacious smile you have. You light up the picture!

Having had peritonitis (misdiagnosed appendicitis) when my son was newborn and my daughter 20 months, I remember being in the intensive unit for a week when prayers and faith were the only things I could hold on to. That was 40 years ago. Prayers work!

Know we are holding your in our thoughts and prayers.
Most sincerely - Lloyd and Terry Charlton
Terry Charlton <terrycharlton@optonline.net>
Boonton, NJ - Monday, April 25, 2005 5:14 AM CDT

Just checking in because I was thinking of you.
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Monday, April 25, 2005 3:01 AM CDT

May you be blessed with peace from God. You are in the prayers of your family and those that do not know you.
Andy Nesbit <atnesbit00@yahoo.com>
Mesa, AZ USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 11:30 PM CDT

Hi Vicki-Great news that the edema is finally gone! I'm so happy to hear that you are feeling better. I'll be thinking about you this week. Love-Robin from the Sparklers
Robin Jacobson <robinjanej@comcast.net>
Portland, OR - Sunday, April 24, 2005 11:01 PM CDT

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Your new daughter is absolutely beautiful (coming from a grandmother), I appreciate how special every child is and the joy that they bring to us. May you both grow stronger each day. Let us know if we can be of any help.
Penny and Alan Schaubel <PLS07@aol.com>
Kenosha, WI USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 10:51 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I love the new photo of you holding Claire! I'm glad to hear that you've enjoyed some visitors and especially time with Maddy. My Chicago friend Wendy offered to stay with Maddy if that's needed -- let me know and I'll put you (or Iain)in touch with her. She's also a teacher and a friend of mine from Dickinson. She's a great babysitter!
It sounds like a full schedule for this week already but let's hope it zaps that bad stuff. I'll keep checking to see the latest. Lots of love and good thoughts!
Margo Novak <margonov@comcast.net>
Haddam, CT - Sunday, April 24, 2005 10:51 PM CDT

Yeah Yeah Yeah!!!! I'm so excited to hear about your supermodel legs!!! You knew they were under there somewhere! I know this is going to be a tough week with all of the treatments you have going on. Stay strong! Glad you had a good weekend with visitors too. We all love you!
Rebecca
Rebecca <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 10:33 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Margo shared your information with us. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. You are a beautiful person, evidenced by the love and support you are receiving. Your youngest daugther is a fighter like her mom. We will be praying for you all.
Pam and Gus Cadena <pamlc1@yahoo.com>
Hawthorne, CA USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 10:26 PM CDT

Vicki,
Diane Stevens shared with me about your story. Just wanted to say you will be in my prayers. My family has gone thru bouts of Cancer so I know what it can do I myself am a Cancer Survivor,I had Ovarian Cancer 10 years ago I was 23 years old.
Jill Lavely-Mills <bbbear12@msn.com>
Glendale, Az USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 10:10 PM CDT

Vicki - Margo passed along your website to me the other day. I just wanted to tell you that even though you do not know us, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. The pictures are beautiful and Claire looks so adorable in your arms. I love her rainbow hat!
Julie Kaufman & Linda Warner <landjinaz@cox.net>
Chandler, AZ - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do, please contact me.

Gregg Larsen
South Barrington, IL USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:32 PM CDT

Hey Vicki! Just wanted to let you know I have been thinking of you. This morning in church, I asked a prayer for you and they are going to add you to the church prayer list. We also had a speaker who had colon and lung cancer Stage IV and was telling us about his fight and how he is a survivor. His words meant so much to me and seeing him standing there healthy really shows the power of friends, family and prayer! We did another lap at the Winter Haven Relay on Friday night! Thinking of you and looking forward to the new pictures of Claire. (Margie promised them to the Sparklers this week) Lots of love from the South...
Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:21 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, I just heard about you from a friend in Texas. My heart is so touched by the outpouring of love and prayers I see here. I know that God provides miracles every day and will be praying for your miracle. Love in Christ,

Judy Davis <davisjudy@earthlink.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:18 PM CDT

Vicki: I just read Iain's update and am so happy to hear the edema is under control and that you're able to see Clair again. I had a premature baby as well and understand some of the trials and tribulations you're going thru on that end. Sounds like she's doing wonderfully. Take care, my prayers are with you, Iain, Maddy, and Clair.

Carrie Willcutt <clwillcutt@comcast.net>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 9:10 PM CDT

HI Vicki,

I continue to pray for you during this trying time. I can't believe the picture of all the meds. You are stronger then cancer!!! I believe you can beat this.

Your children are beautiful. I hope you are able to see Claire soon. I am sure once she is in your presents, she will know it right away. Keep the faith!
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Sunday, April 24, 2005 7:06 PM CDT

God is near and He is always near. He is not bound by our simple human understanding. He still performs mighty miracles. I will join the many others in praying for God to bless you with a miracle. Today our pastor talked about facing our giants and that the only way to do it was to see God and focus on God not the giant. I too am encouaged in my faith by seeing how mnay people have taken the time to write to you and pray for you. I'm believing God, and I am over joyed to see so many others are too. In Christ Love, Laura Collier
Laura Collier
San Antonio, TX USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 6:59 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, I just heard about this web site, this is so special. You have been in my prayers daily. I have been going through old pictures lately and I found some great ones of us from when Mike and I flew out to see you. I am planning on sending you one, it put a smile on my face, I'm sure it will do the same for you. Love you, Mindy Lima
Mindy LIma <minrn@sbcglobal.net>
Orange, Ca. - Sunday, April 24, 2005 6:15 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! We know you through my husband Dan Tholotowsky's dear "Aunt" VIV. I just want you to know that I am lifting up your name in prayer anytime the Lord brings it to mind...Our children recently just purchased LIVESTRONG Bracelets as well! I told them by purchasing them they were helping you! The power of prayer can and will do mighty things! God Bless You and your Family!
Karen Tholotowsky <heyklt@aol.com>
Lemont, IL - Sunday, April 24, 2005 5:48 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I don't remember very much about our time playing together as children so long ago, but I do remember that we always had fun. I still remember us reading the Little House on the Prarie series at the same time and how we both loved to swim. You will always be part of my earliest positive memories and I will always think fondly of you. You and the baby look great in the picture that I just saw. You look like your glowing. I can't believe that it has been so many years since we saw eachother. I can tell from reading your messages that you are very supported and loved. I'm sure that must be giving you strength during this time when you need it. You have my support as well, and you have my husband Chad's by proxy. I was telling him about our times together last night, and I could tell he enjoyed hearing about them.
All the best Vicki,
Cara
Cara Rice <stratoflampsacus@aol.com>
Phoenixville , PA USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 5:05 PM CDT

VICKI, I PRAY THAT GOD WILL INTERVENE AND RID YOUR COLON OF THIS TUMOR. VICTORY IS YOURS AND JUST KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT GOD IS WORKING MIRACLES IN YOUR BODY TO RESTORE IT TO GOOD HEALTH. MAY HIS BLESSINGS BE WITH YOU THROUGHOUT. I WILL PASS PRAYER REQUESTS ON TO PRAYER WARRIORS.

LOVE AND PEACE
ANNA (CORNERSTONE CHURCH)
ANNA FREDERICK <afrederick@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, tx usa - Sunday, April 24, 2005 4:05 PM CDT

Dear Vicki -- We were sent an email message from a friend of a friend of yours with details about the challenges you are facing. I immediately thought about what our pastor said today in church -- God NEVER leaves us, especially in times of trials and challenges. You are definitely being lifted up in prayer, as well as for Claire. Though we have just received the news about you today, it's amazing how God has already has touched your life and how He's continuing to give you strength and love. In His Hands - Rich and Mindy Collier
Mindy Collier <mindy_lautzie@yahoo.com>
Uniontown, OH United States - Sunday, April 24, 2005 3:50 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, I know Elizabeth from Oak Hills Church. She shared your story with me and I want you to know you and your family are in my prayers. I have two InVitro children so I feel a bond with you. May God grant you a miracle! I am believing God! Love in Christ, Diane Stevens
Diane Stevens <zzyndi@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Sunday, April 24, 2005 2:16 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
It was very special for Rebecca to be able to visit and be with you last week. You and your family are constantly in our thoughts and we pray for you and your beautiful children, husband and families.
Love,
Kim Hassouna
Kim Hassouna <kim_hassouna@hilton.com>
- Sunday, April 24, 2005 1:26 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I have called everyone I can think of to place you and your family on their prayer lists. You and Claire look so happy. I am glad that she is well enough for you two to be together. I am working on getting a phone number so I can call your mom. Give everyone hugs and kisses from us.
Through all of this try to get at least one good laugh in a day, it is very good medicine and not too painful. Our prayers are going up to Heaven hourly and we send lots of love.
Marcia, Burt, Emily, and Meghan
Marcia Horner <mjchornerL@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ - Sunday, April 24, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Dear Vickie, Iain and children
You are constantly in our thoughts and even though it may be hard a positive attitude helps to beat this terrible disease. Love and Best Wishes, Loraine, Stewart, Tracey, Remo and the Girls - Your family in SA
Tracey Phillips <thphillips@mweb.co.za>
Johannesburg, South Africa - Sunday, April 24, 2005 11:20 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! We are friends of your parents here in Lake Valhalla. We had the pleasure of your Dad's company tonight for dinner! We send our prayers for your strength and recovery. I KNOW that prayer helps to lift us to heights we never thought possible! I hope you feel that power from everyone through their prayers. Your baby is absolutely adorable! You keep focused on the positive and the results will amaze you. We send our love to your entire family. Mary, Tex, and Patrick (Sarah's friend)
Mary & Tex Uhles <texnmary@optonline.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 11:55 PM CDT

I am Margie's sister in law. Margie has asked me and my family, to pray for you and your family. We have been, and will continue to do so. We wish you all the best. Congratulations on that beautiful baby!
Elizabeth Oliver <tater123@swbell.net>
Keller, TX - Saturday, April 23, 2005 10:01 PM CDT

This is my second try at sending a message. I hope this one works... Ah, dear, dear Queen Victoria...how long has it been since you have been called that? We now have a granddaughter Lynne Victoria, and when I hear her full name, I am always reminded of the days when you and the 4Ts were teenagers and that was my pet name for you. How time has flown by since then and time and distance have separated us. Now we have grandchildren and you are the mother of two...congratulations... and in need of special prayers and good thoughts. I have talked with all 4Ts and they are all praying for your whole family. As you read this, I just hope you can sense the love that comes from all of us. Oooo, feel that hug; I'm squeezing hard!
Jane Hovland <jane @thehovlands.com>
Clinton, IL - Saturday, April 23, 2005 7:29 PM CDT

Hi Vicki--a long time since we've seen you. We are sending you our love and want you to know you are constantly in our thoughts. We will keep in touch and are happy to have this way to do it. Much love to you and your family. We are so glad that you have so many people around you who love you and care. Ellie and Bob Rice
Ellie and Bob Rice <earice@optonline.net>
ridgewood, nj usa - Saturday, April 23, 2005 4:33 PM CDT

Vicki and Claire: It doesn't matter that we don't know each other that well or that we live hundreds of miles apart, GOD is bigger than that. We can't promise a miracle, but we can guarantee that two more people are praying for you.
Linda Peterson and Jim Kupcho <leepeters63@comcast.com>
Woodbridge, NJ USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

Vicki and Iain,
John Mark's band is playing tonight in Ocala for the Relay for Life. All of the band members and their families are praying for you too. I am glad to hear that your swelling is going down and that little Claire is doing better. I hope you get to see each other again real soon.
Always thinking of you,
John Mark, Amber & McKenzie Todd
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 12:47 AM CDT

What a great update! So glad to hear the swelling is going down and that little Claire is doing better!! I hope you can be reunited very soon. I am sure it is so difficult to be away from your child. So glad you are both improving! God Bless always, you are so strong! Tell those escorts to get their act together!! hehe... Take care.

Emily (RA/FOA)
NN, VA USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 10:49 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Hello and good morning from good old New Jersey! I work with your Dad at Wallwork and boy is he lucky, what a beautiful daughter you have and her name is also beautiful.
You know Vicki the Word of God in Psalm 103: 3 says "He forgives our sins and HEALS ALL YOUR DISEASES", the 650 members of our church in Shrewsbury began praying for you last Sunday. We believe that God will do a miraculous healing in you as he has with thousands of others. Keep your faith and be strong, He knew you before you were born and He knows the issues now. God Bless you and your family
Rich Lotz <rjlotz@aol.com>
Middletown, NJ USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 9:34 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,
What a beautiful baby, Clare! Congratulations! You have a beautiful family. Our prayers are with you for your recovery. With our love and best wishes,
Venus and George Miller
Venus and George J. Miller <gvsparta@aol.com>
Buffalo Grove,, IL USA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 8:30 AM CDT

Hey Vicki! Just wanted to say hi and that I'm thinking of you often. I know you're busy this weekend with lots of visitors. Enjoy! I'll be in touch again soon. Glad to hear the swelling is going down and hopefully you're getting some relief.
Love, Rebecca
Rebecca <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:43 PM CDT

Hi Sweetie...I was thrilled to be welcomed to you web page with your radiant smile..It is no wonder you look so happy:)since you are holding that precious Baby Claire!! You Go Girl! Love and prayers to you!
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:38 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,

It has been a very long time since we have seen you - back in NJ. We are praying for you, Claire, Maddy, and Iain. Keep focused on getting stronger everyday, even on the toughest days. Don't eat yellow snow, buy low, and sell high. At the end of each day, cuddle with your loved ones. You will be in our thoughts.
Bob, Dana, and Maddie Taggart <tagube@optonline.net>
Succasunna, NJ USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:22 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
It's me again! Just wanted to check and see how you and Claire were doing today. I love the picture of the two of you! Getting the fluid down should make you a lot more comfortable. Hope the treatments continue to go well and you continue to improve. My thoughts and prayers and with you all.

Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:03 PM CDT

Hi. You don't know me but found your site through the caring bridge site of a friend. I had to write to let you know that my sister Susan was diagnosed two years ago while pregnant with stage iv colon cancer which spread to her stomach, lungs and liver. I had to let you know that her son Noah (born 4 weeks premature) is now a healthy 14 months old and my sister is still undergoing chemo but is doing well. See, you are not alone. Keep fighting!!!!
Robin Watkins <robinwatkins1@hotmail.com>
Tinton Falls, NJ - Friday, April 22, 2005 7:59 PM CDT

Stay strong and keep the faith. We as women are strong...You can and WILL get thru this. You are in my prayers.
sandy z <sandyzoiks@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 22, 2005 7:39 PM CDT

Dear Vickie,
The St Pius prayer group and rosary ladies are praying for your quick recovery. These ladies are GOOD.
God bless and keep you and baby Claire. She's beautiful!
Love
Anne Tripp
anne tripp <aatripp@verizon.net>
montville , nj usa - Friday, April 22, 2005 5:01 PM CDT

Vicki,

I am thinking of you and your family during your time of need. It has been a long time, but you are in my prayers as well as those of your other friends here in Minnesota.
Duane
Duane Dull <duane.dull@prudential.com>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 4:45 PM CDT

Dear Vicki : You are in our thoughts and prayers every day. We're pulling for you!
Susan & Adrian Sark (Lisa & Rick's Mom and Dad) <ajsark@albedo.net>
Rockwood, ONT Canada - Friday, April 22, 2005 4:32 PM CDT

Just wanted to drop by and say hi. I love the picture of Claire. What a beauty. I'm sorry to hear about the issue with the "escorts." What a silly question to ask. I'm glad you made it back ok though. Hope the rest of your day is great!
Michele <mshelez@Msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 3:27 PM CDT

Vicki: It has been many years - I was very sorry to hear of your news. However, the Lord is very powerful - keep the faith and he will provide. Take care,

Kurt Fasen
Monticello, mn 55362 - Friday, April 22, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

I asked the Lord to bless you as I prayed for you today
To guide you and protect you as you go along your way....
His love is always with you; His promises are true,
And when we give Him all our cares we know He will see us through.
So when the road you're traveling on seems difficult at best, Just remember so many are praying and God will do the rest.
This came across my path today and I just wanted to share - God is honored by who you are and what you stand for - continue the good fight
judi olsen <sallyfulff@aol.com>
whippany, nj morris - Friday, April 22, 2005 2:16 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, You have two beautiful children, such a wonderful family to be so proud of! God is ever present - He is your strength and refuge. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family everyday. Love, Nancy and Larry D'Oench (we're friends of your parents)
Nancy D'Oench <Nancy07045@aol.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 1:26 PM CDT

Vickie, Found your story on BBC. My prayers are with you and your beautiful family down here near Houston, Texas. Hold your head up high! You've got our full support down here. ��do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.�

Isaiah 41:10 NIV

Emily Denman
Magnolia, TX - Friday, April 22, 2005 12:53 AM CDT

Vickie, I am an aunt of a spirit sparkler (Sammy Bowen). Just wanted you to know that I (along with others in Wichita Kansas) am praying for you and your precious family.
Tiffanie Lenhart <alenhart@netzero.net>
Wichita, Ks USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 12:04 AM CDT

Vicki,

Wanted you to know that you and your family are in our prayers here in Suffolk Virginia. Your daughters are beautiful...and I am moved beyond words by your strength and courage.
With God's Love,
Janice (The Streeter's oldest daughter)
Janice Hagedorn <hagedorn_mj@netzero.com>
Suffolk, VA - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:30 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family, I don't ever know what to say really, but wanted to let you know I'm still praying (and will continute to pray) for you. :)
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, April 22, 2005 10:04 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I am Rebecca's mom. I think of you all the time since Beck told me about you. I check your web page daily. You have a tough road ahead of you, but you can beat this thing. You have everything to live for. The power of the human mind and body is an amazing thing. Keep up the faith. I will keep you in my thoughts.
Barbara Yannetta <hdgirl@optonline.net>
Bound Brook, NJ USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Dear Vicki--I'm from the Boonton Presb.Church, friends with mom and dad, Sarah and Jay & Kathy. Just want you to know that we're all praying and pulling for you at First Church. You've been a great inspiration and testament of God's love and the strength and love that family and friends. Keep up the good work and know you're really never alone...you've got soooooooo many praying for you!
Connie Kelly <kelly51@optonline.net>
Towaco, NJ USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 9:08 AM CDT

Vicki: I just wanted you to know that even though I haven't had a chance to come and visit you, you and Claire continue to be in my thoughts and prayers; and I keep updated on your progress through the website. That is great news that your swelling continues to go down and that you've been able to get up and move around a bit.
It must be your wonderfully positive attitude that's helping you along.
Take care and know you're in my thoughts.
love,
Carrie
Carrie Willcutt <clwillcutt@comcast.net>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:56 AM CDT

I pray to God For your Prompt Healing and Recovering, May he have you and Baby Claire Blessed. Hoping for a full recovery and wait on the Lord and he will do.
Luis & Michelle Rivera <sgtlr143@msn.com>
Morrisville, NC - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

Vicki and Family,
I'm a friend of Margo Novak and wanted to let you know that all of you are in my thoughts. Good wishes are on there way from Bethlehem, PA. My Relay for Life this year will include thoughts and prayers for you from me and my team members and friends.
Wishing you well,

Stacy Milo <milostac@bethlehem-pa.gov>
Bethlehem, PA USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 8:07 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I�m a friend of Margie�s. Your story has touched me to the very core. First let me congratulate you on your beautiful accomplishment of becoming a mother again. Claire is adorable and you have a lovely family. I am praying for you, for faith, healing and strength. All things through Christ are possible. Although I don�t personally know you I feel for you and yours. Margie is a fabulous friend and I feel a connection through her friendship with you. Here are some verses that I hope will help strengthen you.

Psalms 18:2 - The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.

Psalms 27:1 - The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

He is with you always and will never abandon you. Lean on him and he will sustain you.

Love, Claudia

Claudia <cvrom@allstate.com>
Gurnee, Il Lake - Friday, April 22, 2005 6:51 AM CDT

Vicki,

Your strength and courage makes you a hero to so many of us. I am proud to say, �Yes, that amazing woman is a friend of mine.� You are in Malcolm�s and my thoughts daily.
I look forward to when you, Iain, and the girls can come over for dinner. You are one of my favourite dinner guests ever (you make me feel like a really good chef).
Kimberly Turner
Des Plaines, IL USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 6:31 AM CDT

Hi, Vicki,
Your sister and my daughter are friends at college. I just wanted you to know we are praying for you, like thousands of others! They say nothing is stronger than the power of prayer...well, you have nothing to worry about than, because from what i can see, not only do you have prayers coming from just about every state in this country, but from several other countries as well! Be strong, Sweetie.
Kathy Regenye <mooma37@aol.com>
Plainfield, NJ - Thursday, April 21, 2005 11:47 PM CDT

Hey Vicki -
So happy to hear that Claire is doing better and you had a good day. Sarah sent me a Livestrong bracelet and I think of you often when I see it on my wrist. Your Sparklers all love you. Keep getting stronger! Lots of love, Lynne and Katie
Lynne <lynnieg@yahoo.com>
New Lenox, IL - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:45 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Claire and family, I know Colleen through a moms board and just wanted to say you are in my thoughts and prayers. Vicki I hope you are able to cuddle your new baby girl very soon and I hope the nights in the hospital aren't too long.
Victoria Hamel <yourTSconsultant@aol.com>
Hickory Hills, IL USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:38 PM CDT

Vicki and Claire,

I just wanted to let you know that you are in my families thoughts and prayers. We will keep following your story and be there whenever you need support!
Becky ~www.blessingofachild.com~ <blessingofachild@gmail.com>
Mattoon, IL - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:20 PM CDT

Vicki,

I am glad to hear that the swelling is continuing to go down and hope that you are feeling some relief from the pain. I am continuing to pray that all of your treatments go well so you can soon be home enjoying your beautiful little girls. Glad to hear that Claire is doing well! I hope you can have some mommy-daughter bonding soon!
Colleen Bergquist <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:28 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, My name is Paul and I work with your father, I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our prayers.
Paul Gallagher <sparky96@att.net>
Edison, NJ USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:00 PM CDT

Hi, Vicki. I've met you a couple of times, but I don't expect you to remember me. I'm Kristy, one of Sarah's friends from Montville. She's told me plenty of stories about you. I saw pictures of Claire, and she is beautiful. I hope that she continues to get better and stronger. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I pray that with the medical care of the physicians and the love and support of your friends and family that you will get you through this.

With Love,
Kristy
Kristy Jacobus <jacobusk@dickinson.edu>
Carlisle, PA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

Dearest Vicki,You and your beautiful family are always in my thoughts and prayers. Your Mom has told me you have an incredible network of friends and I know a family that adores their "big sister", Daughter, Wife and Mother. It seems as though you have drawn strenghth from all this love that surrounds you. You are an amazing young lady. Claire is beautiful and I know Grandma is enjoying her time with Mady. God Bless you,
Sue Biersbach <womanwithavu@aol.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 8:11 PM CDT

Vicki: We are friends of your parents from First Church in Boonton. Sara and my daughter Brenna were confirmed together. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family since this began. Your baby is beautiful. As a family we know it's hard to understand why things happen, but sometimes we have no control. Keep the fighting and we will keep praying. Denise & Ken Nickel
Denise Nickel <Denisenickel@optonline.net>
Rockaway, NJ - Thursday, April 21, 2005 6:03 PM CDT

Dear Vicki-
It's me, Judi, your dad's assistant. I can't begin to imagine your thoughts right now but how wonderful that we have a Soverign God who knows those thoughts even before we think them. We have been praying without ceasing for you and your family. We could never have flowers without the rain nor could we have mountains without the valleys - but through it all God is always with you. Your baby girl is beautiful and it seems she's a fighter like her mom. Stand faithful to God and as He keeps you in the palm of His hand, He truly will supply all your needs. God be with you Love Judi
Judi Olsen <sallyfluff@aol.com>
Whippany, NJ usa - Thursday, April 21, 2005 5:29 PM CDT

So glad to read that both Mom and baby Claire are taking little steps forward. May there be many, many more good days ahead! Good thoughts and prayers continue for your family!
Karen (FOA/RA) <staabfamily@hotmail.com>
Folsom, CA USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 4:43 PM CDT

I am not surprised to see support for Vicki, Iain, the girls and the Thoele family from so many places! Vicki is well-connected to friends from all parts of her life. Like all of you, I'm thinking good thoughts and sending my prayers. I loved meeting Maddy last fall and can't wait to meet new baby Claire.
Margo Novak
Haddam, CT US - Thursday, April 21, 2005 4:04 PM CDT

Hey girl just wanted to let you know that you are always in my thoughts. If you, the girls, or Iain need anything please let me know. Love you guys...Beth
Beth Nelson, JS03 <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Thursday, April 21, 2005 1:23 PM CDT

Hello! Clare is a beautiful little girl. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers everyday.
Beth Johnson <bjohnson87@earthlink.net>
Stillwater, NJ USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 12:57 AM CDT

vicki, I am a friend of your parents here in Lake Valhalla. In fact, my son Jesse and Sara were classmates in Montville.We are all thinking of you here and keeping you in our prayers. I saw the picture of Claire and she is gorgeous. You have a wonderful family who will provide you with tremendous support I am sure. Take care, pat zurawell
pat zurawell <pat_zurawell@adp.com>
Montville, NJ USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 12:53 AM CDT

Vicki-
You may not know me, I'm Sarah's friend Katie from Ramapo... My family and I want to extend our prayers to you and yours... If you are anything like your sister, I know you will find the strength to overcome this... You will continue to be in my thoughts.
Katie Regenye <kittiekar7@aol.com>
Mahwah, NJ 07430 - Thursday, April 21, 2005 12:41 AM CDT

Sent by a friend today -- it needs to be here...
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
Janet <janettaylor04@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL - Thursday, April 21, 2005 12:31 AM CDT

Praying for you and your family. May God's healing hand be on you and your family. I have shared your story with women here in Danville, Virginia. We are all taking you before His throne. Much love and prayers in Him, Laurie MacKenzie
Laurie MacKenzie <laurieackenzie@adelphia.net>
Danville, VA USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 11:43 AM CDT

I'm praying for you, Vicki, and for your precious baby girl and family.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:34 AM CDT

I hope that all is going well today! Vicki - I hope that you and Baby Claire are both feeling good . I'm saying prayers for you several times a day. Take care and fight, fight, fight!
Hugs to all of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:40 AM CDT

Vicki and Iain:

My brother Joe told me about this website and I decided that I must visit it. It is so wonderful to see the love and support from so many family and friends. Claire is a beautiful baby girl. Her pictures are so adorable! We preemies have to stick together, you know. On behalf of my fiancee Sue and myself, we would like to express our best wishes, hopes, and prayers for you, your family, and your new born baby girl Claire.
Don Apicella and Sue Rovegno <DSauce24@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 8:20 AM CDT

Prayers are going your way from North Carolina. I pray that each day you will get better. God Bless you through these difficult times. Just remember "God on the mountain is the same God in the Valley". Put all of your trust in him.
Helen Davis <helen_davis@ncsu.edu>
Ft. Barnwell, NC - Thursday, April 21, 2005 7:06 AM CDT

Prayers for you and your daughter coming from Sunnyvale,CA
Natasha & Tim
Sunnyvale, CA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:23 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Sandi and Jack,
Congratulations to Baby Claire on entering this world in such a fine family. Vicki, I am a friend of your parents and Sue Biersbach in NJ, and want you to know that many in Virginia are thinking of you and wishing you and your family the very best.
George Umberger <grumberger@aol.com>
Fairfax, VA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:14 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I was so sad to hear the news and hope you and your whole family are doing better. I will say many many prayers for you. I will also stay posted on your progress.
Michele Shields
Holmdel, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:45 PM CDT

Vicki, I know your Mom and Dad through Sue Biersbach. Our family has been praying for you and your family during this difficult time. Your daughter, Claire, is a beautiful gift from God. May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him,so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13
Remember how much you are loved.

Colleen Colquhoun <Irishmom1016@msn.com>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain,
We would like to join all of the other well-wishers with our thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Claire is a beautiful baby; she beat our preemie (DJ) by 4 ounces! We have enlisted friends and family to include you in their prayers, which they have done so gladly. We hope that you, Vicki, have many more good days. Iain, thank you for sharing the journal with us...we will check back to follow Vicki's and Claire's progress.

With love to the Phillips and Thoele families,

Judy and Don Apicella <marymongan@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:13 PM CDT

Our prayers are with you and your family
Mickey & Rob Johnson
Long Valley, NJ - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 7:44 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
You don't really know me but your mother is a very dear friend and so I feel I've known you for a long time. We were all getting updates on your pregnancy and looking forward to hearing about the new baby. And I am thrilled to see the pictures of baby Claire. She's a beautiful baby who I know will thrive. Now we'll just concentrate our prayers on you! All the prayer groups at my church are praying for you - along with so many others here in NJ. Looking at the picture of you and your 'meds' had me in tears because it is still a very familiar picture to me. However, I am living with a miracle and I hope and prayer you will be one too. Just take one day - or any part of the day - at a time and know that everything is in God's hands. Even if it's hard to understand, trust that He knows the best path for all of us. I'm glad you had a good day and I hope there will be many more. This is such a wonderful site for you to have and it's great to see all the support flooding in for you and your family. And tell Iain that you still have beautiful daughters, nice house, great neighbors, great friends. It's just that you have been given some extraordinary challenges. Please know that all those great neighbors and friends (old and new, near and far) are there to help to you get thru this difficult time. We are all rooting for you!!
Love, Shirlee Faehner
PS - Love to Grandma Sandi!
Shirlee Faehner <aliensbf@optonline.net>
Montville, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 7:40 PM CDT

I found your site from another message board. I am so sorry for all you are going through. It's unfortunate that at such a special time as the birth of your daughter you have to be faced with this. I am praying for you, your family, and your beautiful children!

Stacy <stacy@bsmartens.com>
cedar rapids, ia - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 6:12 PM CDT

Vicki:
You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday! We are glad to hear you had a good day.All our love.

Michelle ,Will, Johnathon and Brandon <michskor@hotmail.com>
Stittsville, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 5:04 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Congratulationsto you and your family, on the birth of your adorable daughter,Claire, she is such a sweet little thing! I hope she will soon recover from this recent infection and resume her visits with you in your room. Both of you will be good medicine for each other I bet!
I am sorry this happy occaision has been clouded by the unexpected discovery of the cancer but as a previous guest wrote, perhaps it was her way of helping it get discovered by arriving ahead of schedule!
I have added you and your family to the prayer chain at my church, Church of the Messiah ( Episcopal), Chester NJ as well as my mother's, St. Mark's Episcopal, in Columbus, Ohio. Be assured you and your family are surrounded by the hands and love of many believers all praying for your return to full health and back home to your life as a family. I know you will fight this with all you have and your family, friends and even strangers will be there beside you encouraging and holding you up all the way.
I met you only a few times when Sarah was in the playgroup with my daughter, Katie and in Indian Princesses with her father,I recall you as a very cheerful young lady who was very poised as well. God's blessing on you and I will keep thinking of you in the weeks to come.
Sue Underwood <suewholovesbirds@hotmail.com>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 4:38 PM CDT

Hi Vicky- Mandy Schaffer passed this to us. You are in our thoughts and prayers throughout this time in your life. Smile
Emilie and Tim Hall <e_zurks@hotmail.com>
Louisville, KY - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 3:49 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I learned of you and your family from a friend's mother, and am hoping that it gives you some small comfort to know others care and are praying mightily in your behalf. Congratulations on your new beautiful daughter, and may our Lord surround you and yours with His mercy,strength,and peace. Love in Christ.
Peggy Talbott <thetalbotts@mindspring.com>
Danville, VA USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 3:22 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, You are in our prayers constantly...along with little Clair, Maddy and Iain. There are many others here in Williamsburg also praying for you. We love you so much!
Love, John and Bobbie
Bobbie and John <brs@cox.net>
Williamsburg , VA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 3:01 PM CDT

Got this site from Mandy Schaffer. Will pray for the entire family. Good luck to all of you. Sheryl Harper
Sheryl Harper <sheryl.harper@nortonhealthcare.org>
Louisville, KY 40216 - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 1:24 PM CDT

Glad to hear you had a good day. Praying for years of good days for you and your family.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 11:53 AM CDT

Hi Vicki - just sitting here watching Maddy and Peyton eat Cheerios. I know that you miss being here as much as I miss you. I know in my heart there will be many more playdates to come with you, me and our girls. You are on my mind all the time. I love you!! Margie
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 11:21 AM CDT

Vicki - I'm so glad that you are feeling a little better and that Claire's bacteria seems to be gone. I hope that the two of you will be able to visit each other soon. Stay strong and keep fighting! You both seem to have what it takes! Hugs to all of you! You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Iain - thanks for the history!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 11:16 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,

My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. Keep strong and believe you are strong, healthy and cancer free. Isaiah 53:5 But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him: AND WITH HIS STRIPES WE ARE HEALED.
Kathy Keys <kathy.keys@worldnet.att.net>
Santa Ana, CA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 11:11 AM CDT

Dear Vicki & Family, I do not know you,but my close friend Joyce told me about your battle with cancer. I have been praying for you and your family. I am a 3 year cancer survivor thanks to the Lord. I know how difficult cancer is for you and your family.This verse always helped me before my chemo Mark 5:34 He said to her,"Daughter,your faith has healed you.Go in peace and be freed from your suffering."It is such a blessing to know we always have hope in the Lord.I hope you enjoy your day today.Aloha,Lisa
Lisa Camaclang <nurselisa@san.rr.com>
San Diego, CA United States - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:28 AM CDT

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bill and Paola Hoger <info@dogtraining.ca>
Oxford Station, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

I just wanted to wish you and your family the best, during this difficult and wonderful time. You, and I, have a very good friend that has informed me of your situation and I thought you should know that you are lucky to have a friend like Vinh to share this experience.
Brad Vail
Meaford, Ont Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:33 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
We are Rebecca Hassouna's aunt and uncle. We just wanted to let you know you have two more friends who are praying for you and your family. May God Bless you and your family.

Joyce & Richie Yannetta <rjyannetta@aol.com>
Bridgewater, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:31 AM CDT

Iain, your post from yesterday in the journal made me feel that I love you all guys even more. Give your beautiful girls (all three) a big hug and kiss. They are so blessed to have you to care for them. Keep it up, just let Margie know if there is anything we can do for you, we are here to help you guys anyway you need.
Sabrina (from the Sparklers group) <sabriw@yahoo.com>
Austin, TX USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:16 AM CDT

Praying for Vicki and Claire! All the best to the whole family during this time.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:21 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire - Although we have never met, through the caring of your family and those of us at First Presbyterian Church in Boonton, I am praying for your family and know that God's miracles are wonderful and total. I just look at the picture of Baby Claire and know how miracles are made. Keep strong and know you are loved - in Him,
PJ Conger & Family <pjconger@earthlink.net>
Denville, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 6:34 AM CDT

Dear Vicki, Jack, Sandi and Sarah,
We are all praying for you and so is Zion. Sometimes there are words that say it all and sometimes there aren't. This is a time when we are looking for the right things to say, but we have to leave it to the Lord to deliver what is needed. Love,
Burt, Marcia, Emily and (Meghan - at school)
Burt and Marcia Horner <b.horner27@comcast.net>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 6:07 AM CDT

Praying for Vicki and Claire in Colorado! May God bring them both total healing!

Amy Ehmann
Thornton, CO USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 11:53 PM CDT

Vicki and Iain,
I think about you and your family everyday in my thoughts and prayers. My family and I send our best wishes and all our love. Let us know if there is anything we can do. I know you and your family have the strength to get through this. Congratulations on the new addition to your wonderful family!! I'll see you soon

Joe Apicella <joea22@aol.com>
Rockaway, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:59 PM CDT

Vicki:
I heard about you from a friend on a message board. I just wanted to let you know that I am sending lots of healthy thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Renee
NY USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:45 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
It feels like just yesterday Sarah and I watched you leave for your Prom...I remember thinking how beautiful you were and how much I hoped I could be like you someday. I looked up to you so much then and I look up to you even more now. You're an inspiration and I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. All my love...
Meghan Horner <mhorner@muhlenberg.edu>
Long Valley, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:43 PM CDT

Vicki,
Hi! It's Lara... Sarah's roommate. I hope you are doing well. I was so sad to hear about everything that is going on but I am sure that your strength will get you and the rest of your family through this. If there is anything that you or your family need please please please don't hesitate to let me know! My parents also wanted me to send you their best wishes. You will be in my thoughts and prayers! Feel Better!!
Lara Jansen <cutiepye2_14@yahoo.com>
Denville, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

vicki, its judee, sarahs roommate. I hope you feel better and try to cheer up. I know you have the strength and determination to kick this in the bud. You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Judee Miller <fish62@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:31 PM CDT

Iain, even though I know Vicki well and have been aware of all that has been happening with her throughout her pregnancy, reading your post tonight brought tears to my eyes for all that your family is going through right now. You are being so brave for all of your girls right now and I am praying that you all will have your happy life back again soon. I continue to keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers! I'm glad to hear the good news on Claire and pray that it will be the first of a bunch of good news for your family!
Colleen Bergquist <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:26 PM CDT

Hey Vicki,
Even though I can't be with you right now, I want you to know that I think about you and pray for you everyday. You are the best sister anyone could ask for. Hang in there...you are so strong, and such an inspiration to me. I really look up to you. I love you sis and i'll be there soon
Sarah <sesdawg24@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:25 PM CDT

Hey Vicki! It was great talking to you, you continue to amaze me everyday. I hope you were able to get online. Keep up the fight and your great spirit!
We love you!
Rebecca & Juliana <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:02 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Little Claire,
I think about you guys constantly and am praying for you every day. Your family is so obviously truly loved by so many...take a look at this guestbook! Vicki, I really enjoyed visiting with you and meeting your Mom and friends--I look forward to visiting with you again soon. Just keep up that positive attitude that you have impressed us all with! You're awesome!

Love, Lori (and Kevin, Stephanie & Kylie too)
Lori Blake <klblake999@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:40 PM CDT

Hello. I just sent an email yesterday through the hospital, but have not visited your journal site until tonight. The picture of Claire brought tears to my eyes -- so tiny and perfect. Though she's a peanut, I'm sure sure's got a strong spirit that will fight hard through these setbacks. I'm continuing to pray for you, Claire, Iain, and Maddy -- for continued strength, courage, faith, and that you will all be reunited very soon.
Rebecca Nickel
Boonton, NJ 07005 - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 5:18 PM CDT

Hey Vicki. I wanted you to know that I was just showing Madison the picture of Claire on this website and she said, ah, little baby and kissed her picture! She even brought Daddy in to see her picture. We are thinking of you!
Katie & Madison Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 4:48 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire
I learned of your fight from my good friend Rebecca Hassouna. I am praying for you and your family as God sees you through this difficult time.
Erin Lamadrid <erinlamadrid@msn.com>
Burbank, CA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 4:04 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire,
My name is Robin Gershaw and I am a friend of your parents and Kathy and Jay's. I just wanted you to know that all of us at the 1st Presbyterian Church of Boonton, NJ are praying for you all. I saw the pictures on this site and I have to tell you that your children are beautiful. Your strong spirit will carry you through all of this. You will all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
In Jesus' name,
Robin
Robin Gershaw <rgershaw@aol.com>
Denville , NJ USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 3:47 PM CDT

Vicki,
I'm not sure if you remember me, but I'm SaraT's friend from college (I'm pretty sure we've drank wine together somewhere along the line). I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I've been down a similar road with my dad and it's so hard, but you have wonderful friends and family to see you through this. Stay strong!
Kathy Martensen <kjswenson@hotmail.com>
Jewell, IA USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 1:55 PM CDT

Vicki,

Thanks to you for looking after Margie when she left Texas! We have heard many wonderful things about you since her move. I have also seen the pictures of your beautiful daughter on Payton's website. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Hang in there and keep fighting!

Tiffany Barclay <tabarclay@pier1.com>
Fort Worth, TX - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:56 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I'm glad I got to speak with you the other day and I'm planning a trip next Friday (the 29th) to see you. I just want to echo the sentiments of the hundreds of emailers before me. We're all praying for you, sending you our most positive thoughts. The photos are great and Claire is just adorable! I can't wait to see you!
Love,
Adam, Rachel, and Kyle
Adam Handler <ahandler@advancedmdc.com>
Burlington, NJ USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:19 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! Just checking in and letting you know that I'm thinking of you and your family. I heard about you through Babycenter and the Friends of Allie/Raise Awareness site. I signed your guestbook yesterday, but since then, I've discovered that I live in the same town as Beth! We've shared a couple of e-mails and now I feel a little closer to you and your family, even though I don't actually know you. I hope that you're feeling better and that your swelling is going down. I hope that Baby Claire is doing okay and that her culture results come back with no sign of meningitis. I will pray for you, Claire, Iain and Maddy (and the rest of your family) often. Hugs to all of you. Take care and remain strong!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend , IN - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:58 AM CDT

Theresa told me about your situation and I just wanted you to know I said a prayer for you and your daughter last night...I'll say one every night hoping you two will be home soon. God Bless.
Emily Duncan
Chicago, IL United States - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:30 AM CDT

My friend Stacy told me about you and I send you my best wishes...

Andrea <to_wonda@yahoo.com>
Frankfurt, Germany - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 2:11 AM CDT

Vicki, I've heard so many great things about you from Margie. Just want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay postive and keep fighting! You can do it!!!!
Brandon Moore <bmoore013@yahoo.com>
Los Angeles, CA United States - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 0:01 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and your family. I don't know you but through my wonderful friend Barb who is Rebecca Houssan's Mom. I want you to know, you and yours are in my prayers and I understand the battle you and your family face. My daughter was diagnosed with Hogkins Lymphoma almost four years ago while pregnant with her second child. The battle was tuff but not as tuff as her and all those who loved her. The prayers and love of so many helped pull her through. Today she is healthy and in remission as is her little boy who was deliver premature because of necessary treatments. I pray for your health and well being. Keep the faith and love in your heart.
Sharon L. Girvan
Raritan, NJ USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:13 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep that fighting, positive spirit!
Heather, Tony and Marcus <tonyandheather@charter.net>
Janesville, WI - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:53 PM CDT

Vicki and Family!
I am amazed by the outpouring of love for you and your family. While I do not know you, Margie has kept me up to date on your condition. I have been praying for you and your entire family since this journey began. Your strength, courage, and grace are most admirable. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Amy Jorgenson <jorgenson4@hotmail.com>
Grayslake, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:35 PM CDT

May God pour out His richest blessings upon you as He uses even the worst moments of our lives to remind us or others of His Miracles and Mysteries............ Love and most of all peace to you my brothers and sisters in Christ
leslie esarey <lesarey@yahoo.com>
winchester, ky us - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! A BIG HUG to you, Iain, Maddy, and Claire! My thoughts and prayers are with you. You inner STRENGTH combined with all of this LOVE and JOY is a tremendous POWER. And you are a TREMENDOUS WOMAN! Maybe we should restart our 1998 Chicago Book Club using IM and make our own coffee? We're all in soooo many different places now!

XOXO,
Laurie ('98 Chicago Book Club member and "recommender" of the somewhat unpopular Anais Nin journal....;-)
Laurie Blanton <laurie@dcaccess.net>
Washington, DC - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:09 PM CDT

Thinking of you and your family. I am Mandy Schaffer's sister in law and she speaks of you often. God be with you and your family.
Laura Schaffer <lms27_97@yahoo.com>
Louisville, ky united states - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:03 PM CDT

What a beautiful little girl and what a fighter she is well look at you her mother. So strong! So amazaing! She has you in her for sure! Take care of yourself and know that you and your familly are in my thoughts and prayers

Ellie <ellie_bellie99@hotmail.com>
Encinitas, Ca - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:51 PM CDT

I HAVE HEARD YOUR STORY THROUGH A FRIEND AND I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS. PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. SINCERELY FRANCINE:)
FRANCINE <KIAH0517@HOTMAIL.COM>
MILWAUKEE, WI - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:46 PM CDT

Hi Vicki You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Bay <texasbays@yahoo.com>
Austin, TX 78749 - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

I am thinking of you and your family during this time!! Your kiddos are beautiful!! :)

LIVEstrong!
Angie Gyger <angieg721@cs.com>
Gainesville, FL - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:14 PM CDT

I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Best wishes for a very speedy recovery.

Kaitlyn and Family.

Kaitlyn
ME usa - Monday, April 18, 2005 7:36 PM CDT

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kali Pantalone
Austin, TX 78749 - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:57 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire -
I received news of your circumstances via email from a friend of a friend of a friend. All who care very much for you and your family. Congrats on your newest addition. Claire is such a tiny cutie pie. You will be in my prayers and being added to prayer chains by the bunches... Stay positive, one day at a time, one foot in front of the other and you'll come out on the bright side of this "bump in the road".
Lois L
Muskego, WI USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:08 PM CDT

Vicki,
You, Iain and the girls are in my thougts and prayers. Your positive attitude and strong will are remarkable. Stay strong and keep fighting.

Love,
Niki
Niki Fox <lzfox@sbcglobal.net>
Lake Zurich, IL 60047 - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:03 PM CDT

i have never even spoke to you, but you are in my thoughts as you face this journey. know that you are not alone, and there are many of us, even those you do not know- who are sending you our warmest loving energies to get through this. your daughter is perfect!! you are a wonderful person. you will beat this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mickey
nm usa - Monday, April 18, 2005 5:56 PM CDT

Hi Vicky,

I'm sending LOTS and LOTS of love and positive energy your way every day. Baby Claire is so adorable. Congratulations!! I hope you both get well very soon.

All my love,
Heather
Heather Cook <hcook7868@yahoo.com>
Chatham, NJ USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 5:43 PM CDT

Hey Vicki,
Thought I would add something in here. I'm not much of a praying type myself so I've outsourced it to my grandparents who are really REALLY into it. - The have their whole church rooting for you. (Not that there is any shortage of people praying for you :-)) Anyway, my grandfather's story is, I think, highly relevant to your situation. Back in the early 80's when the drugs weren't as effective and not as much was known about cancer my grandfather was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. (I had always thought it was liver cancer because my parents told me he had a huge liver tumour but having just talked with him about you he told me it was colon cancer that had spread to his liver.) Anyway, my point is that the doc's gave him less than a year without chemo, and 3-5 years with chemo. He went without chemo (not that I would advocate that) and prayed the whole time. He's convinced that a small miracle happened for him. I'm convinced that you don't have to accept any odds given to you because they are only odds. I just wanted you to know that your exact situation is surmountable. (of course, my grandfather didn't just give birth but you get my jist.) I'll give you his number if you want to talk with him.

Malcolm
Malcolm <spamcollector1@hotmail.com>
Des Plaines, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 3:49 PM CDT

I read your story today. It was passed on from a friend of a friend. I will put you on my prayer list. I know that our God is a healer and does miracles. 3 times I was told I had cancer, 3 times I survived, healed. With my last child I had cancer of the cervex when I found out I was pregnant and they told me I would lose him but he is now 29, a chef in New Orleans. God if faithful. I could list a dozen miracles in our family. I know God still hears the cries of His people.
Mary L. Viehland
MIlwaukee, WI USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 3:49 PM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. I have given your name to my United Methodist Women Circle at church for prayers. Your courage is an inspiration.
Jenny, Joe, and Noah Peters <jennypeters@hotmail.com>
Bolingbrook, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 3:41 PM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you, please stay strong. God bless you and your family.
Bob
Youngstown, OH USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 3:04 PM CDT

Hello Vickie. I am a close friend of Margie Lea and all I can say is that with her by your side YOU CAN'T GO WRONG!! Your new baby daughter is just precious and I've heard many stories about your older daughter and Peyton on their playdates. I already have you in my prayers where you will stay.
Maureen Pittman <acqfy@allstate.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:49 PM CDT

Vicki - Although it is often hard to understand, we are all part of a bigger plan. Keep up the fight!!
Kim Kunz <leonkunz@yahoo.com>
Smithville, TX USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:40 PM CDT

Hey Vicki, The amount of people signing in to this guestbook is incredible! I spent a long time trying to read all the notes and then I realized I was only half way through. I should probably just say ditto to what everyone else said, but I can't help but say more. You and your family are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. So glad we made it out for a visit yesterday. It was good to meet Iain. Maybe next time I can meet Claire. The photo is beautiful of you two. Tell Iain that we have the lawn mowing covered. And fertilizing. And we thought we should check in with your Mom to see if she wants to do some sort of playdates for Maddy. Don't hesitate to tell us what we can do for you or the fam. Lots of love to you.
Heather Bond <heather.bond@harrisbank.com>
Fox River Grove, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:38 PM CDT

From one Babycenter mom to another, I wish you the best. Your family is beautiful. I know that just looking at those precious faces gives will give you the strength you will need to fight.
Stacey <sweckwerth@charter.net>
- Monday, April 18, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, This is one of my favorite Bible verses. May it be an encouragement to you and your family. God Bless.

Isaiah 43:1-3 Fear not: for I have redeemed you, I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they will not overcome you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; neither will a flame spark on you. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.
Shelly Tolo <toloevents@aol.com>
Seattle, WA - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Sending you healing thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your beautiful daughter.
Judy Lambert http://www.katieeliselambert.com <swtflwr66@aol.com >
Jenkintown, PA - Monday, April 18, 2005 1:52 PM CDT

I too just "met" you through a babycenter friend. I will keep you and your beautiful baby in my thoughts. Please know that even people who've never met you are rooting for you. You CAN do this!!!

Libby Palomeque <libby@bayisle.com>
Alameda, CA 94501 - Monday, April 18, 2005 1:48 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,

I unfortunately don't know you, but I heard of your fight from one of my friends on Babycenter. I send you love, and strength, and keep you and your family in my thoughts. Keep fighting, and keep that beautiful smile on your face. The world is full of people pulling for you.

Christine Rogers
Modesto, CA USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 1:30 PM CDT

Vicki

Fight, Fight, Fight with all of your might!

God will be your strength in time of need!

Sincerely,

E.J.
Elaine <threebrazilnuts@hotmail.com>
Surrey, BC Canada - Monday, April 18, 2005 1:14 PM CDT

Dear Iain and Vicki. My wife and I are a friend of Theresa Rattenbury. I was truly moved by your website and we are going to keep you in our prayers. You have a beautiful family ... especially your newest addition. We'll pray that you feel the presence of God each and every day and that his mercy and love lift you. Bless you all
Dwight Stickrod <DSTICKROD@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 12:57 AM CDT

Vicki, m'dear -- You & Iain are my inspiration! This amazing community here knocks me out. I have gathered a group of new moms to send you & Claire healing energy and love. See you soon, hugs to Maddy & the grandparents.
Janet Taylor <janettaylor04@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL - Monday, April 18, 2005 12:41 AM CDT

Hi Vickie
I am a friend of Theresa Rattenbury. She had just wrote to us about you. I am so happy you have such a great positive outlook, and because of this I know you will do great. My prayers are with you and your family during this waiting period. I pray for both your recoveries. May blessing come upon you and Claire to bring you both to good health.
Sincerely,
Mary Binicewicz <binicma2003@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 12:36 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time. Baby Claire is just beautiful. I just wanted you to know that your friends are always there for you. Love,Christine
Christine Durante <cmd530@comcast.net>
Delran, NJ USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 12:23 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

Just heard about you from your wonderful support group at MSN. I'm praying for you, your beautiful new baby girl, and the rest of your family.
Jacquelyn <jacqmills@sbcglobal.net>
Sacramento, CA - Monday, April 18, 2005 11:36 AM CDT

You are in our prayers and thoughts
Sandy and Gordon Iversen
- Monday, April 18, 2005 11:29 AM CDT

Vicki, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You are an amazing, strong woman. I will be sending good energy from across the miles. Stay positive...fight beautiful girl...fight!!!!

Love,
Kelly
xoxoxo
Kelly Christopher <kellyachristopher@yahoo.com>
Newport Beach, CA USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 11:19 AM CDT

Vicki,
Allie and my thoughts and prayers go out ot you and little Claire. It is not fair that you both should have to go through this. However after speaking with you the other day, you seemed so upbeat and happy that I have no doubts you will beat this. Keep your thoughts positive and please let us know if there is anything that we can do.

Love Barry and Alison
Barry Graham <barryjgraham@hotmail.com>
Ottawa, On Canada - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:23 AM CDT

Keep being so positive and you'll see honey, everythings going to be ok...I'm praying for you and your beautiful family!
Melissa <melyca_s24@hotmail.com>
Canada - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:08 AM CDT

Many prayers are being said, and hugs are being sent your way.

Leslie
Kyle, Jack and Cecilia
Leslie <ohcecilia228@gmail.com>
Harleysvile, PA - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

Vickie, What a beautiful gift God has given you. I am praying for you and will bring your name up at our prayer group. Keep your eyes upon the Lord and He will never leave you.
Karen Stippich <karen.stippich@cobbk12.org>
Marietta, GA USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:06 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy & Claire -

Please know that I think and pray for you all often. Vicki, you are a true model for how positive thinking and attitude will get us through the tough times. Please know that you are not alone, and that more, now than ever, to lean on us, your family and friends when you need us. I look forward to the day when we get to look back and say "I beat it!"...of course, while drinking a glass of wine!! Love you all tons. I'll be up to see you again this week.
Sara Thilges <sthilges@fieldglass.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:03 AM CDT

Many prayers for you and your family! Stay strong girls, as my five year old would say 'GIRL POWER'!!! :-) Thinking of you and wishing you and your family the best!

Michele (Friends Of Allie , Tucson AZ) <michele_l_putnam@raytheon.com>
Tucson, AZ - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:02 AM CDT

Vicki and Iain,

I'm Sara's sister, Michelle. We went out for dinner one time when I came to Chicago....I'm the crazy runner sister. I believe in the power of prayer...I have a special novena...The Novena to St. Therese the Little Flower...that I will be offering up for you and for the girls. It's a series of prayers for 10 days...and on the 11th day, you will see a rose or roses. So, I'll start the Novena today, so on the 28th, be watching for roses. I was reading through some of the entries...you guys are so loved...what a wonderful gift that is!
Michelle Thilges <michelle_thilges@cargill.com>
- Monday, April 18, 2005 9:34 AM CDT

What an incredible group you are. Hugs and prayers for both Vicki and little Claire.
Lois (FOA/RA)
NJ - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:28 AM CDT

Please know that we are praying for your family.
Angela(FOA/RA)- -HEATHER GRACE

<angembal@yahoo.com>
Natick, MA - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:24 AM CDT

Your Family will be in my prayers.
Elisabeth ~FoA/RA~
Houston, TX USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:16 AM CDT

Vicki, Iain, Maddy and Claire,
Thank you for creating this website as I've been keeping posted via Sara for some time now. Claire is absolutely beautiful, and I'm certain Maddy will be a wonderful big sister. Stay strong, and please let me know if you need anything from me - I live only a few blocks away and my house is open if anyone needs a place to sleep; just reach out to me and my doors will be open.
Deanna Freise <dfreise@fieldglass.com>
Evanston, IL - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:15 AM CDT

Wow! who needs family when you have this much love and support from friends and colleagues? Truly inspirational. As always Vicki, keep your spirits up, you and you alone have the power to fight this. The proof of your gift here on earth is reflected in all these beautiful words written to you by those that love you.
Mhairi Phillips <mhairi@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:14 AM CDT

Iain and Vicki, this is such a great idea! Thanks for the updates on both Vicki and Claire. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Theresa Rattenbury <theresa.rattenbury@ey.com>
Chicago, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:02 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain - You and your family are in our prayers daily and on our minds a lot. If there is anything that we can do to help out, let us know. Malcolm forwarded the e-mail to me. The picture of Vicki and Claire is beautiful. You are in our hearts.
Anita and Jim Oas
Anita Oas
Park Ridge, IL US - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:51 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! I just found your site through the Friends of Allie board. You sound like an incredible woman and I'm sure that you'll win this battle. I hope that you are feeling well. You and your beautiful baby Claire are in my thoughts and prayers, along with Iain and Maddy. I hope that Claire gets rid of her infection and that she will be well enough for you and her daddy to be able to hold her all the time. I hope that your swelling goes down and that the pain goes away. Keep fighting! Big hugs to all of you!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:50 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, My name is Sue and I am a friend of Rebecca Hassouna's. She told us of your story and know that you will be in our prayers along with your sweet new little one. The picture of you two on the website is beautiful and full of joy. I hope you can focus on that when things get especially tough. I wish you the hope, joy and blessings of the universe, Sue Koeneman
Sue Koeneman <suekoeneman@hotmail.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:04 AM CDT

God will not forget you, he's carved you in the palm of his hand! Keep the faith, we are praying for you and your family.
Mary Minard
Morgantown, WV USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

Vicki: You, Iain, Maddy & Claire are always in our prayers and thoughts! May the Lord be your strength in this fight!
Felicia
Vernon Hills, IL USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 7:46 AM CDT

Vicki, You look soooo happy in the picture holding that beautiful treasure from God. You have a great Family , but most of all YOU are great. Cant wait to see you and meet little claire. Have a good day and you ARE an inspiration to all of us. Remember "FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS FOREVER" Love you, Lisa and Rich and Richie and Gracie.
Lisa Gaskill <lrbambi@optonline.net>
Hamilton, NJ 08690 - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:49 AM CDT

Vicki - I am quite impressed at the outpouring from this website - it just goes to show what a great person you must be!!! Keep getting better, Iain, Maddy and Claire need you!!! Never mind all of your friends. We love you, and will see you soon - Lisa, Mike, Allison and Nick
Lisa Leiva <LisaLeiva1@aol.com>
Paramus, NJ USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:39 AM CDT

Hi I found you via Friends of Allie. Praying good wishes for you and your baby Claire. She's a beauty. But I might be partial....I am a Claire! You look like such a beautiful mother and wife. I'll pray for complete cure from cancer.
Claire <clairehand@conwaycorp.net>
conway, ar - Sunday, April 17, 2005 11:36 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
I am a friend of Melonie Behrens'. She sent an email out letting us know the challenges you and your sweet little one are going through. You are in our prayers, and in our hearts. Take care...
Michele George <jmgeorge@earthlink.net>
Houston, TX - Sunday, April 17, 2005 10:11 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. I can't wait to see you on Friday. Our plan is to kidnap you and take you for ice cream!!
All our love,
Kris, Bill, Jess, and Zack
Kris Peterson <petey2455@yahoo.com>
Hampton, NJ USA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 10:06 PM CDT

Vicki,

I enjoyed out visit today and am glad to see you are in good spirits despite all that is happening with you. My prayers continue to be with you, Iain, Maddy, and Claire. Keep fighting and know that there are a lot of us praying for you and your family!
Colleen Bergquist <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL` 60194 - Sunday, April 17, 2005 9:50 PM CDT

Vicki - your little angel needs you - she is so tiny & adoreable! You are glowing holding her! Our prayers are with both of you. Hang in there Vicki - Prayer is very powerful. Our best to your family as well.

Debi Agostino <AgostinoAutoSvc@aol.com>
Scottsdale, AZ Maricopa - Sunday, April 17, 2005 9:31 PM CDT

Vicki, I enjoyed our "playgroup" visit today...your husband is wonderful and Claire is beautiful. I really admire your attitude and courage. All of you will continue to be in my prayers and we will be doing whatever we can to help you and your family. God bless, and see you SOON! :)
Nancy
- Sunday, April 17, 2005 9:13 PM CDT

Fight Girls, Fight! The strength of many prayers are behind you.
Jonnie Joseph <jonniejoseph@comcast.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 9:08 PM CDT

Sending you best wishes and prayers for strength and good health.
B. Marques <b@marques42.org>
Oxford, England - Sunday, April 17, 2005 8:24 PM CDT

I am a friend of Margie's and want to wish you all the best. Congratulations to you and your family on the safe arrival of Claire. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Georgia
Keller, TX - Sunday, April 17, 2005 2:42 PM CDT

Happy Sunday Vicki!
John Mark, McKenzie and I went to Disney this weekend for JM's birthday. They enjoyed the parks while I was hung up all day Saturday in the hotel with a horrible flu bug. I have to tell you that as I lay in bed all I could think about was you. I didn't think about my family at the park and what they were doing...I thought about you. I hope you are feeling well and that the effects of the chemo haven't made you too sick. You're constantly on our minds. We sent a little something to your hosptial room yesterday for you and your family - I hope you like it.
Amber Todd
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 2:00 PM CDT

Hello Dear Vicki -
Just thinking of you here in Dallas and saying a prayer for you! All my very best!!
Lisa <loumicsmom@comcast.net>
Dallas, TX USA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 11:23 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, your new daughter is an absolute Doll. I hear you're a very strong woman so I know you will get through this hurdle and will soon be home with your Husband and your two adorable girls. Stay Strong. I'm sending many positive thoughts your way. xx

Yvonne "FOA/RA" and mummy to Rachael & Emily <yvonne.nicholson@xtra.co.nz>
Auckland, New Zealand - Sunday, April 17, 2005 4:00 AM CDT

Dearest Vicki!

Please, ohhhhhhhhhhhhh please considering taking barleymax from www.barleymax.com! It did wonders and blessings for our daughter during her chemo protocol!!!!!!!!! Chemo = inflammation and barley max reversed that side effect of chemo! It truly was a Godsend for us and for our daughter! We had it running through her NG tube 24/7!!!! It absorbs instantly!!! I could go on and on! We used it faithfully, and many other patients were started on this blessed food!

God bless you through this journey!

Sincerely,

Mother to Angel Trinity, Elaine

www.trinitysdiary.com

Bye for now!
Elaine <angelsmom@shaw.ca>
Surrey, BC Canada - Sunday, April 17, 2005 1:26 AM CDT

Dear Vicki and Iain: What joy it brought to all of us to finally see a picture of Mommy, absolutely glowing, with baby Claire! You have another beautiful daughter to cherish. You are both always in my thoughts and prayers. Alex sends kisses, too. Please excuse the drool. He's teething!

Love,
Ann & Alex (July Sparklers)
Ann Thompson-Courchene
Canada - Saturday, April 16, 2005 11:20 PM CDT

Hello Vicki, I am Rebecca Hassouna's cousin from Gilbert, AZ. I have been looking at all the entries to your guestbook, and am just overwhelmed with all the support and good wishes people have to give. I honestly hope that reading these e-mails will boost your spirits, and that you know that with so many people rooting for you, you will be fine. I wish you well~
Stacey Hogan <stacey.hogan@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 10:50 PM CDT

Vicky... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep the faith. Miracles do happen...you have 2 beautifuls ones to prove it.

Bekki <r.reiser@worldnet.att.net>
Glenshaw, PA USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 10:34 PM CDT

Hey Vicki!! Just wanted you to know that I've had you on my mind today! I also wanted to tell you a sweet story. Sydney is now sleeping in her big girl bed. When we started the transition we started saying our prayers before we tucked her in. Well tonight she is spending the night with my parents. When I went to tuck her in, because she wasn't in "her" bed, I didn't even think about prayers. She cried when we laid her down. Then it dawned on me...Oh Sydney you want to say your prayers? She said "yeah!" So we did. We say the "Now I lay me down to sleep" prayer and at the end we say God Bless...mommy, daddy, Hustler, Harry and me. God Bless everybody I love. Especially Molly's daddy and Maddy's mommy. AMEN. We tried saying Vicki the other night and she just looked at me like...who's that? So I said...you know Maddy's mommy? And she totally knew who I was talking about. It was quite a sweet moment! Hope you are having a good day! Love, Amanda
Amanda Schaffer <mandyschaffer2@yahoo.com>
Louisville, KY - Saturday, April 16, 2005 9:29 PM CDT

May God grant you strength and courage and peace. Hope you are feeling better soon. I am Margie's mother-in-law and will ask people in my church to pray for you.
Linda Hudgens <lindajhudgens@sbcglobal.net>
Lubbock, TX USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 7:43 PM CDT

Hi there. What a beautiful little girl Claire is. I saw your site on the R/A message board and wanted to tell you that I am thinking about you Vicki, Lain, and Crew.
LIVESTRONG!
Suzy
Rebeccas site
Tanner Laughs!
Suzy Yanez <tanlaughs1@aol.com>
Grand Terrace, Ca - Saturday, April 16, 2005 6:01 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I am one of Margie Lea's buddies from down south. I am almost embarrassed to tell you my name as I know she has more than likely told a few stories on me.
My name is Kerry and I feel like I have known you for a long time....Margie has filled me in on how important your friendship has been to her plus kept me posted on the playdays that have been so precious to Peyton and her best friend Maddy - I knew a serious friendship was forming between the two toddlers when I saw that Maddy had made the Lea's Webshot album more than once.
Vicki I am thinking of you, Iain, Maddy & Claire and sending warm wishes, thoughts, prayers and hope your way as you go through this very difficult challenge. I will stay in touch and look forward to meeting you when I come to visit Margie this summer/fall.
Kerry Jacobs <kjacob@acxiom.com>
Conway, AR USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 5:50 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I am friends with Rebecca Hassouna, our daughters are friends and we also work together here in Pittsburgh. Congratulations on your new baby! Wishing you all the best and we'll be thinking of you. Keep positive, be knowledgable, believe in yourself and voice what you know you need! Livestrong!
Sara Hendrick <sara_hendrick@conferencedirect.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 10:49 AM CDT

Vicki,
I am friends with Amber and John Mark and want you to know that I am praying for you and your husband.
God is able to do all things! Mark 9:23
Russ
Russ Harper
Ocala, FL USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 8:06 AM CDT

Vicki, it is Susan from July Sparklers. I haven't been there in a while, but when I heard what was going on I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and your family. Only you could pry me out of hiding! Jameson and I are sending hugs and kisses to you and your girls.
Love,
Susan and Jameson
Susan <nursesusanb@aol.com>
Lambertville, NJ - Saturday, April 16, 2005 7:27 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I am a friend of Rebecca's Mom. We grew up together and we are still good friends. I can see by all the good wishes you receive that you have so many good friends and a wonderful family that love you. All the love from everyone will hold you closely and give you strength to feel better. I took a walk with Rebecca's Mom, Barbara, the other day and she told me about the wonderful circle of friends you have and how special you are to Rebecca. I will pray for your recovery and keep you and your family in my heart. Congratulations on your new baby, how beautiful!! A Jersey Girl, Jill Zabowski
Jill Zabowski <Jillz50@aol.com>
Washington, NJ USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 7:18 AM CDT

Hi Vicki! Looking at these entries proves what I've known for 2 years now....You're a wonderful woman! I'm privileged to call you my friend. Stay strong. Love,Beth
Beth Nelson---Sparklers <bbethieboop@comcast.net >
South Bend , IN - Saturday, April 16, 2005 0:17 AM CDT

Hi Vicki. I work for Frank Agostino's wife, Cathy. She told me about your illness and I have been thinking about you for a while. You are in such a great spot with the love and support of all your family, friends and the joy of that beatiful daughter, Claire. I will say my St. Jude prayers for you and know that you will be strong and successful in your fight. God Bless You
Marilyn W. Johnson RN <marilynwjohnson@msn.com>
Phoenix, Az USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:57 PM CDT

Vicki- My name is April and I am a friend of Mandy Schaffer. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. It's obvious that both you and your new baby are very strong!! I pray for good news about the both of you!
april atwood <aprildatwood@yahoo.com>
bowling green, ky - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:52 PM CDT

Vicki~Rebecca from your Sparklers group posted this site. You have so many wonderful friends, family and complete strangers praying for you and your family. You will have the strength to get through this. Congratulations on your new baby girl. You and your family are in my prayers. Keep the faith!
Jodi <olsonj75@aol.com>
Winona, MN USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:27 PM CDT

Hello! Congratulations on your new baby girl. I am new to your story, but will be following your progress and sending my prayers your way. I am from Illinois as well, so if I can ever help out, please let me know.
Becky ~www.blessingofachild.com~ <guymon@consolidated.net>
Mattoon, IL - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:14 PM CDT

Dear Vicki, My name is Katie and I learned about you and your website from Cathy here where I live in Gilbert, AZ. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your new baby and your whole family.
Katie
- Friday, April 15, 2005 9:12 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I am Rebecca's friend and neighbor -- and a new mom to a 5 month old baby boy -- and I am so inspired by your strength! I've heard so much about the special friendship among the July Sparklers! You, your husband, and those beautiful girls are in my prayers daily. Remember, positive thinking -- it works!!
Sending you love from Pittsburgh!!
Renee <rgebben@aol.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:12 PM CDT

Vicki - Madison and I walked a lap at the Relay for Life tonight for you...well actually, Madison ran and I chased. But, we did it! I am going to find out a good time to call you this weekend and check in on you!
Katie Murphy <kmurphy29@tampabay.rr.com>
Winter Haven, FL 33880 - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:02 PM CDT

Vicki-
I just learned of your site today. I will keep you in my thoughts everyday. Congrats on your bundle of joy.
Allie From FoA <r3lads@gmail.com>
CT - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:50 PM CDT

Vicki,
Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful baby girl! I learned of your story through Mandy Schaffer, and want you to know, you and your family are in my thoughts and every prayer.

God Bless,
Julie Vowels
julie_vowels@yahoo.com <julie_vowels@yahoo.com>
Louisville, Ky - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:05 PM CDT

I just found your site today. You are in my prayers.
Tina & Lance <lneonkia@comcast.net>
- Friday, April 15, 2005 6:48 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep on fighting it will be worth it. You seem like such a sweet and loving Mother. Just don't forget, that you too can yell!!!!! Keep a stiff upper lip.
Donna <dmobisson@yahoo.com>
Chandler, AZ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 6:26 PM CDT

Dear Vicki,
Just like Margie before she moved to IL, even though I've never met you in person, I just know we would get along great. Margie is so funny and such a spitfire that I know when she tells me what a warm, wonderful person you are, that is the truth. You and I have another thing in common in that we are both moms of new baby girls. Your girls are just beautiful, and I hope they both inherited your gorgeous smile!
I will be sending you warm thoughts and heartfelt prayers from North Carolina. As moms and women we know that we have more strength than we could ever have realized, and I know you are calling on yours right now. I am terribly sorry for everything you are going through, and I do wish you all the very best. I can't imagine what a shock it must be, and I am so glad to hear you have friends and family who support and love you so much. Thank you for allowing us to know your story and let you know we're out here praying for you.
Linda Wall <ls_aw@hotmail.com>
Pinehurst, NC USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 5:08 PM CDT

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours during this trying time.
Angie <wheelingmomof4@yahoo.com>
Tucson, AZ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 5:02 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I am a friend of Mandy's and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We are expecting our first baby in July and we are excited. Your baby is beautiful and we wish you and your family the best of luck. You will be in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Lisa Bourgeois <bourge_l@bellsouth.net>
Mandeville, LA 70448 - Friday, April 15, 2005 4:56 PM CDT

Vicki, sending and thinking positive thoughts from Palm Springs, CA!! Your girls are amazing and I cannot wait to meet you soon!

Love,

Jodi and Emma
Jodi Graham ( July Sparklers 2003) <drivengolf@aol.com>
Palm Springs, CA - Friday, April 15, 2005 4:44 PM CDT

I am a friend of Stacy's and she told me your story. I figure you can't have too many people sending you positive energy. This is a rough journey you are traveling. I can't imagine the thoughts and emotions you must experience, the joys of a new daughter, the pain of a devastating illness, and the uncertainties that life deals us. I don't know you but want you to know that there are many out that are thinking of you and your family, that will tell others you don't know, and we all will hug our children more, fight with our husbands less, and ignore the dishes to sit on the floor to read a story to our toddler, because we won't dare take what we have for granted. For that I thank you, and pray that you will be home soon, to read those stories to your two wonderful girls.
Ginger Swasey <earthmaia@yahoo.com>
Forestport, NY USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 4:03 PM CDT

Dear Vicki:

I am a friend of Rebecca Hassouna's. I have been blessed enough to have the Hassouna Family in my life the last couple of years. You will be in my prayers along with your family. May God bless you. Vera
Vera Purcell <verapurcel@aol.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:45 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! I'm so glad Beth set up this website. There are so many people thinking of you & your family. I know you are going through so much right now. Your positive attitude & strength are an inspiration to us all. I came across this verse in scripture today and thought it was very appropriate. "Without God, it is utterly impossible. But with God everything is possible." Mark 10:27 We all know you & Claire will get through these difficult times. You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. Love, Andrea
PS - Steven sends a big hug to Maddy & Claire!!
Andrea Thompson (Sparkler)
Epping, NH USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:42 PM CDT

Vicki - I am a friend of Stacy (Middlesex, NJ). You and your family will be in our prayers. Tonight before bed time my two year old will say - bless you Vicki, bless you Claire. Stay positive and continue to laugh!
Alicia <alicialordi@comcast.net>
Clark, NJ - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:22 PM CDT

Vicki - I'm a friend of Margie's and wanted to pass along some love and happy thoughts. We pray for you and your family and are inspired by your strength and courage. A special hug for Baby Claire...she is absolutely beautiful.
Ann G.
Grayslake, IL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:06 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I am a friend of Stu & Stacy Williams and wanted to drop by and let you know that many people are praying for you and your family! Keep smiling and know that you are loved.

Jessica :)
Jessica <jessalynn37@yahoo.com>
Edison, NJ 08817 - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:19 PM CDT

Vicki,
I found your site through the Raise Awareness site. Your daughters are absolutely beautiful and I am sure they will give you the strength to fight this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Amy (RA/FOA) <hskrfans04@cox.net>
NE - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:16 PM CDT

Hi I am friend of Stacy's, she sent me this link, and I wanted to come on here and tell you I was thinking of you and your beautiful family. Stay strong and positive and I will keep praying and wishing nothing but the best for you, your husband and your precious girls.

With love and best,

Liz Larsen
Liz <CHEEKY25@aol.com>
Hillsborough, nj usa - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:10 PM CDT

Thinking of you and your beautiful family. You are so strong, Vicki - such an inspiration.
Amy
T.O., CA US - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:07 PM CDT

Great news for baby Claire! She is beautiful!! I love the pic of her on the homepage... adorable! I am praying your pneumonia that it will go away quickly. I hope and pray that the chemo doesnt make you sick and that you are CURED quickly! God Bless, and take care.
Emily (RA/FOA)
NN, VA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:06 PM CDT

My thoughts are with you and your family.
Sydney <mctucson@yahoo.com>
Tucson, az - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:04 PM CDT

VICKI YOU MUST BE SUCH A STRONG PERSON TO KEEP SO POSITIVE THROUGHOUT ALL OF THIS. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS
KATIE <KATIER106@YAHOO.COM>
- Friday, April 15, 2005 2:03 PM CDT

Vickie, My name is Lesle; I am a friend of Mandy Schaffer's. You do not know me, but please know that you are in our family's thought and prayers during this difficult and trying time in your life. Hold those two angels from GOD close to your heart - happiness and love are the best medicine!
Leslie Scherer <ljscherer@hotmail.com>
Louisville, KY USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 2:02 PM CDT

Vicki, you and your family will be in my families prayers. You have a gorgoues family. My thoughs and prayers are with you.

Dolores (IL Friends Of Aliie) <mdomurphy@sbcglobal.net>
Naperville, IL - Friday, April 15, 2005 1:49 PM CDT

thoughts and prayers from another Long islander!!!! The baby is beautiful. Keep up those positive thoughts. They work!!

hugs
haley <haleymo@aol.com>
- Friday, April 15, 2005 1:39 PM CDT

Sending some more prayers and good thoughts from Long Island, NY!! I heard about your site from the Friends of Allie site, and I will continute to pray that you do GREAT with your treatment!! Your family is just gorgeous!!! Hang in there!!!
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
North Bellmore, NY 11710 - Friday, April 15, 2005 1:34 PM CDT

I am a friend of Rebecca's mom and I'm adding my prayers and thoughts to this wonderful list of caring people. Your baby is beautiful. Your pretty smile is full of love and courage. May everything turn out well for you and your family.

Denise Berwald
Denise Berwald <Prin624@aol.com>
, - Friday, April 15, 2005 1:15 PM CDT

Hi! My name is Jennifer Bennett. I learned of your website from my very good friend Amanda Schaffer. My heart goes out to you and your family. You all are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Congradulations on that beautiful baby girl! Love, Jennifer
Jennifer Bennett <jenilynne23@hotmail.com>
Newport Beach, CA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 1:12 PM CDT

Vicki,
We are praying for you and your beautiful family. Fondly, Kathy & Bob
Kathy & Bob Mondrone <beetletrav@aol.com>
Ocala, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 1:06 PM CDT

Dear Vickie,

I am thinking of you and your family. You will be in my prayers as you are going through this most difficult time. May God bless you and your precious girls.
Jessica T. Giddens <jessicaannthomas@hotmail.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 12:48 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
We have a mutual friend, Mandy Schaffer, and I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in my prayers! Keep your faith and your spirits high! May God touch you with the healing and peace that only He can provide. In His name, the Hammer family
Shannon Hammer <shanhammer@yahoo.com>
Bowling Green, Ky USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 12:34 AM CDT

Vicki,
Rick and I are thinking of you daily - your sweet daughters have a wonderful mother who we are priveleged to have met. We love you and are sending you every possible good vibe we can send your way!
Lisa Driscoll
Pembroke Pines, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 12:26 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I am Rebecca's friend. My family would like to congratulate you on your new beautiful baby, and we wish you all the best. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Gwelle, Guillaume, and Max Boissiere <gwelle@boissiere.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 12:01 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I am writing from Johnstown, PA and a college friend of Rebecca Hassouna. I pray for God's healing prescence and all-encompassing strength to fill you; the Lord is with you and your family.

Peace, Susan
Susan White <skwmarykay@yahoo.com>
johnstown, PA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:58 AM CDT

Vicki, I heard about your story from Rebecca. It always seems that times of struggle are coupled with times of great joy - congratulations on your beautiful new baby! Let her arrival help you keep positive and strong! We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Amanda McQuillan <annabel19@adelphia.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:56 AM CDT

I just wanted to tell you how much I admire your strength and courage. As a new mother myself I can olny imagine your fight to get through this not for yourself, but for your children. I want you to know what a beautiful woman you are even laying in that hospital bed. The smile you have on your facing holding your baby is more powerful then any cancer could be. God bless you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers!
Jill Kaczanowski
Bound Brook, NJ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:54 AM CDT

GOOD LUCK TO YOU. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
KAYE MOSS
MESA, AZ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:42 AM CDT

Vicki my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family : ) I found out about you from Rebecca on the TTC board. Your story reaches me all the way in Cairo Egypt!!
Aishah <Seriousmuslimah@yahoo.com>
Cairo , Egypt - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:34 AM CDT

Our thoughts & prayers are with you. May the Heavenly Father give you the strength you need to overcome this illness.
Barb Allgood <ballgood@vehiclease.com>
Louisville, KY - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:27 AM CDT

Vicki your story is circling the globe and touching so many people. I'm in Austin, Texas and you are in our prayers.
Sheri Albin <albin@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Vicki and Iain -

It's a beautiful Friday here in Little Rock. I'm hoping a little of this Spring sunshine reaches you today. We're thinking of you constantly and sending love and support.

Chastity, Hap and Cooper Seliga <cseliga@comcast.net>
- Friday, April 15, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

Vicki-I am on a message board with Rebecca and when I heard your story, it touched my heart. I am thinking of you and your family and all of you are in my prayers. Keep strong and don't lose hope...those little girls need you! You've got tons of people praying for you every day! You WILL get through this.

Lisa Brewster <dalebrewster@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:23 AM CDT

Hi Vicki. I am Rebecca's moms cousin. She sent me this email and I am pleased to write to you. Congratulations on your new addition. God Bless you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there!!
Kathi Dagostino <myamshmi@aol.com>
Edison, NJ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:22 AM CDT

Dear Vicky,
I am a friend of Rebecca's and wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and your family during this time. Congratulations on your beautiful baby.
Pamela
Pamela Gokemeijer <goke@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:12 AM CDT

Vicki, Wishing you God's blessings and strength for you and your family as you fight this battle. Your smile is beautiful, you should always wear it it looks wonderful on you.
Cindy Coury-Broadhurst
Higley, AZ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:09 AM CDT

Dear Vicky,
I am a friend of Rebecca's Mom, Barbara. She sent this to me. I may not know you but my prayers will be with you and your family throughout this time and I hope this will help. You have a beautiful baby!!!! I just became a grandmother 2 1/2 months ago and know how very special these little ones are! God bless you all!
Debbie Guido <Debbe20@aol.com>
Basking Ridge, NJ Somerset - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:07 AM CDT

To the entire Phillips family: I have great faith in God, although I still struggle to understand why He allows trials to happen. I have to believe that He is in control though so I remember you all daily in prayer - for healing, peace, strength and comfort. And I'm sure you know that you are blessed with a beautiful family. Treasure your girls as I treasure my son, Jaiken (Sparkler baby).
Valerie Ralph (July Sparkler) <valerie.ralph@shaw.ca>
Calgary, AB Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 11:03 AM CDT

VICKI, MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR WONDEFUL FAMILY. GOD HAS BROUGHT YOU THIS FAR FOR A REASON JUST CONINUE TO HAVE FAITH AND TRUST AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL WORK OUT....GOD BLESS.........IM SHANTE A FRIEND OF AMANDA'S (JULY SPARKLERS)
SHANTE <nubian_528@hotmail.com>
LOUISVILLE, KY - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:57 AM CDT

Hey Iain - this one's just for you. As much as Vicki is on my mind, I just want you to know that you are on my mind too. I know that your strength and support is helping Vicki tremendously. If you need a hug, a shoulder, or whatever, you've got my number!
Margie Lea <margielea@comcast.net>
Round Lake, IL - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:54 AM CDT

You and your family are in each of my prayers!
Carly Thorne
Louisville, KY US - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:53 AM CDT

Vicki- We are thinking of you and that you are so strong and you will beat this disease.
Janelle,Jevon and Julian <rttnalldwy@aol.com>
Tucson, az usa - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:47 AM CDT

Sending prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family.
Karen (BBC July 2003) <KLStock@msn.com>
Woburn, MA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:38 AM CDT

Vicki,
Wow, I'm so touched by all of the e-mails you're receiving. My name is Charlie Ogle, Mandy Schaffer's dad. I usally don't respond by e-mail to calls for prayers, I do that in a private way. But, I've read many of the notes to you and your family and I'm touched. May you know that I will pray for you and your family. Support during hard times is a wonderful thing, you are very blessed to have this much out pouring of love. May GOD bless you and your family.
Charlie Ogle <cogle@vehiclease.com>
LOUISVILLE, KY, KY Jefferson - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:38 AM CDT

Vicki my thoughts are with you today as you start your chemo. It won't be easy, keep your eye on your goal and know that your friends and family (and many srangers, even!) are pulling for you. I believe you can do this. I love you!
Beth <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:33 AM CDT

Vicki, I am on a message board with Rebecca. Your sweet little Claire is adorable!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers....
Becky
Port Byron, IL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:30 AM CDT

Vicki you do not know me but one of the girls on my board told me about you. Congrats on you little girl and I hope that you get better soon so you can play and enjoy your family. My family and friends are praying and thinkg of you.
Shannon Voll <voll@rogers.com>
Waterloo, ONT Canada - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:23 AM CDT

vicki,
you are in our thoughts and prayers! your baby is a doll.
stay strong!
Brie and Laci Apsitis MI FOA <bapsitis@hotmail.com>
Belleville, MI - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

Vicki, I don't know you, but Amber and John Mark Todd have started a prayer chain for you and your family. You have many people praying for you right now and I wish you the best in this difficult time.
Beth Anne Todd <etodd228@yahoo.com>
Boynton Beach, FL - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:20 AM CDT

Vicki I just wanted to let you know although I do not know you I was forwarded your website and as a mother was truly touched by it. My prayers are with you and your family. STAY STRONG!!!!
Jaclyn Rotunno <jacrotunno@yahoo.com>
Warwick, RI USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:18 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I don't know you but I had the pleasure of working with John Mark Todd. Amber and Todd - an amazing couple. Amber forwarded me an email about your shared pregnancy with her and now this battle with cancer.

I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Margarita Purvis <mvpurvis@csi-florida.com>
gainesville, fl usa - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:57 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, Keri McKenzie shared your story with me. I want to let you know that you are in my thoughts and my prayers. Best wishes to you and your family. Your positive outlook is the key to your strength while you beat this!
Allison Townsend
- Friday, April 15, 2005 9:53 AM CDT

Vicki,

I think of you all day and night. I know you will overcome this horrible disease and be there to see beautiful Maddy and sweet Claire grow up. Remember all the July Sparklers love you and are here for you through thick and thin!
Zejreme (Zee)
Staten Island, NY USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

Vicki- You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep your faith in God and know that He will take care of you. Stay strong!
Julie Barr <jbarr524@bellsouth.net>
Crestwood, KY - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:46 AM CDT

Vicki, many prayers are coming your way. I pray with all my heart you beat this terrible disease. You have a very beautiful family and I will be praying for them as well.
Jonalee (FoA/RA & BBC July '03) <jonalee@adelphia.net>
New Philadelphia, OH - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:39 AM CDT

Positive things always bring positive outcome!!! Keep up the spirits and may god bless. I am a friend of Becky's and will keep you in my prayers
Rose Nunziato <rozienun@yahoo.com>
Freehold, NJ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:37 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
I heard your story from a friend of mine and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Your children are beautiful and are so blessed to have you as their mother.
Erin Whalen <erinleewhalen@yahoo.com>
Mpls, mn usa - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:32 AM CDT

I have said a prayer for you and your family today. I am currently pregnant and was just informed that there is a possibility the baby will have trisomy 18. My hope right now is in prayer. Let's hope the power of prayer can work it's miracles!
CS
- Friday, April 15, 2005 9:30 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,
Congratulations on adorable Claire and your beautiful family! Precious gifts from God. I am Amanda's (July Sparklers) Mom and want you to know we are praying for you down here in Florida! God Bless.
Jan Ethridge
Crestview, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:28 AM CDT

Vicki,

Hey girl - give those babies a kiss for me. I am thinking of you. Stay strong and know that God will take care of you and your family.
Lots of love,
Lynne and Katie
Lynne <lynnieg@yahoo.com>
New Lenox, IL - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:27 AM CDT

Vicki,
You have a beautiful family. I wanted you to know that I'm praying for you and your family and there is power in prayer. Also healing is real! I'm a witness!
God Bless
Tamika Skaggs <tskaggs@atai.com>
Louisville, KY USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:26 AM CDT

P&PT thoughts go out to you and your family as you fight this disease!

Congrats on a beautiful baby!
Shirley - July 2003 BBC board
- Friday, April 15, 2005 9:16 AM CDT

Dear Vicki,

I'm a friend of Rebecca Hassouna's and want you to know that I'm praying for you and thinking of you and your wonderful family. God Bless you.
Rose Ravasio
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:12 AM CDT

Vicki,
Just a note to let you know one more person is praying for you in the world - congrads on your beautiful daughter who I know will get you through the bad times ahead!
Best wishes! Deb (Rebecca's sister-in-law)
Deb Yannetta <deborah.conway@prudential.com>
Colonia, NJ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:05 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, I am a friend of Elizabeth's in San Antonio, and I want you to know that you have a lot of people here praying for you and your family. You sound like such an incredibly strong woman, and I pray that God continues to bless you with strength, hope, and courage.
Aimee Brown
San Antonio, TX - Friday, April 15, 2005 9:00 AM CDT

Oh my gosh! You and your family are beautiful! I feel like I have gotten to know all of you "July Sparklers" through my daughter Katie and think of you all as family. Vicki, my thoughts and prayers are with you now more than ever. Please keep a positive attitude and take pleasure in knowing that you are in God's hands. Enjoy every moment with your husband and babies and put up a fight with this horrible disease. We are all pulling for you down here in Lake Placid Florida and it appears everyone else in the great United States is doing the same! Hang in there baby!
Laura Shirley <laurashirley@earthlink.net>
Lake Placid, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:50 AM CDT

Vicki,

I first heard about you from my friend Margie. Each time I talk to her I am regaled of stories about the two of you and Maddy and Peyton...and now beautiful little Claire! You and your family are in my prayers.
Jeanette Davis <jjo02@allstate.com>
Lantana, TX USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

They always say that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, but if you're like me, I have had a hard time buying that. However, God is the One who cares for us and loves us and doesn't want the negative things to happen. All things are possible through Him. I strongly believe that and therefore, I am praying for you and your family. I know that His love works in my life because I'm still alive today to prove it. And one day you're going to be helping someone out.
Rhonda K <rkorfhage@atai.com>
Louisville, KY - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Wish you the best! Keep strong and keep fighting!!!
Kelly Yannetta <marinedancer1178@aol.com>
Manchester, CT USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

We are all praying for you!
Tom Shirley (Madison Murphy's grandfather) <tcshirley@earthlink.net>
Lake Placid, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:41 AM CDT

Vicki - Wow, as I read through your guest book I'm overwhelmed with the love and support you are receiving. You must be a remarkable person. It's so very apparent that Margie thinks you are. My prayes are with you.
Valerie Mihalovich
Frisco, TX - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:41 AM CDT

Wish you all the best! Enjoy!
Mila Tsang McDermott
Cranford, NJ US - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:36 AM CDT

Vicki,
Good luck on starting the chemo. We are thinking of you and your sweet family constantly. I pray you will beat this illness! Sending lots of love and prayers from San Antonio!!!!
Elizabeth <ebnowotny@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:31 AM CDT

Congrats on the baby! You will be in the my thoughts and prayers, good luck with the chemo. Stay Strong and Positive, laughter goes a long way. I learned about your website from Mandy Schaffer.
Amy Boyd
Louisville, KY usa - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:26 AM CDT

Hi Vicki and Family, My name is Lisa and I am Mandy Schaffer's sister in law. I just want you to know that you and your beautiful family are in my prayers. Live Strong Lisa Totten
Lisa Totten <thetottens2003@aol.com>
Louisville, Ky USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:21 AM CDT

Vicki,
I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with so much right now. You have so many people supporting and praying for you and your whole family. Please let that bring some peace to you. I feel so blessed to be apart of such a special group of July Sparklers. It's amazing to me how much we have grown to love each and every member. Know that God holds you in His hand and will take care of you. You are in my constant thought and every prayer. Big hugs to you!! Sydney sends her hugs and kisses to Maddy & Claire!
Love, Amanda & Sydney
Amanda Schaffer <mandyschaffer2@yahoo.com>
Louisville, KY - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:18 AM CDT

"Behind the cloud the starlight lurks,
Through showers the the sunbeams fall;
For God, who loveth all His works,
Has left His hope with all!
John Greenleaf Whittier, A Dream of Summer," 1847.

Steven Karpinski <karpy03@hotmail.com>
Raritan, NJ United States - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:15 AM CDT

Hi Vicki. I am a friend and co-worker of Amanda (Mandy) Schaffer and she told us your story. I wanted to let you know that my family and I will be praying for you. Times will certainly be rough, but through prayer, all things are possible. Hang in there and Good Luck!
Susanne
Louisville, KY USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:14 AM CDT

You and your family will be in my thoughts! It's great to see you have such wonderful friends for support!
Alesha
Viroqua, WI - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:01 AM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I learned about you from your friend Brenda on a website we're both on. You and your family are in my prayers. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Be blessed.
Andrea
- Friday, April 15, 2005 7:54 AM CDT

Vicki - I got your information from your dear friend Rebecca Hassouna who has asked us to keep you in our prayers. We will pray for you and your beautiful family that you beat this. You have a wonderful family and friends and thats all the support you need to stay stong. You are making a difference to all of us and we will continue to wish you the best with every day!
Joyce Kraemer <joyce_kraemer@hilton.com>
Pittsburgh, pa usa - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:52 AM CDT

I am praying for you and your family. Stay strong and in prayer nothing is impossible.

Love Susan
Susan M. Young <SUSAN_YOUNG@COMCAST.NET>
Des Plaines, IL COOK - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:46 AM CDT

Vicki- I am a friend of Katie Murphy and she has asked that we keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Continue to stay strong through this fight! You have MANY people who are behind you, especially those beautiful daughters!
Erica Bass <basse@mail.hawksrise.leon.k12.fl.us>
Tallahassee, FL - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:23 AM CDT

Congrats on your beatiful growing family. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Teresa <teresa_jackson@comcast.net>
MI - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:19 AM CDT

Vicki,
I see that today is the big day to start your chemo. You have many positive thoughts behind you, especially today as you begin the fight to beat this horrible disease.
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:01 AM CDT

Be strong and never doubt that miracles do occur. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Shannon Stevens <shannon.stevens@dot.state.fl.us>
Lakeland, FL USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 6:48 AM CDT

What a beautiful family you have! They must provide you with an enormous amout of strength! Colleen posted about you at chicagomothers.com and I wanted to add myself to the long list of people that are praying for your speedy recovery! Ali -- Mom to Zoe
Ali <frogbreath25@aol.com>
Algonquin, IL - Friday, April 15, 2005 6:38 AM CDT

Vicki,

What a beautiful little girl!!! Amber told me about you and I am praying hard for a miraculous cure and healing, peace and strength for your family. Philipians 4:6-7 Mark 9:14-29
Tricia Mc
- Friday, April 15, 2005 6:11 AM CDT

Vicki,
I also got your site address from Raise Awareness. I just wanted you and your BEAUTIFUL family to know that someone out here in "spud-land" is praying for you! What gorgeous girls you have! I know that the Lord is going to make you heal quickly so you can be home w/ them soon!
Love in Christ,
Amy
ChemoAngel to Brian
Amy <sea_angel73@gobigwest.com>
Meridian, ID USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 0:51 AM CDT

Hi Vicki, you don't know me, but I heard about your story on a Raise Awareness message board from Sarah. Please know we are send good energy and prayers your way.

Teri (RA/FOA)
Olympia, , WA - Friday, April 15, 2005 0:03 AM CDT

Dear Vicki:
I am a friend of Candice's on another site. I wanted to send you my thoughts and prayers for a safe recovery. Hugs to you and your sweet baby. Love, Allegra
Allegra
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 11:52 PM CDT

Vicki, Claire is such a beautiful little girl. Congratulations! I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers as you face this battle with cancer. {{{HUGS}}} to you.
Becky <bslic@yahoo.com>
Lincoln, CA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 11:52 PM CDT

I just wanted to say that I am thinking about you and praying for you!
Johanna <johannastuart@juno.com>
Flagstaff, AZ USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 11:07 PM CDT

Vicki, I am proud to call such a wonderful woman and mom my friend and know there is no way any of us can possibly understand what you and your family are going through right now, but know that there are a lot of people praying for you right now! The Sparklers are a strong group and you are an important part of it. Claire is so beautiful and I can see the joy in your face in the picture of you holding her. You are a strong woman and a fighter and We know you can beat this horrible disease!

Doing Relay for Life in support of you! (I'll think of you when I am up all night walking!)

https://www.kintera.org/faf/donorReg/donorPledge.asp?ievent=91010&supId=76883405
Colleen, Erick, and Keegan Bergquist <cbergquist@ameritech.net>
Hoffman Estates, IL` 60194 - Thursday, April 14, 2005 10:55 PM CDT

Hello!!!Vicki!!!...I am Elizabeths' great aunt and I want you to know that we will be praying for you and your family out here in California!!!!!! I will keep up on your progress !!!! We do know that our Lord can heal and we will trust Him for that Healing!!! May God richly Bless you each and every day. Auntie Norma
Norma Bridges
Hemet, Ca USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 10:25 PM CDT

Vicki,
Congratulations on the birth of your very beautiful daughter Claire, I can see why you are beaming in your picture! Also, I want you to know that I am sending positve thoughts your way every day. I am so rooting for you, girl! But, I also want to share with you (and this is long overdue) my immense gratitude for taking such good loving care of my best friend Margie Lea. I very begrudgingly put her on the plane for Chicago back in September, but I told her then that you were her key to happiness. I knew you were special even then and knowing you were going to be in her life made it a little easier for me to let her and Peyton go. Thank you a million times over for completely exceeding my lofty expectations that you would be such a special person in Margie's life.
Much love,
Jami Bruhn
Jami Bruhn <jpsbruhn@flash.net>
Fort Worth , Tx USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 10:14 PM CDT

Vicki - I am SO glad we were able to visit this week. You have the most beautiful baby in Claire! Stay strong and know that we are all here for you in any way that you need.
Love you!
Rebecca Hassouna <rebecca.hassouna@verizon.net>
Pittsburgh, PA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Vicki,
I just came across your webpage. Such a sweet little love Claire is. I wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you. My son was born with cancer two years ago. It was tough in the begining, but chemo worked wonders! I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts.
www.colescure.org
Brandy Regan <brandyregan@yahoo.com>
San Francisco, ca - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:31 PM CDT

Vicki
To be loved by someone is special. To be loved by many takes a special person.

Candice Graham <candicegraham@sympatico.ca>
Port Perry, ON Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:23 PM CDT

Me again! Vicki just wanted you to know that a few of us are working on a trip to see you in June so...slumber party? Seriously, it is just amazing how many people are supporting you and your family right now! I have a little something special coming your way via Margie! I love you. Can't wait to see you, Iain, and Maddy again and meet Miss Claire!!
Katie and Madison Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA baby! - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Vicki- We are thinking about you daily and wishing you good health. Sending lots of hugs to you and your family. Love, Robin,Joe and Simon
Robin Jacobson <robinjanej@comcast.net>
Portland, OR USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 9:14 PM CDT

Hi Vicki! I'm Beth's (Sparkler)Mom and she's told me about the problems you're having. You are in my thoughts. Add my name to your lengthy prayer list!
Myrna <mahoneyRN@aol.com>
South Bend , IN - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:59 PM CDT

Vicki, You dont know me, but Brenda told us about you on a website. I am so very sorry you have to go through this and I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Chris Boyce <boyce5@optonline.net>
Hamilton , nj usa - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:56 PM CDT

Vicki,
you are in my constant thoughts.

May all the love from your Sparkler Sisters, Friends and Family be strong enough to carry you through this difficult time and help you land Healthy and Happily home again to be with your beautiful family!

All our love
Nicole, Eric and Brooke Winston

now hurry up and get better so we can meet up ;)
Nicole Winston <ellewinston@verizon.net>
S.P., NJ USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:55 PM CDT

Vicki, Congratulations on the birth of beautiful, sweet Claire! What a gift from God! And proof that He believes this world should continue and He will not abandon us. Margie Lea is a dear friend from my college days...you have one tough fighter going to bat for you. You are in my prayers. My favorite verse in times of trouble: "Be still and know that I am God Psalm 46:10". Fight the good fight! He is able!
Lot's of love and admiration!
Lacye Osborn
Fort Worth, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:54 PM CDT

Vicki,

My friend Margie Lea has talked to me about you and your loved ones. To say that she's crazy about you is an understatement. From what I have heard from Margie and what I read in this guestbook, I have to conclude you are a very special person. For that reason, I feel that you will be able to recover from your illness. Just remember that you have a wonderful family to cherish. Warmest thoughts and wishes.
Argentina Ziegler
Fresh Meadows, NY 11365 - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:47 PM CDT

Vicki,
May all our prayers and thoughts be with you in your journey of recovery and treatment.
God Bless, Stephanie Davis and family
Stephanie Davis and family <sdavis79@cox.net>
gainesville, fl usa - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:45 PM CDT

Vicky, I know I don't know you as well as some of the other girls on the boards but I can still proudly call you a friend. Cancer is an ugly thing but your beauty, strength, and courage and the love and support of your loved ones, friends, and strangers can help beat this. I only wish the best for you, your beautiful daughters, your husband and your entire family. Please know that you are loved and being prayed for.

Uzma (from the boards) & Madihah <misahmed@hotmail.com>
Burlington, NJ USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:25 PM CDT

Vicki, We are thinking of you here in New Jersey. Please stay strong, get better, and come visit when you kick this cancer's ass! All my love!
Stacy <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
middlesex, nj USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:18 PM CDT

Vicki,
Just wanted to let you know that Rob, Kaitlyn, and I are all praying for you daily, and we wish you nothing but the best. Although I know you only through the internet, I feel as though I've known you forever. We went through our first pregnancies together, and quite a bit of our second! Claire is absolutely gorgeous, just like her big sister and her mama!

Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you, as are many, many people. I believe that the power of love will cure you...you have a lot of love coming your way.
Manda (July '03 Sparklers) <mandersue215@yahoo.com>
Keeseville, NY 12944 - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:53 PM CDT

Vicki, I first want to say CONGRATULATIONS on a beautiful new baby girl! I want you to know that you have the full support and prayers of many of the women on the MSN Raise Awareness board. I am praying for you and your family and I will check on you often to see how you are and see if there is anything I can possibly do to help.
Nerrissa *FoA/RA* <Makaylahsmommy@gmail.com>
Misawa Air Base, Japan - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:30 PM CDT

Vicki, You have a beautiful family. Your girls are so precious. I am so sorry to her you are facing a tough road ahead, but a positive attitude and loving support system will carry you through. I will check your site often to hear positive news and see your children grow. You will be in my prayers to beat this beast. You can do it.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:28 PM CDT

Vicki - Many of our Sparkler friends have been keeping me informed about you and little Claire. I think about you all the time and am grateful to Beth for starting this website. No one else can understand the way you're feeling right now, though family and friends will help you through. Take strength from your sweet little ones and take comfort in knowing that so many people care!
Thinking of you and your family,
John Mark, Amber & McKenzie Todd
Amber Todd <ambernjm@earthlink.net>
Ocala, FL USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:26 PM CDT

Hi Vicki, I am another friend of Elizabeth's in San Antonio. Just sending more positive thoughts your way.
Trisha Roa <trisharoa@yahoo.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:16 PM CDT

Vicki...I am a friend of Elizabeth's in San Antonio. She has shared with us your story and I just felt as if I needed to let you know that you are in my families thoughts and prayers every day.
Michelle Snow <mesnow1962@yahoo.com>
Floresville, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:13 PM CDT

Vicky,
I am Mandy Bradley's Grandot and I will give you the best
advice to give you peace--TURN IT ALL OVER TO GOD AND LET
HIM BE IN TOTAL CONTROL AND THEN LEAVE THE WORRYING TO HIM AND USE YOUR STRENGTH TO GET WELL ENOUGH TO ENJOY THOSE PRECIOUS BABIES GOD HAS BLESSED YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND WITH. GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME AND HE WILL HEAR YOUR PRAYERS!
I WILL ALSO BE PRAYING FOR YOU, LOVE, GRANDOT
Dot McWhite <Grandot04@aol.com>
Fairhope, Al. USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:11 PM CDT

Vicki, You and your family are in my thoughts every day. You are a source of inspiration to me with your strong and positive attitude. Keep that smile on! All our love is shinning your way. Congratulations on your new little girl Claire. Hugs and kisses to Maddy also from her little friend Emma Rae.
Sabrina, Emma Rae and Jamie Wallace <sabriw@yahoo.com>
Austin, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:08 PM CDT

Hi Vicki..I'm a friend of Mandy's and wanted to let you know that even though I don't know you, you and your family will be in my prayers.
Lori <lori_clark@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:08 PM CDT

Vicki,
What a beautiful little girl!!! I'm so sorry your joy is being tarnished by this horrible cancer. Hugs and prayers.
Lois (FOA/RA)
NJ - Thursday, April 14, 2005 7:01 PM CDT

Vicki, I just can't find the right words that really express how I feel for what you are going through. With all these prayers and positive wishes being sent your way, on top of your own personal strength, I just know you will get through this. Claire is just precious, and I know Maddy is going to be a wonderful big sister!! Sending you much love.
Mandy, Ray, Paige and Charlotte Bradley
Raleigh, NC - Thursday, April 14, 2005 6:58 PM CDT

Thoughts and prayers going out from my family to yours.
Kim Dillard **FOA/RA** <kimdillard@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 6:38 PM CDT

Vicki I'm Kitty, a friend of Elizabeth's in San Antonio. I wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Congratualations on your new BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER.
(((((((((( HUGS ))))))))) and PRAYERS,
Kitty
Kitty <pmsng324@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 6:21 PM CDT

Vicki, Claire and Maddy are beautiful! Elizabeth is keeping the San Antonio gang updated on your progress and lots of us are praying for you. You must be a very special person because you have so many friends who care for you! We'll be checking back later!
Gary Hedrick <garyh@cjfm.org>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 6:21 PM CDT

Vicki, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Congratulations on your two beautiful girls.
Sandra McKenzie (Keri's mom) <smck@mindspring.com>
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:36 PM CDT

Hi Vicki-

You have two very beautiful daughters! Congratulations on your newest bundle of joy! I will be checking on you and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginny **FOA/RA** <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:35 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,
You don't know me, but I am a friend of your friend Elizabeth in San Antonio, and she's been keeping a big group of us updated on your progress. You've got lots of good thoughts and prayers being sent from down here, and we're all wishing you and your family the best.
Megan Kressin <mkielt@hotmail.com>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:21 PM CDT

Vicki, I am in search of really obnoxious pictures to cheer you up. I Hope Keri and Katie don't beat me to it. Be prepared. I am thinking of you daily (hourly actually) and cant wait till you are better and come to NJ to visit us!
Stacy <ratfeathers@yahoo.com>
Middlesex, NJ - Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:17 PM CDT

Hey Vicki,
Just dropping in to say hey, we're thinking of you here in Oklahoma.

Mary FOA/RA <sweetnlowe@gmail.com>
Tulsa, OK USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:16 PM CDT

I to came across your website at Raise Awarness, first I wanted to say congrats for your beautiful bundle of Joy! She is darling. As well as your other daughter. Please Know that I am book marking your site and will keep you in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Mellisa FOA/RA
Va - Thursday, April 14, 2005 4:38 PM CDT

Wow. I can't believe the power of human bonds over something as odd as the internet. It never ceases to amaze me how good people are.

I have warm fuzzies that so many people care for you Vicki! Think of all the power focused on you. It is focused on you because you deserve it.

You are amazing and so strong. You are frankly nothing short of an utter inspiration.

Tara Woodall
Atwater, CA United States - Thursday, April 14, 2005 4:26 PM CDT

You are in my prayers...and your girls are just gorgeous!
Tab and Susanna FoA/RA <susannasmommy@yahoo.com>
Memphis, TN - Thursday, April 14, 2005 4:11 PM CDT

Vicki,

I found you through RA/FOA. You have such beautiful girls!! Adorable! I am praying for you and hoping that God will heal you so you can be back at it in no time. Praying the treatments work. I will check in on you daily. Many prayers to you, God Bless always.

Emily (RA/FOA)
NN, VA USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:58 PM CDT

God bless you Vicki, and your entire family. I will keep you and your girls in my prayers, and pray for a quick and complete recovery.
Taryn Carrell
Grande Prairie, AB Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:51 PM CDT

Vicki- We are thinking of you and sending prayers and love your way. Stay strong and positive! You have so many people that love and care about you, Iain, Maddy, and baby Clare. We love you!!!!
Mindy & Ryan
Mindy Nicola <mindnic27@yahoo.com>
Pensacola, FL - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:38 PM CDT

Vicki,
Even though we've only known each other from the boards, I consider you a dear friend. You have an amazing spirit that will help you win this fight! Always remember, you have friends everywhere that care about you and will stay with you every step of the way. You, Iain, Maddy and Claire are in our thoughts and prayers daily. We can't wait to see you back on the boards soon!
Joyce & Zerick Medina <jbmod@hotmail.com>
Bakersfield, CA U.S.A. - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:31 PM CDT

Vicki I will be thinking about you and Praying for you. Your girls are beautiful. You stay strong. I will be following your progress.
Lots of prayers for you and your family
Brenda FOA/RA
NH - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:27 PM CDT

Vicki,
We are praying for you, and know you are safely in God's hands right now. You are such a beautiful person - inside and out. Hang in there and know that so many people are praying and thinking of you all the time. I will see you soon!!
Elizabeth <ebnowotny@yahoo.com>
S.A., TX USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

Vicki-
You are in my every thought and prayer. I hope you know that you have a lot of friends pulling for you!! Keep up your positive attitude and great smile!!! Kiss those babies for me!!!
Brenda ***Your sparkler friend <brendakamis@hotmail.com>
Shakopee, MN US - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:22 PM CDT

Vicki, you and your family will be in my prayers. Many hugs!
Michele <mshelez@Msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:17 PM CDT

Vicki-
We are sending you hugs, prayers, and sunshine from Florida. Thinking of you and your family...Hug those girls from Jayden...
oxox
Heather and Jayden Hammen <hmtzta@aol.com>
Oviedo, FL - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:15 PM CDT

Wow! What an amazing thing - that total strangers are sending you their thoughts and prayers. People are truly amazing.
Vicki, Claire is simply beautiful. I'm thrilled that she's doing so well. Your daughter got her strength from you. Now, we just have to get you better. We are all with you and pulling for you. You will beat this. If you EVER need a thing, you know you can call a Sparkler.
Keri <keri_mckenzie@hotmail.com>
Atlanta, - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:14 PM CDT

I cannot imagone what you must be feeling right now, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amber **FOA** **RA** <amberadelle@hotmail.com>
littleton, CO usa - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:09 PM CDT

Sweet Vicki,

You are always in my thoughts and prayers! I know you will get through this! You are a strong woman and I am proud to call you a friend!
Zejreme (Zee) Radoncic
Staten Island, NY USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:00 PM CDT

Vicki,

You're in our thoughts and prayers. Here's to strength to you in beating this! Your baby is beautiful!
Scott Bowen (husband to Christy/daddy to Sam - from the Sparkler board) <scottjb@vmc.com>
Fort Collins, CO USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:56 PM CDT

Hi,
I just came to your site through the Raise Awareness site and wanted to say congrats on the baby and that you are in my thoughts and you will be prayed for. Much love, respect and warmest wishes.
Hillari
Glasgow, Scotland - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:54 PM CDT

Vicki...
You, Iain, and your precious girls are never far from our thoughts and prayers. Sam and I are praying for you everyday! We look forward to meeting you and your family in person someday. We are sending you all of our love.
Christy <bowenssc@msn.com>
Fort Collins, CO USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:53 PM CDT

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela(FOA/RA)- -HEATHER GRACE

<angembal@yahoo.com>
Natick, MA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:50 PM CDT

Vicky and Family - I just learned of you today on the MSN Raise Awareness board. I will be checking on you often, and praying for you daily.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:49 PM CDT

Thinking and praying for you in NC....
Krissy <kjonesbills@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:44 PM CDT

Vicki - We're thinking of you constantly and sending you all our love. Just look at those beautiful girls!! Cooper and I can't wait until we can see you again and meet beautiful Claire.
Chastity and Cooper Seliga <cseliga@comcast.net>
Little Rock, AR - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:30 PM CDT

Vicki, I will be praying for you, and our church is praying for you as well.

SJensenArt - using art to fight cancer
http://www.caringbridge.org/or/sandy
Sara
Sherwood, OR USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:28 PM CDT

Vicki, all the best to you as you begin your fight!! What beautiful children you have.
Robin Brunet (RA/FOA; Babycenter June 03) <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:23 PM CDT

Vicki - WE LOVE YOU!!!!
Margie and Peyton <margielea@comcast.net>
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:19 PM CDT

Vicki,
I just wanted you to know that I am praying for you! Your daughters are beautiful! I will keep checking on you!
Hugs,
Kelly ~*~RA~*~
Fort Mill, SC - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:06 PM CDT

Vicki and family,

I learned about you through the RA board at MSN. I'm undergoing treatment for Stage 1 breast cancer. I wish you nothing but the best. You'll be amazed at what people can overcome. I recommend you read Lance Armstrong's book. When I get down I read it and it lifts me right up. The chemo is tough, but remain positive and you'll make it through. I'm also the mother of two young kids...one is just 13 mos. Look to them and to your husband to find strength. I'm praying for you and will check in repeatedly.
Danielle <dfdelacruz@excite.com>
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 2:05 PM CDT

Vicki,
My thoughts are with you and your family. Both your daughters are just beautiful and I know that is all the fighting power you will need to beat this horrible disease.
I will be checking back often and praying for the best.

April (from the Dec 2003 babycenter web board)
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:56 PM CDT

Vicki, Im sending you well wishes and prayers from Texas. Bless you and your family!
Renauda (FOA/RA) <renauda_jaime@yahoo.com>
Grand Prairie, Tx USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:55 PM CDT

Vicki-I heard about you from the Raise Awareness board and just wanted you to know that I am praying for you and your family!
Manda
IA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:45 PM CDT

Praying for you at this joyous and difficult time. Your babies are gorgeous!
Brooke Bleyl FOA/RA
Twinsburg, Oh USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:39 PM CDT

Hi Vicki,

I saw a link for you on the raise awareness board - I'm across the state border (you know the good side of the line) in Wisconsin ;) I just read what you are going through and I am very sorry - it's not suppose to be like this and I am sure you have said that a thousand times already. Your daughters are beautiful and congratulations on your recent addition!

You certainly will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this journey. I hope you don't mind me poking my head in to see how you are doing and to let you know that you are being thought about.

Jane Kahl (Wisconin Angels/ Wi FOA) <kahlja@charter.net>
Sun Prairie, WI - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:38 PM CDT

Vicki~ Even though I have never met you face to face I'm proud to say that you are my friend. We are all behind you and will do what ever it is to help you beat this. You know where to find us if you need anything. WE LOVE YOU!!

Love,
Sarah
Sarah Rowan <srowan@elcabop.org>
Maple Plain, MN - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:37 PM CDT

Vicki - We are pulling for you and can't stop thinking of you every minute. Both of your girls are beautiful!!! Lots of love and hugs. :)
Michelle Tanchuck <matanchuck@yahoo.com>
Portland, OR - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:35 PM CDT

I was sent here by Sarah.....
I just wanted to let you know that I will be praying right along with you. Keep up that GREAT attitude!!!
And your daughter is a DOLL!!!! Sooooooooooooo cute!!! I am sure she is the reason they found your cancer, she came out early to tell everyone that mommy needs help now. I have bookmarked your site and will be checking in on you.
Warm thoughts and prayers heading your way!
Sara *FOA/RA* <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:33 PM CDT

We are all behind you to help fight this!!! We all love you and can't wait till you are going home.
Katie Murphy <kmurphy@srwrightcpa.com>
Winter Haven, FL USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 1:10 PM CDT

Vicki, your sunny smile and loving heart have been a joy to me since the day I met you. I'm happy to call you my friend. I love you!

Beth <bbethieboop@comcast.net>
South Bend , IN USA - Thursday, April 14, 2005 12:25 AM CDT

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