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Wednesday, February 13, 2008 4:16 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

See info below about cancer fund-raiser in which the Lee family is involved.

DeLee




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Dear Prayer Warriors,

Joseph and Rachel have been thru a lot with Joseph having been diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma back when he was 12 years old. Can you believe he is 19 now. The Lord has used cancer and other situations to mold them into two of the finest young people I know. I make no apology for being so biased. Please join me in praying that they would always walk with God.

Joe's next scans, by the way, are scheduled for Tuesday, March 11, 2008. He feels great but sometimes the late night study sessions can wipe him out. Welcome to college!!!

Rachel has been involved with several benevolent endeavors, one in particular is the Relay for Life which is a fundraising effort of the American Cancer Society. Rachel has formed a team and named it Lee Relay and Joseph, Joyce and I have joined the team to help her raise money to fight cancer. The following link will take you to their team page and you can donate under the general team or click on Rachel, Joseph or Arthur (Bob) and then donate under that page. It all goes to Lee Relay. Please also put your name on the Honor Roll. We also would like those who can make it to come to the University of Georgia on Friday, March 25th for the all night vigil and walk around the track. Joseph will be walking (running) during the survivors lap. He is a two time survivor so I told him he has to run two laps!!!

****Rachel told me to tell you that some companies have a matching funds program when their employees give. It never hurts to check.****

Bob Lee
boblee1960@bellsouth.net


Here is the link for Lee Relay:

http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RelayForLifeSouthAtlanticDivision/153502198?pg=team&fr_id=8467&team_id=179792&JServSessionIdr004=lugzyo0wg1.app17a


Wednesday, November 28, 2007 4:44 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Praise God once again for a good report from Joseph's scans last Wednesday! Everything was clear of any signs of cancer. Thank you for your persistent prayers on Joe's behalf. He is finishing up his first semester at UGA and thoroughly enjoying college life.

Bob sends his thanks for your prayers for his back surgery last Tuesday. The surgery went well. Dr. Silcox trimmed off the herniated part of the disc that was pressing on the nerve affecting Bob's leg. The surgeon said that the disc had a very large tear (bigger than he expected) that allowed the herniation to bulge onto a large section of nerve, thus affecting a bigger portion of the nerve than expected. It will take some time for that nerve to "calm down" from the trauma. Bob's leg pain has significantly diminished and he has been up and walking since the day of the surgery. However, he has very limited walking, sitting, and standing time, and must lie down or recline a large portion of the time for the next couple of weeks. He is experiencing some pain at the surgery site, but nothing like the pain he had prior to surgery. Please pray that the nerve heals completely and all leg pain is relieved; if the pain continues there is a medication that can be used to help "calm the nerve." Pray it will heal quickly on its own. Please pray also that the disc tear heals well and another herniation does not occur in the future. Pray for Bob to "be good" and not over-do during the healing process. He will go for a follow up appointment with Dr. Silcox in about two weeks.

Thank you for your faithful prayer support for the Lees through their trials. Praise God for His faithfulness, mercy, and grace.

"For in the day of trouble He will keep me safe in His dwelling; He will hide me in the shelter of His tabernacle and set me high upon a rock." Psalm 27:5

DeLee


Friday, November 16, 2007

Dear Praying Friends,

Please remember Bob in prayer on Tuesday, 11/20. He will have a microendoscopic disectomy to remove the herniation between his discs. The surgery will be at Northside Hospital. Bob will have to arrive at 5:30 am and surgery will begin by 7:30 am. His doctor, Hal Silcox, is a Christian (who I just recently discovered goes to my church) and he will have prayer with Bob before surgery. They expect the surgery to last 1 - 1 1/2 hours. Bob will be staying overnight at Northside. Pray for the Lord to direct Dr. Silcox's hands and for a complete recovery for Bob. Also, pray for Bob to be able to "be still" after surgery - he will have very limited times of sitting or standing and will be in bed most of the time during the three week recovery period. Bob rarely sits down or slows down in his "normal mode" so this will be a challenge for him.

Remember Joseph in your prayers, as well. He will have his folllow-up scans the day after Bob's surgery. This is the first of the regularly scheduled quarterly scans he will continue to have for a year. However, this one is also to double-check on the strange "bump" that popped up 5 weeks ago and confirm it was what they suspected (oddly shaped muscle tissue from radiation, or scar tissue). Pray this scan comes back "all clear" like that scan did. Continue to ask the Lord to prevent any cancer cells from reappearing, and for Joe's complete healing from this disease.

Thank you for your on-going prayer support for this family. They are forever grateful. Happy Thanksgiving!

In Christ, to whom we give all thanks,

DeLee


Monday, November 5, 2007 12:49 PM

Dear friends,

Thank you for your prayers for Bob to be approved by Workers' Comp for a second opinion concerning his back injury. He was approved to see Dr. Hal Silcox of Peachtree Orthopedics and had an appointment with Dr. Silcox on Thursday, 11/1. The doctor clarified many things about Bob's condition and answered all of his questions regarding treatment options.

The Lees have decided to go with the least invasive surgery (microendoscopic disectomy) to remove the herniation between the L4 and L5. Bob will have anesthesia (much to his relief), but may be allowed to leave the hospital the same day. The date for surgery is 11/20 at Northside Hospital. Please pray for God's grace as Bob continues to be in constant pain. Pray for the Lord to guide the surgeon's hands and for a complete recovery.

The following day, 11/21, Joseph will have his quarterly scans to check for any signs of cancer. This is a regularly scheduled check, however, it is actually an extra "caution" check because of a situation that arose about a month agao. Around October 9, Joseph noticed a knot that suddenly popped up on his arm very close to where the original tumor was located. The Lees made a visit to his oncologist a couple of days later; at that visit the doctor told them on a "concern scale" of 1-10, he considered it about a 3. His feeling was that with all the recent weight training Joe had been doing, the muscle may have "poppped up" in a funny way because of damage from radiation, or possibly scar tissue was beginning to show up.

Joseph had a scan on 10/18 to check it out - it was quite a long procedure (2 1/2 hours) because they kept rechecking things. However, by the time of the scan, the knot was no longer visible, though Joe's whole arm was swollen (probably part of the on-going lymphodema Joe deals with because all that arm's lymph system was removed with the original tumor). The nurse who called with the scan results told Joyce that whatever it was, nothing was visible on the scan and there was nothing to biopsy. The scan showed everything stable, with no change since the scan in August. She said they would be overly cautious, however, and go ahead with the scan already scheduled for 11/21 to be sure there is no change at that time.

PRAISE THE LORD for this good report. Joseph and his parents were so relieved to get this good news. They did not ask for prayer (except from a very few people) because they didn't want rumors to start, or for Joe to be contacted by well-meaning friends asking about it during a very stressful mid-term week. Please pray that the scan on 11/21 will be clear and the Lord will continue to keep any cancer from returning.

Thank you for your long-term commitment to uphold this family in prayer. They are so grateful for your prayer support.

In Christ,

DeLee Eden


Tuesday, October 23, 2007 7:58 PM

Dear Prayer Team:

Two weeks ago I had to miss Moms In Toucch, but I asked Kim to pass on a prayer request for a TKA family with deep concerns about a medical issue. At the time I was not free to tell you who you were praying for, however, the Lord has made it clear He laid the specific family on some of your hearts because several of you have asked me about Joseph Lee's health during this two week time and have mentioned you have felt burdened to pray for him.

I talked with Joyce today and she said I could share what's been happening recently. Two weeks ago, Joseph noticed a knot that suddenly popped up on his arm very close to where the original tumor was located. The made a visit to his oncologist a couple of days later; at that visit the doctor told them on a "concern scale" of 1-10, he considered it about a 3. His feeling was that with all the weight training Joe has been doing lately, the muscle may have "poppped up" in a funny way because of damage from radiation, or that scar tissue was showing up.

They scheduled a scan for last Thursday to check it out - it was quite a long procedure (2 1/2 hours) because they kept rechecking things. However, by the time of the scan, the knot was no longer visible, though Joe's whole arm was swollen (probably part of the on-going lymphodema Joe deals with because all that arm's lymph system was removed with the original tumor). Joyce called today with scan results and the nurse told Joyce that whatever it is (or was), nothing was visible on the scan and there was nothing to biopsy. The scan showed everything stable, with no change since the scan in August. She said they would be overly cautious, however, and go ahead with the scan already scheduled for 5 weeks from now to be sure there is no change at that time.

PRAISE THE LORD for this good report. Joseph and his parents were so relieved to get this good news. They did not ask for prayer (except from a very few people) because they didn't want rumors to start, or for Joe to be contacted by well-meaning friends asking about it during a very stressful mid-term week. Thank you for your prayers for this family (without knowing it was them) and thanks to those who heard the Holy Spirit's prompting to pray specifically for Joseph. As I told Joyce, "I didn't tell MIT to pray for Joe, but the Holy Spirit did." Give Him the glory!

DeLee


Tuesday, August 7, 2007 2:48PM

Dear Praying Friends,

The results are back on all of Joe's scans - GIVE THANKS TO GOD, THEY WERE
CLEAR! The PET scan, which is the most sensitive, showed no signs of
cancer, so that was the "OK" to the doctors that treatment is officially
complete. The MRI done on Joe's arm did show something that the radiologist
and oncologist feel is scar tissue from the radiation done to the tumor. It
will probably go away over time. They will check for changes when Joe has
his next scans in three months.

Today Joseph had out patient surgery at Scottish Rite to remove the port
that was inserted for chemo treatment "hook ups." He went in around 11:00
am and the surgery lasted about 30 minutes. Bob called a little after 1:00
and Joe was in a room, talking and laughing. They were going to give him
something to drink and eat, then let him go within an hour or two if he was
doing well. This procedure was the FINAL step in the year-long chemo
treatment plan. PRAISE GOD IT IS OVER!! Thank Him for sustaining Joe
during this very long, hard year. Thank Him for the provision for the
family in so many ways.

Please pray for rest and recuperation for Joe and the rest of the family -
this year has been wearing on them all and they have been "keeping on
keeping on" because they had to do so. Now the "cancer focus" is over, but
the effects of the year are not. Joe will be moving into his dorm this
weekend and starting classes next week. Life keeps going - pray God
provides supernatural renewal and refreshment through His Spirit to Joseph,
Bob, Joyce, and Rachel.

Pray that cancer will never return to Joe's body, and that all future scans
will be clear. Praise God for His healing hand.

Thank you for your faithful prayer support throughout the last year. Thank
you to all those who sent notes, brought gifts, cooked meals, and provided
rides for chemo and radiation. The Lees have been so blessed by your
support and encouragement during this ordeal. Your prayers have been, and
continue to be, their greatest blessing. May you be blessed for your part
in helping them "hold up and hold on" this year.

"Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens. Our
God is a God who saves; from the Sovereign Lord comes escape from death."
Psalm 68:19-20

DeLee


Tuesday August 7, 2007 3:47 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

The results are back on all of Joe's scans - GIVE THANKS TO GOD, THEY WERE
CLEAR! The PET scan, which is the most sensitive, showed no signs of
cancer, so that was the "OK" to the doctors that treatment is officially
complete. The MRI done on Joe's arm did show something that the radiologist
and oncologist feel is scar tissue from the radiation done to the tumor. It
will probably go away over time. They will check for changes when Joe has
his next scans in three months.

Today Joseph had out patient surgery at Scottish Rite to remove the port
that was inserted for chemo treatment "hook ups." He went in around 11:00
am and the surgery lasted about 30 minutes. Bob called a little after 1:00
and Joe was in a room, talking and laughing. They were going to give him
something to drink and eat, then let him go within an hour or two if he was
doing well. This procedure was the FINAL step in the year-long chemo
treatment plan. PRAISE GOD IT IS OVER!! Thank Him for sustaining Joe
during this very long, hard year. Thank Him for the provision for the
family in so many ways.

Please pray for rest and recuperation for Joe and the rest of the family -
this year has been wearing on them all and they have been "keeping on
keeping on" because they had to do so. Now the "cancer focus" is over, but
the effects of the year are not. Joe will be moving into his dorm this
weekend and starting classes next week. Life keeps going - pray God
provides supernatural renewal and refreshment through His Spirit to Joseph,
Bob, Joyce, and Rachel.

Pray that cancer will never return to Joe's body, and that all future scans
will be clear. Praise God for His healing hand.

Thank you for your faithful prayer support throughout the last year. Thank
you to all those who sent notes, brought gifts, cooked meals, and provided
rides for chemo and radiation. The Lees have been so blessed by your
support and encouragement during this ordeal. Your prayers have been, and
continue to be, their greatest blessing. May you be blessed for your part
in helping them "hold up and hold on" this year.

"Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens. Our
God is a God who saves; from the Sovereign Lord comes escape from death."
Psalm 68:19-20

DeLee


Friday July 27, 2007 5:00 PM

Dear Praying Friends:

Joseph is at UGA this weekend attending Dawg Camp - a fun time for in-coming
freshmen. Please remember him in prayer for a number of upcoming scans and
procedures listed below. Please pray for the Lord to remove the tiniest
speck of cancer that could still be remaining Joe's body and to bring him
complete healing from this disease.

Tuesday, 7/31, at Scottish Rite:
Bone scan 8:00 am
CT scan 4:30 pm
MRI 5:30 pm
These are all to look for any signs of cancer.

Thursday, 8/2, at Emory:
PET scan
A more detailed scan to look for traces of cancer.

Friday, 8/3, at Scottish Rite:
Echocardiogram
To check his heart for any damage from chemo.

Tuesday, 8/7:
Surgery to remove port (access "door" in Joe's chest inserted at the
beginning of his treatment plan to allow quick IV insertion during chemo).

On Saturday, 8/11, Joe will be moving into his dorm. I don't think he'll
mind being in the DAWG HOUSE : ).

As always, thank you for your faithful prayer support for Joe and his
family. I will let you know scan results as soon as I hear from the Lees.


"Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from Him. He alone is my
rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My
salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge.
Trust in Him at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to Him, for God is
our refuge." Psalm 62:5-8

DeLee


Thursday July 11, 2007 9:48 PM

Dear Friends:

Please pray for Joe this week as he finishes his year-long chemo treatment
schedule. The five-day chemos are not usually as bad as the two-day chemo
treatments in terms of the nausea side effect, but Joyce e-mailed me today
that Joe is really feeling sick this time. Pray for this to pass quickly
and for next week's side effect of exhaustion to be minimal. Usually Joe is
very wiped out for a number of days following the five-day treatment.
Thanks for keeping him lifted before the Lord.

DeLee


Thursday July 5, 2007 10:26 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph will be having his FINAL 5-day chemo treatment Monday through Friday,
July 9-13. Praise God that Joe is finally completing the year-long
treatment schedulel! Joe is so glad to be at the end of this long, long
road. Please pray for him next week - pray for no intense nausea, for his
energy level to be good, and for healing from the physical and emotional
toll this year has taken on him. Pray that as this final attack on the
cancer happens, the Lord uses it to remove any trace of cancer left in his
body. Pray for complete healing, with no cancer ever returning.

Follow-up scans will probably happen July 24 and 25. These will be detailed
scans to look for any sign of cancer that could be remaining. Pray there
will not be a single cancer cell left in his body. When these scans come
back clear (as we are asking), Joe will be scheduled for scans every three
months (I think for a year or a year and a half) and then they will stretch
to every six months. He will have scans for five years from the date of
coming off chemo before the medical community pronounces him cancer-free.
Pray our God declares him cancer-free right now!

Thank you for your faithful prayers throughout this year. The Lee family
has been so encouraged and strengthened by your prayers and acts of service
during this time. I will keep you updated through the last chemo and
upcoming scans. I'll also send updates whenever Joe has scans scheduled in
the months to come, so you can keep up with him and continue to pray for
him.

"But I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in
God's unfailing love for ever and ever. I will praise You forever for what
You have done; in Your name I will hope, for Your name is good. I will
praise You in the presence of all Your saints." Psalm 52:8-9

DeLee


Tuesday June 5, 2007 10:12PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Joe did pretty well through the chemo treatment last week (no throwing up),
but did struggle with nausea. He was on the couch pretty much through
Monday, but felt better today. However, by this evening he was feeling bad
again and wiped out on the couch again. Please pray for him to get over the
nausea and the extreme tiredness.

Please also pray for Joe's sister, Rachel. She and Joyce were rear-ended on
Wednesday of last week; both of them have had back pain and have been seeing
a chiropractor. Rachel has also had several fainting spells since the
accident, the most recent one while sitting. Her doctor feels she needs to
be checked out further and she has an appointment on 6/15 at a heart center
be sure everything is fine with her heart. Please pray for healing from
whatever is causing these spells and for peace and calmness in her spirit,
as well as for the rest of the family. The Lees have had non-stop stressful
events over the last several months. Though some of the stress was from
"good" things like graduation and related celebrations, they've been on an
emotional roller coaster without much break time between events.

Thank you for your faithful prayer support.

"Great peace have they who love Your law, and nothing can make them
stumble." Psalm 119:165

DeLee


Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Dear Praying friends,

On Saturday night Joe graduated from The King's Academy. It was a beautiful
ceremony and very personal; with a small graduating class of 21, each
graduate was able to record an audio tape that was played as he received his
diploma. The recordings were so sweet with the students thanking and
acknowledging family, teachers, and friends who were important in their
lives. There were a number of awards given to seniors and Joseph received a
special "Perseverance Award" for his incredible endurance, determination,
and positive attitude throughout the ordeal of fighting cancer during his
senior year. His teachers commented on his hard work in staying on top of
school work in the midst of chemotherapy treatments, as well as his
uncomplaining and cheerful spirit that has been an inspiration to all those
around him. He recieved a standing ovation as he went up to accept his
award.

Many photos of the graduates were displayed on big screens throughout the
night and there were often pictures of Joseph hamming it up with friends or
demostrating dance moves at various school functions. It was a touching,
fun, and memorable ceremony.

Today Joe starts a five-day chemo round. Please pray for his stamina and
health in general. As always, he needs protection from illness or injury.
Praise God for how Joe has been protected from germs when his immune system
has been weak during the last nine months. Also pray he will not be
severely nauseated from the treatment. He has a few more treatments and
should finish up right before beginning school at The University of Georgia
this fall.

Thank you for your continued prayer support and encouragement for the Lee
family.

"The Lord delights in those who fear Him, who put their hope in His
unfailing love." Psalm 147:11


DeLee


Thursday, May 10, 2007 6:54 PM

Dear Prayer Team,

Thanks for your prayers for Joe as he went on the trip to Washington, D.C.
He had a fantastic time. Joyce said when he got off the plane he looked
like Charlton Heston coming off the mountain in "The Ten Commandments" - she
said he was glowing and staring off in the distance saying " . . . I saw the
FBI . . ." : ) It was a wonderful experience that he said was a highlight
of his senior year (along with getting into UGA!).

The group got to visit the FBI headquarters and training facility where Joe
asked if it might be possible to hold one of the weapons. He was allowed to
fire three clips on a gun (sorry that's as technical as I get) and brought
home the target as a souvenir. Evidently this is not "normal" procedure for
a tour! Joseph also had the thrill of putting a wreath at the Tomb of the
Unknown Soldier - an honor usually reserved for dignitaries. Joe and one
other kid on the trip were allowed this priviledge. He also met Saxby
Chambliss and Johnny Isackson while on the trip, and was interviewed on ABC
news about his visit. Unfortunately, Joyce and Bob didn't get Joe's message
in time to see it, but a friend has taped it, so they'll get to see it soon.
Joyce said he left for the trip looking sick and pale (counts were really
low) and came back looking great. He goes today for bloodwork - thanks for
praying for counts to rise.

Joseph leaves for his senior trip to St. Petersburg, FL, on Monday for 5
days of fun with his class. Pray for his good health and protection and a
great trip enjoying this special time with classmates. He will graduate
from The King's Academy on Saturday, May 26.

Joe's next chemo treatment will start either Memorial Day or the following
day for 5 days. He has two more treatments after that (with three weeks
between), so chemo should end sometime at the end of July of first of
August. They will then do scans and then he'll be getting ready to start
school at The University of Georgia.

Thank you for your faithful prayers for Joseph during this difficult senior
year. He has endured and overcome in a most admirable way. Congratulations
on a job well done, Joseph.

Thank you also for your prayers for Bob. He is in the process of ordering a
hearing aid. Please pray it will address all the problems he has been
having - that he will be able to hear lost tones and the chriping sound will
disappear.


"Glory in His holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the Lord rejoice.
Look to the Lord and His strength; seek His face always. Remember the
wonders He has done, His miracles, and the judgments He pronounced." I
Chronicles 16:10-12


DeLee


Tuesday, May 1, 2007 6:01 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Joe had his two-day chemo last week (cytoxin - the rough one) and is still
feeling the effects this week. He felt pretty crummy last week (nausea,
etc.) and is very tired this week. He had a really busy schedule last week
with wrapping up his senior year at school. Joseph participated in the
school talent show on Saturday night and spent several hours one day
teaching the entire student council a choreographed dance routine that they
presented at the end. Joseph won third place for his individual "Dance
through the Ages" act - those who witnessed it said it was a hilarious
fast-paced take on the history of dance. Today (Tuesday) he is still wiped
out from all the weekend's busyness.

Joe went for bloodwork today and his counts are very low (a big reason for
the tiredness). Please pray for his protection from illness as he is very
susceptible to picking up germs, and for stamina as he is leaving Wednesday
morning for a special trip. He will be going to Washington, D.C., with Camp
Sunshine which sponsors special activities for young people with cancer and
other diseases/disorders. The group will be visiting the usual historic
sites with trips to the FBI, CIA, and other special destinations. Joe has
really been looking forward to this trip and would appreciate your prayers
for him to feel well and enjoy it thoroughly.

Thanks for your intercession on Joe's behalf.

"Praise be to the Lord, for He has heard my cry for mercy. The Lord is my
strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him, and I am helped. My hearts
leaps for joy and I will give thanks to Him in song." Psalm 28:6-7

DeLee


Monday, April 16, 2007 11:54 PM

Dear Friends,

Thanks for your prayers for Joseph to enjoy his prom Saturday night. He
felt good and had a good time. I saw him and he looked quite dashing in his
all-white attire - a Fred Astaire look-a-like, top hat, cane, and all.

Next chemo will be a two-day treatment on Monday 4/23 and Tuesday 4/24.
Pray he does not have the awful nausea he had last time.

I'd like to ask you to pray for Joe's dad, Bob. He is having problems with
the hearing in his left year. That in itself is concerning, but especially
so because he is deaf (since early childhood) in his right ear. For the
last several weeks Bob has been experiencing a continuous noise in his ear
he desribes as sounding like the chirping of hundreds of crickets. The
volume of other sounds has diminished and he has lost the ability to hear
some high tones. He had an MRI that was all clear (give the Lord thanks for
that) and will have more tests this week. Please pray the cause will be
identified and the Lord will bring healing and restoration of his hearing.

Thank you for "standing in the gap" in prayer.

DeLee


Friday, April 13, 2007 8:52 PM

Please pray for Joe. His Junior-Senior Formal is this weekend and I just
got this message from his mom (she actually sent it Thursday evening, but I
was gone all day today and didn't get it until Friday night):

He went for his counts today and they
are extremely low. They have been holding off on giving that booster
shot because an alert has come out that it has some serious side effects
when given in certain doses. His platelets should be between 150-450
and is only 63, WBC should be 4.5-11 but is only 1.01 and HGB (iron?)
should be 13.5-17.5 but is 10.6. He's been wearing his mask and is
trying to rest as much as possible before prom.

Please pray that God will "boost" Joseph's counts and that he will feel
really good for the formal Saturday night. Pray for protection from any
kind of illness while his counts are low. Pray that the Lord blesses him
with a wonderful time tomorrow.

Thanks for your intercession his behalf.

DeLee


Thursday March 15, 2007 5:23AM

Dear Friends,

Joseph's two days of chemo last week went OK. He had that yucky chemo
"sick" feeling, but managed to eat and keep his food down. He has not
bounced back as quickly as he is used to doing following chemo and felt
really bad today. This may be due to the fact that last week's chemo
treatment was only two weeks after the treatment prior to it. Joe was
hoping to have chemo again next week (another two week span), but it won't
happen that soon. It isn't advantageous to have another treatment so soon
when it is taking too hard a toll on the body. Joe will go tomorrow for a
Procrit shot to boost blood counts (and his energy level) - this a day
earlier than scheduled, but is needed to help him recuperate. Please pray
for Joe's energy level to return quickly - he hates getting further behind
with school work and managed to stay at school all day today even though he
felt bad. Pray also for protection from illness or infection while his
counts are especially low. Pray for wisdom for the doctor on timing and
which drugs to use for chemo. Pray for the protection of Joseph's organs
from dangerous effects of chemo. Pray for all cancer cells to be
eradicated. Pray for the grace of the Lord to surround and uphold Joseph
and his family.

Thank you for your faithfulness in prayer.

"O Lord, be gracious to us; we long for You. Be our strength every morning,
our salvation in time of distress." Isaiah 33:2

DeLee


Monday, February 19, 2007 11:43 AM

Dear Friends,

Please be in prayer for Joseph during this five-day chemo week. Pray for
his strength and protection from illness. Also, pray particularly for
protection for his organs from damage from the chemo. He has experienced
some chest pain after a recent around of chemo which could be a sign of
heart problems. He has had to have his heart checked in the past to be sure
there was no problem there. Please pray for wisdom for the doctors if he
experiences any more of the chest pain, that they will know if they need to
make changes in the chemo drugs or dosages. Pray that his heart, bladder,
and other organs will not be harmed by the chemo medications. Continue to
pray for the Lord's complete healing of Joe's body.

Thank you for your intercession on his behalf.

"For you have been my hope, O Sovereign Lord, my confidence since my youth."
Psalm 71:5

DeLee


Wednesday, January 31, 2007 9:25 AM

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph had his two-day chemo Monday and Tuesday. He has felt nauseated, but
has not thrown up. He has also had an appetite and has been able to eat.
Thank God for this relatively good response to the nasty cytoxin drug.
Please pray that he will feel especially good today - it's his 18th
birthday!

The next chemo round will be a 5-day treatment beginning February 19. They
haven't heard from his doctor yet about any changes to the chemo treatment
plan since they discovered the tumor was completely gone.

Continue to praise God for the miraculous disappearance of the tumor. Pray
for complete healing of any cancer cells anywhere in Joe's body. Pray for
the Lord's peace, joy, and blessings to surround him today.

DeLee


Monday, January 22, 2007 6:20 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

PRAISE THE LORD! Joe's surgeon said they will NOT need to do surgery! The
chemo treatments will continue as planned. His next treatment is for 2 days
- next Monday and Tuesday, 1/29 and 1/30.

Keep on praying!

"Come and see what God has done, how awesome His works in man's behalf!"
Psalm 6:5

DeLee


Sunday, January 21, 2007 8:53 PM

Dear Prayer Team,

Just wanted to let you know the good news from Joe's surgeon: when he
received the MRI report he did not see any evidence of the tumor. Dr.
Munson will be consulting with Joe's other doctors to decide whether any
surgery will be attempted (possibly to remove any scar tissue left by
radiation). Praise God for this wonderful news! Thank you so much for your
continuing prayers.

DeLee


Thursday January 18, 2007 10:57 PM

Dear Friends,

Joe had his CT scan Wednesday and the MRI today. There was a problem
sending the MRI from Crawford Long to his surgeon, Dr. Munson, so the doctor
didn't have it for their appointment this afternoon. During the physical
exam of Joe's arm, however, Dr. Munson said he could not feel anything in
the area where the tumor had been. He indicated that if the films don't
show anything, surgery may not be required. Praise God that the tumor
responded well to radiation and has shrunk to a very small size or is gone
altogether! If surgery is necessary, the date has been set for February 9.
If surgery isn't needed the chemo treatment plan will continue as planned.
If surgery happens, the chemo plan will be adjusted around the surgery.

One reason the surgery is set for a few weeks down the road is to allow
healing from radiation burns. Right now Joe has a 6" long rectangular burn
on the underside of his arm from the elbow to the armpit caused by
radiation. Please pray it heals soon and no infection happens at the site.

Yesterday Joseph got a shot of a medication to help boost his white blood
count. He can literally "feel it in his bones" - his bones ache as they are
prompted to produce more white blood cells. Pray his this pain subsides
quickly.

Please pray for Joseph as he tries to catch up on missed school work from
the appointments the last couple of days. He will be back at school
tomorrow (no doubt with a smile on his face, no matter how he is feeling).

Joe will be celebrating his 18th birthday on the 31st of this month. If
you'd like to wish him a happy birthday his home address is: 4716 Shallow
Ridge Road, Kennesaw, GA 30144. You can also post a message at
www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee.

The Lees would like to thank the kind friend who sent an anonymous gift
recently. God has provided for their needs in so many wonderful ways. Your
prayers and messages of encouragement help keep them "afloat."

"Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in
Him." Psalm 34:8

DeLee


Tuesday, January 9, 2007 9:58 PM

Dear Friends,

Joseph is in the midst of a hard week with chemo treatments in the mornings
at Scottish Rite and radiation in the afternoons at Emory. Bob said Joe
didn't feel like doing anything yesterday, but was little better today. He
is nauseated, but hasn't thrown up. He was asleep at 8 pm, but will be
given drugs to protect the bladder and IV bag changes for hydration during
the night.

God has been gracious in bringing together drivers to get Joe to his
treatments this week. Bob plans to talk with Joseph's doctor on Friday to
see where they go from here. Radiation will be almost complete by then, so
they should be at the point for evaluation regarding surgery once the last
radiation treatment is done.

Thank you for your on-going prayers for Joe's healing, his physical stamina,
protection from illness and chemo side effects. Don't forget you can go to
www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee to leave him a message of encouragement.
If you'd like to mail a note or card, the home address is:

Joseph Lee
4716 Shallow Ridge Road
Kennesaw, GA 30144

By the way, over the Christmas break Joseph received an acceptance letter to
Auburn University - way to go, Joe!

"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the
rivers, they will not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you
will not be scorched, nor will the flame burn you. For I am the Lord your
God, The Holy One of Israel, your Savior." Isaiah 43:2-3

DeLee


Tuesday, January 2, 2007 10:07 PM

Dear Friends,

Sorry this is so delayed getting to you - computer headaches . . .

Thank you for your prayers for Joseph this afternoon. I spoke to Bob around
7:00 pm tonight and he said Joe is OK. Joseph was hit from behind, but the
impact wasn't forceful enough to cause the airbag to deploy, and he hit his
head on the steering wheel. His blood counts were good tonight and
everything checked out normal. He has a little bit of a headache, but other
than that seems fine. Pray that there are no lingering problems from the
accident (whiplash, etc.).

Please pray for Joe in the difficult week ahead for him. Next week he will
have chemo and radiation 5 days in a row. Chemo will be at Scottish Rite
and radiation will be Emory. Pray for the schedule of drivers to come
together smoothly so Joe can get where he needs to be without Joyce and Bob
having to take off work to get him there.

Your prayer support is a blessing.

DeLee


Tuesday, January 2, 2007 3:08 PM

Dear Friends,

Joyce just called a few minutes ago to tell me Joe was in a car accident.
He was on his way to a radiation treatment when he was rear-ended and his
face hit the steering wheel. He was able to call Joyce and tell her that
his face was bleeding and police had been called. She was on her way to the
accident site when she called me.

It sounds as though Joe was not badly hurt, but if his blood counts are low,
he is at risk for internal bleeding with any kind of hard blow. Please pray
for protection from any serious injury or internal bleeding from the
accident. Pray the medical team that checks him out will be very thorough
and detect any problem that may exist. I will update you when I hear from
Joyce again.

DeLee


Thursday, December 28, 2006 5:09 AM

One of our pastors and the most loveable guy on the planet, Rev. Maurice Varon Crosby age 57 of Marietta, went home to be with the Lord Tuesday, December 26, 2006. Funeral services will be held 1:00 P.M. Friday at the First Baptist Church of Atlanta with the Revs' John Glover, Bob Schipper, and Jimmy Haynes officiating. Burial will be in the Georgia Memorial Park Cemetery. The body will lie in state from 12 to 1 P.M. at the church. Born in Columbus, GA, Rev. Crosby was raised in Athens and had been a resident of Cobb County for 30 years. He was a graduate of the University of Alabama and a graduate of Southwestern Seminary. He coached and taught at First Baptist Church of Dallas, TX. He was employed by the First Baptist Church of Smyrna as a Youth and Activities Minister for 4 years. He was employed by First Baptist Church of Atlanta for 24 years as an Associate Pastor in Pastoral Care. He was a member of the First Baptist Church of Atlanta. Surviving are: Wife - Ann Crosby of Marietta, 3 Sons - Michael and Christopher Crosby both of Marietta, Jonathan Crosby of Smyrna, Mother - Frances Crosby of Valdosta, Sister - Susan Middleton of Valdosta. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 P.M. Thursday at the Carmichael Funeral Home in Smyrna.

Go to www.carmichaelfuneralhomes.com for details

Love,

Bob

"For we have great joy and consolation in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed by you, brother."


Wednesday, December 20, 2006 10:20 AM

Dear Prayer Team:

Praise God from Whom all blessings flow! Thank you for your prayers for
Rachel. She does not have strep or mono. Her tonsils are inflamed from a
build up of bacteria. The doctor gave her a prescription, but said to wait
a few days before filling it because it was likely the throat would improve
on its own. Last night the white bumps were gone. She is probably just
suffering from post-exam stress and exhaustion.

Yesterday was a day of a great outpouring of financial blessings for the
Lees. On the same day they received a large bill for medical expenses not
covered by insurance, money came in from several visitors and sources they
were not expecting. Joyce said the Lord continues to give them "their daily
bread" just when they need it. Praise the Lord for His perfect timing and
provision.

Thank you to all for your prayers, notes, cards, gifts, and encouragement.
The Lee family is so grateful for the support and love so many friends and
even strangers have shown them. Merry Christmas to each of you; may you
truly know the joy of celebrating the greatest gift of all - Immanuel, God
with us.

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that
whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."
John 3:16

DeLee


Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Dear Friends,

Joe had a pretty good day (for a chemo day) yesterday. The nausea was not a
severe as usual and he did not throw up. He was felt less nauseous and was
able to sleep by propping up on the couch for the night.

Please pray for Joe's sister, Rachel. She is going to the doctor this
afternoon with a sore throat- she came home from UGA exhausted and with
white bumps in her throat. Please pray for Joe to be protected from picking
up whatever Rachel has. They were together all day yesterday for his chemo
treatment and radiation appointment.

Thank you for your prayers.

DeLee


Monday, December 18, 2006 1:33 PM

Dear Praying Friends:

Just a quick update to ask you to pray for Joe, particularly today. This
morning he had chemo with cytoxin - the rough drug that makes him really
sick. Pray for the nausea to pass quickly and for his strength, as this one
"wipes him out." His sister Rachel took him to chemo and will get him to
his radiation treatment today as well. It will be a full day and unpleasant
for Joe to have to travel with chemo nausea coming on. Tonight he will be
given a drug at home to protect his bladder from the toxic effects of the
cytoxin. Administering that drug will require getting up several times
during the night. Pray for the family to get good rest between doses.

Pray for rest and refreshment for the Lees during this Christmas season.
Joe will have time off from school, but will have radiation throughout the
holidays (except Christmas Day and New Year's Day). Pray he feels good and
is strong during this time. Continue to pray for protection from any
illnesses. For Bob this is "crunch" season at work so he won't be getting
any time off. Pray for his stamina and that the Christmas and New Year's
weekends will be "recharging" times for him. Joyce will have some time off
from work and will be taking Joe to radiation on those days. Pray she she
has some relaxing time and some productive time for the things she would
like to accomplish. Rachel will be home on break from UGA and will be
working some during the time off. Pray she has joyful times at home with
her family and is refreshed to go back to school in January.

Thank you for your on-going prayer support. It is invaluable to this
family.

"And the angel said unto them, 'Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good
tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born
this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord.'" Luke
2:10-11


Saturday, December 2, 2006 11:49 PM

Dear Friends,

Joe is doing OK with chemo so far this week. He has not been vomiting, but
does have that awful "chemo-yuck" feeling that makes him miserable. He and
Bob are at Scottish Rite now getting ready for today's treatment. They are
hoping he will be released after treatment (around 10:00 PM) so he can sleep
in his own bed tonight. Joe will have to return tomorrow for the last
treatment of this round, so the hospital may want to keep him overnight
rather than readmit him Sunday. Pray two days of chemo will go smoothly and
the time will pass more quickly than Joe anticipates.

On Monday, the Lees will go to Emory for a consultation to set up radiation.
Joe will be fitted with a "cast" to target the area to be radiated and
protect the rest of his arm. He will probably begin the daily radiation
treatments on Tuesday. A definite schedule for radiation will be determined
on Monday. Please pray this is effective in shrinking the tumor further so
surgery can be done more easily. Pray for the volunteer drivers who will be
taking Joe to and from radiation treatments for a number of weeks. Pray the
schedule will fall into place and that drivers will not be sick during their
drive days. Continue to pray for Joe to be protected from illnesses that
would be very difficult for his body to combat. Pray for the Lord's
complete healing of his body.

"But I will sing of Your strength, in the morning I will sing of Your love;
for You are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble. O my Strength, I
sing praise to You; You, O God, are my fortress, my loving God." Psalm
59:16-17

DeLee


Monday, November 27, 2006 10:09 PM

Dear Prayer Team:

The Lees had a restful Thanksgiving break. Joe has enjoyed the time off
from chemo treatments and school.

I talked with Bob today and plans for surgery have been delayed for awhile.
The surgeon wants to see a little more progress (shrinking) of the tumor
before he proceeds with surgery; it may be that he is hoping to see the
tumor move away from the nerves that would be difficult to work around when
removing the tumor. The Lees have not had a consultation with him or Dr.
George (Joe's oncologist) about surgery. They hope to talk with Dr. George
or his assistant this week to get more information.

Today the doctors told the Lees they want to go ahead with a 5-day round of
chemo this week. Joe will start these four-hour treatments on Wednesday;
they are scheduled for 11:00 am each day. The weekend treatments will
require a hospital stay since the clinic is closed on Saturday and Sunday.
To be admitted and released the same day two days in a row might be
difficult to work out, so Joe may have to stay overnight on Saturday. He
really hates hospital stays and would prefer to go home each day.

Dr. George and Dr. Monson, the surgeon, have decided it might be helpful in
shrinking the tumor for Joe to receive radiation treatments before surgery.
They will be working with Dr. Marcus, a radiation oncologist at Emory.
Radiation has not been scheduled yet, but will probably be 5 days a week for
4-5 weeks. Radiation is not available at Scottish Rite, so Joseph will be
going to Emory for those treatments. The radiation itself is a quick
procedure (15 minutes or so), but the trip to Emory and back will take a lot
of time each day. The Lees will be getting help from volunteer drivers with
Joe's radiation transportation needs.

Please pray that the tumor will be very responsive to this additional chemo
and the radiation treatments. Pray that all cancer cells in the tumor will
be "killed" and no active cells will be left when surgery is done. Pray for
wisdom for the three doctors working together to agree on the right timing
for surgery. Pray for Joe's stamina as he goes through chemo this week.
Bob wasn't sure exactly which drugs would be used this time; pray they will
not make Joe really nauseated. Continue to pray for complete healing from
cancer.

"We wait in hope for the Lord; He is our help and our shield. In Him our
hearts rejoice, for we trust in His holy name. May Your unfailing love rest
upon us, O Lord, even as we put our hope in You." Psalm 33:20-22

In Him who is trustworthy,

DeLee


Sunday, November 19, 2006 3:56 PM

Dear Friends,

I'm sorry I've been so delayed in getting you information about Joe's scans.
I was waiting to hear from Bob and Joyce to see what the scans showed. We
finally were able to touch base yesterday.

On Monday Joseph had an echocardiogram (not sure about spelling on that one)
to be sure there have been no ill effects on his heart from the chemo. On
Tuesday, Joe had at CT scan and MRI; he was surprised to find the doctor
wanted him to have chemo while he was there. His doctor didn't want there
to be a really long gap between treatments, so Joseph received a vincristine
treatment.(That drug doesn't make him sick - YAY!). His counts were good,
so no booster shot for the immune system was administered.

Joseph's oncology doctor, Dr. George, and the surgeon, Dr. Monson, were
pleased with what they saw in the scans. Dr. George was happy with the
progress of the tumor (shrinking), but was a bit concerned about the
proximity of nerves to the tumor and the possibility of nerve damage during
surgery. The Lees have not met with Dr. Monson yet to discuss plans for
surgery. It may happen the week after Thanksgiving.

Pray for the chemo treatments to attack all cancer cells in Joe's body and
for his organs to be protected from the effects of chemo. Pray the surgery
will go well and there will be no nerve damage. Pray for the family's peace
and stamina as they make their way down this hard road. Pray the Lee's have
a Thanksgiving that is a restful, blessed time.

"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for
this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

DeLee


Saturday, November 11, 2006 4:31 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph has been doing well this week, though he had to go Thursday to Scottish Rite for shots to boost his immune system. This is necessary following cytoxin because it not only attacks the cancer, but Joseph's white blood cells as well.

Joe will be having scans on Monday and Tuesday, 11/13 and 14, for doctors to
check the size of the tumor and decide on a date for surgery. It is likely
the surgery will be the week following Thanksgiving and that Joe won't have
any more chemo until after surgery.

Pray for the doctors to have wisdom about timing for surgery, schedule for
chemo treatments, and chemo drug choices. Pray for the Lord to direct each
decision in this process and for Him to heal Joe's body of all cancer cells.

Thank you for your on-going prayer support. Knowing you are praying is such
an encouragement to Joseph and his family. Your cards and messages on
caringbridge are blessings to them as well.


"Show me Your ways, O Lord, teach me Your paths; guide me in Your truth and
teach me, for You are God my Savior, and my hope is in You all day long."
Psalm 25:4-5

DeLee


Sunday, November 5, 2006 7:32 PM

Dear Friends,

It was the final game of the season for the Crown Knights football team.
Homecoming night, and for the senior Knights players, their last high school
game. They were pitted against the Colts of Augusta at Kell High School
Stadium on the cold moonlit night, with stands full of fans eager to cheer
the Knights to victory. During the opening minutes of the game, it was the
Knights' ball and third down when Joe Lee, in the tailback position of the
I-formation, received a toss sweep to the left and turned on the jets for a
ten-yard run for the first touchdown of the game. The stands erupted with
shouts of "GO, JOE!" You should've been there. What a night : ) . Joseph
put the first points on the board, made several great runs, and got to play
the entire game. It was a most wonderful night. Thank you for your prayers
for Joe to play in this game.

It was an added blessing to see Joe's teammate Antonio (Toad) Torrez run in
the second TD of the game. Antonio, who is also a senior, had not played in
a game since the first scrimmage at season's start when he was badly
injured; he was just recently hospitalized for lung surgery for damage
stemming from that injury. Their teammates and many others were praying for
both these guys and God gave them a winning night. The final score was
Knights 34 , Colts 14.

At half-time the senior football players were recognized and Joe proudly
walked through the arch with his mom and dad. His favorite scripture was
read:

"I rejoice greatly in the Lord that at last you have renewed your concern
for me. Indeed, you have been concerned, but you had no opportunity to show
it. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be
content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I
know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content
in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in
plenty or in want. I can do everything through Him who gives me strength."
Philippians 4:10-13.

Joe said two of his greatest inspirations are his sister Rachel and best
friend Brandon Wisonant. It was announced that Joe plans to attend college
to pursue a career in criminal justice.

You can have "Remember the Titans;" I"ll always remember "Crown Knights
Homecoming 2006."

"We will shout for joy when you are victorious and will lift up our banners
in the name of our God." Psalm 20:5


DeLee


Friday, November 3, 2006 9:58 PM CST

Dear Friends,

Joe has had a rough week since chemo on Tuesday. Cytoxin is always hard on
the body and he has felt its effects. Bob tells Joe that if he is feeling
so bad, he should just think how bad the tumor must "feel" being the target
of the attack. Please pray that the chemo is bombarding all the cancer
cells in Joseph's body and "wiping them out." Continue to ask the Lord for
Joe's complete healing from this disease.

Joseph went for his blood counts this afternoon. His counts had to be 100
or better in order to be allowed to play in the football game tomorrow
night. The counts were 250! Joe is thrilled to be able to play in the
Crown Knights' final game of the season. Please pray he is feeling much
better (no nausea) and stronger for tomorrow night. Pray especially for
protection from injury during the game. (In fact, you could pray that for
all the players - the Knights will be facing an opponent with some very
large players.)

Thank you for "praying without ceasing."

"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of
the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, 'He is my refuge and my fortress, my
God, in whom I trust.'" Psalm 91:1-2

DeLee


Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:01 PM

Dear Prayer Team,

I just talked with Joseph (12:30 PM) and he could use your prayers right
now. He is having a crummy day - feeling really nauseated. Please lift him
up to the Lord and pray for this nausea to pass quickly.

Joe had his cytoxin treatment on Monday and did OK afterwards - he didn't
feel good, but not awful. At home, he was given fluids, anti-nausea drugs,
and medication to protect his bladder from cytoxin damage. Yesterday he
received doxorubicin only and had a very good day, feeling better than he
ever has after cytoxin. He commented to his dad, "There must be a lot of
people praying for me." Right now he is still on IV fluids, but is not
doing well; Joe certainly needs to know you are praying for him today.
Send him a message on www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee to let him know he
is in your prayers.

The Lee's van broke down on the way to chemo Monday. AAA came and got the
car to the repair shop; one of their kind neighbors picked up Joe and Bob
and drove them to Scottish Rite. Please pray the car repairs are minor and
inexpensive.

The last football game of the season for the Crown Knights will be Saturday
night at Kell High School stadium. Joseph really wants to play in this
final game. He will have his blood counts checked on Friday to determine if
he is able to play. The platelet counts (which control clotting) are
particularly important, as an injury when they are low could cause internal
bleeding. His counts start to drop 4-7 days after cytoxin and usually
"bottom out" at 10-14 days. By Saturday it will be cutting it close to
avoid this drop. Please pray it will be very clear whether or not Joe
should play. If his counts are low, but he feels really good, it will be
difficult for him to have to miss the game.

Thank you for your continuing prayers and support for Joe and his family.

"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.
Those who know Your name will trust in You, for You, Lord, have never
forsaken those who seek you." Psalm 9:9-11

DeLee


Friday, October 20, 2006 2:01 PM

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Thank you for your unceasing prayer support for Joe and his family. They
say they can literally "feel" the prayers of their brothers and sisters in
Christ holding them up. What a joy to be able "share each others burdens"
by bringing the needs of those we love before the Lord of the universe,
knowing He hears, He cares, and He will give peace to our souls when we come
before Him and give Him those burdens. Jesus tells us when we are burdened
to take "his yoke," like you put on an ox. That sounds like a burden to
carry, but it's not. When two "unmatched" oxen were yoked together, the
weight of the yoke was put on the older, experienced ox, which led the young
ox in order to train it. When we take Jesus' yoke, He carries the weight
and guides our steps; He is walking right beside us - we are not alone.
What a relief.

This has been such a welcome week of recuperation for the Lees. They have
been able to get some much needed rest. Joseph is so relieved to have two
"off" weeks from chemo and is feeling pretty well overall. He is still
experiencing some residual nausea (please pray for that to go away) and is
not at the energy level he would like to be. He really misses exercising
(and football), but still runs when he feels like it, though it really wears
him out and he usually sleeps afterwards. His blood counts yesterday were
borderline to low, so he got an injection to boost them so his immune system
does not get too weak. Continue to pray for protection from illness or
injury.

Please keep praying for his school work load. Joe really wants to keep up
with his senior year assignments, but it is very difficult when he must miss
school and often has trouble focusing to be able to complete homework. This
week he has been encouraged in that area and has received much-appreciated
one-on-one time with some of his teachers to help him catch up. He is not
feeling as overwhelmed about school as he has been.

This morning Joseph shared with his classmates at a Fellowship of Christian
Athletes meeting at school. There was a large group attending and they were
blessed by Joe's words of encouragement to them. I was not able to attend,
but spoke to several who did and said that all those there were blessed by
Joe's grateful attitude for all the Lord has done for him, his perspective
on how God is working eternal purposes through this battle with cancer, and
his desire for God to be honored and glorified in his life. Clearly this
young man has a relationship with his Lord that is the anchor for his life.
What an encouragement to all of us to see Joe's faith and see the Lord's
faithfulness in his life. The meeting ended with Joseph's classmates
surrounding him and praying aloud for him.

Joseph's next chemo treatments will be October 30 and 31. This will be a
round with the chemo drug, cytoxin. Following this treatment Joe will be
evaluated for surgery which will probably happen in November. In addition
to chemotherapy, radiation treatments to target the tumor area will be
scheduled following surgery. Pray the timing will be "just right" for the
removal of the tumor.


Keep asking the Lord for his complete healing for Joseph. Thank you for
your faithful prayers.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in
heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my
burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

DeLee


Sunday, October 11, 2006 11:35 AM

Dear Prayer Team:

This is a very difficult week. Joe was very sick Monday night after
treatment and threw up numerous times. On Tuesday he was sick during
treatment a few times, but did not vomit once he got home; however, he
remained very nauseated and was totally wiped out. Today he still feels very
sick and will have to go in at 1:30 for a treatment. Bob says this week is
as bad as any of the "worst stuff" Joe had to deal with during the 2001
treatment. Please pray for the nausea to get better and that Joseph won't
be horrendously sick today. Pray he will be able to eat and won't lose a
lot of weight.

The family is very tired. A beeper goes off during the night for a
medication (that requires a 15-minute manual "push" to inject it into his
port line) that Joe must get to protect his bladder from the effects of the
chemo drugs, which are extremely hard on the body. Also, the IV bag must be
changed during the night. Pray for their stamina and strength. Pray for
alertness as Joyce and Bob drive. Bob is a driver for a package-delivery
company, so he is on the road all day.

Please pray also for decisions the doctor and family must make regarding
Joseph's protocol. It is a balancing act between how effective drugs are on
the tumor and how well Joseph's body can tolerate the drugs. Often, the
really "rough stuff" is what is best for attacking the cancer. One of the
meds, irinotecan, was used at the beginning of treatment and was very
effective, but left Joseph feeling sick all the time and unable to think
clearly (for him that side effect is one of the most difficult, because he
hates to feel "out of it"). However, they made need to consider using this
one again because of its effectiveness on the cancer. There are medications
that can be given to help Joe better tolerate some of the chemo drugs, but
sometimes those meds also help the tumor tolerate (not be affected by) the
drugs as well. It is clearly a difficult line to walk. Please pray for
wisdom in decisions concerning which medications to use.

"My comfort in my suffering is this: Your promise renews my life." Psalm
119:50
"Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5b


DeLee


Sunday, October 9, 2006 3:25

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph had his first treatment for this week. It lasted from 9:00 am to
about 2:30 pm. They hydrated him upfront the he got the chemo drugs. He
went home with 24 hours worth of IV hydration and was sleeping when I talke
to Bob.

Joe also had a visit with his doctor and his chemo schedule for the rest of
the month has been changed. Instead of two weeks of 5-day-in-a-row
treatments, he will only have two days of treatment. On Monday, 10/30 he
will get cytoxin and a second chemo drug; on Tuesday, 10/31 he will receive
just the second drug. After that, scans will be done to decide about
possible surgery in November. The surgeon will want to operate on the tumor
when it is within the "best" size range.

Bob and Joseph were delighted to come home to a freshly-mowed and edged
yard, courtesy of volunteers from Joe's school, The Kings Academy. The friends even put out
pinestraw and hanging baskets of flowers. It was a wonderful blessing for
them today.

Please continue to pray for the chemo drugs to be effective and for God to
bring Joe complete healing from cancer. Praise Him that Joseph is getting a
"break" from the 5-day-in-a-row schedule and can enjoy some chemo-free weeks
again. Pray the timing will be right for sugery on the tumor and the
surgeon will have wisdom about when to proceed.

Thank you for your faithfulness in prayer.

"And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in
Christ Jesus. To our God and Father be glory for ever and ever."
Philippians 4:19

DeLee


Saturday, October 7 , 2006 3:15PM

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph has been glad for the break from chemo treatments the last couple of weeks.His white blood cell count has been dropping during this time and for several days it was very low. This can be very dangerous, with increased susceptibility to illness or infection. Also, an injury when the white count is low can cause internal bleeding. Joe has been very tired during this time. Praise the Lord that the count is now back in normal range. Pray that it stays high, and he stays healthy.

Next week Joe begins outpatient treatments for five days in a row. On Monday (10/9) he will be at the hospital from 9:00 am to approximately 3:30 pm. He will go home with in-home hydration (IV) materials to last him until
he comes in the next day. On Tuesday through Friday he should be in for treatments for approximately three hours (though the timing is often longer than anticipated). Each day he will leave with a 24-hour hydration supply
to keep IV's going at home. Please pray these treatments go smoothly and that Joseph will not experience severe nausea.

The last few weeks have been really stressful for the family with home chores and schoolwork piling up. They are weary as the cumulative effects of the the past few months are being felt. Give the Lord thanks that groups
from Joe's school have stepped in to help with yard work and someone in the neighborhood is helping with house cleaning. Pray for Joe to know how to prioritize school work and to be able to think clearly as he tackles
"catching up."

Joseph now has a smooth head and is sporting his collection of baseball caps. Bob has shaved his head to have a matching look and quite a number of Joe's football teammates are wearing the shaved style as well.

Keep up your faithful ministry of intercession on behalf of Joe and his family.

Also, I wanted to make you aware of a special event the Lee's neighbors have planned to raise money for the "Joseph Lee Cancer Fun." This fund will be
to used to assist the family with the huge medical bills associated with Joseph's year-long cancer treatment.

"Joe Lee Night" will feature a silent and live auction, as well as a raffle of some wonderful items. Barbecue dinners from a local barbecue restaurant will be available to purchase. Plan to come for dinner, check out the
auction items, and maybe win a prize. Dinner will be available beginning at 5:00 pm and the event will run until 10:00 pm.

The sponsors of this event are still looking for donations for the auction. If any of you own a business and would like to donate an item or service, or if individuals have items you would like to donate, please contact Nancy
Fitzsimons: home - 770-926-3647 work - 770-470-5582 (hit 0)
cell - 678-231-2709 email - nkfrph@aol.com. There is a tax ID number available for anyone making a donation.

WHAT: Joe Lee Day
WHEN: Saturday, October 21
WHERE: Falcon Hills Subdivision in the common area of the tennis courts and
pool.
Shallow Ridge Road, Kennesaw 30144 (off Shallowford Road, near Bell's Ferry
intersection).
TIME: 5:00 pm - 10:00 pm

"Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and His understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:28-31


Saturday, October 7, 2006 3:00 PM

Dear Friends,

I wanted to make you aware of a special event the Lee's neighbors have
planned to raise money for the "Joseph Lee Cancer Fun." This fund will be
to used to assist the family with the huge medical bills associated with
Joseph's year-long cancer treatment.

"Joe Lee Night" will feature a silent and live auction, as well as a raffle
of some wonderful items. Barbecue dinners from a local barbecue restaurant
will be available to purchase. Plan to come for dinner, check out the
auction items, and maybe win a prize. Dinner will be available beginning at
5:00 pm and the event will run until 10:00 pm.

The sponsors of this event are still looking for donations for the auction.
If any of you own a business and would like to donate an item or service, or
if individuals have items you would like to donate, please contact Nancy
Fitzsimons: home - 770-926-3647 work - 770-470-5582 (hit 0)
cell - 678-231-2709 email - nkfrph@aol.com. There is a tax ID number
available for anyone making a donation.

WHAT: Joe Lee Day
WHEN: Saturday, October 21
WHERE: Falcon Hills Subdivision in the common area of the tennis courts and
pool.
Shallow Ridge Road, Kennesaw 30144 (off Shallowford Road, near Bell's Ferry
intersection).
TIME: 5:00 pm - 10:00 pm


Saturday, September 16, 2006 2:34 PM

Dear Friends,

Even though Joseph was off treatment this past week, it was a very rough
week for him. He was not able to go to school and had severe lower
instestinal upset that caused him to require hydration at the clinic.
Please pray for this diarrhea to stop and for him to get strength back. He
is scheduled for a treatment with a strong chemo drug on Wednesday, 9/20.
Pray he has some really good days between now and then.

Joseph is greatly blessed by your notes, cards, and messages; he really
enjoys getting personal mail from all you. If you would like to send words
of encouragement you can leave a message at
www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee.

Thank you for your caring support.

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous
right hand." Isaiah 41:10

DeLee


Wednesday, September 13, 2006 9:10 AM

Dear Prayer Warriors,

These first two rounds of chemo have been very rough for Joseph. Those of
us who see him regularly know he looks tired, but would never guess how
awful he's been feeling because of his uncomplaining spirit. His stomach
has stayed irritated, he feels very "cloudy" in the head (very hard to
concentrate), and he has been very tired and weak. That's hard for a young
man who is always on the move and is an enthusiastic participant in
everything in which he is involved. Feeling so terrible only two weeks into
a 50-week protocol has been very discouraging for him and it's been
difficult for him to think about all the days ahead. Even so, Joseph has
managed to make it to school and he's been at football games even though he
has not felt well at all. However, he was feeling so bad yesterday that he
missed school, and Bob took him to visit Dr. George.

The doctor said that Joseph is still experiencing the residual effects from
the first two rounds of chemo (this third week is an "off" week) and he was
given IV fluids for hydration. Though he has been drinking a lot of fluids,
IV hydration was needed and will probably be done more in the future. Dr.
George also said that many patients, adults and children, cannot endure the
the protocol that Joseph went through the past two weeks. They often have to
stop and try something else. Joseph completed all ten doses of irinotecan
and two doses of vincristine during this time.

The purpose of the first six weeks of treatment was to determine whether or
not the tumor was a "responder" to the medication being used. The good news
is that Joseph's tumor has clearly responded to the treatment and the doctor
is satisfied with the results. He said there was no need to "torture"
Joseph twice. The protocol called for Joseph to have weeks four and five as
five-day-a-week chemo treatments, but because of the great results, he will
basically skip weeks four, five and six, and move into week seven next week.
PRAISE THE LORD! Joseph really needed this encouragement.

Joseph will be off from chemo until Wednesday, September 20, when he is
scheduled to go into the clinic to receive cyclophosphamide (cytoxin - YUK)
and duxoribicin. He will go in the next day for another dose of
duxoribicin, then he will be off for two weeks. On Monday, October 9, he
will begin another 5-day series with some different drugs, ifosphamide and
etoposide. These can be given in the hospital or during a 6-hour
out-patient visit to the clinic with in-home hydration. Of course, Joseph
would prefer to come home each day.

Please pray for strength and a clear mind for Joseph. Pray for protection
from illness (there is a lot of strep and other bad stuff going around right
now, and flu season is on the way). Pray for Joseph to be encouraged, and
for him to receive God's grace to take one day at a time and not be tempted
to become overwhelmed by the long road ahead.

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified;
do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you
go." Joshua 1:9


Wednesday, September 6, 2006 4:25 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

PRAISE THE LORD!!! The PET scan results were "all clear." The only place
that "lit up," indicating activity, was in the bicep, where the tumor is
located. Thank the Lord for this wonderful answer to prayer.

Joseph did not have chemo yesterday as planned; the doctor decided he needed
a break because of vomiting on Sunday and very bad diarrhea yesterday. He
was hydrated while at the hospital yesterday and will be hydrated again
today during his chemo treatment.

The GOOD NEWS is that the tumor is already responding to the treatment and
has visibly reduced in size. Praise the Lord for this quick response!
Continue to pray the tumor will diminish in size. The not-so-good news is
that the number one side effect for one of these chemo drugs is diarrhea.
They have put Joseph on Immodium to help with that and Joseph is better
today. The doctor would really like to continue with this treatment since
the tumor is responding, but will have to reconsider if the diarrhea is a
recurring problem. The doctor feels they may be OK since Joseph went nearly
a week before the problem started. Pray that the diarrhea will stop if this
is the treatment plan Joseph needs to be on.

There was some concern about another side effect from the chemo drugs
because Joseph has been experiencing some chest pain (difficulty in taking
deep breaths) the last couple of days. But it was determined yesterday that
his lungs were sore from the severe vomiting and it was not a drug side
effect.

Remember to check out www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee to read past updates
and to leave a message for Joseph. If you have friends who want to receive
these updates, please have them visit
www.thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee to subscribe.

"You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in Your Word." Psalm
119:114

DeLee


Friday, September 1, 2006 3:13 PM

Dear Friends,

The last couple of days of chemo have gone pretty well. Joseph has not been
too terribly nauseated, but he has been fighting the "yucky" feeling he has
after chemo. Right now chicken soup seems to be the food of choice to help
fight that. Pray that nausea will continue to be controlled and Joseph will
be able to eat normally.

Last night (Thursday) Joseph decided he really wanted to try a run around
the neighborhood. He is used to be very physically fit and active, so the
tired-feeling that chemo brings is difficult. At 10:45 Joseph went for a
run and even sprinted some. Later when Bob checked the caringbridge site,
he found someone had left a message with a time of 11:45 pm that they were
praying for Joseph's strength. Caringbridge is set at central time, so it
was actually 10:45 here!!!!: ).

Joseph went for the PET scan this morning at 10:30. He had to drink a bunch
of barium (ick!) first, which he managed to keep down. The total body scan
took less than an hour and included a CT scan. The CT scan is more
"anatomic" giving a picture of how organs look, while the PET is more
detailed, looking for active cell changes.

I'll let you know when those results come back. Pray for there to be no
indication of cancer from these scans.

"I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power
through His Spirit in your inner being." Ephesians 3:16

DeLee


Tuesday, August 29, 2006 11:44 PM

Dear Friends,

I called the Lees tonight around 8:30 and spoke with Joseph; he said he had
that "chemo feeling," sort of hard to describe, but he didn't feel quite
right - kind of drowsy and a little queasy. His folks were visiting with
someone at the time, but Bob called me about an hour later for an update on
the day.

The first chemo treatment went pretty smoothly. It started on time and took
about 2 hours. Before beginning, a "line" was inserted in his port so they
will have daily access for administering drugs. The line will stay in place
for the five-day treatment then be removed for the two-day break and
reinserted at the beginning of treatment again next Tuesday. Joseph was
given zofran (anti-nausea drug) for the first 15 minutes, then the chemo
treatment. He'll get a 24-hour dose of the zofran each treatment so he
doesn't have to do that medicine at home. No extra hydration by port is
required during the treatments these first two weeks, but Joseph is drinking
a lot of water to keep his body well hydrated.

Bob said Joseph had been eating just fine ("grazing") since he got home
tonight, but at the end of our conversation he was feeling really sick and
Bob had to hang up. Please pray for the nausea to pass quickly and for the
right combination of anti-nausea drugs to be found as soon as possible.
They have several options, but finding the combination that works can
sometimes be tricky.

Continue to pray that the treatments will be effective and its success will
be evident soon. Pray Joseph will have to miss very little school and will
feel well enough to keep up with school work without feeling anxious or
stressed about it. Pray for peace and rest for the whole family. Pray for
healing.

Remember to pass along the site to subscribe to the newsletter to those who
would like the support the Lees with prayer:
www.thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee.

Be sure to visit Joseph's web page at www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee to leave
a message for the family or to read past updates if you've joined the
newsletter recently and have missed some. (The site actually has updates
all the way back to 2001, but you can scroll back in order to read the ones
you want.)

"You hear, O Lord, the desire of the afflicted; You encourage them, and You
listen to their cry." Psalm 10:17

In the name of the Merciful One,

DeLee


Monday, August 28, 2006 7:49PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Plans changed today and Joseph did not have chemo. Because next Monday is a
holiday they felt it would be best for him to have chemo Tues-Sat these
first two weeks. So he will actually have his first chemo tomorrow (8/29).
Week three will be an off week. Then he will have two weeks of Mon-Fri
chemo before evaluation week six.

GREAT NEWS! Praise God that the EKG, bone scan, and bone marrow test all
came back clear! The ankle x-ray just showed trauma from the recent injury.
Thank God for these wonderful reports.

Joseph will have an additional scan at Emory on Friday at 8:30 am. It is a
PET scan - a total body scan which shows more detail and does much earlier
detection of cancer activity. It has been found very effective for
rhabdomyosarcoma patients. Pray that this scan will come back completely
clear as well.

Continue to pray per the last few updates and as the Lord leads you. Thank
you for your faithful intercession on Joseph's and his family's behalf.

"I lift my eyes to the hills - where does my help come from? My help comes
from teh Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." Psalm 121:1-2

In Him,

DeLee


Sunday, August 27, 2006 5:00 PM

Dear Prayer Team,

Friday was a long day for Joseph (and his dad) at Scottish Rite. They
arrived about 10:00 am and didn't leave until 6:00 pm. The scan took about
four hours total with about a 30 "time out" for a broken machine to get
repaired. You've heard of people who "break the camera?" Well, I guess
Joseph broke the scanner : }. Joseph was asked about whether there had been
an injury to his ankle because they saw something funny with it on the scan.
He did sprain it a month or so ago, but they went ahead and did a separate
x-ray on the ankle to check it out further. The EKG was also done between
the dye injection and bone scan.

Tomorrow will begin nearly a one-year treatment plan. Please pray for
Joseph and his family to take one day at time, trusting God for the grace
for that day. Pray they will know His peace and not be afraid. Pray they
will bear fruit in this "year of drought." Week 1 will be a
five-consecutive-day treatment with Vincristine and Irinotecan. The Lees hope to only be at Scottish Rite
for a couple of hours each day. Bob will take Joseph tomorrow for the 2:00
treatment. They aren't exactly sure of the schedule yet, but it looks as
though on some days Joyce will meet a friend who will bring Joseph to
Scottish Rite. That way Joyce can just go to Scottish Rite from work in
Norcross without having to make a trip home and back. Please pray the
treatments go as quickly as possible, without long waits that can sometimes
occur.

The chemo treatment center has an entertainment area as well as a classroom
area so Joseph can work on schoolwork during treatment. He will have a
portable device for administering chemo so he can move around. He will be
seeing his doctor regularly during treatments so they should have a report
from Dr. George on the bone scan, EKG, and ankle x-ray sometime this week.
Pray for good reports on all of these. Pray Joseph will be able to do
schoolwork during treatment time - he has some academic goals this year that
he would really like to reach.

Bob's parents and sister will be coming for a visit this weekend. Please
pray for their safety as they travel from Columbus, Ohio, on Thursday and
return on Sunday.

Thank you for standing with Joseph and family in prayer - they feel pray
undergirding them.

"Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in Him. He
will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the
stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It
has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit."
Jeremiah 17:6

In Christ,

DeLee


Thursday, August 24, 2006 10:52 PM

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Sorry I'm late getting you the news of today's events - I haven't had access
to my computer since I talked with Bob. The two surgeries went fine and
Joseph was home by mid-afternoon. He was alert and hungry enough to stop at
the Marietta Diner on the way home to order chicken soup and jambalaya : ).
The port was inserted high on the side of his chest; the line will run into
a vein that is behind the collar bone. He was in some discomfort from the
bone marrow biopsy - walking is painful. That should improve pretty
quickly.

Tomorrow will be the bone scan and EKG. The family is already quite tired
from all the doctor visits and surgeries. Pray for stamina.

A chemo schedule has been set up. Joseph will begin on Monday of next week
(8/28). This time chemo will be much more intense than last time. Five
years ago the chemo treatments were once a week. This time the plan is for
outpatient chemo treatments at Scottish Rite - usually on five consecutive
days - for a total of 50 weeks of treatment. There will be breaks every so
often. This first round will be Monday-Friday (with the weekend off) for
five weeks. On week six he will be evaluated (probably by a physical check
with the doctor and an MRI). Week seven would be back to a
five-consecutive-day treatment with weeks eight and nine off. Week ten
would be five consecutive days to receive extra strong drugs that would
require a hospital stay.

Throughout the process the doctors will be watching to determine if the
tumor is responding to treatment by becoming softer and/or smaller. If the
tumor is a "responder" they will stay with the plan. If it is a
"non-responder" they will try a new plan.

The schedule is set up for treatments on Monday, Wednesday and Thursday at
2:00 and Tuesday and Friday at 2:30. For you medical types, they will be
using Vincristine (1 dose) and Irinotecan (5 doses)

These 5-day-in-a-row chemo treatments are going to be rough. Following are
they Lee's top prayer requests:

1) Pray the treatments go quickly. Sometimes there are delays that mean
very long stays before treatment is complete. Pray they will be completed
in a few hours and Joseph won't have to stay into the evening.
2) Pray the tumor responds quickly to the drugs and begins shrinking away.
3) Pray for Joseph to avoid the severe nausea that often accompanies this
kind of treatment. (He will be taking anti-nausea medication.)
4) Pray that he will feel like attending school. He really hates to miss
school and would like to feel well enough to go to classes on Tuesdays and
Fridays.

Thank you for standing with the Lee family in prayer. Please send any
messages to them via Joseph's website : www.caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee

"Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that
you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and
effective." James 5:16

In the hands of the Healer,

DeLee


Wednesday, August 23, 2006 8:42 AM

Dear Praying Friends,

The report came in from Joseph's biopsy that the growth is a sarcoma (type
of cancer). Joseph's doctor feels certain it is alveolar rhabdomyosarcoma -
the same cancer he was diagnosed with in 2001. It will be awhile before the
type of cancer can be positively identified through the pathology process,
but in the meantime they will proceed as though it is rhabdo.

Here is what's happening this week:

Today, Wednesday, 8/23/06:

12:15 pm Joseph has a consultation visit with Dr. Pitt, who will insert a
port (like Joseph had in 2001). A port is about the size of a quarter, is
put under the skin in the chest, and has an opening for a tube to be
inserted in order to pump chemo drugs or hydration solutions directly into a
vein. It allows numerous IV needle insertions to be avoided.

After this visit they will go by Dr. George's (oncologist) office to pick up
the possible protocol to be used. The protocol is the detailed plan of
treatment including which chemo drugs and other medications will be used,
when they will be administered, dosage amounts, frequency, and the total
length of treatment.

Then the Lees will go to pre-op to register and visit the anesthesiologist.

Thursday, 8/24/06:

7:00 am Arrive at Scottish Rite

9:00 am Surgery to install port (Dr. Pitt) and surgery to perform bone
marrow biopsy (Dr. George). The bone marrow biopsy will be done from each
hip. It is expected there will be a lot of pain following the bone marrow
biopsy. Please pray this is not the case. The last time Joseph had this
procedure he had no pain following it and the doctor was amazed.

Friday, 8/25/06:

10:30 am Check in

11:00 am Dye injection

1:00 pm EKG

2:00 pm Bone scan


You can see it is going to be a hard next few days. Please pray for peace
and strength for Joseph and his family. Pray for God's grace to cover them.
Please pray for the doctors - for wisdom and accuracy in the procedures
they are performing. Pray for all procedures to go smoothly, with no
problems or complications. Pray Joseph will have little pain following the
surgeries. Pray the tests will come back clear with no cancer detected
anywhere else in his body.

Joseph has a web page at caringbridge.org/ga/josephlee where you can see a
recent picture and message, read past updates, or go to the guest book and
leave a message for Joseph. Be sure to visit. You cannot reply to the
updates that come through thompsonic (this newsletter), so use caringbridge
to leave your messages.

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and
petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of
God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in
Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7

In the Prince of Peace,

DeLee


Thursday, August 17, 2006

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph had his appointment with the surgeon today. Bob called and talked to
my husband while I was gone tonight so I have very few details about the
visit (he doesn't ask all the pesky questions that I do). They actually did
a needle biopsy in the office during the visit and should have results by
Tuesday of next week.

Joseph will be playing in the football game on Saturday night - so for any
of you who want to come out and cheer him and the Knights on - it will be at
Kell High School on Jamerson Road at 6:30 pm. Joseph would love for you to
be there.

Since this growth on his arm is so similar to the original growth back in
2001, the doctors are expecting the biopsy to come back as cancer. That
does not prevent us from praying that it is not -our God can do anything!
We will trust Him with whatever outcome He determines.

"For nothing is impossible with God." Luke 1:37

In the power of the Lord Almighty,

DeLee


Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph began his senior year at The King's Academy yesterday (8/15). He is
on the Knights football team with Crown Athletics and has been given the OK
by his doctor to play in the first game on Saturday night. He really wanted
to play, so that is an answer to prayer : ).

He will meet with the surgeon for a biopsy consultation tomorrow (Thu.,
8/17) at 3:30 pm. They will schedule a bone scan soon to be sure cancer is
not detected in any bones.

Please pray:

For there to be no cancer in other parts of his body.

For wisdom for the doctors in determining treatment.

For strength for the family as they go to many doctor appointments and
tests.

For Joseph to be protected physically and to have a great time during
Saturday's football game.

For God's complete healing.

Thank you for your ministry of intercession.

"I lift up my eyes to the hills - where does my help come from? My help
comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your
foot slip - He who watches over you will not slumber; indeed, He who watches
over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep." Psalm 121:1-4

In our Savior,

DeLee


Monday, August 12, 2006

>Dear Prayer Warriors,
>
>Praise God for He is good. He is always good, He is full of
>lovingkindness, and He is sovereign over all. He is good even when we
>don't understand His purposes or His plans. He is God and He is good when
>He answers our prayers differently than we expect or desire. God is good.
>Praise the Lord for we can trust in Him.
>
>The news from Joseph's scans is not good this time. A growth was
>discovered on his left arm between the elbow and shoulder, and the doctor
>feels the cancer has returned. The Lees will be meeting with the surgeon
>sometime next week to set up a biopsy and determine their course of action.
>
>Praise God for his protection over Joseph the last four years since he
>completed chemo. Praise Him for all the miraculous things we saw Him do
>during the treatment process and how amazed the doctors were at Joseph's
>"atypical" response during that time. Praise Him for how he carried the
>Lee family through that valley and met every need. Praise Him that we can
>trust Him to show Himself faithful again. Please pray for the Lord's clear
>guidance in all decisions that must be made. Pray for wisdom and right
>advise from the doctors. Pray for the Lord's comfort and presence to be
>very real for the Lees. Pray for God's peace and grace to surround and
>carry their family. Pray for God's healing hand to rid Joseph of this
>cancer. Pray that God will be glorified once again.
>
>
>Thank you for your faithfulness to pray these last 5 years and for
>continuing to stand firm in prayer with this family.
>
>"Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God."
>Psalm 42:11
>
>
>In Our Savior,
>
>DeLee


Thursday, August 18, 2005 12:02 AM CDT

Dear Praying Friends,

Just wanted to update you on Joseph. He just began his junior year at The King's Academy and is playing on the football team this year. He is very excited about playing football and is fast on the field. He has been working hard this summer running and lifting weights; so he is in great shape for football. Please pray for his protection as he plays, since the doctor has said a break to his left arm (which received large amounts of radiation) would require more than a cast and the usual healing time to mend. Also, that arm is lacking lymph nodes and is very susceptible to infection. God has been so gracious since Joseph's surgery since he has not had a single infection (which is likely to occur even with the slightest cut). Please pray he would be protected from injury that would lead to infection. Joseph has a chronic condition called lyphodema that he will have to deal with the rest of his life because of the lack of a lymph system in his arm. The arm swells because it fills with fluid that would normally drain through the lymph system. He will probably need to return to therapy soon to get his arm back where it should be and will begin wearing a "night sleeve" that compresses the arm to keeps fluids from pooling.

Praise the Lord that tomorrow, August 19, will be the three year anniversary since Joseph completed chemo and radiation treatment. He was diagnosed with cancer at 12 years old and is now 16. The vast majority of rhabdomyosarcoma patients who will have a recurrence of cancer experience it within 18 months to two years. Praise God for His healing power and goodness!!

Joseph's next set of bi-annual scans will be this coming Monday, August 22, at 2:00 and 3:00. He will have an MRI and CT scan followed by an appointment with his doctor. Results could come as early as Monday, but may not come until later in the week. I will let you know when I hear from the Lees.

Thank you for your faithful, fervent prayers - how effective they have been!

In Christ,

DeLee

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October 12, 2004 8:05 PM

Dear Praying Friends,

Thank you for your prayers for Joseph as he went for his MRI today to check out the headaches he has been experiencing. His doctor called the Lees this afternoon to let them know everything was clear.

PRAISE GOD FOR ONCE AGAIN POURING OUT HIS MERCY THROUGH THIS GOOD REPORT.

The Lees will follow up with their pediatrician to see if allergies may be the culprit.

"I will praise You, O Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonders. I will be glad and rejoice in You; I will sing praise to Your name, O Most High." Psalm 9:1&2


DeLee


Tuesday, October 5, 2004 8:55 PM CDT

Dear Prayer Warriors:

I'm writing to ask for specific prayer for Joseph. He has been
experiencing headaches for the last six weeks or so that have gotten more
frequent recently. He has an appointment for an MRI next Tuesday,
October 12, at 8:30 AM just to check things out. Please pray for the
headaches to cease and that there will be nothing for the scan to
"discover."

As always, thank you for your intercession on his behalf.

"The fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much." James 5:16

In Jesus,

DeLee


August 31st, 2004

Dear Intercessors:

Once again, Joseph's scans were clear!!


PRAISE GOD FOR THIS WONDERFUL NEWS!!!

I saw Joseph today and he gave me the news himself. Join him and his family in giving thanks to the Lord for His goodness and lovingkindness.


"Come and see what God has done, how awesome His works in man's behalf!" Psalm 66:5

Praising Him with you,

DeLee


August 26th, 2004

Dear Friends:

Thank you for your prayers for Joseph's scans. Bob said it was the "best
ever" in terms of how smoothly and quickly they went. The CT scan
scheduled for 6:00 PM took about 1/2 hour and the MRI, which was done on
a new machine, took only 1 hour and 10 minutes vs. several hours. They
were out of there by 8:20 PM and on the way to Johnny Rockets for dinner!
It will be a few days before the Lees hear the results. I'll keep you
posted.

On Monday, Joseph had his semiannual appointment with his surgeon who
said he will not need to return for a year. Yay!

"Sing joyfully to the Lord, you righteous; it is fitting for the upright
to praise Him." Psalm 33:1

In Christ,

DeLee


August 23rd, 2004

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph's scans scheduled for today had to be postponed. The MRI and CT
scanners were both down, so he will have to go back on Wednesday, 8/25.
The time is set for 6:00 PM. Please pray the machines will be working,
the scans will begin on time, and they will be out of there in record
time! They have had some of these check-ups drag out with lots of
waiting in the past.

Thanks for your faithful intercession. I'll let you know as soon I hear
about scan results.

"The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord blesses His people with
peace."
Psalm 29:11

DeLee


Saturday, January 31, 2004 10:55pm

Dear Praying Friends,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JOSEPH!! Mr. Lee turned 15 today and had plans to go for
his learner's permit test. Watch out Atlanta! : )

I also wanted to let you know that Joseph's quarterly MRI and CAT scans
are coming up next week. He will go Wednesday, 2/4, at 7:30 AM and (if
like past visits) will be there most of the day. The follow up
appointment with his doctor is Thursday. Results from the scans may be
in by then or Friday. I will let you know as soon as I get the report.

PRAISE GOD FOR ALL HE HAS DONE IN THE 2 YEARS AND 3 MONTHS SINCE JOSEPH'S
DIAGNOSIS. THANK HIM FOR "CANCER FREE" REPORTS SINCE OCTOBER 2002. PRAY
FOR CONTINUED GOOD REPORTS WITH NO RECURRENCE OF CANCER. GIVE GLORY TO
THE LORD FOR ALL HE HAS DONE AND CONTINUES TO DO IN AND THROUGH JOSEPH.


"The LORD lives! Praise be to my Rock! Exalted be God, the Rock, my
Savior!" 2 Samuel 22:47

DeLee
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Sunday, August 31, 2003

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph had his quarterly MRI on August 26th. Sorry I didn't notify you
in advance - I didn't know until after the fact. Joyce and I had been
talking regularly, but it got scheduled pretty quickly in the midst of
other stuff going on in the lives, so she didn't get a chance to tell me
ahead of time.

Bob called today with the results:

GIVE PRAISE TO THE LORD ALMIGHTY, THE HEALER AND SUSTAINER


It was another great report, clear of any signs of cancer!!!!

It has been one year since Joseph completed his chemo treatments!!! Give
all glory to the LORD for the miracle He has done! Scans will now be
every six months, rather than quarterly. They will continue for four
years, as a five year "clean" period is required before "cancer free" is
pronounced. Joseph will see his doctor every three months for checkups.

Thanks you for your faithful prayers for Joseph and his family. Their
hearts are full of gratitude and love for you and especially the LORD
their God.


"I cry out to God Most High, to God, who fulfills His purpose for me. He
sends from heaven and saves me . . . God sends His love and His
faithfulness." Psalm 57:2&3


Love,

DeLee


Thursday, May 22, 2003 10:49 PM

Dear Prayer Team,

PRAISE THE LORD!!!! Joseph's MRI report was great! He had an
appointment with his doctor today who said "everything was just fine."
Joseph did not have any other scans this go round. In six weeks he will
have lab work and a lung X-ray. At the end of August he will have the
routine quarterly MRI and CAT scan. If all is clear on those scans, then
he will only have scans every six months. Thank you for your ongoing
prayers for Joseph.

The Lees will be sharing their testimony of the Lord's faithfulness at a
Sunday School class (that has been praying for Joseph) at New Hope
Baptist Church on Sunday. They are looking forward to a refreshing and
restful (vs. stressful) summer this year!!

"Give thanks to the LORD, for He is good. His love endures forever.
Give thanks to the God of gods. His love endures forever. Give thanks
to the LORD of lords: His love endures forever. To Him who alone does
great wonders, His love endures forever." Psalm 136: 1-3

Love,

DeLee


Friday April 25, 2003

Dear Prayer Warriors,

I am just now getting home from work and to my computer. The news is great. All the tests were fine and Dr. George says it was most likely growing pains in his chest. Also, Joseph has not had any pain all day today. The MRI will be done as scheduled on May 19th.

Praise Jesus!!!! This certainly made our day. Joyce and Joseph went to see Rachel dance tonight. It is the opening night of Praise In Motion's performance of My Utmost for His Highest.

Thank you all for continuing to seek the Lord on behalf of Joseph. He is getting stronger every day. His weight today was 100 lbs and he is now taller than Joyce and he is gaining on me.

God's richest blessings,

Bob Lee
artlee@integrity.com =20


Friday, April 25, 2003

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph had some pain yesterday in the area of his heart. His oncologist =
set up an an EKG, an echocardiogram and a CT scan for Friday at 11:00am. =
The MRI will also be done soon. He wasn't scheduled for these until May =
19th but the doctor wants to take a look now.

Please pray that God's peace would reign in our hearts and that all will =
go well.

God bless you all,

Bob Lee
artlee@integrity.com


Tuesday, April 22, 2003

Dear Prayer Team:

HE IS RISEN! HALLELUJAH!! I hope you had a joyous celebration of the
resurrection of our Lord and are praising Him for the hope, peace, and
security we have because Jesus has defeated sin and death. This victory
gives us confidence in His promises and proof that we can trust Him for
every need in our lives . . . thank you, Lord.

Please be praying for the Lees as they prepare for Joseph's next set of
scans on Monday, May 19th. PRAISE THE LORD FOR ALL HE HAS DONE FOR
JOSEPH AND HIS FAMILY AND PRAY FOR "BEAUTIFUL" CLEAN PICTURES ON ALL THE
SCANS.

Thank your for your ministry of intercession.

"But I trust in You, O LORD; I say, 'You are my God.'"


In the powerful name of Jesus,

DeLee
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Thursday March 20, 2003

Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph had a check up appointment on Tuesday that went well. His doctor
said he had received a note from Dr. Monson, Joseph's surgeon, about the
visit Joseph had with him last week - they are pleased with what they are
seeing. Joseph will have scans again in six weeks. I'll let you know
when they have a definite date. PRAY FOR A CLEAN REPORT ON THIS NEXT SET
OF SCANS! CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR THE PEACE OF THE LORD TO REIGN IN THE
HEARTS OF THE LEES.

Thanks for your faithfulness.

"Mercy, peace and love be yours in abundance." Jude 2

DeLee
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Wednesday, January 29, 2003

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph had a regular appointment this week with his doctor. The doctor
told Joyce that the "shadow" under his arm in the MRI is a piece of lymph
node that was left from surgery that has calcified and is not active. He
said there is no need to go back in to remove it.

Thank you for faithfully lifting Joseph to the Father.

In Him,

DeLee


Tuesday, January 21, 2003

Date: Tue, 21 Jan 2003 20:20:51 -0500

Dear Prayer Warriors:

PRAISE THE LORD!! The Lees were called this afternoon and the nurse from
his doctor's office reported his scans came back "clear." It was a long
wait for them and they are rejoicing in this good news. Thank the Lord
with them for His mercy and lovingkindness.

The nurse also told them that a "shadowy mass" in Joseph's armpit that
they had been watching since April has remained unchanged since then.
The Lees had never been told about this before, so that came as a
surprise to them. The nurse called it a "soft tissue density area" - Bob
wasn't real clear on what that meant, but is assuming it is some sort of
scar tissue related to surgery on the lymph nodes. They plan to ask
Joseph's doctor more about it on their next visit. PLEASE PRAY THAT THE
"NO CHANGE" STATUS OF THIS AREA MEANS IT IS NOT ANYTHING TO BE CONCERNED
ABOUT. CONTINUE TO ASK THE LORD TO PREVENT ANY CANCER FROM RETURNING.

Thank you for interceding on behalf of Joseph and his family.

"As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the LORD is flawless. He is
a shield for all who take refuge in Him." II Samuel 22:31

DeLee


Saturday, January 18, 2003

Dear Prayer Team:

The scans took most of the day Friday. The CT scan of Joseph's lungs was
pretty quick - about 30 minutes - at 10:00 AM. They had to wait around
at the hospital to be paged for the MRI in the afternoon. Joyce and
Joseph went to the cafeteria and visited some the nurses that have cared
for him during chemo. From 1:40 PM to 4:00 PM Joseph had the MRI. The
gave him two short (2 minute) breaks during the MRI; needless to say he
was very ready to get out of that thing. Joyce expects to hear results
from the doctor by Tuesday or Wednesday. I'll report whenever I talk
with her. PRAY FOR A GREAT REPORT!

The Lord has recently provided some financial gifts for the Lees. Joyce
had a phone call one morning after a specific prayer the night before
asking the Lord to lay them upon someone's heart; the caller said, "The
Lord put you on my heart . . ." and then proceeded to ask how he could
help financially. It was a great testimony to the faithfulness of our
Lord.

Thank you for your continuing prayers.


"Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." I Peter 5:7


Love,

DeLee


Thursday, January 9, 2003


Dear Praying Friends,

Joseph is scheduled for his next set of scans on Friday, January 17. He
will have a CAT scan at 11:00 AM (must be there at 10:00 AM), lung X-ray
at 1:00 PM, and MRI at 2:00 PM. PLEASE PRAY FOR ALL SCANS TO BE CLEAR
AND FOR THE LORD TO GIVE JOSEPH A CANCER-FREE BODY. ALSO PRAY FOR THE
LORD'S PEACE TO WASH OVER JOSEPH AS HE GOES IN FOR THESE SCANS. PRAY FOR
THE LORD TO GRANT "PEACE THAT PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING" TO THE ENTIRE
FAMILY - THAT THEY WILL NOT EXPERIENCE THAT OVERWHELMING ANXIETY THAT
SATAN WOULD SEND AS THEY AWAIT TEST RESULTS.

Joseph's 14th birthday is January 31. He hasn't received cards in a long
time and I know he would appreciate your birthday wishes and notes of
encouragement letting him know he is still in your prayers. His address
is: 4716 Shallow Ridge Road, Kennesaw, GA 30144

Thank you for your concern, love, and faithful prayers for this precious
family.


"The LORD your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great
delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you
with singing." Zephaniah 3:17


Love,

DeLee


Tuesday, December 10, 2002

Date: Tue, 10 Dec 2002 23:28:29 -0500

Dear Praying Friends,

I hope you are having a joyous Christmas season, full of praise to God
for all He has given us in Jesus.

It's been a month since I've updated you and though I haven't had any
different or new "news" to report about Joseph, I hope you have been
continuing faithfully in your prayers for him. For even though chemo and
radiation are complete, and all scans since then have been clear (PRAISE
THE LORD!), Joseph and his family still covet your prayers on their
behalf. Their lives have certainly not returned to "normal" and they
cannot say Joseph is "cured" (though we continue to ask the Lord to make
that true!). Cancer can be a deceptive enemy and the medical community
warns that it can recur suddenly, especially within a 5 year period of
diagnosis. Because of that possibility, the Lees desire your ongoing
prayers for total miraculous healing and protection for Joseph as well as
for peace and freedom from anxiety for all of them. (His next set of
scans is in January.) Their hearts' desire is to rest completely in the
Lord, trusting in Him totally. Pray that Jesus would do that in them.

Today Joseph had an appointment with his lymphodema doctor, who is
specifically working with him on the continuous swelling in his arm. It
is very tight and puffy because of fluid buildup that doesn't drain
properly without a lymph system. This can be a breeding ground for
infection as this "stagnant" fluid sits in his arm. The doctor works
with him by massaging the arm and wrapping it to help fluid move. Joseph
keeps his arm in wraps or some sort of apparatus 24 hours a day to help
with this problem. Please pray these things would be effective in
reducing the swelling and for protection from injury (even tiny cuts) and
infection to Joseph's hand or arm.

Bob continues to work two jobs at FedX and in landscaping. Please pray
for his strength and stamina as he juggles running from one to the other
and deals with physically demanding work. Especially this time of year
when the "rush" is on at FedX and the weather is nasty outside, pray for
his protection from injury or illness.

Also, the transmission on the Lee's van went out recently. God has
provided a temporary vehicle (one that runs, but it has high mileage and
some problems of its own!). Pray that the Lord will provide for the
repair of their van.

Be sure to tune into 97.1 FM on Monday, December 16th at 3:25 PM. The
Make-A-Wish Foundation interviewed Joseph back in the spring and his
interview will be broadcast on the radio Monday. You can go to the
station's website www.97.1.com and click on the 12/16 date to see a
picture of Joseph and read a story about him there.


"For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will
be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty
God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9:6


In the Mighty name of our Savior, Jesus,

DeLee


Monday, November 11, 2002 at 14:08

Date: Mon, 11 Nov 2002 14:08:46 -0500

Hello Praying Friends!

Happy Veteran's Day. Take a minute to thank God for the men and women
who have served and are now serving in the military to preserve the
freedom that we live in and are blessed by daily.

Joseph is recuperating nicely from his surgery. He has some soreness, of
course. But he was ready to start a neighborhood game of touch football
Saturday until Bob intervened and suggested he and friend stick to just
tossing the football to each other. J

The physical therapist has Joseph using two different apparatuses to help
with the swelling in his arm and range of motion in his fingers. The one
for his arm is like a long, very thick "stocking" that covers the arm and
tightens on it to keep fluid from building up in the arm (since there is
no lymph system). The one for his hand is "spring loaded" to exercise
his fingers.

Thank you for your continued prayers for healing, protection from
infection, and wider range of motion in his hand and fingers.

Don't forget to pray for Bob with his difficult work schedule, and for
the residual effects from the stress of the past year on the entire
family .


"You are my hiding place; You will protect me from trouble and surround
me with songs of deliverance." Psalm 32:7


In Christ Jesus,

DeLee


Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 10:08 PM (CST)

Date: Wed, 6 Nov 2002 15:35:55 -0500

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph's surgery was moved up to 7:45 AM this morning. Everything went
well -- the surgery to remove his port lasted about 1/2 hour and Joseph was in recovery for about 1/2 hour. They stayed at the hospital a couple of hours before being released. Joseph had some nausea on the way home and is very
sleepy now. He will be resting the remainder of the day. PRAY FOR A
QUICK RECOVERY AND NO INFECTION AT THE SURGERY SITE.

Thank you for your prayers.



"Many, O LORD my God, are the wonders You have done. The things You
planned for us no one can recount to You; were I to speak and tell of
them, they would be too many to declare." Psalm 40:5
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Sunday, November 3, 2002 15:33:57

Date: Sun, 3 Nov 2002 15:33:57 -0500

Dear Friends,

Joyce e-mailed me on Wednesday of last week and I didn't check e-mail
until last night (Saturday), so I'm sorry this is delayed in getting to
you. I tried to call her today before sending this update, but wasn't
able to reach her so I don't have many details about this prayer request.
On Wednesday, 11/6/02, at 8:30 AM Joseph will have surgery for the
removal of the port that was inserted in his chest at the beginning of
chemo treatments to allow easy access for chemo (versus having a new IV
insertion each re treatment). He was put under anesthesia for the port
insertion, so I'm sure the removal will be similar. Joseph will be very
glad to be rid of the port (which requires regular "flushing" as long as
it remains in place - and these are unpleasant reminders of chemo
treatments). PLEASE PRAY FOR THE SURGERY TO GO SMOOTHLY AND FOR JOSEPH
TO HAVE NO DISCOMFORT OR INFECTION FROM IT. PRAY HE WILL NOT BE ANXIOUS,
BUT WILL HAVE A CALM SPIRIT PRIOR TO SURGERY.

There has been a great deal of swelling in Joseph's arm lately and his
physical therapist has ordered a compression slip-on glove for the arm
and an "arm elevator" to help with the swelling and fluid buildup from
the lymph system. The fluid can back up and cause infection. PLEASE
PRAY FOR THE SWELLING TO GO DOWN AND ESPECIALLY FOR NO INFECTION TO
INVADE THE DEFENSELESS LYMPH NODES.

Joseph is sporting a new look these days - no more baseball caps, just a
head covered in lovely dark hair. However, it is a little straighter
than it used to be! J

Thank you for your faithful prayers.


"Because You are my help, I sing in the shadow of Your wings. My soul
clings to You; Your right hand upholds me." Psalm 63:7-8


DeLee


Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 11:55AM

Dear Friends,

Joseph has a one year check up (exactly to the date from his diagnosis)
on Tuesday, 10/22. PRAISE GOD FOR THE GOOD REPORTS FROM ALL THE SCANS.
PRAY FOR FULL RANGE OF MOTION AND EXTENSION FOR HIS ARM AS HE CONTINUES
WITH PHYSICAL THERAPY.

Bob has accepted a part time entry level position with UPS. He worked
for FEDX for many years and feels this job has great potential for future
opportunities in the company. His hours will be 6-10 PM Monday through
Friday. He went through orientation last week and begins work on Monday,
10/21. After three months he will receive full benefits (including
insurance coverage). Until then, insurance costs are being covered
through programs to assist cancer stricken families. Bob will also be
working a full time job with a division of Post Properties in the
landscape area. This is also an entry level position. The two jobs
still will not provide the same salary he earned prior to losing his job,
but insurance will be covered and there is the chance to "move up" with
UPS. Both of these jobs are hard manual work (UPS includes a lot of
lifting). PLEASE PRAY FOR STAMINA FOR BOB AS HE WORKS MANY HOURS OF
DIFFICULT LABOR. PRAY FOR PROTECTION FROM INJURY AS HE WORKS. PRAY THE
LORD WOULD OPEN DOORS QUICKLY FOR ADVANCEMENT IN UPS. PRAY FOR THE LORD
TO MEET EVERY FINANCIAL NEED FOR THE FAMILY. PRAISE GOD FOR PROVIDING
WORK AND INSURANCE COVERAGE.

May the LORD bless you with joy as you come before Him in intercession
for the Lees.


"And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things
at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good
work." 2 Corinthians 9:8


DeLee


Saturday, October 17, 2002 at 10:11 PM (CDT)

Dear Praying Friends,

PRAISE THE LORD!!!! The MRI came back fine.

PLEASE CONTINUE TO LIFT THE LEES BEFORE THE LORD - PRAYING JOSEPH'S
HEALING IS COMPLETE AND THE LORD WILL NOT ALLOW CANCER TO RETURN.

Thanks for your faithfulness.


"But let all who take refuge in You be glad; let them ever more sing for
joy. Spread Your protection over them, that those who love Your name may
rejoice in You. For surely, O LORD, You bless the righteous; You
surround them with Your favor as with a shield." Psalm 5:11&12


DeLee


Wednesday, October 9, 2002 10:30PM

Date: Wed, 9 Oct 2002 22:30:29 -0400

Dear Friends:

Joseph's MRI on Monday went well. It only lasted 30-35 minutes (much
shorter than previous ones), though they had to wait 2 1/2 hours before
the MRI due to overbooking. The doctor is to get back to the Lees this
week with results. I'll let you know what he says as soon as I hear from
them. CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR A CLEAR REPORT AND NO CANCER RECURRENCE IN
THE FUTURE . . . TO THE GLORY OF GOD!

At Joseph's last treatment, his weight was 83-85 lbs. He is now at 92
1/2 pounds!! That's more than he weighed when diagnosed this time last
year. His hair is coming in fast -- he hopes to be without a hat soon.
He is still having physical therapy regularly and is again wearing the
arm splint since his therapist noticed a little less range of motion at
the elbow. PLEASE PRAY FOR FULL USE OF HIS ARM.

CONTINUE TO LIFT BOB BEFORE THE LORD AS HE SEEKS A PERMANENT JOB. He
really needs discernment and clear direction about employment. The only
doors that are currently "open" do offer the benefits they need, but give
less pay than he made before. PRAY FOR THE LORD TO GUIDE AND ENCOURAGE
HIM IN EVERY WAY.

Thank you for standing with the Lees through these many days.


"For the LORD gives wisdom, and from His mouth come knowledge and
understanding. He holds victory in store for the upright, He is a shield
to those whose walk is blameless, for He guards the course of the just
and protects the way of His faithful ones."


In Christ,

DeLee


Monday, September 30, 2002 3:56 PM

Date: Mon, 30 Sep 2002 14:56:09 -0400

Dear Prayer Team:

The scans Joseph had done last week went well. The bone scan was not
painful at all - they did not have to inject dye through the foot (like
the first time), but it was done via IV.

The results for the bone scan, the CT scan, and echo cardiogram all came
back FINE!! PRAISE GOD FOR THIS GOOD REPORT!! Joseph will have the MRI
scan on Monday, Oct. 7. PLEASE PRAY FOR IT TO COME BACK CLEAR AS WELL.

Joseph is going to physical therapy twice a week, but seems to have hit a
plateau. The physical therapist is going to check with Joseph's surgeon
about what type of therapy he should do now since the exercises they have
been doing lately are causing his hand to swell. PLEASE PRAY FOR
PROGRESS WITH THE PT.

Thank you for your tireless prayers on behalf of Joseph and his family.
They are so grateful.


"The LORD is my strength and my song; He has become my salvation. He is
my God, and I will praise Him, my father's God, and I will exalt Him."
Exodus 15:2


In God our Savior,

DeLee


Monday, September 22, 2002 at 9:54 PM (CDT)

Date: Sun, 22 Sep 2002 21:54:20 -0400

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph has been doing very well and has been very busy the last couple of
weeks. At his checkup appointment following his last chemo treatment,
the office staff presented him with a giant balloon and a beanie
"stubborn red bull" (like Joseph :-). As he walked down the hall to
leave, all the nursing staff came out into the hallway, shouting,
"Congratulations!" and clapping and cheering. They took pictures of
Joseph to put on the "off therapy" bulletin board. Joyce said there were
lots of hugs and smiles.

On September 13th Joseph went to Christian night at Six Flags with about
150 other young people from his church. Joyce and Bob went as chaperones
and got to spend all night (till 7:00 AM!) with them as they rode rides
and listened to music groups perform. Joseph had a ball.

Currently, Joseph is off all medication except for an antibiotic being
given as a precaution against any type of bacterial infection that might
attack his system. He has a very good appetite and is delighted to be
finished with the chemo regimen of the past 10 months.

PRAYER IS REQUESTED for Tuesday, 9/24, when Joseph will have two scans: a
CT scan and a bone marrow scan. He has had CT scans, along with MRI
scans, every three months since diagnosis. He has not had a bone marrow
scan since right after diagnosis. Both scans are from head to toe and
will happen between 12:00 noon to 6:00 PM. The bone marrow scan requires
a painful injection of dye into the foot; Joseph will be scanned once
before the injection and once after. Right now he doesn't seem to be
anxious at all about the procedure Tuesday. PLEASE PRAY HE WE CONTINUE
TO BE PEACEFUL AND CALM. PRAY THE FOOT INJECTION WILL NOT BE VERY
PAINFUL. PRAY ALL SCANS WILL COME BACK "CLEAR" - WITH NO EVIDENCE OF
CANCER. PRAY FOR THE LORD TO COMPLETELY HEAL. An MRI scan is scheduled
for October 7.

I'll let you know as soon as I hear scan results from the Lees (sometimes
it takes awhile).

Thank you for continuing in prayer - the Lees are so grateful for your
ongoing support and love expressed in this most important way.


"O LORD, God of Israel, there is no God like You in heaven above or on
earth below - You Who keep Your covenant of love with Your servants who
continue wholeheartedly in Your way." I Kings 8:23

In the One who sustains us,

DeLee


Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 10:29PM

Dear Friends,

Joseph's counts last week were very good : wbc 25.6 (way above normal),
hgb 12.1 (normal), platelets 110 (nearing normal range). PRAY FOR THEM
TO STAY UP. PLEASE PRAY FOR MOBILITY AND FLEXIBILITY IN HIS ARM AS
JOSEPH CONTINUES WITH THERAPY.

Since Joseph's chemo treatments are complete, some folks seem to be under
the impression that he is now "cancer free." Joseph has completed the
protocol that was set for his type of cancer when it was diagnosed. They
have not stopped chemo because the doctors consider him healed of cancer;
this was simply the agreed upon treatment plan typically used to treat
his form of cancer. During chemo treatments it is not expected that
cancer will be found in scans because the chemo is destroying actively
growing cells. The concern now is any microscopic cancer cells that
chemo may have missed. Rhabdomyosarcoma is a very aggressive form of
cancer that is difficult to attack. A patient is not considered free of
cancer until five years pass with no recurrence. Joseph will be having
scans every three months to look for recurring cancer. Now, more than
ever, HE NEEDS YOUR PRAYERS FOR GOD'S MIRACULOUS HEALING TO REMOVE ANY
CANCER THAT MIGHT POSSIBLY REMAIN IN HIS BODY. THE FAMILY ESPECIALLY
NEEDS YOUR PRAYERS FOR PEACE - THAT THEY WOULD NOT LIVE IN FEAR OR
ANXIETY ABOUT WHAT FUTURE SCANS MAY SHOW.

Thank you for your faithfulness to lift Joseph and his family before the
throne of God.


"The LORD Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never
leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged."
Deuteronomy 31:8


In Jesus our LORD,

DeLee
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Monday, September 2, 2002 7:50PM

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Joseph is doing pretty well right now - he has a good appetite and is
gaining strength. His counts are pretty good, wbc (7.8) and hemoglobin
(12.2) are in the normal range and platelets are low (66,000). He will
have labwork again tomorrow and at the end of the week. He has had no
fever or nausea this week. PRAISE GOD FOR THIS GOOD REPORT AND CONTINUE
TO PRAY FOR GOOD COUNTS, INCREASING STAMINA, AND PROTECTION FROM INJURY
OR ILLNESS.

Joseph will have a check-up with his doctor on Tuesday, 9/10. They
probably won't consider removing the port (put in his chest for easy IV
access during chemo treatments) until after his scans in October. PRAY
FOR NO RECURRENCE OF CANCER - CONTINUE TO ASK THE LORD FOR HIS MIRACULOUS
HEALING TO REMOVE ALL CANCER FROM JOSEPH'S BODY.

Just a reminder to folks receiving their info on Jospeh through the
newsletter. Even though it says from DeLee Eden at the top, you are
actually getting the message from joseph-lee@thompsonic.com (I send it to
that address and then it goes out to you). If you need to send a
message, PLEASE DON'T HIT REPLY, it will go to the thompsonic site and
does not always get forwarded to me. Instead, mail to: edenhs@juno.com.

Also, I wanted to update you on Joseph's friend, John Evans, who has been
fighting a different form of cancer for several years. He completed his
second round of chemo on August 25. He will have scans on Sep. 10 and 11
before proceeding with more chemo. PRAY THESE SCANS WILL SHOW NO NEW
TUMORS AND NO GROWTH ON EXISTING TUMORS, BUT IN FACT, WILL SHOW SHRINKAGE
OF TUMORS. If you would like to receive updates on John in order to pray
for him you can send an e-mail to the following address and you will be
subscribed: johnspage-subscribe@topica.com


"The LORD will guide you always; He will satisfy your needs in a
sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a
well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail."

Isaiah 58:11


Love,

DeLee

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Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 10:45 pm

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph was dismissed from the hospital around 12:30 PM on Saturday. He
had quite a few bouts of nausea during the night, but they weren't too
violent and he was able to sleep between them. He has been queasy since
returning home, but his appetite is slowly coming back and he has been
able to eat a little. Today Joseph spent the day reading and resting.

The Lees want to send their THANKS to all of you who have been praying
faithfully during the 11 months. Your prayers, love, and acts of service
have been a great encouragement to them.

PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR JOSEPH IN THE DAYS AHEAD. He still will have
regular checkups, blood work (until counts stay in the normal range), and
therapy for his hand. He will also have scans every three months to be
sure there is no cancer recurrence. You will continue to get e-mails to
let you know how to pray for Joseph and his family.

The Lees also ask you to LIFT UP JOSEPH'S FRIEND, JOHN EVANS, TO THE
LORD. He has just finished his second week of 5-days-in-a-row chemo
treatments.

Be sure to check Joseph's web site at www.caringbridge.com/ga/josephlee
for pictures of Joseph, to read past updates, and/or to leave a message
for Joseph.

God bless you for your ministry of prayer.

"Now may the LORD of peace Himself give you peace at all times and in
every way. The LORD be with all of you." 2 Thessalonians 3:16

In the Father's love,

DeLee

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Friday, August 23, 2002 04:22 PM (CDT)

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph went into Scottish Rite about 9:00 AM. They were still hydrating
him when we stopped by for a short visit around 1:30 PM. We got to enjoy
a few minutes joking around with Joseph and Bob before they gave him an
anti-nausea drug (with Benadryl) that makes him sleepy. He started
dozing on us shortly after that. Bob called later and said chemo did not
begin until 3:40 PM, so they will be staying the night at the hospital.
(The actual administration of chemo is over in about 30 minutes, but he
has follow-up "flushes" for 12 hours after the start). They expect to go
home some time tomorrow morning.

PRAY JOSEPH DOES NOT HAVE A BAD TIME WITH NAUSEA DURING THIS FINAL
TREATMENT.

PRAY FOR THE LORD TO HEAL.

Joyce sent this scripture yesterday:

"On Him we have set our hope that He will continue to deliver us, as you
help us by your prayers. Then many will give thanks on our behalf for
the gracious favor granted us in answer to the prayers of many."
2 Corinthians 1:20-11


DeLee
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Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 11:09 PM (CDT)

Dear Intercessors:

Joseph will be having his LAST CHEMO TREATMENT tomorrow, Friday, 8/23/02.
PRAISE GOD THIS IS THE FINAL TREATMENT!!!! THANK HIM FOR HIS
FAITHFULNESS OVER THE PAST 10 MONTHS.

Even though it has only been two weeks since Joseph's last treatment,
because his counts were good and the treatment schedule called for the
last chemo to be at week 42, the doctor wanted him to go ahead with the
final chemo dose tomorrow. The in-home nurse started the hydration
process this evening. Joseph will go into Scottish Rite in the morning
after Joyce drops Rachel at school (King's Academy). PLEASE PRAY FOR THIS
LAST TREATMENT TO GO SMOOTHLY, WITH AS LITTLE NAUSEA AS POSSIBLE (last
treatment was the best ever in this area). PRAY FOR THE LORD TO REMOVE
ALL CANCER CELLS AND BRING COMPLETE HEALING TO JOSEPH.

PLEASE PRAY FOR REST FOR THE LEE FAMILY. All the emotional and physical
strain of the last year have taken their toll and the family is very
fatigued in all areas of life. PRAY THEY WILL REST IN THE LORD AND THAT
HE WILL REFRESH AND RENEW THEM WITH HIS POWER, STRENGTH, AND LOVING
PRESENCE.

PRAY FOR THE LORD TO PROVIDE A PERMANENT JOB FOR BOB THAT WILL MEET ALL
THEIR FINANCIAL AND MEDICAL NEEDS.

Thank you for lifting them to the LORD.


"I will lie down and sleep in peace, for You alone, O LORD, make me dwell
in safety." Psalm 4:8


DeLee
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Monday, August 19, 2002 at 10:20 PM


Date: Mon, 19 Aug 2002 22:20:18 -0400

Dear Friends,

Joseph's counts were much better overall today. They had dropped quite a
bit from Thursday to Saturday (I sent a comparison chart, but it may have
gotten "garbled" in the translation to your e-mail format). Here are the
current counts: wbc 8.39 (up from 1.5) platelets 34 (down from 58 -
this should be rising soon due to the Procrit shots that help to boost
production) hemoglobin 13 (staying pretty steady) ANC 7000+ (very
good). THANK THE LORD FOR THIS IMPROVEMENT. PRAY FOR INCREASING
COUNTS, ESPECIALLY FOR PLATELETS.

PRAISE GOD Joseph did not have a fever over the weekend. He is feeling
pretty good and trying to get into the "school groove."

Joseph's final triple chemo treatment could happen as early as Tuesday,
August 27 (next week). The usual timing is three weeks between
treatments, which would be Friday, August 30. If they decide to go ahead
on the 27th (provided his counts are in the right range) this would be
the closest he has ever had two of the strong doses. PLEASE PRAY FOR THE
LORD TO GIVE WISDOM AND DIRECTION TO THE DOCTORS FOR TIMING ON THIS LAST
TREATMENT. The Lees are ready for treatments to be completed, but also
want Joseph's body to be ready for the "attack" chemo puts on his system.


Thank you for your faithful prayers.


"The Sovereign LORD is my strength; He makes my feet like the feet of a
deer, He enables me to go on the heights." Habakkuk 3:19


DeLee

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Saturday, August 17, 2002 at 05:18 PM (CDT)

Date: Sat, 17 Aug 2002 16:21:56 -0400

Dear Prayer Team,

On Thursday Joseph's counts were very good, but they were expected to
drop this weekend and a "fever watch" to begin (he often runs a fever at
this point following a triple treatment and they have to do frequent
temperature checks to be sure it doesn't get up to 101 degrees). The
counts have dropped as follows:

..................Thursday.....Saturday.. Normal
White blood count 9.7........1.5.......4.0-12.5
Hemoglobin.......13.6........12.7......10.6-14.5
Platelets........138,000.....58,000....150,000-450,000

As you can see, the wbc and platelets have dropped greatly. PLEASE PRAY
FOR PROTECTION FROM INJURY, ILLNES, OR INFECTION DURING THIS TIME OF WEAK
IMMUNITY. PLEASE PRAY JOSEPH WILL NOT RUN FEVER DURING THIS TIME (IT IS
EXHAUSTING CHECKING ON HIM ALL THROUGH THE NIGHT). PRAY FOR THE COUNTS
TO COME UP SOON.

PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR A PERMANENT JOB FOR BOB. Right now the Lees
are very thankful the LORD has provided a temporary job with a
landscaping company. However, it does not provide a car (the company car
was their second car) or any benefits. PRAY FOR THE LORD'S PROVISION FOR
THE COST OF INSURANCE PREMIUMS EACH MONTH AND FOR A VEHICLE.

Joseph only has one more chemo treatment, but he will continue to have
physical therapy, check ups, and quarterly scans. CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR
HIS COMPLETE HEALING.


"But as for me, I watch in hope for the LORD, I wait for God my Savior;
my God will hear me." Micah 7:7


In Christ,

DeLee
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Saturday, August 10, 2002 9:00am

Joseph Update, August 10, 2002

Hi friends,

Joseph and I came home at around midnight. Thank you for your prayers during this chemo treatment. The time went smoother than any of the others. He received his chemo at around 12:30 Friday afternoon.

Joseph set a new personal record for not getting sick to his stomach after receiving his VAC chemo drugs. The previous record was one hour and 10 minutes. The new record is nine hours and 15 minutes!!!!!

Also, please pray for Joseph’s friend John. He had his first chemo treatments last week and came down with an infection early this week. He has been hospitalized and is on antibiotics. He hopes to go home on Monday. It has been an exhausting couple of weeks for John, his parents and his siblings.

Please pray for John to get over this infection and to build up his white blood count, which was knocked down by the chemo (sounds familiar?) Pray that God would also strengthen and encourage this family. They have been battling this cancer (paraganglioma) for five years.

We love you all,

Bob Lee
artlee@integrity.com


Then Moses said, “I pray Thee, show me thy glory!”
And He said, “I Myself will make all My goodness pass before you, and will proclaim the name of the Lord before you; and I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious, and will show compassion on whom I will show compassion.”
But He said, “You cannot see My face, for no man can see My face and live!”
Then the Lord said, “Behold, there is a place by Me, and you shall stand there on the rock;
and it will come about, while My glory is passing by, that I will put you in the cleft of the rock and cover you with My hand until I have passed by.
Then I will take My hand away and you shall see My back, but my face shall not be seen.”

Exodus 33:18-23


Thursday, August 8, 2002

Joseph Update

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph’s blood work was done yesterday and his counts are looking good. His white blood count was 8.1; HGB was 12.0; HCT was 36.6 and his ANC was 5990!!! This means he will be admitted tomorrow for his next to last triple chemo treatment.

Our nurse on wheels, Lori, came by this morning to start his hydration fluids so that he will be ready for tomorrow. Joseph is just chilling out reading, playing games and checking his email. He enjoys getting emails from his prayer team. You can email him at stopitdude@integrity.com. Remember…. No Attachments, please. Links are OK.

Please pray for little nausea and for the chemo to continue to kill small cancer cells. Also pray for that he will recover from this so he will be well enough to audition for Selah, our churches Middle School Ensemble. The auditions will be held on Sunday afternoon.

Joseph will have his last treatment, a triple treatment, in around three weeks. After that we will continue therapy for the motion in his left arm, have monthly check ups at the oncology office and have major scans every three months.

May God bless you all. Have a great weekend.

Bob Lee
artlee@integrity.com

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Date: Fri, 2 Aug 2002 20:37:10 -0400

Hello prayer warriors,

Just wanted to let you know that I am doing great and I only have two
more treatments left. Also pray for me because my counts have been too
low for me to get the next chemo treatment. My white blood count was 1.3
yesterday, so they did not admit me. Not that I look forward to getting
chemo, but I do want to get the whole treatment thing over with.

Thank you again for praying for me because that has really encouraged
me.

As I get closer to my last treatment I=92ll write you another letter.


Love you,



Joseph


“For I know the plans that I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.

Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen
to you.

And you will seek Me and find Me , when you search for me with all
your heart.”



Jeremiah 29:11-13





Date: Fri, 26 Jul 2002 19:34:18 -0400

Dear Friends,

Joseph went to Scottish Rite today after being hydrated and was set for
chemo, but discovered his counts were too low to proceed. (Joseph was
not terribly disappointed ; ). Wbc was 1.16 and ANC was 500. They are
postponing until next week (probably Friday) to allow counts time to
rise. PLEASE PRAY THAT THE COUNTS WILL RISE TO THE NORMAL RANGE SO HE
CAN HAVE HIS "NEXT TO LAST" CHEMO TREATMENT NEXT WEEK.

The Lees are happy to have the weekend free and are looking forward to
enjoying some fun family time rather than the chemo and recuperation they
were expecting this weekend.

CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR BOB'S JOB SITUATION AND FOR THE LORD'S PROVISION FOR
INSURANCE COSTS WHILE HE IS OUT OF A JOB.

Thank you for your unceasing prayers.


"To whom will you compare Me? Or who is My equal?" says the Holy One.
Lift your eyes and look to the heavens: Who created all these? He who
brings out the starry host one by one, and calls them each by name.
Because of His great power and mighty strength, not one on them is
missing. Why do you say, O Jacob, and complain, O Israel, "My way is
hidden from the LORD; my cause is disregarded by my God?" Do you not
know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator
of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and His
understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and
increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and
young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew
their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and
not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."
Isaiah 40:25-31


DeLee


Date: Thu, 25 Jul 2002 18:31:29 -0400

Dear Prayer Team,

Just wanted to ask you to be PRAYING FOR JOSEPH'S WBC TO COME UP. It has
dropped again - down to 1.6 from 6.74 on Monday. Hemoglobin has risen to
10.2, platelets are up to 188. Because of the low wbc, the Lees won't
know until tomorrow morning whether or not Joseph will have his triple
chemo treatment.

Joseph will be seeing a new specialist for his hand for something called
"contracture." Due to the surgery and radiation, he is not able to put
his hand on a flat surface and straighten his fingers flat. PRAY HE WILL
GAIN THIS FLEXIBILITY IN HIS HAND.

Continue to pray for Bob to find the job the LORD has for him.

Hope to send you another update tomorrow.

"Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD, the LORD, is the Rock eternal."
Isaiah 26:4


DeLee


Date: Wed, 24 Jul 2002 17:00:08 -0400

Dear Friends,

Joseph had his last Vincristine (single) chemo treatment Monday. All of
his counts were "in range" as follows: wbc 6.74, hemoglobin 9.9,
platelets 91, ANC 4,990. His temperature was 98.6. PRAISE THE LORD FOR
ALL THE COUNTS COMING UP!

This weekend Joseph will have a triple (probably overnight) treatment and
then one more next month. PLEASE PRAY FOR THE TREATMENT TO GO WELL, DO
IT'S JOB, AND FOR JOSEPH TO HAVE A RELATIVELY "EASY" TIME. CONTINUE TO
PRAY FOR HIS HEALING.

After Joseph's last triple treatment he will be visiting the doctor once
a month instead of once a week. They will continue to do scans every
three months to keep a close watch on any "bad" cells popping up when no
treatment is going on to fight recurrence.

Many of you will remember that Bob's job was to end several months ago,
but the company extended his time there. The company has hired someone
else and his job will be ending Friday, August 2. PLEASE PRAY FOR THE
FAMILY AS BOB LOOKS FOR ANOTHER JOB - ASK THE LORD TO PROVIDE THE JOB HE
DESIRES FOR BOB AND TO MEET ALL THE FAMILY'S NEEDS. THEY WILL ONLY HAVE
ONE CAR AFTER 8/2, SINCE BOB IS DRIVING A COMPANY CAR. PLEASE PRAY FOR
THE LORD TO PROVIDE ANOTHER VEHICLE FOR THEM AS WELL.

Thank you for your prayers for John Evans, Joseph's friend, and his
family. John is to begin chemo treatments on Monday, July 29. These are
very intensive (5 day) chemo treatments. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM AS HE GOES
THROUGH THIS PROCESS - FOR STRENGTH, PEACE, AND THE LORD'S GRACE TO COVER
HIM. PLEASE PRAY FOR HEALING FROM HIS RESISTANT FORM OF CANCER.

I'll be on vacation soon, so you won't be hearing from me for awhile.
PLEASE BE STEADFAST IN YOUR PRAYERS. I'll write after I return.


"Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God,
the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary,
and His understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary
and increases the power of the weak." Isaiah 40:28&29


DeLee


Date: Fri, 19 Jul 2002 20:24:19 -0400

Dear Friends,

Joseph has had NO fever today! Hurray!! Thank you, LORD!

His counts are going up (praise the LORD for that, too): wbc 1.8,
platelets 57, hemoglobin 9.8, ANC 1120. None are in normal range yet,
except ANC. Joseph will continue with his Nupregen (spelling?) shots to
help boost wbc. CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR COUNTS TO RISE.

They did not do the Vincristine chemo treatment today since Joseph went
home yesterday. It is scheduled for Monday (and should be the last
"single" treatment). Depending on his counts next week, he may have his
triple treatment on Friday, 7/26. There will only be one more "big one"
three weeks after that. So the end is in sight!!! : )

PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH. PRAY FOR
PROTECTION FROM ILLNESS AND INJURY, PARTICULARLY WHILE COUNTS ARE STILL
LOW.


"How great is Your goodness, which You have stored up for those who fear
You, which You bestow in the sight of men on those who take refuge in
You." Psalm 31:19


DeLee



Date: Thu, 18 Jul 2002 12:51:18 -0400

Dear Praying Friends,

The Lees are home! The doctor came in this morning and said they could
go early since there is no evidence of bacteria and some of Joseph's
counts have improved. Counts: wbc 1.68 up from .35, ANC is 1390 (in
normal range) up from 0, hemoglobin is a little low at 9.3, and platelets
are at 15, down from 19. Though the platelets have gone down again, the
doctor said he expects them to rise. Joseph just needs to be careful (no
risky activities) and "lay low" for several days - the doc said this was
a good time to rent videos and sit around for awhile! Joseph may still
have fever at home and Joyce is to call and report any time he does.

PRAISE THE LORD FOR THIS GOOD NEWS! Please continue to PRAY FOR HEALING
FROM THIS ILLNESS, FOR BLOOD COUNTS TO KEEP GOING UP, FOR REST AND
STRENGTH. ALSO PRAY THAT JOSEPH WON'T BE "ANTSY" ABOUT LIMITED ACTIVITY
AND WILL OBEY DOCTOR'S ORDERS!


"I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in
the land of the living. Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and
wait for the LORD." Psalm 27:13&14


DeLee

Date: Wed, 17 Jul 2002 21:45:53 -0400

Hello, Everyone!

Thank you for your prayers throughout the day for Joseph. I talked with
Joyce about 7:00 PM tonight and Joseph's temperature was 100.2 at the
most recent check. (They expected it to rise at night.) The doctor said
he must go 24 hours with a normal temperature before he can go home. So
far nothing has shown up on the culture for septic shock.

Joseph is eating and drinking well; he's also cracking jokes and
belly-laughing at silly animal shows on TV : ). Obviously, he is feeling
better (though it is hard to tell when he feels bad!).

Love,

DeLee


Date: Wed, 17 Jul 2002 11:45:32 -0400

Dear Friends,

I spoke with Joyce again and she said a nurse told them there was
definitely some type of bacteria at work and Joseph would probably be
there until Friday. They need to keep a watch on him because his
temperature will be normal and then shoot up fifteen minutes later.
CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR LOWER TEMPERATURES, HIGHER COUNTS, AND HEALING.

PRAISE THE LORD FOR GOOD NEWS: The nurse told them that all of Joseph's
scans look GREAT!!!

They may go ahead and give Joseph his single (Vincristine - I think the
spelling is right this time!) weekly chemo treatment while he is there
Friday. He is still scheduled for the triple treatment on Friday, 7/26.


In Him,

DeLee


Date: Wed, 17 Jul 2002 10:20:32 -0400

Dear Prayer Team:

Joyce called at 9:00 AM and said Joseph's temp was at 98.8; the hospital
staff gave him Tylenol because it would not come down on its own. He is
getting IV antibiotics every 8 hours; the next round will be at 4:00 PM,
so it looks like they may be there overnight again. A blood culture has
been done to check for bacteria that causes septic shock. If the
bacteria is present it usually shows up in 24 hours, but they will check
it again at 48 and 72 hours just to be sure.

Joseph's counts are still very low: Platelets have gone down from 59 to
19 (150-450), wbc is down to .35 from .46 (4.0-12.5), hemoglobin is
almost in normal range at 10.4, and ANC has risen slightly to .35
(1,000+) - normal ranges are in parentheses. Right now, they are not
planning on a transfusion because the medical staff expects the numbers
to rise gradually. PLEASE PRAY THESE COUNTS WILL BEGIN TO RISE SOON.

Joseph is feeling much better since getting the antibiotic and they are
all dozing off and on this morning to catch up on sleep.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR FERVENT PRAYERS ON HIS BEHALF!

"The LORD is gracious and righteous; our God is full of compassion. The
LORD protects the simplehearted; when I was in great need, he saved me."
Psalm 116:5&6


DeLee


Date: Tue, 16 Jul 2002 23:52:11 -0400

Dear Friends,

Joyce e-mailed me at 11:22 PM to say Joseph will be admitted to Scottish
Rite tonight. He and Bob were in ER waiting to go up to a room. They
had to "flush" Joseph's port (the opening in his chest that gives them
easy access for chemo) before giving the antibiotic through it; it made
Joseph throw up, as it usually does whenever they flush it out - he can
taste whatever they use and it makes him sick. They were waiting for his
lab work and his fever was still at 101.3 (where it was when they left
home).

Joyce and Rachel will leave home about 5:45 AM to relieve Bob so he can
go to work. Joyce is to call me sometime in the morning.

PRAY FOR JOSEPH'S FEVER TO GO DOWN AND HIS COUNTS TO GO UP. PRAY FOR
HEALING FROM WHATEVER IS CAUSING THE INFECTION. PRAY FOR ALL OF THEM -
FOR STRENGTH IN THE MIDST OF EXHAUSTION; FOR PROCTECTION FROM
MISTAKES/ACCIDENTS CAUSED BY TIREDNESS; FOR REST.

"Yet I am poor and needy; may the LORD think of me. You are my help and
deliverer; O my God, do not delay." Psalm 40:17

In Him,

DeLee



Date: Tue, 16 Jul 2002 22:05:11 -0400

Dear Prayer Team,

Joyce just called to tell me Bob and Joseph were leaving for the
hospital. His temperature had gone down as low as 98 degrees then shot
up to 101 degrees quickly around 9:30 PM. They expect him to be put on
IV antibiotics and have lab work done at the hospital. Joyce is to
contact me when she hears from Bob. I'll send any more info I get
tonight.

PRAY WITHOUT CEASING.

Love,

DeLee


Date: Tue, 16 Jul 2002 19:04:33 -0400


Dear Friends,

I called this evening to check on Joseph and realized I misinterpreted
Joyce's phone message. She said something to the effect that they were
"ready to go to the hospital emergency," which I took to mean RIGHT THEN.
Evidently the staff told her to "be ready to go at any moment," but to
watch his temperature a little longer. Joyce had given Joseph a fever
reducer and it went down to 98.8; the hospital told her not to give him
any more so they could get a true reading of his temperature (which is
THE indicator of any kind of infection or illness that needs to be
addressed). The Lees DID NOT GO TO SCOTTISH RITE, but have been home
monitoring his temperature. At 6:45 PM it was 98.4, but an hour before
it was 99.4 (101 is the "magic number" that means they need to go in to
the hospital).

The Lees will be taking Joseph's temp every hour through the night and
will be ready to go in if it goes up to 101. They had a similar
situation several months ago and did have to take him in during the
night. PLEASE PRAY THAT THIS TEMPERATURE DOES NOT CONTINUE TO GO UP AND
THAT IT WILL NOT BE NECESSARY TO TAKE HIM IN.

I'll update you on how he is tomorrow.

DeLee



Date: Tue, 16 Jul 2002 16:21:50 -0400

Dear Friends,

I didn't have time to give details in the earlier e-mail, but wanted to
let you know more now. Joseph had his scans yesterday and Joyce said
they may know some of the results this week. He also had his counts
taken yesterday and they were called with them this morning (before
Joseph started running the fever): wbc - .46 {less than 1} (norm is
4.0-12.5); hemoglobin - 10.0 (norm is 10.6-14), platelets - 59 (norm is
150-450); ANC - 0 (should be 1,000+). This is the lowest they have ever
been. The hospital staff said it is normal for the counts to go down
drastically towards the end of a long intense chemo treatment plan like
Joseph has been on; however, they said counts typically drop the second
week following a triple chemo dose like he had on Friday, not the very
next week (now). He is very tired and has been sleeping a lot with such
low counts.

Joseph is on week 34 of his 42 week treatment. On week 36 and 39 he will
have triple chemo treatments; week 42 may just be an evaluation (like the
scans yesterday), so that would mean only two more of the big treatments.
He had a "small" (single medication - Vincrosene) chemo dose yesterday
and will have another on Monday, 7/22. The next triple (usually
overnight) treatment will be Friday, 7/26.

The physical therapy has gone slower than they anticipated. The brace
Joseph is to wear to help hold the arm straight is too tight when his arm
swells (lymphodema from the radiation), so he has to keep it off when he
experiences swelling (off and on).

PLEASE CONTINUE TO HOLD THIS FAMILY UP TO THE LORD - THIS HAS BEEN A
LONG, WEARY ROAD AND IT IS WEARING ON THEM. PRAY FOR THE LORD'S PRESENCE
AND LOVE TO BE VERY REAL TO THEM AND FOR HIS JOY TO FILL AND STRENGTHEN
THEM.

I have not yet heard back from Joyce since they went to the hospital this
afternoon. I'll update you when I do.

"Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the
child she has borne? Though she may forget, I (the LORD) will not forget
you!" Isaiah 49:15

In His hands,

DeLee


_____Date: Tue, 16 Jul 2002 14:24:15 -0400

Dear Prayer Warriors,

PLEASE BE IN PRAYER FOR JOSEPH RIGHT NOW - Joyce called here around 1:00
PM (I was out) and left a message that they were on their way to Scottish
Rite. Joseph's counts are all extremely low (the lowest they have been)
and he is running a fever (101 degrees). Because his immune system is so
weak, a fever that reaches 101 can mean serious problems because his body
cannot fight whatever is attacking it. I will update you whenever I hear
back from Joyce today. PRAY FOR THE HOSPITAL STAFF TO BE WISE AND
PRESCRIBE THE BEST TREATMENT (I presume IV antibotics will be part of
the treatment), PRAY FOR HIS COUNTS TO RISE SO HIS BODY CAN START
FIGHTING THE INFECTION/ILLNESS, PRAY FOR CALMNESS AND PEACE FOR ALL OF
THE FAMILY, PRAY FOR THE LORD'S HEALING TOUCH.


DeLee
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____________ Date: Tue, 9 Jul 2002 21:13:57 -0400

Dear Friends,

Joseph did not get home until around 3:30 PM today. He was sick 4 or 5
times during and after chemo (less than his really worst time), but the
last couple of times during the night (3:30 AM and 6:30 AM) he really
threw up a lot and was exhausted this morning. They gave him an
anti-nausea drug that really "knocks you out," so even though he was
given the OK to go home at 9:30 AM, he was not alert enough to leave
until the afternoon.

The rest of the family did not get much rest last night and after the
busy mission trip with little sleep, they are very tired. PLEASE PRAY
FOR SEVERAL QUIET DAYS OF GOOD REST.

Joseph will have lab work done on Thursday and on Monday will go for a 3
month check. He has a doctor appointment at 1:30 PM, a CT scan at 4:00,
followed by a chest X-ray, and a MRI at 5:30. They will be hanging
around Scottish Rite for most of the day. PLEASE PRAY THAT THE SCANS
WILL FIND NO CANCER.


"You (LORD) are good, and what You do is good; teach me your decrees."
Psalm 119:68


DeLee

Date: Mon, 8 Jul 2002 23:20:18 -0400

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph completed chemo around 5:30 PM this evening. He wasn't able to
begin as early as they had hoped because the person who usually requests
the home nurse to go out to the Lee's home to begin hydration the day
prior to chemo was not there (and so the request wasn't made); so the
Lees weren't clear on whether chemo was actually going to happen today or
be postponed until tomorrow. When they got the OK from the hospital to
go ahead with chemo today, they checked in and hydration was done at the
hospital.

Joseph was sick a couple of times during the chemo process; but was
resting and doing better around 7:30 PM. He will spend the night tonight
and go home tomorrow. The family is staying at the hospital with him.
PLEASE PRAY FOR A GOOD REST FOR ALL OF THEM; PRAY JOSEPH WON'T HAVE ANY
MORE VOMITING EPISODES; PRAY FOR THE CHEMO TO ATTACK ANY CANCER CELLS
LEFT IN HIS BODY AND FOR THE LORD TO COMPLETELY ERASE ALL TRACES OF
CANCER.

Chemotherapy treatments should be complete in mid-September. Joseph has
three more "big" treatments like the one today. PRAISE THE LORD FOR HIS
FAITHFULNESS THROUGHOUT THIS PROCESS.


"Praise be to the LORD, for He has heard my cry for mercy. The LORD is
my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him, and I am helped. My
heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to Him in song." Psalm 28:6&7


DeLee
_______________________________________________


Date: Sun, 7 Jul 2002 22:09:55 -0400

Dear Friends,

The Lees said the remainder of the mission trip went well; they returned
from Baltimore on Friday evening. Joyce did fine on the return flight.
PRAISE THE LORD FOR THAT ANSWER TO PRAYER.

Joseph's energy level remained high throughout the trip and since their
return. His counts today are: wbc = 2.2 (OK), ANC = 1260 (good),
hemoglobin = 9.8 (OK), platelets = 346,000 (very good). They will go
ahead with his triple chemo treatment tomorrow. PLEASE PRAY THAT JOSEPH
WILL NOT BE VERY ANXIOUS; THAT THEY CAN GET IN EARLY AND FINISH UP EARLY;
THAT ALL PROCEDURES WILL BE DONE CORRECTLY AND SMOOTHLY; THAT HE WILL
HAVE VERY LITTLE NAUSEA; THAT THE CHEMO WILL BE EFFECTIVE; THAT THE LORD
WILL BRING COMPLETE HEALING.


"You are worthy, our LORD and God, to receive glory and honor and power,
for You created all things, and by Your will they were created and have
their being." Revelation 4:11



DeLee


Date: Tue, 2 Jul 2002 14:56:21 -0400

Dear Praying Friends,

I spoke with Joyce this afternoon and they have been having a wonderful
time in Baltimore. Joyce did GREAT on the flight (no sickness) and was
so thankful. The youth mission team has been having carnivals each day
and doing concerts at local churches. They have been able to pray with
members of the churches and encourage them as well as share with people
in the community who have come.

The Lees have been able to visit with 15 family members from Joyce's and
Bob's families who live in the area and who have come to see them. They
have been so thrilled to see many in their families while there.

Joseph's stamina has been great. Joyce said the heat is incredible (98
degrees yesterday), but they have been careful and are staying under
tents and trees a lot, as well as limiting how many hours they stay
outside, and keeping hydrated. They have one more carnival tonight and a
concert tomorrow. Then they will have a few "free" days to relax before
returning home on Friday, July 5. Joyce said Joseph has thoroughly
enjoyed himself and it has been a special break and blessing for the
whole family. It has been so nice for them to be away from the routine
of doctor visits and trips for lab work for awhile.

PLEASE PRAY FOR THE REMAINDER OF THE TRIP TO GO WELL: FOR PROTECTION,
GOOD HEALTH, AND STRENGTH; FOR THE LORD TO TOUCH THE HEARTS OF THOSE TO
WHOM THE GROUP IS MINISTERING; FOR THE MISSION TEAM TO HEAR FROM THE LORD
AS HE WORKS IN THEIR OWN LIVES; FOR GOD TO BE GLORIFIED IN IT ALL. PRAY
FOR JOYCE ON FRIDAY AS THEY FLY HOME (FLIGHT LEAVES AROUND 6:00 PM).

Joseph will have chemo within a couple of days of their return. PRAY HIS
COUNTS WILL BE GOOD, THE TREATMENT WILL GO WELL, AND THE LORD HEAL.


"I AM the LORD, and there is no other; apart from me there is no God."
Isaiah 45:5


DeLee


Date: Fri, 28 Jun 2002 18:30:14 -0400

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Thank you for your prayers for Joseph's counts to increase. PRAISE THE
LORD FOR HIS GRACIOUS, MERCIFUL ANSWER!! The blood work done today
showed his counts are great - wbc is 5.77 (should be between 4 and 12),
ANC is 3580 (should be 1000+), hemoglobin is 11.1 (should be above 10),
platelets are 132,000 (should be over 100,000). The staff at Scottish
Rite told Joyce counts were so good Joseph won't have to have blood work
done while they are in Baltimore.

The Lees will leave First Baptist Church of Atlanta tomorrow at 5:00 AM
with the youth mission team for a 8:00 AM flight to Baltimore. Joyce has
not flown in 18 years and has never been on a flight without getting sick
to her stomach. She will be taking Dramamine (spelling?) this time.
PLEASE PRAY THAT JOYCE WILL NOT BE ANXIOUS ABOUT THE FLIGHT AND THAT SHE
WILL NOT FEEL NAUSEATED OR THROW UP ON THE FLIGHT. PRAY FOR THE FAMILY
TO GET TO BED EARLY AND TO GET A GOOD NIGHT'S REST BEFORE THEIR EARLY
RISE. PRAY THAT ALL OF JOSEPH'S PARAPHERNALIA (METAL ARM BRACE, LARGE
RUBBER BAND FOR THERAPY, AND NEEDLES) WILL NOT CAUSE A BIG SECURITY HOLD
UP AT THE AIRPORT. They have a note from their doctor about the needles
and medication, but inspecting and questioning about all the stuff could
cause delays. PRAY FOR PROTECTION FROM ILLNESS OR INJURY. Most of their
activity will be outdoors (often in black top parking lots), so it will
be HOT. PRAY FOR ALL (ESPECIALLY JOSEPH) NOT TO GET OVERHEATED OR
DEHYDRATED. PRAY THE LORD WILL BE GLORIFIED THROUGH THE SINGING,
TESTIMONIES, AND TRUTH THESE YOUNG PEOPLE SHARE WITH OTHERS. They will
return on Friday, July 5, and Joseph will have his triple chemo treatment
on the Monday or Tuesday following. PRAY HIS COUNTS STAY HIGH AND HIS
BODY IS READY FOR THIS TREATMENT.

Also, I want to update you on Joseph's friend, John Evans. He and his
family have been on a very strict diet that has put them all in good
shape and feeling really great. John's most recent lab work was the best
it had ever been and the family was very hopeful this diet was working
against the cancer. However, three new tumors were found on his lungs
and the other existing tumors are growing. The doctor called it an
unrelenting, resistant cancer. They will begin chemo on July 14 (after
John goes to Boy Scout camp - one of his favorite activities). This is
really an experimental type of thing, since doctors have never seen his
type of cancer respond to chemo in the past. PLEASE PRAY FOR JOHN - FOR
THE LORD'S COMFORT AT THIS DISAPPOINTING NEWS, FOR ENCOURAGEMENT FROM THE
LORD AS HE FACES ANOTHER TYPE OF TREATMENT, AND FOR HEALING FROM CANCER.

Thank you for your faithful prayers.

"I will extol the LORD at all times; His praise will always be on my
lips. My soul will boast in the LORD; let the afflicted hear and
rejoice. Glorify the LORD with me; let us exalt His name together. I
sought the LORD, and he answered me; He delivered me from all my fears."
Psalm 34:1-4

In the mighty name of JESUS,

DeLee
_______________________________________________


Date: Mon, 24 Jun 2002 18:00:27 -0400

Dear Prayer Team,

Joyce called and left a message asking for specific prayer for Joseph.
His white blood count (wbc) is very low at .96 (less than 1); it should
be 4.5 at the very least. Also, his ANC (can't remember what that stands
for) is also low. It is 480 and should be over 1000. The family is to
leave the end of this week for a mission trip to Baltimore, MD. Because
the wbc is so low he will have to take Neupagin (not sure about the
spelling) shots while on the trip to boost the count. They have to be
very careful with his counts especially while he is away so he does not
get sick at such a great distance from his doctors. They will be having
his blood counts done at a facility in the area while they are in
Baltimore. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIS COUNTS TO RISE GREATLY IN THE NEXT COUPLE
OF DAYS AND FOR THE LORD'S PROTECTION OVER HIM WHILE ON THE TRIP. PRAY
FOR NO ILLNESS OR INJURY WHILE THEY ARE AWAY. PRAY FOR THE LORD TO
STRENGTHEN AND ENCOURAGE JOSEPH AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY.

The Youth Music Ministry of their church is asking friends and family to
send notes of encouragement to the students while they are singing and
sharing the gospel in Maryland. You can send a note or card to Joseph
and Rachel to let them know you are praying for them to the following
address:

Rachel or Joseph Lee
c/o Chester Whisonant
First Baptist Church Atlanta Group
DAYS HOTEL TIMONIUM Hotel and Conference Center
9615 Deereco Road
Baltimore, MD 21093

The notes should be send to arrive between June 26 and July 2. (The trip
will be June 29 - July 5).


"I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power
through His Spirit in your inner being so that Christ may dwell in your
hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established
in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide
and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love
that surpasses knowledge - that you may be filled to the measure of all
the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than
all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us,
to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all
generations, for ever and ever! Amen." Ephesians 3:16-21


DeLee

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Date: Sat, 15 Jun 2002 15:01:15 -0400

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Joseph completed his home hydration about 10:00 AM Friday, but was not
able to start chemo until around 5:00 PM at Scottish Rite. Because of
the late start he did have to stay overnight, but this triple treatment
went much better than the last one. Even though Jospeh threw up a number
of times, it was not as much or as violent as the nausea during the
treatment in May. He was able to rest a lot during the night (with help
from a drug that has Benadryl in it) and really only got sick when he was
awakened for "flushing" the chemo line or other procedures. The flushing
process, done with a saline solution, makes him sick because of the taste
he gets in his mouth when it's going on. He was dismissed today around
noon.

The whole family spent the night at the hospital and everyone got a
pretty good rest, except for Bob, who slept in a chair. Joseph was
napping at 1:00 PM when I got this report and Bob was getting ready to
take a nap. PRAY FOR JOSEPH TO GET GOOD REST OVER THE WEEKEND AND FOR
HIS STRENGTH AND APPETITE TO RETURN QUICKLY. PRAY FOR BOB TO GET THE
REST HE NEEDS AS WELL. PRAY FOR GOD'S GRACE TO CARRY THE FAMILY EACH
DAY. PRAISE THE LORD FOR HOW HE HAS SUSTAINED THEM.

Joseph will have two more chemo treatments (Vincrosene only) this month -
Friday the 21st and Friday the 28th. These will be his weekly "day"
treatments. The family leaves on June 29 for a church mission trip to
the Baltimore, MD, area. They will return on Saturday, July 6. Joseph's
next triple chemo will probably be on Sunday, July 7, or Monday, July 8.
It looks like the FINAL chemo treatment will be the first week of
September. CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR EACH OF THESE TO BE EFFECTIVE IN
FIGHTING ANY REMAINING CANCER CELLS. PRAY FOR THE LORD'S COMPLETE
HEALING FROM CANCER.

PRAY FOR THE FAMILY AS THEY PREPARE FOR THIS MISSIONS TRIP. PRAY FOR
PROTECTION FOR JOSEPH FROM ANY INJURY OR INFECTION TO HIS ARM. PRAY FOR
HIS COUNTS TO STAY HIGH AND HIS BODY TO BE STRONG. PRAISE GOD FOR HOW HE
HAS PROTECTED AND STRENGTHENED JOSEPH THE LAST 8 MONTHS.

Thank you for standing in prayer on his behalf.


"Great is our LORD and mighty in power; his understanding has no limit.
The LORD sustains the humble but casts the wicked to the ground." Psalm
147:5&6

Love,

DeLee
_______________________________________________


Date: Thu, 13 Jun 2002 22:55:10 -0400

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph had a good week at Vacation Bible Sschool singing on the Praise
and Worship Team. Tonight he had a fun time with friends at the VBS
carnival. When I talked with Bob around 9:30 PM they were waiting for
the home health nurse to come and start his hydration by IV in
preparation for chemo tomorrow.

Right now Joseph's counts are are good. His WBC is very high (27.6); it
has been boosted by medication to prepare for the strong chemo treatment.
The Lees will call Scottish Rite tomorrow morning to see when a room is
open for Joseph to begin chemo. Of course, they would like to get in as
early as possible, so he can leave as soon as possible. PLEASE PRAY THEY
ARE ABLE TO GO IN EARLY, ALL PROCEDURES WILL BE DONE CORRECTLY, THAT
JOSEPH WILL NOT HAVE A VIOLENT NAUSEA REACTION LIKE THE LAST TIME, AND
THAT HE WILL NOT HAVE TO STAY OVERNIGHT. ALSO, PRAY THAT JOSEPH WILL NOT
BE ANXIOUS ABOUT THIS TREATMENT; THAT THE LORD WILL GIVE HIM PEACE AND
COMFORT BEFORE AND DURING HIS VISIT TO THE HOSPITAL. CONTINUE TO PRAY
FOR HIS COMPLETE HEALING.

Also, and update on Joseph's friend, John Evans: John will begin chemo
in July, going to the hospital every three weeks and receiving chemo for
5 consecutive days each time. His treatment is scheduled for 8 months.
Right now his family is preparing for this treatment through a very
strict diet to help John's immune system and "detoxify" the body. The
whole family is participating (mom, dad, sister and brother) in support
of John. Thank you for your prayers for this young man and his family as
you lift up Joseph.


"By day the LORD directs his love, at night his song is with me - a
prayer to the God of my life." Psalm 42:8

In His great love,

DeLee
_______________________________________________


Date: Wed, 5 Jun 2002 18:58:34 -0400


Dear Prayer Team,

The Lees got a call late yesterday letting them know Joseph's counts were
too low to proceed with chemo today. (Usually his counts are low
midweek, but are high enough for chemo by the regularly scheduled time of
Friday.) Because he wants to feel well to be a part of the "Praise and
Worship Team" for Vacation Bible School next week, the hospital has
agreed to delay his triple treatment until next Friday, June 14. Of
course, Joseph is quite delighted for the unexpected break until next
week! This is really a better schedule for the Lee family because of the
mission trip they will be taking at the end of this month. Bob, Joyce,
Rachel, and Joseph will be traveling to Baltimore, MD, with the youth
choir June 29 - July 5. As the schedule was originally, Joseph would
have had a triple chemo treatment right before the trip (meaning he would
not have felt really well during the first part of the trip and would
have had to get the usual 10 days of shots - to prevent the necessity of
a transfusion - during the trip). Now, he will be able to delay this
triple treatment until after they return.

Today and Thursday Joseph has physical therapy appointments. CONTINUE TO
PRAY FOR HIS ARM TO GET FULL EXTENSION.

KEEP PRAYING FOR PROTECTION FROM INJURY OR INFECTION TO HIS ARM, FOR HIS
COUNTS TO GO UP AND STAY HIGH, FOR CHEMO TREATMENTS TO BE EFFECTIVE, FOR
SIDE EFFECTS TO BE MINIMAL, FOR COMPLETE HEALING FROM CANCER, AND FOR GOD
TO GET ALL THE GLORY!!!!!

In His love,

DeLee


Date: Tue, 4 Jun 2002 10:06:37 -0400

Dear Friends:

Joseph's triple chemo treatment has been moved up from Friday to
Wednesday (tomorrow) so he can be a part of the "Praise and Worship Team"
for Vacation Bible School at his church next week. Starting earlier in
the week will give him time to recuperate and get rested for VBS
beginning Monday, 6/10. He will begin hydration at home today in
preparation for tomorrow's chemo. PLEASE PRAY EVERYTHING WILL GO
CORRECTLY AND SMOOTHLY WITH THIS TREATMENT. PRAY FOR ACCURATE DOSAGE,
CARE IN ATTENTION BY THE NURSING STAFF, EARLY TREATMENT START, MINOR
NAUSEA, OVERNIGHT AT HOME, AND THE LORD'S HAND OF DIRECTION OVER IT ALL.
CONTINUE TO PETITION THE LORD FOR JOSEPH'S COMPLETE HEALING.

Thank you for your faithfulness in prayer.


"Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him, for He shields him all
day long, and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders."
Deuteronomy 33:12


In Christ Jesus,

DeLee


Dear Friends,

Joseph is enjoying a break from chemo treatments right now. Throughout
his 42 weeks of chemo there are built-in "rest" periods. He was allowed
to miss chemo last Friday and will not have to have a treatment tomorrow.
Joseph will get one more two-week break later in the summer. PRAISE GOD
FOR A TIME OF RELAXATION AND FREEDOM FROM TREATMENTS.

Joseph will resume treatments on Friday, June 7, with a triple chemo
treatment. PLEASE PRAY FOR THIS TREATMENT TO GO WELL - QUICKLY,
CORRECTLY, AND WITHOUT MUCH NAUSEA. His last "big" treatment was really
difficult and required an overnight stay. PRAY HE WILL BE ABLE TO GO
HOME IN THE EVENING AFTER THIS TREATMENT. PRAY FOR THE CHEMO TO BE
EFFECTIVE IN ELIMINATING ANY CANCER THAT COULD REMAIN. PRAY FOR THE
LORD'S COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH. ALSO PRAY FOR THE LORD TO GIVE
JOSEPH PEACE - THAT HE WILL NOT BE FULL OF ANXIETY ABOUT THE UPCOMING
TREATMENT. PRAISE GOD THAT JESUS IS OUR PEACE.

Last Friday, 5/24, Joseph's platelets dropped to 19. (Evidence of the
drop has been bruising and blood showing at the surface of the skin on
any type of skin pimple.) By Tuesday counts were up to 94 and the
bruising had improved. The platelet count needs to be at 150+. PRAY
THE PLATELET COUNT WILL CONTINUE TO GO UP. Even though the count was
low, Joseph has still been "going strong." PRAISE GOD FOR GIVING HIM
STAMINA THROUGHOUT THESE MANY MONTHS.

Recently, Joseph has been using a brace on his left arm, which was bowing
at the elbow. This muscle contraction is a result of radiation. He has
not had the brace for about a week because it was putting too much
pressure on the arm and causing bruising. They plan to start use again
soon; Joseph will probably wear it for three months. He will have to
slowly build up the number of hours his arm is in the brace until he can
wear it through the night. PLEASE PRAY THE BRACE IS EFFECTIVE IN HELPING
TO STRAIGHTEN HIS ARM.

Thank you for praying for Joseph's friend, John Evans. He has been on
"alternative" treatments for his cancer, but will soon begin a course of
chemo in June. PLEASE PRAY FOR JOHN - FOR GRACE IN HAVING TO GO THROUGH
ANOTHER PROCESS OF TREATMENT, FOR PEACE AS HE ACCEPTS THIS NEW COURSE,
AND FOR THE LORD'S HEALING POWER IN HIS LIFE.

Joseph and his family are looking forward to being part of a week-long
church mission trip at the end of July. PLEASE PRAY FOR THEM AS THEY
PREPARE FOR THIS TRIP. PRAY FOR JOSEPH'S PROTECTION WHILE HE IS AWAY.
ASK THE LORD FOR HIS BLESSING UPON THEM ON THIS TRIP.

Thank you for your time before the LORD on behalf of the Lee family (and
those they love).

"The fruit of righteousness will be peace; the effect of righteousness
will be quietness and confidence forever." Isaiah 32:17

In Jesus,

DeLee
_

Date: Mon, 20 May 2002 10:36:27 -0400

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Thank you for your prayers for Joseph over the weekend. He had such a
rough time through the night Friday and Saturday. He threw up 8 times
(until there was nothing but bile and blood). He came home Saturday
morning and rested all day. He didn't vomit again, but it hurt his
stomach to eat. He was much better on Sunday and was able to eat a
little. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM TO HAVE AN APPETITE AND TO BE ABLE TO EAT
WITHOUT PAIN. PRAY FOR HIS STRENGTH TO RETURN THIS WEEK. PRAY FOR THE
LORD'S HEALING HAND TO BE AT WORK IN HIS BODY.

All the classes and school activities will end this week for the Lees, so
they will be able to rest during the summer break. PRAY FOR REFRESHMENT
AND RENEWAL DURING THIS BREAK TIME.

In our Savior,

DeLee

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Date: Sat, 18 May 2002 14:57:39 -0400

Dear Friends,

Thank you for your prayers last night and this morning. Joseph and I =
came home this morning at approximately 10:30am. He is tired but happy =
to be at home. He will continue to receive fluids here at home to =
"flush" the chemo out.

Please continue to lift Joseph up to the Lord for complete healing.=20

"Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen =
to you."
Jeremiah 29:12

Bob Lee <><
artlee@integrity.com

Date: Sat, 18 May 2002 09:05:42 -0400

Dear Friends:

Joseph is still at Scottish Rite this morning. He had a really rough
night, throwing up every two hours. Of course, his throat is sore. He
was given everything they could give him for nausea. He was able to
sleep between bouts of nausea because one of the medications also had
Benadryl in it, which makes him real drowsy. Bob, however, spent the
night in a chair listening out for Joseph, so he did not get much rest.
PLEASE PRAY THE NAUSEA CEASES AND JOSEPH WILL BE RELEASED SOON SO THEY
CAN GO HOME AND GET SOME REST.


"O LORD, be gracious to us; we long for you. Be our strength every
morning, our salvation in time of distress." Isaiah 33:2

Date: Fri, 17 May 2002 20:55:23 -0400

Dear Prayer Team:

Joseph received his hydration at home last night and this morning as
planned. Joyce said he was not anxious about going into treatment today
(knowing he may not have to stay overnight and remembering how well the
process went during the last triple treatment was a big encouragement to
him). They went to Scottish Rite around 11:00 AM and chemo started about
1:00 PM. As of 8:30 PM Joseph had been sick to his stomach a couple of
times. It looks like he will be able to go home around 11:30 PM if he
does well. PLEASE PRAY HE CONTINUES TO DO WELL AND GETS TO GO HOME
TONIGHT. KEEP PRAYING THAT THE CHEMO "DOES IT JOB" AND THE LORD BRINGS
COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH.

He has 5 more "big" chemo doses after this one (plus all the "regular"
chemo treatments in between).

Thanks for standing strong on Joseph's behalf.

In Jesus,

DeLee


From: DeLee Eden
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Thursday, 5/16/02

Dear Friends:

The Lees enjoyed a restful and refreshing family time at Stone Moutain
this past weekend. Joseph had a lot of energy - even "worked out"
(checking out all the machines in the gym) and swam while they were
there. Thanks for your prayers for it to be a blessed time for them.

Joseph had counts done yesterday and they are good. He will start
hydration at home this evening around 4 or 5 PM. They hope to get to
Scottish Rite early on Friday and be able to complete the triple chemo
treatment and go home Friday night (like they did last time). PLEASE
PRAY FOR A SMOOTH PROCESS AND THAT JOSEPH WON'T HAVE TO STAY OVERNIGHT.
This treatment will be #27 out of 42.

Thank you for your prayers for Bob's work situation. He is still at his
job for the time being. The LORD is providing for all their needs and
they are trusting Him to clearly direct their steps for the future.

I would also like to ask for a special prayer request for Joseph's good
friend, John Evans who is fighting his own battle with cancer. John is
Joseph's age and they have known each other for years through church.
John's cancer is very different from Joseph's - it is slow growing, but
unrelenting. It has not responded to traditional cancer treatments and
John has been undergoing experimental therapy for some time. Please pray
for John when you pray for Joseph. Thanks for lifting John and his
family, who are special friends of the Lees, before the LORD.

In Christ,

DeLee
_______________________________________________

Date: Thu, 9 May 2002 08:43:26 -0400

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Joseph is enjoying his break from chemo treatments again this week. He
is full of faith and trusting the Lord with all his heart (he has sent
you a separate note). :-)

Joyce has been sharing with me about the LORD's abundant provision in
their lives. She said they are often asked questions like: "How do you
deal with this?" "How can you hold up?" or comments to the effect, "I
could not handle this the way you are handling it." The Lees want you to
know that the more they have been "sifted" and the more "heat has been
turned up," the more abundant God's grace has been. Yes, they have
moments they feel overwhelmed; yes, they have tears. But Joyce said just
as it is impossible to describe to you the emotional strain and physical
exhaustion that has accompanied the trials of the last six months, there
is no way for them to put in words how GOD'S GRACE IS GREATER. She said
they have experienced the outpouring of HIM in a way they have never
known, and they have been awed. Joyce's words are, "Holy God to whom all
praise is due, I stand in awe of you."

Thank you for rejoicing with the Lees in the wonderful results from
Joseph's scans! THE LORD GOD IS WORTHY OF ALL PRAISE AND HONOR FOR WHAT
HE HAS DONE AND CONTINUES TO DO IN JOSEPH AND IN HIS FAMILY. The Lees
ask that you continue to pray for the LORD'S complete healing of Joseph,
and that there will be no recurrence of cancer. Many people think the
latest results mean Joseph is in remission and cancer (and he may well be
~ only the LORD knows that!). However, the doctors will continue doing
scans for some, the next one coming in July. After that, they will be
every three months. It will be quite a long time before doctors will
declare him "cancer free" because it can recur at any time. BUT, when
our God says, "Be gone!," it is GONE, no matter how long it takes the
doctor's to recognize it! SO WE ASK THAT YOU CONTINUE YOUR FERVENT
PRAYERS PETITIONING THE LORD, WHO IS THE ONLY REAL PHYSICIAN (HEALER) TO
DECLARE JOSEPH HEALED.

This weekend (over Mother's Day), the Lees have been given an overnight
stay at the Evergreen at Stone Mountain. They will get to enjoy the
park attractions and a brunch at the Evergreen. PLEASE PRAY THIS WILL
BE A SPECIAL FAMILY TIME OF REST, RELAXATION, AND REFRESHMENT.

Thanks to all who have signed up for the updates through thompsonic. If
you have signed up and are getting duplicate updates, please let me know
at my e-mail address (DO NOT REPLY TO THE E-MAIL YOU GET FROM
THOMPSONIC). Mailto:edenhs@juno.com. PLEASE DO NOT SEND ANY MESSAGES
BACK TO THOMPSONIC (you will not get a reply). All messages must come to
my e-mail address.

Thank you for standing strong in prayer.

"Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should
always pray and not give up." Luke 18:1
(see following verses for the parable - in fact, read the whole chapter!
: -)

In His Mighy Name,

***********************************************************************
From: "Joseph Lee"
To: "DeLee Eden"
Date: Wed, 8 May 2002 23:55:39 -0400


Dear Mrs. DeLee and prayer warriors,
Thank you for all of your thoughts and prayers.You have encouraged me greatly and helped me through this hard time.Please keep
me in your thoughts and prayers.I`m feeling pretty good and I still have
the most energy in my family.I still play basketball,baseball and all of
the other fun sports.If you would like to send me a letter my email
address is stopitdude@integrity .Once more I would like to thank
everyone for praying for me. I trust in the Lord with all my heart.


Love,
~Joseph Lee~

Date: Sat, 4 May 2002 22:34:38 -0400

Hello!

The Lees have heard the results from the scans (MRI, CT, and bone): The
radiation has done its job and there is nothing active at the tumor site
or where lymph nodes were removed. The likelihood of tumors returning at
these sites is very low; it is rare for cancer to return at sites that
have been radiated. There are no new tumors growing in other parts of
his body. : -) PRAISE GOD THAT NO CANCER WAS FOUND! CONTINUE TO PRAY
FOR COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH WITH NO RECURRENCE OF CANCER.

Joseph's skin is healing nicely where there were radiation burns. The
burned skin has peeled off and new skin is showing. His weight is
holding and he has a good appetite.
He was allowed to skip chemo on Friday, 5/3, and will get to miss it
again on 5/10. He really enjoys having a break from the weekly
treatments (it was part of the protocol to have some "skipped"
treatments). He will resume chemo with a triple treatment on 5/17.
PRAY IT WILL GO AS SMOOTHLY AS THE LAST ONE AND HE WILL NOT HAVE TO STAY
OVERNIGHT.

PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR THE LORD TO PROVIDE A NEW JOB FOR BOB.

Thank you for your fervent prayers on this family's behalf.


"For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His love for
those who fear Him." Psalm 103:11

DeLee


Sunday, April 28, 2002

Sorry some of the following messages from April 27th and 28th are repeated several times. It can't be changed as far as i know.


Sunday, April 28, 2002

Sun, 28 Apr 2002 17:52:37 -0500
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Sunday, 4/28/02

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Joseph was able to go home last night around 11:30 PM. He has been
receiving IV's for hydration since he got home to flush his system of the
chemo toxins. This afternoon the fluids were clear which means the
"yucky" stuff is quickly leaving his system. He has been eating today.
PRAISE GOD FOR THIS MUCH SHORTER "BIG" TREATMENT WITHOUT THE OVERNIGHT
STAY. PRAY ALL FUTURE TRIPLE CHEMOS (EVERY 3 WEEKS) WILL BE ABLE TO BE
HANDLED THIS WAY AND GO AS SMOOTHLY AND QUICKLY.

Joseph is past the halfway mark for chemo treatments. They are scheduled
to continue through August. PLEASE CONTINUE TO PETITION THE LORD FOR
COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH.

Some people have asked about assisting the Lees with insurance costs
while Bob is out of a job. They will have coverage through the provider
at Bob's work (at a much higher rate - almost $900 a month) for up to 18
months after he leaves that job. It looks like the Children's Cancer
Society will find means for helping pay monthly premiums, but that may
take a couple of months.

"And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in
Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19


DeLee

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Subject: [Joseph Lee] MEALS FOR THE LEES

Date: Sun, 28 Apr 2002 18:43:25 -0400

Dear Friends,

We have been providing meals for the Lees by means of a rotating list of
participating groups (plus individuals). We have folks committed to
taking meals to the Lees through the end of May. Most of the groups who
are helping will not be meeting during the summer months, so there will
not be a schedule for meal volunteers from June through August.

If anyone would like to send a meal on their own during the summer, the
Lees would be very grateful. You can call them directly to set up a time
for delivery, or call their neighbor, Ria, who has been kindly
accepting meals for them for the last six months.

Guidelines and information about meal preparation and delivery are below:

If you are sending a "fresh" meal that cannot be frozen, be sure you will
be able to deliver it to the Lees on a day they can eat it (i.e., they
won't be at an all-day-long chemo appointment).

If you need to deliver on a particular date and the Lees may not be able
to eat it right away, send something that can be frozen. You can also
send already frozen meals that they can use as needed.

Please use containers that can be thrown away so the Lees don't have to
worry about returning dishes.

Label all dishes with contents, preparation instructions (cook time and
temperature, covered or uncovered), and any other information. Please
include your name so they know who is sending the meal.

Thank you for your love, prayers, and acts of service for this family.

Love,

DeLee


_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



From: DeLee Eden
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Newsletter

Date: Sun, 28 Apr 2002 18:42:46 -0400

Dear Friends,

Thanks to all who have already signed up for the Joseph newsletter. It
will be such a help to have most people receiving the updates through
this mailing list. I check the newsletter list periodically and am
trying to remove people from my list when they sign up for the newsletter
through thompsonic. If you continue to get two e-mails, please contact
me through MY E-MAIL ADDRESS (edenhs@juno.com) to let me know you are
still getting updates from my address and I will take you off.

If you have not yet signed up for the newsletter and have no problem
going to the internet to do so, please sign up. It will really help to
have most people receiving it through thompsonic rather than my adress.

Also, if you have a question or need to send a message to me or the Lees,
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY TO THE THOMPSONIC ADDRESS. This is a broadcast
mailing list ONLY - it is not set up to take messages. You may contact
me at the address in the first paragraph and Bob at artlee@integrity.com.

In Christ,

DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Saturday, 4/27/02

Dear Praying Friends,

Sorry there was a delay in getting out info on Joseph's treatment this
weekend; I was at a home school conference Friday and Saturday.

Joyce said Joseph's counts on Friday morning were extremely high ("out
the roof"): His WBC had been at 1.0 and went to 14.7! His ANC was
at 240 (should be at 1,000+ and they were hoping to reach 800+) and it
went to 13,377!!! PRAISE THE LORD! [Next time y'all pray for them to go
up maybe you should specify "to the normal range" : -) ].

SO, he did have his chemo treatment today. Last night around 9:00 PM he
was hydrated at home and that worked well. He went in about 11:00 AM
this morning and began chemo around 1:00 PM (much faster than usual!!!
On previous visits, most of their time was spent waiting to get him
hydrated enough to begin). He has only been sick once (as of 7:30 PM)
and if he continues to do well and remains well hydrated, he may be
allowed to go home around 11:00 PM tonight!! PRAISE GOD FOR THIS
RELATIVELY "EASY" TRIPLE TREATMENT.

The radiation burns Joseph has on his arm are healing nicely. He had
physical therapy yesterday and a splint was ordered to keep his arm
straight, though that has also improved greatly. He had the CT scan last
night and it went fairly quickly; they were finished in an hour. His
MRI is scheduled for Monday evening and a bone scan will be scheduled
soon, also.

Joyce contacted the Children's Cancer Society and they are putting the
wheels in motion to cover the cost of Joseph's insurance premiums while
Bob is out of a job. There could be a 60 day delay before this begins.
After Bob's job ends (5/8/02) the cost for monthly insurance will be
$868. I will keep you informed about helping financially once I hear
from Bob and Joyce and know how they want to handle it.

Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks, rejoice evermore,

DeLee

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http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee


Sunday, April 28, 2002

Sun, 28 Apr 2002 17:52:37 -0500
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Sunday, 4/28/02

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Joseph was able to go home last night around 11:30 PM. He has been
receiving IV's for hydration since he got home to flush his system of the
chemo toxins. This afternoon the fluids were clear which means the
"yucky" stuff is quickly leaving his system. He has been eating today.
PRAISE GOD FOR THIS MUCH SHORTER "BIG" TREATMENT WITHOUT THE OVERNIGHT
STAY. PRAY ALL FUTURE TRIPLE CHEMOS (EVERY 3 WEEKS) WILL BE ABLE TO BE
HANDLED THIS WAY AND GO AS SMOOTHLY AND QUICKLY.

Joseph is past the halfway mark for chemo treatments. They are scheduled
to continue through August. PLEASE CONTINUE TO PETITION THE LORD FOR
COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH.

Some people have asked about assisting the Lees with insurance costs
while Bob is out of a job. They will have coverage through the provider
at Bob's work (at a much higher rate - almost $900 a month) for up to 18
months after he leaves that job. It looks like the Children's Cancer
Society will find means for helping pay monthly premiums, but that may
take a couple of months.

"And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in
Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19


DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



Subject: [Joseph Lee] MEALS FOR THE LEES

Date: Sun, 28 Apr 2002 18:43:25 -0400

Dear Friends,

We have been providing meals for the Lees by means of a rotating list of
participating groups (plus individuals). We have folks committed to
taking meals to the Lees through the end of May. Most of the groups who
are helping will not be meeting during the summer months, so there will
not be a schedule for meal volunteers from June through August.

If anyone would like to send a meal on their own during the summer, the
Lees would be very grateful. You can call them directly to set up a time
for delivery, or call their neighbor, Ria, who has been kindly
accepting meals for them for the last six months.

Guidelines and information about meal preparation and delivery are below:

If you are sending a "fresh" meal that cannot be frozen, be sure you will
be able to deliver it to the Lees on a day they can eat it (i.e., they
won't be at an all-day-long chemo appointment).

If you need to deliver on a particular date and the Lees may not be able
to eat it right away, send something that can be frozen. You can also
send already frozen meals that they can use as needed.

Please use containers that can be thrown away so the Lees don't have to
worry about returning dishes.

Label all dishes with contents, preparation instructions (cook time and
temperature, covered or uncovered), and any other information. Please
include your name so they know who is sending the meal.

Thank you for your love, prayers, and acts of service for this family.

Love,

DeLee


_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



From: DeLee Eden
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Newsletter

Date: Sun, 28 Apr 2002 18:42:46 -0400

Dear Friends,

Thanks to all who have already signed up for the Joseph newsletter. It
will be such a help to have most people receiving the updates through
this mailing list. I check the newsletter list periodically and am
trying to remove people from my list when they sign up for the newsletter
through thompsonic. If you continue to get two e-mails, please contact
me through MY E-MAIL ADDRESS (edenhs@juno.com) to let me know you are
still getting updates from my address and I will take you off.

If you have not yet signed up for the newsletter and have no problem
going to the internet to do so, please sign up. It will really help to
have most people receiving it through thompsonic rather than my adress.

Also, if you have a question or need to send a message to me or the Lees,
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY TO THE THOMPSONIC ADDRESS. This is a broadcast
mailing list ONLY - it is not set up to take messages. You may contact
me at the address in the first paragraph and Bob at artlee@integrity.com.

In Christ,

DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Saturday, 4/27/02

Dear Praying Friends,

Sorry there was a delay in getting out info on Joseph's treatment this
weekend; I was at a home school conference Friday and Saturday.

Joyce said Joseph's counts on Friday morning were extremely high ("out
the roof"): His WBC had been at 1.0 and went to 14.7! His ANC was
at 240 (should be at 1,000+ and they were hoping to reach 800+) and it
went to 13,377!!! PRAISE THE LORD! [Next time y'all pray for them to go
up maybe you should specify "to the normal range" : -) ].

SO, he did have his chemo treatment today. Last night around 9:00 PM he
was hydrated at home and that worked well. He went in about 11:00 AM
this morning and began chemo around 1:00 PM (much faster than usual!!!
On previous visits, most of their time was spent waiting to get him
hydrated enough to begin). He has only been sick once (as of 7:30 PM)
and if he continues to do well and remains well hydrated, he may be
allowed to go home around 11:00 PM tonight!! PRAISE GOD FOR THIS
RELATIVELY "EASY" TRIPLE TREATMENT.

The radiation burns Joseph has on his arm are healing nicely. He had
physical therapy yesterday and a splint was ordered to keep his arm
straight, though that has also improved greatly. He had the CT scan last
night and it went fairly quickly; they were finished in an hour. His
MRI is scheduled for Monday evening and a bone scan will be scheduled
soon, also.

Joyce contacted the Children's Cancer Society and they are putting the
wheels in motion to cover the cost of Joseph's insurance premiums while
Bob is out of a job. There could be a 60 day delay before this begins.
After Bob's job ends (5/8/02) the cost for monthly insurance will be
$868. I will keep you informed about helping financially once I hear
from Bob and Joyce and know how they want to handle it.

Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks, rejoice evermore,

DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee


Sunday, April 28, 2002

Sun, 28 Apr 2002 17:52:37 -0500
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Sunday, 4/28/02

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Joseph was able to go home last night around 11:30 PM. He has been
receiving IV's for hydration since he got home to flush his system of the
chemo toxins. This afternoon the fluids were clear which means the
"yucky" stuff is quickly leaving his system. He has been eating today.
PRAISE GOD FOR THIS MUCH SHORTER "BIG" TREATMENT WITHOUT THE OVERNIGHT
STAY. PRAY ALL FUTURE TRIPLE CHEMOS (EVERY 3 WEEKS) WILL BE ABLE TO BE
HANDLED THIS WAY AND GO AS SMOOTHLY AND QUICKLY.

Joseph is past the halfway mark for chemo treatments. They are scheduled
to continue through August. PLEASE CONTINUE TO PETITION THE LORD FOR
COMPLETE HEALING FOR JOSEPH.

Some people have asked about assisting the Lees with insurance costs
while Bob is out of a job. They will have coverage through the provider
at Bob's work (at a much higher rate - almost $900 a month) for up to 18
months after he leaves that job. It looks like the Children's Cancer
Society will find means for helping pay monthly premiums, but that may
take a couple of months.

"And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in
Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19


DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



Subject: [Joseph Lee] MEALS FOR THE LEES

Date: Sun, 28 Apr 2002 18:43:25 -0400

Dear Friends,

We have been providing meals for the Lees by means of a rotating list of
participating groups (plus individuals). We have folks committed to
taking meals to the Lees through the end of May. Most of the groups who
are helping will not be meeting during the summer months, so there will
not be a schedule for meal volunteers from June through August.

If anyone would like to send a meal on their own during the summer, the
Lees would be very grateful. You can call them directly to set up a time
for delivery, or call their neighbor, Ria, who has been kindly
accepting meals for them for the last six months.

Guidelines and information about meal preparation and delivery are below:

If you are sending a "fresh" meal that cannot be frozen, be sure you will
be able to deliver it to the Lees on a day they can eat it (i.e., they
won't be at an all-day-long chemo appointment).

If you need to deliver on a particular date and the Lees may not be able
to eat it right away, send something that can be frozen. You can also
send already frozen meals that they can use as needed.

Please use containers that can be thrown away so the Lees don't have to
worry about returning dishes.

Label all dishes with contents, preparation instructions (cook time and
temperature, covered or uncovered), and any other information. Please
include your name so they know who is sending the meal.

Thank you for your love, prayers, and acts of service for this family.

Love,

DeLee


_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



From: DeLee Eden
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Newsletter

Date: Sun, 28 Apr 2002 18:42:46 -0400

Dear Friends,

Thanks to all who have already signed up for the Joseph newsletter. It
will be such a help to have most people receiving the updates through
this mailing list. I check the newsletter list periodically and am
trying to remove people from my list when they sign up for the newsletter
through thompsonic. If you continue to get two e-mails, please contact
me through MY E-MAIL ADDRESS (edenhs@juno.com) to let me know you are
still getting updates from my address and I will take you off.

If you have not yet signed up for the newsletter and have no problem
going to the internet to do so, please sign up. It will really help to
have most people receiving it through thompsonic rather than my adress.

Also, if you have a question or need to send a message to me or the Lees,
PLEASE DO NOT REPLY TO THE THOMPSONIC ADDRESS. This is a broadcast
mailing list ONLY - it is not set up to take messages. You may contact
me at the address in the first paragraph and Bob at artlee@integrity.com.

In Christ,

DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee



Subject: [Joseph Lee] Joseph Update - Saturday, 4/27/02

Dear Praying Friends,

Sorry there was a delay in getting out info on Joseph's treatment this
weekend; I was at a home school conference Friday and Saturday.

Joyce said Joseph's counts on Friday morning were extremely high ("out
the roof"): His WBC had been at 1.0 and went to 14.7! His ANC was
at 240 (should be at 1,000+ and they were hoping to reach 800+) and it
went to 13,377!!! PRAISE THE LORD! [Next time y'all pray for them to go
up maybe you should specify "to the normal range" : -) ].

SO, he did have his chemo treatment today. Last night around 9:00 PM he
was hydrated at home and that worked well. He went in about 11:00 AM
this morning and began chemo around 1:00 PM (much faster than usual!!!
On previous visits, most of their time was spent waiting to get him
hydrated enough to begin). He has only been sick once (as of 7:30 PM)
and if he continues to do well and remains well hydrated, he may be
allowed to go home around 11:00 PM tonight!! PRAISE GOD FOR THIS
RELATIVELY "EASY" TRIPLE TREATMENT.

The radiation burns Joseph has on his arm are healing nicely. He had
physical therapy yesterday and a splint was ordered to keep his arm
straight, though that has also improved greatly. He had the CT scan last
night and it went fairly quickly; they were finished in an hour. His
MRI is scheduled for Monday evening and a bone scan will be scheduled
soon, also.

Joyce contacted the Children's Cancer Society and they are putting the
wheels in motion to cover the cost of Joseph's insurance premiums while
Bob is out of a job. There could be a 60 day delay before this begins.
After Bob's job ends (5/8/02) the cost for monthly insurance will be
$868. I will keep you informed about helping financially once I hear
from Bob and Joyce and know how they want to handle it.

Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks, rejoice evermore,

DeLee

_______________________________________________
Joseph-Lee mailing list
Joseph-Lee@thompsonic.com
http://thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee


Tuesday, April 23, 2002

Date: Tue, 23 Apr 2002 21:41:21 -0400


Dear Prayer Team:

Joyce said the hospital called today with Joseph's counts and they want
to delay his chemo treatment until next Tuesday (4/30/02). His counts
are about the same level they are every Tuesday, but the hospital staff
is asking them to go ahead and shift the treatment date before they get
another count later this week. The count they have a concern about is the white blood count (wbc) which is at 1.0.

To this point, Joseph has not missed a regularly scheduled chemo
treatment. The weekend treatment is the best time for their family to
avoid interference with classes for school and to allow a couple of days
to rest. Joyce has requested prayer that the wbc will rise and Joseph
will be able to have his treatment this weekend, either at Scottish Rite
or Egleston. PLEASE LIFT THIS MATTER TO THE LORD IN PRAYER ASKING HIM TO
DIRECT THE BEST COURSE OF TREATMENT FOR JOSEPH.

Thank you!


"This is what the LORD says - your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: 'I
am the LORD your God, who teaches you what is best for you, who directs
you in the way you should go.' " Isaiah 48:17

DeLee

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April 23, 2002

From: DeLee Eden
Subject: [Joseph Lee] Fw: Joseph Lee newsletter
Sender: joseph-lee-admin@thompsonic.com

Dear Prayer Team Member:

Attached is a message from Bob Lee on a new way to receive the "Joseph
Updates." You do not have to subscribe to this newsletter (I will
continue to send out the e-mails to people on my current lists), however,
it will be helpful to me for any of you who are able to subscribe to do
so. When someone who is currently on one of my two update lists
subscribes to the newsletter, I can delete that name from one of my
lists and get the numbers down where I will only have to send the update
once. (I'll be checking periodically to see who subscribes so I can
delete them from my lists and those folks won't get double messages).

Anyone you know who wants to receive the updates directly should go to
the web site mentioned in the attachment to subscribe to the newsletter.

If you are unable to open the attachment, let me know and I'll send the
information to you in another format. If you have no idea what I am
talking about after you read the attachment, just ignore this message -
you'll still get the update!

DeLee





Date: Sun, 21 Apr 2002 23:54:17 -0400
Subject: Fw: newsletter
From: Bob Lee
Sent: Sunday, April 21, 2002 11:29 PM
Subject: newsletter


Hi DeLee and prayer warriors,

Jeffrey and Jan Thompson of Thompsonic Inc. have been friends of ours
for about 15 years. They have offered to put together system that would
allow those who want to receive the "Joseph Update" the ability to
subscribe to a newsletter. This would allow DeLee to eventually send
the update to one address. She now has to keep quite track of at least
two email lists and manually add newcomers. I have also spoken to many
who used to get the updates forwarded to them from second or third party
sources who may have changed email providers or otherwise were not able
to forward the updates.

So, at this time we would like all who would like to be on the
newsletter list to subscribe. To do this click on this:
www.thompsonic.com/mailman/listinfo/joseph-lee

You will be asked to fill out some info to subscribe, i.e. your email
address.

Please note: This is not a chat newsletter. Please do not send responses
to the newsletter or to Thompsonic. This is critical to making this easy
as pie. This should create a situation where no one has to forward the
updates. For now, those who have been forwarding please continue to
forward the updates to your groups until you know they are receiving
them directly.

We value your prayers and look forward to the day we announce to you that our son is healed.

Love,

Bob, Joyce, Rachel and Joseph


Date: Thu, 28 Mar 2002 00:04:47 -0500
Subject: Happy Easter

Hello DeLee and Prayer Warriors,

We just wanted you all to know how much we appreciate your prayers and acts of
kindness towards us. Because of you, we are experiencing God's love for
us. It is such a
blessing to know that our friends care so much.

As I stood in our church service on Palm Sunday, Joyce was at home with
Joseph and
Rachel was in Youth. But I was not alone. As I looked around, I could
see men, women
and children who know all about Joseph. They have been praying without
ceasing,
seeking God, loving us. They represent an untold number who receive the
updates from
DeLee and have diligently prayed and praised God for every triumph.

DeLee, thank you for your sweet spirit. I know you don't think it's
much, but the impact
your ministry is having on us is just incredible. To God be all the
glory. May He bless you
with every blessing.

To all the dads who identify with me and have been praying with all
their hearts as dads,I want to express my deepest gratitude. Please continue to share with =
your children your
beautiful ministry of prayer. God will show them great and mighty
works.



HAPPY EASTER PRAYER WARRIORS !!!!!!

We love you,

Bob Lee


Subject: Joseph Update - Monday, 3/25/02

Dear Prayer Warriors:

PRAISE GOD FOR HIS GOODNESS AND MERCY! Joseph's platelet count went up
to 46,000 today, so NO TRANSFUSION was necessary!! The family sends
their thanks for your many prayers on their behalf. His platelets will
be checked again Friday before chemo, but they are not concerned they
will go down as low as they were yesterday now that they are "in
production" again. PLEASE PRAY THAT THE COUNT WILL CONTINUE TO INCREASE
AND GO WELL INTO THE NORMAL RANGE (150-450) BY FRIDAY.

Joseph had radiation today and will have it daily through Friday. He has
PT on Wednesday and Friday this week. He'll have lab work twice to
check other counts and (V) chemo on Friday. PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR
HIS EMOTIONAL WELL BEING. LAST WEEK WAS EXTREMELY HARD ON HIM. His
weight is at 82.2 and he is trying desperately to avoid a feeding tube by
eating as much as possible. However, he had a tough time on Friday
because he was thinking he would be skipping chemo (because of the "foot
drop" problem caused by the "V" drug) and was so disturbed when he found
out on the way to the hospital (for a check up) that he would also have
chemo, that he began to throw up. He threw up terribly at the hospital
BEFORE he even got chemo. PLEASE PRAY FOR ANXIETY THAT HE CANNOT CONTROL
THAT IS TRIGGERED BY THOUGHTS AND SMELLS ASSOCIATED WITH CHEMO.

PRAISE THE LORD FOR HIS PROVISION IN A SPECIAL WAY THIS WEEK. Bob and
Joyce had a starter go out on one of their vehicles and had to have it
repaired. This was, of course, an extra expense they did not need right
now. On Sunday, someone at church said they felt led to give them a
check - it was for almost the exact amount of the starter repair!

Thank you for being "burden bearers."


"From the LORD comes deliverance. May your blessing be on your people."
Psalm 3:8

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Sunday, 3/24/02 (9:50 PM)

Dear Friends,

Joseph had his Vincristine (V) chemo treatment on Friday. One side
effect of chemo is reduced platelet count and Joseph has done extremely
well with is count staying in the good range. The hospital staff has
been very pleased that he has not had to have a transfusion during his
chemo treatments like many children must.

Joseph's platelet count was fine on Wednesday, but on Friday (after
chemo) had dropped to 26 (thousand); normal is between 150 and 450.
Tonight his temperature went to 101 degrees (the upper limit at which
they are required to notify the hospital) and Bob and Joyce noticed
bruises at his port needle sight and where Bob gave him is shot last
night. They called the hospital about 6:30 PM and were told to take in
him. They don't know if a transfusion will be necessary (a transfusion
usually occurs with a platelet count between 10,000 and 20,000). Pray
that his count will increase and a transfusion won't be necessary. (If
one is required the Lees would like for Joseph to get his dad's
platelets; Bob gave platelets recently, but they don't know if they are
still "good" and if not, if it is too soon for Bob to give again.)

I probably won't hear from them again tonight. I will let you know how
he is doing in the morning. Thank you for your constant prayers.

In Christ,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Wednesday, 3/20/02

Dear Prayer Warriors:

Put on your knee pads! You've got serious work ahead. (This is a long
one, so be prepared!)

The last several days have been tough for the Lees. Joseph had a harder
time after this triple chemo treatment than he has the last couple of
times. He was very nauseated for several days (but is feeling much
better today and has more energy).

On Tuesday Joseph had three appointments in addition to regularly
scheduled activities. Joyce said they were gone from home from 8:00 AM
to 8:00 PM.

The first appointment was with Dr. Monson (the surgeon for his arm). Dr.
Monson said Joseph is nowhere near where he needs to be with his physical
therapy (PT) progress. The doctor said that radiation will affect the
muscles, causing them to "lock up" from the scarring if he doesn't
continue with physical therapy and work hard at making progress. Dr.
Monson said he will need to continue with PT for several months. Joseph
is to see him again in a few months. PLEASE PRAY THAT JOSEPH WILL MAKE
BIG STRIDES IN MUSCLE MOTION AND WILL REMEMBER TO WORK ON EXERCISES WHEN
HE IS NOT AT PT. The Lees have almost reached the "max" on coverage for
the PT that has been approved. PLEASE PRAY THE INSURANCE COMPANY DOES
NOT GIVE THEM PROBLEMS ABOUT EXTENDING THE PT TREATMENTS.

The second appointment was with Dr. Owings, the surgeon for the lymph
nodes. He stressed the importance of Joseph wearing long sleeves and a
glove on the left hand for the next several months. He said they must be
very careful to guard against infection - even a small nick or hangnail
could be a serious problem. PLEASE PRAY FOR PROTECTION AGAINST INFECTION
AND FOR THE FRUSTRATION IT WILL BE TO JOSEPH TO WEAR LONG SLEEVES AND A
GLOVE IN WARM WEATHER. PRAY ALSO FOR THE EMOTIONAL DIFFICULTY OF HAVING
TO LIMIT PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES TO PROTECT HIS DEFENSELESS (WITHOUT LYMPH
NODES) ARM. Dr. Owings dismissed him from further checkups unless there
is a problem with infection.

The third appointment was for radiation. Joyce said the procedure for
administering the radiation is really very fast and easy. It only takes
about 10 minutes (the worst part is the drive to Emory). Of more concern
than the actual treatments are the side effects they can have. These can
include very sensitive skin, bad sunburn-like skin blistering, and sharp
pain in the area radiated. Joseph has had hard pain under his arm once
and the radiologist said it probably was caused by the radiation. PLEASE
PRAY THAT THE SIDE EFFECTS FROM RADIATION WILL BE MINIMAL.

Today was another hectic day with science class, math class, a PT
appointment and radiation. Joyce had to run between appointments to get
Rachel from one place to another and after the 4:00 radiation appointment
got into terrible traffic. After stopping for dinner and making a "pit"
stop, then going for lab work to check blood levels (which were excellent
- PRAISE GOD!), it was almost 9:00 PM before they got home. Emory is
working with them on the radiation appointment time because they are
aware of all the trips the Lees are making for various appointments; they
are allowing Joyce to call and make an appointment on the spur of the
moment when it be most "convenient" : { to fit it in. Soon they hope to
be on a regular appointment time. PRAY FOR THE STRESS ALL THE DRIVING
CAUSES.

Tomorrow Joseph only has CHAT (home school) classes and radiation.
Friday he has a general oncology checkup at Scottish Rite. They don't
know if he will have a chemo treatment or not. The reason he skipped two
of the single drug chemo treatments was that he was showing signs of
"foot drop," where the toes tend to curl as the foot is lifted, which can
cause tripping (and did do so on a couple of occasions). This is a side
effect of Vincristine, which is the drug used for "single" chemo
treatments. PLEASE PRAY FOR THIS PROBLEM (HOWEVER THE LORD LEADS YOU TO
PRAY - HE KNOWS WHETHER OR NOT JOSEPH NEEDS THESE VINCRISTINE
TREATMENTS). Of course, the break from chemo was heartily welcomed by
Joseph. If Joseph is feeling well Friday, his family has been given an
invitation to attend a fund raiser for Bob Barr, where Charlton Heston
will be speaking. Joseph is pretty excited about getting to meet the man
who played Moses in "The Ten Commandments."

Currently, Joseph is feeling pressure to gain weight (he is threatened
with a feeding tube if it falls too low). Right now he has about 4 lbs.
before getting to that point, but he is really concerned about putting on
weight and is trying to eat as much as he is able. The weight loss is to
be expected after surgery and resuming the nauseating chemo treatments.
PLEASE PRAY HE WOULD GAIN WEIGHT AND HE WOULD NOT BE ANXIOUS AND
OVERBURDENED WITH TRYING TO DO THIS. Overall, he is pretty upbeat and
always seems to bounce back to his cheerful self after the worst effects
of chemo wear off. Joyce says he always wears one of his Christian
"witness" T-shirts when he goes to appointments ("Property of Jesus" or
"Philippians 4:13"). People never fail to comment on them and he gets an
opportunity to share his faith and scripture with folks ("What does that
Phil. 4:13 mean/say?" : ).

In the area of financial strain, the Lees are feeling weighted down.
Some of their medical expenses are only partially covered by insurance
(even after hitting the "max") because doctors are "out of network" or
drugs are not generic. This may mean only 60% coverage. One drug,
Zofran (not sure if spelling is correct), which Joseph takes for nausea
and seems to be the only one that works well for him, is $37 PER PILL.
He needs 3 pills a day. Insurance pays $25 per pill, but that still
leaves the Lees with a $36 per day expense. They are paying around $900
a month for this one medication. (Joyce and Bob found out from other
parents of cancer patients at a recent conference that this coverage by
insurance is "really good" compared to others' experiences!) Their
neighbors have been helping a great deal with the expense of this drug.
One of them is their pharmacist who will often bring bottles of this
medicine that has been paid for by a group of neighbors. She is also
working with a pharmaceutical sales person in an attempt to get some
samples to help the Lees. Right now the Lees are pursuing some avenues
for "secondary insurance coverage" that should help tremendously with
these expenses. However, they are still awaiting approval. PLEASE PRAY
THAT GOD WOULD PROVIDE FOR ALL THEIR FINANCIAL NEEDS.

With all of Joseph's appointments, Joyce is finding it very difficult to
get Rachel to and from her activities. Friends have volunteered to help
with this, but Joyce feels "frazzled" just trying to line up people to
help with transporting Rachel where she needs to go. PLEASE PRAY GOD
WILL SEND ALL THE PEOPLE NECESSARY TO HELP WITH THIS BURDEN AND THAT
JOYCE CAN SET UP A WEEKLY SCHEDULE OF REGULAR VOLUNTEERS TO HANDLE THIS
NEED UNTIL RADIATION IS COMPLETED.

PLEASE PRAY FOR BOB AND JOYCE TO BE ABLE TO REST IN THE LORD DURING THIS
TIME WHEN THEY ARE FEELING TREMENDOUS STRESS (and "brain overload") from
all the "urgent" things pulling at them (appointments, bills, work,
school, administering medications, paperwork, insurance difficulties,
transportation, laundry . . .).

Hope I didn't overload you, but thought you needed an idea of the load
our dear friends are experiencing right now, so you can help them bear
this burden. Thank you for your faithful ministry of prayer!


"Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from Him. He alone is
my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will not be shaken. My
salvation and my honor depend on God; He is my mighty rock, my refuge.
Trust in Him at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to Him, for God
is our refuge." Psalm 62:5-8


DeLee




Subject: Joseph Update - Sunday 3/17/02

Hello, Friends!

Joseph had his chemo treatment Friday and did well overall. He threw up
once on Friday and once on Saturday. Today he had a good appetite and
even rode his bicycle some. He also got a cut on his pinkie finger
(right hand) - so PLEASE PRAY FOR NO INFECTION TO SET IN. This is not as
big a concern as if it had been the left hand, but his immune system is
still weakened, so please pray for protection against any infection.

Tomorrow will be Joseph's first radiation treatment. He will have a
total of 20+ treatments which will be scheduled daily, Monday through
Friday. However, they do allow "misses" occasionally, so this process
will last approximately 4 /12 weeks (a little longer for any missed
doses). PRAY FOR THE ADJUSTMENT TO THIS ADDITION TO THEIR DAILY SCHEDULE
AND FOR THIS FIRST RADIATION TREATMENT TO GO SMOOTHLY. PRAY THAT IT WILL
"ATTACK" ANY CELLS LEFT IN THE AREAS OF SURGERY, AND THE CHEMO WOULD
ATTACK ANY CELLS THAT MIGHT BE ELSEWHERE IN THE BODY.


"The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are
safe." Proverbs 18:10


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 3/14/02

Dear Friends:

I heard from Bob yesterday and haven't had a chance to send you a message
until now. Joseph was tattooed for radiation yesterday, but they did not
actually begin treatments. Evidently, around 50 new radiation patients
have been added in the last three weeks, so Emory is having a hard time
with scheduling. Joseph will begin his treatments on Monday, 3/18, at
1:30 PM. After the initial treatment, he will go daily at 6:00 PM.
This will be a difficult time for treatments since driving to Emory will
be during rush hour traffic. PLEASE PRAY FOR ALL DEATAILS INVOLVED WITH
THE RADIATION TREATMENTS.

Remember Joseph has triple chemo treatment tomorrow.

Thanks for your faithfulness in prayer.

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Monday, 3/11/02

Dear Prayer Team:

I spoke with Joyce tonight and found out Joseph did not begin radiation
today. He had a physical therapy (PT) appointment scheduled today to
work with his arm in preparation for radiation. They are trying to get
it as limber and mobile as possible for the positions he will need to
hold during radiation. He goes again tomorrow at 9:00 AM for another PT
session before his radiation appointment at 1:00 PM at Emory. This first
day of radiation is going to be longer than the daily routine will be
because Joseph will have tattooing done to "mark the spot" for radiation.
They will also make a cast to cover areas that are not to be radiated,
so that the radiation is pinpointed to the exact places where it is
needed. PRAY EVERYTHING IS DONE ACCURATELY AND THE RADIATION WILL GO
PRECISELY WHERE IT SHOULD.

Joseph will continue with PT three times a week during the daily
radiation and weekly chemo treatments. Please pray for the Lees as they
adjust their lives to this new "schedule."

Joyce said the conference for families of cancer patients was very
profitable. She and Bob got a lot of helpful information and support
during the weekend. Doctors spoke on various topics to aid understanding
of how cancer works. There was a panel to answer questions and parents
were able to share helpful information with one another. They were able
to discuss concerns about insurance coverage/dealings with providers,
drugs, financial strain, doctor visits, chemo treatments, etc. It was a
good opportunity for parents to be with others who really understood what
they were going through.

Joseph is on the low end of the scale for weight right now. PLEASE PRAY
FOR WEIGHT GAIN.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you
rest." Matthew 11:28

In Christ,

DeLee


March 9, 2002

Subject: Joseph Update - Saturday, 3/9/02

Dear Friends,

Joseph will begin his 6 weeks of radiation treatments on Monday, March
11. These treatments will be daily, 5 days a week (M-F). He will
continue with his weekly chemo treatments during this time. On Friday,
March 15, Joseph will have an overnight triple chemo treatment at
Scottish Rite. The Lees had hoped it would be possible to start having
these treatments at home, but they have been informed that the home
health care providers are not chemo certified. PLEASE PRAY FOR GOD'S
GRACE TO DEAL WITH THE ADDED STRESS RADIATION TREATMENTS WILL BRING TO
THEIR DAILY SCHEDULE. PRAY FOR THE LORD TO WORK OUT THE DETAILS OF A
DAILY SCHEDULE AND FOR PEOPLE TO BE AVAILABLE TO GET RACHEL WHERE SHE
NEEDS TO BE WHEN THERE IS A CONFLICT WITH RADIATION. PRAY FOR JOSEPH AS
HE GOES BACK FOR CHEMO AFTER A TWO WEEK BREAK ~ IT WILL BE ESPECIALLY
HARD TO FACE AFTER BEING "FREE" FROM IT FOR AWHILE AND THINKING HE WOULD
BE ALLOWED TO HAVE THE TREATMENT AT HOME.

Joseph's hemoglobin count is the highest it has been in a long time. At
one point it was at 6.2 and has been low for quite some time. This week
his count was at 11.6. PRAISE GOD FOR THIS!

Joyce and Bob are at a Cancer Research Conference sponsored by CURE
(support group for families of cancer patients) today. It includes an
overnight stay at a local hotel. Rachel and Joseph are staying with
family friends. The conference will end Sunday morning.


"How precious concerning me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the
sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of
sand." Psalm 139:17 & 18


DeLee




Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 2/28/02

Hi, Friends,

Thought I'd let you know that Joseph will NOT have chemo tomorrow or next
Friday. I'm not exactly sure why, but it "wasn't on the schedule." His
blood counts are up, though. However, he has lost 6 lbs. since surgery.
PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM TO START PUTTING WIEGHT BACK ON.

It looks like it may be approved for the Lees to have Joseph receive his
triple chemo doses AT HOME! The doctors are willing to do it and
insurance sounded in favor of it as well. Joseph might have to go in for
the hydration process, but would be allowed to get his chemo at home with
a"home health nurse." Being home would make this yucky process much
easier to bear. PRAY THAT IF THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO DO IT, IT WOULD
WORK OUT SMOOTHLY.

Joseph has an apointment with his oncologist, Dr. George, tomorrow. This
is a general check-up since he hasn't seen Dr. George while he was under
the care of the two surgeons. His first therapy session went well and
the therapist didn't think he would need therapy for long. His motion is
pretty good. So far there has been no swelling in his arm.

Continue in your ministry of prayer.

In Christ,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Saturday, 2/23/02

Dear Prayer Team,

Joseph was released from Scottish Rite about 4:30 this afternoon. He had
a pretty good night - only threw up twice, so he did about as well as the
last triple treatment. He is pretty tired and didn't want to drink much
at the hospital, so that's why they kept him awhile to be sure he was
properly hydrated (in order to wash out all the chemo toxins).

During this visit the Lees met another family with an 8 year old boy who
also has rhabdomyosarcoma (and the same doctor as Joseph), but his tumors
were in his eye and throat. They are inoperable and he as been on
radiation and chemo treatment since June. Please lift him to the LORD.

Thanks for your prayers and love for the Lees. They feel the blessing of
your faithfulness.

Love,

DeLee



From: "Joyce lee"

Please forward this to others. We recently told Joseph about the =
pathology report. He did not worry and it did not phase him at all. He =
quickly reminded me of how he was suppose to lose his arm to amputation =
by now and that the Lord let him keep it. He also went on to remind me =
of all the little things that God has allowed to happen that give us =
peace of mind. Sure we were disappointed with the pathology report but =
God is not finished with this testimony yet. Joseph just wanted to be a =
minister one day. Well guess what? He is ministering to people =
already. So do not grieve for us but only glory in the Lord. As tough =
as this situation has been, we can not count the numerous acts of grace =
and mercy the Lord has bestowed upon us. We treasure it in our hearts. =
We don't know how things will turn out but we know that the Lord will =
always protect him even when he calls him home. We all hope that you =
can say with peace of mind that if you were to die today that you know =
for sure that you will go to heaven. You each may have not heard from =
us personally but we thank you for every loving gesture you have shown =
us through your meals, prayers, rides for the kids, and thoughtful =
surprises for us. Had it not been for you, this burden would have been =
too heavy to bear. Thank you for lightening the load. Our hectic =
schedule has sometimes been an inconvenience to us so we know it took a =
lot of effort on your part to go out of the way to help the way you all =
have. Again thank you. Let me leave you with these scriptures that the =
Lord keeps reminding me of.
Loving You In the Lord,
Joyce Lee
2Corinthians 4:7--12 NIV "But we have this treasure in jars of clay to =
show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are =
hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in =
despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. =
We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life =
of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. For we who are alive are =
always being given over to death for Jesus' sake,k so that his life may =
be revealed in our mortal body. So then, death is at work in us, but =
life is at work in you."
2Corinthians 4:16-18 "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly =
we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For =
our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory =
that far outweighs them all. so we fix our eyes not on what is seen, =
but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen =
is eternal."

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Dear Prayer Warriors,

Joyce and Bob talked with Dr. George yesterday about the pathology
report. He said that even though the chemo did shrink the tumor in
Joseph's arm and the ones in the lymph nodes, there was still cancer that
was alive and active. The arm tumor was less than 10% "dead" with over
90% of it being "very active." There were a lot of the lymph nodes
involved - approximately 15 out of 21 had active cancer in them. He
thinks this means cancer has probably metastasized (spread) to other
parts of the body. These cells would still be microscopic in size and it
could be months before they would be picked up by a scan.

Obviously, this means Joseph is not in remission and the doctor said it
is necessary to continue with chemo along with the radiation. His counts
are really good right now, so Joseph will have his triple chemo treatment
tomorrow at Scottish Rite. He will start physical therapy three times a
week (near home - Barrett Parkway) to get his arm where it will
straighten and be ready for radiation. Radiation at Emory will probably
begin the week of March 11th.

As you can imagine, this is very disappointing news for the Lee family.
They had expected a much better report about cancer activity. Joseph was
fully expecting to be cancer-free. PLEASE BE IN PRAYER FOR THEM,
ESPECIALLY TODAY. JOYCE AND BOB HAVE NOT YET TALKED TO JOSEPH ABOUT THE
PATHOLOGY REPORT. PRAY FOR GOD TO PREPARE HIS HEART AND TO TAKE HIM
THROUGH THE GRIEVING PROCESS OF THIS HOPE NOT BEING FULFILLED. PRAY FOR
JOYCE AND BOB TO SPEAK THE WORDS GOD GIVES THEM AS THEY SHARE THE NEWS
WITH JOSEPH. PRAY FOR THE HOLY SPIRIT TO BRING HIS COMFORT AND FOR OUR
FATHER TO HOLD THEM IN HIS ARMS. PRAY FOR THEM TO KNOW THE HOPE AND JOY
THE LORD GIVES EVEN IN THE MIDST OF CONFUSION, DISAPPOINTMENT, AND
HEARTACHE. PRAY THEY WOULD BE REMINDED THAT GOD IS NOT BOUND BY
PATHOLOGY REPORTS, IS NOT WITHOUT POWER OVER CANCER, IS NOT THE LEAST
DETERRED IN HIS PURPOSE BY THIS NEWS THEY DID NOT WANT TO HEAR, AND IS
NOT SURPRISED BY RESULTS WE DON'T EXPECT. PRAY THEY WOULD BE REMINDED,
"WITH MAN IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, BUT WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE."


Some trust in doctors, some trust in medical science . . .

"Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of
the LORD our God."
Psalm 20:7


Love,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update - Wednesday, 2/20/02

Dear Friends,

The Lees met with the two surgeons yesterday. Dr. Monson prescribed
therapy for Joseph's arm and shoulder to help get full usage and motion
back as soon as possible. Dr. Owings removed the drainage tube from the
armpit area. Bob and Joyce will be changing the bandage there twice a
day since there will still be some fluid seepage as it heals.

Joyce was given the pathology report as she was leaving the doctor's
office, so they didn't get to discuss it with the surgeon. Joseph's
oncologist at Scottish Rite, Dr. George, is to call today to discuss it
with them.

They know the tumor in the arm was 9 cm X less than 1 cm, which was what
was expected. (It had shrunk from 9 cm X 9 cm.)

On the visit to the radiologist on Monday they did not begin tattooing
the areas to be radiated because the surgery areas were still too sore.
It looks like they will begin radiation three weeks from the surgery
rather than the original planned date of two weeks out in order to allow
more healing to occur.

The purpose of radiation treatments is to prevent recurrence in the areas
radiated. The continuing chemo process is to attack any "stray" cells
that may have spread to other parts of the body
from the areas where surgery was done.

Joseph will be having blood work done today and will probably have his
triple chemo treatment on Friday.

I'll keep you posted. Pray without ceasing.


". . . blessed are the people whose God is the LORD." Psalm 144:15


Love,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph update - Sunday, 2/17/02

Dear Friends,

Just wanted you to know how Joseph is doing since coming home. As usual,
his response has been amazing . . . he has an incredible energy level and
pain tolerance. He is taking oral pain medication, but was able to go to
church this morning and ensemble practice this afternoon. He still must
be careful about being around anyone who is sick, but the biggest concern
with the arm is cuts or abrasions that would allow bacteria in through
the skin.

The Lees have an appointment tomorrow with Dr. Marcus, the radiologist,
who will talk with them about setting up the radiation schedule. They
will begin tattooing (really!) Joseph with marks (circles) to pinpoint
the areas for radiation.

Tuesday, they meet with Dr. Owings and Dr. Monson (the two surgeons).
Joseph will probably be able to have the drainage tube removed since the
drainage from the arm pit area is drying up. The doctors should have the
pathology report back as well.

Joseph will probably begin his regular chemo schedule on Friday, 2/22.
This will be the overnight triple treatment.

PLEASE CONTINUE PRAYING FOR PROTECTION FROM ILLNESSES AND FROM BACTERIA
THAT COULD ENTER THE ARM THROUGH THE SKIN. PRAY FOR GOOD BLOOD COUNTS
BEFORE GOING FOR CHEMO FRIDAY. PRAY FOR A SMOOTH, RELATIVELY EASY
TREATMENT WITH THE TRIPLE CHEMO. PRAY FOR WISDOM FOR THE LEES IN
BALANCING JOSEPH'S ACTIVITIES WITH REST AND SOCIAL INTERACTION WITH
PRECAUTION ABOUT ILLNESS. PRAY THAT THE JOY OF THE LORD WILL BE THEIR
STRENGTH. PRAY THEY WILL RUN TO THE LORD FOR REFUGE IN THEIR NEED.


"The LORD is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who
trust in Him." Nahum 1:7


DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 2/14/02

Dear Friends,

I spoke with Joyce and Bob this afternoon. Joseph could possibly go home
late this afternoon. He is doing very well overall, but they don't want
him to leave until the level of fluid coming from the drainage tube drops
some. He will have the tube (even at home) until the drainage amount
drops to a specified level. The drainage tube that was in the forearm
has already been removed.

They have Joseph moving his hand and shoulder as much as possible. He
does have a good bit of pain when he straightens the hand and moves the
shoulder. However, he used the morphine pump so little for post-surgery
discomfort that they took it away. He is on NO pain medication, just
antibiotics and IV fluids. The staff said yesterday should have been his
roughest day. One of his nurses said he was handling it "just too well."
She told the Lees it was obvious to her "this was being used of GOD."
She has told all the other nurses about Joseph and of course he has won
the hearts of the staff there. : ) PRAISE GOD FOR HIS MERCIFUL ANSWER
TO PRAYER FOR AS LITTLE DISCOMFORT AS POSSIBLE.

"How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be
called children of GOD!"
I John 3:1


HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY.

DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update - Wednesday, 2/13/02 - 9:25 PM

Dear Prayer Partners,

I just spoke with Joyce by phone. She said Joseph got into his room
between 3 and 4 PM. He came out of the anesthesia well and woke up
pretty quickly.

He has been sleeping on and off this evening. He has a morphine pump for
pain which he can push every 8 minutes or so as he needs pain relief.

Dr. Monson came by to talk with the family and announced that HE DID NOT
REMOVE THE MUSCLE in Joseph's forearm; he only removed the tumor. The
tumor was actually BETWEEN THE MUSCLES of the arm!!! Going into surgery
it was a given that they would be removing the muscle and attaching the
tendon to another one. Tonight they tested his movement of the pinky and
ring finger and he has full use! PRAISE GOD THAT HE ALLOWED THIS MUSCLE
TO STAY INTACT!

Joyce said they truly felt all your prayers on their behalf today. God
provided people to sit with them during surgery and different people
brought breakfast, lunch, and dinner. They really felt the LORD's peace
and comfort as they waited.

PLEASE PRAY FOR REST TONIGHT AND STRENGTH FOR TOMORROW.

In Jesus,

DeLee

Subject: Joseph Surgery Update - Wednesday, 2/13/02 - 1:50 PM

Dear Friends,

Bob just called and said surgery ended between 12:30 and 1:00 PM. They
were able to visit him in the recovery area and he was starting to come
to. Bob said he looked good, but of course, was groggy. He was in some
pain so he was given pain medication.

The surgery on the forearm went as planned. The surgery for the lymph
nodes was more extensive than the predicition yesterday (for removing 10
nodes). All lymph nodes were removed (level 1, 2, and 3 - I don't know
what that means, but maybe some of you "medical types" out there do).
The doctor felt it was safer to remove them all now rather than face the
possibility of more surgery if it was determined they should be removed
later.

They expect Joseph to be in his room in less than an hour.


DeLee



Subject: Joseph Surgery Update - Wednesday, 2/13/02 - 12:30 PM

Dear Friends,

I have just returned from Crawford Long where I got to visit with Joyce,
Bob, and Rachel in the waiting area. Around 10:30 AM Dr. Monson called
to tell them he had completed his part of the surgery (the muscle where
the tumor was located) and everything went well, just the way they
expected. Dr. Owings was beginning surgery on the lymph nodes and that
part was expected to take about 2 hours. Cheryl Parker, the nurse who
took Joseph down this morning, checked in on the surgery after Dr. Owings
began and said it looked like things were going well.

The family has requested that friends NOT make phone calls or visits to
the hospital after surgery (unless you have already made plans with the
Lees to do so). They did not get a lot of sleep last night and Joseph
tends to have a hard time coming out of anesthesia. We don't want to
overwhelm them with visits and calls when their attention needs to be on
him.

Also, everyone needs to be aware that JOSEPH'S IMMUNE SYSTEM WILL BE
ESPECIALLY WEAK AFTER THIS SURGERY because of the lymph nodes being
removed. He will have a drainage tube coming from the underarm area and
they have been warned that THEY MUST BE VERY CAREFUL TO GUARD HIS IMMUNE
SYSTEM. (His left arm will be easily suseptible to infection from now
on.) SO, if you have ANY reason to think you or a family member may be
sick or have the possibility of being sick(even "little" stuff, like
colds), DO NOT VISIT JOSEPH OR HIS FAMILY. This is so important ~ as
much as they would like to see folks, it is essential to his well-being
that Joseph does not pick up any germs.


Joseph may leave the hospital by Friday. If you would like to send a
card there the address is:

Crawford Long Hospital
Room 1127
550 Peachtree Street NE
Atlanta, GA 30365

or you can send a card to their home at:

4716 Shallow Ridge Road
Kennesaw, GA 30144



Thank you for your "prayers without ceasing" today.


"I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope."
Psalm 130:5


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Surgery Update - Wednesday, 2/13/02

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Joyce called at 8:40 AM to say Joseph had just gone down for surgery a
few minutes before. GOD has so graciously answered your prayers for
peace this morning. He sent two Christians on the hospital staff (both
of whom used to attend the Lee's church, though they didn't know either
of them) to encourage them. The nurse who took care of Joseph, Cheryl
Parker, has been getting the e-mails about Joseph and praying for him.
She had hoped she would be able to minister to them today. : ) The
ANESTHESIOLOGIST is Todd Schulte. The anesthesia was the one thing
Joseph was concerned about and GOD sent him a brother in Christ to take
care of him! Joyce said they were all getting nervous on the way over to
the operating area and then the LORD sent these two who were "just what
we needed," Joyce said. After talking with them, they all calmed. She
said Joseph was very calm, making silly faces as he was waiting to go in.
Knowing Christians were caring for him really put his mind at ease.

After Joseph went in for surgery, Joyce and Bob went to the Frazier
Outpatient Center waiting room to wait. This building is on Linden
Street across from the main hospital. They will be there probably until
11:30 or so. The doctor will call them there when the surgery is over,
then they will go to the recovery area.

If you want to call the hospital to check on Joseph, ask about him by his
full name, Arthur Joseph Lee. The information number is 404-686-2411
(I'm not really sure what they can tell you other than whether is still
in surgery or not). The main number is 404-686-4411.

I'll keep you updated as I hear from the Lees.

"When I am afraid, I will trust in you. In GOD, whose word I praise, in
GOD I trust; I will not be afraid." Psalm 56:3&4


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Tuesday, 2/12/02

Dear Prayer Partners:

Joseph registered at Crawford Long today, had an EKG, had blood work
done, etc. in prep for surgery tomorrow. This afternoon the family met
with Dr. Owings for the first time. He will be doing surgery on the
lymph nodes. He said he would be working from an incision approximately
3 inches long in the underarm area. He plans to remove about 10 lymph
nodes (evidently not all of them as originally thought). The pathology
report from the lymph nodes will be important - it will tell whether
there are still live cancer cells in the lymph system. The surgeons
expect to leave all the nerves of Joseph's arm in tact.

The removal of the lymph nodes will leave Joseph very susceptible to
infection because a primary purpose of the lymph system is to fight
infection. Also, areas of the body where lymph nodes have been removed
will often swell. Joseph will have a tube (that may remain for awhile)
to help drain fluid that accumulates in the arm.

Tonight Joseph is calm and peaceful about the surgery. He had his
questions answered today and Bob says the only area of anxiety Joseph has
expressed is about the anesthesia. He remembers being put to sleep with
his biopsy and port insertion and doesn't like the "feeling of going to
sleep." He remembers trying to move his legs and being unable to do so,
feeling helpless and a little panicked.

Surgery is to begin at 8:30 AM and last 2 1/2 to 3 hours.

PLEASE PRAY:

For Joseph to remain full of peace. That his anxiety about the
anesthesia would be relieved and that the process of "going to sleep"
would be easy for him.
The doctors would remove everything they should remove - that the LORD
would guide their every move during surgery.
That no infection would affect his arm. That his arm would be protected
from future infections that can occur from simple things like paper cuts
and hang nails.
That The LORD's peace and presence would be very real to Bob, Joyce, and
Rachel as they wait during surgery.
That the arm would drain like it should and the tube won't have to remain
a long time.
That recuperation would not be extremely difficult and post-surgery pain
would not last a long time.
That any cancer cells found in the muscle and lymph nodes would be "dead"
- no longer active.
That NO cancer would reoccur.


"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as
the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be
afraid." John 14:27

DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update - Monday, 2/11/02

Dear Friends,

Thought you'd like to know Joseph got to sing with the youth ensemble at
his church (First Baptist Atlanta) last night at the evening service. He
and Rachel were chosen to be in the ensemble this fall and he really
enjoys participating in the group. However, he was hesitant about taking
part last night because he didn't want to be conspicuous wearing at cap
out in front of the congregation. When the youth music minister
discovered the problem, he promptly told ALL the guys in the group to
wear caps last night! Before they sang, he explained the boys were
wearing hats in honor of someone who had been very courageous and was
facing a tough battle. He introduced Joseph, explained his situation,
and discussed his surgery Wednesday, then had special prayer for him.
First Baptist is such a large church, there were many who did not know
Joseph or what he has been going through. Joyce said it was a special
evening.

Bob called with a few more details about Wednesday's surgery. It should
last between 2 1/2 and 3 hours. He will be in the hospital a few days
for recuperation. The length of rehabilitation will just depend on how
quickly Joseph responds. Joseph will be experiencing the most pain in
the underarm and shoulder area (where the lymph node surgery will be).
PLEASE PRAY FOR AS LITTLE DISCOMFORT AS POSSIBLE AND FOR RAPID HEALING.
ALSO PRAY FOR THE SIDE EFFECTS FROM RADIATION TO BE MINIMAL - THAT THE
BONE WILL STAY STRONG (weakening is a side effect) AND THAT IT WILL GROW
NORMALLY.

I will try to send updates as often as possible on Wednesday ~ whenever I
get an update from Joyce and Bob.

"Now may the LORD of peace himself give you peace at all times and in
every way. The LORD be with all of you." 2 Thessalonians 3:16


DeLee

Subject: Fw Joseph update-Time for surgery


Below is a message sent this morning, Sat., 2/9/02, from Bob Lee.


--------- Forwarded message ----------


Good morning DeLee and prayer warriors,

As you know, this week we had many talks with specialists involved with
Joseph's case. We want to thank everyone for praying for wisdom and clear
direction.
"For Thou art my rock and my fortress;
For Thy name's sake Thou wilt lead me
and guide me". Psalms 31:3
We discussed everything with along with Joseph and have decided on
surgery on
this Wednesday, February 13th at 8:30 am at Crawford Long Hospital. We
need to
be there by 6;30 am.
Dr. Monson will remove the muscle that houses the primary tumor that is
located in the left forearm and reattach the tendon to an adjacent
muscle. He
should then be able to maintain good function in his pinky and ring
fingers.
Next, another surgeon, Dr. Owings will remove the lymphnodes from the
left arm
pit.

Also, radiation will begin around two weeks after surgery by Dr. Marcus.
It
will be directed at the areas known to have had tumors. This will be five
days
a week for approximately four and a half weeks. Because of the surgery,
we are
hoping the dose will be reduced.

We are thankful that Joseph is going into this surgery strong. God is
good.
Have a great weekend everyone.

"Let us therefore draw near with confidence to the throne of grace,
that
we may receive mercy and may find grace to help in time of need". Hebrews
4:16


In Christ,

Bob Lee




Subject: Joseph Update - Sat. 2/9/02

Dear Praying Friends,

I have sent separately an e-mail from Bob Lee updating you on the
decisions made about surgery for Joseph. This e-mail is just to give
extra information and details Bob shared as we talked later today.

The choice to do surgery is not the "traditional" method of dealing with
this type of cancer. However, since this is a rare cancer and not a lot
of historical data is available about treatment options, Joseph's doctors
are choosing a more aggressive plan to attack this cancer from every
angle in order to make their best effort towards preventing recurrence.
The surgery will also tell them whether the tumors left have live
(active) cancer cells or dead cells. He has several factors in his favor
for proceeding with surgery: (1) Many children do not respond favorably
to chemo and tumors do not shrink much or may even continue to grow
during chemo. Joseph responded in the "best case" fashion, showing
marked reduction in tumor size. (2) Often at this point in chemo
treatment patients are very weakened and their bodies aren't strong
enough for surgery. Joseph has shown incredible stamina and has had
excellent overall blood counts. (3) Our GOD is an awesome GOD!

Joseph will not have his regularly scheduled triple chemo treatment this
Friday. It will be delayed 7-10 days due to the surgery on Wednesday.
His next chemo treatment (which will be the overnight stay) will probably
happen Friday, 2/22, so they can stay on the Friday schedule.

Radiation will begin about two weeks after surgery and Joseph will also
start therapy for his forearm, shoulder, and fingers (to train the new
muscle which will then be working those areas). Obviously, he will be
having many more doctor visits than he has been before; chemo will also
continue weekly as it has in the past. However, the "A" drug (on the
treatment schedule some of you received awhile back from Bob) will not be
used in chemo treatment during the time Joseph is receiving radiation.
This is because one short term side effect of radiation is skin
sensitivity and that is also a side effect of this particular chemo drug.
Possible long term effects of radiation are slowed or hindered bone
growth and weakened bones. Because Joseph is having surgery, the
radiation dose will be able to be lessened, which is good ~ the stronger
the dose the worse these side effects can be.

The Lees go Tuesday to have pre-op meetings before Wednesday's surgery.
They meet with Dr. Monson (surgeon for the muscle) at 8:30 AM, the
hospital (preadmission) at 9:30 AM, and Dr. Owings (surgeon for the lymph
nodes) at 1:30 PM. These meetings should answer questions about surgery
length, recuperation time, and rehab schedule.

PLEASE PRAY FOR:

Dr. Monson - forearm muscle surgeon (and maybe the doctor reattaching
tendon to another muscle - could be a second surgeon who is a hand
specialist working on this; Bob wasn't sure). For alertness, precise and
accurate work, guidance from the LORD during surgery.
Dr. Owings - surgeon for the lymph nodes. Precision, accuracy, and GOD's
hand guiding him.
Dr. Marcus - radiologist. That the LORD would guide him to give exactly
the right dosage, that radiation will be accurate and effective.
Joseph - to feel the LORD's presence and protection over him as he goes
for surgery. That his recuperation time would be quick.
Joyce, Bob, and Rachel - to have the peace of Jesus as they wait during
surgery.
The Great Physician to bring complete healing to Joseph.


"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and
petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to GOD. And the peace
of GOD, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and
your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6 & 7

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Wednesday, 2/6/02

Dear Friends,

Bob and Joseph met with the radiology oncologist at Emory today so he
could look at the MRI films. The MRI showed there are several tumors in
the lymph node area, but they have shrunk from the size in the original
MRI. Bob and Joyce never knew how many tumors there were until they saw
the film today. I don't know what "several" means, but if they share
more details, I'll pass them on as I know them. PLEASE PRAY THESE TUMORS
WOULD CONTINUE TO SHRINK . . . TOTALLY AWAY!!

Joseph has an appointment tomorrow with Dr. Monson, the limb cancer
specialist. They have already met with one surgeon. After this
appointment the doctors will make a decision on how to proceed concerning
surgery and radiation. PRAY FOR WISDOM FROM GOD ON THE COURSE OF
TREATMENT TO PURSUE.


"When I said, 'My foot is slipping,' your love, O LORD, supported me.
When anxiety wa great within me, your consolation brought joy to my
soul." Psalm 94:18 & 19


DeLee



Monday, February 4, 2002

Subject: Joseph Update - Monday 2/4/02

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Joseph had a great day Saturday - lots of friends came to celebrate his
birthday with him and he thoroughly enjoyed himself. He played hard and
Joyce said he was tired Sunday!

PLEASE LIFT BOB AND JOYCE TO THE LORD IN A SPECIAL WAY RIGHT NOW. They
are really feeling the strain of the past four months and the weight of
the coming days. The physical toll of trips to the hospital, nights with
little sleep, etc. are wearing. More difficult, though, is the mental,
emotional, and spiritual exhaustion they are feeling. Right now they
both feel very burdened and heavy hearted. It is hard to watch their son
endure this process and they both ache for him. It is hard for them to
consider the lengthy days before them. It is scary to think about
surgery and radiation. In short, everything is overwhelming at this
time. They are so aware of GOD's goodness and provision and how He has
met their needs through so many willing servants. Joyce told me she does
not know how they could have made it without so many being willing to
help "hold up their arms" when they have been too tired to do it
themselves. ("When Moses' hands grew tired, they took a stone and put it
under him and he sat on it. Aaron and Hur held his hands up-one on one
side, one on the other-so that his hands remained steady till sunset."
Exodus 17:12) However, their human frailty feels the difficulty of the
situation. PRAY THEY WILL BE ABLE TO CRY OUT TO THE LORD AND KNOW HIS
TENDER TOUCH AS HE REACHES OUT TO COMFORT AND STRENGTHEN THEM IN THEIR
PAIN.

Joyce and Bob are trying to set up an appointment with Dr. Monson
(specialist in cancer of the limbs) to get his opinion about surgery.
PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM TO HAVE WISDOM FROM GOD ABOUT WHAT WILL BE BEST FOR
JOSEPH.

Thank you for your faithfulness in prayer for this precious family.


"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you
rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and
humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is
easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

Remember, a yoke has two slots - only one is for you. Jesus is on the
other side and He will carry the weight of the burden - just like a yoke
is adjusted to rest the weight on a mature ox when a young ox is being
trained. The young ox is guided around by the one who is teaching him;
all the young one has to do is follow. (It's much easier if he is
willing to go the same direction as the teacher).


In our Teacher, Comforter, and Guide,

DeLee


Wednesday, January 30, 2002

Subject: Joseph Update - Wednesday, 1/30/02

Dear Friends,

Thought you would like to know that Joseph has been doing well the last
couple of days. Earlier in the week he had some real emotional times
that have since been attributed to an anti-nausea drug that has the side
effects of mood swings and becoming emotional. They are planning to
avoid that drug in the future. PLEASE PRAY OTHER MEDICINES WILL WORK AS
WELL IN CONTROLLING THE NAUSEA AFTER TREATMENTS.

Joseph's regular weekly treatment scheduled for this Friday has been
cancelled because one of the drugs used in the chemo treatment can cause
muscle weakness if too much builds in the body. Joseph has recently had
weakness in his left hand, so they said the drug was too toxic and they
need to back off and give him a rest from it. Joseph is thrilled to skip
a week of chemo (the first week the schedule has been interrupted),
especially since his birthday is this week. Tomorrow, January 31, he
turns 13. He will have a celebration with some friends this weekend.
PRAISE GOD FOR HOW WELL HE IS FEELING RIGHT NOW AND FOR A LITTLE BREAK
FROM THE CANCER TREATMENT DURING HIS BIRTHDAY WEEK.

Right now Joseph is getting the daily injections to boost white blood
count (he always receives these 7-10 days following his triple treatment)
as well as an injection three days a week (M, W, F) for his red blood
count. This second injection is to help avoid the necessity of a blood
transfusion. PRAY FOR HIS BLOOD COUNTS TO STAY IN THE "SAFE" RANGE.
PRAY HE WOULD BE PROTECTED FROM PICKING UP ANY GERMS FROM FRIENDS AS HE
CELEBRATES HIS BIRTHDAY.


"Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you. I will
praise you as long as I live, and in your name I will lift up my hands."
Psalm 63:3 & 4

DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update - Saturday, 1/26/02

Dear Friends,

Joseph had his triple treatment yesterday. Bob says is was the best one
yet in terms of overall reaction to the chemo. Joseph only threw up
twice and was able to sleep through the night. They were planning to go
home in early afternoon.

Joseph's doctor came in to talk with them last night about what is going
on concerning surgery and radiation. It's all pretty confusing because
there are so many "unknowns." They are dealing with a rare form of
cancer that usually appears in the torso, so his doctors have not had
experience with a tumor in a limb. Right now they are not even sure
about doing a biopsy. They have to think through the treatment process
differently because different factors have to be taken into account. For
example, whether or not to do surgery at the tumor site may have to do
with how the removal would affect motion in the fingers and hand vs. how
likely it is that any cancer is left (MRI's can be deceptive - nothing
may "appear" in the picture, but cells could still be active; they want
to be extremely cautious about not overlooking any "hidden" cancer
cells.) Also, with surgery less radiation strength would be required.
However, radiation is going to be necessary for the lymph nodes in the
armpit area and they would like to avoid surgery there because so many
nerves that affect hand and arm motion are located there. As you can
imagine, there are a lot of "on the one hand, but on the other hand" type
scenarios to be considered. This pediatric cancer doctor at Scottish
Rite is planning to consult with Dr. Monson (not sure it that's spelled
right) who specializes in surgery on cancer in the limbs, to get his
views on what route would be best to take. Joseph's doctor said he would
like to move ahead with whatever treatment plan they choose within the
next three weeks. In the meantime, Joseph will continue with his
regular chemo treatments. Of course, if surgery is necessary, that would
slow up the chemo treatment schedule. He will also continue chemo
treatments when he has daily radiation. PLEASE PRAY FOR WISDOM AND
GUIDANCE FROM THE LORD FOR THESE MEN AS THEY STUDY JOSEPH'S SITUATION AND
TRY TO DECIDE THE BEST COURSE OF ACTION.

Thank you for your concern and for lifting the Lees in prayer.

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own
understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your
paths straight." Proverbs 3:5&6


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 1/24/02

Dear Praying Friends,

Sorry it's been so long since you've heard from me. There really hasn't
been any "new" news to pass along. Last week was hard for the Lees (I
found out later) when several nights in a row they were up for most of
the night carefully monitoring Joseph's temperature because it was in the
"danger" zone (101 degrees). He never had to go to the hospital, but it
was exhausting for them to be keeping vigal for so many nights.

Joseph is scheduled for his triple treatment tomorrow - Number 12. This
is the last of the initial treatments before the biopsy. His iron count
has increased again (from 6.3 last week to 7.0 now - this is in the
"good" range).

The biopsy has still not been scheduled. The doctor who did the first
biopsy will probably do this one. Depending on what the biopsy shows
(and how intertwined the tumor or scar tissue that remains is with
muscle) either this pediatric surgeon or Dr. Monson (who is a surgeon who
specializes in limb saving cancer surgeries) will perform any follow up
surgery that is necessary. The lymph nodes in the armpit area are also
an area that may require very intricate work during surgery.

Thank you for your consistent, fervant prayers for Joseph and his family.


"You, O LORD, keep my lamp burning; my GOD turns my darkness into light."
Psalm 18:28



In Him,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, Jan. 17, 2002

Dear Friends,

I have been out of town for several days, so I haven't been able to
update you. I talked with Joyce today and she said that Joseph's
hemoglobin count got extremely low this week (6.3 - a critical level) and
they were told he would have to have a transfusion tomorrow with his
chemo treatment. (Last week his count was 7.2 when they decided he would
need a transfusion.) Evidently when the counts are dropping, they check
levels regularly, so he had blood drawn again after the 6.3 reading.
Today they went to his CHAT classes and while there, the moms had a time
of prayer for Joseph. When Joyce got home there was a phone message
(left while they were at CHAT) from the hospital saying his counts had
gone way up and Joseph would not need the transfusion! PRAISE GOD FOR
HIS MIRACULOUS INTERVENTION ONCE AGAIN!

A home schooling friend at CHAT who is a pediatric oncology nurse told
Joyce that Joseph's response to the whole chemo process is not typical.
She said he shouldn't have the energy and strength he has had (he has
been doing all of his normal activities) and it is incredible that his
counts go up. She told Joyce how blessed she has been to see the LORD in
action right before her eyes. Even the doctor told Joyce that at this
stage most kids are so tired they are in bed unable to function. PRAISE
GOD FOR THE STRENGTH HE HAS POURED OUT ON JOSEPH.

The biopsy date has not yet been set. CONTINUE TO PRAY THAT THERE WILL
BE NO CANCER WHEN THEY DO THE BIOPSY.


"O my Strength, I sing praise to you; you, O GOD, are my fortress, my
loving GOD." Psalm 59:17


DeLee


PS Joyce and Bob had a wonderful weekend together during their little
"getaway." It was a special blessing to have that time of rest and
renewal in a beautiful setting. Thank you for your prayers for them.


Subject: Joseph Update - Friday, Jan. 11, 2002

Dear Friends,

PRAISE GOD FOR HIS MERCY AND LOVING KINDNESS!!!! Joyce called me about
noon and said Joseph DID NOT have to have the transfusion. When they
checked his counts today, the nurse came in and said, "This is very
strange, everything should be dropping this week after the triple
treatment last week, but the hemoglobin count has gone up in 24 hours."
In fact, everything had gone down EXCEPT the hemoglobin (gives iron
count) which is the determining factor for whether or not a transfusion
is necessary. It went from 7.2 to 7.7. So, Joseph had his regular chemo
treatment and went home. Needless to say he and his family are overjoyed
that he did not have the transfusion! (There are some "glowing" faces
around my house, too! Hope this makes your day! : )

Joyce also talked with the doctor about the MRI and CT results. The
doctor kept saying he was "so pleased" with the results. The original
tumor was measured as 9 cm X 9 cm (length across muscle and depth). It
is now 9 cm X 1 cm - still the same length, but reduced incredibly in
depth. They are to schedule a biopsy with an orthopedic surgeon in the
next week to determine whether this is still an active tumor or just
"dead" scar tissue. If it is just dead cells and has shrunk so that it
is not "invading" the muscle, he will remove part of the muscle to take
out the scar tissue and any traces of tumor. In this case they will be
able to reduce the strength of the radiation dosage by one half. If the
remaining tumor tissue is too interconnected with the muscle to take out,
they will keep the radiation dosage amount as planned. PRAY THERE WILL
BE NO CANCER CELLS WHEN THE BIOPSY IS DONE AND THAT THE REMAINING SCAR
TISSUE CAN BE EASILY REMOVED.

The doctor said this is an excellent response - the best he could hope to
get! He told them to be encouraged, that these surely were not typical
results. (Are we surprised?)


"You are the GOD who performs miracles; you display your power among the
peoples." Ps. 77:14

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, Jan. 10, 2002

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Joseph went for lab work yesterday and the report showed his iron level
to be very low (I'm not sure about his other counts), so he will have a
blood transfusion tomorrow after his chemo treatment. The hospital told
Joyce to plan to be there from about 8:30 AM to 4:00 PM. They should
also hear from the doctor about the MRI and CT results. Even though his
counts are low, Joseph's energy level seems to be good. PRAY FOR THE
TRANSFUSION TO GO SMOOTHLY, FOR PROTECTION FROM ANY ILLNESS, AND FOR
JOSEPH'S ANXIETY OVER A NEW PROCEDURE.

Right now Joseph especially NEEDS YOUR PRAYERS FOR HIS EMOTIONAL STATE.
He is dealing with sadness and pain over the longevity of this treatment.
Knowing he has 32 more treatments, plus radiation, and possibly surgery
is overwhelming him. Each trip to Scottish Rite is anxiety-laden because
he anticipates the unpleasant things that will happen there. It is such
a difficult thing for a child to go through and he is feeling the daily,
long term effects. PLEASE PRAY FOR THE LORD TO BE HIS COMFORT AND
ENCOURAGEMENT, AND FOR JOSEPH TO KNOW IT'S OK TO BE SAD AND CRY WHEN YOU
ARE HURTING.

Bob and Joyce have been given a weekend away for Joyce's birthday this
weekend. Some dear friends have volunteered to have Rachel and Joseph
over while Bob and Joyce have a couple of days to relax and enjoy some
time alone. The kids will go over Friday evening after Joseph's
treatment and stay through Sunday morning. (Mom and Dad will be nearby
to stop in Saturday night for Joseph's shot.) Joyce especially is
feeling exhausted right now and is really looking for to this time. PRAY
THAT SHE AND BOB HAVE A LOVELY TIME OF REST AND REFRESHMENT TOGETHER.


"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of
the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, 'He is my refuge and my fortress,
my GOD, in whom I trust.'" Psalm 91:1&2



DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update - Saturday, January 5, 2002

Dear Friends,

I talked with Bob this evening and he said they got home from Scottish
Rite around 4:00 PM. He said this was the best triple treatment yet.
(This was chemo #9, not #8, like I put in the last e-mail). He has had
no nausea. However, the medicine does make him really groggy. They are
very pleased with this visit compared to the last triple dose visit.
PRAISE GOD FOR THIS GOOD REPORT.

They have not yet gotten any results from the CT or MRI scans. Joseph's
doctor wasn't there this weekend, so they aren't sure when they may hear
from him. It may be next Friday, Jan. 11, on their next chemo visit
before they are able to discuss results with him. I'll let you know as
soon as I hear anything.

The doctors are planning to begin radiation once this first round of
chemo treatment (we guess 3 more doses) is finished. Radiation would be
for 4 to 6 weeks, 5 days a week. The Lees will know more about what all
that will involve once they talk with the doctor about the scan results.

PLEASE CONTINUE IN YOUR FAITHFUL PRAYERS FOR THIS FAMILY.


"The LORD delights in those who fear Him, who put their hope in His
unfailing love."
Psalm 147:11


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Friday, January 4, 2002

Dear "Prayer Team,"

Bob called me about 3:00 PM to tell me Joseph was being hydrated in
preparation for his triple chemo treatment which should begin around 6 or
7 PM. The surprising news he wanted everyone to know is that the doctors
decided to do a CT scan and MRI today, which Joseph was having done when
Bob called. If it's like the last one, the MRI should take a couple of
hours. This evaluation is about 4 weeks earlier than orginally planned
(was supposed to happen about week 12 in treatment; this is week 8).
Evidently the doctors are anxious to see what's going on since Joseph has
responded so well to treatment.

IF YOU RECIEVE THIS EARLY ENOUGH, PLEASE BE IN PRAYER DURING THE MRI/CT
SCANS. PRAY THAT NO CANCER CELLS ARE LEFT, THAT THE DOCTORS ARE AMAZED,
AND THAT GOD GETS ALL THE GLORY!!

Bob was not sure how soon they will receive a report from the scans. I
will relay the information as soon as I get it.


"For the word of the LORD is right and true; He is faithful in all He
does." Psalm 33:4


DeLee


Saturday, 12/29/01

Subject: Joseph Update - Saturday, 12/29/01

Dear Friends,

Joseph's 8th chemo treatment yesterday went well, with no problems. He
went to a movie with his family last night and is having a good day today
as well.

They met with Joseph's oncologist before the treatment yesterday and he
said that Joseph's progress is "really amazing." The doctor said he
could hardly feel anything at the site of the tumor and is very pleased
at how well Joseph has done. He even said there is a "possibility" of
not operating after week 12, but he is very cautious because he does not
want to miss any cancer that might remain at the tumor site. PLEASE PRAY
FOR DR. BRADLEY GEORGE TO HAVE WISDOM TO FOLLOW THE RIGHT COURSE OF
ACTION. CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR THE LORD TO BRING COMPLETE HEALING TO
JOSEPH AND THAT THERE WILL BE NO CANCER CELLS REMAINING WHEN HE IS
EVALUATED AT WEEK 12.

Joseph's next treatment, Friday, January 4, with be the triple dose chemo
with an overnight stay. PLEASE PRAY FOR A PEACEFUL SPIRIT FOR JOSEPH; IT
IS HARD FOR HIM NOT TO BE ANXIOUS BEFORE CHEMO TREATMENTS - JUST THE
SMELLS OF THE HOSPITAL ARE ENOUGH TO TRIGGER THAT "KNOT IN THE STOMACH"
FEELING. PRAY FOR THAT THE PRINCE OF PEACE WOULD FILL HIM AND KEEP HIM
ESPECIALLY DURING THIS "BIG" DOSE.

Thank you for your "fragrant offerings" before the LORD on behalf of
Joseph and his family. May your New Year blessed with a deepening
relationship with the ONE who loves you more than you can fathom.


"Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the LORD our
Maker; for he is our GOD and we are the people of his pasture, the flock
under his care." Psalm 95:6&7


DeLee




Date: Sun, 23 Dec 2001 22:02:32 -0800 (PST)

Dear DeLee and prayer warriors,

I do not know where to begin this note of thanks. Joyce and I along with
Rachel
and Joseph have been so overwhelmed by the outpouring of love. We have
seen old
friends who know us well come to our aid. New friends, near and far, have

expressed their love and concern for Joseph as if he were their own
child.

In our neighborhood, our neighbors are praying, receiving meals when we
are
gone and delivering them, watching out for us. In Japan, a sweet lady we
have
never met named Tsuya weeps when she sees our picture and lifts Joseph up
to
the Lord in prayer. Our homeschooling friends, Sunday School class, and
neighbors have made wonderful meals. The children have made cards and
other
creative items to encourage us. They bend their knees and pray specific,
God
directed prayers for their friend. Thanks to the student ministry
leadership
for being so faithful to visit us. We have received help with Joseph's
shots at
just the right time and have given me more confidence in this task. We
received
many contributions to help with the expenses. So many stand ready to help

wherever needed. From all of us in the Lee family, thank you.

But most of all, thank you for praying. God hears you. He is faithful. He
is
true. Joseph's tumors continue to shrink. The primary tumor in his
forearm,
once the size of an egg, is now the size of a jelly bean. I can not feel
the
lump. The tumors in his armpit have also shrunk. Please pray for complete

healing and no cancer cells left in his body. Clearly, we see God at work
in
this. Joseph's attitude makes me so proud. We are encouraged. Our
strength is
renewed every morning. Thoughts of your ministry to us brings us to a
fresh
awareness of God's love for us.

Merry Christmas,

Bob, Joyce, Racheland Joseph Lee



Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 12/20/01

Merry Christmas, Friends!

Joyce says Joseph has had a GREAT week, with no problems at all. He has
slept in several days to catch up on his sleep loss and has his appetite
back. Tomorrow is chemo day and, if it is like the other "quick"
treatments, should go pretty smoothly. PRAY THIS IS THE CASE, AND THAT
GOD IS WORKING TO REMOVE ALL CANCER CELLS FROM HIS BODY. CONTINUE TO
PRAY FOR PROTECTION FROM ANY ILLNESS AND FOR STRENGTH AND STAMINA AGAINST
THE RAVAGES OF CHEMO.

They are looking forward to a quiet Christmas at home and visiting with a
few friends during the week after Christmas.

May the LORD bless your Christmas celebration with overflowing joy for
the gift of His Son, our Savior!!!!!!!!!!

Love,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Monday, 12/17/01

Dear Friends,

Just wanted you to know Joseph has been doing well since he came home
Saturday around 2:00 PM. The Zofran (for throwing up) finally came about
11:00 AM that morning and he has been taking it since then and has not
thrown up again. He has been eating some and having milkshakes. Thank
you for all your prayers for his quick recovery from a difficult
treatment.


Love,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Sat., 12/15/01

Dear Friends,

Joyce and I talked about 10:30 AM today. Joseph's treatment did not
begin until almost 5:00 PM yesterday because it took them awhile to get
him fully hydrated. (He had gained another 1 1/2 pounds, though! Praise
the LORD.)

When the chemo began Joyce realized the hospital staff had not given
Joseph the anti-nausea drug that is most effective for him (Zophran - not
sure about spelling). Instead they gave him the same medication they
used for the last triple chemo which was not effective. Joyce and Bob
requested Zophran repeatedly, but the staff said it wasn't "on his
orders" and Joseph's doctor wasn't available to be contacted. Joseph
started out well the first few hours of chemo; he was not as weak, shaky,
and light headed as he usually is after vomiting. He threw up about
seven times from treatment start until 8:30 AM today. Up until midnight,
Joyce said he would throw up and then go on about whatever he was doing
(playing games in the game room or TV). He said was grateful that the
vomiting was "so easy" this time - it really didn't disturb him and
wasn't painful. However, from midnight on, he started feeling much worse
and had a rough night. In addition to the nausea, he suffered with
severe diarrhea (probably because the staff gave him a lot of ice cream
during the early part of the treatment). When we talked this morning,
Joyce said he hadn't thrown up in about two hours and was sleeping for
the longest stretch all night (45 minutes). They were waiting for the
pharmacy to send the Zophran that had been requested from the beginning.
Once he is fully hydrated and stops throwing up, they will let him go
home. PRAY THE THROWING UP DOESN'T CONTINUE ONCE JOSEPH GETS HOME AND
THAT HE REGAINS HIS STRENGTH FROM ALL THE FLUIDS HE LOST. PRAY HE IS
ABLE TO EAT AND DOESN'T LOSE A LOT OF WEIGHT.

They are all exhausted. The staff is in and out every 30 minutes doing
urine checks, etc., the IV beeps every 20 minutes for bag changes (and
continues to beep until someone can get to the room to change it),
Joseph was throwing up, linen changes had to be made - so there was very
little sleep to be had. PRAY THEY ALL (ESPECIALLY JOSEPH) GET GOOD REST
THIS WEEKEND.

Joyce wanted to be sure you all know that even though this was a rough
time, your prayers are not in vain. They feel "held up" by the prayer
covering. Joyce feels sure the treatment would have been much more
difficult had it not been for all the prayer going up for them. She said
that they were able to be a blessing to one of the chaplains there and
see GOD get glory even in the midst of a "nasty" time during treatment.
The chaplain came by to visit yesterday evening because she had heard
about Joseph and wanted to meet him herself (and to be sure the family
wasn't "in denial" because of how calm she had heard they have been
through all this). She had a wonderful visit and said she felt "the
anointing of the LORD" on them. At one point during their visit, Joseph
said, "Excuse me," and tried to make his way to the bathroom, but was
hindered by all the tubes, so he stopped at the trash can, threw up, then
sat down and said, "OK, go ahead." She was amazed at his composure and
calm spirit. GOD even made throwing up easier and a testimony. The
chaplain left praising the LORD and thanking the Lees for blessing her
when she came to be a blessing to them. PRAISE GOD HE IS AT WORK IN
EVERYTHING.

Also, I wanted to let you know we had a very special prayer time Friday
morning during our prayer walk. Thank you to all who came (about 30
people) on a rainy, busy Friday at Christmas time, and to all who prayed
with us in other places. There were a lot of children there (some even
got out of school to come) and it was blessing to hear them pray for
their friend. Joseph is very aware of the LORD's presence in his life
and is thankful for the prayers for his body and spirit.

"For you have been my hope, O Sovereign LORD, my confidence since my
youth." Psalm 71:5

With love,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 12/13/01

Dear Prayer Partners,

I was able to talk to Bob tonight and Joseph has had a very good week.
He has had a great appetite and had double helping of chicken pot pie for
supper today! He had blood counts taken tonight and everything was fine
to proceed with his triple-drug chemo treatment tomorrow. He will stay
overnight and probably both Jocye and Bob will stay with him (Rachel will
be at a sleep-over). The oncology department at Scottish Rite has just
moved to a new floor and they will be staying in brand new rooms -
hopefully, they will have better furniture for rest in the new rooms.
than the typical hospital couches offered to family members. PLEASE PRAY
THAT THE CHEMO IS EFFECTIVE IN KILLING CANCER CELLS. PRAY JOSEPH DOES
NOT HAVE SEVERE REACTIONS TO THE CHEMO AND THE NAUSEA IS NONEXISTENT OR
OF SHORT DURATION, SO HE IS ABLE TO KEEP FOOD DOWN AND KEEP AN APPETITE.

Joseph will begin Sunday or Monday with the daily shots to boost his
immune system. These are necessary after the "super" chemo treatment
because it kills off the "good" cells with the bad.

Bob has asked that you all pray specifically about the "reevaluation
period" at the end of January when the doctors check Joseph's progress.
They will do a thorough MRI of his whole body to look for remaining
cancer cells. Wherever they "see" cells, surgery will be done to remove
them. It is possible they would need to remove the entire muscle on
which the growth began. Also, whole sections of muscle where lymph nodes
were invaded by cancer might need to be removed. Amputation is still a
possibility. THEY HAVE REQUESTED WE PRAY FOR TOTAL HEALING - NO CANCER
CELLS, ANYWHERE. WITH CHEMO THAT'S NOT REAL LIKELY, MAYBE NOT POSSIBLE;
BUT WITH GOD NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. PRAY THAT THE DOCTORS ARE ASTOUNDED
AND THERE BE NO EXPLANATION BUT THE UNMISTAKABLE HEALING HAND OF GOD.

Bob said to be sure to tell you all how much they love you and how
thankful they are for your faithful prayers for Joseph and the rest of
the family.


"Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or
imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be
glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for
ever and ever! Amen." Ephesians 3:20 & 21


DeLee

P.S. We are having a prayer walk for Joseph and his family tomorrow
(Friday) morning at 10:30 AM. Those who can't be there physcially,
please join us in prayer wherever you are at that time.



Subject: Joseph Update - Sunday, 12/9/01

Dear Friends,

I spoke to Joyce yesterday and just now have been able to get to the
computer to send you a message. She said Joseph has done very well after
the last chemo treatment Friday, 12/7. He had chemo in the morning and
experienced no nausea; he was able to do normal activities all day
Friday. He also has a good appetite, which is a blessing, because he has
lost quite a bit of weight lately due to the vomitting and loss of
appetite. He had lost 7 1bs. at one point, but gained 1 1/2 lbs. between
his last 2 treatments. The staff at Scottish Rite has told them he
cannot lose more than 10% (9 lbs.) of his body weight or he will have to
have a feeding tube. Bob and Joyce have been giving him high calorie
foods (like milkshakes with nutrition supplements) to help boost his
calorie intake. Please pray that he will be able to keep his level
weight up and will feel like eating. Pray especially for the chemo
treatment this Friday, 12/14, because it is the "super" dose of three
medications that really is rough on his body.

I am also forwarding an e-mail message from Bob that gives a detailed
outline of Joseph's treatment plan.

Blessings on you for your faithfulness in prayer.

In Jesus,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph's Chemotherapy Protocol

Hi DeLee,

I think this chart may help answer a lot of questions about Joseph's
treatments

This shows where we have been and where we are going. Please also pray
for his
appetite. On November 1st he weighed 90 lbs. As of yesterday he was down
to 85.5
lbs. Loss of appetite, is ine of the most common problems
associated with the treatment of cancer.

Joseph's Chemotherapy Protocol
Diagnosis: Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma
Week zero(0) was November 1st. Week five was December 7th.

V= Vincristine A= Actinomycin C=Cyclophpsphamide (aka: Cy-Yukky!!!)

Week 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12
V V V V V V V V V V V V Evaluation/
A A A A Surgery
C C C C

Week 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24
V V V V V V V V Evaluation
A A
C C C C
RADIATION---------------

Week 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42
V V V V V V V V V V EVALUATION

A A A A A A
C C C C C C






Wednesday, December 5, 2001

Subject: Joseph Update - Wednesday, 12/5/01

Dear Friends,

Thought you would like to know that Joseph did much better with this
round of chemo. He did not throw up at all. He did run fever two
nights, but it went down with Tylenol and he felt like going to church on
Sunday. He has been feeling really well this week. PRAISE GOD FOR A
GOOD WEEK FOR JOSEPH.

He is scheduled for chemo on Friday. PRAY FOR COUNTS TO BE GOOD SO IT
CAN GO ON AS SCHEDULED.

Thank you for remaining faithful in your prayers. The Lees are so aware
of all the intercession on their behalf.

In Christ our Savior,

DeLee


November 30, 2001

Dear Friends,

Joseph has had kind of a "yucky" day today. He has been sick to his
stomach (though only threw up once) and is resting a lot. He doesn't
feel like drinking as much as he should - please pray that he will feel
like taking in more liquids to help "wash" the chemo through his system.
He began getting his Neupogen injections again yesterday (for boosting
blood counts).

Joyce's "flu-like" syptoms were apparently the onset of a cold. She is
not feeling too badly, but please pray that Joseph won't pick up any
germs that might attack his system.

Bob said Joseph's tumor is getting really small - literally "melting
away." PRAISE GOD! What is left is no longer hard. If things go
according to schedule, Joseph will probably have surgery around the
beginning of February to remove what is left of the tumor and any scar
tissue around it and in the lymph nodes. Then he would probably have a
couple of weeks of radiation followed by the remainder of the chemo
treatments to attack any cancer cells that may be "hiding" in his body.

I know you have been praying about Joseph's hair loss. Here's an update:
Bob said that on Wednesday night he and Joyce heard peals of laughter
coming from upstairs. They started to go up to see what was going on,
but decided it sounded like Joseph and Rachel were having so much fun
that they would let them enjoy their "brother-sister" moment
uninterrupted. A few minutes later Rachel came down the stairs and
announced, "Introducing the NEW Joseph Lee." On cue, Joseph stepped out
to model his new bald head with a few fine, straight, baby-like hair
tufts on top. He had called Rachel into the bathroom to watch him
vigorously brushing his hair while it flew all over the bathroom!!
PRAISE GOD FOR ALLOWING THEM TO SEE HUMOR IN THIS AND FOR EASING THE
TRANSITION TO NO HAIR. Joseph has been sporting his new collection of
baseball caps including ones from the following - FDNY (NYC fire
department), Cobb County Fire Department, and the Secret Service. He is
enjoying adding new caps to his cool collection.

PLEASE PRAY FOR JOSEPH'S RECUPERATION FROM THIS ROUND OF CHEMO AND FOR
HIS BODY TO BE STRENGTHENED AND BLOOD COUNTS TO BUILD BY FRIDAY FOR HIS
NEXT TREATMENT.


In Christ,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph November 25, 2001

Hi DeLee and prayer warriors,

Printed words could not express my gratitude for all who have been going
before
the Lord in prayer for our family. I assure you it is a great source of
comfort
to know that God is with us and He cares very deeply for Joseph. He is
beginning to realize how long this 42 weeks of treatment is.

Joseph had his fourth treatment on Friday November 23rd and stayed at
Scottish
Rite over night. Joyce had flu-like symptoms so she stayed home. When I
brought
Joseph home on Saturday morning he was so exhausted I had to carry him in
to
the house. He perked up when his cousins came over to play.

At this time, please pray for his strength and appetite to increase. The
way he
has handled this time in his life has made me very proud to be his dad.
Pray
for wisdom on my part to help look to God as the source of his strength.

Love,

Bob Lee

P.S.----Chester and Amberly, Joseph asked for the Potters Hand song book.

Please let me know how to get one. Thank you!!!



Subject: Joseph Update - 11/24/01 - 5:15 PM

Hi!

Bob left a message on my machine at 4:45 PM that said Joseph got his
chemo treatment last night and stayed the night. He was a "little sick"
last night, but is doing well today. Though he is tired, Bob said he is
playful and having fun with his cousins. They will be leaving tomorrow.

Joseph will begin his daily shots (to boost blood counts) tomorrow for
about a week.

CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HEALING, FOR MINOR CHEMO SIDE EFFECTS, AND FOR
PROTECTION FROM ILLNESS OR INFECTION.

Thanks for your faithfulness in prayer.


"Not to us, O LORD, not to us but to your name be the glory, because of
your love and faithfulness." Psalm 115:1


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Friday, 11/23/01, 2:10 PM

Hello, Everyone!

Joseph : ) called us from the hospital this afternoon (12:45 PM) to let
us know that his blood counts have soared up (PRAISE THE LORD!). He was
being hydrated in preparation for his chemo treatment. This is the
"super" dose (three medications at once) that requires him to stay
overnight. PLEASE PRAY THAT THE CHEMO ATTACKS ALL THOSE NASTY CANCER
CELLS AND THAT IT DOESN'T CAUSE SO MANY AWFUL SIDE EFFECTS (LIKE NAUSEA,
MOUTH SORES, FEVER, ETC.)

Joseph said he had a great Thanksgiving with his uncle and cousins
yesterday. They are still here in Atlanta. I'm not sure when they
return home, but keep them in your prayers for safe travel.

I'll keep you updated as I hear from the Lees during this treatment.
Hope you have had a blessed Thanksgiving season.

"My soul finds rest in GOD alone; my salvation comes from him. HE alone
is my rock and my salvation; HE is my fortress, I will never be shaken."
Psalm 62:1&2



Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 11/8/01

Friends,

We got to visit with the Lees tonight when we delivered some meals and
other items. Joseph looked great and was full of energy. He told his
mom that he felt "back to normal" today. He truly appreciates all the
cards, notes, and gifts he has received from many of you.

PRAISE THE LORD for HIS provision for the $300-a-day drug. The insurance
company had a delivery service bring the rest of the prescription to the
Lees' home and has agreed to pay for the medication under major medical
(vs. prescriptions). So the Lees will only be responsible for 20% of the
cost, unless (or until) they have met the out-of-pocket maximum, then it
will be covered 100%.

Joseph has his second chemo treatment tomorrow (Friday) AM. PRAY HE
RESPONDS WELL.


Love,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update 11/7/01

Dear Friends,

I talked with Joyce yesterday (Tuesday) around 4:00 PM. Sorry I haven't
been able to get the info passed on until now.

Joseph had his first dose of the medication that is given by injection
nightly on Monday. (This is the $300 per dose medicine that is to help
keep his platelet count up so he can avoid having blood transfusions).
He threw up after this injection, so they will be using the anti-nausea
drug with it from now on. PLEASE PRAY JOSEPH DOESN'T GET SICK AFTER THIS
DRUG EACH NIGHT.

Their doctor and medical advocate are working on the insurance company to
convince them that this drug is a medical necessity and they are trying
to get coverage under "medical" since insurance doesn't want to cover it
under "prescriptions." PRAY THAT GOD WILL PROVIDE FOR ALL THEIR
FINANCIAL NEEDS RIGHT NOW.

PRAISE GOD that Joseph's mouth soreness was much better on Tuesday. He
ate some homemade bread, a can of chicken noodle soup, a popcicle, and a
Boost (supplemental nutritional) drink. We got to talk with him on the
phone and he sounded so much better than Monday.

FYI: After Joseph's first chemo treatment the Lees found out that Joseph
is not in the 50% of the study receiving the new drug. He evidently is
in the "control" group that receives the standard chemo treatment. It
also means he won't have the five day hospital stay every three weeks,
just an overnight stay for the "triple drug" treatment every three weeks.
They were told that if the "test" group getting the new drug shows
significant improvement over the control group, they will switch them all
to the new drug.

Joseph is scheduled for his second chemo treatment on Friday, 11/9, in
the morning. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM ON FRIDAY AND DURING THE WEEKEND WHEN
HE MAY START TO FEEL THE EFFECTS OF DROPPED PLATELET COUNT AND MAY ALSO
BEGIN TO LOSE HIS HAIR.

Thank you for your faithful ministry in prayer.

Love,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Monday, 11/5/01

Hello, Everyone!

The kids and I got to see Joseph today when we went to deliver some
meals. He was having a rough day - his mouth, tongue, and throat are
very sore from the chemo. He hadn't eaten or drunk much at all during
the day because of the pain. Joyce picked up a new drug for the soreness
before we arrived, but it had not helped during the time we were there.
Joseph was really tired today as well. PLEASE PRAY FOR THE MOUTH SORES
TO GO AWAY AND FOR HIM TO BE ABLE TO EAT AND DRINK WITHOUT PAIN.

Thank you for your faithful prayers. The Lees send their love and
gratitude.

DeLee

November 5, 2001

When making meals for the Lees, it would be helpful if you follow these
guidelines:


It would probably be best to provide food that can be frozen if necessary
(a freezer has been loaned for their use), so they can use it when they
need it. You can freeze ahead if you need to do that, but it would also
be nice for them to have things ready to heat and serve without thawing.


Please use containers that can be thrown away so the Lees don't have to
worry about returning them.

Label all dishes with contents, cook temperature and time, and any other
information. Please include your name so they know who is sending the
meal.

Groups that are providing meals may want to keep a list of what
individuals are making so the Lees don't get a lot of duplicate dishes
all at once.

I'm sure they would appreciate goodies that are easily transportable and
can be taken with them on hospital trips - cookies would be good.


Ria Tanko, a neighbor of the Lees, has volunteered to receive meals for
them in the afternoons. Her phone number is 770-924-0539. (To get
directions, please call her ONCE and then pass directions on to the rest
of your group).


Thank you for your help.




Subject: Joseph Update - Sunday, 11/4, 9:50 PM

Dear Friends of the Lees,

I talked with Joyce tonight to see how Joseph's weekend has been. He had
a pretty good day yesterday and they visited with some friends last
evening. Today he was very tired and stayed in bed for the morning. He
hasn't felt like eating much - is queasy and light headed. His tongue
and throat are sore and Joseph said things "taste funny;" they are
getting a prescription mouthwash to help with the soreness. Joyce said
he did finish a "Boost" drink, but has only been able to eat a little at
a time.

His next chemo treatment is scheduled for Friday, 11/9, around the same
time his platelet count will be getting low. PLEASE MARK YOUR CALENDAR
FOR SPECIAL PRAYER DURING THAT WEEKEND.

The Lees send their love and gratitude to all the prayer warriors who are
lifting Joseph (and his family) to the LORD. Please continue to "hold up
their arms" in the battle.

In HIM WHO HOLDS US, KEEPS US, AND SUSTAINS US BY HIS GRACE,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Fri., 11/2 8:40 PM

Hi!

Just talked to Joyce a few minutes ago to see how Joseph has been doing
after chemo. She said he has done great since he got home. He went to a
neighbor friend's home to play this afternoon and tonight has gone with
Bob to play putt-putt. PRAISE GOD for this great news!

I also got a definite report on the bone scan; Joyce said the doctor said
everything looked fine! PRAISE GOD AGAIN.

Be praying for days 7-10 after chemo (around Friday or Saturday next
week). Joyce said Joseph will probably have a "down" time then, feeling
very tired because of low platelets.

Thank you for your persistent prayers on Joseph's behalf. GOD IS GOOD,
ALL THE TIME.

DeLee




November 2, 2001 1:50PM
Just thought you'd like to know Joseph was on his way home at 1:15 PM.
Bob said he was sick to his stomach again mid-morning, but they
rehydrated him with IV's around 11:00 AM.

DeLee

November 2, 2001
Friends,

I spoke with Bob about 1/2 an hour ago. Joseph had IV's and lots of
fluids by mouth all day yesterday to get him "super hydrated" to help
"wash" the chemo through the body. They started chemo around 9:00 PM
last night. The chemo treatment itself lasted about 30 minutes. Then he
had additional medications every three hours until 6:00 AM (these
medicines are for protecting other parts of the body from the chemo). He
threw up once during the night and was feeling kind of "yucky" when I
called and doesn't want to eat. But he's ready to go home! They will go
when the hospital give the OK. Maybe this afternoon.

I plan to send at least one more update today. THEN YOU PROBABLY WON'T
RECEIVE ANY UPDATES UNTIL SUNDAY EVENING. I won't be able to send any
more out until then, so don't think I've forgotten you.

KEEP PRAYING.

DeLee


November 2, 10:00AM
Friends,

I spoke with Bob about 1/2 an hour ago. Joseph had IV's and lots of
fluids by mouth all day yesterday to get him "super hydrated" to help
"wash" the chemo through the body. They started chemo around 9:00 PM
last night. The chemo treatment itself lasted about 30 minutes. Then he
had additional medications every three hours until 6:00 AM (these
medicines are for protecting other parts of the body from the chemo). He
threw up once during the night and was feeling kind of "yucky" when I
called and doesn't want to eat. But he's ready to go home! They will go
when the hospital give the OK. Maybe this afternoon.

I plan to send at least one more update today. THEN YOU PROBABLY WON'T
RECEIVE ANY UPDATES UNTIL SUNDAY EVENING. I won't be able to send any
more out until then, so don't think I've forgotten you.

KEEP PRAYING.

DeLee





November 1, 2001 10:00AM
Bob just called with good news - he said that Joseph has "beautiful" bone
marrow!! PRAISE GOD!!!!

Scottish Rite told Bob they are ready for them to come in whenever they
want to begin chemo. The Lees are going to eat some breakfast then head
over there.

CONTINUE TO LIFT JOSEPH BEFORE THE LORD TODAY.

Love,

DeLee




Subject: Joseph Report - 10/30/01 1:30 PM

Dear Praying Brothers and Sisters,

Bob called about half an hour ago to tell me they were on their way home
from the hospital. He said the bone marrow test and port insertion went
well with no problems. The bone scan did occur yesterday and the doctor
said it looked "pretty clear." I'm not sure if that means they don't
have the complete report/results yet.

Bob and Joyce met with the doctor today to talk "numbers" as Bob put it.
The doctor said that when a rhabdomyosarcoma tumor is discovered and no
other invasion of cancer beyond the tumor is found, there is about a
50/50 chance of a cure. If there is cancer in the lymph system, as in
Joseph's case, the chances decrease. Of course, the more places it is
found, the lower the chance of the cure. PRAISE OUR LORD THAT HE IS NOT
A GOD OF PERCENTAGES, BUT DELIGHTS IN DOING THE "IMPOSSIBLE." 0% OR 100%
ARE THE SAME TO HIM. CONTINUE TO ASK HIM FOR HIS CURE.

The Lees expect to be home all day tomorrow (unless the hospital calls
for them to come in), to rest and enjoy each other. PRAY GOD GIVES THEM
A WONDERFUL TIME TOGETHER TODAY AND TOMORROW BEFORE CHEMO BEGINS ON
THURSDAY.

May God bless you as you pray unceasingly for this family.

Love,

DeLee


November 30, 2001

Dear Friends,

Joseph has had kind of a "yucky" day today. He has been sick to his
stomach (though only threw up once) and is resting a lot. He doesn't
feel like drinking as much as he should - please pray that he will feel
like taking in more liquids to help "wash" the chemo through his system.
He began getting his Neupogen injections again yesterday (for boosting
blood counts).

Joyce's "flu-like" syptoms were apparently the onset of a cold. She is
not feeling too badly, but please pray that Joseph won't pick up any
germs that might attack his system.

Bob said Joseph's tumor is getting really small - literally "melting
away." PRAISE GOD! What is left is no longer hard. If things go
according to schedule, Joseph will probably have surgery around the
beginning of February to remove what is left of the tumor and any scar
tissue around it and in the lymph nodes. Then he would probably have a
couple of weeks of radiation followed by the remainder of the chemo
treatments to attack any cancer cells that may be "hiding" in his body.

I know you have been praying about Joseph's hair loss. Here's an update:
Bob said that on Wednesday night he and Joyce heard peals of laughter
coming from upstairs. They started to go up to see what was going on,
but decided it sounded like Joseph and Rachel were having so much fun
that they would let them enjoy their "brother-sister" moment
uninterrupted. A few minutes later Rachel came down the stairs and
announced, "Introducing the NEW Joseph Lee." On cue, Joseph stepped out
to model his new bald head with a few fine, straight, baby-like hair
tufts on top. He had called Rachel into the bathroom to watch him
vigorously brushing his hair while it flew all over the bathroom!!
PRAISE GOD FOR ALLOWING THEM TO SEE HUMOR IN THIS AND FOR EASING THE
TRANSITION TO NO HAIR. Joseph has been sporting his new collection of
baseball caps including ones from the following - FDNY (NYC fire
department), Cobb County Fire Department, and the Secret Service. He is
enjoying adding new caps to his cool collection.

PLEASE PRAY FOR JOSEPH'S RECUPERATION FROM THIS ROUND OF CHEMO AND FOR
HIS BODY TO BE STRENGTHENED AND BLOOD COUNTS TO BUILD BY FRIDAY FOR HIS
NEXT TREATMENT.


In Christ,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph November 25, 2001

Hi DeLee and prayer warriors,

Printed words could not express my gratitude for all who have been going
before
the Lord in prayer for our family. I assure you it is a great source of
comfort
to know that God is with us and He cares very deeply for Joseph. He is
beginning to realize how long this 42 weeks of treatment is.

Joseph had his fourth treatment on Friday November 23rd and stayed at
Scottish
Rite over night. Joyce had flu-like symptoms so she stayed home. When I
brought
Joseph home on Saturday morning he was so exhausted I had to carry him in
to
the house. He perked up when his cousins came over to play.

At this time, please pray for his strength and appetite to increase. The
way he
has handled this time in his life has made me very proud to be his dad.
Pray
for wisdom on my part to help look to God as the source of his strength.

Love,

Bob Lee

P.S.----Chester and Amberly, Joseph asked for the Potters Hand song book.

Please let me know how to get one. Thank you!!!



Subject: Joseph Update - 11/24/01 - 5:15 PM

Hi!

Bob left a message on my machine at 4:45 PM that said Joseph got his
chemo treatment last night and stayed the night. He was a "little sick"
last night, but is doing well today. Though he is tired, Bob said he is
playful and having fun with his cousins. They will be leaving tomorrow.

Joseph will begin his daily shots (to boost blood counts) tomorrow for
about a week.

CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HEALING, FOR MINOR CHEMO SIDE EFFECTS, AND FOR
PROTECTION FROM ILLNESS OR INFECTION.

Thanks for your faithfulness in prayer.


"Not to us, O LORD, not to us but to your name be the glory, because of
your love and faithfulness." Psalm 115:1


DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Friday, 11/23/01, 2:10 PM

Hello, Everyone!

Joseph : ) called us from the hospital this afternoon (12:45 PM) to let
us know that his blood counts have soared up (PRAISE THE LORD!). He was
being hydrated in preparation for his chemo treatment. This is the
"super" dose (three medications at once) that requires him to stay
overnight. PLEASE PRAY THAT THE CHEMO ATTACKS ALL THOSE NASTY CANCER
CELLS AND THAT IT DOESN'T CAUSE SO MANY AWFUL SIDE EFFECTS (LIKE NAUSEA,
MOUTH SORES, FEVER, ETC.)

Joseph said he had a great Thanksgiving with his uncle and cousins
yesterday. They are still here in Atlanta. I'm not sure when they
return home, but keep them in your prayers for safe travel.

I'll keep you updated as I hear from the Lees during this treatment.
Hope you have had a blessed Thanksgiving season.

"My soul finds rest in GOD alone; my salvation comes from him. HE alone
is my rock and my salvation; HE is my fortress, I will never be shaken."
Psalm 62:1&2



Subject: Joseph Update - Thursday, 11/8/01

Friends,

We got to visit with the Lees tonight when we delivered some meals and
other items. Joseph looked great and was full of energy. He told his
mom that he felt "back to normal" today. He truly appreciates all the
cards, notes, and gifts he has received from many of you.

PRAISE THE LORD for HIS provision for the $300-a-day drug. The insurance
company had a delivery service bring the rest of the prescription to the
Lees' home and has agreed to pay for the medication under major medical
(vs. prescriptions). So the Lees will only be responsible for 20% of the
cost, unless (or until) they have met the out-of-pocket maximum, then it
will be covered 100%.

Joseph has his second chemo treatment tomorrow (Friday) AM. PRAY HE
RESPONDS WELL.


Love,

DeLee



Subject: Joseph Update 11/7/01

Dear Friends,

I talked with Joyce yesterday (Tuesday) around 4:00 PM. Sorry I haven't
been able to get the info passed on until now.

Joseph had his first dose of the medication that is given by injection
nightly on Monday. (This is the $300 per dose medicine that is to help
keep his platelet count up so he can avoid having blood transfusions).
He threw up after this injection, so they will be using the anti-nausea
drug with it from now on. PLEASE PRAY JOSEPH DOESN'T GET SICK AFTER THIS
DRUG EACH NIGHT.

Their doctor and medical advocate are working on the insurance company to
convince them that this drug is a medical necessity and they are trying
to get coverage under "medical" since insurance doesn't want to cover it
under "prescriptions." PRAY THAT GOD WILL PROVIDE FOR ALL THEIR
FINANCIAL NEEDS RIGHT NOW.

PRAISE GOD that Joseph's mouth soreness was much better on Tuesday. He
ate some homemade bread, a can of chicken noodle soup, a popcicle, and a
Boost (supplemental nutritional) drink. We got to talk with him on the
phone and he sounded so much better than Monday.

FYI: After Joseph's first chemo treatment the Lees found out that Joseph
is not in the 50% of the study receiving the new drug. He evidently is
in the "control" group that receives the standard chemo treatment. It
also means he won't have the five day hospital stay every three weeks,
just an overnight stay for the "triple drug" treatment every three weeks.
They were told that if the "test" group getting the new drug shows
significant improvement over the control group, they will switch them all
to the new drug.

Joseph is scheduled for his second chemo treatment on Friday, 11/9, in
the morning. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM ON FRIDAY AND DURING THE WEEKEND WHEN
HE MAY START TO FEEL THE EFFECTS OF DROPPED PLATELET COUNT AND MAY ALSO
BEGIN TO LOSE HIS HAIR.

Thank you for your faithful ministry in prayer.

Love,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Monday, 11/5/01

Hello, Everyone!

The kids and I got to see Joseph today when we went to deliver some
meals. He was having a rough day - his mouth, tongue, and throat are
very sore from the chemo. He hadn't eaten or drunk much at all during
the day because of the pain. Joyce picked up a new drug for the soreness
before we arrived, but it had not helped during the time we were there.
Joseph was really tired today as well. PLEASE PRAY FOR THE MOUTH SORES
TO GO AWAY AND FOR HIM TO BE ABLE TO EAT AND DRINK WITHOUT PAIN.

Thank you for your faithful prayers. The Lees send their love and
gratitude.

DeLee

November 5, 2001

When making meals for the Lees, it would be helpful if you follow these
guidelines:


It would probably be best to provide food that can be frozen if necessary
(a freezer has been loaned for their use), so they can use it when they
need it. You can freeze ahead if you need to do that, but it would also
be nice for them to have things ready to heat and serve without thawing.


Please use containers that can be thrown away so the Lees don't have to
worry about returning them.

Label all dishes with contents, cook temperature and time, and any other
information. Please include your name so they know who is sending the
meal.

Groups that are providing meals may want to keep a list of what
individuals are making so the Lees don't get a lot of duplicate dishes
all at once.

I'm sure they would appreciate goodies that are easily transportable and
can be taken with them on hospital trips - cookies would be good.


Ria Tanko, a neighbor of the Lees, has volunteered to receive meals for
them in the afternoons. Her phone number is 770-924-0539. (To get
directions, please call her ONCE and then pass directions on to the rest
of your group).


Thank you for your help.




Subject: Joseph Update - Sunday, 11/4, 9:50 PM

Dear Friends of the Lees,

I talked with Joyce tonight to see how Joseph's weekend has been. He had
a pretty good day yesterday and they visited with some friends last
evening. Today he was very tired and stayed in bed for the morning. He
hasn't felt like eating much - is queasy and light headed. His tongue
and throat are sore and Joseph said things "taste funny;" they are
getting a prescription mouthwash to help with the soreness. Joyce said
he did finish a "Boost" drink, but has only been able to eat a little at
a time.

His next chemo treatment is scheduled for Friday, 11/9, around the same
time his platelet count will be getting low. PLEASE MARK YOUR CALENDAR
FOR SPECIAL PRAYER DURING THAT WEEKEND.

The Lees send their love and gratitude to all the prayer warriors who are
lifting Joseph (and his family) to the LORD. Please continue to "hold up
their arms" in the battle.

In HIM WHO HOLDS US, KEEPS US, AND SUSTAINS US BY HIS GRACE,

DeLee


Subject: Joseph Update - Fri., 11/2 8:40 PM

Hi!

Just talked to Joyce a few minutes ago to see how Joseph has been doing
after chemo. She said he has done great since he got home. He went to a
neighbor friend's home to play this afternoon and tonight has gone with
Bob to play putt-putt. PRAISE GOD for this great news!

I also got a definite report on the bone scan; Joyce said the doctor said
everything looked fine! PRAISE GOD AGAIN.

Be praying for days 7-10 after chemo (around Friday or Saturday next
week). Joyce said Joseph will probably have a "down" time then, feeling
very tired because of low platelets.

Thank you for your persistent prayers on Joseph's behalf. GOD IS GOOD,
ALL THE TIME.

DeLee




November 2, 2001 1:50PM
Just thought you'd like to know Joseph was on his way home at 1:15 PM.
Bob said he was sick to his stomach again mid-morning, but they
rehydrated him with IV's around 11:00 AM.

DeLee

November 2, 2001
Friends,

I spoke with Bob about 1/2 an hour ago. Joseph had IV's and lots of
fluids by mouth all day yesterday to get him "super hydrated" to help
"wash" the chemo through the body. They started chemo around 9:00 PM
last night. The chemo treatment itself lasted about 30 minutes. Then he
had additional medications every three hours until 6:00 AM (these
medicines are for protecting other parts of the body from the chemo). He
threw up once during the night and was feeling kind of "yucky" when I
called and doesn't want to eat. But he's ready to go home! They will go
when the hospital give the OK. Maybe this afternoon.

I plan to send at least one more update today. THEN YOU PROBABLY WON'T
RECEIVE ANY UPDATES UNTIL SUNDAY EVENING. I won't be able to send any
more out until then, so don't think I've forgotten you.

KEEP PRAYING.

DeLee


November 2, 10:00AM
Friends,

I spoke with Bob about 1/2 an hour ago. Joseph had IV's and lots of
fluids by mouth all day yesterday to get him "super hydrated" to help
"wash" the chemo through the body. They started chemo around 9:00 PM
last night. The chemo treatment itself lasted about 30 minutes. Then he
had additional medications every three hours until 6:00 AM (these
medicines are for protecting other parts of the body from the chemo). He
threw up once during the night and was feeling kind of "yucky" when I
called and doesn't want to eat. But he's ready to go home! They will go
when the hospital give the OK. Maybe this afternoon.

I plan to send at least one more update today. THEN YOU PROBABLY WON'T
RECEIVE ANY UPDATES UNTIL SUNDAY EVENING. I won't be able to send any
more out until then, so don't think I've forgotten you.

KEEP PRAYING.

DeLee





November 1, 2001 10:00AM
Bob just called with good news - he said that Joseph has "beautiful" bone
marrow!! PRAISE GOD!!!!

Scottish Rite told Bob they are ready for them to come in whenever they
want to begin chemo. The Lees are going to eat some breakfast then head
over there.

CONTINUE TO LIFT JOSEPH BEFORE THE LORD TODAY.

Love,

DeLee




Subject: Joseph Report - 10/30/01 1:30 PM

Dear Praying Brothers and Sisters,

Bob called about half an hour ago to tell me they were on their way home
from the hospital. He said the bone marrow test and port insertion went
well with no problems. The bone scan did occur yesterday and the doctor
said it looked "pretty clear." I'm not sure if that means they don't
have the complete report/results yet.

Bob and Joyce met with the doctor today to talk "numbers" as Bob put it.
The doctor said that when a rhabdomyosarcoma tumor is discovered and no
other invasion of cancer beyond the tumor is found, there is about a
50/50 chance of a cure. If there is cancer in the lymph system, as in
Joseph's case, the chances decrease. Of course, the more places it is
found, the lower the chance of the cure. PRAISE OUR LORD THAT HE IS NOT
A GOD OF PERCENTAGES, BUT DELIGHTS IN DOING THE "IMPOSSIBLE." 0% OR 100%
ARE THE SAME TO HIM. CONTINUE TO ASK HIM FOR HIS CURE.

The Lees expect to be home all day tomorrow (unless the hospital calls
for them to come in), to rest and enjoy each other. PRAY GOD GIVES THEM
A WONDERFUL TIME TOGETHER TODAY AND TOMORROW BEFORE CHEMO BEGINS ON
THURSDAY.

May God bless you as you pray unceasingly for this family.

Love,

DeLee


October 31, 2001

Friends,

I spoke with Bob this afternoon and he said Joseph continues to have no
problems from the bone marrow test (PRAISE THE LORD!). They will call
the hospital tomorrow after 7:00 AM to find out what time to come in to
begin chemo. The results from the bone marrow test should be back by in
the morning. Joseph will be staying overnight Thursday after this first
treatment.

In HIM,

DeLee


October 30, 2001

Friends,

Just wanted to send you a PRAISE report on Joseph. Bob called to let me
know that Joseph has been experiencing almost no pain from the bone
marrow test. This is highly unusual, in fact a friend whose son has had
it said that he had to be wheeled out of the hospital and could not walk
once he got home. Joseph is walking around the house just fine. Bob
made him take a Tylenol 3 just in case : ).

Bob said that the swelling is greatly reduced and he can see a difference
in the tumor size itself (SMALLER!!!). PRAISE GOD! Joseph's sweetness
is blessing the hospital staff - they are commenting on how sweet,
polite, and cheerful he is. Bob said they have even had giggle sessions
at times that should have been scary and/or serious - Bob and Joseph have
this "tickle" thing that causes Joseph to giggle even if he THINKS his
dad is THINKING about tickling him (like while his arms are tied down to
a board as he is about to go through a bone scan!). Joseph is oozing
with the JOY OF THE LORD!

IN EVERYTHING GIVE THANKS; PRAY WITHOUT CEASING; REJOICE EVERMORE; FOR
THIS IS THE WILL OF GOD IN CHRIST JESUS CONCERNING YOU. I Thess. 5:16

In HIM,

DeLee


October 30, 2001

Dear Praying Brothers and Sisters,

Bob called about half an hour ago to tell me they were on their way home
from the hospital. He said the bone marrow test and port insertion went
well with no problems. The bone scan did occur yesterday and the doctor
said it looked "pretty clear." I'm not sure if that means they don't
have the complete report/results yet.

Bob and Joyce met with the doctor today to talk "numbers" as Bob put it.
The doctor said that when a rhabdomyosarcoma tumor is discovered and no
other invasion of cancer beyond the tumor is found, there is about a
50/50 chance of a cure. If there is cancer in the lymph system, as in
Joseph's case, the chances decrease. Of course, the more places it is
found, the lower the chance of the cure. PRAISE OUR LORD THAT HE IS NOT
A GOD OF PERCENTAGES, BUT DELIGHTS IN DOING THE "IMPOSSIBLE." 0% OR 100%
ARE THE SAME TO HIM. CONTINUE TO ASK HIM FOR HIS CURE.

The Lees expect to be home all day tomorrow (unless the hospital calls
for them to come in), to rest and enjoy each other. PRAY GOD GIVES THEM
A WONDERFUL TIME TOGETHER TODAY AND TOMORROW BEFORE CHEMO BEGINS ON
THURSDAY.

May God bless you as you pray unceasingly for this family.

Love,

DeLee


October 29, 2001

Dear Praying Friends,

I talked with Joyce this afternoon and the schedule has changed. Joseph
will NOT begin chemo Tuesday. Instead he will have a bone marrow test
tomorrow (Tuesday). They will take marrow from his hip to be sure there
is no cancer in the bones before they start treatment. If there is
cancer, it could change the whole treatment procedure. They will still
put the port in tomorrow to get ready for chemo to begin on Thursday.

Joseph is going to be in the study with the new drug. However, only half
the children in the study recieve the drug and patients are not told
whether or not they are the ones getting it.

PRAISE GOD that the swelling in Joseph's arm has gone down significantly.
The doctor said it was due to either the Keflex or ibuprofin; Bob told
the doctor it was due to PRAYER!

HOLD FAST, WARRIORS. THE BATTLE IS THE LORD'S.

Love,

DeLee


October 28, 2001

Prayer Warriors,

Bob called this afternoon to let us know the bone scan is set for
tomorrow, Monday, Oct. 29. They will insert dye at 9:00 AM and begin the
scan around noon. On Tuesday they will insert the port in his chest and
begin chemotherapy. He will stay overnight at Scottish Rite on Tuesday.

I misunderstood some of the information Bob gave me yesterday about the
two choices for treatment. Bear with me as I try to pass on medical
information to you! Here is the revised situation on treatment plans as
I now understand it:

Option 1: Chemotherapy once a week, with one drug being used the first
two weeks and three drugs being used on the third week. The 3rd week
treatment would require an overnight stay. This would continue for 12
weeks.

Option 2: Participation in the study with the new drug that the doctors
feel may have a better effect on Joseph's cancer. Chemo treatment would
be exactly the same as above, except on the 3rd week one of the three
drugs usually used would not be used and the "new drug" would be
substituted. This 3rd week treatment would require a 5 day hospital
stay. This would also be a twelve week treatment.

At the end of the twelve weeks (when the tumor has shrunk and the
spreading slowed) they would discuss surgery, which seems would still
involve amputation (I don't know at what area).

I'm still not clear on why the bone scan had to happen tomorrow to make
Joseph eligible for this study (which, by the way, does not help them
financially - it is not free) since the drug is not used until week
three. But anyway, since the scan IS set for tomorrow, they will now
have the choice of which method of treatment to use. Bob and Joyce meet
with the doctor tomorrow to discuss the two options' pros and cons and to
make a decision. PRAY FOR WISDOM AND A PEACE FROM THE LORD ON WHICH
ROUTE THEY ARE TO TAKE.

Now, for how the Lees are doing. Bob said that today they are "on top of
the world." The Lord is totally covering them with grace. Bob told me
they were encouraging and hugging on the "sad" folks at church this
morning who are hurting for them. He said Joseph is joyful and
encouraging all the folks around him. PRAISE GOD THAT WE CAN "BEAR ONE
ANOTHER'S BURDENS" WITH THE LEES, AND THAT WHILE WE GRIEVE AND HURT FOR
THEM, GOD IS POURING OUT HIS PEACE, GRACE, AND JOY IN THEM. GOD IS SO
GOOD.

Bob also shared that a group of pastors and other men at First Baptist
anointed Joseph with oil and prayed for his healing this morning. The
youth also gathered around Joseph at Sunday School and laid hands on him
to pray for healing. Tonight, one of the pastors (Ken Whaley) who has
been in cancer treatment recently is preaching a sermon entitled, "O,
GOD, it's cancer." A lady sitting behind the Lee's Sunday School
teacher's wife, Debbie, commented to her that she would like to be there
to hear the sermon. She went on to share how she had cancer in her arm
and in the lymph system of the arm as well, even showing her where it had
been cut out. She told Debbie that GOD had healed her and she is now
cancer free. What an sweet word of encouragement for the LORD to share
with them!


Read James 5:13-16 PRAISE GOD FROM WHOM ALL BLESSINGS FLOW

Love,

DeLee




October 27, 2001

Bob called and said they were heading home from Scottish Rite. The
doctor confirmed the cancer is very active and growing a lot. This is a
very rare form of cancer. He gave them a prescription to help with the
swelling in Joseph's arm and they are moving up treatment plans as
quickly as possible. A bone scan was scheduled for Tuesday; they are
trying to get it done on Monday to begin treatment on Tuesday. Also,
Joseph will have a port inserted in his chest to allow access for chemo
or whatever medication is used (so they don't have to do IV's for each
treatment).

Right now they are looking a two possibilities for treatment:

One would be chemotherapy beginning Tuesday with 3 drugs, which would
require an overnight stay. Then he would return in 2 weeks for 1 chemo
drug on an outpatient basis, followed by the same 2 weeks later. Every
third week he would have the 3 drug treatment and stay overnight. This
would last for a 12 week time frame.

The second course of treatment would be with a special experimental study
using new drugs. The doctors feel Joseph would have a better overall
prognosis with this method. He would be in the hospital 5 days, then
home 2 days, continuously for 12 weeks.

However, only one course of treatment can be pursued. Once chemo starts,
he could not do the other method. Which one they pursue depends upon
whether or not a bone scan can be scheduled for Monday. If they are NOT
able to do the scan, then chemo is the only choice. Evidently the
experimental treatment requires very detailed knowledge of where the
cancer has invaded (via the bone scan). If the scan happens on Monday,
they will probably take the route of this experimental treatment.

Both treatments would last 12 weeks and at the end of that time the
doctors would probably do surgery (after the tumor has shrunk as much as
possible and the spreading has slowed). Bob said this surgery would also
be for the area under the arm (lymph glands). I think it would be a
pretty radical amputation. After that, long term chemo would take place.

Joseph is not experiencing a lot of pain right now. In fact, the family
was hoping to go to a festival at First Baptist together this afternoon
just to enjoy each other and have a fun time.

Joyce and Bob still have an appointment Monday to talk with the doctor
while Joseph is undergoing some of the procedures planned for that day.

PLEASE PRAY FOR JOSEPH'S COMPLETE HEALING. PRAY FOR WISDOM FOR THE LEES
IF THEY ARE TO PURSUE ONE OF THESE TREATMENT PLANS. PRAY THE LORD WOULD
BE CLEAR ON HOW TO PROCEED - RIGHT NOW IT APPEARS THAT THE BONE SCAN IS
THE DETERMINING FACTOR IN WHICH WAY TO GO UNLESS THE LORD GIVES A CLEAR
"NO" TO BOTH OPTIONS IN SOME WAY.

Stand firm, warriors.

Gratefully,

DeLee


October 27, 2001

I am forwarding this message from Bob Lee to all those who have been
lifting the family in prayer.

DeLee

--------- Forwarded message ----------
Date: Sat, 27 Oct 2001 17:06:35 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Fwd: He's My Son



Dear prayer warriors,

I want to express my deep gratitude to everyone for the prayers that have
been
going up before the Lord on Joseph's behalf. He knows he is loved by God
because he has been surrounded all his life by a great cloud of witnesses
at
church, at CHAT, and in some of your homes. Joyce, Rachel, Joseph and I
do
feel "held up" by your prayers.

Many have asked how they could pray for me as a dad. Here it is:

I heard this song on a Christian radio station several months ago while
driving
to an appointment with a client. I had to pull off to the side of the
road and
weep because it touched my heart in a special way that I could not
understand
until now. This song is my prayer as I trust God to a wonderful work in
Joseph's life as he heals him. It is a song that calls out to the One Who
made
Joseph. Its words challenge us to place our trust in God in real way. In
all
his trials that are ahead of him, Joseph has an advantage. The Lord,
Jesus
Christ, resides in his heart. He has a peace that comes from the Lord. If
you
would like to know the source of his strength, just ask him.

Love,

Bobby


He's My Son, by Mark Schultz

I'm down on my knees again tonight. I'm hoping this prayer will turn out
right.

See there is a boy that needs your help. I've done all that I can do
myself.
His mother is tired, I'm sure you can understand. Each night as he sleeps
she
goes in to hold his hand. And she tries not to cry as the tears fill her
eyes....

(Chorus)
Can You hear me? Am I getting through tonight? Can You see him? Can You
make
him feel alright? If You can hear me, let me take his place somehow. See
he's
not just anyone. He's my son...

Sometimes late at night I watch him sleep. I dream of the boy he'd like
to be.
I try to be strong and see him through. But, God, who he needs now is
You. Let
him grow old, live life without this fear. What would I be living without
him
here. He's so tired.....and he's scared. Let him know that You're
there...

Can You hear me? Am I getting through tonight? Can You see him? Can You
make
him feel alright? If You can hear me, let me take his place somehow. See
he's
not just anyone. He's my son...

Can You hear me? Can You see him? Please don't leave him. He's my son.



----- End forwarded message -----


October 26, 2001

Dear Ones,

I spoke to Judi Thomas this evening after she had talked to Joyce. They
have found cancer in the lymph glands. Joseph is not yet aware of this.
There will not be any further tests this weekend, but they plan to do the
bone scan on Tuesday and begin chemo on Wednesday. The doctors have
asked Joyce and Bob to come in Monday morning without the children to
discuss the situation.

As far as meals, they are taken care of at least through next Wednesday.
I've been talking with contacts for many of the groups who want to assist
and will keep up updated on needs. I don't yet know anything about the
account to help will medical expenses.

I have received a few replies about fasting and praying. If you want to
be included in this in any way or for any length of time (ie., fasting
for one meal or one day, prayer throughout a day, or intensive prayer for
a specified length of time during the day - 1 hour, 1/2 hour, etc.)
please let me know for what period you are willing to commit and if you
have a particular day/date that would be best. I would like to begin
this right away and will be contacting those who want to do this as soon
as possible.

PRAY WITHOUT CEASING . . . remember Joseph and his family often each day.
Pray for the Lord's complete healing of Joseph's body.

"With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."
Matt. 19:26.

"O Lord my God, I called to you for help and you healed me. O Lord, you
brought me up from the grave; you spared me from going down into the
pit." Ps. 30:2&3

"Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so
that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and
effective." James 5:16


In Him,

DeLee


October 25, 2001

Dear Friends,

I talked with Bob tonight. Joseph had a CAT scan on his lungs today.
Tomorrow he is having an EKG to check an irregular heartbeat. They are
hoping for the pathology report to come tomorrow to confirm the type of
cancer so a treatment plan can be established. Bob thinks they will be
doing a bone scan next Wednesday during the time Joseph will be at
Scottish Rite for several days. He is to have four or five different
scans to check growths anywhere else in his body.

Bob and I talked about meals, financial help, and other ways we can
support them right now. I got names and numbers for "contacts" in other
groups (home school, church , etc.) in which they are involved so the
different groups can coordinate help. Right now Heritage Home School
Group is working on meals as well as having folks sign up for days to
fast and pray for the Lees. I would love for us to have a "fasting and
prayer" list as well. Let me know if you want to set aside a day to lift
up the Lees in this way.

The Lees are to get back in touch with me about a fund to which we can
contribute; they have been discussing this with some folks. I'll let you
know when we are needed for meals or house cleaning or anything else.

Bob and Joyce are so thankful for your prayers, phone messages, and
cards. They say they can truly feel the Lord wrapping His arms around
them. They have received about 250 calls the last couple of days. They
aren't able to return calls to many (mainly their "contacts" for
different groups), but are so encouraged by the words of love being sent
to them.

Stay on your knees.

DeLee



October 22, 2001

Dear Friends,

Joyce called me after the biopsy today. They have not yet received the
pathology report, but the doctor feels very certain that the tumor is
cancerous. They did not remove the tumor, but just took a sample for the
report. The Lees have already scheduled an appointment with an
oncologist for Wednesday; the doctor feels they need to begin treatment
right away due to the fast-growing nature of this tumor. At this point,
the doctor indicated they would not remove the tumor, but treat it with
"medication" (chemo?). Joyce is to let me know when they receive the
pathology results.

Please pray for Joseph and his family. Joyce was very calm and
unemotional when I talked with her; she is really in a state of shock at
the moment. They were not prepared for cancer; the doctors had indicated
they expected it to be benign at previous visits. The family is very
grateful for your prayers on their behalf.

I'll keep you updated.

With love,

DeLee

P.S. I know for some of you this is the first you have heard of the
situation. This growth on Joseph's arm just came up a couple of weeks
ago (on the forearm muscle). I wanted to be sure all the friends who
know and love the Lees are praying for them, so I have sent this to folks
beyond the regular Maranatha Home School Group e-mail list.



Thursday, October 25, 2001

Dear Friends,

I talked with Bob tonight. Joseph had a CAT scan on his lungs today.
Tomorrow he is having an EKG to check an irregular heartbeat. They are
hoping for the pathology report to come tomorrow to confirm the type of
cancer so a treatment plan can be established. Bob thinks they will be
doing a bone scan next Wednesday during the time Joseph will be at
Scottish Rite for several days. He is to have four or five different
scans to check growths anywhere else in his body.

Bob and I talked about meals, financial help, and other ways we can
support them right now. I got names and numbers for "contacts" in other
groups (home school, church , etc.) in which they are involved so the
different groups can coordinate help. Right now Heritage Home School
Group is working on meals as well as having folks sign up for days to
fast and pray for the Lees. I would love for us to have a "fasting and
prayer" list as well. Let me know if you want to set aside a day to lift
up the Lees in this way.

The Lees are to get back in touch with me about a fund to which we can
contribute; they have been discussing this with some folks. I'll let you
know when we are needed for meals or house cleaning or anything else.

Bob and Joyce are so thankful for your prayers, phone messages, and
cards. They say they can truly feel the Lord wrapping His arms around
them. They have received about 250 calls the last couple of days. They
aren't able to return calls to many (mainly their "contacts" for
different groups), but are so encouraged by the words of love being sent
to them.

Stay on your knees.

DeLee


Wednesday, October 24, 2001

Dear Friends,

Many have asked the name of the type of cancer Joseph has and I have just
learned it this afternoon. It is called rhabdomyosarcoma. "Rhab" means
rod shaped and "myo" refers to the muscle (on which the cancer growth
began). It is very rare, affecting only about 100 children per year.

DeLee


Wednesday, October 24, 2001

Dear Friends,

While I was at church tonight, Joyce called an talked with Charles. The
meeting with the oncologists today lasted 3 1/2 hours. The cancer is a
very aggressive type. It could be one of two different types of cancer;
they are still waiting on the pathology reports. Chemotherapy treatment
will be required. Joseph will lose his hair and eyebrows. He saw
children who are being treated at the hospital today and he cried.

Joseph will have 4-5 scans coming up to look closely for evidence of
cancer in other parts of his body. His first CT (CAT) scan is tomorrow.
He will be at Scottish Rite for 2-5 days next week for further tests.

If the scans do not reveal any other cancer growth, they may amputate his
arm. The choice could be between amputation with a 90% chance that
cancer won't return (given no other cancer is detected now) or no
amputation, but "life-threatening" possibilities. It is possible the
cancer has already spread. Joseph is experiencing some soreness under
his arm - please pray the cancer has not gone into the lymph nodes.

Joyce said they are receiving much support. She had 50 calls today.
Neighbors have called to offer help and support, including many
non-Christians. Pray for the Lee's impact on others for God's glory.

Bob has been working a part-time job lately to help with medical expenses
still hanging over them from Joyce's accident several years ago. The
responsible party has refused to pay and they have been involved in a
long court battle. Bob was advised by someone at the hospital today to
give up the part-time job because he is needed with his family right now.
They said the job won't make a dent in these new bills and were told to
expect the first bill they receive to exceed $100,000.00. A social
worker is supposed to be putting pressure on their insurance company to
pay bills. I don't know what kind of coverage they have, but they have
had problems with the insurance company with simple things like paying
for a pediatric surgeon for Joseph (there was not an approved ped. sur.
on the plan). Anyway, it sounds like the bills will be incredible and
that they are dealing with a not-so-wonderful insurance company. Please
pray for favor with the insurance company and for this social worker who
will be involved.

Charles asked Joyce how we can help. She said #1 is prayer. Second, she
said they would be happy to get meals. I will call her tomorrow to see
how that will best be worked out (I think one person organizing meals is
probably best; also determining the manner of delivery - whether to their
home or a neighbor, and how often they need to get them - if they have
freezer space, etc.) I'll keep you updated on what is decided.

I also plan to talk to Joyce about setting up an account with a bank for
help with medical expenses. We can talk about how our group can be
involved in raising money to assist them in this area.

I know the Lee's are overwhelmed with phone calls right now, but I am
sure cards and notes of encouragement would mean a lot to them. I think
Joseph would be encouraged to hear from kids, too.


THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS. LET US SHARE IN BEARING THE LEE'S BURDEN.

Love,

DeLee





Thursday, October 18, 2001

Dear Friends,

Joyce called me after the biopsy today. They have not yet received the
pathology report, but the doctor feels very certain that the tumor is
cancerous. They did not remove the tumor, but just took a sample for the
report. The Lees have already scheduled an appointment with an
oncologist for Wednesday; the doctor feels they need to begin treatment
right away due to the fast-growing nature of this tumor. At this point,
the doctor indicated they would not remove the tumor, but treat it with
"medication" (chemo?). Joyce is to let me know when they receive the
pathology results.

Please pray for Joseph and his family. Joyce was very calm and
unemotional when I talked with her; she is really in a state of shock at
the moment. They were not prepared for cancer; the doctors had indicated
they expected it to be benign at previous visits. The family is very
grateful for your prayers on their behalf.

I'll keep you updated.

With love,

DeLee

P.S. I know for some of you this is the first you have heard of the
situation. This growth on Joseph's arm just came up a couple of weeks
ago (on the forearm muscle). I wanted to be sure all the friends who
know and love the Lees are praying for them, so I have sent this to folks
beyond the regular Maranatha Home School Group e-mail list.


Thursday, November 1, 2001 at 10:16 AM (CDT)

Joseph's first Chemo treatment.


Sunday, April 14, 2002 at 09:53 AM (CDT)

For those who fight for it, life has a flavor the sheltered will never know.


Sunday, April 14, 2002 at 09:21 AM (CDT)

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