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The Rittens were so very sorry to hear about their good friend, George Earl's death. For decades we enjoyed many evenings in their company and Peter loved matching wits with George over the cribbage board. Our whole family remembers the great 4th of July ever at the Earls home in White Bear Lake. Thanks for the memories. Our prayers and sympathy go out to all the girls.
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Minneapolis, MN USA - Sunday, November 15, 2015 8:58 AM CST
Merry Christmas To All!
Dear Heather and Donnie,
Jacob was remembered at Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve and on Christmas morning. I hope this note finds you and all of your family well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O God, you make us glad by the yearly festival of the birth of your only Son Jesus Christ: Grant that we, who joyfully receive him as our Redeemer, may with sure confidence behold him when he comes to be our Judge; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 25, 2013 8:02 PM CST
SO rich are our life with blessing and sure the truth in our side with the HOly Spirit and alot wisdom in meditate and eating the word in joyful pleasure for love in God,thanks and bless an dpray,keijo sweden
keijo leppioja <k.leppioja@hotmail.com>
södertälje, FLORIDA Sverige - Sunday, July 14, 2013 11:40 AM CDT
Message for Jon B Kennedy from you "NAN" I love you and I am so happy that God saved you from our prayers for you. Hurry home your room is waiting for you. I LOVE YOU MUCH MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I AM SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW I COULD SHOUT AND YOU COULD PROBABLY HEAR ME IN YOUR ROOM. WILL KEEP IN TOUCH WITH YOU. this is Sheila and I love you too and your smile is just beautiful. I hope you continue to get better and no flirting with the nurses, you have your girlfriend and nurse here in wise.
sheila Pippin Aker <akersheila@yahoo.com>
wise, Va. USA - Friday, July 12, 2013 1:57 PM CDT
Easter Blessings To All!
Dear Heather,
Jacob was remembered at St. George's both at the Great Vigil of Easter and at an Easter service this morning. Jacob is often in my thoughts when I am in the beauty of holiness. Cardinals always make me think of him and children dancing do as well.
I hope you are having a happy day as a family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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An Easter Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 31, 2013 1:22 PM CDT
Remembering Jacob as this cardinal chirps from a tree and my friend kicks off the first Light the Night in Dothan, Alabama. So hard to believe so much time has passed. I followed Jacob's journey and will never forget him. God bless you.
Denise Cape
Enterprise, Al Usa - Thursday, October 4, 2012 6:42 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
Kathy, from Green Bay, sent me a link to the memorial video of Jacob that you posted on your social networking page. I have viewed it three times, and I have its link saved in my favorites. Jacob was such a handsome little boy. I will not forget him.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 14, 2012 8:29 PM CDT
I am thinking of you and remembering Jacob today.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 12, 2012 11:00 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
It does not seem possible that we are approaching Jacob's sixth anniversary in heaven. I want you and Donnie to know that I continue to think of Jacob and that I always remember Jacob beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window at St. George's.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for both of you and for all of Jacob's loved ones. Like a previous writer, I would love to see an updated picture of your lovely family.
On Good Friday, my son, Andrew, and daughter-in-law, Kristen, gave me a healthy grandson. We are looking forward to young Tavin's baptism.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your charming son, Jacob Thomas Duckworth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
I received the prayer below in my email today. The prayer is from the Colettines, but my source says that prayers are offered on the first Wednesday of every month, at the National Shrine of St. Jude, in Chicago, for those touched by cancer and for cures. I will try to remember this practice and pray on July 4, August 1, September 5, and the other first Wednesdays to follow.
God of healing mercy, in Jesus your Son you stretch out your hand in compassion, restoring the sinner, healing the sick, and lifting up those bowed down. Embrace us now in your loving care, particularly those afflicted with cancer, for whom this intention is offered. May the Spirit of Jesus bring us all health in soul and body, that with joy and thanksgiving we may praise you for your goodness, through the same Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 6, 2012 9:33 PM CDT
I would love to see an updated picture of your family. I followed you all for so long during Jacob's battle with cancer and felt like I knew you all. I think of you often and pray you are all doing well.
Tammy Hulsey <tammy42@netzero.net>
Gainesville, GA USA - Thursday, May 24, 2012 5:59 AM CDT
Blessings To Jacob's Loved Ones On The Feast Of St. Joseph!
May you be full of happy expectation as we approach Easter.
God bless you always.
Grace and peace,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, N Y U.S.A. - Monday, March 19, 2012 11:37 AM CDT
Merry Christmas To All Of Jacob's Friends And Family!
I still remember Jacob beneath The Jesus and the Children stained glass window, at St. George's.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and joy,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 25, 2011 1:16 AM CST
Long time friend of Glenn & Martha Duphorne
Harold Humphries <3hillel@gmail.com>
Lubbock, TX U. S. - Friday, November 4, 2011 7:09 PM CDT
Jacob continues to do well, one more year of maintenance chemo and if all is well, treatment will cease
Ray (pappy) Kauffman <arkauffman@verizon.net>
Altoona, Pa USA - Tuesday, October 18, 2011 10:47 PM CDT
I am thinking of your entire family today. Jacob will forever be in my heart, even though I do not write here often, I do think of your beautiful Jacob and your family!
God Bless,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. USA - Sunday, June 12, 2011 5:54 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Heather,
As we don our red garments to show our connection to the Holy Spirit, we remember those, including amazing Jacob, who have finished their earthly work. Their example burns brightly before us.
God bless you always,
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Pentecost:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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I am thinking of you, Donnie, and all of your family as you mark Jacob's anniversary today.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 12, 2011 7:37 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
As I looked out my window this morning, I saw a young male cardinal. As I watched him and thought of Jacob, he began to sing. I took this as a sign and blessing for my Andrew, who was married this weekend.
God bless you, and God bless all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 5, 2011 7:12 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
God bless you and all mothers on Mothering Sunday. This celebration started in Europe years ago. On Mid-Lent Sunday, the apprentices were sent home to spend some time with their mothers. The master's wife would prepare a Simnel Cake for each lad to take to his mother. Those boys too far away to go home would visit their local cathedral, The Mother Church of the region, to pray for their mothers. Twice a year, this day and the third Sunday in Lent, the clergy wear rose vestments. Yesterday, a beautiful rose stole and chasuble were blessed, at St. George's, for this purpose. It brought joy to many hearts. May reading this gladden your heart, and may thoughts of your dear Jacob be sweet.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 3, 2011 10:49 AM CDT
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Heather,
May this new year of 2011 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your handsome son, Jacob Thomas Duckworth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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New Year's Prayer
Oh Thou, who art ever the same,
Grant us so to pass through
the new year with faithful hearts,
that we may be able in all things
to please Thy loving eyes. Amen.
~Mozarabic, 700 A.D.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 1, 2011 5:28 PM CST
Dear Heather,
I have been thinking of Jacob, while at church, during Advent and now during Christmas. He and other CaringBridge children were in my thoughts as I gazed at The Jesus and the Children stained glass window this past Sunday.
God bless Jacob's sweet spirit, and God bless all of you.
Today we have marked The Feast of St. Stephen the martyr. Below is the collect and one of the songs often used on this day. I could not find a midi link for the tune, but perhaps you know it. If so, please sing it with me. If not, please read the words.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For St. Stephen's Day:
We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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When Stephen, full of power and grace,
Went forth throughout the land,
He bore no shield before his face,
No weapon in his hand;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a sword
Wherewith he smote and overcame
The foemen of the Lord.
When Stephen preached against the laws
And by those laws was tried,
He had no friend to plead his cause,
No spokesman at his side;
But only in his heart a flame
And in his eyes a light
Wherewith God's daybreak to proclaim
And rend the veils of night.
When Stephen, young and doomed to die,
Fell crushed beneath the stones,
He had no curse nor vengeful cry
For those who broke his bones;
But only in his heart a flame
And on his lips a prayer
That God, in sweet forgiveness' name
Should understand and spare.
Let me, O Lord, thy cause defend,
A knight without a sword;
No shield I ask, no faithful friend,
No vengeance, no reward;
But only in my heart a flame
And in my soul a dream,
So that the stones of earthly shame
A jewelled crown may seem.
Lyrics: Jan Struther (1901-1953)
Music: Salvation, melody from Kentucky Harmony, 1816
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 27, 2010 9:29 PM CST
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL!
Dear Heather,
Jacob was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Christmas Eve. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson
Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 25, 2010 1:28 AM CST
Merry Christmas Duckworth family!
I still think of Jacob so many times, he's a perfect angel.
Ana Sofia Silva
- Friday, December 24, 2010 12:17 AM CST
Merry Christmas Duckworth family!
I still think of Jacob so many times, he's a perfect angel.
Ana Sofia Silva
- Friday, December 24, 2010 12:17 AM CST
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vicki woodall <VWOOD41@YAHOO.COM>
canton, GA USA - Saturday, December 11, 2010 1:11 AM CST
Blessings To All On All Saint's Sunday!
Dear Heather,
Jacob was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning. Both were services honoring all of God's Saints. When you have time, perhaps you can sing one of the hymns we used. I will place it beneath my signature.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!
O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain
Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain
O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain
Words: John Athelstan Laurie Riley (1858-1945), 1906
Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 7, 2010 11:51 PM CST
Dear Heather,
We had an Order of St. Luke Healing Mission, at St. George's, this weekend. While I was there, I remembered Jacob in Holy Eucharist.
I hope you are all doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
From The Prayer Card Of The Mission:
In the name of God
and trusting in His might alone,
receive Christ's healing touch
to make you whole.
May Christ bring you wholeness
of body, mind, and spirit,
deliver you from every evil,
and give you His peace.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 16, 2010 11:40 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
May God bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01, and may God bless your delightful son, Jacob, and all others who lost their lives to Rhabdomyosarcoma.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mychal's Prayer:
Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.
~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001. At one time, Father Mychal served at Siena College, here in upstate New York.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 11, 2010 2:03 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of The Transfiguration!
Dear Heather,
In listening and working with stories this week, I have often thought of your sweet Jacob and other CaringBridge children. I continue to remember your son beneath The Jesus and the Children stained glass windown. May happy thoughts of your dear one be with you on this Major Holy Day.
I hope you and your family are all well and enjoying these marvelous summer days.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
An Appropriate Hymn:
Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!
Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!
Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!
This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!
Lyrics: Brian Wren (b. 1936)
Music: Mowsley, Cyril V. Taylor (b. 1907)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 6, 2010 12:46 AM CDT
Happy Fourth Of July To All!
Dear Heather,
While at church, I remembered Amazing Jacob as I always do. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless all of you.
Below is the collect for Independence Day and some patriotic quotations I have seen in recent days. Please pray the prayer with me and think of the founders of our country and of the brave men and women serving in the military today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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The Collect For Independence Day:
Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
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A Few Patriotic Quotes:
Those who won our independence believed liberty to be the secret of happiness and courage to be the secret of liberty.
~Louis D. Brandeis
What we need are critical lovers of America - patriots who express their faith in their country by working to improve it.
~Hubert H. Humphrey
When an American says that he loves his country, he means not only that he loves the New England hills, the prairies glistening in the sun, the wide and rising plains, the great mountains, and the sea. He means that he loves an inner air, an inner light in which freedom lives and in which a man can draw the breath of self-respect.
~Adlai Stevenson
This country will not be a good place for any of us to live in unless we make it a good place for all of us to live in.
~Theodore Roosevelt
My God! How little do my countrymen know what precious blessings they are in possession of, and which no other people on earth enjoy!
~Thomas Jefferson
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 4, 2010 5:21 PM CDT
Jacob showed me how important every second on Earth is. Although I never met him I will always remember him. Jacob is an angel and I am proud to know his motiovational story.
Ana Sofia Silva
Portugal - Friday, July 2, 2010 12:21 AM CDT
Praying and thinking about Jacob's family!
Connected forever through your amazing son Jacob, and In Christ,
Janis Goehner <JanisGoehner@Hotmail.com>
Lakeville, MN 55044 - Sunday, June 13, 2010 1:38 AM CDT
Ancient Egyptians believed that upon death they would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife. The first question was, “Did you bring joy?” The second was, “Did you find joy?”
~Leo Buscaglia
Dear Heather,
Jacob lived joy and loved God. I know that all is well with him, but I also know you miss him very much.
My thoughts and prayers are with you today.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and, in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 504
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 12, 2010 10:55 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
It does not seem possible that we are approaching Jacob's fourth anniversary in heaven. I want you and Donnie to know that I continue to think of Jacob and that I always remember Jacob beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window at St. George's.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard to pray for both of you and for all of Jacob's siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jacob Thomas Duckworth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 10, 2010 11:46 PM CDT
To Jacob's family,
I can't find the words to describe my deep sorrow for your loss. I stumbled onto your website about Jacob while searching for scripture about "when we are weak, He is strong". I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My son is 4 years old now and I love him and my 22 month old baby girl with all my heart. I would be crushed if something had to happen to them. I can only imagine the pain you must have gone through. I wish you only the best.
Kind regards,
Anton Brink
Anton Brink <anton@pspg.co.za>
Cape Town, WP South Africa - Sunday, June 6, 2010 3:24 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I would like to tell you that I miss being able to read your family blog, view your new family pictures, and sign Jacob's guest book on a regular basis. I do remember Jacob in Holy Eucharist whenever I am at St. George's.
Today's saint, Justin Martyr, reminds me of the value of names and the fun of naming, as my older son chose the name, "Justin," as his Confirmation name. I feel honored to know the complete names of all five of your children and a little bit about how their names were selected.
In the church, the name, "Justin," is associated with courage and character. These are both traits that your Amazing Jacob had in great abundance. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Below is the collect of the day.
God bless you always, and God bless Jacob and all of his siblings.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Justin Martyr, Philosopher, Apologist, And Martyr, 1 June 167:
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 1, 2010 10:45 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All!
Dear Heather and Family,
I am sorry I was unable to get here on Thursday to remark about the triplets becoming ten years old. My, oh my, where does all the time go! I hope it was a happy day for Jacob in heaven and for Brandon and Devin here on earth.
I am thinking about you, and of sweet Jacob, on this day, when we remember those who have died in service to our country, and when many of us also decorate the graves of our family members. I did remember Jacob at church this weekend, as I often do.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayers For Use At Memorial Day:
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 31, 2010 4:56 PM CDT
prayers and love to Donna Carter of Stroud, Ok
from Jackie Weaver RN at Bristow Medical Center
Jackie Weaver <JACKIEWEAVERRN@yahoo.com>
Bristow , Ok U.S.A. - Friday, May 28, 2010 5:30 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Angel Jacob! Thinking of you always!
Smile :)
Laura W. Kennedy
- Thursday, May 27, 2010 3:39 PM CDT
Blessings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost!
Dear Heather,
Jacob was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Pentecost has always been one of our favorite holy days, as we love the red colored clothing that many people wear and the red altar clothes. It is also a festival not generally spoiled by commercialism, although a very young Andrew once suggested marketing "Pentecost Pizza."
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Jacob Thomas Duckworth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
The Collect:
O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Hail this joyful day's return,
hail the Pentecostal morn,
morn when our ascended Lord
on his Church his Spirit poured! Alleluia!
Like to clove tongues of flame
on the twelve the Spirit came--
tongues, that earth may hear their call,
fire, that love may burn in all. Alleluia!
Lord, to you your people bend;
unto us your Spirit send;
blessings of this sacred day
grant us, dearest Lord, we pray. Alleluia!
You who did our forebears guide,
with their children still abide;
grant us pardon, grant us peace,
till our earthly wanderings cease. Alleluia!
Words: Attributed to Hilary of Poitiers (fourth century);
trans. Robert Campbell (1814-1868), alt.
Music: Sonne der Gerechtigkeit, Beata nobis gaudia
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h036.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 23, 2010 5:13 PM CDT
prayers are with your family!
carolyn lindo <carolynlindo@hotmail.com>
ball, la - Saturday, May 22, 2010 6:03 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day To All!
Dear Heather,
I thought of you and of Jacob at Eucharist yesterday and today. You are indeed a special mother, and I know that Jacob was, and is, blessed in having you as his mom.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Few Quotes On Motherhood:
The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness.
~Honore' de Balzac (1799-1850)
A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.
~Washington Irving (1783-1859)
My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.
~George Washington (1732-1799)
Motherhood from the outset demands the total gift of self.
~Author Unknown
If I am Thy child, O God, it is because Thou gavest me such a mother.
~St. Augustine (354-430) speaking of his mother, St. Monnica whose feast day is May 4.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 9, 2010 3:03 PM CDT
Dear Robin!
Weare all thinking of you and praying for you....
God Bless and let us know how you are.....
Your Cousin.
Dana Guyton Thornton
Dana Rhea Thornton <drtblessed@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 22, 2010 12:17 AM CDT
Blessings On Easter Morning!
"Welcome, happy morning!"
age to age shall say:
hell today is vanquished,
heaven is won today!
Lo! the dead is living,
God for evermore!
Him their true Creator,
all his works adore!
Refrain:
"Welcome, happy morning!" age to age shall say.
Earth her joy confesses,
clothing her for spring,
all fresh gifts return
with her returning King:
bloom in every meadow,
leaves on every bough,
speak his sorrow ended,
hail his triumph now.
Months in due succession,
days of lengthening light,
hours and passing moments
praise thee in their flight.
Brightness of the morning,
sky and fields and sea,
Vanquisher of darkness,
bring their praise to thee.
Maker and Redeemer,
life and health of all,
thou from heaven beholding
human nature's fall,
of the Father's Godhead
true and only Son,
mankind to deliver,
manhood didst put on.
Thou, of life the Author,
death didst undergo,
tread the path of darkness,
saving strength to show;
come then, true and faithful,
now fulfill thy word,
'tis thine own third morning!
rise, O buried Lord!
Loose the souls long prisoned,
bound with Satan's chain;
all that now is fallen
raise to life again;
show thy face in brightness,
bid the nations see;
bring again our daylight:
day returns with thee!
Words: Fortunatus, (ca. 535-600);
trans. John Ellerton (1826-1893), 1868
Music: Fortunatus (Arthur Seymour Sullivan, 1872)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/w/w189.html
Sweet Jacob will be remembered in Easter Eucharist.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 4, 2010 1:26 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am sorry I have not been able to return to this book earlier, but I have been thinking of you and of Jacob often during this Holy Week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Good Friday:
Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 2, 2010 10:20 PM CDT
Palm Sunday Greetings To All!
Dear Heather,
Today, in my mind's eye, I have seen my son, as a toddler, sitting on cathedral steps next to piles of Palms to be distributed to the worshippers. This reminded me of taking him, as an elementary school boy, to greenhouses on Palm Sunday afternoons to view the displays and to have a cup of punch. I am sure you have many memories of Jacob and his sibs on this day. May they bring you peace and comfort this week.
Jacob was remembered in Eucharist on both Saturday and Sunday. He will be in my prayers often during Holy Week.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless all of your large family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion:
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 28, 2010 6:16 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
This morning, I saw my first cardinal of spring. Of course I thought of Jacob as I watched him. May you spot many cardinals and frogs during these days of increasing light.
I will remember Jacob during the upcoming Holy Week services, and I will be praying for all of your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 23, 2010 8:46 AM CDT
God's Blessings To All On The First Day Of Spring!
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you with encouragement and love as we bid good-bye to a long winter and welcome in the spring. I hope you are feeling well and encouraged today. Having daylight until about 7:30 each night has made me think of all of those nights, a few years ago, when we rushed out to the Little League fields. I am sure you have similar happy memories of spring nights with Jacob as he did spring activities. May those memories be sweet and full of hope for the future in God's eternal kingdom.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your amazing boy, Jacob Thomas Duckworth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
March 20
Vernal Equinox
Everywhere is the green of new growth,
The amazing sight of the renewal of the earth.
We watch the grass once again emerging from the ground.
We notice the bright green atop the dark green on the pines,
the fir, the hemlock, the spruce, the cedar.
The alder is already in leaf.
The old plum trees still blossom, leaf, and give forth fruit.
The locust is late as always.
Everywhere and always the song of birds...bees
raiding the orchard, raccoon prowling at
nightfall, the earthworm tunneling the garden,
chickens and rabbits pecking and nibbling, the
goats tugging to reach new delights...all are the
ubiquitous energies of life.
O Lord,
May we today be touched by grace, fascinated and
moved by this your creation, energized by the
power of new growth at work in your world.
May we move beyond viewing this life only through a
frame, but
touch it and be touched by it,
know it and be known by it,
love it and be loved by it.
May our bodies, our minds, and our spirits, learn a new
rhythm paced by the rhythmic pulse of the
whole created order.
May spring come to us, be in us, and recreate life in us.
May we forge a new friendship with the natural
world and discover a new affinity with beauty,
with life, and with the Cosmic Christ in whom
all things were created in heaven and on earth,
visible or invisible, whether thrones or
dominions or principalities or authorities...for
all things were created through him and for him.
In his name.
Amen.
~Chinook Psalter
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 20, 2010 12:20 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Following a long line of greeting mothers on Mid-Lent Sunday (Mothering Sunday), I salute you today. Perhaps you will have a taste of Simnel Cake or Mothering Sunday Buns. May thoughts of your awesome boy, Jacob, be sweet today.
I am pausing to pray for you, as I did earlier at Eucharist. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 14, 2010 10:39 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I continue to remember Jacob and many other special CaringBridge children. I hope all is well with you and your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Saturday In The Third Week Of Lent:
O God, you know us to be set in the midst of so many and great dangers, that by reason of the frailty of our nature we cannot always stand upright: Grant us such strength and protection as may support us in all dangers, and carry us through all temptations; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 13, 2010 2:42 AM CST
This is a great tool and so grateful for it!
becky ramirez
round rock, tx usa - Friday, March 12, 2010 10:57 PM CST
Dear Heather,
As you know, I seldom miss Eucharist on a major holy day, but I did today, due to about twelve inches of heavy, wet, new snow. Even so, I thought of your sweet little guy. May God bless Jacob Thomas Duckworth and all of the company of heaven.
I hope you are safe and well.
God bless you, Donnie, and all the family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be guided and governed by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 24, 2010 9:20 PM CST
Blessed Lent To All!
Dear Heather,
I have thought of you and sweet Jacob several times today. I hope all is well with you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We sang this hymn at St. George's tonight. It is my favorite Lenten hymn. Perhaps you can sing it with me some time this week.
Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.
As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.
As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.
And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.
Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!
Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian, Melody From Day's Psalter, 1562
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
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The Collect For Ash Wednesday:
Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing you have made and forgive the sins of all who are penitent: Create and make in us new and contrite hearts, that we, worthily lamenting our sins and acknowledging our wretchedness, may obtain of you, the God of all mercy, perfect remission and forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 17, 2010 11:54 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All!
Dear Heather,
Today I have thought of young children having their Valentine's parties at school, hoping their heart shaped envelope or decorated shoe box would overflow with cards, eating heart shaped cookies and special cupcakes, and playing games. I have also thought of junior high boys buying carnations for young ladies and high school kids going out for a movie and pizza. I am sure young Jacob enjoyed this day, as sure as I am that Jacob now marks it in heaven, where all is love and joy.
I hope you have a good weekend and that you receive at least one special seasonal surprise. I send all good wishes to Donnie, Kyle, Brandon, Devin, Allie, and all the clan.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Traditional Collect For Valentine's Day:
Grant, we beseech thee, O Almighty God, that we who solemnize the festival of blessed Valentine, thy martyr, may, by his intercession, be delivered from all the evils that threaten us through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 12, 2010 4:12 PM CST
Dear Heather,
This weekend, I am thinking about your example as a person of prayer and of the example of several other CaringBridge parents. You enriched sweet Jacob's life by teaching him about our Lord Jesus Christ and by praying with and for him. You have also encouraged many of those who visit Jacob's website and your family blog. God bless you for that, and let us continue to pray.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
There are so many ways of praying and listening to God that no one person could possibly use them all, but all of us can use some of them.
~Barbara Cawthorne Crafton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 16, 2010 12:12 AM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Heather,
I want you to know that I am thinking of you today. I hope you had a good holiday meal, and I hope you take comfort, as you think of the Holy Name of Jesus, in remembering the naming of sweet Jacob. May 2010 be a time of deep peace, quiet joy, and many blessings for all of you.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear son, Jacob Thomas Duckworth.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (The Eighth Day of Christmas, Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 1, 2010 8:41 PM CST
Blessings To All On New Year's Eve!
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 31, 2009 4:49 PM CST
Dear Heather,
Today we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Innocents. Let us pray for a cure for childhood cancer, of all varieties, so holy innocents, like Jacob, will stop dying from this terrible scourge. Below is the collect of the day and a hymn.
God bless you always, and God bless Jacob, and those with Jacob, in God's heavenly country.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.
Praise for your infant marytrs, whom your mysterious love
Called early from life's conflicts to share your peace above.
O Rachel, cease your weeping; they're free from pain and cares.
Lord, grant us crowns as brilliant and lives as pure as theirs.
Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.
Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); Version Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 29, 2009 4:03 PM CST
Dear Heather,
When I read at St. George's yesterday, and when I attended both Eucharist and Christmas Lessons and Carols today, Jacob was in my thoughts and prayers. I also prayed for you and for other loved ones of Jacob. May God bless you all.
I hope you have been enjoying this Christmas Weekend and will enjoy the remaining days of Christmas. May this season of blessing give you hope for a joyous reunion with Jacob and for many other good things to come.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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A Christmas Affirmation
by John Killinger
I believe that Christmas is more than a time for parties and ornaments; it is a time for remembering Christ and the incarnation of God’s love in human flesh. I believe there are gifts more important than the ones under the Christmas tree, such as the things we teach our children, the way we share ourselves with friends, and the industry with which we set about reshaping the world in our time. I believe that the finest carols are often sung by the poorest voices, from hearts made warm by the wonder of the season. I believe in the angel’s message that we should not be afraid – that the Child of Bethlehem is able to overcome all anxieties and insecurities. I believe in prayer and quietness as ways of appropriating Christmas – that if I wait in silence I will experience the presence of the One born in the stable, for Jesus lives today as surely as he lived then. I believe in going away from Christmas as the Magi went – another way. I want to be different when these days are past – more centered, more thoughtful, more caring. And I believe God will help me. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 27, 2009 6:18 PM CST
Christmas Eve Blessings To All!
Dear Heather,
I just want to remind you that you are in my prayers tonight.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Tonight's Collect:
O God, you have caused this holy night to shine with the brightness of the true Light: Grant that we, who have known the mystery of that Light on earth, may also enjoy him perfectly in heaven; where with you and the Holy Spirit he lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 24, 2009 4:08 PM CST
Dear Heather and Family,
As we approach Christmas, I am thinking of you all. Jacob was remembered in Holy Eucharist earlier today.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 16, 2009 4:21 PM CST
Blessings To All On The First Sunday In Advent!
Dear Heather,
Sweet Jacob has been remembered, in Holy Eucharist, on Saturday and Sunday. May God always bless his sweet spirit.
In addition to lighting the first violet Advent candle this morning, we sang five Advent hymns, at St. George's. One was new to me. I will add the words and tune link below below.
I am thinking of you, and of all of Jacob's loved ones, during these days of hope and preparation. God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Bless'd be the God of Israel who comes to set us free
and raises up new hope for us: a branch of David's tree.
So have the prophets long declared that with a mighty arm
God would turn back our enemies and all who wish us harm.
With promised mercy will God still the covenant recall,
the oath once sworn to Abraham, from foes to save us all;
that we might worship without fear and offer lives of praise,
in holiness and righteousness to serve God all our days.
My child, as prophet of the Lord you will prepare the way,
to tell God's people they are saved from sin's eternal sway.
Then shall God's mercy from on high shine forth and never cease
to drive away the gloom of death and lead us into peace.
Words: Carl P. Daw, Jr. b. 1944
Music: Forest Green, an old English folk tune, arranged by Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/i/i127.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 29, 2009 12:26 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving To All!
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you today. You have given me, and many others, a gift in sharing your beautiful son with us. Jacob is always a part of my heart.
Below is my favorite Thanksgiving Prayer and today's collect. If you have some time, please pray them with me.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Litany of Thanksgiving:
Let us give thanks to God our Father for all his gifts so freely bestowed upon us.
For the beauty and wonder of creation, in earth and sky and sea,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For all that is gracious in the lives of men and women, revealing the image of Christ,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For our daily food and drink, our homes and families, and our friends,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For minds to think, and hearts to love, and hands to serve,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For health and strength to work, and leisure to rest and play,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For the brave and courageous, who are patient in suffering and faithful in adversity,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For all valiant seekers after truth, liberty, and justice,
R: We thank you, Lord.
For the communion of saints, in all times and places,
R: We thank you, Lord.
Above all, we give you thanks for the great mercies and promises given to us in Christ Jesus our Lord:
R: To him be praise and glory, with you, O Father, and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
The Book of Common Prayer, Page 837
The Collect For Thanksgiving Day:
Almighty and gracious Father, we give you thanks for the fruits of the earth in their season and for the labors of those who harvest them. Make us, we pray, faithful stewards of your great bounty, for the provision of our necessities and the relief of all who are in need, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 246
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 26, 2009 9:44 PM CST
Dear Heather,
I thought of Jacob in Holy Eucharist both last night and on Wednesday. I continue to remember him in holy places and at holy times often.
God bless you and all of Jacob's many, many loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
If you have access to the Upper Room, look at the meditation for today. It was written by a mother whose son died in childhood.
The collect for Fridays goes right along with the Upper Room entry. Here it is, once again.
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 20, 2009 11:16 AM CST
Dear Heather,
I thought about you all on the recent twin feasts of All Saints and All Souls. Jacob remains in my thoughts, especially at Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Leo The Great, Bishop, Doctor, 10 November 461:
O Lord our God, grant that your Church, following the teaching of your servant Leo of Rome, may hold fast the great mystery of our redemption, and adore the one Christ, true God and true Man, neither divided from our human nature nor separate from your divine Being; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 10, 2009 1:27 AM CST
Would like oto visit Phyllis Alfaro
Jorge Alfaro <crgalfaro@gmail.com>
San Jose, Costa Rica - Sunday, November 1, 2009 9:56 AM CST
Heather,,
I understand your decision to "retire", but even though we aren't officially Pen Pals, I can't help thinking about your kiddos, and wondering what spooktacular things you all are doing today. You really know how to celebrate Halloween, that's for sure.
The Preschool Pen Pals and Mrs. Pam are praying for you....
- Saturday, October 31, 2009 6:14 PM CDT
I am from Baton Rouge and I want to travel to a group home in Minden. Please help me out,someone.-EG
Earl Gregorie <earlg@windows.com>
Baton Rouge, LA USA - Thursday, October 29, 2009 6:08 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I have just read your message in the family blog. I do understand, as I am not signing guest books nearly as often as I once did. I do thank you for sharing so much of your life through Jacob's journal, the photos, and the blog. You are an amazing mother to five amazing children.
May God's peace and blessings be with you, Donnie, the children, and all of Jacob's loved ones, now and forever.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of James of Jerusalem, Bishop and Martyr (New Testament):
Lord Jesus Christ, who set your brother James on the throne of your church in Jerusalem: Grant that as he continually interceded for the sins of your people, and worked to reconcile in one body both Jew and Gentile; so your Church may give itself continually to prayer and to the reconciliation of all who are at variance and enmity, and may ever be an effectual witness for the salvation of all mankind. Grant this, O Son of Man, who are on the right hand of the Father, in the unity of the Spirit, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 23, 2009 8:03 AM CDT
Hi Patty, We are thinking about you. All your Maryland friends Carolyn,George,The Nevilles,and Bob. We know you are into your treatment program and glad the first go round was not too bad. We love you and wish only positive results. HUGS from all of us....
Carolyn Stamps <gcstamps@verizon.net>
Pasadena, Md USA - Wednesday, October 14, 2009 1:18 PM CDT
I would like to know how Travis Osting is doing.
Mike Thomas <mcthomas6@hotmail.com>
Van Wert, Oh USA - Tuesday, October 6, 2009 8:03 AM CDT
Always thinking of you guys.
Alma <tetetogo@yahoo.com>
Sterling, VA - Friday, October 2, 2009 1:50 PM CDT
I guess summer is officially over tomorrow. So, I sure hope to see you back on FF this fall.
xxoo Mrs. Pam
- Sunday, September 20, 2009 1:06 PM CDT
Ahh, the weather turns crisp, the foliage bursts into borgeous colors...all this must pale beside what Jacob is experiencing. Every time I see pictures of the boys growing older, I imagine Jacob there beside them. He looks younger and younger in his pictures. Please know that he will forever be thought of and will remain in our prayers. Such a fine little guy...such an inspiration. Bless you all this fall.
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Saturday, September 19, 2009 2:03 PM CDT
Hi Heather,
Just wating for you to continue your Faithful Froggers of your summer fun. Also lots of pictures. Hope you had a great summer.
Peggy
Peggy McKita <peggy95443@embarqmail.com>
Rocky Mount, NC USA - Saturday, September 19, 2009 11:50 AM CDT
Thank you to the lord for salvation in the Holy Spirits power and joy for blood of Christ and let us take our cross and bear this to victory and to finish and win the lost to Jesus with love and word of God,in Christ,thanks and bless and pray for the scandinavien,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Friday, September 18, 2009 11:25 PM CDT
Just wanted you all to know. We are thinking of you all each and everyday. Sending angel hugs and prayers to the amazing Jacob.
Dale Harrison angel wings <naron810@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 17, 2009 9:08 PM CDT
Friend of Trish Herron
Pat Weiss <pweiss@spz.k12.nm.us>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Thursday, September 17, 2009 2:52 PM CDT
Friend of Trish Herron
Pat Weiss <pweiss@spz.k12.nm.us>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Thursday, September 17, 2009 2:51 PM CDT
Hi Heather,
I know you are on a blogging hiatus but I still check in every day so I can see Jacob's beautiful eyes and awesome smiles. It just soothes the soul, you know? Jacob exuded joy. :)
Hoping all is going well with the entire Duckworth clan.
Always F.R.O.G.ging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, September 15, 2009 1:38 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
On the anniversary of the 9/11 attack, I am thinking of you, of Jacob, and of those brave souls that perished in New York City, in Pennsylvania, and at the Pentagon. Among those individuals are two somewhat connected to me. One was a classmate in high school, whose wife was also a classmate, and the other was a priest, who at one time served at Siena College, a few miles from our home. (A prayer of that priest is below.) May God bless your hero, Jacob Thomas Duckworth, and may God also bless all those, who perished serving others on 9/11/01.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Mychal's Prayer:
Lord, take me where You want me to go;
Let me meet who You want me to meet;
Tell me what You want me to say, and
Keep me out of Your way.
~Written by Franciscan Friar, Mychal F. Judge, killed by debris at age 68, World Trade Center, 11th September 2001
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 11, 2009 11:06 AM CDT
Happy Labor Day To All!
Dear Heather,
Andrew and I had a busy day today, so we decided to slip into Pizza Hut for the buffet lunch. As always, it was good. Today, they seemed to have an especially appealing selection of items for making a tossed salad, but we also had some pizza, pasta, and bread sticks.
I hope you have had some time to relax during this long weekend.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless Jacob.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Labor Day:
Almighty God, you have so linked our lives one with another that all we do affects, for good or ill, all other lives: So guide us in the work we do, that we may do it not for self alone, but for the common good; and, as we seek a proper return for our own labor, make us mindful of the rightful aspirations of other workers, and arouse our concern for those who are out of work; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 825
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 7, 2009 4:50 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I apologize for not signing Jacob's book very often now. In general I am not signing nearly as many books as I once did. However, I do think of you and of Amazing Jacob with tenderness and thanksgiving.
Today I wish you, Donnie, and the whole family, a good Labor Day Weekend. When my boys were little, if the weather was good, we always had an outdoor outing at this time just before our New York schools open. One thing they enjoyed doing was packing a picnic and going to the canal to watch the boats pass through the locks. Sometimes the care taker would invite us to come into the building and watch him work up close. I am sure Jacob would have enjoyed seeing the locks raise and lower the boats and waving to the people aboard.
May your faith and your memories of Labor Day Weekends spent with Jacob comfort and sustain you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For Labor Day
On this weekend, when we rest from our usual labors, loving Father, we pray for all who shoulder the tasks of human labor—in the marketplace, in factories and offices, in the professions, and in family living.
We thank you, Lord, for the gift and opportunity of work; may our efforts always be pure of heart, for the good of others and the glory of your name.
We lift up to you all who long for just employment and those who work to defend the rights and needs of workers everywhere.
May those of us who are now retired always remember that we still make a valuable contribution to our Church and our world by our prayers and deeds of charity.
May our working and our resting all give praise to you until the day we share together in eternal rest with all our departed in your Kingdom as you live and reign Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.
~As Shared By The Archdiocese Of Detroit (Roman Catholic)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 4, 2009 11:47 AM CDT
i am a friend of sandy and edie munday from our church! calvary baptist church; i would like to write in sandys guest book words of comfort and advise to her eating ; thank you for being there for her what a blessing to be able to keep in touch with a patient when visisation is not allowed because of isolation; peggy blevins
peggy blevins
hickory, n.c. catawba - Monday, August 31, 2009 5:19 PM CDT
Another year begins...and we remember in our hearts those who are no longer here...frozen in time. Blessings on all of you! Have a great year!
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Saturday, August 29, 2009 6:11 PM CDT
Peri,
I have just heard the news about Hayden and I am very upset!
My family and I will be praying hard for a total recovery and for a happy resolution .. quickly!!
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.. even though I am not at Jasper any more.
Ed
Ed Escobedo <escobedoej@aol.com>
Plano, Tx USA - Sunday, August 23, 2009 9:25 PM CDT
5. But He eas piecred for our rebellion, crushed for our sins. He was beaten so we could be whole. He was whipped so we could be HEALED! Isaiah 53:5
Brenda Thelen
Hendersonville, NC USA - Thursday, August 20, 2009 9:41 AM CDT
Hi Amazing Jacob!
You have been in my thoughts over the past few days, so I have been saying extra prayers for your sweet family. I know they must miss you so much! My son, like your brothers, will be starting 4th grade in a few days (yet it seems like yesterday when you were all starting kindergarten). May God bless your family as we start another school year.
Hugs and smiles from CA,
Jenn B. (FOH/FOA) <jenn@friendsofheroes.org>
CA - Wednesday, August 19, 2009 10:50 AM CDT
Hi Heather,
Just checking in !
I know the boys will be going back to school soon. Hope you had a wonderful summer with your beautiful family !
www.caringbridge.org/visit/kellymuldoon
Lynne Muldoon <lajmuldoon@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Tuesday, August 18, 2009 7:00 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
On a day when some think of the special relationship between a parent and a child, I am thinking of both you and Donnie and of what good parents you were, and are, to sweet Jacob. Of course, you are also a great mom and dad to Kyle, Brandon, Devin, and Allie.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, who chose the blessed Virgin Mary to be the mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 15, 2009 9:30 AM CDT
Cindy
I missed your name on the exercise list at the J and Jackie Kofsky told me that you where sick. I have been thinking about you since.
Carolyn Altman <harveyaltman@sbcglobal.net>
St, Louis, MO - Tuesday, August 11, 2009 5:16 PM CDT
Cindy
I missed your name on the exercise list at the J and Jackie KIofsky told me that you where sick
Carolyn Altman <harveyaltman@sbcglobal.net>
St, Louis, MO - Tuesday, August 11, 2009 5:13 PM CDT
carrie cain works at our hospital,i have been praying for her,just wanted to check on her.
sandy warden <dwightsandywarde@bellsouth.net>
hayden, al. u.s.a. - Saturday, August 8, 2009 10:51 AM CDT
I came here to see Jacob's precious face...and to wish you & Donnie a happy anniversary, (a day late) I hope you guys celebrated in a big way :)
Much Love,
Audra
Audra Deffenbaugh <audrall@yahoo.com>
Tyler, TX USA - Thursday, August 6, 2009 11:20 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am thinking about you and remembering sweet Jacob on a major holy day. I hope all is going well.
I have been humming a hymn we often sing on the Transfiguration, so I will leave it and the collect below.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Feast Of The Transfiguration (August 6):
O God, who on the holy mount revealed to chosen witnesses your well-beloved Son, wonderfully transfigured, in raiment white and glistening: Mercifully grant that we, being delivered from the disquietude of this world, may by faith behold the King in his beauty; who with you, O Father, and you, O Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Christ upon the mountain peak
stands alone in glory blazing;
let us, if we dare to speak,
with the saints and angels praise him.
Alleluia!
Trembling at his feet we saw
Moses and Elijah speaking.
All the prophets and the Law
shout through them their joyful greeting.
Alleluia!
Swift the cloud of glory came.
God proclaiming in its thunder
Jesus as his Son by name!
Nations cry aloud in wonder!
Alleluia!
This is God's beloved Son!
Law and prophets before him;
first and last and only One,
let creation now adore him!
Alleluia!
Words: Brian A. Wren (born 1936)
Music: Mowsley, Cyril Vincent Taylor (born 1907)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/c/c109.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 6, 2009 3:17 PM CDT
Happy Anniversary!
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Wednesday, August 5, 2009 8:20 AM CDT
Hi Heather and Duckworths. I cannot get to sleep tonight, so after many months of not visiting this site, here I am.
I cannot believe that Jacob has been in Heaven for three years and two months. I am praying that your days are mostly the happy kind and that as we all walk through this life, we remember that this is only our Christian training ground; that our forever home is where Jesus, and Jacob and so many other of our friends and loved ones reside. That is not a fearful thing for me, but rather a joyful thought. I know you agree. In the mean time, keep on keeping on for the Lord and your husband and those precious kids.
Oh, big news in our family. Our youngest son and his wife have been accepted by Bethany for international adoption. Pray for their baby, who may not have even been conceived yet. They may get her from Ethiopia, AND they may get her and her toddler brother or sister!!! Waaaa hoooo! I am going to finally be a grandmother! Just don't call me "Big Mama!" :-)
Fay Thomas
Bastrop, LA USA - Tuesday, August 4, 2009 11:58 PM CDT
Thinking of you as always, Praying for you forever. Your boys are so grown up! Allie is such a beautiful addition to your life. But we are all missing your sweet angel...and will never forget.
Carolyn Maloney
West Springfield, MA USA - Wednesday, July 29, 2009 9:30 PM CDT
Little Jacob,
I just so happened to stumble upon this website and when it opened, was blessed by your smile. It still lights up other people's faces even though you are now looking down on us, waiting for our reunion in the clouds. I cannot wait to meet you one day, little brother. In truth, I am glad that the Lord chose have you remain forever 6, for it gives us here below a sweet reminder of that "faith of a child" He once told us of. I give my prayers to your family for wisdom and strength. Perhaps that is all that I can do, but I feel that it is enough in it's own way. Prayer is power, after all.
From your Christian brother,
David-Taylor Mendiola
David-Taylor <preacher_boy92@ymail.com>
Houston, TX United States - Saturday, July 25, 2009 1:48 PM CDT
Heather & Family,
I have kept your sweet family in my payers for awhile now. I began praying since 2003 through another friend who told me about "Amazing Jacob".
I came to know Jesus as a young girl. I was placed in a children's home at 9 yrs of age. For a long I felt unloved and forgotten. I mourned a loss of a "family". And still.
It was the little things all wrapped up in one that I missed. Even now, satan tries to spoil my mood and bring me down to feeling like nothing all over again.
I don't know why I express this now, except I feel led to from the Lord. It is the little things your beautiful children will carry with them.
Our Father chose us to be families even as angelic beings in heavan.
Why would I choose my family? I didn't know til later...that I would lead my mom to Christ, forgive my father and I currently witness to my sister. I pray for wisdom and peace every day.
May God bless your family with overwhelming peace & comfort.
Angie
Angie Shimp <Acshimp5@aol.com>
Macon, Ga U.S. - Wednesday, July 22, 2009 8:54 AM CDT
Hi,
just dropping by to let you know I'm still thinking of you,cant believe Jacobs been gone for 3 years.Love Trudi
Trudi <trudimillar@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, Scotland - Wednesday, July 15, 2009 1:46 PM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Sunday,
July 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.
Thank you for joining us!!
Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings and Angel Wings Remembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 5:01 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am sorry to not have wished you a very Happy Fourth of July Weekend. We have had a lot of severe weather here, in southern Saratoga County, for the past twelve to fourteen days, so I have not used the computer very much. I hope you are all well and enjoying a good summer.
One stormy morning, I watched a cardinal in our front yard. As I did, of course I thought of sweet Jacob. Your photo and story of the cardinal, at Steve and Rhonda's wedding, on the family blog, is wonderful.
I continue to remember Jacob in Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 10, 2009 9:58 AM CDT
Your heart must swell with pride when you see how many people still visit this site. Yet I am sure even pride does little to dampen the pain of your loss. Know that Jacob is still inspiring people, as are you, your family, and your faith. May God always bless you.
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Tuesday, July 7, 2009 6:58 PM CDT
Thinking of you all each and everyday. Sending angel hugs and kisses to Jacob.
Dale and Narong <naron810@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 2, 2009 7:51 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
As the birds sing, here in southern Saratoga County, I am thinking of Jacob, as I do every day. May assurance of a reunion with Jacob, in God's heavenly kingdom, bring you hope and joy this early summer weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For Cyril, Bishop Of Alexandria, Theologian, 27 June 444:
Heavenly Father, whose servant Cyril steadfastly proclaimed your Son Jesus Christ to be one person, fully God and fully man: Keep us, we pray, constant in faith and worship; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 27, 2009 9:26 AM CDT
Please feel my strong thoughts and prayers for Jakob. I am a co-worker with Karen, and I am blessed to have her get me involved with Jake and all his special "Angels" who care and love him. I have a copy of the "My Story' with his beautiful face and wonderful "smile." May God Bless, Sincerely, Bettie
Bettie Torreso <torresob@raveisre.com>
Derby, CT USA - Thursday, June 25, 2009 9:05 AM CDT
God blessed Jacobs he is resting in peace in the best place with Good
Sheila Acevedo
Miami, fl usa - Wednesday, June 24, 2009 7:49 PM CDT
Thinking of Jacob and holding your family always
close in our prayers..
Trish/Angel_Wings/AngelWingsRemembers <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Mall, TN USA - Wednesday, June 24, 2009 4:26 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you and of all of your family on a beautiful early summer morning. I hope you are well.
I have just viewed many of Jacob's pictures. I always love to see the one of him hanging on the side of the pool, which is directly below the picture of Allie on the family blog.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Sharing A Summer Prayer:
May the openness that Summer brings be a gift to us-
To open the windows of our lives to other people,
To open our homes to share the hospitality of table and church.
Open our minds to revel in the beauty of nature-
The smell of newly mown grass
The morning dew on the rosebud
The scent of honeysuckle on the evening air
The open spaces offering relaxation and a change of pace.
Open our hearts to your love and may your Spirit rest with
each one of us.
~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 23, 2009 10:10 AM CDT
Summer Blessings To All Of Jacob's Family, Friends, And Supporters!
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you and of Jacob today. I hope all is well and that you are enjoying the first day of summer. I am sure many exciting things are planned for your family.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 21, 2009 3:55 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
While remembering Jacob this weekend, I am thinking of Donnie, your father, Steve, George, and Donnie's father. May you, and all of them, be blessed on Father's Day.
One of the most amazing father/child pictures I have ever seen was of Donnie, meeting Allie, in Guatemala. May she and all of Donnie's sons be blessed tomorrow, as well.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A Favorite Quote About Fatherhood:
I watched a small man with thick calluses on both hands work fifteen and sixteen hours a day. I saw him once literally bleed from the bottoms of his feet, a man who came here uneducated, alone, unable to speak the language, who taught me all I needed to know about faith and hard work by the simple eloquence of his example.
~Mario Cuomo, 52nd Governor Of New York (born June 15, 1932)
As people of faith, may we remember the simple eloquence of example and convey our faith through smiles, kind words, prayer, study of Scripture and other Christian literature, honest work, acts of charity, and receiving the Body and Blood of Christ often.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 20, 2009 9:08 PM CDT
Heather you never cease to amaze me with your strength and devotion. You are a truly gifted person who I deeply admire. Your family is so inspirational to so many. In your writings you can feel your feelings. I saw a cardnial over the weekend and thought of Jacob. I think of him so often.
I love following your family and hearing to joy that you all bring to one in other.
www.caringbridge.org/oh/oliviagood
sheryl <johnston_sheryl@mail.dublin.k12.oh.us>
- Friday, June 19, 2009 11:26 AM CDT
Anyone can carry his burden, however hard, until nightfall. Anyone can do his work, however hard, for one day. Anyone can live sweetly, patiently, lovingly, purely till the sun goes down. And this is all that life really means.
~Robert Louis Stevenson, Scottish novelist, poet, essayist, and travel writer (1850-1894)
Dear Heather,
I saw this quote in a magazine, while waiting in an office earlier today. I thought you would like it.
I hope you, and all of Jacob's large family, are doing well.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Collect For The Commemoration Of Joseph Butler, Bishop Of Durham, Theologian, 16 June 1752:
O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Joseph Butler, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 5:46 PM CDT
Still Praying for all of you..Its been 3 Years but seems like Yesterday
Sending you hugz from Texas!
Tamara
- Tuesday, June 16, 2009 11:19 AM CDT
Thinking of you with a heavy heart!!! May blessings come your way to ease the emptiness.
Carolyn Maloney
West Springfield, MA USA - Sunday, June 14, 2009 10:16 PM CDT
Prayer is the only way of asking from God
welsh <w.lupon@gmail.com>
Paris, 93360 france - Sunday, June 14, 2009 8:16 AM CDT
Hi Buddy,
Of course, I've been thinking of you. Three years, yesterday, you have been away from your family, physically at least. It doesn't seem possible that it has been that long. Still, I have seen too many brave warriors join you, so I know time passes--oh so quickly!
We went to the zoo today and I thought of you. How many times have I looked at your pictures of you and your brothers at the zoo (and everywhere else) :) having fun? I keep you with me, Jake. My Amazing Jacob, too. I hope that time means nothing to you where you are, and that one day, when it's my time, God willing, I will see you face to face, and we will smile and laugh together. Good night sweet angel.
Shaun Rogers <shaunr11@comcast.net>
Dunwoody , Ga - Sunday, June 14, 2009 0:23 AM CDT
definitely thought of Jacob yesterday.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Saturday, June 13, 2009 8:53 AM CDT
Remembering Jacob on this day and every day... Amazing Jacob and your entire family continue to be in my daily prayers.
Keep FROGging! Enjoy the wedding. :)
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
St. Louis, MO - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:48 PM CDT
Remebering Amazing Jacob today and keeping your family in my prayers.
Anne Elwell <wife4travis@yahoo.com>
Galesburg, MI USA - Friday, June 12, 2009 10:53 PM CDT
Oh Duckworths, My heart is still so heavy for ya'll, for Amazing Jacob. I miss his Beautiful Blue eyes and Gorgeous Smile, I miss seeing him playing with his brothers and being Silly, I miss him so much. I'm sad that he isn't here with ya'll anymore, I'm sad that he never did get to meet his precious sister this side of Heaven, I'm sad that he is no longer in the pictures....I'm Happy that he is whole, and sitting in the lap of Jesus, I'm Happy that he doesn't have to go through this broken world in pain anymore, I'm Happy that there IS a day when we are All going to be together again. Until that day, I continue to pray for your hearts, and Remember Amazing Jacob Forever!
Much Love Duckworth's, You are not alone in this suffering.
Love,
Audra Deffenbaugh
Audra Deffenbaugh <audrall@yahoo.com>
Tyler, TX USA - Friday, June 12, 2009 5:45 PM CDT
Hi guys,
I just stopped by to visit Jacob's CB site on this awful anniversary. I still remember Jacob and you guys too. I still remember talking with Don in the St. Joseph's cafeteria while we nervously waited for our sons' conditions to improve. I remember your boys with Jacob in the hallways in those red wagons. I remember thinking, "Why didn't we meet those guys at a ball game or a barbecue?. Why here?" Anyway, I just wanted you to know that I remember Jacob. He was, is and always will be "The Amazing Jacob" and I will never forget him.
Your former Neighbor on the floor at TCE St. Joseph's, Steve G-Zak's dad <sez.greene@verizon.net>
New Port Richey, FL USA - Friday, June 12, 2009 5:12 PM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Friday,
June 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.
Thank you for joining us!!
MJ/Angel_Wings and Angel Wings Remembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Friday, June 12, 2009 1:56 PM CDT
Dear Heather, Donnie and Family,
Your faithful froggers update was so beautiful!!! My eyes were full of tears reading your beautiful post. Jacob was amazing and is still teaching us all amazing things. We are sad that he is not on earth but rejoice and are happy that he is with Jesus....I can't even imagine!!! God Bless you and I hope you have a wonderful time at your brother's wedding this week end..my niece gets married next week end out of state...we can hardly wait!
Take gentle care and know you are daily in our thoughts and our prayers and Jacob is forever in our hearts.
love and hugs,
Kathy
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, June 12, 2009 1:41 PM CDT
always remembering Jacob and his beautiful blue eyes. Becky
Becky
WEndell, NC - Friday, June 12, 2009 12:52 AM CDT
Amazing Jacob... so missed here on earth, but in heaven enjoying first-hand God's Amazing Grace!
Amazing Jacob, how sweet the boy
who went to heaven before thee.
He once was ill, but now he's well
living in joyful victory!
God bless y'all real good and hold you lovingly in His mighty grip,
Lisa D. <lisa@ceo.net>
Sunland, CA USA - Friday, June 12, 2009 12:52 AM CDT
Always remembering Jacob and thinking of you all!
Smile :)
Laura Whitebread Kennedy
- Friday, June 12, 2009 12:35 AM CDT
Thinking of your family today and remembering your most amazing Jacob
Beth V <bethv@att.net>
Gardena, CA - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:22 AM CDT
Shaking my booty today for sweet Jacob, knowing he is in heaven playing, dancing and smiling away!
Happy Heavenly Birthday Sweet Jacob!
stacy cappadona
Leominster, MA USA - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:19 AM CDT
You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing and grace before I dip the pen in the ink.
~Gilbert Keith Chesterton, writer (1874-1936)
Dear Heather,
Yesterday, while receiving Communion, I faced the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, at St. George's. As I gazed upon the figure of Jesus surrounded by children, I remembered sweet Jacob, and I prayed for you.
I am writing twice today, as I wanted to share the Chesterton quote.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your amazing Jacob.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Collect For The Commemoration Of G.K. Chesterton, 12 June 1936:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a Ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:04 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I have been singing this hymn since Tuesday, and I have meant to share it with you earlier. It seems very appropriate to sing "Be Thou My Vision," on Jacob's third anniversary, as it points us all to the High King of Heaven, who is the source of all life, hope, and victory.
Thank you for updating both website and for placing the video of Jacob's life. He was, as many have said, "Amazing."
Also, congratulations to Kyle upon completing elementary school and a very happy summer vacation to all of the boys.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
Colette
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Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart;
all else be nought to me, save that thou art-
thou my best thought,- by day or by night,
waking or sleeping, thy presence my light.
Be thou my wisdom, and thou my true word;
I ever with thee and thou with me, Lord;
thou my great Father; thine own may I be;
thou in my dwelling, and I one with thee.
High King of heaven, when victory is won,
may I reach heaven's joys, bright heaven's Sun!
Heart of my own heart, - whatever befall,
still be my vision, O Ruler of all.
Lyrics: Irish, ca 700; versified Mary Elizabeth Byrne (1880-1931);
tr. Eleanor H. Hull (1860-1935), alt.
Music: Slane, Irish ballad melody; adapt. The Church Hymnary, 1927
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html
This is hymn number 488, in The Hymnal 1982.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:01 AM CDT
HAPPY ANGELVERSARY JACOB
It has been such a long time since I posted on this site but I have been following your blog, Heather and I have been keeping up with your family through that. I love your blog but I still come here often just to see Jacob. I never met him but I find myself missing him, missing updates about him and seeing new pics of him. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers everyday but I wanted to stop by today to let you know that we are thinking about you and praying for you today as you emabark on the 3rd anniversary of Jacob's complete healing. May God be with you and bring you comfort and peace to walk the journey today.
Sending you love, support and prayers across the miles,
Cyndi Eckart <cyndie19_2000@yahoo.com>
Circle Pines, MN 55014 - Friday, June 12, 2009 9:27 AM CDT
Hello Family,
Just wanted to let you know I've been thinking of Jacob & your family this week. Every time I see a cardinal I can't help, but think of all of you & I've seen 2 the past week!!!
Jacob HAPPY HEAVEN BDAY!!!
GOD Bless all of you & Thank you for sharing your whole family with us...still!!!
SS
MI USA - Friday, June 12, 2009 6:09 AM CDT
Remembering Jacob and those beautiful eyes and contagious smile.
Gina
Conyers, GA - Friday, June 12, 2009 6:07 AM CDT
Remembering your sweet boy!
Kellie <kelliekea@hotmail.com>
Tyler , Tx USA - Thursday, June 11, 2009 9:46 PM CDT
Heather and family you are still in my thoughts and prayers. will have you in my thoughts as another momentous day passes. May Peace and happiness be with you. Have a safe trip
Carol Owens <cowens624@wideopenwest.com>
Shelby Twp, MI - Thursday, June 11, 2009 7:37 PM CDT
I will be away from my computer tomorrow but wanted to get on here and tell you my prayers are still with you. I hope your day is filled with sweet reminders of the "Amazing Jacob". He will always hold a spot in my heart.
Tina Pense
Farmington , AR - Thursday, June 11, 2009 12:09 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Earlier this morning, I watched a beautiful cardinal way up toward the top of our tallest front tree. Of course, I thought of Jacob. What an amazing little guy he was!
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Jacob's family, each by name.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Columba, Abbot of Iona and Missionary
9 June 597):
O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 9, 2009 9:29 AM CDT
Saw a beautiful cardinal over the weekend and thought of Jacob and your beautiful family. Even though we have never meet Jacob and your family has had a big impact on me. I wish the boys a belated happy b-day. I hope Jacob continues to send you lots of signs.
www.caringbridge.org/oh/oliviagood
Sheryl <johnston_sheryl@mail.dublin.k12.oh.us>
- Tuesday, June 9, 2009 8:34 AM CDT
Oh I miss this sweet boy, I just can't believe it has been almost 3 years, I'm so sad, yet joyful for where Jacob is and that he is whole and healthy. He Lives in our hearts.
Love you all so much
Audra Deffenbaugh
Audra Deffenbaugh <audrall@yahoo.com>
Tyler, TX USA - Sunday, June 7, 2009 10:43 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
Jacob has been remembered once again in Holy Eucharist. Also, right now, I am pausing at my keyboard to pray for all of you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Trinity Sunday):
Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 7, 2009 2:43 PM CDT
I would like to add my prayers to your guest book
Carol and Duane Mottet <carolmottet@yahoo.com>
Brighton, Iowa USA - Sunday, June 7, 2009 12:35 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Late yesterday, I had my first ice cream cone of the spring/summer season. It was one of DeVoe's lovely flavor of the week soft served treats. As I sat on a bench and licked, I thought of your Amazing Jacob, and of how much most children enjoy ice cream. I wondered if Jacob would have chosen the flavor I had, coconut pineapple, or if he would have opted instead for chocolate, vanilla, a dipped cone, or a frozen yogurt. If he were with me, Jacob and his sibs could have had a hotdog, or any sandwich they wanted, as well as a cool treat. May God bless Jacob's sweet spirit.
I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Jacob's loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For John XXXIII, Who Died June 4. 1963):
Almighty God, whose will it is to heal all division and discord among those who call upon the name of your Son: We thank you for the good will shown in your servant John, and we pray that we may always be ready to hear our fellow Christians with humility and a willingness to learn, and may also speak the truth in love, to the healing of faction and the renewed witness of your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 4, 2009 3:33 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
Today's saint, Justin Martyr, reminds me of the value of names and the fun of naming, as my older son chose the name, "Justin," as his Confirmation name. I feel honored to know the complete names of all five of your children and a little bit about how their names were selected.
In the church, the name, "Justin," is associated with character and courage. These are both traits that your Amazing Jacob had in great abundance. May God bless his sweet spirit.
Below is the collect of the day.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 9:56 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Because May 31 fell on a Sunday this year, the church is remembering the Visitation of the Virgin Mary today. In many ways, all of us who are mothers, share in Mary's motherhood of the Holy Child. (This was made clear to me, when I placed an icon of Mary and Jesus on our mantle, and one of my then middle school boys announced, "You and me, Mom!") So, may we too, be blessed, as the collect says, in keeping God's word.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 12:31 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
On a windy Pentecost afternoon, I am thinking of you and remembering Jacob. I read the lessons at one of our services, including a long lesson from Acts 2, with many difficult names identifying groups of ancient peoples.
I hope you are well and that you have had a good weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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Here's one of my favorite Pentecost hymns. Perhaps you can sing some of it today.
Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.
Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain
Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain
Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain
Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain
God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain
God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain
Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain
Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906
Music: Salve, festa dies
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 31, 2009 5:44 PM CDT
Heather and Donnie, Im thinking about you all. Cant believe the boys are 9 already. Our youngest is 9 in august. it goes so fast! I love jacobs page. His picture with wings made me cry both tears of sadness that he isnt here with you, yet happy he is free of cancer. You are amazing to me! that is why jacob was amazing!
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
in - Saturday, May 30, 2009 11:19 PM CDT
I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor,
And one was a queen,
And one was a shepherdess on the green:
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.
~Mrs. L.L. Scott (1898-1986)
Dear Heather,
I know I have shared the hymn above in its entirety with you previously. The "shepherdess on the green," Joan of Arc, is remembered today 578 years after her death. Over twenty movies and more than 20,000 books have been written about her, but she still remains a puzzle to many of us today. We remember Joan, in the words of James E. Kiefer, "not for winning military victories, or even because her visions were necessarily authentic, but because, being persuaded of the will of God for her life, she responded in faith and obedience to that will as she understood it." May we be able to also respond to that Will in our own time.
I am thinking of you and of your smiling blue-eyed boy today, and I will remember Jacob in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Joan Of Arc, Visionary, 30 May 1431)
O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgement, and light rises up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, to ask what you would have us do; that the spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, that in your light we may see light, and in your straight paths may not stumble, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 30, 2009 12:08 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I apologize for not getting back to sign Jacob's book on the triplets' birthday. I have been thinking of Jacob, and of you all, but this has been a very busy week here, in southern Saratoga County. Congratulations to Brandon and Devin, who I know miss Jacob as do you, Donnie, and all of the grandparents.
I very much enjoyed viewing every frame of the seventeen minute video you posted on the blog. It shows many things, including that you and Donnie are super parents, who have provided excellent care and many opportunities for all of your children.
The tribute video that your blog follower created (Where Are You Now?) brought tears to my eyes. I am remembering sweet Jacob with love.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 30, 2009 12:04 AM CDT
I think of your beautiful Jacob every single day when I go to my Fluff Friends Page on Facebook! Of course, My fluff friends name is ^^ANGEL JACOB^^ & he's VERY busy Raising Childhood Cancer Awareness & telling other about Jesus :o) His footprints are imprinted on my heart FOREVER! Love You All & Hope You Are Feeling Better, Heather!
Much Love Always,
Bill, Stacey, Josh, & Ben
^^Angel Jacob's^^ Heart Desire Was To Find A Cure For Childhood Cancer - Please Help Him Do Just That :o)
The Reich Family <weluvobx@comcast.net>
Winchester, VA USA - Saturday, May 30, 2009 0:50 AM CDT
Received this passage in a card today and had to pass it on! Know that I'm always praying!
Psalms 107:28-32 Then they cry unto the LORD in their trouble, and he bringeth them out of their distresses. He maketh the storm a calm, so that the waves thereof are still. Then are they glad because they be quiet; so he bringeth them unto their desired haven. Oh that men would praise the LORD for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men! Let them exalt him also in the congregation of the people, and praise him in the assembly of the elders.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, May 30, 2009 0:22 AM CDT
Remembering Jacob on his birthday and every day. Happy, Happy Birthday Brandon, Devin and Jacob!
Christie G.
NY - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 5:15 PM CDT
Thinking and Remembering Jacob on his birthday, such a void in all of us...we miss him, but we Are Thankful for Brandon & Devin...Happy Birthday boys.
Much Love
Audra Deffenbaugh <audrall@yahoo.com>
Tyler, TX USA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 1:10 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Brandon and Devin! And always remembering Jacob on his birthday too. I hope you two have a great day full of blessings and presents ;)
Francesca <francesca0214@aol.com>
Parkland, FL USA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 12:23 AM CDT
Happy Birthday in Heaven to Jacob and on earth to Brandon and Devin. God Bless you and thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 12:17 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL THE BOYS!!! Can't believe next year will be double digits for you!!!!
Hope you have a GREAT DAY!!!
SS
USA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 11:49 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Jacob! Always thinking of you!
Smile :)
Laura Whitebread Kennedy
- Wednesday, May 27, 2009 10:31 AM CDT
Happy Birthday to Brandon and Devin and remembering sweet Jacob on this special day.
Beth V <bethv@att.net>
Gardena, CA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 10:19 AM CDT
Please know that I am keeping you all in prayer today for strength, comfort and peace on this special day for ^Jacob^
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 9:18 AM CDT
Happy Birthday to two beautiful boys and one amazing angel. You are loved by so many...you have touched so many....yet you are just little boys. May you continue to live your life surrounded by such a wonderful family.
Carolyn Maloney
West Springfield, MA USA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 5:20 AM CDT
Happy Memorial Day To All Of Jacob's Family, Friends, And Supporters!
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you on a clear, pleasant Memorial Day afternoon. I hope you have had adequate time to remember, reflect, and pray during this long weekend.
Jacob has been remembered in Holy Eucharist.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet boy, Amazing Jacob.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Prayer For Our Country
Almighty God, who hast given us this good land for our heritage: We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove ourselves a people mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will. Bless our land with honorable industry, sound learning, and pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and confusion; from pride and arrogance, and from every evil way. Defend our liberties, and fashion into one united people the multitudes brought hither out of many kindreds and tongues. Endue with the spirit of wisdom those to whom in thy Name we entrust the authority of government, that there may be justice and peace at home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we may show forth thy praise among the nations of the earth In the time of prosperity, fill our hearts with thankfulness, and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail; all which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 820
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 25, 2009 4:40 PM CDT
always thinking and praying for ya'll but will pray a little extra for ya'll in the upcoming days thru June 12th
hope ya'll had a great holiday weekend.
judy
- Monday, May 25, 2009 2:20 PM CDT
Continuing to lift up prayers! And saying extra prayers as Jacob's birthday approaches...
1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, May 25, 2009 2:07 AM CDT
Watching the boys grow...imagining Jacob beside them...amidst your missing him, you are still so blessed. Keep writing, please. You inspire all of us.
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Sunday, May 24, 2009 7:31 PM CDT
I've been following Jacob's caringbridge for quite some time now. I talk to you on facebook often, so I never actually signed the guestbook. I was at a loss for words while thinking of what to say about Amazing Jacob. There is so much to say, but he probably already knows it, and so does his family.
Job well done, Jacob. Very well done.
[IMG]http://i338.photobucket.com/albums/n417/Kinkajogu/Frog-1.png[/IMG]
Made for Jacob
Francesca Vigna <francesca0214@aol.com>
Parkland, FL United States - Sunday, May 24, 2009 12:15 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Thursday was the Feast of the Ascension. While I was waiting for the service to start, I was praying some of the Ascension hymns. I will leave you one I found tonight that I have never used before and one of the collects.
I remembered Jacob, there, in the beauty of holiness, and I prayed for you.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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A hymn of glory let us sing,
new hymns throughout the world shall ring;
by a new way none ever trod
Christ takes his place--the throne of God!
You are a present joy, O Lord;
you will be ever our reward;
and great the light in you we see
to guide us to eternity.
O risen Christ, ascended Lord,
all praise to you let earth accord,
who are, while endless ages run,
with Father and with Spirit, One.
Words: The Venerable Bede (673-735);
trans. verses 1-2: Elizabeth Rundles Charles (1828-1896)
verse 3: Benjamin Webb (1819-1885).
as altered in The Hymnal 1982
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a019.html
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An Ascension Collect:
Almighty God, whose blessed Son our Savior Jesus Christ ascended far above all heavens that he might fill all things: Mercifully give us faith to perceive that, according to his promise, he abides with his Church on earth, even to the end of the ages; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 22, 2009 0:57 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you, and remembering Jacob, on a cool, spring morning. The hint of new life is in the air. May we be open, grateful, and expectant.
I am leaving you a short poem I like very much.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
On Waking
By John O'Donohue, Irish Mystic (1954-2008)
I give thanks for arriving
Safely in a new dawn,
For the gift of eyes
To see the world,
The gift of mind
To feel at home
In my life.
The waves of possibility
Breaking on the shore of dawn,
The harvest of the past
That awaits my hunger,
And all the furtherings
This new day will bring.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 18, 2009 7:27 AM CDT
what a beautiful way to honor Jacob's life. Beautiful boy, now at peace with god.
Dawn Trefia <twingirls@nor-del.com>
Port Dover, On Canada - Sunday, May 17, 2009 0:29 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Tuesday,
May 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.
Thank you for joining us!!
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Friday, May 15, 2009 1:12 PM CDT
Always keep your eyes on the Lord! Lifting up prayers right now!
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, May 15, 2009 0:33 AM CDT
Cardinals and songs....sweet memories of a little boy that touched so many lives. I love watching the others grow and try to imagine Jacob there beside them. I am sure he is there...we just don't see him the same way. Bless you all, always.
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Thursday, May 14, 2009 3:46 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
Early one night this week, Andrew took me to Albany, to see thousands of tulips, in Washington Park. They were gorgeous. I hope you, too, are experiencing beauty in your life this week.
As always, I am remembering Jacob, with a smile in my heart.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:27 AM CDT
Thinking of you, Heather, after this Mother's Day. Hoping you feel well and enjoyed your special day. Lots of red Cardinals here which always makes me think of Jacob.
Always FROGging! Blessings to you and your family!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Monday, May 11, 2009 2:11 PM CDT
Heather
thinking of you today on Mother's Day
the Preschool Pen Pals and Mrs. Pam are praying for you....
- Sunday, May 10, 2009 6:22 PM CDT
Weekend Blessings To All Mothers!
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you, of your mother, and of all nurturing women in Jacob's life, on this Mother's Day Weekend. May you all be well and be blessed.
Jacob will be remembered at Eucharist soon. He has been remembered in spring birds and blooming trees all week.
In the poem below, there is a mention of that place where Jacob now dwells. May it bring hope to your soul.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
To My Mother
~by Wendell Berry (born 1934)
I was your rebellious son,
do you remember? Sometimes
I wonder if you do remember,
so complete has your forgiveness been.
So complete has your forgiveness been
I wonder sometimes if it did not
precede my wrong, and I erred,
safe found, within your love,
prepared ahead of me, the way home,
or my bed at night, so that almost
I should forgive you, who perhaps
foresaw the worst that I might do,
and forgave before I could act,
causing me to smile now, looking back,
to see how paltry was my worst,
compared to your forgiveness of it
already given. And this, then,
is the vision of that Heaven of which
we have heard, where those who love
each other have forgiven each other,
where, for that, the leaves are green,
the light a music in the air,
and all is unentangled,
and all is undismayed.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 9, 2009 1:09 PM CDT
I am feeling so sad today. Take care of Jack Brown, you two will have fun together! I love and miss you so! How extraordinarily beautiful Heaven must be!!
Shaun Rogers <shaunr11@comcast.net>
Dunwoody , GA - Wednesday, May 6, 2009 8:25 PM CDT
Hi Heather,
Wow, I am just realizing that I never signed the guestbook. Hmm. Well I'm doing it now!
I've been thinking about you guys a lot lately, and I thought, "You know what would be great? If I never met Heather." Now I say that is because the only reason I know you is because of Jacob. You are truly a wonderful person, and have a beautiful family, but not a day goes by that I don't wish that I didn't know you. I know you because Jacob had cancer. If he didn't, then there would be no reason for me to be typing on this caringbridge site right now.
But all in all, I am glad I am able to know a person as kind and giving as you. Whenever you post on your blog, i just feel so happy to see you and your family doing so well. It always makes my day a little brighter (if that's possible here in Ft Lauderdale ;)
With prayers and hugs, in most loving memory of your Amazing Jacob.
Francesca
Francesca <kinkajogu@aol.com>
Parkland, Florida USA - Wednesday, May 6, 2009 3:50 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you and of Jacob on another pretty spring day. We have a beautiful pink tree in our yard, which brings great joy. I have also been watching the birds. I hope you, too, have some cheerful signs of new life to enjoy.
May God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Spring Blessing
The blessing of the signs of spring be yours today:
The new life visible in the fields be a sign of new life in you,
The birds building nests be a sign of belief in the future for you,
The tiny flowers on grassy bands be a sign of the small but
significant things in your life.
May the blessing of God,
Sower of seed,
Nurturer of hope and
Gardener of harmony,
Stay with you today and always.
~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 5, 2009 5:46 PM CDT
Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers!!!!!!!!!
Philippians 4:8-9 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, May 3, 2009 10:23 PM CDT
Hi Julie - I will pray for you and Samuel and I will ask god for strength for you all.
Mandy Beveney
South Croydon, UK - Sunday, May 3, 2009 12:38 AM CDT
HEATHER,
i don't seem to blog very well, and i lost all my info in computer in December, therefore, i don't have your email anymore and i don't see it on Jacob's website.
PRAYING THAT YOU ARE FEELING MUCH BETTER!!!!!
I KEPT TELLING MY STEPDAUGHTER LAST WEEK, SOMETHING IS WRONG, SHE HASN'T UPDATED IN AWHILE.
MAY GOD CONTINUE TO HEAL YOU!!!!
JACOB'S PRECIOUS SMILE GETS ME EVERYTIME. I LOVE TO COME TO HIS PAGE SEE THOSE BEAUTIFUL EYES AND THAT SMILE!!!!
THAT'S WHAT GOT ME THE VERY 1ST TIME I READ HIS STORY-IT WAS AS THOUGH I KNEW HIM AND HIS FAMILY.
HOPING THAT ALL OF YOU HAVE A GREAT SUMMER!!!!
ALWAYS THINKING OF YA'LL
Judy
Minden, La - Saturday, May 2, 2009 6:53 AM CDT
Isaiah 40:18-31
Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
April Harris & "Angel" Mikayla, Mimmie, Hunter, Noah , and Zachary
www.caringbridge.org/visit/harrisblessings09
www.geocities.com/angelmomfriends5/kayla1.html
April& Shane Harris <babymsmom04@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, TN - Thursday, April 30, 2009 2:20 PM CDT
Me and my daughter are praying for Glen Rogers who is having surgery on Monday and for the Lord to give his family strength.
Beverly Jansky <Promise56@gmail.com>
Springdale, Ar USA - Wednesday, April 29, 2009 1:05 AM CDT
Cancer sucks. I am so glad our Lord and Savior is in your life lifting you up and keeping you close. Thinking of all of you. May you always walk in His Sonshine. Carol
Carol Hagemann <hgturtle@cebridge.net>
Argenta, IL USA - Tuesday, April 28, 2009 9:10 AM CDT
Hi Buddy,
I saw you today, smiling as you were coming off the end of a slide at Disney. My heart overflows! It's a beautiful day! I'm going to go make the most of it.
Shaun Roges
- Sunday, April 26, 2009 9:49 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
We are watching the earth green up, here in southern Saratoga County. After a long winter, my cherry tree is about to bloom. We have been seeing and hearing a lot of birds, but only one cardinal.
I hope you are all well and enjoying a joyous Eastertide.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Feast Of St. Mark, A Red Letter Day):
Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given To your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 25, 2009 8:29 PM CDT
Blessings To All On St. George's Day!
Dear Heather,
I am smiling thinking of events on this day in years past. One year, at the annual St. George's pageant, at St. George's, as the child portraying the saint, kicked the dragon's cave, a startled young Andrew began to cry. Minutes later, the same young Andrew was all smiles, when tasty treats were served.
I wonder, did Jacob, or any of his siblings, ever see this pageant? What plays and shows have they enjoyed? May thinking about this be a source of quiet joy for you today.
God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet little Amazing Jacob.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
God bless us all, when we exercise courage over ourselves, in times of difficulty, and courage in faith, to witness to the Name of Jesus.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 23, 2009 5:00 PM CDT
I was on the internet doing some research for a lecture. Somehow that lead me to your guestbook. My sister passed away two years ago with leukemia (she was preceded by several years by my brother who also had leukemia) She had a caring bridge site and it gave all of us great comfort. The thoughts and prayers of so many were invaluable. When she died the grief that I and my suviving siblings had was unbearable. I am sure that whatever comfort and acceptance I have found came from all that others shared with us. There are many times when I know that my sister and other not loved ones are not far and that "the other side" is wherever we are with love. God bless you.
Annette D. Garcia
Commerce City, CO USA - Thursday, April 23, 2009 4:21 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, Kyle. I am sorry I am a couple of days late, but in many families, the joy of a birthday is stretched out over several days, so I am really not too late. In our family, we say, "Happy Birthday, Plus One," on the day after an official birthday, and "Happy Birthday, Plus Two," on the next day. So it is with the greatest of pleasure that today, I say to you, "Happy Birthday, Plus Two." I love the pictures of you on the blog.
On the church calendar, St. Anselm is remembered on April 21. He was an Archbishop of Canterbury. Here, Kyle, is one of his prayers. This is a good one for us all, and I hope you will save it to use it and let it be one of the prayers of your life.
My God,
I pray that I may so know you and love you
that I may rejoice in you.
And if I may not do so fully in this life
let me go steadily on
to the day when I come to that fullness ...
Let me receive
That which you promised through your truth,
that my joy may be full.
May God always bless you, and God bless the memory of your brother, Jacob.
I, of course, send warm greetings to your lovely mother and to all of your family.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A, - Thursday, April 23, 2009 11:11 AM CDT
hi Devin and Tina
just a note to say hi and our love and prayers are with you we are so happy we met here in the hospital our church is praying for you
Pastor Roy and Kathy Clickner <neosha_clickner@hotmail.com>
Elk Mound, Wi united states - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 11:41 PM CDT
Hi Buddy! I am missing you something awful tonight. Maybe it's because I read your version of "It's A Small World" on your momma's blog this morning. It made me laugh! Then it made me wish I could hear your voice singing it! It was fun to hear your baby sister singing it, and to hear her talking about you. You are in all our hearts...for always in all ways!! I love you so very much! Hugs to your great grandpa!
Shaun Rogers
Dunwoody , GA - Friday, April 17, 2009 9:40 PM CDT
heather and donnie, the blog website with allie and the boys is awesome.. the pictures are so beautiful.. and Im so touched that you have jacob remembered there.. and the song he sang... and allie asking about him.. that is so precious. she is a beautiful baby girl! This is my favoorite site.. because I love these older photos of the boys. and remember from your journals so well how they came to visit jacob in the hospital.. spent his last birthday there and they would just kiss and love on there brother.. I havent ever seen brothers get along so loving like yours.. Our 3 boys fight with each other..argue I should say.. we have to seperate them. Your boys are so loving and with allie so precious with her.. thanks for keeping this site up for us old prayer warriors of jacobs. He is still My hero on my my space page.. I think of you and amazing jacob several times a week still! I want to buy your book when it comes out.. it hasnt yet has it??? I know God will continue to bless you and the kids! You are faithful to God! I love reading that!
KIM <dakk2222@comcast.net>
IN - Thursday, April 16, 2009 11:00 PM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Sunday,
April 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
Jacob, all the children, teens and
adults on our prayer lists and our
AngelWingsRemembers families.
Thank you for joining us.
Sincerely,
Polly
Co-owner
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers
Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Thursday, April 16, 2009 11:09 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Jacob was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. I also prayed for you.
The birds have been very active, here in southern Saratoga County, this week, as the weather has been more favorable. They often make me think of Jacob.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:52 PM CDT
so sorry for your loss he was a very handsome little angel it is sad that such a sweet little guy had to leave this earth but at least you had him as long as you did, you were blessed he was a sweet looking little boy again i am sorry for your loss
sue
baltimore, md usa - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 11:44 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you over Easter. Never a day goes by that I do not hold you in my thoughts and my prayers.
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:37 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
As we continue Easter Week, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Jason. I hope you enjoyed a great Easter dinner, after attending an uplifting service.
The birds are really singing here, in southern Saratoga County, this morning. I am sure Jacob would have enjoyed listening to them. Some of them make such silly sounds.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:19 AM CDT
I'm trying to find Anthony Benincasa
DALE CERMAK <RUSH4953@MSN.COM>
RUSH CITY , MN USA - Monday, April 13, 2009 4:00 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you on Easter Monday and remembering sweet Jacob.
I have not noticed an update on the Faithful Froggers site for over two weeks. I hope you are happily busy, not ill, or dealing with problems.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 13, 2009 3:16 PM CDT
Happy Easter Jacob! Happy Easter Duckworths!
God bless each and every one of you on this holy day.
Always FROGging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Monday, April 13, 2009 1:10 AM CDT
Easter Joy And Blessings To All!
Dear Heather,
Jacob has been remembered in Easter Eucharist.
I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God bless you always, and God bless all of Jacob's friends and loved ones.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
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Jesus Christ is risen today, Alleluia!
our triumphant holy day, Alleluia!
who did once upon the cross, Alleluia!
suffer to redeem our loss. Alleluia!
Hymns of praise then let us sing, Alleluia!
unto Christ, our heavenly King, Alleluia!
who endured the cross and grave, Alleluia!
sinners to redeem and save. Alleluia!
But the pains which he endured, Alleluia!
our salvation have procured, Alleluia!
now above the sky he's King, Alleluia!
where the angels ever sing. Alleluia!
Sing we to our God above, Alleluia!
praise eternal as his love, Alleluia!
praise him, all ye heavenly host, Alleluia!
Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Alleluia!
Words: Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Stanza 4, Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Music: Easter Hymn, from Lyra Davidica, 11708; adapt. The Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j038.html
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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 12, 2009 1:07 PM CDT
Easter Joy and Blessings!!!!
lots of love from.... Mrs. Pam
- Sunday, April 12, 2009 8:34 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you, and of your family, on this day of holy resting.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
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O Sorrow Deep!
O sorrow deep! Who would not weep
with heartfelt pain and sighing!
God the Father's only Son
in the tomb is lying.
The Paschal Lamb, like Isaac's ram,
in blood was offered for us,
pouring out the life that he
might to life restore us.
Blest shall they be eternally
who ponder in their weeping
that the glorious Prince of Life
should in death be sleeping.
O Jesus blest, my help and rest,
who tears I pray thee, hear me:
now, and even unto death,
dearest Lord, be near me.
Words: St. 1, Friedrich von Spee (1591-1635); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944). Sts. 2-3, James Waring McCrady (b. 1938). St. 4, Johann Rist (1607-1667); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944)
Music: O Traurigkeit
The Hymnal 1982, #173
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o594.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 11, 2009 11:21 AM CDT
Love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, - Friday, April 10, 2009 6:50 PM CDT
I wanted to let your family know how much you all mean to me. I'm a long term survivor (18 years) of childhood liver cancer, and I'm also from your area in FL. A few years ago, I started reading some caringbridge sites because I was trying to remember and understand more about my own experiences with cancer. I don't remember how I found this site, but I read the journal history from beginning to the then current day, and you all touched me so deeply with the love that you shared.
This year I am helping to organize a Relay for Life at the University of Chicago, where I'm now a student, and I would like to ask your permission to light a luminaria in memory of your amazing Jacob and in honor of the whole family. Thank you for sharing your lives, love and joy. It is an example I can only hope to follow.
Sarah Rutenberg <rutensar@uchicago.edu>
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 3:34 AM CDT
~Palm Sunday Blessings To All!
Dear Heather,
As Andrew and I enjoyed spinach omelets on a cold Palm Sunday, I thought of my CaringBridge friends. Sweet Jacob will be remembered in many services this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):
Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:
Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.
Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain
The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain
The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain
To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain
Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain
Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern
Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 5, 2009 4:55 PM CDT
Dear Heather, Donnie, and Family,
I am sorry to read about the passing of Donnie's grandfather. How hard it will be for Donnie's grandmother after such a long and rewarding marriage, but as you wrote, Grandpa is reunited with Jacob, and they are experiencing joy beyond our wildest imaginings.
I enjoyed looking through all of your recently posted pictures. I love the frog on Allie's shirtsleeve.
God bless you all.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, the King of saints, we praise and glorify your holy Name for all your servants who have finished their course in your faith and fear: for the blessed Virgin Mary; for the holy patriarchs, prophets, apostles, and martyrs; and for all your other righteous servants, known to us and unknown; and we pray that, encouraged by their examples, aided by their prayers, and strengthened by their fellowship, we also may be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light; through the merits of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 504
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 4, 2009 10:08 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I was having a little difficulty with my internet connection this week, but I have been remembering Jacob and thinking of you and of all of Jacob's other loved ones. May God bless you all.
Since yesterday was the first day of National Poetry Month, and since I have been thinking of an Antoine de Saint-Exuperty poem for a few days now, I will leave it beneath my signature. Your family, like mine, lives/lived as the poet talked, and our boys (and Allie, too) are/were enriched by all we do/did with, and for, them.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Generation To Generation
In a house which becomes a home,
one hands down and another takes up
the heritage of mind and heart,
laughter and tears, musings and deeds.
Love, like a carefully loaded ship,
crosses the gulf between the generations.
Therefore, we do not neglect the ceremonies
of our passage: when we wed, when we die,
and when we are blessed with a child;
When we depart and when we return;
When we plant and when we harvest.
Let us bring up our children. It is not
the place of some official to hand to them
their heritage.
If others impart to our children our knowledge
and ideals, they will lose all of us that is
wordless and full of wonder.
Let us build memories in our children,
lest they drag out joyless lives,
lest they allow treasures to be lost because
they have not been given the keys.
We live, not by things, but by the meanings
of things. It is needful to transmit the passwords
from generation to generation.
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery (1900-1944), Author Of The Little Prince
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 2, 2009 3:46 AM CDT
Hi Jacob!
It's finally starting to feel like spring here! I guess you heard my whining. ;) Amazingly a beautiful red cardinal can to visit my front porch! Thank you SO much!!
Always missing that smiling face, and always FROGging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
Chesterfield, MO - Wednesday, April 1, 2009 1:18 AM CDT
I just miss Jacob....
Audra Deffenbaugh <audrall@yahoo.com>
Tyler, TX USA - Sunday, March 29, 2009 0:47 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I love seeing Jacob's laughing image on his main page. He has been remembered in several Lenten services this week.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
O God, you have given us the good news of your abounding love in your Son Jesus Christ: So fill our hearts with thankfulness that we may rejoice to proclaim the good tidings we have received; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 28, 2009 1:17 AM CDT
So thankful for the assurance we have in Christ! Praying!
1 John 1:1-4 That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you that eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us;) That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ. And these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, March 27, 2009 0:34 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
I, too, love the new header. The pictures of Jacob are precious, and the saying is one many parents, and grandparents of boys, of boys will affirm. I also loved the spring pictures on your family blog.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (Monday in the Fourth Week of Lent):
O Lord our God, in your Holy Sacraments you have given us a foretaste of the good things of your kingdom: Direct us, we pray, in the way that leads to eternal life, that we may come to appear before you in that place of light where you dwell forever with your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 23, 2009 11:31 AM CDT
Oh, I just LOVE your new header!! It clearly shows the joy in Jacob!!! Please pass on my praise. What a great capture of Jacob's spirit. :)
I still visit your blog and Jacob's site daily. What can I say? Jacob will forever hold a piece of my heart.
Always FROGging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Monday, March 23, 2009 0:57 AM CDT
Loved all your beach photos!
the Preschool Pen Pals and Mrs. Pam are praying for you....
- Sunday, March 22, 2009 2:10 PM CDT
Continuing to lift up prayers for your family!
2 Thessalonians 3:5 And the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God, and into the patient waiting for Christ.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, March 20, 2009 0:12 AM CDT
Happy St. Patrick's Day To All!
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you on a sunny, warm pre-spring day, as I listen to the birds sing. While watching some small brown birds yesterday, it occurred to me that I have seen few cardinals this winter. I guess they must all be there, in Florida, reminding you of Jacob.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Almighty God, in your providence you chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
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God in All
He inspires all.
He gives life to all.
He dominates all.
He supports all.
He lights the light of the sun.
He furnishes the light of the night.
He has made springs in dry land.
He is the God of heaven and earth,
of sea and rivers
of sun, moon, and stars,
of the lofty mountain and the lowly valley,
the God above heaven,
and in heaven,
and under heaven.
~St. Patrick, in The Wisdom of the Celts, Compiled by David Adam
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 10:19 AM CDT
Heather,
After losing all info on my computer last Dec., i have lost your email address, think I know it by heart, but then not for sure.
Just wanted you to pray for Hayden Haynes,(angel Stanton's older brother) If you have time in your busy schedule, got to Stanton's website for Hayden's issues www.caringbridge.org/la/stanton
love coming to this site to see Jacob's beautiful smile!!!!
Remember, you are such an inspiration to soooo many people
Judy Risner
- Tuesday, March 17, 2009 7:01 AM CDT
Remembering you all and blessing you for sharing Jacob, your love, and your faith with us. Please continue always, for I find strength and hope in watching your family live on!
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 4:54 AM CDT
Heather... I have been looking at your site for a while.. My nephew passed away July 28th, 2007 from AT/RT... He has a caringbridge site too... I would like you to email me, couldn't find you email... We have a couple of questions on how to get so many pictures on the front page... We have tried and cant get it to work... Would love some HELP if you can... You can read Cory's story @ caringbridge.org/in/coryduane.... Thanks you, God Bless Traci Carter
Traci Carter <traci.carter88@comcast.net>
Greenfield, IN 46140 - Sunday, March 8, 2009 4:10 PM CDT
Dear Heather,
We are beginning to get a few somewhat warm days, here, in southern Saratoga County, and we certainly are happy that today will be the first, of many to come, with more daylight. I am sure things look more like spring in your area than they do here. I hope the beginning of the rebirth of the earth, makes you smile, as you think of the eternal life promised us in Holy Scripture.
God bless you, Donnie, Kyle, Brandon, Devin, Allie, and of course, sweet Jacob.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 8, 2009 11:52 AM CDT
Dear Heather,
Thank you for sharing the pictures and memories of your grandmother. They are wonderful!
I hope you and Donnie enjoy your get-away.
God bless all of the Duckworths.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect (For Saturday In The First Week Of Lent):
O God, by your Word you marvelously carry out the work of reconciliation: Grant that in our Lenten fast we may be devoted to you with all our hearts, and united with one another in prayer and holy love; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 7, 2009 10:23 AM CST
Heather
I loved the beautiful pictures of your grandmother and all the
precious memories that you shared on FF.
the Preschool Pen Pals and Mrs. Pam are praying for you....
- Friday, March 6, 2009 9:35 PM CST
Always remembering Jacob.
Tina & Angel Lance <mommy2alilheroplus1@comcast.net>
- Thursday, March 5, 2009 10:44 AM CST
Hi Heather,
March is here - another month closer to spring - Yeah! (We need some warmer temps!) I love the new header on your blog. The beach pictures are great. How wonderful that you were able to assemble the entire family. :)
Blessings to you and yours. Keep FROGging!
Terry
(who saw a beautiful red cardinal today and thought of Jacob, which put a smile on my face)
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Wednesday, March 4, 2009 4:48 PM CST
Jacob,
I came here to tell you how much I miss you and think of you and love you. Even though I know you know this somehow. This is where I feel I can talk to you. You have been gone for almost 3 years now, and it seems like yesterday and forever ago at the same time. I see you everyday and know you are with me always...in my heart. That doesn't stop the selfish human in me from wanting you here with your family, growing alongside your brothers and loving on your baby sister. I can only imagine the amazing almost 9 year old boy you would be now. When I look at the children I teach I think about how much they would have loved to be your friend, and how lucky they would be to be such!! You are still such a beautiful light to me--a shooting star, so to speak, a beautiful sight that didn't last long enough, but will never leave my memory. I am so thankful for you and I love you so. I just wish I could hug you-selfish me again. I hope you know how much you were loved outside of your family, too! A special Amazing Jacob, that's you. I like to think that you are playing, being silly, dancing, and singing "I Love Rock and Roll", and most of all looking after all the little angels that have followed you to heaven. (Possibly, just to be close to you.) That infectious spirit!
I better go wish your daddy a happy birthday, I didn't forget, but I am characteristically late, ugh! :) I love you always, in all ways! You are missed!
Shaun Rogers <shaunr11@comcast.net>
Dunwoody , Ga - Friday, February 27, 2009 8:57 PM CST
I still love to see Jacobs happy smiling face.The 20th was a sad but also a very happy day for you.I cant believe Allie is 2 years old already,it seems only yesterday she was a baby.Hope she has a great Dora party this weekend.Thinking of you all love Trudi
Trudi <trudimillar@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, Scotland - Friday, February 27, 2009 12:01 AM CST
Stopping by to let you know that your family is always in my thoughts and prayers!
Psalms 31:24 Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, February 26, 2009 11:41 PM CST
Just thinking about Jacob, Allie and the whole bunch. I will never forget the brave warriors who earned their angel wings. Jacob was an amazing child with the most amazing smile. Love to all Carol
carol hagemann <hgturtle@cebridge.net>
Argenta, IL USA - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 9:06 AM CST
I never ever forget Jacob - even as I follow your blog .. his sweet smile is forever etched in my mind.
thinking of you all this week. In your time of remembrance and sadness and also rejoicing in Allie's bday. God sure does have a way of turning things around.
sarah <sclayton@stellate.com>
montreal, - Monday, February 23, 2009 12:58 AM CST
We still remember Amazing Jacob and think of him often. We also keep his magnet on our refrigerator as a reminder to FROG! Jacob reminds us that we can always smile with hope and to look forward to better things to come. Sending our hugs and smiles from CA!
Jenn B. and family (FOA/FOH) <jenn@friendsofheroes.org>
- Sunday, February 22, 2009 11:37 PM CST
I'm remembering Jacob today. I also want to say it is so encouraging to see how you can still cling to and love a good God after all you've experienced! I can only begin to fathom the depth of your journey, and I thank you for letting us into your lives. We REMEMBER Jacob, and we are better for it.
Kelley Land <jandkland@cox.net>
Macon, GA - Sunday, February 22, 2009 7:57 PM CST
Gosh...It seems like forever I have been coming to this site...and of course never tire of it! What can I say??
Life surely does go on...and it has been amazing watching God play a mighty hand in the Duckworths lives and all that Jacobs homecoming has brought. Continue to sleep with the angles Amazing Jacob..we all know how glorious it is where you are!
Love and Hugs...
amy <amy415s@aol.com>
pembroke pines, fl usa - Sunday, February 22, 2009 8:49 AM CST
Sweet Jacob, take extra good care of your mama this week. Help her to feel your love and your presence as she gets ready to celebrate your adorable sister's 2nd birthday. Thank you for helping to send such a perfect gift to your family!
Heather, I'm so thankful that God knew exactly what you needed and found a way to bring such perfect joy on a day that would otherwise be filled with so much hurt and sadness. Jacob was such an amazing little boy and we feel so blessed that you chose to share him and his life with all of us.
Sarah and the boys
WI - Saturday, February 21, 2009 8:12 AM CST
My heart still aches for a boy I fell in love with through this site, a sweet little man that I prayed so hard for, a little man that I know I will meet in Heaven one day, and I can honestly say, I look forward to that. I miss you Jacob, and I continue to pray for your sweet family, who's hearts are always heavy living with the void of you in their life. I know you are always near them.
Much love to you Duckworth family.
Audra Deffenbaugh <audrall@yahoo.com>
Tyler, TX USA - Friday, February 20, 2009 11:25 PM CST
Handsome Jacob... I know that I will meet you some day... and I will get to see you in your mama's arms once again. Until then... know that you will never be forgotten... and you will always be loved!
Pam D <p_dought@bellsouth.net>
Powder Springs, GA USA - Friday, February 20, 2009 10:59 PM CST
I will always remember AMAZING JACOB!!!! I was brought to Jacob's CaringBridge site through a friend whose daughter had passed away with cancer so I have been following your family for a long time through both this site and your blog. God is so amazing how He has brought so many people together and without a doubt I just feel very strongly that God AND Amazing Jacob had a hand in bringing little Allie into your lives! Little Allie is adorable and her 2 yr pictures are soooo cute!!!!! Take Care and know we are thinking of your family during this time and even though I don't post often, your family is always in my prayers as I feel like I know you since I have been priveliged to share your family's joys and sorrows.
Barb Dinkler <mbd73@gtmc.net>
Roseland, NE - Friday, February 20, 2009 7:59 PM CST
Always remembering Jacob and celebrating Allie - especially on this day!
Prayers to your family!
Devan <devan_griffin@yahoo.com>
Louisville, KY USA - Friday, February 20, 2009 6:12 PM CST
Always remembering Amazing Jacob. Jacob's life has touched so many people and will always continue to do so. I know today marks Allie's 2nd birthday and I can just picture big brother Jacob is celebrating in Heaven with that beautiful smile of his.
Love, Tracy and
Katia (a.k.a. "The Ladybug")
Fighting leukemia AML with a vengence!
Sharing Hope on the Wings of a Ladybug
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Friday, February 20, 2009 6:00 PM CST
Always remembering dear Jacob - forever a part of my life through Caringbridge.
Love to a very special family on this anniversary date. x
Jane
Devon, England - Friday, February 20, 2009 4:34 PM CST
I remember that day so clearly 5 years ago today. Your family is in my thoughts today, as it is every day. I am so thankful that your sorrow has been mixed with joy with the blessing of Allie and her birthday on such an anniversary day. Your Amazing Jacob and the rest of your family continue to be an inspiration to so many.
Sincerely,
Kristen Ketcham
Tampa, FL - Friday, February 20, 2009 3:57 PM CST
Always thinking of you, Jacob!
Smile :)
Laura Whitebread Kennedy
DE - Friday, February 20, 2009 2:25 PM CST
Duckworth's,
Just wanted to drop in on this bittersweet day for all of you!!! I check on you through Faithful Froggers & send you emails!!! Thank you for taking the time to reply!!! Still love seeing Jacob & his baby blues & big smile!!! Thanks for sharing all the happenings in your family as well. It is fun to watch all the boys & the Princess grow!!!
Hope you have a GREAT day!!! Please give Miss Allie a 2nd Bday hug from all of us!!!
SS
MI USA - Friday, February 20, 2009 1:26 PM CST
Dear Heather and family,
Wow, 5 years, our dates are close.
You have been such a constant source of HOPE for so many as you took your journey with Jacob.
I'll never forget the first time I came to visit his site, I was smitten, IMMEDIATELY...
Your whole family is so special to us all.
Thank you for sharing this amazing little boy with us.
Our lives will never be the same.
Missing Jacob and giving thanks for Allie!
Susan
Jordan's Site <Susan2956@yahoo.com>
Forever Frogging....., - Friday, February 20, 2009 12:11 AM CST
Dear Heather,
I am thinking of you, Donnie, and all of your family, on this bittersweet anniversary day. So much has happened in the five years, since Jacob was diagnosed. How truly wonderful that Jacob is in his heavenly home, alive and safe from pain and uncertainty, but I know you miss him.
I enjoyed seeing the Valentine collage on this page. I have copied the quote from Henry Ward Beecher, as a friend lost her four week old grandson, last week, to a rare form of lung disease. Hopefully, the words will be as comforting to her, as they are to you.
Congratulations to Allie on her second birthday. The pictures are adorable, and Nancy has outdone herself in making the birthday dresses. What a blessed girl Allie is!
Enjoy the weekend.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
A Collect For Fridays:
Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.
The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 20, 2009 10:27 AM CST
Good morning Heather. Wow..what an emotional day. I have been a lurker for a long time. I also have a caringbridge site for both of my parents. It started out for my Mom who passed away from complications from M.S. and then I have used it for my Dad who also has health issuses. I was wondering about your prayer page. I check it quite often and it seems to be stuck at #1500. I was wondering if maybe it is full. I think is a great place to check for those in need of prayer. www.caringbridge.org/visit/cherylstanley
stacey <stacey.winter@ndsu.edu>
fargo, nd usa - Friday, February 20, 2009 9:26 AM CST
Jacob your smile, those eyes, your strength have truly carved a place in my heart. I know today still you are "SHAKING YOUR BOOTY" and keeping everyone in Heaven laughing. I have loved how you have sent SWEET REMINDERS (cardinal sightings)that you are never far away.
Jacob we CELEBRATE you, Jacob we GIVE THANKS for you, Jacob we HONOR you, Jacob WE LOVE YOU, Jacob WE MISS YOU. Jacob you are FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS!
Dawn (dee) Pickens <dpickens_42@yahoo.com>
Beaumont, Tx - Friday, February 20, 2009 8:49 AM CST
I have tears in my eyes after reading Allie's birthday post and Jacob's post. Jacob is the most beautiful boy I have ever seen ... and I have two of my own. :) I can't imagine how you must miss him, but I'm so happy that you have Allie. You truly inspire me so much. Every time I get frustrated or sad, I think of you and realize just how fortunate I am.
Leah
Rockwall, TX USA - Friday, February 20, 2009 8:28 AM CST
remembering your beautiful son. Whenever I see Jacob's pictures it brings a smile to my face. His smile, even though a computer screen just lights up.
Thinking of you and your family today
Kristine Bush
MN - Friday, February 20, 2009 7:44 AM CST
Hi Heather...remembering Sweet Jacob.........Your words so true. Can you email me. i need to ask you something about Jacob's book you all wrote.....i looked for your email addy but lost it when my old computer crashed. love you all. Lin n Crew~* http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jimmyjoe/
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Friday, February 20, 2009 7:30 AM CST
Remembering a special little boy today and also a special little girl. Your family is an inspiration to all of us. God bless each and every one of you.
Joan Boyle
Montreal, Quebec Canada - Friday, February 20, 2009 6:40 AM CST
Heather,
Thank you for the updates - both here and on your blog. A very special Happy Birthday to Allie. :) God certainly had a plan when He sent Allie to this earth to help brighten this date.
Any update on Jacob's Stocking? I hope it continued to be a big success!
Always FROGging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Friday, February 20, 2009 1:36 AM CST
You know I really think the Lord does things like this on purpose...giving you Allie who was born 2 years ago today....giving you joy in the midst of pain........
Stopping by to let you know I'm still here praying!
Psalms 69:13 But as for me, my prayer is unto thee, O LORD, in an acceptable time: O God, in the multitude of thy mercy hear me, in the truth of thy salvation.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, February 20, 2009 0:24 AM CST
They are so beautiful. I feel I know you all.
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Monday, February 16, 2009 10:45 PM CST
As with each holiday, my thoughts return to Jacob and your family. To watch you thrive and grow in spite of your sadness shows the pure joy of the faithful. Thank you for continuing to share.
Carolyn Maloney <cmaloney5@comcast.net>
West Springfield, MA USA - Sunday, February 15, 2009 7:58 PM CST
Valentines, valentines,
Tell me what they say:
“We love you, we love you
More and more each day!”
The Preschool Pen Pals and Mrs. Pam are praying for you....
- Saturday, February 14, 2009 10:58 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day To All!
Dear Heather,
I have thought of you, and of sweet Jacob, several times this week.
Since today is Valentine's Day, I will leave you a few of my favorite quotes on love.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
We must begin with love, continue with love, and end with love.
~St. Francis de Sales
+++
To fall in love with God is the greatest of romances. To seek Him the greatest treasure. To find Him the greatest human achievement.
~St. Augustine
+++
We may not be able to give much, but we can always give the joy that springs in a heart that is in love with God.
~Mother Teresa Of Calcutta
+++
Love Him totally who gave Himself totally for your love.
~St. Claire of Assisi
+++
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 14, 2009 2:35 AM CST
Continuing to pray!
1 John 1:1-4 That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you that eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us;) That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ. And these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, February 13, 2009 0:20 AM CST
Hello Jacob, I met your mom through (fluff)friend. You are such a fighter. I love your smiles because they are so sweet.
You will always be missed, Jacob. If you happen to see ^Cameron^, my little Angel who went to Heaven on August 19, 2005, please give him a big kiss and a big hug for me.
Celia Lau <lauc@douglas.bc.ca>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 12:44 AM CST
Always missing Jacob!
Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers!
Isaiah 53:4-5 Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted. But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.
Prayer Bears
My email address
Lynn Worley
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, February 8, 2009 10:54 PM CST
Happy February, Heather!
I love the new headers - both here and on your blog. It's always great to see pictures of Jacob and his wonderful smiling face. :)
Still FROGging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Wednesday, February 4, 2009 1:59 PM CST
We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
There's a place where we'll see your face again
~Steven Curtis Chapman
Lauren
Arlington, tx usa - Monday, February 2, 2009 8:28 AM CST
First of all, there are two entries that do not even belong here.
Now, my reason for posting an entry. Since you have so many people visiting Jacob's guestbook, I would like to reach out to as many as I can by telling everyone that Jessica Kohut is very sick and needs prayers and support, as does her mom and all her family. Her caringbridge site is caringbridge.org/visit/jessicakohut.
Elinor <eschwar1@tampabay.rr.com>
Lithia, FL US - Friday, January 30, 2009 9:59 AM CST
Dear Heather,
Today is the commemoration of Bishop Phillips Brooks, who penned the lyrics to "O Little Town of Bethlehem." Brooks was known as a friend of children. After he died, a five year old girl asked her mother why she had not seen him recently. When her mother told her that Brooks had gone to heaven, the child exclaimed, "Oh, Mama, how happy the angels will be."
Truly the little girl was right, and truly the angels were also happy to have your amazing Jacob enter the glorious kingdom.
Beneath my signature, I will add today's collect and my favorite Brooks quotation. Truly you, and Donnie, in your care for Jacob and his siblings, are examples of the bishop's words.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O everlasting God, you revealed truth to your servant Phillips Brooks, and so formed and molded his mind and heart that he was able to mediate that truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your Word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
+++
Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.
~Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 23, 2009 12:21 AM CST
Hi Heather,
I wanted to stop by and say "hi". Jacob's smile and beaming personality continue to touch my heart and soul. God Bless you all in 2009!
Still FROGging!
Terry B <geetey@aol.com>
st louis, MO - Thursday, January 22, 2009 0:52 AM CST
Thinking of your beautiful family and sending love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, January 20, 2009 7:17 PM CST
Another Warrior has earned his angel wings. Zachary Finestone earned his wings on January 15, 2009 after a nine year battle with the beast. He will be greatly missed. Carol
carol hagemann <hgturtle@cebridge.net>
argenta, IL USA - Friday, January 16, 2009 10:01 AM CST
Dear Heather,
I have just looked at the newer pictures on your family blog again. Thank you for posting them.
As always, I am thinking of Jacob.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
O Lord our God, you raised up your servant Hilary to be a champion of the catholic faith: Keep us steadfast in that true faith which we professed at our baptism, that we may rejoice in having you for our Father, and may abide in your Son, in the fellowship of the Holy Spirit; who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 11:34 PM CST
Hi Jacob,
Well, it's 2009 and I can't believe that this June will mark three years with out your physical presence here. I have to say physical, because you are ever present here. You are with your loving family, with me, and with all of the millions of people that have come to your site to see the Amazing Jacob. You live on in my heart, just a little spark that will ignite when I need it and even when I'm ok! When I feel blue, you are there to bring a smile to my face--just for having glimpsed your spirit through your smile, and your mom.
Speaking of your mom, she brought me to something new I did not know about, yet again. This time it was some books that I loved! It was funny, but I thought of you whenever the words "My Jacob" would crop up in the books, because that is how I think of you--even though you are not truly mine. You were a powerful presence on this earth and God truly had a purpose for you that you fulfilled, without even knowing it. What a special, amazing boy. There are more sweet angels that have come to play with you, and it makes us a little sad. Yet, we try to remember to enjoy the beauty and magic we can find here, like you did, like you would want us to, or like you would show us if you were here. I am so lucky to have you in my heart!! I miss you here with your family, but I am glad that you are with us all and completely healed with Jesus!!!!! Send kisses to your momma for me, she misses you most of all! I love you always!
Shaun Rogers <shaunr11@comcast.net>
Dunwoody , Ga - Wednesday, January 7, 2009 7:42 PM CST
Glad Epiphany To All!
Dear Heather,
On this holy day, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Jacob. We are having nasty weather, and I am not feeling my best, so I did not get out to Eucharist tonight. I am contenting myself singing some of my favorite Epiphany hymns. I will include the John Mason Neale hymn that not many people know, but which is probably my favorite. Tony Barrand and John Roberts, who study and perform traditional music, are the ones that introduced it to me. It is on a couple of their Nowell Sing We Clear albums and also on a Pint and Dale recording.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Over the Hill and Over the Dale
by John Mason Neale
Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.
Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.
He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.
Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.
+++ Remember, each time we encounter the living Christ, we continue with hearts and footsteps lighter. +++
Today's Collect:
O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 8:14 PM CST
love this site
cynthia davis <cynlyndav@aol.com>
clarksville, tn usa - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 9:31 AM CST
Keeping you all in prayer. May the New Year bring you God's Peace and His deep abiding love. Carol
carol hagemann <hgturtle@cebridge.net>
Argenta, IL USA - Monday, January 5, 2009 9:55 AM CST
God Bless all of You! You truly have a beautiful Family!!
Samantha
NY - Saturday, January 3, 2009 8:46 PM CST
Hi Heather, thinking of you all during the Holidays.~* Please email me...I want to ask you about your book......Thanks Heather. Love, Lin n Crew~*
Lin <jimmyk1@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl. USofA - Saturday, January 3, 2009 7:30 AM CST
Happy New Year To All!
Dear Heather,
Today, as we look upon the holy event of the naming of our Lord, Jesus Christ, may you be blessed in thinking of the birth and naming of all of your beautiful children.
God bless you always.
Grace, peace, love, and all good,
~Colette
Today's Collect:
Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 4:29 PM CST
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