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i want to use this opportunity to thank Dr Zuma for saving my life, the fever that was about to kill me i escape it with it and i though it was just ordinary fever not knowing that my enemy are at work, fever hold me for two good months no improvement of healing i think i was going to die, i was already praying that God should forgive me my sin because i though i was never going to make it, but to cut everything shot, one morning my sister was searching online drugs she saw a comment that was post by a man and how this Dr Zuma help him and he finally get healed from this same fever, my sister contacted this doctor on his email address at: spiritualherbalisthealers@gmail.com, he told my sister what to do and my sister did everything he ask, after 24hrs my sister said she was so surprised when i stood up and my body and my temperature was normal it was just miracle, so i said i will share this testimony to everyone in case you are also going through the same problem you can also contacted this man on his email: spiritualherbalisthealers@gmail.com he that did my own can also do yours, thanks to him once more.
Tracy <slimcolvin@gmail.com>
texas, HI USA - Wednesday, November 18, 2015 5:39 PM CST
Thinking of you
Wren family <Jwren@carolina.rr.com>
- Monday, October 6, 2014 5:58 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Maddy...
It's hard to believe that you would have been 12 years old today. I know you & Great Papa are celebrating your shared birthday in Heaven. Papa and I miss you very much - you are always in our thoughts & hearts. We can only imagine what you would have looked like now and what your little personality would have been like - a little spitfire I'm sure. I want you to know your cousins always think about you too - especially Reagan. Mommy, Daddy & Ethan miss you MOST. Ethan is a really big brother now - 15 and tall just like Daddy & Papa. You would have been little Miss Moo, a petite little girl like mommy. Just a breath away, Maddy...and we'll see you again. Love and kisses.
Nana & Papa <carol.bates60@gmail.com>
Highland, CA USA - Thursday, March 13, 2014 8:43 PM CDT
Hi Miss Moo...
I miss you so much, life just isn't the same without your sweet lil face here on earth. I think of you everyday there's not a day that goes by that I don't talk about you to Christopher. Your his guardian angel and that comforts me so much. I love you so much and miss you so much more. Till we meet again sweet baby girl.
Love
Missy
Missy Snarr <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, July 28, 2013 7:29 PM CDT
Glad to see your page is still here. Always remembering Maddy.
Kasey Gunde
Mount Holly, NC USA - Thursday, June 27, 2013 9:06 PM CDT
I am glad to see that you haven't deactivate Maddy's page. I am glad to here that things are going well. Our children will never be forgotten. We have for the most part learned to live with our sorrow. One day we will see our babies again. One day. I miss you all. Take care.
angela_rosario27@hotmail.com <angela_rosario27@hotmail.com>
NYC, - Monday, April 8, 2013 11:38 PM CDT
Maddy...
Hard to believe you've been gone for 8 years. Harder to believe you would have been 11 years old today. We all miss you so very much - the redeeming hope of seeing you again gives peace in our hearts until that time comes. Papa and I love you and miss you - Miss Moo. Until then this songs resonates our feelings here on earth.
"To Where You Are"
Who can say for certain
Maybe you're still here
I feel you all around me
Your memory's so clear
Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You're still an inspiration
Can it be
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above
Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isn't faith believing
All power can't be seen
As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
'Cause you are my
Forever love
Watching me from up above
And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave
Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
I know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
Nana & Papa <carol.bates60@gmail.com>
Highland, CA USA - Wednesday, March 13, 2013 5:17 PM CDT
Richelle,
just wanted to say hello and that I am still praying for you and your family when I think of you all. May God give you His strength and peace each day until you meet up with Maddy. God's blessings to you and your family.
pat andrade <tigger7@roadrunner.com>
highland, ca usa - Monday, December 10, 2012 11:17 AM CST
Maddy...
Miss you every minute of every day. It's our annual "kick cancers butt" time of year with fundraisers for St. Jude and Light the Night Walk. As always, it's in memory of you! Papa and I love you very much!
Carol Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Tuesday, September 25, 2012 12:00 AM CDT
We are praying for you guys today as you celebrate Maddy! We love you all lots!
Stacie Ziegler
Mentone, CA - Friday, August 31, 2012 8:21 PM CDT
Still praying for you each day.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
- Monday, February 20, 2012 11:21 AM CST
As often as I am reminded of you and your family, I pray for you. May God continue to bless you.
allison lairmore <allison@foresthills.org>
raleigh, nc usa - Friday, September 16, 2011 2:05 AM CDT
Our dearest Maddy...
Today is the 6th anniversary of you going to Heaven. It's hard to believe it's been 6 years...you'd be 9 1/2 now which is difficult to imagine cause you'll always be 3 1/2 to us. Not a day goes by that you're not in our thoughts. We cherish the sweet memories of our time together. We love and miss you so very much. There is a song called "If Heaven Wasn't So Far Away" & I think of you each time I hear it.
"If Heaven wasn't so far away, Papa and I would go for the day, then tell you we'd be back in a couple of days and in the rear view mirror we'd watch you wave...and losing you wouldn't be so hard to take, if Heaven wasn't so far away."
Sweet angel, know that you are loved and your memory will never fade. You live on in our hearts. The bond of love is greater than the distance between us. And we'll see you when we get to Heaven - what a joyous reunion that will be!
Papa and I love you with all our hearts and miss you enormously. xxoooxxooxxooxxoo
Nana & Papa
Carol Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2011 11:32 AM CDT
Hi Miss Moo...
I have been missing you soooo much,I tell your lil cousin Christopher about you all the time..I love you sweet baby girl. I can't wait to see your sweet lil face again..I love you sweetie.
Moochies...
Missy
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
Yucaipa, ca usa - Sunday, April 3, 2011 7:17 PM CDT
Praying for you
The Matlock Family <lcregan@drez.net>
Plainfield, IL USA - Monday, October 4, 2010 8:38 AM CDT
"To Where You Are"
Who can say for certain
Maybe you're still here
I feel you all around me
Your memory's so clear
Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You're still an inspiration
Can it be (?)
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above
Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isn't faith believing
All power can't be seen
As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
'Cause you are my
Forever love
Watching me from up above
And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave
Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
I know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are
Papa and I miss you with all our hearts! We cherish the dreams we have of you and the sweet, precious memories too! We think of you every day and can't wait till we see you again in Heaven! Love you MOO! XXOOXXOOXXOOXXOOXXOO Papa and Nana
Carol Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Tuesday, August 31, 2010 9:55 AM CDT
Thinking of you, "Mommy, Daddy and Brudder." Lifting you and all those loved by Queen Maddy Moo in special prayers this week. Hoping that memories bring you way more joy than pain these days. Letting you know that we remember. God bless you!
jean wren (4mike2) <jwren@carolina.rr.com>
charlotte, nc pbmt - Sunday, August 29, 2010 5:46 PM CDT
Thinking of you always and wishing you a Merry Christmas.
Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Monday, December 14, 2009 11:43 PM CST
Was thinking of you all on Maddy's anniversary in Heaven. Man I bet they were having a great big party for her.
I have no clue of what you all are going through. I said a prayer that you might find some peace that goes beyond all understanding and that you cling to the ever loving arms of Jesus till you see your beautiful daughter again.
Many Blessing I pray for you,
Pat Andrade <tigger7@roadrunner.com>
- Thursday, September 10, 2009 2:49 PM CDT
Maddy...
This is the 4th anniversary of you being in Heaven. We miss you so much it hurts. Papa and I planted some flowers and plants in your memory today (purple, of course). Knowing your love of the ocean...we found Sea Lavendar and planted it in Maddy's corner of our garden. Your memory and all the love you gave us will live in our hearts forever until we're reunited in Heaven. We love you and miss you.
Nana and Papa Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Monday, August 31, 2009 5:52 PM CDT
Rachel and family,
just wanted you to know you are in my prayers. I think of you often and say a prayer. I know the pain will never cease but I pray you have some comfort in knowing where your Madi is and that one day you will all be reunited.
Pat Andrade
Highland, ca usa - Friday, August 14, 2009 2:46 PM CDT
Thinking about you guys. ALWAYS remembering your beautiful daughter!
Love,
Melissa Fritsch
Parker's Mom
melissa fritsch <mich_rissy@juno.com>
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 2:43 PM CDT
Dear Richelle and Family,
I just wanted to let you know I am still praying for you all. I can not even image how hard this is for you all. I pray that as you look into the eyes of Jesus you will find some comfort in knowing your beautiful Maddy is right there beside him smiling down upon you.
In Christ,
Pat Andrade <tigger7@roadrunner.com>
Highland, ca USA - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 1:21 PM CDT
I was just thinking about Maddy on Friday and wanted to stop by and wish a big Happy Birthday to her! Lots of love and hugs to you all!!
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
Mo Val, CA USA - Monday, March 16, 2009 7:46 AM CDT
Praying for you and your family. Love to all Angel AJ's mom!
Angie Haynes <ahaynes199@aol.com>
Goose Creek, sc - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 11:30 AM CDT
THINKING OF YOU AND I KNOW YOU MISS MOO,NO WORDS ARE EVEN ENOUGH TO HELP THAT FEELING AND I HAVE NEVER EVEN LOST A CHILD. TAKE CARE AND WE ALL LOVE YOU HERE IN RICHMOND.
jENNIFER
J SOLE <GINSKI 14369@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, March 5, 2009 5:18 PM CST
I pray for you each night. I hope that when you are missing your little girlie, you will feel the Lord comforting you and wrapping you up in His love. I'm sure you have some comfort knowing that your little girl is safe in Heaven -- but the raw pain of just simply missing her is just something I would not wish on anyone. I feel so sad that you have to miss your little girl. I have no helpful words, really -- just a promise to keep on praying for you guys and for the Lord to comfort you and to bring you peace.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Tuesday, March 3, 2009 9:55 PM CST
Thinking of you.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, March 3, 2009 11:49 AM CST
Special prayers are on there way. It is five years since we met on 5200 and I will always remember the faces of those sweet children and their brave families. God Bless You!
Ginna Shotwell (Jacob's Granny) <ginna.shotwell@gmail.com>
Bremerton, Wa USA - Thursday, February 26, 2009 0:01 AM CST
Praying for you!Love you!
Kara Maher <Mrsblondie74@aol.com>
CA USA - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 3:29 PM CST
thinking of you often. keep up with you all thru dora,kyles,charles and miss sadie
Hope that you all are getting along well and that Ethan and Joe are well
Take care
love
Jennifer <Ginski14369@aol.com>
- Wednesday, February 4, 2009 6:10 PM CST
Thinking of you always
Brenda <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, - Friday, January 30, 2009 2:00 PM CST
Just thinking of Maddie and you guys! Love ya!
Stacie <ziggyizme@yahoo.com>
Next door , to you - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 9:30 PM CST
Just letting you know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.Sorry it's been so long been so busy with the kids but I haven't forgotten about you just had no time to sign the page.
Brenda Rurka <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Friday, January 9, 2009 9:19 PM CST
Just wanting you to know that I am constantly thinking of and praying for you. Blessings in Christ and as joyous a holiday season as possible under the circumstances.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, December 23, 2008 3:29 PM CST
Richelle and family,
I just wanted you all to know my thoughts and mostly my prayers are with each of you during this Holiday seasons. I can only image how hard it is for all of you. Wishing you peace and love and most of all wishing you God's Blessings.
Pat Andrade <tigger7@roadrunner.com>
Highland, ca USA - Monday, December 22, 2008 11:25 AM CST
Thinking of you.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Monday, December 22, 2008 10:30 AM CST
Praying for you each day and wishing God's peaceful embrace for you.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Sunday, December 21, 2008 9:19 PM CST
Just stopping by to see that beautiful face.. you know you guys are always on my mind and in my Prayers..
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
moval, ca usa - Monday, December 8, 2008 12:39 AM CST
I pray that holidays will be a bit brighter for everyone, that you'll find joy this holiday season...you're in our thoughts and prayers always...
Alison <poetrygirley76@yahoo.com>
Anchorage, AK - Sunday, December 7, 2008 7:05 PM CST
Hi Richelle,
Feeling blue tonight and went on Maddy's site to check on you all. Thanks for posting. We too are getting on with life in many ways, but seem to spiral down around the holidays,birthdays etc.. My friends and family try their best to love and understand us, but noone really understands except those who walk in our shoes. I hate that we share the pain of lossing a child, but am also very grateful to have others to share the burden with. Please know that we think of you all often and pray for God's peace and comfort for us all.
Love,MAry
Mary Johnson <kellandmary@eatel.net>
Prairieville, LA - Friday, November 28, 2008 7:13 PM CST
I know I haven't written forever but I want you to know that Maddy isn't forgotten in my heart and never will be. When I think of her; I pray for all of you!
Love always, Laureen
Laureen hurley
Redlands, CA United States - Friday, November 28, 2008 0:38 AM CST
Still checking on you guys, and praying for you each day. The Lord is right there with you on those awful days. He will see you through.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Sunday, November 23, 2008 4:41 PM CST
WOW RACHELLE THOSE WORDS ARE SO US. THIS IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE A VERY PAINFUL JOURNEY. THOSE OF US WHO HAVE HAD TO COME FACE TO FACE WITH DEATH AND HAVE HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO LET OUR CHILDREN GO KNOW HOW DEVASTING THIS IS AND THAT HOLE THAT COULD NEVER BE FILLED. YES MY FRIEND I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL FOR I FEEL THE SAME WAY. NOT A DAY GOES BY WERE I DON'T GO BY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT MY LITTLE ASHLEY AND ALL OF THE CHILDREN LIKE QUEEN MADDY THAT LEFT US BEHIND WITH SO MANY QUESTIONS UNANSWERED. TAKE CARE HOPE TO HERE FROM YOU.
ANGELA ROSARIO <angela_rosario27@hotmail.com>
NY, NY - Saturday, November 1, 2008 9:44 PM CDT
Queen Maddy, just had you on my mind just now - wishing you would make sure Mommy and Dadddy got an angel kiss from you. I know they need that today.
Loving you all.
Carolyn Wyman <sythismom@yahoo.com>Belding, mi www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolynwyman - Thursday, October 30, 2008 4:55 PM CDT
God put you on my heart today so I just wanted to take time to sign your guestbook and let you know. Blessings and love to you in Christ.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, September 29, 2008 12:23 AM CDT
Sweet Maddy...
We celebrated your life and remembered you with a trip to your favorite beach (Silver Strand) last Sunday 8/31. It was a family affair, Mommy, Daddy, Ethan, Aunt Sissy, Uncle Mike, Caden, Reagan, Carter, me and Papa. The weather was perfect and so was the ocean water. We found lots clams and silver dollars. We sure wish you could have been there with us, but we know you are with us each day in memory and spirit.
On Monday, we watched videos of you such 'great memories' and we laughed and cried. Our little Moo - such a sassy little girl with attitude. We miss you more than words can say.
You have left behind a thousand moments that will live in our hearts forever. When I look up at the stars tonight, I won't think of them as stars but as Heaven's porchlight and Maddy Moo in the moon.
Loves and Kisses...
Nana
Carol Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Monday, September 8, 2008 6:14 PM CDT
I miss you sweet moo. Going through life just is not the same without you here. I lub you with all my heart.
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 8, 2008 3:11 PM CDT
love to everyone.
jennifer
jennifer <ginski14369@aol.com>
- Friday, September 5, 2008 4:55 PM CDT
My heart still breaks for you!
EVIL Aunty Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA USof Obama - Wednesday, September 3, 2008 1:17 AM CDT
Thinking about you today.Praying for you!
Love Kara
kara maher
corona, ca USA - Sunday, August 31, 2008 11:30 AM CDT
Just a note to say we're thinking of you and always continue to pray for comfort, peace and healing. I'm glad to read that you are doing better.
Hugs and prayer,
Cynthia, Frank & Frankie (DUMC 5205 June 2005)
Cynthia DeMatteis <cynthia@frankiepants.com>
Hamden, CT - Friday, August 29, 2008 9:36 AM CDT
Love you guys and am always thinking of and praying for you. HUGS from NC!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Friday, August 8, 2008 4:10 PM CDT
You guys remain in my prayers. Remember...the ones we lose never really leave us; you can always find them right inside our heart. May God continue to give you strength and comfort.
Martha <marthie@triad.rr.com>
Oak Ridge, NC - Saturday, July 5, 2008 8:58 PM CDT
I just wanted to say that I think of you all daily and pray for you every night. That the Lord might find a way, as only He can, to bring you through this. I know that I don't understand what you feel, what you think, what you went through or what you will go through in the days and years to come. You'll always be in my heart and prayers...
Alison Chapman <poetrygirley76@yahoo.com>
Anchorage, AK USA - Friday, July 4, 2008 10:57 PM CDT
Hey Richelle - I have read this story several times over the years and it is amazing how it fits, isn't it? It is like this person was finally able to put to words what we all feel and the things that run through our minds every minute. I think of you almost every day and check this site just as often. I hope that you, Joe and Ethan are doing well. I did not get your email, but would love to hear from you.
Janet Joiner <janet.joiner@tylertech.com>
Lubbock, TX USA - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 9:07 PM CDT
I was thinking about Maddie this morning!Just wanted to come and see her little face.My prayers for you are an"always".Love you!
XOXO
Kara
kara maher <mrsblondie74@aol.com>
corona, ca 92880 - Friday, June 27, 2008 9:17 AM CDT
thinking of you. Did you all see Charles and Dora while they were n Cali, I am very excited about Sadie and cannot wait to meet her. I pray for you each night and hope that you are finding peace
j sole <ginski14369@aol.com>
- Thursday, June 26, 2008 6:44 PM CDT
You've just been on my mind a lot...I hope you and your family are doing well. Just thought I'd say hello.
Shauna Attwood <jsattwood@verizon.net>
- Tuesday, June 17, 2008 0:35 AM CDT
Glittery texts by bigoo.ws
and praying for you. The list keeps getting longer, doesn't it? Hard to believe that childhood cancer is rare, but it's still one fifth of the rate of the "rare" cancer I have battled. Still, with this new bill now in the Senate, I think it will make people realize that very little funding goes into childhood illnesses.
Loving you!
Carolyn Wyman <sythismom@yahoo.com>
Belding, MI www.youprayforlife.com - Saturday, June 14, 2008 5:31 PM CDT
Just a quick hi while I have been sitting here thinking about Miss Moo. I hope all is well. I'm so sorry I missed you at the walk. Now that I am closer, hopefully I will be there next year. Please send my love to all. Miss you and love you bunches. Come visit me for a little beach get-a-way in SC when you get a chance. Love, Lori
Lori Burton <lori.burton@comcast.net>
Charleston, SC - Friday, June 13, 2008 12:05 AM CDT
Dear Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
Just wanted to let you know that I was checking in on you all. I don't always sign your guest book, but I DO visit. :) Richelle, thanks for signing Parker's page. We think of you guys often, and we keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Melissa, Richard, Parker, and Connor <mich_rissy@juno.com>
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 8:36 PM CDT
Just wanted to pop you a note to say that we continue to keep Queen Maddy in our prayers.
I hope the walk at Duke went well and that you were able to raise a lot of money for such an incredible program.
Hugs to all of you,
Cynthia, Frankie's mommy
cynthia dematteis <cynthia@frankiepants.com>
hamden, ct - Thursday, May 15, 2008 9:53 AM CDT
It’s hard for me to know what to say to my friends who have lost their child(ren), their mother or both. However, I refuse to ignore your pain and lack of words has never stopped me from letting people know how I feel so I will try to offer something to you from my heart. At my church, we have a long standing tradition (for those who wish to participate) of distributing different colors of roses to signify those who have their mothers here, those who do not and those who have lost children. The purpose is to signify that we realize that not everyone is rejoicing on Mother’s Day and to let those who are grieving know that they are being given extra consideration. Additionally, it reminds those who are joyful to be thankful for what they do have. Although you are not going to be in my church service physically, I wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you when we recognize our grieving women. I always keep you in my heart. And during a time when the world can be rather insensitive to those who have lost people in their lives who make Mother’s Day most meaningful, I want to make a special effort to let you know that you are loved and not forgotten. HUGS!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <saawarrior@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, May 10, 2008 8:44 PM CDT
Hi Guys,
We miss you much and have kept you in our thoughts and prayers. Lil Paul keeps asking where Aunt Chelle went!
Well at work today I saw a sign up for the next blood drive and it had a piture of Maddy on it! I couldn't believe it! I told the ASB teacher I needed that sign after the blood drive.
Maddy is still touching so many lives with her story. God bless and see you soon.
Stacie <ziggyizme@yahoo.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Thursday, May 8, 2008 7:53 PM CDT
It was awesome to see you. I love you guys so very much and am sad that I only get to see you once a year. But, that is better than nothing. Please just know that I love you and continue to constantly lift you up in prayer. You all look great. Feel free to call anytime 336 250 9175. Blessings and love in Christ.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, May 8, 2008 12:13 AM CDT
Hey guys,
I know you must be jumping out of your bodies to go back to North Carolina! I hope you have the times of your lives! I miss you bunches:) Lub Trish and Chris
Trish <oasisv@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ - Wednesday, April 23, 2008 7:16 PM CDT
Hi Richelle and family,
Wow, my breath caught in my chest when I saw all the beautiful pictures of Maddie on her site. What a gorgeous little lady. Thank you so much for visiting Jackson's website - it was so nice to hear from you. Jackson has all his special bracelets - including Maddie's - on his backpack and we talk about his friends from Duke often. We miss you and hope you are doing OK. XOXO
Peace and blessings,
D'Anne
D'Anne White <mama@jacksonwhite.com>
Concord, CA USA - Thursday, April 10, 2008 3:59 PM CDT
I hope you guys have fun in N.C. walking for Maddy and all of the little innocent children Duke helps.We love you!
Love,
The Maher's
Kara <MRSBLONDIE74@AOL.COM>
Corona, ca USA - Sunday, March 30, 2008 4:50 PM CDT
thinking of you
Christina <Christinagiddens@yahoo.com>
Boise, ID - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 10:35 PM CDT
Happy Birthday MADDY
^HUGS^
^Angel^ Emily Ann's Daddy <Rainbow of Hope and Cancer Sucks Club Member davidd@comporium.net>
CMC 7 Tower and 5200 Family, RockHill,SC www.caringbridge.org/page/emiann - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 6:40 PM CDT
Dear Richelle,Joey & Ethan,
It has been a long time since I have left you all a note - but you have been in my thoughts and prayers.
Happy Day to Maddy. I am sure that everyday is a happy day for your girl.
Thinking of you and sending prayers your way!
Mary, (Michael's mom) www3.caringbridge.org/nc/mcendarferlehto/ <mary_mcendarfer@hotmail.com>
Asheville, NC - Monday, March 17, 2008 10:53 AM CDT
Happy Birthday. I think you would've been a cool kid who I would've like to meet. Rest easy.
Leah Nelson <scorchingtundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Saturday, March 15, 2008 9:24 PM CDT
A day late for the birthday. Those are tough days for me. I hope you made it through okay.
Nice entry on your journal page. You have anice way with words, Richelle. I always seem to relate.
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
- Friday, March 14, 2008 10:17 AM CDT
Happy 6th Birthday Maddy!
Of course, you called it your Happy Day and each birthday or happy day that goes by is filled with memories of your sweet, beautiful face, feisty little attitude and the love you filled our hearts with. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you, love you, miss you and wish you were here with us. We often wonder what you'd be like today and can only imagine.
We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And the days before that, too.
We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories,
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in His Keeping.
We have you in our hearts.
We love you and miss you Miss Moo with all our hearts!
Nana and Papa
Carol Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Thursday, March 13, 2008 6:40 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maddy!
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!
Stacie Ziegler <ziggyizme@yahoo.com>
San Bernardino, CA 92405 - Thursday, March 13, 2008 2:09 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Beautiful Moo! We all miss you so very much. Rikki, Joe, Ethan... I hope you are having a great Moo Day on the beach.
All my love,
Aunt Shanie
Aunt Shanie <sspencer2268@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 13, 2008 9:59 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET MADDY!!!!! We can only imagine the celebration today in heaven.:) Richelle I hope ya'll can celebrate today and feel the joy of Maddy's too short but wonderful life. Praying for ya'll!!! Your journal entry made me think of this song by Kenny Chesney called "Who you'd be today". Here's the video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaN2o_uOF_I
Sunny days seem to hurt the most.
I wear the pain like a heavy coat.
I feel you everywhere I go.
I see your smile, I see your face,
I hear you laughin' in the rain.
I still can't believe you're gone.
It ain't fair: you died too young,
Like the story that had just begun,
But death tore the pages all away.
God knows how I miss you,
All the hell that I've been through,
Just knowin' no-one could take your place.
An' sometimes I wonder,
Who'd you be today?
Would you see the world? Would you chase your dreams?
Settle down with a family,
I wonder what would you name your babies?
Some days the sky's so blue,
I feel like I can talk to you,
An' I know it might sound crazy.
It ain't fair: you died too young,
Like the story that had just begun,
But death tore the pages all away.
God knows how I miss you,
All the hell that I've been through,
Just knowin' no-one could take your place.
An' sometimes I wonder,
Who you'd be today?
Today, today, today.
Today, today, today.
Sunny days seem to hurt the most.
I wear the pain like a heavy coat.
The only thing that gives me hope,
Is I know I'll see you again some day.
Some day, some day, some day.
I found this poem on another site.
Some days
I want to die
Just to be with you again.
Then I remember life’s beauty
And I live to honor you.
Some days
I wish for one more day with you,
One more moment to hold you, touch you, kiss you.
Then I realize “one more” would never be enough
And I choose to cherish “the ones” I had.
Some days
You invade my every thought.
All I see is your beautiful face, your perfect body
And I long to hold you again…
But instead I must hold onto memories.
Some days
I think of all that could have been
All that should have been, with you here…
And my heart breaks without you –
Then your sibling makes my heart soar.
Some days
I feel such unbearable sorrow
I miss you so –
And I know I’d rather feel that forever
Than to never have known you.
Some days
I see families who have not endured this pain.
I envy their pure, unadulterated joy.
Then I realize your life has made my joys bigger, my will stronger
As I rise above the sorrow of your death.
Some days
I’d give anything to have you here,
To see your precious face and give you all my love.
Then I remember that love
Is all you ever knew.
Some days
I glow with pride as people speak of you
They send you gifts, balloons, notes –
All Heaven-bound
And I smile because you are known to them, part of them, loved by them.
Some days
I am so overjoyed to have your sibling in my life
That for a moment I can’t imagine being happier…
Then I think if you were still here
My joy would be uncontainable.
Some day
Perhaps we’ll all be together again.
My kids will be reunited,
My husband’s spirit will soar
And finally I will feel whole.
Some day
My precious, beloved daughter,
I will dance with you in Heaven
And I will never let you go.
Love,
Amy
Amy <agresham@sbcglobal.net>
TX - Thursday, March 13, 2008 8:59 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Maddy!! You are always close in thought!
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, March 13, 2008 8:12 AM CDT
Happy early Birthday Miss Moo!!! I am writing now because I won't have a chance tomorrow since we will be at your very favorite beach celebrating sweet ole you!!! I miss you so very much and think/talk about you all the time. Caden and Reagan miss you so much, Reagan was just telling me the other night that she wants you to come back from heaven and be with us. Oh how we all want that!!! Come see me in my dreams soon, I LOVE YOU!!! Happy Birthday sweet girl!
Love Aunt Sissy, Uncle Mike, Caden and Reagan.
Rachel <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
Highland, CA - Wednesday, March 12, 2008 5:41 PM CDT
hi guys,
I keep up with you all through Dora and Charles.They are so busy and I have not seen them since the wedding,I hope you are well
I stop by often just to see Maddys beautiful pictures.
take care
love and prayers,
jennifer
jennifer sole <ginski14369@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 11, 2008 6:42 PM CDT
I still pray for you every day. May God bless and comfort you.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Wednesday, March 5, 2008 10:06 PM CST
Richelle,Joey & Ethan
Paul and I are grateful for the opportunity to become close friends with you and your family. Ethan is such a wonderful little boy and little Paul adores him. It's strange that we have lived next door for almost 4 years and only recently have grown close.
I even remember the first time I saw you guys. Right when you came home after Maddy died. I felt such tremendous grief for you. I don't think you know how much we prayed for you and your family. Even my family prayed and continues to pray for you and keep her in their prayer circle.
Thank you for caring so much for my two little boys. Little Paul secretly loves you and Luke well you could take him home and he would be happy. He definately loves you. I hope we an bring some sense of happiness to your life; even if it is just for the few hours we get to hang out. I actually get sad thinking about the someday when you move away.
Richelle, I hope you had a Happy Birthday! Just know that Maddy touched more lives then you realize.
Maddy, Even through the fence talking with you and your Nana and Papa, we realized what a special wonderful little girl you are. I can't wait to meet you again in heaven. Say hi to my grandparents for me!
Love Paul, Stacie, Lil Paul & Luke
Stacie <ziggyizme@yahoo.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Sunday, February 17, 2008 1:30 AM CST
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III)
BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>- Thursday, February 14, 2008 9:59 PM CST
Sorry I have not written in Maddys page in so long.I still get lost for the right words.I just want you and the entire Bates family to know you guys are ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers and we love you all so much!Lets get together soon,its been to long!Love you!
Love Kara
Kara Maher <MRSBLONDIE74@AOL.COM>
corona, ca USA - Thursday, February 7, 2008 5:54 PM CST
Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 1:06 AM CST
Thinking of You and Wishing You Peace, Comfort and Joy this Christmas Day! God Bless!
Love~Hugs~Prayers from S.C.
Darline Rollins <drollins07@yahoo.com>
Kershaw, S.C. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 10:12 PM CST
Richelle, everything you write takes me to my knees. Fighting cancer again, I look at life as in front of me all the time. For you, it's always looking back. I get a small glimpse of what that is like on occasion, but I am free to stop, and you aren't. It just breaks my heart. Maddy's happy, I know, but would that she were here to make the world a better place.
Please know that you are on my mind and in my thougths - and while I wish I had the answers for your pain, I know that it is simply a testimony to your amazing motherhood. The more we love, the more we hurt, and so we can be sure that God hurts most of all. In His time, He will right all the wrongs and avenge those who have passed too soon.
Thank You, Lord.
Belding, MI Triumphant Trimper Trio Territory all home at last! - Sunday, December 23, 2007 2:17 PM CST
Hello Richelle: I continue to pray for you each day. I pray that you will be OK during the holidays -- if that's even possible? Just know that people are praying for you and lifting all of you up in prayer. May God bless you.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Thursday, December 20, 2007 1:11 AM CST
Keeping you in my thoughts during the Holiday season and in my prayer's always.
Brenda MY CHRISTMAS ANGEL <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 0:29 AM CST
I love you guys so much and continue to lift you up in prayer...especially during the holidays. Blessings in Christ as you fight on.
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <saawarrior@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, December 9, 2007 10:14 PM CST
C is for the Christ child, born upon this day
H is for the Hope he gives upon his way
R is for the Risen savior who loves me so much
I is for the Infinite gift of his loving touch
S is for the Sin he lay his life down for
T is for the Trust of my heart's open door
M is for the Master, the ruler of my life
A is for the Altar, where I may lay my strife
S is for the Serenity that he gives to me
Praying for blessed Christmas wishes & the hopeful prayers for a Happy & Healthy New Year to you & yours,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Life is fragile. . .
Handle with prayer.
The Prayer Bears
Barb
- Saturday, December 8, 2007 10:32 AM CST
Richelle,
Just stopping by to visit and I fully understand how the Holidays are...Lane was gone two years on the 10th of November...Mike, passed away on October 8 of this year...what a blow we have taken in the past two years...if it weren't for the Grace of God and all His goodness, none of us could hold up...not only day after day, but minute after minute.
Remembering all of you in prayer.
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh66@hotmail.com>
Hanson, ky - Sunday, December 2, 2007 7:40 PM CST
Richelle,
I read a few websites. And I read words of other parents who have lost children. But your words always seem to reflect exactly how I feel.
I feel so close to you.
Love,
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
stanton, mi - Thursday, November 29, 2007 7:50 AM CST
Praying for you each day.
The Matlock Family
PLAINFIELD, il usa - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 12:01 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you all this week... I hope that your Thanksgiving was a good one! Take care ,and I Will talk to you soon!
Tiffany Hawkins <hawki053@mc.duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Sunday, November 25, 2007 11:46 AM CST
I will praise the name of God with song; I will magnify him with thanksgiving. Psalm 69:30
Praying for a Blessed Thanksgiving for you & yours,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Life is fragile. . .
Handle with prayer.
The Prayer Bears
Barb
- Friday, November 16, 2007 9:15 AM CST
i AM JUST CHECKING IN ON YOU ALL. rICHELLE, dORAS VEIL WAS SO PRETTY AND SHE SAID THE FLOWERS WERE BEAUTIFUL. tHE NC WEDDING CEREMONY WAS SO GREAT. THEY ARE SO HAPPY AND I AM SO HAPPY FOR THEM.
TAKE CARE AND LOTS OF LOVE FROM THE RICHMOND GANG,
JENNIFER
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
- Wednesday, November 7, 2007 11:38 AM CST
I am missing you so much lately. This morning as I put your necklace on I kissed you and this evening when I take it off I will kiss you again. Having a small part of you with me is so special. Stay close to mommy, daddy and brudder they miss you more then anyone can possibly imagine. I ask Jesus every night to help and comfort them. We all love you so much, thankfully we are saved and we know that in Gods time we will all be together again. We all pray for God to work quickly... we are anxious to see you again. Lots of moochies sweet princess. I will see you in my dreams.
Love,
Aunt Sissy
Rachel Maglio <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
Highland, CA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 6:01 PM CST
Hello -- For some reason, I have you on my mind today -- we've never met -- I followed your little girl's story for a long time, and I do check in periodically to see if you've had an update. I think of your little girl and so many others each night when I tuck my kids into bed. How blessed and lucky I am, and it is only by the grace of God, I know that. Your little girl taught me a lot, across many miles and without ever having had the honor of meeting you guys. Thank you for sharing her. She is not forgotten. Her beautiful face and her lessons live on. I pray for you guys each day. I hope you are able to feel some peace sometimes, and to feel that God does have you right there in the palm of His hand always. You'll see your beautiful girl again, and what an amazing joy that will be!! May God bless you in every way.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:11 PM CST
Hi,
Just stopped in from another site..Just want to say your site is a beautiful tribute to your daughter!
Linda Tienda <j.tienda@worldnet.att.net>
- Sunday, October 21, 2007 0:06 AM CDT
Richelle and Joe,
Richelle I saw your last post about wondering if anyone still stopped by - I wanted to let you know I stop by to see her beautiful face, and though I never had a chance to meet Maddy, I think of her often. My heart has been heavy for 2 years, and I still choke up when Joe calls about anything work related so that I can barely speak to him. I find faith in your faith and conviction, and I feel the blessings those of us left here on earth have been given in having you and your family's positive force.
I only wish I could have known Maddy, and could know you better. You are inspirational, and I have a special part of my heart that is saved for you, and Joe and Ethan.
Jennifer Garrett - Crown Consulting <jen@jjgarrett.us>
Washington, DC - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 11:43 AM CDT
Today I received my Blood Drive Posters for the county and guess who's cute little face was looking up at me when I open the envelope. You guessed it, Maddy's. What a nice surprise that was. It's funny because I've been having a lot of dreams about my dad lately and the last one I had we were all camping. My dad was fishing and Angela, Ethan, Caden and Reagan were all playing next to him by the lake and Maddy came running over to join them. It was a GREAT dream. Boy do I miss them. Well seeing her picture made me think of you guys. I hope you had a wonderful weekend. I heard the wedding was beautiful. You guys take care and I will see you soon.
Amy <edwards5228@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Monday, October 15, 2007 3:08 PM CDT
Hi Miss Moo,
I was thinking about you today. What am I saying I think about you everyday. Maddy I know I wasn't there for the last year of your little life, but please know that I truly love you with all my heart. I remember the good old days we had together. Like dancing to "I Like Big Butts and I Can't Lie" from Shrek. You truly are the cutest little girl I know that can do a diaper dance. Sweet baby I miss you more and more everyday. Whoever came up with the saying it gets easier with time, is CRAZY. I can't wait until the day I can dance with you and my daddy, and Jesus. I hope you and Uncle Ron are having a good time. He really is a fun guy, please give him my lubs I miss you guys more then anyone will ever know. Love you Moo see you in my dreams.
Melissa Fry <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 3, 2007 9:23 PM CDT
What a beautiful child! God always needs to have his little angels with him and she is certainly one of them. Although her time on earth was cut short due to her illness, she is now in a much better place where there is no pain.
Brenda McKeever
Blue Ridge, VA - Friday, September 28, 2007 12:47 AM CDT
My niece works at Duke and is in the process of getting her RN. She wanted me to watch this. It breaks my heart to watch. But I think more people need to see to believe its real.
Sherri Dressler <fdres@verizon.net>
Troutville, Va USA - Thursday, September 27, 2007 2:44 PM CDT
Make this a time of special thoughts and remembering the many good memories with Maddy. Ethan, it is time for school to begin again. Best wishes for a great year with lots of new friends. Guy and I get to see Dora at Lennox Baker. She said you are working on the flowers for her wedding. What a wonderful way to keep yourself busy. Say hello to Carol and Greg.
Brenda Johnson <brendajo12@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC - Sunday, September 2, 2007 7:37 PM CDT
Such a blessing she was on all of our lives! The Heavens are just blessed to have such a beautiful blessing!
Jenna and Mark <jamarson1@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, August 31, 2007 9:22 PM CDT
My love is with ALL of you today!
Janie Johnson <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NV - Friday, August 31, 2007 3:35 PM CDT
Thinking of you, today.
Kate
- Friday, August 31, 2007 10:22 AM CDT
sending lots of hugs and prayers your way today
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
mo val, ca usa - Friday, August 31, 2007 10:16 AM CDT
I saw this and thought about you...
WwW.SparkleTags.Com
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
I cannot imagine how hard today is for the three of you, However I will always be here for you all. I am so sorry you all had to go though all of this. I know she is looking down on you all and giving you the strength to get though everyday day that passes. We love you, guys and are so grateful to be able to be a part of your life's. You are wonderful people with big hearts. Luv you guys and I will be praying for you today and everyday to give you strength to get though the days!
Love you,
Sahra, Jason, Michael, David, Jenny, and CJ
Sahra <sddj1998@aol.com>
Highland, Ca - Friday, August 31, 2007 9:58 AM CDT
Just a note to say I'm thinking of your family and your precious Queen Maddy today. She was so lucky to have you as a mom. I can't imagine how hard the past 2 years have been for you. You are in my thoughts.
Cara <cmm0273@hotmail.com>
East Lansing, MI - Friday, August 31, 2007 9:14 AM CDT
Lean not on your own understading. God will get You through this day. Its okay to laugh and cry...try
Lifting you up, cross country style...smile
jw <jadubilu@netscape.net>
- Friday, August 31, 2007 5:44 AM CDT
A Happy 'Belated' Birthday to Joe...I hope you got my message.....my thoughts are with ALL of you these past few weeks....and I know that 'The Day' is approaching...PLEASE know that I love and miss you and think of you ALL of the time.....Someone asked me recently to 'see' photos of my kids and who was to pop out WITH my kids...Ethan and Maddy! Her drawing is still on my fridge...I need one from Ethan! I will try to call! I LOVE & MISS ALL of you!
Janie
Janie Johnson <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 6:55 PM CDT
Sitting with you (silently, as everyone here is sleeping).
Praying for you, and knowing you'll get through. Feeling strong for you.
In Faith,
jw
jean <jadubilu@netscape.net>
- Friday, August 24, 2007 3:16 AM CDT
I was just thinking about you guys and thought I would pop in and say hi. I hope you all are doing well. I know this is a tough month for you and I will keep you in my prayers. Take care!
Amy Edwards <edwards5228@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA - Monday, August 13, 2007 11:53 AM CDT
just stopping by to send my love and caring to you all,I hope that everyone,Brudder too, is doing okay. I hardly ever talk to dora,you know getting ready for the big day,which I cannot attend due to money,that is a sad,touchy situation with me. I hope to get to nc, but that does not look hopeful either, i will just send my love and best wishes and be ever so happy to have dora for a sissy to join my great other sissy in law sarah,I am so lucky to have the worlds best in our family. we love dora to pieces,charles made a great choice and Kyle loves his XMOM so much and we cannot wait for SOLE babies to be running around giving them both a fit.
well enough of that I want to send my love and prayers to you all, as the hardest time comes near, think of you often and pray for you all to have little feets running around too, it all takes time and the body has to adjust..
know you are loved here in richmond,va
peace,god bless you all
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, August 9, 2007 8:25 PM CDT
I was just thinking of Maddy this morning. I was sitting outside by the pool and it was of course windy as it is almost every day in Corona( I don't like the wind either!)We are thinking of you guys lots epically this time of year .I am glad Greg is feeling better.And congratulations on the nine year anniversary. Matt and I just had our eight years in July.
I was sad to see little Noelle relapsed it makes me sad to see another child and family have to live the nightmare of cancer.Its just not fair!I will keep them in my prayers as I have since you introduced them to everyone on Maddy's site.
Payton is off track for the entire month so lets get together soon.
Love Kara
Kara Maher <MrsBlondie74@aol.com>
Corona, CA USA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 2:23 PM CDT
Hello Bates Family,
Richelle, I come to this site everyday to see if you have updated your journal. Our lives are so busy now, but I want you to know that I think about you guys everyday. Please call me if you need to chat about Maddy this month. I know how hard anniversaries can be!!!! I am here all the time to listen, just call.
I love you!
Becky, Randy and Felicity Post
- Tuesday, August 7, 2007 10:29 PM CDT
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
I know that I have not left you a comment, but I do come on here to look at your beautiful little girl's face. I am sorry that I did not have a chance to meet her and to see he wonderful smile. But I love looking at pictures of her and hearing you all tell me stories of her. I will always be here for you all when ever you need me. Me, J and the kids are so thankful that we have you guys in our lifes. I am sure this is a toufgh month for all of you, we will contunie to pray for you and your family. We love you tons..
Sahra <Sddj1998@aol.com>
Highland, Ca USA - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 3:01 PM CDT
I'm finally getting a chance to check in again. I'm sorry it is not often; our list of friends has grown so much that it is difficult to check in on everyone! Congratulations on your wedding anniversary; it is wonderful to hear about such a strong marriage. Please know I continue to keep your family in my prayers.
Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Hollidaysburg, Pa - Saturday, August 4, 2007 6:44 PM CDT
You are always in our thoughts. Thank you for the updates.
Christina <christinagiddens@yahoo.com>
Las Vegas, NV - Saturday, August 4, 2007 2:22 PM CDT
Rochelle,
I am glad to hear that things are ok with you and your family. I continue to admire your strength and dedication to your family. Congrats on nine years of marriage- we just celebrated our 13th, and you are so right when you state how things can tear you apart or make you stronger- this has been so true of life in general!
I think of you OFTEN and hope that God will send you a little surprise to help ease some of the emptiness you feel. I know that NOTHING will replace Maddy, however it wouldn't hurt to give you a little bit of a distraction and somewhere to focus your love while Ethan and Joe are at work and school. YOU ARE SUCH AN AWESOME MOMMY!
I will continue to pray for you all.
Jessica <millerfam94@aim.com>
- Friday, July 27, 2007 12:32 AM CDT
Well it's great to see you back online. I have continued to pray for you guys every single night -- so I was thrilled to see a new update. I hope that the Lord will bless you with peace and with the new baby you're hoping for. You will see your little girlie again -- what a glorious day that will be! Until then, I hope that the pain of losing her will ease up a little for you -- is that even possible? I hope so, with God's help.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 10:43 PM CDT
Still thinking about Maddy and checking the site to see how you are all doing. Maddy was one of the first caringbridge sites I was led to and she has had a profound impact on my life. I'll never forget her or all of you. Your absolute faith in God is so inspiring.
Anna-Lisa Walker
Sault Ste. Marie, ON Canada - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 9:34 PM CDT
So good to "hear" from you. I think there are lots of us who check to see if there's any news. Thanks for the update. You're obviously loved a lot as evidenced by the number of people who have stopped by to say hello. Glad you're having a good summer (as good as it can be). I love stopping by your site so I can see that sweet Maddy. Anytime you're ready, North Carolina would love to have you. It's a great place to live.
Love to all of you,
Martha
Martha <marthie@triad.rr.com>
Oak Ridge, NC - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 4:46 PM CDT
Richelle,
Still checking. I come by often just to see her picture.
I've had a tough summer, too. So many thoughts.
Please know we care so much for you and your whole family.
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Monday, July 23, 2007 7:06 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know that I still check for updates and am glad that you continue to keep us all updated. Still thinking of you guys here in NC.
pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
denver, nc usa - Monday, July 23, 2007 12:05 AM CDT
Thank you for updating. We do still visit--I'm one of those lurkers you accuse yourself of being--and it is good to hear about your family. I think just putting one foot in front of the other is pretty miraculous in your situation, and you're doing more than that. I'm glad you and Ethan have had some fun this summer. I'm proud of Joe for taking care of his family and of both of you for being such wonderful parents and I know there will be another little Bates to love someday. Maddy will always have a special place in many hearts, including mine.
with love,
Alison (and Kate)
Alison Kirk
Nashville, TN United States - Sunday, July 22, 2007 8:22 AM CDT
Praying for you today.
Allison Lairmore <children@foresthills.org>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, July 21, 2007 1:40 PM CDT
Just wanted to thank you for the update! Thinking of you lots! BTW, I love the background - gorgeous girl!
Love,
Gabby
Europe, - Friday, July 20, 2007 3:20 PM CDT
Like many others who sign the guestbook, you don't know me either, but I feel like I've known you and your family for years. I followed Maddy's journey for quite a while and I continue to check her site a couple of times a week. I love to see Maddy's beautiful face. I too grieve for your family. I know time goes by and people move on, but please know that there are so many people who you don't even realize are continuing to pray for you and check in on you often. You have no idea how worried I have been these past 3 months with no update. You will do what your heart tells you is right regarding updating this site. I, for one, hope you continue to do so, but understand if it is too hard for you. Whatever you decide, you will always have 1 KY mother praying for you and thinking of you often. Maddy and her family have touched my heart in a way I can't explain and I will never forget any of you. Take care....
Tina <tmrobertson@fuse.net>
Independence, KY US - Friday, July 20, 2007 8:55 AM CDT
Again, you don't know me and I never knew Maddy, but guess what, I still check on you and love to see you girl's gorgeous face after all this time. I am a Mom too and my heart aches for you in a way I can't explain. It may seem crazy to many, but you and your daughter have touched my life without even knowing. Your baby girl is with you always. She is right there snuggling you. Take care of you and your wonderful family.
Paola Rarick <28bella@comcast.net>
Branford, CT U.S.A. - Thursday, July 19, 2007 7:51 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today, and remembering Maddy!
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 7:52 AM CDT
Hi Richelle, Joe & Ethan....I was just thinking of you today so I thought I would sign into the guest book.
I have started a new job at the OK Corral Camp - a summer camp for children with cancer and other life-threatening illnesses. It is the kind of camp that kids like Maddy would be able to go. I love my job and am so happy to working for such a wonderful organization.
I just brought four kids from Children's Hospital in Denver to the Painted Turtle Camp in Lake Hughes, California. I was thinking of you all as we flew across the state.
I continue to think of you all. Much love from Colorado, from your "best buddy"....Love, Anne
Anne Milmoe <annemilmoe@okcorralcamp.org>
Vail, CO USA - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 1:58 AM CDT
We just dropped by to check on you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Monday, June 18, 2007 1:23 PM CDT
Hi there Princess,
Came across a bunch of pictures of you today, It made me smile but oh how it made me cry. I miss you terribly,there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. The only thing that gets me thru is knowing that we will be together again in Heaven. I long for the day we can all be together again. I love you honey, sending lots of moochies!!!
Aunt Sissy <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
Highland, ca - Friday, June 15, 2007 5:46 PM CDT
always thinking of my friends. xooox
rebekah <thegreateststarr@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 13, 2007 11:51 AM CDT
Just thinking of you all and hoping that things are well.
Many Blessings to you.
Jessica <millerfam94@aim.com>
San Bernardino, ca - Friday, June 1, 2007 7:54 PM CDT
Also letting you know that I'm sending tons of prayer's your way now and always.
BRENDA~**MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Friday, May 25, 2007 9:22 AM CDT
We remember the soldiers who fought for our country.
Thank you to our troops & their families! Happy & Safe Memorial Day to ALL!
Praying for you & yours,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon with new pics of our miracle girl and our Relay.
The Prayer Bears
Prayer Bear Barb
- Tuesday, May 22, 2007 2:59 PM CDT
Just stopped by to look at Maddy's beautiful face.. she makes me smile...
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
mo val, ca usa - Friday, May 18, 2007 1:48 PM CDT
Thinking of you and remembering you in prayer always.
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh66@hotmail.com>
Hanson, KY - Thursday, May 17, 2007 4:08 AM CDT
I wish we could have joined you at the walk this year but we will make it back another time. It sounds like you celebrated Maddy's birthday in a wonderful way. I know she was part of it, smiling and loving her family.
Thinking of you with much love,
Alison and Kate
Alison Kirk
Nashville, TN United States - Wednesday, May 16, 2007 5:55 AM CDT
BRENDA~**MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Sunday, May 13, 2007 8:02 PM CDT
Just stopping by to let you know that we were thinking of you and praying for you while you traveled back to Duke. I'm sure that was not easy for you. I hope that you were able to find some comfort there from being with people who love your little Maddy too. Take good care, and I do hope that you are doing OK.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 4:13 PM CDT
A blessing that your Greg is cancer free. RIP Queen Maddy.
“Love...It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.”
(1 Corinthians 13:7)
A Mother's love is something
that no on can explain,
It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain,
It is endless and unselfish
and enduring come what may
For nothing can destroy it
or take that love away . . .
It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking,
And it never fails or falters
even though the heart is breaking . . .
It believes beyond believing
when the world around condemns,
And it glows with all the beauty
of the rarest, brightest gems . . .
It is far beyond defining,
it defies all explanation,
And it still remains a secret
like the mysteries of creation . . .
A many splendoured miracle
man cannot understand
And another wondrous evidence
of God's tender guiding hand.
~Helen Steiner Rice~
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
The Prayer Bears
Prayer Bear Barb
- Wednesday, May 9, 2007 1:17 PM CDT
Thinking of Maddy today, hope this finds all of you well.
Angie (Asher's aunt)
Sweet Maddy, I hope you and Asher and all your little Angel friends are having a wonderful spring.
Angie Hinkhouse <angela.hinkhouse@gmail.com>
Iowa - Monday, May 7, 2007 11:08 PM CDT
It was so nice to see you at the walk. We love you all and still have heavy hearts. We do have the promise of being with Maddy one day and that is such a comfort. Please take care! We look forward to visiting with you.
Shawn, Cheryl, Kayla and DEREK <sbostic@suddenlink.com>
Ona, WV - Monday, May 7, 2007 5:01 PM CDT
Constantly praying for you. Hope I get to see you tomorrow. Call me 336 250 9175. I love you guys!
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Friday, May 4, 2007 10:11 PM CDT
It's always a blessing to come by to look at Queen Maddy's gorgeous face, knowing that she is doing the Lord's bidding even now. Still rejoicing with you that Greg is cancer-free! God bless you all.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI www.youprayforlife.com - Monday, April 30, 2007 5:07 PM CDT
Hi guys~
I just wanted to stop by and get a Maddy fix. I needed to stop by and see her sweet face again. I miss her more and more as the days, years go by. I hope you guys have a great time back in NC. You will be in my prayers!!
Love
Melissa Fry <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 27, 2007 11:31 PM CDT
Hey Guys-
We are very excited about seeing you at the walk. My mom said that you sent an e-mail and somehow I never got it. The e-mail address on our site is hers. Anyway, I would love to hear from you and we are definitey going to be there. htast@aol.com
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
Wilmington, - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 9:15 PM CDT
Maddy has been added to the Loyal Angel Lambs video
Tanja Theriault <loyallambtanja@msn.com>
Canada - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 8:38 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with Greg and all of your family. I lived across the street from the Bates growing up in Fontana. Spent many a day and evening playing baseball on Toyon Street, or trying to build our "field of dreams" in the empty field across Miller! I have many fond memories of those carefree days. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Tylene Warner (Owens) <t.warner@sbcglobal.net>
Placentia, CA USA - Sunday, April 22, 2007 3:27 PM CDT
BRENDA~**MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Saturday, April 7, 2007 7:25 PM CDT
Thinking about all of you Bates'!
Love ya bunches!
Marian, Mike and Mikey
www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Monday, April 2, 2007 12:55 AM CDT
We just dropped by to check on you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:22 AM CDT
What a gorgeous little girl. My heart goes out to you. Wishing you all the best, I know the grief is a huge burden to bear (my sister recently lost her only child in a car accident).
Chris & Gooch
Share the Love.org <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 6:49 PM CDT
I was going to send an email, but I had hoped there would be something more here about Papa - we have been praying that all would go extremely well. My heart just aches that you have to hear that rotten C word again. God bless you all.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI You Pray for Life - Saturday, March 24, 2007 7:54 PM CDT
Hi Richelle, Sending lots of love and prayers to you and your family today. Praying that all went well with Joe's dad's surgery. May a quick recovery be just around the corner, in Jesus' name! ♥
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 10:19 PM CDT
Jelly beans & Jesus
Have you heard the story of the jelly beans?
Little jelly beans
Tell a story true.
A tale of our Father's love
That's just for me and you.
GREEN is for the new spring grass.
YELLOW is for the sun above.
BROWN is for the soft earth where
People sat hearing of HIS love.
PURPLE'S for the robe he wore
RED is for that precious wine.
BLACK is for the sins He washed
From your soul and mine.
BLUE'S for the sadness of
HIS friends and family,
and is for the glory of the Day
HE rose for you and me.
Now that you've heard the story
You know what each color means.
The story of our Father's love
As told by jelly beans.
So when you see jelly beans on this Easter season,
stop and remember,
Jesus is the reason!
"For God so loved the world, He gave His One and Only Son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life."
John 3:16
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
The Prayer Bears
Prayer Bear Barb
- Thursday, March 22, 2007 7:51 PM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday Angel Maddy. You are always close in thought.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, March 22, 2007 11:29 AM CDT
Happy belated birthday Maddy!!! I'm sure it was grand!!!
Thinking of Mom, Dad, and Ethan too. May God be with you through these difficult times.
With love,
The Kramers
Sarah Kramer <sarah23232@aol.com>
Highland, CA - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 0:41 AM CDT
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viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, March 16, 2007 6:46 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maddy Moo! Please send some extra lubbies down from heaven today for mommy, daddy & brudder ethan.
Lisa McCoy <lmccoy@sw.rr.com>
- Wednesday, March 14, 2007 1:06 AM CDT
Happy Birthday sweet Moo!! I lub you with all my heart. I know your having the best birthday a 5 year old could ask for. I love you sweet Moo, Dance your little heart away. Hugs~N~Moochies,
Missy
Missy <jlsnarr@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 13, 2007 11:57 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Sunshine!!! To the true and beautiful Angel that you are. Give extra hugs and kisses to Mom, Dad & Brother tonight and let them know how happy, healthy, safe and loved you are in Amazing Heaven!! We know one day we will all understand and in the interim continue to send Faith, Love and Hope to your Loved Ones!
Happy B-Day to the Amazing Queenie, you are thought about and prayed for by so many (more than you can fathom)!
Stay strong Mom & Dad and keep that everlasting Faith!
Kate W
- Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:57 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Sweet Angel! Send your family lots of warm hugs and kisses in their dreams tonight!
Janelle Tupy <janelle@integra.net>
Elko, MN - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 8:44 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Miss Moo, today we celebrate all the little joys you graced us with and God's promise that one day we'll be together again so I can watch you party like the little rockstar Queen that you are!
Kim Kreem <KimKreem@aol.com>
Rougemont, NC - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 8:34 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Girly!!! 5 years old!!!!!!! I can't believe it.
Everyone here misses you so much. I hope you give your mom and dad a hard time when they finally come home to you. They deserve it. (HAH!)
I will give it to them now till they get home with you.
xoxooxoxo-
Your friends,
Rebekah, Matt, Jacob & Jareth
bek <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
highland, - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 2:31 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Maddy!Thinking of you Mommy,Daddy and super Ethan lots today.
Richelle I hope you have a wonderful day at the beach in memory of your sweet little girl thinking of all of the good times your family shared with her and all of the cute things Maddy said and did.Keep your eye on the big prize of being reuntied with her.Love you guys!
Kara
Kara Maher <MRSBLONDIE74@AOL.COM>
Corona, CA USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 12:44 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Maddy.
Amy, Pat and Angela <a.edwards@att.net>
San Bernardino, Ca USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 10:34 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Moo,
There is not a day that goes by that we don't think about you, we miss you so much. I know you are having a grand party in Heaven today. Look for the balloons, I'll be sending some today.
All our love,
Aunt Sissy, Uncle Mike, Caden and Reagan
Rachel Maglio <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:52 AM CDT
The Four Leaf Clover
A four leaf clover...
A treasure...priceless and rare,
Like my child in Heaven above...
Now in God's tender loving care.
Each leaf...a meaning....a part of my grief
One leaf for strength...one for memories so dear...
One leaf for peace...and one for my faith in God above...
Each represents a part of my life..
My child in heaven...forever missed and forever loved.
The first leaf on the clover....
Stands for strength....to make it through the day....
From morning to night....darkness to light...
With Gods help each step of the way.
The second leaf on the clover....
Stands for peace...that only God can bring...
A Peace that restores my mourning heart...
Smooths the edges of the pain...
and help me learn to begin to live again.
The third leaf on the clover...
Stands for Memories...that I will always hold dear...
Their spirit will shine on in the memories left behind...
Although time may pass...they will never disappear.
The fourth leaf on the clover...
Stands for my faith in God above....
Believing with all my heart in what I cannot see...
Knowing we will meet again...
By the golden gates....in Heaven above.
Until then I'll keep my memories...
Tucked deep inside with love...
Along with my 4 leaf clover...
My treasures from Heaven above.
A Clover? A Treasure?
Blessings from above?
Strength, peace, memories, and faith
All sent from Heaven....with Gods everlasting love.
**~
BRENDA~**MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>****Edmonton~Alberta~Canada****, - Monday, March 12, 2007 11:19 PM CDT
Thinking of you and praying always that God gives the Peace that only He can...
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh@vci.net>
Hanson, KY - Monday, March 12, 2007 4:45 AM CDT
Praying for God's comfort and that your hearts will be full of good memories. We love you.
Teri and Rick Bates <tbates53@verizon.net>
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:46 PM CST
Special thoughts for all of you this weekend. Remember the special moments.
Brenda Johnson <brendajo12@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 5:46 PM CST
Miss you guys. We're thinking of you and we know that this next week will undoubtedly be tough. Can't wait til we're in heaven with our babies on ALL of their birthdays!
Love and hugs,
Marian, Mike and Mikey
www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 10:21 PM CST
May the road rise up
to meet you
may the wind be
always at your back
May the sun shine warm
on your face
And the rain fall soft
upon your fields
And until we meet again,
May God hold you
in the palm of his hand.
—an old Irish Blessing
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Prayer Bear Barb
- Monday, February 26, 2007 1:29 PM CST
Praying you through this day; thinking of you every day, but sending special prayers today. HUG across the miles.
jean wren <jadubilu@netscape.net>
We love the look of the site, meant to tell you sooner. God Bless you! - Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:41 AM CST
Just seeing Maddy's sweet smile on this site has a calming effect on me. She looks so serene, as if she has all the answers now. The Kirks are just trying to get through the winter cold season without anyone else being in the hospital. There is sun today, and mild temperatures, and Caroline and Kate are both well so we are blessed. We are thinking of your family, as always.
With love,
Alison (and Kate)
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Nashville, TN United States - Friday, February 23, 2007 3:06 PM CST
It's been a long time since I've been on here....but compelled to stop by tonight, needing some comfort...insipiration...something. Beautiful as ever that girl is!!
Jess <jessica.gaither@duke.edu>
Edgewater, FL - Saturday, February 17, 2007 10:33 PM CST
Valentines…to Heaven
This Valentine is not of the ordinary kind,
Its still filled with love...and blessings inside;
But mine has to be sent on the wings of love...
You see its destination is the Heavens above.
It’s not being sent to my parents so dear,
For they are still with me each day of the year;
It’s being sent to my child..., who left earth so soon,
Who's now in the Heavens with the stars and the moon.
The message is the same as your valentine,
"I love you...my sweet precious child of mine;
My love is still deeper than the ocean is blue,
And it’s sent with hugs and kisses...from me to you."
"I know you are with me each and every day,
You listen as I talk to you...and hear what I say;
For that is one thing that disease cannot do...
...you'll always be apart of me...and me a part of you."
"I know you are in the best of care,
But it's so hard for us left on earth to bear;
Could you put in a request from us left behind...?
For God to send the knowledge…so a cure we can find."
"So that no other family has to go through this pain,
Our lives without you will never be the same;
When I get lonely I will look to the sky at night...
And see you shining down your big bright light."
"Happy Valentines day sunshine...I miss you so much,
I know you know how many lives you have touched;
You'll always be mine...I love you with all my heart,
I know we be together again...and then we'll never part."
So you see the meaning is still the same...
The method of delivery is the only change;
Mine must be sent by a little white dove...
On the wings of Love.
Author Unknown
Colleeen Conaty
Glenolden, Pa U.S.a. - Friday, February 16, 2007 6:30 PM CST
I feel bad that I haven't been by your page in awhile.Lots going on here.But that does not mean that I don't think of you for I always do.I do stop by your page to see and read the updates just haven't had time to sign your guestbook.
**~
BRENDA~**MY LOVING DAD'S SITE WITH A NEW YEAR ANOTHER ANGEL <brurka@shaw.ca>****Edmonton~Alberta~Canada****, - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 11:42 PM CST
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III)
BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>- Tuesday, February 13, 2007 7:00 PM CST
“Love...It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.”
(1 Corinthians 13:7)
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Prayer Bear Barb
- Tuesday, February 13, 2007 2:46 PM CST
Just thinking of you today, and praying for you all. Maddy is so beautiful....what a sweetie pie!
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 5:12 PM CST
Valentines...... To Heaven
This Valentine is not of the ordinary kind,
Its still filled with love...and blessings inside;
But mine has to be sent on the wings of love...
You see its destination is the Heavens above.
Its not being sent to my parents so dear,
For they are still with me each day of the year;
Its being sent to my child...who left earth so soon,
Who's now in the Heavens with the stars and the moon.
The message is the same as your valentine,
"I love you...my sweet precious child of mine;
My love is still deeper than the ocean is blue,
And its sent with hugs and kisses...from me to you."
"I know you are with me each and every day,
You listen as I talk to you...and hear what I say;
For that is one thing that disease cannot do...
...you'll always be apart of me...and me a part of you."
"I know God did not give you the awful disease,
Thank Him for His comfort He gives me...would you please?
I dont know what I would do without His undying love...
Sent to bereaved parents from the Heavens above."
"I know you are in the best of care,
But it's so hard for us left on earth to bear;
Could you put in a request from us left behind...
For God to send the knowledge..so a cure we can find."
"So that no other family has to go through this pain,
Our lives without you will never be the same;
When I get lonely I will look to the sky at night...
And see you shining down your big bright light."
"Happy Valentines day sunshine...I miss you so much,
I know you know how many lives you have touched;
You'll always be mine...I love you with all my heart,
I know we be together again...and then we'll never part."
So you see the meaning is still the same...
The method of delivery is the only change;
Mine must be sent by a little white dove...
On the wings of Love.
Author~ Laura/Heavenly Lights Childrens Memorial
Love~ Claire (MOMMY to LAKEN in HEAVEN)
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 10:08 AM CST
Creative Spiritz
Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
- Saturday, February 3, 2007 10:21 PM CST
Missing Moo, Missing you.........give Greg my love, and let him know he's in my prayers.
Lub you lots!
Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
Rougemont, NC - Thursday, February 1, 2007 9:54 PM CST
Thinking about you guys and keeping you in my prayers. I will call when I get a second and when I think you aren't too busy. Please send my love to all!! Love you and miss you! Love, Lori
Lori Burton <lori.burton@comcast.net>
Washington, DC - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 5:05 AM CST
**~LOVE BRENDA~**MY LOVING DAD'S SITE WITH A NEW YEAR ANOTHER ANGEL <brurka@shaw.ca>
****Edmonton~Alberta~Canada****, - Monday, January 29, 2007 12:32 AM CST
I love you very much and continue to lift you up in prayers. I will add your father-in-law to that list. Blessings to you in Christ. I'll check back in on you soon.
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, January 29, 2007 6:55 AM CST
Carol, Joe, Richelle, Ethan, Rachel, Mike, Caden, and Reagan - all of you are on my heart as I pray for Greg's complete health, in Jesus' name.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI You Pray for Life - Sunday, January 28, 2007 2:51 PM CST
Just stopping by to let you know I check on maddy everyday. I love to see her beautiful face,so innocent and loving, I hope you all are well. Take care and know you are loved by many people.
jennifer <ginski14369@aol.com>
- Friday, January 26, 2007 5:41 AM CST
Just thinking of your family today and hoping that everyone is doing well!
Janelle Tupy <janelle@integra.net>
Elko, mn - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 6:34 PM CST
Totally agree with Carolyn and was just having that conversation with someone today in my room on the unit. I know the pain is still much deeper than I can even begin to imagine and that faith does not change that hurt. I am also very thankful that you guys cling to a Lord and Savior who knows exactly how you feel and can hold you and minister to you in a way no one else can. I haven't signed for a while, but wanted you to know I'm thinking of and praying for you and will continue to.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 5:42 PM CST
I just plain don't know how people who don't believe in God get through life. Knowing that the Queen is enjoying heaven is what helps me look at her sweet face on this site each time I come by. I simply couldn't stand it otherwise.
Praying that the joy of the Lord is your strength today and every day. Love you!
Carolyn Wyman <re_born@sbcglobal.net>
Belding, MI - Saturday, January 20, 2007 7:46 PM CST
Just thinking of you here in freezing North Carolina. Hope today's a good day!!!
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
Wilmington, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 2:30 PM CST
Thinking of you today and hoping that Angel Maddy sneaks up on you and makes you smile.
With love,
Alison and Kate
Alison Kirk
Nashville, TN - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 5:44 AM CST
To My Dear Friends
I was thinking of you all. I wanted you to know that I have not forgotten and I will never. I miss you all so much. The holiday's was hard on me and as much as I try not to allow my heart to break, it does. I dont know how long or when. May be I will just have to heart until Jesus comes. I do try, I dont know if you know olivia, she passed in Dec. That made it harder for me. Just keep me in your prayers and I hope this summer we will be able to get together when you all come back to Duke. I love you and know that I am praying for you. V
viesta King <viestaking@yahoo.com / nc frannie>
- Monday, January 15, 2007 6:49 PM CST
Thinking of you...hope today is a good day.
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
Wilmington, NC - Monday, January 8, 2007 7:23 PM CST
HI MOO!!
I CHECK YOUR WEBSITE EVERYDAY JUST TO LOOK AT YOUR BEAUTIFUL FACE. I MISS YOU SO MUCH BABY GIRL!! SENDING YOU BIG HUGS AND KISSES!!! LOVE YOU SWEETIE!! I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL THE DAY I CAN HOLD YOU IN MY ARMS AGAIN!!! MUAH!!
LOVE ALWAYS,
MISSY
MISSY <jlsnarr@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 5, 2007 3:28 PM CST
Love to you Richelle, Joey and Ethan. We are so glad to be a part of your lives. Love love love.
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, ca - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:08 AM CST
Just missing Moo today...more than usual.
Marian
www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:28 PM CST
Joey and Richelle,
First let me start by saying it was great seeing you guys the other night.Matt and I had so much fun with you Mike and Rachel.You are family to us.I thought of your entire family many times during Christmas day and said many prayers.
We love you and are always here for you all you have to do is call.I love the new web page its beautiful and girlie just like Miss Maddys adorable sweet face.Always know that there are so many people all over that love and pray for your family.
Love Kara
Kara Maher <MRSBLONDIE74@AOL.COM>
Corona, CA USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 0:34 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know that you and Maddy are in my heart and on my mind. It hurts everyday and I have to hope and believe God can heal this wound like he does all others. Thank you for being so good to me, talk to you soon!
Lub you lots!
Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 3, 2007 12:06 AM CST
Maddy...
Sure missed you at Christmas again this year. Papa and I talk about you daily. Though our grief is hidden from all, it is there in our hearts every minute of every day and even though we know you are with our Lord Jesus, we greatly miss you. We enjoyed the videos mommie put on to watch. It was bittersweet - so good to see that beautiful little face with your spunky little attitude, as you sang and danced and acted silly...so very cute! But at the same time, our hearts hurt because we miss you so very much.
Great Nana and Papa came for the holidays this year and cousin Lisa, Garrett and the twins were there along with cousin Gary Michael, Amber and the boys. We took a picture of Great Nana and Papa with most of their great grandchildren and Ethan was so proud to hold your picture in front of him - he misses you too!
Not a day goes by that Papa and I don't talk about you (and to you) and look at your pictures - love you and miss you. About 4:30 this morning I looked out my window to see a HUGE beautiful full moon - your favorite celestial creation and I spoke your name. We are reminded of your love of the moon each time we see it.
Yesterday Papa and I watched the End of the Spear - a wonderful movie about the missionaries to the Auca Indians and how they lost their young lives reaching out to the Auca's but in doing so, brought the salvation of Christ to the whole tribe. God had a plan for them as He had a plan for you and all of us - and though we don't understand His plan, it too will have a significant ending that we'll see and understand when we meet you in paradise. We love and miss you.
Nana and Papa Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 2:22 PM CST
I so wish there was a way to magically stop the hurt. Instead, all I can do is say I'm sorry for your pain and will pray for you. There are no words of comfort that really do that. . . "comfort". Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Renee
www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.com>
- Tuesday, January 2, 2007 1:57 PM CST
Praying for you today and every day.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Monday, January 1, 2007 1:25 PM CST
((((((( Richelle )))))))
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 0:18 AM CST
My heart breaks for you, my dear Richelle. I look at Maddy's pictures and think how we never in a million years expected it to end this way. As Jane said, there must be purpose to this great pain. There has to be.
Blessing you with comfort beyond understanding, sweetie. Loving you!
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), mi - Sunday, December 31, 2006 8:45 PM CST
Richelle...Just checking in....Your family and especially Maddy are always in my mind.....
Lori Lee, www.caringbridge.org/nc/folden <loriklee@aol.com>
Princeton, NC - Sunday, December 31, 2006 11:39 AM CST
I'm so sorry....
Kasey Gunde <Topgund@aol.com>
Mount Holly, NC US - Sunday, December 31, 2006 0:59 AM CST
Praying for you. You are loved. Be back soon.
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, December 30, 2006 4:50 PM CST
I came to your site through another and have just read your entire journal. My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine your pain. What a beautiful child your Queen Maddie is. Try to hold on to the fact that you will see her again in Gods time. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
with much love.
angela <anji@comcast.net>
brighton, mi usa - Saturday, December 30, 2006 3:27 PM CST
Hold on, Richelle.
If only we could turn back the clock.
I wish you lived in Michigan. I think we would be very good friends. I also think we could have some long chats.
God must have some big plans for all of us. This great pain can't be without purpose.
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Friday, December 29, 2006 2:54 PM CST
I know how you hurt.. I feel your pain.. Lifting you in prayer today, and into the New Year.. Sweet Maddy is so happy and healthy, and proud of her precious family! Hoping for a blessed, happy, healthy New Year!
A New Year With The Lord
A new year is about to unfold
With new opportunities to explore
Doors will open for new experiences
New adventures with the Lord
Remember not the former things
The things of this past year
The Lord will do new things in us
Much more than we are aware
For He will make a way for us
As we put our trust in Him
And He will guide our every step
By His presence we have within
What God has placed within our hearts
We find we’ll be able to do
If we look for the opportunities
We’ll see the door to go through
We mustn’t let anything hold us back
But rise up and take our place
And be all that God wants us to be
With a fresh touch of His grace
By M.S.Lowndes
Love & Prayers~ Claire, ^Laken^ and Family
http://www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
Claire K Roy <caffemcoha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Friday, December 29, 2006 2:13 PM CST
Praying that the hurt will subside. I check on you everyday and you are always in my thoughts and prayers...
Toni Finnegan <toni310@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ - Friday, December 29, 2006 7:27 AM CST
Praying your heart feels full in knowing your Queenie
is at an amazing place, she's so healthy, she's so happy and she's sending hugs and kisses to you every minute of every day without you even realizing it. I am so praying your 2007 is an amazing year! You deserve the best! Keep your everlasting Faith!!
Kate
Mpls, MN - Thursday, December 28, 2006 9:42 PM CST
Hi Richelle, Thinking of you all, and praying hard. I know the holidays have to be so hard for you...I do believe Maddy is looking down on you tonight, and smiling. I'm praying for that.
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 9:56 PM CST
http://www.hallmark.com/ECardWeb/ECV.jsp?a=3693222183241M162299923Y&product_id=
Mark Jones <mark@truehopecf.org>
- Monday, December 25, 2006 4:41 AM CST
Merry Christmas and a healthy New Year to the Bates family!
God Bless,
Samantha and Emma
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, Ca - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:55 PM CST
The Stockings Were Hung:
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care
But one special stocking was no longer there
All that was left were the memories bittersweet
Of a life that had ended so incomplete
The family had pictures all gathered around
That sometimes made all of them tear up and frown
For the sorrow and sadness without their sweet child
Made it difficult for the whole family to smile
Although there were times when they felt him(her) so close
As if they were feeling some kind of a ghost
The signs that were sent were so special and clear
That they felt that he(she) truly was so very near
They often would talk to him(her) as if he(she) was there
Sometimes they would smile but also shed tears
For each Christmas that came brought with it such pain
That they felt in their hearts would always remain
Then one special moment on one special day
He(She) came to them and simply took them away
To fly through the heavens and up to the stars
A beautiful place that was not very far
He(She) showed them where they would all join once again
A place full of beauty no sorrow or pain
A place where he(she) is happy with heavenly friends
A place where we too will also ascend
After their amazing visit was through
This family was no longer terribly blue
For they finally realized one day not to far
They would all be together on a heavenly star
LOVE BRENDAMY CHRISTMAS ANGEL <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Sunday, December 24, 2006 3:53 AM CST
She is SO BEAUTIFUL!! I just love to gaze at the photos and remember her in so many of those poses. My heart is with ALL of you at this time. I miss you!
Love,
Janie
Janie Johnson <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 8:41 PM CST
Just wanted to Wish you a merry christmas and the very best in 2007, We just had our christmas with Dora,Charles and Kyle, They will be in cali tomorrow and Dora cannot wait to see you all, Continue to heal and grow stronger each day, Like I always say the brightest star is Maddy smiling down on us.
Lots of love and Prayers,
JENNIFER <Ginski14369@aol.com>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 8:32 PM CST
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear,
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here,
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card,
A card of love for my parents, as this day for them is hard,
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you can imagine,
except I could not find a card, from a child that lives in heaven,
they are still a parent too, no matter where I reside,
I had to leave, they understand, but oh the tears they cried,
I thought that if I wrote to you, that you would come to know,
that though I live in heaven now, I still love my parents so,
they talk with me, and dreams with me, we still share laughter too,
memories are our way of speaking now, would you see what you can do?
my parents carry me in their heart, their tears they hide from sight,
they plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells,
they writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease there pain as well,
so you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth,
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth,
they need to be honored, and be remembered too,
just as the children of the earth will do,
thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you will do your best,
find a way to tell them, how much they mean to me,
until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.
I know Christmas must be so hard for you although I can't comprehend how difficult it must be.
All my love,
Viks
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 11:00 AM CST
My thoughts are with you over the holidays.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, December 22, 2006 10:47 AM CST
I like the new pictures and all the changes you made on Maddy's front page...everything looks so cute. I sure miss that sweet face! I know what you mean by wishing you could just hold them again...sometimes I just pray for a dream where I'm holding Madi, and when they come, I don't want to wake up!
Thank you guys so much for all of your help with our big move last weekend! I can't tell you enough how much we appreciate you being here and how much your friendship means to us. We really enjoyed getting to spend some time with you and we look forward to our new Friday night get-togethers. The house is coming together...slowly but surely, so we might be ready to begin our new tradition in a couple of weeks.
Love you bunches!!!
Marian, Mike and Mikey
www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Monday, December 18, 2006 1:48 PM CST
It's so strange to me to think that I never really met Maddy. It seems like I held her, kissed her, and miss her as though she were my grandchild. I feel so much pain for you, Richelle.
God bless you as you prepare for another Christmas with Maddy being in heaven. I'm praying for you all.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI - Sunday, December 17, 2006 4:31 PM CST
We miss you more than you can know. Papa and I love you and wish you were here with all of us. We'll see you again in paradise.
Nana and Papa Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 6:35 PM CST
Richelle,
I think of your adorable Maddy all the time. I can't imagine the agony you feel. Just know you are in my thoughts. I'm sure your queen is giggling, playing and waiting to be reunited with you.
Cara <cmm0273@hotmail.com>
East Lansing, MI - Thursday, December 14, 2006 9:33 AM CST
Sending you hugs during the holidays.
Love,
The Fritsch Family
Melissa, Richard, PARKER, and Connor <mich_rissy@juno.com>
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 12:48 AM CST
Hey there little miss moo... I havent been by to say hi but Ive been thinking of you everyday. and missing you even more; you are in my heart and prayers all the time. I miss you and lubb you so very much.
violet <violet.pinkstarz@hotmail.com>
yucaipa, ca - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:24 PM CST
Hello, My friend Mark Jones, wrote in his Caringbridge journal, that he would appreciate it if his friends would touch base with some of his friends here....so Im letting you know, you are in my prayers...today and always. God Bless You
kathy donovan <donovank@up.net>
iron mountain, mi usa - Saturday, December 9, 2006 8:38 PM CST
Richelle,
I have no words of comfort for your pain. I can only hold you and your family in my heart and prayers during this Holiday season.
Renee
www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.com>
- Saturday, December 9, 2006 10:10 AM CST
Praying for you during this time of the year. Maddy seemed to be such a blessing and I am sure her memories still are. God Bless...
Mark Jones <mark@truehopecf.org>
Canton, OH - Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:26 AM CST
Praying so hard for your peace, comfort and blessings to be bestowed upon you and your family.
It has to be so hard to understand the WHY's with which you are living with. Your Faith is amazing. Please take SOME confort in knowing how many prayers are being said for you and your Queeny and how much comforting energy is being sent your way! It is so amazing to know that life that extends far beyond the one we are currently living here on earth. You will most definitly be united with your Maddy again one day, continue to keep your ever strong Faith!
Katie
Mpls, - Friday, December 8, 2006 10:38 PM CST
Moo!!
I lub you so much!! You truly are the sweetest little angel anyone could ever ask for. My sweet moo I miss you soooooo much. I miss painting your toesies and finger nails. I hope you are having fun on maddy's beach. I hope you have a blast celebrating Jesus's birthday with him.
Life will never be the same without baby girl. Till we meet again i lub you sending you hugs and moochies always!!!!!MUAH!
PS~ Tell my daddy I said Hi, I wish I was with you both so much!!!
Love you
missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 8, 2006 8:02 PM CST
Richelle,Joe and Brudder,
Ricki I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time. I truly wish I had the right words to comfort you . I know that god is with you right along side Maddy. I know that doesn't take the pain away though. Please know that we love you guys and pray for you all the time. I hope you have the best holiday and new year you can have.
Missy
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 8, 2006 7:55 PM CST
Joe, Richelle and Ethan,
Thinking of you today. I sent you an e-mail. I hope you get it. Praying as always for you and your family.
Love,
Angie and Angel AJ
Angie Haynes <a1hardhead@aol.com>
Summerville, SC - Friday, December 8, 2006 7:23 PM CST
My dearest Moo,
I spent most of yesterday evening in tears, they just wouldn't stop. I am missing you so much!! The grieving for you is non stop. I pray every day for mommy, daddy and brudder they miss you so much, they ache for you. As christmas gets closer it gets harder and harder, we miss having you with us. You are so loved!!! Hugs and kisses our little Queen!!
All our love,
Aunt Gikky, Uncle Kike, Caden and Reagan
We will love you until the day after forever!!!
Rachel <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Friday, December 8, 2006 4:18 PM CST
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
You are in our thoughts and prayers always but especially this time of year we are praying for happy memories of Maddy.
Love Teri and Rick
Teri and Rick Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 9:06 PM CST
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
I met you at the Rainbow Of Heros Walk and I just wanted you to know that I check in on you guys everyday. I hope that you find peace this holiday season. Maddy's pictures are beautiful and you continue to be an inspiration to me. You are such great parents and you never lost sight of what was truely important...YOUR CHILDREN. I am sure Maddy is looking down on you and smiling, knowing that even in heaven, her mommy, daddy and brother love her and miss her more than words could ever express. Remember..Maddy is always with you as long as you continue to carry her in you hearts.
Love,
Colleen Conaty
www.caringbridge.org/visit/amandaconatymoser
Colleen Conaty <amandasheart@gmail.com>
Glenolden, Pa U.S.A. - Saturday, December 2, 2006 10:58 PM CST
Dear Richelle and Joey,
What a beautiful new page. What wonderful pictures for so many wonderful and sad memories. Your in our prayers at such a difficult time of year. We love you always!
Lee and Laureen
Laureen <landlhurley@hotmail.com>
Redlands, CA USA - Saturday, December 2, 2006 11:13 AM CST
Richelle and Joe...
I have been thinking of you all lately! I hope all is well. I know it must be hard for you during this time..But know that you all are being prayed for. Hope all is well.
Nadia <kanena3@yahoo.com>
durham, nc usa - Saturday, December 2, 2006 10:26 AM CST
Although you don't know me I check in on you often. Maddy is one of my favorite children simply because of her determination (and besides the fact that she's stunningly BEAUTIFUL). I'm sorry that the holidays are hard for you but just remember how awesome they are for her!!!! Can you just imagine celebrating Jesus' birthday with Jesus himself?? WOW! I know she also checks in on you and probably doesn't understand why mommy and daddy and Ethan are all sad because she's got every thing she's ever wanted. Try to smile for her some...she'll love it. I know you miss her-actually I do too even though I know it's not the same. I'll keep you guys in my prayers always and will continue to check in on you. God will bless you with what you need-always although it's hard to see/remember sometimes.
On a lighter note, the website is terrific! And Maddy is definitely an angel-both on earth and in heaven. God bless you all and have a very Merry Christmas knowing she is in a perfect place.
Love and Prayers from Joiner Country (Texas)
Lubbock, TX USA - Friday, December 1, 2006 11:20 AM CST
the page looks beautiful!
jess <jessica.gaither@duke.edu>
edgewater, fl usa - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 9:29 PM CST
I love you guys so much. I get tears in my eyes when going to stores this time of year thinking of all my friends who are gone and those who have lost kids. I can't imagine the pain for those of you actually going through it. I HUG my nephew so tight when I think about all the kids his age who are no longer here...I SO wish it didn't have to be this way. I will be glad when that BIG reunion in Heaven comes around. Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers more this time of year. I love you so much! Keep trying to hold on to Jesus like you have. Blessings as you take one step at a time.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 3:38 PM CST
Love the new background. Think about you all often, can't wait to see everyone at Christmas
Amber & Gary Giddens
- Saturday, November 25, 2006 0:26 AM CST
THought I would put this background in the guestbook of beautiful Maddy.Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
Happy Thanksgiving.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Friday, November 24, 2006 2:03 PM CST
The new page is absolutely beautiful!
Thinking of you and lifting you up.
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Thursday, November 23, 2006 11:59 PM CST
Love the new page!! Beautiful. All the best.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, November 23, 2006 12:50 AM CST
your page is absolutely beautiful....praying for you
alyssa family of (www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys) <sabiemc@aol.com>
sacramento, ca usa - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 10:24 PM CST
Queen Maddy - Your new page is beautiful-just like you!
Thinking and praying for you and your family. You have become so special to so many people in your short little life (even people you never met!). Continue to look down and give an extra boost of Love & Hugs to Mom, Dad and Brother. They know you are so lucky to be in such an amazing place but I'm sure they miss you more than words can express! Love and prayers to you precious little Angel.
Katie
Minneapolis, - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 8:44 PM CST
What a great new page,she is absolutely beautiful. what a true angel God bless and Happy turkey day.
jennifer <Ginski14369@aol.com>
- Wednesday, November 22, 2006 7:55 PM CST
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III)
BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>- Wednesday, November 22, 2006 3:45 PM CST
HOPE YOU LIKE THE NEW PAGE I MADE FOR YOU.KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 1:56 AM CST
Thinking of you and wishing you blessings at Thanksgiving...
Love from Alison and Kate
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Nashville, TN - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 10:45 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving to the Bates family!
Thinking and praying for you all during the holidays.
God Bless,
Samantha,Emma and family
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, Ca - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 7:20 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.....
love and prayers from va,
jennifer <ginski14369@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 19, 2006 5:56 PM CST
you looked GREAT today. it was SO nice to see you. xoxoox
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
san bernardino, ca - Friday, November 17, 2006 2:58 PM CST
Hi Richelle! I've been thinking about you...I hope that you are doing well. I have been meaning to tell you that I am no longer working full time, so if you ever want to meet up for lunch let me know. We can meet in the middle, or I can come closer your way. My number is 909-445-0616. God Bless!!
Shauna Attwood <jsattwood@verizon.net>
Claremont, CA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 3:04 PM CST
You're still in my thoughts & prayers,
Lisa Tatem @ caringbridge.org/va/tatem
Yorktown, VA - Saturday, November 11, 2006 2:56 PM CST
Hello,
I just wanted you to know that I am praying for you, and to tell you that your Maddy has been an inspiration to me.
God Bless
mandy haney <Hny08Soccer@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 10, 2006 4:07 PM CST
Dear Richelle, Thanks for posting that letter. I think it is really good and helps to put in words what I have felt. No one can really understand what it is like to lose a child unless they have, but you would not want them to so that they can understand. There are two things that losing Micah has done for me. One is that I don't love the things of this world as much as I use to and two, I look forward to heaven more than ever. May God continue to pour out His grace and mercy on you and your family. Love, Laura (http://www3.caringbridge.org/nc/micah78/
Laura Leake <malachi46@highstream.net>
Staley, NC - Thursday, November 9, 2006 9:41 AM CST
Thinking of my friends. I miss you guys.
becka <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
- Wednesday, November 8, 2006 5:57 PM CST
Dear Richelle and Joey,
I just wanted you both to know Maddy will never be forgotten. She is in our hearts and minds forever! We pray daily for you. We love you and think of Maddy often! She made life here special to everyone who met her and those who never did. She was very special and moved the hearts of many. We love you! What a glorious day it will be when you are reunited with her. Thank you Jesus!
Because of Him,
Laureen
Laureen Hurley <landlhurley@hotmail.com>
Redlands, CA USA - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 8:34 AM CST
Hi Richelle,
I'm a 'lurker' who's never posted before. I just want you to know I think of you and your precious Queen Maddy often. She is absolutely beautiful. She taught me to hug my kids tighter and don't sweat the small stuff. Wishing your heart peace and comfort.
Cara <cmm0273@hotmail.com>
East Lansing, MI US - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 12:08 AM CST
Joey and Richelle,
We watched Cinderella on Saturday night
all my thoughts where with Maddy
you and Super Ethan .I send nightly
prayers for you and our solider's up to our Father.
We love you and think of you so often.....
How sweet the day will be when
you are reunited with Maddie.
We are here for anything you need!
Matt,Kara and the girls
Kara Maher <MRSBLONDIE74@AOL.COM>
Corona, CA USA BABY - Monday, November 6, 2006 9:26 PM CST
I just wanted to stop by to let you know I continuing to pray for you.
For Parent Support:
www.asherandjacobsfriends.com
Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews, Asher and ^Jacob^: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Hollidaysburg, Pa - Thursday, November 2, 2006 4:47 PM CST
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III)
BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 3:25 AM CST
KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 0:31 AM CST
Praying for you every day.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Sunday, October 29, 2006 10:51 PM CST
Oh Richille,
The writing that you have chosen is just wonderful...how accurate it describes us that are now without one of our children...I would love to use this on Lane's webpage as well...not to try to get pity for our loss...but to let those that have not gone through this suffering know just how blessed they really are.
Thinking about you and praying always for you and your entire family...
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh@vci.net>
Hanson, KY - Saturday, October 28, 2006 5:43 AM CDT
Lacking something worthy of that wonderful writing (and Nina's, too), I simply didn't post. But sweet Richelle, I'm praying. Praying and praying and praying. God bless.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI - Thursday, October 26, 2006 11:12 PM CDT
Richelle, thank you for posting "The Gap." While our gap isn't the same as yours, we've lost friends since Brae has been sick. The people I work with don't understand illness, and when I try to talk about it, they get uncomfortable, and change the subject, or somehow minimize it. While I don't know the extreme loss you have experienced through the loss of your beautiful Maddy, I do understand the gap. May God close that gap, and bring understanding to those who will receive it.
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Wednesday, October 25, 2006 8:17 AM CDT
My thoughts are with you. Your daughter, although we never met, left her mark on me and many.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 3:11 PM CDT
Oh Richelle,
When I read that post, I couldn't stop crying.. I don't know that pain, and I don't know how you do it, how you wake up every morning...I am sending prayers your way, and I am constantly thinking of your family and precious Maddy.
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
moreno valley, ca usa - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 10:21 AM CDT
That's a good one. Thanks Richelle!
Thinking of the Maddy's (Maddie's).
Love,
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Monday, October 16, 2006 7:46 PM CDT
Reading "The Gap" put into words all that I feel. Thank you for sharing it on your site. It named what I feel. I've known for some time that I am different since Joseph died- and I've often wondered if others see it. I don't want to burden family and friends with my need to talk about Joseph and his passing, yet I want someone to understand how much it hurts. How much it has changed my life forever. I wrote the following a few months ago but I haven't had the courage to put it anywhere. Somehow I think you will understand:
" I'm not the same. I'll never be the person I was before. I see the world differently. I hear sounds, especially voices, differently. I look at children and my heart grabs in my chest. I cry at the sight of a child riding in a grocery cart. I babble at the young mother pushing the cart. I tell her how blessed she is to have such a beautiful, healthy baby. She looks at me anxiously as if I might snatch the infant and run. She's confused by the emotion in my face. It's over-the-top she thinks. What does this woman want?
I want all children to be healthy and strong like her precious baby.
I collapse in tears when I watch a child cross the street.
I scream inside when I hear a child being scolded.
It's as if my skin has dissolved and what is left is a raw. bloody wound that covers my entire body.
I'm totally unprotected against words, slights, and judgements both real and perceived.
Though it sometimes seems that healing has begun, it only takes a moment for the fragile new skin to be ripped away by a memory or uninvited thought.
Soon, the wound is weeping with new tears and we're back to ground zero.
The once pliant skin of like is being replaced by unyielding scars that don't flex during the storms of living.
Yet, the storms are less frightening than they once were-nothing can ever hurt me more than this.
I sometimes feel numb to the world and its evils.
Nothing shocks me anymore.
What did I say- that I'll never be the same?
Do I want to be- to return to a time when I didn't see or feel so deeply?
Perhaps I really wasn't alive then because I could hear or read about horrors in the world and tuck them neatly away in my head, and move on.
No, not any more. Now I cry and lament over snippits of newsprint that describe how a father killed his child, a little boy was hit by a stray bullet, a car crash claimed a toddler's life.
Instantly! They're taken. A tiny moment in time and all of life changes for some.
Yet, in hospitals, death may not come so quick.
Children stuggle and fight with every nerve and sinew to live one more day-to have the chance to grow up.
Then one day, death seems kinder than fighting on.
Move on, move on, move on!
That's the real task for the living!
Keep moving.
Not to succumb to the paralyzing malise of grief.
And what of those who say? "He's in a better place. God needed another angel. Only the good die young."
Yes, I believe.
I do believe he's in a better place.
That he's better off than we are.
That he wouldn't come back if he had the choice.
I believe he's whole and happy.
Yet....
I miss him!
Does that make me a bad person?
A person of little faith.
I hope not, because I know I couldn't go on if I believed life ended with the grave.
I believe God in his wisdom took our precious boy when his body was too damaged to go on.
I believe God wrapped his loving arms around him and said, "Come home".
I believe God gave him a perfect body and total joy for eternity.
I believe God wants me live a life that will lead to Glory and a reunion with all those I love who have gone before.
I believe God wants me to accept his plan for my life and carry on.
I believe God knows this will be the hardest thing He's ever asked me to do. To carry on.
With God's help...
I'll carry on.
Nina Brown <Bobbymarie303@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Monday, October 16, 2006 4:06 PM CDT
I've been a quiet lurker since before your beautiful little girl gained her angels wings. I feel compelled to sent you God's love today! Your post today has touched me in a very powerful way! I've not experienced the death of a child, yet most of of the post struck a cord within me. My 9 year old son was diagnosed with a lifelong, life threatening, chronic disease in August. We have been grieving our "normal" life from before and how everything has changed! We, too, have been trying to add to our family post vasovasectomy, it will be two years in February. I pray for you often when I think of our own desire to have more children! Know that I'm not claiming to understand your lost, just relating to a tiny piece of it. Thanks for the post it was beautiful and well-timed! May God grant you the strength and courage to face each new day. May He grant you the peace only He can give, and sustain you when you feel life can't go on! God bless you!
Wendy <twdobesh93@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 15, 2006 7:56 PM CDT
We just wanted to drop by and say hi
and let you know we are thinking about you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Friday, October 13, 2006 11:06 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know I was thinking of your family. I hope things are going well. You are in my prayers.
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Monday, October 9, 2006 11:25 PM CDT
You have a beautiful little girl. Maybe our girls are praising God together.
Tiahna Hoff's Mom
Dulcie hoff <tdhoff@cableone.net>
- Sunday, October 8, 2006 10:14 PM CDT
ee cummings was a favorite of mine in high school and college. So now he says it again for all of us, because we all carry Moo in our hearts. Loving you, sweet Richelle.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI - Saturday, October 7, 2006 7:10 PM CDT
Oh, Richelle, I guess if we knew why, we wouldn't be any better off. The grief would be no less, and we would still be anguished, and it may make it worse. So I think that answer is saved for heaven, praise God, out of His deep mercy.
Going to check on Noelle now. God bless you, and still praying for that new little Bates to be sent from heaven soon.
Carolyn Wyman <re_born@sbcglobal.net>
Belding, MI - Thursday, October 5, 2006 8:14 PM CDT
Just wanted to say hi. Hope you are doing well.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/gagethompson
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
Wilmington, NC - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 7:20 PM CDT
I was looking through some pictures
and came across Maddys so I put in up on
my picture screen with her purple braclet.
It reminds me that life is so preciuos
and to take every second to love my girls.
I hope you guys are doing okay.
Love Kara
Kara Maher <mrsblondie74@aol.com>
Corona, CA Riverside - Monday, September 25, 2006 5:02 PM CDT
Carolina Greetings! (and hugs)
Love and prayers,
the Wrens
jw <jadubilu@netscape.net>
charlotte, nc pbmt - Sunday, September 24, 2006 8:45 AM CDT
Just thinking about all of you.. hope all is well.
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
moreno valley, ca usa - Friday, September 22, 2006 10:43 AM CDT
We just dropped by to check on you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Friday, September 22, 2006 0:32 AM CDT
Okay already I'm finding oodles and oodles of cute little girl clothes. What do we need to do??? Do we need to turn the oven up???? I love you ALL SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much. Hi brudder I miss you to. Are you having fun in first grade???? Your getting so BIG!!! Hopeto see you soon!!!!
Me <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 21, 2006 6:14 PM CDT
Moo Moo,
I am missing you so much. Caden and Reagan send their love to you every day.
All my love,
Aunt Kikky (Aunt Sissy)
Rachel (Aunt Sissy) <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, ca - Wednesday, September 20, 2006 10:19 AM CDT
Just wanted to stop in and offer any words of condolence I can. Though no words really exist that could possibly help alleviate your pain. Maddy is, was and will always be a "Queen".
In our thoughts and prayers,
Renee
www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angles <rcurk@aol.com>
- Sunday, September 17, 2006 4:41 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say that I'm praying for you, sweet friend. God bless.
"If in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men the most pitiable. But now Christ is risen from the dead, and has become the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since by man came death, by Man also came the resurrection of the dead. For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ all shall be made alive. But each one in his own order: Christ the firstfruits, afterward those who are Christ’s at His coming. Then comes the end, when He delivers the kingdom to God the Father, when He puts an end to all rule and all authority and power. For He must reign till He has put all enemies under His feet. The last enemy that will be destroyed is death." --- I Corinthians 15:19-26
Thank You, Lord!
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI Carolyn's CB Page - Sunday, September 17, 2006 0:09 AM CDT
I read your entry with tears in my eyes, and a pain in my heart. I know your pain so well. I know how torn you feel, that you are happy she is healthy & happy in Heaven, yet there isn't a minute that goes by that you don't long to have her here in you life, in your home, in your arms. What a beautiful girl she was, and what a blessing she was. I know the 1st anniversary on August 31st must have been hard, to say the least. You've been in my thoughts & prayers, & will continue to be. Take care! God bless!
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 1:23 PM CDT
I wanted to write sooner, but really didn't know what to say. And then I realized, it didn't matter what I said, just that I say something. It is beyond my comprehension that over a year has passed already since your beautiful baby girl joined her angel friends. Please know that you are all still in my thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine the heartache.
Take Care and God Bless,
Renee
www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.com>
liverpool, ny - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 10:11 AM CDT
Richelle, no day goes by without me thinking of and praying for you and your family. I was so sad on August 31, remembering that awful stab, but rejoicing that Sugar n Spice would never again have to know pain. It's a balancing act, I know. Hoping to hear good news about a baby soon. God bless you, dear Bates Family.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI - Monday, September 11, 2006 10:02 PM CDT
Sorry I haven't got the new page up yet.I was hoping to get some more picture's.BUt I will do with what I have and have it up by the end of the weekend for you.Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Friday, September 8, 2006 0:49 AM CDT
I love you so much!!!!!!!!!I just wanted to stop by and say HI and that I miss you all so much!!!!!!
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 7, 2006 10:40 PM CDT
Hope your doing well--just thinking of you tonight.
Janelle <janelle@integra.net>
Elko, MN - Thursday, September 7, 2006 7:02 PM CDT
praying for you today as Maddy Angel Day has came, Remembering the sweet memories and hold them close to your heart and she will always be with you till you are united agin .
With Gods Blessings
www.caringbeidge.org/tn/kayla
www.caringbridge.org/tn/mimmie
April & "Angel" Mikayla, Mimmie, and the Boys <babymsmom04@yahoo.com>
TN USA - Friday, September 1, 2006 11:32 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today and praying for all of you. My favorite memory of Maddy was at California Pizza Kitchen with Emma and me. God bless you all.
Pat Scott
Emma's Grandma Whompus
Pat Scott <pats8888@gmail.com>
Walnut Creek, CA - Friday, September 1, 2006 1:12 AM CDT
Thinking of you all today and always. I hope today you were flooded with many happy thoughts of Maddy at the beach. I hope that you will soon have those Happy Thoughts always.
I love the song you dedicated to Maddy, the words are so true and powerful. I just wish I could listen to it without crying so hard.
Sending many hugs your way
Cori
Cori Ramirez <www.caringbrige.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 11:04 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today..My thoughts are always with you...I even ate a chicken nugget skin just for maddy. I know that Steve is up there putting in all of the tapes they all loved so well over and over again, just waiting until we can get there.
Dajana Graham <www.cash_guru@msn.com www.caringbridge.org/ca/kingbrandyn>
Beaumont, ca - Thursday, August 31, 2006 11:04 PM CDT
You and Your family are in my thought and prayers everyday. I loved Maddy's smile.
Heidi Russell <kennethheidi@bellsouth.net>
Willamson, Ga Spalding - Thursday, August 31, 2006 9:53 PM CDT
Thinking of you guys. I can't help but be flooded with memories of a year ago. I remember you so well in clinic after Maddy had passed away. You told me God was good.
You are a wonderful woman.
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Thursday, August 31, 2006 8:21 PM CDT
Thinking and praying for all of you today.
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
moreno valley, ca usa - Thursday, August 31, 2006 7:31 PM CDT
You guys are always in my thoughts and prayers. Please know how much I love you and I have stepped up my prayers recently as I know this is an extremely difficult time with you. I hope your day at the beach was good family time. I'll continue to check on you and you know you're always in my heart. Blessings in Christ!
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, August 31, 2006 5:57 PM CDT
Praying for you always and especially today.
Delores Watson <jwatson1253@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 5:09 PM CDT
Thinking of you today with lots of love and prayers!
Alissa
Joiner Country, Texas - Thursday, August 31, 2006 3:46 PM CDT
I have prayed for you every day for probably a year or so -- but I pray for you especially today -- so many times throughout the day. I feel lost -- sometimes I don't even know what to pray for -- Just wishing you peace and hoping that you will feel wrapped up in the Lord's love today especially. Sure do hope you're holding up OK, and remembering not to be a hero -- lean on those who love you -- there are so many.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Thursday, August 31, 2006 3:11 PM CDT
Maddy,
I can't believe it has been a year since you left to be with the lord. I miss you so much Moo. I remember the first day you were brought into this world,from that moment on you always have had a special part of my heart. Maddy, you truly are my inspiration in life. You are the most precious little girl I have known. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. Everyday I talk about you and wish that you were here. I miss your moochies and hugs I miss painting your lil toe nails. I miss crawling in the crib to cuddle with you. I miss you baby girl but I know that one day I will see your sweet little face again and you will show me how you dance with jesus. I lub you with all my heart!!!!!!!!!!!Have fun and dance with jesus baby girl. Auntie Missy is sending you moochies!!!!!!!!
To Ricky, Joe, Brudder, Nana, and Papa
I know that this is a tough day. Heck what day isnt tough anymore. Please know that we love you with all our hearts. And that you all are in thoughts and prayers everyday.
Love,
Missy, Janis, Ronny, and Angel Uncle Ron too
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 31, 2006 2:56 PM CDT
Richelle and family-
I am praying for the whole family everyday. We love you guys. We know Maddy is looking down on everyone, smiling and waiting for you to come home to her!!
xoxooxoxoxoxoxo always,
rebekah
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, - Thursday, August 31, 2006 12:22 AM CDT
You are in our hearts and in our prayers today and always.
Teri and Rick Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, c - Thursday, August 31, 2006 10:38 AM CDT
It matters not how long a star shines what is remembered
is the brightness of its light.
Forever in the heart of Jesus.
Praying for you today.
Estefania Pena <equipos@navesur.com>
Ecuador, South America - Thursday, August 31, 2006 10:24 AM CDT
Thinking about you all today.
Mary <Maggs483@aol.com>
Baton Rouge, LA USA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 9:46 AM CDT
Sending many thoughts and prayers your way today... I think of you all the time, and pray that God is giving you peace.
Toni <toni310@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ - Thursday, August 31, 2006 9:17 AM CDT
One year....where has the time gone? And how many tears have been shed for our sweet Moo? I am wearing my Maddy button today and I will tell the world about how precious she was and IS! She still is touching so many people's hearts! I too have my Maddy painting on my fridge and I think of ALL of you each and every day. I am happy that you will be at the beach! She will be there too! I love and miss ALL of you!
Janie <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Thursday, August 31, 2006 8:26 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you all today. I can't believe it's been a year already!! I still have Maddy's picture on my refrigerator and think of her all the time.
Andria <aks623@hotmail.com>
5200, PBMTU - Thursday, August 31, 2006 7:46 AM CDT
One year ago we prayed for a miricle. One year ago today, that miricle happened before our very eyes. One year ago today, a beautiful angel left earth for heaven.
Praying for your strenght and comfort during this difficult day (not that any other day is easier). May God and Maddy hold you and give you strength. Today is a day of reflection on your precious daughter. God Bless and keep you!
Cori <joeandcoriplace@aol.com>
detroit, MI - Thursday, August 31, 2006 7:36 AM CDT
I have been preparing myself all week. I got up this morning, found some coffee and sat on my couch and looked at picture after picture after picture. I ended it with Richelle and Maddy singing Little Mermaid songs while changing Moo's tubies. Our hearts all hurt so badly, but you are right Richelle, the lessons she taught are so powerful. Everyday, especially at work, I think of Maddy and let her spirit and strength make me be a better person. I want to be there for long hugs and time together, but I'm here, thinking of you all and sending moochies from the other side of the country. Love, Love, Love!!!!
Dorga <dora4smile@yahoo.com>
Mebane, NC - Thursday, August 31, 2006 5:00 AM CDT
I have never met you, but I will pray for you. May you feel God's comforting presence as you remember your sweet girl for now and always!
Stephanie Adams <david_stephanie@bellsouth.net>
Cumming, GA 30040 - Thursday, August 31, 2006 0:44 AM CDT
Thinking about you! Can't believe it's been a year. I spent a lot of time crying this week...sure miss the girls!!! These anniversaries really make it tough, don't they? Can't wait til we're all together again in heaven!!!
I'll send a balloon for Maddy too. Hope you guys have a special day remembering the good times!!
Love and hugs!!!
Marian
Princess Madi's Mom <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 0:26 AM CDT
Hello Bates Family,
Tomorrow I will be remembering the first day I meet Maddy on the 4th floor at Duke. Absolutely adorable! Our first friend in Durham and remarkably from our home state, California! Our family was touched by Maddy and we will always remember her.
Love,
Sam,Drew,Emma,Mallorie,Josie and Adam Trevor
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, Ca - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 11:19 PM CDT
Happy First Heavenly Birthday Miss Moo!
Thank you for bringing your wonderful family into my life and making me a better person by just being you, Miss Maddy Moo!
Joe, Richelle and Ethan,
I love you all and pray for your healing and peace today as you celebrate Moo's beautiful life...
Nurse Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
Duke PICU, NC - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 11:18 PM CDT
It's hard to believe that it's been a whole year since your Moo left you to be with the Lord. I'm sure tomorrow you will feel her with you on the beach, building sand castles, giggling at the waves, watching the balloons and missing being with all of you....but some day you will all be together again. Little Moo, and your family, have taught the rest of us what it really means to be tough. Our love & prayers are with you guys always....
Pam & Dale <pamski4u@yahoo.com>
Highland, CA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 10:59 PM CDT
Sweet Angel Maddy,
I can't believe that you have been gone for a year already it seems like forever.I can't imagine what your family must be going through.Keeping you always in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.Maddy you will never be forgotten your memory will always live on in everyone that you touch with you life.
Mommy and Daddy, please don’t feel guilty
It was just my time to go.
I see you are still feeling sad,
And the tears just seem to flow.
We all come to earth for our lifetime,
And for some it’s not many years
I don’t want you to keep crying
You are shedding so many tears.
I haven’t really left you
Even though it may seem so.
I have just gone to my heavenly home,
And I’m closer to you than you know.
Just believe that when you say my name
I’m standing next to you,
I know you long to see me,
But there’s nothing I can do.
But I’ll still send you messages
And hope you understand,
That when your time comes to “cross over,”
I’ll be there to take your hand.
Love Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta
, - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 10:37 PM CDT
I can hardly believe a year has already gone by since Maddy
passed away. I never knew her but I know she was a fighter and a sweet little girl. I know that this will be a hard day for you all but you are in our thoughts and prayers and we never forget you in VA. My mom has a picture of Kyle and Ethan at Disneyland, you are getting to be a big guy buddy. I cannot wait to meet all of you one day and I hope it is really soon. Please take care of each and give one another a hiug from me and my family, we pray for you all; each day. I always ask Dora and Charles how you are doing. I hope that you find peace in knowing that Maddy is well and is with the Lord and living the most perfect life. The brightest star in the sky is her gift to us and each rainbow after a rain is her way of letting us that she is okay and smiling on us,i do hope that news of a little bates will be coming soon, maybe you and Dora could have babies close together, my mom so wants another little grancdchold, Ryan and Kyle are big now and though they are so loved a baby is always a special gift.
please take care and know that your family is so very special to so may people and you are loved so much,
love and lots of happy thoughts feom richmond, VA.
p.s. I cannot wait to meet you Miss MOO in heaven.
jennifer <Ginski14369@aol.com>
- Wednesday, August 30, 2006 9:39 PM CDT
We Love You Queen Maddy!
Please take EXTRA good care of Mommy, Daddy & Ethan tomorrow and hold them as close as you possibly can.
Thoughts, prayers and extra strength being sent your way.
Hold on to your amazing Faith!
Love, Katie and little Maddie from Minneapolis
Kate W. <kate.wegleitner@target.com>
- Wednesday, August 30, 2006 9:14 PM CDT
You are never far from our thoughts and our hearts. We pray that you find peace and comfort in the Lord. We will be thinking of you tomorrow. God bless you and your family.
A Moo follower
- Wednesday, August 30, 2006 7:13 PM CDT
I bet today is unbelievably hard for you...a year since your sweet Maddy flew to heaven...I don't have any words that will ease your incredible pain. I think of your sweet Maddy when I hear the song by Coldplay....she is fixed now, I am so sorry that there wasn't an earthly fix!
Once again you popped into my head sitting in church Sunday...and once again I prayed that you are blessed with a baby soon! I will keep praying for that and I will pray that you are granted peace.
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, MN - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 7:04 PM CDT
Hi Joe, Richelle, and Ethan,
Just thought I would stop in and let you know I've been thinking of you. This is a hard week for all of us. Friday would have been our dads 60th birthday so my prayers go out to you as we all try and get through these rough times. You all take care and try to keep your spirits up.
Amy Edwards <a.edwards@att.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 5:43 PM CDT
God's Promise..........
Maddy Moo, it's almost a year ago
Since I first met you,
Just another sick little girl
And I had a job to do.
But that's not all
sassy Moo had planned,
she wrapped herself around
every finger on my hand.
Who would have figured
And how could I know,
How someone so tiny
could make my heart grow.
Your life was struggle
You fought so long and hard,
But God rescued my Moo
and gave me the brightest little star.
Every night when I look up
all the stars twinkling in the dark
I'm reminded of God's promise
We'll never have to part.
No more machines, tubies, or yucky meds
No more extremely intelligent nurses or doctors with big heads.
Life now is a party
Moo has her special wish
Playing on a beach,
cruising the ocean on that starfish.
Little queen you enjoy
Your reward every day,
And I promise to not be so selfish
wanting things to go my way!
I won't wish you back
just so I can hold you again,
I'll accept things I don't like
even things I don't understand.
Because as much as I miss you
Mommy, daddy, brudder misses you more,
but when you left us we know
Heaven opened it's door.
No tearful goodbyes, farewells or adieu
I'm living God's promise,
and I know this to be true
So you can count on this.......
I'll see you later Miss Moo!
I love You!
Nurse Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
Duke PICU, NC - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 0:09 AM CDT
Bates Family: I have been following your story since last Summer and felt so much grief when your beautiful baby girl entered into eternity. As a mother of a now 2 year old, I could only visualize the pain that you all were enduring and knew that whatever I was feeling wasn't even a fraction of what you felt. I still check back from time to time to get an update on Ethan as well as the progress of another "Bates Baby." I wanted you to know that come Thursday, I will be honoring Ms. Moo with a moment of silence and a prayer for your family. I know that they say time will heal all wounds but quite frankly, I am not sure I could have been as strong as you have had to be and honestly admire you for that. I guess we can all see where Maddy got her tenacious spirit. I wish you peace and joy everyday. ~A Maddy Fan~
A True Friend a Warrior in VA
Virginia - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 1:23 PM CDT
"This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it; for then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have success. "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go."
Joshua 1:8-9 NASB
Mark Jones <mark@truehopecf.org>
- Tuesday, August 29, 2006 9:16 AM CDT
Moochies from NC...keep your eye on the mailman. Love you!
Dorga <dora4smile@yahoo.com>
Mebane, NC - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 4:43 AM CDT
Thinking of your family during this difficult week! Sending you lots of prayers.
Janelle Tupy <janelle@integra.net>
Elko, mn 55020 - Monday, August 28, 2006 9:06 PM CDT
Keeping you in my thougths and in my prayer's always.
Love Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Monday, August 28, 2006 2:27 AM CDT
Hello from North Carolina!
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
- Saturday, August 26, 2006 7:36 PM CDT
I was posting this picture on Cassie's site, and thought I would swing by your page to say "hello". I will be thinknig of you on the 31st.
Lots of love
Viks
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, August 26, 2006 7:37 AM CDT
Thinking of you tonight, and praying for you as always.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Friday, August 25, 2006 0:03 AM CDT
Keeping you in my thougths and in my prayer's always.
Love Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Thursday, August 24, 2006 8:11 PM CDT
Praying for you, Richelle.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 11:19 PM CDT
Thinking of you and your precious girl tonight. I don't know if I ever told you but Kate loved the e-card you sent. Richelle and Joe, you both have a special place in her heart. I think she feels the devotion and love you have for Maddy, and she knows that parents like you are to be treasured by all children. Your own suffering gives you an empathy and a tenderness that most people simply cannot know, and children are especially sensitive to those qualities.
Wishing you peace and sending much love,
Alison (and Kate)
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Nashville, TN - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 9:52 PM CDT
Maddy is so precious, no Mother should have to endure your pain. It is evident how much you fought, loved and did everything absolutley possible for your Queenie. I pray you feel your Angel's presence every waking hour especialy during the toughest days. My own little Maddie and I will continue to say special prayers for you during the upcoming days as well as for your future!! Love & prayers.
Katie W.
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 9:11 PM CDT
I love you so much. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 23, 2006 3:47 PM CDT
Just wanted to sign your guestbook. I am a Joiner Follower. I know how hard it must be this time of the year for you. I just want you to know I am praying for you and I will think about you daily during this time of the year. May God Bless you and your family.
A Friend
Joiner Country - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 3:22 PM CDT
Richelle,
Thank you so much for the picture of Dr. K for Cecilia, Joe gave it to me this morning and I called her to tell her she just let out a huge scream, and asked me to tell you thank you, we are going to buy a frame today so we can hang it in her room. You are so good to others, I wish I could help take away your hurt. I am praying for you guys all the time. Sending a big hug your way!
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
Moreno Valley, CA USA - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 12:02 AM CDT
I love you guys so much!! Just wanted to stop by and say HI!!
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 22, 2006 5:03 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know I miss you and I'm thinking about and praying for you like crazy. I know this is a really tough month for you guys and I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this. I wish I could just make everything okay...bring back the girls and have everything be the way it was 'supposed' to be...at least in our eyes. Unfortunately, since I can't do that, I just have to trust that God will continue to see us through this...one day at a time. I'm so grateful for our friendship and miss getting to see you a little more often. Hope you know how much we love you guys! Looking forward to seeing you soon.
Love and hugs,
Marian, Mike and Mikey
Princess Madi's Family <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 12:22 AM CDT
Hello Bates Family,
We love that song too! I will say hi to my mom and sister, I know they check in on your site often.
Take Care,
Sam and Emma
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, Ca - Monday, August 21, 2006 0:02 AM CDT
Thinking of you....
www.caringbridge.org/visit/gagethompson
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
- Thursday, August 17, 2006 8:23 PM CDT
Hi guys I know that it has been awhile since we have talked I'm sorry I have been trying to stay busy with school and trying to keep my mind off whats coming up. I know that this time of year is going to be so hard. I love you guys so much. Please I hope you know that. Richelle I finally got a season pass for disneyland lets go soon, I know bubbi wouldn't mind and we can spend sometime together. I love you all so much and you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 4:59 PM CDT
Just wanted to stop by and say Hi. I have been thinking about you a lot lately. We love you all.
Amber, Gary, and the Boys <ambergid@cox.net>
Las Vegas, - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 4:53 PM CDT
We just popped by to check on you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Monday, August 14, 2006 10:01 PM CDT
I continue to pray for you, Richelle, and Joe, and Ethan...as well as for "Baby Bates," that I KNOW will arrive, in and by God's perfect timing!
Your entry is so sweet....it brought tears to my eyes.
Missing Moo with you~
Always,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Monday, August 14, 2006 8:51 PM CDT
To Queen Maddy, up in Heaven,
You don't know me, but I wish I could of met you. You are a beautiful child. I have read some of your story and you went through alot. I have no doubt that you are running and playing and laughing. You are watching your family and smiling down on them. When you get tired, you rest on God's lap. I am asking you to have God bless your family, and take care of them, for you see, Queen Maddy, they miss you dearly. You keep running, and playing, and smiling, and just being an angel. Your family will reunite with you someday, and you will all be happy together again. You take care Maddy, and take care of your family, they love you so much.
Trina and Jailyn <swtcrzygrl23@hotmail.com>
- Monday, August 14, 2006 5:00 PM CDT
Hello....I have been to your site before and read some of your journal entries...so I know that you are hoping to have a baby SOON!!! For some reason or the other, you popped into my head during church this morning and I said a little prayer that a sweet baby comes your way soon!!! I will check every now and then to see when that miracle happens...I know it will!!!!!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, MN - Sunday, August 13, 2006 7:22 PM CDT
That poem is very touching. I felt so helpless with my hands tied because I couldn't "fix" my daughter. The poem is so true. God healed them by reserection, which isn't what we wanted, but we have to find comfort that they are healthy, and happy in heaven. That doesn't take away the pain of missing and longing to hold them again. You daughter was beautiful. God bless you! You're in my prayers.
Claire Roy
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Sunday, August 13, 2006 4:39 PM CDT
I sure do wish your sweet little girl had been fixed here on Earth, too. But you know that now she is "fixed" for good -- completely perfect and healthy and happy, and waiting to give you thousands of hugs and kisses when you meet again. Until then, know that I pray for you every day -- for your peace and comfort, for that new baby you're hoping for -- for perfect health for your family -- for a little joy in every single day, and for you to continue to lean on Jesus through your dark times.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@yahoo.com>
Sun Prairie, WI - Sunday, August 13, 2006 11:52 AM CDT
Please know that you are very dear to my heart and I think of and pray for you guys all the time. I'm sorry I don't sign in so much. It's just been a busy time here this Summer, but I wanted you to know I haven't forgotten you. Love to you in Christ.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, August 13, 2006 4:54 AM CDT
I cannot imagine the pain that you went through and go through every day. I hurt inside for you and wish and pray for peace for you as you go about each day, especially 8-31-06. I pray for all the comfort in the world for you and your family and pray for you to always know Maddy is in the most wonderful place and you will see her again one day.
Love and Hugs for your grieving soul
amy <jaturp2@adelphia.net>
richmond, ky usa - Thursday, August 10, 2006 8:52 PM CDT
As a mom, I can only imagine your loss and although no words will help you find the comfort you so deserve, know that you are in the prayers of so many-many that have never met you. We pray that your memories of your sweet Moo bring you happy thoughts as you see her precious smile and know she is smiling back at you from the comfort of God's loving arms. Her amazing strength and courage during her time here have taught lessons that will forever live with many of us. We've learned so much. In such a short time, she accomplished more than most of us will in 80 years. Our prayers are with you.
The Matlock Family
Lemont, IL USA - Thursday, August 10, 2006 4:30 PM CDT
DEAR RICHELLE,
I WISH THAT WE COULD WAVE A MAGIC WAND OR SAY A SIMPLE PRAYER AND MADDY WOULD BE HERE WITH YOU,CANCER FREE AND RUNNING HAPPILY ALONG PLAYING WITH ETHAN,YOU AND JOE. THE REALITY OF THIS STINKS. I AM SO SAD FOR YOUR FAMILY, WE ALL PRAY FOR YOU HERE IN VA AND CANNOT WAIT TO HEAR THE NEWS OF A NEW LITTLE BATES PERSON. I KNOW THAT DORA, CHARLES AND KYLE MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH. PLEASE TAKE CARE AND THANKS FOR THE E-MAILS. I LOVE THE ONE ABOUT THE "WAXING"
YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS DAILY,ESPECIALLY THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.YOU ALL WILL GET THROUGH THIS,GOD HAS SEEN YOU THROUGH THUS FAR AND HIS POWER HIS SO GREAT.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND TRY TO SMILE:)
LOVE YA,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
RICHMOND( HOT AND HUMID), VA - Tuesday, August 8, 2006 6:26 PM CDT
Richelle,
If only we could fix what goes wrong. So many things are impossible for us to understand. Someday we will. Praying for you, Joey and Ethan especially during this difficult month. You are the strongest person I have ever known. I love you a lot and tell Ethan Uncle Rick and I are ready to go to Chuck E. Cheese.
Love Teri
Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Tuesday, August 8, 2006 3:23 PM CDT
Richelle, I keep trying to write something here, but I delete and start over. Nothing is adequate. But please know that I keep praying and hoping that once we get past August, things will be a little less sharp, that the ache of each holiday and birthday and Heavenday will have less power to hurt you all. With others, I pray that your dreams of Maddy will be ones of the REALITY of her life now - where she isn't just pretending: She really IS a queen! Thank You, Lord!
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI - Sunday, August 6, 2006 8:59 AM CDT
Just wanted you to know your family is in my prayers. I know how the anniversary dates can be real tough. Aug 5 marked 3 months since I held Laken in my arms as she took her last breath. I will pray for you as you approach Aug 31. Hold on to your precious memories!
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy ^i^
Claire Roy
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Saturday, August 5, 2006 11:03 PM CDT
Hello Bates,
We arrived home from Durham after a MLD conference a few days ago and of course couldn't help but think of you all. We had the opportunity to eat at CPK but it wasn't the same without you. We're thinking of you during this difficult month and are keeping you in our prayers.
Take Care,
Sam and Emma
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, CA - Friday, August 4, 2006 11:56 PM CDT
Sorry for you loss We lost our son this week to AML after a short 11 month battle.
http://caringbridge.org/visit/nathan_thomas
Lee Crabtree <leetree@hotmail.com>
Warrensburg, MO - Friday, August 4, 2006 0:26 AM CDT
I'm sorry we're so bad about signing in. We are thinking about your family so much, hoping that things will come together for the big move east! And that there may be another Bates to move, or at least another Bates on the way. Caroline is in a therapeutic riding program and the horse she rides is named Maddy. Whenever I talk to Kate about Caroline going to Saddle Up to ride Maddy, she says "Maddy's mommy? Need Maddy's mommy!". I have to remind her that this is a different, four-legged Maddy, then we go to your website link to the photos and look at some pictures of Maddy's mommy and daddy. I can't believe that it's August again. I know this month will be filled with memories, many of them painful, but I believe that you will get to a place where the Maddy most often in your dreams is the one who laughed and played.
Kate sends you big, big hugs, as does her mommy.
With a heartful of love,
Alison
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Nashville, TN - Tuesday, August 1, 2006 10:03 PM CDT
Just sending prayers for You, Joey, and Ethan.
Hope to see you soon.
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
moreno valley, ca usa - Tuesday, August 1, 2006 3:39 PM CDT
I have an unusually quiet time right now, and I am spending it in thoughts and prayer for you. ah
God bless you!
jw <jadubilu@netscape.net>
charlotte, nc PBMT - Sunday, July 30, 2006 8:33 PM CDT
Sweet precious Angel Maddy,
I think about you always.You are so missed.Your Mommy is going to send me some picture's so I can do a beautiful new page in your memory.I know you are going to love it.Keeping your Mommy,Daddy and Brother always in my thoughts and in my prayer's.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Sunday, July 30, 2006 6:19 PM CDT
"If I had a magic wand you know what I would do... I would wave it and have God bless you. I would take away your pain and all that you go through. But since I do not have a magic wand... all that I can do is hope, and wish, and pray that God will just cure you"
This is a message that a good friend said to me when I myself was diagnosed with AML at the age of 15. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you all during this trying and difficult time. Maddy has her angels friends and all their kisses on her side! May our thoughts and prayers help you during this difficult journey....
Thoughts and prayers:
Kristin Krumwede
www.caringbridge.org/visit/shelbyandaverykrumwiede
www.babyhomepages.net/krumwiedefamily
Kristin and Chad Krumwiede <kckrumwiede@bis.midco.net>
Bismarck, ND 58501 - Friday, July 28, 2006 11:16 PM CDT
My prayers are with you. May God give you strength. I know first hand you can only take one day at a time.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/tevisbrinley
carrie brinley <tevisishealed@aol.com>
louisville, ky us - Friday, July 28, 2006 4:23 PM CDT
Richelle,
I don't know why but I read your page and never leave a post...I am sorry for that...you are faithful to Lane's page and I appreciate it so much.
As the year date comes for the beginning of the end for both of us, yes, it will be terribly difficult...the memories of those last days are so hard and hurtful...not for us, but for what we had to watch our children go through to finish the battle that they started...when these times come, I find that if I just whisper..."Lord, give me peace"...my mind will be directed to something else...and I am so thankful.
Remembering you in prayer as the painful reminders continue to come...praying that God will give you peace that comforts your heart...and that very soon...He will bless you with yet another Bates baby...and that it will be a little girl...
Love and prayers always
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh@vci.net>
Hanson, KY - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 7:47 PM CDT
We just thought we would pop by and check on you today,
and let you know we are thinking about you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 1:32 AM CDT
HI THERE-
WHAT A SWEET LITTLE BABY TIAHANA WAS, THAT PICTURE OF HER WAS JUST LIKE A LITTLE ANGEL PRAYING. I AM SURE MADDY WAS THE FIRST TO WELCOME HER, MAKE HER FEEL AT "HOME" AND START PLAYING WITH HER. SHE IS NOW COMPLETELY HEALED AND CAN BE FREE AND WELL. I KNOW THAT VERY SOON WE WILL HEAR THE NEWS OF A NEW LITTLE ONE TO RUN AROUND YOUR HOUSE. NOW WE HAVE TO WORK ON DORA AND CHARLES, I WOULD LIKE TO WHAT THEY ARE WAITING FOR?:)
HOPE ALL IS WELL
TAKE CARE LOVE YA,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@aol.com>
- Monday, July 24, 2006 8:09 PM CDT
Another little warrior down, so I had to come check on you. I wonder if Maddy was the first one to welcome Tiahna. I want to believe that she was.
Loving you, praying daily, watching and waiting with you with the same (im)patience! You are such a beautiful soul, Richelle.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI - Sunday, July 23, 2006 6:37 PM CDT
Still praying for you all, and hoping to hear soon, the news that a new Bates baby is on the way!
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Friday, July 21, 2006 10:38 PM CDT
Hello from Lebanon, thank you for signing Kaitlyn's website and for your continuous prayers for kaitlyn and Lebanon, we apprecite a lot all your support to all of us in these hard days.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/kaitlyns
Georges Karam <angegardienangegardien@hotmail.com>
Lebanon - Friday, July 21, 2006 1:42 AM CDT
HI Moo,
I know it has been awhile since I have written. I'm sorry I miss you soooooo much theres really no words to describe it. The only thing that gets me through these tough days is knowing that we will all be together again. I miss your moochies so so so much. I hope your having a blast in heaven, give everyone my love up there. Hope to see you soon in my dreams baby girl. I lub you!!! Muah sending you big lubs right back at you.
Missy <daddisgrl@aol.com>
- Tuesday, July 18, 2006 5:52 PM CDT
Thanks for the prayers and encouragement. I love you guys and am praying for you too. Blessings in Christ!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, July 17, 2006 6:28 PM CDT
IT WAS THIS TIME LAST YEAR THAT YEAR THAT DORA CHARLES AND KYLE LET US KNOW OF A SPECIAL LITTLE PERSON IN NEED OF LOTS OF PRAYERS,IT IS SO FUNNY THAT I CAME ACROSS MY PURPLE MIRACLE FOR MADDY BRACELET THE OTHER DAY,TEARS JUST FILL MY EYES AND I ASK WHY HER? WHY THAT SWEET INNOCENT LITTLE GIRL? I GUESS WHO WAS READY TO HAVE HER "HOM" BUT WE ALL WANT HER HERE WITH US IN THE PHYSICAL WAY SHE SHOULD BE GIVING OUT MOOCHIES AND LUBBING US. ONE DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER IN THE THE MOST WONDERFUL PLACE AND SHE WILL BE ALL WELL AND LIVING LIKE A NORMAL CHILD FREE OF ILLNESS AND PAIN AND RUNNING AND PLAYING AND GLAD TO BE ALIVE. UNTIL THEN MEMORIES HAVE TO SUFFICE AND SOMETIMES OR SHOULD I SAY ALL THE TIME THAT STINKS, YOU REALLY CAN'T HUG,CRY WITH ,KISS OR HOLD A MEMORY. REMEMBER WHAT I SAID BEFORE WHEN YOU LOOK UP IN THE SKY AND SEE THE BRIGHTEST STAR OR A RAINBOW IT IS OUR MADDY GIVING A SIGNAL SHE IS OKAY AND SENDING LOVE TO ALL OF YOU.
WE PRAY FOR YOU EVERYDAY, I HOPE THINGS BECOME TOLERABLE AND I HOPE TO HEAR NEWS OF A NEW SET OF LITTLE BATES FEET SOON.
LOVE YA,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@aol.com>
- Saturday, July 15, 2006 8:49 PM CDT
Moo,
Today was the first day I ever laid eyes on your beautiful face and wrapped your precious hands with those pink painted nails around my hand. Little did I know that from that moment on that you would wrap yourself around my heart! I love you Miss Maddy Moo!!
Ethan, Joe and Richelle,
Miss Moo came with the whole package that day, your family became my family on this very day. I love you guys lots, and can't wait till you come back home!
MOOchies and all my Lub!
Nurse Kim
Rougemont, NC - Saturday, July 15, 2006 1:23 PM CDT
Richelle, you've been on my mind for prayer especially strong lately, and I'm hoping it means good news soon. God knows best, but I still hurt so badly when I see that sweet face - I just don't know how you bear it.
I'm glad that you have the diversion of the apartment plans to keep you busy. I imagine Ethan keeps you hopping, too! God bless your life with a steady stream of good memories to oppose the bad ones. I will pray that you will be free of the bad memories - Maddy is.
Thank you for always being there for others who are suffering. You are always on my mind.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI - Saturday, July 15, 2006 0:03 AM CDT
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Friday, July 14, 2006 9:22 AM CDT
Richelle,
I saw this poem and thought it may help. I am thinking of you always and check Maddy's site everyday. I hope you find peace and comfort in all the wonderful memories you had with your Queen.
Why?
Why must my heart keep grieving,
Why do I feel so alone?
Why did you take my loved one God,
Why couldn't she stay at home?
Why did she have to feel pain,
Why did she have to die?
Why can't I go to sleep at night,
Why do I have to cry?
'My child,' said God, 'please understand,
I know your grief runs deep,
I've heard your many questions
In your prayers before you sleep;
I promised all eternity,
No death shall shadow you,
Your loved ones dwell with me above,
Up in those skies so blue;
They live with me in Heaven,
This place is their real home,
Their time on earth was through,
They learned to love, I called them home.
Your loved one is an Angel now,
Watching closely over thee,
There is no fear or pain up here,
Their soul is roaming free.
I let your loved one visit you
As you lie down in your bed,
She holds your hand and helps you pray
And gently strokes your head.
So please stop asking why she left
And dry your weary eyes,
For she is safe from harm on earth
With me, in the Heavenly skies.'
Praying for peace and a new baby Bates here in Pennsylvania.
Colleen Conaty...Michelle Gwin's friend..We met at the Rainbow of Heros walk.
Colleen Conaty <amandasheart@gmail.com>
Glenolden, Pa USA - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 6:17 PM CDT
Richelle-
I am thinking of you and your boys daily. We love you. I hope you get pregnant soon. I can't wait to have your tummy all big and feeling that baby kicking.
Hope to see you soon.
Your friend-rebekah
becka <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:53 PM CDT
"It will be the little things that you will remember
the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem hard right now,
it will be the memory of these little things
that help to push away the pain
and bring the smiles back again."
-Author Unknown
^^HUGS^^
From a long time lurker who knows.....
The Dobrowski's, Dave, Judy, Katie, Dana and another AML ^Angel^ Emily Ann <davidd@comporium.net........www.caringbridge.org/page/emiann.....www.rainbowchildren.homestead.com>
RockHill, South Carolina
Duke-5200 and CMC-7T Family, Rainbow of Hope and Cancer Sucks Club Members - Monday, July 10, 2006 8:28 PM CDT
Hello Miss Moo,
I am still waiting for you to come visit me in my dreams. Every night I hope that I will be seeing you. So miss moo anytime you are ready I am here. I miss all those sweet moochies and lub you would give me. I am so glad that I was so close to you, you are such a big part of all of us. Our hearts are filled with so much love for you and even though we can't physically hold, hug and kiss you we send them to you up in Heaven. Until you decide to drop into my dreams.... I LUB YOU SWEET MOO!!!
Aunt Sissy or as you said Aunt Gicky <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Monday, July 10, 2006 5:15 PM CDT
Hey there Maddy just stopped by to say how much i miss and love you. you have been on my mind alot lately. i love you so much. lots of hugs and moochies to you little queen.
violet bohn <violet.pinkstarz@hotmail.com>
yucaipa, ca usa - Thursday, July 6, 2006 12:53 AM CDT
We are thinking of you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 11:57 PM CDT
Still checking....still praying....still sending lots of love from Texas.
Hoping the Bates family has a very happy 4th!!
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 1:56 PM CDT
Richelle, Joe & Ethan,
Just stopping by for a Moo pick me up, catching a glimpse of her smiling face! I hope you guys have a fun and happy 4th of July and are getting settled in the new place!
All my lub and MOOchies!
Nurse Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
Rougemont, NC - Monday, July 3, 2006 12:15 AM CDT
Hi Bates Family,
It's been a few months since I've checked Maddy's website. I've had you on my mind the last few days especially. My heart still aches so much for you. I don't know how you keep going, but I guess you just do. You still have a wonderful little boy that needs his mommy & daddy. Living in that apartment will be tough, but yes -keep your eyes & hearts set on that goal. It will be worth it. I pray that the Lord will bless your family with another child & that each day will bring you closer to where you want to be. With much love & prayers, Lisa
Lisa McCoy <lmccoy@sw.rr.com>
Wichita Falls, TX - Sunday, July 2, 2006 10:46 PM CDT
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, July 2, 2006 1:48 PM CDT
I HEARD THAT YOU ALL WERE HAVING A GOOD TIME AT DISNEY. MY
MOM TOLD ME DORA TRIED TO CUT CHARLES' HAIR AND NOW HE'S PRETTY MUCH BALD. I DO HOPE THAT YOU ALL HAD A GREAT VISIT, I ALSO HOPE THAT THE MOVE HAS BEEN A WORTHWHILE THING AND WILL BRING YOU CLOSER TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE. I HOPE THAT YOUR DAYS ARE GETTING BETTER. TAKE CARE. LOVE YA,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
- Sunday, July 2, 2006 7:18 AM CDT
I haven't signed in a while but I continue to think about all of you and Maddy and hope that brighter days are ahead.
Anna-Lisa Walker <mrswalker21@hotmail.com>
Sault Ste.Marie, ON Canada - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 7:19 PM CDT
Richelle it was great to finally meet you at Steve's sevice. I am sorry it was there that we had to meet and that it has taken me to so long to sign Maddy's guestbook. I wish we could have met under different circumstances and that I could have met Maddy. I am hoping for a new addition to your family. I know it will never fill the hole or void in your heart but hope it will bring joy of a new life!
King Brandyn's Evil Auntie Dawn <lilsis214@aol.com>
MD - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 3:18 PM CDT
I keep coming back to check on the Baby Bates progress - it's my new delight-prayer!
I remember when my good friend had her husband do the reversal to get #3, and then they decided to make it an even four, and he had to go back AGAIN, because it had closed off. Well, she went to pick him up from the surgery, and he was moaning in pain as the nurse pushed him to the car ... and the three kids were all being roudy in the backseat. The nurse looked at Tom like he was CRAZY, and Candy could only laugh! Emily Elizabeth arrived within a year, and she just graduated from college this year.
Praying that you will have that bundle of joy being roudy in the backseat very, very soon! After all, He is able, He is willing, and we firmly believe that Maddy is choosing ... Thank You, Lord!
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI - Monday, June 26, 2006 11:41 PM CDT
We continue to keep you in our prayers and pray that you will have another little one in your arms soon. Many prayers are being sent your way
www.caringbride.org/visit/skyler
Jamie Steinkamp <jlstei2@uky.edu>
Lexington, KY - Monday, June 26, 2006 1:47 AM CDT
Continuing to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Praying all goes well and that another baby will be on the way soon!
Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Gettysburg, Pa - Saturday, June 24, 2006 6:43 PM CDT
Richelle, Joe & Ethan,
I miss you so dang much!! Hurry up, make us a baby, get lots of money and come home to North Carolina!!! Maddy Moo put us together and she wants us back together, I know it! Free babysitting services, I promise! Me and Dora need you to come hommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmme!!! Okay, enough begging, I know you're doing the best you can. Lub you lots wif all my MOOchies!
Kim Kreem <KimKreem@aol.com>
Your Future Hometown, NC - Friday, June 23, 2006 11:05 PM CDT
Hi Richelle, Joe and Ethan....I was thinking of you all today so I logged onto Maddy's website. I am glad that you were able to return to NC for the walk and that you raised a lot of money. It is such a wonderful event.
My mom and I just returned from a trip to Peru. It was an incredible experience visiting another part of the world.
You are all never far from my thoughts....Love, Anne
Anne Milmoe <anne@theabogroup.com>
Denver, CO USA - Thursday, June 22, 2006 10:25 AM CDT
I think you look at your web site often, so: Hi. I just dropped by to say I miss Queen Maddy. I pray for her every day and every night too. I hope you have a happy week-end. If you wanted to know who it is, it is Michael Patrick Wren; new nickname is Mortimer. Bye. I wish you happy days.
M.P.Wren (with love and prayers from Mom & Dad too!) <jadubilu@netscape.net>
Charlotte, NC PBMT - Thursday, June 22, 2006 8:32 AM CDT
DEAR RICHELLE,JOE AND ETHAN-
HOPEFULLY SOON THERE WILL BE NEWS OF THE COMING OF PITTER-PATTERING NEW FEET IN YOUR HOME. HOPE THE MOVE GOES WELL.
TAKE CARE AND I HOPE EACH NEW DAY BRINGS A LITTLE PEACE AND MORE SMILES. OH BY THE WAY IT IS HOT HERE IN VA TOO. THE HEAT INDEX TOMORROW IS 100-105--ALL I NEED IS A POOL IN MY YARD......
LOVE AND LOTS OF PRAYERS,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
RICHMOND, VA - Wednesday, June 21, 2006 4:45 PM CDT
Thinking of you tonight, and praying that the newest Bates will be soon announced!
Much love, many prayers,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
amarillo, TX USA - Monday, June 19, 2006 11:46 PM CDT
Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTA
, - Monday, June 19, 2006 3:08 PM CDT
Hey Guys-
I was just thinking of you tonight & thought I would say hello all the way from North Carolina.
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 14, 2006 8:30 PM CDT
Hi Richelle,
Thinking about you today and praying for a day filled with joy and news of a baby soon.
Love Teri
Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 5:20 PM CDT
HEY I FINALLY FIGURED OUT HOW TO COME TO YOUR WEBSITE. BEAUTIFUL SHE IS SO PRETTY. I WANT YOU TO KNOW I FEEL YOUR PAIN. I WILL BE PRAYING FOR THE NEW BABY. MAYBE WE WILL GO THRU PREGNANCY TOGETHER. LET ME KNOW.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/willadkins
DEBORAH ADKINS <LILDEBBIE80@AOL.COM>
HAMPTONVILLE, NC UNITED STATES - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 3:15 PM CDT
Thanks for stopping by Skyler's site. We are adding your family to our prayer list. Praying you guys will be able to have a little one running around again soon. We'll be saying lots of prayers!!
www.caringbridge.org/visit/skyler
Jamie Steinkamp <jlstei2@uky.edu>
Lexington, KY - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:55 AM CDT
HI THERE BATES FAMILY- I HAVE BEEN THINKING OF YOU ALL AND I PRAY A BABY WILL BE ON ITS WAY SOON. I GUESS BY NOW YOU HEARD THAT CHARLES' HOUSE WAS HIT BY LIGHTENING,THEY ARE OKAY AND IN A HOTEL. THEY ARE 2 VERY STRONG PEOPLE AND WILL MAKE IT OKAY. YOU KNOW MY MOM WANTED TO DROP EVERYTHING AND GO TO N.C. BUT DORA TOLD HER THAT THEY ARE PLAYING THE INSURANCE WAITING GAME AND DID NOT WHEN THEY COULD "MOVE" BACK HOME-PLEASE KEEP THEM IN YOUR PRAYERS.
I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND, I GET TO DO ALL THE ERRANDS I CAN'T RUN DURING THE WEEK BECAUSE OF WORK. BUT THANK GOD I HAVE A JOB, I WENT LONG ENOUGH WITHOUT ONE.
HOPE ETHAN AND JOE ARE WELL
LOVE AND PRAYERS,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
- Saturday, June 10, 2006 7:27 AM CDT
Hi Bates Family,
Just checking in to see if there is any good baby news! I'm thinking of you all often and can't wait to read that you're expecting!
Love,
Sam and Emma
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, CA - Friday, June 9, 2006 11:09 PM CDT
When you love a child thoroughly, your grief must be thorough, also. How we love the devotion that you still continue to have for your children and your willingness to open yourself up to another new little life! God bless your days with His peace and with another baby soon. He is able, He is willing, and He is awesome!
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI TRIUMPHANT Trimper TRIO Territory - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 4:36 PM CDT
Hi Richelle,
I hope you will soon be able to think of Maddy and feel the joy of her life and have happy memories of the times you had with her. I really feel for you. It must be so hard! You deserve happiness and I know the time will come. I just hope it's soon. God Bless You!
Sarah
Sarah Kramer <sarah23232@aol.com>
Highland, CA - Tuesday, June 6, 2006 11:59 PM CDT
RICHELLE,ETHAN AND JOE-
I HOPE YOUR MOVE GOES WELL, I HATE TO MOVE,BUT HEY IF IT GETS YOU ONE STEP CLOSER TO WHERE YOU WANT TO BE, I AM ALL FOR IT. I KNOW THAT DORA,CHARLES AND KYLE WOULD BE SO THRILLED TO HAVE YOU ALL IN NORTH CAROLINA. MAYBE THEN I CAN FINALLY MEET YOU . I AM GOING TO PROBABLY BE OUT OF TOWN FOR KYLES B-DAY BASH, BUT I HAVE NOT TOLD THEM YET. I KNOW THEY ARE COMING TO CALIFORNIA THE END OF THE MONTH, PLEASE BE SURE DORA GETS BACK ON THE PLANE TO NC. I KNOW SHE MISSES IT OUR THERE, BUT ONE DAY, MY BROTHER WILL ASK HER TO MARRY HIM, I JUST WISH HE'D HURRY UP SO THEY CAN HAVE KIDS BEFORE I AM IN THE NURSING HOME AND CHARLES TOO. WE TEASE HIM THAT THE BABY WILL BE CHANGING HIS DIAPERS IF THEY WAIT TOO MUCH LONGER. SPEAKING OF BABIES, I AM PRAYING FOR A NEW LIFE FOR YOUR FAMILY, THAT WOULD BE AWESOME.
I HOPE EVERYTHING IS GOING BETTER, YOUR UPDATE SOUNDED BETTER, I THINK OF YOU ALL OFTEN AND CHECK ON THE SITE EVERYDAY.
TAKE CARE AND LIKE I SAID I WOULD LOVE TO FINALLY MEET YOU ALL, I FEEL LIKE I KNOW YOU ALREADY.
LOVE AND PRAYERS,
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
RICHMOND, VA - Tuesday, June 6, 2006 5:52 PM CDT
Thanks for the post and your enduring faith! I will pray, pray, pray for another little one for you guys. And of course, will continue to pray for your healing, health, and happiness.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@marquette.edu>
Sun Prairie, WI - Monday, June 5, 2006 10:15 PM CDT
Hey guys. Can't believe 9 months have already gone by. It's just not possible. I'm so sorry you are still hurting so much. I'll keep praying that you'll find the peace and comfort you're looking for. It can only come from God.
Keep the faith and remember there are lots of us out here keeping your family in our prayers.
Love you bunches.
Marian
Princess Madi's Mom <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Thursday, June 1, 2006 4:10 AM CDT
Richelle I pray for you all the time. I have NO idea what you are going through but I am here for you. Don't forget that. xoxoox
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
san bernardino, ca - Tuesday, May 30, 2006 6:03 PM CDT
Richelle,
I am sorry you are having such a hard time, but just remember that there is no time table for getting through grief. You just move along at your own pace and don't do anything you aren't ready for. You will get through this for yourself, your husband and son, and for Maddy. Whenever I feel really sad, I wonder what Shane would think and know that he would be really mad at me for feeling sorry for myself. It takes a while for the good memories to come back and replace the sad ones, but it will happen - even though it doesn't seem as fast as it should.
I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Leslie Edmonds (Angel Shane's mom www.caringbridge.org/va/shane) <ledmonds@charter.net>
Smithfield, VA - Monday, May 29, 2006 8:46 PM CDT
Richelle,
Although I never got to really know you I want to tell you what a special person you are. You are in a lot of pain and deeply grieving over the loss of your precious Maddy. However you still take the time to reach out to Ashley and me by signing her guestbook and praying for us. Thank You
I pray for your pain to be eased and for you to be able to smile when you think of your baby. Maddy was blessed to have such a wonderful family.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/ashley
TuWana Bagley <tuwanabagley@yahoo.com>
Durham, NC - Sunday, May 28, 2006 10:59 PM CDT
I am glad to know that you are aware that God made you human and He understands how you feel. Rather than being bothered by it, He only loves you all the more when you bring your brokenness to Him. He wants you to bring Him all of your joy AND pain... Meanwhile, we continue to pray for each of you. Love from the Wrens!
jw <jadubilu@netscape.net>
Charlotte, NC PBMT - Sunday, May 28, 2006 2:28 PM CDT
I come here often to check on you and pray....
May God heal your heart,
Lisa Tatem (caringbridge.org/va/tatem)
Yorktown, VA - Saturday, May 27, 2006 12:04 AM CDT
We pray for you and the family and think of you all so very often. I wish that in some way the pain could be less on you, but I know that it will not because it is hard to lose someone that you love so very much. I hope that soon someday you will have a little one to fill you with love and keep you busy to help you pass the time. We will ALL forever love Maddy. She is and was such a blessing to this WORLD! Just think,,,, how many people she has helped to bring back to faith. She will forever be in our hearts even for those who didn't get to know her as much as you did. We love all of you and will continue to pray for you.
Love always and Hugs forever.
Amber, Gary, Jonathan, Dylan, Tyler Giddens
Amber Giddens <ambergid@cox.net>
Las Vegas, NV - Saturday, May 27, 2006 2:18 AM CDT
RICHELLE
I WISH THAT I COULD BRING HAPPY THOUGHTS TO YOU, YOU SOUND SO SAD, BUT WHO WOULDN'T BE, YOU LOST A VERY PRECIOUS CHILD AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE, I WAS ALWAYS TOLD WE WERE JUST LENT HERE TO THE EARTH AND WHEN GOD WAS READY HE CALLED US BACK, WHETHER WE WERE YOUNG OR OLD. PLEASE KNOW THAT MY FAMILY SENDS PRAYERS,HUGS AND THOUGHTS YOUR WAY. I GOT AN INTERESTING PIECE OF MAIL FROM DUKE PEDIATRICS YESTERDAY. IT WAS A LETTER ABOUT THE WALK AND A SHEET WITH PICTURES ON IT, I WAS READING THE LETTER AND IT MENTIONED OFFICER SOLE AND THE K-9 DOG, I GUESS THEY DID NOT MAKE THE CONNECTION, THAT HE IS MY BROTHER, I LOOKED AT THE PICS AND THERE HE WAS, I AM SURE THAT DAY AT THE WALK WAS VERY HARD AND TRYING FOR ALL OF YOU. IT IS A WONDERFUL THING THOUGH, THAT MONEY WAS RAISED FOR THE FAMILIES WITH THESE SICK CHILDREN.
HAVE A GOOD HOLIDAY WEEKEND AND I KNOW THAT ONE DAY THINGS WILL BE A LITTLE BETTER.
LOVE
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@aol.com>
- Friday, May 26, 2006 4:35 PM CDT
We remember the soldiers who fought for our country.
Thank you to our troops & their families! Happy & Safe Memorial Day to ALL!
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Barb
- Friday, May 26, 2006 2:09 PM CDT
Savannah Yelton <mud_lover2002@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Friday, May 26, 2006 1:25 PM CDT
I love you guys and continue to pray that the LORD heals our hearts and brings happy memories and a smile to your face when you think of Moo-Moo.
Oh how we miss you Moo!!!
Rachel (Maddys aunt Sissy) <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, ca - Friday, May 26, 2006 8:55 AM CDT
Hi Richelle,
I can tell you from experience that no, the pain NEVER goes away, however in due time, I promise, when you think of Maddy you remember the happy, healthy times and not her sick dyeing times. You also will learn how to be happy again and you learn how to "live like this" life. Its horriable and im not sure how all this works out but by God's grace it does. My sweet Haden died 9 years ago. Some days it seems like yesterday and others it seems like eternity! I do purposely avoid the what if's. They can kill you. Just dont go there. You will learn to focus on the everlasting life and not the sad depressing one today. Its still so raw for you right now and I remember me, at this point your at now and it wasnt good. You have so m any things running thru your head and you cant control any of them. So start trying to put them to rest, one at a time and take your days, minute by minute and you will learn how to smile when you think of Maddy and not cry, You will learn how to cope and no, it never gets easier and the pain never goes away but you do learn how to live in this new life and you will carry that beautiful little girl everywhere you go. I pray for Peace.. I know it wont come for some time, in fact I was thinking of peace just yesterday and realized after 9 years, I wondered if I would ever have peace in my life because there is to much emptiness and longing, but Pray is all we have to do and Thank God we have that. I imagine our babies are up in Heaven playing on Heaven's playgrounds and THEY are at peace...
Praying for peace....
Tori <ToriWelch@aol.com>
- Friday, May 26, 2006 8:01 AM CDT
Richelle,
I don't think the pain will ever go away at the loss of our children...I do pray that what I call the "shoulda"..."coulda"..."woulda's"...stop hounding you...the "what if's"...don't do anything but bring unbearable pain...there are no what if's...I firmly believe that everything worked out just as God intended them to...Maddy and Lane are in such a better place then we are. Richelle...they wouldn't come back if they could...and do we blame them for that...No way...
My prayers are always with you...I know the pain you feel...each of us does however, handle grief in a different way...but...somehow...we do all handle it...focus on what is to come my friend...and you know as well as I do...that we will see our kids again...only then...they won't be sick...they will be happy and whole...look forward...try with all your might on the bad days to turn your focus on Heaven...after all...that is what this life is all about.
Love you lots...and praying for peace to your heart!
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock
Hanson, KY - Friday, May 26, 2006 5:27 AM CDT
Richelle, I'm mad, too. I'm so very, very angry that you don't have your Moo to mooch. But I do know that you will win over this pain. The Lord says that our sufferings can't compare to the glory that will be revealed, so I just have to believe that there is some glory in this for you. I'm so sorry that you haven't been able to see it yet. Then I see Jane's post, and I know her advice is the best. Hang on. Every day. Oh, the truth of it!
I read this on Amazing Jacob's site, which I'm sure you've read, too, but I need to post it here for you, because it fits so well. I can believe the Lord for healing of the body so easily, but healing of the open wounds of grief is mysterious to me. So these words of Joel Osteen are water on my thirsty soul. I hope they are for you, as well.
"Because of your faith, you have been healed."
Matthew 9:29 CEV
"Faith has to do with the unseen world. You may not be able to perceive anything positive happening in your life with your natural eyes today. In fact, everything may be falling apart. You may have all kinds of problems, and in the natural order, it doesn’t look as though anything is turning around. But don’t be discouraged. Look into that invisible world, into the supernatural world, and through your eyes of faith, see that situation turning around. See your joy and peace being restored.
The world tells you, “You need to see it to believe it.” But God says just the opposite. Only as you believe it will you ever see it. You’ve got to look through your eyes of faith and see it. Once you see it by faith it can come into existence in the physical world. Friend, don’t limit God with your small thinking. Have a big vision for your life. Dream bigger dreams. Live with faith and expect miracles. You will become what you believe!"
God bless you, sweet friend, with a greater miracle than a healed body - a healed heart. He is able, He is willing, and He is awesome!
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI My CB Page - Thursday, May 25, 2006 11:06 PM CDT
I wish there was something i could say that would make it all better or to tell you that it has gotten any easier for me either......all i can say is that each day is different and the positive days are slowly outnumbering the bad days when it comes to Brandyn.......At least now he has his daddy......Keeping you in my thoughts...cant wait to get together...And we will remember all of the good times and have a happy cry.. Lots of love Dajana
Dajana Graham <www.cash_guru@msn.com www.caringbridge.org/ca/kingbrandyn>
Beaumont, Ca Riverside - Thursday, May 25, 2006 9:17 PM CDT
I wish that I could heal your broken heart Richelle. To love completely is to risk loss but to never have loved is certain loss. Praying for God to carry you through.
leslie jurado <lesliejurado@rhtc.net>
- Thursday, May 25, 2006 8:50 PM CDT
I wish that I could heal your broken heart Richelle. To love completely is to risk loss but to never have loved is certain loss. Praying for God to carry you through.
leslie jurado <lesliejurado@rhtc.net>
- Thursday, May 25, 2006 8:49 PM CDT
Thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers!
Samantha and Emma
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, CA - Thursday, May 25, 2006 6:34 PM CDT
We are thinking about you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, May 25, 2006 4:40 PM CDT
I know this sounds stupid, but I think you are the bravest person I know----you don't want to get up each day but somehow you find the strength and you do. I am always thinking of you.
Tonya
Tonya Naylor <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 25, 2006 4:11 PM CDT
I come by and check on you often (& I like to see Miss Moo!) I know there's nothing I can say that will help you but God has ALL of the answers and He's still on the throne! You are always in my prayers, just wanted to remind you. :)
Alissa <alissacagle@hotmail.com>
Lubbock (Joiner Country), TX - Thursday, May 25, 2006 3:51 PM CDT
Hold on, sweetie.
Every day.
Jane Trimper <jtrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Thursday, May 25, 2006 3:34 PM CDT
You are in my prayers.
Lynette Veach <lveach@hardynet.com>
Petersburg, WV 26847 - Thursday, May 25, 2006 9:35 AM CDT
Praying for you here in North Carolina. Though you will never get over losing Maddy, I'm praying for a time that you will be able to learn to live with the loss. Please know that I am praying specifically for your peace, strength and comfort during these very difficult days.
Martha <marthie@triad.rr.com>
Oak Ridge, NC - Thursday, May 25, 2006 8:58 AM CDT
YOU DO NOT KNOW ME, BUT I HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING MADDIE'S STORY. I WISH I COULD SAY OR DO SOMETHING TO HELP YOU. MADDIE IS NOW AN ANGEL AND SHE WILL BE WITH YOU ALWAYS AND TRY TO TAKE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT THERE WILL NEVER BE PAIN, ONLY JOY, AND ONE DAY YOU WILL BE REUNITED. I WILL CONTIUNE TO PRAY FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU STRENGTH.
PAT ZELLMANN <P.ZELLMANN@KLEINET.COM>
YOUNG AMERICA, MN USA - Thursday, May 25, 2006 8:51 AM CDT
Richelle, I think there is a "spirit" on many of us right now. I'm not sure what it is, but as I check on all my folks, it seems that LOTS of us happen to be REALLY struggling with something or another. I'm signing in to let you know that you'll most definitely be in my thoughts and prayers more in the coming days. Prayer is the best thing we can do to hold each other up. Blessings to you in Christ. I love you.
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 5:44 PM CDT
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you EVERY SINGLE DAY!!
I miss love and you!
Janie <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 5:06 PM CDT
Richelle,
I'm praying for a day filled with happiness and good memories for you.
Love, Teri
Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 4:12 PM CDT
Just stopping by to let you know that I'm still praying for you every day. I wish you peace, even if you never truly understand the "why" of Maddy's passing. Take heart, however, at just how many people your little girl touched in her short time on this Earth. What a special little lady she was -- braver than I can believe, and as sweet as pie. What a special little lady, indeed -- and -- although your heart is fractured -- how lucky you are to be her mommy. Somehow I believe you were chosen for this role -- painful as it is -- You have brought so many people closer to the Lord and have been a shining example of all that it means to be a mommy. You will miss her forever, of course, but please know that she did not die in vain -- she lives on in all of us who think of her daily as we thank God for our many many blessings. And I know that you know the she is perfectly happy now, watching you and ready to be wrapped up in your loving arms again one day. Thanks for the post, so that we can direct our prayers to your needs.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@marquette.edu>
Sun Prairie, WI - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 2:53 PM CDT
Hi Guys
Richelle I am praying for you all everyday.I know it can be hard. But you guys are so strong. Luv Ya
Nadia <kanena32@yahoo.com>
durham, nc usa - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 7:30 AM CDT
Just stopping by to say hello. I hope your day is filled with smiles & sunshine!
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 23, 2006 5:54 PM CDT
I just wanted you to know you are thought of often!
Jane Trimper <jtrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Tuesday, May 23, 2006 5:28 PM CDT
Thinking of you guy's often.
The Wren's
5207
Mike Wren <mwren@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, May 21, 2006 3:08 PM CDT
Lifting you up, Richelle, and asking God to fill the terrible void left by Maddy's passing, and asking Him to comfort you as only He can.
Much love and many prayers,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Sunday, May 21, 2006 10:45 AM CDT
"Unending" is a good word for our thoughts and prayers! I've not been on the computer much since I started a job, but Mike and I carry the 5200family in our hearts at all times. We'll keep lifting you up to the Lord. (He surpasses all understanding)
Carolina Love,
Jean and the Wrens
jw <jadubilu@netscape.net>
Charlotte, NC PBMT - Thursday, May 18, 2006 11:18 PM CDT
Dear Richelle,
I have prayed for you and your family and followed Maddy's story for some time now, although I don't believe I've ever signed the guestbook. Your sweet daughter and your candid entries have touched my life. When I went to Trader Joe's, I bought the "Moo" milk and thought of Maddy. I will continue to pray that you will feel the Lord's presence comforting you and uplifting you.
Carol Thomas <songwriterrwt@yahoo.com>
Cambria, CA - Thursday, May 18, 2006 10:35 PM CDT
richelle,joe and ethan
WE ARE SENDING LOTS OF PRAYERS FROM RICHMOND,VA DURING THIS HARD TIME. PLEASE KNOW THAT MY FAMILY IS PARAYING FOR YOU.
I KNOW THAT YOUR HEART IS HEAVY AND I DO HOPE THAT VERY SOON THINGS ARE BETTER FOR YOU.
LOVE AND THOUGHTS
JENNIFER SOLE <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, May 18, 2006 7:07 PM CDT
A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard.
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands, but oh the tears she's cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?
My mother carries me in her heart, her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me, sometimes far into the night
She plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way, to remind her of her wonderous worth
She needs to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.
Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you'll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I'll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me
Until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.
Always in our thoughts and prayers
Denise and Steven
Steven's website
Long Island, NY - Thursday, May 18, 2006 5:39 PM CDT
Thinking of you all today, and remembering Maddy!! Hang in there.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, May 18, 2006 2:18 PM CDT
Praying for you today and always.
Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 8:00 PM CDT
Thinking of you and sending our prayers.
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
Moreno Valley, CA USA - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 2:32 PM CDT
I don't understand it either. Why do families have to fight for so long and then have nasty endings? You guys deserve so much more. Sending all my thoughts your way.
Tonya
Tonya Naylor <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 17, 2006 11:25 AM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Amber <ambergid@cox.net>
Las Vegas, NV - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 10:11 AM CDT
You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for peace for you and your family everyday. I wish I had some magic words to make this pain go away.... All I have is my continuous prayers for you.
Toni <toni310@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 8:50 AM CDT
I am thinking of you and praying for you. I keep checking every week to see if you have any "news" yet. Keeping you in my thoughts!
Mary Bennett (Ulrich) <Mary_Bennett@Quixtar.com>
Big Rapids, MI - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 7:58 AM CDT
Thinking of you today. I can't imagine what you're going through. Praying for you!
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 7:38 AM CDT
Praying for you today, as I do every day. You're doing the right thing, reaching out to your CB friends when you're having an especially hard time. Our prayers will see you through - I have no doubt about that. I ache for the pain you're going through, and I pray with all my heart for you to feel some relief from our prayers.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@marquette.edu>
Sun Prairie, WI - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 11:42 PM CDT
Sending happy thoughts & prayers your way!!
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 16, 2006 8:42 PM CDT
HI SWEETIE,
I'M SO SORRY THAT YOU ARE HAVING SUCH A HARD TIME. SWEETIE I KNOW I HAVEN'T TALKED TO YOU FOR AWHILE BUT IM DONE WITH SCHOOL NOW. PLEASE CALL ME, COME OVER WE CAN LAY BY THE POOL AND BUBBY CAN SWIM. SWEETIE I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.
LOVE ALWAYS,
MISSY
MISSY <LYSSAKATHLEEN@YAHOO.COM>
- Tuesday, May 16, 2006 8:03 PM CDT
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 5:08 PM CDT
I am so sorry that you are struggling right now. I am praying that somehow you find strength and comfort to get through this rough time.
Hugs, Angel Asher's Aunt
Angie Hinkhouse
Iowa - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 4:58 PM CDT
Lifting you up in prayer right now.
Sarah
TX - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 4:57 PM CDT
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 14, 2006 11:19 PM CDT
A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard.
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands, but oh the tears she’s cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?
My mother carries me in her heart, her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me, sometimes far into the night
She plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth
She needs to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.
Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you’ll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I’ll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me
Until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~>
EDMONTON
, - Thursday, May 11, 2006 10:59 AM CDT
I found this on another Caringbridge site and I just had to share it with you.
A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven
By Jody Seilheimer
Dear Mr. Hallmark,
I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard.
There must be some mistake I thought,
every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card,
from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands,
but oh the tears she’s cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me;
we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now,
would you see what you could do?
My mother carries me in her heart,
her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me,
sometimes far into the night
She plants flowers in my garden,
there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents,
trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth
She needs to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.
Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you’ll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I’ll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me
Until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 5:26 PM CDT
You don't know me, but I have been reading Maddy's website for 2 years and just want you to know that I still keep your family in my prayers. Thank you for keeping us posted.
Mary <Maggs483@aol.com>
Baton Rouge, LA USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 2:44 PM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. I AM SO THRILLED THAT LOTS OF MONEY WAS DONATED AND COLLECTED. I WOULD GIVE A MILLION IF I COULD. I
KNOW EVERY PENNY HELPS. I CANNOT THINK OF A MORE WONDERFUL DONATION, THAN TO HELP CHILDREN AND THEIR FAMILIES.
TAKE CARE-GET SOME SLEEP.
JENNIFER <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
- Wednesday, May 10, 2006 7:58 AM CDT
Praying for you, Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Barb
- Tuesday, May 9, 2006 1:29 PM CDT
Dear friends- We made it to the walk but did not see you. We did see Maddy on the wall. So beautiful!!! Praying God gives you strength everyday. Sending much love.
Shawn, Cheryl, Kayla and DEREK <sbostic0491@charter.net>
Ona, WV - Sunday, May 7, 2006 3:38 PM CDT
Oh my Gosh! Seeing you Richelle, Joe, and especially Ethan makes me miss Moo so much! Carol, Greg and Dora...it was good to see you as well! We all have our hearts broken but then again, Miss Moo touched so many hearts that it is sometimes hard to feel bad. Because, WE got to be a part of something special.....The "Queen's Court"! My love and prayers...ALWAYS!!
Miss Janie <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, May 6, 2006 9:06 PM CDT
I DONATED!!!!!!!!!! I hope it helps...someone!!!!!
I wish I could donate a million dollars or something.
Hope you are all having fun. See you soon.
xoxooxox
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, ca - Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:43 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you. I hope you have a safe trip to NC. I hate that we are not going to be there. We are really going to miss seeing everyone. Eric & I have the opportunity to get away with a few friends for the weekend. So we decided to actually do something for ourselves. I hope you all have a great time.
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 3, 2006 8:25 PM CDT
hello richelle joe and ethan
I hope you guys have a good time in north carolina and raise alot of money in the walk. i really wish maddy were here to go with you. she will definately be there in spirit. give me a call when you get back and let me know how it all went. i love you guys very much. take care and have a great and safe trip.
violet bohn
yucaipa, ca usa - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 11:26 AM CDT
Good luck on the walk. I hope you guys have a great time although I'm sure it will be difficult. I'm sure there are a lot of people anxious to see you guys and give you their support. Take care and have a safe trip! Keeping you all in our prayers!
Amy, Pat, and Angela <a.edwards@att.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 5:20 PM CDT
Hello my sweet Moo,
Oh how I miss you!!! We will be going back to North Carolina for the walk...to honor you! I am really excited to go and walk in your memory, but I am so sad that you aren't here with us. I love you so very much and know that one day we will all be reunited. Jesus gave us that promise. Hope to see you in my dreams very soon.
All my love,
Aunt Sissy
Rachel <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, ca - Sunday, April 30, 2006 5:23 PM CDT
Praying with a great burden for new life in your family very soon. Please, Lord, very, very soon.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI My CB Page - Friday, April 28, 2006 9:08 AM CDT
Hi Miss Moo,
I know it's been awhile since I have written. But as you know I talk to you all the time everyday. I miss you so much. Guess what, I'm doing a BIG report on childhood leukemia and your the STAR. I'm going to brag to everybody how brave and curagious you are. Not to mention how incredibly cute and pretty you are. I hope your having fun up there in heaven with jesus and my daddy. Live it up sweetie you deserve it. I love you so much, I can't wait to see your sweet little face again. I love you too Ricki, joe, Ethan, and hopefully a new baby bates. Ethan I hope you feel better real soon, it's crummy that you have been feeling so bad for so long. Love you guys!!!
Missy <lyssakathleen@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 21, 2006 9:31 PM CDT
Good luck in the walk and I hope you feel better, Ethan.
~Love Leah www.caringbridge.org/va/katrina
Leah Nelson <Scorchingtundra@msn.com>
Raynham, MA US - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 9:42 PM CDT
Richelle, Thanks for signing Emma's guestbook. I am sure that Jesus holds Queen Maddy and Emma in his arms everyday and I know that his arms are big enough to hold both of them at the same time. I can just hear them telling Jesus all about their Mommys, Daddys, brothers, sisters, grandparents and the wonderful nurses who cared so much for them. I also wish that I had known Queen Maddy. We also remember you and your family in prayer.
Emma's Papa David www.caringbridge.org/visit/emmagracebrashear
David Hudspeth <dehudspeth@aol.com>
Harrisburg, NC - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 7:47 AM CDT
I have been so touched by you and your family. You are forever in my prayers and by the wonderful grace of God, a cure will be found. May God richly bless you and your family.
Judi Temple (Kim Kreem's Mom) <judiatemple@aol.com>
oxford, nc Granville - Monday, April 17, 2006 0:45 AM CDT
happy easter to everyone. Ethan I hope you are feeling better-
I do wish I could be at the walk,but I don't know that I can. I am searching for a job-keep me in your prayers. i left a job of 16 years in July and have had 2 other jobs which I have left because of illness. I did make a small donation in memory of Miss Moo,oh how I wish I could have known her,she and your family sound like wonderful people. One day we will meet,I hope the baby happens soon,what a joy a new life would be. Hey,maybe i can move to cali and be your nanny-hahaahaha. Don't forget that Maddy helps the stars shine bright and the sky light up with sunshine. She is watching over everyone and loving life with Jesus and her new healthy friends.
take care
jennifer <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
richmond, va - Sunday, April 16, 2006 12:26 AM CDT
Thinking of you...
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Sunday, April 16, 2006 1:16 AM CDT
What a day. I got all my Rainbow of Heroes Walk e-mails sent out seeking support for Queen Maddy's Court. Stayed up last night to make a money box to place in the PICU today. Then things just started to happen. Moo, I made it through a milestone. For the first time since you left my arms, I went back into your PICU room to care for another little girl. I've run from that room for quite some time now, and I landed in there today by misunderstanding. I took report, washed my hands, looked down on my little one who was sleeping quietly, then walked over to the window where I last held you. Looking across the skyline at the Duke Chapel, the sun shone through brightly, reminding me you were lighting up the heavens and letting me know, it was going to be alright, I could quit running. Thanks Miss Moo, I miss you much, but love you more!
Nurse Kim <KimKreem@aol.com>
Wendell, NC - Saturday, April 15, 2006 10:18 PM CDT
Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOUR SICK ETHAN,I HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~>
EDMONTON
, - Thursday, April 13, 2006 2:11 PM CDT
richelle bates you better tell me right away once you learn any news of having a baby in that tummy of yours. i am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited for you and joey and ethan of course.
i hope ethan is feeling better.
love to all of you.
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, ca - Thursday, April 13, 2006 2:03 PM CDT
MADDY MOO I woke this morning with you on my mind. I wanted to tell you I love you so much and miss you more than you know. You are such a special little girl and will be in my heart forever. Ilove you little queen.
Violet Bohn
Yucaipa, ca usa - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 11:34 AM CDT
This message is for Maddy, I just want to say "thank you" for changing our lives, though we never met- you have inspired my little girl Cecilia, you see Miss Moo she has wanted to be a doctor since she was three years old, and after you went home to heaven she decided that she is going to be a hemotologist to help little children like you. She is also going to donate her hair to locks of love in June in memory of you. So once again thank you Maddy. We think of you all the time and talk about you constantly. We are always praying for your family and hoping that time will ease their pain.
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
Moreno Valley, CA usa - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:49 AM CDT
I check in on you guys every now and again and I pray every night for families like yours. I wanted to let you know I feel for you with your little one that keeps getting sick and let you know what worked for us. I took my two year old to a chiropractor. He adjusted a vertibre in his neck. It is connected to his sinuses and ears. He also tested him for alergies using acupunture points (don't worry no needles). He found that he has an allergy to cows milk. We immediately put him on soy milk. He also did something called Meridan Therapy for the allergies. It has really helped him. We have had our healthiest winter yet.
Shannon Allen <sballen@kc.rr.com>
Shawnee, ks - Monday, April 10, 2006 11:03 PM CDT
Praying for you each night, although I don't post often. How nice of you to post about the other families in this situation! Praying for peace for you, for happiness in your heart, and for the joy of new life! There's nothing like a new baby to give you hope and promise and a brighter outlook on the future (and to give you bags under the eyes....we have just welcomed our third child, three weeks ago). REST UP before baby arrives! : ) With prayers for God's blessings on your family, and especially for a healthy new baby!!
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@marquette.edu>
Sun Prairie, WI - Monday, April 10, 2006 10:10 AM CDT
When I posted Susan's news, I was thinking of you and hoping that we hear the same on this page soon. I have to admit to praying especially that your new addition will be on the Heroes Walk with you --- that just seems so wonderful a thought.
We have a friend whose very young niece once told them that she remembers being in heaven and seeing all the little spirits begging to go down to be new babies. I don't know how Biblical this is, but it seems right to me. So I'm praying that the right one comes to your family soon - very soon. I'm sure Maddy is doing all she can to make sure that a perfect spirit is making his/her way to your lives.
God bless our sweet Bates family. Thank You, Lord.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI Susan's Miracle - Saturday, April 8, 2006 4:38 PM CDT
We're lazy about signing in but we are here all the time to get news of the family and to let Kate "visit" with Maddy's mommy and daddy. We are so looking forward to seeing you in May and hoping that there will be baby news soon!
With much love,
Alison and Kate
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 10:22 PM CDT
THE JELLY BEAN PRAYER
Red is for the blood He gave.
Yellow is for His son so bright.
Black is for the sins we made.
Purple is for His hours of sorrow.
Green is for the grass He made.
Orange is for the moon at night.
White is for the grace He gave.
Pink is for our new tomorrow.
A bag full of jellybeans,
Colorful & sweet,
Is a prayer, Is a promise, Is a small treat.
Remember Jesus when you eat the jellybeans.
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Barb
- Wednesday, April 5, 2006 6:42 PM CDT
We think of you always. We pray for you always. We love you always.
Teri and Rick Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Monday, April 3, 2006 8:38 PM CDT
I came across this on antoher Child's website today and for me after loseing Haden, this hit the nail on the head. Thought you and your supports might like to read this.
Wishing you warm thoughts of your Maddy.
THE GREIVEING PARENT'S WISH LIST(author aunknown)
1. We wish you would not be afraid to speak our child's name. They lived and were important and we need to hear their name.
2. If we cry or get emotional if we talk about our child, we wish you knew that iT isn't because you have hurt us; the fact that they haved died has caused our tears. You have allowed us to cry and we thank you. Crying and emotional outbursts are healing.
3. We wish you wouldn't let our loved one die again by removing from your home his pictures, artwork, or other remembrances.
4. We will have emotional highs and lows, ups and downs. We wish that you wouldn't think if we have a good day our grief is over, or that if we have a bad day we need psychiatric counseling.
5. We wish you knew that the death of a child IS different from other losses and must be viewed separately. It is the ULTIMATE tragedy and we wish you wouldn't compare it to your loss of a parent, spouse, or a pet.
6. Being a bereaved person is not contagious, so we wish you wouldn't stay away from us.
7. We wish you knew all the crazy grief reactions that we are having are in fact very normal, depression, anger, frustration and hoplessness and the questioning of values and beliefs are to be expected following a death.
8. We wish you would not expect our grief to be over in six months. The first few years are going to be exceedingly traumatic for us. As with alcoholics, We will never be "cured" or a "formerly bereaved" but forever be "recovering" from our bereavement.
9. We wish you understood that the physical reaction to grief. We may gain weight, or lose weight, sleep all the time or not at all, develop a lot of illnesses and be accident prone, all of which are realted to our grief.
10. Our child's birthday, the anniversary of his death, and the holidays are terrible times for us. We wish you would tell us that you are thinking about him on these days and if we get quiet and withdrawn just know that we are thinking about him.
11. We wish you understood that grief changes people. We are not the same people we were before our child died and we will never be that person again. If you keep waiting for us to get back to "our old selves" you will be frustrated. We are new creatures with new thoughts, dreams, aspirations, and values.
Pleas try to get to know the new us; maybe you will
still like us.
Tori <ToriWelch@aol.com>
Tx - Monday, April 3, 2006 8:19 AM CDT
Praying for you guys as always. I can't wait to see you next month. Please know I love you. Blessings in Christ as you continue to put one foot in front of the other to serve Him.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Sunday, April 2, 2006 11:15 PM CDT
We are thinking fo you guys today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, April 1, 2006 10:54 AM CST
Just posting to let you know that I'm praying as ever and am rejoicing in the idea of a baby in your house! We grow a new heart with each child, and I know that you have plenty of room for many, many hearts, Richelle! We think of all the hearts we grow for our Caring Bridge kids alone, and our capacity for love becomes miraculous! God bless you as you enter a new phase of grieving - carrying Moo with you, but letting the pain go. I believe the Rainbow Walk will do that for you. I really do.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI Susan's Miracle - Saturday, April 1, 2006 9:51 AM CST
Just thinking of you all today, hoping everything is good.
beki gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
moreno valley, ca usa - Thursday, March 30, 2006 1:49 PM CST
Good morning Moo Moo,
I miss you so much! I find myself remembering all the special times I had with you. I was thinking of you so much last night. I was watching Cinderella with Reagan on my lap and I flashed back to the many times you were sitting on my lap cuddling with me watching that very same movie. I will hold that memory (and all the others) so close to my heart forever. I stop and smile evertime I see something with Disney princesses on it or when we are watching a Disney princess movie and I blow a kiss to you. I love you so very much and miss you more then words can express, but I look forward to the day when we are all reunited in Heaven. Sending all my love to you!
Missing you terribly,
Forever your Aunt Gikky (Sissy)
Rachel Maglio <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
san bernardino, CA - Thursday, March 30, 2006 11:07 AM CST
I think of you always, and continue to pray for you. I'll be praying about your new addition(s). If Brae continues to do well, she and I may be at the Walk...honoring the memory of your Queen, Maddie T., Lane, and Ross and Trevor. If it works out, I'll let you know. I'd love to meet you in person.
Love, hugs, and prayers,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 10:56 PM CST
Thinking of all of you daily. I love you guys.
rebekah <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, ca - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 11:01 AM CST
JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW I WAS THIKING OF YOUR FAMILY TODAY, PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW I CAN DONATE FOR THE WALK, YOU HAVE A DONATION FROM ME FOR SURE, I CAN GET IT TO DORA IF THAT'S EASIER, I/M SURE SHE;LL BE THERE, I'D LOVE TO COME TO SUPPORT YOU IF THE WEATHER IS NICE MAYBE DONA AND I WILL DRIVE DOWN FOR THAT DAY. TAKE EACH DAY AS IT COMES, MADDY IS IN PERFECT HANDS AND SHE SMILES DOWN ON YOU EVERY DAY, REMEMBER THE STARS AND THE RAINBOWS,SHE IS HELPING TO MAKE THEM BRIGHT.
TAKE CARE. HELLO TO JOE AND ETHAN -CANNOT WAIT TO MEET YOU IN PERSON.
JENNIFER
J.SOLE <GINSKI14369@AOL.COM>
RICHMOND, VA - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 7:19 AM CST
Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON
, - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 0:07 AM CST
Dear Richelle,
You are so right, you can never love on your kids enough. I think those of us who have suffered through an illness of a child have a totally different perspective on this. Thanks for reminding me today not to ever miss the opportunity to hug my children, kiss their faces, look intently into their eyes, smell their unique scent and whisper in their ear that I love them. Praying that God's comfort will fill the hearts of your family and his blessings of a new baby will come soon.
Your sister in Christ,
Terry
Terry Johnson www.caringbridge.org/nc/levijohnson <tltjohnson@yahoo.com>
Cleveland, TN - Monday, March 27, 2006 2:01 PM CST
Richelle,
Your journal entry moved me to tears. So much wisdom but earned at such a price. I pray that I will always remember to love my children fully each day.
I wish you every bit of conception wishes that I can send!
leeann <niccofive@aol.com>
md - Monday, March 27, 2006 8:37 AM CST
Maddy still touches my heart. Praying to hear the good news of a baby soon!
Anna-Lisa Walker <mrswalker21@hotmail.com>
S.S. Marie, ON Canada - Friday, March 24, 2006 7:59 PM CST
Organizing 24-hour prayer for Viesta & family. Info is on my site. Please pass the word. I love you guys too and am praying for you for the things you have shared about your new journey of attempting to add to your family. Thank you for continuing to let us know what's going on. HUGS!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 5:01 PM CST
Hi Richelle and Joe,
I can say 100% that new life will bring you tremendous joy and you'll treasure every moment! There are many days when I hold,nurse and look into baby Adam Trevor's eyes that I wish I could remember Emma this way. I hope your family will be blessed with a child as sweet as our new addition!
Love,
Sam,Drew,Emma and Adam
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, CA - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 3:41 PM CST
Okay......I'll admit, I'm a stalker. I come by, browse around, make sure I know what's going on, and run right back out the door without signing. The secret is out, and now everyone knows. I guess the first step to getting over your problem is owning up to it. I'll try to do better, I promise! See there, I told you Maddy always brought out the best in me, and she's still working on me!
Love you mostest, all my MOOchies!!
Kim Kreem <KimKreem@aol.com>
Changing my venue soon...Wendell, NC - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 10:29 AM CST
Richelle, I wish you could know the joy of seeing Maddy in her new spirit body and know that all is well. I was given that privilege with my mother's passing. She and I had a rocky relationship, and seeing her smile sweetly at me was so healing. Maybe because you and Maddy had such a close and beautiful relationship, you do not need that so much - you just want to see what you beleive in your heart of hearts. Forget dreams - let's ask for a vision.
"Lord God, I thank You so much for the new babies you will be giving Joe and Richelle and Ethan - how we have longed for that for them these last horrible months of pain! And we thank You that You care far more than we can comprehend about their grief. Please, Lord, give them a vision of Maddy while they are wide awake that will give them the healing they need. Maddy is so happy, we know - but Richelle needs to see it in a way that puts it to rest for her. Thank You, Lord, that You understand this need and will answer it, for it is not superfluous, Lord. You know that better than all of us. In Jesus' name, and because of Your deep love, Amen."
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI Susan's Miracle - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 7:14 PM CST
Praying for you everyday that God will ease the pain in your hearts, and that he will bless you with a beautiful healthy baby.
Toni <toni310@optonline.net>
Edison, NJ - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 9:04 AM CST
Maddy's Mommy,
I read your journal entries and I hear myself several years ago. I feel like you have the dreams of Moo at the hospital because that is what is fresh on your mind and thats how you last saw her. I can promise that will change, with time you will remember the happy, healthy times and not ONLY sick times. And I pray you guys have that baby your wanting and I can also promise you that he/she will bring you so much happiness back into your lives. We adopted two children after loseing Haden and they have truely saved my life. I know you will feel the same. Your a wonderful mother and I know God will bless you with a houseful of happy healthy children.
Hang in there, your family and your faith will get you thru this and one day you will dream of Maddy and wake with a smile because she was so happy in your dream while walking with the Lord, or even standing right next to you.
Take care and God Bless,
Tori <ToriWelch@aol.com>
Tx - Monday, March 20, 2006 7:23 PM CST
Thinking of you always and sending our wishes for a beautiful new baby in the future for you. God Bless....
Tonya Naylor & Noelle <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 20, 2006 3:57 PM CST
Miss Queen Maddy!
WOW! What a party! I am so glad your Mommy and Daddy and Ethan, and that other really handsome guy...(I never got his name) could come to our St. Baldricks Day Head Shaving... I felt so good to be able to do something...I just wish it could bring you back! I know your spirit was there and your memory lives on... You have touched the lives of even more!
Lot's of love from the one and only,
Evil Aunty Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA - Monday, March 20, 2006 1:19 AM CST
We are thinking of you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 6:11 PM CST
May today be a day of wonderful memories and thoughts. Ethan, I'm looking forward to seeing you on your trip to North Carolina in May. Mrs. "J"
Brenda Johnson <brendajo12@aol.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 11:07 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet girl. Thinking of you and your family today and always...
Megan
Scottsdale, AZ - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 3:38 AM CST
Wishing you a Happy Birthday Maddy. I'm sure you are having the party of a life time up in heaven.
I know I havent been signing Maddy's guestbook, but I do check up every single week. I hope Ethan feels better soon. And so now the 10th has come and gone and I hope it was a great day for you. After all you guys deserve it more then anyone!
Love Always- Cori Ramirez
Cori <dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon>
Fontana, CA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 11:53 PM CST
Happy Birthday Maddy. Thinking of you and praying for Mom, Dad and Ethan
Mary Johnson <kellandmary@eatel.net>
Prairieville, LA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 9:09 PM CST
Hello Bates family,
Emma and I are hoping that all the wonderful memories of Maddy get you through her sharing the big number 4 with our lord! I know we always think of her when dining out at CPK!
Love,
Sam and Emma
PS.Northern California is better than Southern!
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, CA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 2:43 PM CST
Just stopping by to let you know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
Sorry it's been awhile since I have been here.Doing alot of running around with the kids and it's been snowing here all week but finally it's starting to melt.I just want to see the sun again.Have a good day and I will be back again really soon.
HAPPY ST.PATRICKS DAY
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 3:09 AM CST
Maddy's Mommy and Daddy,
Thinking of you!
Evil Aunty Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, March 14, 2006 2:04 AM CST
Wanted to sign in and let you know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers a little more than usual today. I love you guys. Blessings and lots of love. I'll be back soon to check on you.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, March 13, 2006 10:03 PM CST
Happy Birthday little angel. I've been thinking about all of you today. I hope this weekend brought great news. We are anxious to hear. Ethan, I hope you feel better soon!
Heather Thompson (Gage's Mom)
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
Wilmington, NC - Monday, March 13, 2006 9:08 PM CST
Happy Birthday, beautiful Queen. I hope you and Jesus have had an incredible celebration.
Richelle, Joe, and Ethan, thinking of you, and praying that your happy memories of Maddy would bring you smiles and great comfort.
Love,
Trish and Braeden
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 8:54 PM CST
Happy Day Moo!
Papa and I have spent the day reflecting on all the memories we have of your life with us (short as it was). We sent balloons (a Disney Birthday Cake balloon with all the princesses on it) up to the heavens today. We pray you saw it floating upward. Papa and I always look up for the moon at night (you loved it so) and wave and say hi Maddy when we see it - especially the little sliver of the moon that matched your birthmark on your leg. We miss you more than words can possibly say. Our hearts ache to have you here with us, but know you are safe in the arms of Jesus. You will always be in our hearts - we will forever savor the love you gave us and the memories you left us. We're sure you and Jesus, your heavenly friends and angels are all celebrating your Happy Day tonight in heaven! We will look into the sky tonight for the twinkling stars that are sure to show the celebration. Happy 4th Maddy...we'll see you soon. Until then know that we love you and miss you with all our hearts.
Great Papa and Great Nana send their love to you and wishes for a happy birthday as well...especially because you and Great Papa share the same birthday. They love and miss you so much Maddy.
Happy Day my love....
Nana and Papa Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 7:01 PM CST
Queen Maddy Moo, I'm sure the day you were born the angels watched in awe, knowing that Mommy and Daddy would not have you long, but that you would be one of the most loved little girls in the world. I'm so glad that you are safe with Jesus, where no more harm can come to you, where there is no cancer, no meds, no needles, no sadness. I'm glad that you are praising the Lord all day long, laughing with your friends, learning everything about the Lord that you didn't get to learn here. Keep that sweet smile for us - as Janet Joiner says, see you in a heartbeat.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio Country), MI Susan's CB page - Monday, March 13, 2006 6:33 PM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Maddy Moo. While we all wish you could be here to celebrate with your family, I have no doubt there is a rip roarin' party going on up there in heaven tonight. When I see the stars twinkling, I will be picturing the sparklers and listening for the laughter. God bless you all.
leeann <niccofive@aol.com>
ellicott city, md - Monday, March 13, 2006 5:44 PM CST
Happy Birthday Maddy!! Praying that you have a great birthday in heaven and that your family can find peace on this difficult day.
Becca <andre149@msu.edu>
Stanton, MI - Monday, March 13, 2006 4:47 PM CST
happy birthday to maddy and may God bless your family today and always. No one can ever take away your memories of your life with maddy and the love you all shared.Cherish them forever.
jennifer sole <Ginski14369@aol.com>
- Monday, March 13, 2006 2:33 PM CST
May God Bless all of you on this special day. Love, Martha Lamm
Martha Lamm <MLamm@rockymountchamber.org>
Rocky Mount, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 2:17 PM CST
Joe, Richelle, and Ethan
Praying for you today, as I know how hard it is. We love you guys so much and are right here celebrating Moo Moo's life and all the wonderful memories with you. It will seem like a blink of an eye for Maddy until we are reunited with her. We have the hard part in being patient until that day comes. I pray for peace and comfort for you, especially today. We love you guys!!!
Rachel, Mike, Caden and Reagan <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, Ca - Monday, March 13, 2006 10:54 AM CST
Happy Birthday Moo!!!
I will spend today remembering all the wonderful memories you have given me and our family. I miss you so very much I can't even put it into words. Wishing you a wonderful heavenly birthday. We continue to celebrate your life and all the love you brought and continue to bring us everyday. You are in my heart forever!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY MADDY MOO... I LUB YOU SO VERY MUCH!!!!
Aunt Sissy, Uncle Mike, Caden and Reagan <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Monday, March 13, 2006 9:59 AM CST
Happy Birthday Maddy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers today.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neputne.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Monday, March 13, 2006 8:18 AM CST
Happy Birthday Maddy! Continuing to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Leslie Edmonds (Angel Shane's mom www.caringbridge.org/va/shane) <ledmonds@charter.net>
Smithfield, VA - Monday, March 13, 2006 7:49 AM CST
Praying you have a good day and lots of smiles as you remember the blessing Maddy has been to your family and to so many of the rest of us!!! Happy Birthday Maddymoo!!
We love you all!!!
Marian, Mike and Mikey
Princess Madi's Fam <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Sunday, March 12, 2006 11:03 PM CST
Hi Richelle, Joe, Ethan!
I've been thinking about you guys the last few days knowing that Maddy's birthday is here. I pray that God will comfort you especially tomorrow. Sounds like you're making some big decisions. I pray that God will help direct you. I read some of the entries....I think Texas is ahead as far as recommendations! We'd love to show you our neck of the woods. People are so friendly here and traffic? What traffic? It's funny.....I realized I've complained about it taking 10 minutes to get home (when normally it would take 5 min.)
Oh, and I loved that fruitcake lady email! I love you guys very much and will continue to pray for you. Get well wishes for Ethan!
Lisa, Garrett, Lauren&Caitlin
Lisa McCoy <lmccoy@sw.rr.com>
Wichita Falls, TX - Sunday, March 12, 2006 10:55 PM CST
We are thinking and praying for all of you. Can't wait to hear about your new addition to your Family. May God's blessings and presence be with all of you everyday and he will bring Big blessings soon in the form of your new little one. We miss you all and hope that we will be able to see you soon.
Ethan we have been praying for you to get better and we know that you will very soon.
Gary Michael, Amber, Jonathan, Dylan, & Tyler Giddens
Gary Michael <amebrgid@cox.net>
Las Vegas, Nv - Sunday, March 12, 2006 7:15 PM CST
Okay.....I need to speak up LOUD and Clear that North Carolina is your home. You know ALL of the wonderful people that are here that have a special place in their hearts for the Bates family! We ARE family! I still feel Miss Moo's presence all around me each and every day. The flowers are starting to bloom and it is in the 70's today. A two hour ride to the beach, a two hour ride to the mountains.....it can't be beat! I cannot wait to hear about the 10th! I plan to call on the 13th....I remember last year and she even liked the scarf that I knitted. (my very first knitting creation!) Ethan....get those nasty germs out of your system and come see me again SOON! I miss ALL of you so much!
Miss Janie <janiejohnson@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, March 11, 2006 4:36 PM CST
Richelle, Joe and Ethan...
Just a note to say that I am sending my prayers your way this morning, and I will also be praying and thinking of you all on Monday. God Bless.
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
Moreno Valley, CA 92557 - Friday, March 10, 2006 10:45 AM CST
Joe, Richelle and Ethan,
Saying extra prayers for you especially on the 10th that your hopes and dreams begin to be realized and on the 13th that most of your memories will be of the happy moments you shared with Maddy.
Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 4:51 PM CST
Wishing you good luck and safe travels. We will be thinking about you on the 10th and on the 13th. You deserve more good things in life here on earth. You guys are wonderful. All our prayers,
Tonya (Noelli's mommy)
Tonya Naylor & Noelle <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 1:21 PM CST
May the road rise up
to meet you
may the wind be
always at your back
May the sun shine warm
on your face
And the rain fall soft
upon your fields
And until we meet again,
May God hold you
in the palm of his hand.
—an old Irish Blessing
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Barb
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 12:42 AM CST
Though I didn't know Maddy, I have kept up with her website. Our sweet Joseph (10 years old) died at Duke on Nov. 16th 2005 after a devastating battle. Just like you, we believed God would heal him and we would take him home with a new life before him. The pain of losing him is sometimes unbearable. We miss him so much. Just wanted you to know that I understand how much it hurts, and that I pray for you all. Love, Nina Brown, Joseph Brown's grandmother
Nina Brown <Bobbymarie303@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 9:28 AM CST
It has been a long two years since we first met on 5200. We did not have much time together but I have followed your journey since then. Even though I have not signed your guestbook before, I have held you in my thoughts and prayers throughout these many months. Maddy's 2nd birthday was the last party that our angel Jacob attended. She was such a delight! I am so excited to hear your March 10th news.... some joy is much awaited. Bless you!
Angel Jacob's Granny, Ginna <ginna.shotwell@gmail.com www.caringbridge.org/nc/jacob>
Bremerton, Wa - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 0:16 AM CST
To My Dear Friends,
I dont want to bring sad days to your page. But I just wanted to say hi, Please keep me in your prayers, as Jessie prepares for Heart Surgery, I wont lie to you all, I'm scared. Scared it may happen again. I miss you all so much, Please write me next week, I really need the encouragement. I love you all. V
Viesta King <viestaking@yahoo.com or caringbridge.org/nc/frannie>
- Monday, March 6, 2006 10:25 PM CST
Hey Bates Family.
I check on you guys all the time, but sometimes do not have the words. March 10th is approaching and we are praying for you to have a GREAT day. By the way, have I said what a beautiful place Texas is?
Always praying, never forgetting.
Angel Trevor and Angel Ross's mommy...
Janet Joiner <jjoiner@incode-inc.com>
Lubbock, TX USA - Monday, March 6, 2006 1:35 PM CST
March 10th sounds like a lucky day to me. I can't think of anything happier than more children for you to love. You are amazing parents. And I think you have half the country ready to adopt you into a new community. Maybe we should raffle off chances to have the Bates family relocate to one's own town, and use the proceeds to finance your move. I'll buy a ticket and throw Nashville into the hat.
with love,
Alison (and Kate)
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Durham, NC - Sunday, March 5, 2006 2:26 AM CST
hey bates family
i think that moving to the south would be ideal. You'd have a personal PT,bodyguard and the cutest little guy to play with ethan, i'll even throw in some babysitting for a date
for you and joe- you'd have to let me know ahead since its a litle drive from richmond!!!!!
i do hope that these thoughts that weigh in your mind will soon becone less troublesome. Our landlord drowned ina kayaking accidnet 1-21-06 so we are in the process of trying to figure out what do to-there was no family and her executer is a good friend of hers so please pray we find the right place or can even stayhere, we have the perfect little home.Take care and im praying for a new addition to your family.
jennifer sole <ginski14369@aol.com>
richmond, va - Saturday, March 4, 2006 3:12 AM CST
Dear Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
I do not personally know you guys but I have read this website for a good while now. I have prayed for you guys daily and I will continue to do so.
Just read how you are thinking about a possible move someday. How about Texas? We live in Fort Worth and everything about Texas is wonderful. Housing is VERY affordable, great schools, good job market, and foremost--the best people in the world!!
I would welcome you guys with open arms. If ever a move is looking more like a possibility, please email me. I know it's weird and all since you don't know me. I am a Stay at home mom, I'm 27 and I have a 4 year old daughter. I'm good people. ;o)
Lifting you all up in prayer,
Sarah
Sarah <schnzrlvr8@aol.com>
TX - Friday, March 3, 2006 5:12 PM CST
Sending all my love and warm wishes. You are never far from my thoughts.
Tonya (Noelle's mama)
Tonya Naylor <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 2, 2006 10:02 PM CST
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
My name is Dana I am good friends of Sam and Emma. I have followed your story for along time I just am such a bad typer I never left an entry. I think of you guys all the time. Maddy's sweet little face reminds me of my sweet boy Nolan. He is 3 and I have a daughter that will be 7 soon. I just can not even imagine how you all feel everyday. Anyway my prayers are with you. I hope new life will bless you soon. I don't know about where you would think of moving. We always lived in th CA Bay Area until Nov. 2004 it was just so expensive, too crowded etc... We moved to Anthem Arizona. It is a planned community, so fun for the kids and much less to buy a house here. You should check it out! And I get to stay home with my angels. My prayers are with you guys.
Dana Cottingham <dcottingham@cox.net>
Anthem, AZ - Thursday, March 2, 2006 9:47 PM CST
Joe, Richelle, and Ethan,
We are praying that you will have the wonderful news of a new life very soon. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. God be with you always.
Teri and Rick
Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Thursday, March 2, 2006 9:06 PM CST
Thinking of all of you today and wanted to check in!
Love and Prayers,
Sam and Emma
www.caringbridge.org/ca/emma <samnash@theemmafdn.org>
Walnut Creek, CA - Thursday, March 2, 2006 2:44 PM CST
We just wanted to let you know that we donated all of our change (over $6 between us) to pennies for patients in Maddy's memory. We have also both decided to grow our hair long to donate to Locks of Love in Maddy's memory too.
Love,
Jordan & Olivia
Jordan & Olivia Chapman <legosdude97@yahoo.com>
Anchorage, AK - Thursday, March 2, 2006 1:52 PM CST
We just wanted to let you know that we donated all of our change (over $6 between us) to pennies for patients at school. We donated in Maddy's memory. We have also both decided to let our hair grow long so that we can donated it to Locks of Love, we will donate that in Maddy's memory too.
Love,
Jordan & Olivia
Jordan & Olivia Chapman <legosdude97@yahoo.com>
Anchorage, AK - Thursday, March 2, 2006 11:41 AM CST
Thinking of you and remembering Maddy!! All the best with your upcoming endeavour.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 8:29 AM CST
Missing Moo.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio country!), MI Susan's CB page - Sunday, February 26, 2006 4:29 PM CST
Hey Guys-
I just wanted to drop a quick note to let you all know that we think of you often. Everytime we are at clinic I have to stop and look at sweet Maddy's pictures. I can't imagine the pain that you feel. We pray that you find peace and comfort in this coming year. Thanks for keeping the site up. I love to check on you.
Heather Thompson (Gage's Mom)
Heather Thompson <htast@aol.com>
Wilmington, NC - Friday, February 24, 2006 8:24 PM CST
Holding you in special thought and prayer today, with greater appreciation of faith, and family, and friendships.
Blessings,
the Carolina Wrens
JW <jadubilu@netscape.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, February 24, 2006 9:31 AM CST
HI THERE IT;S JENNIFER,CHARLES' SISTER
JUST WANTED TO SAY HELLO AND WISH YOUA BELATED HAPPY B-DAY. I PROMISE WHEN YA'LL COME DOWN YONDER TO THE SOUTH OR IS OVER TO THE SOUTH I AM GOING TO TRAVEL TO MEBANE AND MEET YA'LL OR BETTER YET MAYBE WE COULD MEET AT A WEDDING!!!!
I DO HOPE THAT ONE DAY YOUR PAIN WILL BE LESSENED, BUT HOW DO YOU GET OVER THE FEELING OF HAVING YOUR HEART RIPPED OUT?
I HAVE TO BABYSIT MY ETHAN TOMORROW AND EVERY TIME I SEE HIM I THINK OF YOUR ETHAN, I HEAR HE IS QUITE A WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN. I CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU IN MY THOUGHTS, REMEMBER THE SUNRISE AND SUNSETS "PAINTED" BY MADDY. SHE IS SMILING DOWN ON ALL OF US.
TAKE CARE AND SMILE WHEN YOU CAN,
JENNIFER
JENNIFER <ginski14369@aol.com>
richmond, va - Friday, February 24, 2006 6:50 AM CST
Praying for you today and always. Looking foreward to seeing everyone Saturday.
Teri Bates <tbates53@verizon.net>
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 11:10 PM CST
Richelle, how do we close an open wound that seems to rip at us day and night, in our times of seeking a day of sunshine, or a night of seeking solace? Why is there so much pain about Queen Maddy, Madi, Lane, Maddie, Ross and Trevor? Because, my dear friend, it was never, ever God's will that they die so young, and we are in mourning with God. We may ask, Why then didn't He intervene, and only He has the answer to that. But yesterday, when I was driving back from the cancer doctor, I thought of how we simply won't let satan have the upper hand - even in death, he loses.
Do we remember that when Jesus died that there was so much mourning, loss, and Why God? that no one could see the good at all? Even after the resurrection of our Lord, many had doubts about what it meant. And after His ascension - oh, even then, there was the loss of the daily interaction with our Lord in His body. I don't think that ever went away. Just like I don't think it will ever go away for the Queen. It just won't. So we take the pain with us, and we don't try to dress it up. We let God make something wonderful of it - like the salvation of "whosoever will may come" (THINK of it!) was the purpose for Christ. Will Maddy's sweet, sweet soul ever NOT be missed? So let it run in you, dear one. Let it run - this grief. And then watch what God does.
Carolyn Wyman <re_born@sbcglobal.net>
Belding (Triumphant Trimper Trio country!), MI Susan's CB page - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 12:46 AM CST
We are thinking of you today.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 12:46 AM CST
Hello Miss Moo,
I am missing you so much, I can't even put it into words. You are with me always. I know that you are having such a grand time in Heaven... I can only imagine you saying "what is everyone crying about, I lub it here". I will be sending more balloons soon, be sure to look for them. I miss you Moo Moo and look forward to the day we are all reunited. Uncle Mike,Caden and Reagan send their love too. I LUB YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!!
Aunt Sissy <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, ca - Sunday, February 19, 2006 11:12 PM CST
I still find myself coming here every day, to read your updates and guestbook. Y'all are such an amazing family, and your Queen is just beautiful. Although we've never been officially introduced Richelle, I have great love for you and pray for you always, I know how dear you are to Janet Joiner and Diane Hancock, and others who have been on 5200. I visited 5200 when Maddie Trimper was there. I flew there and spent the day with Jane and Maddie. 5200 is something. I am the founder and director of The Stennis Foundation....we raise money and support research for the leukodystrophies. I've been around the CaringBridge for a while - but I never dreamed I would need a site myself. But this last month found my daughter (a high school senior) in PICU with a life-threatening illness involving her digestive system. We are home now, but it's almost like being in the hospital still. We have tubes, monitors, poles, and pumps here at home. But I can get her out for short periods, and she likes that.
I'm sorry for writing so much, I just wanted to introduce myself, and I wanted you to know that I pray for you, and I think of you often.
Always,
Trish and Braeden
(leukodystrophies awareness)
caringbridge.org/visit/braedenknight
Trish Knight <trishknight@stennisfoundation.org>
Amarillo, TX USA - Sunday, February 19, 2006 8:38 AM CST
Sending our prayers that God will comfort you as only He can.
Rick and Teri Bates <tbates53 @verizon.net >
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Saturday, February 18, 2006 10:36 PM CST
Even though we never met, I followed your family very close when you all were here in NC at Duke. For some strange reason last night and this morning you guys a very heavy on my heart and in my thoughts and prayers and I just wanted to let you know. You are on the west coast and I am on the east coast, but I continue to lift your family up in prayer, the Queen has left a special place in my heart. I hope that you all are going well and please know that you are thought of often.
kelli fisk <kelli.fisk@ncmail.net>
clayton, nc - Saturday, February 18, 2006 7:24 AM CST
Saw the video and it took my breath away to see Joe and Maddy playing. We never saw her when she was well enough to play, and I feel like it was a little gift to catch a glimpse of that side of her. She was, is, a precious child. I wish I could take one ounce of your pain away.
with love,
Alison (and Kate)
Alison Kirk <kirkplace@comcast.net>
Durham, NC - Friday, February 17, 2006 11:54 PM CST
Hi! My name is Julie and my daughter, Dakota, is here at Duke. Dora gave us your website. She talks about Maddy all of the time( and you too!). We just love Dora! She is so good with the kids here. Thank you for sharing your site. Maddy was beautiful.
Julie Bihn <jbihn@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, February 16, 2006 3:02 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RICHELLE!!!! I know these milestones come with lots of mixed feelings, wishing Maddy were here to celebrate with you. I just hope you have a happy day and that the coming year will be full of happy memories and fun times.
I just saw the video with Dr. K, Maddy and Joe, etc. Wow...Dr. K is so awesome, and Maddy looked so cute! You were right, it was hard to watch, and I sat here and cried, but it was good to see Maddy too. Brought back lots of memories!
Sorry I couldn't come and meet you guys for lunch today, but we'll see you for dinner tomorrow night!
Love you bunches!
Marian
Princess Madi's Mom <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 3:56 PM CST
Hey....I saw a video today and a little girl looked like Maddie. Thought i would give you the link. Click on Dr. K's name to play it...
http://www.cordus.com/media.htm
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 10:44 AM CST
Know that I love you and continually lift you in my prayers. I know things must be so very difficult. It brings tears to my eyes just to think that she's really not here with you. I do praise God for the testimonies He's brought and will continue to bring out of this situation. And, I thank Him for the day that you will no longer have to be separated. I'll check back in on you soon. HUGS!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 8:37 AM CST
Richelle,
I watched the video. It was tough for me to see the old faces so I know that it had to be more difficult for you to see Maddy...
Like you, I just knew in my heart that Lane would make it. It never even crossed my mind that he wouldn't...some say that is faith...sometime I think it was just sticking our heads in the sand...even though I will always miss him more than words can say...I wouldn't bring him back like he was...now, he is so happy...and so is Maddy...no more pain or disease...we prayed over and over for a complete healing...they certainly got that and so much more...thinking about you often...lots of prayers of support...
Love ya
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh@vci.net>
Hanson, KY - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 6:13 AM CST
Hi Richelle and Joe
I wanted you to know I ran across a video on another childs site today and it was Maddy's doc and I watched it and there was Maddy and Joe!! Here is the address-->http://www.cordus.com/media.htm
Then ckick on Dr. K's name.
I know these days all to well and I know they are so hard and yout hink it will never get better and from experience I can can tell, they dont! BUT, you do learn how to cope and that makes it easier. Just know how much your whole family is loved and cared for.
Tori <ToriWelch@aol.com>
Tx - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 9:45 PM CST
Valentines..To Heaven
This Valentine is not of the ordinary kind;
It's still filled with love and blessings inside;
But mine has to be sent on the wings of love..
You see, its destination is the Heavens above.
It's not being sent to my parents so dear
For they are still with me each day of the year.
It's being sent to my child who left earth too soon
Who's now in the Heavens with the stars and the moon.
The message is the same as your valentine
"I love you my sweet precious child of mine."
My love is still deeper than the ocean is blue
And it's sent with hugs and kisses from me to you.
I know you are with me each and every day
You listen as I talk to you and hear what I say
For that is one thing that disease cannot do
You'll always be apart of me and me apart of you.
I know God did not give you the awful disease
Thank Him for His comfort He gives me, would you please
I don't know what I would do without His undying love
Sent to bereaved parents from the Heavens above.
I know you are in the best of care
But it's so hard for us left on earth to bear
Could you put in a request from us left behind
For God to send the knowledge, so a cure we can find.
So that no other family has to go through this pain
Our lives without you will never be the same
When I get lonely I will look to the sky at night
And see you shining down your big bright light.
Happy Valentines Day Sunshine..I miss you so much
I know you know how many lives you have touched
You'll always be mine..I love you will all my heart
I know we'll be together again and then we'll never part.
So you see the meaning is still the same
The method of delivery is the only change
Mine must be sent by a little white dove
On the wings of Love.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 9:04 PM CST
My Valentine to My Moo...
Oh miss Moo, you taught me so much. One of your greatest (and many) lessons, was showing me how much I could actually love a child. I have always loved kids, but you and your sparkly eyes and Mooster personality took my heart and swept it off its feet. I am so appreciative for you and Daddy, Mommy, Brudder and your whole family.
So...Cupid let me borrow an arrow and shoot it up to you. Just in case you need help reading it, it says:
"WILL YOU BE MY VALENTINE?"
Loving and Missing you SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much!
Moochies Forever
Dorga <dora4smile@prodigy.net>
Mebane, NC - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 7:42 PM CST
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Monday, February 13, 2006 9:22 PM CST
sending our prayers, God Bless you all.
Beki Gonzalez <bekafina@yahoo.com>
Moreno Valley, CA 92557 - Monday, February 13, 2006 12:20 AM CST
Still praying for you here in North Carolina. May God continue to hold you in His great big arms and comfort you. Maddy is watching out for you and is with you every minute. Keep the faith.
Martha <marthie@triad.rr.com >
Oak Ridge, NC - Sunday, February 12, 2006 4:01 PM CST
Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, February 11, 2006 8:21 PM CST
Richelle,
I have read your many entries on the Joiners site. I am so sorry for the pain that you are going through. I cannot imagine. Wishing you strength as the firsts without Maddy approach.
The Reed's <dlynnreed@hotmail.com>
Temple , TX - Friday, February 10, 2006 9:18 AM CST
Praying for some healing to your broken hearts.
Praying for you,
Barb, John, Shawn,
Shannon, & Colleen
www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon
Barb
- Wednesday, February 8, 2006 12:58 AM CST
it seems like yesterday the my mom called and told us that maddy had died. I feel like I knew her, dora loved your little girl so much as did kyle and charles. i wish they would hurry up and have babies- maybe get married first, either way i want some more nieces and/or nephews. twins sound like a great idea to me, i told charles he's getting to be an old man and better hurry or those kids will be raising him and changing his diapers-ahahahahahah
Please know you are in my thoughts i do hope one day to meet you,joe and of course Ethan man. I was a nanny to a little boy named Ethan and to this day i just love that child so much, so that name is special to me. i was told i needed to have a baby but at 41 i just don't believe so , i'll love everyone elses.
take care and try to keep up your spirits, Maddy is looking down on your family and smiling every day,When you see a bright shining star or a glorious sunset know that Maddy is helping to create that
love and prayers
jennifer sole <ginski69@aol.com>
richmond, va - Monday, February 6, 2006 9:19 AM CST
This website is a beautiful tribute to your special angel, Maddy. I connected to it through the Trimpers. The poem written by Maddy's nurse is so beautiful. Tears just flowed as I read it, tears of sadness for your loss of her physical presence(her spirit is everlasting), tears of joy knowing that Maddy has been divinely healed and happy running on the beach in Glory. It also touched my heart knowing that one day I would reap comfort knowing that my grandaughters would be right there frolicking with Maddy and all the other special little ones God has called home before us. They are both "infantile MLD", Katelynn is 9-1/2 yrs and Kendal is 6-1/2, Kendal had BMSCT at Duke 4 years ago.
You have a beautiful son also, we will be praying for God to continue to comfort you and lift your spirits.
In His Love,
Diane
Diane Lasby (Nana Di to Katelynn-9, Kendal Leigh- 6) <dilasby@bellsouth.net>
Cocoa, Fl - Saturday, February 4, 2006 8:43 AM CST
Every time I visit Maddy's site and read your words, the tears just fall. I always want to leave an encouraging note and let you know we care and things will get better, but it's truly heartbreaking. I DO believe the sorrow lessens and more smiles and good memories take the place of sadness; it just takes time. I just want you to know you're in our prayers and thoughts. So many times I don't know what to say, but I hope it's helpful to know we're praying for you and wishing your family peace and happiness.
Shelle <hpechik@aol.com>
Clearwater, FL USA - Thursday, February 2, 2006 11:44 PM CST
They say that after you have a baby it should take your body another 9 months to recover. Let's just say this is true----You have been through so much since Maddy was diagnosed---years and years of hope, devastation, hope, devastation. You guys may just need that many years to start recover and that is okay. This disease is awful and robs a family of what a family should be. I am so, so sorry that this has happened to you. Your Maddy should be with you. You should see her in dance class. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Tonya
Tonya Naylor <tpawlow@yahoo.com>
Kenosha, WI - Thursday, February 2, 2006 10:06 PM CST
Please know that I think about you, Viesta, Diane, Amity and others so much. I pray that God will heal the hurt and ease the pain that you feel. I pray that God will give you happy thoughts and let the good days out way the bad. The Lord promised never to leave us nor forsake us. I pray that he will move in your life in a mighty way like never before. Know that QueenMaddy's life has touched so many in ways that you may never know. Keep on giving God the praise. He's carrying you through. Pam Eason
Pamela Eason <t3rrye@aol.com>
Four Oaks, NC US - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 10:32 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that I certainly have not forgotten you. I think of you and pray for you guys continually. It seems so surreal, even to me. So, I know I can't possibly imagine what you're going through. Please just know that I care and I love you. Don't hesitate to call or email if there's anything else I could possibly do or if you just need a listening ear or shoulder. HUGS!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 10:04 PM CST
Richelle,
You are so sweet and kind to sign our guestbook so often. I am always so ashamed because I so rarely ever sign anyones. Please always know that my lack of notes doesn't reflect my affection for your whole family. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you.
I find real comfort in the thought of our Maddie (y)'s together.
Jane Trimper <jatrimper@cms.maisd.com>
Stanton, MI - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 6:33 PM CST
Continuing to pray for your peace and healing every day, and admiring your faith! May the Lord bless you with many many happy memories of your sweet baby girl.
Jane Jacobs <jane.jacobs@marquette.edu>
Sun Prairie, WI - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 8:21 AM CST
Richelle,
I can't believe it has only been five months. Time for me is on a drag...like you there isn't a day that goes by that my heart doesn't cry out to God for peace and comfort. People keep telling me that this will get better...I can't help but wonder when and how...A huge part of us is gone...Keep your eyes focused on Heaven and that which is eternal...to think of our children being so special to God that He just wanted them with Him...they are enjoying all the God planned for us through out eternity...we just have to wait for our turn...
Love you lots...and praying for peace and God's blessings on your family.
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh@vci.net>
Hanson, KY - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 6:04 AM CST
Five months. Five months? No, it was yesterday. The pain is fresh, vivid, it will not go away. It can't be five months. If it breaks my heart into little pieces - what is it doing to you? Oh, Lord, heal this grief in Richelle, Joe, Ethan. Please, Lord, do it quickly.
You probably read about Diane's vision of Lane. It is what really is - he is perfect and gorgeous and happy and enjoying dinner with the Lord. So is Maddy. These realities are wonderful, and it gives us so much joy. I hope it helped you in some way.
"As a father pities his children, so the Lord pities them who fear Him." Psalm 103:13
Thank You, Lord.
Carolyn Wyman
<re_born@sbcglobal.net>Belding, MI TRIUMPHANT Trimper TRIO Territory - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 6:51 PM CST
I can't believe it's already been 5 months. I'm so sorry!!!
Just know I am thinking about all of you and love you very much. Wish things were different and that we could still hug and squeeze on our little girls. So glad we have our friendship.
Love and hugs!
Marian, Mike and Mikey
www.caringbridge.org/nc/princessmadison <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 1:57 PM CST
Maddy is a beautiful spirit. Her face still gives so much
light. I found your site from the Naylors. Thank you for sharing Maddy's story with all of us. It must be difficult.
Our family has certainly learned to appreciate each other
because of experiences like yours and Noelle's and all the
other children and families struggling. Our prayers
are with your family as we pray that your pain is eased knowing Maddy is home. She accomplished SO much in her short time here in earth - she touched so many with such a positive light and is now with her Father in heaven. Although I can't imagine your pain and loss, my heart aches
for you.
Lisa
Lemont, IL USA - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 10:39 AM CST
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, January 30, 2006 7:14 PM CST
Hokey Dokey, Dorga has a plan. The house next door for Joe and Richelle. The property across the street (2 acres) and Nana and Papa can have their custom built home. Rachel and Mike, there is MORE property. M's, Mebane is a growing place!!! (The PLACE to BE in NC!) If we need a place for ALL of use to get together, we'll just go to Kim's - looks like there will be room! As for a job for the GOOD LOOKING DAD, well, that's the least of the problems, I'll get on it. It would be SO much fun. Lots of room for motorcycle riding (I'll watch)...good dinners (I'm getting better and Richelle is AWESOME), your own private PT and personal K9 security guard...we'd have it made. What do you think? Love you SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much!
Dorga <dora4smile@prodigy.net>
Mebane, NC - Sunday, January 29, 2006 7:24 PM CST
Still thinking of you and praying for your family's comfort.
Fellow Duke Family,
The Tatems (caringbridge.org/va/tatem)
Yorktown, VA - Sunday, January 29, 2006 2:39 PM CST
Thinking of you today and everyday.
Leslie Edmonds (Angel Shane's mom www.caringbridge.org/va/shane) <ledmonds@charter.net>
Smithfield, VA - Saturday, January 28, 2006 5:59 PM CST
Just want you to know we are thinking of you.
Jodi and McKayla
Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, January 28, 2006 0:11 AM CST
Joe, Richelle and Ethan,
We are praying that God will ease your heartache.
Love Teri and Rick
Teri Bates <tbates53@verizon.net>
Rancho Cucamonga, CA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 7:21 PM CST
We to share in your journey as we pray for you and know you pain as we all are missing our Angels .
Its not fair and they why's seem to last forever.
But that one swwet day when we get to look into the eyes of our angels agin I do and Ihave to beive it will all be worth it seeing them healed and free from the pain.
May God and Maddy Moo be with you as you go though these days.
I thought you might like this poem below.
With Hope , Faith and Peace
www.caringbridge.org/tn/kayla
www.caringbridge.org/tn/mimmie
Our Sweet Angel left us today
Our Sweet Angel is in heaven to stay
So senstive, caring and brave it is true.
We are so proud of you
Proud to be your mommy
Thankful that it was me
whom was chosen to take care of you until you where set free..
April "Angel" Mikayla Mimmie and Hunter Noah and Zach <babymsmom04@yahoo.com>
TN USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 1:47 PM CST
Richelle:
I have followed your journey with Maddy when my son was ill. I too, lost my son and my father within a short time of each other. This is not a journey I would wish upon anyone. I simply want you to know that I feel your pain.
The one thing that gets me through the really hard days is knowing that the love we shared here on earth with those that have gone before us is eternal and that for me brings peace. I could not have loved my Zachary more and I know through your journaling that Maddy was the same for you.
God bless you for sharing your life. I pray that the memories of your precious little girl and the unconditional love that she gave you will sustain your pain.
Please feel free to email me if you ever would like to talk.
With Hopes and Prayers,
Stacy, "Angel" Zachary's mommy forever
www.caringbridge.org/va/zacharygerman
Stacy German <mnsgerman@aol.com>
Richmond, Va USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 9:04 AM CST
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and your family and dear Maddy Moo. Love to all of you.
leeann <niccofive@aol.com>
md - Sunday, January 22, 2006 9:50 PM CST
Richelle, Joe and Ethan,
I sit hear reading your update and crying. I wish I could hug you. I two know what your days are like. I know how you have what if's and I wish we could have done more. I sat with AJ's Nanny one day and the only thing it came down to was that we just miss our baby boy.. He was the light of our lives as I know Maddy was to you. I never knew my heart could hurt soooo bad. Even when my Mom died I thought that would be the worst thing ever. I think of you and your family often and pray for your own peace.
Love Angie, David, Robert and Angel AJ
www.caringbridge.org/sc/ajhaynes
angie <Ahaynes199@aol.com>
Summerville , SC - Sunday, January 22, 2006 6:54 PM CST
Missing you Maddy.Keeping your family always in my thoughts and in my prayer's.
LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA(CANADA), - Sunday, January 22, 2006 2:30 AM CST
....and through all the tears and sadness and the pain comes one thought that can make me smile again....
I have loved...
Madi Mitchem's Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, January 20, 2006 0:28 AM CST
Richelle, Joey, and Ethan,
Hang in there guys. We're thinking of you and praying for you. I think the book is a great idea-- you can do it Richelle!
Sarah
Sarah Kramer <Sarah23232@aol.com>
Highland, CA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 11:03 PM CST
Richelle, as I said in the email, I was especially burdened for you last night and today. God knows your pain, as He endures it with you. Please know that you are so very loved and cared for out here.
Carolyn Wyman <re_born@sbcglobal.net>
Belding, MI TRIUMPHANT Trimper TRIO Territory - Thursday, January 19, 2006 9:30 PM CST
I know Ethan is such a blessing to you. The busier the better, but do grieve when needed. Trey was my rock and caring for him after Andrew died got me through many hard days. God Bless you all.
valerie Price mom to Wilm's Angel Andrew and Terrific Trey <valerie_price@hotmail.com www.caringbridge.com/tx/aprice>
brisbane/spring, tx australia/USA - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 5:26 PM CST
I just wanted to stop by and let you know you're in our prayers. I hope each day is a little brighter for your family.
Shelle <hpechik@aol.com>
Clearwater, FL USA - Monday, January 16, 2006 3:38 PM CST
Hello Joe, Richelle & Ethan,
Just dropped by to tell you how often I think about you. I read your entries often but don't always type a note. You are so strong! Richelle, I think it would be wonderful if you'd write a book. So many people would be touched by your story. I will say a prayer for you this weekend as you travel to honor your father's memory. My heart aches for you.
Hope your trip is safe.
Love you! Lisa, Garrett, Lauren & Caitlin
Lisa McCoy <lmccoy@sw.rr.com>
Wichita Falls, tx - Sunday, January 15, 2006 11:40 PM CST