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- your browser may not have loaded the new page. Click here to sign the guestbook. Click here to view older guestbook entries. Click here to go back to the main page. CUTE CUTE CUTE photos - I can't stand it! Love you all soooo much :) Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 7:09 PM CST Good morning everyone, And to follow the quote from Jana, Ashli's friend....here's another one to help those folks in our lives who are facing tremendous personal challenges right now...our love, prayers, and full hearts are with you...from Florida to Texas to California....we're thinking of you today. Harold Kushner said it best: "People who pray for courage, for strength to bear the UNbearable, for the grace to remember what they have left instead of what they have lost, very often find their prayers answered. They discover that they have more strength, more courage than they ever knew themselves to have." God bless you all and I hope you will be given the strength and courage you need to face this day. Love, Terri aka Teetay:) Mrs. M/T Mat terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va usa - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 7:37 AM CST A quote came across my email this morning from a friend who is facing some pretty tough times right now -- Jana, my friend whose fiance passed away in August, one week before thier wedding... And I just had to post it here today. Many of you will understand WHY! :) "The Friend who holds your hand and says the wrong thing is made of dearer stuff that the one who stays away." -Barbara Kingsolver Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 7:22 AM CST Happy Monday, everyone! For those people who mocked me weeks ago when I wanted to put up my holiday lights I just wanted to let you know that since I have NOT done it yet, we are expecting 8 inches of snow tomorrow!!!!!! We can't complain because after all, it is mid-November in Minnesota. So, it looks like I am going to start working on my new in-laws and will try to convince my father-in-law that he should help up with the lights next weekend. I would rather stay inside and bake cookies :):) We are counting down the days until we are with family. Have a great week!!!!! Love you lots!!! PS - Terri, you had me in tears as I remembered your parents too. The stained glass in your house is what I remember most but I also remember how beautiful your tree always looked and how many precious ornaments you had. I hope someday to have hundreds of "ornaments made with love" hanging from my tree as well. Thanks for the stroll down memory lane. Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, November 14, 2005 1:52 PM CST Just wanted to write and say that the new pictures are just adorable! I have been a little crazy here with the stationery business (I am definitly in Christmas mode!) and Jack and Will's birthdays 3 weeks apart. I have not had much down time and I manage to crawl into bed around midnight every night! Just wanted you to know that I check in on little Ally all the time, but I sometimes am too crazed to post. Wishing you all a wonderful week and safe travels for the Thanksgiving holiday. Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Sunday, November 13, 2005 9:53 PM CST Good Sunday morning everyone! I am continuing to 'deck the halls' with Christmas decor between little 'trips down memory lane'....you see, my Mother LOVED Christmas! She loved "thinking about Christmas, planning for Christmas, looking at catalogs and ads to find just the perfect gifts for her family, and to savor the decorations in her various houses/apartments" over many years. One year ago this weekend we traveled to Atlanta to visit Mother in her 'new digs'...a beautiful assisted-living establishment appropriately called "Southern Plantation." Ashli took Tom to "meet her grandmother" two weeks after they became engaged! During the weekend we 'decorated' Mother's apartment with all of her beloved Christmas decorations - - many of them acquired over many years. Everyone on Mother's hall came by to "see her Christmas" house and to enjoy the lighted churches she so coveted, and the dancing Santa singing Jingle Bell Rock...the lights on the tree flickered as did the ones in her eyes as she 'saw Christmas come to her' once more time. That was Mother's last Christmas on earth. However, as I've retrieved many of my decorations from the packed up tubs over the past two days, I know my mother is somehow 'both smiling and laughing' at me as I take out the 'torn and tattered' decorations from over so many years and have myself a good old-fashioned cry! The first song I heard on the radio this morning was "Silent Night"...so that started my waterworks - - - in between, I've found every hand-stitched holiday runner Mother made...every ceramic humming angel...every stuffed snowman and Santa....SO MANY MEMORIES over so many holidays shared with my Mother and Daddy....they are cuddled in these memories and will help warm our hearts again this holiday season from their vantage point in Heaven. And just so I "know they're here" I am going to PLUG in this 'annoying bird-sounds-bird they gave us about 30 years ago....we used to point to the dove on the tree and tell Kristin and Ashli that the DOVE was making all the bird sounds....after Kristin and Ashli got older and figured out it was NOT that bird, we would RELAX the bird-sound-usage! TODAY I think I WANT to hear those bird sounds!! So, chirp-chir-warble-warble-squawk-cheep....here we go! Have a beautiful Sunday wherever you and whatever you are doing and know that Christmas is beginning to come alive in our household----complete with BIRD sounds! Love to all and thanks for indulging me a moment down memory lane. It is a good road to travel! :)Remembering so many loved ones today!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v usa - Sunday, November 13, 2005 8:29 AM CST Morgan..I made an oops! Wear that silver skirt with your cowboy jersey on Monday! Forgot the boys aren't playing today!!! Happy Sunday!! Hugs...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Sunday, November 13, 2005 7:40 AM CST Happy Saturday everyone! I have accomplished alot today along with my hubby right by my side with his honey-do list! We finished painting the playroom, but are still arguing over the color I want for our bedroom! I also attended my very FIRST YOGA class today!! A friend of mine in the neighborhood is working on her certification and is doing free yoga classes. Thankfully, I had some other mommy friends there that had never tried yoga either! I was afraid that Nina was going to twist me up like a pretzel and I would not be able to get out of it!OUCH!! Maybe next time I will be able to stand on my head! HA! Love the new photos Kristin!! Morgan you sure are stylin' with that silver skirt! Ask your mommy to let you wear it tomorrow with your Dallas cowboy jersey!! Then you will really look HOT! Well, I must go nap...Nina told us all to take a 20 minute nap when we got home! I like that part! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, November 12, 2005 1:44 PM CST Good Saturday Morning to everyone!!! And, Santa's cutest 'elf-angel' has put the biggest smile on my face this morning....for.....YOU SEE...WE ARE PUTTING UP CHRISTMAS LIGHTS and DECORATING this weekend!!! (see what you started Aims???) It is actually a LOGICAL "move" on our part since we are going to be away for a week at Thanksgiving (guess where??? Sandy beaches of ???? what state????) and then again during the Christmas break, so THIS WEEKEND IS IT! Not sure if I will "brighten the corner" with the big TURN ON OF LIGHTS yet, but I'll be READY when we return from CA and Turkey Day! So, to SEE the little holiday spirits on this website really put me in the MOOD! Geep is organizing and setting up the TREE as I type...(yes, we have for the FIRST time in 35 Christmases 'together' succumbed to an artificial tree...I hope I don't hate it, but it is practical and has 1500 lights to shine!!)....my job is to get everything out and place it on the 'correct' floor so that when Ash arrives tomorrow she can BEGIN her 'elf work' by helping me! We haven't decorated the inside of the house in the past two years since we travel every year and I've missed my decorations. The last time we decorated my Mom was with us for six weeks and she so enjoyed sitting in the living room looking at the tree while she wrapped Christmas presents 'for me' while I was at school. I am sure I will shed some tears this morning as I retrieve many of the Christmas decorations that Mother made and gave over many years. I also have some 'handpainted' decorations that my Dad created over many years. Then, there will be THAT "Santa Claus toliet paper roll" Ashli made when she was five! And, not to forget the "Hello Kitty bandaid" ornament the girls used to fight over putting on the tree. Yes, there is quite an assortment of 'items' that all spell LOVE and FAMILY and many moments of togetherness centered around the birthday of Jesus. Such blessings abound!! :) I completely AGREE in the most OBJECTIVE way that the smiling Kelso family is a beautiful one!!! I love the preview of what's to come!!! And I cannot wait to see Ash and TG's 'first Christmas house'....and the UNveiling of the 'new basement' in their house down the street!!! Wishing you all a beautiful weekend...we are in wedding mode AGAIN this weeked - we're going to witness a former student of mine getting married! I would never have thought in a million years that I would be attending the weddings of former students...very best wishes to Emily and Trent on this special day! Geep and I got our flu shots EARLY this morning, so we will be GERM FREE when we are around Allyson and Morgan!! Cannot wait to see them in person! Only 9 more days!! Off to do 'tree work'...and I promise you, Aimee, that I will not turn on my lights until YOU DO!!! Like the song says..."We need a little Christmas....right this very minute...." JOY!!! : ) Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, November 12, 2005 9:07 AM CST And for all those with Christmas fever, including me who's catching the bug, perhaps this is why we anticipate the spirit of such a joyous season that actually lives in us all year long..... This one's for YOU, eager Christmas beavers! :) "Christmas is a bridge. We need bridges as the river of time flows past. Today's Christmas should mean creating happy hours for tomorrow and reliving those of yesterday.:" --Gladys Tabor I love, love, love that quote -- and it means more to me and my family this year more than EVER! :) Quote Lady... need you ask who?! <auntash@ilovespecialquotes.com> North Pole, COLD.... - Saturday, November 12, 2005 8:21 AM CST Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful! That IS one fine lookin' family - thanks for the Christmas preview!!! And Al, you little stinker with that s*** eating grin -- I think we're in for quite a ride with you, Miss "Thang"! :) And of course I think that snazzy silver(!!) skirt of Morgy-lu's is top notch - it's HOT, Morgan! (Make sure Mommy says "it's HOT" in the right voice for you MAK! ;) Hope you all have a great weekend and as I book my December travel plans, I CANNOT WAIT to see you all!! What a wonderful bday #1 and Christmas it will be just to be together and celebrating the "year that was.... 2005!" It has been a ride, to say the least, and I have been so glad to be at your sides, have you at mine and look forward to a super year of fun stuff, continued Ally progress and family time! I have already raked this morning and discovered we still have a front yard.... TG and Dad-in-Law are back at work in the basement apartment, I am headed there to clean... then tomorrow, it's of to Teetay & Geep's to assist with (DRUM ROLL FOR AIMEE, PLEASE...........) CHRISTMAS decorations!!!!!!!! :) I am looking forward to retriving all my holiday gear as well and trying to figure out what/where/how to decorate for my "first official married person Christmas in a new house - not new but new to me I mean. Fun, fun! Lots of love and big hugs to you all! PS - Morg - How did your tea party turn out yesterday??? PPS - Miss Michela Calhoun was ALL about you little gals (and parents, too!) last night at dinner, and already excited to meet you at SARFA 2006! Yes, I am already planning -- what did you expect?! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxox Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Saturday, November 12, 2005 8:16 AM CST Holly silver skirts!!!!! Morgan, you look so beautiful that I can hardly contain my smiles! Kristin, you made my morning by starting the Christmas theme.....I STILL have not hung the lights (aren't you proud of me?). Yesterday we hit record highs for MN of 65 degrees in NOVEMBER but the forecast for Tuesday is 30 and snow. I had better get off my lazy butt this weekend and get those lights up for sure. Your family portrait looks awesome too. I can't wait to see the rest of the photo shoot. I am glad to hear that Ally is on the mend too. Mommy intuition is ALWAYS right! Maybe she will be crawling any day now too. Well, I have to jump in the shower before taking Tyler to Karate (you know how bad my hair looks in the morning - hee hee). Have a wonderful weekend! TONS OF HUGS!!!!!!!!! Aims <itsalmostxmastime@gottahangthelights.com> EP, MN - Saturday, November 12, 2005 6:56 AM CST Maddie Rainwater...YOU ROCK..TEETAY 'said so'...so there. Thank you so much for wearing Allyon's bracelet..it MEANS.."RALLY for ALLY"..and THAT means we are "pulling for Ally on all of her surgeries and medical appointments in the future"... Thank YOU , M.Rainwaer, for writing, but most of all for caring. We love you all, Terri aka Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Friday, November 11, 2005 9:17 PM CST Dear Allyson...I like your pictures. I like to look at them. My mom got one of your blue bracelets that Teetay sent her. She let me wear it the other day so that I could show my friends. Mom said that you are almost a year old. When is your birthday? You are very cute....Madeline Rainwater Madeline Rainwater <iluvgymnastics@backflips.com> - Friday, November 11, 2005 7:54 PM CST Happy Veteran's Day to everyone! This is a special message to the veterans in our lives we have known and loved....THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE to our country. Special tribute to the flying men in blue (USAF)....Geep aka Jerry Matus....Big John aka John McKay...Fritz aka F.D. Washburn....Gordie/Dazzle aka Gordon Cook... This is for you who served your country during the Vietnam era and thereafter.... "Oh I have slipped the surly bonds of earth and danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings...Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth...of sunsplit clouds and done a hundred things you have not dreamd of...Wheeled and soared and swing high inthe sunlit silence hovering there...I've chased the shouting wind along through footless halls of air and flung my eager craft UP,UP the long delirious burning blue. I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace where never lark or even eagle flew...and while with silent easy step I've trod...the HIGH untrespassed sanctity of space lift up my hand...and touched the face of God." John Gillespie Magee, Jr.(High Flight) And to the veterans in our life who were US Army - Uncle Loren aka Loren D. Pugh, Terry aka Terry Smith, Pat aka Pat Siemon...thank you for your service to our country. Special thanks to our US Coast Guard friend...Jon aka Jon Peterson...and to Kirk aka Kirk Peterson, USAF, Jon's son and my former student. And to the many current US Navy aviators...especially my son in law, Mark...twin bro' Glenn...and 'adopted' son, Josh....thank you for your contribution to our country in keeping the peace. And, very special memories of my Dad, BE Grant, who served in World War II and as a photographer became the 'eyes' over Europe with his many picture accounts of the war. Also, a special tribute to Uncle Nobby aka Norbert Tasler, age 93, who not only served in World War II but was captured and spent time in a concentration camp. God bless both these men who served so long ago. If you know a veteran, or even if you don't, please reflect tomorrow on the sacrifices military families make for all of us in order that our world might be a safer place. I am proud to know and to have known everyone mentioned in this message...there are many, many others that I did not mention. A nation is grateful for your service. And, you have my personal gratitude. I'm proud of each one of you for the efforts you made in making our world a better place. Thank you all, and God bless your lives. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) There are many children related to these veterans who have much for which to be proud. May their legacies continue with great pride. terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Thursday, November 10, 2005 7:20 PM CST Morgan...I think your mama must still be under the weather and just didn't realize that she put the WRONG jersey on you the other day! I do love those cute braids on you though...you look like Dorothy from The Wizard of OZ! I am almost done with my painting project with the exception of our bedroom. Greg and I cannot agree on a color. I have about four different kinds of green on my bedroom wall....not very romantic! I want olive green and Greg thinks it will look too dark. There was one color that we agreed we DIDN'T like...it looked like baby poop so that one was a definite...NO!!! I have also been busy helping to plan the Thanksgiving feast at the boys school. Camden and Grant suggested that we eat what they served on A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving...popcorn, jellybeans, toast, pretzel sticks and coke floats...works for me!!! I can't believe that Thanklsgiving is right around the corner. I love Thanksgiving because I like looking back on our year and seeing how God has blessed our family. Even though this has been a difficult year for us, we have much to be thankful for...especially Greg's health. We have also lost some dear friends and relatives this year as well, but I am so grateful for the privilege of knowing these special people and how much they influenced my life in their own unique way. I am also thankful for the special memories I will carry with me forever. Well, my hubby just got home from working in Houston the last 3 days so I need to go give him a squeeze and then try to convince him that olive green will look good in our bedroom! Hugs from the state that NEVER wears BURGUNDY.....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, November 9, 2005 9:31 PM CST Dare I saw you look awfully CUTE in those photos, Morgy-lu-lu!! I still hate the color and years down the road you will learn that burgundy is just not becoming ;) however, I can't deny that you are the cutest patootie around - tied with Miss Al in her stunning BLUE! (At least this family can agree on ONE color - despite the 3 different teams it represents!!). You all are so cute and fun to see in these "fall" photos. HUGS to you all and talk to you later !! Love you!! xoxoxoxo Aunt Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Tuesday, November 8, 2005 7:34 AM CST Hi, California Family! Loved the new pictures and just read the journal updates on Allyson. You're really doing quite well, sweetie, and we're proud of you! Morgan, you are a doll! You smile at that camera and it smiles right back at you! Not much news here except some yukky bugs going through the family - strep and stomach flu, etc. It's been so hot here - was 80 today, a new record for this time of year. I am looking forward to some cold weather and maybe a freeze - this dry warm weather seems to be incubating viruses and bacteria! I have alerted all our praying folks regarding Allyson's November 17 surgery, and you can be certain many prayers are being said for her and all of you. Much love to everyone! Hugs, Aunt Grammy Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Monday, November 7, 2005 5:58 PM CST Wow, Ally and Morgan!!! Great to see you in the right outfits, for once!!! Morgan, burgundy becomes you much more than gray!! And Ally , you look good in anything, especially when it says Virginia. You southern Californians have more fall color than we do here on the coast in North Carolina. At least our crape myrtles are beginning to show come color, but it is the 80s today so it is hard to even think about autumn. I am itching to wear sweaters and sweatshirts soon. I saw Jeffery and Crystal on Saturday and Jeffery is feeling better, thanks to all your prayers. But we have to continue to pray that he gets an appetite because he needs to put on some pounds. Lucky boy! I wish there was a way I could give him plenty of my extra ones! Love to all! Lydia Kelso a.k.a. Grandma kelso <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Monday, November 7, 2005 11:33 AM CST Ally, can you say "Wa-hoo-wa, wa-hoo-wa, U-NI-V-Vir-Gin-i-a???" Well, maybe not as you are still working on mama and dada. That's ok though because mommy and daddy will teach you that! You made me get all nostalgic when I saw you in your UVA garb. :) Sounds like you had a wonderful weekend. We did not do much - except laundry! Our new washer and dryer arrived on Saturday and we put it to the test with 6 loads. The technology is AMAZING!!!!! Our washer actually "talks" to the dryer via a computer cord - very cool! Tyler needed a new winter coat so we took care of that too. Even though the weather in Minny has been truly wonderful for October/November, we know we are just getting TEASED and are bracing for the first snow fall. So far there is no snow in sight so we are enjoying the leaves!!!! Have a great week of being appointment free. Ally, you can spend your "free-time" working on getting that darn shoe! Baby steps, little one, baby steps!! Big hugs from Minnesota! Aimee, Jim and Tyler <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, November 7, 2005 9:42 AM CST Greetings to all the "morning after" the big foot-ball rivalry between the REDSKINS and the EAGLES!!! We munched on brisket, chili, and homemade Italian meatballs (made by me!) before the game, and enjoyed meeting some more of TG's friends from PA! Once inside the stadium the usual questions kept coming up to Geep (who always wears his Cowboy team gear) ..."Well, er uh, who are you for in this game?" He evaded the questions beautifully as we intently watched the game! Redskins did 'hail' - - - and I know Mark was thrilled...wish you had been with us in the stadium to see it in person!!I think the Eagles' folks were still so upset over the 'drama' of the past week that the 'loss' was just another low moment in their team's unruly week. You know what I say..."On any given Sunday...someone will win...and someone will not..." All in all, it was a beautiful day for football or just about anything else you wanted to do...warms temps, good food, nice folks, and the end to a rather busy but fun-filled weekend for us. It was fun being around Ash and TG...haven't seen them in awhile with busy-craziness-new job-basement-construction-etc. and it was good to catch up with them! And to see TG's "Big Ten beard"...quite a sight!!! :) Back to WORK today...it is not called a "Teacher Workday" for nothing! Grades, planning, preparation, and MORE than a 20 minute 'lunch' are in store for today. Teachers get very excited when we go out for lunch...such a treat! And, do those faces of the little people on this website get any cuter??? Allyson's engaging smile just grabs my heart! And, then there is the "twisted hair girl" and her coyness! So funny that she says "Dallas-Redskins-Redskins-Dallas"....maybe Morgan is working on 'being a politician of sorts??? Ya think??? She'll have to throw an "Eagle" in when Uncle Tommie is around! Ah...the fun of being a sports' fan!!! :) Two weeks from today I will see Allyson CRAWLING (maybe?) and Morgan twirling around in the leaves!!! I love the focus of having that "date" in front of me!!! Love to all...happy WEEK to everyone! Continuing thoughts and prayers to those of you out there facing multiple challenges and working to find peace in your lives. WE love you all and care about your happines. As "Cool Kid" said on this website recently..."you have to catch it yourselves"...so go out and CATCH some happiness today!!! (I wonder if that is how the Redskins felt last night?? CATCHING happiness in the form of a little ball???) Such thoughts for pondering...(but don't spend too much time on that one! :) Love to all and a happy week ahead....special hugs to Darren, Jeffery, Elaine K., the Crandalls/McKays/Rainwater families...we are thinking of you. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/TMat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va us - Monday, November 7, 2005 9:29 AM CST Greetings to all the "morning after" the big foot-ball rivalry between the REDSKINS and the EAGLES!!! We munched on brisket, chili, and homemade Italian meatballs (made by me!) before the game, and enjoyed meeting some more of TG's friends from PA! Once inside the stadium the usual questions kept coming up to Geep (who always wears his Cowboy team gear) ..."Well, er uh, who are you for in this game?" He evaded the questions beautifully as we intently watched the game! Redskins did 'hail' - - - and I know Mark was thrilled...wish you had been with us in the stadium to see it in person!!I think the Eagles' folks were still so upset over the 'drama' of the past week that the 'loss' was just another low moment in their team's unruly week. You know what I say..."On any given Sunday...someone will win...and someone will not..." All in all, it was a beautiful day for football or just about anything else you wanted to do...warms temps, good food, nice folks, and the end to a rather busy but fun-filled weekend for us. It was fun being around Ash and TG...haven't seen them in awhile with busy-craziness-new job-basement-construction-etc. and it was good to catch up with them! And to see TG's "Big Ten beard"...quite a sight!!! :) Back to WORK today...it is not called a "Teacher Workday" for nothing! Grades, planning, preparation, and MORE than a 20 minute 'lunch' are in store for today. Teachers get very excited when we go out for lunch...such a treat! And, do those faces of the little people on this website get any cuter??? Allyson's engaging smile just grabs my heart! And, then there is the "twisted hair girl" and her coyness! So funny that she says "Dallas-Redskins-Redskins-Dallas"....maybe Morgan is working on 'being a politician of sorts??? Ya think??? She'll have to throw an "Eagle" in when Uncle Tommie is around! Ah...the fun of being a sports' fan!!! :) Two weeks from today I will see Allyson CRAWLING (maybe?) and Morgan twirling around in the leaves!!! I love the focus of having that "date" in front of me!!! Love to all...happy WEEK to everyone! Continuing thoughts and prayers to those of you out there facing multiple challenges and working to find peace in your lives. WE love you all and care about your happines. As "Cool Kid" said on this website recently..."you have to catch it yourselves"...so go out and CATCH some happiness today!!! (I wonder if that is how the Redskins felt last night?? CATCHING happiness in the form of a little ball???) Such thoughts for pondering...(but don't spend too much time on that one! :) Love to all and a happy week ahead....special hugs to Darren, Jeffery, Elaine K., the Crandalls/McKays/Rainwater families...we are thinking of you. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/TMat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va us - Monday, November 7, 2005 9:29 AM CST HI Peeps! Love the new "action" shots of Miss Al-Pal! Get that shoe, darnit! You show them.. I mean "us" that YOU CAN AND WILL DO IT! Mommy's assistance is just fine, too - we all need a little boost now and again until we can do it on our own. I am so proud of your achievements and milestones, Ally. There is no such thing as a "small moment"... What you and your family do every single day is an accomplishment and admirable. We can all continue to learn from you and the achievements, and struggles, you face on your journey called LIFE. I am just so happy to be a part of it, and counting the days til I see you on the big NUMERO UNO bday and some Santa-Christmas cheer. Hooray!! Hope you all are having a great weekend. We\'re experiencing the beautiful CA-e\sque fall weather and looking forward to to a fun Eagles-Skins game tonight (why am I agoign again?!?! Oh yeah, Boys have a bye-week and I don't miss an opportunity for a great tailgate :) Lots of love and hugs to you all! Chat later!! xoxoxox Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Sunday, November 6, 2005 10:42 AM CST Happy Sunday to all! What a glorious 'fall day' it is in No. VA!! We've just returned from a fantastic 'wedding weekend' in historic Williamsburg reuniting with OLD FRIENDS whose daughter we've watched 'grow up' literally...since age 5!! Her wedding was a beautiful combination of tradition, spirit, and fun!!! I think celebrating weddings together makes us all realize what an important "moment in time" that really is for families and friends. I know that was our recent experience with Ash and TG, and I felt it again this weekend celebrating with Brooke and Marc. Best wishes to those newlyweds as they travel to London today to honeymoon! And, to come home and find Allyson's smiling/and crying face working her way toward her "shoe" just made me smile even more! Only 15 more days and I'll see her perhaps CRAWLING ALL THE WAY TO HER SHOE!! Thanks for my "formers" for writing on this site...I love the quote from Cool Kid...I could not agree more..."One must CATCH his/her own happiness." Thank you both for your kind words and continued love and support of Allyson and all of us. We, too, have 'caught' our happiness from you and many others, and we are grateful for your presence. There's a big "rivalry" IN THE TOWN tonight...the Philly EAGLES come to town to "rumble" with the Redksins! We are tailgating with Tom and Ashli and "some of the Philly gang" pre-game...and ironically, none of our Redskin 'buddies' are coming to the game, so it will be Dallas Cowboy fans x"2" with the Eagles folks x "5" if I'm counting correctly! A cold front is supposed to bring in high winds and rain, so we are preparing for all types of elements. Right now, it is 70 degrees and SUNNY, but DC weather has been known to change in a snap! Wishing you all a beautiful day, and if you are a sports' fan may everyone reap happiness over your teams today! And, as Morgan would say..."What was the BEST part of the wedding, Teetay?" I would say..."Watching Steve and Brooke do the TWIST as their father/daughter dance..."....it was spectacular!!! :) The 'next best part' might have been watching the Senior-citizen-ministers (husband and wife team) stay til the very end of the reception also 'dancing up a storm'....The Methodists were "rocking" in Williamsburg!! Such a glad time for all! With love to all, and continued prayers for Darren and Jeffery for complete recoveries and big smiles very soon!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Sunday, November 6, 2005 10:18 AM CST Hi everyone! The home page picture is just too adorable. Ally- That smile is to die for. You always bring a smile to my face. For someone who has only been on Earth for 11 months, you have broughten joy to so many. Keep it up...getting to that shoe will get easier and easier. I know you can do it! Continued thought s and prayers are with you.- Elizabeth Hellman Elizabeth Hellman (Former 5th period student) <dancer3191@cox.net> Fairfax, VA United States - Saturday, November 5, 2005 7:43 PM CST Miss Ally...I have missed that cute little face. It has been another rough week for us. I am so thankful that God walks beside me each day to give me the strength to get through the day. Ally, I am so happy that you are getting good news from your doctors! I can't wait until your mommy posts pictures of you crawling around on all fours! I showed Madeline your pictures in the Halloween costumes. She thinks that you and Catherine Crandell are the cutest babies in the whole U.S.of A.!!! I agree! Hope you have a fun weekend. Hugs from Texas....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Friday, November 4, 2005 8:01 PM CST Hey everyone! I decided to post as well. It looks like everyone had a great Halloween. I know I did. I can't believe how much improvement Ally has made. She'll be crawling in no time! I recently found this quote and thought I'd share it with you: "The Constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself." -Benjamin Franklin I think I've caught my happiness from this website and wonderful family. Keep up all your hard work because Ally looks great!!! Keeping you in our prayers! -Christina :) Christina Knippler (Mrs. Matus' former 5th period student) <acoolkid15@cox.net> Fairfax, VA - Friday, November 4, 2005 2:16 PM CST And what good news about Allyson's new feeding schedule!!! Whahooooo!!!! That sounds like a step forward in her "becoming hungry" as opposed to "trying out the food"...so much to learn still, and so much has been learned. Yes, to DITTO what Kristin wrote in the journal...what an incredible journey this past year. Thank you to EVERYONE 'out there' who has cared about us, prayed with/for us, and has allowed us to laugh and cry...that is the JOURNEY of strength and we value you as friends and supporters. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. And, we know there is going to be 'continuing work to do'...for Allyson, for Darren, for Zemery, and for Jeffery...and for many others facing the challenges of EEC or some other form of Ectodermal Dysplasia. Thank you for being part of our journey and our education. And, I cannot say it ENOUGH...thank you to Kristin, Mark, and even Morgan for being the FAMILY that Allyson is blessed to have. There is a plan and we are all part of it. Love to all, and continued prayers for all the "little people" facing challenges. They are our standard. Let's be the grownups they need. Terri aka Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Thursday, November 3, 2005 8:50 PM CST Crystal, Jeffery and Family -- We're thinking of you!!! Hang in there Jeffrey, and get well SOON. You are in the thoughts and hearts of so many :) Hi to the rest to the gang out there in Ally-land! Lots of love and hugs to you sweet nieces - I am counting the days until I see you (which is NOT soon enough - waahhhhhh!). It has been a while since I shared a good quote, and since there are so many facing personal challenges these days - mentally and physically - and working through some personal pain (especially you little kiddos, Darren & Jeffrey!), I wanted to share this with you: “Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though sometimes it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and grieves which we endure help us in our marching onward.” ~Henry Ford I wish you all a happy weekend ahead! Fighting a terrible cold, I am laying low while TG heads to PSU (another huge Big 10 game!). I have plenty of new work stuff to learn and absorb so it will be a nice quiet, WARM, weekend. That and I need to get well for this Sunday's big game (Skins-Eagles... I know, I could care less!) with TG, Teets, Geep and lots of friends. Tailgate, here I come :) Hugs to you all - especially my CA girls and boy! xoxox Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Thursday, November 3, 2005 8:41 PM CST For Jeffery, Crystal,and the whole family....you are right at the top of the list. I hope and will pray that this is just a minor 'setback' for Jeffery and that he will be 100% in the very near future! There is so much love and support on Allyson's website that I know we can reach out to Jeffery. "Maria"...aka Lydia...please let the Register family know they are in our thoughts. And, I hope to see you soon! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Thursday, November 3, 2005 7:03 PM CST Greetings to all from sunny and warm North Carolina!! Fall arrived and then left us and reverted back to summer for a while so we enjoy it while we can. I am writing to ask help from all you prayer warriors out there, and there are lots of you, as we all know!! Jeffery Register, a 6 or 7 year old with EEC who lives here in Southport and is member of our church, needs your prayers at this moment. His mom, Crystal, frequently writes on this site and has been so supportive of our whole family. Jeffery has come down with bronchitis and had to go to the Emergency Room this morning. His family is so worried that it will develop into pneumonia again. He had a very difficult time with pneumonia when he was 3 and we need all your prayers to restore him to good health. He doesn't want to eat and has lost weight, which he can't afford to do. So please keep Jeffery in your prayers, and his mom and dad, Crystal and Jeff, too. Thanks. Lydia Kelso Lydia Kelso a.k.a . Grandma Kelso <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Thursday, November 3, 2005 6:40 PM CST Elizabeth...you make my heart full. Thank you so much for writing. I have been wondering about "my high school folks" and it makes me happy to hear from you. Know that "this year" is NOT the same without you, and I miss you "all" very much. Stay in touch. Love, Mrs. M/TMat:) also, Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 6:27 PM CST Hi everyone! It's been a while since I last wrote, but have been checking the site everyday. The Halloween costumes are too cute! Hope everyone had a happy Halloween. I'm glad everything is going well with Allyson. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers.- Elizabeth Hellman (Mrs. Matus's former student) Elizabeth Hellman <dancer3191@cox.net> Fairfax, VA United States - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 2:06 PM CST What an absolute JOY to see the SleepingBeauty/Cow pictures!!! I especially love the one where Allyson appears to be mesmerized by the 'moving cat'...of course, I KNOW where the CAT (you cannot see him, but he is beside the kick-a carved pumpkin to the right!) resides!!! (The CAT has moving parts!)...How adorable is the "cow"...glad it was cool enough for Allyson to have a costume-change! Hugs to both the little 'treaters' in your life...they give endless TREATS to all who know them! And, God bless us everyone...now, ONTO the NEXT SEASON..."gobble, gobble, gobble...." (reminder for No. 1 girl ONLY!)...and then, it is all about "Deck the Halls"....fahlahlahlahlah.....!!! Love to all and a happy Wednesday to everyone! Terri aka Teetay :) terrimatus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va us - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 7:03 AM CST Hello to all the children who could not sleep because they were on a sugar high :):):) I just had to write to tell you a funny out-of-the-mouth-of-babes story. Yesterday, Tyler had his Halloween parade at school. After the parade was over we were walking to the car. I asked him how his day was and that I wanted to know one thing he learned today. So, here is his reply....and I QUOTE......"Well, I learned I could save $15 on my car insurance through Geico." I almost died right there in the parking lot!!! He then proceeded to tell me "I watch too much TV, don't I?" TOO FUNNY not to share!!!!!!!!!!! Have a great day! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 9:43 AM CST And to all the little goblins, a hearty goodnight...to the California PEEPS who are too "cute to puke"...and to the Atlanta nieces/nephews who are celebrating H-ween "GA style"...(thanks so much to Taylor for my note!)...and to the Philly "kiddos" who must be trick or treating for meatbals, right?? And, to the Hynes in CA with Elena's first H-ween event..and to the Crandalls and the Rainwaters ..and to Spencer in GA...how fun is this, right??? Love and hugs and many pumpkin thrills to all of you~!! Halloween should just be FUN! Period, bottom line. Love to all..and to the CA "pumpkin girls"...such a big WOW a your costumes and your smiles. Thank you. Terri aka Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Monday, October 31, 2005 9:48 PM CST TOO FREAKIN' CUTE!!!! Happy Halloween, special little friends! You girls are precious and I know you have had so much fun on your super-fun day! I love you lots, Minnie and Fairy/Sleeping B/Cinderella, etc etc!! :) xoxoxoxo Aunt Ashli & Uncle Tommy <ashliagm@aol.com> - Monday, October 31, 2005 8:08 PM CST Hello Little Miss Mini-Minnie! How cute you are! Disneyland may have to recruit her. I'm writing this at school (shh! don't tell) because I've tried to write from home two times recently on AOL, and it wouldn't go through either time. But, I've been reading and enjoying the updates of Ally's rapid and impressive progress. I especially enjoyed her new portraits as the centerpiece of Teetay's dinner gathering on Friday evening. Adorable is an understatement! Have a wonderful, funny, scary, and happy Halloween! Theresa Cover <tesscover@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Monday, October 31, 2005 7:50 AM CST Happy Halloween to all the little goblins out there in website-world! And, a special Happy Halloween to the cutest "Minnie" and er, uh, Cinderella/Fairytopia/SleepingBeeauty girl on the Pacfic coast!!! What adorable 'shots' of Allyson just 'doing her thing'...the crawling efforts are just about to turn your house upside down, right???? It won't be long now...and "Katie-bar-the-door" as THEY say! (well, somebody said it!!) :)!!! Love the sippy cup photo...the progress Allyson is making is astounding thanks to you and Mark and big sister, Morgan!! I am so very proud to be part of your family. Have a wonderful day everyone...it is "scary hair day" at my school...and I came in "looking the same old way"...well...IT SCARES ME!!! :) Can't wait to see the little ghosts and ghouls and "princesses" and "minnies" at my door tonight. I'm ARMED with tons of candy and a special "liquid" for my neighbors who always stop by with their ADULT HANDS OUT! :) Enjoy the festivities of this day! Love to all and happy WEEK of fun! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, VA usa - Monday, October 31, 2005 7:16 AM CST YEAH Darren!! I have been thinking of you and your family these past few days, and I am glad you are home and doing well, little buddy! Big HUGS to you :)) Hi everyone else out there in Ally-land! Hope you all have had a great weekend, wherever you are! We had yet another winning day at PSU and enjoy time with friends -- and I toured TG's fraternity house for the first time! QUite a place -a hug, old, amazing home and many people were there reuniting thanks to homecoming. Of course my Sunday continued to be a winner on the football scene - GO BOYS!!! ;) Morgy-lu and Al-Pal, your pics are precious and I loved my new frame-able ones I received in the mail - THANKS!! Precious!! Morg, your scary monster artwork is lovely, too, and on our door to SCARE the trick-or-treaters tomorrow night. I can't wait to hear all about your school day and your night out in the neighborhood with your little friends. You'll be a beautiful princess/fairy girl and Ally will be quite the little COW! I wish I could be there with you - you'll be in my thoughts!! Much love to you all and we'll talk tomorrow - I MISS YOU lots!! xoxoxoxoxo Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Sunday, October 30, 2005 8:55 PM CST You go, Darren! I so admire the "little people" who have to deal with some very serious stuff! My holiday lights are not shinning yet. I ended up spending the day painting my kitchen table black. It was almost 10 years old and the white paint was showing some major wear-and-tear. The project took MUCH longer than I anticipated. So, after a LONG day of painting I decide to do some laundry - that is until the spin cycle decided to flat out DIE. The light hanging project may have to wait another weekend since we now have to go shopping for a new washing machine today. Oh, the joys of homeownership! Tyler is in rare form this morning! Despite the time change he woke up at 4:30 am anyway. I told him he had to go back to sleep and so he did - UNTL 6:49 - YIPPEE!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is now singing the Scooby Doo theme song while he eats his breakfast. For those of you who watch the TV channel Boomerang, you know it is a non-stop-Scooby-Doo weekend with EVERY episode every made being shown. Did you know Sonny and Cher actually had guest appearances on the show? Have a great Sunday. Since I can't do laundry I guess I'll go IRON. Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Sunday, October 30, 2005 7:28 AM CST Yea for Darren! Sorry that I have been absent for awhile. I had a very rough week. My sweet Uncle Joe passed away early Tuesday morning. We knew that he probably wouldn't live much longer but it doesn't make it any easier to say good-bye. I have had to say good-bye to three special people in less than a month and it has been such a difficult time emotionally. I also want to be a comfort to my friends and family who are hurting right now, too. Ally, your sweet, innocent smile always seems to do the trick when I need a boost! Each day has gotten a little better. God gave us a beautiful fall day in Texas today. The kids are anxious for Monday to get here. The boys are going to be astronauts....custom made outfits from their grandma! You go mom! They have their names monogrammed on the suits and American flag patches! Madeline is going to be a flapper girl. Her grandma made her a silver sequined dress complete with fringe, fishnet hose and a feather headband! She can't wait! I am so grateful to have a mom that can sew!!! Well, need to get my kids to bed...Greg and I are watching movies tonight! We might throw in some wine, too!!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, October 29, 2005 8:01 PM CDT Happy Saturday, everyone! What wonderful news about Darren! There are miracles happening all over the place and we are especially happy for the latest one in Pineapple Land! What a joy it will be to meet CAT and "fam" someday in our futures. keep up the good work of healing, Darren! I hope everyone is enjoying the final days before the big PUMPKIN landing Monday and that everyone is ready for the on-slaught of the little goblins! I always enjoy answering the door in the early hours of trick-or-treating since that is when the LITTLE people come out! Then, it is always a "treat" to see how many of my students/former students FIND my house on Halloween only to exclaim, "YOU LIVE HERE!!!" (I live in the community where I teach and the kids find out on this night many times!) So, find-me-if-you-can-big-goblins! I spent an incredible few hours today lunching with close friends - one, a lady I've admired for many years after I came to know her as a Holocaust survivor speaker at my school. Her name is Nesse and she's quite well-known around the U.S. having spoken at all the academies and receiving an honorary degree from West Point. She has honorariums lining her walls, and memories filled with emotion in her heart. It would not surprise me if someone reading this website did not know her, or perhaps you have heard her speak. Not only is her life an inspiration to me, I know that just by being "in her presence" I am a better person. Her will, her spirit, and her desire to share her "story" with the hope that the world will be a better place for knowing it is truly inspiring. She truly mesmerizes the children when she speaks of her life in a concentration camp and life in the ghetto during WWII. I am honored to have met her as a Holocaust survivor and motivational speaker, but I am blessed to be able to call her my FRIEND. So, to Nesse in Silver Spring...God bless your life and the work you do. I am humbled in your presence. Thank you for being my friend. I hope everyone has a beautiful fall weekend, and that your Halloween Day is filled with TREATS! And, No.1 girl, I hope your "holiday lights" (for whichever season) are SHINING brightly tonight!!! And, don't forget to IRON your clohtes! Need to cover the plants...fall has turned into 'freezing temps' tonight. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, October 29, 2005 5:32 PM CDT Halloween and Thanksgiving are overrated! Just a bunch of excuses to eat a ton of candy, turkey and cranberry sauce! Don't get me wrong, I like both holidays. But, there is something about Christmas decorations that I just LOVE! It makes a house look warm, cozy and loved and even though I am jewish I can't get enough of the lights. Of course, now what I have a big house to decorate I need to shop for more AND figure out how to hang them outside properly. This is accomplished much easier when it is 65 degrees!!!!! I WILL NOT TURN THEM ON UNTIL AFTER THANKSGIVING, I promise! And, I will still decorate my house on the inside for Halloween and Thanksgiving. Happy Hauntings this weekend! <planaheadgirl@lovethelights.com> EP, MN - Friday, October 28, 2005 10:15 AM CDT Ally- I was checking in on you after my whirlwind trip to Chicago and very little sleep (note to all: do not travel to Chicago on a night where it's possible one of their baseball teams wins the World Series for the first time in a zillion years...) and this silly guestbook banter was just what I needed! You gals are FUUUUUNNNNYYYY!!! Just thinking about you Al and the WHOLE family -- I love you TONS! Talk on Friday! xoxoxo Sleepy Aunt who just wants to find time to buy Halloween candy much less even discuss turkies or santas or eggs.... You people are nuts! <happyhalloweenandengagementanniversary@it'soctoberyousillies.com> Nice fall weather in Washington, DC - Thursday, October 27, 2005 9:41 PM CDT :)!!!!!!!!!! You GO Aimee! I KNOW you hate the cold...and actually I think it is really a good idea. But, what about hanging the "pumpkin lights" first...then the "turkey lights"...then move onto the reds/greens/whites/...and for the New Year hit the "firecracker lights"...and ummmmm.....what comes after that??? You attach various extension cords, and don't MESS UP and turn on TURKEYS when it is REALLY PUMPKINS!!! THINK CREATIVELY!!! :) It must be a slow day....just got home from my recertification "class" and I had to post just one more time! Allyson...what do you think of all this "light" talk??? You are just anticipating the pumpkin era of your life...your first Halloween complete with your kitty cat tail 'wagging' by your front door with all those NOT NAKED pumpkins your sister painted!!! And, Morgan is just anticipating wearing Tinkerbell to school??? And Fairytopia for trick or treating??? I'm sure she's looking for striped CANDY CANES, too! (Oooops! I digress...!!) Love you all, Happy "whateverkindoflightsyouareputtingupwhereveryouarehangingthem"....and you gotta love a MAN who plans the MEALS for a week and then prepares them! You rock, Jim!!! :) Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Thursday, October 27, 2005 7:19 PM CDT Ok, for the record.....I DO iron my clothes for the ENTIRE week on Sunday EVERY weekend. And, thank goodness I married a guy who is just as much a planner as me. He plans our meals for the whole week and posts it on the fridge so I know what HE will be cooking every day. So.........can you really die eggs now????? The jewish girl in me wants to know so I can PLAN AHEAD :):):) No. 1. Girl <stillgoingtohanglightsthisweekend@Ihatethecold.com> GORGEOUS, SUNNY, MN - Thursday, October 27, 2005 1:53 PM CDT Just for my "No. 1 girl"....I am going to BOIL some eggs tonight, dye them, paste little bunnies on them...and send them to YOU so you'll be "ready"....you know how those "bunnies" don't like HOPPING around in the snow! Hey, do you "think" you started something here? !! I know Tyler will be the cutest little pirate on the street...and I hope he gets LOTS OF CANDY CANES for Trick or Treating! Happy early Halloween to all the little goblins out there! Mark your CALENDARS - Halloween is in October!!! And, then comes the TURKEY...and then "Rudolph" and "Frosty"...and then we all join hands and sing Auld Lang Syne, right??? :) Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) (and I can get away with saying this since I am No. 1 girl's "adopted" mom!!!Love you, Aims!)WritingfromsomewhereinVAwhereitisstillfall.com terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va usa - Thursday, October 27, 2005 12:09 AM CDT Hey!!!!!!!! Who are you calling OLD???????????? May I remind you that your birthday is coming up soon! Aim-A-Lita <plan_ahead@chillyMN.com> EP, MN - Thursday, October 27, 2005 12:05 AM CDT Aimee, Christmas lights?!?!? Are you kidding me???? I know you like to plan ahead (i.e. ironing a week's worth of outfits on Sunday), but really! It's October 27th! Okay, I see your point about gloves and bulky jackets and climbing on ladders... Mark usually hangs our lights wearing shorts and a t-shirt. hee hee Have a great day, everyone! Just had to give my DEAR, OLD friend a hard time this morning! NOT hanging XMAS lights this weekend <let'snottalkabout christmasuntilafterdecfirst@pumpkin.com> It's Only Halloween Here, CA USA - Thursday, October 27, 2005 9:25 AM CDT Hi CA peeps! I just had to tell you that the new pics are adorable! Thanks for posting (and for mailing). The update was chock full of information and it sounds like Ally is doing AWESOME. I expected no less from that little miracle. :):) I hope you have a wonderful Halloween too. There seems to be some confusion in our house as to what Tyler will be this year. He asked, no wait, begged for a Clone Trooper costume so that is what I bought. Now, he is telling everyone he is going to be a pirate (last year's costume). He is trying to figure out a way to be both actually. So, I think in the school parade and for Jim's office party he will be the clone trooper and then for actual door-to-door treats he will be a pirate. Our neighbors just put a graveyard ALL over the front lawn. Tyler thinks it looks "TOTALLY AWESOME, DUDE." Besides Halloween, this is our first weekend in a VERY long time where we have nothing to do. I think we will enjoy lounging around the house and perhaps even putting up Christmas lights. The weather is supposed to be 65 degrees and that makes it so much nicer to hang lights. No need for big jackets and gloves, which would be needed if we waited until December. Have a wonderful weekend and enjoy the extra hour of sleep. Now if we could only explain that concept to the kids!!!!! Love ya! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Thursday, October 27, 2005 6:26 AM CDT Hi, California Family! I am trying once again to get a posting on the webpage. There seems to have been some kind of gremlin in my computer, and my last two entries have not been posted! I have enjoyed reading the updates on Miss AllyBeDally, and his precious Miss MAK sister! The latest reports all sound very encouraging, and the girls grow cuter day by day! I absolutely adore Morgan's hair in those braids! Sorry you didn't get to see the Blue Angels do their flight maneuvers, due to weather. They are truly an awesome sight! I loved the story that John McKay might be an angel on board! I am sure Holly and the family liked that remark as well! My prayers continue for all of them. As for Atlanta weather, we had about 7 days of beautiful FALL....then it has plunged right into winter temps here! It was 38 on our deck this morning, and the wind has been blowing fiercly for a couple of days. Brrrr ... we usually ease up to this! :) The family is gathering here on Saturday with Loren's mom, Vera, for a Halloween brunch. At 94, getting out is a big deal for her, and so we're doing a daytime event. The grans will be in costume, and I'm making one for her to wear. Should be fun! We send our love to you all! Hugs, AuntDale/Aunt Grammy Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Wednesday, October 26, 2005 9:07 AM CDT Kristin, THANKS for the update. I am packing to head WEST toward you, so I am VERY excited. I met a girl at Gymboree who is moving to Pt. Mugo. It was so odd. I said, "One of my 'family members' lives out there. Then I said something about Kristin Matus (sorry, Mark...she is my 'sister' so that is why I used her maiden name). Then this lady said, "Well, I know Kristin Kelso, but that is not the same lady, is it???" They are moving back to your area, and Elena and her daughter, Sarah, have become friends at Gymboree. SMALL WORLD. The mother's name is Angie. I miss you all. I am praying hard for little Allypoo. I can't wait to be there and hold her! THANKS to all my caringbridge family members who have prayed for us. We will be back together as a family again, and I am so thankful to all of you for your care and concern. Our little angel, Ally, has brought us together so many times. Much love to the McKay family. You are in my thoughts and prayers Susan Hynes <susanhynes@aol.com> Pensacola, FL 32561 - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 10:42 AM CDT The very best wishes go out to Darren this week...thanks, Crystal, for enlightening this website. Cat, in Pineapple Land, was one of the first folks to speak to Kristin via email after Allyson's birth. Her son, Darren, also faces the challenges of EEC....we wish him and ALL of you the very best as his surgery begins this coming week. CAT, you know that YOU are special to our family and your gifts of information, love, and support have been powerful. Give Darren a hug from Teetay and tell him that I still KNOW he and Morgie-lu will 'meet' one day...for sure. Love and best wishes to you in Pineapple Land. Love, Terri/Teetay:) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Monday, October 24, 2005 7:42 PM CDT Hi all, LOVE the new pictures...I cannot believe the Pumpkin - girl on the homepage! So many changes in just a few weeks...that is why I can't "stand" to be away...I might miss something!! And, Morgie-lu on that balanced beam! I guess all that LOG walking at the "big park" has prepared her for this next stage called gymnastics! Beautiful faces...beautiful children...beautiful parents...I am so VERY proud of all that you do...Kristin and Mark...and Morgan, too...to make Allyson's days productive and filled with love and learning. I know that Morgan will be a big help in "the mimicking sounds"...I can just hear her now!!! (watch out for those "no no words"...ha!) You are an incredible family and I am very proud of you. Love to all from chilly, windy, rainy Virginia! FALL is definitely here...and winter is on the way! And, my heartfelt thoughts are still with the McKay/Crandall families. I know these 'after days' are not easy. TAKE good CARE of one another. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Monday, October 24, 2005 6:13 PM CDT Please keep Darren in you prayers this week as he is scheduled for surgery Wednesday. I asked Cat in Pineapple Land to let me know how things are as soon as she can. Great news on Ally's evaluations...YOU GO CHICKIE!!!!! Great new pics, too. I think you may have two models on your hands guys. In His grip, Crystal Crystal Register <jbrdregister@atmc.net> Southport, NC USA - Monday, October 24, 2005 6:13 PM CDT Dr. Matus-Kelso!! What a wonderful update.... Although I had already heard all about Ally's appts last week, reading it all and all you and Mark are doing reminded me HOW VERY PROUD of who you are and all that you have learned, managed and been through this past year. I don't say it enough -- you are a remarkable mom and friend (and sister!) and I admire all that you do for Morg and Al, and the life you lead with them. YOU have the most important job ever and there is no salary that could even begin to match the "job" that you do. I love you, K!! Morg's gymnastics is awesome!!! Love that photo - I knew she would be into it! Maybe she can show her linebacker instructor her pilates moves we have worked on in the past ;) The braids are too much - -adorable! And Ally with that crazy, silly grin just brings a huge smile to my face. Big hugs to you ALL!!! We had a great time at Liz & Will's wedding in Cape Charles, VA this weekend -- Liz is a dear friend and we're a huge fan of her since she introduced me and TG :)))) The weather held out and everything was just right for them. Yeah! Two more friends' weddings in 2006 then all my peeps will be officially hitched. Such a fun time in our lives! I continue to hold many of you in my heart and thoughts... you know who you are, and KNOW that we are praying for you during difiicult times. Like Kristin said, the angels are everywhere... blue or not! :) Much love to you ALL! xoxoxo Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Sunday, October 23, 2005 9:08 PM CDT The wheels are already turning in my mind for a plan to go to D.C. next summer!!!:) We had another beautiful day here in the Lone Star state today. Unfortunately, I spent it taking my car to get fixed at the dealership, going to get a car to borrow from mom and dad and then coming home only to find out that my car won't even be looked at until Monday morning? WHAT? I have to drive mom's VAN for a few more days? I am not a van person and I feel like such a snob for saying that! However, I am grateful that I have some wheels to get around town! We did get to go to a fall festival earlier this afternoon and the kids had a blast decorating Halloween cookies and making Halloween crafts! I then spent the rest of the afternoon picking out paint for our bedroom and entry hall. I have been itching to paint...when that happens, I don't wait on Greg, I just do it! However, he ends up doing all of the prep work...he has to when I have already moved out all of the furniture and unscrewed all of the outlet plates. I do a trading spaces all by myself! So, I am hoping to start painting this week. Teetay, I am still re-living that special moment when I finally got to hug your neck! I just knew we would hit it off! Well, I am going to help my hubby clean up the kitchen. Miss Ally...have you finished painting all the naked pumpkins yet? I wish you and your sister were here to help me paint some naked walls!Hugs from Texas...Anna Rainwater Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, October 22, 2005 9:27 PM CDT Good morning to everyone in "Allyson's world"...!! I am back from Texas where I was honored to be part of the celebration of John McKay's life...he was surrounded in death by the many who loved and cherished him in life. The dignity with which this good man lived was profoundly part of his passage. From the first moment the bagpiper began to play to the last note of the United States Air Force anthem I felt the room fill with honor and courage - the two mantras by which John lived. The reunion with Holly, Todd, Dave, and Charlotte was deeply felt. We laughed and we cried, and we 'held tight' a few times. Dear, precious Ashlynn allowed me to 'hold her tight' at the gravesite as she wept saying: "Teetay, I don't what I'm going to do." I hope I assured her that she would cry many times, but she would also smile and laugh as she remembered her "Papa" and all she'd learned from him in her 8 years of being his "no. 1 grandchild"....as we know, there is only ONE "first grandchild"! Reuniting with my old friend, Bonnie, was an extra special moment in the two days. All in all, I was where I 'needed to be' the past two days and when Charlotte said to me Wed. night, "Terri, you did not have to come." I ASSURED her that I DID HAVE TO COME!! We've shared much over the years...even clothes and the infamous "brown shirt"...this time we shared even more and that is the true essence of friendship. I love my 'extended' family very much and I know they know it! And, to finally meet the "chief" Anna-bo-banna was surreal. She and Greg are beautiful people and it was a pleasure to greet them face-to-face after so much time. I actually felt as if I was meeting OLD friends AGAIN...and I think I was. I wish there had been more time to know one another in person, but I have a real keen inkling that it could happen perhaps "next summer" at the Rally for Ally. I think when Anna R. 'sets her mind to something' it DOES happen! So, Anna-girl, I'm counting on you to RALLY the 'troops' for the big jaunt to DC next summer. Even Dave indicated he'd love to see the 'touristy' side of DC....so this could be a PLAN! :) The Thursday CHLA 'consultation' with the entire medical team for Allyson was an excellent source of information. I know Kristin will be sharing it with all very soon. Everything was positive throughout the consultation, and Morgan was able to "play on the inside playgrounds" provided at Children's. If you've never seen Children's Hosp. in LA it is an amazing structure in everyway. The tiniest details have been thought-out to make it a comfortable and comforting place for children and parents. Falls temps have arrived in No. Virginia, but with it the sprinkles have landed. Can't complain too much...we've been in drought-mode for so long. Leaves are falling before their colors turn, but the remaining ones have brightened the sky. It is the weekend to winterize our house and 'get set' for the coming colder months. Geep is clamoring to go to the Redskins' game tomorrow, but I say "the garage reorganization comes first!" (wonder who will win????) I know the Crandalls/McKays have many difficult days ahead, and that grieving is a very long and steady process. I also know that they have one another and an incredible support group of friends and family. Please continue to pray for them as they take the next steps. I am reminded of a quote by Helen Keller than I frequently put on my classroom board because it has such 'meaning' to many at various stages of life, so I will share it with you now. "When one dorr of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." Helen Keller I hope many doors will be opening for each of you during the coming days. I am so proud to be part of so many lives and I am grateful for each thought, and each word that you send our way. Allyson's birth brought us together in ways we could never have imagined. I wish you beauty in this weekend wherever you are...and if this weekend finds you carving a pumpkin you just might want to think about PAINTING one ...and as Morgan says: " Put a lot of color on your pumpkin so it will not be naked!" So, let's hear it for NO NAKED PUMPKINS across America! Wishing you a lovely weekend. Now, it's off to the GARAGE!!! With love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) And to my students...I expect to see an exquisite piece of memoir writing from you Monday in class! Enjoy the weekend, but "write...write...write!" :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, October 22, 2005 9:02 AM CDT Hi! Thanks for allowing others to share hope and strength. Our Johnny and Allyson are similar in age. She's adorable and I look forward to coming back for updates on her surgeries. www.croughen.com Teresa Croughen <teresacroughen@gmail.com> Dearborn Heights, mi US - Saturday, October 22, 2005 5:57 AM CDT California pumpkins sure do have some long stems!! Morgan, your painted pumpkin is beautiful. Ally...you look like you had a blast with those paints girlie! Can I just say that your Teetay is such a beautiful person inside and out! You are both so blessed to have her in your lives. Teetay, I am so grateful to have had the honor of meeting you face to face! I only wish it could have been under happier circumstances. I know that it meant a GREAT deal to the McKay family to have you there to support them. My kiddoes loved the postcards that you sent to them. Thank you! Kristin, my inquiring mind still wants to know what that eyeball was on that cupcake! My boys keep asking me to make "eyeball" cupcakes! We ventured out to the pumpkin patch with some friends today. It was such a beautiful fall day here in Texas. Perfect for finding a pumpkin! I hope everyone has a restful weekend! Hugs from Texas....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Friday, October 21, 2005 9:28 PM CDT Happy Friday, all! It is a chilly day here in Minny but the tress are looking wonderful - such beautiful colors all around! I was checking in to get the update on the doctor appointments yesterday but then I realized it was 7 am your time. Guess I'll be a bit more patient! I am off to Delaware tomorrow for the last wedding of the year - whew! This would make number 5 including my own. Jim and Tyler are going to have a "boys" weekend while I share a brief visit with my parents and sister. I think Jim is planning on explaining the intricate details of football to Tyler so he can watch the games (instead of cartoons) on the big screen :) I am sure Tyler would rather watch Spongebob and I am just dreading the day when he too enjoys football!!!! I think we had better finish our basement by then so I can have a hide out away from sports - hee hee. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I was thinking about 'ya and I hope everything went really well (as they always seem to do). Have a wonderful weekend!!! Much love and kisses to the precious girls! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, Mn - Friday, October 21, 2005 9:22 AM CDT I am filled with so many emotions tonight. I am here in Austin, Texas to attend Mr. McKay's funeral tomorrow morning. I am anxious to see my sweet, dear friend Holly and give her lots of hugs. Tomorrow will be difficult, but I am comforted to know that "Papa John" is now in heaven feeling no more pain. Mr.McKay, was a HUGE encouragement to me and to Greg when we were dealing with Greg's cancer. He prayed for us, e-mailed us and sent us a card in the mail. Everytime I would start to feel down about our situation, there would be an e-mail from him to encourage me to stay in God's word and to "FEAR NOT." I feel so honored to have known such a sweet, caring man. Holly....your daddy will always have a special place in my heart. And Ally...you have another sweet angel in heaven watching out for you from above. My heart is also filled with excitement as well...I will have the honor of finally meeting Teetay face to face! Hug your family tight tonight. Hugs from Texas...Anna Rainwater Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 9:46 PM CDT Happy craniofacial appt tomorrow, Al! Can't wait to hear all about it and what the docs think - I mean, your TEAM! :) Sorry the wake up call is so early but I know you gals can do it! Thinking of so many dear loved ones who are going through some pretty heavy "stuff" these days. Miss you tons and we'll chat tomorrow - I love you! Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 8:59 PM CDT To the Crandall/McKay family, We are so very sorry for your loss and grateful for heaven's newest angel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. In His Grip, The Register Clan Crystal Register <jbrdregister@atmc.net> Southport, NC USA - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 2:37 PM CDT Cute pictures Kristin! It sure is nice to come home after a stressful day with teenagers (and teenagers' parents) to see such sweet things and read postings from such sane, reasonable parents! Hugs to all of you! Jackie Jackie Horras <jackie2fish@hotmail.com> San Antonio, TX US - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 9:43 PM CDT To Holly - You have touched my heart, made me laugh, and filled me with awe so many times as I've read your words on this website. I wish you much love and send my condolences for your loss. May God's grace be with you and your family. I can tell that your father must have been quite a man, and that his life touched many. That will be wonderful for you to remember and cherish. You and your family will be remembered in my prayers. Theresa Cover <tesscover@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 9:17 PM CDT Such an awesome quick diversion from work!! Day two is also great but very busy :) LOVE LOVE LOVE the new pics and Al-Pal and Morgy Lu, you are ADORABLE!!!! Love you all! Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 3:51 PM CDT Dearest friends, My heart is heavy for the Crandall/McKay family tonight, but it is full of joy that John has made his way to Heaven where he will have no pain, no troubles, but will enjoy the reunion of spirits and souls who have made a place for him. Tom Stoppard said it best: " Every exit is an entry to somewhere else." John has entered the eternal kingdom and I know he is at peace. What a loving, gentle, fun, dedicated husband and father and grandfather he was! What laughter he brought to so many - - - not only with his "sweaty brow" when he and Geep would eat spicy barbecue around one of our tables...not only his "spoon playing antics" dancing around our little Pearson Street living room...not only crashing through the waves at Port Aransas Beach in south Texas....not only the gentle loving way he handed Morgan "penny after penny" so she could make wishes in the "Hilton pond"...not only his pride in his wonderfully accomplished children, Holly and David....and not only "most of all" his steadfast love for his beautiful Charlotte, wife of over forty years. John shared himself with his family, his friends, and he served his country with great pride and admiration during his USAF years. The material world has lost a great man. The spiritual world has gained a tall angel. God bless your life, Big John, and may you have eternal peace. Thank you all for stormin' heaven for John during these past months. He fought the "good fight" but God needed the perfect angel, so he had to go. "All mankind is of one Author, and is one volume; whenone Man dies, one Chapter is not torn out of the book, but translated into a better language." John Donne God bless you all...God bless Allyson for bringing us together. God bless Holly for telling Ashli about this website so we could love and support one another. And to Holly, David, and Char Char...I will put my arms around you Wednesday night. With love to all of you, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ TMat terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Monday, October 17, 2005 6:19 PM CDT Today I finally had a day with a little less homework so I thought I'd take a look at the website to see how Ally was doing. I must say those cupcakes sure are spirited! I'm so ready for Halloween. Today in one of my classes the backround of the TV was a pumpkin and I realized that Halloween is only two weeks away! I have to get started on some Halloween planning. Holly, I'm sorry to hear about your dad and I'll be sure to mention him in my prayers. Mrs. Matus-I miss you! Highschool's going great so far, but it sure is a lot more work! I'll be sure to check in later this week to learn more about how Ally's doing. Allison Maher <alliem894@yahoo.com> Oakton, VA USA - Monday, October 17, 2005 6:02 PM CDT Holly, We have never met but I feel like I know you through this website. My thoughts are with you and your family today. Your dad is in a better place and can now watch you from the heavens. Your cyber friend, Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, October 17, 2005 6:53 AM CDT Hello everyone! Hum along..."Chicago, Chicago...that toddling town...toddling town..." Well, it sure is a TODDLER!!! What an amazing city it is...just about everything one might choose in a city with "extras"....such a revival of sights, sounds, culture, tourism, beauty, landscaping, lush greenery with touch of fall color...DEEEELISHUS FOOD, and a wonderfully happy time with our friends, Kathy and Alan. They are the "host/hostess with the mostest" from the minute of arrival until our drop-off by way of the aboretum this morning. We think we "did everything on the list" including the chocolate martini...only Geep was the one to get it, and we were the "tasters" of it!! :) Dining at a French restaurant last evening was the 'creme de la creme' and that was topped off with a French soufle for dessert. The EXERCISE begins this week! Love the new pictures of the "Pumpkin patch" girls and of course, the 'eating photo' of Allyson simply makes me smile. One has to 'create' antics in the vicinity of the feeding spoon to keep her attention! She does not want her mother to be out of sight for long! Mark...maybe you will have to start SINGING to HER while you feed her like you used to do with Morgan!!??? Sorry about PA State yesterday, but thrilled that UVA was victorious over FSU - first time in ten years! WHAHOOWHA! Glad the 'boys' found a win this weekend, and sorry the 'skins' did not...but it's all in a day's work, you know! And, the birds are 'resting'....:) I rec'd good news from Kathleen that she is doing well and continuing her recovery. Elaine K. is also doing well...but we still need to reach out to our dear Big John McKay - he suffered a fall this past week and needs us to rally around him. Thank you for your continued support and love for this sweet man and his family. Holly, Charlotte, Dave, and all...YOU are always in our prayers. And, best wishes to Ashli tomorrow as she begins a new career step in her new job....she is facing big challenges for growth in the corporate world as she joins an excellent company in downtown DC. Ashli, "you can do it!" And, remember we are proud of you! Off one airplane this afternoon, and Geep said: "Teetay, it will be 35 days before you get back on a plane....but I get on one in the morning!" Hmmmmmmmm......I wouldn't mind getting back on a plane for a CA 'ride'....but these airport 'moments' can be grueling if everything isn't on time! Geep takes it in stride...it is his "life" in the skies! But me...an 'easy week'..(ha)...a Univ. of Maryland field trip with my 8th graders Tuesday! Now, who wouldn't want to do that? And, to my students....get ready to check out the Univ. of MD! (last year it was UVA...don't anyone get offended!) The best to everyone as the new week begins...with love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) And to Cool Kid, Mer, Sarah, Mandy, Lindsay, Tommy, Allie, Chali, Lindsey...and so many others...I miss you guys! All of you! And, yes, you, too, Connor! :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Sunday, October 16, 2005 5:44 PM CDT You bake amazing cupcakes and raise model children?!?!?! The new pics are precious and wonderul and YUMMY gross ;) Love you lots - Talk to you later!! HUGS to you all, sweet girls - WE MISS YOU!!!! Almost game time......... GO STATE! Cross your fingers for a bowl game! :) Ash <AshliAGM@aol.com> - Saturday, October 15, 2005 12:25 AM CDT That eyeball cupcake should bring in lots of "moo-la" at the bake sale Kristin! What is that anyway? A gumball eyeball? I love trying to guess the ingredients to the things you bake! You are so creative! And yes, Miss Ally, you are the cutest little witch I have ever seen! The Rainwaters are enjoying a quite Friday evening at home. Greg came home from work with a new Atari video game for the boys, but so far, he is the one doing all of the playing! Madeline is watching a Halloween movie on T.V. and I am procrastinating doing laundry. Thought I would check in on Miss Ally! Hope you all have a restful weekend! GO COWBOYS!!! Morgan and Ally, don't forget to sport your Cowboy gear on Sunday! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Friday, October 14, 2005 8:11 PM CDT Dear Kristin, Wow - you were really brave to try the surfing thing! I think I would be constantly looking around me for fins - when I wasn't falling on my face! But it sounds like you and Mark had a great time which is what counts. Ally looks adorable in her halloween costume! It sounds like you're getting great news from all the doctors and she is making incredible progress. We hope you all have a wonderful halloween - I know Morgan will have a blast! Take care and thanks for the update. Terri Burns <tburns@na.ko.com> Lilburn, Ga USA - Friday, October 14, 2005 6:11 PM CDT My vote is for the one-eyed blob! That is awesome! And, I LOVE LOVE LOVE the new pictures!!!! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Friday, October 14, 2005 2:15 PM CDT Kristin, you made me smile today. I am SO proud of you for surfing! Just checking in on you guys. We will be there before you know it! I can't wait to see you!!!!! Ally, you are a champ. I am proud. Morgan, you are the best BIG SISTA ever! K, I am so glad you and Mark had such fun. We love you. THANKS for the prayers, everyone. We will be together in San Diego by the end of Oct. I love you all! Suz Susan Hynes <susanhynes@aol.com> Pensacola, FL 32561 - Friday, October 14, 2005 11:54 AM CDT Greetings to all, What a clever idea, Alex...the 20 questions for each birthday...do you write down the answers, or tape them for posterity? I think that is a great idea! I know what Morgan's favorite word would be....hmmmmmm....."rhymes with POOH"...!!!??? Allyson's favorite word is STILL "Mama" but I worked very hard at "Teetay"...! Love the new pictures and especially since I was there to see that Halloween pajama party on the front steps with the "girls" admiring their FAMILY of PUMPKINS!!! We're off to Chicago tomorrow to visit with good friends who used to live HERE...Kathy and Alan...we are going to SEE Chicago "live" for the very first time. 'Been in that airport many times, but this time we're 'stepping out'...!! Can't wait to rest my eyes on the beautiful architecture, Lake Michigan, and old John Hancock!! Kathy has many things planned for us including a chocolate martini experience at her "hometown" watering hole in Naperville. Now, that's what I call "toddling town"...!!! :) Thoughts and wishes and prayers are continuing for our many loved ones who are facing big challenges each day. And, best wishes to the Hynes' family as they travel to San Diego, their new home, this coming week. Finally, Jim has been 'released' from New Orleans, the recovery, and the aftermath of Katrina, so they are traveling to their new HOME. Wishing you miles of smiles, folks! Love to everyone wherever you are tonight. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Thursday, October 13, 2005 8:02 PM CDT Hi guys: Just wanted to let you know we are still out here and checking on you little Ally all the time. It's just been a little crazy so I have not had time to post. Kristin - you are such an awesome wife! So sweet of you to sport the wet suit and join your husband out there in the surf. Glad to hear you had such a good time. I'm also happy that Terri and Geep were able to come and visit with the kiddies. We are preparing for Jack's 4 year birthday in 8 days. Today I asked him his 20 questions. This is a tradition that I just heard about this year and plan on doing every year around his birthday. You ask your child the same set of 20 questions every year and as the years go by (we all know how fast time flies with kids!) you can look back and see their answers. You'll be happy to know Jack's favorite food is spaghetti, his favorite movie is Bug's Life and his favorite word is "stinky"! Happy Thursday everyone! Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Thursday, October 13, 2005 5:37 PM CDT WOW! It sounds like you had a wonderful weekend followed by fantastic "medical" news - GO ALLY!!!! I'll have to tell Tyler that he got an honorable mention on Ally's website. Turning 5 is hard work! Tyler started out by sleeping late (this is a rare occassion) and Jim and I woke him up by singing happy birthday to him. He just smiled in bed and looked as cute as ever! I asked him how his 5-year-old-bones felt and he replied "pretty good, but I don't feel any different than my 4-year-old-bones." Then I made him birthday waffle sticks. This consisted of microwavable dunking sticks complete with birthday candles stuck in them. He thought that was pretty cool and I was impressed with myself for thinking of the idea just before leaving for work. At school he was treated to a special day by doing "all the jobs." That meant he was the line leader, the weather helper, the calendar helper, the snack sharer and the griot. After school we got the birthday haircut (not really because of his birthday but because he looked like he had a snowball growing out of his head) and then we stuffed the pinata with candy in preparation for the Yu-Gi-Oh party on Saturday. We have streamers, balloons, cake and everything else known to man that goes along with the Yu-Gi-Oh theme. I sure do hope he likes the Batman bicycle Jim and I bought him (Toys R Us does not make a Yu-Gi-Oh bike). Tonight Grandma Karen arrives and I am sure pre-birthday gifts will go hand in hand with her visit. As a "new" grandma she has certainly gotten into the spoiling part rather quickly!!! Various gifts have arrived by mail (thank you Morgan) and I have managed to intercept them and hide them in the closet. Well, I suppose I should get to work. Thanks for the update, as always. We think about you daily as well as the many other people on this website who are facing challenges. Lots of love, Aimee, Jim and Tyler <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Thursday, October 13, 2005 6:46 AM CDT An old Beach Boys tune just popped in my head as I read Kristin's post...Surfin' U.S.A!!! Wow! I am impressed. I can honestly say that I will never ride the waves! Like Holly said, "You go girl!" Morgan, I need you to come to Texas and put some color on my "naked" pumpkins! Actually, we are holding off with the decorating until our Halloween block party! Can't wait! Our family enjoyed our long holiday weekend and decided to go camping. The kids had a blast mainly because they did not have to take a bath! We even had the PRIVILEGE?(not!) of having a skunk roaming around by our tent! P.U.!!! The boys thought that was great! Madeline and I were'nt too thrilled! We were even treated to a double rainbow the next morning...straight from God! It was the most beautiful rainbow I have ever seen. It was a great weekend! A win from my beloved Cowboys made it that much sweeter! I pray that you will continue to get glowing reports from your doctors Miss Ally! Hugs to you from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 9:27 PM CDT Hello to all you wonderful people and especially you Ally and my CA family! I'm continuing to enjoy reading the postings and seeing new pics, and I think of you all every day! I'm so glad for the small victories...like "graduating" from one of the doctors, and I know you all must be thrilled as well. I thought of you Kristen and Mark over the weekend and relived many fun memories from your wedding ten years ago and our family trip out to see you. I have to say it's taken 10 years for some of the memories of the actual trip with what seemed like 50 people to become a "fun" memory, but I'd do it again in a minute! Kristen, I'm so proud of you for taking a surfing lesson. I can imagine how worn out you would have been. I would have needed a nap after trying to get my body into a wet suit, nevermind ever making it past the breaking waves! You continue to be my hero in many, many ways! Hugs and kisses to all of you, Love, Jackie Jackie Horras <jackie2fish@hotmail.com> San Antonio, TX US - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 7:31 PM CDT Sassy cute ATE you?!? What the heck, Aunt Ash?!?! Sorry Al, I type too fast sometimes :) The new update is wonderful and I am so happy that you are in the "clear" with the Pulmon. docs. We are thinking of you always and I am rearranging new photos of you today too. I have SO MANY of you and Morgy-lu, it's hard to choose! I'll just make my shrine to Ally & Morgan wall I guess ;) Love you all and happy bat-hardening, KDMK!! xoxoxo Ashli <AshliAGM@aol.com> - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 4:33 PM CDT HOT photos!! Love the surfin', love the pumpkins - love you all!! Talk to ya in a bit... xoxoxoxoxoxo PS - Al-Pal, YOU look soooo adorable on the home page! How sassy cute ate YOU???? Hugs! Ash <AshliAGM@aol.com> - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 8:49 AM CDT Kristin and Mark, you are WAY TOO SEXY for this website! Thanks for posting the pic! I can't wait to read the journal update and here all the details. Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 6:47 AM CDT Kristin, YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!! I have never been on a surfboard and just can't imagine I ever will be!!! The girls look awesome and I can't wait to read about your grand 10 year celebration. Thinking and loving all of you from Texas, Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 8:11 PM CDT Hello everyone! We're baaaacccckkkkk on the "right" coast (ha, don't believe that I said that!) and we are still recalling the events of the past jam-packed four days with Allyson and Morgan. (and a little bit with Kristin and Mark!) We crammed as much into each "24 hours" as we possibly could! First, the WERE RABBIT movie was a big hit and we had lots of laughs continuously saying "WEEEEERRRRRRR RABBBBBITTTT" in our 'scariest' voices. Morgan cracked Allyson up saying it over and over...Allyson was laughing so big that I don't think she realized it was Morgan's "scary voice"....!! The Hollywood -day at the Kodak Theater seeing POOH and his friends celebrate Pooh's birthday was probably one of the MOST animated times I've seen Morgan...and believe me "she is an animated girl" lots of times. The show was totally interactive and we bounced with Tigger, and hummed with Pooh, and clapped with Piglet and the whole gang. She was "so into it"...Allyson actually watched parts of it when she wasn't sleeping nuzzled into my chest. Once the clapping woke her up, she was 'watching' the show....it came complete with streamers and snow all over the audience. Morgan thought that was the neatest thing to have SNOW falling on her!!! Then, we lunched at the Hollywood Bowl promenade next to the famous Graumin's Chinese Theater. We stepped on "lots of stars" as we walked the promenade. Kristin and Mark returned from their 'trip' Sunday afternoon just in time for the "boys" to "watch the BOYS" (everyone knows who they are, right?) and for the "girls" to attend a birthday party. At the party, Allyson met several of Morgan's "original teachers" who had her in daycare when she was only fourteen months old. Although Morgan remembers "all the kids" from those days (she was there until she turned three)she was only slightly shy around the teachers. After a few minutes she had them swinging her, and taking her on the park equipment. Allyson slept peacefully through much of the party. Allyson had a doctor's appt. in LA yesterday, so it was just "Geep and Teetay and Morgan" out for a trek to Chuckie Cheese and the pumpkin patch! The pumpkin patch was a real adventure with Morgan picking out "just the right pumpkin" for each family member...including one final special one! When I asked her who the last one was for, she replied with pride: "This one is for the ANGEL, Teetay...you know the ANGEL that watches over the family!" How precious is that??? She very carefully selected pumpkins who "looked like the family members" and Grandma and Grandpa K. you will be proud to KNOW that you are THE SAME SIZE!!! Once we were home, she decorated the pumpkins with "hair, eyes, noses, big smiles, ears, and clohtes." (there will be no naked pumpkins on her steps!) The tiniest pumpkin was for Allyson and the biggest pumpkin was for her Daddy! The rest of us were pretty much "in between"...!! Allyson rec'd a great checkup from her Monday appt. and I know Kristin will write all about it on the update soon. She is such a joy to be around, and it was fun feeding her new foods! She really digs sweet potatoes and corn "mix" and she does love the "green beans"...she even eats them for breakfast! Geep and I managed to do most everything "for her" on time, and we didn't encounter any "difficulties" until Sunday, the day K and M came home. The feeding machine (the PET) kept "turning off" by itself, so we used the portable one..not a problem, except we didn't know WHY it was turning "off" by itself! "WE" had inadvertently "pushed" the button for "dose" and the machine "thought" the "dose" was "finished" when it wasn't...not a big problem, and that's how you learn. I told Kristin what she already knows and that is I have the utmost respect for her and what she does all day each day...there are many 'steps' in Allyson's care that she just calmly takes in stride. To "do all those steps" for several days just made me realize what a marvel she is - - she never skips a beat! Both Kristin and Mark said the "best part" about their little trip was to "be off duty" for a couple of days and just "relax" and be on their own schedule. So, happy 10th anniversary AGAIN!!! There are many busy days ahead for us, and we aren't staying on the ground for long. We hit the friendly skies again this coming weekend to visit our dear friends in Chicago. We're tried this "trip" a couple of times and we had to cancel, but not this time. We will WALK Lake Michigan this weekend and see if 'that toddling town' really toddles! I hope everyone had a great Columbus Day weekend. We thought of our many friends and hoped that you were enjoying some special times with your loved ones. We especially thought of Big John, Elaine K. and Kathleen. Prayers are continuing to come your way. With love to all, and it's back to WORK tomorrow!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 7:46 PM CDT And, by the way...the SURFING picture is coming.. I have seen it. YOU decide! And, it "may even be" THEM! :) Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va USA - Monday, October 10, 2005 11:51 PM CDT Teetay will write tomorrow..."oh my gosh," says Morgan...(and Allyson is learning to SPEAK from her big sister)..."We have done so many things that I don't know what to speak about....".. So, let me see... Hmmmm.. Wait til Teetay writes on this website Tuesday night when SHE is "home" in VA! What a wonderful weekend it has been...shows, pumpkins, surfing, and the beach... And, Teetay "speaks"...GREAT WEEKEND~~!~! Allyson sits and sits and sits..and does not like to LIE down at all anymore!!! Stay tuned, folks.. And, know that even in CA we are thinking of you ...all of you....the Hynes who are moving to CA "soon"...and to our loved "people" who are still facing challenges...Kathleen, Elaine, and Big John... Love to all of you, Always...and God Bless, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Monday, October 10, 2005 11:42 PM CDT Ally, Will you please ask your mommy where the surfing picture is? Aunt Aimee is anxiously waiting to see it - hee hee! Have you been told lately how cute you are? Oh wait! What was I thinking.....your Teetay and Geep are there! Of course you have been told! Love you!!! Aunt Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Monday, October 10, 2005 2:23 PM CDT Hi and welcome back home, Kristin & Mark! Hope you had a great getaway and enjoy the rest of the visit with Teets & Geep! Just thinking of you ALL this morning, and wanted to say hi and I love you!!! It's a happy morning for the Penn Stater husband who is on his way home from his 24 hours of insanity and big win in Happy (happy, happy!) Valley yesterday. We're alreay looking forward to a BOWL GAME!!! Gee, San Antonio with the family or Pasadena maybe?!?!?! Oh the possibilities! Ok, several more games to go but we're optimistic :) Hope you all are having a super weekend -- Boys and Birds this afternoon and that's always an interesting day in the Matus-George home!!! :) Much love -- Ash Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Sunday, October 9, 2005 8:39 AM CDT I am still laughing at the story of Morgan speaking her own "language" to the little girl who spoke Spanish. Teetay, I think you need to bring her home with you so she can learn some Spanish along with my students! Actually, it sounds like she handled the situation quite well....children have their own language and can communicate no matter what! I love her take charge attitude ....and I'm very jealous that you are in California spending time with your adorable grandchildren. Morgan will probably be teaching Allyson to speak Spanish before you know it! Can't wait to see pictures of your adventures and Kristin and Mark's surfing adventure! I hope Kristin is taking lots of pictures. Enjoy sunny California. Virginia is very wet! Carol Williams <ccw92347@cox.net> Herndon, Va. - Saturday, October 8, 2005 9:11 PM CDT Hi there and HAPPY 10th to K & M! So glad I got to chat with you yesterday to wish you "live" a happy anniversary. I know you will enjoy Santa Monica, that fabulous Sushi Roku (say hi to Brad ;) and SURFING!! Can't wait to hear all about it!! TG and I are off for a dinner date before he heads to PSU tonight in an RV with 5 guys (sheez... uh hem!) for the big Ohio State game tomorrow. I will be celebrating with my dear friend Michelle at her engagement party tomorrow... and all afternoon, I had the honor of babysitting Miss Margot Kennedy while Elaine continued to recover from her surgery this week. What an amazing woman Elaine is and speaking with her this afternoon taught me lessons that will never appear in any silly book. I am proud to have been able to help and proud to know such a great, strong family. Teets & Geep - they are still raving over the food you sent and Elaine likes the chicken chili best :p Hugs to all my peeps in CA this long weekend and everyone else, enjoy wherever it is you are and hugs those who are right next to you. We gotta stick together, right Al Pal?!!? Love to my special little nieces -- MISS YOU TONS! Love from Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Friday, October 7, 2005 5:47 PM CDT Greetings from "the LEFT COAST" ("Don't tell Arnold!") We arrived here ahead of schedule last evening and made it to Port Hueneme in record time! Walked in the house before 10 o'clock PCT!! Our bodies did not even feel the "real time" for a couple of hours! But, to CLARIFY the 'time' that one little Morgan-Lulu found me this morning...for inqiring minds..it was 5:21 A.M.!! I was wide awake, so our reunion was an AWAKE one...it doesn't get any better than hearing these words: "Teetay, I'm so proud to see you at my house!" So, we snuggled and 'talked about the day' for awhile..then we were QUIET for a bit, and then, there was this LOUD snoring sound from NEARBY. Morgan's voice:"Teetay, is that Geep?" (who was downstairs on the sofa bed) I said, "No, Morgan, it is the MAN next door." (houses are CLOSE in CA and WINDOWS are OPEN..hence...'sounds travel'...hmmmm..can be interesting at times!)...So, Morgan INSISTED on looking out the WINDOW to SEE the "snoring man"....we just saw his LEGS, fortunately....thank goodness for PULLED blinds! That was the funny start of the day...and then, we found GEEP downstairs and snuggled with him for awhile. By the time we were up and watching Cinderella it was 6:30 A.M.!! I love early mornings! Allyson slept contentedly until after 7:30 this morning, but when she smiled her way into the day, we were 'WHOLE' again!! I had the opportunity to feed Al-Pal her cereal and carrots' breakfast and she ate so very well! She chomps away at each bite, "shows" you what's left, and continues on wide grins all the time! She "sneezed" some of her carrot-mixture back at me, but I was ready for her most of the times! I only found a few remnants on my toes later on this morning! Another funny thing happened this morning..in fact, I'm still laughing about it. Morgan and I had a little short jaunt to the nearby park. She played on the slides with me for awhile until a little girl 'about her age' appeared and they began playing together. They picked flowers, walked the log wall, climbed the mountain up to the BIG slide, and kicked the ball....Morgan continued to "direct" the activities with the little girl following her lead. The other little girl spoke only Spanish apparently and didn't seem to understand us, nor did we fully understand her. Finally, I said to Morgan who was attempting conversation REPEATEDLY to the girl...I said, "Morgan, she is speaking Spanish." (with my very limited vocabulary I wasn't able to converse much, unless we just kept saying "hello"..."how are you?" ...or "count to ten"...) Morgan looked at me, didn't skip a beat, and immediately begin speaking "her version of Spanish" to the little girl which meant she was speaking "jibberish"...I cracked up INsdie. Children are so well meaning. Morgan still doesn't understand why the little girl didn't seem to 'get it'....Kristin said she's done that several times before! I guess the MORAL of this story is that we'd best get Morgan BI-lingual as soon as possible! I'm still laughing..you should have just heard her "made up words"...they probably sounded PERFECT to her ears. When we departed we did say, "Haste luego, and adios." The little girl smiled and waved...probably thinking to herself how stupid we were, but FINALLY we said something!! Get your chuckles out of that story! This afternoon is the WereRABBIT movie complete with popcorn!!! Allyson and Morgan are both sleeping in preparation for this event! Kristin and Mark left midday for Santa Monica and their 'anniversary' weekend! They are so excited over their surfing lesson in the morning and their special REGAL Sushi-famous-restaurant-event tonight! I told them to call, or not call that we'd be fine! I have instructions, phone numbers, and power of attorney. We'll be just fine. Mark did leave me with "advice" on what to do IF the "balloon part of the G-tube" should come out..(nothing to get hysterical about..yeah, right!!!)...although he's never put it back in (Kristin did one time by herself) alone, he told me how to do it. I think I would rely on the "emergency" room to help me...but it's not going to just come out by itself and I don't plan on putting Allyson on a trampoline in the next couple of days!!! Sharon..I'm working on the ROLL OVER song and Allyson loves it. Both girls remember you (well, actually, Morgan does!) and Morgan said that "Miss Sharon read her good stories when she was tired." (true words) Know that we're thinking of you all, and wishing the very best of news for Kathleen's full recovery, and continued prayers are being sent to Big John and Elaine K. We know God is watching over you all. Love to all...I may not write a lot this weekend...the schedule is pretty full and we must travel to see "Winnie the Pooh and friends" tomorrow at the famous Kodak Theater. I'll let you know if I see any STARS lingering on the RED carpet! Have a wonderful holiday weekend! Love, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> her, va USA - Friday, October 7, 2005 3:53 PM CDT Happy FRIDAY! I wanted to wish Kristin and Mark a wonderful anniversary weekend!!!!!! Unfortunately, in this day and age, not many couples reach 10 years of marriage (myself included). So, you should both feel very proud of your accomplishment and I KNOW you KNOW what it takes to keep a marriage going. Luckilly, we have our parents as role models!!!!! I wish you 50 more years of anniversaries and I hope 10 years from now you are wishing me a happy 10-year anniversary too!!!!! I remember being in your wedding like it was yesterday and it is hard to imagine that 10 whole years have passed already! I love you both! Have fun SURFING :):):):) xoxoxoxoxox, Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Friday, October 7, 2005 6:25 AM CDT Hope all is well in Ally-land! Thought of her sweet smile often today. I spent most of my day at Camden and Grant's school helping out with Texas week. I loved seeing all these cute little five year olds in their cowboy duds! Boots and shorts...what a combination! One little girl had a sequined skirt with lots of fringe and some pink cowboy boots!! Look out Dolly! I am so thankful that my hubby works so hard that I can be a stay at home mom and help out at school. Well, I must get back to ironing clothes. I keep getting sidetracked...been ironing since 4 o'clock this afternoon...it is now 10:15!!!YIKES! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 10:03 PM CDT And a special Happy Birthday to Megan, (you're not "adopted" anymore...you're FAMILY!) and to Jim H. who is doing to hard work of continuing recovery and relocation in LA, and to Brian, Atlanta nephew-in-law for over 20 years...and to everyone else celebrating something meaningful today! And, happy 10th anniversary this Friday to Kristin and Mark..your tenth anniversary marks just another wonderful milestone in 'this year of years'...right??? We're proud of you for what you DO each day and for what you ARE to so many. Thank you for being the BEST! And, thank you for letting us be part of your journey! And, congrats to Ashli who has found a position of worth and challenge as she begins another chapter in her "career path"....we are proud of your ability to juggle all those balls, and we're grateful that you are not going to end up in the ranks of 'day laborer'...although with TG's 'guidance' you've become a pretty good 'dry-waller personified'...!!! We're happy for your new job and your TWO mile commute! And, continuedd prayers for those in hospitals, in need, and experiencing grief. Our thoughts are with you...and we send out our "white lights" (as Cat says from Pineapple land) and our quiet prayers to you all the time. With love to all... Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) And to my former students who read this website. In case you are wondering..."Yes, I miss you all very much." :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va us - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 10:39 AM CDT Hi!! Thinking of dear friends and extended family now and always as we continue to bond and find strength in each other during tough times.... Yes, it does seem like we're all facing some major challenges and losses lately, from personal issues to world events -- and look Ally, you seem to be a source of comfort that we all turn to during these times. Thanks Al, and the Kelso gang, for being out there for all of us!! I love the sassy red (dare I say burgundy?!?) background and new fall pics. The sister love is the best and the cool part is, well if Morgan & Allyson take after their Mommy & Aunt, many of these pics will be framed in their adult homes many years down the road!! SO COOL! I can't wait to take some of these to my new office in a couple of weeks when I join the ranks of the gainfully employed again as opposed to my day labor/renovation/wedding/Rally work that has kept me busy these last couple of months :p Have a great "hump" day and rest of the week... Matus-George thoughts are with you ALL "out there". HAPPY 35th BIRTHDAY TO MEGAN, my special new sister-in-law & sister in heart and FRIEND! Love and hugs to you four in CA! xoxoxoxo Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 8:16 AM CDT Miss Ally...Little did you know how many lives would be touched by your life. Crystal, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too lost a dear friend last week. I pray that the memories you have of your uncle will in time help you to heal. I was talking to a friend the other night and I told her that I felt like so many people were dealing with so much pain right now. She said, "Anna, that is our cue to step in and be the hands and feet of Christ for those who are hurting. And, to help people come to Christ." I firmly believe that as well. Ally, one day when you are old enough to read all of these entries in your guestbook, you will see the impact you have made in this world. Hugs to you from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 9:37 PM CDT Dear Crystal, We will keep you and your family in our prayers. This website has been a source of comfort and strength for so many the past 9+ months, and you have certainly contributed to that comfort. Know that we have your family close in thought during your time of grieving. Bless you all, Love, Terri terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 6:19 PM CDT Long time.....no post! But I do visit often to keep up with all of you. I am writing today to request prayers for my family. I suddenly lost an uncle, more like a brother, Sunday morning. He was 43 and died at home from a massive heart attack. He leaves behind an 11 yr. old daughter, along with my Aunt Gale. Both his parents and a brother and sister. He was such a wonderful man and will be missed by so many people. Please, lift this family up ....Thank you, Crystal Register Crystal Register <jbrdregister@atmc.net> Southport, NC USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 9:03 AM CDT Greetings to everyone! Good news about my friend, Kathleen! Her surgery today went VERY well and the doctors are hopeful that her recovery period will be minimal and she'll be back home in about a week!!! That is VERY GOOD NEWS for lots of folks, especially her four children and husband!!! Thanks for your prayers for her. Please continue to pray for John Mc....he still needs our website support!! And, please include Elaine K. in your prayers - her surgery was today as well. We have many folks facing big challenges. Send them your strength!:) Counting the days til our feet touch down in sunny/hazy/smokey/CALIFORNIA! I hope the pumpkins did not burn up!! Looking forward to this coming weekend! Ashli and I just spent a couple of hours going through all the beautiful wedding proofs! The choices are difficult as there are so many good shots! We 'pitched' the ones in which we thought we looked 'stupid'...!!! Pope Allyson looks very appealing in her big HAT! Can hardly wait to see her sitting up by herself and eating green beans!! What advancements she's made in the past few weeks! And, of course, it will be fun making "angels and candy canes" with Morgan for Christmas!!! Maybe she'll let me sneak in a 'turkey and a Pilgrim' when she's not looking!!! Love to all, and thank you for your prayers for our good friends. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Monday, October 3, 2005 5:02 PM CDT Greetings ALL! Love the updates and crazy SMILEY photos -- too cute! Al Pal the Pope is sure a winner :)) We've had a fun sports-filled weekend and continued work on the house. It was all PSU on Saturday our with friends.. WE ARE... PENN STATE! (that's their big creative chant ;) Sorry about the Hoos K&M and sorry that this possible PSU win could knock them out of the top 25 and put PSU back in for the first time in years. You have a happy bro-in-law over here. Now it's pins and needles for a Phillies win but more importantly, a Houston LOSS (sorry TX!). Enough sports talk. Blah, blah, the Skins won again thanks to some gifts from refs and now it's on to 4:15 games and we'll see what the Boys and Birds get done at their respective games. Ok, I said I was done with sports... But wait! TG had a hockey game this morning and I actually attended since it was at a "normal" time of day. FUN!! Oh KDMK, I also baked a cake today because the husband thought that chocolate cake sounded really good with a big glass of milk (this was post hockey game and he was pretty banged up so I figured if the kid wants cake, I'll make a stinkin cake!) so I baked away and he is trying cream cheese frosting for the first time on it(he's a vanilla guy) and I assured him it was your favorite and he can't go wrong ;) So the cake is done with colored sprinkles on it (most people call them Jimmys but that never made sense to me) and displayed in one of my wedding gift cake servers. The point is though, I didn't take a photo because it is no match to the Winnie the Pooh cake :) I also had to give myself a shout out because those who know me know that me baking and frosting is quite a feat for this non-baker!!! We're thinking of so many of you and your loved ones out there who are experiencing life's challenges and pain and suffering. I leave you, especially those facing the unknown and dealing with difficult situations - and all those who are being thoughtful in THIS moment, here you go: "I beg you... to have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions NOW. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer..." ~Rainer Maria Rilke Have a great Sunday - and a great week, everyone! Much love to my favorite CA girls and boy! xoxoxo Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Sunday, October 2, 2005 3:21 PM CDT Good evening to all... Just a short note...PLEASE bump up the prayers for Big John McKay tonight. He and his family need your thoughts and prayers. BIGTIME! And God bless this wonderful man's life...he has loved, and given, and shared, and laughed, and BEEN a mentor to everyone he's ever known. THINK of him tonight. Thanks everyone...and love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/TMat:) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, October 1, 2005 9:48 PM CDT Miss Ally....Your smile just keeps getting bigger and bigger! Love your birthday crown/Pope hat! Morgan, your my kind of gal...PLAN AHEAD!!! Sorry I have been absent this week....we had a rough week, but have had some good family time. We lost a dear friend this week and it brought to mind that we must savor every moment that God gives us. The kids are so excited that there are only 30 more days until Halloween! Who's counting? Morgan, I am also a gal who likes to plan ahead so I spent most of my afternoon preparing everything for Camden and Grant's Halloween party at school! Then I spent the rest of the day helping Miss Madeline make her "coat of arms" for her history project. Unfortunately, I did not plan ahead for that project and it is due on Wednesday...YIKES!!! The boys learned how to ride their bikes without training wheels last week and they are so proud of themselves. So, we have been bike riding alot as well. BIG TEX is in town for awhile! The kids are anxious to go to the state fair and get a CORNY DOG! If you're from the south, it is prounounced "CORN-EE DAWG", not corn dog! Madeline wants to go during Texas-OU weekend because she wants to see her college team play. Yes, she has decided that OU will be the college of her choice...she is only 8!!!Talk about planning ahead!! Boomer Sooner! Greg was crushed that she doesn't want to be a RAZORBACK! Well, I have rambled long enough. Hope the air clears in Cali! Hugs to you from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, October 1, 2005 9:20 PM CDT I just have one questions for K....is Sheesh really a word???? Hee hee hee hee!!!! We are getting ready to "warm" our new house with some friends. Of course, Jim has cooked enough food to feed a small country and we will be lucky if 20 people show up. Guess that means leftovers for the rest of the week. It is actually unusually warm in MN for October today. We have all the windows open and have put on shorts again (this is after wearing a turtleneck on Wednesday). Have a wonderful weekend! The Moores (and Tyler too) <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Saturday, October 1, 2005 2:12 PM CDT Good Morning to everyone in Allyson's world! What a cutie girl she is having that TEA PARTY with her big sister!!! I am going to pack some "green tea" in my suitcase next week and see if those girls LIKE it!!! I cannot wait to attend their tea parties next weekend! We are getting more excited by the day just knowing that our feet will be in a California Pumpkin Patch next weekend looking for the GREAT PUMPKIN!!! Morgan will have to share the Pumpkin Patch "stage" with Allyson this year. Last year, Morgan commanded the 'stage' by herself and put on quite a little 'show' for us! This year she will get to INTRODUCE ALLYSON to that same stage! It is a beautiful FALL weekend in Virginia! Please continue your prayers for Big John McKay and for my friend, Kathleen. I am wishing them both a GOOD WEEK ahead. And, to K. I will keep an eye on your girl!! Much to do this weekend...more LOOKING at Ashli and Tom's wedding pictures! Out of the 500+ I must figure out exactly which ones I want for myself!!! In reality, I want them all, but I must narrow my focus and pick just the right ones that tell the beautiful wedding story!!! Love to all of you and a happy weekend ahead! ENJOY some time with those you love! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, October 1, 2005 8:07 AM CDT Wow Ally! In December you were so tiny, and now you're all grown up and looking great! You go girl! And Morgan, aren't you the best big sister! You girls keep having fun together! This quote was on my teacher's wall and I just loved it so I thought I'd share it with you. "Every day is a gift... That's why we call it the present" Lizzy Lizzy Knippler <lizzywiz18@cox.net> Fairfax, VA - Thursday, September 29, 2005 4:47 PM CDT Updated photographer link for photo viewing... http://www.hollandphotoarts.com/ashli-tom Enjoy the show! We sure did :) xoxo - Ashli Ash & Tom and their photos.... <ashliagm@aol.com> - Thursday, September 29, 2005 8:21 AM CDT The pictures are beautiful...for those who wish to visit the Holland website... I will try to give it to you... http://www.hollandphotoarts.com/ashli-tom/?secret-true Hope you find the time to SEE the "wedding" and how much love was amassed among the "peoples"...it was the best and these pics actually show it!!! Glad you were there in REAL or in SPIRIT!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v usa - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 9:29 PM CDT Well speaking of wedding photography, Aimee......... Drum roll -- and excuse my selfishness for taking a moment to let Ally know that my wedding photography preview is online!!! YEAH! I just knew Allyson would be eager to see them so here ya go Pal... enjoy - And Morgy-lu too! We loved reliving the excitement and joy of our day!! xoxox http://www.hollandphotoarts.com/ashli-tom/?secret=true Love you CA gals and boy! Talk manana.... Ash the most recent bride Aunt :) <ashliagm@aol.com> - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 8:29 PM CDT Darn....I missed being number 35,000 by 77 clicks! (Although I think I have checked the site at least that many times today so maybe I really was number 35,000.) I think my invitation to the tea party must have gotten lost in the mail. It sure did look like fun and Ally is playing the role perfectly! And to little miss Morgan.....that hair is OUT OF CONTROL!!!! Kristin, I think you have missed your calling all these years. Forget retail - you are a photographer!!! And, after just paying for mine from the wedding, I bet you could make WAY more money in that field! I hope you are all having a great week so far. I know, it is ONLY Tuesday!!!! We actually don't have anything eventful happening all week and then we are having a housewarming party on Saturday. Jim is cooking the main food (yummy) and I am baking brownies. Oh the memories.......I remember in college that Mark somehow knew EXACTLY when my brownies were coming out of the oven. :):):) He would show up at our apartment just in time to eat half the pan! Have a great week! Lots of love and hugs, Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 2:37 PM CDT Holy comeback, Batman! It was touch and go there for a while but with all those Dallas fans in SF today, the BOYS got it done - YEAH! Unfortunately, the Eagles also got it done but oh well... it makes for a happy night for the boy as he is out playing hockey! I bet Al-Pal and Morgy lu were sporting some BLUE today... I bet! :) Love and hugs to you all. Extreme Home Makeover is on and I need to get back for the big "reveal" and get the tears goin' ;) Have a great week everyone, and happy belated 9 months, big Ally girl! xoxoxoxoxoxo Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Sunday, September 25, 2005 7:12 PM CDT "The stars at night...are big and bright....deep in the heart of Texas!"... COWBOYS! (and I'm an equal opportunity fan!)But, I feel the need to support all the good Texans I know tonight...it's been a wild ride these past weeks. So....GO.....COWBOYS! (did I say that again??)Glad the Chief's couch did not get DINTS in it today!!! Whahoo!!! Wonder what Allyson and Morgan were wearing in CA? (they are many Cowboy fans in CA and they do not sit in their closets!!) Good night all, Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Sunday, September 25, 2005 6:42 PM CDT WOO-HOO!!!!HOW 'BOUT THEM COWBOYS!!!!You go Keyshawn with the 2point conversion!! Yes, my husband has taught me all of the football lingo! Were they really playing in San Fran? Sounded more like Texas Stadium!!! There are some Cowboy fans in the Bay Area! Ally, did you wear your Cowboy colors today? Love the tea party pic. What kind of invisible tea did you have? I LOVE invisible tea! Happy again in Dallas....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Sunday, September 25, 2005 6:19 PM CDT Good Afternoon All - Hope this note finds everyone doing splendidly....seems there is so much to type...if I could only get my fingers going more often like my good buddy Anna Banana...I wouldn't have SO much to catch up on each time I wrote! Oh well...hang on...there are some happenins' to tell you about. First of all, Ally, that tea party looked like SO much fun!! You ARE a dainty little one and I just love that you didn't wait for anyone to help you but went at it all by yourself....YOU GO GIRL! Kristin, how do you do it all? Pictures loaded, your routines, fun times, journals, appointments, you continue to amaze me...including your odd little flexibility...I have the same thing in my hip...can pop it out like Carol Burnett did on her show....am I showing my age? Well, I thought it was funny then and if I had a drum roll and live camera, you all would think it was funny too!!! Hee One more question...how is it, your girls NEVER look dirty? I feel like I keep my crew clean as possible and we don't all look that "tidy in white" all the time!!! In fact, perfect example, I have a white shirt on today...it has jelly, peanut butter and strawberries on it....guess what Catherine had for lunch? Todd suggested after taking inventory of the smearings that perhaps I was the one that needed the bib or apron. I snickered at that comment and Catherine busted out giggling (do you think she really knew what he said?) Let's roll on that bus for the Rally for Ally.....but do we have to wait until next year?? I guess the time will be here before we know it. WHAT A HOOT!!! It is REALLY quiet in my house at the moment...why? Well, Todd skipped out after taking the boys to church with our neighbor for 9 holes of golf, Catherine is napping and the other three are watching a movie at a neighbors house...I should be cleaning up and doing laundry but that isn't near as much fun as catching up on emails and stuff. The Crandell girls didn't make it to church today because we were recuperating....we got hit by a mighty bad stomach virus yesterday. It came with a vengenace and left quickly thank goodness. Poor Todd, he plays in this one golf tournament every year and as he left yesterday he said....call me if you need to and I will come home. He had taken 4 golf lessons this week to re-do his swing and finally felt like he had it...couldn't wait to get out there and show his stuff. Guess what? For the first time ever, I have had to call that man off the course....I was doubled over and staring at Ashlynn doubled over and thougt..."I need some help here!" Todd, quickly came home and was the hero for the day. Way after he had gotten the house under control and after I had come out of a necessary nap, I asked him how he HAD been playing...guess what his answer was? "The best I have played in years." ARUGH! Oh well....he really didn't mind and I was so thankful he was home and that he could get out today for a little respite. WHEW! While Ashlynn and I were home this morning we were working on her Bible Study on Friendship led by Anna (okay..you all know she is the best!) and had such a good time together. We decided to call Papa aka "Big John". Well, Big John answered the phone and was sounded good. Ashlynn took the phone from me and talked to him for a LONG time...it did both their hearts so good....mine too. Thank you for your continued prayers....Dad's sister has been in all week from Ohio and I know he and mom loved spending some quality time with Auntie Fran. Prayers continue going up for all connected to this website....The Kelsos, Matuses, Georges, Elaine K., etc. etc. We think of all of you all the time and pray God's goodness shines on each of you. Have a wonderful Sunday afternoon...we're still giggling and hope each of you find something to giggle about today too!!! Hugs and kisses (only the largest from Texas) and...GO COWBOYS! Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Sunday, September 25, 2005 2:21 PM CDT Sign me up for the bus ride to D.C.!!!! That sounds like a plan.....Holly are you ready for a road trip girlfriend???!!! Ally, just checkin to make sure you put on your Dallas Cowboy gear today! You bring us luck!! The Boys are in your neck of the woods for the WEEK!! Hopefully my sofa will be spared a beating today! Hope all is well in Cali! Oh, and Elaine K. if you are reading this, please know that you are being prayed for! Blessings and hugs from Texas......Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Sunday, September 25, 2005 11:40 AM CDT Happy 'slightly belated 9 month old birthday' to ALLYSON!!! Look at what you've done in your life thus far??? You have an entire 'nation'...coast to coast praying and pulling for you, and always interested in your progress whether it is about peas coming out of your nose, or sitting up alone, or being on your 'all fours' for a minute or so!!! EVERYONE wants the latest scoop on our Al-Pal!! You keep up the good work with your dedicated Mom and Dad and your ever-vigilant big sister, the 'list maker'...!! I am SURE now what was in "that list"...it was a "list of things I 'm going to teach my little sister" in the coming years! And, I am sure ONE of them is to "JUMP ON THE BED" and scream "No more monkeys jumping on the bed" while doing it! I'm sure another thing she will teach you is how to do "Ring Around the Rosie" correctly...when you get to the "Ashes, ashes part"...YOU SCREAM "Aunt Ashie, Aunt Ashie....we all fall down!" And, there comes the "dying laughing part"....so, not to worry Allyson, there's much to come in your world of learning and you have many to teach you!!! Congrats Alex on your wonderful open house! Ashli was so impressed with your repertoire of 'stuff' and all nice, good, lovely, clever, etc!!!! She's already said that YOU will 'do my retirement invitations' next spring!!! So, I'll check that off my "list"...!!! Yes, beautiful FALL temps have come to the DC area...alongwith clouds. Can't complain about the clouds as the green grasses of home have been brown for some time! Maybe a few "raindrops falling on our heads" will be good therapy!! Counting the days til Oct. 6th when "all our bags are packed" and we head WEST for the long Columbus Day weekend. "Dr. Kristin and Dr. Mark" will go on a little 10th anniversary trip to celebrate their first decade or marriage! For those of you who were 'there' or 'around' at their wedding we are all saying..."Gee, my how time flies!" I hope everyone's teams come out 'victorious' this afternoon when the football engines rev up to play!! We are happy to report that our Texas family did not incur any damage from Rita. Everyone is back 'safe' in their respective homes after evacuating to higher spots! God was good to them. JOY!! :) I hope Big John is having a GOOD day, and that the Chief Rainwaters are enjoying some family time and that Greg does not have to hit the sofa today...that the Crandalls have taken a "break from giggling" (but not really) at the precious things their kids say and do...(that goes for all the 'adorables' in our lives!!)...that Kathleen is having a good day with her family...that my sister and bro in law will have a wonderful trip to the great northwest this week....that the Hynes will eventually get back into their house so they can prepare for their move to CA in the 'future'....that Jim Hynes is not still having to eat MRE's and maybe he can take his body armour off now....that Elaine K. will gather strength from the love of friends and family over the coming days...and for ALL who face uphill challenges due to illness, inconveniece, or hurricane-life-disruption....you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you all for your positive, upbeat way of communicating with us via this website. There is strength in numbers and we are grateful for each of you!!! I think Alex's idea of a 'chartered' bus for next years' Rally for Ally is a great one...we could just pick up people all across the U.S. and bring them here for the reunion of a lifetime!! So, Holly and Anna...get your 'thinking caps' going on THAT THOUGHT!!! :) Thich Nhat Hahn said: "Everyday we are engaged in a miracle which we don't even recognize: a blue sky,white clouds, green leaves,the curious eyes of a child, and our own two eyes. All is a miracle." Thank you for being part of OUR MIRACLES!!! God bless, With love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ "Still" T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Sunday, September 25, 2005 9:25 AM CDT Happy Sunday to all! Hope the CA gang is having a happy weekend and I know we're all gearing up for some good football banter again - right!?!?! Oh wait, the Skins are off today... good thing for them, they will need all that REST from actually playing football last Monday! In this house, our teams are heading to the Bay Area and we're hoping our best friends out there will bring us some good luck :) But nothing beats the joy in the heart of one Tom George who had two of his teams pull it off in the last minutes this weekend - the Phillies came back and PSU pulled off a crazy win over NW! It will be a happy weekend when we return to Happy Valley this Saturday. We'll stay excited as long as we can until Ohio State beats them silly (not funny... scary). ANYWAY, I digress into football mode - sorry :) I have to give a shout out to Alex who hosted a lovely open house on Friday night for her new company, Write this Way. Anyone in the VA-DC-MD area needing some awesome(!) announcements, invitations of all kinds, notecards, stationary, etc - Alex is your girl! There are some really cool things to choose from, especially holiday cards!! Her email is below this entry - hint, hint! Truly, it was great to see Alex again -- and we're only connected because of ALLY so thanks again, sweet niece, for bringing us all together and creating new friendships! Yes, the crisp fall mornings are wonderful, and we love having all the doors and windows open! Morgy lu and Al-Pal, continue to savor yous FALL beach days - we love you lots - HUGS to you girls, and Dr. Mommy and Daddy too!!! xoxoxoxoxox Aunt Ashli, Uncle Tommy, Nala and Peeve :) <cowboysbeatthoseSFwino-s@istilloveyadallas.com> Washington, DC USA - Sunday, September 25, 2005 8:10 AM CDT Hi little Ally and big sis Morgan! Can I come hang out at the beach with you!! We're not ready for Fall in Montgomery Village, MD. There is something to be said though for crispy Fall mornings. I know we say this over and over but I will say it again. Thank you Ally for letting us be a part of your journey. This Web site is truly an amazing place full of some of the greatest people I've never met!! Hope that will change in the future! I say we charter a bus next year, for Rally for Ally, from Texas to DC so I can finally meet the famous Anna and Holly! Terri - thank you for helping our Dallas folks! It was sooo nice of you. Ally - keep up the good work. At this rate, I think you will be crawling before Will! Morgan - keep up the good work on those lists. I think you were listing all the reasons why you think you should have the yummy blue ice cream again soon!! Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Saturday, September 24, 2005 10:19 PM CDT Good Friday evening to you all, Somber thoughts tonight for the many who have fled homes in Texas and LA again....prayers from Virginia are being sent your way. I hope Rita will not do extensive battle in the area. We know so many folks who are in the area, or connected to someone who is. Please keep my good friend's sister and her husband in your prayers. While trying to evacuate, their car "died" and they ended up in the small town of Magnolia. Without transportation or a destination, they were taken in by some lovely Baptist church folks. To complicate things, her brother in law is a diabetic and had to be rushed to a nearby hospital. And, that's just one of the many stories...it just happens to be someone close to my friend. Just a few minutes ago, another friend/former parent of two students of mine, contacted me with news that she will be having a form of vascular surgery in about a week. Her condition is a serious one and part of a syndrome I knew nothing about. She will be treated at John Hopkins' Hospital, so she is in good hands. But, she needs the big heartfelt prayers of this angel-website that Allyson's birth created...so, please keep Kathleen in your prayers as she undergoes surgery in the near future. Kathleen's son, Tim, was in my class last year and their entire family has embraced Allyson, our family, and this website. So, please reach out with your prayers for them at a time when they have a need. God has blessed us with so much love and outreach....so let's just REACH a little wider! Thanks everyone! And, because I am in the 'reaching out' mode, do continue to remember Big John McKay...he's holding his own, and he has some strong days and some 'not so strong days'...what is the STRONGEST about John is his courage and his deep faith. He is surely in God's hands. Love to all of you, and it is our prayer than Rita makes a very quick exit once she drops down on Texas! We have our family and friends in thought tonight... And, how 'bout that Allyson up on all fours???? Can't wait to see that in a couple of weeks! And, I sure hope Morgan has finished her 'list' by the time we get there....maybe she is writing a 'list' of what to do when we are there? Her big surprise is a trip to the Kodak Theater in L.A. to see the Disney Winnie the Pooh Show!! I have always wanted to see that famous theater, so it was a no brainer when we found out POOH would be "in the house"..!!! We even got a seat for Allyson so she won't have to be 'in lap' the entire time!! God bless you all, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Friday, September 23, 2005 6:32 PM CDT I awoke this morning thinking of all the people I need to pray for today. Ally, you are always on that list! I pray that your day will be filled with lots of baby giggles and good food! Tell mommy to bring you to Texas so that we can introduce you to TEX-MEX! Ha!Ha! Ally, thank you for being so special to so many people. Have a great Friday baby girl! Hugs from Texas......Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail,com> - Friday, September 23, 2005 6:27 AM CDT And I must say...SO MANY KUDOS to Mark, my son-in-law..but "my son"...the one I've known since the BACKSEAT of the "brown Mercury" when he and TWIN GLENN had the TWIN bobbing heads...I did not know at that time that Mark and Kristin would MARRY...but I still think about those "rides from Band Practice" with such fondness and love. So, Mark, you GO, MAN! You have "weathered a storm" in your own career and you have risen above it. I know that you are researching 'what to do if' scenarios and that is because you are smart. I applaud you, and I am one of your biggest "applauders"...maybe "next to Kristin and your parents"... We have all learned so very much this past year about what "really counts"...and the bottom line is: "It all counts." So, Mark, you PRESS ON PILGRIM, as you have been doing for some time, and know that the rest of the FAM and the 'extended FAM' on this website are pulling for you, praying for you, and wishing you the best possible outcome of all of this. When all is said and done...it is really about FINDING a landing place...or a soft place to fall...or where you are 100% comfortable. I know that we will all be 'there' with you no matter what. And, thank you all for continuing to pray for our entire Texas family...(the related's and the UNrelated's)..as they have evacuated to HIGHER GROUND...and all are safe as of tonight's phone conversation. We have aunts/cousins/ etc. in Port Arthur, and Houston...Katie and Ken evacuated and drove "Miss Annie" (our surrogate GRANDMOTHER) to S. Antonio to be 'safe' so she would not be ALONE....prayers for Bobby and Christie in Buffalo North of Houston...and for EJ and Helen who must stay with the DAIRY in Moulton..(hang in there, guys) ..and for the many in the area who will lose power, but NEVER HOPE. Thank goodness for the strength of FAMILY. We have just seen so many of these beloved folks at Ashli's and Tom's wedding, so we are especially thankful for them, and hopeful that ALL will be WELL when they return to their homes. God bless you all. Still watching the 'movement' of Rita and trying to understand the intensity of two horrific storms......for all our Austin folks, and esp. "Big John" and "Char Char"...we are holding you close in thought and prayer. And for Ashli's good friend, Elaine, we will continue to pray for you.."Hey girl"...."YOU are going to just be fine..." I have met you, spoken with you, partied with you, and loved you.....YOU WILL PREVAIL!! KNOW IT!!! And, thanks to Holly and Anna Chief R. for your recent posts...YOU rock my days. Both of you. Your love and support means all the world. And, did I mention the most adorable pics ever??? Allyson..or is it "Dallyson"??? That headband is just too cute...don't let it hurt your brain!! And, Morgan.."making a list?" PULEEZEEE?? What a "CEO" she appears to be...so from Morgan..."So, now , everyone just line up and DO WHAT I SAY!" (Jack and Jay and Grant....watch out...Morgan is IN THE HOUSE!) Love to all of you tonight...the very best wishes go to those who are suffering...and the very biggest prayers are headed to Texas right now... And thanks to the displaced "Dallas" folk for the lovely letter via Denise via Alex H. that they are settled and starting a new life...in DALLAS..(the family I spoke about, Holly)...I am so grateful that I could be part of your RELOCATION. Thanks Denise and Alex for letting me be 'part'... Special moments ahead...we just know it. Count on it. The world has suffered too much grief recently. There will be a rainbow tomorrow...and the sun will come up. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/TMat:) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v usa - Thursday, September 22, 2005 9:40 PM CDT Hi everyone, I promise not to talk any more smack about that football game last weekend. I just thought maybe I would update you guys on what happens to an aviator when blood pours out of your ears. Okay, that was a long time ago, but I thought I would update you all on the "boy" side of the family. My squadron returned home from cruise the begining of August as most of you know. About two weeks ago everyone finally got back from leave. It's been great having everyone back, but I definitely feel like the outsider. I'm working in the Operations department (those of you who know my Navy side know that I've worked in Ops about my whole life!) I was scheduled to be taking over as Ops O on December 27th last year, but my head had something different to say about that! Anyway, my future in naval aviation is still yet to be determined. I feel fine, as I have for months now. I'm waiting to get another MRI in late November or early December and if that looks normal (that's my big worry!) then I'll go to San Diego for some more neurological testing. If everything goes okay, I might be flying again in late January or February. I've gotten over the being mad at the Navy doctors for not letting me fly. I had a pretty serious injury. Now I'm just on the permanent "riding the pine", "put me in coach" part of my life. As the understatement of the century, let me just say that it's hard to be an aviator in a fleet squadron and not be able to fly. It's like I'm stealing money from the government: in February I got my aviation bonus and haven't flown for nine months now! In fact, my last flight in the squadron on December 17th was a flight where I eaned an instructor qualification which would have allowed me to evaluate all the other Naval Flight Officers (including my XO and CO) and recommend them for continued flying duty. It's a SuperstanX for all you Navy guys reading this. I've had this qual many times, primarily in Norfolk when I was an instructor. Alas, that was my last flight. Hopefully I'll be able to get up again soon. In the mean time, I'm doing my ground job the best I can. I've been in our simulator many times, and it's good to get back in there and at least "pretend" I can still do my job. Our squadron now has mandatory physical training 3 times a week. For those of you in the corporate world, imagine taking all of your employees out on a football field and doing calisthenics and running for an hour. It's where officers truly do "lead from the front." If your troops don't see their leaders putting out 110%, how can we expect THEM too? Being a department head in a squadron ("middle management" to the corporate world) menas that our enlisted folks AND our junior officers watch your every move. That means you BETTER be the best aviator, the best pencil pusher and the most motivated during physical training. It's a challenge every day, but there's no job I would rather have. I'm a movie buff as most of you know. There's a great scene at the end of "Saving Private Ryan". Tom Hanks' character has been wounded but the Allies are definitely going to win the war. I can't remember the exact lines, but he tells his guys "EARN IT", as in "Do your job!" I think of that line often, as in don't rest on your laurels. It's ben hard with my flight status being in question for so long, but trust me, there's no one who wants back in the military as much as me! I'll update you when I can about what I'm doing. Thanks for all your support for our family. We may live in the best weather in the US, but we could not have weathered this "storm" without all of you! Love, Mark Mark <mark.kelso@verizon.net> Port Hueneme, CA USA - Thursday, September 22, 2005 8:12 PM CDT PRECIOUS PICS, AL PAL!!!! AND MORGY LU TOO -- you're so serious! (have mommy say that in the proper voice ;) Hope all is well out in cyber family land and our thoughts are with soooo many people facing life's challenges in one way or another. I received a copy of a Eulogy today from a friend whose best friend's fiance passed away suddenly at the end of August from an aneurysm ONE week before their Napa Valley wedding... I know, I know, that's a whole other tragedy I can't even begin to really grasp. Not uplifting at all but I was so touched buy her eulogy and words of adoration for her fiance and the life he lived. It really brought things into perspective, rather, it CONTINUED to bring things into perspective... and she closed with these words below... and for some reason, I am not sure why, but with all the darkness in the world right now in so many lives I found it fitting to repeat here in "Ally world" and this special community we have created. So this is for Matt, from his loving fiance, Jana: ....In the days before Matt died, he was reading the Tao of Inner Peace, and he loved the following quote – enough to ask me to put it in our wedding program. I find it even more appropriate now: When people call one thing beautiful, They see something else as ugly. By calling one thing good, Its opposite becomes evil. Yet having and not having produce one another. Difficult and easy balance each other. Long and short complete one another. High and low rely on each other. Pitch and Tone make harmony together. Beginning and ending follow each other. -Tao Te Ching 2 Love and hugs to my family and everyone in Ally's world tonight! Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Thursday, September 22, 2005 6:31 PM CDT Good grief! Just when you think you can start to pull your life together another natural disaster is on its way to our already damaged nation! I heard a story on the news this morning about a family who lost everything in Katrina. They went with the shirt on their back to seek refuge in TEXAS. Now they are forced to evacuate AGAIN! My heart just breaks each time I watch the news and I am getting to the point now where 24 hours a day of cartoons is looking better and better. We here in Minny are doing fine. The sky got extremely dark around 6 pm last night and it looked like the tornado was heading our way. The weirdest part was that we did not even get a drop of rain in Eden Prairie. However, the hardest hit area, Andover, is NOT very far from us! Right now there are 100,000 people in the Minneapolis area without power but thankfully we are not amongst them. I even have power at work (darn it!) which is where I am writing from now. We can even feel the after math of the storm because the temperature yesterday was an incredible 86 degrees and today the highs are supposed to be 68. My hearfelt prayers go out to all the faithful writers and readers (and friends or relatives of those very same people) of this website who need support for WHATEVER challenges they are facing. In this bizarre world of cyber technology, Ally has managed to pull us all together as a pillar of strength and comfort. Giant sized hugs from Minnesota!!! Aimee, Jim and Tyler <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Thursday, September 22, 2005 6:56 AM CDT Just a thought for everyone to hold close to your heart...After the storm, God always promises a rainbow!Lovin Jesus in Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 9:52 PM CDT Ashli, please give your friend Elaine my e-mail address if she needs some questions answered. Greg and I both feel that God put us in that situation not only to teach us things, but to use what we learned to encourage others. This is so bizarre but just today, Greg found out that two of his co-workers at his new job have had thyroid cancer. I know that was a "God wink" as Teetay says! Anyway, we will keep Elaine and her family in our prayers. Thyroid cancer is curable but it is still cancer. Lots of people are needing prayers these days. I am so grateful that we have the freedom to pray in this country. Ally, just wanted you to know that you even look cute with baby food coming out of your nose!! Hugs to you from Texas....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 9:42 PM CDT Dearest Sweet Ally, Do you have any idea the impact YOU are making in this world? I hope you read each entry one day when you are old enough to comprehend what GOOD you have done already...in your short little life. Praise God for YOU!!!! What a source of refuge to log on and find others are struggling and to know that we can all storm heaven for each other..in good times and in times of need!! I will certainly be praying for Miss Elaine Kennedy. Elaine...if you are out there....stay strong and know that people in Texas are praying for you!!! Ally...what has been your favorite delight these days? Has Mommy stuck any part of a Blue Bell ice cream taste in your mouth? The doctor's didn't say it HAD to be nutritious did they??? Do you have Blue Bell out there in CA? If not...I may have to see if we can get some to you SOMEHOW...it is the best and the ONLY kind allowed in the Crandell house...period, end of subject. So sweet friends out there is cyper world....it has been a tough week and looks to still have a mountain to climb with Rita on the path to Texas. A dear friend...close to a sister, has been re-diagnosed with her 3 round of breast cancer this week. YUCK...this is the third fall in a row. I really didn't know how to take the news but know that I have experienced every emotion God gave me over the past 48 hours. Life is short so I am opting to focus on the most positive emotions when humanly possible and puddle or scream when I need to take a break from "holding it together". So far that motto is working. I found a poem and a scripture that is keeping me strong for my sweet dad, "Big John", and my dear friend Lynn. Maybe some of you will enjoy reading these as well............. "I command you--be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9 Therefore I live for today - Certain of finding at sunrise Guidance and strength for the way. Power for each moment of weakness, Hope for each moment of pain, Comfort for every sorrow, Sunshine and joy after the rain! -Anonymous Kristin, Mark, Morgan, Allyson, Teetay, Geep, Ashli, TG - we love you all so much and love all the faithful followers to this website. We are faithfully praying for all good things. Have a wonderful, restful night and know that we are sending those Texas sized hugs and kisses your way!!! Holly (P.S. Thought I would leave you with a few funny thoughts...Jack is our Tom Sawyer...does anyone remember that movie where Tom arrives home with a large thud to his upstairs bedroom and someone downstairs says "Tom's Home!" Well..that is our Jack..he had an afternoon "Mad Science" (even that description fits him well) program after school and was brought home by a neighbor just in time for piano. He came in rockin' the house, shouting and dancing and karate kicking every bit of air.....I just thought... "Lord, plese help me smile through these moments" and then thought of Tom Sawyer...his name could have been JACK CRANDELL!!! HA We love these sweet babes...and love to hear all the "fun" of learning, experiencing and changing with Morgan and Ally on this precious website!! HUGS! Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 9:30 PM CDT Yup, we're "stormin' heaven" from our house to many homes out there tonight! Our thoughts are with our TX family(ies) as they evacuate and make themselves safe at home. Al-Pal, your little friend Sophia's mommy needs some prayers... you met Miss Elaine at our house in April. Elain Kennedy is a dear friend (wife of John who did the wedding ready for those keeping track!) and in May, she celebrated her 5-year anniversary of being breast cancer free - Hooray for that! But now, there is cancer in her thyroid and she will go in for surgery on October 3rd. I know Anna's heart is reaching toward us NOW having just gone through this with Greg -- so we need lots of "stormin' heaven" for Elaine and John, and their two little girls, Sophia and Margot. Elain has been through SO MUCH already so let's hope this passes and gets "all gone" FAST! Between hurricanes, tornado in MN (Aimee - you ok?!?), emergency jet landings on TV, illnesses - all the CRAZINESS - we have each other to help us and give us strength in these times... THANKS to you all for being our family, extended family and dear friends. SEE WHAT YOU DID AL-PAL!?!?!?!? Much love to you all! "Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." Marcel Proust Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 8:42 PM CDT Hello everyone! This website for Allyson has been a continual source of strength and communication for so many of us. Please TONIGHT keep our Texas relatives in your prayers. Many are in the "path" of the 600 mile radius of Rita and are/and have evacuating. WE have spoken to many of them, but not all..it seems that everyone is 'getting out' to higher ground. (that is NOT an oxymoron in Texas..there IS higher ground..honest!!)...so please keep our heartfelt folks in your thoughts and prayers. Also.. A good, good friend, Gordie and Lulu Cook...Gordie's Dad and sister are residents of Corpus Christi and have probably also evacuated. Please pray for their higher ground. Hard to believe that only three weeks after Katrina we, as a nation, are facing another potential hardship on so many people. Thank you all for being part of "us" and our "lives" as they go on...and to think that Allyson's birth started it all. Al-Pal, you are the ultimate child of the universe. See? Look what you made happen!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/TMat :) There is a huge world out there and it needs our love and attention. Thanks for watching out. :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 6:47 PM CDT Kristin...yes, I believe the Cowboys lost because Miss Ally was not sportin' her Cowboy duds! Sadness reigned in our house last night! Okay you Redskins, there is your piddly ol' win for the YEAR! All in fun! So, Miss "DALLY" (I like that!) how is the food at Casa Kelso? I bet your big sister is tickled to get to help feed you with a spoon. Madeline used to love to play restaurant with her brothers when it was feeding time! She would pretend to take their order and serve up the baby food like a good waitress would! Hope your day was a happy one sweet girl! Hugs from the Lone Star State....Anna Anna Rainwater <stilllovemycowboys@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 9:25 PM CDT Hello "morning after" Sports' Fans! Some thoughts for you to ponder: James J. Corbett (1866-1933) "To become a champion, fight one more round." Mike Ditka: "You never really lose until you quit trying." Henry Ford (1863-1947) "Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right!" And...that's why they call it a 'game'... All I can say is, "the sun came up on time this morning, and the day is a bright one!" Congrats to the players whose team had the higher score last night...and congrats to the players who had the lower score. It's just a number. And, the folks in Texas have much for which to be proud of at this moment. They've practically rescued an entire state single-handedly!! And, congrats to the "boys" inducted into the Ring of Honor. Quite a tribute to their team-mindedness over much time. (and you guys thought I wasn't paying attention???!!) And, congrats to the Redskins for finally doing what has been attempted so many times before! And...Happy Tuesday to all of you!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va us - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 11:57 AM CDT Three (possibly four) words for ya: "It's about **** TIME!" Congrats to the Redskins for finally learning how to score some touchdowns in the last minutes of the game. Just goes to show that if you actually play 60 minutes of football, things can get done. So, welcome back to the most over-rated football rivalry. Actually feels like there's something to get excited over. Now Skins, win what, say 12 or more games over Big D (consecutively that is) and we'll be back in business. Of course none of that really matters because I know my highlight of the game (and I would say Geep and Kristin's too) was the induction of our favorite boys into the Ring of Honor. Go Troy, Michael and Emmitt - you guys ROCK. Class acts and all! Well, all but one of you possibly.... Actually, I am betting Kristin's game highlight was getting on the phone and chatting it up with her boy Howie when she called to make her pledge (ok, just let her think that was actually him on the other line.) Enough from me. In this house, it's just nice to keep it even and be 1-1 with my husband. Skins, enjoy the high marks while you have them :) And Bro and bro in-law-in-law (that's you Glenn) -- I am just so happy you guys have something to be happy about!! But about that TX football.... don't they have like the most number of division I football teams in the country? (Answer = yes! It was the question of the day last week so I think they DO play football down there!) But most of all for last night, the "other" AMERICA'S TEAM put on a great show and were winners regardless up in NY. It was a great display of support and uniting our country alongside the people of New York once again! SPIRIT is an awesome thing and that's all that really matters! (ok, I am really trying to believe that spirit is "it" so Teetay will know I listen to her sometimes... but mom, it still hurts - weh, weh... ;) Ok DALLYSON - this is your site and I knew Teree would give you that name, or NOT, once last night's game was over! You'll always be little Al-Dal-Pal to me and we know you'll root for blue one of these days (right???)!!! We just share this stuff while you're really little so you can look back on all your friends and family's silliness in your guestbook! Happy "it's not Monday night anymore" and have a great day! Much love to you all.... especially you, DALLYSON!!!!!!! :) A spirited Aunt in ick ooh yuck Washington DC <it'sabouttimeyoustartedtocatchup@dallascowboysstillrock.com> - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 8:24 AM CDT Dear "Dallason," Your mommy must be sad today, so eat more peas and applesauce, and give her a hug, but wink at Daddy while you do. Cousin Timmy is safe for now. Love, Teree P.S. "Victory isn't everything, it's the only thing." Teree <waytogoskins-burgundyandgoldrules@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 6:49 AM CDT There's been a lot of Cowboys banter, which was quite shocking to me .. BECAUSE I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW THEY PLAYED FOOTBALL IN TEXAS!!! Glenn <piperdown@comcast.net> Redskins Country South, - Monday, September 19, 2005 11:19 PM CDT AMEN to Susan's words! Susan, I am glad that you and your family are safe. I pray that these next few months of transition will bring lots of blessings your way. Now, about them hogs....This little piggy cried "wee,wee,wee" all the way back to Arkansas! Not a good night for the HOGS or my couch that got slapped every time USC scored...WHICH WAS PRACTICALLY EVERY 60 SECONDS!!! Anyway, Miss Ally, I am curious to hear what was on your weekend menu sweet girl! Hope everyone is enjoying their Sunday afternoon! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Sunday, September 18, 2005 5:18 PM CDT I HAVE MISSED READING THESE ENTRIES! Yes, this is the first time on since the storm, and I cried when I read about the peas. My Allypoo is doing so well! I miss you guys. I want to thank all of you for the prayers for our family. Obviously, your prayers worked. We are doing fine, and we are excited about being together as a family again in a few months. I hope to be sitting next to Ally and Morgan at Christmas and hope to be moved to San Diego. This "caring bridge" family is wonderful. Allyson Kelso, you have brought so many people together that wouldn't know each other. That is amazing. I want to thank you, Ally, for making a difference in the Hynes's lives. You have brought prayers and friends our way, and we love you, Baby. You have done in your short life what many adults fail to do; you have brought people together. Thanks to all of you out there. I have never felt so loved in all my life. Please know, you have our prayers always. When you need a few extra, let me know. I will be here for you like you have been for me. Love to you all. Susan Hynes <susanhynes@aol.com> New Orleans, LA 70130 - Sunday, September 18, 2005 4:18 PM CDT What a small world it is as who would have guessed that Razorbacks would converse via Ally's website. Having also graduated from the U of A, I'm trying to remain hopeful about tonight’s game with USC although I realize the Hogs are more than a four-touchdown underdog. If only Matt Jones could suit up for tonight’s game!! Anyway, I’ll be calling the Hogs tonight and maybe the Piggies can make a game of it! Jimmy Razorback <wooooooooooooooopigsoooie@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Saturday, September 17, 2005 1:34 PM CDT Kristin and Mark....I am quite sure you are already aware of this but just in case you aren't.....there are some hillbillies in Cali this weekend to take on USC....PIG SOOOIIIEEEE!!!!RAZORBACKS!!!! My hubby is a UofA grad and loves his HOGS!!!!However, he doesn't hold out much hope for them today!! My boys are sportin' their razorback jerseys for their daddy's team!! GO HOGS!!!! "HOGS" from Texas....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, September 17, 2005 12:42 AM CDT Do "ponder" the WORD of the DAY: "waterlooged"....could that possibly be WATER L O G G E D???:):):)!!!!! Have a laugh on the English teacher's 'typo'... Smile! :) Terri terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v usa - Saturday, September 17, 2005 10:19 AM CDT Happy Weekend to all! I woke up this morning thinking about how beautiful "the day" is here, but how many folks are suffering still from Katrina and her aftermath...as well as how many important people in our lives continue to face extreme challenges each day. A good friend of mine, Jan Washburn,(who is currently traveling the U.S. in her RV for six months)sent me this lovely poem some time back. I want to share it for all of you with special thoughts and remembrances for the Hynes' family, Big John McKay, AnnaChief and Greg, CatPotter and Dave (who is leaving for Iraq soon) in Pineapple Land, Kathy Leis' aunts/cousins displaced by Katrina, Kim and her family (Jim and Susan's good friends) who lost everything in Katrina and have a house still standing in water, and for all of you who have reached out and "dug deep into your pockets" to help the survivors of Katrina, for Kathleen Henne, for the support and love of our family and friends, and special thoughts for my sister....and continued wishes and joy in the lives of Kristin, Mark, Morgan, Allyson, Ashli, Tom, and "Nala"...and lots more peas and applesauce "days" for Allyson as she grows into yet another new stage in her young life...and of course, wishes for that "big decision" of who to "be" on Halloween for Morgan-lu! Here is my wish today: "I wish for you Comfort on difficult days, Rainbows to follow the clouds, Laughter to kiss your lips, Sunsets to warm your heart Gentle hugs when spirits sag, Friendships to brighten your being, Beauty for your eyes to see, Confidence for when you doubt, Faith so that you can believe, Courage to know yourself, Patience to accept the truth, And love to complete yuor life. God bless you! I asked the Lord to bless you To guide you and protect you As you go along your way... His love is always with you His promises are true No matter what thet tribulation You know He will see us through So when the road you're traveling on Seems difficult at best Give your problems to the Lord And God will do the rest." And a special thank you and good wishes to Jan and Fritz who sent this to me...safe travels, guys! And we are grateful that "Grandma and Grandpa aka Maria and Jose" did not sustain any serious damage from Ophelia this past week. And, Geep made it back from Charleston without being too waterlooged! ALL GOOD NEWS on the home front! :) And as Tiny Tim said..."And God bless us everyone." Have a great weekend! We're celebrating the retirement of BO today at a backyard barbecue, and then sharing a little Penn State football frivolity (let's only hope it is 'frivolous') with Ash and Tom....so let's get this day started!!! You, too!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay:) aka Mrs. M/ "Still" TMAT !!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, September 17, 2005 8:39 AM CDT Oh Ally - what an important day! You'll be an old pro with that spoon in no time. I am so happy for you. Will's favorite right now is Apples & Chicken. Dessert and protein all in one jar - yum! As far as Halloween is concerned, my cutie pie Jack has no idea that you get to change costumes every year. So when Halloween rolls around and people ask him what he's going to be, he's quickly replies Thomas! Which is what he has been the past two years. Thank goodness I bought a big size several years ago. He also loves his Darth Vader mask so I might just break down and explain to him that he could actually dress up as Darth Vader or anything else he chooses if he wants to :). Will will have to be Yoda of course! Hope you are all doing well out there in Allyland this Friday. We hope this weekend brings MANY reunions in the Gulf regions between loved ones that got separated during the storms, especially little ones with their parents and pets with their owners! Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Friday, September 16, 2005 7:35 PM CDT Yes, Ashli, I remember that Brady Bunch episode VERY well..Peter was trying to find a personality! I am the Queen of Brady Trivia!!! I proudly carried a Brady Bunch lunch kit when I was in grade school!! Anyway, Ally...you go baby girl!!! I know your mommy and daddy are beaming with pride at your accomplishments!! Now you get to wear some stylin baby bibs when you dine! My hubby just got home today after a quick trip to your neck of the woods. I so wished I could have accompanied him so that I could have hooked up with ya'll! If he goes back, I will make sure I get to tag along! Kristin, thanks for taking a pic of Ally in her DIVA bow! Can she be any cuter? Now, is it already time to start thinking about Halloween costumes? I think I will be the same thing I was last year...a tired worn out mom!! HA! HA! Don't you just love the innocent little decisions our little ones get to make? Grant has already decided to be an astronaut, Camden wants to be Darth Vader and Miss Madeline is going to be a flapper girl! And Greg.......his yearly costume...ELVIS!! Mom made him a powder blue jumpsuit a few years ago...complete with a rhinestone studded cape with a Phoenix!!! Greg has since completed the outfit with ebay purchases...white shoes, blue tinted sunglasses and a wig! Pretty scary! Well, hope everyone has a great weekend....continued prayers for our Louisiana friends and especially Mr. McKay!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Friday, September 16, 2005 6:02 PM CDT MOOOOOOVE over silly formula, there's a new eater in town! Lovin the new pics of her "porkchops and appleschauce" experience (ok, someone other than me and my sister has to remember that Brady Bunch episode - no?? Al Pal, you're a cute eater and a cute swingin' girl and I love you to pieces! Uncle Tommy gave his resounding "that's awesome, kid!" upon seeing your photos and your PA "Pop-Pop" even caught a glimpse since he has been here with us all week. Hi-fives from me and the two Toms! :) Now, for this costume little Lu.... It's not just that you're going to be the cutest cow in town and make Uncle EJ so UDDERLY happy, it's that you are fulfilling a dream of your mother's.... to finally immerse herself into the Chik-fil-a family! I bet she will also make you carry a sign that reads "Eat Mor Chick'n!" (don't that that fool you... she's a steak girl at heart and you too will probably have your first NY Strip at age 5 if she and Geep have anything to do with it! Yummmmm, goood! (with ketchup of course!) Morgy lu - Why not dress as Nala for Halloween so YOU can be the pretend dog when we play "catch"?? It's time you had to do the stooping, panting, jumping, fetching, etc etc and let the grown ups do the "throwing"!! :) We have some extra authentic Nala fur lying around the house if you want me to paste it on a costume for you. hee hee Ok, enough cow-wearing, beef eatin', appleschauce drooling comments from this side of the world. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with the Katrina evacuees near and far, the Hynes family (and so happy with their NEWS!), Uncle John in TX, Cat in Hawaii and lil Reb (just about 2 months to go for BABY!) and all the people who face daily challenges, struggles and triumphs in their daily life. It's these little victories that we experience together and silently within ourselves that keep us going, make us strong and makes this web site world go 'round. Happy weekend to all!! Much love to our favorite girls and "bro" in CA from the Matus-George home! We'll talk (or moooooo) later!! xoxoxoxo Aunt Ashli <gettingreadyforskinsatbigdthismonday@cowboysgo15-1.com> a very humid icky sticky Washington, DC USA - Friday, September 16, 2005 6:00 AM CDT Peas and applesauce! YUM! My favorites!!! What a joyful milestone for Allyson and "all"...I can just 'see' Morgan placing that spoon 'ever so carefully' to Allyson's lips one day soon!!! And great fun in the swinging! I'll be sure to teach her the "swinging song" next time I come....and Little Rabbit Flu Flu!!! That was Morgan's first 'swinging song' so it might well be Allyson's! Happy Friday to all...and happy weekend! Enjoy the beautiful weather wherever you are...and give thanks that most of the Hynes "possessions" are OKAY. They traveled to New Orleans today "wearing body vests" to check out their surroundings. Their building was spared out of ten in the complex. Their car was spared in the middle of a garage filled with wreckage. God was taking care of them. So, that is good news! Take care and love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ Still T /Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Friday, September 16, 2005 4:47 AM CDT Obviously, whoever was number 34,000 to see Ally “EATING” did not matter…just a great picture and update….Megan…it HAD TO BE YOU, since you are no longer “adopted”…RIGHT….just for all of you to know, ….after the first time Megan and Melissa came to our house, I told them that “we had adopted them” ….(Big Tom understands)….because they were such close sisters to Ashli…during the wedding week end, MEGAN said…we don’t want to be adopted…can we just be daughters…OF COURSE…after thinking for a nanosecond …I said “YES”…again, thank you all for your support and prayers and caring…Kristin and Mark…such great news and pic of Ally with her PEAS and APPLE SAUCE….way to go ….just me…Geep Geep (aka Jerry Matus) <jerrym@dallascowboys.com> - Thursday, September 15, 2005 10:38 PM CDT What beautiful people join us on this website! And that is NOT only the 'chic' Allyson with her ZEBRA headband...and the "giggle box" Morgan with Allyson on her lap!! All of you are part of 'us' and we are so grateful. Let's continue to take care of one another in daylight and in storms. Thank you for being HERE all the time. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Thursday, September 15, 2005 9:01 PM CDT Well, hello all...from Texas 'ya know. Hope everyone is doing just fantastic. John & Lydia...glad to hear you rode out Ophelia just fine..you have been in my thoughts and prayers all day. Ally, girl you are just TOO MUCH! You look like such a big girl in the newest front photo...velour jacket and all....I love it...and I love you. I so wish the Crandell clan could all just squeeze you and your family!! IT would be such good lovin'. Everyone in Texas is good...a little tired this Thursday evening but good. Our household is busy but we are getting along fairly well. We have some "Katrina" evacuees that have recently joined the kids' school and a number of families that are worshipping with us at church....we are humbled by their steadfastness through they many storms they have weathered recently. We have used this event as a teaching experience for the kids...they think A LOT about what it would be like to lose everything. So...we are concentrating on grass roots stuff like...enjoying family time, loving each other, and finding ways to help others. Anna Banana (aka Chief Rainwater) is hosting a bible study on friendship for our girls (there really isn't much she doesn't do so if you already are not surprised...then you are one step ahead of me...she is amazing). Ashlynn is loving the study and sweetly prays for her sweet friends and loved ones....Ally girl...you are "part" of the prayer each time!! :-) Dad (Big John) is holding his own right now and enjoying a few outings here and there. Thank you everyone for all the prayers...please keep them coming...God is listening and Dad is fighting harder than ever!!! Well, I have one little babe (Miss Catherine) who is not her best tonight and I hear her stirring so I must be off to comfort her....love and hugs to each of you. You make a difference to us and to everyone who has been blessed to be part of this awesome journey through life with the Kelso Clan. Hugs and kisses - Texas sized!!! Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Thursday, September 15, 2005 8:33 PM CDT hello to all in cali, just saw a beautiful baby and had to say hi!!!!! hugs and kisses to the girls love, your pa family(s) megan <dotstimes3@aol.com> springfield, pa usa - Thursday, September 15, 2005 4:55 PM CDT I got an email from my sistah today and had to share the nice words in it...... Happiness keeps You Sweet, Trials keep You Strong, Sorrows keep You Human, Failures keep You Humble, Success keeps You Glowing, But Only God keeps You Going! Love the new pics!!!! Hope you are having a great day! Aims <thank-goodness-the-f-ball-talk-is-over@until-the-weekend.com> EP, MN - Thursday, September 15, 2005 1:16 PM CDT Heeeeeyyy! I want a sassy headband! If only I had that for the wedding -- it's HOT! Go Anna go! That is the coolest and I think putting a baby in BLACK and chic outfits is the best. Not shocking that when Morgan was a baby she had leopard print leggings and a black velour(!) "mock" turtleneck... and little black boots! That with the leather jacket from 'Aunt Rebecca", and she was the coolest kid in town! LOVE the news pics (duh, when do I not??) and stories of the week! I am so glad we have GOOD news from our loved ones in SC and NC and that you rode it all out just FINE, John & Lydia. Been thinking of you today!! Much love to you four in CA and I'll talk to you tomorrow!! Kisses to the lil nieces ;) xoxoxoxo Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 9:23 PM CDT And, just look at the "precious angel" girl!!! Allyson, you will warm many hearts with your 'bestest' smile today! To Lydia/John aka Maria/Jose...I am so very glad that you are "provisioned" and safe...and still have electricity. I had heard earlier in the day that your county was without power. Geep is in Charleston with NO RAIN at all, just high winds, but had been 'tracking' the storm up the coast. I hope none of the Southport/St.James' folks have endured any significant damage. Yes, Katrina taught the world a huge lesson. I was talking to Kristin today when you, Lydia/Grandma K, called her...so glad to hear that all was well. For those of you who have been visitors of this website for some time know CAT Potter from Pineapple Lane/and the land of the 'white lights'...PLEASE keep her and her family in your prayers today and in the future as she is undergoing some difficulties herself. Besides that, her husband is about to deploy to Iraq. She is the mom of precious Bobbi and adorable Darren ...they befriended Kristin and family back "when" Allyson was born and Kristin 'found them' on the Cleft Advocate website. CAT has been so supportive...and we have never met her and her wonderful family....she gave advice and knowledge and information when it was needed. Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers. They are "website" friends we are yet to meet, and they could probably use some of the love that Allyson's website has generated. Thanks everyone! Love to all and a safe good night to everyone. Terri aka Teetay :) and Mrs. M/T Mat :) Hey students...you have a quiz tomorrow. Did you study? terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v usa - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 9:08 PM CDT Okay I must confess that I only watch football when it matters - which to me is Superbowl Sunday and even then I usually just watch the commercials! I know, pretty lame, but my husband is a huge Redskins fan so I guess we are a burgundy and gold house (although I'd never be caught dead in those colors separately, much less together!). I'd just like to say that the best part of all the football talk was we were getting a new picture almost every day! That was SO fun! But I think today's picture is my favorite. Ally-girl you are looking so sweet. You look like you're thinking, "Okay everyone, I'm ready for those strained peas right about now!" Hope you get the okay soon Kristin! Lots of love, Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 8:55 PM CDT Greetings from soggy and breezy North Carolina! It is 9:45 p.m. and we are over the brunt of Ophelia. It wasn't as bad as our hurricane last year, but we have had much more rain. Our community, St. James Plantation, remains isolated from the rest of the county because our front entrance is under water but hopefully by morning the waters will have receded enough for us to move about. We just received an e-mail that several major roads in our community and several major roads nearby are under water and closed. But we are well-stocked with provisions and have electricity and water so we'll be fine. From our vantage point we can see little damage but know there are trees down from talking on the phone with friends. John will be out with the Fire Dept. in the morning helping to clear roadways of debris. Katrina taught us all about being prepared, a sad lesson to learn at someone else's expense. Lydia Kelso a.k.a . Grandma Kelso <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 8:51 PM CDT Anna CHIEF Rainwater...you are the best...you bring smiles to my eyeballs. And, the fact that 'Grant' is my maiden name..did you know that?? ...just makes me smile even more. Whether it is about smiles, or styes, or 'fanhood'...doesn't matter. Look how we are all bonded like a huge family and it is all because of Allyson. Thank you all for being here in the 'serious' and in the 'silly'...it is what it is all about, and Allyson is the complete RECIPIENT of it all. Time to PRINT OUT the JOURNAL and GUESTBOOK again??? The first printout was over 300 pages. Thank YOU for being part of Allyson's beginning, and for continuing to be part of her life..."football rivalries" and all...what fun we are giving this little girl when she's old enough to read her HISTORY and the legacy that she has spawned. Love to you all, And "may the best team win"...on any given day..."someone will win/someone will NOT"...they are not "losers"..they just did NOT win that day. Hold that thought. :) Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/TMat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v usa - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 9:36 PM CDT Okay, back to the real reason for this website...ALLY!!! I know I have said this before, but you are just way too cute little girl! Grant stayed home from school today because he has had a stye on his eye and it was bothering him. It was also starting to heal which is not a pretty sight if you have ever had a stye. He was also running a slight fever so we stayed home. He was really wanting me to be the nurse..."Mommy, can you please give me a little bell to ring when I need you? Mommy, can you please bring me my lunch on a tray so I can eat in bed? Mommy, I think it's time for my medicine again. Mommy, I think I feel the fever again, can you get the "termawbiter"? What a little stinker!! I loved wearing my nurse hat today! Anyway, Miss Ally, hopefully all these skins fans will just throw up their hands and realize that there are way more Cowboy fans in this world!!! Keep smilin' sweet girl! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <allylovesthecowboys@cutebabies.com> - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 9:20 PM CDT How many ant bites, Mark? I think those Cowboy fans are just counting them...ya think? Hey..it's all in fun..don't compare it to an 'invasion'..invasions are SERIOUS. Football rivalries aren't!! (or at least I hope they're not...) What fun these past few days! So many friends who read the website, but don't 'post' have had a 'hoot' with the 'back and forth'...and they're all Redskins' fans, too! If Allyson only knew what demise her website had taken of late!! Those girls are looking good no matter what they're wearing...blue/silver/burgundy/gold...whatever...it's the smiles that count!!! Love and hugs to all...from a "non fan" of either/any team....I just go for the flag waving, tailgating, and camaraderie that gets established by being part of "the old American spirit" at a game!!! And, I'm terribly grateful when no one throws anything at me when I'm walking with Geep in his Blue/silver garb! Me-thinks-folks-take-the-rest-of-it-way-too-seriously!!! Certainly not to be compared to Afghanistan!!!! :) Love to all and please keep those folks who really need our thoughts and prayers in the forefront. They are probably "fans" of some team, too...and they may even hail different "colors" on their shirts...like one very wise man once said: "It's all good." (inside joke...K and A will get it!) :) Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 5:51 PM CDT Hi Ally and Morgan too. Been a long time since I peeked in on you. Gotta say that Bobbi ADORES you in that cowboys jersey! She was so pleased to see you all dolled up like one of 'dem boys. :) Darren on the other hand was frowning, for he bleeds black n gold. (As do I, and Dave as well. Devout Steelers here all the way) But I'll tell ya what? I'll root for the cowgirls anyday before I do the skins. Sorry Mark! Gotta love the rivalry. hehe. You're looking real good. We've been offline for quite some time, and I lost your website address, so had to go back and look it up from an old email. Sad but true. We're not online as much these days, but life is still good. I only have access to outlook email for now, hence why I'm writing you at my neighbors. ;) Don't know when your next surgery is, and what it entails, but if it's palate and hand surgery, we'll be thinking of ya! Take care. Love that cheesy grin! Hugs to Morgan too. Love those curls of yours! ~Cat Catfromsteelerscountry <bleedingblackngold@pittsburgh.net> miningtown, pa :0) - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 1:15 PM CDT Wow, I didn't think it would only take one post to silence all the Cowboy fans. That was easier than taking over Afghanistan! Mark <mark.kelso@skins still rock.org> - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 11:57 AM CDT Alright, I can't take this Dallas and Philly garbage any more! We saw McSadd and T.O. choke tonight, and the "Girls" are going down next Monday night in Prime Time! Texas Stadium has a hole in the roof because they blew the money buying coke for the White House in Dallas. You history buffs know what I'm talking about! Sorry, just had to talk a little smack because being a Skins fan is just painful. I heard that a thousand ant bites will kill a man. That's what rooting for the Redskins is like! Skins Fan <skins.rock@where are doug williams, mark rypien and timmy smith when you need them.org> Port Hueneme, CA - Monday, September 12, 2005 11:32 PM CDT Ally, not only are the Cowboys "America's Team", they are also "God's Team." That is why Texas Stadium has a hole in the roof...so that God can watch his team!! You and your sista are stylin' and profilin' in your Cowboy gear! Now, we need to get you to a Cowboy game so the two of you can replace the Cowboys cheerleaders and do some cheering of your own!! I also have to agree with Ashli...Burgundy is not a good color to wear...with gold or any other color! You can NEVER go wrong with silver and blue!!! Were your ears burning this afternoon Ally? Your name came up at our bible study. Ashlynn Crandell said a few words about"baby Ally" and how God has helped her! Oh, and Morgan, my sweet boy Grant had hearts poppin' out of his head when he saw your picture on the screen! He said, "Mamma, that "grill" is so pretty! When Grant was 2 he couldn't say "girl" it always came out "grill". It has stuck to this day!! However, when he wants a grilled cheese sandwich, he says he wants a "girl" cheese or a "boy" cheese sandwich! Silly guy! Well....it has been a long day, I am ready to hit the sack! Sweet dreams Ally! Hugs from Cowboy country....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:41 PM CDT Yeah...thank you, Ally and Morgan for helping me thru a tough week end with everyone saying....Dallas Sucks...and as long as we win, or whatever..., just know that you girls are always winners......I think the skins have only won 1 of the last 14-15 games against "Big D..or at least since 1997 for sure......." c u next Monday nite in the Big D.... The Tuna <Billl and the rest of the team...aka ....COWBOYS@DFW.com> Arlington, TX usa - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:29 PM CDT Thanks for the personal response, Kristin! I love it. Ally looks adorable no matter what she is wearing. She'll be picking the "right" colors when she's old enough to do so. I know she's a smart one!! Gotta love that great grin. Little does she know that she is in the center of a swirling controversy! By the way, Troy Aikman and I have the same birthday and I DO really like him! So I'm not totally anti-Cowboys. I may have to find another team to like now that Gibbs has picked Brunell to start against the Cowboys next Monday. Is he nuts? Can I stand this another season? I think I'm done now. Love, Teree Theresa Cover <tesscover@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:19 PM CDT Ter-ree --- Ally says, "you ever seen that movie `You got Served'???" And then she does a little Dr. Evil a la Austin Powers laugh: "MWAH HA HA HAH, MWAH HA HAH..." (with pinky to mouth corner of course) Sorry babe, I couldn't resist! See all the true love and spirit of fun, silly frienships (and not so silly football rivalries) Ally has brought us together to experience!??!?! Ok, back to this train wreck they call Monday Night Football. My HUSBAND is exercising his colorful language tonight. Isssss funny. Of course I am secretly hoping the UVA-VA Tech team, umm, er, I mean The Falcons keep up their good work :) SHHHHH! Happy week to all! Oh, JACKIE.... did I tell you to keep the positive PSU vibes going and we'll see you for the Alamo Bowl?!? YEAH! Lots of love to all --- esp. those lil SMILING cowgirls! Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:15 PM CDT TEREE will love it! What's not to love? A happy "cowboy girl"...!! Wow...what joy! So, LOOK Allyson...look what you started! You have "everyone" wrapped around you!!! Happy week to all, Terri aka Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:13 PM CDT Ally, Apparently you in Cowboys' gear is what we needed to change the opening weekend luck The Boys have had the last few years. Just one more reason we're glad you're here with us! Keep cheering for America's Team, and let me know when you're ready for your first Dallas visit. I'll meet you there! Love, Jackie Jackie Horras <jackie2fish@hotmail.com> San Antonio, TX US - Monday, September 12, 2005 7:56 PM CDT Hello all, I need to "jump into the football" fray and explain EXactly what is going through Allyson's and Morgan's minds while wearing their blue and silver stars! I think Morgan has just said to Allyson: "You see, Allyson, these are our outfits for our Mommie's team. And, our Daddy has a different team in DC and they wear burgundy and gold. A long time ago, Teetay brought me a Redskins' shirt so that during games my mommie and daddy could 'share' me for half the game. That was when I was about 2 years old, and they kept changing my shirt depending on WHO was ahead. I didn't get it at all, and I wasn't crazy about all the changing! Now, Allyson, we only seem to have these blue and silver clohtes, so lie real still, and maybe they won't need to CHANGE us. Do you get it? Allyson???? Huh??? What???? YOU DON'T CARE????!!!" Now, THAT is what I think is going on in their minds! We've had a bit of FUN with all this REDSKIN/COWBOY rivalry this weekend! You haven't experienced ANYTHING until you attend a Redskin's game with Jerry wearing his COWBOY jersey! It is just plain SCARY! People were pretty nice to him yesterday...I told everyone who bellowed out, "What are you doing here"...that HE MADE A WRONG TURN and ended up in DC from TX! That got some grins. Happy new week to everyone, and let's hope all the residents of the NC/VA coast will be safe from Ophelia. Geep is headed to Charleston, so he thinks he will be UNDER the hurricane by the time it arrives! Hoping to hear more fun Allyson and Morgan news this week! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Monday, September 12, 2005 6:14 PM CDT I was right!!! Allyson does not look HAPPY AT ALL in her Dallas cowpoke outfit. She's having a wardrobe malfunction! She's a-yearnin' for some burgundy and gold! P.S. No cats were ever harmed in this rivalry! Theresa Cover <teree@redskins.com> Fairfax, VA - Monday, September 12, 2005 2:38 PM CDT THANK GOODNESS I know have the perfect fall football season wallpaper on my laptop!!! YEEAAAAHHH! I love seeing my two favorite COWGIRLS on the home page --- Yaaahhhhooo! Keep being rough and tough, ladies, for as long as you can! Given your roots, I have no doubt you'll be sports fans through and through. If you stick with teams that at least have BLUE in their colors, you'll pretty much please the whole family. How about that?? Just stay away from green, gold and burgundy/red/whatever they call that ugly Redskins color... oops, did I say that out loud? Besides, you both look great in blue. Burgundy, err, not so flattering. And gold, well, that's just down right gross. :) And Teree, please don't hurt Timmy. He's old now and still traumatized from the first time you tossed him in the fire place. See! See if the George niece/nephews ever get to play with you again after they learned you threatened our cat's life!! ;) OK, KIDDING everyone... Theresa is harmless. Well, mostly.... ;) Maybe all the Skins fans will be in better spirits if they don't spend the whole season KICKING again. Good luck next Monday night. I'll be protecting my cat, just in case! Happy Monday and have a great week! You know who to cheer for tonight, right??!!? RED is an ok color by all means!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (shhhhh... don't tell Uncle Tommy!) xoxoxoxoxoxo Talk later! Aunt Ash psyched up for the next 5 months.... <STARSand BLUErock@digginDallas.com> Dallas fan in Washington, DC - Monday, September 12, 2005 9:25 AM CDT I can't tell you how much I have enjoyed reading the entries this weekend!!! Ally is for sure sticking out her tongue because she does NOT want to watch football....she wants to go shopping, get her nails done, and get her hair foiled :) Enough of this BOY stuff - HA! Girly Girl from MN <nomorefootball@footballwidow.com> EP, Mn - Monday, September 12, 2005 7:23 AM CDT I'm pretty sure I know why Ally is sticking out her tongue. It's the thought of having to wear some idiotic Dallas Cowboys outfit! Mark, you have to step in here! At least ONE of your daughters has to be a Redskins fan. After all, Allyson has been to Washington, and really liked it, too, and she hasn't been to Dallas, has she? So there you go. This Cowboys attachment for her is bogus. A word of caution for those who know. . .remember Timmy's almost fate? I'd hate to have to take it that far again! GO REDSKINS!!! Theresa Cover <allylovestheskins@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 7:54 PM CDT COOOOOOOWWWWWBOYS! Told ya we'd get it done, Ally.... Welcome to the club! Your biggest fans and I love ya more than you could ever imagine..... We wish we had time to come up and see you but it's back to the bus to hit the road. Let us just say, a MUCH celebrated and worthy win to our buddies from New Orleans -- way to give the hometown fans a VICTORY! And the Giants too! Much remembering on this day and the home teams got it done for their cities. Now, if the Eagles don't pull it off tomorrow night then the NFC East might have ONE team that isn't 1-0.... hmm... I think you have an Uncle who will be very upset about that! (but, I hear he's not feeling very positive about it.... hmmm. At least his dismal PSU kids pulled it off again this weekend. But to be honest, we all fear for thier lives when Ohio State comes to town in Oct!! I digress................) Much love to you Little A from all of us from Big D --- well, us and all your huge Big D FANS and FAMILY!!! Your main BOYS: Drew , Julius, Keyshawn, Terry, Aaron, Eric & Jason <playmakers@BigD.com> San Diego, CA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 7:25 PM CDT WOO-HOO!!! Our Cowboys were winners today! The Tuna had them ready to play!!! Ally...I suppose you were sticking out your tongue to the Chargers!!! Now, don't stick that tongue out when mama tries to feed you broccoli!! Kristin, you really know how to capture the moment with your photos! Happy Sunday everybody! Happy in Dallas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Sunday, September 11, 2005 6:22 PM CDT Hi, California Family! We've been out of town, and came back to working like crazy at the Salvation Army Shelter here in Gwinnett County to assist the folks from Mississippi and Louisiana who are among us. Have to confess to be a little muscle-sore from hefting, sorting, lifting boxes of food and supplies. But it really is rewarding, and the people with whom we've been in contact are very grateful. So many have had so little most of their lives that sometimes I think it seems a bit like Christmas morning to get such "good stuff" from the loving hands of strangers. Anyway, it's a good feeling to be involved. And WHAT ELSE IS A GOOD FEELING IS READING ALL ABOUT ALLYSON AND ESPECIALLY THE SWALLOW TEST AND THAT YOU CAN NOW START EATING REALLLLLLLL FOOD!! Oh, what marvelous news, and it brought tears to my eyes! Just think, Miss AllyBeDally, that Geep will have you eatin the bestest brisket he makes before the age of TWO! I loved the new pictures too, and that smile of yours would light up the sky! I think you should have a star named for you, what about that?! I send you and your precious big sister, Morgan, my best hugs and kisses. Teetay sent us some new pictures of you both, and they're where I can kiss them every day! Give your mom and daddy a big ole squeeze from Aunt Grammy and Uncle Poppy! xx oo Aunt Grammy DaleGPugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 1:12 PM CDT Well, I'm glad to see that Geep is as excited today as I am since the start of the football season is already driving my wife (Aimee) crazy. As a former oddsmaker in Vegas, and a current "investor" in the outcome of various football games, I want to take you up on the bets you listed in your posting. But, I have a problem - all of your bets are winners! So, I'll take a pass for now and be sure to have a beer (or two) for all of us living here in Viking Country.....by the way, BOO Vikings!!! Jimmy the Bookie <vikingschokeagain@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Sunday, September 11, 2005 8:23 AM CDT Just in case any of your want to know….tho I have had to live with the “Skns” all my life, especially the last “ almost” 25 years” in the DC area, you wouldn’t believe how many “Boys” fans are here…yes, most are closet types, but since my first game at the “skins” and I even buy season tickets to watch them, sorta, ( and LOSE, of course, against the COWBOYS”, and so may other teams), I have NEVER failed to wear my COWBOYS “gear”…and, yes, I get a lotta S….t for it at the games, but we always prevail…ONLY ! Loss to the “deadskins” since 1997...so be sure that on Sunday, I will be wearing NO. 28’s Jersey which Ashli got for me when she and Kristin gave me a Father’s Day present to go to the Dallas/Skins game in the “Bid D” 2 years ago….What a blast…and they only charge you $6.00 to Tailgate with them…Sunday, I will probably pay The Skins (and SNYDER, the owner} $75 just to park and tail gate…..by the way…we will have Bungalow‘s “Hot Wings“, “BBQ Ribs ( I smoked them last week end), KCF chicken, POPEYE’s Chicken (extra spicy), baked beans, Jalepeno cheese dip and Fritos …of course, something to drink, perhaps…maybe start with Bloody Mary’s about 10:00 AM, then, beer, etc…. John…you have always been “BIG” in my eyes…so Hang in there….remember, not all flight plans are perfect, and some times we get diverted to a “different base”…but we “refuel”…which you are doing and press on to our final approach, whatever God has planned for us….Ally will definitely have her “Boys” outfit by the October visit…TG’s “Lions” won big today, Eagles will win, Skins will lose tomorrow, Boys will win tomorrow and the Eagles will take Atlanta Monday….any bets???? Geep <geep2@cowboys.com> Cowboy Country, DC usa - Saturday, September 10, 2005 10:17 PM CDT Ally --I hope you have Morgan's Cowboys hand-me-downs to wear as football season kicks off tomorrow with the Boys at SD. Let's hope the old men Bledsoe & Keyshawn get it done. You better be wearing her "old stuff" for the game since Morgan has new Dallas duds coming......soon.... courtesy of the little playa, Emmett. All my love and best wishes as you continue on your amazing journey -- with an amazing family!!! You're an inspiration, little cowgirl! :P As I have been quoted to say... "Everything starts with yourself, with you making up your mind about what you're going to do with your life. I tell kids that it's a cruel world, and that the world will bend them either left or right, and it's up to them to decide which way to bend." Ally, you'll bend any way your heart and mind desires, I know it! PS - DO you think Troy is as hot as your mom thinks he is? Tony Dorsett #33 <the cowboysloveyaAlllyson@BigD.com> Rochester, PA - Saturday, September 10, 2005 7:29 PM CDT Ally....Has your Geep christened you with your own Dallas Cowboys t-shirt yet???:) Hugs....Troy Aikman Troy Aikman <cowboyfan@hotmail.com> - Saturday, September 10, 2005 4:36 PM CDT Unfortunately, I missed the show last night(and my Dixie Chicks!) but, I did read about Dimonte in the newspaper. I cried as I read his story because it took me back to my teaching days when I taught inner-city children and so many used to tell me how they were left alone all night because there mom had to work or their mom went out for the evening. Broke my heart to think that a child could be left alone like that. Dimonte's parents I am sure were horrified wondering where there children were. What a courageous little boy to lead all of those others away from danger. Six years old! That is one year older than my boys and I can't imagine them being alone in those conditions much less having to care for other younger children and lead them out. You Go Dimonte!!! What a little warrior you are! Teetay, I am so envious that you will be listening to the music of SIR Elton John this evening! Love him! Now as for the Redskins...BOO! HISS! I will be enjoying my beloved Dallas Cowboys! I will close with a verse that I shared with Mr. McKay because I feel it is appropriate for those who are suffering right now..."And the God of all grace, who called you to eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To him be the power forever and ever. Amen." 1 Peter 5:10 Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, September 10, 2005 1:54 PM CDT Good Morning! Like many of you I was watching the CBS "Shelter from the Storm" show last night which was aired to raise money for the KATRINA survivors, and I was touched by one particular story. Maybe you heard it, too, but if you didn't, I'll share it now. A six year old little boy named Dimonte Love was found 'walking away from the city' carrying his baby brother in his arms...and Dimonte was leading five other children UNDER the age of SIX toward safety. When he was found, he was asked by rescue workers 'just where he was going'...and he said, "I was leading my brothers and sisters out of the storm." He was eventually reunited with his other family members, miraculously. What courage from such a tiny lad. Let's remember him and the many, many others that we don't even know about. When "they say" OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES now, it will hold a very special MEANING for me. God bless you, Dimonte, wherever you are! You are a leader among leaders and I applaud your rightful thinking. And this quote sort of "fits"... "Real courage is when you know you are licked, but you begin anyway...." Happy Weekend to all of you, and continued prayers for those who are struggling with life's challenges. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) (still T Mat) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Saturday, September 10, 2005 12:27 AM CDT WOW! Uncle John..."Big John"...you just warm my heart! Thanks so much for penning the words for 'the girls'....yes, you and Allyson share a special "space" and we will continue to pray for you, and be thankful that you are part of our collective lives. You are the best! And, let's continue to celebrate Allyson's "swallowing" test...I know we will be just as elated when she blows her first bubble, rides her first bike, writes her first letter...etc.etc.etc.!!! So many 'firsts' are ahead for her and she has a great role model in Big Sistah Morgan...Morgan will lead her down all the 'right' paths, I am sure!!! Happy weekend to all of you!! I have much 'first week schoolwork' on the agenda, but I'm taking time out to "party with the girls" at Elton John Concert tomorrow night, and "hang with Geep and the boys" at the Redskins' opener Sunday! And, we are continuing our efforts to help those displaced and homeless because of Katrina. There is much to be done still, and each day offers a new opportunity to help. With love to all and prayers for many, Thanks for being "here"... Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat (until I get a new name, I remain "T Mat") terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Friday, September 9, 2005 6:38 PM CDT Ally, Kristin, Mark, Morgan, Dad (Big John), YOU ALL ROCK IN MY BOOK!! Texas sized hugs and kisses, Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Friday, September 9, 2005 6:37 PM CDT Hello Ally you sweet thing! Here is a short note from "Uncle Big" John in Texas who has had you on my mind for some time and so wish our McKay/Crandell families could have been there in VA/DC to see you all at the same time of the wedding - but, alas not to be. Let us pray and hope another opportunity will present itself in the future. I love the pictures and stories about you, your big sister Morgan (my favorite penny thrower and wisher), and your Mom and Dad and to learn how well things are going for you all. My heart felt prayers and well wishes are for such impressive progress in your lives to continue. I am doing better health-wise and a lot of that can be attributed to the same folks that write to you Ally. Isn't that amazing?? To know that you and I share so many of the same folks that are saying prayers for us - all of your relatives, all of mine and so many others like "Chief" Rainwater. I know that some day you will realize how important those prayers are and how much both of us rely on them. Bless you my child and please keep on growing up and stronger - that is my prayer for I too Love you very much, Big Uncle John in Texas John McKay <JMckay3827@aol.com> Austin, TX US - Friday, September 9, 2005 11:21 AM CDT Dear Ally, I am so proud of you passing your "swallowing" test. As if anybody would even think you could fail it. Have you failed in anything yet??? Glad to see you are sitting up so well. Now remember the "rolling over" song I sung to you...keep working at that and getting those arms strong so you can push yourself up. Can't wait to see you a 81de433e88888c2e --> Horray for Ally!!!!!!!!!!!!! What wonderful news! Kristin and Mark, the doctors are so right about you......Ally's progress is a direct result of the wonderful care you provide for her. Congrats to EVERYONE! I can't wait to see pictures of chocolate pudding smeared all over Ally's face. Now that could make for some great photojournalism! Kristin, you made me tear up at the thought of high school. I remember it like it was yesterday. We moved into our house (right next to the bus stop) and I waited for the bus to come. You walked your 527 steps and stood there with me. The rest is history! Have a fabulous weekend everyone! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Thursday, September 8, 2005 6:29 AM CDT Way to go Ally!! Kristin and Mark, I can only imagine the excitement that you must feel about being able to feed Ally baby food! Hooray for all of you! I am sure her Big Sis is going to want to help too! I remember when Gage would feed Mackenzie I would worry he would try to stuff heaping spoonfuls into her mouth, but he always did it with such love and tenderness...precious moments that will never escape my mind. : ) Glad to hear Morgan's excitement about school! I will be thinking of you today as you travel to LA again and will be anxiously awaiting to hear how things go! Have a great day...hard to believe it is Thursday already! Love,Dani Dani Van Natta <daniv16@verizon.net> Hooksett, NH USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 6:28 AM CDT Ally - YOU ROCK!! You know yesterday when I talked with Mommy on the way to CHLA, I said (about the pending swallow study) - "I bet she just does it like it's nothing to her" -- and you did! How did I know??! Well, you have proven a 1000 times over what a tough, smart "kid" you are and lillle Lu, you did it again! Uncle Tommy was so happy too and again, thought you were "really cool" :) I was thrilled to get the news of your swallowing (yes, a HUGE deal that Mommy & Daddy can feed you now!) yesterday afternoon and we're happy for you all! Now, get Morgan involved an dI want pics of some good, sloppy applesauce fights! Ask Mommy about our potato salad fight from years ago when we got it all over the sliding glass doors..... still a hilarious moment. Not sure Teetay and Geep ever knew about it (until now ;) So eat that sauce and get sloppy and have fun! We love you ALL lots! xoxox Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Thursday, September 8, 2005 6:13 AM CDT It sure brightens my spirits to see the beautiful smiles of the Kelso family enjoying each other! A nice departure from the sadness surrounding us in the wake of the hurricane tragedies. I'm glad Morgan and Allyson are enjoying the fun of being sisters, and Mark IS a hot-looking surfer guy! Cute dad and daughter pair, they are! Glad that life is going well out there in CA. Thanks for sharing your special times with us. Theresa Cover <tesscover@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 8:44 PM CDT Ya gotta love a 'kid who slides' down the slide...meaning both of them! It sure looks like Morgan has a good grip on Allyson! Hold on tight, "little sister"....your RIDE is just beginning!!! Can't wait to see those smiles in person in just about four weeks and one day...but whose counting???! Kristin and Mark will celebrate their 10th anniversary Columbus Day weekend and are going on a little 'trip' to celebrate. Guess what we get??? You're right...those little charmers!!! School is going well...great kids...new faces...bright smiles...great ideas...a winning combination for a GREAT YEAR no. "37"...!!! Continue to pray for our friends who are suffering losses due to Katrina and all the displaced families. And, much love is always sent to Big John Mc! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ still "T Mat" so far! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon, va us - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 1:40 PM CDT Looove the new pics! What FUN you all are having!! Mark - Bro - Dude... Lookin' HOT in that wet suit ;) Talk to you later!! Love you! Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 10:11 AM CDT Happy Wednesday to all! Just a little note to say it's SO GOOD to hear from Holly, Dani, and T-Mat's kiddos! So far so good here in married land ;) We're busily working on the latest and greatest house renovation project (just a basement this time, whew!) and full-time job search! Morg & Ally -- your photos continue to bring a smile to my face and all my people LOVE seeing your precious faces in the wedding photos! We are still on Cloud 9 from the wonderful weekend of FUN. Was it just barely 3 weeks ago?!?! Miss you all bunches and looking forward to seeing you later this fall! Love you FOUR! xoxoxo Aunt Ashli & Uncle Tommy <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 7:35 AM CDT Teetay, Can I claim to be the OLDEST "former" student of yours on this website? What an HONOR!!! Got your sweet message just before really hitting the pillow...thank you for your words. I scrolled down and saw the misspelling (on my previous entry) of underway....spelled undreway which made me think of underwear!!!!!!! Such a Mom thing when you have two 5 year old boys who think every bodily function and noise is a hoot to discuss and laugh about anywhere!! So....thought you would get a LOL at the fact that one boy (I won't name him) decided it would be so much MORE comfortable to NOT wear UNDERWEAR to school recently...it is a really long day you know, (as he explained) and it is just so much more "comfy" to NOT wear it. LORD HELP ME!!!!!!!! (The same offender did this at church a few weeks ago as well...guess I'll have to add "check for underwear" on his green "go" card in the morning...eh?) Blessings and sweet dreams, Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 10:40 PM CDT WOW, Holly... I met you in the mid 70's and you were my sixth grade student...YOU HAVE NO IDEA (but I am sure you DO!) what your messages do for me....I was your teacher first, your friend second...or was it the other way around? YOU "made" us become FRIENDS with your incredible parents...and here we are today 'savoring' the many moments of friendship and love on this website. When I place my head on the pillow tonight, your name will be among the "top ten" on my prayer list. Thank YOU for being part of us, and our journey. And, Yes, Big John, you are on that "top ten list" as well... Love to all and continued prayers for the folks on the Gulf coast. God bless, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat:) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 9:11 PM CDT Hi All, Well, like Dani, I have been a bit silent lately but have been checking in regularly and am in awe of the entire Kelso/Matus/George clans. Ya’ll amaze me and make me smile every time I pull up that sweet website. Ally, you are too cute! You always have a sweet look that I can’t describe…like you are in full control and are living the moment to the fullest!! Keep it up precious…you are making such a difference in this world…what an over-achiever…not even one yet! I will tell you a little about your young friend Catherine, who has hit 16 months and fully believes she is in control of the world (well…she is in control of her world most of the time and thinks she runs the entire household!) She has decided (about a month ago now) that the high chair is not for her…in fact..she’d like to forget the booster too but it does give her some height. Catherine has NO time to be a baby, today I caught her putting on one of the boys’ bicycle helmets and picking up their scooter. It was a site!! I grabbed the camera but not quick enough…got a few shots of that huge helmet on her head though…wait til the boys see that!! Catherine has not fully grasped the fundamentals of shopping yet (poor dear…doesn’t know what she is missing) so we don’t go out for window shopping too much yet…we are practicing more regularly now that the big kids are in school 5 days a week!! HA She plays everyone’s emotions…just like this…she literally screams (this is not a cry) at the kids as they depart the car every morning for school. It’s as if she is saying “wait…don’t leave me”, then…she giggles for me all the way home as if to say “it is just you and me Mom!” Hummmmm…sneaky isn’t she? Too, she is quite demanding that her big sister become her sole playmate once she returns from school. Catherine loves her sibs….as we know you love your precious Morgan!!! I know you and Catherine would be good buddies if you were closer...learning all this though, your Mommy may be glad she isn’t so close!! HA Now Ally, I am not suggesting you take any hints to take on any of these behaviors your friend Catherine is exhibiting, I just wanted you to know what she was doing these days! As Anna says…ya’ll are both so stinkin’ cute! Kristin, the Pooh cake is WAY COOL! What will the encore be? How clever and fun are you? What a great Mom. I have to ditto Anna…how do you do it all? Your week sounds busy yet I know you will sail through it with stamina, humor, vigor and joy written all over you. You are an example for all of us. My mom commented today about how I have it all together…yeah right…for fifteen minutes today I was in control (WOOHOOO) other than that it was a bust…oh well…we had many good moments beginning with everyone getting their “green GO cards” completed before time to leave for school thus EVERYONE had 3 new stickers on their achievement charts…..including Mommy!!! Just a quick update on Big John….my Dad. I know many website readers have read about “Big John”. Well, Big John was great as was Char Char this weekend. The McKay/Crandell clans had a great time enjoying our together time in Austin. The antics of the kids kept us laughing, Papa (Big John), did the Baby Bop Hop with Catherine and Ashlynn read him the entire story of sleeping beauty. At one point Mom was making snickerdoodles and between the four kids and Papa, Mom couldn’t get them baked fast enough. An entire pan was eaten before the next batch came out of the oven!! HA Chef Todd cooked up a fabulous meal of “green meat” (side joke), yellow rice, broccoli and salad….so wish ya’ll could’ve been there!!! Here are a couple of other funnies from the kids lately: Jay: He bumped his head yesterday and after I asked him if he was okay he said in a teary voice, as he rubbed his head, “I think I damaged something!” HA Jay: Jay was practicing his reading today and was trying to find a rhyme…he was working with Ashlynn and said “hap rhymes with sap”. Ashlynn immediately told him that hap was not a word. He emphatically stated “yes, it is, as in BER-HAPS”. Ashlynn busted out laughing and then kindly and patiently explained that PERHAPS was really all one word and it wouldn’t work with the rhyme because it had two BEATS in it!! Jack: A side note…Jack and Jay are BIG into Power Rangers, Super Heroes, etc…..this is important given the following: While praying about the hurricane and what was “to come”, Jack asked God to put a FORCE FIELD around everyone in the storm’s path! Not bad for a five year old…sometimes their wisdom is astounding. As I read the papers, websites, guestbook entries, and keep up with other family and friends around the world, it seems that everyone is riding out some type storm right now. Isn’t it pure joy to know we have a faith and one another to help us ride through this life together? Matus/Kelso/George clans…ya’ll continue to brighten our world, your love for each other and others, your humor, positive light and amazing abilities to stay in touch are sustaining….thank you for everything…for sharing your hearts and journey through life with us….you are such blessings to us and we love you SO much!!! Well, everyone is tucked in so, I guess I better get my routine for tomorrow undreway! Sending Texas sized hugs and love to everyone, Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 8:53 PM CDT Christina and Meredith... What can I do for Paul? Anything..let me know. Call me..you know my number... My first day was pretty good...I haven't met my "soul mates" yet, but the students are really nice! Maybe I'll get a 'new name' but I'll never forget T/Mat and the kids who tagged that on me. I miss you all, and please be in touch. Let' s just "hold hands and stick together like we did in KINDERGARTEN." You guys were the BEST. They will never be others who compare. Love to all...and prayers for Paul and all the Gulf Coast folks...those we know, and those we have yet to meet. They need our help. God bless, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va usa - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 6:47 PM CDT I was just checking up on the site and saw some very cute pics! I still can't believe what modern medicine can do for us these days. Ally is as cute as can be. I successfully managed my first day in high school today. Yes, please pray for Paul and his family. I also am part of the music group that plays at church with Meredith. Paul is not only a great director, but an amazing person and friend. We are all sadden for him and pray for him and his family. On a brighter note, I hope everyone has a good week and, Mrs. Matus, how was your first day? -Christina :) Christina Knippler (former 5th period student) <acoolkid15@cox.net> Fairfax, VA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 6:32 PM CDT See, what wonderful things happen on this website! Aside from everyone sharing their love for Ally and sharing in her life's journey...people get to know people and help one another out!! Meredith, I would love to have ANY and ALL info about the NH area that you are willing to offer up! We have not had much time at all to do any exploring to get to know the area, so we are game for any clues as to what to do! Feel free to email me at the address posted on this response. Thanks so much! Hope you are all having a wonderful day! Love, Dani Dani Van Natta <daniv16@verizon.net> Hooksett, NH USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 6:30 PM CDT Its that "night before school starts" and I'm having trouble falling asleep at 10:30 rather than my summer bedtime of 2:30 so I figured I would check up on Ally! Her smile is looking beautiful and I was impressed to see Morgan's cake! Even if you say it's an easy recipe, it sure looks impressive! I'm actually on the Disney site right now looking for some more simple but "impressive looking" recipes! :-D Anyways, keep up the good work Ally, you're looking great! Allison Maher <alliem894@yahoo.com> Oakton , VA USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 9:19 PM CDT Oh my gosh..to my Meredith..and my Nancy...and my Dani...you add so much to my life... Thank you for your heartfelt words and love and support. YOU ARE incredible people in my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. For real. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/Tmat :) GO STUDENTS, GO! Tomorrow is "it"...bigtime! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 8:16 PM CDT Hey Dani, I'm one of Mrs. Matus's FORMER students and one year ago I moved from NH to Northern Virginia. If you want any pointers about NH or about all the hot spots, such as Parker's Maple Barn (where you watch them make them make the maple syrup to put on your pancakes), the little shopping district of Portsmouth, and even the Thanksgiving dinners at Sturbridge Village just let me know. It may be a RELATIVILY small state, but there is a lot to know. :-) Hehe. Ally's prograss is unbelievable, and my little reunion with T-MAT with Christina K. (another avid reader) was great, and much needed. I will continue to pray for the victims of the hurricane, but I have one request for prayers. The leader of my church choir as well as a close family friend, Paul, lost his two-year-old son on Saturday in a horrible accident. Please pary for him and his family in these hard times. Thanks! -Meredith L. Meredith L. <mykoala@verizon.net> Oak Hill, VA USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 7:29 PM CDT The Wealth of Love from this site that Teetay mentioned is amazing. I'd like to add my newest favorite quote. It is always appropriate, but it feels even more tender and loving right now: ...said the fox "and now here is my secret, a very simple secret: it is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." "What is essential is invisible to the eye," the little prince repeated, so that he would be sure to remember. (from The Little Prince) Here's to all the wonderful invisible things in all our lives! With much love, Nancy Nancy Eckhardt <nleckhardt@comcast.net> Reston, VA USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 6:42 PM CDT Hello Everyone! I am ashamed to admit that I have not posted in a month (maybe longer for all I know at this moment), but I have been checking in regularly and have finally taken the time to check in with all of you. I am so thankful for this website to be able to keep up to date on all that has been going on with Ally and the rest of the Kelso, Matus clan! First of all, I can't believe the progress that little Miss Ally has made and continues to make each day! Her smile is absolutely gorgeous. I can only imagine just how much you must be enjoying every moment of her progress. Morgan is certainly growing up fast as well! Where does the time go? She seems to be enjoying her role as "Big Sister" with every passing day. Kristin and Mark, you can be very proud as I am sure you are! Ashli, thank you for sharing your wedding photos and all the events of the wedding week! You were a beautiful bride! In fact, you all looked FABULOUS and I am sure there were many memories made that weekend! You have such a wonderful, loving family and I feel very blessed to know all of you! We are slowly getting settled up here in NH! This has been one CRAZY summer for us and the move that I will NEVER forget. I guess they say there is always one move that goes down in the record books and this (I hope) is the one because I do not care to relive it! Enough of that. The kids started school last week...Mackenzie is now a kindergartner (I can't believe it!) and Gage a 3rd grader! They are adjusting rather well and we are all grateful to be getting back to some sort of normalcy and routine. We have been praying for all of those that have been hit by the hurricane and have been praying especially for your friends the Hynes and Glen; as well as, the other members of VAW-77...all friends that we just left in GA when we moved to NH. I would like to ask that you also keep friends of ours in your prayers as well. The Sterbis's (Chris, Liz, Sophia and Ethan) are dear friends of ours. Jack went to the Naval Academy with Chris and they have remained close friends. They were in Diamondhead, MS and lost everything...their house and every thing in it. Liz and the kids had left on Sunday and are in Missouri with one of Liz's friends indefinitely. Chris stayed behind with the house thinking that nothing was going to happen and that everything would be fine. He had to swim out of his 2nd story window over to the neighbors house, which sits a bit higher than his. On Tuesday he walked about 15 miles to a shelter and is now sleeping on the floor at his office. They are supposed to be moving to Japan in October; however, we have no idea how his orders may or may not be affected by all of this. We continue to pray that they all be reunited very soon and are thankful most of all that they are all safe. Jack and his staff are still waiting to have all of their units accounted for and their personnel, and unfortunately need to be prepared to visit family's if anyone is still missing after this weekend. It is a trying time on all of us, especially as a country. We must continue to have faith and turn to God in prayer as the search and rescue efforts continue and people try to get back on their feet. Terri, my sister called during the same show you must have been watching on Operation Smile. It made her think of Allyson and she had called to see how she was doing, and her and her husband have decided that they want to help children like Allyson. My college roommate used to work with a group in Virginia Beach that always went to help kids in other countries as a part of Operation SMile. I remember the stories she used to tell me and it is a wonderful group to help in anyway that one can! Well, although I have gone off the beaten path a bit in my posting...I hope you don't mind. I felt like I needed to catch up with all of you. I am so glad that Allyson is making such a great strides in her development and I look forward to hearing more about it! Kristin, thank you for your continual updates and for allowing us to share in your journey. I will call soon! Miss you all! Love, Dani Dani Van Natta <daniv16@verizon.net> Hooksett, NH USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 3:47 PM CDT Black gumdrops are also good for blacking out your teeth! We used to pull them apart and get them a little gooey-er and stretch it across our front teeth to look like we were toothless! Raisins also work well for this stunt!!Greg and I still do this from time to time to make our kids laugh and put a little humor in our day!:o Aren't you glad I shared this info? Now, go play with your food! Chow...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, September 5, 2005 1:10 PM CDT Dear all and esp. the 'cakemaker' who lives in "the wood"...you are just too funny! So glad the GUMDROP issue has been cleared up! :) Pooh never looked finer. Now, which part of "Pooh" was the "best part?" THAT is what I want to know now! I was spending a leisurely morning wrapping up a few loose ends for school tomorrow when I noticed a very interesting SHOW was on television! Besides the Jerry Lewis telethon which has always defined Labor Day for me, and watching more human interest reports out of the Gulf area, my eye was captured by what I saw before me. The show was called Operation Smile (which I have heard of since Allyson's birth) and the ENTIRE show was dedicated to showing the results of cleft lip revisions/cleft palate surgeries on various ages of children...children from Asia and other parts of the world...children who could NEVER have the surgeries without the HELP of "Operation Smile." My heart was touched, and I grabbed the phone and called to 'help'...that is what we do. It's easy. You can pledge any amount ...as little as $20 per month, or a complete surgery for $240.00 U.S. dollars. The doctors who perform these surgeries are just like "our Dr. Reinisch" and other American doctors who DONATE their time and talent to help children in far away places. The toll free number is operational 24 hours a day: 1-800-332-8105 or you may visit their website at: operationsmile.org I hope you will find it in your hearts and wallets to give a child a "smile" especially from you! Samuel Taylor Coleridge said: "The happiness of life is made up of minute fractions - - - the little, soon-forgotten charities of a kiss or smile, a kind look, a heart-felt compliment, and the countless infinitesimals of pleasurable and genial feeling." Let's continue to spread the WEALTH of LOVE that this website encompasses. All of you are important to us. Thank you for continuing to BE part of our lives. Happy LABOR Day as it continues...and continued prayers for the homeless, the ill, especially Big John, and for my friend Kathleen H. who is spending some time in the hospital this weekend. Kathleen is a dedicated reader/supporter of this website, so when you read this next time, know that a spaghetti supper is on the way to your house tonight, and I will look after "your girl" at her first day of school tomorrow! Get well soon! Love to all of you, and God bless you. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) (but 'that' name could be changing...!!! It's a NEW year!) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 12:51 AM CDT For inquiring minds... the Pooh cake is very easy to make. I am NO Martha Stewart! The icing was from a can with just the right number of drops of yellow food coloring, the cake was made from a box mix - one 9-inch round and a few cupcakes for the ears and nose... and YES, the answer to the "question of the day" is BLACK GUMDROPS! Way to go, Anna! The Cakemaker <the-un-marthastewart@kmart.com> 100 Acre Wood, CA Poohland - Monday, September 5, 2005 11:50 AM CDT Are Pooh's eyes and nose made out of black gumdrops? Curious in Texas....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, September 5, 2005 7:03 AM CDT Kristin...How do you do it?? Taking care of your family, driving to doctors appointments across town, going to the beach to play AND bake a cake for no reason...JUST BECAUSE!!! You go girl! How did you make that icing the exact color as winnie the pooh...let me guess...you made it from scratch...just whipped it up and slapped it on? I was dragging my feet just to get the cereal boxes down for breakfast this morning!! Thanks for the update on Miss Ally. Sounds like you had no problem getting back in your mommy groove after being away for two weeks. We have been talking as a family about Katrina and the effects it will have on us as a family and in our country. We were talking about the gas prices and how much money we will be paying for gas, and told the kids that we were not going to be running around town doing meaningless errands. We were only going to drive when we needed to and not waste gas. (Especially since I will be paying around 70$$ to fill up my tank!YIKES!!! So, after talking about it for awhile, Grant says, "hey, does this mean you can't drive us to school anymore?"FAT CHANCE BUDDY! He actually suggested they ride their bikes to school, but being that we live 3 miles from their school and they have to cross a big intersection...the answer would be NO! And they might become "kid jelly" if they weren't careful crossing the street! Anyway, Miss Ally...did you get to sample some of mommy and sissy's pooh cake? Hugs coming to you from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Sunday, September 4, 2005 3:35 PM CDT Hi all, Just when I thought my "proud barometer" which hangs over Kristin and Ashli couldn't get any better, they both have to go and RAISE that proverbial "bar" one more time....not only do they both write the most magnificent messages, but now with the 'return of Martha Stewart' to the airways, we have Kristin rivaling her with the WINNIE THE POOH CAKE!! How totally awesome was that cake! And, she did it in 'her spare time'??? YOU think? Yes, I, too, wonder what the nose and eyes are???? Tell! Tell! The Gilda Radner quote is one of my all time favorites...my students will SEE it on my board in the near future! "Delicious ambiguity"...if only everyone could live daily with the expectation that "something good is going to happen" and I will be ready to accept it! Such time is wasted on "expectations" that don't ever occur! I am delighted that Ashli continues to remind us with her quotes and that Kristin continues to remind us of that with her journal entry postings. So to my dear 'girls' - again, I say to you how very proud you make me...proud that you are part of "the us" and proud that I have been your "Nice Mommie" for 33 and 31 years respectively. My gratitude barometer is way high on that role! And, to all of you who continue to be with us in our journey, we are grateful. The enormous connections that have been cemented through this website and the past months have given us strength when we needed it, hope when we were looking, and support for whatever we were feeling at the moment. From the first moment that Allyson's miracle life touched ours, we knew we would be OKAY, and that we were collectively as a family and community of friends and "family we have chosen" going to give Allyson every possible opportunity to grow in love. And, you, my friends, have been a tremendous part of that love. To all of you who are struggling right now, or have friends and loved ones who have been touched or torn apart by the Katrina, please know that our family joins you in the prayer that safety and contentment will return to the coastal LA, MS, AL areas and that new life starts for the mulititudes will begin to happen. Our friends, Susan and Jim, are admittedly not the worse off because they have a support system that reaches beyond immediate family, so they ask that you remember all of those who are without support, jobs, insurance, and are grieving the losses of loved ones. THEY insist that those are the people who need our support right now. I hope that wherever you are this weekend you are surrounded by love and joy - -- and if you are, reach out and hold on tight to those you love. "Delicious ambiguity"....we have no guarantees that tomorrow will be as good as today...it could be better...so savor the moments of today and let people around you know that you care. I wish you a happy LABOR or LABORless day tomorrow! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) And...I'm wishing all my "former" students (so many of you visited last week..thanks for the face-visit!) a perfect school year filled with all the activities and 'stuff' that makes school memorable...even ENGLISH!!! :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Sunday, September 4, 2005 2:47 PM CDT I just HAD to write again.... I mean, Ally's progress is impressive, Ally holding/grabbing a beer bottle is great, Morgan eating (my fave too) A PB&J sandwich is all well and good... But, NOTHING beats the IMPRESSIVE-NESS of my sister baking and creating a Winnie the Poo cake!!!! Awesome! Ok, so what are the eyes and nose? Yummy. Me like cake. :) xoxoxoxox! Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Sunday, September 4, 2005 1:43 PM CDT "Some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity..." ~Gilda Radner Happy Sunday! The above quote is on a card I am about to send Susan and her family, along with some Ashli-hand-me-downs.. I am just glad someone will fit in my clothes and is living in a warm climate to enjoy my "old" (ha) stuff from this spring/summer! As Teetay said, this is Ally's site but the challenges she and her family began to face alomst a year (wow!) ago have helped us all to connect and create a community of love, strength and faith. I am sure I will forget something but we have experienced so many of life's unknowns on our journey together since Allyson brought us together -- the passing of our Gran, Mark's tests and medical check ups, the Hynes adoption of Elena from Russia, my best friend Rebecca's roller coaster pregnancy (all is fine now!), Allyson surgeries, Hayden's fight, Uncle John McKay's battle with cancer, Anna's husband's medical journey, babies born to several friends, kids going off to school... I could go on and on! So the brutal honesty in Gilda's quote above just sort of made me smile and think of ALL of us and the journeys, challenges and "unknowns" we all face, have faced and will face -- together! One never knows what is NEXT, no matter how much you plan or think you "know", so enjoy each day, the moment and those around you. Forget the things and trite crap in life -- it's so not worth it. I tell myself this when I think of my sister re-inserting her child's feeding tube that unexpectedly popped out or when I think of Teetay facing 150 kids on Tuesday for her 37th year and when I think of the Hynes' stuff (yes, just "stuff") probably ruined or nonexistent in their New Orleans home, and when I read Alex's story of "Red" and his family who are struggling as a result of the New Orleans disaster. So hug your loved ones and tell them they matter today. Do something fun, be lazy, savor the moments and do my favorite thing -- be down right silly! I said it on my family's behalf when this web site began 9 months ago, and I say it again on behalf of ALL of us -- THANK YOU for being a part of our journey. And I mean all of OUR journeys. Hope you all are having a fun, safe holiday weekend. The Matus-George gang enjoyed a night at the Phillies-Nats on Friday then an day trip up to PSU for the season opener. They won(!) but looked terrible so my HUSBAND ;) is already on his negative PSU rant, will cheer loyally and endlessly for them all season, and for his sanity and happiness, we'll hope that the N'Lions and Eagles have better season endings than last year :) Regardless, it was great to reunite with tailgate friends and enjoy the beauty and spirit of Happy Valley in State College. Now it's back to weekend chores and I have a "few" thank you notes to write.... Happpy weekend! Much love! Ashli - Sunday, September 4, 2005 1:15 PM CDT Good Morning to everyone! So many somber thoughts are in my head this morning, and I wanted to share just a few with you. This is Allyson's website and our love and support from literally thousands of you who read, post, read, don't post continues to fill our hearts and give us strength. I know everyone of you has a heavy heart over the disaster in LA, MISS, AL and the entire Southern coast...thank you for praying for our dear friends, Susan and Jim, and for continuing to include the McKay family in your prayers. As this weekend unfolds, the one we call LABOR DAY, I hope you will open your hearts and wallets even moreso to help the helpless in the New Orleans, Biloxi, Gulfport areas....probably many of you know folks in that area and IF you do know anyone who wants to relocate to Northern Virginia, specifically, MY HOUSE, I have a 'lovely basement apartment' that I would love to fill with folks who need assistance. I figured this was the best place to let that be known. I realize that many charitible organizations are organizing relocation homes all over the U.S., but IF you actually KNOW someone, get in touch with me. My "downstairs" apartment generally serves as my "guest quarters" and I would love for it to become someone's temporary home during the aftermath of this crisis. So, that's my offer this morning. Get in touch with me via email or phone. The new pictures are Allyson and Morgan on this site give me hope that there will be a 'sunshine' today...tomorrow..and in their futures. My prayer is that the homeless, injured, sick, grief-stricken, and oh so tired folks suffering from Katrina will also find that 'sunshine' in their futures. As Cat Potter likes to offer out from the Pineapple state, the "white light"...I hope each person finds his "white light" and our help and prayers along the way. Blessings to all of you who are out there praying for these folks! And blessings to all of us who still have CARS in which we must put the EXPENSIVE gasoline....and voices to "complain" about that...and "places" to DRIVE to in those cars with the $$ gasoline....you know that is all 'small stuff' by comparison. I wish you a beautiful weekend ahead of NO LABOR...or SOME LABOR...whatever fills your heart and space. And, again, thank you for traveling our road these past 8 months and for continuing to check in to "see" Allyson's newest smile, or swininging in the beach park, or cuddling her sister!!! I have had one week of "without them" and I've missed them terribly !!! Getting back into my school routine has helped and counting the days til the next HOLIDAY also helps!!! Only six more weeks...but whose counting??(me!) I wish you the best. With love to all...God bless. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat (my students may give me a new name this year and I will have to retire "T MAT" and let my "last year group" own it!!! stay tuned...) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v USA - Saturday, September 3, 2005 8:33 AM CDT Sweet Ally...You have such an angelic little smile. Sometimes I wish I could reach in the computer screen and squeeze those cute little cheeks of yours. As I have watched all of the devastation unfold on television, one thing continually pops in my mind. I wonder how many of those people know our Lord and Savior and how many of them know that He has not left them. He can calm the storm and he can also calm their hearts. I sat and cried watching the news last night listening to all of the sad stories of these people. I immediately dropped to my knees in prayer because I know that is the most important thing I can do right now. I am so proud to know that our great state of Texas is willing to help out our neighbor. You know, seeing all of the horrific photos and hearing the stories really makes you realize how quickly things can be taken away. I pray that through this disaster, people will come to know Jesus Christ and enter into a personal relationship with him. Teetay, I will put your friends on my prayer list and pray that they will embrace Jesus during this tragedy. Ally, keep smiling sweet girl....Hugs from Texas...Anna Rainwater Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Friday, September 2, 2005 9:13 PM CDT Hi sweet Ally and all: I have a very heavy heart tonight as I watch all of those suffering in New Orleans and beyond. I have felt so sad these past few days watching all the news reports - especially those of children in desparate need of food and water! And so I came to visit little Ally because she always puts a smile on my face and warms my heart. I pray that help is on the way TONIGHT for the thousands stranded and in need of care. And little Ally, keep those smiley pictures coming (you too big sis Morgan) because they truly are uplifting. Wishing you all a wonderful holiday weekend. Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Thursday, September 1, 2005 9:53 PM CDT Hi all, PLEASE keep our dear friends, Susan and Jim Hynes, in your prayers. They are New Orleans residents and have evaucated , but it "appears" that theymay have lost their home. Susan and Elena, their newly adopted baby girl, are in Pensacola with Susan's parents. Jim has a position as Southeastern Field Director for U.S. Customs/Homeland Security, and he is in Memphis with the Command Post for the recovery efforts in N. Orleans. Please keep them in your prayers. They were scheduled to move to San Diego in September. I cannot help but think this will change that moving date. John McKay is holding his own but still needs the support and prayers of us all. He is trying to gain weight and be stronger as he builds muscle mass. Holly is so dear to keep us informed. How God has blessed us as a family that we 'bonded into' back in the mid seventies. It just makes life good. And, John and Char Char and Hol and the gang...YOU are part of our everyday thoughts and prayers. And, Hol..it is "okay" is you don't post on your "good" or "bad" days...we know you are there. Promise you that. And, to everyone 'out there' with loved ones in the Southern LA coast, we are thinking of you. I will pray extra BIG tonight that God will look after those who are troubled and torn apart. Love to all of you, SCHOOL IS GOING GREAT! 37 years? But, who is counting???? Terri aka Teetay / Mrs. M./ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 8:16 PM CDT Hi all! Just grabbing a quick bite to eat before my next meeting and thought I'd check in. The background is adorable and it matches the pictures so well. The girls are getting big so fast!!!! We are starting to get settled into our new house. Of course, just when I think I can actually sit down and relax, Tyler slams his fingers in the car door - ouch! So, after about an hour of kicking and screaming from the pain he calmed down. Trying to calm him down completely exhausted me! I guess we are not going to karate today since his fingers are swollen and he can't make a fist. Well, sorry to make this short but I gotta run! Have a great week filled with doctor appointments and therapy. Ally looks like she is progressing very well so I can't wait to hear about her progress in the next update. Love and miss you all!!! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 12:49 AM CDT I am a friend and neighbor of Alex Hurley in MD. She forwarded me your wonderful website and precious daughter's ongoing journey. The verse in Jeremiah is a favorite of mine too! Ally will be in our prayers! Kristen Durning <ksdurn@msn.com> Gaithersburg, MD USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 7:47 PM CDT oooohhhhh! bathtime with a sister is the BEST! What wonderful pics and yes, such artistic ability in those beach photos. Anne and Bill would be impressed ;) You all lok very happy and like you're having tons of funny settling back in to life in sunny California! We miss you lots and can't wait to see you again soon xoxoxxoxooxoxoxo Aunt Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 4:11 PM CDT Just thought I would say a quick hi to miss Ally!! Hope your plane ride home was relaxing. I bet your daddy was happy to see you! Anyway, just wanted to check in on my favorite California baby!! Praying for you Ally....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, August 29, 2005 12:27 AM CDT WOW. I haven't checked the website since May. Allison looks so great!! I work with your cousin Mary. Lots of love and prayers Barbara Silverstein <barbarasilverstein@nisd.net> - Monday, August 29, 2005 11:09 AM CDT Greetings ALL! Ally and Morgan, we miss you so much already -- and of course MOMMY, too! We had such a fabulous 2 weeks with you all and tons of fun. Counting the days until we see you and play and jump and snuggle and giggle again. :)) We'll be thinking of you all as you settle back into appointements, OT visits and the west coast routine. And Teetay... Rather, DIVA-TAY, TEACH-A-TAY, T-MAT... we'll be thinking of you as you walk into school tomorrow to embark on your 37th (!!!!!!) year of teaching. Your dedication to kids is amazing.... actually... dedication to anything for 37 years is amazing and I SO admire you! You're the best teacher-mom-friend in the world! Lots of love to you ALL and special hugs to my west coast family. We love you and we are grateful for ALL you did to be a part of our awesome wedding weekend that we are still reminiscing and laughing and smiling about - it rocked and you were such a huge part of the special memories and laughter. Can't wait for the crazy video and official photos!! Talk to you soon of course! And your post on the journal was too much! But thanks for the shout-out and for loving us so much. We LOVE YOU TOO!!! Lots of love from the Matus-George household xoxoxoxoxox Aunt Ashli Matus-George (since so many were inquiring ;) and Uncle Tommy George and Nala Jean Matus George and Peeve. Just plain Peeve. Well, "Mr. Pet" Peeve if we're being formal..... <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Sunday, August 28, 2005 9:30 PM CDT Hi Alex and all, YOU are the best...whether or not it is 'sharing' a moment, or sharing a comment, YOU have been there. WOW! What a wonderful gathering at the "Teetay pool" ...right? Thank you for coming out..and know that your little ones are always in my thougths. How great it is that you and Kristin could REunite after 9 years??? So very big WOW!! Love to you and YOURS! Terri aka Teetay :) terrimatus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 9:16 PM CDT Hi Ally and gang: We so enjoyed meeting you in person at your Teetay's house. I just know that you and Will will grow up together (on separate coasts) but "always checking in on each other." You are an amazing girl, little one, and I am so happy to know you. Sweet Morgan, you have such an awesome personality! Jack is very excited about making you his first official pen pal. Stay tuned for your first letter! It may be a week or so because it takes him a while to write a whole "letter"!! Kristin, I can't believe it has been 9 years! I thank little Ally for reuniting us and our families and I look forward to more visits at Teetay's house in years to come. I hope you and the girls are settling back in to your routine in CA. I still marvel at how you fly across the country with 2 kids, luggage, toys, suitcase, carseat, snacks, etc by yourself! And probably without breaking a sweat. We'll talk soon. Terri - I wish you the best on your first day of school and throughout this special year. There's nothing like the smell of brand new notebooks and pencils in the morning! Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Sunday, August 28, 2005 7:58 PM CDT Greetings from the "empty house" in Virginia! Yes, the CA peeps left this morning....there was Kristin with her backpack, GIANT suitcase, tote bag, stroller, carseat base, and Morgan pulling her Princess suitcase....they looked like packhorses entering the airport! Yes, the "giant" bag was overweight! She couldn't slip it through this time! Dulles showed her 'no mercy'....!!! Morgan was excited about flying 'home to Daddy' and she painted him a card this morning before leaving! Allyson was all smiles on the last few pictures we took....and now it is time for me to "de kid" the house and put everything away until the next time!! What joyous memories we made - - - all 'simple stuff'...the BEST is always the 'simple stuff'...walks to the pond, finding special 'sticks' and throwing them in the creek, playing at the "little park"...and the "big park".....going to what is now called "Teetay's Mall" (I didn't know I had ONE!!) and playing on the JET BLUE inside playground...getting a flower painted on Morgan's cheek...yes, all 'simple things' but oh so FUN!!! Our Lake Anna "R and R" was really incredible. Morgan became a little "river rat" (lake rat?) and loved the gooshy sand between her toes....thought the pontoon boat was a hoot, and loved feeding the fish and the ducks!!! It was a great two day get-a-way and we really RELAXED after all the "go go go" of recent days!!! I already miss "the girls" so much, but I am trying to focus on my FIRST day of school tomorrow....teacher work week ...kids comes after Labor Day in Virginia. It will be great to see my "old teacher friends" and it is always refreshing to meet the NEW teachers! What a great profession....'starting over' each year...new faces, new challenges, and new goals! It is invigorating!!! Geep heads to Charleston next week for his business, so our "week" will be pretty back to normal after two weeks of WONDERFUL NOT NORMAL!!! The wedding is behind us, but the memories are sweetly lingering....we have pictures galore and it is fun pouring over them and recalling each and every moment! We can't wait to SEE THE VIDEO to see what we were actually doing! I know that I will never forget "dancing with my Philly boys" (you know who you are!) and playing the cowbell with Brian Stern who was LOUSY on the TAMBOURINE!!! What love surrounded us all in "that room"...!!! Continued prayers for John McKay and family...we love those folks so much!!! Stand tall, John! We're pulling for you!!! Love to all and I hope you are enjoying a beautiful Sunday afternoon. Guess I'll go pick up a few more 'toys' and pack them away!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 2:15 PM CDT We're back online! Wooohooo!!! The move went well and the rain finally stopped. The boxes were not too badly damaged and after only living here for 2 days it is starting to feel like home. Our close took a record 53 minutes and we raced home to meet the movers - who were an hour and half late due to the rain! Oh well! I woke up at 4 am yesterday and began unpacking - a task that lasted until 7 pm when I colapsed on the couch. I feel like I just worked out for 4 days straight and I am so sore I can hardly move! But - we are back at it today and still have to head over to the old house to clean it. Our work never ends!!! To the CA peeps - have very safe travels!!!! We MUST talk soon to catch up! The website is a wonderful means of communication but it could never replace hearing the sounds of live voices. Love ya!!! Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> The new crib at 7373 Moonlight Lane, MN - Sunday, August 28, 2005 9:29 AM CDT Seeing these oh so cute pictures of the girls makes me miss all of you all over again. I can't believe it was only a week ago we were all together...it seems like ages have past! For so many months we've had the wedding to look forward to, to our first Ally meeting and holding, to exclaiming at how Morgan's grown, and hugging all of you again. Now I feel sad! We have to plan something so I can start looking forward to the next visit! I miss you all so much already! Safe travels tomorrow. I know the VA house will be a quiet place, but there are so many special memories on which to reflect! Love you all very, very much, Jackie Jackie Horras <jackie2fish@hotmail.com> San Antonio, TX US - Saturday, August 27, 2005 10:01 PM CDT Love the wedding photos Ashli!!!! Looks like you put together quite the wedding. The thing I noticed most in every picture....you were having a total blast!! That is how it should be! You were even kickin it with the band girlfriend!! Ally....you look like you have grown sweet girl! I bet you LOVED every bit of attention at your Aunt Ashli's wedding. Did you upstage the bride? :) And Teetay and Geep...WOW!! What a hottie couple you are!! Teetay, Ashli had it right..DIVA-TAY in your silver dress. Gor-GEE-us!!! Morgan...you, too were so beautiful. I bet you did a great job being the flower girl. Ashli...Nellie Olsen never looked so beautiful!!! Thanks for sharing the photos....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:43 PM CDT Ashli - What can I say?????? You are gorgeous and we missed being there so much! The pictures are wonderful and as I mentioned in an email back to you....I find it so funny that in almost every picture you and TG have some sort of alcoholic beverage in your hand. It is hard to believe that I have known you since BEFORE you could drink and BEFORE you could drive. But, the one thing that has NOT changed it that you have always been an amazing woman who is a part of an amazing family. Thank you again for sharing your pictures! We will be off-line for a few days as the "other newlyweds" move into our new house today. Jim and I have always prided ourselves as having perfect timing. Well, today we have been put to the test. We are having severe thunderstorms and flooding in the area and at 5:30 this morning I was sweeping water out of our garage. The bummer part is that ALL our belongings are packed in cardboard boxes on the floor of such said garage!!! I just hope that when the movers arrive at 1 pm the rain has stopped and the boxes are not too badly damaged. Now if someonce can tell me how to make the next 4 hours of work go by quickly so I can get out of here and start signing my life away at closing............. Much love to everyone out there! Pray for sunshine today! Aimee and Jim Moore and Tyler <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Friday, August 26, 2005 6:54 AM CDT THE BRIDE IS BAAAAACK! Ok, I know many of you could care less about what I have to say to you can just proceed to copy and paste the following directly into your browser for PHOTOS galore!!! ;) http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=zrj2cxz.8nkq8qy3&x=0&y=-ucb7ng I apologize in advance for the way too long entry tonight but since I have been "bride-to-being" for this whole month or so, I have a few things to say! :) There is a quote that I just received on a card that sums up a fantabulous 72 hours: "Live in the moment and make it so beautiful that it will be worth remembering." well friends, our weekend was very much alive and the memories are engraved in my heart and mind forever. To be quite blunt, we have a FREAKING BLAST on Saturday. TG had two big things to say about our wedding weekend.... 1) He thought it was awesome how our wedding party friends were like "family" and always with our families. 2) He wished he/we had thanked our parents more.. bigger.. better... more profoundly. And I AGREE! There are no words to thank our dedicated, supportive, loving and GIVING parents, amd sisters, for allthey did to make the weekend SUPER. And to our wedding party who ARE family, the family we choose, it was so wonderful to have you close at our sides at every event. Since this is Ally's web site and I could write a book about this past week, I'll keep the details to the minimum (this photos kind of say it ALL) but I'll tell you what this web site has done... and how it has brought us all together.... in some way or another... * We honored John McKay in the Prayer of the Faithful and prayed for his comfort during this time. * I thought of dear friends who could not join us.. I DID. During the day, the ceremomy, the reception. Something would happen and I thought of family who could no tbe there, Holly and her gang, Aunt Charlotte & Uncle John, Brooke - you were definitely missed in the college gang antics- we were not complete without you... Mikki, my oldest friend and noodle!... Aimee, wonderful to see your parents but missed YOU... Melanie & Rob, you would have danced up a storm!... Tricia, yes, Vince was there but you in some killer shoes were not :( * Because of this bond here, Anna Rainwater, who I have never met in person but only in heart, sent us a wedding card wishes * TG and I received a wedding card signed by the whole NFED office... amazing! * I learned to let the "imperfections" of the day - a late shuttle, 90+ degree heat and humidity, a late night ripped bustle, not getting to spend more than 2 minutes with most people.... I let it all GO. It was about being in the moment and capturing it all in memory. And what a memory it was! We loved our day, had an amazing time and enjoyed every second! Unfortunately, I might not be able to recall who said what exactly, what cracked me and my friends up in certain photos, what songs the band played, and if I got all the perfect photos of each person -- I am sure something slipped and I am sure I will be bummed that THE photo wasn't taken. But what I have seared in my mind are......... *Seeing all my girls dressed up and looking gorgeous! Teetay was stunning and I loved being surrounded by my favorite crew , sister, sisters in law and nieces nephews! *Seeing that grinning TG at the end of the aisle….. and looking at my beautiful, strong, radiant sister MANY times during the ceremony (we were facing each other!) and getting that perfect grin from her * Having a glance during the readings by April, one of my oldest friends, and Mark my brother * Having 3 amazing friends who kept EVERYTHING behind the scenes going – Kristi, Liz, Kristen and Helen… I could not have done it without you. You better know that! You four little drill sergeants were the best! * Being surrounded by SO MANY loved ones by all walks of the Matus-George lives for so many years… young and old, we were blessed with the crowds who love and support us so much. At the end of it all, we felt blessed and completely excited that this day came and we enjoyed every second of it. There are so many who helped to make it perfect and wonderful – you KNOW who you are. And I know I can never actually thank you…. Our family and friends who traveled to be with us, some for even 48 hours (as my cousin Mary said, “that’s what we do!” and we DO!) we appreciate all your efforts to be here in DC with us. You are such a part of who we are and even of we had a passing glance at the reception, WE KNOW you were there and that matters. You matter. We have a special gift in our family and friends, and we are grateful. Wishing you all a good night… a great weekend… and new conversations now that this latest 2005 adventure is DONE! I am not sure what 2006 will bring as an encore since 2005 has been pretty darn spectacular. Thanks to you ALL for being a part of it. We love you! Ashli & Tom <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington , DC - Thursday, August 25, 2005 9:09 PM CDT Ditto to my Sista on all counts! Jackie Horras <jackie2fish@hotmail.com> San Antonio, TX US - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 9:45 PM CDT What a GLORIOUS time spent with our family this weekend....Ashli you were stunning and Oh! so Glam!!! So thankful that we could all be together..... Ally, you are such a dear, sweet child! You have the most pleasant demeanor and I just Love! Love! Love! the way your entire face lights up when you smile! Warms my heart just thinking about it. I guess I'll have to settle for the pictures of me holding you since your big sister wouldn't let me bring you back to Texas w/ me! I could just cuddle with you forever!!!!! Way to go, Mark! Congrats on your test. Keep up the good work! We're three days in to the school year....Brandon came home on the first day of school and said he just LOVES second grade. (of course when I asked him why, his response was, "Cause my teacher said we don't have any homework til next week!") AHHHHHH, the little pleasures in life!!!! Love and blessings to all! Mary Kay P.S. Had a blast sitting w/ Uncle Glenn and Aunt Mer at dinner....you guys are too cool!!!!!! Mary Kay DeHoyos, Texas Cousin <Mmdehoyos@sbcglobal.net> San Antonio, - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 6:34 PM CDT Anna wants to go to LAKE ANNA!!!!! Where is that???? I need a Lake Anna in Texas!!! One without bugs!!It is so stinkin hot here I can't stand it anymore!!! Ashli...You were a beautiful bride and your hubby is a hottie just like you!!! Sounds like the wedding was a blast! Can't wait to see more photos!!!(hint!) (hint!) Well, my babies officially started kindergarten yesterday!!! I cried all the way home!! The time couldn't go fast enough for me to go and pick up my boys!!! When I asked them what their favorite thing was about school....LUNCH!!!! Because they get to take their Power Ranger lunchkits EVERYDAY!!! Grant was thrilled that his job for the week is line leader. Camden gets to be the caboose/water carrier. He likes being the caboose but told the teacher that the basket with the water bottles was too heavy for him to do the job alone!!!! They love their teacher...so do I!!!! Well....I need to go spend some time with my hubby!!! Glad to hear that you all had a wonderful weekend!!! Hugs...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 8:10 PM CDT Greetings to all!! Congrats to Mark for his "high score" on his latest 'test'....I am proud of you!!!! I am happy that you are doing so well!!! I will give you TEN 'smilie faces' on your next test!!!! :) Oscar Wilde said: "To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance." That is a pretty good SUMMATION of the past few days of enjoying, loving, reuniting, laughing, spending-time-with, creating new memories, recalling old ones, and sharing a LOVE event that brought us all together for awhile. I truly believe it is about the TIME one shares with folks that makes the "event" itself IMPORTANT! Thank you all for being part of our spectacular, awesome weekend. You have been by our sides for a very long time, and to share in the happy occasion of Tom and Ash's wedding just bonded us even more! The "CA PEEPS" are still here until Sunday. Mark had to go back Monday for work, but Kristin and the little girls are still here. This week will be one of relaxation and fun times without any 'muss or fuss'....!!! Yesterday, Morgan and Allyson enjoyed a visit by several of my students - Sarah, Mandy, and Lindsay. Today, they enjoyed a visit from Alex H. (the notepad lady from the RALLY) and her sons, Jack and Will. Morgan is still talking about Jack...(watch out, Jack!) and wants him to come again 'tomorrow'...!!! This afternoon Kristin is visiting with her high school close friend, Beth, and her two children at a nearby park/mini zoo! Tomorrow we begin our little three day R and R to Lake Anna to "sit and stare" at the vegetation/water/squirrels/ducks/whatever else is moving!!! It will be a nice respite. The honeymooners are "away" (Ashli can write about her jaunt) for a little "honeymoon"...the BIGGIE comes early next year when they experience an African Safari!! I am already looking for 'designer elephant boots' for her! School starts next week - - - back to 'order and structure' and NEW BEGINNINGS!! Fresh faces will greet me the Tuesday after Labor Day and another rapid-fire year will commence. There is nothing like the excitement of the FIRST DAY! I wish I could bottle it for the kids as well as myself...there is such a high motivation during those first days. Then REALITY sets in and "it" becomes WORK....so my job will be to keep the "motivation going" all through the year!! Here's a good one for you: "Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway." Mary Kay Ash So, keep on flying folks!!! The VIEW is a BEAUTIFUL ONE!!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M / T Mat :) Hey students...FORMER students....how 'bout that Odyssey???? Did anybody LIKE IT? I've heard such 'mixed reviews'....let me know. HAPPY BEGINNING OF HIGH SCHOOL! I wish you the BEST because you are the BEST!!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 4:45 PM CDT Kristin, all I scored a 93 on my latest JPME test! On to chapter 5! Mark <mark.kelso@verizon.net> Port Hueneme, CA - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 4:19 PM CDT ...."and another thing.... " ..as I used to say!!! I had to rush off because three of my students rang the bell to visit Allyson and Morgan and they needed my UNdivided attention! Thanks Sarah, Mandy, and Lindsay for the wonderful visit and we loved the talking-time and sharing of your beginning of high school stories!!! Morgan is still talking about "Teetay's kids" and wishes you could have stayed longer!!! She rode her bicycle right after you left...the one withOUT training wheels! And, she did OKAY!!! Thanks for taking time to come by and visit!!! More time today was spent just "recalling" so many wonderful wedding details!!! And, Steven-Crummy-Woodzell, you were among our 'chat time'....how great it was to SEE everyone, be with dear, dear friends spanning so many years....all the way back to 1944 (ha...like I remember that??)....all the way over to Japan....and back to Rhode Island....and the many, many folks we've been fortunate to know and love along the journey. Thank you all for being WITH us for a happy, happy day!!! Please continue to pray for John McKay...we prayed for him during the mass, and we will continue to suppport the Crandall/McKay family any way we are able!!! Love to all and a peaceful good night! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v USA - Monday, August 22, 2005 9:05 PM CDT Ally it was a delight and honor to meet you last Saturday. Even though aunt Ashli's wedding was the main event, I think you may have ended up being the star attraction. I must compliment you on how fine you looked in your dress and the poise you displayed as countless admirers gathered about you all afternoon. You're already a pro. Steve Woodzell <swoodzell@cox.net> - Monday, August 22, 2005 6:36 PM CDT Hi Everyone! "Wedding Central" is closing "down" slowly!!! We still have the Ca peeps with us and our TX Sister/bro in law for a couple more days!!! Then, we're "off" for a little R and R to a nearby lake for a couple of days with Kristin, Morgan, and Allyson!!! Just some sunshine, boating, and QUIET!!!! Was the wedding the most beautiful one EVER???? Well, of course it was!!! (just like the "other one" ten years ago!) Ashli and Tom were radiant as were the beautiful people in the wedding party, plus the four little "ring/flower" folks with their tuxedos and pretty in pink dresses! The love that surrounded us in the beautiful sanctuary cannot be measured. The "Philly George folks" and the "Virginia/DC" Matus folks have BONDED!!! It was our honor to be with everyone of you who attended and those who didn't were in our thoughts on the special day! We are continuing to re-live the 'chats/stories/funny happenings' of the past four days and each one of us brings up a new memory periodically as we recall the harbor evening, the bridesmaid luncheon, the rehearsal dinner, the incredibly talented, witty, and articulate 'speeches' of that night...the VIDEO Kristin and Mark made of "ASH AND TOM'S LIFE" from birth to NOW....the inside jokes that were brought OUTSIDE to bring laughter and embarassment at the same time..... Such LOVE!!! And, Allyson was right in the middle of it all!!!! With love to all of you.. MY GIRLS have just arrived to see Allyson and Morgan...gotta rush... Later, Teetay /Terri:) terrimatus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Monday, August 22, 2005 2:46 PM CDT Hi all, We too are awaiting some great pictures. We were with the whole gang in thoughts and prayers the entire day...we know it was spectacular!!! As promised, we did our "chicken dance" to help the celebration along...just thinking that through should give some of you some laughs out loud. All our love to everyone, The Crandell Clan Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Monday, August 22, 2005 12:12 AM CDT Me again! I talked to my parents yesterday and got the scoop on the wedding details. I heard all about how radient Ashli looked and about how wonderful Kristin looked too. They had a blast seeing parents from our high school days and loved catching up and bragging about grandchildren with everyone. Of course, Ally's matching bridesmaid dress and Morgan's curls and pink bow were a hit as well. We so wish we could have been there!!!!!! Post some pictures soon!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxo Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Monday, August 22, 2005 8:01 AM CDT Here comes the bride....here comes the bride. It is about 12:38 PM EST and I have been thinking about Ash and Tom all day. I hope you are having beautiful weather and that the wedding goes along with no minor issues. I know my parents will give me the full scoop tomorrow morning. Much love to the bride and groom on this wonderful and memorable day!!!! Love, Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Saturday, August 20, 2005 11:52 AM CDT Here comes the bride....here comes the bride. It is about 12:38 PM EST and I have been thinking about Ash and Tom all day. I hope you are having beautiful weather and that the wedding goes along with no minor issues. I know my parents will give me the full scoop tomorrow morning. Much love to the bride and groom on this wonderful and memorable day!!!! Love, Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Saturday, August 20, 2005 11:32 AM CDT Today's the day of the big MOVE INTO THE HOTEL!!! We are bustling around here like the busiest of BEES!!! (whatever the heck that means!!! ) Excitement butterflies are everywhere!!! So, "let the games begin!!!! " Love to all of you who will be enjoyng in person or in spirit the celebration of this coming weekend!!! We are surrounded by LOVE and JOY and we FEEL your PRESENCE!!! Thank God for friends and family and so many who are DEAR to our hearts for so many years!!! Happy WEDDING WEEKEND to Tom and Ash....they are the 'calmnest' couple I know!!! Mark arrived this morning at the crack of dawn so now that part of our family is "whole" again!!! Smiles were all over Morgan's face when her DADDY appeared at our door with Geep right behind him!!! Everybody's READY!!! Love to all and God bless you all...and prayers and love to John McKay. We will miss you HERE , but we will be thinking of you in TX!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat And, it was great seeing "my Knippler girls" yesterday for their visit with the little girls!!! Morgan loves those girls!!! Teetay "out"....!!! :)!!!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 7:25 AM CDT Loved the new photos Kristin!! You always seem to know when to "capture the moment!" Enjoy all of the festivities with your family!!!Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Thursday, August 18, 2005 7:15 AM CDT Hey everybody! I just had a wonderfull time playing with Morgan and Ally today. My mom, sister, and I had the honor of meeting the CA celebrities in person. We had A LOT of fun! The girls are just too cute and Kristen is a great mom. It was nice to see Mrs. Matus again, too! I hope everyone has a great time at the wedding and congrats to Ashli and Tom! *Christina* Christina Knippler (former 5th period student) <acoolkid15@cox.net> Fairfax, VA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 4:37 PM CDT Here Comes the Bride.....and her entourage(sp?) of peeps!!! Ashli, I pray that your wedding day will be everything you have imagined it to be! The best part is saying "I do",planting a big kiss on your honey,and then letting him whisk you away!!!!:) We will be thinking of all of you on Saturday!!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 12:37 AM CDT Hi All! Probably my last post as a single woman!! :) We're having a blast gearing up for the big day and having so many family and friends arrive into town! TG and I hit the ground running tomorrow when we close on a house then plenty to do all day then out with wedding party and family tomorrow night. Luncheon on Friday, then rehearsal and a casual gathering at our favorite bar/restaurant for dinner then THE DAY! We know it will be great and at the end of it all, most importantly, we'll be married :)) Then Monday it's off for a couple of days at St. Michael's on the Eastern Shore of MD for R &R, spa, food, pool... NOTHING. We need to get back to normal life later next week so the REAL honeymoon will be in Feb. 2006 for a 2 week safari in Africa (where else?!?!?) - We'll be counting the days until February... I mean, after we get through football season and all! ;) Much love to you all and thanks for all your thoughts and well wishes for this super special time in our lives. THANK YOU for your blessings and for being a part of it all. We'll have pics posted as soon as possible, I am sure!!!! Have a great weekend and think of us being wed at 2 PM this Saturday!!! xoxoxo Ashli & TG <ashliagm@aol.com> - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 10:12 AM CDT We are off to Virginia tomorrow to THE WEDDING!! I will have the best birthday gift of all when I get to hug and hold our precious granddaughters, and, of course, our son and daughter -in-law. The icing on the cake comes on Friday when Mark's twin brother Glenn, wife Merideth and son Spencer arrive to add to the merriment. Mer and I will celebrate, a day late, our mutual birthdays while babysitting with Ally while the rest of the clan parties it up at the rehearsal dinner. And so many other fun things are planned, too! John's mom, Ally, Morgan and Spencer's great grandma will fly down on Sunday to see her twin grandsons, 2 granddaughters-in-law, and her 3 great grandchildren. We/ll be giving her a small family surprise birthday party to complete the day. I am weary thinking of it all but it will be a blast. Our best wishes to Ashli and Tom that this whole weekend goes without a hitch. Lydia Kelso a.k.a . Grandma Kelso <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 8:18 AM CDT Good morning all!! Yes, today begins the "weekend" of Ashli and Tom's "big adventure"...!! Family members (besides the California celebrities!) begin arriving today and we have 'festivities' planned for tonight and continuing throughout the weekend! Thank goodness the "cold front" hit and it is 63 degrees this morning! Now, if those pesky raindrops just hold off!! We've had such fun times these past few days doing so many things with 'the girls' and Ashli and Kristin have had some special 'sistah-friend' time! I was delighted to spend time with Morgan and Allyson at my school the other morning with their "No. 1 Fan Club" oooh-ing and aaah-ing over them! Then, I attended a brunch in honor of one of our very old friends, Marshall, and was able to "introduce" the little peeps to many of my "big peeps"...!! Morgan swam in "Pammie's pool" and JUMPED off the side until all of the ADULT arms were weary of CATCHING! She never grew weary of that activity! Teree and Pammie alongwith Nancy and Sharon all got to hear Morgan SING her Princess songs and were quite impressed with her pitch and articulation! Allyson, of course, was "singing her favorite word of the day"...MAMA! Yesterday, I said to Allyson, "Who loves ya, baby?" And, her IMMEDIATE RESPONSE was "MAMA!" Of course, we couldn't get her to repeat 'that trick' but once was pretty funny!!! Geep is trying to juggle "work" and do all his "DAD" stuff at the same time! Tomorrow is our big MOVE INTO THE HOTEL DAY and we do have a boatload of 'stuff' to haul! (and it's not all about SHOES either!) Looking so forward to the next few eventful and very memorable days! We are wishing Ashli and Tom the very BEST "Varsity Wedding" on the planet!!! So, I'm off and running this morning...this will probably be my last POST until AFTER the date....thank you for all the good wishes you've been sending our way and we'll be with you in spirit or in person Saturday! Please continue to think of John McKay...our love and prayers are with the entire McKay/Crandall family! Love to all and have a GREAT, GREAT weekend! You know we will!!!! Terri aka Teetay /Mrs. M/ T MAT :)!!!! terrimatus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 6:06 AM CDT T minus 4 days and counting until Ashwee gets married!!!! I am so excited for you (and TG too of course)! I am sure you and K are busy doing wedding stuff and visiting with relatives who are coming into town. Jim, Tyler and I are thinking about you all as you get to visit in good-ol VA. We wish we could be there with you. Kristin, have you told Morgan yet that Teetay lives 527 steps from "Aunt Aimee's" old house? :):) Looking forward to seeing wedding pictures. Giant MN hugs to everyone! Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 1:54 PM CDT Okay...First of all, those of us that are NOT between the ages of Ashli and Alex...We all had a pair of the monogrammed overalls!!!! Holly, you are not the only DORK!!! Mine said"Anna Banana"...hmmm...wonder where my new e-mail address came from!!! That was such a hip item of clothing back in the day!!! So glad that the Cali crew made it to Virginia!!! I hope all of you will have a great wedding week filled with tonz of memories. Kristin...only 7 pairs...I suppose if you will be there a week, one pair a day is good! :) Ally, I bet you and your big sister will be the talk of the town this week!!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, August 15, 2005 1:31 PM CDT She is absolutely beautiful. Congratulations on your little jewel. Leilani Robello <leilanimay01@aol.com> Virginia Beach, VA USA - Monday, August 15, 2005 10:29 AM CDT Hi all! Talking a "moment" away from BABY/KID CARE to post a message! The CA PEEPS arrived right on schedule last night and we've been enjoying those close up smiles ever since! Ash and TG brought NALA over to greet 'the girls' and they were thrilled to see her! (she's the dog-child) Allyson slept on the plane ride across the U.S. and Morgan made cards and watched a DVD! They pretty much adapted to EAST COAST TIME and were "in bed" on schedule! Morgan had a somewhat restless night with 'dreams' and 'needing water' and 'wakeups' until she finally put herself in OUR BED! When I realized she was between us, it was 3A.M. and by that time I'd been up so frequently that I just let her stay! SLEEP prevailed! Allyson slept through the night with a minimum of wakeups early in the evening, so ALL WAS GOOD! Morgan played in her "GIANT" swimming pool this morning and splished and splashed and dunked her proud head UNDER to show all that she'd learned in her swimming lessons! Allyson played inside (the heat is oppressive again today) with Geep and her "toys"... Kristin is spending the day with Ashli and they are doing the table arrangments/placecards etc...and they met with the photographers at the church to scope out areas for photos next Saturday!! Ash, TG, and Kristin will all be here for dinner again tonight and we are having a "little family wedding gift-giving time" with a few surprises thrown in for the bride and groom!! After NAPS are over, it will be time to walk to the pond to feed the geese, play in the park, and throw sticks in the creek...all in THAT order, "says Morgan"....she told me that "Allyson would have to stay her stroller, Geep would have to push her, and she and I would be the leaders of the line." (I think the girl has it all figured out!!!) Enjoying every moment and the "best part" is that this will last for two whole weeks!! Whahoo!!! Now, that's the way to spend the last two weeks of SUMMER in "my book"...before I'm back to "the school books" for real!! Thinking and praying for the McKays....and I'm sending out big wishes to them for hope, and strength, and continued courage. Love to all of you, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T MAT :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 2:22 PM CDT Oh my gawd! Is Ally one of the happiest babies anyone has ever seen? This is truly amazing; with all that this fantastic BABY has endured, she is about the happiest one I have ever seen! What a tribute to these families! I am overwhelmed with the latest pictures. I can't wait to hold Ally again and make her smile, and play with Morgan - maybe in the pool! This makes for excitin' times for all the Matuses and Georges and friends. Keep up the most incredible work driven by an even more incredible love and loyalty to family - what a tribute! Love, Pam Thompson ("Auntie Pammie") Pam Thompson <pamelatc@cox.net> Fairfax, VA USA - Saturday, August 13, 2005 9:40 PM CDT Hey everyone! I hope you guys have a good trip and have fun in Virginia/DC! I'm excited because there is a chance I might be able to meet Ally! We'll see. :o) Anyway, I hope you have fun, and congrats in advance to Ashli and Tom- the big day's coming soon! Have Fun! You're always in our prayers! ~Lizzy Knippler (Christina's sis) <lizzywiz18@cox.net> Fairfax, VA USA - Saturday, August 13, 2005 3:54 PM CDT Hi everyone! "All my bags are packed....I'm ready to go...just standing here beside the door.....la la la la la...leaving on a jet plane..!!!" The GIRLS are airborne! Whahoooo!! Kristin called from LAX to let us know that she was NOT part of the airport evacuation this morning!! Only terminal 5...reason unknown. Watch the nightly news to find out!! Kristin said she turned her ONE FAT SUITCASE into two smaller ones as the big one was not manageable with two little girls, car seat, stroller, backpack, tickets....etc! She has her "airport drill" perfected and she and Morgan get their 'stuff' through security with break-neck-speed! And, Allyson just plugs along like the little trooper she is! Geep and I made our early morning trek to WEGMAN's (if you don't know what a WEGMAN's is I cannot give it full justice in this message...suffice to say, it is the GRANDEST grocery store around!) for more groceries than I've seen in a very long time!! We have stocked up for 'the week'...and the week "after"...!!! I did not leave one MORSEL unturned! We have dinosaur shaped chicken nuggets and green WIGGLES noodles and sweet potato french fries!! What more could a little girl want to eat??? BLUE ICE CREAM????!! You probably cannot tell that I'm excited, can you??? I hope everyone enjoys this weekend as much as we are! And, then the NEXT weekend will be the real icing on the CAKE!!! Keep "storming heaven" with prayers for John McKay! FIVE HOURS FROM NOW the BLUE BALLOON will ARRIVE at the airport!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Saturday, August 13, 2005 11:16 AM CDT Greetings to everyone!!! THERE ARE NO MORE DAYS! Tomorrow is the DAY the "CA PEEPS" arrive and I couldn't be any more excited! Ashli's DRESS is now 'residing' in my bedroom WAITING for the 20th, and it came with a FORMED BODY so it sort of RESEMBLES a PERSON hanging from the ceiling wearing a pretty dress!! Thanks for all the "styrofoam cooler" suggestions, but THANK HEAVEN FOR 7/11!!! They are the STYROFOAM CAPITAL of Northern VA!!! DONE! I spoke with Kristin and Morgan yesterday and Morgan 'assured me that she would only have to ride ONE airplane to get to my house' and that I would have her a BLUE BALLOON on a STICK when I came to the airport! I certainly better not forget that BLUE BALLOON!! Allyson's "crack me up" smile is too contagious!!! It just makes me smile to see her and I can hardly wait to hear her CLEARLY SAID NEW WORD: "Mama"...Kristin says she repeats it over and over. I know that is MUSIC to her ears, and pretty soon, she'll be saying "Daddy" and "Morgan" (wonder if Morgan will come out like "Mo-ga"??) And, then of course, we'll work on ALL THE REST OF HER EXCESSIVE COMMUNICATION GENE VOCABULARY!!! Thank you for continuing to pray for the McKay/Crandall families as they meet the challenges facing them. Looking forward to seeing many of you during the coming days! Good luck to all of you who are back in school, or have children starting classes this week! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T Mat :) and to my former students...SUMMER READING TIME IS OVER!!! How did you do??? terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Friday, August 12, 2005 11:50 AM CDT I was 30444 and I turn 35 today, but I'd rather say I'm thirty! I call this the mammogram birthday because I guess I'll have to start doing those now - yuk!! The pictures of Ally cracking up are just the best! Happy travels Kristin. Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Friday, August 12, 2005 8:36 AM CDT Heeeeeyyyyy... I was #30429. I am 30 and my birthday is 4-29. How cool is that?!!??! Ally, I thought you'd like that. I also thought you might be the only one not to question whether or not I am actually 30 ;) NO MORE DAYS!! Safe, happy, hassle-free travels to you all - I can't wait to see you! Tons of love... Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Friday, August 12, 2005 6:22 AM CDT If no one has said it or seen it....what a beautiful smile..aka...ha ha ..and "YOU THOUGHT THAT I WOULD BE ONLY Ok..WELL LET ME TELL YOU... I AM ONE THE SMARTEST LIL' KID IN THE WORLD AND, ....SO FAR, I HAVE WON MANY BATTLES...AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO...SO WAIT UNTIL THE NEXT TIME YOU SEE ME, CUZ MY MOMMIE AND DADDY ARE DOING ALL THESE NEAT THINGS TO HELP ME ALONG WITH ALL THE GOOD DOCTORS AND THERAPHISTS... I AM SO HAPPY I AM PART OF THIS WONDERFUL PAIR OF PARENTS AND EXTENDED FAMILY AND FRIENDS...RIGHT NOW I PLAN ON JUST KEEP ON SAYING "...MAMA...MAMA. MAMA.." AND SOON I WILL BE SAYING "DADA"...IT IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME... I LOVE ALL OF YOU AND THANK YOU FOR BEING PART OF MY SUPPORT SYSTEM....CAN' WAIT TO BE AT THE WEDDING OF MY FAVORITE AND EVER-LOVING AUNT. ASHWEE...OR WHATEVR....LOVE TO ALL OF YOU...ALLYSON GLENN KELSO..{btw...thanks, GEEP.._ Geep <jmatus@stginc.com> - Thursday, August 11, 2005 9:52 PM CDT IT just does NOT get any better than this> For REAL. LOVE you ALL, FOR REAL...A gin_! LOvE Teetay /terri /Mrs.M/TMAT :) SO... how "wow{ is this??? ;) SMILES!!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:53 PM CDT Hi, California Family, The new pictures of Miss AllyBeDally are just darling! What a precious "flirty" smile .. Aunt Ashwee got it just right! The healing / and the outcome are just one of God's small miracles here on earth -- & there are more to come. I give thanks every day for His watchcare and His loving gifts to all of us. How blessed we are! My prayers continue for the McKay family, of course. And Mark, I am so glad the "boom" didn't drop any debris over your part of the world. What a scarey thing that must have been! I had a fighter jet break the sound barrier over our heads once, and it was an awesome event ... the pilot got reprimanded, I do believe. But I doubt that NASA's crew heard a word, everyone was just so glad they came home in one piece! We are so looking forward to the wedding! Can't wait to see you all and to get our arms around the little folks! Love to you all, Aunt Dale & Uncle Loren Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:17 PM CDT Ok, the best things about this site other than all the Ally support.... 1) I learned where to get a copy of my MacDill AFB baptism cert through this site so I could hget married in the Catholic church and 2) Marcie told us where to get styrofoam coolers so Teetay didn't have to drive to every 7-11 in town and 3) I get to dish it back out to my babysitter of 28 years ago and CONFIRM that yes indeed she had an embroidered "name" and HOLLY leaves on her outfit. With that and her feathered hair, she was the BOMB! (And if you haven't seen her lately she is still one hot mom of 4 kids - seriously, she's beautiful!!) 4) I can brag that my bows were done before Teetay's. Ok, not fair because first, she had about twice as many and also TG helped (ok, he did like 6 of them) and also, I stayed up til 12 AM last night to finish so I could pretend to win 5) Hands down, mint chocolate chip is the best. When you're little and green is your favorite color, it's appealing. Then you get older and realize that the "natural" white Breyer's (yet still mint choc chip) is best. But at Christmas time, noting beats Ben & Jerry's Festivus special blend! I should probably go back to writing in 1st person. I am back. Maybe I was in the sun too long today. I have had the joy today of seeing Al's latest coy, rather FLIRT FLIRTY FLIRT smile(!) and the Ashlynn/Jack/Jay Crandell gang head off to school. What an awesome bunch of kids!! Anyway, the dress gets picked up tomorrow to hang on THE HOOK at the Matus home until next weekend and we're off and running with the Kelso gang arriving in town. CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU ALL -- AND PUT MY ARMS AROUND YOU!!! Happy packing and all that good stuff. Having fun yet?!??! K - Sorry I didn't meet TG sooner before you had to travel from CA with 2 kids but at least I beat Mark's bet that Morgan would be my maid of honor and not a flower girl. It's really better this way ;) xoxoxoxooxoxoxooxox Ash, TG, Nala "Jean" and Peeve-y "Poo" (KDMK - joke names for you, of course...) <ashliagm@aol.com> ridiculously HOT HUMID Washington DC, - Thursday, August 11, 2005 4:07 PM CDT I am absolutely amazed at how wonderful Allyson looks. You can barely see any scarring which is wonderful. I bet you are so relieved to be on the other side of the surgery. I know after Michael's I was happy to be in the recovery part. They do have styrofoam coolers at Total Beverage.. Also Terri check out who signed Michael's caringbridge site last. www.caringbridge.com/va/michael Michael doesn't get too many visitors now that he is doing so much better, but this one was so cool. Marcie McCauley <threesenof@aol.com> Chantilly, VA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 2:33 PM CDT Greetings to everyone! RIBBONS DONE! (read my last entry to know what that means!!) Ten days "out" from the wedding date and the weather forecast is a high of 88 with 40% 'scattered thundershowers'...THEY say that brings LUCK to a couple when it RAINS on their wedding day. Now, if that isn't the STUPIDEST thing you've ever heard???! THAT 40% "chance" is surely going to be somewhere ELSE in the area and NOT on Massachusetts Avenue in DC!! The CA peeps arrive Saturday and we are SO READY! I will have to remember to get a BLUE BALLOON since Morgan told me before I left CA that I "always" bring her a BLUE BALLOON to the airport! I do always BRING A BALLOON, but I don't think they are always BLUE! However, this time, BLUE IT IS!!! (she's into "blue"...BLUE BALLOONS...BLUE ICE CREAM...and she even ASKs for BLUE SKITTLES!!) Allyson will not care what COLOR her balloon is!!! I always anticipate the "airport run" - -- -Geep and I stoop down, Morgan sees us...RUNS like crazy and we pick her up and twirl her around!!! IT SIMPLY ROCKS!! Best I get to my errands now...I have a "short list" today, but it has very IMPORTANT tasks on it...like finding styrofoam COOLERS for the limos/shuttle busses....do you know how hard it is to find STYROFOAM coolers anymore???? (the throw away kind??) If anyone has a few of those sitting around your garage, send them my way!! Happy THURSDAY to all from a very happy "mother of the bride"....!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs.M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 8:34 AM CDT ALLRIGHT ALREADY!!!!!!! Monogrammed overalls????.....EEGADS!! I think I remember them though...that is scary....they had my name and some "holly leaves" beside them - can you say hideous? And yet, I was SO PROUD I'm sure. I am confident my attire would rate over 100% on the DORK-O-METER!! Thanks, Ashli, for giving me a laugh...I think I may need to thumb through some old photos and see what I find!!! :-) Geep, I have had that silly cotton candy ice cream before, and it is nasty! My kids can compete with Morgan on the 7-8 licks and they're done. Age is helping though, and they are slowly seeking the flavors they know/love vs. what looks the most attractive (THANK GOODNESS). Poor Jack, he recently ordered lemon custard and it was really bad. He cried and said I should have just ordered chocolate chip cookie dough! Who knew? The poor dear. Can you see me with my crowd...all four kids in tow and EVERYONE has to have a sample before they can possibly make a decision??? The Crandell clan can beat anyone on extreme lengths of time to place an order...it doesn't matter if I have "prepped" them or taken "pre-orders" ...it's all so different when we are actually AT the counter and being waited on!!! HA But hey....the kids are sweet and so appreciate their sweet treats and the pure THRILL of getting their own cone! Isn't that most of the fun?? Love up on your sweethearts and kids....life is so precious. Sending everyone Texas sized hugs....I'm off to bed...tomorrow is the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL!!!!! Hol Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 9:36 PM CDT BTW, for all you peeps in Allyson Land...When I had to finish up the last ice cream cone with Morgan, it WAS NOT Bubble Gum..it was reallllly yummmmmy PINK and BLUE...now get this, """"COTTON CANDY"""" flavored...not bad either...I think it was more the colors than the flavor.... Geep Geep (aka Jerry Matus) <jmatus@stginc.com> - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 1:49 PM CDT The B2B has finally lost it! Ash, you crack me up. AND - while I don't have 12 (good grief) pairs of black boots, you have given me a goal to shoot for. I think I am up to 4 pairs (and yes, I wear them all too). Happy countdown to the "wedding of the year" (again, I beg to differ on this - HA)!!!!!! To the Kelso clan - have a great and SAFE flight. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox Former B2B, aka Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 10:51 AM CDT Ok, the B2B is still out here! Sorry for the lack of posting :) A few things from these recent guest book posts: 1) First and foremost, although my sister might have more shoes in total than I(hard to imagine), I will challenge anyone on their black boot collection and being able to justify having 12 (is it 12??) pairs of black boots. And yes, I wear them all :) 2) Holly, I came across some pics of us with our mom's and Kristin and I were wearing our rabbit fur coats (yes, they were real, Pamela-Peta-sleezeygirl!) and you, Miss Holly, were in OVERALLS. I think they were monogrammed on the chest too. One word for that... HOT. But the best was also having the plastic treehouse people toy in the pic - that thing rocked! I wonder if we were all wearing our maroon "leather" big rubber wedged heel boots with the fur coats?? Surely we had on some plaid pleated shirt - AWESOME!!! 3) Teetay will definitely finish the bow-tying programs before me. 100% guaranteed. ;) I am not crafty, njever claimed to be, have no patience for it and don't care to be.... But if anyone wants to see my "full day" wedding itinerary, you'll see that I am the Master of all details, proudly a control freak about it, and there's a reason my friends call me "Monica" (a la Friends character!). 4) I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU ALL IN A FEW DAYS, KDMK, MORGY AND AL!!!! That will be the BEST and totally rock! Much love to you all.. love the new pics, or course... and I would have liked that sweet sticky blue ice cream DONE. Didn't I always like that nasty sweet crap??? Yummmmm.... IS IT GOOD?? (that was for you, K ;) xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox See you soon.... 10 days to go until the "wedding of the year" (and then we can all stop talking about it... no wait, we'll talk about how great it WAS after the fact! Right?!??!). I even think Uncle Tommy is getting excited!!! Nala too! She said she can't wait for me to officially be her mommy! Ok, now I am getting weird and totally procratinating so off I go before I totally lose it. See you SATURDAY!!!! Love you lots! Aunt Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington , DC - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 8:01 AM CDT We got a nice early morning "heart-attack" style wakeup this morning. At exactly 0505 (that's 5:05 AM for you civilian types) we heard a loud, earthshattering, house rattling boom. I sat straight up in bed, said "what the HE** was THAT?" and thought a car had hit us or something. I checked all the rooms to make sure the kids were okay and checked downstairs to see what damage we had. Couldn't see a thing. When kristin turned the news on, we found out that the space shuttle had landed at Edwards AFB. That's not too far from us. Anyway, on the approach to Edwards it passed directly over Ventura, about 5 miles away. I've heard sonic booms before, up close and personal thanks to your taxpayer dollars converting gasoline into noise and speed. I've never heard a Mach 3 sonic boom, which is about what the shuttle was traveling at when it passed overhead. The shuttle usually lands in Florida, but bad weather forced the return to California. Anyway, thanks NASA for the too-early wake-up! Interestingly, they flew over us due to safety. Here's what the news said "The shuttle skirted Los Angeles because of new public safety considerations in the wake of the Columbia disaster, which rained debris onto Texas and Louisiana." I guess debris falling on us is better than it falling on LA? Mark Kelso <mark.kelso@verizon.net> Port Hueneme, CA - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 8:47 PM CDT Hi there. Just checked in to see the girls and had to write...I can totally relate to the big sis huggin and squeezing thing...my daughter just can't seem to leave my son alone. poor little guy!! and the bubble gum ice-cream. too funny but also my daughter's favorite...she does however eat the whole thing. see you next saturday! jan Jan DeFalco <jan.defalco@salliemae.com> - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 8:19 PM CDT Hi everyone! I've just returned HOME from a "day with Ashli" organizing the programs for the "wed" and tying ribbons around them! I now KNOW why "vendors" who do this as their JOB charge so much! It is slow-going-tedious 'work'...but we had fun doing it and are about 1/3 finished. I brought a STACK home to do, and left Ashli with her stack. We're going to have a 'race' to see who finishes first!!! We also visited the HOTEL again today to actually see the HOSPITALITY ROOMS that we will inhabit for the four day weekend. The rooms are enormous with lots of amenities and beautiful DC/Georgetown views! Plenty of room the wedding visitors to stop by, sip, snack, meet, greet, and hang out! And, there will be plenty of space for the children to play with their "special wedding weekend toys/crafts"...!! I have the COOLEST stuff picked out for them! And, WHO doesn't like BLUE BUBBLE GUM ICECREAM????? That was the flavor Morgan got the last time I was with her at an ice cream outing...and GEEP had to finish it off that time!! Yes, she is a "six licks" girl and she doesn't even need to 'worry about her waistline'...!!! Maybe in about a year she and ALLYSON can 'share' the BLUE ICECREAM CONE and actually FINISH ONE! There have been MANY phone calls between Virginia/DC/California these past few days COORDINATING everything for the weekend! There will be 'informal gatherings' Thursday for the early arrivals, and of course, Friday is the big day for the BRIDESMAIDS' luncheon, and the REHEARSAL and dinner following! Then, WAH-LAH, we are to SATURDAY, the big event day complete with transporation schedules to/from the church and back to hotel. DC 'traffic' can be a bit daunting to out of towners, so we are shuttling people to and fro for their comfort and EASE!!! (but...if they miss the bus???? Hmmmmm...it's a pretty LONG walk!!!) We are continuing to keep John McKay in our BEST thoughts and prayers. Thank you for joining us in that effort. There is such strength NUMBERS, so let's keep on "storming Heaven" with our prayers for John's comfort! Holly and her family are VERY important people to us. Lots of kids are starting back to school this week! I wish all of you the BEST beginning of the year. My actual SCHOOL year with students begins after Labor Day, so I have a couple of weeks left of the summer! I still get the same excitement Labor Day 'night' that I always have anticipating the new students and all the 'firsts' that occur in the beginning of the new year. That's why teaching is the greatest 'job' in the world...it is the only job that allows you to have a CLEAN PAGE every year and 'start over'...always the opportunity to make it better!! If anyone lives near me and would like to come over and tie little ribbons on wedding programs, I will certainly OPEN THE DOOR for you to help! It took almost three hours to do 70 programs....it was FUN, right Ash? Talked to Kristin today...she was at the MALL 'a-gin' today...probably buying more SHOES!!! :) Love to all of you and I cannot wait to get my arms around the two little angels whose faces appear on this website! Thank you all for being on this journey with us. Have a great rest of the week as I continue to countdown til "Saturday"...!!! Wheeeeee!!! Arrival late afternoon!!!! Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M / T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 5:21 PM CDT Dearest Kristin, Thank you for the recent update, for the great new pics and for continuing to petition for prayers for Dad. You are right, God is listening, and I know your preciuos readers and Ally followers are keeping us tight...we feel it!! There are so many things I have wanted to type out in response to all your information but what it comes down to is YOU AMAZE ME! I still remember tucking you and Ashli into bed on a babysitting adventure (it was never a job...always an adventure) and how sweet you all were. I knew then how exciting it would be to be a mom one day and ... it is!! I remember how your rooms were positioned in the house on Pearson street and how I would love to help you pick out clothes for the school days ahead. Teetay always did such a fantastic job of buying sweet clothes and shoes....little did we know your shoe fettish continues!!! HA I think Miss Catherine has a shoe fettish. Todd and I took her to buy shoes the other day and every pair she "attached" herself to, her Daddy felt compelled to buy...see if I take him with me next time...who cares if there is a sale going on....he didn't save me much!!! HA As I logged on to look at the update, Catherine toddled in the room and said "oooh" at Ally's picture. Then...I scrolled over to the "other pics" and when we got to Morgan's ice cream picture, Catherine squealed with delight then starting doing her "eat" and "please" hand signals. OH NO!!! Question...did any of that pretty blue ice cream end up on Morgan's fancy white shirt? EEEK!!! Dad is doing okay. He is stable and comfortable and home and thoroughly enjoyed the chaos of all the "cousins" and relatives being in town this past weekend. We had lots of laughs. One huge laugh came when we got some mail from your mom. There was a picture of Geep and Dad cuttin' a rug. Their attire was hilarious and the pic just made us all laugh so hard!! HA Your Mom also included some Rally for Ally bracelets and wallet pictures of the girls....thank you!!! The kids are all starting school Thursday...I can't believe it. I will be sad and happy all at the same time. We are having a "Boo Hoo, Ya Hoo" breakfast after dropping off the kids on Thursday morning....I think I will associate with both feelings. The boys are in different classes this year and have "dream teachers". I think two new love affairs will be blossoming soon!!! Ashlynn will meet her teacher tomorrow night and she is excited about starting her new school. Having come from a uniform school she and I had a grand adventure buying "fun" clothes. We brought a whole new meaning to "overboard". OH WELL!!!! Well, I will be thinking of you all the way to VA(including the packing...take Anna's advice...I ALWAYS pack a separate bag for shoes...I have choice at home...why not on the road?). Know that we love you dearly and miss you so much! Hugs from me to you - Texas sized of course,\ Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 12:59 AM CDT Morgan...How did you manage to not get a single drop of blue ice cream on your pretty white shirt???Grant will NEVER get chocolate ice cream in a cone because he has heard his mama say too many times..."CHOCOLATE STAINS!!!" My mother-in-law died laughing when she took the kids for ice cream and he told her he couldn't get chocolate because it leaves stains! Blue bubblegum ice cream...hmmmmm.....not sure I would have finished that one either Kristin!!! We just got home from meeting Madeline's VERY YOUNG third grade teacher! She was just as sweet as she could be and Madeline was mesmerized by her beautiful long brown hair! All the way home she kept telling me how beautiful she was and that she couldn't wait to go to school!!! I hope she keeps singing that tune all year long!!! Ally, I am so glad that you and your mommy have a break from doctor visits this week so she can get all of her shoes packed for the trip!!:) Your Teetay is counting down the days until she gets her arms around all of you!!Well, speaking of doctor visits, I have to take Camden to see Dr. "Go-Go" this afternoon. His name is Dr. Hidalgo but the boys could never say his name when they were learning how to talk so it came out "Go Go". It has stuck to this day!! Anyway, I think he may have external swimmer's ear. I keep telling Greg he probably got it when he let those boys swim in the river!!! Hopefully, it will feel better soon! Happy Packing....Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 12:49 AM CDT HI all, I'm sorry I have not posted in a while, but I have been checking in on you guys. Things are a little crazy here. Jack broke a tooth last night! He was balancing himself on the baby's big plastic tub and he fell. It hit him in the mouth and broke his tooth! Luckily it is his baby tooth and it looks like we may not need to do anything - have to wait and see how sensitive it is over the next week (the tooth broke close to the nerve). Anyway, Kristin I wanted to wish you a good flight. I hope it goes by FAST. Someone once told me that the most important thing a baby can do on an airplane so that their ears don't hurt while you take off/land is to chew or move their gums up and down. I always thought it was the sucking/swallowing that relieved the pressure. Anyway, I would always try and get Jack to open and close his mouth as part of game. Hope that tip helps. Safe travels!! Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 9:49 AM CDT OK...who was the BIG 30...i.e. 30000 hitter on the web site...I checked earlier in the day, and we had 24 to go and now, 11:30 PM EDT..we are up to 30K plus 40-something...we really appreciate all your viewings and silent moments, even if you don't post...today, JIM KELLY, New England Patriots quarter back who lost 4 consecutive Super Bowls, lost his son, died at the age of 8,after suffering from a rare form of MD...and he said, to some effect, "HE CHANGED THE WORLD" as so much was learned clinically and emotionly in pulling people together, generating and renewing love and relationships, just as ALLYSON HAS DONE FOR US in the last 7 months... each and everyone of you is appreciated more than ever...and yes, I don't post much, as it is a "TEETAY and DAUGHTERS gene, not mine, that can say it all so much "better"....wishing John and his family continued comfort and Allyson continuted success in her care and on her journey...I remain the "GEEP" Jerry/Geep <ispy1942@aol.com> - Monday, August 8, 2005 10:40 PM CDT Kristin...glad to hear we have something in common!!! From one shoe diva to another...Happy Monday!!! Hug...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, August 8, 2005 2:33 PM CDT Hi all and esp. Anna-Banana formerly known at "the chief" of RAINWATERS! I died laughing at your shoe comment...you just don't know that Mark calls KRISTIN "Imelda Marcous" (the former female President of the Phillipines) because she has so many PAIRS of SHOES!!! (I think Imelda once claimed over 5000 pairs of shoes) So, your comment really HIT THE SPOT! Thinking of you all today and wishing everyone a good week! I am 'wishing my week away' so that the GIRLS will get here FASTER!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) Hey "former students"....summer is almost over...have you finished your SUMMER READING???? How was it???!! Good luck to you as you begin high school! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Monday, August 8, 2005 10:28 AM CDT Good morning, California family! Just checked in after a few days, and learned all about the anatomy of the sphincter muscles of Precious AllyBeDally! Kristin, you have amassed tons of physiology and anatomy at this point. I am so glad you are young and can keep all those facts in your head! Have to confess that mine spins a bit trying to grasp it all! I am sorry that there is yet another problem with which to cope, of course! But Thank God, there are ways to solve and fix problems of this magnitude that probably weren't there when Terri, Leslie, you and Ashli were born! When I think back to some of the more "primitive" ways things were done in those days, balanced against the knowledge and technology of today's medicine, I continue to be amazed! I loved all the pictures, but that precious one of Miss MAK and Miss AllyBeDally having a tea party was THE cutest! And I think Allyson's face is looking more and more beautiful as the healing days go by! I can't wait to see them and give them hugs and kisses at the wedding! Tell Miss MAK that Aunt Grammy is going to bring a couple of special things to play with her! :) We send our love and kisses to you all! Aunt Grammy and Uncle Loren Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Monday, August 8, 2005 8:47 AM CDT Hello sweet Ally....Have you and your sister had any more tea parties??? I am finally home from a week and a half of travel and I am exhausted. This is Madeline's last week of summer before she heads off to third grade. The boys still have 2 more weeks. I know I will be shedding tears when my babies go to kindergarten!:( Greg started his new job today so it is a little quieter than usual with him not working from home! I miss him already. Mr. McKay...If you are reading this, I want you to know that I talk with God about you everyday! I pray that you are feeling better each day and that you are enjoying being surrounded by family. DR. Kristin, I will be praying for you as you prepare to pack for your family to head to Ashli's wedding. It is hard enough packing for yourself, but then packing for kids too, whew! that is a day's work!!! And if you are anything like me, I need a separate suitcase just for my shoes!!! My hubby doesn't understand why I have to have so many different shoes...he obviously does not know fashion!:) Love him anyway!!!! Well, I am doing laundry and labeling school supplies so I must run. Just wanted to check in on Miss Ally and see her cute little smile today! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <anna.banana3@hotmail.com> - Monday, August 8, 2005 8:47 AM CDT Happy Sunday to everyone! I just cannot stop LOOKING at Allyson 'dressed so chic in black/white'...she must be practicing wearing designer clothing for Aunt Ashli's wedding debut!!! We are busily preparing for "the girls' arrival" next Saturday! Geep is putting together Allyson's exersaucer as I write so that she will have "choices" of SITTING PLACES while she's here! Next comes the high chair! It is a beautiful sunny day in Virginia, but the heat has subsided so we are no longer sweltering! Prayers continue to go out for John McKay and family. John has visited with many relatives and friends during this past weekend and has enjoyed the company of all. He is stable and in the good care of Hospice and his family. John reads this website, so let him know you are praying for him and wishing him courage and strength in the days ahead. Have a beautiful weekend! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay / Mrs. M/ T-Mat :)!! ONLY 13 days to go until "Here Comes the Bride" DAY!!!!:) terrimatus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v USA - Sunday, August 7, 2005 10:37 AM CDT Happy Friday!!!!!! It is a wonderful 85 degrees without the recent humidity and it is absolutely beautiful outside. Kristin, it sounds like you should have gone to UVA Medical School. Holy cow! After I read the first paragraph I was thinking.....so what does this really mean?? (Ok really I was thinking I must not understand English because it was like reading a foreign language.) Ally does not seem to bothered by the latest medical discoveries and she is just as cute as a button. Of course, Morgan and her curls get prettier every day! So how old does Tyler have to be before he proposes? Hee Hee! We are spending the weekend packing for our upcoming move. The movers have just been hired today and I have scored a ton of boxes from the warehouse at work. The closing on the new house has been moved up a few days to August 25th so that should give us plenty of time to go back and clean the old house once everything is moved out. Lots of exciting times ahead!!! As a recent bride, I know EXACTLY what Ashli is working on in these last few days before the WEDDING OF THE YEAR (I beg to differ on that one). It is all fun and exciting but can be a bit stressful too. I hope everything goes smoothly and I can't wait to see pictures of the beautiful bride, matron of honor, and flower girl. Since we are unable to make the wedding, my parents will have to be our stand-ins. After all, they have know Ashli (and Kristin)since 1986 :):):) Hugs and kisses to everyone!!!!!!! Aim-a-lita <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Friday, August 5, 2005 1:11 PM CDT Once again I am back for a brief moment. I am leaving to go to my husband's 25th highschool reunion in Nacogdoches. For you non-Texans...that is in East Texas and is affectionately known as "The Pineywoods". I feel like I have been living out of a suitcase for a week, but it has been a blast. The kids had fun at Dinosaur Valley and the boys are convinced there are dinosaurs lurking around Texas! They swam in the Paluxy River which nearly gave mommy a heart attack when a water snake came swimming by!!!! They were being BOYS!!! We traveled to Dublin,Texas and went to the Dr.Pepper Museum and bottling company. The kids thought it was so cool to watch how they bottle the drink!! We had a great time just being together as a family and making some fun memories. It has been a difficult summer for our family but thankfully, God has seen us through. We praise him and give him all glory for that! And now to Miss Ally....I want to come and play tea party with you and Morgan! When Madeline and I have tea parties we like to say, "Pinky's Up!" right before we take that first sip of tea!!! (or air!) You have made the rounds with your visits to the doctor. You are one tough little cookie! I pray that all of your doctors will treat you like royalty. Know that all of your family is in my prayers as you prepare for the "WEDDING OF THE YEAR!!" What a fun time all of you will have celebrating love!!! Well, I must go and pack..AGAIN!! Hugs from Texas....Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Friday, August 5, 2005 9:42 AM CDT Good morning from Texas!!!!! Wow....those pictures are amazing. Morgan, Allyson, you two are just THA CUTEST!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE the tea party...am sure there will be many more to come!! :-) Wish my two girls could join in...am sure Morgan would stay busy because they drink a lot!!! HA Just wanted to wish all of the Matus and Kelso clans all the best for the weekend...we know you are the countdown toward the EVENT OF THE YEAR!!! Have fun and enjoy! Lots of hugs - Texas sized of course - from our family to yours. We love ya'll!!! Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Friday, August 5, 2005 9:40 AM CDT Good Morning to all! As I read the latest guestbook entry I am amazed that "it would appear" that Kristin is now getting a MEDICAL DEGREE alongwith everything else she's learning! When she was explaining it to me, I was asking her for LAYMAN's terms so I could "understand it"...!! It is so very interesting what we are all learning about the 'insides' of our own bodies that we never knew! Again, Allyson is teaching us all! LOVE those pictures...the tea party is especially endearing. There will probably be 'many times' that Allyson will NOT give 'her cup' to Morgan to fill! I am certain Morgan will PERSIST! She LOVES her tea parties and requires that EVERYONE have "tea" in their cups....ready or not!!! Thinking of you all today, and especially Big John McKay! Hold on 'tight' to your family!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M / TMat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Friday, August 5, 2005 6:56 AM CDT LOVE the new pics, Dr. Mommy Kristin! :) Jeez Louise, I mean, you have always been super smart but now you're really scaring me! hee hee ;) Ok, uh, the Allly black and white!?!? Can she scoot down the aisle in that outfit? If so, she's in the weddin! Lots of love to you all and SEE YOU SOON!! Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Friday, August 5, 2005 6:03 AM CDT Thank YOU, Crystal, for the beautiful poem! It really touched my heart. Yesterday, I had a "sort of best day feeling" because I accomplished many things on my never-ending "list" ---and even though many of those "things" were minute by nature, I felt "content" that they were DONE! And, to savor in those moments of spending a good, solid day accomplishing something no matter how great or how small makes each day the significant gift that it is! Thanks for the beautiful poem saying all of that!! And, as Ashli said in her 'thank you RALLY letter'..."life is all about planting trees under whose shade you never expect to sit".... But, we KNOW in our hearts....SOMEONE will "sit" under those trees!!! I wish everyone a spectacular day! It is a hot, muggy, and GORGEOUS BLUE SKY DAY in Virginia! My 'classroom' is ready to RE-enter in late August, the "piles" of stuff to take to the hotel for the wedding weekend are pretty organized, Morgan's and Allyson's clothes are put away in the chest of drawers (Kristin sent them early), and I've just purchased 'treats' for one 4 year old, Wiggles macaroni, and the BELOVED JUICE BOXES!!! We're getting "readier" by the day, and counting them FAST!!! Love to all...and again, thank YOU Crystal, for the meaningful message. Your spirit is with us. Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) (and to my students..there is no such word as "readier"...laugh!) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, v us - Thursday, August 4, 2005 11:42 AM CDT Good morning, California Family! What wonderful pictures are on the website right now! I especially loved Precious Miss MAK's attitude about who's to drive the plane! Go Girl! As for Uncle Josh, I know ALL of you were so happy to have him and Mark's other mates back from their "roll about in the ocean!" (not to minimize their wonderful naval duties, of course!) Uncle Josh looks great, and I know he's happy to be reunited with his "CA extended fam"! We're all getting quite excited about August 20th, of course! The days seem to be flying by ... but maybe for those in the last minute throes of "wedding frantics" - it may seem like not ENOUGH days left! Today was a milestone day, and I've just had my big cry. Zachary and Whitney, Les & Randy, headed off today for Harbins Elementary to meet and greet their kindergarten teachers, take in those big bags of school supplies, along with their summer fun sheets showing how many of the activities suggestsed they did! THEY DID THEM ALL! Les and Randy weren't crying, and I managed to hold back the big lump in my throat until they were safely out the door, in the van and on the way! No more babies in Georgia!:( But they're READY and they're excited, and Grammy will survive! Precious AllyBeDally, I can't wait to get my arms around you and love on you, and I'm counting the days! Precious Miss MAK, Aunt Grammy can't wait to "play stuff" with you ... If Teetay will give me a turn! :) And just maybe there will be time for me to give Kristin and Mark a big hug as well! Love to you all, Aunt Grammy Hugs and Love to all of you! Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 10:57 AM CDT Hope all is great with you all. Someone sent this to me this morning and I thought of your family. Enjoy the best day of you life, this day.....enjoy Today, when I awoke, I suddenly realized that this is the best day of my life, ever There were times when I wondered if I would make it to today; but I did! And because I did I'm going to celebrate! Today, I'm going to celebrate what an unbelievable life I have had so far: the accomplishments, the many blessings, and, yes, even the hardships because they have served to make me stronger. I will go through this day with my head held high and a happy heart. I will marvel at God's seemingly simple gifts: the morning dew, the sun, the clouds, the trees, the flowers, the birds. Today, none of these miraculous creations will escape my notice Today, I will share my excitement for life with other people. I'll make someone smile. I'll go out of my way to perform an unexpected act of kindness for someone I don't even know. Today, I'll give a sincere compliment to someone who seems down. I'll tell a child how special he is, and I'll tell someone I love just how deeply I care for them and how much they mean to me. Today is the day I quit worrying about what I don't have and start being grateful for all the wonderful things God has already given me. Today I'll remember that to worry is just a waste of time because my faith in God and his Divine Plan ensures everything will be just fine. And tonight, before I go to bed, I'll go outside and raise my eyes to the heavens. I will stand in awe at the beauty of the stars and the moon, and I will praise God for these magnificent treasures. As the day ends I will lay my head down on my pillow, I will thank the Almighty for the best day of my life. And I will sleep the sleep of a contented child, excited with expectation because I know tomorrow is going to be the best day of my life, ever! Crystal Register <jbrdregister@atmc.net> Southport, NC USA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 8:39 AM CDT Good Morning to everyone! Just a 'few more days' and the CA peeps will be here to start the ball rolling on Ashli's wedding festivities!! Kristin and "the girls" arrive NEXT Saturday. Mark will come the following week. Kristin and Ash will have some "sister bonding time" in preparation of the BIG DAY! I will be on "Teetay duty" with the little girls. I have many surprises in store for them including a new swimming pool that I am sure Morgan will be able to JUMP in since her swimming lessons! It was good to hear the updates on Allyson's latest appointments and know that there are DATES scheduled for the next two surgeries - finger diffusion and the cleft palate closure. Our calendars are MARKED!!! The weather has PROMISED to cooperate for Ashli's wedding day, so we are not expecting HOT HOT temperatures! It will be wonderful seeing everyone "together" in the SAME ROOM!!! Have a good rest of YOUR summer...and to my "former students" I hope you have already finished your HIGH SCHOOL REQUIRED READING and are enjoying some down time!!! I miss you all! I went to room 216 yesterday to "get it fixed up" for the NEW GROUP and I could still see your lingering 'faces' and 'smiles' and 'personality' left in those chairs!!! I wish you the best as you begin your high school journey! Please keep John McKay in your thoughts. As his dear wife and my good friend, Char, said the other day: "He's a fighting soldier, and he's giving his recovery his best shot." Keep him close in prayer. Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 6:32 AM CDT Morning! I had a nice chat with Mark yesterday on my way home from work. I am looking forward to the update on Ally's appointments. I hope everyone is having a great week! Love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Aims <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 6:47 AM CDT WOW!!!How much did I miss????ALOT!!! I got home late from my Colorado trip last night. I had the best time just being silly girls with my college roomies! I did have a couple of glitches though...1. I got altitude sickness(not drinking enough water!) 2. Drank ONE margarita and had a little trouble standing up(the AH-HA moment came when my friends told me that because I was not acclimated to the high altitude, drinking 1 margarita was really like having TWO!!) Thanks alot!!(Not enough water, too much margarita!!) Other than that, we had a blast. I am actually leaving on a 2 day trip with my hubby and kiddoes to Dinosaur Valley State Park and Fossil Rim! Its a short trip, but a much needed one for the kids. So, once again I will be off line but I will return!! Ally, you still have that cute little smile...I wanna see that TOOTH!!! And Kristin, in my heart, I think Ally did say MAMA!! Well, we are loading up to go so I gotta run...Hugs from Texas...Annna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 12:47 AM CDT Hiya Allyson. Man, you're looking so good for just having been through your lip repair. I'm pretty sure I don't have to tell your family how great of a job your docs did, because they already know it. ;0) And, Morgan looks like one proud big sis. I haven't been able to access the your website (yikes!) until I was able to figure out this new firewall we got. (so computer illiterate here....) Darren saw Allyson and Morgan's photo today and remembered them. Told me that the "two princesses" were cute. He called Morgan, "Cinderella", and Allyson, "pretty baby". I'm loving this age with him. They grow up too quickly. *sniff, sniff* Give those two girls big hugs from the folks in pineapple land..... And, to Teresa (Zemery's mom). Man, Zemery is one cute kiddo. He looks like he's so full of personality! I hope to someday have Darren and I meet you and Zemery at a convention in the future. God bless. ~Cat and clan Cat and clan <catpotter2001@yahoo.com> Honolulu, HI USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 0:29 AM CDT What a beautiful family picture of you all! Made my heart dance when i saw it! So glad that all of the GoldenHawks are back home with their families safely, especially "Uncle" Josh--what great pics with him. LOVE the pic with Morgan in front of the plane--that's just too cute that SHE wanted to be in the front flying the plane! Can't wait to see you all in just a few short weeks to celebrate the wedding of the year--yahoo!!!!!!!!!!! Miss you and love you TONS! Aunt Mer, Uncle Glenn, and Cousin Spencer Kennesaw, GA USA - Monday, August 1, 2005 4:28 PM CDT What glorious faces on this webpage! WELCOME HOME, Josh, and everyone!!! The smiles on those faces TELL IT ALL!!! There were some very happy REUNITED folks yesterday in Sunny California!!! Josh has been 'part of our extended family' for over ten years now, and his "two girls" will always think of him as "Uncle Josh"...!!! We are delighted that Josh will become a DC "area" resident after the first of the year! Now, we can REALLY BE FAMILY!!! The homecoming sounded wonderful! And, I know this week is a busy one for you with new appointments. We will be waiting for the news of Allyson's endoscopy tomorrow. Tell both Morgan and Allyson that Teetay has some 'special things' for them when they get to Virginia in two weeks! Hint..hint...Morgan....your special thing has PRINCESSES on it!!! (and you RIDE on the paths!!! Hint...hint...) And, Allyson...you "sit in yours" and "expand your mind and body in twelve different ways"....hint ...hint!!! I don't know what is more fun...the final last minute wedding preparations or the 'grandmother' preparations for two little girls???? Hmmmmm.......!!!?? Love to all and we are counting the days!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Monday, August 1, 2005 4:27 PM CDT I had to check in because knowing my sis, I KNEW there would be awesome new photos of the homecoming yesterday!! WELCOME HOME "UNCLE JOSH" (snuggle bunny! no worries gang, that's a rated G private joke!) - SOOO GLAD you're back safe and sound and we'll see you ALL really soon. xoxox Much love - Ash & TG <ashliagm@aol.com> - Monday, August 1, 2005 1:04 PM CDT HEEEEYYYYYY! This is the month... the month where that little event happens on the 20th and then we can all stop talking about it!! ;) HAPPY AUGUST and I can't wait to see Morgy-lu in her princess flower girl dress and Al-Pal in her special wedding dress and Kristin in her HOT TRON 'O HONOR dress and Bro, well, a nice suit??!?!? I will see you all in 11 days (dond't count today and don't count.... ok, you know the drill....) and I'll be waiting with open arms to greet you. TONS of love and hugs - hope the weekend was fun seeing all the people at the fly-in, albeit I know it was SUPER BUSY!!!! xoxooxoxoxooxoxooxoxoxoxoox Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Monday, August 1, 2005 7:53 AM CDT When there babies you cant get them to start talking..but as they grow then you cant get them to stop. kristin definatly deserves the "first word award" from ally from everything she has given to her. Hope the "after party" goes well..without the parentals!! have fun and i love the sister bonding photos since i dont get any at home with my brothers. love from the east to the west and everything inbetween. sarah- Sarah DeCenzo <jwdecenzo@aol.com> Fairfax, VA USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 6:27 PM CDT Good Morning to all and a HAPPY WEEKEND! ....so in the 'category' of "It doesn't get any better than this..." I dialed up the CALIFORNIA peeps this morning and a small voice answered with the words: "Hi Teetay!" It was Morgan-lu ANSWERING the PHONE for the first time, I think!!! She went on to tell me about her "swimming class graduation" yesterday, riding in a canoe and jumping out, and getting a GOOD SWIMMING REPORT CARD!!! All in FULL VOICE!!! And, in the BACKGROUND, I could hear Allyson SOUNDS so I asked Morgan to tell me what Allyson was saying....Her reply: "She's just saying her little words. She can't talk yet." So, in a nutshell, what a week it has been for the little ones! A tooth for Allyson...a "first word" (Ah-Mah!), and a GRADUATION from Swim Classes for Morgan!!! It's been a busy week..and then, of course, all the decorating and celebrating for the Squadron's HOMECOMING this weekend as well! I think Kristin and Mark have been a little BUSIER THAN USUAL!! (and "usual" is pretty busy!) Aunt Ashli is gearing up for her Bachelorette EAST COAST GIG tonight with the EAST COAST bridesmaids/friends! Geep and I were "invited" to come for the BEFORE DINNER PART, but not the AFTER DINNER PART....hmmmmmm????? Sounds like TOO MUCH FUN TO ME!!! We are busily getting 'things done' around the house before the wedding festivities begin in a couple of weeks!!! I hope your weekend is a great one. Continue, please, to hold John Mc close in prayer and thought. He's a courageous fighter. Love to all...and a BIG WELCOME HOME to the Point Magu friends!!! Welcome BACK to the USA!!!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Saturday, July 30, 2005 12:14 AM CDT Maybe she was trying to say NAH-LAH?!?!? :) OK, I AM KIDDING PEOPLE!! (but she does hear that enough from Morg!) HAPPY "MAMA" wording... of course that's what she's saying to the most awesome mommy/sister/friend in the world! Happy fly-in and homecoming for Uncle Josh and the rest of Mark's buds today - I know it will be a special weekend and we are thinking of you!! I'll have a cocktail in your honor tonight on my bachelorette outing ;) Lots of love and hugs to you all!!! Ash & TG <ashliagm@aol.com> - Saturday, July 30, 2005 9:40 AM CDT Soon after surgery I told Dad that Ally would now be able to say "mama", and gee, she has done it in her own way! How precious for you, Kristien. Now Mark, when her palate is closed Dada won't be far behind! Love to you all Lydia Kelso a.k. Grandma <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Friday, July 29, 2005 8:32 PM CDT Just a short note from #29000...it is "MAMA"...no matter what is sounds like....you are her life, blood, inspiration, and helper....thanks for being the greatest mother in the world... Love DAD Geep <jmatus@stginc.com> - Friday, July 29, 2005 8:19 PM CDT Hi all, It 'better' be AH-Mah!! Kristin has been the 'constant' in ALLYSON's life...she had 'better be the first word' she says!! What JOY! Love you girls in CA..and I wish for a VERY happy "fly in" tomorroow!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay akd Mrs.M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 7:53 PM CDT Good Morning to everyone! I want to wish the "Golden Hawks" a hearty WELCOME HOME tomorrow when they land at Point Magu! These are the men and women in Mark's squadron who have been deployed for the past six months! TOMORROW they arrive HOME! Mark is the Officer in Charge of the 'celebration' and he and Kristin have been working hard alongwith others to make this a grand moment! I know it will be great for them to REUNION with their buddies! Having met most of the wives in the past months, I am happy that each FAMILY will be reunited! Hugs and best wishes to all of you from this side of the pond! Please continue to keep the McKay/Crandall families in your prayers. John Mc is at home and surrounded by family and hospice care. He is a strong fighter and has a very determined spirit. Let's all remember that as we walk through the day and send some special words toward John in Austin, Texas! You've 'rallied' for our family, so please rally for these wonderful people during this very difficult time for them. Holly (if you don't know this by now) was my STUDENT in 1977 when she was in 7th grade. The friendship between our TWO families blossomed BECAUSE of her...and she was the one person who "introduced" Ashli to CARINGBRIDGE when Allyson was born suggesting that she 'might want to set up a site'....WELL! We SEE the results of that, don't we???! Thank you for thinking of my "adopted" families...the McKays and Crandalls. :) And, to Anna Rainwater and her folks...I continue to pray for each of you and Greg's complete recovery to good health!!! You are the friends we haven't met yet...but we will. And to everyone else out there...just more plain old THANK YOUS for being on this journey with us. Allyson's new smiles 'tells it all'...her spirit is vibrant, she has a wonderful big sister, mom and dad...and lots and lots of others who think of her everyday. YOU! I had a wonderful dream about my Mom and Dad last night. It made me smile. Have a great day wherever you are...hope it is cool and that blue skies envelope you! Ursula LeGuin said it best...."It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the JOURNEY that matters, in the end." Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Friday, July 29, 2005 6:53 AM CDT Kristin, It was really fun to see you and our Ally girl at work on Wednesday. Hopefully you were able to finish your shopping since you were only able to take five steps at a time when somebody else stopped to say hello to you and Allyson. We were happy to see you both. You know Allyson needs to spend some time with her Tias(Aunts) at the Exchange. From all the hits on the web I see it as you all have family all around the USA. Which is a great thing. Take care and have a good rest of the week.Always your Softline Girls !!!! Isabel Oxnard, CA - Friday, July 29, 2005 0:46 AM CDT Hey Kristin~ Thanks for the response to my questions on my post on the cA site, I thought I would try to contact you on here, a little more private. Please feel free to ask me anything about the g-tube, lord knows we have LOTS and LOTS of experience! My email is bstricklett@comcast.net or you could always call, I am just a mom, so always at home...303-655-7304. Ally looks GREAT!! The NAM did wonders for her! She looks stunning! It is so amazing the work that they do. I think that PS are like sculptors, they are really artists at work. Again, please feel free to contact us with anything, we just started with OT today, so maybe I can help you with the oral side as well. Talk to you soon~ Brandy Hannah Faiths mom Brandy Stricklett <bstricklett@comcast.net> Brighton, CO USA - Thursday, July 28, 2005 9:12 PM CDT Dear Ally and Morgan, I saw Teetay today and she can't wait for you to get on the airplane and visit her at her house soon! She was shopping for wedding things and can't wait to see Morgan swimming in Virginia! We had a lot of fun at Rally For Ally! I was so glad to put faces together with the names I've seen in this guestbook. Ally, you are a special person! Love, The Hennes Kathleen <khenne@cox.net> Oak Hill, VA - Thursday, July 28, 2005 4:24 PM CDT Love the photos of the sisters!!! We had such a wonderful time at the Rally -- really great to meet all the family and friends and be with our "buddies" John and Lydia (alias Grandparents Kelso). Ally, Morgan, Mark and Kristen - always keeping you in our prayers. Love to all. Susie and Scott Erskine <smerskine1@verizon.net> Centreville, VA USA - Thursday, July 28, 2005 10:25 AM CDT Dr. Goldie is one of the best neurologists that I have seen since I started having seizures back in 1997. My bestfriend Melissa, who had a brain tumor at the age of 8, has also been one of Dr. Goldie's patients. Ally is in awesome hands!! Heather Bueling <peanuttypeanut@juno.com> Port Hueneme, CA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 9:44 PM CDT "Sisters...Sisters...there were never such devoted sisters!" That is for all of you Rosemary Clooney/White Christmas fans! My sisters and I used to watch that movie and try to sing and dance to the sister song! Love those photos. Kristin, you certainly know how to capture the moment! I am leaving for Colorado tomorrow for a girls weekend with my college "ya-ya's". So, I may not be as frequent on the guestbook but I do want my friends to see Miss Ally, so I may check-in while I am away! So glad to hear that Ally has a tooth!! How exciting!! Morgan, I know that eventually you will get back up on that diving board...I was the same way!! Well, we are off to dine on pizza because I am too lazy to cook this evening! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 6:30 PM CDT Hello everyone! Are those "sister pictures" the BEST, or what???!!! The glow in the eyes of both girls just grabs my heart!!! I want 8 x 10 "glossies" of those shots!! And, I bought 10 NEW frames today to "CONTINUE" my upstairs WALL gallery! So, bring 'em on!!! :) The news from Dr. Goldie is fabulous, too...and I am so glad that 'what we were thinking' all along is probably the truth...that Allyson's BODY just needs to catch up with her head aka "brain"...!!! Her body was "doing it right" by nurturing her brain during those days when she was not gaining body-weight. In the long run, she'll probably LOVE that...NO EXTRA BODY WEIGHT and a BIG BRAIN!!! Please convey to Josh and the others who arrive home this weekend that they have been in my thoughts and prayers the ENTIRE cruise! And, do tell Uncle Josh that when he comes to DC in January we will 'find him a house and girlfriend'!! I already have a wonderful teacher in mind!!! (now, aren't all of YOU wondering who that might be??? "Pick me! Pick me!" ) I am so proud of Morgan's swimming advancement. I am glad that I was part of those 'comfort moments'...I hope she will continue to enjoy the water in the coming weeks before your "big trip"...and we'll make sure she has POOL time when you hit Virginia! (I know people with pools, fortunately!! And, there is the HOTEL pool for the wedding weekend!) I have lots of good RALLY FOR ALLY pictures. I'll send them out soon. GREAT GROUP SHOTS and an especially good one of special little guest, Zemery! The heat is oppressing in this area today...but the STORMS have come in and the temps have dropped DRASTICALLY in an hour! And, the winds and tornadoes are 'around'...so much fun in DC "summers"....PRAY for CLEAR SKIES August 20th!! Love to all of you... Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/ T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 6:02 PM CDT Love, love, love the new pictures! You can just see the sister-love in their eyes! They are BOTH growing up so fast!!!!!! Kristin, it sounds like your PHD is being put to good use. I guess your on-the-job training is paying off as your diagnosis is as good as a licensed practitioner's. I can't wait to catch up with you - this weekend??? As always, our thoughts and prayers are with you along with the other website groupies that visit and post their stories often. Holly, I am sending your family MINNESOTA sized hugs too!!! xoxoxoxoxoxo Aimee and clan (Jim and Tyer) <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 3:13 PM CDT Wow! That's all I can say about the new photos and the great news from Dr. Goldie!!!!! The photos are precious of sisters together having such fun!! We are back in hot, hot North Carlina after the Rally For Ally. Ashli, Tom, Peggy and Mike you did an outstanding job of organizing it all!!! We had a great time seeing all those folks we have met on the website and the rest of you who supported the cause so generously. We are ready for next year, so Fed Ex Field here we come - make way, Redskins, for the Rally For Ally! Lydia Kelso a.k.a . Grandma Kelso <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 1:45 PM CDT OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!! Kristin, when you emailed me and said the new web site pics were "to die for" I HAD NO IDEA what I was in for...... They are the BEST!! Love the pics and love the sister bonding! Such beautiful girls, in and out, and that mature soul of Allyson's sure is shining through! Now, about those "bonding" photos of US when we were that little.... hmmmmm... you were probably too busy cleaning up after me to sit for a photo ;) hee hee, Yes Teets, WE KNOW We have "just a few pics" of your little sister-girls out there!!! Happy hump day to all and hope you're enjoying the weather where YOU are - we are NOT having fun in the 100+ temps here in DC! They promise some relief tomorrow... hooray. Happy swimming Morgy and I'll see you ALL soon so you can hear my best in-person Dory impersonation... "just keep swimming, just keep swimming... " Our motto for life, eh?!?! Love you all and LOVE the priceless photos!!!! xoxoxoxo Ash & TG <ashliagm@aol.com> - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 1:44 PM CDT And to all.. What is NOT to love about Lindsay DOANE??? "If not us...why not us?"... Thank YOU for reminding us all. This is WHY we are HERE. God bless the children. God bless "my children".. THANK YOU for being there. Love and hugs, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M//TMat terrimatus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 9:43 PM CDT Well...I am finally able to sit and relax for the day! Wanted to check in on Miss Ally and her fab smile! Loved the pics from the rally! I felt as if I was there! Ashli, you looked like you were just as relaxed as everyone else! How do you do it girl? I am also a bit envious that Teetay gets to see SIR Elton John in concert! He is my all time fave! Miss Ally, you will have to make your BIG appearance at next years rally for sure! Mark, I hope you had a great birthday with your "home-made" birthday cake. We used to love making cakes for our dad..peanut butter and raisins spread on stacks of bread...YUM!!!! Have a great Wednesday!!!Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 7:55 PM CDT WOW! I'm so glad the Rally for Ally was such a huge success!!! It was so much fun to be there and to see so many familiar and new faces. Also, it's so wonderful to know that Ally's surgery went so well! I love her smile!!! Mrs. Matus, Holland sure can be beautiful. Even though our flights left at differnt times, we still met up in the same exact spot. :) "Instead of 'why us', it's more like 'why NOT us'" (I love that phrase!!!) Once again the Rally was AWESOME!!! I hope the best for you, Ally! Lindsey Doane <Soccer1848LD@cox.net> Oakton, VA USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 7:06 PM CDT Hi, California Family! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MARK AND GLENN! I HOPE THAT TODAY IS EXTRA SPECIAL FOR BOTH OF YOU! Oh, my goodness ... those new photos of Miss AllyBeDally are just darling! She's gonna heal up and have an unblemished, God-lovin' precious little face and smile! The healing is progressing so nicely now that the stents are removed. I hope the sore in her nose heals quickly as well. Miss MAK, you are really doing quite well with your swimming and water activities. Uncle Poppy and Aunt Grammy are VERY proud of you! The twins have just seen the latest photo and they are amazed with her new mouth! I know you've read the latest wonderful medical report about Uncle Loren's back! It is so wonderful that he is painfree ... and several said, would we be dancin' at the wedding?! YEP, if my creaky hips can stand it! Maybe I'll be "next" for a hip makeover! We send you all our love! Uncle Loren and Aunt Dale a/k/a Uncle Poppy and Aunt Grammy Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, ga USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 12:33 AM CDT Happy Birthday to Mark!!! I hope your DAY as been a special one! I heard that YOU are getting to take Morgan to her swimming lesson this afternoon and see her head go in the water!! Whahoo!!! She'll be so proud! And, those new pictures of Allyson are just fabulous!!! LOVE that smile!!! Now, I can really say : "No nose stents!" What joy her face brings to my face!!! Does Allyson know she is "famous" for her RALLY????!! And, I loved seeing the 'three' CALLIE girls hanging out on RALLY DAY! Mark, I know you will enjoy the CAKE Morgan made for you!!! Now, you have 'something that is construed as a dessert'...right?? Love to all of you! Teetay :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndont, va us - Monday, July 25, 2005 2:50 PM CDT ohhhh! I LOVE all the new pics!! Ally, you look awesome pal and I am so glad you're doing so well - you're such a tropper! Now, about that spit up... ;) Morgy lu - I recognize your princecess bikini and YOU LOOK HOT, sista! Glad your swimming is going so well and I can't wait to see you all in just a few weeks. Last but no least, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MARK!!! Hope you have a GREAT birthday and we love you lots!!! Hugs to all - and see you super soon! xoxoxoxoxo Ash & TG <ashliagm@aol.com> - Monday, July 25, 2005 1:38 PM CDT Good Morning to all! Please take a moment today to think of/remember/and say a little prayer for the McKay/Crandall families. John Mc is at his home and Hospice is caring for him. I spoke with Holly this morning early. They are hopeful that "Big John" will be comfortable and pain free during the coming days. Please keep them in your thoughts this week. John Mc is a retired USAF Colonel who has served his country and his family with dignity, honor, and pride....one of the finest men I've ever known...and "one heck of a spoon player" too! Thanks everyone. God bless you, and God bless the McKays and Crandalls during this most difficult of times. Love, Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/TMat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Monday, July 25, 2005 11:06 AM CDT Hi All: Just wanted to post a quick note to say what a great time we had at the rally. I was so impressed by all the "little touches" that Ashli and gang did to make everyone feel so welcome - from the buttons, to the toys, to the quotes, etc. Jack loved all the toys you had set out. Thanks!! Because it kept him entertained for 3 hours! He especially loved playing with Zemery and asked if Zemery could come to our house for a playdate as we were leaving. So Theresa, if you are ever in Maryland give us a heads up! I am so happy to hear that over $6000 was raised for NFED, all from a "small" ha! cookout with friends (old and new). That is amazing. Terri it was so good to finally meet you. You and Geep are such warm and welcoming people. And you're right, Geep is the grill master!! Kristin, I am sorry you were not there in person so I could give you a big hug and meet your little ones, but I know that time will come. Ashli - thanks for an awesome event. You are definitely the organizing queen! Oh and Peggy - little Will wanted to say thank you thank you thank you for the misting machine!! Let me know what I can do for next year. If we're having it a FedEx field, we need to start planning now :)!! Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Monday, July 25, 2005 10:28 AM CDT Wow!!!! My computer goes down for a week and look what I have missed!!!???!!! I am so sorry I didn't get to send in the requested info. to Ashli on Jeffery for the Rally....but I guess God had other plans. (Like kicking this *&%###@#@ computer for not letting me get your email until this morning.) But that's okay, I so enjoyed the photos from the Rally. You did a GREAT job. Thanks from the bottom of Jeffery's heart. You never know how strong and how far you can bend until something tests you, right? RIGHT!!!!!!! Ally, you're BEAUTIFUL....loving the smile. Jeffery says to "hang loose" (as he uses his 2-finger hand to sign). Love and kisses to you, lovely girl. Crystal Register Crystal Register <jbrdregister@atmc.net> Southport, NC USA - Monday, July 25, 2005 7:26 AM CDT "And to all a good night".... As you read this website tonight...please ponder the Nelson Henderson 'quote'presented earlier today by Ashli on the journal.... (and if you think 'we Matus girls' are RElated...gee, you are so right!) QUOTE TIME: "The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you may never sit." What an incredibly wonderful way to look at the world!!! So, folks...let's plant some more trees...together...and IF we sit under them together what a great day that will be...and IF NOT...gee...what a beautiful legacy we left to someone else. My heart is full. Thank you all for CARING so much. Love, Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/T Mat :) And, aren't T/Mat's kids just the GREATEST???!! :) I wish you an especially good week. Please continue to keep John Mc in your prayers. He's "working for life" and he needs "OUR SUPPORT"...thank you all. :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Sunday, July 24, 2005 8:18 PM CDT Hello, California Family! We love the new photos posted, and having just had a long conversation with Teetay, I have heard all about the Rally, blow-by-blow. I know it was a marvelous occasion in every respect! Many of the participants wrote to say how terrific and special Ashli and Tom are, how fantastic our family is. Well, folks, I don't think we are all that special ... although it surely feels great to hear such compliments!! God gave our family a whole lot of energy, and using that energy in good causes, is our gift back to God! I know that the Rally was something wonderful! I know that my very special niece &company worked their boonies off to make it fantastic! We Just wish that we could have been there to celebrate with everyone!~ We are sooooo looking forward to seeing Kristin, Mark, Morgan and Allyson next month! I have already said I get FIRST kissin'-on dibs for the girls! My heart is so grateful to so many people who have been in support of our Allyson branch since December 23. Your gifts of love and caring have been astounding! Love to you all, and special hugs and kisses to Morgan and Allyson! Aunt Grammy & Uncle Poppy Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Sunday, July 24, 2005 3:12 PM CDT hey hello to all my new friends!! I had a BLAST at the Rally.The only down part was i DIDNT win the plastic pink tiara that i wanted to wear to homecoming :( Also..T-MAT's kids were not able to drink the margarita's..but instead looked at it the whole time in front of our working table..like T-MAT said..hopefully the 8th rally. I got the pleasure of meeting every single person who came because i was working at the geetings and selling all the "goodies" By the end of the day i was thinking everyone was family and i would be seeing them soon at the thanksgiving table. A HUGE thanks to ashli and the 'team' it was very fun and im looking forward to next year. -sarah-bara ((one of T-MAT's kids)) Sarah DeCenzo <jwdecenzo@aol.com> Fairfax, VA USA - Sunday, July 24, 2005 2:45 PM CDT ..."and another thing..." I forgot ...sorry MANDY D. about spelling your name wrong...it was a typo and the website would not let me go back and EDIT>>>>so I apologize. NAMES are IMPORTANT!!! And, I did not leave out one very important person...I wanted her to have her SPECIAL thank you moment...to Meredith S. who was not only responsible for setting up stuff for the RALLY, but for the delicious VATS of Sangria HOMEMADE SPECIALLY BY HER!!! Mer is such a long time friend of Ashli's and "another of my adopted daughters"....(Gee, the "T-Mat" girls are increasing by the dozens!!) Mer, I think you are the truest friend and I love you very much. Thanks for all that you did yesterday....I look forward to knowing you until YOU ARE OLD!!! Love, "Sweet Teetay" to you! :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Sunday, July 24, 2005 12:50 AM CDT Hello everyone!!! Huge WOW KUDOS to Ashli, Tom, Peggy, Mike, and EVERYONE who helped put together the RALLY FOR ALLY!!! Not sure 'where' to start with the details as I know there will be many other postings today about the RALLY and its events!!! For 'starters' I have to put my arms around Ashli, my younger of two wonderful daughters, for having the IDEA of the RALLY and for pulling it off! I have tremendous pride for Ashli's ability to juggle many tasks and somehow keep "all the balls in the air" without skipping a beat! I also want to applaud her EXTREMELY good judgment in selecting/picking/choosing/ Tom George to be her life mate. From the "get go" I knew he was a "keeper"...it just felt 'right then' and it feels even more RIGHT as we get closer to "Here Comes the Bride/Groom Day".... As Ashli said in her comments yesterday (it was NOT a SPEECH!) Tom/TG never once squelched her enthusiastic spirit to pull the rally off...and YES! ....JUST one MONTH BEFORE THE WEDDING! Tom and Ashli worked diligently to get their patio/landscaping/painting/etc. READY to greet the RALLY participants! Thanks to you TG! (and do not call me "Mam"...!!! private joke!!) Not to be left out of the preparation THANK YOUS - great big thanks to Peggy and Mike for their participation, organization, space, the 'misting fan' (what a fabulous item that is!)and their TIME to help with the plans for this first RALLY. This morning over a lengthy cup of COFFEE Peggy and Ashli were yakking about 'how to make it better' for next year!!! Thank you Peggy and Mike...I really feel like you are FAMILY~! Then, to the MANY who came and bought raffle tickets, donated baskets/items for the raffle, bid on the silent auction items....(sorry Kathleen...someone outbid you by $5.00 and got the Margarita machine!!!)...and the luckiest boy alive, Tommy C. and his mom, will be sitting next to ME at the Elton John Concert in September!!! Whahoooo!!! "Tommy and his teacher going to a concert together wearing sunglasses!" :) That has to bring a smile! To my "T MAT" girls...Sarah, Lindsay, Christina, Many, and Lindsey....thanks for your contributions of time, love, laughter, and HELP in greeting everyone and keeping up the the tickets, pins, visors, money, cookies...the hot sun...and YOU DID IT WITH THOSE BEAUTIFUL GRINS!!! ' Sorry about the NO MARGARITA RULE...maybe when you come to ALLY's 8th ANNUAL RALLY when you're 21 that RULE will no longer exist!!!! :) Think about it...that is not too very far away in your lives!! And, to our very special guests, Rolf and Heinz, Zemorie (sorry about spelling your name wrong...but I'll get it right before I see you again when you meet Ally and Morgan in August!) and his beautiful mom, Theresa....what amazing spirits these folks demonstrate as they go about living their lives with ED. I simply cannot WAIT to see Zem and Morg rolling around in "Teetay's Ball House" in August!!! To all of you who faithfully read this website who we've known for years...to those of you who read this site only occasionally...and to those of you who are family by blood or the families we've 'chosen'....THANK YOU for your GENEROSITY with donations for NFED. I am sure Ashli will be posting the EXACT figures at some point today, but we believe we are NEAR the $6,000 mark - - - or slightly over it since there are other checks "in the mail"...!!! God has richly blessed our family this year with the birth of Allyson and her gift of life....as well as the 'gift of a wedding' in a few weeks...and the continuous blessing of friends both far and near who care about us as we also care about you. Amidst the 'sad moments' that life brings to each person, we all find comfort in knowing we are not alone in our sadness or our joy. I think I like to dwell on the JOY part!!! As Morgan would say: "Teetay, what was your favorite part of the RALLY?" I would say: " My favorite part was seeing old friends, meeting the new, and knowing that we were sharing time together all because we want to help many others who have been affected by ED....." Then Morgan would look back at me, and say..."Teetay, what was your favorite part, really?????" And, I would smile and say: " The part that Aunt Ashli spoke of in her comments....do not say 'Why us?"....but WHY NOT US?" Thank you, thank you, thank you FAMILY...all of you....Lydia( Maria/Grandma), John (Jose/Grandpa), Aunt Meredith/Uncle Glenn/Spencer/Marilyn/Jim------ And GIANT THANK YOU to Jerry/Geep, my 'favorite husband of 34 years' for MANNING the 500-degree GRILL in the heat yesterday ....and for being the solid support that he is to our ENTIRE FAMILY!!! I have a quote from Brian Andreas which says: "If you hold onto the hand, she said, it's easier to maintain the illusion of control. but it's more fun if youjust let the wind carry you." We certainly know where the 'wind beneath our wings'comes from....thank you, God. Love to all...and wishes for a lovely rest of the weekend! Happy EARLY birthday to Mark in SUNNY CALIFORNIA!!! Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/T Mat :)!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Sunday, July 24, 2005 12:46 AM CDT No surprise - Ashli and Co. did an awesome job of creating a wonderful, fun, friendly, and meaningful event!! It was a great crowd of caring friends and strangers who became friends! Such terrific food and drinks and the day itself was beautiful beyond belief - all for the celebration of Ally and some adorable children like her. It was great to see the Kelsos again - John with his arm covered in raffle tickets - so funny! The Franklin MS (now high school) girls were just fantastic greeters and helpers all through out. I think they could be put in charge of just about anything and make it a success. But the ringleader,of course was Ashli, and Kristin, you would have been so proud of her efforts, and what love she shares and shows for so many people; not that you aren't already proud of her. Teetay and Geep - what energy and dedication! They are in another stratosphere from the rest of us, I tell you. I was happy to be present for the first of what looks to be many successful Rallys for Ally. Thanks and God Bless all of you who imagined and then produced such wonderful things for this day. The pins, the bracelets, the pictures, prizes - just tremendous!!! Thanks so much to Ashli, Tom, Peggy, and Mike for their hard work and for being such great hosts! Theresa Cover <tesscover@aol.com> Fairfax, VA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 10:58 PM CDT Hey guys!!! I just wanted to write how much fun the Rally for Ally was. I had a blast! It was nice to see everyone from the website. The food was great and I love the bracelets and pins. We continue to pray for Ally and are so glad for the quick recovery. *Christina* Christina Knippler (former 5th period student) <acoolkid15@cox.net> Fairfax, VA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 8:10 PM CDT Oh- I almost forgot. Congrats on the 28,000+ hits! GO ALLY!! ~Lizzy Knippler (Christina's little sister) <lizzywiz18@cox.net> Fairfax, VA USA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 4:39 PM CDT Hey everybody! I just came back from the Rally for Ally and had a great time! I enjoyed seeing some new faces and meeting the people I've been reading about since Ally was born! It's too bad that the gang from CA couldn't come. :o( We missed you! Have a good summer! We're keeping you in our prayers! ~Lizzy Knippler (Christina's little sister) <lizzywiz18@cox.net> Fairfax, VA USA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 4:36 PM CDT Hellloooooo to everyone at the FARFA (love that!!!)!!! We just got back from our Disney vacation and of course, the first thing I do is catch up on new Ally pictures and guestbook entries. We so wish we could be there with you right now!!!! Ally, your smile is WONDERFUL and I can not believe how different you look after only one week. We are looking forward to seeing pictures from the FARFA and to reading the entries from those who could attend. We may have been off-line for a week, but you were in our thoughts each and every day. Morgan- Micky said to tell you "hi." Love and kisses, Jim, Aimee and Tyler <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> EP, MN - Saturday, July 23, 2005 4:07 PM CDT Hope the rally is going well! I just finished cleaning up leftover junk from our garage sale. We actually did pretty well and my kids raked up several dollars selling lemonade! It was so STINKIN' HOT!!!!! Glad I have done my G-sale for the year! Can't wait to hear about all the fun you are having! Hugs from Texas....Anna P.S. Jackie...I am glad to know that someone else in the world scrubs their own toilets!!!:) Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Saturday, July 23, 2005 3:45 PM CDT Just ready to leave for the "rally" with some of my friends and thought that I would say one last hello. Cant wait to see everyone and maybe get an explination on The Odessey (the english book we have to read for HIGH SCHOOL!! wahooO!) T-MAT- i think we might be close with our tan, but if you have a bigger tan i will DEFINATLY win in bathing suit tan line. Also, mandy is extremly tan, tanner than she was in October.. and thats saying something! cant wait to see you today. thinking of little Ms. Ally. wish you could be here but keep trying to figure out the toys! and Morgan--learn to swim young. i am still having trouble with that sport at age 14!! see some of you soon sarah- Sarah DeCenzo <jwdecenzo@aol.com> Fairfax, VA USA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 12:48 AM CDT Jack - your entry cracked me up! GREETINGS FROM FARFA HEADQUARTERS!! OK - I have to go, I am busy!! Love you all and we miss you FOUR TONS!!! Call you later for sure!!!! xoxoxooxoxoxoxo PS - This is gonna rock more than anythign has rocked before!!! ;) Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> FARFA HQ in HOT but SUNNY!!! DC...., - Saturday, July 23, 2005 12:19 AM CDT Hey everyone! I hope the Rally is going well. I just wanted to say hi from the public library in Palatka, Florida. I wish I could be at the Rally today, but obviously, I'm about 13 hours away (we drove down here from Virginia) Ally's progress is amazing and I'm so proud of her. Have fun at the Rally! ~Meredith (former 4th period student) Meredith L. <palaverdure@verizon.net> Oak Hill, VA USA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 10:52 AM CDT Hi to all and especially you Ally! I wish we could be at today's Rally to raise money and celebrate such a special little girl and a great family. Instead, I'm scrubbing toilets in a very hot South Texas! But I can't wait to see all of you in a few weeks and exclaim about Ally's progress, Morgan's growth, and Kristin and Mark's strength and will in person! Steve and I will be thinking of all the Rally folks today, especially you Aunt Ashli who is taking so much time right before your wedding to do all this (and I escaped to Costa Rica the month before...how self-centered!). We love all of you and can't wait to see you soon! Love, Jackie P.S. And for those of you who don't know me and are wondering, I'm not in prison...I'm scrubbing my own toilets at home! Jackie Horras <jackie2fish@hotmail.com> San Antonio, TX US - Saturday, July 23, 2005 9:31 AM CDT Good Morning to everyone! TODAY is the BIG RALLY FOR ALLY DAY!!! We are so excited! Aunt Ashli, Uncle Tommie, Peggy and Mike have done so much PLANNING and the event will BE spectacular!!! We are going to meet and greet so many new friends made through this website. Geep is hoping to have his "Cyber Cafe" set up so that folks can post in the guestbook during the RALLY! We'll see if that works out, so "checkie this page" frequently during the day! Our hearts are with our California 'peeps' as this day progresses. Allyson Glenn Kelso has brought us so very much JOY and it is represented by the LOVE on this website! Thank you all for joining us today in HEART, SPIRIT, and IN PERSON! Love to all...more updates later as the RALLY begins!!! Whahoooooo!!!! Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M / TMat :) And...to my students who I wil SEE today..I can't wait! Thanks for your help by "working" at the RALLY!!! :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> Herndon, va us - Saturday, July 23, 2005 8:57 AM CDT "Rally, rally,raaallleeee...rally,rally,raaallleee...rally,rally,raaalllee....RRRRRRRAAAAAAAALLLLLLYYYYYY!!!!" That was a chant my softball team in highschool used to sing before a game...lucky for all of you that you can't hear me singing it! That chant is for Miss Ally and her big rally tomorrow! We will be thinking of you tomorrow having tonz-o-fun while we are sitting in 90+ degree temps having a garage sale!!!!Call me crazy!!! Hugs from Texas.....Anna P.S. Teetay...did you and Geep have a certs encounter???? Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Friday, July 22, 2005 5:36 PM CDT Hey everyone! Wow Ally you look great! I love lokking at your big smile on the homepage. You are such a happy little girl who i can tell brings joy to everyone who looks at you. i can't believe what a success the rally is going to be. I really wish I could be there to see everyone, but unfortunatly I have a family conflict. However I hope it goes well and I will pray for good weather. Keeping you all in my thought and prayers. Elizabeth Hellman (former 5th period student) Elizabeth Hellman <dancer3191@cox.net> Fairfax, VA United States - Friday, July 22, 2005 9:56 AM CDT Hello all, I am cracking up! Between the "I am woman hear me roar" lyrics...and Anna CHIEF RAINWATER 'telling me' to have a CERTS moment at the airport (does that mean we "click our Certs together like on the commercial??)...and the "You're so pretty story"..(actually, years AGO an elderly woman approached me in the Wendy's bathtoom somewhere in North Carolina and said to me in a squeaky voice, "You're sooooo pretty!" When I repeated it to my FAMILY they died laughing! It ALWAYS made me 'wonder' if they did not believe that lady! The 'sweet old lady' was probably BLIND!! But, I was sooooooo pretty to her! Too much information, but YOU guys 'started it'....!!) Thanks for giving me several GOOD reasons to laugh and smile tonight! Morgan had a GREAT time swimming this afternoon and put her face in and UNDER the water more than 25 times. (I count.) And, Allyson had a good night up until a few minutes ago when she did a big "spit up" but she has now PROMISED to go to bed in her ALL CLEAN BED and sleep all night just like she did last night. (second time since her surgery) She is a 'smiling fool' and is currently tucked in... A HOT night here tonight...that 'means' in the WORLD OF CALIFORNIA HOUSES WITH NO AIR CONDITIONING...that you sleep withOUT covers and you breathe fresh air from the WINDOWS. (for you Texas folks, that is crazy, right?) I will MEET 90 degrees and HUMIDITY tomorrow upon arrival in VA, so I'd best PREPARE myself for the "moisture" I will experience! And to my Allie-student...I HOPE to see you SAT., but if it doesn't work out, do not worry....I hope you will SEE Allyson after Aug. 13th when they come for the WEDDING! And, to YOU, Anna Rainwater....I "coined the phrase" I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR 'way before Helen Reddy did her tune!!! It is IN the GENES!!! So many gratefuls tonight...John McKay is responding...Hayden is doing well....Allyson had a good checkup with the ENT....Kristin and I had lunch with another mom from Topanga Canyon who has a son with a cleft and just had surgery recently....and home to swimming lessons...Kristin to the gym...dinner...and 'gee' what did I leave out??? Probably way more than you would want to know..but , "HEY"..I'm the TEETAY and I can tell you what I want. Looking so forward to meeting new folks SAT.!! So much LOVE going into this event. Thank you all who have already contributed and cared to donate raffle items. Without you...wow....it would not be happening!! And, to Ash and TG and Peggy and Mike...YOU have my SINCERE gratitude for turning your homes into "RALLY TIME" for Ally! Can't wait to put my arms around so many folks! Love to all...and I will not miss my CA "peeps" too much because I will SEE them in just three weeks....WEDDING CENTRAL!!! Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/T Mat :) And, to my students...I hope MY TAN IS BETTER THAN YOURS!!! :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Friday, July 22, 2005 0:22 AM CDT Okay Ashli...Now I can't get the words to that song out of my head! I am probably singing them all wrong, too! You know how sometimes people will THINK they know the words to a song but are totally singing them wrong...that would be me! I was so impressed that you knew the song AND the words!!! So, I guess I was right about the words??!! I am totally talking nonsense now..it is late!! But, do you remember the song that Cher sang.."Gypsies, Tramps and thieves"? Well, I always thought she was singing "Gypsies...CHIMPANZEES"!!! I remember wondering why Gypsies would be hanging around monkeys!!! I am going to bed!!! Have a safe flight tomorrow Teetay..I hope you and Geep will have a major "certs" encounter at the airport!! Hugs...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:44 PM CDT Ally your smile is looking better every day!! I have some bad news though, I may not be able to attend the Rally for Ally.=-( It turns out my parents are planning a trip to my beach house this weekend and we'll be leaving Saturday afternoon. We're hoping to stop by the Rally before we leave for about a half an hour, and I hope we do! If I'm not able to stop by I hope everyone has a great time. Sorry for this very late notice, but my mom only has a few weekends off this summer and she wants to spend as much time at the beach as she can. I hope I'll have a chance to stop by! Allison Maher <alliem894@yahoo.com> Oakton, VA USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:14 PM CDT Anna - Yes, I know the tune, the song, the words and I was raised to roar by Teets and Geep so I can't help myself!!! ;) I wonder if this is why I am lion-obsessed and we're going on safari for our honeymoon?! As for the pic on the photos page, yes, Teetay - you look SOOOOOO PRETTY (a la Wendy's bathroom voice of the elderly lady who told you that en route to Atlanta year ago!!) Actually at a glance I thought it was ME in that picture and I only ever think that other kid of your looks like you!!! Too funny. Maybe I am not adopted after all. Oops, probably too much of a private joke for this web site and now I have the whole world WONDERING.............................. is she?!?! Nah, my roar is too much like Teetay and Kristin's!!! :) Good night pretty Teets with your look alike kids!! HUGS to you all!! Love the new pics - AMAZING!!! Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Thursday, July 21, 2005 8:26 PM CDT Yes, Praise God that Mr.McKay is recovering!!! Ally...you are a cutie patootie!! Loved the photo of Geep, Teetay and their girls!!! You two are such an elegant looking couple! Teetay, you look so pretty in that photo...NO WONDER YOUR MAN IS MISSING YOU!!!!:) I am so sorry that I have not ordered one of those beautiful notepads...I have been pre-occupied this week. Greg will hopefully have his scan results read tomorrow and I have been a little anxious about that! I hope it's not too late to order. :0 Anyway, I can't wait to see photos and hear about the RALLY!!! Ashli, what a cool aunt you are for putting this Rally together...and before your big wedding day...YOU GO GIRL!!! I don't know if you are "old enough" to remember these lyrics to an old Helen Reddy hit.."I am woman, hear me roar." I think that's what she said!!! At least that's what it sounded like to me!!! Anyway, that should be your motto!!! Praying in Texas ....Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:59 PM CDT Hi all, Just a quickie note to let you know your "storming heaven with prayers" has helped John McKay "RALLY" today with the procedure to remove some of the cancer which was blocking his lung. He is doing well in recovery as Holly wrote to us and the family will get to see him later tonight. He still has much treatment in front of him for the cancer, but he's 'passed' step one at this time. Please continue to keep him and the entire Crandall/McKay family in your closest thoughts. Many of us have bonded through this website, so I wanted you to know this big of good news! Thanks for being 'with us'...!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/ T-Mat And, today I have SEEN the Alex Hurley notepad HONORING ALLYSON and "Rally for Ally".... ABSOLUTELY LOVELY! You will want "one" for EVERY ROOM IN THE HOUSE! The lavendar daisies are so welcoming!!! Thanks, Alex, for sending one out for us to SEE!!! See many of you SATURDAY! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Thursday, July 21, 2005 5:52 PM CDT JEEZ... I was just getting on the site for a sec to comment on hot HOT Al looks in that sweet little sundress I gave her and I end up all sobby over my bro's words -- THANKS, MARK! I appreciate your sweet words and for loving us like you do :) Yes, folks, the 1st Annual Rally for Ally (aka FARFA -- I so dig that acronym!) is right around the corner! Nothin fancy about it, just great people, good times, super duper cause and tons of burgers, dogs, snacks, kids stuff, beer, Sangria and some non-alcoholic stuff too!!! We'll have plenty of pics and stories to share and look forward to meeting Zemery (age 4 - EEC) and his mom Theresa from Gainesville, VA and Rolf (ED - age 25) and his dad Heinz from Potomac, MD at the Rally. It has truly become a total out of control event in the BEST of ways.......... Ok, and those who really know me know that I have everything UNDER CONTROL!!! ;) And for those wondering if I am pulling a Brittney, NO, TG and I are NOT getting married in our backyard at Rally for Ally!!! (I know Mom, why DIDN'T we think of that sooner??!? Burgers, beer, me and TG - all we need for a weddin'!) Can't wait to see family and friends at the Rally and share the event via this web site with the rest of you!!! Hugs to Teets who will be aching inside tomorrow as she leaves her best gals in CA and rejoins us on the HOT HOT HOT East coast - what a wonderful long visit you have had and what a gift to K, M, M & A. I spent the morning with Geep (buying 120 burgers and 120 hotdogs which is a lot of food if you've never seen such mass amounts of cow and whatever is in a hot dog and shall not be pondered...) and Geep seemed a little sad (and terribly tired ;) from being away from his CA contingency. Bug hugs to Al & Morgy and I can't wait to shear you all and your "story" with everyone this weekend! Lastly, HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY Mark and I have you have a great birthday weekend and a great day on MONDAY!!! xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxooxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxo Ash & TG <ashliagm@aol.com> - Thursday, July 21, 2005 2:49 PM CDT Hi everyone, I know I don't post much on here. There's not much important to say from my end that Kristin hasn't already written about for the most part. I just wanted to say a big "thank you" to Ash and Tom for hosting the Rally. You guys are giving so much of your time and hard work, and you're doing it right before your wedding which I know takes a lot of planning. No one could ask for better people to call your family and I can't wait to see you guys in August. For all of you planning to attend the Rally, I would just like to say thanks. I never imagined it would grow to an event like this! Your support will help lots of kids down the road. I would get choked up if I tried to say anything in real life, so I thought it would just be better to say it here. Mark Kelso <mark.kelso@verizon.net> Port Hueneme, CA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 11:57 AM CDT Hi PEOPLE!! Aunt Ashli is still "out here" just been working on my Rally stuff this week and really getting excited! I have connected with several ED families in the DC area and have tons of food, drink and prizes to share with family and friends!! For all of you in Web Site land, OF COURSE we will post pictures afterwards! Too bad we can't do streaming video with a Rally-cam! ;) For those of you too far to make it, you'll be with us in spirit. THANKS to you all for your support.... I am holding a whopping $700 in hand for the NFED / Rally for Ally and uh, guys... it ain't even Saturday yet!! YAHOOOO! That's great news :) (BTW to English students... you CAN say "ain't" in the summertime when there ain't no school in session ;) We are grateful for the prayers for "Uncle" John (McKay) and his speedy recovery. And yes, please do keep a prayer in your heart for my dear buddy Steve and his wife Stephanie (and their 2 yr old son, Chase) as they are experiencing the sudden loss of their son at birth. The Wilburns are dear friends and my heart aches terribly for them. Burgers, beer, sodas, dogs and sangria await those who join us at the Rally this SATURDAY!!!!! Pray for SUNSHINE! Lots of love to my bestest gals out in CA and I'll see you SOON :) xoxoxoo Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> Washington, DC - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 9:56 PM CDT Hello everyone! Geep left today for Virginia - but upon arrival at LAX he learned that his "flight" was DElayed by six hours! It seems the PLANE was "stuck" somewhere else. Oh, the JOYS of air travel!! So, he'll be trucking into the DC area in the middle of this night. Tomorrow is the day he and Ashli will get lots of the food together for the RALLY! I hope he has plenty of coffee to drink to STAY AWAKE! Getting excited about the RALLY! So many wonderful things are happening with the RALLY and so many people are attending who have rec'd their invite via NFED! It is going to be a big day! 'Looks like it could be attended by more than 130 people!!! That's a pretty good WOW for the FIRST RALLY! We'll have to expand to FED EX STADIUM by the time Allson turns 5! Right??! Allyson is doing well with her surgery aftermath - she's still experiencing 'brief wakeups' in the night and needs a change of position, venting (her burping), or patting --and she's having some 'spit up' conditions at night....but other than that, she's doing okay. The 'wakeups' don't seem to bother her, but Kristin and I "meet in the night" - - nod, pat, vent, turn over, and trudge back to bed! There are several people from the DC "area" attending the RALLY - some of these attendees have forms of Ectodermal Dysplasia and they WANT to be involved in Ally's Rally for NFED. It is a growing world of "love and support" that we have, and after the rally I am SURE Ashli or Kristin will post ALL the information on the homepage. Morgan is doing so well with her swimming lessons! She now "goes under" without 'freaking out' ....flaps her arms, jumps in the pool to someone, and is feeling more and more comfortable by the day! I am so glad to have been part of this area of growth for her! Two weeks ago she was clinging to my body like saran wrap! Now, she's having fun in the water. And, guess what's the best part? Her swim teacher is named MORGAN!! That helps! :) Allyson had a followup evaluation with the OT at St. John's Regional today where she was born...such lovely, caring people. It was "like going home"...one of the NICU nurses who had cared for Allyson came by to see her and couldn't get over her new smile!!! It just 'felt right' to be back at the hospital who "set Allyson's excellent care" into motion. I leave Friday for "home"....I hope I don't find too many cobwebs!! Ha!..The RALLY is Saturday, and then we 'gear up' for the wedding. However, Ashli is so organized I am not sure there are very many "jobs" left for me to do! We are looking forward to a great celebration of days as we near August 20th! Tomorrow is an ENT appt. for Allyson at CHLA, so Kristin and I will trek down the road to L.A. Leaving will be bittersweet. What a glorious time of sharing life with Morgan and Allyson and Kristin and Mark...I think I've been able to give them some bit of "freedom" during this past month. That was my goal, and I hope it has been achieved. Please continue to keep John Mc in your prayers as he recovers from today's surgery and responds to treatment. Also, if you have an extra prayer or two in you, please remember the Wilburn family - longtime friends of ours - and they've suffered the loss of a child/grandchild this past week. Pray for them to have strength during their grieving. Again, I thank you all for what you mean to me. Personally, each one of you knows how much I care about you. Collectively, I can only continue to say "thank you" for being part of our lives and our journey. With love, Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/ T Mat :) And I can't wait to see/meet/greet you at the RALLY!!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 9:40 PM CDT Hello Friends....Hope you are savoring every day with Teetay! I so wish I could experience the rally and take it all in. Ya'll will just have to post pictures from the big shin-dig..okay? Holly sent me an update on her dad. He had surgery again today. I will let you know if I hear from her later. Her sweet little Jack got to see his papa and Holly said it did her dad a world of good just to have his sweet grandson sitting on the bed with him. Please continue to pray for healing and that the surgery was a success. I took my kids to pick out lunchboxes for school. The boys both picked POWER RANGERS lunchkits. They are thrilled! Way cool! Madeline chose a diva-ish lunchkit...leopard print and hot pink! She will be stylin' and profilin' for sure. I was a little sad to see her "Little Mermaid " lunchbox get ditched. She is growing up!!:( Well, I just had to check in on my favorite California baby.....love looking at your photos sweet girl!! Hugs from Texas..Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 6:13 PM CDT Wow!!! You have made sooo much progress since I first saw you in December, Ally. With the stitches out, you look AMAZING! I hope for good weather this Saturday and am looking forward to the Rally. I can't wait to see some old faces, but also some new ones. This Rally is going to be a blast!!! Keeping you in our prayers!!! *Christina* Christina Knippler (former 5th period student) <acoolkid15@cox.net> Fairfax, VA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 1:03 PM CDT HI, California family! Loren and I just returned from our trip to Savannah. We had a great time with dear old friends and "doin'" Savannah again with the Reeds. The 8th AirForce Museum is well done, and Bob and Loren really enjoyed visiting that. What a fantastic unit it was! I just had to get on the website immediately to see how things are progressing! What amazing pictures! Precious AllyBeDally, what a darling little nose and mouth you have! I'm gonna give you so many kisses when I see you next month! :))) And Precious Miss MAK, Aunt Grammy is so glad that you like playing bolo ball and JAX ... I loved the little cat pictures you sent and the dictated thank you notes, and your lettering was PERFECT! You are probably going to be the bestest/prettiest calligrapher in the family, like your mother! I am going to give you a thousand kisses when I see you next month! :)) It is an amazing thing to see the results of Allyson's first surgery. And with all the prayers and love that have come her way (and ours) from her birth, I know that the future ones will have wonderful outcomes also! Joshua, Whitney and Zachary have looked at all the photos, and they are just so amazed at her new appearance. Joshua asked if he could wear the Rally for Ally bracelet, and I was pleased that he wanted to, of course! I feel certain that Taylor and Matthew will want to wear the other two bracelets! Thank for sending them! We'll all be there in spirit! We sent a check to NFED to Ashli for inclusion in the Rally! We love you all! Hugs and Kisses to everyone, Aunt Dale & Uncle Loren Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 11:29 AM CDT Hello everyone! I am SOOOOO excited that SO MANY of my "students" are coming to the RALLY for ALLY! Thanks so much for being 'there' for OUR family. Cannot wait to SEE you all! Love and hugs to all, And, Alex Hurley...YOU can "call me whatever you wish".... TERRI is "just fine"...! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/T Mat :) "WHATEVER!" :) :) Smiles all around! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 0:30 AM CDT Oh my gosh! Allyson looks amazing! She was already beautiful, but her smile is so gorgeous. I hope everyone's having a wonderful summer! See you at the rally! -Katie Neiditch Katie Neiditch (4th period '04-'05) <K8ELLA3@yahoo.com> Oakton, VA US - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 0:22 AM CDT Hi Ally: You're looking too cute in your sweet dress!! I have two little boys so I never get to buy all that cute girlie stuff. Terri - can't wait to meet you Sat as well! But I don't know if I should call you Terri, Teetay, or Mrs. M :)??? As instructed I am posting how to get Rally for Ally notepads. I have included a small paragraph below explaining the idea of the notepad. If anyone is interested, please email me at cajhurley@comcast.net and I will email you a photo of the pad as well. The notepad costs $25 which includes shipping. Checks should be made out to Write This Way and mailed to: Alex Hurley 19805 Laurel Valley Place Montgomery Village, MD 20886 __________________________________________________________ This notepad was created in honor of Allyson Glenn Kelso for the first annual Rally for Ally, a fundraising event established by Ashli Matus, Ally’s aunt, to raise money for the National Foundation for Ectodermal Dysplasias (NFED). The NFED is the only organization in the country dedicated to serving individuals affected by ED syndromes. Twenty percent of the proceeds will go to the NFED. Ally was born on December 22, 2004 with Ectrodactyly Ectodermal Dysplasia Clefting Syndrome. The purple daisies ribbon represents a wonderful Matus and Kelso family tradition. Ashli sends purple daisies to Ally’s big sister Morgan every year on her birthday and on December 22, 2005, she will start this tradition for Ally. Your support and generosity are greatly appreciated. Rally for Ally July 23, 2005 Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 1:51 PM CDT Greetings from New Hampshire! We are finally back on-line and were able to visit the website today to find Ally's beautiful smile! Wow! Words cannot even describe the joy that I feel in my heart for all of you right now! I haven't really been able to catch up on all of the entries yet, but I assume by the looks of Ally that everything went very well! I could stare at her all day! Just wanted to drop a quick note and let you know how happy I am for all of you and that Ally's surgery went so well. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I will give you a call soon! Much love and hugs and kisses! Love, Dani Dani Van Natta <daniv16@verizon.net> Hooksett, NH USA - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 1:25 PM CDT Ally...I think that pink needs to be your signature color. As I learned from Ashlynn Crandell.."Pink is the new black in fashion!" Teetay, I thought about you when I got the mail today. My boys have been collecting postcards from all 50 states and we received one from Virginia today...along with a magnet that said,"Virginia is for lovers!!" My dad will be so envious..remember I told you about his Virginia tie that my mom cut to shreds???:) Anyway, I pray that the rally will be a HUGE success!! And please keep sending up prayers for Mr. McKay!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 1:25 PM CDT AMAZING.........SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL!!! ALLYSON LOOKS GREAT!..WE ARE SOOOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU, IT LOOKS AS THOUGH EVERYTHING IS GOING AWESOME.......WE ARE THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS AMY, ADAM , ADDISYN AND AIDEN <FANCYURFACE@AOL.COM> WEST HILLS, CA - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 11:33 AM CDT Hi everyone! And Alex Hurley! YOU KNOW I want some of the notepads...so please let me know "how" I can get them!!!! And, I am SURE some of my family members will want NOTEPADS! So, Alex, (who I cannot wait to MEET SAT.) please put on the website "how" we get them!!! I know you are donating a portion to NFED and to have an "Ally notepad" would just make my day!!! John Mc is responding to treatment, but he still needs your prayers. Please continue to think of him as you reflect on your day. See MANY of you SAT. - -- I leave Friday for DC/VA area...and GEEP leaves WED. to 'help' Ashli and the 'gang' get all the STUFF for the RALLY-food-wize. We have lots of surprises and 'memorabilia' for the attendees! Can't wait to RALLY for ALLY! Sad to leave CA and Kristin, Mark, Morgan, and Allyson...BUT the RALLY is a big 'motivator' to come home!!! Love, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/T Mat :) I hope many of my students are coming....we will "put you to work" (so to speak) HELPING with the RALLY functions! Many thanks to Christina, Sarah, Mandy, Allie, and OTHERS who will be part of this experience. Please let me know if you are coming and I'll let Ashli know....I can't wait to see all of you! Hugs all around@!@!! Love to all... terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Monday, July 18, 2005 11:22 PM CDT Love those chunky legs Ally! I could really use that ab workout myself right about now. Keep those smiles coming. They brighten up everyone's day. P.S. Anna - I sent you info via your email on the Rally for Ally notepad. Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Monday, July 18, 2005 9:18 PM CDT LOOKIN GOOD ALLY! cant wait to see all of you at the Rally. Ill be their with the blue ribbon pins my dad had made. they look so good! see you all soon. love from the east to the west (and everything inbetween) sarah- sarah decenzo--4th period <jwdecenzo@aol.com> Fairfax, VA USA - Monday, July 18, 2005 7:39 PM CDT Ally, do you know that your smile makes me smile? I bet your mommy and daddy love to wake up to that sweet little grin! I pray that you will continue to heal from your surgery sweet girl! Hugs to you from Texas....Anna P.S. How do I order the rally for Ally notepads??? Anna rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Monday, July 18, 2005 7:26 PM CDT Hi everyone! Wow Ally you look great! I love seeing that new smile, and it always brightens my day. i am sorry to say that I am unable to get to the Rally on saturday. I thought i would, but it turns out my grandma will be having surgery and we will be out of town (Sorry mrs. matus I know I said I would be there). It sounds like it will be a ton of fun though, and hopefully I can make it next year! I will continue to keep everyone in my prayers. Elizabeth Hellman (former 5th period student) Elizabeth Hellman <dancer3191@cox.net> Fairfax, VA United States - Monday, July 18, 2005 1:30 PM CDT Dear Ally, That sweet smile is medicine for our souls...keep grinning little girl. Dad is making some positive strides and we know God is listening to our continual prayers. Thank you all for the prayers and good wishes. We love each of you! Texas sized hugs and kisses all around, Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Monday, July 18, 2005 9:42 AM CDT HI everyone, it is Grandma and Granndpa K checking in! The first thing we did on on our return home today from our weekend in Pinehurst was to check out the new Ally photos, WITHOUT STITCHES!!! Oh, Ally, you are the cutest and we just hug and laugh and cry when we see those gorgeous smiles with eyes and lips!!! We had a special time this weekend when we met another former agent and his wife who have a new granddaughter, Talia, born in May, with a cleft lip and palate. They were shocked to find out that we shared that bond because we are the first people they've met who shared that bond with them. There are many coincidences including their son, the baby's daddy, who had just left the military. Talia is seeing doctors in Philadelphia and is scheduled for lip repair in Sept. They had never heard of CaringBridge and I gave them a copy of one of Ally's updates and several photos and they were going home to pass on the info to their children. Like Mark and Kristin, we now know how it feels to be able to pass on your knowledge to help someone else. Kristin and Mark, we are getting their info so you can contact them personally. We know how good you are in sharing your experiences.. Morgan, we loved the photos from your school play day and are so proud that you are "graduating" to Miss Mary's class. We hope Hannah is graduating, too, to keep you company. We are looking forward to seeing everyone next weekend at the Rally. Lydia Kelso a.k.a . Grandma Kelso <lkelso@ec.rr.com> Southport, NC - Sunday, July 17, 2005 7:45 PM CDT Hello friends...I was just getting my "Ally fix" for the day. Praise God that Mr.McKay is weaning off the oxygen!! Holly..I know you are feeling the prayers girl!! Keep the prayers coming for him!! Kristin, I hope that your party goes well and that you enjoy being with your friends and family!! Happy Sunday everyone!!! Make someone feel special today!!:) Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Sunday, July 17, 2005 1:27 PM CDT Good Morning all! Good news on John Mc today...he is still in ICU, but is responding to treatment and is taking in 40% oxygen NOW instead of 100%!! PRAYERS are being heard and answered everyday!! Please continue to support the McKay/Crandall families with us! And, what can " A Teetay" say about the most beautiful Allyson face???!!! I just stare and stare at her, and I've taken a ZILLION pictures to SHARE at the RALLY for all of you to see!(and Grandma and Grandpa K. will get copies!!) I look into Allyson's deep blue "soulful eyes" and I see such spirit and such courage. She continues to teach me about being a better person, and my love for her just grows and grows and grows! Her smile is 'contagious' and she returns a smile EVERY SINGLE TIME without 'prodding' or 'noise-making'...it is just too AWESOME to explain!!! Morgan has been a jewel these past few days! Charlie and the Chocolate Factory was a big hit with her. (sort of surprised me...very mature humor in parts of it!) She loved the part "best" where Willie Wonka keeps bumping into his GLASS elevator! She finds it hysterical when he goes "BONK!" After the movie yesterday we hit the swimming pool so she could 'show off' her new 'moves' for GEEP! (We were trying to have a "marathon day" so to speak!) She jumped into the pool (new 'moves for her in the past two weeks'....) and puts her head ALMOST all the way in...(eyes and nose go in...top of head stays out...sort of like a SUBMARINE!)...and she bicycle KICKS while chasing her 'sticks' that we toss in. Of course, the STICKS go to the bottom of the pool, and she finds it rather funny that Teetay must kick them UP to her while holding her hands in the pool! Geep was 'rather impressed' with my ABILITY (HA??) to do this all by myself! (will WONDERS never cease?) Morgan is already talking about going to "Pammie's pool" when she comes to Virginia!!! (so Pammie...be forewarned and 'armed' with Morgan-sticks!) Allyson had a much better night last night. She was only awake a few times when she apparently got 'stuck' at the side of her bed....she is turning and twisting into different locations in her bed now that the 'wedges' are gone. Mark and Kristin put a slanted wedge UNDER her mattress so she is slightly elevated all the time. We are scurring around 'getting ready' for Kristin's wives' club meeting this afternoon!! There will be food, and sips, and kids, and activities!!! Geep and I get to be 'in charge of the kids'...(I don't think there will be too many) and keeping the ice bucket filled up! The house is "shiny" and ready for the GUESTS!!! Should be a fun afternoon for all. Morgan and Allyson are all dressed up for the 'event'....Morgan even helped 'set up the table' for the "party" as she calls it. She is such a good "cup-setter-outer" - - -I recall my girls learning to 'set up for parties' at about the same age. (and YOU NEVER CHANGE the SETUP or the child thinks she did it INcorrectly!!!) Geep says he is "on Pacific time" as of today! He travels so much he pretty much 'wills' himself to the right time zone!!! I hope everyone is gearing up for the RALLY next week! There will be some great raffle items and the SILENT AUCTION should be great fun! Just imagine Elton John concert tickets for September 10th??? And, the "best part" of WINNING those is that YOU GET TO SIT NEXT TO ME!!! Whahoooooo!!!! :) I am looking forward to seeing many of you at the RALLY! (and Chali...don't you worry...I've SAVED YOU a RALLY FOR ALLY bracelet since you will be out of the country next week!) Have a beautiful Sunday and I hope you are hugging someone you love right now! God bless us all...and keep the healing for John, Hayden, Greg, Shirley, and Allyson strong!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay :) aka Mrs. M/ T-Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> her, va United States - Sunday, July 17, 2005 12:03 AM CDT Dear Beautiful Ally, Ever since you were born and your loving family created this website, I have been printing out your pictures and updates to send to my 88-year-old mother who lives in upstate NY in the little house where I grew up (MANY years ago). She doesn't have a computer, but I KNEW she would want to be "involved" in your amazing life because she "knows" Teetay and Geep (and Aunt Ashli and Mom and Dad) from my many years of knowing and loving them, and also because she was a nurse for 44 years taking care of babies. This morning on the phone she told me (after having just received the post-surgery pictures) that she now fully realizes that your personality and the love that glows through and around you, comes through your gorgeous EYES. She is as completely IN LOVE with you as the rest of us are! And we're looking forward to celebrating YOU at Aunt Ashli and Uncle Tom's on Saturday at the Rally for Ally. PLUS we get to see you at their wedding! How lucky are we! We love you! Nancy Eckhardt Nancy and Dick Eckhardt <nleckhardt@comcast.net> Reston, VA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 11:59 AM CDT WOW ally! beautiful babe! without the stitches is looks amazing and the healing is just incredible! =) keep up the terrific work! i hope that everyone's enjoying their summer vacations. Rally for Ally coming up sooon!=) -chali chali temple <chalitemple@Hotmail.com> fairfax, VA US - Sunday, July 17, 2005 11:33 AM CDT Ally, You look fabulous...what a great healer. Keep up the fabulous job. Youa re a beautiful girl Ally... what a great smile!!! We'll keep an eye on you! Leslie <hellerrs@aol.com> - Sunday, July 17, 2005 8:57 AM CDT Dear Ally...You have graced us with another fabulous smile girlfriend!!:) I so wish that I could give you a squeeze! You are just too stinkin' cute!! We finally got some much needed rain here in Texas. It has cooled things off a little. Thanks for sharing your smile Ally!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Saturday, July 16, 2005 9:18 PM CDT All I can say right now is WOW. Ally's "new face" is even more amazing now that the stitches are gone. I still can't believe what doctors can do these days. I hope everyone is enjoying their summer!! -Allison Maher Allison Maher <alliem894@yahoo.com> Oakton, VA USA - Saturday, July 16, 2005 8:29 PM CDT BEAUTIFUL STITCH-FREE FACE ALLY!!! You already looked beautiful and now your new look is even more amazing... We love and are thinking of you always! Hugs to you, Morgy-lu and the WHOLE family :) We miss you and we'll see you SOON xoxoxoxo Aunt Ashli & Uncle Tommy <ashliagm@aol.com> - Saturday, July 16, 2005 5:08 PM CDT Good Morning to everyone! TODAY is the "out stitches day"....Kristin and Mark and Allyson left at the crack of dawn this morning for LA and when they get home Allyson will be UNstiched!!! Geep arrives this morning as well, so the whole gang may drive up the "101" together! We have a BIG day planned - - of course, YOU KNOW, TODAY is the "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" movie day! And, AFTER that, Morgan wants to wear her new 'fish goggles' and SHOW GEEP her swimming expertise mastered over this past week! She is jumping off the side, putting HALF her face in the water, and 'bicycle kicking' all over the pool while HOLDING hands! This is a GIANT progression from her "original position" of SIAMESE-SUCTIONING-TO-MY-BODY!!! She has made great strides and we are hoping that the SWIM LESSONS next week will move her forward! I don't know what was the 'best part' about yesterday...there were many BEST PARTS, but I think possibly the PUPPET SHOW that Morgan 'orchestrated' for ALLYSON late yesterday afternoon was the HIGHLIGHT. She and Kristin 'made a stage' from an old cardboard box. (aren't cardboard boxes just the best??) They 'created' homemade CURTAINS - Morgan's side curtain was a rainbow design, and Kristin's side was a series of shapes and objects. The music blared, and the SHOW began! We sat Allyson on the 'first row' in her swing while Morgan and Kristin ACTED OUT their own rendition of King, Queen, and Princess. The "princess" was named Morgan, of course! Morgan had Allyson cackling outloud! We took video of the event, but I am not sure film will do the MOMENT JUSTICE...it was one of those PRECIOUS MOMENTS that cannot be found on a 'shelf' in a CARD SHOP! Another 'precious moment' was yesterday morning when I went to Morgan's school TAKING ALLYSON to the ALL DAY PICNIC! Kristin accompanied Morgan to school yesterday morning. When I arrived at the PARK at the 'appointed time' there were no children there, so I began walking in the DIRECTION of the SCHOOL. Then, I saw it....rows of four year olds holding hands MARCHING to the park wearing their "Mary Law Private School" (Morgan calls it PIRATE SCHOOL still!) hand painted t shirts! As I rolled Allyson "up to the line" Morgan and her friend, Hannah, dropped hands and put me in the middle of them! It doesn't get much better than that! The day continued with many UNusual 'moments' - Allyson and I came home to greet the CARPET CLEANERS, I cared for Allyson in her purple chair on top of the dining table which was in the middle of the kitchen floor (to be out of the way)...then, BACK to the picnic with the portable feeding PAC only to learn that the formula BAG was BROKEN (this is the second time this has happened to a BAG recently!!)...so I drove BACK HOME and STARTED ALL OVER AGAIN with a new bag!!! Finally, Allyson was down for her nap, and I have to ADMIT "I joined her" by curling up on the bed in her room!!! I had to get Allyson's "look" in my brain early this morning since she will come home today looking a bit different minus the stitches! I am sure Kristin will post new photos soon!!! Please keep John Mc in your prayers. He is still in intensive care in Seton Hosp. in Austin, TX. Surround him with your love and positive thoughts!!! We are hoping the SUN will shine today...it is hazy now, but there is a PROMISE of BRIGHT LIGHT later today. Got a new update from Hayden's mom yesterday and he's responding WELL to all his treatments in Ohio. (Hayden is a former student of mine who has ALD) Send some good thoughts his way today!! He's fighting the 'good fight' as well!! And, to all of you, I hope you will have a wonderful weekend!!! Love to all, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/ T MAT :)!! terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va United States - Saturday, July 16, 2005 10:14 AM CDT Hi all, ALL MY/OUR prayers go out to JOHN and "Char" tonight. We are warmed by your friendship over SO many years. And..we pray for YOU tonight and you know we LOVE you so very mu...uuuuu...ccccc....hhhh@ PLEASE everybody....PRAY and HANG TOUGH!! Tomorrow.....Allyson's stitches get OUT!! Whooopeeeeee! Love toall, Terri aka Teetay :aka Mrs M/TMAT terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> her, va United States - Saturday, July 16, 2005 1:11 AM CDT Hi, it's Geep...I had to bring the laptop in at "happy hour" last week and show off Allyson with before/after pictures...as everyone was oohing and aahing, I asked them to jot a note since we didn't have Wi-Fi (yet) at the "Bungalow"... here are the messages from the English', Boswell's and Clint. BTW, The Bungalow is donating food and prizes to the "Rally for Ally".. Hi Terri, I’m here at the Bung with your man. He has given us a show of beautiful Allyson!!!. I know you all are so proud and blessed to have such a wonderful family. Jerry is soo excited showing off his beautiful Allyson he is just grinning ear to ear. Now Terri don’t pay attention to my lack of writing ability as I have none. Anyway I know you are having a blessed time and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you all. Love Brian and Ginger. Hi Kelso Family, I finally got the chance to express my happiness for Allison and the champion I think she is. I also want express my appreciation for the entire family on both sides for the love and support you all have shown for your incredible gift from god. I am eternally thankful to be associated with Jerry, Terri and all of the supporters here at the Bungalow. I love you all a gazillion times more than you love me! Dwight Boswell Just want you to know were all rooting for ya, get better, much love clint dixon Geep (aka Jerry Matus) <jmatus@stginc.com> - Friday, July 15, 2005 1:46 PM CDT Hello CA friends....We are on our knees praying for the Crandell's and the McKays. Holly's dad is such an incredible person. Even in the midst of his health issues, he always finds the time to send our family encouraging e-mails as we deal with our own health issues. Mr. McKay...we LOVE you!!! Yes, we had a wonderful impromptu get together with Holly and her crew the other day! I had a blast playing school and being on the other side of the fence for a change...I WAS NOT THE TEACHER! The kids all had play names and then "Miss Lee" that was Ashlynn's teacher name decided our class needed to do a talent show...that was all Madeline needed to get herself dolled up and into some fun dress up clothes...she decided to be a witch...a fancy witch! I have never seen such a glittery get up for a witch!! I was given a mexican blanket to wear. When Holly came through the door, I must have been a sight!! It was so fun watching such imagination. Ashlynn made sure she kept us in line...even handed out stale candy for treats if we behaved!!!hee! hee! Miss MOrgan...you look like a teacher in the making as well! I bet you teach your sister all kinds of neat stuff. I bet she loved having that Elmo ball shake her little tummy!! You are a great sister.Hugs to you from the LONE ~STAR STATE...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Friday, July 15, 2005 7:17 AM CDT Hey there! This work thing is really getting in the way of posting daily (multiple times) on the website. My last job had lots of "down time" but this job I actually have to WORK. I love the new pictures! It is so fun to watch the whole progression of Ally's treatment. And, of course, I love seeing Morgan's outfits and cute ringlets. MN sized hugs go out to Holly's family today. (And Ash too - don't exactly know what an endoscopy is but I hope things go ok there.) We are going to Disney for a week, starting on Saturday, so I won't be posting (unless we can find an internet connection). We were so jealous of Ally's golden ears that we just HAD to get some for ourselves. No, not really! This trip has been planned for almost 2 years now but we still loved the golden ears and can't wait to get some. I can't wait to see Disney through the eyes of THREE LITTLE BOYS! Should be a blast! Have a wonderful week and weekend everyone! All our love, Jim, Aimee and Tyler <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Thursday, July 14, 2005 2:14 PM CDT These NEW PICS rock!!!! Love you all... and get that endoscopy stuff off the site, SILLY! ;) xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox Ash <ashliagm@aol.com> - Thursday, July 14, 2005 12:23 AM CDT Hi all! Let's "storm heaven" during the next few hours for our dear friend, John McKay! The surrounding of LOVE on this website is PHENOMENAL, so let's hold it together for John's surgery. I talked to Holly last night and she and her brother, David, are with "Char Char" while John is in surgery. Kristin and I are 'doing the daunting task' of reorganizing Kristin's and Allyson's "toys" and "stuff" this morning because "they" are taking over the house! I've never seen so much VanGogh 'work' hitting the curb! Love to all, and we'll keep you posted on John Mc! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs M/T Mat terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va us - Thursday, July 14, 2005 11:43 AM CDT Dear All, Hol here - thanking you so much for all the prayers today. Dad's surgery is at 1:30 CST and we FEEL covered in prayer - thanks to all the love on this precious babe's websited!! WOOHOO Ally, you are looking more gorgeous than ever! And Miss Morgan...aren't you a stylish thing? The boys are wondering if you are practicing the chicken dance? They are ready to boogie!!! Kristin, you are an example for us all - I am amazed at you and so appreciate you keeping us up to date on ya'll's journey of life with Allyson and Morgan. Big hugs sweet girl!!! My crew and I spent some time with our good friends the Rainwaters yesterday and it was good for the soul... I know you love the Rainwaters - even though you haven't met them personally - yet! They are better than you can imagine...filled with love and fun. Anna stayed with my crowd while I ran Catherine to a swim lesson yesterday afternoon and when I came back the kids were playing school and had Anna all wrapped up in a Mexican blanket and she was sitting still like a "good girl". HA Texas sized love, hugs, and prayers to all of you too!!!! Holly Holly Crandell <hmcrand@comcast.net> - Thursday, July 14, 2005 8:23 AM CDT Wow, those are the cutest pics yet, Ally!!!!!!!! Keep those smiles coming, and oh, my gosh, those smiling eyes just suck us in! Morgan, lime green is definitely your color--you are just too adorable too. We love you both, little nieces and can't wait to see you in August! Love to you ALL out on the "left coast!" Aunt Mer, Uncle Glenn, and Cousin Spencer Kennesaw, ga usa - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 8:28 PM CDT Hi all! It's "Teetay" writing a "message from Allyson" while she snoozes in her purple chair! Allyson "knows" that so many of YOU out there have loved her and supported HER over these past months. She has a 'favor' to ask you. There is a SPECIAL FRIEND to our family who is facing serious surgery tomorrow in Austin, TX. He is "Holly Crandall's DAD" and we all know that YOU know "Holly" from this website. She and her entire family have been part of our main support system over these past months. So, Allyson wants you to rally 'round John Mc, her dad, as he undergoes surgery tomorrow. Please pray that he will be uplifted by your thoughts and prayers. These are friends of Teetay's and Geep's for OVER 30 YEARS (gee...that's a long time to be friends! I hope YOU will be MY friends for that long!) Thanks for doing this little 'favor' for me. I can now "snooze" a little longer knowing you are 'out there' working for me!! And, to Holly, Char Char, and Spoon-Daddy-John...WE ARE ALL PULLING FOR YOU and PRAYING for the BEST possible OUTCOME tomorrow!!! With our love and God's biggest blessings! And, to Char Char..."You can do it, girl!" Love, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs.M/T Mat :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va us - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 1:48 PM CDT Hello all!! It has been a very busy few days! And....I am loving every minute of it. (I don't talk about my 'back ache' from HOVERING over Allyson's bed...right??? Ha..THAT is what Kristin tells me it is all about!) As Allyson was sleeping peacefully in her "purple chair" it was "my turn" to take Morgan UP TO BED!! As we approached Morgan's room, she REMINDED ME to 'turn on her angel night light' ...(those of you who have been with us from the beginning know that my Mom and Allyson's and Morgan's GREAT GRANDMOTHER died 15 days after Allyson was born)...and the ANGEL night light was "Grans" and I brought it BACK to Morgan after the funeral in Atlanta. So.. TONIGHT...here goes...the 'angel night light' is ON...and Morgan says her prayers. After the prayers, she says, brightly, "Teetay, Gee Gee (my MOM) gave me this Angel night light, right?" I said, "Yes, Gee Gee LOVED (note past tense) you very much." Her face turned quickly to me and she asked, "Does she still love me?" I ASSURED her that GEE GEE loved her still. (I also wiped my eyes!) Little children have a way of putting it right out there, don't they?? We had a lovely evening while K. went to a Pilates class...Mark and I were "in charge" and we did not fight over who was the "commander" ...( I think he knows!! ha)...Allyson slept in her purple chair and on the boppy, and Morgan had a great bath with her DAD while K. had TIME to do a PILATES class. We feasted on LOW calorie Shrimp creole with a "kick"... What a nice evening it has been. I can't wait to hear from my students and friends who are attending the RALLY and we might not "know"...check in with us so we can have you a burger!! Love to all, It has been a beautiful day...topped off by Allyson's smile every time I LOOK at her (without words!) and smile at her..then she SMILES back like you are supposed to do!! Then, there was the POOL this afternoon with Morgan! She 'kicked her board' and played with NEW friends...every day she is getting more and more comfortable with the WATER! Love to you all, Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/T MAT terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va us - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 0:54 AM CDT Greetings from Fairfax - the center of my universe! I've been thinking about Ally quite a bit and how she will be when she "grows up". I learned, thankfully when my children were wee, they will become what I tell them they are. So, I never told them they were anything bad (even when they were annoying or doing something "bad") - and they are all about good now! Well, we all tell Ally how beautiful she is, what a wonderful smile she has, how strong she is, what a trooper she is, etc., so she will become some kind of wowser! And Morgan will be a beautiful, helpful, strong, talented, and wonderful young lady who is an awesome big sis - and a wowser too! I am really looking forward to the Rally for Ally - lots of truly wonderful folks will be there! I am sure it will be a great success! Kristin and Mark, I am so glad Teetay is there to give you some time to yourselves - how precious that time must be! Well, gotta go for now - lot of love and OXOXOXOXOXOXXO's! Pam Pam Thompson <pamelatc@cox.net> Fairfax, VA USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 0:52 AM CDT Ally...you are so beautiful. Your smile keeps getting bigger whether it's through your eyes or your mouth, it is God-given and your smile will always bring a smile to others. Hugs from Texas......Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 7:22 PM CDT Hey Al and Gang! So Ally, this is a quote as said by Uncle Tommy when he saw your latest pics... "Wow, lookin' strong kid!" (he's a man of many words, eh? I know you know he loves and adores you anyway ;) He does look at the pics everyday as do I and we are thrilled with your progress everyday! And Morgy lu, you are TOO CUTE in your Atlanta family outfit - ADORABLE LITTLE NIECES!!! Huge hugs to you all and we can't wait to see you in August!!!! xoxoxo Aunt Ash, Uncle Tommy, Nala & Peeve... all very sweaty <ashliagm@aol.com> ... a very hot, humid and sticky Washington, DC - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 4:12 PM CDT Hi, California family! Just checked in on the website for the latest update and pictures. That cute little face ... oh my! I just can't wait to smother it with kisses at the wedding! Kristin, I am sure the "bloody nose" gives you a bit of a "start" -- but I had a friend who had rhinoplasty (sp?) and her nose dripped blood / seeped for a couple of weeks. Of course, she didn't have the stents, etc and she could wipe her drippies up. So perhaps it's just her "nose job" that's doing it! Anyway, it was wonderful seeing the photos!! Now -- I must say to Precious Miss MAK, you are the cutest thing in that limey-green dress I ever saw!!!! Leslie and I just KNEW you'd be adorable in lime green, and you ARE! Kristin, Loren and I have a friend, Caroline Alff, who called last evening for your address. She is big into "random acts of love and kindness surprises" (Loren and I have received several!) -- and I believe she is planning a box to come your way. She's followed Allyson and the Kelso journey since the beginning, she is one of our faithful praying community, and she was doing the "happy dance" over the outcome of Allyson's surgery! I hope our little love box arrived today, and that you, Allyson, are laughing at that funny little bear-critter! And Miss MAK, when you take Teetay to the cleaners with the Jacks, just let me know! She always beat the pants off me at games of all sorts when we were growing up! It's time somebody taught her a lesson! :) We love you all, and we continue to keep you in our hearts and prayers every day! Hugs and Love, Auntie Dale/A/k/a Aunt Grammy, a/k/a Teetay's sister Dale G. Pugh <DaleGPugh@aol.com> Lawrenceville, GA USA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 3:56 PM CDT Ally-poo, So good to hear your little voice on the phone today. SO GOOD to talk to your Teetay. I love you, girl. You look and sound WONDERFUL! I love you all. Aunt Suz Susan Hynes <susanhynes@aol.com> New Orleans, LA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 3:04 PM CDT Hello ALL...and esp. Alex Hurley! YOU JUST ROCK! What a great poem and words do come at just the right time!!! Thank YOU for sending these out to 'the website world'...and I HOPE I can join YOU for lunch someday!! "Friends are the FAMILY you choose"....and I do believe that!!! Thanks for being with us..and to the RAINWATERS with their "birds on the ledge"...YOU ALSO ROCK! You do not even 'know us' but you DO. Thanks to God for all the "Godwinks" and for all the "Six Degrees of Separation" ..and for all the "There are NO coincidences" people out there.I believe that there is a REASON for EVERY SINGLE THING and YOU are 'part of our every single thing'... Thanks again! The sun is shining in CA and all is well in Port Hueneme tonight. Love to all, More pics on the site tomorrow perhaps...we've been busy today buying "$8.00" shoes at TARGET!! Terri aka Teetay aka Mrs. M/T Mat Hey students! Those of you who read this website frequently..PLEASE let me know if you are coming toAlly's Rally...or contact Ashli...thanks, guys! I can't wait to SEE YOU IN PERSON !!! :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va us - Monday, July 11, 2005 10:57 PM CDT Kristin: I didn't have this poem with me when I posted earlier today and I really wanted to share it with you and the Ally Website family, especially those with small children. As Teetay would say, "It really warmed my heart. :)" I am your parent, you are my child. I am your quiet place, you are my wild. I am your calm face, you are my giggle. I am your wait, you are my wiggle. I am your finish line, you are my race. I am your praying hands, you are my saving grace. I am your lullaby, you are my peekaboo. I am your goodnight kiss, you are my I love you. - Poem by Maryann Cusimano Hope you have a wonderful night. Sweet dreams little Ally and cutie pie Morgan. Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Monday, July 11, 2005 7:38 PM CDT Hello Baby Allyson and family: You are just beautiful with your "brand new" profile! I've never met you but I can tell from your pictures that you are a charmer! Anne Elliott <snlanne@bellsouth.net> Snellville, GA USA` - Monday, July 11, 2005 7:36 PM CDT Kristin and Mark...I am on your side...I don't do beets. My mom made us eat them when I was little and all I remember is she always served them alongside white rice.Then, all the beet juice would run onto the rice and turn it pink..YUCK!!! Glad some Texas sun decided to visit California. I just went downstairs for a minute because Greg came up and said, "Hey, come look at these three big birds sitting on the ledge in the kitchen...Lo and behold..the three big "birds" were my kids!!! They were sitting on the counter drinking smoothies!! KODAK MOMENT!! Anyway, I love Ally's new photos!! Ally, you have alot to smile about these days!!! Have a great evening!! Hugs from Texas...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Monday, July 11, 2005 7:01 PM CDT Love the new pictures! I know I have said this before, but your mommy sure does have great taste in clothes (we used to share a closet in college but she can tell you about that and the "Alex shirt" when you get older). Lots of hugs and kisses coming your way from MN (93 degress today) :):):):):)xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox Aimee <numbersgirl1@yahoo.com> Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, July 11, 2005 1:35 PM CDT The new pictures of Ally in her adorable butterfly outfit are too cute!!! Love them!!! I am so happy to hear she is healing so well and that she was a happy camper this weekend. Happy Monday. Alex Hurley <cajhurley@comcast.net> Montgomery Village, MD - Monday, July 11, 2005 8:49 AM CDT LOVE LOVE LOVE the new pics! Can't believe that little Ally and how amazing she looks and is doing - no wait, of course I believe it!! THAT'S ALLYSON! ;) Thinking of you all today and hope you're up to something fun. We're 95 degrees and full of SUN until the remnants of Dennis roll through here later this week. Lots of love and hugs to you ALL - kiss that Al-Pal's chubby cheek for me and Morgy lu too! xoxoxo Ashli <ashliagm@aol.com> - Monday, July 11, 2005 8:30 AM CDT Hi all, Another 'cloudy' start to the 'day' but finally this afternoon the SUN CAME OUT BIGTIME!!! (those of you in Texas probably don't care!) Those of you in the HURRICANE path probably DO!! Anyway,the sunshine warmed us as did the many, many SMILES of Allyson and Morgan! Allyson has now graduated to the "famous Morgan-purple-chair"...she sits so upright like a big girl that she is and plays with her toys in front of her! The smiles radiate the love that we all have for her! My day began with a trip to the 'dumpster' (garbage pickup was NADA last week) and I did DRESS UP to unload the garbage that was taking over the Pacific Cove garage! ONE never knows who you might meet at the dumpster! Anyway, JOB DONE! Then, I visited the 99 cents store. (*do not make fun...they sell name brands of 'stuff' for 99 cents! Maria and I love this store!) This is BIG STUFF in Port Hueneme...we are 26miles from Malibu and there is NO 99 cent store there! (if there was a 99 cent store in Malibu it would only sell ????? Hmmmm...??? What???) Had a nice afternoon in the sunshine on the patio and then a quickie trip to the park with Morgan where she met a friend to go on the slides...Ian was his name. Nice two year old and nice Dad. (it's fun making friends in CA!) Home to our delicious dinner of seafood and steak on the grill....and I "made" Kristin try BEETS! (she is only 33 years old!) She says they taste like DIRT. Mark 'gagged' at the "thought" of them. So much for young people! And beets are FREE of everything 'bad' for you..it's all good! Go beets@! (*are my students listening??) And they 'wonder' why Morgan doesn't try new things, huh???? Gotta FAKE it folks! :) I think today was just about perfect. Lots of picture taking and lots of fun!! It is now Sunday night I "must" read the ads in the Sunday paper...sort of a mindless ritual while watching 60 Minutes or 'whatever'... Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers as we face another day which offers many challenges for our 'family of friends'...please keep Shirley Derr in your big prayers. She is a dear friend who had a pulmonary embolism last week which 'escaped' the BAD PLACES! She is at home and resting well in Shepherdtown, WVA. Thanks for adding her to your prayers alongwith Hayden, Greg, John Mc, and all the folks in "hurricane ally" who might be suffering right now. This morning Morgan and I 'saved a little bird' who had a broken wing...he/it/she/(do we know?) was 'resting' in the yard UNable to fly. We saw "the bird parents" fluttering around trying to do something...we gently moved "him" (without touching him) back to the bushes where his parents were nesting....a few hours later, "he" was gone. I think his 'parents' took him home. We thought it was a very nice moment of HELPING something that was 'helpless' at the time. Nice, nice thought, huh? Love to all and I hope your weekend has been super!! Terri aka Teetay :) Mrs. M/TMat PS...PLEASE email Ashli if you are attending the RALLY on July 23rd so we will be sure to have enough food. Both SETS of GRANDPARENTS will be at the RALLY and Ash and TG and Peggy and Mike are working so very hard to make it a special event for all!!! Ashli's email is AshliAGM@aol.com and she would love to hear from you if you are coming!!! (Thanks everyone!!) :) terri matus <teetay43@aol.com> herndon , va us - Sunday, July 10, 2005 9:44 PM CDT Hi CA People! So guess who I have at MY house playing grill-master?!? Yup, Geep-Romey-Dad - HOORAY! We are thinking of you all and wishing the WHOLE FAMILY were together. We (aka Dad) is going to grill enough for me and TG as if you were all here... We have London Broil and Pork tenderloins (yes, "s") and veggies and whatever else we find to put on the fire ;) Much love and a hppy Sunday to you all. So glad Al-Pal is continuing to do well - We miss you! Ash, TG and Dad/Geep <ashliagm@aol.com> Our deck & patio... Washington DC!, - Sunday, July 10, 2005 4:01 PM CDT Hi Miss Ally...Hope you are having a sunny Sunday in Cali!! Your sweet little face popped in my mind as I was doing some painting so I thought that I would check in on you!! Thank you for always making me smile!! Hugs and Love...Anna Anna Rainwater <chiefrainwater@ev1.net> - Sunday, July 10, 2005 12:25 AM CDT Oh, my!!! How wonderful!!! Ally, you look so happy! And we are so happy for you. The photo with the bear is precious. We'll keep you and Mommy and Daddy and all of your wonderful family in our prayers! Much love, Susie and Scott Erskine Susie and Scott Erskine <smerskine1@verizon.net> Centreville, VA - Sunday, July 10, 2005 12:22 AM CDT Finally got back home from our family trip to South Padre Island, and after enduring 110 degree temp on the beach I am glad to be back in the air conditioning!!!!!!! Couldn't wait to log on to hear news of Ally's surgery. We were thinking about you and saying prayers all day on the 6th. What a joy to hear that all went well and that you are recovering nicely. The pictures of your "new" smile left me totally in awe. What a miracle! I can't wait for your cousins to wake up to show them your big, bright smile. Our continuous love and prayers go out to you as you continue to heal. Kristen & Mark, you two are AWESOME! Morgan and Ally are so blessed to have your love and support. I have seen so many families torn apart by having a child with "special" needs but you two have embraced the BLESSING that God has given you- It makes me get choked up just thinking about it. The both of you are so SPECIAL! Can't wait to see all of you in a little more than a month.....by the way, Ashli, the boys aren't coming with me and Mark (my mom said your dad told her to let you know due to babysitting arrangements) Anyway, see you soon! Much love to all from HOT and DRY Texas (temps in San Antonio are supposed to stay around 100 and we haven't seen rain in about 40 days!!!!!) Hugs & Kisses, Mary Mary Kay De Hoyos <Mmdehoyos@sbcglobal.net> San Antonio, TX - Sunday, July 10, 2005 6:42 AM CDT Praise the Lord and what he has done through some pretty wonderful doctors, other health care workers and the amazing family He has given Ally! What a transformation! The pictures are great and I printed a before and after to take to a luncheon with some of Grandma Kelso's friends. We're all so impressed with you all!!! Babs Van Patten <babsvp@cox.net> Bonita, CA USA - Saturday, July 9, 2005 11:36 AM CDT Good morning everyone! Know that we will keep all the "hurricane path loved ones" in our EXTRA special prayers this weekend...esp. our Hynes' friends in N.O. and Pensacola paths! Morgan and I will have a "two girl day" while Kristin and Mark take Allyson for her first POST OP checkup this morning. Allyson's night was a pretty good one with only 'minor' squeaks out of her. Usually, a change of position and back-rubbing took care of it! This morning when I was VENTING her (that is her 'burping method') she KICKED the venting tube out of the syringe and consequently that amount of 'formula' was GONE! I guess that is "how we learn"....POINT LEARNED: "KEEP THE TUBE AWAY FROM ALLYSON'S BIG KICKS!" :)!! While Allyson is being 'checked' Morgan and I have a full roster of events planned today. First, we are making M and M cookies! (yum...NOT for breakfast!) Then, we are going to the commissary to get SPECIAL JUICE boxes...and by the way, Geep, Morgan likes Gatorade after tasting yours the other day....alongwith juice boxes, there will be other NORMAL groceries! Then, a trip to the 'Exchange' (Her mommie's workplace!) to pick up some 'kid supplies'....and eventually.....(drum roll...whalah!!!) CHUCKIE CHEESE for playtime and pizza lunch!!! The icing on the day's cake will be a swimming pool jaunt later this afternoon! By the time we get to the pool-part I am sure Allyson and her parents will be home. It goes without saying what JOY Allyson's smiles brought to us yesterday....the first 'big one' was when I played her little stuffed lamb's "rock and roll version" of Jesus Loves Me (don't think it was INtentionally Rock and Roll...it was just FAST!)...and it sounded like Alvin and the Chipmunks singing..and she did her grins!! Then, Morgan began her sister-antics and Allyson's GRINS got bigger and bigger. She still looks a bit in AWE of herself...probably thinking.."Hmmmm....this feels different...I have MORE to move around now!" Her eyes say it all..."Thanks for taking care of me, everybody!" Tonight is a 'date night' for Kristin and Mark...they are going to dinner and a movie! Gee...as I read over this day's events I think I'd better take a few extra VITAMINS!! Such a fun day ahead!! The clouds are looming right now, but we are PROMISED sunshine later this morning. This area around the Channel Islands starts off with what Mark calls the "June gloom"...however, this is JULY now, so perhaps the name is "July gloom" now!!! We're looking through the clouds to find some of your TEXAS sunshine! And, speaking of Texas...by the way, "Miss Anna Rainwater" I saw your 50's pa | |||||||||||